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10

Sure, men with melanin. Most older white men look gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:06 AM
10

Why is it that when women weren't gong to college it was a societal problem Because women were vocal about wanting to go to college. Men aren't. The squeaky wheel gets the grease.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:37 PM
9

These guys really have to be bottom shelf in personality, because I often see ugly dudes with women in their arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:21 PM
3

Yeah lmao they've probably never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:19 PM
3

They are less attractive than the women...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:12 PM
6

Do men even like women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:03 PM
86

He was probably annoying on the date, she figured she could get some sex out of it, and the dick was whack too. I wouldn't give a jump to that dude either. Let him figure it out 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:02 PM
6

It is sad. It's also obvious they don't interact with any women if they think no woman gets into a relationship after the age of 26 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:43 PM
2

It's a sign of low class
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:59 AM
2

I've noticed that mentally stable and socially normal guys think most men are like them. They probably self-select themselves away from groups of men who are insecure and lead miserable lives, so they're not exposed to it to the same degree as women who are dating randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:41 PM
1

Looks like you got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:28 PM
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I've had good sex with men before. It's just that most of the time is not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:27 PM
2

You are indeed clueless, we men are by nature problem solvers meaning we seek solutions I don't think a lot of millennial and younger men are like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:07 PM
2

Somewhere in this thread said it's rare for two heavily independent people to get together. I think there's some truth in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:06 PM
3

True, but it's a humiliating way to live and it's kind of a choice. My source is my own life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:38 PM
5

Obviously it isn't true. Just world fallacy. A lot of naive people out there think that if your want to receive and give love, it will always find you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:40 PM
1

They are probably desperate and those are the only men they have access to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:21 PM
2

I would believe this if I didn't see beautiful women who cheat and nag all the time get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:17 PM
6

My brother is the primary caregiver of the children in his marriage. He had to sacrifice his career for the past decade to take care of them while his wife worked more steady positions. It is not an easy job at all, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:12 PM
3

Of course that is a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:09 PM
3

You can only pick the men who are attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:07 PM
1

Most genuinely healthy masculine guys get the most attractive women. I am not part of the dominate ethnic group in my area, and I am only slightly above average in looks, so I'm not going to be in the radar for most of those kind of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:04 PM
3

Black woman. Outside of impoverished neighborhoods and rare upper-class black arenas, black men aren't interested in black women. All the black men I know are dating white or Latina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:58 PM
1

Sure, but they are not very great to be with. So I will stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:55 PM
12

You're probably right about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:42 AM
3

What chores are men doing outside that are done on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:29 AM
1

This describes the dynamic well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:23 AM
15

For sure, I play my own role in this. And I wasn't an angel in his eyes either. I know I did things that angered and exhausted him. But it was clear he got more out of the relationship in the long run. I actually am the youngest child and was spoiled when young. I always wanted a more masculine guy who I'd be willing to be a bit submissive to, as long as he earned my respect. But that's never happened. I'm not super hot, and I am part of a racial group that most men find unattractive. So these a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:20 AM
23

They're part of that 20% this sub talks about all the time. Not all of us women have access to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:10 AM
30

At the time, fear, low self-esteem, and basically being fed the line all my life that if a man isn't beating you or cheating on you, he's good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:05 AM
3

I think this varies wildly based on race
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:49 AM
143

Male partners can be exhausting...in all of my relationships, I was the emotional bedrock. If the guy got sick, had work issues, family issues, etc., I would be there to bring him home from the hospital, cook food, listen to his complaints, cheer him on for that promotion at work, etc. But I never got that same "shoulder to lean on" myself. Ever. They never provided that emotional bedrock I, too, desired. They would just freeze up during a crisis while I had to figure out how to solve situations…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:43 AM
6

I consider an 8/10 to be someone who turns heads who walks in a room, so no worries. I am not an 8/10 either. Most people aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:16 PM
7

Just checked. No offense to him, but agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:39 PM
7

Seems like a troll only because 4 isn't a high body count unless you're religious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:33 AM
1

Glad you rethought this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:36 PM
2

What kind of self-sabotage is this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:14 PM
1

Care to explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:11 PM
7

So same goes here. Cool, you’re the exception. But he’s right, most of the time you’re not offering anything else so that’s all we see. Your looks. You generally don’t try to be funny, you’re not gonna spoil us in anyway. You’re not planning the date so you’re not gonna try to be entertaining or interesting. You are in the passenger seat but it’s all about you. You are telling on yourself by claiming this is the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:45 AM
3

I will agree with this if in turn, you agree that millennial men do little to be valued for more than their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:43 AM
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It's a sign of mental weakness and bad character.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:20 AM
2

He is gay. He accidentally showed a man in his bed in one of his videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:18 AM
3

Tbf, you have to be pretty gluttonous and lazy to be both fat and male. Testosterone is coursing through your body and your biology literally is designed for you to gain muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:08 PM
4

Mine is set to private as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:05 PM
0

He already had a girlfriend, so he was hesitant at first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:49 PM
3

This is exactly what it is. I know obese men with thin or fit partners. And they're always charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:19 PM
1

He is mentally stable because he takes joy in a woman dressing up for him, and in turn, has the high self-esteem to look good and be his best for a woman. He isn't filled with bitterness and resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:14 PM
3

If only most guys actually spent money on this stuff y'all wouldn't have to cry about Chad every day 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:34 PM
-1

Not a very convincing argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:13 PM
1

🤣 What percentage of the population are nuns or priests?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:11 PM
2

I'm not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:12 PM
2

Isn't Kevin Samuel's gay? I wouldn't take what his advice to women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:43 PM
1

Yes, that's what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:34 PM
0

Sounds like you are a mentally stable and honest man, unlike the other male commentors acting like they are noble and only are attracted to...checks notes 10/10 women who never dress up or wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:31 PM
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but if it came down to actually commiting to one of those women their looks without makeup would be really important. You seriously expect me to believe men's standards are so high, they would kick Scarlett Johannsan out of bed if she took her makeup off and looked more average? You have to admit, that is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:27 PM
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It's so pathetic how they are gaslighting OP about how none of this matters 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:25 PM
1

I agree, jeans and sweaters can look very nice and I enjoy wearing them. Not sure why you mentioned that when I was talking about sweatpants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:24 PM
3

But abstinence doesn't work and has never worked. I'm assuming that argument was praised in a high school classroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:23 PM
1

Wow, that sounds great for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:22 PM
2

I don't agree with OP's Cardi B reference. She is not very attractive even with all the surgery and make-up and wigs. There are plenty of classy, beautiful women who get their hair and nails done on a consistent basis. No need to decend into hyperbole and compare to beauty rituals to what a stripper would use.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:21 PM
-2

If you need someone around who needs to pay their own way all the time, maybe you should be looking for a platonic male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:19 PM
2

That is not "true" beauty (whatever that even means, since your definition is arbitrary). What you are describing is genetic beauty. I would agree that is true genetic beauty. Similar to how men who are over six feet with broad shoulders and a 7"+ penis are truly beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:45 AM
3

All the comments from men saying they don't care about this stuff are so cringe. And yet they will use celebrity examples of women who are 10s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:37 AM
1

And yet if your girlfriend only wore sweatpants outside in public, and when meeting your family, and when going on all of your dates, you probably wouldn't be happy about it, regardless of how hot she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:33 AM
5

I'm curious to hear this bad news, seeing as the celebrity women manosphere men love to define as 10s spend thousands more than this to keep up their appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:30 AM
2

No way. Being physically attractive is too powerful of a tool to throw away. It's not just for attracting men, either. People in general treat you better and become more trusting. I'll change my mind if reality shows me differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:28 AM
2

Interesting. Regardless, deciding if a child will be allowed the privilege to be born or not has always been, for lack of a better word, the divine right of women. It cannot be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:24 AM
6

It shows a disinterest in wanting to form a union with someone in the future. It can also signal stingyness, which described the guys I dated who vocally insisted on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:20 AM
1

LCOL will probably have cheaper prices because the businesses aren't getting clients who make a ton of money who will burn it all to look good. But even then, it ads up if you're going at least twice a month for upkeep. Some women go once a week to keep the nails looking flawless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:10 AM
6

No, this was all at the same job. As soon as I got my first paycheck is when I got all the beautification done. So men I talked to daily were suddenly much nicer. But this isn't surprising to anyone, at least not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:07 AM
2

No, all of those sexy vaginal waxes and nails cost a lot of money. Her prices were accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:51 AM
1

I don't understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:49 AM
11

It is annoying when men say that stuff doesn't matter, when clearly spending all that fucking money attracts men and they like it. I remember when I got my first high-paying job. I could afford to get acrylics, my hair done, new make-up, etc. Walked into work the next day and all the men treated me like I was a different person. They were much kinder. Anyway, I think it is frustrating if you do all that stuff and the guy looks like a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:48 AM
1

I think that should only be allowed if your spouse is also legally a slave. But slavery is abolished in Western countries. Sounds like something probably enforced under Sharia Law?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:39 AM
11

I always compromised on what I wanted in the past and I always ended up regretting it. Going dutch 100% of the time, dating a guy who was 5'3", dating someone who didn't have an ambitious career, etc....All lead to some form of disappointment. I think having high but relatively realistic standards are better, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:55 AM
10

This sub and red pillers like to rail against single mothers, but are opposed to eliminating children to avoid single motherhood? Being pregnant sucks. Raising a child can suck even more, especially if you're poor and have no social network for free babysitting. The child will of course pick up on the mom's bitterness and resentment. It's better to abort these kids, because they just become people who rob and kill you 15-20 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:52 AM
9

Sure. I've met plenty of men who have abandoned their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:17 AM
7

The exact number? Not unless a woman is stupid enough to tell him. Although I'm sure it's easy to figure out if it's a huge number (she dates tons of guys and has sex with you quickly).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:12 AM
2

It's natural
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:11 AM
6

Lol no one's going to jail for an illegal abortion, especially when there are pills now that you can take at home all by yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:10 AM
8

That would be ideal if banned. If it were me I would just find another way to kill my baby, though. As would any other woman desperate enough. It's not like abortions only started when doctors did it. They've been happening for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:39 PM
19

I imagine we would see more men having to pay child support for babies women didn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:36 PM
16

I used to do that. The men who insisted on going Dutch were either severely mentally ill, neurotic, or too broke to afford to date. One of the guys even wanted to "go Dutch" when one time he thought I was pregnant (he only wanted to pay for half of an abortion).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:23 PM
8

He was hot and easily seduced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:12 PM
13

N count is meaningless if you never tell a guy your number. Or you just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:09 PM
2

I'm a woman and too many texts from a guy is annoying unless we're already in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:06 PM
1

That's certainly disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:18 PM
1

I'm not giving anyone a pass. I'm just saying people in their early 20s are pretty stupid. I'm around adult women all the time and they don't act so childishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:10 PM
1

24 is still a pretty immature age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:54 PM
0

I see. I'm 33 and the idea of women acting that way outside of high school sounded a bit ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:27 PM
0

Just curious as to what your age is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:22 PM
1

Really? I would be greatly entertained by seeing more misandrist posts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:19 PM
8

I think you'd feel differently if you had to live in a woman's body, which is kinda shitty and frail unless you specifically work to get strong. It's easier to just avoid communicating with men unless you know them or think they're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:12 PM
1

Maybe time to practice some meditation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:07 PM
2

That's pretty severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:52 PM
15

I get that, but women can't predict whether a strange man will have a normal reaction like yours vs. a guy who will follow her for four blocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:43 PM
0

That's why I don't take much said by men here seriously at all. Also I'm sure some are LARPing as 40-year-old men dating 19-year-old girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:09 PM
1

I don't think the majority of men in this sub are even 25 yet. So basically teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:50 PM
3

Let's keep it real, most of the guys here will never get close to having a wife. So the concept is just ideology and internet points to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:47 AM
3

But those people are hot regardless if they've had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:24 AM
5

you choose to not have kids you are still childless. all of this is just a desire to justify childlessness hedonism and self gratification. So? Berating strangers online about their life choices is total self-gratification as well. I assure you, reproducing does not guarantee someone has a life goal or intends to improve the world by having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:23 AM
5

This all makes sense once you realize it's just propaganda from older, ugly men. A 24-year-old is supposed to marry the first 30-40-something she runs across because "men age like wine" (lol), then ruin her body as quickly as possible by having multiple births before 30 hits and she becomes completely useless to society (other than raising the kids, of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:59 PM
6

I'm 31 and I still don't want kids. I wondered if I would change my mind after seeing all of my girlfriends have kids recently. They all look worn out and miserable. I'm sure deep down they are happy and it's rewarding, but I've yet to see a mother who made me in any shape or form jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:55 PM
8

Now that's the tea
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:53 PM
4

Now this is real bad bitch energy. I want to be like you. Men are liars, so I don't take anything they say seriously at all. Their actions usually tell most of the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:56 AM
1

Sometimes I wonder if I was supposed to be born a man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:52 AM
2

Sounds like they were triggered. It didn't take much around here. People, the men especially, are emotionally fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:09 PM
1

Ooh interesting. I didn't know that was happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:03 PM
0

This comment is bizarre. You've seen pictures of the people who post here? Where??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:30 AM
7

However, a lot of this also comes from the fact that millions of women squander their golden ticket of youth and beauty What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:29 AM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:08 AM
2

I live in LA and no one is dating black women outside of the hood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:56 AM
2

That's something I hadn't considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:45 AM
1

There is a factually-driven study or research showing women of all ages are mature?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:21 AM
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I put easy in quotations for a reason. That is not what I think, but what most men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:57 PM
2

It would be easy to prove me wrong. Ask several people outside of a subreddit with red pillers if they think people over the age of 30, on average, are more mature than 20 year olds. I eagerly await your results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:56 PM
2

Yup, even since I was a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:53 PM
1

It definitely calls your level of maturity into question. I've worked with both sexes in a wide variety of ranges, and both men and women in their early 20s are clearly more immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:51 PM
1

Not RP and I'm a woman. I think deep down they are resentful women can make "easy" money when they can't do the same, and they are resentful that there are othermen who will support these women. But I do understand the disgust. If I was a man I definitely wouldn't want to seriously date a woman who's done porn either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:49 PM
2

That is crazy that's an argument. IRS will always get what's owed to them. I guess they think women in general don't pay taxes and just get free money from the government lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:47 PM
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I know. I've lived in Southern Europe before. That is still a better prospect than the US. They treat black women here worse than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:21 PM
1

Clearly I am like other people. The other poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:11 AM
3

There's nothing to be sorry about. It's just how our world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:13 AM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:36 PM
1

Not rare at all. Plenty of women get with emotional vampire men if the guy is hot or good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:45 PM
1

That just sounds like scarcity mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:26 PM
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I'm a dark-skinned black woman, and I've received much more attention from men in Italy and other places in Europe. In the U.S. I am basically invisible to all men unless I go to black neighborhoods. Dark-skinned black women are universally undesirable in the US, so I've considered going back to Europe to look for a mate if I ever change my mind about being in a relationship again. They seem more traditional than what I'm used to, but depending on the man and his family not being racist, I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:08 PM
2

Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:04 PM
3

I haven't been able to wrap my head around this either. If you are a man using your own condoms and you use them properly, you shouldn't have to worry much about pregnancy. Clearly they are raw-dogging
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:07 PM
2

What's considered a low n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:55 PM
1

You're not alone. I think it's kind of funny, but I have a very dark sense of humor and my emotions aren't made of glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:53 PM
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Once you realize a lot of these posters need mental help and operate in a world of extremes, his comment will make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:30 PM
2

I don't care if I never have another relationship again. I also haven't had sex in years, and that won't change until I meet a man worth having sex with. I also have never wanted children. In my last relationship I broke off an engagement because the demands of the man really didn't make the idea of marriage seem appealing at all. I agree that any woman that wants a great career won't be able to be a mother that can stay at home with kids. It's not really possible. But that has nothing to do wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:08 AM
1

😪
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:00 AM
2

Oh, I am single now but I am pretty happy to not be in a relationship. I value my solitude immensely, so a man would have to be pretty extraordinary for me to be interested at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:56 PM
2

Depends on who I'm being compared to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:11 PM
3

That's great for you. None of the women who run in my similar circles are dating or marrying men with lower education or income, though. And statistics show that people marry at around the same income level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:07 PM
0

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:05 PM
3

Men are not regularly having painful sex unless they're getting penetrated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:05 PM
9

You wouldn't say this if the bad sex you experienced was also usually synonymous with pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:54 PM
0

I personally don't care for too much clitoral stimulation or oral. A big dick is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:49 PM
1

Yeah LA is expensive but I love it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:48 PM
5

Absolutely. I grew up poor, but I had a high IQ and ascended to top-10 schools where I got to interact with high-status and high-earning people. I don't think I could be with a man long-term if he didn't at least have the potential to become high-status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:31 PM
-1

Interesting. I can't relate to this at all, but thank you for sharing your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:14 PM
2

Austin sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:11 PM
0

I'm a woman and I've wondered about this. I've lost interest in men because of bad sex or too small of a penis. Are these potential factors that...well, aren't factors for you? Do you believe your love for each other will ensure no sexual incompatibilities? Does your love ensure you can overcome any sexual incompatibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:05 PM
6

Can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:28 AM
16

We women know. We just don't (generally) openly degrade other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:52 AM
3

He's got to be witty and funny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:49 AM
3

I think you can find women who date without having sex in specific ethnic groups and cultures...outside of the US lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:25 AM
2

Well I am a woman. I will forgive a man's looks to a certain degree if he has the other stuff going on, especially if he's generous with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:15 AM
9

I hope for their sake you're right. But way too many of them have a huge victim complex, which immediately repels women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:17 PM
17

A little? Most seem mentally ill. They have bigger problems than dating. They likely can't even carry on a normal conversation with a cashier at a grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:11 PM
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Best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:05 PM
16

Now that I'm older, I just advertise that I'm a functional adult that is quick witted, funny, and unapologetically honest about who I am... Apparently that's a panty dropper these days It is. Most of the men in this sub aren't able to achieve all of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:55 PM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:50 PM
3

As a woman, this is an unrelateable way to rank men. The last time I was around men who could possibly be close to a 9 WAS in college...but I went to top 10 schools and these were men from affluent US families. A guy just being hot definitely doesn't make him a 9. Maybe to a 14 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:49 PM
2

But that's insane. You can't force someone to want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:44 PM
1

I agree. But we would need to help raise IQ qnd cure defective personality traits. We don't need an influx of hot, retarded sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:51 PM
1

This is not a compelling argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:48 PM
1

If that was the case, everyone who wanted a partner could get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:48 PM
1

Are these men not looking to have sex with the women who don't want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:47 PM
2

What are you considering a 9 man? To me that is a man with celebrity-level looks and making a lot of money, probably a very successful business owner. The vast majority of women, who are average or below, are not sleeping with men in that teir, let alone dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:46 PM
-1

This is delusion. I have been around plenty of average looking women over the course of my life, and they are certainly not having sex with men who would be considered a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:28 PM
1

Allegedly (unless you mean single as in unmarried). And even then, what is the percentage of these women making $400k/year?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:27 PM
2

No it wouldn't and I'd have to dig for it because most people just talk about how shitty women have it (when they can literally do anything they want in most countries). If you don't have any statistical data then you're just making this up. You made an extraordinary claim, so it should be easy to find proof with a quick google search. Its just that most guys can't afford it. If they're super well off they often have sugarbabies instead. Sort of like keeping her on payroll. Huh? Most men can't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:01 PM
10

They don't see ugly women as people. Like they literally don't recognize them in reality, so they don't think they exist in any meaningful population size.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:57 PM
2

This seems to perpetuate the patterns and miscommunication which keeps us single. We want to be together right?! Certainly not with any redpill adherents in this sub. It's clear they are bottom of the barrel types of mates. Who would want to date a guy who spends all of his free time complaining about women online?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:52 PM
2

I would be interested in seeing a statistic showing "tons" of women literally make millions of dollars from it. That sounds like hyperbole. If this were true, virtually all women on the planet would drop out of the job market and economic collapse would occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:47 PM
4

Income level, education level, intelligence, personality, ethics/religion, mental state, and physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:33 PM
0

Sure, but high end escorts, OnlyFans or not, are a very small percentage of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:31 PM
0

They basically want to advocate for mass rape. And this will obviously fall on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:22 PM
11

There can be no "dating equality" when all potential mating parters are of varying degrees of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:02 PM
4

they make more than the president does. I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:57 PM
3

They are probably lower or average income, little to no higher education, and probably live in relatively small towns in middle America. They assume that higher value men are just looking for what they want: a hot woman that will be submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:46 PM
2

This is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:44 PM
4

Omg I think he got so mad he deleted his account 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:47 AM
5

You aren't doing that shit every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:24 AM
1

So you mean in terms of economics. Also idk what beta buck means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:23 AM
2

average women, 5'3, 180lbs Holy shit lol where do you live? Iol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:21 AM
0

I'm a woman. What does dating equality mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:17 AM
22

I run in highly-educated circles as well and I do not see men with women who are uneducated or significantly younger. I only hear about this sort of thing on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:53 AM
8

Your time here, the overthinking about what others are thinking, is a feminine trait. Damn, very true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:51 AM
2

Interesting that you call it an instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:42 AM
2

Very true..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:40 AM
3

I'm a woman..I see average men as: - 5'6"-5'9" - Forgettable face, some acne, slightly balding or has thin hair but it will be groomed. May have glasses that are unflattering to the shape of his face. Wears generic t-shirts and shorts and sneakers. Or graphic tees and hoodies. Clothes don't fit him that well. - Has little defined musculature, or is kind of fat. - I would probably get nervous if he approached and not want to talk to him unless he showed he was extremely intelligent or witty. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:57 AM
6

Are you grotesque? If not, you are definitely young enough to unlearn a lot of things that could be holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:43 AM
3

No. You're not living in a mirror universe. It's just that the incely-posts like this are constructing Kim Kardashian type strawmen to fight against. They are imagining the women who would never accept a date from them, the high-class, high-maintenance beautiful women who generally aren't asked by men to pay for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:40 AM
1

This can happen when a man uses his girlfriend or wife as a bucket for him to vomit all of his emotions into. This can be overwhelming for anyone, but generally men see their female partners are being the sole receptacle for this type of behavior. Women will usually have girlfriend support networks where emotional turmoil can be spread among a few to several others instead of just a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:29 AM
4

Not sure why so many on this sub define being emotionally available as someone who basically spews emotional vomit and reeks of depression. Because having a girlfriend is cheaper than paying for therapy and your therapist can't fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:18 AM
6

True. My brother is conventionally attractive, dated a lot in his youth. I sometimes tell him about the stuff I read from men online and he is always bewildered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:10 AM
3

Emotional availability is earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:07 AM
4

The mentally-stable men I've met just don't want to feel taken advantage of. It's the neurotic, poor, or incely types of men that seem to demand 50/50. It doesn't help that a lot of women also push for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:12 AM
5

Most do not do that, especially since the vast majority of men are not capable of the level of empathy women experience. So that is a crapshoot. You won't know if your man will do all of those things until you actually get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:10 AM
3

I did eventually. I was a stupid young 20-something that didn't know better when I got in, and I was in deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:07 AM
3

Some men can afford it, believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:05 AM
15

Men suddenly become retarded when there is a woman around who can do something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:04 AM
6

I know today they would like you to believe men can have birth and breastfeed but it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:02 AM
11

This reminds me of the time one of my exes (in a relationship of 5 years) thought I was pregnant after throwing up one morning. The first thing he said is that he is only paying for half the abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:40 PM
5

I'm a woman. Who came up with this 50/50 bullshit? It sounds like fake feminism. If a woman is having children, a relationship can never be 50/50. Why even try to look at it that way. Also there is no faster way to kill romance than getting nickled and dimed by the person who is supposed to turn you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:38 PM
46

Sometimes I wonder if men put bad advice out on the internet so they can weed out competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:07 PM
3

Astrology is at least fun to talk about...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:15 PM
5

It probably won't change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:11 PM
2

Well firstly, I value solitude more than your average person. In my last relationship I was engaged and lived with the man. I hated having to live with a man. I don't like living with people period, but it was just annoying to have twice as much hair on the bathroom floor, twice as many dishes, extra shit on the sides of the toilet bowl, more laundry, etc. And I could never just have some evenings in a row completely alone or away from the man. Those are the biggest reasons. The second is that v…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:13 PM
2

We have already proven your arguments are logically inefficient. You are trying to ascribe the creation of society to the entire male sex when it's clear that only a select few male innovators over time are to thank for today's technological comforts. The men who physically helped create and maintain infrastructure are no different from dumb oxen in a field. Mothers, single or not, ensured the survival of male infants instead of aborting them or killing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:09 PM
7

You stupidly ruined a relationship with a high value man because of mental health issues that originally had nothing to do with him. People date others who are "out of their league" every day. Losers and autistic people online will try to convince you that there is some predictable natural order to mating. The truth is that sometimes a hot person will see a mediocre or ugly person as attractive. There is nothing special or impossible about this fact. It sounds like you are probably physically at…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:58 PM
1

So...your are arguing most of the men who commit suicide and kill people (at higher rates than women) are products of single mothers who at one point were married and initiated divorce with otherwise decent men who would have ensured their sons were nonviolent. What about all of the daughters of single mothers? Why are they not committing suicide and killing at the same rates as men? No wonder the people in this thread are not taking your arguments seriously at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:47 PM
2

Hold on a second. Why are men creating single mothers? Men contribute the most to society, and surely they know that single mothers supposedly lead to societal downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:03 PM
6

No thanks. I was a pickme in my youth. Being a pickme is basically being mentally ill, which is constant suffering. I visited your sub. I can see that you are suffering a lot. Your life doesn't have to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:37 PM
-1

Ugly people advance society? You are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:27 PM
3

Sure, I can see all of this. I think less women will become miserable without a male partner. Sex toys can provide orgasms, platonic relationships can provide a certain level of intimacy, you can freeze your eggs, and sperm for them is abundant. Most women are just dick hungry and too lazy to realize these things, but the tide is turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:23 PM
5

I no longer date or have sex with men. The interaction is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:09 PM
2

Can you name a female dominated field that men would struggle in? Women are better at not killing themselves. And better at not killing other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:06 PM
6

I hate being in the kitchen and I hate working.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:58 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:03 AM
3

Source? My lived experiences as a black woman. But there are plenty of studies and articles about this. https://qz.com/149342/the-uncomfortable-racial-preferences-revealed-by-online-dating/ The graph here shows that all races of men respond the least to black women in terms of finding them attractive. This study shows in the graphs as well that all men find black women significantly less attractive than other races of women (except for black men, but even for them, black women are not their favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:53 AM
2

There are men who find entire racial groups unattractive, especially black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:20 AM
0

Not all women believe that obviously. Also there are plenty of industrious people who take advantage of economic opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:19 AM
3

My ancestors did not even live in caves, but even if they did, what difference would it make? It's not like I would be regretting not having better technology I didn't know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:18 AM
0

There would be no society without women. If all women disappeared tomorrow, the men would rape and kill each other before population decline was even an issue. Mating with women and creating homes for their children drove the creation of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:23 AM
4

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:16 AM
-3

Woman absolutely should use men for their money
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:13 AM
2

Disagree. Men just assume these women don't exist because these women are invisible to them in reality. Every day you interact with a wide variety of women across different age ranges, and I'm sure you're not attracted to virtually all of them unless you're on a college campus or on a beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:09 AM
7

I have used dating apps before. I don't get asked out on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:06 AM
2

Not noticed by men at all. I am not noticed by men at all in my current geographical location. I have been to other parts of the country where that slightly changes, and to other countries where I am seen as exotic and I get pursued. But in my current country (US) I am ignored by every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:02 AM
2

Hard disagree. I've seen women share broke dudes who are just hot and good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:01 AM
8

So using this post's logic, are these women "better"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:16 PM
12

As a woman who is not seen as conventionally attractive in western society (am a black woman), and has never received much male attention at all, this was certainly a strange and unrelateable read. I imagine constant validation and attention doesn't do any damage at all. That is how one's self-esteem is built, after all. If anything, being constantly validated probably equates to making more money, higher confidence, and higher social and emotional intelligence. If this attention is *purely* onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:03 PM
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I am not a redpiller or a man. But I am a woman who has lost all interest in sex or dating. I imagine you are the freest type of man possible: one who is not shackled by his libido or need for female attention or intimacy. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:56 PM
2

Maybe that was true 100 years ago. Today in Western societies, by default you are likely overconsuming resources, especially if you have children. The vast majority of people do not innovate, or do labor that keeps society running. A very small, extraordinary percentage of the population have ideas or take actions that keep the wheel of progress turning. 99% of people are forgotten 1-2 generations after they die. Maybe a great grandchild will hear a funny story about you. But most of us will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:55 PM
1

The only men who can pull off polygamy are the hottest ones. So it's not really an option for the vast majority of men. You're better off hiring prostitutes if you need sex that often and you are average or below average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:46 PM
3

You are an outlier. Most men who complain about this issue are ugly and/or poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:36 PM
29

What about all of the women who aren't noticed by men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:32 PM
6

Most people contribute nothing to society and that's perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:30 PM
3

Nope. I am childless and told myself I'd change my mind if I ever met a mother or child that made me feel an inkling of jealousy. Having kids can give you PPD, they make you fat, demand constant attention, etc. A lot more women would opt out of having children if they realized it was a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:05 AM
3

It's because they know as a collective they could never be happy failing to spread their seed or get attention from the opposite sex. So they assume women must feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:03 AM
2

This is all irrelevant if she can just get another high value guy if he ever decided to divorce her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:54 AM
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You're welcome! Black women are definitely seen as property of black men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:48 PM
9

You can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:26 AM
1

Stupid for not vetting the men you have sex with, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:01 AM
3

I'm sure that's true. I can only speak for black americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:37 AM
0

Look at black women marriage rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:53 AM
2

All sex is transactional. If it wasn't, women would be having sex with all the incel men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:51 AM
2

I am curious why you feel this way, because I'm a black woman and most will accept any sort of treatment from a black man as long as he consistently has sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:49 AM
2

Oh for sure. They are exploiting black women's stupidity and/or low self-esteem is what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:48 AM
1

Of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:27 PM
0

Oh, I'm a black woman but I am not interested in marriage, having kids, nor am I attracted to black men. These are just things I've observed and statistics in aware of. It's interesting. Black men also have very easy sexual access to black women, so it is strange to suggest black men can't get sex from them. Black women have probably the lowest standards for sex when it comes to black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:15 PM
3

Oh, I was talking about marriage, not sexual access. Black women's marriage rates are abysmal and most of them prefer to marry black men, who marry non-black women at 3 times the rate in comparison. If anything, black men exploit black women for sex by providing little in return. So in that sense they are losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:04 PM
2

Not black women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:58 PM
2

There are links throughout the article to sources. But feel free to believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:57 PM
0

I don't think most women are ok being single, especially if they don't have kids. Single, childless women are happier than married women with children. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:42 PM
2

That's so sick, but I'm not surprised. A lot of them act like wild animals, and mammies do indeed bolster their egos so they are comfortable feeling like they own any black woman they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:19 PM
9

It's number 7. More women are okay with being single until they meet a guy who meets their standards. They are okay if they "die alone." Women also have more emotional bonds with other women, who can help fill the gap of loneliness if a man isn't around. And like you said, a lot of women have bad experiences with men, and with the internet they can talk about it with other women and find solidarity in avoiding men. Even ignoring all of that, romantic relationships for heterosexual people are bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:17 PM
3

For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:08 PM
3

Thank you for your comment, and that is scary one threatened to rape you. I'm happy to see more black and mixed women also be in the know when it comes to this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:08 PM
7

A lot of older MtF is autogynophelia (Google it). It's a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:06 PM
3

I used to resent black men for this behavior, but I outgrew it eventually. I don't find them attractive and I never date them. I've only dated white men. Black men are like any other men. They will go for what is perceived as the highest value woman, and black women are seen as bottom of the barrel by all races of men on average. I can't even blame them for that tbh. It's just the way of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:48 PM
4

Middle class black women are either single or sharing a black man with other women. The black men who are middle class and up are "upgrading" to any woman but black as soon as humanely possible. I am a black woman who is mid to upper class, in my early 30s, and I don't know a single black man dating or married to a black woman. I live in a multi-racial neighborhood. They are all dating white or Latina. I went to an Ivy League undergrad and top 20 school for graduate. The black dudes would be at …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:18 PM
1

Young girls will grow into to women who see male companionship as transactional (onlyfans) or useless. They are already identifying as non-binary and/or trans because they hate being a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:31 AM
1

You know, I think you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:23 AM
4

Because since slavery, black women were brainwashed into being race loyal only to black men and were repeatedly told no other race would love them. They dream of marrying a "black king" and ignore the fact they just get pumped and dumped in every black community. Many black women don't even see themselves as real women, just walking wombs for black men. They are probably the only race of women who do no real vetting of men. They also seem sex-obsessed, so if a black man is good in bed, she will …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:21 AM
5

Black women are thirsty and the vast majority only date and procreate with black men. This guy has to be pretty unattractive to get rejected by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:51 AM
5

Black women throw themselves at pretty much any black man. You have to be a pretty ugly black guy to be rejected by a black woman. There are more black women than there are available black men, so it should be easy pickings for you. I've pretty much seen the reverse. The second black men get access to white women or non-black women, they immediately date out. Even marriage statistics support this. You grew up in an unusual home if black women praised white men. I'm a black woman and I'm pretty s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:49 AM
8

They don't look better when older. They are just hot older people who were also hot when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:55 AM
6

I'm a woman and this is just straight up delusional. Women in their 20s prefer older men because they are more emotionally mature than their peers and will have more money. But all women think young guys are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:37 AM
9

Yeah, when women think of bald men being hot, they are thinking of dudes like The Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:33 AM
6

Aren't 2 out of 3 men balding by the time they're 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:30 AM
2

I personally would not. Where you live also is a huge factor. If you're in Los Angeles making $100k/yr and he's making $50k/yr with no sign of significantly increasing his income in the future, I would consider it a red flag. My brother makes less income than his wife, but he is a genuine stay at home dad where he does the vast majority of the child rearing while his wife works most of the day. He makes sure everything is clean and dinner is ready before she gets home. But that's rare. That said…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:42 AM
2

Most of the male matches women get on dating apps are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:27 PM
6

Doubtful. Just statistically, most women are not encountering multiple men who are out of their league if we're talking about looks or income. It is probably just a personality thing on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:39 PM
-1

I doubt it's your looks (if you really are attractive and skinny). You are probably coming off in a certain way that is unappealing. Do you come off as if you are vetting your partners, or do you act as if you'll date any guy who is nice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:35 PM
6

Most men don't care about that stuff. Those are bonuses, but not what intially attracts them to you. It's just your looks and if they think your personality pairs well with theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:15 PM
1

Top 100 is not exclusive enough. Go with top 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:10 PM
2

It's straight. If a man loses his penis in an accident and then has sex with a woman, is it suddenly gay? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:09 PM
8

You are probably coming off as if you have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:07 PM
1

Even a "fake" penis (FtM post op with a woman)? No, fake penises are not real penises. And is MtF (no op) with a woman is straight? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:00 PM
1

Nope. If it's a penis going in a vagina, it's straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:49 PM
9

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:31 PM
3

It's not. Most men will get aroused from stimulation of the prostate, which pegging will cause. There is no world where sex with the opposite sex is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:24 PM
4

Lmfao no one is entitled to any sex whatsoever. You don't die if you don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:21 PM
4

If pegging a man is considered gay It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:19 PM
19

I'll say this...I'm a black woman and black men who like the "instagram baddie" look (expensive weaves, wigs, acrylic nails, lip fillers, brazilian butt lifts, fake eyelashes, etc) is a red flag to me and seems to attract a ton of LV black men. I'm not friends with a ton of white guys, but the ones that like the instagram baddie look are the types to slide into random women's DMs for attention. So I do associate that kind of attraction with some low value behavior. I'm sure there are HVM that li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:31 PM
1

The fact you are up and down this thread trying to convince a bunch of internet strangers of your usefulness to society tells us all we need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:21 PM
45

He never had any intention of taking you there because it would've been expensive. He assumed you would be desperate to do any kind of cheap, low effort date if he waited until the last minute. That's good you noped out of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:43 PM
7

That is because LVM think lack of access to sex is literally oppression. It's pretty sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:04 PM
19

Damn that looks good!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:57 PM
21

What's crazy is that millions of women lived lives just like that, many still do, and most don't even end with the husband becoming rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:51 PM
17

That song frustrates me because it sounds really nice musically. I love 70s era R&B and funk. But the lyrics are creepy and trashy. Like he's trying to set a trap for a woman regardless of what her desires are or who she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:25 PM
7

Honestly...most women are too stupid or dick-obsessed to just stop dating or having sex with men. They would rather complain about men than actually take steps to improve their lives by separating from them. I currently don't date or have sex with men (been over 3 years now) and every female friend I have looks at me crazy. Then they will go on to complain about their boyfriend they have no intention of leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:21 PM
21

That's happening right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:14 PM
14

I've never had healthy sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:46 PM
36

Why is it universally okay for men to not like ugly women, but not okay for women to not like ugly men? She is also telling the truth lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:09 PM
12

That kind of makes me feel better that they realized this story only makes sense of it's fiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:54 PM
5

I wear older models of swimsuits that don't look like a clit hammock 😂😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:47 PM
20

What a relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:24 PM
52

Am I crazy and the last woman on earth who doesn't wax her labia? I'm straight. Do lesbians wax as often as hetero women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:45 PM
345

I assume every man on reddit telling a story about a woman is lying and exaggerating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:55 PM
30

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:45 PM
7

Lmfao 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:37 PM
13

"Your girlfriend should buy you a PS5! Lol!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:45 PM
3

I am almost certain ALL of the mods there are men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:38 PM
19

Because only on a pick-me sub would you get awarded for openly admitting you're a degenerate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:42 PM
40

I think he's lying when he says he's never been sexually attracted to any of the young girls he's mentored. We are just supposed to take his word for it? If men really cared about their degeneracy, they would fight against it as a collective. But they don't. It's an interesting reddit comment, but still pathetic in shifting the blame onto a sexless, nebulous "society" that "programs" him to want to have sex with children. MEN want to have sex with children, and they don't see anything wrong with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:42 PM
23

It's sad. When I observe the lesbian relationships and friends I have, none of them are putting on a ton of makeup or hyper feminine clothing. It's clear who the makeup is for the excessive majority of the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:13 PM
24

I agree. The feminist messages over makeup videos makes me a bit nauseous tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:07 PM
6

That was a chilling read. Reminds me of the time I told a redditor that most "amateur porn" is probably revenge porn uploaded without the consent of the woman. Their mind was blown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:01 PM
5

If he is good at marketing, he can literally do that anywhere...No way would I trust a guy working in that industry, especially long-term. You may not see side effects now, but there's no way it won't affect your relationship down the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:55 PM
7

Feminism failed..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:23 AM
28

Sehkmet She Owl made a video about this. Men aren't attracted to women, they're attracted to femininity. https://youtu.be/l3ugzx4I7e4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:53 PM
2

I agree 100%. Deep down, a lot of women are not capable of being at peace with the idea of their best self not being "pretty," "hot," or "fuckable" whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:49 AM
5

They got brainwashed into thinking feminism means never criticizing problematic women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:32 AM
13

I'm starting to wonder if being a pick-me is some form of mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:50 PM
244

That woman is a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:20 PM
7

This sub is great, because it really brings into stark contrast how the rest of the internet and even the world is just 99% male thoughts and opinions oppressively bearing down on you. Even most women are brainwashed into spewing male thoughts and feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:14 PM
12

Pickmes and handmaidens will get you killed. One time I hung out with this girl and her Eastern European "boyfriend" in Italy, who was clearly trying to traffic us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:03 AM
18

I have it happen often. It's so fucking funny. Usually it's when I'm arguing with them and they pull out something I said in this sub and they're like, "No one should take advice from a woman who hates men!!" 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:23 AM
3

This shit took me out 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:55 PM
9

Agree 100%. Once I realized the "great relationship" I always wanted could never truly exist, I felt such a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. No more caring what men think of me, if they're attracted to me, what I needed to do to attract them, etc. I also hate living with other people. My last boyfriend was actually pretty good, but just living with another man and basically having to be his live-in therapist and cleaner for the rest of your life is NOT worth a relationship!! It's like women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:09 PM
4

So we're living in a pick-me world where women aren't sexually harassed and denigrated in gaming spaces?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:59 PM
37

I think about this often. Like it isn't that hard for them to lose weight or get in shape compared to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:40 PM
119

99% of redditors believe this. Never heard "women live life on easy mode" so often in my life than on this site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:37 PM
20

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:21 PM
46

Holy shit. Can i copypasta this whenever I see these annoying comments on posts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:21 PM
20

I honestly don't get the appeal. I lived with my ex boyfriend for 4 years and it was awful. As soon as he stepped through the door he would shuck off his pants and flick his shoes in any which direction because he thought it was funny. I would tell him to stop but he would always "forget." He soiled way more clothes than I ever did, so "splitting laundry" just meant I had to wash and fold clothes way more often. He was always in control of the TV remote. One summer we literally moved his childho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:52 PM
26

It seems like one of the worst things you can do is move in with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:59 PM
258

My brother wanted 6 children until he became a stay-at-home dad of 2. In their minds they're imagining a pick-me doing all the childrearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:05 AM
35

I wonder if a lot of them are just lying and are doing it as a fetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:19 PM
11

Agreed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:49 PM
145

Could you imagine how twisted FDS would become with men around 😂 "Always ask the guy out first because he's probably shy. Always pay for yourself on a date. Be considerate and try to make every date as cheap as possible. Have sex as soon as possible. Always give him a second chance no matter what. If he's mentally ill help him heal. Don't make him clean up if he doesn't like it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:13 PM
7

Right. Knowingly giving a man a fake Rolex watch would be perceived as incredibly disrespectful, but for some reason when it's women's jewelry, that's all out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:04 AM
15

It really is just a ticking clock once a famous woman turns 18, isn't it? How long it will take for her to take sexy publicized photos for the masses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:55 PM
100

Imagine a woman who got her shoe-loving husband some fake Jordan's and the testicular rage he would experience upon finding out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:44 AM
94

Because men see sexual and emotional access to women as a human right. So any sort of movement that makes it harder for them to get that from a woman is seen as a literal infringement on their freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:15 PM
14

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:05 PM
10

They made a sequel where he gets with a woman. They couldn't deal with a man being rejected who wasn't obviously evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:47 PM
117

WOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:51 PM
2

This art style is SO good. Hope this artist is working professionally. And yes, I think my youth and early 20s would have been much happier had I been more focused on cultivating other relationships with women and my own identity rather than chasing men. It honestly regressed my development for some years. That said, I learned a lot about what not to do anymore, and maybe I couldn't have learned any other way. This comic will resonate with some younger women, I hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:31 PM
108

Girl I wasn't ready to say it but...😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:30 AM
135

I feel like if it weren't for fiction that depicted men as noble, brave, and selfless (all lies) it would be easier to completely break free of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:23 AM
15

I love this sub so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:41 PM
168

There's a reason this sub is the last female-only space on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:38 PM
15

GIRL this almost made me throw up reading this! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:44 AM
244

It's pure protection. I'll say it again, I've never met a man who genuinely was happy to be single and celibate. Maybe a monk or spiritually ascended men, which there are a handful of on Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:39 AM
30

He must seriously be awful to deal with if she has to write all of this out to make herself feel better about being with him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:36 AM
18

I hope someone picks her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:27 PM
15

How do we even help women like this omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:44 AM
32

WOW. It's incredible the fake stories pushed for a specific narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:09 PM
18

OMG I hate how my ex would just dump all his shit in my purse if we were going somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:33 PM
8

Men weaponize all of those concepts against us, though. I would be willing to drop them the day men actually see and treat women as equal human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:30 PM
1

They pay because it is a privilege to take our time away to spend on them to see if there's a connection. Why the hell would I spend my own money to stare at and listen to some strange man I know nothing about? Do they not understand how much more fun and relaxation I have in my own? I think if pickmes disappeared who supported 50/50 nonsense we could get past this. Desperation for a man is degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:22 PM
10

The woman who wrote this needs therapy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:03 PM
4

You're 100% right. I've been lucky enough to have 1-2 women in real life call me out on pickme behavior in the past. It was so hurtful, especially because I could hear the disgust and disappointment in their voice for even associating with me. But like bad-tasting medicine, it helped me 100x more than the women who were nice to me. Pickme behavior is degrading and wrong, and no emotionally healthy woman engages in it. Realizing that helped me course-correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:12 PM
40

The older I get, the more I just see men as creatures who just intend to drain you emotionally, physically, and spiritually. They will even drain you financially if you are especially naive. They NEED your heart, soul, mind, devotion, time, space--and they also need your vagina, mouth, and sometimes anus. They need your womb to create and grow their progeny. They need every single last atom of your being, but they can never offer you anywhere near an equal amount in return. They expect you to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:15 AM
9

Same haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:57 AM
34

https://youtu.be/8ojyjzQ632M This scene gives me LIFE!! I died laughing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:47 AM
378

I have literally never heard a man genuinely say he enjoyed being single or celibate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:42 AM
3

Couldn't you use this "argument" for literally any addiction 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:32 AM
6

That's what I want to know!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:54 PM
36

Jesus I used to think this way and it's such an obvious indicator of low self-esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:24 AM
92

This is so sad what the fuck happened to us to allow this to happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:20 AM
46

Are we allowed to talk about this sort of thing here anymore 👀 We know the reddit admins are on that bullshit and the mods had to make changes to protect the sub...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:22 PM
119

These child-like fantasies women are encouraged to have are really damaging. For so much of my life I wanted to believe I was in a Richard Gere movie or something. We project all of these desires onto strange men who have done nothing to prove to us they're even worth talking to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:50 AM
21

What, you don't think it's ~empowering~ to ask a man out because he's not interested in you enough to do it himself? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:42 AM
46

There is a huge movement online to erase women and their experiences right now. A simple way to test what is really going on in an online space or conversation is to ask yourself if the narrative being pushed benefits men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:28 PM
62

They take pride in being disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:31 PM
95

This has nothing to do with saving money or financial literacy. They hate the idea of spending any sort of money toward making a woman happy. If it doesn't immediately benefit them, it is a waste in their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:02 AM
49

He literally admitted to the rape in court once he agreed to reach a settlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:25 PM
29

Whitney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:24 PM
24

Have you noticed these bums never want to shell out the money to pay a cleaning service to deal with these problems. They just assume if a woman is around, they have a free maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:49 PM
63

I'm sure if they just communicate the problem will be solved 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:08 AM
26

God I wish I still had a link to the post. But I remember a popular comment by a man on reddit saying this exact thing. That he didn't realize women had an inner-monologue like men did. Edit: Found it! https://imgur.com/W4I8aTH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:42 PM
43

I'm going on 3+ years now and I find the idea of having sex with a man again unappealing as life goes on. I honestly don't think it would be worth it unless he is actually good at sex (rare) and genuinely loved me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:37 PM
44

Been divested from black men before I even knew what divestment was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:09 AM
64

The vast majority of black men are EXTREMELY LV. Signed, A black woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:08 AM
195

"Sex work is empowering!" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:03 AM
3

I love her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:57 PM
38

Women, please use this as a lesson that men always defend other men, no matter the depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:52 AM
2

May I please have one as well? I miss GC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:35 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:40 PM
10

WOW my ex always would walk in front of me wherever we went (not even doing exercise like running) and it always annoyed me. But I never brought it up because I could never articulate an argument as to why it bothered me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:01 AM
1

He needs to be in therapy, not a romantic relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:20 PM
18

It's sadly true. I've had female friends manipulate and disrespect me right after complaining about their boyfriend at home they never raise their voice around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:08 PM
3

50/50 women will do all the cooking and cleaning and then pay the man half on rent 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:51 PM
101

Exactly. That's why learning discernment is so important. Just because someone is confident in their opinion doesn't mean it's right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:36 PM
12

Hell, I get made fun of for vanilla ice cream being my favorite..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:26 PM
1

Which country so I know to not go there lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:30 PM
12

So he wanted some free money and free sex 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:45 PM
3

Wow, I never thought about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:07 PM
3

Are you okay with supporting him when he has relapses? ...There are women who would say yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:18 AM
20

I was going to say there really should just be escort services readily available for these men so we can weed them out of the dating pool. But they'd never be able to afford it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:53 PM
148

I legit think all of the mods over there are men. Also I'm so sorry all of this disgusting things happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:15 AM
33

I hate how ubiquitous this shit has become over just the past decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:22 AM
29

They always dock points for every woman unless they get naked pics of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:54 AM
4

Men like this seriously do not need their weak genes passed down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:17 PM
15

> Can you imagine being the kids? I don't have to imagine..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:23 PM
3

Luckily, covid kills more men than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:55 PM
16

It's for this reason I wish all women were taught sexual selection. The vast majority of men do NOT need their genes passed on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:45 PM
11

Cardi's husband humiliated her by cheating and Meg got shot in the feet by her boyfriend. Not the best role models for FDS. Their music is fun but there's no need to put these women in a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:17 PM
2

It's in their DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:29 AM
2

This is straight up witchcraft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:48 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:48 PM
24

I always assumed that like always meant, "Men treat women who look attractive better so you better adjust."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:45 PM
11

As a previously "mature for her age" young woman, it's just another way to say "traumatized." And being traumatized makes you especially vulnerable to these predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:41 AM
7

This shit is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:30 PM
1

Sad and pathetic. He also blames his DUIs, lack of income, and lack of education on being in the registry. It's also obvious his relationship with the girl was egregious if he got in trouble with law enforcement. He also suggests he could shoot up a place. Scary shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:14 PM
2

Thankfully it was removed for being fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:53 AM
3

Thanks for this. I was wondering if the social conditioning is really that strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:32 AM
13

It's only because everyone is playing Animal Crossing right now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:17 AM
6

WOW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:47 PM
14

What a sad caption to read. Says a lot about her relationships with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:25 PM
2

Translation: May I have some free nudes, please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:58 AM
1

I think she does. Or I hope so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:21 PM
2

Yes, she's been married for 13 years I believe and with her husband a total of 17 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:37 PM
2

Every "shy" guy I ever asked out was a huge fucking mistake. Don't do it. Get some dignity for yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:12 PM
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