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Purge Question For Women!ObviouslyAnAltAct/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:29 PM
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Purge Week!ObviouslyAnAltAct/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:37 PM
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Is this required to be surmised? Isn't this just scientific fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:03 PM
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There would be about an eighth as many human beings as there are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:57 PM
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No info as to why funding was cut. The cynical side in me believes it was cut because it would eat into the profits. Male birth control = less humans overall. Less humans = less people paying into the Healthcare machine. Less people paying into the Healthcare machine = less profits as older people get sicker. I have a strong feeling that if female birth control didn't exist beforehand, it would not be funded today. It was just made in 1950 before the medical system became completely corrupt. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:22 PM
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There was solid research on this one form of male birth control. It was some kind of gel or paste that was injected into the scrotum that physically prevented sperm from escaping. It was supposed to last for years. It had good results, but funding was cut. Hmm. Even if you're right though, and a lot of guys still wouldn't use it, it would still help unwanted pregnancies. And give men more options to be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:03 AM
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I think it goes hand in hand with lived experience. The majority of women learn to be deeply solipsistic because they have no reason to be otherwise. Load up an app and you're flooded with messages and matches within hours. Too many to deal with. Even unattractive women get tons of matches. Women are approached a lot. Women are given lots of attention since the day they are born. Why wouldn't they be solipsistic? They get endless forms of validation both online and offline as long as they are at…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:49 PM
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Any sway or presumption of good intent is immediately thrown out the window when you start insulting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:43 PM
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Punctuation is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:41 PM
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So, basically, your mind is closed to the topic and there's no further purpose in talking to you about it? Every point you make has is just to shut down the opposite point of view and validate your own thoughts and struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:40 PM
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To quote The Dude, "Yeah, well, I still jerk off manually."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:16 AM
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Dang. Yeah I guess you're right. I was speaking in the strictly legal sense but you're definitely right about other factors. Dang I'm sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:02 AM
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Oh, I think I misread your comment. Apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:12 PM
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I could debate you, but this thread is about how normals view men's issues, not women's. What's your actual point that isn't off topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:24 PM
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Obviously women can look after themselves. They're still adult human beings. What's the point of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:09 PM
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Women cannot be baby trapped from a legal perspective. They always have a choice to abort. Even if that now means crossing state lines. They still have the legal choice. Men have no legal choice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:08 PM
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That's the whole point. Whether people want to admit it or nor, women ARE hypergamous. So are men, but in a different non-economically based way. Most women would rather be single than be with a man they deem to be less than them economically or socially. Yes some women don't care, but they are in the minority. So even if things were equalized, women still would not want a man they are equal to. It is what it is. You can't really even be mad at them, since we can't change our nature's. Just like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:03 PM
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Most are, for sure. And also, when confronted about it, they refuse to believe it, don't care at all (the usual reaction), act like its a good thing and "it's about time men suffered," or just find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:56 PM
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Maybe. But I'm of the opinion that Thanos was correct (not the forced reduction in population, but just in general). The world would be a significantly better place to live if 50% of humanity were gone. It would be unsustainable under our current capitalistic systems, but that's built solely on the idea of exponential growth, which was never realistic (and it's why we're almost approaching end-stage capitalism in the USA). The transition of a population crash would be absolutely terrible and dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:40 PM
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True. But pay close attention to the data. The amount of childless men has been increasing quickly, and is really on the rise. The problem is it takes 25 years to see the results due to the human reproduction cycle. It's going to be closer to 50% in another 25 years. Or at least amongst western population models. Pretty much eevr6 country on earth is experiencing major population crashes with the exception of Latin countries, African countries, and India. Even China is feeling the crash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:35 PM
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Male birth control that serves as a physical blocker rather than a hormonal one. That would cut down on the fatherlessness to a huge amount and end accidental pregnancies, and for the men that don't get it who don't want to be fathers, then shame on them and they deserve to be stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:03 PM
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3 is completely and utterly false. Most men would be absolutely thrilled to get similar sexual attention from women like women get from men. And #5 is way harder than you think it is. It's much easier to be fit and use makeup to make yourself more attractive than it is to work on your income (which takes a lifetime of hard work and dedication).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:56 PM
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Wrong. The Red Pill teaches you how to get a woman. The Blue Pill teaches you how to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:52 PM
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Yeah sure. But you don't even get to the second stage without embracing the fundamental nature of it all which the Red Pill provides. It's not good for the second phase, but you can't even get to that second phase without it unless your extremely good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:50 PM
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I wish I could give you an award to this. This is very much reality and we aren't going to be changing it any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:47 PM
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The majority of women will never be the initiators. It just isn't going to happen. No matter how socially progressive we become as a species, there is no way to overcome certain factors. Just as humans aren't going to evolve wings, the majority of women will never be initiators. It simply will not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:46 PM
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For the majority of men who aren't in the top 20% of physical attractiveness, dating apps are already unusable anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:44 PM
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Because a large percentage of women are attracted to "bad boys" and refuse to admit it. Not all women, but a large percentage of them are. And those that are attracted to it very rarely actually grow out of it, they just settle for someone they aren't attracted to. But you can't really blame them for it for the same reason you can't blame men for being attracted to a narrow waist, round hips, and breasts. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:43 PM
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Creepiness is ABSOKUTELY MEANINGLESS in the current age. Yes there is genuinely creepy behavior from men, but the VAST majority of reported "creepy behavior" is just hysterics and immaturity. I've been called creepy for eating ice cream from a cone in public. I've been called.creepy for walking my dog in a public park. I've been called creepy for reaching around a very rude woman who was blocking the apples at the grocery store for 10 minutes on the phone. I've even stopped listening or sympathi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:39 PM
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You mean fewer and fewer fathers as the population continues to crash all across the western world and Asia whose populations would have already crashed without immigration (in the USA at least) with birth rates continue to plummet at staggering rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:35 PM
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I wish I had the tools to discover the tenants of the red pill when I was younger. But it was a different world. Discovering the truth of human behavior (of both men and women) and getting over the "red pill rage" at an early age is very healthy in my opinion. But I wish there was a way to discover it all without being sucked into the whirlpool of toxic internet spaces. Double edged sword I have no solution for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:28 PM
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1 million percent true. It's true in the animal kingdom as well as humans (for all our lofty accomplishments we are still just animals)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:27 PM
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Agreed. But I also don't think it would be a bad thing. Economically maybe it would be. But it would be a huge social step forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:26 PM
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If male birth control became a physical blocker (there was such hopes for this too, it was effective but funding was pulled... hmm) without a hormonal component it would be an absolute game changer. No more baby trapping, no more women being able to live off the state, etc. It would result in a HUGE population decline, but it would also equalize the legal power of the family courts, alimony, child support. I think it would be a huge net positive for both men and women. Plus, it would keep men ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:25 PM
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In my experience women are extremely bad at communicating with men in this very specific way. They flirt with men in a very different way, and it's a way that most men are simply not calibrated to detect. This is true across multiple cultures, ages, and time periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:21 PM
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I don't know. But the vast, VAST majority of women I have known in my life of 40+ years is that the majority of women are simply not attracted to average men. Sure they will settle for them eventually, but that doesn't mean they're inherently attracted to them. Yes it's anecdotal evidence, but I'm much older and seen a lot more than the average Reddit user and I can confirm this. Anecdotally speaking that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:19 PM
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Wow. It sounds like you live a life many can only dream of. What an amazing life hot guys get to have. I am an ugly guy with an ugly face and an ugly body shape. I'm not even fat. I just have really unfortunate genetic features. I've looksmaxed like hell, even using professionals, and I'm barely a 4, maybe a 5, when putting my all into it. You live a life 90% of men will never experience. I hope you enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:18 PM
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No need to kick a guy while he's down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:40 PM
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No fence, nor cage, nor wall can keep the escape goat imprisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:15 PM
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Back before the turn of the millennium I had to stay up late to try to catch a glimpse of skinemax. You kids today don't know what you have. My little mind would have exploded at the ease of which it's available now. God damn I'm old. Not bitter though, but definitely envious. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:48 PM
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Pro tip: you won't find your match "randomly." That only happens to women and extremely handsome men. Otherwise that's just in the movies. It takes a dedicated effort, playing the numbers, and not letting constant rejections get you down. I mean, it's statistically possible, but just know it's a very long shot. Just be prepared that it's unlikely to randomly happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:22 PM
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Well I'm not sure that's entirely true. I think a lot of men do put a fair amount of energy into looking good. But the results just aren't very noticeable. I mean, what can the guy do? Change his hair (head and facial) and bulk up. There's not a lot of room for visible artifical improvements. Women on the other hand have a much wider variety of options. I'm not saying thats a good or bad thing. In many ways it's a raw deal for women. But I'm not entirely convinced most men don't even try. You wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:17 PM
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I do feel bad for her. Reading her stuff, she is clearly traumatized. Fat be it from me.yo try to minimize other peoples legitimate trauma and issues, but her ultimate conclusions are pretty messed up. I hope it goes better for her in the future. In the meantime, most users of this subreddit are pretty fractured and broken people, so it's not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah this is some grade A bull crap there. I am taller than my partner by quite a bit. I am still taller than her in 6 inch heels. Yet she doesn't wear them because it makes her feel less attracted to me because now I'm not towering over her. It's fine if she doesn't want to wear them, but her reasoning is grade A bull crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:08 PM
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Well, you know, the vast majority of people who frequent this sub are broken people, men and women. You're not going to find factual and unbiased opinions here. Just women complaining about predation and incels, and men complaining about their disposablility and how overblown the average woman's sense of entitlement is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:05 PM
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I'm glad to see you're stopping wasting your time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:02 PM
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Inceldom is definitely on the rise for sure. But honestly, I think it has much less to do with women, or even men, than it does our end stage capitalism culture and especiall6 social media and the halo effect en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:59 PM
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Not in my practical experience. You just have to know when to back off and don't be pushy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:57 PM
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Alternatively, I've almost only exclusively had success with cold approaches. Granted, I've been off the market for 13 years or so, and hot damn times have changed over the course of 1 decade, but humans can't have changed that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:55 PM
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They do if you pay them. ZING!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:50 PM
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Ita absolutely insane how the majority of women get the ick so strongly from bisexual men, or even straight men who experimented back in the day. It's pretty extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:36 PM
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Anyone who gets married without both a prenuptial agreement AND a postnuptial agreement is setting themselves up for a bad end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:49 PM
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Yeah, sorry. But I'm older than most Redditors and been around the block for a while. Women absolutely care about men's heights, especially being over 6 feet. A lifetime of observational experience actually observing what women do, rather than what they say, says this is BS. Women ABSOLUTELY care, whether they claim it or not. And that's fine. Women can care about what they want to care about. No problem there. But the ENDLESS gaslighting about it has grown so tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:18 PM
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There's absolutely a genetic basis in regards to weight. It can be controlled and managed despite your genetics, but genetics definitely pay a huge component. It's not an excuse for obesity, but to say there's no genetic component is just inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:37 PM
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It's always always always the men's fault no matter what. Even in the face of objective hypocrisy. Lol! Is it no wonder dudes just give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:39 PM
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I don't think that method works any more except in very rare circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:20 PM
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Very few women, despite what they might tell you, can be sti ulates by the male body. They require a holistic examination. It suck, but that's just nature. It's another reason why online dating absolutely sucks for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:56 PM
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If a woman ever told me I couldn't watch porn, she would be out the door in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:54 PM
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Normie = above average man? You've already lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:21 PM
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It's not offensive. But women choose to take it that way because they've been gaslit into thinking their shite don't stink and to be even remotely challenged on that notion is triggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:20 PM
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Unless a man is absolutely incredibly hot, if he goes in with that dorm of brutal truth up front (even if it was about just that woman "look, I just want sex and that's it") he better be prepared to never have sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:19 PM
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That wasn't the physical blocker. That was that hormonal pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:14 PM
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Society doesn't seem to be capable of not shaming these poor guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:33 PM
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I hate to say it, but I think this is absolutely true. The very fact that this sub exists shows it breaks a lot of men too, but I think women on average wouldn't be able to handle the feelings of hatred against them or overwhelming isolation. But I have no data for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:31 PM
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Men absolutely settle more. On average they have significantly fewer options. Therefore, the vast majority of then settle for what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:29 PM
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Brad Pitt here. I would say my high point was when I filmed Ocean's 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:27 PM
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I couldn't disagree more. I 100% believe in financial abortions. But even more than thay, I 100% support male contraceptives, especially physical blockers. There was a lot of progress on a physical semen blocker that could be dissolved later, but funding was pulled when insurance company's got too concerned about their profits. If safe male contraceptives were available then the problems solve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:20 PM
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It's hard to say. I'm an odd duck. I have a very ugly body shape for a man. It's very unfortunate from a genetic standpoint. My face is nothing to write home about either. Some people like it, but not too many. Meanwhile, my partner is an absolutely gorgeous woman, going several orders of magnitude above me in terms of "league." I think it's a combination of her having a skewed sense of anesthetics (what can I say, people have a wide variety of preferences) and being raised in a Latin environmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:09 PM
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When I was in my 20's? Absolutely I thought that. Now that I am much, much older than 20s I realize it isn't even remotely the case. But that's probably just standard life cycle maturity stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:18 PM
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I've has this happened to me. A woman I chased for years (and trwated her like a queen while she was always aloof and standofish to me and openly fickle) got pregnant and used, and dumped. She came crawling to me after that happened. I had sex with her once and bailed after that. This was when I was like 22, a very very long time ago. The women acting like this doesn't happen have no idea how common this crap is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:47 PM
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That's not going to happen. All those guys still need to eat and require shelter. 80% of men aren't go just stop working. They have to in order to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:14 PM
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Well fair enough I suppose, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:46 PM
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Anyone who marries in the west without having an extensive prenuptial AND postnuptial agreement is taking on such an enormous risk that it's insane. As a man I can't even fathom it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:49 PM
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Grim, but also kind of true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:47 PM
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They're definitely not teaching the next generation to be different. If anything, they're teaching them to double down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:39 PM
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This is definitely true. I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:37 PM
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The only solution I see is dissolution of social media and dating apps. But that's not going to happen so I don't think there is a solution. Sexlessness will rose, births (among non-immigrants) will continue to plummet, and people will grow increasingly miserable and fragmented. It can't be fixed. Instead, all you can do is focus on finding your own happiness when and where you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:34 PM
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I would lie about my knowledge of the red pill. You talk about this stuff offline and are absolutely destroyed. No f'ing way. I've had red pill discussions with other men before and it was very obvious we were in agreement on things, but were too scared to talk about it openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:48 PM
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So, I'm an ugly guy. I know it. The world knows it. It is what it is. I am tall, make extremely good money, and have other assets in my favor. However, I have an ugly face and a very ugly body shape for a man. Yet I personally was able to meet and seduce a gorgeous woman I've been with for more than a decade. I did it by having a carefully constructed (not fake or lying, but carefully controlled to maximize the better aspects of my personality and reduce the awful ones) social personality and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah we are living on two entirely separate planets. Men who believe in partnerships are having a terrible time. Men who believe in the more traditional models are either having an even worse time, or are thriving in smaller communities (like religious folks).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:35 PM
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They bemoan it, but just blame men for it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:28 PM
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Well, I'll say that in my lifetime I've never seen such a massive social change so quickly. But yes, it's also possible it bounces back and is seen as a period of cringe and ridiculousness. But from where I'm standing all I see is an exponential growth in terms of the erasure of the genders. I've never seen a social change so rapid. But if I'm being objective a lot of that likely has much more to do with the internet being intrinsically infused with the youngest generation(s). Their sense of sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:32 PM
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The only thing the USA is superior to other nations on is GDP. And even that it crap since the VAST majority of the wealth is in the hands of a small few.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:55 PM
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Hilarious and so true. If I didn't have a significant other my home would look like a flop house. A super clean and well maintained flop house, but still a flop house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:54 PM
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Interesting, so you think the problem is solely on men and women's expectations, standards, and behavior have nothing to do with it? Again, don't take this the wrong way. I'm not fighting you on it. I'm just wondering about your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:26 PM
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I've wished I was bi for as long as I could remember. Unfortunately I am straight as an arrow, and it sucks. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:10 PM
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I think a lot of men will indeed get robots. But deep down we all truly know they wouldn't be fulfilling as a relationship with a real human, way down inside of our instincts. We can do amazing things, but we can't stop being human. But it will be better than nothing and I think a not insignificant amount of men will ultimately settle for that. It will never be the majority of men. Ever. But it will be a huge minority. Maybe like 35%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:27 PM
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Your perspective appears to be right on the money. I would appreciate if you expounded on your last sentence. I'm not being a smart ass, I'm genuinely curious as to your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:25 PM
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Women don't need to do anything for men. They owe them nothing at all. But you're being willfully ignorant to a cartoonish degree if you don't think women's standards are way too high regardless of the fact that they know men nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:23 PM
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Your last sentence directly contradictsthe one before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:13 PM
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This is the real and honest answer. The vast majority of men will NEVER get an IOI. If you're average or below average in terms of looks, it will never happen. Ever. If you're waiting for women to make the first move and aren't extremely handsome you will be waiting forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:02 PM
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My advice is to cold approach women constantly. Keep doing it over and over. Talking to women is a skill like anything else. The only way to get better at a skill is to practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:59 PM
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...just do it anyway? You'll never get anywhere waiting for women to make the first move unless you're an absolutely gorgeous man. Who cares if women don't like it. You gotta do what you gotta do to find a partner. If that means you are forced to play the numbers game, then that's what you gotta do. If you think women are waiting around for you, you'll die alone. Live your life in a way that maximizes your benefit, even if it makes other people unhappy. As long as you aren't hurting them and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:13 PM
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Because when it comes to dating in modern day America it is fundamentally unfair and heavily stacked against men. It is what it is and that's life. The pendulum swings back and forth throughout human history. Don't worry man. Just wait 200 years and you'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:10 PM
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Bro, don't even try to understand. The fact is there are some things that men and women simply will never see eye to eye on. As progressive of a society ad we have made, and for all the BS "men and women are the same" claims, it's just not true. You'd be better off getting the paternity test without her knowledge rather than asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:08 PM
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That is preposterous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:59 PM
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Try talking about it offline in reality. Oof. Not a good scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:16 PM
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You have slept with literally hundreds of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:15 PM
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Women may not like it any more, but do it anyway. Women aren't going to make the first move 99.99% of the time. It's just the way it is. As long as you aren't disrespectful, don't approach someone who obviously doesn't want to be approached, and back off immediately when they clearly don't like it, you're doing nothing wrong. Who cares if they don't like it. Do you like having a near 0% chance with online dating? I'll take a 5% chance in real life approaches rather than a 0% chance online. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:04 PM
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A lot very genuinely don't realize it though. But when confronted with it they tend to simply refuse to believe it. 🤔 I'm not sure which is worse really.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:49 PM
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Having been around the block a few decades more than the average Redditor, all I can say is that the breakdown happened right when smart phones were introduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:48 PM
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Kinda don't blame you for thinking that with all this neopronoun stuff flying around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:36 PM
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That's this whole sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:35 PM
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"Just be yourself" is horrendous advice. Absolutely horrendous. Better advice, and advice that actually works, is to get to know yourself. Understand your thought cycles. Understand your patterns. And be real with yourself. Once you can objectively understand who you are, and be real about it, you can begin making small little improvements here and there. You won't be able to change your personality. Very, very few can actually do that. But you can min/max your way into being a person others wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:29 PM
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Oh I'm definitely insecure about my body. My body is very ugly and oddly proportioned. But hey, if sex is on the table, I'll push through it. Most guys will. Sex is just way more important to men, and they'll do a lot of painful shit to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:49 PM
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I've been called creepy for walking my dog in the park because I didn't have a kid with me. I've been called.creepy for eating ice cream from a cone in public. I've been called creepy for reaching around an obnoxiously rude woman who was blocking the apples at the grocery store. I've been called creepy for just existing. 🙄 Women are the boy who cried wolf at this point. Which is a real shame, because rhe genuine creeps out there get to blend in easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:48 PM
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I don't even bother to listen to women anymore when they describe a guy as "creepy." The word has lost all meaning. I don't even believe women any more because they dramatically overuse the word to absurd degrees. A dude sitting a bench in public minding his own business? Creepy. A guy walk to his car in the parking lot by himself. Creepy. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:11 PM
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This is definitely true. As a long term committed person myself, after 12 years even the tiniest annoyances build up. It takes a LOT of work to make a long term relationship work. I honestly don't think most people these days can do it, and I don't mean that derisively. It can very easily begin to provide diminishing returns if yoy don't work at it. I can seriously see a case for going your own way and just giving up. Legitimately I don't think humans were designed for long term monogamy one way…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:55 PM
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Well, as I said. Most are just aware of it. But there are bound to be a few of them who are equally cheating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:52 PM
3

Who want to have multiple wives? Having one is hard enough (love her though). I can't even imagine the misery that would entail. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:51 PM
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Most likely they aren't aware of it. But I think there are more women then you think that are just fine with sharing. The "girl boss" and "boss bitch" mentality runs strong in many women these days who will gladly bang a man whose taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:41 PM
1

When men are younger yes, absolutely. And it's chemical and physiological. Women have reported rhe same things when they have to go on testosterone for whatever reason (and there are lots of medical reasons a woman might go on testosterone for a short time - this is excluding trans folks, I'm talking temporary hormones here) they report the exact same thing. And as men age this burns itself out. Men being rules by their dicks when younger is a biological hold over when propagation of the species…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:31 PM
3

Well, that may be true. But all the advice and rules and answers go out the window when "or just be hot" trunps everything else, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:21 PM
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As much as I love this, and I really do, this is probably why you don't get women. Zing! J/K y'all. Just playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:08 PM
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For a man to have any success in online dating (which is absurdly stacked against men that I'm shocked women still don't understand this is normal circles) that you have to swipe right on basically everyone to even have a ghost of a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:07 PM
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That's such a small percentage that there's no way old school Mormons are influencing society as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:04 PM
2

If you want to get that semantic about it, then I guess I say there are no such things. But in actual reality when people say "platonic" they just mean two people who are freinds that aren't physical with one another. I don't think 2 cis heterosexual people are ever platonic freinds with one another if at least one party doesn't mildly have the hots for the other. OR you're just friends with your friend's wife/husband/partner, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:01 PM
1

I think there can be, but one party simply has to bury their attraction to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:24 PM
3

Never
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:22 PM
4

I'd prefer to live in less "interesting" times personally. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:21 PM
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I hate to say it, but this is likely the answer. Either that or they don't know they are sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:20 PM
1

I'd say it wouldn't stop the problem entirely. It would definitely help a subset of men who just want sex and hate women. It would help them quite a bit, and likely lower their negative feelings that project outward. For most sexless guys who have had sex at least a couple times, it isn't going to aolve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:19 PM
2

I would never get into a relationship with a woman who withheld sex until that point, despite how long we were dating. That's bad news.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:04 PM
1

I mean, I absolutely agree with you. But I don't know how to fix the underlying issues. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:59 PM
2

This seems... preposterous. Lmao. I'm not accusing you of making it up or anything, but this is the sort of things that happens in a Lifetime movie. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:59 PM
1

Because 99.9% will never approach, even in 2022. To say otherwise means you're living on an entirely different planet than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:58 PM
2

People here just want to be victims, male and female. Don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:39 PM
1

I mean, you're right. It sucks. Welcome to Earth. But the reality is, if yoy don't want to put in the time and effort to get better at it, if you're truly unwilling to do it, then you aren't gonna get a romantic partner. It's unfair, and it sucks. But it is what it is. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:26 PM
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Why not just ask women out in public anyway? Who cares if they don't like it. Do you like having an almost 0% chance online? As long as you aren't harassing them, are respectful, leave women alone who have earphones on or are very clearly super busy or visibly frustrated, and back off immediately when they clearly aren't into it then you aren't doing anything wrong... no matter what they try to say to you about sexism, creepiness, or misogyny. Some women will hate it, probably most of them, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:21 PM
1

Wow that's some serious mental gymnastics there to jump to that sort of question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:17 PM
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I have been in a relationship for more than a decade, but when I wasn't, I approached lot's of women. Granted that was a decade ago, and the cultural zeitgeist is completely (and shockingly) different. But the winning strategy was to comment on the surroundings and not them as people. 95% of the time I was shot down. But hey, better a 5% chance of success in reality rather than a 0% chance online. Now if the internet is anything to be believed, women now absolutely detest being approached. But I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:31 PM
0

Yeesh! Are the only lady in town? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:31 PM
1

I honestly couldn't speak about the national cultural differences between the US and UK. I definitely have my own theories as to why that may be, but I'd love to hear why you think it to be so, having lived in both areas (I've never lived in the UK).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:18 PM
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If I had to guess, it's probably because they know they could get a man any time they want. Maybe not the man they want, but a man nonetheless. Whereas many guys don't really have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:11 AM
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It's unimaginable because it's fake. Not even the Chaddest of Chaddes gets women thrown at him everywhere he goes, or fondled in the spa, etc. If something seems too good to be true online then it isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:59 PM
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Nope. Never. Or if they did they kept it to themselves. My current long term partner (10+ years at this point) obviously is, but it sure as hell didn't start that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:15 PM
3

Pretty much all of human history actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:11 PM
3

I can't speak for anyone but myself. But if I was single (I'm not), I wouldn't date a single mother for a number of reasons. The first reason is that I would never be able to discipline the child the way I felt was appropriate. Most likely this would be true even if I legally adopted the child. Secondly, the vast majority of relationships fail. Children are easy to fall in love with. If she ended it, I would be losing two relationships. Finally, I would always be less important to her. I would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:59 PM
1

When I was a younger man, I tolerated a lot of bad and highly toxic personality traits to be with a physically attractive woman. As an older man, I find them to be almost inseparable for anything other than a one night stand. I wouldn't be in a relationship with the most beautiful woman in the world if she had an awful personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:58 PM
1

Yeah, a teeny tiny portion of women might. But there's always exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:30 PM
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I prefer starving to death in a grocery store versus starving to death locked outside, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:24 PM
1

But how do you even start when you literally can't ever remember a dream? Not even when you first wake up. I haven't had a dream in 30 years. Not exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:14 PM
1

As someone who hasn't ever been able to remember any dreams at all I am deeply, deeply envious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:31 PM
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I hate to be an elitist jackass, but it very strongly depends on which part of the country (USA) you're in. Right now I'm visiting family in the Midwest and maybe 1 woman out out of 50 is even remotely attractive. In the bigger cities and more urban environments it rises dramatically. Maybe about 1/2 of the women I see are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:29 PM
1

Well I did say it wouldn't help the majority of men, which means it would help a smaller minority. It will help some men, but not the majority. I don't think I agree with the assumption that I'm being absolutist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:23 PM
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Okay, then by that logic it is the women's fault if they cut and run at the smallest issue because they can. It isn't necessarily the blame game though. I'd probably do the same thing. But by your own logic then it is the women's fault for being so flightly at even the tiniest hint of a problem, just because they can. You have successfully convinced me that it isn't a team sport to lose. Just one sided. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:17 PM
1

It really is both. Both men and women are responsible. Not just awkward men, but women who run at the smallest hint of a red flag and absurdly high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:19 PM
2

If you say so. But I've known tons of ugly guys who got in better shape and it didn't help whatsoever except made them happier with who they were. But success with women? Didn't do a dang thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:11 PM
1

Thanks for the explanation. Seems both racist and sexist to me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:10 PM
1

Well, to be fair, the vaaaaaaaaaaaaast majority of relationships do fail. Exceptionally few relationships actually succeed. And I'm not talking about just divorce statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:29 AM
0

I don't understand what the hell you're talking about. Are you trying to convince me to enter into an open relationship with my woman? Uhm, no thank you. You do you, I guess, but it's not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:27 AM
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...and? If my partner puts in almost no work and gets them, but I'm working my ass off over and over and getting nothing that doesn't help much. Well, maybe a little. Lol. But not enough to make it worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:13 PM
1

If there's one thing the Stanley Parable has taught me, it's that women love buckets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:40 PM
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Truthfully, this isn't going to help the majority of men with women. It just won't. It will improve how they feel about themselves and the world in general though. But it won't really help them with women. With the exception of feeling better about themselves so they won't be so susceptible to caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:28 PM
2

It would have to ryhme with "cow" right? Otherwise you're treating the "w" as silent, and that's not generally how most acronyms work. But that isn't necessarily the case. Just because I can't think of an example.doesnt mean they aren't out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:28 PM
1

I've never understood the confusion on this issue. It's really, really simple. Handsome man + niceness = very sexy Average or below man + niceness = very unsexy It's really and truly that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:10 PM
1

I've almost exclusively been successful with women by cold approach. Women don't like it anymore, but so what? As long as you aren't rude, you back off when they clearly aren't interested, and you are a total sleeze then go for it anyway. You aren't doing anything wrong at all even if women don't like it any more or think you're a creep (and in today's climate anything that makes a woman even mildly uncomfortable in the safest of environments is creepy). It's better to have a 2% chance with a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:16 PM
1

I do. Extensively, several decades worth in fact. And they are absolutely correct. But thats because the majority of people in the scientific community are asocial, lack strong communication skills, and are almost hyper-introverted. Except can and do exist of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:13 PM
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Well, if it's a straight heterosexual relationship, then in an open relationship the man will always lose. The average woman can getaid any time she wants with almost no effort. A dude has to struggle and work for it. I don't know about anyone else, but I would grow pretty resentful if my woman was out there banging other dudes without having to try and I had to struggle and struggle and struggle just to get an interest at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:10 PM
3

Your first paragraph is very insightful. I wish that was taught to more people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:07 PM
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"Creep" has lost ALL meaning. I've been called a creep for walking to my car at night in a parking lot and a woman just so happened to be walking about 50 feet in front of me to her own car. I've been called a creep for walking my dog through a public park where children were playing and I didn't have a child myself. I've been called a creep for trying to talk to a woman who was giving me.cleqr interest singals. I've been called a creep for eating ice cream from a cone while sitting on a bench i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:00 PM
4

That isn't actually happiness. That's just a temporary dopamine high which will fade within a day. But yeah, if you take the long terms view then you're right. But of course, if yoy take the long term view pretty much everything is pointless and meaningless anyway. Comically speaking what does anything have to do with anything? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:51 PM
1

Being emotionally vulnerable with women is one of the biggest mistakes a man can make. The only time it's acceptable is a major life trauma, such as your mother dying or having a tragic illness diagnosis. Etc. Women claim they want their man to be vulnerable with them, but in actuality it repulses them quite badly. This comes from a lifetime of experimentation of being vulnerable to different women, in various degrees, for more than 40 years. But it isn't really so surprising. Humans have no ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:50 PM
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What are you talking about? There is obviously a huge "woke culture" that our mass media is absolutely obsessed with. The USA, or at least the deep blue states, are getting woke to the extreme. Now I agree there is no conspiracy going on, times change, generations change, societies change. But to deny that there is a rising woke culture is just being willfully blind, or so into wokeness that it's your default.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:58 PM
1

And some blue suede shoes. Which, now that I think about it, is a very poor material for foorwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:52 PM
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No, I don't think so. I don't think applying s broad and firm rule like that is realistic for human relationships. While the successful relationships have things in common, every relationship between two people is so different that applying a firm rule like that is probably doomed to fail. Would it be nice? Yes probably. But not realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:27 PM
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This isn't really advice per se, but a major lesson learned that could potentially be applied to dating. If there is one thing life has taught me is that you won't find happiness from someone else. Even the best partner on earth won't make you happy if you aren't already happy with yourself. It's a fallacy to think you'll be happy once you find a partner. It might help, temporarily, but it will not make you happy long term. That comes solely from within.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:25 PM
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I'm a high earner and my partner is a very, ver low earner. We don't split everything 50/50, but we do have assigned tasks. For example, I absolutely DETEST doing the dishes, so she does them. She hates doing the laundry, so I do it. She's way messier of a person than I am and it does sometimes cause problems between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:21 PM
1

Is anyone else playing The Stanley Parable Ultra Deluxe? What a trip, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:15 PM
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Anyone else playing Stanley Parable Ultra Deluxe? Haha, what a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:51 PM
1

Then I guess we're just going to have to agree to disagree. I don't have a study. Just 40+ years of life experience, knowing many single mothers, having been raised by one myself, knowing dozens of men who have dated a single mother at some point, and knowing just how the majority of human beings operate. When the amount of anecdotal experience is overwhelming in one direction, I'm going to operate on the probabilities I've observed in my lifetime. To do otherwise is somewhat foolish in my opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:56 AM
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And yet, even if they let us discipline their kids it doesn't change the other salient points. And therefore, I still wouldn't want to date a single mother. I'm not sure what you're trying to argue here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:40 AM
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Sure they might be out there. But you have to operate on probabilities. Like I said, I've known lots of single mothers and they won't even let the guy they're dating raise the voice to their kid when those kids are being little shits. Statistically speaking they are out there, but super rare. And since dating single mothers is pretty much all negatives, why would I want to waste my time and energy looking for one whole would let me discipline them, when the other two major downsides are still th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:02 AM
1

Wow. That's some impressive mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:59 AM
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Definitely homophobic without a doubt. But the majority of straight women feel this way, and don't get called out on it. So I guess as a society we've just given them a pass for feeling this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:48 AM
2

This seems to be the prelevant opinion from straight women. And it's pretty revealing about female psychology in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:47 AM
1

Removing the internet. The world was a significantly better place before it. But I know this is an exceptionally unpopular option and I am the lone crazy person who believes this. Hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:41 AM
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I'm not sure how the first reason isn't solid? Children need to be disciplined. That doesn't mean whooping their asses or anything like corporal punishment. But if they are acting up, being rude, or you know, behaving like children, you need to discipline them. This could be as simple as shushing them, making them leave a restaurant they wont stop screaming in or just giving them a time out. But discipline is an extremly important part of raising a child into a well adjusted member of society. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:35 AM
1

Which one was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:17 AM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:15 AM
1

Just go on Tinder. You'll get laid within an hour if you aren't very picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:10 AM
2

I can't speak for anyone but myself. But if I was single (I'm not), I wouldn't date a single mother for a number of reasons. The first reason is that I would never be able to discipline the child the way I felt was appropriate. Most likely this would be true even if I legally adopted the child. Secondly, the vast majority of relationships fail. Children are easy to fall in love with. If she ended it, I would be losing two relationships. Finally, I would always be less important to her. I would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:05 AM
2

I'm an older guy. Much older than the average Reddit user. All I can really tell you is that TRP is absolutely true in almost every way when it comes to observable female behavior. Not so much the toxic prescriptive elements, but definitely in outlining standard female behavior. But at the same time, you can't really be angry at women for it. I mean you can, obviously, but then you have to be angry at younger men too with absurdly insatiable sex drives. We, as human beings, are what we are, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:38 PM
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Ugh. If Timothee Chalamet is considered "hot" by the majority of women then we might as well retire masculinity entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:28 PM
1

I didn't for the first half of my life. I have had them for the second half. And pretty much all they have done is basically prove RP philosophy over and over again. They're great people, but humans can't help what they are. Women are tied to their nature just as men are. Men and women are equally shitty humans, and really that's the most important lesson overall. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:14 PM
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Why not date outside that community? I've never understood why people pigeonhole themselves like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:07 PM
1

Yeah this is total crap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:54 PM
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Marriage is foolish for me without an iron clad prenuptial agreement AND a postnuptial agreement. Make it a condition of the prenup that if the postnup isn't signed then the marriage is annulled (not divorced). There is SO much misinformation out there on this topic. Most people don't realize that for certain retirement accounts and pensions (the few that remain) cannot be fully protected without the postnup. The prenuptial has to be done well in advance, both parties have independent lawyers, A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:18 PM
1

What good bits actually remain?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:04 PM
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I would expand that to say most men don't have many female friends at all unless they are the partners of their male freinds. Very, very few men in my entire life have had platonic friendships with women outside of them being partners with a male friend. I am not including casual or work acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:46 PM
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Older guy here. I mostly was drawn to this sub because in my life (which has been longer than the average reddit user by a fair margin) I've seen the breakdown between the sexes play out in real time in front of my eyes. So I am intrigued by the dynamics. Also I'm very curious about the link between these issues and the population crashes in the first world. So that's why I view and post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:44 PM
2

Give up seats on public transportation? Wow, that's a seriously pathetic move unless she's visually disabled/immobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:49 PM
0

Honestly, if I was single, I would approach women even if they didn't like it. So what. They can deal with it as long as you're being respectful. I'd rather have a 2% in the real world than a 0% chance online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:48 PM
1

I've been with the same woman for about 12 years now. If this relationship goes south, and I'm under jo illusions it will last forever (few things do), I'm like 95% sure I will just quit dating forever. I'm not being dramatic either or reacting. But the juice isn't worth the squeeze to try again. Don't get me wrong. I love her dearly and will keep her as long as I can, and I'm not saying relationships are bad. But really, they do provide diminishing returns the longer they go on. And they requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:16 PM
1

I take it more seriously here than in real life. You can't even begin to remotely touch these topics in reality without a mob of people wanting your blood (metaphorically speaking that is). So I guess I have to take it more seriously here. Not that I take it all that seriously to begin with. People just plain suck. I was a much happier person before the internet existed. People still royally sucked, but at least there was the illusion of human beings being worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:29 PM
1

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:26 PM
1

Hang in there. Sex robots are right around the corner. That's pretty much your only hope unless you're willing to put the work in yo improve yourself. But 90% of people can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:00 PM
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Bro, who cares if women don't want to be approached cold any more? Do it anyway and who cares if they don't like it. As long as you are respectful and back off when they clearly aren't interested, I don't care if they don't like it. I don't like having 0% online dating, either I'll take a 5% chance cold open any day than a 0% chance online. And I'm mildly inconvenience them? Psh. They can not like it as much as they want, but when it's your only and best option yoy do what ya gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:52 PM
1

Hell yeah I would, except not with my same build. That would be tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:58 PM
1

People, you need a postnuptial agreement as well. DO NOT GET MARRIWD UNSER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES if you don't have both a prenuptial and a postnuptial agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:50 PM
1

Common sense stopped being common in the 1990's. Maaaybe made 2000's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:09 AM
1

Honestly being freinds with women gets a LOT easier as you age and your libido decreases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:06 AM
1

That is a batshit crazy idea. It's so crazy that it just might work. To the printing presses!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:15 PM
2

I get laid constantly. I've been with the same woman for almost 15 years. And I did that by not letting women be complete assholes to me and letting them get away with it and pumping up their egos. It's not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:15 PM
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Or people need to stop letting women get away being complete jerks over very reasonable questions, thus allowing them to continue thinking their $%<sup>&</sup> don't stink and providing them with every greater senses of entitlement. Jesus christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:05 PM
1

... wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:01 PM
3

How does he have no game? He asked a very reasonable question and got an extremely unreasonable reply bordering on a criticism. If anything, she has no game. But of course women don't need game. But he didn't seem to do anything wrong to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:38 PM
2

Nothing specific, but a perfect date would be anything where we both have a lot of fun with no drama. While in reality I would have no expectation of sex, if it were a perfect date it would also end with sex later that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:37 PM
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Mostly because they don't want to accept the reality that men's issues exist and are really very difficult for men. But they have been gaslit and had so much smoke blown up their @$$, and also due to an overall lack of empathy for males, they are deeply solipsistic about it. On the other hand, most of the men in this forum are also really messed up. So really most people on PPD are nuts. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:31 PM
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Meaningless. You don't know who is a homicidal psychopath until it is too late. However, you can know who a single mother is pretty much immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:28 PM
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That's really sad if marriage is reduced even further as a political meanuver for immigration. To be clear, it isn't sad that people use it for that purpose. But it does show just how awfully antiquated and outdated the institution is as a social control vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:03 PM
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True. Immigration and lack of health shared insurance. But to fair, the former isn't a real issue between men and women causing contention. Generally speaking that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:27 PM
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I'll take your word for it, but based on the number of little reddit icons (which I know are meaningless and NOT at all an accurate representation of the users behind the comments) seem to be overwhelmingly male. I'm not counting the generic ones, but the customized ones. I see maybe 15 masculine looking ones to feminine looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:00 PM
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This is kind of a fascinating answer. Can you elaborate on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:49 PM
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But what do you do personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:49 PM
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I've never trusted women since high school (long time ago now). I don't hate women at all. But I distrust them as much as I distrust men. It took me a loooong time to learn that society is full of crap and that women are just as awful as men, moreso actually when it comes to everything other than violence. This sounds really negative, but it isn't. It just means that I judge everyone as an individual, but women have to earn the trust a little bit more than men do because as least with a man the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:42 PM
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Wow. That's an extremely messed up viewpoint. Men who are screwed need to accept it. Women who are screwed deserve empathy. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:38 PM
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I am very hesitant to cry in front of women, even my own partner. Some of it is toxic masculinity, but it's reinforced by a lifetime of experience teaching me that 95% of women will immediately and permanently lose respect for you the instant they see tears in your eyes, unless it is something catastrophic like the death of your mother or something. In a away it's very similar to being a bisexual man and admitting to a woman you bottom. 95% will instantly and permanently lose any interest in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:35 PM
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Men are touching your breasts without your consent on a regular basis? Holy shit that's messed up! I'm so sorry to hear that. That's so f'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:31 PM
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I'm just wondering how a lot of you younger, more bitter fellas out there deal with your bitterness and not hate all women as a whole. I went through that phase myself 15+ years ago. But the internet and access to data and gender relations philosophy (red pill, blue pill, etc) was very limited and this sort of content didn't really exist outside of limited social circles most people didn't even know were around. So I'm wondering what some of your younger dudes do to prevent the "red pill rage" f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:02 PM
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This is literally the plot of Talos Principle. Lol. But yeah we're beyond fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:58 PM
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Probably because the sub, and reddit overall, has ten times the number of males on it. If dudes didn't reply the Q4Women threads might get 5 replies tops, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:53 PM
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Thanks bro, much appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:57 PM
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No. I've never had a woman find me attractive in any way physically (at least never admitted). I had to work exceptionally hard to get my current lady, and if she ever leaves me that's probably it. I won't be trying again. Almost 15 years now so it's going well at least. But even my current partner will admit that I'm an amazing man even though I am unattractive. Fortunately she seems to a rare unicorn and aparently just doesn't care about the exterior. So to assert your question, no, I've never…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:20 PM
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Yeah, I disagree. As a much older guy than the average reddit user this is false. People adjusted and negotiated their attractive sense for generations. It's only within the last few decades has rhe western world shoved its head so far up its butt that people just don't want to acknowledge that you can raise and lower what you attracted to, to a surprisingly large degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:53 PM
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As if women don't want to cut to the head of the line for a top 10% guy while being total messes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:51 PM
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Nothing at all wrong with it. Good luck getting sex though. Women are deeply, deeply, deeply solipsistic about their filters while not being able to acknowledge other people's (be they men's or other women's) as equally valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:50 PM
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Can confirm that growing up during that time was SIGNIFICANTLY better. For the wonders the internet had brought, it really has done a number on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:48 PM
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What does it mean to be a man? Nothing good anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:37 PM
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Not true. Many would benefit significantly by reducing the population by vast swaths through whateber means (disease being a primary potential method). But destroying the world itself? Yeah no one actually benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:36 PM
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Man this is fatalistic thinking. If we all just gave up when faced with bad odds we wouldn't even be here as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:05 PM
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Although I met my current partner before the mass proliferation of swiping apps, an instant swipe left would be a woman with lip or mouth piercings of any kind. If she likes that kind of thing all the more power to her. No judgment from me. But I find them viscerally repulsive and couldn't be with a woman who had them. Shallow? Yeah probably, but I find those sorts of oral piercings so disgusting. It is just a "me thing" I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:59 PM
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Well that makes a lot of sense actually. For you that's a good filter then and very reasonable. But what if you didn't have the allergy? Qould it still be a red flag to see a few dog pictures? What if the guy was at least in them with the dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:52 PM
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What's wrong with having more than one photo of your dog? That's crazy that it would be a red flag to me. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:32 PM
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If they do, you better stay overseas. Moving her to the US will very quickly result in her being indoctrinated into the culture of western entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:30 PM
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Why? Couldn't two unmarried people raise kids together and be highly successful as a family, without being married, as long as they are all on the same page?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:11 PM
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Don't you think you're purposefully being a bit obtuse? I mean, you know that they're talking about. It seems like you're just trying to be pedantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:01 PM
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Why do you have to be married to have happy children? Why can't two people live together as partners, not be legally married, and raise happy kids together?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:51 PM
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I cannot advise anyone to get married, especially men, but women too, without extensive legal documentation. Not only is a prenuptial agreement important, a postnuptial agreement is even more important. With a clause in the prenuptial agreement saying that the marriage will be annulled (not divorced) if the postnuptial agreement isn't signed. Most people don't know this but postnuptial agreements are extremely important for things like pensions, 401Ks, investments, and money and debts acquired d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:49 PM
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Haha so true. Women have no idea what the sex life of the average man is like, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:38 PM
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Hey. Not trying to be a dick here, but it sounds like to unplug for a while my freind. Focus on the things you love. Put down the phone for a while. Have a little self love. Peace to you my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:12 AM
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For me, if I were to buy one, it would be a fantasy partner for me. No human, if we are truly honest, can ever live up to our fantasies. But likewise, no robot can ever fill that human need to connect to another human (no matter how realistic robots become humans will always long for other humans, it's just part of our psychological makeup). So I'd use the robot as a fantasy but would also likely not get any true happiness or fulfillment from that fantasy, at least for the long term. Sorry, whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:15 PM
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You can take away her agency all you want, but if she's into it consentually there's nothing wrong. Deny it all you want but that's deeply solipsistic of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:23 PM
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Why the hell not? They're both consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:33 PM
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You're being purposefully obtuse. When smartphones entered the scene, social media absolutely exploded, as dod swiping apps. All of this has radically restructured the dating scene to the point in about a decade where it is almost totally unrecognizable to what it was, especially for people aged 35 and younger. 10 to 15 years ago the technology changed, that's all. No one is talking about how women didn't have freedom before. That's nuts. This wasn't that long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:32 PM
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Excellent retort, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:27 PM
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Psssh. Come on Cavil. You're better than that. A generic Space Marine player? At least be something unique like the Tau. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:23 PM
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Wow. That's a tough lifestyle to maintain haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:13 PM
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"I love hanging out with you man, well, not you per se, but the stuff you have is great."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:13 PM
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She better be okay with it or she's gone. At my age the last thing I want is someone else dictating my behavior. Besides, I've never been with a woman who could provide nearly the amount of sex I prefer (I have a frustratingly high libido that only causes problems for me) so I have to do what I have to do. So far it's never been a problem and only one woman said she wouldn't have it. She was gone the same day. Most women I've been with don't have an issue with it as long as I don't talk about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:11 PM
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Wtf... haha. What a ridiculous phrase. But I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:06 PM
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Not only would I refuse to marry a woman without a prenuptial agreement, but I would require a postnuptial agreement as well that if it isn't signed the marriage is annulled. Most people don't know but things like pensions, retirement accounts, and other things cannot be protected by prenuptial agreements - only postnuptial ones. It is absolutely foolish in the extreme to marry without these protective documents. For both men and women. As an institution marriage is outdated and no longer reflec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:55 PM
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Hobosexuals? They are attracted to homeless wanderers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:48 PM
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Aren't trans people more likely to be victims of hate crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:40 PM
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I want to see this video. Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:29 PM
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I want to see this video. Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:29 PM
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I think some women DEFINITELY find intelligence to be quite sexy. The key to that is though, if they don't find him physically attractive first, then most women won't be able to see past the physical appearance to the sex intelligence. So it's like a major bonus, but you have to be good looking already for it to even count.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:28 PM
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In a way, I think you're right. There are exceptionally few good women out there. But likewise there are exceptionally few good guys out there too. I think people are just becoming worse over all. I've personally watch the general zeitgeist degrade over the decades since the introduction of the internet to the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:23 PM
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For many, many years I really wished I was gay. Gay people have it so much easier in terms of relationships. I have a (statistically anomalous) high number of gay friends, many of them married, who also say the exact same thing. Many are very thankful they dont have to deal with women. Also, every single one of then has some sort of open marriage to some degree. They also have apps that can get you laid in a second no matter how ugly you are. But thay was when I was younger. As I've gotten older…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:20 PM
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Yeah, it's really messed up. Even many women when they are being very honest will sometimes admit it's real and it is a problem. I don't know what it is. Denying it exists is silly at this point. But as far as I can tell it isn't a social issue or cultural. Women across all ages and cultures get the ick. Often. So it doesn't appear to a learned behavior. If I had to guess, and it's a true shot in the dark, it's a (mostly) outdated instinct intrinsically linked to female psychology. And if you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:07 PM
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There's a third, far more likely option, that the trend continues and we suffer the same fate as Europe and East Asia with a population crash. Its alreasy happening. No way to fix it now. Not that I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:08 PM
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If a woman refuses a coffee first date, then run. Run away as fast as you can. A woman like that reeks of entitlement. You can smell her FDS future from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:09 PM
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I've never gotten anything but snarls and nasty look from women in the wild. It takes a lot of work to get them to just be basically decent to me. I'm an ugly though, so I'll probably never get female validation. But that's life, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:03 PM
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You sound pretty difficult to date yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:39 PM
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That second woman sounds malicious. It's cool that she likes you after the sex and all, but she seems like a bully. Really going for the jugular with the mean spirited jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:15 AM
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I think at a certain point you just gotta let go man. There's a lot of peace and happiness to be found when you just stop trying and find peace within yourself. Don't say no to opportunities, but don't make it a goal. Just abide, my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:12 AM
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It's way better than online dating. Cold approach IRL works maybe 10% of the time for me. Online dating is 0% of the time. When you're judged immediately and instantly on a photograph, you're an average guy, and she has unlimited options, you don't stand a chance at all. At least in person she can get a sense of who I am, my personality, my charisma, humor, and compensate for my averageness (which online is already a permanent no). Just because women don't like it anymore doesn't make a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:03 AM
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So women have priced themselves out of the market because they stubbornly refuse to date an equal? Boo hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:56 PM
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Just look around at this sub. It's almost all entirely people arguing against data and common sense, especially from the female side. You know, I'm a lot older than the average reddit user. I spent half of my life living without internet at all. I spent a quarter of it with a smart phone. And let me tell you, I used to have a much higher opinion of the average person back in the day. The internet has revealed just how truly stupid the average person is. They are like children. You can give them …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:54 PM
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Have you been on the internet before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:50 PM
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This is so true. Almost every hot women I've been with has been a dead fish and expect the man to do everything. The less attractive ladies have actually put a little bit of passion into it, which makes all the difference in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:48 PM
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The women are just as bad, to be honest. If not more so. These subs tend to attract the worst of both genders, as well as bring out the worst of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:47 PM
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That's... somehow disappointing in the amount of critical thinking displayed from a whole sub. While not unexpected, it's still shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:21 PM
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I mean, you're not objectively wrong. But at the same time, there has to be a healthy middle ground between servitude to traditionalism and rampant unbridled hypergamy. There has to be a healthy middle ground somewhere, but seems East Asia and predominantly white nations haven't gotten the memo yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:15 PM
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Sounds like projecting then. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:15 PM
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This is the plot of idiocracy, and also seems to be happening. What a scary thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:11 PM
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Other than the genetic risks involved at 35+, what are the real drawbacks? Time and energy depletion? Seems like a good trade off to me if you want kids to be prepared and financially ready for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:11 PM
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Well you've managed to undermine a very scientific and highly unbiased poll. Are you proud of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:39 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:26 PM
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Brutal honesty: He was kind of cute (I have weird tastes, most people would think he was pretty unattractive) so I didn't mind having sex with him. He was incredible in bed. And I've always been one who could take or leave sex. After that, suddenly everything about him got way more attractive in general. It helped that he was an actual good person in general though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:40 PM
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