Daily Community Chat Megathread

321gumby · 2022-04-04T02:59:56+00:00

Yea im about the same. We definitely appreciate the time we do get with romantic partners.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-31T23:07:56+00:00

My mom to me when talking about planning a vacation and inviting my brother and his girlfriend- “If you had a gf I’d invite you.” Thanks mom, so I guess it’s only worth having your son on vacation with you if he has a gf.

effeteintellectual · 2022-04-01T23:51:54+00:00

That feel when you match with a 10/10 Stacy on Tinder and she ignores your messages. Feels bad man

decoy88 · 2022-04-01T23:41:05+00:00

This subreddit needs a “Black Pill” Purge. It doesn’t even make up any of the colours of Purple.

Aviadcool111 · 2022-03-31T23:02:21+00:00

I don't know if I post enough here to be considered a regular but I am heading out as well, I think I have gotten all I can from this sub and plan to focus on some real-life matters for a while, best of luck all.

FlamingCoochies · 2022-04-01T02:49:22+00:00

I made a long post on the question but it doesn't really fit into the format of the sub, so I guess I can ask a very short version of it here. Not the discussion I wanted to have, but that's cool, might still get some interesting answers.

So, lots of the debate about 80-20 "hook up" dating has concluded that it's only a minority of people involved in that, but as others have demonstrated, there are significant numbers of men who have trouble dating. As pointed out by many women, there are a lot of women who just choose to remain single. They have men asking them out, they just remain single for long periods of time. This would, of course, explain the dating situation at least numerically.

So, why is it these women are choosing to remain single? In the sense that they don't seem to fit the category reserved for asexual people. They like sex, and are interested in the idea of a relationship, but don't end up finding what they're looking for. For years, and for a large number of women.

My theory is that maybe they're intimidated by peers, and feel like they have to date a guy who checks boxes or else they'll be judged. But, I don't think that fully answers it.

Any ideas?

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-04-01T08:01:10+00:00

Had a quick lol at this , reddit being reddit , no surprise

https://www.reddit.com/r/AgainstMaleHateSubs/comments/tth6mm/reddit_admins_wont_take_any_action_against/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Captslackbladder · 2022-04-01T09:47:15+00:00

My bro is likely codependent and has some weird views about relationships; there is also some physical and mental health issues that he just won't go to the doctor for. I'm so fucking worried. I just wish that I could see a solution, but so far no such luck

Flintblood · 2022-04-01T11:39:54+00:00

White nights in the super woke; why does it go so well together? Why do super woke progressives applaud Will Smith resorting to violence to defend his wife’s “honor”?

I think anyone believing in true equality among genders would believe that Jada could take care of herself it doesn’t need some man to stand up for her.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-03-31T23:15:43+00:00

I remember this waitress said one of the funniest things is when she sees a dude is on a date with a chick he clearly just wants to smash and dash. Lol there’s a “I hope to god no one I know or respect recognizes me here”.

I always felt after a certain age, you shouldn’t be taken girls out in public(or having sex with in general) who you would personally be embarrassed to be seen with or have people think y’all together. That’s a young dude just dumpster diving tryna get laid thing. Im 33 now, I can’t remember the last girl I fucked who im ashamed about.

thetruthishere_ · 2022-04-01T00:01:55+00:00

I need a dead tree to come down and its way more affordable than I thought. Few weeks and that puppy is down. Im keeping the trunk though and going to wrap it with lights. Sentimental value. I had a tire swing in that tree as a kid.

Im going to have so much firewood for my fire pit. Yessssss. They will cut it but I will stack and move it. Good workout.

Have a good weekend all!

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-04-01T06:59:21+00:00

CMV: there's a legit market gap for a dating app that doesn't gameify relationships and actually succeeds in matching compatible men and women; requiring equal gender participation, requiring male effort beyond "hey bb u wan sum fuk, here's my penis" and requiring women to put current and accurate pictures.

Imo it would be an actual office, you go in and pay a service worker $30 for a 15 minute interview or $50 for a 30 minute interview where they ask your priorities, big 5 traits, MBTI, education, interests etc.. They take a head shot and full body photo and allow you to put an extra two or three photos. You have to write a cover letter when you make your profile, over 100 words and a bot checks to see if it's legit. You have to message anyone you match or un match them/if you don't you're locked out of seeing other people. You have the contents of the interview on the profile in a link, with a video. There are interest areas like Hinge or Bumble but more in depth, and the app automatically suggests date ideas based on those interest areas (i.e. if you both say EDM and Coachella is coming up soon the site scrapes that info from the web and suggests it for you)

This removes low effort men, liars of both genders, and ensures a modicum of initial compatibility. Faking the profile would take too much effort.

Once successes start rolling in it would ideally get big. Yet successful people would get off the app, not stay on it like tinder. They'd sell ads but they'd make most of their revenue off of the interviews.

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-01T13:05:23+00:00

So my cousin is getting married to a man she's known for 5 months. She's 34 and he's 33. Thoughts?

lulll · 2022-04-01T13:48:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/linux_gaming/comments/ttp1ml/warning_do_not_watch_unless_youre_18000_years_old/?ref=share&ref_source=link

id play it

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T15:13:18+00:00

What should I get for lunch today? My usual thing on a Friday is a slice of pizza and a chicken roll.

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Harambe-2036 · 2022-03-31T23:02:45+00:00

What are y’alls thoughts on this?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/tt1nn3/covid_made_me_realize_i_was_horrible_to_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

2022-03-31T23:03:38+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXQfjhJRy3Q

Big Oof

scwizard · 2022-03-31T23:06:50+00:00

I'm kinda scared for the college aged girls these days.

When I was that age, colleges were 50/50 girls and guys rather than 40% guys 60% girls.

Also girls had sex with guys because they wanted to, not because they felt like they had to or else they wouldn't be able to get someone. Also was sorta pre feminist backlash, before g*merg*ate or anything.

It was a time when girls could do anything, even become the next president who knows.

The type of pickme roommate stories you hear from college girls on FDS is just wild. Completely alien to the sorta culture I knew.

You mix that with people growing up when porn is easily accessible on your phone and you get some messed up people.

poppy_blu · 2022-03-31T23:43:34+00:00

I guess I shouldn’t laugh at people who aren’t fluent English speakers and give them credit for trying.

But damn, Google translate is free.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T01:00:08+00:00

Good night everyone:)

And damn it bandit, I did declare victory too early on mr raccoon 😂

Kaisha001 · 2022-04-01T01:10:19+00:00

Q4M You find out the girl you've been dating for a month has a jealous ex and has a problem with you, do you stay?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-01T03:21:07+00:00

I had boxed mac n cheese mixed with canned chicken and a hotdog for dinner was not bad tbh

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-01T04:17:42+00:00

I have gotten alot of guys laid. Sometimes I seriously think about starting a pickup tutor service, so many of the guys that struggle just needs the right bro behind them. But a major issue is that they need a drive to try, when I read PPD and NewTRP, I want to help them, but I can't be there for everyone.

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-04-01T08:41:51+00:00

Did some lunges yesterday. Today I wake up and "ow, my butt".

321gumby · 2022-04-01T09:09:46+00:00

If your girlfriend says she doesn't want to talk today. Little fight. Do I see if she is ready to talk tomorrow?

kaizenkin · 2022-04-01T09:36:43+00:00

Considering joining the Army or Navy.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-04-01T11:37:14+00:00

It seems like women are more likely to share clothes with other women compared to men sharing with other men why do you think that is? I’m a similar height and build with my brother and that convo never came up, same thing with one of my closest male friends(the others we are nowhere close to same size).When we were kids my mom would give me my brothers hand me downs but as adults it was never like “yeah bro I like that shirt can I borrow it?” My two closest female friends apparently share and borrow shoes, dresses, shirts etc. My GF says her sister borrow her shoes all the time.

For example One of my homegirls said she borrowed her sisters dress because they are basically the same size for a formal event. She was going with this dude and she wanted to impress him. She liked the guy and ended up having sex him in his car. The problem is he got a lot of of his fluids on the dress. The dress was basically ruined so she gave her the 450 dollars her sister spent on the original dress to buy another one.

Ylduts · 2022-04-01T11:55:29+00:00

Why do Women need a drivers license if there isn’t a road between the bedroom and kitchen?🤷‍♂️

decoy88 · 2022-04-01T13:20:47+00:00

How many of you’s internal monologue includes Blue Pill/Red Pill terminology and perspective when you’re going about your day?

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-01T14:06:58+00:00

Q4W: how often do you pay on the first date?

Q4M: how often do women pay on the first date?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-01T14:13:53+00:00

I challenge any and all of you to read this without cringing.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-01T14:50:48+00:00

Q4A

What is the longest streak you have gone without porn?

What about masturbation?

empresa_josefina · 2022-04-01T14:55:07+00:00

Update on my OLD Stacy-chasing adventures:

I curated my Hinge profile to target my preferred type of girl. I'm basically going after foreigners/tourists. Most of my photos (outside the basic headshot/full body) are of me abroad. All of my prompts are about foreign languages and travel. I probably come across as a massive chode to folks in my city.

So far so good, I went on a few dates with an middle eastern girl, a first date last week with a Cuban-American, and just matched with a French Algerian language teacher. 0 traction with state school sorority Becky but I don't really care.

Also the looksmaxx + professional photo shoot combo has definitely ramped up the OLD engagement.

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-01T15:10:31+00:00

Imagine spending your hard-earned money on a ticket to see Morbius.

Habil13 · 2022-04-01T23:10:55+00:00

Shout out the guy making posts about cuck culture. I fully understand what he means.

FakeNattyGainz · 2022-04-01T23:09:14+00:00

I'm realizing I run my body pretty hard. I drink caffeine all day, kratom all day, and take steroids. Smoking for the past 2 years but I've hugely cut back since Jan. My HR has been sitting between 80-100 BPM at rest, while completely detoxed me is about 50-60 BPM.

How long do I have left?

poppy_blu · 2022-04-01T22:46:59+00:00

This fucking place 😂😂😂😂

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T22:37:47+00:00

My Friday night plans have gotten to the point of… setting raccoon traps.

God what is my life 😂.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-01T22:37:15+00:00

Q4M: Is masturbation gay?

Your hand is touching a man's penis

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T22:19:53+00:00

Why did I decide to go for a jog without a jacket in 45 degree weather? 😂. I thought it wouldn’t be so bad but 25 mph winds are kicking my ass and making it seem colder than it really is.

lulll · 2022-03-31T23:17:56+00:00

chill out what ya yellin for lay back its all been done before and if you could let it be you will seeeee

-angels-fan- · 2022-04-01T00:12:09+00:00

What's your best April fools prank?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-01T01:04:12+00:00

Any PPD milfs wanna reenact this with me ?

VirtualRow4074 · 2022-04-01T01:09:48+00:00

Why is hinge telling me to give roses to men my bisexual self is giving roses to women only

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-01T02:43:32+00:00

I often hear that women wish men would listen to women. But I think women should listen to women

Too much solipsism around when women try and womensplain women sexuality and orgasms to men.

scwizard · 2022-04-01T05:15:22+00:00

I'm in a pretty unflappably good mood AMA

Willow-girl · 2022-04-01T11:36:14+00:00

LAST 14-hour workday of the week! Still coughing like a MF but I am gonna DO this ... (I hope, lol).

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T11:54:15+00:00

So do I do this April fools prank on my dads daily driver(2019 accord) or his actual race car? I feel like I might actually die if I do the race car 😂

poppy_blu · 2022-04-01T12:45:17+00:00

My cousin’s wife’s first husband was killed in Iraq. When they first started dating, she was still wearing her wedding ring.

I imagine men here would find that a “red flag.”

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T13:47:54+00:00

New York drivers really drive me crazy. I had to get down to 40mph in the left lane today cuz some lady decided it would be a good idea to do that speed in that lane. With absolutely no one in front of her. Like the left lane isn’t for you if you want to do that speed 😂.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-01T13:52:36+00:00

There’s this girl I’m supposed to hang out with this weeknd , should I send the risky message and tell her to come to the house and watch a movie cause my car has a problem or should I postpone the link up til the car is fixed ?

MalePsychopath · 2022-04-01T14:11:14+00:00

Men here don’t like tough questions CMV

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-04-01T14:11:32+00:00

Q4 u/purplish_possum and other chubby chasers:

Is there an upper limit to how big your women can be?

scwizard · 2022-04-01T22:05:34+00:00

The puberty thread I made is so confusing.

Some girls are like:

0 trauma and i dont recall anyone i ever knew perceiving it as trauma, we couldnt wait to grow up and have boyfriends and gettign attention was great

And some are like:

Having adult men look at you in a sexual way when you're 12/13? Having men and boys ask you for hugs only to eventually realize it's because they're trying to feel your overgrown breasts pressed up against them. Having to make sure what you're wearing is "appropriate" even though it's not the clothes it's your body that's not appropriate. Awful period cramping, tons of blood, and hormonal acne. Having friends resent you because puberty hit you like a truck.

No not traumatic at all.

But like I have no idea what separates the girls who hated it from the girls that were fine with it.

-angels-fan- · 2022-04-01T22:03:15+00:00

Does anyone else have an irrational fear that some distant nephew is gonna get mixed up in some bad gang and piss off the wrong guy that kills your nephews entire family? Which is you.

No? Just me?

Habil13 · 2022-04-01T21:54:50+00:00

Q4All: What would you rate her looks wise?

empresa_josefina · 2022-04-01T21:44:45+00:00

I got a raise at work so I've decided to throw more money at the dating problem. Going to consult with a dating service that swipes and messages for you. I think the consultant guy will interview me to find out what I like. I'll describe giga-Stacy in vivid detail and see what they come up with.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-01T20:51:21+00:00

Dumbass atheists: I hate Christians. Their dumb religion has harmed the world and they push their beliefs onto people!

Also dumbass atheists: Loves communism and wants to push their beliefs onto children without parental knowledge.

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2022-04-01T20:47:10+00:00

Update on the guy I have a crush on. Think he has his eyes set on some other girl in class. I guess I’m no longer useful, even for a friendship. Shit hurts and I don’t even know how to move on.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T20:43:44+00:00

Like I said, I can’t even believe it’s Friday already. Time just keeps flying 😂. The last four weeks are a blur to me.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-01T20:00:02+00:00

Bald women are attractive ha April fools gottem 😭😭😭😭😭😭

YouAskedIt · 2022-04-01T19:57:21+00:00

Q4M: How would you handle falling out of love and no longer being attracted to your wife?

death_by_1000_cats · 2022-04-01T19:27:56+00:00

Accusing someone of "sexism" on PPD is the dumbest shit in the world and whenever someone does it we should be allowed to throw tomatoes at them and say "booooooooo"

JohnDoe_Rip · 2022-04-01T00:00:09+00:00

Just seen a woman blame men for the sexual liberation movement. Amazing!

link

Habil13 · 2022-04-01T03:43:05+00:00

I was in the club today for my friends birthday. Somewhere around 3AM, I was talking to two girl in the smoking area. Outta nowhere I see my friend approaching a guy aggressively. He punches him up, and then he gets slapped by the guys friend.

Before he knows it, my friend is facing a 5v1 and he truly looks fucked. I rush over to deescalate, and then some short bloke punches my friend. I, of course, help him and punch the guy who hit my friend. Then out of nowhere two bounces escort my friend out of the premises and I’m left with myself against five others.

While the bouncers escort my friend out I get hit with a plastic cup filled with liquor, and then I get rushed by like three guys. They took me down and started jumping me for like 15 seconds before some bouncers came and escorted two of them out, while the last guy ran inside to the dance floor.

Tough night, but at least I have a funny story to tell.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-04-01T03:43:49+00:00

I just saw a video where a girl complained about men wanting sex and not wanting friendship from women. Her words were "So you want to literally be inside of me, but you don't want to be my friend??"

Yes, you hit it on the nail girl.

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-04-01T15:30:11+00:00

My mom is such a delusional boomer. She actually believes there’s more desperate women than men who are willing to date any guy who comes their way. Like every boomer, she flies into a fit of rage if you tell her that life is a quite a bit different than it was in 1978.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-01T00:13:49+00:00

Tik tok is infested with soft core porn, thought it was mostly jokes and funny videos

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-01T01:09:00+00:00

So after yesterday's thinking session, I've decided that once I get insurance shit figured out, a diagnosis for adhd is probably worth it

I've given it some thought and realized my ADHD unchecked could land me in some bad spots later in life

Plus, I'd like to know what it's like to be able to turn off my brain or at least turn the volume down on it .

Unless I just get my hands on some Adderall through...other methods

rivetcitymayor · 2022-03-31T23:22:09+00:00

No wonder women don’t like older men, them guys always let their whole dicks hang out in the locker rooms bruh ! Fucking Creeps

lulll · 2022-04-01T10:28:48+00:00

imo women should only be allowed to purr meow and hiss

GoldenHornyChicken · 2022-04-01T12:10:34+00:00

1 month pregnant, I just learnt that it's common to bleed after sex. So scary 🥲

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-04-01T14:08:06+00:00

Anyone else believe in two things which are contradictory? Here's mine:

1) No one should ever feel pressured to do drugs, if you don't ever want to take drugs that's great and you can live a completely fulfilling life without them.

2) Everyone should try drugs in their lifetime.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-31T23:06:36+00:00

Still haven't been able to get over my self image issues since starting self improvement, it's something that is going to take a long time for me to get over, especially after dealing with them for the past 14 or so years. My brain's process is:

Me: Wow I have a couple of girls interested in me, that's cool.

My Brain: Yeah?? It's not 3 girls though is it?

Me: Wow I hit 200kg on Leg Press!!

My Brain: Wasn't 250kg though was it?

I don't know whether I have a need to be perfect or not, but even when I succeed I'm never really living in that moment of success, I'm always looking forward at becoming better.

AquaChip · 2022-03-31T23:28:32+00:00

It’s crazy how there are more than 90k+ people who are subscribed to this sub but only the same 50 people keep commenting.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-04-01T00:38:43+00:00

Bf bought some AirWick plug-in things. Which I normally don’t mind

But today, he bought Cucumber Melon. And I have no idea how to tell him that this scent - due to my college roommates using that damn Bath & Body Works Cucumber Melon Body Spray as bathroom air freshener - literally smells like shit to me

My house smells like disgusting, sugary shit

simply_fab · 2022-04-01T01:26:40+00:00

Tinder is the worst game ever designed. The objectives can never be completed cause the NPC normally do answer or their dialogue tree only consists of one worth answers that go no where.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-04-01T06:20:07+00:00

Had a girl ask for my height for the first time on tinder (I'm Europoor so this is rare). It's a legit question but to me it reveals a lot about a person.

My first reaction was to ghost her. Then I thought to say I'm 6ft in heels. I'm not edgy and won't ask for her weight because she's clearly not fat.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T10:09:57+00:00

Something tells me were it a guy complaining about this, the responses wouldn’t be as kind… but I do feel for her. Touch starvation sucks. Although three years is pretty much nothing, for me at least 😂😂.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-04-01T00:14:37+00:00

Anybody here play much chess? I hit my all-time high rating on chess.com today. 1198 in rapid chess. pretty proud ngl.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-01T00:36:01+00:00

[Will topic ]No way this is real lmao..no way

dbz19 · 2022-04-01T09:13:22+00:00

I'm back 😁

Like Napoleon's return from Elba, I have returned from exile

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-04-01T10:11:26+00:00

Purge rules for april fools

biggestuzifanea · 2022-04-01T15:35:56+00:00

reminder that men under 5'9 in NYC have a 1.2% match rate

creekcrystall · 2022-04-01T19:24:27+00:00

Mens mental health matters!

throwaway213091345 · 2022-04-01T19:23:08+00:00

Q4ALL: How many men would you estimate would date a woman regardless of her interests, hobbies, personalities, values, intelligence, and career (a woman who is offers the basic needs like looks, manners, and sex) vs how many men are picky about these things? What would you say the ratio is? Or is it more of a scale, and could you describe this scale?

philomexa · 2022-04-01T19:18:35+00:00

Well I got the job on the automotive account, I feel rather numb about it. I suppose its better than scrambling to find a job and then deal with that anxiety.

Is this burn out? I've a hard time exercising this week as well.

I just feel...a whole lot of nothing and I sure would like to sleep all day.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-04-01T19:09:22+00:00

People say I be looking serious or mad all the time, meanwhile I’m litterally chillin. Y’all ever get this ?

Habil13 · 2022-04-01T18:57:15+00:00

Which entertaining subreddits do you freaks browse? I’m looking for something as entertaining as this one.

ScoreInternational89 · 2022-04-01T18:49:34+00:00

Gotta love PPD. One guy asks me to describe my personal dating standards. When I do, another guy hops on the thread and makes a bunch of false assumptions about me. When I call him on it he says:

“None of this is about you, it’s about men and women in general. If you want to personalize it to make a strawman argument, okay, have a nice day” Amazing

GridReXX · 2022-04-01T00:17:08+00:00

As a man have you ever had to protect a woman physically? Meaning you were put at risk?

Lots of guys use that, but have never been in a fight or had to physically protect someone.

I think any woman who has birthed a child has put herself at more risk.

Idk. Seems kind of even, and actually more “moral high horse” leverage to the lady breeders.

DonQOnIce · 2022-04-01T18:41:07+00:00

Long weekend trip this summer to Portland Maine or Nashville Tennessee?

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-04-01T18:28:32+00:00

Tinder chadfishing experiment, results are what’s expected

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ttxje2/i_made_a_tinder_profile_with_an_attractive_guys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Habil13 · 2022-04-01T18:17:55+00:00

Sigh. It’s either gay or small pp.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T17:49:41+00:00

You know I hate to call people liars but something tells me that the response he would get in real life and not the internet would be a lot different.

Reference

empresa_josefina · 2022-04-01T17:46:11+00:00

Is there a difference between "Chad pumped and dumped me so I am making you wait so I don't get taken advantage of" and "a Black guy stole my purse so I cross the street when I see a Black guy coming"?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-04-01T17:38:16+00:00

Why you guys here and not outside trying to get laid 🤨

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-04-01T17:35:29+00:00

I ate pizza for lunch and my parents inform me that they want to get pizza for dinner. I can’t eat pizza for dinner after lunch, it hits my stomach like lead 😂

Habil13 · 2022-04-01T17:29:29+00:00

Q4M: Whenever you match with attractive women through OLD, does your ego get inflated?

scwizard · 2022-04-01T17:25:07+00:00

How stupid I looked in front of men and others because of "love", how much I degraded my self worth, and, worst of all, how much time I wasted. How much of my sweetness I lost because I became hardened and jaded by the heartbreak. I gave up so much that I cannot get back and I cannot accept it. I wish I could take it all back. I would give anything up to just walk the other way every time. Pre-men, I used to be so different, happier, calmer, optimistic, more content with life, there was a lightness to me. I know everyone will say that at least I know better now and you live and learn and now I have FDS and all that but I'm always in pain. It just wasn't worth the trouble. I feel like I'll never heal.

Is the only way to avoid this as a woman to abstain from premarital sex?

simeneta_two · 2022-04-01T17:09:28+00:00

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Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-04-01T17:04:38+00:00

So, I've decided that I'm (probably) not going to go amateur, but I still will likely attend sparring tournaments and exhibitions and the like (way safer and just as fun)

After thinking it over, I've realized that I have very little to gain from going amateur and fighting with full head contact on a semi-regular basis.

Not only is constantly risking concussions just a not-very-smart idea, but I'd be competing against folks who are in it to become pro fighters or champions, whereas I'm doing it for the hell of it, which shows that I don't have the amount of heart needed to truly be a Thai boxer

In any case, I'm going to keep grinding and training as though I'm going to fight for real.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-04-01T16:53:13+00:00

Bf mad about troubled past hehe

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ttupkr/boyfriend_bothered_by_my_sexual_past_what_should/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

FabulousFuchsbau · 2022-04-01T16:41:41+00:00

Q4W: How many of us, whether we like it or not, act like RP men?

scwizard · 2022-04-01T16:29:23+00:00

I know a woman who's had her new partner move in after 3 months and her daughter told my daughter (they're 11) that her new dad is horrible to them both, always calling the mum fat and lazy, picking on the girl telling her to wear skirts more and be "more feminine". One night he'd refused to pick her and her mother up from somewhere they'd been and they'd had to walk home alone down a dark path at 11pm at night. All the while the stupid prick was in THEIR house. I was beyond horrified at this but apparently she puts up with his behaviour because she doesn't want to be alone. This is an extremely successful senior manager, bringing herself to this losers level. Wtf.

How do girls even escape from this negative self worth blackhole of dating abusive guys, which lower your self esteem, which causes you to date more abusive guys, which lower your self esteem and so on.

Mark_Freed · 2022-04-01T16:24:57+00:00

https://youtu.be/CfdicAKUANE I mean... I did not expect double the viewers, so many more to see her sleep.

I guess a person is vulnurable when they sleep? exposed? Is it really because they think she will end up stripping half naked or something, these guys can't be that dumb.

scwizard · 2022-04-01T16:18:33+00:00

I used to listen to Dr Laura Schlesinger on the radio and the thing that stuck out to me is that she said parents just should not date while their children were minors. Seemed extreme but now I get it. For every happy new family there are children who spend their whole childhood uncomfortable or worse.

Oh so now FDS is agreeing with me??

SkrappyHoe · 2022-04-01T16:05:53+00:00

I just watched this video about a woman who is "seduced" by an older man at age 13, has his child in secret, and is ostracized by her community until her eventual death by starvation in old age.

https://youtu.be/1CVcZ_8HPuY

I don't think I've heard a story that speaks so much to the gravity of sexual mores in that time period. Was it the right thing to do? I don't think so, but life was brutal back then and punishment for endangering the community with burdensome children from a relationship that couldn't provide the family necessary to contribute to community survival was equally brutal. I think the narrative in 2022 would be about how backwards and pointless their views were but that ignores how harsh life could be. Ain't no-one starving to death because of a harsh winter in 2022.

FizzleMateriel · 2022-04-01T16:02:24+00:00

I’m playing the remastered Grand Theft Auto games and I’m remembering why men are disappearing into games.

I get more sense of achievement becoming a virtual crime-lord in Vice City than I get from my career and 90% of the other things I do in my life.

chilikettlechips · 2022-04-01T15:55:29+00:00

I remember a good prompt a while back. It was basically, "women why is it so hard for you to empathize with men's dating experiences?" and the top reply was, "because it invalidates our experiences"

I think about that from time to time. It's a 0 sum game for some of them that are not like all of them. For them to sympathize with men's issues with dating literally diminishes their's.

FlamingCoochies · 2022-03-31T23:03:19+00:00

If men of older generations really didn't care about a woman's body count at all they aren't as traditionally masculine as they frame themselves to be.

321gumby · 2022-04-01T03:03:38+00:00

Dating a hot model will break your heart.... I'm sad

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-04-01T12:13:48+00:00

I had to argue with an obnoxious atheist trying to get him to understand that it’s not Puritan to find it disgusting to expose kids ages 11 to 13 to sexual content without parents permission.

Then went on to justify it using groomer mentality:

Theyre mature since they have adult bodies.
They can make their own decisions without parents.
Theyre not children.
Back in the day they were married off at 12.
They watch porn anyways.
Stop treating kids like they're stupid.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-01T15:02:56+00:00

Hey umm Question for The Red Pill Men:

Why are you way nicer on Discord than you are on Reddit? I mean most of you are actually pleasant to converse with there, here I wouldn't say completely unpleasant but bordering on it. Not gonna name names just, it's interesting seeing the difference.

OfCatandPagan · 2022-04-01T15:54:08+00:00

I want to buy some stuff from Alchemy Gothic again.

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