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I have friends who are nurses in the maternity ward and they literally told me stories of men pushing to have sex with their wives or girlfriends a couple days after birth or pushing for oral some even insinuating can they do Anal when there is a 6 week waiting time wtf I was shocked. They cant wait until she is healed how utterly selfish & disgusting I couldn’t imagine giving birth & the man acting like that. I had never heard of that before I know of course not everyone waits the whole six wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:09 PM
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This makes me feel a lot better about my dating decisions tbh I’ve always waited sometimes it drives guys away which can be discouraging but then again I think I could have slept with him & he still could have gone away or ghosted better that I never slept with him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:02 AM
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Tbh anything past date three I’m completely cool with splitting or offering thing is I’ve ran into men who never wanted me too. Tbh I Always at least reach for my purse on date two but all the men I’ve been out with always got the check anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:09 PM
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What qualifies as a late bloomer & is it different standards for men and women? I was having this conversation with friends lately & I found it interesting lol. For context I’m a woman & I did not have my first kiss until I was 18 & I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 21 when I was in my senior year of college 2 months before I graduated specifically. According to them, people I’ve dated & even my younger sister this qualifies as late blooming & people are surprised that I lasted so long lol …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:54 PM
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I think everybody should have a rule after the second or even third unanswered text from someone you just started talking too save yourself the stress & just unsave & delete the number I think it’s a good practice if they decide to come back then you can make a decision to deal with them again but demoting them from your contacts and life first in response to lack of effort is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:54 AM
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Wouldn’t it bother you that if the person was not in desperate need they would not choose you probably
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:15 PM
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Wouldn’t people rather be wanted and genuinely desired rather than just needed because if someone is only with you because they have a need you provide & not because they genuinely want you once that need is fulfilled whether it be financial , emotional, or psychological the relationship just might be done their purpose of being with you is done. When someone genuinely wants and desires you & is with you because they genuinely like you & not because they have a desperate need wouldn’t that be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:42 PM
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2022 was a heavy dating year for me got into my first two relationships ever first one was absolutely beautiful & ended well the second one just crashed and burned the person ended up ghosting the relationship the day before I moved meanwhile in between the relationships I maintained multiple rosters.I did it all had an exclusive relationship with a woman , had an exclusive relationship with a man came out as queer and ended up roster dating both men & women. In January 2022 I was a complete & t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:19 PM
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I don’t think I have the patience to be dating long term rn I’m in a relationship with a man rn and I want to leave already & it’s only been two months. It’s my first relationship with a man I don’t think I have the patience for it the casual inconsideration and thoughtlessness is not for me. Before we got together he wasn’t like this & I thought he was a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:18 AM
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Tbh being a person who is naturally detached in a modern dating sense is an advantage regardless of whether you are a man or woman. Hopeless Romantics regardless of gender get chewed up & put through a lot it’s sad. Meanwhile it seems like the people who have a more naturally detached & put their interests first seem to get what they want & are able to leave quickly when situations don’t serve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:14 AM
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Red pill men regardless of they want traditional marriage or are trying to be players pedestalize women who are virgins & have low body counts and dislike women with high body counts even if they sleep with those women they do not value them or believe them to be good women am I wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:10 PM
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So one thing I don’t understand is the notion that a lot of red pill men have that women should be virtuous good girls with a low body count or shit even virgins but then again expect sex within the first three dates otherwise the woman is using them or uninterested. Wouldn’t it make sense that a woman who is virtuous in the way they say with a body count would be very discerning about men and about vetting them and wait longer than three dates to sleep with a man. Let’s be real women who value …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:21 PM
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If the Supreme Court strikes down affirmative action policies it only makes sense that there would be a case to also stop legacy admissions as well. Funny thing that people who get so upset about affirmative action are often silent about the practice of legacy admissions and how they have a far greater reach in stealing spots from viable candidates especially at elite schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:07 AM
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Why did I want to grow up & be an adult every time I turn my head there is a bill due or something I got to pay for it’s tiring lol & taxes omg no wonder my parents told me to not grow up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:39 AM
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What exactly is a pillow princess it can’t just be someone who likes missionary lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:18 PM
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I’m not sure tbh idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:32 PM
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Did he have to pay it back I mean he didn’t have it I’m already at my new position so I’m not hurting money wise I just don’t want them to be beating down my door.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:09 PM
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It was a temporary contract role the project ends November 15th. I left for a permanent position if they catch it they’ll catch it hopefully by next payroll or by the end of the project november 15th if not it’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:57 PM
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Recently left a terrible company that was overworking me for a new permanent position. Today was my last pay day & I got a direct deposit that was wayyy more than what they said my final check would be. I’m not spending the money but I’m conflicted should I stay quiet & hope they don’t notice or should I call them & tell them what’s happened. If they were a nicer company that treated employees better & not like trash I’d be less conflicted but now I’m kinda happy this happened. However I don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:49 PM
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Can we just all be honest that the body count conversation is useless because both men & women lie when it comes to the subject & unless everyone is hooked up to polygraph tests the conversation is just going for revolve around speculation & a lack of facts and certainty. This conversation is useless if there is no actual truth being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:07 PM
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Looking back I always take solace in the fact that any man I’ve been with can never truthfully say I was easy to obtain or get. They all had to put in work lol a lot even said they questioned if I even liked them at one point. Also I’ve never sent any nudes so they really can’t have anything to share about me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:21 PM
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The whole living alone thing people say to women increasingly makes no sense because statistically women outlive men so regardless of whether women are in a relationship , married or not a man not being there is a risk regardless. Both my grandmothers outlived their husbands for years & a lot of their women peers have experienced the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:12 PM
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What is even considered high maintenance like it differs person to person some people genuinely are high maintenance then some people think that having any modicum of standards is high maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:19 AM
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I plan to marry but have a healthy marriage where we choose & love each other not tolerate each other why is it always extremes. The customs of the past were flawed & modern customs are flawed but there is a healthy balance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:15 PM
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I come from an immigrant background you seem to forget most of the world is not the west
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:23 PM
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It’s always funny when men talk about the good old days I’m always like have y’all actually sat down and talked with older women from previous generations about their lives and the decisions that they had to make. I volunteer at nursing homes the amount of women who told me they wish they could have divorced their husbands earlier due to unhappy marriage circumstances such as cheating , abuse , or neglect never fails to shock me. I’ve talked to women who were widows who told me that even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:40 PM
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Had the conversation that we both didn’t want something casual then he moved for a job opportunity so we never made it officially official even though it was implied that we wouldn’t see other people . I have very little actual dating experience so I think I definitely made mistakes in this situation looking back I should’ve seen some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:47 AM
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Lesson learned they were the first man I’d ever slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:36 AM
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How would y’all feel if you were seeing somebody for about 6 months you weren’t official mostly due to distance/school/career stuff but communicated & texted everyday during those months, went on at least one trip together , plenty of dates , & of course sex was involved towards the end. However the other person calls you and ends things & tells you it’s been something they’ve been thinking about for awhile however something you did finally made them decide that things finally to end they mentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:22 AM
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My post was about men but I do agree with your post about women. Women are too focused on romance the way that men are too focused on sex. Women will let romantic fantasies, delusions , & Cinderella type complexes blind them to the reality of their romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:54 AM
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The men on this sub actually might be right about on one thing the more life I live I have come to the conclusion that I will never understand the male libido/want for sex and why a lot of men are willing to put everything on the line for it. A lot of men not all seem to lack any time of sexual discipline & end up paying a heavy price for it. I’ve seen too many men mess up their lives professionally, financially , socially , & family wise for sex & every time I shake my head because I don’t thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:42 AM
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As if men don’t have celebrity crushes and favorite pornstars
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:25 AM
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September was a month of cheating apparently so many men are getting exposed for cheating in the media & with their damn coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:59 AM
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My comment was about cheating & giving monogamy to someone who is cheating & not reciprocating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:04 AM
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Staying monogamous to someone who is not monogamous to you makes no sense too me at all. If a person regardless of their gender decides to stay with someone who cheats on them which idk why you would you better get your lick back in the process. I know I would if I ever caught a partner cheating I could never be monogamous to them again so the relationship would just have to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:25 AM
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How long should you wait to tell a guy your period is late?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:04 AM
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Wouldn’t date because I made a mistake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:23 PM
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I did a lot for him on his birthday & he didn’t do anything for mine I’m not entitled if that makes me feel bad & unappreciated I’m not staying with someone who makes me feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:21 PM
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Idk how petty it sounds but I cut someone I was seeing off for not stepping up on my birthday when pretty much everyone else in my life did my family , platonic friends, & other people who were pursuing me genuinely stepped up without me even asking them too. It wasn’t the main reason I’ve been wanting to end things for awhile but him doing barely anything for my birthday was the final sign to cut things off for good. I told him how I felt he apologized insisted he did care about me but I took s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:24 PM
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Nah lol we are both African that’s not how we do shit lol but I will hint & bring up the idea of us just being exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:15 PM
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I always wait to have sex lol every man & woman I’ve been with I’ve waited at least 4 months to sleep with sometimes longer I also don’t do fwb , one night stands , or casual hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:12 PM
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At this point I definitely agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:59 PM
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I know lol We have been chatting for awhile before I moved to his city for school. Got here last month & we’ve been going on dates pretty much every other week know lol he’s my man in my head tbh we are talking tomorrow & I definitely want to tell him I don’t want to talk or entertain any other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:06 AM
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Anyone else have emotional triggers they wish would stop because they come out at the worst times. For context during college I had four friends of mine die within the span of two years me & me friends went through a lot of trauma & pain about it as well healing. Recently I was watching a show about a group of college friends & one of the people died from a car accident which was the way two of my friends died i immediately turned off the show & started tearing up. I graduated 3 months ago I tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:37 AM
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I already have his favorite bottle of alcohol in mind & was considering the watch idea a little bit. He likes to wear small chains & pendants too so I was also considering getting that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:27 AM
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Huge bouquet of my favorite flowers roses , a bottle of my favorite wine , & he paid for my birthday dinner with friends which he traveled 40 minutes to get too & drove back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:18 AM
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I need advice what are good gifts for a guy you’re not official with yet but he brought you gifts on your birthday & you want to reciprocate. We are definitely headed towards official territory though & I want to show him the same effort that he gave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:13 AM
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When ending something with someone because you found someone you like do you ever really tell the truth or lie & say it was another reason especially if you’re not official.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:24 PM
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What is qualifies as boring sex? Some people say just missionary but there’s multiple ways that even missionary can be done there is a difference between two legs/one leg on shoulder back scratching passionate missionary & then just spread your legs not doing much at all barely interaction missionary. Sex has too many variations for me what is considered boring to one person to be considered boring to the next person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:16 PM
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& over that time a lot not all of course but a good number of men are cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:16 AM
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Men say they want a virgin then complain that she doesn’t know how to have sex , be sensual , ride dick , or suck dick to the side chick or sex worker they cheat on said virgin with i grew up in religious environments where these hypocritical men get exposed for doing this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:08 AM
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It’s come to my attention that there are women out here giving head to men who are not giving them head in return & that needs to stop asap. Why are you giving anybody head who is also not willing to go down on you in return I don’t mean everytime but someone who has at least reciprocated it & is reciprocating well.Frankly if I’m not getting head in a sexual situation them getting head from me in that situation is off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:00 AM
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This is why body count conversations are useless everybody assumes everybody is lying so why even have the conversation I was a virgin my first 3 years of college was accused of lying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:56 AM
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This might sound insensitive but whenever I hear other women say chivalry is dead I always just think it’s because they personally have low standards in their life & accept the bare minimum from men & project that on other women. I just turned 22 & pretty much every guy dealt with has shown me chivalry & been a gentleman if they weren’t I never saw them for a second date or left them alone the moment they showed me that they were pretending to care & most of the guys I’ve dealt with have been my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:01 PM
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Birthday’s are a great way to see if the person or people you are seeing romantically are worth your time. If they cant show up & show care for you on your birthday it’s time to cut that person from the roster & rearrange it or just stop dealing with that individual person. Every year without fail this makes me cut people off & also gives people a lot of points in my life as well lol. This goes for men & women btw if they can’t even muster up the decency to show up & be present for you on your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:06 AM
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Yet men call us misandrists when we say most men aren’t good like the men in my life that I trust told me that first lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:08 AM
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If one of your love languages is words of affirmation you’ve got a praise kink found this out recently lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:39 AM
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Um I waited until after I had graduated college at 21 to lose my v card have only slept with two men my entire life I think I listened lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:24 PM
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Not all men but most men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:50 PM
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Women with good fathers know that the first person to tell us to stay away from most men because a lot of them do not have good intentions for us was them. Men say not all men then when they have daughters they change that tune completely. I have the best father in the world he has four daughters at the beginning of puberty he gave us all very real conversations about staying away from most men as they are not good & told us to focus on our futures we listened & we are better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:29 PM
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I mean I think sex is a mix of both at least in my experience when things are really going of course you’re going to be serious and in the zone but there are also moments you can laught at lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:41 PM
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If you can’t giggle & laugh during sex the person is not for you the act of sex can be silly & funny af at times acknowledging the somewhat hilarious awkward parts of it with a person can really be great & take the pressure off of it all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:33 PM
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A situationship is an undefined label less relationship though neither party has established commitment to the other so it’s not the same as an actual committed relationship. In a committed relationship however I believe loyalty should always be present no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:18 PM
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Wait are people actually loyal when they’re in a situationship lol if so that’s a set up for foolishness if you’re not official with that person you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:57 PM
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Came across this gorgeous 55 year old woman on Instagram & I think I might be in love I hope I age like this she looks amazing. When people talk about aging like fine wine she is an example. https://imgur.com/a/1qYRRO6
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:06 PM
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I get that it’s what I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:29 PM
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I’m a woman who got with a woman so it may be a little different lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:54 PM
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Well then I just barely missed the mark got into my first actual relationship at 21 almost 22 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:49 PM
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Is there other research I should look at that says otherwise if so I’d like to see it as I like to have my conclusions challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:48 PM
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Oh ok I get that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:45 PM
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At what age is it a red flag to have never been a serious relationship and is the age different for men & women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:45 PM
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However most women don’t end up dying alone in the first place as you said for a woman to truly die alone she truly has to be a terrible tricky one of a miserable bitch it’s not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:40 PM
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I see your point however I don’t think that because someone doesn’t have a partner they are just going to die alone there are other forms of community & support for that a person can cultivate in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:38 PM
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Why is there this constant messaging that women or so called modern women are going to die alone when statistics show that men are more likely than women to die alone and die earlier. It seems like projection to me I have friends who work in nursing homes & with the elderly the amount of men who have no one to call is greater than the number of women even if the women are widowed or single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:27 PM
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Fleabag season 2 hot priest is a great example of the female gaze in media
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:44 AM
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Why is your back that hairy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:21 AM
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Only slept with two men in my life both loved it in missionary position they told me it made the sex feel more primal & passionate they also somehow liked the pain and I liked giving it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:18 AM
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Men make fun of acrylic nails but love when you scratch up their back during sex with them they be wanting you to damn near draw blood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:01 AM
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Finding out your significant other has cheated & created a child would crush anybody regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:05 AM
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I think the ultimate betrayal is someone cheating & having a baby outside of a relationship idk if you are a man or a woman if you ever take back or forgive some one who had a whole baby on you you’re the ultimate sucker , simp , & dummy. Men who cheat & have babies outside of a relationship & women who do the same & commit paternity fraud deserve to be scorned like how heartless can you be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:00 AM
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This is what I’ve been saying none of these red pill people are saying anything new it’s the same misogynistic view of women that has existed for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:32 AM
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You cracked the code honestly if I know I can be vulnerable on that level and trust won’t be violated on either end we can really explore & be free without fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:28 AM
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In fact it will make women be more curious about you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:23 AM
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This is facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:29 PM
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Idk who said that quote but it’s facts I live by it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:20 PM
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One of the most attractive traits in a guy is discretion men that a woman can trust & know that whatever happens romantically or sexually will not be exposed & gossiped about & their reputation will not be tainted or their business put out on front street. One of the worst things a woman can do is mess with a chatty patty & gossipy guy who puts all their business on front street making their life messy & possibly messing up their reputations socially & or professionally. For example look at what…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:07 PM
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It seems like some men on here want a women who has standards but throws them away for them which explains the whole I don’t want a hoe or slut however if she doesn’t sleep with me within the first two-three dates she’s leading me on and using me mindset some men on here have. When realistically if a woman sleeps with every man she goes on one to three dates with that’s the easiest way to rack up a body count and become the hoe or slut they don’t like and look down upon because let’s be honest a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:27 PM
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Does all sex outside in of a relationship qualify as casual sex I don’t think it does but maybe I’m wrong. For example I think one night stands , hookups, & FWB situations that only include sex and not much else qualify. However if it’s a situation where you’re seeing someone actively like dates romance all of that but you & that person never make it official & you just go your separate ways I don’t think that qualifies as strictly casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:08 AM
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I love when someone cancels a date or meet up I wasn’t really wanting to go on anyways like yes thank you for freeing up my evening & saving me an outfit/makeup getting ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:24 PM
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Nah I don’t think so Men with options aren’t quick to commit unless they really want to a lot of women have experiences of getting hurt thinking they were a girlfriend but since no conversation about commitment was had or established the guy was not committed to her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:12 PM
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A kind of unspoken rule in modern dating is that unless commitment is established the person you’re getting to know will still keep their options open & explore them. Doesn’t mean the person is disrespectful or mean about it but no young woman or man is going to be loyal without a conversation that establishes commitment & it’s dumb to give full commitment & loyalty without making sure the other person is on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:55 PM
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Moving to La in two years for a great opportunity so I got to really transform fully into a bad bitch before then I heard beauty standards are crazy & I’m not about to be getting treated like I don’t look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:34 AM
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Idk how people send nudes I’m so paranoid about them being shared without my consent & ending up floating on the internet the most I can do is a sexy lingerie picture without my face in it. Once I heard a guy said he keeps every nude and video of his exes even if they’re broke up five years ago yeah not happening for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:05 AM
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Anyone else notice a type they always attract for example As a first Gen African woman I am like a bat symbol for African men lol regardless of they are fresh off the boat or first Gen like me it’s even a running joke with my friends that I stay liking & being with an African guy or woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:01 PM
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If I had a child now it would be very irresponsible & messed up of me to bring a child into an unstable situation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:39 AM
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Are your early twenties supposed to be so damn uncertain and maddening nothing is making sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:21 AM
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Sounds like sour grapes then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:21 AM
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I don’t get all the uproar of alpha fux beta bucks when honestly it’s no different than the sexual strategy men have executed or desired to execute which is have fun and fuck fun party girls or women who are down for casual sex in the short term and then get a wholesome good girl to settle down with in their thirties. That is not too different from alpha fux beta bucks so I’m confused. In college I didn’t have casual sex at all guys told me they would look to hit me up later when they actually w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:00 AM
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Looking back at the texts and things you said when you used to like someone is embarrassing af like I was really out here saying any damn thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:19 AM
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Do stretch marks matter because I just noticed in the mirror I got them visibly all over way more than before on all like the cute body parts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:12 AM
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I’ve never had unprotected sex with a man a f honestly I had sex for the first time with a man in March
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:45 AM
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In this economy with rising costs of living and a political environment where birth control and contraception look to be in jeopardy unprotected sex with men is looking way too risky. Protection is the only way tbh if I choose to deal with men unless we are seriously committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:48 AM
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I feel broken just got the call that a very close friend of mine died in an accident this is the fourth friend of mine to die in the last 14 months. She was not even thirty none of them were I have to go to another funeral and hug another family I’ve barely recovered from the last three deaths & I don’t want to do anything but cry yet I also feel numb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:13 PM
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Whenever I take an L in dating I take solace in the fact that a majority of my experiences have been positive & I’ve had more situations where I left in a good position than in a bad position. Out of all of the numerous people I’ve had a connection I’m Happy that only less than 8 people have gotten me to step out of my self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:46 AM
1

I get you I had multiple friend groups in college as I was very active socially I’m just now assessing them though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:16 AM
1

Whew tough I haven’t had that realization just that I’m further from some people more than I initially thought
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:45 AM
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Anyone reassess their friendships after undergrad I graduated a week ago & I’m noticing how everyone including me has like one friend they are really close too above all else even in larger friend groups lol. Like I have multiple friend groups but everyone got one friend they have more loyalty & closeness too & there is only one person I share that connection with. Other than one friend I feel like an afterthought to others. Like I’m the back up. It doesn’t mean i don’t have meaningful connectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:37 AM
2

Is it weird to be 21 and not experienced a committed relationship yet my parents are on me about it as they are African and I’m graduating college. I really didn’t start dating until I got to college at 18 and the last three years I’ve definitely gained experience but never quite made it far enough with anyone to where we were actually in an official relationship. Plenty of talking stages and dating stages but never anything official. I’ve done everything but get to the relationship when it come…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:34 PM
4

Any other women never send nudes or videos of themselves to men but talk freaky in the text. I do it because I want to have plausible deniability in the future I can lie about the text messages but you can’t deny a picture or videos lol. No videos or pictures of me are going to circulate that’s embarrassing I can deny tf out of a text though and be like I said no such thing I’m a child of God lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:10 PM
5

Is there something wrong with me that no matter how much I like and am attracted to man I really ain’t trying to see him more than 2-3 times a week shit sometimes one is enough lol. Those times can be hours on end you can even spend the night & we can spend 2-3 days together and I’ll be all over you during that time but more than three times I don’t want that at least not yet. I do want to me married one day too which is why I like dudes with great jobs & I also want a good career so we can affo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:05 PM
4

Ok random musing do men care about how many women a woman has slept with because I had sexual experiences with women way before I had sex with a man. The number of women I’ve been with is way higher than then number of guys I’ve slept with because it’s literally only one lol. Just a random question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:04 PM
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Im tired of this body count convo because damn near everyone is lying regardless of gender. Also men have said that no matter what a woman says they are not going to believe her I’ve even experienced this. When I was a virgin during my first three years of college at ( at least when it comes to men) I told guys that & they stayed telling me I was lying saying I was too pretty to be one. Now when I tell a guy that I’ve only slept with one man some have still said that they think I’m lying and I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:41 PM
1

The man got mad because I had enough self respect to see through the fuckery & women it will work on unfortunately probably have low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:31 PM
0

This man called me and to try that mess while saying how put together I looked. Do I look like the woman with low self esteem who is going to give you access without me knowing you’re a good dude no then please leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:30 PM
4

Whew some men are so transparent they will really try & see if you have low standards and are willing to accept the bare minimum in order to get sex & then be mad when the tricks don’t work. I just had a phone call with a guy where he pulled out all the textbook red pill broke guy moves & gave up when I wasn’t down to be a dummy for him & go to his place when I didn’t even know him. I broke my rule of not exchanging numbers early instead of social media & I regret it I’m never doing it again. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:15 PM
1

I want to choke a man out in bed one day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:17 AM
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Wtf is this post most women face violence & sexual harassment from men before they are even dating statistics say that 1 in 4 women face some sort of sexual abuse before they are even 18. Most women including myself remember our first encounters with creepy men being when we were as young as 11. Posts like this truly remind me that some men truly have no idea what women face from a very young age when it comes to sexual harassment , assault, & violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:19 PM
1

Why is hinge telling me to give roses to men my bisexual self is giving roses to women only
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:09 AM
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Probably but tbh I feel more raw sexual attraction to women than men so maybe that plays into it. I plan to have sex with a woman I like soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:10 AM
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I figured I enjoyed the overall experience but I know time & more exploration of my sexuality will do me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:40 AM
1

I purposely didn’t want to lose it unless I fully felt ready and I could have lost it way earlier if I wanted to be just like my peers but nah I wanted it to be on my own terms
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:01 AM
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He did make me tingle though as I was sexually attracted to him but maybe the nervousness of the first time clouded some things. I felt more tingles from kissing than the actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:46 AM
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He was 26 and yes he definitely had experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:06 AM
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I remember a lot of my girlfriends having similar sentiments through the years and I’m looking forward to getting to know this aspect of my life more. I also don’t like the overhyped concept of virginity in society especially for women. I am glad that it happened when I really wanted it to happen & prepared adequately for it the overall expectations is something I liked because It was on my terms & I was ready to experience sex. I always said I wouldn’t have sex until I was ready & I was ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:01 AM
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I’m a woman who had sex with a man I’m also bisexual so maybe the experience will be different with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:45 AM
1

I’m a woman lol maybe you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:44 AM
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I’m a woman and 21 I lost it literally last week and tbh I planned it out but the actual sex itself was overrated to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:37 AM
1

Finally had sex for the first time at 21 and while the experience was something I wanted to happen & planned and it went smoothly I’m kind of confused. Like it was ok but it wasn’t really all that like that can’t be what everyone on earth makes a big deal about afterwards I kind of was like that’s it that’s what I was told is such a big deal I’ve felt more masterbating. I’m a woman for context btw I’m graduating college in a month and wanted to have the experience on my terms before I left colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:35 AM
1

Cops,military,& a man or woman whose job involves night life heavily like club promoters,Djs, strippers, & bartenders are a no for me. Oh and also having no job or career is also a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:33 PM
1

I only offer to split if we make it to a third date on that third date I’ll offer to split and if we move forward I’ll continue the same practice every third time we go out I’ll offer but every other time I believe a man should be paying and paying for most things in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:26 AM
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Dating recently as an out bisexual has already confirmed about what I’ve always said and believed both men and women have the potential to be very trifling , wrong , and messed up when it comes to dating , relationships , sex , and love while it may be in different ways the blame does not complete lie with only men or women for why a lot of people regardless of gender are dissatisfied with their love lives today. Tbh a lot of people are dealing with a lot of outside trauma and it comes out in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:50 AM
3

Questions for the men because I got into a debate with a guy friend of mine. How would y’all feel if your girlfriend, wife , fiancé , or female significant other cheated on you with a woman like legit physical and even more so a physical and emotional cheating Affair type situation?I said that men would be upset because it’s just cheating period regardless of who it is but he said most men wouldn’t care because it’s a woman and they would only care if cheating occurs with a man but I think with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:49 AM
1

Facts like It was very shocking to me that he did that especially because he had tried to move to me in the past I can’t imagine how it feels to have someone’s privacy and intimacy violated in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:48 PM
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In 2022 there needs to start being more laws about filming people you have sex with without their consent just found out a guy in my circle is in trouble for literally setting up cameras in his room to film people he has sex with without their consent and was uploading it and sharing it without their consent too. I’m beyond disgusted like why would anyone do that I even knew some of the girls and they had no idea tbh I think he might be getting beat up if he shows up on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:10 PM
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