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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:33 PM
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Then go somewhere else and dick about. I spent the last couple sessions just exploring for new places to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:01 AM
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One less thing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:56 AM
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Damn, lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:45 AM
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I was going to ask who was still playing it You hit some walls didnt you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:31 AM
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Its a different kind of care. Men will give points for a woman who looks well, while women will rip points away for someone who doesnt adhere to her looks standards. Mens system is forgiving while womens system is punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:41 PM
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Well, its insulting for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:18 PM
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Who has to adhere closer to gender norms to obtain their ideal partner, men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:34 PM
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Bro try living here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:09 PM
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Or they'll cheat if everything is going well except for sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:48 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:57 PM
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Women: oh yeah, we see total hotties paired up with subpar lumps of men all the time, women are so much less shallow than men are! Also women: Ugh these shallow Stacy chasers need to stay in their lane and keep their disgusting mitts to themselves! No Stacy will ever love you, creep!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:45 PM
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Their decision to cheat comes from the desire to experience the love and affection they expect to receive from their wife, but has faded over time. After years of enduring those unmet needs, infidelity became a way for them to be doted on while not having to give up a partnership that still means the world to them. Sex naturally plays a role in the decision as well, as 76% of the men in this sample report being in a sexless marriage. However, where their own orgasms and sexual pleasure motivated…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:13 PM
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Gotta eat cake somewhere if it isnt seeved at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:59 PM
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Dont discount the disparity of support systems and help each of the divorced gets, that definitely is a factorm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:57 PM
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So what do you think the ratio is of dead bedroomed men to cake eaters? And what do you suppose the ratio of men to women is who are dead bedroomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:56 PM
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Are you saying theres no such thing as men getting dead bedroomed? I dont understand your takeaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:32 PM
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Nah thats still sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:41 PM
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Q4All: what's the minimum amount of sex in your LTR allowed before it starts becoming an issue? And how long would you consider a sexless relationship would have to remain so before it becomes a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:32 PM
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Well, somebody had friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:05 AM
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You're warping your life around an echo chamber and bullying people of a certain class you dont like. Get help, you are not well. Normal people dont do this. For your own sake, get some counseling to resolve your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:02 AM
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You know what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:59 PM
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Could you not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:56 PM
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Anyone else remarkably aversed to meeting anyone from their high school days? Just had an awkward encounter that was very obvious I just wanted no part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:03 PM
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Its a goal, not a denial of reality. The ideal person will not take them personally, even if the thought of being intimate with you makes the person you're enamored with want to dry heave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:04 PM
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Some moron screeching at you and throwing dinnerware like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:23 PM
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Why are you talking about what men like anyway, men will typically just do what they want. This would be a woman teaching a man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:38 PM
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Ok but someone who's bad at sex is pretty universally bad, arent they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:55 PM
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You know, if prostitution was legalized you can probably make legitimate sex tutorial services. Get taught by a woman who catches dick for a living how to please a woman? AND get laid while doing it? Theres totally a market for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:33 PM
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Im telling your students about your reddit activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:27 PM
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Fine. Only of its during.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:54 AM
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Fair deal. I only ask you eat a heaping forkful of kimchi either before, during or after the sacrificial act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:47 AM
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Ok well I had it in a hoagie roll and it offset the sour wonderfully. And listen, I have pickled onions I made myself. We had carnitas with homemade pickled onions and jalapenos with avocado cream sauce, and I prefer the kimchi.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:39 AM
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BRO They complement each other perfectly. The sour, sweet crunchy kimchi perfectly offsets the savory, fatty carnitas. I wish I had more kimchi on my sandwich tbh I'm making this my signature. I'll make you love kimchi, mother fucker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:11 AM
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Ok, kimchi and carnitas slaps. That is all. More blackpill doomer content tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:00 AM
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Lmao the reason was your dad fucked your mom. Not everyone has this sparkling fulfilling life full of meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:41 PM
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Thats another big problem. Condom sex blows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:38 PM
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The difference is we dont have to listen to your shrill, annoying voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:51 AM
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We just dont want a constant stream of bitching and harassment in our day to day. Is that really too much to ask? Ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:17 AM
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Perfect, all the assholes are gone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:18 PM
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Lmao will you break up once you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:10 PM
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Wait until she keeps denying you sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:05 PM
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Only if I can also filter through people who use height filters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:04 PM
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So you're saying its not something people want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:40 PM
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Supress sexuality. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:29 PM
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Abortion, day after pill, adoption, etc Y'all have opportunities to handle a child before it comes about, we have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:26 PM
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You do not have a mans libido
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:22 PM
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Q4M: If you got a woman pregnant who you dont want to be with at all, and she decides to keep the child, what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:52 PM
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I want to meet the person who coined the term Sigma Male. Just to see what the dude is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:00 PM
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Lmao my mom had that book squirreled away. If women today dont understand men at all, I cant even imagine what it was like with boomer women. Woof.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:27 PM
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How dare you, men are angels
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:22 PM
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Well now Im gonna have to edit mine ya jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:18 PM
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She should havee assumed the fattest pic was truth, just like guys assume the girl in a group photo is rhe ugliest one. Still doesnt give her a right to be a cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:17 PM
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Watched Habil13 get a blowjob last night from a girl who already had a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:16 PM
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The difference is expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:08 PM
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Whats there to discuss? Woman was a cunt and the man was fat. Such is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:03 PM
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Women want all great traits with no hangups wrapped up into one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:53 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:29 PM
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Eheheheh Wide spread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:49 PM
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Ok well we arent there yet, so prostitutes it remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:19 PM
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Women call anything that isnt 666 an uggo. Y'all are spoiled rotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:12 PM
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You can absolutely only have fast food prostitution for just men. It would make things even and we need that god dammit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:05 PM
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No see their husband isnt magic mike. Husbamd is the beta buxxed stable guy she settled for to provide for children and deadbedroomed after the kids were born, locking him into a state of the brink of suicide but not wanting to traumatize his children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:59 PM
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Dog, no business does the free guarantee anymore, especially for something as nebulous as an orgasm. And wives would prefer a DQ Blizzard to sex with their husbands anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:56 PM
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Eheheheh Cockpot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:25 PM
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Eheheh 'box'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:17 PM
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I want a world where prostitution is treated like fast food franchises. Several brands out there, all government regulated, some branching out into several kinks for niche audiences, maybe package deals or happy hours would be nice, and get some ads on TV ffs. I want prostitution mascots. Mom can take the kids to Dairy Queen after soccer practice and Dad can take a pit stop at Roxie's for a quickie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:54 PM
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Weed is not as offensive to bible thumpers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:54 PM
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Why? There's zero momentum towards it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:49 PM
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What, you never heard of a woman trying to 'fix' their man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:27 PM
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Obviously. And women are by default more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:56 PM
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20? Thats the number I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:56 PM
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Its an unearned advantage, but whatever makes you feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:51 PM
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Nah, too many fundie dummies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:51 PM
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No, see, there's the problem. You have to shift your worldview to America when you talk like this, because we're the important ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:37 PM
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Theres definitely a limit, Ive hit it before. Doing the hokey pokey for women with no reward gets real tiring and real embarassing. What that limit is, I have no idea. If I have a particularly bad incident it'd probably end there for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:36 PM
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Ah, there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:33 PM
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Luckily, prostitution is becoming legalized for those men who just don't get it and never will. What? No it isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:31 PM
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Men work harder to achieve the same league status. The leagues themselves are imbalanced because of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:23 PM
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You're talking about the same woman at two stages in her life. And no woman wants a lesser man, obviously; they rarionalize it by saying he's a work in progress. An investment for better quality later, so the woman can have her cake and eat it too, as she is want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:21 PM
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Youd stop after a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:10 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:06 PM
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Men still dont have higher standards than women, even factoring relationships in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:04 PM
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Losers give giney tinglies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:00 PM
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But women openly vet for men that are better than them. Which makes the math off at the word jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:44 PM
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But at the same time people will say sex is not a need. What's the compromise here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:40 PM
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If the man isnt asking for anything in return it isnt transactional. Any sex given is reciprocal, not a purchase, at that point. How else are you meant to keep your SO happy to be with you? I dont understand what high ground solution you have that doesnt resemble a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:02 PM
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Yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:52 PM
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The men who consider themselves too ugly to date have a distorted view of their bodies and faces, and this is a driving factor behind becoming an incl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:50 PM
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Hot take: male body dimorphism goes hand in hand with incldom and needs to be taken more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:40 PM
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Its the difference between a swift painless death and torture by rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:37 PM
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That works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:36 PM
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Am I the third one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:34 PM
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I usually steer away from the crusty barber archetype, and i'll be damned if Im gonna be pinned down with a scissor weilding Trump lover
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:23 PM
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Who's crazier, hair stylists or nurses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:19 PM
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So you're telling me a woman would have to be crazy to take even a passing interest in me Thats cool, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:16 PM
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While I do bitch about women treating me like a leper in the day to day, there's one area where women were a lot kinder than men: hairstylists. The women I went to were kind and talkative, and the men kinda gave me the used tissue treatment. Im not going to gay salons either, these are (most likely) straight guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:08 PM
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It is just as counterintuitive for FDSers to make men work harder than they've ever made men work before as it is for blackpillers/RPers to work less than they've ever worked before Sure, but they'll still do it. 'Fuck you, pay me' mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:02 PM
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Lmao 100. Lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:04 PM
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Oh yeah, I got one of those. That isnt too hard to find at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:53 PM
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Women: 'I want a man who will sacrifice himself for me, and I him. I want a man who will travel to the ends of the earth just to get me milk from a goat 3/4's up the Himilayan Mountains. Also women: haha big peen0r in my bussy go BRBRBRBRBRBR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:45 PM
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Lmao women have no chill, lord
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:21 PM
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Last I checked personality was like 8th in the conga line of women's requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:34 PM
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How do you say no doormats and will do anything for me... Right next to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:32 PM
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Then would you say relationships are a consolation prize for most men right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:31 PM
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Do y'all suppose if access to either were as open as possible, would men pick casual sex or relationship as a lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:19 PM
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Totally. Its information overload for one. Start with your strongest entrees and branch out from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:50 PM
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The top 10-20% of men and women are hotter, no doubt, but America especially is so unhealthy and overweight that getting into that cohort is NOT difficult for most average men if they just try. No, thats ridiculous. You're competing with all the men with huge genetic advantages at that point. Men are complaining more than ever, for sure, but most men I've seen complain push back on any advice to make themselves more attractive. They don't even want to try to workout, get their money on point, ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:30 PM
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Id agree with being single being better than getting dead bedroomed, 100%. Access to sex isnt even the biggest issue. And the age gap guys are only half right, age isnt the same barrier for men than it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:42 PM
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Id believe it if women werent also inherently hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:36 PM
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Its when you make an assumption about men, you use only the top percentage of men without realizing it. Like if you were to say its easy for men to hookup and get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:18 PM
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Except the sex with others colors her perspective on what turns her on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:16 PM
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What fuckin guy ever says average men can easily pump and dump every weekend, Ive never heard that here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:42 PM
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You're not a woman, git outta here. Although the silence has been awfully suspicious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:41 PM
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Another Q4W (nobody answered my last one legitimately, Im allowed dammit) How accurate is the concept of alpha widowing? Women are always seeking the best of a man, so when the one in the LTR doesnt stack up wouldnt it be right to assume the sex life is on a doomsday clock?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:01 PM
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Womens priveleges are more dispersed across the gender, while mens privepeges are all bottlenecked in the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:56 PM
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Lmao poor mans doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:53 PM
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Well, at least he will know why his sex life will slowly deteriorate over the years. Comfort I guess? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:19 PM
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Q4W: How often do you catch yourself making the Apex fallacy when talking on the subject of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:17 PM
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Just tell your future husband about how he will never stack up and we're good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:16 PM
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Lmao, what? What??? I cannot believe that was actually said with a straight fucking face. Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:45 PM
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I still dont get it, seems awfully prudish, but I cant control your standards so whatevs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:38 PM
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Thats arbitrary and silly, plenty of people who have had casual sex are in highly functional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:13 PM
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You're holding men to female sexuality. Thats ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:47 PM
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So a man who has never had casual sex, ever. Got it. Whew lad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:21 PM
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Yeah, no genitals. If you dont have organs designed just to fuck who gives a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:41 AM
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No, I think you're hanging onto a concept that other people are saying is hateful, and you can't grasp why that is. And you use the term globohomo to say I'm fine and everyone else is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:38 AM
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Ok well the term globohomo is weird as hell. Stay away from people who want to sell you on this, theres probably some dumb horseshit attached
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:32 AM
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So its some Qanon horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:29 AM
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There it is again, globohomo Is this some new Qanon lingo Im not aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:26 AM
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Ok, think about it like this. Do you really like cars? Does the job have good money now? Will the job have a future in 5 years? Is this something you're gonna want to wake up early to do 5 times a week? Does the job have positions to advance to? The last question I at least know, there are paper pushing positions above car mechanic that might be great for you later in life. Thats all I got m80
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:41 AM
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Yeah I'm ignorant of the nitty gritty of it, so I'm not much help. Maybe a dating debate forum isnt the right spot? 🙇
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:35 AM
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What did you hear about the cons? I have roundabout experience but nothing specifically in the repair side
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:16 AM
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No, the question was 'Can you love someone and still cheat of them'. Do you think men and women interpret love and sex differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:10 AM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:05 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:04 AM
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Dog, the amount of leeway a woman has for owning a vagina severely outweights any sort of male leeway you're proposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:02 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:31 AM
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Chad is just willing to take more risk, which gets him results. Pygmalion effect. He's rewarded way more for taking risk, so he's less risk averse as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:50 PM
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I wouldnt be complaining if I could just remove my sex drive, but alas, here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:46 PM
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Id rather not give a fuck tbh, but glad you're enjoying your situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:17 PM
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I guess once you were treated like a human being you had some skin in the game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:37 PM
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You didnt feel resentful for the attention you were getting? Like people only gave a shit because of shallow vanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:00 PM
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Sure, but whats the split is what I want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:45 PM
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Are there women who actually begrudgingly take care of their appearance, or is it something they inherently enjoy doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:42 PM
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This is dumb and reductionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:35 PM
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Mens boxes: Dont be fat Dont be an asshole Age range is obviously a given, dont even need a box for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:33 PM
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If it wasnt for mens propulsion to fuck, society wouldnt exist at all. Be grateful mother fuckers. Thirst is the seed of life. No more drinks for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:36 AM
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Dog, we both know its George keeping him from his next book and it always has been. Its always been George. He doesnt want to write GoT books anymore and y'all gotta recognize
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:23 AM
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Are male standards less sacrosanct than a womans? Should sexual preferences for men only be dependant on the gifts he was born with? Is the average man responsible for what he finds attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:22 AM
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Ah fair. Never got into GoT but if thats your jam then good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:11 AM
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Lmao lets be real, Georgey boy had very little to do with the game
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:16 AM
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I'll know it when I see it. Hadnt paid to much attention to starting classes cause Ive known DS classes to basically be the same after 10 levels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:51 AM
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Over an hour to kill before elden ring drops. Wat do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:45 AM
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Dude, women love people pleasing as long as its them thats getting pleased. C'mon now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:42 AM
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What happened to you anyway? You used to rip that sort of self deprication to pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:57 AM
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Nah, but I am one. Obviously women dont give a shit. Like, its hammered in every day, so I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:28 AM
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Oh, Ive gathered at least how little of a shit they give. I wish I didnt have to give a shit about women either, but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:07 AM
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Yeaaaah, sexuality is so disparate between the two genders. Birthing kids really fucks everything up. I figured women would not only want to eliminate sexuality in undesirable men but also control and possess the desirable men as well, so it seemed like a logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:56 AM
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because you're only seeing the man who wants your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:56 PM
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Thats awfully presumptuous to assume a man only has desires you can see. You understand monogamy more closely aligns with womens sexuality, right? And maybe you're projecting that onto men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:54 PM
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Those relationship worthy men are repressing their sexuality for your benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:40 PM
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So thats a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:52 PM
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Would it be fair to say women in general want mens sexuality repressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:41 PM
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Honestly Id hate being around attractive women in yoga pants, cause I know id never be able to help myself to take a look, the women would be monitoring my creep factor and catch me looking and then Id just be that weird gross guy that ogles women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:40 PM
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Nah, nobody remembers titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:57 AM
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Q4M: could you make a top 5 porn vid list from the top of your head in a 3 minute timespan
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:30 AM
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Funny and, attractive and...?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:48 AM
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Except he's not just funny, is he? He had to be funny and.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:39 AM
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Some men just exist and theyll be labeled creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:15 AM
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It might just be more of a lamentation that things havent been this hard in a long time. A lot of these men would have been dateable 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:10 AM
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Whats the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:43 PM
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We dont need manpower as much anymore. Things that required dozens of people 50 years ago now need like 2 or 3 because advancement of technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:33 PM
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Great fodder for the prison industrial complex. Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:07 PM
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Taxes are a byproduct of people just existing though. As long as someone is at least not living in the damn woods they'll pay taxes, regardless of how much they contribute to society itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:52 PM
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Meh. Call me crazy but the onset of automation and technology are pushing men out of relevancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:48 PM
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Dont think society at large cares much about undesirable men, so its not really a 'problem' if its not considered one. The price of being expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:49 PM
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Women arent really treating men like people either if they're not ruthlessly flawless. It's a 'make me feel good immediately or dont fucking talk to me' kind of aura women carry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:25 PM
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Wow, thats wild
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:32 PM
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I think it manifests differently in me, just because Im so used to suppression. In my head I want to snap but it just silently builds, and the funny thing is there's never any explosion of anger. The worst of the seasonal depression happened when there was a crying child on the home commute on the subway. Work had been a real grind lately and I just couldnt take it anymore, I just clasped my head in my hands and gripped at my scalp in a way that obviously looked deranged, but it was all I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:18 PM
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Dog, socialism isnt about gender equality. Also, youre painting socialism like communism. You melvins were spoonfed this big boogeyman called socialism in order for rich people to keep accumulating wealth to the detriment of everyone else, and you ate it up knife and fork. Theres nothing wrong with adopting more socialist policies while maintaining the good parts of capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:09 PM
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Thankie 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:05 PM
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Birthday dinner tonight, gonna get blasted at the best wing bar in the city. Its times like this where I realize how lucky i am that ai have zero kids to worry about. Being a DINK is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:20 PM
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That explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:15 PM
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Fuck you, semicolons are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:56 PM
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I feel like India is another planet sometimes. This is one guy's hangups being magnified by media, a guy whose culture we're not going to inherently understand. Imagine if my intimacy problems were the forefront of some dumbass TV show. Would you think you could really comprehend my entire psyche from whatever the fuck the editor decided what the narrative was going to be? Narrative thats swayed by producers? Its all horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:59 AM
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Dude just explain it. Nobodys gonna follow drama bait TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:22 AM
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I dont think I have to tell you that sub par quality men arent worth your time, so we're on the same page. Remember; respect them like they're people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:15 AM
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Yeah, thats economics. Men that are worth your time are not going to be cheap with their own time, though. They have an abundance mentality too, you're just another face in the machine as well. If you want quality men, treat them with basic respect first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:12 AM
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Yeah, and its a priority for them too. If you arent showing them respect now, you'll never show them respect when it counts. These are humans you're talking to, not purchasable items on a shelf. Give them the proper respect they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:08 AM
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Just throw your hands up and do what you want at that point. You werent put on this earth just to make that random woman comfortable. She'll never understand the journey you'll have to undergo, so whats the difference Remember, your existance is not a burden to the universe. You are a player in the game regardless of how you're treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:06 AM
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Regardless, if you arent giving me some kind of priority on a meeting, why would you care later down the road? You're not taking this seriously enough. Peoples time isnt cheap, respect it or be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:02 AM
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Yeah, be a fantastic healthy person and great things will happen I'm not fantastic or healthy. I have to scrape and claw at everything Ive earned up until now, and I'll have to continue to scrape and claw to earn more. I dont want to fucking hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:02 AM
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Ok, so as a man you need muscle to attract women and You need to be relatively fit and You need to be a likeable guy and You need a decent career with prospects and You need to spark her sexuality somehow and You need to hold frame and be masculine and You need to be stylish with a relevant haircut and the proper makeups to cover blemishes and You have to write a decent bio and have photography skills to make a decent online profile. and and and
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:51 AM
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Ok, but that shit adds up real quick. Its cumulative, mother fucker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:43 AM
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Listen, im the most self defeating guy with super flabby arms and even I have to admit that a girl liking muscles is totally fine, if only because we have at least some control over that, unlike height or dick size. Like, if you have time to twist yourself into an anxiety knot over women liking muscles, you have time to do some pushups.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:21 AM
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Dismissive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:00 PM
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Anyone else have a strong avoidant attachment style?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:41 PM
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Dude, sometimes it's woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:39 PM
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The fact that this is even something you're saying is in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:26 PM
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No, you're pulling from the entirety of women. When men talk percentages they mean 20% in that dating market. These figures are useless because putting 70 year old women on it is just acting in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:54 PM
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Thats a really long winded way of saying 'Do whatever women want you to do'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:53 PM
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When I got zero interest from anyone, my standards dropped considerably. Not even on a conscious level, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:49 PM
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Enthusiastic sex every 3 months or mediocre sex every month. Monogamy sounds great, where do I sign up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:15 AM
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Then lets all just fuck machines, in vitro fertilize and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:01 AM
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Yeah, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:25 AM
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I know. I dont want to fuck you either. I really don't. Its the fuckin libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:25 AM
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I'm not even advocating for women to change anything, Im just saying here's what we go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:07 AM
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Idk, I thought women were interested in male perspectives, but every day here proves me wrong so I might as well shut the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:06 AM
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Dog, Im working through a lot of things. This is what happens when mental illnesses stack and tangle into each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:04 AM
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Dog, im just explaining what we deal with. When you try to explain period cramps to men, do you expect them to bow deep, apologize for existing and shower you with compensation? Fuckin, no. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:07 PM
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No, the characters creep me out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:05 PM
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I think when it comes the the 'male urges' topic, men would just like women to realize how often we have to fight these urges for the sake of our relationships, sometimes on a daily basis. Imagine you're grtting bugged by a sex pest every single day, except the sex pest is your own internal monologue and its telling you to fuck other people. Obviously its not impossible to not cheat, but god damn its intrusive thoughts and its annoying af.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:45 PM
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I havent candidly talked to gay men, so I'll defer that point for now Raw means an instictive pull to the man, i.e. the actual 'attraction' itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:29 PM
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Gay men and women are fundamentally different though. And Im not talking about sex options, just raw attractiveness based on appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:17 PM
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Presuming theyre both trying to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:15 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:52 PM
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Does anyone think its much harder for a male to be attractive than a female? Its a concept I dont have the ability to flesh out so I need some feedback. Who's the clubfoot downvoting without saying anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:51 PM
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You learn to live with less sex. Sure, sometimes the body protests, but who cares, its an unthinking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:32 PM
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Men receive the same treatment, believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:36 PM
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Child trafficking, drug use, crime in general would absolutely skyrocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:48 PM
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Horrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:47 PM
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Cooking dont get your foot in the door but it can sure as shit seal the deal. Happy VD everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:56 AM
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Trying to work through personal issues. Sometimes I can glean different perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:42 PM
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Charisma is what beats the rule, the rule is still in place. Everyone still starts off at a baseline of how they get treated, and charismatic people have to work to surpass that baseline. You also have to be way more charismatic than average as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:40 AM
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Damn, how did I miss that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:12 AM
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You gave me one and a half sentences, how am I supposed to completely understand what you mean from that I do not have your life experiences, Im not going to get what you're saying if you dont try a little harder
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:13 AM
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Never paid off before. I have zero interest in the subject anyway. Im not throwing my time into a bottomless well for shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:07 AM
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For most people it is. The exceptions are not the rule of thumb Im not even talking about social mobility anyway, just the general affect people will have towards you on your day to day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:05 AM
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I think thats more self involvement than shallowness. Most people get too invested in their own personal story and perceive their opinion as true gospel as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:47 AM
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I think its a good time to acknowledge how absurd it is that the general treatment you receive from most people is based nearly completely on your outward appearance. Why do we even give a shit about what people think at all if its going to be that shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:40 AM
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I told you my great advice. Normie shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:37 AM
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How to increase your sex appeal: Do things normie people like that you have no interest in whatsoever. Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:26 AM
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Whatever she wants. Romance holidays are for women, not the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:23 AM
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Im not gonna drink out of the bottle like a savage. Im at least going to pretend I'm not an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:30 AM
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🦎
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:01 AM
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Ngl, I think its a lizardperson drink. But you do you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:40 AM
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Thats why its cut with ice. I know for a fact now youre a martini woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:05 AM
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Wine all tastes the same and gifts you a nice headache. Pass. Bourbon on the rocks is my adult time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:35 AM
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If anyone wants to feel super good about themselves, go to a craft beer event.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:19 AM
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People can't really control their own desire. It just a shitty situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:42 PM
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So be a different person Neat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:30 PM
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This entire time men have been pretending women dont smell just to get in their pants. Im tired of pretending. Im sorry, but Ive had enough. Women smell like sweaty feet. There, I said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:39 AM
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Women smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:34 AM
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Ok tbf I did not finish the book series. I read the first book and saw that Elenwen womaned all over Gandalfs river wipeout so I assumed it was the same thing with the third movie. So if they built the character up to be badass, great. BUT, that 'I am no man' line was still cringey and terrible. Best case scenario it undercut a really cool characters scene, but we'll see when I read it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:46 AM
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"No maaaan can slay me." Looks to the camera Wiggles eyebrows in a comedic fashion "I AM NO MAAAAAAN!" as the FEMALE SLAYS THE EVIL GUY! BOOM BA DOOM BOOM BOOM! AAAAH! DRAMATIC CAMERA ANGLE! This is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:22 AM
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This. If you give them permission to never examine themselves and their stances, they will never have incentive to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:38 PM
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Q4All: If your SO went up to you and said "We need to break it off.. Ive been qay too tempted to cheat on you, and I dont want to do that." What would your reaction be? Would the fact that they never cheated have an impact on your reaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:35 PM
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Good luck finding a minimalist gf tho, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:15 PM
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Someone has to exploit those broken, depressed men, make it work!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:15 PM
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That I'm lucky to even be considered a human being in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:45 PM
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Those men are taken. But if you wanted the answer that starts arguments, its that most men would rather have casual sex and that pair bonding is a consolation prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:44 PM
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Wouldnt that make it inherently misandrist as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:32 PM
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Is recognizing the difference inherently mysoginistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:11 PM
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Sometimes it just hurts too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:08 PM
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I mean, if you wanna bend rebar, eventually you can do it.. But if you slice your hands open 8 times, is it really worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:55 AM
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Or you'll just slice your hands open.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:12 AM
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Women are absolutely just as boring as men, men just don't care. Or did you think you were really that special
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:00 AM
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Most women would be considered boring and shitty if they didnt have pussies attached to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:35 AM
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Or maybe its because they're 5'7" with a low paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:30 AM
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If you believe you can bend a bar of pure steel, then turn that shit into a pretzel my dude! Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:27 AM
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Still?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:05 PM
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Past anger phase, now Im just genuinely sadge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:47 PM
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Yuck. Condom sex is miserable. At that point you're getting more out of it than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:21 PM
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Can you even have unprotected sex with a pro?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:16 PM
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This now puts forth the notion of being nice to men at all is now akin to a woman sacrificing their dignity. What fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:36 PM
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What about the colossal gap of wealth inequality here? The majority of people are not making money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:26 PM
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I was gonna say, top men will only attract the entitled brats who want transactional marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:54 PM
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Is America even #1 in anything that isnt a negative statistic? I mean, if you still wanna think its the greatest country in the world and it has one #1 statistic then you can make the argument that they really value that one thing, but otherwise it's just nationalist horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:49 PM
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Condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:11 PM
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You are genuinely in love with that little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:08 AM
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Paintball is just Trump supporters larping Army Men and cracking open a 12 pack of cold Coors Light afterwards, talking about fantasy football.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:04 AM
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Listen, if propping up animal corpses like morbid little puppets bring you joy, I cant be the one to judge. They're already dead, whats the difference, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:00 AM
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Do you live in a flyover state?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:55 AM
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You have your ball hit the bumper 6 times and then sink perfectly down the middle. Multiple times in one night. Mother fucker. This is why video game pinball is superior, because it doesn't rely on horseshit to extract money out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:54 AM
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Actual pinball is pretty bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:49 AM
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Wines talking lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:46 AM
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Its been studied that internet bickering is very parallel to road rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:32 PM
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Ive read horrible things about men over there on the reg. You just relate to their problems, so ot doesnt sting you. But some of the ideas and things they say are downright venomous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:59 PM
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You can hate men and still try to find a good one. I hear them expouse how shitty most men are all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:55 PM
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But they.. Hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:51 PM
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The people who are what you describe will never struggle in life or want for anything. This is a stupidly high standard to put every man into.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:48 PM
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Thats called binary. You're either shit or you have a potential to be dateable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:29 PM
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I think putting myself in the hypothetical of being hit on at a gay bar makes me appreciate womens view of being objectified a little better. Its like the man's talking me up and trying to make like him, but he's just trying to get something out of me (or into me, tee hee). And as a straight guy, I cant stand being put in the role of convincing a potentially hostile party that Im an amazing person and that you should definitely sleep with me. I dislike that starving wolf trying to get a scrap of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:44 AM
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Those friends are probably all jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:32 AM
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You still didnt explain why he should care about what people would think of him. Why should he dress nice and try to win people over?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:28 AM
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Men do everything better, including sandwich making.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:43 PM
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Those both sound great. Im just starting so I'm just doing simple stuff, want to pickle garlic, make a homemade sriracha and maybe experiment with making sauces with pickled tomatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:21 PM
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I've become obsessed with pickling, fermenting and sandwichmaking. From a scale of Magic: The Gathering to rock climbing, how attractive are these hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:27 PM
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If women would hold every IRL man she talks to to the standard of some super hunk she met online, then regular men are fucked. The barrier to get alpha widowed being that damn low is fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:29 PM
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In other words, average men need to make up for their deficiencies in real life, but hotter men get a free pass and can only mess it up. Just embrace 80 20, we dont need to do this dumb dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:21 PM
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Lmao men are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:15 PM
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They seem lustfully triggered enough when that top 20% rolls up soooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:15 PM
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Something something alpha widow..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:14 PM
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The fact that you need some sort of concession of a 'All sides' just means you care more about scoring points for your political team than you care about bookburning as a practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:48 PM
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Your main purpose of your post is to handwave conservative bookburning and call attention to liberal bookburning. Otherwivse you would have just said yeah, this bookburning is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:19 PM
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Ok, then start refuting all book burnings, instead of defending your political side. Stop playing stupid team sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:55 PM
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Honestly I feel sexual attraction to a lot of women, even a lot that arent conventionally attractive. You are talking to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:27 AM
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Meh. Maybe Im just tired of the 'get the fuck away from me' vibes that strangers put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:54 PM
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Attractive people are treated better. If you arent attractice you're treated worse by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:50 PM
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If you cant see the advantages between nuanced attraction over having the majority of the gender being functionally ugly, I dont know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:47 PM
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You wouldnt be if you were a man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:21 PM
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Neutral is functionally the same as ugly. If a person gets zero sexual attraxtion, he is not attractive, therefore he is functionally ugly. Men rate on 1-10. Women are pure binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:37 PM
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Thinking about the 'male dont treat women as people' topic, and I think it boils down to men will notice complimentary features at first glance, whereas women will pick men apart at first glance. Sure, men point out vapid body parts, but women treat average men with even less regard. The phrase 'NPC' comes up quite often. So the gender treatment is dehumanizing in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:57 PM
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When women say what to you bring to the table, they really mean dance for my amusement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:56 PM
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Again, spending years in a failing relationship is not the same as burning a couple loaves of bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:38 PM
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You're presuming active communication. A lot of women will just say the mans doing great either to protect his ego or save the relationship, what have you. And she definitely wont talk about prior flings. All the communication in the world wont save you from a prior love whom she had much more lust towards, either. If the lust isnt there, she straight up wont want to work on the sex life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:02 PM
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Its a pyramid scheme thats still kicking. Pyramid schemes are successful until theyre not. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:56 PM
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I can be happy never worrying about trying to win over women again. A lot of other men are starting to realize this too. Its like a lot of women here say, theyd rather be alone than in a miserable relationship. This is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:46 PM
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Theres a difference between employment and lovers though. You can try the best you can and still never measure up, and you'll have wasted the best years of your life on a woman who looked at you as just a safe option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:53 PM
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In a way your last statement is true. Having a higher body count means there could be men in the mix that you could never possibly hold a candle to, meaning sex with you just looks mediocre in comparison, meaning an eventually withering sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:55 AM
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This thread is a gross mess of like 4 half baked thread ideas, so I'll just comment on the first point. Has anyone ever considered how there are waaaay more attractive women than attractice men? Because women attract men more than men attract women. So there are more attractive women, not by the merit of their appearance, but by how biologies work. What I saying is that women are priveleged as fuck in the dating realm, by absolute circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:25 AM
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Thats why its a me statement, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:55 AM
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Im all for improving the lives of LVM, even if its exploited by reality TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:35 PM
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Of course. My girl loves that shit too. No I still dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:45 AM
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Didja have a thing for ol Sephiroth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:39 AM
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I never understood flirting, or even casual conversation at the gym. I go there to become a sloppy stinking mess for my bodys sake, why on earth would I want anyone from the opposite gender around me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:55 AM
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Its pretty damn good. No other videos than mainstream trash though, so if thats your bag then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:52 PM
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Eh, women get pretty twisted about their SO's porn usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:45 PM
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Its different when its outright stated I want cash for sex; its a window into whats going on in her head. Successful relationships have a lot of the other shit you put up, not literal transactional fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:44 PM
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Yeah, I've said that before. Male attractiveness seems a lot more binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:06 PM
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Because its falls into the white cis male demographic. People have less of a problem judging if they see it as 'punching up'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:05 PM
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Theres a leap between fuck buddies and prostitution. Sex for money just isnt for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:04 PM
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I think straight men would have less leeway when it comes to judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:45 PM
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Nah. Im not desperate enough to smash someone who is only in it for the money. Its a mental thing, if you arent turned on by me as a person I dont want to be with you. Plus I have a strong aversion to being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:38 PM
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Enviromental storytelling. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:31 PM
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Never had any positive experience at all in regard to thst until I was 24. I dont think there are words to describe how rotten you feel and how impossible it seems to get any success if you've had literally nothing to base it off of. Its like convincing yourself grass is a lovely shade of deep red. Obviously over it now, but I feel for a lot of these guys in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:27 PM
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Yeah you give a shit about anyone lower than you in your station. Give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:13 PM
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Its not about health, its about fit people lording it over others less active.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:02 PM
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Being disgusted with unhealthy bodies is your problem, not theirs. Learn to build a tolerance for less aesthetically pleasing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:01 PM
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To be fair average guys get basically the exact same social feedback as ugly guys. Nobody really compliments an average guys looks, so their self esteem reinforces it. Doesnt help that dating apps beat the fuck out of any sort of average male
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:58 PM
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If you can only have a good time by taking away others' ability to have a gold time, you simply dont deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:46 PM
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Another woman who doesnt know dick about male sexuality telling men what to do with it. Fuckin lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:01 PM
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Definitely had that thought before lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:57 PM
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Maybe 20 years ago, things are sliding backwards pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:54 PM
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Meh. Imagine several dozen pores being a dealbreaker. What a luxury to have such ridiculous standards, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:15 PM
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Its just skin, who gives a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:07 PM
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This is one confusing strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:05 PM
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Its not just skin color though, its a cultural gap as well. Commonalities is more difficult to bridge across races sometimes. I'm not saying its not great when there are interracial couples, but its not something that should be forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:04 PM
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Sexual attraction is on another level though. Nobody picks what theyre attractted to, and its at least better to be upfront about those preferences than lie about it and lead around people of another ethnicity you're not really into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:29 PM
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Start out as a hookup app. Women demand relationships on the hookup app. Women then complain that the men on the hookup app dont wanna date Fucks. Sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:25 PM
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Sure, fair. But women are just as possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:47 AM
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You're not considering a mans perspective. If you were a man and a woman told you she had over 50 bodies under her belt, what info could you glean from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:36 AM
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Well, N count is a piece of information about your sex habits in the future. Are you going to stop having sex with your LTR after 3 years in or after the ring goes on the finger? N count is a piece of the puzzle to suss that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:15 AM
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N count is a strange subject. Doesnt change the fact that women are remarkably possessive of their man when theyre in a relationship. Tradcons care more about N count, but N count can tell a story about the kind of woman you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:59 AM
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And women arent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:54 AM
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Get truffle oil and parmesan cheese, transcend McDonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:03 AM
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So women are less sexually possessive? They dont care as much if their man fools around on the side? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:51 AM
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Crockpots are rad as fuck. Get an air fryer next, those are dope as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:40 AM
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Women in love want to monopolize the mans sexuality, they dont want to share him with other women. Uhhhh??? I thought men were more open to casual sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:34 AM
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I hadnt noticed, all the other worldbuilding stuff sucked me in pretty well. I guess sunsets would be pretty jarring if time went that quickly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:26 AM
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If Atlas' personality and behavior were signs that an action was a good life choice, then fuckin LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:21 AM
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Male love is possessive?? Isnt female love all about coupling up, commitment and maintaining a provider for children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:19 AM
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That has been a thing. I'll ask people here why they hate fatties so much only to find theyve been fat themselves. And they dont realize how they're simply transferring their self hatred on to other people, and how damaging that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:57 PM
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Why do people on this sub dislike fat people so much? What kind of stress do fatties give you in your day to day?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:14 PM
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Its weird, been sexually unsuccessful most of my life amd I feel like the romanticism gene has just been cut at the stem before it ever got to flower, even in LTRs. Good luck with whatever you're working through. Dont give an asshole your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:13 PM
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Yes, effort is required, but sometimes its too much effort than a man can give. If a guy has external problems like too much time spent working, medical issues or just plain too ugly, or internal issues like mental health disorders and general mental blocks, he wont be able to put in enough work to make it happen. Maybe its a fancier way of saying some men are hopeless, but it depends on what the guy wants to do. No, not every man will have reliabe casual sex. That is a hard wall. But every man …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:58 PM
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Its about action economy and how much you're willing to sacrifice. If you want to take all of your free time and throw it into nutrition and making money, for a very very long time, then sure, sub 5 men can be 'successful'. Not to say sub 5 men cant also have sub 5 women that have a similar lifestyle without massive sacrifices. But being a man who has casual sex on reg is a straight up bad deal for the average man, as far as action economy goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:41 PM
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Women dont know how to orgasm during sex, women are too ashamed to bring it up to their partners, women will often lie and say sex was great when they never orgasmed leaving men to feel like they did nothing wrong, womans orgasms are an inherently hard concept for people without vaginas, men who have difficulty getting sex in the first place are going to have a harder time learning how to please a woman, and then there's the general cowl of shame and embarassment that drapes over sex conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:38 PM
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Dude, stop spying on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:53 PM
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I see where the point lies, we as a people are super disconnected from the things we eat. I just dont want to, is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:42 PM
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I'm just saying I wouldnt date a meat slaughterer, im not making a statement about ethics at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:38 PM
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Meat eater. I think its pretty normal for people to separate meat eating from slaughtering animals in the 21st century, even if its technically absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:22 PM
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You're talking to a North Easterner. In a flyover state? Sure, I can dig the logic. It would just be an odd line of work up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:14 PM
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Im not dating any slaughterhouse workers, just saying. There needs to be a piece of you missing in order to work at one of those places. And there's a difference between raising a crop and slicing animals heads off in a machinelike fashion every day, cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:57 PM
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If you're the one doing the cutting, its still a bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:52 PM
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Because calling yourself a fat fuck is self inflicting, which can be interpreted as a call for others to flatter them (you arent that fat) or it reveals too much self hatred, which is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:01 PM
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Must be the way American men are conditioned by relationships here, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:43 PM
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Yes, it helps avoid needless rejection. After awhile you kinda have a gut disgust with people who you anticipate a rejection from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:03 PM
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Lmao why would any man want to be with a woman who's gonna go fuck you, pay me Love it when women treat men like child rearers, cash dispensers and status symbols. Just get that personhood right the fuck out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:49 PM
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Ah, the good ol transactional relationship. Who ever said true love was dead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:41 PM
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Having children does not entitle you to a lifetime male servant. Loyalty is a useless concept when there's people who will full well take advantage of it. People should be able to leave a relationship at any point under any circumstances, its a consequence of people having freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:50 PM
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Its absolutely not 80:20. Average girls will absolutely get attention from men. Dating apps literally prove this, make an average woman account and swim in the validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:06 PM
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No, theres a difference. Men are evil is implying all men are evil. Explaining why evil men do what they do explains the evil men and doesnt touch the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:00 PM
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The difference is hormones and social conditioning, not some sort of inherent evil that comes with a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:46 PM
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What are you alluding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:57 PM
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They love all the benefits of being in a harem and hate all the downsides. Short sightrd horseshit, as per usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:20 AM
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To be fair, theres a lot of men like this too. The cocaine and hooker type of man who just ride the waves. Sometimes changing the person you are to accomodate a sexual partner is too much, and I think thats totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:50 AM
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Dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:47 AM
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I just discovered the library had free to use 3d printing, laser etchers and modulators, among other things. Along with my other hobbies, it simply doesn't put asses in the seats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:31 AM
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Ive realized, now that my sex drive has somewhat decreased, that pursuing women is a colossal waste of time. I hate preening my appearance, I hate cold approaching and fighting a losing battle on OLD, and I hate constanty fighting an increasingly uphill battle. I work 40 hours a week and I want to spend my time off pursuing things Im actually interested, things which zero women woild ever find sexy. Its a waste of time doing things I hate for people who will never appreciate my efforts and only …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:22 AM
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The answer is always the same, if it helps. Its 'more'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:07 PM
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It must be someones idea of a remarkable joke to program a person to be so incredibly self destructive and self sabotaging and just watch him dick about in a tiny cage performing mistake after mistake over and over again. At least someone can get joy out of this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:22 PM
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I just said men have to work a lot harder than women do in the dating scene. You said whose fault is that, and I gave you an answer. What do you want from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:57 PM
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Prisoners dilemma, cant control the actions of all the men in the world, blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:44 PM
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Who gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:02 PM
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Spend your money on useless horseshit to entertain the selfish primates that want to cohabitate with you and produce more selfish primates. What a load of garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:59 PM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:56 PM
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The answer to black pill is just be rich bro? Pff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:53 PM
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Women hardly even consider men who dont look good as people, let alone romantic partners. Men who are past a looks threshold arent competing with those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:40 PM
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Are men now expected to spend just as much time and money on their appearance as women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:33 PM
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Its about women expecting more out of you than they give in return just because of mens sexual lust. They are not nearly as entertaining, and they dont have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:11 PM
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Yeah, its an option. At enough demerits the juice isnt worth the squeeze, especially when the only women you match with is a huge compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:05 PM
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And if he's already struggling, its gonna get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:44 PM
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Its a demerit for every flaw you have, decreasing your chances that much more. If he's already struggling, then itll only get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:11 PM
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Theres a difference between aging two years and actively losing all your hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:03 PM
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'Wont someone please think of the billionaires?' America in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:21 PM
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America in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:28 PM
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I mean, it doesnt matter to me. I get nothing out of trying to be attractive. I work out because its stress relief, but worrying about my clothing, hair etc is just wasted brain space.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:45 PM
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I guess. I dont think men get as much feedback when they try something new, so they arent going to do it. Nobody says shit if I get a new haircut or wear new clothes, I might as well save my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:32 PM
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I think the difference is that men receive zero feedback if they look normal, the women view them as sexless blobs, and they get zero interest from anyone without fighting for it so they assume theyre ugly. 'Perfectly normal' doesnt mean shit when women are only attracted to a small portion of the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:20 PM
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The normal ones are the ones posting their pictures. Actual uggos arent going to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:13 PM
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Anyone who posts pics during purge week are attention whores, CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:55 AM
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Its all highly subjective to the qualities women prefer. If you possess those qualities, results will come to you. If you don't, then they wont. Its the easiest thing in the world to claim 'if only they tried', but the actual work that has to go in varies wildly. Men have mental hurdles in addition to physical hurldes to go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:49 AM
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Titties? Really? Tits are free to look up on the internet, dude. They are not in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:46 AM
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Dude, its not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:32 AM
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Same old struggle. I'm here, I'm still in existance so how bad can it be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:46 AM
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It can be super contextual. The way this bitch said 'buddy' as I left was like any other person calling you buddy; wildly confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:46 AM
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She is a whore, so fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:39 AM
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Low quality content. I'm reporting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:38 AM
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Oh yuck, purge. Anyway. I dont think there's anything more that says 'know your place, fucker' than when a woman calls you 'buddy'. Just ugly guy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:15 AM
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Its still the ability of getting better partners by magically believing you can get them. What an absolute luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:56 PM
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I said biggest problem m80
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:42 PM
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Imagine the biggest problem you have while dating js not being picky enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:15 PM
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Everyone deserves some blame, but incredibly that includes women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:57 PM
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I assume attractive people just spend all day admiring each others physique, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:49 PM
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Wouldnt it be great if we can stop all rapists and murderers? Like fuck, the onus cant be on other guys to police this behavior. What an idiotic take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:13 PM
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I dont see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:06 PM
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Women want all the things and want to offer as little as possible, same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:02 PM
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Looks get you a relationship in the first place, therefore its most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:01 PM
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Theyre implying that a man asking a woman out is applying for a job. Which isnt really wrong, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:53 AM
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Usually its women thats doing the mocking, or saying muscles dont really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:44 AM
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Yeah, no one man is in control of all men. For the life of me, I dont know how you guys havent figired this out by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:19 AM
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How is endless options under mens control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:21 PM
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I really didnt say much of anything, you're making a lot of assumptions. But if you wanna shut me down, thats fine. I got shit to do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:47 PM
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Women here confirm the biases all the time, they just dont use the same terminologies. 'Of COURSE we want a tall/rich/handsome/big dick guy! What are you, stupid?!' Women want the best of every aspect, and its no secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:27 PM
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We have it figured out. 80/20, 6/6/6, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:08 PM
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Well its that, then all the women talk about how they get treated by 'assholes', so we put 2 and 2 together. Women like assholes. Assholes asshole all over women. Women cry on forum. Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:00 PM
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When one gender has endless options and the other scraps for affection on the reg.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:55 PM
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Well men arent privy to an assholes relationships. We see assholes get women, and thats what the assholes look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:54 PM
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Arrogant jock types that brag to all their friends about their scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:35 PM
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You have choices, says the gender that chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:30 PM
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I'm not sure if thats the kind of 'bad boy' behavior other men see women go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:29 PM
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Why would a man want to settle for a sexless, loveless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:04 PM
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Lmao the 'fuck you, got mine' on display from the safe option thread kinda makes me never want to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:58 PM
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Ok, I was going to ask this before you went all Ayn Rand on me, so might as well ask now. What do you consider bad boy behavior? What are the limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:52 PM
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I don't accept 'its in our biology' as an excuse to act like an asshole. You're happily giving yourself the role of an unthinking animal for your own selfish gains. But I will concede that assholes desire assholes, so maybe thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:55 PM
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You want men who are willing to take things from others for their personal gain. Those are called assholes, and one step away from a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:46 PM
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Whatever it is, I wouldnt tolerate someone being a piece of shit for the sake of it, but apparently women dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:42 PM
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Tldr; Yall put up with assholes because they provide material goods. Is that better or worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:39 PM
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An unenthusiastic fuck on the first go around is not someone you wanna tie yourself down to. Some men have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:37 PM
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Lmao men dont lie about not wanting relationships nearly as much as you think. A lot of times they found a dealbreaker during sex and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:40 PM
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Meh, too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:07 PM
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Lmao must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:56 PM
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How's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:57 PM
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Men, how many women have you had sex with that you'd say were actually really good in bed? Not just really attractive, but turned you on based on what she was doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:56 PM
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I think you're just a drunk, bored, lonely dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:30 PM
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I don't think a superior person would be picking fights unprovoked, but you do you, boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:19 PM
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Are you really just here to pick a fight with foreigners? Lmao dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:14 PM
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Never thought women were silly to fear them. I just dont like being treated like a potential rapist by strangers. Its completely logical behavior. It just stinks on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:55 PM
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So everytime I approach I start at zero respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:05 PM
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Do you approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:41 PM
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Strip em of resources and move on up to the next provider. Ggs no re.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:51 PM
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Lmao you dont notice it because you're the audience. I assure you they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:49 PM
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No, im ecstatic that I have to approach all the time and act like a dancing monkey to impress you clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:45 PM
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Great, glad to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:41 PM
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So approaching puts you at a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:37 PM
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My point was that women see that approaching is shitty and wont do it just because of their natural advantages, and thats it. And Im well aware doing nothing will yield nothing, men dont have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:29 PM
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Thread about how women dont approach because they don't want to be seen as an option... Why on earth should I be approaching then? Oh, because I have to? Cool cool cool. Happy to be your 'option', then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:24 PM
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Emil Cioran was one of the most successful losers out there. He also championed and loved losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:22 PM
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Opinion: dont compare south Korean culture to american culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:20 PM
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I can see where theyre coming from. There were points where Ive been so beaten down by the relationship machine that my guard is just way too high to allow for love to develop. If you start to think everyone has your shared experience, which is a humans default, well there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:18 PM
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Place isnt worth it. I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:15 AM
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I think if kite sailing is on the docket, you already have a pretty good head start
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:11 AM
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You were merely throwing unnecessary shade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:10 AM
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What you said wasnt constructive anyway, so whats the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:12 AM
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Yeah, men bad and all that. Cool beans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:02 AM
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I want men to feel like they don't have to warp their lives around impressing women to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:57 AM
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As soon as I saw Amazon produced it in the trailer I immediately closed it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:49 AM
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Aside from telling you to check with someone about clinical depression... Try going somewhere new, explore your town or city a bit. Take the car and drive for awhile on a nice day. Listen to some music you've never heard before, or a new podcast about something interesting. This episode started me on a nice philosophy podcast binge, you might like it. Maybe even try some new food! I discovered I like pickles now after 30+ years of hating them. Whatever it is, try to break up your typical routine…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:23 PM
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Start with what you want to do that doesnt involve sitting on your butt, and start small. Just something novel on your day off, something you havent bothered to try yet. Even if its going to a cozy coffee shop, having a cup and soaking in the ambience, Id call it a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:15 PM
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Advice isnt tailor made for everyone, if you dont think it'll work thats fine. That being said, maybe you need this advice most of all? If all you look forward to is consuming, including women, where does that leave you in the long run? Have you looked into addiction therapies? This sounds a lot like an addictive personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:14 PM
1

Meh. What other alternatives do they have? Get a hooker if its that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:31 PM
1

I can see why they'd think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:29 PM
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I dont think it serves anyone if we cant at least pretend theyre speaking in good faith, for the ones that really want help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:54 PM
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Or become super depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:56 PM
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I think struggling men are way better off trying to find a lust for life, as opposed to doing things that women approve of. Men should only be pursuing women when they're happy to spend the emotional resources to do so, and not force themselves through ruthless self improvement to maybe get the fleeting extrinsic reward of sex. There was a podcast I listened to about seratonin that reinforced this, but Im not referencing that shit because that takes effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:55 PM
2

What about if everyone declines to give you love because theres something wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:43 PM
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Maybe not, but what struck me is that it sounded like thats how she interpreted men talking about N count. Like thats how it was internalized, which I think is an interesting subject in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:41 PM
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Read a comment where a woman interpreted men here saying they dont want a woman with a high N count as 'undeserving of love'. Which is funny, since its a phrase Id often tell myself whenever I never measured up to womans standards, be it not attractive or confident or funny or rich enough; that I dont deserve love. Its not secret romantic love is completely conditional, and subject to crumble any time those conditions arent met. So knowing this, is it fair to say that a person doesnt deserve lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:32 PM
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I think you're being willfully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:27 PM
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LMAO everything circles back to hypergamy! You cant write this shit. My fucking sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:42 PM
0

From an evolutionary standpoint, I wonder why women moan loudly during sex. Thats when these people are most vulnerable, right? Why alert everyone else of the goings on?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:38 PM
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You're still saying all poor people deserve to be poor, but any kid that gets an inheritance doesnt deserve to be rich either. They had all of their opportunities gifted to them, while the vast majority of people will never see opportunity even close to that. And as I posted earlier, most rich people were already granted large inheritances. You cant say that all poor people deserve poverty while kids with inherited wealth deserve their gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:36 PM
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But the child itself didnt earn the inheritance. It was born into a massive head start. To say that this child earned millionaire status like somebody who didnt have this inheritance is dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:49 AM
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Ok, go look up just world fallacy and come back to me. And yes, inheritance is absolutely a handout for the one receiving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:21 AM
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I never said inheritence was evil, but people who get an inheritance are not like other americans. They got a colossal head start, and putting them in the same category as everyone else is wildly dishonest. They technically dont deserve to be millionaires because they got such huge handouts. The second paragraph is literally what I was talking about with just world fallacy; everyone who's poor deserves it. Its complete nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:16 AM
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No, you're being ridiculous. Believing poor people are just too stupid to know any better is just world fallacy, and rebranding inborn advantages as intelligence is remarkably dishonest. https://ips-dc.org/the_self-made_hallucination_of_americas_rich/ Over 60 percent of millionaires had some sort of large inheritence attached to them. The majority is not self made.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:59 AM
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What on earth do you think inheritance is? They literally get handed the job of millionaire and billionaire all the fuckin time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:50 AM
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How do you figure most of the working class can just jump into a new job with no problem? Jobs are a limited resource, and people will only get jired at a fraction of that limit. Chances are that new job will use you like a tool as well, so its back to square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:40 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:33 AM
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No it isnt. She makes up her own definition of what people are and then uses that definition to justify abandoning altruism in favor of self interest. The reasoning behind her favoring Lassaiez Faire economics is for people to pursue their own desires and not having the state use people as a means to an end, while at the same time conveniently forgetting that corporations will gladly use people as a means to and end as well. She calls her philosophy objectivism, inferring every other philosopher…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:37 AM
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Whatever lets me do what I want, not what some woman wants me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:09 AM
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Ayn Rand's philosophy smells like dog doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 12:34 AM
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Lmao of course the guy who invented the term is a pedantic dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 12:34 AM
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Yeah, that game sucks. Only winning move is not to play, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 12:31 AM
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Those are also the exceptions, not the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:44 PM
2

Sure. And women cant understand where men come from when they complain about their problems either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:39 PM
1

So its a trick with sex itself? I thought it was just to delay the cum button. Share with the class, my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:17 PM
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Well, you're right about one thing; I really dont understand it, and the vast majority of men really wont either. But women dont understand the effects of more testosterone on a psyche either, so there's that. All we can promise is to be patient and listen to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:15 PM
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He's talking about using women for sex, and presumably she's consenting at the time. What does that have to do with the penetration itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:56 PM
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Women pass around sexual partbers with their friends now? In what universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:39 PM
0

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:34 PM
1

Do kegels make your dick grow an extra 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:33 PM
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Do you? Lol it works both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:32 PM
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Its gotta be a separate agent in the James Bond universe. You cant have a black woman call themselves James Bond with a straight face. Honestly though, if the latter is the case it might bring the woke culture shit to a head, because thats a sort of cognitive dissonance the average American cant handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:31 PM
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Women, would you feel threatened if your man told you you werent the most attractive girl he's been with? Would the context change if he said it in casual conversation versus the middle of a fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:34 PM
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Some nebulous area in the left. Feels like the exact orientation depends on the topics and how grumpy I am that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:29 PM
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Yeah, women dont like it too much when their boyfriends point out that they arent the prettiest girl they ever dated either, for the exact same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:21 AM
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Depends on how high. Some people say 10 is high. There are other factors that make high N unappealing, like the kind of lifestyle youd have to lead to get such a high bodycount and how they likely perceive sex as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:15 AM
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One thing thats never brought up in the N count discussion is that a woman with a higher N count is more likely to have a better lover than you were, or a guy with a bigger hog that satisfied her better. Im not one to be jealous, but there's a chance not measuring up to her betters could mean a worse sex life in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:34 AM
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Whats the point you're driving at here? Or are you being completely honest? I swear I cant even tell with women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:50 PM
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Yeah, thats where a lot of problems talking about dating manifest from; a lack of real understanding of motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:15 PM
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Meh. You're not a man, so that doesnt appeal to you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:09 PM
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Maybe. Kinda sucks that men either have to be top 5% on Tinder or risk rape accusations after a bar night just to have casual sex and fulfill their sexual imperitive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:06 PM
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Why? Does a woman having relaxed standards from alcohol equal rape? Do women who take home a guy from a bar get a hall pass to attempt to ruin his life? I dont understand the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:01 PM
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Mainstream is dog doo, homemade is where its at. Its like Little Caesars vs your hometown pizzeria.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:32 PM
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Yeah they were killer, but holy shit is there a big rock in my gut now. Couldnt even finish the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:53 PM
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Probably thought you were ripping the bong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:28 PM
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I mean its whatever you wanna do to a taco, but you use a tostata in the middle and fold the tortilla over. Look up crunchwrap cowboy on youtube and you should find my inspiration. The guys a goofy fuck tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:21 PM
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Why? Dirty ovens still function.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:19 PM
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Some days you feel like making your own crunchwrap supremes and going all out. Its been awhile since Ive been inspired to have fun in the kitchen. This is gonna be good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:43 PM
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Celebrities smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:35 AM
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Id rather work on me for my own sake. I want to study philosophy and get in better shape and advance in my career for me. I dont give a fuck about what women want anymore, I only care about what I want. Fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:49 AM
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Its not the end of the world. I just dont want to cut my teeth anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:35 AM
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No, I dont think you get how natural it is to be pessimistic when attempts at success get absolutely squashed for over a decade. We're basically speaking different languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:28 AM
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Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:18 AM
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Am I wrong though? Its a matter of cost analysis. Its like being offered to climb Everest for a clean $5000. I dont want to warp my entire life around being attractive to someone who doesnt give a shit about all the work I had to put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:04 AM
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Mm. So its impossible body modification, rewriting your personality or succeeding in the most hostile economy in decades. Yaaaay...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:56 AM
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Yep. If its a quality men have zero control over, women flock to it like pidgeons swarming a bag of French fries on the sidewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:49 AM
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Maybe, it paints an interesting portrait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:33 AM
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Did you look through my comment history?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:49 AM
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Give it 5 years. Women are trending upwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:02 AM
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Ok, women also cheat in equal number, so toss that out the window also. What else you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:58 PM
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7 year itch is also a thing. I dun wanna hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:53 PM
1

Yeah, no man ever asked for that shit. You do that to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:03 PM
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And women want men way better than themselves. Thats the only way the deal is palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:03 PM
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No, womens standards for men are way hogher than mens standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:41 PM
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You mean the one thats both sinking its teeth into men now while simultaneously celebrating fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:21 PM
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No, the difference in sexuality skews it wildly, and you're naive if you believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:20 PM
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Nah, everyone here has at least one dumb take. You're mushing every dumb take into a monolith called Man. Come back to me when you're expected to work on yourself for literal years just to be considered dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:08 PM
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Thats a lotta straw, whew lad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:58 PM
1

What? Thats the best you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:40 PM
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Its a dating sub, im talking dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:36 PM
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Womens worth is not directly correalated with their effort the same as men. That is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:08 PM
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Nah, I cant peer into your relationship well enough to make a proper assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:34 PM
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Well, you're still young. I see lots of potential problems down the road, but I'll leave it for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:36 PM
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I'm not arguing at all, im just interpreting your words through a males perspective; you're selfish in bed and you put your own needs over his. And thats not a relationship Id want to be in, ergo i arrive to my conclusions. If you're both happy with good enough, theres no argument to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:24 PM
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Good enough is him enduring the relationship well enough not to leave you? Lucky chap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:16 PM
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Sounds like he's settling. But what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:13 PM
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The term selfish does imply you're taking things at the expense of others though. Are you sure he's not just saying everythings fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:51 PM
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Why do you want your male partners to have mediocre sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:55 PM
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Do you suppose a woman can be a selfish lover? In the bedroom, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:17 AM
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Cut to black, no more consciousness ever. Its the only answer that makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:09 AM
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Yes, that is hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:59 PM
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Women and men have separate problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:54 PM
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What I mean is that do you suppose some men are hopeless, for one reason or another?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:54 PM
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Do women believe all men are capable of solving all of their dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:51 PM
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Q4M: What is it about your spouse/ gf that you respect and admire them for? I'm not talking about the basic respect you give to people, im talking about admirable traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:00 PM
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I'm irrational a lot here, and sometimes people will catch me just right where I cant wriggle out of it. I'll admit when I'm wrong, but not all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:40 PM
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A person who isnt vaccinated is complicit in spreading the disease to others. They are perfectly fine catching it, meaning they're perfectly fine spreading it. Its one step away from breaking someones kneecaps, I'll grant you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:39 PM
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The person who was cheated on wasnt good enough. They got soft. They didnt try hard enough, so she had to cheat. Everyone tells men everything is their fault, why wpuld this be different?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:42 PM
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as long as she's not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:39 PM
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The people whom deaths are being celebrated are putting other peoples lives, and a return back to regular life, in jeopardy. How are you gonna feel when a dude who walks around with a lead pipe bashing random peoples kneecaps on the street gets hit by a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:24 PM
2

Trump was shit. Biden is shit. The only difference is what kind of flavor of shit you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:20 PM
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Finally got back into the gym sice covid. Its oddly comforting. Hopefully more exercise is the antidote to feeling so crunmy this past month.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:27 AM
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Lmao average men take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:01 AM
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Yeah, im terrible at picking up LARPing but this was awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:57 PM
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But women want to lead dry and expect enthusiasm back all the time. They're about as entertaining as a doorknob most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:52 PM
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Remember men, always be entertaining. Never turn it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:48 PM
1

Thats besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:30 PM
2

If womens standards have increased over the past 10 years, would it stand to reason men have access to worse mates than previously?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:55 PM
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One of those days where I want nothing more than to be a toxic piece of shit online, but I'm too self aware now so Im gonna get zero pleasure out of it. Somebody yell at women here for me in my absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:37 PM
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A man can get better in bed, but its all dependent on his woman. Nobodys gonna teach him what his partner wants but her. If she says nothing and acts like shes enjoying herself, then he has to assume he's doing everything right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:29 AM
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Lmao you make it sound so pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:54 PM
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Men who want raw carnal lust should never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:45 PM
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My goals are to not get trapped in a sexless marriage or have my livelihold ripped away by somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:41 PM
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The moral of the story is, obviously, never get married to a woman. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:35 PM
1

Emil Cioran has some interesting takes on things like suicide and failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:29 PM
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Sometimes, when im more depressed than usual. Aside from the reasoning that was stated earlier with parents having children for selfish reasons, the kid never asks to be born and is expected to endure suffering with no way out, considering suicide is going to cause irreperable damage to everyone they love. Ive thought a lot how I would have just preferred to never have existed at all, rather than just exist as a wage slave too tired to enjoy anything. My understandings of such things has been ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:14 PM
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Ive heard stories of women suddenly finding sex painful and their libido eventually drops to absolute zero. Maybe a bumpy road up ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:07 PM
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Regardless, my point still stands. While men can be dissatisfied, women will be dissatisfied way more often. Women just start getting comfortable, keep their lips sealed, let sex wither away and focus on their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:53 PM
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Men are more satisfied with the average person than women. Its called hypergamy. This one fringe case disproves nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:46 PM
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Sounds like you didnt need much convincing xD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:57 PM
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No, you're a genuine liar. An appeal to emotions makes it so obvious. I hope this path makes you happier in the end, cause it certainly doesnt serve anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:30 AM
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You went to the trouble of digging up a year old post just to prove a point in under like what, 5 minutes? Doesnt smell right. I can make an earnest post somewhere on reddit about all of my work at womens shelters and post it as prrof of all of my virtues. And I believe you would lie about such a thing. Ive seen your posts. Proof or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:24 AM
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Virtue signaling with zero proof is fun stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:17 AM
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I posted this on an internet forum. Thats more than youve done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:14 AM
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Yeah Im gathering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:24 PM
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Ask them if the chicken pox vaccine is the mark of the beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:43 PM
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78% of suicide victims are male. Kinda fucked up to to think about ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:41 PM
1

Yeah, fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:25 PM
2

It also makes you a raging asshole, but whatever. Im not the boss of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:15 PM
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No, he's saying the men rejected will be relieved in the long run that they're not tied down to a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:48 PM
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See? If women spend money on anything other than a 16 box set of crayons, they're chumps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:07 AM
2

Throw a red crayola at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:58 AM
2

How are you better?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:46 PM
1

Fellas, when did you learn women gave a shit about your skincare?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:09 PM
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Oh. Ya probably shouldnt have sent that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:51 PM
2

Imagine needing dick that bad where you stalk a dude for 9 years and then do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:57 PM
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Liberals equate affluence with corruption. I mean, sure, corrupt people are affluent, but are all affluent people corrupt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:25 PM
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Id happily scoop one of those up. Y'all can be picky all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:25 PM
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Way more attention than average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:19 PM
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If they're obnoxious about it, sure. But thatd probably go for a lot of people. I just tend to not get along with those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:14 PM
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Im talking about pundits, not stinky snowflakes. Get a bunch of beer swilling hicks around a liberal speaker and while the language will be different, the senitment will be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:02 PM
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Trump was authoritarian, and he and all the other repubs claiming rigged election are trying to overthrow democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:01 PM
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The right is definitely not more centered than it was 10 years ago. It went way hard into authoritarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:12 PM
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The conservative method for debates is being loud and shouty so you appear to be dominant in front of their authority junkie constituents. Its a losing proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:03 PM
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Thats what a woman proposing is. A woman isnt sticking around a man who rejects their proposal. Its a 'marry me or Im fucking gone' in a blink of an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:56 AM
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Does seeing him in a helpless state trigger feminine hormones to ditch him for a stronger man? One with a back made out of sheer muscle and sinew?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:50 AM
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If your man ever told you 'youd better do X or I'm leaving', how would it make you feel? Would you really want to tie yourself to someone who can make a relationship ending ultimatum so easily? Do you want to satisfy them, knowing they always have an ace in the hole over you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:47 AM
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Lmao he doesnt want to be tied down
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:44 PM
2

But you're phrasing it like men have to pay to play at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:41 PM
2

That just sounds like a hostage situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:30 PM
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No, women are the ones who want the wedding, and the men foot the bill. So it seems like she's giving you a gigantic bill and a set of handcuffs to slap on when she gets down on one knee.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:29 PM
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Thats a real dumb mindset though. A girl who can do better is gonna fuck off regardless of the ring, she'll just kick your ass in divorce court while she does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:26 PM
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I mean, if you arent planning on kids marriage is a straight downgrade to relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:31 PM
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Whats the consensus on women proposing marriage? Something about it just triggers an unreasonable aversion, but I suppose its nearly the same thing as a woman dropping the ultimatum of marriage or I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:04 PM
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You're just in love with being confrontational behind a keyboard. What would I have to gain trying to convince somebody like this? You can't find appropriate debaters because they self select out of your conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:16 PM
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Thinking everything is one side or the other is just as bad, if not worse than thinking everything is in the middle. You dont want to learn, you want to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:52 PM
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Asks who would be interested in genuine debate, then calls centrists, aka people with more nuanced opinions, useless. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:45 PM
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Completely depends on whether Im satisfied with tue frequency of sex and how much she communicates with me about bedroom matters. I feel like the partner with the hither libido should be gtanted more leeway in porn watching, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:10 PM
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I feel like the gravity of this isnt well grasped by many. Some people have a lot more 'high value' traits codified into their true self, and anyone who doesnt have them have to morph themselves to become it. Ive used the term 'ruthless self improvement' to describe it, and even undergoing years of it doesnt guarantee jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:00 PM
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Anyone here cheat on their SO, or play homewrecker? Cheatings such a taboo subject, itd be interesting to hear stories about it. Also, save your 'I would never's, we dont need the virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:50 PM
2

Just plan to be alone for a year and see how it fetches you. Some people can do it, some cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:48 PM
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Im already wary of beating off if Im not horny, seems like a good way to short circuit reward systems and libido. On the other hand..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:50 PM
2

Dude, quiet. Dont blow it for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:21 PM
1

Is scored super high on 5 and thought it may fit better. I didnt dissect all the text though. I suppose well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:20 PM
1

High five! I got that too. There was descriptors on each of the letters and wings when you were done. 9 is Peacemaker, 1 is Reformist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:37 PM
2

If you are, you'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:36 PM
2

I got 9w1, but scored very high on 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:22 PM
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What was the argument against porn for people who dont watch mainstream, who just watch couples recording on their phones? I think id have a lot more respect for these women if they just admitted that having their man watch porn makes them really insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:45 AM
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Basically this. A woman trying to control your sexuality is going to be a miserable time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:38 AM
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Wow thats a first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:56 PM
1

When did I ever say the man didnt love them? Where on earth did you pull this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:27 PM
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If you cant communicate, you're gonna be a crap sex partner anyway. Its a self fulfilling prophecy. If women cant advocate for their own pleasure, they dont deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:20 PM
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Women have no excuse in a committed relationship. If you cant or wont talk to your man about it, then you havent earned any pleasure at all. As long as a woman acts pleasured, they dont have much excuse either. Is the guy supposed to assume she's always lying every time? It doesnt make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:10 PM
1

Ones that involve men way better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:07 PM
1

I never said that. Women will be satisfied with 'enough', but always want better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:43 PM
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There's a big difference between hand and toy. The climax is usually a lot better with the latter, although quicker and easier with the former. Unless this is a sarcastic question, idk I haven't been following the morning drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:42 PM
2

Sounds wildly impractical. And lord help you if he pulls out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:37 PM
2

Because they take what they can get. Same as men. Women always want better, doesnt mean they can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:36 PM
1

What do you suppose it looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:35 PM
1

A bit off topic, but Id say the difference between male and female fantasies is that men fantasize about someone else, and women fantasize about someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:57 PM
3

Is it fair to say most people are repulsed by their opposite genders' sexual fantasies, partly or mostly out of a sense of inadequacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:50 PM
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Men adjust themselves all the damn time to get the women they want. Tirelessly. Sometimes you dont want to throw everything away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:04 PM
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Depends on frequency. Id take a new one a week over the same 'skilled' girl every month, all other variables being equal. Good sex is worthless if you're starving all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 08:59 PM
2

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:57 PM
5

To ne fair, a lot of men probably cant accept that they're completely worthless just out of protection of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:21 PM
3

Go to FDS and its the exact same story, but with women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:10 PM
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Theyre free to resent me for being a symbol of oppression all they want, and Im free to resent thst resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:34 AM
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The difference is that wome can get away with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:14 PM
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It's weird. People shouldnt be openly ridiculed because of their body, but at the same time repeating the soulless mantra that theyre beautiful isnt doing anyone any favors, especially if theyre going tonget indignant that people arent attracted to them. Self esteem shouldnt just be tied to body, but giving an opposite, unflinching positive reaction is not going to solve any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:05 PM
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Why on earth would I answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:02 AM
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Then I won't. And all the others who feel the same wont either. Let the most bloodthirsty rip each other to pieces and let the country crumble to pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:49 AM
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Well job is a matter of base survival, and its circumstantial contribution if anything. If thats all society wants out of me, then I dont give much of a shit. People close to me only care based out of proximity and familial ties, which is also coincidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:47 AM
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Yeah I tell myself that Im a piece of shit, and I have no stake in survival considering how self destructive I can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:34 AM
2

I really don't, I dont purchase anything I cant get away with not buying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:33 AM
2

Ok, works for me. Dont want to contribute to a group of people that doesnt care about me, so win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:25 AM
2

Ok, so why should I contribute to it? It clearly doesnt give a shit about me or my well being, so why should I be invested in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:09 AM
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Im pretty sure I get next to zero positive feedback from general society whenever I interact with it. Why should I be encouraged to contribute to society if I literally get nothing out of it? Is there something I'm missing? Is there a cheat code I should be entering?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:05 AM
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Hate brings comments. The opposite of hate isnt love, its apathy. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:37 AM
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Lmao the thought of approaching is so revolting to women they'd rather not pursue their preferred gender than to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:55 PM
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Yeah, that's the life of the unwanted man. He has to craft himself into a desirable man in order to have a relationship. Welcome to the shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:10 AM
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You really think men dont forgo their own wants and desires to make themselves pleasing to the opposite sex? Holy fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:50 AM
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The difference is that women acting bad affects me, and men acting bad does not. If you wanna apologize, I'm free whencde.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:37 AM
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The difference is that the man drops you after he fucks you once, a woman will string you along enough to drain you out of resources for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:15 AM
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How the fuck are you supposed to screen against that? Oh, my girlfriend was never actually attracted to me and she was just stringing me along, OOPS? Why do men even bother at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:06 AM
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I consider it like a LVM getting any sort of date compared to any woman receiving a date above their social stature. The same amount of effort would have to be applied to receive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:58 AM
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A lot easier for women though. Which was the point I was driving towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:54 AM
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Except when they dont. Which they do a lot more often than women do. Man, that free meal ticket would have been fucking sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:50 AM
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I didnt say anything like that. Im just saying if I was a woman I could have cruise controlled into an easy life by marrying up into a financially successful man like so many others have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:45 AM
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Nah, the gender role is the poor woman gets treated by the rich man, and then they live happily ever after. I guess we both fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:38 AM
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I remember going on a date with an attractive woman who had a law degree and thought I was way over my head. I couldnt even hang with her in drinks and we parted ways. If the genders were swapped there was a pretty high chance Id be engaged right now to that person with very little effort on my part. Life is funny though, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:18 AM
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At least it isnt fucking celebrity gossip. If I lived in Britian Id go insane about the flood of news concerning the royal family. But you have to admit the whole bounty hunter aspect puts a really... Interesting precedent on all of this. One that can really have far reaching implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:36 PM
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Slightly unrelated, but it reminds me when I was told to shut up and stop crying by my mother when I was 6 because my goldfish died. 20 years later and she essentially gave me permission to cry at a family members funeral and I involuntarily lauged in her face. I think mens vulnerability boils down to, if a woman doesnt think they would cry in a situation where you are, you better not be fucking crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 04:29 PM
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With the response conservatives had during COVID, especially towards big cities, I dont think its too far fetched. The MAGA parade will at least tell you they want liberals dead. Is this too far of a bridge to really cross?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:40 PM
2

Wonder what would happen to abortion laws if there was a pre natal test that screened whether the child would be a liberal or a conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 11:08 AM
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Those men wouldnt even know what existance was anyway. Nothing ventured, nothing lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:45 AM
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C: Ban abortion, no child support or pregnancy support because fetuses are sacred until they leave the womb. Then they can just starve to death for all we care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:40 AM
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I can love myself all I want, but if I dont bend the way society and women tell me to bend, I wont get anywhere. For me, self love is saying Im fine without external forces driving me somewhere I dont want to go; but those things include style and fitness, not to mention warping my personality around being charismatic and extroverted. I was the most fit when I truly hated myself the most, and thats probably when I was most attractive. Take that for what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:24 PM
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Lmao what a shock
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:05 AM
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Had a nice couple hours of suicidal ideation today after 6 months free of it. Its only Tuesday too, FML.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:58 PM
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I didnt fall in, im just poking at it and leering inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:10 AM
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Men have less empathy for women, and women have less empathy for men. How About that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:05 AM
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Thats what make scientific papers scientific. Otherwise people could warp data to say whatever they want it to say. If you want to believe that stuff, I certainly cant stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:31 PM
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That study hasnt been peer reviewed. Just get the vaccine and stop being a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:03 PM
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I think the best part of being a loser for so long is that Ive identified myself with the term for so long, and now that Im not nearly as self flagellating as I used to be, Ive stopped identifying myself as a loser and now I simply have no identity to replace it. The best I can come up with is 'worker bee' and 'consumer', both of which are fucking terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:01 PM
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Everything high value in my life has been handed to me Fuckin lmao. Gender differences are such a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:14 PM
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Guys want variety, but some dont want to cheat on their wives either. Not out of being satisfied (I think like 10% of married men are actually sexually satisfied), but out of duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:09 AM
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Are women so oblivious that they need the importance of sex spelled out to them? That a decline in sex is somehow not noticable to the bumbling oaf of a male? They know exactly whats going on, I doubt they need their man to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:24 AM
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If a man is sexually satisfied in a relationship, chances are he's not going to risk everything over a side piece. You're putting the egg before the chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:18 AM
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How am I supposed to feel about frequency of sex dropping more and more as a relationship goes on? Am I expected to endure it, because such a thing is inevitable for most? Am I supposed to treat it as a breach of contract, because we established a relationship under false pretenses? How long and how severe does the issue have to become before alternatives are on the table, especially if all of the love is as strong as ever, and yet basic needs arent being met? Is it a mans duty to endure it for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:47 AM
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Churches exist, but faith has been hamstrung. Nobody wants to be friends with 55 year old Christians if there isnt an eternal reward waiting. And our culture is ruthless capitalism now, down to its bones. Everything revolves around work and consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:36 AM
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Theres a sort of upheaval about what to do in ones life. The script of work, house, family, etc has been upended by our shit economy, so people are living more short term and figuring things out themselves. Those 'more important things' are out of financial reach for a lot of people. Church and community as a whole are kinda gone as well. Nothing left but ruthless capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:15 AM
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Ok, here's the difference. I love shitty food. I would eat an incredible amount of shitty food and love it. One time I ordered a sheet pizza and ate it for a week straight. It gave me wicked bad heartburn and I felt rotten during the last few days, so I threw the rest out. Many men dont get to experience that kind of excessive burn out with sex and women, so they still hang on to the feeling that it feels remarkably good every single time they indulge in this habit. Not to mention, you know, our…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:43 PM
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What do you suppose the dead bedroom stats are in those prior marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:54 PM
1

Oh? Share with the class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:27 PM
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Maybe he meant sex, maybe he didnt. I'm not going to pretend to know everything about the specific situation, but if my presumptions were right, i stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:55 PM
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I'm just saying, you cant drag an unwilling party into a healthy relationship. If she's going to view the relationship as work to be avoided, you cant really fix that. Cutting it off should at least be on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:08 PM
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He wasnt talking about coercing her into sex, he was talking about a simple show of affection. When a person looks at showing affection as work, its doomed. You say he should look at her with the eyes when they started dating and married, but clearly she is the one who needs to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:26 PM
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The issue is a person will rarely you get the complete opposite treatment, do they cant compare as to which is worse. This is why men and women here talk past each other all the time, because nobody can actually relate amd emphasize with the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:22 PM
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Wasnt tucker max outed as a colossal fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:33 AM
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I have no idea. Im just stating what the male species wants in their deepest humors.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:35 PM
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Yeah, I never said it was very practical. It just is what it is. All of us spend most of our time sexually starved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:34 PM
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Basically. Let some other country sort it out, we should be finished wiping their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:32 PM
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Yeah, it isnt noble. No man chose how they want their sexuality to pan out, and yet here we are. In a monogamous society it is a complete burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:31 PM
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Variety. And a lot more sex than what they get in a normal relationship. Men contain themselves for the sake of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:22 PM
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The whole 'sex right away' thing is kinda blending relationship and casual sex standards. I'm not sure if a lot of men feel entitled to sex after a first date. Thats why the 3 date rule is a thing. The issue is that women will be more willing to sleep with the top 20% quicker than the bottom 80%, and the bottom is spiteful about it. Nothing you can do to control that, it is what it is. But a lot of men out there have to sacrifice their own ideal sexual preferences to obtain 'any' sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:57 PM
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Because the FDS mantra is to simply increase your standards to obtain high quality mates, and that shit wont fly. Ruthless self improvement might be too tall a hill to climb.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:06 AM
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Average height for women is 5'5" in Russia, so you'd probably translate to like 5'8". Musculature would only be granted if you weight train already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:05 AM
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I dont think any FDSer would crack 20%, but what do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:59 AM
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Ok be honest ladies, how many of you think that, if you were to become a male overnight, you'd be in the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:44 AM
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Wow, someone was so brave to stand up and say that men need to improve themselves. What a revolutionary concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:38 AM
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You responded to my post, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:37 AM
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If you have a reason as to why you dont believe someone, its on you to provide a counterpoint. Im not going to wipe your ass for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:33 AM
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Mm. And are authoritarians people who enact policies you dont like?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:29 AM
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Good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:28 AM
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Hope your parents are vaccinated then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:08 AM
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Lmao its always 'do your own research'. You remember the tabloids in the supermarkets? The same garbage information is getting peddled around, but its on shitty websites now and too many people cant tell the difference. 'Do your own research' might as well be 'read what you want to believe'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:03 AM
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Just get the damn vaccine. Its been out for months, its safe, its free, lets just get it done with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:00 AM
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So you're going to possibly subject yourself and others around you to a really terrible illness out of spite? I honestly wouldnt even care, but unvaccinated people are overstuffing hospitals and putting ERs on days long waiting lists, which is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:52 PM
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No, im saying the quickie marriages are a product of poor planning. Nobody knows where theyre really going to be in 7 years, if anything id say its expected. Especially with social stigma around divorce as low as it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:41 PM
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Id wager many men that dropped out of dating are naturally blue pilled, couldnt or wouldnt change their personality and just stopped trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:34 PM
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If you dont know that your potential wife is going to dump your ass after a year, thats on you, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:33 PM
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A high value man can also turn on a woman regardless of her N count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:31 PM
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Ok well there's also a lot of dummies that dont know how to marriage that go through like 7 marriages and get divorced after 2 years. I dont trust those stats if you're throwing every doofus in the same pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:30 PM
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While we're on it, dont go clogging up the hospitals if you get COVID and you never got the shot. You didnt want to listen to medical professionals before, why start now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:28 PM
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Says society, what rock do you live under?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:25 PM
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Male sexuality is associated with wanton infidelity, female sexuality is associated with child rearing and family. Family is wholesome, fucking is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:22 PM
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Wouldnt the solution to that be to not reveal your high N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:00 PM
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If your girlfriend or wife told you your penis was too small and it doesnt satisfy her anymore, how quickly do you pack up all your things and leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:07 PM
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Its not quite as dramatic as women fleeing for their lives. Its about everyone you meet throwing up a protective barrier. This isn't quite the same, nor is the treatment I personally receive nearly as bad, but here's a similar situation. I've had it happen on more than one occasion that a black man will thank me just for having idle conversation with them in a public area, because they expect to be treated with disdain otherwise. That shit is super sad, you know? Its just like an intangible 'sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:26 PM
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I get why women and people in general are distrustful of strange men, and most have good reason. But can we also just recognize how draining it can be to be treated like a potential rapist or criminal in the public sphere all the time as well? The two dont have to be mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:57 PM
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Who's saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:39 PM
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I think they care that not having sex is a ticking time bomb for any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 02:08 AM
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Being denied sex is one thing. Denying sex is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:43 AM
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Its not good enough to say its on her, because women can tolerate not having sex. Men cant. Half of the women with these issues would rather say nothing and live with no sex than communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:27 AM
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Women already do that. you're at fault if she didnt cum. You werent as good as the last guy. Never communicates what she actually wants; you gotta figure it out yourself. And if you dont get it right the first time, you get ghosted. A lot of it is because young girls are pretty dumb, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:15 AM
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Listening to a podcast about a woman whose sex live and eventually marriage failed because she didnt know what her body actually wanted. Men, both of you and your partners pleasure is in your hands. Dont fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:50 AM
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Its because mens sexuality is a burden, while for women its a credit. Seems like a silver lining perk more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:01 PM
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Do men settle more in order to obtain relationships, or do women? On one hand, men struggle more to get dates and have more boxes to tick in order to be eligible, so they'll settle just to have a girl. On the other, women have much higher standards so more relationships are bound to be settling just on that merit alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:54 PM
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But see, if they divorced... Two Christmases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:12 AM
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Yeah, our family didnt talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:10 AM
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They all sound remarkably better than my current options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:59 PM
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Fwiw my family was basically glacial in spite of staying married, and that shit was pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:57 PM
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Lets go nuts and say both situations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:10 PM
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How quickly should divorce/separation be on the table if sexual needs arent met? This is assuming the conversation has already happened multiple times and the routine stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:07 PM
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I actually agree with this. It'll be a lot harder to find 'a' match, but it'll be simpler to find 'the' match.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:58 PM
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That bitch would have invaded Mexico in his first 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:04 PM
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And thus the great Simp Migration began
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:01 PM
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I certainly dont think all woke dudes have this issue, just the psychotically self flagellating ones. I also think your assessment applies to a lot of TRPers. Men as a whole need a lot of help these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:22 AM
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I think its men that cant tell the difference between hating the societal imposing men do to each other, and putting their own self hatred into the lens of gender politics. I didnt mesh with stereotypical men at all, and my experiences were a lot worse because of it. Im only now regaining lost ground, and it took me way too long to figure it out. I can see some men getting rejected by their peer groups, getting recognition from a 'woke' group and going militant. Not unlike terrorist recruiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:52 PM
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The self flaggelation is a bit much, probably steering way too far in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:48 PM
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The most pointless thing ever, to protect an image on an online, anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:44 PM
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If it were their only place of acceptance, youd think they would moderate it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:29 PM
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While I'm not convinced incel communities are as wholesome as you make it sound, womens willingness to date you does not reflect self worth, and our entire culture towards men is warped around the contrary. I think incels would benefit massively from studying Buddhism and philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:03 PM
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Unlikely that incls can afford therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:59 PM
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So you know how much of a trashy thing it is to do, but yall will indulge in it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:56 PM
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Its still a trashy thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 08:54 PM
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Hey, lets round up the boys and make fun of fat women and sluts. What a grand time that'll be, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:06 PM
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I disagree, I think they're remarkably self aware on how unattractive they are. I dont think there's a group out there that believes more in their ugliness than these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:05 PM
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There's no such thing as a pump and dump if there isnt an establisbment of where the relationship is going at any point, by either the man or the woman. If its after one sexing, then something was wrong about the encounter and the man jumped ship, which the man is entitled to do if he makes such a judgment. If it's after several sexings, and no conversation about the relationship happens, then the dumped doesnt get to complain about being lied to because no lie was committed. There should never …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:28 PM
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Equality! But only when it benefits meeeeeee.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:57 AM
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The lines are kinda blurry, though. Kids should find some things out on their own, getting their hand held through everything will stymie self sufficiency. Also, having parents give dating advice to kids would play out terribly nowadays because the world changed so much. What parents should do is give their kids the building blocks to make healthy relationships and a strong moral foundation to make good decisions, so they can piece together healthy relationships. At the same time, if I had a chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:37 AM
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No, its just that her comment was kind of all over the place and I wanted the most important takeaways so I can address those. I didnt mean for it to come across as dismissive or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:01 PM
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If you were to break down your post in 4 sentences, what would those be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:57 PM
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Inceldom is a cultural failure just as much as a personal one. Men are defined by how much worth they bring to society, even in relationships. Those that dont conform to this are tossed aside at an early age, and are given fuck all in healthy alternatives. Nobody is willing to stick their neck out for young struggling boys, much less the men, so they find their own answers, and sometimes its a terrible echo chamber. These men are further stigmatized because they cant solve all their problems on …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:57 PM
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Easy for you to say, men are a lot easier to figure out. And it only seems simple to you because you're born with the whole toolkit. I think another issue is that men are a lot easier to satisfy comparatively, so dating can feel like a bad deal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:50 PM
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I remember a few days ago a story on reddit about sexual turnoffs. A couple were having sex, and the man said 'yeah, we're fuckin cause I bought your breakfast' and she was instantly turned off. While obviously this is sad and hilarious, men do not get turned on by acts of charity or what have you, so it kinda goes into the psyche of some men as women being money hungry or manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:06 PM
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So the only people who are worth anything in your eyes are the ones that directly benefit you and your worldview. Sounds like psychopathic thinking, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:45 PM
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I mean, you do hate men. You hate the majority of men, which makes you by definition a misandrist. You also treat the other gender as a consumable object as opposed to people with feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:39 PM
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In other words, pussy privelege supercedes misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:11 PM
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A rich man is not going to expect you to earn as much as he does. A rich woman will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:56 PM
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A rich woman will eventually turn on you if you arent matching her tempo. You're gonna be on the hook for her success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:20 PM
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The first part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:58 PM
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No. Why would I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:21 PM
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I think if men obeyed their true calling, like what they really want to do with their life and just followed that come hell or high water, they'd be better off with women in the long run. Just be brave enough to follow your own truth, my dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:33 AM
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Being the best gym rat and attracting the most fair maiden in the gym isnt the same as being the best D&D campaign writer you can be and attracting anyone who's interested in that. Just be the best at what you want to do, and women will eventually follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:19 AM
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Yeah, fuck the consequences. If you want to bend yourself to please others, then fucking bend. Those who dont, wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:17 AM
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Why am I personally responsible for some asshole in Oklahoma who sawed his wifes head off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:12 AM
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Why not? You're being the best you, any woman who doesnt want you isnt meant for you. Bending to what society wants you to do is the bitch way out. Be who you want to be, and make society bend to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:07 AM
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No, thats stupid. Be the best man you can be. Just be true to yourself, dog. Women arent worth the compromise. Listen to what you want to do, and success will eventually follow. Dont chase easier rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:44 AM
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The juke exists, yet the question remains. The impartial judicator of the discussion has revealed herself to HATE MEN. How do you plead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:45 AM
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Why is a moderator posting anti male opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:42 AM
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Semantics is not a crutch, the sentiment was essentially the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:39 PM
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You said women are stupid if the man isnt at least in line to be a millionaire. Not much of a stretch at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:22 PM
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Thats a slight stretch, but if making logic leaps helps you sleep at night, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:59 PM
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This is a hell of a stretch. There are about 5 more readily available conclusions you could draw other than 'man should court and pay'. If you want men to do all the work because it makes you feel good as a woman, just say so. Dont beat around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:56 PM
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Remember lads, if you arent on track to get rich, you're worthless. Who said true love doesnt exist anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:49 PM
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I mean you can still be involuntarily celibate in a marriage, so /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:45 PM
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Its about what the prospective pills want. Black pill wants to unveil the truth that they are hopeless, so they go to studies. Redpill wants to bang all the women, so they use field reports. Dont put too much stock into hard data that can be manipulated, and dont undersell personal experience. Both have separate uses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:00 AM
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Id chalk it up to those women being honest about what they want. I honestly dont even know which is worse anymore, honesty or platitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:31 AM
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The most sex positive discord I go to drops an 'abusive man is fine cause his dick is big' meme. The veil continues to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:12 AM
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I never expected a woman to do the majority of the chores, I always expected to do half, even cooking. Like, itd be cool if she just wanted to do all that and I didnt have to do anything special, but I sure as shit dont expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:47 PM
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You didnt ask him how he does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:21 PM
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Because women arent doing shit other than pointing their fingers and going reeeeeeee. They arent doing anything to actually help with any problems, just kinda pointing at holes in a sinking ship. Men are all alone with the logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:16 PM
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LOL, someone's got a question to answer when I get home
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 02:27 PM
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I could only imagine how many guys have been left or cheated on just because he's sporting an acorn. Oof, imagine getting laughed at when your naked body is revealed to a woman for the first time. That thought just creeped in, fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:19 AM
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Its not that they dont understand, its also that they dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:13 AM
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Yes, men usually enjoy conpliments. And when they dont have to initiate sex all the time. Groundbreaking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:06 AM
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This should be addressed with nuance, like if you feel your partner is showing signs of non trustworthiness, then you may have to do it. Instead, FDS cements its agenda yet again and just goes 'Snoop on EVERY man, trust your paranoia, you do nothing wrong, hahahaha men are stupid idiots'. When do we get to say this is female incel content already and get this trash off the site?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:53 PM
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You learn this by having sex with her. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:50 PM
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Its not like she didnt enjoy the sex as well. Why does sex have to have strings attached of lets be exclusive forever? Because she wants it to? Awfully entitled imo. You all act as if you're getting ripped off after a good time because you didnt get lifelong commitment and you never made your intentions clear. Sex is not a blood bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:48 PM
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Nah, self hatred isnt sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:20 AM
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All the talk about men only liking certain bodies is bunk. I'm personally into nearly every one in some capacity. As long as you dont let them sucker you into buying their drinks its not too bad, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:59 AM
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Its not for everyone, for sure. Im not into escorts and sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:51 AM
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Not if you're tipping for dances.. You're just for dipping your toes in the water anyway, who cares. Buy drinks if it makes you feel better. Actually, you should buy a drink or two. Maybe toss 10 dollars at the ladies. Whatever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:50 AM
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A good one is worth it. But honestly, just break a 20 into singles and be cheap if you need to be. Definitely beats a casino trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:27 AM
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I like the fun party vibe, and I like the gender script being flipped on its head, in short. Aside from the obvious of course. I can see why more well adjusted men might not be into it, but it suits me fine. Gender relationships arent this adversarial game in there, its just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:20 AM
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Lots of reasons. In short, they simply arent my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:10 AM
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Like 'there must be some dark secret as to why this man, who should have women at his beck and call, has nobody'. Most women dont put much thought into how diffuicult dating can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:50 AM
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Some people might find it funny, but as a guy who was pimping egalitarian relationships for the last couple of days, I used to really enjoy strip clubs. I think its the part that everything in the strip club is on the table when you pay for something, there's no sleazy manipulation like in a transactional relationship. Or at least its a lot easier to see through. A woman who says she loves you when all she loves is your money seems like the grossest thing on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:48 AM
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She probably decided you have skeletons in your closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:40 AM
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Your reddit dude has some nice eyeliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:53 AM
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And they want something as well. It isnt a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:51 AM
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I expect you to owe me your upvotes, because this is essentially my topic. It is a matter of principle, its what I want, and I dont expect many to fulfill it. But I dont think the prospect of women going dutch on the first date is that rare to begin with. Maybe its a local thing, but I havent had much issue with this, even if the women were just being polite. The point is, Im vetting for a life partner who will treat me as an equal, and I absolutely despise transactional relationships. So I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:49 AM
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Not nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:32 PM
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I never said I was expecting anything either. I expect shallow women to leave. This is by design. Shallow women have no value beyond their holes. They can piss off. I want a life partner, not a bill to be paid for the rest of my life. Women like you are not for me. Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:44 PM
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Then let him have it. I have no interest in shallow horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:36 PM
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Ok, let me say that I eventually do pay for outings, after we know and love each other. But she also pays sometimes as well. First date payment is not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:36 PM
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Which translates to buying your chicken salad after talking for 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:18 PM
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I'm not getting into a relationship who treats me like a blank checkbook, and Im not getting into a relationship where I need to give more to be seen as an equal. She can be unimpressed all she fuckin wants as she hits the bricks. You act as if men arent less desirable as they age as well. And you act as if there arent men of equal age still clamoring for relationships. You're looking at it as the only way a guy can care for you is if he buys you a chicken salad. As if your entire livelihood as …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:13 PM
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Why on earth is spending money on food impressive? It takes no effort to do, its just 20 extra dollars down the shitter. A guy who wants to use you for sex can just consider that a down payment. Paying for dates is a losers way to gain value. If a woman cant see your value by how alike you are, by your humor, your intelligence, then she isnt worth keeping around anyway. Viewing relationships as transactional and your body as a withering commodity is Mickey Mouse as fuck. Im glad to pass on those…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:58 PM
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Sounds like a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:47 PM
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Like two human beings treating each other like human beings, not ATM's or sex dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:40 PM
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Considering it self selects from people like yourself, Id call it a working strategy. You arent owed Jack Shit for being in my presence. Nobody is. Put yourself on a pedestal all you want, smart men will pass right on by
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:31 PM
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Oh, its a rich peoples club. That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:09 PM
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Women will say men paying for dinner is a great vetting standard, then expect the relationship to be purely egalitarian. I want an egalitarian relationship, so I expect an offer to split. I dont understand why people dont consider this more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:05 PM
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Lmao, what woman here has ever said 'go find love' as advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 07:12 PM
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Lmao yes it is. Its a societal, collective issue. Do you really think any problems women have is really 'my' problem? It absolutely isnt, but I still care for people to get treated with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:59 PM
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Testosterone is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:56 PM
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Just as intelligent as I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:55 PM
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Nothing ever is, is it? How convenient. Men dont hate women in a vacuum, its learned behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:53 PM
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Difficult to disprove something if men like that dont exist, isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:49 PM
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That doesnt have anything to do with the point OP was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:46 PM
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That discord server is Mickey Mouse as fuck. Y'all basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:53 PM
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I dont think listening to Tucker Carlson talk about Chris Chan would be considered art. And if it is, Im jumping off a god damned bridge. As a purveyor of Reddit, you of all people should know that not everyone is worth your time and respect. Just because a dipshit is on the television doesnt make him more worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:59 AM
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Remarkable, isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:06 AM
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Healthcare is a big issue, as well as a general lack of utter toxicity in the society. Canada didnt spend 95% of its history in war, it doesnt have the literal highest rate of incarceration in the world and it even legalized pot nationwide before we did. They didnt elect a Trump either. Granted, Canada has its problems. But from here they seem insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:14 AM
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Dont think people want to live in prison. Granted, if sexbots became a thing the whole situation might 180.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:54 AM
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It worked for me in a way. Got me to break out of my shell, take chances and gain new perspectives. It didnt do much after year 2, but I got worth out of it. But the thing you're supposed to do is pair SSRIs with therapy, which doctors will rarely tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:51 AM
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Depends on the mindset. Ive lived here forever, and been steeped in everything thats comoletely rotten in this country. And wow is there a lot of it. Beneath the river of gold is a lot of shit in the water. Like holy fuck where do I begin. But, it isnt India. That I'll grant it. Where do you hail from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:49 AM
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Just the sexual dynamics alone would rip us the fuck apart, imo. Men need that outlet, or at the very least a 'reasonable' chance to attain said outlet. Or else violence will simply be the norm. Togas would be pretty lit tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:42 AM
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But the issues would happen in different places, I.e. what jobs men are centered in and what jobs women are in. Just look at any statistic on how jobs are distributed on gender, and you can write your own science fiction novel on the effects of one gender disappearing. I'm not one to say that ' women need men for societeh', but I do think women would be a lot worse off. That being said, men would not survive for long in a healthy environment socially without women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:33 AM
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If you dont respect the person whose opinion you're listening to, why listen to what they're saying? News is a farce now. Not deserving of respect. Just ignore the horseshit, all mainstream news is lowest common denominator trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:30 AM
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Lmao they wouldnt even be able to maintain infrastructure. Society would collapsed just based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:27 AM
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OLD might be the cultural shift for women to start acting exclusively on these perfection parameters, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:57 PM
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100% this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:54 PM
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Leslie jones was the one who starred in that god awful ghostbusters movie. That is not your typical case. Also men can get thyroid disease, and they can also be prematurely bald, or short, or baby dicked. That aint exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:43 PM
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And yet all he needed to be an incredible god messiah was the exact same shit everyone else did that was unplugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:34 PM
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If you call a narcissist a narcissist, they arent going to get flush with shame. Thats the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:33 PM
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We are all works in process, not everyone can take life punches to the face and come out unscathed, regardless of what Apex fallacy yall work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:28 PM
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Ok but none of y'all are Neo. 'The One' would be someone who was chosen from birth to be amazing. So basically Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:10 PM
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Its definitely not limited to men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:09 PM
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Sounds like an assignment of emotional labor. But what else is there, i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:54 PM
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Where else are they going to vent? To their friends, whose respect they would lose? To their parents? To strangers? Not everyone can afford therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:07 PM
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Thats part of it, Im sure. The other part is the knee jerk visceral reaction to people who dont treat you well. Prejudice is a safety mechanism after all. Regardless of whether you are unattractive or just dont believe you are, you're going to look for evidence that confirms this and disregard evidence to the contrary, so every interaction will have a shade of malice. These findings dont surprise me one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:15 PM
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My original point was levied at the finger pointers and what their solutions were. If they have nothing to bring to the table, why listen to them at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:15 AM
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Nobody is going to stick around and be a father because of two months of paternity leave. If a mans gonna bail, he's gonna bail. I'm also not holding my breath for corporations as a whole to do anything that isnt immediately beneficial to them. Its an empty guesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:12 AM
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It'll never happen. Women dont seem to understand mens issues, and most dont want to. It'll continue to be a pointless dance of finger pointing and buzzwords, while that fantastic male suicide statistic gets higher and higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:06 AM
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Its not that strength is a bad thing, its the expectation that you have to be strong or else you're a useless piece of shit. Solve all your own problems, pick yourself up by the bootstraps and be all around amazing or go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:54 AM
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Thats not a societal message, thats throwing money at something. Its a benefit used to hire people. Also, 2 whole months with your kid is considered good.. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:50 AM
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So we tell men that the stereotype of having to be strong is bullshit, then tell them to solve all their problems on their own. Brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:39 AM
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So how is toxic masculinity being solved right now, other than pointing a finger at it, saying 'there it is' and giving a thumbs down sign? Is there anyone out there actually trying to help boys and men with this, or is it just another dumb witch hunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:27 AM
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I think we would be better off if people actually applied standards to our corporate overlords and didnt just mindlessly consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:39 PM
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Watch their 'do absolutely nothing to improve yourself and raise your standards way higher' work out absolutely stellar for that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:06 PM
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It was based on real life surveys. So i mean, you' re free to mistrust whatever you want I suppose. Fwiw it said that female friendships were also dropping, just not as much as males'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:18 PM
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Heard a podcast that said male friendships are rapidly falling, and that men rely on their spouse for emotional support. Religion falling by the wayside (no church) and increased work hours were two of the culprits. Men typically bonded around something to do, and there isnt enough time anymore to do things. On an unrelated note (I didnt want to do 2 posts), Im deciding that I shouldnt hate women for the advantages they receive, and in turn I cant hate myself for the advantages I get, because ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:10 PM
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So the claim is that if you're attractive you'll get approached, and if you arent approached dont bother? So if you're not attractive enough to get a woman to approach you, you should never have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:05 PM
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And yet the satisfaction gap remains. Regardless, I literally couldnt give two fucks about a man who cant get her girl to cum, or cant be arsed to try. They deserve their own misery. I also dont give a fuck about women who dont give two fucks about her mans satisfaction. Fair is fair, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:58 AM
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Then admit that your man is with you because he has no better options for his future. But hey, as long as you get what you want, what's the difference, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:38 AM
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Thats the point. Lets be upfront and honest about what relationships are really about. Lets just admit we dont give a frenchmans fuck about mens satisfaction as long as the relationship is stable. Lets just stop being pussies and lay our cards out on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:35 AM
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Fair is fair, is all. PIV is meant for breeding first and foremost, not for womens pleasure. So make up for the difference. That said, even that nowitshtanding, men can still be unsatisfied for the night even, regardless of if she's been satisfied. If sex becomes all about your pleasure, and the man just having sex is the reward, things can go sideways fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:33 AM
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If your man cant satisfy you orally, he deserves bis misfortune. How's that for compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:48 AM
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Being realistic is irrelevant. This is the point of the exercise. Your being sexually unsatisfied is what we're driving towards. Every relationship you enter will be lacking something. This something is a bargain you sacrifice to obtain a modicom of satisfaction. You will never be completely satisfied, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:17 AM
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And yet your man remains unsatisfied, for your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:13 AM
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And yet the term satisfied remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:01 AM
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So any man thats looking to avoid a transactional relationship shoudnt even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:41 AM
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So Ive posted this multiple timed with success; the statement that the majority of men are sexually unsatisfied. Lets take this one step further, and say that women are just fine with their men being sexually unsatisfied as long as they get what they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:33 AM
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Men can realize theyre losing in the game. Doesnt mean they have to play. Men dont choose to be under the sexual desires they are in. But they are, regardless of the facts of the 21st century universe. If the rules to the game are unfair, we should be allowed to say these rules are bullshit, and we want to play the game thats fair to everyone. Nobody should be happy to be subserviant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:48 PM
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Well, dont be surprised if a lot of men realize what a bad deal it is. Supply and demand is inherently unequal. Its full of winners and losers. A person should not be blamed of they realize they're truly getting a raw deal. If more men realized how their sexuality fucks them over in the long run, we'd get a glimpe of what actual equality looks like. But, as it stands, we're going to continue being apes doing whatevers best for us in the short term, so get your fill, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:10 PM
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I was thinking, the more you learn about somebody here personally, the more you get a glimpse of whats really going on. Nothing wrong with a circus as long as you know what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:05 PM
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The problem is women demand more transactions because of their place of privelege in the dating world, which isnt healthy whatsoever, regarldess of what the standard is. If a man has to give more than what the woman is sharing, he should be allowed to tell her to fuck off. Men require sex far more than women do, so they use that to their advantage. True egalitarianism is a relationship where both parties contribute equally, not one where one takes advantage of the other because of the conditions…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:53 PM
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She doesnt like coffee and hikes? Does she desire him to pay tribute by throwing money away on an ephemeral date? i'd say your man was doing right by weeding out all the women who want transactional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:20 PM
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Dont get me wrong, women can be great companions. Relationships have a lot to offer outside of sex. But the slow drying of the well is expected, and we just live with it. Or cheat. Some men cheat. I wouldnt, but thats how some men try to stay satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:04 PM
1

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:49 PM
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Most sex winds down because one party winds it down and the other tolerates it because of other factors in the relationship. This goes hand in hand with my statement earler this week about how most men are sexually unsatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:06 PM
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An introverted woman with a high libido is bordering on unicorn territory, and impossible to suss out until you're years into a relationship. Most women will bring the most sex at the beginning, and then tone it down to their choosing. Its easier to just find a woman who is upfront about their sexuality out the gate. An introverted woman is not going to let you know she's high libido, so she gets passed over. Nothing more logical than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:57 PM
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This is an odd point to make. Kinda skirts along a lot more pressing issues. At best, that phrase 'chasing all types of women' just means they get rejected by all types by swiping on tinder. Those 'other' girls arent really visible for men because they dont go to the bar scene, and they dont like cold approaches. These men are chasing high libido women, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Problem is, high libido women are AWALT as fuck. The 'other' women are much more likely to wind …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:36 PM
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With your committed love partner? You are boring. What is it about women that they just go nuts when theyre in hotel rooms? Is it the fact that you're paying for the damn things, so the thought of you spending money gets then extra horny? I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:46 PM
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You were in Vegas, didnt drink (much), didnt gamble and I'm assuming didnt bang prostitutes. Did you go see Penn and Teller? I think thats the one think in Vegas I'd do that wasn't debaucherous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:19 PM
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Ugh, Id be miserable if I had to gamble sober. Just watch all my money fritter away and get pissy about it? Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:09 PM
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I dont think anything in the world is more satisfying than listening to lesbian women bitch about how difficult/annoying it is to date other women. If it was a bath scent, I'd treat myselt to it once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:55 PM
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Is drinking a HVM hobby? Is it going to increase my value as a man if I get nice and tight by 4:00 PM?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:19 PM
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This has the feel of 'magical capitalism' to me, like we can will into creation solutions to all of our problems if we just had the motivation. I dont doubt marketing for 'better' contraceptives wont increase, cause thats what the system does best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:20 AM
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My point was more tied to the fact that teenage boys are going to be horny, not comparing to girls, and that because girls pick the higher status males for relationships and sex, of course its going to be inexonerably tied to status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:02 PM
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Arent you a woman? EDIT: I never clarified it was 16 year old boys. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:51 PM
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Dumbest thing Ive read today was that a 16 year old boy shouldnt be thinking about sex, and that it sex shouldnt be tied to status. My god damned sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:44 PM
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She said in her air conditioned room, surrounded by technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:42 PM
3

A good woman friend is a lot harder to come by, for sure. But there are women you can bullshit with, just hang with, etc. The emotional/physical parts can come eventually. But funnily enough, the more high value you are, the more non-shitty woman friends you can accumulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:00 PM
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So like how women treat the average dude. Actually that does make sense, jokes aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:38 PM
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A lot of guys need to work out issues, so it makes sense. At least it isnt a complete circlejerk here, there's plenty of misandrists too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:38 PM
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Now imagine someone on the internet telling you its your own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:07 AM
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Nobody. Hope you never miscarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:52 PM
1

This is why American culture is absolutely fucked. Because of people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:55 PM
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Oh jesus. What kind of proof could you even provide? Do you know how miscarriages work? Also, have you ever been poor before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:08 PM
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Right, it was the mother's fault all along. What a fuckin idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:45 PM
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What about style and physical appearance? Why do you suppose so many men dress like overgrown toddlers? Because they dont give a flying fuck about anything vain. A lot of the ones that do use it as a means to an end, aka getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:53 PM
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Those are both true and it isnt even paradoxical. Hint: women want both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:06 PM
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Well, yeah. If your body doesnt give me the lady quivers, then why the fuck should I treat you like a human being? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:51 AM
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When men give me things they are amazing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:46 AM
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It really isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:48 PM
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Common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:08 PM
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No, most men arent inherently killers or rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:59 PM
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And yet most men arent killers or rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:56 PM
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Because fit girl make peepee go up. Nobody said this was logical. Its pretty easy to just swipe away anyway, no real effort invested so might as well. Also, therapy costs money, Tinder does not. Again, it comes down to an allocation of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:45 PM
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I think a lot of men are seriously uninterested in fashion or looksmaxxing, or at least putting the time, energy and resources into it. So they'd rather find a relationship with someone who is willing to accept them for who they are as opposed to morphing into someone they're not and putting that effort in through the entire relationship. The bitterness is 100% a result of OLD though, and I really cant blame them. Bad form to put it on their profile, sure, but I doubt these guys have any sort of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:06 PM
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Again, misinterpreting what Ive been saying for your own arguments benefit. Y'all are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:35 PM
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I think the difference though is that its socially unacceptable to not try to understand women's fear. And I try to emphasize as much as possible, even if its never reciprocated. I just see zero effort on the other side of the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:48 PM
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You're asking a 'why doesnt somebody with crippling depression just do X', and regardless of what 'X' is, its not going to be helpful. Why dont women who are afraid of men just carry guns around?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:46 PM
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Well, suicide's a pretty big issue over here. Plus there's the whole incel thing, so..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:28 PM
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I understand why, but its intelectually dishonest to presume it. Especially on a forum where there's legitimately zero threat. The biggest problem is that it really shuts down a lot of conversation with men's issues. And guess what happens to a group of people hopped up on testosterone with no course of logic, reason and conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:20 PM
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There's a fine line between 'sexuality and aggression are interlinked for men' and 'heh heh heh we're all secret rapists, women. Keep your door locked, fuckers!'. Its a distinction I dont think many here really care to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:03 PM
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You still dont get it. Like I said, its obvious every time a woman opens her mouth on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:59 PM
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Well, just realize that no man chose to be this way, we just are. And it sucks a lot sometimes. But, I suppose the only answer we have to all of our problems is to ruthlessly self improve, so just know that a lot of us are trying our best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:57 AM
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Side comment, but since when does FDS talk about self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:40 AM
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They dont understand the concept of sexuality and aggression being fundamentally intertwined, and it shows every single time they have an opinion about male sexuality, without fucking fail. Whether its the desire to drill your partner through the mattress, or the burrowing malice of being a guy who just cant get his peepee touched, it exists as a product of testosterone. I dont really blame them, it must be a remarkably uncomfortable concept for a woman to internalize. But it makes a lot of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:34 AM
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You brush it off as if women dont say 'most men are absolutely unremarkable, they're just NPCs' like all the god damn time. Thats what Im saying it is for men, you're eother super attractive or just an unremarkable sexless blob.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:21 AM
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Things were a little different back in the day. The bar for men is raising at a phenomenal rate. And im not saying a man has to have bad genes; just normal ones. Women arent attracted to normal, they're physically attracted to truly exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:13 AM
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Women are only truly attracted to a very small percentage of men, and those men have biological advantages others don't. Maxing out attractiveness takes a lot of effort, for something most men arent even interested in, for very mediocre gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:51 AM
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Moderator of a 'dating advice' internet forum. Your story checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:18 AM
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Thats not what I meant by profit at all. By profit I meant getting an upper hand in the dating market. Force them to come to you. Make them pay for dates. Hey, they're the ones who need their dicks touched, not me. Might as well profit from it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:13 AM
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Thats what I meant. Some men just want to toss a Benjamin at someone to suck the poison out, as opposed to playing the whole song and dance normie women require.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:12 AM
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The fact is though you're not disgusted by the prostitute goer because its illegal, so its mostly irrelevant to the point anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:59 AM
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I was just throwing a goofy question into the wind, why you so mad tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:57 AM
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He means 'their' toll, the relationship hound's toll. 3 dates of being the performing monkey amd all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:56 AM
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Ok, every time, every time prostitution is brought up and it not being a feasible answer because its illegal that person gets laughed out the door because apparently its not really illegal, stop being a pussy. Shrodingers ho, legal when its convenient, illegal when it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:53 AM
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Aka you have a sexual burden that we don't, so we're going to profit off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:52 AM
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Can't answer question, must deflect to MAN BAD platitudes. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:50 AM
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So how is a woman not wanting to date a man who visited a prostitute different from a man mot wanting to date a woman with a high N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:02 AM
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What do you think causes these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:45 AM
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Id have something quippy to say, but honestly its just really sad. All of the little differences in how you're treated in life seem small, but they do add up. Having these differences being this subtle also make it hard to conceptualize why you're being treated as worth less than others just because of differences like gender, and sometimes it sucks. Love always seems transactional because you have to go so out of your way to earn the slightest affections.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:41 AM
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Let it drop, theres enough idiots here already.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:59 PM
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Why is this top comment? You would lump 3/4 of all husbands and fathers as a creep or an abuser? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:00 PM
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Everything that builds value for men is something they have to work towards; men dont hold any inherent value whatsoever. Nobody wants to be in a mans company unless he offers something of value to them, whereas people will willingly accept womens company because of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:23 PM
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No, I barely have energy to get up in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:25 PM
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In sort, become amazing, more attractive and have money, and you'll get sex and everyone will love you. Why didnt I think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:21 PM
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Ok, you just listed one 'And'. Men have to be able to flirt. And be attractive. And be confident. And be stylish. And have money. And make her laugh. And have social value. And read her signals. And and and and and. Women must be attractive. And thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:42 PM
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If you dont have proof you're just coasting on your fee fees. On an unrelated topic, I find it downright hilarious how right leaning media almost exclusively advertises its articles as opinion pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:59 PM
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Yes? Isnt that whats happening now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:57 PM
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Im not a woman, so I dont know if the urge for a man to pay for an extra 20 dollars everytime they go out to eat is the same as a man's raging libido. Maybe a lady can fill me in. I believe there's a lot of settling that goes on in low value couples, which means needs arent getting met somewhere down the line. Fair doesnt have much to do with it; life wasnt fair to a lot of the low value people to begin with. Just how the turkey tumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:48 PM
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Who's paying Reddit to promote a narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:41 PM
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The missing out thing is simply natural men biologially want multiple sex partners. It's more like a physiological response more than anything else. EDIT: lmao @ the responseless downvotes. Females shook
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:40 PM
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The whole dolling up argument is stupid anyway because its assuming that they dont receive any benefit from makeup whatsoever outside of getting meals paid, which is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:55 AM
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Never said that. I know Im an unappealing piece of worthless shit. What else do you want from me? If you dont want complaining, just mute them ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:00 PM
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'Men should just control their sexuality' is the dumbest point Ive seen here all week so far. Expecting to control every thirsty male out there, somehow, told by people who have no idea what testosterone is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:58 PM
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Fuckin deal with it. We arent a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:44 PM
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Something something apex fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:43 PM
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Dont think its reasonable to assign a duty to fix sexual activity of an entire gender, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:34 PM
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I think the only reason why hypergamy got associated with women is because the effect is so much more pronounced with them; sure, men want the best mate available too, but they dont have nearly as many demands or dealbreakers. Making it seem like an equal thing is kind of bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:05 PM
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So it's a vestigial concept by todays standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:42 PM
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Its not meant to be taken too literally, its just saying one person loves more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:10 PM
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'In all relationships, there is the lover and the loved.' How true do you find this? Which one are/were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:19 PM
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There's a difference between not outwardly displaying positivity and intentionally displaying disgust. Chalk it up to reputation management, but obviously its still toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:06 PM
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Exactly this. I was grown up to feel like a piece of shit for having sexual urges for most of my life, and now that Im in this relationship Im expected to just flip the switch and be some fully sexually realized being. Wtf. As usual though, this does not affect the most attractive males at all. Could be completely intentional, women keeping average and ugly men down even subconsciously to keep them from breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:37 AM
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Does anyone ever just pop off on someone's post for no real reason, and then cant delete it because you'd look even dumber if you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:51 AM
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Depends on the woman. I'd have zero issue believing some women would bold face lie to their SOs about it, but we're nitpicking at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:41 AM
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I love how this country's compassion for other people will literally only extend to how much of a perceived burden they are to society. Gee, now Im really motivated to serve the greater good now I've been told what a horrible piece of trash I am. Cant wait to bust my ass for all those people who cant stand to bear the sight of me. Im going into the coffin with a massive BMI and buried face down so y'all can kiss my ass. I wasnt put on this earth to be aesthetically pleasing to you or save you ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:33 AM
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You've never had extreme self hatred, have you? It may work in the short term, but there's no waybit would last.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:27 AM
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You know what, that is fair. It all depends if the man is trying to get inside the pants I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:26 AM
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You didnt read much of my post, did ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:14 PM
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Ok first off, this is statistics on some dumb game, not a real life thing lets establish that right off the bat. Second, there's a lot of different situations where men would lie more than women, and situations where women would lie more than men. N count, for instance? Id easily put $500 on a woman lying more in that situation than a man. Women here tend to lie when defending their gender, or they use 'exceptions to the rule' arguments which is I'll conceived at best and bad faith at worst. Con…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:55 PM
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Those are exceptions to the male rule, women altering themselves is the norm. Lets not be disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:01 PM
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I think the purpose of those campaigns is to curb both a pejorative populace that considers fat people sub human, and a fat persons inner monologue telling them they are worthless for being fat. I dont think the problem can be solved by telling fat people to stop heing lazy, or else this woulda worked 20 years ago when the problem was ramping up. We should probably move beyond fit people jerking themselves off over how much more fit they are than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:42 PM
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Lmao, probably one of the worst subs to put this in. All love discussed here is purely transactional. Good effort tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:20 PM
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Yay lets endorse mass genocide, fun times
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:49 AM
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I never said that? You said that and I never directly refuted you. Just admit that y'all are a bunch of losers and I'll be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:47 AM
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Which, chief among them, is what men do with their bodies and what they call themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:30 AM
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And people who make groups based on qualities that they were given at birth are still losers who uave nothing better going on in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:24 AM
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Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:53 AM
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Dunno, but not enough to make it an even 50/50. Not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:43 AM
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Imagine being so homophobic you cant even date women out of fear that they might be a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:36 AM
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...no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:34 AM
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There are way more women interested in fashion than men and its not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:33 AM
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The point is they're wrapping their identity in factors that were bestowed upon them at birth, making them losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:31 AM
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Infiltrators, lmao. Buncha losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:43 AM
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Yeah, maintaining gender purity sounds super important. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:39 AM
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Oh, thats fucking stupid then. If the most important part about you as a person is the shit between your knees, then why should anyone value your opinion about anything that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:36 AM
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Because male fashion is dumb, uninteresting foppery, and the only ones interested in it onlu care about the rewards society gives them for doing so. A lot of men are bitter that they're now expected to devote time, energy and most importantly money into something they have zero interest in. As for your last point, the wheels of the body positivity thing where in motion long before the pandemic. I remember fat mannequins being a thing for at least 3 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:08 AM
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My question is, why do radfems think its so important to be naturally born a woman? What are they trying to protect? How does a fraction of a percent of men who get a sex change affect their lives in any way whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 12:01 AM
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If anything, having fewer options should have made it easier for you to be attracted to more average guys, but I suppose women dont work that way. I have a feeling thats why Im way more lenient on looks than other men. If it makes you feel any better, the majority of women are not attracted to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:37 PM
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Lmao he's still butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:13 PM
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Unless its online, I still seriously doubt men talk to you like that. Either that or you live in a really shitty place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:37 PM
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I highly, highly doubt most men youve talked to told you they were attracted to 12 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:33 PM
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So enforcing gender roles for your husband is not an issue, since youll never be subject to them yourself. Sweet deal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:16 PM
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Lol ok, how do you figure Im one of those? I really would like to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:02 PM
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You said you're not a housewife and you prefer to work. You'd eventually build resentment if you were forced into a SAHM role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:01 PM
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Well, another reason I dont want kids is for the burden it places on your lifestyle, so you got the responsibility part right. I dont know how not wanting to raise a kid here makes me a coward, though. Odd insult. And nobody has control over their environment unless they move the fuck away. Kids certainly dont have that control. Why would I want children in a place that breeds narcissists and psychopaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:59 PM
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Sounds like living as literally every dude. The sheer agony.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:55 PM
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