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It's a meme, relax...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:33 AM
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Impossible, all men want is sex remember
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:07 AM
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Girls just wanna have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:59 AM
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She's a woman, what do you expect? They aren't protective of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:29 AM
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They were roommates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:27 AM
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It's pretty much common sense for anyone who has experience or conformists to gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:52 PM
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The lightswitch effect is real, luckily if you ever wanna get rid of a chick all you gotta do is open up and watch them run lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:46 PM
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Fishing pole
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:06 PM
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Remember when this place was about debating The Red Pill ? Pepperidge farm remembers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:19 AM
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It's hard to explain and I fear that simplifying would misrepresent what I mean. Doesn't matter anyways. They aren't my expectations, I know female nature and have accepted it a long time ago. I'm actually much happier knowing so because now I expect absolutely nothing from women. Although, I don't desire a relationship anymore knowing so. I spend time with them occasionally but am no longer craving a satisfaction that won't be met. I just go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:01 PM
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Not in a conniving way, literally the opposite. They could dread game, spin plates, and be a dick to you but they actively choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:57 PM
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Guys will play the blue pill part if they like a girl you know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:14 PM
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My struggle wasn't with pleasing women, it's natural for me. The struggle is that I desire a type of woman that doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:12 PM
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I don't, at least It's not real for Zendaya because she's mine after all. Lol Anyways, just for publicity so Z can get those big box office films. Tom is a networking machine and she can bank off that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:52 PM
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Damn man, sorry you went through that. Rooting for good luck in your future
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:35 AM
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The link it would have is decreasing the threshold of desire in which it is too weak to eclipse the conflicts and consequences sex comes with. The juice literally becomes not worth the squeeze so to speak. I watched a documentary recently about the decrease in sex for Japanese people, and one thing a student said stood out to me "We don't want to be attached to each other." Humans might enjoy the oxytocin and dopamine releases from each other, but it's a vice like any other. And when you have in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:14 AM
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Edited for Maternal Fixing is exactly what controlling a person is, it's the intention of manipulation, even if it's unconscious. Maternal would be radical acceptance for who they are despite their actions, that they're loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:35 PM
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When its not by their own choice they biologically failed because they couldn't extract using their femininity. So it cuts them deep. Their pussy is supposed to be their power, so they feel "used" if it can't maintain the man's commitment for their wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:55 PM
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Absolutely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:45 PM
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Definitely not a Maternal instinct. Women just know they can control men by leveraging pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:42 PM
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Mimicking you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:46 AM
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Weren't you banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:44 AM
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I havent had sex with over 20 but hooked up with 35+
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:43 AM
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Wanna be hipster but bitches call me daddy. Woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:41 AM
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Whoever said women couldn't be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:22 PM
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Fuck him to assert dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:19 PM
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They're all popular for a reason though, out of of my favorite normie ones is Inuyasha, Death Note, and Naruto Shippuden. Guilty pleasures lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:40 AM
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Kinda normie options but they are all pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:29 PM
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Because it doesn't matter how many men they would statistically be accepting of, they just want THE ONE. So it's meaningless and annoying for men to judge them on that when their agenda is to have the best life for themselves, not settling for anyone out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:28 PM
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Objectively speaking in a literal sense, reasonability would be the chances of finding someone equally compatible with the individual. Luckily, relationships aren't about increasing the chances of parity with everyone, it's about finding THE ONE person who is compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:25 PM
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In terms of rating men by immediate looks? 80/20 seems to be accurate, luckily women are not as shallow as immediate looks and plenty of guys get into relationships because at the end of the day, it's about what you do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:18 PM
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Yes, if you don't instantly commit your entire life to someone you have sex with you're a horrible person. It doesn't matter how bad they can be or how you feel or what you're going through, you're a failure as a man if you dont marry any girl you have sex with. Also, reporting this crime to the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:13 PM
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People are way to self centered to care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:10 PM
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You need to look into mindfulness my brother. You absolutely can control that, it just takes discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:05 PM
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There are plenty of guys messaging her, you have to stand out. It's typically when they only want some attention anyways so I wouldn't take it personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:33 AM
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Some people grow up with positive experiences or negative ones in which it affects their outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:10 PM
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If you value commitment, that would turn off anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:42 PM
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Congratulations, although yeah definitely sounds like burnout. Perhaps try to artistically challenge yourself on this one and try to make it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:38 PM
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Most men can sexualize and attach to most women, but certain traits can make a relationship unfeasible. They might genuinely be attracted and like the idea of a relationship, but practicality is important for men to consider a relationship. But their level of compromise is high on these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:36 PM
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Dis hurt muh feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:34 PM
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Completely? Because love ebbs and flows. I wouldn't marry a woman if I didn't plan on spending my life with her. So I'd work on ways to rekindle the flame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:32 PM
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Men get distracted from all their friends when they meet a girl. Nothing to do with your particular value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:30 PM
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im happy you're happy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:46 PM
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Play matchmaker haha. I'm actually pretty good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:08 PM
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sure but i'd prefer to help them out as I do with guys down on their luck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:54 PM
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I feel deeply happy for the traditional girls who do right and end up getting married. Its such a nice thing to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:58 PM
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you can buy a phillips and shape up your own hair in the mornings between cuts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:40 PM
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dont believe me if you want but im still glad i didnt do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:37 PM
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"I dont understand something, therefor it doesn't exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:30 PM
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A few times, mostly because i'm not a sexual deviant and prefer to have sex with an intention of connection. I once turned down a girl for sex and she started breaking things in her house in anger. Her friends and people at the party were begging me to fuck her but I noped out of there. Then she fucked another guy, got pregnant and locked him down for life. I dodged a major bullet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:20 PM
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perhaps they are closeted and want some free dick pics in their dms
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:55 AM
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touch grace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:06 AM
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It is more emotionally intimate if there is passion there. You can have sex without much intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:12 PM
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I dont post here all day but I founded a business thats netting me about 40k after my overhead, have about 20k from various consulting gigs, and I contract for different jobs in IT, QA, and even game testing. When I work its usually only if I want extra money, since I'm low maintenance it typically goes into my investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:08 PM
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Women are more tolerated for any behavior that deviates from whats expected of them, men are only valued for living up to projected potential, any behavior from that is unacceptable by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:58 PM
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i miss my retainer from marketing for a Porsche dealership. Was the highlight of that side of my career
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:08 PM
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Height for one, just as OP experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:31 AM
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This is actually a pretty good quote if a woman said this. I think it describes their mindset towards alot of things regarding guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:05 AM
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3090 hopefully, but I think I'll wait for 4k series to release. Sticking to my 2070 since it's pretty solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:03 AM
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Well for starters, being known as the guy who is going to fuck their friend's gfs whenever it's rocky in the relationship doesn't make people want to stick by you. Secondly, just because the status of a relationship is over, it doesn't mean there aren't feelings there. I've seen couples break up and make up dozens of times. Attachments are to be respected (or not if it doesn't matter to you) The norm is necessary because it's to avoid interrelationship drama corrupting friend groups and destroyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:32 AM
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It would be amoral, neither right or wrong. Depends on who you value more because you're choosing between them both. You could also just not do anything and fuck someone else while remaining friends with everyone. I have seen this trope play out so many times. The reason bros before hoes is important is because there will always be hoes, but friends are hard to come by. Typically relationships with chick's like this one doesn't last long. When you're down on your luck and there is another guy in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:57 AM
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Perhaps I should put it this way. I don't judge any guy that does it. But if it were a friend I'd bust his balls about it often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:12 AM
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Personally I have female friends so I imagine the same, but I don't like people in general including men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:36 AM
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Their threshold for gay chicken is way bigger than the average guy, unless you're in the navy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:32 AM
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If I didn't know about it I wouldn't care, if I knew about it I wouldn't let him live it down and would joke about it constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:30 AM
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Fake and gay /s Wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:38 AM
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When men don't understand something it's always bullshit, women are more open minded despite not understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:19 AM
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First 5 hours: oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck Everything after: lmao get deleted pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:47 AM
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Gymcel is a lifestyle, there is no finishline, only progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:02 PM
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That's what I'm always saying lol. Some of us realize that this age freed men in many more ways than they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 09:02 PM
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...I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:45 PM
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I'm seeing a foreign girl although it's not too serious yet, women are pretty nice to me anywhere I go but she seems a bit more genuine. It could be the cute accent that's throwing me off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:26 PM
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I wonder how old you are OP, and what environment are you in? In my experience, most women are serially dating. They see a guy for a few months, something about him turns them off, they cry for a day and move onwards and upwards. Over time this builds up their N count, not to mention wild spurts where they might see a large amount of guys in a short period of time like a party weekend. Their pickyness to pair bond with their encounters only adds to this effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:14 PM
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Lmao good luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:56 PM
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Like many skeptical takes, his argument against it is a scapegoat of the worst outcome of having a specific radically negative interpretation. Most red pillers fall degrees short of this extreme. Although I do say for people who participate in this discourse ought to take many breaks to recalibrate their emotions and perspective on it, I don't think it's useful beyond that because it only applies to a certain extreme. Nevertheless the intention seems to be just in helping those guys. Fair enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:54 PM
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Well the solution for guys is to date shorter than themselves. But there is a level where you are eclipsed by even the average woman. In an age where women's decisions isn't based on needing a man to survive, aesthetics become prioritized higher. Hence the emphasis. Luckily for men they can compensate in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:46 PM
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I never even thought about height either until I started on reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:43 PM
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Women stay with men that cheat because she still has access to the lifestyle he provides to her, and when he does she doesn't have to put out as much. Women leave when they cheat because they are likely getting something better out of the next guy so they trade up. Men aren't getting more out of being married any which way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:35 PM
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I do imagine it's more organic to be submissive especially sexually to a larger guy. But it should be said that not all larger men are in tune with the dominant side of masculinity, and actually take steps to reduce it. Until they get redpilled enough through experience to see that despite what women say, women are more responsive to that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:29 PM
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How much more what? For a man to be married he has to be providing tremendous value, the fact that she can receive those benefits without having to fuck him as much shows the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:25 PM
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Why do you think they cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:21 PM
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Superior in what ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:21 PM
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Surprisingly the empathy gap only seems to extend for women. Women bad? Well there's a reason we should consider why she did that. Men bad? Just because men bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:22 PM
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The type of women who say this only have sex to offer, they can't comprehend providing anything else to a man's life beyond sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:21 PM
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I'm not a totally sexual person, but I look at relationships with modularity. If we are exclusively having alot of sex we are in a relationship, if we are having sex in spurts I call that a fling, if we are having sex every once in awhile I call that a FWB. I upgrade and downgrade women by how I'm feeling at the time. I never see the point in completely eliminating a relationship because I'm not having enough sex. I'll just get it somewhere else if I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:09 PM
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VR gaming is pretty physically taxing on me and is a fun way to get in exercise. if i put that time towards many other hobbies it would be worse. Anything can be a bad habit if its abused the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:08 AM
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Lacking empathy would lead to alot of socially awkward behavior, but not all social awkardness is indicative of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:04 AM
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There are alot of bad men out there who dont deserve to be fathers. The worst thing about it is they can whine about not seeing there kids but much of the time there is a good reason they arent allowed to influence them. After seeing enough crazy fathers out there and seeing what the lack of one looks like on kids, I suggest the latter everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:02 AM
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Perhaps he doesnt want to stop at just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:52 PM
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I think youre serious and im sorry but i found this hilarious for some reason lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:46 PM
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Seeeing people and saying hi isnt so bothering to me, the worst bit is when they want me to commit to seeing them more often afterwards and having to get out of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:13 PM
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PBR is solid but its kind of a overpriced college beer. its more of a mid range that you can find everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:28 PM
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they wouldnt be selling if men werent buying. its the oldest profession(stripping/prostitution) just atomized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:26 PM
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incels and femcels just bashing what they could never be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:22 PM
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I volunteered at an animal shelter for 10 years, humans arent worth helping
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah rip Wyatt, he was actually a good dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:44 AM
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I like family owned, hole in wall type places for dinner dates. The food is typically better than chains and they usually have better vibes and less distractions than chain restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:41 AM
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There were a few situations where I genuinely had no clue why a chick was into me when she was hot, had gigachad exes etc. But I always thought, I don't have to fight him, I just need to kill him if he tries anything against us. But also if it's too complicated nothing is wrong with the two of us taking things slow until heat dies down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:29 AM
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O$ if you dine and dash on her, Rule#72 Sigma's don't pay for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:26 AM
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I used to have alot but they typically end up bombing by the woman catching feelings or her feeling entitled to me doing a mass amount of random favors for her to the point where I'm clearly being used. My best female friends at the moment are my lesbian God mothers, and a few acquaintances here and there. I feel that they've been useful in that they have been very honest with me about female nature. But it's bittersweet because that nature isn't so savory to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:50 PM
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Average men settle by beta buxxing in a stable matter for a attainable woman below their RMV. There are no certain outcomes, but for the average putting in effort that way eventually pays off whenever the woman sees him as better than dating around or being alone. It might seem sad but their mindset towards it is usually "Doesn't matter, got sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:55 PM
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I'm just the messenger man, your choices are yours to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:47 PM
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The tendency is that if they refuse to accept things from a man, it's that they have no interest in him. If a woman wants to pay Dutch I'm not saying it's bad, it's just a common indicator that she doesn't see him as a potential mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:54 PM
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Exactly who gives af about "winning the competition" Women care about who's putting in the most effort for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:31 PM
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All relationships are transactional whether the couple is aware of it or not. Love can be fostered through the underlying exchange, but there are requirements to the biological foundation of bonds between males and females. Briffualts law states that the if the female doesn't derive benefit from an association with the male, no such association is made. Many women are self aware enough to tell you that if a man doesn't do this, her interest in him decreases drastically. It’s a first date, what e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:11 PM
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Absolutely, but many men act as if they're owed sex if they take them out. Women can't fight men, only flee, so this method is one they use to mitigate conflict in separation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:53 PM
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Sure you can think that way, but not only is it likely she'll find someone else willing to cover, she'll likely find someone better in more factors alongside it. The guy might choose who he hunts, but the woman is the one choosing out of her options. If you can't be competitive you get traded in. Something guys seem to forget is women absolutely don't need men, especially any one particular guy. So unless there's something there that makes it worth her while, don't expect her to stick around. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:43 AM
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Men can't see past their own ego most times. They backwards rationalize to fulfill their self interest. This is why men (especially RP men) are no better than the women they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:50 PM
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Men live in a dominance hierarchy, this is the manifestation of a biological protocol. Like rams bashing horns together, men have masculine egos they build and protect, this often comes at each other's expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:24 PM
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Defeatism will surely make this mindset into a reality. Women are incredibly simple and borderline shallow, as long as you monkey dance correctly you will get lucky eventually. But this attitude will surely mitigate any chances of success. Men always have the opportunity to improve, the more they do the better off they'll be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:20 PM
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One that can convince me that my wellbeing is of equal priority to hers. If a woman can do that, I will certainly marry that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:13 PM
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It stang when my younger gfs ran away with the older guys, but from my perspective they did me a favor by showing me their true nature. It seems to be the natural order of things. I don't have an opinion about it but it does seem necessary in the grand scheme of things. Women value men more mature than them, men value women as youthful as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:11 PM
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Because they are willing to settle for conforming to a framework of order instead of the uncertainty and chaos without it. Nothing replaces traditionalist values, many people want simple lives that are predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:20 PM
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I do. Would definitely let her break my heart just to experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:35 PM
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I doubt the demographic of men willing to go for sexbots is concerned with validation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:22 PM
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The people who can afford that can afford to pay real women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:50 PM
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Obviously yes, a sort of connection is established first more times than not. But I wasn't exaggerating when I said that I've seen hookups happen within moments of meeting. Typically this would be drug and alcohol related. Am I suggesting fucking people you don't know? Absolutely not. I need alot of time before I warm up to a person. But there is a demographic of people who see sex purely for the pleasure, and are far less inhibited than you or I. Some people call it trashy, I just think they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:30 AM
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To reach parity on the factors considered for marriage, security must be established. We are economically, psychologically and socially insecure and in a volatile place. In times of prosperity and peace, marriages increase, but with so many deterrents on these things relationships fail to reach that point. This social regression is a human indicator of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:23 PM
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You never "have" anyone, but finding someone you can be yourself with does go far, better than pretending that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:49 PM
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For me as a person? If after 10 years I still couldn't imagine being without a person and we make each other happy in building our future together, I would be seriously considering it. But that's just me, I can barely get through a few days without being tired of most women I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:43 PM
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The spark gives infatuation, but that can be inequitied or unfeasible in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:40 PM
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I'm with you on this, 2 to 5 years to make a decision on someone you intend to spend THE REST OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE with is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:35 PM
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Am I still straight if I'm into chick's like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:30 PM
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I actually meet alot of thirsty girls gaming lol. There are some games flooded with chick's like RDO, DBD, and ER
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:28 PM
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At least someone cares to report you, they just want me to get it over with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:24 PM
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You're partially correct. No ego puts men under a passive state when the human condition requires active partipation. The balance is a calculated masculine ego, driving your energy into productive things rather than wasted aggression and pointless violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:22 PM
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That you don't want to fulfill him sexually? That's the problem for the individual guys in those specific situations. Many guys are like you in that if they don't care for certain fetishes their GFs they formerly did, but if a guy wants a certain sex life, that doesn't just stop if they women they are with refuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:17 PM
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Love is not a irreversible or infinite attachment, it is the byproduct of aligning interests and mechanisms. When the chemistry is right it can be fostered, but it fades into nothing or worse when certain circumstances come into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:16 PM
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Being willing to try things new is the better sex to the guys that value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:38 PM
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Men confuse realistic long term average relationships as "settling" and beta buxing There is no confusion, you just fail to acknowledge that these relationships fall into the demographic. This is your individual choice, but the relationships that are like how you explained fall into that category. Relationships on a long term level for the average, every day relationship are NOT these lust filled exciting perpetual romances where the woman is constantly horny for you Relationships with the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:22 PM
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How do these people manage to start and have families then Key word "Start" a family. Women marry men hoping they'll change for the better, men marry hoping she'll stay the same. Many of these are the marriages that fail when her standard of living is no longer satisfied by the guy. The guy can keep pace with the increasing standard but many fail for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:08 PM
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Good luck on this one, especially with horny teenagers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:11 AM
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Newsflash, the majority of people are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:00 AM
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Did none of you go to HS or college? There are haves and have not in life and social media is just a reflection of humanity. You can do all the same comparisons of yourself and others in person and still be just as insecure. Social media didn't invent it, and sticking your head in the sand just ignores whatever issues you have with yourself. If you don't like who you see when you look in the mirror, or don't like the lifestyle you're living, make steps towards changing that for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:53 PM
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Approaching is certainly attractive to a guy but it never means that you're instantly compatible at that very moment. The issue is that too many women think of the potential the guy could bring them, and are disappointed with their individual expectations couldnt be fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:47 PM
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Damn, just close the sub here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:20 PM
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Men are decreasing in usefulness which makes them unattractive. Watch how many of the comments will use variations of this to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:19 PM
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Although I could argue that women are just as horny, but not as sexually compatible with as many men as the inverse, that wouldn't address your point of where the issues come from. Men's masculine perseverance in sexuality is what brings us civilization today. Even through tremendous confrontations of requirements and inhibitions women have, men have consistently broken down those barriers. It was always frustrating, but men did it and still do. Some even take pleasure in the hunt because the ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:19 PM
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Fair enough I guess, but the average end is 70ish so I just considered 35ish to be the mid point. But I don't consider that old, perhaps it has a different connotation for some people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:37 PM
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Mid thirties imo, but maybe people expect to be living longer I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:04 PM
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34 is middle aged to me. Middle aged isn't old BTW. Typically the context is guys in their 30s anyway. There are plenty of those men out there, typically they were attractive enough to get married and by mid 30s they hit their first divorce. A few of them swoop up many of the girls your age and even younger. Also, young women take the money and experiences. All men are paying for it one way or another so it doesn't make any difference either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:03 PM
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They are more welcoming to that if you're already established as attractive. I have seen my friends hook up with chick's they literally met moments ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:55 PM
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I see this situation literally all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:46 PM
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Be here the next time women are touting about how middle aged guys arent attractive to twenty somthings. Otherwise, have fun though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:45 PM
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Women's agenda never changed, their hypergamous standards have risen. In some cases that good, I know a few old ladies that felt forced to deal with physical and psychological abuse from their husband's. The bad is really because now its so hard to satisfy because of that instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:24 AM
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Societies aren't required to do anything. It's simply cause and affect circumstances that play out over time to where the most efficient ones win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:22 PM
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Society as we know it will collapse, but the low inhibitions men that take up women and inevitably Impregnates them will continue on the new generations. And the hedonistic development in cycles will continue to even lower imposed values. A society (typically religious) will begin to out compete and become the better competitor, then dominate the society until its unrecognizable. Then the entire cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:12 PM
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The general hopelessness deliema is that even if they worked their ass off, it still could likely amount to nothing because of a factor outside of their control. Be it psychological(depression, truama), Biological (Short, low T) or sometimes even social (anxious, awkward, inhibitions) etc. And in a time with increased risks and chance to fail, it breaks down your hope until there's nothing left. The feedback loop of the mindset sets a unfortunate course of perpetuating the problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:59 PM
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Get help lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:49 PM
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They aren't doing it to be emotionally dependent, they are interested in fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:00 AM
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My Anime club was basically a weeb brothel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:32 AM
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Red pill agenda is about getting laid and sustaining attraction, not for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:28 AM
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No for all of those things. Stability would be more conducive in how he's treated. He wouldn't even be in that relationship if he wasn't attracted enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:58 PM
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Emotionally it doesn't matter, sexually it could.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:39 PM
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Not locking up Chads because they are Chads, locking up the Chads who negatively impact women and the populace at-large. Similar to how we lock up men for not paying child support, drug dealers harsher than users, abusers, etc. It's a battle that is infinite, but it is more effective than telling women not to fall for temptations. We already do both and it's not as if we shouldn't warn women at all, it's simply inevitable for them to fall for temptations and submit to bad Chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:16 PM
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One bad guy taken out of the pool eliminates his ability to affect a large amount of women. Not to conflate this conversation, but this is similar to sexual assaulters. The few men who behave that way disproportionately affect alot of women. You can't tell women to dress conservatively to avoid triggering those men, they will do it anyway and find every opportunity to forgo that mandate. The optimal thing to do is remove those men from the pool. That is more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:48 PM
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We did this remember? That was traditionalist values basically. Women revolt against expectations of them when it's at the expense of their convenience. You can guide them but they are too malleable for it to have any reasonable effect. Once confronted with temptation of "Fun" they'll do it. The more effective thing to do is to eliminate the men that coerce the behavior. The courts understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:42 PM
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Testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:31 PM
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Things don't go well when men try to tell women what they ought to do. We've built safety nets for the inevitability of women making mistakes due to their desire. And punish the men that bring them to negative places. Girls just wanna have fun, the world knows this. This is a optimal system because we'll never change their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:30 PM
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It doesn't matter what most men think of a woman, they are concerned with what they can get out of the men who are interested. That is a certainty that makes these statements worthless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:49 AM
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A nice butt on a masculine man sure, but this feminine portrayal of it sends gay signals and turns them off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:46 AM
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🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:44 AM
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Most women are responsive and submissive to what the guy wants. It never really matters what their values are because if the attention they receive is attracting and exciting enough, they will forgo it. Women morph themselves into what they have to be to be compatible to attractive men. This is how their agreeable nature manifests.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:41 AM
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Perhaps unconsciously polygamous, sex and flings without present arrangements. But women have the agenda of securing men exclusively to get the most out of them. There will be women who compensate by providing some value in turn, but because the majority won't, most men will be serial daters rather than establishing lasting bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:37 AM
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Leave, not necessarily because she did it, but because she lied. If you break trust that makes for a shitty road down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:32 AM
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Most will drive themselves to indecision or even insanity searching for an answer to the "Why" question. This is the meaning behind the popularity of Jackson Pollock's paintings of seemingly random splashes of paint everywhere, if he questioned too much about the meaning, he never would've painted anything to begin with. Although theyre random and seemingly meaningless, there is a artistic theme to them. People pay alot of money for his works as a reminder not to question the "Why" so much. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:30 AM
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Women are less capable of violence, it doesn't make them morally superior. Lesbian relationships have more failures and domestic abuse rates for this very reason. They aren't more nurturing and empathetic, men are socially conditioned not to show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:20 AM
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underrated response
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:12 AM
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But didn't you know, recognizing things about women that hurts their feelings is hate. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:19 PM
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Like what? And why should it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:17 PM
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r/ThotBeatdowns is the holy grail of this type of content. Women aren't better than men, they are just less capable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:15 PM
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Agreed actually, ironically I might have just misrepresented blackpillers with the statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:12 PM
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People cry Misogyny at everything even slightly at the expense of women's feelings to the point where I'm numb to the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:10 PM
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I don't actually read that sub at all basically. Outside of when they get so crazy it comes back here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:06 PM
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Got any fresh examples that aren't downvoted into oblivion? Most of it seems like common sense tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:05 PM
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What most people think is TheRedPill is typically blackpill, TheRedPill almost always give solid nuanced advice about handling situations like a man. Not hating women, or even being indifferent to them. It's about navigating life within your best interests and handling your shit. Raising your individual value as a man and enjoying the fruits of your labor within reason. I don't even know how it goes so misrepresented most of the time to insight the hate around it. There's alot of people who conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:29 PM
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Gay and Bi men complain about this alot. I don't think it's much different than how they treat straight men, everyone else is only valid when the serve the interests of the woman (objectifying them through being gay best friends or hair stylists) and bad when they refuse to (suddenly using their gayness or anxiety of such as a attack against them. ) I don't even think guys care about gay guys that much, they are just insecure with themselves half the time. If they are getting sex and money there…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:14 PM
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The only people who will save you from bad men are the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:08 PM
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I think more guys need to understand that casual sex is the only thing alot of women do want from you and that they aren't all looking for a romantic experience, but just a exciting one alot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:05 PM
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Well shouldn't that make you more empathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:28 AM
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That seems to be a more blackpill overlap but I'm not even going to pretend to understand how cucks develop that fetish. I don't understand many of those sexual fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:47 AM
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Anyone else notice that the blue pillers here are getting strangely unhinged? They have straight up emotional breakdowns here, it's odd. Aren't you guys supposed to be the happy ones? No one wants to be RP, your bubble of stability and safety is a privilege, no reason to punch down so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:02 PM
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Never leave us, you're the saving grace from the female side of the sub. Also, send more pics of the cows
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:25 AM
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Sure she could, but that seems good enough for her. Would you tell a guy he's being used if he had a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:30 PM
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It's all she seems to want from that arrangement, that's not using
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:04 PM
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I do rush banana
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:20 PM
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Ain't the woman spose to make you da sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:19 PM
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Well I'm cordial with all my exes and still talk to most every once in awhile. Although my breakups we're bad I always cared about them even when they inevitably messed up. We move on and although I'm not close I still want the best for them and will move the relationship to an acquaintance level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:16 PM
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There is a presumption of interest implied. FDS users vet for the most capable man out of their options over judging by immediate emotions of the "gut". This calculation is what most women do, the framework for such is only made visible to you through that sub. What you would gain is the committed company of a woman you do enjoy as a friend and sexual partner, FDS is the platform to see if you're compatible on their prospective end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:06 AM
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I appreciate that a woman mentioned this because men are typically very blinded by femininity to realize it, but the illusion of such seems to be the point of the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:39 AM
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Most women are FDS whether they know it or not. FDS women are just unapologetic. Am I looking for a relationship at all knowing so? Not really, but it's moreso that I already put so much energy into relationships that I neglected myself too much to continue. Maybe if I'm so bored and so wealthy I will value it, but making a woman happy isn't my priority at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:29 AM
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Are these things mutually exclusive? Are you saying you can't be both attractive and well adjusted? Because TRP and PUA tells you it's possible to do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:52 PM
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Are most women following through with that desire though? Or are they dating up? I don't understand , is there a crisis of options for these women? Do young guys not want their age groups? Are older women having a lack of older options? This is the first time I'm hearing about men not wanting their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:07 PM
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Do less attractive women have a lack of options? They don't appear to. Why would a 30 year old guy take a woman with more baggage and demands who is less attractive to him than a younger more attractive one with less expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:49 PM
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According to statistics, LDRs are supposed to work out most of the time. Hur dur I was catfished pretty hard my freshman year. She had like three other American boyfriends with us all planning to let us stay at our places when she visited. Learned that lesson early.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:31 AM
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In the context of your post, the love can still be there with the realization that the person has sexual needs that partner cannot fulfill. You can care about someone's well-being but understand that you're incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:44 AM
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I will hold this against you at a later date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:10 AM
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I'm not embracing being a cuck, but the failure to accept that is why male ego is a setback in this context. They don't possess the girl, they never did. The girl is possessed only by her emotions, whether they are in your favor or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:07 PM
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Becky will still trade you in for Chad regardless of how attached you might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:02 PM
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The majority of women (including whores) isn't going to give you free sex. So you can say "I won't invest into whores" but they aren't worried about fucking you either. They are worried about the guys who are generous to them. And there's alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:01 PM
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Most men aren't attractive enough to reasonably care about this. After I was done with a girl, they always go fuck the most guys they can anyways. I literally let my friends fuck my exes because I knew there wasn't anything I could do to stop that from happening. And I had much more options after the fact so it didn't matter. Even attractive men don't have to care because there will always be others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:52 PM
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This is where the male ego blinds us, men are sharing women now. They are just pretending they arent with false notions of certain relationships via "love"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:47 PM
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What would you use as objective measures of happiness in the sociosexual world? Do you think traditional ways are compatible with our time, without encroaching on the free will of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:30 PM
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No it wouldn't have to rise sky high because prostitution would be legalized and state regulated. Those advancements in alternatives would be assumed as well, but all prostitutes have to do is be cheaper and more convenient than those options to be competitive. I'm of the belief incels have self imposed issues because of this fact, every guy pays for sex one way or another. Prostitutes are just more upfront about said transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:09 PM
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Theoretically no. All sex would be friendly pleasure or convenience transactions. We already see in countries like North Korea, there is no concept of love. Humans are much more mentally malleable than we think, so the incoming generation of men wouldn't have the Disney ideals to be unsatisfied. They will accept the sex they do have, and will be happy. It seems far from dystopia to me, our old traditions isn't compatible with our new world. It only works for a minority of lucky people while most…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:57 PM
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Brave New World type polygamy. The state is responsible for raising children, parents don't exist. Parents are outdated anyways because it's rare to live in a healthy home environment and the traumas children receive spread like plagues to each other and their children. It's a negative feedback loop. Everyone belongs to everyone, no sexual stigmas. Actually society is very pro sexual experience and casual about it. Working isn't entirely necessary, those who do work are doing it to only increase…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:35 PM
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IPAs are India Pale Ales. They're typically your more premium beers. These or Stouts like Guinness are pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:28 PM
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To be honest I think you have a point. There's this weird thing I notice is that gay social media presence is very prevalent. I know some former straight dudes and they went LGBT and blew up for it. Some guys you'd never expect it from
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:51 AM
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Once you remove the social stigma you have more people willing to express themselves. There were always LGBT people, but we no longer have to conform to traditionalism. It's not really a rise, but really a revelation period
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:47 AM
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Thats a very rational reason to be pissed off imo. I don't care what others think about me anymore but I'll check them on the spot if they do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:55 AM
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It's a feedback loop thing, you need to be active in life to have a good sex life which motivates the behavior which earns him more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:00 PM
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Let the incels and femcels hatefuck boom fixed society
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:55 PM
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In a society designed to drain men for all they are worth, sex and the pursuit of such is one of the only aspects that nourishes a man's soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:53 PM
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Well when I was that age those girls were fucking guys over 27. Not many hardcore relationships but they were fooling around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:27 PM
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Go for a IPA, not sure what the selection is around you though but craft can be hit or miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:43 PM
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We need a Pennsylvania thread. it's crazy just how many of us live here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:26 AM
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I blocked her a year back so idgaf lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:51 AM
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You're aware of it so you're lucky, you can have a romantic side and not be a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:17 PM
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Well tattoos and odd looks turns off many guys, but Alt girls happen to be my weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:34 PM
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Well this was my issue when I was dating, I was looking for something serious when most girls were out for pleasure at that college age. However if they are telling you they are not interested in sex or dating it probably means that you don't invoke that energy within them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:43 PM
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If only you knew just how much alterations goes into the average woman's look lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:41 PM
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Nah let women believe their little "validation" fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:41 PM
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You're so right, which is why I wonder why women expect to get anything out of the red pill. They are already aware and never have a matrix to unplug from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:22 AM
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That's seems like a backwards way of looking at it, dating you would be better than dating around or someone else. Any guy could try fucking around, but something about a specific woman invokes a certain exclusive connection in some men despite their sexually open nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:02 AM
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Men get used to it, the ones that don't opt out one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:53 AM
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That's on the individual really. Maybe they are so low that their best shot is a GF if they can't reliably fuck around. That's pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:38 AM
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I wouldn't say it's a "pros outway the costs" mindset, more like "you're fucked either way but this version of suffering is bearable."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:24 AM
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Sometimes the path to acceptance is biting the bullet and getting a girlfriend. The bullet being the cost of the underlying exchange in a relationship today
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:25 AM
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So my question is why would men prefer women for long term relationships that have facial features that predict infidelity. Because they are the hot ones that make the men want to fuck them, ideally for a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:37 PM
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Honesty is a clear virtue in her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:11 PM
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I wonder how he would react without his wife or women judging his behavior towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:11 AM
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If sex appeal is the only thing about a person that's interesting, than that's persons worth is only attributed to sex. Regardless of gender. The hard to shallow bit is that too many women rely on that as their individuality, just as annoying as a homosexual person that makes being gay their entire personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:46 PM
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Why argue over this? He puts his money in his vehicles and you do your own
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:36 PM
1

Who Azan?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:10 PM
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In my personal life, they've been very normal and well adjusted. That's just the social media effect on the weird minority
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:59 PM
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This was mine. She basically got me to start playing piano. She had such bright soul that I couldn't see the world the same way after she died. I remember when I read the headline at a party and I legit had to check out early because of how hard it hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:53 PM
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A high percentage of my partners wanted that too. I never did it without consent, but there were women I could tell didn't even want romantic lovemaking over rough fucking like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:38 PM
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Use their social tactics against them boys Also trans women are women, just as annoying too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:28 PM
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This transaction happens subconsciously for humans for the most part. Partner preforms tasks, "oh I'm in the mood to reward him with sex" Woman currently uncomfortable because something didn't go in her favor "I'm just not in the mood" The reason why this is called TRP is because we can see the matrix, we recognize patterns of behavior and why it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:22 PM
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You're conflating RP people with TRP. The Red Pill is the study on sexual instinct, that shouldn't be confused with what Red Pillers say or think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:15 PM
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You don't want any pussy that is offered to you? Obviously you're gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:04 PM
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Indeed, don't let women's collectivist mindset get to your common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:59 AM
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Don't appeal to sex, nothing for men to lie for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:45 PM
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You aren't going to instantly relate to everyone you surround yourself with, you have to grow into it and grow together. You have to make the active decision on your part to be social. It's not something that just happens, you have to value other people and exercise that. That feeling of being alone in a room full of people will never go away because you are alone within your reality, most people feel that effect and no one will completely understand you. Socializing is just a neverending plight…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:47 PM
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Yes in fact I gamed women not for my entertainment but theirs. They actually like the emotional rollercoaster those tactics bring rather than being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:38 PM
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It's starting to make more sense why humanity is so irrational and inept. The more cerebral ones died out or were killed off by the rest of the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:22 PM
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Gay Jk go for it bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:22 AM
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Truly if you're just taller than her, you're good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:20 AM
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Bad idea in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:20 AM
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They don't have to have shit figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:17 AM
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A few years ago while I was working some psychic woman pulled me aside and for an entire hour told me about how much pain I went through and correctly guessed alot of my experiences, then told me greatness is coming in my future. That was the closest thing to kindness and empathy I ever received from a woman despite the lengths I went to make them happy in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:43 PM
1

I used to have reoccurring nightmares
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:19 PM
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Why are so many men clueless to this reality? Especially RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:17 PM
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Yung leans early stuff was ahead of his time lmao, I used to blast this NBs got better that's why. Their old designs were for old dad's but their recent stuff are more aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:28 AM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:02 AM
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Typically the ones who are for current discrimination against white men justify it by stating that past discrimination was bad. Which does not logically make sense to me. Since x was bad when used against y for the benefit of z we now need x to be used against z for the benefit of y. It does not add up in my brain. Dude, no one is discriminating against white men. You're framing it this way, if anything, the average white guy still has more factors in his favor that gives him more opportunity th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:32 AM
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They did this for women? Thats news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:50 AM
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Why would this get you heated? No one is stopping you or white men from contributing more effort, they are only helping those groups become more competent and capable. This isn't at your expense, they are starting from a weaker position than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:33 AM
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I'm not advocating anything. I'm only explaining the rationale. Women are not a minority, they were marginalized and disenfranchised from their potential. Policies were created to mitigate that and give them opportunities they didn't have access to, as we can see from their current performance, they were always just as capable academically and economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:23 AM
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I'm also an equality over equity person, but the majority have decided that since certain groups were given a headstart at the detriment of disenfranchised groups, it's only fair that those disenfranchised are given boosts to catch up economically. I didn't choose this, I'm only explaining the rationale like you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:18 AM
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Oddly convenient timing for you eh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:29 AM
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Women are taking advantage of the opportunities their mothers and grandmother's didn't have. If men as a class aren't performing as much that is on them as individuals. There's no mechanism socially or legally stopping them from competing better. The government isn't against men in this context, there are just policies in place that helps other previoisly disenfranchised groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:36 AM
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This doesn't even make any sense. The black race had centuries worth of real economic oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:32 AM
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I'm no feminist nor do I think women were oppressed. But the rationale is that they were disenfranchised from being economic participants in certain areas of employment. I'm just explaining it, not my personal views
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:31 AM
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You could make the argument that they are economically behind because of what happened in previous generations. Why would men need affirmative action if they were never oppresed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:32 PM
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women were oppressed as a class because patriarchy so they need opportunity to catch up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:24 PM
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Oh wow, now I see what you mean. I suppose the cost is really due to the professional training. But it is quite steep imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:22 PM
1

What counts as incel/blackpill content?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:21 PM
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I want the husband's side of the story. Maybe the marriage isn't going so well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:07 PM
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Seems fairly inexpensive to me, have you gotten a hotel recently? 300 a night for a nice for a decent one. With all the included activities and food it seems very reasonable for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:05 PM
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Woah lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:02 PM
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1.For people who dont mind waiting for sex what is your waiting period? Theoretically indefinitely, I don't need sex from any particular woman. I'm not going to be exclusive with her unless we are having sex though. We can hang out be be close just fine until that is established. 2.Why is that period different when she has had previous sexual encounters or a virgin? For me it isn't since I don't have a time set in stone. But I would imagine that if she wasn't a Virginia, most men would see it as…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:01 PM
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I don't think women are concerned with the type of man who would prefer porn over them. This isn't to say that all porn watchers are coomers, but they don't want any man that they have to compete for, they want men who want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:44 PM
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They'll never get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:03 AM
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Can you feel a degree of sympathy for the fact that many men aren't taught this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:48 AM
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They are indeed more sensible yes, men's values gets in their way more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:46 AM
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How much time are you actually spending in r/TheRedPill? Because the whiney defeatist mindset downright unacceptable there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:44 AM
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Men are subconsciously addicted to their validation, nurture, and sex. They are conditioned to be by their mothers and society and it sets a feedback loop of behavior. I recommend you read the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar to get a better perspective of the grip femininity has over men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:26 AM
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The type of men this would appeal to aren't attractive to women. They want men who want them for their interests, all they have to do seduce those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:13 AM
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Happy you're happy, good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:59 AM
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This is thread worthy, but even then I feel like many blue pillers will take personal examples to invalidate arguments in future threads. I've seen them do that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:59 AM
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Nothing changed. So far...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:45 AM
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as long as it isn’t abused Important to note here fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:44 AM
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I'm happy you found someone you can have a degree of openness with. But it's rarely as black and white as they're either shallow or not. There's an invisible threshold that is arbitrary to individual women, if you pass it there's a death sentence waiting for the relationship. The amount of men who thought similar to you to only be rudely awakened is significant enough for me to tell most guys that their girl isn't their mom, and that more often than not it's better to confide elsewhere if they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:43 AM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:10 AM
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I somewhat feel bad for the securely attached guys who were open and vulnerable with their GFs and wives. I've seen too many situations where the consequences weren't immediate, but set a new precedent in the relationship where the woman just couldn't respect him the same way. So many cheating senarios, shit test ammunition, and general distaste with the relationship after men open up from that. It's interesting because the guy is just being what PPD BPs would determine as a emotionally healthy …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:05 AM
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Sure something like that can develop. They often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:53 PM
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They are the modern day gladiators. Women dont care about the game, but the fame, fortune, and proweress of the type of men who can compete at that high level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:49 PM
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Women have been leveraging variations of this before MeToo and will continue to. There was just a New York governor outsed for this. CEO of Activision had a similar scenario. They will always seduce and extort powerful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:47 PM
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I feel like this misses the point, if the girl is super sexual, why would I have to commit to exclusivity for the same sexual access everyone else gets? Either way, if a guy falls in love, most would compromise despite who they fuck, whether it's with women or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:36 PM
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"Average men don't have any problems dating because some men won't always propose marriage."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:33 PM
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"Some men have multiple options on who to date, this invalidates the complaints of the average man since those men have options." Anna logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:20 PM
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Personally, I never cared about rejection. You never really win a woman, you can only gain more opportunity to game her. If she rejects you outright, it's the nicer thing in my opinion because she's signaling that you couldn't even reasonably compete and it isn't even worth your time. The worst thing is when they waste your time and money knowing full well they'd never really be into you. That's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:52 PM
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It isn't very insightful like RP or PPD, you will get your generic advice there but never to really learn anything. Just one dimensional responses to situations. It'll be summed up with "move on" or "communicate" in every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:40 PM
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Nah bro, better let women take waste your money during your twenties so you won't have any for them to take during your thirties. It's the 200 IQ move.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:58 AM
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Nah the shape-shifting lizards will eat us all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:02 AM
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You seem to be hyperfocusing on the negative of PPD, when there are plenty of us here to actually help them transcend whatever social situations they are going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:56 AM
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I think we just had this question. Anyways I have to work out because my body is used to playing sports. So if I don't my entire physiological system gets fucked up and my performance, mood, and shape changes quickly. If I could be a blob I definitely would, I don't give a shit about the validation of others, but I physically have to get activity in if I want to operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:50 AM
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Someone here is wise for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:42 AM
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You're reading into this way too deep. I'm just letting you know that as a young person, I am witnessing this alot and informing you all that it isn't a fantasy that older guys are dating these college women. You're making a rational argument for women not dating these older men, but if you have any sense you'd understand that their actions especially at this age isn't often rational, it's about fun. Older guys are able to provide more fun. They also fuck younger guys too. This is a casual stage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:31 AM
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Not really actually, I'm watching it happen to my friends alot though. They are getting cheated on, running through divorces, baby trapped etc. I'm watching their lives and mistakes. They are the bitter ones, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:22 AM
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I didn't say it was the norm. But there is a large degree of them doing that from my experience as a popular young person. It's common enough to tell you that it's not some fantasy. Older successful men are getting with younger chicks. Nothing you tell me is going to make me unwitness this everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:20 AM
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Life is a bitch. You have to experience it to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:13 AM
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Agreed. Some are the learn the hard way types
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:12 AM
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My FWB at 20 fucked off for literal 30 your old lol. You underestimate the level of connection and exposure those men have with younger women now. Girls just wanna have fun. They will trade up for late twenties guy more often than not if the opportunity comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:47 AM
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Not true anymore. Not sure if you've been to college lately but with the internet there are alot of chick's faternizing with older guys. I have seen it first hand. I wouldn't say most, but maybe 25% Then, those 21 year old aren't even serious about relationships in the first place, not even half of them are. Guys get played like a fiddle because girls just wanna have fun. Those older guys have plenty of time and money to do such a thing. Dating is just different now despite PPD not wanting to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:38 AM
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Dating gives you more to be bitter about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:34 AM
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Ah yes, waste time on women so you have nothing to show for it when the collapse comes. As one of these guys, I pity my friends who have wasted their early twenties. They are at half the pace on their careers or have no career at all, waste all their savings on their girls and have to borrow money from me, getting locked up in divorces already, having children they can't afford, and putting so much effort into women who've been trading upwards when those opportunities arrive. It's nonsense. I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:26 AM
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SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:51 PM
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I have this Burberry one I like but I also have that Versace one too I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:29 PM
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We hate you too, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:26 PM
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I played some great games recently, Resident Evil 8, Demon Souls, Hades, Final Fantasy 7 REmake, RDR2 half life alyx, and even more. I think some of the major developers are getting lazy but it's definitely no where near dead. I think the people who say that either need to try different games or take a break. Some people have way too high expectations. Sure there are some disappointments but we are in a gaming renaissance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:19 PM
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I don't think the majority of women are very self aware so not in a conscious sense. Many will just enjoy the emotional rollercoaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:02 PM
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Trans women are women, women attack via reputation and shame. It's a feminine operating style. Like shaming guys who don't date fat, within their race, younger, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:58 PM
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You don't understand that women are so spoiled with positive attention these days that many of them fetishize and crave a guy being a dick. It makes them actually feel something instead of the fake gassing up they get from their GFs and the overly nice simps in their DMs. I'm sorry but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:13 PM
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Sex all the way, about 6 Various sexual hookups, maybe around 15
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:59 PM
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I'm already on this drug I feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:58 PM
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Very true, still wouldn't recommend shitting where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:55 PM
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Call her ugly or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:55 PM
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Does she really love you if she won't fart in front of you? That's like the most intimate form of bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:53 PM
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My game is so solid and options so innumerable that I guarantee I could lock down a girl within the next 48 hours. There are women who orbit and wait to see if I'll pull up on them like a knight in shining armor. They just don't realize I never intend to. However, this would require motivation and, you know, actually liking women once again instead of seeing them as energy/resource vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:30 PM
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I have done this to hot chicks and it works very well lol. But only if they are so hot that it's clearly a joke. Wouldn't ever do it to a girl with an inch of insecurity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:13 PM
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They are calling her an idiot for having a FWB?? What kind of dumb shit is that? She is super kind and doesn't deserve to be harassed. I hope she's alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:17 AM
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I didn't know about this situation at all, why does she care what a few randoms online think?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:16 AM
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Why do women still want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:30 AM
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Even with the divorce statistics, there are still a degree of men falling through the cracks with a stable marriage. Blue Pillers aren't completely delusional, they make actions to increase their chances of success. Having faith in love and their partner is what makes that pursuit meaningful for them. What good would a marriage be if you saw it through a RP lens?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:13 AM
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It's weird to me but hey, life's short lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:11 PM
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Uh no... Did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:58 PM
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Some people are going for that traditional white picket fence huge family dream but for me regardless of what happens I won't be disappointed. Anything is better than how nightmarish my life was when I was born into it. I guess I'm just easy to please lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:51 PM
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Thanks, I suppose so. At the very least I'm content.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:03 PM
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Lol they never cease to amaze me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:02 PM
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You're just as much an object as they are. No better or worse. You don't have to like all women, but the more you talk to some the easier it is to relate and conversate. The best moments are when they genuinely surprise you, but you need to invoke your sense of curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:00 PM
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After having been here awhile, it seems that there are topic cycles. Eventually, you've seen it all and move on. Either you're too RP to resonate with BP arguments or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:58 PM
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I put very little importance on these two things, but lying in general is a NEXT for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:38 PM
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If I'm throughly convinced that my happiness and wellbeing is a priority of her's, as I would be unto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:36 PM
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I was never promised these things. There is no point of disappointment because it's outside of my control whether I'm loved or not. All I can do is appreciate what is given.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:33 PM
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Yes, if you research these things, Gods were idols of forces of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:30 PM
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Let me put it this way, if life is a simulation, God is the computer that runs it. Evidence is all around you. The laws of the universe are constant for a reason, the force of creation is what would be determined as "God's will"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:19 PM
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Yeah this one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:58 PM
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Understated, the girls that falsely accused me we're ones that I rejected and did so out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:35 PM
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Your mindset towards higher powers is warped. You're trying to fit a complex force into a simple framework like a Santa Claus sitting in the sky. I don't blame you because of how we teach children about God and morality, but you're starting at a bad foundation if you think of it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:25 PM
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It's because they are so vulnerable and frail that if a man did decide to do something to them, they'd be virtually defenseless. As guys, we can defend ourselves, but they can't do that nearly as much. That doesn't necessarily make them better or worse, look how the treat weaker men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:21 PM
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I like Alfredo cheese pizza, w/ chicken, mushroom and basil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:17 PM
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r/ThotBeatdowns would get very interesting for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:13 PM
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I don't do ultimatums, she's obviously trying to manipulate me here. "Yeah we hung out and fucked but I don't fuck guys who aren't exclusive with me" it's a false sense of security even committing to that, obviously if she could live without me and be happy she should go ahead and do that. I would never agree to this, just because we fucked twice. I barely know her. The only factor in which I would even consider would be if we were close friends for a long time and if she showed some intention t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:48 PM
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Shh don't tell her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:55 AM
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Now I'm hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:51 AM
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There's going to be competition regardless, it's virtually no different how many men you're competing with. It seems like a self imposed issue because at the end of the day, you're either her best option or not. No amount of desperation would make them settle for less than what they truly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:46 AM
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I don't get it, why not just avoid them? Date whoever you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:29 AM
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Can't be sure I never asked. But I think he was so different than her typical type that he sparked her interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:25 AM
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I know another "ex lesbian" girl now after meeting a dude friend of mine. Nothing is wrong with changing what you're into but this is literally why guys aren't taking it seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:36 AM
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I wrote a book specifically to spark the interests of guys and my analytics came out with nearly 90% women. 5 out of 5 so they seem to actually like it, but there are some very non PC stuff in there so it's odd lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:09 AM
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I can't hate women, they are the only ones who buy my books lol, men don't read, they waste their money on onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:02 AM
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Yikes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:25 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:09 PM
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They are unconscious agents for the female social matrix, here to mitigate men's awareness to the grand feminine illusion of domination over men through love. Haha jk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:26 PM
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Why open up in the first place? It doesn't change anything but add the risk of being hurt more by someone you care about. It's just irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:12 PM
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Men's egos make them fools in this precise way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:01 PM
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I live in PA haha, I'm a mainline Philly guy though. Sounds like Willow is Pennsyltucky
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:42 PM
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Indeed. Just watching my sisters on their end of relationships were a significant influence on my perspective towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:36 PM
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I appreciate it thanks, still much further to go from here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:18 PM
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Esther Villar wrote about this in The Manipulated Man, we are basically the slave class to their dominance hierarchy. Our Ego's create an illusion of power when truly it is simply responsibility (work) to keep society running for them. All they have to do is stroke it when we do it in their favor and denigrate it when it's against their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:55 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate it. But I actually never talk about business because of how boring it is haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:19 AM
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Yes indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:13 AM
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Damn, guess I'll stick with my pussy eating reviews instead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:41 PM
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Your father probably didn't know either in all fairness, but if you listen to mom's talk on the phone long enough it's the same conversations with different semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:40 PM
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Congrats right back brother. Good luck on the conference. Hopefully we'll keep them coming haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:33 PM
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Ty m8. Wish someone told me about these. They were published last year
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:22 PM
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Some guys like em thicc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:19 PM
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Are you that clueless to not know that this has been the discourse among women for hundreds of years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:18 PM
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Unbeknownst to me, several articles were written about my company being one of the best in the industry! Yahoo finance, investing.com, and NASDAQ. Is this something I can brag about to get the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:14 PM
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That's why they weed men out for who's the highest value and most committed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:11 PM
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I think she had an arrangement with the guy or something. It was so clearly fake and a bunch of drama channels proved it
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 09:33 PM
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Wait are you guys serious lmao? I have a 6TB full of films and shows, idk how you could build up that much porn haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:41 PM
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My hot ex is popular twitch streamer who faked her gameplay but still has smoke up her ass because of her army of simps
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 03:29 PM
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Have you tried? Why are you broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:42 PM
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Define "giving a shit about you".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:40 PM
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Theoretically no. But it depends on if she's keeping me happy in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:38 PM
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I'm not in the Discord, anything interesting going on in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:35 PM
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Funny thing is, whenever their best isn't enough for the post wallers, they will drop the guy without remorse. Morality in men causes more suffering more times than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:25 PM
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The type of man who doesn't want to be a father and partner shouldn't be. I know father's who abandoned their kids and baby mothers and everyone was better off from it in the end. It's better than being a toxic father indeed. I agree that there's no moral obligation, but many father's feel a bond and duty to be there for the family despite how awful and hard it might be. At the end of the day, no one is entitled to anything, but that only shows the merit of the father's out there who do their be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:08 AM
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My favorite vampire ones were Vampire hunter D(action), Vampire Knight(Drama), Rosario Vampire (isekai, YA) and Black Butler. I'd recommend those if you haven't seen them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:32 AM
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Ah okay lol, is it any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:57 AM
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You do know that's just as creepy right? Lol What are you watching? Guessing Re Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:40 AM
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"wow, she must really care about me. Idk where tf I'm gonna put these but this is nice of her"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:13 AM
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Adolescence markets well to the Japanese porn guys. They are coached to act that way. Unfortunately, it also spills over to the Japanese women who in turn think "this is what Japanese men like" so many girls emulate those kinds of childish behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:34 AM
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I would say this isn't accurate. Change cured by touching a man who loves them and cares about them To cured by a man they want to be loved and cared by The man's feelings doesn't really matter, any guy could love and want to care for them. At the end of the day, it's about who the woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:00 AM
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That feeling is oxytocin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:49 AM
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I think that could be said in both of the male cases, men bad either way. You can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:48 PM
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Those aspects only grow with age. One of the best things a woman ever told me was "The bigger the boobs and ass, the fatter they are gonna get" She was so right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:46 PM
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People are more concerned with being right than reaching truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:41 PM
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Men: Women are perfect infallible queens Women: Stop with pornsick expectations and treat us like we are human beings! Men: Okay, women are not perfect and have aspects to be criticized Women: WTF is wrong with you incel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:38 PM
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It's interesting because when men absolve themselves of valuing women's validation, women then turn to denigrate them with terms like "incel"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:32 PM
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Their intention isn't to invalidate women's issues, everyone knows women have issues. Men's issues goes almost completely unacknowledged by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:29 PM
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Self awareness is your gateway to a better future. Now it's time to practice your discipline to become the man you were meant to be. Get after it, no more bullshit.
/r/newTRP14/01/22 05:55 AM
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That was were I first went lol. I can only hope these are trolls and psyops, because if this is any reasonable degree of the male demographic this'll be trouble. I've been to incel forums and it's slightly better, still bad but this is some fucked up stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:13 AM
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So I just discovered 4chan and fuck, now I know where all of the degens are gathering. It's somewhat alarming, the sheer volume of these guys is immense. I don't think it should be banned because we can monitor it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:05 AM
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I can think of about a dozen extinction level events before that would even reach a reasonable chance of feasibility
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:35 AM
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Astrology is a puesdoscience that has been around longer than religion. I'm not going to tell you it's 100% accurate, but you'd be surprised how often it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:44 AM
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Eh kinda sorta. I can recognize patterns of behavior and sort of see red flags. I typically give the benefit of the doubt but so far I've never been wrong when I see a trainwreck coming
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:38 AM
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Random question, what type of device do you primarily use for PPD/Reddit? Mobile, PC, Tablet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:05 PM
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Like any person of influence, there are detractors. Look her up on Twitter or YouTube and make a judgement for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:39 PM
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Teal Swan
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:07 PM
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I'm going to be child free, reality is too fucked up for me to put them through it. And I'm personally not equipped genetically, they would have a high chance of inheriting many psychological and physical illnesses. Sure they might be tall and good-looking but it's not enough. It's not if I want a family, it's that due to the circumstances I shouldn't. I can find some happiness within life, but that privilege is one I won't have. I blame men only because they give women that type of power over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:34 PM
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Tbh, not really. It seems so polarized between guys who barely try and complete overdone looksmaxxing guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:56 PM
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Pump it, hodl till moon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:54 PM
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It's something you can be mad about, but it seems like a waste of time. They still won't care so why should you? If anything, I'm glad I have the awareness to understand them and make better decisions for myself. If I were in my dad's generation I would be furious with life basically entrapping me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:43 PM
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Not just OLD, most women expect to be "Courted"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:39 PM
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Depends on who you socialize with, the point is no challenge, and it's still less expensive than a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:19 AM
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It's an honest exchange and it's common but humans still like the idea of romance. They get attached beyond just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:17 AM
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Yeah you hate to see it, a guy with so much potential but a little too addicted to his girl, then all of a sudden she's pregnant and he has to play it safe for life and settle down from what he could've been.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:14 AM
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I didn't actually know that but it'd make sense. They wouldn't be able to consent at certain levels. I'm sure for most people it's an immediate turn off to the person, even if it were a long time after just the thought of them being with someone like that would drop them off of the radar for dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:11 AM
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As an activity? Sure. But there are more important things in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:05 AM
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What would you think of a well adjusted guy dating a mentally handicapped girl? Weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:02 AM
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What led you to this deduction exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:25 AM
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"Men just want us for sex" has the same energy as "Women only want money"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:08 AM
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I don't know how that doesn't fit the description perfectly. Maybe dating a mentally ill girl or very deformed one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:48 AM
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Women are disgusted with Bi men, there's that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:19 AM
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If sex were all they wanted, there'd be no reason for all this. Escorts would be just fine. No RP required.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:17 AM
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I imagine it's more of the conditioned religious values that's manifests the denigrating narrative towards them. People who act outside of the order they see is what is best for humanity, undermines whatever future they wish to see in the world. We are socially reflexive, the more we are accepting of OF, stripping, sex work, the more people will participate in those hedonistic alternatives. The more people are behaving this way, the more we regress into other behaviors that bend morality. It's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:38 PM
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At least until they meet a GF they would be serious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:25 PM
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You'd be surprised at the level simps are willing to go to, men are down bad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:48 AM
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Perhaps subconsciously, but I genuinely wanted to do nice things for them. When I'm into someone I am always getting thoughts like "hey she would love this" out of inspiration of things they like or talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:46 AM
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Yes men are conditioned for needing a girlfriend. It's one of our only acceptable pleasures. If most men could afford a maid, therapist, and mistress they would likely do that. But relationships and sex are what makes life fulfilling for many guys, why work so hard without it. Sex is the drive that fuels them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:29 AM
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Maybe if it's a spur of the moment thing but it's not very competitive versus what other dudes are willing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:25 AM
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I love this show. Reminds me of game of thrones but with capital instead of kingdoms. I imagine it's hard to relate with the average person growing up in a family like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:24 AM
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What led you to this analysis exactly? Not sure what you mean by covert contract but I guess my mom was slightly domineering
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:08 AM
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Watch your back miss, never know how crazy dude actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:30 AM
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Hard to truly explain this but I trust that they will act in the patterns of behavior TRP has discovered. They are alot more predictable when considering their agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:28 AM
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You should have a beer or two before hand to take the edge off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:22 AM
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You should see the Instagram comments. Dudes were like "I'd take a PS2 over y'all" and "I'd take the chicks to sell their organs for a PS5" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:21 AM
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It's the lack of money that has the real effect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:19 AM
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No I agree, it comes off really low effort and unthoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:18 AM
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I stopped talking to a girl once and then she turned around and framed me of raping her. I almost got kicked out of college but a bunch of girls came in as character witnesses and defended me. Not only this, but cutting them off led to other ways of lashing out towards me. I'm slowly becoming a public figure and I can't lose my contracts and and company consulting roles. I'm not in college anymore and I can't hope to get lucky like I did before. "There is no wrath like that of a scorned woman" I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:38 AM
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I'm dealing with a situation that has me thinking about this stuff too. I was back in my hometown over the holidays and rekindled a bit of a flame with my old ex. After I got back to my regular life, one of our mutual friends messaged me that she actually had a bf and was cheating with me while I was back in town. I confronted her over the phone and we had a less than pleasant conversation haha. Damn bro. That's crazy. I've been in this exact situation before. It's so conflicting because it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:33 AM
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I did dump them, changed to a new number so they can't even contact me too directly. I'm just cordial with them, and I try to make the message clear we aren't getting back together, doesn't stop them from attempting to reel me back in again. Lol I just think this is the better method instead of burning bridges.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:19 AM
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My personal solitude is pretty nice at the moment. My expectations are so low that the good moments are more meaningful in a way. My drinking is definitely up so I think I'm following this model quite nicely. The trick is staying consistent to that over getting my hopes too high on a new flame haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:14 AM
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I don't really keep them around. When they fuck up I do distance myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:06 AM
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It's tough because I genuinely have such a poor gauge of what is acceptable. I see other guys put up with stuff to keep their relationships and I hate to come off as too sensitive. As a guy I feel like I'm supposed to suck it up and take it. I don't let them close to me though, I just keep things on cordial terms for damage control to my reputation. It's worked in that they have nothing bad to say about me, and opens other doors. I appreciate the sentiment though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:40 PM
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I was genuinely surprised by how many women I've met with rape fantasies. One time on a date, my FWB legit said "I wanna get gangraped by a bunch of guys semi unexpectedly, like know it will happen, but not when."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:26 PM
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The way I like women is very odd. I almost like them like fishes, if I could just watch them in fishbowl living their lives and feed them(presents, nice deeds) I would. I sound like a stalker or cuck or something but I genuinely do care about some particular women's wellbeing. The issue is the way they treated me, that's what turns me off Everytime. When they do awful stuff to me I just think "damn, I would never even think of being this bad to you" Not to say I'm perfect but I do have that perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:19 PM
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I switched to vaping. Start at a high nic amount and work your way down. It saves money and your health
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:52 PM
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Sometimes people are essentially stuck together in marriages, be it through shared assets, kids, or the process of divorce. It's understandable to still desire intimacy when you're under those circumstances. I don't think this is what erodes the institution of marriage directly. It's always a false sense of security in a relationship, and for many cultures it's less about the direct connection of the individuals and more as a symbolism of alligning power structures. Marriage is what you make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:42 PM
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I have family members like this, they aren't so smart but they seem really happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:29 PM
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Looks aren't the only thing women scout for, theyve been together long enough to know he's hooked and not going anywhere. Now she can kick back and know she'll be taken care of regardless of if they stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:23 PM
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Humans are regressing indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:21 PM
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You must have a big dick at least lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:20 PM
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Tradesmen are enough to afford a woman for the short term but with the hypergamous mobility of OLD it's only a matter of time before they trade up anyways. No pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:02 PM
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No motivation, I suppose. Women and lower middle class pay isn't enough pleasure to justify the effort. Men want to live as free as possible for their own pleasantries, not break their backs for money they don't necessarily need to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:58 PM
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Umm by what metric? This is the most peaceful time in civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:55 PM
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You don't have to ask for permission to have standards. Just don't be surprised if certain women aren't cool with it, who cares? You weren't compatible with that woman anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:54 PM
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Jokes on you PPD, I hate women AND men. This hate rated E for everyone lol fuck humans in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:49 PM
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It happened to me right in front of me and it took me a long time to process it. She was with another girl and I didn't know how I shouldve felt. I didn't care, but I started to feel indifferent about her in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:41 PM
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If the wife or husband is iffy about bringing another life into the world, then the child shouldn't be born in the first place. We'd just kill the child with suffering if we weren't well equipped to be parents. I wouldn't necessarily leave the relationship, I'd be understanding. It took me having horrible parents to know I'd never want to put that on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:39 PM
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I can only speak personally on this, as someone who's dated a lot of fine women, I just see pricetags and effort. If I see a dude with a pretty woman I don't think of him as a better person, but more like an addict that must be working hard to get that particular fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:33 PM
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If women thought "This comment isn't specifically about me" before responding PPD would be a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:48 AM
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If you want to marry a broke guy go ahead and die on that hill lol. But in general (not you, speaking about most) women don't gravitate that way. You know what women reported as their reason for top reason for initiating divorce? financial issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:31 AM
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Like many podcasts, the interesting thing is the actual guests they have on, not the hosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:42 PM
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Yes it's gay, but should you care? As long as he makes you a good sandwich you're good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:35 PM
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Acceptance doesn't have to mean defeatist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:33 PM
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Assume that anything one woman knows about you, they will all know. Good rule of thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:32 PM
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Women live with higher degree's of feminine complexes, they subconsciously behave in ways that attract others to themselves. Whether they are aware of it or not, it's evolutionary. I'm more of a cerebral person so it doesn't make me feel horny or uncomfortable, my brain just processes the behavioral indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:28 PM
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Shame is one of their biggest tactics. It's not like they can fight us for our wealth, they just need to manipulate it out of us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:17 PM
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Indeed, we are just recognizing what has been known for years. But for whatever reason women and bluepillers deny this. Briffaults Law; The female determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:12 PM
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Let's just say, money is one of the primary requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:59 PM
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Glad you realized this, TRP is getting largely misrepresented by Black and Purple pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:33 PM
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You hit the nail on the head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:10 PM
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Make women make sense!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:49 PM
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I'm at 4, does this make me a degenerate lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:58 PM
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Okay well I resonate with some of this, but this seems framed in such an odd way that doesn't deviate from any other MGTOW. If this is academias version of it so be it I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:28 PM
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Sure, we do this alot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:42 PM
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Are you doing it consciously or because you haven't met the right one? Do you have any intention to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:16 PM
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I have. But it's been considerably less in the last few years. It used to be a few times a year but since I'm Demisexual I don't find many situations in where I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:09 PM
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I have been avoiding developing intimate bonds with women. I have women in my life but I keep them at an arms length, rather than concentrate on building my life with any in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:59 AM
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So so much money, I'm also a stock trader with very low maintenance so I'm sitting on a considerable nest egg. My career is at the point where I can work remotely and even take months off on vacations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:56 AM
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Best parts, saving money, keeping my sanity, no emotional rollar coasters or unnecessary stress. Worst parts, having to hurt feelings by turning down women, bouts of FOMO, the odd expectations that I ought to be in a relationship from friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:54 AM
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Voluntary, I've been asked out by some very attractive women and contacted by exes/female friends to date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:51 AM
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I've been MGTOW for almost 8 years now, AMA. Any questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:47 AM
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I always played sports so my body is attuned to needing that for my baseline function. I literally can't not work out because it effects my performance and enjoyment of everything else. If I could be a fat blob I would since I don't have interest in external validation, but I quite literally do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:44 AM
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Underrated point, the misogynist, woman beaters, fake nice guys etc are always blue or red pill. MGTOW really just wants to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:45 AM
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No, because if I chose to breakup then I had a reason regardless of if there were a red flag. Just because we dated before, it doesn't mean we became more compatible over time. A relationship is something we'd have to rebuild into, not date just because she's lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:38 AM
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I don't hate women, but if I did it would be for the fact that their nature is to deceive and manipulate to meet their agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:01 PM
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Men are addicted to sex and female nurture. It's established by their mothers and once puberty hits they subconsciously act in ways that make them viable partners. Their motivation is happiness through women, if the women in their lives maintain the illusion of being pleasant and loving, they never even have to consider female agendas to extract from them. This is why the only argument against the truth about women is just "you're bitter" because it takes experience of conflict to understand the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:54 PM
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Evolution at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:42 PM
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This. There's this unspoken dynamic where you either have basically no experience to understand how bad things are or you have so much experience that you're essentially burned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:37 PM
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Fuck, this is literally me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:06 AM
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I was rp af at 16. Had my rage phase then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:47 PM
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Because women never really have to learn to be genuinely funny for people to listen and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:52 PM
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Women are more sensitive to external forces, emotional depth is something beyond what the average woman can comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:21 AM
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Hahaha only just realized there is a purge going on. I was thinking "wtf is with all the shit posts lately?? Is PPD finally breaking down?" Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:19 AM
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When the entire argument of blue pillers is "This isn't true because I've never seen it before " then it falls too flat to be viable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:24 AM
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Basically this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:22 AM
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Glad this wasn't the case for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:21 AM
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I wish I could perpetually live in the month of October.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:32 PM
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Women pull back on sex hard after pregnancy. Sex is one of the only redeeming qualities of women that make the effort of being a man worth it. Men have needs, so they go elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 03:31 PM
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Nailed it. But essentially you circle back to older men. They want physical, financial, and emotional maturity, which correlates with age. The end result is dating older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:08 AM
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Women like danger and fun though. Is this not common sense? It's not like they want to do the crimes but guys that do often has traits that are more entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:05 AM
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All you're likely missing is a sexually dominant demoneor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:02 AM
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You guys are going to hell lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:58 AM
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It's called advertising the product lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:46 AM
1

How do I delete this video from the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:36 AM
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Boys aren't warned about women being manipulative. That is the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:12 AM
7

The whole men age like fine wine thing always sounded a little gay to me lol. I get what they mean but to be so adamant about it is kinda sus
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:00 AM
1

My ability to feel romance died completely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:18 AM
6

Same, my dad is just as delusional as my mother regarding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:06 AM
2

Men will lie for pussy for sure, but there's no real motive on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:37 PM
2

I can't imagine a reason why men would lie though? What guy has the time to bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:32 PM
0

Again, men should vet. I don't disagree there. But they are never told how or why to vet women. They assume the best of women because they are never warned until it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:17 PM
2

Really? I actually didn't know that. Which ones? Sex drive enables a ton of different performance behaviors. For guys it's like either be a lion or a zombie. There's some frustration to be had at those options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:13 AM
3

Fair point. But your baseline of being alone is still better than the urge that makes men sleepless. If guys could shut it down they would but they are stuck desiring something they cannot have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:02 AM
2

I get my seasonal depression in the summer so for me it seems I would fair it well ahah. Just gotta build up my clientele there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:59 AM
2

I wanna move to Seattle, seems like we have a few PPD users out there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:18 AM
9

The homeless don't understand that getting a home is easy, the rich imperative is getting the perfect home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:17 AM
1

The work it takes to impress chick's like that isn't easy, it goes beyond working out in the gym, it takes game, frame, and a sense of security that isn't broken easily. Most guys just want a girl that's good to them. I would never recommend aiming high for that. The girl we were originally discussing cheated on a Alpha guy, I guess I just looked like the better deal at the time. He broke his frame and she lost respect for him. She "couldn't love him anymore" Life is a bitch but the strategy is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:02 AM
1

It's not really an ego boost. All women are liabilities, they are just more expensive in resources and effort. It's kinda like cars in a way. If you see a guy in a nice BMW or sports car you can admire it but you know he is running a high cost for maintenance. That's how I see it. The type of guys who like expensive things and women were probably egotistical to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:44 AM
1

4 have significant followings, and 3 others aren't famous but associates with famous people like rappers or well off guys. I would say there's a higher floor but lower ceiling for women. Just being pretty can only get you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:28 PM
2

It's funny because I know sex workers in longer relationships than I've ever had lol. You're imposing your values unto others when people are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:59 PM
1

You underestimate the power of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:58 PM
1

Instagram, twitch, YouTube, Tik Tok, etc. Truly it's easy if you are a pretty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:57 PM
1

Meet them organically through a mutual interest or field. Be friends. Tension builds over time. One night you drunk, one person gets a little touchy, the other is receptive. It turns into a frenzy and next thing you know you're fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:45 PM
2

Yes men will still fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:41 PM
6

Men, shaming OF girls is a wack move. They don't care and have no shortage of guys that would take them anyway. The better thing to do is support chicks who do have the values you'd like to see more. Ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:27 PM
1

I'm 6'2 She's not the only semi popular girl I've dated. Idk why but so many of my exes blow up online. I have the magic touch or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:22 PM
2

I know three women personally who resorted to onlyfans. Here's what you guys have to understand about the type of woman who does OF, they are the type of chick's that doesn't give a fuck about what you expect of them. They are the low inhibitions live fast types. If it weren't onlyfans they would be posting thirst traps on Instagram, stripping, or even lite prostitution anyways. And guess what, they ALL have boyfriends cool with it. You PPD guys don't get it that for every guy who shames these w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:07 PM
1

how attractive are you? Relatively attractive, I have a long hit list and over 1k tinder matches so it must mean something. I never really thought I was all that though. and how long did you date her before you realized those negative things about her? We didn't date that long we were only friends for a few years before this all happened. She seemed so innocent and I considered her more like a little sister until she wanted to sleep with me. I rejected her for an entire year but eventually she g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:55 PM
1

do you know approximately how much she made off it? She makes enough to live in a lavish apartment in our city. I'd say at least 40k but I think she might be doing seeking arrangements on the side. how attractive would you say she is and can you say what race she is? She's a 10 if you like young thin white girls who look like nymphs. She kinda looks like Freya Allen from the Witcher. Arguably hotter. also how did you start dating her in the first place? like did you know her before she got succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:12 AM
1

If your boyfriend was fine and turned abusive, is it your fault you didn't vet him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:02 AM
3

I don't know how many subs but she has 70k followers on twitch, somewhere between 300 to 750 a stream. Also with 100k on Instagram She literally just sits there and talks lol. Not even sexual stuff, but guys seem to associate her with a good girl because of it. She's really a cold opportunist that only cares about herself. She cheated on her last boyfriend with me and laughed about him being suicidal and a jealous cuck. The minute she did that I told her to get the F out of my house. She also ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:00 AM
2

The ball is in your court. It depends on what you believe she deserves. You can either half ass the relationship and let it die slowly, go all in, or cut it off now. If I were you I would take a break, not completely cut off contact but knock off the label and the drama it's causing. Perhaps pick back up again in the future but you're too young to stress over such things. However, since you've been together for a year, there might be something there worth fighting for. Depends on how you feel ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:48 AM
2

My ex is a twitch streamer and I always pity those guys who simp for her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:35 AM
2

Women like what benefits them, so if the Intelligence is used to entertain, allocate resources for them, or informative to further their interests they will validate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:32 AM
1

I'm not OP, I only explained why men don't think to in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:28 AM
4

Damn you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:11 AM
6

You have handsome features but these are the most boring photos I've ever seen. Take more photos when you're out having a good time and use those.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:41 PM
6

PSA to PPD Women, you should know not every response to your comments are meant to argue against you. Sometimes statements are meant to build on the discussion, not in effort to make you wrong or men right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:40 PM
1

Our egos gives us the self validation to actually believe whatever narrative we create and impose upon women we like. Have you ever clearly seen a woman not into a dude but he just doesn't get it? His ego gets in the way of seeing the circumstances objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:35 PM
1

This isn't a excuse, it's why men are essentially blue pilled and need to be red pilled. Women have the privilege of being warned about men constantly in their development years, men have to learn the hard way at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:28 PM
1

I don't think there is a fault here, it's just the natural order
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:22 PM
1

I think men should be cautious of women and not let them into their lives without prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:20 PM
4

Perhaps you're Aromantic? The stark difference I notice between MGTOW and normie men is that the regular dudes finds enjoyment in the illusion. Quite literally being blue pilled so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:19 PM
1

Why men shouldn't have vetted better? Because men assume the best of women until they are rudely awakened. Our egos impose an angelic infallible expectation on them that women play into until it's no longer convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:14 PM
2

It was a solid foundation, poor execution. The script was so boring and didn't portray the resistance enough. It was so goofy that it felt like an abridged version of the matrix and not the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:39 AM
2

A home rowing machine is a godsend. Let it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:36 AM
2

I'm pretty happy on the spectrum, normies seem to be torturing themselves over sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:16 AM
2

I fell asleep during it lol, family didn't bother waking me up. The stakes were just if Neo will be able to fuck trinity again. Snooze fest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:19 AM
2

Stop worrying about that, because for every guy like you there are 20 willing to subsidize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:39 AM
3

You're making that assumption. If they wanted to be settled they wouldn't have divorced men at a 70% rate. You still don't understand that they don't care about anyone but themselves. Stop this revenge fantasy. They can still fuck the executives and get access to their lifestyles without having to commit to them, the type of woman who does onlyfans doesn't care about this. This isn't me arguing that they are good, I'm just telling you to get over it and stop worrying about what onlyfans girls ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:53 AM
2

Literally just watched it and I noticed that too lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:44 AM
3

Women dont care about this as much as you think they do. Those girls don't need to be the boring wife's that have all the maternal and social duties, they just wanna be the chick having fun on the side. You're imposing the loss of a future sexual chick's did not want in the first place. Even if it did, every single only fans chick I know has a BF or sugar daddy. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:37 AM
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Women dont need to be executives, they just need to seduce them. They can have their cake and eat it too because men as a class are too horny and desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:20 AM
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I already adopted FDS tactics, all women are low value trash until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:38 AM
3

Idk about 5s lol, but eh, they are okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:48 AM
2

There are 5s here? Who? Unless my irritation threshold is that low
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:10 AM
4

You are a woman, the lesson doesn't apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:09 PM
1

The average blue pilled man falls for it everytime, their ego gets in the way of realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:46 PM
3

I would choose 2 anyday, being tall and attractive has only gotten me close enough to women to understand them too much to actually like them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:36 PM
3

Me thinks there's a lesson here...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:31 PM
1

Cherry mx reds is my type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:27 PM
3

You are delusional if you think only high level gold diggers are doing this, it's fundamental to most women's strategy to hook men with pussy and manipulate through access. It happens across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:24 PM
6

Not that simple, some women are playing the long game by hooking the guy on pussy and then leveraging that for access to more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:52 PM
2

I'm definitely burned out yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:03 AM
1

You've been together nearly as long as I've been alive, and even I don't have the energy for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:33 PM
2

I honestly couldn't even fathom being with the same person 10+ years practically. Especially being so crazy about the person that I would want to continue after that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:14 PM
1

Literally all the words you need for copy: Sophisticated, Proprietary, Modular, Efficient, Effective, World Class, Interoperable, Scalable, Compositional, Ensured.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:09 PM
6

Absolutely, however I'm not of the belief that these personalities are fixed constants. They are subject to change due to experience and environment. I know former Chad's who got their heart broken so bad by women they are basically soulless shells of their former selves. I know former shy guys that completely flipped the switch when they were introduced to steroids and cocaine. The only one that I believe is paramount is low inhibitions, because once you start focusing on outcomes of situations…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:52 PM
6

I'm not gonna bullshit you. In some way you have to compensate if you are dealing with those odds. Luckily, women have a few different desires that one can appeal to
/r/newTRP22/12/21 11:40 PM
1

I see, good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:33 AM
1

Maybe this is my dumb American talking but isn't England an island?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:58 PM
1

Second, the one you're going for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:19 AM
2

I only watch Tim Dillion when he does one with Whitney Cummings because he just roasts her to death lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:03 AM
1

She gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:01 AM
1

I have had all night sessions. Good music and drinks (drugs too) makes the time pass, especially when you're someone who switches things up quite alot. Starting out slow and easing into different phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:59 PM
2

"She might be a bitch but she does have nice handwriting. Anyways NEXT"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:22 PM
2

Hate isn't worth it. You're just letting them win by giving them free mental real estate. Appreciate them when warranted, but ignoring them for the most part is key to your sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:21 PM
10

I was being facetious with the "Go snag you a rich girl". Point is, women can only love a guy that provides them a lifestyle beyond what they are capable of without them. To expect otherwise is setting yourself up for a failed marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:58 PM
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I just don't think you're qualified to give Men advice of who to date because you do it from the lens of a woman. That's not how we interface with life. It's a much different experience. We can't just "go snag us a rich woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:37 PM
1

No. But I don't think in a positive or negative way, just an objective one. Most women just wanna fuck me tbh so it would be nice to hear that for once lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:28 PM
10

"Earning enough" is just the arbitrary cost of what standard of living the woman wants. You either make enough for that or she leaves to fuck the guy that will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:26 PM
1

Absolutely. Went on a camping trip once and met the girl of my dreams. We had perfect chemistry and just could not stop talking to each other. It was so romantic that our friends teased us while we played it off not knowing what they were talking about. The issue was we both went there with other people as seperate couples. She had her FWB and I had my FWB. We did have a secret short kiss, but that was it. Because we didn't want to ruin the trip or our friendships with the others. It was just ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:24 PM
1

Girl next door vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:12 PM
1

It's the end of the world, people wanna get wild
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:10 PM
1

Filtering is why I'm successful on tinder. I swipe within my league on women where our lives could compliment each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:09 PM
11

get a woman who earns the same as or more than you. Have you ever heard of this female mechanism called hypergamy? That's literally what makes dude uncompatible with them. "Money issues" were the top initiator of divorce, so that would be decreasing your chance of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:51 PM
1

Women pressure guys to marry them, the only thing they don't do is literally pop the question. But there are plenty of external reasons to say no despite how "perfect" she is. I'm a skeptic and pragmatist, I would not be convinced we should get married just because a woman is in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:45 PM
2

All of those issues you listed are the responsibility of the individual woman based on her choices. That's not even to be mean, the responsibility is on women to lure in the type of guy they want and reject the others. Mother nature doesn't care what perfection you want, she puts options on the table and you can either take it or leave it. If a dude sat here and told you "all the women I dated were crazy or liars" there would be a ton of women here telling him to take accountability because if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:31 PM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:51 AM
0

Middle school, can't remember the exact age you are then but maybe 15? I lost it to a slightly older girl who I was into, but for her I was just a fling until she moved upstate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:10 AM
8

TRP deals in more absolutes because they are fundamentally consistent vs arbitrarily calling people red flags with no basis but immediate subjective interpretation. Funniest thing I read in FDS was complaining about men not going to therapy and leaning on women for emotional labor, but then in the comments they were also naming men who do go to therapy or got outside emotional support as equally low value. Hilarious. Which side do you think holds more appeal for bitter people, not anger phase bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:36 PM
3

I'm talking about the potential of now. He could have extreme confidence, be a secret millionaire, or have a massive dong etc. We don't know that. You might ask "well what about how he stacks up against other men?" Or "looks alone rating?" But that's so arbitrary and useless because with women they select on what you do for them. It's an experience thing beyond just looks. Hypothetically, you could have a 10 pretty boy stacked up to this guy and he could still have a chance at beating the pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:03 PM
2

Do you want me to do a long breakdown? The short of it is that because he's not unreasonably ugly he can compensate in other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:45 PM
3

You are rating surface level looks, I'm rating on potential to get A woman. 6 to 8 He's working with a base level of attractiveness (6 minimum imo) that paired with contributing factors game, finances, race, masculinity his rating could turn up. Women adjust these cumulative aspects into a overall score. It doesn't mean he could bag 60 to 80 percent of women, or that he has a 60 to 80 percent chance at every particular woman. It means that he has a higher degree of likelihood to find someone (an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:59 PM
2

Good enough to pull a woman at least. Depending on his game, and finances he's at least 6 to 8 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:10 PM
5

You've gotta give up on logical and moral consistency coming from the female social matrix. They don't care about men as a collective, they care about themselves. At best they are apathetic and at worst they consider men trash. Everything women do makes much more sense when you consider their perspective of "what's best for me?" as their motivation. They will say anything, (even if they contradict themselves) to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:17 AM
1

That doesn't change much. Not to put myself on a watch list or something but let's say I know when my suffering will end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:29 PM
3

Humanity is suffering because of our evolutionary design, not because I didn't get the toy I wanted on Christmas. We are chaotic monsters to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:38 PM
0

"Values intelligence and critical thinking" also "liberal" lmao I'm interested, not sold beyond 8 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:17 PM
2

Absolutely. This goes for some parents as well. Sometimes it's genuinely better not to put children through knowing some family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:13 PM
2

It doesn't matter if I want kids because I'm not willing to bring life in this world to suffer through humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:11 PM
1

Women are actually doing this less than they used to. Before most of them had to put up that illusion to snare men into behaving, now alot of them are super honest without hiding it. They expose themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:10 PM
4

One of men's greatest flaws is our binary mindset towards things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:01 PM
2

Society doesn't typically think as far as we do, people are too preoccupied or unconcerned to delve into patterns of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:58 PM
1

Perhaps the gender with the imperative to be feminine is.... feminine! "Shocker"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:57 PM
1

Most women are insufferable, if men are going to put up with one she at least has to be hot enough. Unless you wanna idk....contribute to the relationship in various ways but when will women ever get that idea. All they think they have to do is be pretty so the prettiest ones wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:53 PM
2

Is this the answer? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:37 PM
2

I'm a clit flicker and all, but here's what I don't understand. If I'm the one thrusting, carrying, pounding, staging all the momentum and passion. Why can't you be responsible for flicking your own clit especially since it's on the outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:36 PM
10

What is with these LVM actually having self respect these days? Men are so trash
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:28 AM
2

Your value as a person isn't indicative of your compatibility with another person. Chemistry matters, and some forced relationships can be worse than being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:20 AM
1

No, if you're incompatible you're just incompatible. The desperation to settle should not come before the individuals happiness. There's nothing inherently personal about either unless the person claims it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:17 AM
5

Do you not see the problem with this logic. If you don't want to "try" beyond looking pretty all you will be valued for is looks. You're basically desiring just being used for sex if you don't appeal to anything beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:58 AM
2

This is half baked with alot of missing parts to reach the conclusion. What you described is men being socialized to value masculinity over femininity in their behaviors, which doesn't inherently mean that the behavioral response to that is "hate". Femininity is actually appreciated more by men since it's the gateway to their arousal. Men don't size up women in the room thinking about fighting them if they have to. Men can look around and appreciate how pretty the girls look. But with other men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:51 AM
2

Did you read the question? It's asking which would be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:52 AM
2

Try RE4, skyrim, and TWD saints and sinners. Really great games
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:06 AM
3

This is what love truly is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:58 AM
4

He’s 26 and already divorced His ex wife cheated and took his first house. He's starting back from nothing but he didn't let it phase him. Let’s his heart lead the way seems like he’d be easily manipulated Welcome to being a blue pilled man lol. It's literally giving women the benefit of doubt until they cross the bitch tolerance threshold. She’s an ex-lesbian who hated men until meeting this guy She's a tatted up goth who is rebellious against many social norms. Pretty sure she only claimed tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:12 AM
1

Wait what are the red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:02 AM
3

Update on my weird friends that were crushing on each other. We caught them fucking in a shed and they've made it official. The guy is 26 and already went through a pretty bad divorce. I'm happy he's happy because he the type of guy who is super thoughtful and let's his heart lead his actions. The chick actually used to be lesbian and hated men until we introduced them, so she's gaining a better outlook on Men. She is happy too and I'm glad they are growing together. Hoping this relationship mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:42 AM
6

Men are success objects, they are only valued for their capacity to entertain women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:37 AM
6

So being a guy would be a nightmare for you huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:33 PM
1

She was a anal girl lol, but unfortunately also a cheating nymphomaniac
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:22 AM
1

When she approached me about it, she lied to me about leaving her boyfriend when she was with him the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:10 AM
2

Sure. One of my biggest regrets was getting sexually involved with a girl best friend of mine because it showed me a side of her I didn't like. If I would have never gotten involved with her we'd still be great friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:19 AM
2

Are you a masculine guy? Perhaps if you aren't peacocking enough they are wondering why you aren't acting out to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:16 AM
2

Respect. I've been meaning to for the longest but I can't get ahold of one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:27 PM
4

There are bluepill social bubbles but most women are like that whether they know it or not. The better strategy would be to find a non neurotypical girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:25 PM
3

Why do people ask you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:23 PM
3

"What's the danger when daddy will pay for whatever I need? I just wanna have fun!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:58 AM
1

Masculinity isn't unique to men, and is a pretty broad force of nature. It isn't simply "manlyness", it's the positive charge, Ying to the yang, action over reaction, domination over submission, etc. The instinct drives behaviors, like fighting over a girl lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:38 AM
1

This was in the context of sex being one of men's only acceptable forms of intimacy. They aren't willing to ruin their perception by desiring other emotional connections that you described in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:27 AM
3

If you make a woman orgasm enough I guarantee you she'll be down for whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:10 AM
2

You're missing the forest for the trees. It's more complex than that, but masculinity does tend to trigger female arousal. The lack thereof turns them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:03 AM
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Role playing to trigger female arousal = masculinity It's not usually role-playing but sometimes. Guys are typically pretty chill until there is a woman in the room to fight over lol. Is that fair? Nothing is fair. But men don't start out this way, society and instincts conditions us to be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:44 AM
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It's willpower to overcome obstacles and domination in his domain. Like "backbone" or "frame". There is a "ick" reaction that is often triggered by needing outside intimacy that could shatter the illusion of his dominance. For example,a man asking to be the little spoon while cuddling risks sacrificing the "mood" that makes a woman down for some brutal enthusiastic fucking. Men could desire other forms of intimacy, and usually do so subconsciously with bro hugs or unnecessarily long conversation…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:34 AM
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Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:53 PM
2

I think it makes it easier for less attractive people to actually settle for someone instead of waiting for perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:52 PM
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I can appreciate it, but when it's too overdone it doesn't feel like I'm talking to a authentic girl but a cosplay of someone prettier. Usually they do it for certain looks and I get that, but I prefer more natural methods like good skin and hair care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:48 PM
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There aren't many other things men can "value" without undermining his masculinity and seeming like they want a second mommy. It's not just the ego, sex is one of the only acceptable outlets for guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:42 PM
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It's still going to happen regardless, now it will be done in seclusion with no public oversight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:02 AM
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As a American, I'm not for banning things we can regulate and tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:28 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:31 AM
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It would depend on why, but 24 is just when a guy is coming into his better years so the chances often increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:34 AM
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The attractive ones who know where the upper class guys get weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:11 AM
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Is this all you have to do to qualify as gigachad? Any reasonably handsome sports player can pull this off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:46 PM
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It makes me feel ill revisiting those old texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:39 PM
3

I thought it was just me, most women have been super open about experiences with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:54 AM
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I feel more confident than when I had no experience. I enjoy the certainty of knowing game but ultimately bittersweet knowing why it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:24 AM
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Anal is overrated. I'm pro pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:54 PM
2

Damn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:43 PM
2

I think it's actually better when women are economically honest because you don't have to waste any time/money dating them if you dont size up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:50 AM
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Most women are a little bi, so not really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:57 AM
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What are they gonna do, kill a bag of doritos? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:52 AM
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I dated a girl who pegged her cuck ex boyfriend and I wanted none of that. It didn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:12 AM
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Men like that lack inhibitions that deter the "good guys" away from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:38 PM
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I didn't think so either, until I realized how "low effort" it was in comparison to the other offers the women I talked to recieved. While there's nothing "wrong" with it, I wouldn't broadcast it as a coffee date, it's probably better to go out and get coffee while you're spending time together than to make it a highlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:22 PM
2

Complaining is pointless indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:47 AM
5

Although my heart is cold and dead, seeing my two weirdo friends crushing on each other is so cute and fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:38 AM
1

Green flag for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:36 AM
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That is the power of femininity, they are pretty much designed to act the way they do through evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:23 AM
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Two people are complaining about hunger, one has nothing on his plate, and the other has a feast in front of her but is too picky to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:21 AM
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Depends on the plushies. Totally gonna judge her by what she picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:13 AM
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I'm gonna go ahead and assume you aren't moving goal posts maliciously. If I dated a cheater, I assume the risk that comes with dating a person like that. If they cheat on me, I have no one to blame but myself for inserting myself in the situation. At some point, women have to take responsibility for the choices they make in life. And as the more risk averse gender, they are even more capable of ascertaining what they are getting themselves into. I'm not saying that it's always women's fault, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:34 AM
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It's attack of the clones out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:12 AM
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What the fuck did I just read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:10 AM
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Men choose who they compete for. Even if you aren't aware of a woman's options, she always has them. And her attention gravitates to who's the most capable of keeping her happy. Loving a man is just subscribing to the lifestyle he provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:08 AM
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Now you understand haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:04 AM
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I feel asexual and mostly it's because I get irritated by women and revolted by men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:03 AM
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If women want to be picky why complain about the very men they choose? What you say makes sense but in reality they choose dangerous guys for sex and then misfortunes happens to them. It is completely their fault when they have so many options in life and choose paths that lead them into those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:00 AM
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My only recommendation is to not take women seriously, all else is up to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:39 AM
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I don't advise guys to bother with women at all actually. I just know that they will because horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:46 PM
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Indeed. They don't monkey branch until they have the other one firmly in their grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:22 PM
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It's a feminine mindset that isn't exclusive to women. Attracting options to oneself via seductive means and leveraging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:57 PM
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"How dare men actually have needs, they should be unemotional worker drones for us" -Women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:11 PM
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Oh no, throwing dishes into a dish washer and pressing a button. Throwing clothing into a washer and pressing a button. Putting a roomba on the ground and pressing a button. The agony. Save these women from all this labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:06 PM
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To dance for them(provide a lifestyle beyond what they can do alone), all you have to do is lie to it about loving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:37 AM
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Denying the one thing they do offer in relationships erodes the chances for men to value the relationship at all anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:32 AM
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Turns out when you don't care about the monkey, only how it dances for you, the monkey doesn't have anything to bond to. Everybody has bananas(sex), what else do you do for the monkey to wanna stick around? Most women float on the fact that men like sex and become insufferable in every other aspect. The type of guy that qualifies for them, qualifies for most women but they still feel too entitled to do anything beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:24 AM
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A world of attitude and entitlements maybe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:40 PM
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The argument is that love can overcome our biological instincts. Sometimes it's true, inevitably it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:37 PM
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It's not necessarily women's fault on this, it's that for every guy that wants to be treated like a human being there are 25 clones of him that would happily simp. It's our competition that makes it adjust for their low effort plus high leverage. We create these conditions, they just take advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:29 PM
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It's unconscious polygamy. A handful of guys are running through a gauntlets of undateable and unsufferable women. They date, fuck, he moves on when she becomes too much to handle. The cycle repeats. The other chunk is the guys who barely even get a chance to date one of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:59 AM
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The lesson here is that when women say they want a nice guy, they mean they need a man that is nice to them. It doesn't matter if the guy is morally righteous or not, it's about his actions being in her favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:56 AM
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Your values are respectable, but understand that people will likely take advantage of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:46 AM
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It's interesting how you interpret liking someone as manipulation. Guys fall under women's spell of intrigue, mystique, and beauty, but never call this manipulation. But when it's a women feeling that for a man, it's called negging. Sounds more like demonizing the fact that you don't have access to the amount of attention and affection you feel entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:42 AM
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Here's the lesson fellas, never be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:12 AM
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Because that's the power of femininity. It's like a dude being able to bench 350. They have maximized their potential in the female domain to literally have man slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:10 AM
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Typically it's for the women more than it's for me. I have alot going on for myself which signals that I'm a mark. But I've dated alot already, I understand women enough to know it isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:03 AM
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I have tried that one, they don't care. I even go as far as to say "I hate women" and they just laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:42 AM
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It doesn't matter what Kay did because she ended up abandoning him. That's why he detested her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:55 PM
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It's funny when women figure out I'm single they try to pimp me out to their single friends, the concept of me not wanting them is mind boggling to them. I try saying "I can't afford one" or "trust me, you want nothing to do with me" but it flies over their heads. The common thing they all say is "come on take a risk" It's scary how they all say that. Because they know how risky it is dealing with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:15 PM
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Well yeah looks are valued but what woman is going to do anything for anyone else? It wasn't like he passed up on a Italian chick that wanted to be so complimentary to his life. Women stand around and wait for dudes to approach, she looked good but had family values that looked promising, so instead of standing around he made a bet on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:38 PM
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I don't even account their makeup game in their overall attractiveness rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:21 PM
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Exploitation that is disguised as love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:59 PM
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In my experience, there's no correlation. Seemingly innocent women turn into freaks in the bedroom, and many sluts are just hot starfishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:54 PM
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He saw potential in her values. Men assume women are good by default
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:52 PM
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Women will do all of this but can't be bothered to send a text
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:50 PM
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The men that have those followings were happy until the rug got pulled underneath them. If you have any ounce of awareness, you realize that the majority of women will fuck you over at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:49 PM
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Good for you. Many women don't have the same mindset towards being sexually proactive for their partner. I don't know how to explain what it's like to have testosterone to you, but guys are pretty horny. They typically work to sustain sexual relationships, as opposed to how women might use it for avoidance. Men get through most of their work thinking about how they are going to fuck their girl afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:23 PM
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Exposure through experience can be foundational for socialization, but also provide the experiences that make you red pill in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:40 AM
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Mindset is half the battle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:31 AM
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Destruction 100
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:40 PM
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Are you serious? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:40 PM
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Thank you for the common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:38 PM
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I have talked to countless women who were unsatisfied in their marriage. They believe they are entitled to something their husband won't give them, difference is, before they were able to just date another guy who will, but they essentially feel prisoner to a lifestyle they no longer want. Hence the countless divorces that follow. Personally, I am apathetic. Much better than resentment or hate. Women are just women, they want the maximum happiness and comfort and are willing to manipulate or eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:33 PM
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Not my call to make. But guys who like women enough to actually want a relationship with one have overwhelming desires to be intimate, otherwise the relationship wouldn't ever be worth it. Working alot denies him of that need, so they seek satisfaction elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:38 PM
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Looks like a one sided relationship, why would I bet half my stuff that she could keep me happy when she barely does anything in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:29 PM
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Are you really expecting logical consistency? Lol have you learned nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:25 PM
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Underrated reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:23 PM
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In my demon days, it was more like "I'm fucking this other chick too, you can stay or leave"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:18 PM
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I give up bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:15 PM
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Go in and hold up her hair or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:14 PM
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They don't have to, it's a mode of thinking enables them to take little risk and harvest benefit. Assuming any guy who doesn't perform actions for them are bad allows them to justify their own inaction. And since there are other men who are willing to cross boundaries only confirms their bias. The guy could care, but it doesn't serve them purpose unless they sacrifice to show it. Otherwise male attention is meaningless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:12 PM
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Women who are concentrating on work won't be as capable of sexually fulfilling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:58 PM
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This is a good argument. Just because men allow women to treat them worse it doesn't make men more empathetic, just more pathetic actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:45 AM
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Sensitive is what I like to call it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:36 AM
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As are they. That is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:26 AM
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When is it complaining and when is it acknowledging the truth? Are you not just complaining about complainers? Is that not just as nonsensical? Why not just go your own way and stop reading? Go outside and get a life. Or maybe you are capable of both having discussion and having a life. If that's the case than you might be more similar to men interested in the subject than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:10 AM
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Why do women have issue with men acknowledging the truth? Why not leave us alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:50 AM
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In a world where women were also expected to fulfill their traditional roles, his would apply. The issue is that women no longer want to, so now men don't know if the juice is worth squeezing unless women demonstrate that it is, which takes effort on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:51 AM
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I only consider it incest when there is a literal sexual relationship. I would label your examples as incestuous but not literal incest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:19 AM
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Overall, I meant the barrier here is the threshold of definitions. You don't have to literally commit incest to have actions considered to be incestuous. But everyone has different scales in which the terms apply. Your scale is lower than the person you are responding to. So the friction is only where the lines are drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:04 AM
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Women only love men that provide them a lifestyle they are incapable of doing alone. Even if you weren't like that, men can't operate on faith that you will love them inherently. That "Feeling needed" is the security aspect that creating a connection is a reasonable bet that investing in you makes sense for both parties. You could perceive that as a feeling of inadequacy, but as a guy you don't make it past high school without realizing that women only stick around the dudes they can get somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:57 PM
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I mean this is really just a language barrier. I would even say kissing your family member on the mouth is a little incestuous but for other people it's normalized intimacy. It's kinda like the difference between "rapey" and literal rape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:40 PM
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Either you look a little butch or like you would be a kinky sexual person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:38 PM
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Was the conversation in person or here on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:08 PM
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I feel like intimidating is horrible but common way to describe it. It's more "unapproachable" or "off putting" vs women's common feminine types
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:07 PM
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Sure. I have seen her irl when she wasn't playing and I thought she was beautiful. Not model tier, more athletic pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:04 PM
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I bought a shit ton of games I'll never have the time to play lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:02 PM
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I think alot of black guys will idealize white women with the false perception that they are any different than black women at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:01 PM
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I never fought my exes because I knew it was pointless to deny them of something they wanted, if I didn't give them something, someone else will. But usually for me they will pretend nothing ever happened and expect me to role play chase them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:59 PM
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Come on, who really said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:55 PM
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Women here are more unconventional and fringe than they realize. There are things women say here that immediately demonstrates that they deviate from the average one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:54 PM
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It doesn't seem like intimidation to me, it's just that higher standards women are just more expensive liabilities to take on. I don't feel intimidated by a McLaren, I just know I don't want to do the things required to afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:38 PM
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I think you missed the point but feel free to disagree. Only women can prove men wrong on that, and so far most haven't seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:18 PM
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The difference is men would love regardless. Hence OPs point and the many other examples
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:18 PM
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The threshold for that is arbitrary to how you feel at the time. It only makes the point clearer that it's better to be as far away from being infatilized as possible for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:52 PM
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Their definition of love is just different than man's. They can't comprehend what men mean by it, for them it's a reactionary appreciation for what men do for them. For us, it's when our wellbeing is attached to their wellbeing. Both are being honest when they say they "love" but they perceive it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:50 PM
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Um okay, still pretty weird tho but yeehaw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:32 PM
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There's a pattern like that with most women, they get guys addicted to pussy then use it as leverage for the man to work for her validation. Once she knows he's on the leash, it's inevitable for her to dry up for the guy to chase more for less intimacy. The cycle is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:26 PM
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Women aren't men. Their nurture drive kicks in and shutdowns their sex drive. It's labor mode or excitement mode and they don't associate sex with being a mommy to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:21 PM
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Daughters will think the behavior is okay and attribute less value to their bodies. Son's will think the behavior is okay and treat women as if that's all the value they have. The cycle will continue as their mindsets influence others, until we slowly degenerate from our old values into hedonism. Enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:19 AM
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Eh not really, it's a tradeoff I guess. But I think we can manage to overcome it if there is an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:20 AM
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They exist for sure. I have had situations ever since middle school where older women were attracted. But usually it's on a sexual basis only. I wanna marry a mature chick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:55 AM
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This is your subjective opinion, although it's a valid one. I like the 25 through 35 range myself. But for most girls their volume of fascinated suitors peak at that range, youth, low inhibitions, and lower baggage makes them optimal choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:35 AM
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Get ready for nonstop Christmas music everywhere you go....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:32 AM
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Same, if only older women were into younger guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:31 AM
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When I smoke weed for the first time after a long break my emotional stimuli reactivates and I feel shame for being as cold as I am when I'm sober. I don't hate myself, but I don't necessarily like how I respond to things in hindsight. I just get irritable and calculating but weed mellows me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:02 AM
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Because it's pointless. I've been messaged multiple times about not wasting effort on PPD. Many people aren't debating in good faith and aren't equipped for logical objective discourse. When "I don't know any woman that has ever done a bad thing" becomes the main argument against everything it turns from debating TRP to devolving it through invalidating any criticism at women's emotional expense. If we are going to pretend the world is perfect and women are wonderful you can go literally anywher…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:56 PM
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When I read posts like this, the only thing I think is that you are taking this way too seriously. Take a break. The sky isn't falling. This place is to debate patterns of behavior, nothing is set in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 08:31 AM
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Think of a man, then remove all accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 08:28 AM
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Precisely. When women say they can handle vulnerability they don't realize it's only within a certain threshold. It's actually too risky to trust them with that if you need to maintain the relationship. Once you turn her off, there's no coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:44 AM
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6 could be better but I'm past the threshold of content. I'm a traditionally masculine guy for myself. I don't have much of an ego or feel entitled to anything in this world. I came from a really bad background and made the best of it. Still working on achieving more, and considering the legacy I leave behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:34 AM
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If you're miserable taking care of yourself you aren't going to be capable of taking care of another person. You need to maximize the joy in your life and then it will significantly improve your chances that a woman will want to spend it with you. Be kind to yourself, take care of your body, have fun, most importantly, love yourself. The women will come and go either way, but focusing on living your best life is the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:23 AM
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Maybe pick a roommate that's also one of your friends?
/r/MensRights22/11/21 07:57 AM
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It's definitely a common thing. The majority of my exes parents were like that. I remember it snowed really bad one valentines day and they let me stay over in their guest room. But I accidentally fell asleep in my gfs bed anyway. The next morning we made them breakfast in bed and took them out to eat that night just so they would let me continue to see her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:59 AM
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In my opinion, the substitutes are better for women because they mitigate incentive to be deceitful about intentions. When you create these alternatives, it might decrease the volume of suitors but increase the quality of men and chances they are looking to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:54 AM
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They say they want a friend but how good of a friend are you being to the guys you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:22 PM
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Men having actual needs? Blasphemy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:12 PM
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Depends on when you're asking her out. Asking out on a date implies sexual potential so it creates pressure on their sensitive minds. So that's why you ease into it by being friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:28 PM
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You'd be surprised how depressed guys can become emotional dependents in relationships. I was making the point that there are male correlated ones too. Where they have no direction and every little thing needs reassurance. Very similar to the examples you provided. "Whiny bitch" is a universal term for a reason lol. Secondary to that was that because men want it more, they don't perceive these issues with the constant reassurance and nagging as a dealbreaker for the bond. I wouldn't put up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:10 PM
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It's better to just get over the teases for this than to convince others that romanticizing a specific alternative race shouldn't be criticized. Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:34 PM
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Haunng haunng haunng
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:32 PM
2

It means start a connection without trying to fuck her immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:30 PM
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It is annoying, but there are guys like that too. Not to harp on the #menbadtoo bandwagon but when women were venting and ready to jump ship on their relationships its that alot of the time they had a depressed boyfriend who was unsatisfying to them. It made their cheating and monkeybranching seem much more calculated and logical because it was apparent that they felt drained needing to emotionally support them. I agree that it's common for women, but it's just that men are willing to put up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:28 PM
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I could never fit into a miata but that sounds pretty sick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:08 AM
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Attraction and sex are both validating. Guys don't literally need it, but feeling the stimulation and attention of intimacy is fulfilling for them emotionally. It's actually one of our only emotional outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:53 AM
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Exactly, it's exhausting dealing with this unslaught of people who misrepresent it then ask us to debate them on a nonsense foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:24 PM
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Preferences: "What are my favorite traits" Requirements: "What would be a dealbreaker?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:48 AM
0

Men evolved to be concerned with masculinity, not femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:45 AM
4

When looks are so effective at motivating men to date them they don't need to improve their personalities. If men actually had standards in those regards and stop thinking with their dicks for 5 minutes they would realize that. But they didn't evolve to be better people, most can get by with keeping their weight in check and their hair done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:44 AM
2

It easy to find anyone compatible on paper, fucking and making loose commitments is very simple. The complexities are in the details, why aren't relationships working? Why are women divorcing men? Is it worth it to still value LTRs or is it only a farce today? Simple platitudes don't provide good analysis on the topics. If it were easy, there wouldn't really be a red pill and we'd all live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:39 AM
2

Do you see a future for Kim K and Pete D? Or is this a publicity stunt or a mid life crisis fad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:56 PM
1

Men still wanna fuck though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:49 PM
2

Yes, it's a gratification issue. Good relationships are built, and take work when adversities come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:06 AM
1

Women dont like to see the process required to become a man, they just want the finished product. Hence, waiting at the finishline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:03 AM
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Some people don't care about this as much as you seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:51 AM
3

Tbh sex is the major motivator for most men, there are other things too but it's the strongest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:10 PM
3

This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:54 PM
1

riiiight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:53 PM
4

Women sexualize us doing basic tasks. A guy will drill down a frame or change a tire and they will post it on their Instagram with heart eyes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:52 PM
2

Put a red pill tag on that advice and all of a sudden it becomes hatespeech lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:21 PM
2

It's safer to assume there is always competition, but usually it's them waiting on the guy to take charge on whatever vision he wants to experience with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:18 PM
1

Show them. Exposure to healthy connections and stable bonds might spark their desire for that type of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:12 PM
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Go to the sidebar of r/TheRedPill for many of the foundational works towards enlightenment on female nature. If I were to recommend a film, it would be The Red Pill, where a woman goes in depth about understanding where the truth applies in people's lives. Even more controversial, what would TRP men suggest to a mere woman in terms of understanding their ideology? All in all, what needs to be understood about the Red Pill is that because guys start out with a overomaticized perspective towards w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:07 PM
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These points make more sense when you look it objectively rather than personally. Nobody is telling you that YOU will trade in your man once you get a better option, they are saying that women overall demonstrated that they are likely to eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:10 PM
1

I think the issue is that men overpedestalize most women to a unrealistic degree, while women let men believe that fairytale for their benefit. Men are then at women's mercy to either preserve that bluepill view towards women or have it shattered by reality. Unfortunately, it's actually not necessarily women's fault that men become disillusioned and therefore disappointed. It's up to us to inform each other, hence TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:49 PM
0

Men do the work while they just control Men. We are psychological slaves to them and they've tactfully created a worldview that we are the ones in power for assuming responsibility for tasks to keep them comfortable. It's smarter in the context of control. Men are exploited by women overall but they are capable or warping our perception via the feminine. Let men work and fight to death for their approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:16 PM
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Women are the smart ones, Men's ego gets in the way of making them realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:11 PM
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Depends on if she's using it to make things more interesting. But usually yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:17 AM
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I know two former guys who did it and they had girlfriends before and after. I never really expected it because they seemed overly masculine before but now they changed. Whatever makes them happy I guess but I don't think it was about getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:07 AM
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Cats, wine, people fucking off and leaving me alone? Sounds lovely to me and I'm a dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:25 PM
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The reason I come here is because we quite literally live in intersexual matrix we pretend doesn't exist. TRP is a place free of the social norms where you can at least analyze what is going on around you, instead of being a one dimensional normie. The amount of BP guys that I see suffering in different ways just for women's attention boggles my mind. Guys that are basically cucks, guys that are chasing women that don't give a shit about them, guys who are on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th divorce rape and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:17 AM
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"Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:26 PM
1

Perhaps I don't even like women? I have dated literally all kinds and none of them were good enough to put up with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:03 PM
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Hey! some of us can talk about epistemological topics AND anime/gaming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:02 PM
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It made me realize I was a better catch than I had realized.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:59 PM
2

Interesting you say this because women fucked me when I didn't give a shit about them and automatically dried up when I started to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:52 PM
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Women can't seem to lie in person, alot of women here will bullshit you all day. In person women will tell you they are bored of nice guys, cheat on their bfs, talk about monkey branching for a better guy, talk about the alphas they crave and the Betas they are spinning. Most women's actions are very FDS oriented, whether they know it or not. But it's also the same as PPD women because they create narratives in their heads to absolve themselves from any accountability of their actions. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:46 PM
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Women dont incentivize this behavior and basically train men not to be this way by fucking colder men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:08 AM
2

Looks 8 Success 8 Status 9 Social skills 10 Finance 6
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:22 PM
2

Story of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:42 PM
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Lying, cheating, manipulations, and mostly because I gave way more than I ever got back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:41 PM
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There is a distinction between Red pill tactics and Black pill 'doomerism'. Please don't conflate them with each other. There's more black pillers out there because love isn't strong enough to sustain relationships. There is a inverse correlation between the rising of technology/infrastructure and the decline of relationships. When women don't have to leverage their femininity for survival, they stop pretending to like men. Women will tell men time and time again that they never liked the old wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:28 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate this. I'm sure you're great aswell. I was a bit of a tryhard on everything, but now I'm self respecting enough not to give that to just anyone. I'll keep this in mind for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:23 PM
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I don't really care unless they try to make me, I'll forget about it again eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:08 PM
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The audacity is really astonishing, I can't even believe that would even try after some of the stuff I was put through. That lack of self awareness is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:06 PM
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Whenever I get these fall/winter texts from my exes I wish there were a easier way of replying "Hey I know it's 'cuffing season' and you might have heard that I'm making more money so you're pretending to have missed me and actually care about someone other than yourself for once, but don't bother wasting your time with this show you're putting on. You're better off tricking the dozens of other guys you're texting this same act to. The sex we had wasn't worth the amount of effort that I put into…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:50 PM
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Women have always though this way. There is nothing new under the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:07 PM
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Finn makes me confused lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:06 PM
1

What is your relationship with your mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:05 PM
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The thing about users and manipulative women is that most guys are too blind to see through it. Understanding how they do this won't help you cherish them. You either love them or understand them but you can't do both. I recommend getting off PPD if you want to value marriage and Relationships. Take the Blue pill and stay in wonderland. If you're experiencing a life where it isn't clear to you, enjoy it as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:04 PM
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I can Typically tell when they are at least open minded
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:59 PM
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I don’t agree with it at all but understand why they do it We need more comments like this from women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:47 PM
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This is what Calhoun spoke about during the rat utopia experiment. He concluded that the parallel to humans was that we require identity within our society, to be recognized as a vital part of the societies function for survival. Not only for a sense of personal purpose, but for the greater group to appreciate. Where everyone has value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:13 PM
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I absolutely agree, exceptionally stated. Too many men think, "it sucks that I have to jump through this many hoops." But it's not about whether you do it or not, it's that you'll lose your prospect to someone willing to do more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:07 PM
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Women are not meant to be understood. Men would be better off limiting their exposure to them and listen to them less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:03 PM
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At the end of the day, it's men's fault for projecting a romantic and idealistic pedestal unto women. Women let men think like this at their benefit, but they aren't the angels men think they are. Just because that innocent looking girl is doing coke and getting spitroasted by the gymrats on Friday night doesn't mean she's a horrible person. It just means more men have to look at them objectively and not as beings to fulfill whatever role we impose upon women in our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:59 PM
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Women aren't like men, there's no logical formula to their thoughts and actions. There's only how they emotionally feel at the time, and other women to charge that emotion. They can date genuinely bad guys but if they are looking for positive reinforcement their friends give it to them. They can be dating good guys but if they already decided it's too boring their friends will feed into that decision with negative reinforcement. There isn't logical consistency, only the charge they are looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:35 PM
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"Ask no questions and I will tell no lies" should be stickied on every woman's forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:29 PM
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I agree that it's rare for women to have evil intentions, but the effect of their subconscious nature can be devastating to men that get in their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:27 PM
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No. Getting over my arguably 10 ex I had sex with a bigger less attractive woman. Our sex was a hundred times better and we’d fuck all night. It was way more comfortable than sleeping with a girl who was pretty on the outside but hollow on the inside. I would say it’s possible for most guys to sexuality most women. Especially when you through drugs and alcohol in the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:12 PM
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So many Pennsylvania ppd people, why is this a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:01 PM
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This is what most relationships are at a subconscious level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:59 PM
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It’s pointless wasting your time complaining, being a man is doing something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:44 PM
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If you want your GF to be sexually submissive, whining to her about other men isn’t going to trigger her tingles. Being a masculine man and dominating her sets the precedent that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:41 PM
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No. If anything women aren’t hot enough overall to seduce men into chasing them, mating, and impregnating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:38 PM
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Its not about comparing yourself with others. It’s about being the person that deserves to be treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:35 PM
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This is meaningless to women because it doesn’t matter whether you want them, they are focused on the guys who do. Men care about women’s insecurities, women are turned off by that in men. Having that type of hangup is worse for the individual man than anyone else. There will always be better men than you. The effective thing to concern yourself with is creating the conditions where you get the best sex out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:27 PM
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600$
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:11 PM
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It varies between business/finance consulting and IT housecalls. If you want something remote I’d recommend social media management or sales for a company you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:11 PM
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It’s underrated for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:22 PM
2

Sometimes those kinds of friendships turn out to be even better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:19 PM
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Paid off my bills until next year, just got a PS5, 2 cases of beer, weed, stocked refrigerator, and a fat paycheck coming in from my last contract on the way. Kicking back for the spooky weekend. Bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:12 PM
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This also
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:34 PM
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I think this advice is more about the girl in question than the actual men. Women hate rejection because it doesn’t just mean he won’t have sex with you, it’s a punch to their feminine capabilities and leaves them feeling unwanted/ugly. Since they operate on the fact that men are uncontrollable horndogs, being rejected leaves them insecure and worse off than it would’ve been just waiting for the guy to initiate. This is a parallel to the female advice “Get a man who cares more about you than you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:49 PM
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I typically see women doing this. Giving passes to alphas while eviscerating betas with alimony and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:48 AM
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It’s because they have vested interest to be dishonest to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:53 PM
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I’m not that deep in the lore to know what you’re referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:10 AM
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Dean is the man!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:13 PM
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Harley Quinn in any adaptation. I like the idea of her, a woman who will stop at nothing to see a vision made. The way she feels about Joker and what she actively does to demonstrate that allegiance is very attractive. She’s crazy but my kind of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:11 PM
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Women will not perceive this as easier because they are designed to keep looking upwards for more. There is no point of satisfaction for them. I would say it's easier for men to be satisfied with dating because it really takes the bare minimum for us to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:12 AM
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Lol fuck off bro 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:38 PM
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Good women are just as rare these days as good men. Last night, my old friend group was going on about my extensive "hit list". Some were in aw of it but none of them even knew how shitty those girls treated me. All different types, sizes, races, cultures, upbringing etc. It didn't matter how pretty they were or how good the sex was if they all turned out to be manipulators, cheaters, lairs, opportunists etc. I don't think my exes even understand how bad they were to me, with their odd backwards…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:13 PM
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Being picky could also imply choosing eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:42 PM
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If you understood women clearly, you would understand why imposing your happiness upon them is foolish. Women do not care about you, only themselves. Setting yourself free is to cease being a prisoner to their validation. That doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy relationships, it just sets your expectations in the optimal point for sustaining the self. Verses driving yourself crazy for one woman who never cared anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:19 PM
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Every relationship is a transactional exchange. Women wouldn’t even talk to you if you couldn’t provide something they need. You and me are for sex appeal. You aren’t a beta because you can get sex whenever, so they can’t use that to control you. However, the experience you provide is great. You are the dick appointment guy. You don’t decide what you’re valuable for. They just take what they see in you. You have to either accept it or move on. Boyfriend is a title for slave to their pussy. You g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:30 AM
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Not a woman but I have been in your situation countless times. You’ve got to understand that women don’t love you as a being, they love what you do for them. Men are just a means to an end, yours is dick appointment guy. They have other guys for different things, but for her you’re meant to blow her back out and obliterate her pussy. You’ve gained a reputation for their sexual desires. You’re basically a human dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:11 AM
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OP, pick a girl that’s so great that if she broke your heart the experience would have been worth it regardless. Just have fun bro. Don’t take women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:14 PM
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If you couldn’t tell, does it really matter? As long as they make me a good sandwich I’m cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:59 PM
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“They aren’t chicks with dicks, they’re guys with tits!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:10 AM
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Race is a forbidden topic I think
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:05 AM
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I completely disagree, women being clear with what makes them satisfied creates an environment where you know what you’re up against. Men don’t have to waste time on women they couldn’t keep.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 01:38 AM
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Fix the institution of marriage. What enforceable way could we do that? Legitimately wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:41 PM
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This is like saying “Knowledge of the minefield in front of you affects your ability to walk through it” The essence of the Blue Pill is that love can overcome our true instincts. It’s idealistic. To maintain the illusion and value it would require the external world outside of the self to sustain the concept. We all start out blue pilled, but life has given us experience that make us resonate with RP information. The Mano sphere doesn’t recruit, they watch people arrive. RP people value the tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:39 PM
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What do you suggest? Play the game you’re designed to fail at? You can play it smarter, but for some the gamble isn’t worth taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:05 PM
3

What about a 6 pack
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:38 PM
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Women want good sex with good men. Also we have birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:27 PM
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Coffee is just a weak date idea that indicates boring/low effort guy. Invite her to something fun/unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:37 PM
1

I like spooky shit, black, and excuses to horde tons of candy. I am Halloween
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:34 PM
1

Sure thing man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:32 PM
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Sounds Demisexual to me. But there’s a false notion that as a man, you’re supposed to be savage fucking everything that walks. Not true, most are romantic softies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:31 PM
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You only need to get lucky once. Putting yourself out there increases your chances. And you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. It doesn’t matter that the world isn’t just and that you don’t get along with everyone; what matters is finding people worth it and building those connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:54 PM
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Guys barely have friends at all. We are too busy busting our ass since no one gives a fuck about us. I have lesbian godmothers and their lesbian friend groups always has their token guy friend. Also, what is with this festishization of a LGBT BFF. The whole gay best friend thing seems so objectifying to me. My godmothers helped me understand a lot about women and baking, but they could’ve been straight and id still love them either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:43 PM
1

British women >
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:31 PM
2

I never thought about it until coming to Reddit. I know shorter guys dating tall girls and their height match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:30 PM
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Actually no, they literally don’t need anything beyond their pussy for men to jump through hoops to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:36 PM
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As you see per the comments, men are socialized not to perceive their role as servants. They literally can’t comprehend what is happening to them on a grander scale. They won’t even discuss the topic in good faith because the validation of women is more important than anything. As long as they believe they hold power, women preserve their capacity to exploit their sexuality and ego. I recommend you read, The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar, she delves into how women’s feminine illusions maintai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:24 PM
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Men typically operate on a Women are Wonderful bias that is established early on. Something has to disturb that process where they fail to value women’s validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:21 PM
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Women experience love differently than men, they can’t comprehend what you or men mean by it. To men, it’s the attachment of our emotional well-being unto them. To them, love is a reactive emotion, a appreciation of an experience. It’s something that happens to them that they invoke with their femininity. I agree with you on most, but the delusion is on men’s end for imposing our version unto them. You’ll hear “Well that’s men’s fault” when women take advantage of this because it is. They seduce…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:02 PM
1

Most men barely can barely make a woman orgasm once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:59 AM
3

What does this have to do with the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:11 AM
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You have to establish the life that you'll bring them into with the photo. Then swipe on the ones who would likely want the same Whether that's taking a Pic at your hockey game and swiping on a girl with a flyers jersey. Taking a Pic of you hitting a bong in the mountains and swiping on stoner chick's. Taking Pic in a dapper suit at a dinner party and swiping on sophisticated girls. Taking a Pic at your comic con and swiping on nerdy girls. It's about congruence. Demonstrating your lifestyle and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:02 AM
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They all look sort of different and appeal to different kinds of men. Kim/Khloe/Kylie appeals to the rapper/sports player because they would be great sport fucking them doggystyle. Those men are looking for the best ass to make the nut and give them have the ego boost doing so. Kendall appeals to the artsy, abstract kinda of guy. The one who want to be look at/be seen with her more than fucking. But when they do, there isn't a huge intimidating body to keep up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:50 AM
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Secondary advice would be to have a first photo that establishes the lifestyle you'll bring her into. Rather than a shifty photo of you smiling against a white backdrop, take a photo of you during one of your good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:42 AM
1

Correlated with youth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:23 AM
1

Thirty. By then, they're making enough money at that point to be suitable enough to sustain a relationship while women dropped significantly in youth with baggage. Women value maturity in men. Men value youth in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:19 AM
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As someone "successful" in online dating, my crucial advice to men is to swipe right on women who would be into you. If you're thrills kinda guy, swipe on the adventurous girls. If you're more laid back, swipe on chill girls. You're wasting swipes and time on women who aren't looking for what you have. The trick is to appeal to women who wants the same life as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:09 AM
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Strawman argument. Not every guy is a ugly loser, like you said most of them are solid guys who lack boundaries and backbone. It's more about dominating the situation than to be an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:39 PM
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This isn't about what women want in a relationship, this is about what gets men sexual success. The point is being too nice doesn't work. It's not that women are dreaming of criminals coming to ride them off into the sunset and live happily ever after. That is not the point red pillers are making. It's the fact that dumping good compliments and deeds into a woman like coins into a slot machine doesn't mean she wants to fuck you. Being sweet and vulnerable doesn't mean she wants to fuck you. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:45 PM
3

This isn't about relationships, the context is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:24 PM
3

I don't think you even have a grasp on the point I'm making
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:10 PM
1

Love isn't immutable but it doesn't mean happiness cannot be attached to another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:56 PM
1

Yes. Some men don't value women enough to love them. Typically they never developed a secure attachment with a woman to naturally desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:51 PM
4

Sure thats perfectly understandable. But that's exactly why individuals aren't equipped to pass judgment on others character because they only have their limited perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:28 PM
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You're talking about relationships, Men's concern on this is sexual attraction. Being too nice is inconsistent, being exciting, dominant, or a "badboy" is more consistent to sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:16 PM
5

Some people judge others based on intentions, not how it subjectively makes you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:59 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of good girls go bad. They always say this until the guy wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:51 PM
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The issue is that for men, they're great until they are not. Just like it's difficult to sustain a woman's looks it's difficult to sustain a masculine frame. Slip ups can irreversibly shut down the respect women have for them. And the crazy part about it is, women shit test to invoke those scenarios that turn them off. The vitriol, is that those dangerous bad boy types don't even care about those women, but the women are still attracted to them. But the guys who do care are practically punished …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:17 PM
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This definitely happens a lot. However, there are plenty of nice assertive and confident guys who don’t scratch the “dangerous” sexual itch. There is a spontaneity and excitement women are tempted into from a subset of deviant men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:49 PM
2

Henry Cavill, love that dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:20 PM
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I think the issue is how you associate the word “transactional” as disingenious. Almost like they couldn’t be happy. The patterns of behavior we discuss are typically happening subconsciously, so they aren’t literally making a deal to provide X for X. They just benefit from the bonds they have established. It would unrealistic to say if your dad became a lazy slob, that your mother would stick around. It’s conditional in that their behaviors makes each other happy. Some people on PPD demonize th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:13 PM
1

It’s less about the age, more about maturity. That only happens to correlate with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:00 PM
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Guys like women’s company, but if you go into any situation with too many expectations it sets men up for disappointment. Women are just too fickle to reasonably place those. Letting it play it out is often the optimal way to enjoy that time spent together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:10 AM
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You might be onto something, I assume everyone here will make points in good faith and am consistently disappointed lol. At least you get to sustain your sanity haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:24 AM
2

People seem to be assuming the worst here alot lately, but no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:18 AM
1

AWALT is a figurative term, not a literal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:13 AM
1

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:49 AM
1

My relationships themselves were good since I was a tryhard. The only thing is that I neglected my own needs to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:43 AM
1

It's not a equal tradeoff the majority of the time because women have considerably lower drives than men. Their pleasure isn't even on the same level as Men typically due to their anatomical ability to climax. I'm not saying Women dont value sex, but they value commitment higher more often than not. That commitment, is the excitement and lifestyle you were unconsciously providing them. The sex made you stay, whether you know it or not. Google Briffualts law.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:35 AM
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No. Not sure how you came to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:15 AM
1

Would you have dated them if they never had sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:56 AM
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Yes I'm the guy everyone pours their heart out to for some reason. I have tried, but there is always friction between what they want and what they need to do to earn it. With men, they always project their feelings unto women and have their heads too far up their ass to be considerate. With women, they are so self absorbed that they focus more on controlling men's actions than being the person that deserves what they are asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:40 AM
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That's a different context. Women leave when they can't remain satisfied knowing that they'd be better off without a guy than with him. Men typically leave when intimacy becomes more effort than it's worth. Both are pretty rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:35 AM
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Women who use it as a tool, are gross My sweet summer child lol. AWALT. But the tradeoff is one that men willingly make because they want it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:29 AM
1

On which part exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:08 AM
2

Yes but the process happens in reverse. Women typically fuck a guy, get him addicted to her sex, then Men start improving more to keep her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:05 AM
1

It makes sense. Men have a immediate attraction to a woman that slowly fades downward as he sees behind the curtain. Eventually the attraction threshold falls lover than what a "new shiny" woman provides. This is why it's smart for women to establish hard sexual boundaries for access. This makes it so that the effort to trade in your old girlfriend is too much to reasonably choose. It's better for the average guy to commit for steady intimacy than to play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:01 AM
2

This highly depends on why the breakup happened. If you can reach resolution on the issue and reestablish a small connection the bond can grow again. That might take alot of patience and compromise on the circumstances. Sometimes it's worth it. For me personally, it's unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:49 PM
7

It’s nature, but technology makes that instinct go haywire. To the point where nothing is ever enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:02 PM
1

Inuyasha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:41 PM
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Dead lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:37 PM
3

Only if the A.I was so good that it would be indescribable from a man. Like if Micheal B Jordan was really a robot all this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:25 PM
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The point is that OP did all of this just to scrape for the bottom barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:48 PM
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If you’re worried about telling someone this you’re a dork. You aren’t helping anyone you’re just trying to break down someone else’s ego to manipulate them into accepting you. You’re as valuable as the best person interested. That’s not for one external person with a subjective perspective to judge. You might say “you aren’t worth making six figures for babe” but if a guy with six figures is interested, you’re the delusional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:22 AM
1

The optimal choice for men is apathy unless proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:33 PM
1

I dated a girl that used to dildo her ex boyfriend’s anus. I will never ever want that. I don’t feel like I missed out on her best. Truth is, the only thing most women will ever give you is their presence. They don’t really do much at all. And are universally insufferable. If you find one you actually like putting up with then a lot of the other stuff shouldn’t matter. It’s always a raw deal anyway so it’s pointless to let their exes bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:09 PM
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Glad you saw the issue here, I was like “huh but you just mentioned other things” Anyways, I think it’s primarily technology because it creates a litany of conditions where trying isn’t even worth it. There are other reasons that contribute to this, but if you take away these devices people will orient their lives differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:04 PM
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There are base level requirements and then there are preferences on top of that. Women typically are very clear with their requirement. Must make X amount, must be X tall, etc. They are helping men by signaling if it’s worth your time to try. Money is required to be competitive in the relationship game, but it you compensate in other areas then it becomes less important
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:54 PM
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Well this one backfired lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 10:50 PM
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Most guys don't care, if the woman's femininity is drawing him in to seriously date her those factors are meaningless to his pursuit. If she is rewarding his chase, and is convincingly exclusive most men will do it anyway. The only men who would care are ones that would be too insecure to sustain a relationship with her anyway, regardless of who she dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:22 AM
2

Hey baby, wanna develop some deep... intimate... inside jokes together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:46 AM
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As a Demisexual guy, I wouldn't. But there are normie guys willing to put their penis into anonymous random holes to get it fucked so that's proof they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:17 AM
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I didn't know they could get worse not wearing them, but as the years go on it feels dramatically different putting them on. I have gotten so used to things being out of focus that when I wear them it's like jumping from 480p to 4k lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:25 PM
1

There's an issue many guys have with over compensation. Which is typically going too hard on the dominant or manly traits in something that scream "look at me, I'm a man" too loudly. It's the type of dude that removes the muffler on their cars or gets huge tires on a old truck. They are being overwhelming to women, who are extremely sensitive, so it does men no good pushing over the top. Bars are entire different animal with many variables depending on the bars, vibe, scenario, etc. But the cruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:35 AM
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So you're saying looks have no effect at all? No. I'm saying there's alot more that contributes to attractiveness than immediate looks. And any guy can get any women regardless of his looks No not any guy can get any woman, but guys do have the opportunity to build on other external aspects that make the chances better. Regardless of his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:04 AM
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I'm supposed to wear glasses but I never got used to it so I usually don't. However every time I do women compliment me for looking good in them. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:46 AM
1

The game is demonstrating the benefits of dating you in the quickest way possible. Within the first photo and sentence in a bio, it should show "this is the lifestyle dating me will bring you" To many guys don't understand how women work, so they don't know how to appeal in that way. It's not that they don't have potential, women just don't know how to clearly articulate themselves while not coming off shallow. For example, I have over 1k matches on tinder. I only have one photo on there of me w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:16 PM
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Because most are designed to keep men swiping and paying into their advanced features. They dangle the carrot on the stick with chances but at the end of the day, the guy's game is paramount to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:18 PM
2

Sex drive makes all this suffering worth it for most normies. They get hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:37 AM
6

If mentally ill means that I refuse to conform to behavioral expectations that i neither value or resonate with then yes, I am indeed mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:02 PM
3

Yes, they are helping you by informing men that they need a strong frame
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:00 PM
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^ Women are being as honest as they possibly can guys, if you still don't get it, I have no pity left for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:56 PM
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You just described what many women would hate doing for men in traditional times, exploitation. You may be unconscious of it, but you like men for what they do for you. Women hate men that refuse to because they don't care about the individual man. Only the lifestyle and entertainment they provide. Gimpgirl is being radically honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:41 PM
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They love men for their ability to be exploited
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:31 PM
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Women’s attraction is activated, not inherent. That requires many more indicators than immediate looks. This is why tinder doesn’t work for men, men like femininity so they can fall for the thirst traps. Women like masculinity, so it takes action to appeal to their core desire. This doesn’t mean women aren’t attracted to men at all. It means that appearance alone isn’t the sole aspect that activates their tingles. It’s what the men actively do for them. Btw, This is exactly why they say “All men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:53 PM
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I’m not coddling, I just told him to leave women alone and it’s a waste of time caring about this so much. I actually acknowledge feminist issues too. I understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:42 PM
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Frustration that as a man, he instinctually must be concerned with women despite their sociopathic nature. There is friction between his consciousness and his sexuality, which manifests hate towards them. Hence the post. O
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:32 PM
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I’m of the belief that the truth is in between the lines. I don’t make too many absolute claims as life is subjective but I’ve experienced a lot of what would take a long time for other men to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:23 PM
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I’m not with anyone, just giving a frustrated man my advice on coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:22 PM
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I understand you, PPD isn’t going to be the place to CYV because they will just attack your character instead of have discussion. Most people suck. Men and women. I hate to be that “Men bad too” guy but they are in their own ways. Which is why most women are apathetic at best towards men overall. I would recommend their method to get through this. Apathy towards most women until individual ones prove otherwise. It will be rare since they are only concerned with themselves, but the advantage of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:01 PM
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I’ve been with a lot of women over the decade, there are parallels to be drawn and I try to shine light on how that applies to the RP theory. Is peusdoscientific? Certainly. But apart of evolution is recognizing patterns to navigate through life optimally. You literally can’t help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:48 PM
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Well, men aren’t feminine so there’s that. Many cant comprehend a lot of your talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:39 PM
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Men are too focused on their immediate problems because no one is coming to help us with today.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 08:25 AM
1

I’ve never been a hypersexual kind of guy, I typically associate it with emotion and not the hedonistic pleasure of a hard fuck. I can fuck like that, but I just never crave that over making love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:28 AM
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Perhaps at your age, the women I deal with are casual, men are just a means to an end for certain tasks. They have a guy on tap for just about anything. Usually I get fuckzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:12 AM
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Nah, I’m literally just a sex object to women. I actually try to be beta and they won’t let me. I’m the dick appointment sideline guy while they play richer men than me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:04 AM
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Well fuck... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:02 AM
2

Robosexuals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:01 AM
0

They seem to love it when I fuck them, they can’t get enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:00 AM
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Nah a train is when you have three guys fucking each other’s asses simultaneously like a choo choo train duh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:57 AM
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Smh, they don't even get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:02 AM
2

Oh okay, great. Wasn’t sure, Reddit you know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:48 AM
1

What? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:34 AM
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Because your testosterone is telling your body to have sex with them but consciously you want nothing to do with them. So there is a frustration that creates hate. Don't shoot the messenger
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:20 AM
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Someone else said this, but it's basically the fact that women hold men's sexuality hostage. They are awful to men but because they have vaginas we are essentially forced to put up with them. If men could just not care many would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:13 AM
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Agreed. But the normies are too blind to understand what's really going on. Maybe that's why they don't deserve their liberty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:58 AM
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200 IQ play
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:57 AM
3

Fuck this was a hard one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:53 AM
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It took me a moment but once I got it I died lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:23 AM
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No reason to be mean to anyone who you could end their life on the spot. There's nothing to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:22 AM
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It's built into women 's DNA, they will figure out other ways to hoe. Why do you think they care but posting those pics on Instagram, it's just another big thirst trap. Hell, you could take away their technology altogether and they'll find some excuse to wear their tightest yoga pants to get a cup of coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:15 AM
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Good analogy. But try getting people who are so intimacy starved where that would be upgrade to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:49 PM
1

Yes where Apache?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:47 PM
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I guarantee I already fucked more women than you ever will. I dont see it all as pointless, I'm just honest. The entire point of the topic is to be honest instead of being stuck pretending to be a normie. By all means, take a break dude. But you seem to be projecting your issues on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:30 PM
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In a world where men's boundaries and cognitive function melts at the presence of women, it's nice to have a place where you can discuss them objectively. I'm not sure how you define devils or angels, but they are indeed human. It sucks that it takes a cultural phenomenon like The Red Pill for people to even be honest about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:22 PM
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I don't think you can handle the truth if honesty hurts your feelings so much. Women are feminine, in person they are seducing you to get things out of you, you're only infatuated with the illusion they put on, and the pheromones they give off to make your inhibitions lower. Now it's okay to like that, because you are biologically designed to, but women never changed, RP just changes men's perspective. You're telling men to take the blue pill, and stay in wonderland. But those with actual experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:10 PM
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The only difference between women here and women in person is that women here are being honest about what they are actually thinking. If you can't handle the truth then that's a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:53 PM
5

Fuckness. This is evisceration
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:10 PM
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This heavily realies on the tone she said this in. Could have a dozen different meanings and Idk if you're in tune enough to read it right. Either way, now you fuck him to show dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:40 AM
1

Is it gay if I like some of them better without the makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:36 AM
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No FDS is just a women's group chat made public. This is how most of them think in regards to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:30 AM
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Lazy is an interesting word because it implies potential effort gone unrealized due to lack of motivation. The red pill (hidden truth about female nature) has truths that mitigate default instinctual passion. Men here often speak about why that motivation is disturbed because of such truths. The obsession we have is on the patterns of behavior between the sexes. Looking at it from a top down perspective than experiences (good and bad) actually participating in dating. Men have more reason to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:25 AM
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After all this overthinking... Recently I met this hot girl and she seems into me and I burned the list. 😭 And thats why women never had to evolve to be better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:53 AM
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This pretty much nails the entire issue with the sub, men thinking women actually give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:10 AM
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Women dont care for methods, they care about results. You either have it or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:41 AM
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Nailed it on the reason why individuals gravitate to these pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:00 PM
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Destruction 100
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:55 PM
1

I know a few black girls that are chill and “non rachet” the issue is that you think they are any more different in terms of the AF/BB dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:45 PM
1

Boys rule girls drool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:07 AM
2

I agree, I try to tell chicks I’m toxic and they want nothing to do with me but they think it’s some pick up line
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:22 AM
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This one got me ngl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:49 AM
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Dang is in the MGTOW communities outside of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:02 AM
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I think it’s somewhat frequent if the girl is attracted to the guy, because they think of every moment as the “friendship stage” before dating. It’s only when they are vehemently not attracted when they would pay just to establish that they aren’t interested whatsoever. It’s hard to picture it without experiencing it, but some women think they are dating a guy who actually has zero intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:43 PM
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Because women want to be wanted. They are feminine, they want to be attractive to those men to be pursued. I’m not saying it’s wrong, but it’s unnecessary. If their interest goes unprovoked they are left feeling insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:52 PM
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Sure. But that’s men’s problem, it doesn’t have to be women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:43 PM
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Women like men for what they do for them. They want those men to want to do those things for them out of desire. Not a manual “will you ask me out on a date” “Could you touch me sexually” They want to be wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:25 PM
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You’re thinking about yourself, Im considering women and their desires. It’s better for them to have men step up to the plate than to expect random people to play ball
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:20 PM
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You’re taking it to the extreme for no reason. The point is that women have standards they want men to meet. Men who are qualified to meet them and want to will apply, to go to random men because they are pretty in the outside is inefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:14 PM
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You don’t understand women then, not being wanted is like punching them in the face and telling them they are ugly hags.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:07 PM
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Women want to feel wanted, they can’t handle rejection in a healthy way because they interface with the world meeting their needs. It’s literally like telling a child “no you can’t have McDonald’s” they cry, whine, and lash out negatively. It’s pointless. If a guy had the drive to meet a woman’s expectations they would just ask
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:05 PM
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Organizations don’t take it personally when you deny them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:01 PM
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No because men don’t impose expectations on to women. Men like the individual, not the arbitrary potential. Women want men for tasks, entertaining them, buying them things, feeding their ego. To ask a guy out as a woman is like literally saying “Hey would you want to be my personal simp until I’m done with you?” It’s just an inappropriate scenario because they cant handle being denied the standards they feel entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:57 AM
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Women asking out guys is like going up to random strangers and saying “you’re hired” for a job. It doesn’t make sense to impose commitment on men who haven’t decided that you’re worth that to them. Women shouldn’t initiate because they literally cannot handle the uncertainty of that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:41 AM
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Once you realize this, there’s no reason to come back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:11 AM
1

I think the entire institution is a wealth redistribution scheme to the state and economy. I’m only stating why the tradition is meaningful to others.
/r/MensRights01/10/21 01:25 AM
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Men don’t want to understand women beyond their immediate appearance, because if they did, they’d want nothing to do with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:26 AM
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It’s all just a illusive false sense of security, but the tradition of it adds more to the institution for the outside world to recognize.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 10:47 PM
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It’s the validation of unity. If children are raised in a environment of secure connection where bonds mean something, they will go on to value that for themselves. One factor out of many that validates the institution of marriage.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 07:45 PM
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Two separate cases and they both did the same yeah. Actually most women that fucked me over regularly try to get back in touch with me. It doesn’t seem strange when you realize how little they care about you rather than what you do for them. I told them I forgive them and keep all logs of what they text. Once I was able to do that it lifted the emotional weight of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:36 PM
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I feel you brother, it gets better. Might wanna tell the story in r/Supportfortheaccused I was MeToo’d by two former friends who after I beat the cases for both told me they loved me. Fucked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:21 PM
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Women create conditions where it’s better to be worse to them and lose than to give their all and lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:43 AM
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Dude this is what I tried to tell you, they are perfectly happy being alone. Being unsatisfied in a relationship is worse than being single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:41 AM
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