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CMVeffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:11 PM
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Question For Womeneffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:37 PM
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CMVeffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:28 PM
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Question For Womeneffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:03 PM
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Discussioneffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:46 PM
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Discussioneffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:31 PM
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Maybe it's just your circle. My friends and I talk about so many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:17 PM
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Is the 95/5 rule a more accurate version of reality than the 80/20 rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:01 PM
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That feel when you match with a 10/10 Stacy on Tinder and she ignores your messages. Feels bad man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:51 PM
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Q4W: Would you reject a 5’11” man just because of his height? Be brutally honest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:35 PM
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So apparently telling a woman “you’re beautiful” is catcalling and creepy?! https://youtu.be/G8JiDtEKZuM
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:25 AM
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Anyone who thinks women aren’t horny hasn’t met one that’s genuinely attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:06 AM
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Makes sense to me- it’s how I would react
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:41 AM
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Yep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:28 AM
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He’s probably top 1%. Everyone knows only top 1% of men can get a girl. 99/1 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:43 AM
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It’s a stranger that hit me up on IG. Pretty weird and sus
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:27 AM
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What if I think the girl is hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:17 AM
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A guy wants me to do a threesome with him and a girl. Never done a threesome with another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:09 AM
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I have a crush on Ana de Armas 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:21 AM
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Jeff Nippard basically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:21 AM
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Coke is better cuz more carbonated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:44 AM
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From a guy’s perspective, I never use “cute” in a patronizing way lol. Never occurred to me that someone would think that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:08 AM
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Q4W: would you rather be called cute, beautiful, hot or sexy? You have to pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:28 AM
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Q4W: Would you rather date a red pill man or a self-proclaimed male feminist who's quite vocal about his support for feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:04 PM
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Nah I’m always serious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:47 AM
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But men are supposed to be more logical… emotional intelligence sounds like a made up thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:40 AM
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Q4W: Are you jealous of how logical and rational men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:25 AM
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I eat pizza every week dude. It’s good shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:21 AM
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I might just do do cardio today. Need to take a break from lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:36 PM
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Don’t make me blush Livs :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:32 PM
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Someone irl told me I look like a young Marlon Brando the other day. Never heard a better compliment tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:14 PM
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She’s Chadsexual
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:10 PM
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Ignore that. We’re talking about Brando in his late 20s or whenever he was fit and in his prime
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:50 PM
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Q4W: Would you rather date a young Marlon Brando or Brad Pitt?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:33 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:18 PM
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Yea and she looks white too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:15 PM
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Oh Lawd
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:15 PM
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She’s well educated and upper middle class in Argentina so not really a desperate woman at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:14 PM
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She’s hotter in the before pic. Those hollow cheeks will look weird in a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:08 PM
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My friend who’s 5’5” got a pretty cute Argentine gf. He travels to Argentina to be with her. My friend is short but jacked and has a good looking face. Seems like a lot of North American guys are finding partners in South America, Asia and Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:03 PM
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Notice how many salty comments he received. There’s something toxic in the air in America. It’s just a vibe u get from Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:50 PM
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Minimum 3 times a week if she’s physically healthy and there’s no mental issues/trauma/grief. I have a high libido and even 3 times a week isn’t enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:18 PM
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I agree with u/whyte_lotus. You can’t take the good without the bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:07 PM
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You can’t take the good without the bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:07 PM
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Only the audacious men got to survive and reproduce. Audacity carries over in many aspects of life. This is why men negotiate salaries with their employers better, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:48 PM
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What’s with so many women online complaining about men’s “audacity”? Do they not realize that without audacity/sheer will/confidence (whatever you wanna call it), most men would die alone? Audacity is hyper masculine; to be a masculine man means to have audacity. Without audacity, you don’t get males aged 18-60 fighting Russian soldiers in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:38 PM
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I don’t mind getting rejected tbh. It feels good to shoot my shot, fall for a girl etc. I even like providing for a girl I like. Call me a beta simp idc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:14 AM
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Am I richer than her ex? If so I’d feel like a Billy Beta
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:36 AM
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PPD women love it because the woman is older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:57 AM
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I agree with your mom. I don’t even mind being rejected tbh. I’d rather fall for the person; it’s a great feeling. I hate rejecting girls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:54 AM
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Assume he’s a criminal defence attorney
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:52 AM
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I need to do shopping too. I donated a lot of my old clothes recently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:44 AM
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That sounds nice actually. I need to do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:44 AM
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Q4W: What would you think if a guy took you to the nicest restaurant in town for the first date? Let’s say the bill comes out to $200+ and the guy insists on paying for it. What would go through your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:41 AM
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Yes, sir
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:40 AM
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I really didn’t wanna go to the gym but here I am
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:29 AM
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Wow I basically posted the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:13 AM
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Many solutions: 1) move to a different country 2) get a mail order bride 3) upgrade yourself to make yourself attractive 4) hire prostitutes 5) go dumpster diving (lower standards) 6) forget about sex and find fulfillment in other pursuits Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:02 AM
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Same here. After looking at IG influencers and TikTok girls, I no longer find average women attractive. Slim thick women are the future. To be honest, it’s kind of sad. I’ve cut down on my IG exposure heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:58 AM
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I think the primary motivation for working out should be health and self improvement. It shouldn’t be just to cater to women’s preferences but yes, being fit helps a ton with dating. Ignore any advice to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:53 AM
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Do women get free stuff on International Women’s Day?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:56 AM
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That’s fucked up man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:45 PM
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It’s not true at all. I don’t resent women. I don’t see this phenomenon in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:53 PM
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Probably being at the right place at the right time. Timing is a very underrated aspect of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:00 PM
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There’s lots of Stacysexuals out there. It’s definitely an underreported phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:53 PM
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Feminism freed men from the shackles of having to provide. Feminism freed men from the shackles of having to marry a woman to get sex. Feminism hasn’t been bad for men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:50 PM
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Nah she’s 7. Not that hot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:21 PM
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You forgot legs/thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:56 PM
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Q4W: Is there anything about men that puzzles you? Or do you think you have men figured out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:58 PM
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Shower 3 times a day cut your nails get a haircut every month treat women like princesses always agree with everything a woman says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:09 AM
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Doing squats is good for your body overall, including your core. Muscles help raise your TDEE as well so you can eat more. But she should also have you do some upper body stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:33 PM
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If you don’t want to hit the wall consider using sunscreen on your face every day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:19 PM
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I talk about politics with my barber. He’s an old Italian guy who’s very opinionated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:21 PM
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Yea I’m not the same person I was at 21 but I’m still pretty much attracted to the same physical type in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:12 PM
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Lmao at second link. Seems legit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:54 PM
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Would most men benefit from T injections? Sometimes I think guys who whine a lot about women just lack T.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:47 PM
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What do you mean by “feminine men”? Is taking care of your appearance feminine? What makes the modern man more feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:04 PM
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What about young Marlon Brando and Clint Eastwood?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:38 PM
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I think a lot of men hit the wall as well. Both sexes hit the wall but the drop off seems more severe for women because their peak was much higher on average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:40 PM
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True but women also have less muscle and muscle weighs more than fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:28 AM
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Is the average woman really 5’4” and 170 lbs? That sounds crazy. I’m 5’11” and just below 180 lbs. The average woman weighs almost as much as me but is 7 inches shorter…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:19 AM
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Do women at the gym realize that we can tell when you’re staring at us? 😂😂 Men have eyes too ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:13 PM
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I mix it up with high protein cereal every other day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:58 PM
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FDS is hilarious. It’s a bunch of average to low value women demanding to be treated like princesses. They don’t care about becoming better people; there’s hardly any self-improvement tips. It’s all about entitlement and treating men as disposable. They’re probably the most miserable women on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:36 PM
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Men have more variation than women so there’s some truth to this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:32 PM
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I can very easily. Most men probably can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:56 AM
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It’s the thrill of picking up a new woman, wooing her, the novelty factor etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:43 AM
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My shoulders/felts are popping. Feels good man. Broad shoulders look great in a shirt. I just need to lift consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:20 AM
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Some women do believe that men have it harder in dating/life. Seems like women are listening to the male viewpoints here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:58 AM
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Got it. Thanks for the clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:08 PM
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So it seems that you believe a lot of men do have it harder than women. Below average men and men with mental illness probably constitute close to half of the male population if not a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:49 PM
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On the other hand, below average men love to self identify as average likely out of delusion. They then go on to generalize their negative experiences to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:15 PM
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Lol I don’t do walking dates and rarely do coffee dates. It’s not about the money. I don’t mind spending money on dates and treating women well. It’s the entitlement mentality that pisses me off. Being pampered is a privilege and no one is entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:38 AM
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Hot, feminine, takes care of herself, nurturing, kind, has a career, doesn’t need attention from randos online, small social media presence. I don’t care about virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:10 AM
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That’s scary lol. Were they total weirdos or normal passing? If the latter that’s scary af. I wanna learn how to avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:06 AM
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No. In fact I believe the less experience you have the better. “Experience” in dating/relationships does nothing but make people jaded, bitter, cynical, flaky and commitment phobic. Give me a “naive” woman who hasn’t dated much any day over a woman who has 20 exes and had 5 hoe phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:48 AM
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Have any of you met an FDS woman irl or a woman you suspect subscribes to the FDS philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:45 AM
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I don’t think this is necessarily true. Being in a relationship means regular sex. No guy can find a different girl to hook up with 5 times a week whereas in an LTR, 5 times a week is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:27 AM
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It’s kinda level already tbh. It doesn’t seem that way because of Tinder. If you go out, you’ll see plenty of single women you can hit on. In fact there’s so many high quality single women but you just don’t notice them unless you go out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:47 AM
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Is there any man on this subreddit who genuinely loves being a man and isn’t jealous of women? Until I came across Reddit, I didn’t realize men were jealous of women lmao. I love being male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:31 AM
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Inb4 PPD women say “I’m very attractive but my ugly friends say…”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:26 PM
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5’11” is truly an elite height for a man. Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio, Matthew McConaughey and George Clooney are all 5’11” 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:28 AM
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Probably true. Men do have more anti-social traits and male competitiveness sometimes overrides other things like empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:33 AM
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There’s something about women that makes me trust them more. Like I would rather trust a random woman over a random man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:30 AM
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There’s something about a nice ass that makes men go crazy.. not trying to justify it because catcalling is weird. When I see a hot woman with a nice ass you don’t even wanna know what I’m thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:14 AM
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No lol. This is a very male perspective. Women don’t want casual sex with hot guys who only view them as fleshlights and let’s be honest, a highly desirable man won’t treat an average or below average woman better than that. Women want to be desired and loved for who they are. That’s why they end up with men in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:02 PM
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Inb4 every PPD woman considers herself attractive. “As an attractive woman…”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:30 PM
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List your n-count along with the name of every man who has kissed you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:39 PM
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No more sore throat, thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:38 PM
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Yea this is true. They’re the nicest and don’t hate men as much as ugly girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:25 PM
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Adoption is cool and doesn’t make you a cuck. Paternity fraud is different because the man got betrayed and has no idea the child isn’t his.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:55 PM
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Paternity fraud is something all men should speak up about. That should be an issue all men can rally around just like abortion rights are for women. Paternity fraud must be criminalized! What do we want? Accountability. Bros before hoes. Any man that doesn’t take paternity fraud seriously is a beta simp cuck who enjoys being cucked and raising another man’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:34 PM
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I’m leaving the Red Pill ideology behind. Too much toxicity and lack of empathy for our fellow human beings. I will try to become a better person. Hate begets hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:24 PM
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But PPD women say that women are never lonely and can get sex any time from Hot guys…. Tbf a lot of guys here say that too This is why I’m dissociating from the TRP ideology. It’s just not right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:15 PM
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She’s ugly imo. Maybe ugly is harsh but 4/10. Then again I’m not into East Asians
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:35 PM
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It does. Even as a guy it feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:09 PM
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Studies show women are more depressed, more neurotic, more anxious, more bipolar, more BPD etc than men. I can’t take PPD women seriously when they claim all these single women are so happy and just waiting for a man that’s a net improvement. Women are not happy go lucky. I don’t know what reality you guys live in but every single woman over 30 seems bitter even if she’s not actively seeking a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:25 PM
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She’s unattractive and entitled. The man dodged a bullet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:55 PM
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Yes, that makes sense. I think those women should introspect as to why they’re not able to get an attractive man who shares their values/goals rather than blame men as a whole. All I see from them is blaming men, calling men trash etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:53 PM
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Not really true. Video games are pretty normalized now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:14 PM
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They’re addicted to validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:13 PM
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It seems like that but women have plenty of problems. Only hot early 20s women have it really good tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:54 PM
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Who copes more? PPD women or PPD men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:42 PM
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Strange. PPD women insist that being a single cat lady is bliss for women and that strong independent women don’t need no man. Could they be…. Lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:38 PM
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It's just hard to take a small woman seriously as a threat. I think that's what it comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:46 AM
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The bar is literally on the floor for women and they want it to be even lower...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:36 AM
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Yea. No HVM is gonna waste his time on that. I certainly wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:29 AM
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It’s fine if it’s for casual sex. I thought by “fun”, she meant entertainment or just to pass time. That would dumb af
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:56 AM
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That’s fine. I thought she meant going on dates just to pass time. That’s dumb af
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:45 AM
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You’re the one that sounds autistic. If u wanna have fun, stay home and play with your vibrator and watch 90 day fiancé. I ain’t wasting my time on someone who doesn’t even take a date with me seriously. “Fun” would be sex. If no sex and you’re not serious, you’re wasting ny time and money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:44 AM
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They’re just not hot enough to attract quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:41 AM
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You go on dates “for fun”? Is that code for free meals? You like wasting people’s time?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:35 AM
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Btw a lot of guys aren’t actively looking for sex/relationships either. They’ll say they’ve tried everything but they barely go out of the house. To them “everything” means swiping right on every girl on tinder. The desire just isn’t there. They distract themselves by playing video games, watching porn, smoking weed, watching Netflix etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:26 AM
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I’m masculine and strong but it’s still funny how you call men soft betas. How are we soft? Cuz we don’t get into fights every day? Doesn’t make sense. You have to explain why you think most men are beta
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:48 AM
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lol a woman calling men soft 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:21 AM
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No but they should know that it’s normal to not attract girls. They should know that girls aren’t attracted to most guys and that there’s nothing wrong with them if they can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:38 PM
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Sex Ed already makes students put condoms on banana…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:34 PM
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What about women? Teach them to become Jane Austen instead of onlyfans girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:26 PM
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Huh? When did men treat women like garbage? And how does that relate to the 80/20 rule? When society was more sexist, more men get laid not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:25 PM
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Explain why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:15 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. Video games, Netflix and porn are all u need to be happy in life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:06 PM
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You might be able to get him for a few nights but keeping him is going to be hard. I would say focus on shy/insecure good looking guys and approach them first, especially in places where guys are unlikely to approach, like the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:43 AM
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Both are fine. Less than 20% of American men are 6 feet or taller. Good luck finding and keeping a tall guy with an attractive face. He has plenty of options. You need to bring something to the table to keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:49 AM
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They do. They like things that are popular and cool. Doesn’t matter how misogynistic the lyrics are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:44 AM
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You just made that up...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:16 AM
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Men punch up in looks, women punch up in money/wealth. That’s the trend I’ve seen irl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:58 AM
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Bars, clubs, hobbies, parties, meet friends of friends, meetup events, etc. You can absolutely do it but gotta put in some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:51 PM
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As a guy, I think you have to introspect. Things haven't changed that much. You have to approach women irl to have a shot. Forget online dating if you're not getting matches. You can absolutely get a woman on your level irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:43 PM
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Yea you're right. I've cut back on my porn consumption but I still look at IG thots and hot girls on various subreddits, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:41 PM
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I used to be like that. I could see beauty in even homely looking women once I got to know them. But after years of watching porn, looking at IG thots, Tiktok thots etc. I don’t think I could even get aroused by an average woman. What doesn’t help is that I’ve been dating/hooking up with above average women that I’m attracted to. I can’t just drop my standards from that. Like I physically wouldn’t be able to unless I hadn’t fapped for a week or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:15 PM
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That would be horrible for men. Women already hold all the cards. Women in their early 20s have way more sex than the average men of their age, are happier, more validated etc. What prevents a lot of early 20s guys from becoming woman-hating incels is the knowledge that they have time to work on themselves, get established and find a partner in a few years, when the party girls are ready to settle down. If fertility windows were equal, I think the average woman would have 3 times the number of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:01 PM
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Women would lose half of their power and privilege in society if male thirst went down, especially women in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:55 PM
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LOL and what percentage of men do that? Idk maybe it feels good to put your dick in a coconut but most guys haven’t tried it. You’re comparing extreme male outliers (0.01% of men) to 90% of women who fuck inanimate objects like dildos, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:34 PM
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Yea and those guys are just settling. Guess what they’ll do when presented the first opportunity to cheat? Women have to bring something to the table in a relationship/marriage as well. It’s a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:17 PM
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It’s mostly women who fuck food and inanimate objects. Y’all put cucumbers, carrots, bananas, dildos, vibrators in your vagina. Most men don’t even use a sex toy like a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:08 PM
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If you think the average guy can fuck an IG model then I don’t know what to say…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:54 PM
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How are women so scared of men leaving them and yet women initiate 70% of divorces? That doesn’t make sense. Women have higher SMV, more options and can immediately get sex after leaving their partner. Women fuck Chad because they’re turned on by him. It’s not some mathematical probability risk assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:41 PM
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What I said is simplified. Physical strength comes in degrees and a weaker man is no less of a man. It’s just that women as a class are severely physically disadvantaged compared to 95% of men. Plus, it’s not just about strength/size. Women (not counting pre-op trans) have female anatomy, hormones, etc. it’s the whole package that is feminine and yes “weak”. It triggers a protective instinct in men. I don’t feel a protective instinct for short weak men but I do for an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:38 PM
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Masculinity is hard. It requires constant effort. You can’t complain or whine; you have to “man up”. You’re depressed? Too bad, man up. You don’t want to get drafted and forced to fight in a war a continent away? Too bad, man up. You’re just a typical feminist afflicted with the “grass is greener on the other side” syndrome. Life is hard for everyone. Masculinity is a role just like femininity. It’s not easy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:42 PM
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Men still have to be masculine. Women expect it and get turned off if a man isn’t masculine. Don’t be surprised if men get turned off by masculine presenting women. I like women who wear dresses, heels, have soft skin, don’t constantly bitch about gender roles/men and are agreeable. You can take it or leave it just like I can take it or leave it if a woman wants a masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:32 PM
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Men will always see women as feminine and weak to some extent regardless of women’s behaviour because of the huge physical advantage that men have over women. I don’t think women understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:28 PM
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Wow I feel bad for that guy. He should immediately dump her ass. Imagine how little she’s attracted to him compared to the guys she fucked on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:35 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:56 PM
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Our thirst knows no bounds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:22 PM
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Nah most men would not rape because we’re not evil. You need therapy if you genuinely believe that most men would rape
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:08 PM
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For the guys who think compliments from men don’t matter, you’re being short sighted. Of course you want to be romantically successful, I get it. But Rome wasn’t built in a day. You have to work towards it. Complimenting your friends and being a positive person boosts your charisma, makes people want to be around you. Deeper social bonds mean you get invited to social events where you can meet girls. Incentivizing behaviour like working out and dressing nice means you care about your appearance …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:12 PM
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Lol. Are these the self-proclaimed “average guys” that can’t get laid to save their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:50 PM
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Guys are becoming more image conscious. We know what looks good. Some more than others of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:50 PM
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They have to be somewhat genuine to work. I won’t tell a guy who looks like shit that he’s handsome lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:38 PM
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Yea you can choose to be mean. I guess it makes you feel good to belittle men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:02 PM
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Women should try to be empathetic. Men are the initiators, we have to take risks in order to get laid. Sometimes if my gut says I have a shot with a girl, I’m going to shoot my shot. If I misjudged the situation and the girl isn’t into me, that’s fine. I’ll take the rejection on the chin. The alternative is never taking a chance and dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:45 PM
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I would encourage guys to be more picky if you can afford to be. Most matches don’t lead anywhere because there’s no compatibility. Be picky, know what you want and focus on your matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:56 PM
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Women don’t need men anymore. It’s that simple. Men obviously don’t need women either but men haven’t fully realized this yet. Until that realization sinks in, men are going through a “rage” phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:01 PM
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Everyone knows this already. Men are not hard to figure out. We like hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:51 PM
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Insightful comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:04 AM
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I refuse to pursue unattractive women. Besides, there's no reason to believe that unattractive women have personalities than attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:36 AM
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It's a major turnoff for most guys. Honestly, I would lose attraction big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:24 AM
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Lmao. 27 is not past the male physical prime. That’s absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:09 AM
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Nah bruh I'm not that autistic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:11 AM
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Do women make excuses to talk to hot guys at the gym/grocery store etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:35 AM
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Yes but hypergamy wasn’t in full effect back then. There was very little social media (esp IG), no onlyfans, no tiktok, fewer simps etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:46 PM
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There are universal/biological truths but they manifest in a few distinct ways in the online dating era. If you haven’t dated online you just won’t pick up on those patterns
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:18 PM
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Why are there so many married older women on this subreddit? They have zero experience in the modern dating scene…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:08 PM
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Neither. It depends on the woman tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:54 PM
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Blondes have a lot of guys chasing them so they develop attitude problems. I’m more into brunettes anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:58 PM
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I would date the second girl for the short term and break up with her after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:53 PM
1

It made me laugh. The Norwegian woman who got scammed was especially funny. She’s so clueless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:27 PM
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Sex bots and legalized prostitution will solve male sexlessness while sex toys will solve female sexlessness. There will be less incentive to get into relationships. Commitment and especially marriage will be even less appealing to top tier men since they’ll have so many options once the unattractive men have opted out of the dating game. Single childless women will become frustrated and lobby to ban sex bots. Feminists will lobby to ban prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:36 PM
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This is really good insight. So many men are stuck in this mindset of needing a woman to validate their self worth. When they don’t get the validation, they turn bitter. Instead of following someone else’s rules I’d rather just act like my authentic self. I know it’s not going to be everyone’s cup of tea but nothing ever is. I don’t need every woman to love me or even like me. As long as I feel good and confident, no woman has power over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:32 PM
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What is “game”? Doesn’t it just come naturally? Like yea you can read a manual on how to flirt, escalate etc and try to implement that but to s great extent, flirting is a natural skill. I don’t like having my head filled with what someone else thinks is the right way to do things. I just want to be spontaneous and do what comes naturally to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:29 PM
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Women’s attraction doesn’t really make sense. They can fall in love with a weird, goofy, skinny short cult leader and be repulsed by a tall muscular football player. Idk. I think women kinda create narratives around men in their own minds and whichever narrative is most compelling wins out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:20 AM
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No. I think you're mad that men aren't putting women on a pedestal anymore. To the privileged, equality feels like oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:07 AM
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These women are doomed to a life of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:59 PM
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Cuz 6’0” is a nice round number. In Europe, tall starts at 1.8 m, which is 5’11”. You think a 5’4” girl can tell the difference between 5’11” and 6’0”? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:15 PM
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How tall is “Chad”? 6’3” +?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:56 PM
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Im 5’11” and never even think about my height. Never got any negative comments from women. Had plenty of success with women. Lmao at how delusional some of you are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:48 PM
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“Male sexuality is just inherently predatory and objectifying.” Really? Think about how messed up this sounds. You’re saying that men are inherently predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:56 PM
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Whats wrong with liking feet? I love nice feet on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:19 PM
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No i care about you as a whole. The way I express my affection sometimes is by complimenting a body part I find really attractive. Can you not see that it doesn’t amount to me caring just about your body part?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:51 PM
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Yea men are much more motivated to seek out casual sex. I think that basically explains the gap. If women were similarly motivated the median number for women would be 3-4x of the medium number for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:11 AM
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I agree with 0 kids and 0 debt but I don’t want a size 0 woman. I like thicc thighs and booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:14 PM
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No, Im currently single and not in an LTR. I’m trying to date this hot med student right now.Things are going well so far… let’s see
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:15 PM
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Men more willing to date a woman below their income/status level, yes. However, women are more willing to date a man below their looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:13 PM
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Hot women can, yes. Otherwise, you’re dealing with bottom tier extremely desperate men. I guess if you want a nice rotation of them, go ahead. I only spend money on women who I’m actually attracted to. Don’t wanna date some ugly girl just to get my dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:02 AM
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No I’m not butthurt. I feel sorry for her that she has such a negative view of men. That’s not a healthy way to live. I gather that she’s had some bad experiences but the way she generalizes men is pretty much borderline misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:05 AM
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If you’re hot that makes sense. I buy girls drinks on first dates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:42 AM
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Yea right. How many women have a “whole rotation of nice boys” taking them out? Maybe pathetic desperate men and even then, only the hot women can have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:32 PM
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Wow you really hate men huh. I hope you get therapy. You clearly have some messed up ideas about us. Maybe you’ve been reading FDS too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:17 PM
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Wow that’s mean and personal. How do you know I can’t get a girlfriend or sex? You imagine me as an ugly incel because you don’t like my views. How typical I’ve known some smart and impressive women in my life. What I’m saying is that (hot) women shouldn’t be given special treatment because of their looks. That’s an anti-simping view. Simps put hot women on a pedestal and act like their servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:51 PM
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This isn’t a personal thing for me. You don’t even know what I look like 🥱. You’re probably imagining an ugly incel or something but I’m not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:11 PM
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Who told you I’m angry? You don’t even know me. Maybe my solution isn’t the best one but I’m trying to think of ways to address the imbalance of power between men and women in the dating world. Many men are frustrated with the way things are (I’m not one of them). Seems obvious that simping for thots is a bad idea and creates inflated egos
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:11 PM
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No I can guarantee you that women get ego boost from make validation. You just don’t realize it because men are thirsty simps and dick is easy to get. If simping wasn’t as big of an issue, women would have much less power. Your power comes from male thirst. Btw these Ig models make money from thirsty simps who follow them. They don’t make money off of the one mythical chad that they only care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:54 AM
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Are hot Ig models entitled to compliments? No. So why do you care if men stop simping for them? Are you scared that men are finally starting to think with their brain instead of their dick? Random IG models know they’re hot. So what? I don’t want men to simp for them; that’s it. You like it when attractive people have a huge inflated ego? Beauty fades you know. Ego is the root of all suffering. We’re doing women a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:13 AM
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We will treat you like we treat guys. Deal with it. You’re not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:15 AM
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Only in return for lifetime access to your body. Do you accept?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:09 AM
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Compliments to random women are a bad idea. They don’t give a fuck about you. You’re just a simp whose boosting her sky high ego to the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:08 AM
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They already do. It's not free technically because they generate revenue via ads, etc. Watch pornhub, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:34 PM
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I'm thinking about the long game. Men are being left behind out there. I wanna look out for my bros. No simp can be my bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:30 PM
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I agree with legalizing prostitution. Let's give frustrated men options other than simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:42 PM
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Yes, men should only watch FREE PORN.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:32 PM
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It's harmful to men. Even ugly girls feel entitled to good looking guys because even ugly girls have simps on Instagram. They just need to photoshop their pic, add filters, lots of makeup etc. The ego boost women get from social media has distorted their standards and their perceptions of their own beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:29 PM
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Maybe I didn't articulate it properly. I compliment women on things other than physical attributes. I'll compliment women on their work, their hobbies, being good at sports, being disciplined etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:27 PM
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LOL. It's not about kindness. I'm kind to women but simping is inherently superficial anyway. That's not real kindness. I'm as kind to women as I am to men. I'm not putting them down. I'm just not boosting them for being cute/hot etc. In fact I give more compliments to guys than to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:18 PM
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Simping is not "harmless" - that's the point. Trust me, women's ego has been massively inflated in the social media age because of simping. "Harmless" men should do what the rest of us do - watch free porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:13 PM
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People are doing this already but it needs to become an even bigger phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:04 PM
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Shame is extremely powerful. Why do you think women hate "slut shaming" so much? It's worked for centuries to control their behaviour. Simp shaming will work and is already working imo. Gen Z guys call out simps all the time. We have to police other men's behaviour to gain power as a collective. Make women feel unimportant. I'm a pretty good looking guy and this is how I act. Treat her like any other guy unless you're trying to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:57 PM
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Why would you compliment a random cute girl who has a lot of followers on IG? Think about it. Realistically, you have no chance with her. If you really want to shoot your shot, DM her. But AVOID COMMENTING on her posts at all costs. Do not tell her she's hot or whatever. She already knows it and doesn't need you to inflate her ego even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:52 PM
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Also I think the average redditor is a below average man, no offence. This likely applies to the average redditor but not the average man in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:25 PM
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Some guys pay for OnlyFans because they have a findom fetish. Look it up. A girl told me that a guy wanted to send her money cuz he has a findom fetish. He is an older middle aged divorced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:10 PM
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I think this describes some below average guys. Even most of the below average guys (whether below average in looks or money) have gfs who are “in their league” in my experience. I don’t see average guys with below average women. It’s just not a common thing where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:07 PM
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