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Discussionjax006/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:39 AM
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Question For Menjax006/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:18 PM
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Purge week!jax006/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:19 PM
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Purge Week!jax006/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:42 PM
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Purge Week!jax006/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:46 PM
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jax006/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:25 PM
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Nice ass > big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:00 PM
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Personally couldn't care less, but she would like it. There would be a slight tax benefit in my situation but not enough to cover the cost of a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:51 PM
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Yea probably, although the house is the major thing that probably gets delineated between married or not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:50 PM
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Soon I'll be too busy for reddit altogether 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:48 PM
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I haven't posted on PPD for many years, kinda fun to see who seems to still be around or not. Anyway, I'm having a kid. I haven't asked the Mom to marry me yet, considering it but not sure. I think at this point the only reason I care about it at all is just cause her gay ass trad family will look at us weird, but also don't want to risk my house and assets in a marriage. Has anyone else here started a family without being married? How did/is it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:22 PM
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Yea I've experienced getting more attractive myself. There is a noticeable difference with women. But it isn't "I used to get shunned by all women when trying to talk to them and now I sit in a corner at the bar scowling and hot girls walk up and throw themselves at me" that's not true with even the most chadly guys on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:23 PM
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I also enjoy Larping
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:55 PM
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Yea I've always noticed that about this place. I'm not sure if it's due to a difference in gender and the way we think or if it's due to the cohort of people that a sub like PPD attracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:10 AM
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Lol why do you think they're on PPD in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:07 AM
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Nothing irritates me more than my gf texting me about true crime murder mysteries thinking it's exciting and interesting Apparently that murdaugh guy got convicted and it's as if we just won WW2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:06 AM
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All I can find on the internet for dyprogram is a TikTok page, is that what you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:52 AM
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In the beginning, the universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and is widely regarded as a bad move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:49 AM
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I agree in general, but building a great life for yourself is a bit of a reward in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:47 AM
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To top it off, helicopter medivac is like the most dangerous form of transportation in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:21 AM
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Fire comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:17 AM
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Coffee without Kahlua is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:37 PM
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I haven't gotten a UTI from it but it kinda stings during and for a little while after, idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:36 PM
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I read the label on the back of the shampoo sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:35 PM
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Anal makes my dickhole hurt, very overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:46 PM
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Excitable Boy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:40 PM
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I got an engineering degree and learned how to fly planes and helicopters before figuring out how to get a date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:54 AM
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Yea. Just try to enjoy the ride and live in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:03 AM
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In my experience most are looking for long term. So you either have to play the ambiguity game or lie. The girl I'm referring to we didn't really set any expectations. You could say I was the fun guy for her to date when her kids were with her dad on weekends, or late at night after her kids were asleep I'd come hangout. After a while the topic of longevity started to come up a lot, which was when I had to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:53 AM
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Never let em know your next move 😤😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:47 AM
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They might not be great long term prospects, but I honestly had the best (short term) relationship I've ever had with a single mom, she was great
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:31 AM
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I think the 80s was more healthy. I'm a 93 model and although I didn't have computers or games when I was little, by like age 11 or 12 we had all that shit and you get sucked in just the same My brother didn't have any of that until almost college and I think it reflects quite a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:29 AM
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That's why every so often I let my GF see a tinder match notification on my phone. She doesn't even know it's just a fat chick match
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:26 AM
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Single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:24 AM
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I think the opposite; the more you diagnose people with "mental issues" the more they latch onto that and disassociate from normies, which is not good IMO I've seen this a lot in my life and in my workplace with acquaintances, I think it's super fucked up tbh, it's how you create people who can't help themselves and blame their issues on a mental condition
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:48 AM
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I guess just the perspective on camgirling and the marketing of it, the Twitter poll data she has on people's fetishes, and objective view of sexuality. I can admit it isn't particularly novel to me since I've been on things like this sub for years now, but hearing it earnestly from well-known people seemed cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:06 AM
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Sheesh tough crowd lol but fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 02:01 AM
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Whereabouts do you live? Similar gripe here in Oregon, basically if a criminal doesn't cause massive damage or harm then the cops are just like "yea man idk"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:56 AM
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MSM finally catching up to 2017 PPD discussion. Right on time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:45 AM
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Do you think we're going to reach an inflection point and people will start to swing the other way? I guess that's the crux of our disagreement. I don't think that will happen. I think society will only going to continue the trend we've seen the last 25 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:42 AM
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Didn't realize you meant it was intended for OLD photos; definitely do it, does not matter if you lose, just need a good action shot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:34 AM
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A little bit But it will never be as cringe as my buddy from highschool who competed in MMA and won a fight and had someone give him baby powder so he could clap his hands over his head with it. That was peak cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:30 AM
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They didn't get into that topic much. She does seem pretty redpilled IMO, very analytical about relationships and sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:04 AM
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The relationship between camgirls/prostitutes with their clients Also found it interesting just her perspective on doing that kind of work, her view on polygamy, fetishes ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:57 AM
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Lol I heard her talk about that one too She had mentioned how these creative niche acts were basically untapped before she started camming and it was a clear path to success cause other camgirls felt it uncomfortable I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:46 AM
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People who can't make human connections might, but they're a sad and broken minority Maybe, but that minority is growing pretty consistently right now People who can get the real thing will go after the real thing I agree with that but see above
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:43 AM
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Hahahaha, she talked about that on the podcast and how much of a hit it was, ty for linking, I had never heard of her but she was v interesting for a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:40 AM
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That doesn't mean that people won't use it to fullfill a desire, just like people have with social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:36 AM
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I just listened to the Lex Friedman podcast with Aelle. It was kind of interesting w/r/t this sub She is a OF camgirl and escort, had a pretty interesting perspective on sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:26 AM
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This is probably what people thought about the internet/social media 15-20 years ago, but now there are people whom all their human connection is via those things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:21 AM
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Hell ya. Fire the mods and charge $8/month for flair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:35 PM
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I give that film like 7/10 it was decent but left me kind of wanting more of a thematic conclusion I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:34 PM
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What's your biggest regret in life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:54 PM
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Let's be honest 64% of men under 30 are single. Are some of those decent options, most likely. Nah bro they're living in moms basement not taking showers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:45 AM
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If your post gets 1 up vote I'm going to get drunk at home with my dog and watch the office
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:37 AM
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I'd fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:52 AM
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Especially when you get the handicap stall 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:44 AM
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Yes please tell me more about the cheap housing while statistics literally tell us that the ratio of housing prices vs real income of Americans is the lowest ever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:08 PM
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I already live in a low cost city with a crime problem and have a job as an engineer, housing is still difficult to afford, I would hate to be making less than 6 figures in this economy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:58 PM
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Bone apple tea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:09 PM
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I agree but generally the people commiting crimes out of poverty/desperation is a really small part of the population, whereas people doing things like deluding themselves into FOMO on social media is like the half population
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:30 PM
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28 doesn't seem old until you... ...sleep in the wrong position and then your necks fucked up. Tell me about it bruh ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:23 PM
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Yikes Also, you should take your dog for longer walks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:21 PM
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Wealth is way more important than income in a divorce. She could make twice what you do but if you paid for a house and she didn't, she's still getting half in the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:15 PM
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That sounds like the ideal situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:11 PM
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No, I'm saying that "crime rate high" is not very indicative of how happy people are in aggregate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:10 PM
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I think Indonesia
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:05 PM
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Well, my father started the 80s as an alcoholic hippie in San Francisco, and by the end of the 80s he was a bank manager with only a highschool degree, and bought a house in his early 30s. Sounds decent to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:05 PM
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I just meant that a crime statistic is probably not indicative of people's happiness North Korea and China probably has very little crime, for example, but I doubt people are happy and fulfilled there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:00 PM
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I think that's a pretty reductive take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:36 PM
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Technology and digital communication isolating people from each other and making them lonely Declining economic opportunity for the majority of people Social media warping our expectations of life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:35 PM
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In the US, I think probably mid-late 1900s were happiest for the biggest number of people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:28 PM
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Yea, fair to say I wasn't proactive enough about financial stuff. I knew her salary and could infer some other things about her spending habits, but didn't understand her debt/savings situation contextually like I do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:54 AM
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Lauren is kind of a different 'type' than the other two though, I find the blondes more attractive than her, but agree sierra hotter than this girl Do the people on that show actually get to know each other? IMO all 3 of them easily pass looks threshold, I'd go for whichever was best personality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:01 AM
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Like 100 feet Stupid mulch courtyard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:26 AM
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It may not be too late, but she'd have to be relatively open to being told she spends too much money and taught a better way Well what I meant by too late is that we're already closing in on our 30s, if we want kids then I'm basically solo as far as buying a house for us. And I am NOT going to buy a house just to lose it in 5-10 years if shit goes away If I may ask, would you be comfortable marrying her if she fixed that? Probably, see above for why I'm very concerned about marriage, not only wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:22 AM
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Her goal can't be "spend less", it needs to be more like "make and stick to a budget" or "stop buying a certain thing". Yea I get that. I've tried to get her to use a similar budgeting spreadsheet that I use but feels like she just kinda doesn't have the drive to use it. Generally what upsets me is she doesn't have a frugal mindset the way I do I guess. Questioning what I spend money on is very ingrained, but she'll just buy something on a whim regardless of how much she's spent that week/month …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:18 AM
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Like 3 years, but have had a couple breaks in that time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:24 AM
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Yea pretty much, I think like you said though she's just fiscally irresponsible and I don't think that's changing anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:54 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:32 PM
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I say that kinda thing all the time lol and she admits the situation, but of course her habits don't change. Also feels like it's too late cause 29 is closing in on her biological clock
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:31 PM
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My GF always talks about having a house and having kids, getting a camper van ect. yet we're both 29 and she has like no savings and I have like 100k savings even though she makes 15-20% more than me. Pretty sure it's making me resentful to the point where I'm going to dump her :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:19 PM
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I haven't paid to watch a movie in like 7 years It's a pirates life for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:14 PM
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I agree paying for OF is retarted but why would you think guys on OF care about common personality, common intelligence, no unique hobbies Same reason I don't care about those things for a pornstar I watch in a video
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:12 PM
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True. Or at my office we have one of those rent a cop security companies, there's one cute girl who works sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:18 PM
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I get a side stitch when I get super stressed out, goes away like 20 mins after I chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:19 PM
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they get a +2 just for being at the mountain You speak trooth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:44 PM
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great place to meet new girls too. Only problem is that fugly girls can look hot in those big snow goggles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:35 PM
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I had a job offer in NYC a while back, I often wonder how I'd do with dating there. I low-key hate the industry I went into cause all the decent companies/projects are in semi-bumfuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:06 PM
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Ski/Snowboard dates are the GOAT
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:55 PM
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N E X T
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:53 PM
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I let a girl I barely knew (met on OLD and hung out one time previously) handcuff/blindfold me in her apartment. She ended up being a psycho too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:16 PM
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I suppose it also depends on your options, like if you have good chances to get the kind of body type you want, then it becomes more of a deal breaker to have anything else, since the opportunity cost of everything else drops
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:09 PM
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Takes a lot to make up for it. My GF has the "thicc" thing going with a huge ass. Personally it's not my thing and I prefer much thinner petite girls, but it isn't really a deal breaker given her other positive traits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:56 PM
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Hah. You're aight. Just a little misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:54 PM
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I thought this sub got shut down or something. Reddit kept saying I didn't have permissions to see it. Guess it was just me. Hope you're all doing well (only the people I like. The rest of you, meh)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:13 PM
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No, but my buddy who is early 30s and has a master's in aerospace engineering is probably going to, that schmuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:25 PM
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I semi fall into that group. I think it's cause after beginning as more interested in the topics, then you get to know users personalities, so even after losing interest in pill debate this is the only subreddit I feel like I have such a kind of friendly chat avenue with other redditors. On my alt for instance I chat with guys on subs like aviation but it feels more of a surface interaction. Maybe because those other subs don't focus on interacting personally just due to the nature of the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:38 PM
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Personally I'm not going to be dating or anything unless I'm really trying hard to which is not conducive with working on yourself IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:28 PM
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I'm jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:22 PM
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Really grinds my gears how my job gives rolling RSUs that are vested every 6 months. I feel like I've been perpetually waiting to get a new job because of it. Like a mouse chasing a trail of breadcrumbs 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:48 PM
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Do you have a locked down diet? 11% is pretty fucking difficult to maintain for genetically avg people I can't stay below 16-17% without counting calories hard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:42 PM
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I don't think that's necessarily the case
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:36 PM
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Quite the opposite, IME celibate/perpetually single men have much more stunted (and sometimes fucked up) perspectives on life and the world. Idk what single/celibate guys you're hanging with who are so "enlightened" by their lack of sexual success ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:48 PM
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Different church or give up on the virgin thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:31 PM
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Your reddit username is gay and you forgot the second parenthesis in 3rd paragraph. BOOM roasted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:56 AM
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Fair enough if you're aiming for a virgin. Then I'd agree either school or church
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:19 AM
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I have had similar experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:17 AM
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Checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:16 AM
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Lol this is Hollywood shit. By the numbers an avg man has a much better ROI with online dating Granted neither compares to going to bars/clubs on weekend nights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:14 AM
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Obvious lying to cover their ass or make themself look better. Just happened to a coworker of mine last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:11 AM
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Them some small ass mountains at 2.3k ft each Sounds like a great workout tho 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:09 AM
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Sassy, classy, and never trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:21 AM
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Those aren't mutually exclusive goals bud but hey thanks anyway go fuck yerself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:18 AM
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It said all shirtless pics unless at the beach. I put one up of me at the pool at my gym and it got removed. I'm hoping once there's good weather for me to Paddleboard on the river I could use that and it's close enough to "beach" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:36 AM
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It was just very slow cut like 200cal deficit max. Worked well to not lose lean muslce, I still hit most my lift PRs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:29 AM
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I don't know for sure how much it holds me back but it's super dumb because the women can still have bikini pics it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:28 AM
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What's best where you are? For me I've noticed bumble is best followed by hinge but hinge is a PIA because it takes much longer to swipe for matches. Tinder is just Ok and the ones like PoF or Facebook are almost exclusively fat and single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:03 AM
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In my experience it has the best quality women on it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:48 PM
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Imagine cutting for 6 months and getting down sub 15% bodyfat just to find out Bumble removes shirtless photos now 🤡 wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:45 PM
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I agree it doesn't make sense but I can understand why, those guys surely care infinitely more about how women view men than how men view other men, so naturally they want to call out the women and don't care about other men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:46 PM
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Chin up is good. I struggle with that lately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:44 PM
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Well that's just the whole West coast in late summer these days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:29 PM
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Is it already that bad down there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:26 PM
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Did you have a good spring at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:07 PM
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This is shaping up to be the most shit summer ever in the PNW, it won't stop with the rain this year. I have 10 weeks of vacation saved maybe I should just go be homeless in southern california for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:03 PM
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Fried eggs fried eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:55 PM
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when PirateBay was the gold standard lmao. The rise and fall of empires.... 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:51 PM
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It's a Pirates Life for Me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:43 PM
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This kind of advertising why they keep raising their subscription cost 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:49 PM
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Congrats! I worked 3-4 jobs for a long time, shit is tiring. I'm lucky enough right now I only have to work one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:48 PM
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A works better for the woman and B works better for the man, I don't think either is really better for dating in general
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:58 PM
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PTSD Flashbacks of doing titrations in Chem class
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:57 PM
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Sushi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:46 PM
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You don't need psych 101 to understand you're essentially failing as a man if you can't attract women. We have millions of years of evolution that programs it into your lizard brain already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:46 PM
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I don't think people who are happy and content with their life would be seeking out and posting on a dedicated subreddit like that. This is blatant selection bias just like looking at almost any sub centered around relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:43 PM
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The latter for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:32 PM
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Torn meniscus that's not healing great
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:27 PM
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Northwest U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:26 AM
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I'm 5'9 I almost never ever meet a woman who's taller than me Dang really? Thats crazy. I am the same height and many women where I live are my height or taller
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:20 AM
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Yea they give you a free month every 6 months or so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:14 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:19 PM
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Who cares just praise Allah and go for it there's literally no downside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:16 PM
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"I don't get why men on this sub debate gender topics. Like, why are you even here?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:12 PM
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Phew, nice try Bezos, but I remembered to cancel my Prime trial membership 1 day before payment. Better luck next time ya give me a free trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:10 PM
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She giving you a slow & straight pitch down the middle to make a move. Do it. Don't be a dummy and miss these shots, you won't keep getting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:05 PM
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people who have sex or masturbate with their pets in the room are weird Lol my dog likes licking people when they're sweaty, you can imagine how that's gone in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:58 PM
3

This makes sense. Last year I was 27 and briefly had a thing with a 19 year old, I didn't buy her shit or do any expensive dates
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:43 PM
1

I suppose I'm kind of picky with people. I like hanging out with my friends but talking to random strangers it's usually only like 30% chance I enjoy talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:07 PM
1

I have always sucked ass at it but hope to get better. The summer is nice because I just walk around with my dog so it doesn't feel like as much of a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:29 PM
2

Waxing my skis to put away for the summer 😞 Also going to go downtown and try to find girls to approach 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:16 PM
1

I guess I could see that, idk I exercise similarly when losing or gaining weight, it's more just about calories consumed for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:15 PM
1

One thing that definitely lowers libido for me is losing weight so I guess that's one positive thing 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:12 PM
1

I went to a community college my first 2 years to save money before transferring to a 4 year university. It did save me a bunch of money, maybe around 40-50k, but I do feel like missing out on the typical American college/dorm life would have been worth that debt. I imagine you're talking about just going to take like random classes tho?? Honestly some of the best teachers I had were at my CC they're more relatable and not academics, I got drunk with my calc 2 teacher once
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:00 AM
4

Not at all. The most alpha move is to piss on the toilet seat and not clean it up, which you gotta stand for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:32 PM
4

Can't give ya any recommendations bud I'm basically in the same boat lol I suck giraffe balls at escalating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:26 PM
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I would kind of agree with this, but social skills doesn't exactly translate to game for many of the guys who struggle. Being funny and interesting while hanging out with your bros is quite a bit different than being funny and interesting to an attractive girl you just approached, and this is why you see TRP recommending shotgun-style approaching women to build those specific skills Hanging out in non sexual social situations doesn't help you practice playful flirting or escalation and doesn't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:04 PM
2

It's number 1 and 3 tied together. Betas can say to 31 year old women who have 4 years left on the bio clock "hey look at me I bought a house and have no debt" and the women will compromise on not being attracted to them because of that. Number 2 doesn't even makes sense because they could not have "always gotten the girls they ended up sleeping with" because as they say in B, the dude wasn't good at talking to them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:25 PM
1

Ah, you're talking about something I'm not cool enough to know the slang for. You cheeky bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:14 PM
1

"cut until I have ab definition" is a terrible metric for a cut. How is that a terrible metric if it's literally the goal.... Lol Anyway yea I know, I probably have another month to go at least. I've been keeping my deficit fairly low so have had pretty good luck retaining muscle, can still hit most PRs and set a couple new ones. Ultimately I think I'd like to start on a 10 week bulk/cut cycle after I finish this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:05 PM
1

Plz don't remind me the ski season is over 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:02 PM
1

Yea I only drink vodka and 0cal seltzer mix but still the alcohol adds tf up I'm super lucky I don't drunk eat tho Fuck I'm jealous. This ain't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:57 PM
1

Been kind of plateau-ing for the past 4ish weeks, but almost, I'm probably around 15-16 now. I need to spend a few weekends cutting out the drinking and going out to restaurants with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:46 PM
1

Getting a scale was actually pretty helpful to me. I would weigh myself every now and then at the gym, but now I record my weight every single morning after showering and it helps see some trends, like just how fucking horrible it is to binge drink on the weekends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:41 PM
2

Not really sure, basically just till I can see my abs when sitting upright in a chair / get a good tinder picture. Probably 12-13 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:37 PM
3

The only positive is how little money ya spend on food lol This one is brutal though, definitely the deepest I've gone. Been a little over 4 months now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:30 PM
3

I can't wait to finish this cut someday. I been getting jealous of my dog when I feed him in the evenings 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:19 PM
1

GTA V characters are literally 3 different Chad variants. You got Trevor who's the southern trailer park Chad You got Michael who's the UMC white girl Chad And Franklin who's the hood-rich Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:56 PM
1

At this point I would never live somewhere I can't ride my bike to work in less than 30 mins. It's so much nicer than using a car
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:52 PM
3

I don't think it works like that, there's no 'split' You have to pass her looks threshold and then you have to pass her game threshold, neither can be successful without the other
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:16 PM
0

Body dysmorphia FTW I have no clue how I would stay in shape without it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:54 PM
5

four huge wild turkeys with attitude I thought you only had 3 ex wives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:36 PM
1

There were two girls from my highschool class who were fat but lost weight in college and became Stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:08 PM
1

Happy to be of service
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:06 PM
4

So true lol my ex GF is always trying to throw flak at guys dating much younger than them Meanwhile the first couple years I knew her she had been dating a guy like 10+ years older than her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:03 PM
4

Just set squat PR hah you're all gayer than me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:00 PM
1

Flakey girls get put into FB zone, which IME works out well ironically lol. I've had multiple 1st dates from OLD where the girl is dudsy and then after I don't message for several days they want to hang out and ultimately hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:12 PM
1

Yea that's how it is for us as well. Kinda jealous of the software engineers whove been at home the whole time. OTOH, they don't get to fly around the airplanes, which IMO is more fun than code jockeying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:00 PM
1

Man I only spent like 2 months at the beginning of Covid consistently working from home, been at least 50% in the office ever since
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:20 PM
1

5'9 160lb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:19 PM
1

Lonely ppl I guess idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:18 PM
1

What's equally as depressing is that like 85% of those people say they hope for marriage in the future..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:31 PM
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Yes, some people have actual physical issues with brain chemistry like that, no argument here What is 'deluded' though is thinking that, in general, people accomplishing the things they want to in life can't make them any happier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:39 PM
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Nah that's necessarily true Imagine saying that to poor people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:30 PM
2

This is why if I know I wanna get real drunk I fast all day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:12 AM
2

Did all different sports up until highschool and landed on Cross Country/Track, never competed after highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:47 AM
0

Eh, I think I'd check those boxes, and I definitely have some problems getting laid lol I think it's more delineated like the stoners who also into live music scene ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:42 AM
1

I'd date but only like surface level, probably bail after 3-6 months
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:30 AM
1

Lol I believe that was back before OLD was really a thing though, like 2011-2013 was when I rode
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:28 AM
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It really just shows how much of a loser I am that I rode motorcycles for 3 years and was a virgin the whole time lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:23 AM
1

There's is no way you'd get in a serious committed relationship, fall in love, talk about marriage, and talk kids' names with 80% of women No, I wouldn't. But you completely moved the goal posts of the entire conversation. The point is that 80% of women have an attractive enough face that I would do those things with them. There are other factors which narrow that percentage way down though (RE: being fat or a bitch)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:34 PM
2

You don’t mean cute, you mean “I’d date her” FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:27 PM
2

'Average' is comparative, 'Cute' is not, its a statement about attraction. I can find 80% of women's faces "cute" it doesn't matter where they fall in relation to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:22 PM
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No the reason it makes sense is that "cute face" is actually a pretty low bar for the vast majority of men. As I said, 95% of women have a perfectly attractive enough face to be generally successful You're acting like the incels here who say OMG all my dating problems are just due to me being under 5'10"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:17 PM
2

Can I shoot it out of my wrist on command like Spider Man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:12 PM
1

Both would hold you back but there are 20x as many fat women with cute faces than ugly faces
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:05 PM
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"Attractive" is obviously a spectrum but you're really kidding yourself if you think women are generally held back from getting decent boyfriends because of their "ugly face" compared to things like being fat or being a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:00 PM
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95% of unattractive women are not held back by an "ugly face" lol... I'll concede that it would suck to be one of the truly unlucky 5% but such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:54 PM
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Wait til you guys realize that 99% of men have sex. Check the stats It is abundantly clear from this sentence that you are the one who hasn't checked the stats, lol, but anyway That dude who shot his face off with a rifle but survived? He impregnated a woman Yea all you're saying here is that guys who are so bottom Barrell in terms of RMV are still out there getting laid and impregnating chicks. Most pillsphere guys who are struggling don't have those issues but rather the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:48 PM
0

95% simply fail to put down the Nutella toast in lieu of going for a run
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:45 PM
1

losers as trashy, uneducated, and broke as they are Yet still getting laid/GFs, sounds like good genes for looks & charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:41 PM
1

I could very easily get laid, but the types I like are much much more elusive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:26 PM
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True, plus what a better red pill than being age 9 and seeing different fuckboys come blow your mom's back out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:15 PM
0

I mainly just do it at a local gym for fun, but I can have fun doing up to 3s, find the 4s challenging, every once in a while i can get a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:21 PM
1

No, matched and just never sent a message
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:13 PM
0

Although it's by far the most efficient to basically just auto-swipe right on OLD apps, sometimes it bites you in the ass At the climbing bouldering on my lunch break and this girl I matched with over the weekend but am totally not attracted to is here and I'm really trying hard to not make eye contact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:09 PM
2

I've only been dumped once and it was because she didn't like that I smoked weed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:46 PM
5

Not so hardcore, but I lived like that until about 23-24, very frugal always working ect. I Would not recommend it unless absolute necessity, my biggest regrets are things like: living at home and going to CC rather than going to Uni and living in a dorm working PT jobs during the weekends rather than going out and partying skimping out on things like stylish clothes and wearing mostly hand-me-downs or thrift store shit, or skipping events because they were expensive Ultimately you don't get tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:37 PM
1

Fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:18 PM
1

I had an attendant on an Alaska flight wake me up from sleeping not once not twice but three different fuckin times to pull my mask up over my nose lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:11 PM
1

Thank you!! Often what gets me going on the abstract designs is literally random stuff I see during the day. The forearm design started from some CGI lava screen-saver thing on one of the monitors at my office. And the shoulder design started from a picture I took at the gym where the vinyl coating one of the leather benches was cracking apart lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:59 AM
2

Geometric and abstract kind of styles Here's a design i did that I'm getting wrapped around my forearm in a couple weeks Did a design I've got scheduled for my shoulder later in the summer too I like to do geometric filler patterns to mix together also
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:49 AM
2

Whatever floats your boat. Personally I don't find that hot. Not that any of this is anything substantial. If the rest of the package is good I don't really give AF about hair
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:30 AM
2

Yea lol that's typically the case. Obviously going to make sure if I try it on myself to make it an easy coverup if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:26 AM
2

Well tbf any unnatural color dyed hair is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:22 AM
2

I ordered a tattoo gun on Amazon, pretty surprised how cheap the complete kits are. Going to practice on some of the mats first but then probably try my leg. I'm kind of wondering if I want to try and make a career out of it eventually, I been pretty obsessed with drawing designs for a year now, doing it while I'm supposed to be working ect. and my artists have really liked a bunch of my stuff so far. The course to get certified is only like 10 grand which doesn't seem bad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:20 AM
4

I like the silver/white hair hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:36 AM
1

I'd agree I've never seen it. I'm 15/15 for girls I smash wanting an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:43 PM
2

Would you care if a woman had sex with you and ghosted? Might be a bit bummed if it was a good time, but otherwise wouldn't care too much Would you care if you two hooked up and you hit her up to hangout outside of the bedroom and she was like “no thanks”? If I was into her and trying to pursue something longer term, it would be a bummer then, otherwise nbd Would you care if you were relegated to “fucks only” zone? Basically the same as above. It would be an awesome setup with the right girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:30 PM
2

It's a bit different than skydiving or cliff jumping, which I think are more chill and fun BASE is more like, okay I really need to try not to die, because I probably will (RIP Jon Malmberg!)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:07 PM
3

jumping off tall shit. BASE in the Norway Fjords
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:57 PM
1

Why did the breakup happen? Do you have any self improvement moves you can make to get her back?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:56 PM
1

Become so jaded towards relationships that you never even approach such a mental space. Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:49 PM
3

W.e it isn't my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:54 PM
1

Why do you need a house, instead of an apartment? It would be nice to have a yard to hang out and play with my dog in. It would be nice to be able to make mods that I want, like upgrading bathrooms/kitchen and stuff to my preferences. Also to have more space because my apartment is basically full with my stuff and not much room when I have people over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:54 PM
3

You disdain it? Almost all my friends are super beta and simp like crazy but I don't disdain it, just kinda feel bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:50 PM
1

My sister lives near there, one of the few areas in the country I would be excited to move to, espec if there's good looking girls lol. Unfortunately there's just not really any industry for me to work in there though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:09 PM
2

That's basically how I am when dating at this point in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:30 PM
1

Lol it's a lot of fun I was with an instructor who knows aerobatics so it wasn't too uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:30 PM
1

8lbs in a month is pretty dope! I love it when I notice my pants fitting looser when I'm losing weight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:06 PM
1

An airplane not a drone, and skiing on snow, we just had what's probably our last bit of new snow up in the mountains for this season
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:02 PM
1

Did spin training in a Luscombe which was alot of fun Also been learning to ski backwards which has also been super fun and i somehow haven't injured myself doing it yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:55 PM
1

Nah I am just still friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:39 AM
1

Guy singing badly in the car, guy who has watched through a TV series too many times, guy who wore sweatpants one time while out at a bar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:42 AM
1

All the legit users are busy nursing their sex-hangovers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:46 AM
1

Already am, checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:18 AM
2

I typically find motivation from coming to this sub so I wouldn't say it's mind poison
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:15 AM
1

Drove to the ski mountain again today and had my ex GF and her 40-something year old cougar friend in my car It was pretty interesting listening to them rant about dating for a little while, 40 year old chick has maaaaaaddd dudes after her lol but not surprising cause she's hot for 40. My ex GF a bit less but still a lot of allegedly loser dudes hitting on her, it was funny hearing the things they will disqualify a guy for, and also funny to hear just how fucking weak some guys' frames are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:00 AM
1

Sounds like a cool HS class lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:39 PM
2

I'd just suggest don't get married, and stay with someone only so long as they desire you. If that ends up being the rest of your life, all the better, but don't give up the ability to just walk out the door without a sheriff later coming to serve you papers 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:09 PM
1

so you haven't been in any long term relationships then, but your confident you know why sex stops after 5 years? Yes because I am the smartest man alive. Jk but yea I do understand there's probably dynamics I can't relate to within really long relationships. But I do have a hunch that it's usually due to lack of attraction. Fwiw I did get to witness my parents dead bedroom marriage and would 100% put it on my dad not being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:06 PM
1

2012 (holy fuck just realized it's gonna be 10 years... 😕)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:03 PM
2

I havent had any relationships longer than like 6 months but it has never seemed like sex frequency was an issue. Every girl I can remember was DTF at almost any time I wanted to initiate. Tbh I think it's just out-of-shape dudes who don't inspire any physical lust that have issues with LTRs not wanting to bang them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:53 PM
1

Wow they don't have any kind of shop class? Of everything I did in highschool some of the shop classes (they called them technical ed classes) were by far the most valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:42 PM
2

I would lose my shit if I got a $120 steak that small
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:16 PM
1

Idk what half of those items even are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:59 PM
1

I'd go for it, sounds like a perfect environment to escalate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:29 PM
2

I kind of suspect one of my younger friends might be into it as he's used some of the terms before but then again alot of those are becoming more mainstream with TikTok and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:06 PM
2

I forgot to put on sunscreen yesterday and now I have the raccoon sunburn on my face from wearing goggles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:56 PM
7

people who self identify as incels and not just perpetually single guys. Yea its kind of a toss up IMO though, like do you really think any of these guys would espouse incel talking points to their real life friends? None of my friends would ever know I'm RP or into any of this pill shit in general, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:52 PM
1

genre for black pill Probably industrial shit like NIN and Manson
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:49 PM
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Like an incel<sup>tm</sup> I don't know that I know any in real life But just guys who are perpetually single and virgins in their mid 20s or later I know multiple and they have friends, I just went skiing with one yesterday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:48 PM
1

Honestly it gets exhausting with trying to keep women "on the roster" I was lucky enough at one point to have 3 different hookups but goddamn felt like a secretary at times trying to coordinate shit. That was before I had a dog, now he's my #1 and I can really only deal with 1 bitch at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:48 AM
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This depends on situation. The nofap thing is always good sure but mostl the other things depend on where you're at. Nerdy virgin engineers who make 200k doing code jockeying don't need to "focus on career" and more often should be making more of an effort to go out partying and drinking, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:38 AM
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Yea trying to cut another 4-5lbs of fat before upping calories again, it's so tough to make progress at this point though. And thanks dude I'm liking how it's coming, hopefully I'll finish it up by August
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:40 AM
1

Kandyapplez?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:28 AM
3

Nice chest what u benching brah You gotta give me sum val too, it's taking my all to not go to the brewery right now 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:24 AM
1

Historically I don't want to see them again, so I just throw their shit in the trash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:54 PM
1

https://youtu.be/G2Hgj3hDM5w
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:51 PM
2

and boyfriend You had me till that part 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:49 PM
2

RIP to the one sucker near top comment "he wasn't the 'date around type and had been quietly working a good job and bought a family sized house, so he definitely benefited from the referral" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:05 PM
1

This the body you get from going to the gym in converse shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:01 PM
1

Man. Did it 3 times. Only allure is the novelty, vaginal is better in every other respect IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:47 PM
3

The inflation is transitory
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:43 PM
4

It's an expansion of the historic No-Homo Bill, which has saved many a bro from becoming homosexual when he hugs his buds
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:35 PM
2

There's also this misnomer with "board games" imo, where when people say that lots of girls like board games, they're really talking about Secret Hitler and other party card games like that. Not fucking magic or d&d lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:29 PM
2

I like roller derby where you get to watch the fugly butch chicks get wrecked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:26 PM
3

Well, it takes 2nd place to paragliding IMO, but thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:39 PM
2

I mean it's fine we're still friends, but it's like why? there are 5 different cars and like 15 people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:33 PM
6

Me and my friends are going skiing tomorrow, setting up carpool, those fuckers set up rides such that it's just me and my ex GF taking my car 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:21 PM
1

the wives cook with too many pots and pans and then complain about the huge mess of cooking and cleaning Lol this was my mom vs dad when they cooked dinner to the T
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:13 PM
1

Fair enough you do you fam
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:02 PM
1

I don't think the cooking thing is a huge deal for dating especially if you've got enough money to eat out constantly. And for cleaning you don't sound particularly more gross than the average 30 year old dude. How much do you fap/watch porn? I don't think porn addiction is a very big thing, watching once every one to three days seems normal, unless you're doing it a lot more? IMO ou should definitely start exercising ,for many reasons including dating, the bar is really low these days, 1 hour i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:48 PM
2

No but I can't shove my fist inside a titty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:34 PM
1

Doing my own landscaping is one of the biggest reasons I want to buy a house, that stuff is super fun. Just need them to dip like 25% in value lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:04 PM
1

I get Good Friday off but that's pretty uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:02 PM
3

How long do you have to go for it to be a challenge? 1-2 weeks is fairly easy for me gets difficult after that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:13 PM
5

Next
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:11 PM
2

Damn bruh just be as social as you can push yourself to be, workout and try to be conventionally attractive and you should be swimming in it w that ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:57 PM
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Those abs are calling my name too loud for me to give up now! I feel ya bro. I been cutting for 4 months now, shots rough. The slightest slip ups on weekends going out to bars ect. keep holding me back. My lifts are only down like 5-10% though so I'm determined to stick with it for now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:38 PM
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Even better! I'm more experienced with playing garbage and garbage-adjacent roles such as dumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:27 AM
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Ozark is the best crime drama since Breaking Bad CMV Ruth is so hot 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:12 AM
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I would like to play Tree #2
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:11 AM
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Still better than being a { }VM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:01 AM
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Boo, only time I got hit on my bike the car drove off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:59 AM
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I've decided to become a born-again incel to join their noble cause
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:54 AM
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Inner city guys get RP'd as kids and aren't held back by being short
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:05 PM
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Just move to the inner city and he'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:45 PM
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Too bad I didn't know about this when I crashed my motorcycle, my femur was already broken, could have gotten a 2 for 1
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:15 PM
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Almost the same except on here I'll chase arguments and debates more, normally I'm more chill/agreeable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:57 PM
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7lb ain't bad, just use summer as your motivation!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:55 PM
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Just something funny/light-hearted are the best IMO It sets a weird vibe when people make it more like a resumé
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:53 PM
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No argument here but tbh I prefer to be called a "moist toilette"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:49 PM
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I think cause plenty of people are here to complain about their situation. No different than income inequality where everyone complains about why are the wealthy elites so greedy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:21 PM
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My company has been rolling people back into the office, it's funny seeing who got fat AF over the last couple years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:43 PM
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This is why some users on here will specifically write "Nice GuyTM" to clarify the disingenuous type of nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:40 PM
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I wouldn't mind being valued in part for my $ and stability I've kind of enjoyed it in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:06 PM
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I don't know for sure if it's just the area or if it's just me and the ratio of my standards vs my value, but, I don't feel like I can do a ton more about the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:35 PM
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I do but I think I'll regret it if I don't try someplace else before I get too old. idk I been single for almost a year now it's getting old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:20 PM
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Dang, Sounds the same as where I am now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:13 PM
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I think Hispanic girls are hot but they're so conservative IME it's too much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:12 PM
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This is the female version of "Stacy intentionally keeps orbiters around to serve her machiavellian goals" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:07 PM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:56 PM
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Are there a lot of hot girls in San Antonio TX? I have a possible interview there but idk the job sounds kinda they but it could be worth it looks like a lot of lakes around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:51 PM
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Looking back I always think the healthcare industry would have been a good move because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:37 PM
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Been told by a lot of women I have a really good ass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:10 PM
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I think the last bit to lose which would allow my abs to be more visible is holding on with dear life and being stubborn. Lol feel the same. I would really like to rebase where I've got good defined abs and then clean bulk from there but I'm skeptical about if I'll be able to keep that low bf% while even clean bulking. The struggle is real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:19 AM
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No idea, we didn't really date long enough to get into such intimate details, but I suspected something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:43 PM
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Doing a hard cut? Mine is at least not terrible, like 300-400 deficit trying to keep from losing too much muscle mass, so far only down like 10% on most lifts after 13lb weight drop
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:42 PM
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I do the same but even vodka soda the alcohol is lots of empty calories, also drinking on weekends leads to me eating not as clean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:41 PM
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Depends, really good looks or really good game are tough and skew things. But generally I think a guy who is 5 in looks but 7 in game would pull better than a guy who's 7 in looks but 5 in game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:28 PM
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Bad Mother Fucker and Wild Boy are good workout songs, also Oz. is a good one Haven't listened to his pop punk but I don't really like that genre
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/Jkx-J06e0IE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:21 PM
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Having good game is the most important thing for men IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:19 PM
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I currently live in a city of like 180k, I've thought often about moving to a bigger city to see if it's better. I would hate every single thing other than dating about living in a big city like that though, sounds horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:18 PM
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Fair enough. Lowkey I hate dancing but I know I should man up and find some kind of class. 1000 seems tough idk if I could approach that many women where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:05 PM
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Leaked photos of Baron Harkenon from Dune pt2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:01 PM
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Snapchat is the goat for this kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:34 PM
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Pickle chips are pretty good tho especially with like BBQ type food
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:33 PM
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Yea, I've done it a couple times, in fact the highest quality girl I've ever been with (except for the kids obviously) was a single mom, it was fun times. I should just start going for them again. I've been kinda not bothering with them cause I'd prefer to find an LTR option but getting pretty sick of the current dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:31 PM
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Well sometimes but usually they more busy on weekdays cause they have the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:22 PM
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One girl I dated for a little was always pretty dry, it sucked ngl. Not sure why as I'm almost certain she was really into me, like initiating sex all the time ect. Not to mention got Uber pissed when I dumped her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:53 PM
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On the contrary, by becoming part of law enforcement you have by far the most power to control how people's individual freedoms are suppressed than almost any other position other than being in a higher government role. You can't have a "don't treat on me" Gasdon" flag and be the element of force/ the boot through which the government suppresses its people Yea you can if as law enforcement you consciously swing situations towards your values. You are forgetting that cops are people who have quit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:50 PM
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Honestly, I want to be Chad so that I can get all my fucking in on the weekdays. And then I would get to go camping on the weekend totally satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:00 PM
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1lb grilled chicken and lettuce 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:50 PM
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Idk maybe I'm too old to consider my IG network a part of my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:47 PM
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why do average men in here feel like they can speak for hvm I think it comes down to men defining hvm differently than women so they look at guys who they deem hvm not realizing those guys are just avg to women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:45 PM
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I post on IG once every like 4 months and it's usually a picture of a landscape I hiked or my dog or an airplane or something. There's like 3 pictures of myself on there. Also, most women on IG are private accounts. All you can even see is their thumbnail. How is that supposed to be better in the slightest than an OLD profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:40 PM
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If your account is private then how is that helpful for meeting new people like a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:39 PM
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Feelsbadman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:43 PM
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Yea Dead hangs and reverse curl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:03 PM
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I just pretend to be married to my dog
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:45 PM
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I was close to 20%bf or so at the end of fall bulk. Enough that I couldn't see my abs unless flexing really hard. I'm trying to get closer to like 14% but fuck it's difficult to get there especially with trying to be social and go out drinking on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:02 PM
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I refuse to believe that shit. Don't tell me I've been cutting for 3 months for nothing bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:55 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:38 PM
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TikTok is the downfall of the US
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:36 PM
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100% Yep. Every girl I've ever hooked up with has wanted it to go to relatoonship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:41 PM
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GD I should have done software. My department's director of engineering probably doesn't even make that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:34 PM
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Knowing about gender dynamics now wouldn't you have been able to get a higher quality partnre though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:09 PM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:08 PM
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You can always make it out for a little while with drugs & alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:54 PM
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I dun told you yesterday the only path forward is EMBRACE THE MISERY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:44 PM
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My ex after thought I was a player (I had a body count of 2 ppl) Haha this was my exact experience also. After getting a little more comfortable hooking up/dating I started to divulge how recently I lost my virginity and every girl didn't believe me and thought I was lying to her for some kind of reason. It was actually quite an ego boost in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:42 PM
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Hah, I have multiple friends who could seriously benefit from TRP. But I'm not interested in outing myself by telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:38 PM
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lie at the beginning stages. 100% the right move. I ended up turning it into a kind of joke with girls to change the subject; "How old were you when you first had sex" "Well technically all men have sex for the first time while travelling through the vagina during birth"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:32 PM
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I think my friend is realizing he can't deal with his relationship; 2 years he's had oneitis for this chick who has two little kids, he has none, last fall she finally actually divorced and they kinda made it official. Now I've noticed him complaining about having to watch the kids or having to pay for 4 people at events/restaurants. I think he's going to stick it out because in terms of looks he's punching way up, but dude is about to get beta buxxed hard, she works like odd jobs probably makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:20 PM
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It's good to keep in mind how your own struggles are affecting the people you care about, but I don't think you should worry about it much, especially not your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:16 PM
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There are also other girls at the gym I don’t want to lose my chance with so I’m trying to be discrete. Why would being seen chatting with other girls make you lose your chance with them? Makes no sense. If anything it will be helpful i.e. preselection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:03 PM
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Kinda where we are heading in the general sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:01 PM
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It isn't true lol there's plenty of highly respected female engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:18 PM
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Are the girls he gets that way attractive or does he kinda dumpster dive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:44 PM
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Why stop at weeks, I'm going for years son
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:40 PM
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even if it is just to fulfill my own narcissistic tendencies Lol I feel this one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:56 PM
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Yes, he's juiced in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:50 PM
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I've been pretty stoked because I haven't hit these running times in many years, and when I did I probably had about 20lb less muscle mass. Really hoping this injury doesn't stick so I can keep at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:37 PM
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What if I just want to bask in the misery and post on Reddit instead
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:32 PM
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Marriage_is_hell was the GOAT Also Salty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:27 PM
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Haha, I was mainly joking I won't steal your shit. The style is very cool though. Are you the one I asked to draw me a picture of a cartoon frog drinking a mug of beer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:26 PM
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Thanks! I live in the PNW where it's never really dry, running sucks when I travel to the Midwest or East coast during winter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:17 PM
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My all time PR is 19:16 back when I was in track/XC during highschool. But now I'm an old fat piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:16 PM
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Future slayer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:48 PM
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Just when I was getting back close to 20min 5k, I injure my foot while running. Don't get old I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:44 PM
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I definitely know some women who think they're held back by men & "the patriarchy" there's several who I work with who bitch that engineering is a good ole boys club. But like you said, they're losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:42 PM
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Yea the interwebz is the wild west. I suppose you could make your stuff more private though, but that defeats the point of exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:33 PM
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Screenshot some of your drawings and put them on my tablet to mess with/modify
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:26 PM
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There's no play here, the girl is just really into you. You're in the gold zone where you can do no wrong now, just enjoy the sex on tap
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:24 PM
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My friend just lost his virginity recently at age 26. I wouldn't say I consider him pathetic like as a person. But definitely would consider the dating part of his life pathetic. Plenty of guys 10 years younger than him are having lots of sex. It's similar to how I feel about people who work as Walmart greeters when they're 50+ years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:07 PM
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Just trying to make it another couple months to Summer. Things are lame right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:02 PM
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It's kind of the only way to break down the aspects of dating systematically though I.E. the point of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:57 PM
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I'd wait till like 30ish at least. I really didn't think I'd want kids before my mid 20s but kind of do now. It's also pretty dang easy to not get girls pregnant if you aren't retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:56 PM
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Drawing, mountain biking, standup paddle board, flying airplanes, paragliding, playing guitar, remote control planes/copters, bushcraft camping, lifting/running, drugs & alcohol, hanging out with doggo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:54 PM
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Dawg your drawings are cool as shit! I might try and steal your style a little for some tattoo designs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 05:47 PM
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Low n count is the counterpart to high n count, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:52 PM
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Same. Women wanting a partner who is more masculine than them is so fucking hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:40 PM
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I actually did and always do encourage the girls I date to get more fit, it's easy too cause it's like hey let's go for a run with my dog. Most peoe don't just change wrt diet and exercise habits tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:36 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZ90fOBgglm/?utm_medium=copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:15 PM
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https://youtu.be/CE-hC5JK7cU
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:09 PM
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I've changed my cars oil like 50 times and I could probably count on 1 hand the times I haven't spilled at least a little somehow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:08 PM
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Different depending on guys standards. I guess generally it's going for someone you're not really attracted to. For example the practice gf I had was overweight which is basically an attraction deal breaker for me, but I said fuck it leggo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:06 PM
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You got a practice gf? How was she different from a normal gf? After I turned 23 and was still a virgin finishing college in a couple months I had been on TRP for a bit and then basically just decided to have sex at all costs. Before then I had more of a "it will happen when it happens with the right person" kind of attitude. Started just swiping right on every tinder profile, matched with a girl who actually seemed fairly attractive, although that was just catfishing. She was kinda ugly and ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:04 PM
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Lmfao I haven't thought about Jenkem since like middle school 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:56 PM
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It worked out well for me. I think it depends on situation. If a guy is getting into his 20s with no experience it's easy to go into a downard spiral of confidence. Diving really low just to break that cycle makes sense. Also, they would end up falling in love with their practice gf 99% of the time. This is true and is why I am thankful I got into TRP I probably would have been a sucker like this Plus, there’s the immorality thing Who fuckin cares
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:53 PM
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I hate when that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:48 PM
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men do this too. I don't think that's really the case. At least personally it's more off-putting to see a woman with another guy. But I'll concede maybe some dudes would find her more attractive for it idk. but what poppy is saying is, if an average guy that is a maybe somehow eludes to having a high body count, that will NOT put him in a yes. I don't think I've ever seen someone say otherwise. At least not someone I would take seriously past a couple sentences. TRP simply says that preselection…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:24 PM
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You just lost it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:06 PM
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Lmao the off-topic poppy rants from deep left field.... Anyway. I was referring to a Convo I had with a woman who literally was saying she would be "more intrigued" by a guy who walked into a bar with a woman than the same guy who walked in without a woman. This rings true with my experiences, and makes logical sense. If you disagree that such a scenario isn't generally the case in the sexual/romantic world, then we have nothing more to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:57 PM
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Getting laid has nothing to do with it, it's about how preselction makes a man more attractive to other women. Getting noticed is a part of being attractive Idk why anyone have such an issue with admitting this, it makes complete sense honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:33 PM
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I had an exchange with Smurf where she adamantly refused the concept of preselection, while simultaneously saying that the exact same guy when walking into a bar with a woman on his arm, was more intiguing than without a woman. Then go on to say he isn't anymore "attractive" lol there's some kind of anti preselction hamster with some ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:27 PM
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Hedonism pill ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:21 PM
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Well you'd definitely be one of the only black people around hah it's like 60% white 39% Hispanic and 1% anything else here. I live in a smaller city so once you drive 3 mins outside the city you're in farmville
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:17 PM
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She defined should as “moral and right.” What’s moral and right about self-interest? This is the whole issue with the question and others like it on PPD. Thinking there is an objective "moral and right" perspective is silly to me. There is just what individual stakeholders want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:16 PM
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If I were to try and look at it from a woman's perspective, I would think yes I should be judged. And thats what happens in reality. But personally I'd much rather not be judged for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:10 PM
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It's actually p conservative where I live, cause it's not in Portland lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:06 PM
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Yea going there to do engineering support on an airplane for a customer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:05 PM
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Pledged her life for the mother country!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:13 AM
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I am actually fine with pics but posting them on SM is just weird I would tend to agree but social media for stuff like that is just default for people my age (late 20s) and younger. I do have a couple friends with legit photography rigs they can use in the plane and that is pretty fun to get some killer shots. I helped take an amazing photo of St Helens one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:11 AM
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If it isn't GTA 6 I'm not playing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:08 AM
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"Socially adept" might be one. Also "charasmatic" although it has a few more connotations to it. The other poster you're replying to is being petty for the sake of his argument. Socially calibrated is well understood by most English speaking people, so you were right in your original response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:32 AM
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Don worry I know it's me too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:25 AM
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I would say anything that helps you get in person is worthwhile. Maybe just my XP but literally every single time I've gotten a girl to meet me in person its gone well. I think OLD is a high bar so you can only gain from meeting up IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:24 AM
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Haha, well laying down a no pictures rule would be pretty weird IMO, I don't even know how I would say that lol. Big part of taking people flying is usually letting them take pics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:10 AM
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I think it's more a reaction to the "if you're unsuccessful you're a socially retarded neckbeard living in basement" narrative. At least that's how I feel on this sub w/r/t that context anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:47 AM
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I will say the girls I have taken on airplane rides around the mountains or over the coast, they brag about that shit on social media like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:19 AM
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It's very repetitive. Sticking around is likely indicative of some kind of mental illness or emotional issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:18 AM
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She asked should they and personally I think they should not, based on my personal values. But this is why the OP is a dumb question, because "should" is basically meaningless without a defined stakeholder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:49 AM
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If only 😩 come thru bumfuck Oregon bb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:46 AM
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Hah I can only get my friends to go to the club like once a year, I gave up on that, I do like fucking up some pool tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:18 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:11 AM
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I passed on free coke once. It was the one time I was ever offered coke. I kinda wish I had done it cause I wonder what it's like. But at the time it was such a lame scene lol in my buddies basement with all these losers who were going nowhere in life I was just there to smoke weed. My buddy was cutting up lines asked me if I wanted one and I deadass felt like I was in the exact video they show you in D.A.R.E. lol dark basement with bunch of losers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:10 AM
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Then no they shouldn't judge men for their history
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:08 AM
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Well, quality folks of a certain caliber are IMO, but I think the point I most agree with is just that lots of what people complain about (broke/unambitious/fat/addict) is really pretty easy to avoid, as plenty of average people check all those boxes. They just don't check SMV/attraction ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:55 AM
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Idk I viewed it more as just an objective take "you can't just have your shit together you have to build high SMV too" I guess that's just written text interpretation on the internet for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:44 AM
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He's saying in the OP.he doesn't expect that. The OP is obviously a rebuttal to the women who claim all struggling single dudes have no job or are fat basement dwellers and guys with jobs are all taken
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:39 AM
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Not really. Can you define what "should" means in your question? In who's interest are the questions being answered? Me personally? Society in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:24 AM
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I have come to dislike Fridays. My friends will have house gatherings or go to one of our local bars to drink. But the only way to possibly talk to girls is for me to go downtown. But none of my friends want to join because of previously mentioned hangouts. Sometimes I just take my dog walking downtown to see if there's people around. One time there was a cool group of dudes who smoked a joint with me in an alley but these days it's too cold and everyone's chilling inside. But anyway on the brig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:23 AM
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I didn't know you were a Florida Woman<sup>TM</sup> interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:15 AM
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Don't really know what the word "should" means here. Do I want them to? No. Do they want to? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:12 AM
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So it was you who took from my happiness bucket today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:59 AM
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I agree the big ass thing is weird I'm not into it. My ex had one of those huge asses people would joke it was a "shelf" but it wasn't really very hot to me. She would get lots of attention from black and Hispanic guys though, as well as other women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:45 AM
1

Would take the Porsche, but holy overpriced luxury-performance crossover batman, those cars are shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:24 PM
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One girl I had a fling with was 1st gen American from Ukrainian family. She was freaky AF but was seriously ran thru by the CC One thing I found really weird was how hot she thought it was that i owned a couple guns
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:21 PM
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One day, I'll be able to be that guy 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:19 PM
1

In the 4 years I’ve owned this home I’ve only brought 2 girls back to my spot, the rest got smashed in cars or motels or their spot. Yea I guess if that's how you're rolling then it would be essentially ambiguous how much you make
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:33 PM
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You can usually kind of tell by the kind of stuff someone has or the way they spend when you go out with them. Nice car(s), the apt/house you live in, how much you go to restaurants, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:34 PM
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Yea sure everyone's sense of average is warped since the average person is fat and nobody is attracted to that. Quite a step from "Stacy chasing" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:07 PM
1

Why would the guys on here be any different I swear tg the people who say this stuff have never met desperate dudes and seen how low they will go 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:43 PM
1

If I average it out over my whole life I would estimate 15 times/year
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:43 PM
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Idk are we talking about someone filthy rich like top 2% earners? Then yea. But that's not most guys talking about this idea. Making 100k then no they probably wouldn't overlook that stuff. It doesn't really matter, the point is in other countries you can bypass the western SMV barrier-to-entry by just being moderately successful financially
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:59 PM
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It isn't really the same. Lower class women have even higher standards in certain regards. Guys who struggle with awkwardness or lack of masculinity, for example, will likely do even worse with lower class women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:27 PM
3

Hard doubt. Dudes I know struggling IRL have meh standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:38 PM
1

I work for a corporate job, but I only work like 25 hrs a week
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:36 PM
2

Yes it would just be a cool light show
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:28 PM
6

Build a blanket fort in which to play the game once it drops
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:13 AM
1

Homemade nachos are amazing but damn I never go that hard with all the shit from scratch you a savage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:05 AM
2

Unremarkable working class white family, raised kinda normally I guess. Although my parents have a pretty fucked up relationship lol but that's just how it's always been
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:03 AM
1

That sounds like a shitload of fun. I've never just randomly made friends like that at an event but it sounds like a cool experience. Makes me want to go to some kind of concert if I can find one around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:38 AM
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The only part of my life that's pretty fucked up is me being on this sub (cause otherwise I would never see any drama like that shit you linked)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:36 AM
2

Yea, my parents are usually pretty cool about it, they don't press too much.. unless my mom's had a couple glasses of wine..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:55 AM
1

Redirect conversation at all costs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:49 AM
1

twelve words or less, tell us why you want or think you need a job, career, money? To buy cool stuff. Also gives my life structure and fullfillment. Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:55 PM
2

Yep got plenty of weed and snacks for you to join in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:33 PM
5

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:28 PM
11

AWALT is more of a generalization about women's behaviors that serves a utilitarian purpose of keeping men from getting burned by the women they date. I agree that it's rarely totally accurate for individual women, but that's beside the point. OP on the other hand is more of just a bemoaning rant of mens preferences in general and I don't see how it would be a practically useful mindset to anyone who believed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:24 PM
2

I wouldn't even know about the Ukraine conflict if not for PPD lmao I love being out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:01 PM
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You mix up a bunch of preferences that you've probably gathered up from a variety of men on this sub and have now made into a Frankenstein monster of preferences that almost no single man has
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:51 PM
1

Bro does it make us gay that we've sat in the same chair? Did you say no homo when you got in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:42 PM
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No it's in the valley near McMinville Although the Tillamook one is very cool too. Tillamook is one of my favorite airports to fly into; that fresh Creamery ice cream 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:34 PM
1

Never give up!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:30 PM
1

I don't need to go to Cincinnati for that, downtown Portland would do just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:25 PM
1

Why don't you want to apply at northrop? Is there just specific work you're wanting to do? I know my friends who had narrow job preferences had a tougher time, I basically applied anywhere and everywhere I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:22 PM
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Oh shit that's dope, my coworkers would be super down for that too (we work for an aviation company) Speaking of big planes, If you are ever in Oregon be sure to check out Evergreen museum where the Spruce Goose is. I live nearby and still geek out at that museum every time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:21 PM
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Gotta get one of those anti squirrel ones. They work for a little bit, then the squirrels figure it out, then I devise a way to block their strategy, until they beat that, so on and so forth. It's a fun game of chess I play with those little fuckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:16 PM
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You're an engineer, right? What discipline are you in? In my field (aerospace) it seems to be extremely in favor of applicants right now. My company is currently desperate to hire in almost every dept. Regardless, good luck on the next steps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:14 PM
2

Going on a business trip to Cincinnati next week. I've never been. What would be most fun thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:01 PM
3

The explanation would go right over your head sweety
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:57 PM
7

Everyone is dumb except for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:20 PM
6

Just be sure to include dick in photo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:15 PM
3

I'll never understand how powerlifters do that kinda weight. Heaviest I DL is my bodyweight and even that sketches me out like I could injury something at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:59 PM
2

That sounds like most fast food places though. Carl's actually has some decent burgers for their price
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:56 PM
1

Cafe yumm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:55 PM
1

Seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:55 PM
1

Hah yea that's just how it goes. If I swipe for maybe 5-10 mins a day I'll usually get 5-10 matches a week. Such is OLD!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:48 PM
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I guess it makes sense though now that u lookat it, with avg men's pickiness and match rate that many swipes is giving about 1 match per day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:31 PM
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Kind of interesting to me that women have higher avg swipes per day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:22 PM
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Yea I don't understand the people saying he should have "asked" like "hey babe did you ever go through a traumatic period of recklessness? Just curious"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:18 PM
3

Fresh salmon grilled on cedar plank
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:16 PM
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Probably since I'm kind of a cog in the US military-industrial complex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:15 PM
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Nah only unattractive/out of shape women will be intimidated That said, the dude from the bumble post did have a stark lack of "chill" vibe to his profile, he seemed very straightedge which isn't great for OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:14 PM
1

To be honest in the yoga classes I've gone to there aren't many attractive women, it's mostly older women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:09 PM
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I do a yoga class once a week or so and usually come away pretty sore in unique spots, also think it helps a lot with my flexibility, I notice if I don't do it for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:17 PM
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Prob depends on the relationship, how hot and enthusiastic each partner is, ect. I've personally gotten bored from same partner for a while I think it's obv safer than casual though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:12 AM
2

I mean my legs aren't even shredded at all, tights are just some kind of aesthetic hack
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:34 AM
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Ngl even as a dude, tights make your legs look kinda sexy I also find it true IME that guys who poke fun at you for wearing tights as a dude, are indeed some of the most pussified and least masculine dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:44 AM
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As a results oriented person, that's a worse assumption for me to make
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:37 AM
2

Just standing next to the barbell between Deadlift sets makes me feel like a lion or something. Trust me I can relate to this! I love having a killer lift session. BUT it's not something that I'd chat about with a chick or invite to join me, it's really just picking things up and putting them down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:41 PM
1

I just assume they don't have bad side effects and then all is well in the kingdom of my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:38 PM
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why do men always come back? Hitting up your exes, an analysis: Potential postives: You get to smash again. Maybe it's a long dry spell. Maybe you just miss that voodoo puss or the way she twirls her tongue around the tip. Shit, maybe I just need someone to watch my dog for a few days. Potential negatives: basically nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:37 PM
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https://youtu.be/9uUH6o-jdog
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:33 PM
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we go bouldering or for long walks, jogs I would get chubby if that's all I did for exercise. I rock climb, hike, commute via bicycle, trail run with my dog, ect ect but if I don't do committed exercise fairly regularly, it falls apart I agree that the gym isn't an "interesting" thing for men to do but it is by far the most efficient, and depending on metabolism the only way, to have a good body (although "good body" is subjective, I know there are these alleged girls who like dad bods)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:30 PM
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This is actually the answer to this kind of Q every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:26 PM
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I've never been super fat or skinny, had an avg physique when young, got into better and better shape over time. I'd say I'm in pretty good shape now, about 18%bf with bigger upper body than average but not huge. I've never noticed it as a switch that flipped or anything. Whether I'm bulking and have some extra bf or cutting and have abs doesn't really seem to garner much attention from women IME
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:54 PM
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This is literally the only rebuttal you see on PPD lol "Oh you just think opening up is treating your GF like a therapist and unpacking all your baggage at once" Yet so many guys keep discussing the phenomenon.... Personally I have at times found pretty good balance where you can give little catnip bits of vulnerability to women and it'll make them tick. But your head is in the sand if you think women are generally accepting of weakness in their male partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:31 PM
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I don't think there's much of a delineation between those two. It's going to basically come down to other factors like their social status and game. Gymbro on a D1 sportsball team is way different than gymbro who just works out with headphones on for 3 hours a day and has otherwise regular life Likewise, artist or musician who's pary of a performing group or something is way different than someone who just likes to draw/paint/play instruments for fun As an artistic gymbro I can say neither has g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:14 PM
1

assaulting with a sword not GFs and wives many people would want. Beatrix Kiddo 😍🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:50 PM
1

Mainly eyeballing but I have calipers and my gym has one of those electric things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:18 PM
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Going for like 13-14% BF which I think will be around 160ish, depending on how much more muscle I lose
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:39 PM
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5'9 my 10 day rolling avg weight was about 176lb when I started, down to about 168lb avg now. My lifts are dropping down from PRs a good bit now though 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:17 PM
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Been cutting at 1800ish for about 2 months. Shit is getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:15 PM
2

I was thinking Photoshop her face onto a lewd picture and distribute to company wide email. That oughta knock her down a notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:51 PM
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Lol that would be good. Although it's at work so I have to go for the friends first thing to avoid potential work drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:43 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:22 PM
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Cute girl from customer service at work, unexpectedly ran into in the hall while drinking coffee, she said good morning but coffee stuck in my throat plus surprise made me just kinda make a weird sound rather than say good morning back. Did I blow it for good? 🤔 Maybe this calls for a neg next time I see her, to assert alphaness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:13 PM
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7/10 https://plaucheclaire.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/pumpkins.jpg I can't easily find a good picture on Google but 6/10 is that same girl but a bit chubbier and less cute more masculine/ugly face 28 in PNW
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:56 PM
1

Portland has awesome bike infrastructure Problem these days is your bike gets stolen by the homeless when unattended for 5+ minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:34 PM
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I'll take myself out to pasture at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:01 AM
1

Come thru I'll have 5 different engineers fighting passive aggressively over you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:56 AM
1

The closest living relatives of hippos are whales is your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:53 AM
2

Yea basically the only ones they could land as far as I can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:28 AM
2

I wouldn't say they "can't exist" but with earning as a component of being a generally high value man, and "6 figure salary" being a kind of ballpark number for someone doing well in the US, it's a good proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:13 AM
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Two are divorced and one never married. These guys are mid to late 20s though. They're just fuckin thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:09 AM
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Watching my friend go through oneitis for this single mom is crazy. Now I've got 3 different coworkers who are seriously dating broke-ass single moms lol 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:58 AM
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I'm pretty jealous of women's ability to date on tutorial mode, but I don't think there's anything else I'm jealous of them about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:49 AM
3

Dick sleeve
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:50 PM
1

Outside of elbow and another half the arm, no valley of death ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:35 PM
1

Tattoo sleeve round 3 here we go. This is gonna be along one too. Having a few drinks beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:29 PM
1

Mexican, Indian, Alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:47 PM
3

That god damn cuckerberg! It's not a funny enough meme to give in. Just a joke about people cheating on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:35 PM
1

On my phone I can look at those links without signing into IG I'm pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:22 PM
3

To stick it to the corporate man by spending my billable working hours doing pointless or even possibly harmful things on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:06 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ8i76ZM5HS/?utm_medium=copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:50 PM
1

"Bring a bucket and a mop.."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:40 PM
5

He could have just not responded and he wouldn't have gotten banned and also avoided being a bit of a dick. I actually did this one time; a girl I was chatting with on OLD was down to go on a date so I drove to her campus and was looking for the building she said she was near. I saw her waiting out front before she saw me and she was a solid 100lbs heavier than I was lead to believe from her OLD photos. (Part of that is on me, I was new to OLD at the time and naive about it, nowadays I would hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:06 PM
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I have always been single on Valentine's day, but it's never bothered me because its also my grandma's birthday, so that was always the day's feature. This year kind of sucks though because she died last spring. I think I'm going to just practice guitar all day and get sushi for dinner later. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:57 PM
2

28th year for me, checkmate loser
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:52 PM
2

"Real gangsta ass nibbas don't flex nuts Cuz real gangsta ass nibbas know they gotem" 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:48 PM
2

Apparently not because I don't really understand this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:39 PM
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Yes it's probably a step up from a big city in the Northeast like NYC or Boston but not even comparable to where I live now in the PNW. Like I said I literally wouldn't even be able to do most of my hobbies. Even things like flying airplanes is a fucking nightmare anywhere near the LA area.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:31 PM
2

Don't ruin my coping you jabroni
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:28 PM
1

To go all in for the setup I want, yea. Just building the PC would be $1500+ and then a nice setup for controls with stick, throttles, pedals ect. easily another $1000+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:17 PM
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Yes the dating scene would be cool probably but literally everything else about the place would suck. I don't like big cities and am heavily into outdoors shit, I would not be able to do the vast majority of my hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:14 PM
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He lives in Afghanistan and forgot to mention he is a woman and was driving to the gas station without husband
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:10 PM
1

It looks pretty cool cinematically, but a little too extra for me from watching the gameplay What I really want to do is build a flight sim setup, but not really wanting to drop $3k on that right now, especially cause once summer rolls around I pretty much stop playing video games conpletely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:08 PM
2

I would probably kms if I had to live in LA
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:00 PM
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Nah that's a very reasonable ask. I smoke weed regularly but prefer to do it outside if convenient. It doesn't smell great IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:59 PM
2

Are there any games you're looking forward to playing on it? I feel like there are no good games out that I want to play right now. Really need GTA 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:58 PM
2

Hearing you talk about your girl friends dating escapades makes me grateful about being single
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:56 PM
1

It isn't just cara that have gotten 100% more expensive The same can be said for chicken breast and bicycles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:32 PM
1

Those two things arent mutually exclusive in the least..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:29 PM
1

Still might be my favorite club/dance song
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:27 PM
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My buddy just sold his 2017 Chevy Spark for $16,000 after he bought it for $9,000 4 years ago and put 40k miles on it The inflation is all transitory bros 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:24 PM
1

I may be getting no pussy, but best believe the only pixels I'm looking at will be completely free of charge. The hero this world deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:14 PM
1

That was a fun commercial cause I'm watching the sopranos currently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:56 PM
5

Was a gay comment sorry dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:52 PM
1

Yea plus the things like Nalka said. I don't really think too highly of people who abandon their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:17 PM
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Yea I don't disagree, just that he could do much better with some more awareness. Kind of dude who could definitely benefit from TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:15 PM
1

Yea I would think so Still not as good as someone w.o kids tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:12 PM
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Dunno cause I don't try to date dudes lol I imagine single dad's have less of an identity about their parenthood. Most single moms I see are pretty explicit in a kind of "proud" way about being a mom. Things like "my kids are my world and will always come first" I don't think single dad's are out there doing the same, probably trying to hide it if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:13 PM
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She's a 5 or 6 maybe. Attractive enough that I'd fuck her anyway. Seems fun to hang with but my experience is a single night out drinking. No he def has no options. He could be fairly attractive if he put the right effort into the right places, but is terminally bluepilled about relationships/romance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:11 PM
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He could do better with some minor improvements. Is 6'2 and skinny, career as a systems engineer, but he's pretty awkward especially when talking to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:06 PM
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I'm happy for my buddy that he finally got laid but lat night he acting like he's gonna seriously date this single mom 😔 unforgivable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:32 PM
1

Seriously lol I don't know any broke guys older than 25. Of course, they are mostly single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:27 PM
2

Your drawings are really good and cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:11 PM
3

Where I am, I wouldnt say it's a deluge. Maybe 5% of women on OLD are single moms IME. However single moms are like 30% of my matches. I think, for obvious reasons, most single moms are looking for RMV rather than SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:06 PM
1

Fair enough. I've never been approached by a woman so I feel like you're doing well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:07 AM
3

Always liked the idea of a fat tax
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:25 AM
1

Haven't you talked about being at parties and having women randomly come up and hit on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:15 AM
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I personally like the masculinity token analogy with respect to men being emotional w their partners. I've never had a problem with it honestly, have cried in front of girls I'm dating ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:29 PM
1

I wish there was a cyberpunk style calorie counting thing where I could see it in real time as I consumed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:01 PM
1

17-18 but it depends on other context probably. Religious couple starting early vs girl who got knocked up, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:49 PM
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I hope it boosts his confidence a bit. A bit worried he going to be forever alone. He needs TRP but I'm def not gonna out myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:51 PM
1

Checks out. Hottest girl I've fucked is a single mom. Got annoying a couple times while getting busy and her kids start crying in the next room over 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:47 PM
8

Apparently my buddy lost his virginity last weekend, at 26! Yay 😁 Although it was to a single mom 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:24 PM
1

Lots of people in the US do have that exact mindset right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:21 PM
3

Why not, do you think the government would be more productive with that land?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:17 PM
3

When people talk about "nice guys" and "good men" it is usually just a proxy for being really agreeable, or a 'people pleaser' and those characteristics are just flat out unattractive in men, there isn't much more to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:16 PM
2

Tough to pick something I like all brunch food, local place has amazing chicken and waffles though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:36 AM
1

Makes me want to skip my camping plans. Otoh I have personally never found it much different than other times going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:35 AM
3

Saturday brunch mimosas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:30 AM
2

This is the ultimate paradox in my life rn. Hit my fitness goals, or be social and drink alcohol. Can't seem to have both 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:28 AM
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Nobody is saying otherwise. We're talking in circles here. The point is being fit helps make people more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:57 AM
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Those are average and below women though..? I mean thats a valid approach I guess to drop all your standards completely. Personally if it's the decision between staying fit and lower my standards even further, I'd rather just stay fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:53 AM
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I mean.. sure. But not if you want to have your own bio kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:01 AM
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I think there's some nuance there. The male libido is pretty powerful, most of the girls I've had sex with I'd consider "unattractive" however that's not to say I wasnt attracted to them at least in that time/place/context. I guess it's the difference between thinking something is "disgusting" vs thinking something is "meh, it's whatever" IME
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:45 PM
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But what's the point of being attractive if you aren't fucking attractive people? To do better than you would be doing otherwise..? Take the guy in the example. Yea you can shit on him for only being able to get unattractive women, but guess what, if he wasn't working to stay fit, then he wouldn't be getting any women let along ones that aren't that attractive. We're all dealt hands and you have to do what you can to make your life as good as possible with that hand. How long can a guy retain hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:35 PM
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You think girls getting fuck zoned and then ghosted by a guy they find attractive is "getting the better end of the deal" ? We can admit the guy isn't doing too great either, since he's resorting to ugly girls, but in this scenario he's obviously getting the "better deal" i.e. someone to dump a fuck in without too much trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:26 PM
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Well typically she is in the subjective sense. Most girls don't want to just get smashed and passed. It's true that fit guys who have to resort to fat girls are losers in the objective sense, but they're usually coming out of this individual interaction the "winner" so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:21 PM
5

I shaved my head last summer to see what it would look like and was.. disappointed. lol I started finasteride a little before that and it seems to have slowed down the balding, though it's kind of hard to tell day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:04 PM
2

If we swap penis for height then I'm golden 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:38 PM
1

Idk I think it's my body being a lil bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:23 PM
2

Whoa there Jason Bourne
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:23 PM
11

Yea maybe poor phrasing. There is competition, but it is extremely restricted by social safety nets and other social constructions that limit how competitive we can be with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:03 PM
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Everything in life is a "privilege" even food and shelter. "Rights" are a construct of our cushy society and they would all evaporate instantly if shit hit the fan and the world became competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:48 PM
1

Do you just do like video yoga? I like the yoga classes I go to but can't get in the right mind to do it on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:45 PM
1

Was my thought, but idk if my legs can do it today
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Fuck that! Need something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:34 PM
1

My eyes are sore from the gooncave last night
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:23 PM
2

This guy fux 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:23 PM
1

What do you do for a workout when literally every muscle group is sore?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:16 PM
3

Aerospace
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:07 PM
1

Nein
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:06 PM
1

I guess. I need to go back to tutorial lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:05 PM
1

I find it's pretty difficult to just go "make new friends" past a certain age, alot of people are in solidified social circles and have busy lives and don't seem interested in getting to know randoms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:02 PM
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I found the good job part pretty easy, lucky that I wanted to go into engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:01 PM
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I think because a key thing to being attractive is being confident with women. Unattractive guys start off losing most of their battles in dating, so their confidence drops. This makes them more unattractive, rinse and repeat until they get resentful towards their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:04 PM
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Shootee. My company's marketing group does shoots of ppl using our products and I got to do it for one this time lol Sat in an airplane in the hangar and pretended to be doing random shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:46 AM
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It was fun, dude even hit me with the "c'mon make love to the camera!" Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:45 AM
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We can agree to disagree on the straightforwardness of the message I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:54 AM
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I think the overall point is the mixed messaging though. It's like, shoot your shot, but c'mon she's reading a book on the train, or c'mon dude she's got headphones in, or c'mon dude she's just trying to walk down the street to work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:48 AM
3

That's how Epstein got away with it for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:34 AM
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Yea even the couple girls I've had as implicit FWBs/hookups, you still have to keep it ambiguous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:30 AM
3

I did a photoshoot today. Official Millennial/Zoomer status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:19 AM
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There used to be a guy around here who flew that banner. He would argue with guys and say the only reason they weren't getting laid is because they weren't being upfront with girls that they just want to fuk I'm convinced it was a troll acct tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:18 AM
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I remember reading somewhere that am insane portion of the US is vitamin D deficient, like 60% or some wild shit like that I have been wanting to go get a full blood test for nutrition stuff ect. What other things did they tell you? Or was it just vitamin D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:16 AM
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With this info is there an obvious red flag or character flaw With that info, no not really. But I would still try to avoid the topic, because saying you haven't had long relationships is going to set off hamsters in women's heads, regardless of your explanation above. It will make them wonder about it but if you yourself don't give a fuck, it will probs be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:35 PM
1

Well we haven't married and divorced so I feel fine about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:28 PM
2

don't stay down on my knees?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:14 PM
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Eh to be fair we are still really good friends with a good amount of residual sexual tension; we share a social circle and often hook up once every couple month. It would be pretty two faced for me to call it sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:03 PM
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I agree, I'm 28 myself but with my ex GF, her being 28, it was like OK she needs to start having kids in under 5 years, which is less than ideal compared to, say, a 25 year old girl. Her age was about 50% of the reason I broke up with her, couldn't see it going to marriage and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:48 PM
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IME the girls have way more etiquette and aren't as obnoxious, think it also helps they use cardio and smith machines more often than free weights
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:32 PM
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Today at work my ex GF pinched my butt while passing by me, and it was in a place where it was surely on camera What do you think Kings, time for me to flip the tables on metoo? I feel like it's my duty to the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:29 PM
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College guys at the gym are the worst tbh. Zero etiquette
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:26 PM
1

Also a good (or maybe bad) distraction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:24 PM
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Do "we" ? No probably not. I make it every once in a while when people say stupid shit like "omg me and all my female friends have never had any trouble finding a partner, you guys must never go outside." I can see how on a sub with thousands of users, when things like the above come up often enough, the number could grow to 10,000 over the aggregate of users.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:48 PM
4

I'm waiting till I can subscribe to one of the hologram style GFEs like in the new Blad Runner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:46 PM
1

How easy is it for you to join up with girls NSA? Also how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:26 PM
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Like other users said, it easily correlates to a number easily. In most colleges in the US for example, grades are a 0.0-4.0 scale
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:24 PM
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It's just an observation, nothing actionable about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:16 PM
1

Fuck that. I've never liked living in a filthy place. I used to had a friend who was like I hated going to his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:57 PM
1

Cutting hair is super easy I think. Me and my family all did it for each other when I was younger. Nowadays I do it myself in the mirror with clippers and scissors. I've only spent like $200 at barbers my whole life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:55 PM
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don’t annoy me. This is PPD sweaty I live to annoy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:47 PM
1

science would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:45 PM
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Nah you can be middle class and have a boat or an airplane or a sports car, that's my point Many people argue that these are bullshit American materialistic things that aren't valuable. Fair enough, I disagree, I like cool toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:37 PM
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For successful people, yea Airplane and boat ownership in the US blows away other countries, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:30 PM
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Generally with lower standard of living and less abundance. I work for an aerospace company that dabbles in the MIC so I understand it fine. I think it's good to be better than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:24 PM
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it’s nice being a super power but definitely overrated. You can always go live in India or the Middle East if that society suites you better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:15 PM
-1

Neither side is very good at being financially austere, but the right is definitely better than the left at it, in the US. Most of the political left, especially the most vocal group, is screaming about more stimulus and basically makes the argument that debt ceiling is fake news and money isn't real, wants UBI and less economic competition in general, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:13 PM
3

Financial responsibility is the main one for me and my right-of-center friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:09 PM
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It shows you profiles with the highest match success rate (matches per swipe on tinder or bumble)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:32 PM
2

Yea I think only like 1 out of 50 threads is interesting to me these days
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:23 PM
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I remember the first time weekly chat thread got past 1000 comments....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:22 PM
1

I mean that's over 5 years with no LTRs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:19 AM
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I agree. Tall women who are otherwise unattractive are definitely disadvantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:38 AM
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Bumble > Tinder > Hinge > FB Dating > OKC Out of 11 girls I've banged via OLD I it was 4 Bumble, 4 Tinder, 3 Hinge, but I spent much more time on Tinder over the years compared to bumble, and Hinge the girls were less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:37 PM
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I have a friend who had a 5 year LTR with a girl who was like 3 inches taller than him. He had a lot to compensate with though, plus the girl is kinda ugly I banged a girl 2 inches taller than me several times. But again, in every regard other than height gap, I was way more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:33 PM
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we camp in the woods, grill, fight (ofc), hang out That sounds so dope. That's what we were talking about too, just go somewhere super remote and set something up in the wilderness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:45 PM
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Me and my friends got this wild hair today on our group chat, were all going to buy paintball guns and do some woods ball, I'm totally stoked I've never played paintball before only shot at targets It's funny cause I remember wanting to get a paintball gun so bad when I was in middle school cause some friends had them, but was just too broke. Now it's like, oh $250 for a toy? Lemme get three just for the variety
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:28 PM
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I'd like to not be reminded that I'll die alone. Oh c'mon, that's just any regular day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:24 PM
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First of all, I don’t “think.” I’m the only one of us who has female sexuality - I know Meanwhile you've never dated or tried to attract women. You are hypothesizing. Badly, I might add. Because you have never experienced this Meanwhile you have never experienced being attractive to (hetero) women Because the fucking NPC and the guy with pre-selections is the same goddamn guy No they aren't? One of them would immediately be recognized as having a higher social standing/reputation. This is the es…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:22 PM
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It seems we're at an impasse You think that a man who is widely noticed and given attention by women is not any more attractive than a man who is an "NPC" I think that a man who is widely noticed and given attention by women is, in the most objective sense possible, more attractive than a man who is an "NPC" Grids example of JD is a perfect example of preselection making someone more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:54 PM
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Pleasant surprise for a good GF, bad surprise for a shitty GF
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:42 PM
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But still, when someone says a man is “attractive” it means that he’s handsome If that's how we're defining "attractive" on PPD, a debate sub about sexual attraction, then that's disappointing. I suppose the blackpillers have won. The set of traits/behaviors that constitue and man being attractive are is so much wider. Charisma, social status, ect ect. All the things TRP talks about. Anyway, Pre-selection does not make a man better looking I agree with this Nor does it necessarily make him more …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:38 PM
1

You're right indeed! Here's some footage of one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:27 PM
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I did not realize you were a blackpiller who thinks attraction is all looks. I completely disagree and think that women's attraction to men is about a hell of a lot more than looks, including things like how intriguing a man appears.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:20 PM
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I got to fly a Tb30 epsilon this morning, hit 4G multiple times. I'm ready to die now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:10 PM
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In the context of trying to date women, being intriguing is part of being attractive You literally talk about being more interested because of preselection. How you can say you're more interested in one man vs the other, but simultaneously say they're equally attractive, is... C'mon..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:56 PM
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What it does is make us go “oh, he must have something if she likes him. I want to find out what it is” Idk how you can write this and say that it "doesn't make him more attractive" you wrote it in this sentence.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:52 PM
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Everyone knows women want an attractive man. The point is that being seen with hot women makes a man tangibly more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:46 PM
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No I totally disagree. Preselection affects his desirability. You might already think he's desirable, preselection increases that. A random guy on the street is more desirable to women if he has his arm around attractive chick, than he is if he's by himself or with other men. We just enjoy knowing we got what other women want Well yea, this is part of why seeing other women with a man is a cue that increases that man's desirability, preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:08 PM
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Dang that's nice, I can't seem to cut any weight if I let loose with diet at all. Banana for breakfast, chicken bowl for lunch, PB and sometimes a protein shake for dinner. I've been trying to move towards upping the cardio volume, currently I go running every other day along with lifting, been trying to add more daily bicycling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:48 PM
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Oh damn really? That's pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:43 PM
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Yea I make sure to measure out only like 3 tbsp of it. I used to just take it out of the jar but then I end up eating like 800cal of peanut butter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:40 PM
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I'm about 18% currently. I don't anticipate all of that time will be cutting. I hope to be satisfied and done cutting by end of April. But at that point it's summer so will still need to eat at maintenance to keep looking fit. Maintenance is better than cutting sure, but still can't be eating lasagna and shit like while bulking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:39 PM
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What's bizarre about the explanation that women see other women with a man and take that as a cue that he is desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:23 PM
1

Some day I will return to the realm of food, probably in October
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:17 PM
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All 5 of your laws have zero affect on my life. I'd go with; No more being fat, 25%bf max The other 4 don't matter so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:15 PM
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I am trying to cut bodyfat right now so all I eat for dinner these days is an apple with peanut butter 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:12 PM
1

I'll be your husband as long as you're down to gooncave w me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:33 PM
1

Don't care about either thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:19 PM
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I think my biggest fetish I can think of is an FFM threesome so I'd have to pick two girls Don't care much as long as they're hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:01 PM
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I personally don't feel like the bio matters much even with platforms like hinge where they force various prompts on your profile. It's never seemed to make conversation with matches flow particularly better, and it seems like people still just swipe based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:53 PM
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It depends on location I think. Hinge is useless where I live. Bumble is a little better than tinder but not by too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:46 PM
1

In Ultimate Frisbee it's just an all around blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:42 PM
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Ok zaddy 👅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:32 PM
1

I can't imagine giving someone a check or cash for their wedding lol my presence is a present
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:27 PM
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Hey, sometimes I'm browsing social media, looking at funny videos and interesting topics about philosophy or science, and Nordic horse dick comes up. It's an algorithm thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:57 PM
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I need to get a saddle rack so that I can deliver food in my bike that would be fun and good exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:49 PM
1

It was, we're still good friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:18 PM
1

Top in general? Or just in looks? The former, definitely, happens all the time, shorter guys with great game and high status. The latter, possible but tough, better have a great face and be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:10 PM
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Here we ago again. Why are women always lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:57 PM
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Yea exactly. Idk I think I could maybe go either way at this point, but lean towards wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:54 PM
1

I bring a dope fleet of 20+ remote control airplanes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:53 PM
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Where do you see it "everywhere" I really can't think of much. IME these days almost all mental health awareness messaging is completely non gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:49 PM
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I don't really want to have kids and family with her. That's the reason she's an ex in the first place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:31 PM
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since you've got little interest in her outside her role as a mother to your kids Well, no, this is the whole point of why I want to move. I could find a woman I don't care about and am not attracted to just to have a kid with, easily. Finding one who's a good partner worth being with is the ideal. Otherwise I'd just not have kids and go mgtow route. That was my overall point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:29 PM
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Something about that just doesn't sit right with me. Now my kids are going to inherit traits from some random woman? I also don't like the idea of single parent households. I would be OK being a single dad but IME people from single parent homes end up with issues more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:15 PM
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Mgtow would be fine if I didn't think I wanted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:10 PM
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I do really like my position and the company, but feel like if I keep living here I'll end up not finding someone to have kids with, which I think I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:03 PM
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Can't help but laugh to myself, spending the workday on my company issued laptop applying to a bunch of other jobs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:41 PM
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Just ask to go out with them rather than texting online
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:58 PM
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Dem words too big
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:53 PM
1

I gotta move to one of those areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:03 AM
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I guess im just a bit depressed that my family line ends me with me though. I think about this sometimes. But then I think about my great grandparents. Don't know one of those fuckers names, let alone could point them out in a lineup of pictures. Same with all my siblings and cousins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:00 AM
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From my experience in TRP, the general vibe was that sluts are great for casually fucking, just wrap it up and don't LTR them. There's some more tradcon offshooting of RP now days though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:52 AM
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Never seen it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:23 AM
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Willing to bet they're either under 20 years old or have a very active lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:05 AM
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I feel like the Q has to be taken in a vacuum, since ass is basically just a byproduct of being fit, whereas nice tits are quite genetic. One or the other no cheating w/ gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:55 AM
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No such thing as an A1 ass that's not a gym ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:53 AM
1

Fair enough. I did not have that experience quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:08 AM
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Chloe any day I would take a girl with mosquito bite tits if she had an A1 ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:06 PM
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I would say for most people who don't want to get married, it is specifically because they do not want the government in that aspect of their life. They do not want the government forcing them to give up property, pay CS/alimony, give up rights to see kids, ect. all of these things are government enforced situations associated with marriage that anti-marriage people want to avoid. Why do you think someone would be adverse to marriage, if not for reasons surrounding the governments involvement??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:37 PM
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"The government regulates interstate highways and collects taxes. Therefore, you should have them issue you a love license."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:22 PM
1

Hell nah I ain't wanna look at their face 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:42 PM
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I think it would be pretty fun tbh Hang out and cook, take care of things around the house, go to the park, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:39 PM
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They can accept those flaws and work extra hard in other areas to try to compensate. I'm not in favor of a negative or defeatist attitude, I just don't think people should lie to themselves about things that aren't positives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:22 PM
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My ex GFs ass was too big that it was difficult to prone bone, I didn't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:43 PM
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I am absolutely not down with body positivity. There is no productive outcome that can come as a result of just overlooking your flaws/detriments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:23 PM
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I can't disprove that and wouldn't say I could You, on the other hand, in your comment that I replied to, talk about how you destroy these ideas by disproving them with statistics. You are the one saying you can disprove aliens fucking on Pluto in this exchange. W.e I can tell now that this is a waste of my time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:40 PM
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I don't think you know what "disprove a negative" means. I made an affirmative claim. Anyway, all statistics about age gaps in relationships support the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:38 PM
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No...? Have you heard of the concept of "the wall"? Because that's what I'm asking you to disprove with your logical statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:22 PM
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You're the one who said you're dunking on all these twerpers with your statistics. I would think you'd have an example at the ready. But anyway, here's one: Men lose less sexual/romantic value as they age, in relation to women Any others are fine too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:16 PM
1

What statistical evidence disproves what Red Pill claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:08 PM
2

Yea nobody in my family was ever a SAH parent. It involved working like 100+ hours/week between the parents and going out to dinner was a once a year occasion for their anniversary or some shit. But my family was all working class, it seems alot of people here come from more UMC type backgrounds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:49 PM
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He has an average face and is very skinny with no muscle, but he's also 6'2 He is boring and awkward and the complete opposite of sexually masculine though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:27 AM
4

That would be my guess. I've had several female friends interested in me but none that I was attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:17 AM
2

I was just gonna say knees over toes I have fucked up knees from multiple accidents and I really found the stuff he recommended made a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:41 AM
2

That sounds fun I wish they had shit like that where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:36 AM
8

Like you ever just suddenly found yourself attracted to someone you didn't even remotely see that way before? There a name for that phenomenon too? Tequila
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:35 AM
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That too for sure. It is also a big bonus for guys to stumble into a relationship young, as it builds confidence which creates a cyclical effect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:41 PM
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There might be an argument for that but I don't really buy into it. Myself and almost all the unsuccessful men I know are capable of socializing and having friend groups, which I would personally say isn't "don't know how to socialize at all" but I get that people have different bars for social skills. I think most unsuccessful men have trouble being uninhibited and have bad flirting skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:36 PM
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I'm not going to get into a semantics argument here, but OP made a post essentially comparing two sets of traits/behaviors to make the argument that one is overestimated in value and the other is underestimated. I'm not the arbiter of what men in aggregate are "estimating" with respect to dating ROI for certain things, but it sure does seem like the majority of unsuccessful men align with the "derp oh I just go to school and focus on my hobbies derp no need to build sexual escalation and flirtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:30 PM
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Yes we are reading the same post. The first list you quoted is a things that are considerably more helpful than the second list. Which is the opposite of what OP is claiming. He has a handful of female friends. One was actually interested in him briefly, but he blew it for reasons I mentioned in my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:18 PM
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How are those two even relatively mutually exclusive? The biggest gamer in my friend group also reads far and away the most books. He's also a virgin, not because of either the video games or the book reading, but because, as I discussed in my comment, he: doesn't hit the gym, doesn't have any cold approach skills, doesn't make an effort to sexualize his interactions with women... You know, all the stuff OP is claiming "doesn't help" lol Chad can be a bookworm or play video games all day, those …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:09 PM
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Ah, the classic "just do regular life things that you probably already do and it'll work out bud" This is probably the kind of advice 75% of guys on TRP got throughout their adolescence and early adulthood. It is fucking stupid advice peddled by people who got lucky with dating in one way or another; born with conventionally attractive physical/mental traits, low sex/relationship drive and willing to settle, ect. Men have the active role and dating and have to take action as such. Going to the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:41 PM
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It's on a Friday, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:16 PM
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I think that's just the louder group of men on this sub. Happens with women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:02 PM
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i think you have it on the money with you saying you don’t purposefully date But your point was that doing so is why guys on here struggle (which I don't disagree with) people who date with intentions and are genuinely open to the idea of love and value their interactions with others are more likely to end up in a fulfilling relationship Yea I think that's uncontroversial to most
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:26 PM
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I look at my drive and the shit I've accomplished in life and I'm curious why others can't do the same. I used to work as a CNA (ie. I wiped disabled people's ass for a living) and lived with two roommates. Now I'm a successful engineer who has 12K saved up Not only is this kind of a mediocre accomplishment, but it is so far removed from the idea of completely uprooting your life and moving to an impoverished country from the US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:13 PM
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So you think guys are literally not even attempting? I don't think I know a single guy who doesn't at least use OLD. And even then, the vast majority try to do social circle warm approaches and even the rare cold approach. Personally, I can see one side of it. I spend very little time purposefully trying to date these days; go out to bars/clubs once every week or two, swipe on OLD, but otherwise stick to my hobbies and hang out with friends. Clubbing and cold approaching didn't seem like it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:54 PM
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What would you constitute as "trying"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:40 PM
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"Give me 10 pushups for every time your girlfriend got fucked by Jody this month"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:31 PM
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What does a "DT society" entail exactly? Having a personal harem sounds like it would be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:01 PM
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One of the things that got me more comfortable with bars was going and bringing my drawing stuff, or bringing a book I'm reading or studying. Then you have the out of doing those things and not having to interact if you don't want to. I am lucky in that I like drinking so going to a bar was always easy for me lol plus drinking relaxes you a bit to talk to strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:29 AM
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Pacific Northwest, why? I don't get what's special about my comment wrt location lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:52 AM
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I get that. I was always an awkward and shy dude, though I've had the advantage of being in a small friend group through school where we joked around alot. When I moved away from home though I came here and basically had zero friends and it was extremely difficult to make them, I found that it took alot of forcing myself to be more outgoing than I wanted to, and I still feel this way currently although it's waned a bit. I guess I don't have advice for you how to become a charismatic guy, I also …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:51 AM
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Drop your standards, get a few starter girlfriends you don't give a fuck about, you'll build confidence from that. Also hit the gym, if you're 6'1 skinny you're starting from a really good base. You could have a Charlotte physique in less than a year, as tall.guys don't need too much muscle. I wouldn't recommend trying to solve this with surgery or other aesthetic shortcuts. Your problem is almost entirely lack of game, most likely. Building confidence with women is one of the only things you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:56 PM
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Speaking for myself; almost all the women I've had flings with would not have accepted an explicit "Fuckbuddy" situation, they would have just ended things. Being more of a "boyfriend" type partner not only hedges against that, but it also just feels much more natural and fullfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:49 PM
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Speaking for myself; almost all the women I've had flings with would not have accepted an explicit "Fuckbuddy" situation, they would have just ended things. Being more of a "boyfriend" type partner not only hedges against that, but it also just feels much more natural and fullfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:49 PM
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3 out of 14 girls I've had sex with I met IRL. Met girl at a bonfire party my paragliding club was having. I was easily the best looking dude there (most paragliders are middle aged) and said girl was looking for some dick, we banged in her tent later on. Met ex girlfriend at my orientation at my job. We were friends for like 2.5 years and then one night were out drinking downtown and ended up making and and then having sex and then dating on and off for a while. Met random girl while out paddle…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:44 PM
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That's pretty much how I date, I have very BFish vibes like cooking for dates and generally being gay with them in conversation. I've never been called out for love bombing though, and none of my exes seem to harbor any resentment I think NYC girls are just entitled cunts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:09 PM
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It's my favorite soda for mixing with rum or whiskey
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:05 PM
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Yea but they were wrong about me being an all-star 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:04 PM
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Opposite. My game is best when I don't care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:45 PM
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I'd like to if I found the right partner I think ya
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:26 AM
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That's interesting I imagined that being in a place like Mexico would blow a white guy up. I would still like to visit down there some day soon seems like with a good physique things would be easy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:24 AM
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Parents came in to visit for the weekend. Took them less than 2 hours to probe all up in my dating life. MFers really want grandkids SMH get a hobby mom & dad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:09 AM
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He lives in a poor city in the US with one of the lowest literacy rates This is not my understanding, and regardless he said he's traveling outside the US currently. Also the girl he’s talking about is a butter face with a good ass Idk the current one but the two pictures I've seen in the past the girl was very hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:06 AM
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If he's white he'll be fine carrying. Probably will get a fist bump from most cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:02 AM
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I haven't seen his full pics, but he has not looked obese in the ones I've seen. He's also an admitted diagnosed psychopath so wouldn't be surprised if he has decent game. This is probably the crux of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:00 AM
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Yea but that alone wouldn't work without very good game or looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:59 AM
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Do you think people with consistent problems are raging out against one particular man or a couple men? No, which wasn't really what started this conversation No, if someone takes it personally it was probably dar from a consistent inconvenience. I totally disagree with this, I think this assumption fails to recognize human tribalism. Lots of guys take consistent rejection from women 100% personally, this is common behavior. Now however, jsut be age it doesn't happen consistently to one woman do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:58 AM
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I can never help but wonder if you're really good looking or have amazing game or a mix of both
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:53 AM
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I don't totally understand the point of this rant. Everyone has indicators in life regarding how attractive they are. If you're consistently getting burned by people you view as your "match" then you're probably being unrealistic about what your "match" is. I don't know how to put this any more plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:49 AM
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You could be going out with someone better in that time. If I could be doing that, I would be. More likely I would be just going for a walk with my dog or hanging out at home. And any women who see you with her are obviously gonna think you're taken Oh yea for sure, I wouldn't go out somewhere where there's lots of single women who would see us Then you're not in Stacy's league. Period. Don't claim to be I didn't claim to be. I just claimed to be in a higher league than these said girls, it isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:11 PM
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Why are you hooking up with her if you think you can do better? Cause hooking up with said girl isn't hindering my search for someone better. What's the downside? Like, why not? And the men swipe back because why? What, can't have a decent time with Stacy? Doesn't that say something? Cause they aren't getting other girls. Idk why this is hard to understand. No I'm not getting Stacy on OLD or anywhere else. Whatever you think that "says" is probably irrelevant to me. It's a problem if you ask her…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:39 PM
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Yes women have a different started on OLD where they filter for the very top tier often out of their league. And yea I'll chat up a girl who showed interest maybe she wants to hook up. It's really not my problem that she got a message that didn't go anywhere lol this is pretty ironic to complain about given the trials most.guys go through in dating lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:24 PM
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Guys swipe blindly on OLD, I spend like 1 second deciding to swipe left or right and conservatively swipe right if I can't decide in that 1 second. This is just the reality of OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:20 PM
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In this case the women are "shooting" by swiping on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:18 PM
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100% true. I definitely say more IDGAF stuff to the matches who are more unattractive. Just in general care less about those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:17 PM
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I agree. I'm 100% on board with the "fuck whatever girls you can, just never settle on commitment"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:53 PM
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Single girls who go to church? I don't think there's anything else calling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:57 AM
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I say they should just go ahead and replace my knees already, gimme the bionic shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:18 AM
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Eh, I mean that's true, but I haven't been able to reach my goals doing that personally, definitely no abs with that little
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:06 AM
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Gotta stay fit, what else?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:42 AM
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It's not really if you're used to it. I do 2+ hours a day lifting/cardio easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:40 AM
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I do really wish I had it in me to go to church. I went was I was really young but parents stopped taking me at like idk 5yo. My previous roommates were religious (christian) and I was envious of the community/connections they had. I just can't imagine going, it is so antithetical to my actual spiritual beliefs (agnostic) and I can't imagine being able to do anything but be a total fake if I went.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:26 AM
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Sorry but your dick would qualify as an Ultralight under part 103
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:23 AM
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Last woman who was saying that was mixing me up with someone else, but regardless, even if I'm considered attractive, I wouldn't be considered masculine by most people's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:37 PM
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I kind of doubt it. I'm not a very masculine guy, so it seems like I would get the other treatment. Idk though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:32 PM
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Yea for sure. I just meant the "going for a walk at night" part. I take my dog on walks at night or early morning all the time, but even as a dude I bring a collapsible baton. It's not like being strong will help if there's 2+ guys who want to fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:30 PM
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Yea it has seemed to span across the spectrum for me, 'type' of girl seems irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:15 PM
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Chris Cornell was shitty. It's going to fuck me up when Trent Reznor goes someday, also Joe Rogan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:14 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:13 PM
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That's tough. Wish you the best. Is there nothing that you do that helps you get out of your head? I can definitely relate but when I do things like go paddleboarding or mountain biking with my dog I can definitely get into the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:12 PM
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Out of 14 girls I've had sex with, 12 of them liked that kind of stuff, so 70% seems like a good guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:10 PM
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Honestly, the physical strength advantage of any man is dwarfed by the advantage of even just having pepper spray or any other concealed weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:06 PM
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I've never had trannies act badly towards me. There's a good amount around the PNW and I often match with them on OLD because I don't spend enough time reviewing pictures before swiping right. They'll often send a message, usually I don't respond and that's that but sometimes I do if I'm bored or if they say something cheeky, they've never been angry or anything when it doesn't go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:04 PM
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I am currently running an extra project for an extremely dumb coworker who wasn't capable of it. One of those "hey, you do your job well, here's someone else's job to do well" situations. But I don't really mind; I get to say all sorts of underhanded and passive aggressive shit towards him now during meetings and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:57 PM
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Lol all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:53 PM
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How did Jaycee have an "ambiguous sexual identity" dude the show features him smashing a hot chick 🤣 I agree victor is quite beta but again, this is simply the nerdy scientist character, not "androgynous" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:59 PM
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That's just Vi's character from the game Cait and Jinx we're bith quite feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:32 PM
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If you go to the PNW you will see some men who label themselves with the He/Him thing, one of my coworkers has it in some of his work profile stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:34 PM
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Yea that probably makes sense. Plus IIRC you work in like a really high paying job so that probably adds to it as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:31 PM
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I put a few $k in during today's drop and ended up +3% ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:26 PM
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That happens to me about 50% of the time with more senior colleagues if we go out to lunch or something I think they just know they have more disposable money than me so it's just a nice gesture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:19 PM
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Reminds me of your pitbull argument 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:13 PM
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Just like a girl on OLD, too many options for me to even pick one. One time in highschool I heard through friends of friends that this one girl liked me. I tried to say high to her in the hallway and did one of those stumbling "hey how're you going" type awkward things. She was like "I'm good" and I was like "cool" then we parted ways and I heard later on she didn't like me anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:23 PM
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Been 2 weeks without a car now. There's some things that are pretty annoying; I can't really go mountain biking, paragliding, camping, to the dog park, ect. I also can't get the big 5+lb family packs of chicken with bicycle/backpack, and have had to go to the store like 3 times a week. But otherwise it's actually pretty nice being forced to ride my bike or walk everywhere, the city I live in is pretty perfect for it, also definitely feeling some good burn in the legs & ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:20 PM
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I like to wait a bit with anyone as it builds a little tension plus I want to make sure the girl isn't super crazy or anything. A month would be okay if I was really into her, but I'm probably looking to smash after ~2 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:15 PM
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I mean what plastic surgery procedures make a man more attractive? I don't think there really are many. I also disagree about it being cheap, it's pretty fuckin expensive if you're MC or below
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:58 PM
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🤴
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:56 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/B-AG5TfJI43/?utm_medium=copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:52 PM
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I'm a pro at that They ain't never getting rid of me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:48 PM
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https://youtu.be/f9aM_dT5VMI
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:33 PM
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Why is she lip syncing that entire thing wtf? I do not understand TikTok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:14 PM
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No lol I'm personally convinced that situation is a PPD myth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:08 PM
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Fucking unbelievable.. Who mistakes the use of "are" vs "our" SMDH
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:07 PM
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Reminds me of "Dance with the Devil" by Immortal Technique
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:04 PM
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Haha ok something like this would actually be awesome, 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:40 PM
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What's the least douchey shirtless photo to have on OLD Gotta imagine doing a watersport? I've seen ppl recommend chopping wood lol that just seems like ultimate douche picture
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:32 PM
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technically it's already possible to get an extra 3-4 inches of height in under a year What? How. This sounds like fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:00 PM
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Unattractive Reddit nerd men want to get married big whoop lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:59 PM
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Most of them I do care for at least to some degree, some quite a bit. I have the opposite experience though I usually become more attractive to partners over time it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:54 PM
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Eh, my hair is only just starting to go now at 28, so it's not so bad OTOH being 6' plus is such a perk especially in terms of noticeability, I probably wouldn't have been so unsuccessful when younger and would be married by now anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:46 PM
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Just as you're saying others can't relate to how fucking randos made you feel, you don't really know the validation mechanism that some men feel. Honestly would not matter to me if a girl is "dissociated" while hooking up with me, the fact that I actually did get to hook up with a woman is validating, period
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:42 PM
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Tough between adding 4+ inches height (am 5'9) vs having better hair, non-thinning/receding Probably the height tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:34 PM
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I don't think lovebombing is a successful strategy unless a guy is quite attractive and already has the woman very into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:56 PM
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Yea we're not in disagreement. Women love you playing hot/cold, some detachment, ect. That was point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:52 PM
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Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:40 PM
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More likely that RP guys were previously the guys who tried to "treat women well" and struck out doing so while watching those women instead get with guys who seemingly treat them fairly shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:35 PM
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D.E.N.N.I.S. system
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:38 PM
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How do you view yourself, above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:28 PM
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Oh yea that makes sense then. Hopefully you didn't incur too much debt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:19 AM
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What's so cool about the area that you pay that much to live there? Or is your income just adjusted for such COL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:14 AM
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her ex is a narc Totally agree, I don't need some girls ex coming for my drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:08 AM
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Why won't you use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:05 AM
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That's got me anxious for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:21 AM
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rent is technically gonna be 2.5k/month Wtff, that's a mortgage on a Lakeview mansion where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:20 AM
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Should go for better men maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:13 AM
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The average guy will get approached, will get matches, will get flirted with Feelsbadman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:10 AM
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As other comments have said, it's not true that avg men just take whatever they can get. I could have sex with a different fat girl every week if I wanted to. The scarcity is for women that avg men actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:02 PM
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It's a myth that genes work like that I'm pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:46 PM
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Meh I'm 28 I don't want to restart my career. Also coding is lowkey boring as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:58 PM
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Searching for jobs to relocate, but literally all of the projects I want to work on are in even smaller towns 😮‍💨 I should have done computer science
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:35 PM
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Yea. Maybe another 6 months of dry spell and I'll pull the trigger. I imagine I'd only last a short time living there but it could be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:40 PM
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I've had a lot of dental work due to getting my teeth knocked out playing baseball. Never got anything other than hydrocodone which I found only did anything if you mix with alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:38 PM
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It's like pulp in oj
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:27 PM
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Yea I agree. I see some people on here toting the 'complete honesty' thing where they say you just need to be upfront about only wanting to hookup, ect. I remember one guy arguing with dudes on here that the reason they weren't getting casual sex is because they weren't being honest that's all they want.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:26 PM
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If quality doesn't matter??? Pretty damn easy. I could get a fat single mom to LTR me by end of the week But quality girls, it's pretty difficult IMO, 28 years still trying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:17 PM
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It does make me want to move to a city like NYC. If only every other thing about that place wasn't horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:12 PM
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I keep trying cause hey what else is there to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:01 PM
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Good for you king
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:30 AM
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Who else tidies up your place on Friday before you go out just in case you might bring a girl home 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:31 AM
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Hands too? I've come up with some designs I think would be cool for the hands but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:48 AM
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dogs are running everywhere Perfect wedding, nuff said
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:37 AM
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Sounds like a dope life, why are you on some cringey gender debate sub saying this tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:44 AM
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Well it's all relative I guess. She's more attractive than any girl I've been with, I definitely thought she was hot I'm sure RR would have said 5/10 too skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:28 AM
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He just posted the other day about some hot girl he fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:43 PM
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No I wouldn't say so, it's more of a disrespect thing. The same kind of feelings aren't had towards someone who became independently wealthy and doesn't flaunt it. Both the self-made person and the tiktoker are equally deserving of jealousy for their wealth, but one of them isn't respected because they were born into it and act like a douchebag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:36 PM
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You don't understand why a person who has worked harder than another person, but has less regardless, would be a bit resentful when the other person is boasting it on an entertainment app? Idk this seems like standard human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:23 PM
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My and my WC friends have that attitude toward all rich kids showing shit off, not just women The filter here is probably that women are the only ones showing off shopping sprees on TikTok lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:17 PM
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You can complain, it's just annoying to people because the solution in this case is super easy, but you'd rather complain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:23 PM
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They don't really need a "strategy" women are the receivers of attention/approaches, they don't need an active strategy like men, who are the initiators
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:18 PM
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In my old friend group we all had That 70s Show pseudo identities and I was Steven Hide. That's probably fairly accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:12 PM
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Neither of those, if anything maybe "it's been a while for me" or something more lighthearted like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:07 PM
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You think that a human wanting to have a family is "an ideological belief"...? That's probably the farthest thing from an ideological belief I can think of. Again, it's one of the most universal things across not only people, but just mammals in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:05 AM
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So, just go against what is probably the strongest subconscious biological drive you have, aside from thirst & hunger? It's pretty obvious why there isn't a mass movement of men defecting from dating altogether. Most people have a deep desire for companionship and intimacy that you can't handwaive away with "choose you bro" Plus, what if you want a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:49 AM
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monks are ghey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:16 AM
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Trying to design a good mandala is so fucking difficult. I've spent like 30 hours on it at this point and nothing I'm big on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:00 AM
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Ghey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:25 AM
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Cost of living has gone up fairly proportionally with standard of living, except in recent years because of economic inflation. People have much nicer homes and apartments than 50 years ago, which they pay more for. And I disagree the average person spends alot on tech; cell phone, cell phone service, computers, internet service, credit card services, online shopping and subscriptions to Amazon's, Netflix, Spotify.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:44 AM
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I did one on Christmas eve this year. Had to drive a friend to the airport at like 3AM. It was kinda fun, drank a bunch of spiked energy drinks and played Skyrim. Also went for a walk downtown at 5AM on Christmas which was eerily cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:42 AM
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In the same time technology has become X times more efficient, our standard if living has improved by X times. This is not hard to understand; one of the largest industries that exists - tech - barely even existed like 30 years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:50 PM
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Takes many hours standing in the shower
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:29 AM
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I banged a 5'11 girl over the summer (I'm 5'9) It didn't really matter to her cause I was higher value in most other ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:48 PM
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I'm that boat but I can just make other people do most of my work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:45 PM
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I label a lot of shit around my place but yea that seemed wayoverboard labeling perfectly clear glass lol like the m&m jar wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:45 PM
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Thx. Yea idk what I wouldve done if he got hurt, can't get it out of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:04 AM
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Pretty much just drifted into like the median of a divided road and fucked my car up on the curb real good, hit a small tree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:21 AM
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I definitely do and have been pretty fixated all day on that. Probably going to stop drinking for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:19 AM
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I have never been so grateful after crashing a vehicle. No injuries to me or doggo, no other car involved, no cops that would have certainly given me a dwi... just a fucked up car. Don't drink and drive kweens and kangs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:17 AM
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Why do people always assume as if ''Alphas'' somehow live in caves and never heard of the internet and its popular forums/websites? I wasn't saying that, it was more just hyperbole about how an alpha as the OP describes is someone who almost certainly wouldn't be on Reddit or similar forums. They can, its called transitioning and bettering yourself to be that person of a high calibre, working on yourself on all aspects of life etc. No those things are trying to approach exactly what the OP is re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:42 AM
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If so, then I'm pissed. Was not offered any crack
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:42 PM
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Yea I'm talking about toddlers not grown men lol It's pretty characteristic of toddlers to not handle their emotions well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:44 PM
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Well that might help, but no amount of good parenting keeps a 2 year old from throwing temper tantrums, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:39 PM
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It's funny cause other than 1 or 2, all the guys I've been friends with have been really clean Over the summer this 1 girl came over and kept saying I had a clean apt, I didn't understand until I went to her place and it looked like a crack den
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:35 PM
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Speak for yourself, I found my nephew's insufferable at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:30 PM
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Maybe if I was wealthy enough such that I didn't need to work if I didn't want to. But even then idk if I could deal with ages 0-4. If I could skip to a 5 year old then yea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:20 PM
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Pretty much. Seems like if I vacuum and sweep once every two weeks it blows girls minds
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:19 PM
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I do feel like there is this weird low bar that most women have of men wrt cleanliness Like I remember in a post about this way back, a bunch of women here were commenting how their brothers and college bfs and husbands ect. had never cleaned a toilet before
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:14 PM
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Well like I said, if youre simply defining success as being happy then I guess I agree with you, but that doesn't say much about the op
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:54 PM
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I would definitely disagree and say that they never met their relationship goals and just moved on. People do this with goals in every facet of life. Sometimes you can't get what you want. I agree there isn't really an objective measure, but the point of OP was to try and think of something that could approach an objective measure. Saying "if person happy, person successful" misses the point of speculating about relationship satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:46 PM
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This is the female view of how men watch porn lol Almost every guy I've ever talked to about it is like "yea I pick one on the front page where the girl is hot" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:42 PM
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That's fair but all this does is devolve the advice in TRP which is for utility The natty alpha you're talking about has probably never heard of Reddit. Guys on TRP can't re-roll on life and just be that guy... Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:35 PM
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Simple. Those are the ones not too ashamed to post their photo. But overall I agree looks are not the problem with lonely people, it's status/game
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:55 PM
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Lol okay whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:54 PM
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Trying to go skiing with girl I'm crushing on is shitty cause she not only works weekends but also bought a pass to a different park. Porque God.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:54 PM
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Yea we're talking about attraction not "how much future utility can I get from this male human"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:52 PM
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Not so sure bout this. The only real attractive thing about wealth is what you do with it. Start-up Steve who pinches pennies to try and make his business successful is much less attractive than trust fund Frankie who takes his boat out on the weekends and throws keggers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:46 PM
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8 body 8 personality 6 face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:43 PM
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I'd keep at it. Majority of awkward people improve after you know them for a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:42 PM
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Fair enough, not sure that refutes the basic premise I wanted to get at though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:37 PM
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Yea totally agree, they talk about double anal and other super hardcore shit It's like, lady, I just watch people having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:27 PM
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I don't tell, that was just an example, but statistics show that economic success doesn't really equate to happiness, compared to things like social community
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:22 PM
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Yea I mean we don't know who has the leverage here. Dude could be a desperate AFC, or he could be a Chad with 10 booty calls ready to go Woman could be a WAATGM alpha widow, or could be a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:19 PM
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Like, happy in general? I'm not so sure this really works with regard to OPs question.. Ex: my parents are still married but live in separate homes, only spend time with each other for logistical reasons, haven't kissed in 20+ years, ect. But I bet if you asked either of them they would say they're happy with their life and relationship/family. Does that really mean they had a "successful relationship" I really don't think so. Happiness is pretty irrational for most people. If we want to define …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:39 PM
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He is answering, he's saying he's ambivalent about seeing her. Sure that isn't what a woman wants to hear in this scenario but I think the point is how she harps on him to the point of him starting to think "no actually I don't want to see you"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:24 PM
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FFM threesome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:10 PM
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I'm not so sure actually. It would depend on the individuals. We don't know the dynamic. In some scenarios this might be catnip for the woman, a bit of hard-to-get. If she was more neurotic, this could be an exchange between me and my ex, and I guarantee you I would not be "failing the shit test" by being nonchalant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:07 PM
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Why would he answer her call and say she can come over if he didn't want to spend time with her? Just saying, each person is giving off the same vibe in this scenario. I'm not arguing that it's right in the practical sense, I'm not too dumb to understand men have to do the "leading" in these romantic interactions with women, but that's what I imagine the video is intending to point out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:57 PM
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This is kinda bullshit in the videos context though. I mean what was her posture? "Hey I happened to be in your neighborhood" doesn't sound like a very I want to spend time with you message
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:47 PM
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Probably someone who supports the green new deal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:39 PM
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I can see the food variety thing, an advantage of being a culture of immigrants. College experience is cool but there's tradeoffs, I didn't really have it cause I didn't want to incur debt, not sure if that was a good decision or not but 🤷 Interesting to hear Americans are more friendly? Also not sure why you think Walmart is cool, it's utility wanes now that we have online shopping. America is almost certainly the best place for driving cars, sailing boats, and flying planes. Freedum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:11 PM
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Yea this is pretty true. Some apps are better than others at hitting the brainless dopamine button though, I think TikTok is worse than other apps in that sense, but I haven't used it only watched girls I've dated use it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:06 PM
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Do weights really matter tho? I like lifting but it's really just a means to an end; look better and be healthier and not be held back physically in other hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:40 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:36 PM
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Shut up plague rat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:51 PM
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Maybe but idk, at the moment I don't think I want kids that bad to have a live in business partner that could take half my shit at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:33 PM
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I wouldn't want number 1 without having number 2 first, both would be ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:24 PM
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I tried to open one of their videos to see what it's about and in the into it shows an Indian looking dude in mediocre shape doing like different exercises I couldn't go on 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:07 PM
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Yea it was just funny to see after watching them robotically repeat for the last 8 months "it's safe and effective, it's safe and effective, this is a pandemic of the unvaccinated" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:23 AM
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Yes that's what I am saying in the last sentence the above comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:22 AM
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Yea the naivety kind of shines through. To be fair when I was nearing the end of aerospace engineering school I thought I was gonna be a badass too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:26 AM
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I just expect them to not be fat but even thats a little much for average 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:21 AM
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I lurked on a little of that. Weird for him to assume you're lying but that is pretty crazy to me cause I'm 5'9 and my abs don't come in until like 170lb, I'm jealous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:18 AM
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Maybe you're right about lookism being the central tenet, in which case I concede. I was thinking of interactions I've had with supposed blackpillers where they take a similar stance to looks towards game, which I think has some merit. I've never met someone who was an awkward dweeb that became all that charming, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:05 AM
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Yea I would say it's largely true. When I was a late virgin (early 20s) and trying to get my foot in the door I revealed the virginity/inexperience thing to a few girls and it basically shut things down, I eventually just kinda started lying about it and things went much better from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:53 PM
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Tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:50 PM
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Based on what I've seen like incel megathreads, most are average looking white guys. But anyway. Yes asperger's is a scale, that was my point, it doesn't necessarily require "severe mental illness" to be held back in such a regard. The awkward guy who talks to himself and watches anime might not be asperger's but deals with a similar uphill battle in dating. Yea it's "possible" just like it's "possible" for inner city kids raised in poor/fractured households to be scientists and engineers when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:33 PM
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I commented on here once about how when I was with my ex GF there were lots of pornstars that I found more attractive than her, and a bunch of the women on here went nuts saying I was a piece of shit for ever even dating her Also nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:56 PM
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If you are talking about a severe mental illness, then you are obviously not talking about the general population Asperger's isn't even a severe mental illness lol 30 years ago it was going almost wholly undiagnosed, it was just called weird people... Anyway I was just using that as an example, mental/social acuity runs on a spectrum. You are talking about a small number of people who are essentially taken care of by their families for their entire lives What? I'm not talking about people with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:52 PM
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I don't think that's accurate. People have all sorts of innate attributes that can help or hurt them in dating, and some of those may or may not be overcomeable via sheer effort. A dude with asperger's will almost surely have extreme difficulties in dating, likewise with a dude who's 5'5 and has an ugly face
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:26 PM
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At least 5 if we were cohabitating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:21 PM
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Apparently even he has a limit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:10 PM
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You ironically forgot "not fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:08 PM
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California problems lol. I would never want to live in one, but they're the GOAT if you like outdoors stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:06 PM
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I don't think this is true.. I wouldn't consider myself blackpilled but I can accept some of their premises, which is what the above commenter was essentially saying IMO. There are certain gains you can make with self improvement, but those are limited to varying degrees by innate attributes. This in itself isn't a stretch from RP theory, other than the defeatist vs optimist outlook that follows from it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:06 PM
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I'm 28, my goal is a partner I'm attracted to / compatible with enough for an LTR with potential for children. For the most part, this entails a girl late 20s or younger who is mindful of fitness, and also has the financial and mental stability of someone in there late-ish 20s. I haven't been successful with this, although I've come somewhat close before with an ex. I'm optimistic, but not exactly confident that I'll be successful with it in the future, as the window of time for this shrinks. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:21 PM
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Seriously thinking about shelling some money out of my house down payment funds and get a sprinter van, I could probably actually pull pretty well with that on OLD here in the northwest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:04 PM
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In much of the US the social restrictions in summer-early fall 2020 were not much different than now. It's definitely a success for Pfizer and BioNtech now that they'll have the masses boosting twice a year lol, I'm holding on those stocks for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:20 PM
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Prior to Omicron, transmission was at a lower level and hospital admissions remain much lower than this time last year in many parts of the world, due to vaccines. Just look at the graphs that are all over the place. The vaccines brought transmission levels to a little bit below the previous two low periods in 2020 before any vaccine, and for about the same amount of time. Length of efficacy for that period is the same, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:11 PM
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Yea still means the vaccine was/is completely ineffective though (even though that's been obvious since September lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:01 PM
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Most of my vaccinated friends have gotten Covid in the last month I don't know if it is selecting for vaccinated vs unvaccinated though because my couple unvaccinated friends don't get tested where the vaccinated ones test for Covid like once a week it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:53 PM
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What's his wife look like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:56 PM
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Like other commenter, if my gf was going out to clubs/parties without me in weekends and flirting with dudes, downgrade to FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:46 PM
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Can none of you comprehend what he is saying in his comments? This is getting kind of.... Ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:25 AM
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Idk you were the one said men were having less sex now days because they had better things to do than previously But now days people are more isolated and unhappy than ever, so it doesn't seem like they have better things to do Men have been sex obsessed for all of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:04 AM
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People have been doing that in more difficult environments while still having more sex for the last 60 years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:56 AM
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"better things to do" like playing video games watching Netflix and using social media? All the things that have coincided with the increase lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:45 AM
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I really like the song Playground from that show it's my current favorite workout song My favorite scene was when ekko fights jinx, i love watching that scene
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:28 AM
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In a smallish city of 200k
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:17 AM
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Howd you get banned from tinder and bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:45 PM
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Was wondering why I got a tingling feeling to check PPD all the sudden..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:39 PM
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Yea sure. But most likely I had a good enough reason for dumping originally. Maybe in the case where I am getting old and decided I just want to start a family ASAP, otherwise seems unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:38 PM
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Pretty easy to learn. I started driving around my brothers car when I was like 13 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:29 PM
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Fit body = instant 7 imo Although just slim/skinny isn't necessarily fit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:17 PM
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Not as bad as the post-NYE buffalo chicken dip induced diarrhea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:14 PM
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Was there just a purge or something? Why's all the meme posts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:02 PM
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Take dog to park, workout at gym, play Skyrim, get drunk at party
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:00 PM
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I don't really agree with lack of empathy but otherwise yea. Lack of social grace is the biggest, although I would specify it a bit more as lack of RP "game" constituting charisma, approach/flirting skills, escalation. It's pretty easy to be socially competent with friends but inept with dating interests imo. Stacy chaser idk, I wonder if I would be considered a Stacy chaser. I can clearly get a certain caliber of girls; plenty of chubby+ girls and also single moms. I cannot get a girl as fit as…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:19 AM
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Anyone who thinks the vaccine is effective at this point us completely retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:12 AM
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😂😂 gotem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:11 AM
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My previous dog was like that. He would growl at me if I tried to snuggle up with him and then get up and move lol But he was kinda snuggly in the early morning. Current dog is a snug bug (which kinda sucks in the summer with no AC)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:10 AM
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You just described the average man and slapped on RP Yea exactly this is the bulge of the bell curve
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:08 AM
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He did, and seeing all my diehard lib friends say "fuck it" is awesome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:06 AM
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My pitbull cute dog is perfect for resolving that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:05 AM
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I could tell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:02 AM
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No I have short blonde hair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:45 PM
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That's true it's more fun for an event. Last time was a company party where we had a fake casino night. I miss pre Covid stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:44 PM
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Nice. I still need the space modulators and a constellation localizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:39 PM
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Lol I'm pretty sure she's mixing me up, I didn't post a pic last purge. But regardless, I do know and admit I'm not ugly, average at worst, but thats why I can't relate to blackpill lookism "oh you just have to stand there if you're attractive and women will throw themselves at you" bullshit. In reality being physically good looking as a dude is like the least important part of SMV compared to Game/Status imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:34 PM
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Realistically I could dress up for work whenever, but hoodies are just the GOAT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:02 PM
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🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:43 PM
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I don't like teasing people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:36 PM
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Fortunately for this time, I'm kinda unattracted to her when she's all done up, so I think I'll make it outta this one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:19 PM
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I may have above average looks to some women depending on preferences but am pretty shit when it comes to game and social status And 6 figures at 28 isn't really enough to be an SMV boost it's more just beta bux stability points
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:10 PM
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I am not a doctor but I don't believe you can get it so easily. It's more like HIV where you need blood exposure. But don't trust me. Anyway, I'm really sorry to hear about your dog, not much in life sucks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:05 PM
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I had what I thought was a cold a week and half ago, just stuffy nose, but then a few friends got much more sick w fever and cough, so I think I had the Covids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:03 PM
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Nah, we're just both losers with no other options
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:02 PM
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Most likely the only single girl that'll be there is my ex soooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:58 PM
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My friend group decided to do a fancy attire NYE party. Trying to decide if I actually want to dress up fancy, or put on my Jack Skellington tuxedo T shirt. What do you all think? Pros of t shirt: more comfortable and less valuable for when I get drunk and spill something on myself Pros of fancy: don't think I've dressed fancy for anything since right before Covid so I should see if my stuff still fits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:55 PM
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You're looking for Sonic and angels fan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:22 PM
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Idk what that is and don't care When you take people who grew up in the same affluent neighborhoods or the same impoverished neighborhoods, things like race fall into statistical noise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:48 PM
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I wasn't directly comparing the two, was illustrating how stats of "X does a larger proportion of Y" is not a useful argument in this case similar to how it's not useful for people. No, the dumb take is worrying about "bite force" I'm much more interested in which dogs can be trained and controlled to not end up biting. Which is much easier with a pitbull than a golden retriever because of things like recall and disassociation capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:43 PM
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It's very obviously not if you do the bare minimum of gathering variable controlled data
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:36 PM
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Yes I'm sure it is solely their breed and not the extensive history of raising for dogfighting, abandoning, general abuse I will again refrain from the complete analogy so I don't get banned, but it's easy for me to lie with statistics about how certain groups of people are... Err, more criminal. But I'm not retarded enough to blame that on their genetics. One was very aggressive one was not. You had to keep both, which one do you pick as the mean one? I'm not sure what you're saying here? I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:22 PM
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Agree. Though there seem to be alot of people on this sub who are fearful of them, pitties are far and away my favorite breed. Even with aggressive ones from the rescue I work with, their personality is just awesome to train. My current pitbull comes on walks around downtown with me, without a leash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:10 PM
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What was the point of your comment then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:50 PM
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That I still suck at it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:49 PM
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That does sound like inciting violence lol are you ESL?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:46 PM
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That seems legit since it basically is inciting violence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:45 PM
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You live in a state where you can stroll onto a highway in front of traffic and if you get hit it's the drivers responsibility? I didn't know such a state existed in the US but okay. Anyway, you summarized my point here; Should you? Yes. Does shit happen? Yes. Should you be hit by a car and killed for it? No. It seems like you're edging towards agreeing that it's "dumb" or at least some adjacent adjective to not look before crossing the street That is legally the responsibility of the person man…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:23 PM
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Cookies are off limits even when bulking 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:17 PM
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Just started feeling too fat. Christmas isn't much more than a few free days off of work for me anyway, I don't usually fly home to do family shit and eat sweets, if anything I'll end up skiing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:16 PM
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No pizza, no sex, not nothing beats the feeling of farting away a stomach ache
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:09 PM
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Last time I was flying with Alaska airlines they woke me up from sleeping 3 different times to tell me to pull my mask up over my nose, that was probably the most I've ever wanted to attempt a hijack
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:06 PM
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Join a book club bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:01 PM
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Yea I'm seriously on the fence about juicing. But need to do more research about what would be right and how to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:18 PM
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Yea likewise. Been hitting all time PRs on several different lifts. But just been feeling too fat lately. Doesn't help that I desperately need fresh OLD pics so I want to get cut again for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:13 PM
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Would you say someone is "dumb" for crossing the street without looking for cars and then gets hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:00 PM
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1 week into cutting and it's nice cause I can see my abs again, but sucks not hitting lift numbers I was hitting just 2 weeks ago. Life is ghey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:58 PM
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True. RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:49 PM
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They should definitely break up. I can't really opine about if it was "cheating" vs if it was "rape" although it doesn't matter too much in this scenario, she's a Trainwreck at this point, and unless he's naive his trust is probably eroded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:44 PM
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No, it's a completely different dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:20 PM
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At our company we get 2 days for Christmas and 1 day for NY, which I think is pretty standard, although lots of companies only do 1 day for Xmas Yea don't get too used to college/school vacation schedules that isn't the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:09 PM
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How old are you? I though you were in like your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:18 AM
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They watch CNN and FOX news stories about a kid who got bit by pit bulls in bumfuck Georgia and ascribe that to the breed Although I wouldn't allow this kind of playing with my own pit, unless they're with a friend dog who plays similarly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:15 AM
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Yea but you can say that about basically anything in life. I would personally advocate anyone who has trouble making social connections to stay away from smoking weed when trying to make said social connections Being high makes you kind of retarded and the opposite of witty, and also makes.you say dumb shit. But yes of.course you can get lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:04 AM
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I agree with you. Spay/neuter is the best course of action for any dog owner currently. I get really fucking annoyed with people at the dog park who have unneutered dogs and think their dog is some kind of special shit that they want to propogate or even worse, profit off of. My pittie is better trained than any one of the dogs I've had in the past, but I'd never put that solely on breed. Dogs are similar to people imo, environment and upbringing is a million times more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:00 AM
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That hasn't worked out for me. I've been a stoner since 18 but nothing about smoking weed has ever brought women closer. In fact, the only 2 girls who have ever broken up with me did so because they didn't like I smoked weed, so it's been a net negative in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:53 AM
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Do you think pitbulls are an "aggressive breed"? I agree with the high level sentiment of your comment but it just seems short sighted. Some of the worst dogs I've know are people who are like "oh I live in an apartment I'm going to get a mini Aussie" and they are the shittiest herding behavior dog at the dog park.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:37 AM
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Nah dude it's just the patriarchy is why community college dudes regularly OHP the female world record, your a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:32 AM
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Yea sounds like cultural appropriation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:30 AM
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In Soviet Russia, you educate school!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:29 AM
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Another Arcane watcher? Soundtrack to that show was dope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:21 AM
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100k is pretty comfortable if you don't choose to live in a dog shit crime ridden brake dust polluted city. I live in a city of 200k making 100k and will be able to buy a 3br2ba house with cash in 2 years when I'm 30
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:57 AM
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People who have, or that they feel have wronged them, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:53 AM
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Lol. I've done it before. Dogs aren't that tough alone, they can only hurt you with their face. I also usually have 100lb+ on them. 2 or 3 pitbulls I'm probably dipping though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:51 AM
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I don't think barely anyone realistically "loves racism" I was making an analogy about how discrimination against pitbulls is similar to discrimination against different races, especially when using cherry picked statistics. That was apparently off limits to Reddit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:40 AM
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Well, it was the racism analogy that did it. I should have known that would happen on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:13 AM
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Wouldn't exactly call it an "attack" but with a strange dog that's pretty charged up. Dog fights can escalate from that kind of thing. If my dog was the "victim" dog in this same scenario I would have been much more aggressive about shutting that shit down i.e. tackle the pittie and hold him down. I've seen too many other breeds act even shittier than this pitbull did, but I don't think me and you need to get into that argument again 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:09 AM
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I think that is part of it as other guys have families and stuff that tie them down, I could leave at the drop of a hat. It was still jarring to hear someone who's been at the company for like 10 years say he's never heard of someone getting X raise, meanwhile I got a half percent higher than that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:40 PM
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At an aviation museum I volunteered at back in the day I got to do restoration work on the airplane that Maverick and Goose did the middle finger scene with Funny thing is in the movie they say it's a MiG but it's actually an F-5 which looks nothing like a MiG lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:36 PM
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I can proudly admit that I'm the issue Although sometimes they are too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:30 PM
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Took me a long time to figure out, but being on of the bros is worth it, regardless of the douchebaggery. I really wish I had stayed in sports and joined a frat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:28 PM
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I have thought alot about relocating. I haven't because I would have to give up quite a bit; a really good career that I enjoy and am passionate about, most of or at least a good portion of my hobbies, close friends I've had for 5 years, my favorite climate in the country.. Dating is pretty much the sole reason I would be leaving which seems... Like a short sighted move. Especially because this isn't new - I lived in a different part of the US for the first 23 years of my life and things were mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:09 PM
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It is like saying to someone who is depressed: why don't you just snap out of it? Or to someone who is in mourning the death of a loved one: just forget about it, death is part of life you know? Well I wasnt really trying to take that angle. I agree that those quips are useless. It's more like trying to encourage a depressed person to be grateful for something or a person in mourning to be grateful about what they did have. But anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:57 PM
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I would love to switch my job hunting prospects with my OLD prospects lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:48 PM
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Well one way to look at it is most humans in history never had these things either, and furthermore nothing close to the other pleasantries of life. You could get a pet you love or a hobby you love (at least in the 'passion' sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:38 PM
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In casual discussion with a couple of engineers I work with who are much more senior than me, I found out I got a bigger raise than they've ever heard of any engineer getting. It's funny because while I think I do perform quite well for our team, I think the main driver is that my boss just likes me as a person to hang out with more than any of his other subordinates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:34 PM
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It depends. If you have a high muscle mass composition you'll lose it more quickly, re; bodybuilders who get injured and have to take 2+ months off will lose like 6+ months of gains
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:27 PM
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I shower once or twice a day, but only shampoo 2 or 3 times a week, no conditioner, I still get my hair wet and massage my head a bit though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:21 PM
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Girls with Barbies. Cars are still a toy for me. They're just real now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:43 AM
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Invest, retire early
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 10:50 PM
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I'd be fine being with anything stable to support themself; nurse or teacher for instance. Degree doesn't matter to me though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:20 AM
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Yea probably. I have never lived in a huge city where there is a lot of gyms for things like muay Thai. I'd like to get back into jiu jitsu too, but similar deal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:14 AM
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free speech free of repercussions Yikes dude lol have fun with fascism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:05 AM
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Gym I go to "technically" requires but nobody wears them, it's kind of the anti-shutdown/mask gym in my city
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:19 AM
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Had to stop back in early college, got too much with PT jobs and school, havent gotten back into it cause too much other stuff I guess, plus don't want to end up injured, that happened a few times w dudes who just go all out during sparring even though they have like 50lb on me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:18 AM
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This sub? Or Reddit in general? Reddit in general is like overwhelmingly liberal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:42 PM
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I live by the lyrics of "Simple Man"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:27 PM
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I can't tell if you're talking about PPD or Reddit in general But anyway, I don't get the "middle aged Midwestern" vibe from almost anyone here, not even the people who are middle aged and live in the Midwest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:49 PM
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Women's degrees aren't an object of attraction for men like they are vice versa (status) However I don't want to date someone who's broke with only dead ends for jobs and I have to pay for all of their shit They're mutually exclusive preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:19 PM
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Thinking the "reddit crowd" is conservative is.... Pretty wild. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:16 PM
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I don't need to be someone's boss to snag a few unnoticable pieces of their lunch from the fridge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:14 PM
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Gotta move out of NYC/SeaTac/LA where you can actually get one on an average salary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:57 PM
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For me it's also about not falling into the modern materialistic consumerism trap. I make enough for all my menial creature comforts and that's plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:50 PM
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