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We don’t need ‘personalities’. We need advice, techniques and support
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:16 PM
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I think it is disingenuous to expect/ demand people who have only known shit treatment from the other sex with regards to relationships, to not reciprocate that treatment and try to ‘break the cycle’. Often in in times of pain where ‘revenge’ isn’t feasible, treating others the same way you were is the only way to numb the pain
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:39 PM
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Almost, but that’s not the reason. Plenty of women cannot believe Average men cannot get laid because when he expresses interest they think “oh I don’t like him, but another girl probably will”. Problem is, that other girl doesn’t exist because they’re all attracted to the same qualities. So the spark of “that’s a good trait in you, I’m not attracted to it but someone else will be” doesn’t really have any basis in reality. It’s the harsh realisation that what makes someone a good person with loa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:11 PM
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Everyone can find someone in the end. It’s just that for these men it’ll likely be way down the line with a single mother/ divorcee who isn’t really that attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:06 AM
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It’s because women didn’t work out. A big ass back then was just fat. A big ass now probably has some tone and definition to it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:27 PM
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To be a nerdy black guy literally anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:26 PM
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After a certain amount of time, no. And that length of time is different for each person. Though I will say people who have a tendency to pick poor partners will always say being alone is better because they subconsciously don’t know how to pick decent men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:54 PM
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I am TWENTY TWO years old and a Virgin. If you’re really trying to tell me that isn’t going to have any effect on me you’re lying and you know it. Hell, I even feel the psychological effect now. 8 years of putting myself out there. 8 years of people around me being sexually active. 8 years of rejection. Don’t try to tell me 8 years of rejection is ‘fine’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:20 PM
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Absolutely NOTHING can replace teenage romance and mutually inexperienced sex. That’s not to say it never gets better than that, because it often does, BUT young romance provides a unique experience and unique benefits for socialising in the future. People doubting that are just liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:13 PM
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Whatever happened to the idea that you should treat your partner lovingly and gracefully? Life happened. Humanity happens. People realised that the less you act like you like them, the more attracted they are to you. Sorry, you can’t blame people for responding to the world as it is, rather than as we’d like it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:37 PM
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Lmr?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:26 PM
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How can I as a man become more comfortable with conflict?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:27 AM
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Again, you’re right and they know this. They’ve just developed a strategy to achieve that, that doesn’t work. It’s what happens when children fundamentally internalise the idea of karma and that “what goes around, comes around”. When you’re entire worldview is based on that (incorrect, yet ideal) belief, it makes logical sense that you’d be a nice person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:57 PM
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That’s one way to look at it. You could also say it’s cowardice to be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:47 PM
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You’re right but it’s never that easy. Most of these men can’t just stop being nice, it’ll feel fake and forced. Loads of these men also don’t know how to access the middle ground between between being nice: planning a romantic date and being an asshole: calling her a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:29 PM
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This sub taught me to embrace narcissistic traits to be more successful in relationships, because they will actually work. The only problem is not having it feel like an act because it is an act
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:03 PM
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I just honestly can’t believe that women would rather be with a narcissistic abuser, than a ‘nice guy’. Just logically, I would’ve thought you’d rather be with the person who acts like they’re interested in you, than someone who artificially pushes you away and makes you work for scraps of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:01 PM
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Lol. We can’t keep pretending to be surprised at these stories
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:31 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:43 PM
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Why are people attracted to Narcissism?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:23 PM
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Many people who struggle in dating would probably be happier and more successful if they were less self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:09 PM
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So you’re saying the way I act has no bearing at all, and it’s just about the looks differential?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:19 PM
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That’s not true. Definitely not for me. I want a relationship and I keep getting rejected because they usually think “I’m like a brother”. Usually a brother isn’t trying to have casual sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:03 PM
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My confidence in life is intrinsically tied to my career. The closer I get to becoming a talented lawyer, the more confident I become in life generally and the more I’ll be able to attract women. And I will get there, it just there is a lot of qualifications and exams needed before you’re fully qualified in my country. The problem is that when I suddenly become attractive to women once I’m a wealthy lawyer, it’s going to be difficult to move past the fact that I went through years of rejection a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:41 PM
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I assume I’ll reach a point in life when all these worries and insecurities won’t be a problem for me, but that seems so far away and honestly I can’t visualise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:52 PM
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A weird thing is happening as a 22 year old Virgin. The longer I go, the more insecure I get about my Penis size and general ability to please a woman sexually. I mean, I’ve always had the ‘why doesn’t anyone want me’ worry generally, but lately I’ve begun to think more about my deficiency in the sexual aspect. I mean, it’d be my nightmare to finally have someone want to be intimate with me in that way, only to express significant disappointment with my size, or general stroke ability. That woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:48 PM
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Most people will fuck you over, especially when they’ve been denied their entire life. You take someone who’s been locked out the buffet for 20 years and finally let them in, they aren’t just going to take their share. They’re going to be gluttonous. Boastful. Vindictive. Because they’re trying to make up for all the years they weren’t allowed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:29 PM
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Me too, but I don’t understand why you’re in it at all? I’m ugly so I have no choice, game or loneliness. You seem to be able to get women based on your looks alone, why bother putting effort into game?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:13 PM
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Well for men who aren’t good looking it’s learn game or live life alone. You said you are good looking, and have gotten with women without game so what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:47 PM
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The long term effects of forcing yourself to change just to get girls…. That is also something I wonder if it can really be damaging. You may be right, but isn’t it equally as damaging to be yourself and have no one ever express interest with you? I’m genuinely asking, because I think both can really hurt long term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:14 PM
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Sorry but just, no. There so many genuinely great men who aren’t able to put it across in the 5 minutes before they’re dismissed as an option. PUA helps to keep them interested so you can actually convey your real self properly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:42 PM
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How can it be when it’s the place with the most consequences if it goes wrong? Even if the approach is consensual and HR doesn’t need to get involved because one party feels uncomfortable, if the relationship ends it’ll cause countless issues then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:20 AM
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Booked an appointment with a Therapist to discuss my difficulties connecting with people, and my inability to get out of my own head to just enjoy the moment, rather than worrying about not fitting in or being judged. Problem is the wait list is up to 6 weeks long for an in person meeting. Which almost guarantees a public breakdown before I get the chance to talk to a professional about this. I feel there’s just something so fundamentally wrong with me that no one ever wants to be around me. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:06 PM
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Well I’m doing an online “am I on the spectrum” test right now, so we’ll see what that’s says. Regardless, I’m sure most people don’t feel this lonely all the time so maybe therapy is a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:17 PM
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Almost started crying at a house party last night. I find it so difficult to connect with people and feel like I belong. Even when around my friends who I think care about me, I just can’t get out of my own head and enjoy the moment. These feelings of isolation and loneliness just creep back in again and again no matter what I do. I can’t go round this cycle for the next 60 years. Maybe this is the root cause of my 22 year old girlfriend-less virginity. An inability to feel genuinely connected. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:10 PM
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Lol of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:27 PM
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I think everyone is just looking for that person who makes them forget that they weren’t first. When connection between you is so good you don’t care how long it took to get there or what each of you had previously been through. The problems arise when the connection isn’t very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:16 PM
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It’s not about the sex. Its the fact that no one wants to have sex with me. No one wants to be that intimate with me. I’m the only one of all my friends who hasn’t has a girlfriend, or sex, anything with a woman. Can’t help but feel useless and unwanted like so many have said in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:32 AM
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When I get rejected by a girl I have met before and who I like in a more meaningful way, then it is absolutely brutal. It is physically painful and it hurts in ways that go beyond the rational. I have had a few rejections in my life, where I had physical pain in my heart and breathing got harder for several days. Yep. Can’t blame me for giving up & saying I never want to feel that again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:33 PM
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I’ve recently given up, it’s just too painful and I don’t have the emotional endurance anymore. I’ve been a kissless Virgin without a gf for the last 6 years. If I was in the same place in my career for 6 years with 0 progress I’d move on to something else. If I spent 6 years learning to drive and couldn’t do it I’d give up. Dating is no different imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:27 PM
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Reading this thread as a 22 year old Virgin who’s never had a gf is pretty painful. Many of you saying I’ll struggle to develop relationship social skills and I’ll be prone to gold diggers. All true tbh. I would have avoided this if I could, but no woman would have me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:15 AM
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Not really. And I figured just being myself would do that but I guess not. Regardless, I’m not really looking for that anymore, it’s not worth the pain or the inevitable rejection really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:59 PM
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Hard to lead someone one when they don’t want you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:54 PM
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EQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:28 PM
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Follow up on my post from yesterday that said: I’m sorry but I can’t keep falling for women just to have them feel zero attraction towards me. It hurts. every time and honestly, I’m just tired. Tired of red pill. Tired of trying to learn game. Tired of feeling unwanted. At this point I just want to live my life without worrying about love/ kids/ marriage because it’s just never going to work out for me. And that’s fine, I just wish I knew so I didn’t have to go through so much to realise it. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:08 PM
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Looking around at the things that happen to me and the way I’m treated, I must’ve been one despicable bastard in a previous life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:49 PM
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I’m sorry but I can’t keep falling for women just to have them feel zero attraction towards me. It hurts. every time and honestly, I’m just tired. Tired of red pill. Tired of trying to learn game. Tired of feeling unwanted. At this point I just want to live my life without worrying about love/ kids/ marriage because it’s just never going to work out for me. And that’s fine, I just wish I knew so I didn’t have to go through so much to realise it. I don’t even know why I’m posting this here but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:56 PM
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Any modern digitalscale tells it to you. It’s not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:13 AM
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There is ZERO value to being a good moral person when it just leaves you sad and alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:38 PM
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Shhhh. We’re not supposed to say these things…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:33 PM
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Are you being purposefully dense? Their drunk hookup was not their first ever experience of intimacy with the other sex. They had kissed someone before. Probably did oral before. Had some experience of intimacy. Please try to actually read what I’m writing before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:50 PM
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As I said, By the time teenagers are having sex they’ve already slowly built up to these things over the past years. When you’ve already had your first kiss and blowjob, it’s makes jumping into bed much make much more sense as a logical progression
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:28 PM
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I like this quote
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:25 PM
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Exactly! I don’t know how it was for you, but when you’re in early 20’s you have to specifically look for that type of relationship and now a days it’s difficult and rare. The default is hypersexuality and people avoid the slow burn because why bother when someone potentially equally as compatible is a swipe away. This is why late bloomers really struggle in today’s modern age. They’ll have to either face their anxiety head on (which can be insanely difficult) or wait more years potentially unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:24 PM
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It’s to do with wanting to be on the same experience level as your partner so you can learn together. It’s a completely understandable desire imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:02 PM
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Yep. I tried to avoid gendering my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:01 PM
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I mean just being bad at sex basically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:58 PM
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Furthermore, the older you get the more your expected to know and have experience in certain things, so the possibility of doing it wrong during a one night stand could have a really damaging effect on the ego. So, somewhat counterproductively, the older you get the more you subconsciously put off being intimate, and the more you put it off means you go longer without knowing making it worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:45 PM
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I’ve been thinking: those who miss out on teenage romance fundamentally miss out on the slow gradual build up of relationships, both physically and emotionally. Physically, it starts with the longing looks and holding hands, to the kissing, to the over the clothes stuff, to other forms of sex that aren’t PIV, ultimately to fill on sex. Obviously these stages can and do happen in relationships at any age, but experiencing them over a few weeks- years is more manageable. However those who miss out…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:41 PM
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Can you elaborate on number 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:16 AM
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King.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:13 PM
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Degenerate whores
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:12 PM
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Does good work but I can’t watch too many of his videos. Seeing the level of delusion and entitlement of the women on his show led down a very angry path, so I had to stop watching. Useful for delivery of the red pill, but not much use after that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:30 PM
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It took less than 24 hours for the racists to emerge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:14 PM
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THIS ^
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:07 PM
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An example that jumps to mind is smart black men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:59 PM
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THIS 100 TIMES
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:52 PM
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Accurate 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:50 PM
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So what is it your doing that actually makes it better after the first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:18 PM
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Sex Questions from a 22 year old Virgin: How long should actual PIV in-and-out last after foreplay? How does a man get better at Sex without actually being able to do it (I want to mitigate my first time being awful for her as much as I can) Is my tongue actually supposed to go inside, or just around the lips area? Where do I touch her when we’re doing PIV? Assuming Missionary position Thanks for the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:05 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:00 PM
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You can’t make this stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:45 PM
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100% accurate here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:02 PM
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You clearly didn’t read my comment correctly. Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:42 AM
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And right on cue, here comes the strawman. Let me put this plainly for you: It’s not as if there are only ‘bad boys’ or ‘nice guys’. There are normal well adjusted men with integrity and interesting lives who are passed over in favour of the dysfunctional hedonistic man. It’s not that morality does spark attraction, it’s that the absence of morality or decency is what sparks attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:37 AM
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There’s always going to be shitty people in the world. Actively encouraging and rewarding these people is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:59 AM
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How does it not matter??? I’m a black man and there’s not a chance in hell I’d ever have sex with a racist woman. For a woman it’s even worse because you literally get penetrated in a vulnerable position!!?? And so you agree? A nice guy is more offensive to you than a mysoginist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:27 AM
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I would posit that of every man who had a one night stand over the last 12 months, over 70% would have views women would consider to be “mysoginistic”. Tell me how you fail to spot malicious hatred of your gender, but a ‘nice guy’ can be spotted from a mile away? Or is it just that you’re more offended by a ‘nice guy’ than a man who covertly hates women and actively thinks less of you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:01 AM
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My fundamental point is that ‘fun’ and a ‘healthy relationship’ is not mutually exclusive at any age, or anywhere in the world. Some just prefer dysfunction and actively dislike integrity because hedonism and selfishness is actively preferred in today’s society. It’s not as if there are only ‘bad boys’ or ‘nice guys’. There are normal well adjusted men with integrity and interesting lives who are passed over in favour of the dysfunctional hedonistic man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:43 AM
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The way Women hamster around logic to justify fucking Chad and punishing normal men is astounding, and would be impressive if it wasn’t so disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:30 AM
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I Wish this was true. Or at least reflected in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:01 AM
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Wouldn’t be a step father. Would adopt a kid who isn’t old enough to know they were adopted
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:33 PM
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I hate it, but you are 100% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 03:23 PM
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Looks good! But if it ends with him ‘learning the value of positivity and becoming a better Santa’ it’ll be just like the rest of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:54 AM
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No because all good art tries to say something about humanity and deliver a message. That’s what these movies are doing, only their messages are usually more overt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:50 AM
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But all good art tries to say something about humanity and deliver a message. That’s what these movies are doing, only their messages are usually more overt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:49 AM
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So many Christmas films are about optimism and and positivity of the human spirit and experience but honestly they just annoy me because life is nothing like that and people are rarely good or selfless. Those who are just run the risk of being taken advantage of in all honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:41 AM
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I was really annoyed people complained about the S1 timelines. Because they can’t watch a show without also being on their phones they’ve missed the several clues showing it’s a different timeline. Though I did really enjoy S2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:55 AM
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Objectively attractive, at least a solid 9 if we have to use numbers. Though, the ‘model’ look doesn’t appeal to me so she’s not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:53 AM
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Is anything worth this level of emotional pain though? And I don’t think this is something i can take a break from and pop my head above water. The pain is constant & it’s always there in the quieter moments. It’s relentless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:31 PM
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Well thats some comfort at least
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:28 PM
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Here’s the problem: If I ever get a girlfriend, I would have had to trudge through such significant mountains of shit to get there, I can’t imagine myself not being bitter about it. Genuinely. So much internalised pain, so many rejections. So many times I had to ask myself ‘what is SO significantly wrong with me that no one wants to be with me’. All through high school & College I watched my friends of both genders find people for hook ups or relationships, meanwhile I get nothing. It hurts. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:19 PM
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Could you elaborate on how you ‘cracked the code’?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:08 PM
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This just in: Ugly men are not allowed to have confidence. https://twitter.com/simplyjas15/status/1473436399521378306?s=21
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:50 AM
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CMV: There are few things in the world as good as being in love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:23 PM
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Hell yeah. Get me out of this dating hellscape. Wouldn’t marry her straight away bcs id want to save up for her to have the wedding of her dreams, but we could be engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:16 PM
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I’ve read all of them but no, I haven’t done a proper tally
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:13 AM
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Almost 200 original responses, and a few people who answered the post in replies to others. Ultimately the 6 or so who lost it mid 20’s was ‘virtually’ no one as I would consider that more of an outlier that proves the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:17 AM
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RESULTS OF MY VIRGINITY POST: My hypothesis was that: As time has progressed, people are losing their virginity later in life. So I expected that the 40 year olds answering would say they lost it 15-16 and the 20 year old answering would say they lost it 18-21. I assumed there would be very little difference in gender. Results: I found that yes, my hypothesis was mostly correct and that overall, people lost their virginity from 15-20 with the most common answers being 16 and 18. I was surprised …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:47 PM
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What’s your story?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:41 PM
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Why am I crying now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:40 PM
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Because no girl has ever said to her friends ‘yeah he’s cool but he’s just too nice’
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:33 PM
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Comment on the post about women dating ‘gross’ men: I absolutely love the fact that women will seemingly date unkempt, disgusting carriers of disease, but a guy who is ‘too nice’ is where they draw the line
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:45 PM
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I absolutely love the fact that women will seemingly date unkempt, disgusting carriers of disease, but a guy who is ‘too nice’ is where they draw the line
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:46 PM
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“Try to be a decent man, in an indecent world, and you will lose everything”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:22 PM
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Yes. I’m not better than anyone. I’m not trying to be better. The fucked up tactics work, and they make the person using them happy. It’s unfortunate but I realised a long time ago I can either be a good person and be miserable and lonely, or I can meet the bare minimum society requires of me, and be happy and actually experience some affection. What good are my morals if they leave me alone and depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:18 PM
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The insult is the ego required to think that I’d want you now after you rejected me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:47 AM
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Well I play guitar, am into F1 and motorsports, and hit the gym. That’s it outside of work and work related things. I used to be a gamer up until recently when I decided to go out more and become a bit more confident, which I have. My main issue seems to be that I come across very nerdy/ intelligent when I first meet people because of the way I speak, regardless of what I’m actually saying. I think I am actually “cooler” than my initial impression would have people believe, and I’ve been told as…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:25 PM
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Strength and emotional resilience are positive aspects of masculinity. Expressing those traits by beating your wife and children is toxic masculinity. Expressing those traits by being able to protect and listen to your wife and children is positive masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:04 PM
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I’ve looked but I often feel there’s no niche for me as a nerdy/ cool/ chill black guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:02 PM
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Dating sucks for everyone, but it sucks for me specifically more than everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:46 PM
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Where does the nice guy come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:22 AM
1

Yep. I get dances. I get whines. Nothing more really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:27 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:18 PM
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Maybe, but I’m still watching my peers have 4/5/6 years of experience over me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:18 PM
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No, I know. So far it has actually helped. Guess it’s called a social lubricant for a reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:09 PM
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I’m way more outgoing than I was pre Covid. I’m still not on their level, but I would say I’m more reasonable now. As in, I’m more likely to be out doing something on the weekend with other people than alone in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:03 PM
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Passive is a good word to use. And I haven’t asked them directly. Some have tried to set me up with their friends but it hasn’t panned out. I assume if they tried to set me up then I can’t be a completely horrible option?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:01 PM
1

Thank you! I appreciate that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:59 PM
2

Yeah, confidence was big one my friends mentioned (also something advocated by rp) and honestly it helped break me out of ‘if I signal to this girl I like her the world will end’. My increased confidence has helped my success but nothing really substantial has come from it. I’m just writing this because it’s been about 5 months of real effort from me with this renewed confidence but nothing from it and I guess it’s just disheartening
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:54 PM
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All my males friends were sexually active from imo an earlier age than most. I understood this and tried not to compare myself to them because they weren’t the ‘norm’. But years passed and I’m now not only passed the average age, but left college where it’s statistically most likely to happen. As for what they look like, it varies. I pride myself on having Friends of multiple races/ careers ect. I tried to adopt what they did after Covid and it led to increased attention somewhat, but never anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:49 PM
2

Seeing how easy it is for some guys to date, when I’m a 22 year old kissless Virgin who’s never been in a relationship and is out of college, makes me really sad. It doesn’t make sense how I can have loads of friends male and female who like spending time with me, but a relationship is apparently impossible for me to achieve??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:21 PM
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The truth is horrific. But it’s better than the pain of constant rejection, not knowing where I was going wrong at all. It’s better than the confusion of having several female friends, but no one who wanted to date me. It’s the one scenario where ignorance wasn’t bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:43 AM
1

Bad example, and yet you still can’t refute the point… interesting. Reply if you want, but I’m done here thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:04 PM
2

And you don’t forget how to pluck a string on a guitar, or throw a basketball. But there’s a hell of a difference between doing something, and being good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:36 PM
1

There is literally no skill you can take two years away from and be as good as the day you stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:40 PM
1

Those don’t exist in my age group/ country. The closest ones to it are those girls who will do everything other than Penis in Vagina, and often at a far higher rate than girls who have a more common relationship with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:23 PM
1

Well my excuse is that it’s been a while due to Covid. Besides this’ll at least increase my chance getting into the bedroom and getting in there is the only way my skills will actually improve
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:14 PM
6

Yes. Making up a one night stand requires so much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:40 PM
2

Well at my age it helps that there’s no evidence of women on my socials because everyone keeps that stuff secret anyway. There’s a trend of posting pictures of yourself in fancy restaurants/ hotels but giving not hint about who’s with you, because the assumption is you’re there with a partner but want to keep it secret. I’ve been doing that too even though I am just genuinely with my friends so that girls think I’m with a girl. But yeah you’re right, dropping hints that I am more successful than…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:53 PM
2

But the lies I come up with are pretty low tbh. As in, I’m 22 with an n count of three. One of those being a one night stand and two being very short relationships. That’s very low for my age out of college (at least my social circle) so I was surprised at the noticeable effect it had
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:47 PM
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Ever since I started lying about my romantic success (making up dates/ ex girlfriends/ one night stands that never happened) I’ve seen such an increase in female attention compared to when I was honest that I’d never had a girlfriend before. Women wanting what other women want is a real phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:36 PM
1

No. Don’t make this political. It’s not about left or right wing at all. I’m red pilled and left wing so let’s not pretend this has anything to do with politics at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:48 PM
6

That’s exactly why people are guarded. Because when someone rejects your ‘top layer’ it’s easier to move on. But when you open yourself up to someone and they reject that, it’s cuts much deeper. Then when it’s constant and repetitive of course it’s going to hurt. People who’re 25 and experienced nothing but rejection from romantic interests??? Can’t blame them at all for being guarded and hesitant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:20 AM
15

Self conscious about inexperience after certain age, unsure how to handle the “pressure” of being one on one, and being guarded to prevent any rejection from hurting too deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:47 AM
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Which is exactly why it all goes back to high school. When looks we’re all that mattered those guys were picked first regardless of their personality. They were the earliest ones to experience what you’ve written above
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:36 PM
9

I swear to god the fear of me being 30 and only having romantic success because the guys they really want are already taken/ because I have money now, actually keeps me up at night
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:00 PM
5

It’s funny how when I had no potential interests, I wanted to be mean, break hearts and just be the stereotypical fuckboy. However, the second I met someone I saw a future with all that pain just disappeared. I mean she rejected me so it’s back now, but that was a nice couple weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:57 PM
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Convinced relationships and romance just isn’t for me in this life. It’s sad I guess, but I’ll get over it eventually. I do wish it had worked out for me, but the universe just says it isn’t so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:52 PM
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Funny how when Women complain about a lack of romantic success and companionship they’re met with sympathy and understanding (as they should). But when it’s a man, there’s an instant assumption they’re doing something gravely wrong and are viciously attacked and blamed for their failure. https://twitter.com/___incandescent/status/1455643967299665929?s=21
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:45 PM
1

Constant complaining, looking for things to complain about, and complaining when things aren’t to your exact standards. The intensity of the complaining is often excessive for the severity of the issue Can also include constantly asking you to do something and an inability to take a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:56 PM
2

Honestly facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:12 AM
6

Loool all these lies. Women will think less of a 20+ Virgin because causes the thought process “why hasn’t anyone else wanted him” even if she does want him. If you’re an 20+ Virgin and you don’t lie about it you’re shooting yourself in the foot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:08 AM
1

Well the issue then becomes when do you say ‘no’ and who decides that? Should elected officials decide that? The majority of citizens/ workers? A moral icon? A religious figure? Should victims have more say than perpetrators? Is being emotionally invested a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:58 PM
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Ladies and Gentlemen: Female delusion ‘I feel like a lot of people have this idea that abusers are constantly violent and mean or like they just punch people for kicks but the thing is a lot of abusers are really fun… as long as they are getting their way.’ https://twitter.com/luxalptraum/status/1452133135685148677?s=21
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:06 PM
2

Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:41 PM
1

Got the results for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:31 PM
2

Not preachy at all. Much appreciate the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:53 PM
0

Imo I’d expect 3 ish months of searching to find someone. Maybe it doesn’t work out as often happens, but 3 seems reasonable. I’d say that it becomes clear that something is wrong around 8 months single and searching
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:32 AM
1

Give a starving man $500 he’s not waiting to go a fancy restaurant. He’s going to wherever is closest and is likely being tempted in by all the advertisements he sees
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:32 PM
3

Facts. Perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:46 PM
1

Girls usually try to sus it out and I’ve seen them get more interested when I indicate its a higher number, compared to when I’m truthful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:33 PM
4

But experience proves that women will sacrifice everything else for lust
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:08 PM
4

https://twitter.com/daniella_asare/status/1435626659433140224?s=21 I’m sorry but this tweet is hilarious/ pathetic and proves af/bb. Woman finally realised that sexual lust from Chad is worth nothing and is now ‘at an age where something deeper would be nice’. Anyone sane doesn’t need to hit 29 before they come to this realisation. Yet we can be sure that there were probably dozens of men who wanted something deeper that she rejected in favour of the carousel that she’ll now try to get back into…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:35 PM
6

These people are just being disingenuous. You’re 100% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:41 PM
3

I’m sorry but this whole idea that Education is ‘indoctrination’ is literally stupid and smooth brained. When a country wants to avoid teaching accurate comprehensive history because they’re worried people will see the country for what it actually is, sounds like one side is more for indoctrination than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:51 PM
1

If you’re watching more tv than you spend in real life then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:47 PM
1

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:21 PM
7

College is better but contrasingly every year gets worse so... take your pick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:17 PM
2

Predatory? No. Unhealthy? Yes. By virtue of it existing it isn’t predatory. Women can act in a predatory nature once men subscribe to them but it isn’t predatory in itself. If women were promoting their OF’s in places like r/lonely or r/depression then yeah that would be predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:06 PM
2

You’re genuinely trying to tell me you can’t prove that someone hasn’t done something? If I had a camera on me 24/7 since birth it’s still be impossible to say I had never driven a car? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:37 PM
1

What? That is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I can prove anything when it pertains to history and a set of facts. You can prove that something has ‘not happened’. Eg: I can prove that someone who’s had sex is not a Virgin. If you’ve never driven I can prove your not a driver. What an unbelievably smooth brained statement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 05:29 PM
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The amount of times you hear a woman ‘doesn’t have friends but does have a boyfriend’ is astonishing. If a man asking for dating advice said he didn’t have friends he’d be roasted and called an idiot. And yet the amount of women who have no friends, crippling anxiety and poor hygiene who still have relationships is far too common. Meanwhile men are told to self improve to the point of exhaustion before they’re deemed worthy enough to desire any form of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:30 PM
4

100% agree. I hate that the Venn diagram crossover is so large and that these things are just assumed about me when it’s not true. Hell I love women, but internalising rp beliefs resulted in far more success than my Virgin self ever got before it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:22 PM
5

That’s why you default assume slut and wait for contrary evidence, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:11 PM
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I’m redpilled. Women are discriminated against in society and largely in the workplace. Femininism where it pertains to equality is necessary. I’m left wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 03:09 PM
4

I sincerely wish I believed that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:16 PM
4

Pretty sure family exists only to cause pain and stress you out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:13 PM
2

You think so? I believe it’s just taken on a different form. The advent of social media being a huge driving force behind that. Also remember that the inter is causing kids to grow up way faster now and so that’s a whole new form or bullying that can be levied at someone who perhaps hasn’t grown up as fast as the other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:41 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:37 PM
2

‘Tell me interacting with you is pointless without telling me interacting with you is pointless’ This conversation can end here, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:31 PM
4

Yeah... I’m not minimising that at all? Not quite sure why you felt the need to bring that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:22 PM
2

One thing I ‘enjoyed’ seeing growing up was how people around me just became more empathetic and mature. Physical features that would’ve gotten kids ruthlessly bullied a few years earlier are then treated with the basic respect any human should be afforded. Is there a way we can teach kids empathy earlier or is it something they just come to in time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:06 PM
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Many men specifically never get over the pain and isolation they faced during their social development teen years. It’s awful because it can stay with them their entire lives
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:49 PM
1

Nope. I’ve been far more successful since I learnt about it compared to my 0 success rate before it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:48 PM
1

Exactly. “Adept”. I’d argue there’s a plurality of men who aren’t adept and as such DO need to think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:29 PM
1

The woke girls crave mysoginistic men the most in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:42 AM
5

Nope. Perhaps I’ve worded that wrong. Flirting is very much about going with the flow, but you know what you’re doing. Women would say ‘ it just happened’ as if I wasn’t trying to flirt with her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:36 AM
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100% accurate. Someone shared that exact same Nick notes link with me a few months ago and it changed my life. It all goes back to the fact that women don’t really know what the whole dating process is like and what it requires, so their advice is almost useless. In their eyes saying‘it’ll happen when it happens’ makes sense because that what they passively experience. However on the men’s side it’s a lot of work constantly thinking ahead, making plans, conveying how you feel. It’s oddly strateg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:13 AM
1

Giving a shit about anyone other than you and yours is a recipe for a miserable life. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:28 AM
1

Our society has made misleading people a completely legitimate sexual strategy and tbh, the only reliably successful sexual strategy. Congratulations, look at the world you’ve created. I used to try to stand alone and fight against it but that just made me miserable and alone so now I guess I’m just enjoying the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:11 AM
1

Wow imagine leaving a LTR and being able to find another one in a few months of being single. Lol could never be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:08 AM
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No better feeling than being hugged by someone who has chosen you and wants to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:50 PM
1

Even just one of those cons is far greater than all of those ‘pros’ put together
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:02 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:00 PM
4

There’s a growing trend from Twitter known as a ‘face card’. This is where women will post a picture or video of their face and or body and caption it ‘face card’. This is meant to show how women are able to pay for anything with their ‘face card’ as men will buy them anything just for looking like that. Eg “I don’t need to bring my credit card today, I’ve got my face card” Opinions??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:51 PM
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It’s a red flag when I find out my partner has a Reddit account
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:31 PM
1

Lool she self reported
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:18 PM
1

I like this definition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:49 PM
1

It’s criminal and malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:27 PM
21

This is what the culture of encouraging low effort and low investment had led to. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:32 PM
2

At a certain point people experience so much disrespect and are victims of such immoral behaviour by the other sex, that they resolve to just internalise that behaviour as behaviour that ‘works’ with regards to relationships, and on the cycle goes. The worst part is you can’t even blame them because it works. Whoever cares less wins, is a fact of modern dating. The less you care, the more willing you are to do dishonourable things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:45 PM
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https://youtu.be/5n6lDNacfk0 On this therapy discussion show a female streamer talks about being stricken with so much social anxiety she would urinate and defacate in her room to avoid seeing her roommates when she moved into college dorms. How the fuck can a woman be so scared of people she pissed and shat in her room, and yet still have a fucking boyfriend??? If a man did that and asked for dating advice Reddit would say he shouldn’t even be thinking about relationships. This story also illus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:50 PM
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And let’s watch the lies flood in! Oh look, they’ve already started!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:11 PM
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https://youtu.be/BJPW3cMVflA 31 year old Serena no longer wants a bad boy and is now looking for a ‘reformed bad boy’ (her words). She also thought she’d be married to a bad boy at 25 with kids on the way. Her entire relationship history consists of men in gangs. You can’t make this stuff up. Red Pill is the Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 08:19 AM
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I don’t doubt the female friends mean well. Their advice is just ineffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:40 PM
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Porn is fucking awful. Not only does it prey on a mans loneliness, it saps all desire to find a real relationship. I’ve always been more successful talking to women when I’ve been on no fap for a while. It can’t be a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:38 PM
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https://youtu.be/y9bbr_wRjhw A snippet from a first date with Proof that Women punish good men for the sins of Chad. Now that she’s been hurt by men and regrets her willing promiscuity, she now refuses to have sex before Marriage. That act of intimacy that men were given for 10 minutes of investment, she is now asking a man to spend 10 months. He is well within his rights to say No Thank you. Edit: She also says ‘the good guys that I should go for I’m not attracted to. They don’t have that... Sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:23 PM
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If a man wants to be alone forever he should ask women for dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:16 PM
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Then when she can’t get commitment from him, she’ll shack up with a good stable guy and punish him for the sins of Chad; a life he never got to lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:31 PM
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It’s fine. This is the type of behaviour you’ve encouraged and permitted. I guarantee she’d still sleep with him again after that stunt because it gave you the tingles. You know other women want him and so you’re going to have sex with him again to try to lock him down. It’s all terribly predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 06:28 PM
2

‘They want us cucked’ got me dying!!! That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:14 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:04 PM
3

Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:07 AM
9

Yall will do absolutely anything to ensure you’re only sleeping with the top 10% of men except actually check if they are who they present to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:04 AM
1

Idk if you’re being sarcastic or not, but you’re actually right. You lie until you don’t need to lie anymore. Literally lie that you’ve had two exes, until that lie helps you to actually get two exes and then there’s no need to lie anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:32 PM
15

Clearly some very racist undertones to OPs post ‘You shouldn’t take Kevin Samuels seriously because his content is aimed at Black People’
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:26 PM
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Inb4 The highest in this post is two weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:13 PM
0

King shit ^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:06 PM
2

You know downvoting Isn’t allowed here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:20 AM
8

Women: Yeah we’ll fuck the bad boy in a ONS because we like sex too, but the nice guy gets to maybe have sex in 3 months Also women: the orgasm gap exists!! Men we choose to have sex with don’t know how to please us properly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:17 AM
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The important shares factor being: it provides catharsis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:54 PM
8

Yeah nothing will ever be 100% agreed upon. But the general discourse is that those things are correct and generally agreed upon. If I asked 10 random people on the street those questions, more people would agree than disagree. I think the same could be possible with dating privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:09 PM
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Isn’t it? Society has generally excepted that Women were/ are disadvantaged in the work place, Black People are disadvantaged in life generally, Gay people were disadvantaged in work place. Why can’t we accept that Women are prickling the dating space?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:55 PM
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That’s not how I interpreted the post. It suggests more of a broader societal acknowledgment of dating privilege. This would offer catharsis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:44 PM
11

I don’t know that admittance will lead to solving this problem, not directly at least. 5/6/7 steps down the line maybe, but I don’t know that anyone here could tell you what that looks like. Imo it’ll be a multi generational process, combined with looking at how online dating progresses. But again, just because i can’t answer how to ultimately solve the problem doesn’t mean this step shouldn’t be taken
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:41 PM
14

Elaborate on that. Why are those situations different?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:35 PM
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I don’t know. But I do know it’ll have an improvement in mental mind sets and likely a better relationship between the genders because of this honesty. And an increase in empathy is always good. What’s with the focus on what comes after that? I don’t know what will but there’s already more than enough reason to take this next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:34 PM
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Honestly I have no clue. But acknowledging the truth is far better than being lied to and called crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:29 PM
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The statement I just wrote is stupid right? Because there is inherent value in the truth. If someone cheated there is value in them admitting it, even if it doesn’t change the facts. Similarly, there is value in admitting/ acknowledging the dating privileges, even if it doesn’t change the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:28 PM
27

As I said in my other comment: it’s damn better than being gaslit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:28 PM
68

“Admitting I cheated on you won’t change the facts, so why does it matter”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:16 PM
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It’s the first step in making things better. And it’s damn better than having men be called liars and gaslit by pretending these don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:15 PM
4

This thread is fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:45 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:10 AM
13

In addition, Ugly men are held to far higher standards across life generally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:15 PM
10

“They eventually hooked up with someone by 30” Jesus...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:13 PM
9

For a man getting absolutely nothing through being good and reasonable, it certainly is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:34 AM
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This is starting to get funny. You don’t need a fully developed ‘prefrontal Cortex’ to know you should date someone good for you. You don’t need that to know what someone good for you would ‘look like’ (what qualities they should have). Most women spend the majority of their lives up to 25 being faced with deadlines and learning ‘the earlier I start, the better chance I have to be successful’. Yet because of a not fully developed brain, they can’t apply that logic to anything other than school? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:19 AM
9

If it works...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:24 AM
3

Clearly it’s necessary, as once they see a man with a sharp jawline they lose all sense and reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:02 AM
-2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:59 AM
1

You’re straw manning what success should be. No one is saying that men should be sleeping with a new girl every week. What we are saying is that you’d expect maybe mutual interest with maybe 15 girls a year. Say 13 of those lead to meeting up or a formal date. Maybe 8 of those lead to a second date/ sex. 3 of those lead to a few weeks of dating. One of them leads to a longer term relationship. That’s a brief off the cuff expectation or an average mans dating experience in a calendar year. Doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:16 PM
1

Liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:35 PM
3

MAYBE you should have started looking earlier so you’re not looking for someone to buy a used up product
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:57 PM
4

I find it absolutely stunning, how Women are able to instantly tell that the ‘nice guy’ hates women from one conversation with him, and yet Women the same age are able to ignore all the red flags an older man gives them. Absolutely stunning. I’m sure that’s just a coincidence though...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:51 PM
4

No. Sorry. The world is a shitty place with shitty people who reward negativity and toxicity. Why would I ever open up my ‘armour’ and reveal my real self when I know some piece of shit will run by and stab me the second I do. It’s not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:46 AM
12

Pick all the dark triad bad boys you want, just don’t complain that all men are toxic and abusive when in actuality it’s just your bad choices
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:32 AM
12

Chad lives different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:33 AM
0

Okay, and when they die alone I can laugh, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:21 AM
12

Now? I don’t know anymore. & for the record I don’t believe & wouldn’t do anything I said in that comment. But it hurts you know? Being good and decent literally just get me rewards with pain. In relationships when I refuse to play the ‘hard to get/ negging’ game I get rejected and end up alone, and then you look at all the people who that, and do manipulate women, and they’re all happy in relationships with people who love them. Outside relationships it’s like people see my positivity and openn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:20 AM
14

Coming here made me have less respect for women, particularly with regards to dating. Their aversion to logic, their delusions, they lack of sympathy, their selfishness, their privilege. It’s all made me just feel less guilt for when I lie to women that I want a relationship just to fuck them. If I can leave before they orgasm, even better. Being here has taught me that Karma is bullshit. Being nice, good and decent is rubbish and will get you nowhere with women. If it is my destiny to marry som…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:06 AM
-3

But guess what, Men’s cope mechanism doesn’t involve using other people as disposable objects
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:57 AM
1

Because they just want a day where they feel ‘Pretty and Special’. A day where all the attention is on them is a woman’s wet dream.... if only they didn’t have a beta bux standing opposite them who they’re actively repulsed by
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:54 AM
17

Why are you acting this is a red pill, or a purple pill exclusive thing to say. It’s everywhere because everyone knows it. How many different sayings are there for ‘women are complicated’? Dozens because it’s common knowledge that women aren’t straightforward. But sure, pretend like it’s completely outrageous for me to say something that literally everyone else does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:33 AM
32

But we all know what women say they want, and what they actually want are very different things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:22 AM
9

Nope. A more accurate phrase would be ‘Don’t complain that you’re hungry when there’s a perfectly good hot dog with mustard and ketchup on it’ Women: ‘but I want more toppings than that’
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:19 PM
1

Okay now you’re just being disingenuous, or just stupid. I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:08 PM
7

I concur. Many girls say they don’t want this, and then go on to date a man who asks for this and they oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:03 PM
2

Yeah, let’s just pretend that society hadn’t told us the exact opposite of what the red pill teaches us. Or if the red pill is so obvious, why isn’t everyone on it? Sounds like your ‘argument’ is falling apart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:07 AM
1

Most of us didn’t learn it in high school because most people are ‘blue pilled’. Besides, you’re really comparing a 16 year olds ability to introspect with a 25 year old woman’s??? Yeah, ima place more blame on the 25 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:36 AM
1

If it takes you 8-10 years and dozens of men to realise it, then yes. You’ve made your bed, now you get to lay in it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:20 AM
0

Wrong. The scenario you just gave, while not ideal, would be handleable (especially in modern society you don’t need to do it to know sex on the first date is a bad idea). What you’re omitting to understand or admit is that your scenario never happens. It’s usually several men she had sex with immediately all throughout her 20’s while passing good men because she thought the fun would never stop. If it takes you 8-10 years and dozens of partners to realise that was a mistake, sorry but you’ve wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:18 AM
4

Haha. I’m not making assumptions for afar. I’m masking assumptions based on the information they have deemed relevant to include in their posts on the subreddit. If they left out a crucial piece of information, that’s on them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:32 PM
3

By this they mean Women Do Not take steps to avoid the negative situations. You can’t just walk through life with ignorance, assuming everything with cater to you. You can’t just happily skip through the African Sahara, assuming no lions will jump out to attack you. Of course we can wish there were no lions, but there are. And your failure to appreciate that fact and do something about it to protect yourself is what we mean by taking responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:34 PM
17

You’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:02 PM
44

That also leads to learning from your role in the situation so you can take steps to avoid it happening again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:41 PM
1

Perhaps a better word would be open. Men are open with what they like/ want/ don’t want. Women aren’t. That’s not even a debate. It’s popular sentiment amongst people who don’t know anything about pills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:51 PM
1

It’s about one gender being honest about their positive & negative traits, while the other pretends to only be positive angelic beings who can do no wrong and refuse all accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:10 PM
1

Guarantee she’s met a man with all/ most of those points, but she saw him just as a ‘brother’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:15 PM
2

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:51 PM
1

Portia Doubleday may actually be the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen (I know make up and all that, but still). Shout outs to Katheryn Winnick, Vanessa Kirby & Zendaya
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:51 PM
14

You can’t make this stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:51 AM
3

Now they’re being treated a fragment of the same way they treated men 7 years prior, and they can’t stand it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:49 AM
7

I hate this fallacy that nice people are just nice. When he’s done helping you move he goes home and stares at a wall like a bad npc until you call on him again. It’s a false assumption used to justify the female propensity for the ‘bad boy’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:17 AM
1

Fantastic post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:52 AM
16

Expecting good faith debate on a Lilith post is foolish until she gets over whatever man hurt her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:08 PM
3

The funniest comment I’ve read all week. Hamstering at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:43 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:38 PM
68

Aka every man before you I fucked quickly and easily. But you’ll get nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/21 03:50 PM
1

Oh, so now it’s our responsibility? What happened to ‘my body, my choice?’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:12 PM
1

More than lightly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:06 PM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:44 PM
1

I like this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:39 PM
3

There is nothing less attractive to woman than treating them with respect and decency
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:32 PM
2

No but women can’t decide. When they want to justify being sluts, it’s ‘women like sex too’. When they want to justify withholding sex until x amount of dates it’s ‘I’m not going to let you do that to me’ as if sex is something that’s done to them. Women avoid logic & consistency like the plague
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:22 PM
1

Fine with this. If she’s a Virgin then she hasn’t given it up to Chad on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 08:47 PM
3

But women are the choosers in modern society, so their choice would come before the man invests anything. If she wanted you that bad the man wouldn’t need to invest anything, not would he have the chance to invest before she made her choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:06 PM
17

It’s simple really. If you have to pay more than the previous man, she’s respects you less than the previous man. The less you have to invest the more she wants you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:29 PM
6

Today I learned calling out racism is 'woke'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:36 AM
2

The most accurate post on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:33 PM
8

Doesn’t mean you can’t complain. Doesn’t mean you can’t resent that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:57 AM
1

The lie is easy. Especially with the pandemic you say I’ve been in a relationship for about a year but we rarely saw each other during the pandemic. She cheated once places started opening up so we broke up. Makes sense you’d be out of practice. Yes, you keep the lie up until you don’t need to anymore. You lie about having had three previous partners, until the lie actually gets you to have three real previous partners, then you don’t need to lie anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:29 AM
6

I’m pretty addicted and I’d agree. Though I’m not sure if it was a chicken/ egg situation where not getting female attention made me watch more or watching more made not recognise and pursue female attention more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:50 AM
1

She won’t respond to this comment because it’s far easier to live in a bubble where you know everything than face reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:59 PM
7

Exactly. I don’t know if you’ve seen those ‘liberal tears’ mugs? I find them kinda cheesy but it’d be funny to see a ‘Where are all the good men tears’ mug
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 06:02 PM
10

Pathetic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 05:52 PM
2

It’s not just about whether decent men are being laid. It’s about whether decent men are being given the time of day by women at all me not having their time wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:34 PM
7

Yes. 100%. When you have no experience at all, having a bad experience, is better than nothing. Especially with this topic in particular with relationships. You can learn how to talk to women, what you like, where your lines are, what being intimate with a person is like. Even with a relationship that is a net negative experience, it’s still better to have some experience than none. Before anyone says it, it’s not about sex. It’s about learning what a relationship is like and what I am Like in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:35 AM
13

At this point, you fill out the form perfectly, go to the wedding with her & then hook up with a nicer girl at the wedding no problem
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 02:38 PM
0

This exactly. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:30 AM
13

But they are not even getting with men who have made it. That’s the point. If 25 year old women were rejecting 25 year old men for the 35 year old man with a stable successful career, your post would be relevant, but that isn’t what’s happening. 25 year old women are rejecting 25 year old men for other 25 year old men who give them the ‘feels’ and ‘tingles’ despite being clearly bad long term options, often times having more money through illegitimate means. Then when that relationship inevitabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:13 PM
2

It wasn’t marked as CMV when I commented?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 10:30 AM
18

‘Things cannot have deteriorated this badly in 5 years’. You’d be surprised. People who don’t have regular sex (for whatever reason) hear more of the societal discussion on sexual consent than actual practical experience. They see people getting me too’ed and are obviously scared of that happening to them. So they worry perhaps more than they should
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:54 AM
2

Yes. Correct. Furthermore, I would add that when genuinely nice people are consistently told they’re faking it, and being gaslit, they become the ‘nice guys’ or even worse just fuckboys. This is how people create their own villains
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:51 AM
-1

This is the dumbest opinion ever posted on this sub. Including during purge weeks. This is the kind post that makes me advocate for an IQ test to gain access to the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:14 PM
3

You’re so dense you don’t even realise you’re literally proving my point. Thanks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:34 PM
4

Wow that’s so interesting. So they’re able to catch the nice guy warning sign but seem to always fall for the hawt guy manipulation. Wow. Interesting. Sure there’s nothing there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:21 PM
5

Let me spell this out really plainly for you. Women say that they can just tell when a man is bitter and hates women. They say this in response to a man venting online. They mean that his attitude comes across in real life and that’s why the women are rejecting him. They’re saying that very quickly within meeting, the women in his real life can tell that he hates women and so does not get dates. My comment is comparing how women say they immediately tell just by meeting nice guys that they hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:58 PM
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Is she disabled? Bedridden? No? Then why can’t she approach the men she wants? Oh yeah, laziness and a feeling of entitlement to be handed everything in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:51 PM
3

Because in the first scenario the man isn’t openly saying any of that. He’s just venting his dating struggles on a subreddit and gets that response from women in the replies as a reason why he isn’t getting dates. The man doesn’t even believe that, the replies are just making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:48 PM
2

‘I had a threesome in college’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:55 PM
42

Hold on, let me find the worlds smallest violin to play for all the women flooded with dates from men that they don’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:54 AM
1

Thank you for expressing this far better than I could
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:54 AM
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Women: we can just tell when a guy is bitter and hates women Also women: How could you expect me to know my hawt asshole boyfriend was actually an asshole???? It’s funny how Women’s incredible powers of social insight work perfectly with the nice guy who must hate women, but stop working with the hawt guy who gives you tingles. Or maybe... you’re just lying. Maybe you use ‘he hates women’ as a cover for going after what you really want while being to have plausible deniability. Maybe you just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:48 AM
1

But that’s all the advice I ever got. Believed it for far too long. Broke out of it after my third ‘your like a brother to me’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:19 AM
2

It’s just hard to find who/where you should be going instead, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:18 AM
2

How did you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:12 PM
0

Personally id rather be unhappy and single, than happy with a woman who only wanted me when I became physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:24 AM
0

This is obviously. The problem who argue against this are delusional and bad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:22 AM
1

But now a days so many men will never date without that knowledge first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:33 AM
3

My high inhibition has definitely ruined many opportunities for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:27 AM
1

Yeah that seems to make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:27 PM
-1

I will have the last laugh when all the women who rejected me for being a good man and turned me into a fuckboy, start crying ‘where are all the good men’.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:56 AM
5

Straw man. This has nothing to do with stable Finances. The men saying ‘you didn’t look at me back then’ are college age (16-23). It’s not 35 year old men who should have a job being bitter that they were overlooked, it’s 20 year old men who were unexpected to have a job and no one in that Age range did, and yet they’re still being passed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:43 PM
1

Everything is subjective to an extent, but it’s all about introspection ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:57 PM
1

YES
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:41 PM
13

The problem is that number has vastly increased in recent years. Yeah there were always men who weren’t able to get relationships, but the vast increase tells us that something has changed but women seem to be reluctant to this idea when numbers on the male side have almost tripled. The man struggling on 2021 would have done fine in 1991. Sympathy is acknowledging this change but they’re reluctant to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:40 PM
1

I can’t speak for other people, but what I mean is stop the gaslighting. Stop denying. Stop acting like women are perfect angels and men who have dating issues are just awful human beings. You don’t know us. You don’t know our plight, or you do and refuse to admit it. It’s mean. Cruel. Degrading. Dehumanising. I want to think it’s all ‘innocently’ fuelled by the Apex Fallacy, but part me really thinks that’s it’s just maliciousness by most of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:35 PM
2

Did I say that? No. Okay thanks for your irrelevant and incorrect contribution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:22 PM
3

I swear, some Women are straight up ADDICTED to dating and male attention. Its baffling. They’re never single. They’ll stay in toxic relationships. Their inability to just be single is almost incomprehensible. If they ever do end up single, they’re constantly fucking random guys. I don’t understand how some people can’t just be by themselves for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:13 PM
6

I come here for insight on game
/r/seduction27/04/21 02:10 PM
9

Constantly being tricked by men who say they love them. Everyone’s been tricked once or twice both genders, but there seems to be a subset of women who are either incredibly gullible, or just need the plausible deniability of ‘he said he loved me’ before having sex with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:30 AM
1

Aba & Preach are clowns bro idk who takes them seriously but you shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:19 AM
2

Never ask a woman out unless you know the answer will be yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 04:19 AM
1

Women create the ‘nice guys’ they hate so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:11 PM
3

Hit the nail on the head here. Exactly right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:35 PM
12

Just look at any dating subreddit. Whenever the topic comes up it’s filled with people pretending their past doesn’t matter, and calling us insecure or crazy for saying it does matter. We then comes up here because it’s supposed to be ‘neutral ground’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:14 PM
6

No we focus on them because they’re the ones trying to shame and gaslight us into accepting them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:06 PM
22

Lilith alt account?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:42 AM
9

Can relate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:23 AM
2

Lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 01:54 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:41 PM
29

Here’s the thing. You can’t reduce pregnancy down to ‘it’s my body’ for the abortion argument, and then simultaneously force the man to pay for it. It’s hypocritical. Either it’s your body, and your responsibility. Or it’s that two people made a baby and they both have a say in it’s future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 04:14 AM
1

100% correct. I like to use the phrase ‘The Prince has chosen you’.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:06 PM
2

I figured it was, but i suppose that too is determined by my life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:35 AM
9

This is a pretty obvious question. People have very different life experiences depending on who they are, where they live, what they look like ect. Attractive people obviously find Casual Sex easy to get and so have no experience of the other side. Just like someone born into a wealthy family will find getting a job easy to get and so have no experience of applying to jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:28 AM
1

Haha, if you want a response to that superhero sized leap, you’re going to need to elaborate a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:00 AM
3

Who knows? Apparently I’m ‘like a brother’ to every woman. Is it because I’m ugly? Another reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:45 PM
3

‘High sociosexuality’ lmao that’s hilarious. It’s not even a word
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:42 PM
0

Aside from the health, stamina, appearance issues, it’s usually that fat women demand that they be treated like ultra thin supermodels despite physical wearing their unhealthiness. They also demand that people conform and change their behaviour to suit them. In a word, it’s just a sense of entitlement they display Fat women can be beautiful though. I wouldn’t rule out a fat woman but I’m big on cooking myself as a hobby and often people are fat because of too much takeout, so that may just cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:03 PM
3

The worst part is that most of these women have one child, maybe two, from a man (or men) who were well below average and whom they didn’t marry. They gave these deadbeat guys the highest honour a woman can give: being a father, and took below average for it. As far as I’m concerned, the value of that man is now your maximum. You don’t get to to charge $20,000 for the highest honour in your 20’s, and then in your fourties try and charge $100,000 for the same, but older, jaded and with someone el…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/21 01:20 AM
3

You’re correct that the aversion to date women with a history of casual sex comes from a frustration of not being able to experience it, when the woman was able to. Many people would call that insecurity. However, that doesn’t make the frustration wrong. That frustration isn’t necessarily something that should be changed or shamed like many would suggest. I don’t think you’re saying that, but many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:11 AM
0

Yeah this post is pretty accurate. It’s stems from insecurity but that doesn’t mean my insecurity is wrong or illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:40 AM
1

Didn’t you make this exact post with the exact same examples two weeks ago? It’s was disproved then and it will be here too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:48 PM
6

I actually had to stop watching that video with the 28 year old because it was such bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:57 PM
5

He knows it’s unpopular and he’s wrong because he’s done 3 full length livestreams on it (usually only does one per topic) and all his Instagram content has been on that since the first one. If your ideas are that good, they don’t need 10+ hours of justification
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:51 PM
7

I agree with much of what he says, but he’s wrong here. He also suggests that women mid 20’s should marry men 10+ years older than them which I disagree with. Marry a man around your age & build together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:49 PM
1

Google image search Medium Ugly as someone below did. Then come back
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 06:31 PM
1

That how it started. If White women started to use it it’s because they’ve co-opted it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 04:27 PM
1

When I have a ONS I like to run out as soon as possible so it’s clear that the sex meant nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:28 PM
26

I was called medium ugly once, guess who didn’t reply? Also, that term really pisses me off because it’s only ever levied at Black Men who are attractive but have darker skin, making them ‘medium ugly’. I fucking hate it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 02:19 PM
3

But if you’re fit and still unattractive you’re freakish? Got it. Don’t call me dense just because you’re making a stupid argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:59 PM
3

So, you’re either average or freakish? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:50 PM
4

Being physically fit won’t fix a busted nose, far apart eyes, crooked/gapped teeth, height, bad hairline, weak jaw, ect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:34 PM
0

Plus, nearly every woman is in a relationship so that increases the attractiveness boundary you have to pass to be able to talk to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:05 PM
17

Its not about where you go, its about what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:04 PM
6

So much of this could be solved if women just stopped having sex with random men they don’t know or trust who haven’t married them. Then you won’t be a single mother and you’d probably have higher value
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 11:49 AM
2

If that was your experience, then you should be able to accept that my experience was different. That it was what I described, no nice guy syndrome, and no abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 11:46 AM
2

I no longer pedastalise women as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:52 AM
2

I think you may have a point when you get up to the late 20’s early 30’s. But there’s a reason that every woman has a story about a bad boy and every guy has a story of woman he was interested in rejecting him for a bad boy, whether that be for a short fling or longer. In the early 20’s women especially of this generation really spend of their relationship/ sexual energy on the bad boy. Your post is right in that many grow out it, but some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:45 AM
-2

... we’re really entertaining this post? Make privilege doesn’t mean a man life can’t be difficult, it means his gender isn’t one of the things making it harder as it does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:41 AM
1

Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:10 PM
1

Because it isn’t what this sub is for. Look at the description. She doesn’t say ‘where are all the good men’ and the post doesn’t have any of those themes of women rejecting good men and the struggling to get that good man afterwards
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 01:07 AM
7

It’s the fact that they have the audacity to think they can reject us, ride the CC for 10-15 years, and then come back into our lives thinking that we are lucky to be getting her 10 years later with far greater use and emotional damage. Some of them even lie about their past because they feel entitled to one of these men. The ego it requires to live life like this is actually disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:57 PM
1

Nah. A 30 year old deadbeat with 2 kids he’s ignoring isn’t worth more than a 21 year old at the start of a promising career
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:38 AM
1

Facts. What product gains value with use and age? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:45 PM
1

It’s important to understand, his definition of a high value man is someone who makes 6 figures or more and has done for the last 5 years. For him, he talks about a 40 year old man in business, not the 25 year old steadily on their way to that, or the 20 year old athlete/ entertainer making big money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:43 PM
8

Op should change name to LillithofStrawman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:01 AM
2

Yeah, it was a friend who was bagging on an ex who was with a new guy. It didn’t require much I just told him to chill out. He stopped and calmed down. He obviously didn’t mean the things he said, he was just angry. Also worth mentioning she wasn’t there, it was just me, him and another friend, and she came up in conversation Early 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:51 AM
5

Oh, my sweet summer child
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:40 AM
1

Nail, meet head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:25 PM
12

I’m not sure you understand how life or the economy works. The more people who can do a job that pays $150k, the less that job will be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:47 PM
2

Nothing because the Earth will be a barren uninhabitable wasteland in a few hundred generations because no one is taking global warming seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 10:56 PM
1

Looool, This comment killed me. Actually got a real laugh out loud from me hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:56 PM
2

Where would you say non thuggish black men are appreciated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:41 PM
5

Hit the nail on head
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 04:01 PM
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It wasn’t a moment as such, more of a gradual reflection on my past experiences, and how it didn’t line up at all with what people said life, relationships and sex should be like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:43 PM
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Lmao, here we go again 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:19 PM
4

No they’re bad people. Sluts usually look down on people who don’t have sex and then force those same people to not only approve, but actively encourage their lifestyle. They’re often selfish and hedonistic, all traits we define as ‘bad’
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:34 AM
1

Yeah. As a Virgin I’d take anyone who genuinely loves me and shows me affection, even an asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:18 AM
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They’ll try to shame men into committing to the women that turned them down 15 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:23 AM
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Nope, they’re mad that being a nice person doesn’t grant them the opportunity to form the close relationship that everyone craves, that the bad boy gets in spades. Again with the disingenuous straw man, I never mentioned women being a ‘reward’, you did. Don’t put that on me. I’m done with this since you seem to have your mind made up, and resort to using disingenuous arguments to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:45 PM
1

I don’t know about the ‘pills’ but I am using them to make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:39 PM
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No they remark that women choose bad boys despite constantly preaching that being ‘nice’ is a bare minimum and a pre-requisite when clearly it’s not. The focus on the bad boys is because it not only opposes the apparent bare minimum women say they want, but they are often listed after by several women and have the opportunity to get a close relationship with several women. It’s not about women being a ‘reward’ it’s about so many of them listing after the opposite what what they say is the minimu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:28 PM
9

Men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:39 PM
9

One of those things is not like the other. Could you stop conflating disparate things, being disingenuous and using straw man arguments?? Saying that women like bad boys is nowhere near the same thing as saying women are worthless as friends. A man can say women seem to only like bad boys, and still want a relationship with them. Because of all the other aspects of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:37 PM
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So the only reason you’d ever be in a relationship is the sex? Nope, you’re being disingenuous. Again, Asexuals. They don’t really like sex and yet still crave relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:13 PM
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No one says it’s about sex. That’s a straw man and you know it. It’s about not being in a close relationship with someone, by which sex is usually included. A relationship provides a connection far deeper than friendship which is why asexuals still seek relationships. Just look at r/Virgin. The people there aren’t lamenting their lack of sex, they’re sad that no one is close enough to them to warrant sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:58 PM
1

Lol, sure buddy. The best lawyers are paid so much money because they’re not that intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:53 PM
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I know what it is. It’s just unnecessary to use in a context where not everyone will understand it. Especially in this context where a much simpler word would have done the same job. Just reeks of a compulsive need to show off at best, and at worst a chornic inability to use appropriate language for your environment. Hell, I’m in the legal field. You don’t see me using Latin phrases on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:51 PM
5

Did you really just use the word ‘axiomatic’?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:37 PM
1

Yeah, I don’t want a Virgin necessarily but I wouldn’t be opposed to it. The important factor for me is that she’s pretty consistently only had sex with men in serious-ish relationships. That seems reasonable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:35 PM
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No, People certainly do on literally every dating subreddit. And you’re 100% correct on that last point. My reasons don’t have to make any sense at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:16 PM
2

Because of the lie that: ‘I don’t care about looks, I just want a nice guy’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:38 AM
1

Some valid arguments here, I’ll use them when people try to call me insecure for not wanting a woman who’s slept with a dozen men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:34 AM
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Nope, not at all. If you do, you’re probably insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:06 PM
7

What surprised me most was how much disrespect women will let men get away with if they’re into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:45 PM
1

When it aligns with my lived experience, definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:34 AM
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Except all the scientific studies that prove the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 12:27 AM
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Your comment is based on a fundamental misunderstanding of the 80/20 rule at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:57 PM
2

So? That doesn’t negate the lie. “I know I lied about wanting to come to your birthday party, but so does every public official, every company, many of your educators...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:53 PM
2

Anything to put down men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:44 PM
3

Yeah I know, I watch Kevin Samuels on and off. Just strange that OP chose to share this version
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 09:28 PM
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Good video but all the animations and weird sound effects ruined it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 08:22 PM
3

Looks threshold. The further past the looks threshold you are , the less personality you need
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:00 PM
1

They ‘don’t get’ what you’re saying because it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:57 PM
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If we’re talking solely relationships: the end goal is to be married to a kind, beautiful, smart woman who loves me. However to get that I need woman to describe me as something other than ‘like a brother’. So my current goal is to have massive amounts of sex with a variety of women. At this point I’d rather get a harsh sexual rejection than have another ‘I just don’t see you that way’. Once I’ve been able to express myself as a sexual being, then I believe I’ll be best equipped to find my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:55 PM
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Women will seemingly do whatever kind of hamstering and twisting of reality is necessary to get away with their degeneracy and narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:38 AM
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Yep. Just look at r/Virgin. They’re not sad that they haven’t had sex. They’re sad that no one has deemed them worthy enough to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:29 PM
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You’re asking the wrong guy. I’ve had people on this sub and irl say that attraction isn’t a skill and that it ‘just happens’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:31 PM
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Attracting women is a skill that needs to be developed in some men, and shouldn’t feel embarrassed or shamed for needing help in developing the skill, just like playing an instrument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 11:03 PM
2

This is actually disgusting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 10:42 PM
1

Where can you learn these high level manipulation skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:47 PM
2

Being single is fine for me, but there’s a difference between being single for a year, and being single for 20
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:51 AM
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Spoilers it’s not. Women just have strange definitions of who’s ‘ugly’ and think that way more people are ugly than there actually are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 10:13 PM
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The saddest part of this is that it could have all been avoided. I guarantee in College there’s was some nice computer science guy who wanted to treat her well, but instead she opted for the cock carousel.... and now look
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 08:23 AM
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Ask yourself honestly if she would have wanted you two years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:12 AM
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Intelligent, logic based minds are incongruous with the emotional driven factors of life, such as relationships, because emotions are often illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:12 AM
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Short answer is women aren’t attracted to who men are, but what they can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:27 AM
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We’re the only ones who understand it. I know that because so much of red pill idea is shared by the mainstream without the rp terminology. You can’t stop the truth from spreading
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:01 PM
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I lived this rule for 20 years and got nothing but shit on, gaslight, lied to and bullied. Now at 21 I realise why should I follow the rule when no one else does. What are my morals worth if they just cause pain? I may have changed for the worse but that’s what life has done to me. No one stays good on this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:34 PM
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Yup. It’s sad realising this. But through that realisation you can become a much better happier man by seeing through the lies
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 07:24 PM
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25?? Lol, she means 25 years since I had that kid, so she’s at least 41
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 01:49 AM
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That’s not the root of the problem. The problem is people not having fulfilling relationships with the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:49 AM
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Well, like everything in life, it depends. Asking for a hard and fast rule on this is a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:02 AM
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Ohh seems like a miscommunication then. By that I meant literally how to approach a girl and essentially flirt without making a fool of yourself. Eg: when to ask for a number/ how to escalate the conversation/ does she want the conversation to escalate/ did the interaction go well enough to warrant a hug when you leave. I’ll never forget one time my female friend was actually annoyed at me because I didn’t hug her when we left after hanging out outside of school for the first time. I didn’t beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:34 PM
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What? Who’s talking about rape?? I’m talking about flirting, understanding indicators of interest, how to attract women ect. I don’t know where you got rape from anything??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:19 PM
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Exactly. On top of that younger men are now feeling the pressure to be perfect and not make any mistakes. So perhaps 20 years ago all guys could experiment in school with flirting, attraction and how to handle female sexuality, such that when they grew up, they had a reasonable experience level and threshold of what’s appropriate and what’s not. But now, a 15 year old kid can be completely ostracised and face very real consequences for flirting incorrectly in the way the woman didn’t like. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:57 PM
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One of the biggest revelations I’ve made in my life (still going through it) is accepting that I’m a man and that it’s normal for me to be attracted to women. That’s I shouldn’t try to hide it and I shouldn’t be ashamed by it. Now obviously there’s appropriate ways/ places to express this and less appropriate ways but I think getting past this shame is actually attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:24 PM
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The party scene was just a place for degenerates to be degenerates. I’ve been to many parties and liked very few of them. I still get invited to them (pre pandemic) but I don’t go since I don’t feel like fucking random women, doing drugs or paying for overpriced drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:29 AM
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I don’t have a family but I still couldn’t imagine opening up to someone else after what you’ve been through. You’re pretty brave
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:40 AM
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I don’t think this is true given the lifetime of trauma that can result from one instance of physical danger. However, it’s hard to sympathise when women literally choose the traits that make men more likely to be abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 07:58 AM
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This sub making me conclude that relationships on a whole just aren’t worth it. The potential highs aren’t high enough to offset the potential lows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:44 AM
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Sex dolls will obviously be largely criticised and shamed by society and women as a whole. Not because it’ll take men off the market, but because society and women just want ugly men to suffer as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:40 AM
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But for a Virgin who doesn’t know what a real woman feels like??? When there’s nothing to compare it to...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:38 AM
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Is a sex doll going to divorce me? Take my money? Lie to me for years? Leave me in a dead bedroom? Constantly criticise me? Flirt openly? Lie about N-count? Laugh at me behind my back? Verbally abuse me? Gaslight me? Reduce my overall happiness? No, I didn’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:36 AM
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If people weren’t such hedonistic degenerates it’d probably be lower
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:27 PM
2

15?!!!!! Jesus...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 11:26 PM
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They’re the ones who have something to prove, as they’ve felt lesser than their attractive counterparts for getting less male attention. When it does come their way, whether in a relationship or not, they’re less likely to pass it by
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:56 AM
2

I wouldn’t risk doing it on my university campus, you could get kicked out or worse if nasty rumours start to spread
/r/seduction27/01/21 04:53 AM
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I’ve actually become far more red/black pilled since coming here. Seeing the gaslighting and will full obliviousness that women have to the woes of men has made me far less patient and far less willing to believe in their good intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:36 PM
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Women have more valid complaints concerning general life, workplace, culture ect. Sexism is real, it is pervasive in our society, and while things are getting better, we still have a long way to go. Men are struggling more concerning relationships but women don’t see that due to the apex fallacy. They see the top men pumping and dumping and assume all men are doing that, when it’s really just the top 10%. There’s also the divorce courts siding with women overwhelmingly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 06:05 AM
3

Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:56 AM
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I’m Red Pilled (closer to Black pill) but I’m a staunch supporter of feminism. Equal Pay, equal rights and dismantling sexist culture has nothing to do with how I approach romantic relationships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:35 AM
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I think that’s a genuinely interesting opinion. One that I’m inclined to agree with. Out of curiosity what’s the degree & how many words was the paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:50 AM
2

Is the guy she’s talking to attractive or not? That’s your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:55 PM
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It doesn’t, but the version of me that cared about that is locked behind years of pain, isolation, manipulation, gaslighting and rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:29 AM
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Why would a man commit to woman to just have their wallet and life drained. I swear after the bullshit women have put on me I’m never going to commit. I’m going to pump and dump, lead them on, break their hearts and ruin relationships for them. Only then, will they have experienced a fraction of the pain they’ve put me through
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:51 AM
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Man, it must be so nice to be a woman. No critical thinking, just vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:52 PM
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Because ugly men are so invisible to women that they can’t comprehend them being normal decent men. They think that if you’re not successful with women, they must be evil pieces of shit who treat women like trash, don’t shower, and stay inside all day masturbating to Ben Shapiro telling women to stay in the kitchen. They can’t understand that most sexually unsuccessful men are just normal average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:13 PM
2

Women: ‘Being nice is the bare minimum’ Also Women: exclusively fucks men who are not nice to her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:47 PM
2

I come here to see that I’m not alone in my observations about female nature, that I’ve just seen in my daily life. It also makes me not feel so bad for being a kissless Virgin porn addict with many female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:05 AM
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No I don’t. Up to mid 30’s high IQ men were 3x more likely to be a Virgin than their low IQ age mate. This is actually from a study but I can’t remember it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:02 AM
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Well I don’t know. I’m just learning about the whole Patriarchal forces thing so I haven’t given it too much thought yet. Though the video you referenced above mentions that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:50 PM
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I guess I’ll just never have sex then, because I can’t tell if she’s saying yes because she wants to, or because of the patriarchal forces
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:45 PM
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I would not date a girl with loads of guy friends, though I believe that both genders can just be platonic friends. If there she has excessive guy friends I’d be suspicious as to why she doesn’t have female friends and whether her femininity is being properly nurtured
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:27 PM
3

Wow, I assume male dating problems began around the 90’s. Guess not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:00 PM
2

I wanna adopt a kid as a single father so I guess that’s kinda a stepdad but not really
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:01 AM
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I don’t have a problem with what he says, it’s the way he says it, and the hypocrisy he displays. The literal tone of his voice is like they’re bothering him for calling into his show. He constantly says talking over him is ‘disrespectful’ but does it to the women who call in, and seems to ignore the fact that’s it’s an internet show where talking over one another is literally impossible. As a guy watching this I just think it’s useless to Women as you wouldn’t really take advice from someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 02:14 PM
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Kevin Samuels is a rude disrespectful piece of shit. He mostly speaks facts but his Distain for the women who come on his show is so obvious it dominates every piece of ‘advice’ he gives to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:50 AM
1

You’re right. It’s hard but I’m trying to move past it and be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:16 PM
2

Women want their Boyfriends to be an objective piece of shit to everyone except her. The most attractive thing you can do on a first date for a woman is make fun of the waiter, and then trip him up as he’s carrying your plates away
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:04 AM
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Go back in time and undo the years of absuse, neglect, lies, bulling and straight up mean behaviour they’ve directed towards me. You don’t get to inflict pain upon a person, and the cast judgements when they act on that pain, when their reasoning is clouded because you put such rage in their heart Ugly men aren’t your fucking punching bag. They’re not your little puppets to manipulate. Just treat people the way you would want to be treated, it’s not hard, or it shouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:16 AM
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Awesome thanks, I’ve been lifting but I’m looking significantly worse recently due to Lockdowns and all that. I’ll check out that book you linked too!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:29 PM
1

How do I get started? Like literally what is the book/ video I should watch first?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:19 PM
4

Just because it’s purge week doesn’t mean you can just lie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:05 PM
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You see, women think the same way Blue Pilled me used to think. That men/ people in general don’t need to try to get into a relationship. That you just be a decent person with personality, live your life and you’ll naturally come across a girl you click with a end up in a relationship with them. It’s only with time an experience you realise that is nowhere near true for most men, and that women don’t even see normal men. That the 80/20 rule is real and that most men will be ignored until the age…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:08 PM
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Women Unironically believe this because ugly men are literally invisible to them. That above is an accurate picture of a nerd to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:10 PM
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Because the priority is to make sure ugly people suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:59 PM
2

Are we supposed to pretend that this doesn’t happen? That we don’t see this with our own eyes daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:53 PM
0

6’2 isn’t short
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:18 AM
2

It’s nothing to do with the interaction, at least for me, I don’t even talk to models unless it’s to request a custom video. I subscribe to Onlyfans because I have a few favourites porn stars, and they have more/ better videos behind the paywall. Some are worth the money, some aren’t. Some I just do every few months. For me it’s not about the millions of other video out there. I’ve found the 20 or so models I like and I stick with them. So really for me there’s a hundreds or so vids out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:15 AM
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Lying about your past is an excellent way to start a relationship. If something matters to your partner then you should be truthful about it. If you think it doesn’t matter then that’s a separate conversation that should be had, but lying because ‘you think it doesn’t matter’ is selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 08:12 PM
0

And once the switch has been flipped, it can’t be put back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:43 PM
2

This isn’t a surprise that people in pain lash out, and then we respond by calling them incels or offering no support/ sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:34 PM
4

I mean... you’re wrong. I think you know you’re wrong too. But it’s purge week so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:04 PM
1

Anywhere from 3-8 a week. It’s probably on the higher end now due to lockdowns and more people on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:38 PM
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The more you respect them, the less they’ll be interested in you. Responding to texts in a timely manner and being polite is literally the most unattractive thing you could do to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:34 PM
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Don’t forget, it’s also Mysoginistic for men to not want a woman who’s fucked her whole town
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 06:18 PM
3

Lol she says that, but she’ll drop her pants on the first date if you make her pay, treat the waiter with disrespect and just be the opposite of a ‘good man’
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 05:26 PM
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Because women don’t know what they want, or at least can’t verbalise it. So they throw out random inconsistencies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:07 AM
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It’s just selfish and (the word that women love to use to gaslight lonely men) entitled. The idea that no one can judge you on your past actions in absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 05:04 AM
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There’s also the idea that ‘you got to enjoy your youth and sleepy around while you rejected me and I was unhappily single. Now you’ve run out of options and want me to make you happy? No thanks’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:01 PM
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It’s because of all the pain caused from those years you were rejected. You were refused all that time, and now they want to just ignore what they’ve done to you and think they can use you to be happy. It’s almost offensive and disrespectful. On top of that, there’s the belief that they don’t actually love you, and they’re just using you, supported by the fact that in their 20’s when they didn’t need to use anyone, they didn’t want you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:49 PM
3

Probably safer to assume slut as the default, and look for evidence to the contrary, rather than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 10:55 AM
3

Pretty accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:42 AM
9

The rp will never die because you can’t kill ideas. I see people who have no idea what ‘the red pill’ is using the same talking points because all you need is to observe your surroundings to come to that truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:41 AM
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It’s the lies. Women pretend that they’d never hookup with a random guy in the toilet of a club. They’re sweet innocent angels who just want a loving partner. And then you find them getting railed over the urinal. Don’t lie about who you are just own it! Then you won’t trick a guy who cares about n-count getting with you, which would just lead to a messy divorce. Everyone wins if you just be yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:35 AM
3

I’d say you’re right, 20 years ago. If you’re going through college now in 2020 you can definitely not get a relationship and have nothing wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:01 PM
2

They mean your height, salary, bank account, looks and how many women are currently thirsting after you. That’s what ‘personality’ means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 06:14 AM
5

This is an interesting question, but the wrong one to ask. What you should be asking is when will it become socially acceptable to have sex robots and robot wives. Because as long as society shames men who choose that path, the market will remain unequal in women’s favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:18 AM
3

This’ll just get worse as the ‘onlyfans’ generation grows up, hits the wall and expects good men to marry them despite the fact that 3 years ago she was fucking Chad on camera and charging $10 to see it. But now she doesn’t want thirsty dudes. Give me a break.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 05:28 AM
3

“I got kicked off the cock carousel and no one wants me anymore”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 01:22 AM
2

Isn’t that incredibly selfish? You like a guy and he asks you about something that’s important to him, and you’ll just lie? You can’t really care about him if you’ll just lie about something that’s important to him? Why not just explain why you don’t want to say or explain your reasoning. With mutual trust and respect honesty is always best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:37 AM
1

I liked seeing the ok Cupid study on how men rate women Vs how women rate men. Added some credence to the theories the rp usually posits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:33 AM
2

21 for both I’d say it becomes weird. If they were trying and literally couldnt as the question suggests, find anyone to be in a relationship with them. I wouldn’t say there’s something wrong with a person until their 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:02 AM
2

Fuck off this post doesn’t belong here. Not only is it not ppd, but it’s also alienating the people here who like AOC’s politics. Fuck off with this shit
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/20 09:58 PM
2

Still think the Cock Carousel was worth it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/20 04:38 PM
19

I can’t wait for the inevitable day when all the girls who rejected me when I was younger to get pumped and dumped message me again for a second chance, hoping I’ll pick up Chads sloppy seconds. That’ll be good day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/20 09:54 PM
11

This post reeks of privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:52 AM
0

80/20 confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:10 PM
3

T R U T H
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:16 PM
39

Exactly, I’m always going to be open an respectful with everyone I meet. If that means I stay single until 50 then so be it, I’m not changing a fundamental part of myself just for them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 07:30 PM
3

“Don’t try to find commonalities or logical things that connect you” Fuck that. Nothing against your advice OP, but if I have to stop using my brain and being logical to get a girl to like me, I’d rather stay single
/r/seduction04/09/20 11:34 PM
1

Just proves the point that average men are literally invisible to them
/r/PussyPassDenied16/08/20 07:59 PM
5

Well that kinda exists. Many countries have a fast food tax, fizzy drinks tax and a confectionary tax. They’ll still just pay the extra price
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:50 PM
2

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:02 AM
0

Lol, this is only my perspective! I didn’t really want to write a very long comprehensive breakdown of my personality on Reddit so yeah, this is a very simplified version of me. Also ‘finished product’ was definitely the wrong phrase to use. To explain myself better: I’m very much the ‘dad’ of my friend group. As in I’m not a huge partier, usually the designated driver, very caring ect. I’m not the typical 22 year old who is successful with women. So, women would be more attracted to me when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:42 AM
1

I’d love not to! But it’s easier said than done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:57 AM
4

If I don’t have sex/ get a gf by the time I graduate in one year I’m giving up. Because barring some significant change in my personality I’ll be roughly the same person all these women that rejected or didn’t look twice at, but now with an amazing job. Therefore any future female attention could be reliably assumed to be hypergamous and thus inherently untrustworthy. I’ll certainly never date any woman from my past because that’ll just prove that they don’t care about me, they care about what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:52 AM
1

When you add on to that the fact that people don’t let you forget it, it really sucks. Definitely in your young adult years being called a virgin is often used as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:33 AM
1

For me it’s in my top three important things: Education/ Career, Physical Health, Relationships. I see those three as points of a triangle, al equally important and I want them all to be as good as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:02 AM
11

Here’s the thing. Losing weight isn’t hard in theory, but in practise for people who’ve been obese for a long time it is. I can require a big in change in your lifestyle and without some triggering event forcing them to change, many people won’t feel the need to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:22 AM
2

Or someone who has kept abstinent for religious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:23 PM
0

No Woe is me posting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:19 PM
1

No. I did say ‘for example’. It was exaggeration to better illustrate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:02 PM
-2

No, they have a ver scattershot approach. For example a fuckboy success rate would be around 10% because they really are the fake it till you make it guys, and that works on some women. They try so much that every night they try, they’re eventually successful. On the other hand Pick up artists are more educated in what to do, so their success rate would be 70-80%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:48 PM
1

So... why are you confused why they get a bad rep?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:40 PM
0

While that may or may not be true, Pick up artists appear to have cracked the ‘secret’ of picking up girls, and obtaining something that is so unobtainable to other men, and that women try to keep unobtainable. So that naturally brings some negative feelings towards them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:17 PM
1

Because their methods revolve around manipulation to which is inherently a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:07 PM
4

This is probably the best comment on this entire subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:10 PM
1

Because they’re sad, and subconsciously want to see something here that’ll reinforce their views. Otherwise with exposure to the real world they’ll realise how flawed their ideas are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:47 AM
35

The recent leak wasn’t a hack. It was just a few people who paid for access and managed to download dozens of pictures and videos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 11:16 AM
2

I suppose a more realistic definition of unconditional is ‘I will love you regardless of what happens outside our relationship’. So it doesn’t means I’ll love you even if you change as a person, but I’ll love you even in sickness, in financial struggle, in a global pandemic, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:35 PM
7

So being nice means you’re not confident?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 05:17 PM
12

Because of the way they’re treated. Laughed at and ridiculed during younger years. Seen as odd and damaged in their later years. Men not having sex wouldn’t be an issue without the way they’re treated for not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:59 PM
1

Well, I’m new to this sub but from scrolling around it seemed accepted knowledge here that women are more promiscuous pre 30 and have greater control over their sexual lives with a dearth of choice. However around 30 the control of the sexual market place switches where it becomes more women going after men than the other way around. Again, I’m new to all this so maybe I’ve understood it wrong. Yeah Ethical standards I guess, like is that incel behaviour, or is it justifiable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 10:06 AM
1

Obvious LARP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:17 AM
5

You’re exactly right. All college girls care about is riding the carousel, no matter the financial or emotional status of the guy, and ignoring the men who are spending their college years to better themselves. Then around 10 years later they want to return to the guy who spent college improving himself and has a good job now despite ignoring him in college. They want to have it both ways. You don’t get to sleep with 10+ guys, and then hope that some guy will take you back when you can’t ride th…
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 05:35 AM
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