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Your first link refers to the second link.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:15 PM
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Good. If you're not interested in dating these men, they'll remove themselves from your dating pool on their own and let you focus your energy on the men you want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:33 PM
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You are right tho, us shy introvert women are definitely not on the apps. This one was. Got adopted by an extrovert 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:37 PM
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So what? You don't want the fat single moms, so what's the problem? Mad that they don't want temporary fuck buddy status until you find a willing attractive woman or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:31 PM
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We all die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:20 PM
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Bruh 💀💀 I knew I had watched this episode somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:39 PM
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They may not be able to prosecute a dead man, but the government could easily target stuff like survivors benefits towards the families. Also shame and stigma alone could keep the family from reporting it as a suicide, ruling it instead as accidental deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:11 PM
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Since suicide is a crime in Saudi Arabia, I reckon the data may be underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:54 PM
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I've looked through your data now and checked. % age >40: Men: 8% (21/261). Women: 7.3% (8/110). Not only are you wrong about most of the women being "literal boomers", there's also a higher relative percentage of age >40 among the male group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:21 PM
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Why do you think I would be unhappy? Might it have something to do with the fact that I thought we were a happy family, that I could trust him to be the man he said he was until now, that it's gonna be an expectation for all our children despite my loyalty to him and us and then also the fact that he's gonna insinuate that I'm a cheating whore every pregnancy we have? Dude has poisoned the well. I'm gonna doubt him and his love when this is his reaction for not having been unfaithful, and that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:18 PM
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And you don't think that's quite selfish, immature and frankly immoral behaviour? No, I think it's quite selfish and immoral that I'm expected to stay in a relationship that makes me unhappy. I won't stay in a relationship where he directly or indirectly calls me a cheating whore, I think that's a fair expectation. is somehow a worse thing to deal with than the risk that you're raising a child that isn't yours which would have devastating consequences for him and the child once he eventually fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:11 PM
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You're surely aware there are more reasons beyond infidelity and lying that can break trust? Surely? 😂 Nothing sus about a paternity test that comes back positive or a woman that wants a happy relationship. If you're bothered by a woman that doesn't stay in a relationship that makes her unhappy, well that says alot about you and that's a you-problem 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:32 PM
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The change predates the infographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:25 PM
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Miracle cure for long term trust for dad, but nothing about moms now shattered trust? 🤔 You can find it selfish all you want, but I'm actually also allowed to be happy in this relationship. And them's the breaks; you don't like it, don't go around impregnating and then accuse loyal women with a backbone of cheating. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:11 PM
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He's free to want to know 100% the kid is his. I'm also 100% free to not want to raise my kid in a household where dad can't trust mom and being unable to raise this concern before impregnating me. I'd much rather spend my loyalty on someone worth it, and he'd pretty much be romantically dead to me after asking anyways. It's better for both the child and us if we co-parent from happy homes. You say he "simply wants to know", well, I also "simply want to not be insulted to my face about my fideli…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:59 AM
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He is completely free to ask for one and he can have it if he does it through a certified lab that will be accepted in court. We'll need one anyways for the upcoming custody case when we're deciding who's custodial parent, child support etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:19 AM
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No no, they only lie selectively, on the surveys that doesn't support my point /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:58 PM
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OP and his numerous usernames Hoho, share.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:58 AM
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Counterpoint: is this actually why you're upset? It's possible to conclude that something is nasty without being upset and besides, I'm not gonna be the one lying on that mattress huffing mold spores all night in any case. So it has little bearing on my life. Counterpoint 2: what about buying a very cheap mattress? Doesn't change the points, besides warranty. Instead of voiding the warranty though, the poor mattress quality means your sleep will be shit. Bad for your physical and mental health. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:37 AM
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Why is mattress on the floor a problem? It may develop mildew or mold due to lack of circulation around it. The moisture will also cause the mattress to smell. It will accumulate dust and dirt into its crevices, and a mattress ain't exactly easy to wash. You'll shorten it's lifespan. You'll also probably have to shower more frequently. You'll be unable to dust underneath it, but that doesn't seem to be an issue to the nasty fucks that would put a mattress on the floor in the first place. Dust wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:04 AM
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There was a post literally just yesterday from a guy saying that they should make “brainless women for sexual use”. 🤢🤢 The Island): Incel Edition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:20 PM
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But yeah, there could be plenty of biological factors that I am unaware of. Women are more susceptible to STDs during sexual intercourse because the vaginal surface is larger and more vulnerable to sexual secretions than the primarily skin-covered penis due to the nature of the sex, that is, being the one being penetrated. Microabrasions and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:07 PM
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Trade is trade. Normies are still gonna call it "taking advantage of someone in a rough position", doesn't matter how it's dressed down. Miss moral had other options that would have gotten her out of her economic situation. Working on the streets isn't really a decision either. Kinda like giving her the option between ebola, bubonic plague or leprosy. Sure, you might lose a few digits and your eyesight to the leprosy, but atleast it won't kill ya! Doesn't make it a good choice, just makes it les…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:23 PM
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In a bid to find someone that values what I can offer and is willing to make a trade. Us regular normies call this "taking advantage of someone in a rough position", but whatever makes it sound more acceptable to you, I guess, if you don't want to call a spade a spade 🙃 Two consenting adults making fully informed decisions. When the other option you're offering is "probably dying on the streets", it's not really a decision innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:53 PM
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Lmao. What world do you live in. It's terrifying You're literally talking to a guy that looks for girlfriends in homeless shelters, in a bid to make sure they have no support systems beyond him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:42 PM
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If I didn't like how he treated me, he wouldn't be my boyfriend. What other people do in their relationships has little bearing on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:33 PM
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... you do know where the data comes from, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:02 PM
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If his eyes got any closer together, he'd be a cyclops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:07 AM
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Finance bros, retail workers, first responders (and everything hospital related actually), politicians, musicians, transport (truckers, bus drivers, taxi drivers, etc), food service jobs are some of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:21 PM
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The proof of men being more willing to please their women is.. a Q4M in a sub with a sizable percentage of self-proclaimed incels. Who wants sex. Literally can't make this shit up. Bwahahhaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:22 PM
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Damn gurl, makeup on fleek today with that elongated positive canthal tilt and lip liner shortening that 1.2 mm too long philtrum that throw off a harmonious facial third! Looking like a /r/truerateme 5.4, sexy biatch! God, that gave me the heebie jeebies writing that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:17 PM
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Sounds like rape and pillaging rather than "it's too hard to get into female spaces and social groups im doomed 😫".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:33 PM
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Shhhh, just let them tell on themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:33 PM
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Ahahhahhaha wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:51 AM
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Exactly, doing anything else just makes it likelier to miss out on the ones you really, really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:32 PM
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Yeah holy shit, I physically cringed from embarrassment reading that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:34 AM
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If you're looking for a wheat field, wheat fields are great. But if you're looking for a tulip field or a corn field, well..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:11 PM
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I’m sorry, the first sentence of your post has literally no evidence whatsoever to support. Studies actually show the opposite of his claim; women are worse off financially and report higher incidents of poverty after a divorce compared to men. Kinda indicates how serious we should take this post (read: not at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:14 PM
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It does not bother him, that's why he wrote a strongly lettered post about it. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:30 PM
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The douchebro-look alone would disqualify him. Edit: as someone has already pointed out, a hard-core butterface. Strong pass, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:10 PM
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Adriana Lima and Scarlett Johansson are such butterfaces, amirite /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:05 PM
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"gimme that dick" "I am approaching you with romantic intent" And they say romance is dead 😍🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:48 PM
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I'm beginning to wonder if average here is really below average out there. Ding ding ding, the source of 90% of the posts in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:45 PM
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Dude, just Google STD-rates in elderly homes. Ain't no scarcity there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:36 AM
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Aww sweetheart, do you think not being shackled to the kitchen anymore is the only variable that has changed between the 50s and now, and it alone being the cause of misery? That's adorable. They're definitely happier that they're not shackled to the kitchen anymore. Unfortunately, there's a whole lotta additional variables that has also changed that doesn't make up for that one variable. And that's not even considering the fact that it's more socially acceptable to admit to having mental health…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:08 PM
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Lol, never heard about Mommy's Little Helpers? Wouldn't call the 1950s consumption of Valium "happier".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:28 PM
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Now, moving onto women who did approach the guy they liked. What made you do it, as most women don't? I'm not a patient person and I'm not gonna wait around for the guy to get a hint while I flutter my eyelashes at him. Better to get things started, then judge whether or not he's making an effort I'm satisfied with. Did you ever think twice before doing it? Nah, just do it impulsively. Panic about having done that later as I'm heading to the date instead. Almost 5 years together now. ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:48 PM
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Yup, working exactly as intended lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:55 AM
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Being picky, no wasting time with a bad match that won't last anyways. And keep flirting with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:51 PM
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Just search "picture thread", there's a few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:37 PM
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Going by the picture post a year or so ago, yeah you're right 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:13 PM
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You think it's "so many girls" because the other group that have nothing bad to say about their exes have absolutely no reason to tell this to people. Biased sampling, in short.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:40 PM
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Seems preferable to have a woman be with you because she wants you and chooses to be with you, rather than because she needs something from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:22 PM
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Dude, he's still obese in the after-photo..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:26 PM
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a bit overweight (around 300-350 lbs) 💀 a bit overweight? At best, his BMI is 44, which is class III obesity. At worst, it's 53.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:57 PM
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According to Pew: single, meaning they are not married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship These criteria are not mutually exclusive with having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:14 AM
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I doubt he'd catch my interest to begin with if he was a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:06 PM
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If they didn't, there would be no such thing as a crazy/hot-scale. Alas, there is. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:08 AM
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Guys aren’t exactly that knowledgeable about them He is as knowledgeable as his job title requires. because we don’t have them. And this is why male gynos are wayyy more gentle "handling" them than some of the female ones I've experienced. because I can’t imagine a straight guy choosing that profession. Which sexuality likes looking at old/diseased genitalia? Because that's mostly what they're looking at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:44 AM
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There's a subtle difference between the women choosing to be with you and the women choosing to be with you to escape poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:04 PM
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Cute. Which gender is it that has the saying "bros before hoes" again? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:21 AM
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And if he doesn't tell on himself, his friends will. You are the company you keep after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:58 PM
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Am I supposed to have feelings about this? I would expect to split rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:13 AM
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Why do you assume there's only one way to be gorgeous, and it being defined by male sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:54 AM
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If you convince someone she's a 10/10 who only deserves the very best of men, she will willingly take herself out of competition You're assuming she's part of my competition pool. She's not. So it costs or gains me absolutely nothing in the dating arena to call her gorgeous, except the win of gaining another friend and improving their mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:49 AM
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See how he defines "success with women"? Taint was quite obviously paying them to keep him company. OP doesn't seem to realize it's always been possible to pay for sex, it's not something new and revolutionary from Taint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:49 PM
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So you do see these are two different groups I take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:53 AM
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You do see the difference between complaining about a partner and complaining about half the world's population, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:33 AM
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I think it's more like it reflects on him if "most women" aren't good partners. Like attracts like. We see people in the same socioeconomic group end up together. Well, it doesn't only work for socioeconomic groups; trash attracts trash explains the people that only have bad things to say about the other sex 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:25 AM
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Leo doesn't have a 25 limit. It's just by that time the women get tired that it's not going places and they need to leave if they want that life. Like, most of his exes are mothers and married (or have been married) now. It seems more like a rite of Hollywood passage at this point. Good PR for actresses/models starting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:12 AM
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In a society and age period where women had limited options for earning money for a living lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:04 AM
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Thank God, we're safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:07 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:06 PM
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Do you think Reddit is representative for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:34 PM
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Imagine your husband only eat your pussy on your birthday and is very unenthusiastic about it... Bold of you to assume this guy would've made it to husband-status to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:31 AM
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Maybe your pussy stinks. Can't keep my man out of it, so it can't be that 💅 It's not my problem if some dude doesn't eat pussy. He already disqualified himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:17 AM
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There's no effective difference; my pussy ain't getting ate either way and to the curb he goes. Ain't nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:11 AM
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I wouldn't be together with him to begin with if I wasn't happy with how he treated me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:20 PM
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These men aren't even in the running when it comes to dating me, so why should I care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:25 PM
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OP is attracted to anime girls and is clutching his pearls over the dumb shit here. He's not in any % because he isn't even participating. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:47 PM
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There's also plenty of people on social media that thinks the earth is flat, yet you don't see me calling the earth flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:39 PM
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Who are these women? Figments of his imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:50 PM
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So childfree women and men never hit the wall then, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:20 AM
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Most women on this sub are over the age of 40 if you look at the recent census poll. Not true. It's the largest singular age group, but the other age groups <40 make up the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:07 PM
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For some reason they keep misrepresenting that stat. And conveniently ignoring how Pew even define single: single – that is, not married, living with a partner or in a committed romantic relationship A small share of singles report that they are, in fact, currently casually dating someone. This group includes singles of all ages and most of them are open to a relationship if one comes along. Single men are more likely than their female counterparts to be searching for romantic experiences. Half …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:52 PM
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The simple truth is if its not unconditional its not love. OP a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:25 AM
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None of these studies say more than 50% of men under 30 would say that they didn't have sex in the past 5 years Link the study that says >50% of men under 30 say they didn't have sex in the past 5 years. Rich of you to claim someone to be factually incorrect when you're blatantly misrepresenting studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:23 PM
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more than 50% of men under 30 would say that they didn't have sex in the past 5 years Link the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:37 PM
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I think it worked out brilliantly for him TIL getting detained for rape and human trafficking classifies as "worked out brilliantly for him".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:35 PM
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A lot of girls could be totally stunning if they put a bit more care into it or if someone showed them how to do it better. What if looking stunning isn't their priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah, that nagging wife y'all complain about? She's nagging because she cares. She stops nagging is when you should be very afraid; a wifey that doesn't care anymore doesn't have much incentive to stay with dead weight. She has checked out and when she realizes that, cue the surprisedpikachuface.png when she "suddenly" leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:13 PM
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How are they fathering children that aren't theirs? They say 1 in 50 btw, not 3 in 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:31 PM
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If you're talking to hundreds of people and not making any friends, you have a bigger problem than your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:10 PM
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Sounds like their insights helped nada then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:22 AM
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Yeah, a lack of opposable thumbs is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:25 PM
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Choosing to not date you isn't oppressing you. Thinking it does does sound like a funny concept called entitlement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:52 PM
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Lol, in most relationships getting married is a mutual decision that is discussed prior to him getting down on his knee to begin with. The impending marriage is clearly known to both parties; just not the how and when of the getting-down-on-one-knee-part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:14 PM
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Based on my lifestyle I must be a virgin then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:21 PM
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Doesn't sound like love if a man is willing to hurt and upend life for everyone involved for someone he'll never think about again. Like why even do it if it means nothing to him and it means alot for his family Either it means nothing or it does mean something and you don't care how it affects others, and that's not love. Like, pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:03 PM
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Preferring subjugation of half the population so that the bottom % of the other half gets a "fair distribution" of the sex they're owed, I guess. Democracy, communism style.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:42 PM
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I'm sure you're able to Google that yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:38 AM
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I was a virgin until 20. No other reason than being unimpressed by most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:27 AM
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Actual: 6 What I tell them: 50, then I would dump them if they asked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:20 PM
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Even when studying men and women at random At random, you say? This study included 600 male and female high-school-students of Isfahan in 2007-08. And you link a study from IRAN, oh my GOD. 😂😂😂😂😂 if you linked this as your credible source, well it failed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:07 PM
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Didn't you know, starving yourself to death and dying in your own filth is peak masculinity, the true alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:48 PM
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The average earnings on OnlyFans is only about $180 per month. Better break out that caviar and champagne.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:33 PM
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Healthy marriages and relationships in my family and social circle I guess. And dating a stupid person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:45 PM
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2018: 100,241 2013: 126,719 2008: 135,942
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:44 PM
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I'm gonna tell you secret. Why prioritize something that is guaranteed to fade anyways? Why not prioritize common interests, family compatibility, cultural values etc.? You can do both at the same time. Amazing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:51 PM
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Because it's their opinion by proxy, and having a link makes it feel legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:30 PM
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"Religious commitment is associated with decreased sexual activity, poor sexual satisfaction, and sexual guilt, particularly among women."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:51 PM
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For me I personally wouldn't be dating him at all to begin with if I didn't feel like he treated me like a queen, so why would I care he treated someone like a princess? 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:52 PM
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I'm pretty sure the existence of my partner is enough hint that I'm not gonna be interested. Also, most men have the minimum social antennas required to infer my lack of interest from the nature of our friendship: platonic and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:21 PM
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His job offers very generous family health insurance plan and/or other types of free goods and services that are technically not his wages. We have universal healthcare, and he'll soon be unemployed for a couple of months as his contract is running out, so no. His job pays entirety of the rent. We both pool a fixed % in a shared account, so we're both paying. My fixed % is higher. He's a trust fund child / heir who realistically could never work in his life and still afford decent lifestyle. Nop…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:01 PM
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They're 100% free to find me attractive and to tell me this. I'm also 100% free to expect the bare minimum of social awareness and ability to read the room from my friends. Like, I never asked you if you found me fuckable, so why tell me this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:20 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:57 PM
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Official commitment = dating. one night stands, fwbs, hookups, first dates off of dating apps = single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:05 PM
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So your anecdotal evidence is laughable As opposed to your complete lack of it, I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:54 AM
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We just call that Wednesdays in our house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:47 PM
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Haha, if that's true the credit should be forwarded to the commenter who put it all together, I'm just the messenger ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:22 PM
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But the thing about that, his that is exactly Freud's description of how the Madonna-Whore complex manifests itself among women. The way that she is secretive about her sex life, she hides this guy away, tries to keep the relationship illegitimate, and loses interest when the relationship becomes legitimate. Yeah no, that's not what Madonna-whore-complex is.. .. is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship.[1] First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:39 AM
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This you? Linking a comment that summarizes what I mean succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:56 AM
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TRP does nothing to help you cultivate a meaningful relationship. It helps you get laid, which is a very different thing. Not only that, but it only really "works" on a specific type of woman that isn't commonly congruent with deep, meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:27 PM
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A) and B) combined. Maybe not retire early specifically, but work part time since I like the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:54 AM
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Ah yes, link the gangbangs I've apparantly talked about, we'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:14 PM
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I never changed anything I said. I mean we got women who's post histories go into delicious sexual details of having a random gangbang with strangers then she comes in here to shame men for even thinking about sex. This you? Stop deflecting with insults, if you're lying about your sources just tell us. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:07 PM
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That doesn't answer my question. And why would a married woman be healthier than a single woman? It literally does, but it's interesting to see you move the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:35 PM
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And why would a married woman be healthier than a single woman? Part of the marriage benefit could be explained by the fact that people in good health are more likely to marry. Married people are more likely to have health insurance, Ornstein said, and therefore, have better access to health care. Being married also means you have someone looking out for you and reinforcing healthy behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 11:59 AM
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Zing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:18 PM
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However, many might not know that it’s possible to be charged for child pornography simply by watching some types of cartoons. Under the PROTECT Act of 2003, any obscene image that depicts a minor qualifies as child pornography in the United States. The scope of the act isn’t limited to photos of children; it also covers illustrations and renderings of fictional children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:10 PM
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Child pornography (CP) is any sexual depiction of a minor. Title 18, Section 2256 of the U.S. Code defines child pornography as “any visual depiction, including any photograph, film, video, picture, or computer or computer-generated image or picture, whether made or produced by electronic, mechanical, or other means . . . of a minor engaged in sexually explicit conduct.” Sexually explicit conduct does not require that the minor be engaged in sexual activity. Offenders of federal child pornograph…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:45 PM
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to make it more politically correct as not to piss you off. The insane ramblings of the unhealthy is not something I put much weight in, luckily. Plus it's better that you keep it this way, it makes it much easier for people to save their time so they can comment on something worthwhile instead. I don’t know a single woman who loves a man just because. Of course you don't, nothing about this posts screams healthy relationships. "You are the company you keep" is a wellknown phrase for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:41 AM
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And I know women who has been raped and financially abused by men. Yet I don't think all men are abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:30 PM
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and it’s weird that u went into my post history Not really as a normal person reading a title like that, would kinda be like asking "are men capable of caring about women unless they're having sex with them?", like, touch some grass pls before posting. Plus it has brought alot of context to the post and your frame of mind. Might help people judge whether or not it's a post worth engaging with. I’m not trying to say all women are the same, I’m trying to say I hope they are not. That's not what's …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:28 PM
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Do you truly want advice or just a circle jerk post? Stop trying to get over getting dumped by your BPD ex by rebounding with a bunch of partnered women and projecting the trust issues you've developed from fucking these partnered women on all women. Like jesus, just take a little break and focus on just you instead of avoidance coping as a way to escape negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:12 PM
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I neither like or dislike the opposite gender; I don't see the need to have an opinion on people that have no bearing on my life be it female or male, I like individuals. I like my friends that happen to be male because I have [insert male-dominated hobby, study etc.] in common with them plus I enjoy their humor and banter and ease of friendship. I like their company and the fact they have a penis is irrelevant to whether or not I enjoy their company. Have I met men that I actively disliked? Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:38 PM
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The two aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:33 AM
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How is domestic abuse defined? The intimate partner violence by Swedish men reported in the interviews showed that the immigrant women had experienced not only *psychological violence** in their family life in particular, but also a combination of physical, economic and sexual violence (Table 3).* How do the domestic violence rates of passport men compare to those of men in their home country? Passport men: Previous research has shown that the lifetime prevalence of IPV among Thai women residing…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:19 AM
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You do know how the algorithms work, right? My Instagram and YouTube is filled with kittens and history shorts, doesn't mean the world is about to experience a Christian crusade manned by kittens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:07 AM
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Woman bought the wrong brand of beer, man punches the wall, woman rewards man with desired behavior because she fears that next time it might not be the wall he punches. Totes peachy, the hallmark of a healthy relationship /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:04 AM
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Each time I think the sub has hit a new low, some basement dweller pops out of their dank basement with something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:15 PM
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Single mothers from a higher socioeconomic status, probably higher education and a solid support system around them, having children that are incredibly wanted? Exactly what's the downside here? Or are you equating these single mothers with single mothers from a low economic status, working multiple jobs to make ends meet because baby daddy decided to skip, having children born into poverty. These are not the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:48 PM
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Imagine being this angry about women living their lives without taking your input about how they do it into consideration. Do I look? You are damn right I look. And I look multiple times, for a long time, and make comments about her to my gym bro. Does it make her feel uncomfortable? Probably, but the way she dresses makes us all uncomfortable. If it didn't there would be nothing to talk about. No one's stopping you, but do mind it goes both ways. Do I call him creepy? You're damn right I will. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:43 AM
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Yeah lol. If we don't mutually simp for each other, I'm outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:52 PM
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By that logic, you do realize people aren't going to be shouting from the rooftops that they're unable to find sex partners? Guess the 30% incel problem never existed. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:20 PM
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That's not how the math work, are you for real? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:17 PM
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I take it you have no actual sources for your claim then? About 16 per cent of Australians report having an STI at some point in their lifetime — that's roughly 4 million people, [...] A sexual health survey published earlier this year by the University of New South Wales (UNSW) found just 58 per cent of respondents had ever been tested for STIs or HIV, [...] and 24 per cent didn't use condoms with casual partners. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:46 PM
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I'd prefer 12 cats and a bottle of wine, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:19 PM
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Can you prove STIs are uncommon in Australia besides "I never got an STI in college"? Gonorrhea rates in Australia up 63% in 5 years, data show Syphilis cases rise in Australia despite fall in testing for STIs during pandemic Chlamydia notification rates increased substantially between 1999 and 2011—from 74 to 363 infections per 100,000 people. Gonorrhoea notification rates have increased since 1996—most noticeably between 2008 and 2017, when the rate more than tripled from 36 to 118 notificatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:35 AM
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You're free to have that opinion, I guess? You could claim the sky is green for all the good it does, but whatever shakes your goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:09 AM
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30% of the male population, which makes up 50% of the population. So. 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:48 PM
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"You can't fire me, I quit!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:53 PM
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I wonder how they have so much time for these long ass rants. Maybe ChatGPT?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:51 PM
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You think the comments where they admit to being virgins is the same comments they're debating in? Look at peoples post histories before you deny something exists. Just yesterday we had a post advising men how to treat women to get sex; dude literally has a dead bedroom in his own marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:02 AM
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Dude, there's several posters that have admitted this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:15 PM
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I actually used to be a janitor I know what it takes to clean. Do you have children hanging onto you while doing it? Does your lunch break involve preparing food for x amount of small humans, and do you have to bring them with you on your toilet break?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:22 PM
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He's already not having sex with his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:46 PM
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You keep moving the goal posts 😂 and no, that's not how it works. The Utah murders are cut and clear; murder-suicide after wifey asked for divorce. Not exactly unheard of, also no speculation necessary as the murderer is known and not on the run. The family had a history of domestic violence and the social circle of the family are religious and probably not much active on social medias like Reddit. The Idaho murder is still under investigation with open tip lines and a murderer that doesn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:18 PM
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That story is already on the front pages, what more do you want the media to do? And that one doesn't have "pretty girl privilege", yet it's still on the front pages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:47 PM
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How many of them involve 6 sleeping students that aren't involved in criminal activities, close to campus in a city that hasn't had a murder since 2015?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:21 PM
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You've linked like, no proof, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:41 PM
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You don't understand why a murder case involving 4 people being stabbed to death (without a suspect for a long time) with two unharmed women sleeping through it in a city with a population of 25k would get media attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:40 PM
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Men here are luckily not representative of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:45 AM
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Nah, it just makes me appreciate the men in my life more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:35 PM
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Oh, I don't deny that these men exist. I deny that there's "plenty" of these men, as if these men are a sizeable majority or even a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:22 AM
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I know you don't have to have a high n count to have a high libido, as I do so myself. But lets stop the delusional hamstering; y'all argue that high value men have options, exercise those options and therefore have a high n count because respect from your bros or whatever, and now: There are plenty of men with high libidos and low n counts. Either these are the losers that don't have options and therefore have a low n count, which again =/= self control or y'all are choosing whichever definitio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:24 PM
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Not having options =/= self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:00 PM
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Ah yes, this strategy works perfectly in Iran.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:11 PM
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From Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, National Crime Victimization Survey, 2015-2019 (2020), table 5 Rates of victimization reported and not reported to the police, by type of crime, 2019-2020: 2020: Reported to the police: 0.3 (per 1000 people age 12 and older) Not reported to the police: 0.8 (per 1000 people age 12 and older) Source, apparantly a feminist organization.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:44 PM
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Source? Does marriage cause women to live longer or are healthy women more likely to be married? Because those are two completely different angles. Part of the marriage benefit could be explained by the fact that people in good health are more likely to marry, said Katherine Ornstein, an associate professor of geriatrics and palliative medicine at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City. Married people are more likely to have health insurance, Ornstein said, and therefore, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:32 PM
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The cope is real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:32 AM
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Experiment 4 showed that for sexually experienced men, the more positive their attitude was toward sex, the more they implicitly favored women. Explains why so many men here are so whiny lol. By contrast, men low on sexual experience implicitly disliked women to the extent they liked sex. [...] A plausible interpretation is that men who like sex and have their sexual needs fulfilled by women tend to automatically favor women, whereas men who want but are deprived of sex may implicitly resent wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:28 PM
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Yeah, a half-assed box of poor quality Valentine's chocolates from the grocery store isn't impressive compared to handpicked confectionary from a chocolatier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:43 PM
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The more they gotta move the goal posts, the weaker the original argument becomes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:11 PM
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If you're not attracted to the person, it's by definition not a good choice unless you think being settled for is a good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:07 PM
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Its probably based on old stats gathered by another random dude on the internet. The National Survey of Family Growth from the CDC, but go off I guess LOL. Some of us have higher standards than debunked statistics I guess 😏 Be sure to present it to your Family Court judge during the divorce proceedings. What's that sound? That's the salty sound of someone who ran out (bad) arguments 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:16 PM
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it’s useless to begin with. According to you. Not according to the paper I nabbed it from and I think I trust that more than a random dude on reddit. I think your stat is useless because it's literally been proven useless several times over LOL. Your hysteria over OPs post doesn't change the fact that the women he's looking for can do way better and have already done so way before their 30s. A bunch of whiny bottom 20% men blaming feminism doesn't change that fact ;) the saltiness is real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:59 PM
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If it wasn’t, ~50% of all marriages wouldn’t end in divorce Myth. This stat (old btw) includes people that remarry several times and has been debunked many times. Divorce rates are actually going down as a whole. 81% stat still showing that OP is far from the norm lol, debunked stats aren't an argument either LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:41 PM
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Even more moving of the goal posts lol. 81% of men manage the "impossibility" that is convincing a woman to marry them. Can't be very impossible then, no? OP has no argument to counter against to begin with and until that happens, I have nothing to work with lol. "I said so" isn't an argument and the 81% that manages it fine proves him otherwise. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:18 PM
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81% of men are married by age 40. The anecdotal experiences of the bottom 20% isn't representative of the rest of us lol and therefore don't need to be disproved, seeing as they're not facts. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:04 PM
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OP's anecdotal experiences aren't facts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:42 PM
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Why should they petition to end something that doesn't even happen in 90% of divorces and why are you moving the goal posts? How exactly is alimony relevant to your claim that "those women are few in numbers" and that's why "marriage rates are low"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:57 PM
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Agreed, most people change alot between 20-25, which is why young marriages have higher divorce rates. After 25, you'll want a few years together as a couple before marrying and having kids, which coincides with early 30s. If you're only just starting to look in your 30s, you're way too late to the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:45 PM
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Ah yes, the 10% of divorce cases that even orders alimony? So many.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:28 PM
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Are you basing this statement on marriage rates? You do know you don't have to marry to have a serious relationship, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:23 PM
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Perhaps for those that married early. Most of the couples I know pair up in their 20s, marry in their 30s and seems to be doing quite well in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:21 PM
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There's a reason those women stay on the apps for longer time periods.. the catches are already off the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:20 PM
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Yeah, it's as if OP is unaware that desirable, relationship-oriented women have options and has already picked one. Most of the couplings I know that married in their 30s paired up in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:46 AM
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Peaceful indeed. Some primatologists have argued that de Waal's data reflect only the behavior of captive bonobos, suggesting that wild bonobos show levels of aggression closer to what is found among chimpanzees. depending on the community, socially-bonded females may be co-dominant with males or dominant over them, even to the extent that females can coerce reluctant males into mating with them While bonobos display less severe aggression than chimpanzees, this does not mean bonobos are nonaggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:18 AM
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Depends on whether or not he continues making statements that are blatantly incorrect, lol. Peaceful species, my ass. I like how he's trying to push that bonobos are such a peaceful society because of free sex, kinda feels like he's trying to hint about something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:59 PM
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That sounds more like because they don't have the strength to take leadership, they have to simp to reproduce. Aka pussywhipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:59 PM
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More likely because of the matriarchal social structure lol, they're pussywhipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:53 PM
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In fact, unlike in humans, there’s hasn’t been a single recorded case of bonobo killing another bonobo either in captivity or the wild. Here ya go. This data confirms that bonobos are less violent than chimpanzees with only *one observed conspecific killing*. https://www.mpg.de/8430864/chimpanzee-males-aggression Also: While bonobos display less severe aggression than chimpanzees, this does not mean bonobos are nonaggressive. Groups of female bonobos can attack and seriously injure males (e.g. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:33 PM
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“Bonobos are merciless,” says Gottfried Hohmann, a behavioural ecologist at Max-Planck Institute for Evolutionary Anthropology in Leipzig, Germany. He witnessed several monkey hunts among bonobos living in the Democratic Republic of Congo, and says, “they catch it and start eating it. They don’t bother to kill it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:26 PM
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I'm making fun of OP, but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:29 PM
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"Women have no reason to be afraid of men, because men get attacked more! By other men!" Bruh, so men are indeed dangerous and we ought to be cautious. Thanks, we were aware. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:19 PM
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Sure...... 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:11 PM
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https://static.dw.com/image/64040852_1006.jpg A current photo of the first dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:51 AM
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This is definitely within the realm of neuroscience, And now I know I can completely disregard your opinion. It's not within the realm of neuroscience, because it's not neuroscience. I ask for neuroscience and you link me a psychology phone survey study, honestly.... THIS is neuroscience for example. All that research has since been pretty much dismissed, That's how science works. You build on findings and make it better. We did after all at some point think leeches and lobotomies were the lates…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:45 AM
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She's average among hot girls, Still not what average means. guys who pull hot girls These guys aren't here 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:13 AM
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That's still not what average means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:49 AM
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If that's so, post links?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:49 AM
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Bruh, some of the men here thinks Emma Watson is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:19 AM
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Psychology is a pretty broad science though, I hardly think neuroscience is "less rigorous" for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:12 AM
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I hope this involves Ashton Kutcher and a camera crew.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:20 PM
1

I honestly thought it was the boomer app of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:24 PM
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How many LTRs have you had? Why did they not work out? And how many LTRs would it take for a 40 year old man or woman to be seen as a red flag in your book (assuming they were never looking to get married or have children)? I've had 2 LTRs at 28. First one lasted four years and I broke up with him because I didn't love him anymore romantically and second one is still ongoing for 4 years now. As for red flag I'd say 0 or >10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:50 PM
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And the second eye doesn't match up :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:07 AM
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Do explain to us how you think fiction and non-fiction are two comparable entities here.. 🤣🤣🤣 And no, I wouldn't think it's a big deal. I don't make a habit of watching movies I'm uninterested in like most normal people and I'm pretty sure Hollywood is more interested in making $$$ than appeasing the bottom 20% of men that thinks "Disney lied to them".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:43 AM
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Jokes on you, we're dying from the moment we're born.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:11 AM
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Most of the successful people, don’t resent. Anything. Let alone other people. Presumably a trait, most people share. This comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:10 AM
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"Fiction is indeed... FICTION!" So scandalous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:51 AM
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Not just enslave her, but have equal shares in her with a group of men if he can't afford his child sex slave alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:00 PM
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"But if you date younger you can mold her to your preferences!"Grooming EditionTM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:49 PM
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😨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:01 PM
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Your own article does say women between the ages of 18 to 29 cheat slightly more than men. 11% versus 10% isn't so much "more" that it makes up for men reporting cheating more in all other age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:16 PM
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That's not what your OP is describing. play it slow, go the friends first route, maybe it will lead to something more: "Play it slow" for what? Unless there's something you're aiming for..? "Friends first route"? What is second, since there's a first step? "Maybe it will lead to something more"? If that's one of your motivations for befriending someone, it's indeed actually having "ulterior motives".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:13 PM
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Christ, I hope you don’t make every decision in life based on whether or not it will increase your chances of landing or keeping a partner. Dude literally found his partner in a homeless shelter just so he could make sure choosing him would be a better survival choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:32 PM
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By that logic, is it hypocritical to shave facial hair? Or use lip balm for dry lips? Is all grooming hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:35 AM
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You're not selling them very well right now. Lol, the men here are the true misandrists. Some of the shit they say, Jesus..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:29 PM
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So.. how does it work with child birth, eating chocolate or petting cute dogs? Because that kinda implies mothers can't bond as closely to subsequent children, eating chocolate and petting many cute dogs will will stop feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:35 PM
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I need to get out of bed, but it's so cold :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:57 AM
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You're right, but it wasn't early church fathers, but psychiatry in general at the time. Like, the vibrator was invented to treat "female hysteria" and "nymphomania" which were legit diagnoses back then. "An Examination of Sexist Roots of the Psychiatric Diagnosis of Nymphomania in 19th Century America" is a PDF on Google that might be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:56 AM
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You're right, but it wasn't early church fathers, but psychiatry in general at the time. Like, the vibrator was invented to treat "female hysteria" and "nymphomania" which were legit diagnoses back then. "An Examination of Sexist Roots of the Psychiatric Diagnosis of Nymphomania in 19th Century America" is a PDF on Google that might be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:56 AM
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Yeah, my guy was literally one out of like 20 potential matches, swiped from a pool of 15,000. "Easy", suuuure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:34 AM
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Beard and chest hair 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:46 PM
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His contact lenses point in two different directions every scene, kinda hard to take serious haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:43 PM
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Way to bury the lede.. Welcome to Bespoke Surgical, an elite anal surgery practice purpose-built by Dr. Evan Goldstein for today’s gay male and anyone looking to improve their anal health. This survey was conducted as part of Bespoke Surgical’s survey series to examine America’s sex life. Do you think their survey is in any way representative of the US population? Also, do you think 3151 respondents across 50 states gives a large enough sample size from each state?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:20 AM
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Your link is a question post asking whether or not people have to pay for children that aren't theirs. Most replies seems to be calling him an idiot. One reply describes a man that assumed he was the father and started paying child support when they found out she was pregnant a month after their breakup. Not a man that dated a single mom and was on the hook. Do you have any actual cases where the man in question did not assume paternity/take on a paternity role? Because it comes across as pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:16 AM
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Hoe dare you come here and be reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:48 PM
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The difference was whether or not they used condoms, with the conclusion being that internal exposure to semen could have a positive effect on mood. Or.. the women who aren't using condoms are using hormonal birth control in their relationships since they're not concerned about STIs. Of which we can infer that the women in relationships are happier than the women who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:02 PM
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If the relationship isn't mutual simping, I'm not interested 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:33 PM
1

the definition is more closely related to sexual attraction. My point is, this definition is reductionist. It's instantly disproved by comparing what I find physically attractive to what another woman find physically attractive. If I'm more of a Timothy Dalton/Scott Speedman-type of gal, Timothee Chalamet could be hand-carved by Michelangelo and he still wouldn't measure up for me. And the other woman might be the complete opposite. It doesn't mean Timothee Chalamet can never be physically attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:55 PM
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what actions/outcomes do you hypothetically desire to happen once you are drawn together? Why does there have to be an action/outcome that happens just because I think he's pretty to look at? Do you think all my friends for example must be physically unattractive to me, but that I value some other trait in them and that is what separates them from men I'd consider for relationships? Because I do have male friends I find incredibly attractive that I'd never consider for relationships. I can think…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:21 PM
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So having sex during these 1/6 of a month might end up giving you an 18 year long dependent after a 9 month interlude. And sperm can survive for days, making more than 1/6 of the month unsafe. And that's every month between like age 12 and age 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:55 PM
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I think it's appropriate to equate physical attraction to sexual attraction Timothee Chalamet and Harry Styles are both very attractive men. Still, they do nothing for me sexually. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:47 PM
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Yeah, we're not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:27 PM
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That was a whole lotta text and I still don't even know what it said. Why yall gotta make this so complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:48 PM
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If you need to be new to stand out, you've lost because you ain't gonna be new forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:55 PM
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I don't believe that video is filtered. It looks authentic. Her hair changed color and the resolution is really bad. Imagine how she'll look in high definition, it won't be pretty or realistic looking. Most men pay don't much attention to detail. She might not fool women with knowledge about make-up, but she would fool a lot of men. Bwahahahhah, you seriously wouldn't notice TAPE on her face or that her nose could literally end up on your shirt if you hugged her too hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:00 PM
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One picture is comparing no makeup with a filtered video, and the two last ones compare no makeup (and grimace) to literal red carpet photos where they try to look good. Heavy makeup does not look good in natural lighting and high definition photos. This kind of heavy makeup looks good in flattering lighting not up-close or on video. Like, in the first picture you will obviously see her circle lenses, false lashes and the fact she had taped down her jaw. And that she literally built a new nose w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:38 PM
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Don't forget your beauty mark and rouge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:36 PM
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Nah, they were originally male wear. The origin of high-heels can be traced back to 15th century Persia when soldiers wore them to help secure their feet in stirrups. Persian migrants brought the shoe trend to Europe, where male aristocrats wore them to appear taller and more formidable. Claim back your fashion, boyos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:25 PM
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I knew it. Three gremlins in a trench coat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:06 PM
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If I were a woman and said I preferred tall men, what prevents me from leaving my spouse for a taller man who shows interest? Do you think tall dudes stop being tall as soon as she realizes there's taller dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:52 PM
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Do childfree women never hit the wall then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:49 PM
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Could make cup cakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:49 PM
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I don't think I'm misinterpreting anything, which is why I linked the following sentence in the report after your: Inmates in state and federal prisons with a criminal history were more likely to be parents of minor children than those with no criminal history Because this sentence implies that incarcerated men are more likely to have minor children than non-criminals, as "no criminal history" usually doesn't mean first time offenders in prison for most people. Prisoners with a criminal history …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:31 PM
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I linked him proof and he didn't reply lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:07 AM
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Just another day on PPD. Notice he didn't reply lol, but pretty sure he downvoted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:07 AM
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accounting for 2.3% of the U.S. resident population under age 18. Doesn't seem like they have as many children as your comments would imply. In any case, not "astronomical". So 97.7% of US resident population under 18 do not have an incarcerated parent.. Inmates in state and federal prisons with a criminal history were more likely to be parents of minor children than those with no criminal history Prisoners with a criminal history were more likely to report being a parent than prisoners with no …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:11 AM
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one documented instance This data confirms that bonobos are less violent than chimpanzees with only *one observed conspecific killing*. https://www.mpg.de/8430864/chimpanzee-males-aggression Here ya go. Also: While bonobos display less severe aggression than chimpanzees, this does not mean bonobos are nonaggressive. Groups of female bonobos can attack and seriously injure males (e.g. Parish 1996; Stevens et al. 2006; Hohmann & Fruth 2011). In one case, a male pushed the immature target out of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:19 PM
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Don't marry previous divorcees then, because that statistic contains both first time marriages and several times marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:02 PM
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That's because Skyrim belongs to the Nords. 😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:00 PM
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He’d think about her potentially more than you Maybe at the lowest points of your relationship he regrets not taking the chance with her when he had it. Seeing as the lowest point of relationships isn't the norm for how relationships usually are, he'll barely be thinking about her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:53 PM
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My partner watched all seasons of Downton Abbey with me. I think he secretly liked it a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:32 AM
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I definitely put relationships over (some) friends because my partner is my family. Is this bad? lol I definitely put the romantic relationship of someone I've entangled my belongings, financials, vulnerabilities and live with over most friendships. At that point they're basically my spouse and family anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:48 PM
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More valuable insights than the sexless, relationshipless and incels I'd wager, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:36 PM
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Like I would be up for sex 3x a day if it was possible. Day in day out. And I'm sexually very experimental, active etc. I think about sex constantly, it's honestly really weird and I've questioned if I have some kind of psychiatric problem. Are you on hormonal BC? If so, which one? Not sure if it has an effect, but wanna check it up. In the beginning I tried everything to bring his libido up, I'm still very giving sexually, but I wonder if I get on his nerves sometimes. We talked about it but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:01 AM
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Not fucking someone has never been part of the definition of infidelity, so no, it's not a form of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:57 AM
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What constitutes as infidelity depends on expectations within the relationship. In monogamous relationships, exclusivity is commonly expected. If you agreed to an exclusive relationship, then fucking someone else is by definition infidelity. The fact that the partner doesn't want sex is irrelevant in regard to the definition of infidelity. It's only not infidelity if you two both agreed to have an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:49 PM
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I gotta agree, I find her a bit too generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:37 PM
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you shouldn't expect things to change Well yeah, but most peoples reaction to change is to question it, discuss it and find a solution if there is one (be it accepting it, compromise or leaving) over jumping straight to infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:32 PM
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You can leave a marriage too. Though, you may wanna dig deeper into why the sudden change, because they vary and few people suddenly decide they're never having sex again. If her need is to not have sex, why does your need trump her need of bodily integrity? I'd argue that the latter is a more prioritized need on the Maslow's hierarchy of needs than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:43 PM
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Why do you feel that you need to stay in the relationship if you feel like your needs aren't being met? Why not leave? If her need is to not have sex, why does your need trump her need of bodily integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:25 PM
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Boiled down definition of monogamous relationship: exclusive, intimate relationship with one partner, note: intimacy doesn't necessarily mean sex only. You can have intimacy without sex. Terms inside the relationship may vary, e.g. frequency of sex, living together/not living together, but ultimately it means having one partner. Taking your intimacy to outside partners will then be considered cheating. You can leave the relationship if you don't like the terms. Or refrain from entering a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:22 PM
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Try fingers, but hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:40 AM
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Which parts of your links supports your claim? I can't find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:18 AM
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Library of Alexandria. Not a university. Chinese Taixue, which goes back to 3bc Wikipedia says "first nationwide government school" in 3ad, not university. I see no 3bc anywhere. Nalanda 5th century =/= thousands of years old At best, you have one example, which does not support the claim that universities plural are thousands of years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:43 PM
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but I don't think it's fair to imagine that just because many autistic women "can find partners" then surely autistic men should be able to as well. Well, men here frequently brag about how indiscriminate their standards for women are (don't be fat, etc.), so the fact that autistic women find partners more easily than autistic men is just as much a reflection of that as much as autistic men finding it harder to find partners is a reflection of women being pickier. But it's interesting how one an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:26 AM
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University of Alexandria was founded in 1938.. if you mean the school of mathematics that Euclid founded, nowhere does it say that it's a university.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:53 AM
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A thousand, not thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:17 AM
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We just call those amputations, m8
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:14 AM
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More like the date is gonna last 5 minutes because you need to finish the ice cream before it melts. With a coffee date atleast, you can nurse your warm drink for a while or order more, and there's a limit to how much ice cream most people are eating in a sitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:12 AM
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There's a reason why universities have lasted for thousands of years. Umm...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:09 AM
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Oh wow, capitalism tells you to buy shit? Color me surprised. /s I promise you it's possible to celebrate Valentines day without buying neither jewelry, chocolates and flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:01 AM
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Personal attacks instead of answering the question 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:43 PM
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And that ladies and gentlemen is the sound of having no argument to counter with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:52 PM
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Romance is the best-selling fiction genre, raking in $1.4 billion annually, and sales in sub-category erotica are hotter than ever. The economics of erotica are undeniable. Leading erotic e-book publisher Ellora’s Cave sold just 40 books per month in 2001, 54,000 titles a month in 2005, and now monthly sales average about 190,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:05 PM
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If that was true, several people wouldn't have completely wrecked your arguments in your previous post, which you didn't even bother replying to. 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:00 PM
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Sure, "work" lol 😂 I'll wait, and perhaps you can answer the other comments too while you're at it? "Destroy my post", what, are you gonna link another book review as a source? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:53 PM
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You always claim that I'm mistaken, but what have you done to back it up? Where are your statistics, books, research, etc.? You conveniently ignore any comments that does have sources backing them up, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:42 PM
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Yo OP! Are you gonna reply to the comments to your previous post any time soon? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:39 PM
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and when one party isn't engaging fairly then issues arise. "Fairly". Tell me, who's holding the gun to your head forcing you to date this person, pray tell? If you're unhappy in your relationship, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:30 PM
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I don't understand what you mean by "women get Valentine's day"? It's basically "tell me you have an unhealthy view on relationships without telling me you have an unhealthy view on relationships". 😂 It seems to blow their mind that we don't view the stuff we do for our partners as a transaction because we also enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:40 PM
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It sounds like you're selectively ignoring the overwhelming majority of relationships that aren't abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:08 AM
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The women I'm describing want guy "friends" to give them validation, do free favors for them, be their emotional tampon ect... We don't consider those "boyfriend-privileges" lol, we just call that friendship and do it for our girlfriends. The fact you think its "boyfriend-privileges" just paints a grim picture on male friendships; ride or die apparantly, but god forbid y'all talk about icky emotions and validate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:30 AM
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then why would there be so many negative experiences? There aren't. People aren't posting about it online when they're content, because why would they; most normies have sex with people who are nice to them, despite it not being posted online in subreddits meant for relationship support.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:56 PM
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Do you think these horror stories are the rule, not the exception or something? People aren't leaving reviews unless they were dissatisfied. Bad experiences posted online aren't representative of the current dating marked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:11 PM
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like "i keep pressing all the right button combinations but human relationships aren't coming out" sort of logic. You can be the ripest, juiciest peach on the tree and there's still gonna be people out there that don't like peaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:38 PM
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until she's had her fun and you didn't, Kinda loaded language for it not being her issue apparantly. Like, you're telling me she's had consensual, fun sexual experiences and somehow this is bad. So bad it makes you feel bad in comparison because somehow you know she "wanted nothing to do with you" in the past. By making her responsible for you emotions, you are making it her issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:36 PM
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2 one, is well, if a lady wanted nothing to do with you until she's had her fun and you didn't, don't tell me you'd feel not good about it ye? Why is your inability to have your fun her issue? Is she supposed to telepathically know a future potential husband is struggling to have casual sex and therefore morally obliged to "even the playing field"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:20 PM
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Or Queen consort Camilla perhaps. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:13 PM
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I think they're usually talking about like...morally upstanding and "nice" men not getting chosen I don't get it.. morally upstanding and nice are minimums, and you do want to find them physically attractive too. I don't get their caricature of "attractive men can't have nice personalities because they never had to develop one", like lol wat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:09 PM
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😂😂 Why the fuck should she care about having respect for her vaginal state from her underlings? Charles wasn't forced to marry D because of her virginity, he was forced because of the optics of sniffing around an "old", married woman. Charles wanted her from the start, went back to her and now she's queen. Being the "virgin" choice brought D nothing but the public attention of being cheated on and 6 feet under. But sure, virginity worshippers "respect" her, I'm sure she's thrilled. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:43 PM
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You can't have one without the other, you do need all three of them. It's like asking which of breathing, blood circulation or cellular respiration is more important to you; well, it ain't gonna last long missing any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:14 AM
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Virgin was the diff btw Camilla and Princess Diana And one ended up a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:23 AM
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But funny the OP hasn’t replied over an hour later… Also OP: I'm still waiting for someone to actually refute the data instead of resorting to ad-hominems Conveniently ignores those comments for some reason 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:40 AM
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Don't listen to him. Adrien Brody is fine as fuuuuuuuuck. I actually think he's the reason I like big noses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:21 AM
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I'm still waiting for someone to actually refute the data instead of resorting to ad-hominems You're ignoring the comments that refute your data, so don't even try that one lolll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:56 AM
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Despite its misleading labels, oxytocin has a dark side. Just two months ago, Jennifer Bartz showed that it can make people remember their mothers as less caring and more distant if they themselves are anxious about social relationships. Carolyn H. Declerck found that oxytocin makes people more cooperative in a social game, if they had met their partner beforehand. If they played with an anonymous partner who they knew nothing about, oxytocin actually made them less cooperative. “Oxytocin does n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:49 AM
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Over 1800 women were surveyed, and while there were over 237 distinct reasons why they engaged in sexual activity, there were a few that were shared by the majority of the women, and none of them had anything to do with sexual pleasure, desire, or romance. I read the actual study the book is based on, despite you only linking a book review for some reason. Study 1: 241 women helped make the list of reasons. From study 2: “Sexual data experience were available for 910 women”. Not quite 1800 women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:42 AM
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2k hours? Please, that's just a casual. 🙃 Nord or gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:30 PM
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Speaking personally, I swipe left on every guy without a bio, no matter what he looks like — I need to get at least some sense of what we have in common and what his personality is like. If he has no bio I assume he only wants hook-ups and move on. Lol, I did the same! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:24 PM
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Most people don't leave a review unless they're dissatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:31 AM
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Though, lets, guys, point, give indeed. Might as well give up, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:48 AM
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Lemme tell you about my belly the day after a bowl of ramen. 4 months pregnant, I tell ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:07 PM
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True however I said people I interact with, so not just my own social group. But like if I go out to an event and meet some new people, co-workers, people that I hire for other jobs. I mean, it's still skewed. The events you go to might not be the same events some hardcore football fan goes to, alike attracts alike rings true for non-romantic endeavors too. Like, it's more likely I'll go to a board game event or Comic Con, over some rave party. I might go to a rave party of course, but the peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:51 AM
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Organ recipients on the organ list can't be choosers. Besides, I'll lie and say they're Chad-grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:28 PM
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It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness—that is life. Bald dude, Trek Wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:55 PM
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Obvious furry fetishist question aside, imagine how rich I could get selling kidneys. 🤑🤑 After a couple I would have enough $$$ to buy some morphine to keep the sound down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:51 PM
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I think one of the points OP is making is that it seems like there are way more guys into talking and enjoying those more in-depth topics than women. OP has widened his definition to include art and history, which many women are interested in, also from OP: I have a friend group that prioritizes partying and socializing over interest in deeper topics. I don’t mind the party and social life but I want more balance. My hypothesis was that OP was looking in the wrong places for the women interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:52 PM
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Have you considered this shiny technology called a vasectomy? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:29 PM
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Sounds more like an issue with your dating circle tbh, because most of the men I'm around just want to talk about sports, gaming or crypto, not geopolitics etc. Besides, I don't think you're looking for the type of women who likes talking about these subjects; they're most likely not gonna be the girly, bubbly woman you most likely look for when dating. You say you want these knowledgeable women, but most likely you're prioritizing other traits (that you find attractive) subconsciously. Not an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:16 PM
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You're never gonna be happy if you're constantly looking for greener grass. It's greener where you water it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:19 AM
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"If you tell her about your cheating beforehand, it's no problem!" It's not cheating anymore though, but don't tell OP that I guess 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:32 PM
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Love scales with $$$ apparantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:23 AM
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That wasn't an issue before was it? It's only an issue when it says something they don't like 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:13 AM
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You don’t think setting the bar at literally once-per-year is a little manipulative? You don't know if it's once per year, you only know it's been atleast once the last 12 months. Saying anything else is pure speculation. If a person’s only doing it once per year, do you think they would describe themselves as having a satisfying sex life? Still pure speculation, and in addition, projecting your own opinion on it. You don't know if they're happy or unhappy with it either, nor that it's even once…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:02 AM
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You’re parading it around as if these men were equally successful when that’s most likely far from the truth. Well, aren't you equally parading it around to mean the opposite? Because you can't know it either, so that's your own interpretation of the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:39 PM
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That’s not an abusive feeder relationship. Press X to doubt. She was around 400lbs at the start of the show and was married to her husband. So he stayed with her from when she was fat until she was still fat? What an angel. Totes not a feeder and feedee.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:11 PM
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Abusive feeder relationships doesn't exactly help your case. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:05 PM
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What, don't y'all keep an extensive excel spreadsheet detailing duration, penile length/circumference and volume of jizz? Filthy casuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:10 PM
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Past tense. It's not much of an argument that even fat women can find love when it doesn't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:06 PM
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Tess Holiday isn't married tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:54 PM
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Did you have a history of having long term relationsships? I had a relationship from 20-24 (virgin before this relationship) and current one from 24-28 which is still ongoing. Did you have a history of being single without hooking up (meaning without partying or using online dating)? There was a grand total of three months single between those two relationships. Do you have a history of years of clubbing and/or online dating? Like two months of online dating, between the two relationships. Lates…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:43 PM
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But I still would piece together the pieces after some time. If she shares though. I've personally never shared tidbits about past partners to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:05 PM
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Income is important, as in it's important that he has one, lives within his means and is smart with his money (savings and such). I don't have a set limit he needs to make, but I want to have a lifestyle with a certain quality of life, which my income allows me. But it doesn't allow it if two people are living on it. I basically want a guy that makes around my level of income and live close to my own lifestyle so I won't have to downgrade my current lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:03 AM
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Nah, now they say she's living the high life on dat $300 child support payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:24 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:08 AM
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Lol, they are seething now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:02 AM
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"Consent" gives the impression that all parties know all the facts. In your hypothetical, does the consenting woman know that he's not really interested in anything but a temporary bed warmer while he keeps his eyes out? Did he tell her this, or is he being vague for the purpose of regular sex? Nothing wrong with consensual sex, but that's hinging on everyone actually being informed. Having lower standards for sex when you know the other party isn't interested in only sex and being dependent on …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:56 PM
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Lazy insults aside, if we're speaking in general terms why should I care about what a minority does? An appeal to extremes isn't exactly a valid strategy. If your argument entirely bases itself in the opinion of a minority of women you don't even want to date, your argument isn't a very persuasive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:08 PM
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So you just don't use social media or dating apps at all? I have to assume that since you seem to think women aren't publicly stating their preference for tall men. I don't care what unsuccessful women on OLD say they want. They're obviously low value as dating prospects and doing the exact same thing the man is doing, trying to take some power back by faking value (by giving the impression they have enough options to demand anything, which they don't). The majority of people are dating just fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:44 AM
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You'll notice women aren't running around repeating it to anyone that'll listen, they're just out there dating these men. There's absolutely no need to state your preferences when you can just not date the people that doesn't reach it. The men that screams loudest about height preferences are usually the men who are excluded by it or men that are absolutely flabbergasted that being nice isn't enough to attract women. And so they try to take some power back by stating that they want slim women. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:24 AM
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"Willing to fuck" while they keep their eyes out for the one they want isn't some noble action on the guys part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:28 AM
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Literally no one cares if you date slim women. They care if you're intentionally running around repeating your preferences to get a reaction, because that's just acting like an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:26 AM
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So, basically..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:55 PM
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Sexual abuse is more common among male inmates. Men sexually abuse others to establish dominance, power and to maintain their masculinity. Men who are physically weaker will offer consensual sex in exchange for protection, security, goods or support. Edit: LOL HAHAHA your claim is based on a study of 9 men, are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:34 PM
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It matters for the losers that feel like they didn't get to partake in the giant harem orgy the rest of us are apparantly having. It matters for them because they feel cheated out of something they think they're due.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:25 AM
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Average weight is rising for children too, and fat does have estrogenic effect. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22570951/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:50 AM
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I want to be with someone who thinks the same as me. I'm saving myself for my first relationship That's not the kind of person I want to be in a relationship with Makes it sound like your idea of "sleeping around" is not being a virgin past age 20. Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:56 PM
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You think creepy men are creepy? No way. You'd think that didn't need explanation, yet you needed a post to confirm it lol. I think stupid women are stupid btw And you're free to do that, no ones stopping you 😌 I feel the same about stupid men, which is why they don't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:06 PM
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So? She doesn't want most of the world in it, which is why she's picky. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:57 PM
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All penetrative sex has a chance of a baby. Nothing short of abstinence is 100% baby proof. Which is why it's creepy to be so indiscrimate about choosing sex partners 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:56 PM
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Same could be said for you 😌 We will all happily continue to think creepy men are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:55 PM
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She's blonde for a movie role.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:51 PM
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The intent behind it is what makes it creepy or not. Wanting to smash is fine. Wanting to compliment someone is fine. Complimenting someone thinking it'll help you smash, without caring about whether or not she's even a good person and risking having a baby with her, is creepy af and you're not gonna change my view on that. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:42 PM
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She does, when she have to judge who she wants to be in her circle. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:36 PM
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But stop calling men creepy for being born with something. I'm not? I'm calling them creepy for not controlling it lol The men who like talking to you without wanting to fuck you arent “better” people. They manage to control themselves and not act creepy, which automatically makes them better people. Unlike the creepy people. Also, you don’t actually know how many of your single male friends deep down inside wanna fuck you or not. I don't care if they want to fuck me; I don't want to fuck them, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:14 PM
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You’re assuming that the men who get to know you first don’t just wanna fuck. I know they wanna fuck... how often do I have to repeat this. But do they wanna fuck and get to know me? Do they value my friendship if I find I don't want to fuck? Those are the dudes I keep in my life. How many of the men you know in your life would want to get to know you if they didn’t atleast have a hope of fucking you? Being in a serious relationship hasn't stopped me from making male friendships, both single and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:00 PM
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Most men So not all, just as I said earlier. The sooner you understand this and stop blaming them for something you can’t control the better Lol, you don't think we know this? What do you think our fathers have instilled in us since the age we grew tits? "Boys are only interested in one thing" I don't blame them, I just don't think about them at all. No need to waste time on them, there's plenty of other men who takes the time to get to know you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:51 PM
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Complimenting someone doesn’t imply they only wanna fuck you. It’s the first thing you notice about someone. We already know most men would fuck if we were game. Complimenting us could just be an in to make it easier for him to keep approaching us (ie. create rapport). Also, not all compliments are equal. There's a difference between Your ass is thicker than my ma's porridge and I like how you did the pivot table in the spreadsheet, that was smart. Secondly, knowing someone for a while doesn’t i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:44 PM
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Men are designed to like the way you look if you look good. It’s called biology and they shouldn’t be shamed for it at all. They're not shamed for biology. They're free to think us attractive all they want, but they're awfully mistaken if they think we consider it a compliment that they consider us physically worthy enough for a subpar fuck instead of actually taking the time to get to know us as people. I don't see how it's anything other than creepy that a dude is willing to mash genitals desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:30 PM
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I think I'm allowed to think it's creepy that a dude is showing interest in me despite knowing nothing about me except liking the way I look. It doesn't give off the impression that he's interested in me as a person, more like interested in what I can sexually do for him. How do you think people often met others especially in the older days where you didn't necessarily have as many shared hobbies/interests/social groups that allowed you to more easily talk to a woman? Dude, through friends and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:05 PM
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Yeah, I wondered too after seeing the OP. Figured it wasn't as simple as just "aging", but had to confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:18 PM
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Kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:05 PM
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More like: The physical demands of the stunts and maneuvers Fraser performed in his action and comedy roles eventually required him to undergo several surgeries over a period of seven years, including a partial knee replacement, a laminectomy, and vocal cord surgery. In 2018, Fraser said that he was sexually assaulted by Philip Berk, the then-president of the Hollywood Foreign Press Association, at a luncheon in the summer of 2003. The assault allegation, his subsequent divorce, and the death of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:00 PM
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Women are the ones that have children Is not mutually exclusive to being a sexual being. are the most vulnerable Is not mutually exclusive to being a sexual being. have low testosterone levels Is not mutually exclusive to being a sexual being. and lack any organs that have an evolutionary function for pleasure What biological function does the clitoris have? 🤔 especially seeing as the male penis is a developed extension of one, from an embryonic development point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:09 PM
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Is this what men PPD men. Just casually spending their days worrying about being "cucked" by a woman that isn't even aware of his existence yet, and blaming her for the negative feelings it wakes in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:56 PM
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You do know the meaning of the word prostitution? It means taking payment for sexual services lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:23 PM
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Don't you just love terms like AWALT and being called the oldest teenager in the house? 🥰 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:44 AM
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Nope, as in single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:02 PM
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Most of the guys here are normal y’all gotta stop the “PPD men hate women” narrative they have GFs, wives, children, women they’re dating/fucking, etc. According to the 2021 Summer Survey, 69.9% of the male demographics are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:56 AM
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It's only a drawback if you want to be approached. Many don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:42 AM
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What makes you believe that she doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:32 PM
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Bananas, the edible fruit we domesticated into being literally seedless for our consumption? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:05 PM
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Yes, in raw numbers, but I think that is more due to the difference in occurrences of sex and amount of partners (they be fuckin alot). I can't 100% say how homosexual men rank against women, but homosexual men are atleast at a higher risk than heterosexual men. If you have one heterosexual woman and man, both infected with an STI, and have them have sex with exactly 100 of the opposite sex 1 time each, statistically the man would spread the STI to a higher number of women than the infected woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:42 PM
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Furthermore, men are just as susceptible to stis. They're not though. Due to the anatomical differences between a man and a woman, ladies are at a higher risk of contracting STDs when exposed to the bacteria or virus. Due to the thinner and more delicate lining of the vagina as opposed to the penis’ skin, bacteria and viruses have a higher chance of penetration and infecting the host.The vagina, as compared to a penis, is also a much more ideal environment for the cultivation and propagation of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:45 AM
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Unfortunately for me, he's also gay. Yeah, that's actually a real tragedy. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:38 PM
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If you get an abundance of OLD matches You're not supposed to have this, if but can never seem to find what you are looking for it's this they want. It would mean they're swiping wrong. Abundance of OLD matches mean swipes primarily based on ego and chasing validation. If you want a good match, only swipe right on the people you think will be a good match for you and don't lie to yourself when judging what you think will be a good match for you. And then don't bother with the rest. Sure, they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:36 PM
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I'm gonna tell you guys a secret that will change your lives.. All girls have puke in them. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:54 AM
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They get cleaned, but they don't replace them after each encounter You know what doesn't get cleaned? Throw pillows and decorative blankets 🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:00 AM
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id even probs wash my hands after Doesn't matter. that person or object is now gross
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:58 AM
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which in turn will increase the rate of balding Only if you're genetically predisposed to have follicles sensitive to it. It's not just DHT levels in itself, else it would follow that young men would be bald and old men would have hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:57 AM
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Have you or have you not touched money before? It doesn't matter who or what comes into contact with a bunch of semen that person or object is now gross Congratulations, you played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:51 AM
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You've touched money before, haven't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:42 AM
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It's not low/high levels of testosterone that causes baldness in itself.. It's the hair follicles sensitivity to DHT, which is genetic. They can be sensitive to DHT with high or low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:19 AM
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be handsome be fit be athletic have a fashionable haircut wear designer clothes These are just one point: be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:13 AM
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How? Some aren't even born with hymens, so it can't be better than nothing at all because even virgins can be born without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:56 AM
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Are you a woman? Nah, he's a dude. So I have a hard time believing you post asking these questions in good faith. He's not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:56 AM
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Crying about your boyfriend And in a bar too lol. I know when I'm drunk anything slightly frustrating makes me cry, it doesn't mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:44 AM
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I make the first move 🤷‍♀️ I don't have the patience for waiting for dudes to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:00 AM
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"Oh no, the science disagrees with me, better try to rationalize it or else I have to realize I might be the problem!"* is all I'm getting from your comments. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:47 AM
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uncommitted Single are those who are not married, living with a partner or in a *committed** romantic relationship.* its funny cuz when they ask the men of the same age range if they r single like 40% say yes. lol Which just means they're dating older men, lmao. 49 year old dating a 50 year old would fall under that umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:34 AM
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According to PEW Research Center, only 19% of women between age 30-49 are single lol. They seem to be handling it just fine 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:22 AM
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Women be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:19 AM
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What losses? Dudes they're not interested in? What a loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:04 AM
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"Femicide in South America" has its own Wikipedia page, can't say the same for androcide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:12 PM
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Strawman aside, no one is stopping Bob from marrying a willing 18 year old trad virgin who actually does make an informed choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:10 PM
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consent How can she consent if all the facts are kept from her? marries her if she agrees to it, stats faithful to her, provides for her. Shouldnt he expect gratitude in return. For doing the bare minimum that is required when he wants a trad wife? Lol no. Why should he care that the feminist way of life was never introduced to her as an option. He obviously cares very much if he goes to this length to secure a brainwashed wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:07 PM
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Bob doesn't know if she wants to be a wife and a mother, because she knows literally nothing else, which is why he's terrified of "losing her programming". If Bob actually cared what she wanted, he wouldn't specifically be looking for someone who's naivety is the selling point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:50 PM
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If she doesnt want to be a wife and a mother, then Bob doesnt want her. Bob doesn't know if she wants to be a wife and a mother, because she knows literally nothing else, which is why he's terrified of "losing her programming".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:38 PM
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All for the fair price of giving up her own wishes for a life of domestic sex slave bliss. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:33 PM
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From a feminist perspective I dont think it would even matter. Bob literally only want her for her uterus and domestic work. He'll "let" her study part time. Bob literally doesn't care that she's a whole person who might not want this for herself had she known all the facts, and so he begrudges her for learning these facts. If it walks like a scumbag and talks like a scumbag..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:26 PM
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Nobody is brainwashed into wanting to spend their youth getting drunk, dating, and partying, they do that because they want to, and because young people are often stupid, remember the brain isn't fully developed until ~25 I didn't even want to do it when I was young and stupid lol. Introvert gang 4ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:19 PM
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He could be very nice and compassionate with her As opposed to what? Because those are minimums.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:11 PM
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Lemme guess, she's not allowed to have male friends from class 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:00 PM
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Not investment dude, wife. Funny how Bob needs to go looking for one brainwashed into submission, and will begrudge her if she adopts his culture. How is it a good thing if a wife despises her man as opposed to being thankful for what he did to her? Lololol, what is she supposed to be grateful for? She's supposed to be grateful Bob explicitly wanted her for submissive, domestic services and virginal status?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:51 PM
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Bob seriously worries that this environment might undo the brainwashing her wife has been through "Oh no, what about my investment" 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:29 PM
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Straight to horny jail!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:17 PM
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Why would you even get hung up over it? Because it's not a hypothetical situation, but OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:44 AM
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I think PPD is attracting more men who lack agency and accountability. "Incels scored significantly higher on depression, anxiety, and loneliness, and lower on satisfaction with life (Hypothesis 1). They also showed greater levels of TIV (Tendency for Interpersonal Victimhood across all dimensions and the overall construct (Hypothesis 2), as well as greater sociosexual desire (Hypothesis 4)." The science agrees, non-surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:25 AM
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No. No bad feelings, he's a nice dude, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:05 AM
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Not really, it points to the flaws of evolutionary psychology. If offspring is the basis of what men would find attractive, your argument just doesn't make sense, seeing as pregnancy is the leading cause of death in girls 15-19 in developing countries. It just doesn't make sense to consider these "more attractive" for carrying offspring than someone proven to be capable of it, unless there are other reasons than purely reproduction. Like, childfree people aren't dating disfigured people either. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:07 AM
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You're conflating two evolutionary terms. My comment is describing how it isn't logical to find x trait attractive because "fertility" and potential offspring, because if healthy children were the ultimate selector for beauty, the logical thing would be to choose someone proven to be capable of it, evolutionary speaking. You're discussing sexual selection versus natural selection, which I am discussing. Natural selection is an unconscious process and different from sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:00 AM
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It doesn't tell me anything but that WHR can be used to assess reproductive history, which I haven't denied. My comment is describing how it isn't logical to find x trait attractive because "fertility" and potential offspring, because if healthy children were the ultimate selector for beauty, the logical thing would be to choose someone you know is capable of it, evolutionary speaking. You're discussing sexual selection versus natural selection, which I am discussing. Natural selection is an unc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:52 AM
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Straight delusional that dude, lol. And Jobs, Gates, Bezos and Zuckerberg aren't struggling in this economy and need a double income; they could've literally just taken a DiCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:50 AM
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wiling to date Willing to fuck her for a while isn't the same as willing to marry. women with high IQ are less likely to be married No one is contesting this. We're contesting that it's due to men choosing away women with high IQ, it's not. Women do not have an issue finding willing husbands, especially not smart women. There's just no reason to lower standards in this area, so smart women will have high standards for partners IQ, which is why fewer of them marry and marry later. men are MORE wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:50 AM
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It doesn't tell me anything but that WHR can be used to assess reproductive history, which I haven't denied. But you can have had no children and still have a high WHR. Indeed, studies conducted before and after this hypothesis indicate that WHR as a marker of fat distribution predicts several health disorders, such as cardiovascular diseases, adult-onset diabetes, elevated plasma lipids, hypertension, cancer (endometrial, ovarian and breast), gall bladder disease, depression, high stress level,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:12 PM
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Yeah, which is why: Mark Zuckerberg married a Harvard alumna. Bezos married a Princeton alumna. Steve Jobs married a Stanford alumna. Bill Gates married a Duke alumna. When they could've had a hot barista wanting their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:52 PM
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You're conflating different causes for higher WHR. The more babies a woman has, the higher her WHR becomes. This is not necessarily true. Some women have a bigger stomach after birthing, but also permanently bigger hips due to ligaments stretching to fit the baby. Also: There is statistical evidence for this. The higher the WHR, the more potential for birthing complications, lower IQ children in general, higher chances of inborn disease, etc. These WHR-studies are looking at obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:48 PM
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They need to be falsifiable too. If you can't prove it wrong, you can't conclude it's right. Like, humans were God's creation until fossils showed us the gradual development from Hominidae to Homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:30 PM
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Not necessarily, she might be collecting resources from their baby daddy as well, or the children might be old enough to help take care of their half-sibling or outsourcing the resource acquisition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:26 PM
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It's not equivalent; one is measurable, the other isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:35 PM
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The biological vs cultural factors particularly. Biologically we have largely remained the same, but our culture is changing rapidly and whetter people wanna acknowledge the changes in peoples dating preferences due to that it's happening regardless. True! The dating marked would look veeeery differently if we had UBI and no reason to worry about money. I think childfree people are the most realistic base line though, for how that would look; they don't need the other, they're entirely choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:30 PM
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The biological vs cultural factors particularly. Biologically we have largely remained the same, but our culture is changing rapidly and whetter people wanna acknowledge the changes in peoples dating preferences due to that it's happening regardless. True! The dating marked would look veeeery differently if we had UBI and no reason to worry about money. I think childfree people are the most realistic base line though, for how that would look; they don't need the other, they're entirely choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:25 PM
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But he's not giving her his children, is he; she's temporary fun. He'll have way higher requirements for the mother of his children. For example: Mark Zuckerberg married a Harvard alumna. Bezos married a Princeton alumna. Steve Jobs married a Stanford alumna. Bill Gates married a Duke alumna.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:07 PM
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Hahahhha word. And then it's called "baby-trapping" for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:53 PM
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It has been shown that the higher the IQ of a woman is the less chances she has of getting married. Lool, not due to lack of options. Due to lack of good options that they're filtering out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:45 PM
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Veldig interessant, ja! You can even compare it to historical trends. When women did not have the same option of making their own money for example, it was an important criteria when choosing partners. Nowadays, women make their own money and are free to choose partners that don't necessarily make much money. Especially childfree women who won't have to depend on his income during maternity leave. But, food and rent isn't free and with this economy, it's even more important for women who plans t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:33 PM
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Basal ganglia versus neocortex. Lizard brain wants it, even if neocortex recognizes that they're not planning to have children. Neocortex can recognize that there's not as big need for resources though, but they'll still want the expression of healthy genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:13 PM
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It's not an ad hominem to point out that you're unwilling to have your views changed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:34 PM
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Evolutionary psychology =/= theory of evolution. The latter we can measure, by looking at how fossils develop over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:32 PM
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Men favor youth in women because the younger the woman, the more opportunities for producing offspring and the greater probability of their being healthy. Large breasts = nourishment for the offspring. If it was really about offspring, men would find young mothers with saggy breasts the most attractive, as she has a track record of birthing healthy babies and ability to nourish them. So that can't be it. You'll argue paternity certainty, but that's mitigated by mate guarding her until she's preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:27 PM
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It's impossible to verify or debunk. They're just theories in psychology, but you can't actually verify it. It does not stand up against the scientific method.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:08 PM
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It's your conception of high value man a term with overall the same definition for most of people ? You asked if it was unfair if men applied higher standards. I said some already do, those who has the option to do it, aka the ones in demand. just because she has the uterus Not just because she has the uterus, because making the wrong choice will cost her more than men making the wrong choice. What about if tomorrow, in general terms so men realize they're not being rewarded equally for their hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:42 PM
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Firstly, seeking validation through sexual contact by itself is weird for me ( I just fail to see how it's supposed to be validating to me when you have examples of men fucking fruits and sandwiches. 😂 Like, if it's so indiscriminate who they direct it at, why should I take it as a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:30 PM
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I don't think the wishes of a fringe online group of sexually frustrated men is representative of what is considered attractive in a man for a low n-woman. Most normal men don't think the meaning of life is to be a hoe. Or that people think it's attractive in a partner, just because it's not as socially judged in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:26 PM
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wouldn't be fair then that men actually had higher standards than women ? You think hvm just choose whoever is fertile? They do have high standards, they're not dating the part time barista. is not an excuse for women to have higher demands by default It is though. Whether or not she obtains it is another question. women herself is only offering genes It's not up to her to decide what she offers, it's up to men to either accept that is enough or aim higher. It's not the same at all in terms of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:20 PM
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She's gonna find out way easier than the other way around. Since men obtain status from other men for it; they brag, how he acts around his buddies, from hearing how his social circle talks about women, from seeing him approach women and how fast he'll approach another, and also from other women. It's easy to tell who's total fuckbois or who's just desperate for any sexual attention. None of these are attractive. The attractive ones are the ones who does have sexual options, but doesn't use it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:12 PM
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Yes it's different when it's a woman How is it any different if she's penetrated by Orgasm Dragon Monster XXL Dildo Extreme-strap on by 50 women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:01 PM
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The mistake lies in thinking that because men aren't as judged as women for having high n-count it means they're desirable. It doesn't. A hoe is a hoe. Doesn't matter if your buddies high five you for it, if it makes you unattractive to the low n-count women you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:59 PM
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You're asking a question that has its basis in unequal reproductive costs. We like partners that are potential attractive options to have children with, and what constitutes as an attractive option to have children with isn't the same for women and men. Men just really need someone who looks fertile. Women needs someone who looks fertile and has the resources to raise these children, seeing as she's the one having the pregnancy and doing most of the hands-on work. If she makes a bad choice for r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:46 PM
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And please, what is "undervaluing sexual attention"? You either have a woman wanting it OR straight up not wanting it. Lol yeah, if a woman doesn't want your sexual attention, she won't undervalue it if she gets more of it; she already didn't value it at all. Like, only sexual attention from men you want it from is validating, and that's only if they also want us for relationships too. Dudes willing to treat us as cum dumpsters aren't validating, it's just the nature of their higher libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:56 PM
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Yeah same, I find it's actually much more relaxed when you both know what you're looking for and want it with each other. It forces you to think about whether or not it's an actual good match too, instead of just trying to make something work (who might not be a good match personality-wise) based on lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:45 PM
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Yah, he's like one of the few sane reds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:36 AM
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wish for careful, considered, productive discussion with men I'm nice enough when I'm debating with these men and now you're taking one comment and painting it as if it's something I do when debating. But, likewise, I have a similar right to point out that in the context of a discussion space where disadvantaged men already feel subhuman, excluded, and looked down upon, Likewise do I have a right to point out that in the context of a discussion space where most users are male and red/black pill,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:46 PM
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suggesting you could consider No thanks. Not interested in having my comments be policed by political correctness, seeing as it was about making a point; the new mod struggles with social relations more than a group of people that is known for struggling with it. It's not about being unkind to people with a development disorder, seeing as I have it myself. If my comments make people feel bad, they're free to block.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:20 PM
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Their choice of mod is up for criticism when he's meant to moderate topics within relationships, sex and dating if he's clearly unable to do so. His own behaviour would be extreme even for an autist, so why is he chosen to moderate something he clearly doesn't understand? As discussed in the previous post calling out for mod applications, it's a bad idea to choose mods based on who wants it only; it's not people who wants it out of the kindness of their heart. And there also need to be a minimum…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:37 PM
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Lol, that's probably the most biased user you could've found on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:08 PM
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Late answer, but I'm swamped with lab reports lol. I'm not calling it blackpill just because it's uncomfortable Then why widen the definition of it? In addition to red pill language, incels discuss the “black pill,” which means accepting the fact that “it’s over” and “inferior” men have no chance of ever establishing sexual relationships with women. Source. Having options you don't like =/= no options, which by its definition doesn't make it blackpill. Which pill(s) would be most inclinded to ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:23 PM
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How often would you ideally engage in sexual intercourse? Never: - Once a month: 0.43 Twice a month: 2.61 Once a week: 21.30 Several times a week: 69.57 Every day: 6.09 96.96% would like to have sex more than once a week at a minimum, I don't see why OP even linked this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:56 AM
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How often would you ideally engage in sexual intercourse? Never: - Once a month: 0.43 Twice a month: 2.61 Once a week: 21.30 Several times a week: 69.57 Every day: 6.09 So.. 96.96% would like to have sex more than once a week at a minimum. How scandalous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:54 AM
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It's no the same though, is it? I masturbate that much too, but penetration isn't the same. You can get sore after a while from the microtears, I usually need atleast a day between sessions or else I'll just stay sore and it's not as enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:43 AM
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No no no no no! Kittens/puppies or bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:44 PM
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Interesting how OP doesn't reply to valid questions directed at the methodology lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:51 PM
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Only if that is what actually happened, which we don't know. Which is the problem. The numbers here mean fuck-all if all the participants are operating with different definitions of "sex" compared to what the scientists meant when they designed the study. The measurements are too uncertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:49 PM
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Don't need to have had a gangbang to have had many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:57 AM
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It becomes an argument over the source. It's not much of an argument if the source is NASA versus ScienceIsFake.com. There's also requirements for the methodology and reproducibility. A one-off measurement isn't much to base an argument on. You'll see pretty fast what is the superior source. I can find contradictory studies Oh my, are you finally linking sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:36 AM
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By that logic, all of the studies linked in this sub can be waved away as "made up", which I'll cite you on. ;) The source isn't fine. Census doesn't ask about relationship status, but marital status. They even define it: Single, when used as a marital status category, is the sum of never-married, widowed and divorced people. So these "single persons" could still be in a relationship, just not married. So no, this isn't cross referencing. And you're still moving goal posts. There is no great dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:05 AM
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It's year published, which doesn't change the numbers showing that there's no downward trend as predicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:39 AM
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Now you're moving goal posts again ;) you seemed completely fine with 1 source until I pointed out it proved you wrong. And no, it's not common practice to cross reference partial data. Since the Census data doesn't report that single men are looking, you can't conclude that the Census data reports that single men are looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:32 AM
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On mobile, but google Sexual Behavior, Sexual Attraction, and Sexual Orientation among Adults Aged 18-44 in the United States and it's "Table 1. Sexual behavior with opposite-sex and same-sex partners among women and men aged 18-44, by selected characteristics" on page 7. From cdc.gov.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:16 AM
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reference the single data That's like concluding that golden retrievers are the most dangerous dogs in America, completely ignoring the fact that it's also the most commonly owned breed. You can't conclude without all the data. . 51% are single, 49% are not single. 33% of the 51% singles aren't looking, 67% of the 51% singles are looking. Both data points from the same people surveyed. Not my fault you didn't check your sources good enough for your attempted gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:09 AM
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Dude, they are both self-reported data from the same survey, asking the same people. The American Trends Panel (ATP), created by Pew Research Center, is a nationally representative panel of randomly selected U.S. adults. Panelists participate via self-administered web surveys. Panelists who do not have internet access at home are provided with a tablet and wireless internet connection. The panel is being managed by Ipsos. Data in this report are drawn from the panel wave conducted Oct. 16 to Oct…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:01 AM
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Of which 33% aren't looking for relationships. (.33*51)+49 = ~65% So ~65% of the men 18-29 aren't looking or are in relationships. Which doesn't exactly support your claim. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:51 AM
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not antithetical to blackpill unless you're using the strictest most extreme talking points The deal with blackpill is that it is extreme. You can't just go around calling everything that makes you uncomfortable blackpill. The idea that basically every woman has fucked a chad and virtually every man will be a downgrade compared to the men his wife had casual sex with They're not the ones running around calling it "fucked a Chad" and "downgrade", so calling it blackpill by most peoples perspectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:33 AM
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pew research "Partnered refers to adults who are married, cohabiting or in a committed relationship (69% of the sample)." This pew research? That refutes your claim? 🤔 also, online dating statistics =/= all dating statistics again. How about them sources to prove me wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:06 AM
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what constitutes a heat wave A heat wave is a period of unusually hot weather that typically lasts two or more days. To be considered a heat wave, the temperatures have to be outside the historical averages for a given area. (NOAA) how has heatwave tracking methodology changed over time You take the definition and apply it to measured weather and temperature data. Also looking at historical data. how does the current sustained uptrend in heatwave and temperatures differ from uptrends in the past…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:56 PM
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Sure, but prove me the opposite in return. Just telling me I'm wrong, doesn't make you right. And right now, you're proved absolutely jack shit against my sources. It's not subjective data, it's a quantifiable number that speaks for itself. You don't have to like them, they are what they are. doesn't make you intelligent Never made that claim, but then again, I don't go around saying that childfree women don't care about humanity just because humans aren't on IUCN Red List and that global warmin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:17 PM
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I have objective, quantitative data backing me, so.. While 12% of women have not married by age 40, 17% of men have not married by age 40. And online dating statistics =/= dating statistics. Majority of relationships still meet IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:53 PM
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denies all the dating statistics that we that we have. Based on online dating statistics. Looking out the window, it's quite clear that those statistics are not representative for the majority of men and women. I was alive for the inconvenient truth movie and we're not 50 meters below sea level. The movie said 6 meters, not 50. According to NASA, the global sea level has risen 10 cm since 1992 and is rising faster; from a global average of 2.5 mm/year in the early 1990s to 3.9 mm/year the last d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:32 PM
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Under Limitations: Third, sexual activity was not defined in the General Social Survey. Thus, some participants may have interpreted the terms have sex and sex partners using a definition of vaginal intercourse (or sex partners as referring only to relational partners), whereas others may have considered sex to include oral sex or mutual masturbation. Some studies have found that men are more likely than women to report nonpenetrative sex as sex. As such, differences between the sexes and potent…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:25 PM
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You know perfectly well what I'm arguing, but deflection is easier than accepting you're wrong. For the low chance that you don't know what I'm arguing, I recommend you to scroll up the thread or visit your GP for a dementia examination.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:09 PM
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Why are you under the impression that they owe it to pair up with their own ethnic group?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:02 PM
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Does that mean men have to pay child support until they're 25? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:54 PM
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The people that pretend to care about climate change don't care about the human race either. They don't have kids and self castrate If most first world countries aren't above replacement level who cares Japanese, Korean, American, German, etc people Why do you consider them being above replacement level as caring about the human race? They're not endangered. We did the "trust the science phase" More like we did the "shit, she linked actual data, better ignore and deflect".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:24 PM
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So, since you don't believe scientists in one branch of science, you don't believe all scientists. Right. Please excuse me while I laugh my fucking ass off. Assuming you're not talking about transwomen, they've successfully transplanted a uterus into a woman born without one btw. So it is a possibility. If most first world countries Aaaaaah, so you're only concerned about a certain demographic having enough babies, not really the existence of humanity; which doesn't really surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:58 PM
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2/3 of the world that isn't Caucasian seem to manage just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:49 PM
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Which I also do not think is sufficient to be representative of the US population. Dudes come here bringing studies based on a sample size of 100 college students (and anecdotal data!), but those are apparantly fine if the science says what yall want it to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:35 PM
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I'm just not believing the people that tell me The study is from American Meteorological Society and the figure is from EPA (United States Environmental Protection Agency). Not exactly a celebrity telling people to not use a hair dryer while riding a sports car and owning a private jet. I'll believe the authorities I've cited over some science denier whos only proof is "my childhood summers were just as hot!" ;) Not trusting the science is literally denying to believe quantitive data collected o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:17 PM
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Number of males who have ever had specified type of sexual contact (vaginal sex) with opposite sex partner age 30-34, 35-39, 40-44: 2005: 96.9%, 98.1%, 98.1% 2011: 96.7%, 98.4%, 98.5 Next report changed age range, so age 25-34, 35-44: 2016: 94.6%, 98.5% Source: CDC Such a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:10 PM
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False equivalence to move the goal posts ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:32 PM
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No its not, this summer was literally as hot as it was when I was a kid Sure, but they're happening way more often now: One recent study that did this found that the average number of days between May and September with at least one large heat wave in the Northern Hemisphere doubled between the 1980s and the 2010s, to around 152 from 73. But the number of days with two or more heat waves was seven times higher, growing to roughly 143 from 20. That’s nearly every single day from May to September.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:22 PM
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We're not an endangered species, mate. Choosing to not have kids does not mean they don't care about the human race. Self-annihilation through climate change is a way more likely than dying out due to not having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:10 PM
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It is blackpill if you're saying most if not all women fuck chad prior to marriage. Blackpill means "it's over", not getting any relationships/casual sex based on lookism. Getting married is antithetical to that definition. It's not blackpill if they have choices, even if they don't like them. uneven the distribution of sex That hinges on the belief it's meant to be distributed equally, which it doesn't as the biology of "survival of the fittest" so succinctly puts it. They all get to have fun w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:58 PM
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Turn that around, it's: no women are living celibate lives waiting for their future husband in case he feels threatened by the possibility of comparison. Which is just called living, not black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:50 PM
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They need to be single too. Low chance of that if they're a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:09 AM
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I don't think it's as rare as you're saying tho. Prior findings from the Toledo Adolescent Relationships Study (TARS) (N = 1,031) suggest that among individuals, ages 18–24, 54% reported ever having casual sex [...] (in 2006-2007, published 2013 Lyons et al. 2013). Similarly, Armstrong, England, and Fogarty (in 2007, published 2010), examining a sample of undergraduates (N = 12,925), found that 67% of sexually active college seniors had casual sex. Taken together these studies suggest that casua…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:16 PM
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with n counts in low single digits Problem is that you're unlikely to meet women with n counts in low single digits to start with. I thought you believed in assortive mating. Yeah, for people who already have options. And that assortative mating means preferential pairing between people with similar characteristics, and people aren't looking strictly at n-count. People will want similar other characteristics, which may be correlated with low n. But not low n itself, that's not the assortative ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:28 PM
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However if her n count is low and she hasn't had casual sex, the odds that you can be better or at least equivalent to her exes will be much higher than a scenario where she has a high n with lots of casual sex. I got low n and had most of the sex in relationships; still tried casual. Point is, you don't have to have high n to have tried casual sex. So from your perspective, what % of women do you think marry their best sex? I don't think anyone's basing their choice of spouse primarily on the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:44 AM
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My point is that you don't need lots of casual sex with several people to have good sex with someone. If she's had any partners (and only 5% married as virgins in 2010s), chances are dudes simply not the best. 🤷‍♀️ And most guys will simply not be the best; if everyone's a winner, no one's a winner. It's better they make their peace with it, because no ones joining convents in the event their potential future husband is insecure about her having any experience to compare him with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:46 AM
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N50 is like less than the top 1% of promiscuous women in America. That's not a big chance, there's no need to worry about women with n-counts >35. It's the 94% of women who have up to n-count over N=1, up to N=35. Depends how you like 'em odds. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah, no, that's not the problem they're pointing out. OP and him got together while her sis was in elementary school. He knew her as a child and she grew up watching him have several children with her sis 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:43 AM
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I prefer an intelligent man that is intellectually curios and challenges me intellectually, and there's a higher chance of them being that man by looking at men with degrees. That's just the group I get along best with and have more in common with. But even then, not all degrees either, like literature/languages/history/art degrees are gonna be different persons from people with STEM degrees. I'm gonna have more in common with the latter group. Dated a dumb guy once. Never again, it was such a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:18 AM
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It's not strictly N1, it's N1, N2, N3... But the risk starts at N1. If you're gonna be neurotic about it, atleast start from the get-go amirite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:46 AM
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Oh man, y u calling me out like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:50 AM
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Your boss is not gonna come see you when you are old or lonely or both. Your 401k is gonna make for a sad pension working part time, and having children is no guarantee they'll visit you. They atleast won't visit you as often as you'd like, since retirement has way more free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:34 AM
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You know, you don't have to sleep around for someone else to be better sex than your husband. One is enough. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:18 AM
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Fortunately for you, it's just an old wives tale. The venom spreads too fast to be able to suck out a considerable volume. The recommended course of action is to not touch the wound and seek immediate medical assistance, making sure to keep calm and not raise heart rate. 🙃 Which might be easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:42 PM
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That <5% number has both men and women in it. Male virgins age 30-44 only make up 1.2% of the total sample of 61417 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:36 PM
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The average American loses his or her virginity at age 17. Virgins make up 12.3 percent of females and 14.3 percent of males ages 20 to 24. That number drops below 5 percent for both male and female virgins ages 25 to 29 and goes as low as 0.3 percent for virgins ages 40 to 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:09 PM
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Married. Widowed after 32 years. Married. Married. Married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:01 AM
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Men with options will not settle for women with a high n partner count. Nevertheless, there was substantial variability; scores ranged from restricted (minimum = 1.00 for both husbands and wives) to relatively unrestricted (husbands’ maximum = 7.89; wives’ maximum = 7.11), providing support for the idea that relatively unrestricted individuals do indeed get married. Moreover, both couple members’ sociosexual orientations were moderately correlated (r = .45, p < .001), consistent with theories of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:13 AM
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studies One study, based on 105 women, of which only a third was hooked up to a fake lie detector. The study does not even describe how they account for making sure the sampling of the three groups (3 male, 3 female) are truly random, so we don't even know there's lying, just that the three groups differed in reporting. An obvious flaw, since one group could have more celibate students than the other, so it doesn't necessarily mean there was lying (for example, one of the three groups have major…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:29 AM
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The meaning of dating also shifted during the 20th century to include a more informal use referring to a romantic, sexual relationship itself beyond an introductory or trial stage. Although informal, this meaning is very common and is used in formal speech as well as writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:38 PM
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Steve Buscemi clearly has the ultimate hunter eyes and he married just fine 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:27 PM
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No it simply proves that men have a harder time getting sex (although I fail see to see how this would help your argument). Which.. is exactly my point. Not just that, you admitting that women lie about this means they care, which has been my point. Lol can you read? I said don't kid yourself into thinking you know her number. Women don't have to lie because men aren't asking; they know they're not in a position to so, aka beggars can't be choosers... because they have a harder time getting sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:17 PM
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That doesn't prove shit, lol. Proves that women are gladly skipping out on these men, aka they want them more than the other way around. The women men want to fuck and the women they see as good partners aren't the same. Any girl can be fuck zoned, it doesn't mean shit. Your logic is basically: men see women as sluts, but get with them anyway. Not sure how that's not an L for women too. Don't kid yourself thinking you know what her true number is. Men and women are clearly still shacking up with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:19 PM
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I don't think I'm the one denying reality The numbers of incels and the gender ratios on dating apps beg to differ. and don't look the fact that men have standards on a woman's promiscuity. They can have standards all they want, man. Just don't kid yourself that men are doing the choosing for the most part, aka beggars can't be choosers. Their eagerness to repeat that they have standards comes more across like they're fishing for a reaction, because we all know most of them are taking what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:54 AM
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Nah, more like men full on trying to cope with the fact they're not the choosers and trying to feel like they have some modicum of power here. They don't, as clearly even the slutty women manage to partner up. I mean, you're even doing it. I have absolutely no finger in the game as I'm happily partnered, yet you need to convince yourself I'm rationalizing it for myself. Like why? I got my Chad, yall just fascinate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:20 AM
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I have this feeling every time I look at old photographs. Oh, cute kitten and young girl? That cat is dead now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:53 AM
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Aren't 50% of gamers women? They just don't like the same games dudes like. Women aren't considered "gamers" if they play The Sims and Stardew Valley.. And men often like competitive games, so they're playing those. But, I like gaming, and I game way more than most of my male gamer friends. I had over 10 000 hours in WoW before I quit and now the games I keep going back to, they both have 4k+ hours in them. I even finished Elden Ring 3 times in my exam period, ending up at like level 400. We're …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:32 AM
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Pointing out that they're being hypocrites and the fact that beggars can't be choosers, doesn't mean they're angry. More like they pity them for self-sabotaging themselves. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:56 AM
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Discussion seems to basically boil down to this: Men: I think women with n-counts over -1 are slutsss 😤 Meanwhile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:16 PM
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Which is exactly my point. Including gay men means that the numbers from heterosexual men are nowhere neeeeeeaaaar the 100+ previous sex partners that OP says is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:25 PM
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paste the posts I'm still gonna trust General Social Survey data (with a sample of over 30,000 respondents) collected between 1989 and 2016 over a handful of people on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:23 PM
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None of that can be said for looking young. Because people will treat you better, you will feel better and people wanting you around makes it possible to engage in all kinds of activities for a long time. Quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:21 PM
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Misogyny: dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. Why do you consider a trad wife being asked to do trad wife stuff to be misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:01 PM
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I don't understand the obsession with living a healthy lifestyle, you're still gonna die. What's the point? Quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:51 PM
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I see many posts of men and women posting they had 100+ sex partners prior to marriage Press x to doubt. The vast majority aren't having 100+ sexual partners. One percent of American women have had over 35 partners; the comparable figure for men is 150. Five percent of women have had 16 or more partners; five percent of men have had 50 or more. The top 1% of promiscuous Americans have had over 35 partners for women or 150 partners for men. And that statistic ignores sexual orientation, so that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:02 PM
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Lol, now your source is Marie Claire? It's hard to take that serious, you're citing an author asking 46 men taken from a dating site for married people, aka men looking to be unfaithful. They are not representative of men and she has motivation in selling books, hardly an objective observer. Got any actual science? Because this isn't science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:55 PM
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I said men cheat because his wife's libido doesn't match his' (proven by science) The only part proven by science is that her libido is lower, you have not proved that's why he cheats. None of your science describes unfaithfulness as a topic. also his wife doesn't want to have sex with him as much as he'd like (proven by science) The science said the sexual frequency didn't decline, so clearly she does. The graph you linked said that she didn't want to have sex often, not that she didn't want it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:36 PM
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Again, an unsourced claim from your side. Wanting to have sex more often =/= they're willing to break their marriage oath. Most men seem to manage to stay faithful just fine. I see that you clearly have an axe to grind when it comes to this subject, but now your claim has been refuted by the very science you linked to back you up and now you're cherry picking some more graphs that doesn't even support what you're claiming. I'd call it confirmation bias, but your evidence doesn't even support you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:13 PM
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Nowhere does your graph show they don't want to have sex with their spouse, it shows they don't want to have sex often =/= they don't want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:52 PM
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So you're choosing guaranteed pain over potential pain, because of one dud? You do you, man. Sounds kinda whimpy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:49 PM
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That sounds more like it tells us they don't appreciate their men following their penis tingles. It's not the argument you think it is lol. Even if they don't outright leave, they would've still have broken the agreement of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:44 PM
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Then don't be surprised that the strategy only attracts golddiggers, if you're leading with status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:39 PM
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might not Now you're drawing your own conclusions again. I can just as easily say: frequency might not decline because they still want to have sex with their spouse, despite seeking it out less due to declining libido, which is what the science shows. It's all speculation from your side that it's the reason they cheat. Because duty sex is better than no sex. Clearly can't be the reason; if they're able to cheat with an enthusiastic woman, then there's no reason to accept "duty sex" over no sex, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:30 PM
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I'm just stating facts. You claim that men cheat because women aren't putting out due to declining libido, but your own source says sexual frequency didn't decline despite declining libido, which means that female declining libido doesn't play part in sexual frequency. The two statements contradict each other and so your claim can't be facts. It's an opinion that your source proved wrong as the women are putting out, so the men are cheating due to other reasons than declining female libido. Quar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:41 PM
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Men cheat because their wife can't match his libido and doesn't want to have sex with him. You did though. unenthusiastic sex Again, drawing your own conclusions. You don't know it's enthusiastic, you just know they have a lower desire over time to seek it out, which completely checks out with female sexuality being responsive rather than spontaneous, like men. Interestingly, although women’s sexual desire declined over time, couples’ sexual frequency did not Since the frequency didn't decline, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:19 PM
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I still haven't made the claim you're trying to prove. I've never denied men have a higher libido on average. But as the author of your own source says, on average doesn't mean always, correlation =/= causation, therefore you can't conclude anything. You're literally arguing with your own source, which disproves your claim that men cheat because women aren't putting out. women were likely to engage in sex even when they did not desire it. Which means men aren't cheating because the women can't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:48 AM
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They're basing these averages on ~200 couples in the Bible belt..... It's not a representative group to draw a conclusion from, and you're the one calling it duty sex, the authors aren't. Another study for example says that men and women are equally likely to be the member of the couple with lower desire relative to their partner. "Duty sex" is your own interpretation and conclusion, and that's not how science works. The only things the study is telling us is exactly what is written in the text,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:26 AM
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I've never made that claim, so do it yourself. You're moving goal posts because I quoted the authors on why they considered their study flawed. You're literally grasping at straws nitpicking a quote from your own source. They even say you can't use these findings to conclude anything, which is why your conclusions are flawed, but attacking strawmen is a common fallacy I guess. It is also worth noting that it would be unwarranted to conclude that any associations observed here explain all differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:56 AM
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Nowhere does it say that women desire more sex than men. And nowhere did your own study say that. It said: Indeed, sometimes women desire more sex than men Which is probably referencing to this, from their sources (Mark, 2015): Herbenick and colleagues suggest that desire discrepancies fluctuate such that sometimes the woman's desire is higher [...] Are you disagreeing with your own linked study, or? No one is disputing that on average men have higher libido than women, but it's incorrect to say…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:39 AM
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Why, don't you have control over your own sources?😏 such generosity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:28 AM
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This subreddit makes me appreciate the men in my life more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:57 PM
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most people haven't though. I'm not some anomaly here Shit according to science, that's fairly normal A relationship that felt good and worked well emotionally, and where sex was approached openly and appreciatively, promoted orgasms. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:41 PM
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His wallet is gonna be hurt, making it somewhat different, and the children will also be deprived of knowing their biological father, but if for whatever reason those things don't matter, then yeah it's exactly the same. Well, she's gonna hurt too one way or another when he cheats, so it's not really different. She might not want to have children with a man that can't be trusted around other women. He's wasting her reproductive window for one, if they have children their children will be deprive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:06 PM
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True!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:58 PM
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Can she use the same reasoning if she commits paternity fraud? What he doesn't know won't hurt him. If she wanted to hurt she wouldn't keep it secret. I'm pretty sure it's still gonna hurt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:01 PM
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Just because she's unaware of it it he's still actively hurting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:29 PM
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I don't think the fact that he slept with someone else is enough to determine if the relationship is going well Then there would be no need to keep it secret. Typical, she cheats and he's still in the wrong. People don't go from unhappy to cheating overnight. A man can cheat and still love his partner. Clearly his love is a limited one, seeing as he's very willing to hurt her. Dunno about most people, but when I love someone, hurting them would hurt me too. A woman cheating no longer loves her p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:24 PM
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Common sense would be to not draw any conclusions from this study, especially conclusions it doesn't even make itself. These findings should be considered in light of several limitations. First, although the data described here are longitudinal, they are ultimately correlational (i.e., non-experimental), and thus, causality cannot be inferred with confidence. It is also worth noting that it would be unwarranted to conclude that any associations observed here explain all differences between men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:19 PM
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Still no words about duty sex, so I'm gonna assume it's just projection speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:36 PM
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A man cheating doesn't necessarily want to leave his partner. A woman cheating wants to leave her partner. So as long as he doesn't leave, the relationship is doing good in your opinion? Do you think the woman would agree if she was aware of the cheating? Why is the goal that the relationship stays intact when it clearly isn't working for them? I think the fact he doesn't necessarily wants to leave is way worse, as he's wasting her time when she probably wants a faithful partner. There's lots of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:35 PM
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No, it says Interestingly, although women’s sexual desire declined over time, couples’ sexual frequency did not, suggesting that women were likely to engage in sex even when they did not desire it. Not a word about duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:29 PM
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Is that written in the study or is it just speculation from your side? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:15 PM
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it's not necessarily an indictment on his woman in any way. I'd say it quite plainly tells her that he disrespects her since he's not planning to break things off with her. Incidentally that's why I think women cheating is worse than men cheating. You think it's worse that women have sex with someone when they're gonna break up anyways, compared to men valuing a relationship so little he can't be trusted if there's anyone willing around that'll let him "hit it"? If she's leaving anyways, it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:02 PM
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Interestingly, although women’s sexual desire declined over time, couples’ sexual frequency did not, suggesting that women were likely to engage in sex even when they did not desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:47 PM
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Because he's never given a woman one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:13 AM
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The conclusions he draws are seriously so. The tissue that makes up the vagina, is the same tissue that makes up the inside of your mouth, incapable of producing tactile, euphoric sensations https://www.biologyonline.com/dictionary/stratified-squamous-epithelium That link doesn't say this. Wanna know what else is stratified squamous epithelium? Skin. Anus. What is covered by skin? Penis. The penis is incapable of producing tactile, euphoric sensations apparantly. And gay men can't enjoy anal sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:07 AM
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She herself alao says she doesn't care at all about whether or not her partner feels sexually desired or attractive That's not what she's saying, that's your own bias reading into it since you think having sex faster means you're somehow being treated better. She says she doesn't care about some dude feeling insecure and indignant over not "getting sex fast enough" for his frail ego, because she doesn't want to date this guy to start with. She's not having sex with casual sex dude fast because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:32 PM
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The former, since the chances of him getting kids or even getting his socks washed are incredibly low lol. He's not getting more, because he's not even in the running for them. She's not willing to have them with him, because he doesn't measure up, hence why he's only good for a fuck or two. We're talking about a relationship versus a one night stand, not marriage versus a one night stand. Doesn't matter, point still stands. Relationship dude is getting more from her, be it time, chores, double …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:03 PM
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Let me dumb it down. Requirements for casual sex dude: be physically attractive What she wants with him: sex Requirements for relationship dude: be physically attractive and an attractive partner What she wants with him: sex, but she's also willing to wash his socks and have his children. Which guy is she giving more?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:15 PM
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needs to be better That's how you define your worth, basing your masculinity on how you compare to other men when it comes to casual sex and the onus is on you to handle it if you think it's problematic by either accepting it or taking your business elsewhere. You can easily flip it and say that relationship guy needs to be better than casual sex guy, because that's the guy she will end up willing to cook and do some laundry for over a period of time, aka willingness to take care of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:43 PM
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Lol, you don't have to start a relationship by having sex, you can also be friends first and end up catching feels. You can go from casual sex to LTR by starting with sex and finding out your personalities are compatible. Or you can go from friendship to LTR by starting with compatible personalities and finding out that the sex works too. You do not have to choose one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:50 PM
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But does that even matter if the outcome is the same? But the outcome isn't the same. The outcome would only be the same if the receiving party doesn't know that the other party is incapable of feeling love. It matters to know whether or not their loving treatment comes from a feeling of love. The actions aren't all that matter, the motivations behind them are important too. If it didn't, how would you feel about the same situation, but the slave is resentful and wants to be unfaithful, but can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:51 PM
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It's completely mindblowing to me that they don't see it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:05 PM
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then them being a slave is irrelevant. If them being a slave is irrelevant, then it doesn't hurt to let them have free will, no? If your motivation for treating the partner well is truly intrinsic, why does it require guaranteed loyalty? That sounds more like a motivation based on transaction, than intrinsic. People who are concerned about this situation know that they would abuse their position of power and need an external threat like divorce to prevent them from abusing their slave partner. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:34 PM
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Duh, #2. Much rather want a partner that is loyal to me because he wants to be loyal, rather than being loyal because he's incapable of infidelity due to some unseen power stopping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:06 PM
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And for that small price, she doesn't have to live in a homeless shelter. True love, right there. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:58 PM
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Honestly, it's predominantly the wrong age group for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:46 PM
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It works, but it requires a bit from the person looking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:22 AM
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Was that the first time the banter took a sexual direction? Because that was not a very elegant way to do it. No buildup, just sudden and lowkey negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:14 AM
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But it doesn't imply the dude just wants a 1 night stand or is only interested in sex. Yeah, meeting quickly isn't a bad sign from the dude if he's actually interested in vetting compatibility, ie. taking an interest in who you are as a person, asking thoughtful questions etc. The bad sign is meeting quickly and the dude is clearly just following the script he thinks will get him into your bed as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:02 AM
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Dude, there are extensive studies on that. Divorces fuck up kids mentally, and harm their devellopment, it least to higher mental problems, lower sucess in life, higher chance to land in prison. And an abusive household is all hunky-dory apparantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:14 PM
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Really nothin you mentioned is explicitly at men’s expense nor do they directly target men. There is a big difference in actively supporting a group of people and actively oppressing them. I don't see the big hangup they have against support to women. It's not women alone that gets the support, it's the children she's bringing with her too and society benefits from taking care of the younger generations; they need them to become future tax payers, and not taking care of them means they're more l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:31 PM
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All power to him that he has learned what works for him, but I'm not marrying a man if I don't know how the sex is. Whether or not he used to have casual sex before is completely irrelevant to the situation, we're considering a relationship together now and we found out we're incompatible. I figure you think it's a gotcha, but I don't see the difference with dating a person choosing to live a vegan lifestyle despite having eaten meat earlier. We're not static persons. If I don't want to date a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:54 AM
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When Narnia says she's Russian, she means nationality. When she says she's Asian, she means race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:40 PM
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Russian isn't a race. Asians can be Russian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:01 PM
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Lol dude, most of Asia is Russian soil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:36 PM
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There are way more royals than the British royal family, but even the Windsors had/have some pretty members. Prince William of Gloucester for example, or Lady Amelia Windsor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:30 AM
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Girl, if he's your friend he's still gonna be your friend if he rejects you, as long as you don't make things awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:52 PM
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Well, men often don't get that deep intimacy and validation they want from their guy friends. They still want that even if they don't want sex that much, and women can more readily get that from their female friendships. So no, I don't think it would change that much. Men would still want female company more than woman would want male company. If it did work, legalized prostitution would basically fulfill the same criteria, and it doesn't; still got lonely men in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:42 PM
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On the off-chance that your question is genuine and not sarcastic: I think you could benefit from talking with a professional who can help you work out unhealthy thought patterns and your anger towards women, because I honestly don't think you're angry at them as a group; I rather think you feel angry about feeling hopeless and that anger can't be soothed by attacking the concept "hopelessness" and so it's easier to misdirect it to someone you can attack. I do hope you'll find peace with yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:20 PM
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You're broadcasting them quite openly in the daily thread and pointing out that you're engaging in unhealthy behavior isn't "picking" on them. I can promise you none of them "old hags" gets sad looking at your comments saying you won't find them attractive compared to a 20 year old. The only reaction you'll get is an internal "lol yikesss, he angy". The only person you're hurting is yourself, by feeding into your anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:39 PM
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Oh yeah! He even used to have good thoughtful comments. His comments now are quite a stark difference compared to before, it's more like watching a toddler throwing a shit fit tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:28 PM
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Pointing out unhealthy behavior that harms you isn't being mean to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:23 PM
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'S just kinda pitiful watching you trying to lash out at a demographic group you're not even interested in. Hanging out in the daily thread we're getting a real-time front row seat watching you go through the five stages of grief, and now you've hit stage 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:05 PM
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This, also it's usually not only the female being abused, but children too. She's gonna bring them with her and they also need the support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:55 PM
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Gotta agree, I think 25-30 is gonna be my sweet spot personally. I honestly looked like I was 14 at 18, all babyfat, pimples and greasy hair. Those "just turned 18"-porn they're watching, they're not 18 lol, they are 20-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:10 PM
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You've gotten so mean and angry the last couple of months, you okay? I'm sure fishing for reactions from "angry, post-wall hags" makes you feel better about your own situation, but it ain't good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:07 PM
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Like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:01 PM
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Touché. My mom is a lovely person, but she's her own person with her own starting point. We're not the same and doing stuff the way she would wouldn't be correct for my life. I have to live with my choices and so I take the choices that I can live with. My mom knows she raised a good kid, so she knows I'll make the right choices for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:27 AM
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Don't need dicks for that, I masturbate atleast twice per day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:12 AM
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How can you in the same breath, tell disgruntled people to "lower their standards" as a solution to their loneliness, and argue with them about the justifications of not lowering your own unrealistic standards to satisfy your disappointment with the opposite sex because "why would you be with someone you're not attracted to"? Why shouldn't they? If loneliness alone is the problem, lowering their standards is a valid solution, even if they don't like it. If the problem is loneliness due to no att…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:36 PM
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I wonder how NarniaFox is doing. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:50 AM
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Lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:59 AM
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What qualifies as sex in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:40 AM
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This is question to men "how to pick the right man", not "what are gender differences in picking the wrong person". "Women who say they can't stay away from marrying convicts can't be serious?" can't be very correct when criminal offenders were less likely to marry than were non-criminals irrespective of the definition of persistence of criminality Also: but it should be noted that the reproductive advantage hypothesis is not mutually exclusive with current individual-oriented psychological theo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:56 PM
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How about being an adult and give the man space to decide what to do. How about he uses his big boy words to tell people he needs some space? They're not mind readers. Also known as 🌟✨🎊 communication 🎊✨🌟
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:01 PM
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We observed no notable difference between males and females regarding criminality and marriage patterns. criminal offenders were less likely to marry than were non-criminals irrespective of the definition of persistence of criminality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:53 PM
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Point of the comment is that the supposed criteria to smell out n-count doesn't work: seeing how glued you are to your phone I'm not and I don't have public social media. My Instagram account has like 30 followers and I know all of them in person. how you get along with friends Pretty ok? We meet up once a week for D&D or boardgames. how much you look in the mirror and take selfies I don't do selfies and as for how much I look in the mirror, probably normal amounts beside the fact I have a small…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:52 PM
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Hahhahahhhahha wow. I'm not a virgin, therefore I'm an unfaithful whore or whatever that wall of text assumes about me. Tell me, have you recently touched grass and by that I don't mean the smoking kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:39 PM
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By those qualifications I'd be a virgin and I'm not, which means it can't be a very trustworthy set of criteria then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:01 PM
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You gotta do the math yourself, I should've added that, but I had a look at it. Ignoring the two oldest age groups on both sides, and both the 1-3 years older-groups (seeing as they're basically peers), it turns out to be on average: Male older and offender: ~51.4% out of 1026 total cases Male younger and offender: ~48.1% out of 359 cases "Male older" seems to outnumber "man younger" 3:1, which checks out, as "man older" is the more common. But still pretty significant. For peers, it turns out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:06 AM
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the more likely violence becomes That's.. not how the numbers work. Closer in age is more common, so of course it'll have more total cases. You need to see them relative to each other, like percentage wise. When looking at age gaps where the man is older, they are the primary offender except age group 13-15 (ignoring 20+ because that's statistically either elderly abuse or human trafficking). It's like saying Golden Retrievers are the most aggressive dog breed in the US, because they top the dog…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:10 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Relative-Age-of-Victim-and-Offender-by-Age-Discrepancy-Intimate-Partner-Homicides-in_tbl2_8100312 https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Couple-Age-Discrepancy-and-Risk-of-Intimate-Partner-Breitman-Shackelford/61df1f97804d7f6e0e40a436404f629940ce2cc2 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3706999/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:51 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Relative-Age-of-Victim-and-Offender-by-Age-Discrepancy-Intimate-Partner-Homicides-in_tbl2_8100312 It wasn't hard to find, I'll find more if you want it. https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Couple-Age-Discrepancy-and-Risk-of-Intimate-Partner-Breitman-Shackelford/61df1f97804d7f6e0e40a436404f629940ce2cc2 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3706999/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:51 AM
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5 sexual partners on average is from the CDC. experienced abuse in 1 of their 5 partners Where is the 1/5 stat from? That one came out of nowhere. Are you assuming 1/5 are abusive, because that's not how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:48 AM
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Not only that, they're frequently insulted as whiteknighting, for daring to oppose the male agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:21 AM
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Not for ons or casual imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:37 PM
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Why u expecting oral from a ons?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:56 PM
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Study finds men are more likely to think they’re better looking than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:16 PM
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Shh, just let the men tell on themselves 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:05 PM
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I read golddigger from prostitute, not looks. I don't see how the word "prostitute" is supposed to describe a look, as prostitutes don't all look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:42 PM
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Why would anyone want to stoop to their level? What are they proving to anybody if the opinion of irrelevant, low value people doesn't matter to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:40 AM
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When I read " lobotomized prostitute", I don't exactly read insults directed at their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:12 AM
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True, now he's just pathetic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:14 PM
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Men are never gonna live down Genghis Khan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:13 PM
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Excuse me, how dare you re-traumatize me by reminding me of Rachel and Tobias
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:02 PM
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Studies do show that that's not correct, it's similarities that seem to be positively correlated with lasting relationships. So, to answer the question, "Do opposites attract?", Not really. Similarities in age, intelligence, religion and education level are the blocks that build the foundation for a healthy relationship. Even couples who differ in race, culture, and other significant areas will have things in common on a deeper level. Remember the 313 studies we mentioned earlier? A majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:34 PM
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Acaciduh agrees with me and she’s a woman. Do you think that's an argument? I have several upvotes so far, so it seems people agree with me too. If we don't consider it a privilege, no amounts of repeating that men think it's a privilege is gonna make women think it's a privilege. For all that privilege you seem obsessed about, statistics are still showing that women are predominantly serially monogamous. If they considered it such a privilege, the numbers wouldn't show women going for the exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:30 PM
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Unless you can bring specific numbers on how many women compared to the contrary, "a lot" isn't a definable number to use in an argument. Statistics show that most women don't have casual sex arrangements, instead seeming to seek serially, monogamous arrangements until one sticks. And I think you misunderstand the part of it women would consider the privilege; it's not having lots of options for casual sex, it's the option to not have to exclusively commit romantically to a guy you don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:13 PM
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I think a woman is a more suitable authority on what women want in the dating marked than you, dude. If we don't consider it a privilege, no amounts of repeating that men think it's a privilege is gonna make women think it's a privilege. It's not even a competition of who has it "worse" when they both have different problems and wishes for what they want out of it. An anecdote from my own life, I found my partner after left-swiping 8000 men. Probably ok, reasonable nice men, but men I don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:00 PM
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In order for a man to have enough intelligence and life experience to challenge you intellectually, he would have to be ahead of you in that regard. You don't have to be ahead of someone to challenge them intellectually. You can have equal mental capabilities within different topics. This kind of proves the point of why men can get a mail order bride from a poorer country and both feel sufficiently satisfied in their partner's intelligence. I think that rather proves that the man is satisfied in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:46 PM
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So, if all this is true, why do women get bent out of shape when men talk about female privilege in dating/relationships/sex? Because it's male solipsism; framed from what men would consider to be desirable. Women don't consider it a privilege that many men consider women to be a warm hole or bangmaid-material even when they're uninterested in the woman as a person. Y'all want the possibility of alot of casual, NSA sex with different women, that's fine. But women don't. Heck, it just makes it mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:40 PM
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So they end up in Sweden in Thailand permanently? I'm gonna assume you mean Sweden. If she has Swedish children or has obtained a Swedish citizenship, she's not getting deported. She can apply for citizenship after 3 years if she's married/live in a registered partnership/are a cohabiting partner with a Swedish citizen, as long as they have lived together for 2 years. I know from being here in the US and being around other immigrants). As a child of a similar union (not Swedish), I think I'm bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:19 PM
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Swedish men as a total, probably no. Swedish men who import completely dependent wives from poor countries versus Thai men, probably yes. It must be a big enough problem when Sweden even have welfare agencies specifically intended to aid Thai citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:47 PM
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Lick a dick at your own risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:00 AM
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Barring the last link, they're all studies or reports. In fact, if you scroll all the way down and read the conclusion for this extensive study about such marriages in Sweden, it proves them wrong in countless ways. "Extensive" study of "24 interviewees" aka 12 couples, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:33 AM
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His problem clearly isn't lack of experience, it's the fact he's unattractive. Lead with that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:43 AM
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I somehow don't think this dude bats for the other team, to put it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:30 PM
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Women aren't as hairy as men, and that goes for thickness and density too. Even if me and my partner had identically sized brows, I would still have fewer and thinner hairs per square area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:28 PM
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When you've been together 10 years, your life is already as entangled as a married couple. Marrying would just be making it official on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:06 PM
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(and the stuff it entails)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:59 PM
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in a romantic relationship (and the stuff it entails) with him, over being friends or exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:43 PM
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Revulsion isn't worry, and I'm pretty sure the single gals would feel much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:40 PM
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What makes you think he doesn't feel special?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:37 PM
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No, that ones fine. Ideally we'll just stay in to begin with. It's the "she's had partners before me, she must think I'm a cuck and dreams about her previous Ultra-Chads 10 inch dick while she resents meee 😫😫". Like, eww.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:22 PM
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Boyfriend = dating. Ex = not dating. There's a difference in interaction between the two, believe it or not. Or atleast there is for non-autistic normies who don't try to make it a black and white issue. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:20 PM
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It's true. Cat x 0 gay men = 0 Guess I'm a virgin again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:17 PM
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I've wrecked so many arguments here by taking the time to find the study in question and looking it up. Most of the time it's a cherry-picked sentence taken out of context or misrepresented. I think they bank on people not looking the studies up, but they don't want to seem like they have no sources either. So they just post any link that roughly outlines the topic for credibility sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:05 PM
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Neurotism like this makes my vag shrivel and dry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:01 PM
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Broken dreams of a better life in Sweden: Thai women’s lived experiences of intimate partner violence by Swedish men in international marriages Thai Women in Sweden: Victims or Participants? Rise in abuse of foreign wives in Sweden: report Domestic Violence against Thai Women in Sweden: Victims’ Perspectives and Experiences 2020 Report Thai Women are Warned against Swedish Men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:32 PM
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The ex was clearly not special enough to me since he got dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:46 PM
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Hahaha lool, this Hooskers new handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:02 PM
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"Well, I just won't stick around then." They don't realize we're trying to get rid of them. If they leave, they're doing the work for us lol Yeah, I've told them before it's working exactly as intended. They don't like that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:51 AM
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I get the impression that not settling (on both sides) is some kind of mythic phenomenon for these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:34 AM
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I didn't continue dating him, did I? He's an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:07 AM
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I don't settle and he knows that. 💅 I also don't date just to date; I date because I want him specifically, not just because I want to date. I think he's a catch, he's thinks I'm a catch. Good times all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:22 AM
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I show him he's special by agreeing to being in a romantic relationship (and the stuff it entails) with him, over being friends or exes? Lol, if he's not happy with my girlfriend treatment, he can use his big boy words. If he didn't think I made him feel special, he wouldn't be with me. There seems to be a lot of assumptions my boyfriend isn't being treated well in the comments, since I'm not making a list of the stuff I do; which is the normal stuff (for me). I do see what you're fishing for, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:44 PM
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Or she's tried to break things off with him and he's not taking her words for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:35 PM
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Women would have no reason to frame an agenda here, as women are free to do hookups or serious relationships and can achieve both. They don't have to explain themselves. Men who can't do hookups would have an agenda to frame here. Men who consider being marriage material an insult have an agenda to frame here. I've quarreled enough with women here too, so you can spare that card.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:37 PM
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I'm a woman doubting a man's post. But sure, make it gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:16 PM
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You're free to give his post the benefit of the doubt and others are free to doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:06 PM
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It's not and that's not what we're saying. It's his arguments. Again: Yeah, I'm a marriage-minded man and heres the proof: proceeds to describe an unwanted open relationship that the guys here describe as their worst nightmare It's not a good argument. In fact, it's so bad it could be the perfect rage bait to reflect negatively on marriage-minded men. You're free to give his post the benefit of the doubt and others are free to doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:39 PM
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Our time together has been the happiest several months of my life. I'm not just gonna throw that away. She may know it's for his own good, it doesn't mean it's not incredibly hard to do. If she didn't give two shits about him, she wouldn't bother with a 7 month relationship with no orgasms and an unwillingness to explore her kink. That's time she could spend on good sex. It's not contradicting to not want to hurt him alot today, instead procrastinating it and maybe hurting him tomorrow; it's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:28 PM
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If that's his honest to god opinion, it's not. Unfortunately, rage bait posts aren't exactly uncommon in this suv and I'm just not convinced someone of his sentiment would make a post inviting cuckold ridicule. Which is why it could be a likely shitpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:14 PM
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We can want something we know is a bad idea Sure. But using it as an example to back up an argument isn't gonna work and most people know this, and yet we have this post. Either OPs intentions are to shitpost, or he's really, really dense. People aren't gonna comment on the cmv, they're gonna comment negatively on the relationship. For men who are resentful over being "marriage-material", this post would be the perfect rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:56 PM
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That’s the whole point of a CMV post Only if it's actually a CMV-post. If it's a shit post, the whole point would be the agenda. And honestly, I can't picture someone being so dense that he thinks this relationship is a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:26 PM
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He deserves better than her. I wouldn't say "better", exactly; she seems to have been completely open about what their situationship is. Problem is she probably does care about him to some extent, which further complicates matter: she's unable to break it off completely for his own good. He deserves a relationship with someone who feels as deeply about him as he does about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:23 PM
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This isn't about the dudes opinion about his unhealthy relationship, it's about the post subject and the message it sends: Yeah, I'm a marriage-minded man and heres the proof: proceeds to describe an unwanted open relationship that the guys here describe as their worst nightmare For someone pushing an agenda, it could be a mighty fine attempt at a shitpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:11 PM
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"Some guys prefer to be marriage material" and then proceeds to describe the most 🚩🚩🚩 relationship ever. There's probably a significant percentage of male users here who think marriage material means being cucked by her sexual past. This could be a creative writing exercise for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:57 PM
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among the 50+ men that 5-10% won’t be really quite attractive? "Quite attractive" doth not a good father make, and these aren't skills that are advertised on a dating app. Pick me, I'll make an awesome dad! said no dating profile ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:34 PM
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If you read my comments, you'll realize I'm not disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:23 PM
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But the men here think that is the dream. They seem to think that women respect these men and doesn't realise that the only value he has is to supply dick on demand; if he fails to do that, he literally has no purpose in her life. These are guys you don't want anyone to associate with you. Marriage material-men who aren't attractive to me are just normal friends; I still like their company and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:21 PM
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most men "Most men" from like incel/rp-spaces 🤣 and they're not representative of the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:14 PM
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Yah, marriage material to me means I want to rip off your clothes and I can see myself standing your personality long term (and wanting to do that). Hookup material means I want to rip off your clothes, but I'd rather you didn't talk because I don't want to talk about your inane, stupid shit and please leave after lol, I don't want you to sleep here. And that's only if they're good sex. I know which one of these dudes I think more highly about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:56 PM
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That post was a while ago 20 days isn't a "while ago" when it comes to working on some pretty serious relationship incompatibilities. Hell, if you've been together 7 months (is that counting your fwb-relationship?), that's like 10% of your relationship duration. we've been working on our sex life and I think it's a lot better now. Does she think so too or has she started fucking Bumble guy? She doesn't have to complain about your sex if she's getting the sex she wants somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:35 PM
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keen to find a man and have a family. =/= wanting it with any dude though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah, but he seems completely unaware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:16 PM
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She used to have kinky sex with a guy she met on Bumble. She’s talking about meeting up with him again if kinky sex with me doesn’t work out. We’re technically in an open relationship, so I would be fine with this. Technically? tried to convince her to be monogamous with me but she resists the idea, When I get jealous she suggests that we “dial back the labels.” I’ve gathered that her resistance to commitment is nothing personal. 🤦‍♀️ Her resistance to commitment is because she's not that into h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:14 PM
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open relationship. I’ve tried to convince her to be monogamous with me but she resists the idea She open with her family that she's in an open relationship and you're one of the dudes? recently it’s only fun half the time, and that I’ve never made her orgasm Not promising, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:07 PM
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I do that with all my friends.. Funnily enough, we're all clear it doesn't mean we're in a relationship. You know what I do with boyfriends though? I introduce them as my boyfriend and I happily agree to an exclusive, monogamous relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:56 PM
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Of 57,000 men polled by men's magazine FHM, 28 per cent hoped to marry a virgin, while 41 per cent wanted a bride who had five partners or fewer, and just 5 per cent wanted a bride who had slept with more than 15 men. The survey, which ran on the magazine's website for two weeks last month, attracted mostly men in their late 20s, who had jobs and were university educated. Not exactly a representative survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMAdvice/comments/wuq2l7/my_girlfriend_is_into_bdsm_im_not_can_we_still_be/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button 21 and 22 apparantly. Yikes, they weren't even compatible fwb. They're not in a relationship.. but he seems to think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:44 PM
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He has it the wrong way around; mental illness can "cause" promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:53 AM
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I would think the people who do that are exactly the ones you don't want as mods. Indeed, some of the ones nominating themselves have said some truly disgusting shit here.. Making them mods is how the sub will get perma-banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:34 PM
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Perhaps it would be like that if desperate men weren't willing to fuck pies and fruits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:45 AM
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Billy is aiming way too high if he's going for the "vast majority of women" and still being unattractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:43 PM
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Watch OP completely ignore the data that proves him wrong. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:52 AM
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"Women don't bring me an itemized Excel spreadsheet when I ask them what they find attractive, they're such lying, scheming harlots! 😤"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:58 AM
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You can't have many good sourced to back your argument when you immediately resort to insults 🥱 yes, the gap is closing. But this gap quickly reverses among those ages 30 to 34 and grows wider in older age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:52 AM
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reveals that 20 percent of men and 13 percent of women report having sex with someone other than their spouse while married, and trend data going back to the 1990s suggests that men have always been more likely than women to cheat. negate my statement that the INFIDELITY GAP IS CLOSING. Because there are more women than the 18-29 group? Thought that was pretty obvious. Looking at all age groups they are not closing the infidelity gap. What the fuck? Are you stupid? So emotional.. 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:12 AM
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Everytime I post that the infidelity gap is closing I get downvoted looool Perhaps it's because you keep peddling the same study where men cheat more in all age groups except 18-29, where the difference is one percent (10% versus 11%). Kinda misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:46 AM
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even their cops Omg, their cops actually are hunky af, I can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:56 PM
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Projection is what it has to do with it. Some of them are clearly laden with baggage and their comments show it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:26 PM
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Well yeah.. just curious to see how self-aware he is lol And he isn't. His attempts at rationalizations is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:22 PM
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By that logic she's devaluing herself if she willfully submits to you, I don't see why she would do that. And that's in the hypothetical where she ignores all the red flags from you; it's like a Chinese parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:49 PM
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Lots of social relationship can cause "baggage" and perhaps you contract the plague from someone and die, how is that any different? Would you then avoid all people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:14 PM
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What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? About 5-10% What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with? Not counting just physical attractiveness, around 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:40 PM
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What a relief that mental disorders are not at all what is being discussed then! Also, as if you'd be in a position to do so anyways 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:08 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_equivalence Are we discussing age gaps or adultery?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:30 AM
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Lol yeah, the profile pics of most of my old colleagues are from when they still had a hairline lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:21 AM
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It's just.. chefs kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:20 AM
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Those grapes were sour anyways 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:16 AM
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I don't need that. Then why hide between dimly lit catfish-angled selfies showing only up close?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:09 AM
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Didn't you know, the PPD men are too good for old crones like Gal Gadot, Alexandra Daddario and Margot Robbie. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:51 PM
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Why should she remove her uterus? There are easier steps she can take before ripping out the ol' baby maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:44 PM
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9/10 revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:50 PM
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I'll just copy a previous comment of mine, but ultimately it boils down to the women wanting more than what Leo can offer. Queue, his exes: Gisele Bundchen: married, with children. Also, apparently she wanted out of the party lifestyle: “After experiencing a period of depression, Bündchen decided to end her relationship with DiCaprio after she felt their lifestyles no longer complemented» Bar Rafaeli: married, with children. Anne Vyalitsyna: went on to marry and have children. Blake Lively: marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:47 PM
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You need some German 70s porn in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:05 AM
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The level of oxytocin in a body is raised by activities like hugging or climaxing. And eating chocolate, are you arguing that we pair bond with chocolate? 😂 I'm not willing to be a dancing monkey for you. You've been dancing for quite a while now. But since you're still unable to back it up with sources, Imma call bullshit and disregard future arguments (without sources) you bring; saves some time. ;) If you never experienced pair bonding yourself and Sheesh, still making it personal. A debater …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:58 PM
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It was a simple request, and you were unable to back it up. ^^ I don't care how you feel about the subject itself, because that's not what I'm asking; I just want objective sources on the subject, yet you keep deflecting to unrelated subjects. :) Oh and hunger is a physiological response to a physical need; not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:43 PM
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Pair bonding is a behavioral and physiological bond between two mated individuals, and is rare among non-human primates. First thing that pops up if you do a web search. Is from Wikipedia, if you scroll down to references that quote is from a study about lemurs. Don't you even check your sources before applying them? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:07 PM
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Again, you're deflecting, which admits you don't have the sources pertaining to humans. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:05 PM
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you are doubting something that is generally accepted If it's so generally accepted, you'll have no problem backing up the statement. without bringing any arguments why it should be doubted in the first place You backed up your statement with a paper describing lemurs. Not exactly a very confidence-inspiring source. You providing a study that proves it exists in lemurs, You're the one that brought that study, which is why I requested one for humans. That you seriously doubt it's existence, could…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:39 PM
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I'm gonna assume you do not have a source pertaining to humans then. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:01 PM
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And you'll be replaced by immigrant women who happily will never love you for anything but the wallet and green card. I think this will be like water off a ducks back in their view, like don't threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:26 AM
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They handle the rejection of not being swiped on very badly, no way the fragile egos would have the fortitude to approach women in the wild. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:56 AM
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Don't listen to angry men on PPD, is probably the best tip. You can find relationships on OLD, just gotta swipe with purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:41 AM
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If it's such an obvious truth surely it's no problem finding relevant sources pertaining to the right mammal atleast, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:26 PM
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Overdorff DJ, Tecot SR (2006). "Social Pair-Bonding and Resource Defense in Wild Red-Bellied Lemurs (Eulemur rubriventer)". Lemurs. Developments in Primatology: Progress and Prospect. is the source of that statement. Do you have a peer-reviewed source pertaining to humans? Because I don't think anyone here cares about lemurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:47 PM
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But economic collapses, war breaks out, anything unstable happens. Or he's maimed in an accident and can't work anymore, leaves me and I'm stuck trying to find employment with big holes in my CV, is financially abusive or economy collapses and he's just as fucked? Lol, I'd much rather take my chances and we can have a way higher quality of life when I'm also working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:44 PM
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Nah, I live in a country where workers actually have rights. Doesn't hurt either that I have a somewhat rare education in addition to being a woman in STEM; I was headhunted before I finished my studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:34 PM
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From an (almost) 28 year old, that is a rough-looking 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:30 PM
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I don't dream for labour, but I especially don't dream for being at the financial whim of anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:28 PM
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Based on his profile, no. I'm not finding him particularly physically attractive and this dating profile did not even give his personality/possible compatibility any points either; his persona reads to be like a human representation of mashed potatoes with no seasoning, bland. I prefer an intellectual, but he seems to have a superiority complex around it, which is a turn off. Vegan, wants children and anxious attachment? Bleh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:41 PM
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I'll just copy a previous comment of mine, but ultimately it boils down to the women wanting more than what Leo can offer. Queue, his exes: Gisele Bundchen: married, with children. Also, apparently she wanted out of the party lifestyle: “After experiencing a period of depression, Bündchen decided to end her relationship with DiCaprio after she felt their lifestyles no longer complemented» Bar Rafaeli: married, with children. Anne Vyalitsyna: went on to marry and have children. Blake Lively: marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:51 AM
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Man, same. Some dried shiitake slices, spring onion, a poached egg? 🥵 No hating on my instant ramen 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:36 PM
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Follow a recipe, know some techniques (and when to use them) like searing, broiling, steaming and atleast be able to put together a coherent, logical, balanced meal (like: meat skewer with plain rice and a corn cob beside it is food, but god it sounds depressing and dry).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:32 PM
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(Unfair) example of "black don't crack" 😅😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:25 PM
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Vasectomies aren't meant to be reversible though. When my partner was getting snipped, they snipped the duct, folded the ends over each other and cauterized it. Perhaps sperm storage should be normalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:57 AM
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Single doesn't need to mean lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:53 AM
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Out of mana. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:15 AM
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Don't stand in the fucking aoe, ya dofus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:56 AM
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Being logical-minded =/= autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:56 PM
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Blocking in general is not against PPD rules; blocking to get the last word in a debate is, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:55 PM
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Sushi is a pretty fresh dish, so the sushi quality hinges alot on the the freshness and quality of the sushi ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:44 PM
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minor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:39 PM
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Why would it be cheating? It simplifies the same process: boiling rice, it's the smart thing to do. Is it considered cheating if you're using pot, pans and an oven compared to an open fire? Or that the beef is bought in a supermarked instead of hunting for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:35 PM
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4-year gap isn't "dating an older man", that's dating a peer in most cases; they're both in the same life stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:24 PM
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You're doing the equivalent of a "lalallalala, I can't hear you". We're not talking about prenatal hormones and you know i, because homosexual people completely disprove your theories in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:42 AM
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Hormones do determine who were attractive to. Lets dumb it down a bit. Gay men have the same hormones and levels as heterosexual men. If they did not, we'd have separate sports teams based on sexuality because one side would have a physical advantage. We do not, gay and heterosexual men play sports together because they physically perform the same. Gay women have the same hormones and levels as heterosexual women. If they did not, they would not ovulate and be able to become pregnant like hetero…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:44 PM
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It's not randomly chosen gay (and bisexual) men when they're all chosen from a community health center being tested for HIV..... the group will be biased towards men behaving sexually recklessly, which is correlated to sexual abuse; this is not representative of the homosexual and bisexual male population. It's like going to a palliative care department and saying general public health must be shitty because all these dying people are sick, like come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:09 PM
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Getting fucked by your dad doesn't make you gay "65.5% reported "sexual abuse" experiences without bodily contact, of which indecent exposure was the most frequent" OP definitely didn't read the study, because in that case being flashed by a hobo in the park would be enough to make people gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:49 PM
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They did not randomly pick out gay males..... The study sample was primarily white (94.8%), well educated (16 years of education on average) participating [...] at a community health center Also, their definition of sexual abuse is problematic: sexual experience with a person atleast 5 years older if the child was 12 and under, or 10 years and older if the child is between 13 and 16 inclusive, with or without physical contact and whether or not the sex was wanted by the child. So technically, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:46 PM
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Omg, that's your supposed source? Did you even read it? It does not say that 35% of homosexual men are sexually abused; the study is looking at prevalence of unsafe, homosexual sex and childhood sexual abuse. Heterosexual, promiscuous women who engage in reckless sexual practice are also linked with childhood sexual abuse, where did their expected homosexuality go?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:31 PM
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Mostly with the paternity test thing I always wonder how many of these tests are actually negative and it turns out the woman cheated? Problem with this number is that the man wouldn't be taking a test unless he had reason to believe she had been unfaithful; the data set would be biased. The number wouldn't be representative of the population. It's not x% of fathers aren't the bio father, it's x% of fathers who doubt they are the bio father aren't the bio father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:00 PM
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and the man knows he'll get the rewards yes make the right changes, she still doesn't give him the rewards. Perhaps because he made it clear he's only doing it for sexual services, not because he wants to make her happy? Seems pretty clear she'd be completely turned off by this. Another major pproblem I hear about regularly is the constant shifting of the goalposts. E..g. Year 1, she needs ABC from him. Year 2 ABCD and EF, year 3, ABCDEFGH etc. Like what goalposts? It's not unreasonable to expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:14 PM
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hypertrophy He might wanna try /r/fitness for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:43 PM
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Do you think most guys do this? Are the guys misrepresenting themselves when they stop doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:32 PM
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Let me rephrase it, I don't mean just taking her out to eat and calling it a date; are these men actively wooing her and making her feel like the sexiest woman in the world, like during the honeymoon period?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:09 PM
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Jesus christ, I'm not asking for the biological reason for why homosexuality exists, I'm asking for you to explain exactly how does homosexual men and women fit into your post? If hormones are the reason why males like females and vice versa, how come we don't identify homo- and heterosexuality with a hormone panel? Answer: Because we can't, and that's because hormonal levels in adulthood doesn't affect your sexual orientation, if so BC would be wrecking lesbian relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:36 PM
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Yeah no, then we'd see tons of couples break up as soon as they were off birth control trying for children. We don't. What is sure as day is that people are gonna continue having sex, no matter if they're actively planning for children or don't want them at the moment. What's for sure gonna affect relationship satisfaction is not being able to have sex because you won't risk pregnancy or having an unwanted pregnancy despite taking the best non-hormonal precautions. These are relationship stresso…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:32 PM
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They find ugly men ugly, but are willing to be friends if they have great personalities. OP: "I let you cry on my shoulder, why won't you let me smash?! 😡"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:52 PM
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The issue comes with its underlying effects on relationships and relationship satisfaction. I doubt unwanted pregnancies is gonna have a positive effect on relationship satisfaction and y'all don't seem to want condom-only sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:46 PM
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Thanks, that was the point I was trying to make!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:40 PM
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prenatal I'm not asking about prenatal levels, I'm asking about levels now because of your statement: Hormones are the reason why Males like females and vice versa. Homosexual people shouldn't differ too much from heterosexual people hormonal-wise; we'd see a big physical difference between them if that was so. How would BC affect lesbians? Wouldn't "messing with their hormones" cause huge consequences for them too? Are they unable to bond with their partner due to BC? So the statement can't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:27 PM
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Hormones are the reason why Males like females and vice versa. If that was so, how do you explain homosexuality? How does the general hormonal levels of homosexuals differ from the general hormonal levels of heterosexuals? It's not as simple as that..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:32 PM
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I figured lol. Ibuprofen might be slightly more effective, depending on where it ends up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:44 PM
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my ear hurts like a mf I currently have a clove of garlic stuffed in my right ear I think we've found the reason for your ear ache.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:47 PM
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You should go for a colour close to your (healthy) gums!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:17 PM
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5/10 if I'm being generous and no. He looks like he's a 14 year old boy just hitting his edgy emo phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:45 PM
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Most people don't need TRP or FDS either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:30 PM
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Tell me you've had no healthy male role models in your life without telling me you've had no healthy male role models in your life personified.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:02 PM
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These guys usually move from living with their mother to living with their girlfriend. Some do, but some seem to think it's like going back to living with mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:50 PM
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My dude's snipped, so no condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:56 PM
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gentle and respectful You can be this without being a wet fish in bed, lol. It's not hard and you don't have to resort to consensual rape play either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:12 PM
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being more dominant and rougher in the sack. =/= rape fantasies, wtf. CNC-play would be rape fantasies, it sounds more like her boo is a wet fish in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:01 PM
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Is there any other way OP could have done this without being the bad guy? He could atleast pretend to be concerned over what has caused her to start sneaking junk food and smoking weed, but that is dependent on actually caring about her mental health over how fuckable she appears to him. Kudos for making an effort to support her by making her healthy lunches and dinners, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah, ask a single woman in their 40s or 50s how much fun they are having from healthy sexual partners in FWB style. Literally haven't heard them complain about the sex they're having. They're either lower libido due to menopause and happily not having sex or they're going full cougar and having fun with younger men. Seem plenty happy to me, dunno why you think they're miserable and that being in a relationship will fix it. most men that don't want relationships will turn their eyes to younger w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:30 PM
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If he’s broke and unemployed and not even attempting to get a job to provide for himself, he is a man child. He can be non-broke and employed and still be a man child. I've known a few couples where the man basically expects the girlfriend to take over all household duties the second he doesn't need to woo her anymore. Attempts to balance this from the girlfriends side turns into him suddenly being incompetent at laundry, grocery planning and cooking, or having to be constantly nagged and remind…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:04 PM
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You can still have sex while you're single, without being pumped and dumped. Wild, I know. Choosing to not enter committed relationships doesn't mean you have to join a nunnery or have sex with bad lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:50 PM
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Nah I never seen an open acceptance of prostitution like this before. Prostitution is legalized in several countries and no issue there. I'm seeing a 6% figure for American men who are sugar daddies, but that figure doesn't separate between single, married, separated, widowed. So less than 6%? Not much to worry about. They will want to have some fun too when they could afford it. I think they rather want the validation of casual sex, there are after all still incels in countries with legalized p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:46 PM
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Those are fathers you suspect something, otherwise the test never would have been done. That means the data set for the 30% is biased, no? There's no reason to order a paternity test unless paternity is actually contested, aka these men have reason to believe the mother has been unfaithful. So that 30% negative isn't representative of the population. It's not 30% of fathers aren't the bio father, it's 30% of fathers who doubt they are the bio father aren't the bio father.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:33 PM
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Remember that cats can't visit you in a nursing home and they're not allowed at your hospital bed. There are more pets than cats and besides, what makes you think being single means you'll be lonely? You can still have a family and friends without a partner? You don't need a partner to not be lonely and hell, it's possible to feel lonely in a relationship anyways. Besides, men have lower life expectancy than women, so we already know we'll probably be widowed. With everything going on now I expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:23 PM
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So many women will either have to settle or share him. Staying single is an option, which is heaps better than wasting time in a relationship you don't want. If you look at "sugar daddies" most of them are married. He isn't satisfied with what he has at home so he makes an arrangement with a hotter woman to satisfy his needs. So those women that want a HVM but don't have the SMV to satisfy him might just have to share his resources with his sugar baby. Sugar daddies don't make up a sizeable enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:05 PM
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Or they want women’s literal DADS picking out males for them as if women were perpetual children. If they think I have high standards, they'll hate to learn how high my dads standards would be; literally no one would be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:16 PM
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So the "not wanting to marry him immediately" usually translated into: The guy(s) I'm seeing are hot so won't commit -- or The guy I'm seeing buys me things and we're sorta together but I still think I might be able to do better. Or 3. THERE'S NO RUSH. You can enjoy getting to know one another before legally binding yourself to one another. You can be as committed as a husband and wife, signing a document doesn't change much. I really can't relate to 1. or 2. here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:27 AM
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I'll give you a wording that will hopefully change your take on it: Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men I don't see how this is supposed to change my mind here. You can have a trait and not find it attractive, that doesn't make you hypocritical. For example, I'm an introvert and I'm not attracted to introverted men. Overweight men aren't exactly itching for other overweight women either, if they can choose. Not simply had plenty of willing partners, but managed to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:36 PM
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It seems that you guys value the age of your partner very highly and when it comes to physical attraction you prefer girls in their early 20s. I was wondering what does that mean for long term relationships? Do men simply lose interest in their partner over time but just stay with them because their lives are so intertwined? Do men secretly want to be having sex with their 18 year old daughters friends instead of their wife? Emphasis mine. Yes, guys like the physical looks of women in their earl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:14 PM
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I don't think fat people looking for thin partners is hypocritical. A pipe dream, yes, but not hypocritical. It's a free world and people are free to want what they want. A fat person expecting a thin partner however, is hypocritical. The thin person is afterall free to not want a fat person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:55 PM
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This sub is basically full of conservative autistic men coming to argue with progressive women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:36 PM
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You can desire a man without wanting to marry him immediately. Wild, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:21 PM
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don’t get asked out by HV men as well He's not asking whether or not they're being asked out, he's asking if they're randomly thrown wedding proposals at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:36 PM
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None, but I haven't wanted the men I wanted to ask me to marry them either. It's wayyy to early for that, I'm nowhere close to that life stage yet and it's not the 1800s anymore; women and men can cohabitate and fuck without having to marry lol. Is this a bad faith question? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:24 PM
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Yeah, if you already live like a married couple, marrying isn't gonna change much beside the legalities. And these marriages are the most likely to last long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:07 PM
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Because we don't even live together yet lol, lets take it one step at a time, calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:57 PM
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RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:47 PM
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Sorry, senpai 😔 https://imgur.com/a/9O5euWA
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:46 PM
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I'm indulging Lulll, he calls them that and I spend enough time on the sub to know this (hahahaha cries).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:27 PM
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Might make her more willing to smother you with her mommy milkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:16 PM
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It seems the female vaginal orgasm is the topic of the day, so what say you, bruhs? Do you want a woman capable of piv orgasms? Well, get u a woman with a short CUMD (distance between the clitoris glans and vaginal opening)! Data from two independent samples, collected over 70 years ago and more than 15 years apart, support the notion that the distance between a woman's clitoris and her vagina influences the likelihood that she will regularly experience orgasm solely from intercourse. Women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:52 PM
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Is it something female-related the PPD dudes doesn't like? It must be hYperGaMy!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:29 PM
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I guess the defense for him and lifestyle would be...he doesn't want to settle down, so he prefers women who don't either (at least initially). Yeah, and finding them younger means he gets more time with them, plus they're also attractive. They're in an age range where that lifestyle is compatible and they're "low-maintenance" commitment-wise. I still can't imagine there's zero hot, non-clingy women in their thirties or forties who share his values, There probably are, but even them I think will…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:20 PM
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Oh my God, I know what I'm doing tonight!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:07 PM
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Page 11 shows a bank account book issued for "Ann Blue" in year 1873; quote: "Ann Blue opened her account in the Lexington, Kentucky, branch office in August 1873"; showing that no, "Ann" was not just a weird uncommon man's name back then. That's a bank made for the benefit of ex-slaves and didn't even last 10 years. That is such a level of cherry picking I'm honestly impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:39 PM
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Gisele Bundchen: married, with children. Also, apparently she wanted out of the party lifestyle: “After experiencing a period of depression, Bündchen decided to end her relationship with DiCaprio after she felt their lifestyles no longer complemented» Bar Rafaeli: married, with children. Anne Vyalitsyna: went on to marry and have children. Blake Lively: married, with children. Kendal Schuler: dunno if married, but does have a partner and children. Toni Garrn: married, with children. Kelly Rohrba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:20 PM
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look at the variability in this study and tell me if it is only men big small or woman big loose, I find the study lacking, there's too many variables and only 28 participants. Vaginal size can depend on a variety of variables, so there's no easy way to find an average size without varying ranges. Like, half the participants has had children, there's a 20 cm range of height and we don't know if they are in an aroused/unaroused/blended state. We also don't know if the participants are all in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:55 PM
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Still, the objective reality we know for certain, and can measure, is that he never dates anyone 26 or older. We can easily enough test this theory by checking which of his exes are having children and are married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:22 PM
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Sorry bruh, I'm a woman, but thank God there's a woman here to tell me I'm a man for knowing my own reproductive anatomy. How exactly are you gonna refrain from stimulating the clitoris during PIV when it literally wraps around the vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:54 PM
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You can't have vaginal stimulation without clitoral stimulation. The clitoris organ is more than just the glans, it envelops the vagina. So yes, you can have a vaginal orgasm without stimulating the glans, because you're still stimulating the internal parts of the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:37 PM
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But is that because they get too "old" for him or because by that age they are looking for more commitment long-term, aka marriage and children? DiCaprio isn't settling down, so of course he's gonna date like-minded women, and they tend to be young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:29 PM
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A lot of women It’s a worldwide problem. almost all women are experiencing this Yeah no. You need to bring actual data (that is representative of the female population, mind you) on how many women this affects before making the claim that it's a prevalent condition, and no, a biased sample size doesn't count. Pointing this out isn't attacking you btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:24 PM
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Words of affirmations is missing I think, depending on what B) involves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:50 AM
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Normal amounts of concerned, I guess. No infidelity, escorts, sugar babies, prostitutes, OnlyFans in his sexual history. Don't be a whore, but have some experience; a minority of those experiences being from casual encounters. If I have to put a number on it, somewhere between 5-10 previous partners is probably ideal for the age range I date (early 30s).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:46 AM
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And has probably never had good sex, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:41 AM
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I hope you don’t think you’re smart. Don't think so, I know so. And surely you're a better debater than immediately resorting to attacks? it’s still their nature to exploit mens sex drives. The onus is on you to provide proof, which you haven't. If it was so, male testosterone (and resulting sex drive) would not start decreasing already in their 30s when they would even have any gold or resources to dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:36 AM
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Girls can’t really feel/get into piv. Isn't really what you can conclude from the fact that 90% of the vaginas nerve endings are in the lower third of the vagina. The remaining 10% in the two thirds of the remaining vaginal depths are still a pleasurable sensation. It just means that most of the sensation are felt around the entrance, not that they don't feel anything. It's just as stupid to say that men can't enjoy sex, because they only have 4000 nerve endings in the penis glans while women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:29 AM
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Girls can’t really feel/get into piv. Isn't really what you can conclude from the fact that 90% of the vaginas nerve endings are in the lower third of the vagina. The remaining 10% in the two thirds of the remaining vaginal depths are still a pleasurable sensation. It just means that most of the sensation are felt around the entrance, not that they don't feel anything. It's just as stupid to say that men can't enjoy sex, because they only have 4000 nerve endings in the penis glans while women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:28 AM
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Commenters: provides several examples where OP is wrong. OP: it doesn't matter. 🤔🤔 And I'm also someone who can orgasm from PIV, earn more than my partner AND have a higher libido than him. Mustve picked the wrong man to golddig 🤔 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:11 AM
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But the poor men have no accountability when it comes to the evil wimminz. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:07 AM
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I'm not seeing a lot of men dating burn victims who are kind, decent and loyal. 🙈 Sounds like their love is plenty conditional too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:03 AM
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Yeah, and they say this as if it's something to brag about. Lol, I'd never want a love like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:01 AM
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He's on PPD because he's on Reddit, and Reddit has shut down most of the incel spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:35 AM
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Are you taking the missus on dates like in the honeymoon period? Making the effort to woo her? Often, men also stop doing this. Are they misrepresenting who they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:18 AM
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That's not hyperfocus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:55 PM
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For both sexes, yet they ignore the male data 🤔🤔 and that data has nothing to do with oxytocin or pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:13 AM
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her ability to experience that bond diminishes as the receptors become desensitized to the oxytocin that is released. So how does her body differentiate between oxytocin released by any other mechanism? 😂 Like.. eating chocolate, petting dogs. Like most redpill pseudoscience theories, it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:17 PM
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Did this study use data points involving the whole female population or the small, non-representative group they did use? 😂😂😂 Studies 1 and 2 both included large samples of heterosexual women recruited online. Nevertheless, the sample is not generalizable to the population. Future research should consider using a representative sample to gauge actual prevalence of foodie calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:57 PM
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Wanna know what's actually alot? 74%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:00 AM
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698 women: Of those choosing to respond to the question (97%), 23% of women (n ¼ 156) indicated they had engaged in a foodie call, whereas 77% (n ¼ 522) had not. Of the women who had engaged in a foodie call, most indicated that they did so occasionally (27%), very rarely (26%), or rarely (21%), though about a quarter of women indicated that they engaged in foodie calls frequently (15%) or very frequently (10%). On average, women who engaged in foodie calls had done so 4.62 times (SD ¼ 6.71). 35…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:40 PM
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Didn't you know, you're not supposed to actually read their sources and find the cherry-picked/misrepresented data! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:27 PM
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If they wanted casual sex, why would they? Also, you admitted yourself it doesn't work 75% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:24 PM
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Perhaps they know they won't like your personality or that you're incompatible for a LTR? Also, you're not exactly targeting the main female population either, so you can't really say it works better; it just works better on thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:21 PM
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If anything women should have to impress men not the other way around. Why? If you want her more than she wants you, and she has options, why should she impress you? If you want to be impressed, find an uggo who doesn't have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:59 PM
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Build something greater than yourself. Sure, but I disagree that passing on your genes and family name is building something great. Barring the family name, it's something even a jellyfish can do and lets be honest, most peoples average-ass genes isn't something "great" that will be sorely missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:20 AM
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And then your son ends up having daughters or taking his wife's name and that's how long that house name lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:48 PM
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There's this thing called vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:44 PM
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Lol no, these women can do way better. Any women willingly spending time with him is either getting financially compensated for it or isn't such a catch herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:43 PM
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genetic permanence Sharing like 3% of your DNA on average with your great, great, great grandparents doesn't sound like genetic permanence to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:28 PM
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The research, carried out by Illicit Encounters (a dating website for married people), concluded that 12 really is the magic number because it shows a person is “sexually adventurous, liberal and transient.” The data set doesn't look like it's coming from a representative group of the population though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:38 PM
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We always scrub and wash each other if we're showering together. It's intimate and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:04 PM
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approach groups of german women who are walking by with "hi im a guy wanna fuck?" I'm too ugly for that Your issue doesn't lie in your hobbies, studies and looks, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:12 PM
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Because they end up making circle-jerking question posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:45 PM
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Being here honestly make me appreciate the men in my life even more. Emphasis mine. I was already appreciating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:37 PM
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Lol don't flatter yourself, us normies view people like that like a shit-flinging monkey at the zoo; just pure entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:56 AM
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Being here honestly make me appreciate the men in my life even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:52 AM
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No one believes them You don't choose who believes them or not. they don’t even come close to representing the majority Moving the goal posts now? Your post is titled "no man, no matter what caliber, will reject an attractive woman [...]" and there clearly are men doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:59 AM
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So, there's been a couple men here already confirming they've rejected attractive women due to "frivolous" reasons. Changed your view yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:39 AM
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The sources? Match.com and The Richest...... Married/coupled people using dating and sugaring web sites report that they are unfaithful. What a shocker /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:28 AM
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Damn, you're saying it as it is; OP literally just wants to buy a bang maid and he thinks he won't be "scammed" (🤢) if he gets a third world woman that needs the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:05 AM
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Point is, is it wrong for men to feel agravation to be punished for dating a woman who is now inhibited as a rebound to her being carefree during her months of exploration? He can choose to not date the woman for one. No punishment or aggravation necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:13 PM
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That's on the woman for picking a man who don't want kids. That's not how it works though. She doesn't need him to want to have kids to fall pregnant, she only needs to have sex with him. She wants sex and she wants kids if she falls pregnant. He wants sex and he doesn't want kids if she falls pregnant. She can't get pregnant without him and he doesn't want her to be pregnant, yet he'll gladly do sexual activities that might make her pregnant and bitch about the consequences of that later. Make …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:21 PM
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Feminist want to chant my body my choice that fair How about men use their "my body, my choice"-mantra to not deposit sperm into a fertile woman who might want to keep the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:06 PM
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Not wanting to date someone of /insert race here/ =/= saying "all people of /insert race here/ are unattractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:57 PM
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My father has insane ADHD too, and he's been married for 30 years (to my mom). Funny how differently the same symptoms can present. His impulsivity mostly presents in finding a new remodeling project at home. Lets just say I lived in a construction zone growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:54 PM
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And it's not even all autistic men either. The few I've met couldn't fricking shut up if they started talking about stuff they're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:46 PM
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How many women do you think are having children in their 40s compared to men? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:35 PM
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The cruel irony is that the spike in Autism has largely been caused by women having children later in life, and autism primarily effects boys as opposed to girls. Lol nope. The rates of autism for children born from both old fathers or old mothers are close, but how many men versus women do you think are having children past age 40? Preeeeetty sure it's the men, due to having a larger reproductive window. Men who finds themselves divorced and remarrying may find they want another litter of kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:51 PM
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Technically daily, from my partner. Other than that, about once a week, if I'm meeting female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:02 PM
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https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/historical-report-diversity-of-sexual-orientation.php 37% of males and 13% of females had at least some overt homosexual experience to orgasm You get more flies with honey than vinegar, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:06 AM
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The contact lenses are so bad. I wish they'd just retouch every frame instead; every scene I see him in, his lenses are pointing slightly in different directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:59 PM
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Djimon Hounsou, Michael B. Jordan, Chiwetel Ejiofor, Regé-Jean Page, Chadwick Boseman, Idris Elba, Charles Michael Davis, Lenny Kravitz are all very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:40 PM
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Sure, but I do find black men attractive. Just not those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:14 PM
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Lol yeah, if it was any weaker it would be inverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:13 PM
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Reborn in fire and ash, bby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:05 PM
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Human. Jk, half White/Asian. How are you expecting race to play into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:51 PM
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Put a long wig on #2 and you won't be sure whether or not he's a man or a woman. I'd say #1 if he was a little less puppy-eyed, but not feeling any of them to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:58 PM
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He is not soldering (process in which two or more items are joined with melted filler metal inbetween) his own flesh, he's cauterizing (technique of burning a part of a body to remove or close off a part of it) it. Smh, true masculinity is knowing the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:54 PM
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Wow where’s your data because the average alimony is about 40% of someone’s income Awarded in like 10% of divorce cases. https://www.sterlinglawyers.com/spousal-support/calculator/ Also, about 79% of custody is awarded to the mother, you trying to tell me ALL those men didn’t want the kids..?? Primary custody, so yeah, all those men didn't want the day-to-day-dealings. They're still awarded 50%, but they get to be the fun weekend-parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:31 PM
1

Hell, I wouldn't even want him as an acquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:51 PM
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I'd have my partner do it for me if I wasn't so goddamn ticklish under my feet. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:32 PM
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The "What do you mean I need to nurture platonic relationships with other people, in case I find a wife in my social circle? I DONT NEED FRIENDS"-guy? As far as I know, he's still hanging around yeah. Skulking in the shadows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:18 PM
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Edit: she said “are you high?” Well, dont leave us hanging bro 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:04 PM
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cries in 5'4 I've just given up one size fits all-stuff 😅 they've never fit, but hey, atleast I have plenty of legroom during travels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:41 PM
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Lol yeah, I had to special order all my safety gear, the regular sizes were a goddamn danger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:03 AM
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Lol, peak PPD intellectual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:57 AM
4

Assuming that's true that means one woman takes one man off the market, which is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:53 PM
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I don't understand this assumption/obsession with everyone being able to find a romantic partner. It's not supposed to be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:33 PM
5

Sure, but I'm good with socializing like once a month or so. I'd probably be the tribe/village weirdo in other time periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:26 PM
5

We like our company. Covid-shutdown didn't affect my life almost at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:19 PM
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Sure. It would probably get thrown out anyways, and I'm the higher earner. He'll probably have to sign he has no right to the real estate I'd be bringing into the marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:48 AM
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Well, according to his previous post he scores in the 83rd percentile in psychopathy, so that checks out 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:11 AM
3

Dude's unhinged. "By the 80th time I'm just gonna be straight up murdering people for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:27 AM
1

And here I thought my rooster was big enough for y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:27 PM
1

It’s an interview, not an arranged marriage with dowries and bride prices Dude's even married, and if I'm looking at the right pictures the wife is Dagestan-level pretty, not much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:56 PM
3

Doesn't he have like a ton of baby mamas? Guessing there's a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:58 PM
5

OP is salty that some pretty woman flirted with his manly man role model and that warranted a post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:44 PM
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Well in the US, we don't give children the death penalty anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:06 PM
1

It depends, my mom is 54 and doesn't have age spots or skin thinning on her hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:50 PM
3

I'd hardly say 4 years counts as older; when you're 25+ it's as good as a peer. 5+ and up, is more like older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:45 PM
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And of course the course the guy who is recording her makes it out likes its such a big shock. ... 😂😂😂😂 Do you also believe that the porn actors really are step siblings? Dude, it's porn; it's scripted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:42 PM
1

That's not a SAHM, and not the parameters previously used in this hypothetical, which was one toddler and one baby wasn't it. Else it sounds like you agree house chores can take up to 8 hours when you have a monkey running around actively trying to kill itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:19 PM
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Let's be real, he's not enticing anyone for a date unless they know he's paying. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:15 PM
1

Well I have trouble believing household chores can take up 8 hours a day every day. With a toddler running around sticking his fingers in the power outlets as soon as you turn your back, yeah, it can easily take 8 hours. There's barely enough time for peeing, and even that requires bringing the kid with you to the bathroom lol. Smh, dudes here seem to be thinking kids stay put wherever you put them down, they really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:06 PM
5

Yeah, ask her at the end of the date; atleast she'll have gotten a meal out of it. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:58 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wa4bl0/having_a_list_of_positive_traitsachievements_isnt/ii2wq2o?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:30 PM
2

That's like average height where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:47 PM
4

"Some (anecdotal) examples as evidence" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:30 PM
2

Even if a woman did approach, she wouldn't expect passive acceptance from a man. Damn straight. I've approached dudes with no problem, but it also requires effort from his side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:29 PM
3

OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:26 PM
2

🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:26 PM
2

What if it's 4 inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:24 PM
2

What if they're 5.5 inches and as thick as a soda can?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:17 PM
7

I wouldn't want a guy that had no options lmao. He can be with me because he wants to be, not because he has no choice. So no, it's not something I really think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:42 AM
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Also, you'd consider the person actually paying for the service as the most serious users and could represent the whole of the population The most serious users on OLD are the unsuccessful people. Most people are successfully having relationships with the opposite sex, so the serious OLD users sounds like a minority in the population. And what, 1/3 on OLD are women? Guessing similar numbers for Bumble, even fewer are paying for these premium services. So yes: minority. EDIT: "As of 2022 Bumble r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:02 PM
2

women in the western world mostly wear headscarfes Not for modesty, it had a function. Many had permed hair, so headscarves kept the wind from ruining the 'do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:23 PM
1

I don’t have friends or any kind of social life. I don’t meet people You can begin there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:21 PM
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Looks: Big tits (like, G-cup big), petite height-wise, other than that a normal, slim build, neotenuos face, dark hair, hazel eyes and pale skin. Perhaps a bit exotic-looking, as I'm mixed race. Little social media presence, don't like going out partying, homebody. Don't drink much, no drug use, don't smoke. Low n, moderate libido. Very introverted, reserved and private. I'm a gamer. Most of my hobbies are solitary; cross stitching, embroidery, crocheting, etc. I meet up with a D&D-group once a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:46 AM
1

political bullshit. It's not political bullshit, the numbers literally shows that the crime trend line is trending downwards. You disagreeing with the numbers doesn't make them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:03 PM
1

Lol, imagine being as miserable as he is and thinking it's a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:55 PM
1

You can already see evidence of this happening in Nordic countries. Couples are constantly finding new reasons to delay a pregnancy. *Men especially.** There are so many things that have to be done or experienced before starting off. So one day the woman and the man split up, without children.”* “Numerous studies also indicate that women are more intent on having children sometime in their lives than men are,” says Jensen. As their biological clocks approach the age of infertility, women are eag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:53 PM
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Where there is an EXCESS of about 5,000,000 women People age 65 and older in Japan make up a quarter of the total population. Men die earlier, leading to a surplus of elderly, Japanese women. about 42% of Japanese millennial men report having no experience with the opposite sex? Millennial men are age 26-41. They are obviously different age groups. Also, Japan is a very small part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:44 PM
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I didn't think I wanted kids at 25 either.. I am now 47 with 2 kids and couldn't be happier about it. You're not the one who had to carry them for 9 months, push them out your genitalia, leaving your body permanently altered (perhaps even with lasting pain) though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:27 PM
2

Many Americans are convinced crime is rising in the US. They're wrong. In the United States, for example, violent crime rates have fallen by over 50% in many major U.S. cities since these rates peaked in the early 1990s, often referred to as the "Great Crime Decline". In New York City, these rates had dropped by 75% from the early 1990s to 2010. In fact if you look at the stats, we had 120 murders in 1970, and 239 just last year. Same population numbers the last 50 years? 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:18 PM
2

And between 1900 and 1910 there had been ~150 wars, and that's just a 10-year period. 150 over 10 years > 100 wars over 77 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:07 PM
2

What do you mean, don't all women just impulsively deep throat the pizza delivery guy? 😫😫 /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:32 PM
2

The way some men here describe women akin to the way David Attenborough narrates an animal documentary is hilarious. And somewhat horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:17 PM
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Women already cheat more often than men under 30. It's not as if that impulse wasn't already there. 11% versus 10% is such a negligible difference it doesn't make up for the fact men do cheat more overall in all other age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:30 AM
1

I already play video games, so you wouldn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:20 PM
1

the question was to honestly ask why sex isn’t a human right For the same reason that not being non-consensually penetrated is a human right, we suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:45 PM
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Why is getting someone out of poverty necessarily a right? Not a right, but to everyones benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:43 PM
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All adults rites of passages seems to be delayed due to the economic situation. It's common to live longer at home, go to school longer, etc. Before a woman might've lived by herself for 7 years before marrying and starting having children at 25. Nowadays, she might still be living at home, barely done with her schooling by 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:22 AM
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Yeah, I literally felt my brain cells die reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:15 AM
1

Why are these traits considered the gift in your opinion? Why are these "better" than whatever traits women bring? You could argue being being shorter (less nutritional demand), more flexible, more maternal, capable of creating the next generation could also be traits that makes someone a gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:15 AM
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Lol, as if men are morally superior in this area, else autistic men and women would have the same reproduction rate. Spoiler alert: they don't. Less intelligent women have children with less intelligent men, and they tend to have more of them. Meanwhile, intelligent men and women have fewer children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:06 AM
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Two thirds is not all women. I've not said all women, but when 2/3 of them do it's the rule rather than the exception. It's the majority. The fact that about 30% of women return to work full time after having a child proves that it's possible A minority. And is it a happy minority? I'd like to see their divorce rates and reported happiness. pressure men to be breadwinners Whoever has the highest salary is the breadwinner and that tends to be the guy. Their collective income takes a hit if he dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:52 PM
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Not all women take time off work after having children, not all women can, and some women don't take much time off, especially in the US. Men can also take time off, paternity leave is a thing. "After having a child, nearly two thirds of women who return to work do so on reduced hours" A couple reasons why men don't do this are pressures from their wives/girlfriends and the fact that women tend to divorce men who stop working or choose to work less. Lol, or that this economy requires two incomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:39 AM
1

Tits and dicks have different connotations. One of them is genitalia, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:12 AM
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Single fathers with two children make almost twice as much money on average as single mothers with two children Because the mother took time off work to rear these children. He's further along in his career development than she is. And she is working part time to make it work. And she's taking time off work whenever the child has an appointment, because that's a responsibility that overwhelmingly falls on the mother. Single fathers work much more than single mothers, both full time and overtime.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:05 AM
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Haven't told anything as they don't ask. Haven't volunteered that information either, as I don't kiss and tell without a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:57 AM
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Pensions redistribute tax money from men to women. And women can't partake in taxes the same way since they're expected to take the majority of child rearing, someone's gotta do it. Might as well say that the next generation of tax payers are subsidized by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:44 PM
2

how is this fair ? Why do you think fairness needs to play a role here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:04 PM
1

He has so many alts I'm losing track lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:59 PM
1

OP has so many excuses for why men can't do it. Example 1. Example 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:30 PM
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if not, even affect them negatively given some men might feel insecure. That's just positive though 😂 we want these men out of our dating pool anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:25 PM
1

Lol, why? Men won't ask for that; does she make my peepee hard? seems to be the #1 qualifier for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:11 PM
1

I got called a baby two days ago by my taxi driver. Granted, he was 72 and had been a taxi driver for almost twice my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:50 AM
1

Next step: buying her a furry costume and getting a jar of peanut butter I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:32 AM
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Depends on whether or not you expect men too to be able to cook. Last I checked, men too needed to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:26 AM
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Jack can go for another aesthetic. I hear some go gaga for the skinny K-pop singers. Or he can focus on his career/status, in order to be an attractive romantic option. Women don't have that option. Secondly, getting boob jobs and butt lifts are common in the media compared to muscle implants. Your Instagram algorithms isn't representative of real life though. Adding to this, the idea here was that it's easier for women to get closer to the standards naturally than men. Yet, average people are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:01 AM
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Why is it when Jill has small glutes the solution is implants, whileas Jack's solution isn't implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:07 AM
2

Lol same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:32 PM
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Is this the same dude that straight out asked some woman at the bar if she wanted to fuck, got a negative reaction to his proposition and posts on PPD to rant about how "below average women aren't falling on my diiiiickk 😥"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:00 PM
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I asked him out on drinks though, but keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:46 PM
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Edit: there was also a college study done a while back where men and women were asked to rate themselves on a 1-7 scale of attractiveness. Guys gave themselves an average rating of a little below average. This idea of guys walking around with weirdly high opinions of their own attractiveness doesn't hold up. There's also a college study saying the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:34 PM
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How are you gonna say you're waiting on anecdotes from women who disagree when your entire post is an anecdote specific to your online dating experience? Anecdotes don't count unless they're his anecdotes. 😂 I mean, I consider myself attractive enough and I've found love on OLD. My previous relationship was 4 years long and my current one is almost 4 years long, and there was only a 3 month window between those two relationships that I spent on OLD. So, let's say it's an 8 year period here; I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:17 PM
1

There's plenty of attractive people on OLD. They're just not there for very long at a time and your algorithms aren't showing you them (ELO score doesn't match up).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:11 PM
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As a man, who's been nothing but respectful to women, tried to listen to and understand their problems, be emotionally receptive to their concerns, etc., in my actual life, I think it's fair to say I've done my part. That is seriously nothing to brag about; it's the bare minimum required for developing deeper friendly and romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:06 PM
1

I too like to nourish my carbon-based meat vehicle according to my nutritional needs. You hear that, boys? AM I A CATCH OR WHAT? /s 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:02 PM
5

We do court men, you're just not the target of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:50 PM
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Well, as a 27 year old dating a 31 year old, we're not in the same age bracket and we're skewing the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:11 AM
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Yeah, he says it like that's a downside. Meanwhile, it's working exactly as intended lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:03 PM
1

"Obeast"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:59 PM
2

Almost been a week in Paris, and the airline still haven't delivered my luggage 🥲 guess I'll have to get some expensive bras on their bill 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:01 AM
3

Why do you want to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:57 AM
5

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:47 AM
3

Haha, yeah. OP is definitely a textbook, raging narsissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:30 PM
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They forgot to describe the virgin I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:34 PM
0

Do you think people wanna fuck if they risk losing their fertility due to now antibiotics-resistant STIs? Chlamydia can wreck fertility, and is not an uncommon STI. Sounds counter-productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:18 PM
2

European and western culture is unique, diverse and has created a lot of great art, philosophy, and music. There are specific value systems that dot exist anywhere else on Earth. And none of this requires you to be white.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:01 PM
1

Condoms and vasectomies made illegal STDs galore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:52 PM
1

Aww, poor thing 😟 she's missing out on some darn nice kisses, but I get that she wants to preserve that memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:50 PM
1

Some penis photos of genital syphilis for your pleasure. More photos. There are cases of antibiotic resistant syphilis too. You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:32 PM
0

But she doesn't seem concerned at all about that. Why should she be? She'll be dead by that time and if she's having no babies, there's no descendants to live through the fall of civilization to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:24 PM
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Like tender, non-sexual affection. It just hits differently, it signalizes deep attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:13 PM
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Lol, early 20s women are way easier to impress (as the relationship is most likely casual and non-committal), so yeah, I do believe they can't get with women their own age; these women are looking for different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:10 PM
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Maybe it's the reason the mom is toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:25 PM
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No one's stopping you, just know that when the shoulder pads comes off it might come across as kinda sad and pitiful lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:07 PM
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the men's answers as pink in that graph Why? It used to be considered a masculine color, as a diminutive of red, the color of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:00 PM
3

Men only want sex Then buying sex would solve that, no? Except it doesn't because most men want more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:49 PM
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And we can't believe you are misunderstanding a basic mathematical term lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:59 AM
1

I mean, if I'm paying thousands of dollar for an event that is meant to celebrate our love, then I get to choose how it goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:21 AM
1

Lol same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:06 AM
2

Huge boobs seem better, as you can squat yourself to a bigger ass. Already got huge boobs and the neck/back pain that comes with it. 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:06 AM
1

I paid $2 for a pair of pants because I am superior at deal hunting, fuck you /r/frugal in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:31 PM
1

Dunno, 15ish minutes? I had a calculator counting them while I was scrolling with the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:21 PM
1

There was some ADHD-thread asking how many tabs people had open on their phones, so I got curious. I knew I had alot, but I didn't think I'd have the most in the thread which I did 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:43 PM
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I actually manually counted each tab group. I also get the :D-symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:16 AM
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Yup, and I probably will have to. Getting a degree in something niche and useless (in this labour marked) isn't a gendered thing, despite what the guys here might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:06 AM
1

I had 1600 Chrome-tabs open on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:03 AM
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Because you're creating new citizens for the government that they didn't ask for? They'd have to foot the bill until they were old enough to pay taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:53 PM
5

We can't both be crazy and I've already called dibs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:00 PM
1

Something minimalist and dainty!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:27 PM
25

Nah, in my experience men have been eager to commit at their own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:02 AM
1

Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:40 AM
1

Baked potatoes is a great idea, it's easy and few dishes to clean. Some sour cream or butter and that's a 👌👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:39 AM
1

Not a big fan of granola, since they're so sugary nowadays, but guess it'll go well with some full-fat yoghurt as a snack. Unfortunately, tofu is expensive here, which is a pity since it's so delicious. I like avocados. Meat is also kinda expensive here 😅 guess I'll stock up on salmon, it's been a while since I've eaten that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:34 AM
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Meh, only ate 500 kcal yesterday. Anyone got some ideas for some good, calorie-dense meals/snacks that aren't nuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:28 AM
2

The sheer audacity 🤣 I mean, I 100% understand why men are keener to remarry after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:57 AM
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"If I change her oil a couple of times a year, should she clean and cook for me daily?" Shit's hilarious, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:14 AM
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We don't, but if the choice is between accepting a date from someone who will nickle and dime you, plus expect you to clean and cook their stuff and someone who wants to court you.. Tough choice, man. What an impossible choice. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:00 AM
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fight off the home invaders I don't live in a shit neighborhood mow the lawn I don't have a lawn change the oil I don't have anything that needs an oil change clean the car What car? sort out the electronics Lol what. I can promise you I know more about electronics than he does. get rid of any animals and bugs that make their way I already do this? home maintenance like cleaning out gutters and painting Houseowner I'm renting from does this maintain the tool shed I maintain my own tools, seeing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:57 AM
1

Not unmasculine, more like unadult. Everyone should know some basic maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:51 PM
2

Subscribe to my OnlyFans to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:59 AM
0

6'3" is perfect. I can fit right under their chin during hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:38 PM
2

I grew up pretty poor, but with plenty of affection and love. Can't say I'd prefer the alternative, because I saw peers whos parents idea of love was just throwing money on them whenever the children was a problem. Many of these children are now unhappy adults with strained relationships with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:36 PM
1

The majority who are dating functional adult members of society don't need to tell people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:30 PM
1

Then surely men have no problem if they fashionmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:46 PM
2

Not usually, but sometimes. Yes. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:40 PM
3

It just smells like wet soil. It's better than the stench of a city though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:37 PM
2

My revenge fantasy is that all of you women get healthy relationships with men you're attracted to If it makes you feel better, it's already true in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:18 PM
1

No, you don't. Your 8 will see that a 5 will get an 8, and she won't be impressed by it; some men will fuck anyone. So she'll be looking for higher. There is no validation to be gained for an 8 to date someone who dates 5s, so there's no preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:24 PM
1

Those aren't any big discernable differences, it's pretty much "looksmatched".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:46 PM
4

5 is average, 8 is quite attractive. No one is making this jump unless they're being fetishised by the partner in question or they actually genuinely care for one another. And their treatment of eachother makes out which one it is very obvious. In any case, if I see a 5 snagging an 8, that's just fuel on the fire for me as a 7 to go for a 9, bypassing the 8 completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:30 PM
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It's not preselection if the girl that selected you aren't "high value" enough to prove you're worthy. We already know you're willing to fuck anyone, so it's not exactly brag worthy that you can't find anyone but an ugly girl willing to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:22 PM
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Not being an incel =/= being an attractive choice or superiority. A man that can't do any better than an ugly girlfriend isn't an attractive choice. Besides, aren't you proving that women will and can successfully punch up when your ugly girl snagged you? What's gonna stop other women from looking for better options than you if your ugly girl was successfull? Which are 2 important things women use to determine if a guy is relationship material. .. No. They're just the bare minimum to even be con…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:15 PM
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wanting someone who is superior to her get an ugly starter girlfriend Having ugly girlfriends doesn't prove any superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:11 PM
1

From military equipment to battle reenactments to nerf war, you name it. Well, you said it yourself; war encompasses several (interesting) subjects, from historical figures to war strategy. I was the same at around that age, although I think I was still at dinosaurs at 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:12 PM
3

That statistic is kinda misleading though, isn't it? It doesn't separate between childless and childfree couples, does it? Stressful circumstances are positively related to divorce, and a couple who are involuntarily childless (and perhaps racking up debt for IVF) are surely not in the best of places. Meanwhile, childfree couples don't really have much reason to marry, so the ones that do should be in a pretty good place with eachother, ultimately having a lower rate of divorce. So a stat that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:39 PM
1

just like women who have low body count may tell you. Followed by a swift dumping for asking the question lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:27 PM
13

Jesus Christ, how many iterations of this post do we need before you realise that yes, PPD gives you full permission to go for a wheyfu. As we've told you before, your chances aren't good, but these women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:14 AM
6

Shorter women not being the "ideal" doesn't mean they're having any trouble at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:17 PM
1

Probably my cakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:25 AM
1

You're just inverting an already existing organ, and there's upkeep to it. Regularly dilation ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:23 AM
1

Yeah because women are so renowned for treating their men to dates, etc. That's not why they're not doing it and we all know it. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:20 AM
1

NSFW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:18 AM
1

God, I probably haven't played all the stuff I bought last time, so it'll have to be a naw dawg from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:09 AM
-1

Common tactic to get the opponent to drop the questioning, if you supply alot of (irrelevant) links.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:45 PM
1

George Costanza is still better looking than average, by a large margin. 😂😂😂 in which world is he better looking than average? I'd hate to live wherever that average is. The character is 31 years old when the show starts. I've honestly seen 60 year olds that look better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:20 PM
22

Lol, they used to say that the sun never sets on the British empire. They had a foothold in every continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:29 PM
1

Can someone explain how these women are getting from daughter has brown eyes to he's the one that probably cheated? We call it projection. And eye color is BS anyways, it's decided by like 50 different genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:50 AM
3

Not too cut, not too muscular; it's just right 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:57 AM
1

Impossible to tell with those crab poses ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:56 AM
2

Hmm, perhaps a bearded David Gandy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:55 AM
2

I think someone called his shoulders small, that's why. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:12 AM
2

It's an objective truth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:09 AM
2

Not really feeling any of them. Excluding the face, I quite like this, but hairier lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:05 AM
5

OP just 7 days ago: Like are you supposed to just accept women are systemically engineering the system to turn you into a workhorse for a thing you don't profit of, while abusing your biology to torture you into submission to keep working? Because IMO this is basically what the average boy life is boiling down too, eternal sexual frustration in service of gynocentric pampering, which is stupid and for me unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:04 AM
1

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:09 AM
3

Sensually cross stitching in my garden right this moment!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:32 PM
3

Haha, are you my roommate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:31 PM
2

Food has changed alot in the last 100 years though. There are scientists sitting there trying to find the perfect balance of sugar, fat, salt that makes it harder for you to stop eating it. It just tickles your dopamine receptors just right. It used to be hard to be this fat and stay this fat when junk food used to be the exception in a diet, not the norm. That combined with depression and anxiety, I think many are self-medicating with food.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:41 AM
1

I do it at the gym because it feels good" oh right why are you wearing that in your college classroom? oh okay because you want people to look. It feels good outside of the gym too. Those yoga pants are fucking ridiculously comfy 😩 those plus a comfy, soft sweater + it makes my ass look good is 👌👌👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:01 AM
1

To put it bluntly, he gets a chance to stand out from the other many male NPCs in my environment. If he manages that, he gets my exclusivity and girl friend treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:52 AM
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