Daily Community Chat Megathread

NarniaFox · 2021-07-29T05:36:00+00:00

What's wrong with FoxNews?

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2021-07-29T03:26:32+00:00

I've heard that China bans feminist content on the internet and in their society. Why do you think that is? Do you think they believe it's damaging to their society and their people?

SmurfESmurferson · 2021-07-29T02:27:18+00:00

Possibly the most controversial opinion ever put on PPD:

Pizza is overrated. Like, it’s fine, but I don’t get the obsession people have with it. It’s annoying, I don’t want pizza every damn week - between my boss, my bf, my friends, and client meetings, I legitimately have had it every day for more than a week

And I hate cheese

MisterFlipside · 2021-07-29T00:27:50+00:00

So how is toxic masculinity being solved right now, other than pointing a finger at it, saying 'there it is' and giving a thumbs down sign? Is there anyone out there actually trying to help boys and men with this, or is it just another dumb witch hunt?

poppy_blu · 2021-07-29T00:11:26+00:00

Superstar gymnast Simone Biles showed women everywhere what real courage looks like.

Shit like this makes me want to side with the dudes here.

In other news the CDC gives more useless contradictory “guidance” on masks, and the government continues to waste tax payer dollars on a smoke screen “investigation” of a bunch of scumbags captured on camera committing treason.

I really really dislike the world right now and all it’s disgusting phoniness, hypocrisy, and bullshit.

I’m booking a cabin deep in the woods with no TV, radio or wifi and leaving my phone at home and checking out of this place for a while. Might even delete my Reddit account for good.

nemporisso · 2021-07-29T00:09:04+00:00

How familiar do people usually act after a first date in your experience?

Slipthe · 2021-07-28T23:49:05+00:00

Yo breast milk is... melon juice.

pinky_tip · 2021-07-28T23:20:48+00:00

From men's perspective a woman with "high standards" sounds highly insecure and over compensating for being born female.

GridReXX · 2021-07-28T23:12:05+00:00

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Fleischpeitsch · 2021-07-28T22:31:39+00:00

TRP: No, we go for all types of women and they are all the same

Can they really not tell how stupid this sounds? "yeah I listen to every kind of music, country and western"

Slipthe · 2021-07-28T21:27:57+00:00

Do you think Chic-Fil-A should be boycotted for the company spending money towards anti-gay agendas?

LeJacquelope · 2021-07-28T21:16:23+00:00

Imagine being tossed to the side as a young 18 year old man. Often overlooked by every opposite gender. Never to take the v card of a girl. Working all the way through his 20s to acquire SOME iota of success. Now , he can finally get the chicks he wants. He looks up and all that's left are with kids, ran through, mental instability, overweight, entitled, sophisticated, and stuck in her ways.

Now imagine looking around at the women within your eyesight. If this was put to them more than three quarters of women who could be arsed to generate an opinion would say in their heads "What?! He should be happy to get women like that, right?"

That's part of what is unfixably broken about this species.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-07-28T20:32:18+00:00

Have you guys ever dug into the comments from FDS users?

I think a lot of them are Chad chasers, former sex workers, single moms, abused women, narcissists, etc, but some FDS users are really random and unexpected. For example, I saw this comment from a woman who was a widowed boomer talking about how her late husband was a HVM and she wanted to find another one now.

80_20 · 2021-07-28T20:26:42+00:00

A 27 year old Toronto woman went missing, sadly we only have her Facebook photos so we don't know what she actually looks like. -Julie Kim

rosesonthefloor · 2021-07-28T20:19:52+00:00

Someone posted this in a comment. Idk why I watched the whole thing but I did; it’s interesting stuff.

Similar theme to what’s been talked about here before: people pick up on desperation.

Side note: I think Paul is super cute! Then towards the middle he definitely got less attractive. But in the end he was cuter again. Attitude makes a huge difference lol.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-28T19:51:33+00:00

Alrighty, boys and girls. I'm going to break something down for you real quick.

If a person has sex or gets in a relationship with someone, it means nothing. It is not an indication of their SMV or RMV. What IS an indication of their SMV and RMV is consistency. Sleeping with a model one time does not make a man valuable anymore than sleeping with a few desirable dudes makes a woman valuable. We have literal Jaba the Hutts having sex and literal psychopaths in relationships. It means nothing if you have sex or get into a relationship.

If you can consistently attract people both high and low on the attractiveness scale, that's a sign that you have high SMV. If you can consistently get and maintain long-term relationships, that's a sign that you have high RMV. Being in multiple relationships in the span of a year or a few years is not an indicator of RMV. Having sex with a few people in the span of a month is not an indicator of SMV.

A guy accepting to sleep with a woman is not an indication of her SMV no matter how attractive that guy is.

A woman accepting to be in a relationship with a man is not an indication of his RMV no matter how attractive or "good" that woman is.

Consistency is the key. If you have no consistency, you're probably just delusional about where you stand.

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-07-28T19:50:15+00:00

I'm an incel now until Sunday :(

HighValueMoidxD · 2021-07-28T18:56:56+00:00

Redpill Chad masters the art of unavailability

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-28T18:41:16+00:00

The new Lilith joint: "Less attractive women are actually way above average! CMV!"

Let's not lie to ourselves, now. If women were as attractive as they thought they were, they might be able to get at least one of the guys they want.

LowCreddit · 2021-07-28T18:12:40+00:00

True love isn't a Disney movie.

poppy_blu · 2021-07-28T17:11:22+00:00

Just thought back to my own youth.

My most attractive friends were constantly approached by attractive, average and ugly men. There were plenty of times an attractive man got rejected for having a shit personality or some other untenable flaw. But truth is if you have your choice between someone you gel with who is attractive to you and someone you gel with who isn’t, you’re going to chose the former. Who wouldn’t?

My unattractive friends never got approached. They met the men they dated through friends, activities, classes, etc. meaning places where there was a mutual opportunity to judge each other by personality.

My point: when I hear men here talking about the woes of approaching women and having a 100% strike out rate, I really have to question whether they’re doing what I see men have always done: taking the risk to approach the attractive women but not doing the same with unattractive women.

I don’t buy the line that men and women of my generation were just so different. I think either men today aren’t approaching at all and just joining the circle jerk, or they’re continuing to approach women who are more attractive they they are and/or can’t judge their own sense of attractiveness as a woman sees it.

MisterFlipside · 2021-07-28T17:10:01+00:00

Heard a podcast that said male friendships are rapidly falling, and that men rely on their spouse for emotional support. Religion falling by the wayside (no church) and increased work hours were two of the culprits. Men typically bonded around something to do, and there isnt enough time anymore to do things.

On an unrelated note (I didnt want to do 2 posts), Im deciding that I shouldnt hate women for the advantages they receive, and in turn I cant hate myself for the advantages I get, because neither chose their circumstances. Whether or not I can stop certain knee jerk reactions is another thing, but there you go.

Mosagun · 2021-07-28T17:03:47+00:00

What would happen if men became far more selective about who they try to match with on dating apps? Would women become less selective and give less attractive guys a chance because they have fewer options? Or stay selective because they’d rather be alone than with a less attractive man?

It seems like some men try to match with basically any woman they can because only a tiny number will reciprocate and this increases their chances of getting more matches. I wondered how women would respond if male interest wasn’t so readily available and they thought they had fewer options.

throwaway213091345 · 2021-07-28T16:59:49+00:00

30 years old is that round age that forces both men and women to compare themselves when they are single.

I would think the age that men feel like some sort of pressure would be older than women, but it doesn’t feel that way after talking to many men who have recently had their 30th birthday. Even in the late-20s, it starts creeping up. When I went on dates with people around that age, so many men vented about how many weddings they were going to.

reluctantly_red · 2021-07-28T16:34:12+00:00

My GF accused me of living in the past. She might be right. This morning I drove to work as fast I could, passing logging trucks on the double yellow while listening to heavy metal. Pretty much the same thing I did 40 years ago. Only difference is I'm driving a 2006 Prius not a 1969 Dodge Dart.

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-07-28T16:18:56+00:00

First day of playing Legend of Grimrock 2. Progress: I didn't even start the game, instead started collecting information and writing a guide for myself to understand how the game works. Almost 3k words so far. Good day.

AtaCome7821 · 2021-07-28T15:19:05+00:00

I'm with the black pillers on this one, stop trying to date if you ain't hot. I'm not defeatist in anyway when I say this. If you can't bear to be alone, then what good would any form of companionship do for you? The reason for all this fuss is cause dudes actually want love and relationships, not sex, cause sex is easily accessible, you just need money and not even a lot of it.

Any guy can build a career, get a hobby, eat healthier, visit a doctor, work out and travel, there are a million things other than sex. Not having a lover is never a good reason for being miserable. It's no surprise to me that the women here have such little respect for men smh.

The point is, if you're attractive, a woman will eventually approach you herself, and so you don't need to make a fuss about it, just go about your life as you want it.

Aviadcool111 · 2021-07-28T14:50:13+00:00

Worked out at 5am this morning with a friend, not as bad as a thought.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-07-28T14:18:34+00:00

Anyone like watching videos like this?

Also, enjoy.

Even-Kiwi-9164 · 2021-07-28T14:07:47+00:00

At what age should a man and woman start feeling the pressure and the real possibility of winding up alone if they aren't married yet? Man - 35? Woman - 30?

LeJacquelope · 2021-07-28T14:01:46+00:00

What part of "nice guys finish last" do y'all men out there not understand?

annabeelongx · 2021-07-28T13:48:45+00:00

Anyone here have a worm phobia?

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-07-28T13:32:03+00:00

Apparently I'm BP now

About the only thing about TRP I don't think has merit is that love is real and that AWALT is due to selection bias. Yet because I think women can actually love and be happy with a guy who's not top 20% in looks I'm BP.

MinccinoLuna · 2021-07-28T07:46:48+00:00

The real fate of Bella, a FDS woman

enigja · 2021-07-28T13:29:04+00:00

Just learned that a RP pick up artist wrote an entire book about how RP doesn’t apply to my country (Denmark).

Everything makes sense now. The way everyone describes an “alpha” is how a Dane would describe a stereotypical arrogant young American man. “Alpha traits” are not really culturally valued here.

gkom1917 · 2021-07-28T13:18:35+00:00

The more I observe the dating market the more I'm assured that the main cause of its problems isn't biology, it's "you deserve better" culture, especially for women, but to some extent for men as well.

You deserve better, chase your dreams, the sky is the limit, never settle for less. The very nerve of cultural production is the story of an underdog becoming a king of the hill. There is a big true love around the corner for every Cinderella. Successful enterprise is waiting for every struggling nerd who makes computers in his garage. Just be yourself. You deserve success.

But reality rarely works that way. It's obvious. Reality is you can't always get what you want, but you should be grateful for what you've got; life is unfair, and progress is possible only within limits. Random OK-ish girls won't get the Prince. A janitor will never be a CEO with 99.999% chance. However, the imperative of "you deserve better" sticks with many people, and some people (especially women) never unlearn it.

Is this entitlement biological? I doubt it. I was lucky to observe people who were raised in Soviet times, and many older women really are content with what they've got. Is the husband an engineer and not a top manager? Good enough. Not ugly but not a 10/10 Chad either? Good enough. OK on bed but not the source of constant excitement? Good enough.

With the only one exception all the stable couples (more than 10 years happily together without much drama) I know are older than 50. Why? Primarily because they value stability over excitement.

And then compare it with younger folks who literally fell an urge for more and more exciting things. The best looking bf/gf. The highest status. The most mind blowing sex. And even those who ask for way less than perfect (like undesirable men, for instance, or women who can't get commitment) are still struggling since people around them still "aim for the stars".

Turns out Buddha was right: the source of suffering is the desire for more.

HappilyMrs · 2021-07-28T07:52:17+00:00

Women, how is premature ejaculation a bad thing?

It just means you're hot. If a man is horny and healthy he can get going again in 5 minutes and he will last much longer the second time anyway.

RiseSignificant9499 · 2021-07-28T11:40:04+00:00

Women, whats your preference for a man-ass and tell me why. Be honest and there isn’t a boring or wrong answer.

MasterTeacher123 · 2021-07-28T11:21:44+00:00

I never liked the electric toothbrushes

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-07-28T11:13:01+00:00

https://i.ibb.co/5sHqC2w/smuxedo.jpg

poppy_blu · 2021-07-28T07:02:15+00:00

Egg lands on the faces of every woman and male feminist who says decent men don't finish last.

passepar2t · 2021-07-28T11:00:23+00:00

Since Sigma is a meme, if you're not predominantly Alpha or Beta, the only other outcome is that you're Omega, right?

Jakes1967 · 2021-07-28T08:23:04+00:00

People on here, keep telling me how online isn't reality and what we see online isn't representative of reality. The first one is obvious, yet I continue to encounter the second one.

A few months ago, a bunch of guys at work were shooting the shit and I was invited into the conversation. Red pills were spilling everywhere and I asked these guys where they got those facts, opinions, viewpoints from. All told me from observing reality and online - mainly tiktok and YouTube.

Recently we had to spend a few days away and ended up at a caravan camping site. Turns out the various teams were all staying there. At night, we did the campfire things and obviously discussions ensued. Almost every topic brought up was red pill orientated, with the young guys questioning the older guys.

Both meeting showed the exact same thing, lack of male guidance and how misogynistic, sons from single mothers really are. It showed myself and my older boss, how toxic masculinity wasn't a problem, until you removed male role models from society.

Sons from many single mothers actively hate women and are extremely happy to use them for sex only. These guys have extremely close friendships with their male friends, uncomfortably close as my older boss noted.

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