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CMVRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:30 PM
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DiscussionRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:56 PM
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CMVRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:30 PM
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Question For WomenRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:54 PM
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DiscussionRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:24 PM
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DiscussionRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:35 PM
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DiscussionRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:55 AM
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DiscussionRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:40 PM
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DiscussionRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:42 PM
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Question For WomenRemarkable_Sort_1706/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:09 PM
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“If you are an atheist, I suggest you do some soul searching.” Ah yeah let me go believe some sky fairy/fairies that a bunch of fools wrote about 2,000 years ago. I mean, wtf is this? 😂. You think you need religion as a blue print to be a man? I’ve never seen such a retarded argument in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:44 AM
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Go away boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:36 PM
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Ny drivers need to wake up, giving me the finger cause I honked at them because they were going 45 in the left lane on a highway. If you want to do that speed on a highway, either get off the highway or go in the right lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:31 PM
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It has nothing to do with media trying to bs people. Women generally don't find virginity in men attractive past a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:17 PM
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Yeah, they did actually help, but it still is awful handling this day to day. Unfortunately it's very difficult to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:02 PM
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Yes, from what they said, I think they simply think this is a phase I’m in that I have to “snap out of,” rather than a very prolonged struggle that I need help with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:21 PM
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Suicide is a bit of a taboo topic and I think it may be against certain rules to discuss here. And the sad truth is, as someone who recently suffered from extreme suicidal ideation, is that it seems people irl don't really care. I received more support from internet people than people irl over my depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:11 PM
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Yeah that's the conclusion I came to once I became an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:05 PM
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Q4A- What are your thoughts on Nihilism? I find the reddit edgy version of it sometimes cringy, but it seems irl people also get pissed off if it is bought up. Does the idea of nothing ultimately mattering make people uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:02 PM
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I've been trying more recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:51 PM
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I don't remember even talking to you, but I've been trying now. When did I say I didn't try?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:29 PM
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It seems like lying about sexual inexperience is looked down upon though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:28 PM
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How can I make the lie convincing? I am a virgin at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:27 PM
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Damn the comments on the post referencing my post about what a man should do if he reaches a certain age with no experience are brutal. Really shows how a man with no experience is viewed/judged as lol. Which is why I advocate lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:05 PM
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If I'm asking out girls and getting no what else am I supposed to do besides keep trying, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:43 PM
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Lol yes because a few anecdotes prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:38 PM
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I think that is because deep down they know it is a bit concerning to get no success at all during developmental stages such as high school or college. But to other people they don't know they are trying to comfort them/not make them more upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:36 PM
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While I think that overly focusing on dating when you are young can be harmful, I think it is more important to have some experiences then people may admit. I made a thread a couple months ago asking how one would feel if their son/daughter was struggling with dating, and it seems a lot of parents would be very concerned if their son/daughter was not having success during those developmental years(high school/college).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:28 PM
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Yuk when he throws a party but the bitches aren't fat enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:46 PM
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The idea that you can be perfectly fine alone at night as a male is a myth. Men are more likely to be a victim of violent crimes. I don’t know why we continue to perpetuate this bullshit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:22 AM
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Will missing a sign of flirting ruin the girls attraction to you entirely? Had a girl basically ask me to cuddle today and I didn’t realize it lol. 21 years a virgin and when I finally get interest shown I fucked it up 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:51 PM
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Maybe I'm a little shy, other than that I don't think I'm weird lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:47 PM
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What should I do if I don't think I am weird but haven't had success yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:25 PM
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I think telling people to make a good friend group is a good idea if they are lonely, and that you can't only rely on a romantic partner, which is also true. However, how true is it that as your friends date and get married, they drift off/spend less time with you and way more time with their partner? Seems like finding a long term partner is in fact the best option, but probably a much harder one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:06 PM
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So the point has even more merit then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:04 PM
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I think we’re at the point now where it’s becoming harder to tell peoples old isn’t real life, just don’t use the apps in order to find someone. Iirc, almost 40 percent of relationships happen through old now a days, and will most likely grow in the future with gen Z. I think old is going to get to the point where it is almost needed if you are going to try to successfully date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:52 PM
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Yeah, I agree that women shouldn't be blamed for it. I also am unsure of how to adequately address this problem, as it doesn't really have an obvious solution. I think that we have become increasingly isolated due to social media, but it seems that this trend is having a way bigger effect recently on terms of loneliness and isolation than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:04 PM
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You know, when you put it this way, it makes it really weird to see people on Reddit constantly saying forming romantic relationships is overrated, and "not that big of a deal."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:58 PM
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Q4A- Do you think gen z is truly softer than other generations, or do you think it is overblown?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:15 PM
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I failed at making friends in four years of college as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:46 PM
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I think when a man complains about being dumped after opening up, and he is told "well you should have vetted better, your fault for choosing a woman like that," that it is an incredibly tough argument to make. I think venting for qualities such as "won't judge you for opening up," is very difficult, because in most cases, the only way to tell is to actually open up, which can lead to loss of sexual attraction. This is almost a trap. Some qualities are just extremely hard to vet for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:14 PM
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When they say they don’t need men, they are correct in a way. And usually they are saying that they would rather have no relationship than a shitty relationship. For your second point, I myself am not a subscriber to the belief that gender is purely a construct. Men and women have quite a bit of differences in certain areas, and lots of women are going to desire masculinity and all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:54 AM
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Alright I understand more now, thanks for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:51 AM
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Can you expand more on the social legitimacy it gives? I agree with the rest of your points, I’m just curious on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:41 AM
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Yes, romantic partners can come and go, but a good one with the right connection is one you’ll spend the rest of your life with. Some women don’t value simply casual sex and like having sex within the relationship/having more of an emotional connection. Generally, raising a kid solo, even if you have the funds, isn’t a good idea. Kids tend to have better outcomes in a two parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:40 AM
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Family and friends are an entirely different kind of a relationship than a romantic relationship. The most obvious one being sexual desires. People have sexual desires and a desire for sexual intimacy, and generally, a romantic relationship is the easiest/best way to fulfill these wants. There are things you Do with a romantic partner that you probably aren’t doing with friends either. Planning an entire life together, buying a house together, having kids. They are by nature two very different k…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:31 AM
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While I agree that they don’t need one in terms of a necessity, the reality is that most people still desire a relationship as it is pretty much a natural desire of being a human being. While either gender can pretty much survive well and do everything on their own, it is not preferable. Reddit thinks socialization plays a way bigger effect on desires than they actually do. Telling someone “you don’t need a relationship to be happy,” while true, won’t stop people from desiring a relationship. Si…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:23 AM
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The physical power difference doesn’t increase the risk, the risk comes from who is more likely to be attacked. And that is men. The physical power difference only matters once you are attacked. Men are more likely to be attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:39 PM
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They claim it when they say on other subs it’s safer for men to walk around at night, which is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:26 PM
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But women are claiming they are more likely to be attacked in general, which isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:15 PM
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They live in their own bubble where they think men are invincible tanks who are capable of fighting off multiple attackers at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:51 PM
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But they aren’t talking about strength or the ability to defend oneself. They are saying that women are more likely to be attacked in general, which is just blatantly false when you look at the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:50 PM
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On subs with a majority of women or with a woman bias, the myth that men can walk around at night without fear of being harmed or that women are more likely to be harmed needs to stop being falsely spread and perpetuated. In fact, men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes. And the whole “Yeah, by other men” that some of y’all claim when this is bought up is not the gotcha you think it is 😂. You are discussing who is more likely to be harmed in general, so the gender of who is doing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:25 PM
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Hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:11 PM
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I only get one tag that comes with my hunting license so we figure we would use it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:30 PM
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I’d pay to watch people do that tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:12 PM
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It always astonishes me people who have never been hunting/never shot a gun making absurd statements about certain things. My friend who thinks black bears are unstoppable tanks thinks I have a death wish hunting them because “I would need four shots to kill one at least.” If I need four shots of 180 grain 30-06 bullets to kill a bear I’m not a good shot lol. A 30-06 shot placed properly will drop any animal in North America yet my friend who’s never been hunting thinks he has all this knowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:06 PM
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I found out during convo yesterday that we are both huge yankees fans so I think it would be a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:17 PM
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Yes, turns out we are both huge Yankees fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:09 PM
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Is a date to a playoff baseball game a good first date idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:05 PM
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I don’t think they down play the danger of men on Reddit in particular. Obviously from a man I can’t quite get it, but on Reddit I constantly see I was afraid to reject a man because I was afraid he would seriously harm me. Seems like a bit of an over exaggeration, but who am I to tell. But I don’t think the danger is down played on Reddit in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:05 PM
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Is it a big deal that I was talking to a cute girl I like with a group and the topic of dating history came up and I had nothing to say(21 yo virgin). Worried she might think it was odd. We were having good convos before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:32 PM
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Thoughts on this thread? I must say that I’m surprised a lot of the comments were agreeing/sympathizing with the guy. Thought it’d have a more Split reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:26 AM
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Can I dm you to answer more about the situation? No worries if not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:32 PM
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I don't think that it is true that odds go up as you age. Any advice for a 21 yo guy who has never had any sexual experience/dating? Reading that I am super rare is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:57 PM
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Aw thank you this was a really sweet and empathetic reply. I think your advice is good and I should maybe follow some of it. Have a good day : )
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:27 AM
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What would you do if you think his mental state was declining a bit? I ask bc it's sort of happening with me rn(though I would be the son in the situation lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:29 PM
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Yeah I guess I could see your point. Maybe my sensitivity about me never having dated is showing lol. I just don't think it's that big of a deal to vent about never having dated, especially when you see your peers around you getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:45 PM
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Tbf I don’t think him venting about it would be placing all of his self worth on it. I think you can vent without being totally obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:37 PM
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Let’s say 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:34 PM
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I don’t think that will work well. If it wasn’t all that then the majority of people wouldn’t seek them and find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:32 PM
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Q4A- What would you do/say if you had a son that was clearly struggling with dating/attracting people and expressed his frustration to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:14 PM
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I’m in NY so opening day for rifle season for deer is in November.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:58 PM
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I’m just waiting for deer season to begin which is what I’m really excited for. Would’ve been nice to get a bear but I only saw the mother and two cubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:55 PM
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Saw these two bear cubs while hunting this weekend and got pics of them, not letting me upload for some reason. I was pretty far away it still nervous. Won’t lie I had my rifle scope aimed at mama bear 95 percent of the time in case she tried charging or some other shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:51 PM
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It’s for my best interests so I don’t get caught in a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:37 PM
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How am I being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:17 PM
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How are they gonna find out? And what options do I have if they are going to find it a red flag anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:14 PM
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Looks like I’ll just lie to women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:09 PM
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Is not dating in high school missing the boat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:03 PM
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Not everyone gets to date in high school anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:16 PM
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I love when a woman calls someone immature for using loose pussy energy, then their comment history shows them constantly using small dick energy 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:07 PM
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So why not try to change perception instead of constantly body shaming with these phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:07 PM
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How is it a one sided movement that is disadvantageous to women when all the push to stop body shaming is to stop body shaming of women? Women can make fun of guy's features and more easily get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:04 PM
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What about 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:54 AM
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You’re question about being less than 26 isn’t really the gotcha you think it is. Considering the average age of virginity loss is 18, it shows plenty of people ARE gaining real experience when younger. Me and other virgins who are past that age by a few years have a right to be concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:44 AM
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Except from me obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:28 PM
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Problem is I have never met a woman who was attracted to me in that way at all. I don't even think one has been attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:26 PM
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Don't you have to do some level of flirting though so that she does not just see it as purely platonic? If I approach like I would a potential male friend, I won't be flirting, and therefore, I will probably end up as a friend to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:01 PM
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Approaching a woman that you want to date like a man that you want to be your friend won't work. You'll most likely end up being just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:43 PM
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How unattractive is a high pitched voice? I’m 21 but I don’t think I sound like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:19 PM
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Thank you for the kind words, help, and the resources that you linked me to ❤️. I will look tomorrow when I am a bit more rested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:49 AM
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Unfortunately, I do not have a therapist. Stigma about opening up makes me really afraid to seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:08 AM
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Yes, the mental support in general is not the best. And women can definitely feel isolated too in this struggle. But I don't think that there is the same level of visceral disgust shown to women who are struggling mentally as there is with men. I am constantly told "stop being dramatic," "snap out of it," "it's not that bad." I've been suicidal for a few months and have come close to ending it, and feeling like I can't talk to anyone close to me is definitely the most isolating feeling in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:04 AM
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I'd say being left to your own devices in terms of mental health. As a man, if you have mental health struggles, it's basically sink or swim/you are left stranded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:29 PM
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I need to exercise all of my options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:43 PM
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You know I usually hate no sleep stories but this one was actually kind of good/creepy. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:13 AM
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Not as hot as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:47 PM
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Shaming for lack of experience is a legitimate concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:38 PM
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Unfortunately I do not have a friend to teach me. I am a bit afraid to mention it bc I hear often that women find inexperience at a late age unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:34 PM
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What can a 21 yo guy who’s never kissed anyone before do to at least be somewhat decent at kissing when the first time comes? Afraid she’ll notice how inexperienced I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:49 PM
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21 yo here who may be a bit clueless on buying a house process lol. Is 20 percent down payment that I learned about actually/still a thing? I imagine that even with a good salary, if one is buying a house worth 600k, it would take a while to save up 120k to pull out/put down immediately when buying the house. Am I just woefully stupid/misinformed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:47 PM
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I’m not dog shit at negging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:42 PM
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Well I guess one might consider me one since I’ve never gotten sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:05 PM
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You don’t even know me or what I do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:34 PM
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Yes, sex is a major part of marriage lol. Most people with an active sex drive want sex in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:20 PM
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I also think your point is iffy. Tons of men are motivated by the idea of eventually starting a family/getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:18 PM
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Most men are not capable of accomplishing what Einstein and newton did. Like, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:15 PM
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This will come off as complaining but I am sick of comments where someone’s like “sex doesn’t have to be such a big deal/ motivation, look with Einstein/Newton/etc did.” Please stop using humans tiers above other humans in intelligence as an example for what the norm is able to do. Most people are not capable of doing what they are doing no matter the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:05 PM
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Go back to the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:56 PM
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Q4A- what tips would you give to a guy who’s not packing(4 inch bone pressed) to make sex good for his potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:53 PM
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I’m here for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:48 PM
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What did you note above? You reduced my issues to simply wanting to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:42 PM
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Feeling aimless in general, apathy/depression, loneliness not just in a romantic sense(although a romantic relationship would be nice, it’s not all about sex, I want other things within a romantic relationship), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:20 PM
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It’s not just about men not getting laid/hotties on tinder, there’s tons of other issues too that I relate to. But go off poppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:44 PM
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Close to graduation but college has been quite a bad experience for me tbh. Have my driving license and I do love driving actually lol. Just the rest I’m not too happy about. Never been successful in dating, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:39 PM
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Based off of the "Why are men in crisis?" post yesterday, which I found very interesting, what tips would you give to a guy that relates to some of the problems? 21, quite lonely at times, feel bleak/apathetic about the future. Open to all advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:26 AM
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I feel this also describes me a bit, have become very apathetic lately and don't care about much. Not sure what can be done to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:44 PM
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A lot of people say I should not have struggles dating in a city like NYC given the women to man ratio, but I don't think they realize that the competition here also tends to be stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 PM
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Q4 Parents- How disappointed on a scale of 1-10 would you be if your son didn’t find dating success/get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:54 PM
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Yes, I am surprised I am not dead yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:50 PM
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Q4W- Is a below average dick(think 4 inches) a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:54 PM
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I knew you were toxic already but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:54 PM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:35 AM
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Q4M who struggle with dating here- At what age did you realize you were in trouble/probably Not gonna have a normal dating experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:30 AM
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How would you feel if the dude did not say anything and was good enough that you did not suspect anything but later found out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:07 PM
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Seems I should Lie about my inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:57 PM
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Q4A- how much do you value past sexual experience in a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:16 PM
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Which is why I will simply go down the lying route lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:49 AM
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Yes Though I guess this is a society in general issue too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:17 AM
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Physical attraction lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:08 PM
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There’s a lot more to romance though than simply living a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:00 PM
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Q4A- How important do you think success in dating Is for living a happy life? Do you think someone who constantly fails at finding romance can be happy for their whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:51 PM
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This is where I first saw elk cooked. It looks pretty good this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:34 PM
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Wow moose was terrible? It looked delicious on channels I’ve seen. Elk is supposed to be amazing plus it’s just such a cool animal. What did bear taste like? Haven’t had black bear yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:19 PM
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Hmmmm I have never had squirrel, maybe eventually lol. My dream hunt is an elk hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:10 PM
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Obviously we eat what we hunt, in fact I really like the taste of deer meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:02 PM
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Q4W- Is hunting as a hobby a deal breaker for you in a potential partner? Seems like a lot of women I know don't think of it too fondly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:47 PM
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Q4A- At what point would you tell someone to maybe stop focusing on dating and perhaps take a break for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:11 AM
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Found the responses on my recent post interesting. Seems that a lot of parents do see a lack of dating from their child as quite a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:19 PM
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Yes I have friends, it has never lead to a romantic connection with anyone however.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:08 PM
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But I actually have wanted to date, sure some of it is pressure, but it’s not like I’ve been entirely uninterested this whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:29 AM
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Oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:02 PM
3

Oh god so I have a year left 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:34 AM
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Q4A- If you had/have children, what age would you start being concerned if you knew they had no experience with the opposite sex/any romantic interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:29 AM
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Q4W- If a man was terrible at sex the first time you hooked up, would you assume he is a virgin or just think he’s bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:56 PM
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He won’t feel your wrath because he doesn’t give af about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:56 PM
1

What if the guy was just really bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:32 PM
1

In about a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:21 PM
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I don’t think this “No one cares if you a virgin after college” thing on Reddit I see is true. Majority of adults will judge you differently if they find out that you are a virgin at a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:00 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:56 PM
1

Fair enough. I only really asked bc I wanted a parents perspective on it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:02 PM
2

Question for parents- How would you feel if none of your kids wanted kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:53 PM
2

What would you think if your son didn’t want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:15 PM
4

Most people don’t make a mark in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:04 PM
1

A ton lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:53 AM
2

Ok, but what if I’m not attractive enough to sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:53 AM
4

How is attracting a woman through looks effeminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:59 AM
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My point is that it doesn’t matter if no one seems to know them, my point was that a lot of people hold negative views towards virgins simply for being virgins. The social pressure for a man to succeed with women is intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:49 PM
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Been bullied for being a virgin since 19, evidently lots of people see it as a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:43 PM
3

What are good places to go to meet a potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:13 PM
1

It is what it is I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:25 AM
2

Yeah I was pretty aware of this tbh, just pointing out the logic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:29 AM
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The focus on yourself and it will eventually happen advice seems stupid to me because I feel like if it was bound to happen naturally I would have just lost my virginity at the average age to lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:58 PM
1

Thank you, I was gonna ask if maybe I could send a pic for a rating? 😂. No worries if you don’t feel comfortable with that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:58 PM
3

I don’t believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:57 PM
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Not sure, maybe looks? I’m a bit introverted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:23 PM
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No, I just like… got rejected in high school/ and before covid hit still didn’t have much luck in college. Ngl, it sucked watching people get prom dates and everything when I just had to end up going alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:19 PM
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Unfortunately I am not low libido 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:01 PM
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Lol that was quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:02 PM
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Q4A- Would you find someone weird for being a virgin at 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:02 PM
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Fair point, but how many women do you know have a problem getting the attraction of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:48 PM
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Yeah but I think you have this perspective bc you have had consistent sex for a while now. It's different for a dude who has not been desired in that way yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:40 PM
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Is that your strategy, just call everything self-pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:49 PM
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17, it’s even lower for a first kiss, I’m 21 and haven’t experienced either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:34 PM
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Kind of hard not to obsess over it when you’ve been shamed for it and are 4 years past the average to have ones first sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:24 PM
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I didn’t say you had to care about other men not getting it. Just stop saying it’s not a big deal when like 85 percent of movies and songs are about love/sex, and people are shamed for being virgins past a certain age. That shows it’s a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:18 PM
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What do we mean by not necessary? I think a majority of people would be very upset if they found out they weren’t going to have sex for the rest of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:17 PM
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A ton of studies show that consistent sex is beneficial for both physical and mental health. Therefore, I think when people having sex here tell the virgins or inexperienced that sex is just sex and it’s not that big of a deal, that it is just a plain lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:11 PM
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It’s because some women consider it a turnoff. It’s intimidating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:06 AM
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Lol Denying looks play any part is quite annoying tbh. It just comes across as out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:05 PM
1

Nice job going through my post history
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:44 PM
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Your delusion is showing saying it’s not about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:28 PM
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I'm confused by the first sentence. Wouldn't saying that missing stages is a problem indicate that the stages are in fact important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:05 PM
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The point was to get a larger amount of opinions on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:51 PM
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Coming from someone who dismisses all of young mens experiences when they share them? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:09 PM
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God the blue pill bs in that 4 11 guy dating advice post is outrageous. Are people on dating advice just that clueless, or do they just not have the guts to tell him he is 4'11? People are braindead these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:33 PM
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See you’re already doing it. Being curious about why we are a virgin past 20 is why we often lie. We just want to be seen as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:42 PM
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I’m not imagining things were different at all. It’s a fact that there was no old in the 80s. It’s also a fact that male sexlessness has gone up since old became super popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:14 PM
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I’ve made arguments and you’ve just dismissed them all. And, saying “I got rejected too is not an argument.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:06 PM
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I think you missed the point of a debate sub. Clown behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:01 PM
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When they give advice on how to date women and say it’s not that hard, and say that men today are capping about their experiences, that implies they know the challenges of trying to date women. Maybe stop speaking on it if they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:57 PM
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The standards were lower back then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah but you’re missing the point. I have to keep trying the common action here. If I stop asking women out I’ll just die a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:53 PM
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And what else am I supposed to be doing different than asking women out poppy? That’s kinda how men get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:46 PM
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It’s not impatient when you’re years past the age to have normal dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:43 PM
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Keep trying most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:43 PM
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Yes, women who dated in the 80s and 90s, therefore they have no idea what the current landscape is like. How do you miss that point? We don’t know that because the man in the 80s did not have to deal with such massive changes in dating norms, such as the introduction of online dating. But go off king(queen?).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:42 PM
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I mean I’ve been rejected quite a bit in real life too and haven’t been able to find dating success yet. But here’s the dismissive attitude I’m talking about. Almost as pathetic as you bragging about how your husband used to bully people in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:41 PM
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The factors I’ve listed have changed how dating is significantly. So stop dismissing experiences young men I have had based off of how you dated in the 80s poppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:34 PM
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See above comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:30 PM
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This doesn’t prove anything. As another commenter pointed out, changes within the generation are making people fall back towards genetic disposition/make dating harder than it was back then. With young women having more options than ever due to old, people becoming less social, and less healthy overall, dating has undeniably gotten harder for both genders. These women I’m talking about were actively dating around the 80s-early 90s, which is nowhere near the same as 2022 dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:26 PM
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I love when people dismiss the experiences of young men here and go “it wasn’t like that when I was growing up.” And then you investigate and it turns out they’re almost 50. Like yeah no shit it wasn’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:58 PM
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False again poppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:35 PM
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Clown behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:14 PM
3

Good job dismissing someone who has experience in the exact subject we’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:11 PM
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I apologize, I missed that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:05 PM
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That's not an answer, that is basically an attack on all of the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:58 PM
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The point of my question was to address why there are more men who are outcasts than women. But go off queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:57 PM
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It's not exactly self made at that point, because once a man finds himself in that situation, it is very hard to break into social groups that will help him get out, due to the trust issues I pointed out in other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:35 PM
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There is also way more support available to women who find themselves in these situations than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:32 PM
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So why not just say that aqua? You are making it seem in the other comment like they enjoy being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:30 PM
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I think that is more of a coping strategy so that they don't have to face the despair head on. That option is way harder to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:28 PM
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I think there are. For example, in the US, there is basically double the amount of homeless men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:24 PM
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I think the first point is a good one. Once a guy becomes an outcast, getting any group to trust him is going to be tough. Women seem to be seen as harmless even if they are outcast and get through that trust barrier without much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:03 PM
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This is the most low effort post I have ever seen in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:49 AM
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Q4A- Why do you think there are more men who are outcasts/ at the fringes of society than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:48 AM
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I don’t know if that’s true. Unless I am getting the definition wrong, by fringes of society he probably means outcasts or really lonely people. It’s way easier for a woman to break into a social group as an outcast than a man. Outcast men aren’t trusted, and it’s hard to break into groups that are immediately gonna be wary of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:43 AM
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Well when society constantly shames virgins, and makes people who can’t get laid the butt of their joke, don’t expect them not to feel sad/lonely when they can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:18 PM
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Romantic loneliness and general loneliness are not the same thing. There are several things friends can’t provide that a romantic partner does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:14 PM
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My argument is that it isn’t unhealthy to feel upset about missing out on something that the majority of humans go to seek out and experience. Humans are social animals. If we see a ton of us getting into romantic relationships, we’re naturally going to want to do that. If we can’t obtain it, it’s not unreasonable to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:07 PM
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You're simplifying it too much. Being happy single is not the same as being happy being single for the rest of your life. I don't think it is unhealthy to be upset/unhappy of the idea of spending the rest of your life without a romantic relationship. In fact, I'd go as far to say that a ton of people would be miserable if they were to live without a romantic relationship for the rest of their days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:03 PM
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Honestly? I would rather them just acknowledge that it sucks and is awful to deal with, rather than dismiss it by saying relationships are not a big deal, that sex is overrated, and all of that other stuff, while simultaneously continuously seeking out sex and relationships. If they weren't such a big deal they would not be constantly seeking them out. Those kind of people only think it is a big deal because they have never had a problem obtaining those things. I also call into question your las…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah it's part of the comment you originally replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:58 PM
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It's dismissive because saying something is not important when you have seeked it out and obtained it your whole life, clearly shows it is important. And since these people have easily attained it, they don't see it as a big deal. Telling someone who has trouble getting something that you easily get that it is "not a big deal" comes across as dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:57 PM
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And I respect that, but it also seems like a ton of people have no sympathy for those who are trying as well, and are just like, well, "tough luck."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:50 PM
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And that’s where your assumption falls apart, because you’re basically saying being blue pilled is automatically equivalent to being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:46 PM
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While it’s obviously true that no one is entitled to love or intimacy, telling someone who’s been alone for years to just be content being single and happy with the idea of living out the rest of these days like that is quite dismissive. It’s even worse when it comes from people who have been hooking up since high school, in and out of relationships since college, and will never have to worry about being forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:44 PM
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Well yeah that was kind of the point of my scenario, she’s the first woman he’s ever gotten with in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:15 PM
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How true is the idea that women want a guy who just “gets it” with dating and are turned off by guys who had to heavily invest themselves in order to become good with women? For example, if a woman was dating a 24 yo old, and she found out that he never got any action throughout hs/college and he had to put in all this work to get action, how much of a turn off would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:59 PM
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If they weighted looks more heavily their threshold would be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:03 PM
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But my main point is that if men place a higher emphasis on looks, their standards/threshold for looks would be higher. I mean isn’t a common phrase “men will fuck anything?” Doesn’t seem like the looks threshold is high then. I don’t get how people can say mens looks threshold is higher when women are more selective about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:49 PM
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Going off a post I saw while scrolling down here, saying men care more about looks yet simultaneously have a lower look threshold doesn’t make sense to me. If they cared more about looks than women, their threshold would be higher. But it seems like women have much more higher standards on looks than men, hence making their looks threshold higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:42 PM
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I don’t think dating sucks tbh, and Im not obsessed with it as I used to be. But I’ll try to keep it in moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:54 PM
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I feel like finding a woman who is into that is much harder than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:51 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:44 PM
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I get there’s some amount of difference but I also don’t think it’s that big of a deal to just be vague about it or avoid the topic. Especially if it might be a turnoff to prospective partners. I do usually like your advice since you have way more experience than me but I do feel a bit different on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:26 PM
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I know I have other issues to deal with, but this is a sub focused on talking about dating/sex/relationships, so this is where I talk about this topic and how it relates to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:04 PM
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My plan was to go with the flow if I was never asked, but if it was bought up, my plan was to kind of be vague or to maybe just flat out lie and said I had a few experiences here or there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:37 PM
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Yeah that’s the whole thing, I wouldn’t prefer to lie about but then I could run into the whole catch 22 of not being able to get experience because of my inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:32 PM
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Why does “my sexual history is no one’s business,” often said by women, suddenly become a problem to them when I mention the possibility of me lying about being a virgin because I don’t want a woman I am seeing being potentially turned off by the fact that I never kissed or had sex with anyone else before her? Then I get told, “you should be honest,” or “it’s weird to lie about such a thing that is no big deal.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:25 PM
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Reach only matters if the guy knows what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:34 AM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:30 AM
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Ok so as an inexperienced guy what’s the balance between getting to know someone before asking them out and using a friendship to get in someone’s pants? I ask bc when I vented to someone in life about my inexperience/lack of dating success, they told me maybe stop trying to ask out women right away and get to know them first. Then when I went with that method and didn’t have to seem luck, I was criticized for using friendship to try to obtain sex, and that I should’ve made my intentions clear s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:49 PM
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I was being sarcastic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:44 PM
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What about when you were 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:12 PM
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Guess I am fucked then /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah I really relate to what you are saying. It seems hard to find the balance between too desperate and too care free. I don’t want to let it progress into a later age but at the same time I don’t want to make it entirely my focus. It’s tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:02 PM
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So how should I, a 21 yo guy without any experience, go about trying to fix this you think? Just try to get any experience possible? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:53 PM
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A topic I’ve debated with people a bit for the past week. How important do you think “developmental stages” are for people to go through in dating/sex/romance. A large majority of people get their first kiss and lose their virginity during high school or college. If one misses out on those during their school years, how much of a detriment do you think it is for future success?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:48 PM
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A little better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:26 PM
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Seems like opening up can often be a bad idea. And I hate to say my experiences seem to confirm a lot of these responses as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:40 PM
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Probably drove him away with her misandry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:21 PM
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I know but I’d like to get it out of the way and not lose opportunities due to it… it’s hard being in this position 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:55 PM
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A catch 22 is basically a problem that occurs when the solution to a problem is part of the problem itself. For example, employers often won’t hire those who don’t have job experience. Said person needs a job to get experience, but won’t be given one due to their lack of it, causing a difficult loop to get out of. Similar case here, a lot of women aren’t attracted to sexually inexperienced men. The only way to get experience is to have sex, but their options are limited due to their inexperience…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:58 PM
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And would you judge him for being a virgin pats a “normal” age?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:42 PM
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Yeah unfortunately I don’t think most are like you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:39 PM
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And how exactly do you do that? Confidence seems to come from success or positive reinforcement. Don’t really have that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:04 PM
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Basically a situation that can only be solved by something that is also causing the problem. For example, a person who has no job experience won’t get hired because of their lack of experience, but the only way you could get experience is by getting a job. Same with sex. A lot of women won’t sleep with men due to them being a virgin, but the only way for them to not be a virgin is to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:33 PM
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I’ve gotten different opinions on this, I’ve spoken to a few men that said most potential partners had bought it up before having sex. I want to have something for when that comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:44 AM
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Thank you kind sir 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:39 AM
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Well yeah this is basically the whole reason I thought about lying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:00 AM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:07 AM
2

Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:37 AM
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Exactly, I always see that someone’s sexual history is no one’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:11 PM
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That’s not tricking someone into having sex I don’t think, she was willing to have sex with you already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:51 PM
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Yeah I’m not saying I would do it, haven’t decided yet, just asking for thoughts in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:39 PM
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Yeah I have a bad habit of using lol a lot in conversations over text.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:47 PM
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In my experience a lot of the whole sex doesn’t matter /there are more things to life crowd will be the first to shame someone for lack of sexual success. Lol. They do realize they are proving the person who thinks sex is important right when they do that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:44 PM
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That sounds more like of a lack of direction thing than an incel thing tbh. Though I guess they kinda go hand in hand in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:26 PM
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I find it fascinating that middle schoolers are using that word. I wasn’t in tune to any of this stuff when I was in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:15 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:12 PM
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Really? I saw a comment from a woman in college on that thread yesterday saying her and her male friends use it all the time and that was seriously pathetic IMO lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:12 PM
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Has anyone actually heard people seriously use the word incel in real life? I was reading the thread yesterday and Someone said no one actually uses that word in person and I was thinking maybe they are right as I’ve never heard it offline. It just seems so cringey to be using that irl for some reason 😂. I also saw this woman say her and her male friends use it unironically all the time and that seriously sounded pathetic imo lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:08 PM
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Except most people don’t use the word incel in the way you describe it. I also think it’s pretty bad to use it in the way you are using it as well. You are just dismissing sexless people as people who have fucked up minds or views. How do you think someone who just hasn’t had success romantically feel when they get called that or just hear that word tossed around and it makes it seem like they are only judged by how much romantic success they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:42 PM
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And what about people that didn’t gain dating experiences or learn how to date during their young years? They are just dismissed as weird for having to learn stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:40 PM
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You do realize though by doing that you are just re inforcing the view that men are only worth much if they can get sex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:38 PM
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Yeah it is very easy to get one in the US. If I really wanted to I can just go and buy a rifle right now with no problems. Except for the fact that there is a shortage currently. I do agree that people should get proper training with their weapon as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:41 PM
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I don’t know about the situation in Seattle, but my point is that the military doesn’t need to actually resort to something as dramatic as nukes to stomp the average person with a gun. A lot of people will buy a gun bc it gives them that comfort feeling for a self defense situation, but not practice with it, and then find that actually being accurate and smooth with it is nearly impossible. The majority of people who own guns don’t do anywhere near enough training to be competent with them reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:39 AM
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Yeah, I see that our gun policies are problematic, I just don't know what to really do. Having the police non armed here really is not an option bc of the amount of guns in circulation in the United States. Plus a ton of people here have guns for home defense reasons it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:15 AM
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I’ve always been “pro” gun but that’s only cause I want to use mine for hunting. It may be an unpopular opinion but I never understood the whole defense from the government thing because this isn’t the old days anymore. My lever action rifle isn’t Gonna stop me from getting drone striked or other military technology that would shit all over me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:10 AM
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Bruh the comment was posted 2 minutes ago… Give people a chance 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:17 AM
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I’m actually happy to be alive for the first time in a while and that feels great :).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:42 AM
1

Yeah maybe I will do that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:14 PM
1

Leaning towards the fishing pole now. Maybe I can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:03 PM
1

Should I get my dad a new fishing pole for Father’s Day or two boxes of ammo for the upcoming hunting season? Both are common shares hobbies of ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah I’m sure it’s not wasted but I only really care about the meat bc it tastes really good to me and I can make burgers and everything out of it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:21 PM
1

Someone at my camp skins and processes the deer for me so I’m not exactly sure where the hide goes tbh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:15 PM
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Nah his argument is that if I’m gonna hunt at least use the full animal. But I’m not really interested in rugs or anything and only care for the meat so it’s pointless to me. And I also don’t like spending 800 dollars for a deer mount. Maybe if I shoot a really big one lll mount one, but for most I just like taking the meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:14 PM
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I don’t think what you’re saying is wrong but I think that the cat is out of the bag in the US unfortunately. Meaning there are so many guns in circulation that you can’t really get them back. Now obv I support reasonable controls but I’m saying totally stopping it is pretty much impossible at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:46 AM
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My friend told me he’s against and thinks I’m weird for hunting and then goes and asks me if I can get him a bear rug next time I shoot one… Seems hypocritical. 😂. I then told him I don’t shoot bears bc their meat doesn’t taste good and he just accused me of being scared of bears lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:43 AM
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I’m up at 3 AM Bc I fell asleep on the couch at like 9 while watching baseball like an old man yesterday. And now I can’t get back to bed :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:06 AM
1

I will try lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:20 PM
1

That’s a great perspective, I just don’t want to blow all my saved up money and then be like oops I actually want to live and then have nothing left lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:22 PM
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Well, I don’t want to start blowing my money unless I’m 100 percent going to go through with… well ya know. I want to try to maybe get out of that mindset, so I’m not touching my money really for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:58 PM
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I’m hanging in there, doing the best I can given the situation. Trying to hold on enough to tell my parents or go to a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:29 PM
1

It’s in my post history lol, I don’t feel like giving too much of a run down right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:04 PM
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How’s everybody doing here? Haven’t posted in the regular daily for a while bc ya know the whole situation, but I have been talking to some of the people on here I was close to. Is everyone else doing ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:33 PM
2

Can’t answer your first question but I don’t think it’s weird to get them to get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:23 AM
2

I don’t think it’s too late either but ya know it’s just my mind racing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:52 AM
2

I feel bad too, but my friend bragging about how they would win the finals all year had this coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:37 AM
1

That’s odd. When I checked it a few minutes ago it was private 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:36 AM
1

It made me really happy too. The “turns out we’re both terrible kissers” part made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:27 AM
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The suns sub made their sub private LOL. I think I’m gonna ease up on trolling my suns fan friend tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:27 AM
3

I’m not intending on waiting ten years lol, I am more worried that I’ll wake up and just be in that situation one day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:22 AM
2

This makes me happy for the guy and I was smiling while reading this post but I also can’t imagine going through another ten years waiting for this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:17 AM
3

Luka is putting his nuts in the suns’ mouth, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:06 AM
3

Suns fans watching this game right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:59 AM
1

You do you friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:44 AM
1

I have a 4 inch dick and it’s a massive insecurity so a 7 seems to be way the go. But without the balls then… ya know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:30 AM
1

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:24 AM
2

Is it naive or odd of me to think missionary would be my favorite position. It always seems like it is referred to as the "boring" position, both on reddit and by my friends lol. But it seems like it would be great tbh. Maybe my inexperience is showing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:12 AM
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I will tread carefully, the only thing I worry about is if my gf wants a reason why I won't let her meet my Mom. I don't want to trauma dump all of the things I have pent up about what she has done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:54 PM
2

Glad to see you have a fuck it attitude about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:52 PM
2

That is good, you seem like you will be a good parent with those qualities. Things are alright at home regarding your second point, it is just that My mom has shamed me so much, going to the point of calling me pathetic and embarrassing, for never having a gf. I am tempted to not even let her meet my partner when I get one, and she has the nerve to press me for grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:30 PM
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No, I was talking about how she constantly roasts me for being unsuccessful in romance but now asking for kids. She won’t even be meeting my children at this rate if I have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:08 PM
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Are you planning on having kids eventually? I’m on the fence for several reasons. But I hate how our parents put pressure on us. My mom has a lotttt of nerve to even ask after the shit she has pulled with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:02 PM
3

I hope my brother gives that to them then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:59 PM
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Who exactly is a child free person being selfish towards? I only ask bc when I say I’m on the fence my family is bewildered and goes “Not even one? That’s so selfish.” To who? It’d be selfish to bring a kid into the world when I can’t take proper care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:51 PM
2

That last line 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:30 PM
1

You’re killing me bandit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:10 PM
1

Q4W- Is it a turnoff during sex if a man asks if you are enjoying a specific act? Like if I was fingering her and I asked "Does that feel good?" or "Do you like that?" I have been told if I am going to ask stuff like that to phrase it in a specific way or to keep it sexy. How can I ask a question like that without killing the mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:46 PM
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When you hear sex is not that big of a deal and then you read stuff like this. I do feel bad though. I think she might have to end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:33 PM
1

Thank you being understanding of our insecurities over this. I wish you the best, sincerely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:15 PM
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I’m wishing you the best of luck. This is hard and I know what it feels like and I hope things work out for you :).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:58 PM
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Jacking off is not the same as a sexual connection and it especially won’t fulfill you if you have not even experienced your first kiss or lost your virginity yet, like me. Romantic loneliness is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:30 PM
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Thank you for that last point, I’m not a robot, I can’t just switch off my emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:04 PM
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Bear spray and pepper spray are not the same. Though yes, a gun is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:49 PM
1

I agree with everything you said. Though I am more focused on a physical connection right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:44 PM
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Most shooters won’t be hitting one, yes, due to surprise and nerves. It also depends on caliber, a grizzly can’t eat 300 Winchester magnum from a rifle or 44 magnum from a handgun in vital areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:10 PM
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It’s not a low libido perspective, it’s a Lilith perspective. That is, I’m right and you’re wrong and too bad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:33 PM
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Yeah, I wasn’t saying it was fucked up to lose your virginity at 16, that’s a normal age. What is fucked up to me about it is that the bullying started that early.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:25 PM
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😂😂. You’re killing me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:59 PM
3

Would a guy who struggles with social skills but is trying to improve them fall into this camp?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:58 PM
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That pisses me off to how the bear gets punished for simply doing it’s thing when people don’t take the appropriate precautions. I hate saying this but he was asking for that mauling by doing that. Also like I said I’m a pretty calm and accurate shooter but I’d prob miss everything if a grizzly was steaming towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:53 PM
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It’s not just by friends, it’s by family too. My own Mom saying “He’s pathetic for never having a relationship.” Making fun of me with others in my family for lack of social skills/stuttering. That shit hurts. It’s like a bullet through your chest hearing that from your own mom. And I can’t just go scorched earth on everyone, I still really love my dad and if I nuke the relationship with the rest of my family I could lose him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:50 PM
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Wow, I didn’t even know that. Though I’d probably be such a nervous wreck with a grizzly charging me I’d prob miss all of my shots anyway. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:44 PM
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Those people are braindead, yes. Even if I was stupid enough to get that close. I would never be in grizzly territory with a high caliber handgun on me or bear spray, preferably both. Unfortunately you can’t carry weapons in Yellowstone I think. Your point stands though. Stay the fuck away from the wild animals. They are not your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:39 PM
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😂😂. It also doesn’t make sense bc humans used to live in the woods and it was our territory too. Just bc we moved into urban areas doesn’t mean we can’t go into the woods. Really the only true place humans don’t belong in is the ocean, because we are pretty defenseless there 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:34 PM
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I can’t stand those PETA people who have no sympathy when someone gets brutally mauled by a bear or another animal because “you were in the bears territory!!!!!.” I saw on a focus group once this guy said he wouldn’t try to save his child if it was being attacked by a mountain lion near him in the woods because they were accepting the risks going into their territory. Imagine how much of a bitch and mentally fucked you have to be to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:30 PM
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Yeah that seems like a good reason to not bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:28 PM
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As long as my friends don’t say anything stupid I don’t think she will find out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:56 PM
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I wouldn’t say this to an ex. I’m talking about if I was in a relationship with her. Or maybe I’m missing your point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:49 PM
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My goal of doing that is to boost her ego a bit. Is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah fuck it. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it as long as she didn’t find out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:23 PM
2

I hate fantasy baseball.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:18 PM
2

Would it be a jerk move to tell a future partner that didn’t know I was a virgin that she was the best sex I ever had to boost her confidence even though I had no previous sexual counters? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:14 PM
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I don’t think they are seen as failures though if they haven’t had sex yet like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:52 PM
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Damn as early as 16? That’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:16 PM
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Lol, you’re cracking me up over here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:06 PM
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I wish it wasn’t relevant in my groups after high school lol. It would save me from a lot of embarrassing moments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:58 PM
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I agree with you. I’ve tried turning the cheek when I’ve been insulted about being a virgin and it does not work. Insulting back is the only way sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:09 PM
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Thoughts on this old AITA post? Personally I hate the attitude on there about how “muh you can’t fight fire with fire.” That’s exactly what I would have done, assuming the whole thing isn’t a creative writing post. For this subs purposes let’s assume it’s not lol. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:27 AM
3

Ah tis a perfect day for watching a beautiful game 7 of basketball. Pls win Milwaukee, I hate Boston.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:05 AM
3

Quab is a user here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:10 AM
1

Thank you. It is what it is I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:48 AM
1

Yeah I almost cried again hearing that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:40 AM
3

What’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:28 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:19 AM
2

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:15 AM
2

LOL 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:13 AM
3

I don’t think it really changes much hearing that but idk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:12 AM
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Lol, that made me laugh a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:41 PM
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"Remember we ate(my name's) birthday cake without him" proceeded by laughing. How can you get a laugh out of a night where your son felt more lonely than ever and was crying in his bed at night because of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:37 PM
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No, I don't have an alt, I kinda was just skim reading and saw your question. Didn't realize that you were asking him specifically. I will excuse myself now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:28 PM
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Yes, I would like a romantic relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:24 PM
4

It’s not a legit question. It’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:12 PM
5

Lol, this is bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:09 PM
4

As a gen z person I can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:51 PM
5

Funny joke or crossed the line? Wise members of ppd pls share your opinions on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:25 PM
6

Yeah I quit cold turkey a few months ago, and I refuse to go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:06 PM
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Maybe if I can have a few relationships then I could learn. But there’s zero chance I can be happy alone forever without even getting my first kiss or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:06 PM
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Yeah, it sounds ridiculous cause it is lol. 20-25 was child’s play to me once I practiced(practicing zombies lol). Even 40 was a joke because of how much I played it. Round 80 games take like 6 hours plus though and fry your brain, wouldn’t recommend lol. Hopefully I’ll be fine, I’m working on it slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:00 PM
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The problem is that now I am socially behind and have to learn stuff I should have learned during my teenage years. But hey, I got to round 80 on every map, so that counts for something, right? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:54 PM
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I can’t believe I threw some of the important learning years of socialization away for being obsessed with getting high rounds on fucking cod zombies 🤣. God I hate that I got addicted to video games at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:45 PM
2

I loved doctor strange. The scene where Wanda brutally slaughters the Illuminati was so good. Edit- Fuck I should have put spoilers but I’m too lazy now oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:08 PM
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It makes it impossible for me to win the arguments when they move the goal posts. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:56 PM
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If a woman asks about previous sexual history, is “why are you asking” way too defensive of an answer? I only ask bc that’s part of the advice I was given about lying about my inexperience. Idk I feel like that might send out defensive vibes right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:24 PM
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He’s leaving his mark as the biggest hypocrite to grace the ppd sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:04 PM
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This, going to bed alone every night when you desire someone to be close to and cuddle with is very tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:04 PM
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I agree with that, although I would say I think a good relationship>good friendship. Obviously that is more of a personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:01 PM
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This guy preaches about leaving a mark on the world when he most likely is doing jack shit himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:31 PM
2

It makes the batter firmer and easier to form the cookies. You get less flat pancake cookies and more chunky cookies as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:24 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:19 PM
3

Chill the dough if you have time lol. Trust me it’s worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:18 PM
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Oh I’m not really red pill per say, I think you could say all pills have some truths. I agree with you, I’d also rather have love than leave a mark. I don’t even plan on having children, so any impact I have after my death is not something I worry about. I don’t worry about it because I personally believe that after you die, that’s it. You won’t be able to see any impact you make on the world, because you’ll be dead. Also, I’d love to see what captain smartass over here is practicing what he is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:02 PM
1

I’ll go with my cookies. Those are my specialty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:41 PM
1

What in life made you so red?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:38 PM
3

Shall I make Choco chip cookies or Brownies for next weeks party? Or both?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:32 PM
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I don't think it is bad faith, I think it is more of a lack of understanding. I don't think most people hold any malicious intent when giving this advice. And yes, making friends would be good in the meantime, but if you already have friends then that also becomes kinda meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:22 PM
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That was not an essay about that, that was an essay about how friends will not fill the desire for a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:16 PM
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Stop referring to it as an obsession with sex. I never said it was a "need." I said I would like to experience it and it would make me upset if I could not. You are the only one who said I said it was a need. I don't care about having an impact on the world, I want a normal, even average, if you would call it that, life. Finding a calling and grinding away at it for no reason is not appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:04 PM
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It should not be suggested like that but it seems like it is. Every time I see a post of someone being sad about not having a partner, it is pretty much automatically assumed that this person also has zero friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:55 PM
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Well that one is probably true lol. But why even give out advice on the internet to put out someone's "whining." You don't have to respond to them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:43 PM
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Um, why would I make this post if I thought friends could fill the void? That is the advice other people try to give. I would not be making a cmv on it if I agreed with that opinion??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:34 PM
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I think you highly over estimate the effect on real life reading virgin stuff has. And also, most virgin men aren’t reading this stuff. A lot of us are just normal men who just haven’t had success yet in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:04 PM
3

Who, if any, are the ppd users you’d like to meet the most if you had to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:00 PM
2

lol I feel that. Push mowing is a pain in the ass, even with the mowers where you don’t even need to push really and you can just pull that lever and move 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:27 PM
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Another cmv that I don’t want to make a full post for: I think the idea on Reddit of women or men saying things like “No wonder why women want nothing to do with you, you’re giving off desperate and virgin vibes” is vastly overstated. Unless the guy blatantly admits it, or goes around saying creepy or other shit I feel like it’d be hard to tell. With me, you might tell by initial awkwardness, but I’m pretty normal once you get to know me. My friend group knows I’m a virgin but that’s only becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:07 PM
2

That’s good. I plan to take myself on a fishing trip(it’s my favorite hobby) and then go to my favorite restaurant this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:44 PM
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Thank you, it sucked crying alone in my bed afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:27 PM
1

Yikes, I am sorry about that. It really sucks to feel like no one cares about you on your birthday, not that it is bad enough on its own. And the fact that there were no presents or take out or anything is upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:26 PM
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I’m ok now, but I still have quite a bit of pain over that birthday. I have other people I trust but it doesn’t feel the hole of a loving family, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:53 AM
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I know it’s pretty inevitable and that they talk about it with their friends and it could be healthy, I really cringe at the idea of my partners friends knowing my exact dick size and how I perform in bed and everything. Idk why it just makes me uncomfortable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:34 AM
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You do realize the slippery slope you’re going down right? This argument of yours can make it seem that a person who uses anything to boost their mental health in addition to their base is an addict. If a person has good mental health and enjoys playing sports with his friends every weekend and that makes him feel better in addition to how he was already feeling, is that somehow a functional addict? With your logic, they couldn’t live without playing sports every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:54 AM
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No, it is not necessarily a good comparison to a drug problem. There are people with already good base mental health that say their mental health is boosted even further by having consistent sex. It’s not necessarily the whole foundation, but it really adds onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:35 AM
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Haven’t gotten close yet and it really does feel awful. Like something is seriously wrong with you. I’m not obese but am trying to lose a bit of weight and improve my social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:33 AM
1

I do get your point. While the first time may not be great, obviously you can’t build towards finding someone to have that amazing mind blowing sex with without having your first time lol. I do think Unexperienced people like me tend to build it up more as time goes on, and will prob not find that it lived up to expectations, but at least the weight will be off our shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:20 AM
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Yeah and I think it’s important too, but it seems weird for people who do thinks it’s important to tell virgins “Sex isn’t that great” and “You’re not missing much.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:00 AM
1

Damn, that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:55 AM
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You can’t just claim sex isn’t important and then have posts about how lack of sex is destroying your relationship, or that a non lack of sex is really boosting your mental health, self esteem, and confidence. Seems important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:49 AM
2

It’s not that easy unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:37 AM
1

Lol my 21st is coming up in two months. Hopefully I can have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:33 AM
3

Has anyone else had a painful birthday experience? Like two years ago my family ate my entire birthday dinner without me bc I told them I needed a quick nap to recharge before(I go on a long fishing trip early in the morning). They called me a cry baby when I woke up and was mad about that. They also ate my birthday cake and left me to eat my slice alone in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:28 AM
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How awkward is it to both be virgins? Part of the reason I would consider it favorable to lose it with an experienced partner is so that at least one of us knows what we’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:23 AM
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Lol, sorry it’s late. My brain is shutting down. You know what I meant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:20 AM
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I think twox got an influx of twox users, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:19 AM
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Don’t let their words fool you, these women would also be out the door if they don’t weren’t able to have sex with their man. Which there is nothing wrong with, a sex drive is important and healthy. They just try to act like it’s wholesome to see sex as unimportant. It’s not wholesome at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:15 AM
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Twox has reached fds levels of unhinged. “I expect a man to buy me a house as part of his proposal.”-FDS. And twox has been off their rocker for a while now, but it gets worse every time I hear of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:09 AM
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Yikes. The husband also seems clueless with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:50 AM
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I think I’d get along with most there tbh. Unless I’m insulted about being a virgin lol. 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:48 AM
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We are all men which is obv going to be a problem for me meeting women, I admit that. I’m not sure I get your second point. You don’t get why someone would need advice unless they were looking to confirm what they thought? We are asking for advice because we are trying to change, not stay the way we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:19 AM
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It’s less about those being solo activities and those being activities that are likely to improve your looks, which is a major part in success with women. I mean, I struggle with dating, I have a very group of friends. I don’t think it’s fair to assume that need to self improve in other ways are just lonely or pathetic. Sometimes we just genuinely need advice with this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:51 AM
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Wait so people who are self improving can’t have family and friends to lean on? A dude who’s self improving doesn’t mean he has no support system
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:44 AM
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There will be emotional damage, but that goes for experienced people going through a break up too. Obviously sex and relationships isn’t all there is, but we would like to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:38 AM
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Sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:36 AM
1

It depends. Maybe if you already dressed well it won’t. If you genuinely dressed like a slob or ridiculous looking I think it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:34 AM
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You use the skills and other things you learned to get another relationship? As far as casual sex, enjoy the casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:32 AM
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I can be pretty awkward at first but become very talkative when I get comfortable. Problem being that getting comfortable for me takes a while lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:25 AM
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Since the ppd meetup idea was entertained and popular yesterday, do you think people would actually be talking about the topics here if they actually met? 😂. I’m ngl I kinda cringe thinking about talking with people in person about the stuff on this sub 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:21 AM
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Personally I disagree. It seems like these men are criticized even before a tantrum was thrown. Even mentioning that they are self improving to try to get dates gets them criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:08 AM
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How small?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:01 AM
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Sorry, hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:42 AM
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I hoped for getting an experience with a woman who is just as inexperienced as me but as I age I realize that’s much less realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:41 AM
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Lol the pure salt in this title.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:39 AM
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Glad you were able to have a good experience even though you started out late. I think for a man though it could be very embarrassing and shameful to reach a late age being a virgin. You are expected to have it by a certain age. Heck even my family roasts me about it, and not in a playful ribbing way, but in a genuinely hateful way. I think it’s different from riding a bike in that regard. No one will genuinely think you’re a pathetic person for failing how to ride on a bike. They will for being…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:04 AM
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What is your point exactly with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:33 PM
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How is a guy wanting to get experience with women pathetic? I want to experience things like my first kiss, having sex for the first time, etc. If there are ways to increase those chances I am going to try them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:28 PM
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I think all is not lost if you do not get a date. There are certain things that will be permanently improved even if one does not get a date. If one improved there social skills immensely to try and get a date, but he still failed after improving, he would still have improved social skills which is just overall a benefit in life. That is worth something, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:22 PM
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Ah yes, it’s whining not to want to be made fun of for lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:53 PM
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Username checks out. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:37 PM
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I think some of your points are dependent on whether the person has had a dating history at all. A lot of this advice is geared towards men like myself who do not have a dating history at all. If you don't have a dating history, it is going to be difficult to not be neurotic about dating success. You get curious when in this position. You want to know what such simple things such as a kiss, making out, and sex feels like. External validation is going to matter way more matter when in a situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:29 PM
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You can end up like that, but I would argue that putting in the effort and failing is still better than not having tried at all. What are us unsuccessful men supposed to do, sit on our ass and wait for us to get dates? Obviously, a lot of the changes we may make may be motivated by increasing chances at getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:08 PM
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You could still build a good foundation while working to attract women. I do agree that the end result matters the most here, and that is getting the experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:06 PM
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I can't control what women say to other women. All I could say is that I myself would not tell a woman there is anything wrong with her trying to improve her looks to be more desirable to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:00 PM
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This is not advice solely given by women, this is what men on here say too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:59 PM
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I will agree that there is no cheat code and that improving does not guarantee anything, but I also think it is better to try than to sit and do nothing and watch as any chance passes you by. But yes, valuing what you did for yourself is a little important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:54 PM
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Unfortunately, that could happen yes. It could also show him what the improvement did and as a result he could be determined not to let himself get back to the place he originally was in. But I think just getting that first experience is really crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:48 PM
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It is not necessarily making the center of your life chasing sex and women. If you don't have experience with women, you are going to be curious about what all of the things that come with intimacy, like sex and making out, are like. This is advice given to people looking to date, and considering the curiosity, it makes sense that they will make getting sex or a relationship being the end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:45 PM
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No, I think women do a lot of that so they are more appealing to the opposite sex, but I am not the one preaching that improving oneself should solely be done for yourself and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:41 PM
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Why? This advice is usually given to romantically unsuccessful men, so the end goal of those receiving the advice will probably be to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:40 PM
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Just because we may place more importance on one thing than the other, does not mean that the other is not a massive factor in how one is viewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:22 PM
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The recent post about men shouldn’t be basing their self worth on attraction is a good sentiment, but I think it’s a bit unrealistic. It’s hard to do that when societal conditioning tells you it is based on that. It’s hard to overcome that feeling on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:39 PM
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I’m not waiting for marriage, I just have a couple of flaws that make it hard to get dates. Like being extremely shy, which I am working on now, but regret not working on earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:36 PM
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I saw a post on FDS once where a woman wanted her man’s proposal to be buying her a house
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:00 PM
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If someone’s comment just says deleted and unavailable does that mean I’m blocked? If so looks like I got my first block lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:40 PM
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You really took both extremes here didn’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:37 PM
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Yeah, I just think a virgin insult is harder to counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:31 PM
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Mean specifically about me being a virgin, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:28 PM
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No, when I get embarrassed like that I kind of lose my ability to form comebacks or argue, so I kinda just changed the subject. Which is exactly what I’m talking about when I say it’s extremely effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:22 PM
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Then I guess there is a lot of trash or immature people then. And I think I should be allowed to bring up sex, I don’t act like I have knowledge on it, I often bring it up if I have questions or stuff, but I just get automatically barred from those conversations cause of my virgin status lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:19 PM
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The latest one I can think of is when I was arguing I think it would be better to wait to a later age(30-32) to have kids rather than like my friends who want to have them at like 25-27. One said I was only saying that because it would probably take me until that age to lose my Virginity, which stung.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:17 PM
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They would often use it in arguments not even related to dating/relationships to easily embarrass me. I didn’t really talk about dating unless they bought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:14 PM
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If only I was witty enough to come up with that on the spot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:11 PM
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I’m not talking about people online, I’m talking about when people would insult me in real life about it. And It was because they just wanted a quick way to shut down the argument. And it works tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:09 PM
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Oh god.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:08 PM
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The virgin insult is effective so I can see why it is so widely used. The problem is there’s not much you can counter with. Like when I was arguing with an old friend in front of our group and he makes an insult about me being a virgin to shut down the argument, I can’t say much back because then I just become that “super angry dude making stuff up because he’s a virgin.” It’s truly disarming and there’s not much you can do really 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:04 PM
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Likeable men are still poked at for their virginity, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:15 PM
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I’m way too impulsive and so stupid things like not bring water on my runs because I rush out and then I hate myself like halfway through. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:11 PM
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This ten mile of jog/walk a day is really helping me sleep at night. I don’t even remember hitting the bed and taking time to fall asleep. From my standpoint it’s basically just hitting the bed and instant knock out 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:13 PM
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I love it here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:15 PM
5

My friends from their very limited talking about sex seems to think missionary is a boring position and always mention how they don’t like it that much lol. Idk I feel like that would be my favorite tbh. Although any position would be nice I guess right now 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:10 AM
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Yes. But a lot of people I talk to in my dms are on the west coast
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:55 AM
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I’d be willing to meet quite a few, unfortunately location makes that pretty much impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:47 AM
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So even after I lose my virginity I should still be worried about falling into a phase like that? God damn it lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:03 AM
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I agree with what you wrote. I had a downside for like two years and it was absolutely brutal. I hated every second of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:52 AM
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Me trying to hold a conversation at a table full of people could be rough 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:14 AM
2

Bunny vs raccoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:37 AM
2

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:15 AM
3

Imagine a ppd meet up. I’d bring everyone cookies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:10 AM
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Yeah that last part is gonna be complicated. For example, if I married, I don’t think I could invite my dad to the wedding while excluding my mom. My dad definitely wouldn’t stand for that and I really value my relationship with him so she’d have to meet her at some point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:03 AM
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I was a little shocked when she first said it ngl. But when she straight up called me pathetic I was pretty pissed at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:26 PM
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Family. Random people on the internet. Old friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:21 PM
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That’s not what I was implying when saying it’s not the place to discuss that lol. People here are generally angrier and as a result you won’t see as many positive posts like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:17 PM
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This should go without saying, but if you’re a Mom and have a son, do not mock him for having lack of success in dating(if that was the case lol). It’s painful, from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:15 PM
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I don’t think most men are like that. I really desire a life partner and a best friend as a wife, but this isn’t really the sub to discuss that unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:14 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:06 PM
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I think they are hypocritical. If they think we shouldn’t judge because of partner count, they shouldn’t be making fun of people by saying they will never experience, love intimacy, calling them genetic dead ends, etc. Certain incels may deserve it because of there rhetoric, but I’ve noticed normal inexperienced guys get mocked too, which is uncalled for imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:04 PM
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I wonder this myself. It seems a lot of men get attacked for saying they want a gf, especially on the dating advice subs. They are constantly told to get their life in order, lose weight, which is weird, considering they could have those things under control already. It seems to get people pressed for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:43 PM
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Me obv
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:39 PM
4

What do you do with a close family member(Mom) who is falling down heavy conspiracy rabbit holes? I want to help because it’s ridiculous and I love her but I also am tempted to do nothing because of her past actions towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:17 PM
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And I am 20 which means that will be in my dating pool which concerns me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:05 PM
2

Got it. I’ll be careful lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:47 PM
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Definitely will be more careful. Though I think if I can survive here with no bitterness issues I should be fine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:38 PM
4

Introduction to witchcraft 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:37 PM
2

Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:26 PM
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I’m starting to think all those rants on ask women and twox about “locker room talk” are projection or something. Most men I’ve met don’t talk about their sex lives in detail. Meanwhile I’ve seen comments in those subs like: “My friends know what my husbands dick looks like in detail.” “Stop being insecure, women talk all the time about their sex lives and you should just suck it up.” “I sent a pic of my hookups dick in a group chat.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:20 PM
2

I mean there are women who won’t be satisfied with what their partner is packing. They need a bigger size in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:05 PM
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Do you think your friend group would shame someone you were dating if they found out he had a small dick? I’m glad you would like to protect your partners feelings but what do you think they would say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:58 PM
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Do your friends need to know every detail about your bfs dick though? Seems unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:51 PM
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I agree with you that reading texts messages isn’t cool, but it doesn’t make it cool that she would be talking about her partners dick like that with friends. I agree it’s no excuse for the other thing he did, but it’s a very tough situation and I can’t say I blame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:38 PM
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As a guy I was confused about this. It seems like women do talk in heavy detail with their friends about intimate details, and I was wondering how common this is? It is foreign to me because I would never describe in detail all of that. I would just say the sex was great or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:27 PM
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My social anxiety is going through the roof thinking about the best man speech(he already told me he would ask me to be) at his wedding lol. His gf wants a massive wedding so it would most likely be in front of hundreds of people. and a guy like me is just not built for that damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:25 PM
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How is that pitiful? Is it too much to ask for a gf of a man with a smaller size to not shit talk him about it with her friend group?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 08:21 PM
2

Ah if only that was possible. Looks rating? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:53 PM
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I don't get why people are so cruel. I don't think there is anything wrong with per say about a women needing a bigger size, but to be in a relationship with him for four years and to be talking about it and ripping him to your friends about it is incredibly rude, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:49 PM
1

I try to stuff a lot of chocolate chips in a select few.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:00 PM
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There are a couple of people in those comments saying he might be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:54 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:31 PM
1

I admire your courage to approach that many people 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:24 PM
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Yep I'm never using dating apps lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:08 PM
1

A man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:58 PM
2

I probably do not. I can't bring that up without it being awkward lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:56 PM
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Rate my cookies 1-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:52 PM
2

Who else loves roller coasters here? I remember riding nitro at six flags like ten times in a row last time I was there with my friends because we enjoyed it so much. Plus king da ka was the best 😂. I really need to get back there this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:04 PM
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Got it. Maybe my brain is just overthinking again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:51 PM
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So just because I developed romantic feelings means I didn’t value our friendship? I don’t think that’s fair to the dude. You can’t always predict romantic feelings developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:49 PM
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Interesting but I can’t say. Though what I’ve seen from Reddit posts from unhinged subs of women saying they wish they were a man, they seem to think they would keep all of the benefits of being a woman while getting the added benefits of being a man. There are trade offs. I can’t relate to this, I’ve been struggling for like three years but I don’t want to change my gender lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:45 PM
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This is my dumbest question yet but when do you exactly put the condom on before you start having sex. Do you stop while making out and put it on quickly. I need to know this so I don’t look like a retard when this happens God I’m braindead lol 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:21 PM
1

I had to drive home from a party from last week at 2am in pouring rain and that was the first time I’ve been a little genuinely nervous. I got home just fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:03 PM
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I just can’t relate bc I’ve never been afraid of driving in the rain. He’s super paranoid with driving In general. Last time I drove to six flags in New Jersey he was super annoying about my speed on the jersey turnpike 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:50 PM
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No advice but good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:37 PM
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Driving with one of our friends when it’s raining is the worst. “I can’t play music and drive in the rain at the same time.” Makes for some really boring drives. On the bright side we have a ton of memes roasting him that give us laughs 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:35 PM
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But maybe it isn’t always about you not being good enough? It isn’t always a pleasant experience to have to be around someone you want to be in a romantic relationship with but were rejected from. I can enjoy a friendship with someone but not want to have to deal with the pain of rejection or all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:12 PM
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A. I struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:55 PM
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Yikes. It is not my business but I don't think it is healthy to have the burden of worrying your ex is gonna harm himself bc you are no longer with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:22 PM
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Lol, I will try my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:09 PM
2

But that is the problem. It is automatically assumed that he is faking friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:07 PM
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Women use virgin as an insult because it is an easy way to really hurt the guy because he is most likely insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:05 PM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:03 PM
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I think I would be a good partner because I am very supportive, affectionate, and caring. Now yes, I know those are supposed to be bare minimum lol, but this was targeted at romantically unsuccessfully dudes so do not expect the best answers lol. I am working to get other things in order though so I have a better chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:02 PM
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Or he could have just genuinely wanted a relationship and needs space for a bit. It is not fair to just accuse him of being some sex maniac who does not care about his friend at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:43 PM
2

I only associate myself with the involuntary celibate part, I don't have hate towards anyone. And I am trying to get out of that, it takes a while sometimes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:40 PM
2

Don't attack us like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:34 PM
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How is he supposed to be able to prove that? And not everyone can stay friends after rejection after developing feelings. It could be tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:16 PM
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Why exactly is it always assumed that a guy who was friends with a woman and then had to distance himself after rejection is some pos who only did that to get in her pants? What if he was friends at first and then developed feelings and then decided to ask her out? I also don’t think there is anything wrong with needing to distance yourself from someone who rejected you. Maybe I’m wrong idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:16 AM
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Celtics suck major ass
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:50 AM
2

I am not making stuff up, I was making a guess at why experienced men may be more preferred 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:48 AM
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If statistics show most guys don’t make their partner orgasm then I guess the logic is they would rather take their chances with an experienced partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:45 AM
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There are many reasons, virgin guys tend to be less confident, more awkward, clumsy in bed, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:42 AM
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“Sure, tell her! Women love virgins. There is simply no way that saying that can end with you not having sex with her.” I swear I’ve seen like three comments like this in a thread asking if OP should disclose their virginity and I can’t tell if they are sarcastic or not. This one was from a woman but I can’t take it seriously 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:07 AM
2

Would those who’ve seen me think I’m from NY? Others in my family say I look like I’m from the south or Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:03 PM
2

God bless you lol. It’s like 70 here and I’ve been doing mild car work and I’m dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:12 PM
1

How hot is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:09 PM
1

I don’t want a prodigious n count. Maybe 4-5 I’d be satisfied with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:51 PM
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Me: Gets back from 6 Mile jog. Brother: can you help me change oil and tires on my car? Me: Hesitantly agrees cause I don’t want to be a dick. God it’s so hot outside too it feels like 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:48 PM
1

FOMO is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:51 PM
2

My legs are gonna be jello soon if I don’t get a glass of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:48 PM
3

I think the Toxic Christian thing might be the biggest factor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:35 PM
5

Yes, I think waiting until marriage is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:34 PM
3

I seriously fucked up by not bringing water on this jog 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:34 PM
1

I’m a very fast Typer on my phone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:56 PM
1

Maybe I’m being convinced by the commenters. I don’t think the initial question was bad but I thought she was a little pushy after that tbh. Though it doesn’t take much to be called an asshole on that sub 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:48 PM
1

Weird behavior tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:38 PM
2

Damn it. I never got to be here for a purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:06 PM
2

Looks are not a good judgement of who could murder someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:30 PM
1

When did he tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:20 PM
5

The biggest lie of that paragraph is “if the roles were reversed I’d be read to go to war with him.” 😂. God 2x has become completely unhinged these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:12 PM
1

In the context of this situation this was a friend group that knew I was a virgin and me going to prom alone was just another thing they could bring up when they would tease/make fun of me about it. It’s why I no longer talk to them actually 😂. I asked them to be respectful and stop teasing about it but they didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:01 PM
1

I love when movies show people having gunfights indoors and then having normal conversations after 😂😂. Like I know it’s a movie, but the one time I shot a gun without ear pro on my friend might as well have been speaking to a dead person for like 10 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:59 PM
1

Yeah but this was like right after the prom happened which is why it confused me lol. It made for a good comeback anyway when the dude tried to rip on me for going alone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:57 PM
2

I’d say it is a gigantic outlier in most areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:29 PM
1

Thoughts?. I’ve always thought body count doesn’t matter as much as it is claimed on here, except for cases of extreme difference, which this case seems to be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:15 PM
2

It’s just funny that he tried to roast me yet that happened to him 😂. Plus I actually had a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:11 PM
8

My old group of friends ripped me for going to senior prom alone but when the girl one of then went with posted pictures on social media of it she completely crossed out/ blurred out his face as if she was embarrassed to go with him. Which makes me wonder why she even agreed to go with him. Also I’d rather go alone than have someone do that to me 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:55 PM
3

What do you do for first dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:41 PM
1

How old was your husband when he was still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:21 PM
1

What pill are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:15 PM
1

Is awkward and weird considered to be the same thing? Cause I think awkwardness may be caused by inexperience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:08 PM
2

Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:02 PM
1

Like making up the fact that he is inexperienced as an excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:00 PM
2

Do you think an inexperienced guy could be good enough on his first time to the point where he doesn't get ghosted for bad sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:43 PM
1

Damn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:39 PM
1

If he confessed inexperience would that change your view of anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:33 PM
1

So would you ask if he was a virgin beforehand? How would you figure out that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:30 PM
1

If the sex was bad because he was inexperienced, does that change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:20 PM
1

Q4W- Would you dump/ghost a guy you were seeing if the sex was bad the first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:03 PM
1

😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:40 PM
1

A lot of men seem very desperate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:38 PM
2

That’s a good one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:34 PM
2

How should I act when my friend and his gf get into a bickering argument in my car? I kinda find it funny sometimes but I also don’t want him to see me laughing when they are arguing. It usually ends up with me just having an uncomfortable/awkward look on my face 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:20 PM
2

This is an interesting battle to me. Not sure who I would pick. Average person sucks with a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:29 AM
2

Ah you may have a point with that one 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:03 AM
5

I don’t hold resentment towards my friends for doing better with women so Idrc. Plus I’m not even that short, I just look like that compared to them because they are all massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:55 AM
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I hate how I look like a midget walking in a group with my friends because three of them them are like 6 2 and another one who lives out of state is 6 3 😂. I look like a baby. Anyway, that’s my last comment, I need sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:20 AM
4

Poor kid God he got absolutely devoured by that Crowd 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:51 AM
3

How many times do we have to go over ppd not representing the true average man? In fact I am pretty sure you said yesterday that you are happy the men in real life are not like this. Now you are taking this as fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:06 AM
2

It must be they think they can get away with doing that because they know I won’t try to fight them because they all are like 4 inches taller than me and over 200 pounds 😂 I should add that one of them pulled something on another friend where he went parallel to my friends car who was parked and just copied my friends movements in the car so he could not get out of the parking space. They ended up tapping and denting my other friends car. I would definitely be fighting him at that point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:49 PM
2

Where are you getting the idea that men don't care about money? Don't most statistics show that people date within the same salary range?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:42 PM
2

I didn't want to but I also didn't know what to actually do lol. I was really pissed because I paid for their food and they still had the nerve to do that. But they just thought I wasn't serious when I was mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:39 PM
2

God my friends are so annoying. I invited them over over a week ago and paid for dinner for everyone and then when I was upstairs they hid my food somewhere and wouldn’t tell me and then started eating. Like I get you guys are trying to be funny but I just want to eat 😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:14 PM
3

100k a month/1.2 million a year and this guy has no money left over?? What is this guy buying? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:21 PM
1

😂😂. The kids have fools for parents. We’ll fools with budgeting at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:07 PM
2

Oh well. His fault for getting into that situation in the first place anyways lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:05 PM
2

The fact that he pays for everything when she is making that salary is mind blowing to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:59 PM
2

He is also in this spot because the fool allows his wife to pay for nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:59 PM
6

Imagine spending nearly 60 percent of your salary on handbags. Also the fact that this man makes like 300k a year and has no money left over is mind boggling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:46 PM
3

My nose started heavily bleeding while jogging and now I look like I was either beat up or murdered someone and got blood on me. I need to get home lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:17 PM
1

I hope he doesn’t call games for a few years either because I selfishly want him to keep playing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:16 PM
3

Fox really giving Brady 375 million to commentate games 😂. That’s like more than his career earnings by almost 100 million. As a massive fan of his though I for some reason can’t picture him calling games
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:34 PM
1

But what exactly happened when she got banned that was so dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:12 PM
1

Ah how could I forget that? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:59 PM
1

This happened while I was getting the food lol. I don’t try to chew and talk at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:27 PM
3

Oh boy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:17 PM
1

Lol, drunk me is definitely gonna drop food everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:03 PM
3

You. :). But bandit loses points because he is on team annoying raccoon near my roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:51 PM
1

I am a lightweight and vodka is sure to fuck me up. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:50 PM
5

Got another opportunity to socialize in two weeks. Tips to lessen anxiety? I did good last time but I don't want to stutter or almost drop my food everywhere again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:44 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:25 PM
2

Ah livs, what happened to her? When I was banned I heard she left in dramatic fashion lol. I must have missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:20 PM
1

I did have someone talking to me about it once but I’ll be honest I wasn’t listening to a word they were saying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:17 PM
3

Has anyone actually met someone who is that obsessed with astrology/their sign? I feel Like that clown show is only on Reddit 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:09 PM
2

Yes, treat him well. Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:21 PM
2

God my dad has that same attitude. I love him so much but the one thing that annoys me about him is he expects me to tolerate or forgive anything because they are family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:33 AM
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“In 2018 it was normal to tease someone about being a virgin in their 20s.” If she thinks that changed in four years then idk what planet she has been on 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:20 AM
1

I’m what way would you like to see me push myself further? And what are you guys referring to when saying incel mode?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:16 AM
3

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:03 AM
2

How do you even know what I’m capable of? We’ve only talked over the internet. That doesn’t give a complete picture of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:00 AM
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What’s the most annoying thing about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:54 AM
1

I haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:22 AM
1

Read my other thread friend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:45 AM
4

It’s less about it being some magical moment at this point and more about just getting the weight off my back. The snide comments I get about it really annoy me but I kinda cut off all the people that were roasting me about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:06 AM
3

I am pretty open to whatever at this point, lol. I know it is bad to come off as desperate but I must admit I am getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:51 PM
3

That's a good way of looking at it :).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:44 PM
2

Someone else I was talking to in my “how long does it take to get good at sex” thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:40 PM
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I can understand that because a lot of guys seem to fetishize virginity in a woman. I hide it due to past bullying which wrecked me, and I don’t want to go through that again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:34 PM
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Comparing lying about virginity to stealing from people is stupid. I am never harming anyone by not disclosing it. In fact it is to protect my own mental well being lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:28 PM
1

I’m trying to become the best looking guy I could be. Stealing nice clothes from people is causing harm in a way. I am not harming anyone by lying about something I have been bullied about. I do it to protect my mental state at this point. I will not go out of my way to lie if I start seeing someone but I will never voluntarily disclose that info again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:04 PM
2

I have a very hard time trusting women not to bully me about it considering my mom and sister have even made fun of me for never having a relationship. That’s why I’m inclined to lie about it. Of course looking hotter will help, I just don’t think Tim Tebow is a fair comprison
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:52 PM
2

That is why I’m afraid to actually go to therapy. I worry it may just be useless and I don’t want to waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:48 PM
3

Please do not compare Tim Tebow, a 6 3 professional football player, to an average man who is a virgin. Tim has people fawning over him because of his status as a professional athlete and because he’s good looking. The average virgin man is not commanding that kind of respect, or anywhere near it 😂. I also may be heavily criticized for this, but I don’t think that not disclosing you are a virgin is lying to get sex in a malicious way. She found you physically attractive enough and wanted to slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:41 PM
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Why isn’t it ethical? Virgin men, not to sound too whiny here, often get judged very harshly at times, and it can be a red flag to prospective partners. I don’t think there’s a massive problem with lying the first time to get things out of the way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:34 PM
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Brushing my teeth immediately after dinner has surprisingly been very effective in keeping me from eating anything else after dinner on my weight loss journey. 😂. Even if the cravings are there I can’t bothered to eat and then go brush again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:17 PM
1

How do I know if I’m stalling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:40 PM
1

I don’t think it’s weird to be concerned about your dating life/how to be a good partner. It’s a very important part of life for a lot of people. Politicians also aren’t representative of the majority. Well obviously, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:17 PM
2

I’m mad because I broke it for such a dumb reason lol. Drunk slap boxing with friends and I hit one of the sides of their head wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:38 PM
1

I would hope they could be slightly understanding about why I lied, but if not, yeah, I can see how that would be a big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:14 PM
1

Seems kinda counterintuitive imo. I can’t just sit back and wait for it to happen to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:51 PM
5

Somehow my broken finger seems to have never fully recovered from breaking it a few months ago. Still feels quite stiff in some situations. That is what I get for boxing with my friend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:43 PM
2

I understand it’s not always fun but I’ve never had a relationship so I really want to experience one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:32 PM
2

Got it. Thank you for the advice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:31 PM
1

Will try my best lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:23 PM
2

Maybe not but I also have no kissing experience so it’s hard to think about all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:15 PM
2

20.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:42 PM
3

I don't necessarily want to lie, but I am afraid I will have to. We shall see though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:37 PM
1

Just gotta find a woman to get some practice in with now 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:30 PM
3

Oddly specific lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:54 PM
3

Sorry, I didn’t realize that rule existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:53 PM
3

40 percent is actually a huge number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:36 PM
2

Thank you :). I’ll try to remember your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:01 PM
3

Ah so admitting you haven’t kissed anyone is worse or a turn off. Well I definitely won’t admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:46 PM
1

What was her reaction to being upfront?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:17 PM
2

Ok, that’s a good point, but at least I’ll still have lost my virginity so I won’t have to lie about it anymore 😂. But yes, I am worried about the performance aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:07 PM
2

Yeah dancing around the question could work, I just don’t know what I would say exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:52 PM
3

Seems like a common comment on my thread is to say I had a relationship in the past but be vague about it. I do worry about what the other poster said about my friends exposing me, and my family, yeah they sure would give it away that I am lying if it somehow got bought up 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:34 PM
3

Lol I’m gonna have to get my friends in on that story if she ends up meeting them because they’d definitely be the type to expose me accidentally 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:54 AM
5

At this point I’m just praying that whoever I see doesn’t ask so we don’t have to get to that point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:49 AM
1

Can you explain why you think it would ruin the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:43 AM
3

Too shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:41 AM
5

I think saying don’t worry about it is pretty much a dead give away lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:34 AM
3

The only reason I consider lying is because I don’t want to get dumped before the relationship even begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:21 AM
8

Maybe I’m naive but I don’t see myself getting fucked up by this sub. Unless it’s slowly happening sub consciously and I’m not realizing it. I think all the people I’ve talked to here are pretty chill and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:47 AM
1

Have not tried it yet. Bear is not my main target when hunting. I will only blast one if I feel like my life might genuinely be in danger(ie a bear charge). Deer is what we are out there for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:45 AM
3

Another user did tell me to do something similar to that. Essentially the point was even if I get dumped for lying about my experience at least I won’t be a virgin anymore and I won’t have to lie. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:28 AM
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I don’t want to start the relationship out on a lie but I also don’t want to get so close to having my first experience only to have to start over because she found out I was inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:04 AM
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Ahh I’m afraid we’re already too late for that one my friend 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:59 AM
2

Its like 11 pm and I am in bed but now I am tempted to go get some leftovers from earlier today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:48 AM
2

I am hungry now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:39 AM
2

Yes. The DEC will come and kill the bear if they find out it is being fed by humans. I also don’t want to come across one of the bears they have been feeding while I am hunting, and potentially getting charged or mauled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:07 AM
2

😂😂 But seriously I also don’t want to come across any bears they’ve made less timid by feeding them and as a result getting me fucked up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:51 AM
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This is random af but the neighbors next to my friends hunting cabin are seriously going to get themselves fucked up or killed one day if they keep thinking it’s cute to feed black bears. They just refuse to listen to other locals who tell them how dangerous that actually is. I don’t want them to have to learn that lesson the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:42 AM
1

That don’t think technique never works for me cause I always just end up overriding what I’m telling myself and start thinking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:26 AM
3

Anyone ever have success with using that so called military technique to fall asleep in two minutes? I don’t really need it, I already fall asleep very fast, but I wouldn’t mind trying to learn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:13 AM
1

Thankfully I’ll be clear of it being against the law in about two months. But like I said I really don’t drink very often, unless my friends are in the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:06 AM
2

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:28 PM
1

I am worried about how fast time will feel like it is moving in my 30s if it already is moving this fast now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:18 PM
1

I don't really drink unless it is for some party or something. It really isn't uncommon for me to go a few months without drinking at all. I just post about the times when I do. Don't worry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:18 PM
3

I've said this before but my time perception is truly scaring me. I always heard time feels like it moves faster as you get older, but I am only 20 and a whole week only feels like a day at this point lol. My birthday is in about two months and I feel like my last one was only a few weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:55 PM
1

I doubt that but hopefully will see one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:44 PM
1

Noted. I probably would have either gotten super embarrassed if I had dropped the food 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:32 PM
1

I think there are other ways to express love to each other for sure, but what about like the whole physical aspect/feels of making love with someone. I don’t think that would be overrated tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:57 PM
1

Overrated how exactly? I’ve heard meaningless hookups could be but sex with an emotional cause connection can be mind blowing and I’d love to experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:54 PM
2

I hope it gets easier, because I had a few awkward moments like almost dropping a plate of food I was gathering because I was trying to come up/think with what I was gonna say next 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:49 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:21 PM
5

I really regret not trying to improve my social skills with people earlier on in life. I always thought I could be happy alone and the such which led to me now having well below average social skills. This regret all hit me after that party on Friday night that I am still kinda riding the high off of lol. Socializing actually felt really good. Now I just gotta prevent myself from falling back to how I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:21 PM
1

You bring up some good points, I must admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:54 PM
1

Lol I’m gonna sound like such a fool for this but breaking my finger completely ruined my day. It was extremely painful, I couldn’t even use my hand at all because it was on my dominant hand(hate being a lefty lol). I couldn’t play any of the drinking games we were playing well because I can’t shoot for beer pong accurately with a broken finger on my shooting hand 😂. I was shocked how crippling a simple broken finger could be in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:36 PM
1

Oh yes. Us average men overestimate our abilities too. I think everyone does mostly. For example, I broke my finger while slap boxing with a friend because Hit a hard part of his head 😂. I think if you don’t know how to throw a proper punch, which most people don’t, breaking your hand becomes a real possibility which causes pretty intense pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:26 PM
1

I think that is the point but I think some people get carried away or start to overestimate their abilities because of a few defense classes. The goal should always be for escaping, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:15 PM
2

How useful do you think self defense classes are for women? Seems like opinions differ on this. I’ve heard some people give differing opinions on this. I’ve seen some say that with a couple of years of training a women could beat about 80 percent of men in a fight. I think that is an awfully high number. Unfortunately strength does play a big part in fights and technique can’t always overcome it. I will never be able to beat Dwayne Johnson in a fight no matter how much training I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:10 PM
1

I agree with you, I just wish people would not sugar coat it. I think they do it because they are afraid to admit for some reason that not having a partner can suck. Idk why that’s such an outrage to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:18 PM
3

These sound like they all came out of a two x post 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:10 PM
1

The only thing I will say is that I think some people mgtow because a lot actually don’t go their own way. They continue to talk and express frustration about women. Other than that, it’s super acceptable and encouraged in society to hate on romantically unsuccessful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:07 PM
2

Haven’t seen you before on here, but I’m really happy to hear this :). Hope things continue to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:05 PM
2

These threads always are a shit show and then end up with “be ok being alone as the top comment.” It’s funny because the title specifically says not to say that lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:57 PM
3

Why is there a relationship advice sub and relationships sub? Shouldn’t there just be like, ya know, one sub for that. Seems like the topics of the questions are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:12 PM
1

My brain is off right now lol. But he was asking to get one is what I should have wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:23 PM
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No, I think twox is likely to attract a certain type of women. I’ve never met one who thought like the women in twox, unless they are secretly hiding their true views 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:04 PM
2

Darwin Award- Bear edition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:31 PM
2

God I wasn’t supposed to be up this late again after last night but then I got sucked into watching ufc fights and next thing ya know it’s 1:30 AM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:43 AM
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If Charles beats Islam then he’s in legitimate contention for lightweight goat argument. I know that sounds insane with khabibs 29-0 but Charles resume is continuing to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:17 AM
1

Charles vs Khabib is the fight that we will never see but would be so good :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:11 AM
1

God damn it gaethje. I was really rooting for him. That was insane though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:01 AM
1

Seriously wtf was that shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:47 AM
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I respectfully disagree. I have a pretty high sex drive and don’t have a partner so I don’t see why I should deny myself a release. As long as it doesn’t interfere with other important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:59 AM
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Not really how depression works, it can’t just be ignored or thought away. When I was really young I didn’t understand and thought depression wasn’t real tbh. Still have been dealing with it for like three years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:44 AM
1

What would be your advice for this? I’m naturally kinda awkward so I’d prob have trouble reciprocating. And what do we think about some of the advice in the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:43 AM
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I think a full on sex doll is pretty odd but I don’t see why masturbating should be seen as pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:21 AM
3

The insanity of 2x is nothing new lol. Very entertaining though. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:42 AM
2

😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:40 AM
3

Lol one of my favorite parts of hunting that I enjoy is that we all have nick names for each other when we’re hunting in our stands and communicating over walkie talkies. Now this sub has got me imagining them calling me bunny ears and I’m laughing about it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:19 AM
3

For me, affectionate, average looks, stable job, and caring. That’s about it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:54 PM
2

Indeed. And nice to test out some new steel targets I got
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:23 PM
2

Very nice. We’re gonna check up on our hunting tree stands and practice our shooting on some targets for upcoming hunting season.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:04 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:56 PM
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Asking the important questions 😂. No, he usually picks me up and drives us up there. It’s great not having to do the driving for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:44 PM
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My friend from the party last night invited me to his hunting cabin in two weeks. Love going up there. Something so nice about barbecues and making a fire to sit around and get drunk while reminiscing over our favorite memories. Plus his mom when she’s up there makes us chocolate chip pancakes for breakfast. Can’t wait lol 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:41 PM
1

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:07 PM
1

That’s the plan :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:07 PM
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My body feels exhausted for some reason from last night. It’s not like we did anything that was specifically tiring. I guess I’m just so not used to being up that late and socializing kinda tires me as an introvert. I’ve been laying in bed the whole day pretty much 😂. I need to get out more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:49 PM
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Why doesn’t it fit my persona? 😂. And lol Buffalo, that’s interesting. Didn’t expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:52 PM
1

Voluntarily celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:04 PM
1

So like if you met someone who was like 24 and had never done it but otherwise seems ok/not bitter would you be a bit concerned? I don’t think it’s a bad thing to be a bit concerned btw, just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:03 PM
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Yeah pretty average. We definitely got way too loud though at certain points 😂. But we weren’t thinking about that because we were having too much fun. Also one person did get too drunk and we had to send him inside for a nap lol. Also why did you think I’m from upstate? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:45 PM
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Lol. Sorry I just really like driving :). Well, I got pretty drunk way earlier on in the night which I think helped me easing up and talking to people. Then the rest of our mutual friends ended up getting really drunk which led to us going outside and playing and singing along to nostalgic rock songs. I think we owe the neighbors an apology as this was like at 1 am 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:38 PM
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God I haven’t slept till 10AM in a long time. I’m still really happy about last night. And ps, for anyone who lives in NY or used to, the Southern State is definitely the worst highway in Long Island 😂. Between the endless blind curves and hills, and people who think their ten year old sedans are race cars, I can see why a certain part of the parkway is called blood alley. I had to turtle at 50mph and be super focused due to pouring rain as well. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:10 PM
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It was. I just got home lol. Driving home at 2AM in pouring rain wasn’t fun though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:59 AM
3

Are we talking about like the literal definition or those who are super bitter about it and hate women? Because there are some incels I think that still have good attitudes about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:57 AM
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Lol, still better than not talking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:46 AM
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Lol, I didn’t do anything of significance yet. Hopefully one day in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:25 AM
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Tonight was great. Finally didn’t feel lonely on a Friday night for once. Plus I struck up conversations with a bunch of new people, even a cute girl I saw which seems small but it’s a big step for me who struggles socially. I’m glad I went out and didn’t stay home out of fear or anxiousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:55 AM
4

Lol. 😂. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:58 AM
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God I hate my social anxiety. I’m at a friends party that I posted about earlier with a lot of strangers, I’m trying to force myself to make small talk with them to break out of my shell. It’s gone pretty well but I had a few blunders. Almost fumbled a whole plate of food in front of four people I was talking to. A bit of stuttering. Awkward silence. I will update as the night goes on 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:10 AM
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I wish, I’m supposed to drive my dad home after though lol. Can’t get too drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:30 PM
3

I need a drink after that drive 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:22 PM
1

Do you like the driving posts? Lol. And thank you, I will be leaving shortly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:43 PM
3

Ahhhh traffic. Just checked gps and it is going to take an hour and a half to get to my friends house. I am going to be exhausted from driving as soon as I get there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:02 PM
2

Piss fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:55 PM
1

Yeah I definitely feel very behind now, trying to catch up lol. It is what it is I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:32 PM
2

May be biased from my perspective but I do feel like it hindered my chances a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:21 PM
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How common is this part 2? Ngl this is one of my largest concerns is that I am going to come across as a clumsy/clueless person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:15 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:59 PM
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God my friend's house is further than I remember. I just checked the gps and it is like 35 miles away. Plus I probably won't be coming home to like 1 am and driving is really tiring for me at times so I guess I am in for a long night lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:20 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:25 PM
1

Sounds exhausting. Hope things turn out well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:47 AM
2

Nothing too serious, just some usual stuff. Hope you’re doing well. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:35 AM
5

Is this a common occurrence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:30 AM
2

Alright. Could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:30 AM
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Me and my dad are going to our hunting friends place tmr for his birthday and I can’t even get drunk because I have to be the one to drive my dad home cause he wants to get drunk :( 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:56 PM
2

Hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:34 PM
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What time do y’all wake up at usually? I’m usually up at like 6 bc I like my morning jogs when no one is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:56 PM
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My grandma somehow set off her own alarm in her house and then was on the phone with someone and didn’t hear the police banging on her door 😂. I’m not sure how many more of these blunders I can take. It always provides me a good laugh though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:08 PM
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God I was having way too much fun driving a couple of minutes ago and I had a mental lapse and completely floored it past a cop watching for speeding. I think he was on his phone or something because I somehow didn’t get pulled over 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:40 PM
2

You wouldn’t mind having to guide the guy at first if he’s clueless/inexperienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:07 PM
1

That’s sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:04 AM
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Less about sex and more about being in a relationship in general in certain cases. I want to experience what that is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:47 PM
4

We usually see this question from the other perspective, but for guys, what age do you think would be a yellow/red flag for women to still be a virgin? I personally do not care but I am interested in hearing other's perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:09 PM
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Depends on the body count of the man. I personally wouldn’t mind unless it was astronomically higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:32 PM
5

Why do you always gotta straw man though lpl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:11 PM
2

Virginity, low self esteem as a result for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:05 PM
3

Anyone else like fries plain. I’m at a communion for my cousin and my family thinks I’m weird for not using ketchup 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:04 PM
1

Makes it sound so simple lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:42 PM
1

I think I’m average maybe a tiny bit above.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:53 PM
3

So how is online dating for someone looking for a hookup/trying to lose their virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:37 PM
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Fell asleep too early and now I’m stuck listening to my nostalgic songs at 3 am lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:13 AM
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I’m the same way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:08 AM
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Does anyone else while listening to music come across this song that makes you feel really nostalgic and then keeps playing it on repeat? This happens to me all the time on my jogs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:44 PM
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Could’ve been a black bear with brown fur.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:19 PM
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Hope things to better for your team soon 😂. And I was having a legit heart attack during super bowl 49. I thought I was gonna die on that final drive from the nerves 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:15 PM
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I’m a massive tb12 fan so that’s right up there with super bowl 51 for me for my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:06 PM
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This is a terrifying if it’s real but im laughing for some reason picturing it in my head. And I would be pissed if my friends did this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:29 PM
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My whole friend group including myself are massive NFL fans and we still have to troll our Seahawks friend about this at times 😂. I think that may be my favorite moment in the NFL so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:35 PM
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I never liked this point either. Just seems like a false and bitter point to try to make people who aren't in relationships feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:40 PM
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Yeah I don’t get that either. Like what happens if the person has a handgun lol. Or any other sort of weapons. Or pulls up with a group of people. It’s just so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:12 PM
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Last time we went to a bar our designated driver friend is so bad at parallel parking that the driver behind us ended up getting out of his car to help him. The rest of us were all already drunk so it was pretty hilarious to watch him mess up the maneuver like five times in a row 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:02 PM
1

I’ve developed the habit of getting up and going to bed way too early lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:04 AM
1

I’m jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:41 AM
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Loud noises in a way don’t bother me. I have a pretty loud air conditioning but could fall asleep no problem. The room just has to be dark lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:04 AM
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Straighty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:57 AM
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How do people get good sleep with the tvs on lol. If my room isn’t completely dark I won’t go into a deep sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:38 AM
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Hope you feel better. That sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:25 PM
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I was too lazy to open my closed gate to go for my jog just now so I hopped over this wall onto my lawn and didn’t stick the landing too well so I ended up ass planting into the grass 😂. Hopefully my neighbors didn’t see that cause that was embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:16 PM
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Does anyone else experience this? I could have a ton of energy but if I lay in my bed for a bit it’s like I suddenly start getting sleepy out of nowhere 😂. No matter what energy level I was at before it’s like my bed sucks the energy out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:29 PM
1

Interesting that cats would pass that up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:56 PM
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Don’t know lol. But this attitude seems common among Long Island people. This isn’t the first time this has happened 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:27 PM
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I think it depends on how lonely the person is. Humans are social animals. Loneliness can have devastating affects on people. Now I’m not saying that needs to be filled by a romantic partner. But if someone is totally lonely I can see why they would be very scared about dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:15 PM
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I think it’s more of spending the years leading up to your death alone that scares people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:08 PM
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Why do people in Long Island NY think they own the street they live in? I had a guy knock on the door while I was visiting my sister to love my car because I was parked in a legal spot in front of his house? I was like “It’s a public street.” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:01 PM
3

Hello, hope you’re doing well :).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:11 PM
1

What type of guns you like to shoot at the range?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:10 PM
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I’m starving and still have two hours of class left :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:07 PM
3

I appreciate it lol :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:25 PM
1

Happy birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:56 PM
2

Yes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:54 PM
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How’s everybody doing? I missed you all :).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:18 PM
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Staying/getting out of the bitterness rabbit hole was tough but I’m glad I didn’t fall completely into that during my worst phase. I’m glad I have this sub and you guys to talk to :). Which is weird considering you would prob think it would make someone more bitter but it somehow hasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:52 PM
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I really did declare victory too soon on 🦝. Next plan is to trap him and then release him far away from my house 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:47 PM
2

The amount of people who thought this was a real story lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:32 PM
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I did… fell asleep around 9 and slept to about 6:30. Felt great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:45 AM
3

Women refuses to have sex with boyfriend because of his… wait… underwear color?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:43 AM
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Q4W who have dated inexperienced men before- Did you have to do any guiding/“teaching” when having sex for the first time? Were you turned off by having to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:26 AM
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I’m gonna sleep real early cuz I was up to 4 am y Yesterday and then only slept for two hours 😂. Good night everyone, enjoy the rest of your day :). Also this damn raccoon is still around, bandit tell your fellow brethren to stop annoying me pls :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:17 AM
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I think they are thinking about why another woman was never willing to have sex with him, and thus it’s a red flag for them. Which is why I’m very hesitant to share. I hope to find someone who is willing to guide me a bit, cause I’ll definitely be willing to take advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:43 PM
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Yes, it also applies to them. I think a lot of men would have issues with that too, I think the proportion that desire a completely inexperienced women is over represented on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:32 PM
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Sexual incompatibility is the biggest one. I feel like a high n women will be less patient to teach/guide her man for the first couple times. Also, she’s obviously been in more relationships than him most likely so the guy not knowing how to act/communicate in a relationship being another problem. Then there’s also the case where she thinks it’s weird that he’s still a virgin and dumps him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:51 PM
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Do you think a relationship between a no n count man and a decently high n count women(10-15+) can work out? I feel like there might be some incompatibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:36 PM
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I guess it depends on what they bring to the table/the situation they are in. I don’t see it differently for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:15 PM
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Depends on the industry you are in. Some people I know have been able to make like NYC salaries working permanently remote which allows them to live a really lavish life style in other cities. My aunt who’s a executive director at a company makes like 350k but is now permanently remote, so she could easily move to a LCOL place and live a very comfortable life. But like I said that depends on the field you are in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:13 PM
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Unfortunately it’s not as easy as simply moving to a less expensive area. A lot of peoples desired career fields can often have the best opportunities in a specific city. If they moved to a lower cost of living area, their salary would be slashed as well. I’m stuck in nyc for now and most people I know wouldn’t stand a chance If they tried to live on their own rn, so room mates or staying at home saving up is the most common option
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:04 PM
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Some American cities have outrageous col. In some of them it is a necessity depending on the type of life style you want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:56 PM
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How do I find a balance between doing self improvement for myself and still partly doing it to increase my chances at getting dates/relationships? I enjoy the things I’m doing to improve, but I’m also afraid I may slip back into the way I was if it doesn’t yield any success as far as dating goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:02 PM
2

It is a good feeling, short lived but the peak of it is always amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:51 PM
1

God that is scary. One of my worst fears tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:27 PM
1

Instagram culture sux.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:42 PM
5

God, I used to be addicted to video games so I had no choice but to quit cold turkey. But my weekends have become so boring that I’m really tempted to play right now, but I can’t bring myself to. I really need hobbies that aren’t super seasonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:35 PM
2

My raccoon traps aren’t working 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:53 PM
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I know, but now I’m kinda pissed at myself for not trying to do it earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:48 PM
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Aita for opening a window in my friends cabin last time I was there with him in order to cool off the place? 😂. I woke up and was dying and I check the thermostat and this man has the heat on 85 degrees. I can’t sleep in that shit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:45 PM
6

17 years? Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:17 PM
2

Hate is a strong word, but yes I’d like the day to myself at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:05 PM
2

What are your thoughts on just having a bday to yourself? We usually have family over for my bday but I’m sick of it. I was gonna go fishing out on the ocean for most of the day, and then just go to my favorite restaurant. But I also don’t want to be questioned too much on why I don’t want to spend my birthday with family this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:00 PM
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I may have built it up a lot but I’m prepared to deal with the fallout if it doesn’t live up to expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:49 PM
1

Wdy mean turn sour?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:30 PM
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I’d like to have a close bond with my child, I think that’s normal for most parents. I’ve always kinda dreamt of teaching them how to fish and do these other outdoor activities like my father did with me, but if they are not interested, that’s ok too. I’m not really sure what I would tell them about the genders. Id like for them to inherit my patience and calmness. I hope that they are better at socializing than me, and have more confidence in themselves than I do. I just don’t want them to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:21 PM
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Better to try to have my first time as a casual hookup/ONS, or with someone who may become a more serious partner? I think losing it to an eventual LTR would be nice, but I also really want this weight off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:44 AM
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I wish I had the courage to stand up to my parents earlier on. Now I’m 20 and in a pretty bad spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:31 AM
1

Glad you’re able to look back on it fondly. I hope I can get to that point one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:45 AM
2

So should I just expect my first time to suck? It seems like a lot of losing virginity stories don’t seem that pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:26 AM
1

I’d prob be uncomfortable with like over 15, due to my own lack of experience. But I don’t know if you can put a direct answer to that question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:56 AM
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“Did you meet someone yet?” “That doesn’t concern you.” Repeat that like 25 times to sum up yesterday for me. And we also host Easter so basically I just wanna scorch earth and go solo for Easter cause I can’t take much more of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 05:36 AM
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I randomly woke up and I’d love to listen to some music but of course I left my headphones downstairs and I don’t want to disturb the peace at almost 1 A.M 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:42 AM
2

Good night everyone :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:25 AM
1

Well, today was rough… jokes/inquiries about my relationship status were made despite me saying I don’t want to talk about it, and most of the attempts at conversation I made were ignored. Really considering just doing my own thing for my bday this year, usually family comes over but I’m not even sure I want that anymore it this is what it’s become.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:34 PM
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Lol, I need room on the counter to cook what I was making and they just refused to clear out. I didn’t want to get flour on people sitting near by 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:49 PM
2

😂😂. No but seriously it’s driving me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:27 PM
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If one more drunk person at this party repeats the same thing to me another time I might lose my mind. Pray for me. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:54 PM
2

I can’t stand people surrounding me in the kitchen when I’m trying to cook! God we’re two hours into this thing and my head is already gonna explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:44 PM
3

The entitlement of people on public transpiration. I had a lady a week ago demand I give up my seat because “she needed to text her friend.” I said “You can’t do that standing up?” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:41 PM
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I wish that was the case. Me and my mom have gotten into fights about it, seems she just has moved to trashing me behind my back about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:02 PM
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I’m not going to lie and pretend I don’t want a relationship currently, but I’m just sick of the constant jokes about my single status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:48 PM
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I’m 20, and my mom has been asking about it since I was about 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:42 PM
3

Big family gathering today for a bday party. I expect I’ll be asked for about the a thousand time if I have met anyone yet. Is it bad at this point that I’m just considering ignoring the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:31 PM
2

Pepper spray is prob better tbh. Knives can be dangerous if the crazy person has a significant strength advantage. Stay safe :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:03 PM
2

Jesus Christ, I’m really sorry you experienced that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:55 PM
2

Unfortunately not at this time. And all these small jabs she makes about it are really starting to annoy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:27 PM
2

My moms lack of awareness is amusing to me. One time when she was shit talking me to my brother about never having a gf, my brother said that she prob shouldn’t be speaking so loud in case I overhear her. And then she goes “I know he’s not home because his car is not in the driveway.” Ah yes, because my car couldn’t possibly be parked in the street somewhere. Y’all should’ve seen her face when I came downstairs and she realized I probably overheard all of that shit 😂. I think she tries to convin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:26 PM
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Whenever there’s a thread or comment from a male virgin someone will always say “The right woman would be glad you chose her.” It’s a sweet sentiment but I can’t help but laugh because let’s be honest 99% of us certainly didn’t target to be in this situation 😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:12 AM
1

I guess it is having the frequency of sex you would like to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:02 AM
1

Unfortunately yes. Which is why I’ve gotten good at blocking it out lol. But it still pains me heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:53 AM
4

I sleep for 9 hours each day this week without interruption and my body decides to randomly wake up at 1:47 A.M today. God damn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:47 AM
2

I feel comfortable telling her that… I just don’t think she cares that much… I’ve told her that other lines in the past crossed a line, like the one I spoke about yesterday, and she just doesn’t seem to be phased tbh. So now I’m just blocking it out tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:26 AM
2

Sadly I don’t think she meant it as that, it definitely seemed like a way to try to coerce me into talking. Which really sucks, that was supposed to be a secret and now other people close to me might know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:14 AM
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A lot of men don’t open up because it often is used as a manipulative tool later on. My mom is the only one who knows I had suicidal thoughts in the past, and I’ve been having a rough week and have not really been talking much. Her idea to get me to talk? Threaten to tell other members of my family about my past suicidal thoughts. Now I wish I had never said anything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:17 AM
3

My Friday night plans have gotten to the point of… setting raccoon traps. God what is my life 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:37 PM
2

I’m sorry that happened to you <3. I know 21 is not that old of an age, but it’s just hard not knowing what any of this feels like, like even a kiss, cuddle, etc, ya know? It’s tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:37 PM
2

That’s actually the other quote I was gonna use lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:36 PM
2

Why did I decide to go for a jog without a jacket in 45 degree weather? 😂. I thought it wouldn’t be so bad but 25 mph winds are kicking my ass and making it seem colder than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:19 PM
2

Also if it means anything I read about the date you spoke about yesterday and that’s way closer than I’ve gotten to any physical intimacy with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:13 PM
1

You’ll be ok my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:08 PM
1

Well at least your getting dates man! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:56 PM
1

Like I said, I can’t even believe it’s Friday already. Time just keeps flying 😂. The last four weeks are a blur to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:43 PM
2

I hope to find a woman with your attitude tbh. You seem really sweet and caring about the issue. I just don’t know how common that is. And maybe I can find a woman who is also a virgin, but I’m almost 21 and that gets more rare dramatically as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:17 PM
1

Yeah, she’s just really rude about it. And I can’t take much more of the snarky comments before I scream at her tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:07 PM
1

I mean I guess that’s true since we would be having sped. But that would also be really embarrassing for her to find out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:32 PM
3

Lol I guess the last part is true. Even if I was dumped it she found out at least I’m not a virgin anymore 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:31 PM
1

But what if I’m so bad my first time that it gives it away? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:21 PM
1

You know ive thought about that but I’m afraid my performance may give it away anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:07 PM
5

“Sex isn’t everything.”-People who have consistent sex 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:59 PM
2

You know I hate to call people liars but something tells me that the response he would get in real life and not the internet would be a lot different. Reference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:49 PM
2

I ate pizza for lunch and my parents inform me that they want to get pizza for dinner. I can’t eat pizza for dinner after lunch, it hits my stomach like lead 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:35 PM
2

My mom is oblivious too, just not in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:31 PM
2

Depends, sometimes a Buffalo chicken or chicken bacon ranch slice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:16 PM
3

What should I get for lunch today? My usual thing on a Friday is a slice of pizza and a chicken roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:13 PM
1

New York drivers really drive me crazy. I had to get down to 40mph in the left lane today cuz some lady decided it would be a good idea to do that speed in that lane. With absolutely no one in front of her. Like the left lane isn’t for you if you want to do that speed 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:47 PM
2

5months seems extremely fast but who am I to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:17 PM
1

We keep the cars near our garage which has our landscaping equipment, so I was gonna make a fake scratch and pretend I swiped the side of the car with the leaf blower arm when I was carrying it down. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:14 PM
3

I’m sure it was amazing, that’s why I desire it so much as well, and part of why I feel bad for the op in that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:03 PM
1

So do I do this April fools prank on my dads daily driver(2019 accord) or his actual race car? I feel like I might actually die if I do the race car 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:54 AM
1

My plan if I go the trade route is electrician probably, it really appeals to me. Hopefully get into the IBEW at some point because they offer pension and 401k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:30 AM
1

It is what it is. But thank you though, I’ll do my best to hang in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:11 AM
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Something tells me were it a guy complaining about this, the responses wouldn’t be as kind… but I do feel for her. Touch starvation sucks. Although three years is pretty much nothing, for me at least 😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:09 AM
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I mean hey there’s nothing wrong with prioritizing a pension. You gotta do what you gotta do to set yourself up nicely for the future 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:36 AM
1

I would like to think it’s your first point, but considering I’ve overheard her with my brother making fun of me for never having a gf, I think it’s more about her thinking I’m a dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:17 AM
2

Good night everyone:) And damn it bandit, I did declare victory too early on mr raccoon 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:00 AM
1

I was gonna do something with my dads race car but I don’t want to accidentally end up scratching it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:17 AM
3

I just don’t even know what to say anymore. That’s not the first jab she’s taken either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:58 PM
5

Yeah it really hurt me. I had no words after that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:49 PM
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She’s been pretty scathing in the past about it, but that one really pushed me to my limits. Plus all the little jabs about it are adding up at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:13 PM
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My mom to me when talking about planning a vacation and inviting my brother and his girlfriend- “If you had a gf I’d invite you.” Thanks mom, so I guess it’s only worth having your son on vacation with you if he has a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:07 PM
1

Maybe I’ll let him stay, we’ll see 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:55 PM
2

I knew they were delusional already but expecting a man to buy you a whole house took it to the next level lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:16 PM
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I swear I saw a post on fds where this woman said what she wants as a sign of a man’s commitment to her is buying her a house for herself. Like how do these women get that entitled? Buying a whole fucking house for someone? 😂😂. I think she’s in for a harsh reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:12 PM
1

The worst part is that when I turned on my lights he came even closer to the window. 😂 He’s clearly not deterred by anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:02 PM
1

Cause he crawls across my roof at night and leaves raccoon shit everywhere. Plus I woke up once and this thing was just looking through my window 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:53 PM
1

My next move in this raccoon fiasco is wiring an electrical wire onto the tree that gives him a zap when he tries to go up it. Nothing too harmful, but something he won’t mess with. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:47 PM
1

Definitely a follower depending on the situation. I don’t like drawing attention to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:44 PM
2

I hope I can find that balance soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:35 PM
3

I thought my phone was charging the entire time just now on my 25 minute drive, only to realize at a stop light that the cable for charging was never plugged in 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:26 PM
1

Well the last point is my fear. I fear that if I don’t get any success with dating, I may “slip” back into the way I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:57 PM
1

Yeah it’s just that when I read the dating subs to try to get some advice, every time self improvement is mentioned they always rip someone down if they are doing it to try to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:48 PM
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Yes, if your reputation is that your awful at sex it’s probably going to be harder to get sex. Even if no one knows, it increases the chance for being ghosted, especially if the guy is the one who is awful at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:09 PM
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Lol, but what is necessarily wrong with wanting to start dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:01 PM
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It is an improvement for myself. I believe that starting to get dating experience would be beneficial for me, and if I can improve myself to increase chances of getting a date, I consider that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:55 PM
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But if I want to start dating, and I’m doing self improvement to have better chances at landing a date, I consider that a right reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:50 PM
1

God damn you bandit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:43 PM
2

What th is stupid about self improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:42 PM
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It’s not being super desperate for validation, some just want to be more appealing to others than they currently are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:33 PM
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I think telling people only to due self improvement for themselves and not anyone else is a bit unrealistic. I think everyone wants to be desired in some way and there’s nothing wrong with trying to improve to get more dates and the such.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:29 PM
1

It keeps crawling across my roof at night and driving me crazy. It made a nest in my tree but I cut the branch off where the nest is 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:27 PM
2

I’m somewhere in the middle, maybe a little right leaning, don’t have a pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:22 PM
3

LOL. Thanks for making me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:12 PM
3

So how do I keep this raccoon from returning? Not trying to go on my roof again and destroy another nest 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:06 PM
3

I think he was asking you a question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:22 PM
2

I hope so :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:18 PM
2

I have an idea where it is but I’m totally inexperienced so I’d prob fumble around and screw up during the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:05 PM
3

Jesus Christ… imagine caring that much about whether your child got a tattoo that you’re willing to go to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:52 PM
3

God the nostalgia from listening to some of these songs from my high school years is unbearable 😂. Idk why it’s so hard hitting, my high school years weren’t even all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:51 PM
2

Dude is so whipped 😂. He was laughing at the joke until she gave him that look that she didn’t find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 04:42 PM
2

Something about working on your car is so satisfying. Even doing a simple oil change is always fun for me. Besides the fact that I need to get on my Back on the freezing ass street. I wish I had a car lift 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:05 PM
2

Lmao the hair pulling always cracks me up tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:51 PM
4

Lmao this is a mean comment but I remember someone in a comment the other day mentioned that fat people really tend to overrate their fighting abilities. I remember at six flags last year some like 5 8 chubby girl got into an argument with this like 6 2 180 pound guy and she told him that he was “fucking with the wrong one.” Like the lack of awareness 😂. Do they think that charging people and trying to flatten them is a viable fighting strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:42 PM
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You’re so pressed for no reason lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:35 PM
3

Ah see, this is the exact kind of stuff I desire. I’m Happy for you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:02 PM
0

Wrong. I care about other men, there’s just not much I can do to help Them besides expressing sympathy or empathy. I also have my own problems that are occupying me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:40 PM
1

Mission accomplished. Sorry bandit :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:40 PM
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You be acting like this is new. Most people don’t care about others problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:34 PM
1

Yes, we are capable of thinking of nothing for a while. Although recently that’s been hard for me to do. But yea if me and my boys are just chilling watching tv we all look like we’re just not thinking about anything and relaxing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:33 PM
0

Ppd is famous for people acting pressed about something that most people don’t ask about. Nobody cares if you want to date tall men, just don’t scream it into the Skies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:28 PM
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LOL 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:28 PM
2

And what if they are a normal person who just hasn’t had luck yet? Seems like they still get hate thrown at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:20 PM
2

Yeah but seriously he’s such a fool for doing that. Plus that slap didn’t even phase Chris rock at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:12 PM
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What does he care, he’s worth like 250 mil already. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:04 PM
5

I’m open to have my mind changed on this, but I’ve noticed on Reddit when people tend to complain about being alone, some people will say “Well no wonder why, look at your attitude, your bitter and desperate and people in real life see that.” I think people on dating subs seem to get the idea that reddit users be telling people their whole post history and about their bitterness. 😂 When really we only share our frustration on here. I’ve heard women are better at picking Up cues than men and can …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:53 PM
2

Yeah I’ve been looking into doing a trade and getting into a union eventually but I’m scared if I can handle the labor aspect lol. I think I could but it’s hard to make that jump. But I am really interested in it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:17 PM
4

As a massive Harry Potter fan, this post is killing me 😂. Now I’m thinking about what having Voldemort living with you would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:14 PM
3

Ohhh that’s great, a full time union has so many benefits. But working 7 days a week does sound brutal, hope you are able to handle it well. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:59 AM
2

God that cow is big 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:41 AM
2

No, I wouldn’t want to work 13 hours after barely sleeping either. Hope your day goes well!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:38 AM
1

We keep the car in a garage where we have our stuff to do landscaping, so my idea for how the scratches got there is to say when I was carrying the leaf blower out I accidentally scraped the arm of it against the side 😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:01 AM
1

Is making fake scratches all over my dads race car too far for an April fools prank? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:50 AM
1

As a massive NFL fan and Tom Brady fan, I can’t believe the guy that called that stupid af cover 0 blitz with the game on the line is now head coach. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:33 AM
1

He crawls around on my roof at night and keeps making nests in my tree 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 10:18 AM
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Looks like I will resume battle with this raccoon tmr 😂. Good night everyone, enjoy the rest of your day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:42 AM
0

That’s good. Pulling an engine out sounds interesting. I did an oil change earlier and it was so cold out that I contemplated why I chose to do it today 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:22 AM
1

Yeah that feeling is weird too. I turned 20 in the summer and I can’t believe it’s already been 9 months since Then. It feels like such a short Time ago 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:21 AM
1

How’s everyone’s day going? Currently laying in bed watching tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:58 PM
4

You do realize that prob not even 1 percent of people ever make enough money to retire by 30 right? I think you’re being way too hard on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:55 PM
1

Cause he constantly be crawling across my roof every night and making noise 😂. Plus I don’t want his nest in my tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:49 PM
3

That breaks my heart to read that. I really feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:30 PM
1

88% anxious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:26 PM
1

I don’t want to celebrate it either tbh… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:22 PM
2

Well he won this round bc it’s getting dark and I ain’t climbing on a roof in the dark 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:13 PM
1

Yeah birthdays for me really aren’t anything special anymore. I just go fishing out on the ocean and then eat dinner most of the time. Otherwise it’s just like a normal day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:13 PM
1

I’m terrified already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:09 PM
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They say time flies as you get older but I’m only 20 and I already feel like each week is a blur. What’s it gonna be like when I’m 40? 😂. It’s already going too fast. I feel like I turned twenty two weeks ago
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:57 PM
3

Damn raccoon still hasn’t left my tree. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:44 PM
1

Who’s “you guys”? I’ve never complained about not being able to pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:16 PM
1

Stop taking everything to the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:13 PM
2

I already do use my imagination. I agree that nothing is wrong with being a virgin and having failed to get the real thing at that age, but I’m 20 and it doesn’t seem like it’ll happen anytime soon. So I think that’s a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:11 PM
1

Are you saying all the women here aren’t normal then? Same with the men? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:03 PM
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I think a problem is that people often think excessive porn is the reason men are not getting laid, instead of maybe thinking that they turned to porn after failing at getting the real thing? I don’t watch porn because I have a pretty good imagination, but I will say the assumption annoys me. Like what else are we supposed to do to get off in the mean time?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:52 PM
2

Jesus Christ. Four is still a surprisingly high number lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:34 PM
2

I would but I have to get on a roof to do it and I don’t want the thing to jump at me 😂. Don’t want rabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:26 PM
1

I can’t give you an answer to that, I’ve just been rejected ever since I started trying. Gotta keep trying I guess then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:03 PM
1

I don’t really want to use OLD but I might have no choice eventually. And so far no prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:55 PM
1

My dating life is non existent lol. Haven’t even had my first kiss yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:51 PM
1

That is scary to think about. Hopefully we can turn things around one day 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:44 PM
1

Wait wtf? 😂. I didn’t see that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:36 PM
1

Yeah idk. I sometimes hate on myself for being down bad but then I read stories of men who can’t even be bothered to wipe their own ass. But then I think, if those men can get gfs, then what am I doing wrong? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:35 PM
2

But how do they even not see this coming? Do these men have an act earlier on where they do things as simple as washing dishes? Or do these women simply ignore the red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:23 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. Reddit seems to have lots of stories of women being with men who barely know how to do anything, including some nasty ones of men not wiping their own asses. I’ve never seen this level of incompetence and shit from the men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:11 PM
4

Yikes even his own therapist told him to come to terms with the fact that he might be forever alone. Although I guess blunt ness isn’t always bad? Thoughts on this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:03 PM
1

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:41 PM
1

Context context context. When are you actually gonna address if you think it is ok to make those jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:38 PM
1

Sorry bandit 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:37 PM
2

Massive raccoon has a nest in a tree outside my bedroom window. Can’t get him out of there right now lol. As soon as he leaves for a bit that whole branch with the nest is coming down 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:34 PM
1

I’m using men in plural because they’ve laughed at specific people several times. Do you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:27 PM
1

Lol, but now that I gave you the context of Them laughing at men in general who drive big trucks you keep deflecting. And when did I say my cousins? This extends to my mom and sister making jokes like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:19 PM
2

I literally gave you the context and then you accused me of trying to “gotcha” you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:07 PM
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Lol, imagine leaving the argument to subtly take jabs at me without mentioning me. Why can’t you just tag me if you’re gonna speak about me so obviously?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:05 PM
2

Wait what exactly do you mean? How would they know that the guy actually had a small dick? They are laughing at him for solely driving a big truck. Is that ok with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:27 PM
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You’re cherry picking because you had no problem with my family members insulting men with small dicks, but as soon as a joke about a bald woman is made, BOOM you have a problem all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:11 PM
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Yes not all jokes are funny. But that does not mean you escalate it to physical violence. And how am I lying, you’re implying will was right to do that by saying the joke was insensitive and that he was defending her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 05:04 PM
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I’m not blaming you for anything, but stop cherry picking which jokes are ok and which aren’t. And since you think it was ok for will smith to slap somebody because of the joke, if the men these jokes were about heard them, would it be ok for them to slap the person who made the joke as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:49 PM
2

That’s not the only context they made the joke in my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:45 PM
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Lol well ignoring the low oil sign is pretty dumb ngl, no offense to your wife 😂. Did she just not know what the light meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:45 PM
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I didn’t give you the context because some of it is extremely embarrassing to talk about, and I don’t want to tell the whole story to everyone here to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:43 PM
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Weren’t you defending making small dick jokes at peoples expense like an hour ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:38 PM
1

Oh Jesus two grand is ode 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:57 PM
1

Whoever tightened my drain bolt last time they did my oil change, wtf? That’s all I’m gonna say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:53 PM
1

Yeah I guess that’s true. I’m not really embarrassed about it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:41 PM
1

Yeah there’s some embarrassing stuff for me there.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:28 PM
1

Why did I pick such a freezing day to do my oil change on my car 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:08 PM
1

I don’t care if they joke about it, just don’t do it in front of a male family member who these jokes are going to effect
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:00 PM
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Then why specifically bring up dicks in the context of the joke then? Why not just laugh about how insecure they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:42 PM
1

Were all the jokes I heard from my family members in my head?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:32 PM
1

I’m close to that amount, but with other things I can have far more than that. Still doesn’t change the fact that my last three years have been awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:16 PM
1

I think that’s a much more rare occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:47 AM
1

It’s not a non issue though, when you have a size that is small enough that it most likely will be a problem for women that you are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:42 AM
2

Oh, you’re back. There’s a difference between large dicks and a dick size that is actually going to be a problem for most women. Usually it’s smaller than average dicks that fall under this scale. Lol, I don’t think it’s just size queens making those jokes my friend. And lastly, why bring Up dick size at all then if it is simply to Due with insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:36 AM
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So where did this lie about men caring more about dick size more than women come from? 😂 The amount of times I’ve heard women family members try to make jokes about someone driving a large truck, for example, far surpasses anything from men I have heard. Is this just a reddit thing where everyone spams only men care about dick size?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:04 AM
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Did you read my post history or something? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:01 AM
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Good Night everyone :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:39 AM
2

No, I actually have a lot of money saved up, but that’s only because of the situation I’m in still living at home. If I was on my own, I’ll admit, I’d be toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 12:00 AM
2

How do you get over anger over the past? My last three years of life have been a complete waste tbh and I can’t even think about it without being filled with regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:53 PM
1

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:29 PM
1

Ohhhh I didn’t know you used to be a park ranger. That sounds super cool. Yeah personally I fear grizzly bears the most. They are not to be fucked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:05 PM
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Black bears are usually timid until fools start feeding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:57 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:56 PM
1

I’m not as concerned as about the locals rather than me getting charged while I’m dragging a deer out of the woods. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:16 PM
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