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That's normal imo. I keep a standard level of cleanliness but I won't bother making it spotless unless there's company coming over. Otherwise it doesn't bother me, and I think "what's the point? it'll just start getting dirty again in a few days."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:35 PM
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Imagine aliens breeding humans with Down syndrome because they're "cute".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:33 PM
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It's the same as those cats with the squished faces. They're not cute, and they have trouble breathing. WTF is wrong with people breeding those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:33 PM
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There's also alcohol. Not that I recommend it, trying to quit myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:31 PM
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So does somebody who deliberately misinterprets what's being said in order to argue with the voices in their head. To each their own I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:25 PM
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Totally agreed, just had an experience like that today. I think they just get off on being contrarian smartasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:22 PM
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https://www.flickr.com/photos/7770644@N02/8301716062/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:14 PM
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True, we have won Miss Universe every year... it's like the other planets aren't even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:10 PM
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I was referring to the previous poster's argument. Holy crap, you've got issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:28 PM
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Just say you hate men and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:16 PM
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No, most men who approach me have a reason to approach. They either need some kind of help or are just friendly and making small talk. But you just said men aren't entitled to your attention either way. Those men don’t follow women all over non social venues waiting for an opportunity to get those women alone, those men just start talking right in front of everyone! Can you imagine being honest and open about your intentions instead of a sneaky little fuck determined to get women alone? Who said…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:38 PM
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No, it's because you automatically treat a man approaching you as "giving a sales pitch" and "believing you exist for his entertainment" not to mention the ubiquitous "wanting his dick wet" as opposed to somebody who thought you were nice/cute/interesting and wanted to approach you and get to know you better because men are still expected to approach and initiate if they want anything to happen. It really says a lot about your personality and views on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:27 PM
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Again, you are free to live your life as a self-centered curmudgeon with no empathy if that's what you want. But other people have the right to point it out and discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:14 PM
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So you believe all those men just want to "smash and pass" and none are relationship material? Seems a bit cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:00 PM
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The topic is women treating men they find unattractive with rudeness and contempt. "Men just want to get their dicks wet" was your assumption, as if men are incapable of romantic attraction or as if sexuality is wrong and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:59 PM
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Which group is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:36 PM
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If anything, that would be more reason for women to be polite rather than rude when rejecting. You don't want to insult or antagonize someone who's bigger and stronger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:35 PM
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The fact that you repeatedly reduce men's feelings and desires to "wetting their dicks" says everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:20 PM
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You could even take it a step further and assume that whenever an unattractive person approaches you they are really trying to hit on you, and act with rude dismissal. According to some women around here that's perfect justified and logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:14 PM
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Yes, we've already established that you consider unattractive men looking for romance subhuman trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:07 PM
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Men are still expected to approach and initiate in most cultures. But more than that, you could apply that reasoning to asking a stranger for directions or any kind of assistance, and by your logic they would be justified in rebuffing you rudely. Why is your need for assistance more important than what they are doing? I don't think I'd like to live in a world like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:02 PM
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Ironically your comments here tend to show a deep hostility and disdain towards men, making you exactly what the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:46 PM
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A man’s desire to wet his dick is not more important than whatever a woman is doing and no, she isn’t required by any social expectation to kowtow and curtsey if she’s annoyed or disgusted by a pick up attempt. That's true. You are also not required to say hello or please or thank you, or hold a door open, or abide by any other social contract. If that's how you want to live your life and consider it justified, that's your business. I only hope you apply the same standards to others and don't ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:42 PM
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Yeah, people of both genders can be immature assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:29 PM
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Yep, I once asked a woman for directions because Google Maps wasn't working and she reacted like I was trying to hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:27 PM
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I think you are willfully misinterpreting OP's point. He never said women should be obligated to accept all men's advances. But there is a difference between mere rejection and being actively rude and hostile when a man you deem insufficiently attractive approaches you - or even reacting with disgust at such men having any kind of sexuality whatsoever. His problem (and I agree it's a real thing) is with the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:24 PM
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But at the same time, wouldn't you agree that having 100 people interested in you makes for much better odds of getting a relationship, than having none?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:43 AM
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Pretty much, except I don't think they want low tier men to become high tier. They just want those men to stop existing or at least become sexless inert beings. I've seen women on this very forum being against men improving themselves wrt dating, or learning seduction techniques of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:33 AM
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There is definitely a current of women considering men they're not attracted to "gross" and "creepy" for having any kind of sexuality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:31 AM
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Rules of dating: 1. Be attractive, 2. Don't be unattractive. People make fun of this, but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:29 AM
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And when is it unwanted? When the guy is unattractive. So an unattractive man approaching you is considered "rude and unpleasant". You've basically agreed with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:28 AM
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Some of it, yes. But I've personally seen many cases of women acting angry and disgusted when a guy they deemed unattractive even dared to approach them. I've also seen more hate and venom directed online towards "creepy" socially inept guys than actual grape-ists and abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:25 AM
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Hell, there have been reported cases of couples having an argument or even physical fight in public, some good samaritan guy stepped in, and they both attacked him or told the police that he started the fight. One more reason I'll be minding my own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:04 PM
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Flirting and teasing are entirely different. Negging looks like half the lines on Napoleon Dynamite, and it's purely awful and awkward. Only when done badly. When applied correctly it's exactly the kind of "teasing and flirting" that you are okay with and claim outsider guys who see it as problematic/bullying are just jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:09 PM
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I know, I was agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:04 PM
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Yeah, it's not complicated. The women have their fun with the players, then find some nice dependable, financially stable guy to date longterm / marry once they've gotten older and are "ready to settle down." Doesn't mean that guy was their first choice or even somebody they would've previously gone for. Note this also does not dismiss the existence of former or current assholes who are married, they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:00 PM
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The Red Pill basically agrees with you - hot, confident assholes have the most success with women - yet somehow so many women and feminists rail against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:47 PM
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I've never seen anyone define teasing and banter as bullying, unless they're truly introverts with no social experience. But even teasing can be ambiguous. There's a reason the Red Pill advocates negging, which works but could be seen as bullying by an observer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:41 PM
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This is just the old "I can somehow sense that unattractive guys are creepy and toxic" excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:39 PM
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I can give you a definition if you want: A self-centered narcissist who throws his weight around and puts others down to make himself look superior. I can guarantee you these guys will have more success with women than a meek nerdy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:31 PM
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Yep, in fact women are attracted to strength and confidence even if the guy is an asshole. They are repelled by weakness even if he's otherwise a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:28 PM
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This doesn't really disagree with the OP though. Yes, women can demand more, but the question is what? I think what OP was railing against is the 'just world' idea that women don't put up with shitty behavior anymore so men have to do better, yet we see time and again that assholes with dark triad traits have no trouble attracting women and getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:26 PM
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I remember one guy reading women's opinions here and responding "all women lie, it's just what they do!" like what is even the point of engaging then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:00 PM
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A lot of dudes are desperate and pathetically thirsty, or will fuck anything that moves, I think is the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:43 PM
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And it gets incentivised by women, since they select on average the men, who get on top of the hierarchy, hence why since the existence of the homo sapiens only 40% of men, but 80% of women reproduced. Ask yourself the question, why we had in the past 60% men, who were genetic dead ends? Because the rich and powerful men kept all the women for themselves, while the low status men were sent to die in wars or just work all their life and get a wife if they were lucky. The women often didn't have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:48 AM
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They don't have to be criminals, men are psycho assholes towards other men and redpill alpha bro types are proud of this fact and consider it natural. Just look at the rise of Andrew Tate and his ilk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:42 AM
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Yeah, a lot of people in my parents' generation basically just got together and got married because it was "the thing to do." People would regard you with suspicion if you were still single past 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:41 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:35 PM
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You can like a specific type of personality and still be shallow, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:17 PM
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While I agree in principle, I dream of the day when a Redditor will be able to disagree with someone without sounding like a passive-aggressive, condescending tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:21 PM
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Here is my theory: Everyone is a little bit hypocritical. Let's say you were an alien trying to experience human life and asking people about food. Those who want to appear virtuous would recommend healthy, nutritious options even though they themselves might reach for greasy spicy fast food or sweets instead - they know it's bad for them, but it tastes so good they can't help themselves. I don't think it's particularly controversial to say that women have long been regarded as the more virtuous…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:18 PM
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Well said, I think this is a good summary of the phenomenon. Women are attracted to strength and confidence, even if the guy is an asshole. They are repelled by weakness, even if he's otherwise a good person. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:26 PM
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I've always defined it as "the cocky, smirking asshole with a chip on his shoulder" and yes, I've met the type and they do attract women regardless of background or social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:22 PM
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I agree that there's nuance. In my experience, a woman might fall for a "bad boy" because he appears strong, confident, resourceful and fun. Many of these guys are also good at manipulation and appear charming at first. Now as for women who repeatedly go for assholes, they are generally young and immature, have self-esteem issues, or are assholes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:20 PM
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Those are extremes though. I've also seen plenty of cute, sexy thicc women as opposed to skinny ones who didn't look that great. Note I said thick/curvy, not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:15 PM
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Yep, that makes sense. Not sure about 2 though, seems like they would get along if they were both gym rats, but I can see how it might get annoying/awkward going to the same gym. It's the same as dating a coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:13 PM
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The beginning legit made me think it was this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=khMlcTE7lw8
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:23 PM
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I knew one dude who literally thought this. He kept close tabs on women he was dating, while also cheating on them. His reasoning was that he's the man and it's natural. He was one of those Andrew Tate alpha male types.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:21 PM
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Wait, why are there shirtless dudes in the produce section? Oh, it's AI. The vaunted dad bod with messed-up hands :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:19 PM
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"Doesn't matter how innocent you think your future husband is, ask to have access to his phone and computer" - same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:15 PM
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Yeah, judging by my college experience, the pretty boys (even a little gay/feminine) can do very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:56 PM
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Freaking BonziBuddy and that stupid money tree, both things my parents fell for
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:54 PM
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Has she asked Jesus for consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:53 PM
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Me: I really need a job Also me after working for one day at a corporation: Also, I may be a little drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:44 PM
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More than that, they feel bad for "lowering" themselves to date that guy who they deemed below their league. I think that's what bugs them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:09 PM
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"Obnoxious asshole bothers people minding their own business for internet clout" is probably not what they mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:01 PM
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Of course you are. And so humble too! Nobody is as humble as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:42 PM
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Well I'm sorry, we can't all be as advanced & enlightened as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:39 PM
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And why should they? Meanwhile women don't give a shit about men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:38 PM
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She looks like someone hit the "randomize" button during character creation :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:37 PM
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I worked at a Covid vaccination center during the pandemic. All the serious cases (meaning the ones who ended up in hospital, under oxygen therapy and some even dying) were unvaccinated. None of the vaccinated ones developed serious symptoms. Make of it what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:35 PM
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From what I've seen you've already proven yourself to be rude, hostile, and antagonistic to men. Could it be a self-fulfilling prophecy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:33 PM
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7 bachelors living by themselves, sounds right to me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:32 PM
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So I've been experimenting with different spices in my cooking and I think I overdid it with the nutmeg. Added too much and didn't realize how strong it is. I still ate the food, but 2 hours later and I can still taste it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:19 PM
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Agreed, along with American Dad and Futurama.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:12 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yh0AhrY9GjA
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:54 PM
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While I think Family Guy and The Simpsons have both gone down in quality, FG is worse. Simpsons is like an old washed-up comedian who still makes you laugh once in a while. New FG is like the drunken uncle who tells dirty jokes during Thanksgiving dinner and thinks he's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:53 PM
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Alright, let's assume you have more experience in this field than I do. Care to enlighten me where I'm wrong, or would you prefer to continue being snide?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:26 PM
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What? He only "wins" by continuing to get a reaction from you. Remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:22 PM
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That's more serious, I agree, but ignoring or responding with good humor still works. Unless you're dealing with psychopaths on a regular basis, in which case you have my sympathies and should maybe look into moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:20 PM
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Mazel tov :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:18 PM
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There's always gonna be trolls and weirdos, just ignore them. I never understood those who claim they're being "harassed" online, when it's so easy to block or ignore those people. Or even step away from the screen for a while. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:16 PM
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Yep, you are free to choose the guy whose life you want to ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:05 PM
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Yep, I'm getting borderline too old for kids anyway, not that I ever wanted them. I value my peace and freedom way too much. This cursed bloodline shall end with me. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:57 PM
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"I hate when people follow and reply to me on this public forum site!" like wtf did she want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:55 PM
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Just pick whoever you want, it's your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:50 PM
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I think it's a sign of possible issues, just like guys who are into humiliation or findom. But as long as it's between consenting adults, what can ya do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:21 PM
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Probably just being friendly, some women are huggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:19 PM
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Studies have shown that if you give up smoking, alcohol, caffeine, processed foods and sugar and replace them with healthy habits, you can eliminate up to 90% of whatever joy you have left in your life. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:18 PM
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To paraphrase Seinfeld, I'd be a little uncomfortable knowing the only thing separating them from me is a thin layer of spandex :p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:07 PM
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The guys who get picked can be just as unhinged, the difference is looks and social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:03 PM
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I would hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:02 PM
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If he has done it then he's just a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:44 PM
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Stay strong brother. I wish more men would learn to ignore women unless they have direct business with them. Male thirst and simping have gotten us to where we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:42 PM
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You mean you don't wanna fight and die at the whims of politicians and oligarchs? So unpatriotic :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:41 PM
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IMO it is a breach of trust, it's basically going through their private stuff without their knowledge. Whether you find something or not, it's a sign the relationship might not be destined to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:31 PM
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It's a well documented fact that narcissists and psychopaths can often appear confident and charming at first, and are good manipulators of people, so it makes sense. The incel internet bro can have dark triad traits but probably lacks social skills / charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:27 PM
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Just give 'im one of these
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:50 AM
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Yep, that too. Since all guys apparently just want to get in women's pants and are not real friends (according to women and white knights) anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:42 PM
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This "gotta be an expensive restaurant on the first date" is straight-up FDS dogma. If anything it lets you know which women to avoid. Their definition of a high-value man is a walking wallet with no desires except to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:39 PM
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Rules are for betas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:37 PM
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Aw, but if the guy has a really cool house and wants to show you his soundproof basement and handcuff collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:36 PM
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I was referring to guys who might be compassionate, helpful, good providers, etc., but considered weak because they are not natural leaders or self-confident enough. On the opposite side, self-styled "alphas" who can be aggressive bullies, will be seen as "strong" and thus more attractive. Hope that clears it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:13 PM
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Glad to hear it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:06 PM
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I think it'd be hilarious if PPD dudes just started talking among themselves and ignored the women here, especially the ones who are clearly anti-male, but sadly it'll never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:30 PM
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Which justifies being rude and cold to strangers, got it. Maybe it's a cultural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:28 PM
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The issue arises when women are attracted to strong men even if they're otherwise assholes, and repelled by weak men even if they're otherwise decent. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:25 PM
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Oh, and they should also start acting dismissive and annoyed when a woman approaches/talks to them. Just a bit of leveling out the playing field. I'd love it if this caught on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:23 PM
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never ending supply of idiots here fr On that we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:20 PM
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I believe many problems would be solved if guys stopped being thirsty and just ignored women overall unless they were friends/family or had specific business with them. It's what so many of them seem to want, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:15 PM
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Strange how I never thought of myself as unavailable or got annoyed when someone needed assistance. I believe I'll take your advice and just look for a man next time - in fact, this seems like a good suggestion guys should follow in life overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:13 PM
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I once asked a woman for directions because Google Maps wasn't working and she was the closest person available, and she acted almost offended that I was talking to her. Some of y'all need to learn some humility and basic decency. Or as I like to say - may we all get to live in a world filled with people who are just like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:03 PM
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When women have male friends ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:00 PM
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Good, decent men have had it hammered into their heads for decades that it's wrong and creepy to approach women and took it to heart. Only the poorly socialized, fuckbois and players who don't give a damn still do it, and that's who you notice. It's become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:59 PM
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https://imgur.com/okcupid-nutshell-hNtH7B9
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:55 PM
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Of course your looks will be what attracts people, they don't know anything else about you, or it wouldn't be a cold approach. But if he did compliment something else, for example a book you're reading, I have a feeling you'd still label it as a cheap pickup line. Some women will interpret any guy approaching them for any reason as trying to hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:52 PM
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This is the key. Someone likened it to women fasting/dieting versus men starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:41 PM
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You deciding all women are compatible with broke men because only poor men are capable of love Unless you actually think it’s okay and funny for people to like starve and struggle. I never said anything close to this. This is like if I'd said people eat too much fast food and your response was "Oh, so you want them to STARVE instead?" You're either projecting or have zero reading comprehension. I would say try arguing with logic instead of emotions, but tbh I don't really care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:39 PM
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Why is "I require someone who can support himself and our family" "reasonable," but "I require someone who makes six figures" not, when they are both "primary conditions" of the relationship? Why is the former reasonable, and the latter isn't when neither is "inherent to the person?" Because it's the difference between saying "He should be a functional member of society who can support himself" versus saying "He's gotta be rich." If you see no difference and treat both as equal/primary requireme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:43 PM
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I think I've already addressed this. Men who choose this option would simply be paying for a service, as we all do. It's not about "not seeing women as human", it's about viewing these women as simply service providers, just as the women in question wouldn't care about those men beyond seeing them as clients. As long as both parties agree to the terms, I don't see the problem. Could this service be used by some men who genuinely don't care about women/want them subservient? Sure, and some people…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:35 PM
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But the women would still be free to choose their clients or opt out of this job entirely. In essence it's just being an escort with a few extras, so the same rules apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:23 PM
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I'm pretty sure men who want relationships wouldn't use such a service or try to substitute it for one, yeah. Unless they're desperate or not too bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:22 PM
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That could indeed be a problem, not to mention the skill of these providers at cooking and cleaning, compared to someone specialized in those things (who is not a sex worker.) It'd be interesting to see how such a service works in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:13 PM
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I think you're reading too much into it. If you go to a restaurant and order food, does it mean you want to control the cook and waiter, and make them obey you? It's just paying for services.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:09 PM
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Agreed, as long as clear terms are set and both parties benefit I don't see any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:04 PM
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There's a saying regarding escorts, "You don't pay them for their services, you pay them to leave afterwards." I wonder if this is the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:02 PM
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But if gets to the point where she cheats, the man is already considered weak for not having a better handle on the situation. The kicking her to the curb already happens, though of course the part about being easily replaced is not always true. I don't personally agree with it, as I said this is much more common in macho, patriarchal cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:54 PM
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And I hope Trump supporters get everything they voted for. Most of them just hoped he'd win and beat the democrats, so I guess they already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:50 PM
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Once again, that literally works for any standard or requirement. Men also leave women who are infertile - they similarly care more about having biological children than the person, right? In that instance, yes. If he really loved that woman, he could find another way like a surrogate or adoption. And your example doesn't even make any sense, if a woman said.she married a guy primarily for his money, and he loses his money, her leaving is a prime example of her sticking to that standard?? It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:47 PM
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It makes sense in patriarchal cultures where that man will be judged and seen as weak / ineffectual if he lets the woman do whatever she wants. It's a bit like tarnishing the reputation of your employer. In more progressive societies people don't care as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:34 PM
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That attitude is precisely why Trump won, not that I'm a particularly big fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:29 PM
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Can't pop what she doesn't have, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:22 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:21 PM
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I think what you're talking about are primary requirements. If you value looks above everything else, I agree that would be similar. To use real life examples, there are women who admit they married primarily for money and would leave their husband if he became broke. If that is you, then I think it's fair to say you care about the money more than the person. It depends on your standards and how closely you stick to them. If you simply say "he should be able to support himself and our family", t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:20 PM
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Interesting. Do women who hype up a friend who just broke up with a guy by saying "eh, he was a loser who didn't deserve you anyway!", or women who tell themselves that when being broken up with/rejected, also reek of entitlement and emotional instability?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:11 PM
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It's even simpler than that imo, cold approaching doesn't work unless the guy is handsome and charming. This is the part the old seduction gurus always left out, because it would've put a damper on their book sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:08 PM
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I've seen women react with outright anger and annoyance at men they deemed unattractive approaching them. It's even worse than we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:04 PM
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Through decades of media and social conditioning, women and feminists have conditioned men to believe that it's creepy to approach them in public or at all, for that matter. The result is that only actual creeps and fuckbois will continue to approach. Ironic, but it's what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:03 PM
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What double standards am I trying to justify? Who are you arguing with? I think everyone is allowed to have whatever standards they want in a partner, and don't know why I would care or judge what they want, prefer, or need in a partner. I said the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:58 PM
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What it comes down to is this: Would you reject a guy you otherwise loved because he didn't have enough money, and accept another one who did? Then money is the primary factor, not the man. But whatever you need to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:29 PM
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Not really the same thing imo, because those factors are inherent to the person. Same for looks, personality, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:06 PM
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I have no idea, my father was a typical "alpha male" who treated me like a servant or underling while I lived in his house, now I want nothing to do with him and won't even talk to him unless it's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:59 PM
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Ok, let me know when you're done arguing with the strawmen in your head and I'll be over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:29 PM
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Still sounds like your main priority is money, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:11 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:10 PM
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Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:10 PM
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And yet the world is full of poor and middle class folks who have children and make it work somehow. Meanwhile the rich have one or two (and sometimes none), and they are raised by nannies and sent off to boarding schools (albeit the most elite and expensive ones, of course). I just think there are other factors that feel more important than money, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:23 AM
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And what is the problem with intent? Are you saying men who approach women because they're attracted to them are automatically creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:05 AM
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I've met many of these myself and I'm a guy. One time I was on the bus going home and this big dude sat next to me and asked me if I'd like to go to his place and read the bible together. Some people are just poorly socially calibrated, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:01 AM
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Men are still expected to initiate and make the first move. I've heard women say that they will never approach a guy even if they like him. So guys shoot their shot because it sometimes works. The ones who don't, go home alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:58 AM
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Seriously, these people are now treating relationships like applying for a job or a loan. I'd rather stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:53 AM
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IMO, this mode of thinking is similar to the old days when people (especially from the upper classes) sought out marriages based on wealth and forming alliances between families. Then as now, love and romance were secondary considerations. Just find someone you can at least tolerate living with and essentially have separate lives, lovers, etc. Feels sophisticated :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:50 AM
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Everyone is free to have their own preferences, but when you condition your relationship to someone based on their wealth or income, it sounds like you care about the money more than the person. That's how it sounds to me at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:44 AM
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Reminds me of one guy saying he works as a lawyer and still can't afford a nice apartment by himself, it's gotten crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:25 AM
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Probably gonna get downvotes for this, but to me that sounds very cold and pragmatic. It's almost like viewing it as a business deal more than a relationship. And I know there are people who think like this, and as long as they're both on the same wavelength, more power to them. I just think that when you meet someone you feel sparks with, it shouldn't matter how much money they have. Otherwise it's just an alliance of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:21 AM
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Oh, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:08 PM
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Hmm, personally I don't think I even watched anything Sweeney was in and don't know anything about her beyond the occasional pics and men saying she's hot. I'm not saying you're wrong, but she wasn't nearly as overhyped and ubiquitous as Zendaya in my experience. Or maybe I just haven't been paying enough attention. :P edit: I just looked at a bunch of pics of Sweeney, she looks like a 90s soap opera star :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:55 AM
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Dudes be thirsty and have low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:51 AM
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In my experience when that happens it's either that he is rich, they're childhood friends, he's really her type, or she was looking for a beta provider who'll pay the bills and not be a nuisance. I've known hot women who were married to some bald middle-aged accountant named Greg and they were like "he's the love of my life!" who the hell knows anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:47 AM
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Leave it to Americans to invent a sport nobody else plays and declare themselves the champions. :P (I kid, I honestly don't care and agree that some folks from Europe and elsewhere should just mind their own business.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:44 AM
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Was this you? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:42 AM
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The problem isn't men having weird fetishes, it's when they cannot keep it to themselves / in an appropriate setting and make other people uncomfortable by being gross/creepy about it. I've got some of my own (nothing gross or illegal, just hard to find) but I keep them to myself or like-minded communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:23 AM
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Do you know them, or are you just posting pics of random women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:16 AM
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I don't hate her, just find her overhyped and overrated given her mid looks and acting ability. I think Hollywood just loves her because she's ambiguously ethnic looking and can fulfill their diversity requirements or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:09 AM
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She hasn’t got OF That you know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:20 AM
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Everybody wants to be a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:33 AM
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Not a woman, but imagine asking someone for diet advice - they will probably point you towards healthy, if bland foods, while at the same time they are reaching for the spicy, greasy, fattening stuff because even if it's unhealthy, it tastes so good. Same with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:31 AM
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That just makes it hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:30 AM
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Nice, what's her name on OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:29 AM
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How can your name be India!? That's the name of a country!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:27 AM
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What I find fascinating about the Superbowl is that the spectacle of it all - the commercials, the halftime show, the celebrities - almost overshadows the sport. It's a crazy time, but I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:26 AM
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Late Gen X over here and feel the same. At this point I'm looking for freelancing / self-employment stuff because the thought of working a 9 to 5 job until I'm old makes me want to off myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:25 AM
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I'm sure that is true in some cases, but I've also known guys who were actual assholes and players (and in a couple of instances, abusive), yet never had trouble getting gfs because they were good-looking and popular. It's only natural that guys who grow up being Chads will tend to have abundance mentality regarding women and generally not give a shit and get away with more things. Of course it's silly to generalize, but I think it's equally silly to claim this doesn't exist and it's just lesser…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:51 PM
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Yeah, I mean there's trailer park dudes with a prison record who have like 5 kids by 4 different baby mamas, not sure it's something to really brag about tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:42 PM
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Reminds me of FDS going on about "high value men" who in their definition are basically walking wallets with no desire except to please women. Men gotta step up fr :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:56 PM
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"Oh, why can't I find a good man? Am I doomed to loneliness? Woe is me!!" "What about all these guys?" "Eww, not them"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:55 PM
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"Oh, why can't I find a good man? Am I doomed to loneliness? Woe is me!!" "What about all these guys?" "Eww, not them"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:55 PM
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I used to agree until I saw women who reacted with anger and disgust when men they deemed unattractive dared to approach them. No more sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:48 PM
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Making platonic friends is not a substitute for romantic relationships, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:45 PM
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"She"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:58 PM
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I'm sure that is a factor too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:23 PM
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Yeah that's what I meant, typically masculine guys who exhibit chivalry and benevolent sexism. Many women will say "I like it when he takes the lead", "he's strong and makes me feel protected", "he makes me feel feminine" etc. They do not get those feelings from egalitarian, feminist dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:22 PM
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It's not that women want an outright sexist pig, but most seem to prefer a guy who's chivalrous, confident and even a bit cocky in a masculine way, to one who fully respects them and treats them as equals. In my experience anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:55 AM
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IMO women like that are lonely by choice, i.e. she doesn't like any of her available options. It's men in that position who often have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:39 AM
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Plausible deniability isn’t a good look, and it’s the reason women roll their eyes and laugh at men who pretend. It's because when they state their intentions outright they are labeled creeps. Well, at least the ugly ones are. Yeah I’m not here whining about why the opposite sex doesn’t date me. Me neither. But if I were looking to date, I'd stay away from bitter hateful misandrists like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:20 AM
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If it's for some random innocent reason, he isn't hitting on her, right? Correct, but you claimed this doesn't happen. Why isn't he "simply getting to know" men? Unattractive women? Older women? Women who are accompanied by men or kids? Because he's not attracted to them. Are you trolling or just lack reading comprehension? I literally said the second scenario is he's trying to get to know her because he finds her attractive, or at least I thought the implication is obvious enough for the non-au…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:12 AM
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You would know, since it's clearly gibberish or copypasta and I just thought it was funny. Guess it flew above quite a few heads, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:09 AM
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Yep, that's also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:31 PM
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There are two possible scenarios when a man approaches a woman - he just wants to ask an innocent question, or he's trying to hit on her because men are still expected to initiate. According to you, both are wrongbad and men should just stay away entirely, apparently. I don't think there's anything left to discuss. And if you're gonna use French, it's "quelle surprise."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:29 PM
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men don't ask women for help. They make up reasons to talk at them, why in the world would you pretend that men are sincere Heh, I guess redpillers haven't totally cornered the market on jaded and cynical world views around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:18 PM
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I think it's a bit of both. Chads can be and often are assholes because they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:11 PM
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I've known guys like that who did very well with women / had multiple girlfriends so...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:09 PM
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Wise words indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:56 PM
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I frankly don't see what is misogynistic about a specific case of broader social etiquette. According to your logic, if someone approached me on the street to ask the time, or ask for directions, or even try to sell me something as you mentioned in your analogy, I should feel free to ignore or rudely rebuff them for daring to approach me, because they are not entitled to my time or attention. And while there is no rule or law saying we cannot do that, most people will not behave in such a way, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:53 PM
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Yet men are still usually expected to approach / initiate if they ever want anything to happen. If not even doing so respectfully is good enough, what is? Again maybe I'm just misunderstanding something because I didn't know you to be a bitter man-hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:17 PM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but are you saying we should assume by default that all men's advances are unwanted and unwelcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:16 PM
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You're right, there is also no law that says you have to say please or thank you, or acknowledge someone who greets you, or show any common courtesy to anyone. But people might notice and form their own opinions after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:01 PM
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Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:33 PM
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Didn't Tom Cruise use to stand on a box or crate while taking photos with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:28 PM
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Elliott Rodger was a decent looking guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:27 PM
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I guess their philosophy of putting themselves first and accepting no compromise made sense, but from what I read, a lot of them sounded arrogant, high maintenance, and no fun to be around. Then again, it's none of my business since nobody is forcing me to interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:23 PM
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I highly doubt most women would willingly go through pregnancy and childbirth to "entrap" a dude unless he's rich and they're not very bright, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:13 PM
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Sounds like a miserable time to be honest, unless you're already that sort of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:11 PM
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You guys use Twitter for something other than niche porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:07 PM
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I've seen women get outright angry and offended when a guy they deemed unattractive tried to approach them even in a respectful way so eh, there are no winners there imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:06 PM
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What's .is? Google just says it's the domain name for Iceland.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:50 AM
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FDS is pretty nasty, but didn't they start as a mirror of radical redpillers / MGTOWs initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:47 AM
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Another trailer I saw recently was for Babygirl, where Nicole Kidman plays a CEO who basically gets seduced by a younger dominant guy who treats her like a pet. Many women were going wild about it in the comments. It really made me wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:29 PM
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A couple of years ago I would have argued, but the more I read the more I come to agree with this. Most men in online spaces don't really care about men's issues, they just want to vent their anger at easy targets like women and feminists. It's a bit like working-class people blaming immigrants for taking their jobs instead of blaming the politicians and rich oligarchs for the current economic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:38 AM
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Exactly. The issue is not about having/showing emotions, it's having control over one's emotions versus being controlled by them. The latter shows weakness and immaturity, which are never attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:12 AM
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"All men should marry; if you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will become a philosopher, which is a useful thing for any man." - Sokrates, famous Greek philosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:27 PM
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Reminds me of that collection of pics of 30-40 yr old dudes sitting in their trucks wearing sunglasses and not smiling, to show how badass they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:25 PM
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Calm down, Elliott Rodger. Try not to shoot up any schools about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:11 PM
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OP is a known manosphere troll who only ever posts stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:09 PM
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Yeah, it's not like people like PewDiePie became millionaires by acting silly on social media or anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:07 PM
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Or religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:11 PM
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How would they even know unless you tell them? Maybe it's got more to do with something being wrong with those guys which caused them to remain virgins in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:11 PM
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Things could always be better, but it doesn't mean we're living in an era of degeneracy. Unless you want to return to the normalized alcoholism, misogyny and spousal abuse of the 50s, the drugs and unprotected sex of the 60s, the hard drugs and STD epidemics of the 70s and 80s, etc. The current generation is more educated and knowledgeable about sex and dating than any other in history. They are also the freest and least restricted they've ever been. Some people will take things too far or make …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:24 PM
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Compared to when? No, honestly I don't. Are you one of those who has an idealized vision of the 1950s and the 'traditional family'?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:09 AM
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I think they meant FDS is not nearly as well known as Tate and redpill "alpha male" communities across the internet, but I think you knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:44 PM
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If I didn’t see obvious and consistent negative mental effects from women from continuing to date around for lust and dreams for years then I would agree. Yes, we can only look to patriarchal utopias like Iran or Saudi Arabia, where women are treated as men's property, for the answer. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:42 PM
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Bold of you assuming most of them were successful enough to breed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:35 PM
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True, I mean TRP literally had one article referring to women as having the minds of teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:32 PM
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I've literally seen guys online claim that showering or washing your ass is gay, that they don't care about dressing nicely, and they're not about to change for any woman. They were obviously redpill and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:57 PM
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Honestly I don't even know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:55 PM
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I require attractive females for breeding! This is how real men talk!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:49 PM
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By OP's logic, it would be the equivalent of guys pumping and dumping. So either both are wrong, or neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:47 PM
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Or maybe the guy only wanted sex and faked interest until he got it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:44 PM
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Exactly, like is OP trying to say fuckbois would have wanted a relationship if only that woman had a better personality? not likely :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:35 PM
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"If I scammed you out of your money, it's your fault for being dumb and not putting more effort into figuring it out."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:34 PM
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That or physically unattractive, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:32 PM
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Sounds like a very good argument for women to refuse to be homemakers or be financially dependent on a spouse in any way. So much for all those guys wanting traditional wives, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:18 PM
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Lie about what, exactly? I simply disagree, some people having certain preferences doesn't make it "the normal" thing. You could at most say it's the prevailing preference, and so what? It still has nothing to do with feminism. You sound confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:08 PM
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To be fair, those are somewhat different things. Feminists (barring a few radical extremists) generally campaigned for equal rights and bodily autonomy. Now it's true there are some women (not necessarily feminists) who prefer men that are taller, more dominant, richer, etc. just as some men only want women who are young, hot and submissive. But those are just personal preferences, with no way to be officially enforced and no effect on others as nobody is forcing anyone to interact with those pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:28 AM
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I had a very similar experience, I liked TRP's laying out the facts and telling men what they need to do in order to be attractive while also explaining female nature without sugarcoating things. I wasn't as enthusiastic about their emotional manipulation stuff, dread game etc. Plus I often saw an undercurrent of misogyny and almost hostility towards women, which I found counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:58 AM
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If he's young, handsome and confident he could be a villain and (certain) women won't care, we all know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:56 AM
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Chasing after women constantly is a waste of time just like playing video games for endless hours every week. Both are purely pleasurable activities that don't help men grow or learn new things that have deeper value. I would argue that nothing in life really has "deeper value", it's all in what we choose and determine ourselves. Lately I've started to think that humanity itself is screwed, most people are simply too dumb, selfish and short-sighted to advance as a species and we might as well ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:54 AM
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It always felt to me like a lot of the far-right, tradcon, alpha bro types you see on the internet these days are merely clout-chasers or incels who don't actually believe in all those things and are rather just jumping on popular trends in an effort to be cool and edgy. But I do agree it's contaminated TRP and the manosphere in general to a large degree. TRP was born from the old pickup artist community and talked about how to be attractive and get laid, nowadays it's all passport bros talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:48 AM
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Yeah, I've been reaching the same conclusion. It's either women only, or if mixed gender it becomes male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:36 AM
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I also hate taxi/uber drivers who just keep yapping the whole way. Read the room, geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:28 AM
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I wouldn't mind an office if it had a nice atmosphere and was relatively close to my home. But commuting for upwards of an hour each way, as some people do, in all kinds of weather - who the hell wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:19 AM
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Man, I wish I could find some hobby / social pastime that isn't a sausage fest. Seems like everything I try is just dudes, or at best couples. Do women just stay at home or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:16 AM
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Wow, that's just sad. Glad I'm single and no longer bothering with all that mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:03 AM
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Hasn't it been proven that men actually win custody in most cases when they actually fight for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:02 PM
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Reminds me of an old Jewish joke. During WW2, a student finds his rabbi reading Der Sturmer. He is aghast and asks him "What are you reading? Don't you know that is just propaganda?" The rabbi answers "I'm trying to cheer myself up. The regular news just talk about death and misery and how bad the situation is. But reading this, I learn that we rule the world and control all the money and governments, and it makes me feel a little better!" :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:52 PM
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No idea, where?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:48 PM
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I agree, men shouldn't be generalized either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:40 PM
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This is really just a variation of the "chicks dig assholes" trope if you think about it. In my experience, the women who go for assholes are usually young and inexperienced, have issues, or are assholes themselves. If we're gonna talk about (successful) criminals, we can include gold diggers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:39 PM
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To those men, it's equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:36 PM
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Do women flock to those men because they're criminals? Or because they're powerful and charismatic? Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:36 PM
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Tell that to the folks starting "all men this" and "all women that" threads here everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:32 PM
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That certain men claim to be strong people who deserve to lead, yet display a lot of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:23 PM
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PPD men: Men are natural leaders, we built civilization, women should follow and obey us, it is the natural order of things, feminism is degeneracy! Also PPD men: Women lose respect for us when we show emotion or weakness :( the empathy gap is real :( women hate us :( male loneliness epidemic :( Just something I noticed lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:15 PM
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The real reason some of those groups got reported and/or shut down is because they invariably attracted a bunch of misogynist far-right extremists using violent rhetoric like advocating rape, saying women's rights should be revoked etc. I don't know of any examples of peaceful, constructive men's groups being thwarted by ze evil feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:56 AM
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Can't find it now, but I do remember at least a couple of users in the past few months implying or actually saying that giving women rights was a mistake / there will be a reckoning because women are too picky and won't date lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:51 AM
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Women: In my experience, these might be some of the reasons you're not having more success in dating. Have you tried working on these factors? PPD Men: You just lie and gaslight like all women! We know you just want Chad! (actual conversations I've seen)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:49 AM
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I would say aggression and competitiveness, like some dudes seem legit desperate to be seen as the "alpha" even it it means putting other guys down. I never understood it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:13 PM
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Depends on the argument. Like when men post some bullshit generalization about women with no documentation or proof, I might say "lol" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:45 PM
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Yes, that is indeed the correct song lyric, congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:38 PM
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You're the one who said I was the class monitor, mr. "female women".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:36 PM
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Sorry, didn't realize I was talking to a high schooler. You do you lil buddy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:33 PM
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If by "triggered" you mean "I think it's really stupid and childish", then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:27 PM
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Nah bro, you must be confusing me with one of those "female women" you're always going on about. You so cool and funny :p
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:17 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:11 PM
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Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:08 PM
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Sure bro, whatever you say 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:06 PM
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I deleted that comment after like 2 minutes because I realized I don't actually care and it's not my business. Were you just sitting there hitting refresh the entire day? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:58 PM
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🎶I really need to learn 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:46 PM
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I remember reading somewhere that the average vagina is like 4-5 inches deep, so eh. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:43 PM
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Is that AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:42 PM
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Romanian? De unde esti?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:40 PM
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lmao, this is like some high school drama shiz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:41 PM
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You sound very negative and bitter, just fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:35 PM
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OP is a known men's rights troll, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:39 PM
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Not to mention Big Daddy Government robbing honest men of their tax dollars to give to those whores! (actual view I've seen expressed on this sub.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:34 PM
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I've also seen cases of guys being chubby/unfit with bad skin in their 20s looking much better at 30+, so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:29 PM
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To be honest I disagree with the view that "family and career" is the ultimate achievement or what everyone should want/needs, but it's true that other factors contribute to someone's peak than looks and physical ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:28 PM
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What if they were fat in their 20s but became fit at 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:25 PM
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But I bet they all still have to be fit, feminine, conservative, and submissive to men in their life. Yet women are the shallow ones for having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:10 PM
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But all men do like the same archetype. All manly alpha men want blonde, fit, ultra feminine, conservative tradwives. When a man wants something else, he is shamed and called a cuck/beta/weird etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:56 AM
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Ah yes, the stoic and rational gender. Not like those emotional women! :P
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:53 AM
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Can't say I've seen a lot of that, but I did see a lot of cases where if a woman said something she was immediately accused of lying or being contrarian, and any guys who agree with her are called white knights. Except when a woman actually agrees with redpill/incel talking points, then it's "Finally, a woman who speaks the truth!" :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:50 AM
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Saw another dude around here just responding that "women lie and gaslight!" whenever a woman said anything. Not sure what the point of engaging them is, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:47 AM
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Yeah, it's because men are more thirsty / less selective. Otherwise it wouldn't matter that she only picks the top guys, if those guys weren't interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:55 AM
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Because most of them don't really care about children, they just want those bitches women to get their comeuppance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:24 PM
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They also fail to mention all the women who were assaulted or killed during arguments or when trying to leave their rational husbands/bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:59 PM
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Yep, my father was definitely the first and possibly the second, not sure. Always acted like the alpha male king of the household, treating the rest of us like underlings. Never really taught me or my sibling how to navigate life, just criticized and condescended. We don't talk much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:55 PM
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TLDR: "You're lying, just like all women! And anyway, personal anecdotes don't matter!!!" nice counter-argument, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:47 PM
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In my experience, it's usually redpill conservative types of both genders saying the man should lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:43 PM
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I just made a similar comment, this view just reinforces the idea that (some) women treat sex like a currency more than a pleasant activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:39 PM
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Unfortunately, this just reinforces the idea that women view sex more like a currency or bargaining chip instead of a mutually pleasurable activity. I know there are reasons women would be more reluctant to engage in sex with a guy who isn't willing to commit, but it still feels wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:38 PM
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Supposedly the Y chromosome is headed for extinction as well, though not in our lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:08 PM
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Some people are anxious/depressed no matter what their life situation is, it could be a chemical imbalance. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:05 PM
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And if you do purchase any of their content, they've got you targeted as a rube and keep sending you offers to buy more. It's really kinda predatory. This is a great and eye-opening article on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:02 PM
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You brought up size and aggression. The end product is not great enough of a difference to justify your claims When you're talking about equivalent sized groups, it absolutely is. Not to mention men generally monopolized the leadership structures, the army etc., which women were largely barred from. Women have been fully integrated to society in ways that actually enslaved civilisations could only dream of. That integration allows massive strategic advantages that dwarf all physical differences …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:59 PM
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There is no animal that a group of trained men can kill that a group of trained women can't Not sure how that's relevant in this context. Stories of less capable and smaller number groups escaping actual slavery exists throughout human history. Those people weren't as integrated to society as women and weren't half the population And how many did so successfully, without being recaptured or killed at some point? Plus we're not talking about outlying cases but the overall pattern. In the case of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:34 PM
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You could, my point was that neither of those is an ideal situation / has the potential to go sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:28 PM
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I used to live with an older relative who would confidently be wrong about things they knew very little about. They would argue to the ends of the earth too, and refuse to admit they were wrong unless you showed them physical proof. It was exhausting and infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:26 PM
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If my country is anything to go by, the ugly weirdos can still get Stacies if they become aggressive thugs with money. All hope is not lost :P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:22 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:20 PM
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Obviously the larger, stronger, more aggressive gender often enslaved and mistreated the other throughout history. It's only relatively recently with technological and cultural advances that we're starting to see a more equal society. Some feminists take this truth too far, that's another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:18 PM
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Neanderthals had bigger brains than our ancestors, look where they are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:15 PM
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Kind of agree, if that person proves a good match over the long term. Passionate love can fizzle out quickly and even turn to hate. But settling for someone can also leave one feeling unfulfilled. Unfortunately there is no single right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:14 PM
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I've got misophonia and hate it when people make any sort of chewing, slurping or kissing noises in public. I think it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:54 PM
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Little Drummer Boy with no drums, how fun :P I worked in a bookstore many years ago in December, and they had the same Christmas playlist on repeat the entire month. I got so sick of it I thought of bringing earplugs or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:53 PM
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I think it's more about men who are still overly reliant and/or controlled by their mother, which is not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:44 PM
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What are some random pet peeves that annoy you? For me it's when people use "nasally" as an adjective, as in talking about a "nasally voice." It's become widespread for some reason. Nasally is an adverb, as in "he spoke nasally." If you want to use it as an adjective, it's nasal. You wouldn't say "she has a loudly voice", would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:40 PM
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Right...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:46 PM
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Found the Andrew Tate fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:22 PM
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Geez, what happened to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:18 PM
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Sure, if you ignore all the dozens of 'alpha male' creators on Youtube and TikTok constantly making fun and shitting on 'entitled women', I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:10 PM
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Even then, there's the internet. Unless you grew up in a really restrictive family that monitored your online time, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:45 PM
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The ones on the right just look like hipsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:42 PM
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Do you guys have no sex ed or basic biology classes? It blows my mind how some adult men don't understand how periods work or can't find the clitoris. Were y'all raised in a monastery?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:27 PM
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Probably because they don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. Could you tell a female friend to her face that the reason she's unsuccessful in dating is because she's fat, ugly or annoying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:11 PM
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Hell, I'm a dude and I'm currently enjoying the freedom and peace of being single, with all the points you listed. Not saying I'm not open to a relationship in the future, but it would have to be someone pretty special, and if they never show up, I'm cool with that. Not sure what the deal is with guys who act like being alone is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:09 PM
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Plenty of basement dwelling neckbeards think they deserve a young Stacy, and disparage or make fun of less attractive women, single mothers, fat or older women all the time. Yeah, some women have ridiculous standards too but who cares, in the end what matters in both cases is what they can actually get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:05 PM
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I wonder how much of it is actual religious faith, and how much is edgelords doing it because it's cool and meme-worthy. Guess time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:35 AM
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They sat behind Jesus in third grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:34 AM
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What I found funny is that the media and conservatives were constantly commenting about Biden's age, yet Trump is like 2 years younger, possibly even less coherent, and nobody seems to care anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:34 AM
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Comrade Chadovitch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:31 AM
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I like browsing /progresspics for the same reason plus some optimism, but man, some people just suck at taking a picture of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:34 PM
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Yeah, in truth between the manosphere incels and the Jack Sparrow fanboys (and girls, let's be honest) he just had a lot more popular support. And the internet loves a witch hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:27 PM
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I remember during that whole debacle and the trial, I thought both of them sounded like unhinged coked-up celebrities. Yet people online were all shitting on Amber Heard while treating Johnny like some kind of saint, it was crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:17 PM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:30 PM
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Cool, so you don't think it's justified in either case then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:22 PM
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Also kind of hard to get empathy, when feminism constantly vilifies you as an "oppressor" vs It makes zero sense to hate the generations of men who respect your rights the most because like 0.05% are rapists. I can see you're totally neutral and unbiased about this, naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:16 PM
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What's the point of watching porn clips if you can't let fellow viewers know what you'd like to do to that person and how hard your dick is? That and some Indian dude always going "helo beuty princess pls mary me"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:00 PM
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My new hobby is watching girls doing Twitch streams as I read all the thirsty, butt-kissing comments from simps in the chat. It's like a train wreck, sad but can't look away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:44 PM
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But it does make sense for men to hate women because a few of the latter are radical feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:24 PM
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And once again you are pulling assertions out of your ass with no proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:23 PM
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Yes, but I said I'd like a link or quote. Not trying to be facetious, I just never heard feminists saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:22 PM
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Yeah, my reaction was "Speak for yourself sir."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:02 PM
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Sometimes this sub reminds me of those "alpha male" podcasts like Fresh & Fit where they invite Insta thots or club girls just to talk over them with rehearsed manosphere talking points and act like they "owned them". Then the host tries to hit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:59 PM
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Not only that, I wonder which gender pushes for sex more early and often...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:57 PM
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You literally said/implied that in your initial post. This is because the two things men need in a partner are fulfilled. A. She's attractive. And B. She's a friend. Men want a friend that they get to sleep with. For women, it's more complex. A woman can lose attraction for a man that’s her “type”, just as she can gain attraction for a man who isn’t, and this comes down to behavior. I don't know why you would think this is restricted to women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:51 PM
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I would argue that men aren't as simple minded as you and others often make them out to be. I can and have lost attraction for a woman due to her behavior/personality as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:47 PM
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You Also you And again It's pretty clear from this and your previous history that you have an axe to grind against feminists. This disingenuous dogwhistle BS isn't helping. And honestly, can you give an example of feminists denying the empathy gap exists, because I've personally never heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:44 PM
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This sub is full of redpillers and manosphere dudes flocking to posts like this, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:43 PM
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As a French guy once said: "I spent my life looking for the perfect woman, and I found her; but alas, she was looking for the perfect man."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:35 PM
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TBH I'm not sure what you're saying except that women like some guys and not others - should this not be so? A woman may choose a man but nothing will happen unless he also chooses and approaches her. Since men are still generally expected to initiate, the power of decision ultimately still lies with them. In more general terms, it doesn't matter who the initiator or selector is, only that both people agree to take it further.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:34 PM
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You repeatedly blame feminists in this thread and imply they are the reason men are disadvantaged or whatever. Other manospherians are flocking to the bait. The truth is, this attitude absolutely exists but is first and foremost perpetrated by men. Women being regarded as precious commodities, "women and children first", etc are old values that predate feminism and modern thought by centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:28 PM
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OP is a manosphere troll who always makes posts like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:21 PM
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I agree, and it sucks, but on the whole those jokes are told and repeated far more often by men than women, in my experience at least. It's the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:16 PM
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So what exactly WAS your intent in posting this, OP, if not just to shit-stir and circlejerk about how men have it worse than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:11 PM
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By that reasoning, you must agree modern women are also justified in hating men and viewing them as potential rapists and aggressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:10 PM
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Who says the empathy gap does not exist? I've personally never heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:08 PM
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Exactly, not sure why OP thinks this is new or controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:07 PM
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Yeah, OF tends to push that model which I find questionable as well. Unfortunately it's not just an OF thing, I've heard of cases in East Asia (China, S. Korea, Japan) where streaming is big, of men sending thousands of dollars to a streamer so she will mention their name online. Loneliness and weak will are a dangerous combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:46 PM
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True, I knew a girl in college who was actually fat, but tbf had a pretty face and big boobs. She never had a shortage of boyfriends and simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:17 PM
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AKA the Bingo Wings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:15 PM
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I actually got my hometown in GeoGuessr today! That was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:13 PM
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Is that a typo? At 350 lbs he'd be obese. Maybe 250
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:47 PM
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Simps, fuckbois and male thirst in general are responsible for much of today's dating situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:41 PM
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I see OF as just another transaction site, as in "There's this chick I like, and I know that if I pay a few bucks I'll get some pictures of her" which is reasonable. I pity the guys who go on there and form quasi-relationships with the models, sometimes spending a ton of money, believing they mean anything more to that person than a dollar figure. I think that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:40 PM
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Lately I've been trying to decide if I prefer comment sections with pretentious nerds (like Reddit) or mouth-breathing idiots (Youtube, Funnyjunk, other sites.) I think that in the end I prefer the former, as sometimes I'll read something insightful or funny. The other kind makes me feel like I'm losing brain cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:15 PM
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Hey, hagspawn are just misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:25 AM
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I had one coworker who was fat, divorced with 3 kids, and had another guy dating and living with her. I mean bless'em if they're happy, some dudes just want to be with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:23 AM
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Sometimes I'll get into a debate with some pedantic dumbass, start writing another reply, then suddenly think "Wait a second, I really don't care about this" :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:34 PM
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But women are the emotional ones while men are stoic Chads! Isn't that what the manosphere always says?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:49 PM
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They made fun of you? That's rough. I was kinda weird and nerdy in high school but was never really bullied, the cool kids mostly kept to their group and ignored me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:52 PM
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Reminds me of seeing this Youtube clip with a couple of female comedians admitting they were both into emotionally unavailable bad boys with drug problems and attachment issues. They weren't joking or being sarcastic either. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:18 PM
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I think OP might like it there, probably be a fan of bacha bazi ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:04 PM
1

Damn dude, how many posts about this have you made already? If you're choosing to be negative and miserable, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:34 PM
2

So men never fantasize about the one that got away? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:32 PM
1

There's no reason for you to earn as much as a man if you're looking for men to pay for you. This is very disgusting K
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:10 PM
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I didn't generalize, I spoke about a specific case. If men are fine with their partner earning more, good for them. As long as they manage to avoid their friends calling them simps and whipped. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:06 PM
10

What the hell are you rambling about? It's hilarious that redpillers call women more emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:42 PM
12

There's several possible scenarios here: Women have a higher income and don't mind. The men feel emasculated and insecure, and end up sabotaging the relationship or leaving. I've heard many accounts of this. Women just look for a guy who's in the same general income bracket. I think this is the most common case, and in fact general education level seems more important than salary. And finally, some women do look for a guy who's a high earner. The good news is, the first two cases are becoming mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:20 PM
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I think you are confusing basic rights with preferences. Yes, women should have equal rights and equal pay. If some of them still prefer a man as the main earner, that is their own business. Nobody is forcing you to seek out or date those women. How would you even approach or legislate something like what you are proposing? As a disillusioned egalitarian, I think it's disappointing that the wage gap debate hasn't been followed by social discourse on upending traditional gender norms like the pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:58 PM
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I highly doubt women who just post feet pics without showing their face make a lot of money. Even among those who post full nudes, only the top 1% get any significant earnings. As for findom, I agree it feels a bit shady and unethical. No worse than gambling agencies though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:48 PM
1

You just keep repeating that word, "degenerate". What about the millions of male customers who support this industry then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:46 PM
0

Yes, and risky too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:31 PM
1

She didn't think of all of them that way, that was just based on actual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:30 PM
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Random question for the guys saying women live life on easy mode because they can make money on Onlyfans or working as camgirls, etc. You think you could do it? Get naked on your webcam and act sexy and seductive for a bunch of morons, creeps and weirdos all day? This may or may not be inspired by someone I know working in the business and telling me stories. Sure the money can be good, but not even that is always consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:27 PM
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I mean it's just a movie, but my point was more about all the women in the comments basically admitting their panties are soaked over this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:32 AM
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Most women are apparently happier with a guy who's less good looking than they are. No gym rats either, unless she's one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:06 AM
1

What is that, Marvel dialogue? If she refuses, he can go "So, um, that just happened..."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:58 AM
2

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:51 AM
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I don't think you can unless you're basically an amoral sociopath. I couldn't bring myself to act like that. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:50 AM
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Spanish is related to French, Italian, Romanian and Portuguese, as they are all derived from Latin. So if you speak one of those languages it makes sense. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:37 AM
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Just saw the trailer for Babygirl on Youtube, and the women going crazy in the comments, and I have to admit I don't get it. Is that what women really want, some sleazy sociopath who will push boundaries and treat you like a dog? I guess it explains the success of 50 Shades. Maybe the Red Pill is on to something after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:34 AM
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Damn dude, if you projected any harder you'd be a lighthouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:36 AM
1

Please tell me you're trolling and not actually this dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:32 AM
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Men trash talk each other sometimes, but a male player is not immediately flooded with messages asking him on a date, getting creepy sexual comments, or called a dumb bitch, or told to get back in the kitchen, when he reveals his gender. Don't be disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:59 PM
1

Sounds like whoever believes that is setting themselves up for misery and resentment, but to each their own. /shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:01 PM
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Why would you assume that stuff no longer happens today? Been living under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:37 PM
4

I think it got taken over by blackpill and incel types.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:56 AM
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It also has to do with men being more aggressive and competitive than women, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:25 AM
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It's an interesting issue. Same goes for videogames/esports. Technically there should be no gender division, yet males tend to dominate the higher ranks. It could be because videogames were male-dominated throughout most of their history, that girls who played were often discouraged by harassment and creepy behavior, or that guys do have some advantage in things like reaction time / strategic thinking. In reality it's probably a combination of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:23 AM
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Agreed with all of this, just wanted to note that these activities should be done for the sake of getting better at socializing / making a circle of friends, not just trying to attract women, because people will pick up on that. I would also add start a gym routine, get a hobby or two outside videogames (hopefully one that isn't a total sausagefest), and be mindful of one's look and body language when going out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:17 AM
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I mean OP basically admitted he's a troll who enjoys riling up feminists so...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:12 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xs3OWJ53rHE Now I gotta rewatch this movie :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:10 AM
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This sub is very much proof to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:06 AM
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I never understood how people could do anything sexual in a public toilet, that's just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:04 AM
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AC Origins trailer, very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:01 AM
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For me if I go around rush time it's usually a pack of teens with broccoli haircuts goofing off and filming TikToks or whatever the hell they're doing around the free weights area. I usually try to go in the evening before closing, much more peaceful then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:58 AM
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I think some just want to shit on women and complain, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:22 PM
1

Something tells me the women in those areas don't have too great of a life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:11 PM
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I think so. I believe men take more risks and fewer precautions in general, get into more fights, etc. If we're just talking about walking alone at night or something, a woman is still more likely to be attacked than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:44 AM
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No, it's more like your default stance is to find a way to blame and shit on women in every situation, so everyone who's actually sane and balanced feels like a "white knight" to you. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:18 PM
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You know those women who posted videos of guys leering at them at the gym, trying to shame them? On several occasions it was obvious those guys only looked for a second or two, and those women were roundly condemned and called crazy, including by other women. Nobody will crucify you for simply trying to talk to a woman in a normal way. If they do, they're the ones with the problem. It's only if you keep pushing past her signals of not being interested, that the situation changes. And this is val…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:02 PM
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But there is no guarantee they will get those things, and no law that says they should. You're talking about basic rights vs individual preferences. Individual because not all women want a man who will support them financially, etc., but I'm pretty sure all of them are in favor of basic rights and equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:48 PM
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Dude is either a troll or has a serious persecution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:40 PM
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Your hyperbole aside, it's a question of wanted vs unwanted attention. It has nothing to do with gender, and is such a basic concept I have to wonder sometimes if you guys are trolling or just chronically online. Its like if I told you "oh, so you like pizza and will sometimes even buy it for yourself or accept it from people you like, so why wouldn't you be okay with strangers forcefully giving you pizza and insisting you eat it?" Some women say they choose the bear (obvious hyperbole again) be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 02:38 PM
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Just read a post about that, apparently they were stuck for 6 hours in a small fenced-off area? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:14 AM
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Exactly, and it can be a serious issue in more conservative, patriarchal, macho societies. Some women in those areas will share the same views and culture, but the main perpetrators of violence are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:11 AM
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On the other hand Youtube is full of "alpha male" channels who shit on women constantly. Probably says something about social media in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:09 AM
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Most of the porn and adult industry is produced and run by men. OF might be the first exception to this, and it's only a few years old. Women are usually just the actors, with men also being the primary consumers. To say otherwise is simply a denial of reality. Feminists don't even attempt to hide the fact that they want to collectively shit on men. As per usual, the things that women say about men are mostly projection. And yet it isn't women who beat, rape, assault and kill men en masse or tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:59 AM
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The real question is why would anyone be friends with some elitist gatekeeping nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:52 AM
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Reminds me of that trope where a woman says she's a fan of some band, and the guy responds "Oh yeah? Name their first 5 albums" like she's supposed to prove herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:50 AM
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Sadly you can't reason with people who are either terminally online and never had a relationship, or got burned by some woman and then concluded all women are evil. There's a reason why the main audience for Andrew Tate and stuff like Fresh & Fit are 18-24 year old incels and bitter divorced dudes in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:48 AM
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A bunch of alt-right incels voted for Trump to spite the libs, no joke. As for what difference it made overall, probably not much. His main voters were people who watch Fox News and thought he would fix the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:41 AM
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One decision for this new year is to longer get into a relationship with someone I'm not in love with. Been there, done that, it was unfair to both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:24 AM
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I always said I'd rather tell people I look at hardcore porn sites than let them see my Reddit account. It'd be easier to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:22 AM
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"We're gonna shit on you every day, but if you say something back once, YOU'RE JUST AS BAD and IRONY AND STUFF!" damn, you people are getting tiresome as hell with these shitty disingenuous games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:13 AM
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My favorite is when dudes refer to post-30 women as "used up post-wall hags" then when those women say they still wouldn't want them anyway, write posts crying about how women are hateful and misandric to them. I've seen a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:01 AM
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Youtube algorithm really is something, I watch a couple of dating advice videos out of curiosity and now I'm being recommended a dozen "alpha male" channels
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:45 PM
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Pogacele cu jumari?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:18 PM
1

My father would walk around in his underwear looking like a hairy ape, and sometimes even naked. To this day I'm disgusted by the sight of hairy dude bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:17 PM
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Heheh, someone felt targeted by that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:37 AM
1

Heheh, someone felt targeted by that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:37 AM
1

Heheh, someone felt targeted by that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:37 AM
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In my experience, women who go for assholes are either young and inexperienced, have self-esteem issues, or are assholes themselves. Also, sociopaths can appear attractive at first due to being charming and self-confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:05 PM
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It makes sense too, because in their heads they associate the bad boy with someone who's fun and exciting, and the good guy with a mild, boring milquetoast. Of course the bad boys are often assholes or psychos in reality, so they seldom have long-lasting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:58 AM
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It's only terminally online guys who think about this way too much (and probably don't go on many dates.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:45 AM
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When I think of sugaring, I picture gross old men paying young women to be their "girlfriend." Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:44 AM
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Some women do this. They will pay their share because they don't want to "owe" the guy anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:32 AM
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Then it sounds like you're changing the meaning of religion to "whatever beliefs people have to feel good and navigate the world" which is not exactly accurate. Nor do those beliefs have to be false. What about just thinking it's good to be a nice person and treat others as you'd like to be treated? There is nothing false or mystical about that. Your "NPC brain" comment was pretty ironic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:41 PM
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I need to make a new year's resolution about no longer getting into debates with bad-faith dumbasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:51 AM
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You replied to someone saying "Men don't go to prison for flirting with women" by linking two cases, neither of which were falsely accused because they refused or failed to flirt. Therefore those examples are irrelevant, and are very much simply an attempt to shit on women and circlejerk about them being bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:41 AM
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It's called casu marzu, look it up if you're brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:31 AM
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I did, the theme of the room is "shit on women and feminists" as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:25 AM
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Fair enough, guess you won't mind then if all women consider you a potential harasser or rapist and avoid you as much as possible. If anything, they are more justified in doing so since women have been harassed/assaulted far more than men have been falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:19 AM
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Well said, but sadly this is PPD, land of dumbasses with extreme takes who talk past each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:16 AM
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Both of those are failures of the justice system, what do they have to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:13 AM
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I never claimed to be a genius, but to be honest I don't understand how it's possible to be an educated adult and be religious at the same time. It makes no logical sense. It's really no different than believing Santa Claus is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:06 AM
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I heard it as "I love and respect women too much to inflict myself on them."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:59 AM
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But there absolutely can be a definition of good which has existed throughout history without implying religion. Virtues like loyalty, kindness, temperance or charity were known and talked about in the ancient world. People understood early on that you can't have a community of selfish assholes if you want it to grow and evolve. None of this actually requires belief in a higher power or organized religion. Religious worship did provide a sense of community, but it was also often a tool of coerci…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:55 AM
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I suppose that if people need the concept of heaven and hell to be good, it's a positive thing. It's not ideal, but it's better than the alternative. Sadly, even religion has not prevented evil and atrocities throughout history, and in fact has been the cause and/or excuse for much of it. I don't think people as a whole have evolved enough to have a universal sense of morality yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:50 AM
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If lying and deceiving others to get what you want makes you happy, that says something about you doesn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:45 AM
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Sometimes a woman is unable to get away, as in physically trapped and coerced. Sometimes she has nowhere to go, if it's her husband, or she might fear for her job and career if it's a superior. I believe that's why this concept came about in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:30 AM
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Wasn't there a survey that showed the majority of male users in here are 18-25 year old virgins? Plus the ones that came over from redpill and incel subs. Might explain a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:25 AM
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If I constantly ask and badger you to give me some money until you agree to get rid of me, it doesn't make me a thief, but I'd still be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:23 AM
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It's a false analogy because sex is supposed to be mutually pleasurable. It's not like a massage or something where you do it because you love them. If I knew a woman was just letting me have sex with her even though she wasn't into it, I wouldn't be able to enjoy it. But to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:18 AM
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It's both. They are not doormats, but they are certainly taught it's their duty to handle all the household tasks like cooking and cleaning. There have just been a bunch of threads in TwoX whose main theme was that the women had to do all the cooking and preparation for Thanksgiving and Christmas while the men sat around drinking and watching TV. Similarly, keeping the house clean and caring for the kids is usually seen as the woman's job. Not to mention women in traditional and especially relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:08 AM
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Got drunk yesterday, woke up with a hangover, decided to give up alcohol for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:32 PM
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Wouldn't call myself RP, but that view is more reflective of the blackpill, incel thinking that's permeated it lately. In the old days, Redpill was more about self-improvement and not putting women on pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:02 PM
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Agreed, it's ridiculous. It's like if someone said "you look nice today" and you responded with "you mean I don't look nice on other days?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:17 PM
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I believe you are intentionally misreading a common expression, in the grand tradition of PPD men making things up to be angry about - or possibly just trolling out of boredom. I said context matters because I guess it's technically possible someone, somewhere meant it the way you claim, but I have personally never heard a woman use "husband material" in a derogatory or negative way. It was always meant as a compliment, as in "that guy would make a good life partner."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:14 PM
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I think you're overthinking it and purposely giving it a negative interpretation. When most people say husband or wife material, they just mean that person would be suitable for a relationship. They don't mean they view them as an object or strictly according to their functionality. It takes a warped view and some mental gymnastics to reach that conclusion, imo. Also, context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:51 PM
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Do you think calling a woman wife material also means she's boring and dependable?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:46 PM
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Just out of curiosity, would you prefer to be referred to as fuckboy material, aka someone good for sex but not a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:45 PM
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Yes, it's quite common especially in more conservative households.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:04 PM
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It's funny because a common complaint I heard from women was that growing up, they were taught and expected to be quiet, unobtrusive and serve the menfolk. Pretty much the opposite of what this says.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:06 PM
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I disagree. Being addicted to porn is bad, but porn itself doesn't harm you. It can open up people's minds to new possibilities and experiences, other than the boring missionary starfish sex their parents probably had once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:15 PM
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Too many guys don't understand this imo. She wants a guy who can engage her in intelligent conversation, not some autistic dude who can recite WW2 tank specs for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:09 PM
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A Youtube video where two guys discuss what women want? Well I'm sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:05 PM
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Why are You Randomly Capitalizing Words like That?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 12:00 PM
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It's funny, I remember girls in college being all appreciative and admiring me when I got angry and told off some teaching assistant. It can be powerful, as long as you're not like that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:03 PM
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Ce te enerveaza? Eu nu suport adultii care se refera la mancare drept "papa", gen "sa papam papa bun." Nu stiu de ce, ma scoate din sarite. Imi vine sa le dau un cap in gura, sa manance papa cu paiul urmatoarele 3 luni. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:56 PM
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Women I would shamelessly simp for: Ana de Armas, Kate Beckinsale, Minnie Driver, Nicole Kidman, Lucy Lawless, probably more I can't think of right now. Thank you, that is all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:36 PM
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The women I've dated would consider that behavior a bit too much, imo, especially if they just met each other or are in the early stages of a relationship. Not to mention those guys will often feel like they are owed something for their effort, and get mad if the woman doesn't give them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:26 PM
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Agreed, I'm in central Europe and it's generally considered polite here for whoever did the inviting to pay, though splitting the bill is also perfectly acceptable. Chivalrous notions like "the man always pays and also throws his coat over a puddle so the woman can step on it" are becoming antiquated, especially with the younger generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:24 PM
0

So be that guy instead, or get a hooker if you want guarantees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:21 PM
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What if she wants to pay? Although that could also be a red flag, I've heard women say they insist on paying when they don't want to feel like they owe the guy anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:20 PM
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Caveat, this works for guys who are attractive and got some game. If you're ugly, no woman will care whether you give a fuck or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:19 PM
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I mean people seriously follow the Church of Scientology and go through all the rituals and stuff, I don't even know what to say anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:17 AM
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I like confident women as long as it doesn't border on arrogance. I wouldn't be attracted to a meek or shy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:13 AM
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I played it for a little bit before refunding it, as I was a big fan of DA Origins, and to a lesser extent 2 and Inquisition. I wasn't impressed to be honest. The art direction reminded me of WoW or Fortnite, and combat felt like some generic action RPG. KoA Reckoning had better combat imo, and it came out in like 2012. And the writing feels like it was by and for 20-something woke college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:09 AM
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Who's bullshitting and has no argument? If you projected any harder you could get a job at IMAX.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:46 AM
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You haven't found shit, stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:35 PM
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Right mentality? Sorry, the dude sounds like a bitch-ass pussy in that scenario. He could have at least have walked over and got his gf away from there, instead of waiting for the barman to do it. But then again, something tells me that if the gf had gotten hurt, all the little incels around here would be celebrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:35 PM
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Was that the Christmas gift exchange thread? I looked through it and could find no instances of "advocating extreme violence against men and boys". Can you link to the exact post? Or a different one, should be pretty easy since they do it "on a daily basis", right? That was a rhetorical question by the way, we both know you're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:21 PM
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Women's subs advocate for extreme violence against men and boys on a daily basis here, and they won't get banned because Reddit protects these people, and are pro bashing hetero men in particular. Can you provide one example? Are these women watching us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:41 PM
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We'll talk when women's subs get banned for advocating rape and violence like certain incel and redpill subs did. Meanwhile, please go outside and touch some grass, I promise there are no evil women waiting to persecute you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:22 PM
1

Just read something on social media with ppl saying the new Spider-Man Miles Morales movie might get delayed or cancelled because the actor is a creep and how it would be hilarious, didn't realize it was this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:40 AM
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Me when I've got a reply all written up then suddenly I realize I'm probably arguing with a kid, troll or moron whose opinion means nothing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:36 AM
1

Weren't there a couple of actors who cheated on their celebrity spouse with the nanny or housekeeper? I seem to remember Arnold and Jude Law, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:31 AM
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I've browsed through it a couple of times, and there is for sure some misandry and circlejerky tendencies, but most of the posts seem to be complaining/venting about shitty men. TBH I've seen far worse from manosphere communities when talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:24 AM
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Peak PPD, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:17 AM
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True, men are also the main perpetrators of violence against other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:15 AM
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For what it's worth I agree. Men should be allowed to get a "paper abortion" which involves giving up all rights and responsibilities towards the child, up to and including being named as the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:00 PM
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There is more to it than physical attraction, personality and socializing also play a large part. I just said in another comment that from personal experience, most of the guys I know who are in relationships are not significantly more attractive than the average population. If anything, they just take better care of themselves and have their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:17 PM
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Hard to say without knowing you or what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:16 PM
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Unfortunately, if you're holding out for a woman to be viscerally attracted to you, I've got bad news for you and like 80% of men. What is possible, however, is to be in a loving relationship where attraction actually increases over time. I've head women talk about that a lot. It takes work, but it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:04 PM
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Oh, okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:01 PM
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My point was that those are extreme outlier examples which don't reflect the average guys complaining about being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:00 PM
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Some of them couldn't, and would end up marrying for convenience. Others, who are capable of being independent, would be unaffected. Either way it wouldn't solve anything imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:59 PM
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Look at all the couples in the world and tell me if you think all the men are attractive - I mean real life, not Instagram. You just have to do your best with what you've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:38 PM
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Dude yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:28 PM
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Agreed, there should be more groups and initiatives dealing with men's issues, the problem is such groups almost always get overwhelmed by trolls and woman-haters, at least online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:27 PM
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But then you'd just be back to the old times of women needing to rely on men, leading to stale loveless marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:24 PM
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And that's the problem, we just had this discussion recently and people were coming up with the most extreme examples, like "So you're saying a 4'11" cross-eyed balding dude should just dress better and get confident and he'll attract women, HUH? STOP GASLIGHTING US" like that's the issue. In reality most guys would be absolutely fine if they put more effort into their appearance/personality, but they just don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:21 PM
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Probably Andrew Tate fans, usually edgy kids or bitter divorced 40-something dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:57 AM
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I wish people would stop overusing that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:34 PM
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I don't even know what that means tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:34 PM
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Another incel with a hot take, whose alt are you I wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:33 PM
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"If a guy stims"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:00 PM
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I seriously doubt that guy dates women, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:37 PM
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"The moon is made of cheese and the world is ruled by dinosaur aliens disguised as humans! Better prove me wrong or I won the argument!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:57 PM
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Saying "updoots" is cringe, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:31 PM
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Men on this sub are like "Women say they like cake, but when I hold them down and shove cake in their mouths they're not happy? Women don't know what they want! HAHA CHECKMATE FEMINISTS"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:30 PM
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Damn dude, I'd say touch grass but I fear it wouldn't be enough in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:27 PM
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The point is that men who are tough negociators and ask for things are known as assertive go-getters, while women are often portrayed as bitchy and demanding, but I think you knew that. If by "winning" you mean making things worse for people you don't like just to spite them while not really getting any benefit yourself, then congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:16 PM
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everyone parrots "women are victim men are privileged even tho women are objectively better at everything" Where, exactly? University feminism lectures and shows like The View, which cater to bored housewives? Meanwhile in the real world women still make less money than men for the same job, are taken less seriously, and are raped and assaulted every day, less that 5% of those cases being ever prosecuted. Meanwhile men play victims because Stacy won't date them. I dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:11 PM
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I agree, women should be more assertive in the workplace. They will be called "difficult" and "bitchy" but change has to start somewhere. What all 5 of them? Abortion isn't federally banned last I checked. Go to a blue state And if you think men have it so bad, move to Saudi Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:07 PM
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Women stay in school longer and get more degrees, yeah. Men still get paid more on average for the same job. And women are currently dealing with stuff like dying due to pregnancy complications because doctors were afraid of breaking the law by helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:52 PM
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The thing is, those channels you mentioned aren't in any way popular nor mainstream. I dunno, their thousands of followers might disagree. Mainstream doesn't mean much anymore, everything is on social media now and it's all tribalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:50 PM
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The thing is, those channels I mentioned make no attempt to claim it's a joke, so it's pretty straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:41 PM
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You're right, that's girl stuff. Men follow Andrew Tate and talk about how all women are worthless whores, or pull an Elliot Rodger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:38 PM
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Some women will post stuff like that on TikTok or Insta, but it's usually just advertising for their OF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:22 PM
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Add rock music in there and you've basically got Iran or North Korea. Wait, you want to legalize cocaine? Fair enough, I guess dying of a heart attack at 40 wouldn't be too bad if I had to live in a place like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:19 PM
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Starting a business always carries risks. It's a lot of work, a lot of responsibility, and no guarantee of success. Personally I'd rather have a comfortable 9 to 5 job, but I admire people who take that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:14 PM
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That was not even true / clearly a joke. Wanna give your opinion on the dozens if not hundreds of TikTok / YouTube "alpha male" channels shitting on women regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:12 PM
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Still mostly chronically online stuff. People who espouse red/blackpill in real life are usually dumbasses or losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:10 PM
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"Women say they like a guy who's funny and outgoing, but when I make them listen to my standup routine for an hour every night they don't like it! Women don't know what they want, smh"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:07 PM
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You have to wonder why those things happened in the first place, though. In India and other parts of Asia, apparently women being groped and assaulted in trains and elsewhere grew to be a serious problem. What would your proposed solution be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:01 PM
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Username checks out :P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:53 AM
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One thing I noticed is an increasing trend among young alt-right men to demonize porn alongside with masturbation as being "weak" and "low-T" behaviors unworthy of alpha males, something I always found funny as their hero Andrew Tate literally made his money from being a pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:52 AM
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Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, are you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:59 PM
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Do you give the same grace to men that hate women because they were harmed by women? That's a fair point, OP went through a messy divorce if I remember rightly and dedicated his life to hating women and feminists ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:57 PM
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Indeed, women who are promiscuous should be stoned to death as Allah wills it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:41 PM
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Where are you, Thailand?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:42 PM
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And yet they do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:40 PM
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You wanna talk real sexism? Here is an example. I guarantee there are a dozen guys as good if not better than her, who will not get nearly as much attention. And who's to blame? Not feminists :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:15 PM
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Mostly black tea or any variety that contains tannins, supposedly they irritate the stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:03 PM
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Drinking tea on an empty stomach makes me nauseated, coffee is good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:01 PM
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Sometimes I forget this sub's userbase is like 18-25 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:56 PM
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These people will purposely say outrageous shit to get engagement and clicks. Don't fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:55 PM
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As a coomer, I feel I'd be more into Slaanesh personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:54 PM
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Happy b-day from an internet stranger :) For what it's worth, I actually removed my birth date from Facebook and such, because I was tired of getting a bunch of messages from people who only did it as an automatic reflex because they got a notification. It's more peaceful and quiet this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:40 PM
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My favorite thing is people who post like "I apologize, English is not my first language. Thus, although I am penning this missive in earnest, please be gentle with me dear reader, and forgive my clumsy malapropisms; for after all, to err is only human."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:36 PM
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Caveat: The future might turn out differently depending on your choices, you may not experience the same events or meet the same people. That's the only downside I can think of. So basically I think people who believe their life is already great would pick green. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:07 PM
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Green button: Receive 10 million dollars in cash. Red button: Go back in time to when you were 10 years old, keeping your current knowledge and memories. Which would you press? Personally I'd like to go for red, there are a lot of things I'd do differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:01 PM
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It's also the nature of Reddit, which encourages herd mentality since anyone going against the circlejerk will be buried in downvotes. That and I honestly think it's 50% bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:59 PM
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Same here. I'm so envious of successful writers who make a good living from it. I just don't think I've got the creativity or the discipline though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:58 PM
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I think I know what you mean. I'm currently living in central/eastern Europe (not trying to doxx myself) and sometimes go to karaoke events and stuff where people sing pop songs in English. All the non-English speakers think they sound amazing but tbh their accents and pronunciation are often hilariously bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:00 PM
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I don't understand why some people insist on treating dating like a business transaction where they try to maximize profit. It just shows a lack of actual dating experience imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:49 PM
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It's like that old saying, "If you run into an asshole in the morning, you've run into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, maybe you're the asshole."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:48 PM
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As another member of the "dated a bad singer who thinks she's good" club, I feel that pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:31 PM
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I swear I'm losing touch with modern popular culture, I have no idea who those people are. This is basically what it feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:28 PM
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Best example is this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:18 PM
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But again, it doesn't mean anything. I can say I "deserve" a million dollars, but nobody's gonna give it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:27 PM
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Better than blackpill incel doomer bullshit, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:27 PM
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It also really depends on the individual imo. I personally know a lovely woman who married a short, bald, chubby guy and they seem to be happy together. Apparently he's a good provider and a good husband, so kudos to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:38 PM
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Sounds like you're leaving something out or not painting an accurate picture then. Either that or their relationship may not last very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:04 PM
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I think it's a bit of both. Acting uninterested / like it's no big deal will automatically make a guy more attractive than one who seems desperate or overeager. At the same time, women have to find you at least a little bit attractive in the first place, or they won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:35 PM
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Being interesting is just part of it, and can be a significant part when trying to attract quality women. The guy who has no interests except watching football and chugging beers will probably attract a woman with similar interests, because otherwise what would they talk about? But it's equally true that looks and social status matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:04 PM
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From my experience, guys like this usually want to live in The Handmaid's Tale, even if they don't come out and say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:11 AM
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What does that even mean though? "Deserve" in what context? Will the government force such men to pair up with women who claim they "deserve" them, which they don't? It just sounds like nonsense rhetoric tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 11:06 AM
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Get a room already, you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:18 AM
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It's actually interesting how much the views and playbooks of prominent redpill and manosphere leaders align with fascist propaganda used in the past. Replace "the enemy" with "women and liberals", and many of Umberto Eco's points sound straight out of the modern alt-right manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:51 PM
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Me too, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:40 PM
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You mean when women died due to pregnancy complications because doctors were afraid of breaking the law by helping them? Yeah, how dare they be upset about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:58 PM
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I knew a couple of girls in uni who admitted they went out to bars and clubs to get free drinks from guys. I guess it's a question of how you present yourself and maybe the location.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:07 PM
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As if guys don't do it all the time too, get with some mid girl who's great for them but still pining for the crazy Stacy ex. It's a human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:05 PM
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She's cute, but I'll never understand women who think hair dyed the color of swamp weeds is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:59 PM
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BP doesn't really "offer" anything though. It's just common sense stuff and rejection of the more outlandish parts of RP. There are no bluepillers, to my knowledge, that are selling books or memberships to their exclusive club or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:54 PM
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Blue Pill pandering doesn't really exist because there are no BP "gurus" in the same vein as RP. BP is just a reaction, and rejection of redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:53 PM
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For real, I once mentioned dressing better and getting a haircut and got a lot of pushback and angry replies in the vein of "I'm not gonna change for anybody!" ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:51 PM
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I wonder what the T levels of men who stalk, assault, rape and kill women are like. Not a lot of emotional control there, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:47 PM
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Women don't want to be "coddled" on average more than men. I have to admit I sometimes wanted to vent about a problem and just have someone say "yeah man, that sucks" instead of trying to reason it away or offer solutions. That's empathy. Saying "man, I had a lousy day at work" and hearing theories on how it's my fault or solutions on how to improve it is not empathy, it's like talking to a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:45 PM
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I gotta say it explained a lot when the survey showed it's like 75% incel dudes in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:42 PM
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Imagine the stink if there was a forest fire
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:54 PM
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It might explain why alt-right dudes / incels are so angry at OF models and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:51 PM
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LMAO :) :) I do not envy today's young women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:50 PM
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What I find funniest is when certain dudes bemoan women's lack of empathy towards men while making hateful misogynistic generalizations in their very next comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:59 AM
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Like many other things, musical talent can help a guy's attractiveness but is not enough by itself if he doesn't have the looks or charisma. Personality and knowing your audience matters, if he's an autistic nerd into classical music it's not gonna help much (unless the woman is one as well, I suppose.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:50 AM
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Not for me, I was making 300k/year as an employee. IT or finance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:24 AM
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I agree with the part about being invisible and having total freedom. As for job and financial "failures", it's a matter of perspective. I'd rather have a relaxed job that lets me support myself and leaves plenty of time for my favorite hobbies and other activities, than some high-powered career that demands 80% of my time just so I can make more money and impress a bunch of people I don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:19 PM
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Honestly, most of them aren't. But it doesn't matter because men are the thirsty ones approaching women. The dating market imbalance is due to thirsty male simps and fuckbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:09 PM
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There was an argument between Muslims on my street the other day, I wanted to step in but I was afraid it would blow up in my face. Why are you so proud of your ignorance? I dunno, you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:50 PM
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The police of vice and virtue might want to have a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:41 PM
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What is it called? "My woman wore makeup in public, so we shall stone her to death as Allah wills it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:34 PM
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"All those gold digging whores who only care about money and status will be sorry when men get AI girlfriends" "If that's what you think of women, feel free to get an AI gf and leave them alone." "OMG why do u hate men :("
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:50 PM
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Watch out everyone, we got Edgy Gigachad over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:47 PM
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How perfectly? Is it intelligent and self-aware? If not, you've basically got an expensive videogame that's programmed to let you win. If that satisfies your needs, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:45 PM
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Reminds me of that line about asking funeral parlors why they don't hire men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:10 AM
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True, and I think it's a shame that some men will describe themselves or their gender as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:08 AM
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Yet you imply companionship is not enough. So they should hire a housemaid and forget about marriage if it's clearly such a lousy deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:06 AM
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From the way you state the issue, it sounds like what he really needs is not a wife, but a live-in maid and cook. That way her duties are clear, they can work out fair compensation and everyone is satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:49 PM
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Gotta have those Excel spreadsheets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:45 PM
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Fine, they should both work and split chores evenly. Or if the woman stays at home, work out a system whereby the housework she does is equivalent to the man's financial contribution. Then, next time he wants sex or affection, her question should be "how will I be compensated for this?" Finally, equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:18 PM
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I don't understand these people who insist on viewing relationships like a business transaction where they try to maximize their profit, except to confirm they've probably never been in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:14 PM
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Many jobs were not available to women, universities would not accept them, and banks would not let them start a business or take out a long without their husband's signature. Seriously, are you a troll or just a complete fucking moron?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:12 PM
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Many of whom were stay at home wives because they could not live on their own. Are you stupid or just trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:26 PM
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I agree, I've always said the modern dating situation is largely due to male thirst and over-availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:30 PM
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Bunch of little Elliot Rodger wannabes in this thread, how nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:20 PM
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No matter the feminist BS you say, rpe isn't celebrated and there's no scenarios where men go "heh i totally rped that chick" and the response is "you go man!". "I totally banged that chick last night, she said no at first but you know she was just playing, in the end she let me do it, what a slut." On the other hand, when women divorce rape men, destroy their lives with false accusations, or outright r*pe men, they get a slap on the wrist at wrost or they even get praised as strong and independ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:18 PM
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Only from the men who choose to approach her. Nobody is forcing them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:13 PM
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Not at all, are you invalidating how women feel when they talk about male height or dick size?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:10 PM
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Same here. I don't mind socializing with cool people, but not all the time. I definitely need recharge time and privacy in between. I could never be a celebrity or a politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:08 PM
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What incel sub / 4chan forum did you get that pic from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:24 AM
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I don't get that either. Maybe they were saying they didn't want to be relegated to the role of traditional housewife who cooks and cleans? Need context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:22 AM
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Pro-Russia, far right, anti-vaxxer, Christian fundamentalist. Apparently most Romanians hadn't even heard of him, but he had a viral following on TikTok due to thousands of accounts spreading his videos. People are saying he was boosted by bots originating from Russian groups. Just shows a large percentage of people are easily influenced idiots tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:20 AM
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Actually that's been proven to be mostly false, the only thing that matters is total number of calories per day. The problem is it's very hard to accurately estimate that number without going over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:58 AM
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This sub is full of incels and manosphere losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:54 AM
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This was actually taught in the past, unfortunately it also went hand-in-hand with "women shouldn't think for themselves and must obey their husbands" and if the husband wanted to cheat, come home drunk, and smack her around a little from time to time because dinner was cold, well that was just part of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:53 AM
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I've seen men refer to high n-count women as sluts and whores with disgusting used-up bodies, then innocently claim they're just stating their preference, so I'ma take that with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:45 AM
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Yeah, in my experience men mock fat women far more than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:41 PM
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I've seen multiple redpill/manosphere dudes talk about how dating is so easy for women because they just have to not be fat, which is easily achievable if they just don't eat like pigs, so yeah. Actually, after reading your post, I have to wonder if you're trolling and I just took the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:38 PM
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Because you say so? ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:09 PM
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Jazz, basketball, country music, soul food, ragtime, I could go on, but I feel it would be wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:03 PM
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Yeah, I think there's a difference between trying to be your best self and pretending to be someone you're not in order to get a date. The former is more or less expected; the latter will just lead to disappointment down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:48 AM
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A noble sentiment, but I believe you should go a step further and have the village elders check if she's a virgin before the wedding. If she isn't, she shall be stoned to death as God wills it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:33 AM
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So you're saying women should go back to being submissive housewives if they know what's good for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:32 PM
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So lone women are in more danger... from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:18 PM
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You give them "kudos" because they are cherry-picked examples which justify your hatred of feminists. You'll see what you want to see, I guess. There is plenty of criticism of both individual feminist figures and parts of feminism as an ideology. There is a reason most women do not associate with radical feminists and figures like Valerie Solanas or Andrea Dworkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:15 PM
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There's a lot of lonely desperate guys out there, willing to believe that this person cares about them because they're paying x amount of dollars a month. Some OF models encourage this as well, offering "girlfriend experience" subscriptions and whatnot. I find it silly and off-putting personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:33 PM
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The ones who make bank are usually ones who already had a sizable social media following, doing tons of advertising/marketing, or have a certain unique look / filling a niche. It's definitely not easy and only the top 1% make any real money, allegedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:14 AM
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Let's say there's some celebrity or influencer you've got a crush on, and you can see naked pics of her for a low subscription fee. It's not just random pics, but pics of this person you're after. That makes sense to me. Then of course there's the illusion of intimacy and "connecting" with the model, but that's a crock and I pity guys who buy into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:11 AM
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Yeah, it attracts gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:09 AM
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Not to mention the blackpill incel nonsense ignores other factors like personality and social skills, which can make a big difference in a man's attractiveness irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:06 AM
2

It's also like saying you're not a true Christian unless you identify with and approve of certain Church officials' abuse and pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:30 AM
1

higher risk of getting attacked/assaulted How did feminism lead to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:23 AM
2

Of course they can't, they will just ramble and deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:23 AM
2

Nowhere in that rambling did you answer the question though. When were men ever oppressed by women as a class?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:22 AM
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Not to mention that premise is flawed. The movement is much bigger than a few extremists, even prominent ones. I wonder what these guys would say if you told them they can't call themselves redpill if they don't agree with the school shooters and blatant misogynists who were/are leaders and prominent figures of the movement. Same argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:20 AM
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That's like saying you cannot call yourself a Christian unless you accept and identify with all the prominent Christian leaders who were responsible for oppression, abuse and atrocities throughout history. In other words, bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:17 AM
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I was pretty surprised to find that in certain parts of the US, women could not get a bank loan or a credit card without their husband's permission until the 1960s or 70s. Puts things in perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:10 AM
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Women have the upper hand only as far as men let them. If men are desperate enough to simp for women and put up with disrespect or abuse, it's on them. Nothing is stopping them from ending a relationship if they so choose. This is why I disagree with the double standards thing as well. A man doesn't have to put up with bad behavior. And when a man leaves the relationship, if he got a real crazy broad, she might trash his car or something. When a woman leaves a crazy dude, he might stalk and kill…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:28 PM
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a female Hmm, yes. I too desire females for mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:38 AM
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The ones who do, will say so. The ones who don't, will not answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:47 AM
1

Feels like the only ones making serious money from that are the ones who had large sums to invest years ago and just keep them there. Sadly not an option for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:41 PM
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Why do I get a feeling that was made by a dude who watched too much porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:33 PM
1

What gets me is when people act like buying meat, fruits and vegetables in bulk and cooking your own tasty healthy meals is a natural thing that everyone has the time, energy and knowledge for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:07 PM
1

"When he says i am so mean and dont care about his feelings, I ask him if it's his time of the month" "He was crying in bed so I said 'here we go again' and turned around and fell asleep" some of these are ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:01 PM
1

Something tells me that list was made by a dude, it's got all the square jaw, zygomatic bones, hunter eyes, blackpill incel BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:57 PM
1

Of course it's all performative signaling for their voters. She's basically doing this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RybNI0KB1bg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:42 PM
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Sure, but it's not women who always complain about being lonely and dateless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:50 AM
2

Just because it's a debate doesn't mean you are automatically right for disagreeing. The entire point of your reply (to a post about men lacking empathy) was trying to "gotcha" her, in a snarky and condescending tone to boot. I just think it's funny that you insist on digging deeper and proving her right. By any chance, do you run one of those "alpha male" podcasts where they invite Instagram thots and club girls so they can spew rehearsed manosphere talking points at them and act like they "own…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:42 AM
2

If money mattered that much, Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos would be the most attractive and lusted-after men on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:35 AM
1

I mean Notch talked about being single and finding it hard to date after becoming a multi-millionaire post Minecraft. In his case he thought women wanted a more "normal" guy, which is fair, but looks and personality still matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:33 AM
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I don't, she did. I don't always agree with Lilith, but it's hilarious to read the rabid replies from manospherians whenever she makes a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:28 AM
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"Shut up, you're stupid, men have it worse, blah blah" must be that vaunted empathy. Still proving OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:27 AM
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Still not as bad as east Asia, apparently. But I guess time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:25 AM
1

No, just low birth rates and worsening gender relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:21 AM
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And you're still continuing to prove OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:21 AM
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And you still got it wrong. She never said anything about not being allowed to have preferences, that was your strawman interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:20 AM
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Agreed, as long as you apply the same standards and judgement to men and yourself. Actually I've heard about societies in Asia that are very uniform and people are shamed/criticized for being out of line in any way, sounds like your cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:16 AM
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Heh, I don't always fully agree with you, but this sub is really full of incels and manosphere dudes. The response to your post was predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:14 AM
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Even if you're admitting you only read the title (lol) I still don't see what's incorrect about it. If you go out of your way to hate on women you don't consider attractive, you've got issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:12 AM
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it's not out job to wipe snot off her face And we have our own female friends and relatives with their own hysterical neuroticism. Yeah, I can see you're totally unbiased about this, thank you for demonstrating exactly what OP was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:00 AM
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If you flaunt your money, you're gonna attract women who are after money. Might as well advertise on a sugar daddy website.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:22 AM
2

Unlike blackpill, I also believe that most people's looks can be improved. Some people who are genetically cursed with actual birth abnormalities have a very hard time of it, but the "average" guy can meet enough women's subjective looks criteria to be able to meet someone if he develops all those other things too. The trouble is there are a lot of guys who are skinny or fat, have antisocial hobbies, lack social skills, don't groom themselves properly, dress like slobs, and don't bother to fix a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:19 AM
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Literally most of your post is "What about the men" and finished with a "gotcha". No need to be disingenuous on top of it. If you really think men and women face equal risk and should feel equally safe while outside and confronted by a stranger, I don't think there's any point to any further discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:12 AM
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I didn't mean you personally, but the group of men who often complain about women's lack of empathy. And I disagree, you can have empathy for an individual you know personally, but not for a group online that's mostly known for misogyny and hateful rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:09 AM
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You pretty much did exactly what the OP was talking about though, i.e., turned it around and made it her fault while going 'what about the men'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:46 AM
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Maybe women would have more empathy if you stopped referring to them as dumb worthless hypergamous whores etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:42 AM
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I mean just look at the situation in the US at present, Americans have shown that they would rather vote for a sleazy old convicted felon than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:40 AM
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I'll never understand people who hang out on this sub while claiming to be happily married with wonderful children, etc. It's like going to a forum for people with eating disorders to talk about the amazing lunch you just had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:39 AM
1

So just date men already if women are so bad, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:02 PM
3

Yet they absolutely talk and act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:01 PM
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Just as an aside, I personally always hated the "daddy" thing and found it creepy and off-putting. I don't wanna date a woman who infantilizes herself and acts like a naughty child, and I look askance at the men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:35 AM
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Reminds me of that /truerateme sub where a bunch of neckbeards rate pretty women a 6/10 because their jaw to nose ratio is off or some BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:30 AM
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The blue pill doesn't cover any of this stuff in fact it does the opposite by preaching that women are wonderful angels I have never seen this said outside of the context of redpillers claiming that's what BP says. At best it's a silly strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:48 AM
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Honestly, a lot of RP could be summed up as "Don't be a fat slob, be interesting, and act like you have value." Guys like OP are saying it helped with self-confidence, but then many take it too far and become cocky manipulative jerks. Does it work on certain women, sure, but you gotta wonder if that's what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:48 AM
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The positive parts of the redpill (have self-confidence, work on your health/fitness/appearance/finances, don't put women on a pedestal, be an interesting person) are fine but also nothing special, as they are reflected in mainstream advice. The other stuff like dread game, negging, and viewing women as lesser than, will make you a misogynist douche. There is no doubt that some women are attracted to misogynist douches who appear strong and confident, at least in the early phases, but you have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:33 AM
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I don't think you need official data to know there's a big overlap between redpill and incel groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:27 AM
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And who are they sexual with? Hint - most of them aren't lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:16 PM
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Gotta say I've rarely if ever seen a woman like that. Men, on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:12 PM
1

It's probably subjective, but for me the worst is short and chubby. Best is tall and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:11 PM
1

I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:07 AM
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Do you have an example of what kind of clothing you find “provocative”? When she shows her ankles like a whore!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:43 AM
1

UwU what's this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:42 AM
1

Should be the anthem of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:40 AM
2

I always get a laugh out of the online incels and alt-right losers worshipping the likes of Trump and Musk because "one of us" or something, when those guys wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:39 AM
2

Unlike Republicans, who would never stoop to insults or personal attacks... or actual attacks...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:36 AM
1

What's your fantasy? I wanna try pegging once, but with a woman who's actually into it and not just doing it because I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:34 AM
1

Reminds me of that old joke. Tarzan and Jane are getting together, but Jane says: "If he wants me, my man's gotta have a car." So Tarzan listens, and builds a car. Then Jane says "My man's gotta have a house." So Tarzan listens, and builds a house. Jane says "My man's also gotta have a 10 inch dick." So Tarzan listens, and cuts off 2 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:00 AM
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Geez, elitist and judgmental much? Besides, it sounds like your subjective opinion, which is as valuable as a fervently Christian couple seeing atheists as living a wretched life of sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:50 AM
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I grew up with an emotionally immature mother and an overbearing, narcissistic, authoritarian father so the whole "family dynamic" never appealed to me honestly. I love living on my own and being free, and that's not likely to ever change. I don't think it's right to say that being single or married is better, it depends on the person, their wishes and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:46 AM
1

I reckon it does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:31 PM
1

I do. Many of the "hot" actresses and models don't really do anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:28 PM
1

Reminds me of that ad, "Feeling fat and ugly? Join our gym and just be ugly!" but I'm sure you look fine though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:27 PM
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Tinder is full of dudes who will swipe right on everything, I guess it's great if you're a woman just looking to quickly get laid but not much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:24 PM
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Sometimes I will have positive or neutral comments downvoted, someone is stalking me or they're really bored
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:21 PM
1

At best she is opening herself up to a lot of risk, not only getting pepper sprayed but possibly even shot, to which the guy will claim she was on his property and he was acting in self-defense. But that's none of my business.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:16 PM
1

"Laying pipe" has always sounded to me like a euphemism for taking a shit. Brb, gotta lay some pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:46 PM
3

I have to agree there, none of that experience sounds appealing tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:46 PM
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I've dealt with both types and if I had to pick friends and/or neighbors I'd rather go with the straight-laced law-abiding nerds than the drunk party animals. Maybe because I'm laid back myself, but I'd rather live a quiet peaceful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:44 PM
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I dated a girl like that. To be precise we went on one date, where she got drunk and made a scene plus nearly broke my phone. Not worth it, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:40 PM
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I take it you'd be down for that kind of fun ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:36 PM
1

It's alright, but they deviate quite a lot from the lore and tone of the books. If that doesn't bother you it's a decent fantasy series.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:34 PM
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I agree, even if you think the guy is an asshole, does not give people license for trespassing and harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:31 PM
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Not to mention it got a little far-fetched in the later seasons. He was pushing 300 lbs and could still get beautiful women almost at will. I doubt even being a mob boss will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:32 PM
1

Maybe I'm overly cynical or influenced by my own family, but I sometimes wonder how many of the people who are married with kids, took the step because they wanted to and not to fulfill society/family expectactions; and of those who say they're happy, how many actually mean it and aren't just saying it because that's what you are supposed to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:16 AM
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"Any group that gets its laughs by pretending to be idiots is in danger of being overrun by actual idiots who believe they're in good company" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:42 AM
1

A lot of guys just don't know how to take a good picture or don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:34 AM
0

This, many women have said that guys being too sexual in the early stages is a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:33 AM
0

If anything I think sometimes this sub is too lenient with the blatantly misogynist shit that gets spewed by the redpill/manosphere crowd on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:19 AM
1

Do it in January. We went one time after the holidays and it was great, much fewer people and almost no lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:15 AM
3

On the other hand Youtube for instance is full of "alpha male" channels shitting on women constantly, and I don't see anybody canceling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:12 AM
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The guy took his shot, since men are supposed to initiate. If she'd been attracted to him, it would've been a cute story of how they started dating. The only thing he could be blamed for is not gauging her interest correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:36 PM
5

Women on TwoX are like "My boyfriend plays videogames all day while I work, then he gets drunk and shits on the floor, I love him but how can I communicate that I'm not comfortable with this? :("
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:07 AM
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That's what Twitter, sorry I mean "X" is... porn, trolling and ragebait. Do people actually use it for anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:05 AM
2

Something something cleaning your ass is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:39 AM
0

Yeah, that too. Culture is basically the Star Trek Federation if left to evolve in peace for another couple of thousand years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:28 AM
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Even outside the pee thing, I'll never understand how some women can stand living with a gross manchild who never learned proper hygiene. She's either embellishing it or there is more to the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:24 AM
1

Fully automated, luxury, gay space communism I've just been reading Iain Banks' Culture series, I could get onboard with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:20 AM
1

He's like that stinky homeless guy ranting on the subway, you try to ignore but wish somebody would do something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:01 AM
1

I think I might need to update my haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:58 AM
1

I don't think too many guys are scared of women. Scared of rejection and ridicule, maybe, but that's just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:30 AM
1

https://www.politicsforum.org/compost/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:26 AM
1

Just report and block, not like you're missing out on any brilliant witticisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:24 AM
2

I still remember watching a podcast with two reasonably cute female comedians in their mid 20s talking about how they're both into bad boys with tattoos, drug habits and commitment issues. They weren't joking or being sarcastic either. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:22 AM
1

Oh just shut up you tiresome idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:54 PM
2

I remember watching a documentary on Las Vegas once and it showed all these beautiful, glamorous hotels and casinos, which were filled with tourists wearing shorts or ratty jeans, sandals or sneakers, and t-shirts and hoodies, plus half of them were fat. You wouldn't see that in Europe tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:38 PM
1

Yeah, Dems could be called tone deaf to their electorate in general but saying they're responsible for not converting the incels / Andrew Tate fans to their cause is just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:29 PM
1

I just said I'm not American and had nothing to do with the election. Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:27 PM
1

https://imgur.com/a/uxDNGX2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:11 PM
1

Where have they stated or implied they hate men? Where did Trump say anything in support of men who aren't him or his rich cronies? Nevermind, rhetorical question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:06 PM
2

This place has really turned into incel/manosphere central lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:03 PM
1

True, can't match the genius of the dudes who voted Trump because women wouldn't fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:59 PM
1

Not American, don't care that much about the election, still think it's pathetic that you would defend your side as "trolling" when it's pretty obvious they meant it. Try not to shoot up any schools about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:54 PM
1

Anti-male takes where? All I've seen was dudes spamming "doesn't matter if she says no" and "your body, my choice"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:48 PM
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Thankfully you've got a plethora of mainstream porn where hot muscular guys with big dicks ravish women, and call yourself hetero watching it. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:01 PM
1

Did that yesterday, it was nice for a little bit, then I fell asleep and woke up 2 hours later with a headache, dry mouth and racing heart. Shit's not worth it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:29 AM
3

It's just for the memes isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:59 PM
1

It's mostly genetics. I knew a woman like that, all the fat got distributed to her butt and thighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:55 PM
1

Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:53 PM
5

Imagine dickriding a borderline senile near-octogenarian sleazebag who doesn't really give a shit about anyone except himself and his rich friends. I'll never understand Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:49 PM
6

Judging by the online response, if the tactic is "trying to make men mad" it seems to be working pretty well imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:47 PM
2

A while ago I made a female character in WoW just for variety's sake and had guys offering to help me and give me free stuff, it was wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:45 PM
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I don't get it tbh. The only guys obsessed with this are the ones who probably weren't getting laid in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:41 PM
2

The guys writing that are the ones who wouldn't see any changes from this movement, as no women would get near them before either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:13 PM
1

Good to know you bros don't need women since you're content sucking each other's dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:13 PM
3

Dog lovers are narcissists who want unconditional love from a dumb animal that's the equivalent of a toddler who never grows up. IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:47 PM
1

If reddit mods were feminists, you and your incel manosphere buddies would've all been banned long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:45 PM
1

Of course, of course. Nice copout
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:44 PM
1

Geoana mi se pare cel mai ok, dar nu stiu ce sanse are. Macar sa nu ajungem cu alde George Simion aka "patriotul" :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:42 PM
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Racist? Do you have examples or just more unhinged ranting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:39 PM
0

And you talk like you need to learn better English
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:38 PM
1

plm, nici aici nu scap de romani :P
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:36 PM
1

If it was increased female suicide, your type would be saying they're weak and unable to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:33 PM
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I've seen posts from women saying they'll refuse to have sex with men. I've seen posts from men saying women should have their rights taken away and be forcibly raped. What was your point again?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:33 PM
0

Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:29 PM
0

What are those unhinged psychotic reactions? Are they worse than the dudes posting "it doesn't matter if she says no" and "your body, my choice" on social media? Or the ones sending anonymous messages to black people saying they've been enslaved and sent to pick cotton? Just wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:29 PM
1

You know, I used to be sympathetic of men and their issues until I started seeing "all women are whores who deserve to be enslaved and raped" views from them on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:27 PM
0

A good point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:52 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVseOSFTGAw
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:50 PM
1

Youtube is full of blatantly misogynistic, "alpha male" channels that are basically incel ragebait. I haven't really seen a female equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:39 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/eapxsguajlod1.jpeg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=61a65137c5cae72ed68416fe0c00b9d4b935c9a3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:37 AM
2

This is what the internet was made for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:33 AM
1

https://preview.redd.it/eapxsguajlod1.jpeg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=61a65137c5cae72ed68416fe0c00b9d4b935c9a3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:51 AM
2

With something other than "I'm gonna rape you lol"? but whatever, I don't mind. The more bitter incels show their true colors, the easier it'll be for the normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:48 AM
2

Ah yes, that famed dark humor I've heard about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:25 AM
4

Meanwhile dudes are spamming things like "Doesn't matter if she says no" and "Your body, my choice" in response. There are no winners here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:23 AM
1

If it's even real, dude must have looks and game, or she left something out like she's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:27 PM
2

Again, the only men's subs that got banned were the ones advocating rape and violence. You accuse me of lying and arguing in bad faith, meanwhile you are dodging the issue and can't even respond to what I'm saying. I don't know why I waste my time like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:23 PM
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The only male spaces that were banned, got axed for advocating violence and rape against women. If there are women's subs that do the same for men, I am fully in favor of banning them as well. So far I haven't seen any.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:10 PM
4

Any place like that is gonna attract its trolls and unhinged lunatics, whether male or female dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:39 PM
18

TwoX definitely has too much negativity, but it's mostly women complaining that there's too much misogyny and hate coming from men, not saying kill all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:28 PM
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Yep, so at best this would lead to women even more reluctant to have sex. Not to mention failing to solve the problems of pregnancies due to rape, or pregnancies with life-threatening complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:26 PM
1

But that would just make women less eager to have sex overall... still don't see the benefit for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:14 AM
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If she's not into it or consenting, yeah, a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:54 AM
1

Eh, not really, but I'd rather be a white knight neckbeard than some bitter Elliot Rodger wannabe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:34 AM
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Secondly, I don't think I could enjoy sex with someone that wasn't also enjoying it. Even if it weren't as extreme as rape, it still wouldn't be enjoyable. I'd get nothing positive out of it. Same, I don't understand the rapist mentality at all. I know it's a power thing, but I don't think I'd even be able to do it physically. One would have to be a psychopath or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:27 AM
3

If the incels and manospherians around here had their way, Afghanistan is what we'd be heading towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:12 AM
2

Trump only cares about himself and his rich friends, the average men will benefit nothing from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:09 AM
1

So just tank tops, flannel shirts, and men's haircuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:44 PM
1

Coworkers aren't always your friends. At a former workplace I once happened to mention the pay being low during an ordinary lunch break banter session, then later found out a coworker went and told the manager I was complaining about pay. I got called in to talk about it, gave them my 2-week notice the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:43 PM
3

Yeah, you'll get to hear a senior citizen with early dementia ramble on instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:39 PM
1

How very after-school special of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:36 PM
1

Also the same guys: "Muh male loneliness epidemic, women won't fuck me, it's their fault if I pull an Elliot Rodger :("
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:32 PM
2

Meh, it's probably healthier and less risky overall than alcohol, which is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:28 PM
1

I think I actually don't want marriage and kids thanks to my family being noisy and bickering all the time. It's so nice to live by myself in a clean, quiet apartment. There's a small park next to where I live, and I often see tired parents there with crying, screaming kids in tow. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:26 PM
2

True, men should be allowed to get a financial abortion which includes giving up all rights to the child, up to and including being named as the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:15 PM
1

Agreed, as long as the father is legally obligated to pay child support as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:44 PM
1

And those decisions were made by men who were in charge. What are you even trying to say, that American women don't deserve any sympathy because the American government (where 90% of the decision-makers have been men) was responsible for crimes in other countries? And I think I saw you mention being British, you really wanna talk about the crimes of colonialism and meddling in other societies on top of it all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:41 PM
1

Wtf does that have to do with women's rights? Are you trolling or just mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:29 PM
3

Yeah, imagine women being "misandrist" after encountering fine gents like yourself, who call them pigs and gloat over their rights being taken away. Damn those feminists, etcetera.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:24 PM
2

Imagine dickriding billionaries who see you as nothing more than a disposable asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:23 PM
1

People keep asking themselves how Trump won, when it's really pretty obvious. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHJbSvidohg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:19 PM
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That article only talks about how Democrats didn't do enough to win young men over by addressing men's issues directly. It doesn't say Republicans or anyone else did any better, so what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:15 PM
1

What the hell is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:14 PM
5

I would say autistic virgin (not meant as an insult, genuine assessment based on their posts)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:10 PM
1

Americans would rather vote for a sexually harassing felon with dementia than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:46 PM
2

Probably evangelicals and tradwives. Can't wait for them to realize they voted a regime who thought the Handmaid's Tale was a goal to aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:20 PM
2

Americans would rather vote for a senile convicted felon than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:19 PM
1

I actually agree with legal abortions, as long as the man gives up any and all rights concerning their child, up to and including being named as the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:17 PM
1

Ironically, they're the ones who would have been mocked and bullied by the likes of Trump. But I'm sure Trump cares and will address their issues this time... any day now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:16 PM
2

The funny thing is, blame falls on the Democrats but all those angry incels are voting for somebody who doesn't give a shit about them regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:15 PM
2

https://imgur.com/a/apples-to-oranges-BqPzT You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:10 PM
1

That article just talks about how Democrats did not do enough to address men's specific issues, not that Republicans or anyone else did any better. You're not winning anyone over with irrelevant links and childish namecalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:39 AM
14

Those guys would gladly shit their own pants if they thought women will have to smell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:32 AM
1

Speaking of, it's pretty disappointing that he's winning, but I was actually worried about the reaction from Trump and his MAGA idiots if they'd actually lost the election this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:20 AM
3

But then you might also extend that reasoning to not helping a person who doesn't share your political views, etc. It's just tribalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:12 AM
1

I think a better simile would be "Society encourages you to lie, cheat, and screw people over (and get away with it) to get rich." Much like bad boys with DT traits, we might not necessarily want to emulate such people, even if we hold a little envy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:22 PM
5

There are still a whole lot of thirsty desperate dudes and fuckbois out there, unfortunately. I think men could actually do with having a little higher standards and more self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:04 PM
2

Do you think Trump will provide you with women to have sex with?... I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:37 AM
1

There was that quote from Umberto Eco on how the internet has given the drunk village idiots a global audience, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:33 AM
3

Unhinged rambling, sexism and racism. Did you get lost on the way to 4chan or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:25 PM
4

In what ways have women been misandrist, hateful and cruel to you? Do you have examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:23 PM
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His point is really "Women better behave themselves and play ball if they know what's good for them" - as is always the case with "nice guys" like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:44 PM
2

so edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:39 AM
2

https://www.imdb.com/list/ls000561198/ No good movies, right. Dude is probably a zoomer/gen Alpha who grew up on TikTok and YT shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:38 AM
2

These men often grow up in cultures where they are taught that women are inferior creatures meant to serve them. It's not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:34 AM
2

It feels like narcissism, like "look at how cool and handsome I am" every 5 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:36 PM
2

"Women always appreciate a man's company, especially if he's the president of the company" ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:33 PM
1

Of course not, my last name isn't Peterson, Rogan or Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:46 PM
1

I'm sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:27 PM
1

But here's a revolutionary notion: Why not forget about the alpha/beta bullshit and just try to be the best person you can be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:24 PM
1

Whatever you say dude, have fun at alpha male bootcamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:22 PM
1

The spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:20 PM
1

As far as I understood it from the context, relationship man is someone makes decent money/has their life together, situationship man is hotter and possibly more fun. So I ask again, why not try to be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:19 PM
1

Being attractive and successful are opposite things?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:15 PM
1

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:14 PM
1

When did "libfem" women tell men not to be masculine? I'm trying to work with your misogynist strawman arguments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:13 PM
1

I actually agree, there are even some female dating coaches on Youtube who try to help guys and offer a ton of free advice, yet still get bitter and hateful comments from incels and manopsphere dudes. Can't help somebody who doesn't want to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:11 PM
1

Why not try to be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:10 PM
1

FFS, not this again. Women want hot guys who are good at socializing, they don't want socially maladjusted dorks. It's got nothing to do with feminism and is not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:05 PM
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That chart is bogus. Girls are now 5'11" to 6' tall? I wish. TFW when no death by snu-snu.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:01 PM
2

He also lowkey thinks immigrants are taking over the country and a woman's place is in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:59 AM
2

This just reminded me of a sitcom character going "so mean!" in a hurt tone, which I thought was funny, but I can't for the life of me remember who it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:05 AM
1

Q4W: Would you date a guy who's relatively fit, works in finance and makes a good living, but only talks about money, investing, and "leveling up" or whatever he heard on the alpha male guru podcasts he follows?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:01 AM
1

This, I've said before that present day dating issues are largely due to male thirst and over-availability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:20 AM
2

There was a funny quote I read once, something like women want a smart guy who can have a conversation, not some autistic nerd who can recite WW2 tank stats for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:14 AM
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That seems to be consensus for Balkan women in general, but I think it's just a certain type. It's true however that most of them will expect a guy who makes decent money and has his life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:23 AM
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I've known men who did ballet, dancing, arts etc., and everyone assumed they were gay (to be fair, some of them were)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:26 AM
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Dude kinda seems like an immature asshole / hard to live with but I guess the money makes it worthwhile? I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:14 AM
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I've been thinking of going back to the gym, but I've got a bad knee that I'm not supposed to put weight on, so nothing like squats or leg exercises. Might do upper body only or something, better than nothing I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:08 AM
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What he means is "Women better shut up and learn their place if they know what's good for them" even if he won't come out and say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:07 AM
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https://64.media.tumblr.com/cfb4cbdf3fd5332b05afcfead765adce/tumblr_n04ntpy6Eu1qb5wbbo1_1280.jpg Of course, this was drawn by a leftie, so YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:02 AM
1

Anyone else feel like Western society has become infantilized to the point that we celebrate talking and behaving like nerdy 20-somethings trying to be funny and quirky? Or just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:53 PM
4

Ever write an answer to a post that you think is reasonable, and it gets downvoted, then like an hour later someone else writes basically the same thing in slightly different words and it gets 50 upvotes? Reddit is weird sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:54 PM
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Yeah, but that goes for everyone in porn, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:30 PM
1

I actually agree, especially if they cater to the gay market as well. With that said, it's not as easy for men. A woman just has to be reasonably pretty, in good shape and not fat (although there are niches for that too.) Male performers on the other hand are generally expected to be physically fit in order to be considered, on top of which they need to be well-endowed (above average), be able to get hard and stay hard when required, and will generally get less respect (and less money) than thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:28 PM
1

What do you find unattractive about your current self that couldn't be fixed with going to the gym and getting some nice clothes, haircut etc? imo plastic surgery should be reserved for fixing actual flaws, you don't wanna go overboard with it and end up looking like the Bogdanoff brothers or something. But I also don't know you or your situation, so whatever you think is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:55 AM
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Just be physically fit, dress well, have a steady job, a couple of hobbies that you're passionate and can talk about, and put yourself in social situations where you meet women and you'll be fine. No need for all that other crazy stuff. You can do it man, I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:43 AM
1

Geez. Does he need to be reminded to blink and swallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:39 AM
1

And the other half won't be enough if he doesn't have an attractive personality / is not proactive in meeting and interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:36 AM
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I think it's a phase guys go through. I used to like the goth aesthetic in my early 20s, it was dark and mysterious and the girls were hot. Now I see it as sorta childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:32 AM
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There is a much greater demand for women in porn (which is primarily produced and consumed by men). Was this really ever in doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:15 AM
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I've heard of two scenarios concerning singles events: No men showed up, or men did show up, but the women ignored all but the top 1 or 2 guys. Doesn't really seem like a good deal for the average man, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:43 PM
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It's more complicated than that. Outside of looks, women are attracted to power and confidence, even if the guy is otherwise an asshole. They are repelled by weakness even if he's otherwise a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:54 PM
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On a similar note, when pushed on the whole “women want bad boys” topic, guys just admit they want the quantity of women that bad boys have. So how are you gonna complain about women not wanting actual nice guys when all you want to do is be the bad boy? I disagree with this last part. We don't want to be bad boys, we're just annoyed/bitter that it works so well. It's like it's possible to feel bitter/envious of someone who got rich by stealing and scamming people while you are working at a regu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:52 PM
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My favorite part is when the main character climbs a hill and doesn't hear anything, so he says "This is truly... a silent hill." (idk i haven't played the game)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:13 AM
1

Redpillers posting here be like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:31 AM
1

Is that Eliott Rodger's manifesto?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:23 PM
4

Meanwhile on TwoX: "My boyfriend plays videogames all day while I work and pay the bills, then he gets drunk and shits on the floor. I love him, but how can I communicate that I'm not comfortable with this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:18 PM
2

Nah, there used to be a lot of Musk dickriders a few years ago, not so much anymore. Same as Trump. If he actually wins, we're truly entering the realm of Idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:17 PM
1

Wait till you hear about female idols getting death threats and losing fans because they revealed they had a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:15 PM
1

That place is silly though, they give women who look like actual models a 6/10 because their nose to forehead ratio is off or some bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:22 AM
2

Chad or simp? The useless dawn finds me in a deserted street- corner; I have outlived the night. Nights are proud waves; darkblue topheavy waves laden with all the hues of deep spoil, laden with things unlikely and desirable. Nights have a habit of mysterious gifts and refusals, of things half given away, half withheld, of joys with a dark hemisphere. Nights act that way, I tell you. The surge, that night, left me the customary shreds and odd ends: some hated friends to chat with, music for drea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:51 PM
2

/r/dogfree one of us! one of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:39 AM
1

Around here many of them are alcoholics/drug addicts, or part of organized groups. Even the police says not to give them money because it'll just encourage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:08 AM
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I live near a park that's supposed to have a designated dog area, and dogs should be leashed in the rest of the park. Of course there are off-leash dogs and crap everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:06 AM
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I don't particularly like dogs and it's actually gotten legitimately hard to find single women who aren't dog owners. Cats are alright for the most part, they're just doing their own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:04 AM
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You know, any and all the men who bark warnings about all men at the girls and women in their life, greet dates at the door with shotguns, make “all men are scum” statements, claim that boys and men can’t control themselves, etc since forever. Or men who are jealous and controlling of their SOs, checking up on them and not letting them be alone, or getting angry if another man so much as talks to them. Always wondered if it's projection on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:08 AM
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Can't think of any jailed ones, but wasn't there one guy who pretty much got cancelled and ostracized because he wore a racy anime shirt? And another two programmers who got in trouble because they were laughing about "dongles" where a woman overheard them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:54 AM
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The shattering dawn finds me in a deserted street of my city. Your profile turned away, the sounds that go to make your name, the lilt of your laughter: these are the illustrious toys you have left me. I turn them over in the dawn, I lose them, I find them; I tell them to the few stray dogs and to the few stray stars of the dawn. Your dark rich life ... I must get at you, somehow; I put away those illustrious toys you have left me, I want your hidden look, your real smile -- that lonely, mocking…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:49 AM
1

Says the unhinged dude who posts manosphere crap like it's his full-time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:40 AM
1

They really have no self-awareness. My father now acts like we're good friends and doesn't understand why I don't like to spend time with him, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:20 PM
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Same, except it was my father. I hated hearing the sound of him coming home, because he was an overbearing arrogant bully who treated us like servants. Never felt happy or comfortable around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:04 PM
2

Remember all those old movies where a woman slaps a man and he barely reacts, or at most grabs her hand? I guess he should've punched the woman full-force instead, so all the little incels could jerk themselves into a frenzy over "equal rights, equal lefts" and "bitch got what she deserved!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:00 PM
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Gotta pump out more kids, those cell phones and Adidas sneakers aren't gonna make themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:50 PM
1

Casual conversation only leads to more casual conversation unless the guy escalates at some point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:31 AM
1

I also like taking pictures of memorable meals I've had, landscapes, days I enjoyed, etc., that don't have people in them. I don't even post them anywhere, just keep them for myself. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:11 PM
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I mean you can do whatever you want. But if your natural personality is "I love all animals and want to cuddle them" you can't expect to be a good hunter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:57 PM
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IMO the core of it wasn't so bad, it was basically just be confident, stand your ground, be proactive, and don't fear rejection. The canned lines and routines were cheesy, but they were meant for guys who had no idea how to talk to women. The biggest sin of those PUA guys was that in their quest to sell books/guides/lessons/whatever, they ommitted a very important factor, which is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:34 PM
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You just gotta be careful how wide of a net you cast, because you don't want to be known as "that guy who hits on everyone". It obviously works much better in larger cities where you can belong to different circles that don't intersect each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:32 PM
1

That's a good one, just gotta stay away from windows, or not ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:33 PM
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Sometimes it feels like guys can't win. If we ignore women, we're ill-mannered boors. If we try to talk and socialize with them, unless we're attractive, it's "eww, why is this creep talking to me?"; plus in this case, they probably didn't want to disrespect the guy by getting overly chatty with his woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:22 PM
1

For a bit of positivity, what are some things you enjoy about being single? For me it's: Knowing I've got the whole apartment to myself, and it's as clean or dirty as I want it to be; Being able to eat whatever I want, whenever I want, without someone else commenting on it; Can decorate the place however I like; Go out on a whim, or stay in, get drunk and play videogames, I don't have to worry about someone else's schedule and wants; Sleeping and waking up when I feel like it Farting to my heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:18 PM
1

It's clearly photoshopped or AI, look at his shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:05 PM
1

Next: Obligatory burqas, and adultery punished by stoning, just as God willed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:03 PM
1

This feels like one of those pedantic "technically, a tomato is a fruit" arguments that nobody cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:01 PM
1

I've honestly got a kink for women cosplaying with masks and stuff. Sadly it's very rare, seems to be much more prevalent among guys and especially the gay community, so you might be in luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:01 PM
0

Mensrights is still around isn't it? AFAIK they only shut down some incel/redpill subs because they were advocating violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:57 AM
1

Mensrights is still around isn't it? AFAIK they only shut down some incel/redpill subs because they were advocating violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:57 AM
1

Mensrights is still around isn't it? AFAIK they only shut down some incel/redpill subs because they were advocating violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:57 AM
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Agreed, singleplayer story games are where it's at. I just wanna relax and play a fun game for a couple of hours, not get abused by some 14 year old sweatlord at some online game that's his whole identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:54 AM
2

Having money / being financially stable is important, not having a job per se. Your job doesn't care about you as a person. If you died, they would find someone to replace you in a week. The same cannot be said for a loving partner. It's about fulfilling different needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:51 AM
1

Those are funny tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:48 AM
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I think the main problem of those subs, aside from the negative atmosphere of bitching and man-hating, is that they tend to enforce the view of women as victims with no agency. They're echo chambers doing women a disservice, and pretty similar to incel/manosphere subs in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:43 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/1fys6n1/how_do_you_deal_with_feeling_ignored_in_social/ I gotta laugh at posts like this because I probably would've done the same thing. One, if she's married it would feel weird/disrespectful to chat her up excessively, and 2) I honestly don't wanna be the subject of an "eww, some creep kept trying to hit on me" post later. I'll answer questions and be polite, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:35 AM
2

What, that's a nice picture of a girl and her grandpa... oh wait Anna Nicole Smith has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:27 AM
2

What that girl experienced is what non-Chad men go through on a regular basis, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:57 PM
2

That is pretty weird, imagine the outrage (and rightly so) if the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:54 PM
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Yeah, a lot of them are probably chronically online as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:07 PM
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It's pretty simple, women are no longer forced to depend on men for a living so the men now have to bring a plus of value into her life - whether it be looks, companionship, support etc. Many men are just considered undesirable for this or "not worth the bother". Blame social media and dating apps / hookup culture for much of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:58 PM
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This, plus even if they frequent social circles, they are likely to be specific to their community and not intersect with outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:55 PM
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It happens with many minority groups online, imo. They congregate together and give the impression of numbers, while in reality they could be 1 out of a thousand in many places.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:54 PM
1

I imagine PPD men more as the type who write those dating profiles like "I won't pay for anything, don't message me if you're a WHORE" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:35 PM
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Could be a mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:33 PM
1

Sociopaths can often appear charming at first glance, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:33 PM
1

I think people who call themselves non-binary and insist on they/them pronouns are to a large degree narcissists wanting to be special. It's not that different from saying they have a dragon soul or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:48 AM
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Had to break things off with a lady who was educated, funny and into me because I didn't find her physically attractive. Not proud of it, but it would've been unfair to both me and her to keep the pretense going. Now I think I have a better understanding of how women feel. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:46 AM
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And some women want to run away and join ISIS/Hamas. What can you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:44 AM
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I have no problem with people who feel like they were born the wrong gender and want to transition so they can live their life. Only the ones who make being trans their whole identity and are in your face about it, then it just feels like narcissism. Same with non-binary and they/them pronouns, can't wrap my head around that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:34 AM
1

Wait till you hear about serial killers getting love letters and marriage proposals from women while in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:32 AM
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The comments roasting him are pretty hilarious though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:24 AM
2

Probably not very PC to say, but I always find it hilarious when trans women take over women's spaces and become the loudest voices there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:21 AM
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Bro gotta pay women to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:13 AM
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The concept of negging when it started was to playfully tease a woman who was too full of herself / used to receiving only compliments, as a way to stand out from the crowd and appear confident / not a simp. But there were too many dumbasses who didn't understand it and ruined it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:46 AM
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Something tells me the guys shouting the loudest about this don't have any kids and are in no danger of having them anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:34 AM
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Shit, I didn't even realize that was Myron. Isn't he the guy who famously advertised himself on sugar daddy sites? The one who runs a podcast where they invite insta thots and club girls to spew rehearsed manosphere talking points at them and act like they owned them, while their audience of incels and bitter divorced 40-something dudes eats it up? The one who tries to act "alpha" but can't stand someone actually arguing back / calling him out on his bullshit and throws a tantrum or kicks them o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:31 AM
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You can just live alone. It's a peaceful life. Better than a bad relationship imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:21 AM
1

Sounds pretty good to me. My dream is to have a job where I work as little as possible and make enough money to support myself. Screw high-profile careers, I don't need that kind of stress and responsibility, and for what? To impress my neighbors with a fancier car and bigger house? Nah fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:17 AM
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It's probably because he posted it in /clevercomebacks, appears to be male, and it sounds very much like what a chronically online manosphere dude would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:15 AM
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"But why won't women date me? Muh male loneliness epidemic..." :P
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:13 AM
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Attractive people have an easier time in life overall. It's only when they get older and their looks begin to fade that they start being treated like everyone else. By then they'd better have developed a personality and other skills, or they're in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:11 AM
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Eh, do what you want. What am I, the subreddit police?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:42 PM
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Might be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:37 PM
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As with many topics here, it's an excuse for a certain segment of the sub's population to shit on women. They're not interested in solutions or real discussion, just getting their daily hate-boner on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:01 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:56 PM
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Nah don't worry about it, I prefer lurking :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:48 PM
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Haven't seen you that much, mostly talking about the people who are treating it like a chat room with their own inside jokes and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:38 PM
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Just saying, some of y'all are on here way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:23 PM
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I guess, if they ignore the part about him being a literal pimp currently investigated for fraud and human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:15 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:39 PM
1

Looks like the Bogdanoff twins had a sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:32 PM
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Not a big fan of horror here, I like the occasional one with supernatural fantasy elements. Never been interested in straight-up slashers or gore. Yeah, I know some people are horror fanatics, I don't get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:30 PM
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Wtf, everyone in that story sounds like a child who never learned to communicate or govern their emotions. And they're supposed to be in their 30s? Feels made-up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:27 PM
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Ursula Le Guin is as much fantasy as sci-fi, and I wouldn't consider her writing particularly "nerdy", as it's not heavy on science or anything. It really leans more towards the young adult genre, but y'know, actually good. The Earthsea trilogy is solid fantasy fare, and short stories like Semley's Necklace or Those who Walk Away from Omelas are thought-provoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:18 PM
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Do you have a point to make that isn't inane trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:16 PM
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I believe that unlike animals, humans have the capacity for self-reflection, thought and discipline. At least some of them, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:40 PM
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I think that's overblown, imo. Somehow I can't imagine a woman who loves rawdogging so much that she's willing to go to the trouble of having multiple abortions, but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:31 PM
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Went a few times while I was a student, mostly because of friends. I was never a big fan either. Loud music, crowded, overpriced drinks, etc. I think to enjoy them you have to really be a party animal who loves dancing, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:25 PM
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They exist, but are not that common in my experience. Most couples around where I'm from are looks-matched. Personally, I wouldn't want to be either half of a couple with a big looks disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:23 PM
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Throughout history in many parts of the world, the narrative of women as evil temptresses who lead men astray has been used to justify all manner of oppression, injustice and atrocities committed by patriarchal societies against women. This speaks directly to OP's point. Meanwhile your response was basically "stop making men feel bad about it!" Maybe you should reconsider what you view as "male heterosexuality" and whether it's really the side you want to defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:20 PM
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Oare cati romani or fi pe aici? Pana acum am vazut cel putin 2 sau 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:05 PM
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It's simple, they don't care about women as people. To them women's suffering isn't real because women are alien creatures who "live life on easy mode" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:35 PM
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Your manosphere agenda is so obvious it's laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:34 PM
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You're right, I'm sure some of them had good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:33 PM
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I gotta say that's a pretty dim view of men. I would like to think most of us are more than mere animals subject to their primal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:28 PM
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Throughout the world, men rape and kill women because they were tempted and "Couldn't help themselves" You: "Stop shaming male heterosexuality! :("
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:24 PM
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Can't I say that women's tingles clouds their judgement when they go after some known to be abusive Chad who is 6ft 4, roided and tatted and makes her puss throb? Yes, absolutely. But historically women have not been in positions of power and have not forced men to cover up under threat of punishment, nor demonized their sexuality, nor had them killed for having sex outside of marriage or even sometimes after being raped, for "staining the family honor".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:22 PM
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I heard that modern women won't date a guy who doesn't have an Instagram or at least another social media account, do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:03 PM
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It's funny because weren't dudes always ranting around here about how "females" will be useless once sexbots take off?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:02 PM
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This is a good and comprehensive answer, but I don't think OP will be interested in it given his post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:59 PM
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A 0.3-0.4 point difference is not that great, but if true it's indeed a problem. It could be that the environment of schools and what is required of students (sitting still, being quiet, having discipline) is easier for girls than boys, that's been known for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:57 PM
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Where are those studies? The last study I read was about Japanese medical schools purposely giving worse grades to female students because they didn't want women doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:44 PM
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OP is just another dude in his "look for reasons to shit on women" phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:00 PM
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How many men are regular gym goers versus women? How much effort do women put into clothes, makeup, and various cosmetic procedures like hair and nails, versus men? Didn't see those statistics, probably because they would've hurt your biased opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:58 PM
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Gotta love these guys who all claim they're handsome 6'4" millionaires, who just happen to spend their time on Reddit, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:24 PM
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I don't know or care how you voted, I'm going by your presence here on this sub. You've always sounded like an arrogant ass who thinks he's better than everyone and believes women's place is barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:16 PM
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Haven't seen it yet, but from what I heard the creator(s) got pissed off that too many people empathized with the protagonist in the first one, so they made this one crap and gave it bad ending, which is quite a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:11 PM
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Not my opinion, the fact that people keep engaging with it, including your fine self :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:07 PM
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That would be discrimination, yeah. It would've been misandry if they outright said or implied men are worse at the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:41 PM
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You just said it was weak, but the facts belie that statement sir
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:40 PM
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If it were bait, it seems to be working pretty well so far :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:25 PM
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If I remember correctly, you're the guy who always brags about being rich because he made some lucky investments, in other words basically a lottery winner. You've also shown yourself as a conservative, alt-right, and rather arrogant individual. Personally I doubt you are helping anyone at all. If you are, then good for you, but I see no point to this post of yours other than to try putting others down to feel good about yourself - which, honestly, sounds more in-character for you than actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:24 PM
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I'm not saying it should be done, I'm saying if people wanted to find justifications, they could. But it doesn't exist, so complaints about "misandry" are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:18 PM
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Are you saying men are the same as groups which have been systemically marginalized and oppressed in the past, because I'm not sure of your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:04 PM
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Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:02 PM
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Why do you keep saying "male man" and "female women"? Do you think it's cute/funny or is it some sort of PPD inside joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:52 PM
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Incels and manosphere types who bitch about "misandry" are hilarious to me. Like what rights are you being denied, dudes? Is the government legislating what you can do with your body/denying you treatment? No, but you love to have strong opinions on it when it affects women. You know what real misandry would be? Forbidding men to congregate in groups greater than 3. Keeping young and/or single men under close surveillance. And given the state of the world, the gang rapes, the assaults, the schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:50 PM
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This has Andrew Tate "what color is your Bugatti" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:45 PM
1

A thought exercise: If a restaurant notices someone is stealing food, would they be in the right leaving some poisoned sandwiches in an exposed location?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:41 PM
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People who truly help others out of selflessness don't feel the need to brag or lord it over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:38 PM
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True, but that's not what I was talking about. I never claimed all average/ugly guys are good partners, or that all good-looking high-status men are not. You're just doing the "not all men/women" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:36 PM
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Women go for guys with looks and status hoping they'll be good partners, then find out they're not. Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:23 PM
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Women go for guys with looks and status hoping they'll be good partners, then find out they're not. Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:22 PM
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I'm not one of those nerds with an Asian fetish but yeah, she's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:13 PM
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It's not, but many men who think this way will treat their wife like a servant/prostitute. Not talking about you specifically, but it was a common relationship dynamic throughout history, one that women who can now support themselves are no longer attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:07 PM
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You're posting this on a site full of autistic STEM nerds, I think we can all anticipate the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:03 PM
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Whores who commit adultery shall be stoned, praise Allah brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:00 PM
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It depends, sometimes it helps to have a coach who will monitor you, evaluate your progress, and identify issues specific to your case. Not in this case, that dude is a grifter and those guys are idiots, but generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:58 AM
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People with more money than sense have been the main food source of grifters and scammers since the dawn of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:57 AM
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What does it mean though? Because I've also heard that men who write too much and/or use emojis give the "ick" as they appear unmasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:42 AM
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The style and how well it fits her is more important than length, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:43 AM
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Some admit it, or it's fairly obvious from the way they talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:49 AM
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Sure, some women might be turned off by men with high bodycounts, but it's much less common. They usually don't care, unless the guy has a reputation as a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:42 AM
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Miscellaneous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:40 AM
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Of course all that happened. Sure they were opening their doors, not securing them and turning on the alarm? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:40 AM
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It's a belief very much rooted in patriarchal societies throughout history. Women were often expected to be virgins before marriage, sometimes even checked, and a woman who had sex was considered "unclean". There are also other reasons, like men feeling insecure about measuring up to past partners, or wanting someone who's inexperienced and easier to manipulate. You can see this with the passport bros and dudes advocating for age-gap relationships. Finally, some men believe in purity and saving …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:29 AM
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I've had people try to take advantage of me, but only rarely and not to a great extent. What happened more often was me wishing I'd been more forceful and assertive in saying no or standing up for myself. Unfortunately I grew up with a narcissistic bullying father, and it took me a long time to overcome my people-pleasing and conflict-avoidant tendencies. Still working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:23 AM
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Half of this sub is 18-25 year old male virgins and manosphere incels, afaik.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:17 AM
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Of course, a Veyron would require a driver who can afford it and has the skill to drive it, not some sad middle-aged dude who can't put it in second gear. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:14 AM
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Yes they do, and the reason they want virgin or low n-count women is because they don't like the idea of their property having been used by other men before them. Always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:10 AM
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Nah, it'd be easier to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:07 PM
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Sir, this is a Wendy's
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:40 PM
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I'd rather tell family and friends I subscribe to hardcore porn sites than admit I'm a Redditor, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:39 PM
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Wait until they find out that many Asian women are even more concerned with money/status than Americans. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:57 PM
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I make no claims that she be a Gold-digger, yet she dallieth not with penniless Moors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:49 PM
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I grew up with an emotionally immature mother and an overbearing narcissistic father who treated me like a servant. Messed me up enough that I never want kids of my own. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:12 AM
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one of the things that made me want my boyfriend is is he had money and was successful So you're a golddigger? :P But I agree, the pillars are usually looks, money, status and personality/game. None can be neglected if one wishes to be successful in dating. And the thing about looks is that while they can't be changed (short of surgery) you can improve your "look". Better haircut, clothes, overall hygiene, fitness level, etc, can go a long way. Only doomer blackpillers go on about canthal tilt o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:08 AM
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Maybe it depends somewhat on which part of the world you're in, but at least around here (central/eastern Europe) money and status definitely matter. For some women, I daresay more than personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:59 AM
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Giving a new meaning to choosing the bear, eh ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:38 PM
1

Like Groucho Marx said, "I wouldn't belong to any club that would have me as a member"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:07 AM
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Clubs have been doing that forever. I've said this before, but I once went to pick up my sister from a club and they wouldn't even let me in, I had to wait outside for her. They don't care. It's good that some people are aware and talking about it at least.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 09:05 AM
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Not sure that still happens, given how many guys I've seen brag online that they would never help a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:58 AM
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Self-defense is well and good, until you take it too far and/or get unlucky, and then you're either dead or in prison for manslaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:57 AM
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Or the commercials that portrayed men as bumbling fools who needed to be rescued by women. Although I can understand the reasoning, I'm glad we're moving beyond those.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:52 AM
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In most conservative patriarchal cultures, it's both. I.e., women are seductive temptresses by nature, so they must cover up lest they give the men impure thoughts, and the men can't help themselves. It's not so much men being sexist pigs as men being controlled by their impulses. Otherwise you wouldn't have sexually active men being admired and celebrated, and the most rich/powerful men having multiple wives throughout history. It was always about men hoarding power and possessions, which inclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:47 AM
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My retort to all the Redpillers and the rest who talk about natural selection and only the worthy men getting to reproduce is, if that were true, we'd have nothing but natural born Chads by now. Since that's clearly not the case, something about the hypothesis must be wrong. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:52 PM
0

I knew a couple of guys in their 20s who acted like Nazis, doing the salute, making anti-Jewish jokes and everything, in a "haha we're kidding, or are we?" sort of way. Same energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:50 PM
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Pretty sure I'm not even on their radar, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:12 PM
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Not true. It's about men bitching that all women are stupid unfaithful whores who live life on easy mode, and also that they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:10 PM
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If that were true you should've been banned long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:06 PM
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And some apparently come here to brag, which I find in bad taste. It's like hanging on a forum for people with eating disorders to talk about the amazing lunch you just had.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:03 PM
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Peacocking was a thing with the early 2000s seduction gurus. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:03 PM
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They sound like a nature documentary. "The female will grant the male sexual access if he has displayed enough value. But the lucky male must still be wary, as competitors lurk nearby!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:46 PM
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I didn't mean to imply that the second was not a hookup. They could start the exact same way, she just goes further with the second guy because they're more compatible. The "countless men are able to have long term relationships but are completely shut off in the hookup world" is a redpill incel fantasy, unless we're talking about fringe cases like she's a gold digger or settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:43 PM
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I see nothing too outlandish, good for you if you found your type. Curly hair and big nose huh? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:07 PM
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Yep, or try central/eastern Europe, where if you don't have money and a nice car, you're not even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:46 AM
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Yeah, same. I thought childhood friends, dude's family is rich, or he has massive game and she has insecurity issues. Oh well, good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:16 PM
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