TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

philomexa Archive

View 30 posts and 7,925 comments by philomexa on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
130

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:27 PM
71

philomexa/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 05:20 AM
64

Question For Menphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:28 PM
39

philomexa/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 07:52 PM
30

CMVphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:14 PM
26

CMVphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:56 PM
16

Question for Womenphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 09:54 PM
16

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 09:46 PM
16

INSIGHTFULphilomexa/r/RedPillWives14/02/17 05:26 PM
16

CULTUREphilomexa/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 05:11 PM
15

FIELD REPORTphilomexa/r/RedPillWives23/09/16 09:47 PM
14

CMVphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:09 AM
14

CMVphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:42 PM
13

AMAphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:41 PM
12

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:22 PM
11

philomexa/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:34 PM
11

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 02:53 PM
7

CMVphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 08:13 PM
7

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:06 PM
7

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 06:49 PM
6

Purge - Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:22 AM
6

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 06:09 PM
5

philomexa/r/RedPillWomen11/12/14 05:43 PM
4

philomexa/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 05:22 PM
2

Discussionphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:48 PM
2

philomexa/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:02 PM
1

Purge week!philomexa/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:56 AM
1

philomexa/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:15 PM
1

philomexa/r/RedPillWomen22/10/14 08:34 PM
1

Question for RedPillphilomexa/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 10:07 PM
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 7,925 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

The boss won't dump you for; * gaining weight * getting old * being a bitch And if they do, you can probably sue them for work place discrimination. Additionally a boss won't withhold your pay if you don't suck his dick, he won't sleep with your best friend behind your back, abuse you or your children, spend all your money on porn/alcohol, make his family your problem, or embarass you in front of your community. If you're boss is a dick you just find a new job, and if your pay is too low your le…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:16 AM
1

Cool. Still doesn't change my opinion on the consequences John's face for soliciting prostitutes. If legal consequences are voted out in my lifetime (doubtful), I'm still still on board for social shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:55 PM
1

and they are extremely harsh and unnecessary. Says you, I think they're perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:37 PM
1

no, I asked why its a problem that men who use prostitutes face negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:05 PM
2

I'm sorry, how does rape relate to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:58 PM
1

I have no idea, as I've painstakingly avoided a period for the past 15ish years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:35 PM
1

But instead, a guy who uses a prostitute is at risk of jail time, fines, massive shame and embarrassment, and even permanent sex offender status in some states. and this is a problem because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:27 PM
1

If men want to talk bad about/to women feel free, it won't earn them any favors though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:29 AM
1

Do you not think harmful rhetoric around entire classes of people can be bad for their overall mental wellbeing? No, not really. Isn’t that the entire point around identifying and stopping racist or sexist rhetoric? I always though that was a fool's errand. society was saying stuff en masse like “black men are violent/thugs/gangsters” would that not impact the mental wellbeing of young black boys? People have been saying X about Y since forever, that hasn't stopped the success stories from risin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:19 AM
7

Oh no, how will I ever recover from this?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:52 PM
23

they might be called creepy! 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:05 PM
-1

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:59 PM
1

"Why are your booing me, I'm right!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:49 PM
0

Its just another hero's journey/jesus allegory. The twist to that concept comes in later books, but it's kinda hinted at that a jesus allegory ain't great for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:28 PM
2

Perhaps, thanks for the concern internet stranger. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:02 PM
1

Always? it comes and it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:25 PM
5

eh, it is what it is. Thank you for your compassion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:42 PM
9

Sort of, they went to juvie since they were under the age 18, and then after I think 30 days they transferred to home for wayward youth/military academy/labor camp type place until they were 18. I had a restraining order against the both of them for 5 years, but I left for college at 17 and just tried to put it all behind me. The court case didn't really go in my favor because my testimony was terrible and I didn't say much to my lawyer or the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:39 PM
10

I'd ask who hurt you, but honestly I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:27 PM
12

Yes poor me, but at least I got therapy and lots of support so I don't have to resort to mocking other people's trauma as a cheap play at one-upmanship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:25 PM
3

Well I got the job on the automotive account, I feel rather numb about it. I suppose its better than scrambling to find a job and then deal with that anxiety. Is this burn out? I've a hard time exercising this week as well. I just feel...a whole lot of nothing and I sure would like to sleep all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:18 PM
2

Got laid this morning after my husband and I fought over his sleep schedule. The dickdown was his version of an apology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:01 PM
29

Puberty itself wasn't traumatizing, I was precocious and prepared myself by reading lots of my older female cousin's teen mags (Seventeen, Sassy, Teen Vogue, etc) and hanging around with them. However at 14 I was violently sexually assaulted + stalked + plus one of the OG victims of "revenge porn" (aka pictures taken during the assault that were released on the internet). I had to to go the police, then court, then I had to change high schools. THAT was traumatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:38 PM
7

You can’t just start a whole new family with people who aren’t related to each other and have no real emotional investment in each other, OK? It just doesn’t work, no matter how badly you want to believe it will. What? People have been doing this ever since family units become a concept to us. There was a lot of death/war/plagues in history, survival depending on forming new family units via marriage with people who are not related to each other. In terms of humanity's progress and survivability…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:04 PM
2

but I still think the whole thing is because secretly Chris slept with Jada at some point. yuuuuuup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:32 PM
3

There is general hair loss that everyone deals with, 50-100 strands a day. There is male pattern baldness which is a matter of androgen production. And then there is alopecia, which I think when the immune system attacks the hair cells. Alopecia only affects hair cells, so people are otherwise healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:57 PM
1

Bruh, wtf is wrong with Toad The Wet Sprocket? Thats some classic jams. Emotional white boys with shaggy 90's hair and acoustic guitars? what's not to love?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:49 PM
2

I recall hearing she had alopecia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:35 PM
4

men that only sleep with prostitutes? Buying sex is already toying with the idea that purchaser doesn't care about the purchasees consent, but solely getting sexual gratification from prostitutes is a giant red flag for dysfunctional sexuality/sexual commodification, and "othering" of women. Once you've decoupled women from their humanity you've opened the Pandora's box of sexual mistreatment/abuse/rape/violence/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 10:04 PM
2

I'm a covert gossiper and I always have weed on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:50 PM
1

N U L L
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:39 PM
2

See I heard it was Charlize Theron when they filmed Hancock together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:39 PM
2

I wouldn't say it was sacred, but it was definitely stressed to me that it can have life altering consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:16 PM
5

Oh Christ, Gorean weirdos. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:25 PM
3

Fortunately people back then had the same interpretation of reality, and the same news source. Now there are alarmingly large portions of our populace that are completely ensconced in a Fox news/OANN/facebook boomer meme bubble, and these people like to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:08 PM
3

elevate animal life, bioengineered life, and silicon/digital life. You sound like you'd fit right in with the Adventist faction within the Earth-Trisolaris Organization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:15 PM
2

I'm a fan of the Braun silk expert series. I have the pro 3 as it fit my budget, but if I had more $$ to work with at the time I would have shelled out for the pro 5. It's been about 12 weeks and I've had a SIGNIFICANT reduction in leg and facial hair. I'm at the point where I don't really have to shave anymore (maybe one a month for upkeep with IPL treatment) where as before I was shaving pretty much every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:13 AM
5

I've seen this several times today. I understand the whole pelvic floor, lifting heavy things bit, but goddamn can't a bitch be courteous and wear some Depends? 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:48 AM
4

I’m really hairy so hair removal is a bitch and it doesn’t last. At-home IPL treatments have been a godsend. If you got the cash to burn and have significant contrast between your skin tone and body hair color I'd advise checking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:30 AM
5

Jesus, who pissed in your cheerios?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:19 AM
1

See I did stop it for 3 weeks, got back on and now this shit is happening. The irony is that when I first got on tret 5 years ago I had zero problems with it, no dry skin, no purge, nothing. I think I fucked up by heading straight back into my old routine instead of a slow ramp up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:18 AM
3

Tl;dr, no one really knows why. Vitamin A promotes skin cell turn over as well as affects oil production. I just assume it's the skin reacting to altered oil production until it becomes acclimated and calms down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:12 AM
2

No just tretinoin, topical vitamin A. Not nearly as hardcore as Accutane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:47 AM
12

Right now I'm going through a tretinoin purge and have a spat of acne on my chin. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:42 AM
19

You can’t just want to sleep with someone you think is cute? Nope. Birth control be damned, my lizard brain wants assurance that this man is all in if he knocks me up, and the easiest way to reach that confidence is love in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:32 PM
2

there are many real benefits to them such as? There are many people that would argue that couples should strive for a larger age-gap for long-term relationships esp marriage So there are many people that would advocate for an increased risk of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:22 PM
4

Depends on the friend group. goody two shoe types probably won't consider it a point of mockery, however "party girls" might consider it a useful tool to maintain the pecking order. Its not really an issue beyond high school though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:42 PM
1

Nah, its in your nature to simp for women. All the angry rhetoric and gnashing of teeth mean nothing when a pretty girl coos "I love you" as she touches your peepee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:54 PM
2

Are you rushing a house?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:48 PM
2

How we always have; halo effect + social, sexual, and emotional manipulation. Are you expecting rustled jimmies or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:46 PM
2

Cope with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:37 PM
2

Not new, but the first time I've been out in 2 years after stewing in PPD nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:31 PM
4

He knows, I lied up to give him the impression that I'm much cooler than I am. When he found out the true number (as it became obvious I'm not very skilled or cool) he was a bit disappointed as I'm not a "freak".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:59 PM
12

There was recently a GQ feature on Will Smith where he talks about it. He doesn't name names or go into details, but the interviewer brings it up and he confirms it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:53 PM
6

notes on a night out: 2 venues; an upscale Greek restaurant and then a nostalgia arcade/bar for aging millennials. I'd say 99% of the women I saw at both venues were either coupled up or part of a mixed gender group. I was approached by 3 separate strangers while I was by myself waiting to order a drink at the bar. Everyone was cordial and the small talk was pleasant, they graciously took the hint when I ordered 2 drinks instead of one. It dawned on me that waiting near the bar to order a drink …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:21 AM
1

Whining on reddit about sour grapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:09 AM
4

Attracted to: 0% Attractive: an optimistic 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:22 PM
–

I'm a global marketing OPs lead for a networking hardware company, although I'm hoping to move back into the automotive space as a marketing asset manager for a euro brand. I bring in six figures, enough to support my family by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:02 PM
7

Well he's hot, plus he has megawatt celebrity levels of charisma. I crushed on him hard/orbited him for a year until he made his move and then we got married a month later. I've always had money and now a comfy career, so the fact that he had/has none and became a musician never mattered to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:02 PM
2

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:54 PM
–

I'm attending a fancy event tomorrow night and I've come to the painful realization that my feet are wholly deconditioned for high heels. I've spent the better part of two years barefoot or in slippers, sneakers, and comfy boots. On one hand I have baby soft feet, but on the other hand I have zero calluses to make suede pumps tolerable. 😬 I'm not changing my outfit, I will accept the inevitable blisters + cramps because pain is beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:59 AM
1

punk pop 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:08 PM
1

Probably not, I usually have my kid with me attended some kid event. If a man starts talking to me he's usually a dad with a kid at the same event just shootin' the shit to pass the time. But If I dress up and head downtown the likelihood of random dude talking to me = hitting on me increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:39 PM
1

What I do: cringe smile until I can say 'no thank you' What I'm thinking: oh God, please go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:44 PM
3

...are you disagree with my internal dialogue?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:33 PM
9

Not sure what you're anecdote has to do with my anecdote, but thanks for sharing with the class. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:32 PM
2

oh God, please go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:20 PM
5

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:12 PM
23

The handful of single post wall women I know are in my family. They seem to be enjoying themselves; employed, own their own homes, travel for leisure, if they want a man for a night they call one up, if they want kids they babysit for a weekend and send them back on Sunday night. They all live near each other and like to get together and cook, party, travel, shopping, etc. The youngest two of the bunch spend half the year traveling and collecting a few boytoys along the way. The oldest is really…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:08 PM
16

Accord to some men, after a woman turns 30 she turns into the crypt keeper; she 'hits a wall' and can never marry Chad and have his Chad babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:54 PM
–

It actually wasn't that long ago, here's the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:44 PM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:37 PM
3

Pilates makes you sit with everythingggg. "feel the burn!!" and "come on guys, you better be shaking!"-every Pilates teacher ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:32 PM
–

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:20 PM
–

We had a ppd user rate me thread, 10 men and 10 women. The men came out to about 4 or 5 and the women 5 or 6 based on the true rate me scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:20 PM
2

😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:12 PM
4

The sexual ethics, marriage habits, and cultural mores west of the Hajnal line (i.e. western Europe) were imported to America and are the basis of western dating culture. East of the Hajnal line (i.e. east of Italy) people are more concerned with virgin marriages, very low age of first marriage, and what can marginally be described as biblical attitudes towards dating, sex, procreation, and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:54 PM
1

You sound suspiciously like an old PPD regular whom I thought was permabanned. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:45 PM
19

An assortment of average men I'd typically see in my community, I live about 2 minutes away from Chicago city limits. These men are married, 1-3 kids, employed in Chicago, vote Democrat, and can manage to afford Cook county property taxes. They take their kids to after school activities, do morning drop off or afternoon pick up, and participate in Chicago sports culture. If they're white they are probably college educated and work in an office, if they are POC they probably have very stable, ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:12 PM
20

I'm already married to a hot but poor guy, so I'll stick with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:34 PM
3

Not men as a whole, but a majority of men of PPD, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:07 PM
11

This feels suspiciously like 'bate bait. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:23 AM
3

That’s called being pleasant / agreeable and sharing the same sense of humor and that is valuable. Very valuable. But also very common. Every woman can do this and plenty of them do, for men they value. OP asks what we're worth to "HVM", we say the intangibles; our propensity to be simpatico and enrich the lives of men we value. Agreeableness is standard, but every man has an itch and he's lucky if he finds the right woman to scratch it. A teetotaler would never appreciate me rolling a Saturday …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:21 AM
9

If doesn't mean anything; all of these terms are nonsense, everything is subjective. However to keep it simple, a loud section of male ppd are more likely to consider a 17 year old orphaned virgin that fucks like a pornstar and suffers from Stockholm Syndrome to be a HVW. HVW and HVM are typical what you want, have, or wish to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:52 AM
5

Mentioning all the things I do that my husband has expressed appreciation and gratitude for (back rubs, laughing at his silliness, buying him his favorite food, sex, social proof, etc) can be done by any woman; it's not unique, it's not a selling point. But he values it from me because I make him feel a certain way that no other woman has. That's the intangible, and the fact that some men find this incomprehensible is... telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:43 AM
1

Bingo bango. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:15 AM
1

I already laid it out in my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:59 AM
15

No I'm saying some men devalue us for our WAP, and then turn around and ask why that's all we have to offer. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:31 AM
12

Oh this explains SO much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:24 AM
8

The intangibles that my husband value. Men don't have to marry for pussy, so if he's going to lock it down it's because the woman offers something no one else can. What it is, is wholly up to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:17 AM
9

Wrong. A womans car breaks down, she calls a man. Ac broken? Calling men. Made your car, men. Built your house, average men. utility =/= desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:04 AM
19

men: the original meme gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:56 PM
41

Oh look, its that tired Patrice bit rehashed for the 23,522,395th time. Look, men have told us, ad infinitum, that they don't care about anything other than our WAP. I cant fuck your college degree your personality doesn't get me hard I don't need your money if I wanted kids I'd get a surrogate if I wanted a housekeeper I'd get a maid your hobbies are boring if I want support my bros will be there Y'all go to great lengths to let us know our intangible assets are either meaningless, not good eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:55 PM
–

Here I made this meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:25 PM
8

Effort, compassion, optimism, and maturity; this applies to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:04 PM
5

Yeah, if you're shit at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:57 PM
3

Define alot "In general, men are more likely than women to cheat: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they’ve had sex with someone other than their spouse while married, according to data from the recent General Social Survey(GSS)......Trend data going back to the 1990s suggests that men have always been more likely than women to cheat...... In the 1990s, the infidelity rate peaked among men ages 50 to 59 (31%) and women ages 40 to 49 (18%)." under women sexual degeneracy(aka cheating) is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:52 PM
3

Men feel pain cheating on their wife For an activity that causes them pain, they sure seem to like doing to a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:16 PM
1

He cycles the voices, its not sustained but yeah, after a while its really fucking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:07 PM
1

40 minutes? an hour? he's stopped for now, but its just part and parcel of family background chatter. Soon enough he'll stumble across the scene he abandoned and pick up where he left off (the battle of plastic ninjas versus the number block monster).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:59 PM
1

lol yeah he's 6, but when he's playing he puts on voices for the various characters and unfortunately one of those characters has a squeaky/squealing voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:51 PM
6

omg. I love my child, and I love when he's immersed in imaginative play, but he really needs to STFU with the squealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:45 PM
4

It means he drank the manly-man survivalist kool-aid and will be shilling Alex Jones supplements and water filtration systems via mypatriotsupply.com affiliated links soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:45 PM
2

Extremely important. This is the person you're going to spend virtually every.waking.moment with, you absolutely need to make sure you can vibe with them for the long haul.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:16 PM
1

I mean...where is the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:12 PM
2

Social circle. Doesn't have to be in the immediate circle, but must be vouched for by someone in the circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:08 PM
1

Well that was quick. Found out my client was leaving yesterday, got an interview with an automotive client today. An old one actually, that I've work on before. My old company had this client before, but I was just a low level cog when I worked the account. Then my current company outbid my old company so they took the client. Now I'm at my current company about to interview with that same client. The marketing + advertising industry feels vaguely incestuous at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:58 PM
2

air drying completely what? why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:31 PM
3

Lol imagine living in [current year] and believing in a religion. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:30 AM
1

If your kids have school issued ipads/your district has money to burn kodable is a pretty good resource for kids. My son loves it, he got turned on to it via his kindergarten class and now we use the home version. ETA: For us, last years STEM week was a code-a-thon via Kodable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:58 PM
2

I've done that, as well as in the spare office with a couch and blanket.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:44 PM
4

Welp, my client decided to fuck off. So much for Big Tech, I knew this wasn't a good fit. I really want to get back into automotive and power tools, its where I cut my teeth fostered a lot of relationships. Car dealerships and franchise stores are a bit more relaxed, or at least they don't have a stick up their ass about their inherent importance (despite not producing anything tangible). I definitely won't miss the the global aspect. As fancy as that appears on my resume, having a conference ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:10 PM
4

Its cheating if he sticks his penis/finger/whatever in another person's orifice without my consent, and/or he develops romantic intimacy with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:50 PM
13

Very important. I couldn't be in a relationship devoid of goofy, playful intimacy. I think that a successful relationship is held together with intimacy; sexual and playful. If you lack both its not a relationship, if you lack either its a half hearted relationship that will plod along until it inevitably falls apart. On the marriage sub there was a guy that would pop up every so often and ask if the married folk were best friends, most would say yes and then he'd argue with everyone that marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:47 PM
7

If my husband wasn't so hot I'd have left him for how much laundry he produces. This man sheds clothing like skin cells, I don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:28 AM
23

If married parents can utilize babysitters for a night out, I don't understand why the same can't apply to single patents and dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:16 AM
1

5'3"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:26 AM
6

we go like, once a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:32 PM
1

Yeah they're just little haikus, but its fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:13 PM
3

I write poetry, I try to average poem a day but I end up working on 1 a week. I like to read (currently going through the Three-Body Problem Series), I'm taking ballet classes, teach Pilates part time, and I spend an inordinate amount of time arm chair booking professional wrestling. Not sure if that counts as a hobby but I enjoy doing it with my husband or people online. I've also been playing Cyberpunk 2077 or The Sims 4 when everyone else is sucked into their screens. I do all of this intersp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:37 PM
6

Bruh, how are you not in commercials and shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:07 PM
1

I avoid the sun so much I'm pretty sure I have a severe vitamin D deficiency, lol. thank you though!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:54 PM
10

I'd say maybe late 20s. 👀 I'm #10, and I'm 37 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:18 PM
1

👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:02 AM
3

Oh fuck me. Even down to the weird biblical names. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:16 PM
4

I just can't shake the feeling that its not her choice? but I think its mainly rooted in my belief that indoctrinating children in a religion is like, supremely evil. She's done everything her parents wanted, she's the eldest and is a model daughter of god fearing Christian belief. But I've never seen her display anything resembling a personality. She's like the perfect vessel of Christian virtue. She only listens to worship music, only reads the bible and bible related texts, only watches bibli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:12 PM
7

I don't like my niece. The only time she talks to me is when she literally tries to sell me Jesus. Like, I'm sorry you're parents raised you in a cultquiverfull communed/missionary outpost in the butthole of Mexico, but girl you need to STFU, drink a White Claw, and make at least one bad decision (she's 22 years old). She just sent me an email about the TRUE history of St. Patrick's Day, with a link to buy some bullshit children's book at persecution.com. all the fucking eyerolls. I know she thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:49 PM
1

The famous photo of him all shirtless and skinny is the definition of sex. 10/10 in that photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:36 PM
1

Lots of sex, laughter, and a hearty dose of who gives a shit regarding the small stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:54 PM
9

And here we have another chapter for Man Clowns Himself, an ancient and time worn compendium of men fucking themselves over because of puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:47 PM
2

lol it wasn't that one...the other one, with a massive fucking gender imbalance problem. I suppose the correct geography would be south Asia, but I'm American, wtf do I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:47 PM
2

A man of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:42 PM
3

lunch time sex or grocery store trip? I can't do both. Its been a week(!) since the man delivered and I'm getting twitchy, however we desperately need pretzels and the grocery store has an awesome hot bar for lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:21 PM
3

I was banned for my flair (twice!) and saying not so nice things about a certain country in the east.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:15 PM
5

inc&ls are we can't have nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:10 PM
21

Nah, I have zero investment in the topics. As I've said elsewhere on PPD, I came to gawk but stayed to shitpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:48 PM
37

I've been here for 6 or 7 years. The topic itself doesn't really have any bearing in my life, but the people are mostly funny/affable and I can get away with saying spicy things that would get me banned in other subs. I'll stick around as long as vibe stays the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:39 PM
5

Do you have any PPD male faves and why /u/purplish_possum has done the RP arch (BP, burned, anger, acceptance?) but came out the other side rather chill and able to engage in good faith. /u/Aldabruzzo is RP but spicy. He's not wrong, just unpleasant. 😂 Both of these men have also lived life and loved women, so their takes are grounded in reality. I may not agree with their takes, but I know they're not based on shifty nonsense fed to them by grifters, virgins, children, or black pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:16 PM
4

your mother is wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:57 PM
2

Killer Frost From The Flash tv series or the comics?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:31 PM
2

37f, between 20%-22% via dexa scan and calipers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:54 PM
4

I truly have yet to see that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:13 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:08 PM
14

Sex in a committed relationship: * I know what he likes * he knows what I like * guaranteed orgasm * no boundaries * trusted exploration partner * consistent Casual sex: * none of the above * exponential increased risk of a scary, dangerous, boring, unfulfilled, or unpleasant sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:03 PM
4

None of that is a glowing endorsement for having 12 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:22 PM
2

I recently read about a woman named Satanica Ecstasy by her parents. She had a...difficult life, and actually passed away recently as a result of those difficulties. She was surrounded by a very loving family that called her Tanya, but she unfortunately couldn't escape the gravity well of her parent's insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:40 PM
6

Who shaves their ass? That sounds like a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:52 PM
4

is the flair a Lingua Ignota reference? Because, if so, bravo.) Yes it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:32 AM
26

Nah, we just hung out in bed for a month then he was like hey we should get married and I was like ok. Then we went to the courthouse on 4/20 and got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:11 AM
2

37 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:01 AM
8

No downvotes from me, I thought it was funny. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:57 PM
1

We were very drunk at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:11 PM
39

I'm 37 my husband is 39. I'll just reiterate what was on the daily thread; "I bought weed from him at a frat party. A few weeks later I ran into him on the street, he invites me to another party. Show up, buy more weed, and we decide he should be my dealer. Fast forward a year of partying, smoking, and hanging out, I need a new place to live ASAP. He had a roommate move out suddenly so he offered the extra room. The night I move in we fuck, then elope a month later." I should note we eloped when…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:07 PM
0

sweat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:59 PM
1

hmmm, I'm going to have to go with Brando then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:56 PM
1

Pitt, but only because its common knowledge that Brando got fat and went crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:43 PM
3

I bought weed from him at a frat party. A few weeks later I ran into him on the street, he invites me to another party. Show up, buy more weed, and we decide he should be my dealer. Fast forward a year of partying, smoking, and hanging out, I need a new place to live ASAP. He had a roommate move out suddenly so he offered the extra room. The night I move in we fuck, then elope a month later. Its now been 17 pretty good years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:42 PM
6

musician and/or artists. This is not just a preference, but a requirement. And it can't just be ohh, I draw sometimes or fuck around on a guitar, it has to either be a profession or very serious craftmanship. fitness, I don't really care just something more/different than 5X5 stronglifts or other gymbro programs. intellect, I like writers, men who read (something other than self help books) and debate, and men who have foundational knowledge of the western literary canon. whatever mass media he …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:33 PM
1

Doesn't get my rocks off, but I think I'd be pretty good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:37 PM
3

I'll take that as a yes. Now clean your room, no woman will ever love you if you're weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:44 PM
4

Not overtly, however I think I selected for guys that gave a similar vibe to my dad who was a SAHD. Beyond just good dad qualities, the dude needs to have zero ego about his career and possess the ability to craft an identity outside of providership.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:40 PM
2

can I be cold and unforgiving mommy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:06 PM
1

We used to have one, but she was run off by some people who got deeply personal and insulting regarding her lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:05 PM
2

They're prescription, but she got those ironic grandma glasses to emphasize how 'smol' she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:44 AM
2

Symmetrical, nice smile, good hair, I feel like I know what you're going to look like when you're 45, I don't know if that's a good or a bad thing, 6/10. Your looks match is a cute but small brunette woman with maybe a fucked up tooth, has a mousey but neotenous face. Big into alty-thrift nerd girl fashion, ironically wears big glasses and an oversized knit hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:26 AM
1

The edge of FSM status jockeying are the insults/ gossip/trash talking. The older sexier woman at a high school prom is immediately disqualified via character assassination. Boys will drool, but the girls will be too busy bonding over icing out the interloper. Women aren't generically threatened by the existence of other attractive women, she has to have value attached to the FSM at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:10 AM
1

I would make fun of him for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:18 AM
1

older, attractive woman to the prom would hurt alot of feelings. No, the FSM status peaking at prom is impervious to outsiders, and an older woman trying to infiltrate it is on the receiving end of allllll the mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:17 AM
1

Brando, but I can totally see why Kerouac was a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:01 AM
2

Domestic duties makes me unreasonably angry, thankfully my husband is the complete opposite of me in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:11 PM
–

A party thrown in his honor, wife and kid out of the house so he can recover from his hangover and work on some music, and then cap the weekend off by taking his son to his first hockey game. As we can see my husband is clearly a victim, and his life is truly awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:00 PM
3

I don't have the time to rate all of them, but the tatt'd guy is the most attractive(7/10) and would catch my eye IRL. The rest are NPCs that have at least 1 or several disqualifying "flaws".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:40 PM
–

I had such a lovely weekend. Small party on Friday for my husband, it was so nice to see him light up and be 'in his element' (socializing, hosting, etc) after 2 years of covid killing his spirit. Saturday, took kiddo to gymnastics and then had brunch with my mom. We had some time to catch up on gossip, and kiddo was very excited to show off his tumbling skills to grandma. Sunday the family went to a minor league hockey game hosted by the PTO. Husband and I were featured on the kisscam, which ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:07 PM
–

Life is too short to commit to bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:49 PM
–

So you're fine with dissociating but being able to perform?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:21 PM
–

What if the mental trauma prevented you from getting it up for the 2 baddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:11 PM
–

Bimatoprost, brand name Latisse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:08 PM
–

well, now I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:32 PM
–

See I'm in the opposite situation; when people visit me in Chicago I need to know what they're into so I can narrow it down, or else they're getting the Architecture Boat Tour + Navy Pier treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:29 PM
1

I've already done 3somes with him. This isn't new territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:46 PM
1

Because over 17 years we've asked each other to do things we don't want to do and aren't enthused about, but we do them anyways because teamwork makes the dream work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:45 PM
–

Chelsea Wolfe, if you're into witchy guitar girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:20 PM
2

Yeah, I'm saying I haven't sent enough time on the west coast, so I'd like to revisit those cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:45 PM
0

I haven't spent enough time on the west coast, so maybe LA, San Diego, Seattle?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:42 PM
2

Well, I guess you like the bigguns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:26 PM
1

!!! my photo is still in there, thats hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:22 PM
4

at 5'3", 110lbs and below I'd count as skinny, normal is 115lbs-130lbs, 135lbs+ is thick, and 150lbs+ is chubby to fat. I say all of this as a 5'3" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:16 PM
1

Well like I said, been there done that, I know what he's looking for in terms of experience. The only hang up is I think we should go pro but he wants a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:13 PM
3

I recall reading somewhere that JFK's looks were so hyped because he took part in the first televised presidential debate against Nixon. JFK had tall, sandy haired Americana looks whereas Nixon was swarthy, big nosed, vaguely ethnic looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:50 PM
1

We've done the 3some thing before (with his ex of all people), I'm just not into women. I don't really get anything out of it, but I know it rings my husband's bell so its no skin off my nose to give him a good 40th birthday gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:37 PM
1

no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:34 PM
1

Why would I divorce him over a present I'm giving him? that doesn't make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:33 PM
0

Because he asked, and I think its a pretty good 40th birthday present. Regarding a MMF, maybe when he was young and drunk, but not now. However MMF gives me the ick, so no need to pursue that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:32 PM
–

I don't understand what view is supposed to be changed. I thought it was widely understood that young women prefer nonthreatening representations of masculinity (kpop, boybands, neotenous features, androgyny), but as they age they become more comfortable with mature representations of masculinity (muscular, tall, body hair, angular facial features, etc). I have a not so sneaky suspicion this thread will rapidly turn into "women bad, therefore I deserve an adolescent virgin waifu".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:30 PM
2

I hate taking the day off in the middle of the week, I always return to work with suffocating anxiety even though nothing really happens while I'm gone. In other news, husband is now 39 years old and I have a year countdown to arrange a FFM threesome even though I'm not really into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:12 PM
–

No u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:43 AM
–

Oh no, I was doing so well on my diet, and then we got weed again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:20 AM
–

I think some of you guys just like self harm. 🧐 I think this is a major unspoken element of their dating neurosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:17 AM
–

If I'm on a date with someone I want to spend time with them, so the food doesn't matter. If the food doesn't matter, might as well get something cheap, fun and tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:37 AM
–

Not that I know of, it's just a part of the aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:27 AM
–

An ethnic shack (ramen, pho, kabobs, perogies, gyros, tacos, etc) where there is a grandparent either cooking or sitting in the dining room arguing with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:20 AM
–

Gold; I have a beigey tan skin tone and I'm a Leo, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:15 AM
–

I'm happy with like, a gyro, medium soda, and we split a large cheese fry. If we want to get fancy, $75 tops before I start getting uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:13 AM
–

What a fucking chump, then I'd be nervous that he expected sex for dinner, then I'd be turned off and not want to see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:44 AM
–

Yes, rather dumpy and full of cellulite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:41 AM
1

lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:36 PM
2

I've had/have plenty of male friends, in fact one of my closest friends is a guy (grew up together, bro/sis type of relationship). But my husband also gives any guy that talks to me major side eye and is convinced they'd all try to sleep with if given the chance (despite them all being married?). I could probably do things with them if I was so inclined (lunch, texting, drinks, etc), but I rather keep the peace in my marriage and in my friend's marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:36 PM
2

Didn't frusciante make a solo album the was a heroin soaked mess before crawling back to RHCP? I was never a fan of RHCP, Anthony Kiedis live is a disaster, and they beefed with Faith No More. Under the Bridge and maybe Californication are bangers, but I'll pass on the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:09 PM
2

Oh man, I was 10, going on 11 and all the pubescent boys in the neighborhood LOVED The Offspring and Green Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:03 PM
3

A pick me stikes me as the sort of person who would agree to these things under duress, whereas I largely don't care? Its not a boundary being crossed, I don't feel humiliated or taken advantage of. I think a pick me world do these despite feeling uncomfortable, or from a place of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:55 PM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:45 PM
1

Well, now I have that stuck in my head. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:38 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:38 PM
2

Oh, alright. So wait, why am I pick me then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:35 PM
2

u/Slipthe is considered a pickme?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:23 PM
5

My husband has partied with his BFF ex, gone to lunch with her, and I'm sure confided marriage stuff to her. She's also the godmother of our child. I'm not too fussed by it, she's an ex for a reason but a pretty cool person to hang out with. I don't think my husband would be happy with the reverse, but he's also unabashedly possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:02 PM
3

For 5 years I lived in 2 separate houses full of horny single dudes. I've seen and heard a lot, but I can't say anything regarding (healthy) male socializing has fazed me. Dick jokes, fart jokes, poop jokes, rape jokes, dead baby jokes, non-PC jokes, checking out girls, rating girls, graphic description of what they'd do to girls, etc, Its all just...whatever. Some of it was humorous, some of it I didn't get, but I never took offense to anything that was said/done because its not my business. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:23 PM
2

Damn, straight hatin' out of the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:43 PM
1

I'm a poet forever working on my manuscripts. I've been publishing in a few journals and anthologies, won a few awards, but I haven't pulled the trigger on a published book because I'm a lazy coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:42 PM
2

Boris Kodjoe is pretty attractive, everyone else is just...eh. ETA: but I don't think they'd look better with hair, I'm just picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:27 AM
0

Oh no, that's so....gay, and I'm not even trying to be derogatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:48 PM
2

What is an aesthetic body?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:55 PM
1

ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:40 PM
3

It's difficult for me to empathize with your problem when you haven't taken every possible step to fix the problem first Why does someone have to do things your way before you'll care about their problem? doesn't that strike you as remarkable calloused?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:37 PM
0

based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:23 PM
1

Drunken hook up, they get to town, lights off. he woke up later to get some water and take a piss, looked at himself in the mirror and saw dried blood smeared all over him. went back to his room turned on the light, and in his words "it was a murder scene". I'm sure he exaggerated a bit (I've had period sex before and its never that messy), but I think it was the shock and revulsion of seeing blood on his body and bed that traumatized him. The girl was long gone, I'm not sure if she knew, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:23 PM
1

yay, but my husband was traumatized from a hookup so no period sex for me. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:17 PM
2

average non-famous man I think for most average men, they're best hope is that their college/young adult g/f doesn't soon realize she can do better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:14 PM
4

Cool, maybe the price of housing will go down and we'll finally get serious about climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:11 PM
4

He should be in an LTR by no later than 26 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:02 PM
5

The west has gone through several cultural revolutions that coincided with world wars, economic prosperity, or tech/science booms. The advent of youth culture and mass marketing cemented the concept of exploration and all its facets. If you don't like it, there's the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:37 PM
3

I recently watched a documentary about a Pakistani enclave in GB that had like a 4000% increase in weird (and horrific) genetic disorders. Of the adults interviewed it was 50/50 if they could admit that their cousin marriage resulted in their fucked up kids, however all the youth they interviewed (first gen immigrants) all thought cousin marriages were some nasty ass backwards shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:39 PM
2

that guy is pretty cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:31 PM
2

Aquiline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:53 PM
3

10, but I could do with a bit more brooding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:49 PM
2

My husband was just talking about the film and mentioned R Pat is too pale and skinny, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:47 PM
2

Cheers, I've also been recently released from the naughty pen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:53 PM
1

A wild Aldabruzzo appears! We're you on time out or just taking a break?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:49 PM
0

I thought his hazing rape story line could have been interesting, especially as a contrast to/reflection of Nate's psychosexual drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:42 PM
3

Yeah, Euphoria is great and all, but Sam Levinson has a problem when it comes to continuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:40 PM
0

Canon-wise he has no reason to be fucking around with high schoolers, but if I recall correctly the script for season 2 had a million rewrites and revisions, I wouldn't be surprised if he had a larger part to play but was written out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:33 PM
10

You may be the exception women in this case I don't think so. I think there is a strata of women (for example, children of immigrants) in US society that are taught they have to work a 'real' job (i.e. something STEM related) instead pursuing a fluffy art career or relying on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:22 PM
2

SINNER GET READY Because I don't know how to listen to happy, fun, or relaxing music.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:43 PM
3

I can handle everything up until cult of Trump/GQP/cryptofascist. However I would prefer a pinko commie socialist lib such as myself. Hasan Piker is my political Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:25 PM
2

There's usually a pic thread during purge week, either stick around for the next purge or try to find the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:53 AM
7

I'm still waiting for the invisibility, wine soaked bitterness, and cats. I'm 37, what's the hold up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:44 AM
2

Hands down my pants, finger inside, fish hook me to the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:19 AM
2

I'd prefer apples and salt block, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:58 AM
0

They told me I have a long midface but I have no idea what I'm supposed to do with that info, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:51 AM
-1

Pilates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:09 AM
1

I noticed the latest trend are scrunch butt leggings that get sucked up into the ass crack. I can't speak to their comfort but they seem wholly designed for social media + the male gaze. My husband is not a possessive man, but I know he'd have a BIG problem with me wearing those out and about (much less taking pictures of myself and posting them all over the damn place).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:37 PM
2

standard fare in a Pilates class. the amount of overweight women in a Pilates class is pretty damn close to zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:29 PM
–

I don't understand how some women can post such aggressive ass shots on the internet, the whole thing mortifies me (especially when they do it in the gym!). I don't mind posing for a full body shot, but posing like I'm taking a dump or suffering from severe anterior pelvic tilt just seem so god damn cringe. Honestly I think the whole thirst trap phenomena is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:17 PM
–

She's cute but I don't really see what the big deal is? She has a beautiful skin tone but her abs are standard fare in a Pilates class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:06 PM
–

She has enough quads that I don't think its surgery (usually those girls have spindly thighs), I think she's gifted but tweaks with posing, clothing, angles, and careful editing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:04 PM
1

Thank you! Aquascaping is fucking slog but once you get it going it builds on itself and the ecosystem knows what to do. It probably would have been easier if we had fucked with Co2, water chemistry, etc. but oh well, you live you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:58 PM
1

Aquariums! We have a lot of plant life in them as my husband is really into aquascaping.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:48 PM
2

cool! I have 3 fresh water; 30, 20, and 10 gallon. My 30 gal has an ancient and large rainbow shark, some tiger barbs, black skirt tetras, and an assortment of mollies. My 20 gal is my experimental shrimp tank (trying to breed rainbow colors) with some snails, more mollies, and some rainbow tetras. My 10 gal is shrimp and snails, and only the successfully progeny of my shrimp breeding program. Just a fair warning, guppies are fun and cute at first, but they quickly devolve into cracked head sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:25 PM
1

oh shit give me the deets. fresh or saltwater? how many gallons? what's your stock comprised of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:08 PM
1

big booty hoes FTW! 🍑
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:33 PM
0

A
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:44 AM
2

First nice day of the year and we're all stuck inside with a fucking cold. 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:51 PM
1

Eewww
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:21 AM
1

Oh I don't like his music, I'd just sex him vigorously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:15 AM
1

Have you not heard of the glory that is Honey Bunches Of Oats?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:04 AM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:03 AM
11

Except the women I see those guys with are the exact sort of nightmares the manosphere cry about. Single mothers, obese, dependapotamus, physically abusive, dead bedroom, Live-Laugh-Love MLM zombies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:42 AM
1

Walmart, Target if you're fancy, Dollar Store if you're keeping in real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:36 AM
3

❤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:32 AM
1

To be fair, when I'm alone I sure as shit like to demolish some Honey Bunches Of Oats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:30 AM
–

I fast, but I think the health benefits are overblown OR only really apply to overweight/obese people who need to give their digestive system a break. There are some woo woo ideas about mental clarity and such, but I've never felt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:22 PM
5

Or how about no friends so you can spend your time in glorious solitude where no one expect reciprocity or emotional engagement. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:27 PM
1

You know what's awesome? Getting over a cold sore, then coming down with pink eye, and having my husband treat me like a leper for the past two weeks. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:03 AM
1

5'9", 145lbs, white, funemployed musician, pretty-boy face, long dark brown hair, brown eyes, friendly mutton chops and some chin scruff, slight build, slim cut jeans, docs, and band t-shirts however when he 'dresses up' Lemmy Kilmister is his fashion inspo, VERY charismatic/gregarious/center of attention type (lead singer, social chair of his frat, always knows where the party is, knows everybody wherever he goes, etc). Did I describe my husband? yes, but he's also the biggest slut I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:42 AM
1

Their words, not mine. The guy is a lazy libertarian drug dealer and I think after so many years he's convinced the girl of his politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:23 PM
5

37F, married (almost) 17 years, college educated, employed, 1 child, Chicago. 99% of our friends are married or 'spiritually' married (long term LTR'd). All of them met their spouses in college and married shortly after graduation. My husband and I are the outliers, getting married when we were 20 and 21 respectively. 80% of them have kids (1-2), ranging from newborn to 7 at the oldest. I've known a majority of my girlfriend since middle school, they were the quiet, studious, smart, mildly relig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:04 PM
15

Don't forget SES and location. I live in a very yuppie yup suburb of Chicago and I hardly see overweight people, much less obese people. However when I visit my home town (rural Illinois, economic wasteland) all I see are overweight and obese people. If a single, in shape guy lives in Canton Ohio, the dating scene is probably pretty grim (with regards to obesity) compared to a single, in shape guy in LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:43 PM
4

I think this is my 3rd or 4th ban, previously they'd ding me for my flair, which are totally legit lyrics and album titles!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:14 PM
6

Finally out of the naughty pen; lesson learned, don't saying anything about a certain country thats not so great with women, cause thats haaattee sppeeeeeccchhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:59 PM
56

Yet when I describe my husband in glowing terms I am accused of c****g, lying, overcompensating, and I'm going to cheat on him. There's no winning for women in relationships here; we're either settling or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:35 PM
6

5 feet, 6 feet, doesn't matter. I see what I see and its not my vibe. No need to waste anyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:07 AM
23

Presuming competitive MMA, I'm not looking to take care of an invalid in 10ish years, or deal with the after effects of concussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:10 AM
4

He grew tired of it. Too much drama, STD scares, pregnancy scares, wanting more but getting used, tired of waking up alone, tired of waking up next to a stranger, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:16 PM
46

Nah he's given me his youth, I'll repay it with loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:12 PM
24

Can confirm. I'm the opposite of aggressive but one drunken evening a girl was tangentially causing drama for my husband, however I didn't care for it so I fucked her up. Fistfuls of hair, blood, snot, and tears; it was very primal and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:48 PM
1

lol brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:42 PM
2

Do these guys saying this just go to the gym and do nothing else? actually, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:39 PM
122

I'd be annoyed that he got into to MMA, and then not surprised he lost. My husband is 38 years old, 145 lbs, and has a bad knee. Why the fuck would he think this was a good idea? After the feeling of "you dumbass" subsided I'd pat him on the back, say "you can't win 'em all", and then ask if he wants some ibuprofen or ice for his inevitably fucked up knee. Hopefully the loss would shake some sense into him and we'd resume our lives as only spectators of retarded combat sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:31 PM
2

Sex addiction is like, indiscriminate, triple digit N, shame, guilt, cycles of abstinence and relapse. My dude just likes to fuck, and girls liked to fuck him. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:04 PM
3

Coming up on 17 years in April, we've had ups and downs but a pretty good marriage so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:02 PM
2

I'm mostly familiar with the arts scene, and those dudes (provided they have the look) are irredeemable sluts. Kink, poly, group sex, whatever. Strictly gym dudes are tinged with a bit of inc&l energy, but popular sports (football, baseball, basketball, hockey, etc) dudes are also irredeemable sluts. One facet that is generally over looked, the few straight dudes in a female coded sport practically drown in puss. Figure skating, ballet, gymnastics, yoga, etc. In high school I knew 3 straight sem…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:30 PM
2

I keep seeing flared yoga pants pop up and I'm like...no. I lived through that already, it was terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:45 PM
7

No virgins, no sex addicts, no STI's, no bastard kids. My husband had an n count of 50+ when we got married at 20(me) and 21(him), I was intrigued and intimidated but I wasn't put off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:26 PM
1

To get hella racist for a moment; I now know (or assume) your username stands for child-free in Canada, however when I first encountered your username for some reason I interpreted it as 'China, finance, Canada' so I got the impression that you were an Asia woman working in finance in Canada, which was then bolstered by your child free stance. "of course you're child free, you work in finance and you're Asian so you have an excellent work ethic (🤔) which means you probably don't have time for ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:20 PM
1

north, west, or south suburbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:05 PM
0

...damn, I thought you were Asian!?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:03 PM
0

Biracial (Italian/Afro-Caribe), Chicago IL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:02 PM
52

I understand what they mean by intimidating, that guy's profile emanates way too much type A energy. I'm fit and active, part time fitness instructor, but on a rest day sometimes I just wanna play video games and smoke weed. Would a guy like that do that with me, or would he silently judge me while he makes his spirulina shake before he knocks out a century ride. I don't need to go all the time, and men who have to go are just too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:43 PM
14

It's difficult to find the words to describe an intense, judgmental, focused individual, but those unblinking men with obvious goals and expectations with all their "testing" questions and awkward poking and prodding to "break the touch barrier" repel me. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:35 PM
2

lower age, it throws up some red and yellow predator flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:31 PM
4

Find a black, Indian, Asian, or Hispanic skinny altboy and I'll include him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:53 PM
4

"What about the connection between ideology and marital quality? Is there a story there? The answer, interestingly, is no, if we focus just on married couples. Figure 2, examining only married adults, reveals a gap of just three percentage points between liberals and conservatives in the probability of being in a very happy marriage (and this difference isn’t statistically significant). The story doesn’t change once we add controls for race/ethnicity, age, sex, education, and income. Although co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:12 AM
1

Nah, too gay for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:02 AM
1

😒
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:01 AM
7

Kiddo loves numbers, and in the course of teaching him about nutrition I explained calories, TDEE, and BMR. To his delight, I even ran the TDEE calculator for him. Now he tells me the calories of everything we eat, and how much he thinks he burns by doing X activity. So far all of this is fun and games, but if it synergizes with anxiety then we're fucked. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:16 AM
6

Well one of them is 5'6", and none of them have homoerotic levels of muscle. The only person who has some musculature is Nuno Bettencourt, everyone else has muscles via starvation. (note: Trent Reznor did get muscles after he went sober, but I was never a fan of muscle daddy Trent, I much prefer the sad twinky coke days, circa The Downward Spiral.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:12 PM
2

Number 1. There is no way to truly know if a girl is being trafficked, which introduces the possibility of a victim. Number 2 is just sad, but ultimately he's hurting no one but himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:02 PM
6

1.) Damiano David 2.) Trent Reznor (the prototype for everything 😍) 3.) Scott Weiland 4.) Ken Andrews 5.) Nuno Bettencourt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:14 PM
2

Excuse me, I listen to neoclassical industrial witchcore, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:06 PM
18

Do you resemble one of these men? Thats my requirement; preference would be tattoos, piercings, and waist length hair. (assumptions already made about average size working dick and hygiene).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:38 PM
1

BuT TheY WeRe BroKeN Up FoR 3 WeEkS AnD 3 DaYs. The had an established on/off relationship and despite choking her, cheating on her, and being more or less a psychopath, Maddy loved Nate. Even when he held a gun to her head she loved him. I think if she hadn't gotten a wiff of something better via hotmom in the hottub, she probably would have found her way back to Nate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:44 PM
7

1.) Nope. 2.) Nope. 3.) Nope. Women's value extends as far as her youth and willingness to open her legs. Men are more than happy to let us know when our value plummets in their eyes. 4.) Nope. Losers are left behind, always have and always will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:39 PM
1

I dunno, Cassie has been shown to spread 'em for even a wiff of male approval, regardless of her relationship status. Whereas Maddy is a loyal to a fault, but she will cut you if you cross her. I'm team Maddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:32 PM
2

Cassie Howard enters the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:29 PM
6

I don't think any women on PPD would admit to settling, however women who sexually settle aren't necessarily in these discussions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:36 PM
1

understanding someone's mindset does not preclude 'sanity'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:34 PM
2

Sure, I wouldn't have married him if he wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:11 PM
3

Well I'm 5'3", husband is 5'9" and weighs 145lbs. He's funemployed but had an N count of 50+ when we got married. 🤷 I think out of everyone here I "get" gimpgirl's mindset the most, but I dont necessarily agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:09 PM
3

Anecdotally, I recently did some research on marriage ages and a factoid that stuck out was that at given time there is at least 20%-30% of post menopausal women that had never given birth or gotten married. This was gleaned from English/French/N. American marriage records, baptismal records, and rudimentary census records dating back to medieval times. In terms of evo psych reasoning it makes sense, women unencumbered with men or their own children can devote their time to helping new moms navi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:16 PM
1

I like Big E, but I feel like his title reign was a placeholder reign. I don't know if he's a lifer in WWE, but I'd love to see him in AEW and round out the big man division (Wardlow, Hobbes, Miro(?), etc). While the new day gimmick was great, it unfortunately saddled all of them as shuckin' n jivin' comedy act. Its hard to come back from that. I think Big E could have been a legit big man gate to the upper card, but that booking should have started when he was the silent enforcer for AJ lee and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:14 PM
2

what wrestler was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:58 PM
6

Where's my skinny long haired altboy at?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:52 PM
3

Braiding hair is one of my flirting maneuvers. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:46 AM
2

Long, healthy hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:39 AM
1

You realize you're advocating to be the exact sort of person a 'good quality woman' vets against, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:47 AM
28

The female version prefaced the question with dysfunction already festering in the relationship. People are reacting to that, the porn is just symptom. The male version was a neutral question, minimal backstory. People respond in kind, as they have no reason to believe OP is enduring other dysfunctional elements to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:25 AM
5

I have a cadre of middle-aged+ single/childless aunts that live near each other, and they've banded together to take care of elderly relatives, wayward neices, nephews, etc. They like to get together and cook, drink, party, and when their schedules line up they all take a big fancy vacation together. They all seem pretty happy, and if a man wanted to enter the mix as more than a boytoy I think the matriarch would eat him alive. My aunts all have good jobs, nice houses, friends, and most importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:59 PM
–

The hairstylist gave kiddo a fuckboy haircut, I'm loling forever. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:51 PM
2

It doesn't, just don't be a fucking weirdo with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:13 AM
8

Guy 3; why bother if I'm not being entertained?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:12 AM
24

They often look like children. Thats the point. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:50 PM
2

you know we can view your posting history right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:26 PM
5

how has OP not be banned yet for repeatedly posting these bad faith rantstopics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:21 PM
27

I'm not sure what we're meant to do here. Be wrong, and then offer pussy as penance for being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:38 PM
20

Golly gee is this confirmation bias? It sure is Timmy, it sure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:35 PM
26

I'm sex neutral, so I'm never in the mood. I can be turned on or off, but sex is never something I'm active thinking about. My husband likes sex on a consistent basis, so he teases/touches/gropes/etc. me on a consistent basis. Physicality makes me receptive so when he wants to bone I'll be ready to go. The only time I'll turn down sex is if I'm very tired or ill, thankfully my husband can read a room and will shelve his desire until I recover. His grace when I turn down sex is reciprocated by ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:30 PM
3

Hard to say tbh. No, it's not hard to say. The foster system is child rape roulette.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:02 PM
2

Fuck. Our basement flooded. I'm not terribly upset, it's a thing that happens but you just take care of it and get through it. However my husband catastrophizes and now he wants to move out and sue everyone lol(?) Pray for me, the next 72 hours are going to be very shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:06 AM
5

sis(bro?) nobody knows what you're talking about. step 1: define the truth step 2: elaborate you're point in relation to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:16 AM
5

ooohh, are we witnessing a nervous breakdown? 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:13 AM
4

yeah, my standard is not a homoerotic muscle tart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:12 PM
1

god, thats even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:18 PM
0

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:17 PM
5

yes, TRP is fairly embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:45 PM
11

Mental health issues and lack of stable frame makes men way less attractive But Pete Davidson is fairly open about his instability and BPD diagnosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:43 PM
–

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:15 PM
–

Yes, same complaints have cropped up in figure skating circle. I've found myself enjoying ice dancing more so than pairs or singles figure skating, at least ice dancing looks fun/artistic, and the participants seem to be adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:15 PM
–

Well gymnastics certainly had a revamp, gone are the days of Béla Károlyi and his emaciated underage gymnasts. Now we have higher age requirements for competition and I'd say Team USA has been winning medals because of that pivot. But yes the IOC is hella corrupt, no question there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:11 PM
–

Watched a documentary about Russian figure skating factoriescamps, its wild they have 5 and 6 year old girls mastering all the triples, and then mastering quads by the time they're 11, 12 years old. When I was 5-6 I was mastering the waltz jump, by 11-12 I was training doubles and working up towards triples. Quads weren't even a concept for women's figure skating at the time. Now we have 15 year old Russian girls pulling off 4 quads a program, hopped up on PEDs, only to retire at 17 after blowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:00 PM
4

I donated my excess to moms with dry tits, had I known I could have made money hmmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:25 PM
16

Just....lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:21 PM
1

Shit, by 4 months I was -10lbs pre pregnancy weight, breastfeeding is like a weight-loss superhack.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:26 PM
–

Yes, and currently going through a revival (mainly for the aesthetic tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:47 AM
–

20.4%, husband likes T&A.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:12 PM
–

Gibson girls in Time magazine. I think its the first time there was an idealized representation of female beauty that everyone could fixate on. Shortly thereafter came cheesecake, then pinups, then Playboy, and now buttholes on the internet a mere mouse click away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:06 PM
7

Read some article about incels, after some digging found myself here. Came to gawk, stayed for lolz.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:49 PM
–

I think my 6 year old fat shamed me. kiddo: "I'll never be able to carry you mommy, because you'll always weigh more than me." my internal dialogue: ....you little shit. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:22 PM
-1

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:16 PM
2

The fuck?! I've been doing this forever, didn't know it was a fashion thing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:12 PM
1

I'm not into it, which means he's not into it, so it's just mediocre fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:53 PM
2

Because I got shit I gotta do, his urges aren't that consistent (could be 2 days, 4 days, maybe a week even), and female lead initiation is lame, the edge of ravenous is where we have the most fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:46 PM
2

If its been more than 3-4 days my husband (38 y.o.) get aggressively grabby, which lets me know he's feelin' some things and I should block out time for some sexcapades.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:38 PM
8

Isn't your much vaunted 80/20 rule only in relation to casual sex? what parent would agree to teaching their children this, when abstinence only education has held a large sway over education policy for the last..20 years? additionally, parents are already freaking out about CRT, you think they'd be on board with this? but go ahead and try to introduce a poorly misunderstood PUA concept to the boards of education in red states. there is only so much time in a school day, and our kids are dumbfuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:31 PM
1

There is nothing to be obtuse about, its a dumbfuck premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:13 PM
17

what in the actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:58 PM
1

THANK YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:45 PM
2

people still follow influencers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:44 PM
7

Instead of mad or understanding, why not apathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:50 PM
1

why are you typing like you just came from the 1800s lol Because I know how to speak English?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:37 PM
2

wait, what am I thinking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:35 PM
2

Youre clearing on the internet/reddit too much. yes I am, thats why I'm exposed to so many weak, manipulative, shrill, whiny 'men'. If you think youd encounter anyone like that in the wild good luck with that. why would I think that when I can gawk at their nonsense here? We dont talk about it openly we just use the knowledge to get on with our lives. Neat. And i know it hurts you probably but it works. Why would any of this hurt me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:14 PM
6

As far as I gather, the women here bust out TRP because RP dudes are weak, manipulative, shrill and whiny. I can't recall the last time I've seen anyone on PPD give a fuck about TwoX, Jezebel (is that still around?) or Louis CK. Your straw feminist is not on PPD, I don't know why you thought you'd find her here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:01 AM
5

The womansphere =/= the women of ppd...but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:30 AM
16

Many women here on PPD often lament stand up comics who they deem misogynistic, as well as movies “problematic” portrayals of women. We do? That's news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:32 AM
2

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:38 PM
2

I think they'd rub themselves raw from all the circlejerking they'd do over Nate. see! see! Tall psychopaths are P U S S Y S L A Y E R S
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:36 PM
4

don't forget the exponential spike in infanticide!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:17 PM
4

misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:51 PM
5

A handful of years ago I was watching Total Divas and the wrestler Natty (legacy wrestler, general babyface) wanted to spice up her marriage to Tyson Kidd. I believe they'd been together since they were teenagers, very vanilla, and were each other's one and only. So queue a montage of her trying different things (i.e. BDSM lite) and her husband expressing disgust or indifference. Eventually they settle on something; home invasion rape roleplay! So for their episode arc they went from handcuffs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:46 PM
1

Failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:33 PM
6

Dolls, fleshlights, coconuts, tailpipes, trees, McChicken Sandwiches, anthills, need I go on? I'd google more, but I don't want that evil in my algorithms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:29 PM
11

I said more likely, because they are more likely. "A greater proportion of women report fantasies involving masochism" which aligns with rape fantasies, however "a greater proportion of men report having fantasies involving sadism, exhibitionism, and fetishism compared with women". Ultimately rape fantasies have fuck all to do with my point, which is that men have low disgust thresholds, thus they happily and willingly stick their dicks into any and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:12 PM
4

Thats a whole lot of talk for "I didn't read, and I ain't got nothing to say".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:56 PM
0

I don't know about repression, but we definitely need a return to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:46 PM
2

Cucumbers, hair brush handles, and dildos versus Dolls, fleshlights, coconuts, tailpipes, trees, McChicken Sandwiches, anthills, need I go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:45 PM
9

I have at least 1 study backing up what I'm saying (funny, you didn't seem to read further than the opening sentence of the abstract) and you have....some tired quips about showerheads and dildos. "The little research that does exist primarily involves samples of men recruited in clinical or forensic settings (Abel, Becker, Cunningham-Rathner, Mittelman, & Rouleau, 1988; Bradford, Boulet, & Pawlak, 1992; Kafka & Hennen, 2002; Kafka & Prentky, 1992; Marsh et al., 2010) and case studies of women (…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:40 PM
5

Well the science is out there so, not quite my perception more like oh hey, facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:26 PM
9

I don't hate men, I'm just disappointed/unimpressed by a large majority of them. As I said else where, men take up the ends of the bell curve. More deviants and more saints but their deviancy is truly wretched.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:01 PM
3

I'm sure there are, but you'd be hard pressed to find them as men take up the ends of the bell curve whereas women congregate to the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:58 PM
34

Higher disgust thresholds. Overwhelmingly, men are more likely to fuck: * someone they hate * someone/something they're ashamed of * someone giving dubious consent * someone giving no consent * food * rotten food * inanimate objects * corpses * animals * children Like, don't y'all have a rock bottom, I'm-never-sticking-my-dick-in-that threshold? I will never not be amazed/horrified by the lengths some men will go to stick their dick into something. If men could refrain from sticking their dick i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:43 PM
5

??? What dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:57 PM
5

Unfortunately I cannot, I must use my shitposting time wisely, and the ROI is much greater here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:44 AM
5

Why do that when I can stay here and shitpost?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:28 AM
0

This is the energy I'm here for. 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:48 AM
1

oohh, well then TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:59 PM
0

MAJOR 🧢 what is that? the emoji? on my end it looks like a baseball cap?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:53 PM
2

this resonates with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:44 PM
3

I came to gawk, I stayed to shitpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:39 PM
2

"man of leisure" My vote is for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:16 PM
-3

small pp energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:51 PM
2

Valentines day is a scam. However, I do enjoy a manufacture reason to buy flowers so I bought myself a bouquet of roses, husband got a heart shaped succulent, and boychild got a magenta flowered succulent. Oh, and I got chocolate covered strawberries for husband and I. If the stars align, hopefully some lunch time sex is on the menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:34 PM
5

Ok? Not sure why this needed a whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:36 AM
1

And all the pilates/barre/yoga/dance studios I've been to are 80% women? Given the choice between bro gym, planet fitness, dance studio, or semi private apartment gym, I'm choosing the dance studio and semi private gym every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:35 AM
1

Fam, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:14 AM
1

That actually sounds like a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:13 AM
1

aw snap, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:00 AM
2

HA! thats actually one of the reason I want to read the bible. just get high as fuck and dive into that crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:36 PM
5

I want to read the bible as literature, but every time I try its such a slog. I can never get past the "Isaiah begat Josiah, who begat Ephraim, who killed 25 donkeys in the orchard, who begat Abihu, first priest of the canaanites, blah blah blah..." section. The bible needs a good editor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:31 PM
1

Also regarding the Guatemalan boy; he's "well known" in the community because his younger sibling has down syndrome + overcame leukemia so my sister went hard with fundraising, charity events, fun runs, puff piece segments on the evening news, etc, regarding down syndrome and leukemia. That's elevated his hmm...social clout(?) above being a kinda nerdy churchy kid thats been adopted and likes to run. Time will tell if that translates into girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:07 PM
1

All my zoomer male relatives seem to be doing ok. set A: 2 brothers, afro-caribe but grew up in the midwest. Heirs to (some of) the Rand Mcnally fortune. Went to private school, in sports, 1 of them is now in college and heading to the air force. Both tall, the older one is athletic, dark skinned, and takes after his father, the younger is light skinned with grey eyes, cute, takes after his mother. Both have had girlfriends, attended parties, typical pro-social teenage stuff. set B: adopted from…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:37 PM
1

Good for you, I'm glad you're not a rapist. Now go forth and tell your brethren to cut that shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:50 PM
3

I have a rapekink and even I know that rape is not okay. so how does that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:46 PM
3

Nope, never claimed so. I was asked a question and answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:22 PM
5

Good for you, here's a medal. 🥇 But alas, I do not believe you have been deemed the spokesperson for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:30 PM
9

I mean, y'alls the ones that keep raping so...stop raping and I won't think this way. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:16 PM
1

But you can't just spring that stuff on people at random, can you? why not? How do you feel someone out for being into that stuff? it usually starts 2-4 drinks in; "ay, this place sucks, my boy knows a party/I'm gonna fuck some shit up/wanna go get wrecked?" people who agree tag along, people who don't stay put.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:14 PM
4

history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:03 PM
5

oh, well clearly you've changed my mind. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:02 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:47 PM
0

What about a guy you're meeting at a nightclub or bar? Short hand excitement for a rando at a bar or club would be to produce primo coke/weed/molly and then lead me to a banger afterparty. Most of the things I listed I did with people I met that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:35 PM
1

All these instances happened, and were predicated on having nothing to do at the time: a game of tag in the forest after eating some mushrooms drive up to Windsor Canada to drink and gamble B&E an empty apartment, blocking all the drains and turning on the faucets renting a limo and visiting a strip club on amateur night party crashing taking a mystery drug and driving 95+ mph on country back roads wedding crashing get dressed up, walk into a expensive hotel, use their amenities, and then leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:06 PM
2

have fun drugs and share them make music or art people pay attention to host memorable parties spontaneity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:39 PM
5

Because we can get away with it. 💅💅💅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:28 AM
1

womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:16 AM
2

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:45 PM
1

Aww I love Alexa Demie, she has such baddie energy, however I can't believe she's 31!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:39 PM
1

Oh lawd, Euphoria through a ppd lens is just too much for me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:27 PM
4

I love Euphoria, but it bothers me that no one seems to have adequate indoor lighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:10 PM
2

The meanest ppl on this sub are probably two of the women. oh oh tell me, am I in the running?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:02 PM
7

...what.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:49 PM
1

lol the corp overlords pay me and obscene amount of money to sit at home and solve problems for 8 hours a day. Once those 8 hours are up my time is my own to do what I want. If they fuck up I can sue. If I dont like the terms I can leave for a better offer. As opposed to 24/7 servitude to a man while my brain rots, my body depreciates, and I'm constantly in danger of losing it all if one day he decides he's tired of my pussy. Hmm autonomy over my time and life...or servitude to a man (and all hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:44 PM
1

no argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:51 PM
1

Yeah, I use the downdog app as it has a variety of options in terms of length, difficulty, style, speed, breadth of instruction, area of focus, music, and instructor. Personally I prefer it to in person class cause I can choose what I want, how I want it delivered, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:50 PM
2

Height and money, because I never cared about those things to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:38 PM
2

mostly cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:37 PM
3

ha! actually I just have more time on my hands cause work has slowed down a bit. Regarding gimp girl, our similarities are; eating disorders, motherhood, and simping for our unemployed husbands. but thankfully, thats where they end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:33 PM
1

that means its a recovery day, so yoga.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:22 PM
1

😂 I think I'm insulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:15 PM
2

Trust, if I was her I'd already have insulted you, your husband, and then DMed you a picture of my butthole, asking if you're jealous. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:10 PM
3

oh Jesus god no. I may have a low key eating disorder and simp for my husband, but I'm not a bald Ukrainian cuckquean with an exhibitionism fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:06 PM
3

Look at it as so impromptu fasting, lean into it! see how far you can go!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:59 PM
8

this, but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:17 PM
4

1890 US census data, the Hajnal Line, the book From British Peasants to Colonial American Farmers by Alan Kulikoff, and the article Long Term Marriage Patterns from the National Bureau of Economic Research.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:31 PM
5

Our perception of history is colored by accounts of the wealthy, as it were, the wealthy tended to engage in young girl/old man marriages as a matter of politics/money/etc. However those marriages usually wouldn't be consummated until late adolescence/early young adulthood. We were dumb, but we could also observe that young mothers had a much higher mortality rate. Anyway, ye olden census records from England and then eventually the pilgrims/puritans/etc shows the hoi polloi got married on avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:56 PM
7

Corporate wage slave ensures her own retirement and 'fuck you' money, always a better deal than being at the mercy of a man and his naïve harem fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:39 PM
6

Unfortuately the sort of women who would agree to that probably have some sort of mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:26 PM
9

Also in Puritan times wasn’t it normal for a 30-40 year old man to marry a 16 year old? Actually not really. At the end of the 18th century, the average age for first marriage was 28 years old for men and 26 years old for women. During the 19th century, the average age fell to about 22 for women and 26 for men, but it never dipped below 22 for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:17 PM
1

Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:01 PM
2

🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:20 AM
1

no u
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:18 AM
3

Well they don't have pp's so probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:33 AM
2

Again, not a single mom, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:16 AM
1

neat. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:13 AM
3

Not a single mom, but thanks for trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:08 AM
5

Because its easy, and guaranteed to get a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:06 AM
5

always and forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:05 AM
2

what about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:04 AM
3

I gave my answer, you're the one thats flailing and pouting because no one is telling you want you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:03 AM
4

What do single moms have to do with anything we're talking about? Like, I'm not understanding this non sequitur, other than you think its an insult? a gotcha?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:51 PM
6

yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:49 PM
7

🤷 take it up with science then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:44 PM
5

small pp energy: an existential fear that you'll never be good enough because Bork Bork has a monster dong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:43 PM
1

No, I'm saying men who care about N count have small pp energy. If I recall my anthropology correctly, concerns of lineage (which is the base fear of N count) didn't come about until advent of agriculture, however hunter-gathers had been around since 1.8 million years ago, whereas the Neolithic period (agri revolution) only began like, I dunno 10k years ago. Hunter-gathers are more communal based, in ALL aspects; Childcare, food, vagina access, etc. Anway TL;DR caring about access and usage of v…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:36 PM
9

I'm just answering the question, "Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?" Because they have small pp energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:15 PM
2

I've heard chitter chatter that Diaz has had work done, subtle good work, but work none the less. Someone somewhere posted a before and after; tits, nose, lips, and cheeks. It was obvious but not glaring and not unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:05 PM
3

no, men who care have small pp energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:59 PM
7

small pp energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:56 PM
9

Disney LIED to me!!!! 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:29 PM
7

Why on earth would I have empathy for you? All you do is cry about not getting jailbait puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:04 PM
7

this is why i dont want to date women cuz they all have this mentality like "oh well he should just be happy with whatever." well im not gonna go for it. those grapes were sour anyway, nyah!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:47 PM
5

All of the left over 28 year old plus women can form their own country and create tourism dollars with Instagram influencer parks, cat cafes, and yoga studios and live in communist witch canals. They can use the money generated by tourism to hire men to build roads, do underwater welding, and maintain the nuclear plants. oh god, yes please. I vote to run the pilates studio/after hours witch coven.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:36 PM
2

yes, but the same could be said for most performance based art or sport for women (gymnastics, figure skating, ballet, etc). Pain is beauty and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:32 PM
2

True, I've dabbled in hip hop and jazz (certainly easier on the feet), but ballet is just the One That Got Away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:59 PM
14

I want him because he's hot, he could have anyone, but he wants me. Some girl thirst-tweeting at Jason Momoa that she'll ride his face has the unsaid subtext that her riding his face will blow his mind with desire for her. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:56 PM
2

Personal satisfaction. I always wanted to dance, instead I was a figure skater for 15 years. Now I have my chance to explore ballet so fuck it, I'm going all in. I'm not gonna get a job or go pro, but there are recreational programs near me that do put on recitals and performances.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:45 PM
1

I was recently googling Shaq's girlfriends to settle a debate with my husband, and it dawned on me that if I had a different personality, or grew up in LA/Miami I would have been highly successful as a thot for rappers/basketball/NFL players.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:38 PM
5

Damn, I'm starting to get fucked up ballet feet. I was hoping to include 'cute feet' as a part of my stop-being-a-work-from-home-gremlin 2022 glow up, but it looks like thats not in the cards. Going en pointe is pretty much saying 'hey, you got functional feet? too bad, I'm gonna fuck your shit up FOR FLAIR'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:30 PM
4

Arthur Schopenhauer ...wasn't he also a pedophile?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:55 PM
1

oh man, college flashbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:55 PM
2

Between 16 and 21 my husband was a pretty prolific fuckboi. N count of 50+, orgies, 3somes, whatever, whenever, whomever. By 20/21 he grew tired of the pussy carousel, as it goes hand in hand with drama, crazies, STD and pregnancy scares. When he met me he decided he was done with it for good, and relentlessly pursued monogamy and shortly thereafter, marriage. My husband's BFF is what I think of when y'all talk about Chad. He's tall, square manly jaw, beautiful blue eyes, thick black hair, muscu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:47 PM
9

Why would anyone do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:30 PM
2

he's pretty good looking, I prefer facial hair + slicked backed hair. I'm bad at rating so I guess, 8+?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:19 AM
1

hey that's my face! right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:47 PM
7

Marriage was never on my radar when I was 20 years old and my then boyfriend asked if I wanted to elope. We had only been dating for a month at that point. I have changed over the years, because I've grown up and taken on more responsibilities like a career and raising a child. But my husband has also changed, he's far less dramatic and impulsive, he's definitely developed patience and tolerance for other's shortcomings. I've discarded my youthful apathy because I have a child that depends on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:13 PM
1

/r/SkincareAddiction and youtube are the holy grail. However for the quick and dirty; sunscreen + moisturizer + an active of your choosing. If you don't mind research, The Ordinary has tons of reasonably priced, no BS products. I'm a fan of peptides, vitamin C, niacinamide, hyaluronic acid, and retinol (weaker, OTC version of tretinoin). Or you could just skip all that and get on /r/tretinoin, but its a powerful active than can fuck your shit up if you're not diligent about sunscreen + moisturiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:51 PM
1

The low end for age was 23 which I thought was ridiculous. I'm also biracial and have been ass deep in korean skin care/tretinoin for the past 6ish years. Religious sunscreen user, healthy lifestyle, blah blah blah. Regarding appearance, the lowest score was 7.1, it bounced around and then settled on 8.6. Personally I think I'm somewhere between 7 and 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:23 PM
–

lol that site rated me an 8.6, 27 years old (I'm 37), and a bmi of 19 (its 22). I'm also "Averagely normal". I believe truerateme rated me a 5 and then told me I had a long midface. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:47 PM
2

Did I mention he's unemployed? lol. He has a very beautiful face and sings like an angel. I'm not knowledgeable on dick size (not too much experience there) but its good enough for me, his ex, and a litany of hoes in his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:09 PM
2

Watching football is boring, being able to swing a 3some is at least kinda exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:05 PM
2

Well, 5 women thought so, lol. There's a running joke that Ric Flair had to wrestle for so long (into his 60's) because he has to pay out so much alimony and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:04 PM
2

Well, he's 5'8", 145 lbs, long brown hair, artsy/brooding musician. Pretty boy face, he'd make a perfect twink if he swung that way. Is that chad? I dunno, I think its crazy hot, so did his ex I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:58 PM
2

Also, have no idea who the last one was lol oh boy. Ric Flair was a professional wrestler that LIVED the gimmick. Flashy, arrogant, ladies man, if you've ever heard the Ric Flair quote its more or less biographical: "I'm Ric Flair! The Stylin', profilin', limousine riding, jet flying, kiss-stealing, wheelin' n' dealin' son of a gun!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:51 PM
1

hey I said both those things! but how are they brain breaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:46 PM
3

Surprisingly no drama was involved. Husband and ex broke up, somewhat amicably because she is a pretty cool person, just a terrible girlfriend to him. She hung around socially, I enter the picture and she encourages my husband to date me. Husband and I get together, she's still around, and one day we all get drunk together. Ex-gf says I'm pretty hot, next thing I know I'm face deep in muff and my husband is having the time of his life. Some weeks later we have a round 2, but then shortly thereaf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:46 PM
2

I don't particularly care for it as I'm very straight, so its for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:34 PM
1

wrinkles emanating from the corner of your eyes, usually triggered by smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:25 PM
1

True, but I'm not looking to catch HPV/the clap/whatever. Plus I think good pros would insist on a condom or no deal. Our previous 3somes were condomless but we were truly spoiled because she was an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:24 PM
2

Probably not, but even if friend in Cali came through I'd still insist on wrapping it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:19 PM
1

Nah, just FFM. I don't think husband is into MFM, very territorial. Also, I'm not interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:18 PM
1

well it is a 3some, so we're all just fucking each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:17 PM
10

Future time Orientation, i.e. you operate your life with a sense of delayed gratification, investing, and a perception of future needs and goals. As it relates to marriage, an example: single dad flirts with me at a gymnastics meet; do I reciprocate and bask in transitory validation, or do I rebuff him because I know energy spent on other men is energy I could spend on my husband, who already provides all the validation I need. With FTO thinking, I'll rebuff the single dad because ultimately his…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:15 PM
1

Husband wants a 3some before his 40th birthday, I'm trying to convince him to hire a pro but he has a very old school mindset towards working girls. (crackheads, CSA victims, and the johns are sexless losers/creeps). Additionally he cannot wrap his head around the idea of paying for sex, in fact its anathema to his concept of sex. I think the 3somes we had in college with his ex-g/f really colored his perception of how these things work. Like, 3somes are easy to pull off when you're 20, drunk, u…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:07 PM
0

I don't like men with money, as they operate in a very quid pro quo mindset. No amount of money would make it better, as my body feels ill at the idea of tolerating an unattractive man for cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:45 PM
3

introspection, resiliency, FTO mindset, the ability to extend grace, the ability to establish and hold boundaries, forgiveness, family oriented collectivism, optimism, and generosity. I think the most important skills are introspection and an FTO mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:09 PM
6

Jeff besos- Divorced physically unattractive, small pp energy Bill Gates- Divorced physically unattractive, beige personality Kanye West- Divorced unmedicated bipolar Dr Dre- Divorced alleged philanderer Brad Pitt- Divorced knowingly married crazy Ric Flair- Divorced 8x known philanderer, wholly incapable of monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:00 PM
14

Coming up on 17 years, still pretty happy with my marriage. My parents were together for 30 years, had a good life. My husband's parents were together for 23 years, also had a good life. Not surprising, when you have happy marriage role models in your childhood, its not difficult to pick up on the skills required to maintain your own happy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:44 PM
4

I don't think about them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:39 AM
–

No, it shows that women users of pornhub like hardcore porn, however only 25% of pornhub users are women. Everything else you said is conjecture, but I'll be sure to continue being disgusted by most men's sexuality, since they're the ones most likely to harm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:25 PM
–

So a quarter of pornhub users are women, and of those women, a majority of them like hardcore porn. Ok? What does this have to do with my statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:04 PM
–

Oh no, I'm very much pro-kink shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:48 PM
27

A significant portion of men's sexuality involves defilement/degradation. This reality taught me the handy skill of dissociation, so that's something I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:51 PM
1

Here's a handy dandy visual shorthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:05 PM
5

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:18 AM
9

At the heart of it all, the TRP dude is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:50 PM
4

Why? in this wholly arbitrary fantasy of yours, none of your conditions make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:18 PM
2

I dunno, sharing a pad with my besties, grifting old men out of dinner kinda sounds like a blast to me. And I don't know where you're getting dumpy from, that shit was swank as hell for a bunch of old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:06 PM
1

so...lifegoals then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:55 PM
25

I'm more worried about the impending heat death of the universe than I am about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:12 PM
1

And her husband...imagine actually being married to an OF woman. I'd bet money he probably encourages and/or helps produce her content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:46 PM
7

Men taking pride in their ability to hatefuck will never not disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:09 PM
3

tall and handsome You forgot jacked, rich, clean cut, blah blah blah <insert trait that is coveted but lacking>.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:59 PM
3

🤷 if he had charm and talent I'd fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:09 PM
11

Because unless we clarify, Chad is the superimposed phantom of y'alls insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:02 PM
2

My Chad looks like MGK with waist length black hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:52 PM
4

1.) meets my physical requirements (face, style, build, hair) 2.) does something observable that establishes mastery and confidence in a field I care about. (i.e. perform live music to a sizeable crowd) 3.) pays attention to me despite everyone else wanting his attention. Step 1 is the hook, Step 2 is the info I require for judgement, Step 3 is the greenlight. This is a personal take, you'd be hard pressed to find a highly agreed upon generalized statement for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:24 PM
1

My husband and I are close friends with his ex before me, she functions as godmother of sorts to our kid. We hang our regularly; individually, as a trio, or with her boyfriend (also a good friend of ours). She's a wonderful person but was a horrible g/f to my husband. Since I moved away from my hometown all my ex's are just Facebook friends now. We're cordial, send happy birthdays and such. One ex was originally a family friend so if we talk its updating each other about our kids, our families, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:20 PM
1

1 and 2. I'm pretty much turned off by the concept and execution of popular sports fandom. Its just so.....basic. It's like learning that a girl watches reality tv, basic right? Its not exciting, its not worth investigating, you don't want to hear them rhapsodize about it because, well, what is there to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:52 PM
2

yes, you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:36 PM
1

football, basketball, baseball I find these sports very boring, and if I'm spending time with a dude who likes to watch these sports, there is a high likelihood I'll have to indulge his fav, and I don't have time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:36 PM
1

Jojos I'm finding it hard to get into the Jojos, what is its charm?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:27 PM
1

Neutral. I've watched (and currently watch) my fair share of anime and cartoons. The only media that is an active turn off is right wing content and popular sports (football, basketball, baseball).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:26 PM
19

No, because I lived some SVU true crime shit when I was 14, no need to revisit it as a gratuitous narrative on prime time Tv. I'm paranoid of men and their intentions because of men and their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:58 PM
2

IQ wasn't the only measure, there were a battery of tests however IQ is short hand for the information I'm trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:31 PM
6

The school tested boychild's IQ; 130. They're saying we should enroll him in the gifted program. I was in the gifted program, but I have mixed feelings on it. On one hand I appreciated being cloistered with same skill peers from genpop school, we got to study more interesting topics at a quicker pace and have a degree of autonomy regarding our curriculum. However on the other hand accelerated learning gave me crippling imposter syndrome, glossed over my autism, and fostered/encouraged an annoyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:35 PM
2

Stats please. I mean, I already got them on my side, but curious to see what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:03 PM
5

37
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:04 AM
6

I got married to my husband after a month of dating, we were 20/21 years old and very high. The steadfastness of our marriage evolved over the length of our marriage, however prior to marrying him I was crazy about him (hence agreeing to his ridiculous proposal).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:05 AM
1

what is wrong with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:39 PM
19

Female. During child bearing years its a deal breaker, after menopause not so much. The stats bare it out; a (happily or at least functional) married 2 parent household is the best environment to raise a child. Life is hard enough, so if I'm responsible for giving my child the best chance at happiness, success, and security, I would be doing them a disservice to deny them that socioeconomic/psychological/cultural edge. Right now my son is bright and joyful. He knows he is deeply loved and has an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:28 PM
2

oh hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:37 PM
1

ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:59 PM
-1

My husband is far more social and musically/artistically talented than me. ETA: talent and sociability are not something I can settle on. That's pretty much asking me to be unattracted, and life is too short to put up with someone you're unattracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:36 PM
5

correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:36 PM
6

Sure. I don't truly know anything about the guy I'm checking out, but enough information is gleaned to determine if I should open myself to feeling something about him (lust, anticipation, excitement, attraction), or just leave it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:31 PM
6

Because the feeling of 'having a girlfriend' or 'having a boyfriend' is nice/wholesome/romantic/genuine/whatever, and carries the implication of reciprocity of feeling. As opposed to FWB which implies ambivalence/indifference and lukewarm reciprocity. When a man romantically likes a woman, a key aspect of his feelings is ownership. A girlfriend is his, the FWB is for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:14 PM
3

Maybe. There are all sorts of cues to riff a narrative on from just existing in space. Hair, clothing, jewelry, tattoos, gait, how they talk or interact others, facial and body animation, ease of smile, accessories, what they're doing with inattentive time, physicality, how they fidget, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:30 PM
62

Women do not have the sexuality of men. If I'm sexualizing a guy, its the whole of him. Physicality yes, but also persona, charisma, and how he makes me feel sexy. The only way I know how he makes me feel is by interacting with him or crafting a narrative around a persona he presents. EVERY MAN IS AN NPC UNTIL OTHERWISE STATED.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:27 PM
1

ethereal feminine touch wtf does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:51 PM
1

🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:15 PM
1

Maybe you shouldn't rely on job status/income to provide tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:54 PM
4

what do you want men to do? Stop driving women to initiate divorce would probably be a good place to start. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:39 PM
1

No, because I've never had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:35 PM
7

swimmers dont' have muscle. what.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:27 PM
3

Masculine: 83 Feminine: 94 Quadrant: undifferentiated I'm a cis female, but not sure what undifferentiated means in relation to all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:47 AM
1

Mandy Rose is like the ultimate baddie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:02 AM
2

I've answered this enough times to create an imgur album.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:00 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:58 AM
5

feeling bad for homeless people because they could not obtain X =/= agreeing to date someone that had trouble figuring out Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:55 PM
19

Yes, billions of people have figured it out; just because this little sliver of the web exists does not negate its relative simplicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:58 PM
21

Anyone that needs a how-to guide on the most basic shit ever (attracting a mate) is of no interest to me. Life is too short to spend it with a relationship/sexual market SPED student.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:33 PM
2

Wah wah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:34 PM
2

I love this band, but its really hard to wear their merch because their name is FAILURE. Shoe gaze space rock? Post grunge? I don't know what to call it, but its very chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:05 PM
6

niglet In high school I was on the volleyball team and it was at least 75% WOC so we called ourselves the Niglettes. I have nothing else to add besides this anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:48 PM
4

Then why are y'all so pressed that you can't obtain one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:50 PM
3

I don't think RP men are crazy; I think they're pathetic, shortsighted, and insecure, but not crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:40 PM
2

Where on earth did you get that idea from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:25 AM
5

What? I'm married and I have a kid. No one has managed to give me a good enough reason give a shit about any of this...or how any of it is my fault. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:10 AM
4

Wew lad, please tell me what exactly I've done that would cause men(!) to "become sociopaths". Who knew some cunt in the suburbs had all this power. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:57 AM
0

Oh! Well that's Shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:48 AM
0

What happened to poppy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:37 AM
2

Neat. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:28 AM
5

But why? The concerns and machinations of men I'm not fucking or raising are of zero importance to me. Men were on my side? Lol ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:38 AM
1

Yup, we're in the middle of making curry right now while our 6 year old is running around chattering about the royal rumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:34 AM
8

Ooooh noooo😱 whatever shall I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:28 AM
1

Strangely relevant song.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:13 PM
8

I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:30 AM
2

guy 1: at a party doing a silly waltz to some club music with a friend. Guy approaches and asks if he can cut in. I look at my friend, they shrug, so I said sure. Guy turns out to be a really good dancer. We make small talk and find out we have some friends in common. He asks for my number, I give it to him and he peaces out. A few days later he calls me and asks me to join him at a late night diner. I show up and we split a plate of nachos and get to know each other. He asks me if I want to go …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:44 PM
27

men: I NEED her to lust for me, or else I'm just being UsEd for BeTa BuX and then she'll cheat on me/leave me/cuck me for CHHHAAADDDD. also men: when I turned 35 45 55 65 I'll have so much bux I'll just buy an 18 year old. Is she into it? don't cuurr, had sex. I don't think men know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:14 PM
25

If the woman is supporting herself then no, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:34 PM
31

A moon face/round face/chubby cheeks. Lack of jaw, recessed chin. Pug nose, down sloped eyes. Jowls. Kyle Rittenhouse pretty much exemplifies everything I find physically ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:24 PM
2

Don't care for his age but he is(was?) beautiful. I am mostly familiar with him via Death Stranding. After googling, I have decided young Mads is fucking perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:51 PM
51

Taking care of a man is hard work. If sex is a low priority, companionship is met by friends/family, and child rearing is negligible (or already completed) then a man has to really bring something to the table to make all that labor worth it. Not surprising, most men don't bring much besides an unremarkable paycheck, more labor, and a sense of entitlement to her orifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:32 PM
-2

If he's hot- plus all the unsaid assumptions such as personality, temperament, interests, talent, values, humor, chemistry, etc., that black pillers like to conveniently ignore. 'Hotness' as a value is presumed to have achieved all my other standards + looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:12 AM
-2

I find the black pill rather nonsensical and extreme, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:46 AM
3

yes. ain't nobody got time for some crusty ass white dudes writing 45 minute symphonies that put you to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:13 PM
2

Look at the level of art and invention in the late 19th century and compare it to that of the late 20th century. Steam engine versus the internet, neoclassical landscape paintings versus VR/AR games. I don't understand your comparison, both periods and their contributions to humanity are merely data points on the march of progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:02 PM
2

Nah, its only a bad thing for low value people that can no longer participate in the mating game without tradcon affirmative action. Personally I like the freedom to fuck, marry, or just do whomever/whatever I want. I chose to get married young, but the key point is I chose when and whom I married rather than have that choice made for by some man in a funny hat, or because I was payment for 6 cows my father bought. Long live sluts and freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:49 PM
14

Is he hot? If he's hot then I want him to simp for me, and me alone. Everyone else can kick rocks. ETA: stoic game only works if you have to compensate for looks with MyStErY.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:29 PM
–

Probably not much different as he finds all of this (dating topics, PPD/TRP/BP, reddit, gender discussions) to be "some real stupid shit".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:59 AM
–

can't say he was a simp, but definitely a fuckboi in a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:10 AM
13

You heard it here folks; vetting is now manipulation, so its acceptable to lie and if we get hurt its our fault. Oh, but if we don't vet and get hurt, its still our fault. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:52 PM
–

My husband is just now discovering Fresh n' Fit podcast (someone brought them up in his stream) and he is utterly flabbergasted. "How the fuck are these two nerds giving out advice?" "Why are they assholes to women? What's the point?" "You know how I got laid? I was nice to people, and I didn't even have a car or a job." "These guys seem like they have a lot of problems in life." He's so blissfully ignorant of dating coaches/PUA/seddit/TRP/manosphere/etc; it's kind of adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:42 PM
4

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:46 PM
0

Trent Reznor I'm low key concerned I might have a nervous breakdown when this day arrives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:57 PM
1

In the US at least, anybody that is attractive and social has probably been to a night club or bar. There is a brief window of time where its not cringe, but its almost a right of passage for young adults here. These people go on to have careers in STEM, business, marketing, Law, Education, blue collar, etc, or they wash out as addicts and criminals. They get married and have kids or just play the field for the rest of their lives. Its a very large pool and hard to drawn any generalized characte…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:11 PM
4

Goth book nerd at heart, currently posturing as a poised, competitive, "wellness culture" yoga mom. Lots of neutral tones, matcha powder, organic produce, low key orthorexia, fresh faced makeup, classes at boutique Pilates studios, and a closet full of yoga athleisure. I am insufferable, but I also want my son to fit in with the precocious Montessori kids that have blinding white teeth. Those kid's moms are carbon copies of what I outlined above. In the privacy of my home I smoke hella weed, wri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:44 PM
7

Put her in sports, cook healthy at home, remain fit/active yourself, and as much as you can, avoid exposing her to trauma. If she's pretty and social, the FSM will take care of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:27 PM
18

You believe living in a modern patriarchy is tantamount to you being a slave? Its called a comparison, not an equivalency. Although I can't say I'm surprised by your bad faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:50 PM
1

Is it because most men are fundementally poor partners and have unattractive qualities that eventually seep through the cracks? yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:53 PM
6

I am also kinda icked out that they have no dignity. I feel like I've brought this anecdote up before, but oh well here it is again. My husband and I were out once, and we struck up a convo with a lady at a bar. She told us she was an BBW amateur fetish model and proceeded to show us he 'portfolio' on IG. It was just a bunch of poorly done thirst trap in cheap PVC wear and choke-me-daddy attire, but what fucked me up the most was that interspersed between big titty goth girl cosplay were picture…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:10 PM
3

I came of age on the internet; we got a 56k modem, Gateway PC, and AOL 3.0 when I was 11 years old. I pretty much saw the rise and fall of all major internet trends, however I've noticed little translated into meat space life. When I was in high school Myspace was the dating app, yet people still met and hooked up at parties. I never dabble too much in that aspect of the internet as I was always coupled up and then married by the time dedicated dating sites took off. I always had the sense that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:53 PM
2

hey can look totally fine, beautiful, even, but the smallest thing will burn them to the ground in no time at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:28 PM
1

Seriously. I grew up in a house built in 1898, I have memories of watching my dad rip out ancient knob-and-tube wiring, having to lay down serious $$$$ to replace all the lead plumbing/asbestos, and more or less spend every childhood summer at the lumber yard/hardware store (because the upkeep never ends). The house we recently moved into was built in 1907 and it only has about 6 outlets for the entire house. We only agreed to this house because a fire gutted 75% of it about 10 years ago so it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:22 PM
2

I have zero opinions on circumcision. Get it done, or don't. My son has body autonomy, so who am I to have an opinion on a bit of dick skin? Getting it done mean more work for me and taking a choice away from him. So, the less interference the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:38 PM
2

what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:12 PM
4

zero fucks given. My son is uncircumcised, but only because I was too lazy to deal with wound care on a new born.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:16 PM
20

For many houses, the older it gets the better L-O-FUCKING-L outdated electrical wiring. Shit lead pipes. Shit lead paint. rotted foundation. shifted foundation. drafts. asbestos. tree roots growing into pipes. Carbon monoxide leaks. These issues don't arise from neglect, they are literally just the reality of dealing with older construction. So tell me again why I should choose that over newer, lead free, energy efficient construction. Your metaphors are a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:11 PM
5

I've financially supported my husband for the entirety of our marriage (16, almost 17 years), during that time he's enjoyed touring, being a house husband, and being a SAHD. We met when he sold me weed; fast forward a year of friendship while he bangs sluts on the side, one night we hook up and then next thing I know we're married. (I was 20, he was 21). I have a N count of 3, he has an N count of 50+. I'm thankfully he has such a high N count as he got the 'fuck boy' desire out of his system by…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:46 PM
1

I wish I didn't read this sentence. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:01 PM
2

Its not the only method, it's just the easiest. Plus the whole leg up on life aspect for children shouldn't be discounted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:53 AM
3

Of course I stan for marriage. Its an ideal expression of love/companionship and the best means of passing along privilege, wealth, and values to my child. Sorry y'all come from broken homes I guess. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:17 AM
1

I don't really care. Their presence or lack doesn't affect my attraction to a man. I have 3 tattoos, I would have gotten more but I decided to spend my money on weed instead. My husband has 1 tattoo, he'd also get more but like me, he rather spend his money on weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:55 PM
10

My type is emaciated musician/alt-boys in all black. These are the men I'll be most flirty and open with. Should they approach, I'll receive them warmly and escalate. Other men, outside of my type, are NPCs. They'll have to work X times harder to hold my attention, overcome my indifference, soften my bitch shield, etc. I've dated men outside of my type and it always resulted in a lackluster romance and tepid feelings. I didn't get excited for these men, I didn't day dream about them, or feel gid…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:41 PM
2

Yeah if I was living like an asshole above my means. As stated earlier, alimony in my state is 33% of my income minus 25% of his and child support is a pittance. Property is in my name and was inherited, as were my stocks, thus they are considered non-martial assets. The biggest ding would be retirement and stock profits, but I'm not too fussed about my husband receiving half of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:04 PM
3

you wouldnt feel any way about that? my feelings: it seems pretty fair all things considered. and you'd be totally cool with that... my feelings: I don't have a problem with him remaining in his child's life Child support is a given, why would I want our child to suffer because I earn more than his father?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:48 PM
2

Well considering my husband doesn't have shit for brains I don't have a problem with him remaining in his child's life. Additionally alimony is only 33% of my income minus 25% of his, plus the division of retirement and stocks...it seems pretty fair all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:31 PM
9

What? "The mother of a child born out of wedlock is the custodial parent upon the child’s birth. The father has essentially no rights unless and until paternity has been established and he goes to Court for a Court Order regarding parenting time. When a couple is married, both parents are considered the custodial parent and legal guardian at all times, until a Court says otherwise." Additionally, unwed fathers are liable for back pay of child support from day of the child's birth (in addition fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:01 PM
6

My salary is covered under 'our shit' as its my salary that is currently paying for our shit. For fucks sake its just money, you can always earn more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:49 PM
2

cool. enjoy your rest and relaxation then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:38 PM
7

Well considering I married my husband so we could create a family unit and he'd be entitled to half our shit, I don't feel any particular way about it at all. He is my family and we created our wealth together, therefore he is entitled to half of it. I don't understand why I should have feelings about this very banal aspect of our marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:35 PM
2

Having a track record of success, responsibility, resiliency, dedication, and FTO thinking is a benefit in all areas of life. If someone wants to LDAR because hard work is hard :(, then godspeed I guess, you won't be missed. I would say a good life entails health, companionship, and a loving family. 2 out of 3 of those are achieved via careful vetting and a healthy marriage. If you choose poorly its not the institutions fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:17 PM
6

full agreement there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:07 PM
6

Yes, that is the point of marriage. An economic unit formed that contributes to, and benefits from community resource. Should the unit split up, the community resource are split up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:53 PM
12

What wealth? The median income for a fulltime working man is about $57k.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:45 PM
24

A marriage doesn't grant rights or legal benefits, it is a license issued by the state recognizing a legal and economic unit. The license governs things such as property, government benefits, retirement, inheritance, taxes, next of kin, insurance, and custody. If none of these things are your concern then don't get married, no one is asking you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:41 PM
-3

If someone wants to short change themselves of reasonable attributes for a good life, feel free, but yes I would consider that person an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:26 PM
2

I suspect fat women don't think about their fatness nearly as much as the men of PPD. At least /u/purplish_possum owns it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:31 PM
8

No, it is fairly simple. Non idiots have a track record of success, responsibility, resiliency, dedication, and FTO thinking. Idiots will fail in one or all of these areas. Not sure what your whore comment is about, other than some petty non-sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:26 PM
7

About what, my reality and the reality of my family/friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:06 PM
27

Well sure, if you married an idiot. But non idiot men exist, and they make fine partners for the women that will have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:09 PM
1

Well, he didn't really ask me out; my lease was up and I needed a place to stay. He lived in a party house with a spare bedroom. As 'friends' he said I could take the spare. The night I moved in we slept together, then we got married a month later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:13 PM
1

Eh no food included, he has to bring his own snacks and lunch. Its gymnastics camp, so 6 hours a day of drills, routines, conditioning, etc. Maybe I'm just a cheapskate. If it was a month instead of 2 weeks I'd be less put off by the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:08 PM
1

When I met my husband I knew I wanted him, but it took me a year to make a move (or more accurately, allow him to make a move on me). yes flirting, giggling, 1 on 1 hang outs, deep talks, buying him food, always sitting next to him and finding reasons to be by him, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:38 PM
11

Its nice to see more women get in on the grifting game, get that cash ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:09 PM
9

Based Death Stranding vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:50 PM
–

Why are summer camps so fucking expensive? I'm paying the park district $660 for only 2 weeks?!?! That boy better know how to do double back handspring tuck by the end of camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:31 PM
–

Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:13 PM
–

The only peer I know than owns their home is my BFF and her husband. Everyone else is either renting a house or an apartment. I don't know if student loans are the main culprit, but actual home prices (in good cities/neighborhoods with good schools) are fucking ridiculous. In my little township outside of Chicago, a 4 bed, 2 bath 1,394sq house but in 1917 is going for $500k.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:01 PM
1

At age 24 and a body count of 80 is very extreme. My husband's N count was 50+ at 21, which I thought was marginally higher than average until I stumbled upon this cretinous corner of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:17 PM
4

, the only way men can protest the growing gynocentrism and misandry among women is via collective bargaining. HA! and in a another episode of Things That Will Never Happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:10 PM
2

All of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:37 AM
–

Its so hard to avoid work place cattiness, because I generally agree with it. But I know I could just as easily be on the other end of it, so for now I respond with ambiguous emojis and gifs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:39 PM
–

That might be the new reddit block feature?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:15 PM
5

his inept and panicked thrusts is a no go. this is poetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:31 PM
2

So how does it feel to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:07 PM
7

you'd probably do better looking for women at a poetry club please, lets not do this. Signed, a moderator of a poetry club
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:42 PM
1

My heart is fine thank you, I just don't find pathos an effective aphrodisiac.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:18 PM
6

Yes I watched the movie, there was nothing revelatory or thought provoking about it. Sad girl is sad, some dude takes an interest in her dopey ass, the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:53 PM
9

Compassion is one step removed from maternal affection, so that's going to be a no from me. I want a sad girl why? sad people are sad to be around and it takes an enormous amount of energy to deal with them. a girl to who my love affection attention acceptance would actually mean a lot rather then just being a number. A sad girl is no more likely to cherish your affection than a club thot. Her sadness doesn't imbue her with specialness, she's still a sentient meat sack intrinsically drawn to mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:31 PM
1

That's OP's term, take it up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:17 PM
10

do you ever reflect on what happens to men after your break ups? No, why would I do that? Unless there are children involved, an ex is an ex is an ex. There is a reason they're not in my life anymore; keeping tabs is just entertaining old ghosts and wasting everyone's time. Also, being deemed a 'heartless sexual predator' does not negate the risk of heartbreak. These are not mutually exclusive terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:51 PM
127

Men who have no relationship skills at 30 are prime bait for gold diggers, users, abusers, and manipulative women. good fucking luck. At 30 the best of them will have access to 21 year old models. And the worst of them will have average girls who respect them to the highest degree. wew lad 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:05 AM
1

Since covid started I've played: Persona 5, Persona 4, Persona 5 Royal, Persona 5 Strikers, Death Stranding, The Sims 4, Final Fantasy 10, Civ 6-New Frontier, Kingdom Hearts 3, and Cyberpunk 2077. I don't think gaming is dead, it just goes through evolutions and fads like any other art medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:05 PM
2

I have an hourglass figure. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:32 PM
1

I'm only 2 years old than Megan Fox, so probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:50 PM
2

Italian beef with giardiniera.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:50 PM
5

Men who know how to have mutually enjoyable sex are rare and hard to find, no sense in passing one up just to sample a buffet of mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:22 AM
4

Well I've known /u/purplish_possum about as long as I've been on ppd (way too long), and he's spoken at length about his exes, his kids, his current g/f, etc. He never struck me a lying about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:44 PM
13

Fuck the haters, your relationship with your gal pal is wholesome as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:15 PM
12

My husband and I got drunk/high and eloped when we were 20 and 21 (I had an N count of 3 including him, he had an N count of 50+). 10 years later we had a child. 6 years later here we are. For the entirety of our marriage I have financially supported my husband because he is (or was, thanks covid) a lead singer in a touring band. The few times he had a "real job" we were both miserable and fought the most. The dynamic of our marriage is "do what works, and then repeat that". My husband prefers c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:49 PM
14

Op has a long and whiny past of being obsessed with the sex lives of high school girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:09 AM
2

Never seen Girls, but I find him attractive for much of the same reasons as u/SmurfESmurferson.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:59 PM
2

A++ Under 40, I've never struggled attracting anyone I wanted, and ultimately I married they guy I wanted the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:51 PM
0

HA. I was just about to post the exact something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:50 PM
2

Is it okay for you? It depends, do you have a beautiful face and quasi-restrictive eating disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:30 PM
9

comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:39 PM
4

when i was young my dreamboat was 5 foot 2 dave vanian from the damned i had zero conception of his height My entire sexuality was molded around Trent Reznor, and he's only 5'6". I as well had no concept of his height until someone pointed it out to me a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:53 PM
5

excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:19 PM
10

Oh Conor, the king of early tumblr thirst traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:06 PM
15

God damn I'd fuck the shit out of MGK. I'm not a fan of his music but he is an artist, so that's an automatic pass. He's into fashion, subversion, tattoos, what's not to like? I'm also not a fan of the short blonde hair, If he had dark or longer hair he'd be a 10/10 in my book. Pete Davidson is hit or miss; tattoos, talent, and chaos are plus, but face isn't quite there for me. His smile can be a bit too goofy at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:37 PM
0

God damn, this is the burning man effigy of strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:05 AM
1

What men are requesting that you be their personal therapist or psychologist? The closest situation I can see to this happening is a man opening up and talking about their issues and it was overbearing to the woman Well there you go. For some men, once they've stuck their dick inside a woman a few times they decide she's the perfect person to hear about the time they tried to kill themselves or how their uncle molested them when they were 6 or some shit like that. Nigga take that to the professi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:54 AM
3

White Claw is vile, I don't understand how anyone can drink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:08 PM
2

What does the Middle East and South America have in common? They like to cheat the fuck out of my company, and I'm getting real tired of their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:05 PM
1

A therapist help patients develop better cognitive and emotional skills, reduce symptoms of mental illness, and cope with various life challenges to improve their lives. Whereas a psychologist studies and helps treat people’s cognitive, emotional, and social processes and behaviors. That's a pretty tall order for an untrained SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:37 PM
1

im saying women need to take responsibility and stop being a bunch of bitches lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:04 PM
12

It's telling that you conflate 'being an unpaid psychologist' with emotionally supporting an SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:19 PM
15

Its not a turn on or turn off, I don't care either way. Being an unpaid psychologist is a turn off, as is an inability to express emotions other than lust or rage. Be a human, but an emotionally healthy and resilient one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:44 PM
12

I know she cares about me and is only sleeping with me When men play word games, it usually means they're sleeping with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:40 PM
5

The day I married my husband he had -$87 dollars in his bank account. He is current funemployed because touring musician + covid = practically no income (studio gigs and tutoring only go so far when every other musician in the tri-state area has the same idea). In a good year he might earn $30k, I currently earn $90k plus investments and property.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:14 PM
1

Why would I mention happiness when that's not something I can quantify for anyone else? I'm happy, and presumably people in my community are happy if they haven't pulled the trigger on divorce yet, but that's as far as I'm willing to speculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:41 PM
6

hmm no, but hey, don't let genetics get in the way of your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:31 PM
15

It's a shame he doesn't like you for the woman you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:33 PM
2

Homer Glen I'll have to know I live in River Forest. I did consider Homer Glen, but that shit is Trump territory, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:26 PM
–

Avan Jogia well hello there...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:03 PM
–

Embarrassed for him, the mockery would be endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:35 PM
4

half white.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:09 PM
2

Actually, I didn't make any of those, you read those in I should have specified, it was a generalized take on accusations I've received on PPD because I can be disagreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:00 PM
2

Virtually everyone I know is married, and there isn't a single divorce in my social group, family, or extended family. The doom and gloom of divorce, custody battles, spiteful exes, abuse, unhappiness, baby mama/daddy drama, alimony, child support, etc are so foreign to my life. Per my little township outside of Chicago, only 5% of people identified as divorced, and looking at households that are headed by a husband and wife as a percent of all families, my township has Married-couple families a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:53 PM
–

What if you get fired or quit your job, do you still get it? If you're referring to health insurance, yes BUT!! that is a very very recent phenomena curtesy of Obamacare/ACA. Like, one of the key ideologies of the legislation was to decouple health insurance and employment. what if you get a illness that doesnt go away and you cant work? does the company have to keep you? No. Most states have this concept of at-will employment which more or less means a company can fire you for any fucking reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:24 PM
–

Why so personal? For a 'selfish, short-term thinking of a narcissistic western woman' I feel like I'm doing pretty well. Happily married for 16 years, 1 child, new house, new job, family, friends, etc. I find it so funny that off handed snark is met with proclamations of doom, spinsterhood, loneliness, threats of being pump and dumped, accusations of obesity/ugliness, etc., etc. When really I'm just some lady shit posting on the internet in between zoom meetings at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:41 PM
–

yeah, they probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:53 PM
–

...ok and? 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:35 PM
–

White Widow. I smoked it well after I was an established stoner, but it's effects recaptured that first-time-getting-high euphoria and giddiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:39 PM
–

Aww why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:56 AM
–

Wooo!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:53 AM
–

Everytime I've done a shot, it's been foisted on me, I don't really have a preference. However I'm current drinking Carolans Irish cream with a splash of almond milk. This took way too long to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:49 AM
–

I'm drunk, ama. Eta: I'm also very stoned. Eta2: Now we're earnestly doing Creed karaoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:37 AM
14

Pretty boy face, slender/sinewy/lanky body, at least 5'6", long dark hair, mischievous smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:29 PM
3

My man pretty much makes $0, and it hasn't been a problem for me. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:22 AM
3

Why would I care about men of your generation when I'm relating an anecdote about my mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:23 PM
8

oh no don't you remember? The Wall ACKSHUALLY means all those grannies can't get commitment from nursing home Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:27 PM
11

The thirst never ends does it? My mom is 71 years old, in the 7 years since my father died she's had to turn down 6 men trying to be her boyfriend; the latest is a recent widower (as of Sept 2021). The man is a long time family friend, actually the father of my childhood best friend, his wife was also my piano teacher. He's known my mom for about...32 years? As far as I gather he was faithful and steadfast to his wife, but 3-4 months after she kicks the bucket he's already sniffing after my mom.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:11 PM
73

I didn't know painal, dick choking (until vomit), and prolapse were included in the Kama Sutra.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:44 PM
23

Face above all else. I mean, its what I'll be looking at the most, so I better be enamored with it. My husband has a pretty boy face (boyish, delicate, sharp), and I still swoon when he looks at me. I've never crushed on a guy because of his bicep, or doodled hearts around his name because of his height. Muscles and height are just ancillary attributes but they don't make or break attraction unless they trend towards the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:40 PM
2

Neat. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:00 PM
4

No, I quite like the time I live in. My livelihood is not dependent on a man, and no one interferes with my marriage. I have full autonomy over my bedroom and my life, it's wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:52 AM
9

Co-signed all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:44 AM
11

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:25 AM
2

Can't CMV; as much as I can be tolerant, I believe the trans issue is a mental health issue and that truly dysphoric individuals are vanishingly thin. My husband I are (or were) close friends with a MtF transperson that was groomed and sexually abused/exploited by a much older woman (43) when they were a teenager (16). In addition to the sexual abuse this person was always the butt of the joke and the bottom of the male friendship hierarchy they had in their formative years (middle + high school…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:59 PM
1

So, you don't have a better suggestions, you're just complaining to complain then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:35 PM
10

Don't RP men prefer sluts, preferably of the mentally ill variety? And based on what they pursue, they sure seem fond of obese single mothers. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:50 PM
3

Does human depravity know no bounds?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:35 PM
2

😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:28 PM
3

🤷 as long as you find your people, mazel tov.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:27 PM
3

Choking and spit drift into degradation territory, and I think degradation with sex is consequence of trauma (or trauma based mental illness).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:21 PM
3

You mean my husband and the two LTR boyfriends before him? If they "clown me" after we broke up, why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:17 PM
5

No, I just think its gross and mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:03 PM
9

I will absolutely kink shame. In fact, I think this world needs more kink shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:02 PM
2

Everything I quoted makes me want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:41 PM
5

I just need someone who is ok with being choked and letting me spit in their mouth 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:29 PM
3

no, its an imaginary waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:51 PM
2

The answer is to socialise them before the age of 3-5. If they don’t become “cool” by then what? there is no concept 'cool' at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:56 PM
1

an obnoxious term for an obnoxious archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:48 PM
4

Congrats you just described every 12 year old key board warrior and shit talker on online video games I'd say shit posting transcends age, time, or hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:33 PM
0

oh my, behold the slang pejorative of 2020: Karen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:30 PM
0

At least you can get a degree of satisfaction in real life, I’d think. Probably not. If I was a fuckwad IRL that's a whole lot of social currency I'm robbing from not only myself, but my family. Remember, no one likes a Karen, and if I'm fuckwad IRL I'm definitely going to be called a Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:22 PM
-1

I never said I was nice, its just my intention (which generally has fuck all to do with reality). But in any case, being a fuckwad here saves me the headache of being a fuckwad IRL, its a trade off I'm willing to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:15 PM
1

yes, this is a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:47 PM
2

fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:44 PM
6

Jesus Christ. I have mean thoughts sometimes. Maybe I think my boss's makeup is a bit garish. Or the crossing guard looks like hung over shit. Or my ballet teacher looks a little fat in her leotard. I know better than to voice these thoughts out loud, as they are shitty, bitchy, judgy observations that serve nothing and no one. But these thoughts and observations exist regardless of my intention to be a 'nice person'. So I come here and unload that impulse to be shitty/judgy/bitchy towards IRL s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:43 PM
12

Then the true nature of female and males is trash, either way the jokes keep coming and I'm here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:09 PM
1

🤷 do you have better phrasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:47 PM
7

"OW MAH LEG!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:32 PM
4

I don't know what was so objectionable about my phrasing, do you have a better way to convey "being a bitchy for no reason"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:29 PM
13

Why would I need a therapist or girlfriend when I can shit post on the internet? My father was a lovely man, minimal trauma, no hatred of men, I just find this corner of the internet amusing and the bit players are entertaining, kinda like trashy reality tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:28 PM
32

One of the reasons my relationship is so happy and loving is because I channel all of my mean girl energy into this sub rather than IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:18 PM
2

Much appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:14 PM
2

Blood Meridian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:46 PM
4

I discovered Trent Reznor when I was 12 years old, and that angryboi goth daddy set the bar for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:19 AM
1

Welp, I am a mom. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:28 AM
2

!!!! I'm jealous of your hair, I've always wanted your type of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:26 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:24 AM
2

your hair has so much beautiful volume, my god. 😍 Personally I think scruffy face is Chadly McChaddington versus just-ok-attractive whilst clean shaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:09 AM
3

thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:49 AM
2

You look like some bollywood fuckboy. I swear this is a compliment, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:48 AM
3

Damn, we got Jawsus The Redeemer over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:07 AM
1

I'm pretty sure i tried on both options at the optometrist, and both styles made me look like a beady eye'd cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:04 AM
2

Nope it was sincere. You have good bone structure and...head shape. but thats getting creepy so I'll stop here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:57 PM
4

...🤷 they're glasses? I dunno, I thought they fit my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:51 PM
3

Nice chin/lower jaw. I bet incels would murder for your lower 3rd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:45 PM
2

Oh hurray, the only part of purge worth a damn. Anyway, here I am again. And again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:43 PM
3

Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:35 PM
2

I've been faithfully and happily married to my 5'8" 150 lbs funemployed musician husband for 16 years. I have an N count of 3, he has an N count of 50+ before we eloped whilst drunk and high in our early 20's. No cheating, no drama, no jockeying for power or psychosexual neurosis. He thinks virgins are lame and was disappointed by my low N count. I think men with typical careers are lame and was disappointed when he had a 'standard job'. We genuinely like each other and try to bone as much as po…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:14 AM
5

Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:47 AM
19

Neither, because these are nonsensical options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:16 AM
23

If you are small/feminine looking/boyish/cute it would do you well to pickup music/art and lean into alt-fasion. Some women love androgynous artsy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:39 PM
2

A fool and his money are soon parted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:08 PM
1

If I'm not paying attention to most men, then the presence of a woman compounds my apathy towards any given man. Yes, if you want to be literal about the term NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:58 AM
8

No. 99.99999999% of men are NPCs and I think nothing of them until they do something and I have to react. Then my judgement is either 1.) Gross 2.) Danger or 3.) Curiosity Other women only serve as an NPC status multiplier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:43 AM
1

Upvote for Crunch Hardtack
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:49 PM
2

🙄 Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:46 AM
-1

Lol he is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:26 AM
12

You realize scouring the web for naughty pictures of employees cost corporations time and money right? After the initial background and criminal check (time + money) no fucks are given so long the employee's shit doesn't impede revenue and shareholder obligations. The current VP of marketing tech and data services in my company used to be a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader, she has skimpy bikini calendar pics all over the web and no fucks are given. She does her job, and she does it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:25 AM
8

My husband spent Xmas dinner telling his mom everything she did wrong with the chicken, and then MIL almost set the house on fire, again. To be fair, MIL really dropped the ball on dinner, even she admitted it was bland and dry. She's normally a phenomenal cook, but that year she definitely phoned it in. Another year she made a super complicated rum cake that was awful. So she threw it out, but then a raccoon got to it and it promptly killed the raccoon. I don't think I've ruined a Christmas, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:54 AM
7

Gimpgirl has a cuckquean fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:23 AM
12

11 tears old. I was standing in line for a roller coaster at 6 flags. I felt a hand caress my back and I thought it was my cousins messing with me, I turned around it was just a sea of people, my cousins were in fact ahead of me. So I turned back around and the hand returned, this time heading straight for my non existent boob. I looked and it was a large adult male hand, callused. Another hand appeared at my south of my waistband and started grabbing, probing. At this point I freaked out so I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:46 PM
3

Yes. Men I Trust is a band I'd like to get into, but they are a bit too repetitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:39 PM
9

Having to get to know a new person, all their quirks and disappointments, what their triggers are and how to avoid them, finding out if or how I fit into their family and social matrix is fucking exhausting. 10 years is barely a blip on my desired relationship time scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:37 PM
1

This is the longest day. My boss and 2 of my coworkers are out and my client is closed until Jan. 6th, but I still have shit to do and no coworker/client chatter to keep me busy. Like, I should use this time to tidy up some program specs, but instead I'm blank scrolling reddit and pestering my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:55 PM
3

😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:08 AM
4

You kid, but my mother was recently telling me about this 5'3" nerdlet she ghosted as a young woman so she could travel abroad and marry an exciting + tall white man. Coincidentally, this condition seems to be passed down on my father's side of the family. Hmmmm..... af/bb confirmed, now I gotta hearing-aidmax.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:03 AM
0

I keep telling myself this, but I really need to get serious about my hearing loss and figure out a hearing aid. 😔 I don't know if it's denial or laziness; probably a combination of both. I used to blame cost for my procrastination but the tech evolved and has driven the price down. Bone conduction hearing aids seem kinda neat and cyborgish, but that requires an actual procedure, insurance, doctors appointments, etc. Whereas I can just roll into Costco, pick up a hearing aid OTC, and hope for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:47 AM
3

All of the above. Functional Fem-spergs mask to survive, and personally my mother made sure I learned girl game+grooming upon threat of a Hard Life. As expected, men are willing to tolerate social deficiencies so long as the woman is hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:44 AM
1

I'm an INTP female with a double whammy of autism, however I've never been single for any appreciable amount of time. I seem to attract extro-charisma full of feelz men who view my aloofness as a challenge. However once in a relationship with me they discover the aloofness can't be broken as its rather baked into my personality. Soft and warm I am not, however men who like it seem to appreciate my counterbalance to all their feelz and bad logic. I don't think a man with my traits would do very w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:43 AM
1

indoor shoes, outdoor boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:17 PM
10

eh, this is his schtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:10 PM
5

I did, but you seem to have a problem understanding inference. Here let me spell it out for you; no, I would not be ok with my husband sleeping with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:01 PM
12

37, purple, married 16 years. My parents were happily married for 30 years until my dad passed away from cancer. My Husband's parents were married for 23 years until his father passed away in a car accident. All my childhood friend's parents were married and have remained married. All my husbands childhood friends parents were married and have remained married. Our current friends and cousins are married or perma-LTR'd and their parents are still married. Our son's friends parents are married. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:53 PM
6

No, its annoying. My OP was clear; you asked a question and I answered. You asked a further question and I reiterated my answer. At this point its no longer inquisitiveness, you're dishonestly begging the question to arrive at your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:25 PM
7

admit what? what are you digging for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:29 PM
10

Because were talking about porn, not having having sex with other women. If the question was "Do you expect your man not to have sex with other women while in a relationship?" I would have a very different answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:46 PM
5

I don't consider porn cheating (so long as it stays within the boundaries I outlined), there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:27 PM
0

who are total strangers, to approach you out of the blue? Don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:16 PM
7

The topic is porn, you're talking about cheating, please keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:05 PM
10

Getting old sucks, reason number 24691: Husband lifted wrong and strained his back, I slept wrong and strained my neck. We tried to get busy earlier but felt worse, so sex is off the table until we're no longer hobbled by pain. I used to think aches and strains were endemic to fat/out-of-shape/old people, but nope, turns out age is all that is required to fuck your shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:13 AM
3

(Don't worry, I'm not constantly running on spite.) Per my flair, don't knock it till you try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:22 AM
5

That is some boring ass white bread. Completely neutered, he has zero edge, zero pull, and zero dick energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:36 AM
2

Regarding the 2nd one, she can be fresh faced pretty, but wwe has a bad habit of putting their female talent in drag queen slap, doubly so when they have to play heels (i.e. bad guys). But she also has strong features, as she is The Rock's cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:05 AM
1

Funny, I thought the first one would be up your alley.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:01 AM
2

u/purplish_possum Which plump wrestle gal do you prefer? Doudrop or Nia Jax?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:44 AM
5

lol it took me a few tries but I eventually got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:24 AM
3

r/ihadastroke
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:17 AM
66

I have zero fucks to give so long as its legal, he's emotionally present in our daily life, and he can delivery the D on a consistent basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:14 AM
12

OP, you sound like you've been sucking on Ayn Rand's desiccated teat. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:55 PM
0

I have yet to get into podcasts, as people talking puts me to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:26 PM
9

ppd in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:23 PM
1

All my male friends are people I've grown up with, they also have wives and girlfriend. We're friends because we get along and share the same interests. One of my oldest and closest friends is a man, we were drawn to each other because we had a similar sense of humor and tastes in music when we were kids, now as adults we like to have long winded, philosophical discussions that bore everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:28 AM
7

Jesus fucking christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:37 AM
1

We were in a swirl of limerance when we eloped after a month of dating. It was very dangerous, sexy, and romantic to my 20 year old mind. 0 thought, 100% feelz.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:29 AM
6

I've never approached a man romantically, why would I do that? I also don't understand this internal dialogue of second guessing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:58 PM
0

38f, lost it at 17 to a high school boyfriend of the same age (he was also a virgin). We skipped school to do the deed and then drank a few of his dad's beers afterwards. It was a pretty good, we had spent enough time exploring each other before hand so it just felt like the natural next step.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:06 AM
7

So far 16 years for my marriage, and 30 for my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:41 AM
5

why is love in quotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:07 PM
8

Sorry for kinkshaming Never be sorry for kinkshaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:55 PM
1

God, I hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:54 PM
10

Occam's razor: she doesn't cum easily (either with you or on her own) and instead of faking it she rather you stop trying to "make her cum". However If she did cum "easily" before and this is a sudden shift I'd put my money on her feeling bad or growing tired of faking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:51 PM
17

In most movies, oh boy. 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:35 PM
32

Or a 3rd option, the men were attractive and groomed when they met, bagged the girl, then they ✨changed✨ and became lazy after they 'locked her down'. I don't understand your blind spot to this very obvious, old, and tired trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:43 PM
3

expensive bracelet, necklace, handbag, shoes yuck, how tacky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:35 PM
4

Why would I be upset about any of that? He thought a trip to Paris was a waste? Cool, why would I want to go to Paris with him if he considers it a waste of time and money? then he tells you how she used to live in his house rent free, how he helped pay her student loans, gifts he made, interesting dates they went to, flowers he bought, poems he wrote, all on his dime. Sounds like he was a sucker then, glad he's grown out of that. His ex cheated on him, abused him badly, and that's why they brok…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:37 PM
6

yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:43 PM
3

The Sound by Swans is the best song in existence, this shit is fucking transcendental.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:40 PM
3

Childhood sex abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:34 PM
3

it would be very brutal for you. nah, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:13 PM
6

lol no. There is a high likelihood of CSA and general trauma that accompanies men in those professions, I have zero desire to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:47 PM
4

already married to him, no luck needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:44 PM
1

Homeboy likes the bigguns' and exceedingly plump.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:34 AM
1

BA in English composition. I'm currently a global lead of marketing operations for X tech company, but I started my career as a copywriter and marketing auditor for a series of automotive brands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:31 AM
2

Yeah, its under the category of social studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:01 PM
2

Philosophy, Ethics, Political Science, Sociology, and Literature and Critical Pedagogy, all pared down to age appropriate subject matter. Recently Philosophy for Children has developed as Jean Piaget’s theory of cognitive development has been, not necessarily debunked, but vastly expanded upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:26 PM
2

Teach your students that math is the most important subject. This is how you raise a generation of young men that have no critical thinking skills or concept of self, history, and humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:02 PM
0

mmm crusty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:50 PM
3

My husband (the whitest white boy to ever white) is 100% an ass man. He also has a bit of the ol' jungle fever per his hot celeb/porn preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:47 PM
3

In high school a girl was interested in my boyfriend (and he knew about her crush) so in a display of dominance? Possessiveness? I would loudly talk about our sex life and aggressively make it with him in front of her. I was 17 years old at the time. That's about as cringey and desperate as it gets for me. The idea of auditioning for a man seems so low and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:23 PM
15

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:09 PM
3

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:44 PM
6

Goth/alt men are my bread and butter, always have been. And as far as I gather they still exist, I certainly see them at concerts, shows, gay ass art house shit, night clubs, festivals, etc. However the new flavor is eboys which seems to be a thriving aesthetic for the younger generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:53 PM
12

Yes, but I know better than to qualify myself to a rando on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:15 PM
2

Yes I do!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:21 AM
6

I'm biracial, my husband is white, for all intents and purposes our son is a white boy. However he has also inherited my predisposition to ashy AF skin. Every winter husband complains that boychild and I are too greasy from cocobutter. Nigga you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:10 AM
16

When I was younger it was 3 years max, now that I'm older (37) 15 years, and he'd have to be fucking exceptional to make up for it. My parents had a very large age gap (25 years), and while they had a lovely marriage there was an element of paternalism in their relationship that I found off-putting. I cannot abide by any man pulling that shit on me; I had a good father, I don't need another one. Also, old men get weird saggy barrel chests and droppy forearm skin, I can't have sex with that, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:35 AM
7

But I did address the question, I answered what is average from my view. OP specifically stated "I'm asking only about what you're seeing." and what I've detailed is what I see around me. Asking what is average is a rhetorical question; my average is different than welfare Mississippi average, which is different from techbro California average, etc. Our perception of average is colored by who/what is around us, its not disingenuous to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:20 PM
1

ha! I have since moved to River Forest, which is seemingly full of northsiders tired of the city but still wanna take the green line downtown.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:01 PM
9

I wouldn't consider these examples of average men in my old community above average, nor these men from my new community. Chad and Trixie was literally pulled from a Chicago meme page, but I consider them maybe high tier average? Unremarkable in public, possibly featured in a candid shot of the newest gastropub opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:15 PM
10

Wat. I literally just said In his youth he had casual flings or on-off relationships with 3 or 4 women and dabbled in party culture, had casual flings or on-off relationships with sorority girls or intern at first his Big Boy Job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:19 PM
59

What is average though? In my old community an average man was 5'8", labor-fit to overweight, Hispanic, high school graduate ranging from blue collar worker to business owner, married or permanently LTR'd to a short, chubby, but pretty-to-plain Hispanic woman (probably a nurse or day care worker) with 2-5 kids in tow. In his youth he had casual flings or on-off relationships with 3 or 4 women (friends of his sisters/aunts/cousins/etc.) until he knocked one them up and commits to her. The social …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:12 PM
0

The absence of hierarchy is chaos found the lobster boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:19 PM
3

emotionally for their fulfillment 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:39 PM
2

Oh man, I remember that song. I wanna say in was featured in the end credits of like... a Sandra Bullock movie or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:15 PM
2

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:37 AM
3

But I'm not the one writing diary entries about being single. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:29 AM
4

At no point did you talk about anything that makes you interesting. And thus, you are an NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:24 AM
1

So friendship with a male is more important than your own relationship. If my husband cared you'd maybe have a point but, yeah he doesn't. He's rather relieved I have an outlet for this nonsense that isn't himself. That male friend can enter into a relationship and cut off all contact with you. Well this friend got married this past summer and hey, we're still having our stupid philosophical debates. This somehow borderline semi cheating stop being alone with men wtf?? English please, I don't sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:11 PM
1

Wheel of Time I'm watching it and I enjoy it for what it is. I haven't read the source material however I immediately picked up on the 'wokeness' of this adaptation. I find the racially ambiguous casting to be laughably obvious, but again I don't know if that is how its presented in the books. I will say I find the open misandry of the red robe ladies to be delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:50 PM
0

Why do you need a male friend?? I have a male friend I've known since we were children, I'm not sure why I'm supposed to throw that away now that we're adults. We've had the frank conversation about attraction; he thinks I'm too short and my tits are too small and I think his head is too big and his lack of facial hair is unfortunate. What is exactly do they do better than your boyfriend/husband?? We have obnoxious navel gazey philosophical conversations that my husband finds cringey and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:52 PM
2

physical or mental discomfort/ pain for nothing more than their own satisfaction or validation. I suspect a subset of men truly want this and feel slighted when women refuse. It's typical coded as 'giving her sexual best', but there's an undercurrent of desiring to exact that same sort of degradation she suffered before. Blind assumption, but I wouldn't be surprised if these men were fans of r/painal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:58 AM
8

I witnessed this in high school, an awkward, kinda fug girl named Robin was asked to a school dance by the jerk-hot-guy. He had no intention of following through, but she still showed up to the dance wherein he and his friends ignored and mocked her all night. Anyway jerk-hot-guy came out as gay during college, and I don't know what happened to Robin. I initially felt bad for her regarding the prank, but some time later she called me slut and threatened to cut my face off during band class cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:07 AM
1

3, my husband has 50 something. I'm 37, he's 38, we got married when I was 20 and he was 21. I don't care about n count as long as he's not a virgin or a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:34 AM
4

I wouldn't say I'm rich, but I was raised UMC, and I have a comfortable career, investments, and an inheritance. As far as I'm concerned money isn't an issue. With that said, men with money have been a distinct turn off as they usually assume their paycheck entitles them to my pussy. Instead I married a beautiful but broke musician. I'd say were fairly looksmatch, but he excels in creativity and charisma, which is something I lack/envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:21 AM
3

GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:04 PM
2

lol female friends. I have one woman I'd classify as a friend, and she's much more on the normie/warm/cuddly/feminine spectrum than I am. I don't know for sure, but based on her general physicality she seems like she'd be more comfortable with it than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:36 PM
3

Not weird, I just dislike it. Its like, fuck you, the shower is my time. When my husband joins it turns into a sex thing, and then he hogs all the water, and omg I just want to wash my ass in peace. Don't touch my hair, don't get in my shower, and GTFO of here trying to shave me; I'm very particular about my grooming and personal space. My husband unfortunately is the complete opposite. However I do enjoy a good big bear hug to crack my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:31 PM
35

Why would I date a man that simps for trump? and in terms of classic republicanism, I have no love for their economic and social policies, which by extension means our values are not aligned. There are plenty of attractive, compatible men that do align with my values, no need to waste my time with trumpfuckers and other deplorables.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:12 PM
3

I'm a Leo, although I don't associate with a majority of the personality traits; I am neither dramatic, a leader, charismatic, or dominant. However I an creative, vain, and self confident. I do really like summer tho, and I tend to get whatever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:56 PM
15

Because they asked and its not hard to do. It's just gross and I'm over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:56 PM
9

Are there any sexual acts you used to do for exes or hook ups regularly that you won't do for your current partner? yes, spitting. Also also why won't you do them with your current partner? because its fucking disgusting and a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:51 PM
1

Well fuck me, this shit just got a lot more complicated. Eesh, you reminded me of why I dropped out years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:47 AM
3

No, I'm mostly bemused by the entire gambit. Me? Of all people? Why? It's intriguing. Recently I made a comment to my husband about the portrayal of female friendships in media, he then told me I don't know wtf I'm talking about and I had to concede his point. So I'm going to try, because I've been told it's good for me. Navigating the apex of the UMC yogamom FSM is not something I ever thought I'd do, so all of this feels like an amusing social experiment. Lol I sound like an insufferable assho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:36 AM
6

I think I've been accepted into the Stacy-MILF clique in my dance class. Tonight we chatted a bit longer after class and I was invited to their group chat as well as brunch on Sunday. Holy shit yall, I think I've ascended to normie. Fuck, the last time I was a part of a girl clique was in high school. Here's hoping the sperg doesn't fuck this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:01 AM
1

Why would I consider X sex act or Y immediacy of sex as a measure of treating an ex "better" than me? I don't value a variety of sex acts as a display of anything other than a variety of sex acts. Better treatment only applies to things I care about; time together, sweet gestures, and devotion. I know my husband did tetra-anal throatfuck with a variety of thots and Stacys, usually on the same night he met them. I have literally no fucks to give about that. However I would be bothered if my husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:57 PM
1

Not here, in one of those god awful incel subs, but I believe the post has been preserved as a copy pasta somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:35 PM
5

In terms of idiocy, this is up there with "do women get wet during active shooter situations?" Jesus christ. 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:30 PM
3

Men as a whole are not attractive, they're just NPCs. A man, a singular man, can be attractive to me for a variety of reasons, namely looks, making me laugh, mastery of art/music, lively conversation, and making me feel special. Everyone else can kick rocks as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:59 PM
3

yup, just wholly unimpressed with a majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:47 PM
2

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:24 AM
1

lol no. My life has generally shown that a guy that gets with me is doing better than he's previously done. However this isn't something I've ever really thought about, and to be considered a 'good wife and mother' is a highlight for women who care about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:54 PM
1

Usually, but I'd say a majority women just buy nylon tights for all occasions. Silk has been relegate to a niche market as it is cost prohibitive. 1 pair of silk tights can go for $90, whereas a 3 pack of nylons can go for $11. Wool stockings are only useful for women in cold climates, and that sort of coverage can be achieved by thicker, opaque nylons (assuming the woman won't be outside for long periods of time). Generally wool tights are now a fashion rather than functional choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:22 AM
1

Nylon hosiery is what you see women wear on their legs under skirts and dresses. It ranges from semi sheer to opaque and is made of a blend of spandex and nylon fabric. Nylon hosiery is like, 90% of hosiery, the other 10% is cotton, wool, or silk. Cotton is impractical and doesn't hold its shape, wool is too warm for everyday use ,and silk is too expensive for average use. Anything with spandex in it is difficult for a lay woman to fix with some needle and thread. Frankly spandex is an obsolesce…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:17 AM
2

She's probably referring to nylon hosiery, of which there is no repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:39 AM
2

Well, that's pretty much my life and I'm quite pleased with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:02 PM
2

same. its all kids and babies, recipes, matching sweater family x-mas photos, family craft nights, and house renovations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:48 PM
5

lol spending money on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:08 PM
7

Not wanting your butthole on the internet seems like a pretty good reason to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:07 PM
1

oh shit, triple threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:34 PM
6

50/50 partnerships do not work long-term. Well, its been working for 16 years in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:26 PM
1

I think gender assigned roles are nonsense, but roles do exist in LTRs and they need to be fulfilled if a life is to be crafted together. As in other areas of life, people should play to their strengths whenever possible, and hopefully they pair up with people that can cover their weaknesses (and vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:16 PM
2

psh, I'm over here reppin' team stoner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:56 PM
1

My husband and I eloped after month of dating, we were 20 and 21. I didn't have any thoughts of readiness at the time, but the reality of it (and sense of responsibility) kicked in about 3 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:08 AM
11

When I worked downtown I quickly realized the Venn diagram of 'stylish men' and 'gay' was practically a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:30 PM
3

Nope. I assume he's a man that cares about his appearance. Any other assumptions are foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:27 PM
8

Why are the poly people so fucking ugly though? asking the real questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:32 AM
2

the people engaging in it tend to be of limited importance. and SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:31 AM
8

Why? Those people are gross fools that willfully engage in dumpster fire relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:54 PM
12

Right. I feel like these women have always existed to a degree, but aren't counted in these discussions because they are largely invisible to everyone. The modern version of WGTOW seems like a ego bluff/sour grapes scenario, but the historical or holistic concept of WGTOW is seems firmly rooted in the population of plump, maybe asexual, religious, domestic maid-caregivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:35 PM
8

🤷 When I think of women going their own way I think of my aunts and older cousins, a collection of plain/overweight/religious women that don't bother with men and instead take care of elderly relatives and wayward children. ETA: there's no bitterness or complaints about men, they never dated them. Their exposure to masculinity extends to pretty much their priest, a boy they have to raise, or an old uncle/father/etc they have to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:14 PM
5

I will once my mom kicks the bucket, but I love her so I want her around for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:00 PM
3

No ho phase, didn't see the appeal. Once you've seen 1 dick, you've pretty much seen them all. However I did have a party phase, but I was partying with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:51 PM
16

The women that have gone their own way and the women complaining "Where have all the good men gone?!" don't really seem to overlap, I'm not sure why you'd correlate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:40 PM
1

I did the math recently and realized after my dad retired he started consulting and was pulling in $350k throughout the 90's. He also had a healthy stock portfolio that rode on the back of the bull market. Relative to where I grew up (ruralish midwest) we were several magnitudes above the median income. Public school but several international vacations, luxury cars bought used but in cash, modest 4 bedroom house but he bankrolled several colleges educations. Country club membership but we shoppe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:32 PM
1

you marry then half your inherited wealth goes to her once she can divorce you Yeah, that doesn't happen in the US. The only way a spouse could be entitled to a percentage of the inheritance is if that money was used as a marital asset (i.e. purchase of the home with the spouse on the deed), or comingled with marital assets (i.e. transferred to an account with both spouses names on it).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:02 PM
1

No, he simped for her when she was a teenager, and now 40 something years later he's simping for her again now that she's a widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:03 PM
3

When you don't like someone, their debasement is amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:44 AM
4

My father passed away several years ago after 30 years of marriage to my mom, not sure why he's getting dragged into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:34 AM
12

At 71 years old my mom attracted a simp that keeps trying to marry her and spend money on her. She's told him plainly that she'll never love him, but he won't leave her alone so she decided to accept his gifts and bask in his attention, and then block him when he becomes annoying and quarrelsome. My mother is an inspiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:26 AM
1

I'm INTP, I have no idea what my husband is, but he's an extroversion musician that has all sorts of feeeelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:00 PM
4

ohh is it anecdote time? My father was married to my mother for 30 years, he retired when I was 5 and was my primary caretaker for most of my childhood. Eventually he developed prostate, then stomach cancer and my mom fed him, bathed him, changed him, and when it got too much she hired in-home health aides to do the heavy lifting (literally). Eventually he passed away in their bed, surrounded by family with my mom holding his hand. Because my dad is far from the only man to experience this. My f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:12 PM
2

I got crazy fit (I was already fit to begin with) but I spent more time focusing on fitness rather than it being an ancillary hobby. I neither gained nor lost weight, just gained more definition in my arms and legs. In terms of my relationship, covid lockdown was great. My husband was/is home for a year+ so we've spent that time just...having fun. Reconnecting I guess, but it reminded me of when we were younger and had all the time in the world to just be together (except this time there is a ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:18 PM
0

Why are the implications not enough to counter this argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:02 AM
-1

Neat. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:00 AM
4

Uh, umc+ world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:53 AM
0

No, we know, we just don't care cause duh, you're not attractive to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:40 AM
27

I think it sounds like a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:38 AM
2

The thing is, my MIL makes some bomb ass cranberry sauce with pineapple, walnuts, and cinnamon; it would go qgreat on top of oatmeal or served with toast and clotted cream. I just don't understand how or why it's supposed to be served with turkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:10 AM
1

I really don't like traditional Thanksgiving food, yet every year my MIL does the whole fucking feast for like 4 people so there's endless leftovers I have to choke down in the following days. Why is cranberry sauce a thing!?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:47 AM
2

That gay ass shit? Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:57 AM
1

God damn I love wrestling. CM Punk and MJF just had a 20 minute promo battle and I'm pretty sure I just witnessed a murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:46 AM
9

Blame capitalism then. Feminism freed the shackles, capitalism exploited the additional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:40 PM
1

fuck yeah! booze is available in the amazon fresh division.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:46 PM
1

Ohh this could be fun, and takes the paradox of choice out of my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:42 PM
1

I have come to realize I know fuckall about whiskey, I didn't even know scotch and bourbon were also whiskey? Christ, I'm in over my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:41 PM
1

What's a fancy whiskey for someone who doesn't like to drink it straight? (I.e. they prefer it with a splash of coke or ginger ale) conditions: It must be available through amazon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:24 PM
2

my grimace deepens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:18 PM
3

begrudging upvote, your flair plus this comment got a chuckle out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:12 PM
2

Now I have to deal with the paralyzing indecision of not knowing what style of engagement ring I'd want. Is it better if the boyfriend chooses it, then it's more sentimental? Or you could do what I did; choose what you want, buy it yourself, and save the EnGaGeMeNt RiNg money for a bomb ass honeymoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:07 PM
6

Deep down they're all afraid that if they don't get married they're gonna die alone. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:31 PM
2

I have eyes, and I can observe how I look and how I'm treated versus other women in my age range (late 30's). I don't go to clubs except once in a rare moon, but I do go out to wine bars, comedy clubs, lounges, etc. Men are more than happy to shot their shot in those venues. When I'm not doing adult things I'm doing family shit and men will still try to chat and "get to know me" if my husband isn't around. I've been in an LTR since forever but I'm not blind, and people's assessment of my looks i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:38 PM
7

what do you attribute to your lasting relationship? Not being a fuckhead idiot, and making sure I chose someone who is also not a fuckhead idiot. How do you keep the excitement up over the years, We go do shit when it sounds fun, stay home when it doesn't, or go alone if the other person is not interested. In terms of sex, we just...have sex. It's not complicated. how do you handle changes over the years and if there are children involved has this changed your dynamics? You adapt because you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:03 PM
1

LOVE talking about "energy", "vibes", and "astrology" How did anything I say indicate I LOVE talking about "energy", "vibes", and "astrology"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:54 PM
6

spend time on subs like this to argue with incels and post mean girl-esque bitchy/snobby comments well yeah, I don't want to bring that energy around my coworkers/friends/family. So I channel it towards weirdos on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:18 PM
11

37, I'm at about an 8-9. My new job is stressful but I'm finally gaining some seniority/respect plus a handful of underlings so I'm not as panicked about everything. My marriage is great, I love our new house and community, kiddo is happy and thriving in gymnastics and his new school, I'm healthy, my family is healthy, we're financially comfortable, and my friends are sane, healthy, normal, lovely people. As a young woman I was chronically miserable and lost, I didn't know I had autism so a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:13 PM
5

My husband earns maybe $30k as a musician during a good year, and I earn triple that. His income has never been a concern as I never thought to care about it. Like, he's a musician, I know he was always going to earn shit, that comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:22 AM
5

Nah we don't hate, it's worse than that, we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:47 AM
3

The Grapes of Wrath and Ethan Frome I can reread again and again, Moby Dick and Don Quixote are overrated hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:46 AM
1

Yeah, we bought this fish for $4.50 so were just gonna let it ride it out, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:43 AM
3

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:17 AM
1

Man, fuck these fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:05 AM
4

I think the worst are thot shots broken up by pics of their child(ren). Like damn, pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:01 AM
1

It's had this tumor for 9 months. If it was barely surviving it should have died by now, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:58 AM
3

We have a golden barb with a nickle sized tumor on its head and this fucking fish has to go. But my husband thinks it isn't suffering cause it's still doing fish shit and eating. Everytime I look at this thing I feel sick; is it in pain? Is it dying? Do the other fish know it's sick? Why are tumors so fucking gross? God damn just die already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:46 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:42 AM
1

thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:00 PM
2

Uh, I run the gamut from Alt-Space Rock (Failure), to I don't even know how to describe this (Swans), or this (Swans), or even this (Swans), but I also greatly enjoy Neo-classical doomcore dripping with misandry (Lingua Ignota), and bands/artists like HEALTH, Author and Punisher, 3TEETH, Ken Andrews, Thom Yorke, and my ONE TRUE LOVE NIN.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:51 PM
4

Is sex not a tangible that people leave each other over? Sex can be given, taken, shared, earned, or gifted, just like resources. Per the construct; woman wants resources, if man fails to deliver she'll leave. The parallel is man wants sex, if woman fails to deliver he'll leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:28 PM
10

But if a woman loses her looks, gets fat, disagreeable, or goes off sex men will totally stick around and love her just as much as the day he fell for her. No desperation or inertia, just 100% pure unconditional love. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:21 PM
1

If you feel you're worth more than them, naturally you'll wish to see them miserable for "wronging you", whereas if you see their value as greater than your own you will grovel and wish them well. .....what? Of all the obtuse backwards logic around here, this really takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:29 PM
1

I was content to be cat lady, but guys kept pursuing me so I accepted their attention and affections to pass the time. Then I met my husband; we flirted for a year, slept together, and got married a month later. All my tradcon programing turned on and 16 years later we have a cute kiddo, a house, friends, pets, community, and a life together. Thes something to be said about having a teammate in life; like shit is hard, its nice to have someone bear the load with you. Grief, loss, unemployment, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:09 AM
4

I prefer to meet through a social circle first so I can vet for crazy/character/observe him from a distance. The one time I went in 'blind' (i.e. a relative stranger, no social vetting) ended up with a restraining order and I had to change high schools. I met my husband at a frat party. The girl I was with was banging one of his frat bros and we wanted to buy weed. We were directed to my husband who sold us weed, smoked and chatted with us, and then went on to host the party. I ran into my husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:01 PM
3

Well, sign me the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:47 PM
2

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:45 AM
1

do iiittttt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:24 PM
1

I have a BA in English with a minor in Linguistics. I started my career in copywriting and I ended up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:17 PM
2

I don't know anyone who doesn't listen to some kind of music, it's pretty low-effort and almost instinctual for human beings. I thought so too, until I came across 2(!) different people on PPD who claimed to not like music because its either useless or distracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:03 PM
3

Are TRPs/pills/cels/etc less inclined to listen to music, read literature, and study art? I feel like they have this void of knowledge regarding history/culture/interpersonal relationships that could easily be fixed if they gave a shit about anything other than gym/gaming/youtube/STEM. I remember years ago someone on ppd told me he doesn't read because reading was for betas and he rather do alpha shit like go 4 wheeling. What in the fuck? Not even a week ago in a brief exchange I referenced A Br…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:45 PM
1

Sr. Marketing Operations Lead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:21 PM
2

so most marriages you know of are like yours? I have no idea. There are lots of marriages, I only know of my milieu (urban millennial, college educated, health conscious/physically active, liberal, employed, financially comfortable, 1 to 2 kids max, agnostic to moderately religious, Midwestern US). People in this group seem to be happily married, I can't speak for their bedrooms because that not polite conversation, but the women and men appear to be sex educated and sex positive. do you think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:17 PM
11

I have a lower/reactive libido, and my husband and I sleep together an average 3 times a week. I'd be happy with once a week but he's a man, thus harmony requires a degree of effort and good will. Because I've been a good sport over the years, and also because my husband is a human being with empathy, he is happy to extend grace when I'm unable to meet him in bed. Currently I'm struggling with some health issues so our frequency has plummeted to once a week, but I don't feel hassled about it. Hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:08 PM
2

Judge away, its no skin off my back. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:20 PM
2

Before covid this was a fairly regular occurrence in my life. I had my friend Andrew (friends since we were 13) and my husband had his friend Adrienne (friends since college school). We hung out together, with a larger group, and one on one. Nobody cucked, nobody cheated, nobody even worried about that nonsense since Adrienne and Andrew have their own romantic lives. Your mindset is strange and limiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:24 PM
4

Her name is Megan ( or Ashley, Tiffany, April, Beth, Kayleigh, etc.), she's 23, has dull ashy blonde hair, a 6 year old child, and is about 20-40 lbs overweight. She was rapidly promoted to the night-shift manager at Shoney's because she's exceeding responsible, but she probably flunked out of community college cause she couldn't get reliable childcare. Dad left a long time ago and mom married or dated a series of molesty alcoholics. She met Bill during the $8.99 chicken fried steak promo. Bill …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:12 AM
4

He was in Afghanistan for 80 billion years whereas I was a carefree college kid not at all equipped to deal with wartime PTSD. We were also very different culturally/socioeconomically. He came from very Catholic, machismo, working-poor Hispanic roots with active ties to gang culture, whereas I was a pampered UMC princess with Euro-centric, "cultured", snobby parents. I clashed with the matriarchs in his family as I am anti-domestic skills and I refuse to pop out 9 catholic babies starting at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:26 AM
2

OoOoOoH NoOo 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:19 PM
10

😂😆😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:05 AM
8

I don't have to try a shit sandwich to realize I don't want to eat a shit sandwich.However I have dabbled in a few things that I realized afterwards cringey/wack/not at all enjoyable. What made you try them you seem to be super averse the ide Curiosity and no baseline to judge against.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:51 PM
2

We didn't grow up together, he's 20 some odd years older than me. He's an alright guy and I enjoy our time together when I do see, but I see him very, very rarely. Like once every 5-10 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:09 AM
50

Anything that leans into violence, pain, or degradation. Sex should be relaxing and fun, not a psychodrama to work through feelings of powerlessness, misandry, misogyny, self hate, and trauma. No I will not spit on you, and no you cannot choke me. Also, I'm never having shower sex again. It's just a waste of everybody's time with a high risk of concussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:04 AM
2

My semi-estranged brother in Cali is coming to Chicago during NYE week for a work thing, and he wants to meet up and do stuff. Nigga why? I like my brother, but Chicago in January is T E R R I B L E. I had no intention of leaving my house for all of Jan/Feb (see; polar vortex, 2014-2021) and now he wants the tourist treatment. My only hope is that he lands at O'Hare significantly underdressed, goes outside to catch his uber, realizes he done fucked up, and then calls me up to schedule a rainchec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:45 AM
-1

Upvote for literary references.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:56 PM
2

despite the contempt for degrees in anything but but Stem and the dismissal of social sciences and liberal arts as vaginafest of uselessness central, 90 to 95% of the participants here have no idea what happened in the 20th century, don't read books, hate having conversations that are not useful and just Jack off to their own shower thoughts. Yes I mean we are on the decline but it certainly is not because some random chick read a Judith Butler book. yes, this needs reiterating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:03 PM
5

I mean, Brave New World pretty much already covered this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:54 PM
7

This seems very try-hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:42 PM
3

Fairly common, for specifically designated child free events. However most social events involve kids now, so no drugs, just craft beers and the occasional weed vape behind the garage. But when we do go out to a bar or adult party, coke is as common as a mixed drink or a bowl. We never have to look, its just there or someone is offering a line. But adult parties are rare now, maybe 2-3 times a year. We got to bars maybe once a month, once every 2 months, however we're less inclined to do coke wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:18 PM
12

Probably the beginning of my marriage (I was 20, he was 21), as we were young, drunk, high, and mostly unemployed. I started having sex at 17 but it was very rare on account of sneaking around, curfews, nosy parents + siblings etc. My next boyfriend also lived at home (more sneaking around, etc) then he joined the army and was immediately deployed to Afghanistan. We only saw each other a handful of times over 3 years so I was celibate for most of that relationship. Now I'm in my late 30's, worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:51 PM
2

Ew, he's a ginger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:55 AM
2

!!!! If I weren't married I'd be thirstin' in your DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:56 AM
1

For the millionth time, I'm only into brooding musicians preferably pale, thin, and tattooed, long dark hair is a bonus. My husband is a midwest-touring-bar-band version of these fellows. All other types of men are NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:52 AM
3

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:37 AM
31

what’s the shortest amount of time you’ve known a guy before sleeping with him? 1 year-ish. The vast majority of you guys have had one night stands. nope. You’ve all (not all, but easily the majority) known a guy for less than a day before sleeping with him. nope. My N count is 3 because 99% of dick ain't worth it. I'll make whomever wait for however long because its my body and I have to deal with the consequences. Don't like it? There's the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:34 PM
2

Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:20 AM
2

No I'm saying the sperg is deep within me cause I don't recognize/understand the sentimentality of that gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:19 AM
0

See I read that and think, why didn't you just buy your own watch? The sperg runs deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:51 AM
2

True. I married my drug dealer, prior to me he had an N count north of 50, all while being 5'9" and maybe 150 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:45 AM
4

Grew up UMC and fairly spoiled, but I am a diagnosed sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:41 AM
4

I don't understand gifts, giving or recieving. Every year my husband asks me what I want for my birthday or Christmas, and every year I have no fucking clue because whatever I want I just buy myself. Children are easy, but them toys/books/games that they like; half the time they are more excited by the idea than the product. But why do adults have to keep up this charade? I don't want to be surprised cause I guarantee I'm not going to like it, and then I have to pretend that I like it or else th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:30 AM
–

Never been asked, but by my own initiative I lied upwards to my husband (at the time, guy I had a crush on) because he off handedly mentioned he doesn't like girls who "can't fuck" and "can't get around". When he found out the truth he was disappointed that I wasn't easy and sleazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:27 PM
5

Why should she be grateful when his whole schtick was motivated by his ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:50 PM
6

Per his own admission, they both stepped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:46 PM
5

😂😂 oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:18 PM
1

Joy Reid’s a POS for implying only white parents are concerned for their children’s education. what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:05 PM
4

Nobody cares about your feckless opinion. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:39 PM
4

100% of the shit in our house is my husband's. Thankfully he also cleans because he's very particular about people touching his shit. The few times I've lived on my own it was in a spartan studio with bare walls a minimal furnishings. I literally don't comprehend the concept of decorating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:42 PM
6

I'm currently on Annovera (a yearly ring) however I'm switching to an IUD next week as Annovera has made me bleed for the past 2.5 months. There is no reason for my husband to get a vasectomy as I HAVE to be on a hormonal BC to keep my Meniere's disease in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:05 PM
2

Pfft, its not even Jan/Feb yet, a low of 32 degrees is child's play, you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:12 PM
1

Attractive enough that I've never had problems getting what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:55 PM
5

men in their prime 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:41 PM
2

Pre-selections extends as far as letting me know a given guy is probably not an irredeemable cretin. congratulation, first hurdle cleared. However pre-selection does not positively influence my level of attraction to a given guy, and could easily tip into "not worth it" territory if I catch a wiff of fuck boy energy. Social/magnetic/charismatic is good, but genderless. All female groupies is off putting and would require heroic pursuit of my attention (to the exclusion of all others) for me to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:30 PM
2

Whatever works, and so far its working alright. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:06 PM
-2

I associate mental illness with distress, impaired thinking, affected moods, and an inability to latch on to rationality. Whereas I consider autism neurodivergence/developmental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:38 PM
-1

No. I have autism but I do not consider that a mental illness. I have not suffered from a mental illness, however I have known people and have family members that are mentally ill and they are resounding disappointments. Fat, over medicated, whiny; I can barely tolerate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:20 PM
1

Hard pass. I have zero interest in passing on any weakass genes, and I'm viscerally disgusted by psychological weakness, in myself or others. Pharmaceutical are expensive and psychiatric pharmaceutical side effects include weigh gain and limp dick. Gross. If my husband developed depression I'd extend him grace to sort that shit out, but if I were dating mental illness (no matter how well managed) would be a ruthless and immediate dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:13 PM
2

Ah I see what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:07 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:51 PM
2

My husband hasn't had anything resembling "Job" for the entirety of our marriage (16 years). 🤷‍♀️ I see no reason to divorce him over that because I don't give a shit about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:36 PM
18

I signaled interest to my husband by always being in his vicinity, laughing the loudest at his jokes, perpetual giggling, flirty eyes, and I'd take an active interest in his stories/anecdotes long after the social group had moved on, which gave us an excuse to have 1 on 1 conversations and develop our own inside jokes. When I brought him dinner and hung out with him watching movies after his surgery despite the crew going to a party that night, I think that's when it clicked for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:30 PM
16

Work your social circle instead! I think a majority of them don't even have a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:10 PM
1

Zero. Every woman I'm close with has been married/in an LTR with her first serious boyfriend from college, she met him her freshman or sophomore year and traveled/partied with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:42 AM
2

I literally never knew I was supposed to care about height until I joined reddit. My husband is 5'9", the tallest I've dated is 5'10" I think, and the gigachad of my dreams is 5'6". Taller than me (5'3") seems like a pretty good standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:11 AM
1

Damiano David ayyooo, he can get it. 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:50 PM
3

Cruel irony, his son is a baby Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:21 AM
3

Lol nope. Slept in till 2pm but the hangover was enough justice for me. Plus I got to watch all my shows while he was out cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:14 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter