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Because I want to have sex with the willing partner I have, and some uneducated old men who can't even get their dicks up anymore shouldn't be banning a form healthcare used by sexually active women. These retards don't even know what an ectopic pregnancy is and how it's handled. I'd be scared for my life if I was trying for a baby with my husband in one of those places that ban abortion. Marriage is not a replacement for healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:40 PM
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They do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:17 PM
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Women don't drink if they actually want to have the child. They drink when they don't want it but aren't able to get rid of it. And that's 100% ok. Don't want messed up babies who suffer and suck up tax dollars? Don't force women to carry them against their will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:48 PM
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They're just stating the logical consequence of practicing abstinence. Less single women, girlfriends and wives having sex = less single men, boyfriends and husbands having sex. Nothing is expected of men, except maybe less whining about sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:23 PM
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It's not about men. It's about not getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:06 PM
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One kind of partner for sex and dating. A superior partner to reproduce with and marry. Isn't that how men do it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:05 PM
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He was my online boyfriend. We were exclusive and I didn't consider him a stranger although we met irl for the first time that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:12 PM
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A 180 degree sauna just feels better. And you don't have to wear sweaty clothes in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:08 PM
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It's the same women who post them while not in a relationship. They like the attention and you as the man don't factor into it. Don't want to deal with that? Don't date a thot because your dick told you it would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:09 PM
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It's a great way. Realistically, men don't ask you to be their gf unless they mean it. No matter what they say on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:06 AM
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You don't know what the word means? It means a monogamous relationship. The kind where both intend to stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:44 AM
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A guy catches feelings and wants to keep a girl so he seeks commitment with her before some other guy does. It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:02 PM
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I don't say that. PPD men call him that whenever I say that he's had no problems getting laid and that I crave sex with him and no one else. Either many of us women are able to get commitment from a Chad, or many of us are sexually attracted to non-Chads. Neither fits in with the RP idea that women are trying to get commitment from a Chad but never succeed because men prefer casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:27 PM
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I am. That's why I like reading the fantasy romance shit women write for women. Men don't wield that kind of power irl, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:16 PM
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One tastes good and one doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:58 PM
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Seems like a nice guy but not someone who would be a match for me because we have nothing in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:55 PM
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The problem we are facing today is now that men and women are somewhat equal. Which clashes with our innate hierarchical behavior described above. False. A man who is better at one thing and worse at another thing is your equal, which satisfies all of these conditions. Men want someone lesser in some way. Women want someone greater in some way. If you ask most young men and women today if they are ok being equal. They will say yes. It's faulty logic to think that because a person is superior in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:00 PM
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Again, it's bad dating advice to tell to a child, because it normalizes harassment and abuse. Males are the opposite sex for me, which is what the topic of this discussion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:07 AM
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I understand why a child might do that to get attention. What I don't understand is adults basically telling me to expect that males will bully me when they are into me. Like it's something I should just accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:19 PM
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I don't think about them just like I don't think about the women in LTRs who never get head and/or never orgasm. Pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:45 PM
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I was told if a boy teases or bullies me he probably likes me. I was like ok, and? Sucks to be him if that's the case because a mean person will get nothing from me. It's bad advice for girls because it normalizes harassment and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:17 PM
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I don't even have to meet men irl to know some of them have poor hygiene. One PPD regular tried to defend not washing at least his ass/armpits everyday by saying he doesn't have a "sweating problem". You know what that tells me? He doesn't wash his piss-soaked dick either and who the hell wants to suck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:54 AM
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Of course I would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:03 PM
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This may be a gender bias thing because men are less often in customer service positions where they are being monitored. I can't just whip out my phone if I have a customer in front of me and the next one is sitting behind him/her looking in my general direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:51 AM
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Same. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:34 AM
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Women will stop withholding sex when sex stops being an event that triggers a man to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:31 PM
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His dick game must be heavenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:04 PM
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The people having kids they don't raise are the selfish ones. Not using birth control, not aborting, not getting married so they have a safety net in case they end up wanting to or being forced to keep it. They should pressure irresponsible men and women to keep their kid instead of telling stable people who played by every rule to fix other people's mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:26 PM
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It would be flattering to be chosen by man A but the truth is he would only be choosing me for now. Those are the same men who are parroting "Everyone's replaceable" in this thread and who are divorced or dating their 10th girlfriend. So I'd choose B. My man is not replaceable at all. If I lost him my life would never be the same. It feels nice to put each other on a pedestal and simp for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:26 AM
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Here sex is either included as just another bodily function and thus no worries if you lose your virginity at 14 Some of my friends in high school were having sex at 13 and some didn't start until they were 19. In a way it's like a handshake. You can do it with friends or strangers buy generally you don't really want to do it with someone you don't respect. If you do it with someone you care about it's more intimate, like holding hands. Some people are combative and turn it into arm wrestling an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:18 PM
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Why not just stay there and talk? Introduce yourself and find something to talk about? I dislike the idea of waiting for a stranger to call me when I'm probably busy just to say what he could have said face to face when I wasn't busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:42 PM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:28 AM
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He doesn't have tantrums, sulk or blame other people for his problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:23 AM
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If your boyfriend doesn't simp for you, you'd be entirely reasonable in asking why and considering it a red flag. Fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:19 AM
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Men will leave a campsite better than they found it but not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:34 PM
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Is one of them well groomed and the other one not? I wouldn't wear 11 cm heels with a guy who didn't brush his hair and trim his beard and wear nice clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:50 PM
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They like a girl with attitude who holds her tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:41 PM
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The curly ones. In three colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:40 PM
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Please tell me that's not a true story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:37 PM
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"You should see what I look like after oral."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:24 AM
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Incel could be a murderer who resents me for some twisted reason so I'd rather have an onlyfans thot for a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:17 AM
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I'm thinking there is a causal link between mothers who have mood disorders and baby daddy not living in the same household.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:06 AM
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Should their ex just drive around the baby and wait for it do its own grocery shopping? Or what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:18 AM
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Of course it exists. There are descriptions of love in every culture and art form. The people saying it doesn't exist are trying to rationalize to themselves that they aren't worse off for never having felt it when other people around the world seemingly have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:42 PM
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Lifting is a lot of effort. Get her to do something passive, like cycling to places. Nerds will like something low effort. Also go for a girl with married parents. Growing up with their dad in the house means they are more likely to value stability and not see guys as replaceable. Otherwise a decent plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:37 PM
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BMI 24.2. I have some belly and ass and a G cup size. Small ribcage and waist, wide(ish) hips. I lack the motivation to look athletic because getting pregnant would waste months of effort and I'd have to do it all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:00 AM
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My husband is the first person I share any feelings with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:24 PM
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The birth rates are going down so anyone who would like to have kids should be free to do so if they have a willing partner or can afford to go the solo route.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:41 AM
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Of course. I wouldn't be with someone if I thought it wasn't going to last. I can't tell what might happen in the future, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:37 AM
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We have no car. We also don't own a house or have our own yard or garden. The janitor fixes things in our rental apartment for free, although I would rather swap a light bulb myself because it's faster. I kill the bugs and take most of the trash. I take my scooter to the repair shop. He fixes my pc once every couple of years and I repair his clothes equally as often. He handles the drains and sinks when they clog and I scrub the bathroom and toilet. He usually cleans the microwave, I usually cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:03 AM
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Single motherhood. Chronic physical or mental illness. Obesity. Substance addiction. Evidence of financial irresponsibility. Or just being too old. Why would you start dating someone who you know isn't good enough? You can tell when someone is fat or old or has kids. If you knowingly waste 24 years of your life on short term material, that doesn't mean suitable wives don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:34 AM
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Why should women compensate men for men's own past choices, when they could just leave those men alone and date someone who will do his share?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:09 PM
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magically wind up wanting to marry men who make far more money Try again. I don't care about his money as long as he has a job that pays half the bills. Sorry bud, women have jobs these days and dating/marrying some useless cunt with a good salary just doesn't cut it anymore. Why force yourself to date a woman who is working in a low wage job if you don't like the result of that choice? Get a housewife if you're traditional or a higher earning wife if you're egalitarian. Trying to convince women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:55 PM
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Are women forced to stop certain medications like valproate, methotrexate or warfarin if they become pregnant and it's illegal to get an abortion? It would be unethical to force women to stop treating their medical conditions because another person is using her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:59 PM
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So many men voicing their preference for dead bedrooms. It's odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:42 PM
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I met my husband online and he didn't move in with me until a year later. We only had 3 visits during that year. I wouldn't have what I have if I had shared your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:30 PM
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1.)Why would she want to be with a loser who gets no girls but her lol? He’s only “waiting” because he has no options. If that’s winning then ok then. Why would she care about his sex life as a single guy if he's treating her exactly how she wants and she finds him attractive? Women don't gaf about a guy's conquests lol 2.)Hes not necessarily spending most of his time with her. She’s just in the rotation, or talking. You keep those girls on the back burner If he isn't spending most of his time w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:16 PM
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Yes. If she has a "no sex whilst single" lifestyle and meets a cute guy who likes talking to her and flirting with her and taking her out on dates, what's the issue? She is spending time with a guy she likes and not having sex with him, which is exactly what she wants. Maybe more than one guy. If other girls are fucking him but he still wants to give most of his time and attention to the girl he isn't fucking, that's a pretty clear sign he likes her. If he doesn't like her but for some reason wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:01 PM
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What's the problem with either of those options?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:22 PM
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Foreign woman here, we don't care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:11 AM
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The context in this comment chain is waiting until marriage. Gecko is not right in saying that men will "wait" until marriage by fucking other women on the side. There is that point when you are first officially gf and bf, then engaged to be married, when men don't bang anyone on the side. Who cares what men do when they are still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:02 AM
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How were you mislead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:30 AM
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Doubt it. I asked the men here if they have ever cheated on a girlfriend who wasn't ready for sex and no one admitted to doing it. They told me it happens before you become a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:28 AM
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When you're lurking in the corner waiting for my husband to go to the men's room and as soon as he leaves you start slithering towards me. It's pathetic. Also if you physically hold me in place or prevent me from moving past you or away from you, that doesn't mean I find you attractive. Like when someone is sitting next to me on the aisle seat and I can't get past their fat ass. I think alpha men can probably get attention in other ways than literally trapping women but I thought I'd mention it …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:11 PM
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Kevin who?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:56 PM
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I notice men who show their affection and attraction towards me. I get aroused with a man whom I've noticed and gotten to know if he talks and acts in a sexual way and tells me I'm hot. He needs to not be ugly for this to work. I want to have sex with a man who arouses me and whom I trust and can be vulnerable with. I'll actually have sex with a man I want to have sex with if we are in a monogamous relationship with long term plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:04 PM
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I'm getting what I want so idc. But since he admits to lying all those times he said I have a sexy body, he shouldn't get jealous if I go find that validation elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:31 AM
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Depends on what the second date is. If he suggests an expensive restaurant for the second date, I'd probably ask if he intends to pay or split so there are no surprises. There are plenty of guys who simply shrug it off as a silly thing that you offer to pay. If I'm dating men, plural, those ones stand out. So it's not an expectation, it's just having options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:18 PM
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Hormonal birth control when used properly is 100% effective. No it isn't. I know it's difficult to get an education in some parts of the world, but sex ed is free and available online. it's still a tragedy because someone is still dying. How does this "tragedy" play out in real life? When your gf has a late period because of a short pregnancy that ends spontaneously, do you 1) bury her pads and have a funeral, 2) find the lumps and clots in her pads and bury those or 3) leave the fetus in the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:59 PM
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I'd save the worker performing his duties over the 5 idiots who are not useful. If I know any of them are bad people? Let them die. If I know anyone personally and they are important to me? Save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:32 PM
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I'm still laughing at the forceps thing. Like sweetie, it's the size of a grain of rice. You're going to need tweezers if that's the route you want to take. Messier than necessary if you ask me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:32 AM
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Forceps? Lol. Most abortions are taking a pill and getting a period that's more or less indistinguishable from your usual ones. Unless you make abortions difficult to access so the fetus has weeks and weeks more of growth, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:15 AM
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Clubs have a better sound system than I do and if I'm being honest better music than what my friends want to listen to at a house party. Better drinks too, fast food places nearby and no cleanup afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:46 AM
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If it's a deal breaker it absolutely does make sense. Outsiders can act like they know what's important and what's not in every relationship but ultimately they know nothing about someone's life and it's none of their business. And nothing prevents you from looking for an ideal mate first and lowering your standards later if focusing on the niche community doesn't lead to a satisfactory result.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:06 PM
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You can argue that the additional length of time it took to find a partner who has a monitor lizard as a pet is unjustifiably long and she did more harm than good for her dating prospects, even if she eventually did find someone who met all her standards. The beauty of the internet is that she can get in touch with other lizard people the very same day she figures out that's important to her. She doesn't have to go through thousands of random Tinder profiles to find the few people who own one. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:51 PM
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Doctors take an oath to preserve and promote health. They are not going to maim healthy individuals by removing functioning organs just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:15 PM
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Instead of enjoying a healthy sex life with my husband, I would have to stop after we're done having kids. Dead bedroom is the only 100% effective method of contraception within marriage and it's been used around the world throughout history. It wouldn't have affected my single life because I was already making sure the men who weren't dating me wouldn't get to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:03 AM
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Some fun facts: not all STDs can be routinely tested in men and it's possible to get an STD even if you wrap up. I don't actually think you "deserve" it and it doesn't make me happy like your edit suggests, but it highlights that there are gaps in sexual education. It's pretty normal to be blindsided by something you were not properly warned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:51 AM
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It means that person is an asshole and you shouldn't have them in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:36 AM
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one of my girls I mean... That's an expected outcome of this lifestyle, no? Chlamydia is not resistant to antibiotics to the same extent as gonorrhea is so you will be fine. You should let all your partners know because it can cause fertility problems when left untreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:32 AM
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What's your position in this situation? You would be the cuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:34 AM
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English helps me participate in PPD... 🙃 Well it got me a cutie from Scotland too. I'll try. Sä näytät hyvältä, haluutko jutella mun kans?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:33 AM
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It's relative. I usually only get hit on when my husband isn't there, but on the other hand my husband is usually always there. I haven't gone out with just my girlfriends at night since covid19 started. Now tends to happen at work but the customers are mostly 70+ so it's kind of sad. They're lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:21 PM
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But just for the sake of discussion, let's say you're right, the real issue is going out. What's that guy supposed to do? Use his brain and not date a girl who likes going to bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:27 PM
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Both people have to recognize when they're wrong and apologize for it. The flipside of this is forgiveness. Choose your battles wisely. Money, chores and childcare duties don't have to be the hill to die on if you let go of unnecessary principles and standards of perfection and learn to compromise. The socks aren't in the hamper, and so what? Is it worth looking the love of your life in the eyes and talking to him with bitterness and anger? Respect is necessary. Both should respect each other as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:20 PM
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I'm implying women can only beat male individuals under the age of 16 in a physical fight. You are correct in saying that "women wouldn't want a guy that they think they can beat in a physical fight" since those guys are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:13 PM
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Most women wouldn't want to date children, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:32 AM
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If you aren't treating them very platonically ( no hugs no even minimal flirting) it's probable that you know that you're leading them on a little. Funny thing I remembered reading this. I was leaving a friend's place with my husband and a friend of his was leaving at the same time. I hugged my (female) friend and the guy leaving with us literally asked me "where's my hug" even though 1) we're not close at all and 2) he knows 100% that I'm not single. Guys do this to themselves and it's cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:20 AM
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It usually bothers me when someone asks a Q4W, the women answer, the answers aren't what the asker expected then the women are accused of being dishonest. That annoys the shit out of me. But in this instance I can say with almost 87% certitude that the women denying having back up men are lying their asses off. Lol 🐹
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:08 PM
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Case in point for why it's a bad idea to date someone whose parents aren't married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:47 PM
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Tut-tut 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:26 PM
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And act on it by talking to the person excessively, open up about intimate things and possibly flirt, share nudes, go on dates, sext or talk about leaving your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:13 PM
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He was just a boyfriend. She shouldn't have had kids with a guy who is just a boyfriend, although kids of rich people are less likely to have their lives negatively impacted by a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:11 PM
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Sure, as soon as they ask. "By the way I'd never date you under any circumstances" is a rude thing to say out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:56 PM
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I have no male friends or acquaintances I'd be willing to date and I don't know or care how many of them have feelings for me at this point in time. Hopefully none of them because it would be really sad if they were still crushing on someone who hasn't been single for 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:41 PM
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It’s like being an employer and having someone willing to work for free with the hopes that they’ll one day get officially hired. Most people don't do free work for a company and expect a work contract to fall into their lap. They make a formal application and wait for a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:37 PM
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it also seems very arrogant to assume they’re attracted to you and to shoot them down when it wasn’t even prompted and you can’t be positive they’re attracted to you if they never explicitly stated. This is why I've never said anything. I'm not going to go digging for feelings that may not be there when I don't want them to exist in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:30 PM
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Small dick guys could figure out which weird fetishes they are ok with and find a woman who is into something like that. Maybe she won't mind the small dick if he puts on a dog mask and does what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:58 PM
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I'm pretty sure the Plymouth shooter commented here but it's hard to check since he is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:26 PM
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how is it that PPD women defend the strategy of withholding sex and ensuring 100% commitment to a relationship when the majority polled did not do this? You didn't ask how many men the respondents fucked before getting into their current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:55 AM
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It's not my place to tell my niece when to have sex. If she wants casual sex then she can have it whenever. Losing your virginity to someone you love who also loves you is better though. Being comfortable having sex and having religious considerations are some of the reasons why people wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:31 AM
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There are adults who wait all the way until marriage both in the US and around the world. You'll probably find them outside of trailer parks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:57 AM
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I kind of suspected no one does it, which is why waiting for a relationship a good idea. If a guy wants to commit to you instead of a woman he is fucking, he clearly appreciates more about you than just pussy. If he doesn't want to commit, someone else who likes you more will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:45 AM
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I'm just cautious by nature I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:16 PM
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I don't see a problem with him being single and acting like it when she is probably acting single as well and talking to multiple men. If he is taking a woman out on dates, acting in love and ultimately stops having sex with other women because he wants this one to be his gf, I'd rather be that gf who waited for exclusivity than the woman who got sex and nothing else from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:12 PM
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Q4M did you ever get in a relationship with a girl before having sex with her and cheated on her while waiting for her to be ready? I mean a monogamous exclusive adult relationship, not a plate you were warming up or a girl you were "talking to". I'm just wondering if it ever happens that men get sex elsewhere while they wait or if it's just talk. Those who said yes, did you dump her after getting sex, continue to cheat on her or become faithful to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:30 PM
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Yes, but only if it was like one time or a few times. Sometimes a guy can have a girl throwing herself at him and taking an opportunity doesn't mean he makes casual sex the main focus of his life. It would be much worse to date someone who thinks about sex day and night and is bitter about not getting it. No to using prostitutes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:59 PM
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I will only feel comfortable enough to enjoy sex if I know we're monogamous Just say that and also that you need a strong emotional connection for sex even if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:51 PM
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After of course. We were in love and spoke about the possibility of moving in together before we had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:48 PM
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The irony is that if the guy has plenty of options on rotation then making him wait does nothing to gauge for interest. He won't feel that time at all because he can easily distract himself by sleeping with other women during your however long probationary period. Nothing? So you're telling me... A woman can have a guy she is not sleeping with take her on dates, buy her gifts, spend hours on the phone talking or texting about romantic things, travel to meet her, tell her about his feelings and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:47 PM
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You didn't refer to her as your wife which tells me it isn't a worthwhile investment to focus on guys who are willing to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:25 PM
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I like how guys in the replies say it's a bad strategy because it weeds out the men with options who don't care about the woman in question, as if that isn't the entire point of making men wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:14 AM
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Not deformed, not morbidly obese and not a skinny little boy body. And no weird lumpy steroid muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:02 PM
1

Can't really describe it because it varies too much. Being playful, caring and confident helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:00 PM
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Personal skills like being able to play an instrument at a high skill level. Reputation among friends, family and social circles. Professional achievements and reputation. Being known locally, on a national level or internationally. Competitive or leadership roles somewhere, like sports or hobby groups. Community service, such as training a kids' football team. Pretty much anything that earns you respect. It can overlap with making money but it doesn't always.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:49 PM
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Definitely. For personality, I have to like spending time with him and he has to continuously demonstrate that he cares about me. For looks, I don't want to be repulsed by his touch and he has to be able to turn me on, although some of it is about personality. The minimum financially is him paying his half of the bills so I'm not supporting him (short term money problems are fine) and no gambling. As for status, he has to be able to make friends and can't have a negative reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:37 PM
1

A lot of failed relationships is worse than a couple of casual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:25 AM
3

Hmmm. 15
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:11 AM
1

I like big men who can give bear hugs. Wide shoulders, big chest, thick arms and big hands. Not into skinny boys, roid bodies and fat men with no muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:04 AM
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Personality > looks > status > money. I'll date men with a good/compatible personality who are decent in at least 2 out of the 3 other categories. I won't date someone with good looks, status and money who has an awful or incompatible personality. That might be a problem some seemingly good men face in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:52 AM
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if the sex was good the guy would stick around For the sex. We're figuring out if he's going to stick around for the other qualities first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:49 AM
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most women withhold sex when dating a guy is going to meet a beautiful woman with a great personality who he enjoys spending time with Are you talking about going on dates, meeting up and spending time with someone? You’re intentionally blocking of a portion of the relationship you’re intentionally stifling the romantic part of a romantic relationship Or are you talking about a bf/gf couple who are in a monogamous relationship? There is no such thing as "withholding" sex from someone who is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:45 AM
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I would tell him and and ask him if he wanted to get married and keep it, or get rid of it. I wouldn't tell my family about a pregnancy I wasn't going to keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:15 AM
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They're with a woman? Then they are available to women at some point in their youth. Somehow you failed to include that in your scenario even though marriage with an average or above average man is quite a common thing for women. Trying to convince women that settling for a loser is the only way to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:21 PM
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And what happened to the above average men who aren't CEOs with concubines? Did their dicks fall off or something or why aren't they available?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:13 AM
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OP described "high value" men as cheaters so the men he thinks are "low value" are the other 90% including the men who don't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:07 AM
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It's what it means. He thinks low value guys = guys who aren't CEOs with concubines.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:21 PM
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Go to your numbered list and swap every usage of "high value" with "low value" and vice versa. If you are unsure what pick me, HVM and LVM mean, you could read FDS to gain a better understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:15 PM
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Yes there is. A high value man is valued by women. A low value man is not valued by women. Either you are clueless about what women value or you are using the terms incorrectly on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:57 PM
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Can I ask why you are using the terms "high value" and "low value" incorrectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:52 PM
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4) I'll just marry the 89th percentile "low value" guy who enjoys life and wants to share its pleasures with me. Apparently losing my self respect entails not tolerating a cheating "high value" scumbag, so I guess I'll just spend my days with a loving husband and beautiful children. How terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:46 PM
1

I'd prefer an all natural man but if it looked so realistic I couldn't tell then I guess it doesn't really matter. It's pretty common to have fake hair these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:33 PM
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I changed my mind on the topic of paper abortion after someone brought up that women can abandon a newborn baby and not be financially responsible for it (safe haven). If women can do it, men should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:17 AM
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I expect to get fingered and be given oral. I'll do whatever he wants in return. In general, making sex appealing for your partner is a pretty easy way to prevent a dead bedroom. A decrease is fine but as the high libido person I will say that if he's too tired for sex, he's also too tired to masturbate. Sex should be the priority, otherwise there is no point in being together with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:07 AM
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It was Indian food and the staples were inside a piece of meat. 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:29 PM
2

All of that is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:14 PM
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My takeaway had two staples in it. Well, I hope there were two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:05 PM
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It's hard to believe there are relationships where the man licks pussy every week and never gets a blow job. If the woman's enthusiasm for oral dies, I would bet money that she was getting it less frequently than him for a long time or never got any at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:37 PM
1

You say "my girl". Were you her boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:12 PM
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talking to a random woman saying “hi how are you, i think you’re attractive, would you like to get to know each other?” What is supposed to be appealing about this? I don't want to get to know some random guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:22 PM
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And millions before puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:17 PM
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That's alright. I was describing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:09 PM
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Too bad narcissistic assholes are also attracted to the status those professions bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:57 PM
2

after an incident of social exclusion or rejection a woman will seek out an opportunity to exclude or reject someone else This would probably be her breaking things off with the fwb or rejecting the next guy who makes a move. Agreeing to go on a date would be the opposite of rejection. I haven't gone on a date knowing I want nothing to do with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:32 PM
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You didn't address mine. If he doesn't know if it would hurt her, he should ask. Not caring about whether or not he is hurting her would make him an awful partner, which goes against what you described in the post: "everything is perfect". She doesn't choose to be lied to. He chooses. Why? Being made fun of doesn't explain why he is lying when there are other alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:47 AM
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Sometimes the cheating guy executes it perfectly and doesn't get a reputation for being a cheater. Sometimes the high n girl leaves no trace of having had sex and her reputation as a low n princess remains intact while she enjoys being treated to dates and romantic gestures for a year. You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:15 PM
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Yup, which is why getting fucked isn't flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:59 PM
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Can men determine if a woman is marriage material within 3 dates? Why would I have sex with them before that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:58 PM
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then it would hurt him too, no? No. He is being told the truth about past partners so he can take it or leave it. She is not being told the truth about current partners so she can't take it or leave it. It's inconsistent that he can choose to not be treated like a fool and she can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:17 AM
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I agree about the hyphenated names because jfc there is no logic to them. Just pick one. As for which name to pick, it's simple. What last name will the kids have? Choose that as your family's last name. Not having kids? Then your family ends with you and it doesn't matter which name you die with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:09 PM
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Background has nothing to do with respecting her boundaries. If he doesn't know if it would hurt her, he should ask. Not caring about whether or not he is hurting her would make him an awful partner, which goes against what you described in the post: "everything is perfect". Only the couple, both partners, can decide together if sleeping with others is acceptable. Cheating is not okay, because if both people find it acceptable it's called having an open relationship, not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:55 PM
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They make it really easy to avoid them, don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:30 PM
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She's just doing what he is doing. Fair is fair. If he isn't dating anyone else then he should take the lead and suggest that they focus on getting to know each other. Women are into assertive men, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:29 PM
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So you admit cheating hurts her. Telling her about things she doesn't dislike isn't hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:27 PM
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You didn't explain why the guy would need to hide it from her. Couples have their own little secret arrangements all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:23 PM
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her boundaries are respected Of course in most cases, the men have to cheat properly and make sure they're not caught. If her boundaries are respected, there's no need for him to make sure he's not caught. Having to hide it means he is not respecting her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:30 AM
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Random matchmaking put us in the same group more than once in a game and we started chatting. We both caught feelings before we had seen each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:22 AM
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Women don't need to ask men out to get laid. We just need to pick one or more out of the pool of guys who are asking us out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:29 AM
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I caught feelings for a guy I hadn't even seen if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:26 AM
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By choosing one or more of the guys asking you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:12 AM
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I want just the one sexual partner and life partner, and also a father for my kids. One sexual partner for the satisfaction and one life partner because I always thought it was the best and most meaningful way to life my life. And half of a father isn't good enough for my future kids. They deserve someone who isn't absent from their daily lives. Is it some guarantee that you won't be abandoned? No. If I do get abandoned, then he has to look for someone new and I have to look for someone new. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:44 AM
2

"Just don't have sex with your husband."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:58 AM
1

18
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 05:57 PM
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I'm interested in hearing more about this since I have no personal experience. Is it their temperament or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 05:37 PM
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That is a great way to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:17 PM
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Ok, go turn it up with your friends back at the house, you don't need the club for that. The neighbours complain about the noise after 10 pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:03 AM
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The pump is the sex act, and the dump is the absence of a subsequent relationship. If the decision is "relationship," then congrats, you have a bf. If it's "no relationship," then congrats you got pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:53 AM
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Yup. If she changes her mind mid thrust, she needs to verbalize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:35 PM
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Ok so we started with "she should keep her legs closed," now the solution is to meet his friends and family and go official on Facebook? We started with how to avoid getting pumped and dumped, which is pretty simple and fully in her control. The other solution is for avoiding being dumped when you are in a new relationship, a situation in which nothing is guaranteed. It's not my problem if you can't tell the difference. you are completely ignoring that loving relationships are hard to come by I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:26 PM
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What advice would you give a woman who "got" exclusivity by having the talk, had sex, and then the relationship was over weeks later? What should she do next time? She should get to know him longer before sex, meet his friends/family, make the relationship public on social media, look for passion and romantic gestures, only have sex with him if he is in love, pull away from a guy who is lukewarm and unsure and stop ignoring and forgiving red flags. A man who is head over heels will make it known…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:11 PM
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I am 24 and he is 32. 🤡 On our first date we were both very drunk. He was blackout (though i could not tell this, he is an insanely put together drunk. ) I went back to his place and during sex he persistently asked to do anal 🤡 anyways i said no probably 5-6 times before breaking down and saying “fine”. 🤡 She needs to stop whatever this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:41 PM
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I just want someone to cuddle, travel, play games, go out to dinner and have sex with. But... that's what married couples do as well. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:24 PM
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The pump is the sex act, and the dump is the absence of a subsequent relationship. If the decision is "relationship," then congrats, you have a bf. If it's "no relationship," then congrats you got pumped and dumped These are your words. I can read perfectly fine despite being Finnish so don't worry about that. It seems as though you are trying to broaden the definition because for some reason it doesn't sit well with you that women are able to choose to not have sex outside of relationships and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:12 PM
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It won't tell you which one out of n=5 and n=4 will be a better partner. Those numbers are so close that other variables are needed to see the full picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:02 PM
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If he was a boyfriend who left his girlfriend, that's called being dumped. Yes, women get dumped sometimes. if a guy chickens out a day after they made you their girlfriend, that probably qualifies as a P&D? He wouldn't have had sex with me the same day or the day after he made me his gf but I can't speak for what other women do. I'm trying to hammer in that you can't "get" exclusivity from anyone a priori, exclusivity is an ongoing state. You're trying to hammer in something I agree with? Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:49 PM
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The "hello? Where did you go" killed me hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:05 PM
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If guys chicken out after they've already made you their gf, that's just called "being dumped". I mean it could still happen to me after 10 years. But I can absolutely claim every woman has the power to not open their legs before they get that exclusivity, if they want to. That's not me flexing some kind of superpower I have, it's a fact. If by doing that they don't get the exclusive relationship they want, they don't get pumped and dumped either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:43 PM
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Presumably those people would be dating someone who shares that view and not future faking with someone who is wondering what's taking so long for them to be ready to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:14 PM
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If in your case, you have gotten into an exclusive relationship with every man you've had sex with, you should just consider yourself lucky. But it's not lucky when I literally required it. We agreed to be an exclusive couple before sex happened. I refused sex with other men who didn't take me seriously. Every woman can do this if they want to, and I think that's what makes some men so mad. That we can dare to deny them casual sex, ruin all their attempts to future fake and get exactly what we w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:08 PM
3

About 11-16.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:43 PM
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I got down voted for saying I've never been pumped and dumped lol. Someone's mad about women getting what they want. 😘 You can really infer a lot of things about this sub's users from the votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:01 PM
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I try not to do that but whenever I'm talking about myself I sometimes get men responding with answers about "women" I don't give two shits about because 1) I just said the opposite applies to me and 2) the dude doesn't even have enough real life experience to make those generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:37 PM
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Haha be careful or she might just do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:21 PM
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My takeaways from watching The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On: Relationships where one person isn't sure about marriage are usually dysfunctional and the reasons they give for not wanting to get married are surface level bullshit. People who feel like their partner needs to work on themselves and hold it over them typically have serious flaws of their own. Few people go on a show like this because they want to convince their partner to get married or make the relationship stronger. They are looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:54 PM
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I don't remember exactly who asked what, but I told my husband I was a virgin and asked about his dating history. Never got an exact number but since he had slept with non-virgins I asked him to get an STD test before the first visit. There are so many other ways of judging someone’s character N count is one of those ways. It's not accurate but it will give you a rough idea. There is something fundamentally different about the values of a person who has had sex with 2 people and a person who has…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:08 AM
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There's a big overlap between virgin fetishists and 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:47 AM
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I've never been pumped and dumped. The only guy I've ever been with went to great lengths to convey his feelings while we were long distance, took my virginity on his first visit here and moved in with me a year later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:25 PM
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Holy shit what is that thing. I'd grab onto her pony tail for a rodeo ride and hold on for dear life. Body builders can't reach their own back (hopefully)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:08 PM
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I can't. All I can do is get to know him until I'm convinced he's smitten and then hope for the best. 5 dates would probably not be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:36 PM
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2 I don't want to have sex at all unless he's 100% sure about not ghosting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:19 PM
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I definitely prefer arguing here and having harmony at home, plus he's not available 24/7 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:36 PM
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Diversity of race and gender in the work place over competence, transwomen in women's spaces, sex work is real work. And the discussions around the idea of consent are sometimes ridiculous. Women who are uncomfortable but have sex anyway or give the guy a blow job, shouldn't just go along with it if they don't want it. How is he supposed to know you think it's rape if you're engaged in the act??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:33 PM
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Date first. If a guy doesn't think I have the qualities he wants his gf or a potential wife to have, I'm not even mad. Just figure that out before we have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:16 PM
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Same. Why would I argue with my husband when I can do that with incels on the internet??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:07 PM
1

Not even therapy can fix this. Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:05 PM
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I'm watching the intro to The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. Surprisingly, all the partners who want to get married are more attractive than their SO. I would've thought the less attractive partners have an incentive to lock down their gf/bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:01 PM
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There is a need, and also the idea of bodily autonomy. Are you equating it to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:55 PM
3

Abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:45 PM
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If sex was a need, not allowing teenage children to have sex would be considered child abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:01 PM
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Lol how the hell hasn't my account been nuked yet. What she said isn't even controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:59 PM
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Women are not naturally born on high heels, covered in jewelry, smelling like a shampoo factory, and dressed like a functioning traffic light. So your solution to tone this down is for a woman to get a buzz cut and cross dress, instead of the neurotypical ponytail+no makeup+hoodie combo?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:02 AM
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Women should never start a physical fight with a man. They drill this into you in a self defense class. You should be alert, go out in shoes you can kick off or run in, learn to detach from a man's grip, notify people of your location and never leave your drink unattended.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:12 AM
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They are much less likely to settle down when young. I don't think there is such a thing as a young married rp man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:03 AM
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Then I would still look for a husband and my dating habits wouldn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:31 AM
1

It's not strange at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:13 AM
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A husband is already family. If I couldn't get one I guess I would just be single and celibate like before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:12 AM
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I agree with the definition and I would never date someone like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:34 PM
0

Proof that women don't settle? Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:05 AM
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Anyone can be a creep and that's what these guys don't understand. Successful businessman, criminal, sport guy, homeless guy, nerd, feminist ally, incel, bland middle aged family man, single stud with his stud friends, unemployed welfare king... There is a news article about ALL of those types hurting a woman. The only thing they all share is that at some point a woman trusted them to be good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:46 AM
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"If more women just offered themselves to be used, men wouldn't use them forcefully."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:42 AM
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Maybe that's true for some women. I could see it being truthful in extreme cases, like if she's grieving or something and needs time to heal. Otherwise, aren't they just treating the guy like a backup plan? What is so urgent that they can't spare time to date a guy now but will want to later on? Maybe if things don't work out with other guys whom she likes more...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:41 PM
0

His eyes and smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:39 PM
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It usually means "I am not interested in dating you (ever)." If they really wanted to date you they wouldn't risk you moving on and finding someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:34 PM
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If normal umbrellas don't want to be seen with you, go for a shitty looking, stained umbrella with one floppy rib that the gentleman wouldn't want even if it was free. That umbrella will be happy to be held by someone and won't ask for a lot. The shopkeeper is an extra character who doesn't really have a part in this story, since women aren't sold property.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:56 PM
2

I dragged out my first time in university for too long and could've dropped out sooner. But I don't regret all the people I got to know and the growing up I had to do as a result of my choices, so I wouldn't change anything. I'm happy with my life. Maybe I just haven't lived long enough to lose really important things due to my mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:23 AM
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When I was single I used to flirt with multiple guys at the same time without knowing if I was interested in them. Dunno if that counts but it was for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:16 AM
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It wasn't one of the best but I still remeber it because it was damn good and exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:09 AM
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He did respect my touching boundaries Well that explains it. When enough men routinely do not respect your touching boundaries, you start to get annoyed with them as soon as they start their sales pitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:52 AM
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Men too would rather be cheated on than starve and see their children starve. That's not a reflection of their sexual nature. If you have to threaten women's survival to get them to accept cheating, that means they don't accept cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:10 AM
2

I wouldn't even have the effort to go sneaking around behind my husband's back if he ignored me and refused to communicate. We'd be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:00 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:48 PM
1

Well sure. I would hope they find someone to start a family with. Telling them there will be divorcees available after 35 isn't helpful though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:37 PM
1

To me it didn't seem like the comment about being the last ones at a prom dance was from the perspective of someone who had already had a family and are now trying dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:54 PM
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I'm just going by the average of 7. If you have a few more, that's still around average. 15 in a lifetime is much higher and probably impossible to reach with only LTRs. The people who repeatedly engage in casual sex are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:49 PM
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35+ is really old to start building a family for the first time. Not only is the market full of people who couldn't make a marriage work, but pregnancies are considered geriatric at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:35 PM
4

0-5 is low, 5-10 is average and 10+ is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:23 PM
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Fuck him. He ruined their marriage and for what? Then he didn't even have the courtesy to wait a while until she had moved on, so she had to contemplate whether she was at fault and whether she should go take care of him. If you cheat, you're a piece of shit. The least you could do is not make it harder on the person you betrayed and claim to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:52 PM
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Socially competent middle and upper class men can get friends and girlfriends just fine. Working and lower class men party and hook up all the time. I think trp is for the losers. Men who need to target mentally unstable women and work their insecurities, because no one sane will associate with them. Also men who have only a few friends and zero women in their lives except mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:12 AM
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I didn't have physical problems with my body or shame or anything. If there's one thing I could change, I would have made men and boys ignore me sexually until I was ready for it. They could have directed their efforts to the girls who chose to sexualize themselves. It sucked getting harassed for being born in a body I didn't choose. I didn't even look for attention, I just existed in a developing female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:03 PM
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No I'm not. My flag is in my tag. We get good sex ed and the society is not set up to guard a girl's virginity here. If she wants to not have sex because she's religious, doesn't feel ready or just likes to focus on other things, great. If she wants to sleep with her boyfriend or go on tinder and ask a mid 20s metal head to fuck her, also fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:49 PM
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I don't remember exactly. Maybe mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:28 PM
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He asked me if it was OK to sleep with a 16 year old he met on tinder. I said she's on tinder for a reason. Don't know how it ended since we aren't close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:10 PM
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Have you ever seen videos of little kids fishing? They start crying when it's time to kill it. Empathy, fairness and reciprocity are universal concepts. Maybe instincts, since some animals can display them. They just manifest in different ways. It's like smiling. All people have the ability to smile and the tendency to smile is natural. It's also natural to involuntarily smile when you see someone else smiling. But what's funny is subjective and culture dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:17 PM
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The worst thing a short guy could do is be petite and soft like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:56 PM
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Pick mes are like gimpgirl with her weird behavior and mentality. Many male PPD members said they liked her. I think OP is asking in what ways do men incentivize women to become like that. Does being like gimpgirl benefit a woman and improve her life? My guess is no. "Gimpgirl" is married to a broke loser who doesn't work, do housework or take care of their kids. He spends money on hookers instead of spending it on a) his wife or b) their kids. So of course men want this kind of fantasy wife, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:02 AM
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130 comments, not a single answer to a simple question. Men are not the logical gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:27 AM
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Not for guys in relationships. What a retarded post then. Most guys who are sexually active are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:54 AM
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Bottom 20% is relative to your location. If you're bottom 20%, either move somewhere where you outdo other men, or pick a woman from said area and bring her back home as a wife. Hypergamy is relative and much more prevalent in places where women are (forced to be) dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:24 PM
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I'm an underachiever and I don't do well socially. Work days are tough sometimes because I feel like I'm just pretending to know what I'm doing and trying my best to act like a normal person, but at any moment someone might find out I'm a fraud. I have plenty of reasons to be insecure about my looks but for some reason I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:15 PM
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She's going bald, who fucking cares. Lots of men go bald prematurely and they get made fun of just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:15 PM
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He seems mentally unstable and cowardly. First the calm walk up stage that doesn't seem threatening at all, then the unexpected bitch slap and lastly the hasty retreat back to his seat where he yells across the room whilst surrounded by people. Not only did he assault someone over a joke like some chest pounding dumb ape, he needed the element of surprise to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:28 AM
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Keep it long, keep it beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:06 AM
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Yes he does. I told him so he would know what to expect. I don't know his exact number.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:38 PM
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I see. You don't want a solution, you just want to whine. Should have expected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:04 PM
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You're not supposed to end it, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:30 PM
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Old finnish rejects get a Thai wife sometimes. And there is a user on this sub who got a girlfriend (not wife) from a homeless shelter. It only works if you are an improvement over the losers and rejects of that 3rd world country you are looking at, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:56 AM
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J tells her "oh but I do want to be serious with you! I wouldn't have it any other way". Two days later J feels like he's not really ready for a serious relationship. He's either a liar or has an IQ below room temperature. Either way, asking him about commitment when you're making out and telling him the exact condition for having sex is really fucking stupid. He's going to say whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:47 AM
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Until he wants me to be his gf. If he still doesn't want to be in a relationship after like 2 months of going on dates, I'm probably not interested anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:12 AM
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Unwanted men in the west should get a wife from one of the absolutely worst shitholes on earth. She can be ugly, in severe poverty, in need of medical care and/or living in fear of physical violence where she is. You can use your citizenship, race and wealth to attract (or buy) these women. Not beating her up is also a bonus. Love marriages aren't a thing in some places and the women will surely adapt to living with whichever husband they end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:54 PM
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Not being able to handle a loss is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:49 AM
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I feel like women who date H and women who date and have sex with all the other men would be different women entirely or the same woman at different times. I thought women go into different mindsets and maybe have quick hookups when young or after a divorce when they don't care about commitment, and take things slower when they are looking for something serious. I don't think someone who is dating and having sex with multiple people is ready to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:19 AM
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Of course not. Heightism is an American phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:41 PM
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If you only value the WAP in women, women can't offer you anything else you would find valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:37 PM
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Lmao!! Long hair, not fat and be able to get pregnant. I guess I'm a HVW hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:33 PM
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They never focus on other factors because it's easier to talk shit about promiscuous women than seriously vet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:55 AM
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A gay incel? What does he look like if even men won't touch him? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:43 AM
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I'm responding to the title. The answer seems to be no, since children of divorce are 3 times as likely to divorce each other compared to children from intact homes. Being a child of divorce isn't even behavior, it's a circumstance you're born into.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:31 AM
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Just post the links without quotes and add more of your own thoughts if you want a proper discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:18 AM
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According to Nicholas Wolfinger in “Understanding the Divorce Cycle”, the risk of divorce is 50 percent higher when one spouse comes from a divorced home and 200 percent higher when both partners do There are several red flags that affect relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:11 AM
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Both men and women really only have two to three shots at getting an LTR right in their 20s before it starts taking a toll on them in ways that are extremely difficult to come back from later on in life. Time is a finite resource, and the ability to reconfigure your life and move on diminishes after each break up. This means that one should break up with an incompatible partner sooner rather than later. Working through issues and dragging out the relationship is incredibly harmful if there is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:22 PM
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Even then compliments from strangers aren't really the important part. It's having your SO be genuinely attracted to you. That said I know some women are thirsty for male approval and thrive on the attention they get from strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:45 PM
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I think I would expect a compliment if I deliberately dressed up did my hair and makeup and nails and all that. But nothing compels him to say I look nice when I'm in my jammies and just about to shower off the past 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:37 PM
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Compliments from other men don't really matter because they would say the same thing to anyone just to get a crumb. My SO already has me so there is no reason for him to flatter me unless he means it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:49 PM
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Men should start paying more attention to this. Sure, getting dick just for its own sake is fun when you're inexperienced, but it gets old fast when you're consistently treated like your needs don't matter. I've never heard of a woman who declines a free orgasm from her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:05 AM
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If she rejects you, you should think highly of her for keeping her n count lower. 2 is better than 3, 15 is better than 16 and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:22 AM
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They are family members just like adopted children are family members. You get to choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:44 PM
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Eating disorders, depression, 50 sexual partners,... There would be more problems if you started digging. Red flags tend to come in multiples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:47 PM
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Through mutual friends, in games, at work, in class, university parties, bars, clubs, gigs, festivals, holiday resorts, parks and zoos are some examples of how I would get cold approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:44 PM
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I'll have empathy for them and then I'll just not date them. That's not making things worse for them. I don't know why people are struggling with the concept that I'm not obligated to start the rest of my life with someone who is already struggling without even having a shared mortgage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:13 PM
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Lol ok. I meant me 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:34 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:14 PM
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If you are not worth committing too, its not simply because you wouldn't have sex. There are other reasons as well...that was my point. Oh that's true. I'm probably not worth committing to in the eyes of many, if not most men. Having sex with them wouldn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:03 PM
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If you are thinking that they aren't a good match just because they wont wait months for sex Not just because they don't wait. Because they don't think I'm worth committing to. Those were your words I quoted. My longest relationships have been with women I hooked up with before date 3. Being on someone's long list of relationships that ended isn't the goal. Being his lifelong partner is. It's better to not roll the dice and date some random hookup, when there are also men who will treat you diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:44 PM
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I'll wait for sex with women I find worth committing to. That's the point of dating. To find a man who thinks you're worth committing to. If men think like you (and they do in my experience) then waiting for sex eliminates everyone who isn't a good match. The only one who loses is the guy who wants to bang women he wouldn't commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:28 PM
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Grieving is not a mental illness. A sad mood is not a mental Illness. Most people with actual mental illnesses are aware of them in their early adulthood and my point was I don't have to date those people in the first place. My husband is unlikely to develop depression during the course of our marriage because he is already getting support for normal human emotions and he doesn't have to let them brew so long that only medication will help him. The same goes for addiction. He is with someone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:23 PM
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I see it as a red flag if a guy doesn't have happily married parents. Where would he have learned how to maintain a loving relationship for 20+ years if his parents didn't set an example? I'd rather leave guys from broken homes to women who can relate to them or aren't planning 20+ years ahead. The relationship between him and his parents shouldn't be strained. Too much baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:50 AM
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Sex, kids, marriage, a home, cuddles, holidays, dates, shared hobbies and all that stuff may or may not be on the table. Time spent with your loved one is the table. Everything else is worthless without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:37 AM
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the underlining reason that men don’t open up ... is that men with diagnosed mental illnesses want to reap the benefits of dating someone who is mentally healthy without providing the same in return. Just stay in your lane. You are still equating normal feelings with diagnosed mental illnesses and there is no point in discussing this further until you educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:29 PM
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Better. I'm not in competition with men so I wouldn't feel like a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:06 PM
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Sexual interaction with someone else is cheating. Interaction is the key word here. Recordings and pictures don't count, unless you interact with someone to get them. Emotional cheating is when you start to confide in someone else more than you do in your partner and there is a romantic or sexual element present in your interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:32 PM
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We are discussing men opening up to women and showing feelings. No we aren't. Read the comment chain and my original comment. I was talking about men with diagnosed mental illnesses. if you found someone you feel special about you should fight for that person and help them get out of the depression I'm not someone's free therapist. I should not fight for a sick person to get better if I've just started dating him and he tells me about his mental illness. I should date someone healthy like myself…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:09 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:50 PM
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Mentally ill people are more likely to self harm and abuse substances. Most mental illnesses show up around late teens or early 20s so it's not a case of leaving your married partner who is mentally ill, it's about not choosing someone like that to begin with. Around 3 in 4 people have a healthy mind so this is not unreasonable. Being chronically depressed and only being able to get out of bed on a good day, draining your bank account during a manic episode or having uncontrollable fits of rage …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:26 PM
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You think schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, eating disorders, borderline personality disorder or other mental illnesses are the only problems a person can have?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:15 PM
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The vast majority are fat too. No one says you have to date the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:02 PM
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They're the ones who ask how your relationship is doing everytime you meet up, hoping there will be a day they can "support you" in tough times. Like snakes in the grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:40 PM
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It's not women's fault men like to date mentally unstable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:32 PM
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Lol not acting as a therapist and psychiatrist to a mentally ill person with disorders doesn't rule out being supportive to a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:30 PM
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You must accept men with anxiety, depression, or any kind or disorder. No I don't. I can just date someone without mental illnesses or disorders who is open and honest about their feelings and carries himself with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:08 AM
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I started playing ffxiv in wod and the last time I played wow was after the launch of bfa.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:05 AM
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You don't need my permission to ask them. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:47 PM
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A cheating or abusive mom/dad, divorced parents, a runaway dad, a slut single mom etc. Anything that deviates from happily married parents who are still together is a sign that the kid will likely not have a successful marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:42 PM
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These women detransition when they realise men don't respect trannies either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:19 PM
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The problem is your low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:16 PM
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I do believe it’s the gender roles that people dislike. This is so sad. Feminists did all they could so that newer generations of women could have better opportunities and girls are like "please call me a man, I had my tits cut off and even got neutered".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:55 PM
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You make a calculator, find out your score is 3.88/5 and approach an average woman without knowing anything about her personal life, relationship status or preferences. When she says no, then what? Will you come back here to complain about women's out of control standards? I don't see what purpose this serves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:24 AM
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If you're taller than women you can get away with being skinny. Skinny also looks better if you're somewhat muscular and your body doesn't look like it's made of pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:20 AM
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We got along well. I was sucked into conversations with him for days at a time because he was interesting and funny and knew how to flatter me and turn me on. He made me feel happy and excited. I would wake up hoping he had sent me a message and go to bed with butterflies in my stomach after we'd said goodnight. I liked how ok he was with showing emotion. When men downplay their feelings for me, I lose interest. He didn't do that. He didn't withdraw emotionally, go silent all of a sudden or try …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:38 PM
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hit her up the next day What did you send her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:57 PM
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She's trying to take down a barrier, not put one up. If you see it as a barrier going up, you have the wrong idea about friendships. Do you get upset if your male friend says he would never date you? I'm guessing no. For some reason it upsets you that a female friend doesn't see you as an option. And honestly, you took her on a walk date which is a pretty damn common romantic gesture these days so maybe you shouldn't blame her for wanting to clear things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:42 PM
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She would know if you told her friendship is all you are after and you aren't interested in her. Or are you? It seems like your ego got a little bit bruised here even though you claim you aren't seeking anything romantic. There's a big difference between "yeah we can keep going as just friends" and "don't even think about asking me out, I'd never want to be more than just friends" you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:02 PM
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She just told you she's interested in talking as friends. How is she making it harder to be friends with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:46 AM
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The woman in the video is Anna Bey, and her upbringing or early adult life are in no way typical for a western woman. She got a taste of luxury with a rich Italian man and has been chasing it ever since. Explain how this is in any way similar to women dating and eventually marrying their college sweetheart. https://annabey.com/about-anna/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:36 AM
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I've never had a relationship because I can't think of a single reason why I'd want one. I've also never had sex because it's not something that I's be interested in doing. Same as me. I didn't look for a relationship or sex but someone I enjoyed spending time with made me want it. You either have feelings for someone or you don't. Unless someone makes you feel that way there isn't any reason to be in a relationship. That's why people are telling you "you don't have to be in a relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:16 AM
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No. I don't do hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:54 AM
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I meant that if women are able to "starve" themselves for years, then a dry spell is not really "starvation" even if it's involuntarily. It's like saying you will "starve" by eating a huge meal once a day when there are countless people who do it for religious reasons or to lose weight. It can't be anything more than a minor inconvenience if a great number of people are doing it voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:37 PM
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Dry spells for women are self-imposed, it's not the same thing at all. If women (half the world's population) are able to impose dry spells on themselves, they aren't bad enough to be an excuse for men to go insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:11 PM
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Sanctioned rape, how nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:28 PM
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Any time you get a rejection you should already have other pending applications.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:27 PM
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I used to play on a few alliance dominated pve realms but I quit for ffxiv a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:28 PM
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I don't think the ratings are accurate because some people have a gorgeous smile or a cute hair style or a sexy voice that puts them above other average people. A rating doesn't capture how many people would date you just because you fit their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:16 AM
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2, 3 and bonus pic are cuties. 3 looks similar to my husband, except he has brown hair and bright blue eyes. 10 is also a cutie but I have a preference for more facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:35 AM
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Men admit they don't give oral to casual sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:16 PM
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If he is repulsive or I find his personality so off putting I would never date him, it would be wrong to go on a date with him no matter who pays. It's a waste of his time. Also if there's some other reason I can't or don't want to date him, like him having kids. If I'm open to dating someone and I'm neutral about him, I don't think it's wrong to give him a chance to impress me or make me attracted to him. Isn't that what average men want?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:28 PM
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🤮🤮🤮 Stop...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:10 AM
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That's the whole point. To accept either good options or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:13 PM
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The main issue with FDS aren't their standards ladies that spend most of their time writing poems on FDS about how shitty men are should do a little more searching and lowering of their exuberant standards. Which one? And why is it a problem that they have these standards? You say that improving their looks would help them, because a man like you got a gorgeous woman. Do you treat your woman like FDS women like to be treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:00 PM
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you are protected by the encouragement of traditional values, purity and virginity so that women never have to expose themselves to the market Women are protected... from choice. 🙄 I'm all for the ugliest members of society having some kind of system in place to encourage pairing up, but let's not pretend that average to hot women benefit from being forced to pair with a guy who can't compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:56 AM
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I wouldn't want to date my friend's ex. The ex chose my friend over me and they broke up for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:21 AM
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Flawless. What did it take?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:51 PM
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So because some women don't have kids, that means women as a whole are freed from the caretaking role. Not all men are drafted so I guess by your logic men aren't upheld to their role either. And that's if there's a war. Unless you are Ukrainian there's no need for men to take up arms right now. So much for that gender role.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:41 PM
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In an online game in 2010 when he was 21 and I was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:33 PM
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I'm more of a job woman but I looked for two things. Does he want a wife and does he want kids. We can work out the rest as we go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:54 PM
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Hypocrisy is about what you do, not what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:50 PM
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Had to look up brando. Wow he's really cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:46 PM
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Women have been freed from gender roles; Men are still upheld to them. Did women stop looking after kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:42 PM
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It's the women's country too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:55 PM
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Encouraging women to carry heavy equipment in the woods (literally the woods) when your country's fate depends on it is like encouraging men to take up breastfeeding when your baby depends on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:53 PM
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Same for Finland. Men who are eligible get weapon training but everyone has a duty to defend the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:24 PM
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Women should not have been allowed to vote on that issue, given that they are exempt while men are not. Women who don't volunteer and the men who are exempt shouldn't vote on matters of military defense, just like men shouldn't vote on women's reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:22 PM
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They are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:05 PM
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It's like they picked bland men on purpose. This is not what I see everyday in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:58 PM
2

I get mad when he loses my items too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:01 PM
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It's kind of cucked if you think about it. You're watching another dude fuck women who wouldn't give you the time of day in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:41 PM
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None before my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:53 AM
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what's left is apparently mocking them for acknowledging traditionalism is gone and getting theirs in modernity? No they get mocked because while traditional dating is still a thing, red pilled men aren't good enough to get what they want and they blame others for that. It's weak to not hold yourself accountable for your own failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:27 AM
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I think it would benefit men if they just kept talking about their standards despite the negative reactions they get. There would be growing pains but it could shift things more in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:14 AM
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Does he talk to me because he's secretly hoping for something Yes. Your intuition is telling you you can't trust them. I've dropped every guy friend after they started doing that. Which, eventually, was all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:08 AM
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Definitely, if you don't catch the feels easily. You've told her you won't be a step dad. Should probably avoid seeing the kid so he doesn't get confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:44 PM
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If a guy has already had one hookup without dumpster diving, that means he is seen as hookup hot. Getting into a relationship doesn't downgrade him to husband hot. If he wanted to he could get another hookup since it already happened once. Why do guys need to reaffirm that they are hookup hot over and over?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:40 PM
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If you don't want to be a step dad, a breakup is inevitable. Getting emotionally attached only makes it harder. Source: it happened to my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:35 PM
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Do guys dislike long term relationships or marriage because they see it as a "practical" relationship because of their upbringing? In some communities young people are expected and pressured to find a mate and start a family with them. That mate has to fulfill qualifications related to chastity, education, income and reputation, and love and passion are less important (especially if they can't have premarital sex). Marriage is part of a life script and you just do it. In that context it makes se…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:26 PM
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Any sexual interaction with another woman is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:19 PM
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Aren't those two the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:04 PM
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And being happy. Being in a good mood and smiling all the time and laughing easily is like catnip to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:40 PM
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Sex is not satisfying without an orgasm at the end, it's just frustrating. Foreplay and intimacy can be achieved without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:36 PM
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Yes. Rejection sucks but if guys don't shoot their shot someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:23 PM
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No because I've never asked anyone out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:20 PM
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All my comments are still there. Are you imagining things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:17 PM
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You really need this much attention? I never called you ugly. You just felt called out because your parents are cousins, started posting about how attractive you are, demanded photos of me and called me ugly. Here's the comment chain for entertainment. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tbidvo/comment/i0b1s1m/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:06 PM
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Yes, it would be over. Abortion is for ending a pregnancy in a woman's body. If we could take it out and put it somewhere else, the abortion appointment would entail exactly that. If the dad wanted it he could get child support from mom or vice versa. If neither wanted it, adoption would still be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:39 AM
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I have trouble understanding why it's offensive that I like a guy so much I want to spend the rest of my life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:31 AM
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High School and University relationships are still a thing. While less Women these days seek committment at a young age, there are still Women who do partake in this. My question being why? Because it's better. Sleeping around isn't a positive. Having fewer orgasms, less frequent sex, STDs, rejection, breakups, drama and threats to physical safety isn't having or eating your cake. Having a boyfriend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:20 AM
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How come they don't have boyfriends if they end up meeting a new guy every weekend? It's not insecure to not follow their lead, it's smart. You're better off taking advice from someone who has the kind of dating life you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:01 AM
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Are foreigners welcome? What kind of flair system will the sub have? Are you going to ban women for criticizing women like FDS does?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:37 PM
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When you point out that they gain a completely committed father with 0 doubts in his mind they'll usually be more amenable. This is exactly why I would be fine with getting a paternity test. I'd get a more committed father for my kid and I would also get confirmation that the kid didn't get mixed up at the hospital. What's the harm? It's a useful document. For example, in the UK it can be used to prove that a kid born to an unmarried father is eligible for citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:01 PM
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I would only consider it if I had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:47 PM
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I'd vet women by attempting to fuck them on the first date. If they do it, they lost my respect, and I'd move on. This is consistent. You only want to marry someone who doesn't have a high n count so it makes sense to find one who refuses to raise her n count with you. Some men want a low n count woman but they stop dating the women who won't have sex with them fast enough. Simultaneously they want women to have a low n count but also want them to add +1 quickly with a man they just met. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:01 PM
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I leave and look for someone that is a good partner to me. If you can leave, you don't need them. Notice how you are the source of instability in this situation. You only want them if they need you, because you don't trust anyone else. That doesn't make an independent spouse a flaky partner. It makes you a flaky partner. That example I gave of someone being able to leave doesn't have to end up with someone leaving. I've lived with my husband for 10 years and I was never unable to leave. In the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:09 PM
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What if they improve so much they are no longer dependent on you? They can get a great job, a new place to live, friends who treat them better than you do, a visa somewhere nicer or something else that gives them the freedom to leave you. How stable is that if the relationship was founded on that person needing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:32 PM
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Is there really a threat of violence involved when someone politely refuses to do something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:23 PM
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Being too agreeable is a disadvantage in life. Young women are often socialized to be agreeable at their own expense by ostracizing them if they refuse to obey. It's effective because through most of history women have needed a support network for survival. Is women's tendency to be agreeable more about socialization or genetics? This girl gave up her seat to a rude old hag because her family pressured her to do it. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/tcgov2/aita_i_didnt_want_to_give…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:56 PM
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A dependent can surpass me too And then she is no longer a dependent. Does it feel stable if that happens and the relationship was founded on her needing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:09 PM
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I can't understand what is the good thing about someone that does not need anyone. Someone who doesn't need you is strong. They can advocate for you and your family when you're not there. You can count on them being safe and you don't have to worry about protecting them. Someone who isn't dependent on you can surpass you, and having a better person in your life enhances it. Being loved and admired by someone who is free to leave is the most validating thing in the world. Everything I said also a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:10 PM
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You'll probably die alone anyway. When you do, do you want to remember having dragged around someone you can't stand for most of your life? And all the good memories you probably missed out on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:58 PM
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It always makes people behave better when you don't budge about the things you don't want to do. It gets easier the longer they know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:14 AM
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Saying no to a request and physically refusing is being adversarial?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:02 AM
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Of course they don't respect her. She agreed to being a free baby sitter and now she's seething in a room.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:01 AM
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I'm criticizing her for not refusing firmly enough and then whining about it. He said I cant just sit up here to avoid holding the baby and that I am wasting the trip all because I wont say no. Half the time they dont ask though. The baby is practically tossed at me. No one "tosses" a baby at someone. If she says no thanks and physically doesn't take the baby, they can't make her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:56 AM
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She can decline being treated badly and he can defend her. Those things are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:45 AM
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Imagine needing your husband's help to not be bossed around lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:35 AM
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This comment thread shows it's other women who pressure them to be doormats. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:28 AM
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Then I guess he should not allow them to disrupt the peace by getting mad at her when she politely won't hold the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:25 AM
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This is his boundary that he needs to enforce What...? Women don't need their husband to enforce her own boundaries ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:21 AM
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Where is the benefit of keeping the peace with these kinds of people? They won't make up for or stop treating you like a free servant if you allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:15 AM
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I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:08 AM
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Call me childish all you want but who is left holding a baby after the first "no"? Not me lol 👶
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:45 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/tbxi1o/aita_for_telling_him_im_locking_myself_in_the/ I don't understand why some women are like this. They give in to people's requests and complain about the aftermath. Someone tries to hand you a baby and you don't want to hold it? Cross your arms and stand up from your seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:25 PM
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Half of women are in a relationship... That's one of the reasons why taking rejections personally is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:13 PM
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They don't want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:50 PM
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I mean the person rejected YOU ..personally Not because of anything about you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:28 PM
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Only if you're pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:29 PM
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I wouldn't date a guy who stays in close contact with his exes. Lunch and drinks are fine with opposite sex friends in moderation. I don't think it's appropriate for a married person to have an opposite sex bestie they spend a lot of time with one on one. We don't talk about our marriage with friends, unless it's something positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:55 AM
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Being in the friend zone is just being friends. If that's not good enough but he keeps up the charade then he's being deceitful. She isn't putting anyone in a zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:13 PM
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he joked about it and kept saying "yeah shes hot but" and kinda implied he was keeping her as a back up. his entire attitude changed. He suddenly started to sound annoyed and jealous and insecure Nothing to do with the hotter guy always winning or even chemistry. Your colleague thought she wasn't good enough but then got mad she moved on. You snooze you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:56 PM
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Yes, I don't give real life men I'm not dating any attention. It's what men want from women so I assume they are happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:11 PM
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Not all women can grow tits or an ass. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:59 PM
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Never. Fictional romance novel guys have done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:57 PM
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Most women on PPD don't wave around their stupid decisions. I'd get banned on FDS very quickly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:48 PM
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If they don't want me there, they shouldn't invite me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:36 PM
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All trannies should be exempt from a draft. Someone who is that fragile about their own body or pronouns is a massive liability. Armies need effective soldiers. Just because Bethany she/her can push a pencil as well as any man doesn't mean she is useful in a war.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:36 PM
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It's in women's nature to divorce their cheating husbands, as you can see from the divorce statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:21 PM
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Sugar, milk, vanilla, whipped cream and chocolate shavings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:39 PM
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Knowing that they look like a bad period at 6 weeks made me care even less than I did before. It's not a baby lmao. The nice thing about fewer restrictions is that women don't have to waste time traveling or waiting while the fetus grows. They can just take a pill when it's small.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:37 PM
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Now that it's abortion week on PPD again, I found some pictures for those of you who find it hard to visualize how a fetus develops during pregnancy. Content warning btw. medizzy.com/tag/embryo Does knowing what an embryo/fetus looks like affect your stance on abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:47 PM
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It's just supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:24 PM
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I'm healthy, happy and free. It's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:23 AM
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I would move somewhere where it's legal. I hope anti choice people are aware that marriage doesn't prevent unwanted pregnancy. A ban on abortion would suck because I would have to stop having sex with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:34 AM
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Isn't it true that in Texas you can only have an abortion before the 6th pregnancy week? That would be a problem for opting out, because pregnancy is only detectable after the 4th week. If she doesn't notice her period is late that 2 week window gets even shorter. In a system where a man's choice informs a woman's choice, men don't have to wait for a pregnancy to actually occur to decide that they want to opt out. I think it would be better if he could get her to sign a form where he informs her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:41 PM
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Get someone to rub your feet, like really beat them up, if you work on your feet. It's better than orgasms. Also sleep 9 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:17 AM
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Is looking over your friends hot Instagram photos fine? This is fine, the other ones are not. I don't want him interacting with other women in a sexual context. And I also don't want it to affect our sex life. So I don't want to know what he's watching or to recreate weird porno scenarios irl. I don't want to hear he's too tired to have sex if he beats his meat every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:11 AM
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Neither is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:57 PM
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No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:59 AM
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A is the obvious choice. It's hot af when men orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:37 AM
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She's pretty. What do you think of Alba Baptista?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:06 PM
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Lol dude 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:35 PM
1

Is there nothing that most men would like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:23 PM
1

What kinds of gifts do men like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:43 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:34 PM
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I have never seen a street fight in my life. Why the fuck would I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:28 AM
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How we started dating is not going to work for most guys, lmao. We played an online game and got randomly matched twice. He asked for my contact info, we started talking and then did all kinds of kinky stuff online for 4 months. When he first came over we immediately had chemistry. All the buildup and getting to know each other paid off. I thought it was so sweet that he offered to sleep on the floor instead of my bed. The fact that he didn't push for sex set him apart from other guys. I didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:19 AM
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Work is 40 hours a week. We can both clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:58 PM
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If men are so lonely they would have any woman who gave them attention, I wonder why they don't agree that "women are the table" and don't have to offer anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:27 PM
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Women have drama - yes definitely. I don't mind it though. Somehow I never seem to be in the center of it so I get to watch from the sidelines. One woman stopped talking to me and the rest of us and I wonder if our one specific conversation had something to do with that. Oh well. The reason I used to like men as friends was because they were more accepting of my nerd hobbies. Then I realised that literally every single one of them is so starved for attention that me liking the same games and top…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:57 PM
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I don't debate with losers who delete the comments that make them look bad. You can go now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:20 PM
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It's best to not sleep with those men. They would just be repulsed by me adding +1 to my count with them, and the sex would suck too if we both know he's disgusted by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:06 PM
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I also want it to be easy to walk away if anything significant changes in the future. From the horse's mouth. Women should never have a baby that isn't their husband's. These silly contracts are just avoiding the real issue, which is that he wants to have a kid and leave after he gets what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:53 PM
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No they are both used depending on what suits the argument. She downgrades, it's AFBB. She upgrades, hypergamy. She doesn't get a man or dumps one, she's an unhappy cat lady with inflated standards. She stays with a man and she's unhappy because she settled for someone who didn't meet her inflated standards. It's triple distilled copium with hints of sour grapes and salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:41 PM
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No, you didn't really cover that. Men don't get mad at their bros for not wanting to have sex with them. Why are you getting mad at women? We just don't want to have sex when asked. Ugly women don't want sex all the time either so it has nothing to do with delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:24 PM
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most of the women who act stuck up right from the jump are mid grade at best, who need makeup to get from a 5 to a 6. 7-9/10 men should not have so much difficulty fucking these girls, yet more often than not they won’t even give them the time of day, its laughable. if women, like billionaire old farts acknowledged the reason they had abundance and didn’t let it go to their heads men wouldn’t respond with hostility Why are men hostile? We just don't want to have sex with them. We didn't do anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:10 PM
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These together imply that sex is good regardless of with whom and how it is done Your words, not mine. Nice strawman. Why specify that "caring about" someone at all? Because that's what matters. I don't know about you but I don't do lake trips or share plates of food with people I don't like. N count doesn't include this piece of information. It doesn't tell if it happened in a loving relationship or with a stranger in back alley. You guys only care about the number new partners. If a guy thinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:18 PM
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I'm 30 and I've suspected I might have it for a while now. Too bad there's a 2 year long queue to get assessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:54 PM
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There's a proverb in Finnish that translates roughly as "a lake doesn't get worn out by rowing". Sex is like healthy food. When you have it you feel so alive and good about yourself. I love it and I love sharing it with someone I care about. N count obsessed men think it's something unhealthy that I should be avoiding. So why would I have sex with them if they want me to avoid it? And why would they ask me to have sex if they think I shouldn't do it? Why would I believe they care about me if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:46 PM
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You're supposed to party with her and fuck her friends, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:17 PM
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No. Cheating involves lying and hiding things. If someone has needs that aren't being met, they can inform their spouse they're going to meet those needs elsewhere. If their spouse doesn't dump them it's a hall pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:55 PM
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Texting is an easy way to vet them and you can do it from morning to night time. It's impossible to get to know someone on that level by going on a 2 hour date once a week. I understand that it's troublesome for someone who wants to get intimate quickly and needs to be in person to escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:48 PM
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Less than 10 regulars and some of the quick visitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:29 PM
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text too much and you are screwed, texting too little and you are screwed Yeah this is what I was referring to. Texting gives her information about you which she can use to disqualify you. Which is why it's better for men to get to know someone in person and why it's better for women to vet before meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:25 PM
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I don't have any problems. I just prefer men who don't think I become less valuable as a wife if I increase my n count with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:14 PM
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It's hard to say because the most undateable ones make a new account every few weeks or months and it makes it seem like there are more of them. There are only a few I'd agree to go on a date with based on their writing. They understand women, and not in the way of understanding how to manipulate them to get what they want, but actually understand women's motives and feelings. Writing back and forth gives you a lot of info about another person. That's why the red pill advice is to not text unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:25 PM
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Fair enough. I hate liars too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:11 PM
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16-17 is fine if you're 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:09 PM
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Self discipline is sexy, I can go to Blue Star donuts and eat myself into morbid obesity I agree, but many men do the equivalent of encouraging women to eat donuts. Men want to ruin the value they believe women have for their own selfish benefit. And then they shame women who give them that benefit. Women don't do that. They don't go on first dates and ask the guys to give them their house because homeless men are sexy, and then say they need to move in the house before deciding if they are goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:56 PM
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The rhetoric would change if nearly all refugee groups didn't have young men racing to be evacuated while their women are left to suffer in the hands of the invaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:42 PM
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The refugees are not men of fighting age this time. A woman caring for a baby and two other kids is not a spy, a criminal or someone who can effectively defend her country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:36 AM
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I’m conveying nothing, I’m just taking a fucking photo Yes, because if an attractive guy didn’t wear his best clothes he’ll never have success on dating apps. Zero awareness, built up resentment, low self esteem and no effort. I can catch that from one comment so I'm sure it's not difficult to see from a handful of photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:15 AM
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Culture is not a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:50 AM
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A fresh salad with pieces of crispy fried halloumi cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:52 AM
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men with younger spouses survived for longer than those with ones of a similar age. The older their spouse, the worse their survival chances women, where the bigger the age gap, the worse their survival chances So old men are like vampires sucking life out of younger women. This is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:16 PM
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Once out of college, which not everyone even goes anymore, you are almost exclusively limited to your established social network and coworkers and their mutuals. Those groups you mentioned are the best way to meet women. And any social outings that are intended to be fun. Parties, barbecues, festivals, meet ups and so on. You can ask out and talk to women anywhere you want. Just accept that they might not like that and move on. I have not wanted to get to know men romantically since meeting my h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:59 PM
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Sure why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:45 AM
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Are all women/men like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:11 AM
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Around my height is optimal. A head shorter or a head taller would be awkward I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:12 PM
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The average married couple has sex at least once per week. That's not "no sex". How much sex per week does the average man using option 3 get?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:42 PM
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The average married couple has sex at least once a week. How fast can an average man get a new gf at different ages and do the honeymoon phases balance out the in between dry spells?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:38 PM
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Can average men get a new girlfriend easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:35 PM
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I heard that an acquaintance of mine asked a woman word to word "what's your stance on coitus" and actually got laid LMAO But really, no. It's neutral or slightly annoying, but better than lying. If a guy tries to chat me up based on my looks I can guess what he's after. For context I don't hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:18 PM
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Q4M: which strategy allows the average man to have the most sex during his lifetime? Assume the marriage is average and take into account any dry spells an average man may have. 1) marry his gf of 4 years 2) break up with his gf of 4 years and try to get a new gf 3) never have a gf and try to have ONS and short flings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:12 PM
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No sources, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:59 PM
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That's me saying men are making the apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:42 PM
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Anyone claiming average men are better off not committing. Married couples have sex more than once a week on average. Guys who say being single and engaging in casual sex culture is better than being "trapped in a dead bedroom" are talking about apex men who get more sex weekly than married men. Also there are the age gap threads with guys saying some young girls are attracted to 35+ men. No, college girls are not attracted to the average fat middle aged balding guys, just the better than averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:40 PM
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Where's the apex fallacy I'm making?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:25 PM
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I see men making apex fallacies about men more than myself. Me: average men benefit from marrying a nice average woman. They get regular sex, for example. Men: no, average men can easily just pump and dump a new woman every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:41 PM
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If she's not ugly or fat, what do you do? Tell that horse faced bitch to fuck off. Doesn't matter if it's not true. Women don't go around attacking people when you insult them like men do. They just cry to their friends and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:43 AM
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Believe it or not, if you're normal and not a dick and treat her nice, women actually like that about you. Don't let broken people in the manosphere convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:41 AM
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They are called abusive often because people keep good partners and leave bad partners. If people enjoyed dating abusive partners, it would be more likely for someone to have an abusive current partner than an abusive ex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:31 AM
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Didn't work out so well for him last time 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:30 AM
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I would much more respect the woman who has easy access to sex but has self control and doesn't fuck every guy that makes her tingle You may hold that view, but all the discussions on PPD tell a different story. Men don't like hearing how women find maybe one guy per month actually attractive enough to look at twice, but that's one thing that contributes to a low n count. Men also don't like it when women "lead men on" and don't have sex with them despite giving signals or going on dates. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:09 AM
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Agreed! Aside from the abusive ex with nukes living next door it's pretty great here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:08 AM
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Your comment is disgusting the way you are steam rolling men into essentially not being allowed to have their own preferences. Women, including myself, are perfectly ok with any man ending up alone if they can't get someone who meets their requirements. Having preferences is not the same as being able to mold women to fit into your preferences. You can do the former, but you have no influence to do the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:00 PM
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Women don't have to control their n counts because there are no bad consequences for not doing so. If a man doesn't care, great. If a man does care, no one needs him. Women are fine being alone rather than with someone who is incompatible. If marrying these so called high value men (aka misogynists) was a sufficient motivation to keep our legs closed, women would already be doing it. It's not. Women's n counts are only a problem for some men, and since they don't have control over our bodies all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:14 PM
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It boils down to a simple question. Does he still make me feel loved? If yes, I can live without sex. We can cuddle and depending on the issue, figure out ways to fix it. If no, then divorce is an option. If he doesn't see it as a problem because it only affects me, withdraws emotionally, neglects his health or hates the idea of touching me, then the foundation of our relationship is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:52 PM
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Every man looks better with hair than without it, and with thick hair rather than thinning hair. Sorry not sorry. Everyone ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:34 AM
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I only wish I was in europe now so I could actually get a chance at some refugee girls in person. You don't need to travel to a country at war to rape girls and women. I'm sure there are plenty of them where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:43 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:19 PM
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My period lasts around 10 days and we only do blowjobs during that. If I were to guess, piv 8 times a month and blowjobs 4 times. Me getting oral is included in the piv number. Does it count as two separate instances if we go again right away?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:23 PM
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Does oral count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:36 PM
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It's not women on alt accounts who ask women leading questions. It's men who hate themselves and men who want to prove their "women bad" narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:34 PM
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Considering that I spoke with my husband for 4 months mostly via text before he traveled to meet me in real life, I don't think this type of dating would work for me. Why the rush for meeting in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:44 AM
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Yeah I would have preferred being born a male, but this is how I am so I try to make the most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:36 AM
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A man who pays whores is more likely to do that whilst in a relationship than a man who doesn't. I don't care if men do it and if that's all they can get they should go get it. I would never date someone like that. Sex work isn't real work and the women doing it are only degrading themselves. There's videos of guys offering cash to homeless men in exchange for getting them to do things. They get them to fight each other or to take punches. It's about having power over them and getting them to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:18 AM
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You made an edit to your post and it was still showing "30s" to me when I responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:40 PM
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Oh, did you? You made an edit to your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:32 PM
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Mid 30s for you is literally the normal 2-3 year age gap mentioned in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:30 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:23 PM
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Because it affects my standard of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:59 PM
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It makes me feel like you're lower class tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:32 PM
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Having an overbearing MIL would be nightmarish, and it would be even worse if my husband thought I should listen to her. It's better when everyone has appropriate boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:49 PM
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Not sure about kids - pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:08 PM
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Why don't women want to deal with an extended family who have incompatible values, expectations and beliefs? Especially when it's common in that culture to involve your extended family in relationship stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:58 PM
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gave a BJ to a stranger in the party toilets we were all at Fucking gross, ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:15 PM
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I don't even remember the last time I checked out a guy who isn't my husband. Maybe last year. I meet new people every day at work and sometimes one of the guys are smirking in that way attractive people smirk when they expect to be admired, and I just feel indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:08 PM
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Veggies, meat, fish, dairy, pasta, potato. Not a lot of bread or starchy snacks but far too much sugar. I try to eat a salad or roasted vegetables every day because I feel like shit when I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:54 PM
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Requirements: not crippled, not stinky, good teeth and skin, a clean and intact dick that looks nice, not a midget, not chronically ill, not anorexic or morbidly obese, not an Arab (a cultural requirement but guessing from the appearance gets it right 99% of the time). Preferences: long healthy hair that's curly, an attractive face, healthy body weight, white, an average or bigger dick, around my height, well groomed facial hair, big chest, big hands, some muscle and a nice ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:16 PM
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A man whom women want as their boyfriend/husband and other women wish they could have. HVM won't get divorce raped or cheated on because whatever money or thrill there is to be gained is inferior to the joy of being with him every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:10 PM
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It’s easier to claim women’s standards are ridiculous than admit you don’t meet reasonable standards. This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:59 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting a virgin or low n count woman. If you're in your 30s though you're like 10 years late to the party. Where were you when high school girls and college freshmen were looking for their first boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:49 PM
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No to all questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:43 PM
1

I'm very happy with how he is in bed. Nothing I like is missing and he doesn't ask for anything I dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:18 PM
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Yup, and because they tend to marry men who are 2-3 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:23 PM
1

Most women die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:17 PM
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I don't get that. If I'm not dating a guy I don't have sex with him and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:20 PM
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Why would you give any sexual pleasure to an inferior man? They can enjoy a dry dick or improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:15 PM
3

Being in control of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:02 PM
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there was no sex, and no consequences for it. The man didn't get depressed. He didn't get angry or unmotivated. He didn't ask for more. Are you serious right now? 😂 Male friends can go insane under regular circumstances so living with one would be a tremendously bad idea. If you hop over to FDS there's a news article of a male friend pouring acid over a woman sleeping in her own home. Just because she said no. I got groped by a former male friend in my own home when he thought I was passed out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:50 PM
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7 and 9 seem like the same guy. A mix of them with long flowing curly hair would look hot. Then 2 (hair), 1(face and butt), 3 (average), 4 (meatloaf), 5 (bald), 8 (ugly), 6 (femboy).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:45 PM
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Women can be childfree and pro choice and still change their mind about wanting an abortion for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:04 PM
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One
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:58 PM
2

women don't ask men questions here or anywhere, they literally dont give a fuck what men have to say, they just want to talk about themselves This tbh 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:58 PM
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Now I am married non-legally, some people may not look at that as valid Your relationship and commitment are valid, but you aren't married. That's a legal status similar to parental status. A stepson isn't yours just because you choose to call him your son. He's your son when you adopt him. A wife is a family member in a legal sense but a girlfriend isn't. In many countries this is taken into account when seeking permanent residence on the basis of your relationship to a citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:34 PM
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I've listed all my reasons many times and I don't want to do it again right now, so here's a different perspective. Marriage is a social framework in which women are allowed to have children without facing disapproval. They have secured a promise of lifelong commitment, financial security, support from both extended families and a willing father candidate. These things are why children of married couples have better outcomes. No one will accuse a woman of baby trapping, being irresponsible, choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:53 PM
1

No, not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:06 PM
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Yeah. In that case they usually remove the IUD which sometimes ends the pregnancy but not always. Leaving it in risks a miscarriage later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:46 PM
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That's why mocking women who only bring themselves to the table doesn't really work. Yeah, they're not the highest quality women there are but men have proven it's enough for many. Are struggling average men going to be celibate if they could get regular sex from a barely mediocre girlfriend? I think not. Women, on the other hand, have no problems declining men they're not attracted to who also offer nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:42 PM
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Doesn't hurt as much especially if the threads are visible. I'm getting mine removed next month. I thought I would have to move the appointment to this week because my period was late, but it was a false alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:28 PM
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Because they want to have children and they can (since men willingly give up their sperm). They are never in a position to offer a better situation for the kid so it becomes a question of, do I have kids with issues now or do I have them later? And if you would suggest some kind of eugenics-lite where poor and stupid women aren't supposed to procreate at all because it's bad for the kids, then it should also apply to men who willingly refuse to get sterilized even though they are deadbeats, dang…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:16 PM
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Can someone translate this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:33 AM
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women’s orgasms depended more on traits potentially representing investment and attentiveness (e.g. faithfulness, emotional warmth) The red pill is literally teaching men to not invest and to be emotionally distant. It's hilarious. high- orgasm males were more likely to focus on female pleasure, communicate about sexual positions, use sex toys, and perform oral sex on the females in this sample 3 out of 4 here are about the clit. Find it, use toys on it, rub it and lick it and you're good. Notic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:22 PM
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I think I'm pretty average but for some reason I've had coworkers hit on me in every place I worked at. Even this past year or so in both female dominated work places someone saw me without a mask and told me I'm beautiful. Maybe it's different and unacceptable to do that at work in other countries. The funniest one I remember happened in an underground parking lot. A young awkward but cute looking guy came up to me and asked me if I wanted to grab a coffee. I said no thanks with a smile and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:04 PM
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Not getting wet. Some medications can affect it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:33 PM
1

If not college, then trade school or independent learning. It takes 3-4 years to learn a trade of some sorts. Then what? Why aren't they working in their field? Being unemployed for years whilst finding yourself doesn't look good in a resume. If someone doesn't have the ability to get a useful education and a job, life won't get any easier at 30 or 40. People have to move out at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:27 PM
1

How long is a reasonable time to find a job assuming you're already done with school and qualified?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:15 PM
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24 is when you finish a master's degree, so then. Or earlier if their studies didn't take that long. If they don't have studies to take up their time, what are they doing that makes them dependent on their parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:58 PM
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Wait, she can't even support her children in a two parent household and needs help from mommy? LMAO. She's a loser but I didn't know she's a leech too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:45 PM
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Can I find a girl who is good looking who hasn't engaged in the hook up scene or goes out drinking every weekend? You could find a girl who had an epiphany and now regrets it, like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:24 AM
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It feels good in a relationship too, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:57 AM
1

Some male porn stars do perform homosexual acts for money, but that's not comparable because 100% of female porn stars do what they do for money. It's comparable because they receive dick. You don't have to be turned on to receive dick when using lube. You do have to be turned on to enjoy sex. Both men and women want to enjoy sex in relationships. If you can't offer that, pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:51 AM
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Sexuality does require being turned on but porn doesn't have anything to do with sexuality. The women just slap some lube on their hole and put on their best fake pleasure face while a fat guy in his 60s uses her body with the power of viagra. Porn shows the kind of "sex" many men intuitively find off putting in real life and don't want to pay for even if prostitutes are available. Men who do porn let other men fuck them in the ass for money and that doesn't require them to get hard either. Yet …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:24 AM
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Women have sex for orgasms, intimacy and money. If you can't offer the first two, offer money. And no, access to a 'free flowing' average salary doesn't cut it when women also have jobs. You have to be a better deal than the jobs available to her. Try the homeless shelter like that one guy in PPD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:31 AM
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making sure she ate or that she was okay (emotionally or physically), didn’t rush the topic of sex 😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:22 AM
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Women do that for spouses when they get paid. They're called gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:15 AM
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Incels are defined by their hateful internet culture. You're just a regular person who happens to be a virgin. Don't give up 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:02 PM
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If she ever saw me as a viable partner or someone she at least respected, she wouldn’t talk to me about him or any other guy This is 100% accurate. Women talk about men with their friends. Definitely not with the guy they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:57 PM
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I don't think anyone is asking to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:39 AM
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Do you think women should have sex with their SO if they aren't in the mood? No. Their SO should get them in the mood if they want sex. I will say that both spouses should put in the effort to keep themselves attractive and and also act like they are attracted to each other. If you don't touch and flirt it's no wonder that the mood seems wrong. And it helps when the sex is actually rewarding for both. She's not going to be in the mood for the 158th round of orgasm denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:19 AM
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Because I don't get as much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:55 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_rugae
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:20 AM
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A bit of foreplay will help with that. No surgery will create the ridges inside a vagina, and I have my doubts about the overall appearance as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:45 PM
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Finland. It's like eating a bowl of chocolate with a spoon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:25 PM
2

The crunchy squares with a chocolate filling. I think it's called choco roulette.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:56 PM
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A man should be allowed to take a paternity test at any point. Even if he finds out 10 years later that he isn't the father and he doesn't want anything to do with someone else's kid, there should be no obligation to pay child support. In fact the woman should be forced to pay back all expenses he spent on the kid. I also think marriage should protect the family unit. If an outsider knocks up a married woman, he shouldn't have any rights to the kid if the husband is willing to stay married and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:11 PM
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Yes they can. Sometimes, but not always, they start to harbor negative feelings and unsaid expectations and continue to act the role of a friend even though they are no longer one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:44 PM
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I reported 4 comments just this morning. It's tiresome and yet so typical of men to insert themselves where they aren't wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:40 PM
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Word will spread because someone saw it. People knowing you got hit and stayed with the abuser sounds mortifying. He's asking for a divorce with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:39 AM
2

Never. I'd rather not repeat my childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:15 AM
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Having sex gets harder for men when the people around them get married and they don't. Should've thought about it in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:49 AM
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It's not for physical attraction, it's to determine if I like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:27 PM
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Doctors sterilize kids with gender drugs ffs. They should sterilize normal people who don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:54 PM
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I like to see how a guy interacts with other people as well as me. A lot of women prefer to date within their existing social groups. The problem is that a significant amount of people don't have many friends or acquaintances of the opposite sex. I would suggest an app that brings people together in groups. Once 3 women and 3 men have matched with each other, a group chat opens and you can decide where you want to meet up. Then you can see how everyone interacts in real life and if two people en…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:18 PM
1

Do you listen to hip hop No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:32 PM
2

Obviously. He's my first and only love and my best friend. Can't really explain it accurately but anyone who's been in love long term knows how it feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:31 PM
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You should tell the guy. Leave a note somewhere on your last visit. That's how you choose to not be complicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:11 PM
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You know how when you take a toy from a kid they start crying? It's understandable, because that truck is his and he wants it and what you did isn't fair. Well, a toy truck is a toy truck and they have owners. Women don't. I would get rid of the entitlement and objectification that men display by treating us like that truck. No more punishing women in anger when they "take your toy" and leave. Or harboring resentment when women treat you like a friend and don't give you what you want. Men wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:02 PM
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Probably because dating and being assaulted are not linked for short men but for women they are causally linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:39 PM
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Manchildren and womanchidren are those who don't take care of their basic responsibilities. Leaving stuff lying around for others to pick up, not knowing how to do chores, not taking the dog outside to pee, stuff like that. Things that make their SO stressed because they have to handle everything that's necessary or it won't get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:54 PM
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It was great, how about yours? We exchanged gifts, watched a movie, had dinner with some wine and somehow had time for sex too. I got a potted flower, which I prefer because they stay alive a lot longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:07 PM
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You thought me being confused by your comment and asking for clarification was meant to hurt you? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:34 AM
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It sounded like hating women is your default state and we have to give you reasons not to do that. Usually it's the reverse, people giving you reasons to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:39 AM
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An honest red pill man. That's ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:48 AM
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Shouldn't you have a reason for the hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:42 AM
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Made a card and bought a tiny gift. Going to make dinner soon and then we'll probably cuddle on the couch and watch a movie. I also have an untouched jigsaw puzzle we could solve. Already got eaten out yesterday but if he's not too tired after work maybe I'll get lucky again 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:14 PM
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Block and delete. He said no to a relationship and there should be no second chances. Trying to make moves now is inappropriate behavior and if continuous, also harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:28 AM
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You are not going to convince me that splitting a child's family into separate households is a good family structure for him/her. Flaky people with broken families can deal with each other, I'm not taking part in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:08 AM
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Or they can have married parents with a healthy relationship and have a stable life resulting from both parents living in the same family home. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:31 AM
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If she decides to leave, or if he decides to leave the relationship, it doesn't mean they're leaving the kids. It does though. The kids don't see both their parents every day. In fact often the kids will see their dad only every other weekend. I don't want that. Sure, marriage can fail. It's less likely to fail than boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. It's also correlated with better outcomes for children. I can pick between the guy who thinks "let's not get married because I might want to leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:17 AM
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This way if either of you wanted to walk away Nope. I don't want a man who thinks like this because they are not ready for the kind of commitment I want from the father of my kids. You don't get to walk away from your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:50 AM
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Lol I have no idea what you said because it got deleted but I'm guessing it wasn't civil. The funny thing is I wouldn't be opposed to dating an old virgin. If this is how you react to being asked questions, though, I'd walk out and block you on the way to the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:13 AM
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Don't mention it, or lie, or be prepared to answer some questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:08 PM
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Good skin, pretty eyes and the hairline isn't in Narnia. He would go up 2 points if he let his hair down and brushed it. Don't like the nose, the patchy facial hair, the lips and the brows. I give him a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:40 PM
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I met my husband at 19 when he was 21. He wasn't a virgin but in some ways he seemed inexperienced. It didn't bother me at all and I wouldn't have cared if he was a virgin. Now in my 30s I would have questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:14 PM
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I see. Glad to hear it's not a recurring problem. Probably just not in the right mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:30 PM
2

Unrelated, but are you a 19yo with ED?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:43 AM
1

I feel like all 3 apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:26 AM
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The sex didn't work for her. She struggled to unsee me as her long time friend whenever we attempted to sleep together. Like, she would literally cover her face during sex because of how awkward it was for her to look at me while I'm inside of her. See, what did I tell you guys. Don't try to date long time female friends. It will be a disaster. She will have had only neutral thoughts of you for years and it's stupid as fuck to expect that to change. If you value the friendship don't ruin it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:17 PM
1

I wanted to have sex with my boyfriend. Didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19. The idea of casual sex is repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:38 PM
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Doesn't seem like you're right. Count the women in this thread who would gleefully run away from a man in danger. But sure, blame women for getting close to the point where you enjoy them getting hurt. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:02 PM
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Yes yes, we already know men's empathy only extends to other men, relatives and sometimes the woman they are fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:13 PM
2

Yes but I wonder how on earth someone's trans genitals would be passing unless the other person has never had sex before or seen porn. Like do they not notice that the dick is too tiny for penetration or it's made of skin grafts and the "guy" is pumping his ball sack to get hard? Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:19 PM
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They ignore it even when the delivery is on point. If they insist on acting like clowns might as well laugh at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:03 PM
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I'm commenting on what you said. Your pill color has no effect on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:00 PM
1

A disgustingly sweet amaretto and coffee with milk and whipped cream. Or other amaretto based drinks. Occasionally I order a baileys and milk and the bartender (in any bar) looks appalled every time. It's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:45 PM
1

Just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:32 PM
1

Regular condoms feel like a dildo and ribbed ones feel like a cheese grater. Flavored condoms still taste like plastic. The skin on the dick doesn't get to move normally so everything dries up faster. On top of that they never fit right. If you go too fast they break and then you end up having to stop to find out where the pieces went. I'd rather watch TV than deal with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:37 PM
1

Yup. I don't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:52 PM
5

The saddest story was a female 23yo bartender chatting him up to his surprise - when she handed him his check she said her mom's single and she'd love to match them up! Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:53 AM
1

I'm Finnish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:43 AM
1

This is so wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:44 PM
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I did sacrifice on money. Moving to another country without knowing the language doesn't usually translate into a big income and I knew that. Some things I just ignore and it's not a sacrifice. Like height. I won't compromise on attraction though. White men with a lot of hair and a pretty face excite me, others not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:03 PM
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Let me offer some ideas, we can spread awareness about how women are also sexual beings like men so men have to do more to stay fit and that means gym, atheletics, grooming beards, haircut, dressing well etc. The ladies are trying their best to spread awaress but it causes a surprising amount of pushback. Tell them how to make us cum and some men whine how it's too much work and nature doesn't care. Tell them we like it when men care about their appearance and they start talking about height or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:14 PM
1

Interesting. Maybe it's not women picking men who treat them badly, but men treating women badly when they agree to have sex or date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:49 PM
1

But he'd still be hiking or in the garden or out with the bros... with a phone in his hand pointing it everywhere instead of just enjoying the moment. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:49 PM
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It's not virtue signaling to have standards and go after the men who say they meet them. Women don't reward liars by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:39 PM
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Idk if I'm a complete outlier or too old or too foreign but I don't get the appeal of a man engaged in social media. Taking photos of himself, posting and liking comments or going through photos of other people. It's feminine. For as long as I can remember even in family gatherings it was the women who took out cameras, men were just told to stand over there and say cheese. My man just reads his texts, grabs his keys and goes where people are. Neither of us documents our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:31 PM
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If they have to lie to meet women's standards, doesn't that mean they don't actually meet women's standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:16 PM
1

This is the most zoomer thing I've read all week. I'm so out of touch lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:12 PM
1

Everyone should use vitamin d supplements during the winter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:25 AM
1

"Meet acquaintances through your social circle" covers all the points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:22 AM
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21.3%, that is 38.2% of all white men in that age range The test thinks I'm down to earth when I'm anything but. It's not asking the real questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:13 AM
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The equivalent is a high n count. Promiscuous men are more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:01 AM
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They can care about whatever they want. The should or should not depends on whether caring about it leads to the result they are satisfied with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:49 AM
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And that's how you tell when someone is a real friend. They have the capacity to see their friend's perspective and actually value the friendship without anything extra added.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:40 AM
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It can be respectful with no hard feelings. Or he can act entitled because in his head he was expecting something more in return for his friendship. "But you're single now, why won't you date me? After everything I've done? Bitch. You're not getting anything out of me by acting friendly anymore." It's apparent that it's a covert contract when the guy was fine keeping his romantic feelings a secret for a long period of time and it wasn't too painful for him, but he only breaks off the friendship …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:00 AM
1

Eh let's say 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:30 AM
1

I've hit the 30 wall so I'm out of the game, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:16 AM
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The resentment and anger and ghosting that follows when she doesn't reciprocate is why it seems like they were never friends. If you are fine with rejection and still like her company, you're a friend. If you expect her to suddenly develop fantasies about you after 3 years because you think the time is right, and get mad that she doesn't, it's clear you have turned the friendship into a covert contract at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:11 AM
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It depends on the dynamic you have with your parents but just know that they can't make you feel ashamed of your sexuality unless you let them. Having sex as an adult is completely normal and them knowing doesn't affect you. My parents know better than to try and embarrass me by asking details, because I'm nonchalant about it and I will overshare when pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:41 PM
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I would be grateful but heartbroken. He fought the feelings but it didn't work so that's that. His honesty would encourage me to stay civil during the divorce and treat him with respect in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:51 PM
2

men have a much harder time obtaining the same quality and quantity of premarital sex partners than women So do you want sex and partnership or not? Option A: a hard time getting anything, option B: the girlfriend you've had since she was early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:24 PM
1

Honestly, this. I tried swiping on my friend's phone once and it felt so clinical and detached from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:21 PM
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Ty, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:08 PM
2

I mean if they are asking... I'd make them regret doing so lol. You need to be more shameless my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:48 PM
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Lying about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:23 PM
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"Mom and dad, I'll be gone for a night because I'm meeting up with a girl. See you tomorrow or the day after." Or you move out and stop letting your parents get in the way of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:53 PM
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I never decline sex (why on earth would I refuse the things he can do to me, I would be shooting myself in the foot lol). Chores I've always slacked on since we met. I guess what men say is true: they have lower standards of cleanliness. No change for me there either. Idk it feels bizarre to think I should be doing chores for someone who isn't a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:41 PM
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I don't feel like I've changed. Marriage is just a natural stage in my life. I brought up my views on marriage and children early and if at any point I had felt like he doesn't want it or I have to sell it to him, then he would have gotten dumped. I'm not chasing anyone, quite the opposite. I don't associate with people who prevent me from living the life I want. What would be the kind of change that would indicate that I have "given up" on the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:19 PM
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That he's calling women's conceptions of love erroneous and the advice wishy washy makes me think he hasn't really taken the time to understand what women value and consider successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:35 PM
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How can they be delusional if they get what they want and fulfill their expectations? You just stated that they are delusional without explaining how their views differ from reality or how they have faulty judgement. Thinking differently than men isn't the same as being delusional. delusional /dɪˈluːʒ(ə)n(ə)l/ characterized by or holding idiosyncratic beliefs or impressions that are contradicted by reality or rational argument, typically as a symptom of mental disorder; based on or having faulty…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:10 PM
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That's precisely why. The blacks and browns immigrating to Northern Europe are not the smart educated folks of their countries who could offer a real contribution. We tax far too much and pay too little, those doctors and other high earning professionals are better off moving somewhere else (like the US). Most of the people moving here are lower class idiots or even criminals who will never earn more than a social security check.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:14 PM
1

He's a natural or learned rp guy, doesn't really matter which but they all act a certain way. Evasive, not into commitment, interested in physical contact and sex, negs, tries to one up other men and you and doesn't like investing time or money or effort into the relationship. When you don't have sex he leaves. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:48 PM
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If I don't have my own kids, hell no. If I did have kids, I'd be open to marrying a widower or a divorced one. Someone who had kids outside of marriage doesn't have the same values as me. And I'm not "taking care" of his children, I'm paying some of their necessities and supporting whichever way he wants to raise them. Real mom or dad should be the caretaker over me, the stepmom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:05 AM
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They are kind of irrelevant to me, but I wish they didn't turn around and blame women for the consequences of their own choices. Married men are more sexually satisfied than unmarried men, so unmarried men who aren't sexually satisfied should consider if they have done their best to get a wife instead of complaining that unmarried women don't choose them for casual sex. Was there a girlfriend who got away? Can they offer stability for potential children or are those men a hindrance like Chad (bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:54 PM
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An acquaintance asked me what he should do about the 16 year old he was talking to on Tinder. I said, it's legal and if she's making herself available and asking for dick what's the problem. Just don't be a creep by targeting girls who aren't interested in that. Detailed advice is highly dependent on the situation and the person asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:10 AM
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2 dl sour cream, a few table spoons of lemon juice, mustard if you like it, dill, black pepper, salt, sugar. Mix and leave in the fridge for a bit. You can also add capers, gherkin, spring onion or chives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:14 AM
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Nope, that's pretty reasonable. Dumb women won't listen though and smart women are already living by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:57 PM
1

"Not knowing" is an excuse to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:48 PM
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Fish nuggets with creamy lemon sauce, mashed potatoes & carrots and a side salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:43 PM
1

I would not be okay with being a forever girlfriend. When we got married, his parents welcomed me to the family. It was really sweet. You know when they didn't do that? In the 8 years prior when we just cohabited and had different surnames. It makes sense because a gf and bf are not family. I also want kids and I'm not going to have them with someone who doesn't have their best interests in mind. I won't give my best to someone who doesn't trust me. You can call it a piece of paper or government…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:17 AM
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I would enjoy his company and see how long it takes before he runs back home and cries to his internet cult about not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:47 PM
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He needs to have something special about him that makes him seem like a treasure, and of course no deal breakers. I'll settle on the rest. Isn't that how everyone does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:28 PM
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Leaning Finnish sounds like a nightmare so I help where I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:24 AM
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I'd have the baby and divorce afterwards. He made the desicion to be a father to any kids I might have when he married me. Not only will he be responsible for his children, but we are also financially responsible for each other now. I translated the laws for him to make sure he understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:55 AM
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Marry Elon for the money, fuck Joe Rogan and kill the one who is older than my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:38 PM
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No it wouldn't. Women approach the top 1-5% and would have plenty of accidents to keep the human race alive. Men approach because they don't like those odds, not because it's their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:07 PM
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It's not men's job. They can ask a woman out if they want to, but nobody is forcing them. It's perfectly fine to leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:02 PM
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So what really makes up for a unattractive face? Wonky teeth are a real problem. Also don't like a bald head, bad skin, bad looking facial hair, asymmetrical features, huge fat nose, big lips, mono brow, small squinty eyes. There's also an attractive face shape that's hard to describe. Good cheek bones and overall profile. Nothing stands out but the features aren't weak either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:34 PM
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It's never happened to me thankfully. Part luck, part upbringing and part effort, I think. There were times we could have broken things off but chose not to. I'm happier for it and have much less baggage than some people my age. A lot of people never love someone like they loved their first and I still have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:24 PM
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I'm willing to look past a lot of things but a guy has to compensate in some other way so I can even be attracted to him in the first place. I don't have to settle for a guy who is worse than average in every possible metric. A few things are deal breakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:09 PM
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Jobs come and go and my identity isn't tied to a career. Family is my number one priority. I'd rather be in a relationship in which I don't have to worry about my partner leaving me. It's rare to have that kind of relationship without being willing to offer the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:02 PM
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Marriage for the rest of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:34 PM
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Stating that you don't want to be a boyfriend disqualifies you, so you're safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:23 PM
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Is it naive to think guys will do “kind” things just to be kind? Yes. Ask them if they want to have sex with you. Ask ugly girls if they ever get these "kind favors". Women, how do you like navigate this? I’m not trying to use people but like I’m not gonna turn down favors that people offer out of fear they’re gonna use it against me? Accept the favor, offer something in return, say no when they ask you out. Keep doing that until he gets bored or upset. It's their fault for trying to buy a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:44 AM
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You forgot scenario 3: both parties agree to date before they even have sex. They like each other and want to get to know each other. There are plenty of men who don't have to do mental gymnastics to convince themselves that they aren't bad people. It is so easy to tell them apart. Do you realise that there is a whole different circle of people who don't routinely cheat, lie and only think of their own benefit? Too bad the only way to have that kind of social circles is to not soil your surround…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:41 PM
3

It's a disgusting practice and the end result looks disgusting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:32 PM
1

Why hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:26 PM
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Prostitution: many shitty men, shitty sex, shitty reputation, shitty time being a mom, you have no support from the men you fuck. Marriage: one good man, great sex, raises your status, easier time being a mom, non-monetary support from your man. If you don't feel free in your marriage you have made the wrong pick. If he is using you for mental or physical labor, again you picked wrong. The comparison to slavery doesn't work because slaves didn't get to pick their master and they also couldn't le…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:12 PM
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why do you think that men who hoard non-paid sex are any better? They aren't. Men who use prostitutes are low value and men who have meaningless casual sex are also low value. As you said, there's a high chance he has made a girl feel shit about having sex. It's nauseating to think they could stay aroused while their partner is visibly hating what's happening. I love sex. Why would I ever want to let some guy taint that with his uncaring selfish attitude? There would be no worse feeling than kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:56 PM
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Single digits. I'm not sure about my age but I was a lot shorter than adults back then. An adult man grabbed my arm and prevented me from walking with my family. I remember being confused and nervous and just silently stood there, as you do when adults grab your arm and make you. Luckily my parents noticed I wasn't following them and ran back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:24 PM
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Whoever believes that they can change the other person's mind is an idiot. Stop fucking people casually if it's hurting your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:54 PM
1

Men can stomach having sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with them. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:11 PM
2

However long it takes to resolve them or indefinitely. Testosterone replacement therapy should be pretty effective for low T. Women don't have similar libido boosting options available.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:22 PM
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Medical reasons aren't his fault, not giving me any reason and refusing to fix it means he doesn't care about my needs anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:15 PM
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Not divorce him obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:59 PM
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Sure, and they would be able to tell those medical reasons to their wives. You, however, did not make any mention of medical reasons and I replied accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:42 PM
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No, because she has a medical reason and your man example didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:31 PM
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Therapy doesn't fix sexual desire. He can tell me what I can change or he can figure out what the fuck his problem is. I think divorce is instant after 6 months of separation so he's got plenty of time to reconsider. I'd even encourage him to download Tinder just as a reminder that I'm his best option. Did you think you were talking to a woman who thinks men should stay in a sexless relationship for no good reason? Not a very good attempt of a gotcha imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:27 PM
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Then we're done. I'm in my 30s, not 50s. See how I didn't need to ask whether or not he's lost libido for a woman before? What matters is how he treats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:07 PM
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If we're both doing our share we're both equally tired. And if this was a sudden change after having kids, it clearly has more to do with having kids and less to do with his past oral endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:53 PM
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If he didn't eat me out or he bought me a shitty toy ring, I would break up regardless of what he did for other women. It seems like the difference is that men are ok with bad treatment as long as other men got treated badly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:42 AM
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Men don't want to date the women who are benefiting from the safety nets, aka uneducated single moms living in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:21 AM
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When I gave a list of what I want on PPD, at least one guy said 20 bullet point lists are ridiculous and demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:58 AM
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Because sex feels good, it's fun and it brings you two closer. Degenerates don't have a monopoly on the benefits of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:58 PM
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Don't bother with them. They'll describe something about you as really rare in one thread (women who don't have casual sex are unicorns), and if you tell them that's one thing you bring to the table... "is that all?" Reddit is their place to try out how it feels to have options. In reality, they don't have options and they are mad. You can have features that put you above 90% of other women, either statistically or according to the RP theories of these same men, and they will put you down becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:03 PM
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Yeah. He moved to my country and now we're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:38 PM
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Again women do pretty much the same thing Not surprising at all that a man would rather deflect than chance for the better when it's in his power to do so. Thanks for proving FDS correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:45 AM
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If you want to wait, make it crystal clear that you are interested sexually and romantically, and that you are looking for long term commitment. A guy who doesn't make any moves is just a friend, and a woman with a friend is still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:23 AM
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Men can 1) Stop using women you don't want to date. 2) Stop prioritizing casual sex over LTRs. 3) Act like adults. 4) Stop stringing women along for years when you know they aren't the one. 5) Stop trying to lower women's self esteem so they would give you a chance even though they aren't attracted to you. 6) Shower once a day plus when needed 7) Never cheat or be violent. Ta da! If all men did those things FDS would be redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:10 AM
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The standards mentioned in the OP are not relative. Men can fix those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:55 AM
4

It seems incredibly dull to ask hundreds of women for their number and nothing else. Do you go home and start going through your phone book saying Hey Hey Hey Hey to everyone? This is why I don't just give my contact info. If you want to chat with me, start chatting there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:38 AM
3

I love it when inexperienced bachelors try to pretend they know anything about love, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:13 PM
3

Why the fuck would I want to be a mommy maid to a grown man? There are plenty of competent men out there who can carry their own weight and still think I'm perfect wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:59 PM
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How long does he wait to make me his girlfriend publicly and tell me he loves me? I'll start considering sex after that. He is free to take me out or just hang out in a group setting while I'm still single. I hope he makes himself more interesting than the other guy who is doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:24 PM
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What are men afraid of that women could do? According to this sub: divorce rape, baby trapping, paternity fraud, false rape accusations, dead bedroom whilst trapped in marriage, being cheated on, being settled on, being used for their money. Men can be afraid of some women. Usually it's not because she's waving a gun at him. It's because she tells him she "forgot" to take a pill or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:16 PM
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It turns me off because he is bothered by me doing well. I'm just trying to mind my own business. Competitive guys should compete with other guys and not women. If a guy acknowledges my superiority but his ego doesn't crumble as a result, I'm pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:04 AM
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I like hearing this from a man who is happily married. Often the guys criticizing this method are not married, not even in a long term relationship, dating and fucking a string of women they may or may not cheat on or twice divorced, and they are telling us how a HVM (they mean themselves) would never wait. Yeah I don't care buddy, your point of view is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:24 AM
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Men are also a bunch of selfless heros that will go out of their way to save women, children, and other men... Wasn't the case in Afganistan lol. Men rushed to get evacuated and left women and children to the taliban.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:18 PM
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Early sex doesn't kill a relationship. It just rewards the person who pretended to want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:45 PM
1

Be acquaintances first. Meet in group settings or team up if you are both doing the same thing anyways. I can't picture a scenario where I'm really infatuated with a guy but I didn't have any feelings for him in the past months or years of being close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:48 PM
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If they put that on their profile, don't have casual sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 08:02 AM
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There were two dudes who were looking for a table and I invited them to join me. And then more of their friends joined and that's how I successfully got myself friends for the night. I love this. Wish I knew how to do it. I'm always in awe when I meet up with my husband and he introduces me to some random guy he just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:33 AM
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You can not do those things but you get the kind of woman who doesn't care. And it shows. She won't bother to do her hair and makeup if she has to often be exposed to rain and shitty weather. Her hands won't have soft skin and her nails will be short stubs if she has to lift and carry heavy things all the time. She will keep up easy because she wears sneakers all the time. She won't mind about being left alone in a bad area because she never goes anywhere, and because she's always home she has p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:22 AM
1

There are both kinds of shops so it does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:21 PM
1

Why after? If he wanted her to be her girlfriend, he would have asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:25 PM
1

Thanks, you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:09 PM
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I wouldn't be her because I'm not dumb enough to sleep with a Tinder stranger after 3 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:23 PM
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The guy has a nice face but he looks like he's about to cry. I would stay away from him if I saw him at a bar like that. And what happened to his back?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:10 PM
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Hypocrites are those whose actions contradict their beliefs. hypocrisy UK /hɪˈpɒk.rɪ.si/ US /hɪˈpɑː.krə.si/ a situation in which someone pretends to believe something that they do not really believe, or that is the opposite of what they do or say at another time: The reasoning matters. Does she think everyone who is unployed is a loser, but blames her 5-year long unemployment on her abusive ex or some other excuse? Hypocrite. If she thinks a woman's place is at home and a man's place is at work,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:44 PM
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That question is never asked in good faith. It's always followed up with a dismissal of everything she listed. I've seen enough of those threads here. Someone who wants to know about the person in good faith will ask about specific deal breakers, not the full list of traits they can rate and pick apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:05 AM
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"Whatever made you ask me out on a date."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:35 AM
2

Twilight is literally about a family of unusually nice vampires who don't hurt people, and who make peace with their mortal enemies by the last book.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:13 PM
2

This reminds of an individual who thought his relationship got better after he started acting like an asshole. I asked him what changed, well he told his girlfriend he wants to spend time with his friends too. Lmao. PPD guys are 100% maladjusted weirdos who don't know how to be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:08 PM
2

Not all men, just the ones who think it's on women to teach men how to be an adult. That's mommy's job, not your female friend's job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:04 PM
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This is PPD, you're probably talking to a 16 year old who still relies on adult guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:36 PM
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I was reading the thread about how long is too long without sex, and many guys said they don't accept "too tired" as an excuse. I'm just wondering how exactly that plays out in real life. I've been so tired after work that I barely make it through dinner awake and fall asleep in my husband's lap while we watch TV. If you were in his position, would you just shove her til she wakes up and tell her that her day isn't done yet? Or what. Are you people never tired?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:29 PM
2

Come to Finland, we're right next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:01 AM
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Absolutely not. Just fucking look at what they write here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:37 PM
3

My parents had some issue with my boyfriend and didn't want him to come visit during Christmas. I still don't know what, maybe unemployment. They only invited me. I didn't go see my parents for two years. Magically they got over whatever problem they had. It's not my sole responsibility to keep the peace and sacrifice my relationship just because my parents can't get along with the man I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:45 PM
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I would agree to be the girlfriend of #2 if he asked and if he was nice to me. I'd ask the bouncer to get rid of #1 because they never hear a simple "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:11 AM
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Find a good relationship and have lots of sex. It's the same outcome for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:38 PM
4

Pretty much anything that is going to distract me and not let me have an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:37 AM
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Everyone I know is having sex most frequently with their LTR partners. Men and women. TRP is coping hard when they claim that women are having tons of sex with strangers. They want to believe the sex they have with some girl every 2 weeks isn't halfway to being celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:42 AM
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I've also heard on Nordic areas first dates aren't a thing. Like you don't meet to get to know each other. You have sex and if the sex works you go out on a date. Wild stuff Hooking up with people from a bar is common and I think middle aged people do it too. Students book a cheap bar sometimes and party in the middle of the week. People don't really ask for your number with the intention to spend time with you later, when they can just spend time with you right away where you are. I'm a prude b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:03 AM
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Most sex, university. Best sex, right now. I met my husband when I was in uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:08 PM
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I figured you haven't from the way you described your relationship. If you had been in love, you'd definitely know. Not all people fall in love and I think that's ok. You seem satisfied with the way things are. I would guess if you were in love with someone, it would change things for you. That's not always a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:06 PM
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Have you ever been in love? I'm wondering why you chose to not share over 20 years of your life with someone you are in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:44 PM
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Why do you not want to keep him all to yourself? Do you have no fear of losing him sexually or emotionally? Imagine one day he starts dating a woman and he becomes progressively more and more in love with her. At some point he tells you he is in a relationship and the sex is over. He no longer wants to talk about it, see you naked, touch you in any way or even hang out as often as you used to. That wouldn't hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:00 PM
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I got the first one's threads cut shorter, thinking it would help with the poking. It was more pointy that way and the removal was more difficult. The second one I left intact and the threads kind of curved back and don't poke anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:37 PM
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We want kids. He knows about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:38 AM
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Copper iud. It makes my period last 9-11 days and gives me symptoms of anemia (haven't gotten tested), but I decided it's the best option for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:58 AM
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If you haven't even moved in with him after a year why bother. It's crazy how eager people are to waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:08 PM
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Hypocrisy doesn't even apply here. It's behavior that contradicts outspoken beliefs. Wanting an attribute that you yourself don't have is not hypocrisy. Women would be hypocritical if they went around praising mentally ill men and giving them tons of attention and acting disappointed if a mentally ill man rejected them, and then did a 180 and talked about them not being boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:39 PM
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I have spent a day or two lying in bed, I make lists so I don't forget things and check the stove before I leave the house. Those are just emotions and a neurotic personality. Mental illness is your mind acting in ways that make a normal life very hard to achieve. It's always noticeable, abnormal and life-altering. Otherwise it wouldn't be an illness. I don't want to live with someone who is either making my life harder or constantly masking who they are. You can claim they have it under control…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:24 PM
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Courthouse next week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:12 PM
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I'll just avoid dealing with men who make me feel bad sexually and enjoy my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:29 PM
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I guess some of us are trying to make it clear that just because one of these options is hypothetically less bad, you would have to apply force to get a woman to agree to it. This thread is not proof that women actually want one of these options. And no, there are no positives. An asshole loser's commitment has no value to normal women. A man being attractive and successful is great for him but doesn't add anything to a woman's life when she is just fucking him. It's not an achievement to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:26 PM
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But the OP is asking "would you rather be ugly or poor" and women are answering "neither". He didn't introduce any positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:02 PM
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Why wouldn't I just be monogamous with a fantastic man who is great in bed and makes me feel excited and sexy? I don't have to "mate" at all if I don't find someone who is good to me and me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:53 PM
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You can have a happy, fulfilled and lasting LTR without it. A loveless lasting LTR is just another way to say "a lifetime of domestic duties for nothing". 🤡 No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:59 AM
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What a weirdo. Are these men not motivated by anything else the world has to offer? There are cafés, gardens, mountains, zoos, old streets, cruise ships, national parks, festivals and countless other beautiful and interesting places to experience. And he walks an hour... to say hi to women. Next time any of you wants to fantasize that promiscuity is going to stop a woman from marrying, remember that men like this exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:29 AM
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1) What would you even consider to be a high n-count? Something like 10 when younger, or over 20 when above the age of 30. No one gets those kinds of numbers by having serious girlfriends. 2) How do you/would you feel when discovering that your male partner has a high n-count? Is there jealousy? Disgust? Insecurity? Do you feel that your partner doesn't have respect for his body? Would it make you think less of him? That he finds sex unemotional, and likes it that way. That he has exposed himsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:30 PM
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Women don't often get to chill with a dick in one hand and a ruler in the other. We tend to just eye ball it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:12 PM
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I've literally had women call me disgusting and leave because they found out my dick was uncut. You should visit Europe sometime. It appears the women near you are insane. Bitches should start cutting up their own genitals if they like it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:05 PM
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Should've hired a woman lol. They hate not being able to predict who is going to take parental leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:47 PM
2

Uhhh... Basically my brother, but heavier? I would like the similar personality tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:23 PM
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Let's reverse it. Why do some female streamers make fun of their simps even though they receive their income from those same simps? It's because those streamers think you're pathetic for donating your rent money to get a woman to talk to you. They still want your money though, and they know they will keep receiving it even after they mock you. You wouldn't be simping to them if you had a choice and weren't such a loser. So that's the answer. The men who shame the kind of women they are sleeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:44 AM
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Did you notice that in addition to this cheating girl, the club also contained several friends of hers who are against cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:09 PM
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Fucking hell, guys just keep your mouth shut so she can keep pretending you're not stupid. This is what "personality matters" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:21 PM
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In North America or Europe? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:15 PM
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No, but if a woman who had one kid got cheated on, she will divorce the guy and probably settle for having the one child instead of making 2, 3 or 4 babies with him. So the reason for not having kids is "I'm not married/in a LTR" and the reason for not being married is "I got cheated on".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:09 AM
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Never seen a girl get with a guy because he is mean and violent, or leave a guy because he is too nice and safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:55 AM
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Exactly this. Being a woman who's not like other women will only attract men who are not like other men. Additionally men as a whole don't find it positive when a woman exhibits masculine traits and "mogs" the man she is interacting with. They either compete with her or resent her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:08 PM
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I have gotten fuck all from any hiring manager apart from blank silence. That's how it is done in my country. Didn't stop me from applying to as many positions as was needed, asking for feedback on my cv from peers and learning how to write better letters. Boo hoo she didn't want to walk in the park with me. I don't know what to do. Better lay down and rot. Why does it feel like I have 10 times the balls of young men these days, for simply being able to navigate normal adult situations? Porn has…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:23 PM
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It's not baby and bathwater if men are chanting in unison how it's ok to throw out a 10 year friendship as if that's nbd. No wonder men end up lonely when they are older. Women who rely on male friendship will end up lonely for the same reason. Men can't be counted on because the moment they decide they want something you can't give, they're gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:21 AM
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I see, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:01 AM
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I don't understand how blowing a guy then leaving is quicker and easier than just leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:07 PM
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I'd feel a bit weird dating multiple people. And any hint that he is interested in other women would make me not want to date him. However, my clothes stay on if we're not a couple. He can take his sweet time deciding if he wants to be exclusive but I won't be entertaining him in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:59 PM
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Then you can't make male ones either. All you would be doing is offering your holes for use without getting any pleasure, money, love or respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:44 PM
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Men are not your friends. Find female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:40 PM
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If i were to separate form my wife for instance i could not sign up even for 50/50 custody of my son, no matter how much i want it, because i work around 60 hours a week. You can reduce your work hours and she can get a job. The fact that it doesn't even cross men's minds is why no one takes men's whining about custody and child support seriously. Women shouldn't have to tolerate abuse or cheating they can't prove in court just because men can't handle 50/50. Act as a wallet so you at least cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:01 PM
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Did you spend an hour per day watching YouTube videos on things like spotting social cues and learning conversation skills? Did you set a goal of talking to 'x' number of strangers every day? Did you join an acting club to work on being more expressive/emotive? That is autistic. Social skills are like your native language, not a second third or fourth language. You learn social skills just by engaging in social interaction. Talk to people. If you don't have social skills you haven't done enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:01 PM
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They are coping with the fact that their sex partner isn't willing to give them an orgasm, or with their own inability to get turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:08 AM
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Only a small minority of women experience orgasms during casual sex. Men often say they won't go down on a woman unless they care about her. I don't care about strangers or acquaintances romantically so it's not about intimacy with someone I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:11 PM
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It's about orgasms and intimacy with someone you care about. Sex in LTRs can be about one or the other, but usually it's both. Sex with strangers or acquaintances is about neither. That's why I don't engage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:26 PM
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So I'm still able and willing to have sex, just ugly? I'd download Tinder and show him there are still men who want to fuck me. Then I would have sex with those men and he would be able to reconsider if he really wants to stay with me despite the sexual incompatibility. Then again if Tinder gave me zero matches I would settle for his friendship because sex is off the table anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:21 PM
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If this desicion doesn't affect them, then their opinion doesn't matter. You could walk them through what lead you to this desicion and if they are smart enough they'll agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:59 AM
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Most women get some amount of pain, but very few get bad pain. The ones with debilitating pain are a tiny fraction and often have some kind of underlying condition that requires treatment. Most women who get mild to average pain are completely pain-free with proper use of NSAIDs, which also reduce the amount of menstrual flow. Exercise and warm objects on the belly/back can also help. Just make sure your daughter has ibuprofen, naproxen or something similar available at all times and encourage h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:46 AM
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In a perfect world there would be an infinite number of strong and smart 25 year old men to hire. In the real world you have to pick between obese, menstruating, chronically ill, old, secretly pregnant, secretly drunk, quick tempered, sloppy assholes and stupid people. Being moody 2 days a month isn't even remotely the worst thing an employee can pull off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 10:20 AM
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You don't have to feel sorry for me for not liking something I don't have to endure. My husband is turned off by the idea of one sided sex, or as you put it, me letting him do something. I don't let him have sex at me because we would both rather do things I crave and beg for. Lube doesn't create a g spot in my ass, or shrink his 7.5 inch dick lol. It has nothing to do with him being bad at anal. And I'm not sure how much cleaning you do, but we would both go at it with tons of soap and it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:49 AM
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If she thought trying it with another person would be less painful, that other person has a smaller dick than the previous guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:25 AM
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Because it hurts. Because it doesn't give pleasure and you just wait for it to be over (what happened to guys disliking starfish sex btw). Because you have to clean up your ass from the inside. Because your asshole turns loose and you can't hold in farts. Because, despite the cleanup, his dick smells of shit for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:13 AM
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It's like they want women to age backwards. Get more and more dependent on male approval, get a higher libido (while men themselves get ED), be more careless with money, trust strangers more after each time they get taken advantage of, have less of an opinion about what they like, forget sexual experiences and have more free time to devote to a guy. Guys should find themselves a lovely demented old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:46 PM
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It doesn't matter if he gave oral to his ex. If I'm not getting it, next. On the other hand, I don't care if he licked some toes or played with feces in the past. It's not going to happen with me so his ex getting it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:59 AM
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I'd take a minimal amount of items out of the moving crates, order some takeaway and listen to the silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:45 PM
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Shhhh 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:31 PM
1

Never. What even is this question. The day I have unenthusiastic sex with anyone I need to have a long hard look at the things that are wrong in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:15 PM
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I wasn't idealistic I knew that life after university would be like that too. Me doing double the job just to prove that I am good as a man and even then there would be remark. Yup. A professor wrote on my assignment "did you write this yourself?" and that was just one incident out of many. I realised that I could prove cunts like him wrong over and over for the rest of my life, or I could do something equally interesting that doesn't put me in a position where I have to worry about that. My nex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:59 PM
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*every woman who agrees to date someone who acts like a fuck boy A woman who doesn't get her holes stuffed as a pastime wouldn't go out with a guy who thinks himself "the cool, sexually open laidback dude". Shit attracts flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:39 AM
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Some beautiful people are more beautiful than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:12 AM
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Why didn't you ask her to be your girlfriend if you wanted to be exclusive? Of course she is going to get railed by other fuck boys too. Your dick isn't special lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:50 AM
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That's not a contradiction. Women like to respond, but don't care about getting men to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:55 PM
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Women are not interested in knowing what men think or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:04 PM
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Rational adults don't live in a van.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:59 PM
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It's men who get their panties in a twist if a woman wears high heels and she's taller than him. If you don't believe me, just use Google. There are plenty of threads about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:55 AM
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I have the opposite view. Women turn me off and that rules out pretty much everything except gay, solo and hand jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:36 PM
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Why would a desperate man (whose best option is waiting for a girl) ghost and wait many more months for the next time he has sex, instead of just dating her and getting sex whenever they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:06 PM
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Please do. Lots of poor women around the world need a ticket to the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:36 PM
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I don't care as long as he is open about his own past. I jugde the hell out of people's family background and prior abuse, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:34 PM
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There are normal women, and also prostitutes, trannies, autists and rape victims with varying amounts of trauma and mental illness. Many are nice but you can't always be nice and honest at the same time. Edit. Forgot women who are repressed by religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:25 PM
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I'm 5'7 inches or 169 cm. You can do the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:07 PM
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Alright, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:06 PM
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Got it. I thought you wanted to see "something else that makes you an outlier" as well but that's too vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:59 PM
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If my head doesn't reach his chin, he's too tall. If I can see straight over his head while he's in front of me, he's too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:55 PM
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lame dudes talking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:48 PM
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Could you list all the things then? I'll change my flair out of courtesy buy we are not mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:48 PM
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They should be vetting for that from the beginning. What are your thoughts on marriage in general? Do you see yourself getting married before having kids? What do you want your life to look like in 5 or 10 years? If the answer is not satisfactory, next. If he "changes his mind", next. Don't be stupid. He won't align his plans with yours just because you wish he would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:28 PM
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I got pretty much exactly what I wanted and looked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:23 PM
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He has hands and a mouth, right? No excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:20 PM
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I don't believe I would ever cheat on my husband. But I would be capable of cheating under the right conditions. I'm a vengeful spiteful person when someone wrongs me, so cheating is just one thing out of many that could hurt a man who hurts me first. He wants to cheat? I'll make him sleep on our bed with some other guy's jizz on it. Cheating doesn't just happen. It would be a deliberate act on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:15 PM
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This problem is completely self made. Fuck your wife instead. No stress, no drama, no unwanted consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:51 PM
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Fine. Children don't consent. Let single men opt out of paying taxes after their parents pay back the benefits they received for their child. Or did you think you get to reap all the benefits of taxes without paying taxes? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:54 PM
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Single men should be allowed to opt out of paying for those things. Right after they've paid for what they received as children, plus interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:41 PM
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Some men are destined to be cannon fodder. Too bad that kind of thing is frowned upon. There are probably places in the world where women would gladly have their shit tier men deleted by western invaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:43 PM
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You can get a woman from a poor country. If she is stupid and can't learn languages or skills, you can even bring her to the west and she will still need you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:39 PM
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There is probably a huge overlap between men who require casual sex to feel motivated to interact with women, and men who visit prostitutes or cheat whilst married. The needs for variety and the chase don't just switch off. Places where casual sex is banned are worse for women than the west is. So no, I don't think anything of value has been lost. I would argue that it's easier to find commitment because you can immediately eliminate every fuck boy just by not having sex with men who aren't show…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:35 PM
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Yeah I believe it. I'm an introvert and it's never been an issue to meet men. I would go and sit in a club corner with friends and get asked to dance. Study with class mates, get asked out. Play WoW, get asked out. Post on Reddit and have men message me. Sit on a bench waiting for someone and have men sitting next to me to talk. Go to work and have customers tell me I have beautiful eyes, or coworkers asking me out. And that's without social media or dating apps. Not all of them will be desirabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:47 PM
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There is nothing wrong with introverted men. It's not an unattractive trait in itself. The problem is that it clashes with the male role in a dating context. Women who are introverted can have 2-4 friends, go out once a month and prefer to be observers in large groups. They will still get asked out. Taking photos for Tinder, putting on makeup and chatting with men online are all activities that you can do from the privacy of your home. And all of those things make them more visible to lots of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:54 PM
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Ignoring input from younger women. Just like old men do in relationships with younger women, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:38 AM
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Are you willing to stay home and take care of babies? If yes, that would sound great for a woman who likes her job. Get up, go to work, come home to a warm meal and spend some time with baby and husband, maybe do a chore or two, rinse and repeat. If not, I don't really see what the point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:52 AM
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I tend to go with something neutral like "no thanks", "I said no", "I won't stay and chat, are you sure you want to buy me a drink?" and other general short answers. It leaves them with nothing to get mad about or argue against. If they neg or try to get me to explain myself ("what's a girl like you doing in a bar without your husband"), I shrug or simply don't answer. They get bored eventually. I believe it's called the gray rock method but I might be mistaken. PPD men are all about honesty and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:05 PM
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Wait. No mention of n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:37 PM
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This is what I've been saying for a long time. For most men, average men, marriage is the key to a good sex life. It's not the signing of the paper itself, it's the stable relationship that functions as the foundation of marriage. Plummeting marriage rates are a symptom of relationships being more unstable than before. More young people are flaky, lacking a full time job and living at their parents house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:34 PM
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Why do women consume and sexualize gay men in slash/yaoi? Again, because they are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:53 PM
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You are agreeing with women? I am a woman and hot men are appealing. No one is talking about the non hot ones. Do you think yaoi includes ugly dudes lol? The equivalent is lesbian porn and threesome porn, I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:57 PM
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What kind of assumptions do you immediately make about me as a person? You know how to fuck. And you like the act of sex more than the validation of getting younger women. If you were 30+ you'd be in my radar for that reason. It's also highly unlikely that you are an abusive person because it's so much easier to abuse someone younger than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:44 PM
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B is better for getting connections and friends. So that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:36 PM
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Lesbians are women and women are lame. Gay guys are guys and two hot guys is twice as hot as one hot guy. This should be easy to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:07 PM
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If he doesn't want you to be his girlfriend, and he explicitly said this, then you are SINGLE. Stop orbiting and find a man who actually wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:48 AM
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Guys who want to play it safe could just get a girlfriend to consume all their drugs. Higher chance of sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:32 PM
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When you experience it, you know. I don't think life would be worth living without the pursuit of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:22 PM
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It'd be worse if she pretended to be someone different only to spring it later Exactly. The guy would be disappointed because this promising 50/50 girl is suddenly asking for gifts and dinners, and she would be disappointed because she wasted her time on all those dates and still isn't getting $$$. It's better for everyone to enforce their expectations right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:11 PM
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It's a mental illness that leads to gay men and autistic women sterilizing themselves. Very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:58 PM
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Women aren't thinking of men their age who are dating younger women. They are thinking of the much older men hitting on them. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:44 PM
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I would never have an age gap relationship and most men fit within my height preference. It's very rare to meet a man who seems too short or too tall. That said, I wouldn't turn down a man just because a certain reddit user base thinks he's 3 inches too tall for me. Tall men tend to approach more in my experience. If men my height or shorter don't approach me because they assume I would turn them down, that's on them. I'm not obligated to stop going for taller men just so that shorter men would …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:50 PM
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Other people gain plenty in a relationship but you wouldn't. It would be a waste of time and effort for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:09 PM
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You may find them attractive but I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:54 AM
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Any time under reasonable circumstances. No spectators or long nails, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:37 PM
2

I don't like any of them based on those photos. Eyes looking in different directions, baldies, asshole smirks and cartoon jawlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:33 PM
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Being edged repeatedly without relief does that to a person. That's my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:50 PM
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they’ll just go off campus on the weekend to see the guys they actually want. Yup. The hottest guys are not sitting in history/physics/gender studies class.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:13 PM
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Squeeze out a tear and tell him you're sorry for being a cunt. I recommend asking for a hug too. It feels great when you're both tired of arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:02 PM
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You can buy sex and a wife with money but you can't buy attraction. Down voting doesn't make it untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:02 PM
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Blue for sure. He's a romantic 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:10 PM
0

Height isn't that important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:09 PM
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It was college students, not college age men. The reason? Stem nerds are unattractive and young men in trades (not in college) are hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:04 PM
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I hate the idea of being binded to something. Because I don't want to have kids with someone who thinks like this and requiring marriage weeds them out nicely. Plus all the other things people have mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:44 AM
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Ready, as in, ready to ruin the kids' lives and split the family so they can go try to have sex with someone else? Or ready to live the rest of their lives without having PIV sex with their wives, because as they themselves proudly preach that's the correct and smart thing to do? The way men talk about dead bedrooms makes me think it's the first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:37 PM
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100 n is a no under all circumstances. The virgin hasn't had the opportunity because... he was away on a research assignment for 5-10 years? And is ok looking? That would be nice. He'd do anything I wanted after 5-10 years of built up thirst. But if he's a virgin because he's ugly, there's a good chance I'd find him ugly before he even tells me about his n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:28 PM
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It's not always about money although that can be the case sometimes. Women who came close to dying during their most recent pregnancy or childbirth might not want to risk death again. Many women are disfigured during birth. Skin and muscles tear and doctors sow them back together incorrectly. If I had to live with pain and couldn't have sex normally, or if I shat and pissed myself every time I jumped, I would not want to inflict even more damage onto myself. People offer sterilization as the sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:13 PM
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Smart move. Some women don't stop at 5 and horribly injure themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:54 PM
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I figured. Men tend to shut up real quick about abstinence when they realise it affects them too. Who knows, maybe a married pro life man shows up to give his input.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:48 PM
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I wondered how they feel about it, not what they can do. Maybe you should take your own advice and reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:46 PM
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Are married pro life men in favor of being dead bedroomed until they comply with their wife's request to get a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:54 AM
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Are you speaking for married pro life men and saying that they are OK with never having intercourse again with their wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:53 AM
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I wonder how married pro life men feel about dead bedrooms. If their wife is done having kids or at risk for developing complications, the logical thing to do is to stop having intercourse. A large chunk of women seeking abortions are married, iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:35 AM
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men don't actually care about preventing pregnancy, they only care about dodging the consequences of pregnancy Yeah no shit. It's because they can't get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:42 PM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:39 PM
2

It's impossible to reimplant an embryo. It'll die in seconds after it's detached.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:33 PM
1

Those lonely men can just date each other. You said no attraction is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:03 PM
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Anti vaxxers will have fertility problems? Natural selection in progress I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:33 PM
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Sitting on his lap, leaning on him, touching his hand and leg, looking down and up with an approving smile, leaning close and whispering in his ear, any kind of physical contact that's out of the ordinary. Those are pretty obvious imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:27 PM
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This. If you say something that's false, people try to correct you. If you say something that's correct, they either agree or they get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:08 PM
3

Do therapists prey on the mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:08 AM
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I think the complaints about deadbeat fathers and men not taking responsibility for birth control and unwanted pregnancies are WHINING. Women get to choose exactly when we want to have children, how our children are born, whether they are breastfed or not, and have a huge variety of completely reversible effective birth control methods available to us. Those are privileges that result from having a female reproductive anatomy. But men have privileges too. They can get you pregnant without giving…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:23 PM
1

Just a sore arm like now but nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:38 PM
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The second dose is making me feel like shit. Mild flu symptoms that come in waves and I feel really tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:15 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's him or you. It is what it is, don't worry about it. The drink is on the floor and now you just need to get another one that's just as tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:35 AM
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I did say I’d be free after his trip and sent a message asking to let me know when he’s back. No response. You've done your part. He doesn't care enough to contact you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:20 AM
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You're defending not washing your ass every day. No wonder PPD men can't get laid. It's revolting lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 07:16 AM
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🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:32 AM
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10 years older than me I also got genital warts from him What the fuck are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:11 PM
2

Face
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:54 PM
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It's gross to not wash your face, pits and ass at least once a day. And at that point you might as well shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:53 PM
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Just turn them away. Sorry, I'm busy now, text you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:47 PM
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It's when their "honesty" doesn't match up at all with observed reality. No it's the opposite. Telling a guy he's showing red flags and comes across as undateable gets you downvoted. They want women to blow smoke up their asses and the next day they rant about dishonest women like you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:59 PM
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If men don't like honesty from women and they don't like dishonesty from women, guess what, they don't like women. M-i-s-o-g-y-n-y
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:00 PM
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I was expecting them to like honesty after jerking each other off with the "women lie to young men about everything and ruin their lives" narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:53 PM
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He must not be offering enough money then. You should ask for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:33 PM
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If you (PPD men) want women to be honest, why do you downvote honest comments from women? I thought you didn't like hearing shit like "there's someone for everyone" and "some women won't mind that".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:28 PM
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Try dodging the question and definitely don't voluntarily offer this information about yourself. This isn't lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 02:21 PM
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So it was a recent glow up. Think about this. What would an employer think of someone in their late 30s who has not worked either short gigs nor been employed anywhere long term? Close to zero work experience needs an explanation, and "I was unemployable until now" is not an explanation that makes you look good. Not dating in your prime years is very suspicious regardless of your exact partner count and at that age I'd consider it some kind of baggage. Try dodging the question and definitely don…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 01:04 PM
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we fucked raw after knowing each other for a few days You are the male equivalent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:07 PM
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You remove him from your life. If become obsessed with another dude, you remove him too. And the next one. Remove every one of them. Chasing after a guy who doesn't want you is a waste of your life. Every day you could meet someone who would love you back. You are losing once in a lifetime chances. Pull out the knife and heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:54 AM
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Pay her more than a job would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:41 AM
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You should look for women who are not serious about having a family or building a life with someone. Let's be honest, if you are somewhat attractive and only dated for 3 months by your late 30s, you aren't very serious about it either. It's ok to date for the fun of it and being up front about it might help you find the women who won't immediately ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 11:37 AM
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Let me guess. She is on hormonal birth control and/or the sex is not usually mind blowing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 10:10 AM
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I hate the push for casual sex and experimenting and "finding yourself". I didn't need to be told by friends, magazines, tv shows and movies how my first time was going to be awful and probably with someone I don't care about, how heartbreak is inevitable and how navigating dating, casual sex and situationships is confusing. It's not true. The people jumping into bed with everyone who dares to ask are bringing these problems onto themselves. Regular romance is very simple. You start dating, get …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:37 AM
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You just told everyone you're convinced that you wouldn't be a woman's best lover if she slept with anyone else. Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:12 AM
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Funny thing about consent is that you can say no to both shitty options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:29 AM
1

Just ask girls out you meet at the bar or social events "uhhmmm... I don't... Like... Even... Know you...." Lol? This is rejection, everyone faces rejection, but holy shit. The reply to this is. "Well lets get to know eachother" jesus lol how simplistic do you need it to be Yeah. I swear these guys have no social skills... She didn't say "no thanks, I'll pass", she said something that can be answered or negotiated. So convince her! If a man can't influence a woman's opinion about himself, how is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:44 PM
2

If they step or lean back to get away from you, you are in their personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:49 PM
2

Vampires are hot ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:49 PM
1

Not in my experience. People just get mad because they didn't get a position they aren't entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:36 AM
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I have empathy for some strangers and not for others. What kind of feelings did you try to explain to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:34 AM
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No, it's like telling that complainer "have you considered writing a CV" and then getting a bunch of excuses and bitter ranting that employers have unreasonable standards and no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:20 AM
2

It has a free trial with no time restrictions and a new expansion coming out in a few months. Great time to try it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:41 PM
1

I've been playing FFXIV since 2015 and still haven't ran out of things to do. It's the best MMO on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:31 PM
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I used to feel it was my duty to shield my girl from risks so that she can have her own potential to build her own life and take on her own risks without worrying about mine. It's everyone's duty. I don't believe that spouses should put their future on the line to benefit the other person. Not imposing risks on your spouse is the bare minimum. Some women want to be stay at home wives and that's fine. They tend to be surrounded by close knit community that will support them if things go south. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:56 PM
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My dad bought me a laptop. My pc is worth more but my husband bought it for himself and gave it to me when he got a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:20 AM
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No. I just have a feeling that there are men who would question their choices if they came home to a messy house, dirty dishes and a wife in pyjamas talking profanities at a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:00 AM
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Well, any man who sleeps with me has this knowledge in advance. It's not really a trap if I told my boyfriend I want to get married and have his babies afterwards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:46 AM
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Gaming doesn't destroy career opportunities like supporting someone else's dreams does. Moving to a new place and becoming unemployed because hubby got a good offer would be risky and I won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:00 AM
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It might be if you play as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:56 AM
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He can give his opinion and tell me what his plans are but ultimately it would have a bigger impact on me. Maternity leave is longer, I can have fewer kids in a lifetime and pregnancy affects the treatment of some illnesses and my ability to take medicines since it happens inside my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:51 AM
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Yeah that's how we did it. I'm 100% transparent on what birth control I'm on at any time and we discussed when would be a good time to stop taking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:42 AM
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I'm not going to quit gaming. I don't care if it makes successful upper middle class men avoid me. No casual sex, cosmetic surgeries or filler injections. I won't give up career opportunities to be the supportive gf/wife. I also won't do more than half of the housework if I'm employed. I am not childfree and if I get pregnant, what happens afterwards will be my decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:56 PM
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They are poorer because they make more kids. Any western person could choose to have kids young and have too many of them. They would be choosing poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 01:05 PM
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My "alpha men" were never mentioned, dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:18 AM
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If you need to use guns, knives and whips to get women, sorry meant to say 9 year old girls, to sleep with you... You're a giga-loser male, whatever is below beta. The losers gripping onto planes instead of defending their country with the 20 year training they received, are beta at best. An entire country and culture full of unattractive coward men. It is impressive in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:15 PM
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Men in your position can buy a wife, teach her the language and build a family that way. Arrangements like this work sometimes and sometimes they don't, but at least you will get the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:42 AM
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This is why dates are between two people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:50 AM
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Yes but should women have had sex with him despite of all that? Or was it good that women did not pick this violent man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:31 PM
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Showering is the best feeling ever. I'm glad the water bill doesn't depend on usage. When we get a sauna one day I'll sit there instead. Also nail polish, skin care and hair removal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:25 PM
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The down votes on specific comments tell me I definitely made a few incels mad today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:43 PM
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Acts that harm someone are immoral. Sex before marriage is not automatically immoral, and sex within marriage is not automatically moral. I don't desire casual sex and I can't relate to the reasons why people have it, but I have never heard a convincing argument for it being immoral. Relationship sex is fun and lets you test for incompatibilities. It is not immoral to make an informed decision about the person you will commit to for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:39 PM
1

The latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:31 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:30 PM
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I'll not let you make a decision for me/us if I disagree with it Moody Not athletic and I don't like working out Lazy with housework I don't want to drive I sleep a lot and don't react well to being woken up early I need quiet time alone and don't like to chat for a prolonged period of time Strict boundaries with personal items: don't touch my things and don't borrow without asking. I bought it, it's mine, go buy your own. I spend a lot of time in the bathroom I don't wear a bra at home (or any …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:27 PM
1

I'm all for legalizing prostitution done by self employed women. But they won't fuck all men either. The only way to remove sexlessness is to remove choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:03 PM
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On the other hand, some men never abuse anyone except their own family. If he had gotten a girlfriend and kids he could have been in the news for murdering them instead. A story as old as time. The hypothetical woman would also have been blamed for picking such a bad bad domestic abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:00 PM
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If they had it in them to join in the fun, they would already be strong or powerful or both and thus selected by women. The weak and powerless whine online and off themselves. Not exactly soldier material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:32 PM
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A lot of women think that mentally ill or fat or trafficked women shouldn't be used as sacrificial lambs to appease men who aren't rational choices. Such as this shooter. And I'm not sure a lot of incels in general would qualify as rational choices. A lot of them seem to be mentally ill and not have their life in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:26 PM
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No answer from you, that's too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:12 PM
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How's Afganistan doing these days? I hear all choice has been removed from the women. It must be a pacifist paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:08 PM
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It won't be the norm, because the powerful and strong men whom women select for and have kids with, don't like their 3 year old kids getting shot. Men will fight it out like usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:06 PM
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If she dates a violent man, he was always violent. She rewards violence. If she doesn't date a violent man, he didn't use to be violent. She caused violence. Anyways it's her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:57 PM
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At worst its: "they shouldn't be picking assholes instead of decent guys." It's never "assholes should not be getting laid ever". I actually didn't think of this. So much of the whining from incels revolves around Chad this and Chad that. I just assumed they wanted Chad's women to themselves, not to equitably share them with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:53 PM
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That's really introspective. People do a lot of growing in their teens and twenties and someone with good intentions might not always be a good partner. Fathers who have gone though that themselves probably have good insight and healthy scepticism when it comes to their daughter's first boyfriends. Have an up vote
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:49 PM
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That calculator works in the same manner but to you only one of them makes sense. That's called an irrational bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:39 PM
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That's too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:37 PM
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First you say women's affection prevents men from becoming violent but now you claim women have a taste for violent men. Is the tendency for violence inherent or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:36 PM
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He was an aggressive murderer but no one slept with him. How come? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:32 PM
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Are you saying women should have slept with the toddler killer or that women were right not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:30 PM
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Luck, then. And was it a good thing no one slept with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:25 PM
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The world is full of stories of men with girlfriends and wives who end up beaten and/or murdered. If love prevented violent tendencies from emerging, domestic violence would not be so prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:23 PM
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So let's do some math like men do math on this sub when they calculate how unrealistic women's standards are. Wealth 0.71, dick 0.5, height 0.5, weight 0.39 and hair 0.42. Those are your stats for the bottom tier men in each category. 0.71x0.5x0.5x0.39x0.42=0.03 Men who are lacking in all of these 5 areas are in the bottom 3%. Not average. Average men may have a couple of undesirable traits, but they also have some desirable ones that compensate for it. And women who want their man to have some …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:12 PM
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I was responding to his comment, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:54 PM
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Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:51 AM
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she must be one percent of the total world population Which is fine if the number of men with no discernable good qualities is also very low. What percentage of men are 5'6 or under, and have crappy hair, and have an ugly face, and have no money, and have a tiny dick, and are very overweight? We're not talking about bottom 80% here, that's for sure. Most average women are fine with getting less than everything as long as there is something to like about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:44 AM
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If you like to judge women for their sexual choices, as one does, pick one option. 1) Women should have sex with men who have violent tendencies, who blame other people for their problems and who think the world revolves around them. That way tragedies like the UK incel mass shooting could be prevented. 2) Women should NOT have sex with such men. If women have sex it should be with good empathetic men who protect their communities. Women were right to not sleep with the incel mass murderer, whet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:36 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:30 AM
1

Yesterday I up voted some posts opposing male genital mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:21 AM
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Unless she raids too. Men get so damn salty when you perform better than them and then you have to deal with their insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:10 AM
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I wouldn't want a guy like me for my hypothetical daughter Why not? Do you mistreat women? Make them upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:54 AM
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Aka you will blame them for trusting a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:40 AM
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It's like the witch trials. If you do what Seil thinks you should, you are a "good" woman, but you get killed by a big aggressive man. If you do nothing, you survive but now you are a "bad" woman who is easy to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:14 AM
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They do, which is why casual sex is so hard to get for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:53 AM
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And they don't predict orgasm achieved through clitoral stimulation. Because anyone can do it right. Bad lovers just refuse to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:33 AM
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They are a minority. A woman who is too embarrassed and anxious to even come from oral is sexually repressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:33 PM
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Of course the loser killed himself. They always do. They deal physical and emotional violence but are too pathetic to withstand the verbal backlash of their own actions. Hearing his little manifesto being mocked would have been too much to bear to a snowflake like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:29 AM
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Yup. But if he's not even sure whether he wants to get to know a girl one on one, she doesn't have to wait for him to make up his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:46 AM
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That's not a date. It's meeting multiple eligible bachelors in one go. I hope you are the best choice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:49 AM
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Women don't have to compromise in this manner. Being married or having kids is not a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 10:03 PM
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I wouldn't even have to abort #1's baby because I wouldn't have sex with him in the first place. Men who wouldn't step up are losers and losers get nothing from me. Go be child free on someone else's time. And #2 is supposed to be boring, ugly and bad at sex? Those guys are a step down from being forever alone. Sorry to shatter the revenge fantasy but women do marry interesting, cute guys who are great at sex. That's my pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:51 PM
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If it's not fine then why did you single out sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:41 PM
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And if I'm not a slut it's totally fine to have eyes closed teeth clenched missionary once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:15 AM
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What happens to the women who try to have more than one man? Oh that's right, they get stoned to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:07 PM
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I don't think well of her taste in men or her judgement. It's going to end our 25 year friendship because that guy is not welcome near my future kids. She seems to have a different impression of him than I do, which is baffling. Either she doesn't condemn the way he acts or he doesn't act that way towards her. In the past he has taken me in a choke hold from behind as a joke, drunkenly talked about killing us all, climbed a railing to look in my second floor window and almost came in through the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:32 PM
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All partners are welcome, unless it's a rare girls or guys night. I usually prefer mixed group gatherings, except now that my best friend is dating the biggest asshole I've ever met. I can't wait for the day they break up. Looking less and less likely though...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:10 PM
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A woman being slightly annoyed by getting asked out doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. There's a vast difference between genuine attempts to get a date and catcalling with the intent to humiliate, intimidate or objectify someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:58 PM
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Potato chips
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:31 PM
2

I wonder how many people I've murdered with my copper iud. It's got to be at least a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:25 PM
2

bad reproductive choices Like having sex with your husband? Damn and here I thought men were against dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 03:16 PM
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I still don't get to "pick" who I want. They're called mail order brides. She won't love you but I hope you were not under the impression that men get to pick who love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:36 PM
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If you don't know the majority opinion (or even if you do) you formulate your own stance and bear the consequences. People following "objective" rule books do that too. They will help their mistress/daughter/friend get an abortion because it's the best thing to do in the situation, and they'll try to reconcile it with their opposing religious beliefs afterwards. Even if the outcome is different for different people, we all have an ability to evaluate the morality of our own and others' actions. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:18 PM
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Imagine dating them... Everything has to be done for them and you'd have to listen to whining about x y z all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:05 PM
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If people think you're a dick or a creep or untrustworthy, that's up to them and they will treat you as such. If the majority of people in one culture think you're being immoral, then you are, at least in that culture. If you want to ghost then ghost. Action, consequences. You'll be called fucked up by someone, and maybe others will know to avoid dating you in the future. Asking reddit how dare they judge me won't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 08:18 AM
0

Your friends are awful at sex. Women don't say no to orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:11 PM
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Look at the comments below yours. Sex and a low n count. There is no reason for women to give any fucks about what they bring to the table lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:43 PM
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I don't have to worry about this. Men can 1) Leave me alone or 2) Try to get something from me. Both are fine but we all know men aren't content to let a single childless woman be by herself. You said it yourself: As guys it's almost 2nd nature for us to take inventory of what we have and then see what it is that we can offer a woman we are interested in as a sort of way to barter for her attention. As for why I want to attract a man. I want sex, kids and companionship and the high of being in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 07:51 PM
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I work in a pharmacy. The older customers are more discreet when asking about our products or prefer to not chat at all. But the young ones just lay it all out there, they tell everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:48 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:35 PM
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How to tell people you're a man without saying that you're a man. 😁 I had a customer earlier this month who was walking funny and agitated. Turns out she's got a bright red and sore vag that gets worse every time she has sex. Soap or no soap, yeast meds, lactic acid bacteria, lube, moisturizing gel and so on, none of that helps. It's not an STD. So what is she to do apart from not having sex? It's hard to get appointments during covid. I find it completely believable that someone could have to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:19 PM
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Started dating at 19, got married at 27. The manosphere sees got married at 27 and calls it riding the cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:56 PM
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You didn't just mean talking, did you? Women can get the benefit of men's existence in society without having to be good deals to men, they can go their own way. Men can go their own way without being a good deal to the mother, nurse and baby sitter who look after them and feed them as children. They can have women teach them most things in school, reap the benefits of a great career and never pay it forward. Men don't have to be good deals to all the health care professionals who keep them heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:26 PM
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Men cannot get any benefit from women without being good deal to them directly. Like being physically fed when you can't feed yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:29 AM
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We wouldn't be dating because I don't ask men on first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:52 AM
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I think I would have felt better if I wasn’t complimented back at all if that is the compliment. Alright, noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:53 AM
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If the premise is that men are valued for what they do and women are valued for what they are, then it's easier for men to become high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:25 PM
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His plain boring self is giving her something she wants but not giving this demanding male "friend" something he wants. Still a point for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:06 PM
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He's going to politely decline your cringy whore offering and think to himself how his old friend is stuck in the past and hasn't evolved at all. We've all had friends like that. They are starting to get grays and wrinkles but they want to go to the same bar where we used to hang out 10 years ago and can't maintain friendships without being fueled by alcohol and loud music. Same city, same lifestyle, same conversations. Like an old song on repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:01 PM
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His wife stays by his side but his fair-weather friend wants to leave asap if he isn't entertaining enough. Another point for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:10 PM
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Licking pussy is enough. Dead bugs and cutlery are not bedroom items.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:58 PM
3

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:35 PM
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That love is real and it's worth it to pursue it and build your life around maintaining it. TRP says oneitis is a weakness and advises men to get over it. That being hurt by the opposite gender is not a sign that the opposite gender is like that. While there are gender differences, abuse is not a defining trait for either side. You need to pick better. That having and raising kids with your wife (whom you treat well) would lead to more happiness and sexual satisfaction than the obsession with ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:40 AM
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Perhaps the way society treats lonely men vs women helps to explain why so many guys decide to take extreme action and become violent You can hurt or kill us all you want, but even that won't make us care about unhinged losers. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:09 AM
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Silly girl. Should've waited for you to say it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:26 AM
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The guy doesn't like his options and whines about it. Why should anyone care? I don't care about women who don't like their options either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:17 AM
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That wouldn't be a problem. If he's inside me I already came.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 09:43 AM
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Of course. They are men. They respond to female disapproval but it doesn't have to be loud. Short and polite replies but do not smile. Look at them like they are disgusting and worthless. Treat their proposal like the tasteless joke it is. Body language is what the majority of human interaction consists of and you can communicate a lot of disdain without saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:09 PM
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Fit and nice face then. Just one more between good dick game and money, whichever is your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:58 PM
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What makes you think I haven't? He's not the one asking for female validation on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:53 AM
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If it only applies to the dating scene then that proves my point. Men don't want or need validation from old women, really ugly/fat women, disabled women or married women. They only want it from their sexual and romantic options, and they will often interpret any validation from those women as sexual or romantic validation. Ask any woman if her politeness has ever been confused with flirting. It discourages women from giving acknowledgement to guys they aren't interested in. Once a woman starts …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:49 AM
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Having the sex appeal to get any man to do your bidding and the power to crush those who oppose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:56 AM
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Pick at least 3. Tall. Healthy hair. Fit. Nice face and facial hair. Good dick. (Money.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:48 AM
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Men don't care if women cheer them on. They only care about sexual and romantic validation. What is it going to do for a forever alone dude that I, a married woman, tell him he's doing a good job in the gym and that it's wonderful he got accepted into a university? Other men aren't going to look at it and think "wow amazing I want compliments from married women too".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:39 AM
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If you don't want to turn them down you should feel guilty. It's disrespectful to assume you would dump your boyfriend or cheat. Why would you feel bad about shutting down disrespect? Just tell them that you would never ever date them under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:31 AM
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Average women aren't invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:07 PM
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You mean... He isn't going to be a sex pest? Lead her on? Try to get her drunk? He is just going to go away? Great 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:57 PM
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Partially correct. They can care about it a lot, but still want to have sex more than they want to avoid getting pumped and dumped. Seems like more and more do care though. There are more sexless young men and women have fewer sexual partners than before. Younger people are more conservative than millenials. Tiktoks about what a proper date looks like are being openly shared. Men should prepare to say goodbye to easy casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:14 PM
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Stating a fact isn't shaming. Those men are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:02 PM
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That's disgusting. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:51 AM
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Because I would be going out to fuck other men while he was with his other wives, and that would make him sad and jealous. Men are much easier to live with when they aren't sad and jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:10 AM
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I always knew they could be hormonal and get angry or inappropriate out of nowhere. That's expected since they have a lot of testosterone in their system. What really changed things for me was finding out that they will betray your trust and disrespect you and think they are in the right. Even after you get to know them. Someone who you've been friends with will assume you're a cheating whore and ask you out knowing that you have a boyfriend. Or they will wait until you are passed out to put the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:59 AM
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To argue and laugh without fear of censorship. Name any other sub where I could express controversial opinions and not get banned. Even FDS and TRP will ban you if you don't follow their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:50 PM
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I don't have sex when I'm single but I also would not wait around for a specific guy to make up his mind. If you want me to act like your girlfriend then make me one. My man asked me to be his gf before I had time to date other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:35 PM
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Men: women aren't owed exclusivity and they shouldn't assume that they are in a committed monogamous relationship unless he explicitly said that. Meeting his mother doesn't mean you are his girlfriend. Also men: wait why are you dating other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:22 PM
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"Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners." Just as men wanted it. You think women with lower n counts are more valuable and then act shocked when women get a sexy FWB instead of fucking a random drunk every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:59 AM
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Women don't "get a guy to commit" lol. We see a bunch of men when we are single. Are those men in a soft harem too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:02 PM
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Men build society and women ... build men. You would have died a thousand times over if a woman didn't feed you and keep you safe each day. Every man owes his life to multiple women who took part in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:28 PM
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No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:29 PM
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women absolutely depend on men collectively for their existence Who give 24/7 care to male children below the age of 1, ensuring their survival? Women. Wherever there is a baby, a woman is looking after it. Mothers, grandmothers, nurses, day care workers and baby sitters are the reason the next generation of men aren't rotting in their diapers and starving and dying of heat or cold while adult men are programming smartphones and manning the oil rigs. It seems like we're all dependent on each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:20 PM
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Category A is any woman who didn't buy the bull shit that having sex with a bunch of men you don't know is the path to having a family. No religion required. Category B did believe the bull shit but they learned. I can't fault them when they are constantly bombarded with the idea that relationships only follow from casual sex. There are people in this thread saying it. "One time is reasonable but multiple times is suspicious." Multiple times is straight up a sign of having a low IQ. The saying d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:08 PM
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It's a nawalt post by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:49 PM
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I already know he had sex with and dated beautiful teenagers before me. Athletes, bubbly fun girls, cute stoners. Men who are hotter than him have sex with stacies. Men who are uglier than him have sex with stacies. It has nothing to do with me and being hung up on a random girl's dating history would make me a worse partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:37 PM
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Ohh now I see. Men falsely believe drawing boundaries is the same thing as being an asshole. When i start out to be a jerk, leave her alone without a word when she starts her usual bs about the toilet paper, start to say "NO", demand my personal time, go out alone to do what i want, and make her earn everything she gets from me, suddenly she starts to respect me again How about you tell her she's a fat cow and spit in her food next time. That's being an actual asshole. Then report back how quick…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:56 AM
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If it's the other way around then why don't guys want to be a beta bux? You are saying that leads to warm, happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:43 PM
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So when you bring your wife flowers and kiss her neck, she stops fucking you? And when you throw her cat across the room she gets horny again? Like what are you on right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:34 PM
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Say what you mean and mean what you say. Ignore pushback and never apologize if you aren't wrong. People with confidence dgaf. If a guy has maximized his looks, his attitude, and confidence but still doesn’t get dates then what could be happening? Then he's not fun to be around. A border security guard is confident enough to tell you to spread your cheeks, but that's just uncomfortable and you want to leave as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:23 PM
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A guy with a job who likes to make her smile and see her be happy. What a nightmare, women would hate to sleep with him. /s. Have to add it because you people are legitimately fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:13 PM
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How's it weird? Women expect it precisely because men want sex more. Women have more bargaining power as a result of their ability to go without shitty sex. They can pick quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:45 PM
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Women could just open their legs twice in a lifetime to have their two kids, but it's mostly men who want recreational sex. Enough to outnumber women on tinder 4:1. Men are ridiculed for wanting sex for the sake of pleasure and being too stupid to realise that reciprocity is how you get it. Imagine having an ego that big that you think other people are going to make a routine out of pleasuring you for literally no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:27 PM
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This is why I acted like a slut when single (except for having sex). It weeds out the weirdos who care about n count or virginity, and makes it clear that I like sex. Then you just pick from the guys who ask you to be their gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 04:33 AM
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Mid 30s. What's going on with the hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:41 PM
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Anything that isn't relationship sex. Or sex that you have when you are single. Affair partners are cheating, which is separate from casual sex to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 04:01 PM
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Do your own homework
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:06 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:23 AM
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Either you have to spend years in university competing with your peers to get an education which allows you to have access to better jobs, or you have to compete for the low level jobs with immigrants and slave labour in foreign countries. If you get a job, your high taxes are spent on pensions for the elderly who outnumber younger generations, and you pay older generations even more through rent because they own a lot of houses as investment properties. Oh an occasionally your government (made …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:05 AM
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Now we know why their views on dating are so bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:33 AM
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men don’t just want the hottest women, they want every attractive woman. For fucking. But what about commitment, resources, home life and monogamy? They pick the best woman available.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:11 PM
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No. I'm saying I expect men to pay shit for women they like just as I expect a bird to fly and a fish to swim. It's how men are. The expectation is founded on observed behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:55 AM
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but expect him to pay for shit he didn't want We expect him to pay for shit he wants to pay for, which is us. If he doesn't want to pay for anything then women would prefer that he doesn't pay for anything. So we can find the man who does want to pay. It's a well established phenomenon that men trip over themselves to throw money at women they find special. Watch what they do and choose accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:29 PM
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Men read "no hookups" as "blah blah blah hookups". You should instead use "looking for a loving relationship with a man who is interested in marriage" or something like that. It reads like "blah blah blah marriage" to them and you find the right kind of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:16 AM
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I declined all invitations that sounded like he just wanted sex or to get me alone with him somewhere. Then I had sex for the first time with the guy (now husband) who offered to sleep on the floor instead of my bed, and asked if he could kiss me before doing it. Guys who respect me and like me as a person are the only ones who are worth my time and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:35 AM
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I could be looking at the toilet roll and the tile pattern in front of me but it's not as fun as taking a peek at this loony bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:03 AM
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If he doesn't publicly call you his girlfriend, you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:14 PM
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I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:47 PM
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The kind that involves a female orgasm, him cumming inside and mutual passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:16 PM
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Only if there was something in it for me. Can't control getting sick or injured so I wouldn't lose respect for that. But if he just chose to be unemployed and didn't contribute in any way, nah. I can get cheaper pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:08 PM
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Good sex is not overrated. How much of sex is good is overestimated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:04 PM
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