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I think those men generally get neither. And I think they mean they shouldn't have to settle for a relationship where they only feel like a provider and not a lover if that is the only option they seem to be offered
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:42 PM
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The issue is those men get neither, and other men get both. It's usually not the guys who are sleeping with many women who are complaining about not being able to find love lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:12 PM
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Man dates woman from a poor country: he's using her!! Woman dates man from a poor country: he's using her!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:24 PM
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Definitely surprises me, its a lot of work just to sit at home. I suppose if you really feel like shit without some makeup on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:29 PM
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You haven't met women if you think we don't get all gussied up just to look at ourselves and be at home. No, I don't think I've met anyone who does this at any regular frequency lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:46 PM
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If the only difference between a boundary being for yourself versus for someone else is the implicit understanding that you will walk away over it, then it's mostly a distinction without a difference. People are still going to be emotionally impacted and faced with a dilemma when their partner puts a boundary "on themselves". It's a nice thing to say on reddit, but it doesn't really change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:31 PM
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They are dressing to show off their sexual attributes to themselves Do people really believe this? I don't think many people are dolling themselves up to sit around at home. The entire idea of being sexy doesn't make sense without the larger context of someone else to perceive that sexiness. Women dress up to go to a club or other event, not to tidy up their home alone. Our underlying motivations can be very different from our own rationalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:28 PM
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1918 Doesn't take long to figure out why they got the vote at that particular time either! Women protested for suffrage, men died for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:42 PM
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Oddly specific numbers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:34 PM
1

It’s only been recently that women are talking about “find yourself a nerdy guy” or praising dad bods, and that’s from more a pragmatic standpoint, and not a visceral attraction one. It's due to the cost of living crisis LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:46 PM
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Women's dating strategy is all about filtering and selection, especially in the early stages. These sorts of social gotchas and expectations create filters to weed out men who "just don't get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:42 PM
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Spot on LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:39 PM
1

I really liked Corey Wayne back when I was actively dating. Very actionable advice. Won't fix your issues or improve your "stock" as a man, but it's very good at avoiding common dating pitfalls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:59 PM
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Covert communication doesn't imply that it's not direct. If you ask out someone and they go "hmmm idk I'm busy that day" that is covert, but it's still direct and clear if you aren't autistic and are clued in even a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:30 PM
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It's only truly nonnegotiable if you're okay with the necessary alternative, which is getting nothing. Otherwise it's just seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:26 PM
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someone who comes to a country seemingly only to have sex has a good chance to be a rapist I don't see how someone going overseas in the chance that dating or hooking up would be easier means they're more likely to forego that whole process in the first place and abuse those women. They want more women to select them in the first place, that's the opposite of wanting to force themselves on someone. Abusing local woman also seems like a pretty surefire way to get yourself locked up in a foreign j…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:30 PM
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I'm with you 100%. We need to understand why social norms exist the way they do before we try and change them. Cultural norms have been molded and selected over millennia, to throw them out the window is to do so at our own peril. It's an exercise in hubris which has been tried time and time again. Once we know our own limitations and the consequences of running up against them, then we can start to push.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:04 PM
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I don't think he implied he has more hookups. Just that his dating experience is better. Don't have to have a hookup culture to have a good dating culture. If he does though, it could be possible that his bump in value in those countries is enough to compensate for the more conservative dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:18 PM
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I’m sure it’s very different woman to woman, and I’m sure it’s still better off than on in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:20 PM
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That’s true, though it can also change what type of man a woman is attracted to in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:10 PM
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If I was certain about not wanting more kids, then I don't see why not. Complications are rare I assume. I also assume the fact that becoming an infertile man wouldn't affect her subconscious attraction to me too much, at least at that point in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:05 PM
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Ultimately I do think this is what might rub men the wrong way with a lot of feminist rhetoric. There’s this undertone or assumption that all men are gleefully benefiting and secretly upholding some notion of patriarchy, and holding women back. But to some ordinary man who is just trying to live his life, and might not be in a good place in it for that matter, getting lumped in with some sexist CEO or abusive patriarch is going to offend him and cause conflict. He’s just trying to deal with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:48 PM
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It's about relative standing within the local dating market. Same rules still apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:16 PM
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Sure. But this specific example seems pretty clearly motivated by gender roles from a distant past. I can’t imagine women were more permissive of vulnerability in men back then compared to our relatively safe and comfortable lifestyles now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:56 PM
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Culture is downstream from psychology which is downstream from biology. Women preferring more stoic and masculine men is cross-cultural. Gender roles did not stem from culture - gender roles were enforced by biology for millennia which wove its way into culture as civilization arose. Telling a women who's monkey brain is getting the ick for her partner because his worries and complaints are signalling that he can't protect her nor her children to just "think differently" (aka change the culture)…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:28 PM
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This is likely less due to culture, and more because of biology Most women can't simply "think differently" and have those icks go away
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:10 PM
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Most arranged marriages aren't even that crazy of a concept. You aren't forced into a partnership, it's more like your parents play matchmaker for you and set you up with dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:56 PM
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Almost everyone has a higher price for the image of their sexuality than $5 a month
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:54 PM
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Perhaps when she starts. At least more comfortable with it I expect. But again overtime I wouldn't be surprised if doing sex work changes your relationship with sex outside of work for the worst. Maybe not, but dating an OF girl to avoid a dead bedroom doesn't seem like a great plan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:47 PM
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probably have a higher sex drive than average People don't generally go into sex work because they're nymphs. I'd expect making sex and sex-adjacent acts your work if anything would decrease your interest in it for the remainder of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:38 PM
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Most people restrict their sexuality, including their image, to a trusted few. They value it accordingly. Putting some of it online for $5 a month necessarily means lowering it's value for that person (from that social norm baseline). Which is their right, but it's not surprising that others will then value it less as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:35 PM
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Hating someone for doing OF would be weird. But not respecting someone who does OF is not hate. It's seen as an easy way to grift lonely desperate men out of their money while simultaneously devaluing their sexuality by associating it with revenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:29 PM
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There is no reason to believe that the psychology we acquired from thousands to millions of years of evolution would disappear all of a sudden because we have lived in an industrial society for ~250 years. We are not blank slates. Men and women are different physically and physiologically, it would be very surprising if we were not different psychologically in order to deal with said sexual dimorphism, as if there was some barrier at the neck. Very basic info at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:40 PM
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If you don't pay money to go see hotep propaganda you are a BIGOT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:12 PM
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Reddit corporate sucks, but I hate internet janitors more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:11 PM
0

Vegetarian does not mean clean. Clean eating still requires an appropriate amount of calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:27 PM
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While that's true, telling someone who has no options to "be picky" will just aggravate them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:58 PM
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You don't need a gym to not be overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:30 PM
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Sure. It’s the cost of a beer. Per person ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:22 PM
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It wouldn't make the woman lower value, it would just mean a higher cost to go after so not worth it. Turn off is probably the wrong phrase to use. Most men know that most women, especially above average ones, can far more easily get into relationships than men. So them having a man isn't nearly as surprising as a man having a woman. I do think a man's value is raised far more when in a relationship than a woman's for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:10 PM
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My only real gripe is how alimony can be awarded based on the previous lifestyle, not some set standard of living. Having a certain living standard due to committing to a partner who can support that lifestyle should be a perk of the relationship itself - letting go of that commitment should also entail letting go of all of the perks of that relationship. Reasonable alimony to maintain a decent quality of life before the other partner can get back on their feet is understandable - having to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:08 PM
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Their own experiences led them to these places in the first place. If they had ignored them, they would still be blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:16 PM
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They can't, or they don't want it for the price being sold? If the price isn't getting matched, then its not a true market price I'm dating someone overseas, its much more work for me to maintain the relationship. So I clearly value her over "western pussy". Though I wouldn't really fall under the passport bro label.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:30 PM
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How lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 05:07 PM
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Perhaps this is due to the increasing divides between the have's and have-not's in dating. Those who have, have it all so they don't care. Those who don't, latch onto any opportunity that comes their way far too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:23 PM
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Many of these expectations are driven buy our underlying biological sexuality, not some socially constructed responsibilities. Feminism doesn't seem to acknowledge this, that we can't just hand wash away these expectations by putting on a new face. Many women will still get the ick for men who can't maintain a straight face while under distress no matter how much they act like its okay or tell themselves its normal. Acting like its some social conspiracy will only drive more men to fringe philos…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:10 PM
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I think it's gotten a lot more messy with more trad obsessed guys over the past few years. At least my experience with TRP was that if you were going to commit to someone, you needed to vet them heavily. This didn't mean vet for some virgin queen, it was to vet for genuine desire i.e. not be a BB schmuck who she was only with you for what you had. This generally meant you shouldn't commit until she demonstrates her attraction to you often through a non-exclusive relationship first. Of course thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:21 PM
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At least from my understanding of TRP back in the day where it wasn't awash with youtubers, it very much was the antidote to the Madonna/whore complex. AWALT and all of the things surrounded by it specifically tore down this Madonna/whore dichotomy - all women can act like Madonnas sometimes and all women can act like whores sometimes. To pin one woman down as one or the other to me seems very blue pill actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:11 PM
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I don’t think it’s mortally righteous to take advantage of poverty for sexual tourism, I’m specifically talking about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:45 PM
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If a person has better success in dating abroad, man or woman, then they should do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:34 AM
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Also agree on Corey Wayne, his work seems like its built upon a solid base of rp-like wisdom without the autism or bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:41 PM
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ty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:16 PM
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I believe my first paragraph suffices for CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:03 PM
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I don't think this is as common as you seem to find, I'm guessing there's something in your selection bias leading you to women who all think this way. Which leads me to think that having money itself isn’t enough to keep a pretty girl. You gotta either be attractive or have a fun personality because having money is a baseline requirement not a +++ Well duh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:44 PM
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Agreed. I'm dating someone overseas in Ecuador rn, they may be more family oriented but they aren't going to bend over backwards to snag some gringo for a passport. Even less so if they come from a decent family or are educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:52 PM
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Freezing eggs isn't nearly as reliable as people hope it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:14 AM
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And that's not number of attempts right? If you can link me something that would be solid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:16 PM
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Yeah it's not surprising that the group that is less successful at attempting suicide has more overall attempts - they're still alive to try again! What I'd like to know is the number of suicidal men vs the number of suicidal women, if that data exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:51 PM
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Where do you think these societal forces come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:27 PM
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Get on TRT from a reputable clinic. Bringing you back up to normal or high but still within the normal range won't kill your fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:47 PM
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Apparently the free food can be worth it as it keeps employees working longer, both by staying later for dinner and cutting down on travel time if they were going to eat off-site
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:11 PM
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Ew incel! Believe all men!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:10 PM
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White people in general are more socially liberal when you take a worldwide perspective. Even in the US many minority groups are more socially conservative than people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:52 PM
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The Japanese dish Oyakodon is made of chicken and egg on a bed of rice. The name literally means "parent and child donburi".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:54 AM
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Men who cheat may have more options in general due to them being better catches (outside of the adultery), and so their unaware partner is happier with their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:26 PM
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Gay men on average likely put more effort into their appearance I would guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:36 PM
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Yeah it makes you look like a gay man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:54 PM
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So BB lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:51 PM
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If you mean a state where the husband is presumed to be the father automatically, then California is one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:29 PM
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It's just casual racism and they don't even realize it. "All Asian girls are gold-diggers! They actually despise white guys!". Riiiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:39 PM
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The point is that you can't do it non-nonchalantly. Also in California if you're married, you're automatically the legal father. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:54 PM
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Bruh I did not need that mental image
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:28 PM
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loose pussy energy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:56 PM
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Thanks for the info, not surprising some states are saner than others. Cali is a whole different can of worms Ain’t that the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:51 PM
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Haven't seen any info that can support that, if you know of some please send it my way. In California at least however, if you are married at the time of birth, you are automatically the father with all of the rights and responsibilities it holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:46 PM
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I don't have a bone in the paternity testing fight, but some people seriously miss the point when they say "you can just get one done yourself". The whole point of paternity testing is to avoid holding legal responsibility to provide for a child who is not your own. Once your name is on the birth certificate, or if you are married at the time of birth, you're on the hook! Getting a paternity test after the fact means nothing - even if you're not the father, you're still responsible. I can't imag…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:39 PM
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It doesn't matter once you've signed the birth certificate. Then you're on the hook. You'll need to establish non-paternity before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:21 PM
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Personally I prefer to sous-vide my sandwiches
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:49 PM
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Right, I said side effects from trials so far. From previous attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:04 PM
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Side effects often included impotence and crashing testosterone levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:17 AM
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Condoms definitely reduce pleasure for men, so they won't be the end all be all. I still see that as more options. BC for men would be cool, but the side effects from many trials so far are things that would directly impact a man's ability to get or have sex in the first place, so they aren't generally accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:58 PM
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They have far more contraceptive options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:14 PM
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Solid post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:45 AM
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That's OK if it's still the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:33 PM
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I still feel like its a good filter though. Having to swipe right and send at least a simple "hello" ensures that your matches will be at least somewhat invested in a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:09 PM
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You only think men aren't useful there because you would never consider working class men as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:11 PM
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Tech salaries are far higher in the US than the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:03 PM
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Of course, but the opposite is real too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:00 PM
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You may not, but many others do. They hear "tech" and think $$$. Starting compensation for new grads in good companies are six figures, with the top companies paying ~$300k TC. $25k for an "apprenticeship" makes me think of IT, not tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:36 PM
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I have friends that work in tech that earn 25k because they are apprentices. Where is this/what specific line of work? Seems pretty outside the norm. I wouldn’t know how much a software engineer earns or someone who vaguely worked in tech unless they were bragging about being high up. In the US at least, we make a solid income. A very good one if you're in a top company. This is pretty well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:29 PM
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and a big dick engine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:52 PM
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Really makes me think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:11 PM
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I think there is an assumption that if you have to wait then you are a Beta bux and she has given it up easily to an alpha prior to you. That's not really an assumption, it's often a stated position. Waiting does not prove she is not promiscuous and it offers no evidence she finds you attractive. Not waiting does prove some level of promiscuity and it's strong evidence she is attracted to you. At least with one of those you can get some real information.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:42 AM
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Good quality clothes can still be very comfortable. If you have the cash I really like Lululemon's more casual wear. Their shorts and pants especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:07 PM
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You normally have to sign before results Now that's a trap lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:58 PM
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Tate is cringe but thank god we have Facebook to look out for us right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:57 PM
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I haven't found the data yet, but when they say more attempts do they mean more women than men attempt suicide, or that more suicide attempts are done by women? You can have more attempts done by women but less women attempting suicide if those women keep trying over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:53 PM
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Get a paternity test done before the birth certificate is signed, if its that important to someone. Find a partner who is okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:40 PM
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Well sure, but my point regarding paternity tests still stands, they don't mean shit after the birth certificate is signed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:38 PM
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I'm not sure which comment you're referring to, link me or paraphrase it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:36 PM
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Looking forward to generation ALPHA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:27 PM
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Same. A Zillenial. Or a Moomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:26 PM
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I've heard they are very ban happy if you don't tow the party line
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:22 PM
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To be fair, a DNA test means nothing after he signs the birth certificate. It wouldn't absolve him of legal responsibility for that child. If he wanted to avoid raising a child that isn't his, he would need to get the paternity test done before that point, which you can't hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:15 PM
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A functioning liver Lack of mental illness My pride
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:47 PM
1

Nikocado avocado? Absolutely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:08 PM
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I remember seeing that with the tub of ice cream, she never mentioned how much ice cream just that she had some. Obvious she has the whole fucking thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:13 PM
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She's not a biologist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:25 AM
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Maybe more sales tax lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:08 PM
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Cancel culture is just the modern iteration of religious sacrifice. You rile up the masses against an icon of "sin", and watch them get destroyed. Killing people is a bit of a faux pas now though, so the next best thing is killing their career or social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:24 PM
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I'm 25. I would date someone still in college if they had a good plan for the future. 20 is the youngest. Casual relationships as long as they're legal and sane doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:26 PM
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Dick size compliments are a massive ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:19 PM
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So take it upon yourself, unless you want to just bend over
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:06 PM
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Yes, things certainly change. But we need to understand why things are the way they are before we tear them down. Only then can we make the proper choice. People seem too confident that it would never happen to us, and I think that's naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:47 PM
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Wackjobs are the ones larping about it, but I don't see any reason why we are now immune to overreach. The human condition hasn't changed that much in the last 250 years, happens all the time in less stable regions even today. While I don't think it will happen, it would be naive to say it could never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:36 PM
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2A states that individuals have the right to bear arms in order to form militias. This is established precedent and is obviously what was intended by the founders given the political state at the time it was written. They would not only trust "militias" to have arms. Wouldn't make sense to have the government handle the arms that would be intended for use against a potential future government.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:24 PM
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You can have grenades, but they are destructive devices and so require an NFA tax stamp and a background check that lasts about a year or so afaik. Biggest difference is that grenades are non-discriminate. Whereas firearms are very discriminate. There will always be a line somewhere, but given that the purpose of the 2A is to empower the common man against some tyranny, foreign or domestic, limiting arms to muskets would obviously not serve that purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:49 PM
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2A does not specify muskets specifically, and precedent has not upheld that interpretation. It does infringe if that right was not revoked through a trial by jury.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:20 PM
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Due process is specifically via a trial by jury. Not a bureaucracy tasked with determining your mental stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:56 PM
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Cracking down on bullying will do far more to prevent school shootings and other violence than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:27 PM
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Can't deny constitutional rights without due process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:24 PM
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The bars for physical attractiveness and moral behavior are two different things. One is high, the other is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:18 AM
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Just put the fork down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:21 PM
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Software Engineering. Pretty much all guys at least in my dept. We had a woman in my small team but she dipped for Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:57 PM
1

Should have gone out and gotten it back when everyone else was home sick with it too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:14 PM
2

you have to hate yourself to code for a living. Maybe you're just bad at it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:27 PM
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Didn't know a corset was necessary for the ideal female form
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:14 AM
1

Yep. Haven't really seen a problem with "gold diggers" though. Or maybe that's just cause I'm young or I've already hit the cutoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:27 PM
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I have a very conservative gay friend and it's hilarious. He gives no fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:20 PM
2

There's an offshoot site. Not as good as the subreddit but has content still.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:52 PM
2

I am an outrageous man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:57 PM
2

Doors usually have multiple hinges which are wheels. So wheels. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:57 PM
2

Imagine caring enough about internet arguments to spend time combing through someones reddit history lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:24 PM
1

If they see a profile that seems like a good match, they swipe right. When they've gotten a match 9/10 right swipes, they have to start filtering through them. They aren't going to want to deal with 20 conversations at the same time, so they message the ones in the top of their pile. They may be interested when they initially swipe, but that doesn't mean you will be their top priority when they have to filter. Doesn't mean they're out to get you, there's no investment in dating apps so don't exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:50 PM
3

Happens all the time. I'd say 50% of my matches send me a message. Women are generally flooded with matches so they will target the ones they see as the best. Welcome to modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:43 PM
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The difference between them and you has nothing to do with supplements or whey.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:29 PM
2

Whey is just the protein found in milk, it's nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:29 PM
5

People naturally empathize with the emotions of people around them, especially those they care about. As we get older our emotions generally become a bit more stable, so we aren't tugged around by emotional tides as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:57 PM
5

I can't imagine how one commoditizes their own sexuality without being a little out of whack
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:12 AM
1

Don't see how he is an example of someone being not high value then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:13 PM
1

You really think those girls weren't physically attracted to him? All five of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:58 PM
1

Still takes more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:51 PM
2

That's why the terms SMV and RMV exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:51 PM
1

The advice is to disengage and move away from the charged environment (turn on the lights, go do something else etc). Not push past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:50 PM
6

You blamed his behavior on his height? lol Nice excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:47 PM
1

Most guys should check out of the relationship if higher levels of "dread" are warranted. And I doubt overcoming lmr is what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:42 PM
3

I don't think those women would only date him because he may have been Jewish. That's obviously not the only factor. Those women still ultimately said "yes". Can't obfuscate around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:39 PM
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If he was repeatedly dumped by women, then those women must have also repeatedly started dating him. He may not have had what it takes to maintain a relationship, but he clearly had the SMV to start them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:33 PM
1

I'm just not interested in acting like a jester for a week before she will even entertain the idea of a date. I'd rather plan a short date for the next couple days and if there's good conversation to have over text before that then that's fine. I'm not going to want to plan a date a week or more in the future and have to text her everyday like a zoomer before I've even met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:29 PM
3

Obviously, they are the selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:38 PM
1

It recently started, so I'll have to see how my weight change stabilizes. Could be less could be more. I eat mostly clean, so it's not as easy as it sounds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:14 PM
2

Unfortunately, all of dating is personal Best of luck feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:02 PM
2

Sounds like you already know what you want to do but want others to tell you to so you aren't responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:54 PM
2

Because dating is risky to feelings and you should own that for an honest experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:50 PM
2

Sleep with brad if you actually like him and be willing to put your ego on the line if he dips
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:45 PM
1

3000 rn, doing a slow bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:40 PM
1

I've been complimented on my voice and it definitely boosts the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:39 PM
2

White (British), California (for now)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:54 PM
2

The wife left didn't she
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:51 PM
7

That's the tradeoff I suppose. Something innate but fleeting or long lasting yet difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:19 AM
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But idk I think men are valued for things outside their looks much more regularly than women. This is probably true, but there is still the burden that those things that men are valued for take a lot of work to achieve or acquire. No man has them simply because he is a man, none of it is inherent to his being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:44 PM
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I don't know why you expect the drive to have kids to override every other aspect of what a man wants as if that negates everything I've said. That just sounds naive. "the ability to have kids" alone does not explain it. I mean what the fuck do you think sex is?? Why we want to fuck in the first place? You might put a rubber on but that doesn't mean you're getting hard for some reason other than your hind brain wants to put a baby in her. I haven't changed my position one iota, I think you're ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:27 AM
1

If you're the one saying no due to a lack of interest on her part, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:23 AM
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Probably because our ego overrides it. There are certainly men who have no ego/self-esteem to go for it. Committing to someone who settles for you raises the chance for paternity fraud while simultaneously stops you from committing to someone who hasn't settled for you, so there's still reason to avoid it. Also a woman who settles for you is going to be a huge bitch towards you as she starts to resent both you and herself for her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:14 AM
1

You will never ever know that she isn't someone who does it with guys. But you can find out if she wants to do that with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:11 AM
3

Being valued for sex gives one a greater ability to pass on your genes. It's the same damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:05 AM
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As can anything in excess. Sex was the first drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:58 AM
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Sure, he has the ability to get her pregnant. But a guy who's partner didn't settle for him or doesn't have to commit to people to acquire sex has an even greater ability. I don't get why this is so hard for you. It's not about the babies, or even the sex itself. The more people interested in you for a lesser amount of commitment or resources in return, the more sexually valued you are. This is obvious. And now it seems like you're shifting from "being selected to be able to reproduce" to a more…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:56 AM
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It's about the ability to do so. Testosterone is a helluva drug to the point that being sexually selected as a man is a huge chemical reward. And other people notice this. Being sexually selected is the most obvious signal that one is highly valued in that space. You can call that "winning" the game. It's about being wanted. Also, the example you gave isn't the best at being selected if that man is just settled for. Hell, they may not even be his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:48 AM
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Putting a condom on doesn't negate billions of years of sexual selection pressures. It's not about actually passing on your genes, it's about pressing that little button in your head that rewards you for doing the things that enable you to pass on your genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:36 AM
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but I need to be kept in the lifestyle I've become accustomed to. Why? If having a better lifestyle was a benefit of the marriage, why should that benefit continue when the marriage does not? I don't see why you someone should be entitled to that if the other partner enabled it in the first place. You want to keep that lifestyle? Then maybe you should try not getting a divorce. Support to make ends meat and reestablish yourself for a former housewife? Sure I can understand that. But to continue …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:23 PM
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Many people who come to TRP are bitter and jaded yes. Because they've been burned. And they see what TRP says and go "hey that's exactly what happened to me maybe these guys are onto something".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:41 PM
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I wouldn't take what this subreddit says TRP is as gospel. Source material is the best. Rational Male is decent. All people are affected by the halo effect, and yes I believe pretty much all women are enamored by attractive men in the way that I described. They respect them more, will give them more leeway, and will treat them better. It's a very visceral thing, we are all still animals in the end. We can try push that down and be "better", but it will resurface one way or another. Good to hear …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:17 PM
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Perhaps. But would you date the first man if your other choice was to stay single and keep searching? If so then I'm sure you've found a good match already given all the short single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:07 PM
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It's worth pointing out that the "higher value" you make yourself, the less these things are an issue. That's the whole point of TRP. Hypergamy isn't an issue if she believes you're the best she can get. Her leaving if she stops believing that isn't (as much of) an issue if you know she won't be the last person you will ever be with or form a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:58 PM
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I can go through these point by point. Hypergamy doesn't mean she will dip the moment she finds someone "better". It means women tend to date up, and that if she can't look up to you in some way, she will lose respect for you. Would you date someone who you perceived as less of a catch than you? Or who was shorter, less attractive, less successful, less mature, less strong, than you? I'm not really sure what this is referring to. I'm not really familiar with a "manual", unless it was an assortme…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:53 PM
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They can absolutely overcome these things, they just have a proclivity towards them. Even then those things don't really bother me much anymore, it's just the way it is. It's only shitty if you hold these fairy tale beliefs. Once you let them go it just seems obvious, and that's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:33 PM
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What beliefs specifically? I will add that men don't choose to believe these things. We had experiences in our lives with women that make us resonate with many of the things that TRP talks about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:24 PM
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By taking a step back I simply mean leaving a relationship that doesn't serve your needs or make you happy. Surprisingly tough for many guys who believe they have little options. I don't feel miserable, it just feels realistic. I can still appreciate all the great things about women without a fairy tale facade filled with sugar and spice. They're people, not enigmas. I think casual relationships are good so you stop seeing relationships as necessary to get sex. Otherwise you run the risk of comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:20 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:15 PM
2

bluepill advice becomes less effective and redpill advice more so the more competitive the scene is. (which might explain why I've seen blackpilling phenomenon on the daily in the cities but small towns seem bluepilled AF) Yeah this all seems to be ultimately the result of a paradox of choice. When your perceived options seem limitless then it makes sense to take your time to get the best you can get. Just as long as those options are real options, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:11 PM
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I don't hate women, but I accept the parts of their nature that seem unsavory to me. As I'm sure women do the same for men. There are still many women out there who are a joy to spend time with and be intimate with - as long as I know when to take a step back I'll be just fine. The point isn't to resent women, it's to know what they're capable of and the proclivities they may have so you aren't blindsided if/when it happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:08 PM
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You must not think very highly of yourself if you think badly of her for wanting to sleep with you quickly. Though I guess you did say so in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:23 PM
1

Look up "Georgism"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:24 PM
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I'm a white man, I've had noticeably more interest from hispanic and asian women than I have from white women. Maybe like a 2:1 or 3:1 ratio. Could be an OLD thing though, I think white women are worshiped by some minority men (and perhaps white men too) so their standards are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:18 PM
2

Who is "society"? Do you mean the state?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:15 PM
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Those warm breathing bodies are still online and will still be affected by them. You can avoid the dating apps, but you cannot avoid their impacts and repercussions on the wider market.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:21 PM
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One woman’s disposition to have or not have casual sex doesn’t say anything about a man’s ability to get it. Not sure how that’s relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:21 PM
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Most people who come to TRP and decide to stick around do so because it resonates with many of the experiences they've had in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:47 AM
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FDS is probably helpful for those women who are either total pushovers or repeatedly pick obviously shitty guys or both. TRP is helpful for guys that still believe in feel good fairy tales like the original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:44 PM
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If they're terminally online, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:42 PM
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Well surely if it didn't help people wouldn't stick around. And yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:26 PM
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This skips over all of the things that actually attract women to men and just assumes that your presence is all that's required and there's nothing else you can do. you might even meet someone you like and match with romantically You "might". What useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:04 PM
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Agreed. There's a tv show as well which I enjoyed, waiting for a new season.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:23 AM
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averageredditor.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:50 PM
2

Men don't want to take the redpill. We are forced to by our own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:49 PM
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It's not, at least it's pretty rare. Body language and reciprocity are the tells for lower level stuff like that. You have to learn how to slowly escalate physically and read how she reacts. I'll ask if she wants me to grab a condom before going all the way though, that's when it's appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:19 AM
2

Take the compliment grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:52 AM
3

I'm describing commitment as the actual time when you say ok we will stop seeing other people now. And by future commitment I mean promising to stop seeing other people at some point in the future, not continuing an already monogamous relationship. Confusing but maybe that's what's being misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:02 PM
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Man: OK. Let's be monogamous. That's called establishing commitment. Not promising future commitment. It just becomes cheating after that. This is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:49 PM
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+1 Dude was usually pretty clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:49 PM
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Promise of future commitment is not commitment. The idea of "promising commitment" doesn't even make sense, why would anyone promise anything like that? If some major problem comes up then people are free to stop wanting to associate with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:37 PM
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I agree with poppy, standards are the same unless they're so inebriated they can't see straight and that's obv a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:35 PM
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PPD gives guys the advice to go out to parties and bars instead of competing with Chad on Tinder? Women's standards are affected by her surroundings, as are everyone's really. Women who do OLD often hit the whole paradox of choice problem. Parties and bars are better prospects because women are selecting from the men at the venue rather than every guy in a 20 mile radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:34 PM
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Men's sexlessness is due to them not meeting women's standards, not because women have a smaller sex drive on average. I don't really see how increasing their sex drive would change their standards, they'd just crave it more from the men they already wanted it from, and they'd probably get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:13 PM
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If a woman says she doesn't have sex without commitment, and then proceeds to have sex before that commitment is established, she obviously does have sex without commitment. That's on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:01 PM
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Their standards are the cause of both your rejection and their past poor mate choice. They are broken and crave validation from men who signal, ironically, "toxic masculinity". You don't hit that itch for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:57 PM
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Yep, nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:56 PM
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I'm 25, I could put a down payment on a place if I really wanted to. I'm just not sure I want to buy right now and tie myself down geographically, especially in SoCal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:55 PM
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Good for him (and her) but that kinda guy is super rare. Exceptions won't really buck the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:52 PM
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Her waiting to have sex with you does not indicate that she is a decent chick. Only that that side of her is presented to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:00 AM
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It is a stereotype/meme, but the whole built black guy with an obese white woman might be a thing. At least in some areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:53 PM
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Does it? I think it would be more of the status or popularity of it rather than the specifics of the sport. High school or college football games getting more attendance than other sports would probably explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:50 PM
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Yeah its a great car. 2020 premium hatch, red on red. Basically a slightly more upscale and sporty Civic/Corolla. The 2021 line has turbos at the top trims and they have a surprising amount of torque. I am a fond of Mazda, since they have no luxury line like Toyota w/ Lexus or Honda w/ Acura they can put a bit more luxury in their vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:30 PM
1

I was really thinking about getting a Stinger for a while, just got a Mazda hatch instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:42 PM
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According to every man who's ever been I any long term serious relationship. Its everything else that matters. Because they already made it over that hurdle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:42 PM
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People tend to conflate a "HVM" with "a guy who I value highly", despite them being different things. HVM is more of a collective thing. It's their way of hamstering the idea that a guy who has a lot of options isn't a high value male just because he won't put them specifically in first place in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:11 AM
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They're ugly and mentally ill, generally not dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:45 PM
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Go take a look at /r/childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:24 PM
2

It's a blackpill thing. Making fun of the condescending "sweetie". I know it was a thing as late as braincels at least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:21 PM
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I mean I can invest more into my style, health, lifestyle, hobbies, travel, etc. Not donating to their twitch stream. If my main goal from my work was to meet women I'd be a bartender or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:19 PM
2

I'm only 25 so I cant speak too much about this, but my experience has enabled me to reel in my infatuation more - I can enjoy the feeling without getting stuck or lost in it like I used to. I can more easily let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:16 PM
3

Does what specifically work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:13 PM
3

It's a running joke
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:09 PM
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Am code monkey. I'm under no impression that women find my work interesting nor that my work is conducive to meeting more women. The compensation does let me put more resources into things they do appreciate more however.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:07 PM
3

I guess that explains sexpats...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:02 PM
2

As a 6 fig chad, yes I have had to physically throw women off of myself just to enter my home on the regular
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:59 PM
6

Men do have a "wall" too, but it generally happens later and men generally have more options to increase their value over time outside of looks than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:44 PM
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"The wall" just refers to the point in a woman's life when time turns against her. It's not like they fall off a cliff and their options run dry. Once someone realizes time is now working against them, their strategy takes a 180 and the stress surrounding it ramps up. They push for commitment way faster and harder, they view dates more like interviews than times to have fun, and they entertain men that they never would have previously (for better or for worse).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:18 PM
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This is def my biggest issue right now. Most of my college friends are spread far and wide now. And covid didn't help of course. I do fine on OLD, but it's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:51 PM
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Money is a social construct. brb becoming a NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:32 PM
5

"hey bb wan sum fuk"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:05 PM
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Not gonna work on most women unless you're Brad Pitt tier. Women want plausible deniability. Give them a non-sexual reason to come over, and they'll get it. Gives them an out if they decide against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:38 PM
1

You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:27 PM
2

It's not that nothing else matters, it's that it's such a visceral and central part of the equation that it informs pretty much everything else. The higher your SMV the more favorably she will view the rest of you - personality, lifestyle, etc. Essentially the halo effect. It's also the area where most men struggle, at least the kind of guys who will be drawn to TRP/PPD. Not surprising a lot of the conversation revolves around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:22 PM
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Hypergamy runs across multiple lanes - looks, status, money, lifestyle, etc. I'd assume an asexual woman would just take everything else into account. For non asexual women though, sexual attraction is such a huge part of it that most of the conversation will steer that way. If you can't turn her on, you're done. I don't know why asexual women is supposed to be a gotcha. There are always weird outliers. Not surprising that sexual strategies aren't going to conform to those who are not sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:14 PM
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They all experience hypergamy. Women want a man they can look up to. If your partner thinks she's superior to you, she will start to believe she deserves better. Doesn't mean she will immediately jump ship, but the clock is ticking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:07 PM
2

If it hit the front page then enough of the active users supported it to get it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:05 PM
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There are a few sane comments who understand people talk about pre-tax salary, but it’s hidden within a sea of yas kweens
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:19 PM
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My b I didn’t see it get posted earlier. I can’t imagine telling a girl my specific salary even asking for a range would set off alarm bells in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:11 PM
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Women can’t into taxes: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/r4f7t4/right_as_we_are_about_to_get_a_place_i_found_out/ Dunno how much more blatant you can get than that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:53 PM
2

No amount of communication can create genuine desire, only obligation. And obligation is very unattractive. Your partner should fulfill their role because they want to do so, not because they feel obligated to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:04 PM
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Communication only communicates obligations that existed already. You would hope so, but expectations can differ between people. Sure people can "discuss" it, but if your partner doesn't respect you enough to care about meeting them, no amount of "communication" will do shit. They may know their obligations, that doesn't mean they give a shit. Many women "know" they have an "obligation" to sleep with their partner, but you honestly think going up to them and going "uh why won't you sleep with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:37 PM
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“Communication” breeds obligation, which kills desire. Let your ground be known, but don’t supplicate or sperg over details. “Uhh hey honey will you please let me fuck you?” vs. fuck this I’m going to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:16 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:05 PM
2

nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:33 PM
7

While I agree, having a large amount of hookups isn't going to make a woman (or man imo) great at sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:39 AM
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This, and stay away from most "trp" youtubers. I've also heard Models by Mark Manson is solid though I haven't read it yet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:31 PM
3

Copious drugs and booze is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:10 PM
5

If there’s already an established platonic relationship there then that’s a better case for a nicer date sure. But if I’ve just met that person, I can’t reliably judge her in any way to say a fancy date is worth it, and I’d be wary of any guy who says he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:37 PM
2

Well either they don’t go on many dates, or they’re so loaded that a fancy dinner is the equivalent of coffee for them. And that’s cool if that’s the case, but you’re vetting for money at that point not effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:35 PM
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That’s fine, sounds fun. I’m talking about people who expect some huge show at some fancy place on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:34 PM
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I mean I’ve been asked out for coffee dates before, and they aren’t broke. Not sure how you can tell a guy is broke if you never went on a date with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:33 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:03 PM
1

I never claimed it was legal for him to purchase it, like I said the guy who gave it to him has his own case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:31 PM
1

For him arming himself in Kenosha, try https://www.npr.org/2021/11/02/1051421993/kyle-rittenhouse-trial-opening-statements-kenosha-wisconsin-jacob-blake Anywhere really. We've known he got the firearm in Kenosha for a while now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:28 PM
1

Then they must have gotten those facts quite wrong as well, pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:19 PM
1

Fair enough, but I'd recommend not listening to reddit comments on the front page if you want to understand the actual facts of the case
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:16 PM
1

Possibly, I think the laws in Wisconsin are a bit nuanced but the guy who gave it to him has his own case afaik. I think there are other charges on Rittenhouse regarding the firearm. Illegal possession of a firearm doesn't nullify self defense claims however, and I don't think your qualms with Rittenhouse stops at the possession of the firearm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:11 PM
1

Well it seemed relevant enough for you to mention it, so it must mean something to you. And it will to a jury
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:02 PM
2

The vitriol people have towards a kid who didn't let himself get beaten to death by a mob is just strange. They're constantly shifting the goalposts whenever the real facts of the case are slowly accepted by the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:50 PM
1

He traveled 20 minutes to his place of work, and was seen giving medical aid and putting out fires. And he got the firearm in Wisconsin. It's not like the guy drove for hours hoping to blast some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:48 PM
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Don't know too much about what exactly their philosophy of sorts is, but if the whole "no low effort first date thing" is real then there won't even be a first date. They expect a large gesture (aka $$$) like a fancy dinner out as a way to signal that the guy is genuinely into them. Sure they want a way to vet but that begs the question, what sort of guy is going to be genuinely into someone even before the first date? Can they even respect a man like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:50 PM
1

I've been getting back into BOTW. I would say the same in regards to dying, but having more knowledge the second time around (as well as a couple glitches) lessens that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:42 PM
5

Hello there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:19 PM
1

I'd be skelly mode, 6'3" and 125 lbs jesus I'd slay tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:02 PM
8

It is made up, but not by a committee of twitter users or gender studies students
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:53 PM
4

The ever-elusive quality poppy post tips fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:09 PM
3

Faking helps no one. Just figure out how you work and tell your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:41 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:59 PM
5

Redpill macht frei
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:47 PM
16

Absolutely. I then know she is attracted to me without the need to bargain with commitment or material things. My main concern is being taken for a ride (not the good kind), so I always shoot for intimacy early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:46 PM
1

Only equivalent I can think of that doesn’t have a major flaw would be lifts. Still gay tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:09 PM
3

If you have even basic bitch insurance it should cover a yearly checkup. No reason not to really, get your bloods checked and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:12 PM
1

Be Chad enough to the point where they will overlook it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:11 PM
1

It's (generally) a decent amount harder for women to orgasm than men. Some women find it hard to even get themselves to climax. They usually need to figure out their body on their own and be able to communicate it to their partner, which isn't as common as one would hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:52 PM
1

Yeah those are the stories I usually hear. So it's frustrating to see so little improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:51 PM
1

I don't believe any meds I've taken have been those that discolor teeth. And don't those lead to a more grey appearance? My teeth are just tinted yellow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:27 PM
1

I don't believe I had any staining food after the procedure. Maybe a bit of hot sauce ig?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:25 PM
2

Yeah it's possible my teeth are just kinda resistant to whitening? You hear how people get it in office and then get great results. I called up my dentist and hopefully they can send me the photos they took of the before and after - surprised they weren't given to me in the first place. I know the dental assistant who performed it did go through the shades, but I don't remember the specific shades nor was I given like a print out or anything she went though it quickly. As the procedure was endin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:23 PM
1

Not regularly. Soda sometimes. Wouldn't explain why the whitening had little effect though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:08 PM
5

Went for a teeth whitening Monday morning, seemed to be some improvement shortly after but now they seem back to what they used to be really. So I'm pretty disappointed. Whitening strips never seemed to work for me either. I had a tray made with some solution I can use moving forward, so I'll give that a shot. Not sure if anyone else has had a similar experience? All other stories I hear seem to be how an in-office treatment worked great for them so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:41 PM
1

I think the distinction between an “inner” desire and a “socially acceptable” desire is interesting, but I’d like to tease out the inner desire. Does Stacy have similar standards for inner desire as Becky, and if not, where does that difference ultimately stem from. I doubt our experiences as guys are going to be wholly applicable to women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:34 PM
1

So which camp would you fall into? Does perceived SMV affect your standards for desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:14 PM
2

I think you’re a special case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:04 PM
1

Sounds like you’re solidly in camp 2 then, although the “genetically superior to themselves” does sound more like 3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:51 PM
0

That makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:54 PM
2

Yeah its very interesting how we are having a labor shortage in healthcare and all the ICU's are filled up to the breaking point, yet the hospitals are simultaneously firing anyone who doesn't vaxxed. So we'd rather no staff than an unvaccinated staff? Where are these large reserves of vaccinated nurses that are going to take their place and relieve the system? I can not reconcile the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:42 PM
1

Guy Heaven Gym
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:19 PM
2

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:05 PM
18

It's not the same thing as reputation, it's far more shallow. Reputation goes deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:23 PM
44

I remember figuring this out in elementary/middle school. All the girls would have crushes on the same few guys because everyone else had crushes on the same guys. Obviously these guys had the features you'd expect them to, but the social proof was very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:22 PM
1

If this is about single mothers, widows aren't generally what men are referring to when they berate single mothers. It's more the never-married, piss-poor choice of partner and got knocked up kind of single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:18 PM
8

Probably better for your skin in the long run anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:03 PM
1

Outside of doctors, STEM grads prob have less debt since they can pay it off faster
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:50 AM
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I’d wager their debt to income levels are far higher though, so the debt is more of a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:49 AM
12

Edgar All’in these Hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:45 AM
2

Can confirm lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:04 PM
1

Yep that's my go to, or just have them come over to cook with me/have a drink/play pool, haven't ran into any FDS types yet I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:25 AM
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People are quick to call out yellow fever among white men but the reverse is wayyy more common tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:13 AM
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b8
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:15 PM
0

Was this man any of those lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:13 PM
3

and redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:12 PM
2

Your Pulitzer is in the mail
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:57 PM
2

You talked about things not working out. Which is fine, nothing wrong there. Being a "safe" option is when things do work out, but not because your partner genuinely wants you but because you're the last resort and they don't want to bite the bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:53 PM
2

That’s not the case being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:56 PM
6

So fuck buddies or FWB's aren't a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:36 PM
3

If they're being dishonest about their intentions, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:06 PM
3

I don't have a strict rule but if my escalations are swatted down for long enough without other obvious signs that you're into me, I'm gonna lose interest and cut my losses at some point. Generally sooner rather than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:02 PM
4

Testosterone is a helluva drug
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:37 PM
12

Those men don’t date generally that’s true. But many men like women too much to the point that they let that happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:25 PM
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It's more than that. They care so little that they're willing to do it to men despite their wishes. It crosses the line from apathy to malevolence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:49 PM
2

This seems completely contrary to RP, which I guess makes sense. RP and the blackpill both say "you're shit git gud" if you want women. They may dislike the current market but that's because they know they don't command a good enough price in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:58 PM
4

Muhammad-Alicels btfo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:50 PM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:30 PM
1

radical centrist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:29 PM
1

u suk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:27 PM
1

How do they define “hookup”? A lot of women think a hookup is an explicit ONS with nothing before, whereas men would call fucking after the first date “hooking up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:21 AM
7

Nothing wrong with having good qualities for being a long term partner, but the absence of qualities that make for a good short term partner puts you in a bad position for either kind of relationship. “Husband material” implies you have the former, but it can feel like it also implies that you don’t have the latter, even if that isn’t necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:07 PM
12

Honestly a decent amount of BP concepts that men fall for. The soul mate myth, just world fallacy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:44 PM
7

We do too!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:40 PM
11

Yes I’m sure the 5’5” balding recessed jaw indian janitor has been given great character thanks to his flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:37 PM
23

Women don’t like surgery not because it screams insecurity but because it hurts their ability to screen for genetics. Insecurity is just their way of rationalizing how they feel to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:34 PM
4

Is that why all the staff were still wearing masks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:22 AM
2

It's not banned
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:11 AM
6

TRP is the Nash equilibrium of modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:23 AM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:42 PM
1

You specifically said “weight gain”. Was that a mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:40 PM
1

You specifically said “exercise that doesn’t lead to weight gain”. No exercise leads to weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:35 PM
1

I don’t know what your actual complaint is, I’m addressing a misunderstanding you have about exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:32 PM
1

I wasn't responding to OP, I was responding to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:24 PM
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Weight is a function of energy expenditure. Strength training alone doesn’t provide any extra energy to increase mass. Eating leads to weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:02 PM
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Exercise doesn’t lead to weight gain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:25 PM
1

From what I’ve seen, FTM usually pass better than MTF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:41 PM
3

I don't necessarily disagree, women want to think you're special not hard working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:26 AM
2

I get the feeling you aren’t as smart as you think you are, or you’re just being dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:18 PM
3

Why would people who are opposed to what they view as murder, deliberately risk murdering people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:45 PM
1

Seems to be the case. I don't know if young people not being vaccinated was actually why their cases are so high though. Other countries with high vaccination rates did have spikes all the same however, some pretty steep. It's not as simple as hurr durr more vaccines = no cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:38 PM
2

How about Incel Israel Isrel Iscel Incel oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:24 PM
1

Israel?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:18 PM
2

I'm not sure if you're referring to me or people posting their fauci ouchie on instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:11 PM
8

I trust the covid vaccine, I do not trust the executive branch with this sort of precedent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:05 PM
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They've told you they don't do any sort of strength training?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:00 PM
14

15 days to flatten the curve endless vaccines to go to work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:59 PM
2

Why would she mod that sort of subreddit then? Did she expect only uggos to join?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:13 PM
3

Whenever reddit collectively praises or condemns someone or something my bullshit meter skyrockets
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:38 PM
1

I mean who cares really, if you're interested ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:34 PM
4

That's already started for young women really - see the news articles on how there aren't many "marriage material" men left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:31 PM
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You have to hate the previous ideals you held in your head, in order to see women for who they are: people People may see "most women are shit" and see misogyny. Well if most people are shit in general, is that really surprising in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:45 PM
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Because many people, me included, despise the commodification of sex, especially in its modern form. Intertwining the most natural primal activity with the most artificial concept ever invented sends my “something is seriously wrong here” meter to the fucking stratosphere. Now put all of that behind a screen and it’s even more whack, at least whores still involve a human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:02 PM
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You dropped this 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:54 PM
9

Women aren’t the target audience, chumps who need to stop worshiping women are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:52 PM
2

but he's got to be almost a buff prince from a European royal family to stand a chance with her. How do standards like this even materialize? Inflated ego from simps? Social media/celebrity worship? Are they a buffer due to insecurity or trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:38 PM
6

Poor guy, no one deserves that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:24 AM
10

Tutorial mode in Animal Crossing with a Gameshark vs. Dark Souls 2 blindfolded with a broken controller lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:26 AM
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Because it forces people to admit their desires go further than just bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:16 PM
2

A lot of computer science is close to pure or applied mathematics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:24 PM
1

Thats a legal distinction, not so much a social one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:31 PM
1

Do you think the veil of “perceived” social status can be pulled away? Or is it wholly encompassed by behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:28 PM
1

Very few things are always true. Doesn't mean the statement isn't widely applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:58 PM
5

Sure. For men they take it as a reflection of their performance and women take it as a reflection of their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:55 PM
7

It seems that every woman I’m with wants me to “finish” and gets frustrated at themselves if I don’t... especially if I say “no it’s fine I think I’m done for tonight”. This has nothing to do with control, women just feel take it personally if they can't get you off, they feel like its reflective of their sexual worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:37 PM
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Fair I'm not saying I'd want that, but I believe being a provider was more appreciated in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:43 PM
1

My point is those benefits are fading even if you fit the provider role - it is not rewarded as it used to be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:07 PM
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Well yeah who can afford that nowadays, and hell no I'm not gonna support someone who refuses to work and won't appreciate the sacrifice anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:04 PM
7

For the men who only really have that provider ability, and none of those immutable characteristics, they’d still be better off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:06 AM
8

Apparently I'm foreign now. What I meant is I don't believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:15 AM
6

uhuh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:10 AM
9

That's very uncharitable, given that I prefer the current arrangement anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:01 AM
8

Exactly, hence why more men feel left out of it, it's far more cutthroat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:46 AM
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I don't think they were nearly as prevalent as they are nowadays, due to what I mentioned. And even if they were, since providership is not as important now, those characteristics form a greater proportion of what's left.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:04 AM
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-Both agreed marrying virgins. -She talked with her ex via texting, during a entire week. He does not have an ex. -Some months ago, she was training into a gym that another ex also trains. Usually she is home at 22:00 and give him a call... One particular night she called him 0:00 and said that was bad traffic. Did not answered his texts. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:55 PM
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I think the biggest loss for men is that being a provider is not as rewarded as it used to be (if it ever truly was), and in many cases signalling your ability to provide can lead to being taken advantage of. It has been replaced with more immutable characteristics following the proliferation of social media, celebrity worship, and online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:25 PM
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I don’t believe I’m bad at reading people, just that reading people at first glance is easily fooled. I’ve been surprised by some of the behavior I’ve seen after the veils are lifted. I’d be wary of your confidence in first impressions when it comes to false positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:46 PM
5

Can you elaborate on these specific behaviors, or do you think you can read minds?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:25 PM
5

And what sixth sense do you have to find that out? Is it like a spidey sense? Cause lord knows women aren't great at selecting out men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:44 PM
5

Women can sense when a guy comes in with ulterior motives and it happens often. What does this even mean? Ulterior motives like being attracted to you? Wanting to sleep with you? Like every guy ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:28 PM
1

I see no reason to believe that memes are made insincerely, especially theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:52 PM
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Overweight or slob women do not want equivalent men. I’d also tell them to get their shit together before accepting something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:15 AM
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Is being overweight or a slob reason enough to not be friends with someone? What is this gossip girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:40 AM
5

You assume their poetry would be sunshine and roses? lol They don't have an ideology they just hate themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:26 AM
2

I miss braincels lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:18 AM
9

Why would "love" require willful ignorance about their problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:15 AM
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Their version of poetry is memes, which have been banned on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:13 AM
5

Why cheat rather than just break up? Are you afraid of being alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:36 AM
2

Thanks kween 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:18 AM
3

Women can respect ugly men the same way men can respect ugly men Outside of the context of a relationship, sure. But I meant respect specifically as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:34 PM
5

Both are probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:50 AM
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My b, yeah you can’t slip if you aren’t already attractive of course, but you won’t have anything in that case anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:00 AM
5

Like if you let yourself go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:16 AM
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Inshallah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:49 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:48 PM
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If a woman doesn't find you attractive, she is not capable of respecting you as a partner. If you let yourself slip, their respect for you will drop, and they will treat you worse. Getting close to blackpill content, but it's not like they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 11:46 PM
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This is a semantics argument. You asked where the blurry line roughly lies. I told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:24 PM
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If it's verbalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:55 PM
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There are a million reasons for this But which of those reasons then stops being valid when she changes her mind if the guys backs off? You're missing, or avoiding, the key detail here. Either way it doesn't matter. The answer is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:07 PM
1

Peer pressure is overt. The FSM and all it's expectations are very much covert.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:59 PM
3

I think I've downvoted like two things ever. I can't imagine someone downvoting an internet comment without also imagining that person as a spergy mad nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:57 PM
2

You still have two months Get what you deserve kween 💅👑✨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:55 PM
2

It is rape. But if you back off, and that no turns into a yes, then there you go. Have you actually been reading my comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:49 PM
2

If you back off after she says no, then she wonders what happens and pulls you back in, what do you think her initial goal was in saying no the first time? Do you really think the guy backing off all of a sudden changed her whole attitude towards sex? That she was completely firm on not wanting to sleep with the guy until he went “oh ok.”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:40 PM
1

Uhh that’s pretty clearly rape, why are you being so uncharitable?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:33 PM
5

Rape is the exact opposite of what anyone who goes to TRP wants, it's nonsensical from the start. Talking about things you aren't actually familiar with isn't a great way to go about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:26 PM
1

If it's not a "real no" then its a negotiation tactic, a power play of sorts. "Dance for me a bit more monkey". You don't negotiate with terrorists, you call their bluff. If its not a bluff then that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:23 PM
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I haven't heard that. Well you weren't getting your information from the primary source then. I have heard reference to TRP tips for "pushing through lmr". Maybe in a title, but you came up with rape on your own, or you heard it from someone else more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:20 PM
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They don't say "push past it". The response to LMR is to stop and go do your own thing. If they then come back and claw you back with sex out of their own volition then that answers the question. And a firm "no" isn't LMR that's just a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:28 PM
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"Last minute resistance". Things are progressing as usual, kissing touching etc., but they hold off at the last moment. "we are not having sex tonight teehee". Less of unwanted sex and more of a negotiation tactic. The answer to it is to stop, and go do your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:25 PM
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Unwanted sex is not LMR, and rape is not the answer to LMR. But to answer your question, men are too agreeable before they come to TRP. TRP is supposed to be a correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:11 PM
3

Heavy exercise in general allows you to be far more lenient with your diet outside of calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:10 AM
2

it would imply that incls are the bottomest tier of attractiveness. This is their entire claim, they aren't avoiding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:10 PM
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Nothing wrong with a little bit of escapism, but avoiding reality is no way to live
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:08 PM
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It's escapism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:49 PM
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She clearly has some internal dilemma going on in her life. No one who is confident in what they want in their future would act like this. Probably the whole career vs. family thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:04 PM
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Yeah makes sense. Engineering is where the big bucks are at but IT can still be pretty good especially once you move up the chain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 04:28 AM
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What sort of IT? Generally when people say "tech" they mean engineering, which I'd expect any non-technical organization like the military to outsource to a private company
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:40 AM
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Most people hang up on cold-callers looking to sell them ADT services or to talk to them about their vehicle's extended warranty. I don't think those are the people making bank in sales though. Luxury goods and B2B are $$$ as far as I know. I don't think there's that much of a shortage in tech or medical jobs I work in tech, there are plenty of people who want to break into the industry but far less who are proven to be competent and are experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:58 AM
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Because everyone wants tech, healthcare, and to be sold something. And replacing people in tech, medical, and sales is harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:12 AM
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No but we've all been tailgated before, seems like a much bigger problem. Can't have too much sympathy for someone getting brake-checked if they've been riding on someone's ass for miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:11 AM
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God I hate zoomers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:04 PM
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While the specific divisions between "races" are a social construct, genetic differences between those "races" and of ethnicity are not. The fact that we can tell what part of the world someone's heritage is from by a glance is enough proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:00 PM
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You will never know the real answer. Just assume she's had some fun and move on from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:19 PM
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I think when she says "when looking for a life partner" she means gaining the eXpErIeNcE from sleeping with a bunch of men, as if that will better prepare a woman for a serious relationship. Many woman, including her it seems, take commitment less seriously and enter relationships more easily. Other people, like myself, hold a higher standard for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:34 PM
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What exactly is she being contradictory about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:15 PM
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Is this a genuine question or are you just denying the existence of AF/BB? If this is genuine question: AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:04 PM
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Once you know what its like to be the "AF", or even know how they get treated secondhand, everything else feels like a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:02 PM
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I know what creeps women out and how to read subtle signs of discomfort, and also how much time/conversation should go by before taking the next step. At least I like to think so. If you're an unattractive male, your existence is creepy. Can't escape that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:48 AM
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Is she bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:09 PM
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Is there a place I can check out to see the announcement or figure it out for myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:05 PM
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Because no one wants to think they've already hit their peak
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:53 PM
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Sure, but saying "anything in excess is bad" doesn't actually tell you anything about how good that thing is at a baseline. You need to know that in order to actually tell where excess lies. Obviously a treat every now and then is perfectly fine and probably good for you at least psychologically, but I know that soda I have everyday is shit for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:50 PM
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Sugar really isn't great. Sure calories are what affect weight gain/loss, but sugar fucks with your insulin response, fucks with your appetite, and I think there's growing research that it can fuck with inflammation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:42 PM
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If they wanted to work they wouldn't have gone into academia lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:45 AM
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It's a spectrum between being autistic and being a chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:29 PM
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FEET
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:24 PM
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...combat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:24 PM
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Well the alternative is to risk being taken advantage of or to waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve it. Pick your poison, you have to draw a line somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:22 PM
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Absolute train-wrecks the lot of them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:36 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:31 PM
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The numbers between CA and FL for example aren't that far off from each other despite the vastly difference approaches. I just don't think these deaths are as preventable as people want to believe - we wish for control we ultimately don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:30 PM
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You can't prevent disease, we aren't gods
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:15 PM
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Because arousal has nothing to do with sensibility. Conservative men are also far less likely to abandon their masculine traits then their liberal peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:13 PM
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Tease them about it, tell them to give you something to run with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:12 PM
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The traditional relationship is much higher risk for men nowadays. Dating women who can support themselves makes it far less likely for you to be beta-buxxed and far safer for you financially in the event of a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:48 AM
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It is payment in a sense, but it's small enough to the point where it doesn't concern me financially or make me wary of their intentions. I could go on a new coffee date everyday and it wouldn't cost me more than $30 a week, but a dinner date would run me into the hundreds. And the girls I date are going to be financially stable enough to the point where they wouldn't need to go on a date with some chump to get coffee - they would just buy themselves a coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:04 PM
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I understand the rationale, you want to vet for a guy who is actually interested and paying for a meal might be a way to do that, I'm just skeptical about it in practice. I know many other women prefer to split the tab or pay for their own meals/whatever as to avoid the psychological need to "return the favor", as another commenter put it. Guys are also wary about being taken for a ride. I have paid for a meal before, I did last Friday for someone I've been seeing since I suggested a new place w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:01 PM
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the general and reasonable suspicion women have towards men in general This general suspicion dissipates around men who women actually want. Men having to pay a woman for her time is a distinct reminder that he is not worthy of her time in her eyes from the get go. I don’t mind getting her a coffee or a drink, but deliberately asking for some form of payment on the first date does not sit well with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:31 PM
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Well they could at least try, I remember when they build all those temporary units which went...unused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:29 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:02 PM
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thanks reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:55 PM
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This question is more suited for a philosophy department not a shit-slinging gender debate forum
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:55 PM
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The restrictions were always about hospital and ICU capacity and crushing the healthcare system In the beginning yes - I remember when "flatten the curve" was a thing. Not as much anymore. Interesting how there has been no increase in capacity since despite all the trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:44 PM
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Heh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:41 PM
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People are really freaking out despite the lack of deaths. It honestly seems like all this has more to do with punishing anti-vaxxers than actual health outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:19 PM
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bippity boppity fugghedabout it Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:07 PM
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It’s surprisingly close to 50/50 Not every woman is a Redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:35 PM
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What is she not getting the bar attention she was used to before she was married?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:19 AM
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All federal powers have to be enumerated within the Constitution. If the government wanted to mandate vaccination they would have to justify it through their enumerated powers. Granted I'm talking about private citizens not federal employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:16 AM
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That's not how the Constitution works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:38 AM
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M, 24, 18-24
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:38 AM
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Looks like it’s not anymore, it’s sad how the selection on streaming services has fallen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 04:54 AM
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Just finished BoJack Horseman, great show. I can see a lot of myself in Bojack and the poor decisions he made, and that's terrifying. Any recs for similar shows?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:45 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 09:26 PM
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Like I said, they're the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:00 PM
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Yes? Not sure where you're trying to steer this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:53 PM
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I don't. Some think we should however.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:31 PM
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It's less to do with learning about them and more to do with some people believing we should feel guilty for them and join some never ending battle for restorative justice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:20 PM
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Chad is in your blood, not your social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:14 PM
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If kids start dying left and right I'm pretty sure people will comply far more quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:04 AM
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Yes, the blue pill fantasy would be real. Men wouldn't need to learn otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:52 AM
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Are you at liberty to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:06 AM
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The red pill is a response to the changing sexual strategies of the modern age, and is made up of guys who once believed in the blue pill fantasy. I don't think making those fantasies reality would be so negative. People forget that the red pill is reactionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:01 AM
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That sounds pretty interesting, do you work in public health? I’ve gotten more and more surprised at how much faith people put in institutions over the years. Not that they can’t do great work, but all organizations are at the end of the day are groups of people like you and me. They can make collective mistakes, they can be riddled with internal and external politics, and they aren’t divine or immune from criticism. It’s like growing up and realizing your parents aren’t perfect, and people don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:50 PM
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There will never be 100% compliance of anything provided people have a choice, it’s a nonsensical standard to uphold. At some point individuals need to be allowed to do their own risk assessment, but hysteria over cases rather than outcomes muddles the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:30 PM
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I HATE THE MEDIA I HATE THE MEDIA I HATE THE MEDIA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:05 PM
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I've got some guilty pop pleasures too. Dua Lipa, Doja Cat, Ava Max, Bebe Rexha. They make me feel like a strong independent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:55 PM
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Looks like my workplace is re-instituting a mask policy due to the delta variant. Am I the only one who thinks the obsession over cases is missing the mark? Cases are rising but deaths/hospitalizations are still low. At what point does the mental calculus change if the disease becomes benign for almost all vaccinated people? Are we even allowing ourselves to consider the possibility? I fear we have forgotten the risk side of the risk-reward balance due to this case obsession - vaccinations don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:52 PM
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If you define a girl going out of her way to impress a guy she really likes as a pick-me, then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:07 PM
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It's not as obvious as you may think, and I wouldn't call 48 laws of power as mainstream thinking. Just because something has been thought of before doesn't make it widely known. It's not difficult to think that a woman may appreciate a man who can put a lot of time and effort into his health, and so men may mistakenly believe they should present that side of them to get her interested. After all, women are supposed to like hard working men right? That's what men have been told right? It's far h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:34 PM
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My problem is more of the burn in my lungs. They say to run at a conversational pace, but that's never made sense to me. I can walk at a brisk pace for hours, but if I break into a jog I can't waste breaths talking after a mile in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:29 PM
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Kinda hate seeing all the work he puts into his body, I’d rather go back to the days I thought he worked out a few times a week and stayed in shape that way. It's funny, TRP has already found this out. Whenever a girl asks how often you go to the gym you're supposed to say "every now and then" or some shit - women don't actually want to know about or care about the effort it takes, they would rather think its au naturale. If you peer at the man behind the curtain, all the mystery is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:22 PM
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I've never had a runner's high, it's just always felt like death.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:17 PM
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Are you actually a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:02 PM
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In context
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:59 PM
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I agree lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:36 PM
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Like I said, it's the first filter for men. And if they don't get commitment after only offering sex, then it's clearly not true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:22 PM
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I think you're trying to dig into the specific wording of my post and you're missing the overall point. At least I don't think I was disagreeing with her, since when men are settled for, its almost always for reasons that are NOT sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:33 PM
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It's a necessary condition, not a sufficient one. You can have genuine sexual attraction without an emotional connection. You cannot have a genuine emotional connection without sexual attraction (within the context of a romantic relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:31 PM
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Not really, pity sex to get some wallet to stay with her isn't good enough. They prioritize not being alone vs. finding someone who is actually attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:19 PM
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It's the first filter, and a very important one to generate an emotional connection. If she isn't actually into you, it's guaranteed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:17 PM
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Usually they don’t, they compromise on sexual attraction from their partner in order to get a crumb of pussy. If you put sexual attraction first ahead of other factors, it’s far more likely she’s going to be genuinely into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:51 PM
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Maybe in your experience, I can only speak for what I see really
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:36 PM
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Nah I didn’t read the post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:35 PM
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Well I didn’t make a statement comparing the two did I?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:05 AM
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Well if the first step doesn’t happen, neither can the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 02:07 AM
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Well then no one is going to have any fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:44 AM
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I believe you and I'm not surprised. My gripe however is more with the women who expect you to be a sex god and get her off first time with no input from her end whatsoever. Not fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:04 PM
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Trans-women are lower on the privilege ladder than women, so women getting abused is a smaller price to pay than trans-women getting abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:31 PM
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Maybe don't sleep with someone if you're worried they won't take it well, and especially don't marry that person. But whatever the reason, it still stands. It's a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:20 PM
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Most women are awful about communicating in bed. You can't improve if you're given no feedback and you can't get your partner off if you don't know what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:14 PM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:23 PM
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Damn some of the responses from women here make me feel like a Chad for even getting dates in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:42 PM
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Get the job, estimate expenses, then move.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:15 PM
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Depends on your income. I live in San Diego. Lovely city, but you need money, especially if you want to buy real estate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:12 PM
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FDS Princess telling men how to signal that they're a betabuxx Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:48 PM
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beach mansion in southern Europe If this isn't LARP that's pretty sick. May be at the point where you're so loaded it's hard to discern real interest from fake interest, so keeping it down low is probably the best strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:46 PM
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Alpha/Beta makes sense as a dichotomy of traits rather than pure labels. Yeah this is closer to how it was originally defined on TRP. You can create archetypes out of these traits, but it's a spectrum with real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:41 PM
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Because yesterday's woke is today's normal, and today's woke is tomorrow's normal. You can make any statement sound true by redefining its terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:35 PM
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24, Software Eng
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:19 PM
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Memory: 119 Verbal: 115 Spatial: 139 Overall: 117 Autism confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:51 PM
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Damn this really is your day job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:34 PM
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$200k is still UMC. Elite usually means generational wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:23 PM
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That makes sense, but body composition is a whole other topic. Body weight is a function of thermodynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:21 AM
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Yeah not surprising. I was on Prozac a couple times and it made me feel like a hedonistic robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:20 AM
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I would be very surprised. RMR is going to be based on basic metabolic pathways which are consistent across most species let alone across individuals. I’m pretty sure all medications that can cause weight gain or weight loss do so by affecting ones appetite or perceived energy levels. Drugs like DNP that actually do affect your metabolism by making your body extremely inefficient are extremely dangerous, as the extra energy your body expends can literally cook you alive. I can’t imagine a medica…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:18 AM
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I'm sure your perceived energy levels can affect your movement throughout the day, which will have an affect on your CO, but basic metabolic processes are not changed due to antidepressants. Even then, its all the same. Less meals/smaller portions/less calorie dense foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:08 PM
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It works the same was as when you're not on antidepressants. CICO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:20 PM
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LGBTQ people now confirmed to be branded
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:37 PM
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You’ve avoided the point I was making
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:00 PM
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If his respect is based on her not sleeping with people immediately, then that respect is built on a lie, because she does in fact do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:22 PM
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Can you define “may think I’ll of her”? Do you mean he may think she’s someone who sleeps with people immediately? Because she does do that, and trying to hide that is completely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:21 PM
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They aren't necessarily going to cheat no, but the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. I'd peg someone who is promiscuous as more likely to cheat than someone who is chaste. Either way, these aversions are pretty innate and were likely honed in a real jungle, not a concrete jungle. Concepts of commitment and consent are not as well defined in that arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:38 PM
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Greater number of partners = greater chance she is impregnated by someone other than yourself since there are just more "others"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:03 PM
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The commodification of sex removes its personal touch
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:34 PM
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And a woman being promiscuous doesn't automatically correlate to paternity fraud, it just means she has had sex in the past The connection is obvious is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:28 PM
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Not really, at least not outside of their online circles. They're far more likely to kill themselves than hurt anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:19 PM
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We all still live in the jungle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:36 PM
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So that was Mary's secret...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:35 PM
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I think its sort of a combination of both. Women's standards are rising due to their economic success and social-media/OLD's ability to connect them with a smorgasbord of dick. And the average male may in fact be losing his edge mostly due to economic struggle, and maybe in part due to newer forms of entertainment removing the incentive to socialize like in years past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:32 PM
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"Nature" isn't this overarching force like that, this isn't some Avatar bullshit where everything is connected. "Nature" in this sense is within the individual, it's selfish, it's self-serving, and it is going to be concerned with the individuals lineage, not the species as a whole. It takes nine months and years after to raise a child, that's a lot of time and energy. It's not surprising that there may be some innate aversion to paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:24 PM
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For almost all people, men and women, sending explicit pictures to someone other than their partner will constitute cheating. Doesn't matter if its for money or pleasure or attention. Couples can decide on whatever boundaries they wish, but the vast majority of people do not consider that appropriate behavior in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:14 PM
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Not really, most incels blame themselves, mostly their genes. They may be bitter and angry and lash out but their grief ultimately stems from self-hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:10 PM
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I think it's worth remembering that most people who are going to hang around the TRP subreddit are going to be new and/or works in progress. Namely men who either didn't have much success previously or who got screwed over, also known as Average Frustrated Chumps (AFC's). They're going to be angry and bitter, and TRP acknowledges this through what they call the "anger phase". The goal is to use this anger phase to reorient yourself away from the people pleasing, beta guy you may have used to be,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:08 PM
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I don't hate them, I just wouldn't date them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:41 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 05:34 PM
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It depends on your goals. Different stresses will produce different adaptations. If your goal is to build strength, or to gain muscle, you need to place enough tension on the muscle to produce the appropriate response. 30 rep sets are quite high and are going to have a proportionally lower intensity (weight). They're more of a test of muscular endurance which is what you interpret as exhaustion. Granted if one is a beginner they will respond to pretty much anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:49 AM
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Damn bitch you live like this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:43 AM
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The problem is that maids in countries like Shanghai are probably paid poverty wages compared to the COL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:42 AM
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Because you can go heavier with 3x10 than 1x30
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:38 AM
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I would counter by saying I was born in the UK but we aren't doing great in that regard either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:25 PM
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I'm afraid not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:15 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:11 PM
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I think a hybrid approach is best, which is what we are doing starting September. Sometimes I'm going to want to be in the office - meetings, working with someone, if I need to stay focused. Othertimes I'm going to want to be home - can't be assed to go in, current task is slow and I don't need to be in the zone all day, have a tighter schedule planned, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:11 PM
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He's prob rich
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:01 PM
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I like the convenience but I get distracted working from home. And keeping that separation of work from the home can also be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:57 PM
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I don't see where he said that. He said the average woman, which isn't all women. Even still, it is surprising how often that consensus does come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:28 PM
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I don't see what wholly encompassing claims he's making that aren't the equivalent of being afraid of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:16 PM
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Studies are not inherently bulletproof because they've passed peer review. That's an unscientific way to look at them. They're no panacea. Many social sciences have reproducibility issues anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:30 PM
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His life experience is crucial for him, as is yours for you. You don't have to take it as gospel, but if that's what he has experienced then it's reality to someone. I doubt you'd decry a woman who has been abused as she states she's scared of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:24 PM
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I wouldn't suggest FDS women are going to give good advice to men in the same way that TRP anger phase guys are going to give good advice to women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:11 PM
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Don’t even get me started on Sugma males
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:58 PM
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Dunno about that. Women generally respond positively to a man who isn't afraid to shut them down if they're acting poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:10 PM
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You're welcome, yeah I'm not sure how that advice is supposed to work unless it's supposed to portray some sort of virtue that she doesn't actually have if she sometimes breaks that rule anyway. I think phrasing it like that is fine. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:46 AM
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I don't think being honest like that would hurt, but if it were me I'd probably probe a bit further - I'd be skeptical on how that would burn things out exactly and how exactly it was sex that hurt things for you before. At least in my case, my main concern with waiting for sex is that it makes it harder to judge how attracted the girl actually is to me, and I don't want to be taken for a ride. Ultimately it depends on how much I like you outside of sex and how slow exactly you want it. I also w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:06 AM
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Well now he has to pay for her past trauma, still seems pretty rip to me. I can empathize, but it's not like there's no cost to the new guy (that she supposedly likes better) so it's silly to dismiss that. Hopefully that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:42 PM
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What specifically does withholding sex do to make the relationship mean more? If it’s to not give off the impression that she has slept around so the guy doesn’t view her in that way, then she’s being duplicitous, because she does act in that way. Only explanation that makes sense to me is so her feelings are protected if she gets attached after sex. But if that doesn’t happen with other guys then that signals that she simultaneously has two very different views towards sex which does not sit ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:03 PM
2

Not sure if you agree or if I hit a nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:41 PM
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Even if she tells you, you have no way to verify it. It's best to look for other markers of behavior, and portray an open mind so she voluntarily spills any details.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:14 PM
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I agree, our minds are always searching for something to be worried about, and if there's nothing out there it will make up something by itself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:34 PM
2

Sweden checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:24 PM
3

Living your best life is the prize. All the spoils of life will follow. Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:23 PM
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Nono, I mean for the woman to be a degenerate slut or a prudish virgin, it depends on who she’s talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:48 PM
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Depends on who they’re talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:52 PM
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Sounds like normal woman shit to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:58 PM
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I’ll clarify: within the context of a non-platonic relationship, sexual desire is necessary for a woman to respect you as a partner. If that desire is lost through actions of your own, she will lose respect for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:16 PM
1

If a woman doesn't want to fuck you, she can't respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:04 PM
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For sure, but nothing helps with that other than experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:57 PM
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Right, but the hotter the chick the easier it is for your “head” to overcome it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:48 PM
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I've had performance anxiety a couple times in bed, and at first I thought it may have been to do with porn usage. Then after sleeping with someone who I wanted just by looking at I realized it may have just been that I wasn't that attracted to the girls I was previously seeing. Granted dropping the porn would probably do me good, the porn could still be altering what "tier" of girl I need to easily get me hard and I do believe it has had other negative effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:10 PM
1

Well you don't need to rationalize not wearing one now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:28 PM
1

🥱🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:00 PM
1

What on earth does "individualism" have to do with going to Disneyland or being in crowds 😂 I can't see how that's a problem unless you're also at Disneyland...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:58 PM
2

Bruh it's not the masks ffs how many times have I said this 😫😫
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:39 PM
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Stigma over people who are no longer doing anything wrong is just an exercise of one's ego and perceived moral superiority. The faster people drop it the better we will all be and any attempt to prolong it becomes actively harmful. And yes I understand the irony in that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:06 PM
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This is the anti-social behavior I'm concerned with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:45 PM
1

More like a constant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:25 PM
1

Social attitudes affect us all, it's not unreasonable to be critical of them. We are not above judgement just because we are all individuals and our motivations are not above criticism. I am making assumptions about people, but given the attitudes we've seen over this past year I do believe they are well informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:06 PM
2

That's a better reason than not wanting to appear different! I honestly support that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:58 PM
2

I thought east Asian countries generally only wear masks when they're actively sick, or when air pollution is bad, not as a general rule. As I explained below, it's not the masks that concern me. It's the neuroticism and anti-social behavior that motivates people to wear them after they are no longer that useful. I don't really believe most people are that concerned about the common cold, and it has much more to do with people not wanting to appear as "the bad guy" for not wearing one. Which I j…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:57 PM
2

If not wearing a mask after restrictions have lessened is the same as making a scene, then I guess so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:54 PM
2

Maybe, but it appears I hit the money on it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:49 PM
1

My work still has a mask policy, I don't know if they're going to change it soon. I don't have to wear one in my cube though which is good enough for me for now. I still see service workers wearing masks, I believe they're still required to by law (which is kinda sad). Then in healthcare, public transport, etc. you still need to wear one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:48 PM
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It's not the masks I care about. Obviously someone else wearing a mask has no effect on me or my life. What I care about is the neuroticism and anti-social behavior that motivates people to wear a mask well after their usefulness has expired. The same mentality will only worsen the social effects of covid restrictions at a time we want to start healing from them. I live in San Diego county, we've been averaging around 50 cases a day in a county of 3.5 million people. And I'd strongly expect thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:45 PM
2

While I'm sure that you genuinely believe not getting a cold to be a good reason to wear one, I'd still put a lot of money down that the real motivation for people like you to wear one is to not appear like an anti-masker or stand out from the crowd. The cold thing is just a convenient rationalization. Especially since like you said you'll drop them given others do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:39 PM
1

What state are you in? Surprised that California would be ahead of any other state tbh, but maybe that's due to vaccination rates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:36 PM
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get away from me disease spreaders Like I said, "neuroticism about disease" If no one around you is wearing a mask anymore will you still?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:30 PM
2

I still see people wearing a mask when they're on a run in the heat around a lake with no one around them 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:28 PM
2

Hell no flaunt that thing, no more body shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:26 PM
2

Despite the mask mandate being dropped for most people yesterday in California, it seems that everywhere I go people are still wearing masks. I'm quite confident that most of the people still wearing masks are actually vaccinated, and are only wearing them due to the neuroticism about disease that has plagued Californians for a year as to not appear like those people. There are too many of them to ascribe them all to reasons like "allergies" or "men telling me to smile". I can't say I'm surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:21 PM
0

I don't really think the top nth of the 1% dictate real estate prices tbh Unless they're responsible for policies that prevent building new housing but I think that's mostly boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:40 PM
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Based Still can't buy a house here tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:36 PM
2

I make low six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:30 PM
1

Feels good to be better than people 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:21 PM
2

Are there plans for where this tax revenue will be going or is it just raising taxes for taxes' sake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:14 PM
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I've been working in tech for a year now, and I still lived with my parents for a while just cause rent is pretty expensive and wanted to save up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:07 PM
1

By low status I meant unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:20 AM
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🥱🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:51 PM
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Most women probably wouldn't love the idea of making strangers hard when they are out and about doing errands (tho I'm sure some wouldn't mind!) so as long as you keep it to yourself and are discreet nobody is impacted This is what that thread was about, but people still recoiled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:39 PM
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No, but I don't think US workers are overworked compared to the Japanese, Chinese, or other poor south Asian countries. It's just more "third world country with a Gucci belt" drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:37 PM
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I don't think they're pretending, they're genuinely disgusted by low status males and are recoiling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:34 PM
2

Maybe if your "world" only includes the US and lazy euros lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:32 PM
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That's a reach. Don't be surprised that young men are awkward when basic inquiries into other people's sexuality are met with hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:44 PM
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When you said you agreed with that poster, and immediately brought up being approached while 11 years old, it's really not hard to assume you had bridged the gap from OP to that in your mind already. But thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:42 PM
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We've gone from the actions of the OP, which are quite normal and benign, to following an underage girl around. Don't tell me we haven't gone off the mark, I'm trying to keep this on topic so the pond isn't poisoned. And I expect it's because by telling them how old you are, you put up resistance and forced them to acknowledge what they were doing, which scared them off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:34 PM
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A reality which is very far removed from the actions of the OP and only serves to demonize him and I highly doubt those men didn't know how old you were
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:18 PM
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Unfortunately, women find the sexual desires of unattractive men viscerally disgusting and terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:17 PM
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I think this is primarily because the OP describes himself as someone who "avoids" relationships, so readers will automatically place him as an unattractive or awkward man. In that context, talking about how he is a sexual being is met with immediate shaming no matter what the transgressions may or may not have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:11 PM
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How did you take this from not even popping a boner to stalking an underage girl? Jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:07 PM
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None of this dudes responses to women in public are harmful in any way and are totally normal, you just find it weird because it was written in a strange way by a man who "avoids" relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:05 PM
9

Arousal is not a conscious process
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:57 PM
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You aren't a man, you're not in a position to understand male arousal. No need to attach moral values to biological processes if they don't extend further.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:55 PM
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There's certainly a spectrum, of which material can range from life lessons from a father all the way to rage bait libtard destroyed youtube compilations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:54 PM
0

Because it's what various elements of culture had taught us to win a woman's affections - be nice, supportive, and provide validation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:52 PM
1

This is still very important, women want their friends to like and admire their boyfriends, it conveys status
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:35 PM
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I've found his comment which has since been deleted, so copy pasting it here: I definitely feel this. When I was in my twenties every girl I dated treated me as the studio apartment of boyfriends. I was never meant to be more than a placeholder for something better when it became viable, and they only had me because they weren't comfortable having nothing. Now that I'm in my thirties I'm one of those guys girls have "learned to appreciate" 🤮 and dating has become weeks of dispassionate vetting f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:34 PM
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I think it mostly stems from the conversations she's had with her friends who have similar observations regarding their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:32 PM
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And he'd be hotter taller
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:20 PM
2

They only are if you choose not to the play you hand you have been dealt. On the contrary, the hand they have been dealt is exactly many people's problems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:01 PM
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Leaving OLD won't remove you from the consequences of OLD however.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:59 PM
1

You really don’t think race plays a role in dating preferences? Be real dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:29 PM
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Your preference reflects how hot you find someone, it’s just amusing because your type of response is basically a trope at this point With his same personality and looks at 5’5 he would have been just as hot. No, no he wouldn’t have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:20 PM
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Guys can be hot at any height As long as he's taller than me teehee And the 6' guy was my favorite I mean come on now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:55 PM
3

Early 50s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:41 PM
10

I actually had a short conversation about this with my mother recently. She said she doesn't see people dating anymore, and wonders what's going wrong. She blames it on social media, and she's partially right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:40 PM
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Why is "doing what you want" the ultimate arbiter of truth nowadays? Is it really faux pas to say that hedonism is not necessarily the best choice? Can our desires be anything other than infallible?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:38 PM
1

Great point tbh, better get that full credit report before marrying someone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:26 PM
5

Fuck I was using my foot instead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:42 AM
1

I don't believe AF/BB is ubiquitous no, but it's certainly something men should be aware and weary of
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:15 PM
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If normal working people can't "make the cut" due to COL how is that a good thing? Are these people "stepping up" just going to accept a lower quality of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:14 PM
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I think in the example you gave, she would likely be granted alimony, and would receive half of the assets in the marriage whatever they may be. That’s a lot better than nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:30 PM
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Go be unhelpful somewhere else thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:19 PM
2

I get that, but all of those factors would still be present if the couple were not married. Marriage specifically, which is what the discussion was about, raises her power. If a man wanted to keep whatever power dynamic was there intact, he would avoid marriage. I’m sure as a family lawyer you know that marriage provides certain rights to the lower earning spouse that he or she is not entitled to outside of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:29 PM
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I understand where you're trying to go with this, but purely in terms of legal power marriage raises the lesser contributor up. Like I get that some guys like being the breadwinner because they feel more in control, but if anything marriage reduces that control per se, at least legally. So that's what doesn't make sense to me, why men would see it in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:06 PM
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Economic power yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:58 PM
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The major difference between AF/BB and men's equivalent is that men's treatment of women they want to date is better than their treatment of women they just want to sleep with. AF/BB is notorious for a previously dis-inhibited woman going shy with her life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:56 PM
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They do understand that, and they see it as a bad deal and don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:49 PM
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Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:47 PM
2

That doesn't make sense, marriage will raise her "power" by legally entitling her to half of the total income and assets generated by the couple no matter her own contribution. Dating maybe, but marriage certainly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:46 PM
2

Don't have to be on it to be affected by the people who are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:34 AM
6

Limb lengthening is extremely risky, they're right to scoff at it as a "solution"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:30 AM
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Because if men were as brutal about fat women as women are about short men, they'd be doxxed by twitter hordes in an instant and thrown to the masses
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:27 AM
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This is something that I've been thinking about too. Is it really just about bodily autonomy, or is it about preventing the creation of another human being? If there was a procedure that wasn't anymore invasive than an abortion, but would preserve the fetus so it could grow until "birth", would woman pick that over a normal abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:46 PM
2

Yeah I'm not gonna blink twice at buying my date a coffee or a round of drinks or something, at that point it's just a nice gesture not a test of my interest or whatever they're calling it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:32 AM
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Yeah makes sense, happy ending kinda thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:17 AM
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🐕💊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:16 AM
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Yeah I expect it would be true for single fathers too. I wouldn't expect women to be rushing to date single fathers either. Ideally single fathers and single mothers could date each other but I'm sure that would be logistically difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:15 AM
3

Don't go on an expensive first date and this is a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:13 AM
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When it comes to dating a single mother, you're either first in her life or second. Neither of those are good options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:11 AM
2

Failure is part of the process of becoming a man. Being a man means being competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:09 AM
2

Exactly, it's a catch 22. Which is why men are told to not mention it or lie in order to break through it, and why being a virgin into your late 20s or 30s becomes worse and worse in the eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:07 AM
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None of this is relevant to the fact that a girl will question why you're a virgin and it will affect her attraction to you. Fixing those issues does nothing to remove the stigma until you manage to stop being a virgin. That's the point of contention here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:03 AM
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I don't see how that would change anything even if it was true (which I don't believe it is). A socially awkward guy turns women off all the same. There will always be a "why?" in the back of a girl's mind when they find out a guy is a virgin, and that question can be a killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:43 AM
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What reason would they be given to start fucking the guys they weren't already fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:18 AM
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You're missing the entire other half of the equation where a girl wants you to put your dick into her. If you haven't, it's more than likely because no girl has wanted you to. That is a reflection upon you, and women know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:17 AM
1

Ah I misread your comments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:15 PM
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It's a common theme that women seek casual sex from a certain tier of men that wouldn't necessarily commit to them, and then start to believe that since they can get those men to fuck them they should also be able to get those men to commit to them. They also lose all interest in the "tier" of men who would have committed to them before. They essentially become spoiled through casual sex. Then comes the I don't need no man phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:08 PM
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Some of them. There have been many posts/comments that run against that grain and advocate keeping casual partners while making more serious prospects wait. I know one post made the rounds here a while back though I don't have a link to it still.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:57 PM
2

So TRP is right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:53 PM
3

So why weren’t you fucking those men you desired instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:41 PM
4

It's over for melanin-cels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:18 PM
7

Women do prioritize them because they are fucking them and not what Lily calls "desirable men"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:15 PM
2

absolutely based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:13 PM
1

Ah yes, I forgot about those remote retail positions of course. The point is jobs that cost more than they're worth won't exist. Price floors for labor increase unemployment. Gotta consider the tradeoffs - is it better that those who are employed make more if there are more people unemployed having to deal with potential inflationary results, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:46 AM
1

I get a small caramel frappe relatively often, more sugar than coffee but it's just good 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:49 AM
2

It's still gotta get done, it'll just get done by robots
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:48 AM
3

absolutely brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:37 AM
4

BOOBA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:37 AM
3

And very few of them have problems with access to sex/dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:35 AM
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Jesus that whole subreddit is cognitive dissonance personified. Men willingly gaslighting themselves to avoid painful truths. Just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:33 AM
4

Do you regularly interact with young people nowadays? Or are you extrapolating from your own experiences in your youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:29 AM
6

Have you not seen the thread on the Telegraph data? Tons of young men nowadays are totally fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:22 AM
1

As long as that labor is worth $20/hr, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:15 AM
5

🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:34 PM
9

I'm seeing "dad bod" being redefined to mean a strong man who isn't super lean. Even though we all know what a dad bod originally meant. Fucking ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:32 PM
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That's reddit when it comes to everything. Anytime a less than palatable truth is mentioned they have to crawl out of the wood works to remind everyone about the <1% of cases that don't conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:43 PM
2

I appreciate your approach and I think the balance you've struck is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:57 AM
4

I personally only want to sleep with people who are enthusiastically interested in sleeping with me and who are fully capable of consenting to the activity Yes, you are not unique in that. I have always been open with asking "Can I do X?" or "Do you want to do Y?" Do you put the same requirements on him as well? To me the leap from foreplay to fucking warrants verbalization, so I'll lead with something like "I want to be inside you" and wait for her response, but actively asking about everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:30 PM
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It just seems really weird for people to start trying to dictate what normal behavior should be, especially when this sort of active and continual affirmative consent is generally outside the norm for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:12 PM
3

So what happens when two parties go at each other without saying a word?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:58 PM
2

Well that just seems useless then. And it's still weird. If both parties go at each other without saying a word, was there "affirmative consent"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:45 PM
18

No he means you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:40 PM
7

Depending on how you define respect, sure. But if you want respect, you need to be able to create tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:40 PM
1

This law says you have to demonstrate what steps you took in order to prove your innocence, rather than the accusing party provide the evidence for wrongdoing. I get that rape is impossibly hard to prove sometimes, but this really is going the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:38 PM
3

Well it sounds like it just did lol "you raped me" "no I didnt" the law: "prove you didn't rape her"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:34 PM
2

Prob has the physiology of a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:33 PM
1

The jury makes its decision based on the law. If the law codifies "guilty until proven innocent" then there goes the jury
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 PM
0

There are TRP youtubers? Cringe But still I'm sure you can see the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:30 PM
0

I don't see them actively campaigning outside of the sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:57 PM
3

the bill requires that a person who is seeking to raise the defence of “reasonable belief in consent” must demonstrate what actions they took or what words they spoke to ensure they had consent. A failure to do or say something (that is, to “take steps”) to ascertain consent means that any belief in consent will not be reasonable. Sounds like guilty until proven innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:56 PM
0

Their goals seem different enough that the distinction is important. Feminists have political goals and want to influence outside politics, TRP has personal goals and wants to improve their own members.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:54 PM
1

Very low simmer, strain the loose whites off of the egg with a seive Easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:48 PM
1

Eh the terminology and attitudes act as filters, they hedge against eroding the material into more palatable forms that would ruin what made it unique in the first place. Sliding into autistic territory is less of a risk than losing itself altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:39 PM
2

So you expect more effort out of your flings than your husband? lmao you aren't fooling anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:29 PM
6

Agreed. She can't respect you if she doesn't want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:22 PM
3

This seems fair to me. Can you elaborate on which parts of the descriptions of female nature you disagree with? I think your point about heuristics is the way its supposed to be interpreted as, but most of us who seek out TRP are gonna be slightly autistic in the way we approach things so some will take it to an extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:14 PM
6

Household responsibilities != unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:09 PM
2

Abrasive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:34 PM
1

They do it for free 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:16 PM
0

Many women have sky high egos and rock bottom self esteem. The two are not equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:18 AM
2

Normal hospital occupancy rates are between 70-80%, yet the media was freaking out about totally normal levels. Really makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:07 PM
1

Only 69%? damn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:35 PM
3

That's rough, best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:19 PM
6

I mean I haven't heard that either so idk who you're hanging out with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:14 PM
6

Extending all locker room talk to imply a grave danger for womankind is a fucking leap. Not letting men have an outlet would be a far worse option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:06 PM
1

What sort of date proposition enables you to trust a man then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:47 PM
7

Because the world can be unpalatable and men need to vent sometimes, women feel the same way when they talk about men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:46 PM
1

Well that sucks, but like I said: therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:45 PM
10

It’s exclusionary Yes a space for men to talk amongst men is necessarily going to be exclusionary heaven forbid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:31 PM
3

no reason to continue to allow them to continue to talk to me wew ego So the difference between trust for you is a walk date vs. something more expensive? Girl you don't need FDS you need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:29 PM
3

If you were simply disinterested you would politely decline or suggest an alternative. Instead you said yourself you auto block - you are so offended that they would even suggest such a thing that you instantly dip. So yes, you do think that you are above them, that you are worth more than a first walk date. But I just don’t believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:36 PM
1

Then why date? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:17 PM
3

Finding success, whatever that may mean to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:10 PM
3

It's meant to be won. Which necessitates mindsets that are conducive to success, even if they may be less truthful than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:03 PM
7

Not above those guys, above a walk date. I know FDS likes to harp on them, but I honestly don't believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:55 PM
3

Regardless of how true that may be, I feel that that way of thinking is harmful as a heuristic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:54 PM
1

It was back when sexual selection was being developed, and we still live in the jungle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:43 PM
6

I think thats just reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:40 PM
4

There should at least be some decent progression and obvious interest on her part
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:40 PM
10

lol you aren't above them no matter how much you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:38 PM
3

So your time, interest, and attention is not worth the same as hers right? Which is why you need to sweeten the deal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:37 PM
9

100% of the feminine role Yeah doubt lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:35 PM
20

"Nothing is sexier" hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:05 AM
2

I don't really see how the two are mutually exclusive. Teasing means you can take someone off of a pedestal and navigate between being an ass and being a pushover, it shows that you can toe the line, read social cues, and crack a joke. Bring her back down to earth sure, but no need to put her in the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:51 AM
11

Negging is teasing, not being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:25 PM
4

I feel as if it would be a disservice to avoid talking about something no matter how convinced we are of its invalidity. Being wrong would be a greater loss than any time lost from again convincing ourselves of the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:07 PM
3

Decriminalize pot and criminalize menthols 🥴🥴🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:23 PM
1

god I hate reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:19 PM
0

Brutal. Maybe IF is more up your alley
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:53 PM
2

These lyin' hoes I stg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:06 PM
1

Can you gorge yourself on low calorie foods?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:05 PM
4

Sounds good to me, single income households are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:04 PM
14

There's a reason dudes regret missing out on a high school romance for the rest of their lives. For some of us it was probably our only shot at an actual romance. brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:25 PM
2

I'm sure there will be slight differences, but they only become relevant in extreme examples such as the ones you gave. CICO is the overwhelmingly dominant factor, to a point that saying it oversimplifies the situation will do more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:47 AM
3

CICO is impossible to violate, as it's just the first law of thermodynamics. And while the CO part of the equation can be hard to calculate, it's not really relevant - its the difference between the CI and CO that is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:31 AM
3

It's called pre-selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:04 PM
2

Nice they were already staples when I had my planned diet, need to get back on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:51 PM
1

What do you recommend for potassium?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:34 PM
3

Some people freak out over sodium levels for some reason. As long as you aren't excessive and drink enough water you're fine. Tasty food is well seasoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:57 PM
2

A very small percentage of men would be yes. But that doesn't mean that women are starving. You can do the math: Men - 10,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0 Women - 1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1,1 Averages are the same of 1, but the median is 0 for men and 1 for women. The median in this case is far more accurate to describe the normal experience of men than the mean is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:55 PM
3

No he didn't, he was reflecting on the average (in this case median) man's experience. If the mean is invariant, then it's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:36 PM
9

If you have a niche hobby or interest, you have a moral obligation to gatekeep it lest the masses dilute it down into its lowest common denominator mass market form and crush what made it niche in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:33 PM
1

If we are talking about the distribution of sex, you argued yourself that its always the same. So its not useful to describe the distribution since its constant. So bringing it up adds nothing to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:26 PM
2

The mean isn't useful as a measurement because it says nothing about the distribution of sex. The averages being equal is a mathematical certainty no matter what the distribution is, so it's not useful to describe the distribution. This is why there are other measures of central tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:48 PM
4

Do you honestly think she has some form of dysphoria or is she jumping on a trend? No one wants to ask these questions lest they get attacked - irregardless of the fact that she's only 13 ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:20 PM
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People don't like to think about the large swathes of men who are practically guaranteed to have little dating success. They would rather call their struggles and their hurt reactions to their situations as moral failings rather than something that chance or circumstance has placed upon them. Any attack on a just world is seen as terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:18 PM
19

A lot of woman are horrible at figuring out what gets them off or refuse to communicate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:08 AM
1

Good to hear they aren’t forgetting about the carrot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:09 PM
2

Are they relaxing restrictions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:33 PM
4

All of the comforts and niceties of modern society are created by the labor of men, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:50 PM
1

You can also check out the m2
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:43 PM
2

This is what our precious stimmy checks got us I love democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:35 AM
0

mfw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:23 PM
0

A massive penis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:51 PM
1

These questions are boring can we get new ones thx
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:14 PM
2

Still well below the low income limit in SF of $117k
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:13 PM
2

Can't wait until one bed apts start to hit $1MM here, what a steal!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:11 PM
1

Yeah in that case fuck 'em
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:08 PM
6

Who in the fuck is spending that much on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:41 PM
4

Don't forget the soy face :OOOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:40 PM
63

If your money is what gets you girls in the first place, you're fucked anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:33 PM
5

Haha money supply goes weeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:30 PM
12

He's 6'7" lmao Automatic 8/10 at least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:20 PM
2

So this is the power of MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:01 AM
2

Fuck ibuprofen, acetaminophen gang rise up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:55 PM
1

Every guy knows that the only girl who has a pussy in this world is the one you just happen to be talking to in that particular moment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:22 PM
2

It's super obvious whenever reddit picks up a new buzzword and runs with it cause it makes them feel intelligent. "Stochastic terrorism" is one I've seen recently, as if the concept justifies cracking down on any form of expression that some lunatic may take the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:12 PM
2

Internalized shame
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:10 PM
1

I had no sides from the vaxx. Just lol @ those coping with "stronger sides mean a stronger immune system!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:09 PM
2

From the guys POV, not getting off of the app and setting up a date as quickly as possible will lead to you getting lost in a sea of simps. And if you're gigachad to the point where women will never "lose" your messages, then there's little reason to invest so much up front when other women won't require that. You'd have to be gigastacy to pull this off, and I highly doubt they need FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:03 PM
7

Puberty is a wonderful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:27 PM
1

How does that make over half of women having a mental illness normal or unsurprising? Like is that supposed to be the default position?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:56 PM
1

An art hoe I knew from college who was also the conspiracy conservative type. Crazy and is in the habit of fucking up her life, but she's pretty chill. Don't really know if it affected her behavior, I think it was more of a fascination thing same with incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:55 PM
4

The state won't ever do that since it will lead to more kids being dependent on the state for assistance. They'd rather pass the buck to the ignorant taxpayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:58 PM
2

I get to tend da wabbits In case you didn't remember, Curly wears a glove full of Vaseline while working on the farm, so he can keep that hand soft for his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:07 PM
3

Ever read Of Mice and Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:35 PM
4

Post rationalization of the fact that they spent thousands of dollars to be lectured to without actually increasing their earning potential
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 09:35 PM
18

You don't need to be nice to get laid. Too much "niceness" can be actively detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:48 AM
5

You win the rope!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:45 AM
21

Niceness is the literal bare minimum. It's not tho, it's not even on the list lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:44 AM
6

Say it with me folks! Beta _____!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:05 PM
0

McDonald's isn't cheaper, but it is easier. I've fallen trap to it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:04 PM
1

So someone on food stamps can't complain if there are starving kids in Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:35 PM
3

Stunning and brave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:36 PM
6

immature macho posturing ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:10 PM
3

The premise is dumb. By that logic the only person who can complain about their position is someone who is at the bottom of the totem pole in every area in life. Which is obviously nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:08 PM
1

Sounds like you have to wait a while. In reality if you're attractive enough girls won't care nor ask if you're vaxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:05 PM
2

reddit moment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:54 PM
3

I won't deny that convenience can be a strong factor, but that's if they already don't mind casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:29 AM
1

When you get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:06 AM
1

I have bumble, I do decent on it. Options are obv more limited at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:05 AM
1

No part of that is unintentional lmao "It just happened I swear!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:59 AM
0

"You look...pretty?" "You wouldn't get it."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:57 AM
1

I had it on there, then got rid of it due to cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:56 AM
3

OK mr "bang more bitches" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:55 AM
5

It's more like the government is forcing businesses to close if they dare let anyone in without a shirt on, or saying you can't see your friends without a shirt on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:54 AM
1

Something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:51 AM
1

Are you saying you wear a mask while sleeping with someone? Bruh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:48 AM
8

Then why do they do it lol And I never said they necessarily enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:58 AM
1

In the context of "wearing masks while outdoors". Perhaps that wasn't his context, but it was mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:49 PM
4

The concept of branch swinging implies that it's intentional. You don't let go of the last branch until you have a firm hold on the next
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:37 PM
-1

the first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:35 PM
-1

Read the first comment in this thread dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:21 PM
0

If you're outside and not literally right next to someone, perhaps. It's been well established there's next to no risk outdoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:53 PM
5

You keep those patients outside? How strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:33 PM
1

There's rarely if ever one sole factor. But it's a large factor I'm sure you'd agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:25 PM
2

Or short guys, or small dicks, or dad bods 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:24 PM
248

Most women don't want casual sex..until they meet a guy hot enough to change their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:04 PM
2

Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:03 PM
4

In brainwashed areas they do 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:58 PM
8

State governments really need bigger carrots if they wish to convince people on the fence to get the vax. None of this "you don't need a mask while having an outdoor gathering" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:51 PM
5

Yep. The Rational Male is pretty much the bible of TRP. It doesn't touch on everything, but it's still quite comprehensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:08 PM
1

I don't think he really falls in that category tbh. She ejected him from the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:19 PM
3

You look very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:19 AM
3

I'm afraid if they're calling you a clown without makeup, it may actually be your big red nose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:10 AM
15

A bit of both really. Basic stuff like foundation or concealer to hide temporary blemishes are great, and eyeliner/mascara or things are nice for a night out. But if you're always putting on the kitchen sink you're gonna look like a clown 24/7 and at that point what do you even look like? The "natural" look is genuinely preferred by guys for most nights because it's sort of the best version of you. And we like you. But if you have to use all that stuff to cover up bad problems, then it's not rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:32 PM
30

To add to the contrary, being physically attractive plays a huge role in how someone else may perceive your humor, personality, conversation, and tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:27 PM
1

I don't understand your point - you'd be fucking her in this situation for the utility of what she has, not because you wanted to fuck her. If you wanted to fuck her you would feel the same with or without her money. Do you think people sucked off Harvey Weinstein cause they were attracted to him, or cause of what he had to offer and was withholding?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:47 PM
4

I never said date or sleep with a broke man, lmao Just don't date a man who can provide but who you aren't actually attracted to. Neither of you will end up happy. I'm sure you would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:41 PM
2

Because our sexual drive arises from our ape brains, which have been conditioned over millennia in real jungles not concrete ones. The equivalent of a broke man back then, was a weak man. We can override our ape brains, but we can't get rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:36 PM
1

Younger women, provided they are sexually mature, are in a better position health wise to birth children. You'd rather give birth in your 20s than your 40s. Younger people are also just healthier in general. Money and resources can provide for children now, but they didn't matter as much in the jungle when one couldn't hoard resources. Our ape brains haven't exactly caught up with our environment and won't for a very, very, long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:34 PM
2

You want the PS5, not the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:32 PM
10

So, if I initially perceive someone as being financially unstable and then later get confirmation that they aren't, that will make me attracted to them. Well...no. You just removed a barrier. You didn't add to the cause of your attraction. In this particular scenario what I mean by attraction is purely sexual attraction - not the sum of all the calculations you may do to decide if you would pursue someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:26 PM
1

Because money/power/status isn't the equivalent of fertility in that scenario. I don't buy that money/power/status directly cause sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:15 PM
13

Right, finances aren't what cause sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:13 PM
2

That's exactly my point, lol If the only thing that changed was money, and you're still the same guy otherwise that women weren't interested in, men are skeptical of that new "attraction"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:21 PM
3

Shot a few. Handguns, rifles, shotguns. Don't own any yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:11 PM
3

I'm not really sold on the whole power/status thing. Harvey weinstein had power and status, doesn't mean people wanted to slob on his knob. Power/status is only attractive when it comes with a package that can exemplify the charm or seduction that comes with it - aka attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:59 PM
4

Some nerdy girls can be into engineers, they may find that sort of thinking attractive. But it does often have that connotation, and I say that as an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:03 PM
3

Ehh men don't not get laid because of TRP, they go to TRP because they don't get laid, or if they do they get hurt. If they were already happy they wouldn't need TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:59 PM
6

Sure, I obviously can't comment on that kinda lifestyle. To be more concrete for you, imagine you were some guy in college who didn't really get laid. Maybe you were unattractive, or fat, or awkward, whatever. Money doesn't really matter that much in college as long as you have enough spare change to go out every once in a while. But girls just weren't interested in you. Then you graduate. Maybe you get a cool finance job with commission, or go into tech, or whatever well off gig that may entice…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:42 PM
1

They're attracted to the utility of said resources. Doesn't mean they necessarily want to jump on that guy. TRP acknowledges beta game if that's what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:36 PM
18

Plenty of unemployed men do get women in lower class social circles, but I'll ignore that for now. I don't think men are surprised that women aren't attracted to unemployed men. At least not here. It's more like you were just getting by, or didn't have much in college, or what have you, but then landed a good gig and now people are coming out of the wood works. And while unemployment is unattractive, that does not necessarily make employment attractive in and of itself. It's a necessary but not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:33 PM
38

Finances don't directly cause sexual attraction for one thing. If they all of a sudden become magically "attracted" to you after only fixing up your accounts, men are skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:27 PM
1

More than I thought that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:18 PM
4

averageredditor.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:14 PM
2

I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism by doctors That's rough. It's not rare It's rare compared to the amount of people who say they have a slow metabolism, which isn't a thing. Metabolism between people of the same weight, sex, and height can vary Not by much. TDEE? Sure. BMR? No. The basic metabolic processes do not really differ between species let alone individuals. Some people are very thin but eat a lot of fast food or big portions. Yes if you eat one fast food meal a day you aren't going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 06:09 PM
3

Your appetite determines your weight. More body mass = more energy needed to maintain that mass, that's the way the causation goes. BMR doesn't vary much at all between people of the same sex, height, and weight. The basic metabolic processes within our cells are millions of years old and finely honed. Hypothyroidism is very rare, far more rare than how often people bring it up relative to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:57 PM
2

Nonsense, your weight determines your BMR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:49 PM
3

Sandmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:11 PM
1

I find it hard to believe squatting a few hundred pounds for reps is going to be more difficult in general than barre but I guess I can't argue with your own case
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 09:05 PM
1

What exactly do you mean here by pump iron
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 08:44 PM
2

Do you not see the problem with your assertion? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:49 PM
6

Right? It's real people going on real dates and having real sex. But noooo "it's not real life!!!" LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 05:25 PM
1

The world is large enough that your statement is a truism - that doesn't mean however that it's wise to see someone who has a DV charge as a trustworthy partner - there are always exceptions to rules
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:46 PM
2

Ok and what about the men who beat their girlfriends? Are they going to change? And if you run into someone who tells you he pushed his gf after she cheated on him, is that what you’re going to believe is the truth? You’re hamstering to defend shitty guys you grew up with in your youth to avoid the idea that you may have had bad judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:07 PM
3

Domestic violence carries a pretty heavy connotation, why even take the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:29 PM
1

WORDS WORDS WORDS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:30 PM
9

i dont beleive a man who went to jail for a DV crime at 19 means anythign about how hell be at 29 hahahahahahaahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:32 PM
9

You need to be deemed attractive enough to get into a relationship to explore said "internal relationship dynamics". It's not exactly surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:29 AM
3

Sorry, Hitler's bday
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:55 PM
4

tfw no denial play street signs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:31 PM
6

I'd be surprised if it went any other way given the mental and social costs to the jurors
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:30 PM
2

When there's a will...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:29 PM
2

Women see any sort of male collective consciousness regarding their own sexual needs as a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:28 PM
1

What if they're right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 06:21 PM
3

The state
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:50 PM
11

enters discussion "yikes sweaty" refuses to elaborate leaves mfw 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:36 PM
5

I mean both requires the labor of other people. It's just that saying a women should have sex with another person is seen as far more intrusive than making her work in a field.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 07:52 PM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:19 PM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:02 AM
2

Eh it depends. Don't marry someone who can't support themselves, get a prenup if you have substantial assets beforehand, and you'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:35 PM
2

It just gives me lolbertarian vibes I don't get what purpose changing it would serve - you can already nullify a marriage contract, it's called a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:27 PM
2

2 by far 6 is kinda cringe but interesting Don't really care about prostitution and it's not the panacea people think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:11 PM
11

Convince? It's not a negotiation. Just be worth committing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:11 PM
13

Men are willing to commit when they find someone worth committing too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:03 PM
2

Communication is simpery Act don't talk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 05:03 PM
1

Were they otherwise healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:35 PM
2

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:32 PM
1

$1300
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:32 PM
1

twitter 🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:13 AM
14

So normal women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:28 PM
3

Exactly, this is selection bias
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:25 PM
3

Because they aren't posting about the times when they went on one or two dates without sex and got ghosted. They think they're trading sex for commitment so they're surprised when that's not the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:39 PM
1

And I think there's some side effects of steroids with regards to your penis. Your nuts may shrink, but not your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:20 PM
5

Wasn't that Miley Cyrus lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:59 AM
4

because he can walk away Can he tho lol Anyways it doesn't really matter. As Rollo says in the prologue, read with an open mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:56 AM
10

If a poor man told you not to be poor, would you disregard his advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:28 AM
0

Maybe they should lower their prices 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:35 AM
2

I read an interesting take regarding OF or other kinds of sex work - that the revenue it generates is at least partly due to the obvious stigma and social risk that it costs which limits the supply. If that stigma and risk goes away and it gets normalized through larger participation, it will lower potential revenue. Obvious when you think about it, but if that revenue goes away and selling pictures of your butthole still remains, what did women really gain in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:25 PM
2

Try being a college student in SoCal Oh I was one, I know the pain!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:05 PM
1

2's definitely have some sort of "deformity". Like an awful jawline or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:05 PM
2

Well where that bar is isn't necessarily stated. They may be able to improve but I wouldn't call it insane by any standards. The lucky ones could get to low tier normie perhaps, but what kind of return you're gonna get for the amount of effort may not be worth it at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:54 PM
3

Most incel selfies are gonna be of "higher ranking" incels. The ones that are truly bottom of the barrel tier are never gonna post themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:44 PM
2

Beat her up This is also why I'm now shelling out so much for a one bed apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:41 PM
2

It's for things like "don't grind on another guy in the club". That sort of stuff shouldn't have to be verbalized and if it happens, just drop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:32 PM
1

Was there a survey I’m unaware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:03 PM
1

Absolutely. For more serious things though I'd suggest not even mentioning them and once the line is crossed just move on, as bringing them up can signal for her to hide them. That's for more serious things though that usually don't need to be said anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:39 AM
2

Gotta give them enough rope to hang themselves with!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:32 AM
2

I know I'm taking the bait here, but I find the idea of not going to the gym makes one's body more natural pretty amusing. I think a more apt comparison would be synthol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:29 AM
1

Sometimes, even if the man is irresistible and high smv, the woman will still wait since he also has a high rmv and she knows his slut senses will tingle and he’ll pull back if she sleeps with him too fast. This seems fundamentally dishonest - she holds off as to not appear like a slut but she doesn't hold off for other guys who she's willing to look like a slut for. It's a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:23 AM
3

clown world lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 12:19 AM
3

That relationship is far from perfect, and no relationship is perfect. Some things are a lost cause and he should leave her. It’s not even worth trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:33 PM
4

Because you can't negotiate desire. She doesn't desire her boyfriend if she doesn't fuck him, but she clearly desired the fuck out of that guy she hooked up with. Communication in this context would create obligation, not desire, and obligation is extremely unattractive. "Hi honey can you sleep with me more I feel pretty insecure about it all" "Uuhhhhh"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:01 PM
3

It's a bunch of guys passing notes, not gonna be perfect but results speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:57 PM
6

Because why communicate with someone who acts in that way? Watch what she does not what she says is a saying for a reason. Words can be used to excuse and rationalize, and given her behavior I'd expect exactly that. Her actions through that hookup and not fucking her boyfriend much says all that needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:50 PM
3

BB can also be an emotional beta bucks of sorts. Honestly if you guys don't have much sex that's cause to end it in and of itself regardless of what happened a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:49 PM
1

I don't doubt your own experiences, so it's interesting that TRP prescribes the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:46 PM
6

Leave her. Find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:29 PM
4

We get that. But until she shows genuine attraction through sex, we don't know if she's really into us like we want them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:25 PM
1

Yes because you've already indulged, that's obviously going to be different than some kissless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:47 PM
3

Avoiding the discussion because people unfamiliar with certain concepts may misunderstand seems counterproductive. It's not about offense, it's about being wrong - it's a convenient way of shutting down discussion and so should be pushed back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:43 PM
2

If one is “spouting off incel ideology” but they are not in fact celibate, then they can not be an involuntary celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 03:53 PM
8

No, but I feel a strong pressure not to waste any more of the time I have now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:10 AM
4

That's what he was saying - obviously having access to sex is the most straightforward way to devalue it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:12 AM
3

If the man is attractive: submission If he's not: fear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:11 AM
8

One can agree or sympathize with the blackpill without necessarily being an incel. Incel is not an ideology as much as people want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:10 AM
17

Swiping on tinder is far more low-key than hanging around at the local bar, one doesn't need to risk damage to their reputation to sleep around now. Instagram/snapchat make it far easier to amass a large social following than if you attempted to generate it offline. You can't deny that the internet has greatly affected the ease and scale of both chad and simp farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:09 AM
5

There are far more women that would take the side of the hoe in that case than there are men who would support a deadbeat dad. One side in this comparison is clearly more socially accepted and as such deserves to have ridicule normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:27 AM
0

They don't matter for sexual attraction, while status can affect a man's sexual value. Some guys do say income doesn't matter for a relationship though which is an awful idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:23 AM
2

My freshman year of college I had a girl come over to my dorm, she started kissing me like she was trying to suck the lips straight off my face very forcefully. Was just awful. So, don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:20 AM
3

I can match a girl on OLD who’s intrigued enough to stay up into the wee hours of the morning chatting; can’t seal the deal for shit on the sex front. I’d suggest not doing that - get some back and forth rapport for a bit then go for a date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 08:24 PM
15

I love women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:27 PM
1

you often suck complete shit and are deluded about how good you are Speak for yourself 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:26 PM
2

The more I see FDS the less I worry about it. Either what I see isn't that bad so I don't really care, or when it is really bad it would be very obvious to notice and counter so I still don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:24 PM
6

Unless you're hot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:05 PM
1

Have you seen the mental gymnastics they go through to convince themselves they aren't prostitutes? You'll have your work cut out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 12:34 AM
8

More and more people have joined that aren't familiar with the basic tenets of TRP. Blackpillers and FDS alike. It's become more of a general gender issues soapbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 12:33 AM
2

Hahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:43 PM
4

Ah lol Yeah women will forgive you for being an asshole but they will never forgive you for being a pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:46 PM
1

What's that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:40 PM
4

A real man would off himself shortly after birth lest his existence upsets women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:38 PM
2

I mean if she wants to fuck you and not her orbiters, she's going to value your attention far above theirs. Granted orbiters can definitely boost someone's ego up to unhealthy levels, but you'll hopefully find out about that long before anything committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:37 PM
1

women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:48 PM
1

President 👏 Harris 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:45 PM
1

I find myself slacking off then making up for it later before our weekly meeting. Not the best way to approach work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:36 PM
2

I don't mind waiting a couple dates. I just want to be treated the same as she treated any of her other interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:31 PM
1

They are against casual sex and fwb Not this FDS poster lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:30 PM
1

Further in the chain they specifically advocate for not letting the potential boyfriend know about this because they know it's dishonest. The comments are also quoted further down in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:29 PM
3

So, no, the two aren’t getting the same treatment from TRP Yes they are - if she fucks me I'll keep seeing her. Same treatment. Not fucking the dude is on her. TRP doesn't believe in "good girls" anyway so they take her sign of reluctance before commitment at best as disinterest and at worst manipulation. He can spin plates on the side, she just wants him to prove that he’s not going to treat her as a plate This is a quasi-commitment IF he wants to actually date her. "Prove you can not have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:27 PM
1

How? They'd be treating the sluts and the "good girls" the same - sex and no commitment. FDS is deliberately treating them differently - one gets sex without commitment, the other has to quasi-commit for months without even a hint of reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:14 PM
1

Sounds similar to getting your nuts beaten, which makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:20 PM
4

opens lilith post "lilith is dumb" refuses to elaborate leaves mfw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:14 PM
0

Yeah it's possible. Guys can like small things like clothes all the same but I'm not aware of larger items that women may generally be more into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:04 PM
8

Exactly. It's not riding the CC that irks me personally, it's the inconsistency. If you don't want to have sex in the first couple of dates that's fine by me, as long as you don't also jump on new dick otherwise. If you have been jumping on new dicks that's also fine, as long as you jump on mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:58 PM
3

Considering that it's far harder for most men to get casual sex than an LTR, I don't believe those are the incentives in play here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:54 PM
3

No they aren't. Casual sex is purely about raw sexual attraction and so women will go for the hottest guy they can as they get nothing else in return except sex. Men in LTRs can "make up" for this in other ways (money, status, personality, comfort, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:45 PM
2

I'm quoting directly from the article. They say women hold less debt in all categories except for student loans. Men have about $100 more in credit card debt and women have about $1000 more in student loan debt. The credit card debt did surprise me though, I guess vapid consumerism knows no gender boundaries. Not surprised men hold more mortgages and auto loans tho since boomers are still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:42 PM
5

"They also carry less debt across all categories except for student loans."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:35 PM
2

Those are the only men they care about, so their headspace will filter out the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:06 PM
0

and student loans 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 10:03 PM
13

Remember: all the men that have trouble in the dating market are wholly invisible to women, so they will not be factored in to what women ascertain as the "normal" state of affairs for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:11 PM
1

I feel validated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:09 PM
2

What sort of reaction did she get from the shot exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:45 PM
9

Ugly women don’t want ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:26 PM
1

This thread isn't about addiction in general, its about social media addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:14 PM
2

It means they can't deny it any longer as it becomes more accepted amongst men, so they pretend like it was common knowledge all along
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:08 PM
1

Because she dates top of the line men who have more options than most women even
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:55 PM
13

Almost all of those women are volcels
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:54 PM
7

It's exactly that. It's crack to the female ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:52 PM
1

Yeah you have to transition
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:31 AM
1

24
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:18 PM
8

It matters to me up to a point for anything serious, I want her to be able to support herself so I know she's choosing to be with me because she wants to not because she has to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:11 AM
7

I don't dislike women, but I've become more cynical in ways and I'm quicker to judge for behavior I don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:10 AM
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excess of liquidity money printer goes brrr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:29 PM
3

shut it down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:21 PM
1

They may have lower self esteem but they have a larger ego
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:27 PM
–

I’ve been slightly underweight, and while it’s tough at first, your appetite adjusts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:25 PM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:28 AM
1

It’s easy to do because plenty of people eat and move enough to maintain a healthy amount for all of their lives. Formerly overweight people do not have to eat less than normal weight people to maintain the same weight as them. That’s only hard if you’re used to gluttony and can’t get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:50 AM
1

How is it impossible? Eat less move more. If you’re a glutton it might be a bit tough, not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:35 AM
2

Right, but people who are trying to gain weight generally don’t stuff themselves with garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:34 AM
1

Well you get a chemical reward for eating Not when you're stuffed you don't and you get the sensation of hunger when you don't eat. heaven forbid!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:21 AM
5

what the fuck is a salt?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:03 AM
3

Is it tho? To gain weight you have to eat, to lose weight you just...don't. Yes people have urges to eat but for many others it's physically difficult to make yourself eat more than you're used to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:02 AM
4

Pulling the wool over one's own eyes seems to be a major hobby of redditors lmao What kind of headspace do you need to be in to ask someone to open up a previously exclusive relationship I mean seriously, be real people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:17 AM
2

It's not difficult to be neither
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:04 AM
7

I can't help but see being overweight as a moral failing. Yeah yeah mental illness and all that, but it demonstrates an incredible lack of self respect and gluttony to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:01 AM
9

Men: self esteem Women: ego
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:49 AM
9

Seriously it's god awful out there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:49 AM
3

This is one of the dumbest takes I've ever read on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:20 PM
3

I wouldn't have started dating her in the first place if she wasn't into fucking me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 08:32 PM
9

There's a difference between teasing/banter versus passive aggressive or underhanded behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:23 AM
3

With webcams off we usually just wear underwear to meetings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:46 PM
11

The problem is when they start to pretend they aren't sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:21 AM
1

It's not tedious, but can be frustrating depending on the problem and your expertise. It's just complicated and demands a decent wage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:20 AM
1

Software, more specifically I work in graphics drivers. Any more info would prob nail it down for doxx so I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:19 AM
0

Some people do but they can burn out. If you're lucky it's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:11 AM
1

Graduated with physics BS, applied to a tech company through an email newsletter from my university department, passed the interviews, got hired ez six figs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:10 AM
9

Nah, it's way more attractive to have the self-control to not sleep with the first woman that throws herself at you. Because it's already implied in that scenario that that man can get women whenever he wants, but he chooses not to. The man who chooses to sleep around is still necessarily more attractive than the man who can't however.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:02 PM
6

italicized emoji is a trip
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:59 PM
2

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:45 PM
1

Yeah it's a chair you buy and keep for 10-20 years. Just gotta swallow the initial cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:18 PM
1

Not flimsy at all, it will hold you upright but has enough give to keep it comfortable. They're durable and last for ages, I think the warranty is like 12 years or something so if it does break on you you're good. Definitely go to a store and try one out though, if you're dropping good cash on a chair you need to know it will work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:43 PM
1

I mean I have a degree in physics. But I jumped shit to tech cause $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:21 PM
1

I see you've been diligent in your jelqing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:20 PM
1

I bought a new Aeron but they're very expensive. I hear the ErgoChair 2 is also very good though is $400 (still cheaper than a new Aeron). A lot of people swear by buying second hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:19 PM
15

I do care about money in the context of a relationship partner, I'm not risking my financial well being with someone who can't support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:09 PM
1

That’s still just as interesting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:44 AM
9

For real. Crazy people screaming about masks posted to reddit are a total red herring. The real costs of these lockdowns are not wearing masks - they are mental illness, domestic abuse, loss of livelihood, and suicides
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:46 PM
4

Work makes a woman feel like less of a women? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 11:44 PM
5

Stand up for LGBS rights!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:45 PM
2

snowmobiles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:16 PM
2

Signed a lease for April 3rd, rent + expenses is gonna hurt but the freedom is gonna be something else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:59 PM
2

Yeah it sucks for both, I’d say it’s a good thing you’re getting used to something that doesn’t need that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:13 PM
1

I like, want and expect daily texts and daily long texting convos At least for me, these expectations are super stifling. Like if I just want to chill by myself doing something with my own thoughts, it would necessarily upset her as she would lose out on those. I'd rather not deal with that kind of neuroticism and it often comes from a place of insecurity, I'm speaking from my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:23 PM
3

Just get married already you two, god damn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:59 PM
2

It's not a strategy it's an experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:47 AM
1

How high on the shelf are we talking here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:22 PM
3

I feel like it may be harder for a woman to place herself per se, simply cause even Chads will sleep with "lower" women if they feel like it. It's sort of a trope that a Chad will sleep with a 6/10 and then she feels like she's a 9/10 and deserves as such for a relationship, even if those Chads would never date someone like her. Either way it doesn't really matter lol there's no need to autistically gauge shit, just go for what you want and see if you get it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:04 AM
1

Only reliable way is to go out and see what you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:57 AM
1

I mean they do pay for all of those, maybe except for the plane thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:30 AM
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