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That's what guys in the comments are saying but they fail to realize women don't care about what average men struggle with. The majority of them are oblivious to it. The only people who care are those willing to grift off of them. Onlyfans chicks and puesdo guru men. Normal women wouldn't even show up to these things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:31 AM
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I'm watching the whatever podcast and these guys are spending over 100 dollars just to let women hear their complaints about women it's even worse than simping, it's pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:15 AM
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Did he state any intention of making this long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:05 AM
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Men were always the romantics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:04 AM
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Perhaps they value something that being strong and not having periods doesn't cover
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:03 AM
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From what I understand, addiction is any level in which it negatively impacts your wellbeing and ability to function. So people differ in what is considered their moderate level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:01 AM
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Is this a typo? I'm the same height I've always been. Did you mean how much taller was I over them? Maybe half a foot average in all the scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:57 AM
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Not what I meant at all but I understand how you might interpret that as an incel dogwhistle. In full patriarchy mode, assuming men understand women fully, they wouldn't even trust them in the kitchen funny enough. Many societies have shown this is a bad idea because women have poisoned many men in the past. Sometimes for good reason. In history it actually took alot of balancing out of marriage laws across societies because if you incentivize certain behaviors for women like discreetly killing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:52 PM
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There are inherently negative aspects that can manifest from masculinity. The reason why it seems one sided is because it's a proactive force of nature. As a man, it's up to you to control yourself. Being good isn't being weak, it's being capable of bad and doing the right thing anyway. I appreciate the paragraphs but a TLDR would help lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:47 AM
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No, because it's very easy for me to ascertain what experience individual women are looking for and provide that. The only time I get argumentative is when women here gaslight men, although over time I figured that it's a necessary feminine component because if men actually understood women they'd probably go into full patriarchy mode. The only true struggle I see are men who are seeking a type of woman who doesn't exist, and that refusal to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:26 AM
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The only true demographic I wish PPD can show is how many larpers are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:19 AM
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Girlfriend hooked up my enemy in elementary school. I'll never forget that devious smile on her face. I've seen that a few times throughout my years on both sides of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:50 AM
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I know what they mean in that if you're not securely attached relationships won't "feel" as good but what they don't understand is that RP behavior is the only way to maintain them. They are addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:48 AM
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Humans are only slightly sophisticated monkeys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:46 AM
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Women want to be wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:44 AM
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Is he a dick in person? He kind of gives off napoleon complex vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:43 AM
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This is too vague to know if it's wholesome or something that should put you on a FbI list
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:41 AM
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What are your hobbies, I bet I know at least one woman into that shit no matter how weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:40 AM
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I for one, am glad I'm single. I dunno if any other guys feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:39 AM
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Because a subset of men want to control women through laws around this. Part revenge fantasy, part thinking it will unconsciously make women go for beta bucks through fear of being left alone by alphas. Also, some people are religiously brainwashed by interpretations of the Bible. I say interpretations because God literally gives Moses a tutorial on how to perform an abortion and tells him to teach it to preists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:38 AM
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Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:34 AM
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They want something that doesn't exist, women are the feminine ones so they want to be the object of desire. Not to generalize but alot of people (including women) will write the men that think like this as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:23 AM
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Porn, video games, anime, hentai, and what I would call to be predatory streamers who take advantage of these kids low self-esteem, inferiority complex, and lack of social skills, giving in return a little superficial and fake social connection. Call me crazy but I think it's actually a good thing men have alternatives these days. It beats being forced to mingle with people you don't like or lead when on for a sexual release. I know what you mean by predatory streamers though, I dated two of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:14 AM
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When will you guys get it. Women dont love men, they love being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:04 PM
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Plenty of influencers use it as a grift, but women make a hell of a lot of more money and entertainment spinning naive blue pilled guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:58 AM
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r/marriedredpill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:32 AM
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For the most part, you're absolutely correct. Their desires, no matter how weird, gets fulfilled, but they didn't need deepfake technology to have that substitute. It happens anyway, and the tech highlights those situations on a larger scale. Women fear this and want to shame it like sluts, OF models, and instagram celebs but at the end of the day there will always be a guy willing to love them. If there were an equivalent for women like Alphamale clones or something, then it would be rally game…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:22 AM
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For sex maybe. But women value more than just sex. Despite the potential of 25 year old men most men won't reach their stride until they have their life together, which is later on around the 30 mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:25 PM
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Difference between can't and won't. Men have to actually put effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:21 PM
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It's not always that simple, but yeah, propinquity is a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:32 PM
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The elephant in the room is that women are afraid of it for the same reason they shame sluts, it takes away their sexual power. We'll beat around the bush on all kinds of "reasons" it terrifies them, but this is the root of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:20 PM
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Lmao don't forget "frame"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:17 PM
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I'm 6'2 and have been approached. Happens maybe 3 to 4 times a year but it happens. Random ones are rare but typically it's when a girl is warming up to you but you're not directly involved with her in the environment. So you generally have to be a "regular" somewhere for it to happen more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:15 PM
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Good thing a relationship is with one person and not an entire "market" of people. You only need to get lucky once to find what you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:52 PM
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Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:45 PM
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I see it all the time as well, but personally, I wouldn't sacrifice my morality at all for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:35 PM
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So sorry to hear this brother. Prayers for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:40 PM
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It goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:27 PM
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I read about this a couple years ago but I'll try to find it again. It also indicated higher rates of staying correlated to wealth the husband had to pass on to her if I remember correctly. When I originally read the studies it was in response to the narrative that women are somehow more righteous than men, but it was an entire expose against that claim.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 05:07 PM
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Because they are more realistic and settle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:48 AM
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It was shown that women are much more likely to stay when their husband's are sick when there is a life insurance policy. When there isn't the chances are about the same between genders.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 12:37 AM
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Think about it logically, Who are you more likely to sustain a ltr with, the woman who has been through many men, or the one who's been with none. People get attached, women who have been with many guys are a flight risk. Men have this preference for better chances at long term bonding.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 12:34 AM
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Join the PC masterrace and stop being a console cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:13 PM
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Well can you blame men if yall can't even run to a 7/11 without wearing something nice or shows off the goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:12 PM
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The grass s always greener on the other side in this case. But in terms of individuals, if they're secure attached then relationships, if they're insecure attached hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:08 PM
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I cant speak for women but I genuinely think their nature is meant for serial monogamy. As long as the village(state) aids in supporting children that seems to be optimal for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:04 PM
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3 Men /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:00 PM
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Absolutely, dudes usually never report when they are uncomfortable. Makes you look like a wuss and nothing typically happens to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:17 PM
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The revenge fantasy of the "Wall" is making alot of you guys look stupid. Women are laughing at you, they are still getting chased by men upwards to their 50s. They aren't bothered by the men who don't want them because they are too busy getting wined, dined, and fucked by the ones who do. Men aren't on your side. For every man that is inhibited about n-count, baggage, and age there are thirty men going for them. Get over this. Move on. Not just because I told you so but do it for yourself. Sham…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:27 AM
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If you don't like women, cool. But it's so stupid to project this revenge fantasy unto all of us because, A: These women still have men chasing after them so they don't care. And B: Most men actually like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:18 AM
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Women can afford to be entitled because men will love them regardless. Hence the fact I didn't judge you for wanting a guy who worships the ground you walk on, I know that regardless of what I think, some guy will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:23 PM
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If I have to tell you this I would wonder why you were even interested in men in the first place. Women love attention, excitement, resources (being spent on), and sex. The only difference between FWBs and marriage is that you can get this from multiple men instead of signing yourself to only getting it from one the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:04 AM
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No what I mean is, if you were a man and saw the type of things many women say about your gender, you probably wouldn't like it very much. The context in the post could serve as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:39 AM
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Yeah. I don't think you'd like women's equivalent version either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:29 AM
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There are lots of men here who go their own way because of what women don't recognize as misandry towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:26 AM
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Hey I'm not hating, do your thing! You're not getting any judgement from me. FWB is kind of subjective to the person but typically for me it was basically everything in a relationship without the label. Many women wanted this from me for the very reason that they wanted the experience without the accountability of being exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:03 AM
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You'd be guarded if everyone from the opposite sex is literally on a campaign to get the most out of you every other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:37 AM
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This doesn't matter, women think through their emotions. I will translate this as best as I can logically. "I need X guy because I know that anything less will lead me to eventually be unsatisfied, I will not be able to maintain my attraction to him and break up, thus rendering all my (and his) time wasted. I would rather be single than with a guy that doesnt satisfy me." If a woman says exactly what she wants you should thank her, you don't have to waste your time and effort on her if her deman…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:32 AM
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Goes both ways sister
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:27 AM
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This is why I love hearing women talk, they tell on themselves everytime haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:26 AM
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I think you seem to forget one important traditional component of "Sticking by your man" traditionalism worked well before no fault divorce came up, and suddenly the woman in the majority of cases left their husband's. If everyone just left relationships based on "suspecting of deceptions" then the entire point of marriage is absolved because men know women have the upper hand always. There is inherent suspecting of women deceiving us too. Totally cool with women being independent and autonomous…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:18 AM
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It's easy to grow boobs and a butt. Even men can do that. Building muscle is harder. The only reason why "women mature faster" is because the expectation is lower than men's. Anyone can be a woman, but it takes real perseverance to become a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:07 PM
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Fake it till you make it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:01 PM
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Just date women shorter than you are geez guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:57 PM
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Not even a boomer and I can tell you that if this guy adjusted expectations and leveled up his life he would increase his chances.
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 01:42 AM
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It's almost as if guys expect the women they marry to stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:53 PM
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Yes, I know I want the complete opposite of my mother but she's right in that most women are like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:14 AM
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Women date average men until they have the opportunity to trade up. It's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:09 AM
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The dynamics never changed. We simply live in a age where we can see complaints in real-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:07 AM
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Not really because women are so sensitive and men can be so stupid that one wrong move can shut down sexual tension in a moments notice. I think men need to relax but have their wits about them to maintain a frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:04 AM
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Do you think most women would be cool with their guy using a fleshlight/dildo? People are insecure because they generally want sexual security over their partner. I think it's just a natural thing for people to feel. For the more sexually liberated ones that can deal with that and maintain a good sex life, I wish them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:01 AM
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If you look at the world through the lens of the internet/masses opinion, nothing is universally right. Live your own damn life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:54 AM
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You seem jaded by blackpillers here because r/TheRedPill is filled with men like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:45 AM
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I don't believe any man is an incel because there is always a choice to get sex no matter who they are. Every man pays for it one way or another, they just have to find their way.
/r/AllPillDebate18/01/23 04:30 AM
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do you even like women as people? I don't necessarily like the majority of people regardless of gender Do you deep down see women as equals? I see/promote equal opportunity but they aren't the same Do you think women and men can connect intellectually and that such a connection is the basis for a relationship? Connect intellectually, sure. It being the basis for a relationship no. Do you expect to do half of the work at home? why/why not? I would expect to do all the work if I actually want to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:25 PM
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Not for me. My mom was unapologetically honest about her nature as well as women so despite fucking around she doesn't expect me to have that delusional trust and love for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:18 PM
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As someone who did have adolescent relationships, it redpilled me early and absolutely destroyed the feminine mystique. At the very least incels have something they are still chasing towards, this creates late bloomers. On the other hand, I know guys that have been completely devastated and can no longer securely attach to women and check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:19 AM
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Men love women, women love being loved. This is the masculine/feminine matrix regardless of how good you look or cool you are as a guy. You are not the object of desire, as feminine beings, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:13 AM
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Your post was removed but I'll respond anyway. Because the more sophisticated women demand more in expectations, to the point where it crosses the threshold of effort worth it for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:23 PM
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Shame goes both ways. Uncontrollable whether someone judges you for being a whore or a prude. In my opinion, the smartest women acknowledge this and accept themselves and the fact that not everyone will respect your values regardless of what they do. It's best to be a unapologetic person because following your internal locus is the only way to satisfy yourself in your life. If you're religious, you're supposed to follow your doctrine, the troubling part about it is your own internal conflict bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:28 AM
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I wrote a longer paragraph about this but I opted not to digress because I didn't think you'd be interested. Let me know if you want me to be more detailed but sexuality eclipses many varieties of disgust and insecurity for men. Meaning despite not respecting you or not looking at them as a long term partner, they can still sexualize that person. Sexuality enforces much of these intersexual relationships, without it, our romantic paradigm likely wouldn't exist. It's a balance between complexes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:50 AM
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Which part do you not think is a hardwired instinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:41 AM
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Sounds like a pleasant platitude. Ultimately, human judgement isn't based on your subjective reasoning, it's both cerebral and instinctual. I think the world would be a better place if humans did alot of things differently, doesn't mean they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:33 AM
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I think it's dumb to identify as a pill entirely, you either understand the forbidden knowledge, or you don't. But "hybrids" are particularly annoying because they strawman RP into a dogmatic box, but also chooses to acknowledge information that they like.
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 01:13 AM
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RP improved my inner peace knowing that I wasn't the only one who had these observations. It doesn't make me happy, just more content. Life red pilled me, RP just validated it. I don't ascribe to blackpill much because this "Gene game" thing seems like self imposed victimization. But I totally can understand it not being worth the effort because the odds are against you, and the "reward" isn't of enough value to justify it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 01:05 AM
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RP acknowledges that many, if not most, women have casual sex and aren't these pure angels men romanticize them to be. It's not based in some ideology of what women should or shouldn't do, it's just the truth beyond the illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:56 AM
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Women are feminine, their entire modus operandi is to attract and invoke love unto themselves. It's such a fundamental thing to our nature I don't know what is up with guys expecting women to be like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:43 AM
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The problem with this narrative is that simply being nice doesn't mean they would fuck you. They seek the validation of men they like but it's not like you insert nice tokens and sex pops out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:54 PM
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Have you really never had a platonic woman friend before? They are people...you know? Exactly. Friendship is built slowly. An accident is sudden. Big difference. Friendship is never an accident. The point wasn't the timeline, but an unintentional outcome from unrelated intentions. Read this again. "The man wants sex". You did the same thing OP did. The intention is sex, the rest of the friendship you weave is around this intention. Conditional intentions arent fixed, the intention could change. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:27 PM
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How many times have you made friends by accident ? Most of the time, I never went out and intentionally made friends with a person. We were in the right place at the right time and slowly got closer. I agree. Hence the reason why I wrote in the brackets "unless the friendship is conditional" Both my examples and the condition that the man wants sex are conditional situations. But anyone (regardless of gender) who goes out of the way to become friends with the opposite gender has some interest in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:56 PM
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Men's love is typically so strong that they put the woman before themselves because their wellbeing is the most important thing. That feeling simply isn't implicitly on value. That's why we are different. We love them for who they are. Now, what is to be said is that we mostly find security in relationships in which we have more superiority, only because women tend not to love men that are lesser. Their love isn't fixed in that same way. Because of these tendencies we have, relationships skew to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:37 PM
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Surely you have had intentions for which unforseen outcomes have happened, right? I could pull a turn and kill someone on accident, but it doesn't mean I intended to kill them. You can absolutely make an informed guess, but for something like relationships this can get complex. You can never be absolutely sure even if the individual tells you what their intentions are, because the actions you take could either involve deception or unforseen circumstances. You can never 100% be objectively sure. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:24 PM
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I have dated strong, meek, and somewhere in between. It doesn't matter much in terms of preference because you are still expected to be the more dominant one. At the end of the day, you're the man. Meek is easier on the dominance part, but strong ones are more independent so it's less of a load on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:36 PM
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Can you not fathom loving someone inferior to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:30 PM
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I know alot of vile people who don't deserve love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:16 PM
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You make the presupposition that it is hard and requires those things. But I guarantee you that it does not if you're willing to guage your expectations. Love isn't a fixed feeling regardless of how great you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:13 PM
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Hard disagree, your intentions are internal, the outcomes doesn't allow people to subjectively determine what your individual intentions are. Your analysis of his intentions clearly shows why bias makes this impossible. You assume all he wants is sex which isn't 100% determined even if he has sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:06 PM
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Women love being loved
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:43 AM
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No, people make mistakes. I haven't even completely cut off the women who cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:02 AM
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It's unnecessary stress to do that, if they want to leave you either love them enough to want them to be happy and go, or you don't care enough that they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:11 AM
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Disillusionment. In RP, we recognize that men go through different phases. Eventually they reach Acceptance to which the behavior doesn't bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:09 AM
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In reality women just want the guy to be taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:06 AM
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You seem to be missing the core part of femininity which is wanting to be wanted. Men love, women love to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:04 AM
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I think the vitriol is way more complex then that. The conflict between women choosing for so many facets like sexuality, maturity, resources, hypergamy, and blind spark is annoying when they don't recognize some if not all the standards that effect men. The anger comes from gaslighting men into thinking just being themselves will lead to happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:01 PM
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I keep telling them to just date shorter but they never listen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:55 PM
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As a guy, maybe I'm just numb to the feeling of being left for another guy. It's not invalid women to have that emotion, but it's not the end of the world for women because there is a guy out there who will love them regardless. Show me the woman, I'll show them a man that could love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:55 PM
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I find it silly when women are insecure about some aspect of themselves because the the majority of men are dumb horny romantics regardless. Even if one guy isn't into you, there are millions more that will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:24 AM
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I judge character, I don't believe a tongue piercing is much indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:19 AM
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Men literally do, it's called The Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:12 AM
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Tall girls typically have great proportions, that's why they make the perfect supermodels. You're still much shorter than me so your height doesn't matter but your focus on appearance rather than personality could lead me to dismiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:03 AM
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This is the absolute opposite of what I see in men from the moment they hit puberty. They get a crumb of pussy and are whipped to that woman like a dog, until she becomes so insufferable that it's no longer worth the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:22 PM
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People will do this for their own personal reasons, not as a societal response to less women around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:19 PM
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This goes both way especially with such a subjective topic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:09 PM
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Not all women can produce offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:08 PM
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Dating down is men's solution to hypergamy. There are no certainties to relationships regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:05 PM
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Bluetooth headphones and move your phone away from you. You'd still get spotify/apple music and it'll be way simpler
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:03 PM
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Love can be built on the underlying biological transaction. So while Briffualts law is true that no female will stay with a male in which she derives no benefit, it doesn't mean that men don't love their wives, or their wives don't love being loved. You're right in that it's just a social construct that derives from our monkey instincts of man trade resources for sex. But the construct is what makes it a special bond from our perspective. To conflate it with prostitution itself is reductionist t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:50 PM
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I am somewhat the same way in that I refused to have sex with some women because I knew I didn't want to be in a relationship with them. That said, I'd have to consider whether I'd want to be with her, and I probably wouldn't find a reason to exclusively commit to someone I'm not having sex with. It's a bit of a conundrum. What's stopping either of us from leaving after we have sex? It's really a false sense of security but I wouldn't judge her negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:56 PM
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If she's not hot and/or putting out, no woman is going to lock down "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:21 PM
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Luckily, men don't rely on attractiveness as a sole component to getting with women. There are many other ways men can compensate for what they lack in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:27 PM
1

Well yeah, one is the masculine way to overcome obstacles and the other is feminine ways to attract solutions. Men and women are fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:25 PM
1

I doubt it but there will be experimenting for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:09 PM
2

Good thing CMV exists here because if there weren't some people would be walking around with the worst takes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:28 AM
1

Nope, people are too hiveminded. Twitter has the important aspect of mindshare
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:26 AM
2

We love you too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:24 AM
0

Agreed 100% but I think it is a necessary limitation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:22 AM
4

I hate to tell you this but if you go to any Walmart you will see that even the shortest, ugliest, fattest, would be incels types still find a woman who will settle for them. The issue alot of guys here have is mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:11 PM
16

Women dont care about these things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:08 PM
2

Is it something to be fixed? If men don't want to do the work to be viable relationship material they don't have to. Otherwise we'd have to recreate a system to force women to love these men. Not only is it wrong but it doesn't help the men when they are inevitability divorce raped and their kids suffer from horrible households. Let guys find their own way to enjoy the decline. Less relationships is just a natural state with this new world, if men want it badly enough they figure it out. No reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:06 PM
2

I hear ya brother. It's way more complex than the incel circlejerking we see here. The sad thing to me is that they lament over not getting women, but they truly have no idea what they are asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:14 AM
1

They only value it when it works in their favor. This isn't always the case with men who are intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:03 AM
1

Your issue is that you're projecting your principles unto others. They don't care what you think they should or shouldn't value in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:00 AM
1

Never seen that before, must be nice haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:24 AM
3

My grandmother is a nurse and while it seems cushy I could never do it/recommend it. You have to put up with alot of shit (literally & figuratively) lol. IT is so great though but if you wanna take that leap I hope it goes well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:12 AM
3

Because it doesn't feel like a privilege if it's so hard to find a guy that genuinely satisfies them. Privilege is invisible to those that have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:33 AM
1

Social skills is much more complex but it's a indicator for sure. And yes, it is socializing since to do it successfully requires...socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:24 AM
1

For women yeah, but for guys not really. We are expected to kinda fend for ourselves but luckily we have the T levels to work hard for what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:21 AM
1

How can it spread if people aren't having sex as much and the ones that are wouldn't touch a person with visible pimples all over them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:17 AM
1

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:15 AM
1

It's only my interpretation, but TRP to me means the objective or hidden reality of things. PickUp is the subculture around using that to your advantage like game. Of course there is a major overlap but I think it's an important distinction and we ought not conflate the two. Alot of redpillers have the knowledge but there are varying adaptations like MGTOW or even for preserving marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:01 AM
3

No matter how great the chick is I can't date someone with the same name as my relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:56 PM
1

It's funny how quickly it goes from "You're a adult now, fend for yourself" to "Why don't my kids take care of me" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:53 PM
1

It's all in the proportions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:49 PM
1

I too chuckled mildly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:48 PM
2

Women have always been simple to me but I didn't have the privilege of developing a perfect mommy complex that set me up for disappointment. I think that's the difference between me and most disillusioned/confused guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:46 PM
2

Alot of women prefer a simple guy who likes them. They want the attention on them, not the complexities guys with depth bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:35 PM
2

It's the only place where men can be honest and whine for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:32 PM
2

You'll only hear contempt from the guys that don't. Plenty do but they are a silent majority, and it doesn't always look healthy or normal to even our modern conception of what a "Man" is. There's no cultural identity for the guys who go other routes than the traditional way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:30 PM
1

Fake: Anon is attractive and showers. Gay: instead of getting pussy, he seeks the validation of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:23 PM
2

Well how am I supposed to hide that I have no real personality if I don't get senselessly angry over politics?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:18 PM
4

Yes overt direct desire is attractive but only if it's not at the expense of mystery. Women like being sexually desired as long as it doesn't shift towards harassment. The tension needs to be built by slow sexual escalations. So it doesn't mean grabbing her ass when you first meet, but introducing levels of intimacy and flirtations that activates their sexuality as you progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:15 PM
1

Because they will be desired regardless. For every dude that doesn't like bigger women there are 5 who love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:03 PM
3

Its a valid feeling, but what does being bitter truly solve? The contempt is a very unconstructive way to process it. In reality, you only need to focus on your individual relationships. Thinking of the macro of anything can yield a negative perspective. However, if you zoom in on working out a game plan to getting with your girl next door, that simplifies things drastically and makes goals more attainable. Everyone has inadequacies, but you don't need things to be perfect to be happy. As a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:59 PM
2

Perhaps pussy isn't the meaning of life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:57 PM
1

You don't fully comprehend feminine nature if you think this is feasible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:52 PM
1

Perhaps men aren't a monolith and have varying opinions? Oh no, that can't be. We are all supposed to be clones with the exact same priorities and views. The fact that posts devoid of any common sense are so popular here is the problem. It costs nothing to use just the slightest bit of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:52 PM
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TRP is just the objective truth about women's tendencies. How different men approach the reality or what they think women should do is only a subjective opinion. It's really that simple, I don't know what women here want. Obviously different men want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:14 PM
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I don't care what you feel hun, your lack of comprehension is your problem not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:43 AM
3

The question was about issues with being a man, not for men as a class. There were more issues listed here but as expected you have completely ignored many to fit your narrative. It's funny because instead of showing empathy, you still figure out a way to punish them for opening up, only feeding into the reason why men don't do this. It costs you nothing to simply not care, but you need to go out of your way to be negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:25 AM
0

Bingo. This is one of the things that goes both ways here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:40 PM
2

Men are not legally obligated to raise their children if they are not married at birth. Men are legally obligated to providing for them. Also, no parent is legally obligated to care for children, adoption exists. You think society would collapse without wars? If there were no men willing to protect a nation in wars other societies would exploit and enslave them. Much of the peace in the world is due to our capacity of violence, not because we are moral. Frankly, given the economic crisis of our …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:30 PM
2

How about trying some examples that are exclusive to women, because that one is mutual. i don't think all of this is "for the betterment of society," definitely not in this century. If men didn't do these things society would collapse on itself, it's something that thankfully you don't have to fathom because we do. Also I didn't say that women didn't have responsibilities, I said that they don't have ones like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:06 PM
3

It's almost as if both things affect society at large
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:57 PM
2

Outside of dating (Because thats for a individual's imperative), What are the responsibilities placed on women for the prosperity of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:54 PM
3

Great points, you really made a argument here and gave examples that conflicts with my statement. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:48 PM
1

They aren't expected to take accountability for the consequences though, and it's not even entirely on them as western societies built a plethora of safety nets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:46 PM
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Not sure what your questions have to do with being expected to have the responsibility to society. Did you have to sign a draft form? Are you expected to save women and children even at the sacrifice of your life? Are you expected to provide for men? Are your consequences as harsh as men's in court. I'm sorry these things happened to you, but you're only demonstrating female solipsism, which is a direct example to the why in OPs question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:43 PM
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The nicest answer I can give is that they aren't expected to be responsible for society/others like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:14 PM
1

Perhaps my mistake here was putting too much emphasis on objective understanding. It seems like your references are more to the point of understanding women's subjective experience through life. My points were towards understanding motivations, instincts, etc. Yours appears to be more to invoke empathy through understanding women's adversities. So to go to your point, how have men responded to the recent feminist media push? Poorly. Take She Hulk, for example, everyone knows what women's issues …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:16 AM
1

A common idea Villar emphasised is “man's delight in nonfreedom" - and I truly disagree with that portrait of a man’s ignorance, don’t you? No I do not. I agree with Villar because men are instilled a principle of duty. Which leads to the purposelessness they feel when they are not in a relationship, which is a responsibility to make a woman happy. It's an instinct to do rather than to not. It’s also not a literary work, thus not really what I’m concentrating on. I'm sure that if your recommenda…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:33 AM
1

I would date everyone here because we are all hot as fuck obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:03 AM
1

I think it’s totally worth checking out but it’s not an encyclopaedia of reality or of how women really are. It must be convenient to invalidate information that goes against your imperative. Your claim about men understanding women and then choosing to have nothing to do with them, is a statement made precisely because you adapted a cynical view out of your lack of understanding us. You wanna know something interesting, every time I make that statement to women they always agree. The reason bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:49 AM
1

I know but I wanted the mods to know I was just messing with you and not attacking you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:29 AM
1

Nay. It's not necessarily money that makes people better or worse parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:26 AM
1

Maybe you should lay off the porn so you can get motivated enough to grow out of your soyboy looks /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:24 AM
2

I consider myself smarter than most people regardless of gender, but I know women who are geniuses or more capable than myself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:22 AM
1

There is a saying in RP that you either love women or understand them but you can't do both. I'll spare the details, but as someone who does have a pretty objective view of the feminine imperative, I think it's absolutely necessary that men don't truly understand women. If they did, they wouldn't want anything to do with them. If you want to read a book by a woman, read The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:13 AM
4

So why do women disproportionately initiate divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:04 AM
1

Not for me but the right relationship should feel like it's worth the effort. Don't try hard and let something build organically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:00 AM
1

Men find a false sense of security in providing for women because that's what most instinctually want. They are competing with other men for resources to inevitably leverage that for women. For myself, I understand that there is no actual certainty with relationships because women's emotions are too variable to be secure in anything. Men can do everything right, buy a woman a house, constant dates, and being the best husband and it can still not be enough. I wouldn't take any relationship seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:29 AM
2

Oh no please don't let baby fever take over
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:10 AM
2

Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:04 AM
1

If you read some of the female subs I lurk in you wouldn't be so worried about hurting their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:01 AM
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I've never been huge on porn but thus just sounds like a major projection on your part. Nevertheless, no one gives a fuck what a random anon's judgement is. If it effects you that way and you don't want to watch it cool, but demonizing men for it when the majority can have a healthy sexuality regardless makes you look like an ass. I understand your points, but the way you express yourself would get you beat up in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:58 AM
3

Even the implication that you hate women will get you nuked online as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:47 AM
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Same as if a guy hated women because no one will fuck them. What do you do to invoke the behavior you want? Are you a pleasant person to spend time with? Do you take interest in them and their hobbies? Do you have your own hobbies you'd like to introduce to them? The issue with women like this is that they love being loved, not the actual man. So of course this happens
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 01:46 AM
0

I just think it's funny to troll about it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:11 PM
1

Pretty sure it's mainly bots lol, it felt like that talking to them sometimes 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:09 PM
4

With all the complaints about tinder for guys, I can't figure out why the hell I had over 1k matches when I'm fairly average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:21 AM
3

Sure. I have single female friends now that I have no intention to fuck. I wouldn't marry someone and throw it all away just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:15 PM
1

I wouldn't have to do this as I'm going childfree. Ideally my partner would share that value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:32 PM
3

Sexuality often eclipses our rationality. Also BC can fail depending on other medications the woman might takes. Either way, forcing someone to carry a child won't do anyone good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:20 PM
1

Henry Cavill, that's a man's man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:19 PM
2

My experience with military girls where that they were total sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:16 PM
1

Sure why not, as long it's not a issue with her. But she'd have to be really tall to be taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:13 PM
2

Sorry if this is a dumb question but what is a inkwell? I've seen it mentioned but no idea what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:05 AM
1

Boundaries. No one is worth that BS. If my friends are doing something I don't like I simply distance from them enough for it not to affect me. Not completely cut ties but downgrade our closeness to an acceptable level.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:03 AM
2

Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:58 AM
4

My relationship with my dad was 70% of him randomly sending punches to my face
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:52 AM
1

You can certainly compensate in other areas if you don't have a social network but it does make meeting women organically easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:03 PM
1

Not really, game matters more imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:53 PM
1

I look at her photos and draw context from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:51 PM
2

They aren't lonely, they just compartmentalize relationships with men so they don't have to settle with one by getting the best out of betas and alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:45 PM
1

"Um women aren't a monolith, I have no personality other than invalidating everything redpillers say and I have a gf." /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:43 PM
1

I give advice because I've gotten enough virgins laid to identify the best paths for them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:41 PM
2

I feel you, but all pussy feels the same so although I get turned on by others I never thought it necessary to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:39 PM
1

When I had two chicks telling me they love me at the same time and I felt absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:37 PM
1

Because women have help if they need it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:36 PM
1

No but the mainstream might say so because it's wrongthink
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:34 PM
1

Tifa for sure, aerith plays games
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:33 PM
2

I never make the assumption I'm the only guy in a woman's life because it's virtually never the case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:32 PM
2

So I have a few acquaintances that are trans/femme and they have dominant girlfriends that treat them like girls. There are women into that sort of thing, sort of like butch types or more hard-core than your typical feminine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:30 PM
1

Depends on how much the value it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:47 AM
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Male bluepillers just choose to be naive, it's not hard to stick your head in the sand and pretend female instincts doesn't exist. The only difference is optimism vs pragmatism. I guarantee you that if redpillers actually met competent women that were equal they would date them, but that's not the reality for women's imperative. They expect men to be men no matter how egalitarian they seem on the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:46 AM
1

Hasan doesn't actually fight or even debate because he knows on the inside he's a weasel that can't face genuine conflict. I would pay to see Hyde knock him out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:40 AM
8

That's the crux of many RP strategies, if you pretend to be something you're not you're building a bad foundation for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:22 PM
2

I'm with ya brother. To me it's just natural. I imagine the people who shame it are older women and younger men that hate the competition it brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:19 PM
3

I don't see why it's such a contention here. Women like maturity in men and Men like youthfulness in women. I see relationships like it all the time and both parties are cool with it. Personally I prefer older women because younger ones can be nauseating to communicate with. In real life people might judge but not nearly enough for it to matter in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:03 PM
2

I never provide anything I don't give willingly, that way there's no sunken cost whenever it doesn't work out. Financially I just try to make the best of the situation. I'm pretty literate in the area so it's not difficult for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:26 PM
1

Masculinity is the force of willpower to meet a imperative. It manifests the behaviors you listed for better and for worse. When Masculinity becomes toxic is when it's used in ways that negatively impact other's wellbeing. Although it's a necessary force, men should try to be conscious about their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:09 PM
1

Sure theoretically but I can't imagine liking awoman so much to actually follow through with it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:00 PM
1

I've been in love twice but I've been told by too many women they love me to know. Over 10 under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:59 PM
1

Truly just taking it slow and teasing to build sexual tension is 90% of that natural aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:57 PM
0

It would cut out all women if men didn't do this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:55 PM
12

As a guy with options, you're overestimating women with the focus on relationships. A lot of women just want to fuck or a temporary fling without strings attached. I made the mistake of thinking like this too but women want different things than simply to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:42 AM
1

If they are motivated to get a relationship I'd do everything to facilitate that for them. Even drive them to dates or let their dates spend the night. I'd probably warn them if they aren't dating reliable person but all I could do as a parent is support whatever they want for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:35 AM
2

I support men doing whatever the fuck they want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:09 AM
2

Why do therapy when I can just do drugs instead
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:07 AM
6

Meal prep my brother in christ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:06 AM
3

I support women doing whatever the fuck they want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:06 AM
1

Best way to put it
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:08 AM
2

It's when your wellbeing is attached to another person's wellbeing. Their happiness is your happiness, their sadness is yours, etc. I think men and women have different definitions of love but this component is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:31 PM
1

Good point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:29 PM
1

Never. I make mental plans but not fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:28 PM
1

Women are fairly simple
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:45 AM
5

I dated a autistic girl and neither of us knew until she was diagnosed shortly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:15 AM
2

And post nut clarity isn't even always the woman's fault. Sometimes guys get insecure afterwards if they like her too much
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:45 PM
1

Hard to say for sure but basically having good chemistry and communication. The husband doesn't have to be a cuck but as long as everything is clear in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:53 PM
3

Find god
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:39 PM
1

Depends on the woman but I would in certain scenarios. Way safer than than with single women who fucks around with a dozen guys anyways,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:37 PM
1

So he had a spat with his roommate and needed a break. Why see a change of heart as bad? He could just miss California. People make emotional decisions that doesn't make him a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:01 PM
1

Oh so he's still in the relationship? If so yeah that's deceit but how could she not have any clue? Word spreads between women like wildfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:59 PM
1

It's logical if you have a feminine imperative. It's literally to seduce men and leverage their attraction for women's interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:52 PM
1

I agree on the first point but how was the women's thread a gotcha question? It's about terminating a pregnancy but if society is so advanced that the state had those capabilities then I'd imagine that could be a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:48 PM
1

Why not? If I'm actually in a relationship why half ass it and cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:45 PM
2

Where was the deceit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:42 PM
1

I don't get it, what was wrong with moving back to California?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:40 PM
1

Sure that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:21 PM
1

Fair enough, but it appeared you were implying that a person couldn't be committed to someone if they are not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:58 PM
1

It sounds like you interpreted it as literally being awful to women instead of seeing the nuance between that and self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:22 PM
1

Sounds blackpill to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:20 PM
1

It is common sense indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:16 PM
1

Your actions are the commitment. You can be married and unfaithful, a promise is not a certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:15 PM
1

Don't really care what other people think but if a guy compliments them I guess I feel some validation for being the guy fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:13 PM
7

I think it's more about the severity of the bad experiences than the actual amount. A brokenheart can kill a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:58 AM
1

Red Pill didn't help me, I helped myself way before finding it. My experiences and lessons simply resonated with the information in the culture. Is it fulfilling? Not really but it's not because I'm redpilled. I can always just make the decision to stay with a woman for longer. But I usually ended them all because women have been more of a liability than a value add to my life. Not worth it for me. For me it's just better to be FWBs with women because they aren't dependable enough to ever take s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:52 AM
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I was seeing a girl for awhile and we met through wanting to play elden ring, girls get into souls games mostly because the type of guys into it are intense, lift, etc. Maybe not this guy. Also, plenty of chick's are dtf pretty quickly. It happened for me a couple times. I don't think she's trans, he'd probably create a whole different post about if he's gay or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:28 PM
3

Women always say this until they get that one great fuck then it's game over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:02 PM
8

Many short exciting experiences. They literally have an anthem about this, "Thank you, Next" by Ariana Grande
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:49 AM
1

I have no idea who that is
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:48 AM
4

Women care more about what other women think of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:47 AM
2

The shittiest thing I did was create a trust test on my ex and when she failed I broke up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:37 AM
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Women would rather have temporary great experiences and flings than to get with a low value guy that disappoints them either way. Everyone loves women, they don't need any particular guy for fulfillment. So taking that risk on high smv guys has zero sunken cost. They still get a good time even if they don't contain men, because the next one is right around the corner. Men who make these threats don't realize that women don't care at the end of the day. They cry for a day and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:55 AM
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All women aren't the same but they have tendencies
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:47 AM
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I don't think you should do that, that information comes at a hefty price
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:48 AM
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You're in a sub that talks about it, not in one where men are talking about their girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:46 AM
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It has for me but vigorously stimulating the clit is more consistent in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:43 AM
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Or, you could make a girl feel special by saying "I haven't met someone as good as you" and that exponentially increase your chances of getting her. Don't create an identity around such a temporary status
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:56 PM
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Is it possible to upgrade your FWB to a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:16 PM
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I think it's important that you go through the stages, but at the right pace. I was having sexual experiences in elementary and fully lost my virginity before middle school started. I matured too quickly so by the time everyone was reaching more serious stages I was a bitter 50 year old on the inside. The burnout lead to even worse experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:12 PM
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Oddly enough I ended them all but that was mostly because I could see conflict before it happened. I think thats why my exes would go crazy or try to win me back because they felt that they lost in the situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:08 PM
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Men's value to women is utility, you'd be surprised how low they'll go on the attractiveness scale if a man compensates in other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:52 AM
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Stop giving me hope there are women like this /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:47 AM
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Briffualts law
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:07 AM
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The men that do realize it lost the fucks to give to argue over it. They either bite the bullet on the matrix or go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:06 AM
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Perhaps there are differences between genders? Also, if you're really a liberated asexual, aren't you absolved from this gender conflict? If I was asxual I'd live peacefully from worrying about this stuff
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 09:31 PM
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When you are selfish it's easy to see how both men and women can get in your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:40 PM
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I enjoy the time I had with her. And I wanted to spend more time with her. So you didn't lose anything if you enjoyed it. I enjoy watching films, the cost it takes me to drive to the theater, pay the ticket, and buy popcorn doesn't mean the directors "used" me as a consumer, I did it because I chose to. They created something I wanted to experience, similar to how women create a body and personality we as men want to experience. When she asked me to drop her off at her friend's house, that's an …
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 08:37 PM
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I believe you. Women give people in general plenty of reasons to be misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:03 PM
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Transwomen are self aware. Again, we all know they arent biological or "legitimate" Women. They are quite literally transitioning women, who make synthetic changes like taking hormones and altering their bodies so that their internal expression meets their outward one. Transwomen and women are two different things and anyone with enough braincells will agree. At least you can see the humanity in them and not just sex objects. No one is trying to convince you that they're biologically born female…
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 08:01 PM
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Transwomen aren't biological women, even they understand that. But transwomen identify and resonate with femininity. Gender is an expression with the world around you. Hence when a guy behaves certain ways we call them pussys or girls. Sex is the biological XX or XY chromosome and how we define them. These two overlap in the majority of cases but sometimes they don't. If you're actually progressive, it shouldn't be hard to wrap your head around.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:49 PM
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Perhaps people (regardless of gender) need to warm up to a person before they can feel sexually submissive to them? Maybe a bit of care is required before letting someone stick their dong into their orifices. I'm a dude too, so I understand the annoying parts of femininity. But that's the tradeoff we make. If you don't actually enjoy the time spent and it's not worth it to facilitate you don't have to. You can hire a hooker for a more honest transaction. The sex will probably be better too. But …
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:42 PM
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☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:05 PM
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Have you ever considered that maybe transwomen are women?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 04:54 PM
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Why do you value the validation of others especially when they don't truly care about you? Be your own main character. It's your life, not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:43 AM
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To have sex? I never cared. But it's not necessarily the number that matters in relationships it's that it correlates with people who aren't relationship material. Otherwise it typically wouldn't even get that high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:41 AM
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Everyone is selfish. Whatever validation you think you want can only be achieved by sacrificing your free will to gain approval. That choice is yours to make but I recommend attaining your own self respect by making goals and working towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:36 AM
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I have plenty of options personally, so I'm not complaining or wishing I could have what those men have had. I am just acknowledging the fact that some men aren't fit to be fathers when they are. The risk those women took didn't just affect them but the life of their children. At some point women need to take ownership, this is why I support the pro choice movement because although they might have not had those intentions, the suffering of the children should be prevented.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:31 AM
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The trick is telling her "it's a suprise" then going wherever you really want to eat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:55 PM
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Guys are like whipped little puppy dogs around women. You have to be pretty bad to not experience that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:49 PM
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Massive dong so the force can propel me upward when I helicopter my dick. Huge dong and potentially super flight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:48 PM
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Maybe because women are having sex with bad men? I know guys that really shouldn't be father's but they aren't raping these women, and yet they have baby mommas across the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:46 PM
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Most women are, get with the program lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:43 PM
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Cmon you can be more hateful than that, try harder next time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:42 PM
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I don't even know the context but I'd wager you probably said something misandrist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:27 PM
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Did it really take this much thought for you to realize women prefer men that pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:11 PM
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Well I do recognize your username for contempt towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:09 PM
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Well life has been peaceful in comparison to the drama when I was actively dating. I don't hate women it's just better for me to go my own way. The MGTOW sub was nice because it was a place where other people resonated with my decision in comparison to my environment where everyone expects me to date. When you date someone it's easy to neglect your hobbies and self improvement, so taking that time to focus on myself again was nice. I'm proud of myself more than when I was seeking validation from…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 07:04 PM
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Dude I see some 40 year olds as children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:08 PM
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I don't do it to be cool I'm just trying my best to never smoke a cigarette again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:04 PM
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This has happened to a few on mine and typically they switch to flaunting thier ass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:00 PM
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My move was pulling out right before and either switching positions, eating her out, or fingering her. I could go all night doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:54 PM
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I absolutely can believe you, this sub isn't entirely incels it's just easy to use them as a scapegoat for arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:50 PM
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We already have these things but if we had it more it'd just be more common. I don't see it helping in a meaningful way because the programs are temporary stays and not actual citizenships. Perhaps more people would get married to stay with their spouses in other countries but most people want to stay home. Personally I've been shooting down my foreign college opportunities because the cost to benefit wasn't there but I'd love to be subsidized to go to Europe and meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:30 PM
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It won't affect dating fundamentally because people already do this. But for individual men and women, dating a foreigner would be a great experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:52 PM
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Bi and lesbian women seem to sympathize with men more, but they don't fundamentally understand that they are treated differently by women than men. So their perspective isn't applicable to men. Yeah you might have dated a woman, but you've never been expected to be a real man. Which is what straight women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:44 PM
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Sorry perhaps the better word would have been ethnicity. In America we have standard races Asian, Black, Pacific Islander, Hispanic, Indian and White. Race is about the physical characteristics of the person of the group. For example, both Vietnamese and Japanese could be classified as Asain races. Not really sure about the Maori people but no I haven't dated one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:19 PM
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You don't like her comment or Atlas? Although she was tough, I felt like she was the only woman who truly got TRP, versus the others that try to frame it into their own weird perception or came to lambast us for being misogynist. She wasn't one of the guys but more of like a badass aunt that kept your sword sharp. A part of me misses the time she represented because it was raw redpills from her and the cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:11 AM
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You kind of have to give a little pushback or your parents can absolutely power control you. You probably moved out by now so it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:27 AM
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You like em fiesty huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:25 AM
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These men are down bad but at least he's aware of the cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:12 AM
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I miss that woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:08 AM
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It's not weird if you had established boundaries with them. Like bothering to knock and not entering without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:07 AM
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Nah, it's because quality posters a booted out by one liner blue pilled platitudes, it's pointless. I have wanted to make posts for the longest but the few people that would get it already do. The majority will just revert to logical fallacies and purposeful ignorance to make arguments. The daily thread is chill because so much of this stuff has simple common sense answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:14 AM
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Fascinating lol It's totally a satire pill but I didn't know there was such a big thing around it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:16 PM
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When I think of race I think of the standards, not nationalities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:14 PM
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Probably. All you really need is about 2 inches taller than the girl to qualify
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:36 PM
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I actually would love a unironic version like this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:35 PM
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Yeah. I do it for amusement in seeing women smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:34 PM
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There are other ways to date still you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:33 PM
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Very much depends on her track record but I'd say for most guys probably would increase the chances if we are being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:32 PM
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Hey! Some empathy for the guys for once. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:30 PM
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Because it happens? I had a girl suck my dick at a party once only to find out that she came with small Jewish guy that was working on her for months. It was like my second time meeting her and I guess she was just turned off by him at heart. He was furious and she was annoyed with him for making a scene about it. It killed the vibe and I felt horrible because I had absolutely no clue. I was even in his shoes before. Thinking I was falling for a girl and hanging out with her alot only to fuck so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:29 PM
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Hot young women don't need to get married when they get way more excitement out of playing the field in their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:21 PM
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I have dated every race outside of Native American
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:20 PM
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Perhaps the "Wifey" behavior is best suited when they are in their prime if they wanted to make their best bet on marriage. Those are the women I see that are getting married in their younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:18 PM
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This is just the more authentic RPWomen sub. The subconscious mind of women actualized
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:14 PM
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So many other better subs for this dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:12 PM
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Idk I feel like most guys I know are whipped the moment after the first hookup. And even when women are "committed" they still passively accrue options and keep guys on the hook for when the time comes. I don't think anyone should be trusted with full commitment especially with the women I've dealt with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:09 PM
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Beats being ghosted on Tinder haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:05 PM
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The way I see women now is that they will do what they want and tell you or hide it from you so I would swing preferably. But she'd have to be one hell of a woman for me to consider it a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:49 PM
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I'd prefer if women had their expectations planted on their foreheads like sticker prices on cars. Just so you can take a look at them, then the price, and decide if it's even worth the bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:46 PM
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Point is you're playing with better odds... kinda
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:37 PM
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See it works! They probably lived happily ever after
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:36 PM
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Orange Pill: Date a convicted prisoner so they're forced to pay attention to you for lack of options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:48 PM
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No Great, point made
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:19 AM
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You identify as "No Pill" but if you ever make a statement that alligns with a pill does that make you that pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:14 AM
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Dude 95% of actual RP spaces are men telling each other to grow the fuck up, lift, work hard, and grab life by the balls. PPD is not a RP space. RP men don't resonate with whiney musings about women or blue pilled idealistic sludge. In RP they punish that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:11 AM
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The people in PPD literally spend no time in TRP then base their assumptions on the blackpillers here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:08 AM
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*Blackpill spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:46 AM
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Eventually you are able to understand if they operate fron objective truth and logic or emotional fallacies and empty platitudes. It becomes a waste of time talking to people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:42 AM
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I feel good about myself This is all that truly matters brother
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:38 AM
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Awhile back a woman gives me advice for her daughter, I quote "just treat her like shit!" Asked me why I haven't called her daughter back and told her "Took your advice" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:30 AM
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Way more issues than not getting laid but people here love to scapegoat incels to invalidate what men are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:23 AM
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This guy gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:22 AM
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He needs to take pictures with others or actually doing actions he enjoys. Women want to know what kind of lifestyle dating you will bring them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:02 PM
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Not more logical but PPD spawns much autistic types on both sides. They aren't stupid they just don't get alot of social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:01 PM
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I love this lmao, gonna use this to troll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:59 PM
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My parents are intellectually and emotionally still teenagers. They ask me for romantic and financial advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:58 PM
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Find god
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:56 PM
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Women were always the same, the only thing it does is put their nature on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:56 PM
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Yeehaw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:55 PM
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I think they don't fundamentally understand that women's careers don't serve to benefit men, only decrease the chances of retaining her from the competition. They are secure attachment people, so they primarily romanticize over seeing it realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:54 PM
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Women say nice things but their actions can often conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:51 PM
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Rise above my brother in christ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:50 PM
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Having dated both social media popular girls and non ones, there is literally no difference in their nature. They are all self interested emotional brats in their own ways. The only difference with the non social media types is that they are just more covert. Like they still have guy orbiters, some better and lesser than you. But they all have the same expectations and seemingly narcissistic tendencies. I would actually recommend trying the social media types (just for fun) because if you get wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:47 PM
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Dude most women hate other women for a reason lol. The solipsistic self interested nature only works if you're sexually interested to motivate you through it. Men who are brotherly actually provide value to your life in ways that women won't. This should be common sense if you have both women and guy friends. I've been friends with many women but at the end of the day you're just a utility to them without the sex aspect. I'm a wholesome enough dude to treat them like little sisters out of care b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:38 PM
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I've dated enough hot chick's to understand A is a way better life decision at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:30 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:11 AM
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It can be very enlightening seeing their actions during those times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:32 PM
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The perfect woman's height is 9'6
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:29 PM
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Marriage is about more than the ability to have sex, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:27 PM
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You're so absolutely right and I'm glad someone else has noticed this. I've seen that scenario played out so many times in everything from small groups to entire businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:22 PM
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I was actually thinking what if this guy doesn't actually wanna fuck her at all and she's just reading was too much into it. Lol But an even deeper hot take, I think she feels this way because a woman wouldn't want comradery between the two and would rather them actively compete for her so she maximizes her total benefit. She would essentially have a get out of jail pass whenever the boyfriend isn't enough. Because notice how she doesn't care that he's an orbiter, rather he's not doing it right.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:05 PM
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That was my statement, not quoting you. It's literally as simple as being attracted to you and not hating your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:57 PM
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I didn't say it was empathetic. Just saying there's not much thought into it the majority of the time. Most people aren't as guided by ethics as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:51 PM
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I swear women have this ultra psychopathic view of men, most guys are too simple for your level of 4D chess. Pretty women invoke a feeling of attraction in guys. Men view other men as potential threats or friends. You can feel attraction to a girl and friendliness to their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:30 PM
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We always can be savages. You have this blind view as if we don't have self control. No man is busting down your door everyday to rape you even though the majority of us very well could. The majority of men would even go as far as to stop it from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:04 PM
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You're projecting. Believe it or not RP outcomes appeals to alot of guys despite your subjective view of healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:02 PM
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We get it already, Men bad! Either way I think your interpretation of hivemind is slightly off from the contexts. Women appear to be more cooperative and have social solidarity while men are more competitive. But men's capacity for rape and violence doesn’t make them more or less ethical, women just aren't as capable to do those things. If women were bigger than men and had higher testosterone levels they would be just the same. I have been sexually assaulted by women and watched more chick figh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:33 PM
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Perfect man. We should all strive to be him or bow down to his glory
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:37 PM
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Elden Ring, the hype is deserved for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:36 PM
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Men romanticize literally everything women do though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:33 PM
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Nice brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:57 AM
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Hey I remember you! That could be so many guys and even chicks here so I dunno lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:55 AM
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Having dated some hot women, I understand it.. Not completely but I know that it's an entire lifestyle behind it and I appreciate being a guy and not having to live to those standards everyday. But sometimes i think women really take these standards too far to the point where it's competing with each other more than appealing to guys. Men are way easier to please than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:46 AM
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You can have internal struggles, but don't make the mistake of putting them on others to deal with. Your problems are your own, people can help you but no one is required to. Try to focus on being thankful for what the women in your life does for you rather than what they wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:39 AM
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You don't have to be RP to have this feeling invoked inside you. Not sure what the context was but I don't think you deserved it. RP is just the tough truth, what individuals do with that information is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:29 AM
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Yeah I have, there's nothing particularly special or different about them from other girls imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:17 AM
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They don't call it bromance for nothing lol But either way, many men will do what you proposed and most of them will get burned, a minority might find the unicorn that isn't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:49 AM
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You'll never really get it if you aren't a guy. That's okay, but your advice is unfeasible in most cases, just ask the men who tried. In RP, this is where the importance of a tribe comes to play. It doesn't have to be repressed, but targeted towards someplace that doesn't come at that expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:25 AM
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Women can afford waiting for perfect partners when they have a sea of opportunities. Men cannot, and are required to frontload alot of effort and cost just to get to know a woman and have a relationship. Men have to increase their probability of success so they operate within certain boundaries to ensure the relationship. This can also have positive manifestations like instead of showing fear to danger they will respond with aggression to protect or stability when emotional. You put out this ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:02 AM
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Most loving relationships probably started with a hookup tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:26 PM
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For most men it's not worth the risk. I'm sure most women have some threshold as to what is acceptable, but once you pass that point of respect men break a image of masculine frame. This is something that triggers the "ick" in many women where they can't respect him enough to be sexually submissive. It's just a better rule of thumb to not show that side of yourself. It's actually because men want to preserve the relationship that they avoid doing so. Most women want men to be their rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:25 PM
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Depends on the size of the guy, some need to bulk and others need to shred
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:19 PM
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Sometimes I would hit on hot girls out of nowhere as a joke and it would actually work unexpectedly. The ones I put very little thought in worked way better than my elaborate schemes to get the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:18 PM
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Sure, you can love someone and understand that you're on different paths. Typically it was because I cared about them that I let them go
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:14 PM
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It's crazy that today we are talking about hoe phases because the top three hoes in my high school got proposed to all within the past couple weeks. Women can have it all because male thirst has no bounds. Still doesn't mean you have to wife a hoe fellas, but there will always be a greater simp for every chick you pass on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:03 PM
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Can't tell if this is ironic trolling or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:26 PM
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Yes, hence targeting women shorter than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:19 PM
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In the daily thread, where everyone is talking about hoe phases and committed relationships atm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:18 PM
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I've seen plenty of short guys get women by doing this seemingly crazy yet common sense tactic, Date even shorter women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:17 PM
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Yeah there is no problem, just putting thoughts out there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:14 PM
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I dont get it. What does short males have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:08 PM
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It's pointless to argue about it regardless because women are always going to do what they want and there will always be a greater simp that accepts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:06 PM
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I like his authenticity over covert weasel douchbag methods. As an individual he's fine but it's getting pretty cult like quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:57 PM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with being a hoe. I personally just don't commit to them because I see no reason to. We can still have sex and be friends, nothing about that track record indicates a viable LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:55 PM
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Maybe you aren't the best friends that you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:46 PM
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Some of you guys need to get his dick out your mouths and grind
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:43 PM
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Men romanticize literally everything women do Women romanticize the traits that will be of use to them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:42 PM
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I think guys get major sunken cost from relationships because they are the ones with the burden of performance which leads them to staying in them much longer mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:35 PM
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I know plenty of pretty weirdo chick's that would be into this but truly it's on you to put the effort in finding one. Try conventions for your hobbies. That's your best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:32 PM
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I'm cool with women doing whatever they want. We were just making an analysis of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:13 AM
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Perhaps to you but it can be a turnoff to many regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:43 PM
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Yeah lol but the point here is that that same Ew feeling is where the shame stems from. Being slutty doesn't appeal to the majority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:42 PM
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If a guy was hitting on you and bragged about how many other women he slept with, what would you think about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:12 PM
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Well it's way more complex than this. He stated it's mostly the economy as a factor of many. Turns out if you flood the labor market with alot of participants, labor is devalued since individuals have less leverage over businesses. I'm not saying it's a bad thing that women work, it's just a consequence for men. The world isn't actually fair because we are all competitors to each other for resources. For men to succeed at their greatest capacity is to compete at their highest level to an almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:42 PM
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They expect women to “incentivize” good behavior in men by rewarding stable nice guys with sex / relationships. Because c’mon ladies, won’t someone think of the children?? Yes please save the children But they have no expectation that men should strive to make good, moral choices for the good of society as a whole, independent of personal gain. There's no expectation on women to change, but if they could control who they are having children with that would be a major impediment to the negative s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:26 PM
1

Tell me you don't understand civics without telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:00 PM
1

The simple truth is women like maturity in men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:58 PM
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Why would she answer a question that pokes a giant hole into what her monolouge was based on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:10 PM
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Selection bias at its finest. Turns out, if you go where couples frequent, you'll find them. Unless you actually acknowledge the issues men are having in dating, you'll never actually understand. If your solution is is for men to accept any woman regardless of how they are treated and what is takes then that's not a solution for all the men. You just oversimplified the problem and desire a one size fits all. There is no way to change your view if you refuse to think. If you don't want to address…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:57 PM
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Suuuure buddy sure... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:08 PM
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Absolutely for me. I dated a few hot girls and I'm 90% sure that many of the girls interested in me are trying to outdo them. Some women even told others that they fucked me when it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:54 PM
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It happened to me but women seem cool with me grabbing their breasts so I'll allow it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:53 PM
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Mr. Hands has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:57 PM
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Coming sense really because men have the burden of performance and the requirement to be attractive. Sure they can compensate in some areas where they lack in others, but the effort required to be fuckable/relationship material is objectively more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:56 PM
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I get that too, usually when people think I'm too nice and have no boundaries. They react by calling me cold when I don't meet their expectations. I don't let it bother me because I know who I am and as a man I can be nice but assertive when necessary. You can't please all people all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:52 PM
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This is all valid for sure, but I think men were more motivated to fit into those roles as it seemed more feasible to be successful. In many factors, it appears to be less feasible, so it creates a hopeless feedback loop which kills their motivation and furthers the problem. It's men's responsibility to get what they want in life, but there needs to be an alignment between risks, effort, chances, and reward. That's increasingly not in favor for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:48 PM
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I think men like women as individuals but hate the way they are treated by them. And I agree that the tradeoffs are necessary, but I can empathize with the view that if women were more like men in some ways it would solve the problem. I also think this is why alot of men say they wish they were gay, or bi men harping about men being so much better than women. It's impossible for women to change, your criticism and frustration with men who propose that is valid. But it's ultimately just as unnece…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:31 PM
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I mean I care about it alot but there isn't much I can do about it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:16 PM
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Uh do you? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:15 PM
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When it comes to women, sexuality overiddes rationality for men yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:13 PM
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But women cheat and trade up for other men all the time. Sure there's differences in sexuality but they aren't inherently better in some moral way. Most women in know are hooking up with multiple people in the dating phase. Most men typically settle and a small demographic are banging everybody. I just don't get the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:11 PM
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Are you saying most men are like this or that it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:08 PM
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I'm in love with her and can't contain my desire for her to kill me via snu snu
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:04 PM
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"If more men would just be beta, and shamed Alpha's, maybe a girl will give you some pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:36 PM
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Detransitioners are mostly coming from FtM for a reason
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:05 PM
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I don't have a height limit but I probably would be too unsecure to date a girl taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:27 AM
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This...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:20 AM
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Those women target men with even better careers than them. The higher the women go the lower her pool of eligible men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:59 PM
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Back in my day we used our WORDS to express ourselves. Not these goddamm emotijons yall kids are doin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:35 AM
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I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:55 PM
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Beta maxing is a viable choice. I think it's called "Goldpill" there is nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are fully aware of the situation. Some guys go as far as being pay pigs where they fetishize paying women. It's fucked up, but even Alpha has their fucked up side of the spectrum. Most guys have some sort of moderation between the middle. It's a limiting binary view to actually think in the real world its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:45 PM
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I will miss her. Understandable with what happened to her daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:40 PM
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r/oddlyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:02 PM
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No real correlation other than my inability to identify what's wrong with her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:02 PM
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They are like any woman, but smarter at leveraging their femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:00 PM
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It sort of is outside of the judgements on the internet, it's just unspoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:57 PM
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Good thing they identified the incompatibility before the actual marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:52 PM
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Oh I see, now I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:22 AM
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WOAH. Was not expecting that at all But hey, women get makeup so we get whatever this is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:14 PM
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I havent got one of those at all guess ill just die then 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:07 PM
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haha finally men have their equivalent of women's stomach girdle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:03 PM
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So Why do men even marry then? Why even create that concept? In addition, Why do women disproportionately initiate divorce on their best?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:17 PM
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A whole lot of luck and dedication to excellence. The pressure is real, but guys like that were naturally passionate about something that skyrocketed them to the position. The stars aligned in timing, luck, and effort. But no one's life is perfect, the top men still have conflict and drama like anyone else. It's just at a higher level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:40 PM
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Only if they use their relationship as a crutch to avoid self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:33 PM
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If you want her to throw it back for you and moan so loud the neighbors can hear, you have to be the dominant one. They arent doing that for betas. Gotta pay the cost to be the boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:29 PM
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It's those dang cellphones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:03 PM
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It's them dang cellphones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:01 PM
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Both really good points all things considered
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:09 PM
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70F/30M I find myself talking to women more because women just like to talk, maybe a little too much for me lol. I find myself competing with more guys and brotherly with a few
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:54 PM
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Your perspective of a slut seems really idealistic. They don't become sluts by falling for a guy and giving him personal porn sex. They are fucking around with everyone and are pretty much nonviable relationship material. But if your priority is intense sex sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:47 PM
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You're conflating black pill with red pill Red pill guys typically have hyper inflated egos and rant about how much pussy they got in puesdo academic essays
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:33 PM
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Because he's a shit dad from what I've heard. Also he doesn't commit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:23 PM
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Absolutely agree I would say even 7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:21 PM
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Choose one: Honest sluts Lying sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:21 PM
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Absolutely I'm 6'2 too and we are the short tall guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:19 PM
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They arent going to show you that directly. Have you ever read women's group chats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:17 PM
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Femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:15 PM
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It's not inherently attractive unless you leverage it to benefit women. Just like hot guys can be unattractive to women unless they show direct interest in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:13 PM
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You can make a woman warm up to you but telling women to have sex with you out of entitlement isn't viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:11 PM
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That phrase isn't applicable to secure attachment relationships, that isn't RPs imperative anyways due to the reality about women. I would recommend fostering a rapport with a woman if you want to attempt to date a particular woman that's compatible. But you're going to burn yourself out if you try that across the board. However, many friendships I had with women planted seeds that grew into sexual FWBs later on, but those took months to years before the woman was so into me to evolve to that le…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:09 PM
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Wait you're not autistic? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:04 PM
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Sure but it doesn't matter how much sex you want if you can't get it up. Some guys struggle with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:01 PM
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Granted the burden of performance is on the guy so if it does impede that a guy should be able to prioritize what he wants more. But regarding shame, fuck what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:48 AM
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Ah if only it were as simple as fitting into the parameters of the lowest chance of divorce for everyone. The implications of other metrics have more to say but we already have run the topic into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:27 AM
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We dont actually know if there are unlimited galaxies since we can simulate the reversal of the big bang to a certain point but who knows whats out of our observable universe. Thats why this webb thing is really cool since there could potentially be more out there. also obligatory women bad, men stupid!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:39 AM
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Women have a tendency to expect the guy to do the monkey dancing, in return for them to make it interesting in the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:05 AM
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If those count maybe i am a whore then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:56 PM
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Rome. Paris is a landfill with a tower that isnt even standing straight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:54 PM
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I read that thread earlier and the advice for this guy in particular is to stop romanticizing some emotional ideal. It doesnt mean you cant appreciate intimate moments but he wants something no one is coming to give him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:05 PM
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I am proud subscriber to the itty bitty titty committee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:45 PM
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TBH i dont know how anyone has sober sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:11 PM
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Wisdom comes at a hefty price
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:09 PM
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What about Gold pilling and just outright paying for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:06 PM
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off topic ma'am, but do you mind me asking what you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:01 PM
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Youre taking it from the perspective of a guy but from their perspective, a guy who has RP adaptations in terms of strategy would be a nightmare for them. Same thing if you were obsessed with FDS and when you met women they had some behavior that alligned with that strategy. Many people want a secure attachment so they have a natural aversion to meeting people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:54 PM
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I would recommend spinning it into a compliment like "I haven't met a girl I wanted to yet until I met you" or something cheesy like that if a girl asked me. If it was in a group I would joke about fucking their mom to whoever asked. Or something. It shouldn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:45 PM
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Nah bro men underestimate it and women let them think they're right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:27 PM
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Again... I didn't say it was? You do know that other ways to get to know women exist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:23 PM
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Where are the women who even bother to pretend? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:25 PM
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Right on the money haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:21 PM
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I didn't grow up with much expectations because it was extremely rare for me to see that ever played out. I saw many divorces, infidelity, single mothers/fathers, turmoil etc. I did have a hope to build that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:17 PM
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I don't understand what you disagree with because that indication wasn't to say they are any more or less similar to other relationships. As I stated. I just made an assessment that they appeared to be less stable because they aren't built on long term compatibility and moreso on temporary pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:13 PM
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Most hookups ive seen were initiated through those pleasures and they bonded over them. Doing drugs, going to concerts/raves, and generally having a more lax inhibtions around sex. Although the crux is that many of them fall apart easily because of the culture. The attachments are just as real as any relationship but when the party is over it gets less stable since the foundation drops.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:13 PM
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​ It's a little deeper than impressions just for the sake of it, but it does have some amount of priority for people to varying degees.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:41 PM
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You know whats even more toxic? Actually experiencing a life in which all the information here is your real reality. Perceptions of the world are quite subjective, but the reality is that there are men out there who will use you, and there are risks to everything you do as a person. However, if its the outcome of the information that truly care about, the solution wouldn't be to ignore the risks, but make your decisions more calculated to foster better outcomes. You dont have to give up, just da…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:30 PM
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The aim is an acknowledgment of the reality of the situation, in a world where telling the truth about women is frowned upon. If it comes at the expense of their reputation of course. This is the entire point of TRP's phenomenon, men grow up with a certain illusion about women and it offsets that. There seems to be a fine line between criticisms and complaints for women here but again the purpose isnt expecting women to change because of it, just put out the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:23 PM
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You cant apply this stance to all men. RP men speak on that tendency, but the solution isnt expecting women to change, its adapting to it by becoming the Alpha or "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:00 PM
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PPD is so annoying because there's so much sludge but then you get that sweet profound statement here and there that keeps you coming back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:06 AM
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Meditate. Breath in 8 seconds, hold 8 seconds, breath out 8 seconds, repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:46 PM
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Yes so all their bitching about can at least be worth it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:23 PM
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The crippling part is the masculine urge to pillage villages and rape the women but you cant these days 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:20 PM
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Happy for you brother, cherish the good times
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:13 PM
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I think those failures have more to do with the fact that people have no idea what they are, marketing matters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:06 PM
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You're someone's Stacy I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:51 PM
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I'm a Alpha fucks not a beta bucks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:24 PM
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This is my life now and it ain't so appealing. However, a chick did pay for us to go to a concert recently that was interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:08 AM
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I know the effect you're talking about, I think it's more that they seem unattainable in a way so people don't allow themselves to long for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:28 AM
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Ah so you're retarded then. I just quoted you but again you resort to blindness to invalidate other ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:42 AM
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I could answer these questions if it's not obvious to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:40 PM
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I'm not only referring to this thread, but this is your typical operating procedure to debate. RP person makes a claim based on experience. You invalidate it because you claim to have never experienced that. Conversation goes no where because despite what ever bubble you live in, many men if not most report differently. Hence Lol. The things manosphere believes are true are often the opposite. So yes. You can do this mindlessly. You don't need experience or even honesty to invalidate men's exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:08 PM
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You. This is what you continually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:28 PM
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That response was sarcasm by using your form of debate. The point is, you can invalidate any point by just refusing to acknowledge anyone's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:21 PM
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Teenagers break up with their bf/gfs because their friends thinks they are cringey. I have never seen that happen so you're dumb for thinking this. Do you see how easy it is to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:05 PM
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Some lives are worse than others. Its not difficult to forecast the feasibility of how much suffering one will go through. It's pointless to bring them into existence just to undergo that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:36 PM
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Humans do suffer, and many times that eclipses life to a point in which it would have been better to have never been alive. If you cant imagine those circumstances, you're one of the lucky ones. Not everyone is so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:32 PM
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Innocent perhaps? I already know what perspective you operate from but can you at least have some intellectual curiosity? You arent smart or experienced enough to be this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:29 PM
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I dont get to decide that for other people, women should get the choice to decide if they want to use their body to facilitate a fetus into term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:25 PM
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A person who understands that some lives are worse than having never been alive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:20 PM
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In reality, most women i know understand that most men get by on "A full stomach and empty balls" This is why its strange to me that women want their own red pill or inside knowledge on men. They are so simple to please and manipulate that it should come easy to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:18 PM
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That sounds just as sad because young love is often the purest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:13 PM
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I'm pro-choice but invalidating the personhood of the fetus seems unnecessary to me. The entire reason I approve of abortions is to avoid the potential suffering of the person into life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:04 PM
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I do. I'm very serious about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:00 PM
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I wish i lived on whatever planet you're from man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:59 PM
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I absolutely think most of TRP is common sense but I do also understand that if life plays out in a favorable way you never really have to grasp how it goes for the majority of people. As far as advice, I think it only helps in terms of repeatable outcomes and positioning men to not lose. There are unicorns but the safer bet is to assume women will fall to their base instincts. The risk men might take in assuming the the best of women doesnt only mean failure, but it often comes at the expense o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:56 PM
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That increases your chances exponentially
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:50 PM
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Many men like thick women and i dont get the fat shaming here Also, in reality most women just want a guy taller than them. it's not the end of the world if you're under 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:45 PM
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The gaslighting is real here. But the only reason I dont get annoyed is because i assume people are stupid, not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:44 PM
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You're down bad my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:42 PM
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Any acknowledgment of the reality for men = Manoshpere-ish these days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:41 PM
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A masc dommy mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:38 PM
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Theoretically any amount of time, years even.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:37 PM
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You really dont have to do this if you're okay with waiting it out for an optimal partner. But I dont think men want a free sex world because they get attached and territorial over women. So its necessary that there is a barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:33 PM
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Many men actually enjoy bending over backwards for women believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:55 PM
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What is the point in being politically correct on PPD? We are anonymous people, let it out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:44 PM
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So many but especially Military.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:50 PM
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Best way forward is optimizing Ai to choose the perfect partners for us. Or at least creating a fake one so people will think they've found the one to actually try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:51 PM
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People will backwards rationalize what they truly want regardless of ethics or logical consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:49 PM
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Agreed. Although I don't believe in the concept of incels they are just men who refuse to conform to what is desirable to women and created an identity around it. Most of them I've seen have a chance if they improved in some areas but they rather be defeatist. It's a shame because the energy they spend on that would be much better placed on anything but contempt towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:41 PM
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I know some genius women but the correlation with the worst takes I've ever seen and it being a woman is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:30 PM
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I think relationships will be increasingly atomized but average men will still bust their asses for a crumb of pussy per usual. The instinct of sexuality following attachment is ingrained in us. Considering the relationommics, less relationships will reach full parity into lifelong pairbonding but the truth about women is out, men wont rely on faith in women enough to devote their lives as much. But they will subsitute with temporary situationships in a more conscious matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:03 AM
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Men assume women are wonderful until proven otherwise. The devastation is disillusionment to their perspective on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:53 AM
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One major limiting factor in PPD is that we conflate who women will fuck and who they will be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:57 PM
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Right, its an important distinction to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:53 PM
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Men seem to lean interest towards the female sports with the best asses lol. Basketball chicks arent the best in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:51 PM
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This seems to be a very one dimensional view. Many men lack the insight to see women compartmentalize their dating lives for certain men to fit their specific utilities to their interest. The simple form is fucking the alphas and cash in on beta's chasing. Many women have plenty of guys they are at least talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:49 PM
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Simple game theory will lead you to realize how impossible that is. Its within mens interest to continually date downwards to increase their individual chances of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:46 PM
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Instagram is the largest dating app really
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:44 PM
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I agree with both of you. Women's baseline of happiness when single is much better than mens. They get everything they need when they're single but when they are in relationships its limited to what the partner provides. So yeah men are more grateful but mostly because its hard to beat the life of a average single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:41 PM
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I agree with you to a degree but the fact of the matter is that if men were too socially intelligent, they'd want nothing to do with women at best or absolutely dominate them at worst. You underestimate how many women value the simple, easy-to-manipulate kind of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:32 PM
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Civilization *as we knew it* will collapse, all we are doing is entering a new phase for humanity. People fear change but all you can do as an individual is adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:29 PM
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It didn't effect my inherent performance in pursuit of my goals, but when your goals shift towards progressing a relationship it comes at the potential time/resources I would have for myself. It's less complacency, more of a distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:23 PM
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The revelance is that they are often appealing to religious ethics. I'll admit that making the assumption is bad way to debate, but they are not wrong in most cases to make it. For example, if someone is using terms like AWALT, women hit the wall, and other RP terms, to respond with "I don't respect RP ideology" doesnt make either end stupid. Even if said person doesnt identify with Red Pill. Your arguments operate from what alligns religous narratives, so to make that assumption of you wouldnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:16 PM
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I'm not saying its a religious talking point to have the opinion that "All humans have a right to life" I'm saying that people with that view are likely religious or have religious conditioning. ​ Do you even want my opinion on the matter? I have debated it for years but i wasnt debating you, just making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:52 PM
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It's not as if they cite the bible to make their point against prochoice. It's that their ideals are built on a judeo-christian framework so their mindset is limited to that lens. "Life is a gift" - i;e life is a gift from god "Its always wrong to kill' i;e Thou shalt not kill etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:25 PM
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I'm not a sexual deviant, I could go with or without it easily because it's not my primary motivator. As for dating, it doesnt help because most women operate from exploiting men in exchange for sex. Many relationships ended in the woman trying to use sex to manipulate my behavior and I would end it there. Many women made me out to be the asshole in moment for this, but all eventually tries to reseduce me to act within their interest. They don't try to understand me(or men) enough to appeal to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:17 PM
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Almost always the principles that a pro life person operates from are that of religion. Not to make it sound like a bad thing, but in many ways it's short-sighted moral virtues does more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:04 PM
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Absoulutely. This is why I pity alot of guys here. They don't even know what comes with their ideals. But thats why I just became a passive reader because I hate to break the truth to them. "You either love women or understand them, but you cant do both."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:51 PM
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How about citing from r/TheRedPill and looking at consensus around those instead to make a judgment? I don't think PPD is very valid because of so much blackpill and bluepill frameworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:40 AM
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How much of that was due to the old conditioning of women's purpose was to be mothers? We dont have that now, women are free from any imposed values.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:46 AM
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You're the protypical "Incel" not a person that cannot get sex, you simply fail to comply with what women want to get sex as a return. ​ Thats why you dont comprehend volcels. You are one! At any point you can make the decisions in which to get laid, but choose not to because it comes at the expense of your self imposed principles or identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:43 AM
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The issue with this line of thinking is that you fail to realize pussy is readily available if you conform to the desires of women. Any man can do that and its feasible for most. That where women's fear of men pretending to like them to just get sex stems from, most men do this to some extent. ​ I dont believe incels exist, they just refuse to conform into their expectations or pay for it outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:36 AM
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Some logistical questions If a woman lives in a ProLife state, and flees to a blue state to get an abortion, will she be detained to stay in the state to have the child? If the woman miscarries and someone determines that it was done purposefully, will she be punished? If a person suspects that a woman will abort illegally, what happens? If its likely that the physical consequences could be life-altering or threatening, could it be legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:22 PM
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Maybe its just my solipsism, but I've never seen a woman actually put effort into a relationship, mine and others. The woman's role is just to experience what the man provides in exchange for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:59 PM
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This is a RP classic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:43 PM
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90% of women I have been exposed to like to be dominated in these forms. Not just desire it, but will beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:12 PM
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Sunken cost. Men are the ones who put up all the effort and finances for relationships so to just through it away on temporary emotions is just irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:16 PM
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Or the man isnt secure enough to preserve her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:01 AM
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ah yes, the almighty utility male you do not have to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:59 AM
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The feminine form of getting what you want is leverage illusion, either seduction or victimhood to compel behavior in their favor. Once you realize this, you understand so much of the seemingly illogical behavior. They want ALL the money, the Pay gap is a victomhood campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:58 AM
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Show me a tomboy and i'll show you a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:55 AM
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Thats just PPD women, just being in that demographic is a major overlap with the fringe types that reject the natural order. However, you don't exactly need to announce your imperative because that opens the door to shittests. It's all about how you assert yourself to your cohort, fuck the rest of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:53 AM
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This is the wey
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:39 PM
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I'm sure globally there are more 10 year olds who give a shit about soccer than football and baseball combined. It's just isnt inundated with American culture as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:27 PM
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Football was fucking great but what I loved the most was competing in mixed martial arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:15 AM
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I never assume so but I go with the hopes that i'll be pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:35 AM
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I played football and baseball but my dad didnt approve of soccer because "soccer gay". I think that might be a average boomer guy take in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:29 AM
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Men (and you) aren't being fooled, you simply lack the insight and nuance to the information. I could explain to you the complexities, but if your only understanding is axioms like "Men peak at 37" and "Women like older men." without understanding them deeper you will never truly have the wisdom. You are just a simple guy and thats okay, socializing will give men more opportunities to date women. But its a oversimplification to the prescriptive information. What is strange is that you're in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:24 AM
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Very surface level take. You ought not to project what you want on to others. That would be like Jordan Peterson giving advice on how to get married at a PUA event. Or the fresh and fit guys showing guys how to use Seeking Arrangements to find a wife. Pick Up Artists, regardless to what they are doing in their individual lives are teaching Pick Up. It doesn't invalidate the advice to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:09 AM
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When you dont have to work to get something, it isn't as valuable to you. If you throw out your validation and approval freely, its not as meaningful to people than it would have been to earn it. I feel like this is the crux to the "bad boy" phenomenon, sure women are attracted to guys who can be like that but what they crave is the inevitable approval of the guy who wouldnt give it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:03 AM
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You can take a deal knowing its not the optimal choice. They are giving advice to men working with little to nothing to even get their feet in the door. The problem with advocating for marriage to men is that in pursuit of it without the knowledge is setting yourself up for failure. No matter what there is a cost to dealing with women, I don't see its hypocritical to settle down on the investment you made into one. They've gained the experience over time and chose a path with the insight to cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:55 AM
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I love those mexican places with unlimited free margaritas
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:33 AM
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Women like sex for sure. But because its more of a reactive sexuality, certain conditions must be met to activate it. You can take the perspective that they are just leveraging it to get what they want, but its primarily a subconscious thing. This is how they evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:13 AM
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Well typically the RP advice would be to not care. But if you actually give a fuck, then it would be to date strategically. Like dont just hit on every girl, but the right one that you can see a future with and help her realize that vision too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:07 AM
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Like 3 girls at one time? My max was a threesome at two girls. I have definetly hooked up with over 3 girls within a month though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:04 AM
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No because its not conducive to what makes women attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:49 AM
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I mostly agree but the crux is that bad experience can be irreversibly crippling. I know guys that were so broken by women they completely tapped out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:48 AM
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The part that sucks is that youre just sex accessory to them. Its very easy to catch feelings and knowing that you're not good enough to be more than that sucks. ​ Nothing against them, I just would prefer to do it with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:45 AM
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I been in that situation with way more than 3 women. The part that sucks isnt the sex, its the emptyness of the transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:42 AM
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Men obviously care about what women are doing but they romanticize virtually everything. Whether its a waiter, executive, teacher, doctor, small business owner etc. Sounds like a major projection on your part because its the reverse thats more true. Women are the one's with standards like that. Men don't think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:14 AM
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The only contention I have with the Alpha widowed concept is that it's not really about the Alpha, its about the emotional and sexual stimulus they've grown accustomed to. If you give them an even more capable alpha, this effect doesn't happen. They will trade up like the other didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:37 PM
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You're on point here but it's not necessarily better you just have better odds being average to find someone who satisfies you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:22 PM
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My professional mistake is that I always use my best leads first and secure really good deals in the beginning and then I have to chase really high expectations. It looks like I'm slacking off when really I just exhausted my options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:19 PM
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The fuck buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:52 AM
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I was that guy but I refuse to be that guy anymore. It's not wrong, but it can suck sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:48 AM
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I have perfect boyfriend syndrome so I overplease and end up either exploited or betrayed by women who dont give as many fucks as i do. Its not necessarily their fault I put them on a pedestal. Its not like I am entitled to having that reciprocated. I never lose anything I didnt want to give freely. I deserve nothing anymore because I finally ran out of fucks to give too. But it would have been nice to have found a solid person before it got to that point. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:44 AM
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I wasnt making that distinction either. But really to each their own, people should do whatever they want really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:27 AM
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I'm not one to judge but I do know countless men who regret chasing women instead of working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:14 AM
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Women arent that complicated bro all they want to do is have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:03 AM
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let me guess, she's pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:58 AM
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speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:55 AM
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It's not necessarily odd because most guys are that dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:55 AM
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Yeah a few times. Typically I wasn't into it because the fact that the chick was into me despite being in a relationship turned me off. It's actually kind of sad in a way to see it. Having it happen a few time definitely contributed into resonating with RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:55 PM
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Agreed, that is what the implication of increasing his chances would look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:15 AM
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You seem to have misunderstood. This isn't about getting any partner. This is about not focusing on the broad market and focusing on what the individual can control. All he can really do is increase the chances of running into a girl that is properly compatible. This isnt about hooking up with anyone, its about finding THE one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:18 AM
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My friend became a passable trap and now she gets more hoes than me. It's like upside world these days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:05 AM
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You only have to get lucky once. Yeah the odds are shit for you right now but there is a match out there, all you have to do is increase the chances of meeting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:02 AM
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So because a few people on reddit have unreliable conclusions, no one should have them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:55 PM
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Everything is subjective to human perception, if making any statement was limited to objective truths humans could not make any conclusions on absolutely anything. I think you think you're being constructive but its literally the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:10 PM
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Its difficult for you. Perhaps you arent capable of having informed opinions or speculations but that doesnt mean others arent. By your logic, you can invalidate just about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:53 PM
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"The bar is on the floor" means that men aren't a useful as they used to be. For some weird reason, they actually want to be loved. They are that stupid to think that women actually like men for anything beyond what men do for them. Now they are just doing the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:42 PM
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How do you guys have reddit drama if this is all anonymous? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:40 PM
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A woman being in those circumstances wouldnt turn me off but I am a man after all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:37 PM
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I'm sure alot of people here are better than they think but the inferiority complex is high for men, and the victomhood complex is high for women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:36 PM
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"Lets never come to conclusions about anything because defining things are toxic"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:34 PM
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Yes, I'm a mod on a few subs and its connected to my personal life and work. I pretend to be a clueless aloof man in person so I needed to make this alt to have these discussions. I also had a TRP alt with lots of Karma, but it was banned for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:07 PM
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I don't think its pointless because women here will truly expose how they think if you let them talk. They will inadvertently red pill you if you give them the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:01 PM
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Oh lol, well same difference. She's just scanning to settle for some temporary dick. Not much thought into it beyond that. If you wont give it to her its only a matter of time before someone else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:11 AM
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It's summer time, bitches are in heat. She's seeing what dick is on tap right now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:33 AM
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about tree fiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:29 AM
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People who desire stable attachments in a dating scene thats increasingly unstable. This is the universal one for both men and women. Women with unfettered hypergamy, and phantom men that can vanish as soon as they got their sexual release. Social atomization is the direct cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:58 AM
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It's the frequency that builds rapport, you get really close to people on airplanes but being together alot builds that emotional tension. Potato potato but I think its a important distinction for the people's to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:53 AM
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I think propinquity is a better word although they have similar meanings. This one is more about the higher exposure you have to others, like school or a group, or cultural scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:44 AM
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Are there any guys here who fell in love with women who are not good looking? Like maybe below average or just average. Sure, when I was convinced they cared about me and we enjoyed time spent together. My next question is, are men BS'ing me when they say I'm "too out of their league" for them to pursue me? No, women come with expectations. The prettier they are the more expectations they come with. You could take that as a compliment. You seem to be expensive time and effort wise. I saw a comme…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:36 AM
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I agree with you on many of these points and will admit that its frustrating for sure watching people be willfully ignorant and absoulutely naive. However, its not a exclusive phenomenon to PPD for people to invalidate a truth to live a life that is more conducive to their values. Because more people are focused on outcomes of perspectives, they would rather believe a lie than to live with insights that would deter them from the outcomes they want. Most people will reject the reality if it affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:24 PM
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Even shorter women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:25 PM
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So you think most LGBT people support being weird with children? No. You keep conflating LGBT with sexual attraction to children. By banning those types of teachers from the education system, which you seem to have a problem with. Youre jumping around on your points be consistent. By banning LGBT teachers or by banning inappropriate teaching. To different things to set a non sexual/interrelationship mandate and to target specific creepy teachers as we already do with the straight pedophiles in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:00 PM
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Cheesesteaks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:53 AM
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Crack cocaine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:15 AM
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And this is why we are stuck here, men fold so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:15 AM
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What is white pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:13 AM
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C: be a 10/10 no partner and 10 money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:13 AM
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This is just proving my point. So because people think it's weird for teachers to talk to little kids about sexuality, they’re bigots No. You just don't seem to care about the outcome of what will come from banning it. The less LGBT is normalized the more active pushback will go against it. The sooner we get people to accept it the sooner it won't be necessary to have all of these measures in schools, media, etc. people would much rather be called bigots than let you give their four-year-olds fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:07 AM
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I think most men are too simple minded to stop trying. The evolutionary mechanism and sociological conditioning makes them try, get better, than try again. Some might form mental adaptations towards not desiring women at all. And some will go to hate but those will be obscure variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:49 PM
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It depends on how you spent the time single. Relationships can warp your brain negatively just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:39 PM
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The point wasn't to objectify them as a car, but as a metaphor in how it's unattainable or unfeasible for someone with very little worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:31 PM
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I have 4 pairs of black jeans and over a dozen black shirts of various bands and that is pretty much my wardrobe if I'm not wearing a suit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:42 PM
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Thank you for the summary. Perhaps I can help you understand with an anecdote. My family, and many others aren't particularly rational people. They are anti LGBT and very vocal with me about it since before I even knew what sex was. Along with this there are many radical and nonsensical views they tried to influence me with. What saved my life from being just like them, was school. I was able to flourish in that environment and was exposed to all sorts of better influences on my life, including …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 06:35 PM
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While I agree with you to a degree this situation isn't a great example. No one is entitled to anyone's help, I think guys are more likely to help people out but I wouldn't say it makes them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:25 AM
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Except we don’t have a long drawn out arguments about how awful those predators are. We’re having long drawn out arguments about not being degenerates around kids because people are being called bigots for calling out that behavior. Sure you can call out individual things that personally bother you but to lambast the entire movement is a stretch. A better equivalent is a kids company advertsing heteronormative, which U would find equally weird and repulsive, as if we’re back in the 2000s with bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:15 AM
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When people get called lgbt-phobic because they think its gross to talk to little kids about sexuality, This is much more complex than you're giving this issue credit for, but to conflate pride month with a few radical individuals is flawed logic. Should we be against every group of people because they have some creeps towards kids? There a straight people who talk to kids about being boyfriend's and girlfriends? Do I think it right to talk to kids about sexuality? No. But the intention is to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:00 PM
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She still makes videos regularly https://youtube.com/channel/UCmogo0ADz7ffqGYm6EgCBbg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:12 AM
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I wouldn't even have sex with a woman if I couldn't picture her as the mother of my child. Although I too am a child free man, that's just a backup strategy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 06:03 AM
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Being submissive is a preference, not wanting someone submissive is a preference, Yes thinking all bisexual men are submissive is a weird thing to think That's where you misunderstood, it means the women couldn't picture herself being sexually submissive to bisexual men. It triggers a ick aspect, no different than the ick aspect straight men feel for the idea. It's not their preference. If you're disgusted with the idea of having sex with a gay man and you're a straight man, that is not homophob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:59 AM
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If only men thought more like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:19 AM
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There is a difference between something not being a turn on and being actually disgusted by the same act with another gender. Well in the context here, they aren't disgusted with the man but the idea of being sexually submissive to that man. Would I be homophobic if I'm not disgusted with a gay man's choices but the idea of having sex with one? I'm also disgusted with the idea of having sex with my family but doesn't indicate prejudice against them. You can correct me if I'm wrong but I believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:48 AM
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I don't think it matters in that aspect because it's moreso that they associate men with filth. But I don't imagine telling most women that he did kinky stuff with other women is a turn on either. But the bisexuality thing for guys is a major turn off for many different things like masculinity, cheating, disgust, potential STDs, etc. I don't think it means women are homophobic, they are just sexually sensitive and it goes beyond just this. Even simple smells or wearing the wrong outfit or someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:21 AM
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Is it good though??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:38 AM
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Oh shit now I'm hyped. Gonna miss Baby Yoda though 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:52 AM
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Nothing wrong with how you choose to spend your time brother. Only a suggestion. At least enjoy yourself while you're doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:30 AM
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Are you for real or is that a rumor?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:28 AM
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The time you'll spend doing that would be much better spent focusing on your own accomplishments. Do you want to idolize Chad or become one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:26 AM
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Kinda meh for sure but there's nothing else good to see so I'm still watching. Mando was epic and I wish Disney didn't cut that so short
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:24 AM
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I don't have to be against the LGBT community to believe Pride month isn't really giving people pride. How would you know if it doesn't resonate with you though? That's like saying Martin Luther King day isn't really giving people more appreciation of Martin Luther King, if you don't care it doesn't affect you. But it does effect others even if you cant/refuse to observe it. Given that you're a straight guy yourself, I don't know how you hold any more "authority" to what is an acceptable opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:00 AM
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Aren't we all cousins in some way really lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:50 AM
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Good question, people find most guys disgusting, and most women wonderful I guess. if unpeeled yeah You see, I find that gross. You are just less inhibited than many of us lol. Thoughts are powerful things and it's especially so with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:49 AM
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Dude the same thing happened to me pretty much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:40 AM
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Confession time, in middle school a girl and I were dating only to find out she was my cousin when I brought her home to my Dad. We didn't know, but I'll admit something about it felt more right than any other girl I dated at the time. I don't know what it was but I suppose our genetic similarity had to do with the closeness we felt. Womp womp I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:39 AM
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If a guy put a condom on a banana and used it as a dildo, would you still wanna eat it afterwards? I might be asking the wrong person but it's kinda like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:35 AM
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What is with people overusing the word "Platitude" lately, a push for recognition and acceptance of LGBT isn't that. As a straight guy, I don't comprehend how it bothers people so much. Like why care? I don't even care about other straight couples only what I'm doing. The difference here is that straight people weren't marginalized, LGBT people are. If you can't see that every year they have been making strides to a better situation you don't have to, but it has been effective for them as things…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:33 AM
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I imagine the disgust comes from not wanting to suck a dick that's been in a man's butt. The same ick that comes to alot of guys knowing that a chick is a whore, it's not about them, but what filth men did with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:26 AM
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The reason isn't talked about as much because it gets conflated with mental illness, it is not. But it has much to do with a upbringing that leads to non nuerotypical adaptations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:19 AM
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Are you LBGT? How would you understand living a life of turmoil, and appreciate a time where society dedicates rituals to build your internal pride back up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:30 PM
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I'm an 8 until I actually open my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:16 PM
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Is it any less shallow than only wanting a person for resources and protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:10 PM
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I play this game called PokeMMO which slaps all the main games together and makes it a massive multi-player. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:09 PM
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He thought he was maxing on the hot to crazy matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:07 PM
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I think it's necessary as it does pushback on alot of the cultural shame and contempt towards LGBT people. Pride month is a time where they can gain some confidence about who they are in a world that still hates them for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:06 PM
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Luckily that can be fixed with enough effort. If the person wants it for themselves enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:42 PM
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If you're ugly you have more immediate problems to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:52 AM
1

sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 05:30 AM
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Purely anecdotal, but its pretty common for chicks to do at my college. Not saying everyone did it but its very normalized in the party scene
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:37 AM
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Would it count if the younger person was a teenager? I think they have the same implication since the overlap here are the features women coming into their prime years have. A lady once complained about fearing her husband will try to get with her babysitter because men are dogs. She happened to be 19 at that time. It wasnt because she was a teenager it was because she was young and hottish. You seem to be focused on the situation of your original statement so I would agree that bragging about h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:43 AM
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I'm just relaying information ive been told by women, take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:21 AM
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I have been told this by countless women, in person. Teenagers imply of legal age. Pedos are going after children, there's a distinction. Much of their disdain towards men that can pull younger women is fueled by that insecurity of faltering youth. If you don't understand that, then you're the mark that the shame tactic works on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:00 AM
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This is assuming interest in the case, the point is that social groups are neutral at best and can do just as much harm as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:50 AM
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It is a mature trait to not get swept up in crowds. The important part is why, did they value something greater or did they just not relate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:43 AM
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This isnt why men slut shame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:41 AM
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Perhaps there are issues beyond the ability to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:38 AM
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Women who have nothing to gain from you will gorge you on red pills if you listen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:37 AM
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You do know that is a valid insecurity many women do have right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:34 AM
2

i read that too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:32 AM
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I read something once that it was to signal to other males to compete more for that female. Since the scream both signals help and estrus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:31 AM
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"Victims, aren't we all?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:27 AM
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Men should be focused on being good enough to deserve it, not conform to social circles like a literal beta would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:24 AM
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Does being more socialized and not a completely awkward shut in help? Yes ​ Does being in a group of people provide a meaningful boost in performance with women? Not really. ​ Lone wolves get women too, sometimes its even better if you stand out from the crowd to appeal to women's nature of wanting the shiny new toy. Sometimes, being with a group increases a woman's chance for trading you in for another guy or cheating outright, then you lose both in the situation. I have been the best man and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:21 AM
2

I walked right into that one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:31 PM
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Gulpin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:27 PM
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Dumb people are typically the happiest believe it or not. The smart ones are essentially surrounded by children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:53 PM
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I would say Nurses get the most because the only times I've ever hit on women in a unwanted way was when they had me drugged up on operating tables. Apparently I was a savage and I see alot of guys doing that on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:49 PM
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A take I actually 100% agree with you on for once lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:31 PM
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I mean the post was deleted so it takes away most of the context. But can't you see their behavior that they never really liked the majority of guys to begin with? And now imagine, every woman is essentially forced to find a man just to have a basic standard of living. No matter how horrible or unattractive they were/became the woman had to stay with him or be ostracized by the community. This is a major overcorrection sure, but for hundreds of years they were literally second rate citizens that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:23 PM
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Have you ever tried picturing yourself in a woman's shoes even a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:07 PM
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I’m not sure what the problem is for men here that don’t want to step up their looks or jobs. Women have better options now. The disillusionment from figuring out this was what they were valued for over the lovey dovey lies they used to believe. The ones who haven't gotten with the program will adapt eventually, for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:32 AM
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You don't have to compete but don't complain if you aren't getting any results
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:14 AM
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Women want to be wanted, telling them to do this is like telling them to grow a dick and fuck guys with it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:11 PM
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Single woman is an oxymoron tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:13 AM
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I don't see the point in that, or even picture the average guy caring enough to do it. Although maybe there is a small subset of guys with the majority of the larping accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:06 AM
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Absolutely agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:56 PM
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Naive. At all ages women gravitate to the haves over the have nots
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:55 PM
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The moment I believe without doubt that our partnership is no longer based on our mutual wellbeing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:52 PM
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Human perception isn't capable of making such judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:50 PM
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1: I would make it legal today if I could. But it virtually is anyways, it's rarely enforced. Escort businesses operate pretty publicly. 2: its more risk for the sex worker. 3: While I agree with your last point, and understand how women leverage sex to harvest men's attention and resources for their benefit, it's always a choice for men to make that expense. If you don't a want to risk an escort, it's on the individual man to convince another autonomous person to to use their body for sexual pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:37 PM
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You're correct, this is the inherent power of religion, they outlive many of these contemporary cultural blips.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:03 PM
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Nothing in life comes with zero risk. Unless you're stupid about it, the chances of being caught are minimal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:26 PM
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Either put the effort in to appeal to a woman sexually or pay for it. Why is that so hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:01 PM
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a5GAYxnmzs Direct evidence that Mods are indeed Gay your honor
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:57 PM
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Werewolf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:18 AM
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C: Peace of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:17 AM
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E: Drug and Hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:16 AM
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Immediate stimulation and cadence to the interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:03 AM
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A man should do what makes him happy, because lord knows no one cares about men enough to do that for him. However, for most men, leaning into their masculinity will directly lead to accomplishments for himself that will have that effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:02 AM
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Humans: Complains about the state of the world and humanity Also humans: Wouldn't it be a great idea to put more people through this just because!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:49 PM
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2 million dollar net worth, obsession with her, and a insecurity over height to compensate for... Who's really getting the bargain here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:45 PM
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All my life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:40 PM
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If we aren't having sex at all I don't see a reason to be exclusive so maybe a few months?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:34 PM
1

Men are dogs and women are snakes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:26 PM
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Role reversal isn't popular, most women are looking for men more masculine than them regardless of their capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:04 PM
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Women dont need "real friends" they just need someone who will listen to them and validate their emotions. This "realness" is a man specific thing that women don't value as much as you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:01 PM
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I've traveled alot, and what I've noticed is that women are the same everywhere but there are environments that contain it. The only reason why American culture seems hyper volatile is the conditions, whereas in other countries there are less opportunities for women to fulfill that nature. It doesn't make them different, you'll just see it demonstrated less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:58 PM
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I prefer to not share this openly, let's just say there is a good reason most guys don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:52 PM
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You probably associate it with some horrible takes to the point where it triggers your cringe. Just the word "Female" does that for me after reading enough twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:33 PM
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Understanding women a bit too much to enjoy it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:28 PM
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As someone who had my fair share, I'm burned out. The blessing was the experice but the curse was what I have come to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:14 PM
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Either you're being deceptively ignorant or you're just naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:47 PM
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I pity the guys who don't get it. It's just a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:48 AM
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My man Trav!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:54 AM
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I understand it, unfortunately most guys project how they feel unto women. If men truly understood women, they'd want nothing to do with them so it's a necessary tradeoff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:32 AM
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Dumb dominant men with too much money and a obsession with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:31 AM
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It's not sad to me, I see it as smart. I've witnessed alot of women increase their lifestyle that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:29 AM
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I've had a few pregnancy scares but no. I don't even fuck without intense amount of due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:27 AM
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Well at leat you're logically consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:17 AM
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When your authentic self isn't attractive, and you have a desire to please that's a internal conflict. Also couldn't this logic be applicable to makeup? Why can't women be attractive instead of being fake? (I don't mean this, just a point) Anyways, masking is what many guys do. We appeal to people for approval. Everyone is conditioned to do this to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:08 AM
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Marriage is just the subscription plan lol /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:33 AM
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This seems fundamentally impossible because as feminine beings women want the men to desire them, not the other way around. That isn't just traditional, it's biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:21 AM
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Why would you come to a debate sub for insight? Go to r/TheRedPill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:13 AM
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Pregnayte?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:59 AM
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Women's coercion looks different, it's typically blackmail like "Have sex with me or I'll ruin your life" type stuff. It's actually happened to me as when I incessantly turned a girl down she falsely accused me of rape. It ruined my reputation for a little while but there were too many witnesses (men and women) so I was able to walk away from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:38 AM
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As a guy. Yes, exponentially. But it came at the expense of the female "mystique".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:33 AM
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I use bitches breast milk as my coffee creamer in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:22 AM
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Pregnate? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:20 AM
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One of the major issues I see with women's comments is that they lack a degree of self reflection beyond the surface level. It's always interesting to see but the value is that they inevitably tell on themselves only to prove TRP more. There are three kinds of women, the ones who are unapologetic about their nature, the ones who hide it, and the ones who don't even understand themselves. If you word anything TRP says in a more feminine based way they'll admit to it, it's only the cold analytical…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:13 AM
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It definitely has tradeoffs. Depends on if you value that over American Romanticism, which was a shortsighted culture that is dying out anyways. Whether it's better or not is subjective, but as a person who has dated in the Netherlands and Ireland, it seems more realistic to human nature. But there's a romantic idealism that's lost from my experience that was a major motivator for building those attachments, it was a more primal transaction. If sex is your priority the culture is great though. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:04 AM
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I don't think this truism will last pretty long as we head into a more gynocentric society with men dropping out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:45 PM
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It's only unpopular if the man has the expectation if we are being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:07 AM
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You're a stronger man than me, I like to think I could do that but Itd bother me to assume the fool would actually walk off thinking they were right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:02 AM
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Looks aren't the priority but at least a 5. I don't have to approach randoms for sex so it's not a huge metric. I'm at least an 8. This is just me personally, but I imagine any woman over 6 will be approached eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:59 AM
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Women are not a monolith but they sure do act like it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:45 AM
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I don't even do this on purpose. Sometimes I'm really just aloof because once I see flaws in their logic, I just lose all fucks to give about what they say. But what I like to do is use their logic against them and watch them mentally tear themselves apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:33 AM
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Not necessarily better but you'll start to care less over time if that helps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:27 AM
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Oldest trick in the book. Issue is most guys will fold after one girl and get addicted to her. You'd have to be somewhat sociopathic not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:17 AM
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I don't approach any more but it's isn't based on immediate attractiveness, it's moreso a fascination of nothing that indicates incompatibility. I've dated dozens of women so I can instantly recognize types, mentally virtualize a relationship with them, and speculate exactly how it will end. However, what would make me so interested to approach is if I couldn't do that, as in she'd be so different I would be wondering if she's an Alien or robot or something to which it'd be like "I need to figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:09 AM
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Less stability relationship wise is my speculation. Women will certainly still have sex with those men and bare children, but women definitely aren't going to stick to men they don't respect for the long term on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:54 AM
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Not much to do with what I said but of course. That's not really the correlations guys recognize, personalities can definitely very but the actions based on instincts are pretty universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:50 AM
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How long will a guy sustain the fame tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:48 AM
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*Mental adaptation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:39 PM
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You're preaching to the choir lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:38 PM
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You are correct, it's all within the subconscious though. This can also have negative effects depending on the mother to less nuerotypical mental adaptations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:37 PM
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Men value attention or "fame" less on average. I don't think most of them even want to put up dealing with fucking alot of women, most could do with just one that they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:16 PM
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They don't vary much in instincts though which is what RP men is typically referring to. There are women who unapologetically accept them, lie about it, or truly aren't introspective enough to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:13 PM
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Duh. To play devils advocate, people who are socially anxious typically have something to be anxious about. As in, they've tried but failed for something out of their control. There is a shortcoming that they've come to realize after recognizing where things go wrong, the anxiety is a trauma trigger, which of course adds to the negative chances. This also somewhat assumes a just world, when in reality talking to some women will add further to their anxiety. I've never been this guy before but so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:09 PM
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It's a very simple thing I don't know how many ways we can explain it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:41 AM
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They have deprioritized it for other things in life. The point is that men have the capability of doing that on a conscious and even instinctual level. If you can understand why a MGTOW might, it shouldn't be hard to see that because it's possible, there are other reasons that leads to the same outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:39 AM
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Platitudes Have you ever achieved anything in life for yourself? Because it doesn't sound like you have if having other priorities sounds unreasonable. If you go your whole life without sex, but wanted to have sex you are a sexual failure. No one cares outside of the individuals who think of themselves that way. Are preteens sexual failures for never having sex yet? Why would anyone else be. If you consciously decide “sex isn’t something I want or desire to have” that’s one thing. If you aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:30 AM
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The fact that if men do not beat off for long enough they teeter on the verge of violence doesn’t tell you something about the nature of the male sex drive? Men's capacity for violence is alot more complex than not getting enough pussy. There is such a thing as “skin hunger” and all sorts of subtle effects from leading a sexless existence for so long. This is a just a temporary feeling Jesus. Why are people acting like mens need for sex is some big mystery all of a sudden? Because you think it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:22 AM
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Why would you need to ask this question if you're capable of seeing cognitive reasons to absolve from sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:18 AM
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I just can’t jump through the hoops anymore for a lifetime of shit tests and passive aggression. If you're capable of seeing this you're capable of seeing that there are reasons beyond the immediate gratification why a guy might choose not to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:12 AM
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Ok so you are coming with the “people are people” cop out / catch all argument in regards to sex, as if men and women don’t experience sexuality and sex drives very differently. The sex drives are different. But masturbation is universal. Women don’t experience sexual frustration with near the ferocity and all encompassing physiological effects that men do. Sure but both sexes still masturbate. Comparing men and womens horniness is laughable tbh. You are misinterpreting the point she made which …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:04 AM
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I think it would be possible because I know people who are asexual and asocial, they don't value intimacy and they never have as much to reach that point, even when the opportunity would be certain of "success". Can you fail at something you've never bothered with? There is no such thing as a sexual failure, thats such an odd term. The only fail is that of finding another individual with the proper chemistry and environment, that's not completely in control of the individual. You can buy a milli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:58 AM
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So is your claim that men do not have far higher and proactive sex drives than women? No. That men do not think about sex very very frequently whether they partake in it or not? Not as frequently as you on average. How is it relevant that men choose to not go out and actually do the fucking? We are explaining to you how and why men choose not to. That's what this entire post is about. Masturbation is one way people including both men and women, stave off immediate urges. This should be common se…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:47 AM
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This is a super one dimensional way of viewing things and navigating through life. We aren't monkeys, I don't do everything I feel like doing just because I have the immediate urge. I might feel like punching a guy from time to time but I'm capable of better judgment. I might want to try doing meth because it feels good but I'm capable of seeing the risks and long term costs. And just the same, when my friend's mom, or sketchy slut, or just any girl that gives me attention offers me sex, just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:39 AM
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I think this is a major contributor indeed. Alot of it is conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:25 AM
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As a man, you're being solipsistic. You're projecting the way you think onto all men which is why you can't comprehend why a subset of men aren't like this. Men can definitely deprioritize sex. The men in relationships and marriages who don't cheat despite temptations is the primary proof that despite urges, they can value something beyond immediate gratification. We aren't just instinctual animals, we have conscious priorities and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:21 AM
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I wonder if relationships and sex are a form of self medication It is. It's literally just a stimulus that you're addicted to. I look at it like any other drug. Cocaine feels great, but it impacts more things in life than that immediate gratification. I used to be like you, sex and relationships was a vice, not that anything is wrong with having them. But it had more of a control on me than I liked. It's not necessarily burnout, but at some point it became a low priority for me because I had muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:09 AM
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Yes but not because I'm so great, I'm just a fuckable rebound friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:54 AM
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That's not resentment unless you completely changed your attitude and dynamic of the relationship, that's on you for creating an illusion you shattered without consent. If a woman's attracted to dominate guys and you get her addicted to that frame only to turn around and ask her to peg you and be submissive, of course that would be upsetting. The stimulus that got her in is now gone. It's typically out of a loss for respect, in which if she loses that for you she isn't particularly going to be m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:36 PM
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ONS: You have sex for one night with person you aren't familiar with FWB: You're friends but at the absence of emotional intimacy there is a sexual component. Relationship: A commitment to each others emotional and sexual wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:27 PM
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What are you asking for in particular? The mainstream narrative of people not having a choice or born that way would be a oversimplification at best. The Red Pill (The forbidden truth) would be that they developed those mental adaptations due to something in their development affecting their subconscious. Whether it's a good or bad thing is a personal opinion, but within the context of relationships it would be meaningless to delve too much into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:22 PM
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Typically they need a man that is more masculine than them but of course there are outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:03 PM
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Because women have a higher standard on average, they just care about it more. The issue is that they want men to value it as much as they do, on average that won't be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:01 PM
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It's not a overtly conscious action or "strategy" for men to do, but they have a natural inclination to keep a distance from women they ought not to be with. This isn't to be misinterpreted with completely absolving themselves with any form of social interaction, its simply having a level of boundaries between getting too close.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:27 PM
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This is a major contributor yes, but it's a major oversimplification of the increasing costs and risks. The reward isn't worth it for many
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:28 AM
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You underestimate how much the average person backward rationalize's their interests and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:09 AM
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The one crucial factor this misses is that the majority of men get addicted to women easily, their sexuality makes their decision making in this regard less rational. Even if guys go in with lower value women with no intentions of a long term bond, typically men are hooked the minute they first have sex. Her being lower value only increases the feasibility of sustaining that relationship with them which is why men primarily date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:12 PM
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It's not about the age inherently, it's that by then men are matured physically, mentally , and financially to make relationships more feasible. This also period in which women are more serious about securing their future so the factors are more likely to allign.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:03 PM
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What I would tell men is to get a proper understanding of women to be able to recognize situations and predict outcomes, then they as a individual can gauge the risks of the circumstances they put themselves into. Work on yourself, don't listen to what they say watch what they do, and let women earn your trust. The issue with women is often different because the majority of their issues is that they felt denied of something that was never promised. I don't want to call it entitlement but they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:57 PM
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Men can't control who they are attracted to instinctually just like women can't control the "ick" that shuts them down. What men do usually do is limit their exposure to women until they meet one that is feasible to date. That's their version of "choosing" I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:45 PM
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The primary underestimation here is that the feminine forse creates illusions that most men cannot comprehend until it's too late. No one warns men about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:15 AM
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There are upsides. But on a societal level it leads to regressions. These are just numbers going down on a chart to me, whether society thrives or dies, I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:39 PM
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You keep thinking I want women to become housewives, to reiterate i do not care what women do, they will do what they want regardless. I objectivly analyzed the consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:10 PM
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No, you assumed I was projecting in order to be mean and insulting. You have no basis for claiming I’m projecting, since you don’t know me. You're assuming my intention. I don't know you so why would I care to insult you. If you took offense I apologize, this is a objective discussion not personal. You made a blanket statement, and your anecdote about your choices and further opinions indicated that you personally don't care. From my perspective that's a projection. But if you do care, doesn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:55 AM
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Love is built on top of the underlying biological transaction. It's the byproduct of it, not the root.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:02 AM
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There was a time when women were judged on their feminine capability to keep a man. But truly we are in a time were it's wrong to judge a woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:00 AM
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Nice try to insult me personally, Not a personal insult, just acknowledging that you made a projection on the populace when most people have a degree of care about society. Look it up. It’s called the tragedy of the commons. I'm very familiar with this as I majored in economics, this phenomenon applies to markets and doesn't invalidate decisions they make in accordance of society. Otherwise, we'd have no public servants, military, and live in complete chaos without civility if people made all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:50 AM
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Is it not common sense that most women have a higher standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:50 PM
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Nobody gives a shit about society feedback loops when it comes to their own lives. You're projecting that on everyone else because you don't. If I hadn’t gone to college or entered the labor market, I’d have been mooching off my parents for all of my 20s like a complete loser. I didn’t have any men lining up to marry me when I was 18, so what exactly was the alternative? I'm not telling you what to do. I'm only making an observation of the situation. You were going to do whatever you wanted rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:46 PM
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That's subjective, some women are slobs and some men (like my dad) are germaphobe OCD neat freaks. It's just that women on average deviate higher and men lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:33 PM
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Sure men can do those things, but they dont value it to do it as often as a women needs to feel comfortable. Sure they'll vacuum but they don't see a need to do it everyday, Sure they'll wash dishes but they don't see the need to do it immediately, Sure they'll take out the trash but they think it could wait until the morning. Not saying either side is wrong or right, but this appears to be the underlying issue with the housework friction. Differing standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:09 PM
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You're right, I think romanticism blinds us to the underlying transaction of which attracts us to one another. And many women don't realize (or care) that their introduction to the labor market creates a feedback loop which perpetuates the issues for the family unit. It's sad because we fundamentally rely on them to see these sociological implications and take agency, like men do, but they don't have to care to get what they want for immediate gratification. We will be stuck in this regression u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:05 PM
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Women have a higher standard than men on average, so it's not asking the husband to do half, but MORE of what he would have done alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:13 PM
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Goodbye everyone, nice chatting. I've come to the understanding that I have been subconsciously using RP/MGTOW to cope with deep seated trauma from women my entire life, and my brain has adopted these narratives as a mechanism to avoid being vulnerable. It's a natural process so I don't blame myself, but I've decided to spend my time working on my mental health. Have a good one folks, hoping you guys have a future of spicy threads. Peace out. ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:55 PM
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I guess this explains alot about incel motivations. I wondered why would they want less experienced women if they ate more likely to be prude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:59 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:30 AM
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Do you also tell this to women who are going through dating issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:50 PM
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Would you not be bitter if you were them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:11 PM
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Did this and it's paying off. The interesting thing about people is that they only want to be around you when you're doing well, they don't care when you aren't. So I never lost the people, it only exposed them to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:04 PM
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Men don't care if you hate them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:05 AM
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It's not an act, why would I be interested in someone using me? Beyond resources. I don't like those people. It only happens that women's dating nature is to derive benefits. I can definitely appreciate them as a person from afar, but I want nothing to do with them directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:18 PM
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I know men like that, I dislike them just as much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:16 PM
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Women do play stupid alot. I find it funny when it's funny. I don't find it funny when it's clearly to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:30 PM
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How would you know if it's not socially acceptable to complain as a man? There's a reason why that's your perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:25 PM
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You'd be amazed how many incompetent women there are. "Women are children" is a saying for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:23 PM
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I don't want them. I have no effort to give to them especially if I don't know them. A pretty face is essentially meaningless. Perhaps I made this seem like a problem, it is not. This is strictly intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:08 PM
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When women contact me about bill payments, wanting to go to expensive restaurants, asking me about my employment, and literally about money, that's inquiring about my resources. It's not only this but needs they expect me to fulfill. You are a woman, dating is much different for you than men. Some women contact me strictly for sex and I wish it were as shallow as that than mind games to manipulate. And even so, I wish they were better manipulators than the low effort inquiries I receive. Either …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:57 PM
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I'm talking about you, not the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:52 PM
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For me, having been accused of that multiple times out of malice by women I loved and trusted, I have decided to be averse to friendships with women. It's different when a person's inaction or lack of empathy hurts you, but women have tried to directly hurt me using this tactic. It's something that as a man, I have no personal control over. So I decided to remove myself from such risks. This leaves me in a state of dating that is passive, when, as a guy, I'm expected to be the active participant…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:16 AM
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Women are opportunistic everywhere, going overseas is just dating down. Bringing them back "westernizes" them, meaning they have a better pool of men now and they essentially become the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:20 AM
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It's no coincidence that these points are at the detriment of men and for the interest of women. Guy is selling a book, women are the primary consumers of books. These are warped perspective to appeal to his target demographic and make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:16 AM
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The sum of her comment was "Whaa, I sometimes arent freely given the things I feel entitled to. Whaa"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:14 AM
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They will never get it because they think they are passively entitled to be loved. Imagine feeling like you have no agency over your actions as you wait until someone is willing to love you. Instead of getting a job, they pan handle intimacy donations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:08 AM
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The level of entitlements you expect to have as a woman only proves OPs point more. Women live in a themepark and cry when they have to wait in line for a Rollercoaster. Men live in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:58 AM
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Oh no, sexism? How tragic, if only men can understand being judged based on their gender. Oh wait they do, and it's worst. The women are wonderful effect doesn't translate to guys, it's the men awful unless he provides value. Oh no, periods? Pain with management of tampons. If only men could understand what pain is like. Oh wait, men are more likely to experience violence towards them. Real pain, not a tummy ache. Oh no, men who want to have sex with us. If only men could understand the tragedy …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:52 AM
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Understated. Women say "but X guy never complains and he has a wonderful life." No honey, he's suffering like the rest of us, but we are conditioned to not acknowledge how bad things really are for us. If he did you wouldn't be talking to X guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:45 AM
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Like most things they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:32 AM
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Damn, can women do ANYTHING right? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:29 AM
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Not the oldest I've seen, that was just my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:49 AM
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When I was in college many many chick's were dating way older successful guys. One of my FWB stopped dating me for a Wallstreet dude in his early 30s. Those relationships seemed very shallow though, the exchange was pretty clear and it didn't seem very romantic, borderline sugerbabies they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:46 PM
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"Just be rich and famous bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:42 PM
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I wonder if I said "non combative" how you would hamster that into a bad thing too because a guy said it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:40 PM
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Do you think if he wasn't hot the chick's would be melting over him? Thats the point I was really making. Women can sexualize and fawn over anything a hot guy does. Even basic simple man stuff like keeping a tidy home and making a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:38 PM
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He was probably just peacocking for the chick's, I would've spent the next 2 hours treating him like a grandpa just to troll him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:42 PM
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This is what blackpillers mean by looks are everything. The bar is low for Chad's because women gravitate towards this minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:31 PM
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Or be a femboy. Dom chick's love them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:28 PM
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No. I dont advocate for having children in this world at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:28 PM
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I feel like the gamer dude dropped the ball here, who gives af what your boyfriend thinks. I can swim, golf, and 360 no scope scrubs in games.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:22 PM
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As a 6 foot dude, women literally begged me for that type of sex. It's not the only type of sex that women appreciate but there are definitely many women who want that dominant visceral types of experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:33 PM
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Yeah alot of PPD people who don't understand this are probably out of shape, low energy lame people. Women I've had sex with were addicts for passionate fucking that you see in porn. Idk if these people are sex repressed or what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:29 PM
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Perhaps "Cooperative" is a better term? I feel like many of these words can have that negative connotation if you have an adverse sensitivity to dominance in men. Everything can look controlling if you hold a perspective like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:22 PM
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Hey OP, you are just guaging immediate attractiveness but not considering other factors women value. Finances(money), Social skills(funny), commitment certainty(not a cheater), and most of all the actual desire to contribute these things consistently beyond her actions(dealing with her bitchyness). Women are willing to settle to reap these benefits until better opportunities arise, and even then they might not immediately sacrifice, they wait until the have the better guy secured(addicted to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:13 PM
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It truly is as simple as this, if their needs are met and they are satisfied, that's all that matters. Whether they are trad or swinging couple or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:56 PM
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You can be all of those things and dumb as a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:51 AM
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Not enough encouraging women go around to fuel desire. Plenty of FDS types though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:55 PM
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Women dont need IG to have simps, they just need to be reasonably attractive and pleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:54 PM
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160
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:52 PM
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What I can't wrap around my head is how have we reached the point where we can't be honest or even express basic common sense to men. No wonder we have so many incels/undersocialized men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:51 PM
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Yes actually. If she's using the internet or has a basic routine for necessities a guy is bound to notice her at some point. Will it be prince charming? Not likely, but men do approach less social women. Women wait until men take charge. Generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:49 PM
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Male ego is very powerful at overshadowing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:01 AM
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Indeed, the average out of girls I know are at least 1k+.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:55 AM
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Men less attractive than them are far more likely to develop a beta complex to maintain the connection, whereas men more attractive don't need them enough to put up with their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:50 AM
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Every older man I know is a complete dounce with women because they lack the knowledge that is more accessible in my age, I like this generation because I understand the landscape. If anything, I kinda want to skip the next financial crash and go straight into the advanced VR stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:44 AM
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I had this realization at 17, starting focusing on myself and now I'm rolling in dough at 25. My friends wasted all their time and money on women who are dropping them once better opportunities arise. They have nothing to show for it, and their girlfriends melt at my presence where I could take any one of them. But I don't, fortunately enough my desire for connection with them shut off once I understood them. The amount of things I was able to accomplish by living my life for me instead of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:29 AM
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Carrer wise,, You can take courses for Coding, data analytics, deep learning, copy writing, script writing, asset management (stock trading), network administration, QA testing, and many more. If you can't use your body, develop your brain. Your mind was always your greatest asset, just gotta hone it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:12 AM
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Good rule of thumb, this is how I always tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:57 AM
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Don't worry about it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:06 PM
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Yes, that's what an employee is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:25 PM
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I still know that women initiate and get left on read, like guys, because this isn't 1920n Yes, I have left a great deal of women on read myself. When you seek a job, do you list your standards? No! you go there and listen to what they offer you and make a decision. Who lists standards? employees or job applicants? employees do. You do realize you're making my point for me right? Although both sides have standards of desires in the exchange. Women are the employeers because the seek the active w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:38 PM
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It's an evolutionary trait of humans to recognize patterns of behavior and adapt to environments. We are animals too after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:30 PM
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Absolutely, there are alot of expectations on Men besides paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:29 PM
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You see that you're still expecting the MALE to be the active role, which makes the male the employee. The employee works, the employeer reaps the effort. The male/employee can decide who to work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:24 PM
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Although it could just be him using superficial words again instead of any other way of showing his friends he values them. This superficial words thing could be the only way he knows how to. Which again, is pretty annoying I suppose, but I doubt it's narcissism or malicious. This leads me to believe even more he's more Asocial than social.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:22 PM
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That's the thing about conditioning, it's the social illusion of "this is what people do". This is what you put into life, and that is what you get out of it. It's a false sense of security, kind of like agreeing to marriage on the assumption that you live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:10 PM
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Does he do this for other people? Because although it's reasonable to be unsatisfied with him, he could be on the asocial spectrum. People like that come off self centered or unthoughtful because they were never socialized to value those things in the first place. He quite literally might not even comprehend that you feel the way you do, or even what you value in the friendship. Especially if you've been negative lately, he might think you're like him and that you actually want him to engage les…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:59 PM
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You are only factoring in initiation when there are various factors women desire men to be active on. Even when women ask me out on dates, that doesn't mean they want to assume the active role on all/most aspects. Women are the employers because they want men that demonstrate behaviors to activate their attraction and comfortability. If men don't provide benefit in some way, they will cease to associate with them. See: Briffualts law.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:45 PM
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No, because an egalitarian society doesn't make incels more competitive against Chad's in the factors women value. Women always gravitate to their best options and that's beyond just finances. If anything, they have less opportunity to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:39 PM
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What would an improving dynamic look like in your case?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:34 PM
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Agreed. I was just acknowledging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:21 PM
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Just because women might initiate, it doesn't mean that their overall role isn't passive. Typically, their definition of "go for guys" is the feminine action of demonstrating subtle indicators of interest for men to take charge towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:20 PM
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I agree. Unfortunately, that's uncompetitive to other men acquiring for women. Men act in ways to increase their chances or fail. So they are essentially forced to take financial risks on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:17 PM
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Generally, women don't do that for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:10 PM
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Sure, but men have to invest time, effort, and resources into their options upfront. These things are fininite. Dating around forever and monkey branching is impractical because they have to lock in those expenses without knowledge of the outcome of those investments. Your chances of success decreases as failures compounds. Men with the values and interests OP has have a instinctual motive to pair bond early and go all in on one for the best chances. That's playing the market smart for trad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:08 PM
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Family sitcoms, life interactions telling boys this is what they are expected to do, current nuclear families that project an illusion of perfection, growing up in a two parent household. It will likely go away as the circumstances will not be enough to sustain the traditional illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:57 PM
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Foolish to expect concise truth, even if they didn't literally say "I don't have a boyfriend" it doesn't mean women won't make themselves available to be pursued in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:48 PM
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Women dont find most men attractive, or capable of sustaining a lifestyle they'd want for themselves and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:45 PM
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My experience has been fascinatingly horrible. I have the perfect boyfriend complex for women who haven't taken my relationships seriously. I'm not entitled to anything, and after my experience I came to the realization that I can put in my all but it whenever it's not enough the woman will leave. That can and likely will happen despite any circumstances. I have a more pragmatic passive approach now, it might never happen but my love for myself is enough for me. Whatever bonus from connections I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:41 PM
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My only challenge to all of this is that you only need to get lucky once. You can take steps to improve your chances (you already have to a great degree). However, at the end of the day it's a numbers game until you find someone with optimal compatibility and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:34 PM
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This never stopped a large margin of women doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:30 PM
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The blue pill conditioning from society. This is the disadvantage of lacking awareness of what life is really like vs Disney/traditional values instilled in men. They are stuck chasing an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:26 PM
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Both parties have competing options, but women have the luxury of active participants(men) whereas men have passive participants(women). At the end of the day, it's still the men as the active ones to lead the relationship to that level. Women are the selectors, they gravitate to their best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:22 PM
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Yeah, and it's understandable for teenagers to have this reaction with their first loves, but most people grow out of it and develop a nuanced trust-but-verify approach, and go on to have functional relationships. Could you go into more detail about the "trust but verify" approach and why it's more optimal? You said that's what most people do but it doesn't mean that it's a better when statistically relationships are breaking down. What exactly is the trusting and what is the verifying in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:42 AM
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Your partner was able to overcome that, so he's not addicted anymore. Any guy can make that decision when the outcome is greater for their individual happiness. But it's not on us to determine motivations for other people. If they want to quit, they will. If they aren't motivated enough, they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:06 AM
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I didn't tell you, I only asked what happened. From what information you provided, it can be deduced that you two are sexually incompatible. Not that porn is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:41 AM
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It sucks even more then, but his intention was to make it work but despite his efforts it wasn't in his nature. It doesn't make either of you bad. It's just a failed relationship. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:23 AM
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Well I have actually, she absolutely had an addiction and I chose not to pursue her anymore due to that incompatiblilty. I didn't want to degrade her because it didn't make me happy and fulfilled. I didn't want to share her with other men either. And that's okay. She can find that satisfaction elsewhere and we remain friends. That's the healthy way to go about the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:20 AM
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Clearly you two were just sexually incompatible then, he tried to make it work but it's not your fault that he is that way. He just is. The existence of porn doesn't change that. If he didn't have porn he would likely only cheat more if he needed outside gratification. You're using it as a scapegoat when it wouldn't have worked regardless. I'm sorry for what happened but it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:11 AM
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So they shouldnt have that stimulation because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:04 AM
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When he opened up, what did he tell you? It's a classical response because it's common, women would rather demonize other outlets instead of actively make changes that trigger sexual response. If he just wasn't feeling you, well there are things you could do to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:00 AM
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What did you do to make your partner more satisfied in the bedroom? Perhaps you were just sexually incompatible. He could have gotten something from porn that you weren't fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:52 PM
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The definition of addiction is when you're dependent on the stimulus to which you can't function. I don't see porn doing that to people where they can't do anything else but watch porn. I'm just seeing personal shame towards it projected onto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:46 PM
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I feel that porn should be perma banned Why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 11:41 PM
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I think it's less about the cost and more about the precedent it sets. 20-30$ isn't alot of money, and to the people who it is alot for, they have much more to worry about than dating. This draws back to feminism and the entire women's equality push. They want to be equal or modern women, but they still expect traditionalist relationships. Men lose both ways, they have less jobs out of the pool and still are expected to give the money that they do earn back to women. It creates a senerio that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:42 PM
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Well it doesn't help if they are insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:51 AM
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That's what usually gets guys so addicted that they wanna lock it down lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:38 AM
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I think it's less about facts and more about frameworks they WANT to believe. Black and red is too bleak, Blue is safe and sweet. Until the house of cards come falling down. They literally cant handle the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:52 PM
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I think after a few bad situations people stop caring to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:42 AM
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Then don't put your kid or kids in private school Why do parents send kids to private school anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:20 AM
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Unless they know how to push your buttons just right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:41 AM
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I agree. It's devastating to your emotional health and leaves you bitter. As a guy too. You just become broken. And random strangers past 30 aren't looking to fix anyone, just looking to spend the fruits of their labor. You basically become incompatible with the majority people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:17 AM
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No money no honey
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:04 PM
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your experiences with the other gender limited to someone that looks like you, come from a similar culture/ethnic background? I have a history with women from many different cultures and backgrounds. And what exactly does that person look like? Pretty? Or do you not have a personal preference and you are into anyone that society considers beautiful? I don't have a preference, but certain women like me in particular over others. Some are easier to relate to and that forges the bond easier. do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:03 PM
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You know those videos where cute animals are doing tricks like shaking hands, howling a tune, or human like activities, there's this "Aww" effect because it's cute. But if a human is doing it there is zero interest because who cares. That's the essential difference. Everything women do is wonderful to men because they are women. There's no exclusive trait about women outside of sexuality that sets them apart from men that is incredibly notable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:03 AM
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I've dated around and I find appreciation in all of them. But I was always fascinated with intellectuals or women more mature than myself. I crushed on alot of my professors pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:37 AM
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Wait why are you cutting her off? You wouldn't consider riding it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:37 AM
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Imperialism? I do feel like half of the issues in the world could be easily solved through making communication more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:13 AM
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Great question, I don't know. My lesbian friends seem to be far less sexual in general and very attached. I would assume they don't cheat nearly as much because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:54 AM
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No way, if PPD people are novice that puts the average person at mentally disabled lol. You can actually incite some good conversations here without it getting full blown violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:51 AM
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Not to brag or anything, but I scored a perfect 800 on my Logic and Critical thinking assessment. Apparently I'm an Expert at thonk Spelling however...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:34 AM
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I'm pro common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:05 AM
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Because there are men who want to sleep with them, cheating women allow the flirtation to develop into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:01 AM
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Shh, men aren't supposed to know that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:53 PM
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There are many threads proposing that women should approach and chase men but what they fail to realize is that women's attraction is activated by attractive men paying attention to THEM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 10:32 PM
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Then how will they compete with other thots? Thots aren't actively competing, they are accepting the best opportunities given. Women are liabilities because they typically don't provide, only drain in resources. Men determine which one is best to expend time and resources on by who they can afford to keep happy. Which is why they aim downwards so that they have a better chance to sustain a relationship. Do really think that a guy with a with a fattie will feel happy if he sees another guy with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:26 PM
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You can interpret someone's intentions, but to automatically assume the worst from the people whose actions up until that point were out of love is a really nonsensical interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:55 PM
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You cannot observe intent, only actions. You are calling people manipulative because you assume they are self absorbed narcissists. Which is so backwards to impose that upon the very people who are loving others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:44 PM
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How do you make that distinction without the individual's input?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:29 PM
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How do you determine that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:14 PM
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You objectively cannot measure someone elses intent, that is a fact, not an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 08:11 PM
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The part I disagree with is that external people cannot determine what your intentions are internally. For example, I could assume that your arguments are in bad faith because you're a bitch, but I don't (: If I'm right to not assume that your intention is bad, then that means that love bombing is fundamentally peusdoscientific, "it's right when it is right and when it is wrong that doesn't matter" because it is only defined as such when an external force judges the inaction as manipulative inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:12 PM
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Because I can. Just like you can disagree with red pill concepts despite how established it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:43 PM
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r/NSFL__ Features content that glorifies murder r/Guro features content that sexualizes murder. You can also watch porn and be a feminist. What do you gain from this? Why debate on nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:34 PM
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I watched the video and I'm allowed to objectively disagree with the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:18 PM
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I know how you define love bombing, it's just a dumb concept for the reasons stated. If anyone is a narcissist, it's the people who use this term to justify how selfish they truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:12 PM
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How does this make any sense at all? it’s not a result of genuine feelings of love. They do believe they are genuine but that’s because their narcissistic patterns are genuine to who they are and how they act. You can't evaluate someone else's intentions, it's up to them to provide that information to you. You're operating on the assumption that people have malicious intention unconsciously. People from good families get swept away by narcissists because sometimes the love the N gives feels like…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:00 PM
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You do realize that men are looking for more in relationships than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:20 PM
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The establishment wants the left and right to fight while they profit off of our division
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:46 AM
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I don't doubt that. I'm not invalidating your perspective but I was only suggesting that you could be surprised by what your male friends might think of the situation if you asked them. I'm actually not debating your point, I was just making conversation about the topic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:38 AM
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I'm sure everyone has a certain degree of concern with both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:33 AM
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If a woman puts effort into her looks, why wouldn't she put effort into her personality as well? They don't have to. At least not nearly as much as men do. But this wasn't to say all thots are empty inside, there is just a correlation. I also draw comics, play golf, go on sex adventures, travel, I can sail, and at times I write funny poems. I'm not just another pretty face. And I'm not the only one. That's cool and I'm sure you're not the only one. He's not going to be happy about having a less …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:29 AM
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Glorifying and even sexualizing literal murder isn't promoting hate? But men speaking on why they choose to be single in this day and age is? Interesting logic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:46 AM
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Guy A gets a hot thot. Guy B gets Becky Bookworm. Do you think that guy B will be happy with what he got? Guy A probably will get tired of the thot once he gets off because he realizes how empty the thot is on the inside. Guy B can be happy as long as she treats him well, but he absolutely can be happy. Fattie that's willing to settle vs paying a hot thot. What's the better deal? Different strokes for different folks, guys aim down when looking for love, they pay a thot when they are looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:40 AM
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You're looking at it through your lens externally, similar to the barista in my anecdote, is biased in terms of what is truly equal. You should ask the men when they calculate deeds done for each other is it equal? Perhaps it will change your mind, perhaps it won't. But overall men are still the benefactors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:39 AM
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The bias is that you're treated as a woman by women. You should ask men how they are treated by women to better comprehend how little that solidarity crosses over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 06:20 AM
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From an average chubby girl? I don't think so. They can love a average chubby girl, especially since those women are more likely to pair bond since they lack the free flowing opportunity that the hottest women have. Men are looking to secure a mate, that's why if you're too hot men are less likely to approach. Because there is more associated risk. And who are the girls who are dating over 25? Plenty, don't let the "Wall" fool you. Men are still attracted to women beyond that age but they only g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:51 AM
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All you stated was that in other cultures men care a little less, which would naturally be the case in geographical areas where there is no where else to desert to. If two males and a female were stranded on a desert island, I don't think they would care much about the female fucking both of them since they all need each other to survive. Just because some cultures care less, that doesn't change biological motivations. Many men suggest not dating foreign women in other countries because when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:45 AM
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But how many guys are really looking for companionship? Most guys want that. And are leftover girls good company? They can be, but they are likely leftover for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:29 AM
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MGTOW and MGTOW2 was just banned completely. Meanwhile here's some great non banned subs r/NSFL__ r/Femaledatingstrategy r/guro r/incestconfessions r/drugscirclejerk r/heroin and more!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:59 AM
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How could you prove that it's not instinctual when women in other countries have lower hypergamous opportunity? When I visited the Netherlands and Ireland, girls who basically never been outside their little village bubbles took much interest in me regardless if they had a boyfriend or not. It doesn't appear to prove that they are attached because of their culture, it's that when populations are economically homogenous there's not much opportunity to demonstrate that instinct. From what I unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:28 AM
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Very compelling. Why are Americans more insecurely attached? In relation to class, we have a wide gamut of distribution between them. Could that be the relationship of why attachment is insecure? Since women have exposure to more wealth divisions here. In my city of Philadelphia upper middle class can be as low as a few hundred yards apart from lower class people. In other countries it seems more homogeneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:18 AM
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Can you site the line of argument for my monkey brain? research suggests that, within heterosexual couples, the average male is more likely to be upset by sexual infidelity, while the average female is much more likely to be bothered by emotional infidelity. The study, recently published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior, was based on a survey of 63,894 gay, lesbian, bisexual and heterosexual participants who visited msnbc.com back in 2007. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s105…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:55 AM
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They are different complexes yes, but in most heterosexuals they are dynamically correlated. The more you rise one, the other often follows, , and so is the case inversely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:50 AM
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It's just telling someone they are attractive without providing so much validation that it makes them perceive themselves as superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:48 AM
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Boring response but in general, no there's not much difference. Obviously there must be some different norms or the other across classes, but what might those be? The underlying order of dating is universal. The difference is the calculus of scale in terms of wealth or affluence. Are some classes more likely to be loyal than others, or assume exclusivity more quickly even if not formally stated, or have certain issues? As someone who has climbed the ladder, it's the same across classes. Women da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:45 AM
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Yeah both are great imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:17 AM
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They aren't in competition for the same things. Guys who are searching for companionship aren't looking for hookers to provide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:54 PM
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Californication is basically Bojack Horseman without the wacky bits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:48 PM
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Yeah obviously the guy is a sex addict but this is virtually no different than a woman texting other guys when you're with her, which is very common
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:34 PM
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I don't want to say it's wrong, but many women go down that route and never come back from it. Once that sexual framework of degrading kink is established the entire relationship becomes about that. And it can be somewhat sad because a lot of guys go into relationships looking for a companion but everything becomes about the dom-sub role play for those women. And when you keep pushing it further it can quickly go from slapping out of fetish to abuse. I met many cool girls that I would love to ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:33 PM
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You really need to grasp the fact that you are incredibly different than most women. Women don't treat men like girlfriends, they treat men like men. I feel like you are projecting how you are unto other women because women can treat you that way. At best they are apathetic towards men but it usually leans towards trash or "human doings" which is another phrase for slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:03 PM
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I can't do The Bachelor or the dating ones because they are so cringe but when I last visited my mom we binge watched Salem and that was a guilty pleasure lol. I think I'll give it a go then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:08 PM
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Is A Handmaids Tale any good? A few girls have asked if I have seen it and I thought it was more of a covert dig at me "oh I bet you watch girly shows instead of football" . But now people are mentioning it more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:00 PM
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Like fine wine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:41 PM
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Human beings didn't evolve to be "hyper dominant." We exist within a fluctuating dominance hierarchy, and I made the claim that men are actively transcending the behavioral manifestations of that. Meaning we are indeed cooperating more instead of killing people who are different or smacking women across the face when they shittest. I wouldn't agree that it's extreme because we are still incredibly inefficient at cooperation due to our individual desires. See 'The Tragedy of commons'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:25 PM
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I do believe this is all a product of evolution, but I wonder if we are capable of further evolving as enlightenment comes into play. I see many men fighting against their nature of hyper dominance, and many women fighting against their instinct of being drawn to assholes/players. Many of us still fall prey to it but I noticed that people are trying to transcend what is determined as human nature. I wonder if we'll reach a new stage as time progresses and we accept mutations "femboys, butch babe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:56 AM
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They are using game to seal the deal and maintain attraction. But they are still taking them out, paying for their drinks, wining and dining, etc. That's the funniest thing about RP men, they are still betas but they are just better at monkey dancing with dread hot and cold games, at the end of the day women are still spinning them for a good time. RP women say they are looking for a "Greater Beta" or semi RP natural because they understand attraction just enough to spark sexual tension but with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:34 AM
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It has the same crux of the "Whoever asks for the date should pay" paradox. Women don't take much action at all for guys, and when they do its very little. I took a girl out for dinner and she spent the night at my place and bought me coffee from Starbucks in the morning. That wasn't equal. I paid 150$ for the night and she spent 5$. But she sure did love taking credit for it when the barista commented on it, she didn't even reach for a wallet once the night before and she asked ME out. I find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:19 AM
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Most men want the relationship no matter what, but they can't feel secure in a relationship that is egalitarian. It's only a matter of time before it's held over his head or sex dries up entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:07 AM
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Most couples aren't egalitarian since men are the primary benefactors of relationships. I find this question strange when women have the overwhelmingly broadcasted framework of FDS going around. Are we supposed to pretend that women don't choose providers or date up? A egalitarian relationship would be ideal, I think most men would want that. But try pitching dutch dates and or even lifting a finger for men to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:00 AM
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It seems pretty on topic to me. RP guys have to monkey dance AND pay to play. This method sure has a case
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:54 AM
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For guys, most relationships are just prostitution with extra steps anyways lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:52 AM
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1st If I had a partner I would want someone passionate about something for our greater good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:48 AM
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Holy projection batman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:43 AM
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I would be down with fusing our last names together like a ship name. I can’t imagine a woman who would think that’s acceptable though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:19 AM
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Your reply says a lot more about you than you’re even capable of recognizing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:39 AM
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You’re a woman, you value the things older men can give you so you can be attracted to older men. Women never change, they take when they are 18 and they take when they are 30. The entitlements grow while the beauty fades. That’s why men lean towards as young as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:28 AM
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