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1

We go back and forth with who buys what. No one really cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:17 PM
1

Finding someone whom I love so much that I throw my own desires under the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:49 AM
3

So she shit tests you by taking you to a My Little Pony convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:59 PM
2

Uh, what if she just can't eat spicy food? Or she has IBS?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:51 PM
2

Literally never.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:50 PM
1

No regrets about turning anyone down since I was on a mission to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:43 PM
1

Some people are givers and others are takers. Gender notwithstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:53 PM
2

Do you guys think women almost always give at a deficit? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:42 PM
3

Please be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:11 PM
1

Because I am cute as a bug's ear?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:26 AM
1

Have fun with your Chad boyfriend then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:18 AM
1

OK, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:19 PM
2

Genuinely curious here- do men get this too? Do other dudes explain things to you that you already know, as if you were ignorant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:13 PM
0

But how do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:12 PM
3

Oh wow, that is funny. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:11 PM
3

She was the author of the book he was talking about For real? This seems a little too apt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:00 PM
5

That made me chuckle. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:59 PM
2

Look- this woman (if she is real) might be a huge bitch, or simply a narcissist. No idea why she kept failing. But to give up hope because of an arbitrary age, no way- if I had given up at 40 I never would have found my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:58 PM
2

Her saying she might find "the one" at 40 years old is a joke Nope, I found the love of my life at 44. If you can get love, get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:48 PM
3

I'm 50/50 on it being fiction. On the one hand it hits all the red pill taking points and blames "women's empowerment" and social media like some dudes on Reddit claim is a big push for the hoe phase, but on the other hand it sounds vaguely female. For example she did not have orgasms or mind-blowing sex like men here claim women get from hook ups, so it smacks of real experience. Undecided.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:47 PM
1

You have no idea how wise she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:35 PM
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Where is Atlas???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:48 PM
2

He does not sound alpha, he sounds like a 6 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:49 PM
1

Make a joke about it, they will get the hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:45 PM
1

Most people bounce back and do not become jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:56 PM
3

How do girls keep consistently finding the 1% of psychopathic narcissists in the population Abusive parents. We seek out the familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:47 PM
4

You do realize we date our parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:46 PM
1

She used to be OK with childfree couples and stay at home husbands, and now all that is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:45 PM
0

Back the day I was a fan of Dr. Laura, but all that changed when she veered hard right into trad territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:29 PM
3

I’m playing Star Stable Online and I’m remembering why women are disappearing into games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:24 PM
3

So what should she have done? Killed herself to spare the community?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:13 PM
3

Unless you are married, no one should be paying anyone else's bills. Pay your own way, sugar free.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:12 PM
1

I date short men, and my partner is shorter than I am. I love his gym body.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:21 PM
1

Help them out how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:55 PM
3

Do you feel sad for the ones who do everything right and end up miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:33 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:44 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:01 AM
12

At the heart of trad is this very thing. All the trads I know in RL failed in romance and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:28 PM
8

She is just super trad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:14 AM
2

Yeesh, he sounds like a pain in the ass. Gals, always avoid men who think you are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:44 PM
8

I grew up in conservative christian circles, and I can tell you that sexual abuse happens and the victims are often told they are lying. Or they asked for it. Or they deserved it for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:29 PM
7

How is participating in premarital consensual sex correlated with being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:00 PM
6

How is being raped related to the women being conservative or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:50 PM
3

Oddly enough this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:58 PM
1

the men in my life are far more paranoid about security than i am. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:30 PM
2

He is making all of this up in his head. Ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:49 PM
8

I lol’ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:08 PM
7

Same. And yet outside of this toxicity, most men are fine and we get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:58 PM
4

Don't police women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:57 PM
0

Or, most women struggle more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:21 PM
1

Wow, so did I! And yet we arrive at opposite conclusions. It's almost like bias or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:12 PM
3

Good lord, how do you come up with this falderal?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:08 PM
2

This is literally what men here want to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:17 PM
1

Boredom. Can't play video games at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:04 AM
0

Agreed, some of us were never princesses, we had to mow the lawn at age 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:00 AM
4

I am sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:59 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:33 PM
1

Not everyone is designed to raise children. I am happy with my decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:23 PM
1

Naw, I am doin' fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:14 PM
3

I imagine in RL they are the shy and nerdy office workers who hav a hard time making eye contact at lunch, but on here they are all Rambo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:59 PM
2

Men have divorced bitter bald men on YouTube Entrepreneurs in Cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:34 PM
2

You caught that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:28 PM
1

Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:03 PM
1

I would not have expected to hear this from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:19 PM
1

My suspicions were correct. As usual, Red Pill ideology pushes the idea too hard that men and women are VASTLY different and incompatible. But we aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:30 AM
0

It was pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:30 AM
0

Mawwiage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:31 PM
0

Waved in front of me and then stolen How was it stolen? You were never together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:01 PM
1

Good. You want the gold but you present the iron pyrite version.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:38 PM
4

It's all just fantasy, you know. None of this is even happening with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:09 PM
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If your partner is literally telling you to your face "I don't love you as much as my ex", you should break up immediately, This literally happened to me when I was 20. And I dumped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:07 PM
2

But a man with the same count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:03 PM
4

Your wife is correct, cute face is the most important trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:42 PM
1

I would copy and paste form the manifesto itself but it's not text, it's a scan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:41 PM
5

None of this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:30 AM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:55 AM
4

Yup, he was the real bully who threw his coffee on strangers and then drove off. At no point was Elliot introspective. And yes, he tried to get both his parents to read the PUAhate website.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:41 PM
4

He is making stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:38 PM
6

too late, already tagged you as an ecofascist I am NOT coming down from this tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:21 PM
1

Elf princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:14 PM
4

By going straight to the source, I wanted to know if he really was treated badly and if he had any real suffering that might lead to the final act. Nope, just a brat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:06 PM
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The Unabomber had a clear and logical manifesto that showed a great deal more thought and less victim mentality. EDIT just so we're clear, I am not agreeing with the Unabomber, I am just pointing out his writing was of a high caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:03 PM
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I just finished reading Elliot Rodger's entire 137 page manifesto, and he was clearly mentally ill with a strong dose of psychopathy. No compassion for other people, whom he did not regard as real like himself, but tools to be used or enemies to be killed. He was planning on murdering his little brother and his stepmom also, and his dad if need be, so this was not just about Stacy. It was like he was the only actual person and everyone else was a character in his dream. Even his best friend Jame…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:42 PM
2

I have moved so many times, and it amazes me how some people are regionalists who insult people like me for moving to their state. They clearly forgot all of American history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:33 PM
3

Because it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:31 PM
1

But you do recognize that she would see through the deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:25 PM
2

I got bullied way worse than Elliot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:23 PM
1

But they’re running out of time in their thirties and settle for a nice guy. This rarely happens. Most women marry their boyfriends in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:42 PM
3

I am on page 49 and he rambles a lot about "nightmare" experiences that are just ordinary life, like having to speak two sentences in front of a crowd at graduation. His parents give him literally everything he wants, all the time, and he never hears the word No from his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:40 PM
8

I have been slowly reading all the way through Elliot Rodger's 137 page manifesto and damn was this kid spoiled. Trips to Paris and Morocco and huge three story houses and all the perks of being rich. Yet he still claims to be a victim and life is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:59 PM
2

You must know how often this happens on PPD. Dude asks women a questions, women answer, other dudes tell her she is lying. All. Day. Long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:50 PM
1

If he's ok with never getting sex, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:20 AM
1

And yet I achieved my goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:44 AM
1

I want a man to give me the love and acceptance my dad did not. Beyond that, nothing matters- not his money or his car or a diamond ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:42 AM
4

To tell her she is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:36 AM
4

Purge week, no rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:30 PM
3

No. Christian women can see right thru the frauds by asking Bible questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:19 PM
5

My best friend from high school became a house wife and her apartment was FILTHY. What the hell did she do all day? They never even had kids so what exactly was she doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:32 PM
1

I have seen this happen too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:25 PM
1

Are we talking about the same Lewis?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:05 PM
1

Does anyone know why he never gets a divorce already?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:56 PM
3

Oh noes!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:27 PM
1

Oh we understand it just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:34 PM
1

That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:33 PM
5

My boyfriend is Asian and a Chad, I don't see the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:28 PM
1

2: He thought he would be able to fuck other chicks and started missing you when he found out he couldn't. Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:06 AM
-1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:08 PM
11

Yup, I am in So Cal and lots of Asian Chads abound.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:07 PM
7

Good grief, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:29 PM
0

Yet we see broke men partnered up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:14 PM
1

Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:13 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:12 PM
2

No, I get no provisions from any of my relationships. That would feel gross to me. I love with my whole heart, in a genuine and selfless fashion. Doesn't everyone who isn't a narcissist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:09 PM
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Are you cute with a hat on?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:38 AM
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I thought they were waiting for an Uber.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:37 AM
8

So you just parrot words.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:36 AM
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I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:31 AM
8

Super original MGTOW and MRA talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:30 AM
3

We are going on six years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:28 AM
9

You don't have any yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:25 AM
2

I don't live with my SO. Lots of adults have separate residences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:20 AM
-1

Women face those same risks in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:50 PM
1

Right as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:48 PM
5

There is no category for couples who live in different houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:45 PM
1

You sound like someone I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:44 PM
2

There is not much to reconcile- I want to be able to work for a living instead of bosses telling me they do not hire women, and I also want a masculine boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:42 PM
1

Or maybe she is tired of Arby's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:12 PM
0

Such a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:11 PM
2

Smart girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:43 PM
2

Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:52 PM
7

idk what the women are gonna wind up doing Working and paying bills, like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:46 PM
3

The obvious solution? Women give there excess water to men who are dying of thirst. Meaning what exactly? I sleep with hobos?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:39 PM
1

To not constantly be facing an emergency people need more money
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:07 PM
15

Name 5 inventions you have made.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:05 PM
6

She works and pays her own bills, as do you and everyone else who works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:01 PM
3

Buddy, she can get an apartment and live the life she wants. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:59 PM
1

I feel sad just reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:00 PM
1

I wish there was a way to donate money to you without giving out any of my own information.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:57 PM
0

YMMV, I met my boyfriend on Match and he is way better than any guy I met in Real Life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:55 PM
2

ZZ Top's Sleeping Bag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:49 PM
1

You know some toxic babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:42 PM
1

The last time I was dumped I was a teenager. And even at that tender age, Chad did not make me go psychotic, I just cried a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:38 AM
2

True facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 02:37 AM
2

Waaaayyyy off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:10 AM
6

See, there you go again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:09 AM
3

I was almost 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:07 AM
1

I waited a damn long time, so I don't see why he can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:02 AM
3

Dude, you have no idea. "I am a virgin." "What? You big liar!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:01 AM
3

if they want to be fair and promote equality as they claim they want to they should be considerate in how long they’re making guys wait. So what if I want to wait until marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:39 AM
3

The only men who get into relationships are men with no options or who want a trophy girlfriend while maintains side chicks. Have you never seen a married Chad? I sure have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:37 AM
4

No man in my entire life has asked my n count. No one cares. When you are pretty, men will want to be your boyfriend. You could be batshit insane and they don't care, or you could be a sweet submissive like me and they don't care. SMV is all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:34 AM
9

her main attraction is her malleability to become a woman who complements a man Yuck, grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:25 AM
7

"This is an especially important point to make because women’s smv declines with each sexual partner so they should actually be making each new guy wait less time than the one before." Just dumb. First off, says who? How would anyone know a woman's partner count unless told? And how does that knowledge mean she should be even sluttier and faster the next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:22 AM
6

they are terrified of the implied emotional control man can use, and women are way more vulnerable to it than men. It has been their only weapon to control men, and made possible by propaganda to make men weak and vulnerable to it. all women can do is attack and prey and the sexual insecurity many men have been programmed to have. If men knew exactly what triggers them, they would loose everything and they would be emotional slaves again. Is this an episode of Star Trek? What the hell man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:16 AM
2

genuine LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:11 AM
0

My dad wanted me to marry an ugly beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:10 AM
1

Sorta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:18 PM
2

I was a nine with small boobs, back in the day. Was even asked to be a clothing model.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:55 PM
1

Same. And I have been dirt poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:54 PM
4

No. Not even close- I fell in love HARD at age 44, well after the youthful idealism ended. The limerence lasted 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:52 PM
3

Child substitute in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:18 PM
3

The thing is RP men don't just want sex, they this power fantasy about getting revenge by pumping-n-dumping and being the "gatekeepers of commitment" Yeah, there was that guy here who claimed to "salt" the sugarbabies by not paying after wards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:17 PM
0

Now he will be all happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:15 PM
0

He wants you to admit that you sleep with felons and then marry a man you cannot stand, just for his money. Like we all do, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:53 PM
2

Frog.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:46 PM
2

Yuck, why do I have to pick up with #2 "from a very young age" that is just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:47 AM
3

I wonder if the VR headsets take the kids away to a better world...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:41 PM
0

And most of those men will end up in divorce court, living out of their cars for a year, So all those cars I see in the Walmart parking lot are divorced men's homes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:23 PM
1

Japan is an overcrowded island with very few resources and a bizarre world view with extreme xenophobia. Most nations are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:14 PM
3

We have also been burned by taking what men say at face value and have developed a healthy skepticism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:06 PM
5

Men are such experts on what women think, it's like they can all read minds or something. Such sages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:59 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:53 PM
6

Go ahead and buy yourself a World's Best Dad mug. He can afford it easily because he is single, you pussy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:52 PM
1

Also I had made Thanksgiving dinner for my elderly neighbors which was a mistake because they asked me to make Christmas dinner too, then didn’t like what I had planned to make so I had to make something else instead. 🙄 Just...wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:50 PM
-1

Despite the gloom and doom on this sub, most people turn out just fine and most people pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:49 PM
8

Oh damn, you figured it out: we are all the same user under different accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:45 PM
7

That is not what is happening here. The women are ALL being honest. Different women give different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:51 PM
7

And everyone else is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:40 PM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:29 AM
1

Bitch slaps are not that injurious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:55 AM
2

This woman gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:49 AM
4

i suppose I'm not a fan of button noses. I like Mediterranean noses. Amen, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:46 AM
1

Six women do this? As opposed to how many male posters?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:51 PM
0

Rich and high status is not why women drooled after Prince. They liked him for his sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:16 PM
0

Are you telling me only millionaire rock stars are allowed to be short?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:02 PM
1

No. Was Prince chubby and weak and meek? Was Prince ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:25 PM
4

Exactly, my SO is sexy and amazing and oddly, shorter than I am. This has never bothered me at all, and in fact I passed over tall men to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:17 PM
4

When your 18 year old daughter brings home her 45 year old boyfriend you will suddenly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:07 AM
3

They would laugh at the "betas" and act like the women are all settling. Or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:05 PM
3

Hang out here longer and you will see what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:18 PM
1

Whenever a woman is divorced, it must be her fault he left and so she deserves what she gets. That is what men here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:18 PM
0

Women can do no right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:25 PM
1

Boots that go over your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:13 PM
-1

It is horrible, and I am sorry this happened, but why post it to a subreddit that hates women? Why tell the guys here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:02 PM
1

What is a lesson you learned this year in your dating/relationship life? I learned that he doesn't want me to pay for the house even though I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:01 PM
-1

You are not going to get any sympathy from the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:48 PM
5

Although my parents are still married and mostly happy, we had a very unconventional childhood and we constantly moved from one place to the next, never putting down roots. I learned to detach and say goodbye, and I have been doing that my entire life. Now that I met the love of my life, I have to imagine permanence and living in one place as a goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:42 PM
2

We din't know how much she had saved up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:02 PM
1

They both rented apartments and did not live in mansions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:01 PM
5

I figured Andy got a way better deal, seeing how hot Trish is and how many men would be glad for her attention. They are the same age, she is his equal in looks, they both make the same amount of money. What's the problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:21 AM
1

Unbridled hedonism is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:16 AM
1

Women have nearly zero consequence for their unbridled hedonism. Have you really thought through this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:43 PM
1

Ridicule Good movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:16 PM
1

I've heard people here say they can't stand her because she believes all relationships should be open.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:15 PM
2

I am as free as a teenage boy, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:53 PM
1

Uh, none of that is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:41 PM
3

Don't women have male family members? Don't they have muscle mass and protect the women? You are forgetting that families exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:52 PM
2

When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is pick whomever you like. Accept that people are all flawed dogs and find the man who best fits with your damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:46 PM
5

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:08 PM
4

Wow, I must be a saint or something because I am not transactional like you seem to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:22 PM
9

"The jury’s out on whether orgasms themselves cause a spike in testosterone" Also not a scientific journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:15 PM
5

The more orgasms a girl has, the deeper the voice and the more testosterone she releases. Where are you getting this nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:06 PM
2

I see it now. She has a nice body but her face is a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:41 PM
3

6 or 7, it's hard to tell from one photo. Also she claims she looks young for her age but no, she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:51 PM
1

so why would the person come back to you? You weren't compatible. You'd be surprised. See my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:21 PM
1

My high school boyfriend did in fact come crawling back looking for me after 30 years. He was the one who cheated and dumped me when I was 17, and now he is divorced and lonely and desperate. Somehow he found out where I work and showed up there with my high school homecoming photo as proof, looking for me, asking my boss all sorts of questions. She was a champ and told him I have a boyfriend, but he insisted on leaving his phone number and later sent a written letter to my house. begging for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:19 PM
1

The problem is they do not want "you" at all, they want your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:38 PM
1

I think you replied to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:23 PM
4

I am trying to recall any point where this has happened, and No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:58 PM
7

Gotta get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:54 PM
1

Folklore is not science.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:30 PM
1

More than one time. I dated a lot of low value men before I came to my senses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:29 PM
4

He gets to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:17 PM
1

And I am not lying, I dated a guy like that- poor and ugly. It was not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:14 PM
1

But where is the proof of this idea? In my experience (and many gals can back me up) plain average men are not better to women, and hot guys are not meaner. There is no telling how he will treat you simply based on looks or "options" and many insecure narcissist men will emotionally or physically abuse their partners. And guess what- mental illness and narcissism is not based on looks either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:05 PM
5

::shrug::
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:49 PM
3

Who said it's a lie? The only physically abusive man I ever dated was an engineer with no chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:45 PM
4

They don't get laid. They get relationship sex. So here we are again, making everything weird about "Casual Sex" being some great party to which you were not invited. Most people are NOT having Casual Sex, they are in relationships and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:43 PM
3

Average Todd better have a swingin' personality and be great at jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:37 PM
1

That is not what happened to me at ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:26 PM
4

Say a person has a slutty past, then gets into a car accident and loses their memory of all their sex flings. They have no memory of any of it, and no diseases or physical proof and no one else can verify any of this activity because it happened on the down low. Where. is the N count now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:34 AM
7

But she is describing it from HER perspective, which is what you asked for. From a woman's viewpoint, aging signs like grey hair and wrinkles on a man are gross unless she is also that age. Plus baldness is a massive turnoff for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:26 AM
8

She isn't wrong. Most men age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:21 AM
5

Not last I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:07 AM
19

When I was 27 I briefly dated a guy who was 41, and it was super weird. He was not bad looking but even at that age I was grossed out by his grey chest hair. We broke up because he wanted to be a serious couple and I was not that into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:34 AM
1

I don’t know people who have casual sex, no matter what they look like. Seems like a niche activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:56 PM
2

This is high school in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:25 PM
2

You can expect a woman to betray and hurt you, because that's their nature (duplicitous, conniving, and emotionally manipulative) Yup, gotta blame those nasty females, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:03 PM
0

So you were goth and kinda dark-sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:58 PM
1

Because in communicating I’m not down with it, she wouldn’t simply recognize her hypocrisy and admit she wouldn’t be ok with me doing male version of it, instead she would just gaslight me and call me insecure. Meaning communicating issues with women’s behavior, at least in this example, serves no purpose other than to create more bullshit for yourself. This is all you got? A paranoid worst-case scenario instead of being a human with free will?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:57 PM
8

I have much more to offer as a person now. But were you cuter and more fun at 19?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:54 PM
1

And this is why you fail at communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:53 PM
1

Oh I see, you can type your thoughts on the internet but talking to your partner means ending up in jail. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:49 PM
2

and why the guys apparently are fine with it Because of mom being the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:49 PM
5

What the fuck? Was I more of a catch then? yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:44 PM
2

I have a different experience because I was in the art world for so long, and I met so many female artists who were domineering bitches and extremely macho women. They had husbands who bragged about them on social media, worshipped them and fawned all over them. It exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:43 PM
1

Learn to use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:25 PM
1

I wouldn’t even have the option of communicating to her that I’m not down with that behavior. Why the hell not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:15 PM
-1

Don't you know any wife-worshipping betas? I sure do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:55 PM
0

I know so, so many ballbuster women who are married to men who worship them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:50 PM
2

Exactly, I never would have met my SO if a dating website did not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:49 PM
5

So how do you explain all the happy spinsters and widows and divorced women who get their emotional needs from friends? Heck, how do you explain lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:48 PM
3

While the is true, people are still getting into serious longterm relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:43 PM
1

Some guys like that, and yes I am talking about real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:39 PM
3

Represent!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:37 PM
1

If you are religious, marriage lets you have sex. Benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:23 PM
1

Looks I am a gold digger by your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:26 AM
1

What is wrong with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:40 PM
15

This is male projection not how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:36 PM
1

All I can think of is pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:51 PM
2

Redpillers have a massive bugbear about women ending relationships, in general. There is no way for a woman to end a relationship without somehow being a terrible person, This is the core issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:07 AM
6

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:09 PM
4

How is it sociopathic to ponder a major decision over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:07 PM
4

So which analogy would you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:27 PM
3

I am flabbergasted that the men here are calling us sociopaths and such because we give them second chances. "Hey Romeo, I need you to stop doing X and maybe try Y and this matters to me." "Yeah, ok babe." Does nothing. "Hey Romeo, uh again, I need you to stop doing X and do Y." Still nothing. So men, if someone keeps giving you all the information you need and you blow us off, how many chances should we give you before we pull the plug?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:23 PM
8

Do you quit a job the first time you feel like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:45 PM
4

Yup. He burned her out over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:33 PM
8

No shit, women talk and talk and talk and these guys still don't get it. Actions speak louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:27 PM
14

We want to make sure we are done before we pull that trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:49 PM
7

No we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:33 PM
2

You got the name back?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:30 PM
2

This. When I am joking with my male friends I make sure to never appear flirty or sexy. I use self-deprecating humor and not the fishing-for-compliments kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:28 PM
0

She speaks the truth. This is why I like gay men so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:27 PM
1

I have a close male friend and I treat him as an equal. Red pill guys claim that women use their male friends for free labor and gifts, but I always and I mean ALWAYS pay him back when he helps me out. No one owes anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:24 PM
2

I never gave my anything to Chads. What is this bizarre view?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:51 AM
1

Calvinist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:02 AM
1

You have no clue what my values are, since I haven't mentioned them even once. You already stated that the most desirable men are the wealthiest men, which shows what you value. You are all about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:11 PM
1

I see you and I have very different values. We will have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:09 PM
1

Ah, I see y our problem now. You think the most desirable men are the wealthy men- that was the flaw here. I mean most people pair up with people of the same level in physical attractiveness and also same level in financial status. The prettiest women are not all gold diggers so they are not all going for the wealthiest men. And the wealthiest men are not all marrying models. Like goes with like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:57 PM
1

"The more attractive a woman is, the higher her minimum threshold of financial success will be because they can get all the attributes they want in men without compromising on quality of life." This is what you said that I find wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:41 PM
3

You are a true hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:39 PM
3

Damn straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:32 PM
1

In general, people pair up with similar people. So she will get someone at her level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:23 PM
3

Bold of you to assume that men in open relationships are only sleeping with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:46 PM
3

That the prettiest women with highest value all go for the richest men. Nope, people vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:42 PM
1

If they truly do nothing then okay. TBF I know an equal number of women who "do nothing" and they are also losers. If someone is unemployed that is not an excuse to aim for the drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:31 PM
2

No, but neither are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:26 PM
1

I have successfully Changed Your View.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:52 PM
4

The question was: do you define people's value entirely by whether or not their work is salaried? I work minimum wage retail. I do not consider myself a loser because work is honorable no matter how low status. I know people who sit at home unemployed for YEARS doing fuck all, and I do not honor that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:52 PM
1

Every one of you are exceptions and outliers. So logically we are not lying or gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:50 PM
7

The pastor once gave a sermon about how wives should still submit even if they are smarter than their husbands. You cannot make this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:47 PM
1

My dad is an "alpha Male" and still married to my mom. I am committed with an "alpha" myself and that is so weird, because red pill says I am post wall. I look around and see other alpha men who are married. Yet here you are claiming that alpha men can never be bothered to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:45 PM
1

Women select LESS ATTRACTIVE men for marriage because THOSE ARE THE MEN WHO STAY and SHE CAN CONTROL AND MANIPULATE those men. Also, women don't really have a choice - they can't pick the most attractive ones. This is not true either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:42 PM
2

ok? I am not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:34 PM
4

Yeah, I learned from my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:33 PM
1

I can allow that there are lying whores, yes. But when we claim not to be like that, why do the men here say we are lying or gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:17 PM
12

"the man is the head of the family." That was another big turn off, honestly. Not to be vain, but I was smarter than these guys and it made no sense to have them bossing me around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:07 PM
16

I used to attend a conservative church and dated the men there, who were of course conservative republicans. Almost without fail, they wanted a wife who had no say in her reproductive rights and would have as many kids as the man dictated. Obviously, I never got married to any of these people so they never got sex from me but a big reason I left them was the idea that my body would just be used as a baby factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:01 PM
3

Unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:58 PM
2

More like everyone deliberately ignoring the point because they can’t face the truth. But what if the women here are innocent of your charges and do not fit this lying whore description you give? What about that possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:57 PM
10

"The more attractive a woman is, the higher her minimum threshold of financial success will be because they can get all the attributes they want in men" Disagree, some women are not that motivated by greed and prefer someone who is cute or affable. I know women who are very attractive and make good money who are married to losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:42 PM
8

Reddit is the best waste of time since LiveJournal died.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:18 PM
0

You know we can date foreigners, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:15 PM
3

good job YAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:14 PM
5

If men and women were truly equal, women should get drafted and die alongside men in wars Like in Israel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:06 PM
6

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:06 AM
7

I see we read the same subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:37 AM
6

This comment is making me queasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:14 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:12 AM
1

Never seen it, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:00 AM
3

Or… the women here are innocent of all charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:54 PM
8

That’s what you took from that quote about episiotomies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:33 PM
12

Women are commodities and men are humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:24 PM
1

When I speak to players they actually tell me that they take revenge on women who make them wait. Never happened to me. Also, what kind of revenge are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:28 PM
6

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:14 PM
1

I have bad memories of female "friends" doing this going back to high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:50 PM
2

And this, girls, is why you wait to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:49 PM
1

Yeah I liked that movie mostly for the family being so endearing and the romance being so unromantic. It was a cute story with no chemistry whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:46 PM
4

They'll put their friend in the proverbial dog house for perceived grievances that wouldn't even register on my radar. Yes, I knew a few gals like this- carried seething grudges over the slightest infractions. I still don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:40 PM
22

what type of woman tends to stay a virgin until marrying age? Religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:45 AM
3

Huh? I have never heard this claim...do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:30 PM
1

Legally, any house purchased after marriage is marital property and will be spilt 50/50 upon divorce, or inherited by one spouse after the other dies. A live in girlfriend or boyfriend gets no such benefit unless they hire a lawyer and ...? Who does this? I know of two cases where the women lost her house because her fiancé left her and she was not on the deed., despite making payments every month for years. It's a mess and being married first would have solved this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:49 AM
1

A friend of mine married a beta specifically because of his beta qualities. She is very domineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:45 AM
1

It is considered poor judgement to buy a house with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:39 AM
1

Women have many other reasons to want to get married, such as religion and raising kids, or even the legal protections for buying a house together so no one gets screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:09 AM
46

OP wants a conservative woman who will put out before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:22 PM
4

I don't mind religious beliefs but when the woman starts quoting bible passages and ranting on about wanting a man of God and Jesus being #1 it's too much. What did you think religious women are like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:17 PM
3

Agreed. I am also religious and OP clearly is not going to church if he thinks Christian women are all riding the carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:16 PM
7

I see many people seethe when someone dates someone from a non-western culture. Who is seething? Who? I have been with my brown ethnic boyfriend for five years and no one is seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:10 PM
4

It's rare, but there are conservative atheist women in the US. You might be able to find one at a shooting range.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:02 PM
2

Uh, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:12 PM
1

Maybe it’s the area of California I live in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:17 PM
0

You should be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:13 PM
1

Women here all get to the salon weekly, and are hitting gyms hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:59 PM
4

That is not what I see in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:55 PM
1

Yes you can. Not everyone in India is arranged to a match, some people just date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:49 AM
2

Why would you want an arranged marriage???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:31 AM
1

India.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:25 AM
2

He's wrong that alphas and sexy men never commit, anyone can see that since so many of them are married with kids. But what one woman considers an alpha another woman will think is hideous. Tastes vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:30 PM
1

Like u/Aldabruzzo said, women should pick better. Find a man who blows you away with his sexiness and build a relationship on that. Anything else will result in a dead bedroom and resentment, and a string of broken hearts. Do not settle, you will only hurt someone by doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:17 PM
2

Anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:12 PM
1

You are really on the mark today. I am impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:11 PM
2

Of course. I finally got my alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:09 PM
0

I have never been pumped and dumped. The rest of what you wrote is spot on- and yes, in my own experience that is what happened. Over and over again I broke hearts and it was baffling to me why I kept getting men who disappointed me. Now I see clearly what I did wrong, and I fixed it and got a dude I actually love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:07 PM
3

From my experience people who married young and in high school have had the longest marriages All the ones I see have gotten divorced by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:04 PM
-1

Except for the part about chad and the pumping and dumping, this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:00 PM
6

This is solid truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:59 PM
1

This may sound maudlin, but I hope they are ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:11 PM
2

I am sorry to hear about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:10 PM
1

You guys crack me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:01 PM
-1

a lot of women revert back to gender roles in times of crisis, So in a house fire situation, the old man who needs rescuing and the kids and the handicapped man in a wheelchair all become women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:49 AM
1

heheheh that is so true....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:20 AM
3

My best friend was married to a guy who made less than her and also cheated. He was NO chad, just a regular schlub. She had low self esteem or she would not have married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:19 AM
2

So a nurse is a meaningless paper pusher?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:14 PM
3

If you are not living together then dating is fun, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:13 PM
4

So we are supposed to fuck the firemen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:11 PM
2

She is trying to say that living with a man would make her unhappy and overworked. Why are you arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:11 PM
1

Yes, I had exes who did these things. It made me leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:27 PM
1

I learned about shit tests and thank God it all makes sense now. Also negging and dread and other manipulations which I can see for what they are. Plus like Hedonism Bot says, I learned about Narcissism and that really tied it all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:30 PM
8

The only red pill belief that stands out as True and Original (unlike gym memberships) is the advice to find a man you are super attracted to, and then build a relationship on top of that attraction. Never date a guy unless you are hot for him. And this is red pill women advice, not TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:00 AM
0

All false.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:55 AM
-2

and not to put up with womens shit tests. Dude, we have had this discussion many times. Most people DO NOT shit test their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:04 AM
-2

Except that guys here call "shaming tactics" on a woman who disagrees with his red pill beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:53 PM
49

It's great to see how men really think when they let their guard down. It also warns me of certain behaviors and opinions that I see as red flags and they do not. When the red pill men show their cards on how to manipulate women, I learn their tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:48 PM
2

i asked you what the reasoning actually is? The reason some men believe that women are children is because the women display behaviors that men can misinterpret as childish. Like crying. Women cry a lot more than men, so some guys will use this as evidence that women are "too emotional" and "Not rational" like men who rarely cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:46 PM
3

They exhibit the same behaviors. Who are we talking about? Same behaviors as which?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:42 PM
4

If you caricature a group of people, it makes it easier to have no compassion for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:40 PM
5

B cluster personality disorders are not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:24 PM
6

What are your exact examples? "Oldest teenager in the house. Women are children."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:23 PM
1

You don’t think of eating as a a chore Well, actually....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:01 PM
12

I have been on this earth a long time and I have seen the BPD women that Red Pill describes. They are a minority of women but they exist and they destroy people's lives. Red Pill works on that sort of damage, but for most people it will backfire as it did with me. Negging and dread game will make me dump a guy, and most women will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:52 PM
2

I just now, literally, now, just got home from the gym. I am exhausted and I did NOT have fun. It's a chore and I still do it, is cleaning the bathroom FUN? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:48 PM
1

Thank you. Option 3 is always on the table- neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:36 PM
2

Yeah going to the gym is fun. Said no one ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:32 PM
2

people do allow social shaming to dictate their preferences. Like how, bringing pumpkin pie to Christmas because everyone loves it? Or rearranging your love life because people might judge your choice of girlfriend? Is mom really going to lecture you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:26 PM
4

That makes no sense. Why date a promiscuous woman if you don't want to? Just find a virgin at the local church singles group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:21 PM
1

that subreddit is all dudes complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:03 PM
1

women going their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:02 PM
4

I think more women than men have miserable as their default setting. Yes. And you are correct that happiness is genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:50 PM
1

they deserve what they get. Again, you don't seem to get the point. They do not want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:02 AM
3

Nuns are single for life. How is that masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:47 AM
1

I know a lot of female introverts and a good chunk of them are single for life. They do not hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:46 AM
3

Maybe you are right, but the red pill coaches all wave the stereotype around as a scare tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:18 AM
3

I had an ex who negged me a lot and I just got angry at him and left. He was constantly "joking" with his put-downs and insults and mockery, and it made me mad and then he would laugh at my anger. So I dumped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:15 AM
4

They don't use the term WGOTW, they use euphemisms like "cat lady" and make fun of women who never get married. It's clear that any gal who stays single either pisses them off or becomes a poster board for their revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:12 AM
3

::shrug:: Lots of YouTube videos and Reddit comments, and here on PPD. Links to what exactly? You think I keep these saved?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:06 AM
1

But what if the women genuinely like being alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:58 AM
3

Red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:51 AM
3

Lastly in general it weirds dudes out when women try to act like dudes Are nuns acting like dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:51 AM
2

I solidly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:49 AM
3

I actually dated more than one man who was bipolar and it put me in dangerous situations and I would NEVER do this again. If someone has this disorder, they could get fired from their job for screaming at the boss or they could drive off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:45 PM
3

It's actually dangerous to be around them when they are in the manic phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:44 PM
2

bipolar is more serious than mild depression WAY more serious. I have friends with bipolar disorder and they cannot hold jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:34 PM
3

Sometimes. I say this as a low-paid retail worker who is with a project manager who drives a Benz. I hate to say this, but it depends on the woman and what she is like outside of her grind job- is she intelligent and well read? Does she have UMC values? UMC family?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:31 PM
1

But have you ever asked why women are so angry and vengeful?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:43 PM
2

When I was on Match I just looked at photos, the paragraphs of "I like walks on the beach" were so same same I just skipped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:27 PM
2

Or maybe some people do not care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:25 PM
1

No. I am almost 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:24 PM
31

Do you really want a red pill man? Maybe just find someone you like.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/21 03:24 AM
2

What are your plans besides work this week? Put up yet MORE Christmas lights. Just load it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:14 AM
4

Good thing I work retail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:17 PM
0

Except you never date. You admit to being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:08 PM
2

Would you rather she settle for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:19 AM
1

Who the hell knows? Maybe she was in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:16 AM
1

Your entire point was women and the apex fallacy. How we only see the top 20% and thus ascribe bad behavior to all guys, when it's the top 20% who misbehave. I am not sure what you do not get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:05 PM
1

You think only good looking men mistreat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:00 PM
2

Please tell me you did not pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:05 PM
3

Do you really believe ugly men treat us better than hot men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:02 PM
1

Their definition of love is just different than man's. They can't comprehend what men mean by it, for them it's a reactionary appreciation for what men do for them. You know, the love of a pimp is different from that of a square...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:00 PM
2

He's on a roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:43 AM
4

the majority of women have no clue what they want/desire. Or...different women give different answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:01 PM
1

Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:59 PM
2

Actually I know this is the case because it was true of my mother and a couple of my friends. Same. My best friend was bankrupted by her first husband.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 06:57 PM
3

The men being assigned wives would hate it just as much, once they realize the relationships are not master and slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:53 PM
5

He thinks women should trust total strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:11 PM
-2

They give absolute dog shit advice when it comes to succeeding in casual relationships with beautiful women. So? Why would they want you to have Casual Sex? Maybe they think that is a dumb goal, like Helping You Succeed At Winning Nosepicker Of the Year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:10 PM
1

"Beyond Turkey" sounds delightful /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:48 PM
1

It's great to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:42 PM
1

Dude, I lived there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:17 PM
1

Edge Lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:12 PM
5

Europeans will never understand American until they live here. Story after story about them visiting the States and thinking they can drive from Alabama to the Grand Canyon in one day. They just don't get us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:02 PM
1

Picky, picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:25 AM
1

Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:48 PM
2

Oh no, a woman doesn't want to give up any and all leverage she has in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:40 PM
2

so no one really hits on you, right? I am in my forties and still get hit on. The Wall is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:37 PM
1

Spot on, once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:04 PM
1

I am just gonna assume that the cheating eyes are prettier but less demure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:33 PM
1

You lost the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:07 PM
15

So attention from people you are not attracted to is worthless to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:04 PM
1

She posted photos on some other sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:36 PM
1

Looking at the eyes and face structure is a big giveaway in my opinion. The eyes and face tell a lot about what a woman is like as a person. Details please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:32 PM
2

14 years up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:30 PM
0

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:29 PM
6

He is projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:26 PM
4

Go get all the attention you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:25 PM
2

I never cease to be amazed at how wantonly, disgustingly, despicably cruel and mean women can be to men. Every time I think I've seen it all, one of you comes along to "top" it. You reach new lows on the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:04 AM
5

I wish I could give you a hug. You and I know the deal- take care of elderly parents, give up a normal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:49 AM
1

So you hate your own daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:36 AM
2

You want some positives? I believed that men were not capable of being in love, they just got horny and lied about love. I am happy to report that men can in fact love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:33 AM
5

I was raised super religious and was taught that men are smarter than women and also natural leaders. Then I found out no, most of them are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:31 AM
2

So all the women here are outliers when they disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:24 AM
3

There’s that empathy I keep hearing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:25 PM
2

Want to hear more examples from my friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:41 PM
2

They don't have a choice as they get older. I fell in love with the man of my dreams at age 44. I have not felt this attracted to anyone since I was 15. Guess AFBB is a lot of crap, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:37 PM
5

Not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:34 PM
3

That is correct, but you are discounting a) personality is a dealbreaker and b) you seem to think women change their standards at age 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:33 PM
0

I stand by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:28 PM
6

You are just making this up. The answers here ALL say that looks matter and there is a threshold. Then personality qualifies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:28 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:16 PM
2

Oh Lord, never do this. Learn from my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:15 PM
11

Not so much invisible as gelded. We see unattractive men the same way we see brothers and cousins and uncles. No gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:13 PM
4

Ugly men are not better boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:11 PM
2

Of course he won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:10 PM
9

I have given unattractive guys a chance and it never, ever worked out. If I am not into him, it shows. So I stopped doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:58 PM
1

Where have YOU been hiding?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:51 PM
1

heh heh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:51 PM
2

nobody wants to admit that he is the loser Oh I am definitely a loser, I make minimum wage at a retail job. Yet ironically I am way happier doing this than when I made bank in a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:43 PM
2

It just sounds like she did the right thing. How is that no agency? She decided she wants kids, he doesn't, so they broke up. Nothing Red Pill about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:41 PM
4

This is largely genetic. People all want to be like you, but we cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:35 PM
4

I am way happier NOW at almost 50 than I was in my twenties. What changed? I no longer have a career, just a low-stress job that allows me to sleep at night. Women are more prone to depression and anxiety than men, and I had both back when I worked in an office.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:33 PM
2

We never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:12 PM
3

What's not to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:42 PM
5

He literally just proved your point for you. And is too blind to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:09 PM
2

Those are not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:09 PM
4

This is exactly it. Childlike fun personalities when appropriate, vs. childish immature spoiled adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:06 PM
6

See? You just accused her of lying. You guys do this all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 09:03 PM
3

If she flakes, she was not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:37 PM
52

Not sure if disagree. Most of my failed relationships went south because the guy chose me based on my looks and then attempted to change my personality. It was pretty cruel so I ended things, but I was left wondering- "Why did he treat me so badly if he liked me?" The clear answer is duh, he did NOT like me he just liked how I looked. And I was not a bad person or insane or anything, I was just a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:35 PM
2

Exactly, she is trying to be nice about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:18 PM
2

Logical fallacies get downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:17 PM
1

That's Ruben to you, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:16 PM
1

Anyone can bounce a quarter off their stomach, for crying out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:53 PM
1

But don't you understand? We cannot KNOW ourselves because we are non-introspective children! Only a man can explain us to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:42 PM
0

Harvey Weinstein level of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:38 PM
1

So if your wife gets a pudgy belly you do what exactly? Dread game?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:38 PM
1

Well in that case, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:21 AM
3

So the hottest guy I ever met will appear before me, murder my cat and eat it raw, and I am supposed to overlook all that because Hawt?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:43 AM
3

Back when I was a caregiver, I worked all the holidays. I worked at the client's home usually. The nicest thing anyone has every done for me is give me thanksgiving dinner when I wasn't even their family, just to be nice because I was taking care of their mom. Wherever you are, thank you Gracie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:40 AM
1

You're the one who keeps begging for an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:31 PM
1

Not hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:30 PM
1

O got it right away. And she was right, that guy looked ...off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:17 PM
1

The fast majority of men I see in public are dressed But not all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:21 PM
1

I've noticed a stark difference in how foreign men and American men groom and dress themselves. T shirt with logo across the front, untucked. Cargo shorts and flip flops. Baseball cap. Bonus points for holes in fabric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:19 PM
1

The appeal of Titanic goes beyond cultural or national boundaries. People like this love story even though I hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:12 PM
1

Titanic was a huge hit in Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:55 PM
5

Because they have to pee and cannot piss into a bottle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:53 PM
1

A three day cruise. She threw over her entire life for this time period of three days. You guys on PPD would have all sorts of names for a gal who did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:52 PM
1

The romance felt rushed and tacked on. The passion felt Hollywood and not organic. Then, she lets him die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:44 PM
1

She ditches her fiancé for a kid she met on a boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:24 PM
4

Dudes here attack women all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:11 PM
1

Wrong. We all have different types, and my friends and family have stated that they do not like my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:42 PM
2

The haters object to the corny love story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:41 PM
5

Have you been to a Walmart?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:34 AM
10

How hot is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:38 AM
1

Commitment from an ugly loser is not compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:28 AM
1

Does not track.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:19 PM
2

When will you accept that women are simply not as horny as men and therefore do not seek out sex like you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:00 PM
3

It's like a closeted gay man, or an autistic woman who "masks" in order to fit in. It's like my professional demeanor at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:58 PM
1

I loved that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:57 PM
2

He also self-describes as an alienated sociopath who cannot form normal human bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:56 PM
6

this is true shit posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:55 PM
5

How did he get the hot girl at all??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:44 AM
15

How is someone born hot? Uh, a sexy baby? This is just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:06 AM
8

Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:20 AM
2

It's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:43 AM
0

Just admit that women have a common preference. No we do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:52 AM
2

everyone everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:51 PM
1

Dr. Laura believes that women are natural housekeepers and men are natural slobs, so the solution is for the wife to do all the cleaning- instead of nagging her husband or being angry. On the other hand I know women who are slobs, and men who are neat freaks. No idea who wins here, but in my observation bachelors tend to live in filth like you would see on the show Hoarders and gay men tend to be tidy and vacuum up. So if you take on living with a straight male, you are generally signing up to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:44 PM
2

Aristotle was wrong about lots of things. He literally thought women have a different number of teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:37 PM
1

This is just baffling to me, but I have ADHD coworkers so I can see how it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:26 PM
1

So that's where he went!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:25 PM
5

That seems to be the assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:36 PM
8

harmless cheating from a man. .....fuck. Can they even hear themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:37 PM
2

Literally no one cares how much money I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:36 PM
2

but women are encouraged to be as destructive and dangerous to men as possible. What color is the sky in your world?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:19 AM
7

I don't see why I ought to have turned away free pussy just because I also wanted my friend to get pussy. Do men like you care at all bout your friends? Or are they just window dressing in the All About You show?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:33 PM
3

YTA, you only went to this bar as his wingman and you let him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:28 PM
1

Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:25 PM
4

Is this common where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:07 PM
4

A lot of women put good men in bad positions to do things that they’d never do because the woman can’t control herself. Meaning what? She mouthed off and so he had no choice but to punch her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:44 PM
2

I thought it was assumed they were all gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:43 PM
3

Mass immigration from third world to first world is going to bring back fascism again and erase whatever liberal policies we enacted for decades. A How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:42 PM
4

They like the fact that he is where he says he is, and not out cheating on her or spending her money. A man in prison is a kept man, and she gets to feel in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:36 PM
3

That's like, your opinion, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:00 AM
4

the hard fact that women are simply not attracted to 90% of men How is this a fact at all and not just conjecture?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:22 PM
3

Shithole fucking country. As opposed to....?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:09 PM
2

Reading some of these comments is restoring my faith in the male subspecies. I am so sorry for the state of modern education.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:03 PM
1

Still married to mom, over 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:03 PM
1

And those are the ones in "successful" marriages. What about your dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:36 PM
2

You do realize that is an exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:35 PM
1

As long as he is not cheating with the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:33 PM
1

Miami begs to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:30 PM
1

but we’ve already gone back to enjoying our normal lifestyle. which is mosquitoes year round.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:23 PM
1

A man/woman being hot just means that their partner will put up with this shit for longer than they would with a non-hot person Solid truth right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:22 PM
1

The field museum in Chicago STILL has a display up saying humans didn't interbreed with neanderthals. Yup, and I believed them. At one point I was arguing about it on Livejournal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:17 PM
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You can easily mention what's wrong with someone without insulting them. Not always. Some people are super gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:14 PM
0

How about "this is what is wrong with you, and here is how you might fix it". Trust me, that never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:14 PM
6

I mean, you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:02 AM
6

Well unfortunately for you this is a power play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:57 AM
5

You said that ALL conversations with women is a power play. Do you ever talk to anyone you do not find hot? Just old women at the store?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:55 AM
3

We give men tepid advice because we are trying not to hurt their feelings. "You are inherently gross and you better shoot for a heroin addict if you want a girlfriend" is not seen as polite and so we say "Just keep trying."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:53 AM
7

Like all conversations with women, it's all a power play. Seriously? What the hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:51 AM
20

I once briefly dated a guy 14 years older than me when I was 27. It was awkward and we were in different life stages (he was divorced with kids) and I ended it. I remember being weirded out by his grey chest hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:57 AM
6

180 is an about-face. 360 is right back to where you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:27 AM
13

she can do a 360 and walk out the door You mean come right back inside the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:03 AM
2

Religious gals want marriage. Its the only way to have sex or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:58 AM
5

Easy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:58 AM
1

Wouldn't a better approach be to get off the internet and actually date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:24 PM
13

Also, the lack of elderly care could be a great boon for the job market in future generations. Those jobs that used to not pay well will come in higher demand Trust me, they will never pay a decent wage for elder care. They will get immigrants to do the job for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:49 PM
1

So my cat just poops to spite me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:43 PM
2

I feel sorry for the people so damaged by a bad childhood that they cling to Red Pill thinking to assuage their hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:34 PM
2

Got around to watching The Green Knight and my boyfriend fell asleep. I guess the appeal of this film is Dev Patel and his hotness, so I can see why only I found it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:08 PM
4

With pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:04 PM
1

back rubs on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:42 PM
3

And many more ruin their job by dating and breaking up with a coworker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:31 PM
1

Not trying to be argumentative, but what are the actual consequences if a muslim woman in the western world decides to leave her religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:33 PM
1

So do these women consider dating outside the muslim world?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:30 PM
1

until she hits 30 and is forced to settle. Who is forcing her? Parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:00 PM
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t's a shame that there's so much stigma over meeting at work Oh trust me, there is a VERY good reason not to date coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:42 PM
1

Lower Your Expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:34 PM
1

Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:33 PM
1

You and I may one the only religious people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:32 PM
7

I would be curious if there are just plenty of WGOTW women who feel no need to label themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:30 PM
1

I cannot see this happening much in the western world. We love being our own captains and shopping online. We love being in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:28 PM
3

the harm of a bad relationship is way deeper then the financial harm of separation. This is how I feel too, and why I left all my stuff behind when I left him. Who cares about a bunch of crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:11 PM
1

We all have different types. My gal pals never understood why I liked the dark exotic men that I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:25 PM
9

This is likely the only time I have upvoted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:47 AM
1

They think that if they protect you from the evils of this dark world, you will grow up to be exactly like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:33 AM
3

You failed to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:26 AM
1

I am agreeing with both sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:19 PM
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I had one coworker and one friend with a high body count, those two women were obviously outliers and most women I have known have fewer than ten by middle age. Also there were virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:25 PM
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This was not precedented before 1950' if you tried that people would hate you, the family would disown you, and possibly the gov would "buck tax" you for not siring future citizens. Uh, what? There have always been confirmed bachelors, one was even the president of the united states.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:24 PM
1

If it were me, my father would have killed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:41 PM
1

She's 30 with a 57 year old guy???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:28 PM
1

I have no help for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:44 PM
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Let them explain to you the trauma of being raped. You seem to think this is just women being paranoid and getting carried away, so listen to any male friends who were raped and get their take on it. Some of these people are barely able to talk about it, and you do not seem like the most sympathetic listener so perhaps just find some clips on YouTube if that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:36 AM
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Do you have any friends who were raped? Male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:29 AM
1

This is stressing me out because we are all adults and buy our own stuff, so come Christmas time I will look like a dick who bought everyone fancy soap. Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:10 AM
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Men can get raped by other men, just because it's never happened to you does not mean other people are not traumatized by rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:58 AM
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Such problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:16 AM
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No, you have to understand Christian culture better- they were horny and wanted sex so they got married really fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:14 AM
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Sure inkels are sexist but I guarantee they WILL commit to that woman at least And then unleash the mistreatment on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:00 AM
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I think when we are old are have no libido (which is assuming a lot) we will acquire this insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:43 PM
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I don't know anyone who had sex like that, but there were a lot of sudden weddings over winter break. No hook up culture, just marriage culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:41 PM
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Was it the sex where they hold their hands up and rub fingers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:06 PM
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Women were always miserable. We have weird hormones to thank.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:53 PM
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Sometimes I feel like Spock would feel about human sexuality- how much our hormones cloud our logic and if we could flip this off we would see how dumb our passions really are. Like the kids on South Park staring in horror as their parents explain sex to them, if you do not have a post-pubescent brain full of desires making you crazy, sex looks ridiculous. And what's more, the lengths people go to attain this silliness (even in context of relationships) makes me envy eunuchs. We really do sacrif…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:41 PM
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The Afghans beat the US military?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:29 PM
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Yes, you are making 6 figures which makes you top 10% in theory, but you’re also an insufferable prick. (just to be clear I am thinking of someone from RL and not you personally)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:23 PM
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I think you are missing a key component in that virgins ask other virgins if they are still virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:21 PM
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I was a virgin until a very late age, so the only reason it came up was me bragging about my chastity. Other virgins abounded and we were all super religious and this was normal. Once I left that social circle no one asked and no one cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:14 PM
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18 year olds care because most of them are also virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:12 PM
1

Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:26 PM
1

Yes, that is exactly how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:50 PM
3

on what the majority of men do. You mean live in filth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:47 PM
2

Way to tell on yourself, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:27 PM
1

Depends on what he cancelled. A concert I did not care about, or my mom's funeral?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:24 PM
5

My buddy's transformers collection would like a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:23 PM
4

What about grown men who collect anime figurines and other "action figures"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:09 PM
9

I went to a Christian university with 4 girls to every guy. I just dated people from off campus - why is this so hard??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:07 PM
3

Now I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:23 PM
2

You are gonna look weird in the nursing home when they come to visit. People will think you are making out with your granddaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:22 PM
6

It will last 6 months and then she will dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:19 PM
3

It's not just dumb, it's also ironic coming from Red Pill. They actively encourage men sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:13 PM
3

Oh well, guess we should shun her. Get the pitchforks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:11 PM
4

but Houston is so much nicer than I never thought I would read this combination of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:09 PM
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So a 30 year old woman who has 10 ex boyfriends and wants to try dating again should be shunned by "society" and never given a chance. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:54 PM
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The notion that religious girls are any more modest than the athiests is a joke. You went to the wrong church. Try one where the attendees are actually sincere in their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:52 PM
1

Go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:47 PM
2

I am giving everyone here a look, you just can't see it. My mom has resources. Inherited a fortune. Still married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:12 PM
2

I know several.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:11 PM
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"In fact, religious service attendance is the only factor that shows consistent significance in predicting both men and women’s odds of infidelity." Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:11 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:58 PM
2

aknowledged that most women seek out casual sex Except most women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:37 PM
10

We think it's dumb because the guys here think 5 is a high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:37 PM
4

Right, whatever happened to the Wall that destroys her sexiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:18 PM
5

Or...they initiate divorce for valid reasons like alcoholism and infidelity, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:17 PM
2

I disagree. My mom was the typical housewife, no career, and dad was the executive. I saw a LOT of this pairing. Never divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:16 PM
1

This can also be applied to racism and other isms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:14 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:20 PM
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is that this kind of fuckyouism tends to have tons of collateral damage I just really like your terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:19 PM
5

A minor illness like you describe is fine, I can grok that. But anything Cluster B or a serious disorder that involves mania or "acting out" and I am out. Yes this has happened and it was a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:08 PM
2

Evo psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:24 AM
2

On a Sunday Night? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:31 PM
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Red Pill seems to think Chads are abusive and nerds are nice, but of all the guys I dated- the only one to ever hit me was an electronic engineer with no chin. I dumped his ass. Also, I never hit any Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:19 AM
2

where before there was only the tradcon pedestal. Except women were seen as vixens and lying, scheming temptresses and evil harridans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:31 PM
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I don't know a single woman who practiced AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:05 AM
5

This is so bizarre to me, I was raised religious and "husband material" means she wants to do you, not use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:59 AM
6

It's what you guys crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:15 PM
1

I wish I could gild this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:08 PM
2

I know a couple like this, and I was also raised super Christian. Yeah, dead bedrooms for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:05 PM
6

I agree! Everyone should be completely equal and re-engineered so the women are as large and as strong as men. Level playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:54 PM
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I've never heard any man say he wants a career women though. Most non-Christian men I dated said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:34 PM
2

Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:45 AM
1

Your average European teenage male has had more lifetime sex than most men living in Saudi Arabia. But aren't they allowed to force the sex out of the wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:40 AM
6

So you had a rough time because of a nebulous concept and not because of bad family dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:56 PM
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where we can be allowed to relax and fail without being punished for it (which is also kinda the love men offer to women btw) Unless she gets fat, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:42 PM
2

Usually in these metaphors the woman is an object such as a car. She is something to be bought or discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:28 AM
1

Negan. After I saw Dave Chappelle do Negan in a skit I realized how awesome that outfit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:29 AM
2

The only place I would get an F is income... I wish to show you solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:21 AM
1

I respect this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:09 AM
1

My boyfriend agrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:06 AM
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just little bit of shot and freud
/r/ExRedPill27/10/21 09:43 PM
2

I don't understand why people always have to bring up goods, trades and money when talking about women and relationships, as if emotions and capitalism are at all comparable Because they do not see women as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:35 PM
5

It depends what you mean by "spoiled" and if the adoration goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:23 PM
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Yeah, some of them smoke. But smoking went from being EVERYWHERE with ash trays in every home to being a niche hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:19 PM
1

Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:45 PM
1

You might be too young to remember the backlash caused by the AIDS scare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:37 PM
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Similarly to how we dropped the smoking epidemic down in the 70s and 80s to the point where hardly anyone in America smokes anymore. The AIDS crisis did much the same to hookup culture and led to the Purity movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:31 PM
1

Ah, now I understand what you are talking about. Your wife was overly critical and it caused real problems. In that case she needs to dial it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:28 PM
1

I agree with you that checklists are dumb. If you cannot get someone who meets your list then drop the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:26 PM
2

Reminders isn't nagging. It's clearly nagging, you can do it with or without a Tone. I was a caregiver to people who literally could NOT remember to take their meds and would cherry pick which pills and when to pop them, and eat only donuts and chips. No matter how many times you reminded them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:25 PM
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Since I never read that sub, I have no idea what these people are like- but I am over thirty and there is no reason to settle for someone you do not like. What would be the point? Who benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:23 PM
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Either way I don't think it's relevant. As a former caregiver, yes it is. A person with a blood sugar count of 800 is close to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:16 PM
0

Dude, look around you. Who was better looking, Gabby Petito or Brian Laundrie?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:15 PM
2

What exactly was the bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:12 PM
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Nagging makes everyone miserable. We all know that, was my point. It creates resentment and incentives spending more time away from that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:09 PM
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But if you look at actual couples, the woman is NOT dating up in all areas. She is usually better looking than the man, and he usually makes more money. Which one is hypergamous? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:08 PM
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So Have you ever had to take care of a grown man with diabetes? Do you realize how hard it is to get them to take care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:05 PM
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I do think some people don't comprehend how miserable it is being on the receiving end of it. Uh yes, we all have moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:04 PM
1

Years ago I made the decision to never ever criticize my boyfriend since I hated it when I got criticized. So I just never told him when he was screwing up or pissing me off. He pissed me off a lot but I stuck to my resolution to never tell him what he was doing wrong. And he was doing outright crazy crap in public. Finally I could not take it anymore and dumped him, and he was blindsided.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:03 PM
2

But are they being given a choice or single vs. married or are they given a choice of many options, like single on paper but in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:56 PM
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Yes, that recent post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:55 PM
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Guys, when you cite stats on single women could you please clarify what you mean by single? Unmarried couples who love each other are more common every year, and are not the same as people who are "single" as in alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:53 PM
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That is a huge swath if you count unmarried couples, and that would also nullify your conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:51 PM
1

Single as in unmarried or single as in alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:25 PM
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Date up in terms of what? You guys keep shifting around what hypergamy means, so it could mean "taller" or "richer" and no one knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:23 PM
2

And yet somehow we are all supposed to be chaste virgins or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:48 PM
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I am not seeing his tell tale signs in other posters, such as constant low-n references and virgin obsession. Or maybe I just gloss over most comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:30 AM
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Why did PickleLine quit posting here? Was he banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:52 AM
3

I had a boyfriend who pulled this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:44 PM
1

I listened to a woman in her probably mid 30's brow beat some dude who I assume was her husband Could have been siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:39 PM
10

Exactly- he would never try this line at the church potluck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:15 PM
1

Unfortunately melatonin makes no difference either, and I don't think I'd be able to get a prescription for anything stronger. Any tips? Quit your stressful job and get one that lets you sleep. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:45 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:18 AM
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Buddy, I don't know how to tell you this...she was ALWAYS doing beta men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:11 PM
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I have never once seen that happen. If a woman Marries a beta, it's because she likes that sort of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:03 PM
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Like the Richard Cooper cope? That man seems like he is always one argument away from going ballistic and punching someone through a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:23 PM
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I have never seen a woman marry a "Beta Bucks" that she did not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:21 PM
0

So don't pay for anything, ever. Show up and demand that the restaurant comp your entire meal because there was an onion in it. Be the ultimate Karen and make no friends at all in life. Or...be generous and pay for others. Goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:21 PM
1

these women are rejecting marriage whilst simultaneously collecting a benefit from a prior one which the man is paying for. Child support is not dependent on marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:17 PM
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Learning that men will do what, exactly? Pay all of the bills, That's the problem, he does not pay ALL the bills. She works. And then she comes home and does literally everything. She is so wiped out tired she divorces him and accepts a reduced contribution in the form of child support, rather than living with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:24 AM
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I am curious though. What would be the cited reasons for any number of women claiming this position? Certainly not child custody or alimony one wouldn’t think. Walkaway Wife is the growing trend of wives who are so exhausted from working full time and taking care of kids and cleaning house and cooking dinner without the husband helping much, that they divorce and get all the benefits of his child support without having to put up with him personally. They do the math and conclude that child suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:13 AM
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Women generally tend to benefit from marriage in ways that men do not. Walkaway wife syndrome is the result of this "benefit" and more women are choosing to just live without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:56 AM
0

Everything you said applies to women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:49 AM
8

Watch British TV shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:34 PM
1

Eh, RPW has a lot of flaws but your post is mostly straw man. Yes of course it is a tactic. They want to appear doormat flat and non-threatening so as to pretend to be the Cool Girl who does not mind threesomes and anal sex. They want to appear meek and mild so as to lock him down. Whatever, it's not their true nature to do those things so it's all performative. If they were true submissive women (and we do exist) they would not need to be told to STFU or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:31 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:54 PM
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In the old days of Marriage 1.0 no one cared if the woman found her husband attractive because she was not supposed to care about sex at all. She just had to lay there and think of England. In modern marriage, everyone expects that the couple are hot lovers who actually WANT each other. We cannot go back to Marriage 1.0 so there is no use expecting women to want it, or men to tolerate frigidity. If you cannot find someone you actually desire, do not marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:48 PM
0

Hairless chests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:43 PM
0

This is horrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:47 AM
1

That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:46 AM
1

Exactly. All these red states that bitch about California are eating up our taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:32 AM
1

Are you DiffDedBed by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:25 AM
1

5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:01 AM
4

My height. There is nothing better than hugging and kissing a man my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:55 PM
1

Consult your local Oracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:54 PM
3

Do you believe that hate is real? So why not love?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:56 PM
4

Both. Why make this hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:41 PM
9

If you believe love is fake, who can change your view? I have experienced it and so have billions of other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:10 PM
2

TIL that Gore Vidal is on the level of Harry Potter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:08 PM
2

I am currently reading Gore Vidal. Yet somehow am woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:39 PM
1

Google is research? https://www.policygenius.com/homeowners-insurance/best-and-worst-states-for-climate-change/ https://thehill.com/changing-america/sustainability/climate-change/527644-the-us-states-best-and-least-positioned-to https://www.safehome.org/climate-change-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:04 PM
51

"Boys will be boys" usually said by mothers to dismiss their son's violence or criminal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:49 PM
1

Sounds rough in Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:00 PM
14

I see most couples are looks matched and occasionally there is the Hot Wife with Dumpy Husband. Rarely is there the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:58 PM
2

The wives are the ones trying to get hubby to not blow money on a jetski or a vacation or whiskey. Yup. I know a woman who went on a family vacation and when she got back she discovered that her husband had traded the car in for one they could not afford. Result: they now have no car at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:52 PM
1

I agree that climate change is a huge factor here, and I have looked at maps online of which states will be hit hardest. This is going to be rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:46 PM
1

Curious to hear which states are better than California. I can only think of two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:28 PM
0

Fortunately I moved out of the progressive shithole that California has become and already have planned ahead for the future. So....Idaho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:16 PM
1

Yeah, but that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:05 PM
1

Solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:00 PM
1

That would be the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:57 PM
2

Houston is the armpit of Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:56 PM
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Yeah, my boyfriend claims I am beautiful with no makeup but I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:04 AM
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Women would learn just how many men experiment with homosexual relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:01 AM
3

Females work. Some females are also breeders
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:24 AM
3

OK. What's the purpose of females in the animal kingdom, "truthseeker"? Since, it's women's purpose we're talking about. Please try to stay on topic. Thank you for asking! Female is the default in nature, and that is why most bees in the hive are female and most ants and most anything. Females work. Some females are also breeders and they lay eggs or give live birth. Males are just for insemination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:22 PM
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Do you have the courage to face the truth? The purpose of males in the animal kingdom is to fight other males and breed with the females.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:17 PM
4

A woman's prime value is as a mate to a man. Women were made for men - to help and assist men in their life purposes. A woman's prime value is in her sexuality, her sexual appeal, and her limiting her access to that sexuality to as few men as possible. A woman's prime value is in her reproductive capacity and to make that available to as few men as possible. You sound like the trad cons at my parents' church. Are you sure you aren't religious??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:08 PM
3

Women really don't provide value to their societies beyond mating up with men and child rearing. So what exactly has the government been doing with all the taxes I pay??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:02 PM
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She is in love with the guy that she married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:39 PM
3

I was so relieved when I learned that personality is largely genetic. That takes so much pressure off the alternative universe Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:56 PM
1

I think the idea is great, let people live their lives! No one but your mom will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:50 PM
4

Since people get married at like, 30 years old, that is a long time to wait. So unless you are religious no one waits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:42 AM
3

That is a cute saying but is misleading. Sometimes in life there is a victim and a perp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:40 AM
4

Wtf happened to “we fought too much and didn’t get along”. Because in many cases one person is trying to be nice and agreeable and the other person is being horrid. Not "we fought" but one person making problems and the other trying to oblige. Toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:20 AM
43

Red pill gets wrong the motivations of women. Did I turn that guy down because of market value or because he is simply not my type?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:45 PM
1

A buddy of mine looks intimidating because he appears to be glaring at people in rage. But that's just his face. Still, men challenge him to road rage over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:05 PM
0

Anyone can claim anything. Today I am Queen of Sheba and I drive a McLaren.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:03 PM
3

If the only way to get out of a marriage is abuse, No, in the old days the go-to reason was adultery even if it was staged for the benefits of the court.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:01 PM
2

Have you read the relationship subreddits? Women attack the OP even if she is a women, if she did something wrong. No special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:57 PM
1

I just want to say you have changed a LOT from the old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:52 PM
2

Do you scowl without realizing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:44 PM
6

Dave Chappelle has never lost his touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:39 PM
2

Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:44 PM
4

go for the men who other women are not chasing. But why? Maybe no one wants him for good reason, or maybe the gal is just not attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:23 AM
0

That link you shared has nothing to do with hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:32 PM
0

The only choices on that graph are living together or married, otherwise you are completely alone??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:12 PM
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To men, it’s the attachment of our emotional well-being unto them. To them, love is a reactive emotion, a appreciation of an experience. It’s something that happens to them that they invoke with their femininity. This is a crock of shit and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:12 AM
2

t's pretty in the fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:01 PM
1

Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:01 PM
1

They live in a bubble. Where everything and everyone is vapid AF. That has not been my experience with Los Angeles. Perhaps you mean the Hollywood crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:43 PM
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People who live in LA live in a completely different world than the rest of us. So that has to be taken into account. In what way??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:38 AM
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I know soooo many guys like your pal here. They are fannish types who never date, wear dorky clothes, talk about Anime, and work on computers for a living. They are legion. I am very sorry to report that I too tried helping these guys clean up their act and it did not work, and I gave up completely. You will do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:18 PM
3

and these women don't go to the gym. They don't have the time or the energy or the desire for it. Duh, meth is easier and lazier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:31 PM
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It does seem fake, like it was written to confirm all the black pill biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:23 PM
1

Cedric and Rhonda on The Wire. Just gimme a break, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:41 PM
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Today at the grocery store I was asked out by the butcher, the baker, and the candlestick maker. They all think I am fantastic, why do women complain about not getting dates? Off I go to my modeling session in my Mercedes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:05 PM
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I'd love to park at night in a parking structure and not feel like Ted Bundy is around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:02 PM
7

In joy? In relief?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:00 PM
1

If you replace "rejected" with "bullied" this might make sense, I dunno. Honestly I have no problems with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:57 PM
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If women can finally feel safe walking alone in public places, I am all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:54 PM
9

So if a school girl is a nerd and being bullied by the pretty mean girls, as happens a lot, does she grow up thinking she will get the hot men as a reward? Is she bitter that the cute guys go for the cute girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:47 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:58 PM
3

OK, it's way easier nowadays to cook a full sized turkey. You keep it in the bag and it stays moist, problem solved...and you do NOT stuff the turkey, you cook the stuffing separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:58 PM
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It's why they suck at sarcasm I am not sure why you would say this, are you being sarcastic? (joke, joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:03 PM
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I used it whenever I went thru a celibate period. I got a lot of weird looks and nosey questions so I stopped that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:22 PM
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but it was a sedated-like wonderment. He felt like he had no energy or ambition. This is a very good way of describing hormone drops, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:29 PM
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I know of absolutely NO women who have married a beta that they did not love. You may find this gobsmacking, but there are women who PREFER beta males and marry them with lust. Have seen this happen, and in all cases the women were domineering and ruled the roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:49 PM
1

You can't agree to disagree on dismantling the entire safety net that keeps people from the brink of starvation. Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:00 PM
1

According to Gore Vidal, all people are born bisexual and your environment shapes your preferences. Science does not agree, nor do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:56 PM
3

Thomas Aquinas said that if the house is on fire and your entire family is inside, your obligation is first to save your parents, then save your wife, and if you have any time left over to save one or two kids if you feel bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:54 AM
2

Off topic, but I am really enjoying Gore Vidal's Creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:04 AM
2

He's just bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:29 PM
0

According to the SPLC Who lives their life according to the SPLC?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:26 PM
2

A lot of nerd circles are surprisingly trad. I was surprised to find many nerds who were contemptuous of smoking and drinking and casual sex. But they did not believe in God, it was odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:39 PM
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I used to do this a lot- get crushes on other men. I was not in love with my partner and I desperately needed someone to love, so I formed deep attractions to other guys and fantasized about them or dumped my BF to be with him. A lot. Now that I am actually in love and happily coupled up, this never happens. I got my quest reward and there is no more quest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:26 PM
2

Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:29 PM
1

Thank you, it's like I stepped into Bizarro World here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:27 PM
3

So in your book, a wife "withholding" sex is emotional abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:21 PM
6

Women here literally poo poo and downplay their abusive behavior towards men all the time. What examples do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:20 PM
3

I never did hookup culture and in my social circle it would be seen as a sign of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:17 PM
4

They don't get turned on my penises in their mouths, they get turned on by the man's reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:54 PM
0

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:32 PM
2

Their frozen Indian food is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:58 AM
2

Lack of introspection? I dunno, I never commented on his divorce or his complaining of loneliness. But he needs to get a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:57 AM
4

He complains about it on Facebook all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:16 AM
3

I know a guy who is literally repulsive. No woman could ever be attracted to him, yet he makes a good wage and owns a house. So he married this average single mom and then divorced her for not getting a job. He reasoned that he could do better. He has remained single since then, because all that he brings to the table is financial benefit and he sincerely looks like Harvey Weinstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:05 AM
2

First time I ver heard that saying, it was about dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:02 PM
1

You have to admit this is funny, even if untrue. It's on par with the "lie and eat hot chip" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:29 PM
2

Everyone wants a butt these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:04 PM
2

It was awhile back, MercedesBenzoAMG was posting about how much he loves his drugs and then he goes silent for whatever time, and I asked where he went (since I was fond of the man) and someone told me he overdosed and went to rehab and no longer posts here. He might not ever return but he was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:59 AM
2

I am wondering what happened to Maybelowsmv?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:23 AM
1

Benzo (the oxytocin's dude) overdoes and goes to rehab, Lewis is now some other name, Goat is still here as the same name.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:23 AM
1

LeJacquelope?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:51 AM
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What! You better tell CNN.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:38 PM
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If you as a guy had a guy friend who vibes with you and you get along great, why not date him and "reward" his good traits? Oh right, because you are not sexually attracted to him. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:30 PM
2

Lock in a good provider You first. I got me a Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:22 PM
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The bitter folks here need to get out more. I've been singing this song for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:15 PM
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The ideal woman does the above and turns a blind eye to the man following his natural urges. A good woman builds her man up and as he accrues wealth and power he will be able to attract more women. What an awesome deal for women! Let's all get married, gals!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:10 PM
2

Anything acquired after the marriage is marital assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:32 PM
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regardless of your feelings, marital assets belong to the marriage and will be divided upon divorce and the courts do NOT look kindly on hiding assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:52 PM
4

I want to see what this sub looks like with the gloves truly off super racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:07 AM
5

I never would have met him otherwise. Same! I met my partner 5 years ago online, and have been happy ever since. There is no chance I would have met him at my church.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:57 PM
5

Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:54 PM
1

This cracked me up, thank you citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:51 PM
3

I thank God for online dating, unless it's eHarmony, and that website was a complete rip-off. So many people meet through online dating that I fail to see how any group loses by its mere existence. A net positive for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:40 PM
4

y'all only cared because it's some mediocre straight white girl. No, that's not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:33 PM
4

also my older NPD brother became a MRA in "99" I want to hear more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:24 PM
1

or at least seeing making sacrifices for the greater good of society something for suckers. It depends what you mean by sacrifice. Are we supposed to give up on happiness and personal fulfillment in the one life we get, just so "society" gets more cannon fodder in the next war?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:48 PM
3

I like the neat problem/solution of it. Same. No loose ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:54 PM
6

LORD NO, do you want any young children picking up this crap??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:20 PM
8

What do you want women to takeaway here? I think he is saying that women are going to be gross after they age or give birth, so it's Okey Dokey to cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:17 PM
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Terms like SMV, HB ratings, dating market, "husband material" or "wife material" are common terms now more than ever Eh, we used derogatory terms for dating and partners even in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:31 PM
1

You think there is no truth behind hypergamy? Again, anyone with eyes can see that couples are pretty evenly matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:37 PM
2

First off, 80 20 is Made up. Stop believing red pill. Second, anyone with eyes can see lots of couples fit the bill of HVM and HVW.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:31 PM
1

And scientifically, love is brain chemicals Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:28 PM
1

the woman with high standards who has a man who meets them (LTR) Not rare at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:25 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:51 PM
2

Goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:55 PM
2

Haven't you ever been in love? Who wants that to end? You want that person forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:53 PM
1

Everyone tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:48 PM
8

Pickle people here give you a lot of shit ,probably because you hit absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:48 AM
1

Like a racehorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:44 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:14 AM
8

Real question: have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:11 AM
1

Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:09 AM
4

Do you want women to apologise for their abusers? Yes he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:17 AM
1

Oh hell he was always hawt. Even hotter n college.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:15 AM
3

Hence why women get fomo/panic and marry someone they don't like so often I've never once seen a woman do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:07 AM
2

I met the love of my life at age 44, and he is no Beta nor does he buxxx me. Chad all the way. If I had settled for a beta in my 30s I would have missed out on this man, who makes up for all the birthday cakes I never got.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:04 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:02 AM
5

A van down by the river.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:50 PM
3

Exactly, which murders should we cover?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:49 PM
4

NO...? Unless she is a cannibal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:27 PM
4

AHEM you are not paying attention, he is hurting!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:26 PM
5

How is my life any different because I know someone died. No man is an island, entire of himself...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:23 PM
2

A hive or colony of all female workers and one queen, with male drones to provide sperm on occasion. Most females are workers and thus sexless and the queen is the only one who breeds. All food is shared and there is an almost telepathic link in this hive, so everyone gets along. Until that is, when the Famine comes and the males are sacrificed as food. Bee Pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:21 PM
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You post this comment over and over and over... This comment is no longer virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:04 PM
5

Yeah, so what? Should we ignore murdered people because they are white or because they are female?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:22 PM
3

You'll do fine. Also ignore these atheists who think you have to be a bombshell to get a cute guy. Church is LOADED with cute virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:14 PM
2

some screwup with my driving history that I'm confused about that apparently exists. Multiverse You is a speed racer. Own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:12 PM
1

ummm...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:12 PM
1

Last I checked, unemployment was at 40% and Spaniards are struggling to make it. Source: Spaniards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:09 PM
1

Spain is a very depressed economy right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:01 PM
2

No, you can find plenty of them in church.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:00 PM
0

Do you live in Alaska?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:10 PM
2

There are, too many, commas in, your thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:04 PM
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LOL no shit! This guy is a neurotic's dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:00 PM
1

HBO max.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:47 PM
2

Bad boundaries with friends (gossip) Gossip being a dealbreaker will eliminate most every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:25 PM
1

I’m curious on how exactly she ended up dead like the rest of us. It was immediately ruled a homicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:24 AM
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and the man having too much of an alpha personality. Except we all saw the body cam footage the cop took and he was no alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:22 AM
2

I dated a bipolar guy who was obsessed with 12 step programs and forced me to go to a bunch of them. He was also hyper critical and made everything about "recovery" and improvement, but was one of the most manipulative people I ever met. He told everyone I was bulimic despite this being false, and friends believed him. I fairly had enough and ended things calmly, and he was surprised. He said he wanted to end things for awhile but was afraid I would "make a scene" and so he didn't. Huh? When hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:21 PM
3

Also the family helped him escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:13 PM
2

yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:09 PM
1

You are free to think whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:56 PM
1

NO, but thanks for assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:27 PM
1

I was, and my friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:20 PM
3

Are you not capable of forming emotional bonds with other humans? Is every relationship extractive for you? Just things and benefits and what you can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:34 AM
0

So why do people elope?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:30 AM
2

That is the basis for TRP. Mom was mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:28 AM
11

The entitlement of this guy is astronomical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:23 AM
3

I am one day going to write the most overused and tired-out comment on PPD and then gild my comment and walk away. To achieve this comment I will simply parrot Aldabruzzo in his fine form.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:28 PM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:27 PM
9

Truth. He is living in his own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:16 PM
18

::shrug:: I went to church my whole life. Conservative Christian girls are not putting out on the first date unless they are leaving religion behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:14 PM
6

Same reason men do not talk about their past homosexual encounters to their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:08 PM
6

Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:06 PM
5

The frequent lies and constant truth suppression got to be tiring, doesn't it? Yes, we women are tired of hearing it from you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:59 PM
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These are usually not the same girls, despite your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:52 PM
3

Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:52 PM
1

Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:50 PM
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Overpopulation is a myth. So in your opinion what number is too high? 8 billion? 15 billion? When has the planet reached full saturation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:58 PM
1

And how hot are the couples you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:13 AM
1

Holiday in Cambodia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:13 AM
2

Have you been to Walmart?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:36 AM
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Why are you living in a Cambodian jungle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:43 PM
1

I once dated a class clown type who was always making jokes and at first it was hilarious. Then it got old and he never stopped being Jokey Smurf and I got tired of the immaturity and left. Humor is a good ice breaker but dude, dial it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:42 PM
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I am upvoting you a lot today. What is this world?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:29 PM
1

Why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:28 PM
1

On Amazon ordering now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:52 PM
1

I have heard "bad boy" used to describe so many different types of men that the term has lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:50 PM
2

Sacred Hunger by Barry Unsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:01 PM
1

I am getting Herman Hesse vibes, so I might try this one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:00 PM
1

Getting along with coworkers is just regular people skills. Both my examples proved you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:49 PM
1

Getting along with coworkers is just regular people skills. So very wrong. Example: male coworker is joking with female coworker about porn. She flips out and reports him to HR, he gets fired. That would not happen outside work. Another example: female coworker is injured on the job and so they put her in a different department which forces her to work with the Creep who harasses her everyday and spreads rumors about her sexuality. She cannot get transferred out of this crappy department because…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:25 AM
1

It's comparable to you talking at length about jobs and how to get along with coworkers and it turns out you never worked a day in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:09 AM
1

And what exactly is going out and dating going to do? Literally negate all your theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:34 PM
1

No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:31 PM
1

What I am suggesting is that you type fewer of your theories on this subform. Go out and date instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:24 PM
1

Who is KS?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:14 PM
2

You have been posting here for years and it's always theory, never experience. Like you are studying the concept of dating but never practiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:13 PM
1

When you see a good looking person, do you already know how much money they make? Do you care? Of course not. Attractive people attract people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:04 PM
4

Now you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:57 PM
2

But are they gorgeous?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:55 PM
6

This is such a weird take. Do you live in Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:53 PM
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And the sad thing is abusers themselves look for these people, recognize the traits and seek them out. Perpetuates the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:45 PM
1

Not trying to be mean here, but what was your longest relationship? A year? A month? You do not seem to have a lot of experience in this field.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:44 PM
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It may also has to do with types Spot on, it's that pretty boys and media celebrities are not her type. I get this, because MY type is dark and big-nosed and exotic. Not anglo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:43 PM
2

I know plenty of guys like this, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:40 PM
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Yeah sure, but lots of gals hide their crappy relationships and stay in them until they cannot stand it anymore or he leaves. Church women especially do this. Gotta keep up appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:38 PM
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Abused children grow up into abused adults. She was likely treated this way by family and subconsciously seeks it out. I have a friend like this...she stopped dating altogether when she realized she only attracts abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:37 PM
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If they never break up, those behaviors are never described as abusive. Well of course. She does not want to lose face with her female peers by admitting it...that would make her look weak and desperate. So after the break up she unloads all the secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:35 PM
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Bold of you to assume that shy introverts are never abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:31 PM
2

High five, sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:10 PM
2

I actually prefer men who are my height. Less neck craning, more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:09 PM
2

I know tall millionaires who are brown and can't get a girlfriend depending on what neighborhood they live in. I am guessing you don't live in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:31 AM
2

Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:30 AM
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What are my fucking options, I mean? Not trying to sound mean here but you guys should split up. She is not attracted to you. End it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:13 AM
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I've never met a guy that straight up lied about this. Maybe some do, but there are bad people and fraudsters everywhere. When I was much younger I was in an unhealthy relationship with a guy and I lied that I wanted to get married. We would talk aloud about what cars we should get, and the dog, and all that. He was horrible to me but I was young, so dumb, and wanted to keep him so I pretended I wanted to get married. Such cringe, I know. When I finally left him I mentioned that I had been lying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:06 AM
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"Why aren't guys approaching me anymore?" or "why don't guys ask women out on dates anymore?" I disproved your point, but I will go one further. Two of my older lady coworkers got hitched later in life, either married or LTR with chads in their forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:23 PM
1

Thanks, I thought it was deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:00 PM
1

Back then no one cared about ass, it was all about boobs. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:01 PM
1

I notice the users here. Been around a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:11 AM
1

His user page is deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:10 AM
1

Bottom right corner guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:24 AM
3

Did LeJaquelope disappear?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:15 AM
1

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2007/05/the-kingdom-in-the-closet/305774/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:25 PM
2

Right- and lots of "straight" muslims living in strict muslim countries are having gay sex on the down low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:18 PM
3

Yet in the Muslim world There is a LOT of gay sex on the down low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:11 PM
2

Science backs this up- we are born with our personalities and upbringing has little effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:37 PM
1

Isn't it assumed that your partner will know you through and through? Of course my SO knows all my insecurities, do you think we talk about dinner plans and nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:31 PM
7

I literally never see this, anywhere. My coworkers are older women and they still get hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 02:50 PM
15

start to see those options dry up and then they cry out into the universe Are you living in a cartoon? No one does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:48 AM
5

Taking responsibility is not the same as feeling remorse or guilt. We know that. Be more specific and less cryptic- what precisely do you mean by taking responsibility? Do you mean more abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:09 PM
2

I dunno what you are talking about, I get love and emotional payout from my partner. What else is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:51 PM
5

why is it so hard for women to admit, and say OUT LOUD, that "attractive = man I want to fuck" Think how well that would go over at the church picnic. C'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:39 PM
0

Half the comments make me think I am watching a bad Netflix series with cartoonish characters who are all out to get each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:36 PM
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I grew up in Los Angeles and that wasn't really the experience of my friend group or myself. You are one of the few sane people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:26 PM
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I don't see any harm in unattractive people thinking that they are average. Let them have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:24 PM
1

Can you imagine a more demeaning relationship between two supposed lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:40 AM
3

Do you live on internet memes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:22 AM
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I LOL'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:07 PM
6

tone down some of the rhetoric. You are one to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:38 PM
3

He probably "figured out" some plebeian "truth" about his girlfriend or limerence object.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:37 PM
1

If you are not engaged or married then your finances are your own damn business. It's the height of rudeness to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend how much is in their bank account, good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:35 PM
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