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gunbusterxl/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:47 AM
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First of all, you don't sound all that great yourself. Second, people can do whatever the fuck they want. Who the hell are you to tell someone how to live their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:29 AM
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Imma spend it being sad, of course. The only person I can imagine being with... is with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:01 PM
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This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:56 AM
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I meant what I said. I seriously can't think of a single woman I know, that has no options at all. Please stop gaslighting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:02 PM
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Edit: responded to the wrong message. Ignore this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:55 PM
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Women on PPD: We really don't have a bunch of guys trying to date us. Men on PPD: What about all those guys? They seem to want to date you. Women on PPD: They're not good enough, so they don't count. ​ It's like bashing your head into a wall. Do you not understand how many guys have literally zero options? Not options that don't count. Literally ZERO. Again, I'm not trying to change things. That's just how dating is. But please just stop with the gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:54 PM
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I honestly don't know a single woman that doesn't have multiple options for dating. Friends, family, coworkers. Every last one of them has at least a few guys that would date them given the chance. It is what it is. I'm not blaming women or saying something should change. But could yall at least stop trying to deny it? No one's buying that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:54 AM
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This comment is so delusional. Most dudes just want someone who gives a damn about them. No one’s asking for that laundry list of bullshit you just came up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:22 AM
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The point is that most of yall have awful personalities, and yet you're all happily married. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:41 PM
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It's to protect my mental health. Either MGTOW or slowly get to the point where I end up checking out. I've had a few friends who offed themselves over a woman, and I've already had a few close calls myself. I refuse to go out that way, so I tend to keep women at arms length.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:47 AM
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I regret being born, period. I'm not into forcing women to be with men they're not attracted to. They should do whatever makes them happy. But being in love with someone that doesn't want you, fucking hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:19 AM
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If I was looking? A life partner. I just worked a twelve hour shift. It'd be nice to come home and wrap my arms around someone who gave a damn. Someone to watch tv/movies with. Someone to have deep conversations about random shit with. Someone to go out adventuring with. Someone to grow old with. I'm not the kind of guy that deserves that shit though. Not right now. So I'm not looking. ​ Edit: And no, I'm not talking about some supermodel. I'm not really picky about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:38 AM
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That's actually pretty nice to hear. Thanks for the empathy, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:03 AM
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Get better at day trading, and stop putting up with bullshit. Might end up firing one or two of my staff this year, but my give-a-fucks have all been used up over the holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:51 PM
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So let me get this straight... You saw some random crap on another subreddit, and now all poor/broke guys have a problem with this? Am I reading your post correctly? Correct me if I'm misunderstanding this. ​ Edit: Nevermind. After reading some other posts, I can see you're just trolling. I'm just gonna block you and keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:37 PM
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What, don't like the turbans?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:20 PM
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And yet here you are, a married woman. Get the fuck out of here with your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:10 AM
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This is true, but what of it? People can’t (and shouldn’t) change their personality just to be more attractive. You are who you are. Work with what you’ve got.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:41 PM
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I've learned that almost all the arguments on this sub only apply to OLD or dating perfect strangers, where people are pretty much interchangeable. That tells me that most members don't really have a social circle. As to be expected from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:44 AM
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You do know there are subreddits for that, right? Why on Earth are you asking in PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:59 AM
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Yes, FDS is right about that. The problem is, in vast majority of situations the guy doesn't like her that much. He can't like her that much, because she's a fucking stranger. Wanna avoid all that? Don't date people that you don't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:52 AM
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No one cares about you, except you. Don't know why people are expecting sympathy from strangers. I don't expect anybody in this sub to care about my problems, and in return I'll wish every last one of you to be blessed with prostate/ovarian cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:19 PM
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I think that she has no respect for herself. Ironically, this is the kind of woman that actually should go check out FDS. Just don't stay too long that you get radicalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:33 PM
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lol, no. She looks gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:27 PM
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Probably a 3.5. Sometimes more, sometimes less. I am indeed single, and it’s definitely my fault, but that’s not really the source of my unhappiness. The root of male societal unhappiness is pretty obvious. Money. Wages have been stagnant for decades, and the costs of most important things have gone up. Education, housing, cars, etc. People are just poorer these days. It affects everyone, but male specific problems would probably be the fact that guys can’t really provide like they used to. Unli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:00 AM
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lol, that is blatantly false. If anything, they react worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:10 PM
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34/m Of course. All the toxicity and hateful comments make me wanna jump right into dating. TBH, I wish I could force myself to stop coming here. If my friends and coworkers acted like the women of PPD, I'd probably become a raging misogynist. And no, I don't think the men are any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:50 AM
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I neither know nor care what Americans think of us. We don't. Your country hasn't been relevant since the 1940's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:29 AM
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The fact that you keep trying to push that bullshit is fucking disgusting. The reason that people don't like FDS is the same reason people don't like TRP. The language, the hostility, the flat out hypocrisy that advocates a relationship where you take as much as you can get while giving back as little as possible. You can't sweep that shit under the rug, and act like FDS is just women trying to vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:48 AM
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So why is your name PussyEatingManiac757?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:50 AM
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Either way, it's irrelevant. I'm not "men". I'm not a fucking statistic. I'm me and I know that I would never do that. Let the women here talk shit. That's all they can do. If you're not the kind of guy who would leave a sick wife, then these studies are meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:29 PM
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You are hearing different men that are stating different things. Women aren't a hivemind, so why do you expect men to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:28 AM
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You clearly don't understand men, but the entertainment motive is legit. It's why I can't stay away myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:18 AM
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Disclaimer: I don't date women I don't already know. Personally, I don't really care how long. Sex just isn't that big of a priority, so whenever she feels ready for it, and I'm also in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:14 AM
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Nah, I'm a dude that doesn't go out of his way to get laid. You asked for thoughts. Those are my thoughts. It's Saturday night, shouldn't you be out trolling some bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:32 AM
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Nah, fam. Tattoos are gross. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:07 AM
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I actually enjoy spoiling my girl. I like the thought of being able to take care of her, and doing little things that help her get through the day. That said, women straight up demanding it is a huge turn off. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:42 PM
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Glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:12 PM
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If he’s not into you, he’s not into you. You can’t force it. That said, most men fall in love when they meet the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:48 PM
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Says the guy with the name DeliciousPussyNectar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:35 PM
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A lot of women say that if a man really likes a woman, he'll happily pay anyway. This is true. The problem is that if it's the first date, he doesn't really like her that much. He can't like her that much, because she's a fucking stranger. That's the #1 reason I don't date women I don't already know. I'm not about to waste money on someone that I might not even like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:05 PM
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No society needs women, you know the sex that gives birth so our species doesn't go extinct. ​ Jokes on you, I'm a lesbian These jokes write themselves. Keep it up, PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:27 AM
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Yes, but i'm not interested in sharing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:28 AM
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Yeah. She put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:41 PM
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My hometown is Atlanta. Haven’t lived there since ‘08. No plans to go back. Fuck that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:18 PM
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I always thought that the women on this sub had something wrong with them, but it took me until recently to realize that the men were just as pathetic. Y’all need to take a break from this place sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:07 PM
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I like my friends and coworkers, but the women on this sub? No, I can't say I like them at all. I'm glad that no one in my life acts like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:31 AM
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If that’s all it takes, then the guy deserves to get played. Once they get burned enough times, they’ll wise up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:32 AM
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Yeah, fuck all of that. Invest in yourselves, fellas. Women come and go, but you’ll always have your back. Look out for #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:09 AM
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I have just as much disdain for women as I do for men. The disdain is for different reasons, but the amount is about the same. Most people are kinda shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:04 PM
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Because the genders have two different definitions for respect. Respect is earned, fucking deal with it. What you want is common courtesy, which most people grant to everyone free of charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:17 AM
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Sure. Hey fatty, get off reddit and go workout. Right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:00 PM
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+1 for drama, though sometimes someone will say something that annoys me enough to reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:34 AM
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LOL at thinking this would accomplish anything at all. Any man with the power to change Texas law has no problem getting whatever they want anyway. The only way to make people give a shit is to hit them where it hurts: their bank accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:19 PM
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Despite your lovely little narrative, the numbers don't lie. If anyone is going to be a victim of street violence, it's almost certainly going to be a dude. The fact that he's physically stronger than a woman doesn't seem to change things according to statistics. You can spend your whole life hiding in your house because "men bad" but that doesn't change reality. Men are the ones at risk. Jesus it's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:32 PM
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TBH, I don't care anymore. Keep living in your neurotic little bubbles. I'll be out here not giving a shit, and living my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:13 PM
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You honestly think you're responsible enough to have kids? I think you're deluding yourself, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:44 PM
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We don't have enough members for anyone to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:12 AM
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Sometimes shit is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:57 PM
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OMG, stop giving a shit what random people on the internet have to say about you. Do what you want. Enjoy your life. If some people want to shame you, who gives a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:13 AM
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How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:05 AM
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I like my friends and coworkers, but the women on PPD? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:52 PM
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ITT: a bunch of people who refuse to answer a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:11 PM
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I haven't checked out FDS in awhile, but damn... those women are angry. That said, I wouldn't really care if my SO wanted to look through my phone. Though I'd rather she just straight up ask instead of this covert bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:24 AM
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There is no appeal of "women" to me, same as there is no appeal of "men". A particular woman does appeal to me, though. I like spending time with her. Hell, just being in her presence brightens my mood. PPDs problem is that ya'll keep trying to date complete strangers that you don't have a connection with. All this HV/LV crap, generalizations, ect. All of that goes out the window if you'd just date people you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:18 AM
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lol, the ironic part is I actually agree with much of what you are saying. That doesn't change the fact that you've been ranting all over this sub. You're clearly irritated about something (I'm guessing all the incels), and I recommend you chill out and take a break from PPD for awhile. I do the same when I get heated about stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:05 AM
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I mean, you’ve been ranting a lot recently. Just sayin... You used to be pretty chill, and I voted you as one of the better female posters during a purgeweek. Now you’re basically the second coming of helleniclady. Where’d she go, btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:33 PM
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99% of the time, it’d probably bother me enough that it’d ruin the relationship. Call me transphobic, but it is what it is. But I thought about what I’d do if the girl I’ve fallen for turned out to be trans, or just was straight up a dude in disguise. I’d suck her dick in a heartbeat. Deep throat that shit without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:36 PM
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The amount of people on this sub confusing respect for common courtesy is ridiculous. Words mean things. Especially a word as controversial as respect. Don't say you want to be respected if what you really mean is just basic decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:19 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of the time, they are exaggerating. You wouldn't believe the amount of hypochondriacs insisting to be seen for trivial shit and clogging up the schedule. Doctors can only be in one place at a time, so it's important to screen for that. Almost every time, it's a woman. Men tend to have the opposite problem, which is even worse. They just refuse to go, insisting that they're fine (I'm guilty of this myself). We've had male patients that were literally dying and had no intention…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:06 AM
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All over this thread, women keep saying they want “respect.” That’s ya’ll main problem right there. You’re using a completely different definition, and expecting men to just go along with it. Almost every dude here keeps saying “respect is earned.” You have to work for that shit, and men grow up with that mindset from day 1. Some women have that mindset too, but most of y’all don’t. Put on your big girl panties and fucking earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:42 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:29 PM
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Sorry to burst your generalization bubble, but the answer is NONE. I ain’t about to sleep with someone I’m not already dating. And I don’t date with the intention of breaking up eventually. If I’m sleeping with her, I’m thinking about starting a family with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:24 PM
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Too easy to break Reddit-wide rules. Even if the post doesn’t, PPD might get banned or quarantined to be on the safe side.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:58 PM
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Guys go years/decades without getting complemented. Some go that amount of time without so much as a hug. So if the impossible does actually happen, guys tend make a big deal out of it. That said, the best policy is to assume NOTHING. 99% of the time, she’s just being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:53 PM
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That may be true, but you'll never get them to admit it. Those people aren't looking for dating advice, they just want to vent. Same with PPD. It's full of people that just want to scream at each other. Let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:28 AM
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A lot of the people that are angry and bitter no longer care about "being attractive to the opposite sex". You're going to need a better reason than that, chief. Go on the MGTOW or FDS subreddits and post this. See what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:42 AM
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Just gonna put this out there: I LOVE this sub. The vast majority of ya'll are bitter AF, and it's goddamn glorious. Keep flinging that poo at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 10:48 PM
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Most people are pretty flawed, regardless of gender. If you're trying to date a specific sex you're going to see those flaws come up, and it's easy to think all men/women behave a certain way. It's not surprising that groups like TRP and FDS came about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:40 PM
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WTF, you think my parents neglected me? That's pretty damn rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:28 PM
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Anyone can kill anyone else, in the right situation. It's not something to base your life around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:58 PM
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Of course not. Who the hell has time for that? It's not like they were all on separate days, or even separate events themselves. Most of the time I didn't even know the person. But attending to so many really drives home the fact that life is fleeting, and yours can end for any reason at all. The only ones that really got to me were people I was close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:56 PM
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Every gf I ever had wanted a protector. Most of them wanted to be "taken care of". I don't mind doing it, but I never really understood WHY. I'm pretty independent minded, probably more than I should be. I don't need/want anything from anyone (including my partner), other than their company. If I felt I needed something, I'd take care of it myself. That includes abstract things like safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:46 PM
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The constant need feel safe and cared for from your partner. That just does not compute, at all. I've been attacked at by people literally trying to kill me, my unit's taken mortar fire, and I have been to a good 200+ funerals between 2008 and 2017. Still don't need to "feel safe" and be "provided for" in a relationship. Like get a concealed carry permit if you're that paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:18 PM
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I don't mind waiting for marriage. +1 for the first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:38 AM
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The length of your post hurts the message you are trying to convey. You should slim it down if you want most people to read it. Also, you generalize a lot. Also, most of your problems seem to be self inflicted. Maybe you just shouldn't date, OP. There's other things in life to focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:34 AM
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FDS seems more comparable to MGTOW than anything else. Honestly though, who cares? You do you, boo. We’re all a bunch of scrotes, right? It shouldn’t matter what we think about your sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:56 PM
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Uh-huh. I'm an office manager for a non-profit clinic that gives out medical care and critical medicine for free to hundreds of people every week. We're also the ONLY place in the region that's doing COVID testing and one of two places you can get a vaccine. I'm the only guy in the building. If my staff disappeared our entire local community would be fucked, and I can name a few dozen people that would be dead in a week or less because they literally cannot afford the medicine they need. Fuck of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:01 AM
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Putting your adversarial tone aside, yes they are separate. I'm a pretty low libido guy, and I definitely value love more than sex. Most of my ex's have been the opposite. How do they relate? Most couples fall in love first, and then have sex later. Most hookups have sex, and then might fall in love later. It's not much more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:38 AM
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I think you’re dealing with a vocal minority. Most men understand this, and expect to be treated accordingly. TBH, id rather be treated with suspicion and caution than be patronized and coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:35 PM
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I could have stated it nicer, but it's true. Talking with someone that agrees with me just wastes both of our time. We could be spending the limited amount of time we are on reddit understanding people with a different perspective than us, and why they feel the way they do. That's what makes PPD so much better than just about any other sub on these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:13 PM
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Almost every gendered sub is an echo chamber. Doesn't matter which "side" it's on. It's all very biased. The reason PPD is so interesting is because it gives vastly different perspectives on things. I doubt you or I would agree on most things, but that is precisely why I am conversing with you. Circlejerking with someone that already believes everything I do is useless. Which brings us back to the point of the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:56 PM
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I'm a guy. Completely fine with being single, unlike apparently all of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:21 PM
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Nah, I'd rather make that $$$. I'll just use some of it to buy some cats, and the rest to have a better quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:24 PM
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Why would I care about something benefiting men? What either gender chooses to do with themselves is irrelevant to my (and your) personal life, and I'm not sure why people here think otherwise. Sorry, I'm here for understanding. These topics are a hobby of mine. FDS doesn't make sense, but it's an echo chamber and they tend to be like that. TRP, MGTOW, 2Xchromosomes, ect. are the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:43 PM
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I was going to ask how you came to that conclusion (when literally no one else did), but decided to check your post history for better understanding. You seem to have a chip on your shoulder, and take most things in the worst possible light. I don't think most men mind FDS. If some women think wallowing in an echo camber is going to help them, feel free. FDS just seems entirely unhelpful for what they claim to be about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:23 PM
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Artoria Pendragon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:38 AM
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This post is violating rules 1, 2, 6, 11, and possibly 3. Might be a new record. Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:21 AM
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This is a completely useless generalization. The only gatekeeper of ANYTHING in your life, should be you. If someone doesn’t want you, why let them live rent free in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 10:01 PM
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You're missing demographics. PPD is not real life. The vast majority of people are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:04 AM
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No dude is going to fall madly in love with a woman just because she looks a certain way. It's not about average vs hot. That's the wrong way to think about it. TBH, it's not about looks at all as long as you're decent. In all my life (34 yo) there have exactly two women that I've really wanted to date. Both of them have average looks, if I had to be honest with myself. All my ex-gf's asked me out, and most of them looked better than those two women, but the relationship never lasted because I j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:37 PM
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Absolutely not. And this is where I disagree with TRP. Changing your core self just to appease people will not make you happy overall. Yeah, you'll get laid but to me that is not nearly enough of a benefit to completely change who you are. It's much better to learn to enjoy solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:47 AM
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...that is the most disturbing shit I've seen in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:40 AM
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One that doesn’t spend all their free time on reddit bitching about dating/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:23 AM
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If he cares about you, chances are he’s trying his best to do just that. No dude wants their wife/gf to have a lackluster experience. If it’s just a hookup, there’s a good chance that they DONT care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:20 AM
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I don’t think you understand what OP is trying to say. Women’s standards are not the problem. It’s men’s. The vast majority of women today are absolutely not worth being in a relationship with, but men give them a pass because they are thirsty. Men need to stop giving them a pass, and force women to be better if they want to date. If that means almost no one is dating for a few generations, then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:17 PM
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Um, no. Pass on all that shit. I'm an introvert. I like dating other introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:18 PM
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It is what it is. You have to play with the cards you are dealt. As a dude, you have no inherent value. You are a worthless and potentially dangerous piece of shit and no one wants anything to do with you. It's on YOU to change that, because no one else gives a shit. Welcome to life, it doesn't play fair. Can't handle it? Then become just one more poor smuck that shot himself. Call this number first (1-800-273-8255) and listen to someone pretend to care for a few minutes. This is a good thing, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:27 AM
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Women don’t say those things. They could care less about those men. They are far more concerned with protecting young women from sexual predators. All of those guys could drop dead tomorrow and most women (and men) wouldn’t give much of a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:47 PM
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For (straight) men: I can't recommend it. Chances are, your self esteem will tank faster than Bitcoin after an Elon Musk tweet. You would be better off just taking that time you would have spent and working out or researching investment strategies. For (straight) women: I can't recommend it. Chances are, for every one quality partner you find you will have to sift through hundreds of dick pics, cheesy pickup lines, and actual threats to your safety. If you're not straight: IDK, might actually be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:16 PM
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They’re not unreasonable. The main issue is that if you’re going to have a big list of requirements for a partner, don’t be surprised if they also have a big list of requirements for you to meet. Most people on here don’t like to talk about what they actually have to offer in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:11 AM
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Of all the women I’ve met in my life (I’m 34) there have only been two that I really wanted to date. Both of them are like that. Different people like different stuff. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:40 PM
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Despite what popular media would have you believe, it is not. Leave your assumptions at the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:00 PM
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For someone that complains women aren’t a monolith, you sure seem to think that men are a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:16 PM
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Good, asian girls are cute AF. Everyone should get in on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:36 AM
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My little sister did a lot of those as a kid, and she turned out just fine. Seems like sour grapes to me. The women complaining about them probably wouldn't stand a chance competing in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:12 PM
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Then go make some more. You like stuff, right? There's probably other people that like the same stuff. Go find them and like that stuff together. Bam, instant friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:54 PM
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Your best bet is your social circle. Friends and acquaintances. If there's no one that interests you, they probably know someone that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:38 PM
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I'm sorry, did I say sex anywhere in my comment? Let me go read it again... Nope! Sure didn't! I was talking about relationships. You said that average guys ignore those women. I stated that those women actually DO have guys interested in them. To date. To marry. To spend the rest of their lives with. Nearly every woman has someone who would like to start a disney-esque fairytale romance with her, complete with the happily-ever-after. Those options aren't attractive, though. And those women have…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:05 PM
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You're right that "be yourself" only works for people that are wanted already. For people who are NOT wanted, they need to decide if it's worth being someone they are not just for a relationship. That is up to the individual. Personally, the answer is "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:32 PM
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Problem is those women aren't falling in love with average guys. Don't sit here an act like those women don't have options. Damn near all of them have SOMEONE who is interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:28 PM
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OP, you clearly have no experience in trying to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:19 PM
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Yeah, I tried dating someone I wasn't physically attracted to. Tried to make it work for two years. It’s not happening. It’s always there, and you can’t just “get over it”. Do yourself a favor, and don’t even try that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:09 PM
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I've never seen a woman help a strange man that had his car breakdown. I've never seen a woman stop and help a homeless man find a shelter. I've never seen a woman help out a hitchhiking man. I've seen men do all of those things for both men and women. If a guy walks up to a girl and asks directions, there's a very strong chance that she will respond with hostility. You mention safety concerns, and that is a reasonable excuse. But that doesn't change the fact that women have their guards up when…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:05 AM
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Because sexual favors is what I was talking about, right? That kind of thinking is why most women are not nice to men. They just assume that men want their bodies, and so act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:48 AM
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I hope you realize that most women are absolutely NOT nice. Not to men, anyway. So are women failing the prerequisite for being human beings? I do agree that people should be nice, because that's the right thing to do. Women just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:44 AM
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You should be nice, because it's the right thing to do. I agree that women do NOT value kindness, though. And the vast majority of them are rarely kind to men. The rationalization is that being nice will give men a false idea of attraction, so they don't do it. That doesn't change the fact that women are NOT nice. Not at all. So I don't understand why they should just expect something that they aren't willing to be themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:41 AM
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Women are almost never kind, regardless of what the man does. I don't know why most of you assume that they are. It's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:29 AM
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Therapy really doesn't help unless it offers honest workable solutions to a guy's problems, without sugar coating shit. Most of the time it doesn't, because most therapy is garbage. It works for women, because talking about your feelings is cathartic to women. Blowing smoke up a guy's ass like that will just push them away even more. Men need to do research and find a legit therapist that will actually try to help them. They're hard to find, but they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:45 PM
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I did add to the discussion, by calling out your hypocrisy. I'd elaborate why you are wrong, but I highly doubt you care to hear it because all of those strawmen have been addressed many times on this sub. Yet you posted this garbage anyway. This is a debate sub. If you can't handle dissenting opinions, then you shouldn't have posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:16 AM
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You complain that men generalize women and don't understand their point of view... and then go ahead and do the exact same damn thing to men. Do you not see the irony of this post? ​ I know it’s mans dream to be pursued by many women regardless of if they find them attractive. Wrong. ​ Men think us complaining is entitlement because they have no grasp on how the female desire works so they assume we function similarly (spoilers.. we don’t) Wong. ​ Or you will end up with a masculine woman who yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:08 AM
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That's the ting, though. You can just sit back and be assured that the right person will come along, eventually. And that right person will also be attracted to you. Guys have no such assurances. Chances are if they just sit back and wait, they will die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:59 AM
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No, but at least they're healthy. It's better to be too skinny than too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:21 AM
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Who the hell has time for that? The average dude just wants someone to come home to everyday. Just someone who legit gives a shit if he lives or dies. And they need to ask out 500+ women a year for a chance at that? How is this reasonable? Like WTF is wrong with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:12 AM
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It won’t. You can rage and scream all you like, but that’s just how dating is. The ONLY realistic solution I can think of is some pharmaceutical company coming out with a pill that reduces the male sex drive, and people starting to take it en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:28 PM
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How do you deal with them? You dump them (or end the date) and move on. Who cares what they have to say about it? People are allowed to have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:37 PM
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Both she and you are legally allowed to do whatever you want. Other people are legally allowed to criticize you for it. Don’t like it? Too fucking bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:12 PM
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No. What little free time I have gets used for ME, not potential partners. I hate people too much to date anyway. Even my closest friends think I'm a prick. Not sure who'd want to date that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:02 PM
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Most reasons for suicide do not involve feeling bad that your penis wasn't touched. The rate might go down slightly, but not a noticeable amount. Men kill themselves at 3-4 time the rate of women due to a number of reasons, the main one being that men actually want to die and take steps to ensure that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:59 PM
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MGTOW isn’t a movement. It’s just a simple decision. Once you’ve made said decision, it’s time to move on with your life. The people constantly posting in the MGTOW subreddit are just incels with overinflated egos. Ignore them, and carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 11:11 PM
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So how does that equate to male feelings of inadequacy that you mentioned earlier? How do little boys being burned alive, and no one making a fuss about it, have anything to do with your reproductive rights? This post isn't to bash on women. It's to help raise awareness on truly awful shit happening to men and boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:04 AM
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OP talks about little boys being burned alive, and you equate that to feelings of inadequacy? Like, seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:46 AM
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I used to participate, but now I'm just here everyday to watch the trainwreck. The vast majority of frequent posters here need to get some therapy for their bitterness and delusion. It's very entertaining though, and sometimes there's a good thread that brings up good points. 33M, purple, single My fav poster is currently u/SaBahRub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:58 AM
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That women get tingles from signs of devotion to them. In my experience, it's pretty much the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:54 AM
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Possibly, if I could actually go through with it. Tried that once for like half a day and I felt terrible. I just can't do that shit to her. I've made my peace with only being her friend. I still have the rest of my life to focus on. I'll be damned if I die as another mediocre chump that didn't accomplish shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:47 AM
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Nah, I disagree. There's only one woman on the planet I'm interested in. For the rest of ya'll, I couldn't give less of a shit if I tried. I'd rather just be single. But I'd happily simp for her all day everyday. I've gone way out of my comfort zone just to put a smile on her face. None of that seems to matter, though. She only sees me as a friend, and I'll have to live with that. And yet, every few months there's always some other women that I barely even know approaching me for a relationship.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:37 AM
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Nonexistent. I occasionally get asked out by women I'm not attracted to, so I guess I could technically date if I really wanted. It's extremely rare to meet a woman I'm really interested in (like once every few years), but every single time they're already taken. At this point, I give up. I'll probably just adopt a kid or two, and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:51 AM
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I've been stalked, groped, catcalled, been sent unwanted nudes, all of that shit. My last GF sexually assaulted me once. Apparently consent is only for men. None of it was pleasant, but I never reported it because who the fuck would even care? I'm working in the medical field now and have heard stories about how handsy female medical staff can be with the few male members. Thankfully I work at a small clinic and no one has tried to pull that shit, but if I ever transferred to a hospital I'd be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:00 AM
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Of course. Men aren't robots. There's more that goes in in our heads other than "insert penis into vagina". That trope that men only care about sex needs to die. Just because he finds her attractive doesn't mean that he wants to have sex. Maybe he's taken, or she is, and he's not down with adultery. Maybe he's saving himself for whatever reason. Maybe he's just *gasp* not into causal sex. It doesn't matter. NO ONE deserves to be sexually harassed for any reason, including men. It's not funny. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 03:41 PM
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To imply that any significant portion of men feel this way, you're either trolling or insane. I suspect the former. You're just as bad as an incel. Take a break from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:01 PM
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I used to frequent this sub a lot, but the quality has gone down severely. It's nothing but bitter people trying to look down their noses at each other now. Congrats, sir/madam, you are superior to all the losers of the opposite gender here. Can we get back to any actual discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 03:06 PM
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given the chance, you would have sex/date any attractive female there is Absolutely not. There's a lot of very attractive women out there, but in 33 years of life I've only met two women that I've really wanted to date. All my ex-gfs asked me out, and it never lasted because I just wasn't into them. Of the two women I was really attracted to, both of them were already taken (and I'm not into cheating). One was in highschool, and the other I've met recently. I can't really point out why either we…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 09:44 PM
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Both TRP and FDS are hate filled shitholes. The constant posts about it is turning PPD into one too. That said, FDS does have some valid points. If a guy is really into a girl he will absolutely do all the things that FDS says they want from a HVM. Being generous with time, money, and affection. Waiting until she is ready for sex. Generally doing anything he can to please her. He'll do it all just to see the smile on her face and know that he was the guy that put it there. Most men have experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:55 PM
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The problem is this speed dating hookup culture bullshit. I'm sorry but swiping faces on a screen is not going to help you find a quality partner. Attraction just doesn't work that way. FDS is right on some points. A man that really likes a woman will happily wait for sex, buy her gifts, take her out on expensive dates and generally do whatever he can to please her. He'll do all of that just to see the smile on her face and knowing that he was the guy that put it there. That's what genuine attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:17 PM
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I don't really care all that much about sex, and most women are pretty bad at it anyway. So we'd do it when she felt like doing it. If I wanted to date/marry someone it would be for other reasons than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:04 PM
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Being a stay at home husband is emasculating, but a wife earning more money is whatever. I can't see myself in a relationship with a woman who wasn't focused on her career anyway. Staying at home all day doing jack shit (cooking and cleaning ain't shit) is not something I ever want to be involved with. Not for myself, and not for my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:16 AM
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The best possible thing to do is just ignore her advances, and let her come to her own conclusions. Obviously you're just too dense to see she's making a move on you, or you're already involved with someone else, or maybe you're gay. It can't possibly be because of her. That way her feelings are spared, and you don't have to awkwardly explain why you're not interested. It's better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 01:21 PM
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Some men are eternal skirt chasers (even if they no longer have the ability) and some men are not. Some men have better shit to do. Some men have a low or even no libido. Some men are very religious/traditional and choose not to partake. This sub has a major problem with trying to put entire genders into a fucking box.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:13 AM
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Some would, some wouldn't. Stop trying to generalize entire genders. People are into different shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 11:00 AM
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I have no interest in casual sex, and don't have high opinions of most people that I know who do partake. That said, people should be able to do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:42 PM
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This falls apart if the man wants sex less than the woman does. Contrary to popular belief, not all men are sex-crazed junkies, willing to do anything to get their "fix."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:04 AM
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It's mostly just memes and rants. They'd probably do pretty well on Tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:54 AM
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They haven't. It's more like a cycle. Someone posts something, then that leads to a different post, which leads to something else, ect. Eventually everyone forgets about the original post, and that gets posted again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:09 PM
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I thought this wasn't an advice sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 04:17 PM
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You have to realize that reddit, and more importantly r/ppd, attracts a certain demographic. It's a niche sub, on a niche website. No one here represents a majority anything. Not gender, race, background, ect. So don't think "all guys think like that" just because a bunch of TRP and MGTOW members said some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:46 AM
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Are you here to ask a question, or is this an entry into your personal journal? You seem very self absorbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:42 AM
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Sure. I don't give a shit about sex, so I wouldn't be trying to "hook up" anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:36 PM
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We (myself included) spend an inordinate amount of time blaming anything other than ourself for why we are unable to accomplish our goals. We try not to, but everyone falls off the horse every now and again. I have never done that. I don't think most guys do that either, though maybe most guys on Reddit might. I don't ask for anything I'm not willing to show myself. I'm doing lots of things to improve myself for me, not women. I'd expect the same from any woman I cared to date. That said, I simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:28 PM
3

Some positive Alpha shit. I swear this movie should be taught in schools. You don't need to be a badass to stand up for yourself. Like the movie says, "Guts is enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:31 PM
0

Flirting at work is flat out unprofessional. Do it elsewhere. That said, "creepy" is up to your target's interpretation. If she thinks you're being creepy, then you are being creepy. She doesn't need to justify a damn thing. Most women are reasonable about that, but some aren't. You can't fault men for being weary, same as you can't fault women of being scared of strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:14 PM
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That the vast majority of users are MGTOW and radfems that want a to spout their bullshit in a place where the "other side" can hear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:30 PM
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Most people suck. Half of them have vaginas. If I wasn't attracted to shitty women, then I'd be attracted to shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:02 PM
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Don't worry about girls at all, and get your priorities straight. You're interested being a webmaster (that's what they were called back then) so be one. Use that shit, kid. It'll pay really well. I know you want to be a Marine like your big bro, but just do 4 years and then get the fuck out and go to school for free. Do those two things, and you can get any girl you want. Also, Bitcoin. Look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:49 PM
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How about you just let people (male or female) be their 100% authentic selves? Not to mention doing art to get laid is sad and cringey as hell. The first priority of anyone with depression should be getting to a state that they find acceptable. Not seeking validation from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 04:17 PM
-1

OMG this. I have no idea where it comes from. I've never seen older guys trying to pick up younger girls. I've seen the opposite, though (older women hitting on younger men).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 08:09 PM
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Oh god yes. I went back to school to change careers, and was completely blown away by how anti-male my school is. My current program, which I had to do an entire other degree just to participate because it's "competitive", has 9 people in it. Of those 9 people, 2 are male. There used to be 3, but one got weeded out already and I KNOW he wasn't doing the worst in the program (he was unattractive, though). I've given up trying to get any scholarships, because since I have a penis I "don't really n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:32 PM
1

People just want an excuse to express their opinion on shit. That's what Twitter is for. That snort was adorable, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:32 PM
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I wouldn't be keeping tabs on her to know, so she'd have to be the one to reach out. Yes, I'd give it another chance, but only once and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 09:15 PM
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I'm not red or blue pilled. I'm not redpilled for several reasons: First, their concept of an "Alpha Male" is just a drunken fratboy. You want to be Alpha? Get the hell off Reddit and go enlist, bonus points for infantry. If that's too hardcore, then be a volunteer firefighter or get trained as an EMT if you have the free-time. An Alpha can command the respect of other men, and you sure as fuck won't get respect just for being a pussy hound. To hell with frame, get some goddamn discipline in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:59 PM
-1

I remember when sociology was a fun respectable field of study. That was back in '05 though. Now it's a fucking joke and posts like this are a big reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:15 PM
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When I said "respective fields" I wasn't just referring to work. I meant all fields, including the social ones. The highest status men socially are there because they have a passion for it. If they didn't care, they wouldn't have climbed so high. They would have done just enough to get laid and stopped there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:29 PM
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For a lot of men, this may be true. Those are the men that all the memes are about. The incels, niceguys, redpillers, ect. If you live your life for vagina, then it makes sense to think like that. For the most successful men, women aren't even a consideration. The people dominating their respective fields do it because they love it. You need to have a passion in life, or you might as well just off yourself now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:20 PM
3

FDS seems tailor made for (decent) men that want to buy a woman's heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:54 PM
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Sugar Daddies are a thing, and they are the simpiest of simps, IMO. That seems to be what FDS is after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:51 PM
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There are plenty of men that want to be a simp. They get to benefit from FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:46 PM
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Same shit, different toilet. Neither provide much value to the opposite sex. You claim that TRP makes men into what women want. The problem is that TRP isn't exactly making men into what women want. They are making men into what women will casually have sex with. That is a big difference, and you know damn well that most women don't value casual sex. If anything, I'd say that TRP is worse than FDS because it uses blanket generalizations to demonize ALL women. FDS just demonizes 90% of men, altho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:35 PM
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I didn't hear about it until my boss (who is over 60) showed it to me. It just seems like another version of a Facebook feed. People have gotten together over stranger circumstances. As long as they're being careful, I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:30 PM
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Have you ever been voluntarily celibate? I am right now. For how long? A few years. Why? What were the circumstances? First of all, I'm not into casual sex. I've tried it, several times, and it's just not my thing. As for dating: I am currently in the middle of changing careers from military (USMC) to medical IT. This requires three different degrees, certifications, internships, and a shitload of networking. Even if I wanted to date someone, I don't have the time or energy to be a proper boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:40 PM
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I don't like casual sex. I just don't. I don't care how good she looks, that doesn't make it any more enjoyable for me. So your argument doesn't apply to everyone. Just one more sweeping generalization in a sub full of sweeping generalizations. We should make a tag for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:17 PM
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You should change the tag to [Question for Red Pill]. I'll still answer, though. I'm a natural introvert. As such, I have to constantly force myself to be social or I'll fall into what I call "hermit mode" and go months without speaking to another person outside of work. Longest I've gone without doing anything social was a year and a half, and I have no intention on ever repeating that. Serving in the military helped a lot, as you have no choice but to live in close proximity to a bunch of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:07 PM
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I'd rather just take her surname. It'd be weird to be married to someone with a different last name. Though if she was insistent that we had different last names for some reason, I suppose that is ok. Also please say your age and where your from. Give your answer generational and cultural context. I'm 33 from suburban Atlanta, though I haven't lived there in over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:10 AM
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Incels have taken over r/TRP. You're not going to hear anything decent coming from that sub anymore. You're also less likely to hear it on this sub because a lot of red pilled members are buying into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:48 AM
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Have you been to r/TRP lately? It's infested with incels, and they have been drowning out the little bit of useful information the sub had with blackpill bullshit, and insisting on treating women like crap. Not because it'll it get them laid, but just to spite women. You won't hear phrases like the OP said because it gets lost in all the noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:44 AM
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Incels happened. I have no idea why anyone thought it would be good to take down r/braincels. At least they were all in one place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 12:38 AM
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I'm a guy, and I get catcalled as well. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. Last time was about a couple weeks ago when I was picking up some Dominoes after work. It's not a pleasant feeling at all, and I imagine it must be even worse for women. I think people who do it don't even think about why they're doing it, or how they make people feel. They just do it because they want to, and don't expect a positive response. None of the women who have catcalled me looked like they were about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 11:05 PM
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Honestly, who gives a shit? If it works it works. If it doesn't, then it doesn't. Just let them do their thing. Personally, I don't really see how their advice could work for most women, but if it does then good for them. It's like people just want them to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:49 AM
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Solid 7 for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:22 AM
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Honestly, this purge kinda sucked. There was less shitposting and more autistic ranting from both sides than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:16 PM
1

I mean, you're not wrong but video game addiction is definitely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:50 PM
1

I'm aware. I was more referring to the lack of examples where the woman puts in any effort, at all. Not saying that there aren't any, but when I checked out the sub, I couldn't find one. It was all about what the man did for the woman, not what they both did for each other. Edit: I'm talking about relationships with HMV. The relationship that FDS is all about. Edit 2: I'm also not talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:14 AM
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There's also plenty of guys that are desperate for a girlfriend/wife. Especially an attractive one. Some of them inhabit this sub. To imply that she couldn't find one is just delusional. You underestimate male thirst, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:46 AM
1

I did too. Smart girl fetish has been born! #bookbabes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:17 AM
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There's plenty of dudes out there that wouldn't mind. She was young and, like I said, pretty attractive. No fucking way she couldn't find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:14 AM
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I did, though I wasn't looking for one at the time. It wasn't even a dating site, and I didn't really believe she was a girl til she asked for my number and called me up. She was pretty attractive, and I have no idea why she couldn't just find a guy normally. She had a kid, but there'd still be plenty of guys out there for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:54 PM
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PPD has become pretty much a debate sub about TRP vs FDS, instead of TRP vs TBP. The blue pill doesn't have anything to debate about. Their only common philosophy is "not red pilled." FDS actually has a philosophy, and an extremely polarizing one. Of course a debate sub about dating is going to mention it. That said: it's just a vocal minority of this sub that constantly bitches about FDS. I'm not a fan, but if it works for their members, then good for them. One last thing, though: FDS also valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:10 PM
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Haven't been Rick Rolled in years. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:59 PM
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I like women that have HUGE brains.The bigger the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:28 PM
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My GF in high school was latina. She was cute and a fucking genius, like one of the smartest people I've ever met. Not crazy at all, but very religious so maybe you could call that crazy. Hope she's doing well for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:51 PM
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Is this copy pasta?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:30 PM
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Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:31 PM
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This man is dragging Buddhism into US politics... that is wrong on so many levels that I don't know what to say. He should be ashamed of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:38 PM
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I think it'd be worth it. No amount of sex will stand up to setting world records, and leaving your mark on history (though admittedly a small one).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:26 PM
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Because doing it in public is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:18 PM
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I enjoyed the last purge. This one is just god-awful. Instead of shitposts and memes it's just harassment, racism, and hate. This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:21 AM
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At least she's trying. Most obese people, of either gender, can't be bothered to do even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:14 AM
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I mean, everything you experience is just a bunch of chemicals. EVERYTHING. That's how the body works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:37 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:34 AM
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They didn't get down on one knee or anything. Just sat me down one day and asked me to marry them. One of them (the one I said yes to) went and got an old ring from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:30 AM
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Black 33M. I grew up in a very diverse portion of suburban Atlanta. I don't feel marginalized at all. I started dating when I was 16. First GF was Hispanic. I've been interested in and flirted with every race, though I've never actually dated a black girl now that I think about it. Not because I think they're ugly, but most just aren't my type due to different backgrounds. I've been proposed to by one white, and two Asian women that I dated. I said yes to the white one, but then she went and che…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:46 PM
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Excuse you. I actually find asian women to be the hottest. Check your privilege, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:49 PM
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MGTOW is not a sub/community/forum/ect. It's a simple choice, and once you've made it, you move on with your life and pursue other things. People sitting around bitching about women all day are not "Going Their Own Way." Hell, even just calling yourself MGTOW is a huge indicator against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:38 PM
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Wow. I know this doesn't apply to me (because I don't do any of those things except shave my head, but that was for specific reasons) but still, FUCK YOU. Purge week is supposed to be for shit posting, but every single time there's a bunch of degenerate trash using to opportunity to post shit like this. I doubt you are even really black, but just in case you are... go get some damn therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:58 AM
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Those kind of threads will get this sub shut down. Reddit doesn't care about our purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:27 PM
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I occasionally DM for my close friends. We're starting a new campaign this weekend, and I'm pretty excited about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:59 AM
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I know it's purge week and all, and I disagree with just about everything she says... but this is kind of over the top. Also, I'm pretty sure this is borderline breaking the Reddit-wide rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:52 AM
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As much as I disagree with her, she puts some actual effort into her posts and backs them up with (very suspect) data. That is much more than the irrational rants of many users here, both men and women. She's not a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:33 PM
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I wouldn't bother dating someone without the goal of eventually settling down, but I'm not interested in dating anyone right now. My priorities are currently elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:33 PM
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There are a few definitions of respect. The main one which is all people want, is to be treated with a bit of empathy. The entire point of the post was that most men don't think that is the main one. I agreed with the OP, and after actually checking different definitions of respect (you know, the thing I asked you to do as well) most dictionaries also agree with the "masculine" version of respect being the main one. You could argue that most of those dictionaries were written by men, but that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:01 PM
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Respecting your fellow human beings simply means treating them the way you want to be treated. You're referring to courtesy. Google the word Respect, and you'll see that actual dictionaries are referring to the "masculine" version that the OP was talking about. You're actually proving the OP's point, which is amusing. In fact, every woman that has posted so far has. It's not about "who has a harder life" it's about the two genders using different definitions for respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:33 PM
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No, and that is my biggest issue with TRP. Every aspect of TRP is from the point of view that men just absolutely crave NSA casual sex as much as possible. Even most of PPD is like that. Spinning plates doesn't seem enjoyable to me at all. Maybe I'm in the minority though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:22 AM
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You're asking for people to risk getting banned from their respective subs. Cults like TRP and FDS don't look favorably upon disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:24 PM
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I never did get the whole "height = protection" thing. Women do understand that height has very little bearing on combat skill, right? Also, I've known many combat veterans and martial artists that struggled to get a date. You think they'd be swimming in women, if it was about her feeling safe and protected. People are fucking weird, especially the ones with vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:41 PM
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Experienced: 4-10 Mostly because I'm not a fan of blatant hypocrisy. If she's had less, then fine. If she's had more, that's kind of gross but not a deal-breaker in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:34 PM
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From what I understand, male disposabilty isn't about dating. It's about how men are viewed by society in general. Men are the majority of coal miners, oil riggers, military, firefighters, ect. Most dangerous jobs are held by men. Most people in jail are men. Most homeless people are men. Most victims are homicide are men. Most victims of suicide are men. Male life is cheap, and easily replaceable. I'm no men's right's activist (nor am i a feminist) but that's usually what's talked about wheneve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:00 PM
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My bad. I was being unclear. When I said "always continue to improve" I meant improving in ways that are important to YOU. Not women, not other men. Just you. In my opinion, part of growing up is realizing that everyone has different things that they value, that they won't all line up with what you value, and there is nothing wrong with that. I don't know what you want to do with your life. You do, or at least you should start figuring it out. Always continue to improve yourself in ways that rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:45 PM
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At the end of day yeah i probably would sell my soul to be a better man. This is the proper mentality to have. And since you have it, you'll be fine. As long as you continue to strive to be the best "you" that you can be, then you will always continue to improve. In my experience, women tend to pick up on that personal drive and you'll find that occasionally they will come and ask YOU out, despite your lack of alphaness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:27 PM
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As you get older, you’ll stop giving a shit about all that. When I was younger, I was like you. I genuinely enjoy being nice to people, though you can’t be nice all the time or you get taken advantage of. I didn’t have much trouble getting a GF, but I saw all those girls chasing after the fuck boys and just shook my head as they got hurt over and over again. You have to understand though, that changing the way you are just to get a date is not worth it. Also, sitting around complaining about som…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:59 PM
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Nice people, regardless of gender, don't expect anything in return for being nice. Not sex, not a relationship, not a kiss on the cheek. Nothing at all. If that ain't you, then you simply are not as nice as you think you are. Genuine nice guys, and girls, exist. But they're not that common, and they certainly won't be bitching about not getting a date through their niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:01 PM
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Some guys are generally nice to everyone. Guys that are only nice to women, attractive ones at that, are the "nice guys" that all the memes are about. 99% of the time, they're hoping to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:39 PM
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lol, you are going way deep into that rabbit hole. I get that most of the guys here are obsessed with sex, but women are not (as you mentioned). She could have cheated for any number of reasons, including just being horny. And better man, really? I've served with guys who have come back from a combat tour to find out their wife is pregnant someone else's kid. It's so popular that there's actually a term for it: Jody. Half the time "Jody" is some broke loser going absolutely nowhere with his life…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:00 AM
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I'm borderline asexual, and I have female friends. If they share your interests, who gives a fuck about what gender they are? Hobbies are hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:09 PM
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Well, there is the whole "male privilege" thing. I know this is a debate sub about dating, but in all other areas of life men seem to have the upper hand. The average man is seen as generally more competent, is more respected, and is taken more seriously than the average woman. He's not viewed as a walking sex organ. He can more easily defend himself. The vast majority of people in power are men. A young boy can look at every single aspect of life, and find a male role model to inspire them. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:23 PM
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Of course it can, but that would require people to change their behavior. Most people don't want to do that. But really, why should anyone care? Those men are only hurting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:11 PM
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lol, if that's their definition then I am a "HVM". Though I don't consider myself high value at all, and believe that kind of thinking to be dangerous. That's how you get complacent with life and wake up 20 years later without having done anything of significance. Better to always be striving to improve yourself. Unfortunately, I value my career far more than I value women, and am not looking to date anyone at all for a couple of years. Besides, who the hell is trying to date during this pandemi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:04 PM
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It says you're violating Rule 11. Again. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:51 PM
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Because the only common ground for members of r/thebluepill is not being red pilled. That's it. They don't all agree on anything else. What is there to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:49 PM
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Yes, because the majority of people's problems are self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:47 PM
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I wish certain men and women members of this sub would stop whining about the opposite gender every single day. I'm simply amazing with how many variations of "all men/women are horrible people" get posted here. And I'm pretty sure that's a violation of Rule 11. I've been reporting them, but it seems that no one else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:14 PM
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The only thing I want, is an equal. I'm not into being dominating at home. I do enough of that crap at work. I also am not interested in someone attempting to dominate me. When I was growing up, my dad cooked and my mom cleaned. The kids did laundry. There was none of that "mommy-wife" crap a lot of people here talk about. Both my mom and dad had full time jobs. Some years my mom earned more, and some years my dad. Neither were concerned about it, as long as bills got paid. Ideally, I would like…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:56 PM
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There are, but this subreddit is mostly about TRP and TBP. TRP is focused on sex, and most of their members are obsessed with getting laid. TBP is about not being red pilled. This is why you have so many people here constantly whining about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:40 PM
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A 200lb gym rat would literally kill you if he wanted to. Like I said, I know it's different for women. Use your best judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:26 AM
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Actually, I think you are confused. The OP's point is that some women are lacking the self confidence to say no. This is what she said: However, in my experience, a type of sexual activity that is very common goes something like this: Woman is shy/insecure. Man pressures her into sex. She can't say no because she's too agreeable. Woman has sex when she doesn't want to. That doesn't sound like a woman who is concerned about the man's happiness. It more sounds like she's just a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:20 AM
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That is a very common reason for people that are doormats. Standing up for yourself sounds great until you get your ass beat for it. You have to realize that you should stand up for yourself anyway, and just deal with what happens. I understand that it is different for women, and there's the threat of getting killed. In that circumstance, then do what you need to do to survive. In all other circumstances, refer to paragraph one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:53 AM
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I understand the concept, I just think it's avoiding taking responsibility for your actions. You probably have never felt personally responsible for the happiness of someone else which ironically is a very childlike way of viewing the world. Stop projecting. You know nothing of me. My last job held me personally responsible for the happiness of 43 people, as well as their character development and mental health. Like actually responsible, as in there would be real consequences if I failed, not j…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:17 AM
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The OP's argument was that women are having sex even when they don't want to because they're agreeable. That's not putting other's needs before your own. That's being an immature child that's too afraid to have boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 03:02 AM
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This is one thing I will never understand about TRP. Why the hell would you ever want to fuck someone that wasn't obviously into it? If she seems reluctant, then fine. Time to hook up with someone else. Aren't you suppose to have an "abundance mindset"? That said, a person so pathetic that they'll have sex with someone just because they don't want to say "no" has very little sympathy from me. Grow the fuck up. This is why "women are the oldest teenager in the house" is a phrase in TRP. Edit: I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:07 AM
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The implication is that the average man needs to delete Tinder. Right now. Stop hurting yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:31 PM
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Cheating is a breach of trust. Gender is irrelevant. I can't say if I'd try to work it out or immediately dump/divorce her, but I would feel the same way if she cheated with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:34 PM
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The vast majority of posts here: "My gender is full of individuals. The other gender is all the same."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:51 PM
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I'm not a fan of RP, but I'm not exactly a fan of FDS either. I think both groups are way too focused on their own benefit to ever provide anything of value to an actual life partner. I also suspect a large portion of their members to be bitter individuals that don't actually want to date the other gender, and instead are just looking for a place to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:33 PM
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They can if they lie about their intentions (both genders do this). If someone was expecting things because they were actually promised those things, then hell yes they were used.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:25 PM
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Before my brother got married to a single mother, I would have said yes. I'm considering adopting kids, so that wouldn't be too different. But after watching that woman destroy my brother's life over it, hell no. I am fully aware that women are individuals, and they all behave differently. However, that's just not a chance I'm willing to take. Everyone has their dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 03:59 PM
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Congrats you're a fucking autist too deep in the weeds with this online pill bullshit to function like a normal human being. You even fit the stereotype of making up a hypothetical situation and started arguing against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:02 PM
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I'm just here to watch bitter people with far too much time on their hands sling mud at each other. Sort of like a modern day Jerry Springer show.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:17 PM
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It may sound extreme to think like this but I feel as though I am always perceived as a possible murderer or rapist just because of how fearful women supposedly are (and it doesn't help that I am black so there's that whole stigma to go along with it). Yeah, that shit sucks. You have to understand that there's nothing we can do about how complete strangers perceive us. Just live your best life. As for walking behind women, I try to angle off to the left or right if possible, and walk slower than…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:12 PM
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It doesn't. If your only life experience is academia with a few years of industry work, then you are not qualified to provide observations about general society. You should have taken a statistics course that explains these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:51 PM
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Every last one of these are strawmen, btw. Most of you need to take a break from Reddit. The mudslinging is like 80% of posts now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:30 PM
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Can we stop bitching about FDS? Please? Like TRP, they are a non-factor. The odds of you running into one of their members in real life is so small that you'd probably have a higher chance of winning the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:21 PM
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Same as any other vow. If you give your word, you should keep it. I have no use for people that can't/don't keep their word. This sense of obligation comes from a personal code, I suppose. It's how I like to live my life. Also, NO ONE in my entire extended family has ever gotten divorced as far back as anyone can remember. I'll be damned if I'm the first. That's why proper vetting is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:22 AM
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No, that's bullshit. You can have female friends for the exact same reasons you would have a male friend. Not everything in life needs to be about getting laid, which is one big issue I have against TRP. They preach about bettering yourself, but at the end of the day, every waking moment is supposed to be focused on getting your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:09 AM
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I think people often confuse respect with common courtesy. The former must be earned, and but later should be given freely to everyone. Basically, treat everyone how you would like to be treated. I wouldn't want to be respected unless I did something worthy of being respected, but I expect common courtesy from everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:50 PM
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Again, I'm not talking about changing anything. Including the romeo and juliet laws that are already there. The fact that so many members of this subreddit are so interested in fucking underage teens is pretty disturbing, but that is getting off topic. I was specifically talking about changing laws that are already in place to protect our young people from predators, because someone is too horny to find someone their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:53 PM
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For the same reason that a person is consider a legal adult at age 18, and no other age. That is the "arbitrary line" because at that age a person has enough life experience and self awareness to be held accountable for their actions. There's a reason that such distinction exists in the first place, and we have words like "adult" and "child" to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:10 PM
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For the same reason that a person is consider a legal adult at age 18, and no other age. That is the "arbitrary line" because at that age a person has enough life experience and self awareness to be held accountable for their actions. There's a reason that such distinction exists in the first place, and we have words like "adult" and "child" to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:09 PM
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Rational, yes. Would most teenagers follow it? Probably not. The laws are already there though. They are specifically to protect young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:05 PM
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I'm not upgrading shit. I want the laws that are already in place not to be changed. If you don't like the laws that are already in place, maybe you are the one that have no place in a western country like, fucking LOL. And thanks for the personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:03 PM
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So not wanting to repeal statutory rape because some dude is horny for underage teens is rolling back women's rights? Really? And get the fuck out with that virtue signaling and splitting couples bullshit. I stated an opinion, and you don't like it. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:33 PM
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So if some of your friends are "low-value" you should stop being friends with them simply so you can date certain kinds of people? Am I understanding you correctly? Also, and this is just a personal opinion, I think people should choose careers and hobbies that are best for them, not whoever they are trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:09 PM
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If they were already dating and one of them turned 18, then they can wait for the other one to turn 18. If they weren't already dating, then the 18-year old is specifically looking for underage people, and has no sympathy from me. I'd vote against your supposed changes every time, and would never vote for any politician who proposed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:05 PM
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Or you could stop being a fucking creep and just date people your own age. An 18 year-old that can't find other 18 year-olds to date is a personal problem. It's not necessary to change the laws so they can commit statutory rape instead of improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:57 PM
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You: Friend, I can't be friends with you anymore because I need to date high value people. Friend: Wait... what? You: Also, I'm suddenly quitting my job and disliking everything I used to enjoy. See you around, loser!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:52 PM
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I'd become a professional carpet muncher. Get an LLC, and open up a storefront. 1 hour sessions, with different priced packages. I'd put advertisements out on Tumblr, Jezebel, and r/FDS. Come on down to Crotch Cleaners, and get yourself sorted out! It'd probably have revenue in the millions by the end of the 2nd year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:39 AM
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Every time I come back to this sub, it somehow got worse than when I left. Stay classy r/PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:15 PM
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If you're asking for permission to pump and dump, then unfortunately you've come to the right place. The fact that you need someone to tell you to do it is pretty sad, though. "It's OK to make people feel bad, because they make me feel bad." Like, seriously? If that's what you wanna tell yourself then no one can stop you, but don't think you have any moral ground to stand on. Just one more asshole adding to the problem. Enjoy the decline, as TRPers say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:18 PM
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You're getting played, not being dominant. She wants drama, and you're giving it to her. She also sounds like bad news. Block her phone number, and block her on social media. Move on with your life. In the future, avoid women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:46 PM
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How do we determine what’s high value? Irrelevant. Everyone has different things that they value. Find someone high value to YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:05 PM
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Exhibit A Exhibit B Exhibit C
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:19 PM
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You do realize that you're also demonizing the opposite gender based on the actions of a few individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:54 PM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with it. I just find it to be creepy. It's not for me. 5 years up or down. Anything more than that is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:28 PM
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Because most of the posts are made by people at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:27 PM
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Celebrity worship is a distinctly feminine thing. I'm not sure exactly why that is, but I'm not a woman. What I can tell you is that the average guy is completely indifferent to celebrity gossip. A few decades ago, there might be an argument about guys and famous athletes, but that ship has sailed. No one under 40 gives a shit about sportsball.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:14 PM
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Antisocial is gonna antisocial. It's not just a guy thing, either. I bet most femcels are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:11 PM
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I lived in Japan for seven years. Japanese people are timid and passive to the extreme. It's like built into their society. I know a woman who had a man break into her house and pass out on her couch, but she didn't call the cops because she didn't want him to get in trouble. The guys are just as bad, if not worse. The meeting between a man and woman is usually awkward as fuck. They don't exchange phone numbers. They exchange e-mails, of all things. They've been this way for centuries, but it di…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:07 PM
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That's not mainstream porn. Awhile back, there was a chart posted about which gender was into what kink. I think it was during purge week. Most guys just aren't into the stereotypical violent degrading porn. Surprisingly, it was more popular among women. Enthusiasm is the hottest thing to a guy. A woman suffering, or clearly in pain, doesn't seem very enthusiastic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:37 PM
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Moral of the story: don't play that game. Even if she's giggling while stroking your dick, if she says no then get up and leave. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:25 PM
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MGTOW is a decision, not a community. The people hanging around spouting misogynistic bullshit simply aren't real MGTOW. What I'm more worried about is TRP, INCEL, MGTOW, and MRA members growing in numbers and starting to vote en mass. If you think Trump is bad, imagine a congress that has members with those beliefs. Or a criminal justice system. Or your local emergency services. Hell, even just the bouncer at your favorite bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 06:01 PM
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I agree. The only person you should change yourself for is YOU. If you like who you are, then you shouldn't have to change yourself just to be considered dateable. Women are completely off base about this issue. Especially on this sub. And no, I'm not talking about not wanting to shower or some other strawmen being thrown around here. I'm talking about the core personality of people. Their interests, hobbies, values, ect. The shit that makes someone get out of bed everyday. NO ONE should have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:45 AM
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My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:44 AM
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Not all. Everyone has their own preferences. However, many women that I have respectfully turned down seemed to take it as a personal insult. I know the meme is that men will sleep with anything given the chance, but no one is actually supposed to believe it. Also, a lot of the women on PPD really make me want to write off the entire gender. If I wasn't constantly reminded that most women in real life don't act like you all, I'd probably go MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 04:13 AM
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I'm starting to realize why most people just ignore you guys around here. Look, I'm done. Think what you want. Good luck with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:31 AM
2

Actually, it's Tyrone, according to your bullshit terminology. I look pretty average IMO, but I'll send you a PM of a pic if you really think it'll change your life. I'm not doxxing myself though, and I'll report you if you post it on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:22 AM
2

You can be a basement dwelling video gamer and still think of yourself as the universe's main man. Who the FUCK are you to decide what his real problem is? After all, HE GETS TO DECIDE HOW VALUABLE HE IS. If he's a basement dwelling video gamer, yet is happy with his life then I guess good for him? In reality, I highly doubt anyone would actually think like that. But if they do, then so what? Who the fuck are we to tell him what is valuable or not? That's getting far away from the original point…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:15 AM
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Spoken like another jaded incel. Like I said, it's all about the goals you set for yourself and whether you have accomplished them or not. A basement dwelling video gamer hasn't accomplished shit. He would have zero reason to value himself at all. Of course everyone thinks he's a loser, but the real problem is that HE should realize he's a loser and grow the fuck up. Whatever, think what you want man. Keep complaining about shit and worrying about other people's opinions of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:12 AM
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My point is why should you care? Why do you need to have the approval of a mass of strangers? If you're so concerned with what everyone else thinks, you'll never get anything done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:03 AM
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I'd rather define myself by the goals I have set in my life, and whether I have accomplished them or not. The only person you need to prove value to is yourself. Fuck everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:54 AM
1

Pretty hair, classy dresses, and the ones that look good in glasses.... omg. Also, some are good at doing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:17 AM
2

The first rule of unicorn hunting, is you that don't talk about unicorn hunting. Guess what the second rule is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:23 AM
1

That's even worse. Do you realize that you are probably clinically depressed? If you can afford it, look into therapy. If you can't, you should have a talk with family or close friends. I've known too many people that thought like you do and ended up killing themselves. I'm not saying you're currently suicidal, but you're on the path that leads there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:55 AM
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If you're basing your entire self worth on how many people want to fuck you, then I feel sorry for you. Good luck with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:49 AM
1

My point was what separates Chemical Reaction A [love] from all of the other chemical reactions in your brain? There's no good answer for that. And you're dealing with extremely large numbers with that example. Yes, if every single man in the world tried to date every single woman in the world at the same time, it would work out the way you said. But dating is at the individual level. And then there's factors like the local demographics of your area, which could be wildly different. Even if ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:17 PM
2

Yes, love is most definitely a chemical reaction. But like you said, so is everything else people experience. Even raw sensory input like sight, hearing or balance is really just chemical reactions interpreted by your brain. So we're back to square one. What is love? I disagree on there being not enough decent women to choose from. There are enough out there that you can find one if you search hard enough, even when vetting thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:57 PM
1

I'm 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:36 PM
2

If you're not the type of guy that women are willing to approach, you can still vet who you choose to approach. Chasing everything with a vagina and settling for whoever will have you is practically guaranteed to end badly. Too many shitty people for that method. Also, your explanation is off and not as precise on an individual level as you're making it out to be. Marketing is for vast amounts of people, and dating is about looking for a specific individual. Those are two very different things. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:33 PM
1

That's the thing, though. The benefits I would get from a relationship are the same benefits any other guy would get. I think the problem is that men are too thirsty and don't vet women properly, then end up with the type of women that makes them think that relationships aren't worth it. That's kind of straying away from the point, though. Stuff like love and attraction can't be analyzed like that, no matter how much you want to. I understand why you say a lot of men want to quantify, but what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:12 PM
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Well not all are as lucky as you are. Oh? And how am I lucky? You're making a few assumptions here. If you're the type of person that needs a detailed list on why you should get in a relationship with someone, then relationships probably aren't for you. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:48 PM
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I've realized that a lot of the red pill members of r/PPD are neurotic, unhappy people, that need to quantify everything in their life. That type of person is going to need pros/cons about everything, including love. The problem is that love, and attraction in general, are not logical things. Most of the benefits are not tangible, so they are useless to red pill members.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:29 PM
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I'm one of the weird guys that don't give a rat's ass about casual sex. Maybe I have a low T-count. Don't know, don't care. So I put zero effort in getting laid. The only women I ever fucked were ones I was dating or interested in dating, so I would be ok with being seen in public with them or introducing them to my family. What I look forward to the most when getting home is either hanging out with my friends, or getting some sleep. I work a lot, and am in the middle of changing careers (which …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:18 PM
1

I think you're just seeing a vocal minority. If you don't care about women on Tinder/Instagram or following a serial killer, then you won't be complaining about them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:02 PM
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Yeah... that's the point I was trying to make. I didn't know why you were so upset over that, but after looking at your post history you're just an unpleasant person in general. Keep complaining, it's obviously working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:30 PM
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Not sure how this goes against my point at all. If you don't like the message, don't listen to it and keep bitching about not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:53 PM
1

It's slightly more expensive than the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:21 AM
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You live in the perfect place, then. In Japan the girls there are pretty shy, but once they think you're worthwhile they get competitive as hell. They'll literally fight over you. In Korea, most of them are pretty blunt and will just either give you the cold shoulder, or walk up and ask you out. In the Philippines, they will assume (correctly) that you are rich AF and most of them will be all over you. Thai girls are the same, but there is way too sex trafficking going on in that country to know…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:18 AM
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Clubs and bars, though some of them were when I was living in east Asia. If you're in the USA, go to big cities or college towns (if you're the same age as a typical college kid).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:08 AM
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Yes. Most of my ex GF's asked me out. But, there will be far less if you're just looking for casual sex. It will still happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:59 AM
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What I mean is that women will start pursuing you. The bar is that low. Most men are shit, because most people are shit in general. You still don't have to wait around if you don't want to. After you put in the work, you could probably come home with someone whenever you went out clubbing/barhopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:50 AM
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No, but I'll bet you some reddit gold. Put in the work to become your ideal man, and see if it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:46 AM
2

Be upfront about what you fucking want. Stop the stupid games. That's shit women and weak men do, and you're supposed to be some kind of "Alpha". Dread, frame, dark triad... all of those bullshit terms. Forget them, and be the guy YOU want to be. I won't say be yourself, because you might not like your current self. If you genuinely are proud of who you are and what you're doing with your life, the women will come. I promise you, they will come.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:39 AM
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If I happen to be looking for a relationship (which is admittedly pretty rare) I'll pursue, if they're worth it. Unfortunately, the vast majority of women are not worth it. The simple truth is that most people suck, and women are people. Also, I don't like playing stupid games. If I get told no, I'm going to assume that is an actual no and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 04:26 AM
2

Not really. I'd rather just see them wear something classy. A classy dress and nice hair is sexy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:19 PM
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Nothing at all. Not for you. So move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:36 PM
3

I believe you should be however you want to be. If that’s a manly man, great. If not, oh well. Unless a woman is paying your bills and taking care of all of your personal problems, women shouldn’t factor into your personality at all. And if a woman is doing that, you’re in no position to question your masculinity. Because you have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:45 PM
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That's just a stereotype. If guys are looking to have an LTR, personality is far more important than looks. However, many guys are NOT looking for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:22 AM
1

Most people I talked about the subject with disagreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:35 AM
1

I don’t care. If their stuff works, good for them. More power to them. I just want people whining about it to do so over there, instead of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:49 AM
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This. This right here. Discussion is fine. Whining is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:03 AM
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Male. Hot to me, but I have strange tastes in women. Hot to me probably wouldn't be hot most other people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:58 AM
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I've never asked. Not really concerned with how she acted in the past, but more with how she'll act in the future. That said, one of the biggest red flags to me is a long history of short term relationships. I'm not dating someone just to be another notch in her belt. She can get with some other schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:24 PM
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It's not my fault that most of the userbase is too lazy/entitled to put out what they are asking for. If my opinion bother's you, then be better. If it doesn't then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:56 PM
5

No, it makes both of you hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:39 PM
5

I don't mind actual discussion. However, everything said about that sub here was just a complaint. Bitch about that shit somewhere else. I recommend r/MGTOW. They're always good for complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:48 PM
2

Ok, replace [get dick wet] with [have relationship]. The same concept applies. State what you really want upfront, instead of trying to sneak it into an established platonic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:42 PM
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I don't give a shit what you do on your sub. I'd just like people here to stop whining about it. That said, you making an ask sub is precisely what "engage with you on our terms" means. Maybe you could help stop some of the things you dislike seeing when trying to date men. Or the mods can keep removing posts/comments about FDS. Both work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:31 PM
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If you shame other people for something you yourself indulge in (or want to indulge) then you are a fucking hypocrite and deserve nothing but ridicule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:44 PM
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If anyone from that sub is here, please make a r/askFDS. Then people can bitch about you over there, instead of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:34 PM
3

There needs to be a r/askFDS. I'm sure it'd be pretty popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:14 PM
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When guys start getting rounded up and thrown in concentration camps (and by who? women? LMAO) then I'll take FDS seriously. Until then, they're just another flavor of TRP. Let them do their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:10 PM
3

Looks like a joke to me. Why are you taking this seriously? Why are you taking anything said on that sub seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:06 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:04 PM
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Whatever that X factor is, most women worth being friends with will have plenty of men willing to give her more of it than they would be if she were a man. That's the point I was trying to address. Friendships aren't a zero sum thing. Just because some other guy is willing to be her friend and also buy her extra shit, doesn't mean she'd rather be friends with them over you. Maybe you get her jokes and other guy doesn't. Maybe you are more into (random hobby) than other guy. Doesn't matter. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:02 PM
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I understand where you are coming from but your last point is kind of bullshit, my guy. You're assuming women only have friendships to get benefits out of them. That's not true. Women form friendships with people for the same reasons men do. If she's just using you to get favors/money/validation then she's not really your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:50 PM
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IME men generally have much more deep friendships than women. That may be because I don't get to experience how women behave with each other without a man around. Friendzoned men just need to prioritize what they really want. Do they want a friend, or do they want to get their dick wet? If they wanted to get their dick wet, they should have been up front about it instead of trying to sneak it in after establishing a friendship. That's just downright deceitful, and shows a lack of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:44 PM
1

Because some old fart living in a retirement home has nothing of worth to say to me. Same goes with the vast majority of people under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:05 PM
1

I know it happens. I'm saying that none of them should be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:02 PM
2

What does any of this have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:58 PM
11

People that are 40+ and still trolling for casual sex are not to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:07 PM
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Why do people on reddit like to generalize entire generations of people based on a few anecdotes? Most people 40+ find young people too annoying to have a conversation with, much less date. This post is a good example of why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:47 PM
1

It's a shame what sociology has become in recent years. It was actually a respectable field until about ten years ago. Now you have "sociologists" like this woman writing thought pieces and people take that as a peer reviewed study. GTFO with that shit. Most men don't give enough of a shit to want to control and oppress women. This is pure projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:41 PM
1

Still trashy. That's like asking about feminine smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:30 PM
2

I don't hate tattoos. I just think they look trashy. They look just as bad on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:56 PM
1

Photography will probably be big business. I can see stores where you purchase a professionally done profile picture for social media and dating sites. Said store will have a bunch of different backgrounds and props to choose from. Those "world travelers" can suddenly be climbing Machu Picchu. Or the "beach bum" can suddenly be catching a legendary wave. I'm honestly surprised that no one has tried to do this yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:40 AM
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I've been proposed to by three different women, thought they didn't get on one knee or anything. They just sat me down and asked like any other question. One of them went and got a ring from somewhere, though. I said yes to her, but she cheated later so fuck that shit. It doesn't feel weird at all. Just surprising. I think it happens more than some people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:09 AM
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Both "rules" are stupid as hell. I don't even care about sex, but if a woman is going to play games with me for 3 months because of some shit she read on the internet, then she isn't worth my time in the first place. I also don't see the point of the "3 date" rule. There's no reason to be dating someone if all you want is sex. Why not find a ONS and be done with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:56 AM
5

If she shows disinterest then just move on with your life. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:37 AM
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Because it's fucking gross. That's it. That's the only reason. You can project whatever feelings you want onto men, but it doesn't change reality. Assume we're spoiled, threatened, ect. Whatever helps you sleep at night. I don't care. Just stop bringing this topic up, because you already know the answer. Sluts. Are. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:33 AM
7

We do notice them, but the safest policy is to assume nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:28 AM
5

False. Don't just assume that it's your looks. Might as well call yourself an INCEL at that point. You can look just fine, and still get rejected for a number of things. Maybe it had nothing to do with you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:21 AM
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If you have to psyche yourself up just to tell a woman "No." then you have bigger problems than having low standards. They're people too, and just a flawed as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:16 AM
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Before I answer your CMV, I have a question for you Lilith. Are you actually open to having your mind changed on this topic? And if you actually are, what sort of evidence do you need to see to change your mind? Because out of several posts you have made, I have never seen you change your mind about anything at all. If you want to rant, then call your post what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:43 PM
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No, but I'm not into casual sex. You're not missing out on much. It's fun and all, but I think a lot of guys obsess over getting laid because of societal pressure. Just keep doing your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:49 AM
1

Oh shit, I thought your flair was a joke. Stay strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:36 PM
2

That’s sounds hilarious. I’m jealous as hell of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 08:53 PM
2

If you're dating her, you should trust her enough to stay invested in her relationship with you. If you don't trust her, then don't date her in the first place. If she violates your trust by cheating, then absolutely end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:13 PM
2

I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm saying most (as in above 50%) men do not desire to control women. There's bad people everywhere. I'm sorry those things happened, but I'm not going to write off entire populations for it. The reason I brought up my mother is because she told me what it was like growing up in Liberia. I'm not saying Africa isn't a violent place. The reason my mom is in USA now is because most of her family was murdered in a coup, because they were in the government. My ONLY p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:43 AM
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Chinese men also go to countries like Vietnam to find wives because the women are poor and desperate and don’t know anything or can’t make demands. I doubt more than a fraction of Chinese men do this. Probably the same % of "Johns" that go to South East Asia for sex tourism. Yeah, it's disgusting, but most guys don't do that shit. Indian men regularly kill their daughters either at birth or because their daughter disobeyed by dating a man they did not choose or the wrong caste Those are some ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:27 AM
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Most of Arabia and Central Asia probably do want to control women. That still leaves the rest of the world, and I can't think of any other culture or demographic that promotes controlling women. I've lived abroad for seven years (mostly East Asia), and no guy I talked to even hinted at wanting to control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:07 AM
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I will concede that there are a lot of bad men out there that want to hurt women. Just look at any incel message board. But in no way do I buy the vast majority of whom DO want to control women You're going to have to provide some evidence for that. That's billions of people you're accusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:55 AM
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I agree, but neither of them is the norm. The strawmen for both genders needs to stop. I'm not redpilled, nor do I subscribe to AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:47 AM
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Never heard of it until now. My point was about the average man, though. Granted, I only used the term average man in my first paragraph, but it was implied for all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:21 AM
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I agree, and anyone who thinks that women on Tinder are being unreasonable is just deluded. This is why most men shouldn't use Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:19 AM
0

You just can't do it, can you? You can't possibly imagine a world where men might have a valid reason to be disappointed in dating. No, they're all just entitled and demand women cater to them. That's the only possible reason anyone could be redpilled. I could list off a bunch of reasons why dating sucks for men but you wouldn't believe me anyway. Men = bad. Women = good. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:32 AM
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Because this sub is one of the few that is actually open for people to debate about sex and gender. Most subs are just one big circlejerk. r/TheRedPill, r/TwoXChromosomes, r/MGTOW, r/GenderCritical, ect. All of them have just one ideology, and if you don't tow the party line, you get downvoted an banned. I'm not looking for a relationship (or casual sex), and wont be for at least a year or two. None of these topics help me in any way. But debating is fun, sex/gender differences are interesting, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:20 PM
2

For some women it is, and for some it isn't. The general rule seems to be 'taller than them.' Something to do with feeling safe and protected, because taller guys somehow fight better. So yes, guys over six feet have an easier time dating. That's just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 06:11 PM
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I'm a little surprised. Based on previous posts, I thought you were 19 at most. Go figure. Anyways, you're generalizing men... again. Most guys evolve their desires as well. It's kind of what humans do. I don't know what kind of guys you date and hang out with, and I don't really want to know, but don't just assume that they speak for billions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:42 PM
1

While I agree for the most part, I do have one issue with this. This concept goes both ways OP, I doubt you have much experience with women getting rejected. They lash out in anger just as much as men do. There's even a common phrase for it: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." While I'm sure it happens, I've never personally seen a dude completely lose their shit for someone refusing to take them home. I've seen it from women many, many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:26 PM
2

MTV is still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 02:17 AM
8

Or you could grow the fuck up and be equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 12:45 AM
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Guy 1 holds himself accountable for everything that happens in his life, be it his fault or not. He understands that life is not fair and that, for the dating world at least, women have the upper hand. He realizes that he can either adapt himself to their standards, or go MGTOW. Both options have their pros and cons, and Guy 1 has to choose which is best for him. Guy 2 does not hold himself accountable. He argues (correctly) that dating should be fair between both sexes, and he should not have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 10:55 PM
1

Fuck no. Not because I am a man, but because I value earning things for myself (...so maybe it is because I'm a man). To be fair, I can't see myself dating/marrying anyone who felt differently. I've met plenty of SAH dads who were content, but I just couldn't live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 07:49 PM
1

Once more, for the people in the back. Most people, of both sexes, are trash. If you're a dude trying to date, you're going to encounter a shitload of terrible women. That's just life. Sift through the garbage and find someone decent to have a relationship. Or pump n' dump them all, and be part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:02 PM
1

In my anecdotal experience, it's seems about 50/50 to me. Both sexes are pretty hive-minded about a lot of things, but especially about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:50 PM
1

It's not that John is a nerd. It's that he probably has social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:26 PM
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Many guys confuse being an asshole with being more confident and assertive. They are normally not those things, so when they try to be anyway they overcompensate and end up acting like an asshole. These guys will see women tolerate the assholishness because the confidence and assertiveness comes along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:30 AM
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no interests outside of makeup, social media and netflix no desire do anything of worth with her life. note: being a wife/mom is not anything of worth history of short term relationships drug use codependency (this isn't a bad sign per se, but I think it's disgusting) Everything else, I can work with. But any of those traits are a hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:19 AM
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The same thing I do as an average man, focus on my career. STEM scholarships and diversity quotas would make it a little easier. To be fair, I already benefit from the diversity quotas (am a black dude).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:14 PM
1

Fuck no. I'm 32. I don't need a fucking plate, side piece, sugarbaby, or whatever else people call it. I need a grown ass adult that has her shit together and isn't too insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:46 AM
4

None of the above. How about some intelligence, ambition, and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 05:36 AM
3

Yes, it is. Not for you, but for your kids. When my mom get pregnant with my older brother, my dad dropped out of college (and he was almost done with an electrical engineering degree) to support her. He's done shit you wouldn't believe to support us growing up. Because they stayed married, my parents raised three very successful kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:14 PM
1

I'm not hideous, but I won't delude myself into thinking I'm some male model. Still, that point is irrelevant. I'm seen obese guys, broke guys, ugly guys... all of them managed to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:52 PM
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Everything is fine. I'm not Chad. Not even a little bit. And women still ask me out. IDK what to tell you guys. I can understand if men physically disfigured or mentally disabled that will prevent them from finding someone. Other than that, tough? Not a chance. No fucking way do I buy the "women only go for Chad" line. I've seen 400lbs dudes that fucking stank of BO walking around with pretty wives. I've seen homeless dudes going on dates. All the excuses are just that, fucking excuses. If you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:11 PM
2

No, it's only common in subs like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:29 PM
4

AWALT is a stupid copout, and so is AMALT. It's pretty fucking obvious the different people have different behaviors. Do you think that all women are exactly the same, including yourself? Of course not. The same applies to men. People, of both genders, are flawed. It's part of being human. Find the person with flaws that you can deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:32 AM
2

I'm not redpilled, but that thought does frighten me a little. If I get that bad, I might opt for the Smith & Wesson retirement plan. Depends if I have a spouse or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:17 AM
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I'd tone down male thirst. Maybe with a pill that suppresses libido. The majority of dating problems, for either gender, is ultimately tied to most guys being way too thirsty for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:44 PM
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OP, based on many of your replies in this thread, I think you are incredibly insecure. It's OK for people to have a different opinion than you, without anyone being in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:40 PM
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"Earning a degree" doesn't make you more money. Earning a specific degree does. Until women start majoring in shit that actually pays a decent salary, nothing will change. There's a push to get more women into STEM, so maybe things will change in the future but it's still going to be awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:13 PM
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Love is hard to describe. When I met my first girlfriend, I was 16. She happened to sit in front of me on the bus to school. When we first saw each other we just sat and stared at each other for a good ten minutes. No words, just staring. I didn't know what real attraction was until that moment. That kind of spark doesn't happen everyday, and I'm not sure if some people ever find it at all. That's why you get bullshit like TRP trying to quantify love and attraction. You can't plan around that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:54 AM
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This bullshit again. Like everything else, advice from those subs should be taken in moderation. From what I've seen of FDS, it's basically the female version of TRP. Though there does seem to be less self improvement and more ranting about the opposite sex. If they can actually find and keep a dude that puts up with that shit, more power to them. RPW is the other extreme. They all want to be the model trophy wife with a perfect marriage. I think they're a little too obsessed with that ideal, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:24 PM
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Not so much income, as much as doing something with her life. Careers are great for that. Reasonably intelligent, healthy BMI, non-smoker Fuck no. So... don't be an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:17 AM
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TRP and FDS are the same sub, just gender flipped. It'd be interesting to watch members from those subs try to date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:39 PM
2

The key is control. Controlled violence is the only possible way for modern society to exist. Naval warships protecting sea lanes from piracy, local law enforcement responding to mass shootings, even just the bouncer at the club. All of those things are society using violence in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:29 PM
1

Is this predatory? Absolutely. Does their ages/life experience have a play on this? Yes, they do. The kid is naive enough to fall for her bullshit, and she knows it. How do you view women older than you? Or how did you view women in their early 30s when you were in your early 20s? I didn't think about women in their 30's at all when I was in my 20's, because they simply weren't around. Most of my 20's was spent overseas at various military bases. The only women I saw were around my age. Do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:05 PM
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Why are we bitching so much about this sub? Like I said in the last thread about this, I'd be interested to see how many high value men actually put up with the bullshit they promote on there. I just can't see their strategies working for anyone that isn't desperate for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:57 PM
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I disagree. I guess if all you did was work in some office and binged on netflix/social media all day then maybe you haven't matured. However, most people collect life experiences as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:58 AM
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Honestly, I'd be interested to see how many "high value" men actually put up with the bullshit they promote on there. The top sticky on "How to never pay for a date" is basically just telling women look as good as they can and be as pleasant as possible. Eating dinner with a plastic doll that auto-laughs at my jokes doesn't sound like something I'd want to pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:40 PM
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No, because I'm not red pilled. If that's what they say then you shouldn't be taking them seriously anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:26 PM
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Eh, I'm kinda picky. Major turn offs would be drug use, codependency, and excessive hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:24 PM
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The sweeping generalizations, about both genders, never end on this sub. People aren't a hive mind and have different opinions on shit. The guys complaining about N count aren't the same guys that think women should fuck on the first date. How about you just do your own thing, and stop getting your panties in a twist based on what some random guy on the internet said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 04:21 PM
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I think you vastly overestimate the amount of guys that want to get with someone 10-20 years younger than them. Personally, I'd think it'd be creepy and weird to date someone that much younger, and then there's the fact that most of them are immature as hell. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 11:50 PM
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If they paid taxes on their earnings like everyone else, it'd be much less of an issue. Also, people are allowed to have an opinion. Asking people to not think less of you for selling your body for cash is unreasonable. Should gigolos and pick up artists demand to be respected as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:51 PM
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Fuck no. Adversity builds character, and I believe society is more unforgiving to men than women. Yes, men are taken more seriously than women. However, that is because more is expected of them in the first place. I want to be valued for my accomplishments instead of how pretty I am. I feel sympathy for women because they constantly have to fight against that stigma to get anything done, and I want no part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:17 AM
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Woman: Intelligent, ambitious, and loyal. Bonus points for being civil service minded. Relation: Marriage, with no ex-spouses or stepkids being brought in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:13 AM
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It's not a security thing, it's a respect thing. It's flat out disrespectful to your SO to put yourself on display like that. If my GF was doing that, I'd let her choose. She can continue to date me, or continue her "modeling."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 05:22 AM
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Who is buying all of those pictures? It's not like you can't find them for free all over the internet. Never understood why people bought them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:36 AM
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lol, hell fucking no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:33 AM
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It's 100% her fault, but if you need to target girls drunk out of her right mind to fuck you, then you got some problems that need addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 10:16 PM
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That sub is just the female version of r/braincells. Taking them seriously is a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 08:10 PM
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I hate to say it, but guys in that situation should probably be looking at divorce, if communication and counseling fail to work out the issue. Each partner is just going to end up resenting each other. Kids make this decision difficult, and you have to decide if it's worth staying for them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:18 PM
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"Evil men, why are you raping your wives???" Did I say that shit? Because I'm pretty sure I didn't. What I said was: ​ Why the hell are you trying to fuck someone that doesn't want to be fucked in the first place? Do you have no self control at all? Now with that cleared up, explain to me why you want to fuck someone that doesn't want to be fucked. Is it a lack of self control, like I assumed? Do you just not give a shit about other people? Or is it something else entirely? Please, enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:46 PM
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First of all, who would do that to their own brother? WTF is wrong with you people? As for the kid, they're now officially my niece/nephew... because they are. Kid gets to live with his real dad, and I'd file for divorce immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:23 PM
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Why the hell are you trying to fuck someone that doesn't want to be fucked in the first place? Do you have no self control at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:18 PM
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Moral of the story: if she doesn't initiate, then don't bother. It's probably going to be terrible anyway. I don't get why so many dudes are going to such ridiculous lengths for half-hearted sex. You might as well go visit a hooker at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 04:53 PM
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Yes, you can. Depending on others for validation is going to lead you to disappointment. Of course, it's all a matter of what's important to you. Some guys need a wife and kids to feel fulfilled, and some don't. On your deathbed, if you can look back over your life and think "Yeah, that was a good run." then you lived a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 04:43 PM
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OK, you're blocked now. You were either trolling or flat out retarded. Either way, congratulations for wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:05 PM
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There was no argument. You claimed that I noticed everyone providing for themselves or have been living under a rock. I gave evidence of me noticing that a lot of women weren't providing for themselves. I could also give evidence of not living under a rock if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:51 PM
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There's no way you haven't noticed, unless you've been under a rock for the past 30 years. Did you forget that you posted this 10 minutes ago? Or do you insult everyone that replies to your accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:59 PM
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So my un-employed inlaws (ALL women) are just a figment of my imagination? How about my friend that I bought groceries for so her kid could eat? I can count on one finger how many times I needed to financially help out a male. I've lost count on the number of females. I WISH I was living under a rock, but women continue to fail even the bare minimum of expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:55 PM
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And there are billions more that don't. Neither gender depends on the other. However, one gender is supposed to "provide" for the other, according to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:39 PM
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Didn't realize you were a femcel, abrams. Purge week is showing everyone in a new light. Btw: I know you're married. That doesn't stop you from acting like a femcel, and I'm surprised your "moid" puts up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:01 AM
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We need a global crisis to get people out of the bubbles they've surrounded themselves in. Like WWIII, a crazy ass plague, or another Great Depression. Something that makes most people unsure if they'll survive another week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 01:32 AM
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It's possible. Voting en masse would be far more dangerous IMO, but so few people vote these days. Politicians having to cater to incels to get votes would probably signal the start of The End Times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:12 AM
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How do I change my view of who I really am so I can accept it's not a clown act I'm putting on and it's not the act that women like, it's me? Here's the trick: you can't, because it's not you. It's just like making a lifestyle change to diet and exercise. Some people find it to be worth it, and some don't. You need to decide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:22 AM
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Have participated in war and killed people, though IDK if they were chads or not (didn't ask). I can't recommend it. Maybe I'm a closet bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:46 AM
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Though only real difference would probably have been that I never initiated anything intimate (because I didn't want to). She was still my GF, and a good person on top of that, so I treated her as well as I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:55 PM
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I actually tried that. Like really fucking tried for two years to date a woman I simply wasn't attracted to. She was great everywhere else, which is why I gave it a shot. It didn't work, though. I'm just not virtuous enough to date someone I feel no attraction for. I hope she met someone compatible with her, because she really wanted a family and she deserves one. But the answer to your question is no. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:34 PM
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LMAO. It's like if Dr. Seuss wrote the script for Desperate Housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:00 PM
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I've probably blocked half of them by now, but... Poppy would probably make a good drinking buddy. Atlas is at least consistent with her bullshit. Hellenic is batshit crazy, but provides sources for her insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:33 PM
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It's purge week. Expect to see what people really are when they take the masks off... and block them accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:28 PM
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I'm not talking about whispering sweet nothings in our ears. I'm talking about common decency that you would give any random stranger in real life. "Go die in a hole, you fat rapist!" is pretty vile and hateful IMO. Do you honestly believe the women here would act like this in real life if we were in a room talking about these same topics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:54 PM
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I think his point was that women on here act vile and hateful for no reason at all. He wants women here to treat men like they would teat a random stranger in real life. I suppose if you treat everyone in real life like you do here, then that's ok. Being a raging bitch just because you can get away with it just shows that you're a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:22 PM
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because men by default think they are all the hottest and most attractive person ever. There's an entire community about men that think they are too hideous to date. We make fun of them daily. Most people are trash. That includes men and women (who are just as entitled).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:42 PM
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And women do not automatically come off as cringey when they take them like it does with men. I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:23 PM
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Don't sit there and pretend that this shit doesn't happen all the fucking time. You're married so of course you don't care, but I wish I had a dollar for every time a black woman gave me shit for dating outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:21 PM
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I agree that mirror selfies look ridiculous. However, males aren't the gender are associated with selfies and women look just as stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:59 AM
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I'm not even MGTOW, but damn. Generalization much? This sub is such a hate filled cesspool, yet I can't stay away. Maybe something is wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:55 AM
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It's definitely letting me know who I should have blocked months ago. Keep spouting your bullshit, r/PurplePillDebate. Let me know who to weed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:25 PM
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I'd humor her throughout the date. When it was time to leave, I'd let her know that we weren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 11:23 PM
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Because most people are retarded, and that includes the redpilled ones. Damn near every "Why is [blank] group of people so [blank] ?" question can be answered with this sentence: Most people are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:20 PM
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Intelligence, Integrity, and Ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:14 PM
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lol,really? TIL That's not the unicorn I'm hunting, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:31 PM
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Don't how you determined that, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:28 PM
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Look for: A dude that married you. Avoid: Anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:27 PM
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There is no scenario "where I can't help myself" because I have this shit called Free Will. According to your edit you just don't think that's possible, so I don't know what to tell you. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:21 PM
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Teenagers are fucking annoying. Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:16 PM
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Because some people have nothing better to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:14 PM
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There's a stereotype that decent black men don't date black women. It's largely untrue, but prepare to get hate from black women if you date anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:55 PM
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My brother and sister in law beg to differ. Been married for over 11 years now. You guys need to stop living on the internet and go fucking live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:00 PM
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I'm black, so it'd be really awkward to refuse to date black women. That said, most aren't my type due to cultural differences. I typically go for asian girls, though brunettes are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:07 PM
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Posting on r/PurplePillDebate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:52 PM
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Europa Universalis 4, Victoria II, Crusader Kings II, ect. Basically any grand strategy game out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:42 PM
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Because none of those "world travelers" have been anywhere remotely interesting, nor can they hold a conversation about foreign countries. Guys don't put video games on their profiles because they know that no one gives a shit. Women somehow think their one trip to Cancun makes them "worldly" yet they couldn't find Ukraine, Hong Kong, or Iran on a map. Ironically: I can name the location of every country (past and present) and historical happenings of any region on the planet for the last 400ish…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:30 PM
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Idk... I've seen some hideous looking dudes strolling around with a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:41 PM
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Welcome to Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:39 PM
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No. The greatest thing we could do is make teenagers sit the fuck down, research some careers, and figure out exactly what they want to do with their life. Kids picking bullshit degrees that they can earn money with is only going to stop when they learn what is waiting for them after college. If your kid leaves home without knowing what they want to do with their life, and a rough idea of how that life will turn out, you're a bad parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:35 PM
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Black, American, 32
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:28 PM
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Stop screeching and wait for your sex bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:26 PM
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I haven't heard one of her rants in awhile. Maybe she died/found a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:11 PM
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I'd gild you to spite you, but that's probably what you're going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:09 PM
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Way too much makeup. She looks likes she's made of plastic. 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:06 PM
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Question: are you virtuous only because God tells you to be? Are you a good person only to escape hellfire? Because if so, you're still a piece of shit. The right thing to do is the right thing to do, no matter what afterlife has in store for you. Laws only exist for the criminal pieces of filth that need them to be decent people, and religion is the same. Be virtuous on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:02 PM
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I thought I was the only black guy here. Where are these posts you're talking about? Were they getting purged before I saw them? Link a few, please. Also, people are remarkably similar regardless of demographic. Black women seem to like the same thing that white/asian/hispanic women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:18 PM
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My Unicorn Stacey: Literal Genius Civil Service Minded Tattoo Free
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:43 PM
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Problem is that those dudes aren't MGTOW. MGTOW is a decision, not a community. Once you make that decision, you move on with your life. The people in that subreddit are just people bitching about women, for various reasons, and named themselves MGTOW so they had something to call their group. It's easier to say than "Group Of Guys That Want To Vent About Women With Other Like-Minded People."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:28 PM
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I don't really give a shit what other people choose to do or not do. I have dating preferences, and if someone wants to date me, then they need to have certain traits. I make an effort to display the same traits that I am looking for, so I think it's a pretty reasonable expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:19 PM
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You're comparing apples to oranges. Example #3 of people bitching about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 12:39 PM
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Thanks. And to answer your question, I would pick just the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:24 PM
1

You, personally. I have a theory about this sub that I'm testing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:16 PM
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Counter question: how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:15 PM
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Obesity is usually a choice. Also, example #2 of people bitching about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:04 PM
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This subreddit is becoming more worthless everyday. Just people bitching about nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 11:51 AM
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I'm sure some do, for reasons that are completely beyond me, but most don't. That's like asking if Nazis envied Jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 10:06 PM
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Hell if I know. I never needed "emotional support" so far in 32 years of life, so I doubt I ever will. Honestly, it sounds like some made up BS for passive people to act like they're helping somehow. Sort of like "emotional labor" is doing a bunch of stuff that most men don't give two shits about, then complaining that you did it. If you want to provide "emotional support" then just let him solve his own problems. It might take him some time, but he'll get there and he'll be all the happier that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:58 AM
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Yes. That's like #1 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:19 PM
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I regret my second enlistment, some financial decisions, and waiting so long to find a purpose for my life. The best thing you can do is consider what caused your regrets and focus on not repeating the same mistakes. This is harder to do than it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:50 PM
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It seems pretty accurate to me. When I looked up my type, I was amazed on how much of the personality explanation fit me. Maybe some people don't fit into a category, but it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:43 PM
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The idea of slut shamming is ridiculous. You can't stop people from having an opinion, no matter how hard you try to fight it. If someone thinks you're a slut, yelling at them doesn't suddenly change their outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:40 PM
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If you want a high value person, you should probably be high value your self. If you're not there yet, then "fixing yourself" is probably the right call. This goes for both genders. You don't deserve anything that you can't offer yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 08:40 PM
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Just lift bro, and remember to be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 08:19 PM
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They affected my views greatly. My parents, grandparents, and great grandparents (can't confirm beyond that) only got married one time, to each other, and never divorced. I have no intention of doing anything different. I think people are way too quick to get married in modern society, and don't vet properly. Pretty much 90% of people are not really compatible with any given person for a long term marriage, and it shows up in the divorce rates. If I came from a single/divorced parent household, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 08:05 PM
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The point was that maybe those women should consider providing for themselves, instead of being a drain on society. If everyone was a gold digger, we'd still be living in caves. Keep blaming men for all your problems though, since you obviously don't give a shit about women doing anything productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:21 PM
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Really? That's your response? This dude accused your entire gender of being nothing but parasites and your reply is "Yeah, so what?!" OK... all credibility lost, then. Guess you have nothing of value to contribute on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 08:23 AM
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r/TheBluePill is just a bunch of people that reject r/TheRedPill for whatever reason. So a blue pill man is just a man that rejects red pill ideology for whatever reason. There is no defining trait for them other than [rejects red pill].
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:54 AM
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Flirting at work is unprofessional, full stop. That said, not engaging in small talk at all is a bit weird. Establishing good work relationships with your coworkers requires more than only talking about work related stuff. You don't have to be BFFs, but at least try to hold a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:48 AM
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I frequent this sub a lot, and I'm pretty sure I've never made any of those statements. There are a few men that do make them over and over again, but I don't think that most male users do. You're arguing against a narrative that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:27 AM
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I'm pretty judgmental, and judge everyone I encounter. I've learned to not say most of it out loud, but I'm sure prospective partners can read it in my body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:23 AM
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Sounds like trolling to me. Good day to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:35 PM
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I'll give you a 3/10 on your troll post. If you're actually being serious, then I have no idea how you got that I was complaining about women. I'd love to hear the mental gymnastics behind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:26 PM
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What i'm trying to say is....for men there is no way around putting in the work to become attractive, if they wish to be sexually desired by women and not a walking ATM This is true, which is why many more people are just opting out of dating. You can be "yourself" or be "what women want". After several relationships, I've realized that it is not remotely worth it to make myself miserable being someone I am not. The only thing I've retained from my past dating life is working out, because being …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:00 PM
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I've gone up to 8 months without seeing my SO. Some people have jobs that take them overseas for long periods of time (and electronic communication is not always permitted). I'm not a needy person, so I guess my answer would be a couple of years at max. If I'm being entirely honest I'd have to say no more than a few hours. That's not healthy. You might have attachment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:46 PM
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Most of the people on this sub are probably teenagers and early 20's. They'll think anyone over 25 is ancient.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:42 PM
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TRP works, it's just not compatible with me. Since I'm not all that interested in sex, I have no use for tips on how to get random women to sleep with me. All of my ex-gfs have been higher libido than me, and it's always been a factor in the breakup. Because I never tried to initiate sex, they thought I was cheating on them. Then when they realized that I wasn't cheating, they thought that I was disgusted by them somehow. My last gf had a good old fashioned nervous breakdown over it. If I do dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:39 PM
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Not really considering it, but things may just end up that way. I'm done compromising in relationships. I want to be "me" instead of just what women find attractive. Plus I have placed other things in a higher priority than being in a relationship. If that means I die alone, then so be it. TRP is full of bullshit pseudo-science, but credit where it's due. TRP fucking works. It's just self serving as fuck, and also not "me." I don't want to have a IDGAF attitude, because I actually like giving a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:16 AM
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Absolutely not. Adversity builds character. I firmly believe men have worse "struggles" than women, but they become all the stronger for it. Either learn to defend yourself, or get your ass beat/killed. Either learn to provide for yourself, or get left behind by society. No one is coming to save you, because no one should need to. Stand on your own two feet, or fail and put a bullet in your mouth like everyone else who couldn't hack it. I wouldn't change that for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:55 AM
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The only way to prove you are down for the long haul is with time. If she's the one you really want, then the wait is worth it. If she's not... then why are you dating her? Break up, and keep looking. There is nothing you can say to ease her fears, so don't even try. Just be patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:36 AM
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You did good. Don't listen to these people that said you should have fucked her. It's not like you get any tangible benefit from sex, other than the act itself. Though I agree that you shouldn't date. I don't like dating needy people, but your SO should be at least a somewhat high priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:17 AM
2

I was about to reply with a yes. It's definitely the ideal, but after thinking about it... no. None of my girlfriends started out as friends first, and I don't know a single couple that started out that way. That tells me that the chances of a 'friends-first' relationship starting at all are pretty low. If a relationship based on this somehow does manage to happen, then it'd probably be the most stable relationship possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:45 AM
1

Then that's a woman who isn't very self conscious, and I'd dump her anyway. I don't have time for stupid games. If she's like that, then she needs to spend some time figuring herself out before looking to add someone else into her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:25 AM
1

I'd care about both. If she treated her past boyfriends better, then that means she has the capacity to treat me well but is deliberately choosing not to for whatever reason. Depending on that reason, she's about to get dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:16 AM
1

If he has poor boundaries then he deserves it. Maybe he'll learn the hard way and have a spine in the next relationship. I'm just saying that it's unreasonable to expect people to put up with bullshit. A girl treating a guy worse than her past boyfriends is a girl that should be prepared to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:11 AM
1

The only possible way to make it fair would be to change the male (or female) sex drive somehow. If men wanted women as much as women wanted men, everything would be pretty equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:08 AM
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You can't stop people from having an opinion. If it bothers you that much, then you probably agree with them on some level. Also, don't expect a guy to stick around if you treat him worse than your past relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:03 AM
2

It depends on what the guy wants out of life. I sure as fuck don't want to "spin plates" all my life. That shit sounds stupid. There is no blanket "all men should do XYZ to be happy" because people are individuals. Also, people that actually went MGTOW don't talk about it, because MGTOW isn't a fucking community. It's a decision. Once you make it, you move on with your life instead of sitting around talking about the decision you just made. The people in r/MGTOW are just a bunch of delusional in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:45 AM
0

When I was in the military, every retirement ceremony I ever attended had the wife come stand before the commanding officer and receive an award for "Supporting" her husband. The CO would state something like "the only reasons Sergeant Major XXX could do what he did was because his wife was supporting him at home while we was gone." Every time, I would think how bullshit that was. I spent 90% of my two enlistments as single. So all those deployments, how did I manage to function? Was my xbox hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:29 AM
1

Nice people just are. If people are being nice to get some sort of benefit, then they're not being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:51 PM
1

My point is that people have different goals in life than just “hurr durr bang a lot of pussy.” An research job (not janitorial) working in space exploration is pretty much end game for me, to the point where I’d figure out how to make ends meet with some side hustles if I had to. Id live out of my car in the damn parking lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:31 PM
1

They don’t, but you don’t be a decent human being to to get anything at all. That’s missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:02 PM
8

It depends on the work. If NASA offered me a job, I’d work for free. Being nice to get sex is fine and all, but you’re not actually nice, so don’t pretend that you are. I understand that being a decent human being is looked down upon these days, but not everyone is a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:24 PM
8

Some people value respect, and some people don’t. Neither is better than the other, and you can’t really convince people to switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:30 PM
10

I end up usually having sex on the 1st/2nd date and losing interest in the girl because it was that easy and I feel she would make bad ltr material. So you push for something, and when you get it, you lose interest because she gave it to you? Dating culture is really toxic for early 20's I guess. You're deliberately making it toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:52 AM
8

I've never once asked for sex in my life, and it gets handed out anyway. I assure you I'm no 9/10. Women aren't some hivemind that all think and act the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:48 AM
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Absolutely not. If that was actually the case, then I'd rather just stay single. I'm just not into casual sex. If she is DTF on the first date, then we simply aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:29 AM
1

It's about women's general interest, not their amount of participation. I've yet to meet a woman who was even the slightest bit interested in computers, but have met many who had vested interest in the president.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:17 AM
7

It is low status, in regards to attractiveness. Many guys with STEM careers will leave that off of their dating profile, because they get less matches with it on. Firefighters are considered pretty sexy, as is being President (a democrat one).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:53 PM
9

There's different hierarchies, which all depend on a particular man's values. To one man, a Navy SEAL is higher than a CEO. A different man would reverse that. A third man would put a gigolo with a harem of women over both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:49 PM
1

The price is more for the hardware and labor that goes into them (which is way more than twice as much as previous generations of game). If they're worth the cost is up for debate by most gamers. All my favorite games cost less than $25.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 10:05 PM
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I can guarantee that there are things you would pay $100 for that I would find ridiculous. How people spend their money is up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:51 PM
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Look, either stop being disingenuous, or find someone else to rant at. You know what the fuck I meant. I was reluctant to even bother replying, because you have proven time and again to refuse even consider a counter argument to what you claim. This is a debate sub. If you're not here to actually debate, then go to r/gendercritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:17 PM
2

I wouldn't ask, but I can't say that I wouldn't be affected. I'm not into casual sex, so I'd have a hard time relating to a woman who participated in that a lot. I also have an extremely negative view of cheating, so I can't see myself dating a woman who cheated. A woman attempting to cheat with me would be in for a pretty rude awakening, and she'd better pray that I didn't know her boyfriend's phone number.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:50 PM
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Video games are low status because most women find them uninteresting. Sitting around watching Netflix is pretty much the same thing, yet that is not low status because women do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:44 PM
9

Try this for an experiment: make a fake male dating profile, target "normal" women, and act like you think a guy should act. Report back your findings. I think you are just unable to see the other side of things. You continually make the same posts, and refuse to listen to any valid argument that that goes against your preconceived narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 07:12 PM
1

Sure it is. More choices are always a good thing. It's not like they have to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:56 PM
1

Probably. I don't know the actual statistics on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:22 PM
1

While women are choosier today, men are not. Male thirst hasn't changed in thousands of years, so many guys see dating as a double standard. If that's a good or bad thing is also a topic that this subreddit argues about daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:37 AM
1

or at least the drive to work hard and obtain them You know... like people on TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:35 AM
2

The fact that you think I'm advocating for that is hilarious. I swear people jump to conclusions in this subreddit even worse than r/politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:34 AM
1

I think it's a net positive. The guys with the most attractive qualities, or at least the drive to work hard and obtain them, will be the ones to pass on their genes. At the same time, we're moving towards an age where we need more guys with "beta" type qualities than traditionally attractive qualities. I want those neckbeards to keep making my smartphones, designing my software, and starting indie game companies. Unfortunately, I think they're going to die out in a few generations. Maybe women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:47 PM
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It's all of the above. ​ Women don't have to rely on men anymore, so they select higher. They only choose men they want, not just men they need. Thus, men have to put in more effort than ever before to qualify as desirable. If that's a good thing or bad thing is a topic that this subreddit argues about daily. While women are choosier today, men are not. Male thirst hasn't changed in thousands of years, so many guys see dating as a double standard. If that's a good or bad thing is also a topic th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:26 PM
1

I also think men should focus on other things, but your lack of empathy is disturbing. Do you honestly believe there is no possible way for a guy not to be able to find anyone without some critical flaw? That if he tries to be a decent person and still is lonely, then there is *something* wrong with him, that he needs to fix? There's many men out there who just want to settle down and build a family. There not looking to sleep around. They're not only going for supermodels. They just want a norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:02 PM
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This got brought up earlier today. Answer remains the same: People tend to place more value on things they can't have, or at least things they couldn't have at one point in life. Guys show up at TRP because they have issues with women for whatever reason. Even if they are fucking a different woman every night now, they started out not being able to get anything at all. Therefore, sex is very important to red pilled guys. It will always be very important. Since it is important to them, they apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:30 AM
1

I'm pretty sure you're allowed to drink on your own lawn. And I added an edit to my original statement about that. I think breaking the law, simply because you want to, is selfish. If you disagree with a law, then change the law. You have an entire branch of government collecting paychecks straight from your wallet, and their sole purpose is making new laws and changing old ones. Make them do their jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:08 AM
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Why do you care so much about their career aspirations? That's what I value the most. Some guys value sex the most. That's why you get people talking about N-counts. I value personal achievement the most, so I like women with career aspirations. It's just personal preference. Why is a nurse worth less than an engineer? They're not worth less. They just don't impress me as much. For what it's worth, I'm more impressed by a woman who got her M.D. than one who became a successful engineer. Are you …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 03:54 AM
1

The statement in bold made it seem that way. I hold it in high regard because that's how society functions. You're unlikely to get murdered tonight because of the harsh penalties for doing so, for example. The law is basically an agreement of rules that everyone in a specific country agrees to abide by. It's not perfect but the alternative would set us back thousands of years. Honestly, I'm surprised how little people here care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 01:53 AM
1

Because guys don't instantly master it. They're going to fuck it up a few times at first, and it's pretty cringeworthy. Women have to put up with all the dudes making an ass out of themselves. I'm sure that has to get old pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:46 AM
2

I think the whole Alpha vs Beta thing is retarded, but people tend to place more value on things they can't have, or at least things they couldn't have at one point in life. Guys show up at TRP because they have issues with women for whatever reason. Even if they are fucking a different woman every night now, they started out not being able to get anything at all. Therefore, sex is very important to red pilled guys. It will always be very important. Since it is important to them, they apply that…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:27 AM
2

I started dating when I was 16, and I think my longest time being single was around 5 years (I'm 32 now). I didn't really care, as I was constantly traveling and couldn't have dated even if I wanted to. I get what you mean, about people being offended that you're single. I've only been single for three years now, and I think this entire town is conspiring to set me up. Friends, family, acquaintances, and even my fucking boss is pointing women my way. I've lost count the amount of times I've had …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:42 PM
1

Spoiler if she’s that into you she will Oh? Pretty sure the OP stated that she wasn't like that. So she's either lying or delusional, according to that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:02 PM
1

Women find experienced men more desirable.Preselection is crucial to female sexuality. That sounds like some incel shit, and I'm going to need to some sources for that. Actual collected data, a case study, or even a few women coming forward on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:19 PM
2

For a man having a high n count is a desirable trait,it makes him more attractive. Desirable for whom, women or other men? I've never heard of a woman that said she specifically wanted a promiscuous man (If there are any women in this sub who actually do, please speak up). N-count is a guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:58 PM
1

It is unreasonable because that's asking for someone with a trait that you yourself are unwilling to possess. Men (and women, but I've never heard a woman say that) who argue against the above point are being unreasonable, and thus should not be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:46 PM
1

Why? Which part of that are you asking about? There were two different parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:29 PM
2

Oh? Our justice system really needs an overhaul. Its stuff like that which makes people answer yes to question 1. Still, if a law is stupid (like that one) then the law needs to be changed, instead of people just ignoring it and saying #yolofuckthepolice. Blind adherence to the law just for the sake of it being the law is pointless. However, most laws exist for a reason and breaking them just because you want to is flat out irresponsible. Of course there are exceptions, like a tyrannical dictato…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:52 PM
1

I wouldn't let any woman I wasn't dating suck my dick, and I wouldn't date a woman who was willing to break the law just because she was horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:43 PM
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For the average and/or above-average looking low-libido woman who is able to lock down an average or man (like a man in the top 40%, may or may not be in that top 20% threshold), what should she do? And to what extent do you expect her to be able to, or even willing to, sacrifice her own happiness to safisfy the ego and sexual needs of a man? Do you think it'd be "good" for the women starring in DBs to just divorce their husbands, stay single forever and just raise their kids using his money (an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:40 PM
1

INxP, last time I checked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:21 PM
1

Based on your own replies to the OP's questions, the feeling is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:03 PM
3

Whatever dude. I'd bet money if we stacked up the things I've done with my life with what you've done with yours, most people would pick me as the "alpha." I'm not going to argue on the internet with someone that actually feels they need to flex on Reddit though. You win, I'm a little betabux soiboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:27 PM
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I don't hate women, I'm just disappointed by vast majority of them. Life has been shitty for women for thousands of years. All they could do was cook and clean and slave away for some possibly abusive husband. Now, *finally* women in western countries are able to make their own decisions. They can now choose their own fate. And what do they do with their hard fought freedom? Jack shit. Not once in my life have I met a woman that had any real ambition for herself. Never have I met any female aspi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:18 PM
1

Then go ahead and do so. It's your life. You're entitled to live it however you want. But so am I. And IF my opinion bothers someone, then maybe they should take a moment to consider why they are bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:34 PM
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Those are cherry picked videos, but they are still pretty bad. I'm surprised that first video was even allowed to be aired on T.V. Yes, there is a double standard. No, there is nothing that can be done about it unless all men stop being so fucking thirsty for vagina. That will never happen, so get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:18 PM
1

I'm sorry that I value not breaking the law. If I pretend to change my mind, will that make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:45 PM
1

Some people think that just wanting to be a happy is a waste of a life. Some people have ambitions. If someone convinced me the only thing I would ever achieve with my life is being happy, I'd off myself today. Some people derive that happiness in life from standing out, some don't. Whichever way it's better to try and live as you want while your alive. Now this, I can agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 12:28 PM
1

I like them if they are legal, I guess. Where the hell are blowjobs illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:56 AM
1

Yes. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:46 AM
1

Do you prefer a partner who doesnt see law as an extention of morality and is comfortable breaking rules they dont agree with (victimless crimes/low risk situations only)? No Do you like the mindset that questions and challenges moral norms that are considered established (if they dont believe anything that really violates your own moral.codex)? Yes Do you get annoyed by people who obey every rule, whether its health advice or some location specific rules that might not make sense or can be avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:12 AM
2

Congrats. You broke the system. Maybe one day more men will figure this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:13 AM
1

Well... according to the fetish graph in the other thread, it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:21 AM
9

You're right, and it's fucking annoying. I'd be much more interested in a new movie featuring a female spy if she was her own person, instead of "female James Bond". It could have even been in the same setting, and she's Agent 009 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:22 PM
9

TIL: women are into some crazy shit. Edit: after looking up what pegging was.... no. Men are still far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:07 PM
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I agree with almost everything you said, except for one thing which is a pet peeve of mine. This crap about hobbies. Hobbies are meant to be something someone does on their own free time, purely for their own enjoyment. Who are you to say what is an acceptable hobby, and what is not? Guys should just pretend to enjoy some bullshit activity because it gets them laid? Also, not all videogames are unproductive. I've taken college courses in world history, geography, and economics. None of those cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:20 PM
1

You’re either being disingenuous, or just flat out trolling. Either way, I’d give you an A for effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 04:32 PM
2

Is it unhealthy to need someone emotionally? I think it is, but many would disagree. Could you feel loved by a woman who didn't need you? That's the only type of woman I would even consider dating. Do I seem like a cold hearted bitch? No. You seem to have the same mentality I do about dating. When you are in love, do you feel that you NEED that woman? No. I could never love a woman I didn't respect. And I mean actual respect, not common courtesy (that people somehow confused respect for). Being …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:56 AM
2

lol, who told you that? I've been to five different countries in East Asia (Japan, South Korea, Philippines, Thailand, Ryukyu Islands) and encountered the same thing every time. Maybe some of the other countries do, though. I can't speak for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:25 AM
3

Oh? This should be good. Let me get some popcorn. Edit: I expected some mental gymnastics stating why men should enslave themselves. I was wrong. The only thing this article says is that women develop more health problems while in relationships. I asked for actual benefits for men to get married. This article does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:47 PM
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(hint: marriage benefits men more than women) I'd love to hear how being someone's personal workhorse is a benefit. Women don't have to be housewives anymore, so don't criticize men for not wanting to be providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:11 PM
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I find it hilarious how utterly offensive it is for men to make a choice that puts their own benefits first, and I'm not even red pilled. How fucking dare men not put women first! Maybe if I found a woman who was worth it, I would consider doing all that. Unfortunately, most people are absolute garbage and that includes the ones with ovaries. I'll contribute to society through my career and tax money, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 09:44 PM
2

Other men see it as throwing your life away. My brother married a woman who already had two kids by two different fathers, and was pregnant with a third (by a third different dude). He went and married her anyway, and surprise surprise, she ruined his life. Had to leave the military after 11 years of service, gave her his free education and she wasted it on a goddamn psychology degree, and now he won't even speak to our parents (or let them see their grandkids) because she and my mom had an argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:00 PM
4

100% of your time and money goes to you. You can do whatever you like, whenever you like. You can completely be yourself at home. You have guaranteed time away from people everyday. It's probably less appealing to extroverts, but many people appreciate those benefits. I certainly wouldn't give them up for just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:41 PM
0

You're absolutely right, but good luck getting a sub like this to admit it. Everything in r/PurplePillDebate is absolutes. You're either Chad or an incel. There is no in between here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:33 PM
6

OMG yes. Being a black dude in Japan is goddamn amazing. Women will straight up fight over you. Like physically fight. You can date any women you want. The bars and clubs fight over you too. You get bigger discounts to get in than the women do, and some will even waive the entry fee entirely. Please note: the entry fee is mostly to cover the free drink list, that remains open the entire night (most clubs close around 6AM). So yes, that means you can drink for free for like 8 hours straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:14 PM
1

Whoa. That's actually a thing. We should put a link to it in the sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:22 PM
7

I'm glad someone is asking the real questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:33 PM
1

This post makes me wonder... Should there be a TRP for homosexual men? Do homosexual men even need something like that? Heterosexual men have vastly different tastes in women, so I would assume that homosexual men have vastly different tastes in men. Maybe there could be a version of TRP that would explain how to seduce the majority of homosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:21 PM
42

More people saying "fuck it" and opting out. Not that whinny MGTOW shit, but people actually just ignoring relationships and doing their own thing. I have no idea how to fix this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:39 PM
1

Yes. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:58 PM
1

I meant if I don't do those things, we're not seeing each other at all. I don't half-ass shit. And yes, any guy you're seeing who doesn't do those things just wants to bang you and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:53 PM
1

In a perfect world, this is the best advice. However, people are flawed and often want someone either out of their league, or with different interests than them. This advice will probably just lead to people getting fed up with dating. Kind of like what’s going on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:24 AM
1

I would do those things anyway if I was really interested in someone. However, I don't take kindly to demands. Being single is not nearly bad enough to put up with demands from any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:00 AM
3

Visualize the kind of person you want, and the locations where they are likely to be found at. Now go to the places and meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 01:57 AM
2

Like everything else in life, it's situational. If that's all a particular woman is a good for, then that's all he wants. If every single relationship you've been in is just the dude wanting to bang you and that's it... then take a long look in the mirror. What do you bring to the table? Do you have interesting stories or hobbies? Can you spark an intellectual conversation without involving netflix or social media? How many times has a guy been excited to do an activity that you thought of? Basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 01:41 AM
3

Link doesn't work for me. Not every dude is a thirsty as Reddit makes them out to be. I'd even argue that most guys aren't. Most guys on Reddit probably are, which probably distorts the viewpoint of people in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:27 AM
1

How big of a thing is instagram modeling? I've heard the term a few times, but don't have instagram. It kind of sounds like softcore porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:17 AM
1

Different values. I'm a traditionalist prude, and think that sleeping around is icky. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:15 AM
0

Hold on, let me get some popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 02:07 AM
1

I wasn't going to reply, as I don't think you're willing to change your mind on this. But hear me out one more time, or not. A lot of people said that the cops WANTED to kill that dude, and were just waiting for the chance. I don't see it that way. They we're getting another set of cuffs for him, and the one with the bodycam said to his partner "ok, we're gonna do this again, just like with the girl." Even though they warned to shoot him if he put his arms down again, they didn't. They only open…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:24 AM
1

I have no stake in this, for either side, so keep your assumptions to yourself. If you can't look at this objectively, then we're done here. Cop told Daniel to put his hands on is head and put his face into the floor (which he did) while they secured the girl. This is standard procedure. If you noticed, they told the girl to do the exact same thing that they would later tell Daniel to do. She followed instructions and was taken into custody. No where in the video does it seem confusing to me on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:25 PM
1

I don't see where you're getting that from. Watched the video again just to make sure, and no, it all seems to be the standard commands given. Keep your ankles crossed, keep your hands straight in the air, and don't put your hands near the small of your back. What seems like it'd be confusing to you? Point out an example or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 10:03 PM
1

Calm yourself, if you want to debate with me. There is no other reason for the cop to have given those commands. Having a suspect disarm themselves, cross their legs, and keep their hands visible at all times is standard operating procedure. Fucker should have his limbs torn off one by one and be left to bleed out. Eye for a motherfucking eye. Having his limbs torn off would not be eye for an eye. Him getting shot multiple times would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:16 PM
1

I'd love to hear your (logical) reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:00 PM
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I'm 32. My limits are five years younger and five years older. Every time I dated outside those limits was a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:56 PM
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Society doesn't pay my bills, so society doesn't get a say in how I live my life. That said, no way in hell I'd date a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 08:50 PM
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If someone puts their hands on you, you have every right to put your hands on them. Gender is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:13 PM
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Middle aged people generally don't want to date really young people. Not if they want to keep their sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:10 PM
1

Didn't someone post this same thing yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:06 PM
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Cop: So you're not too drunk to understand my commands, are you? So there won't be any problems with that? Daniel: No Sir. *After Daniel fucks up a couple of times* Cop: Keep your hands straight in the air, do not put them down for any reason. If you're going to fall, you better fall on your face. If you bring your hands to the small of your back again, I will shoot you. Daniel: *puts his arms down ten seconds later, and brings his hand to the small of his back* ​ It's pretty cut and dry. Do wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:45 PM
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Hi! Don't let these peasants know about the tabletop club. They're not cool enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 08:37 PM
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I tried it for a few weeks, and matched with literally no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 01:33 PM
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Besides looks Every answer is about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 01:27 PM
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That's an amazing quote, which I will shamelessly steal. I'll give you credit, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 01:12 PM
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Would you be fine with a woman loving you for how you make her feel, your status, money, whatever it is? I thought I was. I dated a girl who was with me simply because of my status, and to a lesser extent, money. After a few years, I eventually grew resentful and dumped her. I will never make that mistake again. None of my friends / acquaintances know of my family's history or wealth. What is "you"? Like what part of yourself do you want to be appreciated exactly? That... is difficult to answer.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 12:57 PM
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I'm content with my lifestyle. I had my fun in my 20's. Been around the world a few times, and hooked up in a dozen different countries. Women are the same everywhere, they want to be entertained. If you can do that and look halfway decent, you get laid. That shit is draining though, and now I'm living for me. Unless you believe in reincarnation, we only have one life to live. I have shit I need to do with mine, and that's what I'm focused on now. I haven't completely put off dating, but there b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 12:43 AM
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Women have value, and men don't. It's been that way for thousands of years. Why are you surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:42 PM
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What he needs to do, is focus on himself for awhile, not women. Women are making him miserable, so he should probably get way from them for awhile. I've been where he is. My ex-fiance cheated on me (and she was the one that proposed) and it fucked me up pretty good. I ended up joining the military to sort myself out, and it was the best decision I ever made. I'm not saying he has to do something so drastic, but maybe take a roadtrip or extended vacation somewhere. Let him focus on something else…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 10:25 PM
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Men don't have any intrinsic value. A man is absolutely worthless until he proves otherwise. That's just how society works. Deal with it... or not. You, as a male, will not be missed. Before you get all pissy, women have exactly the opposite problem. They only have intrinsic value. It doesn't matter what she does, for good or ill. She's just a woman. ​ Personally, I find myself grateful to have been born a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:49 PM
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Dude failed to comply. That's what happens when you don't comply. I do agree that creep/slut shaming gets taken WAY too far, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:37 PM
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What kinda woman do you want? A reasonably intelligent, physically fit, childless, non smoking woman with her own life goals to achieve. And then, what about you might attract that type of woman. Being a reasonably intelligent, physically fit, childless, non smoking man with his own life goals to achieve. I think that's fair. And if it's not, too bad. Those life goals are my priority, and being single is kind of nice. Also, RP's AWALT refers to subconscious preferences that female humans have as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:06 AM
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Because they are not average. It might seem different on Reddit, but Reddit is not a good representation of average society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:50 PM
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Wrong. They get noticed, and discarded. Those women you're referring to are the ones that put little to no effort in to make themselves attractive. It's unreasonable to expect someone busting their ass to appear attractive (both women and men) to settle for someone who is not doing so. I've known plenty of nerdy women who put effort in to be attractive, and every single one, without exception, is happily married. But that's not the point I was making. My point was what the average woman finds at…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:32 PM
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I depends on the guy. Some are really into it, and others don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:17 PM
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Examples: introverted men passive men men that have weird hobbies men that enjoy being kind/polite to others men that show their emotions None of those traits are sexy to the average woman. Maybe women say they are, but they certainly do respond to them. Yes, it's quite easy to put on a fake personality, do the dance, and get a date/sex (at least it is for non-incels). Some guys would rather read a book than go the gym. Some guys would rather watch a documentary about cool shit like how the univ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:49 PM
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It is around here (eastern NC).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:29 PM
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Depends on your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:53 PM
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I learned through trial and error, like most guys, what works and what doesn't. Being 'yourself' does not work if you're not naturally a certain personality. I'm not talking about neuroses and insecurities. I'm talking about what you believe in, how you treat people, and what motivates you to get out of bed every day. If those don't fit a certain mold, most women will lose interest regardless of what you look like. Personally, I had my fun in my 20's and now I'm over it. I quite like 'me' and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:29 PM
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Obesity, piercings anywhere other than her goddamn ears, excessive amount of tattoos, and smoking. So about 95% of women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:13 PM
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Not every woman is like that, but they're so rare that it's pretty much irrelevant. The less you seem to care, the more appealing you are. It's fucking bullshit, but that's just how reality is. Finding the right mix of 'give a shit' is essential for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:21 PM
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Tinder is a waste of time for most guys. If you really want to meet someone, go out and find them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 07:18 PM
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This is true, which is why dating is such bullshit. Be happy, or get laid. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 07:15 PM
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After reading some of these comments, I'm even more convinced that some of of the people in this sub are either autistic or delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:44 AM
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They become incels and go on murder sprees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:51 PM
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No. Not because it's her fault, but because I'm not into that type of bullshit drama. I'll find someone that's not subjected to blackmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:50 PM
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I'd rather just adopt a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:36 AM
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Guys that tolerate that shit deserve what they get. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Next them (yes, that includes divorce), and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:14 AM
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Would you find it humiliating? This. I'd rather just live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:06 PM
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If your only goal in life is to get your dick wet, then I guess. Yes, the power in the relationship lies with whoever cares the least. I think it'd be goddamn annoying to have to deal with 4 relationships at a time, though. And most people tend to want to build families eventually. Are you gonna run 4 different households?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:57 AM
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Because after a certain age, it's creepy and gross? Though young women (and young men) are kind of annoying. They lack life experience, and interesting stories to share. Expecting anything more than a walking Facebook feed will lead to disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:29 AM
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I'd argue that the material conditions are even more favoring male traits. Have you ever heard of the term "Men are interested in things, Women are interested in people"? In western society that is very much the case. "Male" traits are better suited for things like engineering, software development, business management, investment banking, ect. Those jobs require either analytical skills, assertiveness, decisiveness, or some combination of the three. Automation is taking over many aspects of soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:03 PM
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Most of the benefits you're talking about are because of technology. Technology invented by men, btw. Also, the only reason people can even afford to be against violence, is because others are performing violence on their behalf. There's a reason people don't just break into your place and walk off with your stuff, and it's not because of feminization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 09:38 PM
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That's the point. If your thought processes resemble what u/kandyapplez wrote, don't expect people to take you seriously. She sounds pretty young, so I doubt I would anyway. Though a lot of women users here lost their credibility for future posts if half of these replies are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 09:25 PM
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Wrong. I've dated plenty of women and asked out exactly zero of them. Nor have I ever asked for sex, but it gets handed out anyway. Chasing is an annoying waste of time, and I have better shit to do than play stupid games. I'll agree that many men enjoy it, but many men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:18 PM
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And women complain that men don't take them seriously. Ya'll do it to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:49 PM
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It's hilarious how many hoops men have to jump through just to be worthy enough to date. Women got the shit end of the stick with most things in society, but in the dating world their entitlement is awe inspiring. Imagine if I threw out a list of personality traits you had to embody just to date some guy. Every time I visit this subreddit, I am constantly reminded of why dating just isn't worth it. Fuck it, I'll just adopt a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:22 PM
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That's goddamn hilarious. I lived there for seven years as a black dude and it's pretty much the exact opposite. For whatever reason, Japanese girls love black guys. You get bigger discounts to get into some clubs than women do, and can pretty much date any girl you want. I'm assuming that's what it'd be like to be a western woman in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:05 PM
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Male I don't do casual sex. I'd only fuck someone I was dating for awhile, and only when she asked for it. There's plenty of things I'd rather be doing than banging some random skank.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:20 PM
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I mean, I slut shame everyone. Men and women. Equally for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 01:26 AM
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Most people are shit. Women are people with vaginas. Women don't like to be told that they are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 05:03 PM
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I don't do one night stands, so... yeah. I don't date girls I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:54 PM
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Zero Because I'm a boring traditionalist prude. Also because my libido is non-existent so I don't have sex for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:35 PM
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Here's your top 20% trophy. 5,000 internet points. That's for adding so much to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:07 PM
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You combined methods 1 and 3. It worked, and I'm happy for you, but you didn't actually change the game. Women are still sifting through hundreds of "candidates" who will happily dance for their amusement. This isn't about to change, nor do I think it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 04:03 PM
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Like someone else said, you can't change the game. Women have the power in dating, and always will. You can only change how you play. There's only three real options: Suck it up and dance the dance. Walk away (real MGTOW, not the incels in denial on reddit) Take your chances and try to have some standards. (low success chance, but worth it if it works)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 03:47 PM
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Sorry, but it's just gross. Simple as that. If you met some dudes that didn't care, then good for you. Go marry them, and stop trying to argue the equivalent of 'fat is beautiful'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:26 AM
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Absolutely not. My lack of a high sex drive prevents your second question from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:12 AM
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Shouldn't have been needed, but this is Reddit. Common sense doesn't apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:23 PM
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How dense to you have to be to not realize my reply was a fucking joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:16 PM
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That's fine. There's nothing wrong with being sex positive. Many men just find it to be a huge turnoff. If women don't care, then good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:13 PM
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Disney told me you could lie about your gender when enlisting in the Chinese Army. Disney told me that lions and warthogs could be friends. Disney told me that two teenage girls was a fully functional form of government. Disney told me that a couple of coconuts was enough supplies to navigate the Pacific Ocean. Disney told me that an ex-stormtrooper with no additional training was capable of hitting targets with a blaster. ALL LIES
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:22 PM
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Why should single women be "disciplined" in who they sleep with, what's the underlying premise here? I suspect you're being disingenuous, but I'll bite. Most women don't want to be pumped an dumped. They want commitment. Most men don't want to LTR a high N count partner so it is to a woman's benefit to have few sexual partners, and be very selective about who they sleep with. Banging every hot stud that makes a pass at her is just going to make her dating life harder. It is to a man's benefit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:04 PM
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Obviously attraction matters, but N count is definitely a concern. No one is going to have an issue with a woman with a reasonable N count, but no one in their right mind is about to marry a woman who banged 100 dudes. That shit is fucking gross. It also highlights her lack of discipline and poor decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:19 PM
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You're either only talking to young guys, or desperately horny ones. People are different, and like different shit. I would bet reddit gold that my 10 is not the same as your 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 05:44 AM
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Be on the safe side and just assume they all are. It's closer to the truth than assuming that they all aren't. No one deserves respect until they earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 05:41 AM
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Because men don't give a shit about other men. Other men are just competition. If they fail, then good. Caring about your gender is a female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:19 AM
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I'm almost never in the mood for sex, but when I'm dating I do it to make her happy. And if I'm going to be having sex, it's going to be damn good sex. So I focus on making her orgasm hard and often. I don't fake being in the mood, but it's not like I'm scowling at her. All my ex-gf's were pretty honest when they wanted to fuck, because they knew I wouldn't initiate. A deadbedroom would upset me if it was causing problems, but otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 11:06 PM
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If you want kids, you kinda have to deal with at least one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 11:00 PM
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You're being disingenuous. Of course the father is a piece of shit. The woman also chose poorly, and r/MGTOW likes to point out when women choose poorly. If I went to r/TwoXChromosomes I could probably find some anti-male things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:56 AM
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It's a possibly viable option, if both people actually bring something to the table. If only one party benefits, then that's just entrapment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:59 PM
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I curse all the fucking time, just not around women. That's how I was raised. Many people are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:55 PM
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Recently, this sub has been so toxic I had to take a break and just ignore it for awhile. Definitely changed my view of women for the worse. I'm still in the middle of changing careers, so I'm not looking to date right now anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 06:57 PM
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More like 95/5 rule. Looks don't matter nearly as much as everything else for someone I'm willing to marry. Problem is that the 'everything else' gets neglected in favor of looking pretty. A 10/10 with no ambitions, no education, 3 kids and ton of debt isn't wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 02:00 AM
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Thus it requires MUCH more discipline for a man to keep his dick in his pants than it does for a woman to not hoe it up with every cock that throws itself her way (which is all day every day). Too bad. Either keep your pants on, or settle for an ex-slut when you finally want to settle down. Thirsty men (like yourself) are the cause of the situation that you're bitching about in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:01 PM
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The things is, you can't have your cake an eat it too. If you don't have the fucking discipline to keep your dick in your pants, then you don't deserve a woman who DOES have that discipline. End of discussion. The hypocrisy in this sub (from both genders) is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 04:55 PM
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It has declined, but it's not as bad a people make it out to be. The majority of my friends, family, and coworkers are happily married. A few are on marriage #2, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 12:53 PM
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So... your argument to practice the K sexual strategy that I mentioned and then have some extra children on the side, that just... exist, I guess. Yes, some sort of chance is better than nothing at all for those extra side-kids. Not very realistic, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:59 AM
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Just be honest, and let them know you're a slut up front. They'll show themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:54 AM
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No, you wouldn't. Because you're not there. You're busy fucking women instead of raising your kids. The ones who actually manage to make something of themselves will do in spite of you, not because of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:49 AM
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I'm an introvert and think a laycount of over 200 people is fucking disgusting. Yet women still ask me out for dates. I don't have to approach at all. Go figure. Introverted doesn't mean weak. It means that social situations drain your energy, as opposed to extroverts who gain energy from social situations. Also, simply spreading the most genes is an R type sexual strategy used by cockroaches, and houseflies. Humans instead use the K type strategy, which involves actually giving a shit about you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:40 AM
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Idk. There might be. Never met a woman that wanted to be an actual doctor in my entire life. Plenty of guys, though. Same with every other high demand field. I keep hearing about women aspiring to all kinds of awesome careers on the internet, so they're out there. Somewhere. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:17 AM
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Be his equal. If he is in shape, you'd better be too. If he has interesting things to say, you'd better have more to talk about than Netflix and celebrity gossip. If he has a good life trajectory, then you'd better have your own. Or be a net positive for his (other than sex). If you want him to respect you as a wife/GF, then give him a fucking reason to respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 02:06 AM
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Really, I just want more women that I can actually respect for things other than having a vagina. For example: the fact that almost every woman I've met had zero interest in doing anything that would actually improve society (STEM, business, inventors, ect.). Nursing doesn't count. Stop trying to be nurses, and get your goddamn M.D. Get off your collective asses, and go do something important. Like this chick. I'd wife her way before Stacy the hot kindergarten teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 01:48 AM
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So... be an absolute piece of shit, as long as you're getting your dick wet. OK, have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:59 PM
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Those men want to have their cake, and eat it too. They want to fuck around with the sluts, and then settle down with a "proper" wife later. Decide which one you want to be, and stick with that. The only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself when you look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:53 AM
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Until men stop being thirsty, nothing will change. The average guy is obsessed with sex, according to r/ppd, so men will not stop being thirsty. They only thing that will get men to raise their standards is some new sort of pill that reduces a person's sex drive, and men taking said new pill en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:51 PM
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I'm surprised that this needed to be said. If no one likes you, that's sad, but also a 100% personal problem. Change yourself or let it go and focus on other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:01 PM
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Sure, let's humblebrag. Why would someone want to date/LTR you or just have sex with you? If I had to guess, it's because I'm not like the typical guys around here. Most black dudes around here are from the hood. They talk like it and act like it. I grew up in the suburbs, with a very traditional family. I talk like it and act like it. I also have interesting shit to say. I've lived abroad for seven years, and have been to every continent except South America. Tons of awesome stories to share. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:34 PM
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I think most men are just scared of falling in love with a woman that isn't attached to them and doesn't respect them, I don't think they genuinely care about partner count or prefer less experienced women. Project all you want, but men absolutely care about partner count for an LTR. No one in their right mind is going to "fall in love" with a woman who's fucked everyone in town. They might say they're in love so they can get in your pants, but good luck getting one to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:41 PM
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She doesn't offend, but she's not about to get a date. SMV is different than RMV. If you just want to bang someone, you don't need a middle/upper class man. If you want to increase your RMV, it really depends on the guy. Different men are attracted to different things (in addition to looking "good enough"). Personally, I like intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:00 AM
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So, you suggest women to tell men explicitly, they won't fuck with him if he does not commit? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:33 PM
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Looks have always mattered, but they matter more now. The rise of dating apps where people swipe based on picture profiles has a big influence on that. Before, if you looked "good enough" then you could get by on other things. Honestly, I'd say decent photography skills are even more important than looks for modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:15 PM
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Someone with an excessive amount of sexual partners. "Excessive" is a different number for everyone, but you can understand what is reasonable and what is not. And yes, this goes for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:09 PM
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Guys, what do you think girls can do to improve their dating life? This is for women who want a LTR, which is what most of them say they want. Be absolutely clear on what you want, and make sure you know what he wants. If he tells you something, believe him until he proves otherwise. Don't try to be subtle. Subtle is not our mother tongue. DO NOT FUCK HIM ON THE FIRST DATE. I don't care what the "experts" in this sub say. Don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:01 PM
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My point is, you're going to be shamed regardless of what you do, and other people's opinion shouldn't matter. There will always be a guy who will think you're a slut, and another guy who won't, REGARDLESS of what you have actually done in the past. Correct. So if being called a slut does bother you, then maybe you should spend some time to reflect on why. A lot of people do things they know they shouldn't be doing. They just don't like to be called out on it. Also, don't be surprised if no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:52 PM
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Is this problem being blown out of proportion? Yes. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:20 AM
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You sound like an angry teenager, or early twenties something. Please correct me if I'm wrong. You seem to have very little actual life experience, because your entire OP is just theorycrafting bullshit. Your pushover beta dad failed you, because he didn't beat the stupid out of you, apparently. "Alpha" means different things to different people. If you're lusting after young thots to hit it and quit it every other night then you need to lift, have some interesting shit to say, and not play alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 09:48 PM
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Because a group of people who post on Reddit all the time is not representative of real life. You should be skeptical of every "fact" posted in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:45 PM
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You don't have to go to extremes. Find a happy mix. However, if you like who your are now you shouldn't change yourself just to date someone. No woman is worth pretending be someone that you're not. Find someone who likes the real you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:35 PM
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If you're interested in getting married (or are already married), why? Same reason as you. Also, it would be nice to come home to someone who actually gave a shit. What constitutes a happy/ideal marriage for you? The same one my parents have. Life partners who are best friends, and support each others goals in life. My goal is to have a hand in one of the great events of our lifetime (currently those are extra-planetary colonization and the birth of A.I.). If she doesn't have some ambitions of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:49 PM
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I know people like to preach AWALT, but there are plenty of women who don't play stupid games. Granted, the majority do play stupid games but they aren't worth dating anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:36 PM
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Hmm... At first, it seems like the girl is just lying and abusing the V card. However, those bruises are very compelling evidence. You don't get bruises like that from consensual sex. I think the dude is guilty. And yeah, 12 years is fair for rape. 100 years is fair for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:20 PM
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They also don't dare challenging the assumption that female standards are anything but legitimate and natural. I couldn't find any article inviting women to lower their expectations when it comes to variables like income or height. Lowering standards won't make anyone happy. No one wants to be settled for. Regardless of gender, if the kind of person you want isn't attracted to you, that is purely a personal problem. Change yourself, or let it go. Most women are also not worth a LTR, and many fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:04 PM
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...or it just be a guy teasing them from across the bar, or touching her in all the right places at the right time, then moving away. A challenge. A chase. A game. Laughter. An energetic time in bed. That's all women really want, a man willing to give them a fun, wild time. Then they can call me when they grow the fuck up and want some stability in their life. Ain't nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:30 PM
1

Not a one of you gives a flying fuck about other men who commit suicide. Many of us have lost friends to suicide. Please don't say bullshit blanket statements like that. That'd be like me saying "women are just cowardly or crying for attention, because they choose less than lethal means." Both statements are false and are not helping anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 11:02 PM
6

If you want the brutal, honest truth, then no. There are no other reasons. But that isn't pretty, so lets pretend that Spergy McIncel is doing all of that bullshit to feel better as a person. He's have some more self esteem, and maybe some more confidence in social settings. He'll be that nice dude that couples invite over for a beer and to watch the newest episode of <PopularTvSeries>. And when he kills himself a couple years later, all of his new friends will be really surprised. "He was such …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:33 PM
1

Women deserve sympathy. Men deserve being told to STFU. More men have access to guns than women. Men tend to view a failed suicide attempt as "pussying out". Failure is not an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:19 PM
3

Mostly they complain about them being difficult. I have never heard any of my friends brag about their gf/wife being submissive. Not once. And you really shouldn't be dating / marrying someone based on "hotness". For just getting laid, sure, go for the hot ones. But for LTRs, as long as she looks "good enough" (aka average) then looks aren't that important for someone that you might be spending a lot of time with for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:14 PM
72

Men think women are hypergamous. Women think men are hypergamous. It's almost as if... people in general are hypergamous. ​ Edit: whoa, thanks for the gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 12:23 AM
1

Male I don't, because I don't care enough about my appearance to go to such extremes. Normal hygiene and grooming is good enough for me to be in public. I've thought about it, though. Sometimes it is tempting to hide that annoying blemish, but I'd probably just fuck it up. Makeup probably takes practice to get good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:41 PM
14

Well, love is a chemical reaction in the brain. That's all it is. But... that's all anything else is as well. Having fun is a chemical reaction. The taste of your favorite food is a chemical reaction. Feeling proud of your achievements is a chemical reaction. Everything you experience in your life can be reduced to chemical reactions in your brain based on your sensory organs. ​ I was like your friend for a long time, and denied myself relationships because "bullshit chemicals in my brain trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:19 PM
5

Why are people freaking out over this? If people choose not to have sex, then good for them. They're not hurting anyone. Aren't most men supposed to be undesirable, according to this sub? So they wouldn't be able to get laid anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:29 AM
2

Depends, same chatroom or same physical room? Chatroom: A bunch of angry screeching full of logical fallacies, ad hominem attacks, false equivalencies, and cherry picked "statistics". Physical Room: A bunch of introverts awkwardly looking around, waiting for someone to start talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 12:40 AM
1

Because people are shit, and women are people. Men would do this too if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:08 PM
1

Wasn't this talked about yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 08:42 PM
2

She's criminal trash like 90% of rappers, and last time I checked strippers weren't looked upon favorably by society. Why is anyone surprised that an ex-stripper turned rapper did horrible things to people? She should just go to jail for her crimes like everyone else, and that be the end of it. This sensationalist bullshit gives the media a bad name.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:53 PM
1

That's not rape, but this chick sounds awful. Like how little disrespect for yourself do you need to date someone like that? I don't feel any sympathy for those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:49 PM
2

Correct. Welcome to America.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:37 PM
1

Everyone is repulsed by emotions other than happiness or anger. However, there are a lot of thirsty men desperate for sex so women tend to get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 07:28 PM
1

I suppose, if her only goal was to stay safe. If she also wanted to stay sane, I'm pretty sure this strategy would be very harmful to that. Imagine going years, or even decades, convinced that 50% of everyone you ever interacted with wanted to violate you. Living a life of paranoia is mentally damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:18 PM
3

This is highly disrespectful. Any man that falls for that crap deserves what he gets. What the hell happened to couples simply liking each other's company?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:51 AM
1

A lot of people don't think marriage is a good deal these days. By the time your daughter grows up, even less people will want to get married. There's nothing wrong with that. You should teach her that men will never stop approaching her, though. If she wants to be WGTOW, she's going to have to deal that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:09 AM
1

Don't know what you mean by epic gamer, but us living in that society changes nothing. Still deserves to fall, if people not getting their dick wet is the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 09:44 AM
0

If people being celibate for awhile causes the downfall of society, then society deserves to fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:37 AM
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It's a bad thing for those men, if that's where their priorities lie. It's good for society in general. And I suspect that women are just indifferent to the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:27 PM
1

My last girlfriend approached, and bought me a drink. Maybe the women of Seattle should try something different if the whole 'sit there and wait for the right guy to show up' strategy isn't working out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 10:42 PM
3

From the title of the thread and the article itself, I seems like people think this is a bad thing. If that's not the case, then nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:35 PM
1

Blame the internet. There's so many different things to distract yourself with, that relationships just aren't worth it for a lot of people. Too much time, too much effort, and definitely too much money. Not everyone is dependent on others (aka being in a relationship) for validation. Unless you want kids, being single is just an easier way to live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:24 PM
2

Why is this a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:11 PM
2

This is borderline violation of Rule #5. OP, I highly doubt you actually care about getting any answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:03 PM
1

Men (and women) tend to view women as vulnerable. No one is surprised if a woman cries for any reason, and people usually feel a need to do something about it. Society as a whole is designed to protect them because for millions of years, that was absolutely necessary to survive. Men were the hunters and warriors. Women were the life of the tribe, and had to be protected at all costs. What you're seeing is simple evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:55 PM
1

Your 8 looks better than your 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 07:55 PM
1

This is all completely subjective. What I find to be a 10 some other guy would call a 6. Most of the 10's posted on here don't look that great to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 07:47 PM
5

Wage slavery is good for society. So is having and caring for children. Think how much better off the human race would be if we were more like ants. That said, the social stigma of not getting married is slowly going away. In 100 years, there will probably be very few people actually getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:31 PM
2

The same as now Intelligent Loyal No drug use Independent ​ Preferences Non smoker No tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:31 AM
2

Most adult men don't care about teenage heartthrobs, because they're simply not exposed to them unless they have a teenage daughter. If the topic comes up, then yes they are mocked as effeminate because they simply are. Imagine Justin Beiber playing football, or working on an oil rig, or joining the Marine Corps. Honestly, how well do you think he'd do? Hell, imagine any role that men generally admire and respect, mentally place a boyband member there, and see how quickly you cringe. ​ Edit: ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:17 AM
1

Check your local bar. There's certainly plenty of them around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:34 AM
1

She's probably projecting, and yes that is highly offensive. Personally, I would get the test and refuse to fuck her for half a year on principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:20 PM
1

When I say LTR, I mean committed with absolutely no intention of breaking up, for any reason. No one in my entire extended family has ever gotten a divorce for over 100 years, and I'll be damned if I'm the first. People just don't choose carefully enough these days. Again, people have different definitions of LTR. You do you, just be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 08:15 PM
2

Irrelevant. Thirsty men = women have zero standards to meet (other than not being fat).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:17 PM
1

We definitely have different definitions of a LTR, then. As long as you are honest with her, then you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 02:52 PM
2

Before joining, you are required to provide documented proof of identity. Before joining, you are required to fill out a very in depth dating profile. Before joining, you are required to make a 15-60 second intro video. The app selects your matches based on your preferences. You get a maximum 10 'candidates' per day. Women are required to message first. ​ This is to combat the general 'complaints' about each sex involving online dating. The app is designed to discourage men just looking to get l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:06 PM
5

If you don't tell her that you're not looking for a LTR, then yes it is wrong. You're being a selfish asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:46 PM
1

What's the point of asking for compassion in the first place? If you require others for validation, you're in for a bad time. You shouldn't expect any sympathy from women, nor should you give them any yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:43 PM
1

31 - Male LTR, preferred is 25-35. Actual is probably 22-30. STR, I don't do those.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:47 PM
1

Huge red flag, and a personal deal breaker. You can find better, OP. Plenty of sensible women out there that won't disrespect their partner like that. Please do not marry that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:42 PM
2

Nope. I'm not working my ass off to be a good deal just so a woman can sit around all day doing nothing. I want someone with life goals that are compatible with mine, not someone with no life goals at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 03:55 AM
1

If sexbots destroy society, then society doesn't deserve to survive. To quote some famous words: Let the galaxy world burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 01:51 AM
1

Probably, but that's irrelevant. They're not going to because they simply don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 10:04 PM
4

Possibly. Though from everything I've read and heard, that was how the "friendship" went.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:46 PM
3

Fuckzoned is exactly what u/wokein described. What you're describing is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:42 PM
6

That's a true friendship though, not being friendzoned. She agreed to be your gf, so you two were involved romantically. The fact the you aren't now doesn't put you in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:36 PM
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Then you are an outlier. In the majority of cases, this just isn't true. Don't get me wrong, this it not women's fault. The guy should stand up for himself and stop being a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 09:32 PM
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The problem is the friendzoned guy rarely gets the same amount of "effort" from the female than he gives her. Of all your male friends, how many times were you there when he really needed it? How often did you offer him a shoulder to cry on when he was feeling down? How often did you pay for things? How many times do you two do what he wanted to do? In the vast majority of friendzoned cases, the guy is pretty much getting exploited. Between the two, I'm not sure which is worse. Being fuckzoned i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 08:58 PM
2

Is it possible for a guy who view women as human beings and form bonds rather than focus on her looks and the number of guys she has dated/had sex with. Sure. About half of my friend are female, and I wouldn't want to sleep with any of them (no, I don't think they're ugly). ​
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:33 PM
3

More like overpopulation would be an even bigger crisis than it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 11:18 PM
1

Absolutely not. That's fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 07:42 PM
1

As long as thirsty guys exists, things are not going to change. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:43 PM
3

Hmm, how about neither side lies about shit? Is it really so hard to tell the fucking truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 07:48 PM
2

Probably No Hell no. Divorcing for selfish reasons like that is why people are so hesitant about marriage these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:07 AM
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"College educated" doesn't mean much these days. I went back to school to switch careers, and I swear half of my classmates borderline retarded. 90% of current college girls are thots, and 60% are majoring in useless crap for reasons they can't even explain (I've asked). Men looking for LTRs would be better off dating women age 25-30, who have their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:58 AM
2

Of course not. What kind of question is this? If they're that adamant about it, there's probably a reason. At the very least I'd want to know why. I can't imagine a good enough reason to chose some random woman over my family. It's not like there aren't several billion other women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:48 AM
1

Every Marine is promoted by the same criteria, regardless of role.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:46 PM
2

Females have a disadvantage shooting a target 500 yards away in the prone position. They have to spread their arms out longer in proportion to their body (reduces stability), they have less bulk to absorb recoil, and their bun gets in the way by forcing their cover/kevlar into their face when laying down and looking forward. All of these are relatively minor on their own , but added together gives a decent disadvantage. When your promotion depends on how well you do at the range compared to your…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:03 PM
8

I dislike anyone who sleeps around, regardless of gender. #1 reason I'm not redpilled. Is it immoral to be a slut? Idk, that's debatable, and mostly depends on the person's values. Morality itself is just a human construct, and ultimately meaningless. If being called a slut/thot bothers you, then maybe you should spend some time to reflect on why it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:45 PM
2

I was in the Marine Corps. They are absolutely treated like shit. Requirements to be promoted are mostly focused on your PT score, your hand to hand combat skill level, and how well you shoot. Females had a bid disadvantage with all of those things. The M/F ratio was probably awesome for them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 12:29 PM
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Not really. Women in the military get treated like shit. They also have a harder time marching with a full pack, auto-lose in most spars, and have to put their hair in a bun everyday. Female CS grads have more opportunities, but I don't think it'd have been worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:04 AM
2

r/woooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 05:44 AM
2

Is the OP just idk... stupid? After reading that thread, I'm pretty sure he is. In the words of that sub, Everyone Sucks Here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 11:15 PM
4

Missing the point. Even if it's fictional, the thread is literally about the comments. The most common argument is "He's hot and she wants to get laid. Ideologies don't matter." Is this not cognitive dissonance for you? If not, then please explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 10:58 PM
13

I understand making men wait for sex, and I approve (though I approve of making everyone wait for sex). But flirting with other people? Hard pass. No one should be tolerating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:20 PM
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You are completely missing the point. You're so deep in the rabbit hole that you have forgotten the OP entirely. Yet another strawman too. What I think doesn't even matter. The thread is literally about her complaints, and cognitive dissonance. I think you should calm down and go reread the OP again if you want to debate further.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:05 PM
5

Because she's reinforcing behavior she has a problem with. If she wants to be just another dumb slut, then she has every right to be just another dumb slut. Expecting anyone to take her complaints seriously is laughable, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:57 PM
7

Nice strawman He doesn't have model looks or anything, he's just in shape and he has insane amounts of energy and confidence. His confidence is ridiculous, he'll approach girls wherever and whenever. He'll do it at the gym, he'll do it on the street, he'll do it wherever he pleases. And it's not like he's a pick up artist or anything, he's been this way with girls since he was 15. His sex drive is way too high. The amount of mental gymnastics to excuse women who make poor decisions is unreal. Bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:27 PM
2

Do you believe players are conditioned into behaving the way they do? Yes If you do believe that, which behaviors and experiences may influence men into becoming players? Lack of success with women while not being a player. Are they solely a product of dating culture, or are there other factors involved? If so, which? Not entirely. It depends on how bad the guy wants sex. TPR men tend to be slaves to their lust. How much do you believe nature/nurture influences these decisions, do you believe it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:27 PM
3

It does. He should also stop fucking her if it bothers him. From what I read though, Trey's opinion was not given. Just the OP's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 04:47 PM
10

Yeah, I've noticed. In contrast, males tend to tell their friends the truth when they're being stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:59 PM
10

Anyone who is listening to her complaints. If she can't keep herself from dropping her panties for a known sexist asshole, she deserves no sympathy or respect from anyone she complains about the situation to. This is like complaining about a restaurant constantly fucking up your order, and still continuing to eat there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:46 PM
9

You can criticize them, but why should anyone take you seriously? Nor should you be surprised why this kind of behavior is so common. It's literally being rewarded. This scenario is why r/TheRedPill works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:38 PM
3

She has the right to complain, but no one should be taking her seriously. Honestly, she sounds like just another dumb thot. Edit: after reading the thread, the OP and his friend sound like complete douchebags. Chad friend is sharing videos of himself having sex with these girls, and OP is acting like some little minion in hopes of getting some scraps for himself. And yet, women are still fucking them so that behavior isn't about to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:45 PM
1

Yes, it's possible though you'll have to search for a bit. Most relationships have a power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 03:01 AM
5

ITT: How to be a creepy old lecher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:28 AM
4

Would you rather find out, break up, and get someone else who is less attractive, less interesting, less wealthy, and doesn't make you feel as good, but is still a decent person to be with? This. Every time. I cannot understand how people put up with cheating, but then again I don't understand a lot of things about people. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:21 AM
1

I don't at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 01:18 AM
2

So... two servers trying to make money is a case study now? Guess my hamster broke. I need to get a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:14 PM
1

And that's supposed to mean something to me? Show me a post by a male under the age 25 that isn't screeching about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:52 PM
2

I said this in another post, but you have to keep in mind the demographics of the internet. Most people posting things are young guys who are walking puddles of hormones. They literally can't think straight, so you really shouldn't be taking them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:41 PM
4

Sexist: no. Entitled and rude: yes. People who ask others to smile more should get punched in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:32 PM
2

Keep in mind Reddit's demographics. A lot of them are young men, who are driven by their hormones. They literally can't think straight until they get a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:27 PM
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Seems like a myth made by women who overthink things.I find it hard to believe that a significant amount of men are turned off by eagerness. I've never heard anyone say anything along the lines of "She was just WAY too into me, man." All of my LTRs involved her making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:23 PM
1

I bet a lot of people in r/PurplePillDebate are really bad at interpreting poems/songs. I never would have imagined the amount of people that literally do not understand this analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:50 AM
1

That's like asking if women wear makeup and spend a lot of time on their hair before a date. Of course, you want to show the best side of you to a potential mate. You're not going to keep doing that stuff 24/7 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:43 AM
0

Look, focus on school bud. Vagina isn't going anywhere. Get good grades, go to college and major in something useful (as in, will get you a job). Then start worrying about getting laid. You'll be a drunken fratboy swimming in a sea of slutty females, and can have as much sex as you want while still having a good future ahead of you. Fucking around in high school is a quick path to nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:42 AM
1

Fair enough. I'm probably projecting, because I've had to deal with people in my social circle being stupid about a similar situation. Still, I think it's completely possible to have platonic friends with people you find attractive even with a high sex drive. I've seen people do it (unless they were just really good at keeping their desires hidden).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:31 AM
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I've been there, bro. Struggled with that myself, though it was more social status (joined the Marines). And it did happen. Suddenly women who didn't even notice me were trying to get my attention. It does make you mad. But then I ran into an old friend from high school. She had really cleaned herself up, and looked really hot. We rode the same bus to school for 4 years, were both in the same clubs, and I never once thought of her as attractive back then. Men do it too. You do it too. Just accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:16 AM
6

I don’t like not having sex on tap tho And I couldn't care less. People have different priorities. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 12:01 AM
9

Some people like being alone. It's much easier to be yourself.... when you're by yourself. I honestly don't know if I'm capable of trusting another human being enough to 100% act the same way I do when alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:49 PM
3

People talk big on the internet because there are no consequences. People are generally shitty, but cover it up in real life. You are probably reading posts of what people would do if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:46 PM
1

Maybe if you're like 16. Actual adults can have platonic friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:34 PM
1

This requires her to be worth having as a friend. A woman who thinks in the way OP described is probably not. I definitely wouldn't hang with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:30 PM
2

The "Only want sex 24/7" is top of the list, for me. Though sometimes It's amusing so see a girl's reaction when you clearly state "No, actually I don't want to fuck you."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:38 PM
1

Incel Response: If they want a date, just make a Tinder profile. Normal person response: Some men overvalue themselves. Most don't. You think those men don't notice all the other men hitting on Stacy and getting shot down? Shy girls go unnoticed because they probably don't look approachable. Most girls like that I see are huddled up in groups in the corner, where no man can approach without looking like a total creep. Fat girls get no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:19 PM
4

That's exactly why I don't want to change it. It's like being sober in a room full of drunk people. Yes it looks fun and all, but I'd rather stay lucid. It does bring some problems to a relationship, though. Women expect men that they are dating to try to fuck them. If you never do, and they always have to be the one to initiate, they tend to get stressed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 11:05 PM
2

Happy cake day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:56 PM
4

Yes. As long as I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:55 PM
1

Men know this. This is why you see a lot of western men going overseas and picking up a wife from Eastern Europe and Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:51 PM
8

Male, and absolutely. I have a low libido (and no interest in changing) so sex is not really a priority for me. If she was DTF the first date, I'd probably lose interest. I'm pretty sure every relationship I've had has been outside the realm of stereotypes. My last GF had a nervous breakdown because I never wanted to have sex, so I'll have to try to be more understanding in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:46 PM
5

How do things change after that? Sometimes it ends the friendship. Sometimes it doesn't, but things are awkward for awhile If you're single, no problem. Otherwise this looks sheisty. I wouldn't care for it. I'm single, she's not. Her BF's car has broken down, and she still needs to work. When I didn't have a car, a different friend of mine (male) gave me rides to work for months. I'm in a position to pay it forward, so why not? I've also repeatedly told people that I'm not interested in women un…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:36 PM
9

About 40% of my friends are female. No, their attractiveness doesn't matter. I want to hang out with them, not bang them. Standards are the same. If it gets to the point where they're trying to probe me for a relationship/sex, I'll let them know I'm not interested. With all that said, most people get jealous over stupid shit or see things that aren't there. Hell, just giving a female friend of mine some rides to work has made people suspicious that we were sleeping together on the side. Like WTF…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:13 PM
3

I've said it before. All a woman's looks needs to be is "good enough". That threshold is different for every man, but once it is passed the women looks good enough to be girlfriend/wife material. After that, everything else is far more important. For me, intelligence is hot. It's the number 1 trait I find attractive. I'd pick Becky the physics nerd over Stacy the supermodel every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:55 PM
3

I slut shame everyone, men and women. I'm not a fan of hookup culture, or the people who participate in it. Guess I'm old fashioned that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 03:17 AM
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That we don't do subtle. Please, stop trying to be subtle. Say what the fuck is on your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 02:51 AM
1

For me, intelligence is fucking sexy. The smarter the better. Good sense of style (without looking like a slut) would be a close second on desirable traits. A smart girl that dresses nice with pretty hair is irresistible for me. Bonus points for no tattoos or smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 04:47 AM
1

*looks up Aspergers* Sure, why not? Now that I know what it is, I think I've met a few and I thought the behavior was odd, but kinda cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 02:48 PM
2

I think women are a little delusional about how much men (the ones who are devoted to self improvement) give a shit about their opinions. If you're working on yourself to better your own life, why exactly does the approval of other people matter at all? My life goals have very little to do with women. Having a wife and kids would be nice, but it's not really a priority. I'd chop my own dick off without a second thought if it 100% guaranteed I'd achieve my dreams. The men who are self improving O…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 02:23 PM
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Personally, IDGAF. If she wants to be a career woman, fine. If she wants to be a housewife, fine. Women do create more drama in the workplace than men, but my field is so male dominated that I'd gladly pay that price to lower the sausage-fest level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:45 AM
2

I'd give it a try, but I would be more alert for red flags. Most people are virgins for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:34 AM
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I hate to say it, but probably. It would bother me to no end, and would probably poison the relationship. I'm cool with her having close male friends, but actively flirting with with other guys is too much for me. The Twitch thing... I don't know. As long as she's not flirting with a specific person, I'd be OK with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:10 PM
1

I have done this several times, and will probably continue to do so for the next couple of years. Obviously they were not happy about it, but I have yet to receive a brick through my windshield. I don't think it's an indication of low interest, but I may be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:19 AM
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lol, they're not single because they want to be. Both of them would love a girlfriend. They have eh... personality flaws, I guess. They come on very strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:51 AM
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I don't have any "science" to back up what I say, just good old fashioned life experience. Height and muscle mass just isn't as big an an advantage as people on the internet keep saying. It's more about how you carry yourself, and how you interact with other people. Nothing I've ever seen has led me to believe that "tall muscular guys get all the women". Yes, even for ONS. The biggest playboy I knew is was kinda chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:44 AM
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Not in my experience, on either count. Almost all of my female friends are dating or married to guys under 6ft, and some of them are pretty damn short. They're not muscular either. In fact, my tall muscular friends are single. And I just spent seven years in Asia. Asian girls like muscular, western style men. Bonus points if you're black (clubs even give you a bigger discount to get in than they give women).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 07:31 AM
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Male, 31 ​ 1) About a dozen or so close friends. Almost all of them are married to or currently dating each other, so hanging out one on one rarely happens (the third wheel feelings are strong). About 50/50 gender ratio. 2) I'm fine with the amount. If I want to hang out, there's usually someone available. I'm pretty introverted though, so 90% of the time they're the ones inviting me to things. 3) Yeah. I joined the military and spent seven years abroad, so I lost touch with almost ALL of my old…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:59 AM
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I fucking love this sub. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 12:51 AM
1

While I have no sympathy for incels in general, this dude seems alright. In his replies, he mentions that he's aware of his issues and is working on fixing them. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 08:56 PM
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Honestly dude, it sounds like you need some help. You're clearly suffering from depression, and it sounds like you have some anxiety and self esteem issues. Working out and losing that gut will help a little, but I recommend therapy. And cut those fuckers from your childhood out of your life. Even if they come to you, tell them to sod off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 05:22 PM
1

OK, joke aside I tried to make friends and hang out, it just doesn't work. People only want me around them for my skills and my $$$. Fuck people like that. You don't want them as friends anyway. I don't know what you're in to, but there's usually local groups for most major hobbies. Show up and talk to people about stuff that you both like. No one there should care about what you can do for them other than being able to talk about things they like to talk about. Friendship should happen naturall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 04:20 PM
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And this is why I said not to suck as a human being. Because of crap like this. If you can't find anyone willing to hang out with you, why do you think anyone would bother to date you? Maybe you should work on yourself, and then think about involving other people. Or don't. I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 03:40 PM
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Well, I hear Red Dead Redemption 2 is pretty fucking awesome. So maybe they actually are all playing that in Charlotte? Try again in a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:51 PM
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I'd really just want someone that consistently showed up to the tabletop events that I hosted. If she was my wife, she'd have no choice! *insert evil laugh* ​ Seriously though, just go hang around the groups of people that contain the character traits that you are looking for. And make sure you have some quality traits of your own to offer in exchange (it's unrealistic to expect filet mignon when you're only rump roast). Don't suck too much as a human being, and you'll probably find what you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:31 PM
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If I don't cringe at the thought of kissing her, then she looks good enough. That's when everything else comes into play. Most guys aren't going to date a woman who has a pretty face and nothing else, unless he's just that damn desperate. The most good looking women that I personally know can't keep a boyfriend to save their lives, and I kinda feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 12:11 PM
1

I value respect from my fellow man over the attraction of a woman. That said, I value my friend's input over strangers. First - Men I know Second - Women I know Third - Men I don't know Fourth - Women I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:38 PM
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lol,yeah that'd probably be important too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:48 AM
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Checklist: -Does she have all her shit together? -Are her life goals compatible? -Does she share a least SOME similar interests? -Am I open for a relationship at the moment? ​ If all of those are yes, then I would enter a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:27 AM
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Some people are perfectly fine being alone. Are they destined to be that way? Depends on the person. incels sure as fuck are. The vast majority of people (male or female) can absolutely find someone, if they work at it hard enough. I have yet to meet anyone IRL where I thought "Yeah, that person will NEVER be able to get a date."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:12 AM
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Pretty much anything, except my career. And by that, I mean giving up the whole thing. Relocation or changing jobs is fine, if for the right reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:07 AM
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Hmm... I think 5 or 6. Drunken escapades in the Philippines don't count. 20 Single for the next couple of years. Sorry ladies, I'm busy with shit. Nope. Never liked the idea of "casual sex". 80% Red / 20% Blue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:58 AM
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You’re using her. Friends don’t use each other. She’s either your friend, or an ego boost. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:44 AM
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Don't bother. The only thing a lot of people care about is getting a house, getting married and having some kids. That's it. That's all they want out of life. Fucking ridiculous, but what can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:21 PM
1

Absolutely. I have shit I need to do in my life, and women are really just a distraction. Fortunately, I don't have this insane drive to sleep with them that most men on here keep going on about. They're nice to look at, though. Kids would be nice someday, but not much of a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:04 PM
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*facepalm* ​ MGTOW is a simple life decision: women are not worth the headache and it's better to focus on yourself. The logic is sound. The results are sound. Honestly, the ONLY thing I have against MGTOW is that its members just flat out refuse to move on with their lives. It's like some spoiled kid who runs away from home to "teach his parents a lesson." You've made your decision. Now go your own fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:19 AM
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I never understood the point of dick pics, or nudes in general. What use does someone have for those? It's not like you can show them to anyone (at least you shouldn't). ​ Also: it's not just men that do this. My last GF sent me nudes that I definitely did not ask for. I was at work at the time and was fortunately quick enough to turn off my phone before anyone saw. People, please consider where your SO happens to be before you go sending images of your naked body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:01 PM
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lol, after 20 years of D&D you kinda run out of ideas for characters unless you cross over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:08 AM
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I play as female characters sometimes in video games and dungeons and dragons. At first, it was just to help transition into the character better. But now, I'm pretty used to it. I make a very passable lesbian, I'm told. I've tried playing gay characters, and it was surprisingly difficult without coming off as a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:57 PM
2

If I was a woman, I'd probably be the biggest lez around, and shamelessly hit on women whenever I could get away with it. But if I HAD to date men... ...drug use, smoking, tattoos, and lack of ambition would be deal breakers. ...financial instability and a long history of short relationships would be red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:08 PM
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Companies aren't stupid. They knew what they were doing. It's probably a good business decision, getting all of this attention. Personally, I know not even man is a sexual deviant, because I'm not a sexual deviant. I know not every man bullies people or 'mansplains' because I don't do those things. It's pretty annoying hearing about it though. Will I buy more Gillette razors because of this add? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:33 PM
4

Avoid them. Until they can manage their own problems, they have no business dating anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:16 PM
1

It depends what you're dating for. If you just want to get laid, then go for it. If you want anything more than casual sex, I think you should wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:10 PM
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You're projecting. Most men see themselves as average. They also view most women as average, which is why they approach so many different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:28 AM
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Annoying. But I don't like flirting in general. My response to flirtatious behavior is to just ignore it until they get the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:21 AM
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Yes, I've made my peace with it. Just find other life goals to strive for. Isaac Newton and Joan of Arc never had a SO, but people will remember their names long after we are all gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:13 AM
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I didn't think I'd ever upvote a single post you ever make. I stand corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:11 AM
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Shame on me for assuming, then. Sorry, but this post reads like something you'd see on r/braincell or r/MGTOW. I stand by what I said, though. Feeling like you shouldn't exist is not a normal response to rejection. Men who feel that way need some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:16 AM
1

It's not. It's both of their faults. This is in response to a complaint about baby daddies, which is a situation for women. The response to men would be to man the fuck up and take care of your kid. If you didn't want one, then you should have kept your dick in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:07 AM
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IRL, I don't seem to have much of a problem with getting a date. But on Tinder? Fuck that noise. I tried it once. I spent hours trying to write a good bio, and choosing good pictures (I'm horrible at selfies). I carefully examined each girl's bio before swiping, because I didn't want to match with someone incompatible. However, I shouldn't have worried. Because I didn't match with ANYONE. Not a single match. Maybe I was too picky. Maybe the women were. I don't know. What I do know, is that Tinde…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:01 AM
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Rejection doesn't taste good, but "You should not exist?" Yeah, that's a little too far. If that's how you feel if a woman takes a pass on you, then you should probably get some therapy. Or go MGTOW and write essays like this all day while expecting people to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:52 AM
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Again, those were low quality men. No man in my entire extended family has ever done such a thing. Did every woman they ended up with just happen to get lucky, or did they just maybe vet a little more extensively than most women seem to do?. Every female friend/acquaintance I know who had a guy walk out on her kids has a history of dating deadbeat losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:24 AM
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That reading this sub when I have deadlines to meet is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:20 AM
1

I won't make any such case. If you don't see the value of a man's commitment, then that's on you. Most women seem to disagree. But who cares, really? Go be a WGTOW. You seem like you're halfway there already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:18 AM
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That's the woman's fault for choosing the wrong man. Keep your legs closed, and make sure he's worth a shit before starting a relationship. It's not that hard. Ask your parents how they approached dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:03 AM
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Of course I'd want someone debt free, but that's not realistic. It'd be better to say someone not in an excessive amount of debt. Virgin isn't realistic either. I don't like people that sleep around (men or women) so I'd never marry a girl with a high n-count. But a virgin? Good luck finding one. Yeah, tattoos are fucking trashy. Though I'd rather marry a non-smoker with a few tattoos, than a smoker with no tattoos. I'm picky, though. I wouldn't marry anyone other than a stable woman that's got …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 10:52 AM
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Male/80% Red Fantasy - Ending the human race by whatever means possible. Our species as a whole is disgustingly petty, immoral, corrupt, and self-serving. It deserves to go extinct, and make the world a better place. Would I ever act on it? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 02:52 AM
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Most women exploit men for resources. This isn't new. Those men only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 01:35 AM
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Yeah, I can relate. I'm always telling myself that I need to finish improving X things about myself before I try finding a wife. Because the kind of lady I'm looking for is one I don't deserve yet. Currently, it's education. Before that, it was finishing my time in the military. Time will tell if I come up with some other excuse after I complete my degree (it'll probably be making X amount of money). Don't give up hope. There's always adoption, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:14 AM
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I have no idea, but it's true. I work at a restaurant, and yesterday and there was a guy that was clearly at least 500+ lbs, and fucking reeked of BO. Yet somehow that dude had a wife (average looking) and a kid. I just don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 05:32 AM
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Welcome to life, man. And women. If you really want a girlfriend (though it sounds like you're not ready for one) you need to chill out. Holding frame is the trendy name for it these days. There's a reason that girl you weren't into was chasing after you. Though it sounds like you just want to get laid. Go buy a hooker, get your rocks off, and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:30 AM
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Low intelligence, cheating, drug use other than alcohol (though that is illegal), financial retardation, baby daddies, or very little time spent as single between relationships. Those are all huge red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:54 AM
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Of course. Forcing someone to participate in adultery without their consent is fucked up. I'd feel terrible if I was dating some woman and found out she had a husband. What happened to common fucking decency? That used to be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:17 AM
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I'm INFP and definitely not a feminist. I'm no red piller either though, mainly because I'm not interested in sleeping around. However, I do like RP advice on self improvement, and taking women off the pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:06 AM
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Yes, it did. I don't ask for sex. Never have, probably never will. I have better shit to do with my time that I enjoy more. But if she asks me for it, and I'm in the mood, I might oblige. With the sheer amount of partying I did in my 20's that situation happened several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:57 AM
1

I slut shame, both men and women. I'm not really fond of anyone who sleeps around. Guess I'm old fashioned like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 09:06 PM
2

Tried it. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 09:04 PM
1

Unfortunately, this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 09:00 PM
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I'm going to say it: NAMALT. The only girls I ever chased were the ones I wanted as a girlfriend. The vast majority of them were the shy nerdy type, because I am too. The hot "bad girls" were easy on the eyes, but most of them were dumb as fuck. I did go through a phase overseas where I partied my ass off and casual sex happened often, but that was more of a consequence of partying at clubs then specifically chasing tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:49 PM
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It's really not that hard. Watch how he treats people who he's NOT trying to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 03:28 PM
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I'm a guy, and I'd push that button with a quickness. This would improve the lives of pretty much every man everywhere. Though it would also probably destroy society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 11:01 AM
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I am male, and I can attest to YOU, it is not. It really isn't, sorry. For most, it's nice to have. But you're not going to drop dead if you don't have sex for long enough. You WILL drop dead if you don't eat food for long enough. It's just a lack of self control. Same shit as smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:42 AM
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Honestly… no, I haven't. And not all men crave sex. I certainly don't give a shit about it, and last time I checked, I was a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:12 AM
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Not in my experience. In relationships, I’m usually the one holding out on her because I’m just not in the mood. I’ve noticed that I don’t obsess about sex nearly as much as my friends, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 12:35 AM
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Absolutely. Honestly, she sounds perfect. If she's even remotely attractive, that's definitely wife material. She won't be making more than me though, because I'm competitive like that. She's certainly welcome to try, however. More money for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:07 PM
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