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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CeUMmJwAATg/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY= More importantly, how did she go from looking like a child to looking like a milf?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:08 PM
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They are aware of it in the context of have a conversation with them about it tho. “Why do you watch X? Isn’t that [not your political position]?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:29 AM
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This probably isn’t a controversial point here, but I find it odd when I run into people with similar political views that mainly consume media that supports that view. Podcasts, YouTube videos, etc. What is the point of interacting with that stuff after you understand the topic and where you align? It’s so much more interesting to see opposite perspectives and weird outliers on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:24 AM
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I thought you were Australian tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:22 PM
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What? Isn’t the whole point of movements like feminism (and also MRA stuff I guess) to point out the inequalities between the two sexes? Earnings are different. IQ distributions are different. Physical strength is different. Emotional intelligence is different. Mental health and sociology is different. Does that sound equal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:16 PM
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This is how I felt yesterday after a concert and roadtrip. I feel like I can never eat or drink enough while on the road with people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:12 PM
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Ahead of the curve how?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:11 PM
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Auto-piloting social situations is different than auto-piloting your thoughts. If you don’t keep those kind of thoughts in check, that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:21 PM
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Kinda disagree. It’s pretty easy to separate weird online bullshit and any doubts you might have about the other gender whenever you’re actually on a date. Confidence is a different matter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:24 PM
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Viagra Boys. Creative post-punk, a good amount of high energy stuff and fuzzy bass lines
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:22 PM
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Probably Bri or DivineDaedra. I would say Lull but he’s like more than a decade older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:21 PM
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Oh by the way, update from my earlier comment: I did actually throw my manlet friend in the pit. I don’t know how he was surprised when I did, I have been saying that I was gonna do this for months when we planned to see the concert
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:04 AM
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Every time I match with a really hot woman on tinder, it’s somehow still as intimidating as it is IRL. With most women I message (if I do), it’s easier to not give a fuck, but for the 9/10s or 10/10s I suddenly take it more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:01 AM
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That’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:14 AM
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Maybe. I know we have members scattered all over the US and some international ones, and so far in the daily chat I haven’t seen anyone mention that they’re in the same state as me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:57 PM
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I was quiet for a bit because of college finals but I’m back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:18 AM
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No. Not willing to travel for that, plus what would you do with meeting a stranger like this? We all talk about weird gender shit constantly, so I have a hard time picturing a normal hang out going on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:46 AM
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Don’t worry, my sleep schedule is still fucked enough to reply to this thread about now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:36 AM
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Built fat is my ideal physique tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:14 AM
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Objection: witnessing the badger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:08 AM
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Fuck boomers, me and my homies hate boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:07 AM
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Joking about me being too young
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:45 PM
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Blackpilled again 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:38 PM
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Men don’t make it worthwhile, but if a woman in our age group is even interested in being a traditional wife, chances are she will convince herself to enjoy that path despite her husband’s shortcomings. She may not have married the most handsome, in shape, richest, or most thoughtful man, but she’s married, which is the end goal. And if you have achieved the end goal you must be happy, right? Not to slam on traditionalists too much, I just see a friend of mine in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:55 AM
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Why is that based?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:52 AM
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I feel that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:47 AM
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I wouldn’t doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:14 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:33 AM
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It’s the reverse, just by how many men vs women actually have thigh gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:33 AM
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I’ve made this comment to my friends before and they acted like I was crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:31 AM
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I have done this in the past and he didn’t believe me and actually cut contact for about a year. Everything is all good now tho. Basically, I found out through my girlfriend at the time that his gf was cheating on him with a guy we knew, so me and another friend of mine sat this guy down and told him… and he sided with her. We had made a lot of jokes about her in the past because we knew she was a cheating whore before they dated, and I guess he took this as a final sign of disrespect toward the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:26 AM
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I think I’m a bit younger than you so most of my friends are single rn, but previously we always kept the gf-time and the friend group-time separate. I don’t know why people insist on bringing that shit together so much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:21 AM
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Reading this kind of shit over and over makes me not want to date at all because it makes me feel like a woman’s opinion of me will never fully be her own. I want to date someone who forms their own opinion of me and doesn’t look around to see who else is attracted to me or whatever, because I sure as hell don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:20 AM
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Civ V >>> Civ VI
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:16 AM
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Yeah but in most cases having a FWB situation is just leaving yourself open for this to happen because you don’t have exclusivity. That’s like the whole point of FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:16 AM
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Really? If this isn’t ironic, can you explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:51 AM
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You don’t know that many pro-lifers then. Plenty of them are against casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:50 AM
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Go to horny jail
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 11:17 PM
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You’re insatiable in these threads jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:21 PM
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Alright, now do one for men. Saving this for later
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:19 PM
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I don’t think dumb = emotional but I get what you mean. It’s because being a dumb woman gives you a niche, but being a dumb man just means you’re dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:17 PM
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IME it’s not as common IRL as it seems online. You can maybe get away with painted nails and looking generally feminine with some girls here, but anything more than that and you’re gonna have a really hard time. It varies by area tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:14 PM
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Without even reading the post, I am going to say yes. It is never the wrong option to invest in yourself before finding a relationship, especially if you feel like changes need to be made
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:24 AM
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I don’t know man, the runner’s high I got whenever I did cross country and track in high school definitely dispelled any anxiety or sleep deprivation I had, at least for a time. Lifting does the same but in a different way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:12 AM
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Well, I remember hearing some statistic that the average is 7 for a person’s lifetime, but I don’t remember the parameters of who and where that included, so, uh, I’ll take a guess… 9
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:18 AM
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25% is a lot in this context, holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:13 AM
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When do I get mine? I guess I’m not polarizing enough to be cool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:47 AM
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I’m seeing a lot of goofy poses. Also this idea is kinda pretentious, it’s like taking nudes but trying to make them artsy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:03 AM
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I had to look up what the fuck a boudoir pic is and I gotta say, some of these results are pretty funny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:32 AM
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A, but definitely would prefer real over fake. Or better yet, muscle as opposed to just having good fat distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:18 AM
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Girl I was involved with my freshman year of college just added me on Snapchat out of the blue, even though our little fling ended with her asking me out and me ghosting her. I can’t imagine what she could possibly wan- oh yeah it’s probably dick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:52 PM
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That half inch matters a lot more for circumference than length
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:46 PM
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I’m just kinda entering the job market (beyond medium wage jobs) as I’m finishing up college, why is putting that you are looking for a job on linked in a bad move?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:42 PM
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Didn’t someone post some stats a couple months back that marriages between whipped cream dudes and uh… cocoa women were the most successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:51 AM
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I’m down for that shit, but you’re right that whipped cream dudes don’t seem to be for some reason. Went to a couple parties at the same house, months apart. One was a more diverse group of people, there was music and lights and some girls were in the living room twerking on guys and dancing and shit. Then when we came back, the whipped cream frat dudes took over, there was no music, hardly any women, and no one looked like they were having fun No idea what the fuck is wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:50 AM
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I’m assuming that’s a different type of guy than me, but you can still focus on finding certain qualities in a partner while expecting a bare minimum of other qualities. Sex and looks are the most important for those guys, sure, but they still want a bare minimum of common ground to find a woman interesting. There is no such thing on being to focused on “sex and looks” or any other quality, that just means you haven’t found someone well-rounded yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:47 AM
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Why not get her a Pepsi? I don’t think her mom will give her one. Just one Pepsi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:32 PM
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I got this one! I agree with the premise that men are looking for more than sex, AND it is also true that good looks and sexual compatibly are arguably the most important factors in finding a satisfying partner. Why? Because for many men like myself, it is much easier to find a woman that you are satisfied with her personality than you are with her looks or her libido. “Sex and good looks are WAY MORE IMPORTANT” to us because out of those factors it is the one that is hardest to match to what we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:30 PM
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Why do you care? Obviously if they both admitted to abusing each other, what is the point of trying to point fingers at celebrities that you don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:27 PM
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I don’t think pressure is new to men, the pressure is just different. Before the pressure was to provide, now it’s shifted somewhat to looking good and being personable because most women can provide for themselves. The only times I feel like women without makeup have put no effort into being attractive are when a woman that I normally see with makeup appears without it, and suddenly their face is greasy and covered in acne, with dark circles under their eyes, all of which they’ve hidden with ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:23 PM
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Yes. The most attractive woman I have dated did not wear makeup because she grew up poor and didn’t learn how to use it. Once she did start trying to learn how to use makeup, it didn’t go well because she didn’t know what she was doing. Not saying other girls I have dated were unattractive because they wore makeup, but they just happened to be less attractive than some women who don’t need it. That and they displayed a higher level of insecurity in general
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:08 PM
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That’s what I was saying by “men should put more effort into their appearance, just not makeup”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:06 PM
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The makeup argument isn’t projection when you see firsthand how it affects the self image of your female friends. Instead of being this fun thing that’s supposed to boost your confidence, it oftentimes will instead become a requirement to have on to cover up an insecurity. IMO it’s less about cheating and more about the fact that women hold the effort they put into makeup as some kind of high ground over men (which, admittedly, most men should put more effort into their appearance, just not make…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:43 PM
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How the fuck did I get April O’Neil
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:30 PM
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Maybe it’s best to not discuss it with him and just do it or don’t do it. I can see why that would be hard to discuss with anyone, let alone a woman who you aren’t committed to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:42 AM
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Sigma grindset is solely ironic. Meant to make satirize influencers that overly push self-improvement and weird career-oriented or masculinity-oriented self-help shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:23 AM
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That is undoubtedly cuck behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:22 AM
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I had issues gaining weight when I was younger, and if you aren’t already I would suggest something like mass-gainer shakes to make digesting a lot of calories easier. I had luck in just increasing portion sizes over time, but if you’re struggling then liquid supplements will help (provided you are still getting enough macronutrients and vitamins)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:05 PM
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I don’t currently have a girlfriend and I wouldn’t date someone that weighs more than me now, but back in high school there was a point where I weighed about 120 and my gf was 130-140. I didn’t mind her weight because she was in good shape and looked good, I just hated being so skinny for my own self-esteem. Now that I am like 210, there is zero chance that I’m dating a woman that weighs this much. I’ve never seen nor heard of a woman that is healthy at this weight, even women that lift don’t ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:37 PM
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Righty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:21 AM
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Best analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:20 AM
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I hate that weird arbitrary shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:48 PM
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I cry every once in a while, but a lot of the time when I feel like it would be cathartic to cry, no tears will come out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:40 AM
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Well now I have to stay. All that’s left is resurrecting dietdrpepper (rip)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:38 AM
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Man I haven’t had tapioca pudding since I was like 13. I forgot it existed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:36 AM
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Rape kits are the evidence, testimony is the claim
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:12 PM
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No. Anytime I have ever had romantic feelings for more than one woman at once, given some time and self-reflection I find that I don’t really have feelings for either of them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:07 PM
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That just happens to be the case for a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:42 PM
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That, too. Habits are largely born out of affordability for a lot of Americans, but I don’t see any logical solution to this issue that wouldn’t be something that sounds relatively absurd to us currently, like steep taxes on fast food, trans fats, added sugar, etc. Even then, that only disincentivizes people somewhat, and aside from the time it would take to fix people’s dietary habits (probably an entire generation or two of people learning to eat healthier) that still doesn’t automatically fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:14 AM
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I don’t think so. Overeating is obviously a huge issue, and it doesn’t seem all that rare for young women to have an eating disorder where they eat too little, it’s just rare to where it leads to a noticeable unhealthy level of being skinny. What isn’t talked enough about is proper nutrition. If the general public had more knowledge on proper calorie and macronutrient levels, then I think people in the US would see a huge improvement in not only their weight, but their strength and levels of ene…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:31 AM
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Why did you go then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:56 AM
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Damn, I can’t read
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:39 PM
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As I get older I find that more and more I enjoy doing the stupid shit like flowers and gifts etc (when I have the money), but I agree about the party thing. In the same way that FDS women do not want a manchild to take care of, I don’t want a woman that feels like she needs me to take care of things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:34 PM
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It’s not an approach I think I would take IRL, but if I were to take my OLD methods to an IRL setting then it would just consist of some teasing/mean-spirited humor and dismissiveness along with projected confidence to the point of arrogance and being very assertive with what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:25 PM
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The only thing that probably disqualifies you outright from participating in casual sex is being hideously deformed or not having the social skills required (i.e. autism). Otherwise, the average guy can definitely make it happen given some time and investment into themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:20 PM
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18 year olds are Gen Z. I think the split between generations starts with people from 1997 onward being Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:17 PM
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No we don’t lmao. That’s like saying all women agree on what a handsome face is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:27 AM
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No bitches, no masters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:59 AM
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One of the reasons I prefer edibles to smoking- not only is it near impossible to function highly on edibles every day, but you don’t get the desire to be that high constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:51 PM
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Asked out a woman to coffee from my ethics class, we had previously talked about the tattoos we had and a little bit about the various instruments we played. Turns out she was a decade older than me and married. We stood outside talking about music and shit for about an hour after she told me she was taken, and then she said we could still hang out if I wanted, but I was a little shaken up by the whole exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:53 AM
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More often than not I just take that as a sign of mental instability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:51 AM
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Hair is a matter of personal taste, but damn do lip fillers kill it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:32 PM
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I need to pitch this to my Christian manlet friend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:26 PM
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Body is 8/9, face/hair is like a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:26 PM
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I always feel like they are trying to impress me whenever female friends get really in-depth about ho stories. It’s like them trying to say “look, I can be sexual too!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:53 PM
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A little bit, but eventually it happened enough to make me realize my league is much higher than I thought and then it became worth less each time Although I did once match with the most beautiful woman I have ever seen irl (she goes to my college). Nothing came of it because we were looking for different things, but being able to get your 10/10 is pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:16 PM
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I’ve only done it myself once, but I’ve seen it happen maybe a couple times outside of that. All on my college campus
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:59 PM
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Farther left than liberal, no pill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:58 PM
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Yes. Tried lowering standards as far as tits/ass size goes, was not turned on at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:57 PM
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Since when are younger guys grossed out by the whole region? The issue of eating out a woman is something else entirely, but being able to finger a woman and make her cum is kind of a rite of passage in adolescence for men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:27 PM
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I was lucky enough for my first girlfriend to show me what to do by gently guiding me when it came to fingering. I don’t know why this seems so rare
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:16 PM
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My first ID pic I got when I was 17 turned out pretty good. Sure, I was expressionless and you can see the hatred in my eyes, but picture-wise it was good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:43 PM
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My expression in my first ID makes me look like a serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:40 PM
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I went to go get a new ID today because I turned 21 and the picture turned out pretty bad. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:46 PM
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You should see what actually happens to people with and without ADHD that take adderall. That alone should prove to you that ADHD is real, because normal people will suffer greater side effects afterwards while people with ADHD will not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:44 PM
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The fact that we can even have this conversation and it isn’t immediately apparent means that it is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:41 PM
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I’ve had the opposite experience generally, there are a lot of fat women on bumble in my area and hotter women on tinder. Although I will say, I have matched with a couple very hot women on bumble, it’s few and far between
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:36 PM
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Matches don’t mean a whole lot, but given what we know about female selectiveness and the amount of men that get little to no matches, they mean something. That something being that you are at least at some level of attractiveness to either be relegated yo FWB/hookups, or to have your attention be desirable enough for them to match with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:35 PM
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I think that’s very easily reconciled by them saying “I don’t like women”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:38 PM
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Yes, you’re right, we are all bitches for making fun of Will Smith for being a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:14 PM
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Let us know if it ends up being worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:07 PM
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The only women virgins I’ve met in college it seems are self conscious about it, but not made fun of specifically for being virgins but rather, “why don’t you have a boyfriend yet?” Because for women commitment is a more important marker of value to others than sex is for men. In fact it’s kinda an inverse analogy between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:02 PM
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Lifting gives a more linear and clear-cut way of showing progression imo, and that is important to get people on the right path
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:00 PM
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You have to be at least a little autistic to enjoy this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:59 PM
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I’ve seen that stat, I’ve seen other stats claiming that women have a higher average iq so idk. I was mostly just going off of how women tend to perform better than men on average in academics, but there are other factors to that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:55 PM
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I get the dunk, but it is something that has crossed my mind. Like I said, strength isn’t everything, just had some thoughts about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:43 PM
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I mean, strength isn’t everything, but this combined with a number of other factors complicates dating for me. If I am stronger, smarter, and more motivated than you, why are you the prize? I guess that’s why I have a thing for girls who lift and girls that are smarter than me. Maybe traditionalists are right about the natural state of gender dynamics being that men are motivated to chase women by putting them on a pedestal. If I can’t put them on a pedestal, then I won’t chase Edit: gonna preem…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:37 PM
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It was less about social media itself rather than distancing myself from people, but you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:26 AM
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This was mostly just removing people from my private account and then removing all my photos from my main account. No one is outright blocked yet, but that might be the next step
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:01 AM
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Okay, sorry. Only did a quick google search earlier and saw manic episodes defined as being high energy etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:00 AM
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Neither, anxiety disorder. I don’t know if manic episodes are exclusive to either of the disorders you just mentioned, but I definitely felt a little off and high strung. Although more focused than I usually am by a long shot, for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:50 AM
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I’m looking at moving out within the next few months. Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:48 AM
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Just had a little episode and removed a bunch of people from my instagram -some random people, some people I had been close with for a few years. We’ll see how I feel about this in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:47 AM
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You mean on themselves or on men? In my experience, they’re overly conscious about stretch marks on themselves, but I have some on my inner bicep running up to my shoulder from working out and I’ve never heard any comments about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:06 PM
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You are a wealth of knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:06 AM
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There’s a pair of roided up dudes about my age that go to my gym who run small fitness instagram accounts with fake last names referencing Naruto and some posts referencing anime. Even just that little bit makes me think “dude, come on, just fucking lift and go home” That and these guys are notorious for hitting on underage girls and striking out with women despite being absolutely jacked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:05 AM
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Once again learning that I need to think the titles of my posts out a little bit more before posting lmao. I can clarify and edit all I like, but the title stays the same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:01 AM
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I agree, I feel similarly about RP. FDS and RP want to have their cake and eat it too by insisting that most of the other gender is beneath them, but yet they will devote their time to bettering themselves in the hopes of snagging a partner that fits all of their arbitrary needs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:58 AM
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Unrelated, but I need to know what happened to make you former FDS. I thought they were like a cult you don’t escape from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:25 AM
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Had an ex that was about a 5 in the face and a 9 in the body. Still have hardly met any women I am as attracted to as her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:15 AM
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Actually, I turn 21 on the 30th, they are both 21 Don’t worry, I’m into “older” women 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:14 AM
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I don’t think this is exactly the point you were trying to make but body > face and too many guys are ashamed to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:11 AM
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This is the best part about beauty being subjective. I wasn’t rated as objectively attractive across the board on this sub, but I’ve noticed once you find out that you are someone’s type irl you can say literally whatever you want and they will be hooked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:04 AM
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If this somehow were the case that they both want to have sex with me, I think the most likely scenario is that they both have that desire individually but haven’t shared it with each other. Out of insecurity, feeling like it would ruin their relationship, whatever it may be, I can’t imagine those two agreeing that they want me in a threesome. Not to mention that this guy already had an inferiority complex regarding me before his wife started doing this shit, he would really have to be a cuckhol…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:41 AM
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You’re probably joking, but this is another possibility I have considered, since my ex-girlfriend told me through the grapevine of this guy’s girlfriend at the time that he was bi-curious. Never heard anything from him about it, but I could see it. I don’t think I would do it. Not a fan of threesomes, and if I’m going to ruin their marriage it might as well just be me and her. Hypothetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:32 AM
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I have had that thought before, but I don’t know if she’s actually the cheating type. I don’t think I would even feel bad for my friend anymore considering how many times this shit happened before they got married and I told him to reconsider. But no, they were in such a rush to have sex that they had to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:29 AM
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Hung out with a friend earlier who is married to another friend of mine (I introduced them). She simultaneously insinuates that I am a man-whore and also asks me “when are you gonna get a girlfriend?” as if I can’t. I love them to death, but Christian conservatives can’t seem to grasp that there’s more to life than dating and marriage, and we are all like 21 so there is no rush. Not to mention this feels like her trying to gauge how much female attention I get in order to rate my value, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:19 AM
1

If you are a woman and you have only been approached once, you are probably not a 7. I’m a guy and I have been approached more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:52 PM
1

No, I’m addition to being happy with how I look, even if I randomized and got a better appearance, it would probably take me a while to get used to it and I would have to work from the ground up to get comfortable in my new body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:37 PM
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I’m just in the process of cutting off my female friends, actually. I went to a small high school (graduating class of about 60, 75% of which were girls) and I was the only guy my age that really hung out with any of the girls. From high school through college I had an easy time making friends with girls because I was funny and, in their words, “emotionally intelligent”. However, within the past several months I realized that without exception they have all used me. Mostly for emotional support …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:28 PM
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I agree about volunteering, I just was so used to seeing cynicism on here that it took me a second to realize your comment was genuine. I guess I can say I dabble in social media being that I don’t post much anywhere and am lucky enough to not feel as pressured into certain standards as a lot of my peers seem to feel, but I do find myself caring less and less about individuals on these platforms and more about discussion of ideas (mostly here because this is what interests me) and just general e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:32 AM
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At first, I thought you were making a sarcastic point whenever you mentioned volunteering, like you were saying that you have to do a bunch of extraordinary things to even be considered. But maybe you’re right. I’ve been thinking about deleting social media for a while now (I already got rid of tik tok, thinking about getting rid of Instagram and Reddit) but I guess the main thing holding me back in terms of dating is that for a lot of women it feels like they want you to have something out ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:25 AM
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Ultimately it doesn’t matter what “beauty standards” are, especially for women with the way that dating works. Regardless of what you look like, there are plenty of people who will find you attractive (this is true for men also but maybe to a lesser degree/less obvious degree). That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to be fit and healthy and attractive, but it should be for yourself rather than for what you think beauty standards are. In other words, don’t worry so much about your looks and validat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:49 PM
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I don’t know, I think myself and other people I know that grew up in fat households grew to resent their families for being fat and lazy (unless they also became fat). A lot of guys like me probably work out in part to avoid ending up that way, and have even less tolerance for it than people who were not raised around fat people But that’s just a minor nitpick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah you’re right, I would consider most women that weigh 115 to be underweight for my preferences, maybe depending on height. Even still, my hottest ex was 5’2” and around 130-140 when we dated, with a decent amount of it being muscle. I guess maybe that’s a sign to not move to Europe for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:44 PM
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Maybe that is true overall, but honestly in my experience your interests matter much less than how attractive a woman finds you. I’ve had conversations with women that clearly aren’t interested in weightlifting but will feign interest in what you’re talking about just because she thinks you’re hot. If a woman doesn’t show some form of interest in what you have to say then odds are she isn’t attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:25 PM
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Well, I don’t really know any guys that like very fat girls either, most prefer average to thick/muscular. The one guy that I know that has dated a fat girl was fat himself at the time. Personally, I’ve tried being with overly skinny and overly fat (to my standards) women at points because I felt my standards were too shallow, but it was horrible and I learned my lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:19 PM
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The modeling industry definitely affects women more than men. Guys don’t look at runway models and go “oh, she’s hot” more than they do “damn, she needs to put on some weight”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:06 PM
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You’re probably right, but since weightlifting is something I’m passionate about I would rather talk about it than try to pretend that it isn’t important. Women like guys that are passionate about things, too, it just depends on the woman and her level of security and interest in your interests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:49 PM
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Becoming aesthetic can go hand in hand with functionality and strength if you do it right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:47 PM
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I know this isn’t directly related to your main point, but for what it’s worth I don’t know any men my age that prefer tall, stick thin blondes. I truly don’t understand why that used to be a beauty standard or what some guys find attractive about that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:46 PM
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I don’t feel the need to project all of that shit, but plenty of women do fear being alone. Not as many as there used to be, probably, but it’s not uncommon for women to still be heavily invested in their romantic relationships first and foremost and they fear being alone because they don’t have much else going on (typically)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:59 PM
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Doesn’t the article say that the women that initiated divorce had high rates of satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:36 AM
1

What about women that end up in relationship with LVM? Does that automatically make the women LV, even though most self-proclaimed HVW have had/are in a relationship with a LVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:38 PM
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The only argument that makes sense for men always paying is just the logistics of how women vet during the dating process. Now that a lot of women are making as much or more than the men they date, the idea of men paying has no basis in monetary dynamics anymore. Chivalry is dead and equality killed it, because chivalry only existed as a means to compensate women for their unequal footing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:04 PM
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It’s very easy to find these opinions out in the real world. Probably not voiced by anyone you aren’t close to, but I have heard plenty of hate from both sexes. Maybe it’s a result of Gen Z becoming increasingly isolated and polarized from one another
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:01 PM
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I don’t want it to be my chance one day. I would rather date women my age or a little older. Relationships with large age gaps gross me out, and I hate how normal it is for women and men to seek this older man/younger woman arrangement out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:41 PM
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I had a friend of mine get raped by an older woman in high school that he was trying to get alcohol from. His girlfriend dumped him, people generally didn’t believe that he was raped, and then he had an alcoholic stint for months where me and a mutual friend had to watch out for him. That shit sucks, I’m sorry you had to go through that. It’s amazing how little people care when the victim is someone they can’t perceive as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:48 AM
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Well, I’m inclined to agree, but success is also relative to what you desire. I’m somewhat progressive when it comes to relationships, but I live in a conservative area and I have seen a good amount of my friends find success (so far) in traditional relationships/marriages. I am interested to see how this plays out in the future, however, because everyone I know that is married is around my age, 20/21, so it will be interesting to see how those relationships develop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:20 PM
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I find that shorter women more often have the figure I’m looking for and maybe appear cuter/more feminine in some way, but ultimately it just becomes too straining on my neck to look down at someone all the time when I could just have someone taller For reference, I am talking about girls in the 5’0” to 5’3” ish range
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:06 PM
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Sure, but honestly the main issue is just having to look downward at someone all the time, and simple stuff like having to bend over while they stand on your tiptoes to kiss you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:04 PM
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Preferences: not super short (I’m 6’1” and dating short girls gets tiring after a while), thicc/muscular, dark hair, soft/round-ish facial features. My age or up to a few years older. Personality wise, I’m really into smart girls, so often when I meet a girl in my math major that I can connect with it overrides a lot of these preferences as far as piquing my interest. Requirements: not skinny, not fat, not caked in a ton of makeup. Has to have similar views on sex and relationships, does not cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:30 AM
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I’m seeing a surprising amount of people say long hair on a guy is a preference (although probably not representative of most women, but still feelsgoodman)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:52 AM
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You don’t think you’ve had any positive experiences from it? I was wondering if engaging in hookup culture to a small degree might lead to more confidence/better sexual performance in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:11 AM
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I have done this, but to a much lesser degree. No racism or anything like that, but if a girl likes you enough you can say whatever you want and they will still display interest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:39 PM
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Attraction is the only reason a lot of guys stay in relationships most of the time. Try talking to more guys about it and you will find out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:58 PM
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You could literally keep going for either gender. Also, my point was that it’s more common and accepted for women to have sex toys or to fuck inanimate objects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:31 PM
1

I don’t treat women as lesser than men, however the way women are socialized to be feminine in certain ways often makes them less productive and less interesting when their only concerns are male attention and romantic relationships. I think that dropping a lot of feminine expectations on women would be beneficial for everyone because a lot of them are inherently not helpful (over focus on beauty, submissive personalities, etc.) As much as I understand where the stereotype comes from, I wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:37 PM
5

I would definitely disagree that men have fucked more food and inanimate objects than women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:31 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:36 PM
2

Maybe I would, but I’m in my senior year and looking to move out of town after this semester. I don’t mind the math majors, they’re just a little awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:33 PM
1

I wouldn’t disagree that they don’t hang around waiting for sex, but I have had times where I didn’t realize that’s what they wanted until I found out that they had a significant other and were just looking to cheat. I get general interest/attraction confused for explicitly looking for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:53 PM
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I think that generally applies to women that obviously don’t workout. No one is pointing at female lifters and calling them overweight just because their bmi is off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:47 PM
1

Hopefully taking my friends out later. I don’t mind not having a date for Valentine’s (and last year I did), but these guys are probably feeling a little lonely today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:10 PM
1

This mentality tends to come from men below the top 20%. All of the best men I know tend to uplift each other, or at the very least do not feel in competition with others. If you feel like you are in competition with other ken, chances are you are losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:34 PM
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Hell yeah, dude! Also I thought your comment about “connect the dots” was funny because I don’t socialize much within my major. Most of those people are not super well adjusted or charismatic (even less so than I am anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:23 PM
2

I am also a math major.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:15 PM
2

Maybe in your experience, but not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:11 PM
7

What financial consequences would we face for having a differing opinion? This sounds like you are talking about public figures
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:26 AM
3

If you didn’t go out with sex as your intent, what (other than alcohol) changed your mind? Was it about the way you were approached or more about the way you felt at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:07 AM
2

Yikes. Hope he got treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:06 AM
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That is interesting, and when you explain it that way I think it makes my experience make more sense. It just sucks to go from being told not to be overtly sexual and take it slow to finding out that it doesn’t work that way. I will say, the best results I have had came from presenting myself as more of a fuckboy than I really am, but trying to pivot the conversation after you’ve opened the door that way is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:05 AM
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I would not define myself as high value across the board, but I think there is something to be said for the environment you’re in and your age group as far as whether or not you will find the type of connection you are looking for. If you are shooting above your pay grade and getting rejected, then that is another story, but if you and another potentially high value person are just looking for different things, is that struggling or is it just unlucky?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:00 AM
4

How do you feel about it, and how old are you, if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:38 AM
1

Well, I wouldn’t say I have permanently decided to be celibate, but yeah pretty much. I’ve tried hooking up a hand full of times throughout college and ended up uncomfortable and leaving every time. I’m sure this is at least partially due to my anxiety disorder, so I’m not sure if my stance would change if I felt like I had a better grasp on it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:36 AM
5

How bent are we talking? I’ve never had any complaints about mine and it has a curve
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:32 AM
1

Voluntary celibate, the opposite of an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:25 AM
2

I could see myself doing that. For me personally, I struggle with anxiety so it takes a lot for sex to feel safe even within a relationship. If I found ways to manage it better, maybe I would feel more comfortable with casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:18 AM
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Oh and I would say that actions don’t define people 100% but tend to offer a good look into their character
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:15 AM
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I’m not jealous so much as am I disenfranchised with dating atm. I could see myself becoming a volcel just as easily as I could see myself engaging in more casual sex, depending on how the next few years go
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:15 AM
5

Not just tinder, all OLD in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:13 AM
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Yeah, I guess I just thought that OLD and current discourse around sexuality might be affecting how promiscuous people might be. Can you expand on #3 tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:24 AM
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I would disagree with the last statement. They talk somewhat about “leveling up” (as cringey as that lingo is), so they do some self improvement, but it isn’t the main focus as much as it seems to be with TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:07 PM
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I’m not RP, but if I came to someone with romantic intention and they said they wanted to be friends first it would probably turn me off as well. I don’t think this is a good test for RP tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:38 PM
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I’m not sure what the difference is. Isn’t the point of self-development to get rid of insecurities by bettering yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:35 PM
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Good to know that when a woman can’t remain monogamous it’s still the man’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:29 PM
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I’m not sure that women are overtaking stem at all. I’m a math major and I see that in my small college our major is about 50/50, but in things like engineering and computer science it is still overwhelmingly male. Something like 80% male for both of those fields I think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:02 PM
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Women sexualize very mundane things. Sure, guys can be very obviously creepy and ogle women for features that are clearly attractive, but what women sexualize sometimes is puzzling and gross in it’s own right. Forearms? Fashion sense? Disrespectful and avoidant behavior? (Just naming a few head scratchers here, I’m sure there’s more I could think of)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:01 AM
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As a guy, I agree with him/her. No one is entitled to sex with anyone else, and men are to blame for being so easily appeased/attracted. I personally don’t like how most men find the majority of women attractive and seem to have no specific tastes or dealbreakers since so many women are low quality as well, but that’s the way it is. Until that changes, women will hold the power in this dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:42 AM
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The partners I’ve had so far have been mostly against oral due to their own insecurities, and I don’t like to push the issue. That being said, my fingering game seems to do the trick so far so idk 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:13 AM
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Yeah, I’ve already taken care of that for the most part. I’ve only had full penetrative sex with one partner because I’m not a fan of hookups, and with her I always make sure she orgasms at least once before I do. That doesn’t mean I don’t feel pressure to perform better otherwise, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:11 AM
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I gave up porn & severely limited masturbation within the past several months. Beyond that, I’ve always been receptive to feedback & always try to make sure I’m not overstepping boundaries. I tried using those kegel exercises a for bit to last longer in bed, but I fell out of that habit & still suffer from premature ejaculation when it comes to actual intercourse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:52 AM
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Yeah, I don’t fully understand how people get in relationships where one person is abstinent and the other isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:41 PM
1

How is that a lie? You don’t think any short men can find partners? You don’t have any concept of how relationships work if you think your height automatically disqualifies you altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:18 PM
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Maybe you won’t be a “Chad” or anything, but the fact of the matter is there are still plenty of women for short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:03 PM
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I get the “just be confident bro” meme, I just couldn’t think of a better way to say “don’t be pessimistic because it doesn’t do you any favors”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 07:25 PM
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Hey man, don’t disparage yourself. Short men aren’t unlovable. A short friend of mine has had more relationships than I have. All it takes is confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:52 PM
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I think women value companionship more than men do on average. Just based off of anecdotal evidence, the men I know are more interested in physical relationships and often feel like most women can’t satisfy what they look for in a life partner. On the other hand, most women I know are more interested in companionship, and will sometimes even sacrifice their physical fulfillment in order to stay with a partner that they feel fits their other needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:37 PM
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Not everyone wants a permanent partner though. I’d say it’s more correct to say that human nature encourages social interaction, but not always lifelong partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:31 PM
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Depends on who you ask and where you live, I guess. There are still plenty of western women that fit those descriptions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:40 AM
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There are almost certainly some destinations that cater to this demographic of men, but my point was that most men in general aren’t looking for this. It’s definitely possible that most men going to underdeveloped countries are looking for this kind of shit, but the majority of the men overall don’t spend their money to travel abroad just for sex. As long as you’re not a total cretin, getting laid in a first world country shouldn’t be a big enough issue to where you feel the need to take advanta…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:25 PM
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Okay, first of all, don’t say “you” as if I’m doing this personally, I’ve never had sex over seas. Second of all, you’re implying that there aren’t women in other developed countries that are looking for hookups just like people in America, or that men only look to go to underdeveloped countries for sex, which is not what most men want/plan to do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:02 PM
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Having sex while overseas doesn’t always equate to sex trafficking...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:58 PM
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Men tend to have lower standards because it’s all they can do. For example, I have a friend that’s maybe a 4 or 5 out of 10, and often he doesn’t match with girls in the same ballpark as him (looks-wise). After listening to how my female friends talk about men, and knowing what I do about how women act as the deciding factor in 90% of interactions between men and women, it’s very apparent that women often overvalue themselves, or they know from experience they can shoot upwards because many men …
/r/MensRights25/07/19 10:29 PM
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What?? How is it not considered as such?
/r/MensRights15/07/19 10:09 PM
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