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/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:11 AM
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Yeah, women aren’t here talking about how based it is to leave a man with no legs. So……. Why you want to bring that up unless it’s to show you act exactly like people you view as lesser beings. You all are just weird about pussies and the dicks put in them. Wild bears my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:33 AM
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Sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:06 PM
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Men only feel like this if they view woman as property. If she gets broken, you can trade her in for another model. Then men have the clangers to say women don’t love. Plus, dicks are alike in being pretty mundane. A woman isn’t irrevocably changed by contact with one Dicks in this sub need to stay dry until you guys grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:31 PM
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Change is like a spiral instead of a straight line sometimes. Sorry you felt that hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:46 PM
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Ok I hang around feminists and I’ve never heard any say that men NOT wanting to bone women is bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:29 PM
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How do feminist care if someone doesn’t want to fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:17 PM
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Ok I get your point. I’m talking about older women guys think just want to cock block them. How do people learn except when experienced people shared their thoughts. I think there’s some things it’s not best to learn through the school of hard knocks. But that’s the way it is sometimes. An 18 yo is a senior in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:35 PM
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Lol it’s ok to treat 18 year olds like they’re people who just graduated high school. This person makes a good point. There’s a reason old dudes in cars bug teenagers. Men like younger women and a guy 30 with a woman in her early twenties is none of my business. But straight up predators and manipulators go for barely legal. You all act like women don’t know what’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:25 PM
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Excuse me, for all your flaws and foibles I quite like men 🍆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:18 AM
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You’re the ones who call it theory, idea and truth. I call it gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:14 AM
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I’m mean I only laugh sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:13 AM
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No gossip is when men are talking about who women do and don’t sleep with, how many men they sleep with, etc. Doesn’t that sound like something a bunch of old hens would while away the afternoon cackling about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:08 AM
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Please this place is 80% gossiping about women’s sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:06 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:36 AM
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Nah but she could have said this yesterday it’s still so relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:06 AM
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“While gossip among women is universally ridiculed as low and trivial, gossip among men, especially if it is about women, is called theory, or idea, or fact.” 👑 Dworkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:27 AM
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I think injury should be taken into account. PIV isn’t lessened by no injuries. But life changing injuries can happen just from a man’s hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:54 PM
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🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:44 PM
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Ok well you had a good idea just adding my thoughts to it. Sorry about the skippy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:21 AM
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Have fun watching the birth rates continue to fall, skippy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:05 AM
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Your solution is fine, I believe women do work fewer hours. Though men still have more leisure time. Families where the father does all the upkeep of the house and yard often divide things by inside outside. I’ve split chores like that before and it can work fine. I’m just pointing out that there are families that have outsourced a significant amount of traditionally male chores. Maybe instead of lawn service have a maid half the weeks. I’ll admit women do perhaps have higher standards because i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:27 AM
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It seems like a lot of men’s household tasks are outsourced now. Lawn service, painting, repairs around the house. Men used to be really lawn proud. My grandfather worked full time and had a huge vegetable and flower garden. So why shouldn’t the outsourcing be split?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:11 AM
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They shouldn’t. I don’t think shame should be directed towards the users that’s not the issue for me. I think we can talk about the attitudes I’m addressing though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 11:50 PM
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NCFM, Just Detention, Innocence Project and 1 in 6 are just a few of the places that care about and support men. This is corny, but Mr. Rogers said when there’s a tragedy or situation that causes despair to “Look for the helpers”. I can’t tell you how much it’s improved the quality of my live to follow this advice. Even better to take a couple of bucks and send it to a helper. That’s gotten me through some upsetting things. People do care.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 11:38 PM
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Yeah, I get hurt by the things that are said here and lash back. I’m not a finer person than anyone here. My view is that I don’t come here and expect approval. Even in the real world people just can’t help but use shame and judgement. Although, in that vein, the way I look at things isn’t better than the question this guy asked tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:21 PM
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Where have men been holding back, lmfao. There’s more you could be saying about who women do and don’t sleep with? Dear lord this should be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:09 PM
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I’m not mad about this guys choices. He can want a virgin, idgaf if he’s banged half of St. Louis, he can still want what he wants. I’m saying look at the way women are judged and shamed here and let it roll off your back. I couldn’t be here is I didn’t do the same. No one is entitled to approval of their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:06 PM
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You can. And you can experience judgement and criticism like women do over their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:39 PM
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Do you think men and women are different? I’m talking an estrogen world instead of a testosterone one. It wouldn’t be better just different. Tho probably lots of people would disagree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:30 PM
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Yeah you’re right about introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:04 AM
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Right. I have an example of how men can be objectified.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 09:02 AM
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I’m talking about all the men who are saying sex bots will replace women as a class. I don’t care if a lonely guy wants a bot. It treats women as objects to say that they, as a class, can be relaxed with a flesh light that moans. I think we should talk about what it means that men think its either an improvement or a 1:1 trade. I mean, not you and me, but in general the discussion is fine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 05:56 AM
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He kind of did to the reader. He seemed to think people would think less of him because he cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:56 AM
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Yes treating a person as though they can be replaced with an object. Fungibility. A McDonald’s worker can be replaced with a kiosk if they want a decent salary. A woman can be replaced with a sex bot when…..fill in the blank.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 04:37 AM
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Of course. It’s been co-opted by the establishment and is being used to uphold the status quo. But, there are working class and woc radfems. Some feminists very much care about less privileged women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:46 AM
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That type of competitiveness comes from marketing. You can’t sell cleaning products if you have commercial where the house is a mess and none of your neighbors give a shit. Men used to be house proud too. But somehow it’s seen as acceptable to outsource every traditionally male chore - painting, lawn work repairs. So men don’t have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:08 AM
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Who the hell thinks that’s a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:00 AM
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What’s FSM? It’s not in the acronyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:58 AM
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Ikr?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:18 AM
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If he still has his license after that arrest he’s probably getting tested and gone thru treatment and it’s no longer a demerit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:02 AM
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You can disagree. No reason to feel sad a random person has an opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:24 PM
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They do say they are a kink sub so…..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:22 PM
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I think for the most part. Do you think the world would look exactly the same if males and females reversed roles in history? I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:21 PM
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Write an alien story about it but have aliens come rescue the men from the evil harpies in charge of the games.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:13 PM
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Be able to laugh at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:11 PM
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🤔 I dunno, I mean you’re making a pretty good case for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:03 PM
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Aren’t men always saying they choose women by health and fertility. And that’s why their imperative is to like young chicks. Why do you think men are shouldering bullshit all by themselves, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:41 PM
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You’re probably right but it hasn’t yet replaced equality to people shooting the shit on Reddit and twitter. I’m sure it will trickle down tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:37 PM
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In some primate groups, the female cheats on the top male. There are good traits in the males who don’t have what it takes to defeat other males and have a harem. . We need introverts, artists and daydreamers too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:35 PM
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Smarty pants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:28 PM
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Give me a for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:24 PM
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It should be by percentage of income and be about the same percent for everyone within reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:20 PM
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I’m using the word most people still use. Liberation >equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:58 PM
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On top of the type of crap we put up with epitomized in this comment, someone thinks we’re supposed to be taxed for being female. This place is a fountain of hot takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:29 PM
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I’m going in the assumption this is true too. First I’m sad that the guy felt he had to keep apologizing for being insecure. And that he thinks no woman understands penis insecurity. I’m not the nicest or sharpest person and it makes total sense to me that size is a worry. Plenty of women had to have come to the same conclusion. Just from my standpoint, if a woman is complaining about her BFs dick size the relationship isn’t good. She doesn’t have a lot of respect for him. Women mostly want to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:19 PM
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Ok you want Andrea Dworkin types to come back and take over, lol. Sex positive feminism - pro kink, pro sex work, pro porn. Pro women have penises. Show me a way they are cock blocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:12 PM
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Would much rather live in a world that had feminism than not. The mistake I see that has been made is the idea that we want equality instead of liberation. Personally I don’t think it’s liberating to have 50% female CEOs doing things that hurt workers or the environment. I don’t think it’s liberating for women to look at men as the default of sexual freedom and desire to emulate them. I don’t think liberation is succeeding in a world men created in their image.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:55 PM
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Yeah men who rant about about feminism have no idea how dick pandering it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:49 PM
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Looks at World War I. Ah yes, the logical sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:47 PM
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I wouldn’t call it “white feminism” but “sex positive” feminism is absolutely pro porn, pro sexwork and pro kink. There’s women’s subs on Reddit where you can’t criticize sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:43 PM
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If a uterus can be grown in a vat, a woman isn’t being commodified or used for her body parts through donation. So that takes away most concerns right there. Also, if we really want to queer sex and gender like some claim they are, a male who isn’t claiming womanhood giving birth would actually accomplish that. And yes, it would be cool if at one point men and women could literally understand each other.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:05 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:08 AM
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Ok well I don’t think we should even try to meet men’s approval. Who cares? If you all want to think your love for women is more refined, fine. Sorry you think you’re useful only for what you provide. Women feel objectified too so I understand. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:19 AM
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It’s a pretty neat trick. They gladly announce they want to spin plates. But because what they want is attached to a woman’s body, their love is pure. Weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:17 AM
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Ok thanks for explaining. I wonder why men leave their wives for younger women them. So, women should choose men for looks, sex and personality then she would be equally as capable of living men for themselves. It seems women are judged for this also. Looks? 20\80. Sex? Personality? What if she likes what outsiders judge as bad boys? She’ll destroy western civilization. Are you sure women can meet approval ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:14 AM
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Liking someone for their looks isn’t conditional? Don’t women hit the wall as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:50 AM
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How could we? You’re the first man who has ever dropped this truth bomb. Sex is something a woman provides a man. So again I don’t understand the distinction being made. If a man can get a woman younger and hotter, he can discard the first women. Who was ostensibly being loved for herself alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:39 AM
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So what are these guys on about that men’s capacity for genuine love is greater than a woman’s? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:32 AM
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I hear men say all the time that their sexual preferences for women are based on her health and fertility. Especially when explaining men’s preference for youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:25 AM
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Men and their branch swinging, smdh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:23 AM
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What is a man’s love based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:22 AM
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Use the vats to grow uteruses and transplant them into men. He can then literally have the baby if he wants it.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 09:27 PM
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Instrumentality – treating the person as a tool for another's purposes Denial of autonomy – treating the person as lacking in autonomy or self-determination Inertness – treating the person as lacking in agency or activity Fungibility – treating the person as interchangeable with (other) objects Violability – treating the person as lacking in boundary integrity and violable, "as something that it is permissible to break up, smash, break into." Ownership – treating the person as though they can be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 05:43 PM
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I guess if the woman gave him the baby and he had to go drop it off at a fire house then sure. I think it could be looked at like legal parental surrender though. Same concept you’re right just not requiring the physical act of abandonment.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 04:05 PM
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Of course, there’s the aspect of meeting and ingratiating themselves to women. I actually think some men put feminist in their twitter bios so they can correct and talk over women by telling them what feminism is and isn’t.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 01:59 AM
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Yes. I’d rather deal with ditch dirt than clean up a fat person who just shit themselves. Only one of those will get a person dry heaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:46 AM
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The people I worked with were so damn crazy I couldn’t begin to explain the drama to an outsider. Probably was a mercy to the guys I dated, lol. But women like to vent and aren’t necessarily exploring solutions when they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:52 AM
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I dunno I think there’s a difference between a woman with a decent job she likes and is good at and a career woman. If a man doesn’t want to date an executive, fine. I dated a guy who complained every day about his job. Yeah, it sucks. People don’t have to do that tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:38 AM
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Yes. Capitalism doesn’t work well if everyone is content with what they have I don’t think. The two party system and tribalism leads people to let their party off the hook. You know, the people who always think that, say 1984, perfectly describes the other side. It’s not amenable to self reflection or holding their own accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:38 AM
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This is a good explanation. But I hear men say they don’t care about education or success at all. I think Chip(?) was making a good point in that those things tell a person a woman has character, even if he’s looking for a more traditional marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:09 AM
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Women not wanting to date bisexual men is not homophobia in my opinion. That’s a choice they have the right to make. I think we need total freedom in choosing our sex partners, so I don’t think concepts like discrimination apply at all. Women are more neurotic and sensitive to negative emotions like hurt feelings or disrespect. So it may be petty but at the same time it’s not petty. People have total control over whether they hold grudges and doing this is a sign of bad character. Some time I’d …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:06 AM
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Does it have to be a choice between: women don’t compete with each other unlike men and women compete in petty and destructive ways unlike men? How about we don’t judge men as the default we measure women by.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:27 AM
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You’re last point is good. We’ve become the commodities ourselves. Identity is being splintered to create new markets. What do you think of Debord: Social life progressing from “being into having, and having into merely appearing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:14 AM
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From what I’ve heard, some men don’t want women in general competing with men. Or it could be not wanting their partner to be educated or career oriented. The benefits and things you can learn about a person from social or career success you outlined very well. For some men, there are more negatives to extremely competent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:09 PM
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So we succeed in our milieu. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:05 PM
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But women don’t do everything to attract men. When I’m successful at my job and get awards or promotions, that is a reward in and of itself. I know I can put effort into something and do well at it. People compete against themselves too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:33 PM
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I think some men just don’t want women competing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:29 PM
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That’s fine 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:24 PM
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Ok I don’t remember. Sometimes I delete a comment if I realize it was thoughtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:08 PM
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Sorry an American site has Americans on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:36 PM
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Is there some problem you think would be solved by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:31 PM
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They're using their own system and rules against them. Civil disobedience is never polite and the people it's being used against don't always deserve honor or the truth.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 06:08 PM
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I guess. They’re pretty crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:54 PM
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That comic is so right on it transcends ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:21 PM
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If you have a hot guy providing regular fucking, what's the downside to that? No reason to act like it becomes a chore, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:05 PM
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Damn they’re like magpies always trying to find something shiny and new to stimulate their bird brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:12 PM
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Damn, we at the point men doing manly stuff is killing a cockroach? /jk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:16 PM
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Ok but will he be fixing stuff around the house with his shirt off?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:02 PM
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It sounds like you worked for what you have so of course you deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:39 PM
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Who thinks a product manager is hotter than a construction worker lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:38 PM
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It shows she doesn’t mind destroying trust and a man’s sense of comfort in a relationship. Right away leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:37 PM
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No. They crunched the data they had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:37 PM
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I read a book written in the 14th century. It was full of bawdy stories like wives having to hide their lover when the husband came home early from sea. If you think about it, before birth control, married people were the only ones who could fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:54 PM
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I’m not going to bother. We’ve both observed the world and I’m not going to say what you’ve observed is wrong. I would think both men and women could get with a high status partner. Then be disappointed when they can’t attract that level of person again. And, there can always be the one that got away. I don’t agree with how far it’s taken sometimes. I don’t think a plain chick who blows a hot guy at a party is always deluded into believing that’s the quality of man she can get. Or, pines for tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:00 PM
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Pediatricians in the US are being cowardly. They say they don’t recommend the procedure as being routine. However, since there is a slight benefit in the reduction of UTIs, they leave it to the parents to decide. The UTIs are already rare.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 10:04 PM
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Sex is like pizza even when it’s bad, it’s good. I mean really. I dunno. I don’t agree with you guys about this. People who run on estrogen have pretty complicated sex drives and attractions. It leaves even researchers scratching their heads. But I’ll keep listening to what you all have to say about it. I hear people saying they think a woman will never desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:49 PM
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Do men ever settle with a woman who isn't as hot as an ex? Dick is dick. There are no magic cocks that leave women eternally besotted with their owners and scorning all other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:21 PM
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That’s a good criticism of my comment. Of course we need each other. Power uses what we love to maintain power sometimes. Like when they got men to sign up for WWI by telling them Belgian girls were being raped by Germans. Women got a man (🥰) a structure that kept her safe and off limits to other men. She got a man who would claim and love the children she had. You could say that power and civilization were created and wielded to keep women safe, not to oppress them. Nevertheless, single unattac…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:44 PM
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Feminism has been co-opted to serve the status quo. Sex work is empowering, porn is empowering, kinks are good - that’s the kinds of shit feminism is spouting. Being a female General and dropping bombs is feminism. Feminism and the rest of the powers that be carving up the world are one and the same. You all have always been under the boot. It used to be in exchange, women had less power than you so women needed you. Now the boot is still there but the women are gone. I would rather be independe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:22 PM
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The idea of sex is being rejected. Do you mean things like leadership, decision making and protection? I think the first two are no longer strictly the realm of men. The ability to protect isn’t being seen as a positive as much. Society seems to focus on the shadow side of men’s strength and potential for violence. I just wonder what it’s like sometimes. I know women’s relationship with the feminine is pretty fraught.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:07 PM
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This has already happened on the US. They are waiting on congress to act. The courts can’t do anything else
/r/MensRights23/08/21 12:29 PM
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The male only selective service would never have been ruled unconstitutional if women hadn’t sued to fill combat roles.
/r/MensRights23/08/21 04:09 AM
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Boomers
/r/MensRights23/08/21 04:05 AM
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Meh, men reacted to MeToo by saying they weren’t to hire or mentor women. Or were going to surreptitiously record sex. Are we having women announcing they are going to illegally discriminate against men in the workplace because you all are big? What are women doing exactly? Though I gotta say feeling mistrusted must suck. That’s what criminals take from us. Trust for each other. That’s what we have to focus on, the predators. Men as a whole don’t need to change cuz they’re fine the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 02:11 AM
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Masculine doesn’t have to be violent. It can be strength and the potential for violence tempered by goodness or character. I don’t even know if we have an idea of what makes a man masculine these days- it’s like we think it’s fucking and fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:59 AM
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Women can’t totally separate themselves from nature. We bleed, get pregnant and give birth. Even in the most sophisticated hospital in the world, birth is raw and bloody. If men want to conquer nature, this may explain some of the difficulties. To men, we bleed and sometimes die to give life and we represent lust. My choice of words comes from the idea that man is the default women must obtain equality to. Men aren’t up there, and women down here. I agree with a lot of what you said. Your commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:49 AM
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Interesting. Yes. Capitalism is just a reflection of us. Though I do think we make structure, systems and bureaucracies to serve us. Then we end up serving them. I think perhaps health can be balance. We see how things in nature strive for balance, even down to atoms. I think man has made the world in his own image. Women wanted freedom in that world. They could be free as women, but men accused them of corrupting and changing their spaces. Or they could fit in the world men made. I don’t think …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:14 PM
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I think what’s missing in the discussion is that attraction is really personal. There’s not necessarily a Chad or Stacey archetype that gets 100% of the attention. I like skinny hippie types with the sweet/stoned look in their faces among other attractions that make sense only to me. Experience forms our attractions I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:05 PM
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Do you think men's attraction can work this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:52 PM
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It might be a developmental stage in young girls. They get to “try out” the feelings of love and excitement before they are developmentally ready to experience that with a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:57 PM
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I read your other comments and I get what you’re saying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:13 PM
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People have posted research here that shows women don’t all agree on what is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:13 PM
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Capitalism. Not that it should be demolished but it causes particular ills in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 07:30 AM
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Try 1 in 6. They run groups in communities. If you don’t have a group in your town, try and start one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 11:38 PM
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Not a feminist sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/21 11:36 PM
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Yeah I apologize. That wasn’t an appropriate way to respond to you. I think people are focusing on one of the symptoms instead of the disease tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:34 PM
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Then go live off grid in the woods. If you are benefiting from society, buy using roads, the health care system and infrastructure, you're a freeloader if you don't contribute. The dryness/wetness of dick has nothing to do with it. Damn, men throw huge toddler tantrums, and kick over everyone's toys about the state of their penii.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:18 PM
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I don’t know what that means. But if some guys here dated their match, the woman would be a ding a ling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:26 PM
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A lot of the guys here are a hot mess. I don’t know why you expect more from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:15 PM
4

Are you arguing for or against the men are trash meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:44 AM
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The flip side is this is that men also don’t have to have sex with someone they don’t find attractive. Not manipulating and cheating on people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:55 AM
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There is a question of whether we still need each other because it’s innate. Masculinity and femininity are really interesting concepts. I like the way difference feminism looks at it. It doesn’t matter in the moment whether it’s all cultural or all estrogen and testosterone. Men and women being different is our current experience. We’ve deconstructed things and now it’s time to put them back together. We can be anything so how do we chose what makes us happy? It cold be we’ve always known or it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:40 AM
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1 in 6 is for men sexually abused as children. They’ve recently branched out into adult victims of rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/21 10:15 PM
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The thing is that’s not going to fly with Joe Sixpack. The draconian child support system came from welfare reform. You know “Muh tax dollars 💸 “
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:02 PM
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Yeah, both men and women can be total buffoons. This whole thing of society counting on hostile or disinterested men to support a kid instead of a social safety net blows for women too. My sisters ex owes her 80k and she finally just said fuck it. She told him to keep it She went after him once because my niece was getting ready to go to college and she NEEDED the money. So he called his daughter, drunk off his ass, and told her she was a deadbeat and a libtard. He harassed her for days. So yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:54 PM
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Admit it, if there were no consequences men would be raw dogging it all over the place. Even with child support you have guys who brag about talking women out of using condoms or who have five kids by five women. Society needs to use sticks as well as carrots sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:44 PM
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I’m just responding to the first paragraph of this persons post. I don’t think men have it easy. At least you don’t have to call your friends “my boner is five days late. Could I be pregnant?” 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:38 PM
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Yeah, I’m just describing the bare minimum. You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:36 PM
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That’s a choice it’s ok for you to make. 🙂 But someone who isn’t old enough to have graduated college and worked a couple years is still going to be baffled about a lot of stuff. It’s nothing dramatic, just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:31 PM
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Well then keep chasing women in their early twenties and complain when they don’t know their ass from their elbow. What do you want anyone to do about a totally self inflicted problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:21 PM
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I would love to see the hilarity that would ensue if men got some of women’s problems lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:17 PM
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That’s true for you. Other men here will say it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:58 PM
3

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:06 AM
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That’s a good point. It’s not as simple as I made it out to be. Politicians know things like this will get the women’s vote also. So it’s not all concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:09 AM
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Men think women have tons of power because male politicians support things that protect women. Like when Obama sent his Dear Colleague letter to college campuses regarding the handling of sexual misconduct. No feminists had to convince him. He’s a man who’d been to college who had young daughters that were going to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:03 AM
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Of course you’re a dude. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:10 AM
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Men don’t have an in group preference to the extent women do. So you assume we see them as competition to sex like men compete with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:50 AM
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No. I’m saying the privilege and power assigned to us by men who want to bone us doesn’t equate to actual power.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:25 PM
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Yes. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:28 PM
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Yes. That’s why the power men assign women because they desire us isn’t about actual empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:20 PM
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Then why isn’t joe Biden performing for dudes with a grandpa fetish? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:17 PM
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The side that doesn’t dick pander?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:51 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:58 PM
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When sex work is involved, it’s really easy to show sketchy stuff is happening. I don’t think you’re correct in saying OF hasn’t drawn the ire of the usual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:55 PM
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Because of the way women view men who purchase their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:24 PM
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You all make the mistake of thinking sex work only degrades women. Sex workers aren’t going to have the most flattering picture of the men who use them as a masturbation tool. Especially when men decide it’s the woman who lost their worth and dignity in the transaction, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:18 PM
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No one means it’s not work as in it’s easy. They mean it’s not treated the same as other jobs, even when it’s legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:13 PM
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🤔 a literary technique, originally used in Greek tragedy, by which the full significance of a character's words or actions are clear to the audience or reader although unknown to the character. Ok you might be on to something, I do a lot of high posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:15 AM
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This is a good point. If we connect manhood with having sex of course it’s going to be important to men, even outside the drive. Using incel as an insult makes all sexless men feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:53 PM
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That place does crack me up sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:50 PM
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Men can’t be feminists anyway. They have their own problems to tackle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 10:47 PM
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Yeah, you have to call the cops and file a complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:05 PM
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If you don’t feel traumatized why the fuck do you care if anyone is arrested? Press charges or don’t. That’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:31 PM
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Of him harassing a young woman to sleep with him. The guy made a mistake of trying to be a lothario with a busted dick all the women could describe. When it goes to court part of the process is determining which witnesses are the most compelling. Sometimes it’s going to be the man who comes across as a self serving liar. Let it be a lesson to the rest of the Weinsteins.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:28 PM
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Except for the audio recording and other evidence. I know men don’t want women’s words to have power but too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:12 PM
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I have never had anyone pick on me. I meant singled out. All it takes is 5 minutes on Google to see why What am I supposed to google? As for feds in the Manosphere I suspect they are probably having both a chuckle and a stroke at the stuff they will see there. Well, MGTOW did get quarantined the day after sentencing guidelines showed Christopher Hasson posted there. I've been wondering if this dork was bamboozled by an agent and that's how they caught him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:49 AM
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Reddit is going to cover it's ass. How many more times do you think it wants to deal with a psycho having a posting history on one of it's subreddits? I feel sorry for guys that just want a place to hang out and vent. But, stop acting like people are picking on you all apropos of nothing. It's not even the feminists that are the problem. There are probably fed posters all over the mansophere and Reddit doesn't want to deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:47 AM
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It wasn't just women that took care of him, the criminal justice system did. Everything was fine before MeToo I'm sure a lot of men thought so. But's it not before anymore, it's after.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:43 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:08 PM
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Men complain all the time. Look at this place, lol. Nothing wrong with it. Bitching about work can involve funny stories anyway. Quit having weird ideas about manhood. Besides, simp bot could tear you limb from limb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:50 PM
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Sorry, no bio males. He can complain about Bob taking credit for his ideas to his sex bot. WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:13 PM
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Is this a joke? I want atlas clomping around my place on his big rectangular feet, doing the laundry and telling me my yoga pants don't make me look fat. Though he would need to be combined with the other contraption I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:05 PM
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Very cool! Sex bots for women when?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 07:50 PM
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I guess that men letting their women be raped kind of calls into question the “muh seed” explanation for male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:39 AM
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They did have the means to fight. They deserted the army. Going by what Biden said, I think there was corruption and conflicts within the society that couldn’t be overcome. They should have armed the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:38 AM
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Perhaps things can be done differently. Women’s contribution to the mating dance was that she had been waiting for the man. Like in fairy tales when the princess is awoken with a kiss. Perhaps women could be more reciprocal and let the man know that he is desired and wanted too. The ultimate purpose is that this should all be bringing us joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:50 PM
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Some do get up and put on make up before he wakes up, lol. Some women are dumb. Others don’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:19 PM
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Planning anything is like that lol. If it was happening a person wouldn’t be planning. Men are adorable when they see regular things women do as profound insights into female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:18 PM
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Dude, no one looks great in the morning after a night of fucking. Sex smeared make up is hot anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:38 PM
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There's no reason for women to act like birth control hasn't been invented because men still have paternity anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:17 PM
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People can adapt with change or they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:37 PM
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Yeah, I’m sure men tell their girlfriends that if they could get away with it, they’d fuck her friends and her sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:35 PM
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Are you sure women think a drunken blow job is dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:30 PM
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Part of maturing is realizing that the stories society tells about itself are some part truth, some part bullshit and some part wishful thinking. Men and women should easily be able to understand it's something we all share. I sure didn't ask anyone to spread the word I'm an angel. I don't want to let people down just because I'm as human and flawed as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:17 PM
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It’s obvious that as soon as women had freedom they started saying no. Men never had to worry about what made women happy because the rules has been stacked in men’s favor. Even now men don’t think they need to be bothered because they see the problem as women not “admitting” men’s truths. You all had what you say you want and you lost it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:16 PM
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So would you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:02 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:59 PM
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He won’t date overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:59 PM
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Ah, I apologize. You seem an interesting person to talk to. But I well know the feeling of being done to death with a topic. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:24 AM
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Well yes, you’re proving what I’m saying. Men give more value and credence to what men say because they don’t think men are ruled by emotion. That doesn’t mean men listen to all men. It means what women have to say is dismissed as less valuable. But tell me, was this https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tampico_Affair emotion or logic? A male friend of mine who is a therapist told me men are allowed to feel angry and horny and women are allowed to feel everything else. It’s not that the sexes are div…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:18 PM
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I don’t mean listen as in obey. I mean listen as in affording the dignity of hearing. Men don’t like women’s voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:43 PM
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These are good points. RAINN has said by/standers can be one of the most effective interventions against rape. For most men, their drives are used for positivity. Therefore, men as a group don’t need to change. Scolding education about consent don’t change rapists, who are criminals. But they shame good men. We know this because studies have shown this. We need men to protect us in a way because men only really listen to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:26 PM
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Men are allowed to be insecure. Part of the reason we’re in the mess we’re in is because women didn’t think men got hurt by what we say. I don’t know how many size queens there are. I had a friend with a huge dick. He said only one woman was able to handle it. At that was a woman who was crazy in bed. But women do body shame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:49 PM
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Sounds like you just don’t like pussy. I guess I can see what you meant tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:21 AM
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Which is never be enticing and helpless around males?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:14 AM
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Because women get mixed messages and are criticized for whatever decision they make. Here you’re saying it’s not a surprise that women get raped and assaulted at frat parties where alcohol is involved. That women assume the risk. But, if women were to say, we think it’s risky to go to frat parties where people are drinking, men feel attacked. So if a woman says she feels safe people have to correct her. If she says she feels unsafe, then she has to couch her language so she’s not blaming men. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:10 AM
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The system does a good job of making sure we keep it running and keep each other in line. That’s why so many people are happy to be cops and snitches. What’s sad is that conflicts among us please the system too, like men vs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:54 AM
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It's tragic isn't it? And we're supposed to agree with them we're priviledged because they want to bang us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:30 AM
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Society does depend too much on shame to coerce people. A lot of body positivity comes from corporations and marketing so it's not even intended to be in the interest of the people it's directed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:56 PM
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Mavericks are always cool, especially if they have made an interesting life for themselves. Do you feel the same way about women who can’t be shamed into caring about the number of sexless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:44 PM
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This is a question of who men would want their daughters to date, not whether they can control their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:37 PM
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Not their attractiveness rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:42 PM
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You’re being preposterous if you think a model tier face is necessary for a man to be fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:58 AM
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Looks wise? Wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:54 AM
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Men also want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:01 AM
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It could be reproductive roles. Other reasons could be the maternal role. Most people show a preference for mothers over fathers. Associated women with the role of mother also leads people to assign them traits such as compassion and nurturance. Women also show a greater in group bias. My guess is that feelings of safety might contribute to this. Nevertheless, men lack in group bias as far as their sex. Men’s focus on women is also probably related to sexual drive. There’s also the idea that it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:10 AM
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The coddling only happens when people take at face value what these men say their problems are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:25 AM
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Okay? I'm just glad I wasn't in the middle of that hot mess of a post with a guy who went out and slaughtered a bunch of people the next day. And I have no intention of finding myself in that position in the future. But, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:47 PM
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I think the sub should have left him alone when he showed up on the post of his DM. He did wrong but he was also bullied. We never know the mental state of people we’re having a go at online. Also, he posted on men’s rights which is going to come out. It’s not men’s rights fault but it explains one of the reasons manosphere subs are scrutinized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:07 PM
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I see on twitter guys who have a following of dudes all fired up about knowing “the truth”. Surprise, they have books they are flogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:16 PM
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It’s very heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:11 PM
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I apologize. I make comments that are low effort or snarky. I fully believe men’s version of events from their view and I believe it happens. I’m just positing that the women are mentally or emotionally unwell, like their abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:15 PM
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Maybe dating men who abuse them is the female equivalent of being crazy enough to break a woman’s face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:44 PM
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If people aren’t saying they believe this, of what importance is it that you assume they believe it deep down inside?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:53 PM
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In response to what? A man got consequences for actually harassing women. It makes it seem like women are going to face consequences to our jobs if we don’t keep our mouths shut. Which is harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:24 AM
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Yeah, female women are down there with white cis het guys and gay white cis guys and lesbians who like pussy. We should have a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:01 AM
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C’mon Reddit is full of porn, some of it pretty degrading. Let’s not pretend it operates from “respect wahmen”. Women’s subs are silenced too. A lesbian sub that only allowed female participants was banned for hate. Look at against hate subreddits to see the framework Reddit is operating from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:54 AM
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Read what I wrote. Does it look like I try to make myself look good?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:19 AM
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Right. But in response we’re hearing about how women destroy men’s reputations, and misinterpret socially awkward guys. Men are letting us know they’re not going to let this stand by refusing to mentor us and following the Mike Pence rule. Yet another man got himself in trouble with his dick but it’s women who are ticking time bombs. I’d have more genuine empathy for men’s feelings about this if there wasn’t and undercurrent of, I dunno, putting women on notice in all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:47 PM
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Guys probably aren’t even measuring their dicks correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:03 AM
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I guess I was coming across as accusatory or judgement. I think if people want feminine/masculine, submissive/dominant they should look more into what drives those things. Women can work now and don’t have to be naturally dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:11 PM
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The Fappening wasn’t a bunch of men going into a frenzy over drawings. This person said they will be mistaken as real. A lot of men like looking at nudity the woman didn’t agree to being seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:19 PM
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The role of provider isn’t seen as masculine anymore because women can do that themselves. Men’s strength and potential for violence is seen as destructive rather than protective. We don’t have any society wide rituals where a boy becomes a man. Etc. Broken was the wrong term to use. I just wonder if there are not many ways men can feel masculine and have society validate them so they focus on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:05 PM
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How many men have old fashioned masculinity to bring to the table in exchange for femininity from women? Men aren’t independent any more. They want women to cook and clean when they can’t fix anything that goes wrong in the house. If you call a plumber or electrician when something goes wrong, or take the car in for an oil change, why are women supposed to think they have to bring domestic labor to the table. Why can’t she outsource her “jobs” in the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:45 AM
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That’s because our concepts of what makes a person a man are broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:23 AM
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You mean men are the actors and women are the ones acted upon? This is reflected in things like fairy tales, when a man has to rescue a princess, or the princess is sleeping until the man wakes her with a kiss What would make you feel women loved men back? If she was waiting for the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:33 PM
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Sounds romantic 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:51 PM
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How do men love women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:49 PM
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That’s an understandable reason. I’d like to see this explored somehow. I guess there’s always the danger that a partner who has dated others, or has more sexual experience, has a “one who got away”. Or something similar. But I’d also like to know how much truth there is to it affecting most people or affecting mostly women. You’re explanation makes sense but we never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:48 AM
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Her posts are good actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:23 PM
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Really good points and I agree. I think Christopher Hassan being connected to MGTOW bumps it up a notch from “the news makes us worry about low risk danger”. Honestly, there’s probably feds that visits all the manosphere subs. It’s ass covering, not caring about women too much that led to the banning. Should have been clearer about what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:39 PM
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Then men wonder why their woman hating subs aren’t treated the same as a bunch of women bitching about scrotes on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:16 PM
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That’s why women shouldn’t justify or explain their “nos”. Men think it’s the start of a negotiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:18 PM
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You can have your preferences without calling other humans the town urinal. That's just another justification you don't need to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:36 PM
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That doesn't make one bad and the other not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:35 PM
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No. Men need to stop asking what are feminists doing about x problem and take charge. Then other groups can be your allies. I don’t care if some libfems lie to men’s faces and say they help men too. Get them to solve men’s problems and you’ll end up with more patriarchy theory and hand wringing about masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:03 PM
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I see. It would have to take a significant proportion of men strongly wanting virginity to bring about a change. If then, because all of society has always participated in men regulating their sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:52 PM
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When men try to rationalize what might be an innate preference is where the trouble starts. Really, just say you want to have sex when and how you want, but the idea of a lot of guys having fucked your partner weirds you out. That’s more logical than coming up with reasons that reinforce double standards. Just date or don’t date who you want and don’t come up with theories for why your feelings are based in reason and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:46 PM
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No judgement to guys who can’t get past it because I think it’s genuine. Of course there would be more virgins for men if men at least tried to hold themselves to the same standard. But preferences in relationships are personal and don’t have to meet the approval of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:40 PM
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Damn dude, women homesteaded with men, making something out of nothing in the wilderness. This shit of “I can’t squish a spider” is a game I have no idea why women play.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:35 PM
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Going by what adds to men’s attractiveness ratings of women and the demographics of who marries whom. Didn’t mean to paint all men with the same brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:22 PM
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Where’s your evidence women don’t date men in “their league”. I don’t notice the world full of mismatched couples as far as looks. And men don’t mind dating women beneath them in education, intelligence and earnings. So that’s driven by their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:27 AM
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For any guys with questions or concerns about male victims “1 in 6” is a really good resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:55 AM
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I think it’s drive and I think it’s one of the few ways in our society a man’s masculinity can be affirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:26 AM
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A penis is so powerful it irredeemably changes every woman it touches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:45 PM
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I’m not demanding diddly squat. It’s not my idea men get married at twenty. How do you think that works in a society that shapes that as pro social behavior? It used to be by limiting women’s options. Though it doesn’t have to be encouraged that way true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:58 AM
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And women like extroverted men. Unless you think it’s genetic that all narcissistic women have more attractive facial features and fuller hair, more attractive hip to waist ratio, then men’s attractiveness rating was based in part on how narcissistic women carry and present themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:55 AM
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That was speed dating and men were impressed by narcissistic women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:33 AM
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I think guys like to downvote. It’s a pattern I’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:57 PM
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Men here say that what they want is the understanding tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:33 PM
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Lol no. Validation doesn’t pay the rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:30 PM
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Not sure what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:50 PM
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I don’t think men should provide in a traditional sense unless they want traditionalism. There’s no way twenty year old men are going to all get a woman unless there’s some type of social pressure on women. So, men or society have to take responsibility for the loss of independence women experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:10 PM
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Builders are driving that in part. Every time a little single home goes up for sale in my area, it’s torn down and a million dollar home put up. If a person wants to live in this area, being happy with less isn’t even an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:49 PM
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Yeah, you want me to have no options so I marry a 20 year old guy, you have to do what guys had to do them. I don’t have time for men who want a hybrid of the old days and the parts of women’s liberation that benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:17 PM
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That’s not possible anymore. A man can’t provide for a family at age twenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:11 AM
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Ok I’m not in the mood to hear a male explain womankind to me atm. Just saying there’s enough buffoons in your sex that you aren’t competing with perfection 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:35 AM
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No I would have said that if that’s what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:25 AM
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Women can be pickier because because they are the ones who are mostly pursued. Otoh, you’re competing with guys who got drunk on the first date and picked a fight with the waiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:20 AM
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Why do men always stake things out as theirs lol. No wonder you all did so much imperialism and colonization. Anyway, yeah, I guess I was trolling. Sorry you feel people are involving themselves in your relationships. I don’t know what you want anyone to do about it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:13 AM
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Lol no woman expects perfection from a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:01 AM
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Based old ladies cock blocking guys wanting young pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:09 AM
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Do men change their sexual behavior in response to shame? Is a man not going to bang a 19 year old because people will “tut tut” on twitter? I think the bottom line is men want it to be normalized from the standpoint of young women. But women are always going to warn each other about men’s true nature. You know, like red pill dudes spread the truth about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:39 PM
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Who is calling him that and how does it affect his life? People are allowed to have opinions, like the men here have strong opinions about women’s sexual choices. Predator has a specific meaning and I wouldn’t use it to describe a man dating someone over eighteen he doesn’t have actual power over. But what can we do? I actually think the behavior of older men dating much younger women is pretty normalized in our society. But people can’t do whatever the fuck they want AND not be criticized. Is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:32 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:34 PM
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So there are people who don’t like it. Has he lost a single movie role, had a manager stop representing him or any of the real social sanctions that can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:45 PM
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No one is pushing for age gap relationships between two legal adults to be criminalized. I don’t know how the other stuff you bring up specifically relates to age gap issues the other person brought up. I mean, point me to a famous guy who has been cancelled for dating models 1/3 his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 06:30 PM
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Criticism isn’t policing and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:27 PM
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And? That doesn't change my conclusion at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:53 AM
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Ya, like you noted tho that doesn’t stop other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:28 PM
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My entire point was that people weren’t calling the guy a creep and being rude. It should be baseline knowledge strangers on Reddit aren’t going to give good advice. Why don’t you go talk to the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:22 PM
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Where did I deny that? She can either keep bitching guys she doesn’t vet beforehand act like douches, or she can stop ONS. If she decides she’s tired of the douches, there’s going to be the first guy she dates after deciding to get to know a guy first. Oh well. He can decide what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:13 PM
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Ok if telling a person they aren’t a loser is mean, they were mean then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:24 AM
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I don’t even know half of what Chad even means, lol. I know how guys talk about hook ups though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:22 AM
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Chad doesn’t even know or care where the clitoris is. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:07 AM
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Yeah, it's mostly guys flipping out that a woman had early sex with someone else but is making him wait. Women are allowed to see early sex can end up with having to deal with a literal cave man and change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:25 AM
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Yeah, that's true. As long as someone isn't coming in all gung ho and insistent about something that turns the other person off, two people can find all kinds of crazy shit to get into lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:09 AM
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As long as the one's that get tired of it know when to move on, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:08 AM
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Well go have fun 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:05 AM
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So, if women lowered their standards men wouldn’t bug them about shit they’d seen in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:01 AM
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Is it just me or were most people being pretty nice to the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:57 AM
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😂. Touché. Ok just remember you’ve been watching people who are getting paid. 🙄. I also don’t understand why, in 2021, women have to be put on notice that men are figuring out what makes their boners happy by watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:54 AM
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This isn’t a feminist thing or confined to feminists saying it. I’ve always hated it. C’mon, dudes had to sit in trenches in wars sick as hell. Men aren’t “big babies”. Plus, even if men do get sicker from the flu, men’s and women’s immune systems are different, so let them feel sick if they’re sick. And it’s ok for men to want to be taken care of if they are sick. We want men to ask for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:00 AM
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Yeah, she’s going to learn from this and guys are going to be mad that she’s making them wait until she finds out if a man is a total Neanderthal before she sleeps with him. Get used to chicks getting fed up with casual sex and refusing to hop on the next guys dick. Then you can thank guys like this Casanova.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:25 PM
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Yeah, surprise women aren’t all excited to try the shit you’ve been beating off to. That’s not our problem. Don’t get your dopamine receptors longing for shit average women don’t want to do. Then complain they don’t share your tastes or don’t like porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:22 PM
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You can ask your sex partner anything you want and she can say/yes no. That’s how it works. Half the stuff men get all hyper about is overrated - spitting, choking, anal. None of those things involve eating pussy good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:09 PM
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Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:40 PM
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Why don’t men do something to help each other with your energy and anger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:14 PM
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Men who are horny get hurt by women and hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:34 PM
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The harm doesn’t only go one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:43 PM
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As long as you are honest with the women I don’t see this as misogynistic. There are going to be women who have no problem having a fling with a guy passing through the area. Two adults can decide to do this as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:39 AM
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No, I don't think your female friends realized they were trying to make you question your own sanity by giving you namby pamby dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:19 AM
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You could have just been over medicated by the medical-pharmaceutical complex and decided having zero libido was an identity. Like is happening now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:40 AM
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I go by what men have said here. I mean there’s another thread happening where guys are arguing it’s not rude to get back on Tinder while the chick they just fucked is still there. All the men are different and I’m not going to assume especially since assuming just leads to guys being contrary and insisting the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:25 AM
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That’s true not all men are alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:28 AM
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Meh, some of the biggest windbags aren’t that smart lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:19 AM
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Who is acting purposely dumb? Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:38 AM
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She’s part of female kind it was her doing too lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:07 AM
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Wtf no we do not want dick to become extinct. Merciful heavens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:15 AM
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Don’t go there then. You’re not even allowed to participate there because you have a penis. They aren’t asking anything of you. We were talking about here and what women do here. I don’t even go to FDS and I’m a crazy feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:50 PM
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Meh, female choice gave you all the biggest dongs among all the primates and I’ve never gotten a single thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:40 PM
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Eh, I dunno, women can be into all kinds of things. Like cops, firefighters, professors. Smart guys Even UPS guys in shorts season. 😍 I don't mean asking guys out so much. I know how to express interest and let a guy think he's asking me out. I mean hanging out in different places and stop asking some bozo in a dive bar what book he's reading. 🤪 I know men make the same mistake when it comes to meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 10:43 PM
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I get the distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:58 PM
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Right. I agree. I think everyone can make the mistake of thinking they have to fix problems instead of just listen. When my friends and family call me with upset I ask them if they want my help or if they just want me to listen. I think I was trying to explain that some of what men see as a bunch of BS coming from women comes from a good, well intentioned, if misguided place. I understand venting and I understand the pain underneath. But wading through the venting to listen to the pain is a choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:50 PM
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Short guys get girlfriends bro, take it from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:25 PM
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Wtf. No I’m not. I’m saying a bit is being asked of women that we are supposed to wade through a bunch of venting and anger to see the pain underneath it. Like I went through the trouble of making a response to this guy and you aren’t asking me to explain myself or asking questions, you’re telling me what my motive is. This sub goes back and forth on whether guys want a gf or easy, varied casual sex. Depending on who’s participating and who they’re arguing with. So, talking to a guy like he shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:18 PM
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Depends on how the guy is venting his woes tbh. There’s a lot of toxicity against women in online spaces. Like my first week on Reddit, I was in random thread that wasn’t even particularly heated and some guy decided to drop his nuclear hot take that women are all stupid holes. It’s women’s way to try to make people feel better. So of course they’re going to say that they dated a short guy to keep some guy from circling the drain into hopelessness. Little do they know he isn’t pissed because he …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:03 PM
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The dowsing rod is for finding good dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:13 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:12 PM
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Ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:11 PM
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No your anecdote is helpful. I was at a bus stop once, mired in misery about life and a guy started talking to me. He pulled a dog eared, much read book out of his backpack and had me read a highlighted paragraph. It was rené girard , I think. Long story, but the conversation still stands out in my mind. I guess I’m blaming other people because I waited at bus stops for things like that to happen or not instead of seeking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:17 PM
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Ok I agree. I think intelligence is extolled in men if it’s related to their being successful at something. Whereas a man who is just highly intelligent, with interests that don’t lead to success is sometimes even made fun of. I’m mostly basing my feelings on negative life experiences and things I’ve heard men say. But real life is always more complicated than the conclusions we draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:52 PM
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That’s a good point. Do you think if they were dating women would find their brains appealing, indifferent or a turn off? And do their brains get them esteem from their male peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:44 PM
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Don’t confuse FDS with gender critical people. A lot of gender critical folks are lesbians and there are many gender critical gay men. I can’t even figure FDS out. Sometimes I’m not even sure whether it’s a mod taking the piss and everyone being too dumb to be in on the joke. I got no use for that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:40 PM
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Ok I knew if nothing else I’d get people disagreeing with me extolling the charms of intelligent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:18 PM
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That’s like asking a man why he would want to be in a relationship with someone who judges his job status. We don’t. I think as far as attraction goes, best case scenario is indifference. It certainly doesn’t add to a woman’s attractiveness rating. I don’t think it’s as valued in women as it is in men. Men will straight up say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:00 PM
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Don’t pretend that if men couldn’t get loads of attention from the opposite sex by shaking their moobs on camera, they wouldn’t do it in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:39 PM
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There are men who specifically say it doesn’t matter at all. Or, it’s a negative. And like you say, it doesn’t add to a woman’s attractiveness rating. That’s not to say a confidently intelligent man won’t find it appealing. But if a woman is confident in her intelligence a lot of men are going to find it arrogant and unappealing. That’s why women have language quirks like raising their voice at the end of a statement so it comes across as more of a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:35 PM
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A man being very intelligent adds to his value. It has the potential to help a woman in the work setting but otherwise is neutral or even a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:22 PM
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What do women want then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:45 AM
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His noodly goodness will save us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:31 AM
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Ask OP. Apparently it’s necessary to keep men from writing manifestos and running amok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:31 AM
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Weirdo and annoying does not equal crazy nut job. Empathy goes both ways. I get not every guy is going to be Casanova but still want to talk up women. But it’s like you’re not seeing she was stuck at work and it was an awkward situation for her. I’m not saying she was afraid of being raped and murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:30 AM
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Then who is supposed to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:19 AM
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This is the answer. Men need to start helping each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:36 AM
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Is that the line in the sand for when women are allowed to think men are annoying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:55 AM
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You saw how a woman functions in the real world. By having to deal with weirdos bugging them at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:29 AM
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Ok? I’m just answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:35 PM
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That evidence in that research has been shown to be lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:36 PM
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But the OP is saying that it’s ok for men to like hotness and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:34 PM
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Because women sacrifice career and earnings potential to take on more of the child rearing duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:10 PM
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He’s right about what makes a strangers pussy wet and who they sleep with? I’m well aware of the average man’s behavior when he gets some pussy. It’s charming. Which is why not everyone wants Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:59 PM
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It would be charming if men started acting like this in the US and I’d be happy to fully participate in such a culture. I think if a guy is using OLD and meets a woman for the first time at a coffee date, he’d think she was insane if she expected him to immediately stop using the app and only date her. What do you think the reaction would be if I made a post here calling men out about casually dating more than one woman at a time? Or matching with more than one woman at a time on OLD? Lmfao Sudd…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:05 AM
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jealous women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:47 PM
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Ok and don’t complain if a hot women hooks up with a guy for money and fucks Chad on the side. Why is it ok for men to like looks but not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:59 PM
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Right. And it’s ok for women to like tall men and handsome or rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:54 PM
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It's other men who don't care about any of this. If they did, they'd being doing something with their wealth and power. The status quo suits most men just fine. Your fellow men are perfectly fine with you not having resources or pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:44 PM
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If you left the courtroom with your bussy intact, you weren't raped. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:33 PM
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They have to be masculine too and exerting self control for their own reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:31 PM
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A bank account isn’t a vagina. You’re seriously confused here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:58 AM
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Sure, self control and restraint in men is attractive. It has never been beneficial to society for men to be led by their drives, such as violence and dick wetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:57 AM
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Ok it’s reasonable if the dinner date didn’t go well he keep the other date but cancel if he thinks things can go somewhere with the first woman. I just don’t think I have an understanding with a guy from the second he asks me out for drinks. If I was somewhere where that was the default, fine. That’s not the US where guys talk about spinning plates and wanting lots of casual sex. Everyone has to have the same understanding for it to work. So yeah, not going to have people talk to me like this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:41 AM
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It’s ok if they decide not to profit off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:26 AM
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Not even in the same league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:58 AM
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He didn’t get where he is without staying five steps ahead of everyone. There’s no way I’d think I could play him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:54 AM
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😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:31 AM
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Oh, I think it would be very instructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:08 AM
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I’m thinking we could see the ratio between tit size and what craziness men are willing to tolerate. B cups she can have an 85 IQ. C cups she can be a nazi. DD she's on parole for murdering her last hook up. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:59 PM
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You need a smart woman to be willing to read and learn ways to contain her emotions. Weren’t you the one who just said women take themselves down rabbit holes? But life is full of trade offs and if you find women who are smart a turn off it’s fine for you to choose different of course. Or you could think of your kids: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/children-intelligence-iq-mother-inherit-inheritance-genetics-genes-a7345596.html?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:56 PM
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Then parents have to teach their children I guess. And this stuff is why it matters if you pick a smart woman or not, guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:32 PM
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Are there similar shows with women interacting with men this way? You know, the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:27 PM
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Then don’t think it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:23 PM
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Large S Stoicism: Choose not to be harmed — and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed — and you haven’t been.” – Marcus Aurelius Feelings aren’t bottled up because they are felt and dealt with. But, yes, people have to have a certain type of curiosity and stubbornness to change. Lots of people don’t want to think about how they think. Maybe it should be taught in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:56 PM
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Reading philosophy, like Stoicism, can really help. So can learning thinking errors. If our thinking is causing us grief, barring a thought disorder, we can master our thoughts. Now I am going to say, without doing anything to change, women can really make themselves miserable. And doctors throw too many drugs at unhappy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:10 PM
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Women are also taking responsibility for contraception by taking hormonal birth control which can cause depression. When we talk about the difficulties experienced by each sex, I feel like women’s reproductive role is ignored or diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:50 PM
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If that's the culture and everyone is doing fine. It's not a bad idea actually now that I think of it. I'm not going to expect that of him in the US unless we have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:30 PM
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I mean, this is weird too. Why don’t you guys stop speculating about women’s pussies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:05 PM
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Wtf? I’ve been on one date with a guy who may end up ghosting me or being crazy and I have to tell other guys I’m taken? Idgaf about cake and eating it too I just don’t know why I’m supposed to do that. I also don’t care if you buy me meals. A dinner date is an awkward first date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:59 PM
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You guys do you. I just don’t think you have room to talk about what other cultures do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:54 PM
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It just seems weird. A guy goes on a dinner date with me, he’s supposed to cancel a coffee date with another woman he had planned the next day? Unspoken stuff is just odd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:01 PM
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Well I found your problem. You’re dating bitches. Maybe stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:40 PM
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Right? Like, you're mine unless I specifically release you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:30 PM
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That quote has been attributed to various feminists but Dworkin never said that. Here she clarifies her beliefs that people have interpreted as all sex is rape: “Penetrative intercourse is, by its nature, violent. But I’m not saying that sex must be rape. What I think is that sex must not put women in a subordinate position. It must be reciprocal and not an act of aggression from a man looking only to satisfy himself. That’s my point.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:27 PM
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I find it hard to believe men are getting tied down after sleeping with a woman once or going on two dates. Also, it's weird that being "an item" is the default with no discussion? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:19 PM
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Damn, a gal can’t even do something as simple and meaningless as moving her finger and touching an icon on her phone screen here without a male flipping the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:52 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:17 AM
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It seems a little like guys have tried nothing and they're all out of ideas, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:12 AM
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I get what you're saying now. I wish men had what women had. A woman gets power, like Michelle Obama, and she uses it to advocate for girls. Perhaps men do need women's help because men focus on women's well being more than their fellow man's. So if they listen to us, we could start speaking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:03 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with being strong unless the way a person goes about it hurts them. I mean men need to be centered in what they think the problem is and what they want to do about it. Do you want women deciding for you? Of course, women should be allies in the solution like some men have been to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:50 AM
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If you look at toxic masculinity as gender norms and roles men internalize that cause them pain, then men should be identifying and working on the problems with their own solutions. If you want to look at it as harm to others, then, at least in the US, we have to look at how some aspects of gun culture hurt men. But that’s not a conversation anyone wants to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:34 AM
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I’m not familiar with KS. But I’ve seen how this grift works on Twitter. I don’t even think the grifters want men to be happier. They actually want them to be angry and unhappy so they’ll buy the book, take the class, watch the videos etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:13 AM
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And there’s a continuum to that. Do you think wanting sex but not liking or wanting social interactions presents difficulties?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:01 PM
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That doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:38 PM
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What would be meeting you halfway?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:37 PM
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I didn’t word that well I guess I’m talking about someone who feels coldness to human relations and is going to come across as off putting. If a shy guy actually likes people, he’s going to come across as just shy. There’s nothing wrong with that. Someone who needs to work on their social skills isn’t the same as what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:12 PM
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I think it’s more pessimistic for the men who have trouble enjoying interactions with other people so can’t develop authentic social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:03 PM
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They complain about them out of envy. They don’t see their getting sex easily as making the sex they have bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:31 PM
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Giving a reason opens a negotiation about whether the reason is sufficient or valid. This person could give any other reason and the result would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:17 AM
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Because men are more motivated to pursue sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:58 AM
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The siren song of the pussy drew in another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:51 AM
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I’m going to go with the men being correct as a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:08 AM
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That's what I'm saying It's fine to feel that way and live that way When men try to justify that (they don't have to) the hamstering starts ​ Dumb stuff like: "oh it's worse for women to have a lot of sex because they can get it easier" don't make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:33 AM
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The lock and key analogy is just to frame the situation from a certain perspective. Mostly the male perspective. And I'm saying it's lame Not to feel that way, but to think they are actually saying something that's reasonable Just saying men feel envy or jealousy is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:37 PM
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Honest question because I don’t have an answer. Are there other areas of life where a person is denigrated for getting something that comes easily to them? My theory is this is something hardwired into men. Even monkeys have a sense of fairness and get mad when one gets two grapes as a reward and the other gets one. Not saying it’s the exact same thing tho So part of this could be men rationalizing and explaining feeling bad about something, rather than there being an objectively bad thing. Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:10 PM
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Does this mean guys who get sex easily are scorned by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:29 PM
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I’ve been in “who would you do” posts with gay men and they pick the same celebrities as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:59 PM
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From talking to gay men, there is a lot of shallowness over appearance and some lookism. If a gay guy is openly and publicly thirsting, we’re not talking about a fat or ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:49 PM
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It seems you want to believe that certain types of women are going to have difficulty finding partners. Most of the college educated working women I know are married. And they are from the demographic with the lowest rate of divorce. But, sure, hope you find what you are looking for too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:13 AM
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You’re setting up a false dilemma. The only choices aren’t to be told what to do or be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:01 AM
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So you think it’s a system that makes everyone happier? It can end up with a woman being told what to do by a total bozo tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:43 AM
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Men had this and they blew it. Probably because women got tired of having to do what men told them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:11 AM
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Calm down Nietzsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:07 AM
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Lol, I didn’t mean you and me agreeing. I see that was unclear. Trust me, there are people using the system trying to change this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:22 PM
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Ok? In the meantime we don’t have to agree it’s a good idea. And it’s not “these people”. It’s the prison staff having to act like credulous clowns when some rando says he’s female.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:19 PM
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Women not being violent doesn’t mean their prisons have to become islands for misfit toys. Not our problem males are violent, we put up with enough because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:14 PM
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Some men bother 16 yo girls for nudes:😴 Some women put must be 6’ in dating profile: 😡🤬🤯 Yep, this is PPD alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:12 PM
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It’s part both. Women really into make up practice at home for fun, participate in subs about make up. If men vanished tomorrow a significant amount of women still would wear make up. Of course women compliment each other and get positive feedback if they are skilled. But that’s true of any shared hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:36 PM
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Yes. I understand men are wired to want lots of women. Most men have been cock blocked from that one way or another through history. I know it’s a strong drive but it seems like not a comfortable desire to have. Women have what men want but a lot aren’t interested. I can get why women aren’t wired that way. So I get it because men explain it and I believe them but I don’t know what it feels like. Maybe there’s some purpose to men envying men who have abundance but there’s no way to handle it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:12 PM
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You’re repeating everything I said so we probably agree 75%. Let’s put it this way. When guys are drunk some of them do things like stick a Roman candle up their ass to see what happens when they light it. Yet they want to think women accurately assess a man’s SMV before they have drunk sex. Of course they’re reasons society focuses in the man when assessing whether sex happened. I’m just pointing it out, no judgement. Like I said, it puts pressure on men too. Women can enjoy sex without coming.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:51 PM
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I'm saying that when women have sex it doesn't have to be like when men have sex Female satisfaction is irrelevant as to whether an activity is counted as "having sex" during hook ups If a guy never got a boner people would say sex didn't happen If the woman doesn't come and the guy did, people say they had sex The entire thing is predicated on a man achieving erection and nutting I think this sucks for men too because they feel more pressure around having sex than women do, but that's an aside …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:23 PM
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Even researchers say female desire is difficult to figure out. But because something is complicated it doesn’t mean women are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:59 PM
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You call it shallow but ONS generally come from genuine lust and desire. Unless you're telling me that women generally have ONS indiscriminately. More likely, it is that they are having ONS with men they find very physically attractive. Alcohol may be a factor, but even then, the physical attraction requirement is high. It seems like men stop being able to understand women when they reach a certain point Then they can only imagine why their dick would act a certain way and figure that's why wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:29 PM
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Let me be blunt. I’m stoned now and I’m no longer interested in judging what you believe. Sorry I said anything 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:55 AM
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Okay, you destroyed me with your facts and logic Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:44 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:43 AM
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yeah, looking back I don't even know why I added my two cents you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:42 AM
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I don’t think men should be talking about other men’s masculinity this way. C’mon why are you adding to each other’s burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:59 PM
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I don't by all tjis yraffiking nonsesne if a,woman ever told me she was in trouble I would personally escorts her to the nearest police station. Most sex workers don't have a high opinion of johns If she is trafficked from another country, there may be a language barrier From her view, you aren't much better than the pimps and traffickers, I don't know why she'd think you would rescue her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:14 PM
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So his schtick is entertaining men who like to see women get shit on? Of course he’s making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:36 PM
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Reposted in the correct place: If a man has any sense at all, this is the strategy to use. My mother is a difficult woman. The kind everyone had to walk on eggshells around. Don’t do that to yourself and don’t do that to your kids. I think some of the most important characteristics in a LTR are: Chill. Everyone gets mad and pissy over stupid stuff. A chill person can calm themselves down. Or respond positively when another person tries to soothe them. A pain in the ass will turn a slight offense…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:21 PM
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Ok I see your point now. True, some average women will get messages but the tier of women who get most of the attention are the same tier of men women message. But aren’t those hot guys down in the one message a week range? Women don’t message anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:11 PM
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So women say they only like the top 20% and message those guys. Men rate women on a bell curve but only go for the top percent. Aren’t men the ones always saying to watch what people do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:58 PM
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Oh sorry I posted in the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:55 PM
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But which women are getting the likes is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:39 PM
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Look at the women who get messages. Why do you think this is disproving what I said? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:39 PM
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You know the way you want to relate to women isn’t universal to all men. Needing a large power differential between you and the woman means you find aspects of socializing onerous. There are going to be men who find engaging in nuance easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:37 PM
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Tbf, I think if men spent as much on clothes and Beauty products they’d hear some of the same. Dove soap telling women they are all beautiful no matter what just wants women to buy their soap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:11 PM
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Men rated on a bell curve but only interacted with the top percent of women. So, it’s what this person is saying. Men say they are less picky than women but they don’t act like it. And I believe men ask a wide variety of women out. There’s particular women they’re focused on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:07 PM
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i never needed to do that much to make a woman orgasm Are you sure they weren't faking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:49 AM
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Wtf? Calm down. Guys have to do their things first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:31 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:48 AM
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Okay?? We’re saying the same thing. Women have to be mentally prepared. It’s depends on the woman what that looks like. Some guys need to stop thinking the only reason a woman isn’t hopping on his dick is because he’s not hot enough. I enjoy sex but lol that you think all a guy has to do is stick it in without oral or other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:35 AM
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Of course men want everyone to think women are just being paranoid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:24 AM
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Get what other things? I actually did have a friend that could have screaming multiple orgasms with a guy she barely knew. Every woman is different but I’ve only ever met one chick like this. And the guys didn’t have to be hot, lmao, all they had to be was there. So when women have sex like men, they have sex like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:05 AM
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How much is actual risk and how much is female socialization?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:37 AM
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Estrogen and testosterone are different. Some men don’t trust women who try to explain what arousal and desire is like for them. So they figure things out by looking at what they would feel and do under the same circumstances. Would I bang some famous celebrity in an airplane bathroom? I mean, maybe because it would be crazy as hell. But does that mean I had the female equivalent of a boner and nutting? Perhaps not, because the guy would make no effort and I’d be nervous. And other women may be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:28 AM
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Where are you hearing this? The lesbians I talk to are smug and pitying straight women have to deal with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:40 AM
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I think other primates have an innate sense of fairness. Other animals all have the basis of empathy hard wired in them. Morality is us using our superior language and reasoning skills to be aware of and discuss these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:42 PM
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Men hunted mammoths because they were stronger. I’m not saying I’m special I’m saying women have always contributed to society. Everyone had their part and a lot of the time the part sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:03 PM
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And you’re not special because men are stronger than women. Rich men didn’t have to get crushed by machinery but rich women pumped out children. Both are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:01 PM
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Agreed. Self report of the fertility window isn’t going to be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:20 PM
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I’d like my fellow woman to be more assertive. I can see a woman avoiding a confrontation face to face, but no reason not to answer texts with some version of the truth. Even if not for the guys sake, but so she gets practice in handling all her business and life stuff assertively and honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:18 PM
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I think this person means nature isn’t fair. Men didn’t ask to be super horny. Women didn’t ask to get periods. What can we do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:42 PM
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I guess some men enjoy sex with a woman who wants to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:05 PM
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You’re assuming women had one child. You’re leaving out one week of menstruation every month throughout childbearing years. Humans are only one of three mammals that menstruate. Other primates don’t. Lactation. Injury during childbirth, such as fistulas which affect a woman’s health for the rest of her life. Death in childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:20 PM
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Then why did men who are different get their genes passed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:16 PM
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That’s fine women can make babies and work. We’re strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:09 AM
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Different women have different experience. In general, when women complain, I think they should cut some guys a little slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:07 AM
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If you say so. What are these guys like? I have a feeling you think they have the same characteristics as the alpha gorilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:02 AM
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I don’t know if it’s communism because democrats are licking the boot too. It seems as though there are people they want to punch anyway, so they call them nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:58 AM
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Well if you don’t think it’s innate, then it must be cultural. Females have always been able to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:26 PM
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Birth control was only invented in 1960 I’m talking in evolution and history.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:12 PM
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Just that we always were doing our part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:40 PM
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I think it’s obvious women don’t have preference for the type of men many guys think they do. Wouldn’t we have turned out differently if women always selected the alpha male for his genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:37 PM
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Sure. Society expecting men to initiate will lead to men talking to women. What matters is how you go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:29 PM
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The paradox of tolerance talks about being intolerant of violence. And people called the teen boy wearing a maga hat a nazi, so yeah I’d like your lot not to punch anyone, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:22 PM
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Well you’re right, it’s ok to approach women. I think a guy needs to assess the circumstance of course. But I never cared if a guy took his best shot. You just put it a little funny and I’m teasing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:19 PM
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Damn I used to never care if a guy tried to start a conversation in the grocery store or whatev. Now I’m wondering if I should scream and run.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:16 PM
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Call it whatever you want. I’m just posting data that backs up what this guy has seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:15 PM
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Survey data from Pew Research show that overall people are less tolerant of people of a different political belief. It’s dating of course, but also people are less tolerant of things like a republican marrying into their family of democrats. This trend IS much more prevalent among Democrats. I don’t recall seeing results broken down by sex, but women tend to be more liberal than men. So is the question why democrats are less tolerant? I don’t know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:11 PM
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And all those millennia when we were birthing babies was doing nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:45 PM
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No that was the deal given men. They’d acquiesce to being used by men superior to them, in return they were told they were better than women by virtue of being born with a penis. It’s part of why men are pissed now. They’re still being treated like shit by their betters, but women are independent now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:03 PM
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