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He wants to try it with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:21 PM
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This sounds like one of my exes who ended up being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:13 PM
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My answer was religion and I got downvoted. Never change, PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:50 PM
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I know of one such divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:47 PM
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How do you feel about being a widow? Because that is your best case scenario.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/21 09:44 PM
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Whats a medical reason for being fat? https://www.ohsu.edu/brain-institute/cushing-disease-cushing-syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:16 PM
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If I am in love with him I can overlook most anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:23 PM
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Fuck women over 40 They can still get pregnant. OP was right about men not understanding reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:21 PM
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Wives are obligated to put out under religious law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:26 AM
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Not everyone here is pro choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:22 AM
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Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:40 PM
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I've been very depressed and romantically lonely recently but I'd never just abandon my belief in love and connection like some of these people. Been there. NEVER settle. You will thank yourself later when you find real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:51 PM
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Passive-aggressive mean girls who stab other women in the back over perceived slights. This is toxic af and is overrepresented in my gender. They act all nice to your face, and smear you to your peers. Bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:30 PM
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romantic obsession from girlfriends that I think a lot of RP men think is impossible or a lie. It’s pretty sad. Maybe they have never experienced it? My boyfriend claims it's rare, so perhaps most men never have a woman be crazy in love with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:26 PM
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In particular I think women are capable of just going absolutely nuts with deep romantic love. I’ve experienced it myself Same, I have unbelievably deep feelings for my SO that defy red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:21 PM
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My only red pill belief is that attraction is the MOST important aspect of choosing a partner and you should pick based on who you find hottest and then build a friendship on top of that. Any other selection process leads to dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:18 PM
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Not every woman wants an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:13 AM
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staying busy in their 20s with education, work and casual flings in between? Following the advice of prominent female business “role models” to hook up with all the bad boys while they’re young and only later settle down with a nice provider type? No...in college and career she has a few LTRs and then marries one of them. What country are you in? And for AFBB, that's not real. Women marry men who are the AF and then later he mellows out and then you see a different version of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:19 AM
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The difference between these scenarios is that men give their best, i.e. their commitment and resources, to their future partner, while modern women give their best, i.e. wild sex during their most fertile years, to temporary flings. This is a small percentage of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:39 AM
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Not always on a pedestal, sometimes the hot girlfriend gets treated like crap because he is insecure about her leaving him. So he runs her down and tries to make her feel less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:03 PM
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You work in a restaurant and the waitresses are stressed out? You don't say?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:11 PM
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No, it was an auto ban from commenting on the Men's Rights subreddit. Nothing personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:28 PM
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Oh this is hilarious- I just got auto-banned from FDS. Joke's on them, I as about to delete this account anyway for being 6 months old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:07 PM
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If a comet that big hit the earth, you would have worse problems than gender dynamics.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 06:02 PM
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It's been mostly positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:16 PM
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Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:15 PM
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Who knows? Maybe the correlation here is not being rich, but being a narcissist. We cannot tell form the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:53 PM
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I bet you don't think a slut pretending to be a "good girl" to lock down Mr Right is manipulation though, do you? Why would you assume I like women to be assholes too? It's wrong no matter what your genitals are. Manipulation is wrong, deceit is wrong. Morals, dude. Morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:38 PM
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Correct. No need for manipulation, so why list the first option?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:28 PM
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Or...and hear me out....you don't talk to her at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:24 PM
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Idk his income. THANK YOU. It's like some people have no manners anymore, all nosey and asking about money. Have no idea what my boyfriend makes and it's none of my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:22 PM
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My dude is shorter than me, yet is also the hottest man ever. Like Tom Cruise in the 80s. No idea how much he makes since that is none of my business, good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:18 PM
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Why didn't you get a hotel room instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:16 PM
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Church women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:14 PM
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Do males in their deepest humors want gay sex too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:42 PM
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but it's probably equally rare to find a woman who never fucks on the first date. That just says a lot about you, not most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:40 PM
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Would you rather humans return to free sex like in the Paleolithic era?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:32 PM
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So you just assume the worst about everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:32 PM
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How noble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:25 PM
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We are trying to change your view but you keep doubling down with anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:11 AM
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You have a weird group of humans around you if you believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:09 AM
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The following: Women were sold the lie of a real manTM. A real man takes care of kids that aren't his. A real man pays for everything and doesn't ask for anything in return. A real man sacrifices his happiness, time, and money for women. A real man tolerates abuse, shitty behavior, and unfairness from women. No. This type of thinking only serves to excaberate a woman's bad character and absolve her of responsibility. "I can be as shitty as I want, because a real man will love me regardless." ...…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:08 AM
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The internet has no much vitriol against her, do you really think she got away unscathed? This post is about blaming men and women getting a pass from society. She did not get a pass, society hates her now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:04 AM
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You do realize that people hate Amber Heard now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:52 PM
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Some victims are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:30 PM
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Women do not hate ugly men, they just see them as coworkers and strangers and whatnot. No feelings. We would not be happy if most men were incels since that would include guys we know, and family. It may shock you that people can love others in a non-romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:13 PM
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I do wonder how things might have gone if I had a kid. Would men overlook this and what if the kid was a spazz? Would he make up some excuse about work and bail?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:10 PM
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We have a few of those here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:02 PM
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I make minimum wage and men don't care. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:53 PM
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I can write science fiction too!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:53 PM
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I did very little online dating but lying about height is a real thing, I can attest to seeing this. I am just stunned that anyone would use old photos when they looked better, like I will never figure it out? But man, I got lucky and met my boyfriend on Match. SO lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:05 PM
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I just love that we are having this comment thread. This is the exact sort of thing we used to debate in college and it brings me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:41 PM
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I made 5K in a week lying on my back, God I love myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:38 PM
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I experienced this myself multiple times too. I would like more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:36 PM
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They don't disagree much on the immutable traits. Do you know any women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:24 PM
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Sloppy science. Also no race baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:22 PM
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Not all of them lived alone. Some had spouses who were capable of cleaning, and those men had clean homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:26 PM
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Yow...there is a lot of dumb on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:04 AM
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I hope your comment was sarcastic and you did not really believe her boyfriend should buy her a computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:27 AM
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I can tell you from my time as a home caregiver that a LOT of people live in filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:12 AM
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I did not need surgery but it took forever to heal up. I was limping and on crutches for a couple weeks, even interviewed for a job like this. People under age 60 did not open doors for me or offer to help at all. I clumped around on crutches and sometimes used the stupid knee cart until I could sort of walk, and then the swelling lasted for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:11 AM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:58 AM
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there's a portion of the young generation of women that just doesn't want to have kids over this stuff. Which is fair. Who wants the baby crawling in cat litter and feces?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:55 AM
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When I destroyed my ankle it felt like a small sun burning around the once-thin and dainty ankle. Then it swelled up and turned purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:54 AM
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you can compare them but that doesn't mean they are similar But ironically the men here are the ones complaining about sexual frustration. See how easy it is to compare women and men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:53 AM
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Spartan? Are you even being serious? All the straight men I know live in abysmal filth, trash everywhere, toilet five different colors, collections of anime figurines, how is THAT spartan??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:47 AM
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Comparing the two is ridiculous Why? We compare things all the time here, even to the absurd degree. And anyway, would you rather women not get tingles? Just hate sex altogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:40 AM
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As opposed to men who are all monks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:34 AM
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Did you tear the tendons?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:32 AM
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And no one kills the Jodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:30 AM
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What's a jody?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:07 AM
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The dynamic is totally different after 30, and completely in a mans favor at 35. I must live on a different planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:04 AM
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The wall is a incapacity to attract your real target and do the trade that you really want. Great, I never hit a wall!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:00 AM
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This goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:59 AM
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I am just like that girl. Now the shock has Long since worn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:53 AM
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I refuse to get a boob job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:11 PM
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A I am gonna say 10 as he is the hottest guy I ever had. B Fuck society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:36 PM
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This is not what we want, troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:07 PM
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I was a virgin at 26 and the reason was religion. Why was this not a category?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:56 AM
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That was pure cringe. Poor guy better move a few states away from mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:10 PM
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I am 5'7" and this has never been a problem. Nor do I care if the guy is taller than me, as evidenced by my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:28 PM
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Most men are not this shallow. I am 49 and my boyfriend is very much in love with me- you would do well to ignore the negative nellies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:41 PM
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Yikes to all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:21 PM
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Freckles level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:01 PM
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I want a relationship only if the dynamic fills the need. If he is not the leader, if he is not sexy, if he is blonde or pale, he is not going to help me. I want a specific type, and I got him. Also, daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:14 PM
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Stop blaming men for your sexual decisions. No one is forcing you to have sex. No one is forcing you to run your Ns up. That's on YOU, not us. Uh, I'm not. I did not run my Ns up, I am a religious prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:08 PM
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So you like high N counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:39 PM
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Sorry, edited my typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:01 PM
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My man has protected me, yes. I have a stalker and he made him go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:00 PM
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Compared to my new guy, it feels totally different. I totally get you. In previous LTRs I was not submissive at all, why would I be? Those boys were just not worthy. In my current relationship it feels natural to submit and I have no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:27 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:23 PM
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Honestly I advocate this only for myself. As a societal model I don’t think it’s right. Same. I am getting flack for it here on this thread, but I never said other women should emulate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:19 PM
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OK, I am grateful you are not currently killing us. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:09 PM
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Not gonna lie, submission is a sucker's game. But that's who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:08 PM
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Let this be a lesson to the spoiled brat females in the west. What lesson is that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:03 PM
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I am the religious variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:01 PM
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If I only did what my fiance wanted to do, I would not have done many things I wanted or dreamed about I can do what I want on my own, or with friends. But with him? He gets the final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:00 PM
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I fail to see how submission is not adulting. I pay my own bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:32 PM
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I gave up all bitterness ten years ago, and that was that. Cried it all out and moved on. Sure life is disappointing, but we are still alive to experience the thrills. I fell in love at age 44, long past when Reddit says a woman is allowed to do so. No regrets, and in fact now I am very glad I never married or I never would have met my love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:25 AM
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Have you ever been with a submissive woman? Do you understand the in-person dynamic? I am explaining it to you, because it seems you have not. When I am with him, he takes the lead. We do what he wants, on his schedule. He wanted the vacation or he would not have gone. If he does not want something to happen, I give it up. Which is why we never go to water parks or any other place he hates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:23 AM
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This is wise, accept your fate and no bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:18 AM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:15 AM
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But you get how this contradicts your rant about women being gold diggers? I am happy with a one bedroom apartment, which was very simple. What lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:09 AM
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Yup, submitting right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:51 AM
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I got me a fan somewhere, he/she loves to hate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:48 AM
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Did you just downvote me? Oh mister, now you gonna see the non-submissive side...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:45 AM
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Anxious mess insomniac. Low wage earner Boob men will be disappointed Picky eater Frail Can't tan Scared of driving freeways Extreme introvert Massive nerd Weird friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:38 AM
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But have you met submissive women? Not all are abused, some of us are genuinely pleased to let Mr. Man call the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:29 AM
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I can speak to this, as I am submissive in a healthy LTR. He makes decisions, he drives the car, he leads the relationship. But I chime in and he listens to me because he cares. We just got back from a weekend far away that was my idea, but he decided the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:28 AM
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I lived in a one bedroom apartment. Loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:15 AM
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I used to do home care and you would be surprised how many houses are filthy and hoarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:44 PM
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Same, I wish I had done things like stand up for myself or dump him sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:39 PM
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Yet there were brothels everywhere, loads of unwanted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:37 AM
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Enlighten me, I am near LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:33 AM
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but it doesn't change the fact that these women had sex and children with hotter, less responsible men who were not as good for them when they were younger and wilder. Because that was younger wilder men in those days? When everyone was younger and wilder? And less responsible? You see where I am going with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:32 AM
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He said he was called names on the internet. Not in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:06 PM
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Why does it have to be fair? Let them call you names, we gals get called all sorts of slurs here on PPD. We brush it off and live our lives. If you really want to sleep around, you will have to accept the type of partners that you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:55 PM
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"I just want those thoughts gone. Honestly i dont care about getting girls anymore, i just want to see them as who they are, not as some warped version of themselves. I dont want to be so angry and bitter anymore. " OP, these are your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:37 PM
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We just need a reasonable conclusion. Let's not start pretending any of these debates are reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:28 PM
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This is literally male projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:23 PM
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In my head, I am reading this post in the voice of a Beavis and Butthead character. Probably Principal Vickers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:23 PM
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No, it's terrible advice for anyone. Do not use other people, full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:14 PM
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Napoleon captured Moscow and the place burned. Of course Russians died, the point is that it was not their numbers or their military prowess that defeated Napoleon. It was the weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:09 PM
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Pretty much. I am just killing time until my boyfriend drives up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:57 PM
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No, men lie about their puppy drowning to appear virtuous. It’s common knowledge men lie down when disclosing drown-counts to their partner to appear less murderous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:56 PM
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They could have both been omegas. How does shutting around prove they were alphas?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:55 PM
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I am cracking up at this story, also hoping it's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:49 PM
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See how that proves my point? AF and BB are fake categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:46 PM
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What if...the reason women do not admit it is that they never do it? Like me accusing you of drowning puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:40 PM
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How do you know which dad is the alpha? Is your dad the beta? See how dumb this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:38 PM
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Abusive family or abusive upbringing makes people seek the familiar in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:35 PM
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Napoleon was stopped by the Russian winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:31 PM
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Are you close enough to these people to make these assessments? Maybe she sees her husband as super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:26 PM
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Is this someone you know personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:25 PM
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Do you know those people personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:04 PM
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but the dynamic still exists and influences many women’s sexual behavior. Do you know anyone personally who has done this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:58 PM
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I have personally never seen it happen. Women marry men they find attractive, then might lose attraction later on. The AF and the BB is the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:33 PM
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I have seen more of that scenario than you would believe, so it's not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:09 AM
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I am 49 and never married. Confirmed bachelorette, yet I met the love of my life at 44. Falling in love was the biggest gift I never expected, and it rewired my brain. So glad that I never settled. If I had, I never would have met my love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:54 AM
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Fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:33 PM
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Where do you live that most women are dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:55 PM
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So in your worldview, millions of divorced men are now living in their cars in America? All because they were average?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:46 PM
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Yes, with qualifiers. If you are clingy or need constant physical contact it will be rough, but if you are happy by yourself it's perfect. Also, absence makes the heart grow fonder so you will be more excited when you get together on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:31 AM
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Five years for me, also no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:30 AM
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If you feel compelled to snoop, your relationship already sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:46 PM
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Sounds like nerdy girls are your match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:20 PM
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'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness Man, that's sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:17 PM
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This is very good info.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:13 PM
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Ironically, smoking makes people thin. I see a correlation with the ban on smoking and rise of obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:11 PM
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Agreed. I could say "That's obviously not me, where is the birthmark?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:09 PM
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You really need to ask this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:06 PM
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Sweet Jesus, some of these comments are toxic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:33 AM
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I am a woman, and I still want someone vastly different from me. My boyfriend is completely unlike me, which is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:28 AM
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Hell NO do I want to date someone just like me, that would be gross and narcissistic. I want a yang to my yin, my opposite and complementary partner. Which I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:52 AM
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I have never witnessed AFBB at all, and I am almost 50 years old. Women date and marry the same guy, and he might beta out later on but she is always in love when the wedding happens. If the marriage fizzles, there are a million reasons why this could happen and not because she "branch swings" or cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:30 AM
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This is it exactly. Principles only matter if you apply them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:45 PM
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Just chiming in to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:32 PM
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This is nothing to worry about, you are not marrying 0.65% of the US population, you are pairing up with one person. And "white" is just a dumb preference, as is the height requirement. Gals will do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:14 PM
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Women are far more likely to resist traditionalism Because it puts the woman in a very weak position if things go south.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:30 AM
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They act like the only factor in pairing up should be finding someone of a roughly equal level of hotness. That's not how it works. If you think it is, you're setting yourself up for a divorce. I am agreeing with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:48 PM
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I literally heard this from a guy I was rejecting, he cited a religious leader who claimed that "Any two people can get married and make it work if they just do the right thing" and I thought that was the most desperate hail-mary pass ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:21 PM
4

So when I say something like "Men at my level of success are probably going to cheat on you. OP is SOOO successful, you just wouldn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:45 PM
2

As an art teacher I feel this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:42 PM
5

Neither are moral choices. Using and deceiving a human is wrong, especially when you manipulate them into thinking u love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:38 PM
19

Could it be simply that women are less horny than men? And the New Relationship Energy creates a rare spike in horniness for women? I fail to see any big gotcha here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:44 PM
3

It's actually a YouTube tutorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:33 PM
6

Life is not a romcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 06:25 PM
45

Yes, but New Relationship Energy fades. You can still be wildly in love with someone and not have sex every day, because life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:10 PM
2

Same, I was even surprised at the men who put a spell on me. Never followed a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:23 PM
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Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:21 PM
1

Talk about a low-effort post. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:08 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:23 AM
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Men in the 1700s were very sexist and uninformed about women, since women were seen as a lesser being, men had souls and women had an animus. So basically we are animals and men are fully human. They were not interested in learning truth about women, that was silly, so they wrote conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:38 AM
6

I would not take Rousseau's word on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:37 PM
10

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:22 PM
1

I doubt you have ever been in a ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:11 PM
2

Women definitely under report their n-counts by a lot. Just like men underreport their homosexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:00 AM
1

...wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:51 PM
4

He is going to get into lots of fights with her and far more stress then if he just remained single. I am shaking my head. You know some shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:46 PM
2

I make his life SO much better than it was before. Like a massive upgrade in happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:24 PM
0

Nasty men, why won’t they just do what we say plus pay for things. Where did I ever indicate this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:56 PM
0

Ironic coming from a woman. Because we give so much already?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:05 AM
4

Then we are not transactional. If I end up in the hospital as a burn victim, will he leave me because I am no longer a 9? If he is paralyzed in a car accident, will I leave him because he can no longer fuck? Love goes beyond Gimmee Gimmee.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:33 AM
0

Am I the only person who thinks dating apps are a good thing? Why are people here mad about software that helps couples form? I met my boyfriend on Match, what's so terrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:16 PM
3

Red Pill does not care about women's happiness, only men's. That should tell you everything about their "facts"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:40 PM
30

Since my biggest requirement for a relationship is actually being in love with someone who is actually in love with me, this is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:54 PM
1

Trust me, the Wall is a revenge fantasy to punish women for whatever perceived sins. I am almost 50 and have no deficiency of men being attracted to me, and my coworkers are even older and have no problem either. One is over 60 and she had a stalker herself not long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:04 PM
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That might explain his anger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 01:16 AM
3

No one should ever, ever couple up with someone they do not like. Nothing good comes of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:02 PM
6

But your post about old women (men too?) in nursing homes contradicts that. I worked with the elderly, and let me tell you: there are happy long marriages that make you smile, two old people who love each other and are obviously friends. They are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:01 PM
5

They are just signaling that they are not gold diggers. It's a dumb brag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:01 PM
4

I don't see a problem here. Instead of staying in a miserable relationship, people get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:00 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:33 PM
1

Most gals my age are divorced or married. The divorced ones get married again, or they give up on men altogether. And who are the men they pick? Divorced men. That's who you meet in middle age, and that's normal. Settling for safer options is not a thing, since divorced people are statistically more likely to divorce again, and the money is all going to alimony and child support. So what is going on here? Love. People fall in actual love, with actual attraction. Yes, even at my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:21 PM
1

but older women really seem to sometimes settle for a safer options As an older woman, this is not what I see happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:09 PM
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I've put on over 110,000 miles since I bought it. Those were some very unsexy miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:25 PM
1

This is one of the only times I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:17 PM
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I'm driving a 2006 Prius I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:51 PM
7

I don't see this happening. No one raises their kids on "red Pill" beliefs yet weirdly, their kids get married and/or breed. New children everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:53 PM
14

Back in the 99-2000 era I also wore a kitty collar. It was just a fashion choice, lots of people did this. Big whoop, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:03 PM
1

Yes. I have been told in job interviews that I would not get hired because I might decide to get pregnant and quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:57 PM
6

"hoes get mad" Where? I never see this in response to settling discussions. If anything the women here hate the idea of settling, why would they get mad at men not settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:27 PM
1

It's like when Julia Roberts married that ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:59 PM
8

Almost all the conservative women I know are hard-core Christians who wish to stop working once they get married. And they defo want kids. You should be thankful! They will be your perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:18 PM
8

Agreed, I wonder if she was just putting on a brave face for her date until she could safely flee.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:01 PM
2

Who who who?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:39 PM
1

My preferences never changed, I like what I like. Who are these people who vacillate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:37 PM
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Look at OP's comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:45 PM
1

We are headed to drop off the population in a few years, but not because men and women just cannot get along. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2019/11/16/opinion/sunday/capitalism-children.html
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:33 PM
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Mental issues stem from loneliness/isolation, Um, what? Mental illness has many causes, from genetics to child abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:27 PM
2

Your citation to religion is a product of your own distorted preconceived notions of Judaism and Christianity, not actual reality. Um, how is it preconceived when I have been going to church my entire life? I have LITERALLY been told over and over that women are inferior to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:22 PM
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when have men EVER been told they're better because they're men Thousands of years of Judeo Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:17 PM
1

No, that was not my next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:55 PM
1

BTW how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:16 PM
1

Kind of a huge "exception" if it is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:15 PM
3

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:13 PM
1

But they are together, no? And there are other middle aged men who fall inlove with their female peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:07 PM
1

You wold be surprised. Keanu Reeves did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:36 PM
2

I sure was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:43 AM
2

Sweet Jesus, that's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:14 PM
1

Are you sure about that Tex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:59 PM
0

homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:53 PM
1

It depends on the individual, and my advice would be based on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:40 PM
2

I can only surmise, but what was she thinking? "If I lean against the wall and don't touch anything, I might not catch flesh eating bacteria."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:39 PM
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I know we are talking about hypothetical internet people and not anyone we know, but I have a hard time picturing a woman walking into a filthy hoarder's apartment and saying "this is fine."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:37 PM
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I have dated 10 years older and 10 years younger. It's not the gap itself but the stage of life that matters. Or do you think a 22 year old should date a 12 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:28 PM
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12 yr olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:27 PM
2

That goes both ways. If she dumps his ass for being a slob, that is also a consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:16 PM
2

This is not how women think of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:04 PM
2

Today I did not see any tigers in my neighborhood. Notice how carefully I put put the no-tiger signs on the lawn? And no tigers showed up! Cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:03 PM
2

It's bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:01 PM
1

The reason it it relevant is that most men never care about women's issues of safety until they have daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:36 PM
1

Are you a dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:27 PM
0

usually an older person will see through the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:36 PM
0

Very true. But certain dynamics predict certain behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:19 AM
2

I guess I am one of the women who never cared about height, but my coworkers and friends sure did. They wanted a "big man" and got all excited at the idea, so I am assuming it was code for "big penis" but I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:41 AM
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Men are not bitter middle aged women with an agenda to keep the young girls in their lane. When we tell people that age gaps are bad because the power imbalance can lead to abuse, it's not just women saying this. Dads vehemently want to protect their daughters from older men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:38 AM
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I have no idea what dad’s want. I can tell you firsthand my dad would have killed any man this much older who tried to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:32 AM
7

So let me ask you this: do dads want their 20 year old daughters dating men closer to dad's age?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:04 AM
7

Wow, didn’t know that existed in the western world anymore. America is still religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:02 AM
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because a 30 year old man can manipulate the SHIT out of a 20 year old girl. And likewise a cougar can have a teenage guy wrapped around her little finger. It's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:28 AM
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She was raised conservative Christian, like me. We are taught from a young age the men are superior and natural leaders and that we should accept their superiority and submit. Then you get your first job and it DESTROYS the myth of god-men. There is a phase (teenagers at first job after all) when you see men as the other team and it's before you develop empathy for them. That comes later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:25 AM
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Age gaps are fine if you are both the same stage of life. I am 49 and my boyfriend is 58, so we have a huge gap...but so what? We are both middle aged so it's not a power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:15 AM
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Unimportant. I absolutely do not care if anyone else is attracted to my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:13 AM
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How solipsistic of you. Because I answered a question you asked? Next we will change the definition of "solipsism" to mean "she said something I do not like."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:24 AM
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Why yes I do. Get off the internet. All your data is FDS and MGTOW and RP internet sites, that's it. Memes. Trolls making jokes about AWALT. Youtubers who GET PAID to be controversial and edgy. Do you really think these RP gurus are anything like their audience? Do you think that FDS represents most real girls out there? Are you honestly so saturated with the internet edge lords that you cannot see most people get married and have kids because they want to? That love is the strongest bond and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:41 AM
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California.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:32 PM
2

A slender woman won't pair off with a slender man if he is short, ugly in the face, not a top earner etc. Wow, shallow much? Plenty of thin pretty girls fall in love with men who are poor, short, or plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:23 PM
3

This should be top comment, all solid advice to help out a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:52 PM
7

This is horrible advice, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:51 PM
3

I should have put this one Higher but shred away your masculine energy, Only when around the guy you like. Not at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:49 PM
3

Lots and lots of staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:26 PM
1

ADHD, sleep disturbances, and neurosis are not normal and can be eliminated through a healthy diet. Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:24 PM
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Another guy just was utterly depressed and had issues with self-esteem so deep, that even when a girl asked him out, he decided that she was just being nice. I knew a few guys like this. they ended up forever alone rather than accept that women were interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:23 PM
5

This is the best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:31 PM
5

But if you want to date women, these are going to be your choices. Really? Coworkers or crazies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:23 PM
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I will disagree with your assertion that All women find the same men attractive, as this is a common mistake men make. Women all have different types they like, and so the percentage of attractive men is much broader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:22 PM
1

I got on Match and was firehosed with attention from divorced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:33 AM
1

I am not sure what quantifies a "good guy" but I never had problems attracting men with jobs and decent ethics. I also attracted the losers, not gonna lie. Really did not mean to brag here, but meeting men has also been super simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:31 AM
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The best way to vet is not giving up the goods until he proves himself loyal. That way if he is a player he will take off before she gets hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:43 PM
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You are both right about something: most men are not shitty to women, true. And hot men treat their partners the same as an ugly man would, true. Her conclusion is wrong because most men are not shitty, which was half her premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:39 PM
1

and/or
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:37 PM
3

The older you get the less single and/or childless people there ar Until the 30s when a flood of divorces happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:03 PM
7

I am 49 and I met the love of my live at age 44. Maybe this is not normative but I had no problems meeting men at any point since age 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:03 PM
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WHo is doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:42 PM
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women vast majority of the time prefer light eyes, because they ressemble an angel, whereas dark eyes are ugly for them, because they reflect insidious personality. Uh, no...I like my men dark and exotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:40 PM
2

Bullshit. My boyfriend is the hottest guy I have ever dated, and he is Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:51 PM
4

I personally know some single, volcel men, and I was one myself at one time. Same, I know Volcel men who are perfectly happy as bachelors. Let people pick their own adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:25 PM
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I know women like this and in some cases their partners were violent abusers, so they decided to be forever single rather than end up with another wife beater. And no, I am not joking. People who grow up in abusive families often gravitate to abusers who remind them of family. It's not rational or even conscious but they know it will happen again so they abstain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:03 PM
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but I find it hard to understand why people believe in 'love', or that it's really important to be intensely attracted in a head-over-heels way to your partner, while also wanting commitment and somehow expecting this to last, or at least that this feeling will be a good basis for a long-term relationship. Because there is no other reason to even be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:39 PM
5

I already dated that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:35 PM
2

So... sexual communism. Like a dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:25 AM
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working a physically demanding job, Already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:21 AM
2

Disagree, my boyfriend IS the hottest guy I ever dated and I have been dating since the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:37 PM
4

I imagine her playing dead and maybe even crying. What a fun time!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:57 PM
3

The law is that in order to get a restraining order, you have to prove that the stalker made threats or showed up to your house or work. No jail time for this, just an order to stay x yards away. That is not jail time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:48 PM
2

No, women are less dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:56 PM
3

I would never settle for anyone, yuck, and if I found out my man had settled for me I would end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:49 AM
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You do not date men. You do not see men behind closed doors or from a female experience. I have had three stalkers, I have had to get a restraining order, I had a man try to kill me because I broke up with him, and I dated more than one man who thought it was proper to hit women. I am not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:48 AM
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If you lump stalkers and abusers together, easily 25% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:29 AM
1

get testosterone replacement therapy for women and yea the sex drive comes back for most. Also, cancer!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:29 AM
10

Do you realize how hard it is to get a stalker thrown in jail??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:54 AM
3

Why should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:47 AM
3

Why settle and/or be settled for? Exactly, what's the point? Go find real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:46 AM
4

At least he's consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:52 AM
8

Lots of men change their minds about women's issues when they have daughters. You will want to keep her safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:26 AM
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I have no idea the percentage, but men here are denying that their pals and brothers could be creepy or abusive to women simply because they never witness it. Why would they? Are you standing outside the home when he yells at her and the kids hide in fear? Also, what ransoms do to act creepy is something straight men rarely see. Ask your female relatives and get the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:19 AM
6

I see you do not have daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:15 AM
2

I would not date a guy that looked average. I don't care what his exes looked like, I want a hot man and he is not it. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:10 AM
9

Exactly, all his exes are just fictional characters on a TV show to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:05 AM
3

Doesn't change my point- hormones and not the presence of children determine the grumpiness of women in that age bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:23 PM
8

Same here! We must be very lucky indeed. Or that commenter is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:59 PM
3

I don't see any difference between older mom and older childfree women. Once they hit menopause the hormones change and they have mood swings. You might be misinterpreting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:33 PM
4

I have been saying this all along, but does if have to be romantic relationships or do close friendships count?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:42 PM
2

I have never seen this, but my guess is they were in love when they married and then he just lost his edge. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:36 PM
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Prostitutes are traditional and they get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:44 PM
3

Good points! I guess the trad advice I received from these other women is not safe advice. Weird that I never even considered that angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:38 PM
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Essentially, single nice women don't exist. For a few weeks or months maybe, but you are right they are quickly LTRed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:40 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:41 PM
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Is it really though? The first date she lets you pay = she sits back and lets you do everything for 50 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:35 PM
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::shrug:: Date different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:33 PM
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OK, so she pays for the date. Are you guys gonna be happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:21 PM
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Oh come on, the men here do NOT see women as equals. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:14 PM
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Exactly, why does anyone get mad over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:09 PM
4

In fact, this happened more than once. Even when I began dating my boyfriend I had a female coworker tell me the SAME THING- to make him drive out here and pick me up, never drive to his house. What century is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:00 PM
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The people who advocate for men paying the tab on dates never mention the wage gap, they mention manners and traditional expectations. I remember once I was driving to a guy's house to meet him for a date and my female coworker told me that was the wrong thing, you should make him come here and pic you up. It had nothing to do with wage gap, it was old fashioned prissy rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:58 PM
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The problem, then, is a guy feeling like they owe a single solitary fuck to societal expectations. That is the most damning thing for a man in current year. Seems extreme, no one is putting you up against the wall for going against society's prissy rules. But I think women have a lot of stupid societal rules too, despite modernity, and we just suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:59 PM
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But the question remains: why does it bother men either way? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:54 PM
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modernity it is. OK, but he freely paid for the first few dates. Society was not there shaking a finger in his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:51 PM
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Traditionally men got all the benefits of marriage, nowadays Reddit is full of both sexes complaining that marriage is a raw deal just for them. I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:50 PM
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Busy or not, he will get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:49 PM
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OK, real talk: my boyfriend and I pay equally because we love each other and want the other person to be happy. But on the first few dates he paid because he asked me out. It looked very gentlemanly and I liked it. Did he think he was bribing me? Of course not. He wanted me there, I wanted to be there, we liked each other. edit: words
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:47 PM
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I still cannot figure out why anyone cares. It's forty bucks, is that really going to break u?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:41 PM
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I don't understand, why would this be a lie? Just now I had to explain to my harem of models that they cannot all fit onto my private jet, so someone has to stay home and feed the white tiger cub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:15 AM
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There is no other reason why, other than to potentially make his partner jealous on purpose. When women do it, its not for the same reason. They're doing it to see their partner's reaction because that info tells her the state of their relationship. If he's fine, then she's reassured that she picked someone with confidence and value. If he's not fine, then she becomes wary and uncertain. That is the rationale behind the process. Men don't do this or think like this, so trying to compare men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:11 AM
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A lot of "single by choice" women are saying just that though: that they wouldn't MIND a relationship, but ONLY if he makes her life better in almost every measurable life satisfaction metric Why would you do otherwise? If you are happy single, why go out and get the hassle of a relationship that makes your life worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:24 PM
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You paint women as being insecure and manipulative and thus, it's a shit test. But when men do the EXACT THING it's just him being aloof or insensitive. See how self-serving this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:22 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:09 PM
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I shitested the hell out of my wife when we were dating, and all I got back was total devotion and loyalty and still all I have from her 29 years later. More details please. Was this insults and manipulation or pretending you forgot your wallet at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:13 PM
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Not once have i gotten with a woman and not gotten some sort of shit test e.g. pointing out how another guy is hot. So is the reverse true? If a girl with a boyfriend has to listen to him describe how hot other women are its a shit test?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:12 PM
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Nothing discussed here is aimed at solving the fundamental problem that you named. Oh we just had that thread a few days ago- how to solve the demographic winter and make more women breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:10 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:08 PM
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This should be top comment. I do not know many 20 year old men who have their own apartment or nice furniture, so yeah there is a mattress on the floor unless they live with mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:02 PM
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You cannot win with these guys and they will call you all sorts of names just for living your life. They are angry at women and they take it out on the women who comment here regardless of what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:59 PM
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With the invention of birth control, they no longer have to seek sexual partners for pair bonding. The only imperative they have for sex now is pleasure, which is correlated with (you guessed it) looks. Buncha wild claims right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:56 PM
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That is genuinely sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:32 PM
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More than a decade later when she found out I was divorced she showed up at my office as a "surprise". My office is in California -- she lives in Pennsylvania. I want to hear more about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:00 PM
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You seem to have a hard time with logic and use a lot of fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:56 PM
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Statistically most of you will be cat ladies after just the age of 35. Look up Morgan Stanley’s study. Are you a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:26 PM
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They will not accept accountability for anything and if something goes against their perfect fairytale narrative they’ll resort to attacking you if need be. In public you need to avoid these women as much as possible. Notice who is being irrational here. Hint: it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:15 PM
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I never heard positive affirmations growing up, even the fashion magazines were full of What Are You Doing Wrong. All girls ever heard was how they needed to Improve, whether it was fashion or making more friends or having fewer zits. Then as an adult it continues: how to be THINNER and make more money and Ten Things You Need To Stop Doing and all those lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:14 PM
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How long did you last?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:28 AM
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being a submissive female as a personality trait also signals to abusive men, and you are more likely to be approached by and thus end up with men who are going to be abusers. This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:16 AM
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I taught art to all the kids at a private Christian school, K-12. It was very stressful and low-paying and I never want to do that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:14 AM
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I had to quit classroom teaching because I was just constitutionally not cut out for it. Those kids mogged me. Same, they ate me alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:04 AM
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Also picture the beach bathrooms. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:02 AM
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Most are snatched up early. Generally men love submissiveness to a degree, but control freaks want the Real Deal and they will lock down a woman ASAP. Not saying you are a control freak, bur those guys are Motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:56 AM
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It sucks. Ask around- submissive people lose in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:51 AM
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Yeah, but what about women who are NOT role playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:49 AM
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They would rather talk about philosophy with their male friends who have " interesting " hobbies and jerk off to porn or fantasize about sex robots. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:48 AM
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Also, good luck teaching a classroom full of kids if you are submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:46 AM
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Dude, I am a healthy weight so knock off the hyperbole. I am talking about Life and most people fatten up unless Meth finds them. Or cigarettes. Or heroin. Or cancer. You feel me? A healthy body looks different at 20 than at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:44 AM
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I am a submissive person by nature and it is a complete Sucker's Game in life. I am intimidated by jobs and thus I under-achieve. I have little confidence and no grit. I never stand up to my boss. I get nearly killed in traffic so I stopped driving the freeways. Lack of masculine traits such as confidence and drive and aggression have held me back in life. But on the plus side I cry easily /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:41 AM
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Wrong. Not everything is about pussy and scoring, young lad. People care about their loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:29 AM
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So when he commits suicide or they just never find his body we are supposed to tell his mom "Oh Well." If he takes a gun to work and shoots people we are supposed to shrug. Mental illness affects more than just the person with the illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:27 AM
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I know people of bother genders who are mentally ill, and a few of them are on disability for it. More understanding it needed because bosses will fire these people and then the next boss will fire them too. Same with the rest of their lives- a mess if they do not get help. And what we need to discuss is not just pity and "there there now" words but the reality of mentally ill people and the dangers of ignoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:23 AM
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Eh, I think awareness helps de-stigmatize. If someone is suffering PTSD it's better if everyone cuts them some slack instead of yelling at them to snap out of it. If someone has schizophrenia it's better to medicate the hell out of them rather than send them to a priest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:17 AM
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You are confusing me with someone else. There was no AFBB because there was no need. I am attracted to a guy regardless of medication, and I will still be attracted to him after I get on the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:15 AM
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I have been on and off the pill for years. There was no difference. I still fell in love with "alpha" men. Edit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:05 AM
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t’ll play out in your day to day interactions as well Like at work or school? At the bus station?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:02 AM
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Surprisingly this here is the best comment. Women tend toward neuroticism more than men, and more men are alcoholics. Upbringing or genetics, either way it usually manifests in teens or early twenties and has nothing to do with "dating" or whatever. Mental health is something we need to discuss MORE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:59 AM
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Yeah, I cannot picture this either. A fake "alpha" just looks like a try hard. She would not be scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:38 AM
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It's just you. American men are just as fat as the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:31 AM
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any guy who treats her badly will get beaten up. Only if it happens in front of other people. Women who are abused in private just suffer in silence. Hyperfeminine women will blame themselves and try to "be better" when abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:26 PM
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Can confirm. But that hyperfeminity comes with a price, and the men drawn to it are often shitty human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:12 PM
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"Why all the hate for MLMs? I owe a ton of my happiness to MLMs, and I understand how sales REALLY works. My BF wouldn't want me any other way, I'm killing it in my down line! All the things that are attractive to buyers, so why would people not want sellers to be like this? Even if you have written off boss babes, driven knowledgeable women are needed in the world, why would you shun that?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:10 PM
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This is the biggest Duh the OP should have realized before posting. Everyone pretty much fattens up over time. Except smokers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:02 PM
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many many male posters on here who whine about wanting tradwives while not offering any tradhusband benefits Which is why they clamor for a Pick me girlfriend that they can treat like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:54 PM
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I think OP is very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:41 PM
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Lessee, when I was 20 I weighed 100 pounds. But decades! And life! many years later I weigh 150 pounds, so I gained 50% of my body weight in that time. And not even married! OP must be shocked that people get fatter as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:36 PM
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FIX YOUR GODDAMN DIET. STOP EATING SALADS AND GLUTEN. EAT RICH, HIGH-FAT ANIMAL PRODUCTS. This will balance all your hormones and make you feel happy for no reason. And very, very horny. wink wink What...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:27 PM
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unless something else alters the equation. Right, which will happen when Global Warming makes the planet too hot for most crops to grow properly and there is mass starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:26 PM
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As usual, you are the most sensible commenter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:16 PM
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You're just mad that we don't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:14 PM
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The answer is Gilead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:11 PM
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The house is clean enough. Buddy, I have seen enough bachelor pads to know what men consider "clean enough" and I refuse to sit on that toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:08 PM
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What would you prefer people over thirty do? Join a convent?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:58 AM
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Women already now what men say, "You don't need makeup!" But what they really mean is "No heavy makeup." Men want women to cover blemishes and redness and dark pigmentation and freckles and all the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:56 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:49 AM
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Because he looks awesome in Dragon Ball Z cosplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:49 AM
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She just married again in March. I tried to warn the man but he thought that she was misunderstood and I was just a hater. I know a woman exactly like this. And yeah, we warned the guy. Did not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:07 PM
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I know about three women who had this happen, but it serves as a warning to us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:00 PM
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Plane Jane cannot just exist and expect "the best guys" at any point in life. She has to stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:55 PM
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You do know men can lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:54 PM
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They might even be Low N Count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:49 PM
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So an average gal just has to be NICE? That's it? She gets the princess life? Wow, you should write a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:35 PM
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I did this. This was me trying to "save" a sad lonely artist who needed love. I really did believe that if he just had a good woman to show him love, he would be grateful and sweet. WRONG. He was insane in the membrane and it backfired.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:34 PM
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He now declares me as an enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:31 PM
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Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:28 PM
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This is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:27 PM
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This is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:20 PM
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This was me. It blew up in my face, and he went from being a sad mopey incel to a crazy angry incel who yelled at me that I was lying and manipulating him. I really did believe that my love and kindness would save him, WOO BOY was I wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:18 PM
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How will you manage to get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:12 PM
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How will you find that diamond in the rough?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:12 PM
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How would you know they are shitty just after meeting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:10 PM
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What if you are a Plain Jane?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:09 PM
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Join a nerd fandom and date nerd girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:02 PM
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Do you have any friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:18 PM
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told by people who have no idea what testosterone is like everyone has testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:17 PM
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Men can't do that. Just off the top, I can think of two men on permanent disability who are living off the taxes of you and me. Men have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:05 PM
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When a woman really falls for someone, everyone else (including past partners in her mind) becomes asexual to her. There's no "comparison" at all. This is completely true and the men here are calling you a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah, duh. Why be with someone incompatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:34 PM
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I wonder how many of these mismatched couples are just one of the two aging poorly Most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:10 AM
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You lost the argument. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:44 PM
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--sinks into depression or becomes anxious Wouldn't you welcome the freedom to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:00 PM
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Why not get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:50 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:52 PM
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Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:46 PM
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You can go to church and not be called a fornicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:07 PM
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Cheats on her. Ignores her. Spends all his time somewhere else. Makes excuses. The way you would treat anyone you despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:05 PM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:02 PM
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It is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:11 AM
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There have been some comments denigrating Indians, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:16 PM
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My buddy lived in the middle east for years, and he was a single man in a country full of families. He was kicked out of his apartment for being a single man, no other crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:14 PM
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My buddy actually knows Roosh and hung out with him in RL and said Roosh is sincere in his conversion, and this was surprising to me. I also thought he was just a grifter who said whatever made him money, and that most of his sex stories were made up. Now that he is a Christian and seems to have embraced Jesus, I am horrified at his continued hatred of Jews and other groups of people. As to the question of him being forgiven by society, dream on. No one will ever clear his name on Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:42 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:51 PM
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Not saying you are wrong, I just don't know much about Catholics so I talk about Protestants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:49 PM
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Dude, what. It is 90 today in southern California.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:40 PM
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Yep. I can attest to all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:28 PM
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Not just the Bible Belt, most of America is still religious. I am in California and churches are EVERYWHERE and well attended every Sunday. America was founded by religious fanatics and that is why we are so different from Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:24 PM
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now that religion is all but extinct Where in the U.S. is this true??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:22 PM
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We have the Protestant Work Ethic which (wrongly) teaches that only lazy people are poor, so if someone is struggling they must deserve it. So the greatest sin in America is poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:20 PM
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You really do make assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:05 PM
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"I am 21, I've never had a boyfriend." Tru, she could have been raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:08 PM
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Did you read her post or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:01 PM
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She's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:48 PM
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You know the answer. I was "giving him a chance" and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:47 PM
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But she is low n count! You should be drooling!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:03 AM
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It's happened where the women here answer honestly and the angry men accuse us of "gaslighting" them. Huh? All we did was respond with our experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:01 AM
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49 and 58
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:49 PM
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She also had breast implants and other surgeries on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:25 PM
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My SO is balding and I do. not. care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:24 PM
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Yeah, that's everyday on PPD- women get asked their opinions and experiences and they answer, only to be accused of lying. Why lie? I am anonymous and no one is going to send me money for chatting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:23 PM
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men should have the ability to talk about and be open about their n-count preference Where? At Starbucks? At work? At the grocery store?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:35 PM
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The person being shamed doesn't have control over being shamed UH YES YOU DO. Stop talking about wanting a "low n count woman" and people will have no idea. Just live your life and get that college freshman girlfriend, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:33 PM
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OK, so don't be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:31 PM
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Apparently you are. Am I what? Everyone knows men want virgins, everyone knows most women are low n count. We also know men de-virginize those girls and then act shocked Pickachu that there are not more virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:30 PM
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Yes a reality where mens preference for young slim virgins is common knowledge. And? Is anyone shocked here? Plenty of those girls in church youth groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:23 PM
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PPD posters live in some alternate reality. So much that I wonder if they are making things up... Most women are low n count. You should be fine, and never need to bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:17 PM
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Great, but eventually you need to discuss this with a woman and please do not use stupid terminology like "N count" or "cock carousel" because chances are she is a normal gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:08 PM
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Do you go to church? Or a mosque? Anywhere that religious prudes congregate? I sure do, and they are full of people who are sympathetic to virginity and chastity. They are super happy about young people NOT having sex. They also expect virgin brides and grooms. There, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:56 PM
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Where did I say any of that? People should not settle for someone they do not love. It's simple, and it's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:50 PM
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But you do see how weird this sort of talk is among the normies? No one talks this way in RL, and if you did people would think you are part of a niche fandom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:49 PM
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What does any of this have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:47 PM
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Please use the term "low N Count Women" when talking with your mom. Please, just do it and report back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:14 PM
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You really think people are going to understand "Low N Count Women" in the general populous? They will just say "virgin" and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:08 PM
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Unless you are religious and hang out with other religious folks, no one is going to be sympathetic to your virgin fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:00 PM
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settling is mediocre and only leads to misery and resentment for both settlor and settlee Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:57 PM
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Do you want them to settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:50 PM
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More adults are living at home with parents, thanks to the economy. Thus less sex is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:49 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:30 PM
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I know one promiscuous woman and the rest are not. Common denominator among the prudes? Religious affiliation. But even among the secular women they just weren't all that crazy about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:28 PM
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If he look like he could be related to me. This actually happened with someone I met on Match- we went out twice and I could not be attracted to him because he looked like a close relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:52 PM
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Sounds like a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:21 AM
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I don't think there's any danger of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:19 AM
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So how is it your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:08 AM
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Have you seen Josh Duggar lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:57 AM
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So don't get anyone pregnant. Condoms exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:55 AM
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I can lie too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:34 PM
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I'm gonna have to agree with Book of Seil here, people have expanded the definition of "sex" to be anything and everything. I listen to some religious YouTubers and they think French kissing is the same as fornication. Not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:27 PM
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He's rude to his fiancee and makes stupid comments when she is pregnant and acts like he did nothing wrong. When she explains his error he does not seem ashamed. This kind of thing happens a lot on the show, and is not reflective of actual autism. He's just a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:30 PM
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Unrealistic how much crap the guy gets away with. He downright rude to everyone and he gets a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:28 PM
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Sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:40 PM
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can you do anything, wamen? what can you do apart from pressing the buttons, tell me? I can see logical fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:39 AM
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Lower testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:52 AM
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Entrepreneurs in Cars Oh that guy. I used to follow his channel but he was always so angry. Wonder why his wife left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:13 AM
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40 year old women are unattractive, sad and despairing. Except the they aren't. Honestly I know more about this topic than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:33 PM
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sorry you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:32 PM
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Very few 40 + year old women are even having kids. 100,000 per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:31 PM
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No one said it was 100% of 40 year olds Right, where did I say it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:19 PM
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I have so many old account names...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:16 PM
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But don't you see how this gives people hope? Life is not all gloom and doom after age 40 or whatever. People still Love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:15 PM
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::shrug:: I did my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:11 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/15/parenting/pregnancy/baby-after-40.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:11 PM
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My SO is Indian and I know all about the cultural difference. Attraction does not care about such details...if you like someone enough you find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:09 PM
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What can I tell you, I know several women who had kids in their forties. Several.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:04 PM
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And yet...IVF exists. Clinics exist. Women who want kids will find a way. Side note: I am 49 and my doctor warned me I can still get knocked up so I better get birth control. Yes. At my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:51 PM
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I am not FDS and my gal pals would look down HARD on gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:50 PM
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men in their 40s don't want to commit to women in their 40s. Oh hell yes they do. I should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:49 PM
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Is that by choice or because of parental pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:48 PM
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Befuddles the mind when some Indian guy comes on here and complains that being Indian is a disadvantage. The skin tone, face structure, body hair is chefs kiss Hear hear! I am so glad someone else here has such good taste!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:47 PM
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I cannot argue against this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:46 PM
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Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:45 PM
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Um, I hate to be the one to inform you that women can have kids after age 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:44 PM
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Pretend to be broke as a joke. Constantly dress poor. Take her out in a beat up Honda Accord. Dates at Del taco.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:44 PM
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Single men in their 40’s are usually divorced with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:40 PM
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No, trust me. I am this demographic and I see these 40+ women and that is not the reason they are single. Many are divorced or closeted lesbians or just low self esteem, but "too late to have kids" will never stop a 40 year old woman who wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:35 PM
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I knew single women (usually divorced) in their forties who said they were done with men because "all the good ones are taken" and they were just tired of the whole thing. I never felt that way and I am happily coupled up with a guy I met at age 44, but many women seem worn out from crappy relationships. My best friend was "done with men" after her divorce but she eventually came around and is married again. It depends on the woman. But men are lonelier and have fewer friends so they want someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:31 PM
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Filters out players.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:22 PM
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a distinguishing feature to FDS, which would be good for this essay, is that they tell women to delay having sex. Also a good strategy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:17 PM
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So did you enjoy the running?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:46 PM
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I fell in mad passionate love at age 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:45 PM
2

But imagine a man who looks like Harvey Weinstein and oh gosh, he is rich. So very rich. Would you date someone that ugly just to get in on the money??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:40 PM
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Yep. I am sorry your friends were so crappy that they pressured you into this mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:37 PM
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Women like you are actively selecting rapists And you know her so well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:34 PM
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romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:20 PM
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There is literally no other reason to be in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:38 AM
3

Whatever happened to Beach Red Wine or BearSaint or whatshisname? The Mormon guy with the young anorexic wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:46 PM
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Yep, this is what I remember in college too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:07 PM
3

In the eyes of the alpha You mean in my boyfriend's eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:49 PM
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You know this because you date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:49 PM
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Uh, no. Beta men will not treat you any better than an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:35 PM
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I fully admit that I am a Pick Me to my boyfriend, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:34 PM
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You wanted equality? Well lets put the cards on the table and fucking get equality. How would that look?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:32 PM
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and other pieces of media that were created often without women's involvement at all. Uh, I hate to break it to you...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:22 AM
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I don't care as long as he looks normal. FWIW my boyfriend is shorter than I am and it took me well over a year to even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:21 AM
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Makes sense. He claims he is the richest Richie Rich he knows, and women would be lucky to have him. So...a third world nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:19 AM
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Face, obviously. I don't care if he's my height or even shorter. Prince was 5'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:17 AM
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Facts. I dated a guy for six months when I was 16 just so I could be popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:09 AM
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I live in Florida I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:29 AM
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It's that unprovoked nonchalant viciousness that really terrifies me with some chicks here. When its not premeditated on their part, and just slips through, you realize that's how they really think, and that shit is depressing as fuck. But that's ....you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:12 PM
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A sexy pet. Is this a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:09 PM
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What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:04 PM
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LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:03 PM
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a lot of people sporting ankle monitors, Like house arrest ankle monitors?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:43 PM
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Is this really a problem for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:39 PM
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So let me get this straight. You cheated on your GF multiple time with lots of people and yet you think she left you for another guy because of hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:35 AM
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"artist" is a cliche for someone who has a lot of sex. Speaking as an artist who knows a LOT of artists, its the opposite of this cliche. Artists are loners and nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:16 AM
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I am learning so much. But seriously, you make six figures so is that normal for someone of your income?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:43 PM
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. But my retirement plans are worth a couple hundred thousand dollars. I'm confused. Is this considered a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:22 PM
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Holy crap! Someone tell my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:56 AM
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This is all good info, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:13 PM
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They might be actresses, ya know. Or shills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:08 PM
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You are right, that is a sad sub full of neurotic people who desperately need a therapist to sort them out. But will they? Get help? Or should we blame "society" again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:27 AM
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Few ever want to take any risks! For women, dating is the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:46 AM
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I guess I have to go to "work" at my "job" in an hour, but ya know. It isn't real or anything and I must have imagined it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:17 PM
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This is exactly how it works in Saudi Arabia. Gay sex on the down low, then marry a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:37 PM
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This is all correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:14 PM
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As an analogy it is rather cute as the image of penis and vagina sorta looks like a key and a lock. But beyond that it makes no sense- a lock laying on the ground has no value, it has to be locking something else which DOES have value. Like a storage container. And a key that has NOT been ground down to fit a certain lock which happens to guard something of high value is also useless. It's just a key that ends up in the trash. Also what value is a lock that keeps out ALL keys and lets no one in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:10 PM
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For once I agree with you, and I am rather trad myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:04 PM
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Narayan is a Hindu name. I assume he is Indian. What does this have to do with western countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:58 PM
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If this is really eating you up inside, get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:58 AM
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How oh how does he suffer us mere mortals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:43 AM
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"I subscribe to/align with the "selfless" idea of love" Never in all your years on PPD have you come across as altruistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:42 AM
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I am guessing you are not religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:32 AM
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No it's not, STD's can do seriously lifelong harm. Jealousy is just jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:17 AM
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I cannot imagine this relationship being a happy one, so they may as well end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:17 AM
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So why date someone you resent? Just break up. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:16 AM
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they just force themselves to endure but never eliminate the painful feelings. Why though? Just break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:08 AM
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What a sad mental state, I hope he gets therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:08 AM
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I completely agree with OP and it's interesting to see all the counter arguments. Frankly I think we should all wait until commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:04 AM
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If the trend is that as a whole we are waiting for more serious relationships after college instead of sleeping around, I think that’s probably a good thing, both emotionally for individuals, and as a society. Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:40 AM
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I actually think the sexlessness is a good thing, considering I'm more trad in my views (i.e. no to premarital sex). Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:35 AM
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Ah, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:48 PM
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Have never seen the girls here do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:33 PM
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When you are in junior high or high school it's pretty obvious that the popularity contest is not about being liked but about dominance. The popular girls rule over the less popular ones, and some of them are mean about it and put the lower ranking girls down. Then the cool kids get invited to the parties and outings and the lesser kids are left out. Not everything is about sex or reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:25 AM
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Men are less likely to seek treatment for mental illness and more likely to hit the bottle. Incidentally, I know two men with bipolar disorder who take psychotropic pills...and again, they did not get this disorder from dating or romance. Some people have childhood trauma, some of it is genes. Why would dating be your first thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:22 AM
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Dude, I have been on anti anxiety meds since I was 24. And despite what red pill may have you believe, this was nothing to do with dating or romance at all. Lots of people are on anti depressants or similar and in many cases it's genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:06 AM
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Most older unmarried women without children act like they're at a black Friday sale and are scrambling to get a partner before they're all gone and risk walking away empty-handed. Um, no. Most older single women find themselves a nice divorced man who is their type, or they stay happily single. I have never seen this desperation of which you type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:16 PM
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Neither have I.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:11 PM
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I can tell you there are plenty of people whose physiognomy makes them look stuck up or pissed and it's not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:21 PM
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All the upvotes, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:24 AM
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I am so glad for the times that I agree with you, I don't know why. But yes Paul Elam is a charlatan and I cannot understand why anyone falls for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:08 AM
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no cohabitation I have seen ones who cohabit. These seems like a soft rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:53 PM
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Maybe they'd be better off without the "lists" and just go by feel. And that is what people do. I picked my boyfriend based on how I felt, not any list. He made my heart go pitter pat. Still does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:48 PM
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Female apes willingly having sex with multiple males doesn't mean that a male can't coerce her. And? What is your thesis? You said that females are not the choosers, and only male primates (except very modern humans) select sexual partners. You made that big claim and you failed to back it up AT ALL. Just accept defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:43 PM
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Did you even read the article? Seriously? The males WERE NOT KILLING THE FEMALES. They were slapping and pulling hair. No deaths. And the article specifically mentioned that the females were mating with ALL the males anyway. And guess what? NO slaughter except of the occasional infant, as I already mentioned. Dude, read a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:07 PM
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It's not pretty but it is reality Reality? Where is your information coming from? Female humans had male family members protect them. If her whole family was killed, sure. But have you never watched a nature documentary on apes? Free love reigns. Consensual sex rules. Peace and harmony and social skills help the alpha male secure his spot at the top, not violence alone. And grooming rituals play a big part. When you see chimps killing other chimps that is rival troops attacking for territory, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:28 PM
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If we are talking chimps, they are not monogamous. It's a sexual free for all, especially with bonobos, and no one cares who the alpha is. Everyone selects everyone else, and yes the females get to choose. The only taboo is mother-son incest, so that leaves a lot. It's gross. As for other primates, orangutans are solitary creatures that have no hierarchy, and lemurs live in a matriarchy, and gorillas have a lead silverback male, and you get the picture. No one can claim that humans follow any of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:07 PM
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You do not know much about primates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:57 AM
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This is me too, and speaking as a submissive woman I am baffled by what some of the men here think we want. I love my SO and I submit to him because of WHO he is, not how much money he makes. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:52 AM
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I just wish they would scoop up all the shit. Ever since the pandemic, dog poop is EVERYWHERE.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:39 AM
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Honestly? It depends what type of gal you are. Do you want a transactional relationship where you play a role? Or do you want to actually fall in love and be bonded with a man who makes the whole world spin the right direction? If the latter, then get off Reddit and avoid stupid strategies like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:37 AM
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His imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:19 AM
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I agree with all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:17 AM
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That explains so much of his personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:06 AM
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There is literally no point in dating or relationships if you are not attracted to the person. Why is this hard for Book of Seil to get? If I am not falling in love with a guy, I can go find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:40 AM
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This post is hilarious. OP wants everyone to know that HE is not a virgin (of course not!) but he would never marry some "cesspit" who had the sex at some point. Because reasons. I would respect OP more if he said sex was gross and he would never have the sex and EWWW yucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:17 AM
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I should change my flair to "blasphemous past"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:08 AM
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granfalloonial Ah, I see we have another Vonnegut fan!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:08 PM
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America is a huge nation, so each region has its own culture. In some parts of the country people are standoffish and aloof and will not help a neighbor and in other parts people are warm and hospitable. It also varies if urban or rural or the suburbs. Where I live we barely know who our neighbors are, but I grew up in a place where the entire neighborhood were friends and threw block parties and helped each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:00 PM
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Buddy. Pal. I dated a few legit geniuses and they were no better as partners, but actual dumb? No, I cannot make conversation with dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:51 PM
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I know an incel in RL who is exactly like this. He posted online his requirements for a girlfriend and it included "no freckles" and "no reality TV" and "no wasting food" and of course the usual demands for a hottie with brains. That way he can claim this vol cel identity and say that no one measures up. I guess you have to live with yourself and the truth would be too rough for him to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:50 PM
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y’all love discounting women who say they’re not only attracted to conventional bullshit. They need this narrative and they need to accuse us of lying or else the house of cards would fall and then dammnit, they are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:38 PM
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The West on the whole is falling off a cliff. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:29 PM
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People on Reddit just seem to have some very weird moralities. I am American and it's not normal for us, it's just Reddit and their echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:20 PM
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I mean, smarter than me? Good luck finding one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:05 PM
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No, why would anyone do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:03 PM
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PPD in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:16 AM
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So this post-wall hag is going to upgrade and use hypergamy to get a BETTER MAN now that she is older? Do you see the problem with red pill logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:28 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:27 PM
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"I have an incurable skin disease and insanity runs in the family."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:42 PM
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So why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:42 PM
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How old are the dudes answering? 20? Let them answer this question when they are 58.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:34 PM
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Truth right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:33 PM
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I agree that attraction is the most important element of a relationship and as a woman, you should find someone who makes you crazy in love and then build a friendship on top of that rather than the reverse. This will provide a better foundation than buddies who date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:50 PM
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I always offer to split the check until I am in a relationship explicitly because I do NOT want to OWE HIM anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:47 PM
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We had a thread last year or so wherein people posted their RL photos, assuming they were being truthful. They posted under different accounts of course and we had to guess who was who, but it revealed that most PPD people are not ugly at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:45 PM
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changed For the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:10 PM
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I guess. In my own family and friend circle they are not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:49 PM
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I thought you guys liked honesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:02 AM
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I know women who want beta men. They lust after them and marry them just like other women want alphas. These beta-lusting women are usually dominant and bossy, but they really do love their husbands. People vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:01 AM
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Do you have any friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:31 AM
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There is a limit to how cautious you can reasonably be. Exactly. Yet men want to blame us for being safe, and men want to blame us for taking risks. No winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:29 AM
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Contrarily you shouldn't fear meeting a guy at a crowded starbucks midday. What if he follows your car home? The point I am making is that ANYONE you don't know well could murder you, and it's wise to be cautious. Vetting is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:53 AM
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You dont need to vet. Um, yes you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:49 AM
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This is a solid truth. Looks have no bearing on character.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:48 AM
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I suffer from several health problems that I would like to go back in time and live without. They began when I was 24. So, to answer your question I will remain 23 forever. And notice how this has nothing to do with sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:12 AM
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water bra. I had one of those! Man oh man was it cold in the winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:58 AM
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Yes and yes. I dated an electrical engineer who was very controlling and turned abusive before I dumped him. He wanted to change EVERYTHING about how I acted and he criticized my appearance regularly. Why was he even with me? Deeply insecure, he constantly accused me of cheating on him (I did not) even though he was the one who cheated. And no, he was not hot. This is one thing red pill gets wrong- nerdy unattractive men are not less cruel or less abusive than Chads. Simply being a geek does not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:41 PM
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They are usually very young and have no idea what middle aged people are like unless it's their mom. I know lots of people my age and their experiences vary, some look amazing and much younger than their actual age. PPD gets depressing because they focus on failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:36 PM
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But you don't really know yet, do you? You suspect, but you won't really know for sure until you're in your 40s, right? I can answer this, as I am 49 now. No I am not invisible and the men are still men and although the harassment has subsided I still get stalkers. There is no Wall. I miss certain aspects of youth such as perfect health and being so so thin, but I never had to give up on being attractive. My boyfriend is the best and sexiest guy I have ever gotten, and we are still crazy in love…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:33 AM
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All this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:41 AM
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Where do you live that women don't work actual jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:27 AM
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He was hoping we would beg him to change his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:24 AM
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I went from invisible nerd girl to hot thang when I was 16 and the change in how people treated me was HUGE. Both guys and girls treated me with more respect and compliments. People wanted to be my friend, guys asked me out, it was super easy to get jobs. I was the same nerd inside but no one cared because of how I looked. This led to a lot of confusion and disappointment when I dated someone who was supposed to love me for myself but he kept trying to change every aspect of my personality. Afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:23 AM
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Do you realize how childlike 18 year olds are? You will be watching cartoons and eating sugar cereal at 3 am. On a work night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:25 PM
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Lying liars who lie is my number one dealbreaker. And he thought you would never find out? Dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:21 PM
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This is so, so true. Looking back, it was always a mistake and I never caught feelings for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:14 PM
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His wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:11 PM
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fake being attracted to men just so they can check off certain milestones for themselves like getting married or having kids before they get too old and/or nobody wants them anymore. I know zero people who did this. Happy Cake Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:11 PM
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My dad made all the decisions where we lived, what house we bought, what car we drove, all the major stuff. Mom raised the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:09 PM
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I don't care what he does as long as he is driven and passionate. He needs to keep busy at whatever it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:03 PM
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The idea that women might have to have sex with men they do not fully desire is treated as a much worse sacrifice than men having to run into a hail of bullets Yes, because traditionally women sacrificed their bodies and sometimes their lives in reproduction. Why bother if you are not even in love? Just some spouse that was assigned to you? Yuck. No one would think that was worth it, not even dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:16 AM
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If anything I see a rise in Mgtow or bisexuality becoming surprisingly more mutable than people previously had thought. Yeah I think so too. Lots of guys are bisexual already and this will become common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:05 AM
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I had coworkers do it all day at work. You had no choice but to hear it, and it was yucky. Also rude because they were slandering someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:18 PM
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I miss Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:54 PM
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It's bad if you are trashing someone and divulging private info to amuse your buddies. No one is stifling you, it's just rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:51 PM
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Probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:52 PM
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No one is doing things for their SO in a relationship as payment Exactly, man. Learn to love another human please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:37 PM
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It's weird because I don't have to pay for dates either. I do it because I love my boyfriend, and want to make him happy. My motives are not "payment for services rendered" as yours are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:34 PM
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yet don't demand a bribe This is how you see things? Bribe someone to date you? Are you really that horrible to people that you have to bribe them??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:29 PM
1

I scored super high in agreeableness and conscientiousness but off the charts in intellect/imagination. Low in everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:19 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:50 PM
1

It clearly establishes who you are and what she is to expect, which is dinner at Wendy's and then vacations to Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:49 PM
1

which means you contribute to a relationship only the same amount she puts in - like in all other partnerships. Oh, right. Like how you men spend 400 bucks at the hair salon and 30 bucks at the nail salon before the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:46 PM
5

Most women are far more promiscuous than they would ever admit. You would be surprised how prude most women are. You are focusing on a certain subset of party girls. I got to a conservative church and those gals are not riding any cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:10 PM
2

I attract leg men and butt men, but never boob men. Also, chubby chasers would not go after me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:05 PM
7

Yes, I gave them a chance. It didn't work, I moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:06 PM
0

Yes. Why are people surprised about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:43 PM
1

Still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:41 PM
1

No, they are just as bad with the fat and sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:28 PM
2

I can do a bang-on impersonation of Coach Red Pill with this head movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:43 PM
1

For a real laugh, watch Coach Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:56 PM
2

The question isn't why men chase crazy women but why are women so crazy to begin with. Jordan Peterson explained this as women's brains are wired to care for a 6 month old infant, and therefore we are more anxious and Leary than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:34 PM
1

Which ones did you watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:30 PM
1

If you want to lose weight, get deeply depressed. Not the type where you self-medicate with food of course, just no appetite. If that fails, there are a few medications that will kill your desire to eat and they also will drop you twenty pounds. Ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:30 PM
1

The government doesn't need to pick up any more of the slack for absentee parents who failed to raise fully functioning adults... Hard agree. Also, I know plenty of military vets who are in terrible physical condition and they are not even old. How did a fews years of exercise help them longterm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:27 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:17 PM
4

It's easy for men to find love. There are millions of women who are romantic and want a relationship. Men just don't choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:09 PM
2

What kind of maniac doesn’t salt their foods? Are people’s taste buds ok? Some of don't like being thirsty all day, and drinking enough water to combat the salt means peeing 5 times during your shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:59 PM
3

What are you hoping to achieve with this post of yours? You typed it, you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:12 PM
7

None, you already made up your mind, everyone except you is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:54 PM
4

especially considering that it's true. What happened to "changing your view?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:17 PM
-2

Notice which posters on PPD are filling up the comments. Usually it's over many months or even years, and they claim they are just "bored at work" or some nonsense. Think about happy successful people doing this and you can't picture it- because they don't need. it. The guys here are desperately lonely and I feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:13 PM
0

He is here all day, every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:50 PM
0

I say height does not matter and my boyfriend is legit shorter than I am. Fite me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:49 PM
13

Dude, we get it- you want everyone to lower their standards so that you will find someone to be with. But physical attractiveness is the biggest requirement for attracting a partner, either in our species or in any species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:48 PM
1

Actual fights like screaming and door slamming never happen for me or for my family. Disagreements? Every few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:43 PM
14

Why even bother? If you are not attracted to your partner you may as well be a monk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:37 PM
2

Women like awful men Same reason men like horrible women. Parents were like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:21 PM
14

Childfree women don't have to worry about finding a husband before the clock runs out This may very well be the answer. If they need the revenue fantasy of a woman desperate to find a man there has to be a motive and fertility would provide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:46 AM
11

They get accustomed to that behavior. Not from boyfriends, people who are accustomed to ill treatment are coming from abusive families.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:04 PM
2

Getting a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:03 PM
1

I actually have a theory that work stress and erratic lunches are a big contributor to the obesity epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:49 PM
1

It is so embedded into our culture that Americans even prides themselves on their overworked misery. That way they can look down on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:36 PM
1

I only know one couple like this. All the rest are pretty woman with eh man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:13 PM
1

Also the incredibly batshit approach to work and money. Why do people work so much? Why do they have such an aversion to holidays? Protestant work ethic is ground into us from a young age. No greater sin than being poor, so if you are poor it's because you did not work hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:11 PM
0

It's really simple, compatibility and attraction. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:44 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:21 PM
2

Women bear all the physical risk in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:48 AM
4

Its almost as if the men here WANT women to be miserable no matter what they choose....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:29 AM
6

I am honestly wondering what their motives are. Do they want women to beg them for marriage just so they can refuse? Is that the play?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:24 AM
1

I'm on the fence too. The only reason I want to get married is religious Fatih, but all the downsides of marriage have kept me single these many years. A huge risk for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:52 AM
2

If my boyfriend did not find me hot I would leave. what would be the point? I may as well marry a gay dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:42 AM
8

You were right to leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:40 AM
1

Today, women have to bring a lot more to make the juice worth the squeeze. Yes, and women are getting tired of it. All work and no play makes it easier for women to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:37 AM
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OPs point is modern women often spend their time on top 20% flings rather than developing an emotional connection with a stable partner. I don't know a single woman who did this. All my female friends and relatives had LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:31 AM
1

The protection of the herd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:33 PM
1

Same as understanding male trauma. I had an ex who was sexually molested when young, and it explained his alcoholism and other coping behaviors that led to me leaving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:38 PM
1

Depends on your moral framework. If you are a collectivist, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:56 PM
1

it's a shame because my parents have a very good marriage (~30 years and counting, they're very old fashioned people) so I grew up idealizing the relationship they had, and now I have to accept the reality that it will never happen because women have been enabled too much by modern society. What's stopping you from finding someone just like Mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:06 PM
3

Men have thicker skin than women, so they do not wrinkle as quickly or get as dry. Also female hormone fluctuations can cause acne and oily skin. Thus, more products to purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:46 PM
2

Revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:45 PM
3

Science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:40 PM
7

Red pillars will never get over this revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:02 AM
2

I saw that one too, and also wondered at the details missing. Reads like fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:02 AM
1

I do this too, but with chai instead of coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:07 PM
0

If you are lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:06 PM
2

Most women would be embarrassed to be seen with a way older man. Yup. My own father would kill this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 05:05 PM
7

For some reason women do that to men they don't find attractive and the only question to ask is why it that. Who does this? I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:37 AM
13

This is easily answered by you guys picturing a gay friend (also male) having a crush on you. Are you gonna drop him as a friend because you do not reciprocate his feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 06:43 PM
0

Where is Atlas? Did she get another account?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:28 PM
1

Heinlein's To Sail Beyond the Sunset. All the father-daughter incest and mother-son incest you never wanted. Puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:28 PM
4

Uh....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:29 PM
2

Why is this always overlooked? Men in this sub think that ancient society was Tinder and women hooking up instead of being sold with a dowry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:42 AM
1

Yeah, women were not allowed to have jobs until recently! Yeah! I Rea that somewhere!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:34 AM
2

Single just means unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:25 AM
1

I am glad you are back here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:08 PM
4

Yup, the AWALT nonsense is easily disproved by having friends and observing their behavior over time. TRP makes big claims that only apply to a damaged subset of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:59 PM
1

I wish you guys would find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:43 PM
2

It's one of the best states.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:39 PM
3

Bitter, party of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:37 PM
-1

You would have to pay me a king's ransom to give up my boyfriend. And even then I would sneak him back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:37 PM
5

I knew an actual misogynist years ago, and his issues went deep into childhood and it was...alarming. Not mentally sane or even logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:40 AM
1

Don't you already have kids??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:53 PM
1

Attraction is either there or it's not. It cannot be created from nothing. Exactly, you cannot fake it til you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:51 PM
4

Honestly, he would look like my boyfriend and be even more available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:31 AM
1

Is this what happens to other people? Weird...I never get ghosted. Never dumped. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:29 AM
1

Healthy women would not go for this sort of arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:18 PM
1

I made a point out of figuring out what she was self-conscious about, then I would poke fun at that. Golden Rule applies here and you would not like it if she negged you,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:20 AM
1

Lots of damaged women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:51 PM
1

Another time, one lady started a business Sample size of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:42 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:31 PM
32

Or religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:01 PM
21

But that is the core of all the discontent from the men here- they resent women for being women. What they truly want is men in women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:38 AM
3

So edgy, I cut my fingers on your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:34 AM
10

Like men, I am guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:30 AM
2

This is my diet food.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:52 PM
3

Most blue pill posters left in disgust years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:48 PM
1

He is interesting to watch on YouTube despite sounding like Kermit. I of course appreciate his endorsement of religion and meaning for the universe, but the one thing he said which resonated with me was his explanation on how female brains are wired to care for a 6 month old infant, and that is why we are more neurotic. It explains every woman boss I have ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:12 PM
1

Did you clean your room?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:09 PM
4

I do not find all attractive men to be my type, so obviously I would lean toward the ones who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:06 PM
2

I bet you're going to talk about cooking and cleaning and I'm going to laugh. No. Enjoy your long life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:21 PM
4

Studies repeatedly show that men benefit more from marriage than women ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:23 AM
2

Who else is paying for all the old divorced women? Uhh, women have jobs now? What third world country are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:40 AM
3

Women benefit far more from marriage than men. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:36 AM
4

I think he is a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:45 PM
1

So why the hate for WGTOWs from the men living the exact same lives? Why bash women at all? I know a couple dudes who live as eternal bachelors and dont hate anyone, they just laugh and work on cars and travel and such. The way it should be, with no snarling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 05:04 PM
1

It gives you more of a boost than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:16 PM
1

Then why are all their posts and YouTube videos demonizing women and saying horrible things about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:10 PM
2

He wants the people he does not like to be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:01 PM
2

normal for California.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:59 PM
3

Girl, you have testosterone. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:54 PM
4

I think this was a question for women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:54 PM
4

Same. I had crushes so strong I thought I would die.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:29 AM
4

Medically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:14 AM
4

Sometimes. Men benefit more from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:13 AM
1

When did this happen? He must be good at keeping secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:32 PM
0

I never got a tape measure, but he is about my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:26 PM
0

Yes, without reservation. He is damn hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:12 PM
3

UHm ok. So she is taking care of kids all day AND carrying on an affair? Is he in one room and the children in another? Dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:46 PM
10

women who buy into the corporate propaganda and actually feel their largely meaningless, another cog in the machine job is actually making a "difference" to any noticeable degree. Lots of us work in health care. We are not meaningless, and we make a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:42 PM
1

is to consider what qualities you can offer a man in a relationship. Can you offer the qualities that men value? While on its face this is good advice, you can see how this leads to fakery and manipulation. If a woman want a certain man, she can learn what he values and pretend to be exactly that. Trad? Suddenly she bakes bread. Career? Suddenly she is all about the TPS report. Curvy? She buys a padded bra. See what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:51 PM
3

There are paraplegics who never have sex, ever. One lives nearby and I see him in his electric wheelchair all over the neighborhood...and he has companionship. Usually another guy, walking next to him. Is this a paid professional? Maybe- but the fact that people pay for companionship proves that humans need it. As a former caregiver myself, a lot of the good I did was spending time with the client and being their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:37 PM
0

Without welfare and with financial abortion the state could just jail women that have children they can't afford. Oh awesome more people in prison. Tax payers money and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:33 PM
0

Don't muslims also circumcise the boys? And there are plenty of Muslims in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:35 PM
1

They believe that by cutting hair short you can make your husband ill. Somehow my mom hasn't caused my father undo illness, how weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:32 AM
3

Long hair protects you and your husband from illnesses I need to know more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:02 PM
2

Los Angeles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 08:03 PM
1

My parents had the trad arrangement and my mom did ALL the housework and child rearing. All. It was not exactly healthy, but it's what I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:56 PM
6

Post 30 attractive women are super rare Not in my area of the world. We are the expectation, not the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:24 PM
2

We both "hit the wall" men just hit it a few years later - assuming he takes good care of himself. My boyfriend is in his 50s and he looks fantastic. Easily could pass for 30 something. Most men his age look like they gave up, just ready for Crocs with socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:22 PM
1

If a man is truly beta he will never be anything but a beta, right? I know hundreds like this and there is no changing them, so why make them feel bad for not being alphas? And believe me, most of them are married to women who wanted EXACTLY what they got- a man they can dominate. Some people like this scenario and these men speak worshipfully of their "cool" wives whom they admire for being so bad-ass. This is not something all men want, trust me, as I am a submissive woman I can only match wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:10 PM
2

But I like to place accountability on the people who are accountable. I’m weird that way. No kidding, that comment was just Men Are Victims all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:27 AM
1

Women are treated like royalty from birth. Well hell, I missed the memo. When do I get to be treated like a princess??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:26 AM
2

Pretty well, yes. I am still afraid of sex and pregnancy and I am almost 49.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:42 PM
3

someone who was incensed that I thought family vacations should not be scheduled around where a teenage son might have the best chance of getting laid This is still funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:32 PM
3

except that is actually the parents that suppress sexual urges and expressions in their children. Exactly. My folks made it their mission to keep me as prude and chaste as a nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:30 PM
3

I was in junior high around this time and life was not all dreamy and great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:19 AM
1

LOL in real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:18 AM
1

Who are all these people taking buses to work???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:17 AM
1

Not in the blue collar world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:16 AM
4

I don't "deserve" a relationship with that person even if I want one and even if I think I'm a catch. That's for them to decide, not me. This sums it up perfectly. People have assortive mating for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:17 AM
4

I care more about personality, intelligence, and chemistry. But not if he is obese? Or are there other disqualifiers? I am not shaming you for having standards, I am just pointing out that we all have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:02 AM
1

I am a very feminine woman myself and I can barely compete in a vicious job market, so it would have gone better for me to be more masculine and driven. It's the world, man, what did we expect? That soft-hearted timid people would win?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:59 PM
8

I can understand not wanting to date someone obese but beyond that I also think it's shallow to have a body type preference. All physical attraction is going to be shallow. So? Like whatever you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:53 PM
3

Teenagers home and bored all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:39 PM
2

questioning of traditional masculinity? Is it really about a way of lifting the social responsibility of having a low n count from women? I grew up with trad masculinity all around me and I can see the downsides and the benefits and it has nothing to do with N count. Trad male roles and expectations can hurt the men who never live up and never succeed as macho men who provide. Do you want to live in a world where men are shamed for not knowing how to repair a car engine? Or build a back deck? Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:36 PM
1

I absolutely have a type, and it's not the popular aesthetic at all. The top actors of Hollywood do not turn me on, no matter how hot everyone else thinks them. I like dark ethnic men with sharp features and body hair. I do not like blonds or redheads or button noses. If you presented me with a blond male model with a button nose, I would say "let's be friends" and mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:33 PM
2

I know where you are going with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:29 PM
1

Internet friends are usually just surface-level cyber-relationships. It was easier before the pandemic, but I would meet up with cyber friends and they became the most important people in my life if they lived nearby. (I even moved across the country for a guy I met online, but this is about platonic pals. Friends are still close and try to get together- but this is not about Me.). Try to find people who get You and like You. Never, ever act superior. I have a lot more I could say on this subjec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:16 PM
2

And yet here were are on the internet. Oddly enough, that is where I found most of my close friends. You just have to get off PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:02 PM
2

I'm surprised when people show that they're different, but when people show that they're not, it's just the "same old stuff." Yeah no kidding, that is the human race. So? Find your tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:59 PM
1

Dude, stop. You are not Smarter Than Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:55 PM
2

Having read your comments, I don't think IQ is your problem here. You just think you are a cosmic genius and that is why people don't like you? Uh huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:55 PM
1

Oh fer crying out loud...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:53 PM
1

Old men do this all day long. One day you will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:46 PM
6

It was all her fault, don't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:31 PM
3

Man, you are ON FIRE today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:30 PM
1

This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:41 AM
3

On this sub? Happens daily, men make assertions, women say "No, actually..." and the men accuse them of lying for whatever reason. If the women here ever agree with Red Pill the men exclaim "Finally! One of them is being honest" and if the women disagree they are lying whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:50 PM
7

Damn men and their insecurity, let’s just lie to men they will never understand how women work.” Except the women here get accused of lying when they tell you like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:41 PM
2

I am not sure why Prince, the famous lover who had all the pretty girls, would be black pill. Before he got famous, maybe? Residual FOMO?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:53 PM
2

I live in an extremely desirable part of the country, lots of millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:43 PM
1

Thank you for reminding me of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:23 PM
2

Do you live in some weird place where the lowest rent is 1500 a month? I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:20 PM
5

Some women really like a man in prison because she knows exactly where he is at all times and he can never leave her for another dame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:07 PM
2

OK, whew. I was worried this was about anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:50 PM
2

submissivness in bed Oh bleh, does this mean what I think it means?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:29 PM
3

Most of the older people are Gen X, I can't think of many boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:14 PM
1

If you give off angry and snarly vibes, people will not like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:12 PM
0

But when it's that way i sound mean and angry all of a sudden? Yes. Think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:35 PM
2

I can see why she is soon to be an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:05 PM
1

What exactly does she do all day? Nap?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:31 PM
6

Even older. But when I was 19 I had a bald boyfriend of 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:43 PM
1

This needs to be top of the heap, you have listed the actual reasons why families today are failing. It's not women being fussy, it's the modern world making child-rearing harder and thus straining the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:42 PM
4

Better try get your match than elevating the ego of someone below in the smv scale. Your lifestyles wouldn't be meshing together anyway and the chances are here that she would try to drag you down. Do you hear yourself? How angry and mean you sound? Gender flip all this and read it out loud, you sound mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:32 PM
5

She has a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:25 PM
12

I don't really care, he can wear a hat. Or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:23 PM
2

You forget that when women are in love, their man is the most beautiful thing on earth. So to her, he is a STUD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:49 PM
3

There are more single women after age 65 because their husbands died. That means fewer single men, and more single women. Divorce would create the same number of singles on both sides. Death is what creates the disparity in the older years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:25 PM
7

No. it means men die younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:10 PM
1

I was active on this sub years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:23 AM
1

Pffft, they all post on Instagram or Twitter. Looks like a cake walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:19 AM
3

So where is the privilege Duh, you can lift the really heavy boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:19 AM
1

Ah, no one remembers me from years ago? I am woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:17 AM
2

This example really does prove the point. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:16 AM
1

In every single LTR I have ever had, I was the "pretty one" by a long mile. Until the current SO who is the love of my life, and we are evenly matched. Most of the time women simply cannot find blindingly attractive men to date and go for a guy who makes her laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:14 AM
3

I had the audacity to say that parents should not factor their teenage son’s ability or likelihood of getting laid into the family vacation plans Oh wow, :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:31 AM
3

They would change their mind if the bride was a 6. When they imagine arranged marriage, they are picturing Stacy being their parents' choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:47 PM
2

if you sway from it, the others will make sure to make you fall. That is hyperbole, what really happens is they just gossip a lot. No one makes sure you fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 12:54 AM
-1

Oh the pain, the deep deep wound....so accurate and personal to my exact situation!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:59 PM
-1

Aw shucks, mytradingacc is throwing weak shade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:00 PM
12

This Is spot on. By pursuing men and asking them out, she is getting passive men who may or may not be using her for an easy lay. Also he might only be dating her BECAUSE she is desperate while he looks for someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:04 PM
2

You really need to get over this idea of the Cock Carousel being a universal female experience. Most women are not promiscuous. And the notion that "arousing sex" is only had during this bacchanal, is odd. And forced to "go right to betas" also is not reality, most women marry the men they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:13 PM
1

Everyone is going to answer they want the real hero and not the fraud. I am not sure why you would tell us "be honest, no bullshit" as if we would lie about such a thing. Do you really expect women to want a narcissist or a fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:26 AM
7

Women are typically outraged when they see their friends with handsome, high quality guys. Huh? Why would they be? You know we gals have different types, right? We are generally not attracted to the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:03 PM
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