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CMVEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:26 PM
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Even-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:43 PM
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Even-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:06 AM
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Question For WomenEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 12:12 AM
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Question For WomenEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:21 PM
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Even-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:02 PM
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Question For WomenEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:20 PM
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DiscussionEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:51 AM
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Question For WomenEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:10 PM
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DiscussionEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:06 AM
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Question For WomenEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:46 AM
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CMVEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:21 AM
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Question For WomenEven-Kiwi-9164/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:10 PM
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More like no maidens fam
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:23 AM
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That's sad. Honestly it reminds that most of my views really just stem from seeing women at their worst (at bars) and most are actually nice and deserve sympathy and pity than my revile
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:06 PM
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Name a more Iconic duo than women and the hamster. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:44 PM
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You need to one be a virgin. At 62 I doubt that. Second you need to frequent incel forums which I highly doubt. Stop trying to make incels bigger than they are, but alas the hamster will keep spinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:41 PM
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Well, I'll respect it. I don't think it disproves me though, I think there can be exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:00 AM
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Relationship Market Value and Sexual Market Value
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:44 PM
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I'm sorry but I don't care about the reddit break down, most of the new dating paradigm is happening with people under 30. Your experiences don't speak to how things are for young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:43 PM
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I basically agree with all of this. There is a comment I laid out in the chain where I said the pills explain what's happening well, but not how or why. Additionally, you laid out an important part of how to deal with what's happening which I agree with as well, they do a poor job of it. I hope this comment finds itself higher on the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:35 PM
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So you can talk about your experiences but it is mainly relevant to 30+ and has no barring on younger dating culture. It's like a white person in the U.S trying to explain to a minority what it's like being a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:48 PM
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Nothing you have seen with them in any way relates to the pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:29 PM
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Literally made no points about having friends making your view invalid. Over 30 isn't minority but shows you are not a part of mainstream dating culture and thus not having a view to how things currently are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:27 PM
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I don't feel like you are arguing in good faith. I feel like you are throwing a lot of stuff out there to see what sticks just so you could get some kind of gotcha. Additionally you keep putting words in my mouth. You are literally not even arguing about the point I made the post about. Honestly your just rambling on and on it isn't even a coherent point it's obnoxious. You think you are so enlightened such the debater that it drives me crazy, that like a teenage girl I just can't even. It's the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:25 PM
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Completely fine with saying most young men have internalized rejection or negative experiences that makes them feel negatively towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:15 PM
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You are plus 30+ right? Let's just agree to disagree here where you don't have an active lens into how dating has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:09 PM
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I' fine with that. Pull yourself up by your bootstrap. Just saying the pills do explain average dating and average people's desires in a broad stroke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:04 PM
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So these are un-related women through different stages of my life. How else do you explain it happening multiple times if there isn't an overarching desire/behavior. Again I'm not advocating for treating women poorly, but in terms of status, monkey branching 80/20, frame etc. they are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:01 PM
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Have you been exposed to most of your friends behavior while at bars or on OLD? Or trying to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:57 PM
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Women still shouldn't be flocking to a single man like they did. Proves to a degree that dating is starting to shift towards polygyny... If bluepill was true they would be looking for a baseline attractiveness to find someone they sync with than trying to get the hottest guy they could...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:55 PM
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I'm one man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:54 PM
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Personally, it jives with me because I personally have experienced women and have seen other men who have experienced poor treatment (sometimes to my benefit) and behavior from women. Disregarding my personal experiences I've just seen to many examples amongst other people to disregard it. These situations are explained by the Redpill/BlackPill. On top of it looking through the Lense it explains trying to both approach women at bars or OLD. The only sphere it doesn't describe is dating amongst f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:53 PM
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I don't fully believe in the aspect of Redpill where women want to be treated poorly. It works on some women though. The more normie/vapid/young the girl though the more it works. I love how you bring up Caleb the West Elm legend as a way to prove bluepill. You literally proving how women flock to the best available guy because of hypergamy...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:47 PM
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Have you and your friends mainly dated people you knew very well before dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:40 PM
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So I agree, Pills don't speak for everyone. It's important I believe to recognize it speaks for the most average mainstream dating culture and people who fall in it. The farther you walk away from that the less true and true it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:37 PM
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Dating culture has massively changed in 10+s with social media and OLD. (oH tHeY'Re nOt ReAl lIfE) They have spilled over into dating just like the internet has with politics and everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:35 PM
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You are just making up claims because your point was disproven. Wish I knew the numbers to rope him in but pretty sure Sad Top isn't an incel and is redpill.... Additionally I have had short amount success with women, but I have had success and I'm not an incel...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:31 PM
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I'm upper middle class in my mid 20s. Try again. You have guys in college who are here or talked about college experiences... like SadTop
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:26 PM
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So the Pills I think when they take action to take or causation it is wrong a lot of the time. However with describing phenomenon with a broad stroke they are spot on. It's not how or why it happened, just it's happening that's fully spot on and not open to interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:24 PM
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So there could be a common thread that binds, but the problem what is it? I really just believe it is normal dating culture. I have had a pretty normal journey up to this point and honestly it hasn't even been things I have experienced myself but things I've seen with a variety of others that drives my beliefs. January Philosopher do you fit into any of the categories though I have laid out?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:21 PM
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In terms of the problems they complain about they are 100% true. There are a lot of men pumping and dumping women, a lot of men treating women poorly. What I don't agree with his what they want. Good looking man with a great job who treats her like she is the prize despite him being her superior.... However the fact that a large group of women came together over poor experiences and you want to dismiss them is ridiculous. I'm sure they all imagined that poor treatment and abuse...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:14 PM
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It's a brave new world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:00 AM
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Oh cont-rare, feelings don't care about your facts. LaLaLaLaLaLaLa I can't hear you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:57 AM
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I'm not trying to say this is how it goes for everyone, but I feel what I laid out is more common for men vs. women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:27 PM
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One thing I find funny is how women say women aren't willing to settle and will be fine ending up by themselves when they get older, when I find it's more likely men to be this way. Men who will make it to 30 alone either weren't very desirable in their 30s or have no intention of marrying. These men have mentally prepared to wind up that way and expect it getting to that age. Most women who get into their 30s really haven't mentally prepared for it, most have the expectation of meeting someone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:12 PM
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The whole China narrative is pushed heavily, but I partially don't believe it. China doesn't just need to overtake the U.S but they need to drastically take overtake the U.S in GDP if they want to displace the U.S as #1. Last year I thought it was a given, but with their record low births, the government crack down on industry, and a lot of manufacturing leaving I'm not so sure it is the sure thing it was anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:46 AM
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Not a Bills fan but wanted them to win. Was very heart breaking </3 my condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:31 AM
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I think we all find it thrilling lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:06 PM
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So were you always a massive pick-me or are you saying here you used to be a very strong and in charge dominant woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:54 PM
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Two types of nerds lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNJF8mWbG9A
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:47 PM
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lol, I know you are older but don't know your age. Would have been something to be 7 and at a velvet underground concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:43 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Thinking about it neither option would be for me. I want my and my future wife's baby. I also want her to get the ability to carry her own baby. I will take that risk then, and hope things work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:38 PM
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I've never seen the movie but I get the idea. Does it surprise you that you are now how you describe yourself "boring suburban working mom"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:31 PM
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Where you into the original punk rock scene when it was big in the 70s - 80s?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:28 PM
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So a normie?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:21 PM
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Like I said an example. Groups/Identity still exist after highschool. You can still be a party girl in your 30s even or be a goth in your 30s...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:20 PM
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The statement triggered me a bit and I need to lay out my case better. - Women should not be rushed to being skinny immediately after a baby. - It should be respected and accepted that her body will never be the same. - Men should be appreciative of what it takes for a woman to give birth. However pregnancy isn't an excuse to completely let yourself go and women who don't eventually slim down to a reasonable weight (healthy) once the pregnancy has subsided are being selfish though since all they…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:18 PM
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You'll get married at x and you'd better like it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:54 PM
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I think this would probably be a better way of framing it based on what Narniafox pointed out on my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:27 PM
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Ideally, we meet when I'm 29, she's 26. Get married at 32 and 29. We have our first kid at 33 and 30. What time should women be marrying then, ma'am?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:25 PM
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I'd say that usually doesn't happen and also we aren't talking next day but eventually getting down to a healthy weight. You def have an alt account that posts to FDS based on how you frame things. Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:59 PM
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So actually I agree there, I feel bad for them but ugly/fat women do sometimes become bitchy because of how they are treated. Most likely it is opposite sides of the spectrum but for different reasons is my new opinion. Additionally I would only say pretty women have poor personalities if they are normie. Alt pretty women don't let it go to there head I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:56 PM
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From personal experience I don't feel like significantly attractive men have worse personalities because of it, however I feel the complete opposite with women. Some have been darlings but most very attractive women I've met let it go to their head's and have poor personalities I would say. I feel like it's because of how society naturally treats pretty women, and because of this is an explainable thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:22 PM
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I'm sorry, but women who don't get back down to a reasonable weight are lazy and selfish. It's one thing to expect a model it's another to eat right and be a reasonable weight. Additionally this is why men want pressure on women to marry youngish (22-28) and don't want 30+ women. Men want at least some time with her before she gains weight. Oh I had my fun now I want to settle down and get fat. It's a horrible deal. Men who leave for a couple of pounds are terrible, but let's be honest this isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:17 PM
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You are still making no sense. You need to explain the point better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:38 PM
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And when Caleb came down from the hill and walked into the village, the women of the village came out of their homes and saw he was adorned carrying gifts of Mur and of Silk. Once in the center of town he began to bless each woman one by one with one of his many gifts. Upon seeing this display the women began to sing in praise and welcome him as a prophet of their lord universal basic income. Through the first moon cycle Caleb lay not once, but thrice times with each women of the village, blessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:35 PM
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Please elaborate. I feel like you are making a very good point but I'm missing it. Are you saying most modern men don't put effort into dating and women miss that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:30 PM
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That makes me make sense of it. Thank you for the guidance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:27 PM
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That's the point, I'm saying I feel I could do something so inconspicuous yet get dropped immediately for being desperate. Which makes me not understand how love bombing doesn't come off as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:07 PM
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So I understand what you mean, but I feel like its to fine of a line to walk where there would be enough success for it to be a thing. I think pretty much the caveat here needs to be the guy already needs to have a high amount of desirability from the girl. Where coming off a little desperate or clingy isn't going to change things dramatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:02 PM
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Can people here explain why love bombing works? I feel like it wouldn't and would make you instead look desperate or clingy. Like I don't really know you but I'm buying you these gifts, making grand gestures, and keep bugging you with attention non-stop. I don't see why women don't see it as desperate, but instead love it. For example of how I feel I could send a woman a text saying "Yeah I'm looking forward to us grabbing coffee later" and will get dropped because she felt I was too excited and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:50 PM
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Learn something new everyday. Will not use again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:07 AM
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So I won't in the future, but I consider that FDS lingo. Does it all fall under that umbrella though now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:34 AM
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I think I just need to finally admit it... ​ I'm not good enough for a real FDS queen and never will be. Phew, glad that pressure is off my shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:45 AM
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This statement is delusional and at odds with saying women are less shallow than men... like it kinda hurts to read because of just how biased it is. To be more selective and shallow are basically a one for one interchange. Unless it was strictly for personality, but its not it is for looks, money, and eprsonality...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:48 AM
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So, I only looked through maybe the first 20 photos and the ones without makeup she doesn't look as good as that photo you showed. I'll give you that photo she is more attractive than I'm giving her credit. More like a 6-6.5 then slightly above. In my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:19 PM
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I think this influencer (fruitypoppin) perfectly shows the power of makeup and just how dramatic it can raise SMV. With all the filters and makeup she is like a hardcore 9. Without she is extremely plain like a 5-5.5 (5 being average Disclaimer: for people at a healthy weight) She doesn't try and hide it so I'm not trying to attack her (props to her). I'm just trying to display an example of just how drastically women can shoot out of their SMV with makeup and filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:58 PM
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Most men would rather be alone than raise someone else's kid and get maintenance sex once a year. I don't think there is enough shame for being alone in 2022 or honor in marriage that makes your argument make sense. I don't know if you are just making this bad argument to get men to sympathize with women who would rather be alone that lower their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:06 AM
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Because no one really gets what they want. Women wants all in one package. Redpill man ends up without a family. Beta spends resources towards someone elses crotch spawn. No one really wins. You list partial benefits and just swept the downsides under the rug...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:05 AM
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I think this is pretty much the thread here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:08 PM
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The women consents to a guy who basically wants her so bad that he really can't help himself. It's like the desire aspect of rape, but without the forced/non-consensual aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:08 AM
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Jesus Christ, this is in the same vein as those women who are afraid to even speak to a man for fear of being raped...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:06 AM
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I think you are making generalizations for a group people that from your position you really can't make. Have you met most women? Have you met most women and discussed their sexual preference? No? Then I don't think you can speak for most women Mrs. Fox. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:04 AM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:52 AM
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Would be the intention if it were done lol. If I ever see a blue woman while at one I'll know it's you Smurf. Just please wing woman for me or pretend to be my cool wine aunt that travels a lot and has a mysterious amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:42 AM
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Meant more ravishment than rape. Still interesting that it is such a large percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:36 AM
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What percentage of women would you say have ravishment fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:21 AM
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What about a 20 something going to a 40s bar? Yay or a big nay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:16 AM
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Don't forget the tendies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:15 AM
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Women who are highly attractive but struggle with dating (retaining a man), understand that you are probably crazy or are a massive bitch. That is all for this PSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:29 PM
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Okay then, was just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:39 AM
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10/10 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:08 AM
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Smurf while I mainly agree with you that men mostly push that narrative as an idea of revenge fantasy. Don't you think maybe your experiences could be skewed because you are a woman who is attractive/very attractive. (Supposedly)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:07 AM
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I feel like all Onlyfans creators brag they are in the top (1%, 5%, 0.5%, etc.) With how many state it I feel like most are lying about it lmao. You can't all be top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:28 PM
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I agree with you, but young men these days can be fine across the board and still struggle because women have so many options. I think it's one thing to not have any sex or to not have any women interested in you at all, but it is pretty fair when you are a man and young to throw a lot of the blame on the current market. The only relationships I see amongst friends are those who started off as friends. Bars, OLD, cold approaching, etc. have not worked from what I've seen. Not everyone can meet t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:30 PM
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I'll be your soulmate if you kissmetilyourdrunk. Jokes aside let's agree to disagree. I don't think it makes them feel good, but makes them overestimate their options. You feel different and that's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:16 PM
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Not your buddy, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:12 PM
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Nah, I'm sorry but that place is cancer from my brief knowledge of the sub. It's not just women, it was both men and women they rated horribly. People go there get rated poorly most leave, but those who stay need to make sure they give everyone else a poor rating. They don't even understand statistics worse of all. 95% of the ratings are like lower than 6.5. It would mean that the standard deviation is 0.75. since the mean is 5. That is literally tooooo tight of a distribution for what they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:07 PM
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And again I want to stress, most women aren't doing this. But I feel it is a slight phenomenon with young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:59 PM
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That sub is cancer and a bucket of crabs mentality. I get it most people aren't 10s, but someone posted like ridiculously good-looking models and everyone was like 7. It was crazy literally no one can be an 8 or above short of god himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:57 PM
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We are currently getting caught up in wording semantics. OLD/SM gives women a stream of likes/matches from a large population of guys. It provides an illusion of false choice and because of this most women think they have access to all these men when they don't. Women here claim women can easily discern which of those men they could actually get etc. etc. but all I'm saying is I think you are giving women too much credit. In reality they can't, even if was easy to tell which men would commit on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:54 PM
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Well, I agree it is a people thing. I mean men do it to (mainly with other things). I have seen men believe they were way more desirable than they were but those were mainly considerably ugly men trying not to accept their situation. In terms of desirability or attractiveness men don't have a similar situation where they have things propping them up though to really lead to the same situation women currently experience right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:49 PM
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I think you are missing the point though. It doesn't matter how a woman rates herself against other women. What matters is strictly is how she compares herself against men. Maybe a better way of phrasing it isn't that they overrate them, but it causes them to underestimate men's attractiveness/ level of desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:44 PM
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I see your point and understand the contradiction by those men. I don't see the link to my point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:39 PM
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That being said are most women drastically overrating themselves, no. But I'm just saying I think it happens more than Women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:38 PM
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I agree with you, but I just think 75% is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:36 PM
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I do think women here give other women a little too much credit with distinguishing how attractive they are or letting social media/old affect their self-perception. People aren't good at accepting attributes about themselves if they aren't flattering. "Yeah, I might not be the smartest but I'm clearly above average" Probably, not that uncommon a thought by people with sub 100 iq. Additionally, you know OLD and Social media attention is worthless because you guys have seen the data and studies f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:34 PM
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I think you aren't giving people enough credit...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:47 PM
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That's what I thought but wanted to get a second opinion on it. So thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:50 PM
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I agree that nuance gets lost a lot here. Also, tough to argue sometimes because you have to speak in generalizations about groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:49 PM
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What portion of the arguments here would you say are in good faith or are arguing for a stance they actually believe in? Not oh I hate (Men/Women) so even if they make a valid point or I am wrong I will concede?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:32 PM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:49 PM
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Smurf always coming in with the juicy gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:24 AM
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This comment was pretty wholesome. 5/7 keanu reeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:20 AM
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Only the top 1% of OF are actually making any money. Really so many 18 year olds are going to face such rough consequences trying to get employment because of it. Posting on insta or tiktok not so much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:46 PM
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So, I don't think that women who have matured or are older are impressed with thottery. But I feel young women might be jealous of large follower counts regardless of how they are obtained. Maybe FSM was not proper to reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:14 PM
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No one deserves to be harassed but there is an issue of common decency though where there is a line and people can't where whatever they want. A classic example is the girl who showed up to the protests in 2020 completely naked... but that's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:06 PM
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Because I think it is less of a phenomenon that older women (30+) are posting videos shaking their ass. Some do it but it is so much more a minority when looking at the overall demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:02 PM
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Nice cookies by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:54 AM
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It's the internet you don't know how people will take things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:53 AM
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Sir this is a Wendy's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:35 AM
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FYI this story is fictious, but I hope you enjoyed the read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:40 AM
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Was getting coffee today at the local Starbucks. I'm left-handed and was casually scrolling through my phone "using my left hand". When my order came up I put my phone away and proceeded to grab my coffee with my "left hand" and take a quick sip. As I'm walking away, I overhear these two women whispering to each other that are waiting for their coffee as well. "Ugh, I could never date a guy that was left-handed. It's just like so un-natural" "Like same, I could never date some left-handed weirdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:39 AM
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Still can't believe femcels was a thing. I can't believe a group of women got together saw r/incels and r/braincels and were like wow that's a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:04 AM
0

Women can do what they want. I'm just saying waht I want and feel how most men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:09 PM
1

No but securing a guy for marriage they probably peak around late 20s, from there it's downhill trying to secure a guy for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah, I don't get why men here are so obsessed with having women approach them or ask them out. Personally, I strongly prefer to not get approached and be the one approaching. The only time I would appreciate it would be a situation where we are friends and we have a clear flirty chemistry and she just beats me to the jump first. Otherwise just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:44 PM
1

I do take your opinions as truths, so I trust what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:54 PM
1

I don't think they prefer but I think some are willing which is the better phrasing. How bout those Bills though, 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:16 PM
1

interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:13 PM
1

But it's a minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:50 PM
1

I believe most women that say no genuinely mean it. Just curious if I was right on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:49 PM
1

So the question I have though, is it more common women play games or is it a minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:14 PM
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Feel like playing hard to get is largely a myth (have felt this way for awhile). If a women's actually interested you shouldn't be getting mixed signals Curious about confirmation though. Ladies am I accurate on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:49 PM
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I think 10 years is pushing it, but I feel like a decent percentage of women are fine with a slightly smaller age gap. To say a decent chunk of 24 year olds would be willing to date a 32 year old would be pretty accurate from my life experiences. Once women are out of college the gap in where they both are at in life really shrinks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:42 PM
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I strongly agree with you, but Women here do misrepresent age gaps. Women are still into guys 6-8 years older than them. Men who argue for larger gaps are being delusional. Those women who break that norm are either dating strictly for money or have daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:40 PM
2

The question is how can you tell that people can't tell. What if they know but just don't make a big deal about it except that it's a deal breaker as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:40 AM
0

Agreed there are many other caveats that could be included as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:59 PM
2

People take the top 20% too literally. There needs to be a disclaimer that being top 20% means of healthy males. Just because a lot of men are fat doesn't means women's requirement for they find attractive lowers. If we start including obese people it isn't top 20% it's top 10% or something smaller. Otherwise literally a 5'10 guy with an average BMI would be top 20%... and would be slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:51 PM
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There are a lot of women that will handle it fine, but if it's like a 10-20% chance the encounter will go horribly wrong you aren't going to take that chance... And no, you don't have to be an actual creep for the situation to go terribly wrong. Look at Aziz Ansari as a great example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:40 PM
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Men no longer approach because of how women have collectively changed the culture. Not all women are going to overreact or react poorly, but as a man there is a chance that I can just go up to a girl to say hi that I don't know and it end poorly despite being (normal/non-threatening): She goes to management of where ever you are at and you get kicked out. She whips out her phone and starts recording you saying this creep won't leave me alone. She starts to yell and starts making a scene. (Yes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah, I kind of get it now. I mean some men do get fetishized (knew a girl who was really into blk guys). But men as a majority aren't really getting fetishized so it wasn't on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:47 PM
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Mmm, that really wasn't my take on it. I mean fat men with money date skinny women since they can. It's just women have the advantage much more of not having to. I just find it funny how they were like that disgusts me but then couldn't put in the work to really get what they wanted and just accepted it....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:43 PM
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I see this in a new light now and better understand where they are coming from. Some types of men do (height doesn't count since it is universally liked) but men really aren't fetishized. It's an issue I won't really probably encounter in my life so it wasn't on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:40 PM
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I think one of my favorite comments here from when I was lurking was a woman talking about two of her slightly chubby friends. Something along the lines: "Yeah, they were disgusted at the thought of dating guys who's specific type was chubby girls. They wanted normal boyfriends, but after halfhearted attempts at trying to lose weight they both eventually just started dating guys who were into chubby girls" LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:28 PM
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Most men aren't attracted to money. However, in today's age most men don't make enough to have kids and own a house without a partner who also makes money. Yes, it matters, but it is more a requirement than really moving the needle. Exceptions apply though (Want to be stay at home dads, attractive men who failed to launch). Men here who claim otherwise where a women's success is really moving the needle (for attraction) are the minority or are posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 07:20 PM
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Honestly the desire for a lot of men to have a trophy wife isn't to make other men jealous. Some men might enjoy that but the main point is to have an attractive women because as a man that's what you desire. I don't want an attractive wife to show off I want an attractive wife so I can have sex with her.....................
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:05 PM
2

Very good book. Very fitting ending as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:03 PM
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Yeah not my proudest comment, was trying to make a joke though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:09 AM
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Mrs_Dergree dropping the insight I was looking for that helps explain what I've seen. 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:56 PM
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I can feel how I want to feel even if it doesn't make sense lmao. It's only bad if men do it? "I want a man who is super ambitious and career driven, but has all the time in the world for me" "I want a buff guy who has a nice bod, but who doesn't spend all his time at the gym and isn't a gym rat" "I want equal pay for equal work but it's my dream to marry a man that makes significantly more than me"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:36 PM
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I find young women's duplicity funny. Bars, OLD, etc. it's like you need to be 6'2 former model that makes 6 figures or it's gonna be a no for them. Meanwhile I see women settle for like a sack of potatoes that will maybe remember her birthday every other year. Just because they knew him in person and they had chemistry. "But Janet if I leave when things are tough that's just quitting, I'm sure when we are married I will look back how I fought through it all to reach the rainbow". Are these men …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:26 PM
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I'm fine if that's not what they are attracted to and they don't have to date ugos. But it is entirely her fault if that's all that's available for her on OLD. Let's be real there is a lot of trash on OLD, but out of 1000s swipes it's not all trash. IF she can't get those good guys it is her fault not men's....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:33 PM
1

Yeah I'm curious as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:35 PM
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I feel like you are trying to paint women in a positive light here, but what you basically arguing is that women just chad chase and we should feel sorry for them. Let's be real, yeah there are more losers on OLD, but let's stop acting it is 80% plus the demographic. I have met normal couples who met there etc. The whole crux of my argument is that if a girl can't find that type of guy it is her fault. To say it isn't is just a cop out to make herself feel better and protect her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:35 PM
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You are getting caught up in the specifics. All I'm saying is yes looks don't affect whether the guy is a douche or not. Mis-match relationships though have a higher chance though of the guy acting poorly though because there is a chance he can get away with it cause he knows the power imbalance. You're missing the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:30 PM
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So again I'm fine with what you laid out but the phrasing still needs to change. It isn't men's fault for women's lack of success on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:17 PM
2

Yeah but people break up and then come back. I understand it is going to be more men who aren't good men for relationships but to say out of the 1000s of men a women swipes on that they are bottom feeders is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:14 PM
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You downvote me NastyRumours because you know I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:09 PM
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I'm not talking about that I'm just saying FDS women claim that they might as well go for the 9/10 instead of the 2/10 since both will treat me the same. While getting with guys out of your league is going to create a power imbalance which has the greater potential for bad treatment. It's not because looks affect personality but the situation. FDS women need to accept this. Doesn't mean you have to date the 2/10 guy. But if you are dating men out of your league you're more likely to be treated b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:28 PM
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Hope things work out for you there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:15 PM
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So the things is yes, just because a guy is uglier doesn't mean he will treat you better. But having a man be much more attractive than you is going to lead to a power imbalance. Same with a man earning significantly more money than you. In a lot of times both lead to bad treatment since the guy can get away with it. Women like to raise how beauty doesn't affect treatment, but it does. Also, why would a 9/10 date a 5/10 or 6/10 unless there is something holding him back dating wise like the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:13 PM
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Sorry, but this seems more like a humble brag than meaningful discourse to the conversation. I get it, very desirable women don't need to worry about pump and dumps, but let's be honest you could have phrased this very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:09 PM
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Honestly, I would say this is the best take and has change my view somewhat on it. I acknowledge that it is tough for women on OLD and you don't know people's intentions are. I will walk back that if you don't find someone it doesn't mean you are low value. But women need to still drop the phrase "I can't find a guy on OLD because most of the men there are garbage/low value/etc." Or "I can't find a guy because all men want is sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:04 PM
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I think there is something to women needing actual stimulation that isn't available through OLD. However, looking at swipe stats, most women are swiping very selectively and leads to them then having no success. If your criteria is very selective don't be upset though if you don't find someone who fits your criteria who wants you back. Lastly they don't phrase it that way or that it's too much effort. Still need to correct the phrasing then of why they don't like OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:53 PM
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Not really going to argue against that. But that really isn't the point of this thread it is just kinda whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:49 PM
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I do wonder how dating will look when early Gen z breaks into their 30s. Overall, I think women will just have their cake and eat it too. A fun decade in their 20s that doesn't affect settling down with billy beta. Most will be upset with the outcome not realizing how privelaged they are compared to women of the past who just had to end up with billy beta at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:47 PM
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Yeah I can agree with that. Bars and everything else outside of meeting through social circle is starting to become the same I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:44 PM
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Yes, but my point is that there are genuine men on there who they are usually overlooking. Now I'm fine if the effort is too much for them because it would take a lot of convos and swiping. However, most don't phrase it that way. They phrase it as the men on there were garbage to protect their own ego. It's not my fault I couldn't get a 6 foot guy with a good job on there. They just wanted sex, when in reality there were guys meeting her standards looking for a GF. The rub is though that she did…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:38 PM
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Thing I hate the most is the same people who are pro to tax businesses and give handouts are the same that say you aren't entitled to anything. Which I agree with you aren't entitled to anything, but to claim in one area people are entitled to other people's money while in the other claim you aren't entitled to anything shows an extreme cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:57 PM
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The wall isn't about getting casual sex, the wall is about women's options for long term relationships going down. How many of those men would have been willing to wife her? Probably very few of them. I understand men here exaggerate the wall but let's not mis-frame it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:30 PM
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Like one of my favorite comments said on a post where the guy was upset because the couple went poly and he was getting no action. "What you are telling me that an average looking man who has his financial and emotional commitment tied up in a marriage is drawing 0 interest from women? I am utterly shocked /s"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:45 PM
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Honestly, I didn't think of this and has opened up my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:31 PM
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Actually, not paying for a meal and leaving by law is considered theft so legally they would have some sort of recourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:32 PM
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The logical part of me agrees with you, but deep down in my gut I just feel like places would force the guy. I'm afraid it's gonna happen to me if I find myself in that situation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:28 PM
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I hope this is the case, because in the future if I ever do take a girl out to a restaurant for a prospective date never going to pay for her half now. If she really wants you, she'd being willing to split. Edit: I hope FDS screenshots this posts it and you have a bunch of them commenting saying look at the audacity of this scrote lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:25 PM
1

So, I would say that could happen but I think the options I laid out are more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:21 PM
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What would happen if at a restaurant a guy refused to pay for the whole meal and woman refuses to split the check. Would the restaurant force the guy to pay for both meals or would the restaurant force the check to be split? I feel like it would probs be the first cause, you know woman, but I hope it would be the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:15 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:12 PM
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I am making a joke lol. I hope there isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:15 PM
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Recently saved up enough to get wrist enlargement surgery. Ready to get out there now and start slaying 😤😤😤 As Freddie Mercury once said don't stop me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:59 PM
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I was hoping to see examples of both because both fall under that theoretical technical umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:40 AM
2

You probs right, but I still want to hear what people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:14 AM
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I laughed out loud. Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:09 AM
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I actually do believe on the second point. Strictly because how men (pretty biologically driven) and society treat pretty women. A lot of them don't need to develop as people and can just coast on by from 14-30 so a lot of them don't. It's actually kind of sad when you think about it. Especially once it all comes slamming back down to earth 40+. It's probs why you have Karens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:22 AM
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Was the real treasure the friends we made on PPD along the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:10 AM
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Just to be devil's advocate. What if it wasn't their only goal but just a big focus of theirs, would you still feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:20 AM
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Because I understand how the world works and understand that billionaires aren't the reason for all your woes. (Taking all their money wouldn't be enough to eliminate all student loan debt, provide universal healthcare, etc etc. It wouldn't even be enough to do one.) The reality is that there isn't enough money (but really what's really behind money labor and goods (with enough incentives for people) to provide it) I'm just so sick of the giant green envy on display on reddit it's disgusting. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:46 PM
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Yeah, minimum wage sucks but a big problem is that a lot of the people on reddit complain with zero attempts to try and improve their situation up from minimum wage. You can make the argument that things do suck, but from my personal experience I see a lot of mis-management of money and entitlement of I should be at this level of income with zero attempts to try to improve their situation because a trade or working 6 days a week is beneath them. I'm sorry but I just feel if things were better it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:11 PM
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It's funny how that's your criticism instead of making an actual valid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:08 PM
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So, there is a lot of wrong stuff that goes on from employers and a lot of bullshit that needs to be corrected. Additionally, I do support a higher minimum wage. Personally, though I feel like a lot of that stuff could be corrected but a lot of people on reddit (mainly young people my age) would still be complaining though. Lastly, I appreciate the well-constructed counter point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:51 PM
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The worse is when affording a two-bedroom apartment on a single income is the benchmark. Like I get it oh I need enough space for a child with my partner but two things: - One you are not adjusting the incomes based on normal ages to have a kid - Two having a stay at home partner is a luxury today not a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:37 PM
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I feel like most of redditors are whiny babies when it comes to work. Like they are upset they don't make enough money or work too many hours for what they make. Any constructive criticism gets immediately gets rejected. What do a trade and put all that physical effort into working man, that would suck. The systems rigged man I should have a middle-class lifestyle from my job in retail. What drive Uber man and work nights and 6 days a week to make good money, I SHOULDN"T HAVE TO DO THAT, I SHOUL…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:28 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=igq6TKagpUQ
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:21 PM
1

I don't swing that way, but you'll get no argument from me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:29 AM
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I knew you were all about those Bills but I didn't know you liked the Mets 😃 Yeah, that was disappointing :( maybe next year when he is looking for a multi-year deal he'll be back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:36 AM
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Again, it's not about whether the Redpill is right or wrong. ​ ​ ​ It's about the Mets baby, let's go Mets. Gotta love the Mets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:07 AM
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Man I'm just not really having a good week, I've had a bad (Spins Wheel) "Week at work". Man oh man I don't know how I'm going to get this frustration out. Anyway I haven't posted in PPD in a while. Hmm what would make a good post, what wisdom does the uneducated masses need. Oh I got it. How (Spins Wheel) "Intersectional Feminism" is ruining small town (Spins Wheel) "Farmers Markets".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:44 AM
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How else would the three of us make use of such a large sum of money & gold? After the heist we'll start a diving team and hit the Olympics in Paris 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:28 AM
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Ewww u/nessaea-blue Now you need to apologize to the FBI agent watching me, you probably grossed him out. Don't lie though you want in on the action and some of those gold doubloons. Drive the car and I'll give you a cut of the pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:13 AM
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Honestly, at this point porn has desensitized me so much that the only thing that gets me off anymore is the thought of robbing the federal reserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:15 AM
4

You forgot charge your phone and twerk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:13 AM
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I'm not really trying to be religious here it is just an analogy. I did chuckle at the thought of an atheist bear though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:25 PM
2

Everyone has their own cross to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:19 PM
2

Sorry, Miss. Hopefully I'm not wrong with this one just early.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:00 AM
1

Was just saying thank you I'll b here all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:03 AM
1

Thank god you don't, things are tough enough as is. Don't need Mrs. Steal your girl swooping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:02 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=77qZ\_z\_dZV4
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:59 PM
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When I hit on women in bars normally the topic of our hobbies come up and I always get the same reply. "Yeah in my spare time I like to complain about women on a little subreddit called PPD. You probably haven't heard of it before since It's pretty niche, only the finest intellectuals flock there" Usually their response is to try and play it cool. Usually something along the lines of "Oh wow, yeah I think I've heard of it before. Sounds pretty Alpha, tell me more"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:26 PM
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This was already addressed...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:52 PM
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(Not gay lol) But like OMG, like you're too nice and you look like a sweet girl. But I'm sorry I'm not interested. Like fine you've won me over slightly, like maybe if you slid into my DMs like maybe I'd argue with you some more, but treating me for coffee is out of the question. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:50 PM
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I'm sorry I thought you were talking about a separate study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:36 PM
2

Us right now. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0qmMlpZX_Y Like seriously again I'm flattered, but persistence doesn't work on me funlightmandarin. Like maybe in another world, in another life I'd let you treat me for coffee. But like I said I'm taken, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:28 PM
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My mistake. I'll admit that. Edit: I don't know why this got downvoted I admitted I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:22 PM
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lol stop following me around. Sorry but I have a boyfriend... it's been nice arguing with you but, please like stop seriously like I'm flattered, but I'm taken please take a hint funlightmandarin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:20 PM
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I don't think so. Men compete over women but it isn't normally by dragging down other men. It's trying to lift themselves above others. If there is a study then link it, otherwise don't claim it. Edit: Should probably take this comment down since men in the study did it too, but Imma leave it up for reference and to make the conversation make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:55 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:36 PM
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IDK man at this point I just feel like Women's sexuality is more disgusting than Men's. But I admit that's my opinion so don't downvote me just because you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:09 PM
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Yeah but we already know what most men here would say. I'm curious to see what women have to say on the topic. Like for women I would consider success having a few monogamous relationships. Avoiding being pumped and dumped (at all) and getting married to a man that checks most of your boxes between 24-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:57 PM
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Yeah, but we already know what the men here would say. It would be pretty close to what I laid out up top with some variation and a small number of men saying as long as you find a partner you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:54 PM
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I was interested to see what women had to say on it. My expectation is most would give the bluepill view of as long as you get married. With a touch of you are unreasonable for wanting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:46 PM
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I don't agree with young marriage for modern times, but back then yeah it was the norm. The point I was trying to make though is just getting married isn't good enough nowadays to be considered successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:36 PM
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Guys we need to put our foot down and stop the societal collapse feminism is bringing. Look at what's happening, false rape accusations, declining birthrates, women having the audacity to have opinions. If we don't do something now, women are going to ruin society. But you know what, it's not always about stopping feminism.... it's about the Met's baby, love the Met's. Come on let's hit a home run baby, gotta love the Mets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:19 PM
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Not really but thanks for trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:50 AM
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I did laugh out loud at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:49 AM
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Feel like I've fully went through the five stages of grieving with this stuff. There was a comment yesterday that really resonated with me. Something along the lines of "Yeah I've accepted all of it, but I try to not internalize it". Which I think is a good way to live by. Women's nature is what it is. Time to just keep chugging along.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:54 PM
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I think what most people need to realize is that while some red pill stuff is universal like confidence, dressing well, stoicism (there are others) it isn't meant to describe women as a whole. The Redpill is mainly meant for extroverted, average looking/hot, normy, middleclass, 20 something year old women in major city centers in the west. Now women hush, that's a very specific demographic, but probably the largest demographic of 20s women in the west. Yeah individuals in that demographic might …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:29 PM
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I'm not going to give you some bs platitude or try to give you hope, especially when I don't know you, but sorry to hear you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:23 AM
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I'm sorry but Redpill coined the term HVM first. FDS doesn't get to change it's meaning. HVM - Man women want, tall, money, good looking, good social skills. Strong value in the SMV. Having a good personality isn't crucial. Some HVM treat women right, some don't. If he gets a lot of women, what is he then... he certainly wouldn't be low value lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:21 AM
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Now you are going in circles I already addressed that point...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:20 PM
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Nah I will say IRL has it's benefits (only for friends of friends or acquittances). It doesn't make you more attractive, but you can build a connection which will help like (downing medicine with some grape juice).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:16 PM
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I have heard of women getting DM'd for dating on Linkedin... Yeah not every woman is getting hit on with Social Media, but you are either older or lack a social circle if you haven't seen how common it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:14 PM
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You still don't get it. Yeah, most women don't want to date a guy from a random DM. Still though it's an option and its validating. The article I linked shows how women feel like they have an abundance of opportunities, because of this they feel they can look for Mr. Perfect in their 20s until they hit their 30s and realize their station. That's the real affect of OLD and social media, the abundance and selection even if they don't want to leverage it it's still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:06 PM
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I'm getting sick of people here saying OLD isn't real life and they really need to evaluate their beliefs. (for 30 and below) Yes most women aren't on OLD, but some big points. - It doesn't have a large woman user base. Still most women have tried it and repeatedly try it in short bursts before deleting. - A lot of women use it for periods of validation then delete. They say 53% of "people" use it to feel better about themselves. Most men aren't using it for validation... - Most women are on soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:58 PM
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I think one thing that gets missed here is if you are over 30, heck maybe even slightly younger you can't really have a strong opinion on current dating. There are things you can comment on mainly on a macro scale. ex.(Men Vs. Women's Biological imperative, etc.) but to comment on dating specifics (the impact of social media and tinder, if the bar is set high or low, current landscape with regards to 20/80, etc.) you really can't. I shouldn't say you really can't comment on it, but just understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah Stacy chasing happens, but women here use it here to prove a point and its pure projection. I don't want to hear about Stacy chasing when Chad chasing is much more a norm. Look at which gender swipes on 5% of men and is only willing to choose the same small percentage from speed dating. Just hush with the hypocritical claims...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:23 PM
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Glad I brightened your day!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:36 AM
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You know you have made it on PPD when you have orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:30 AM
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I actually laughed out loud reading this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:23 PM
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Should be Smurf but I respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:21 PM
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Swayed by major media outlets and Facebook it is I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:36 PM
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So I don't get antivaxxers who are old. I understand at least if you are young it doesn't affect you personally to not get vaccinated. Is there some larger political agenda I'm not seeing like sticking it to the Dems or are anti-vaccine Boomers just stupid/easily manipulated by Facebook and major conservative news outlets to not care about their health against covid? This is a genuine question, I just don't understand the mindset and want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:20 PM
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Again monogamy was around for a much longer period than the 20th century. For most parts of A.D time most civilizations have been monogamous. ​ Also sick of this oh it's natural it's automatically good crap. You can get away with a lot of stupid shit via the same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:17 PM
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That's something I hadn't considered. Though the question still begs would a woman get more props from her friends for a really hot guy or a really rich guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:03 AM
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Betabux, Alphabuxx, and Chad are Redpill terms though. Even if used by blackpillers doesn't mean they didn't originate from redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:56 AM
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Why does the betabux sound bad if you don't want a broke hot guy. Literally said 65% looks percentile and have said nothing about personality. You're literally proving 20/80 by saying it's a trash proposition. You're literally saying you'd only accept a man in the top 20% of both looks and money, the top 4% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:46 AM
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I do my mistake, thanks for the catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:52 PM
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For the woman on FDS who don't post misogynistic stuff on there I do feel sorry for them. They are clearly women who have been hurt or wronged and didn't deserved to be in most of the cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:59 PM
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Your response was just long hand for I'm fine with being in a harem. And no society won't be alright you delusional nearsighted woman. Just because things are fine now doesn't mean it would continue like that. Look to Ethiopia and Japan. Japan's economy won't survive and Ethiopia has civil unrest due to leftover men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:15 PM
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Equal employment, sure, being thought of as equally as smart as men sure. Same protection under The laws, sure. Sexual freedom... Nope. Male and female sexuality isn't the same. Women need to be slut shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:56 PM
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Society needs all men to be committed for it to thrive. Women's sexuality natural creates polygny leaving a lot of men without a wife. These leftover men have no reason to participate or support the current society leading to instability from lack of cooperation and violence. It sucks but women are the carrot on the stick. Women can have as much freedom as possible before it starts fucking with the carrot, otherwise bad outcomes will happen. That is either until sex and reproduction can be commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:50 PM
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We should have a betabux mega thread next time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:25 PM
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That's pretty unrealistic. How do you know which guys are going to go on a spree before it happens. If a guy has a gun and you don't it doesn't matter how strong you are 9/10 times you are gonna die. Your right it might not come but that will be either through anti gun legislation or through increase police presence not your strong man save the day scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:16 PM
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I do find the shower critique funny, I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:59 PM
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Did you guys here about that incel that went on a shooting spree in the U.K. I thought ER was probably a isolated incident, but that stuff might start becoming more of the norm which is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:44 PM
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I think your point on option two is fair however on point one it may be similar to coffee meets bagel but vastly superior For my idea on point one you can swipe on as many profiles as you want, however once you get a mutual match that's it no more swiping. You can only start swiping and getting more matches until you decide you are done with the person and remove the match.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:44 PM
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dAmN tHoSe EviL CoMpAnIeS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:40 PM
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Typing this out has also made me realize to make a dating app more efficient in Linkin people up would probably hurt the company and not for the reason you think. If an app is more effective at giving more realistic options women will most likely drop it in favor of tinder bumble etc. Because low and behold it wouldn't be serving her Chad when that chad possibility is available on those other apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:32 PM
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Two easy ways to improve old, but it will never happen because it isn't in companies interest. Make it so you can only keep one match and talk to them at a time. Would force men to be more selective and it would allow women to not get swarmed with matches. However most women would drop this option after it would become apparent that this setup would negate Chad from coming along and not let them try to shoot up from their station. Make it so men can't swipe. They put up a profile and when a wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:25 PM
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The fact that you think option two is bad is very telling about women's priorities and preferences. Modern marriage is basically dead short of like 10% (portion of 20% because not every top man marriage will work out)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:58 PM
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This is true and I would say applies to men but actually this applies to women more. It's why you here things like I got 100 matches and all of. them were garbage from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:20 PM
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I didn't state that well. I only remember 4-8 accounts yours being one. Those few noticable accounts have nothing to do with that first statement. But only remembering a few accounts I can't specifically name instances off my first comment. I don't think you are trying to upset anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:22 PM
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Outside of like 4-8 noticable and prolific accounts. Yours being one I don't remember user names. So I can't say. Yours being noticeable and prolific. Edit: and not one that's trying to upset people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:07 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:05 PM
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For the women here who actively try to upset men, you realize you're punching down right? Not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:40 PM
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Good point, however if there was ever support and legality I'm sure science could find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:48 PM
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That's an interesting parallel with TRP philosophy I didn't draw there with John the savage. One day it will be full on brave new world. Once we can birth without pregnancy I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:08 PM
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I'm surprised brave new world isn't talked about or referenced here really. Huxley tries to paint a world where sexual relations are free from birth and having to raise children. The result, soft harems form and women only break away from Chad due to societal pressure to give lower men a turn, to keep them from flipping out. Whether you believe in Huxley's view or not it is still an interesting picture to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:55 PM
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The only thing I'll say about this is I think in this day and age it is affecting women more. Men don't have things like dating apps, social media, and makeup to pump them up and mask the reality that they are ugly. Some men do think they are more attractive than they are, but I've seen loads of average pump and dump women think they were hot shit and double down just to get pump and dumped again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:17 PM
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Yeah, but saying the deadline is different for men and women takes into account that age gaps do exist and that men date younger. It's not 15 years but it is realistic to say men have more time than women. It's literally the only advantage a man has in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:26 PM
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I don't really agree that men and women have the same deadline, different bio clocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:54 PM
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Sorry should have specified, wind up with a partner where you have your own kids with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:53 PM
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Average age of marriage in most western countries though is mid-late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:20 PM
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At what age should a man and woman start feeling the pressure and the real possibility of winding up alone if they aren't married yet? Man - 35? Woman - 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:07 PM
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