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Nah, it actually means, "I'm too emotionally stunted to realize that I'm the problem and am nowhere close to overcoming this deficit."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:56 PM
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The most common response to this is, "He's either got a big dick or big checkbook." Everyone then laughs. The default male viewpoint is that men are judged by their ability to protect and provide, with looks being a barely registering thing. This is why TRP even exists. The idea that looks and game matter to women, more than anything else, is foreign to most men. That is changing as more men grow up in the current terrible environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:58 PM
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Congrats! I'm still working on my first decade with my wife. Got any tips for making it last?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:51 PM
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Being nice is stupid and bad. Being virtuous is good. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:15 PM
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Eat, sleep, and exercise correctly. It's simple, but it's not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:14 PM
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Neither. Trump is doing some good things, but his actual ties (not Russia) worry me a lot. Zelensky is just a puppet installed by the military industrial complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:08 PM
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The thing is... you never know. You could go into it looking to hit it and quit it, and then fall hard. You could go into it looking for a lifetime and realize after six months that she is too shitty. I wouldn't lie about it, but the answer is always, "I don't know how we'll turn out. We will just have to see." Anything else is the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:05 PM
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Red pill believes in LMS(looks status money) and behavior can all be used to varying degrees. Money is beta provisioning. It's actually detrimental to alpha strategy. The rest is correct. RP says that even if you don't have the looks, with very good attractive behavior you can score any hot woman you want. TRP starts with the assumption of the reader being an Average Frustrated Chump, someone who gets dates and girlfriends but not much attention and casual sex. It also specifically preaches agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:53 PM
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Helping clean someone else's party. It's the shopping cart test of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:54 PM
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Most women are broke. In fact, I know exactly zero women who were worth anything when they married outside of old women remarrying after taking their husband's stuff. They all had enormous amounts of debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:53 PM
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I don't get that reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:55 PM
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Nah, I enjoy being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:49 PM
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You can dance around it but millions of men know about this phenomenon personally. Women don't care about men in objective criteria. They only care about ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:45 PM
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I am and can be friends with just about anyone. I am a very curious fellow and enjoy the drama of weird people. That being said, I would never date a woman who wasn't in the upper tiers of just about everything. I am attractive and top tier myself and I cannot stand to live with someone who cannot be reasoned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:43 PM
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Mean and median aren't the same thing. Median is usually used because it is more representative of the "average" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:40 PM
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Everyone who has ever been in the service knows this is a lie. There is no minimum bar of effort that suddenly makes you attractive. That doesn't exist. We know this because women's standards near military bases shoot up compared to further away. Women want the best, not some set of criteria. If there was a button to make every single man on Earth meet whatever criteria you have in mind, women would demand an even higher bar within a few months. There is no set of checkboxes that will make women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:28 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:45 PM
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Everything is "manipulation." I am manipulating your brain by putting down words for you to read. I manipulate my wife by complimenting her when she is done getting ready for us to go out. I manipulate my children by giving or taking away treats. Getting someone to do something isn't necessarily a bad thing. The essence is in the intent behind the actions. Doing things to make your partner happy are only manipulative in the most autistic reading of the word. We all have little rituals and plays …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:41 PM
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Unironically yes. My wife will hand me a jar to open, and when I open it, she and our daughters clap and cheer. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:49 PM
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I had a wife. We kept separate bank accounts split the bills 50/50. Things worked fairly well. (We were middle-class childless couple in major city in a house MCOL) This is the way to do it, although it doesn't have to be a 50/50 split. A lot of times the husband will pay more of the bills because the wife doesn't make as much and they both want nicer things. Joint accounts cause more problems than they fix in my opinion. How is it supposed to work if one spouse/SO doesn't work to take care of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:12 PM
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This isn't the own you think it is. You could find a ton of men who would love this. The problem is that women find it disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:05 PM
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Denying it is like flat-earth level kookiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 PM
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I care how I'm treated the first time. Not 40 years in the future. You should. Youth and sexiness go away. Character does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:44 PM
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If you think companies act in concert to implement anything that wastes time and money without someone in authority forcing it to happen, then I don't know which reality you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:42 PM
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You are correct, but that doesn't mean they aren't done. That just makes the flip back to normality easier once the social consensus moves back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:38 PM
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You originally made it sound like they were super trashy compared to the person you met when you started looking for longer-term relationships, which makes sense. When you don't care about how someone will treat you forty years from now, you can ignore a lot of faults which would otherwise really constrain your dating pool. I don't know everything, just most things knowable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:35 PM
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I am not talking about DEI in it's minor form. I am talking about all quota-based Equal Opportunity initiatives, which are tied together in spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:33 PM
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Because marriage was never a priority. Especially in my 20s. Ah, so in other words, a yes. So you can't explain it? I can tell you the direction because it is obvious. I can't give you specifics because I'm not the Wizard of Oz.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:30 PM
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No, some women have the ability to be hyper-successful. Most women are capable of doing some sort of work and are generally cheaper when it comes to busy work. Getting rid of DEI will not remove women from work. It will just get rid of the ones who are leeching from society. The real change will come from men. As the prospect of marriage becomes reasonable again, a lot of them will be more willing to marry. With women having less upward mobility without real work, marriage will be attractive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:27 PM
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Is that because you weren't looking in the right places at 20 that you learned to look in your 30's? And what's that? More than what the true crazies think, less than what the general population thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:19 PM
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Most people are gross and pathetic. Women aren't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:17 PM
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Me? Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 PM
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Young age at marriage is one of the top predictors of divorce. That generational knowledge also led to boomers having a higher divorce rate than today. You say that as if these women then remarry someone better. This does happen from time to time, but it's not the usual scenario. The primary reason women began divorcing so much had everything to do with financial incentives, and those incentives are going away. too risky It's too risky to just fuck around for fifteen years and then trying to mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:15 PM
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Of course it's still good. Women still enjoy many advantages. Also, I need to be dramatic to bait the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:52 PM
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It's because the man you can get at 20 is better than the man you can get at 30 and so on. It's actually in a woman's self-interest to be more picky and careful. Most women have forgotten this because the baby boomers ruined dating by cutting off generational knowledge. We now have to relearn everything the hard way. If you are actually a young woman, then this is even more important for you than the Gen X and Millennial women. They were able to enjoy advantages that you will never dream of or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:46 PM
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I have been helping a friend build up a small manufacturing company. It's really interesting to see how different B2C and B2B companies are and so similar at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:31 PM
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It's actually sad that most men still think women are wonderful, but the younger men are learning thanks to seeing how women behave when given full license. Life for women peaked in the 90's. Every single day of your life will be the worst day for women until the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:21 PM
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How many women want to date and marry manipulative, violent criminals? The demand is so much higher than the supply that those men never run out of girlfriends and wives to impregnate before the presence of a child causes a lot of the women to run away to protect that child. Now, do the majority of women want that extreme of anti-social behavior? No. Do most want some level of it? Yes. Most women prefer men higher in beta traits - it's just that he must still have enough alpha traits to keep his…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:20 PM
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Hey, 90% of my family voted for Trump in all three elections. The reasons are: Immigration Anti-Woke Sentiment School Reform Economics Although, anti-woke sentiment is the second reason, feminism isn't really a huge part of that, per se. Most normal, and especially older, Republican men either don't care about it or think it's a joke. There are a lot of Republican women who hate Feminism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:57 PM
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My first red pills were from a psychology major I was dating. She told me about the differences between short-term and long-term preferences in men and women while asking me what I thought about them. A lot of TRP is pulled straight out of psychological research.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:39 PM
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You're asking the real questions. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:01 PM
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It's honestly not the money that upsets them... much. It does suck to be the gender expected to buy stuff when you don't have much money. The women who demand it and flaunt how they use men are what puts the sour taste in their mouths. Every single man who dates enough will run into the woman who uses him for money. The best ones stare at their phones during dinner. The worst ones string a guy along using plausible deniability to milk them using covert contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:46 PM
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I'm not surprised here, but if he said that in public, he would get reprimanded and possibly beat by the men around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:40 PM
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Have you kept yourself pure until marriage? I did not, although I wish I did. Are you married? Do you have children? Do you dedicate yourself to being a good father? Yes to all three. Are you faithfully in church, have you read your Bible back to front? Yes. How much to you adhere to The Word? I try but of course I fall short.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:38 PM
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The primary problem is that when you mention these crazy women, other women circle the wagons for them. You will never hear a man defend a murderer or rapist or violent man. Women will all jump out of their seats to demand why the equivalent woman "was forced to be like that." The other issue is that for reasons beyond most people's understanding, the crazy, blue-haired feminists get far more say in life than they should. From police department policies to Fortune 500 boardrooms to the halls of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:32 PM
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I'd be a tradwife all the way, even by your definition. Even if it weren't the absolutely better life compared to the modern woman's life, my religion and philosophy would push me towards it. The fact that women can't see such simple truth is just more evidence of how stupid and brainwashed they are in general. The main change in definition I would make is college. You want to go to find a pool of high potential and pedigree partners. It also helps prepare you for life. It's not required but it …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:29 PM
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It's okay to act single when you are single. It's not okay when you aren't. This doesn't seem difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:28 PM
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In our household, I get the final say in everything. It is a religious thing to us. That seems tyrannical until you realize I don't care about 95% percent of things and just want to make my family happy. In reality, my wife makes the vast majority of decisions in our household by herself. Where there is any disagreement, we discuss it and come to agreement another 95% of those times. In the final tiny percent, I get the final say. This is more than what most men are looking for, although less th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:02 PM
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I am not jealous of women at all. Every benefit they have comes with steep tradeoffs. Their privileges come at the expense of being second class at everything in life outside their narrow range of social competence. Every woman's life is a retelling of Flowers for Algernon. That sounds like hell to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:08 PM
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a penis is genuinely an all-powerful mind control weapon which can overwhelm the senses of the majority of men It's a funny joke because it is true. Men only put up with the vast majority of women because they want sex so much. societal influences throughout history on the genders Biology informs culture, which informs laws, which informs biology. The loop is closed. Each is a couple decades separated from the others, but they are never too far out of sync. You cannot point to a television progr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:58 PM
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Divorce is up there with molestation in effects. I do view parents who divorce on that same level. If you are a monster to your own children, then I literally don't want to be on the same planet as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:44 PM
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It matters because the morals of the situation change. If it's just fate, then I am obligated by my vows to accept it. If not, she will be thrown away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:36 PM
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Lost half her body in a car accident medical condition or "I'm just not feeling it... fuck off" condition?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:43 PM
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Woman B wins every time because a relationship without sex isn't a relationship anymore. I can learn how to handle her over time and it will just become part of the routine. Woman A would continuously frustrate me until I cheat or end the relationship completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:21 PM
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Helpfulness and duty. I have dated more women because we bonded over cleaning and doing the dishes at an entirely other person's house party than anything else. It's the ultimate green flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:16 PM
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And yet, Arnold Schwarzennager was divorced for banging his maid. Class influences LTRs a lot. It has little, and perhaps even a negative influence, on STRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:47 PM
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We both didn't like what we had become and desired what we weren't. Our life goals were in great alignment. We completed the circle of learning the rules, rebelling, and finding out why they are rules. So no, our past isn't traditional in the ideal vision for sure, but we are now very happy and know why. I wish I didn't have to learn things the hard way, but that's just how it is sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:41 PM
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I have always been desirable to women physically but was unable to maintain my early relationships because I had no guidance on how to actually interact with women. I went with the traditional method of being a gentleman, giving her all she asked for, and treating her like a princess. Of course, this blew up in my face over and over. After a few times, I decided to stop bothering with relationships and just started fucking. How long would you go before entering a long term relationship? How many…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:22 PM
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That advice has nothing to do with OKCupid studies or anything like that. Women are far more socially conscious and anxious when compared to men. It is rare for them to be candid on any topic of any perceived consequence. One of those topics is sexual attraction. Listening to a woman's words during approach instead of focusing on body language and actual actions is where a lot of men become frustrated because women's words are usually counter to what they mean. As an example, a woman says, "You …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:33 PM
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It depends on the man and how you define femininity. Most men want a dommy mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:10 PM
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Men would be happier if women judged men on anything other than just looks and social skills. Men would collectively give women a standing ovation if they started judging men based on the morality of their actions. That's just a fantasy though. Women will never care about honor or morality. Those are male abstractions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:07 PM
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I think it's obvious that I'm not talking about teenagers and college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:45 PM
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You think anyone works minimum wage shitty jobs because they have other options? They are the economic version of the kids picked last in gym class. You can pretend this isn't true all you like, but that's all it is, pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:38 PM
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I don't hate them, but I would never date them. I don't hate fast food workers, but I'm not going to pretend they are doctors or scientists. They are losers. Hating losers just makes you a loser as well. They are to be pitied and ignored until the next time you need a cheeseburger in a hurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:00 PM
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TRP and PUA in general is made for Average Fucking Chumps. That is a guy who gets laid from time to time and has had girlfriends. If you have never been to a party in your life, had a girlfriend, or even talked to a woman outside your family, then you are a loser and have to fix that first. TRP is about going from the middle of the pack to the top. That being said, there are questionable things in game. Some advice is terrible. Some is better suited for some compared to others. We all have agenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:39 PM
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I love how no one in that thread's comments or here noted that no one likes her. If one person doesn't like you, that's life. If everyone except the dude you are banging ignores you, you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:26 PM
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You can get paid to be a misogynist? I have been doing it for free this whole time!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:20 PM
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He was slaying before the surgery. It honestly didn't effect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:22 PM
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You should ask the incels about it. I know they have done extensive research into procedures, although I don't know how much of what they know would apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:36 PM
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A lot of men do and I am one of them. I want a wife who focuses on home life, because I have zero interest in raising mentally traumatized children. I grew up during the transition from SAHMs to double incomes. The double income children were always fucked in the head, sometimes even more than the children of divorces. I view non-traditional mothers the same way I view absent fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:46 PM
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For me, it was always "fit." Some guys fit with most women. We call those men naturals. They were born with the pretty privilege that makes life boring and easy. There are other men who are able to find their niches and flourish just as much. The perfect preppy guy makes a terrible goth guy. You have to find out who you are, find a niche that closely matches you, and then do your best to be that niche. That is fit. As an example, I had an extremely ugly roommate in the Marine Corps. He was so ug…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:52 PM
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All women have options, so they get to place emphasis on personality, the same as high tier men. This means that men are encouraged to develop more. Most women just coast on the bare minimum, which isn't much at all now because men are desperate and women crashed as a demographic with the baby boomers. To give you examples, mental wellness isn't a bonus for men, it's a requirement. The same goes for conflict resolution. She won't do it, so it always falls to the man. Etc. Etc. For men, the bonus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:28 PM
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That's because it does. If anything, the bar is higher for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 PM
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That is only mildly true if you take the entire world into consideration, and even that is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:47 PM
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Politics doesn't matter. It is an effect, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:46 PM
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Most humans are stupid animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:45 PM
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Then we are at an impasse of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:25 PM
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You are looking at it on its face. Big companies are run by powerful men who think that the Earth is overpopulated. Most of the weird things happening right now are specifically designed to lower birthrates and increase deathrates. You can listen to Bill Gates talk about it openly. He isn't the only one who thinks this way and is in the majority among his peers. The most common term for this ideology is Neo-Malthusian if you want to look it up. As for this concretion, these powerful men want wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:23 PM
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You are taking it too literally. I think women have issues with communication and conflict resolution because they do. They are too anxious and avoidant, in addition to having poor skills in actually facing conflict. Anyone who doesn't know this doesn't know women. You would be surprised by the number of people who enter relationships selfishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:17 PM
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Of course, some mental illness isn't controllable, but most are at least manageable. I have known many women in relationships and am now married. If someone don't care about their partner, then that someone is the problem. Anyone who can't understand that is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:12 PM
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Men want hot women who have great personalities. Women should care if they want actual relationships with good men and not just strung along over and over. The better the man, the more personality matters. Women wildly overestimate how much emphasis men with actual options place on looks. Can a woman find a man if she is just some fucking deadbeat loser? Of course. That doesn't mean she won't pay a price. She will only keep men who would keep such a woman. The other problem is that women project…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:39 PM
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Married, USA Dated less than three years. Married for more than seven. Not since the first child. She now only works during tax seasons to remind herself why she hates work. I have always paid from the very beginning. She gets me nice things from time to time as well as on usual occasions. My wife is my happiness. I am proud of her. We both prefer it this way and talked about our goals in life from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:07 PM
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It depends on how well it goes with the rest of her look. I prefer a small amount of tasteful jewelry in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:05 PM
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There are women who get passed around for sure, but not in the way you described. Trains happen, but they are super rare outside of very specific high-test communities like gangs, the military, and athletics. The way it happens is that word gets around that certain girls are easy and she'll eventually have sex with an entire friend group until she realizes none of them like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:47 PM
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He's in the right. Everyone should publicly humiliate women who talk about breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:51 PM
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The job search is always a game of statistics. You need to have many irons in the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:01 PM
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Both sexes appreciate thinner partners unless they have a weird fetishes. Anyone who has been both fat and healthy understands just how stark the difference in general treatment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:38 PM
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That's because Feminism is an arm of global capitalism. When you make your way to the top, behind every powerful woman is a man telling her what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:08 PM
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That's funny, because damn near all the high skill jobs are occupied exclusively by men. Women have a lot of social power, not actual prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:44 PM
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The Moon Is A Harsh Mistress, by Robert A. Heinlein The Worthing Saga, by Orson Scott Card The Secret Teachings of All Ages, by Manley P. Hall The Bell Curve, by Richard J. Herrnstein and Charles Murray The Underground History of American Education, by John Taylor Gatto
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:55 PM
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Iraq
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:51 PM
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It's a turn on. We tell men to not stick their dick in crazy because it is too good. However, it is a major red flag for long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:50 PM
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It's easier to outsmart them. Most rich people are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:49 PM
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He 100% exists in real life. The most famous historical example is Rasputin. As someone who runs in those circles, you can see it everywhere among the younger ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:47 PM
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I wouldn't immediately kill the relationship, but I wouldn't do it either. I'm not into that and it seems like a dangerous hobby. Since she is my partner, I have a duty to respect and appreciate honesty, especially when it hurts. Sex is something that has to be negotiated, just like everything else. The more honest we are, the better it will go. That will mean facing and giving nos in a considerate manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:13 PM
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No one ever feels brave. It is a recognition given out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:32 PM
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Then what do you think is bravery, if not facing your fears and pushing forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:25 PM
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It's because media is a fake narrative designed to poke and prod the populace in directions beneficial to those who own said media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:16 PM
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They're the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:14 PM
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No, but he might say no if you do ask him not to bring her. This is why you need women, to distract your friends' women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:14 PM
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It's true. Not all women like it, but there are many that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 PM
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Have you ever thought that broadcasting being fake and manipulative is part of that reason? Women are better than men on picking up on details, even if they aren't very bright in general. Just be your best self. Learn. Play. Challenge yourself. Have fun. Be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:31 PM
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Your problem is that you take women seriously. They aren't men. They give zero point zero fucks about what is fair or honorable. You are talking to and thinking about them like they are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:24 PM
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I just walked around and girls became interested in me. It's not that tough bro. Learning how to handle what comes after is the hard part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:22 PM
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To be blunt, TRP is for Average Fucking Chumps, non-attractive, non-ugly, mentally well men. You aren't that guy. You can read TRP for information, but if you try to directly apply the advice, you will have a bad time. You will have to personalize it to your own circumstances. Since you are autistic, you need to start building up a schedule, rigid if possible. You are what you do everyday. Stop trying to crash diet your way to success. It's going to take a long time of improving slightly everyda…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:55 PM
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Now I am convinced to watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:22 PM
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I absolutely did. I was young and caught the eye of a BPD woman. It was hell and heaven at the same time. It ended with me in the back of a cop car, deciding I didn't want to ever experience anything like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:21 PM
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People on reddit are weirdos who think they are normal because they have Internet friends, who are also weirdos. Everyone on this platform was bullied as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:57 PM
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I get all my real work during the morning. In the afternoon, I'm just doing meetings and email.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:54 PM
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Exactly. I am not represented by anyone who isn't banned from social media anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:00 PM
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My wife and I have an extremely traditional relationship. I work. She is a SAHM. Other than cooking and big cleaning for guests, she does the chores. She also does most of the childcare. It has nothing to do with money or power. It's about children. In case you haven't noticed, society is attacking you from birth, to integrate, to lower yourself, to submit. This used to be okay when society was a bit more orderly and sensible, but it is no longer. My children will have an enormous advantage over…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:27 PM
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We all know what actual polycules look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:45 PM
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Men aren't like women. There is no brotherhood for strange men. Everyone is weary about strange men. Everyone is attendant to strange women. The tradeoff for this is that men form much closer bonds to the men they know and like compare to women amongst themselves. The less I know a man, the less he is like me, the more weary I am of him. I don't agree with a female-only immigration policy. That's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:14 PM
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Not usually, but I lived alone for over a decade. Laundry is the easiest chore ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:01 PM
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My wife and I are 100% way too deep into that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:57 PM
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Then you aren't thinking hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:54 PM
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I used to go to wine bars and hunt down mid-30s women when I was younger. They were easy and wanted to leave at like 11 PM. The only problem was that they wanted you to go in the morning instead of sleeping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah, she's probably looking to bang before the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:52 PM
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I volunteered for war.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:50 PM
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Someday, my wife and I will be old, with far worse than embarrassing underpants. That is inevitable. How could I even consider the ruination of my own child's life for minor inconvenience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:49 PM
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The count of boyfriends doesn't really matter past a certain point. Yes, virginity is the ideal, but that isn't a realistic expectation in this era. What actually matters: Does she have kids? Is her reputation poor? Does she have disease or mental illness from her escapades? I am attractive, so I can demand a no to all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:07 PM
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Nobody who's not hollow cares if you're goodlooking. It's just not true. Even mature, integrated people still care about the base stuff. In addition, you are essentially limiting yourself to virtuous monks. A good example is sales. Even for other salesmen who know what the fuck you are doing to them, bringing donuts and other gifts changes the outcome. Knowing what is being done to your body means the affect is limited, not extinguished. Looks matter. Status matters. Social skills matter. Etc. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:38 PM
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You have to do what's right for you at the end of the day. It's the Internet, so you will of course see the 0.0001% of men who give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:32 PM
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He would get more, lower quality women. Male models tend to date other models though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:28 PM
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I am probably the biggest "looks don't matter as much as you think" guy here, but this is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:22 PM
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That's just called negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:21 PM
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Oh, I know why they are popular amongst the general population. Most people are pathetic losers who cannot think for themselves and are thrown about on the whims of sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:51 PM
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If you take women, especially on the Internet, seriously, then you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:50 PM
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I feel like it dehumanizes the process. It's probably amazing for flings, but for a real relationship, you really want to know them better than a picture and bio. The few times I dated people who weren't friends of friends, it was a spectacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:28 PM
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Yeah, it really helps to have someone mentor you through the unspoken rules that are constantly changing. It's why help the college students at my church. I focus on the engineering students, helping them with their studies and finding them internships and jobs. It's really easy these days to end up in a corner, not even knowing it until it is too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:13 PM
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Why use online dating at all? It's really awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:09 PM
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I would just yell at the kid to stop being a nuisance and either workout or leave. I wouldn't have thrown the kid's stuff, but I sure as hell would have moved it if I wanted the machine. That kid is going to learn a hard lesson if he doesn't change his ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:41 PM
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It's very common. A lot of women have screwed up attachment. Most of them are smart enough not to say it out loud though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:17 PM
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There was very good reason that the USA wasn't set up as a democracy. People are just too stupid or uneducated to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:16 PM
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Competence (in things women care about or is put in front of them) > > > > Looks FTFY. There aren't gaggles of women following around autistic Silicon Valley millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:14 PM
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I would go out for a pack of cigarettes and never come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:12 PM
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That was a diet day for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:11 PM
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Women make much more sense when you realize they have zero respect for words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:58 PM
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I wish my kitchen knife had as much edge as this. I would be chopping happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:55 PM
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Imagine putting down people making an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:54 PM
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That may be, but once the relationship is over you no longer have to worry about "making it work." You can just have fun, either with each other or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:13 PM
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This is awesome. It should be the foundation of cold approach, but that PUA advice is born from a time when sitting at the doctor's office waiting room meant chatting with strangers for an hour. I still go around talking to people everywhere I go. You never know what kind of interesting person you will meet or what nice tidbit you might get from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:11 PM
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You control what you can, accept what you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:40 PM
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That's only if you can't control your own feelings and try to treat her like a girlfriend instead of a cum rag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:38 PM
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Taxing childless people in the face of low birthrates isn't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:16 PM
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Our only stressors in life are ourselves. You need to focus your attention inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:13 PM
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Toddlers want to do whatever you do. The only thing staged is that he didn't throw a fit when she did it with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:12 PM
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Don't listen to these losers. Accept the request and then text her, "Missing me?" Ex-sex is free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:10 PM
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I started drinking raw milk because of hippies in California. Tradcons have nothing to do with it. I highly doubt that drinking it is more dangerous than going to Taco Bell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:11 AM
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The reason you aren't a millionaire is because your first thought of a millionaire is someone on TikTok instead of a guy who runs a small oil field service company intelligently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:42 PM
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Raw milk is tasty. Being in the sunlight feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:39 PM
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Not every piece at a department store will be good. That doesn't mean you have to slum it up at Good Will looking for the one diamond in the rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:34 PM
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You must not have met many.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:33 PM
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This is both right and wrong. Yes, most people who are successful have zero understanding as to why. That being said, you should mostly ignore people who are unsuccessful because they have so little experience and skill that ignoring them is all but required. You want the people in the happy middle. They have problems and eventually overcome them. That's where the gold is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:48 PM
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Is this what a woman trying to post as a man looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:45 PM
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The Pareto principle or "80-20 rule" stating that 80% of outcomes are due to 20% of causes was named in honour of Pareto, but the concepts are distinct, and only Pareto distributions with shape value (α) of log45 ≈ 1.16 precisely reflect it. Empirical observation has shown that this 80-20 distribution fits a wide range of cases, including natural phenomena[5] and human activities. Pareto Distribution (emphasis mine) It doesn't have to be exactly 80/20. It's just a rule of thumb that occurs often…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:42 PM
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It's 20% of the men are having 80% of the sex, not 100%. No one knows the exact distribution either, there hasn't been a study on it, if you even could. We can only extrapolate from the distributions of partner count, which do show Pareto Distributions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:28 PM
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It's honestly less enthusiastically Trump here than in 2016, let alone 2020. I'm actually uncertain he will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:21 PM
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Good people are typically busy. You should be more busy. You should set up a schedule for weekly date nights that both of you set aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:19 PM
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The Pareto Distribution is probably the hardest aspect of TRP to rebut. Women don't think of it at all and only deny it out of habit. That's why female friends and family members are legitimately surprised when helping the men in their lives (that they like) with online dating can't get any success, even for average and better men. Even outside those women, you can just ask them to go to a Walmart and count how many men they would date versus how many they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:17 PM
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old tiktok People change. People say stupid things all the time, sometimes not even in jest. I want to know who she is today, as a whole person, not a single silly tiktok from years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:48 PM
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I actually do. The only problem is when she doesn't take the L and back off a bit. It's the same with men. It's exciting to see them take their shots. It's shitty when they can't take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:40 PM
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That's because they are normal people. When you move past the talking points, most people have the same opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:38 PM
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I learned the hard way that inheritance brings the nasty out in family watching my parents and their siblings interact in my grandparents' inheritances. I have a lot of money already so I'm not too interested in anything beyond childhood photos, but I already promised to be the executor. In your specific situation, I would just call it contested and throw it into the contested pile to be negotiated at the end. There will likely be other things like it and we can split them up and barter with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:37 PM
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In life and death situations, you will reach for a different part of your humanity, a part that most people like to pretend doesn't exist. There is an entire set of emotions that most modern people never experience in their lives. They can't understand it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:03 PM
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This is just another reminder of the truism: You can never make a woman satisfied by giving her what she asks for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:39 PM
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Genghis Khan. Women's opinions mean far less than great men's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:38 PM
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Reminder: You aren't attractive because a man wants to rub his sausage on your buns until the clarity reaches him and he leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:30 PM
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Women's views on morality are completely different from men's. Women focus on the person. Men focus on the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:18 PM
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Voting is stupid no matter how you do it. It would also be impossible to enforce that rule without even more overreach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:17 PM
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No, that sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:29 PM
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Of course that is the case. It's not as marked for men as it is for women, but it is still true. Everyone knows a friend who married a man or woman who liked to party and "grew out of it" but didn't really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:24 PM
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Yes, but with different reasons, desires, approaches, and drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:53 PM
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Men and women are only called the same species because we have other examples of sexual dimorphism in other animals. We are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:20 PM
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They aren't literal princesses either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:19 PM
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You are making the classic mistake of reversing causation in a correlation. Loneliness and suffering led to TRP, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:53 PM
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You need to read actual TRP. Money never makes you sexy, but I digress. Once you sleep with enough women, you lose most of the "women are wonderful" effect. You will learn that most women are losers, just like men, especially when compared to the men they want to fuck. That being said, after a few years, most will see that women aren't shitty men. Then those men can appreciate the yin and yang of humanity. It's a natural progression. First, you treat women like princesses, then whores, and final…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:41 PM
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You should form your perspective from many different viewpoints in order to find a truer synthesis. If you don't, it is very easy to get stuck in your own head. We have a tendency to surround ourselves with agreeable things, and if we don't seek disagreement, then being ignorant is the default. Specifically regarding TRP, it has nothing to do with women. It is by men, for men. Making yourself the perfect plate is not in your best interest. Settling down early isn't TRP. That is tradcon. Tradcon …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:48 PM
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That's a part of it for everyone, but never the primary reason. Most women who don't want children live in overcrowded areas and their instincts for preventing overpopulation kick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:29 PM
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I can't stand not working, and I was looking to be rich. If I wanted to, I could have either worked hard a quarter of the year or taken an easy part time job to maintain that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:48 PM
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Those same men would fumble if you approached them. It's okay to just say, "I don't have to approach, so I don't."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:18 PM
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How so? I can sus out women who are morons when I approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:12 PM
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That can happen whether or not you wait for men to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:46 PM
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Doing farm work is a lot of work, but you don't have to farm. You can just by a low cost property, put down a cheap home, and just pay your taxes and minimal living expenses. I did this after going bankrupt. I bought a plot of land and lived in a tent while I stockpiled industrial equipment I was fixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:45 PM
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If you are going to the woods, you don't need to be rich. You can save up for a few years, buy a property outright, and live comfortably doing minimal work. The only reason to be rich is to live the rich lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:53 PM
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Yup, for women it's about finding a man who is serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:50 PM
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Especially if traveling alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:49 PM
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That still leaves centrists and liberals. He's only excluding maybe 30% of women, probably less in his area if that's his bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:45 PM
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More men have autism, so the vast majority of severe cases are male. That's how bell curves work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:43 PM
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You haven't actually read TRP. If you had, you would know that the core argument of the subreddit is that resources are now handed to women in such an amount that the beta strategy (resources) is working less and less, so the only strategy left is alpha (sexy).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:28 PM
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The standards for sex and relationships are different. A lot of men will fuck women they would never introduce to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:51 PM
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Women want commitment without being committed, while also hating men that try too hard. They are basically drugged up messes raised by psychopaths into the modern art masterpiece known as the modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:21 PM
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I honestly do not know. As old as I am, I wasn't alive when you could even somewhat call things normal. People hide the ugly details of their lives and history and science avoid digging into them. I can only assert that they could be much better, not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:12 PM
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There are several factors: Testosterone has dropped for both sexes. - This is the primary sex drive hormone. Women who transition to men become insanely horny and have standards comparable to men. Hormonal birth control fucks with women's attraction. - There are many studies about the different effects of birth control on female attraction. None of them that I know of have specifically found a tie between HBC and sex drive, but I wouldn't be surprised. Denser living is known to cause female anim…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:26 PM
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TRP says that sex is unevenly distributed, not relationships. Those are two very different things. Even when 90% of people married, cheating, swinging, and dead bedrooms occurred. It's only visible to everyone today because the women don't even bother pretending to be reasonable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:13 PM
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That's not love. Women see abusive relationships as a sexual kink. That's why there is always more demand for abusive men than there is supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:27 PM
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So even in your own wild head canon, women authors write men doing all the risk and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:26 PM
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You say that, but even the typical fantasies reveal the truth. The male fantasy is slaying the dragon just to get a chance for love. The female fantasy is being preyed upon by some monster who is only kind to her. Even in their own fantasies, women can neither love nor be anything but an object for consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:11 PM
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For sure, that happens all the time. That doesn't change what I said. Men can love women. Women can't love men. It's just not how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:57 PM
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Love is true, but women can only (maybe) love their children. They don't love men. Men love women and their children. Women can only feel lust for a short time, usually until they have successfully domesticated their men. After that, they can only be fueled by admiration and social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:40 PM
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I do love potato salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:48 PM
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I would end the engagement over a woman even suggesting $100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:46 PM
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Low carb is too extreme for most people. A low sugar/alcohol diet is a better choice unless you are doing serious bulk and cut cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:44 PM
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Imagine burning your downpayment on a house to a god you don't believe in, just so you can get drunk and feel pretty for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:29 PM
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I see it all the time. It has happened to my friends and family. You don't even have to gender the question either. Men make bad decisions all the time too. "Don't stick your dick in crazy," wouldn't be a popular saying if men didn't love doing it. Men get fewer choices, but it is rare for them to have none. The criteria for a good partner is almost universal: Trustworthy - First and foremost, if you cannot trust them, then all of their other traits and evaluations are meaningless. Interested in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:26 PM
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I am amazed by the atheists who spend so much money on a meaningless (to them) Christian ceremony. Traditional weddings are almost free to church goers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 PM
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It's probably the same cost to have the maid do all the cleaning. He put in the effort of explaining what not to do just to send his gal pal a message. She is too stupid and ungrateful to understand that message, so she will likely be dumped in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:35 PM
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It's certainly one if you didn't ask for it, but it's not a strong one. I would look at it as an invitation to flirt harder and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:24 PM
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He's doing it to make a statement. She is on her last leg and will likely be dumped whenever the apartment lease comes up for renewal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:23 PM
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I am always amazed by the amount of bullshit some men put up with to not even have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:22 PM
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The steps to casual sex are: Be hot. Have game. Go to places where women go when they are looking for sex. Honesty has nothing to do with it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:19 PM
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One of my early girlfriends had a meltdown because she thought I was cheating on her. I was not. Her screaming and throwing escalated to the point where the neighbors called the police. I was cuffed and put in the back of a cop car. They got our stories separately, and thankfully, she told the truth. The cop said he was supposed to put me in jail for the night and released without charges, but he offered to let me leave since he didn't want me to get in trouble with the military. I asked if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:05 PM
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It's rare for men or women to be logical. You also do not have to be logical to move towards a goal. Ant colonies perform tons of feats and exhibit rich, complex behavior, all without anything approaching something a person would call logical reasoning. Women are immoral, not illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:22 PM
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No, TRP says looks and behavior matter. Incls say that only looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:11 PM
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I was only giving advice because I read her comment and thought she was sincere and trying to see it from both viewpoints. I appreciate that. It had nothing to do with her stance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:34 PM
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I just recognize that there is a large difference between how the world is and how I wish it would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:06 PM
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No, I lean towards the autistic side that believes that words should have unambiguous, stable definitions. Unfortunately, that makes me the weirdo. Normal people adopt, revise, and throw away words all the time. It's human nature, and fighting against it is like driving a bulldozer into the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:27 PM
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Women are children, so you don't have to say it twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:47 PM
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I think feminist is wrong, but you are touching on a truth. A lot of TRP is teaching men to date like women do. If I'm not getting what I want, I leave. I'm going to put a lot of effort into my presentation. I'm going to use social manipulation to get what I want. Andrew Tate is a grifter. Most MGTOW are losers. You should read r/theredpill 's sidebar to get more context for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:58 PM
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This is just reality. All words come with baggage. I thought she was making a good effort to get her point across, unlike most people in her position, so I wanted to help. It's not just men either. Feminism has been dragged so thoroughly through the mud that most women don't like it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:41 PM
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It is a common saying pulled from The Bible in Matthew 7:6. EDIT: It seems you are just baiting me into more comments to downvote. Have a great day reinforcing stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:34 PM
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I was trying to be nice, but it appears I'm just throwing pearls before swine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:16 PM
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I am glad you are trying to get you point across evenhandedly, but I have to warn you that Feminism(TM) has so poisoned its own well that using their buzzwords will hurt your ability to communicate your opinions. Additionally, your points are too many and too small. You should focus on one point at a time while setting out a concise summery with supporting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:09 PM
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This is a tough one. On one hand, you are saving a ton of money and time. On the other, food is so central to human life and happiness that it would remove more than just the calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:35 PM
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Autism and BPD arise from abnormalities that look more like dyslexia and aphasia than just an overreach of masculinization of feminization in the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:17 PM
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I both agree and disagree. I agree in the sense that the average man is more "autistic" than the average woman, and the same goes in the other direction for "BPD." I disagree because the actual ailments are usually due to other factors. The only one that can maybe be attributed to hormones instead of brain defects is the emotional enhancement and swinging experienced by men who take estrogen to transition. Women who take testosterone do not become more autistic, only really horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:00 PM
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That's sad. You should always support your partner's interests, even if you aren't into them. You should look for different guys. Perhaps you could find ones that would be supportive at a poetry or reading club? You should stay away from musicians. They are nutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:04 PM
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They might have a keen nose for SMV, but RMV is a completely different story. A lot of women have RMV problems that put them into the fuck/forever-girlfriend zone. The SMP and RMP are also way, way different and can have very different values for the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:00 PM
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That's actually a really good reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:41 PM
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It's still a bad idea unless you are really good at dating. Waiting for men to show interest is a good initial filter for avoiding the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:40 PM
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Now I have to know why you are saying "corny music (analogy)." Is analogy a genre of music? Are you saying that corny music is an analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:26 PM
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I guarantee you have an orbiter who already does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:59 PM
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They know that said high value guy likely isn’t going to take an interest in then in any way besides the sexual Maybe some, but I have a lot of female friends and this is not the norm. Most women, especially young, fall for the idea that because a man fucks her or even calls her a girlfriend that he loves her. They don't learn the importance of commitment until their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 PM
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Then become someone they would like to spend it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:51 PM
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Life is ugly and uncomfortable. That's why we always speak in indirections and euphemisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:50 PM
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I would tell them to either marry or they can both leave forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:48 PM
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The problem is that 6'5" rich men marry hot 6' rich women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:43 PM
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My main advice is that your maturity and the man's personality are the most important parts of real relationships. You have already thrown away an entire decade into the void and you have roughly 5 years left to find the man you want to have a family with. That's plenty of time, but you have to be serious. You have to ramp up the commitment faster and dump when they don't step up to the next level with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:40 PM
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You need friends. There are tons of single women desperate to be treated well every Valentine's Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:31 PM
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It is illegal to negotiate any aspect of marriage outside of inconsequential details. I would like those restrictions removed. The number and character of the interested parties is only a small aspect of the invasion into private life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:09 PM
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That would have ruined the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:55 PM
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I would only legalize it under the conditions that all marriages are legalized. We have too many restrictions on something the government really has no business in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:51 PM
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I'm sure there are studies with finely tuned definitions of complacency that blame men for everything and even stretch to connect it to cheating, but this is something any man with a large friend group and age understands. It is rare for the men who know the man to be surprised when he cheats, even when we are disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:00 PM
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That does happen, but it is a small minority compared to the other two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:46 PM
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If your friend group doesn't respect your relationship status, you need a different friend group. Just his mere presence does work, and when it does become physical it is far more life threatening than sex, which is a mutually beneficial activity anyhow. You are young so single isn't strange. As you age, the negative stigma of singleness continues to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:29 PM
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Except that men provide non-financial things as well. Having a boyfriend means being annoyed by fewer men. It means feeling safer. It brings with it social status. It means having a handyman. The list goes on and on for both sexes. I am a man who doesn't believe in 50/50, but it's because I expect more from my partners as well. You have to be an actual princess to get princess treatment, and most women do not have that capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:09 PM
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Men have a disposition for it or not. Most cheating falls into two categories: Woman marries man who cheats on her and all his exes. She is "surprised" that he continues cheating on her. Woman decides sex is over and stops all affection, even nonsexual ones. Man feels unloved and finds another woman who loves him. As long as the woman doesn't marry the known cheater and continues having sex, the likelihood of her getting cheated on is super low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:04 PM
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That's just a normal haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:55 PM
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It has its ups and downs. I wouldn't recommend it as a career because I think 99% of police work is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:17 PM
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I speak the same way I write. It can be offputting to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:23 PM
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You miss every shot you don't take. Women are anxiety-laden creatures. You should be bold in moving forward and then moving on if she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:47 PM
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To me, love is action. We have mistaken lust for love. Love is sacrificial in its nature. Lust is a form of selfishness. I also believe that men love women, women love children. And in the opposing direction, children respect their parents, women respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:28 PM
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No one gets what they deserve. That's not how life works. You get what you negotiate. I have known girls like this and they unfortunately tend to fall into the trap of throwing everything at the attractive boys at church, getting their hearts broken when sex didn't mean love, and possibly even keeping the baby and marrying another guy who jumps on the opportunity to victimize them. On the other hand, they sometimes luck out and end up living the lives you thought weren't possible anymore. I am j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:15 PM
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I would debate the idea that it is low quality, but that is because I have a very different view of what quality means, especially from typical women. The only reason I am able to afford my lifestyle with a SAHM is I was very lucky in many ways and make far more than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:24 PM
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While both parents work, the wife will work less. She will take a job that allows reduced hours. This is why a lot of them were teachers and why a lot of teachers left the profession after schools bumped their paperwork and hours. The other option is that the wife will take a break from her career for her children's younger years and go back to work afterwords. The real problem is that young people are so destitute these days and still refuse to lower their standards from their boomer parents. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:18 PM
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China is the shining bastion of why communism doesn't work. They regularly kill large swaths of their population while trying to do "the right thing."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:31 PM
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You are assigning malice where there is none. You are disparaging men for being bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:53 PM
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I take notes when it's important and leave the rest to my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:07 PM
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Most men don't care about how clothing looks. Feel is far more important. We also become attached to clothes we have for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:06 PM
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Remembering disparate personal trivia is a female strength. It would like me being upset at my wife for not being able to beat me in a wrestling match.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:00 PM
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Barbie is the male version of Barbie. Ken is literally the protagonist. Barbie is the Watson to Ken's Sherlock Holmes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:38 PM
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Normal isn't actually normal. It's an ideal that we all chase. We all want to be perfect adults, but we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:54 PM
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Or they are looking to cheat in their relationship... They see married men as unlikely to tell or ask her to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:03 PM
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It stops some women and turbocharges others. Enterprising single guys will wear wedding rings just to get women easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:56 PM
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As if knowing a man is married stops those women...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:52 PM
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This is how I felt for a long time. Most women are trashy. I was prepared to be single forever until I met my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:46 PM
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Roid rage is a thing. Roid rape is not. Men aren't as empathetic as women due to brain differences in gray versus white matter. Women are better at recognizing emotion and associating disparate patterns. Men do not have to be raised not to rape. That's fantasy. Actual rapists have other things going wrong in their heads. Normal men do not have rape tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:56 PM
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If testosterone were the primary driver of rape, then all bodybuilders would be rapists. They aren't. More so, women do rape. Rape isn't just testosterone. Most men do not have to "temper" a rape instinct. I have never once felt even an inkling of desire to do that and I am definitely not low T. I have never heard my male friends speak about such a desire either. Rapists are a tiny portion of men who likely have mental issues. The male dominance in this field has more to do with the larger male …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:46 PM
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The vast majority of rape in the UK is performed by migrants from cultures where it is expected to rape women in public without male escort. That is why it is on the rise there. The rest is done by the native sickos, which unfortunately exist everywhere. It is mostly a male phenomenon because women have easier access to sex and are more likely to be accepted and well treated by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:06 PM
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More than people think but less than people hope. Just wanting to change does help if you focus on one or two things at a time. Habits will eventually reform. You just can't wake up one morning perfect. It takes years and decades to change the person you spent years and decades becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:12 PM
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Most left over time. The few that are still here mostly comment in the Daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:56 PM
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You can't even imagine what it would be like to be hurt on such a primal level by the person you loved and trusted the most in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:58 PM
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If the mother is letting that slip, she was thinking about leaving with the kid anyhow. The only question is whether or not you want to reward the mother for her behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:52 PM
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No, high tier women can get the long-term interest of high tier men. It's the (slightly above) average ones who spend their life getting pumped and dumped if they never learn. A woman who gets no attention from men is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:49 PM
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That is Enlightenment fantasy bullshit slop fed to rubes to give psychopathic utopians free reign to raise children into a homogeneous blob. Communal responsibility looks more like a nun hitting your child with a paddle or ruler than whatever you are picturing anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:45 PM
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I don't think anyone should be removed from the marketplace, but I also have no problem with people voting with their feet and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:51 PM
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Women don't talk about it with each other, just the dude they are banging. Half the time they are just trying to make the Chad jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:28 PM
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I am thankful for what Disney did to Star Wars. It jarred me out of my previous position that large corporations are driven by profit motive. Any idiot could have milked that franchise for tens of billions of easy dollars just turning the better books into movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:22 PM
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That's a myth. Most married people pay more in taxes than they would single. The marriage tax break ended before anyone here was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:24 AM
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Salaries adjust for the location. The guy who makes $100k in SF would only make $60k in Boise. You shouldn't live in SF unless you make $200k+ or are actually on the career path for it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:05 AM
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Never date boring people. They will suck the life out of you while calling you a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:59 AM
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I personally like women who are chubby but not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:56 AM
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You could make one up if you want, but it would be homomorphous to a normal math system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:46 AM
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A lot of women lie to themselves and others about their dating status. That 19% is a minimum, not the actual number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:45 AM
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They don't feel like they are avatars of sexual selection because that sounds mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:44 AM
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Their math is wrong but yours is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:42 AM
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They aren't optimal, but they are far less destructive statistically than single mothers. They are also rare and don't transmit single-fatherhood to their children, so they are less disease-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:30 PM
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Single mothers are a blight to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:19 PM
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She's only going to put out less with a ring. Get out of there before you break you and the kid's heart. She has zero interest in being a reciprocal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:01 PM
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I don't think she is evil. I think she feels trapped in a warped culture where if she doesn't do this to him, another woman will. I think she is stupid because playing games like this is a waste of time. She should focus on men who actually like her for more than her hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:04 PM
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I would bet five bucks that she had feelings the whole time and that this was the plan. It's also not the catching of feelings but being a FWB that's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:50 PM
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He's not a good person, but she is an idiot. I have zero sympathy for the people who force my lawnmower to have a giant sticker saying, "Don't put your hand in this spinning blade."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:31 PM
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It stands for, "I don't want to call her an afterthought at 2 AM when I struck out at the bar."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:27 PM
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We didn't have the Internet, so we were miles from anything looking like the truth before our 30s or 40s, if ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:45 AM
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I had "girlfriends" going back to kindergarten and my mom was relieved to find a playboy in my room. Moms are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:42 AM
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Judaism is matrilineal in a way, even to this day, in that ethnic inclusion is based on the mother. However, I am using it in its more narrow family structure form where the father isn't considered a part of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:52 PM
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There are three family setups that exist among humans: nuclear, patriarchal, and matrilineal. Nuclear families are identified by a man and woman both leaving their families and starting a new one. Patriarchal families are multi-generational and share property to combat other families led by an elder, nearly always male. Matrilineal families are centered on mothers and men only exist as children, brothers, and temporary lovers. All three family structures exist at all times in all societies. Usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:26 PM
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I just can't believe that TRP is the first place where you heard that men prefer younger women. That being said, most men aren't as concerned with virginity as the incels here make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:20 PM
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Those fantasies are meant to disturb you. I grew up in a community that practices women staying home even today. There are problems in that community, as there are in every community, but none of them stem from women staying home. The Handmaid's Tale is written like typical softcore feminist porn written by women who talk about how awful it would be to be completely dominated like that and then giggle to their other friend's about how hot that situation would be. A society like that has never ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:02 PM
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I don't want poly people to go to jail. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:42 PM
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Unless they are professionally trained, all women lose any serious conflict with men. With serious training and talent, this gap can be closed with untrained men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:39 PM
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you mean if I don't perform correctly my wifey duties he's going to cheat? duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:47 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:40 PM
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I don't think so. Men and women are looking for completely different things in each other. While a chatbot is going to appeal to one aspect of what women want in a boyfriend, it can't give most of the other things. It's also the easiest thing for women to get. Any woman young enough to even consider a chatbot boyfriend will be young enough to know that infinite attention and drama is available online through the video games they play. That being said, women are far, far, far more likely to form …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:35 PM
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I stopped counting when I hit 100, so I just put that. I don't know what my actual number is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:01 PM
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Marriage itself is bad for men right now. Unfortunately, if you want to have children and give them the greatest advantage possible, then marriage is a requirement. It is the entry fee to the game right now. Housewives are an extension of this logic. A housewife gives even more advantage to your marriage and children. You pay a great cost for this. Each man has to decide what he wants and how much he is willing to sacrifice for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:01 PM
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opposite coasts LDRs rarely last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:34 PM
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If you are looking to buy an already-built home perhaps, but if you get a home built, there is a layer of trust there. Money and time have to be invested on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:02 PM
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I trust the home builder to build a nice house. I still buy an inspector because people make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:52 PM
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If I'm going to use a surrogate, then I might as well not marry at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:24 PM
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It implies that women are either stupid or lying manipulators. You can choose which.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:51 PM
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Every group of humans has their own flavor of crazy and mean. You just have to find ones you can like or tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:50 PM
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This is what I do too. I turn the autism to maximum until the interrogation stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:46 PM
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Communism is pro-gun (in theory).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:45 PM
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Crazy women fuck better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:41 PM
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I don't think there are any under-50 Journey fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:40 PM
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Most men are wired for monogamy, the same as women. We are just both bad at getting it in this environment. A lot of early TRP was young, traditional men being disappointed in the women around them and the way the courts were adjudicating divorce. They came to the conclusion that during The Misandry Bubble, the only reasonable action was to play women and never commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:54 AM
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All women express these behaviors to one degree or another. Go have your "sanest" female friend rate strangers in public on a simple 1-to-5 scale. Her cumulative ratings will look like the OKCupid study despite the fact that ugly people avoid going outside. TRP may "target" BPD women for short-term relationships because they are the most willing, but don't forget why men look for TRP in the first place. Men come to TRP because the overall male experience of men with women drives them there. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:11 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:33 PM
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There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:17 PM
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Just enjoy it. They will just be jealous of how good you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:06 PM
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Because girls are nice. As someone with sisters, a wife, and daughters, I can confirm that it's the other girls who are meanest to them, especially about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:44 AM
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It varies a lot from child to child. Some are early. Some are late, just like with most childhood development. There's also accidents that happen even after potty training is mostly done. If you can't handle that, then you shouldn't work with small children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:41 AM
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Women spend their whole lives lying to everyone around them. You are the one in the wrong expecting anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:41 AM
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I guess we should get rid of police and government since humans are beings of perfect morality and predictability now. Doing anything else would just be an insult to humanity's perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:38 AM
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Team sports and Barbie are awesome. Mr Beast is just normal brainless content. H3H3 is just a center left YouTuber. Andrew Tate is a narcissistic criminal. Fresh N Fit is mostly cringe. Making fun of feminists is a patriotic duty. Honestly, it's not enough to make a decision. Does he go to church? What are his life and relationship goals? None of those traits are important in what makes a man good. You might as well flip a coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:17 PM
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Anyone who says you don't owe strangers kindness is an antisocial loser. You are one step up from a crazy person roaming the streets without their pills. I expect nothing less from the loser den at 2X.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:51 AM
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Despite what the incels think, personality and status are just as important as looks. Most Chads aren't 6'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:56 PM
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I specifically limited my dating pool to 5'8"+ because I didn't want a short son.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:31 PM
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OLD is a waste of time unless you are just looking to fuck with zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:29 PM
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Excluding tragic accidents, everyone dating an asshole knows that person is an asshole and specifically dates them for being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:28 PM
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There's always a war in their region. This is the first time they have cancelled the Ball in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:28 PM
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I didn't think so either, but for whatever reason the US has decided to send ground troops, or at least threaten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:25 PM
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Who knows? I feel NATO will come out on top too, but BRICS didn't decide to ramp the aggression for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:23 PM
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I think a few have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:16 PM
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Who knows? China is really spicing up their anti-Israel propaganda, which is really surprising to anyone who knows how much the Chinese loved Jews until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:15 PM
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I think Yemen already announced their intentions to declare war on Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:13 PM
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CENTCOM just cancelled the Marine Corps Ball in order to raise readiness. WW3 is coming faster than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:05 PM
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I think every man goes through a white knight phase in his life where seeing a distraught woman makes him feel a need to save and comfort her. Most men grow out of this as they mature in their social understanding, even if that instinct is still there. Over-emotional women, especially angry or callous, can illicit disgust in men who have had relationships with women like that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:47 PM
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If you read the linked thread, you will see that TRP considers feminism to be female sexual strategy, a concerted, instinctual push by woman to obtain advantages in the sexual market place. TRP is just as much about the why as it is the how.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:29 PM
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The blue pill is literally tradcons and feminists teaming up to shit on men. People don't understand that because they don't understand TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:30 AM
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A good read is one of the first threads by TRP founder pk_atheist. In summary, TRP split from r/seduction because of feminist intrusion and a want to discuss evolutionary psychology as it relates to dating. The best way to learn TRP is to read its full sidebar, which takes less time than you would think. The basic theme of TRP is: Marriage is not a good deal for men anymore. Women prefer different traits in short-term(alpha) and long-term(beta) partners. We use studies to find out what women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:16 AM
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On average, gen-xers and older can interact with strangers in a calm and jovial manner. It falls off from there to the point where zoomers are terrified of everyone in public. Women didn't used to nervously scream, "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!," whenever a man talked to her in public. "Awkwardness wasn't immortalized with smartphones" How have smartphones made people awkward? idk, My main issue with smartphones is that anyone can take a video in public and post it to social media, and embarrass someone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:39 PM
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Even if you received a scientifically great future from the system, you would rebel against it. No one wants their life handed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:33 PM
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Cold approach is the top skill of PUA. You need a firm foundation to do it. People used to be thrown into that deep water back in the day because: Both men and women had better social skills back then. Talking to strangers was expected, normal behavior. Awkwardness wasn't immortalized with smartphones. Staff and the police would laugh at a woman saying that hitting on them was sexual assault. I would never suggest someone follow old PUA advice on cold approach today. It's an invitation to social…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:24 PM
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Everyone projects. It requires intentional effort to go beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:42 PM
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Dates are work and many men feel they don't have to work after the relationship is steady. Only women get the luxury of sitting around waiting for men to do something for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:41 PM
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Most people have some kind of family. I wouldn't call most of them comfortable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:33 PM
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Most young men can live with their parents for a while and eventually move in with sympathetic grandparents when their parents tire of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:30 PM
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It's okay. Most young men today aren't draftable due to their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:23 PM
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We aren't going to make it that far in this cycle. The best you will see are virtual girlfriends trained on OnlyFans data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:21 PM
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I said intention, as in if the relationship continues working and nothing new comes up that marriage is the part of the plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:27 PM
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The end goal of dating is marriage. You don't have to propose to everyone on the first date in order to date with that intention. The reality is that some of the people you date won't be a good match and you will have to move on. That is a part of the process. No one is "ready for marriage." That's a myth. We flail about in the dark and only reciprocal good intentions can make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:09 PM
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Discussing anything from PPD will just come off as autistic in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:59 PM
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Everyone needs a create outlet and something to challenge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:58 PM
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Permanently ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:18 PM
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That threshold is somewhere around your state and/or federal bankruptcy limits, which very few young people are even close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 PM
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Those men are in hoe phases. Women who never intend to marry are permanent hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:04 PM
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It's not a bad idea to go without health insurance until you meet a threshold, especially if you are even slightly legally savvy and young enough that you really only care about emergencies. You don't even have to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:52 PM
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Even the insta baddies don't look like insta baddies in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:50 PM
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Women like to use rich men. Money doesn't make men sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:49 PM
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They neither respect nor disrespect. They don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:47 PM
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A hoe phase is whenever you date without intention for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:45 PM
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Women love mentally ill dick. There is way more demand than supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:27 PM
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You will enjoy it during and get mad afterwards wonder if that is what he really thinks about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:25 PM
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Let me point out the middle left drawing as an example. The vertical line has arrows on both ends, indicating that this is not a vector but a line that continues in both directions. Vectors have a direction, and therefore are drawn with one arrow. To show your work, you can show it in algebraic terms: A = -18j B = 13i C = A + B = 13i - 18j |C| = sqrt(|A|2 + |B|2 ) = sqrt(132 + 182 ) = 22.2
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:17 PM
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We are interdependent in the "let's put our strengths together to make something awesome" way but not the "we have shared social media and email and do everything together" way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:39 PM
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I started in Oil & Gas, but now I am a general management consultant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:28 PM
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Most people do not understand the words they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:37 PM
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Caffeine is an easily kicked drug that gives no benefits and hurts your life more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:26 PM
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This right here is the answer unless you have taken HGH or are a natural gorilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:24 PM
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We used to only really talk about women's long-term preferences because pregnancy prevented women from fucking around for decades before settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:42 PM
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This, most people don't understand how to be healthy. Crash diets are only second to eating McDonalds everyday in unhealthiness. If you spent decades getting fat, expect to spend years getting fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:22 PM
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Men don't have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:11 PM
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People get with the people they want. She wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:09 PM
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It is impossible to legally separate your assets in most of the Anglosphere. You have to use complex financial mechanisms to accomplish it and the ability to hire an attorney whose relationship to the judge prevents the judge from laughing at you and just making up numbers and/or throwing you in jail for fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:07 PM
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I'm not saying you should become an anxious mess. I am just saying that there is deep truth in the phrase, "I wouldn't kick her out of bed for eating crackers."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:36 AM
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We just have to be honest about it. I am a big fan of game and its importance, but your looks are the foundation for everything. People will treat you better, invite you to more things, and forgive your mistakes. You want both game and looks as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:23 AM
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If you aren't embarrassed of your younger self, you stopped growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:20 AM
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Reciprocation is the foundation of relationships. Even a little bit goes a long way, especially if it's the "other person's job."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:17 AM
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I need default replies to messages I want to acknowledge exist but don't care enough about to use a real sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:15 AM
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Being good looking makes everything else easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:11 AM
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(A)mog goes back to The Game and PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:10 AM
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R*pe and most sexual crimes are by nature private crimes that rarely happen in broad daylight in front of others. So what evidence would be good enough for you? This is the key point surrounding the debate. It is so old and pervasive that "He says, she says," is a famous saying in the English language. Without giving women the power to jail any man they want, you can't do anything about it. It is a hard problem. The one and only solution is for women to not be alone with men they do not know and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:55 PM
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They are two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:35 PM
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In most of the USA and the world. Houses over $500k are the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:22 PM
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Most of them are lying. Either way, you should be learning how to better your finances and not envying others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:20 PM
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Saying monogamy was invented by men is like saying eggs were invented by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:17 PM
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Money cannot buy love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:15 PM
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It's mostly a joke and a way to keep girls from getting pregnant while you are paying for them. You will notice this rhetoric dropped in volume after birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:51 PM
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Oh no! Naturals exist and get pussy for free! I guess I better lock myself in a closet and die instead of making my life better and fucking all the pussy I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:48 PM
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Important people were worried about the growing consensus in America around the time of Occupy Wall Street. After crushing them, the propaganda machine started pushing identitarian politics on both sides in order to redivide America.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:16 PM
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That happens, but it isn't normal. I have seen it a few times. It's one of the signs of an abusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:35 PM
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Women love talking so I just ask questions about them. If I decide I want to smash, then I pick a woman in the area to gossip about. It works well because women love hating on other women but she will also subconsciously compare herself. It's a great neg.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:51 PM
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No, comorbidity doesn't mean it is those things. Once you control for its comorbidities, intelligence is slightly negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:35 PM
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Intelligence is comorbid with many traits that women do like, including height, status, and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:15 PM
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Even if it were a plus, which it is not, most people are wildly off and make their predictions based off awards, stereotypes, and halo bias. High intelligence people aren't emotionally stunted but socially. People of higher intelligence get their mental and material rewards from intellectual work instead of competing for social attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:58 PM
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Good, I hope it keeps getting better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:38 PM
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Most incels have ugly and/or mentally ill mothers and absent fathers. The other half of them are the children of immigrants from short ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:30 PM
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Nothing physical is worth anything until you can speak without a phrase book at a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:27 PM
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I knew women in my own family who had half to a full dozen children and didn't look like that. Never forget that people go on the Internet all the time to spout stupid shit like, "Babies make you fat."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:26 PM
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I am a borderline hoarder. It's painful for me to throw things away. I do it only because I don't want to end up like my parents with so many boxes they haven't opened in a decade that they just sit around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:46 PM
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Good luck! I love that moving gives you an opportunity to throw away a ton of stuff but hate doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:38 PM
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While starting my business the first time, I had a large client who refused to pay after I borrowed money to service that client. They accurately predicted I would run out of money before I could sue. I was forced into bankruptcy as paralegals combed my life for things they could take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:35 PM
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I think deep down, they all want a stable, loving, deep, exciting relationship with a woman, but they can’t get it. This hits the nail on the head here. TRP only exists because the beta route of getting a job, dating women, marrying, and having a lasting family, has been dying. Men are trying different tricks to either achieve that anyhow or are trying the plate spinning route.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:29 PM
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This is by design. The people at the top have decided that mass immigration is what they want, so anyone respectable standing against it will quickly find themselves locked out of the economy. They don't care if it's bad for you and the migrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:55 PM
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The women here are old, and beards are new fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:22 PM
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Most therapists are mentally ill grifters. The good ones are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:14 PM
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Cheating is perfectly acceptable is she stops having sex. Before that, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:12 PM
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It's not pointless. You get to waste years of a woman's life as she sucks your dick while you look for someone acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:11 PM
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Up in public bathrooms and personal. Down everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:07 PM
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It's just two average people getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:05 PM
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Yes, I completely meant that you should only read one primary source and then project it onto everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:01 PM
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Rarely. History is certainly more interesting than school makes it to be, but you can only choose a small number of subjects. Either you dive deeply into primary sources or you are just reading pop fiction for mass consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:32 PM
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WFH is fantastic. They are trying to kill it, but I think it is too late. The cat is already out of the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:40 PM
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It has been trending downward for years, even according to the fudged official numbers. Most people don't go homeless. The either move back in with their family or never move out. They then go on disability or work a minimal job and coast. You just aren't old enough to realize how different it used to be. Companies were so desperate for workers that damn near anyone showing up got a job. That's what a real labor shortage looks like. Instead, even highly qualified people have to apply to dozens o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:37 PM
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We are also importing millions of people per year while outsourcing as much as possible. The labor market isn't tight. The labor participation rate has plummeted due to wage stagnation, inflation, and the destruction of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:15 PM
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Different levels of the industry are given different levels of humiliation according to their intellectual level. That's why Walmart has gold stars and dancing like kindergarten. Your humiliation is different, not gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:04 PM
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It used to be better. Less women made for better work environments. Schools in cities were good, so you didn't need to live an hour away from the office. You worked hard in your 20s to make it easy in your 30s and then coasted. A new job was easy to get so being fired was almost unheard of. You were paid enough to marry, buy a house, drive cars, and go on vacations. The modern office is just the tip of a mighty spear of economic class war designed to humiliate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:55 PM
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There are a small number of men who are either instant nos or yeses on sight. The vast majority of men sit in an invisible blob in the middle. And yet, many of these men get into sex and relationships. Personality, aka game, is what distinguishes these men from the others. The problem is that men and women have a completely different view on what a good personality is. Men think that it's being polite and subservient because that is how your parents taught you to be. That's how to be a good woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:14 PM
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I hate cake. Ice cream is my weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:55 PM
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Sex potential drops precipitously because most casual sex happens with drugs. If you are straight edge, you should skip straight to relationships with straight edge girls. There aren't many of them, but they are usually much higher quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:54 PM
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Women have no insight into their feelings and project them onto random things around them. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:23 PM
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Either women are children who have to be protected and escorted around or they are full humans with rights and responsibilities. Female accommodations only should only exist where there are matching male accommodations, such as bathrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:45 PM
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It's more than possible. As I said, Rollo didn't trip on DMT and divine the great secrets from the machine elves. He took information from another group and transformed it into something for his. I doubt he was the only one doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:57 PM
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Hitchens is an actual debater, not just an Internet personality. He's also far more experienced in it than either Destiny or Rollo. Rollo was one of the first ones to move beyond PUA and general tactics. He basically brought evopsych ideas to the conversation in a digestible format. He isn't saying anything new, but it wouldn't be entirely untrue to say that TRP essentially came from his blog. He has more sidebar links than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:46 PM
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He is not an Internet debater. He's a Gen-X blogger. I don't think he has basic debate skills, let alone compared to Destiny who has more experience in it than just about anyone. Rollo has contributed a ton to the conversation and discounting him because he doesn't understand debates would be a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:31 PM
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Rollo is a great writer, a decent streamer, and a poor debater. That being said, Destiny is highly variable. He has great streams of consciousness while chilling but his debates are spectacularly awful, especially his early ones. I only listen to him from time to time because I travel a lot and he is the only good left-leaning commentator out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:14 PM
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They are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:01 PM
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They are referencing China's 50 Cent Party, people who post on the Internet for the Chinese government for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:59 PM
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Women lie more often but not all the time. Sometimes they tell the truth, but it's not helpful. The more you give her, the faster she leaves. Women rarely do nothing. They just put in less. Yes. Correct. They do try, but it's very hard for them. It's a combination of resources and sexiness. The less you have of one, the more you need the other. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:14 PM
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I keep trying to tell people that the problem isn't undesirable men but unmarriageable women. Men have always been undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:32 PM
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The problem with treating the poor like dirt is you need them to participate in your society. Otherwise, they will fuck off and you will watch your society crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:31 PM
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Yes and no. It is unhealthy to ignore all social cues. You will end up locked up somewhere. It is unhealthy to pay too much attention to social cues. You will end up a doormat or overcome by narcissism. As with many things, there is a healthy compromise in the middle somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:15 PM
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Everyone is a radical in their teens and twenties to a lesser extent. Most people grow out of it. what makes me so deserving of a husband thats actually a genuinely good person Never, ever get hung up on who deserves what. No one gets what they deserve. They get what they negotiate. If you want a good husband, then you have to just have make that your priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:42 AM
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It depends on the SAHM. If we are talking about the lazy boomer mom who just cleaned the house and microwaved/ordered dinner while sending her kids to public school, then not much. If we are talking about the SAHM who actually provided real value you either cannot buy or afford, the she is priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:37 PM
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Real autism is just as, if not more, rare as PTSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:27 PM
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If I give you an $50 Amazon gift card after you buy me a motorcycle, am I contributing to your household? Either way, you are diving into strict definitions for my original "I mostly agree" comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:22 PM
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The vast majority of male PTSD comes from TBIs, and I doubt that male PTSD is even within an order of magnitude of the amount of women with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:20 PM
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It's rare that the woman contributes more financially than she spends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:17 PM
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Looks aren't everything. Women have much more complex sexual attraction compared to men. Game/personality are very important parts of what makes a man attractive or unattractive. Alpha Fucks - Trading sperm for vagina. Beta Buxx - Trading resources and attention for vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:07 PM
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This, but unironically. It's a bit more complex in reality, but AF/BB is a good enough understanding for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:00 PM
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Both men and women suffer from BPD. That's like saying women murder too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:56 PM
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You'll have to clarify that because it made no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:22 PM
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Even the hottest guys on the planet do not have as many options as as the average woman. Most guys don't get to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:54 PM
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Perhaps you missed where I said men fall on a distribution two comments up. You asked why children increase the risk and I answered. I did not say all men start fucking their secretaries the moment their wives say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:50 PM
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People tend to go with the flow. With fewer social events and less pressure, it just doesn't happen for many people unless they make it happen. I'm not sure how old you are now, but you are going to lose your friends as you age. People get more career and family responsibilities and miss more events. If you don't have someone in the group putting in the work to hold it together, this happens faster. Eventually most will marry and turn inward towards infants. Being single in your teens is no big …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:18 PM
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Especially in today's era, children have a tendency to majorly impact the sex frequency. Feeding during infancy and emotional stress during toddling are big ones. There are also many women who just stop having sex after having the amount of kids they want, which is much lower now as well. If either the man or woman lack the emotional maturity to overcome this, the lack of sex pushes the man onto other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:03 PM
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Like most things, it falls upon a distribution. There are men who make a go at any women in the vicinity and men who hate being in the same room as women, with most men falling somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:47 PM
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Wife goggles really are a thing. I love my wife more despite many years and children, and I would tell you it is because of these things. It's also not the wedding ceremony. It's child birth. Fathers undergo a deep hormonal and brain change that is well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:33 PM
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Not really. I just have lived with them and been around them long enough to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:14 PM
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You can complain about it, but having a growing number of sexless, jobless young men is a disaster. You might as well go outside and yell at the clouds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:58 PM
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The only requirements are to be young and not fat. The right makeup can be amazing, but women do makeup for other women in the same way bodybuilders do it for other men. The same goes for hair and clothes. The right ones are great but women dress for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:54 PM
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Men don't get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:50 PM
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They are all around you. You just aren't looking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:02 PM
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Billy Beta gets to determine the standard for marriage. There's not enough Chad to go around, and even with birth control and abortion, women don't want to live alone forever. At some point, women have to go to Billy and convince him that they are good candidates for marriage or be alone forever. You can see this playing out in the marketplace even now. Every young man today has heard some version of TRP. Even if they don't agree with it, the 30 year old men today are much less excited when thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:18 PM
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I can't. You can only be helped professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:46 AM
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Have there been any improvements to give hope beyond a phrase book?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:32 AM
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That sounds like aphasia more than autism, especially since you can write fluently. Either way, it's no wonder you are having trouble. Are you self-diagnosing or have you sought professional help?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:21 AM
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Are you in a foreign country or legitimately unable to speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:13 AM
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You don't even talk about working on your game at all. Stop listening to the incels. Looks aren't everything. Money is for simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:09 AM
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The best way to secure commitment is to choose a good man who is looking for commitment and has the same goals as you. Look at his parents and grandparents. Are they still married? Is he commitment minded in general? Is he religious? Do you have the same ideas about what dating and marriage look like? The second most important idea is that you are going to be wrong. You will think with your vagina and pick bad men (for you). The key here is to minimize the trauma and time wasted. Always. Escalat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:33 PM
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The best way to make money is to have money. The best way to find a job is to have a job. The best way to make friends is to have friends. And of course, the best way to get status is to have it. Whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them. Matthew 13:12 NIV
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:50 AM
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Too many times for me to make mystery "meat" a part of my diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:07 AM
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It happens all the fucking time. Nothing is more embarrassing than watching a rich man think his new trophy wife loves him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:27 AM
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China isn't even state capitalist, aka communist, anymore. They moved into a fascist economic model decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:25 AM
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I trust the food industry less the more I learn about it. Moving away from processed food is a life changer. Lab grown meat is an abomination in my head screaming cancer law suits in 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:23 AM
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Ken is the main character of Barbie. He is the only one with any character development in the movie, although Barbie does start her journey at the end in a weird epilogue. You should see the movie. It is incredibly good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:12 PM
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I really like that she called the movie a modern Rorschach Inkblot Test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:37 PM
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while they used the world "patriarchy" about two dozen times to describe the real-world, they never called Barbieland a matriarchy. They don't even like that word in the journals and use matrilineal instead, even though it means the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:34 PM
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Oh, I see. You aren't full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:18 PM
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Do you not have a limited number of vacation days?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:13 PM
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Vacations aren't just about money. They are also about time. The ten days you are taking are ten days less you have for a combined vacation. I think you get my point. Just remember that a happy marriage only gets one shot and you would be surprised how delicate it is. It has to be cherished and protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:03 PM
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It used to be much more common. In the old days, just about everyone married. People became desperate as their attractive peers paired off and the only options left were die alone, marry the pitiful guys who are still left, or wait for the best of those guys to get taken by other women. These days, people are much more likely to bury their heads about how unattractive they are by staying single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:58 PM
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I guarantee you all the other women complained about it but were jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:49 PM
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It's instinctual to look at people. You should try not to be an asshole about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:45 PM
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Vacations belong in the same category as houses, cars, and recurring bills. They are partnership items to be decided together. You can agree to each of you doing solo vacations, but that should be worked out ahead of time. This isn't the worst thing ever, but if this is a habit, you will ruin your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:42 PM
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The most prolific predatory relationship is a jaded woman married to a naive betabuxx. Everyone knows them too. It's so prolific that men and women just see it as normal, because it is. And yet, that entire relationship can be described with, "Happy wife. Happy life." Does that sound healthy to you? Or does it sound like a victim walking on eggshells around a tyrant?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:35 PM
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KPop is due to marketing/propaganda. When Musk bought twitter, he laid off the entire Japan section. It completely changed Japanese twitter so much that the Japanese freaked out. One of those changes was that KPop went from always trending constantly to never being seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:21 AM
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Yup, my wife enjoys gaming, but she doesn't tell people she's a woman. She still says it's a tradeoff. While men don't get as many people irrationally angry at them or vying for attention, men also don't get randos dropping money on them or helping them as much. The typical move is to be "male" for randos and then "accidentally" slip that you are female to your friends/guild.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:03 AM
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There is strong covariance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:01 AM
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You don't understand 80/20. For TRP, it means 20% of the men get 80% of the sex. Because it is a power law, this is fractal. Inside that 20% of men, the law still stands. That means 4% of the men have 64% of the sex. You can difference this to see that the 16% of men below the top 4% only receive 16% of the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:48 AM
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It depends on the person. A collection of small surgeries can make an enormous impact. Today, most 5s need to hit the treadmill and salad bar more than surgeon anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:59 PM
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That's why it's so doable. Most people don't make the effort for one reason or another. It's very easy to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:56 PM
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The most important aspect of successful plastic surgery is knowing what you need and saying no to the rest. It is very easy to go overboard, either from the greedy doctor pushing or a mentally ill client obsessed with even the smallest imperfections.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:53 PM
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It's scary for people. Most people have social anxiety, and that is only more true in younger generations. You have to build up the experience, skill, and confidence over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:50 PM
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Social skills are the most important aspect of your career. The people who will interview you don't understand what you do and mistake their emotional feelings for you as your merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:43 PM
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Online is a strange place, but first impressions are part of social skills. Physicality is a booster for sure, but outside of a small number of people, it isn't an automatic yes or no. Women aren't men and have much more complex sexual mechanisms. Most men just sit in the grey zone and never push out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:35 PM
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I don't know who she is. I made up a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:28 PM
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Looking good is good. Having a career is good. But by a distant margin, the most important aspect of sexual success for most people is investing into social skills and relationships. Most men sit in the amorphous, unseen middle, neither hot nor ugly. Social ability and opportunity is what gives these men the ability to move into attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:14 PM
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When I was looking to fuck, she bought her own shit. I have even had sugarmamas buy me shit in return for my attention. When I was seriously dating, I paid for everything because that was the relationship I was looking for. Everything you do speaks to your intentions. Speak loudly and get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:09 PM
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Men will sleep with women for which they have contempt, but not disgust. Women will sleep with men they hate, but not men whom they contempt or disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:14 PM
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Very much so. I have a look that is attractive to women who want an overly aggressive partner and I hate those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:08 PM
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Plastic surgery can take a 20 year old female 5 to an 8. It cannot make a 60 year old woman young again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:58 PM
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I’m doing bad right now, but when I turn 33 I’ll be sought after by all the young chicks, while my female peers will be undesirable old hags. That's not what The Wall is at all. It is the age at which the average woman and average man have the same dating power. You won't be tackled by sorority chicks on your 30th birthday, but you will have a backlog of Facebook messages from your highschool crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:56 PM
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No, you make the reader anticipate a compound sentence which forces a rescan. Leaving out that comma is the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:53 PM
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The Oxford comma comes from lists of three or more items as the last comma before the and conjunction. Yours is an extraneous comma in a compound verb phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:29 PM
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People don't read. You need good pictures. Read this TRP thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:27 PM
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He looks like an overweight construction worker shopping at Walmart wearing a t-shirt that says, "Construction workers do it with a backhoe."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:42 PM
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No, women are just delusional about what average looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:01 PM
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The essence of man is taking risks. Just do it and see where it goes. It's just a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:58 PM
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That Ken asked to be a Supreme Court justice with no experience. It makes sense to make him start at a lower court to learn the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:06 PM
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We would have to argue about the definition of feminism, which wouldn't go far since it is quite the vague category.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:46 PM
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It was actually anti-feminist, pro-woman. The primary message was, "It's okay to just be a woman." It even had a subplot that you shouldn't oppress men in it. I wouldn't call it misandrist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:07 PM
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It was actually really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:02 PM
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Women naturally select stupid, brutish men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:47 PM
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We have different opinions on Communism today because we have the benefit of seeing the USSR play out from beginning to end. It was really popular back in the day because people didn't understand its devastating consequences. You have to judge historical figures in the time that they lived and by human standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:46 PM
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Most women just float passively wherever the currents take them. Women who actively participate in the relationship without being resentful are so rare that it is easy for them to secure almost any man. The key is to make it fun, build habits, and make sure that you are leaving him enough space to participate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:35 PM
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It depends on the man. For my wife and I, we don't meticulously eat the perfect ratio of chicken, broccoli, and sweet potato. We do however, cook all the meals we can. We rarely have snacks in the house at all. We both exercise everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:18 PM
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It is, but it's part of growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:25 PM
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Rejection hurts. You should be a bit more empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:18 PM
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Men are more likely to pay the price for both their social ineptitude and women's. Women complain about their panic attacks while a normal person strikes up a conversation in a dentist's waiting room. Women have never had to put in a lot of work to get dick, but they have to put in effort to keep a man interested in social commitment, at which they are failing miserably these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:05 PM
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It was also a different time. People could afford to live a decent betabuxx lifestyle. Divorce was still rare. Single men and women were hounded by everyone around them. Religion was the mainstream. People don't realize how much social support we have lost for functional living.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:41 PM
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You say that as if young women aren't at least as addicted to the Internet as young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:33 PM
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It is much harder for an average woman to be in a serious relationship with someone she finds attractive than it is for the average man to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:21 AM
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I am happy for all people who can find things that make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:09 PM
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I would tell her to abort the child and then divorce her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:30 PM
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The absolute only thing that makes a 5' woman equal to a 6' man is a gun. Everything else is fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:26 PM
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That's annoying but not gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:43 PM
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Excluding children, elderly, and incapacitated, I would imagine so. Definitely in the USA, but some countries are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:45 PM
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That's how all my relationships start. I got my second girlfriend by calling her a retard for thirty minutes while she was trapped in a carpool with me the first time I met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:01 PM
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Asking women to have agency in their own lives is usually a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:53 PM
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It is the same in job interviews. The same pathetic men interview hundreds of times while good candidates may only interview once. Average candidates will interview less than a dozen. Because of this, resumes and interviews are crowded with idiots and frauds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:45 PM
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You do not have to make a ton of money to live a trad life. In fact, it is enormously cheaper to live tradcon than it is to live in the typical metro or suburban style. The problem is that some women equate tradcon with a UMC suburban lifestyle where the wife does just about nothing while living a luxurious lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:51 PM
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[...] money are all important factors that define a man's SMV Money is a detraction on SMV, not add. Money is good for RMV, aka betabuxxing. Height is a big deal for SMV, but it isn't the top. Game, aka social/flirting skills, is the top, and it isn't even close. A very small number of men are by attractive or unattractive upon first sight. Most men sit in the undistinguished middle of nonexistence. Game is what separates the successful men here from the losers. And before you tell me that you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:03 AM
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It happens more often than you think. I am one. You can't be ridiculously into the spectrum or low IQ though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:11 AM
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This is just yet another excuse to deadbedroom her partner and then blame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:05 AM
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Not at all. The Wall has nothing to do with age gaps. It's about negotiating power between average men and women. A 50 year old woman can get sex from a 50 year old man, but she cannot act like she is 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:52 AM
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Bastards belong to the mother and not the father. If a woman wants a man to take care of her children, she shouldn't bang homeless people in the BK bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:52 PM
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This is a great opportunity for you to learn that it's not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:52 PM
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He doesn't care and neither should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:40 PM
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Getting robbed hurts more when you have very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:46 PM
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If you can't handle your girl feeling, or wanting to feel, sexy to you, then I think you need to work on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:05 PM
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Single mothers disqualified from government support. Alimony and child support completely removed and replaced with the traditional dowry. Bastard rights removed. BIOTC changed to default 50/50 or as otherwise negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:34 PM
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The good news is that millionaires have an easier time finding girlfriends. Just make sure you find a lawyer first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:21 PM
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You devalue the things you don't have to work for, like water and air.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:20 PM
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This might surprise some people, but committed relationships mean escalating restrictions to form a more intimate bond. Neither my wife nor I go to places where singles meet to get drunk and fuck alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:19 PM
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I text back just enough to make sure my wife doesn't have a pout session. I hate texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:56 AM
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Men do. That's why we have laws against rape that go much further back than women voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:58 PM
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The transition from 20s to 30s is a wild time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:51 PM
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For men, the people doing the action have little effect on its rightness or wrongness. Law and philosophy, which are essentially entirely male domains, are expressions of male thought. Women can usually follow these thoughts, somewhatly, but they can't apply them outside a small number of autistic women. Female morality is incredibly complex and oppositional to male morality. For women, it matters who did the act to whom more than the act itself. To use your story as an example, the show has a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:46 PM
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Women don't care about men, at all. You are projecting a male moral calculation on someone who has never in her life thought that way. Women have a completely different way of thinking about right and wrong from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:16 PM
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Choreplay is when a woman who has given up on the relationship tells the man to do more chores in return for her renewed effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:30 PM
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Lots of eating and little exercise over years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:53 PM
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My cousin told me he is planning to divorce his wife at the recent family get-together. She is now well over 300 lbs and does nothing but play with her phone, lying in bed when not at work. He went 100% into choreplay and then marriage counseling. She eventually told him she doesn't give a fuck after he took every responsibility in maintaining the house and taking care of their three kids. I told him to wait until the kids are at least through puberty to avoid hurting them too much and to just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:29 PM
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It depends? Women definitely care more about personality as a sexual thing in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:54 PM
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More true than most would be willing to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:34 PM
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Maybe if you are talking about the ridiculous ones, but that's more of a personality thing than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:33 PM
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I do know men who have changed their minds do to rumors of a crush's past behavior, but nail style? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:32 PM
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Sexual reproduction creates random combinations from the sperm and egg dna. This is why siblings aren't always identical. Men have more variance in phenotype due to the Y chromosome. These random combinations have different reproductive success. Women are a standin for Nature's judgement. They care about the social and phenotypal success that are representations of men's fit with their environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:29 PM
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They are. Men are the dice that nature rolls to maintain environmental fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:09 PM
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And you think Russians aren't human?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:08 PM
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We aren't quite that bad, but it's harder for us to care as deeply about children that aren't ours. Men are better at it than women in my experience, but the really awful stuff usually comes from mom's boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:45 PM
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It's strange. It used to be men always had to pursue. I guess Tinder has changed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:39 PM
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Female sexual attraction is not the same as male sexual attraction. Women will literally see you as more or less physically attractive based on their cycle, how much they like you, how much Sara likes you, what car you drive, etc, etc. Men just want physical beauty and youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:37 PM
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They are just objects designed by nature to judge men and produce the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:34 PM
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I'm bored and directionless. I think I will fly to a foreign continent to kill strangers. For free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:31 PM
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You are the one with the problem, not her. A woman will never love a man the same way a man loves a woman. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:25 PM
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Don't do it. If you are too socially awkward to get a woman to dress up with no sex involved then you are too awkward to hide the fact that she is an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:22 PM
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Every woman is talking to multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:20 PM
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TRP specifically only blames men. We don't see women as responsible adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:15 PM
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It's probably not. Most extreme child abuse comes from non-related adults in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:56 PM
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lol I missed that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:41 PM
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I wouldn't call a multiplayer shooter a casual game. You would call the non-professionals amateurs. I minimize all hobbies that aren't making something like woodworking, cooking, tinkering, knitting, etc. That's why I said gaming isn't much better than instagram scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:30 PM
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Men want to be boyfriend material and do the courtship and princess treatment. It's the women who don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:26 PM
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Grace says that things got physical at Aziz Ansari's apartment after dinner. They kissed. He performed oral sex on her. He asked her to do the same. She briefly did. He was eager to have sex. She says she would try to move away from him and used, quote, "verbal and non-verbal cues" to show she was uncomfortable with the situation. Yet he kept trying. She eventually says she's going to call a car. He gets her an Uber, and she leaves. And she feels violated. If that's her side of the story, then s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:23 PM
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No, casual gaming is something like solitaire. There is a game and skill involved, but usually not a competitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:16 PM
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So only professional athletes compete? That is definitely not the standard definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:04 PM
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Everyone needs them. Women are just more like to not do anything outside of casual consumption. At least the men who are wasting their lives on video games are actually learning and competing. I think that is a (tiny) step up from the women who just watch tv and scroll instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:37 PM
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If that's the case then everyone needs religion This is actually true. People don't know what they are missing. Sharing meals and events with a like-minded community is fulfilling in the deepest sense. Helping others monetarily and bodily makes the soul well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:10 PM
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Validation seeking is an enormous part of the male sex drive. We would be deluding ourselves to think otherwise. Sexual success is up there with income in how men think of themselves and other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:07 PM
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I am amazed when women have any real skills these days outside of work. Most women have become one dimensional slobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:04 PM
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I would bet that 10% of that happened and then she blew it up for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:59 PM
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I could be wrong about specific people and I am more than willing to look further, but it is a giant red flag. Worse, income disparity is a red flag that has great potential to be ignorable until the stakes are highest, the marriage itself. It also didn't reduce my options very much. Very few women make more than me. My greatest limiting opinion was homeschooling, by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:55 PM
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People advertise who they are in many ways. Most people aren't very nuanced, especially when younger. That's just life. The guy who drives a lifted pickup with a Jesus cross on the back window in camouflage paint probably votes Republican. I was also unashamedly looking for a specific type of woman. There's nothing wrong with looking for a compatible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:40 PM
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It's a standin for many negative aspects. Her opinions on home life will be too different from mine. She will have to suppress her feminine need for a man she looks up to. She will use that income to take control of the relationship and will then resent me for "making" her do it. It's possible that she is the one in a hundred women for which none of these will happen or cause a problem. I personally know an older couple where the husband makes about $500k and the wife makes about $3M, and they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:07 PM
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No, but I probably wouldn't date her either. Women usually can't handle that, and it's not worth wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:19 PM
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There is a gender pay gap, but women make more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:18 PM
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Most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:17 PM
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That's a minority. Most rich people get and stay married to someone in their class, although that is trending downward right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:02 PM
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They would tell you that sexual access doesn't mean anything because love and trust are what matter. We always take what we have in abundance for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:52 PM
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They do all the time. Friendships are very strange when you have a lot of money and relationships are only worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:45 PM
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Both are obviously better, but it doesn't take much to out-eat all but the most chemically enhanced trainers. The saying comes from a time when most people really believed they could eat a bag of cookies and pedal on an exercise bike for an hour to make up for it. Most people aren't that stupid anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:44 PM
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Look for the paper on hormonal birth control interfering with women's ability to smell compatible immune systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:12 PM
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If you were born 15 years later, you would resemble those people. We are partial products of our environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:09 PM
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Is this book written by a loose woman writing mic drop porn to justify her bad decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:02 PM
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It's impossible to tell because the woman will have lust goggles on. The only way to see if a man loves you is to require consistent, escalating commitment. Fucking on the first date is a bad idea, especially if you can't handle it emotionally. Being a girlfriend for 10 years is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:57 PM
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Most women aren't physically attracted to their male partners. The men are judged by their husbanding and fathering ability. Lesbians are usually asexual and can get by on their massive in-group bias. Women really do think other fat women can be attractive, even when they would disqualify any man for that same level of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:39 AM
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Dommy mommies are a rare breed. Most women are extremely turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:35 AM
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They should be. Why would I want to marry someone who couldn't keep their first marriage together? The statistics back this up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:24 AM
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My point is that fault and cause are not the same thing. It is perfectly reasonable to say that the fault for divorce primarily resides with the one who files for it. The events that lead up to that filing are usually inconsequential to the determination of fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:38 PM
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I am trying to illustrate my point. You should actually read what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:22 PM
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Very few relationships end because of one partner. That is true. BUT. The finding of fault and the finding of cause are not the same. If a robber murders a store clerk in a robbery, we find the robber at fault, not his abusive mother, absent father, and psychopathic environment. It is the same with wives leaving husbands. Yes, maybe the husband could have been better, but the wife is the one who ultimately pulled that trigger. The fault will automatically lie with her unless she can prove that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:18 PM
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They do in pseudo-LTRs where you want someone because you are lonely but you know it won't last. They pick those men either because they have bad taste or they aren't able to keep good men. Women only know how to dress provocatively and stand in front of men they like. They aren't very sophisticated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:13 PM
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This is what happens to pretty women with bad personalities. Good women leverage their looks into a few LTRs before marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:00 PM
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Beginner: Just pick a program and do it. Intermediate: Start with low reps, high weight. Increase repetitions per set over time. When you hit 15 reps per set, go back to the beginning at a slightly higher weight. Advanced: Vary everything. Real: No one actually knows. Just pick up heavy things a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:54 AM
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There is something really wrong with him and it has nothing to do with feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:23 AM
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When I was younger, I was constantly hooking up with women older than me. It was like shooting fish in a barrel, but it depends on the woman. Different women put emphasis on different characteristics. Some women can't stand men younger than them. Some women can't stand men shorter than half a foot taller. Some women can't stand men who aren't a minimum level of aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:16 PM
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He says she will leverage her looks into a marriage and then treat her husband poorly. You don't need a career to do that and there are many working class women doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:51 AM
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He says what she will do in the picture. Why didn't you just read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:40 AM
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So you don't refute my point. You just move the goalpost to "men do it too." Do you ever have any serious thoughts or is life a stream of unconsciousness for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:38 AM
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You are conflating SMV and RMV. Software engineers aren't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:59 PM
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You might get unauthorized ideas without someone to curate the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:22 PM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:00 PM
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Very few people deeply analyze their social mores and the beliefs that underpin them. There are certainly some psychopaths and traumatized idiots, but it's nowhere near the majority. Most feminists are just normal people who do not listen to or think about other people's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:09 PM
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There has been at least one idiot kicked out of college for cold approaching 100 women on campus in a few days. Learning cold approach means: Learning how to comfortably talk with male strangers non-sexually. Learning how to comfortably talk with female strangers non-sexually. Learning how to comfortably add flirting with strangers. Learning how to escalate from there. If you dedicate yourself to it, it will help you in everything you do in life. It takes consistent thoughtful practice, preferab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:04 PM
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Biden and Clinton (and Obama) are all just moderate Republicans. I voted for them only because the alternatives were worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:48 PM
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Cold approach is one of the few things from PUA that has to die. Their advice is stupid and potentially extremely harmful. Learning cold approach can be done and is extremely helpful, but you are unlikely to learn it safely and correctly from their advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:47 PM
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Feminist theory is just an extension of Marxism, which is just an extension of Enlightenment liberal theory. All men are created equal, aka Tabula Rasa. Therefore, all inequality is a consequence of environmental conditions. They aren't bigoted theories, but they have absolutely no grounding in reality or science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:42 PM
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Most men don't offer commitment or exclusivity before you sleep with them. Then don't sleep with them unless you are just looking for dick. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:21 PM
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It's not a question of left vs right when it comes to the dating market. Tradcons who refuse to consider women as real humans with agency carry as much blame as the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:19 PM
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The best way to leverage money into sex is dating working class women who hate their jobs. I have a friend who worked at Walmart on the weekends just to date poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:16 PM
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Most men don't want unicorns. Most men are so desperate that just a woman's attention is enough to attract him. That's why women feel they have to be dicks to men to keep them from getting horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:12 PM
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You hit the jackpot and threw it away? Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:08 PM
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You never ever ask about pregnancy before the announcement unless you are trying to be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:04 PM
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Men have a dualistic mating strategy as well. We fuck everything and marry someone on our level. Fucking me without a ring in sight just proves to me that you aren't on my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:01 PM
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Marriage is supposed to be the enforced compromise to avoid the Prisoner's Dilemma of heterosexual relationships. It is the opposite of transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:50 PM
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does theatre Be careful. She fucks like a fighter jet. Don't ignore her signs of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:48 PM
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It's straight people that live in ignorance of reality. Gay men get to see what it's like dating someone who actually likes you. Lesbian women get to see what dating a woman is actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:22 PM
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Dating apps are for fucking, not finding decent partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:07 AM
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It depends on the woman, but most of them are incapable of being good friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:04 AM
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It will fizzle into nothing as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:57 AM
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Not just her and not anymore(hopefully). She left him after they had a kid and she found out about his pregnant side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:45 PM
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He is my sister's ex-husband, and he is worse than I am letting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:37 PM
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Unfortunately there aren't studies for everything, but people know what I am talking about even if not to this extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:22 PM
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My middle sister is a drug addict who brings really cool guys into our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:19 PM
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It's Guy #2 and it's not even close. His only issue is that when his current wife has a child, she gets scared for the child and leaves. That's also usually the time she finds out about his pregnant side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:17 PM
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know that they can get away with doing it FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:15 PM
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I know a guy who goes on six dates with no expectation of sex. I also know a guy who kills pets when he gets mad. Tell me which one gets more pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:13 PM
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You might have a point in East Asia, but not in the West. Working conditions aren't as good as the post-WW2 era, but it's still better than most times. The sole problem in the West is divorce allocations and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:58 PM
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Being unattractive and/or older than their target - This isn't what makes people creepy. Think about a creepy woman in your head. I will bet you that she is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:55 PM
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Girls are tougher to be around but easier to raise into competent adults. Boys will fuck off and then fail to launch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:36 PM
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Very much this. Mothers are usually detrimental to teenage boys, especially if the father won't step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:33 PM
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I had few female friends growing up and plowed through the women all the same. The best predictor for dating success is physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:30 PM
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Yes, but even that doesn't protect you. Beautiful people age. Once wild men turn into comfortable husbands and fathers. People regularly rewrite their memories to fit the new context.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:27 PM
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This is because a lot of men believe that women actually care about men having good personalities. They think they can go from friends to couples. They don't understand that women only find bad personalities attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:24 PM
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Believe it or not, where I live, most people who do eventually marry get together in their early 20s, even if they don't marry for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:07 PM
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I will just tell her the truth. Boys are horny and will use her and leave her if she lets them. The only way to combat this is to be a good woman, pick good men, and make sure there is escalating commitment on a set schedule. Nothing else works reliably.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:18 AM
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It's disrespectful and treating me like a child that needs to be punished with social humiliation and physical pain. Tolerating a woman like that will only lead to more pain. I would rather kick her to the curb and find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:01 PM
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Actors and everyone they associate with are psychopaths. You shouldn't consider them normal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:29 PM
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I would end the marriage before "sleeping on the couch."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:25 PM
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Go to the Seeking Arrangement website and buy yourself a woman. She won't love you, but it will build your confidence and dating skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:21 PM
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You are the man. It's your job to push until she says stop. Just push all of them when you feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:17 PM
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They grow up like this. They see western life as disgusting. In Iraq, we would use female soldiers to propagandize to the Iraqi women. These women would laugh at the female soldiers asking why they weren't married and insult the ones away from their children. There are also real benefits to the outfit. You don't get the male gaze. You don't have to worry about your appearance. You protect your skin from the desert sun. I don't like that it's required in some places, but their outfit is nowhere n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:10 PM
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He should honestly dump her. He is way out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:38 PM
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Normal achievement no longer offers a satisfying life. Baby boomer janitors could marry, own a house and two cars, and raise three children. The cost of that lifestyle is out of reach for normal people today. That's why everyone feels they have to "sigma grindset" to be millionaires or die trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:35 PM
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Oh yeah. I grew up working class and most of my family still is. I haven't seen everything, but I have seen a lot. My middle sister is a drug addict who spends a lot of time in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:02 PM
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I'm not saying that it's boring, just that what you are supposed to do doesn't change much. Being a PD is probably better than working on The Jerry Springer Show if you have the taste for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:55 PM
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I'm disappointed but not surprised. Government work is very monotonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:39 PM
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Only a very educated woman could say something so utterly stupid. Men have an evolutionary purpose... otherwise they wouldn't exist. On top of that, the science is definitely not there yet. We are much closer to artificial wombs than we are to artificial sperm or eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:33 PM
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It's painful but necessary. Avoiding it just makes it more painful. You don't do them as a public defender?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:28 PM
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It's rare. I was the Founder/CEO for most of my life before retiring to management consulting. I have only had one guy who was willing to call me an asshole to my face and actually be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:26 PM
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Naturals exist. Denying that is just socially retarded. There are some men who are the most naturally attractive before any men have dating talent who will be surrounded by naive women throwing themselves at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:15 PM
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You and I both know that the people who are bothered by the question aren't pondering deep epistemology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:11 PM
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I have regular 1-on-1's with direct reports. We set goals for the next period after reviewing the previous period's successes and failures. The regularity is the key. No one wants surprise visits from the boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:07 PM
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A lot of very influential groups don't want marriage, and popularizing man-hating is an easy vector towards that goal. Capitalists want women to work because they suppress wages enormously due to increasing supply and unwillingness to negotiate salary. Communists, especially radical feminists, see the family as the central mechanism through which inequality, power, and privilege are transferred to the next generation. Neo-malthusians want to suppress the birthrate, and so do the nature worshiper…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:04 PM
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Very few people are eating ramen to afford their overpriced car or apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:25 PM
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My last bit of info was my body count. Most women aren't comfortable with numbers higher than theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:34 PM
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It is a personality trait. How you spend on food is a reflection of your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:28 PM
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Russian and American propaganda are fairly different, especially around dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:06 PM
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Here's the thing. He kept doing it. She kept fucking him. She deserves to be treated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:00 PM
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Not true. Some of the most successful men in dating spend their whole lives getting drunk, screaming, and throwing furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:57 PM
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I know many women here and IRL who believe that career and financial success is sexy to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:54 PM
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The key to being rich is to feel pain when paying $20 for a salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:53 PM
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Everyone does. Dating is a dance where each of you slowly reveal your shitty attributes until one of you can't handle it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:50 PM
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Having kids and becoming historically noteworthy are perhaps the two metrics of success with the strongest backing. Kids are far easier to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:47 PM
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Most people in that category spend their entire lives pretending that they aren't in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:04 PM
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Yup, the power of the wedding ring is so strong that single men will use it to pick up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:25 PM
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Yup, our eyes are drawn to people looking at us. It's instinctual. You have to make sure it isn't incoming violence. Women use it to grab attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:57 PM
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Even Chad and Stacy work to improve themselves. There will always be people with natural advantages. That doesn't mean they don't work at all. Supermodels spend hours in cooking, working out, and makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:55 PM
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Most men are. It's a very small number of men who are driven to dominate, and most of those men are driven by feelings of inferiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:43 PM
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It's a "blog post" from the largest collection of real dating data in the world at the time. Its size alone gives it more weight than most research papers. Where is your research that shows that men and women can accurately judge individual attractiveness in relation to the population? While it may be a hard sell that most women aren't visually attracted to their partners, that is the best answer we have today. I wish it was a stretch. I wish women were more like men. But they aren't. In fact, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:16 PM
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You do realize that up until recently, the vast majority of men married right? You are wandering off into a fantasy where Boss Hogg takes all the women and locks them in his mansion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:09 PM
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Not everyone can be the top 1% by definition, but that's a false ideal. The goal is functional happiness, which is easy for men. All you need to do is give them the belief and ability to attain an occupation and family. If you can do that, they will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:58 PM
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The theory is that women cannot be happy and society only works if men are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:50 PM
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The OKCupid data directly refutes everything you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:48 PM
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Women aren't well known for their ability to sympathize with men, especially if they haven't had sons of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:45 PM
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You may think it's not special, but to an average man that sounds awesome. The 14 year old me would have loved women honking their horns at me. You have to understand that you sound like the computer programmers from 8 years ago who were complaining about all of the job offer spam for six figures. It may be annoying to them, but it would be the ultimate obliviousness if they were to lecture homeless men about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:43 PM
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That's too much truth for the shut-ins who demand a women barge into their lives to turn the frogs into princes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:00 PM
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You can get hard for ugly women. You just don't want to be seen with them outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:57 PM
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I remember the Mothers of America 90s. I remember Republicans ending the Dixie Chicks career for standing against the Iraq War. They are just mad that they are the ones getting cancelled now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:51 PM
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Every heterosexual encounter requires a man and woman. The average for men and women should be the same. Deviations are from lying in self-reports. Men tend to over-report. Women tend to under-report. If you include homosexual encounters, then it's all gay men fucking each other constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:49 PM
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People are so inundated with sex everyday that they think that is the pinnacle of life. It isn't. You family and friends and community are what make you happy. Career won't do it. Sex won't do it. Money won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:09 PM
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broke up with her boyfriend of 5 years Good, it took her long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:16 PM
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This is common in the US as well. First time offenders regularly receive deferred adjudication or probation with community service.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:13 PM
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You have to get used to it until it doesn't hurt. You have to learn the same skills for sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:11 PM
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Yes, young men never give stupid answers to stupid questions on surveys because it is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:10 PM
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I only use the old version. I will quit reddit when they get rid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:09 PM
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When it comes to international travel in third world countries, the most important thing is to work within the local tourist attractions and companies. These are often run by the local warlord and will ensure safety in the popular regions. People who get in trouble are the ones who step outside of that protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:08 PM
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At 20? No. At 35? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:02 PM
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Men's strength comes from not being pandered and placated constantly. Everything must be earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:59 PM
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Having children makes your value in the dating and marriage market lower, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:07 PM
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That's very toxic. Everyone knows women can't be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:49 PM
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That doesn't mean what you think it means. The 80/20 Rule is that 20% of men are having 80% of the sex. This is an instance of the Pareto Distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:37 PM
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It's not progressives that hate men. It's the tradcons, radical feminists, and neo-malthusians. They all come together to shit on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:31 PM
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You need something to keep you going, otherwise you will quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:03 PM
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Wbgy I'm too old to know what this means and a quick googling didn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:59 PM
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It depends on her age, but you shouldn't ask anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:45 PM
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As you become older, it becomes harder to become the level of friends you could achieve as a child. You just aren't going to become blood brothers with the coworker who goes to trivia night at the bar with you. It is also natural that over time, friends die, move away, fight, focus on kids, etc. These two together make the number of close friends dwindle and you will have to fight to keep them. Part of the driving force in the loss of friends is marriage and kids. By your 40s, people will separa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:41 PM
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Light is a spectrum and yellow and orange are near each other. That doesn't make red the same as blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:16 AM
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You do realize that there is a huge difference between pushing and violating boundaries right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:06 PM
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It's definitely a play on TERF, but I didn't know other people were using it. I will make myself an important thought leader in my head canon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:05 PM
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I don't mind it, but women do. Women will feel you don't like them if you don't at least push her boundaries. Every woman wants to feel like an irresistible object of desire by the person she desires. I implemented a no-sex rules when I started dating seriously for a wife in order to be able to evaluate her clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:26 AM
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Tradcon is literally the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:18 PM
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And neither have anything to do with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:16 PM
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There will be no links. There will be no references. He would have responded with it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:14 PM
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You are thinking like a man. It has always been easy for women to get dates and sex. They don't care about that. They want an attractive man to love them and that has only gotten harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:38 PM
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Most people who do 5ks are just setting exercise goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:51 PM
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Vitamin D deficiency is real, but you can't supplement it. You either have to get a seasonal affective disorder lamp or go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:50 PM
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It's possible but rare. Most close female friends are the partners of close male friends. Hanging out just the two of you is extremely strange, but it can happen. I have had exactly one female friend who was like that. Most women cannot be reciprocal friends with men. Most men want something more than friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:08 AM
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Most men don't need lust. They just want a wife who yells at them, kids to raise, and fellow dads to commiserate with on poker night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:11 PM
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It doesn't matter and wouldn't repair shit. You can only change the laws and incentive structures to fix the situation. Paraplegics don't want Get Well cards. They want their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:40 PM
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Never to their faces, but very much behind their backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:01 PM
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I do deal with it. Even now I'm influencing the Texas congressmen to reduce child support to the actual cost of raising children like they have in a few European countries. The political will isn't there yet, but the whispers have already begun. There's still too many boomer men who think that only poor black men pay child support. They are dying off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:42 PM
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I glorify neither deadbeat dads nor singlemothers. They are both scum. If anything, I hate deadbeats more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:20 PM
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There's a lot of poor married people raising children. There's not many rich singlemothers. The direction of causality runs opposite to how you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:13 PM
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Women who think men aren't a pivotal part of raising healthy children are antisocial and likely to pass that to the children they raise by recreating their traumas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:11 PM
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I'm not being sarcastic, although I am being extra spicy because I have been upvoted too much lately. Do you think throwing money at single mothers creates less of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:07 PM
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And no, you don’t need a man to have a family. It’s called an artificial fertilization or adoption. That's not a family. That's just a selfish passing on of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:06 PM
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Children of the lesser will most likely be lesser themselves. It's worth punishing those children to prevent more of them being created.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:44 PM
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Women are turning 30 and "choosing to be single." Do you really think women just decided they don't want to marry, have a home, have a family, and have a community? No, they still want that. They can't build it for themselves though. They require men to bring that to them, and instead of being greeted by a ton of thirsty betas at 30, they are getting "u lik anal?" on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:41 PM
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Believe it or not, more than 20% of women want to marry really bad. There will never be enough top men to go around just by definition. Average men dictate a lot more than you realize. Your woe-is-me opinion is the outrageous "cope" of someone who has little experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:02 PM
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It is women who are the unsuitable ones for marriage. Compared to their grandmothers, women today give less in marriage and expect more. Men have decided en masse that video games, drugs, and porn are a far better deal than most women. Women control the sex market, but men control the marriage market. Dating game for women is like the story of the frog being cooked in hot water: the temperature gradually rises but the frog notices it's too hot when it's already too late and there's nothing she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:46 PM
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The husband may be the head of the family, but the wife is the neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:51 PM
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After Shamhat seduced Enkidu on the riverside, the animals and the wild rejected him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:26 PM
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Most people don't think so you can predict their opinions based on three or four factors with incredible accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:20 PM
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Correct, even women only have so many friends and local dive bars to go through before running out of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:19 PM
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People have inborn differences. If you are saying born with the same genes and paragenetic circumstances, then you have to argue what the essence of a person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:37 PM
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It's just like the words moron, slow, dumb, r*tarded, mentally challenged, and developmentally disabled. People evolve euphemisms to new words because most people feel words as they speak and hear them. By giving it a new name, you can avoid some of the bad feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:34 PM
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As soon as I stopped pushing to hang out or w/e, the relationships ended. That's most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:02 PM
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I do it from time to time. I'll smash out a mean reply, read it afterwards, decide that it's a bit much, and delete it. I wonder how many people think I'm trying to secretly be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:00 PM
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Fat and 50? Don't care. Fat and 10? Your parents are abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:35 AM
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It was a little better, but not like you think. Social media has only emphasized already present instincts. AF/BB is eternal. You were more likely to get someone on your level because your peers paired off sooner, providing a zipper effect where 10s get with 10s, then 9s with 9s, etc. Fat women have always had options. Women used to be much, much thinner, but fatties have always been around. They had the same problems then that they do now. Attractive men would dick them down but never commit. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:24 PM
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The man's income level is the only thing that adds to that. Women who make more money, spend more money. Financial habits can be a huge boon or detriment, but it is completely orthogonal to income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:51 PM
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My ass, obviously. I'm surprised you even asked. My point is that no man is filtering women on income. You won't find male bios on Tinder requiring women make six figures. The only times men talk about requiring women to work is to avoid the SAHMs who are looking for a free ride on other men's dicks and a fat divorce check. Other men either don't care or see SAHM as a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:44 PM
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I already played that game. It doesn't end well. I think I would be polite enough to wait until we are in private to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:58 PM
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A quarter of men want their wives to provide a home environment not possible with a full time job. Half of men don't care what their wives do. The last quarter of men don't trust women to be by themselves and don't want to get reamed by the courts in divorce. Men don't care about income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:56 PM
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Settling means finding your market value, but being an abusive cunt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:53 PM
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Hey inkwells! Don't you know that women will begrudgingly take your stuff if you are nice enough to them and they are sufficiently terrified of ending up alone and unloved?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:51 PM
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It's always easier to get more of things you already have in abundance. Dates, friends, customers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:29 PM
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In this dating market? Not really. Wanting a partner who can physically reciprocate your affection is a fantastic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:19 PM
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Dealing with new customers is always a pain, but if you don't continuously fill your pipeline with new work then it eventually dries up. I believe you'll make it through. Just treat yourself to something nice when you get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:10 PM
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Exposure therapy is one of the few things that actually work, and work provably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:07 PM
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People tend to confuse fault and responsibility. Even if it isn't a man's fault, it is always his responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:04 PM
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It's really weird to demand and set an income expectation for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:01 PM
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Most humans are animals running off their base instincts, and that includes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:00 PM
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That's an autoimmune problem. You fucked up somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:10 PM
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The really good posts get downvoted. The highest upvoted stuff is either incl or femcel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:07 PM
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Going to college doesn't mean you have to be a girlboss. You send your daughter to college in order to get her around educated men to find a partner. Additionally, you can't shelter girls forever. You have to raise them the best you can, but eventually you have to let her go so that she can live her own life. It's hard, but it's something you have to do as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:43 PM
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Luckily, life doesnt work that way. When you combine the halo effect with the fact that most people don't understand what they do, let alone others, you get a potent combo. It's not a coincidence that every male F500 CEO is over six feet. In fact, reading this in its entirety, I am convinced you are trolling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:08 PM
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A beautiful person will make more than an ugly person, holding all other variables the same. High Pay / Low Status: Engineer, High Skill Tradesmen, Actuary, Accountant Low Pay / High Status: Teacher, Scientist, Lawyer, Artist, Criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:15 AM
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Men are attracted to fertility. Fertility includes both the ease with which a woman conceives and her likelihood of carrying the child to term. Fertility peaks in the mid-20s. Men prefer this period the most with a normal distribution surrounding it. Women's preferences include men who are anywhere from 3ish years younger to many years older. Women's preferences include the most men in their mid-20s. These two combine to give women in their mid-20s the largest pool of men they are interested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:05 AM
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You should go to r/TheRedPill and read the sidebar links on the right. There's tons of wild stuff for everyone to enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:00 AM
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A man refusing to sign up for the U.S. Selective Service after turning 18 is barred from most government services including Social Security and Medicare. This would be the U.S. equivalent except the U.S.S.S. doesn't even mean you are getting conscripted. It's just signing up for a list of men that the U.S. already has. Refusal has serious consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:59 AM
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It takes a serious LTR for women to detach from their friends, which makes sense. Women are pack animals. You have to offer her a new one to make her ignore her current one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:57 AM
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A quarter love it. A quarter hate it. Half either don't care or are swayed by current fashion trends. The same goes for most male body hair. Baby boomer women loved chest hair and hated beards. That trend seems to have swapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:48 AM
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Deserting is a felony on its own in the United States. If they return on their own without being picked up in peace time, it is only prosecuted as a misdemeanor Unauthorized Absence that comes with a reduction of rank and pay along with service extension. Missing a combat movement, aka deployment, is prosecuted fully. A man refusing to sign up for the U.S. Selective Service after turning 18 is barred from most government services including Social Security and Medicare. These are normal condition…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:43 AM
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When I wrote Navigating the SMP, the reason I used 30 as the general age women typically hit the ‘Wall’ is really a combination of factors. Most importantly it represents the threshold at which most women realize their lessened capacity to sexually compete with the next generation of women in their ‘actualized’ sexual peak (22-24). However, there is a male part of the Wall equation that needs to be understood. 30 is also the general age at which men (should) become aware of their own, longer-las…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:36 AM
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They correlate but nowhere near perfectly. In fact, both money and status correlate far higher with looks than each other. Beautiful people make more money and have more friends. There are many high pay / low status jobs and low pay / high status jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:23 AM
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Women with higher incomes come with higher debt and expenses. You are more likely to find a man making six figures living out of a van than a woman. She wants a more expensive house, expensive hobbies, and expensive everything. More importantly, real careers mean moving. Being together means moving at the same time to the same city. Someone is going to be left behind in some way. Someone's career must take precedence. And because women are more likely to dump you for not growing with them, the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:35 PM
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My cousin tried to set up a dating profile for me just because she thought it would be fun to do, but I had no problems with dating and didn't want to deal with it. I have seen it in my social circle. One guy actually let a woman do it and turned her into a misogynist. Here's a YouTube video of a guy letting a girl run his Tinder account. I'm sure there are more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:19 PM
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My cousin tried to set up a dating profile for me just because she thought it would be fun to do, but I had no problems with dating and didn't want to deal with it. I have seen it in my social circle. One guy actually let a woman do it and turned her into a misogynist. Here's a youtube video of a guy letting a girl run his Tinder account. I'm sure there are more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:19 PM
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Status is important. Money is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:01 PM
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He wanted to see if you were wanting to get back together or fuck on the side. You didn't signal either of those, so he is back to ignoring you. Either he doesn't want to deal with his own emotions or he doesn't think you would be a good friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:00 PM
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It has nothing to do with equality or learning. This is the same misconception women have when they redo a guy's online dating profile and then wonder why women are still ignoring him, all while not even considering dating that man. Women are great at placing the icing on the cake by introductions to friends, advice on clothes, and the like, but the cake already has to be there. The man has to be the "ugly" girl in movies who gets a haircut and dress to instantly become the most stunning woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:42 PM
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You aren't addressing my point. Women cannot understand what it takes to be successful at dating because they are successful by birthright.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:26 PM
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Asking a woman for dating advice as a man is like asking a baby boomer how to get a job as a zoomer. Even if they mean well, it comes off as stupid and condescending to anyone with real experience. It misleads everyone who doesn't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:30 PM
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It's not right, but it's extremely common. The better way is to make her quit by screaming at her after moving her desk and making everyone avoid her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:12 PM
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Everyone is for personal responsibility in things they already do well all while blaming the situation when they do poorly. It's not one or the other. It is both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:07 PM
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You have to go back a hundred years for those to be legal. The black market is still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:34 PM
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Your parents' job and dating market isn't yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:27 PM
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I thought it was a typo. Here are the numbers from Table 1: Relationship Duration(yr) Men(AOR) Women(AOR) <1 1 1 1 - 5 1.21 1.45 5 - 15 1.14 2.37 >15 1.19 2.31 So women's disinterest over relationship duration is only on par with clinical depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:20 PM
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Thank you for downvoting me and addressing none of my points. Here is the section on health: After adjusting for age, there were associations between all physical and mental health variables assessed and lacking interest in sex. Individuals in poorer health (AORs: men: 3.29; women: 1.93), those who had much difficulty walking upstairs (AOR: men: 2.68; women: 1.55), those with a long-standing medical condition (AOR: men: 1.76; women: 1.35), and those who had screened positive for current depressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:11 PM
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There's only so many times you can debate the few topics that come up without feeling like you are yelling chants at a wall you know doesn't understand you. That's why I just chill in the Daily these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:25 PM
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Texas is wonderful but can only appreciated by Texans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:14 PM
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There used to be more, but a lot of them left.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:03 PM
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I got it nuked early so I'm not going to call them out and risk a Streisand effect. This is the smart move. You can never engage with psychopaths like that. You either have to wait for everyone around you to figure it out or you have to fight on a different playing field. Talking to them like adults is just asking for pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:01 PM
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The fact that this is the top comment only points out that few people read the study. Age-adjusted odds ratios (AOR) are the primary numbers being discussed, putting forth the assumption that age is a primary confounding variable. Thus, Meanwhile, if you continue to be a financially stable, healthy couple who continue to go on dates and continue putting in effort into the relationship, there’s no drop in the frequency of sex. this fantasy is completely not true just on the basis of an AOR being …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:56 PM
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This jives with my experience. The primary trait of rich men is tolerance for risk. This combined with the women that throw themselves at you makes for a lot of cheating. As for broke men married to sugar mamas, that's just the other side of the sugar daddy and trophy wife coin. Lots of cheating. Stay at home wives are always a coin flip. They are either treasures or nightmares, no in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:12 PM
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Not at all. Half of the problems come from men who are too scared to try. The other half comes from the average women who think they aren't average. For every incel, there is a woman in yet another situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:48 AM
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My wife and I have enough money to never work again several times over. We both still work, her much less so, to stay sane. I am strange though because I actually get uncomfortable on vacations because I'm not working. Someday I will be the old codger haunting boardrooms using my votes to make people pay attention to me for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:41 AM
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Thankfully, the USA is heading in the opposite direction. Legalization of firearm manufacture, ownership, and carry are being expanded in ways I didn't think possible. I will see a pre-1934 America in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:45 PM
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Not all women do, but some do. If you have never been approached by a woman, then none of them like you. This is the reality for most men. You are probably in the background as "meh" and need to create reactions in women to make them interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:35 PM
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Emotional people tend to overeat to comfort themselves. Overweight people produce more cortisol and estrogen which makes them more emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:27 PM
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I have been with women all the way up to 300 lbs. The weight isn't the issue. It's everything that comes with it. It's the shame, slovenly living, laziness, health issues, and emotional outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:16 PM
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I did and I agree that a lot of usage of "high/low T" isn't based on physiogomy and similar to women saying, "She's such a capricorn." It's still possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:16 AM
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You are just moving the goalpost from possibility to accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:01 AM
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Yes and no. Marriage is a game of choosing the best bad choice. All real people come with red flags. Men get fewer choices to start with, which is why I hold women to a much higher standard in picking partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:54 AM
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You absolutely can. Testosterone effects secondary sexual characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:49 AM
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Maybe the message I'm supposed to take from it is "Fuck the USSR" That is exactly the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:48 AM
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I'm not single anymore, but I was for a long time. I would still be had I not lucked out with a wonderful woman. The primary reason for male singleness in society is family law and culture made marriage extremely expensive for men while at the same time raising women to be shitty wives and mothers. A man has to work ten times as hard as his grandfather for a woman not even half as good as his grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:14 PM
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The source is people in my life. The dead bedroom to antidepressants to porn addiction/prostitute treadmill is always operating on rabbit. They are in dead bedrooms because their wives don't have sex with them anymore. It's very, very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:52 PM
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Its also why a lot of sex worker website consumers are usually older men, cause they have no other avenue for sex or relationships. False. Most older men that chase sex workers are married men with dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:32 PM
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Women want to fuck Chad and marry Brad. Men want to fuck whores and marry madonnas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:29 PM
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Balding is never great, but it is nowhere near the detriment of short height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:23 PM
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You have just been advertised to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:22 PM
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He's good people. I wish we could get a revival of the southern democrats. I want beer, guns, flags, civil rights, and unions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:17 PM
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If you are fucking, then continue to do so with low investment. No mater what, find someone else to fuck. Keep seeing her, but only to escalate to sex. If she refuses two more times, then stop answering her calls and messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:19 PM
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Yeah, if you aren't looking for the symbolism and really paying attention to small details, the movie is boring. It doesn't help that the movie studio re-edited the movie when Kubrick died after showing the executives the preview.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:12 PM
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Drive him to the doctor and then offer to help him with parking garages when he feels up to it. All anxiety therapy has to be consensual or it backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:06 PM
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That doesn't mean his wife wants him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:00 PM
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Eyes Wide Shut is a milieu story like Gulliver's Travels. The purpose is to show you an unfamiliar world through the eyes of a visitor. The world of EWS is high-level sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:55 PM
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The reasons in decreasing importance: Infinite free streaming porn available to everyone. The crash in testosterone in both men and women. No-fault divorce. The intentional destruction of the middle class. Effective abortion and contraception. Institutional sexism from grade school all the way to retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:15 PM
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Just because everyone is an individual doesn't mean that they aren't similar to everyone else. Repeatable principles still lie beneath every natural phenomena, including human mating. There are some people for which none of the general advice applies, but they are by definition rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:05 PM
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Please go read the TRP sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:59 PM
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Some alpha qualities correlate with financial success. Others don't. Even then, they only correlate, not determine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:14 AM
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Beta does not mean bad. Alpha does not mean good. They are byproducts of the dualistic nature of female sexuality. All women want a top man who wants her so much that he dedicates himself to her and their children. Most women are not top women and cannot achieve that and are willing to use a combination of top male sperm and middle male resources instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:08 AM
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A lot of marriages are miserable for the men, especially those married to women who only married because the abyss of spinsterhood was staring them in the face. Kids make these marriages worse. Childbirth does have the effect of lowering testosterone in the husband which can hurt the marriages where the wives are incapable of behaving well without being dick whipped. Marriage and children are hard work that require both parties to rise to the challenge. It requires walking a tightrope towards a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:59 PM
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The alpha strategy is to impregnate many women and give low investment. The beta strategy is investing into a small number of offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:39 PM
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But, hey, all alphas are rich, right? Money has nothing to do with alpha vs beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:37 PM
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Don't be a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:21 PM
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Its frustrating sometimes straddling the differences we have between the sexes although they are quite minimal, [...] I laughed reading this. I can't tell if this is a finely crafted troll. Bravo, if so. The differences between a man and woman is only small when compared to the difference between a human and another species. We are very, very different. Despite that, sex thoughts aren't one of the major differences. Men are just more likely to vocalize them. Women think about sex just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:42 PM
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I mean that most people feel nostalgic for their firsts. They are special. It's not really a sexual thing. My answer is that the pleasure is the same if the sex is the same. There isn't really a sexual pleasure from N-Count. That is completely a RMV thing. There are some guys who fetishize "popping cherries," but they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:14 PM
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Did you reply to the right comment? Where do you see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:04 PM
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If anything, virgins are worse at sex. There is always a soft spot for the person you lose your virginity with, and I am no exception there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:56 PM
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Men have sold being “chaste” to women as if it’s about “good morals,” but the “morals” here are “it makes him hornier and satisfies his ego.” Chastity has nothing to do with sexual pleasure. It's about social standing and long-term relationship value. Men don't care how many dicks a chick has taken if he's banging her in a club bathroom. Your ego statement can be applied to everything as men can become overly prideful on anything good or bad. There is nothing egotistical or hedonistic about want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:46 PM
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Rejecting socially-lower, promiscuous women is just finely aged wisdom. A wise man once said, "You cannot turn a ho into a housewife." The fool tells himself that he can save her and lives a life of misery, pitied and jeered by everyone around him. It is telling that you have to set up an entire circuit of questionable premises in order to try flipping the script, calling chastity hedonistic and promiscuity virtue. Chastity is prized because it means that your partner is less likely to cheat on …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:25 PM
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Social circles, especially work and church, are the best places to meet women. Not shitting where you eat is something that poorly socialized ugly men worry about. Learn how to flirt without ruining everyone's evening and your reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:10 PM
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I would wholeheartedly support feminism if it actually wanted the equality, agency, responsibility, and everything that is expected of men. The problem is that feminism represents a large group of women who just want a free ride while being called a big boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:08 PM
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The depression is already causing anxiety in women. As people around them start losing everything, they will switch from preferring alpha sexiness to beta security. The biggest winners will be high pay, low status AFCs. The biggest losers will be broke alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:46 PM
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recession depression FTFY. We have been in a recession, and it's about to become a full depression. This will help the dating market in some ways and hurt it in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:45 PM
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Go read the MtF forums on the effects of estrogen on mood. The sex hormones are enormous drivers of behavior and feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:32 PM
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If you are saying the DNC makes more effort to at least pretend, then I agree. That wind is changing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:57 AM
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Neither party gives a flying fuck about the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:36 AM
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Male (for female) prostitution doesn't look like female prostitution. What you do is build up a relationship with an attractive man by buying all the "party materials" and letting him invite friends. The men get bored so you have to cycle through them. It's rare for men to straight up sugar like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:29 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. You have to tell, and then show, them why the rules exist once they are old enough to understand. Otherwise, they just rebel thoughtlessly. That goes for sons too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:19 AM
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She does it on purpose but is too chickenshit to keep it up when confronted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:59 PM
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It's already there. God created men, and Sam Colt made them equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:30 AM
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I would bet you dollars to donuts that the numbers now are just as bad. They just won't release them because now they know what a hot potato it is. Those numbers were supposed to be an interesting blog post for a few hundred autistic men to argue over, not a mainstream talking point that embarrasses the C-suite at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:28 AM
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Getting below 15% bodyfat is a life changer, no matter your other stats. Wearing proper, fitted clothing is probably the next biggest boost, but only if you aren't fat. Lifting for your beginner gains is the next best, with the same no-fatties requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:11 AM
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Parenting is easy but nerve wracking for the first kid. As long as you feed them, play with them, and set a good example to emulate, then it's no big deal. Dating is only hard because our society decided to throw out all the knowledge and rules about dating and marriage recently. Marriage is the one truly hard thing that most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:06 AM
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The purpose of sex is children. Children need both biological parents to optimally compete and strive. Risking this for a bit of pussy or dick is a mistake. Having multiple parents with intermingled children doesn't work for the reasons stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:10 PM
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It's not meaningless, but it isn't ideal. Being interested in marriage these days is considered "strange." You should go find another "strange" person and live a fulfilling life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:22 PM
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It's a common game for women to play called bragplaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:35 PM
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Men you are better than being obsessed with gEnEtIcS Only a woman could utter such a heartless sentence so proudly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:30 PM
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I think people feel "meh" no matter their normal conditions. A burger flipper today probably feels as happy as a town peasant 500 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:28 PM
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I removed pics of my recent ex I think we found the cause for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:26 PM
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That's the same as a woman who says she can go on girl's trips whenever she wants. If you are in a relationship and acting single, don't be surprised when you end up single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:21 PM
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It's just women being their typical sociopathic selves. They want men to pay for a date without even getting the acknowledgement that they have to pay and that women are sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:19 PM
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If your wife has to give you a curfew, then you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:15 PM
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Alimony doesn't really exist in most states. They did bump up child support in response. The only reason to marry is to raise children in a good household, so the only real question is whether or not you want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:11 PM
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Great larp. I had a giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:02 PM
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Pre-marriage, she's getting the boot. Post-marriage, I would tolerate it. I'll just get a mistress when she stops putting out. That honestly sounds like most marriages I see, and most men tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:43 PM
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Why not just read TRP and learn what alpha and beta are?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:53 PM
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Movies used to be at least "meh." If you wasted $5 or $10, it wasn't a big deal. Now the tickets are $20, and finding a movie that isn't shit is hard. The best new movie I have seen in a decade was The Menu and it was a streaming service movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:50 PM
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They do it to be mean, not as serious advice. I have never heard someone say she isn't in his league. I have heard that he isn't interested or serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:45 PM
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You would be surprised by the people who like talking shit on the Internet anonymously. One of my friends is a sitting judge, and he spends an outrageous amount of time arguing on an anonymous gun forum. You don't find them as much on Reddit because older people tend to be on different forums and blogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:43 PM
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Life is an IQ test.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:38 PM
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Yup. The number of gross vaginas vastly outnumbers the nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:40 PM
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The virtue of a woman is not centered on her ability to play soccer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:31 PM
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By "that wouldn't happen," I meant the vasectomy doctor recommending a treatment. Most medicine is performed by specialists now. I'm not surprised by medical training done under anesthesia. Modern hospitals are demons with which you make complex agreements that are interpreted in the most insane manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:30 PM
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Money doesn't make you a better parent. Your view of the middle class is obviously taken from movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:26 PM
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Women aren't defective men. Judge them as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:59 PM
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That wouldn't happen, but always get a second opinion from a specialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:58 PM
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Women care more about body fat percentage than musculature. Focusing on calf size is a gateway to blasting and cruising your way to more male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:33 PM
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That's not even in the top ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:30 PM
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I am pretty sure it isn't against federal law. Most states just pass the same laws with minor variations. Nevada is a well known exception for legal prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:27 PM
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It does. Men who would have been the typical beta story (e.g. hit it off with their highschool crush at the ten year reunion) are refusing to become public jokes. Women aren't morons either and don't like being plates when everyone else knows they are being plated. It's humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:25 PM
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My wife takes care of that for me. I am terrible at caring about pictures and keeping touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:16 PM
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It's accelerationism. The only way to fix the current dating market is by destroying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:15 PM
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Class and income are two completely different things. I am surprised that they made this mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 08:07 PM
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I am not a time traveler. I already have a prenup and a few postnups. They don't do as much as you think. You can live with people without marrying them too. That's why I included Mommy McBangmaids in my last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:57 PM
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You could argue that trying to change the rules is virtuous or not, but ignoring the rules isn't virtuous. And what is wrong with using self-control and self-discipline to fuck everything you would like to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:48 PM
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Marital property means that, at a minimum, half of all acquired wealth must be split 50/50. That's ignoring expenses, debt, legal risks, child support, time investment, and emotional drain. Why would I go through all of that just to get an aging vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:37 PM
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I view it the same as sitting down at a game of Monopoly and playing by the rules. Refusing to read or play by the rules isn't virtuous, it's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:33 PM
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Marrying women is very expensive. It's just not worth the time and money without children. There's an ocean of Mommy McBangmaids and hookers out there if all you want is pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:31 PM
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I don't know who Myron is. It's not resignation. It's facing reality. Life isn't a fairy tale, and tilting at windmills is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:28 PM
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Marrying a woman with no intention of children is like lighting a briefcase of money on fire to heat your house. I feel sorry for a man that stupid and any woman desperate enough to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:57 PM
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And I would agree. I have had enough battles of will with toddlers to last a lifetime. I just wouldn't remarry if my wife dies or leaves with the pool boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:55 PM
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Both. I see no point in marriage without children, and 31 leaves you a few years to date, marry, and try for a kid before fertility issues become a severe complication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:50 PM
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Why would I marry any woman who doesn't want kids or if I don't want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:43 PM
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Marriage can be the greatest joy or the deepest hell. It's largely what you make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:33 PM
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They can be, but it's usually due to mental illness and bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:28 PM
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No, I married my wife when she was in her mid-20s. We already have children too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:25 PM
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The first rule of TRP is to deal with the world as it is and not how it should be. It's not men's fault that women have decided to throw their pussies at every good looking man who looks in their direction. If I decide to be a Real Man(TM) who supports women, those women will just fuck someone else. I may not like the current dating scene, but I might as well get my dick sucked while watching the circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:24 PM
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Old enough to remember rotary phones and answering machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:14 PM
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I think women peak at 26 and decline from there. The oldest woman I would consider dating seriously is 31. The only reason to get married is children, and it's just reality that older women are much less capable than younger women in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:57 PM
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Those aren't their official positions. That's the marketing material. TRP doesn't have marketing material. It just has the official side bar material and a forum where men can call each other betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:07 PM
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You are correct that most "trad" women aren't actually trad. Real trad women do exist, but they are pair off early. There is also a category of women I call the born-again trad. They dive into the feminist scene young, peer into the abyss, and run to the opposite end. You can find them as late 20s women in cottagecore Instagram. They date around super seriously until they find someone close enough to what they want. The real measure of trad is what the woman expects from herself, not the husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:53 PM
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Non-related men in the house tend to sexually abuse the children. Non-related women tend to physically and mentally abuse the other children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:44 PM
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Even the tame versions of the BLM Demands are historically silly and constitutionally invalid. Antifa has no official groups because they are a correctly identified domestic terror group. Feminism's beginnings and theory all have issues, especially since feminism began as a Marxist group. It only picked up steam with mainstream women when black men started voting. Your comparisons are inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:53 PM
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They at least try. I doubt you can even name one set of actual side bar material that stands in conflict with one another. The YouTube guys just spout edgy bullshit a few hours a day to get clicks and ad revenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:38 PM
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These YouTubers They are grifters. Of course they do not have a consistent ideology. It's like you are trying to force a particle physicist to defend pop science articles written by journalists with bachelors in creative writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:28 PM
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You should make fun of people in wheelchairs next. That will be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:21 PM
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Never ask for the average, always the median.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:38 PM
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Well throw me in age gap prison then. My wife is slightly more than 10 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:36 PM
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I 100% assume that any woman more than a couple years older than the man is abusing the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:32 PM
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The blue pill doesn't work at all unless you rolled high tier DNA on your birth stats, and guys like that usually become Naturals, the guys TRP is trying to emulate. Even the guys who marry 400 lbs single moms in their 30s are stuck begging for birthday handies. The reality is that once some women want you, most women want you. The best way to become a billionaire is to be a millionaire. The same goes for women. In sex, money, and power, the best way to get more is to already have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:26 PM
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You're not wrong. I just think the "all women are queens" is such massive delusion. Most women are fat, infertile, can't cook, don't clean, mentally ill, and generally pathetic. Love the new flair btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:45 PM
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I don't think it is a good thing. It's just what will happen because humans are incapable appreciating liberty and equality. Instead we shall swing back and forth between men getting shit on and then women getting shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:49 PM
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The "red pill" will be watered down by grifters who don't actually understand what they are talking about. It won't matter because it will still be closer to the truth then anything people will learn from their schools and parents. Women will continue trying to emulate the success of TRP but won't achieve it. As younger women watch their older female relatives suffer as Mommy McBangmaid and Cool Wine Aunt, they are going to figure out why women used to force men to prove they wanted something mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:31 PM
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Decadence is a phase of empire, and even the most powerful dictator can't stop it. It has been tried. You can only find likeminded partners who want to avoid the worst of it. Even if you impoverish the single men and women, they will find ways to act like fools thanks to their foolish friends and family supporting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:01 PM
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You can tell that to the Ukrainian men who were pressed into service at the borders while trying to flee. Law becomes more strict, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:58 AM
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No it doesn't. Even if your country doesn't have a draft, you will be drafted as a military aged male during invasion. You are just less likely to be drafted to invade other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:49 AM
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Damn. Do the courtesy 3 day after call and then leave it in her court while you hit up other women. It's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:12 AM
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You are right. We are only at 28% for men under 30. I don't understand the rest of your comment. I'm not calling them all incels, although I don't know why anyone would purposefully ignore sex for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:58 AM
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You are acting like it hasn't already. Most societies through history couldn't tolerate 30+% male sexlessness. That's how you get bandits, bride kidnapping, and eventually rebellion. There's no way our society would be as peaceful as it is without endless video porn, erotic streamers, psychiatric drugs, and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:42 AM
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The draft is like taxes. Nobody likes them, but they are the reality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:38 AM
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You are correct here. Those children don't have fathers. They have sperm donors. He said / she said is at the core of dating issues. No one sane says that. And? This is untrue. Women are far more likely to have mental issues of all flavors. They are just expected and usually less damaging, but even that is debatable. There are a small number of men that cheat a lot and a large amount of women who cheat a little. You completely ignore The Decline, aka The Misandry Bubble, which is the central the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:35 AM
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I will never understand the men who marry 33 year old women. It's like buying a ticket to a movie that's five minutes from the ending. At her age, she would be lucky to be his FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:20 AM
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That show was peak Star Wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:14 AM
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mentalities had evolved Sex is at the core of biology and evolution. You aren't going to change billions of years of evolved behavior with a hundred years of signs at bus stations. Age is a tradeoff. Older women are typically better at being mothers, but less capable of becoming mothers. Women peak when their fertility losses begin overcoming their mental growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:12 AM
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You should go lift and fuck other women. She's going clubbing and threatening divorce. Your marriage is already over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:52 AM
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If your choice is a 35 year old obese American woman who doesn't love you and an 18 year old thin foreign woman who doesn't love you, what should you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:22 AM
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It's because in an ideal world, your partner would be the person you trust the most who also has valuable opinions on your shared journey. Instead, women insist on being walking vaginas that throw temper tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:13 AM
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Most men have few choices, and none of those choices like blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:33 PM
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Speak for yourself. I prefer to go on a safari.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:30 PM
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I hate to be corny, but it's the thought that counts more than anything. Special sexy time is a traditional Valentine's Day gift though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:06 PM
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Women who hate blowjobs will refuse to let men go down on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:02 PM
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Focusing on (b): Women are never forever lonely. All women who aren't shit on by life start out fertile and then lose that with age. Men never have that baseline. It's like you are demanding me to feel sorry about someone who inherited millions of dollars but spent it all on cocaine and is now homeless. I not only do not feel sorry but despise that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:00 PM
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Unfortunately, all of our news these days are man-bites-dog stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:10 PM
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In 2021, 40% of children were born out of wedlock. It's not just normal. It's approaching the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:00 PM
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The physical peak for professional athletes is around 27 and plateaus for several years. In addition to visual attractiveness, women grade men on social skills and status, both of which continue to rise well into men's middle years. The actual SMV peak for men is early to mid 30's depending on when their physical losses overpower their social skills and status gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:23 PM
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You are so wildly off about how the law works that I don't think we can have a productive conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:41 PM
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Prenups are very, very limited in what they can do by law. Even for very rich people with law firms on retainer, the best a prenup can do is reduce 'half' to 'a lot.' If he can afford an attorney, so can she because he will be forced to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:10 PM
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It even has its own name, choreplay. It happens more often than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:04 PM
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They think they have power until a judge pulls the rug out from under them. The only exceptions I know are guys who get trophy wives and actually understand the deals they are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:20 PM
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There's always an in-between, otherwise a wife forcing her husband to wash dishes five nights in a row for sex is prostitution. That's clearly not the same as picking up a hooker on a street corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:08 PM
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It's somewhere in between prostitution and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:27 PM
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I know a few expats and importers personally. I can promise you that it is completely mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:24 PM
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It's not lazy. They do it on purpose because they are sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:08 PM
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That ship has sailed. We have long been living in a post-truth era. It's just getting economical for plebs to engage in it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:07 PM
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Importers are blue pillers who think they can connect with women over time or buy affection. The expats know that affection can only be kept when the money is contingent on services rendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:05 PM
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It's for the same reason that you have to put the toilet lid down. Women do not like responsibility. They want to complain until the man fixes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:48 PM
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The one time I let a girlfriend handcuff and blindfold me, she tickled me with a feather for like twenty minutes while laughing at me. I am thankful for the experience because it let me know how much I hate it when it's not even bad, just disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:05 PM
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There's no need for it. Truth exists outside of any recognition. It's just baffling to men the way women will deny reality that everyone knows is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:36 PM
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Lilith is by far my favorite here. She is an artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:34 PM
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Because she wants one, like most people do. That's why people date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:53 PM
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If you can feed a man well and make him feel special, then you are set for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:43 PM
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Unfortunately, most people are ruthless and have no empathy. They are literally trying to chase away happiness from a disabled woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:41 PM
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It's called hunting and fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:39 PM
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No, most single women are middling losers who can get dicked down by Chad but can't keep him around. Most single men are bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:37 PM
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It depends on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:36 PM
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It's not a cabal of pedos. However, the world's intelligence agencies use cutouts to kidnap and traffick children for the purpose of exploiting foreign diplomats. Epstein was likely Mossad. The CIA uses them too. You can look up The Finders cult papers from the FBI Vault website and see what it looks like. I don't recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:57 PM
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James Gunn made one of the few good Marvel movies. That's the only thing that saved him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:53 PM
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This is useless. Impairment of basic logic is a biological issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:52 PM
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He is /fit/ made corporeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:36 PM
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Teaching went down the toilet as a profession after the GWB No Child Left Behind bullshit. It gets worse every year. In addition, the parents, teachers, and administration are becoming more hostile to men every year. I would only become a male teacher with the intention of filing sexual discrimination law suits over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:26 PM
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The only purpose of texting is to set up the next date. Invite them to lunch of coffee and ignore them if they don't say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:17 PM
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I agree on the need to get back up and that most incls are guys who could make it if they tried. But as older men, we have to realize that the reality for young men today is wildly different from the youths we led. Just telling them to "get back on the horse" isn't as helpful for them as it was for us. This is why TRP even exists. It is to help young men understand what is important so they can focus on improving and succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:45 PM
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You are criticizing young men for their inability to think critically and self-reflect, but you have never read TRP. I know you can't differentiate between TRP, MRA, MGTOW, or incel. TRP, and to a lesser degree FDS, is about learning how the opposite sex works and how to interact with them. TRP is all about the self, to the point where women are treated as an over-simplified monolith. Nothing you said here is correct, and you have not demonstrated any of the skills you are demanding from 18 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:02 PM
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What are you doing with your time that you can't even spare a few hours to fuck? If it's not finishing med school then you are probably doing something silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:42 PM
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If that man ever saw violence, he would piss himself while doing the prey freeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:39 PM
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Just get a few FWB and bang them. One night stands are more fun, but far more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:35 PM
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There's like five people still here who know what TRP actually says and everyone else just makes shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:17 AM
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Most women will dump their boyfriends who won't commit around 27 and become more desperate as 30 approaches. I am not desperate and wouldn't want a woman who confuses desperation for attraction. In addition, you start worrying about time and fertility constraints. You need time to date, marry, and get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:06 PM
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I am somewhere between 40 and 50. I am already married, but there is no point in seriously dating any women over 28 until you are in your 60s or 70s and looking for a live-in nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:36 PM
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My career will allow me to work part time for good money as I raise my kids. Good choice. The number one problem with two people focused on careers is the eventual fight over whose career is more important, usually centered over job offers in a different city. My wife has her masters in accounting and does the same thing. She gets to work whenever the bug bites her and then remember why she left in the first place. Congrats on your coming engagement!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:21 PM
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Yes and no. Men and women have very different standards of beauty. Women forgive age. Men forgive clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:04 PM
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As a red pill father of daughters, I can promise you that it's hard to be harsh with your princesses. Eventually I will talk with them about the realities of dating, but that is thankfully far off for now. Even then, all I can do is explain reality to them and guide them. They will eventually be adults who make their own choices and mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:02 PM
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young >> same socioeconomic class > conscientious > mentally stable >> pretty > intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:56 AM
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They still have out-group preference for women and children. In addition, the original purpose of welfare was to bolster the size of military conscripts from rural areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:57 AM
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Insecure isn't the right word. It's more like the women who dislike porn because they think it gives men erectile dysfunction. It makes the person a worse sexual partner in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:47 AM
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Men do not have the same in-group preference that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:45 AM
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Yes, but I have never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:41 AM
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Eventually, you just start cheating on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:18 PM
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How many women actually meet that standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:15 PM
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Yes and no. Most women are very shitty, unpleasant, and more trouble than they are worth. That's why most women are only good for momentary pleasure. I see my equals as equals. The average man and average woman are equal but different. Most people are animals and incapable of connecting on an intellectual level without the state backing up that relationship. The few capable of it are slotted for success. I prefer the traditional labor divisions. She is responsible for children, cooking, and clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:13 PM
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Most of women's actions are unconscious. They aren't thinking about anything. They only feel. The trope of a female friend trying to help out her lonely guy friend by redoing his OLD profile and not understanding why he gets no matches is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:57 PM
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I wouldn't date him and don't know any women that would date him, but surely there are women who want to date him. Women have zero understanding of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:54 PM
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On her ship during the incident were several Generation Identity members. They were reporting on actual refugee ships. This is a no-no. I guarantee you she was approached long before the ship incident, and that was the last straw before getting her removed from banking. It was only downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:44 AM
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Lauren Southern's fall is 100% on her flying too close to white supremacist circles without agreeing to become a confidential informant. You don't get on the MATCH list because you're a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:32 AM
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It has nothing to do with it. They are paid to push the status quo, or at least not push against it too hard. If you are watching someone speak to you and they are getting paid, then there is a limit to what they are allowed to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:59 AM
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Bachelorette taxes, in addition to being a political impossibility, wouldn't accomplish the goal. Women don't care about how much they make the same way men do. Their survival and reproductive success aren't tied to it. Bachelor taxes are achievable, but floutable because men don't need much to survive. It didn't work for the Romans, and it will not work for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:46 PM
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No she wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:25 PM
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This is the advice I'll give my kids too. Dating in your late 20s and 30s is miserable and filled with miserable people. You just have to very careful in your choice and be willing to work hard for your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:58 PM
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There are no guarantees in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:17 AM
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Yes and yes. Though to be fair, while men have certainly devolved, women have become all but worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:31 PM
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I wanted children, a family, meaning, and someone to drive me to the hospital when I have a seizure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:29 PM
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I personally know a neo-Nazi trans-woman who dreams of being a tradwife. Nothing surprises me about politics anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:47 AM
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That sounds like great taste, not a mental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:26 PM
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It's a great way to be straight, still get victim points, and get increased attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:59 PM
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Augustus Ceasar, first emperor of the Roman Empire, and one of its better emperors, couldn't change the fate of the empire, only delay the decay. Societies have natural cycles, and the draw of a strongman to fix everything is a steady theme in the decline section. No amount of bachelor taxes, adultery laws, or even banishing his own daughter could fix marriage in the empire among the upper classes, and where the family goes, so does the people. Only death can bring new life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:43 PM
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That's assuming a philosopher king, which immediately brings to mind the requirement of a philosopher aristocracy. It sounds great because it starts by ignoring the problem with every political system, actual humans. Government, because it is made of humans, can never be just. The only reason we deal with it at all is because anarchy quickly turns into clans and banditry which quickly turns into government. Government, like the poor, will always be with us, and just like the poor should be activ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:33 PM
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Then you don't understand monarchy. It's entire purpose is to provide stable transitions using inheritance rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:14 PM
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Letting inbred retarded psychopaths run your life is never a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:09 PM
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My opinion is to do whatever is the local custom. If the local custom is to take the name of the man, then you do that. If it's not, then you do don't. I wouldn't marry a woman who insisted on embarrassing me for our entire marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:01 PM
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No amount of money would be worth becoming a paraplegic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:56 PM
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The easiest way is to do it in a manner that makes it seem the natural or polite thing to do. At bars, you can go order a drink standing up and naturally talk to the people next to you while waiting. There are many situations like this. But to be honest, most approach is just awkward. You just have to confidently yet politely throw yourself out there and just roll with the punches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:34 PM
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Women love dancing. Partner dancing is a great way to meet women, touch them, and impress them. Group ballroom dance lessons are typically dominated by women and are a great way to learn how to dance, talk to women, find women to act as social proof at other places, and many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:59 AM
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Clubs are for suckers. Solo dancing is dumb as hell, and grinding isn't partner dancing either. Country dance halls and local Mexican restaurant salsa nights are amazing. Ballroom dance lessons are the patrician's path to drowning in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:20 AM
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Yup. Life is too short to deal with bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:07 AM
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Most men are nice about it unless you are embarrassing about it. You shoot your shot after a party or hookup and take the L like a champ? No problem. If you spend every party together for the next month getting wasted and then throwing yourself at him while talking about how you were meant to be together, throwing a temper tantrum, and then sobbing until the girls feel sorry enough to comfort you? Things get different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:06 AM
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Why do you even think the Chad and incel archetypes exist? They can only exist because women all have the same taste. They may want different flavors of Chad, but that is still what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:00 AM
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All woman have the same visual tastes. It's just that female arousal is more complicated than "see man; get horny."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:27 AM
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I have seen it too, but it's nowhere near the majority in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:33 PM
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Straight men don't care about harems either. They just want to fuck. It's the women that form the harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:17 PM
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The US's school system is purposefully segregated and dumbed down to protect elites and banks against overproduction. It won't change because there is far too much money and power backing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:08 PM
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Most people are really stupid. That includes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:06 PM
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She looks like a 7, but that could go up or down two points since it's a bad picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:04 PM
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Learning is great. Education is meh. US citizens aren't the only UFO and Bigfoot believers on the planet. I assure you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:02 PM
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Patriarchy is rare, just like matriarchy. They are just two sides of the same civilizational cycle. Most people at most times after the Roman Empire live under nuclear families.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:45 PM
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Yes. Education today is overpriced and underperforming. The only purpose for today's colleges is to meet licensing or employment requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:40 PM
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They are 2/3rds of students. I'm honestly surprised it isn't 4/5ths.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:57 PM
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Just stating that if I disappeared, while sad, i think my family would do better. This is unlikely to be true and an indicator of mental illness. You should seek professional help while eating, lifting, and sleeping better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:54 PM
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"Society" doesn't give a fuck about me. Why should I give a fuck about it? Societies go through cycles of birth, rise, peak, decline, death, and rebirth. We are currently in decline with the usually misery and decadence that come with this stage. TRP is just the recognition of that and a set of tools for responding as an individual to our environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:39 PM
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Popular doesn't mean correct. It just means popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:32 PM
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First of all... those are incls. There are only a few TRP members left here. My wife knows about TRP. She agrees with most of it, but she absolutely hates it and thinks TRP contributes to the problem. I recommend you go to the actual subreddit and read the sidebar in order to understand it. There's maybe five people still here who can. The primary purpose of TRP is the acquisition and maintenance of girlfriend(s). It also doesn't require that they be RP women. TRP actually works the best on femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:22 PM
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Conflict resolution isn't unique to "equal" relationships. It's a skill. If I were a woman, I would 100% take the submissive role. I mentioned that two comments ago: If I were a woman, I would absolutely arrange that for myself. Being taken care of is one of the benefits to being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:55 AM
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"Equal" relationships have far more conflict. Traditional relationships have areas of responsibility that rarely cross and therefore the conflicts over who does what don't happen. The few "conflicts" are usually over parenting choices, which is why it's important to marry someone with the same vision as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:46 AM
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