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Purge week!Laytheblameonluck/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:11 PM
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That's rather speculative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:00 AM
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They need a guy and his parents to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:29 AM
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Okay so hypergamy is only happening in the manosphere ...hmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:26 AM
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No, they believe hidden estrus evolved out of intrasexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:57 AM
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Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:55 AM
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Feminism diminished hypergamy. No way. Not possible. Hypergamy is alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:54 AM
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Women don't need a "strategy" to fuck and never have. That's arguable because evo psychology points to intrasexual competition in women. Nevertheless they need strategies to rear children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:53 AM
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How is it a "sexual strategy" when that style of feminism is convinced that relationships, marriage, and men in general are bad for women? It's a bargaining strategy. I rarely ever see feminists turn down marriage when they have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:51 AM
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It is backfiring though. I predict marriage will be as low as 15% in two generations time. Men will stop being "Betas" and stop providing women surety to have children. Instead FWB like statuses will be the norm. Women don't win out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:45 AM
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Oh boy, I remember walking down the street as a teenager with my friends and these girls were going: 6,4,7,8...rating us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:39 AM
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u/jaded_faded96 would you like to comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:50 AM
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Do a Jordan Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:09 PM
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So the problem these days is the post-NRE libido drop. Question is, is it because of repressed promiscuity?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:18 PM
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Problem is the evo psych faculty write some papers, the gender studies faculty riles up the student union about it as being misogynistic, and budgets are cut, so they write different papers. We've seen this recently in that evo psych research has stood still for over a decade now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:37 PM
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The anus?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:14 PM
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There's Mother Theresa and then there's poly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:52 PM
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LOL 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:07 PM
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Wow you really hang out with some people, ever walked into a church or anything? Ethics my arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:44 PM
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Authority? The Authority moral relates to deference to your man and respecting his decisions Umm no, authority moral relates to deference to an institution. TRP is anti-institutuonal, it doesn't even have a central authority. Rollo Tomassi wrote this book: https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Religion-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/B08RZ994T6 Again. Flip the genders, feminism is about gynocentricism - deference to women and respecting their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:29 PM
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How do TRP and traditionalists come to the same conclusions?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:16 PM
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We don't know. Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:15 PM
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Bingo. And the question now is, are they really monogamous and low libido or just promiscuous and sexually repressed. Who wants to take that gamble?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:12 PM
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Blink, blink. Your n-count is 1, your partners is 1.000001
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:05 PM
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Women be rating men since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:57 PM
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Which is why women apply it to men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:37 PM
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Gotcha, she's high value because of soft dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:36 PM
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Blink blink, the man doesn't know how kids were made. Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:06 PM
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But that's because TRP believes that moral frameworks have been gamed by a specific gender. Which is exactly what feminism believes too. And that's because TRP and feminism are radical whereas conservatives and traditionalists obviously are not radical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:54 PM
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Name the restaurant. Let's see how long these chefs last then.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 04:13 PM
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Blink blink you have 6 children together but never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:01 PM
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Blink blink, your n-count is now zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:00 PM
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That's pretty low key on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:56 PM
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Blink blink, your body count is now 2. He's still 40th of about 90 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:10 AM
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Blink blink, you have a baby. When the baby grows up, you fondly tell them: look at the stars in the night sky, that's how many guys I fucked, and one of them is your father, can you see which one?.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:54 AM
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Blink blink, he's not the one, he's the 40th...of about 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:50 AM
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Blink blink. You meet a guy and have kids but never get married. He keeps asking this question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:49 AM
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You win, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:45 AM
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Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:43 AM
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Blink, blink, your n-count is actually 160.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:50 AM
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Genie leaves facts as they are on that one, because wiping memory could be a betrayal of natural justice. Genie hopes you get justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:45 AM
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Blink, blink, you're 6 he's 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:42 AM
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Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:41 AM
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Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:41 AM
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Blink, blink, your 1, he's 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:40 AM
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Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:40 AM
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Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:35 PM
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My experience is the opposite, my wives previous sexual past is her reason for her frigidity and fucked up ideas about sex being something you do then settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:12 PM
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Wink, wink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:23 PM
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Blink Blink, he wishes his n-count was zero so to remove memories of more kinkier women in his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:22 PM
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I dream of Jeanie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:02 PM
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Blink blink, her n-count is 100, she's has scoured the earth for dick size, you are in the top 20% of big dicks she has ever had. But her exs dick was bigger and she is unsatisfied, and masturbates over his dick rather than having sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:01 PM
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Blink, blink you tell them your n-count is 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:00 PM
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What n-count value do you want "the truth" to be? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:56 PM
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Which n-count value shouldn't it be so doesnt he care about it (wink, wink)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:55 PM
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Modern tribal studies?!? Modern tribes are majorly patriarchal and monogamous or polygynous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:34 PM
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Yes, by lowering your n-count the genie allows you to "forsake all others" by wiping your memories clean of all others. You can then tell your spouse they're the love of your life and wasn't just 3rd in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:28 PM
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Blink blink, 6 it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:48 PM
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For support, call the genie hotline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:26 PM
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...5 times a week during Xmas and NYE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:21 PM
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Blink, blink your n-count is 51 and your partners is 16./endgenie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:20 PM
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Blink, blink, yours is 40, hers is 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:18 PM
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Yes, duty sex 5 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:15 PM
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And what n-count value doesn’t matter? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:14 PM
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Blink blink, your n-count is 45 take 50 which is -5.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:13 PM
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And what value is the truth? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:12 PM
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Blink, blink, 11 for you, 1 for them./endgenie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:11 PM
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Blink blink your partners n-count is 69.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:10 PM
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Blink, blink, your n-count is 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:10 PM
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And what value is the truth? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:09 PM
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Blink blink, your n-count is 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:09 PM
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And what value is the truth? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:09 PM
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And what value is the truth? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:09 PM
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And what value is the truth? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:09 PM
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And what value is the truth? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:08 PM
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Blink blink, yours is 3, he loves you for who you are /endgenie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:07 PM
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Blink blink, 0 for you, 10 for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:06 PM
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Blink blink, your n-count is now zero, your partners n-count is 103, you rank as their 35th best sex partner, have a happy marriage /endgenie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:05 PM
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And what value is the one chosen to be THE TRUTH? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:27 PM
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And what is the perfect value for this, then? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:25 PM
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And what value might "the truth" be? (wink, wink).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:24 PM
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An n-count that is too high is one where you don't discuss it with a person you want to marry because you are afraid they won't marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:11 PM
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How would you know having an affair isn't a reflection on the lack of sex? Ask them, they'll tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:02 PM
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Hypoagency and responsive desire are separate things. Hypoagency stems from women's sexual dichotomy, which provides a need that they hide sex or blame their sexual behaviours on men. Having a man make all the moves means you can have animalistic sex and later blame him and debase him. The only role responsive desire plays in all this is that people with responsive desire can have their sexual interest go into dormancy if there is prolonged lack of stimulus. So they can later marry and express n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:43 PM
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Because he's having an affair. Marriage vows are a religious artefact, did you sleep with other people and are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:31 PM
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Feminism teaches that women can't perpetrate domestic violence, but are only victims of it. So the logic is, when these women hit men, it's because they deserve it for making her angry.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 06:12 PM
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Why is it devastating and stressful that someone a woman doesn"t want to have sex with, has sex with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:03 PM
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People also neglect the fact the majority of smaller tribes practiced basically a hippie community kind of deal where marriage didn't exist. Where you getting this from? Basically if we go back 6000 years or so, everyone was fucking everyone As far as we can go back, all indicators are that it was polygyny not polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:03 PM
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"Change my view" on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:02 PM
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Haters gonna hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:54 PM
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Not really CMV is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:53 PM
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The red pill idea of dread making the woman horny for the guy is the furthest thing from the truth in my experience. So they were in dead bedrooms and get sex elsewhere, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:40 AM
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Maybe she doesn't see it as a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:33 AM
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Well if you don't see a relationship with them, why are you dating them or having sex with them? Tyre kicker means a time waster.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:57 AM
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Nothing's accurate? Seems pretty accurate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:51 AM
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Congratulations, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:42 AM
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Answer: $$$ It's about funding. University funding, government funding, editorial power in newspaper companies...etc
/r/MensRights19/12/22 10:23 AM
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Yeah which is why educated women are in for a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:46 AM
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They result in splitting assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:54 AM
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CDC data has problems because the male average is higher than the female average. Even reading that data a good 30% of the population are having more sex partners than romantic partners. I don't buy the hypoagency argument about modern women not meaning to have sex, but confusing it with romance, or whatever. Women today have more agency regarding sex than men.
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 08:53 AM
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Bang on, good post. But this indicates the point I've being making that women from the western countries have Madonna-Whore complexes more often, that it came about during 2nd wave feminism and oral contraception to Teenagers, and that they were and still are gaslighting men about it, in particular they project it onto men and use it to justify their promiscuity: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Female_Eunuch The classic gaslighting example being that they say "men see sex as making women impur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:55 AM
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The paperwork is getting filled out to get alimony and child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:47 AM
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College educated women have more sex partners, and it's known that more sex partners is a predictor of bad relationship outcomes, so I wonder if the survey could have held for that, perhaps the college educated outcomes would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:46 AM
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There's also a paper which showed the higher socio-economic women have more sex partners whereas higher socio-economic men have less. One explanation is that rich families (eg like royals) don't want bastard children, so restrict the men more from being promiscuous. However there's studies showing that men who go to college have less sex partners than men who don't, and one Canadian paper showing the reverse for women - higher educated women had more sex partners. Very strange.
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 07:31 AM
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It's a phase thing though. While only 10% of women are in their promiscuous phase, a higher number of women go through such a phase, atleast 30% have a casual sex / fuck buddy phase, correlating with higher libido. The concern is, why is their libido then lower in an LTR?
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 07:01 AM
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The thing is a lot of women date guys and string them along, and ghost them before any escalation. Usually it's an "idolise, devalue, discard" thing. About half of dates are like this for men. Another thing is there's women who'll delay having sex with guys depending on how hot they are for them. So, not a good sign. And then there's women with Madonna-Whore complexes who fuck "non-relationship guys" and then date "relationship guys" and sexually repress them. That doesn't necessarily mean there…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:40 AM
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Why women don't discuss sex tourism? There's a post here by a woman every second week. Maybe you are too busy going to Greece, hostels...etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:02 AM
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What can I say, other than oh well, and that means jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:00 AM
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But women still see marriage as making men their property for reasons of having children, and they protest and protect this right. That's why the family court treats men as women's property.
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 05:56 AM
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If women were told from birth to be nice to boys...hows that a traversty? It's not even true: https://news.sky.com/story/schoolboys-made-to-apologise-for-stuff-we-didnt-do-during-assembly-about-sexual-assault-12260783 Nobody's telling women to be nice to boys, feminists tell women that domestic violence is a male only thing, consequently women think it's totally fine to punch down guys. The point I'm making is, stat's show women are having sex with whoever they want...etc, that's fine. It's just…
/r/BlackPillScience19/12/22 05:52 AM
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The cause as why marriage was an historical reason for rape exemption was for the following points. I'm not saying these were better laws, but please understand the reasons... Rape historically held a high penalty, until 1977, rape held the death penalty. Think about that for a second. A conviction of rape could mean death of a man. Second point, rape cases have always been difficult to judge, given their penalty. However, historically, proof of intercourse outside of marriage held great sway fo…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 03:55 PM
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It hasn't always been the case, no.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 03:24 PM
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Imagine a world where men would complain that women aren't getting them off, darling? There was a time in history when feminism was about equality. That time is behind us, things have changed, feminism is no longer that, it has become about misandry.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 03:23 PM
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When would the last guy find out about the other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:11 PM
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Nobody it telling women to pull themselves away from Tinder.
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 03:08 PM
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Millennial Dads spend more time with their kids: https://www.mother.ly/parenting/millennial-dads-spend-more-time-with-their-kids/ Men work more hours: https://www.hrmagazine.co.uk/content/news/men-working-more-overtime-than-women/ Women now get bored of sex with same guy: https://bestlifeonline.com/boring-sex-wednesday-martin/ Quote: women's sexual desire was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfact…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 05:27 AM
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That and the Tokyo Sandblaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:35 AM
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Again, that's further illustrating the difficulty post-modern women are having with sex in a committed relationship, now that they are having so much sex outside of a committed relationship, and there is so much misandry being spread about men, it's the actual relationship that's causing them to lose interest in sex. It's not as if previous generations of men did more housework, however current generations of women have less sex in committed relationships, and have elevated attitudes of misandry…
/r/BlackPillScience17/12/22 04:01 AM
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The problem here is this: while feminism tells men to do what's right, it tells women to do what's right for themselves. And this is where feminism has truly fallen apart. So when a woman says she's "strong and independent", what she's really saying is she's selfish, selfish centred, and fearful. So yeah, that's unattractive to a man looking for a successful relationship, for logical reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:19 AM
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Well yes, "arrogance" is a social construct, an arrogant man in Japan is different to an arrogant man in America. Freud would have said this was a developmental issue. Today it is framed as some kind of hypoagency argument, that men think with their dicks and that's disgusting, women think with their vaginas and that's good.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/22 11:36 PM
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Then gaslighting men about this by saying "men think sex makes women impure", because 2nd wave feminists intentionally misunderstood Freud and promoted this idea that only men have Madonna-Whore complexes, incredibly to argue against monogamy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Female_Eunuch If you look at the state of sexual relationships in marriage now, couples are having less sex, there is a cultural problem when it comes women, sex and relationships.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/22 10:13 PM
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That's just a theory though. Another theory, while antiquated, is the Madonna-Whore complex, and it can explain these results too. There is no socialisation of women in society regarding sex and relationships these days, we give them a bunch of hormone pills at school that turn off pregnancy and tell them to do whatever toward men, it's a huge factor.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/22 09:51 PM
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We don't know whether this is nature or nurture though. Women these days do promote a Madonna-Whore complex toward men.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/22 09:15 PM
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If you're Catholic, good idea.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 07:53 PM
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Imagine men saying they don't respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:37 PM
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Difference is Indian guys are very mobile, they really do work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:36 AM
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At work and business. They're some super smart Indian guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:34 AM
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Things are changing for Indian guys. I see a lot of Indian guys looksmaxxing and turning heads. They dress and groom and go to the gym and it makes a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:40 AM
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The relationship is fucked, not the other partner. And it's fucked because such women grown up on a diet of "being seduced" and casualness of sex, blaming men for their frigidity and inability to retain interest in a committed sexual relationship. As I wrote before, the best place for seduction is Tinder, so such women should just stay on that and leave men wanting relationships alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:49 AM
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I think responsive desire gets mischaracterised as these things because it's the closest tickbox in the survey. But the issue is, the surveys aren't asking the right questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:14 AM
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I wonder if it has to do with social networking culture and this thing of "pickmeism" shaming, along with this perception that a woman who's single has sexual value that sells itself. It is very rare these days for a women to post a picture of their partner, and you'll definitely NEVER see women post a picture of a guy saying "this is my hot new boyfriend" without other girls getting all catty about it and calling her a slut when they break up. A celebrity is careful to keep a distance of fans. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:08 AM
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"manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning." Men tell you their reasons, and the reply is, "oh you aren't an expert on yourself, we are....here's our misrepresentation of Freud that pathologizes this...(insert psychology manipulation)..." The irony is Freud was trying to understand why people can have high libidos, just not in a committed relationship, sound familiar? It's a trait of high n-count people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:24 PM
1

That won't put alzheimers in remission though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:57 PM
1

Not true, get a passport. It's a globalised world now. The only reason why you are earning less than your dad in real terms is because of globalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:56 PM
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Huh? It's commonly known now that when women say "Men think the higher a woman's n-count is the less value she has", that the woman is simply trying to gaslight men about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:45 PM
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It would make Tinder vastly worse. Women would on first encounter always be thinking of the number of swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:03 PM
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I see, so the last guy you choose to have sex with you gaslight him then? Is gaslighting okay by you because you are just doing it to men? You haven't been taking tips from other women on how to gaslight men about sex have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:55 PM
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Say we put men in a line up, and you choose which guys to have sex with in order, and that guy decides if there's a relationship, but at the end of it you need to find a relationship. Does the last guy chosen feel like his value is higher than the first guy? Does the last guy have to worry about a dead bedroom relationship, or the first guy? Isn't it unlikely that the last guy will be the best sex? Wasn't he chosen because there were no other guys left? Do you think this is all because the last …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:41 PM
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Yeah so she was gaslighting you and so be prepared for people here to gaslight you because you are a man, as when it comes to sex people like to gaslight men, it's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:16 PM
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You dodged a bullet. The answer is definitely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:14 PM
2

Marriage is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:49 PM
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Yeah so I saw what I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:46 PM
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Holly cow really? I've stayed in Hostels where girls were having sex with a different guy every night. Stayed in beach huts and the girls in the hut next to me were taking guys home from the beach bars and being loud. Stayed in hostels around Europe and a Canadian girl was complaining about how disgusting Germans are in Thailand, next night she's sleeping with a guy from South America she just met... You must've stayed in some really expensive places to not see this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:18 PM
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You kidding? You'd have to be blind to not see the other female back packers fucking random guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:49 AM
1

Then why do men cheat more than women once over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:31 AM
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Lack of dread is the reason why AF/BB dead bedrooms exist. With dread around women can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:27 AM
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And what's in a women's best interest if it's socially acceptable for guys to cheat in DBs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:22 AM
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High n-count guys do, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:15 AM
3

All the studies I've seen aren't conflicting at all, every study shows men have higher sex drives in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:14 AM
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My wife reckons women are most horny when they are sexually active teenagers. The theory of bring horny during menopause is estrogen lowering and testosterone remaining high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:09 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:08 AM
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It's high for men they have an animalistic attraction to which may or may not be who they ltr That's a total cop out. Hypoagency gaslighting. The only solution here is men to cheat in such LTRs, leaving women to decide if they truly want to play such games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:06 AM
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Are they delusional pick mes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:48 AM
1

What about the pure Mandonna sexless husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:42 AM
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It doesn't lower your value for men, it lowers the value you hold of a single man. You'll move in together...etc but one man can't best the excitement that was felt from being seduced by so many hawt guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:37 AM
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Every women thinks other women have slept around more than themselves. So they see it as a criticism on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:27 AM
0

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:25 AM
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How would you know if you rarely try.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:13 AM
3

But the strange thing is, at around 28, women start approaching men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:12 AM
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Approach guys at death metal concerts. These guys are the most loyal guys you'll meet but aren't Beta either. And they clearly didn't go to the concert to pick up chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:19 AM
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But women DO feel fear of approaching more than men... As well as fear of rejection. Women are not used to rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:49 PM
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Women don't feel fear as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:41 PM
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But that doesn't negate what I wrote though. Therefore, women who are confident that men hold interest in them, approach more often. And usually that confidence is borne from experience. Usually they have male friends, but are naturally attractive with good boundaries and better skills with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:20 PM
1

So women who approach are more confident that men have interest in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:21 PM
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Sure but it is done differently, depending on species. For the human species, subset of women look for particular anti-social / counter-cultural markers when young.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:17 PM
1

Alpha is looks is black pill. Red pill is alpha is being a "rebel without a cause".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:56 PM
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That's because society is "blue pill", as in, men are gaslighted about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:45 PM
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Female logic, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:43 PM
1

So what are you then speculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:17 PM
1

Because a larger portion don't smoke cigarettes or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:18 PM
1

Isn't that a fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:04 PM
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No. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:52 PM
2

Huh? You inserted ad hominums, unfortunately you don't know me well enough to know how inaccurate they are. Relationships require maturity and growth, if women just want sexual excitement and they've been getting it on Tinder, then just do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:49 PM
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Ad hominums aren't staying on topic. Sweetie pie, you are just so wrong about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:44 PM
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Agghh...No. You are wrong. You look stupid. This is just gaslighting feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:39 PM
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This is just gaslighting feminism.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 06:37 PM
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That's totally illogical. I know you are trying to slip in ad hominums, but you've completely derailed your own argument and you are looking pretty stupid now. This calls to question whether you are just a gaslighting feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:29 PM
2

Not every relationship fails. Some women want relationships and want to grow as a person within the relationship, they see sex as something special and that's why they have low n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:20 PM
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But if the woman wants sexual excitement, the best way to achieve that is through remaining on the cock carousel. So what's the issue here? She wants a long term relationship? Should it be the guys fault she's conflicted between chasing novel dick and loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:15 PM
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Isn't that a different question?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:11 PM
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YES. Young women definitely hang out with druggies and criminals for the free drugs and because they see drug taking as alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:07 PM
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Who's doomed, the relationship? Yes. The relationship is doomed. But maybe the woman doesn't really want a long term relationship. Maybe she just sexually wants a life full of short term relationships. That's okay, just don't hurt other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:00 PM
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Did you take drugs with the pizza guy? Because young women are often attracted to drug users because they get free drugs and drugs are exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:55 PM
2

Women don't date down initially but go after alpha traits initially, causing them to appear to be attracting bad relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:46 PM
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What's there to work on? Clearly not a relationship that's got a chance of succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:42 PM
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Giving too much attention can cause a pursuer-distancer dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:02 AM
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It's not male dominated, it got overtaken by the mean girl mods years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:13 AM
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Bit why is it defined as good then?
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:25 AM
1

It's not uncommon for a female lead forum to have females??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:05 AM
1

Don't do PE exercises they cause venous leaks of the penis!!!! Your DB is because of other reasons!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:03 AM
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BEFORE MAKING ANY FURTHER COMMITMENTS, ASK HER TO ADD A PICTURE OF BOTH OF YOU ON ALL HER SOCIAL MEDIA PROFILES
/r/MensRights14/12/22 01:06 AM
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But isn't promiscuity good? Promiscuity good, cheating bad. Incel's are men that women aren't promiscuous with, therefore bad. This is the dichotomy.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:24 AM
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But then before you get married, it should be the same attitude. Because for example, there may be no further fucking around, because there's no further fucking full-stop, which suits female sexuality quite fine as women with responsive desire can go years without thinking of sex.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:16 AM
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But as David Schnarch pointed out, women often have a high libido at the start of a relationship then relationship satisfaction issues kockk in, and the libido hits the floor. But libido itself is multifaceted, involving all parts of the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:14 AM
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Oh no, someone isn't the best sex partner they've had. Deal with it. You married that man, you married the entire man and not just his paycheck. So they are then less interested in sex, that's how it's dealt with. We act as if promiscuity doesn't impact our partners.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 12:04 AM
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Yes communication and rituals and prioritising sex for the relationship have been shown to reduce the chances of a DB. NRE is new relationship energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:52 PM
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Well try John Gottman, David Schnarch, Sue Johnson, even Esther Perel then. That is, if you want to have a successful LTR. LTRs aren't for everyone, and if a woman enjoys being seduced and only views sex through that lense, LTRs won't be her thing in the long term. Affairs and flings are best for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:46 PM
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Seduction is somewhat antithetical to communication, because you don't communicate about sex, you seduce them. And its an NRE thing, post-NRE is where the dead bedrooms happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:33 PM
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Well yes, because you'll be fucking other guys soon enough because they seduce you, or will reject him because his seduction is boring, or both. Because your point of reference isn't the relationship, it's your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:29 PM
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I feel you need an explanation on how sex truly works in a long term relationship. That's if you are ever interested in having one - the litmus test as to whether a woman really wants a long term relationship is whether she's gives guys a dead bedroom...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:11 PM
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Here's the problem why women are ill educated for relationships... Seduction: "the act of persuading a person to have sex with you". So...why do you need persuading? Shouldn't it be a women's choice, what's this about enthusiastic consent? And, in what way are you comparing seduction? The husband is not as seductive as the hawt guy at college with game? The problem here is promiscuity. Promiscuity leads to a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:54 PM
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We've been told that the rewards for sexual experimentation and promiscuity will be a successful relationship built on monogamy. Discussing the reality of cheating causes this belief to become unhinged.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 10:29 PM
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I don't think female sexuality necessarily wants to be honest though. It's akin to guys that cheat, do they want to be honest? Men at the deepest sexuality want promiscuity too, just in a different structure. Freud picked up on this aspect in his writings where he states women struggle "to undo the connection between sensual activity and the prohibition”. Freud wrote, “of the endeavour made by many women to keep even legitimate relations secret for a while; and of the capacity of other women for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:07 PM
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It's bit of a piece of historical revisionism though, this is one of the key differences of Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:00 PM
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Cheating is just a consequence today of the unrealistic expectation that promiscuity when single is totally fine so long as you later somehow commit, and this false believe that this behavour doesn't impact your spouse and in some circumstances cause cheating. You can't tell me that cheating is a big deal if you yourself have had dozens of sex partners and been totally promiscuous. It all relates to each other.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 09:05 PM
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Then why do we sleep around so much before "settling down", why do we hide that? I've seen surveys show women state their husbands aren't the best sex partners they've had, think about that one, is that his fault? Isn't that a betrayal of trust.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:59 PM
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I'm not saying cheating is good, it's just that people have dozens of sex partners before marriage and neglect their spouses now and make out that cheating is a massive mortal sin and that's impossible because they're so similar in deeds. But people get very upset when this is pointed out. A lot of women in particular, their solution to this is domestic violence and threats.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:45 PM
1

I noticed something similar when I read about some religious concepts in Christianity. God rewards good people with wealth and success, punishes evil people with poverty and failure Huh, what about the book of Job and the new testament, particularly the beatitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:34 PM
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If my 110lb gf attacks me I can shove her away and leave the situation whenever I want She can use a kitchen knife and sever a main artery, you can shove her away and say "tis just a scratch" and we can all follow the blood trail to locate your corpse later. Good one.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 03:10 PM
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Not really. If someone is disinterested in having sex with me, it's none theirs or my business if we have sex with someone else. But that shouldn't be reason to ruin the livelihoods of children. In society, sex isn't interlinked with marriage anymore.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 02:56 PM
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Christianity theologised pre-marital sex with another as of equal weight to cheating very early on. They made informal allowances for pre-marital sex if the couple were engaged and a priest wasn't available. This then got warped by society into allowing a hoe phase, post World War 2. Even today, if you read the catechism, you'll see "being a slut" is accorded equal mortal sin to cheating. Cheating really isn't that big a deal anymore.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 02:16 PM
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Sluts lie about sex though. The genderflip of a young girl who's a slut is a married man over 30 who cheats, not an incel. There's no real social reason why we condemn older men for cheating even though their partners are often menopausal. The logic is they lie about sex, but don't we all.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 01:39 PM
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I kind of notice in the dead bedroom forums, HLM (high libido men) would often end up with multi-orgasmic wives who have zero interest in sex anymore. It's rather a paradox, because the women in the forum run by the theory that their wives are low libido because of the orgasm gap and it causes never ending fights. Anyway, I believe it occurs because these guys when younger wrongly associated orgasmic function with interest in sex, but I've not seen such association in research, and it's probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:00 PM
1

L
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:10 AM
1

What are these malfunctioned sentences written before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:39 AM
1

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:38 AM
1

Nope. Conversation is over. We know your intentions now. There's nothing further to speak of. You have your scarlet letter. "A wicked woman abateth the courage, maketh an heavy countenance and a wounded heart".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:33 AM
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If men judge them they cry out that it's "misogyny" and patriarchal, and that men just want to to control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:29 AM
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Why aren't women who lack integrity judged the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:42 PM
0

Here is my rigorous take on it. They're shit studies that are completely worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:10 PM
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OP is an alpha widow. That's all we need to about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:08 PM
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"Smash the patriarchy" = violence against men. It's domestic terrorism. That's all we need to know about your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:58 PM
1

Ugly people have little value in society. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:26 PM
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It's a business model and men are willing to exploit women for it. Lol. How about. "It's a business model and women are willing to exploit men for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:25 PM
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When women develop a reputation for traveling overseas to rape children Most human traffickers are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:23 PM
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Ive been on the ask feminist thread and they claim all relationships with with men and foreign women are based of exploitation of the women Written out on an iPhone with a Gucci handbag all made by women in factories under oppressive conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:20 PM
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She's going to be exhausted, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:23 PM
0

But it says "smash the patriachy", as in, give your boyfriend a broken nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:22 PM
1

What does "smash the patriarchy" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:49 PM
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That's right, eastern women don't have advanced degrees in gender studies and this puts them at great disadvantage ,/s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:41 PM
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Most women don't hit menopause at 31 are you on the "crack cocaine" they talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:38 PM
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Yeah is that surprising though? Somebody here's gonna have early menopause. 1% of women have menopause before 40. That doesn’t mean that the previous studies showing menopause averages at 51, with perimenopause starting 4-6 years before, are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:05 PM
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Your point seems to be that it's not that women don't do these things, it's that they hide it whereas men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:01 PM
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Women definitely do sleep around when travelling and holidaying. Don't know where you're getting "women don't engage in sex tourism as much as men" thing from. One of the key reasons why men should get passports is because they then see this first hand and it will help them reappraise true female sexuality and understand TRP better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:36 AM
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There's lots of variation on that, they often say menopause is on average 51 years old, perimenopause starting 4-6 years before. They're recently saying it's over prescribed. 40-44 is the age group where women can't have children anymore. There's something going on with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:24 AM
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40s is a bit young for that much menopause among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:10 AM
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There's a huge and obvious difference between sex tourism and getting a passport to date in other countries. Countries have international marriage laws for an historical reason. It ain't for sex tourism. Haters are gonna hate. This video pretty much summarises why these haters are going hate: https://www.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/zhi26w/theres_been_so_much_talk_of_american_men_leaving/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:05 AM
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Socialising for men: organise a party. Socialising for women: go to a party a guy organised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:20 AM
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I'm seeing women give up and get donor sperm. Seems the market clears and many are left with nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:18 AM
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What are they doing to find a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:14 AM
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Way too many in that age range cant even socialize today. It's the women who can't socialise. Young guys are playing online games and socialising like crazy. Women are just IG thotting and taking foodie pictures from their Tinder dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:41 AM
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Just go do some travelling, your SMV goes up +2 and women want relationships with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:38 AM
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Nah. Get a passport, bro. Enjoy your youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:37 AM
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At some point, if a woman is disinterested in having sex with a guy, it's natural that he then has sex with another woman. The biggest way to avoid cheating is to not neglect your spouse. But while 95% of women have had sex with other men, 30% of them have sex in marriage less than 10 times a year. If women can't contain her boredom, the guy should just have sex with someone else. What women want is marriage counselling, consolement, divorce lawyers...etc, all to buffer things so they can make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:09 AM
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He should repress his sexuality? To what lengths? To the point where they're having sex twice a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:54 AM
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Wouldn't religions allow married men to cheat then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:18 AM
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I want men to call out other men who make y'all look bad You mean like how they do in Abrahamic religions?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:45 AM
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Absolutely because relationships now are about trapping men from having the sex that women have when under 30. That's why it's all about delaying marriage. To have the freedom to atleast have sex with the guys women want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:45 AM
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You want men to make decisions on whom women are allowed to have sex with? Society is going full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:40 AM
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Yeah this is the narrative isn't it. Sleep around and then trap men into situations where they can't cheat. Because, you know, that's going to bring happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:26 AM
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This post is a total Luxury Belief that students have before they get a job: https://nypost.com/2019/08/17/luxury-beliefs-are-the-latest-status-symbol-for-rich-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:14 AM
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She's obviously not LL but LL4U if she's been doing that. And she doesn't want to discuss it? That's the conclusion. She deceived him into a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:12 AM
1

Most DBs go for 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:10 AM
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6- 30 months. Then for men it's at the 9 year mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:08 AM
1

I wrote, their husbands. Women often have high libidos for the first stages of a relationship and lose interest when e.g. he cries at a funeral, and that's why they were sluts with high n-counts before marriage. Otherwise, it'd be a low n-count. Their husbands were filling up the dead bedroom forums until the mods banned them for reacting bad to attacks on them having small dicks and bad game and stuff. Capisci?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:04 AM
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When does the deception in the relationship start again? When she has slept around, hidden it from her husband and tells him she's just low libido and doesn't want to talk about her sexual past. Or is it later than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:01 AM
1

Their Husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:56 PM
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Let's normalise men secretly having sex outside of marriage if the wife isn't interested in sex anymore. Let's face it, she's had her hoe phase and doesn't want to talk about it. If that guy is having sex elsewhere now, it's not anyone's business. This how things are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:10 PM
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Women keep sex a secret. This is why Tinder is so successful. So yeah no surprise about the lack of open discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:48 PM
1

How is he loyal if he can't cheat? He can't cheat, but if he could, he would. A guy should be able to cheat but choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:21 PM
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If a women isn't worried that the guy can't cheat it's because she doesn't think he's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:25 PM
1

So how many guys were you more excited to have sex with than your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:15 PM
1

After they get kicked out of the deadbedrooms forums they head to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:12 PM
5

Yeah but so you weren't LTR material though either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:11 PM
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Ignorance is bliss for guys in the DB forum, they're wives often drop hints about their high n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:09 PM
3

Undateable or unmarriagable? I think it's true that the market clears for marriageable people. Most sexually successful women meet someone before they're 25, most guys before they're 30. The unsuccessful people remain on the market for longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:45 PM
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If she's slept with heaps of guys and confesses that she only got with you because of stability and the pretense of a committed relationship for something like having children, and she's not really interested in having sex with you, do you care if she did her sleeping around before you met her or after you met her? It doesn't really matter if the effect is the same. It's only women who make a big deal about cheating yet make out that having a sex drive only when single and fucking ONS/FWBs is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:58 PM
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One day you're a party animal who drinks and is having sex with different people every week, and next month you find someone and are now in a commited, stable and mature relationship. It does not work that way. They think it works because they've had their sex, and their over that, and now they want a relationship. And they don't give a fuck about the relationship, never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:49 PM
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From a man's perspective, if a woman has slept with other men and that causes her to lose interest in you, do you really care if she has done this after you met her or if she did the sleeping around before you met her? The impact is the same for guys, so I don't get why cheating is a big deal. In terms of children, you obviously should get DNA tests done, so what's the big deal about cheating now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:40 PM
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I think the Red Pill idea that a man should be forgiven for infidelity is absolute nonsense. It's like this, modern liberal women sleep around and "experiment and find themselves" before settling down. And they keep their secrets and make their lies. And women say that marriage doesn't mean men are to be given sex. But what these women want, is that if a husband is unhappy with her latent frigidity toward him (because she was never really as sexually interested in him as previous men she experim…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:07 AM
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They're an odd type, one girl was complaining about sex tourism, and how "they bring it (diseases) back home", the next night she's fucking some hookup traveller she met from Brazil. Altogether they seem to be very interested in hiding the sex their having from back home.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 10:53 AM
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I'm surprised OLD has taken off as it has, it's problem is adverse selection: https://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adverse_selection
/r/MensRights11/12/22 06:54 AM
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A lot of college women date guys for their drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:59 AM

Ouch: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/zhrarz/comment/iznhmse/ Edit: the entire thread is a shitshow of TRP truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:20 PM
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Women don't treat men as humans, read all the shit about how they judge them as being bad sex...etc, read how they have describe guys as "husband material", how they jump into bed with some guys and make others wait and play games. Read how they shit test guys and how they express disgust toward men. If women treated men as humans, I don't think TRP would exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:13 PM
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So women do that with guys? I'm not seeing women do that with guys, even though they like hiding the sex they're having.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:02 PM
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High n-counts now mean cheating isn't as big a deal anymore. "Our partners do not belong to us; they are only on loan, with an option to renew—or not. Knowing that we can lose them does not have to undermine commitment; rather, it mandates an active engagement that long-term couples often lose. The realization that our loved ones are forever elusive should jolt us out of complacency, in the most positive sense". "But when we reduce the conversation to simply passing judgment, we are left with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:16 PM
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Yikes, men will literally cosplay friendship in the hopes of being able to ram their dick in someone! We need to view women's false frigidity for what it is. When women exaggerate their "ick" response, they've got a Madonna-Whore complex, where they suppress sex unless it's clandestine. Freud wrote about it in "On the Universal Tendency to Debasement in the Sphere of love". Think of it like this, what they're got paranoia that "all men must think I'm a slut'. And so they give the fake ick respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:48 PM
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They have, that's why the AF/BB dichotomy is now so prominent. Cheating is the solution that dissipates the AF/BB dichotomy. So many women now lose their horniness once in a formal relationship, yet a DTF when single, it's not like the 1970s, when women had one maybe two sex partners. So the solution to their frigidity is the realisation that they aren't owed men's sexuality, that rejection caused men to seek sex elsewhere. Men aren't doing that yet, because women have created this false hysteri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:36 PM
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I think your lying. There's too much study on female sexuality backing this. And you took hours to formulate a reply. The answer should have been given in minutes. The thing is, women do lie about sex. They are the gender that hides sex. Except when it comes to cheating. Men lie about sex there. And there's equality in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:27 PM
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It's called the "sexual excitement score". Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:09 PM
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Are you kidding? The was these girls who read that stuff at college and they used to get up to all kinds of risky shit. We had to search for them the following day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:43 AM
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Women's libido drops after commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:40 AM
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LL = Low Libido NRE = New Relationship Energy Men want sex atleast twice as much as women, probably 3 times as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:24 AM
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Women lose interest at a rate three times as much as guys. In the LL subs, women talk about NRE all the time. Men don't experience NRE like women, because men are always DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:23 AM
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It's what the paper is really about. It's saying that women lose interest in sex because of the relationship. There are other studies too: https://www.newsweek.com/moving-boyfriend-kill-sex-drive-study-665071 How? Because having sex with one dimensional hawt guys is pretty much all women do until 23-28.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:04 AM
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Oh yeah exhibit A, a porn video featuring the pool boy. Beleive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:11 AM
1

Who's the most exciting guy you've had sex with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:06 AM
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Not man children, but relationships... Having an actual relationship with a man is destroying the modern woman's sex drive. It's just so much harder to sleep with a guy when there's more than one dimension to him. Where's Sigmund Freud when you need him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:04 AM
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Forget Porn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:59 AM
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That's a problem though. He's boring, the promiscuous guys at College were sexually exciting. You aren't as interested in sex anymore. This is the issue these days. There's two types of relationships. Those where the women know he can cheat if he wanted. Those where the women think he's too much of a loser for other women to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:47 AM
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Strangely specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:30 AM
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Because you are at risk, after a few years, of growing bored and disinterested in him and rejecting him. And because there's no risk of him cheating, you won't do anything about it. Statistically the same amount of women do this as much as the same amount of men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:28 AM
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Then you don't respect your partner and the relationship is badly at risk of a dead bedroom at some point. Because this is what causes dead bedrooms today. Which then causes us happy relationships. Brad isn't as hawt as Chad because he's committed to you and not dark and edgy and exciting as keeping Chad's interest from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:21 AM
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Well you know, women rationalise in a relationship that even the ordinary guy they ended up is as shitty as that hawt guy at Cancun who was spinning plates. Until the threat of infidelity makes them reappraise the value of their partner. This is why it's fundamental that men retain the capacity to cheat. And why commitment has changed. Q: Are there any secrets to long-lasting relationships? A: Infidelity. Not the act itself, but the threat of it. For Proust, an injection of jealousy is the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:13 AM
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But at some point after a few months of rejection, if your expecting commitment he's going to appear desperate in comparison to all the cock you were getting while single. So your vagina turns off unless you see him with other women, then female intrasexual competition makes you interested in sex again. Female intrasexual competition is why women have hidden estrus, it's very powerful. Q: Are there any secrets to long-lasting relationships? A: Infidelity. Not the act itself, but the threat of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:09 AM
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You don't. Oh okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:44 AM
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These dominant women are total subs in the bedroom with Chad. That's the TRP take.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:17 AM
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I've just read books like "state of affairs" by Esther Perel and agree, it's ridiculous that we treat sex casually yet get so worked up when someone cheats out of neglect. Things are changing on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:15 AM
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Love and sex and more closely intertwined for women Disagree. Women sleep with far too many men for that to be believed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:10 AM
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This is why its okay for men to cheat. "Oh you're as shitty as Chad for daring to argue with me...no sex for a month" Okay then, so we cheat. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:52 AM
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Plenty of women realize men have other options. This is why cheating isn't going down, it's normalising. Men have options, women are turned on. Men don't have options, women are no longer turned on. You tell me that's going lead to less men cheating? The message is pretty clear to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:39 AM
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But that's not the case. I just think it's absurd that we treat sex as casual and without consequences until a piece of paper is signed. Cheating isn't a big deal anymore. Anyone who has slept around and says cheating is a big deal, is a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:34 AM
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If you've been having casual sex you are lying about being monogamous. If sex is just "fun" are the comparisons about dick size and shit "just fun". Women lie about sex. Now so do men. 30% of men cheat. It's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:59 PM
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Apparently their now denying it via more feminist historical revisionism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:38 PM
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As i wrote, the lying starts here. The cheating is just a corollary of a partners lying about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:38 PM
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If sex is just fun, cheating is fun too. Unless sex is more than that? This is where the lying starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:54 PM
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If you ever travel you'll appreciate that the female travellers are having a lot of sex. Go have a look then come back and tell me who should be getting the shaming on this. Not men.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 10:41 PM
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Best time in history of you want to scam, lie and cheat. Also a good time for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:26 PM
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In America, people fake divorces when the woman is ill because of medical insurance slugs the costs on the husband otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:24 PM
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What trust is there when there is a history of a large number of sex partners and unexplained sexual rejection? That's where it starts. It starts when there's a revaluation on whether a partner truly did "forsake all others" or just lie out of convenience. If you don't like the reality that you don't own your partner sexually, then sure, leave, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:15 PM
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That's impossible. A third of people have a period of infidelity and it's mostly due to neglected issues in the relationship. Be realistic. This believe that a piece of paper will protect themselves from their partner from having have had sex with other people meanwhile we all sneak off and have sex with other people beforehand, is untenable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:13 PM
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There's a huge difference between not being a virgin and having sex with dozens of others. You can't honestly tell me fidelity is important when people themselves are trying to fit on as much sex with other people before marriage, because of marriage doesn't allow it. Marriage does allow it. It's all changed. Cheating isn't a big deal anymore. If you've been sleeping around yourself, start with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:00 PM
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Lying about what? If you stop having sex with someone, they can have sex with someone else. A piece of paper makes no difference. Who's lying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:57 PM
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Huh? Infidelity doesn't necessarily mean a break up. Things have changed, men can't demand sex, but on the flipside women can't demand that no one else sleeps with a guy she's not sleeping with! That's just the way it is. Plenty of women lose interest in sex , reject their husbands, their husbands have affairs and then women regain perspective about what marriage really is about. It's not a guarantee that someone will be exclusive to you while you haven't been exclusive to them. Marriage isn't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:55 PM
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I've provided more sources. Cheating is increasing not reducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:42 PM
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There is no exclusivity if you've been the town bike, there's nothing exclusive about it. Stop seeing marriage as exclusivity, you are going to be disappointed. When it comes to marriage, sex can't be forced nor exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:29 PM
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Yeah the vow is that you have "forsaken all others". If you had forsaken all others, why did you slip in a little bit of casual sex then, eh? Because you haven't forsaken all others. Marriage today is a premeditated lie. Nobody is agreeing to exclusivity. Stop getting all angst about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:26 PM
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Same goes with sleeping around and then neglecting your spouse. It's all a lie. There's no "forsaking all others" when you've already slept with them. It's really very important that men be able to have sex when their spouse doesn't want to. Certainly the spouse can do it but otherwise it's no big deal if she is bored of sex because he's not controlled by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:50 AM
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Stop being a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:45 AM
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So fucking stupid...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:53 AM
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That's just a blog post. But I'm not seeing how the data is unscientific. Ifstudies have taken it from the GSS: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america How do rationalise your point against studies showing increased cheating by women since entering the workforce?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:36 AM
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He knows because your using apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:58 AM
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You're asking if it's okay for women to do it. Answer is, women already do what they want regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:54 AM
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That's what women do now anyway. If they want to. It's just that after 30 they're less interested in being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:45 AM
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No worries, when you're ready to ask a proper question that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:45 AM
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That's total fantasy. Totally opposite to what is occurring. Women are cheating way more than any previous generation. Further data out of the GSS showed that the percentage of women who cheat rose nearly 40 percent from 1990 to 2010 while men’s adultery stayed steady at 21 percent. https://medium.com/@aka54deep90/millenials-and-gen-z-women-cheat-more-than-men-a-data-insight-b6c0e83cdd5e Edit: More https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2013-07-02/cheating-wives-narrowed-infidelity-gap-over-two…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:42 AM
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You may as well be asking "should women take oral contraception before marriage". The answer is they do what they want already, so why ask? If women want to cheat, they cheat, they rarely do so because they don't have to or can't be bothered. There's a reason why women only find partners after peak SMV and not during peak SMV. Everything is maximised for their sexuality already.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:31 AM
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Sexually liberal women already justify their cheating anyway. We already have the sndeer to this: https://ifstudies.org/blog/liberal-and-conservative-women-have-very-different-views-about-marital-infidelity It's just that studies show women are less interested in cheating when over 30. That's why women delay marriage - to provide themselves with a socially acceptable way of sleeping with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:12 AM
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We don't promise unlimited exclusivity anymore. The promise used to be that one had "forsaken all others" as in, a promise that you have excluded all others for that person. Now we explore sex with others, so it's all changed. In regards to open marriage, that's not ideally wanted, cheating isn't wanted either but when you stop having sex then these things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:55 AM
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Why did it take until you were 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:39 AM
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Plenty of men do experience this with women. Anyway what's the big deal, if you've slept around yourself, sex can't be that important that you can't get over the possibility that you got cheated on due to neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:37 AM
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What if your partner tells you they're not as interested in sex as they were with a previous person and they aren't interested in having sex with you? Not the same? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:55 PM
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They aren't different when one of the partners says they're not interested in sex anymore. It's one thing to say you've got a low libido. Another thing to say you've got a low libido but for some reason was insanely interested in promiscuous wild sex at college. All this truth comes out after eating wedding cake of course. Cheating is pretty normal, 30% of guys do it. What's the big deal if sex is just casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:38 PM
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Morally? No. There's no such moral framework. If sex is casual, then that's a life decision. Marriage is just a piece of paper. What you want, is to have your cake and eat it. Sexual liberalisation when you want it, sexual traditionalism when you want it. It doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:27 PM
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Questions already answered. There was even the recent survey that showed sexually liberal women view themselves cheating as okay, but not okay for men. The thing is, the reason why they sleep around and delay marriage is because after 30, they're less interested in it.... ...unless their partners have agency to have sex with someone else. Then the economics change and they work at maintaining sexual interest. Without the threat of cheating, women become sexually bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:23 PM
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Worse, they go Cold Turkey on sex because it's not as fun and exciting and they've got a Madonna-Whore complex now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:21 PM
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That doesn't discount that cheating, the threat of it, is a fundamental part of marriage. Without it, there's complacency and loss of interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:20 PM
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They basically do though. Their needs change. And that's why they change their mind about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:16 PM
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Yep, they react to the loss of "new relationship energy" differently, it's totally normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:31 PM
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Isn't that what women do when single? They have sex to get their needs met. Then get married later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:22 PM
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The problem with marriage now, is women grow up in an existence of sexual competition for men, meanwhile they delay marriage, and then once married they lose interest in sex and neglect their husbands because they find living with a guy makes sex more difficult, they view him as less masculine, they're not in their party phase anymore, ..etc So the risk of cheating is now something that's a necessary part of marriage, it must always exist. Cheating is the solution to the AF/BB dichotomy. Its a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:18 PM
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But obviously marriage has changed. Women don't save themselves for marriage anymore, marriage isnt about that anymore, but if they stop having sex with a guy, marriage shouldn't stop him getting his needs met. Marriage shouldn't be an instrument to trap men into being Incels. That's not what marriage is about. So it's not really a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:26 PM
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Is it really a big deal though, women have a lot of sex partners these days themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:56 PM
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How would you know it hadn't gone on for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:46 PM
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First marriage most likely was a dead bedroom, and so he cheated and found someone who wanted to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:41 PM
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I think it's true that women cheat to leave, men cheat to stay. A lot of women lose interest in sex once the excitement of sleeping with a new guy has dissipated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:30 PM
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But when women have groupie sex and sex with a celebrities, they're not expecting a relationship even though the guy has a lot more wealth...etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:12 AM
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Do you mean like what Priests give alterboys? A bit of the old "Secret gospel of Mark".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:52 AM
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How big does the "build up" need to be, measuring in inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:48 AM
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But then why do they have sex if they aren't just sexually liberated women enjoying the exploration of their bodies before marriage? Doing all the things western women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:46 AM
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I don't know. I mean, women have sex with guys on Tinder just for sex, so it all makes sense. The recent statistics in SE Asia show women are getting into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:44 AM
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Up front about what? The curious thing is that everyone finds it implausible that Filipino women are as sexual as Western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:02 AM
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This is revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:54 AM
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This is just slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:43 AM
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But the guy writes he doesn't pay a dime. American women use tinder to sexually experiment, seems Filipino women are the same. Then there's all this hypocritical puritanism by a bunch of Karen's who use Tinder just like how Filipino women use Tinder. It's just slut shaming by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:32 AM
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It's weird though because by his description, the Filipino women are doing exactly what American women do on Tinder in America. Is this whole thing just a denial of female sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:09 AM
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You don't live with a long-term purpose. You don't have a grounded existence. You are flaking with no character nor moral code of conduct. You are spiritually unwell, falling for short-term desires over long-term planning. Like most woman under 24 years old?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:51 AM
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In what way, sexually compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:46 AM
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This guy doing anything wrong? https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/zf72ca/tinder_in_manila_phillipines_as_an_obese_late_20s/ All the women are attacking him in the thread for allegedly leading women on. But he states all the Filipino women he meets, he's upfront about it just being sex and they're down for it, he says he's banging some of them 3 times a week until it ends, they don't want money or anything, just a fling with a white guy before they get married, it seems. Seriously, maybe he…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:41 AM
1

Women think men belt each other up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:35 AM
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Judaic religions killed more men for adultery than women. The fact that men can have 100s of children and women cannot, and men are fertile until 50, means men should cheat on their wives. You cannot refute these facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:20 AM
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Yes! If he's saying he's looking for a relationship, he needs to display that she's not been the only candidate by playing it cool. Eg., wait 3 days before calling her. Relevant: "Hi Nickie, this is Mike...." https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DU3Pk6oDNRU
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:45 PM
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Hold yourself back from shit testing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:42 PM
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Men don't have the free agency women have when it comes to sex. Whether sex is casual meaningless or a lifetime commitment for a man, is up to women entirely. Men have no say whatever and women display this privilege in how they react when they expect commitment from certain men and sex from others and men fail to provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:42 PM
2

Most guys struggling to get laid, it's because they're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:38 PM
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When it comes to sex, men are happier single and women are happier when their man is no longer classified as single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:24 PM
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"Marriage is for the children" is why society anally rapes men in public through a system called "the family court".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:52 AM
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Yes that's another thing too, the woman cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:09 AM
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But if that someone isn't sexually interested in him as they were with other men, then he is being loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:25 AM
1

Its been my experience that women judge men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:53 PM
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Society isn't teaching women that relationship skills matter. A part of it is due to propaganda of feminism - if men aren't totally at fault, who's to blame? Feminism split off on discussing relationship skills during 2nd wave feminism. Back then and even today, people like Warren Farrell wanted to focus more on relationship skills ands feminists shut it down because it was diluting the narrative that women are victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:35 PM
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The evidence is, the less sex you have while single, the more likely you will find a relationship which lasts a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:38 PM
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Women should retain a ledger. $100 for sex, $50 picking socks up, stuff like that. $10000000 for a child. And then men can keep accounts with various women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:25 PM
1

Did the wife experiment with other people herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:24 PM
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Cherry picking stat's there. There would be a difference between over 30 and under 30 on that. Older men find it easier to remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:00 PM
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I'm not seeing it ignored or denied. However I deny that all guys have a dichotomy between who they have sex with and want a relationship with. However women, for some reason expect men to be sexually experienced, placing an expectation that men sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:59 PM
2

That's because casual relationships aren't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:46 PM
1

Yes, it's a bit of a projection because they hate the men who don't give then commitment whem they were expecting it, the switch turns on and they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:13 PM
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Plenty of women expect men to stick around when they're no longer interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:01 AM
1

How are men treating you like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:26 AM
3

So do 30% of women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:23 AM
1

More science showing men want sex more than women: https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/zc78qe/metaanalysis_shows_a_stronger_sex_drive_in_men/ Further invalidation of the humanist argument that women have socially repressed sex drives in comparison to men. Feminists ask for sources, here it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 10:17 PM
1

I think it's an absolute lie, tbh. Because divorcees genuinely effected by the break up can learn, as in the case of John Gottman. It's just that, marriage certifies a sexual relationship and women for some reason don't want that - they want secrecy.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 10:15 PM
1

The women on the market at that age are LMV anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:57 AM
0

Okay, and why would the first type want a relationship with an old guy? Because he has built a successful life or other reasons that makes him HMV. Again, at peak of the market, it doesn't get better, so she makes her choice. The women who don't then drop in market value and have less choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:55 AM
76

This is a college problem. Stay as far away from college culture as possible. At the end of college everyone ghosts each other anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:52 AM
0

Yes that's right because he's a man and men watch too much pornography by assumption and male sexuality is disgusting to women except secretly we like it, amirightsisters? Push that dichotomy forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:21 PM
2

There's two types of younger women: Those interested in finding a long term relationship now and building a life, because the market is as good as it gets and there's no point playing around. Those who want to experiment, try different guys, find themselves, they don't really want a man now (and are anti-patriachal), and they're saying they'll settle down later in life (once they've done what they can't do while monogamous, because monogamy ain't there thing sexually ). The second type look for …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:12 PM
1

I read women say they won't date divorced guys, reasoning essentially being that they view him as tarnished.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 10:07 PM
1

If you are seeing this on dating apps they're probably either faking for hypergamy or trying to set the frame of reference in the relationship (eg. You need to be hawt and ripped because I'm so successful).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:24 AM
8

Exactly. So it's like self worth then, just stop breathing willya.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:19 AM
1

The sexual relationship, i.e. the "...what him, no he and I were never serious...pff...what did we sleep together...what kinda silly question is that...am I some kinda slut...seriously.. men need to be doctors or lawyers for this princess".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:12 AM
0

Why aren’t you listening?! Women are here telling you what they want!”… Yeah, but the reply really is about "Then why aren't you watching?!? Because women ARE doing what they want, and guys are just talking about it. That's all." It's like what Freud wrote about the female sexual dichotomy - it hinges on a secret!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:32 PM
2

It's monogamy being done in bad faith. Reading a contract that says "forsaking all others", then intentionally seeking others because of that clause. Later on, when there's a dead bedroom, what's really going on? Can the other partner ever really trust you? Excuses like, it's his fault. Oh it's his fault you preferred having sex with someone else, is it? Really? Let me ask you this. Is there anything wrong with how Walter White compartmentalised his life between being a husband, and a drug gangs…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:43 PM
1

History or historical revision? Because post-modern historical revisionism is rather a monoculture. What you are attempting is historical revisionism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:48 PM
1

Well tradcon is blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:47 PM
1

The only thing is, why does divorce make people unclean? Even John Gottman had a divorce, and he's the expert on marriage.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:46 PM
1

TRP is left, progressive, radical...etc Blue pill is conservative, traditional...etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:43 PM
5

Even better, tell them you are totally mental in the head. That would weed out the RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:41 PM
1

OP your assertion is wrong. Number of Sex partners only matters if you are looking for something long term No. It says, that people are more likely to find stable relationships if they've not being sleeping around recently. Premarital sex doesn’t have any long-term effects on the odds of marriage, at least for the vast majority of people It does gave an effect on the odds of the marriage not lasting, other studies have shown this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:18 AM
1

OPs assertion is wrong. All this study indicates that if women want to get married then stop sleeping around with guys you find hot!!! Women often rationalise that they have to experiment and put their body out there. The data disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:16 AM
1

Isn't what way? Point is your adding identity politics to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:14 AM
1

So when women stop having casual sex they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:21 PM
1

But in the anglo-french war both sides were white, so which side you choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:52 PM
1

Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:52 PM
1

I was always wondering if gender equality would lead to their being guys being hired as the workhorse to take the slack. You need to learn more about how to use administrative tricks to stick up for yourself. Working overtime? Ask for budget for things that will help you finish earlier. No budget, then late deliveries it is.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 11:03 AM
7

And prestige, and this is where it's becoming ridiculous.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:56 AM
6

Most jurisdictions don't allow an age gap of more than 2 years. She was born in 1908, making her 35 years old when the charges were laid in 1943.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:52 AM
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Lol, in the threads I read, they're congratulating each other for "dumping that guy", and saying "don't get married early, young marriages are more likely to end in divorce", oh and virgin marriages have by far the lowest divorce rate and to that they say they're religious and therefore implicitly must have unhappy marriages where the woman is oppressed, so you ask, is divorce bad or good then, and to that they actually admit that they view divorce as making men "unclean" while fucking dozens of…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 10:31 AM
16

Fucking hell. 15. The hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 07:25 AM
1

And you know the someones perspective based on the colour of their skin, the appearance of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:14 AM
1

I don't really segregate like that. If thlububu white, if thlibublubu male, therefore what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:41 AM
1

The feminist revised edition, or the original historical manuscripts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:57 PM
1

YES HE DID. the endeavour made by many women to keep even legitimate relations secret for a while; and of the capacity of other women for normal sensation as soon as the condition of prohibition is re-established by a secret love affair: unfaithful to their husband, they are able to keep a second order of faith with their lover - Universal Debasement in the Sphere of Love READ IT
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:39 PM
1

I don't think women are aware why. When you grow up on a diet of being told to hate men, yet secretly fuck them to get your kicks, when it comes to living with a man sexual dysfunction is a high risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:36 PM
0

I don't think men should ever agree to be committed, it causes women to lose attraction toward him. Women have hidden estrus because of female inter-competition - they need it to remain sexually interested. It's a strong drive and the difference of sex where there's competition vs sex where there's not, is obvious, because most women these days have had sex where there was competition for the guy - women don't wait for monogamy(marriage) to have sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:49 PM
1

The rarety is morally strong women. I find women tend to be more unscrupulous than men. E.g. My wife often does shit because "no one's looking" - guys do this much less. So, as a guy, a woman's unscrupulousness makes you wonder if they ever really love you or are just using you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:38 PM
1

In comparison to what though, the cock carousel? Do women ever notice they do that? Because that's the issue here. I've only seen a very few who had such self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:32 PM
2

Men formed an entire group with multiple websites... Yeah, almost like feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:29 PM
2

Freud wrote that women have it too. And that was written before birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:25 PM
1

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:23 PM
1

Wow, you never get butthurt do you. Ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:22 PM
1

This is what I mean. I'm not ACE and I don't believe in grey ACE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:20 PM
1

Not for me. I never "just wanted my dick wet", and passed up plenty of opportunities. The thing is, women see this as unmasculine, or defective or some shit. I've even had a woman say I had a Madonna-Whore complex because she viewed me only wanting sex in a relationship as a denial of female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:17 AM
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Not going to click on external links.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:13 AM
3

Women get all defensive with the word "slut", but a womans Madonna-Whore complex is the reason why guys often make such labels. But, I think the thing is guys need to be made aware of it so they know it's not their fault. Because the thing is women blame men for it. It's internalised misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:54 AM
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A lot of women today have Madonna-Whore complexes. I think most people have a friend who was a bit wild and got herself in compromising situations and is now sexually conservative with her husband. It's very common, I'd say 1/3 to 1/5 women have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:35 AM
1

Well it's dead. It's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:58 AM
1

Marriage is meaningless then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:17 PM
2

These women you are discussing have Freudian Madonna-Whore complexes. Where there is desire they cannot love and where there is love they cannot desire. They give the category 2 guys dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:48 PM
1

Yeah so sounds like it's okay for men to cheat on their LL wives then, sex is meaningless. 1/n -> 0 as n -> infinity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:35 AM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:33 AM
1

It's not really okay for anyone to sleep around early in life, hide it, and later give their marriage partner a deadbedroom, but that's what is going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:36 AM
1

Actually women become infertile between forty and forty five and men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:34 AM
2

She thinks men don't leave because of sexual incompatibility?!?
/r/MensRights24/11/22 10:25 AM
1

That would make all relationships an FWB arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:09 PM
0

Men are also effected by fertility as they age. Not as badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:46 PM
2

Same. They tell me to grow up because of how young I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:45 PM
2

I think women who have kids age the worst. Better to have kids younger because your body bounces back better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:42 PM
7

Huh? I've only ever seen women complain that they can't have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:41 PM
1

Why do they call it geriatric pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:38 PM
2

Neither do I, I must have fallen on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:19 PM
1

They went to different schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:17 PM
1

Aw that's not fair. Marriage sux.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:49 PM
0

Aren't women more picky than men about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:47 AM
0

I've slept with here and there too, what a coincidence. Anyway, the original script of "pretty woman" was called $3000 because at the end he kicks her out of the limousine and throws $3000 at her. I would have watched the shit outa that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:56 AM
0

I hate the premise of "Chasing Amy", that Ben Affleck could turn a woman straight through simping, and that men shouldn't judge women by their hoe phase. It was so fucking ridiculously blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:42 AM
2

Seriously, you can get off the internet now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:27 AM
7

Sort of like falling onto a penis. Happens to guys all the time, why I got one up my arse right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:07 AM
3

Who chats to Instathots like this? It's like taking financial advice from a stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:07 AM
1

You are missing the entire context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:54 AM
1

Would you like to create one? TRP is open source.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:53 AM
1

Sign here: SIGNATURE: _______ NAME: OP isn't Shit Posting, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:49 AM
2

This married men or single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:47 AM
5

Dear lord, grant us the serenity to accept the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:36 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:33 AM
1

Interest in what? A nice game of chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:01 AM
2

STDs and things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:46 AM
1

Are they HTML novices?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:45 AM
15

I love how misandry is whitewashed as "not all men, just the ones I view as low value".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:25 AM
4

Aside from your sample of one, sexlessness, BPD girlfriends, dead bedrooms, divorces, these things make men turn toward TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:22 AM
5

And if he doesn't agree, she keeps him in the sex pool and selects the next guy? Eg, he says "Just sex for me thanks, I'm already married". Does she say "Next Tuesday"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:52 AM
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Men want casual sex more, okay so men should approach. But I don't think men want relationships more, but if they do and they approach, isn't the relationship going to be less successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:35 AM
3

Then when women approach men for a relationship, there is less chance of a break-up/divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:22 AM
2

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:06 AM
0

I got pursued. I don't get this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:06 AM
2

IDK. Apparently my wife thought I was pursuing her because I remembered her name when I said goodbye. The ones who walk out with other guys are making their choices. So your sarcastic advice ain't that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:02 AM
5

Boy you must really know nature. How do you know such things. Do you like, go for walks and look at trees and watch birds and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:00 AM
5

Men want what more?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:58 AM
1

And men with m/w complex see any woman who’s had sex, including in past relationships, as having loose sexual morals. IDK where you going, but this is wrong. And I particularly offer the example of women who prefer virgin's. I mean, various religions would see it as loose morals, that's nothing to do with Madonna-Whore complex, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:04 AM
4

TRP doesn't at all document TradCon society, it documents post-modernist society. And TRP is liberalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:02 AM
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Or dated for drugs. That's not talked about but I've been asked for drugs by dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:23 AM
0

Red pill isn't angry about women having agency, it is critical of hypoagency though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:21 AM
3

What? Red pill is about how women act in a post TradCon society. You didn't "leave red pill". True TradCon women don't ride the carousel until they're 30 like how modern liberal women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:15 AM
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There are plenty of women here who want virgin's. You saying they have Madonna-Whore complexes? That's back-the-front.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:19 PM
2

Relationships arent polygamous, the person is polygamous. A person who sleeps around when single can later be in a relationship later, but they are still a polygamous person. It's not a monogamous relationship anymore than a cheater is in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:04 PM
1

Don't men compete to give women the best sex? Isn't that what women do when poly aka "single".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:01 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:00 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:58 PM
1

The misandry is pretty simple. Women who have loose sexual morals project their behaviour upon men because inter-alia "men have Madonna-Whore complexes" . The reason why she slept around and kept it a secret? Why men have Madonna-Whore complexes. The reason why she now doesn't want to have sex with her husband? Why it's because men have Madonna-Whore complexes. The list goes on... Surely a risk to be cheated upon is a reality here. Don't women understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:35 PM
1

Freud didn't come up with the Electra complex. That would be the Oedipus complex. If the Oedipus complex applies to women, then surely so does the Madonna-Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:56 PM
1

Freud does reference it, he just didn't consider it important at the time. He refers to it as a reason why women have trysts, and keep their sexual history secret, and lose interest in sex that is "legitimatized". We see today women do this extensively before and within marriage. Over 30% of women lose interest in sex in marriage, and its all blamed on men. Freud's paper was written after a period of history where prostitution was one of the highest forms of female employment, and before widespr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:46 PM
1

Isn't that a type of "uncleanliness", the term itself used to mean ungodliness. By describing women as being unclean, what is meant is that they have loose sexual morals toward men. Women who sleep around are described as such, that's not the Madonna-Whore complex. The error in feminist thinking is that they've not realised that the guys they fuck before marriage (alphas) and the guys they marry (betas) are separate groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:36 PM
1

Debasement in the Sphere of Love, seriously why do they send you people to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:17 PM
1

We've already redefined monogamy to allow is to be shitty partners. This happened during second wave feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:26 PM
1

It's in the actual paper written by Freud. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:23 PM
1

On one hand women say men consider sex as making them "unclean", that argument falls apart when we consider how women treat men with a history of cheating. So men should just consider women's complaints about cheating as women complaining that sex makes them unclean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:22 PM
1

It only hurts people if they care. I don't think high n-count people do really care. How could they? At some point, after so many sex partners, if they've become bored of sex, cheating isn't hurting anyone. Perhaps it's their own promiscuous history that's hurting people. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:07 PM
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Anyway, I have a meeting with my supervisor about my ‘misogynistic’ behavior on Thursday :/ Don't say anything, sit down and write out what they say to you. Go see a union member about getting representation.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 11:22 AM
2

Oh I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:19 AM
1

Sex is an expression of love not a Olympic sport. Friggen porn. A lot of high n-count women don't think like that these days, so it's unlikely that it's porn. My wife didn't think like that until after therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:18 AM
6

You don't go on an all meat diet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:10 AM
2

It used to be full of these stories until the mods started deleting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:08 AM
1

What you missed it? You haven't even read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:30 AM
1

You’re comparing cheating sex to a woman having regular consensual and monogamous sex with a husband/bf. Huh? You're comparing FWBs and ONS to marriage. Cheating isn't an issue then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:28 AM
1

It was never a gender issue. Freud wrote that women have it too. These misandrists are redirecting it to be about men only. It's a form of gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:38 AM
-1

Oh I get it. Misandry. Hate of men. That's why you are intentionally redirecting everything toward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:36 AM
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I really don't quite understand why women focus on this idea of men viewing then as "unclean", the weird thing is women who get STDs, they blame the man - it's always a story of male deception, I find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:43 AM
1

That is crazy. You read some crazy shit. How about doing some research on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:41 AM
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I think the narrative that men view women as "unclean" is an injection by women with ulterior motives. Essentially it's gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:34 AM
1

How about I post you a copy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:27 AM
1

In the section "hate", she's literally saying women should sleep around because men don't want them having as much fun. And a generation later we're finding that most men haven't being sleeping around and women sleep around too much for successful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:26 AM
1

The man. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:24 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:23 AM
1

See how many copies were sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:22 AM
1

2nd wave feminism wrote about as a reason for sleeping around: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Female_Eunuch The MWC enables men to remove humanity from sex Really? Well, in the above book we see feminism allows women to remove humanity from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:20 AM
0

Isn't that labelled as cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:09 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:08 AM
0

It's a misunderstood complex because 2nd wave feminism literature used it as an excuse for arguing women should sleep around. It's not that well known. It's about people hiding their sexual past from their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:07 AM
1

If sex isn’t what makes a woman “degraded” then what is it? Does men cheating make them degraded?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:05 AM
4

It sullies her brain. Do you view men cheating as sullying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:25 PM
2

Also men: women are having sex wjth more than zero men - burn those witches at stake!!!! Hyperbole. The complaints are about how women have sex with dozens of guys when not in a committed relationship. Furthermore women expect men to not do the same once she's decided she wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:23 PM
0

How many n count posts have there been men don’t want women touched by too many other men… why? Because that makes her unclean. Really? Not because such women are famous for losing interest in sex in LTRs?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:20 PM
0

So you’re making a comment about a complex that you know little about? Do you? Freud never called it the "Madonna-Whore complex". It's got nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:18 PM
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It’s viewing sex as a degrading act that ruins women. Wrong. See "debasement in the sphere of love" by Freud. Viewing promiscuity in women as a red flag isn't this. Freud actually comments that women who hide the sex they have, have the complex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:08 PM
11

Dead bedroom forums used to be full of stories until it got banned when TRP came in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:05 PM
1

What's "wife material", LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:04 PM
2

Originally, the "Madonna-Whore complex" came from Freud's investigations on why men don't have sex with their wives. So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:02 PM
1

Lol. /r/deadbedroom or /r/deadbedrooms? /r/deadbedrooms doesn't allow this discussion anymore, the lowlibidocommunity complained too much about talking of their partners cheating. /r/deadbedrooms bans mostly men.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:44 PM
0

Isn't it more the issue that women want men who are submissive (but they don't want them sexually) and men don't want to the beta but?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:40 PM
0

That's because of "Happy wife, happy life". That's not a measurement of sexual satisfaction or sexlessess.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:35 PM
1

I see. So to honour this contract of "hardcore monogamy", you sleep with other people beforehand. You don't consider it bad faith at all. So how's cheating any different? BTW, serial monogamy is not "hard core monogamy". And this promiscuity on your part isn't monogamy at all. Seems you aren't really in a position to caste the first stone afterall. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:56 PM
0

A good proportion are in dead bedrooms, and often their disinterested partners have had sexual experiences prior to the relationship and are now over "that phase of their lives" and chose the relationship because that's the narrative in society - sleep around then settle down. Some people instead retaliate by settling down then sleeping around. Promiscuity and infidelity are different sides of the same coin. That's the problem.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:50 PM
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Women are told to do what's right for them, men are told to do what's right. Men in these relationships check out of the relationship as well, but don't initiate divorce out of a sense of obligation. Also money. In jurisdictions where the relationship split is 50/50, more men initiate divorce.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:57 AM
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What they mean by infidelity, is dead bedroom.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:52 AM
0

Being a "pussy" huh? It's just sex. All this lecturing by people who themselves screw around yet justify it because "it's not serious".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:47 AM
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Well, women seem to struggle a great deal in communicating the true reasons why men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:32 PM
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What's wrong with that? People aren't allowed to discuss things? Men and women can't learn from each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:32 PM
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By what logic do you state "he hates women"? The whole entire problem with "cheating" is that it is vastly too common, women shut down the conversation as an effort to control men, it doesn't work. You need to live with the reality that you do not own men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:30 PM
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Guys do. The problem is, you can't negotiate desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:26 AM
-3

Exactly. Wife's libido fades when the relationship is loving and not like all the naughty sex she used to have and keeps secret from the husband. Men cheat for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:44 AM
-2

Exactly. The sex hurts but she doesn't tell him because she is repressing her true thoughts from him, thoughts like "I've had better"... and he knows she's doing this, so he has sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:41 AM
-3

What women don't get, is that's exactly why men cheat. He's got one partner who's libido had every opportunity and gave every excuse on earth, and another who's libido is hot for him. If she's had a colourful past, it's no big deal for guys to create their own colourful secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:03 AM
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I think becoming buff can make men more "masculine" though, and some women have a high cut-off threshold on this. They're gonna be trashy women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:31 PM
1

Honestly this is SUCH BAD ADVICE!!! The amount of corporate slave women who have a baby panic in their late 30s is ridiculous. And then you see them as single mom's desperate to find a man to help because they can't get back to work. And they're always flirting even when I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:16 PM
5

That's because you never heard of Nickelback.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:26 PM
-3

There's too many Hybristophiliacs on this forum. It's like "oh look at those dangerous men, quick ladies, get a gun oh my my he's coming this way how do I look?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:11 PM
1

You can't spot men who cheat on them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:10 PM
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Sounds pretty pathetic. It's not too difficult for woman to work at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:07 PM
1

They might need stimution to become aroused but can orgasm from penetration afterward, from the g-spot or a-spot. Via coital alignment or the method of pushing down on the entrance so the penis levers to the anterior. But the woman needs to communicate the spot, it's silly that women expect men to know all this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:50 PM
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My wife was promiscuous and it's ruined our marriage tbh. Just to many problems with sex. I don't like her as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:04 PM
10

I think men getting passports and travelling is the best thing they can do in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:55 AM
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United Nations Discovers Most Human Traffic Perpetrators are Women: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/y7psec/united_nations_discovers_most_human_traffic/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:52 AM
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Like these ones? https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/tdrfwj/putin_wears_lift_shoes_to_appear_taller/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:42 AM
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Small condoms can make you feel nothing. Ever been on SSRIs or taken propecia?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:28 AM
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But then you miss them and the whole thing sux.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:26 AM
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I disagree with this stuff. A good percentage do, just not everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:23 AM
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...lying with your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:22 AM
3

Babies aren't parasites, they're beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:20 AM
3

Biblical historians believe it's the missing part of the bible that Moses used to wipe a turd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:15 AM
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Yes, he's obviously a quick learner then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:13 AM
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Cheating usually means there's something going wrong in the relationship, like no sex. Guys know this so are just shitposting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:07 AM
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All the studies show women lose interest in sex with their husbands after marriage. I hate wearing a simp ring, they're so oppressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:01 AM
1

You're more tradcon than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:10 AM
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In either case, I didn't lose interest in sex. Then there's no problem. My wife, dozens of guys, sex party's, no explanations. The modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:01 AM
1

So you rang them and told them your breaking up with them? "We had sex once three months ago, I'm breaking up with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:59 AM
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Umm so when living with your parents, what happened with your relationships with guys whom you lost interest in having sex with? Did they ring up and say "hey I know we've not had sex in like six months but I'm thinking of having sex with someone else"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:38 AM
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It's controlling. If she's not fucking him, just best assume he's going to do that. Rather than all the bullshit arguing about why her panties don't get wet anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:18 AM
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Ideally both genders should have relationships when having sex. Monogamous, committed relationships. But that doesn't happen anymore so fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:11 AM
1

Yet you see men as property of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:04 AM
1

You.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:00 AM
1

So you lied to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:51 AM
1

And did you tell your parents whenever your going to have sex with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:45 AM
1

Do you have an open relationship with your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:36 AM
1

Because it's okay for them to just have sex with someone else instead of labelling the entire relationship as "unhappy".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:31 AM
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You.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:24 AM
1

Well traditionally yes. A lot if your ideas about marriage derive from traditionalism. In a liberal world, cheating is not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:22 AM
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When single you are in a relationship, with your parents and friends. Do you mean sexual relationship? Well yeah so if you have sex with someone you are in a sexual relationship, if you don't you aren't. Women call themselves "single" when they want the rules to be in their favour. Consequently, there are no rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:17 AM
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But it doesn't fit the definition of an open relationship. You want to squeeze this into some sort of formal definition when over 30 yet keep it all unspecified and fluid when "single".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:13 AM
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How about just not defining relationships as open or closed, black or white.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:54 PM
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I'm not being dodgy. Men cheat out of female complacency, and it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:53 PM
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There is a gender difference in terms of how modern women are attracted to pre-selection, and this hurts the married man and turns him into a eunuch for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:51 PM
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You are saying he has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:41 PM
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Huh? You are having a syntax error. It's you who believes people should be beholden to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:29 PM
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Where have I lied to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:16 PM
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I felt entitled to a sexual partner for not chasing sex from them when they don't want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:41 PM
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You need to move beyond these "be a man Johnny" ad hominums. I don't care if you think it's cowardly. It's the ONLY solution to dead bedroom marriages. With the possibility of men cheating, women don't become complacent. If women do neglect their partners, that's why he's cheating. It's not because women are inexperienced at sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:30 PM
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If I did sleep with someone else out of her lack of interest, and she did have sex with a dozen guys in college, she can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:24 PM
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But you are shocked that I don't agree that women have control over men's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:18 PM
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Men, in aggregate, have the right to tell women they should not sleep before marriage, otherwise women have no right to do it. Would you say that is accurate? I've already told you they don't want open relationships, they just don't want no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:14 PM
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Q: "Why do men agree to my terms of exclusivity" A: they don't. Q: "you still won't answer my question."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:07 PM
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It's not a threat and you DO have sex with guys in such situations. Women DO have fwbs and casual situations when it suits and in those situations they don't neglect the guy sexually or become complacent. At the start of relationships, women do have sex knowing he can go have sex with someone else. Women only become complacent when sexual competition is removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:02 PM
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Is he saying he doesn't want to have sex monthly? What actually happens is women agree to like weekly or fortnightly sex then go on month and month stretches of no sex and no interest whatever. While in college, they're were having sex 3 times a week. So women lie to men, no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:00 PM
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Why is it that in some circumstances you are advocating. Sex == relationship and love. Then in other circumstances it's: Sex != relationship or love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:52 PM
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Because what I am discussing isn't an open relationship. Open relationships are structured differently and are in majority the women's idea. The structure is, they'd prefer to have sex with their wives, but otherwise will settle with just having sex with someone else, if there is complacency.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:44 PM
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I'm not dodging it. I never made such an agreement. But it would be on condition of monogamy, not celibacy. Given the high percentage of men who do cheat after 30, it would appear that men don't agree to your terms that they should X and perform Y when female complacency causes women to stop wanting sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:29 PM
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As discussed, we aren't exclusive anymore. There's nothing near exclusive about being the nn'th partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:21 PM
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Women don't want marriage and then want marriage because of intrasexual competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:15 PM
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It's a sample of one, meaningless noise really. There's lots of data on how women choose guys for sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:08 PM
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That's because society removes intrasexual competition from relationships, to oppress men. Married men should not be forced to not have sex with other women when their wives are bored with them. It is cruel and inhumane. Particularly given that women are allowed as much sex as they like when "single", without question. Yet it's expected that men to share their sex life information with their wives, to unsexily remind her of her complacency. Q: Are there any secrets to long-lasting relationships?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:58 PM
1

Okay well weird flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:47 PM
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Where did I say that? Menstrual cycle is a hormonal cycle. The definition of a "sexless relationship" is sex 10 times a year - less than once a month. And for a reason. I say there's no such thing as a sexless sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:46 PM
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Hindsight is all wonderful but this is a complicated mess, it's difficult to say he isn't alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:43 PM
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Okay, so that changes per menstrual cycle and has nothing to do with "relationship status".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:42 PM
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MONOG'AMY, noun [supra.] The marriage of one wife only, or the state of such as are restrained to a single wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:35 PM
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Doesn't matter. Why fight the definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:34 PM
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"Having the most sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:18 PM
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Your definition of monogamy is contractual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:17 PM
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You made your choice to sleep with him. He is the alpha. It's practically the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:16 PM
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Exactly. More fun than having sex with your husband. Why aren't guys marrying women with degrees? I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:13 PM
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Women choose which guy they have sex with first in the group, knowing it reduces their chances with the other guys. The guy they choose is what we call the alpha. The other guys are called the Betas. You chose not to have sex first with your husband. I'm assuming you'd also go nuclear if he were to cheat on you, even though sex is meaningless to you. Intrasexual competition explains this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:10 PM
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So. You would have chosen which guy among the group you were going to sleep with, knowing it would have reduced your opportunity with the other guys. So you chose the alpha guy. You did that out of intrasexual competition. And when that gets removed, women lose interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:07 PM
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Well your definition is Tradcon, yet you say you aren't Tradcon, and you don't lie. And that explains a lot. As I wrote, you don't like it when other people lie to you about something significant, but that doesn't mean you don't like liars. But why is sex significant to you? I think it's intrasexual competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:03 PM
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I'm telling you, in college, guys would next women by who they slept with. It's an obviously bad strategy. Men don't want to be cucks. Women keep their sex a secret for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:27 PM
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But Rosemary Basson's studies in responsive desire showed women have more spontaneous desire at the start of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:25 PM
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Monogamy is a decision a woman makes every menstrual cycle. If she's had sex with him, it's monogamous. If she didn't, she's saving that egg for a other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:22 PM
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And what do men do when they find a woman has slept with his friend? They don't hit that. Too awkward. Bad strategy. There are other reasons. The true reason is sexual competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:20 PM
1

Then why do women become complacent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:16 PM
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Doesn't explain the 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:12 PM
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It's not an answer. Yes or no. Do you need a dick to be the complacent one in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:12 PM
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Not really an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:10 PM
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You need a dick to be complacent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:06 PM
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What about it? Female sexual competition is everywhere, don't you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:54 PM
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It's totally not an obligation, I've made that point, but then it's not an obligation that men refrain from sex because of it. It's actually you who think it's an obligation, and that's your concept of relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:53 PM
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Doesn't explain why women lose interest in sex after NRE. Doesn't explain 12 either. Again, if relationship sex were of higher value, you would have stopped at 3. The other 9 happened for a reason. This the conversation women refuse to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:50 PM
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Then why 12? You would have stopped at 3 or so if sex were better in a relationship. Also, studies don't agree with this, studies show women lose interest as a sexual relationship progresses into a relationship status. Men only do this stuff because women want to do it. Men want sex all the time. But for women, sexual competition is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:44 PM
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Do you think the reason why sex isn't as fun in a relationship is because of lack of intrasexual competition? Females have strong drives for intrasexual competition, they believe it's why women evolved hidden estrus, and chromosomal studies show humans are naturally polygynous, with monogamy being a recent invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:36 PM
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I'm noting you are running out of arguments and starting on the ad hominims, and I think that's because this is entering territory which is too confrontational. Women have no real explanation why they're more interested in sex when not in committed relationships and intrasexual competition offers the best explanation. A lot has changed in the last 50 years. Marriage, as you wish it were, doesn't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:18 PM
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Something like 30-40% of women report losing interest in sex in LTRs. That's just the ones who report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:13 PM
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I don't know. I don't think there is a measure for confidence, such measurement is explained as high extroversion and low neroticism. At the end of the day, an important part of female sexuality is competition. Women lose interest in sex without competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:16 AM
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You can't negotiate desire, so what's the point there? People don't have sex in relationships anymore. Marriage doesn't mean that women have to have sex with men anymore. But that doesn't mean he can't have sex with someone else. If she didn't want that, she she would be having sex with him. Women are evolved for intrasexual competition, it's part of a woman's libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:26 AM
1

What happens when you get so fat he stops?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:21 AM
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But if he's not having sex with you, who's he having sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:59 AM
1

You mean disagreeableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:00 AM
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Confident men cheat the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:41 AM
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No, we communicate but you can't negotiate desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:29 AM
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Why wouldnt the woman ask for an open relationship? All of this about female agency. Women have the agency to not want sex, men have the agency to have sex elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:21 AM
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Men do agree on it, up until when women lose interest in having sex with them, because women find having sex with a guy they're in a relationship too difficult, so at that point we have sex outside a relationship, because that's what women do when they're young anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:14 AM
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Why did you want to fuck other people? I note you still do! If the woman isn't fucking the guy because she's bored or his dick isn't as big or whatever, then the guy can get it elsewhere, no questions. This "exclusivity" thing you talk about, it's not a legal entitlement. When women AF/BB they aren't playing by the rules, so men do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:24 AM
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What you're looking for is purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:11 AM
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Prostitutes who do tricks get more sex. Same with guys and ONS. They're basically the same thing. That's why women who do ONS are ordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:09 AM
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This husband idea of yours is very tradcon. I think your problem is your holding onto values from men that don't exist anymore. Women aren't exclusive anymore, if you've had sex with 12 guys, then he's really just part of a team of guys, no exclusivity there. Men aren't truly exclusive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:01 AM
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It's because of the internet and the global inflation of female looks. These guys who work out and stuff like women who encourage them, compliment them, have sex with them and give heaps of validation. Instathots don't do that. You'd be lucky to see an instathot in the same picture frame as another guy. Have a look at your friends on Facebook, one in four women show pictures of themselves with their partners, while just about every guy has pictures of their girlfriends/wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:23 PM
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Takes time. Best time to do it is when the kids gave grown up. But maybe they can sort it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:18 PM
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Don't women say sex isn't the only reason for a relationship? If women are saying this, while having heaps of relationship-less sex while young, then losing interest in sex when in a relationship, the answer is obvious. Cheating isn't a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:22 PM
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Women like men who do tricks in the same way men like prostitutes who do tricks. It takes a lot of work to become an A-class hooker, she needs to learn game and seduction and how to please a man. Similarly, it takes a lot of work for men to fulfil women's ONS expectations, he needs to learn game and seduction and how to please a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:13 PM
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The prostitution industry disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:52 PM
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Just how many virgin's you been slaying lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:52 PM
1

Clearly not status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:50 PM
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Men don't want relationship status. It's now meaningless in society because it doesn't reflect sexual status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:30 PM
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That would mean women should be forced to have sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:21 PM
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The female libido is unfit for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:06 PM
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The standard for Hybristophilia is rising too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:03 PM
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Men want sexual relationships. Women want sex and want relationships. Neither works. Women cheat to leave, men cheat to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:49 PM
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There is no relationship status anymore, only sexual status. FWBs, boyfriends, husbands, they're all the same. When a woman loses interest in having sex with a guy, the guy can have sex with other woman. Because otherwise, women become bored and feel trapped with having to have sex with the same guy. That's why we made marital rape laws. You say you don't like liars, a womans libido is an inherent lie, women seek sex without relationship status when they're young because they know that when the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:41 PM
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It's the same thing with women liking experienced men. Think about it. You won't get any rational rebuttal on this, just shaming, ad hominums, maybe a straw man about human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:22 PM
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It's the same thing. He wants exclusivity but was just accidentally promiscuous. Just like how women want exclusivity but only after accidentally sleeping around and trying out guys. True exclusivity is monogamy, and that doesn't exist anymore and you seem to be grieving over it. It's no big deal these days if guys slip up. And then if women don't love their husbands, then that's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:18 PM
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Sleeping around a lot and getting bored with having sex with the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:31 PM
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Men like prostitutes that can do tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:30 PM
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For the same reason women go through a promiscuous phase when they allegedly want to be exclusive too, yet their interest in sex drops after a while. It's not fair on the guy, it's not equality. Plus there's the lies about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:26 PM
1

Guys who avoid groups of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:46 AM
0

A woman’s past is important for men in the same way that a man’s future is important to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:40 AM
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In my hypothetical, it was an accident. I don't get how women go through a promiscuous phase and say "oops, it was just a phase", then a guy does that for one night and the same woman goes nuclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:03 AM
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But in my hypothetical, he doesn't lie. Additionally, your "tid-for-tad" solution where if he has sex with someone else, requires agreement that you know so you can do the same. It's obviously about control. Anyway, I seriously doubt you haven't lied about sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:10 AM
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Japanese women have moved beyond the "hello kitty" bullshit of the last generation, whereas South Korea is stuck right in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:30 AM
1

Yes. Guys should delay any ratings about looks until a few months into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:18 AM
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Why not just work on the reasons why it happened. You talk about love. A lot of this seems narcissistic, particularly this idea that if he wants to have sex with someone else then so do you. If it really would hurt you, you wouldn't play such silly logic. Which is why I don't see it as a big deal. It's like, you spend your youth sleeping with other guys then explode into narcissistic rage when he accidentally sleeps with a younger version of yourself. That's the true reason, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:42 AM
0

But women these days sleep with loads of guys, what is the big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:24 AM
1

Okay, so he shouldn't tell you? He was just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:52 AM
1

Well you know, it all happened in the moment but now it's all in the past, just another notch in the bed post, no biggie. Sex isn't love. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:47 AM
1

Well, say your husband comes home and says he was at a bar, was feeling horny and cheated on you. Sex isn't love so it's all okay, right? Or do we need to call the DVU.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:40 AM
1

You lie to me though. "Sex isn't love"... Then sex is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:14 AM
1

Do you find yourself lovable when you lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:04 AM
1

Why is that so important. On one hand sex isn't love. On the other hand sex is love. There has be a lie in this, it doesn't add up. Start with being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:56 PM
1

Preach us love will you? You'll reach into the bible no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:49 PM
1

What is your logic? She is with me by choice. You're having a meltdown over cheating not being a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:47 PM
1

OMG woman. You've fucked heaps of guys because "sex isnt love", have a phobia about commitment and you want to say I have a loveless marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:43 PM
1

Huh? She is with me by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:38 PM
1

You need to experience having children to have any valid opinions on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:24 PM
1

That's because you can't handle it. To be honest, I find women don't grow up until they've either had children or hit menopause. My wife is different about men now that she has children. She's more willing to work at the relationship and she's stopped blaming men for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:16 PM
1

It depends on the reasons. If it's because I lost sexual interest in them or didnt experiment with them, yet forbid them from any sexual expression, I would find my own fault in that too. See?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:09 PM
1

Huh? Where's this exclusivity line you were on about before. Isn't it women trap men into "exclusivity"? Women lose interest in sex once exclusive with a guy, not reverse. Yet women want to enjoy sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:02 PM
1

You don't have children. For you leaving is easy. You've never really committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:58 PM
1

Ad hominums huh? Total hypocrisy. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:56 PM
1

You don't have children. Yet you want women to blow up marriages because of your hissy fit over carnal knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:52 PM
1

Stop fucking telling me I'm naive. She had a bunch of troubled relationships where she was sexually enthusiastic at the start than lost her interest in him and started shit testing him until they broke up. That's not commitment. That's not exclusivity. The only solution to "sexually liberated" women becoming bored of men is the realization that it causes men to cheat on them and WOMEN DONT OWN MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:46 PM
1

Yes it is, its proof of sex outside of relationships. It's proof of problems with focusing on sex in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:39 PM
1

It's bona fide proof of exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:34 PM
1

And again...if cheating is no big deal, why is the man incapable of asking for non-exclusivity? We do. We ask for low n-counts and get lied to about it. You are lying about cheating being a big deal, you've slept around yourself, you have carnal knowledge. The reason why you are acting like a child over this is because you want to control men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:27 PM
1

You are having a hard time accepting that cheating isn't a big deal anymore, even though you fucked heaps of guys and had a fair share of dick. You are prepared to blow up a marriage over it. You are telling me to grow up and that I'm not acting like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:10 PM
1

Firstly. That never happens. Secondly, you haven't near been exclusive yourself? How can you ask for exclusivity regarding sex when you hold such carnal knowledge? He's like the 12th guy in your life, it's not exclusive. You are discussing an agreement that's never made. Stop pretending sex with you is exclusive, it's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:04 PM
1

Exclusivity of what? Your sexuality? A womans sexuality is no longer exclusive, that's what second wave feminism was about. In doing so, men don't agree to exclusivity either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:57 PM
1

I don't have serious issues. Society has serious issues. Cheating isn't a big deal anymore. You can't sleep around and tell me cheating is a big deal and not be lying. There's the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:47 PM
1

I'm arguing that women aren't honest about sex. They simply are not. Women are the gender that hides the sex they're having. Why can't men be the same? Why are you surprised that men would do the same. Why do men have to be honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:42 PM
1

Then it's okay for men to lie to women about sex. If they get caught, just say they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:37 PM
1

Let's be honest. Rather than try deal with the reality that women lie, you'd prefer to argue that men deserve the lies because "why are y'all still with women who lie". We didn't want to be with women who lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:33 PM
1

You believe it's okay that women don't discuss these things. You believe its okay that women be promiscuous then expect commitment from men. If we are to be honest about it. Men notice this hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:14 PM
1

I believe you consider not discussing something as equivalent as a lie. Women don't discuss the sexual history and views on sex on the first date, I pointed this out before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:03 PM
1

I asked you questions before, you refuse to answer. Yet you say you don't tolerate liars, isn't it the truth that you don't tolerate other people being liars? But the reality is, talk is cheap, you tolerate liars as much as you tolerate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:59 PM
1

If a guy has protected sex with someone else, how does it effect you? If women have had sex with other men, women say it doesn't effect men. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:11 PM
1

It's not lying, it's none of your business. Unless it is your business, but then that would mean sex is a "preferred way of connecting", for fact that you view it as an important connection that shouldn't be severed at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:55 PM
1

Look, if women were honest about sex, they'd be full disclosure about sex, women would tell guys their n-count, telling them they've had better sex...etc But what are the chances of them finding a relationship? They'd have to practically remain virgin's if they want to be honest. Same goes with men, cheating and everything else. Sex isn't the way you enjoy connecting with someone, let's be honest here, sex is something you use to control someone, for fact that your replies about cheating indicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:51 PM
0

Isn't that domestic violence? Men are simply copying how women justify bad behaviour. I mean women let women behave badly all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:31 PM
1

No. Look, you wrote that you realised after the third time that sex isn't love for men. We're you stupid and desperate? Or just a total hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:27 PM
1

For the same reasons women stay with men who cheat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:19 PM
0

The more sex partners we have, the less of a deal it is if they cheat on us. Cheating just isn't a big deal anymore. Women can't complain and gossip about inexperienced men being bad at sex and yet complain when they find out they've been cheating on them. It's all deserved really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:16 PM
2

For all the same reasons women lie to their husbands about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:12 PM
1

Women clearly do not equate sex with love, so what's the big deal if their husbands take sneaky trips to Vegas with the guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:03 PM
1

I think it's naive of women to think that men won't cheat on them even though he's like the lucky 50th guy she's fucked in her life and sex isn't their "preferred way of connecting" anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:52 PM
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Some people lose their pair bonding abilities by their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:39 PM
1

You might suck at being a prostitute, which pretty much the way we treat each other, definitely the way "strong feminist women" treat men regarding sex these days. It's their problem. Nobody gives a fuck about the orgasm gap, the hypocrisy is too cringe to even argue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:34 PM
1

So everyone cheats really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:32 PM
1

It's pretty common that the low libido partner will admit it was their own negligence that caused the cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:13 AM
1

So my women gossiping about how bad men are at sex is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:10 AM
1

If it's anything it's a social contract, so "coveting" someone else's partner is to be blamed. But cheating isn't really a big deal anymore if the other partner had a colourful past and has since lost interest in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:07 AM
2

Wedding cake has epigenetic properties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:37 AM
1

It means they've had ONS via Tinder and now have "no ONS" on their profile. Otherwise they'd tell you first date to take it slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:23 AM
3

Now I’ve seen many people who say if the guy doesn’t continue treating the woman how he has been he was being manipulative and/toxic Actually, if he doesn't give her space, he could be charged with harassment, depending on the environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:52 AM
1

What? When you're feeling insecure do you throw shit everywhere or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:03 AM
6

All the dating advice in the movie "Swingers" (1996) is dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:46 PM
1

This is looking rather low effort. Here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8680334/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:02 PM
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No, women get their libido back when they see the guy grow some balls and make moves to leave. The point is, women can't explain why they are more interested in sex for some guys and not others, yet it seems to be down to the guys options. We also see this in how guys with two wives have three times as much sex as guys with one wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:53 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6soXf476aV0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:25 AM
1

In marriage these days, sex happens naturally when the husband is ready to move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:21 AM
1

There's some research come up with the possibility that societies with strong patriarchal lineage come up with these ratios - the ruling father has sons whom find wives, who have sons who find more wives, causes this y chromosome bottleneck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:27 AM
1

Whay to do when dealing with someone like this, is write down her conversations with you when alone and email it to them.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 11:04 PM
1

However, there is also the risk for men who open up to women to have it thrown in their face when she is mad at you and/or to hear that she has shared something private with her friends. That's because since the 1970s, we've being fed this lie that lack of relationships and relationship breakdowns are men's fault, and men need to work at relationships and women don't.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:54 AM
1

Some women do objectify men sexually though, they talk about men being good or bad at sex, like they're prostitutes who do tricks for them.
/r/MensRights12/11/22 03:09 AM
13

This relates to what Marriage Councillors call "stonewalling", the Gottman Institute say that men stonewall more than women in relationships: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-stonewalling/ It calls to question if this behaviour derives from internalised misandry caused by toxic feminism. It's of note that this was the issues and areas that Warren Farrell wanted to explore decades ago but what occurred is the Feminist movement turned against him and have tried to silence him. I also…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 09:01 PM
1

No, "mansplaining" is a term for a very real phenomenon that occurs when men who assume women are less capable or intelligent than them That is built on an assumption. A sexist assumption. That is all. People of all genders and colours are capable of doing this. In choosing a specific gender, you may as well choose a specific colour. And people did that, until the civil rights movement. You need to understand that it is misandry - the hatred of men - that is driving the use of terms such as "man…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 07:40 PM
1

It's usually the person doing the name-calling that's the problem, and that's what mansplaining is about - it's just name-calling.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 11:56 AM
2

It really reads to me that Jerry Springer's A-team have taken over that forum.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 07:42 AM
5

I'm banned yet I never posted anything there. I gotta say though, they're looks like loads of shit posts going on there.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 11:58 PM
1

That's just misandry though, that's all it is. Women need to recognize how they hate men. This is the whole problem with the "masplaining" claim women make. It's likely that the woman claiming this is a misandrist. That's all.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 09:45 PM
11

Which sub? I like getting autobanned.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 07:36 PM
1

Mom's are hurting their sons by telling them that relationship problems are men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:33 PM
1

Man, you're mom is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:32 PM
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You need to make a serious consideration about if she is the right woman for you, don't get too comfortable with the relationship progressing if it's not going to be the relationship you want. You can't change her on this.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 05:14 PM
1

The "grievance study" phenomenon is shifting a lot of this research into telling women to stay single, yet there's not a lot of explanation as to why women are take more antidepressants. It's rather ironic that they promote that women should stay single and rotate having sex with different men. It is criminal how women are told it's okay to delay children. So many woman have problems conceiving at an older age.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 04:56 PM
1

Maybe you underestimate him.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 04:45 PM
1

Maybe your husband is just better with people.
/r/MensRights10/11/22 11:54 AM
4

Women go on about how their sexual preferences aren't an issue, but they are an issue in the workplace. It's an issue in the workplace because women respond more to taller men. Same for race. They respond more to certain races. When is the campaign for this?
/r/MensRights10/11/22 12:35 AM
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Exactly. Men who are overweight, are lowly rank males Women who are overweight are misunderstood princesses. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:39 PM
2

I think the thing that my wife likes most about me, is my pay cheque. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:45 AM
3

Best advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:43 AM
3

Don't get married if you never think of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:43 AM
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It's up to men to stop women from falling over and landing on ejaculating penises.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:42 PM
2

* Relationships plural. I.e. It's not the guys fault, it's the mens fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:39 AM
1

He wasn't saying “sweety” “darlin” or “lil miss” in Parliament.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 03:25 AM
3

No need to reply with insults.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 09:19 PM
2

a) tell the mechanic to stop doing that, it's flirting. b) That's not "mansplaining" Here's an example accusation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJyQpRfaGnw
/r/MensRights07/11/22 09:13 PM
16

Ohh the tyrany of being a woman, give us a break.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 10:18 PM
2

That doesn’t mean he's TradCon. Just using a few TradCon ideas is all. He's definitely not TradCon.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 09:28 PM
2

Ha ha! For everyone else... This movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0031359/ And the remake: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0036855/
/r/MensRights06/11/22 09:14 PM
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Men explain things to women how they usually explain things to men, but to women it becomes "mansplaining" and "condescending" Exactly this. This blows my mind that these women can be so sheltered and not see this. E.g., If you are arguing with a mechanic over their services, it can be difficult, but don't indignify him by accusing him of "mansplaining".
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:33 PM
12

The is most definitely misused, it derives from the movie "Gaslight", and it refers to psychological abuse where a perpetrator will try to convince authorities that the victim is losing their mind, as part of fraud.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 11:18 AM
1

Why "incels" though? What's it about that term that they like?
/r/MensRights05/11/22 08:17 PM
1

Apparently women from single families with no father develop sexually earlier, than women who live with her father.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:42 AM
3

At what stage of development do women stop viewing men as human like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:39 AM
3

I've seen it used to ridicule men and promote this notion that the ignorance of men is the cause of relationship and sex problems. There really should be a flip of it, called /r/nothowrelationshipswork
/r/MensRights05/11/22 11:36 AM
2

How are they shitty then?
/r/MensRights05/11/22 09:00 AM
10

You can't read. It's the women who call men "incels" who are disliked, they're the one with sexist views, who are propagating this concept that men should be valued by the last time they had sex. It's a projection by these women, because these women have problems with relationships with men, and rotate sex partners and get high n-counts, but cant keep q relationship together, so they derogatorively describe men as "incels" to feel better about these facts.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 06:18 AM
9

It's disgusting that they name call him and value judge him as an "incel", indicating a sexist and misandrist view that men should be valued by how often they have sex. Such women are disgusting and association with these women should not be promoted.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 05:02 AM
1

Aw c'mon, this is all too stupid to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:40 PM
6

Firstly, in reply to them calling you an incel, simply reply that they are disgusting women and leave.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 09:34 PM
5

Funny: https://twitter.com/UN_Women/status/1587777181081559041
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:29 PM
1

Territories, boundaries and dominance hierarchies are more sophisticated in humans. Humans require more parental investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:42 PM
8

You are absolutely correct that it was the birth control pill which ushered in the sexual revolution. No way was it feminism, in fact feminism feared the liberated heterosexual behaviour of women. In the 1960s, the medical profession didn't want to prescribe birth control to unmarried women. Feminists did lobby to change this, mostly through shaming medical professionals into caving in. Birth control prescriptions for teenagers peaked in the 90s and has since wound back. The medical professions …
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:46 AM
1

No, they don't. Prehistoric societies were polygynous - one man with many wives. Casual sex didn't exist until contraception was invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:28 AM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:40 AM
1

A responsive sexual desire is a difficult thing to fully describe, because it's not always static and when there's a lot of new relationship energy (NRE) a person with a responsive sexual desire can appear to have a spontaneous desire. So Rosemary Basson, the woman who discovered and published responsive desire, reportedly found women have more spontaneous desire during NRE and it fades, however I have not been able to find the source paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:06 AM
1

That's traditionalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:03 AM
2

So Red Pill isn't TradCon? Well yeah, we've been saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:50 PM
-1

Red pill is about owning your own shit and "nice guy syndrome" is blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:56 PM
2

LOL....well I think we can all agree that "settling down and then having access to casual sex" Why? We used to think having pre-marital sex would be disruptive to society. Men "cheat" more than women in the after 30 bracket, they don't want to settle down. Women lose interest in having sex with men who settle down anyway. What's it to women if men have sex with other women? It would solve the current "AF/BB" dynamic that is disrupting society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:03 PM
1

It doesn't link it to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:01 PM
1

Blue pill men have a harder time, because they aren't given the tools to understand why it's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:09 PM
2

Men don't want access to casual sex then settle down. If anything, men want to settle down and then have access to casual sex. But women most definitely do not want that. It's women who want access to casual sex, then settle down, and men follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:44 PM
1

There are studies in 2018 to present still saying the mother contributes more factors to the total in intelligence. Here’s an example of one from 2018: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5800314/ This is the conclusion: Maternal intellectual ability is an important trait linked to VPT and FT children's intellectual and language outcomes. Prematurity increases variation in the heritability of intellectual ability and shifts children from the expected range based on maternal ability. Par…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:40 PM
1

I’m just too lazy to go back on PubMed. Duly noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:33 PM
1

Huh, who's comment is packed with insecurity? Your unprovable hypothesis delivered as fact, or this other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:30 PM
1

All the science suggests that it is the mother's IQ and education level which determines the childrens'. But of course, this is passed over. Debunked: https://www.kqed.org/futureofyou/248879/sorry-moms-your-kids-intelligence-doesnt-come-just-from-you In anycase, male intelligence is under more evolutionary pressure than female intelligence, as during history between 1 in 2, to 1 in 17 men procreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:26 PM
1

I take it you've been watching "fresh and fit".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:20 PM
8

Oooh snarkie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:17 PM
0

Secondly, social skills. There underdeveloped. They don't value socialising and would rather not be bothered at the time Not as bad as girls their age. They're talking to each other while gaming and interacting. While the girls have instagram accounts and followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:15 PM
1

Necrothread, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:31 PM
1

Andrew Tate must be really getting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:47 PM
1

Those women are influencers (other channels, instagram...etc) invited on the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:15 AM
1

No, when they're married, women in that age group have much less sex than married women in their 20s, because women in their 20s are more horner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:12 AM
1

Monthly, if lucky. That's what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:07 PM
1

Left-wing men want a partner who does the sneakie?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:00 PM
2

Lying about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:58 PM
1

Daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:58 PM
2

Why is cheating looked down upon though, because that is at the core of the problem with the AF/BB complex that we see in society. Remove the shame of cheating, and one woman's BB becomes another woman's AF, and so women's libidos will restabilize toward monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:42 PM
1

What do they want from them, do you think? A relationship, sex or money?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:41 PM
1

So it's a "luxury belief" not held in regard for lower socio-economic women. E.g. upper class women will promote being single, lower class women come from single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:38 PM
-1

But most of them end up sex repulsed with their partner after the novelty of new sex wears off because most people are bad at communicating what they like and female pleasure in heterosexual sex is rarely prioritized. It's not their partners fault when women lose interest in sex after the novelty wears off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:35 PM
1

If there's no sex in the relationship, can't they have both?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:32 PM
-1

I don't think women in their 30s and 40s are more hornier than women in their 20s. Lonelier maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:11 PM
2

There's a youtube talkshow about this, it's called Fresh and Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:09 PM
1

i see your schwartz is as big as mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:43 AM
101

That site is total joke, ignore it. It's trying to use the business model in the 90s when girls magazines write trashy sex stories to get readers.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:28 PM
20

More Streisand Effect. This is good: https://menarehuman.com/citations/
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:25 PM
-1

Is it possibly things changed 25 years ago, and she totally lost interest in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:48 AM
1

It comes at 6-30 months into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:55 AM
3

I'm thinking it's a parody-like shitposting site trying to get clicks, there's plenty on the internet, they make good money from advertising. Basically it's a grift.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:32 PM
10

I'm convinced that site is a parody.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:27 PM
4

Is that a parody? It reads like the onion.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:25 PM
1

That's not really a good example at all. And it's not even true, in the medical profession, women work less hours because they want less money and more life balance, yet they marry other people in the same profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:56 PM
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A partner who's trying to stop you cheating is a partner who's hiding knowledge as to why they consider that you will cheat. Your partner finds out that you know about the cheating, and threatens to breakup with you because “you are who you surround yourself with.” And if you think your friends cheating is okay, then you’re probably also more likely to cheat. What do you do? Nothing. If they want to break up with you over that, let them. If they don't break up over it, they'll learn a valuable l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:36 PM
2

But if a partner with a sexual history is more inhibited in that relationship, it pretty much guarantees a dead bedroom relationship - which may suit them fine but not the other parter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:32 PM
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Also, chasing virgins is insecure and pathetic af. Be bold enough to approach a woman who knows she has options. Telling other people what to do and making judgements isn't insecure and pathetic af?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:28 PM
1

If you read misogyny article, it references "violence against women", yet editors of the misandry content have tried to get the "violence against men" article deleted entirely.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 04:10 PM
3

Umm...It does. Low n-count women are a premium for relationships, so harder to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:12 PM
3

I can't disagree, this is my experience. If you're looking for a relationship you're desperate. If you're looking for sex you've got swagger and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:06 PM
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The telling on themselves through projection thing has taken me decades to appreciate, but this is real in my experience. It sounds like a horrible generalisation to make except it's damn common, it happens way too much.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:02 PM
0

Actually, it's more to do with dealing with Cluster B personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:53 AM
1

✞ I need to speak to you about Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:19 AM
1

Personality disorder, like narcissistic disorder, Borderline Personality disorder and histrionic disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:49 AM
1

You probably do agree with things from Christianity more than you appreciate, given it's influence on western society for almost 2000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:34 AM
0

Cluster B =/= Red Pill , though. She was obviously confused on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:31 AM
1

How many PUAs do that do you think? Why is the there a special section in so suave or whatever on getting into clubs? Because that's not how they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:28 AM
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What I found a true eye opener in life, is the number of women who have sex when travelling abroad, doing things without the watchful eye of the patriarchy, yet they ridicule men looking for relationships.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:50 AM
1

Yet when faculties in the 1970s disagreed with feminists, it was the "patriarchy" at fault. I regularly get the argument that historically, scientists were mostly men, and so they biased thinking.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:47 AM
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Further than that, why doesn't any of the articles and pamphlets discuss consent over having children. Lots and lots of stuff about "enthusiastic consent". Nothing on consenting for parental arrangements upon pregnancy. Women take guys home and then kick him out for asking such things.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 11:32 PM
1

Oh Snap Reddit! https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ydz1j5/comment/ituvczp/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:17 PM
1

Proof that people aren't cheating on each other, please? In particular, prove that men aren't cheating on women. Further proof they aren't in "happy relationships", please? Thanks. You're throwing a hissy fit over the reality that men aren't doing what you want. Gaslighting over things like the existence of a "patriarchal cage".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:16 PM
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No. In the 1960s other authorities defined to feminists what a "healthy relationship" is, and feminists rebuked it, described it as "patriarchal" and had a "revolution". There are no healthy relationships anymore. That's gone. You are either holding onto traditionalism or just plain gaslighting and throwing insults. I think you are just throwing a hissy fit over the true state of men today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:00 PM
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How is it not my bussiness if my partner cheats on me? Because promiscuity is not other people's business. STDs can be tested and contraception reduces the risk of children. No woman that is healthy loses her libido magically It depends. If they are promiscuous, they lose interest in sex in LTRs, so the guy should just do the same and be promiscuous too. There's no "sharing our lives" anymore regarding sex, that's dead. Feminists told society that women want complete control over sex, men are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:03 PM
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If it's not about sex, then what's the big deal about infidelity and what has it to do with "sharing your life" then, huh? You can't fall pregnant from him seeing someone else, why is it your business, particularly if you were more interested in sex when younger and you say that's no one's business?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:04 PM
1

That forum went like that about 1-2 years ago.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 04:42 AM
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I have definitely heard and read of women rating men by sexual experience and their confidence at doing something they've done before to plenty other women. I have heard women joke about a guy being sexually inexperienced, and I've even read in the DB forums some women advocate that women should sleep with a sexually experienced man so he unlock her womanhood and then she'll enjoy sex. That been said, I think this is caused by women's own Madonna-Whore complex toward men. Because if you genderfl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:08 PM
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It's a traditionalist saying. You are saying you want all the trappings of a traditionalism without the obligations. "Sharing you life" with a man means you've kept sex to be something you share with him. As in "I'm waiting until I can share my life with a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:59 PM
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That's a laugh, "sharing your life" with a man? Women need to be promiscuous while single because they're going to be "sharing their lives with a man" when they get older. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:43 PM
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I knew you hate men, that's why you are afraid they will cheat on you, because you want to control them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:29 PM
1

Gaslighting isn't generalising. BTW your comments about men not "getting play" is misandry. So while women complain about misogyny they need to watch their own misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:19 PM
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No it's not. Gaslighting is stuff like hiding your sexual past to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:08 PM
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No the woman is challenged. I already explained it. A woman who thinks her husband is not capable of cheating on her is a woman who doesn't think her husband is a man. And that is the key problem these days, women find males disgusting that they aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:58 PM
1

Yet women are neurotic about the possibility of a man finding another woman sexuallly interesting and having sex with her. It's just play, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:50 PM
1

Shocking thing, don't be promiscuous before marriage if you want entitlement that your husband will never cheat on you because of no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:43 PM
1

Shocking thing, people that are in a relationship expect sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:29 PM
1

Neither did men, yet women complain that the patriarchy tries to control and own them. Same thing. You think you are entitled to a guy not cheating on you. That's the entitlement that causes it. This is the "black widow" archetype, any man lured into the womans web to have sex with them must leave quickly or be consumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:06 PM
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But the risk of him cheating or leaving derives directly from you trying to control him. Women need to understand that they don't own men, when they think they do, men break bad. That's a big reason for cheating, an overdominating woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:53 PM
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Yuk yuk. You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:26 PM
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Because if there's no risk of him cheating on you, then he becomes less of a man, and less attractive. Wisdom from Proust: Q: Are there any secrets to long-lasting relationships? A: Infidelity. Not the act itself, but the threat of it. For Proust, an injection of jealousy is the only thing capable of rescuing a relationship ruined by habit...The threat of losing their partner may lead them to realize that they have not appreciated this person adequately...If someone threatens the relationship, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:24 PM
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But our response to "cheating" IS puritanical and impractical. I don't think you appreciate how puritanical and impractical it is! The husband cheats. Get a divorce, ruin the kids lives. Even though the wife fucked plenty of guys and is bored of sex anyway. Bbuut...it's the principal./s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:53 AM
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I didn't come from purity culture, but from a strict religious family and schooling, with Aquinas and everything. But what pisses me of is my wives dichotomy, on one hand the sex therapist had to give her private counselling to tell her to stop f*cking well treating me bad for what other men did. On the other hand she's went to a sex party and other stupid shit. I think it would be better if you'd had more That could be true for reasons you wouldn't expect. As a guy, it's way easier to find wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:26 AM
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Yeah, it's not like sex is special anymore, and we all keep our secrets. Why is it such a big deal? If the woman was low n-count, I'd understand, she's being saving it for marriage, but women these days spare nothing, so it's kinda valueless these days to express fidelity when she's not interested. The way of nature is, a guy will have sex with a woman until she loses interest, then he moves on. If she doesn't want that, she won't lose interest. That's how it works in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:56 AM
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Yeah so he goes and practices his game on other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:54 AM
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Look at books like "The female eunuch". That book was a bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:51 AM
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That's not cheating though. That's like blaming yourself for not looking away at a flasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:23 AM
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Just don’t expect women to conform their lives to your preferences which is something this body count culture does. Why do women get upset and go nuclear when guys break bad from their high n-count / low-libido wives and get it elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:41 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:15 AM
1

As on "fresh and fit", they concluded that anything more than 6 sex partners as extreme, that's generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:58 AM
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It has a direct link to a bunch of things, cluster B personality disorders, insecure attachment style, Madonna-Whore complex...list goes on. Relationship red-flags. If they wanted relationship sex, they'd choose that. But they wanted promiscuous sex. They either want to continue that or stop sex altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:09 AM
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Unlikely how? How unlikely? It's like, if I'm cheating on a woman, could that explain my lack of interest in her? Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:20 PM
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It's a very funny article because its like "...this is disputed by people in ivory towers", complete pomp. Luxury beliefs: https://nypost.com/2019/08/17/luxury-beliefs-are-the-latest-status-symbol-for-rich-americans/
/r/MensRights24/10/22 10:44 PM
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Most women think men are amoral and that justifies what they do because of "feminism". Eg. The men that women sleep with are amoral, therefore it's okay that women be amoral. The men they don't sleep with aren't amoral. Women therefore say their sexual experience is that men are amoral. That was what second wave feminism was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:42 PM
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Because men who had opportunities, ended up taking them So what women do is control men. Make him move in with her. But it's not true all men take all opportunities, it's just that they are taken for granted if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:38 PM
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I used to think sex was for procreation and unification. Anyway, seems like the feminists were wrong about men So, the structure moving forward, if you read Esther Perels books, and the like, is that women contain men into compartments and desexualise them to reduce the possibility of another woman taking him, and in doing so they lose interest in sex too. So the idea that men can't cheat is wrong, they can, it should be there choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:16 PM
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Sure but it's a bit more of a controlling dynamic of a dead bedroom if the woman was previously promiscuous. So guys react to that through rebelling against it through infidelity. Whereas the low libido woman who wasn't promiscuous, it's more easy to accept it's just low libido. It comes back to the idea that men need to do what's right while women do what's right for them. Guys rebel to this like in "breaking bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:32 PM
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Nearly all of the women who I've unfortunately heard gloat about being the cause of a dead bedroom with a husband they claimed to love and wanted to stay married to, were "one and onlys". Women causing dead bedrooms usually are unaware of it, or secretly blame their partners. Often though they pretend in public to be having heaps of sex, there's plenty of posts on /r/deadbedrooms about that. They post in to vent about how hurt they feel. My wife only talked about it when I told her I wanted to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:18 PM
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Do we really think men are cheating on virgin's? The thing is, if she saved up sex and felt it was special, I guess it would be hurtful. But if she's slept with heaps of guys, sex isn't special to her, so it's more okay to do it. Edit: I think it's more likely that virgin women will be hurt and want to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:04 PM
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Of you saw the women some guys are willing to have sex with, you wouldn't consider them sexually successful. Whereas a high class escort is something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:19 PM
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Why is it that men have to do what right yet women get to do what's right for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:14 PM
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I don't think all dead bedrooms are caused by this but about 30% of dead bedrooms are caused by Madonna-Whore complexes, or a similar problem with intimacy, and people who go through promiscuous phases are the culprits, and that lines up with my experience on this. I don't think that women should be forced to have sex but they should accept that promiscuity and infidelity go hand in hand, and husbands cheat on women because of the dead bedroom where they used to be promiscuous. In summary, promi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:57 PM
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But promiscuous people don't know how intimacy works. It's obvious hypocrisy. I don't think it's a big deal when they're cheated upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:50 PM
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That's just linguistic information. To gain some perspective, visit the Wikipedia definition of misogyny: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misogyny Then compare this against the definition of misandry: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misandry The misogyny article has examples, multiple views, and a full exploration and explanation of the definition. The misandry article has a butchered definition, a few sentences and a paragraph minimising misandry in it's entirety. No mention of white feathers, wome…
/r/MensRights24/10/22 10:24 AM
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take it from a guy who practically "grew up" in the Dallas bar scene It's already indicative in such comments you make, too partners and all of a sudden it's an expert on sex. Yet there is a complete lack of explanation when there's a dead bedroom. I've been here. It's because sex becomes meaningless. If there's doubt, there's no doubt, they've been run through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:25 AM
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That doesn’t discount that an issue of pair-bonding occurring isn't because she fucked so many guys at college.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:22 AM
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I see. Sorry to hurt your feelings. I understand it's hard to not get emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:26 AM
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A good Incel. Feminists don't hate the good hard-working incels, it's the loud mouth incels that are the troublemakers and need to be taught a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:11 AM
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So? We can't be their therapists. If it's a red flag, it's a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:09 AM
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Then why are we so thingo about infidelity, when we lie so much about promiscuity?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:19 AM
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If there's issues with pair-bonding is it because the socks were on the floor last Tuesday or was it the high number of guys she fucked when in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:16 AM
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Then tell the truth. We've already figured out you lie about stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:14 AM
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On the balance of probabilities, comparisons do occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:08 AM
1

Honestly, I don't know what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:06 AM
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You don't hide it, you suppress it. That's the Madonna-Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:05 AM
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If sex is just like going to a restaurant, what's the problem with men eating out when there's no food at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:03 AM
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It's a horrible belief to question why someone found it necessary to sleep around so much and is now seeking "exclusivity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:01 AM
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If you truly don't think sex isn't degrading then you wouldn't hide it. Freud points this out when discussing trysts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:58 PM
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Your solution to discrimination is lying. How would the guys you had sex with feel about that. The "whores" in this Madonna-Whore complex, the men. I'm telling ya, behind a third of dead bedrooms, there's a Madonna-Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:47 PM
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Nobody likes being discriminated against. But you are discriminating against yourself by not being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:09 PM
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It's a bit like Woodstock and festival drugs. It started with second wave feminism in the 1970s, and a few did it but there was a lot of noise about it. Then in the 1990s it went mainstream. Then in the 2010s it became pedestrian.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:08 PM
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The country is already broken anyway because of demographic shift. It just means more poor old Russians dying in poverty. The older russians don't seem to get that.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 11:05 PM
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Then wave that coloured flag and tell people you are bisexual and have a history. Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:02 PM
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What's the difference? Plenty of dead bedroom stories, they break up and it comes out that one of the partners was in the closet or hiding something. The other partner blames themselves, it's like the lyrics: Why is the bedroom so cold? You've turned away on your side. Is my timing that flawed? Our respect runs so dry. Yet there's still this appeal that we've kept through our lives. It's all the same mess when we keep secrets to get the best outcomes for ourselves. Your problem is internalised h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:57 PM
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Same for infidelity then. Past promiscuity and past infidelity, it's all the same shit really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:43 PM
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There's nothing exclusive about having a dead bedroom with a partner who slept around alot when single. It's pretty non-exclusive. Who cares about "decency". Decency is gone. We aren't decent about sex anymore. It's not decent to see sex as just fun when younger, have heaps of sex partners, then neglect your partner once married and pretend you were like a virgin who kept sex as something important. People aren't decent anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:29 PM
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No dude is obligated to not have sex with a woman, under the same pretence. Given marriage isn’t an agreement to have sex then it's not an agreement to not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:00 PM
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Then don't make such a promise. Simple. Marriage laws have changed, so that they've got nothing to do with sex. If a woman wants monogamy then don't stop having sex with a guy, as always the case has been for her since her teens. Same situation as an FWB, boyfriend...etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:44 PM
1

What vow? Wedding vows are a vow to God, it's a sacrament. We don't do that anymore. It's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:35 PM
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I think the solution is, when there is a crowd of women who want to throw stones at a man for his adultery, that we then write down in the sand all the past promiscuity of the women and their sexual thought's involved, and ask "who is pure upon this, throw the first stone!".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:27 PM
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Well, I'm saying that this subjective morality regarding sex extends to infidelity too. Sex can have different meanings in different contexts. There cannot exist absolute justification for promiscuity and no justification for infidelity. It's not retroactive jealousy that's the issue here. The issue here is control. Women want their alpha fucks and their beta bux now. They don't give a shit about infidelity, because they don't give a shit about promiscuity. What they do give a shit about, is con…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:09 PM
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Because sex isn't a relationship anymore. Sex isn't love. Women say it all the time. Somehow women expect sex to be meaningless when their single yet it becomes meaningful when someone they neglect goes and has sex with someone else. I'm not buying it. You either believe that sex is meaningful and part of relationships, that it is for procreative and unification purposes from day 1. None of this prodigal son bullshit from women where they want to close Pandora's box once they've done their promi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:56 PM
1

A promise? Where? A promise that you forsake all others, that's a promise that you have abstained from promiscuity. We do not make such promises anymore. If a wife isn't fucking her husband, someone else will. There are plenty of promiscuous women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:48 PM
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That's not what correlation means. It rather sounds like people are being dishonest in their promiscuity and compounding their dishonesty in false shock and horror over infidelity. It's one thing to marry as a virgin and discover your husband cheating. Its totally another thing to have fucked 50 guys and then get upset at your husband cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:32 PM
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Infidelity and promiscuity have a commonality. It's dishonesty. If your partner’s past promiscuity influences your fidelity, reevaluate yourself It's rare that the other partner is told of this promiscuity. They often share same beliefs about sex though, notably the belief that sex isn't really about relationships. Again, no corelation between some women being active home wreckers and cheating. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:23 PM
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Because promiscuity and infidelity are bed fellows. Moreover, one partners promiscuity can influence the others infidelity. Furthermore, I see no judgement upon the reality that women find married men attractive and are active home wreckers when in their "promiscuous phase" of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:56 PM
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Exactly, that's what struck me. They're starting to look very weak.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 01:45 PM
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I don't understand how women rack up n-counts of 50 yet think cheating is a big deal. For all we know he probably cheated because of a dead bedroom. It's probably a case where he should have picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:38 PM
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Interesting. Is there an article on this?
/r/MensRights23/10/22 05:33 AM
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According to Marshall Rosenberg.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 03:03 AM
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If it was "I think you are doing X", then we could logically discuss it. But if it's "I feel you are doing X", then that's just violent communication.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 02:40 AM
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You aren't arguing about how I feel, I am replying to argument that started with about how you feel. Read what you wrote. And I posit that your feelings are influencing your thinking. To gain some perspective, visit the Wikipedia definition of misogyny: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misogyny Then compare this against the definition of misandry: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misandry The misogyny article has examples, multiple views, and a full exploration and explanation. The misandry article ha…
/r/MensRights23/10/22 02:10 AM
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You feel that way, but do you think that way? I think the second paragraph should expand on the definition and provide examples of how it exists, instead it goes into how they think it doesn't exist. Which has been the problem with this term all along. Twenty years ago, the term was not in circulation and the response provided was that there's no such term because it doesn't exist - that only men hate women and not visa versa. There's been progress since then and it appears certain people are un…
/r/MensRights23/10/22 12:39 AM
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It's readily obvious that such paragraphs belong in the Criticisms section, at best. Certainly should not exist as a second paragraph. But it's political, isn't it. It's in the second paragraph for political reasons. And Wikipedia is a political organisation.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 11:28 PM
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During the recent Peirs Morgan interview with Andrew Tate, he said it was misogyny in Andrew Tate's discussion on having a preference for 19 years olds with low n-counts vs 25 year olds with high n-counts. Yet, when discussing men, women argue it's not misandry to hate on marginalised men. Perhaps misandry is more prevalent than what we appreciate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:06 PM
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Same.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:51 PM
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Oh, sorry I thought you weren't being serious. I suppose we could insert such things under the Criticisms section: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Criticism But i guess the concern is, it isn't having the same political effect, because whatever it is, it must be getting worse for them.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:45 PM
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LOL, stop it, my sides hurt. Even Mad Magazine editors don't feel such freedom to insert such hilarious editorial insertions in the introduction.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:36 PM
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she felt an inescapable sense of spite and anger for them The first thing I see here... When men do this, society calls it misogyny. So why isn't this called misandry? Maybe the entire problem here isn't "standards", but a dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:46 PM
0

Doesn't it instead just show that women lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:28 AM
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AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:26 AM
1

You have a pretty crap view of men that is incompatible with ling term relationships. Feminism has rotted your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:35 AM
3

Decorum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:24 AM
1

/r/marriage is one of the forums that bans redditors purely for making posting on this forum. That says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:07 AM
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We discuss it and discuss how it impacts the sex life of the relationship at hand. This is a very recent turn of events, in a "bluepill" world, we were told it's none of our business and women can do whatever they want and/or "it's all mens fault", but red pill awareness has allowed men to discuss what's really going on, and it's impact. I would say about 30% of dead bedrooms, one of the partners sexual past, and their subsequent views on sex, is a significant contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:29 PM
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I think it's true, attractive women attract attention, so women who get attention are more attractive when all other things are held constant. I think women know this too, which is why women bully other women who attract make attention (slut shaming). However I disagree that being flamboyant is the same as being extroverted. And women can draw attention through other ways, like dressing loudly and having expensive handbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:17 PM
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It's female privilege that they aren't judged as being perverts while men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:59 PM
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The n-count thing seems to be hitting mainstream. Seems people are sick of the effects of OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:23 PM
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But actually what happens in those subs, especially /r/deadbedrooms, is women up vote all the hurtful comments toward men. And I don't think these women are in dead bedrooms, but subscribe for the entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:19 PM
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It's a debate sub on that kind of material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:17 PM
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Strange thing to write. I repeat that the response always seems to be that it's either: "None of any mans business", or "It's men's fault" But the thing is, neither of these answers are compatible with a long term relationship. And it's guys that get into long term relationships with women who are the real victims here. They don't have the experience, knowledge or even truth of the matter as to why, for example, there is a dead bedroom in the relationship. I never see a response where the woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:14 PM
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What you mean, there's loads of feminist stuff posted. And Incel's are banned. What more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:21 AM
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You didn't have the phase then, not everyone does, it's only about a third. But they tend to either claim it's nobodies business or blame men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:20 AM
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That's because it's a reddit thing we're only contrarians post and everyone else walks by.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:17 AM
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I think the posts now are more interesting and treading into new territory. Like, seriously, why do women steal men's clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:16 AM
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Once a promiscuous, always a promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:00 AM

Because the cops don't wanna come around in case she steals their shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:58 AM
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Those subs are the modern equivalent to daytime sitcoms for women - they subscribe and up vote in them for the entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:53 AM
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Was she a nun?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:47 AM
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So these three nuns are out for a walk and the first nun says, “You wouldn’t believe what I discovered in the priest’s room?” Intrigued, the others motion her to continue. “A copy of Playboy.” “What did you do with it?” asks the second nun. “I tore it up, of course.” “That’s nothing,” says the second nun. “I found condoms in his room.” “What did you do with them?" asks the first nun. The second nun responds, "I poked holes in all of them." “Oh f*ck,” says the third nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:08 AM
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Shouldn’t sex be solely the issue of the individual? Well, it's the issue of the relationship really. If there is one anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:00 AM
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That's biologically why it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:58 AM
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Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:33 PM
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Cool story bro but there's just too much data that says otherwise. It's called the desire discrepancy and studies show that homosexual make relationships have more sex, lesbian relationships have less, and men want sex more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:33 PM
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That's the problem. While women say "men are only interested in sex and not a relationship", women aren't that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:05 PM
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Who cares what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:03 PM
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Just orgasm after or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:48 PM
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From a guys perspective that's reasonable, IMHO. Guys who take condoms off are crazy and don't know how f*cked over they're going get if you become pregnant. The red pill says "Never take the condom off!". From a red pill perspective, women ask men to take condoms off so to trap him to be a betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:47 PM
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Not as much, it's like 10% - 15%. It's way more common for women to say "I'm not interested in sex anymore" when in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:39 PM
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Because the other 30% are okay with once a month and most women who say shit like "we like sex as much as men" haven't been in an LTR where they've lived with a guy for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:37 PM
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Try /r/lowlibidocommunity Honestly, studies show 30% of women lose interest in sex in LTRs. I think women here are full of it regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:56 PM
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Women don't want to get off as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:01 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:59 PM
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Women have lower sex drives than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:58 PM
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Gottman did some survey and found women were once a week, men were three times a week. But 2 years into a relationship, I think most women are once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:57 PM
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How come so many are like so how high was too high...what was her n-count*.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:57 AM
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🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:22 AM
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I posted papers which showed the opposite and got accused of cherry picking. Have a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:38 AM
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I mean the one from abcnews.go.com and the one from lww.com.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:36 AM
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Frend-zone, is a zone around women where, if you approach and become too close and there's no sex, they find you unattractive. That's what it means. Friend Zone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:04 AM
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We don't have multiple data, multiple studies that support these stupid feminist ideologies. There might be data that the insurance issues relating to cancer cause family hardship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:01 AM
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It is actually what they mean. It's how guys in their group are "friendzoned" when then asking for dates. It's how, if a guy is a friend first, women don't get the alphamale tingles from him and don't find him arousing. But if a guy is mysterious, tall, dark and handsome, women get the tingles and have sex with him before becoming friends. There are studies that support that women find strangers more arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:12 PM
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You wrote this: I don’t know what studies OP is referencing, but it’s pretty well-known in the medical field. It’s so common that women receiving cancer and other bad diagnoses are often offered counseling for it. A feminist oncology nurse isn't representative of the medical industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:09 PM
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"Dating" is mostly an American thing, in other places its called "going out", and it's not as certain. But, if women were honest, they'd say that most men they date aren't sexually attractive, often because the sexually attractive guys they've had sex with, didn't date them. The mere act of asking for a date lowers his sexual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:44 PM
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You don't get it. When guys are discussing friend zoning, it's when they date and delay sex too long and then the girl goes "let's just be friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:42 PM
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Depends how often their wives have sex with them. If it's a dead bedroom. Fantasing about that becomes too depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:38 PM
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Nurses say all kinds of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:35 PM
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It's actually more the case that the more sex partners a woman has, the more she views men as impure, as a generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:38 AM
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You clearly are a man who does not find men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:32 AM
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I think men would prefer if women were more honest about their intentions about sex. Women don't get this, but it's really very very common that women coast along then friendzone a guy or ghost him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:19 AM
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If you can’t get sex without going on traditional dates, then you can’t get sex without a relationship, and you’re a dick for leading people on. This Madonna-Whore thing is bullcrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:03 AM
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If you think it's that. But they're moving into my conversation so the door is open.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:07 AM
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It depends. How many times have you been in a dead bedroom marriage? The thing is, it's not believable that people don't compare their current with their ex. It's as believable as saying people don't compare their current with their AF partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:06 AM
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It's about honesty. These are some of the reasons why people aren't honest about sex. That's not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:08 PM
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That's not really believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:07 PM
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It's pretty common among women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:30 PM
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I suppose because if the face became specific you'd become an alpha widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:29 PM
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If your looking for an echo chamber try twox.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:09 PM
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Sure but the gender difference there is women get to have more sex with guys that are their type, they just don't get to have relationships with them. So it's not such a risk with guys. Additionally, women are sexually hypergamous, and are more interested in the top 5% of guys, whereas men aren't. Finally, women have responsive desire and can go for long periods without sex and not miss it, or notice the lack of intimacy in comparison to previous relationships. My husband is not my "type" nor di…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:51 PM
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Half of women masturbate over a previous guy they had sex with. https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19546800/women-think-about-ex-during-masturbation/ To be honest, what you wrote about women isn't believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:42 PM
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Men actually spend as much time and money on appearances as women, several studies have shown. E.g.https://www.iexpats.com/men-waste-more-money-on-looking-good-than-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:36 PM
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I honestly think that many men wish it was still like this very much. So your biased, and your post is biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:30 PM
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I think you overestimate the academic merits of OP's "studies".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:28 PM
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My husband is not my "type" nor did I ever think I'd be with someone like him, How do you stop missing that time in your life when you were having sex with your type, and thus avoid a sexless marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:21 PM
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I don’t know what studies OP is referencing, but it’s pretty well-known in the medical field. It’s so common that women receiving cancer and other bad diagnoses are often offered counseling for it. Really? How does that happen? The oncologist informs the patient that they usually find their husbands will now divorce them and writes them a referral to a psychologist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:11 PM
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Oh you chewy picked your sauces...wah...wah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:01 PM
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I'm not following. Maybe this is an emotional thing, not a logical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:48 PM
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Like all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:45 PM
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Source? Oh you chwerey pwicked those sauwces....wah...wah... Please, tell me this isn't a total waste of time. Not even the OP gave fucking sauces so fuck off, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:42 PM
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Homophobia in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:28 PM
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The data they used, from the The University of Michigan Health and Retirement Study, only surveys people over the age of 50 That's actually bad, because they didn't control for "grey divorces", which are understood as divorces premeditated over decades, likely before the onset of disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:25 PM
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Why can't you just admit defeat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:55 AM
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He no wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:18 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/xtdeap/comment/iqq7aja/ https://www.reddit.com/r/UnpopularFacts/comments/qnp5qh/the_claim_men_leave_their_sick_spouse_more_is/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:12 AM
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It's because women get the guys money once he dies. In the situation where the illness is debilitating but not fatal, women leave more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:35 AM
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Sometimes we have to go deep inside ourselves to solve our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:36 AM
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If men who look after family are undateable. Don't date them. But don't blame us if you can't find a guy who doesn't want to look after your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:28 AM
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Firstly. Your references to Romans is irrelevant, it was legal for Roman husband to whip his wife for insubordination under roman law, marital rape immunity was present in Canadian law until 1983. Laws have changed. Secondly, this statement is not true: My initial statement appears to be true, according to what evidence I've found. If 2 drunk people have sex, there is no crime. There can be a crime under law. That previous appeal I showed you is indicative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:00 PM
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Just note, I don't find anything in this paper discounting that women are losing interest in motherhood too. As in, I don't find anything that indicates the authors didn't just ignore women and focus on men in their submission. It's likely that women are losing interest in men who are interested in fatherhood, however that would then indicate women aren't "stepping up to the plate" too.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 09:58 PM
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No. That is not my way of saying they don't value women all and that is not my way of just using a different tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:39 PM
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The best answer is: Because it can imply that they aren't already bringing enough to the table. Women are very aware of inter-sexual competition, it is the key reason why they have sex on the third date. So, asking that question makes it appear as if you are bargaining too hard, and kicking tyres but aren't really interested in buying. It is a good question, however the answer should already be obvious. A better question is: what do they expect men to bring to the table. There's two answers for …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:26 PM
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Because men have already made it clear what they value in a woman Have they really? I would say they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:22 PM
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No. She should have told him she'd had sex with his brother. The fact it was an affair isn't relevant, she may have not known that. This is why her honesty about having sex with her brother was required. Honesty is the best solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:05 PM
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If a lower court rules that it was rape, out of public pressure, a higher court will likely review it as a reasonable judgement. Lower courts don't make judgements on case law precisely, it is more about submission of evidence and the story. If the prosecution convinces the court the man or boy used the intoxication to their advantage, a ruling of rape or sexual assault can be found. I don't believe a higher court will overturn a judgement because courts have "a very high threshold for incapacit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:48 PM
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But why do these women complain about the patriarchy and men not allowing female agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:30 PM
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But then these women want men who do not want female agency. So why do they complain about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:34 AM
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There's no words in this post. Surely low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:43 AM
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This case is recent: https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/scc-youth-sexual-assault-1.6017773
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:49 AM
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I don't know about that. By law you would mean in statute, and I doubt it is written in legislation. In regards to mens rea, there are plenty of cases where the courts found mens rea when the man was drunk, and cases where the court ruled the woman as not being capable of consent. If they're both drunk and the woman wakes up and accuses him of rape, he's not in a good position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:56 AM
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https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/scc-youth-sexual-assault-1.6017773
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:12 AM
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Where are you getting that from, that could be very bad legal advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:08 AM
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All men prefer women don't show agency or some men? If it's some men, then why go for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:45 AM
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Sometimes they are the victim but there's a hidden-ness to this that makes it difficult. There was a rape case in Canada, the girl was intoxicated, so ruled as couldn't have consented and didn't require to give evidence, the boy was intoxicated but was required to give evidence and was ruled to have been unreliable in his account yet still ruled as having "mens rea" (guilty mind). In the 1970s onward, there have been "take back the night" marches, claiming that men own the nightime. But then you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:52 AM
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Yes that's the guy! Yeah his wife apparently has, by all appearances, lost all interest in sex with him, and that's a tricky area. By his descriptions she's likely asexual and is in the camp of women who are so non-plussed, they probably don't care about him cheating. On the flipside, women's interest in sex is often circumstantial, and women with responsive desire can usually not think about sex at all, for decades even. And then they get a new partner, have sex and start thinking about sex aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:52 AM
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They usually do TBH, guys who are "players" will disappear from the rest of the guys and will be hitting on the girl alone at the bar. I had a housemate that used to show us how ugly the women were, and joke about it, but say that the women just wanted sex, because they reciprocated to their advancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:28 AM
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It's not that simple. There's who continue in their promiscuity after marriage. But there's a guy in /r/deadbedrooms who cheats like crazy, he's on Apps and having sex with heaps of women, I'm certain he wouldn't have done that if his wife didn't go LL on him. But how many people are going to admit that there partner doesn't want to have sex with them? Most people don't even admit it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:25 AM
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