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| 2 | Cleaning Tips, Please!I lived with a roommate for the first time recently— granted in a college dorm and not a full-size house— and I was almost solely responsible for cleaning. I found it helpful to set aside time each Sunday for housekeeping so it’s done regularly and the dorm was spruced up for the school week. While my clothes and linens were in the laundry I swept the floors, wiped the counters and tabletops, and took out the trash and recycling. This routine also ensured that I had fresh sheets and towels each … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Finishing the summer strong— how else can I prep for a long-awaited date?Ugh, I see the logic but it seems like the polite thing to do is ask him on a second date since he asked me on the first one. When, if ever, is it advisable to initiate a date in the dating phase? And thank you again for the kind words and thorough advice! I’ll be sure to post an update. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Finishing the summer strong— how else can I prep for a long-awaited date?I think I’ve done a decent job of walking that line but maintaining the balance in person will be a challenge! Assuming the first date goes well I’m already considering how soon I could appropriately ask him if I can come over and cook dinner with or for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Finishing the summer strong— how else can I prep for a long-awaited date?Thank you, I’m so excited!! I see what you mean but I guess I’m worried that if I lower my expectations it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy of sorts. If I tell myself this probably won’t go anywhere and this guy probably isn’t as promising as I think he is, maybe I’ll unconsciously view him as expendable or nothing special and decide to put less effort into getting to know him. He picks up on that and I ruin my chances with him even if we could have been a great match. Do you think there’s a r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Finishing the summer strong— how else can I prep for a long-awaited date?Hm, what do you mean by “holding your own”? Being just as attractive/relationship-worthy as he is or being assertive? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Finishing the summer strong— how else can I prep for a long-awaited date?Yup, I can do that too! Our university has one of the top programs in the country for his master’s and for a couple years he was earning that at the same time as his bachelor’s through a special pathway offered here. I have no doubt that whatever he had to do was very rigorous. I have to remind myself about the “cautiously” part way too often— I get carried away very easily. But we seem like a great match and he took the initiative to ask me out, offer a few (surprisingly upscale) restaurants fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/22 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Finishing the summer strong— how else can I prep for a long-awaited date?Thank you for sharing! Luckily we have the same undergraduate major and we can connect over that but his focus has pivoted more to international finance and economics. Not the most compelling topic, at least to me, but I made sure to ask for his predictions on something in that realm. I can certainly do more research before we meet. And yeah, I was very put off by his slow response time and heavy workload too but it helped that we have a mutual acquaintance whose judgment I trust who vouched for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How does personality correlate with women's attractiveness?I think a positive attitude can manifest in being friendly, hopeful, pleasant to be around, etc and those are personality traits people consider good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 05:27 AM |
| 5 | How does personality correlate with women's attractiveness?I’ve heard the theory that attractive women have better personalities because they’re used to being treated well so they have more positive attitudes, while uglier women have worse personalities because being treated poorly sours their outlook on life. I’ve also heard that uglier women have better personalities because they can’t coast on looks and have to develop traits like kindness and a sense of humor, while attractive women have worse personalities because all the positive attention goes to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?Like once or twice a year, if we’re just talking in-person attention. I’m from a big city and I don’t really experience street harassment or constant approaches like other women and teenage girls apparently do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 03:43 AM |
| 3 | The Oscars MegathreadDo you think she could have married someone closer to her level of wealth and status than a high school teacher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The Oscars MegathreadMackenzie Scott (formerly Bezos) and her new schoolteacher husband and the Japanese princess who gave up her title to marry a commoner. Although I don’t think cases like that are the “new normal”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 16 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?They probably are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:06 AM |
| 32 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I don’t know about the sex lives of the vast, vast majority of 18+ women I’ve met as I have only discussed this with a handful of them. But I’ve met a couple girls along with myself who made it to legal adulthood without having sex and none of us are religious. I think lack of opportunity due to sheltered teenage years, social awkwardness, and pickiness were the factors we mostly had in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:00 AM |
| 8 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?Why can’t you answer my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:23 AM |
| 9 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?How does that prove she thinks she deserves a HVM? It only shows that she wants one but doesn’t know how to get one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?So do you believe that any woman who wants a HVM also thinks she deserves one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 6 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?I take it you don’t buy that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:48 AM |
| 11 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?She only wants to be with HVM. That doesn’t necessarily prove that she feels deserving of one though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 28 | Women who say the want a "HVM", why don't you all ever mention what YOU bring to the table other than "WAP"- which is standard on all women?Are you talking to women who simply want HVM or women who actually believe they deserve one? Because those are two different things— wanting something doesn’t automatically mean you think you deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?And I didn’t say that all women who would be bringing kids into poor or fatherless homes should get abortions. But I think every woman should have the option for the reason I described in my original reply. If that option is mainly utilized by poor women and would-be single moms, it only makes abortion accessibility more practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography?Watching porn intended for a wide audience to consume is okay so long as he doesn’t replace me with it or expect our sex life to mirror it. Personally interacting with the porn star or trying to get in touch with her I consider grounds for a breakup because it sounds like he wants to escalate to digital cheating (sexting, exchanging nudes, dirty video chats, etc— basically interpersonal intimacy instead of watching stuff meant for the public) or even physical cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?Mm, no. Poverty still exists in the UK and homelessness isn’t the only way to be poor. And even if you were right it’s better for drug addicts and the severely mentally ill not to have kids. Plus, like I said, think beyond your own country. There are people in even worse conditions than the UK’s poor who would benefit from greater abortion access. That’s not what I’m proposing either so I don’t know why you brought it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?What country is that? I assure you not everyone there is rich. And think beyond your own country, there are people struggling all over the world who would benefit from having fewer children. Kids who grow up without present fathers or proper resources become problems for the rest of us, not to mention they get problems of their own thanks to the circumstances of their childhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?Are you as staunchly in favor of child support, welfare, and other forms of assistance as you are of not getting abortions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?It’s an unfortunate way to handle the problem but better than having more kids in poverty or more kids raised by single moms. People often cite adoption as the clear alternative but some women realize they aren’t prepared to raise a kid or give a baby up for adoption so they abort instead. If you know that you won’t make a good parent and you aren’t willing to let someone else be a good parent, the right thing to do is not have a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | How could reproductive rights in the West be more slanted towards women?“The West” is a big place— reproductive rights and abortion access can be quite different from state to state or country to country. But anyway, before we even get into rights sex education and family law education are a must. And the curriculum should strongly emphasize that people with different preferred outcomes for a pregnancy should not be sex partners. As for abortion it would be legal up until the woman goes into labor. I understand why some people will find that reprehensible but I beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:35 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes?It really depends on what kind of prostitutes he sees and how he treats them. If he goes to exploited ones— and especially if he knows they’re exploited— I disapprove. If he treats them poorly or looks down on them I disapprove. But provided that they’re adult women who got into this industry completely of their own free will and he treats them with respect I guess it’s okay. It seems sleazy to me but I still think it should be legal, with regulations of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:59 AM |
| 9 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?If an extremely good-looking, successful, charismatic man who could do a lot better than me showed interest in me I would be suspicious because I doubt he takes me seriously. But I still would give him a chance if it seems like he actually wants a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Average and Below Women of PPD: How often do you get approached?I get mixed messages about my attractiveness so I generally feel average. In real life guys approach me about once a year— twice max— and even then they don’t explicitly ask for my contact info or ask me to do anything with them. I’m still not sure if they were actually attracted to me, just being social, or messing around. On dating apps I get a lot of right swipes and a few guys have asked me out but I don’t think that means much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?It’s obvious to me. But I thought I might get some guy blustering about how men don’t care what other people think and don’t follow the crowd unlike women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?My first thought is that it puts paternity in doubt and they don’t want to risk investing in someone else’s offspring. And maybe it’s an STD-avoidance strategy too. But there must be a social component as well. Guys, correct me if this is wrong, but I’m guessing it’s embarrassing or somehow unpleasant for you if the rest of the community sees your girlfriend as trashy and slutty or other men you know can say they slept with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How important are your preferences?If we’re just talking preferences and not requirements, I can look past it so long as he is more aligned than not with my preferences. If he meets all the requirements but fits few to no preferences I would not be interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?I wouldn’t say he “did” anything, I just got to know him better and had more one-on-one time with him. But we discussed a common interest and I was touched that he was actually curious about something other people didn’t really get or care about when I talked about it. And it helps to get physically closer too— once I sat near him, made prolonged eye contact, and had a better view of his body, he seemed way hotter. And I don’t think it’s any coincidence that the absence of his glasses coincided … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Is crying a turnoff for you?I’ve never been in a situation where a man I was attracted to cried in front of me, but I will say that I prefer when we all cry alone. I feel ugly and self-conscious crying in front of people and I get uncomfortable when others cry around me. I doubt I would lose attraction and respect for someone for that reason unless he was overreacting or trying to manipulate me like some other users commented. Tears are never a turn-on but I find it difficult to believe they are a permanent turnoff unless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:46 PM |
| 4 | What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left?If the first picture is just a dog, a landscape, a meme, or some other photo that does not contain him. If I see that I assume he’s just on here for entertainment or he’s ugly and he knows it. If his bio is a thinly veiled complaint about women on the app. If it’s something along the lines of “actually hold a conversation with me” or “message first so I don’t have to” he sounds negative and whiny. Those are valid frustrations but putting them front and center comes off as bitter. If his profile … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Ok women, tell me what are you looking for in a men.Compatible lifestyle goals— we won’t last if we can’t agree on the basics. I want someone who also wants to live in an urban area with pets and no kids where we both have white-collar jobs and share household expenses/responsibilities. Personality-wise I like easygoing, confident, funny (intentionally or unintentionally), driven guys. Someone who is a good person at his core but not too much of a saint, because if he’s always perfectly gracious I’ll feel like I can’t be myself around him. Someti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | If you’ve done everything other than PiV, are you still a Virgin?If we’re only talking straight couples, PiV or anal mean you’re no longer a virgin. Manual and oral sex acts or penetration with a sex toy don’t count in my opinion— I just consider straight sex to be a real penis in a real vagina or anus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?And I need to find someone who agrees on what the finer things are, at least somewhat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?It’s a good thing for him because he’s taking steps to improve his mental health but it can also be a red flag to me depending on the reason. If he’s in therapy for something severe like substance abuse or anger management that’s a dealbreaker and I don’t think he should date until he gets that under control. But if it’s something mild like everyday stress or family difficulties it’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 10 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Not in the scenario you’re describing. Lack of ambition is such a turn off and I wouldn’t take him seriously if he was content to work a low-wage, small-scale job for his entire life. It’s one thing if he’s a student working retail part-time or he starts with an entry-level job in his field and works his way up the ladder. But I cannot imagine being satisfied or compatible with someone who doesn’t aim higher or seek the finer things in life. He doesn’t actually have to be rich or uber-successful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?Hey, he doesn’t have to be an actual friend. I think it would be weird to shift to a romantic relationship after months or years of being just friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:06 PM |
| 6 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?Assuming I actually want to go out with the guy, I want him to be an acquaintance, like a friend of a friend or a classmate. Someone I know well enough that I’m at least a little attracted to him and think there’s some potential for a relationship. I don’t want to make a split-second decision about a random guy approaching in public. I’d like to have at least one platonic conversation with him, establish a common interest, and learn a bit about him so I have time to decide if I’m interested befo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?If the man and the woman both prefer it that way I’d say that is the best reason to do it. Or if he picked a place his date can’t afford. Right now I expect to each pay our own way because my date is probably a fellow college student with limited funds. Although if we’re both working full-time I prefer if the person who asks pays and if we keep seeing each other we can take turns paying, split the bill, or let the person who suggested the location pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI watched a reality show where a man found out his girlfriend cheated on him and had two kids by two other men. He still declared that he would marry her and raise them as his own. How far can a man like this bend until he snaps out of it? What does it take for them to realize they need to ditch any woman who would do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?How different do you have to be to be an nlog? I have some stereotypically feminine traits and some not stereotypically feminine traits. Most of the latter don’t strike me as masculine so I won’t call them stereotypically masculine. But if certain men on the Internet are right (And when are they ever wrong?!) I’m different because I’m a quiet introvert with an n-count of 0 and I cook. And I don’t wear makeup, drink or use drugs, hook up, believe in horoscopes, post on Instagram, post thirst trap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | What is your N-countNope. Not after we’re in a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | What is your N-countI suspect so but people tell me otherwise. But my opinion that it’s unrealistic is more based on the lack of secular men willing to wait for marriage in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | What is your N-countThat is an appealing idea but it doesn’t seem realistic so I’m on the fence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:20 PM |
| 3 | What is your N-count19– I’m in the clear! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:16 PM |
| 0 | What is your N-count0, F. Does my opinion have value yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 6 | You wake up tomorrow and all unattractive men have disappeared, including those you know.Concerned. I don’t think there are enough women and attractive men to fill the enormous gap in the global workforce without the uggos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:54 PM |
| 3 | what countries have the thinnest women?Try Yemen or someplace else stricken by famine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:46 PM |
| – | Are any of the women who post here good looking? I know 1 is, what about the others? Rate yoselves! Decimals allowed.After careful consideration and calculation I declare myself a 5.8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | If you listen to them long enough, they'll eventually tell on themselves.Mmhm. Some say you shouldn’t discuss heavy topics on the first date but I’d rather know sooner than later who I’m dealing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | If you listen to them long enough, they'll eventually tell on themselves.She’s making the right choice, although she should break up with him if she really never wants to have sex with him again. People in general, especially the people who don’t decide if the woman gets an abortion, shouldn’t have sex with people who don’t agree with them on how to handle a pregnancy. That’s a pretty significant thing no matter what outcome you prefer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | I’m feeling masochistic— tell me how race factors into the relationship/sexual marketplaceOr be an Asian woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, upon meeting a new guy, at point do you develop a sexual attraction towards him?It varies. Sometimes it starts the moment I look at him and sometimes it starts after a full conversation. In the case of the former it’s based on looks, plus his “vibe”. And for the latter I start to appreciate his looks and become physically attracted to him after I find out how appealing his personality is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | For ppl who get anxious about the idea that their SO enjoyed sexual intimacy with another person, is “low n” or “virgin” your preference?I would worry, at least in the early stages of our sex life, that I’m not as skilled as his past partners at pleasing him. But that doesn’t make me want a virgin or low-n guy. With an n-count of zero myself I don’t feel comfortable engaging in physical intimacy and I would feel better if he is already moderately experienced so one of us knows the ropes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingThe obvious ones like cheater, abuser, addict, criminal. But additionally… 1. pressures me to convert to his religion or participate in religious rituals 2. won’t learn basic life skills 3. doesn’t take care of himself— lives a sedentary lifestyle, uses recreational drugs, drinks heavily, mainly eats junk food, habitually smokes tobacco, has poor hygiene, etc 4. won’t tolerate my pets 5. lacks professional ambition and plans 6. doesn’t want a monogamous marriage 7. obnoxious personality— talks t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo need to get so ruffled. They’re just examples and I don’t know what child support typically costs. I’m a girl and I don’t have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou might be able to calculate how much the kid adds to the bill. Like if they live in a two-bedroom apartment in a building where one-bedroom units are $1000 a month and two-bedroom units are $1200 a month, the voucher could be $200 for rent. And they could calculate the cost of the typical monthly utility bill, assume the kid incurs about 50% of it, and deduct some of that 50% for days the kid was with the dad. The voucher is worth the average or median bill, minus mom’s half of it and minus t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you all think of paying child support in the form of vouchers specifically for children’s items? Like $50 worth of baby food, $1000 worth of school tuition, a gift card to a kids’ clothing store, etc. Would that be any better or worse for the families involved than the current system? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks.I notice this more online than in person but there are way too many women who fish for compliments and seek attention, especially of a sexual nature. I’m not sure if most of them are insecure and looking for validation or have high opinions of themselves and want to hear others agree, but it is so obnoxious and tacky. I’m thinking of that trend where girls post pictures of themselves and the caption is like “Would you cheat on me?” or “Would you punch me for a million dollars?”. And the response… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:28 PM |
| 3 | How man hours a week do you spend on your appearance?Some of us are not messing around. I plan to up my workout to two hours a day starting tomorrow and I would spend even more time on my appearance if I wore makeup and nail polish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | How man hours a week do you spend on your appearance?Most days I’m not literally in the gym. During Covid I worked out at home and since I moved into a college dorm I started working out in my building stairwell since the student gym kind of sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 3 | How man hours a week do you spend on your appearance?On an average day I spend 20 minutes getting ready before my workout by putting on activewear, doing my hair, and brushing my teeth and then 1.5 hours working out. Afterwards I spend 35 minutes showering, applying skincare products, putting on my outfit, and doing my hair. I spend 1.5 hours per day looking at clothes and skincare products although I don’t buy new things often. At night I spend about 20 minutes flossing and brushing my teeth, putting on skincare products, and getting into my paja… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?I was born in the early 2000s so I haven’t really experienced life before modern feminism, if you’re talking about the third and/or fourth wave. Even living in moderate to liberal areas I have not noticed or experienced the problems attributed to it that bother some women, like men not being chivalrous enough or being shamed for acting traditionally feminine. No one cares if I wear a dress or like to cook and guys are still nice to me. I may have complaints once I start dating but up to this poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | I made a unique political orientation test, what is your score? Are you more blue-pilled or red-pilled?I scored 0, so not as left leaning as I thought. I’m a red-leaning purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Why are single mothers considered less desirable mates?It is hypocritical but I think it makes sense (and I’m not a single mother myself). It’s hard enough to raise your own kids, deal with your own ex, and introduce a new stepparent. Raising his kids, dealing with his ex, and introducing step siblings too could easily be too much for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I have a silly question regarding dressing feminineI don’t know how intense your winter is, or whether it’s more wet or dry, but there are some things you can try. As another user suggested tights under skirts and dresses are a great option. And you can wear boots with a wedge or heel and coats with a more defined waist. Even some heavy parkas let you cinch the waist so you’re not totally shapeless in them- plus it keeps you warmer. As someone who wears a lot of skinny jeans and sweaters and plans to move somewhere colder soon, I will be trying … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] Which category do you guys fall into when it comes to thoughts on casual sex?I’m 19F and single in the fourth category. My background is UMC, black, raised Catholic but now atheist. Casual sex just doesn’t seem worth it. I doubt that whatever momentary pleasure you get outweighs the risk of pregnancy and STDs or the damage to your reputation and future relationship prospects. And I would rather be in a serious relationship than have casual sex partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodOdd that they didn’t include Latinos/Hispanics considering that they’re the second largest racial category in the US. And it would be nice to add your own stats to get a more accurate result specific to the dating pool in your location. You’re more likely to meet a non-obese Asian man who makes over $100k in the Bay Area than the Oklahoma panhandle. Anyway, I got a whopping 19.1%. Mostly because I didn’t include an income filter as I assume my dating pool mainly consists of fellow students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple PillF, 19, ISTJ, purple with a growing red tint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:37 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen of PPD, how picky would you be if every woman around you was madly attracted to you? Would you ever be monogamous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 06:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere is actually a scientific basis behind it. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/man-flu-really-thing-2018010413033 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 10:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve never encountered a woman who did this. It’s just not a hot topic, or really a topic at all, among women I’ve met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, for starters I don’t make fun of the man flu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you know that you’re gaslighting men when giving them dating advice?If you are a conventionally unattractive man then being yourself won’t get you into a relationship with most women. But at the same time people know how putting on a facade for years to be with someone who’s not compatible with the real you can be stifling and unfulfilling. Your friends probably think that even if being yourself isn’t appealing to most women, you can find the exception who does like you as you are and then you don’t have to fake a new persona for her. And I can’t comment on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do red-pillers make of women who date and get into LTRs with men, but don’t want to marry them? Especially if he has money. I thought of this because I know a woman who lives with her rich boyfriend and raises their kids together but she won’t marry him even though he wants to marry her. And they’re both divorced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that consuming “blue pill” media influenced you to mimic the behavior you saw there?What made you realize you had to change, if you don’t mind sharing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Tea TimeNot in this situation myself, but I wondered about something. What do you do if your husband isn’t the healthiest eater and wants you to make cheeseburgers, pizza, cake, etc all the time? You love him and want to make him food he likes, but at the same time you don’t want to enable unhealthy choices. I assume a lot of you wouldn’t marry a man that irresponsible in the first place, but if you did somehow get into that situation, what would you do? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/21 08:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat would happen if men became far more selective about who they try to match with on dating apps? Would women become less selective and give less attractive guys a chance because they have fewer options? Or stay selective because they’d rather be alone than with a less attractive man? It seems like some men try to match with basically any woman they can because only a tiny number will reciprocate and this increases their chances of getting more matches. I wondered how women would respond if ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 05:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen maybe I’m undervaluing an untapped resource… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 02:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhere are they then? Aside from ultra conservative countries where extramarital sex is not acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 02:26 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAny insight on the prevalence of incels on the LA OLD scene? And yeah, if he’s unattractive enough to be an incel I doubt I would even consider a date in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 01:56 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s good to know. Now I can comfort myself with the knowledge that I’m not alone and every female Tinder user is wooed by legions of perfectly nice guys with unfortunate, recessed chins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 01:48 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat a relief! Now I just have to worry about the ratio of incels to everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 01:44 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am in a big city but I’m not sure how much that affects the online dating scene in this regard Sure, more people means more potential matches but I don’t know if the “types” you attract are so much more diverse compared to what you get in smaller towns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 01:28 AM |
| 14 | I can’t wrap my head around why I should have to clean for a man (not feminism)You don’t “have” to, but it does make sense to clean for him at least partially if he brings in all or most of the income or works longer hours. I think whoever spends less time or makes less money at work should contribute more at home so each person is pulling their weight and making sure the couple/family has what they need. Now, I will say I would not ordinarily clean up for a boyfriend who doesn’t live in the same house with me or provide for me. If there’s some special circumstance like he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/21 01:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTwo friends informed me that if I made a Tinder account I would attract mainly incels. I kind of want to test that theory but my self-esteem is fragile enough as is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?If there’s no reward either the absence of risk still doesn’t sound compelling enough as a motive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 05:20 AM |
| 3 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?If they know it won’t go anywhere, why say anything at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 04:02 AM |
| 20 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?No, although I have posted r4rs before. I felt uncomfortable with it and realized I would much rather meet someone organically in person. Kind of? When I like someone I find excuses to talk to him but I enjoy his company without any romantic outcomes in mind. I assume there’s no point in trying to date them because they are not interested, too old, taken, or unavailable for other reasons. On Reddit, yes, and in real life, no. I haven’t asked to exchange numbers, go on an actual date, hook up, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Maybe it’s because these women are single or celibate and don’t see the point of sacrificing comfort for sex appeal. Or “sexy” to them is more understated and minimalist than hyper-feminine and provocative. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Victoria’s Secret and what it means to be “sexy” in the modern era.Eh, I doubt that Victoria’s Secret’s pivot will have that big of a cultural impact. That brand was dominant for a while but it’s been getting less popular over the years and women now have plenty of other options for sexy or plain and practical underwear. I wouldn’t worry about this hurting women’s self-perception because Victoria’s Secret just isn’t as relevant anymore. VS and other women’s brands don’t make these kinds of changes because they think women aren’t or shouldn’t be sexy and girly. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I don’t see what’s wrong with “ pick me “ girlsI think their actions are less of an issue than their claims. If they like to act traditionally feminine or do something else that appeals to men I think that’s fine, but it’s obnoxious to make a show of it. There’s a difference between, say, dressing modestly and dressing modestly while posting online about how you’re different from other girls nowadays because you don’t dress like a thot and real men appreciate it. One of those is much more tacky and self-congratulatory than the other. It make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Women in favour of vasectomy. Are you willing to do tubal ligation? Why?I assumed I would get a tubal ligation before I considered that my future partner could get a vasectomy. I would rather he get a vasectomy because it seems safer, easier, and less costly, but if he didn’t want one I would still get the tubal ligation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 02:34 AM |
| – | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?I can look it up but that sounds very plausible. I’ve been considering this lately— in more primitive times women had to stick with the group and rely on other people for survival more so than men. It makes sense that we would still have a stronger urge to assimilate if that kept us alive in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 01:06 AM |
| 5 | Is obesity more of a problem for male attractiveness than for female?Man or woman, when you’re obese you are basically a blob shape and that’s not attractive to anyone outside of some small niches. Whereas a mildly overweight woman could carry the extra weight in places that give her an accentuated hourglass or pear figure that some men prefer. And a mildly overweight man could get the dad bod/bear figure that some women prefer. Although I’m not sure how rates of female attraction to dad bods compare to male attraction to chubby, curvy women. If obesity hurts men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?Why don’t you provide sources? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?Is there data that women are more rigid than men about their partners’ politics? Or that liberal women and conservative men are more rigid about this than people of the opposite sex on their side? Anecdotally I do hear people say they wouldn’t date Trump supporters, feminists, leftists, right wingers, etc, and usually it was liberal women and conservative men saying they find each other lacking in appeal at best. I don’t hear conservative women or liberal men letting the world know they wouldn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 13 | Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true?I think it’s more true if the man is already attracted to the woman and eager to believe she feels the same way. Then he could get carried away thinking any positive interaction is proof of interest. And there are socially inept guys who don’t recognize platonic niceness whether they’re attracted to the woman or not. I could see this being an issue if you have a bubbly, chatty personality or smile a lot— that’s easily misinterpreted for flirtation. I personally feel comfortable being polite to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Why Vet Men Based on Height?Height requirements do shrink your dating pool but they can be useful if you don’t go overboard, because height affects physical attraction and that is necessary in a relationship. If you know you’re not physically attracted to short men or men shorter than yourself then you’re probably both better off not dating each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | What's up with girls and obsession with rape these daysRape, harassment, and other forms of sexual misconduct or violence have been hot topics since the MeToo movement started. I think it’s especially popular amongst teen girls and younger women because so much of it is spread online and they’re less tolerant of unwanted sexual advances. I don’t know what your area is like but I do know that teenage girls are more likely than older women to make false rape accusations. And given that these girls are “hyper sexual”, it sounds like they are prone to m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 3 | What adds to n-count, in your opinion?To me it has to be below the belt genital-and-genital or genital-and-anal sex. So, penis in vagina, penis in anus, or scissoring. Toys, fingers, and mouths don’t count. Oral and manual acts also factor into how promiscuous I believe someone is but I don’t see them as actual sex that adds to N-count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public?They approach about once a year since I was a teenager. And even then I’m not sure if they were actually attracted to me, being social, or messing around. This mostly happened in middle and high school (I’m 19) where I suspected that it was not flirting because I could hear the guys and their friends laughing during or after the approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?Hard to gauge. I personally would rate myself a 6 but I get mixed messages from others. People, male and female, have told me I’m really pretty but supposedly really pretty women get approached all the time and that’s certainly not the case for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 07:36 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W]What’s you're thoughts on the idea of “competition” for women?I think “competition” is an accurate word when multiple men pursue the same woman and must prove that they’re somehow better than the rest to be with her. It’s hard to quantify how many men are competing over the average woman but I’d guess at least a few assuming she’s single and on a dating app. Yeah, I posted in r4r once looking for a relationship and talked to a few different guys out of about twenty who replied for like a day and half. I quickly realized online dating, at least on Reddit, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?If I like his sense of style I’ll certainly be more attracted to him but good fashion sense is not enough to spark attraction where there was none before. Basically as long as I like or at least feel neutral about his clothes he’s fine. And preppy clothes and suits really do it for me— I don’t like seeing guys in activewear, loungewear, or alternative/e-boy outfits. Hair and body modifications can have a huge effect too though. I find it really unattractive when a man has long hair, excessive fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Older men can't get women their age?Depends on the older man. If he took care of his body, is well-liked, and has some financial/professional success then I think he could get with younger or older women and chooses younger women because he can. If he’s a bum who’s not going anywhere in life then I believe women his own age know he’s a loser not worth dating. So he goes for younger girls who will take him anyway because it’s good enough for them that he’s older, has a car, can score some alcohol, or something else that gives him a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Did men who felt "lied to by the media" miss the media that was right in front of them?My fuzzy anecdotal evidence isn’t the best but I think there’s some truth to that. When I recall shows and movies I watched, even ones with female protagonists that often came from female or feminist writers and production teams, there were also storylines about the darker side to women. The false allegations in I May Destroy You, the vicious social climbing and bullying in Mean Girls, and even the plot to kill the prettier, younger woman out of jealousy in Snow White come to mind. But I assume … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 12:47 AM |
| – | What do you believe are things that men get wrong about dating and about women?I’m not sure if any other women can co-sign on this but some men seem to overestimate how much being nice “should” set them apart from other men and improve their chances of getting a girlfriend. In my experience most men are nice so it doesn’t do much to elevate any one of them as relationship material compared to the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you still support abortion in the following sci fi scenario, why or why not?By support do you mean would I still support legal access to abortion, still personally think abortion is okay, still get an abortion myself…? To answer all three, yes, depends on the woman’s reason for aborting, and possibly. I don’t think women should be forced to participate in the transfer process but it does sound better than getting an abortion, unless her baby was going to be severely disabled or something like that. If I would be forced to parent the baby after it gestated in the machine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?What about a woman could appeal more to fearful, reserved guys who won’t approach than uninhibited guys who will approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Not entirely but kind of. I assume most men don’t approach women they don’t want. And sometimes men don’t approach women they do want for the reasons you listed. But I found it hard to believe when that’s how people explained the lack of approaches I got. As a teenager people told me how they were sure lots of boys liked me and they just didn’t show it because they were so intimidated by how pretty, quiet, or serious I was. But that sounds like something you tell an unattractive girl to make her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Amy Schumer's standup comedy and women's views of their self-worthI think these women mostly perpetuate this dynamic because they think men value sex more than being entertaining, interesting, and willing to put yourself out there. Having sex or being sexy has been a more effective way for them to get a date than being funny, cultured, bold, or some other quality more difficult to obtain. Why put in the effort to bring all that to the table when it’s not as necessary or valuable to the man as your vuh-jai-nuh? Some of them may have nothing more to offer and so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: Does career take priority over family, and until what point does this hold true?Man, no. Family as in kids, yes. I want a career and a marriage but not children. I’m 19 and I think that if I change my mind about becoming a parent when I’m older I would rather adopt, foster, or marry someone who already has kids than have biological children. Hence the lack of concern about my own fertility decreasing. For now I do prioritize my career over men because I’m not ready to date yet anyway and a college boyfriend probably won’t be as important as my career in the long run. But if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | How do BP/RP/PP women and men feel about who pays on dates in the pre-relationship phase? How does that decision impact you?I’m purple pill, I guess? I think it depends on the couple and what works best for them. A traditional man and woman shouldn’t go 50/50 or let the woman pay when they both prefer that the man pay. A modern couple shouldn’t let the man pay when they both prefer to contribute equally. But regardless of preference I think that if you don’t plan on seeing this person again you should just split the bill instead of letting one person cover the whole thing. Personally, assuming we’re on a first date a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?That depends on her weak spots and what appeals to the specific man or type of men she finds attractive. But in general I would say taking care of her body, cultivating a warm, gracious personality, dressing and grooming well, and not engaging in reckless or dramatic behavior will attract men. Be pretty and mostly wholesome, basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 08:18 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Nazi collaborators and survivalAbsolutely. Their lives and their children’s lives are worth more than the enemy’s sexual or emotional satisfaction. And the alternative was likely rape without compensation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | You shouldn't spend any money on a girl before you've slept with her (with minimal exception)What if she spends money on you when she hasn’t slept with you yet? Does that justify an exception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?I feel bad for some of them, like the disabled or seriously hideous ones I really believe couldn’t get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 6 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?I don’t feel sorry for men or women who would rather date losers than cope with being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 01:59 AM |
| 4 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?Geographically? Relationship-wise? I don’t know what you’re asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:42 PM |
| 11 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?Yes. Yes, but there are probably more scummy women with scummy men. Okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 11 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?According to OP these women generally have a “baby daddy that is not in their kids life”. Not every single mother went for scummy guys but it sounds like these ones typically do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 27 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?They shouldn’t be surprised if the kind of men they want don’t want them. But I don’t think those guys should put them down for aiming higher than they used to. If you made poor choices in your youth that doesn’t mean you should keep making them for your entire life and never change. They used to go for scummy guys and now they go for decent guys— that’s not a bad thing. If the decent guys (understandably) aren’t interested they are free to keep swiping and that’s not a bad thing either. Where t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie?What about an extremely religious girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie?He shouldn’t talk about it unless she brings it up. If she asks directly if he’s been with someone else in the past he should be honest and say no but if it never comes up it’s probably best not to mention it. If I was dating him and he shared that it would turn me off but it’s not a dealbreaker. I’m in the same position and I would feel more comfortable with an experienced man but experience is not so crucial that I would reject him over it, at least when we’re this young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I saw that article! It’s part of what swayed me in favor of abstinence. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Women]How often do you think the average guy gets hints/hit on?Hints maybe once every two months, although it could vary depending on how often he sees the women who are into him. An average man could attract only one woman in the entire year but it’s his coworker who drops hints multiple times a week for months. Blatantly hitting on him is rarer, maybe once or twice a year. I’m guessing ugly guys basically never get women showing interest unless they’re rich or have some other huge draw. Handsome guys... maybe get hints a few times a week and women openly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 7 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?I get approached less than twelve times a year... am I even a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 12:31 AM |
| 3 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?Face-to-face approaches, either from random men or someone they already know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How often do you think women of varying levels of attractiveness are approached by men?Approached by any men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | When couples don’t know which convention takes precedenceYeah, I know couples closer in age are less likely to divorce than age gap couples but among couples with similar age gaps I wonder which kind of pairing is more likely to stay together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | If women hate unwanted male attention in the public - why do you wear sexy clothing ?I mean, define sexy. Sometimes I feel sexy in something that’s not especially revealing or attention-grabbing. But anyway, I realized that I probably won’t get harassed whether I think my outfit is sexy or not so I might as well wear what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 4 | N-Count: How high is too high and how low is too low? Furthermore, how does age factor in?It really depends on age. As he gets older my tolerance for a higher n-count goes up while my tolerance for an n-count of zero goes down. For a fellow 19yo 8 is way too high but that’s fine for a 25yo. And if he’s a virgin at 19 that’s okay but at 25 I would find it suspicious. If I were to date someone my age right now I think 0-3 is an acceptable range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?The vast majority of men are not attractive to me but they’re not necessarily ugly either. Most of them are average, pretty “meh” to look at and it’s not like they’re an unpleasant, repulsive sight. I’d say about 20% of men look below average to me if that’s what you mean by ugly. But if you mean hideous, “ugly disgusting” men I think 5-10% are in that category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Missing out and making up for itMy self-esteem is partially affected by my desirability to men compared to other women but that doesn’t entirely dictate how much I value myself. And I do want a partner who sees me as a whole person and not just a body count, although my body count is part of who I am. It’s the result of choices I made that are still with me today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Missing out and making up for itYeah, there are women who consider themselves red-pilled although I think a lot of them were convinced from the start by culture or religion that being submissive, domestic, traditional, etc is the right way to be if you want a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Missing out and making up for itI’m not a man and I wasn’t drawn to red pill concepts out of a feeling of unfairness, although I suppose it is comforting. I missed out on milestones that I “should” have reached by now but I don’t think it was unfair that boys didn’t pursue me when I didn’t try to appeal to them. I do feel stunted and embarrassed at times because of my inexperience. And honestly it is vindicating to hear this is actually an asset and someone will find me more attractive than other women because I haven’t had se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | An Heir and a Spare: how many men does the average woman have waiting in the wings?I know one other woman who admitted to this and I personally don’t do it. I have had my share of unrequited crushes but I didn’t have any backup boyfriends. Come to think of it, I don’t know of any guys I could count on to date me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Do stats show that women more difficult to have as Long term partners than men?Maybe, although I don’t think statistics about sexual minorities are ideal for proving anything about the general population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 7 | What advantages is your sex believed to have that you feel is of no benefit to you?Same as you. I don’t want casual sex, children, or a situation where I can’t take care of myself or I can only have what my partner is willing to buy. Another one is easy attention from the opposite sex. For some reason I’m at my most approachable when I’m busy and it’s actually not delightful to have some guy interrupt your work or your errand with a stupid opener. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Do you feel pressure from society/family/friends to give "good guys" a chance?Not really. People I know tell me to pick someone who treats me well and makes me happy but they don’t encourage me to overlook a lack of physical attraction if looks come up at all. One recent example is my friends trying to set me up with a guy they like for me; I said I’m not physically attracted to him and instead of pressuring me not to care, they insisted he’s actually really hot and I should appreciate it. The media I watch gives mixed messages about this but I don’t feel pressured by fil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Can we conclude that hypergamy was implemented, first and foremost by men who wanted their daughters to marry the best?Eh, I doubt it. Even before humans advanced that far I think women instinctively pursued the strongest, most powerful men they could for themselves and their offspring. This was already happening and the fathers just encouraged it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I don’t know exactly which job I would have and it would likely change. I want to work on campaigns at least for a while while I’m young and I would probably have to travel a bit during the election cycle. But eventually I’d like to work in one office with regular hours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?We would move in together once we’re married and share household responsibilities while we both work. Of course we would travel and go out to restaurants, movies, museums, etc sometimes but I mainly prefer to relax at home. I’m not super social. We would also have at least two pets. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I do have to make sure our lifestyle goals align and I would like to discuss them as soon as possible when I’m getting to know a potential partner. I don’t want to waste my time with someone who doesn’t share them, but I also don’t want to come off as a desperate, clingy girl who’s already planning our lives together by the second date. Anyway, my goal is to get a bachelor’s in political science and then a master’s in public policy and work in politics/government, likely in DC or another big cit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?That’s good to hear. Do you have any suggestions on where to find such a man or how to appeal to them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/21 12:55 AM |
| 4 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?Probably not much, unless he’s one of those submissive guys who gets off on serving a woman and letting her financially dominate him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Interracial relationshipsI am not in this position myself, but I would suggest introducing your future children to diverse environments where interracial couples and biracial children are common. I also read that Native Americans have the highest rates of interracial marriage, and given the demographics of states with the highest Native American populations, they’re probably mostly marrying white people. There must be some communities, likely in Western states, where you’ll find other white/Native families who will unde… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Do women conform to groupthink when it comes to selecting partners?When I say a man is attractive and my friends disagree I try to change their minds and point out his best features. They do the same when I don’t agree with their tastes. I do think we want our friends to approve of our preferences or partners but their opinions aren’t so important that we would deny our interest or not date a man because the rest of the group thinks he’s ugly, stupid, cringey, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:17 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?A few times I didn’t initially think a guy was good-looking, but as I became attracted to him based on personality and accomplishments I started appreciating his looks. But they were all at least average looking to begin with, at least in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?They’re impressive as innovators, leaders, etc but that alone doesn’t make them attractive. I am attracted to some successful men but their looks and personality must appeal to me along with their accomplishments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:40 AM |
| 7 | How bad is a dirty old man really?Fortunately I’ve never had a man touch me against my will or say something really crude to me. The furthest they go is a stare or a whistle. But a dirty old man produces discomfort more than anything, especially when you’re underage. The first incident I remember was being about eight years old standing alone in a store when an old man walked in, saw me, and changed his path to circle behind me and stare at me. I turned and looked at him and he backed off. But it rattled me to think I had been t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 04:48 AM |
| 3 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I was raised Catholic too but not very strictly. I was never taught to wait for marriage and I got into the idea of doing so on my own. I know there’s a Jesuit university near mine though, so a modern, secular guy from a Catholic family could potentially be a match. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?It can vary based on the individual man’s preferences, but going by general tastes I think that woman would have to be extremely physically attractive, loyal, gracious, supportive, sexually available, warm, and undemanding. I take care of myself; I don’t partake in drugs or alcohol, I work out every day, and I stay thin. I dress well and I’ve been told that I’m very pretty. I don’t have tattoos, piercings, fake or dyed hair, fake nails, trashy clothes, heavy makeup, or the tacky look that typica… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I’m not a 10 in every aspect right now but I’m taking the Covid lockdown as a chance to improve and educate myself before I move onto my college campus and make my first foray into dating. If I do decide to save sex for marriage I realize I’m asking a lot of a potential husband and I have to make myself worth it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 3 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I’m not concerned about regretting it. It seems like most people who stay childfree by choice are satisfied with their decision and if I change my mind I can still adopt, foster, or find other ways to help raise kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I know some couples that got married without having kids, but most of them were older people with kids from previous spouses. I hope I don’t change my mind because being a parent is so impractical even if you like children. But if I do I’ll try to convince him or learn to live without them, maybe volunteer with children or spend more time with friends and relatives’ kids if I can’t have some of my own. And I don’t plan to marry young, I think I’ll probably be ready for marriage by my late twenti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 06:39 AM |
| 4 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I don’t think it would be too, too difficult to marry a man who also doesn’t want kids. A growing number of people are choosing the childfree lifestyle. And men who are wary of marriage often cite the risk of losing custody of their kids in a divorce as a reason why, so removing kids as a factor might lower the stakes for them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 05:20 AM |
| 3 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?He doesn’t have to be a virgin, although even without that requirement I’m sure these men would be rare. A husband’s premarital sexual activity doesn’t correlate with dissatisfaction as strongly as the wife’s, and I like the idea of having someone more experienced to guide me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 04:37 AM |
| 6 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?I assume having a strong bond with his wife is a priority for a man who wants marriage. He also gets peace of mind knowing that his wife isn’t comparing his sexual performance to anyone else’s and he doesn’t have to deal with baggage from previous sex partners. Couples that saved sex for marriage also report greater satisfaction with their relationship, higher quality sex, less consideration of divorce, and better communication patterns. And wives with less than two premarital partners are the l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 6 | How attainable is waiting for marriage if you aren’t compatible with the men who want that?No, it’s about the numbers. It seems highly unusual for a man to wait for marriage without being religious and wanting kids, so I doubt I would find someone like that. The improbability is what’s discouraging to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | If you don't have kids, why did you choose this path? Do you get much judgment from other people?The main reason is that I simply do not like kids. They’re mostly unpleasant to be around even if you’re not the one taking care of them, so I can only imagine how much worse it is to be a parent than a bystander. And they’re just so impractical— expensive, time-consuming, messy, and loud. They would bring so much unnecessary stress into my life and I would have much less time and energy to dedicate to my SO, not to mention the effect of pregnancy on a woman’s body. I hope I don’t change my mind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What are you looking to find when you read here? What is PRW? Maybe it’s time to reassess what this sub is about.Yes! This sub has been so helpful and insightful. I was apprehensive about participating because I expected it to be more of a reactionary, female version of TRP but it’s much more tolerant and civilized than that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | What are you looking to find when you read here? What is PRW? Maybe it’s time to reassess what this sub is about.I do specify my circumstances but I still get responses that could be applied generally to other women, especially ones in my position. There have been some wide-ranging conversations about how to proceed with dating, how much to consider men’s preferences, how to reconcile RP ideology with individualism, and other things that went far beyond my personal situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | What are you looking to find when you read here? What is PRW? Maybe it’s time to reassess what this sub is about.I’m not extremely well-versed in red pill ideology but I read here to learn more about it, especially concerning how women can apply it. It makes sense to me that men and women are instinctively attracted to different qualities and want different things from their partners based on how we evolved, and the red pill seems to support that. On a more personal level I want to know according to these ideas how desirable I am, how to reach my relationship goals, and how I can be a great girlfriend/wife… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 31 | Ladies, how do you initiate sex while still remaining in your feminine role?I’m new here so I don’t know that this is definitely proper red pill advice, but I think a more indirect approach could keep you feeling feminine. I would try something more subtle that arouses him to the point that he wants sex and motivates him to initiate himself. Wear something sexy at home, do something sexy around him, watch a steamy movie or show together. I don’t know what your boyfriend likes but my first instinct is to go for something casual and understated that still has the potentia… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What was your self-improvement process like before you met your partner?Thanks for the recommendations! It was called “Hot Girls Wanted” and it’s on Netflix. I already wasn’t into porn but after watching that I’m even more opposed to it. I’m not giving a cent of my money to those girls and it’s really for their own good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | What was your self-improvement process like before you met your partner?That’s so great to hear! What books would you recommend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What was your self-improvement process like before you met your partner?Which books would you recommend? I do read or watch things to keep in mind, but they’re more about what not to do than what to do. And yes! I see so many people making the wrong choices when they’re young because it’s fun, and they don’t know that it isn’t sustainable. I watched this documentary about girls my age in the porn industry and none of them were thinking about the future. It’s not like they were desperate for money; these girls came from regular middle class homes and said they could … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you incorporate your RP values into the early stages of dating?I would like to be with one but I wouldn’t go for them. I plan to date with the goal of finding a life partner and I don’t want to be widowed by 50, so slightly older men it is. It will be difficult but not impossible to find one I find attractive, although finding who’s attracted to me will likely be the bigger challenge. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?I guess I’m not concerned with the quality of sex so much as the significance of choosing to have sex with him at all, because it’s a big deal to me to be that intimate with someone. I like the idea of only sharing that experience with my husband and of him knowing that no other man has been with me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you incorporate your RP values into the early stages of dating?Oh yes, I would definitely try to tailor the way I show affection to fit his preferences. It’s just that when I think of how much I adore someone and want to express that, doting is how it comes out, at least in theory. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you incorporate your RP values into the early stages of dating?I actually prefer older men so it shouldn’t be a challenge to avoid the 20-year-olds. But I almost exclusively find middle-aged or even old men attractive and I know they’re too old, especially for a first relationship, so maybe someone in his mid-twenties is the best choice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?Engagement seems like a good compromise. I’ve thought about that too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?We need to be emotionally and practically ready. The emotional point— when we decide we want to get married— could come at any time. But the practical point will likely be in that age range. If we have both before my late twenties then I’m willing to get married and move in earlier, but we likely won’t. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?I believe you’ve misunderstood me. I’m not asking if I should start sleeping around so men will find me attractive— that was never an option I considered taking and I’m just looking for information about how they perceive inexperience. And for the record, I’m not strictly limiting myself to moving in and getting married in that age range. It just seems like the most likely time that I’ll be ready, but if I’m ready sooner I’m willing to do those things sooner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?I wouldn’t expect people my age to be extremely experienced and many of us are still virgins, but I think it’s odd that I’ve never had some basic experiences like a first kiss or date. How does that affect my value? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/21 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?The possibility of regret is part of what makes me so hesitant— I don’t want to have sex for the first time with a boyfriend, break up with him, and then wish I could take it back and have my first time with my husband instead. My husband will be more important and permanent than an eventual ex-boyfriend and I like the idea of only having that bond with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?I’m not sure if I want to wait for marriage or just a committed relationship where we see marriage on the horizon. But I think I’ll know when the time is right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/21 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?Teenage boys are not appealing and until I turned 18 those were my only options. I find older men more interesting, mature, easy to talk to, cultured, intelligent, and physically attractive. Guys my age were usually more entertaining or annoying than respectable and I can’t be with someone I don’t respect. I’m in college now and I’ll probably be more compatible with my peers who have the same drive and interests I do, but I have to stay home because of Covid so I’ve barely interacted with them a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?Of course! I don’t have an exact timeline on my mind but I wouldn’t have sex at least until we were in a committed relationship, loved each other, and wanted to marry in the future. I don’t have to make a decision right now but I’d like to figure out if I want to wait for marriage or not so I can tell men if I want to do that from the beginning. I doubt he would commit if he didn’t know the answer to that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/21 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?I’ve never been in a situation where a guy and I liked each other and spent time getting to know each other romantically. I’m rarely attracted to anyone and when I am he’s taken, too old for me, or off limits for other reasons. I’ve never tried to get into a relationship and no one has tried to get into one with me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/21 06:57 AM |
| 10 | Is there a point where virginity/inexperience is more of a turn off than a turn on?It’s rare that I’m attracted to anyone (especially someone age-appropriate while I was a minor), I wasn’t allowed to date until I was 15, and I’m shy. I’m also not sure how attractive I am since people tell me I’m nice and really pretty but guys rarely show interest in me beyond checking me out. I don’t know if I’m unattractive or just unapproachable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile your RP beliefs with your individuality?If those traits wouldn’t make me “better” then what do you have in mind when you advocate that I grow into the “best possible version” of myself? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile your RP beliefs with your individuality?I’m expressive sometimes, more so around people I like, but I’m usually not open like that. If I’m going somewhere or doing something I’m focused on that; I’m not making unnecessary conversation with people along the way or acting bubbly. Maybe reserved is a more accurate description than stony. If I make the kind of changes you’re suggesting it would be specifically for a man. I don’t want the life of a submissive wife, a mother, or a vulnerable woman. I don’t believe any of those are better th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/21 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile your RP beliefs with your individuality?When I think about specific men I find attractive and the women they chose, most of them have wives with reserved personalities and/or careers. So it’s not unthinkable that they could be interested in me. But they also all have kids and a childfree marriage is nonnegotiable. I wouldn’t give up my career for my relationship but if we’ve reached a serious stage and I think we’ll stay together for life I’m willing to make some sacrifices, like not accepting a position that’s too demanding. Assuming… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 4 | How do you reconcile your RP beliefs with your individuality?I’m not a warm, emotionally expressive kind of girl. I’m nice to people when we interact but I’ve never been the one who is affectionate or outgoing with them. People like me and tell me that I’m sweet so I don’t think I have an unpleasant personality, but I can come off as stony and aloof. I’m looking for a more egalitarian relationship where we see other as equals, not a leader and a follower. Even if he considers my preferences I’d feel infantilized if he has the final say over things I belie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/21 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?There are a few technical colleges in the suburbs around the city but I don’t want to commute to date, especially since the universities in the city have engineering/STEM schools that are probably male-dominated and there are lots of young professionals here too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?Once I’m interacting with guys in real life and there’s actually a possibility I might date or enter a relationship with someone then I could relax more. But right now I’m doing “prep work” by researching relationships and dating so this is all theoretical for me right now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?I guess it’s possible to meet my husband in college but the odds don’t look good. At my university there are a ton of gay guys, women outnumber men nearly two to one, and there’s a big party/Greek life culture where people care more about hookups than commitment. I’ve heard from other female students that it’s tough to get a boyfriend here with so few straight guys interested in relationships and so many other women competing for them. It’s in a big city with other universities nearby so I have … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?If I’m ready earlier than that I’m willing to get married sooner but this age range sounds optimum for other reasons too. Even if we’re right for each other and mature enough for marriage in our early to mid twenties I’d like to wait until we both finish our degrees and get into a good position in our careers to marry. I’d like to be in a comfortable, established place in other aspects of our lives before we take that step together. We can focus more fully on each other if we’re not dealing with… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?There must be at least a few guys my age looking for commitment but I doubt I’ll meet one. My college is pretty large (with a female to male ratio of nearly 2:1) but there’s a big party/Greek life culture and a lot of gay guys. I read student accounts about it online and a lot of girls say it’s hard to get a boyfriend here because so many guys aren’t into girls at all or only want to hook up and the competition pretty stiff because of the gender imbalance and shortage of straight men. But it’s i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?Do you think grad students might be a good target? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Am I taking the wrong approach to dating?I know age isn’t the only factor that contributes to a marriage’s success and I’m looking at other considerations as well, but it is one factor to keep in mind. And I wouldn’t expect a guy to find me more attractive because of my career but he needs to accept that it is one of my top priorities and I will not give it up. At this point I don’t see myself being compatible with a guy who identifies as red-pilled because it seems like they want totally traditional relationships/families and are very… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I determine my value (19F)?I’m 5’7” with a lean build, tan skin, brown eyes, and dark, curly hair. I have kind of a baby face too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/21 09:57 PM |
| 13 | Do women who don't get asked out exist?As one of them I can confirm that we exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 03:36 AM |
| 2 | How do I determine my value (19F)?I think I’m unattractive most of the time. I feel like guys would like me in theory— people say I’m nice, pretty, smart, and all that. I don’t party, sleep around, or treat guys poorly. Supposedly I have all these desirable qualities but they never seem interested beyond occasionally checking me out. I worry that I’m missing something fundamental that makes me eligible for a relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I determine my value (19F)?I’m open to dating someone my age but I doubt I would find anyone that hot. I think men look better as they get older. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I determine my value (19F)?At this point I can’t see myself with a red-pilled man. It seems like most of them want a totally traditional relationship with a submissive wife and kids, and as someone who wants an equal, childfree partnership that’s not going to work. It also seems like most of them are religious, politically conservative, or virulently anti-feminist, and as an atheist, liberal feminist I don’t think I’m compatible with guys like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 0 | How do I determine my value (19F)?I’ve never actually seen myself in action though, so I haven’t confirmed that I can be a good partner or a man would want to be with me. I’ve never been in a relationship, been asked out, or had a guy tell me he likes me. If I had those experiences I would be less concerned with ratings because I would have real world proof of my capabilities/appeal, but for now it’s all conjecture. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I determine my value (19F)?The fishing itself sounds like more of an obstacle than choosing the right pond. I don’t know how to lure men in even if I apparently have the right tools. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/20 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I determine my value (19F)?Do you think I’m better off going for slightly older men who have their lives together more so than guys my age? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/20 05:09 AM |
| 5 | How do I determine my value (19F)?I take relationships very seriously so I wouldn’t commit to someone unless I thought we could last and I would never cheat. I take care of my body— I exercise daily and don’t partake in alcohol or drugs. I’ll have a career of my own so he doesn’t need to provide for us by himself. I present well and I get along with pretty much everyone so he can bring me around his family, friends, and coworkers without worrying that I’ll reflect poorly on him or cause problems. I give great advice. I’m very se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | What makes a low or high value man or woman?I know, I was just kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 1 | What makes a low or high value man or woman?I find him weirdly irresistible— if that makes me low value, so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | What makes a low or high value man or woman?Oh, what I would give to cling to Bill Clinton’s leg as he takes up arms to defend the US of A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:37 AM |
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