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I lost my muay thai fight and a woman I was with ghosted me. I won a street fight and the date I had ghosted me. Women are scared of fighting usually. They don't want to date someone who fights..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:11 AM
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women no matter the case need a fuck and go. Ya some women do I agree. But 75%!? No way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:09 AM
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would estimate about 75% of the women I’ve slept with will ghost after sex. And yes, the sex was great for them and they would even orgasm etc. Really? That's a lot, more than I would expect. My sample size is only about 25, but I've only had it happen maybe... 5 times? Yes, I agree that women sometimes ghost. No, I don't agree that it's 75%. I don't even think 75% of MEN ghost. If your argument is that men and women both ghost sometimes, I agree. But if your argument is that it's frequent, I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:08 AM
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I agree but most bere dknt...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:36 PM
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No it's not lol 100% of men look at hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:39 PM
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Whatever u say hun , people on here see the truth :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:39 PM
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So then incels who are fat video game addict recluses aren't incels then got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:33 PM
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Sure ya did hun sure ya did. At least you're back tracking now. I'd consider that a success ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:32 PM
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Being porn addicted doesn't mean u got a small wanger, girl. Body shaming is not cool -- a man with a decidedly not small wanger who wants to call out body shaming of uncontrollable attributes used as an insult whenever he sees it I don't call ugly girls or guys sad and pathetic, they can't control it. I empathize with their genetic misfortune. I agree. Porn addiction is very damaging to a man. But there are plenty of massive dicked porn addicts, average dicked porn addicts etc. Like 95% of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:00 AM
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Depends on the situ. They might just like hot girls on their ig feed. But yeah if they are simping it's pretty sad and pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:57 AM
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Insecurity yes but possessiveness? Na I don't agree. Every woman knows a man finds other women attractive. Whether he acts on it is the question. If a man is messaging them or paying them or whatever then that's a valid concern. But everyone with options COULD cheat. They just decide to be honorable and loyal. That's where the insecurity comes in. Dude could think they're hot and like hot girls in their feed. It's like having Charlie's angels posters on their dorm wall. A girl who dislikes those…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:56 AM
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Um no, touch grass buddy. There are lots of women who are literally invisible to men. My sister is sadly one of them (due to obesity and introversion leveling on reclusiveness). If you're a woman only interested in romance (not sex), you don't use dating apps for that reason. So if you never go out to meet people, AND you're unattractive or obese, you're fucked. It's fixable if you want to hard enough just like 99% of incels can fix their situation if they try hard enough, but most incels and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:54 AM
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I didn't know what that is. I'm not LGBT. Sorry...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:49 AM
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Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:46 AM
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Lol people don't compare like that I'm a high N man and I don't compare current partners to past ones...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:39 AM
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What if he was a switch?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:38 AM
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47% were friends, you and I both know that the scenario you described wouldn't fit that bill. How so? I could say she was my friend, we texted daily for about a week or so before we saw eachother again. Why does that not make us friends? how does the study define each term?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:13 PM
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I'm a guy and I don't care about toys and often suggest them as I said here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10eu9ut/z/j4u9tl4 I'm trying to speak to each side of the debate's perspective. Not my own. just need him to be comfortable talking about sex and willing to explore and experiment Most are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:07 PM
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Is that how the study defines it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:05 PM
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Lol yeah my partners ex said he was 5'11 and she said her friend is 5'10 and taller than her ex Plus.... perspective. Height vs mass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:04 PM
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But the only people they get social status with are random women who also like tall guys. Choosing a tall guy because he's tall and not any other reason may lead to a less happy relationship than vetting for other looks or personality. I don't believe the social status is so EVIDENT from dating a tall guy. It's a small boost sure. But to most women it's not worth maybe dating a bad bf. If you go to the extreme, i.e. mans is 100% out of 100 on all characteristics incl height, face, body, etc then…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:40 AM
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Nah most women who say they want a 6ft guy on Tinder end up with a less than 6ft guy lmao -- someone above 6ft who can see reality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:36 AM
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How were they defined? For example I met my current partner at the bar. We made out and danced for about 30 min and I got her number. Texted for about a week then met up at a pre game. Talked a lot at the pres then went to the bar with friends. I took her home that night.. Which one, by definition of the study is she? A stranger? Well, we met before and we talked for a few hours before going out the second time then talked more while out. A friend? That might be a stretch but there's an argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:21 AM
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I'd say warm approach is more scary. Because if you get rejected, then you've ruined a relationship with someone you know and will probably have to still awkwardly interact with on a regular basis. Meh. Not really. I made out with and felt up & down a girl from my MBA class at the bar one night and a few days later she ended up dating another dude. We're still super close friends and talk frequently, we're both cuffed up so no sexual tension but we're not awkward at all. It's not awkward unless …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:18 AM
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When a single woman rejects a man she's communicating that he's lacking. How? I've been rejected by girls I considered less attractive than myself and hooked up with girls I considered 10 out of 10s. Does that mean I'm a 10? Or a 0? Well.. Neither... There are a billion reasons a girl can reject you and only ONE of them could be she doesn't find you attractive. Focusing on that is folly, unless EVERY girl rejects you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:16 AM
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Using it for fun and variety is one thing, but REQUIRING it to orgasm seems like a huge hassle Das a pretty big difference. Spicing it up isn't the same as NEEDING it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:12 AM
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I don't really get men being insecure about sex toys. Shit, I'll bring one too. I have a vibrating cock ring and a non vibrating one too. Who gives a shit? Spice it up. Sometimes my partner and I have sex with toys sometimes without. If I'm going doggy style and vibrating her clit it just adds to her orgasm. If I have a cock ring on at the same time she said it feels like 10% bigger due to the blood flow/being rock hard instead of regular hard. It's a win win. Who cares lol. We still get eachoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:11 AM
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I’m not sitting there like “Wow I love that vibrator!😍” I’m sitting there happy and pleased we just had sex and got each other off… This is like a similar misunderstanding between men and women as husband material vs hookup material. Man perspective: Women bringing toys into the bed room to increase her pleasure = he's not good enough. Women calling him husband material = he's not hookup material. Woman perspective: toys are just extra fun and have nothing to do with the man's ability. Calling a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:04 AM
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women collectively decided to stop faking orgasms, the male population as a whole would have a collective mental breakdown. No, the male population would be a lot more self aware and become better at sex. I thank God that my early gf in HS was a feminist and taught me exactly how to get a woman off, and told me when I was doing it wrong. Women who fake are just hurting themselves, I have no sympathy for women who fake orgasms then are sexually frustrated. Make your bed and lie in it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:59 AM
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a man is attracted to a woman, he needs to be able to write a deep reflective essay on why he wants to date her or have sex with her No he doesn't lol I've hooked up with women just by saying they're hot before If a woman is telling you you need to write her slam poetry to get into her pants she's just not that into you in the first place dude. As for the second bit: yes, true, if you are the pursuer (man) and say something like that it'll come off creepy. But that's because men are the people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:56 AM
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Most casual sex takes place when people know one another for a good bit, as acquaintances or friends. Highly disagree. Maybe that's where you've had success but the vast majority of the girls I've hooked up or dated with were from bars or clubs. Followed by online dating. Out of 3 serious relationships and 2 decently long situationships they were met via tinder, via knowing her from middle school, via a club, via bumble, and via a bar (respectively).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:52 AM
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We are both fit Then both above average if you're American or British. Avg man: 5'9 195 Avg woman: 5'4 170 Avg = 29 BMI. Being fit = above average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:51 AM
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For example I know a woman who if you asked her what she's looking for and she made a list, zero of the guys she has dated checked all the boxes. TRUE! what you say to your friends, either gender, is not what you do, usually. My partner doesn't fit every one of my standards exactly (especially career/wealth prospects). But I love her all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:49 AM
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nobody should look at rising sexlessness data and just laugh it off l Yet the change in male sex lessness from the 2019 GSS of 30% to the 2021 GSS of 12% is clearly moving in the opposite direction. Sexlessness is overblown as an issue. Most people aren't sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:48 AM
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Ummm.. nothing changes. Assortative mating exists on almost all dimensions. An educated, rich, hot, tall man will end up with an educated, rich, hot woman with a nice body. An average Joe will end up with average Jane. An ugly man and woman will end up together if they decide to date at all. Hell, I've had some college friends who are downright hideous get married. And they're happy so good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:46 AM
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I think it does, yeah. But in ways that are impossible to quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:44 AM
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The amount of childless men has increased dramatically Source? I thought that the percentage of men and women who have children over a full life is basically equal Not talking males of a certain age. Talking overall over a life time. Not a snapshot in time which may have confounding factors like age preference or economic factors. I'm talking from age 0 to death, what percent of men and women have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:42 AM
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Well it might be the first time I've ever agreed fully with a comment of yours but yep you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:41 AM
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Nah, I'm tall and my social media doesn't prove that I'm tall. Just somewhat lanky. Technically all dating is eugenics. There's a strong self-racial preference among all races. There's assortative mating by education. Social status. Etc. What society deems attractive changes over time though so those euginicist-adjacent preferences aren't static. Inter racial marriage is thankfully much more common (and LEGAL!). Gay marriage as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:40 AM
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Hmm. Depends what you define as challenges or adversity. They don't go to Harvard or MIT, it's community college or into the workforce. And it's not physical labor. Those jobs sit empty. It's washing dishes or working retail. Isn't this oxymoronic? If a guy goes to Harvard he's probably had fewer life challenges and more privilege than the community College guy. Maybe he's the rare Harvard full scholarship first gen low income hard worker . But most likely he's a rich Boi who's daddy pays for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:37 AM
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high body count ppl usually are lonely just in a relation literally because it’s their last options these people aren’t living happily LOL. Projection to the finest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:12 AM
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Nope. I am right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:12 AM
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Lmao everyone tearing each other to pieces and the actual truth is that people date other people with similar body counts High date high and low date low
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:27 PM
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There's a very huge difference between being a virgin and a manwhore. True
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:26 PM
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No he doesn't lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:41 PM
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Just ask? I had one once in college. Didn't love it. I prefer one woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:29 AM
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Horrible analogy not even worthy of a response
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:00 PM
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Not every one. But it's pretty common yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:07 PM
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That's a small part of it. It depends on the age too. A virgin in college? Maybe she just hasn't found a guy she really likes yet. But one after college, well-- that is probably because she's either super ugly, super asexual, religious, neurotic, or no guy has gone for HER for some reason. There are extreme exceptions like a woman who was religious but changed, or had health problems and couldn't. But the majority are what I describe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:34 PM
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But all things aren't equal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:29 PM
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Obviously they can make their own decisions. But I strongly disagree that society properly informs EITHER gender about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:27 PM
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You know it, because you're very socially conservative in your sexual and family dynamics. In the circles you do not frequent, there are many women who would prefer to be serial monogamists, careerists who don't date at all, or simply have a good time and hook up with a truck load of guys. And all 3 are valid modes of being, and there are tons of women doing all 3. But all 3 ignore the fact posted in this OP. And obviously they can't just magically start a family. But if they try, it's more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:08 PM
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No? Men should not date virgins. I've dated and had sex with virgins before and it was a big bad idea. Find it out for yourself if you must but ultimately you will end up agreeing with me... Because being musclebound like yoel Romero is not the ideal female figure, of course? Ronaldo, or Phelps, or similar is the most attractive As per the studies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:04 PM
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EXCEPPPPPPT Society wants to ignore the fact that women aging is objectively unattractive to men who want families, and if women do ignore that fact they will be more unhappy than before when they're 45 and childless.. also adoption agencies don't give children to older couples usually. I'd prefer women actually realize the situation at a decent age so that THEY can be happy. Most women aren't capable of critical thinking. Most men aren't capable of critical thinking. Only a third of Americans h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:01 PM
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I got a 10 once in college and broke up with her because she was dumb as a brick and also religious and wanted to get married in 2 years Rather have what I have now, a girl who's about on my level who's smart and fun to talk to and better in bed and very sexual Anyways if you worship the ground your partner walks on it doesn't matter if they're a 1 and you're a 10 , they're gonna lose respect for you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:51 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:49 PM
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Lmaooo. Nope. The 2019 one was a small sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:49 PM
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Najaf is pretty sunny 🌞
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:50 AM
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The percentage of young men 18-30 who say they haven’t had sex in the past year has tripled since about 2010 and increases slightly every yea Incorrect. As per the 2021 General Social Survey, 12% of men were sexless in the past year. This was a decline from 30% in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:46 AM
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Short answer: no. Incels are under 3% of the population. Long answer: most people are not on reddit or forums bitching about not getting laid. Most normal men are in ltrs with normal women of the same income level and social status and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:45 AM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:44 AM
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As a consequence of that your society doesnt develop because it lost you, your smartest men and this leads to poverty, and poverty leads to crime. Cronyism and anticapitalism killed Latin America and started the Brain Drain, not single motherhood... lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:41 AM
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? Neither of these studies contradict the point The studies talk about menopause and male fertility, not 40+ age women 'sfertility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:39 AM
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just a hurtful thing to tell a woman who probably WOULD be starting a family if they could. Either she's gonna feel bad, or start dating a loser This is a fair point. However, I don't think that's what this post is aiming at. It's an unfortunate side effect of telling the uncomfortable truth that older women are less desirable to men who want a family. No one should aim to cause grief among failing women who can't start a family due to age, finances, or being too unattractive for the men she wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:37 AM
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The results found that both male and female participants valued a high income in a potential romantic partner, Kinda pokes holes in that Ole stupid Redpill argument that a smart hot rich man is fine dating or marrying an average intelligence barista... don't it..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:17 AM
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Agreed with number one but not number 2. Number 1: Yep if she isn't on board with who I am I'm out. She doesn't have to defend me against insults or anything, but she certainly should not partake in them. As well, if she ever insults any of my insecurities in an argument, I'm ending the relationship. For example, I'm slightly effeminate acting, even though I'm very masculine looking. A fwb once made a comment about it once we were in an argument about some dumb shit. I ghosted her and never talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:43 AM
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Every person marries the top person they can get.. I'm about an 8, but if I get a 10 I'm not gonna turn her down lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:36 AM
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says the one who cheated on their boyfriend and frequently complained about his dick being too smal Typical nurse behavior hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:36 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:35 AM
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"Men?" No. "Some men?" Yes. Most women are working women now. Most women do not need a man's wealth. Most women make their own living and most men cannot control a woman with money. When the sums of money become bigger than any reasonable person can make, then sure, untrustworthy men control some gullible women. However it's a dual fuckup. Both parties are fucking cunts. The man for obvious reasons. And the woman for obvious reasons. Being a controller or a gold digger is despicable on both ends…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:33 AM
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Sorry? There's no such thing as tax breaks for the married. The tax benefit is that if you have a SAHP you are able to use that parents deductible. If both work, you don't get anything other than standard. Child tax credit exists however unmarried people can have kids too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:30 AM
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And the ones that hold tightly to this are going to grow old watching all their friends and family their age pair up and go off just like every generation. For sure. There's not an exodus of checked-out men. Most of the 12% of sexless men (yup, 12%, not 30% as per 2021 gss) are religious and end up having families. The men who never date or marry or have kids are under 5% statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:29 AM
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No, there will never be a single tax or bachelor tax. Women and men both are having fewer kids -- but they're not having fewer families. The difference in stats has been that people have 1 or 2 or max 3 instead of 15. Total percent of people who have families is staying about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:27 AM
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Being disinhibited socially is the biggest thing people can do to self improve. Not just sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:24 AM
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People know me on here and know I'm pretty darn far from red pill. But the answer is -- pretty much just confidence, somewhat what women like, and not putting people on pedestals. Fitness communities don't try to explain what women like, i.e. Michael Phelps body, they tell men to get yoel Romero bodies. Finance communities don't tell you that one of the biggest financial hits in a man's life is divorce. Etc. It's toxic but sometimes helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:17 AM
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Or it isn't all women, and biology varies person to person...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:08 AM
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Nah some people just have low libido. The thing that PPD is wrong about is assuming that it's all women...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:10 AM
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I go thru phases of being incredibly entertained by PPD to swapping to my main account and reading mostly NFL and history related things. It's interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:45 AM
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the #1 solution to overcoming pathological fear is to not obsess so much over what others think of you or "mind-read" reaction Hella true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:33 AM
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As much as I hate "bluepilled" rhetoric, it would a lie to say a man who improved his looks and money would be surprised how little they help unless he has a strong sense of self esteem and social ability. Counter point: The social ability is the most crucial part, not the self esteem, I'd argue. If men sit at home it doesn't matter how much self esteem they have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:31 AM
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I 1000% agree, blind trust is idiocy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:25 AM
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It... depends on the women, her sociosexuality, and her sex drive, of course I know ppl on this sub want cut and dry answers but the truth is almost ALWAYS grey
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:17 AM
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If you have good relationships everywhere plus a good career & house, and good physical health (hence, you're not fat or obese)? You'll have romantic relationships too so it's a moot question. That said - I'd choose the latter (no ltr but everything else)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:15 AM
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you probably won't get the lasting, consistent validation you're looking for through casual sex. Finish that statement with.. ... if you're low in sociosexuality like houstongradengineer. Then, most of the incels on this page are probably pretty low in it considering they're incels. So the people which you're discussing are not gonna be validated. But the base point is -- its personal. Very personal. It can be tremendously validating or actively offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:03 AM
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Nope no goalposts moving at all bub. If you haven't had frequent casual sex you have no right to comment on whether frequent casual sex is validating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:01 AM
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"X" is first if the person is that level (4th percentile of height for men = 5'4) on any characteristic. If a man had a 4th pct penis size that's first. 4th pct physique? That's first. 4th pct IQ? First.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:00 AM
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Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:46 PM
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What's so hard to understand hunny
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:46 PM
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I don't care if you disagree, if you've never had extensive casual sex you have no opinion on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:45 PM
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It's EXACTLY what "sex means to me while I'm having it." Other people's views of sex are valid, just like your incredibly trad - conservative view of sex is valid... for YOU. I don't think having sex for validation will make me happy, so I don't. But it's absolutely presumptive and honestly just plain wrong for you to say it won't for other people too. It's a superficial crutch that impacts people's daily lives Actually no, it usually doesn't. Most people don't have sex every day or go for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:45 PM
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LOL what the fuck, do you have a poop fetish or something Literally NO ONE even considers someone farting in their bed as a reason not to have sex with someone 💀💀💀💀💀 how do you even THINK of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:32 PM
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Good people are usually raised by good people. This is the biggest cap of all "Preachers daughter" syndrome and all Trad families often produce promiscuous children, ask me how I know LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:06 PM
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if they do they just shrug and say "life insurance will take care of them". Sure hope the man is smart enough to buy it.. and the woman is smart enough not to blow it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:04 PM
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Dudes a trad not a rp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:02 PM
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...use a condom ya minger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:00 PM
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A dozen is definitely not a lot, but it is enough to solidify preferences Sex is what you make of it, for some it's validating, for some it's gross, for some it's romance, for some it's purely physical sensation. Who are you to say what other people feel during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:00 PM
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There's a world out there where men aren't celibate due to God Right, most men aren't celibate at all 12% are Most due to religion. I'm far from celibate due to God 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:57 PM
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Saying the phrase "tripling my Ncount" indicates otherwise, hun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:56 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:54 PM
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That is not your biological child, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:53 PM
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Nope, I will speak for men, because I know it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:53 PM
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No, neither is a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:51 PM
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Enough to make a 3/10 a 5/10 Of course it depends how bad you are at first.. if you're a 1 then being a 3 isn't that helpful. If you're obese and a 3 then yeah you'll find girls after getting fit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:51 PM
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Nope, truth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:50 PM
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https://youtu.be/KM4Xe6Dlp0Y
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:13 AM
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Height? No. Height is obv a positive but it's not the primary thing. Fitness is the primary thing, face is second, then confidence, then height. Money you can slot anywhere in there bc it depends on the girl really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:54 AM
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No, I never said you have to be a certain way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:51 AM
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Paternity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:50 AM
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🤷‍♂️ ok believe what you want, just make sure you tell your partner those 2 standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:50 AM
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Huh It's not lol. This subs men rarely get laid hence it's validating when they do. After a dozen or so women you start to look for something more...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:50 AM
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But there are a lot of cases where maxing out everything you can will provide little, if any, benefit to dating. In these cases, I don't it's necessarily bad for men who got dealt a bad hand in the genetics department to give up. There are dozens of studies showing that better musculature is more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:43 AM
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Food addiction is not like other addictions. You can wean yourself off of recreational drugs, alcohol, avoid places where gambling is legal. Much harder to constantly have to partake of your addiction and then stop. Except under doctor supervision with a vitamin drip if you are obese enough to live off the fat on your body, you have to eat. Yep. You are correct. I have never had drug addiction or alcohol/ gambling addiction but I have a crippling food addiction and have for the last 2 decades. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:33 AM
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Most people's looks maxing will have marginal effect, ABSOLUTELY incorrect. Looks matching is an automatic +2, and probably more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:31 AM
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Jeeeezus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:29 AM
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I am kind of confused about the situation. Can you rephrase the situation with the Hispanic girl? P.s. Hispanic and black women value confidence in a man far far more than white women do. That said, all races value it. It's just, the machismo culture for whites isn't as important and looks might be slightly more important
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:28 AM
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elibacy was way preferable to tripping my ncount dude. I get that that’s what you’d do if you were a woman, and that there’s a fraction of women into that, but it was totally gross to me. Knowing I could “get my back blown out” didn’t mean I wanted it. It’s like knowing I could easily buy a bucket of manure for cheap— why would I give a shit that I could easily get something that‘a just kinda repulsive to me? Except the vast majority of IRL guys don't give a shit about your N count, contrary to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:25 AM
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on't think sex with randos is nearly as validating or fulfilling as most men think it It isn't to most women.. but here's a secret... it's not to us men either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:21 AM
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Yes, I am saying those two are contradictory in a man's mind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:21 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:20 AM
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Um sex is easy for men. Do I have to spell it out again? If you're looking for sex and don't get it you're bottom 2.4% of men. Stats: 2021 GSS shows 12% of men haven't had sex in the past year I.F. studies shows 80% of sexless men are that way by choice due to religious convictions .8 times .12 = 2.4 Sorry anyone who's sexless but you're bottom 3% at best
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:19 AM
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Wait a sec. So an infertile man who doesn't want to adopt, but not one who wants to open up a relationship? You do know most men think of adoption the same way they think of an open LTR. I am not infertile (tho I wish I was LOL too many pregnancy scares), but I just wanted to say that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:14 AM
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and not attributable to mental health - Would you leave if he was diagnosed with schizophrenia?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:12 AM
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Final interviews for the new jobs next week! I might have to move back to my home town :( lower COL and it's a solid company but man I love the place I currently am
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:06 AM
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You don’t NEED another friend, another emotional connection, somebody to “do things with” or “talk to” You HAVE that. So the only thing missing is the sexual element, the passion. That should be the priority, the big draw of a relationship, and friendship and connection are built on top of that foundation. Sorry what Of course you don't NEED another friend who's the opposite gender, but do you really NEED another same gender friend? A good relationship is un necessary to your life yet adds great…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:59 PM
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Yes, but the dudebro is also the reason doctors recommend eating less red meat -- not actual health or fitness. If you eat the average American diet then eating less red meat is less cancerous and cardiotoxic. HOWEVER This is due to interactions between shitty carbs/sugar and the fats in red meat. Not the saturated fats itself. Hence the keto fad. I'm not keto btw and I eat more lean meats than they do. However it's almost always not unhealthy, with the caveat that people have different bodies. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:56 PM
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using a blow driver for my hair, or wearing shirts with a collar or for not eating copious amounts of animal flesh with every meal. One of these things is not like the others... Eating meat 100% improves your looks via better muscle building because of bioavailable amino acids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:37 PM
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When a man starts working on his looks the men around will start to make fun of him. I've seen this and experienced it myself. I've also noticed when a man puts effort into some picture(s) for social media he is also ridiculed by other men. !? Lol do you even have any male friends? When I lost 80 lbs five years ago my friends were all overjoyed. They really were truly happy for me. One was jealous because he was fat but he said that to my face he didn't so any passive agressive type shit. Get be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:36 PM
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Why did they invest in those hobbies in the first place? What were their circumstances? Why did they feel so enticed to focus so hard on them? Probably because what they do or do not like lined up with said hobbies so they started (anime, video games, etc). Then, they get laughed at by girls for the nerdy hobbies and then dive into them even more -- or change them and stop entirely. Hence the men who do this type of hobby are SUPER fans of whatever Why weren't they moderating that with social ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:36 PM
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Hmm. It's a good question. Like, what came first the chicken or the egg. I'm not sure if nerdy guys generally go further into those hobbies as (BANNED C WORD) for their failures. OR, if they have said failures due to the nerdy hobbies. Imo, it's the latter. No woman really wants to date a man who loves anime and plays video games all day lmao. The only person I know like that who is dating or married was a muai Thai trainer. Most nerdy guys generally don't have ANY physical pursuits. MAYBE solo …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:44 PM
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Nah you're the prick if you shit on someone for making a prudent decision not to have children. Myself, I'm pretty solidly wealthy overall and top 1% for my age group -- but I probably ain't having kids either, have you actually seen the problems in the world? Jesus, are you blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:40 PM
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https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/10/sex-ratio-college-campuses-hookup-culture-friends-with-benefits.html This article disproves your OP though? As per the 2021 GSS, 12% of men are sexless in the last year (right, you heard me: the 30% from 2019 was an outlier) As per I.F. studies, 80% of virgins aged 20-29 are religious and waiting for marriage. As a man, especially in college, if you are sexless and NOT waiting for marriage (i.e. a true incel), you are statistically statistically Bottom 2.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:19 PM
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I don't agree because I don't think women generally lie and say they know men & think they're easy to understand. That, or they just don't care about the red flags bc the guy is hot 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:02 PM
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Sorry what how is this a bad thing? If people don't want kids why the fuck would they get married and have the government tell them what to do If people think the world isn't good for a child why would they bring one into this world The media is definitely sensationalist HOWEVER there are plenty of VERY VALID reasons people would not like to have kids. For example-- they DONT HAVE MONEY TO RAISE THEM (58% of Americans do not have 1.5k in savings)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:00 PM
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And most importantly, she made sure that each one of her partners wore a condoms, no exceptions Important. If a girl is rawdogging randos it's sketch. I'm totally fine with a high body count if she uses condoms. I'm totally fine with no condoms if she has a low body count. But combine the two? No thanks. For example except for when I used them for like 5 times, my partner had never used condoms except one partner. Yet she only had 3 partners and one was a 4yr ltr. Aka 2 raw (me +1), one condom, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:50 PM
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I disagree strongly As a west coaster myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:40 PM
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Yep I always listen to a pod
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:40 AM
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Eh. None of the above. If something needs to be said, say it. If not, don't fill empty airtime. Seems to me my partners and I generally have a lot that needs to be said though... If they can't keep a convo I'm noping out AND if they think silence is weird I'm noping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:39 AM
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and the ones in LTRS are all in open relationships where often it seems one is definitely more into that than the other (but both will do it). No way. I do know a couple open gay relationships but they're equally in love. What part of the country do you live in by chance..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:37 PM
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Nah I think the guys who are like that... never get a life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:07 PM
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LOL so cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:02 PM
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Sex goblin is a descriptive term meaning "person who wants lots of sex" I don't think its derogatory
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:31 PM
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Having anonymous one night stands under the cover of the night made it harder to be exposed as homosexual. Great point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:30 PM
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Gay men (according to my friends and gay shows/books/movies) seem to struggle finding meaningful partners because “everyone is shallow and wants only quick sex.” I don't agree. My gay friends do fine finding LTRs. Just many are tempted by the easy access to sex , that doesn't mean they don't want ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:29 PM
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Well it's more profitable to be andrew tate than roosh or whatever his name is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:23 PM
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Eh I don't agree, I think those who actually try the rp tenents almost 100% fail because they don't actually self improve. Then they become black pill lmao Just like fdsers who get much angrier and saltier over time failing with the men they're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:02 PM
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Uhhhh they just leave? I mean it's not that deep buddy they just get bored of the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:00 PM
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😂 outed yourself as a misandrist there hun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:26 PM
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I don't think they're the same guys lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:17 PM
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Lol what You kidding me? If you objectify women exclusively, you'll never have a partnership of any type. The point of relationships is to get to know the HUMAN WOMAN behind the bob n vagen If you just want sex that's not hard, but nor is it fulfilling or happiness inducing. Why would you care if you boned 100 women in a year? Your ego? If you need to do that for your ego you're insecure as fuck. Relationships involve risk. You risk being rejected. You risk being cheated on. But so do they. Are …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:14 PM
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I think "the fantasy" mostly comes from secretly insecure or awkward guys who don't know how to handle conflict very well, so they daydream about a relationship where their fantasy girl thinks everything they do is amazing and never criticize or resist him when he's trying to accomplish something, because any extra feedback would stress him out. This is the main thing yo Relationships are never perfect and you can never agree with anyone all the time. Constant conflict isn't good but you know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:10 PM
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Men will feel disrespected or emasculated if their partners make more than them, are better debaters, or have more functional skills. To many, to be competent and disciplined is masculine, thus they want to women who are ‘easy competitors’ as they will always win against them. Any place they don’t can be deemed as feminine, so it’s a wash. The only time this is true with regards to men wanting submissive women is if the man is not confident in his own abilities, moneymaking, debate, skills, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:49 PM
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Its always women who're inferior to us lookwise. Idk why they think they stand a chance when we're so much better looking than them. All of us have concluded we'd rather approach women. Out of 10 women I'd say maybe two are worth a number. Shit that even might be an over estimate. 2 out of 10 would be great. Maybe I just have better standards or look more attainable but it's just hilarious that women like that think they have a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:44 PM
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Depends. What do you mean by initiating? How do you define initiating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:43 PM
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Ha! So true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:42 PM
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so telling that "your social circle" isn't even making the list for places to meet quality women. Because you fucking don't have a social circle that includes women. Defo true, but even so OP is wrong because bargoers and clubgoers are NOT usually trashy. It's selection bias. He's never step foot in a club and so has no idea lmao. He's a teetoatler probably if he's the type I'm thinking of. Hence he said alcoholics and drug addicts when he said clubgoers when about 1% of Americans are legit addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:45 PM
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But... going to a bar or club does not necessarily mean fucking everyone you dance with lmfao. I've probably danced with, kissed, talked to, asked out, etc hundreds of girls in the hundreds of nights I've been to clubs. It's still a rare occurrence that one wants to go home with me THAT night that I also want to go home with them. Some I talk to for fun and don't want to fuck. Sometimes they say they have a bf. Sometimes I have a gf. Sometimes their friends drag them away. Sometimes they're not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:35 PM
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Like how would they even know what’s trash or treasure unless they are out there meeting people and determining their own desires and values for a partner This.. they ain't ever been out their leagues of legend party chat and they think everyone who goes to clubs are a whoring drug addict prostitute LMAO it's quite comical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:31 PM
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Yeah lol these guys have seen animal house and like some sitcoms and think they know what bottled blonde or e11even is like because some influencer posted a story. Lmfao. It's comical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:28 PM
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Define trashy please. Are you saying specifically, quote, promiscuous women, alcoholics, smokers, drug addicts, or all of the above. Or are you talking about finding women with specific characteristics you neglected to mention, such as being meek and submissive. Because meek and submissive women are at church, not clubs. P.s. 99% of people who go to clubs are NOT addicts or alcoholics even if they consume drugs when they go LMAO. Something like 40% of the USA has smoked weed in the last year, 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:24 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:18 PM
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True, everyone who's overweight knows they are. I did when I was. Thankfully I actually "worked on it" and am healthy weight now. Bur everyone tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:15 PM
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And the gyno?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:07 PM
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Sounds like your face then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:07 PM
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That's not true lol everyone parties at college constantly except the weirdo turbo nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:45 PM
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No? He's average everywhere else with good height. Aka 6/10. 5/10 if he was normal height. +1 for good height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:35 PM
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Nope! That was a stat from 2019. The 2021 updated gss says 12% of men didn't have sex with any woman this year (not are virgins). Additionally IF. Studies proves that of the male virgins, 80% are traditionally religious and making the choice to wait till marriage. Sorry bud you're basing your opinions on fake stats
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:31 PM
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Nope. I'm over 6'2 and broad shouldered and I only had success after I lost 80lbs from 270 to 190
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:50 AM
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Anyone interested, send me pm and I'll decide whether you deserve pics via how wacko you are in your comments Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:37 AM
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This is a hilarious cope because this guy isn't even that attractive beyond his height, it's clear proof an average guy can get a somewhat cute girl He's like a 6 and she's like a 5, maybe a 6 with makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:31 AM
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The likiehood is that woman at 30 who you see struggling to find a relationship always struggled with it. Instead of leaving her alone you’re inventing a past life that she never had to justify a completely false world view. True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:30 AM
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Nope. Facial attractiveness and not being fat are both far more important than height
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:29 AM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:24 AM
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Lol if you think a man having sex with a woman degrades the woman you're a bona fide retard who needs to move to Riyadh if you want anyone to agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:24 AM
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Yea she's a 4 or 5
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:49 PM
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Plenty of the blackpill dudes here think they're getting rejected despite a great personality, for instance, and then when you ask them what their interests are it's always fucking gaming, SF/fantasy fiction, and staying home on a Friday night. Fucking this hahahaha antisocial nerds have objectively terrible personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:27 PM
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Yes this is the average woman, aka chubby and flat ass and not worth a second look. But the point is she thinks she's an 8 when she's 4-6 depending on your type
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:21 PM
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No she's a bit below average as she is overweight clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:21 PM
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Fat, flat ass combo is the most unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:20 PM
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It’s cause a lot of women have never heard “no” or gotten rejected in their life Thats not true lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:16 PM
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The only 2 of those that legit prevent you from dating are autism and facial deformity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:16 PM
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LOL. Yes because all basketball players are Tristan Thompson hahaha you're retarded dude I literally played rec league basketball with multiple football players and became good friends with a few that you'd know the names of. About half were single and about half were seriously dating. Most that were seriously dating were faithful. I can think of 2 guys who weren't. It's highly obvious when they're not because it's gossiped all over campus. Ain't no way you can hide a starting PG screwing a Kapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:11 PM
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Yes, she loved sex and got it via tinder and bumble not clubs The 2nd woman is very relationship minded and was in a ltr for about 4 yrs ages 17 to 22, and had only had sex with 2 guys before him (and was recovering from the breakup 6mo out when we met) Both were hot, different "genres" though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:17 PM
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Most of em have gfs ☠️☠️ Super hot gfs yes but they ain't going around banging hos. Certainly not 3 a day hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:14 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/bropill/comments/zyb1kh/z/j25huxc This person lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:13 PM
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Wait where did I say that? Oops I never did
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:12 PM
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This is gold 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:28 PM
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Not the attractive ones. Attractive men don't simp for women. That's why the unattractive men see the so called chad chasing that women do and think women are privileged. Actually, no one gets exactly what they want. Women get attention from ugly guys aka useless. Average men get attention from ugly or fat girls aka useless. Everyone wants an attractive person but attractive people only date attractive people. Soz
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:27 PM
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Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:25 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:24 PM
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Thisssss You wanna be like tate? Sure. Enjoy your lack of true friends. He says Tristan is his only ride or die. You wanna be like tate? Enjoy your meaningless sex. I'm sure after a dozen or so it will get boring, like it did for me. It only took me 6 months to figure that out, and I was only 20, thank God. Take what I say as truth and you'll have a happier life, men. Meaningless sex is NOT how you have a happy life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:23 PM
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Not rlly I went to a large state school Bout 20 basketball players and 100 football players. School had over 25k+ people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:19 PM
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Haha true, it is kinda funny how sad this is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:18 PM
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Jack ma
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:18 PM
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Omg I remember that hahaj
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
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Ok so no proof got it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:17 PM
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😉 enjoy the purge... and your daily quart of ice cream!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:16 PM
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😘 maybe one of the people on here I've exchanged pics with will pipe up, if not, oh well! You can keep thinking I'm the elusive hot incel. You do you, but whatever you do, I suggest this exercise: 100 spoon put-downs an hour 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:12 PM
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Yes and I disagree. As I've said before.. The highest body count girl I've ever been with (last year situationship between Oct 2021 and Feb 2022) was an introvert who had panic attacks w loud noises and hated clubs. Her N is (was, probably higher now) over 45. Lowest I ever dated sans for the 3 gfs i had in hs two of which who were both virgins is my current partner, met mar 2022. a party animal, goes out frequently. I'm her 3rd. You're projecting peoples presentation with their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:11 PM
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Source
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:08 PM
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Gl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:08 PM
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Hahaha projection Wish you knew me IRL so you'd seethe harder Sux because I loved the incel bashing until you put a bad name on incel bashers. Leave it to the people who can get dates with attractive people hun. You're as bad as they are 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:08 PM
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Omg hahahaha when you find out the biggest basher on a thread is, quote, "obese and not good looking" by her own words ☠️💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:03 PM
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I can be overweight Oof admitted to be obese. I loved the incel bashing on this thread until you admitted you were a disgusting human being 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:02 PM
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Omg LOL hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:01 PM
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Yup so get over it you ain't finding a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:59 PM
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The average Indian girl if she lands a white guy and has kids with him. She gets elated at her family blood line being white washed down the line and most likely will influence her daughter to date white men. https://www.tiktok.com/@lilysensimilla/video/7080379873616760110?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1 That baby has clear Indian features tho. White skin but his or her face is super Indian looking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:52 PM
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What's wrong with Asian American women lol they're perfect-- enough internalized Asian fat phobia to be fit, but americanized enough to not be trad. Sounds perfect to me!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:48 PM
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he is the luckiest man in the world because she reveals nothing of her true slutty nature Right. You know why? Because assholes like you will judge her for having sex before marriage hahahaha If you ever want the truth about your wife's sexual history u better tell your tradcon buddies to quit calling women sluts and be accepting 😂 " omg i want low N women" yeah buddy you're gonna get one of the girls in those memes like "when she says her body count is 3 but 18 of them are at this party"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:47 PM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:44 PM
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If you're gonna claim it's not true you need a source buddy Higher N men do not fuck most low N women. That's a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:41 PM
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Lol nah as I said she's a celeb shell lock down a hot guy easily
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:38 PM
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Lol yeah it was like a 6 month phase I'm 25 now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:38 PM
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Neither you nor him are correct as random interracial/intergender violence is exceedingly rare in both situations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:37 PM
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Black people can carry more fat without forfeiting health Source? If true, that explains their massive obesity crisis. So why do they die of diabetes and heart disease more than white women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:36 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:36 PM
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No you can't. I'm a fit good looking guy yet not a top guy. Just above average solid not bad. And I can get good looking women easily. Simpery is not the same as being treated well lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:35 PM
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there are genetic proclivities and the culture is due to that. However there is no proof of this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:35 PM
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No, it wasn't hahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:34 PM
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Stereotype. Not all clubbers are the type you say. Not even most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:34 PM
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you spend your prime years behind books while people fuck off drinking and smoking and all you have to show is a clean record without any arrests I fucked off drinking and smoking and drugging and still have no arrests, and I was top of my class in engineering, have two masters and a good job, etc. If you're a nerdy Mcweirdo then no shit lol. Just don't be weird how hard is that you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:44 AM
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Healthy weight (approx 18.5-25 BMI) (56%) You got this metric wrong buddy, sadly 70% of women are obese or overweight (25+ bmi)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:42 AM
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Agreed with all deal-breakers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:41 AM
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Age: 18-28 Race: ANY Religion: idc so long as you respect I'm not religious. Height: 5'0-6'5 Income: doesn't matter unless she's a big spender Kids: no more than 2 Body type: (just not obese or overly buff), can be chubby, thick, buff, or slim Personality: Kind, funny, loyal, has hobbies Housing: Doesn't matter so long as it isn't long distance Age: 20-30 (I am 25) Race: any (I am white) Religion: none (I am agnostic) Height: any (I am 6'2.5) Income: any as long as she's educated and not in debt…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:37 AM
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I don't watch porn n hate video games, and have great hair. but like uhh body shaming ain't great
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:24 AM
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Of course I want a girl who likes everything I like LOL wtf that's called compatibility and is the point of dating This bitch salty bc she's not a Cool Girl Being compatible doesn't mean never gets mad at anything he does
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:21 AM
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Me at 20
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:07 AM
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I mean when i turn 35 its TRT time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:06 AM
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became more self critical of my body, despite it being superior Yup most gym rats have BD if they're on gear or go more than once a day and that don't mean Big Dick btw
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:05 AM
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You already guessed it. In that state i got laid more with hotter women Of course dumbass, having lower bf is not a bad thing in any circumstance sans below 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:04 AM
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Most violence against women Most violence against men is committed by men too aka most violence is intragender too... women are violently assaulted far less than men as per 2019 cdc stats Tldr, the vast majority of violence is committed by men on to other men of the same race
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:02 AM
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Honestly a fair point. Saying black men commit more crime than other demographic is NOT racist unless you say it's because of their skin color and not culture
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:01 AM
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behave in ways that some might say fall under "Western aesthetic/beauty THIS is the major point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:58 AM
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Mfw you're so salty you think a guy with a high body count is an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:56 AM
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most guys get a girl with a higher body count than his who did sleep around with fuckboys. How so lol most ppl end up with someone of the same body count Sluts date sluts Virgins date virgins Most ppl are in between and date neither
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:55 AM
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What's her number hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:43 AM
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What did she get? Lol She's a famous movie star I'm sure she'll get dudes LOL Also celebs play by different rules
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:42 AM
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Um no? I never said you need money to pull I said you HAVE money to DO things Never flash it bc that's how you get gold diggers U just flat wrong bud
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:21 AM
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No I'm not I'm somewhat effeminate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:20 AM
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Nah. How would you know unless you are a fit good looking guy hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:19 AM
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Yea we do ya idiot The average black woman is definitely uglier than the average white woman. Why? Well, duh. Black female obesity is like 55%!! A fit, slim Black woman though, usually is hotter than a fit slim white woman imo. I'd pretty much date a woman of any race though in my dating exp I've never found any Indian women or Asian women attractive -- just online ones. Maybe they just aren't around me Anywaya It's all the cultural obesity allowance Black women have that makes them on average l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:54 AM
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Chiang Long Wang HAHAHAHAHHAHAA I'm fjcking dead
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:50 AM
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Sure, want a partner who matches your experience, that’s fine but when it comes seeing someone as “ruined” whether it’s for having sex with multiple men or black men, you’re insecure as hell. Sure it's insecurity. So what? What's wrong with thinking a girl who's boned a black guy is ruined? Dude afraid he can't measure up. Maybe he actually can't. So why's he wrong for discarding that woman? -- a guy who doesn't actually give a rip about high N count, nor whether she's had sex with a black guy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:49 AM
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Tomboys are 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:45 AM
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Easy choice for me..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:40 AM
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And real geezers: https://www.eastlondonlines.co.uk/2016/02/the-calendar-boys-of-bow/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 AM
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and tried to explain we were operating on different scales. Uhhhhh Y That's dumb of you sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:37 AM
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So? If I was trying hard, going out and finding girls, on OLD, and talking to friends of friends (like I was from Sept 2021 to like Jan 2022 when i met my recent partner) 6 dates a month and i would have been like wtf am I doing wrong Most of the girls I don't really want to see again, domt think are that cool, or they're bad in bed or whatever so yeah I'd say I pretty much 10 dates a month total with maybe 3 or 4 girls is what I'd do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:37 AM
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All ltrs are shitty unless you cheat No cheating ltrs are the shitty ones you minger
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:28 AM
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Yes you will lmao you'll have more money although slightly less time. Women still go the the same places at 23 they went at 22 🤷‍♂️ I was 24 when I broke up with my ex and found it incredibly easy to date. Step 0 don't be a shut in and don't be obese or rail thin Step 1 go to bar or club Step 2 profit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:28 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
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This is the real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:56 PM
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after college dating is hell for most. mostly for men Only for shut in retard nerds lmao. Everyone goes to bars and clubs in their late 20s and early 30s and if you don't get dates from 22-35 you're pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:53 PM
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And that is an incorrect statement because most men don't do shit to improve themselves. Like you, they'd rather wallow in singleness and inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:28 PM
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Um no? Nice strawman, never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:27 PM
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Better than Lincoln, better than Washington!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:55 PM
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Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:54 PM
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No, both people have to. If the man's the only one doing that then you're not truly desired
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:53 PM
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No LTRs are harder to get than casual sex. I can go to any bar and get someone to come home with me with relative ease. But maintaining a good relationship is hard. If you're saying any LTR? True. Shitty ltr are easy to get just like casual sex. The ONLY people whom casual sex is unobtainable for are incel men who are either too fat or skinny, play video games all day, never go out, and have no social life. But for them LTRs are equally hard. Basically -- I disagree with your premise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:34 PM
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f you can't pull, getting an ltr is an awful idea. Essentially you are trapping yourself. She knows she can leave and have options but thinks you cannot. "If you can't make money, getting a job is an awful idea" lol you're speaking in oxymorons. If you have a LTR then you can, by virtue of having a LTR, pull. If you get wildly lucky with one specific woman then yes agreed she has a ton of leverage and you're screwed. But the point isn't that. The point is to become a better version of yourself t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:08 PM
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Um no? You don't have to create an experience. You have to create a person that people want to be around. Rn you're not a person women want to be around and it sounds like you're not one men would want to be around either. Becoming a sociable person helps for FAR more things than just relationships. All I said is that if THAT is your only goal (which it shouldn't be), then this is what you need to do and it's your choice if the juice is worth the squeeze. But what that decidedly does NOT mean is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:06 PM
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..I can get any man laid in 5-10 min any time. I got two women on Christmas day,they came wrapped in a bow. And they're both super models! Oh and drove in your Bugatti to Andrew tate house! Lmao cmon man. Cmon. they are what they are I dont hate roaches but I dont want them in my house... Lol what, comparing women to roaches is definitely hateful and we both know it. I'm not interested in marriage or a relationship because of the risk involved and I really get nothing out of it. That's fine, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:04 PM
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Keep believing your red pill fairytales!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:02 PM
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Most of anxiety and depression stems from things totally unrelated to romantic relationships, like unresolved childhood trauma, trauma, poverty, health, etc. It's not that simple. Many relationships cause trauma and most trauma affect relationships. Yes, it's being diagnosed more often. However, it's also rising independently of that as a control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:34 PM
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Money? Got their own now lol Most women do not have their own money, statistically. Most men don't either. Most Americans have negative net worth (debt).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:32 PM
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Overthinking social interaction gets you nowhere. It's just a girl guys, you aren't meeting the queen. This. If you over think... It's apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:28 PM
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by those who think they are nice Thissss. People who think they're nice bur are actually doormats are the most hilarious people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:27 PM
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It's not? LOL You're mistaking niceness for being a door mat Being nice is an unequivocal positive in a LTR, but idiots (especially inexperienced men) take that to mean "be her servant, cater to her every whim, never argue, give her money and all your time" etc. Being nice and kind is good. Being a simp pushover is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:27 PM
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Yes the soviets and VCs were fighting wars of extermination against greater numbers and better technology so of course they drafted women And women were clearly inferior fighters. Additionally, most did not fight in the Red Army or NVA. Instead they fought in partisan guerilla units/VC. Because women are not suited for organized military combat as well as men are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:19 PM
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🤷‍♂️ whatever you say buddy boy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:17 PM
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Become the opposite? No. You don't have to enjoy it. But if you want women you have to do it ya. Sorry. You can absolutely choose to act a certain way even if it drains you. Working out is tough but it also helps you get girls. You have to work out daily too. If you prefer to stay incel that's of course your choice. If the juice isn't worth the squeeze for you as they say? Don't change. But also you'll never have a girlfriend the point is that if you can't get casual sex that means you don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:18 AM
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Depends how desperate your situation is. For most militaries, you're just flat wrong. Delusional even ;) The US & most western nations have minimal fitness requirements, IQ requirement, obesity or disability disqualify you, etc. So no, you're the delusional one if you think men and women are physically equal to perform the duty of a combat soldier. Draft women into typist or finance roles or some shit, sure. I can get behind that. Or better yet eliminate the fucking draft entirely because war is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:11 AM
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Um, no that 88% is in the last year. Go find the GSS I'll wait. As for escorts, a total of 6% of people have ever seen escorts in their life. Or fewer depending which source yoj look at. It's very uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:08 AM
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So how old? Most mgtows are two types-- first, young incels who are self medicating their problem with the idea that they don't need a woman even though they want one. Second, older men who've been divorced and have an ex wife from hell
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:07 AM
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Cutting the fat is rhe right decision, yes. The fucked part for him is when hella employees quit bc he told them he was gonna work them to death. He shouldn't have done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:03 AM
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No, losing a shit ton of money bc advertisers leave your platform, and half your remaining employees you DIDNT lay off dip too is running it into the ground. Elon fan boys like you are hysterical 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:00 AM
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Do your research, lazy ass, I'll provide evidence ONE TIME https://www.wsj.com/articles/websites-selling-unapproved-abortion-pills-are-booming-11661079601 https://www.wsj.com/articles/abortion-pill-orders-increase-even-in-restrictive-states-11658136602 https://www.kff.org/womens-health-policy/fact-sheet/the-availability-and-use-of-medication-abortion/ "On December 16, 2021, the FDA removed the in-person dispensing requirement for mifepristone and expanded the distribution to include certified ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:59 AM
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Parrently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:56 AM
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Lol you're salty as fuck it's so funny. I'm actually pro choice up to viability. But access to abortions in trigger law states is still pretty simple especially via the mail and HIPPA privacy. The ONLY situation in 2022 where a woman would struggle to get an abortion is if: She is somewhat late term before deciding it AND she lives in a trigger law state, only 30% do (including Texas) AND she refuses to order abortion pills from a Californian clinic AND she's too poor to drive to another state t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:16 PM
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Not as easy for many. Disagree. Plus abortion pills via mail are everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:11 PM
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I am comfortable with the protection offered by the methods I choose, and also comfortable with my ability to handle an unplanned pregnancy should one occur. Wow you're normal and not incredibly sex negative and neurotic to the point of avoiding sex due to sti or pregnancy risk! Holy shit refreshing on this sub LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:11 PM
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The bluepill exists, just not in chick flicks. Chick flicks cater to the female fantasy (I.E, attractive man married average woman). Fantasies go both ways. That doesn't mean women think prince charming is gonna come for them. Most people don't take movies as reality LOL. That's the biggest beef I have with people saying people are blued by movies and shit. You have to be an idiot to be a chubby frumpy woman and think Bradley Cooper is gonna date you- or a nerdy introvert zombie land type guy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:08 PM
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Way to miss the point entirely and contribute nothing intelligent. I don't even really agree with op but your comment is just.. useless. It's not gaslighting and you didn't understand his argument or you ignored it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:04 PM
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This screams incompetency on the management part. Imagine training a division, and then managing them so badly that they are struggling to the point to cut them out. Lol. Uhhhh sunk cost fallacy. Plus leaders change. Take Elon Twitter thing. He fired a shit ton of workers when he stepped in. He's running Twitter into the ground, but he 100% made the right decision cutting staff. Most organizations are bloated and inefficient. No org is ever going to have perfect management competency
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:02 PM
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that is plenty hard for dudes that are not naturally that Never said it was easy. But it IS changeable. And while height helps you, sociability is 1000x more important. Not comedian shit. Just being cool and not weird. And yes that involves things you may hate like keeping up on TV shows or celebrities or news or whatever. Bc if you start spouting off about the newest anime or leagues of legend character... it doesn't look great. because he does not have enough sexual value to just be used for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:52 AM
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men don't need a woman to have standup comedian tier social skills when they want to fuck Relevance how? Plus you're being ridiculous. No one expects you to be a comedian. Enjoying social situations she enjoys, being the life of the party, easy conversationalist, and somewhat witty is more than enough. I think you WANT to be an incel and that's why you're saying it's impossible. if I had any sexual value women would not need me to compensate with personality What Compensate? There's no compensat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:44 AM
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5'8 and a half is average in the USA across all races. 5'10 is average for Caucasians only Your point is wrong, I have many friends who are more attractive yet shorter But keep c** that the height is what makes you not get girls.. You literally said your social skills are toilet bowl level. That's the problem bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:06 AM
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No, I'm stating the true fact that women are physically weaker than men yet mentally equal to men (on average to both). Therefore women should be equal partners in voting, work, and taxpayers however women, for the good of the army and state should not be conscripted as they are on average less effective. In a desperation scenario, ok, fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:04 AM
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Where, Norway or some shit? 5'10 is above average in usa go to usa lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:03 AM
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fat women can go outside and get fucked by an attractive dude instantly HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:25 PM
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No, only ugly women and ugly guys have that dynamic, and ugly women can't find anyone to actually date . Average, above average, and hot men and women have options to date and fuck. And don't give me the bullshit 30% statistic, it's actually 12% as per 2021 GSS, most of whom are religious. Sorry buddy if you're an incel you're bottom 3.6% of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:24 PM
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"I'm above average height waaaah waaaah it's me height!!!" Cmon you're better than that lmfao It's 100% your introversion and lack of sociableness/going to PLACES where there are women. I.e. Bars clubs concerts raves pool halls etc. How often do you go to one of these places?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:13 PM
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Seems to be ok now just 3 days later. Not sure if that'll be canceled and I'll have to sleep in Denver Airport tho LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:08 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:07 PM
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Hahahahaha what Men cheat even MORE than women as per the stats... srs It's 20% = men and 13% = women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:05 PM
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Nope. Neither gender wants an ugly person to have sex with. I'm pretty high libido and never have had sex with a bona fide ugly or fat girl -- and even ugly or fat girls don't want anti social ugly incels. They DO want sex though. Just not with incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:05 PM
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6'3. Well, precisely, 6'2 and a half. But I was basically sexless in college until I lost 80 lbs and became more social -- you can make changes. P.s. the other guy replying to u rn is 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:58 PM
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Ha, whatever you say buddy boy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:57 PM
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It is a lie. I can say with personal experience/ guarantee that women love sex as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:57 PM
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No it's not the same -- but you said they don't enjoy sex as much which is bullshit It's different in other ways. Not frequency. Go on HL subreddit and look how many women are on there upset their husband doesn't wanna fuck them as much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:56 PM
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Lol how fucking misogynist are you hahahaha You can believe in differences between men and women without believing one is inherently superior to the other P.s. average male iq and average female iq is equal -- so either remove democracy entirely, or let both vote P.p.s women pay taxes. You in favor of taxation without representation? You hate the basis for the American country?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:49 PM
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Who gives a shit? My partner has to sit and listen to me talk about politics and history all the time and she actually has intelligent responses. Why would I care if it's my interest and not hers? After all, I do things she prefers too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:34 PM
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I'm sure you'll find a female simp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:33 PM
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Nope. I was 270lbs and nerdy at 17, 195, ripped, and very social now at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:33 PM
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If you knew the girls I've been with you'd not be so smug 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:31 PM
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United canceled 60% of flights this week too tho. Sw is just worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:31 PM
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I had to rebook myself and cancel the other leg of trip 1. Was flying to Houston
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:30 PM
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they know the govt will bail them out if they lose too much business. Buttigeg is gonna rip them apart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:30 PM
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Ud be surprised.. maybe if you ever step foot on campus...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:47 PM
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again only a few % of men has this Sounds like their own fault, nothing he said was unachievable bud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:45 PM
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That is NOT the truth. Women desire sex as much or more as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:44 PM
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most (young) men are mediocre As a man -- yes. Male obesity rate approaching 40%. Male 20-30age average income approaching 35k. Avg Male doesn't work out (18% total do as per statistia) Avg Male plays video games (also statista)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:43 PM
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most men are not like you when it comes to who to have sex with, they would have sex with any attractive woman. It' Not true. Place an attractive cunty women in front of men with OPTIONS and I bet 0 of them go for her. It's the desperate that don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:42 PM
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but a woman needs a guy to be perfect physically and personality wise Lolno I'm far from perfect in either metric but when I desire a lot of casual sex it has been simple to get. Men just don't have social skills soz
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:39 PM
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Incorrect as sexless men count at 12% as per most recent 2021 GSS. women want sex with 88% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:38 PM
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Exactly. Women want sex as much as men but they want sex differently, with different people than men expect, and only under certain circumstances. Women's base sex drive, though, is fucking HIGH.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:37 PM
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No, most men want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:36 PM
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The irony is that by telling men that women like sex as much as them you're making it worse for their mental health. They start to believe that they're gross, horrible and left out because no woman wants them even though they also enjoy sex supposedly. It's better to tell these men the truth, that women barely want sex and they only give it to high value men and if they want it they must work hard to get it. It's better for their mental health to accept the harsh reality than to tell them a mise…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:35 PM
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Women should never trust any man? I could maybe get on board with that. Pls never date any men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:31 PM
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He's talking generally as most Americans are fat or at least chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:28 PM
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Huh? Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:27 PM
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This lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:27 PM
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The fact that men are men and women are women? Are you a proponent of transgender bathrooms too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:26 PM
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... now do lifetime earnings ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:26 PM
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Thk God southwest precanceled my flight instead of stranding me this time like last time lmao. Guess I get some more family time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:19 PM
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I assume it was a typo for "20"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:31 PM
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degrees are worthless. Uhh like 50% of degrees are in STEM or business (finance, accounting, etc) Plus not ALL of the (for example) psych majors are worthless as about 20% get PhD in clinical psych eventually, or a MSW and become a therapist. I'd argue about 30% of degrees are patently useless and 70% prepare you for a career
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:29 PM
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Because it's a proxy for intelligence and I want a smart gf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:28 PM
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Ok well we both know that's super non standard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:32 PM
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Sounds like the opposite of confidence in yourself? Lol if they become town bikes they're searching for smth they didn't find with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:32 PM
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I think most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:07 PM
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Das not true, my father looked exactly like Harrison Ford at 50 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:44 PM
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🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:43 PM
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And ur exempt from it I see ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:43 PM
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I'd laugh and ask what responses she got from her troll sesh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:43 PM
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Same why do men not have that confidence? It also makes you better in bed which leads to more confidence which leads to being better in bed. It's like an inflationary spiral. I've never understood the guys who are scared of a woman with a body count not preferring him. Like.. how about be better than the other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:41 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:40 PM
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Buff roidmonster is not good. But a small amount of trt or gear to get lean and 12ish% body fat if you're fat or skinny is absolutely beneficial I've never touched trt but when I turn 30 I'm getting my T checked and if it's low I'm doing it for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:40 PM
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Sorry? Why would I do that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:39 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:38 PM
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No, I wouldn't date a virgin below 20 or anyone below 20 due to age. I am 25 lol My self imposed dating pool is 20-30 I'm currently dating a 23 ye old btw. I guess my comment wasn't clear in this context but my point is the unhealthiness of being a virgin really becomes apparent after 20 (both genders too)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:26 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zl13pm/are_big_city_dating_scenes_not_worth_it_for/j04tigo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:17 PM
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Lots, buddy. Lots. If you've ever dated a virgin you know. Let me try to find a comment I wrote about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zulvbf/z/j1nhrwg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:14 PM
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And I've never committed to fwb or ltr or any romantic dating prior to sex except in one exceptional circumstance where I knew the person from childhood. I wrote a comment the other day let me find it...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:14 PM
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Their low N was because of it, yes. The low N by itself is only a symptom. Not the issue. My current (long distance 😭) partner is low N because she had a 5 year LTR from 17-23, and only hooked up with a couple people otherwise. But someone with her N who had like 5 years of singleness I'd be suspicious of
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:09 PM
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More like they had a lower body count because they just weren't very sexual. It's not like they were intending to be. It's a correlation I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:00 PM
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Don't swing the pendulum the other way either lmao Ugly people and hot people can be nice or bitter, kind or rude, liars or very honest, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:59 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:56 PM
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Well I would be loath to date someone I can't talk to intelligently.. you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:55 PM
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😂😂 k bud whatever you say!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:54 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:54 PM
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Well, good for you, I don't believe that's a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:54 PM
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Not mine 🤷‍♂️ I'd be gone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:54 PM
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Demisexuality isn't not a thing. It's just rare that demisexuals are actually good in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:03 PM
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Although I think that specific viewpoint has more to do with women who have never masturbated than normal women Nah the women with lower N (<5, even 10) I've had sex with or dated are almost always worse in bed than 5+ Tbf the worst in bed ever had an N of approx 30 (saw her list lol) But ON AVERAGE the lower = worse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:02 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ztpsrj/is_it_just_me_or_theres_a_certain_type_of_woman/j1ex40y Mrw people still assume ugly people are all kind hearted and hot people are all evil and rude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:00 PM
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but most of them lack the ambition and knowledge to do so. Or intellectual or emotional capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:33 AM
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I also like to spend a lot of time alone and schedule alone time for myself regularly. I deliberately limit my dating pool to only those who don't expect regular texting and won't feel desperate if we go a week without seeing each other. I'm not sure how that's a relationship honestly. That's more like fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:31 AM
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But many people do focus on themselves prior to getting in a relationship? I lost 80lbs before I got into my first "real" relationship. Also, STDs are preventable. Instead of not having sex how about practicing safe sex? And yeah that's not really bdsm honestly. Are you telling me the most sexual thing she did was grind on your leg!? Anyways I know you did those things I was just curious WHAT the line for you is. What line you won't cross other than PiV sex. Wete you worried about not being able…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:30 AM
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think everyone would be better of as virgins until marriage or forever partner , Why? Logically it doesn't make sense if you look at hunter gatherer societies. The only (non serial -- dating is serial monogamy) truly monogamous partnerships in our history were when men controlled women and stoned people of both genders for adultery What bdsm were you uncomfortable with? I made a bdsm list a while back I'll try to find it, I'm curious what you see as crossing the line and what's ok considering yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:56 PM
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Not saying you won't enjoy sex, I'm just saying you're building it up in your mind to be this huge thing and also building up your sexual energy by not having sex that you might just not have the experience you expect. Your ex had done or hadn't done bdsm? Did you forgive her when she cheated or end things? I've been cheated on 1x but it had nothing to do with sex. And why are you long distance and for how long? I'm actually in a LDR right now as well but 100% it's further than yours sadly lol. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:32 PM
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Clear small achievable goals are good. But working that much isn't healthy for the vast majority of people. If you can hack it, great for you and you'll definitely be wealthier than most. However it's not mentally healthy for the vast vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:29 PM
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I never said crazy buddy boy Promiscuous girls are not necessarily crazy, I vet out the crazy ones ;) I have enough experience that I'm comfortable in my views ;) luckily for you I'm not gonna lie like you and say I've slept with hundreds of girls hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:00 PM
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No I ain't. I've had hundreds of partners. Their problematic behaviour played literally no part in their secual prowess and its laughable to think that it could. 🧢 (At both parts)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:21 PM
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Lol enjoy ur bimbo for 50 years then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:15 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:13 PM
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rather than an intimate activity that belongs only after a very serious relationship or marriage is established. Hence, sex negative. Most people don't believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:12 PM
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Right, neither gender is stepping into the others role lmao. You're lying if you say women are willing to be providers 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:34 PM
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Friendly reminder, sex and commitment are not held hostage. If you believe either is being held hostage you are in an abusive relationship. They are not a transaction and in a healthy relationship both are beneficial for both parties https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zulvbf/question_4_the_red_pill_what_do_you_consider/j1nhrwg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:33 PM
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No, I am not holding commitment hostage for sex, I'm holding commitment hostage for many things in the vetting process INCLUDING sex. -- emotional compatibility -- ease to talk to -- ambition or career path -- not in debt -- stable family/no deep trauma -- sex, but not "will she have sex" but rather "are we sexually compatible" (I can elaborate if you don't understand what that means, but it's not related to if they will or won't have sex with me -- it's a compatibility measurement that cant be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:31 PM
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PM? I'm curious. I'll tell you mine if yoj tell me yours haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:30 PM
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I meant general "you" lol like objextive attractiveness. Everyone has different particulars. Like "women" find bout more attractive by the numbers but will rather date zelensky due to the other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:29 PM
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Yes they should better themselves but I just ignore them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:28 PM
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If thats a consideration for you you 100% should, there are plenty of women who will sleep with me without getting butt hurt if I'm not interested romantically. Funny bit is, the only reason I sleep with someone nowadays is to vet them for a LTR so there IS some romantic interest. Doesn't always pan out though the most recent time it most definitely did 🥰 thankfully not everyone is conservative and sex negative like you or fds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:25 PM
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I agree with all of them except the high body count one -- seems like you're conflating overlapping characteristics. They don't have to be mean spirited or unattractive to have a high body count. One of the nicest people I ever dated had a huge body count. Didn't work out due to religious differences but she was very kind and never did me wrong in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:11 PM
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Because if she wants sex and he wants sex there's no moral imperative for him to stop even if she might catch feels? Duh It's incumbent on both sides to communicate . If he lies to her face about romantic interest then that's the immoral part and he shouldn't do that. But the fact remains most men, self included, are more likely to commit to attractive women than unattractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:08 PM
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Oh buddy you're missing out on the wildest and best sex of your life hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:07 PM
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were willing to step into the provider role Incorrect https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11150-020-09506-x#:~:text=An%20unemployed%20or%20inactive%20husband,never%20experienced%20a%20job%20loss. https://www.today.com/health/household-chores-not-reason-why-many-marriages-split-after-all-t101239
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:05 PM
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Not saying men CANT learn to dance - am saying 90% of men DONT learn to dance, and you best be top 10% to have that standard! Men's lives don't revolve around women, possibly learning to dance might help them date but most men, contrary to what this sub tells you, do just fine without any compromising of their hobbies as long as their hobby doesn't involve gaming all day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:57 PM
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I'm in the USA as well and make slightly over six figures-- but I didn't have to get a med or law degree, slave over the BAR or MCAT (just the GRE and GMAT, lol), or be an indentured servant as a junior partner or resident so UK is where my partner is from Also "most people" don't make six figures where you're from lol maybe in your social circle but not in your city. I live in one of the richer zip codes of southern California and the average income is about 50k
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:54 PM
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Could be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:53 PM
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Again, that is good for you but in an objective sense an angular face with facial hair appeals to a wider group
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:52 PM
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aren't even given a choice. They simply accept what is given to them That's not true. Everyone has a choice even men. Even if that choice is to say no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:54 AM
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O L does help men lol its so low effort you don't even have to leave the house. One first date I had was literally me picking her up and taking her back to mine. I prefer natural meeting girls but it's just so low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:53 AM
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Well thats pretty fuckin haughty of you lmao. I agree that it's not compatible to Date someone way slower than you but there are plenty of smart girls out there bud. And if you are focused too much on finances life will pass you by and you'll regret it. Don't. Save, yes, ofc. Invest. But be present in life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:51 AM
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Social adeptness is lacking for a lot of them I bet. That's the unspoken issue for a lot of men. I'm not the most attractive in the world (though above average i am no chad) and my career is incredibly unstable, but I do pretty well with girls I find very attractive because I... am pretty good at talking to a brick wall and making friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:47 AM
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Oooof
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:45 AM
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You'd date a narcissist?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:43 AM
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Uhhh reddit is mostly American statistically so yeah no shit he's gonna assume. Btw except east Asian countries, Americans don't have that much higher obesity rates than the rest of the western world, UK for example has very similar rates
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:42 AM
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So don't settle for anyone who's not healthy? Lol I've never dated anyone who's markedly unhealthy. A few in the (imo, dunno actual weights bc it's not cool to ask) 24-26 bmi range, but never obese. Just uh... don't date them? It's pretty easy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:41 AM
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In the UK the average doctor straight out of medical degree makes like 35k gbp with terrible hours, my partner tells me. Doctors and lawyers will always be in demand because of the clout, not anything more or less. And ofc specialists in both fields make a lot. But the average doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:39 AM
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Well good luck lmao I hope you're super attractive irl because I'd guess 90% of men don't know how to dance dance (like actual dancing rather than club dancing). If you're top 10% though then it's defo realistic to expect that. Or willing to compromise on other traits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:38 AM
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No, you can't buy sexual attraction, and a woman will never be as viscerally attracted to a short fat millionaire as a tall fit average salary guy.. BUT, some women overlook that for clout, money, or because they're focused more on other traits. Most women I've dated say they just want a guy taller than them and that's it. looking at their exes, most were not as tall as me, though some were more physically attractive. It's all relative. Some women are viscerally attracted to a guy with a nice fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:34 AM
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I'm 6'2-6'3 and the only time women have ever approached me is in a situation where they're drinking lmao. Plus it wasn't even the height it was bc I was ripped at the time Still incumbent on the man to do the approaching no matter how tall you are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:28 AM
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Probably at least in the millions per year. Income alone can help but not overcome it . You need to self improve your looks too. P.s. software engineers don't make 200k entry level lol. I'm not one but I know multiple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:26 AM
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Why do you think you have a high sex drive but low sociosexuality? How does that even work? I mean the girls I've dated or slept with in the past almost all had a libido that tracked with the number of guys they've slept with in the past. I have a medium-high libido personally and my count (25) tracks with that. I've never really met a high count low libido or virgin high libido girl. How can you even know you like sex at that point? It seems like you're building up sex in your mind as this sacr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:04 AM
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Well thats great. I'm glad you were able to be solid with your money to that extent. However a 40k down payment is a 250k ish house max right? At 20% ish down. Like, the average house in my area is 1.1m. I make over 100k a year but will have to make twice or 3x that to reasonably afford a house. Even a shithole house is around 500-700k. A decent condo about the same. You can make the argument that it's worth it to move to a lower COL area and build wealth that way, or you can do the Ole ETF rout…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:50 AM
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Then you're definitely healthier than most.. many don't have the same perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:34 AM
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Your preference for clean shaven, round faced men is not a common preference fyi I went from clean shaven, round faced (due to fat lol) to stubble and angular faced. The difference was severe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:34 AM
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Ah so no source -- gotcha. Disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:32 AM
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Well don't take a day trip to fucking Afghanistan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:32 AM
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Nah they'd choose zelensky for both if they knew everything about both men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:32 AM
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Eh strange men are definitely assumed to be dangerous even though most are not. That said evolutionarily it makes sense, we're risk averse as a society. They've done studies where option 1 is 50% chance at $5,000 vs losing $1,000 and option 2 is guaranteed $1,000. EV for 1 is 2k (.5 times 5k minus .5 times 1k) EV for 2 is 1k.but people almost all choose option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:11 PM
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attractive men are more likely to have STDs. Gonna need a source on that one chief
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:08 PM
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This is a dumb argument just like OPs that all guys get jumped. Mindfulness can help somewhat control emotions. But absolutely cannot control emotions entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:08 PM
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In fact, I bet there’s not a SINGLE man in this sub who HASN’T been jumped in his life. Well you'd be wrong I've never been jumped, I've been in a couple fights but I can defend myself unless they pull a knife.. anyways no dumb drunk college kid gonna pull a knife over a stupid bar argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:06 PM
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Thats called "getting old" lmao Also I'm sorry but you're not exactly an unbiased objective observer considering ones a war criminal and the other is a hero -- it make sense to try and justify why zelenskyy is more attractive, and he passes the bar so he is. But purely on looks he is not, moreso if you control for age https://timesofmalta.com/articles/view/thailand-to-extradite-arms-merchant-of-death.323348 Young bout loks very similar to model and mma fighter Luke Rockhold Bout is 11yr older th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:03 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexuality#:~:text=Sociosexuality%2C%20sometimes%20called%20sociosexual%20orientation,outside%20of%20a%20committed%20relationship. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1991-26250-001
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:57 PM
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I believe you have both low sociosexuality and libido, after reading this comment. It's not fair for her to cheat on you for not having sex with her, but it certainly is fair for her to want sex in a committed relationship. Fyi it's highly highly abnormal to not, nowadays. Most people also have engaged in casual sex, 70% ish as per psychologytoday. If you're looking for someone with equally low SS (Google sociosexuality actually its a great concept) then you have to vet for it better than just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:51 PM
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How much money did your parents give you for the house down payment at 19? There's no way you were able to earn that much in 1 year BEFORE your engineering job. Regardless, being financially responsible is still super impressive, even if you were gifted success by nature of your family. Or, genetics to make you mentally able to do the engineering work. I don't disagree with your definitions of success, generally. What I very much disagree with is the fact that you assume people who drink and do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:44 PM
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🤷‍♂️ as I said I feel for your partner as you refuse to recognize manipulative behavior in yourself. I hope some day you do and fix it. https://coloradocouples.com/6-warning-signs-of-emotional-abuse-in-your-relationship/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:37 PM
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Yes, usa support also saved his country from collapse. Ever heard of thr concept of the kill chain in missile defense? Google it. It's a similar situation. Any one thing goes wrong and Ukraine is Russia right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:34 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:33 PM
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See you're a perfect encapsulation of my comment LOL he's more attractive but women think he's gross because of the non physical attributes being shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:30 PM
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Wut Zelensky is the definition of a chad lmao he has far more bad boy clout than bout
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:43 AM
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Attractive doesn't come close to what I feel for him. The fact that he looks like an average Ukrainian guy just adds to his awesomeness. Exactly what I said in my comment -- he passes the looks gate so even though he's objectively less attractive in a vacuum than bout, n early 100% of women would choose zelensky and even find him more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:43 AM
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Viktor bout is more attractive but Zelensky has more clout, morals, etc. Imo, 99% of women would choose zelensky because he passes the looks bar. Looks are a gate. Being 10/10 isn't that much different from being 7/10, because both are a "yes" to most people. From there, the other stuff matters more. Hence zelensky, because even though he's slightly less attractive he's still good looking enough to pass the first hurdle and then he blows bout out of the water on everything else -- even bad boy c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:40 AM
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Most people? Correct. However, many people overcome that and then point to their bad childhood as learning experiences. That's valid and often they are actually more mature. Sometimes not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:34 AM
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Sigh. Did you even read my comment? I'm not defensive about women wanting a clean house. I literally am the same and any conflicts with my partners are from ME, not from THEM. I'm the clean freak in the relationship due to high neurotic personality trait. Usually the woman is more neurotic as per the stats, but not in my individual case. IRREGARDLESS OF ALL THIS -- your reaction was patently unhealthy due to ultimatum giving and a lack of communication. You threatened to end things if he didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:31 AM
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Why do you think people that enjoy drugs alcohol and partying are hedonistic? I vehemently disagree. Just because they do some hedonistic things doesn't mean they're inherently hedonistic man. If they are going out 5x a week, ok maybe. If they go out 1 or 2x a week, that's just fuckin normal life man. Bars or clubs or raves or concerts etc. That doesn't mean all these people don't have meaning in their life beyond those events smh They are not focused enough into building a life for themselves ?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:19 AM
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Very attractive women in my experience have either extreme narcissism or borderline personality disorder where they are highly sensitive to negative emotions. Projection. Most of the very attractive girls I've known are normal nice girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:30 PM
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https://youtu.be/immv2-hJHyE
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:29 PM
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https://withfrank.org/how-to-pay-for-college/what-do-i-need-to-prepare-for-college/budgeting/the-cost-of-sororities-and-fraternities/#:~:text=The%20cost%20of%20sororities%20and%20fraternities%20is%20much%20higher%20than,plus%20rush%20and%20alumni%20fees. Yeah bro up to $6k per semester. Mine was middle of the road at 3k. We pay for all the parties that's why we're so strict about who gets in and drinks our alcohol n shit. Also, we usually have 1 big artist every year come so like we had Dustin l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:45 PM
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They ARE ashamed to be one. But that's THEIR feeling to have, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:32 PM
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P.s. shaming and not respecting are very different. I don't respect heroin addicts. But I don't shame them either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:52 PM
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Your definition of slut is very different than society's. Do men want to have children with a girl that's in the 3 or 4 digit count? No. Under 50? Definitely, save for wacky incels with a body count under 5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:51 PM
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The unhealthy bits are clear.. First: ultimatums to your partner are manipulative, not expressing your needs in a healthy way, even if they are your needs Second: if you have different standards of cleanliness then you probably just shouldn't live together/are incompatible in that way. Unless one party literally lives in squalor, people have different standards. I don't clean up after my suite mate but everything I have is sparkling clean. It doesn't bother me if he leaves dishes out or somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:48 PM
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If they steal for their fix? Yes, shame them bc they are infringing on another. If they're just solo and not doing anything bad? Nope, no shaming. Sympathy, in fact. No heroin junkie is mentally stable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:24 PM
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I don't agree with shaming people who make different personal decisions to you but 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:04 PM
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He realised he had 3 choices, we would either break up, we would loose our house and pretty much be back to square one If you literally threatened a breakup over chores you're an incredibly unhealthy relationship participant -- a male clean freak who always has higher cleanliness standards than his partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:46 PM
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so these women are sad because they feel their being forced to work to pay bills but also do the bulk of childcare and housework, No they're sad bc they're more neurotic than men on average. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:44 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:37 PM
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I'm not a polyamorist but i have respect for them because I believe everyone's lifestyle is valid as long as it does not infringe upon another's. But I know you're way more authoritarian than that so..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:33 PM
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Yeah but I tried to sleep lol Finally on thr flight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:31 PM
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I've never had a girl freak out when I asked for commitment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:31 AM
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Not all life styles are equal True, someone who says women with a past are whores is bigoted and their lifestyle is objectively inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:31 AM
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I'm out of the storm too. Was west to west cities. Should have booked direct..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:30 AM
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SW
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:29 AM
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Well I'm stuck in an airport for the night bc my flight was canceled and it was the last one.. whoop dee doo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:41 AM
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My STANDING REACH is 88 inches lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:11 AM
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Whatever you say 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:59 AM
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My condolences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:47 AM
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I wish we had some study examining the N count of high N count males' partners + the N count of low count Males' partners. The funniest and most stupid red/blackpill assertation is that A. Attractive men are the only ones with a high body count B. These attractive men sleep with anyone they find good looking but don't date any with high body counts long term/to settle down C. Low N men get stuck with high N women who can't lock down an attractive male. This is the polar opposite of what I've see…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:35 AM
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Kindness isn’t everything. It’s certainly is something I requiere in my friendships and relationship. I agree. Kindness is necessary but not sufficient. And there is other traits that I see(again, if an exception comes along, I would not be opposed to them) that I would not like in a relationship What are those? definitely agree that not liking rap makes me even more of an outcast Well rap isn't the only popular music but I'm assuming if you dislike rap you also dislike EDM and pop, is that corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:25 AM
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No you were projecting before, saying it is the case, not saying whether or not something should be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:07 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:06 AM
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Sorry 😬 at least it's fixable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:06 AM
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Ha I bet I know where. If I'm right then yeah the student population there is wild lol. You've never had a woman you made out with get dragged away by her friends for example? No, I have many times, but I don't think just making out with a girl means she likes you, I was talking more about we make out AND we go talk for a bit AND/or we go to another club alone etc. Making out isn't really that consequential to me or to most girls you wanna go home with me now" and she goes "nice try but no" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:27 PM
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Sure honey whatever you say 😂 men r selfish sex crazed pigs who pump and dump and rape all the time😂 fuckin LOL. You guys are caricatures like the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:19 PM
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I never said YOU wouldn't. But most men would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:18 PM
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So I argue that it’s best to just pick one and stick to that path. And if the folks on here are going to go traditional go all the way I mean I agree. At least it's consistent even if I disagree with both
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:17 PM
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Wrong and misandrist. But I know your views so there's no point in arguing. Sorry you think men are more selfish than woman 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:07 PM
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🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:03 PM
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Sigh. There's no nuance on this sub ever. Of course 99% of men would never date a woman with 1000 body count , which TECHNICALLY means they care. But 99% of men are fine with a girl that has a body count similar to theirs, even if theirs is high
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:02 PM
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Ha. True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:01 PM
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But for those upset about not getting any casual sex in particular, yes it's mostly about feeling left out, and being treated as lesser creatures. It's understandable but it's still hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah casual sex is good for everyone assuming it's consensual!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:53 PM
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Lol you're a trad not a RP then. Rp is all about spinning plates and sexual strategy, not low body counts and conservatism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:53 PM
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perhaps too many women are ignoring their fathers and brothers. Lol people ignore their family all the time fr. Both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:52 PM
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Incorrect. The orgasm gap has nothing to do with selfishness or selflessness, it has to do with the equipment itself and the fact that men can impregnate 1000s of women but a woman can only have 1 baby at a time. Male orgasm is more critical to reproductive success and therefore it's more common and easier to achieve. Cmon, this is very simple stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:50 PM
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No it's because lesbians are in relationships but heteros have lots of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:48 PM
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Not going to argue with you again as your beliefs are ridiculous on their face and not close to indicative of what most men or women believe. Again, anyone reading this, read my last comment then read her profile. Make your own determination 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:46 PM
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Well in my experience if she likes me it's a done deal lol. Most of the girls I've gotten as far as feeling up or girls I've fingered on the dance floor I've brought home. Most on the first night, some later after getting numbers. And yeah college culture here is similar. I racked up a lot my sophomore year in college before I realized I wanted something real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:38 PM
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🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:35 PM
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I mean I'm just kinda estimating. I'm not sure how close my numbers are. Sounds like your make outs need some work. Are you hesitant to lean in ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:34 PM
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I mean I don't disagree. I don't smoke weed or cigs. I do vape Nicotine but think actual cigs smell kinda gross. Most people smoke a little ganja though, I'm actually one of the few that doesn't. Molly and shrooms… I don’t know.. the people that I have met that do take them, not the type of people I would date. Explain please? The people I know that take Molly and shrooms frequently are some of the kindest most loving, open, and generous people I know. Honestly, you should try a small dose of Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:31 PM
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Not interested in going round the mulberry bush with you again To anyone viewing these comments: pearllovespink is a sex-negative radfem. A crazily hilarious combination, I know, most radfems are all about women empowerment and sexual choice. But she's not, and she also thinks all men just want sex, women dont enjoy sex with men very much, and oh yeah she hates sex workers too. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:22 PM
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Shagging them in a club is way easier than actually taking them home. Thats odd. I mean in the USA it's different, I've only ever had sex in a club 1 time and it was with a girl I'd had sex with before. But yeah no, the modern sexculture in England is definitely way more liberal than most of the usa lol. Even big city urban usa which is very liberal itself there’s a hidden/unspoken assumption that you’re exclusive without saying it and that has caused some rifts and drama with some girls. Ya thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:19 PM
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🤷‍♂️ it's the same thing with me but I've learned there's nothing I can do about it. Just like people going back to their exes. They'll realize it's toxic whenever it's time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:16 PM
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that people over there are even more casual and DTF. But then I come to PPD and hear that you're exclusive in Europe the first time you kiss someone. Ikr. It's a bald faced lie. That said she's from Northern England, which the USA comparison is the Rural South. So tradconites make sense. Just incorrect in her projection of it to mainland western Europe/South of england lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:09 PM
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It does matter yes. It matters a lot. Some of my female friends I'd sleep with, most I wouldn't, but none am I trying to destroy their relationships for my own benefit. None have I actually slept with except one who pursued me last time she was single and I was single (neither of us are now). You seem to uhh... just pass over the fact that we can decide not to pursue someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:08 PM
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People who don't discuss and agree on things just screw themselves and others over Imo this is 96% of the entire dating "war" landscape Why so specific? Well studies show 4% of people are psycho/sociopaths who will lie to get what they want. The other 96% will not actively lie to someone's face. Pumping and dumping is a myth, "for the streets" is a myth. The women who get so called pumped and dumped are cowards who didn't ask the man if they were exclusive or moving towards it. The men who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:02 PM
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But on my side I probably will Exclusive the moment I like someone. Most people are like this. But people develop feelings at different rates and that's why everyone needs to discuss it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:56 PM
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No they don't lol. Almost no one in society is embarrassed by using online dating, just like online banking or online job apps. Also incorrect. The statement is not white noise. It's saying that people use online dating when they want to, yet most people don't want to very often. It's hilarious you're trying to deface the statement rather than the argument. You have no evidence for your actual position, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:55 PM
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I really don't see the issues in this. Like people who hate dating culture just need to be honest about their intentions qnd ask the other person's. People get hurt when they assume. Most people won't lie to other peoples faces. And this isn't gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:51 PM
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So you'd be ok dating a girl who went out and got drunk Fridays and Saturdays, sometimes bought blow, went to concerts and did Molly once a quarter ish, had tried shrooms, smokes weed sometimes with friends, etc? Has nothing to do with discipline btw. I have done many drugs and drink frequently and am incredibly disciplined. I work long hours, make 6 figures (low, but still above 100k) and answer my VP at ANY time of any day, even Christmas. My diet is pretty meticulous and I work out for 90 min…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:48 PM
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🤷‍♂️ if u wanna believe all my friends throughout my life were liars that's your choice. But they ain't And yes, most people don't go on the apps except when they do, which is rarely. That's my total point. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:45 PM
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Theoretically my options are open as long as we're not exclusive. Realistically Exactly. Theoretically vs realistically. That's exactly the best situation is when both people can choose others but actively choose eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:43 PM
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discission So you did need a conversation then..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:42 PM
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Woah buddy those are 2 very different things. Friend says "I'm horny come over, will you?" Vs actively trying to improve their state to steal her So which is it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:42 PM
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Yeah but you ASKED. that's the critical part. You asked him. It's the same for men. You have to ask her. Just assuming is stupid and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:41 PM
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We're FWB so technically I guess our options are open but I have negative amounts of desire to look for another man. Unless he tells me he wants to start looking for another partner, we are and have been exclusive. Honestly the best way to do things bc you're actively choosing the other person every day and there's no obligations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:40 PM
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Yeah this is horseshit LMAO. England has a far worse hookup culture than USA. The literal term is "any hole is the goal" for boys. The girl I'm seeing complained often about it because she is pretty relationship minded and doesn't shag boys at the bar. Hell, I'm far more sociosexually open than her. But England as a whole is not. It's hella funny you try to make it sound like going on dates in England = exclusive because some of her friends she talks about (who aren't in LTR) are shagging multip…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:37 PM
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Props for admitting it but boyo you're missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:32 PM
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Can you be more specific please so I can see what's different because I had a different result. When I'm single and dating I do the same thing. And my general percentages (ROUGH! not exact) Are If I go out and try? Conversations with a girl = 100% and usually 5+ per night if I bar hop Making out with those girls = 50-80% (I can think of a few times that they had a bf, or left with their friends, etc). Getting their number if I made out with them = 100%, then getting a text back like 50/50. Going…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:31 PM
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who want to read notes from the underground 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:24 PM
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This lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:23 PM
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that doesn't exist Uhh ya it does lmao. I had to work for my attractiveness but I have had lifelong friends who never work out have shit jobs and always get laid whenever they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:02 PM
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This is like saying women like to work. Some might, most do not Also sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:01 PM
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Lol. I have had a lot of friends over the years and have been an adult exclusively in the tinder era. The ONLY people who are on the apps all the time are very lonely people who never can find a bf or gf. Of my friends that was 2 people ever (one man and one woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:01 PM
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Do I like it? No. Am I in support of your cute little trad communities continuing? Yes. Do what you want. Just don't project it onto us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:59 PM
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There's a difference between explicit and implicit criticism. For example wanting a man because he makes 6 figures is not socially acceptable but wanting a man with a stable job and good career is. Similarly, it's fully socially acceptable to not want to date "the town bike" but not acceptable to say you want a virgin. Note my flair and note that I'm talking about society not individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:18 AM
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I ain't a lefty lmao I'm pro guns anti taxes etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:47 AM
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I’m sure 90% of women think they could handle me in a fight because I’m 5’6 120 pounds First off gain some weight bud Second off - play wrestle with them to show your strength. Or if they're into bdsm do that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:31 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:30 AM
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Believing women can't love men is for broken people bud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:30 AM
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Eh. Partially true but mostly false. Women do care if you can defend yourself and her. If you guys get attacked and you get curb stomped guess how long she's gonna be with you? Not long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:28 AM
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Yes it is deeply misogynist. Why is it misogynist? Because it shows you've been hoodwinked by the patriarchal falsehood that men just want sex and could pretty much care less about love. That men are dumb animals as fathers on sitcoms and that they only think with their dicks. You believe men wouldn't ever get into a LTR if they didn't have go. Wrong, and hateful to believe so as it continues patriarchal beliefs. Men and women both prefer loving sex in a LTR to casual sex. Men and women both hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:22 AM
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You clearly do if you believe women are incapable of loving in the same way as men, that is both narrow-minded and misogynist. Narrow minded because you can't imagine a woman's feelings, misogynist because you believe a man is capable of deeper emotion than a woman since you're not a woman. I'm not either, but it is clearly delusional what you're saying. And yes, yes it does. Plenty of non exclusive relationships exist where people love eachother. Polygamy is one but not all of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:58 AM
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Most people don't go on the apps between relationships unless it's to just have them as an option. The people who exclusively date via apps are few and far between
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:50 AM
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Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:48 AM
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Lol what No shot bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:48 AM
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think it's OLD dating that's messing with men more than women I don't think it really messes with either of them. Most people find relationships reasonably quickly (i.e. similar to finding jobs-- 3mo to 6mo) if they're really really trying to date hard. Going out every weekend, online dating, asking friends to set them up. That's after whatever healing process is necessary from past LTR though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:10 PM
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On top of this you never spend much time on it. You're more likely to have used it periodically in short phases Nearly EVERYONE who uses tinder does it this way. Self included, as a guy. Hell, everyone dates in short bursts. The common situ: Man and woman end relationship Man goes back onto the dating "market," getting some dates, having some sex. Man finds girl who he likes, dates her. Man is off the market. And vice versa for women. The only perrinially (sp?) single people of either gender are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:06 PM
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What Lmao Gay sex is incomparable to hetero sex in terms of the social dance from meeting to sexual intercourse. It's ludicrous to even compare it And I happen to believe most of the incels and sexless men ARE due to social skills and introversion. But uhh... no. You can't use homosexual sex to make this point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:42 PM
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Most women aren't interested in it and yet most women are expected to indulge in it. I literally statistically proved you wrong -- 7/10 women engage in it. Enjoyment of it is total speculation on your part, due to projection -- YOU don't enjoy it. Say that. YOU, fiftypoundpuppy don't enjoy hookup culture. Maybe YOUR friends and the social circle YOU seek out don't either. But normal, urban dwelling young people 18-29 absolutely enjoy it, women included. The women who love casual sex you keep ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:09 PM
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Finding women is the easy bit lol just go to bars and clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:56 PM
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You define better as low N, they define better as more sexual, more social, not weirdo introvert nerdy girls, who do fun things and have a lot of sex instead of sitting at home gaming or reading It's very simple. Your better =/= their better. Additionally, most men who define low N as better are ALSO low N, ALSO the nerdy gamer STEM types who never do social things. Which actually is not a judgement from me-- it makes perfect sense for like to attract like. But you're dead wrong in saying that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:53 PM
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Hahaha ok buddy you're right ;) just keep thinking what you're thinking because you're clearly not open to change or argument. But yeah in reality I definitely have more experience in these realms, whether you think so or not hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:43 PM
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I just proved to you that at minimum 40% of women do not calculate their love And no, horrible things are true all the time in the world. But how someone loves is an opinion or a guess. You cannot know how someone truly feels deep down. Therefore, your horrible opinion is just that -- an opinion. And it probably causes you a lot of hatred for women in addition. I think you should see a professional because it isn't normal as a human to hate half of the human race. And yes, before you reply, I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:42 PM
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if their boyfriend/husband would leave them if they cheated, that’s the patriarchy Where is that said by any feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:52 AM
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All of what you said may or may not be true. But the number one most important thing that is true -- the average woman is not a radfem. Radfems are entirely divorced from reality and rare
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:49 AM
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That is incorrect. How can it possibly be correct when a significant minority (40%) of women gain no financial benefit from a relationship? Even if every single woman who dates a man making more than her was, that leaves a large chunk. Additionally -- just because the man makes more doesn't mean the woman only dates him for his money LOL. Some women definitely do but not close to all of them. Plenty of women gain no financial benefit even from a man who makes more than them. For example, the par…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:57 PM
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Yes there are, but I'm not going to use my time to dig for them. You can find them yourself. If I had to bet my life on the fact that I've had more personal experiences with these things than you I would.. but we're anonymous on the internet so 🤷‍♂️ believe what you want bub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:52 PM
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It's on you to prove it as you made the original claim. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:51 PM
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Nah. Plenty of women contribute equally or more than equally. About 40%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:28 PM
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Depends on the woman of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:26 PM
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Yeah that's true. I got more play in my fraternity than I ever got losing a bunch of weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:23 PM
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And THATS why you're sex negative, along with being wrong. No, hookup culture doesn't benefit men or women unequally. It benefits men who want casual and it benefits women who want casual. Which is approximately the same proportion of each sex!! more waiting for marriage to have sex with the same woman for the rest of your life ????? Lmao there are plenty of women who have sex before marriage NOT AT the pressure of men. Women love sex too. Hence your sex negative bs. if men couldn't look for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:23 PM
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One thing I find interesting is that those sources indicate the reasoning for the infidelity being high stress levels and long hours I think it's a combination of things. Primarily the nature of the job. As you said they're surrounded by doctors who are higher status/objectively better than them. They're working super long hours and are very stressed. The job itself is shit and stressful and if they're in the ED, even traumatic. Additionally the type of woman who chooses that career is also more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:13 PM
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Men care about perception but it's ridiculous to say they don't care about other things too -- and more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:01 PM
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That doesn't answer my question. Even if marginal improvements don't add that much why would your partner be upset at them regardless??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:58 PM
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🤷‍♂️ do what you want, as I said, ignore at your own peril
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:54 PM
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Nope. High N count women wind up with high N count men. Sorry bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:53 PM
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No That's not an equitable situation Women are often insecure for getting the ick from a high body count man or fuckboy though -- that's the comparable situation..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:53 PM
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No? I never said they'd be the pursuers? Lol you're assuming a bunch of shit I never said. Women would (and already do) accept men for casual sex that don't lie.. duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:57 PM
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It does not matter what "the statistics" tell you in an actual relationship. Sure it does. Ignore at your own peril
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:10 PM
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Ok your mysterious tells are perfect. Good job Daniel Negranu
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:10 PM
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usually its the introvert girls asking random guys to fuck on dating apps. Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:09 PM
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If it were unacceptable for men to primarily look for sex, hookup culture would still be pushed... by women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:09 PM
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Not a cheater... yet lmao https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/771327/nurses-more-likely-affairs-cheating https://www.reddit.com/r/40something/comments/9pc0zz/what_i_learned_being_married_to_a_nurse/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:55 PM
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No they aren't. You're incorrect in assuming party girls are high N. But you'd also be incorrect in assuming introverts are low N. The difference isn't as high as redpill or society would tell you...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:54 PM
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No ur just delusional and I was just giving an example not saying it's 100% of the time. But no, party girls don't actually fuck as much as the media or red pill tells you -- and introverted girls fuck a lot more than you think bud Good luck telling if your sweet conservative gf has high body count tho ;) you'll need it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:52 PM
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3rd interview in 30 min 😬😬😬😬
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:51 PM
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That's the same thing tho? Would you date a girl with a body count of 1000? Doubtful. That's her CV. You're more like a hiring manager than job seeker. Girls come to guys and make clear indications. Guys have to make the first explicit move but interest is usually shown by the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:37 AM
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Yes and yes. Now I'm fantastic at it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:35 AM
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if it truly were unacceptable for men to primarily look for sex then hook-up culture would not exist. False entirely. Many women prefer short term casual relationships and about the same proportion of men vs women have had casual (about 70-75%). Just because you're a sex negative woman doesn't mean you can accurately generalize that conservatism lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:33 AM
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that the vast majority of people who make this argument have never even been tested themselves. I agree. And I prefer higher N women. With that said if you don't believe higher N women have more STDs but that bi men do, you're hilariously delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:28 AM
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i dont need to be tested as i dont engage into trashy behavior with trashy women Ppl lie. Don't be an idiot. Get tested anyways. Get a paternity test too. The stakes are too high to not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:27 AM
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I agree with the title but not with the post. While yes, slim men don't deserve slim women just for being slim: Women's most attracted trait in a man is his face. You said height, penis, muscularity. Those are factors and being tops in any one or more might put you over the top but if you have a good looking face you can be average in all 3 of the others and do very well (obviously, if you have a micropeen I'm sorry for ya but you won't be succeeding much, or if you're a dwarf, or skinny as fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:12 AM
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What Why would they care if you got hotter if they're having sex with you on a regular basis? Unless they like have a fat fetish or some shii
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:24 AM
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definitely tell if she had a promiscuous pass Absolutely incorrect. And borderline delusional. Sociosexuality IS NOT THE SAME THING as extroversion vs introversion The highest N girl I ever dated was an introvert who dressed conservatively and got panic attacks when she went to clubs. The lowest (save for high school relationships where two of my exgfs were virgins) was an extrovert who went to raves and parties, drank and did drugs with me, and dressed super slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:21 AM
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That's bs lmao Every man cares if his partner is good in bed Every man cares if his partner is a pleasure to be with Some men care about body count too but most don't unless it's different than his -- ugly or nerdy men with low counts care a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:18 AM
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partners, the promiscuous man will choose the more desirable younger, lower N count women, Nope, the promiscuous man will choose the promiscuous woman. Assortative mating by sociosexuality is literally a statistical truth. Younger? Yes. Desirable? Of course. Hot guys aren't dating bridge trolls or fat girls. Low count? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:17 AM
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Nah neither. They usually date a party dude just like them who has a similar N
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:14 AM
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There you go. Assortative mating ain't just by wealth and class and education. It's by sociosexuality too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:13 AM
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college and is now an RN. Hahahaha omg not surprised. My ex who cheated was an RN. Shiiit if I were to have 2 equal women and one was an RN and another had 1000 body count I'd pick the latter immediately. A nurse's job is literally the most conducive to cheating with a coworker you can possibly get Funnily, there's even stats that bear this out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:12 AM
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To you, you don't speak for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:10 AM
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Great uhhh are we supposed to care about that? Women don't not date me based on whether or not I judge a certain characteristic when I vet them for a LTR, lmao. I'm a man who prefers higher body count which is the funny bit. But guys who prefer a lower one are perfectly valid to not want to date girls with a high one, and girls with a high one should just not date them or tell them to fuck off lmao. It's a free market of dating. Everyone can have whatever standard you want. If a guy wants to cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:09 AM
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Lolwut
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:05 AM
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how Americans make such a big deal of these irrelevant stuff. Its more of a reputational deal over here I think. America has a lot more rural towns than Europe as we have about 1/3 the population in significantly more space. In a small town, a girl who sleeps with lots of guys is going to get a bad reputation and not be committed to. In a big city no one really gives a shit. P.s. religion. Americans are way more religious than most western European countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:04 AM
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No. Ho behavior does. not high N. You can be high N (esp as RP defines it) by 25 just having 2 or 3 hookups between relationships every time. A girl who has cheated, or flirts openly with other guys, etc? For the streets. A girl who likes sex and is always faithful to her bf? Nah, most guys don't care. The exception: a reputation for going through guys in a specific town or social circle. aka town bike. If a girl sleeps with all of a guys acquaintances of course he's gonna be disgusted. If she h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:01 AM
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I'd argue it's both for those men who feel deep disgust. Insecurity and the ick. They ain't mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:59 AM
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It does though. It rarely happens. High n and nerdy dudes does happen, but those girls aren't party girls. There's a misconception that high N = extrovert. Or extrovert = high sociosexual expression. From personal experience too. It can overlap but the stereotype is way too far. The most "party girl" chick I dated had an N of 3, two High school BFs and a 4yr LTR. The least "party girl" who HATED parties and got panic attacks in loud and strange areas had an N? I was her 46th. How you present to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:58 AM
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Regularly yes. Start of a new relationship? Nah. You ain't gonna put off passion. Casual sex exists. Use a rubber and don't be an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:27 AM
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Nope, I am not. And maybe your friends were like this, but statistically ivy leaguers and upper middle class people don't act like a pikey. Just because your friends are shit doesn't mean everyone in the world is 🤷‍♂️ Having a college degree in a partner is 2x more likely to stay together than high body count. Yes, sexual past matters, but no, it's not the primary deciding factor, unless it's something incredibly unusual and disgusting like a violent fetish or liking gang bangs or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:53 AM
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I don't disagree that the western world has a large advantage in all domains, economic , technical, military. Still doesn't boost your point or refute my point. Civilizations rise and fall. Patriarchies are included in both the risen and fallen ones. P.s. -- 1.5 billion people live in those two countries and 330m live in America so honestly the world is more a patriarchy right NOW than not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:08 PM
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The "1950s" you're referring to were a tiny sliver of human history that was only even possible due to the United States relative strength in the post war period. Putin’s New Strategy: Laying Claim to Traditional Values https://www.wsj.com/articles/putins-new-strategy-laying-claim-to-traditional-values-11671253263 The third biggest superpower in the world is patriarchal, just because the west isn't doesn't mean it can't become it. Also https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/china-proposes-teaching-m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:41 PM
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LOLOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:38 PM
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Oh honey, I don't get mad if a girl doesn't fuck me on the first date -- I just find a different girl :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:24 PM
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Omg hahaha no fucking way. I love some of you guys and some of you are cool, but I have enough play IRL that I don't need to dig into the dumpster pile of ppd.. with all due respect to my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:21 PM
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The resident escort on here says most johns are normal guys.. not crusty old gross ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:11 PM
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most of them are forced into that, and a lot of it is sex trafficking u/thetruthishere_ we have another delusional lady lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:10 PM
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Women on here shame sex workers way more than men. Cough pearllovespink cough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:05 PM
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No, that's your perspective Lilith. We both know you're borderline asexual and absolutely sex-negative. It's OK. Nothing wrong with that. But projecting your perspective and behavior on other women and men both IS wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:04 PM
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No one can perfectly predict anyone else's behavior in particular. But show me two groups of people and give me their backgrounds and salaries and education and such and I will tell you which is more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:02 PM
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13% of women and 20% of men have ever cheated statistically. Most do not cheat. But if you have 10 partners over a life you will be cheated on statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:35 AM
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Yes. Women are badly behaved many times. But what you ignore or are ignorant of is the fact that class makes 1000x a difference than gender in trashy behavior. For example you and the girls both are trashy and engaging in 🐍 behavior. But most people I've known never have . It's who you surround yourself with. I've surrounded myself with successful honorable men and women since I got to my city and I have a stable of friends who have never cheated (either gender) and a girl who's madly in love wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:28 AM
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Oh yes, good for them. I'd never date a woman I didn't spend an hour or two texting or facetiming every day. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:17 AM
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"The people who run the "x is bad narrative" are always losers. Women losers who can't get an attractive guy to take them seriously for the life of them, thus they start hating men. Men losers who can't get an attractive woman to pay sexual attention to them without offering significant "compensation" in return." TRUUUUE. Truest shit I've heard on ppd this week
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:04 PM
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Whereas my parents dated for 2mo before engagement and divorced and my uncle and aunt dated 11 years before marriage and are still together. I don't think you can really say either way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:19 AM
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Eh i don't blame you I'm kinda in a weird situation too, though no negativity just sad because of distance with the woman I love. But.. if you had shit go down then you shouldn't still be stuck on him. I'm not sure how that happens for people. Like my ex cheated and when I found out I was immediately disgusted by her as a person, she wanted to go to therapy but I immediately ended things etc etc. I know some people have a hard time getting over an ex who did them wrong but I don't for some reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:16 AM
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Caaaaap You're her friend too, some of my partners friends are good looking but most are average and she's like "omg so pretty" You are not unbiased lmao. Send a pic if you wanna prove it otherwise.. cap
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:25 PM
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Yeah so then it's clear you DONT look at yourself objectively. Ask a male friend of a friend who isn't related to your ex in any way. Exes who are mad say stupid hurtful shit. Hell, it could be true, maybe you look like a boy, i have no clue I don't know you. But he is CERTAINLY not a good source to take that from. As for the 2nd paragraph: I'm glad youre taking care of your physical health issues but you need to take care of your mental health issues too. I had a partner to lean on last may whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:22 PM
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Thanks bud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:17 PM
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Lmaoooo I'm sure she has. She dated Chris Hemsworth too! Oh and Michael B Jordan. Her fat body is just irresistible to famous and rich men. Hahahaha cmon you're making a fool out of yourself 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:16 PM
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Casual sex with a woman tells you at least that part of the relationship would be good, and is a good start for building a relationship. This isn't that casual then. It's intentional vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:08 PM
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Did your ex not have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:06 PM
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I asked this in another Reply but.. whata your dating history? Have you been married or engaged, or had a 2+ year LTR? Are you attractive, or atleast not ugly? Do you have a pretty good job? Are you slim? Objectively I'm asking. Not what your friends say to gas you up or your ex insulted you to bring you down. Just in general, how do you stand compared to others
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:00 PM
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Are you single? Have you ever had a serious LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:58 PM
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Why? Are you man or woman? Is this related to dating or is this different?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:48 PM
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Eyy 2nd round interview with a fucking stellar company in about 2 weeks of seriously looking (I love my company and boss but they're running out of money and I'm not gonna wait to be laid off to leave lol(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:47 PM
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friend is 5’5 165 and has the most perfect body. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA omg
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:39 PM
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Nope. patriarchy supports male casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:24 PM
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Sure you do, honey
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:23 PM
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Nope! Just fit ones who exercise :) https://www.cdc.gov/healthyweight/assessing/bmi/adult_bmi/index.html https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/average-weight-for-women#:~:text=What's%20the%20Average%20Weight%20for%20Women%3F&text=How%20much%20does%20the%20average,feet%2C%204%20inches)%20tall. https://myprogresspics.com/bmi/what-does-29-bmi-look-like Any woman who is above 29bmi is disgusting sorry 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:23 PM
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Nah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:20 PM
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😘😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:16 PM
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Hell no. Most good relationships are made via hooking up with someone then deciding wow I really like you let's date. Religious ones are often shitty and controlling. Even the good ones aren't easier to find than non religious people. Plus religious people rush into marriages just to have sex bc they're attracted to their husband or wife. And that's bad. My great uncle who's very rich married a gold digger accidentally and he's miserable. My dad has 2 divorces from rushing into things. Don't thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:30 PM
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Nah hook up culture is not predatory its literal preservation of free choice. Freedom to either commit or do casual is good for everyone because it maximizes individual free choice for men AND women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:27 PM
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men r sexist Women need an alpha male and they're children This has to be a troll lol you're being sexist asf and saying sexist men don't deserve women? Well it's true -- and you're sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:25 PM
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It's complicated lol. Read some of the top posts maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:24 PM
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Eh don't care that much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:24 PM
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Weird maybe they don't like me talking about consent..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:20 PM
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Because in my experience with Normal girls at Normal bars and Normal clubs, asking is irrelevant and counterproductive. And I'm not some chadly stud I'm just a Normal guy who's social. Ok, I'll amend my op to include -- teenage virgins -- autistic people who can't read cues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:20 PM
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No patriarchy encourages men to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:14 PM
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Na I won tho ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:13 PM
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Which one? This? Did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:13 PM
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People on this sub don't like to admit women can be femcels too and not just men struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:12 PM
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Pretty true. I think those stats are accurate. Been on a ton of dates and only really had 3 LTRs if you don't count high school
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:12 PM
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Nahh its pretty easy to date in a big city in your mid 20s. You're in your prime. Got the young energy and body but old enough to have money to do shit. Just make sure to go to high class bars and clubs instead of trap houses and you'll find good girls to date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:11 PM
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True dat. Most men and women both are fat and unsuccessful and not great partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:05 PM
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You're... 17.. wait 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:02 PM
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LOL sounds like someone read twoX too much today Which is funny because generally I agree that an average guy can get an average girl with some effort. But THERE ARE plenty of guys who are too ugly or mentally ill or autistic to date and no amount of improvement will change that. Additionally some women absolutely have high standards. Just because you have low standards (hygiene, good haircut and somewhat fit with "some chub" as you say) doesn't mean other women do hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:00 PM
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Yeah I mean that's rough. She's gonna have trouble finding a guy who's not a lot younger. Is she OK with younger guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:54 PM
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I mentioned the number of interactions with a specific purpose -- saying that there were lots of them and that I never explicitly asked to kiss anyone. And nothing is ever 100%, but I do believe it's antisocial in most cases yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:52 PM
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I lost it someone linked me to an askmen thread that linked to an askwomen thread. Something like.. how do you like guys to approach you or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:51 PM
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So why she wait till 35 then? I'm sorry but a lot of guys won't want her not because she's 35 (I'd date a 35 year old) but because she's inexperienced. And the men who search for inexperience are even worse!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:42 PM
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Um no? We're on an anonymous debate forum where we discuss sexuality LMAO. Plus it's not wrong to be waiting for marriage, I just don't want a girl like that. I was curious if you were consistent or if you'd changed your mind after bad experiences previously. But if you wanna get defensive go ahead lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:41 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:39 PM
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🤷‍♂️ I've slept with various classes and types and ages, from my 15 year old GF when I was 16 to a 29 year old about a year ago. From a McDonald's employee to a PhD student and from Florida, California, and many states in between. And kissed? I can't even count the number of girls I've made out with at the bar. Certainly over 100, probably over 200 new interactions with women I'd never met before or just met over drinks. I never asked for explicit consent one time and I never had issues reading …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:39 PM
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Is she still super religious? Christian?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:25 PM
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There's no proof, I'm not denying reality. Social media has caused fewer relationships overall. It's not gendered bud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:24 PM
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What happened to her youth? But yes Asian countries are so much more brutal on aging women. Maybe she should move to usa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:11 PM
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No there isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:10 PM
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Men should not date virgins, doesn't mean virgins are bad people. Just hella asexual and I'm not about that 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:09 PM
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It's sick but I'm probably gonna have to move for work sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:09 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:08 PM
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Her arousal at the sight of me The fact that she's always willing to go and I can rip her clothes off at any time because she wants me whenever I want her It's like an inflationary spiral in economics but for sex. I'm attracted to her and her face and body make me aroused which she knows. She's attracted to me and my face and body make her aroused which I know. But then my arousal at her makes her even more aroused and her arousal at me makes me even more aroused. Then it keeps spiraling until w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:43 PM
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Ha. I am a needy person and text a girl I'm interested in at all hours of a day. But I've also never been ghosted and girls tend to want to hang out with me overall. I think it's more about being interesting than frequency of texts. Helps that I'm decently good looking. Who knows maybe texting them so frequently does put them off but they overcome it with my other qualities. Doubt it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:38 PM
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Average fit decent looking guys get average fit decent looking girls 🤷‍♂️ And yes most men making 200k+ can easily pull decent women on money alone unless they're fucking retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:32 PM
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Ok. How is that a trick question?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:31 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:30 PM
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Nah. Average men don't deal with yearly dry spells. The 2021 GSS showed that 12% of men 18-25 haven't had sex in the past year. If you deal with yearly dry spells you're bottom 12% of unattractiveness sorry. Or you just don't try. In the last 10 years shit has gone nuclear as womens options have exploded exponentially with social media Ummmmm.. so have men's. A good chunk of my hookups have come from IG dms or friends of friends via socials. OLD is one small part of a large pie, though. Most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:30 PM
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Hilariously, utterly wrong. I'm a man btw, and I have a steady partner. I'm not dopamine chasing. But you're flat wrong sorry bud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:27 PM
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You are a woman. You are not women. Speak for yourself and your desires, not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:26 PM
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Fat men date fat women and vice versa. He's wrong in saying hot men date overweight women or hot women date overweight men (but the latter happens more often due to status and fame).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:25 PM
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Yes it is lmao that's fat as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:24 PM
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🤷‍♂️ some trusted ppl on here have seen my pics but you ain't gonna so believe what you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:23 PM
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Southern California
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:22 PM
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More men are single (read: Stacy chasing) than any other generation so you're incorrect Tiktok generation doesn't want anyone on their level
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:22 PM
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Ah yes they're most celebrities and totally beloved.. lmao Plus "allegations"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:21 PM
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Most beloved male celebrities have a history of some sort of crime against women. LOL what Absolutely false
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:02 PM
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because the slightly above average man still has a prohibitively difficult time getting pussy with his looksmatch. Not true. I'm above average but not chad and I get my looks match all the time when I'm single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:16 AM
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Except most women and men both end up married overall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:10 AM
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Yeah exactly not too well I'd expect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:07 AM
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True, this was my comment reply. Women do this because of biology too. And using someone is using someone. They're equally bad, underhanded, and devious and if do it you should be ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:07 AM
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There’s no nerve endings past the entrance of the vagina to make childbirth significantly less painful. They can’t really feel/get into it. Even when I watch porn I can tell they can’t really feel/get into it. They’re mostly just tolerating it in exchange for emotional/financial support. Hahahahahaha what a fucking stupid comment. Guess no women ever have casual sex right? Bc no financial or emotional gain? Oh whoops.. 73% do, plus 12% who "refuse to answer" aka do but are ashamed of it https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:06 AM
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This, it's pretty easy to spot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:03 AM
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need to understand is that most men engage in sexually coercive and aggressive behaviour. False, and if most men you interact with do, you're interacting with the wrong men. No, you just notice it because it's bad when it does happen. Selection bias. How many people on the street do you pass a day? 1000? 5000? How many cat call you? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:01 AM
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Also encountering women like this is rare but True men who act like this are the majority Untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:58 AM
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What? It's a biological drive for women to want rich men too. Back in the day it was for animal leather and meats and shit. But now money has replaced that in society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:57 AM
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Hmmm. It's a tough one to decide because there's an argument that nudists aren't doing it sexually and don't rape or molest anyone else who's nudist. But just like transgender bathroom usage it opens the door for creeps who aren't really core nudists to fake it and slither on in 🐍 That's why I'm in favor of no transgender use of bathroom usage (unisex solo bathrooms instead) and no public nudist colonies. But a family who does it at home? Fine. Not really tied to this opinion but I think the maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:56 AM
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Not black nor do I have a small d but the stereotype you mention about black guys is helpful only to the black guys who DO have bigger than average Ds. Imagine being a black guy with a small peen, it sounds way worse than being a white guy or Asian with a small peen. The expectation is brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:51 AM
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and some parts of Thailand, where white guys are often seen as a meal ticket, but I'm not sure that should really count. They shouldn't count bc the girls don't actually want you for you they want you for clout and money and a visa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:49 AM
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Yup agreed I think if you're a decent looking decently successful black guy you're preferred over a decent looking decently successful white guy But ugly black guys have it the roughest in comparison to only white and black It's pretty irrelevant overall though because 90% of people date within their races and prefer their own race
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:46 AM
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The average girl in California is "fuckable." The average girl in Kansas is "🤮🤮🤮🤮"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:44 AM
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I've seen the opposite in my experiences 🤷‍♂️ plenty of ugly men who are rich and successful have trophy wives, not even discussing celebs either And no, actually hot guys don't date Lena dunham clones sorry buddy you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:43 AM
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What people say on IG isn't what they do. Gassing up your friends isn't actionable either. Sure, women would prefer chad but 99% of women end up with average Joe, statistically. Both for sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:42 AM
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men have an average of like 6 partners during their lives. Depends on the study. One says 7 one says 14. Also depends on the country and how religious it is - the average non religious guy body count is 100% double digits not 7. believe many women are also experiencing multiple partners throughout their lives, especially in their youth. Women have a body count of 5 on average in the same study. Please pick one or the other and don't be hypocritical. Is that study believable or not? You can't say…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:41 AM
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ON AVERAGE avg people date avg people tho if you claim otherwise you're duded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:38 AM
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I'm curious if what you said in your OP is true that's it Relationship -> marriage -> sex is the order you said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:37 AM
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EDIT: for the people who are getting it twisted, first love = guy you gave your virginity to First love dkes NOT mean who you lost your virginity to lol. Me and my HS ex didn't love eachother when we had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:36 AM
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You waited till marriage to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:51 AM
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Nah not really, they are mostly hooking up with people their level. No one really gets lucky with a 10 or dumpster dives with a 1. You're watching too many movies buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:51 AM
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Tinder is horse shit. Men outnumber women 9 to 1 on those apps. Go outside and touch grass bro. Bars and clubs are basically 50/50. I've seen average guys go home with average girls over 100 times. But you want to have the notion that women rate themselves higher than they should be and nothing I say or do is gonna change that. I've been here long enough to know that's the case lmao. You don't want to hear anything against it atall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:51 AM
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Nope I'm illiterate. Entirely so. Lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:49 AM
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😂😂 ok bud whatever u say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:36 AM
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You know what I mean. I have a friend who's a smokejumper bc he was in the 101st Airborne division. He only does it wildfire season but I consider it a major part of his character and story That man I do, we will F silly and have glorious times together treating each other well living life while people whine on Reddit about how they 'cant F Stacy'. The hilarity in this sub is unmatched because I used to be the guy who couldn't F Stacey but then I lost 80lbs, got abs and a six figure job and fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:36 AM
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Lmfao. Jesus h christ you still didn't answer my question with a yes or no. Im done trying with you💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:33 AM
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🤷‍♂️ on studies they do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:33 AM
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The word isn't masculine but that's not the characteristic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:32 AM
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Why? What evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:32 AM
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Nope. Average women often WANT to date up, but can't. It is far more common to see a hot woman with a fat or ugly guy bc he's rich or famous or charismatic I am from a part of the country where almost everyone is attractive, self included. One of the lowest city obesity rates in the usa. I have never dated an average (5'4, 170lb/29.5bmi) girl nor have my friends. Thankfully, there are plenty of good options here. So nope. I am right, average people date average people. Hot people date hot people…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:32 AM
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Themselves no, but their female friends 100% yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:13 AM
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The ones who are not putting themselves out there are not. This. Some of these guys think they can sit at home and play leagues of legend all day and find a gf drop from the sky magically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:13 AM
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And vice versa. Most average, fit healthy people with average face date someone of the opposing gender who's average, fit and healthy, average face, average boob/dick size, average income, etc. MOST PEOPLE ARE AVERAGE!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:12 AM
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For those who genuinely have high sociosexuality and love sleeping around? Yes of course. They enjoy new partners and old partners both. For the average American? No, they're fine with one partner at a time. They have casual sex in between relationships but are happy in one and not looking elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:09 AM
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What? I'm not talking about flirting itself 🙄 you're still missing the point I'm asking if you believe a man reading a woman's flirtatious signals or whether shes just being nice is an advantage You replied by saying "I'm bad at it" basically since you can only pick out super obvious flirting. But that's not what I asked??? I asked if you thought it's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:04 AM
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I think you can increase your odds and leverage much more intracountry than intercountry. Most guys don't try socially to improve. They don't learn how to talk to girls or flirt. They sit inside and play games and jerk off. Rarely lift, have a shit haircut and dress in baggy jeans and a smelly Hoodie. They never go out to bars and clubs and they eat microwave dinners every night (which is why the average American male is 29.5bmi). If you're leaving USA for another country for a wife you're, funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:51 AM
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Yes, I make assumptions based on everyone's profession. And I would never date you. I'm sure you'd be fascinating to listen to talk about life over a gin and tonic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:46 AM
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Ummm first off that's not what I said or asked? I said you reading flirting aka SOMEONE ELSE is doing the flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:45 AM
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... the point is that the people who don't drink and drug are viewed as lame and don't have as many opportunities for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:42 AM
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If you only knew me and what I look like and act like, hehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:41 AM
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Redditors are more liberal and LGBT though Either way my point stands
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:41 AM
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Honey, the average woman and average man in America is richer and more attractive than Poland. The men who go to Eastern Europe to get wives aren't rich or attractive.. that's why they go! They can't find American wives because... they're not rich and attractive. That's the point. Sure, it's pretty desperate to move countries to find a wife. But you quoted as disgusted by it. It sounds like there's some sort of psychological issue you have with men doing things like that. You could just avoid th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:38 AM
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As I said to the top comment: the sample of that study ain't exactly representative of wider population. Redditors are more white, male, LGBT, and wealthy than the country overall
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:26 PM
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Could be true. I'm not sure how we'd measure that. But a lot of society is indeed repressed. Also the sample of that study ain't exactly representative of wider population. Redditors are more white, male, LGBT, and wealthy than the country overall
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:10 PM
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How is the usa a big fail? Lol Making 100k a year where I am makes a guy a bit above average. In Gdansk making 100k makes you a baller. I think that's part of it. And yea that's their point? They want to leverage their nationality and money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:56 PM
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Right but the 40th percentile in usa isn't changing his life around for sexual tourism. Like your entire life has to change to move countries. So anyone who's gonna do that is more like 4th percent than 40th. And so maybe they're 20th percent in the new country but that still isn't guaranteeing you anyone and certainly not an attractive anyone. I agree with the 2nd bit though, if you're OK leveraging your money for it, then a 3rd world country will have more gold diggers willing to marry you for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:54 PM
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Yup. I have before and it was from NOT figuring that out early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:51 PM
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She thinks insulting you makes you look like a cheap whore when in reality it makes her look like a salty fat femcel. Without ever seeing her I'd bet my life on if we saw a picture of her I'd he like.. "oh yeah. Not surprised"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:51 PM
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So you do believe reading flirting is helpful after all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:50 PM
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Of course they do. America is the boogeyman to Europeans lmao. But if we stepped away militarily you'd change your tune real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:49 PM
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Yes and you still can't quantify actual desire. For example, people get aroused during rapes but don't desire their rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:47 PM
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No, bitchiness is feminine, or at least it’s how men view femininity. Uhhh no it isn't LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:47 PM
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Well there you go. If you can't understand immigration then you can't understand moving for a job or partner or societal change. That's the fundamental reason you believe what you believe. My ancestors came from Ireland to America searching for a better life -- and finding a wife was part of that I've never done sexual tourism and never will, I'm American and believe American women are the most attractive in the world, and compatible with me a lot more than trads are. But finding it disgusting s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:17 AM
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The type of guy to engage in sexual tourism is almost always less attractive than the native men. See: fat but tall and american weeboos going to Japan not realizing being fat is way worse in Asia than usa
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:14 AM
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you're better or at least different than the local men This is the rub.. most sexual tourists are WORSE than the native man in all ways except income
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:12 AM
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True. Values aligning isn't the same as just sexual tourism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:10 AM
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What man has to look for a woman in another country Same idea as a man who has to self improve in the first place to get a gf. Women wants a man who is already good!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:10 AM
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Personally, I'm kind of disgusted by it. One thing is to travel somewhere and just fall in love with sb, the other to travel to some country on purpose to find a trad wife, because you think it's going to be easier there. It's not disgusting any more or less than taking a job in Germany for the money and leaving poland if you genuinely believe the quality if polish jobs is worse. Doesn't mean id do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:08 AM
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Don't stop traveling bc you will be associated with red flags Don't stop partying if you like partying just bc some sluts like to party Etc. Do what you want. Even though some men think partying and traveling are red flags , you shouldn't moderate your behavior to appease anyone EXCEPT if there's a specific partner who dislikes that behavior. If your bf says please drink a little bit less that's different than if some internet men say "oh man a woman who gets drunk all the time is a ho!" Don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:05 AM
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Completely agree with the OP. I wonder where the 30% stat came from tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:00 AM
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and ALL biological fathers are actually held accountable, that’s fine. Yeah that would have to be a part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:54 PM
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I fundamentally distrust all humans to do the very most important things not just women hahaha. And yes! Absolutely. I wouldn't want to make my partner uncomfortable or mad, or remind her of the fact that I believe everyone is capable of evil, so I'd do it in secret and go on my merry way once it was confirmed my child. Because I ACTUALLY do love her and care for her feelings. I tell every woman I date if we have a kid I will paternity test it -- ONCE. I don't bring it up again and will not do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:50 PM
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The women who commit paternity fraud WERE THE WOMEN WHO WERE TRUSTED! I 100% trusted my ex, and she cheated. Just because you might not cheat doesn't mean other women might not. Statistically it's impossible to tell the difference between a liar and normal man or woman. Should there be structures to prevent Tinder Swindler type men from defrauding women? Fuck yes! Should women send their bank details to a man? Fuck no! That doesn't mean they don't love or trust the man, it means they're not fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:47 PM
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The government doesn't do much to protect us from fraud preemptively, but instead focuses on investigating after the fact, and I'm comfortable with that arrangement. Ok, so you'd be in favor of no alimony or support for fraud cases, and civil or criminal penalties for women who are proven to defraud? If yes, then I agree with your argument and the govt shouldn't mandate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:45 PM
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That's a much better argument than the moral argument. I agree it'd be impossible to enforce but I also agree that it would be a net positive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:43 PM
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You know the fear some neurotic women has for all men beating them up? It's the same visceral fear neurotic men have for paternity fraud. A deep biologically rooted fear. Not very many men beat their partners and not very many women defraud their partner -- but it is still good to have societal structures in place to prevent both
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:40 PM
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You're obviously going to keep thinking of her as a low class, stupid woman who probably ruined her life via prostitution and there's nothing anyone can do to stop that belief so 🤷‍♂️ maybe some day you'll realize not all prostitutes are poor, lower class women forced into it and constantly trafficked raped and abused. But probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:32 PM
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Ok so "my argument is that your assessment is flawed because I disagree. I don't have evidence to support that. We can agree to disagree." Not exactly a great argument. A cmv is literally.. cmv. Saying "I experienced things differently" has not and will not cmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:30 PM
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Oh, we both know the stereotype you're operating under. Even if you refuse to admit it you're stereotyping escorts as meth addicted streetwalkers with a big scary pimp. Not savvy businesswomen lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:29 PM
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Yes. I'm saying most escorts do not pay taxes on income earned under the table. Another reason to fully legalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:26 PM
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Again, how do you know she's not high end? You're guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:26 PM
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Thats... the point of a CMV lmao If you have some sort of refutory argument or evidence bring it out. If not, I'll just ignore 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:25 PM
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Lmao yes, I reiterate what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:22 PM
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So you refuse to choose and remain hypocritical. Got it. I am highly educated on rape, btw. I was a victim of SA myself. So you can fuck off with that comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:21 PM
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Huh? I don't understand what you don't get about the comment. ONS -> LTR: more difficult to pull off bc but a more solid LTR DATE -> LTR: easier but a less solid LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:20 PM
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Lmao you're the ignorant one bud. I agreed with your last little bit that you can't talk your way into someone's pants. I disagreed that social skills aren't crucially important. But like I said stay salty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:18 PM
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So now you're insulting her by implying that she's stupid and that's why she's a prostitute. You can think you're smarter than her if that makes you feel better. But I'd wager if she's a successful prostitute she's PROBABLY more attractive hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:17 PM
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You said nothing to refute hahahahaha stay salty tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:15 PM
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Yes, you are. Your viewpoint is colored by preconceived societal notions of prostitution as skeevy motel denizens addicted to meth or heroin with a big scary pimp protecting her and the police always on their tail. You're outdated, girl. Prostitution nowadays is conducted not via yellow pages but by mega organizations, along with very professional small businesses. Yes they're under the table, but that's forced by the laws. That does not mean she has genuine connections with these men lmao. Have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:14 PM
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Disagree. Hookups that happen naturally that form LTRs are the most compatible. No sexual dysfunction. No DBRs. No different tastes. No man being insecure about women's body count or his own sexual ability. No woman being socially forced to lie about either. No orgasm faking. Like... it fixes many of the PPD discussed issues lol Just bc most casual seekers aren't LTR seekers and you have to sift thru more options doesn't mean it's worse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:08 PM
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You know this how? She could be high end or she could be a street walker on skidrow. Who fucking knows. But since the average escort is middle class, statistically she's probably the same. Either way, you saying she is or isn't one class of escort is a wild, blind, total guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:06 PM
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Cash businesses as a whole rarely pay correct taxes.. under the table ones such as decriminalized but still illegal escorting, even moreso..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:04 PM
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LOL. Part A of your comment: even tho I'm not an escort I can speak on escort issues bc I'm educated on them Part B of your comment: but YOU, sir, are not a woman so you can't speak on women's issues! Which is it? Are you able to use personal experience and education to discuss issues that don't apply to you? Or are you not? Please choose one or the other instead of hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:03 PM
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Yes. Looks are a gate. Social skills are also a gate. To bag your perfect woman you must have both.. duh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:02 PM
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She forgets escorts are human and clients are human too. She is thinking in the abstract too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:01 PM
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Cali is a neoliberal wanna be socialist state. It has its flaws. But at its heart its capitalist and the crazies aren't the core of the state. Progressive wackos are 20% of Dems as per the number of BernieBros and deep blue districts for reps. Trump wackos are 20% of Rs as per Trump primary stats during the 17 man crowded primary. Most dems and Rs are pretty fuckin similar in terms of beliefs, somewhat Neolib or neocon, mostly capitalist, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:00 PM
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Lol, my partner and I wrnt to Vegas in June. She took her silver earring and made it basically into a ring and sent to everyone we got married at the hotel chapel. Was fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:58 PM
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Ha. True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:57 PM
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CMV: Dating is best when you hook up with someone you're viscerally attracted to and then realize you like them as a person. Dating is worst when you like a person but haven't had sex with them, and even worse than that when you turn out sexually incompatible but have already formed a connection. My best ltrs happened via the former. My one worst happened via the latter. Not necessarily strictly casual in the formal. More like.. "I'm just seeing what is out there.. and maybe you're the one but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:56 PM
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How? GP? I'm curious. I had mine checked last when getting a physical for my muay thai fight. But that was in 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:54 PM
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It's impossible to quantify beyond the fact that the average woman has sex ideally 0.5x to 3x per week. That's at least a starting point. My ex was hella not horny. We rarely had phone sex (LDR for a good bit) and even when we saw eachother didn't have sex except maybe 1 of every 3 dates. My current partner and I probably fucked 3 or 400 times out of maybe 150 total nights spent together. It just varies. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:53 PM
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u/wrathofkalima had some good ones.. eye contact, body language, conversations, and touch. Imo and ime, the two most important are: TOUCH/Personal space! If she or he is getting super close unnecessarily... they into you. Not responding negatively to sexually tinged comments. Not something like "omg bb u wan som fuk?" But more like lighthearted jokes or suggestive pictures. Examples of number 1: last weekend at the bar I was talking with my girl friends I went with and a random girl basically pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:51 PM
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Social skills are a 50% myth. Two guys, one very physically attractive and another who is more or less average, can do the same things. Women are going to respond to one of them one way, and the other, another way. No, no, no. They aren't a myth at all. Just because decent looks are required for social skills to matter doesn't mean they don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 PM
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That every guy that gets laid is this supreme social genius that picks up on 1000 different subtle social cues. In reality, most of us are just getting laid off our looks tbh😂 You're delusional if you think reading flirting / being that 1 in 3 guy mentioned in the OP isn't incredibly helpful. I'm very social, but not good at reading flirting. But I solve this by just approaching every girl I have any sort of interest in. Easy fix.. who cares if some weren't interested? You apologize and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 PM
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Casual sex with someone you formed a connection with is not the same as paying a stranger for sex. Not the same at all. I agree, but that does NOT mean the rest of your post is true. It does NOT mean prostitutes don't genuinely form friendships with their clients nor does it mean that any connection formed is just for protection. You've been watching too many movies!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:40 PM
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Now athletes or other wealthy men might pay high end escorts to cut out the small talk and keep their mouths shut but that’s the top .01%. I’m not talking about them but the average every day man soliciting prostitution. They’re not Chads and are just desperate Except most ppl don't visit sex workers. 9.5 have in their lives (source) https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-020-01843-3 And 1% in the last year. Hence, regular clients are statistically 1%. I believe it's possible most who …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:38 PM
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1k a month before taxes isn’t shit. SWs don't pay taxes except in Nevada lmao. Unless they're high end and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:36 PM
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Most women that are in the sex industry are not living that lifestyle. True. The average OF girl makes I think $130 per month. Sex work in general is uncommon. Career sex work is even more uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:35 PM
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I would never date a man desperate enough to sleep with a sex worker That's fine and I probably would ever date a woman who's ever been or seen a sex worker either. But that doesn't mean it should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:33 PM
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You're like a white person saying you know what it's like to be black and also know what racial equality or equity policies are best for black people lmao. Truthishere is a literal escort. I've met multiple SBs and escorts IRL as friends, at parties, and I actually hooked up with a girl who used to be a porn star (which is also a type of sexwork). None were coerced and none were raped or assaulted. All considered working at McDonald's or Lowes and chose sex work instead. That's kind of the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:32 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:28 PM
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Men are attracted to femininity and sexuality over niceness Men are even less of a monolith in what they like than women Bitchy girls and women who assert themselves often get ahead over agreeable doormats And nuanced middle ground girls get ahead of both.. also pt 2 is directly contradictory to pt 1.. All men want to extract sex from you and don’t need to like you to do it Incorrect The same man will treat some women terribly and other women really well. Correct, and if all men treat you badly …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:25 PM
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I'm very liberal socially and I'd never date a single mother or raise another man's child, that's maybe the only conservative belief I have socially
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:59 PM
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I bet she's too skinny. Less fat on the face always accentuates masculine features
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:57 PM
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I can’t help what I’m attracted to True. But nor can men who aren't attracted to masculine women Masculinity is about energy not appearance . Untrue. You LITERALLY just said yourself you have masculine APPEARANCE.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:56 PM
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Depends on the guy and exactly how masculine. Can you link a picture of a celeb or randos face that looks like yours? I could answer then. That said, no, masculine features aren't attractive to most men -- features. Like facial features. Some men are cool with deeper voices or smaller boobs or lots of muscle. Most men aren't cool with body hair, sharp jaw, or cut cheekbones. Maybe you're too skinny? My face as a man always gets more masculine the lower my body fat percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:55 PM
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I have no idea, because my personality is simultaneously hypermasculine and hyperfeminine depending which trait you talk about. Sooo.. would less test make me super feminine overall? Would I keep the same personality? It's just a question that's impossible to answer. If I had the same personality I'd do the same as I am today: dating around and having sex with girls, going on dates and trips with girls, and spending time with them to vet for relationship worthiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:53 PM
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Um no? Lol If you give a woman no attention she won't know you're interested. You have to text her and communicate properly. Being needy is bad. Being standoffish is bad. Like everything on this fuckin sub, your post has no nuance. Goldilocks zone exists for communication frequency.. Personally I don't give a fuck, I'll text the girl all hours of the day and if she thinks that makes me needy ill ditch her and go find someone else who doesn't (like my current partner)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:50 PM
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Well sure. Some guys don't like giving head either. But the problem for you as a woman is that those guys are generally selfish in bed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:48 PM
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I disagree, the average prostitute is not trafficked statistically. The average prostitute makes the choice to enter the business. Obviously, legalization and regulation will improve the industry just like drugs. But that isn't happening because of our society's religious bent and evangelical objection to it. The only people objecting to the legalization are femcels who think all prostitutes are trafficked, or else religious people. Even people like me who haven't and never will visit one want i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:47 PM
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Like I have hypochondria about non sexual health things. I had some anxiety based heart/chest pain a few months ago and had to go to the doc for a monitor to make sure it wasn't related to stimulants or high BP. But it wasn't and I'm ok. That's neuroticism. I am very neurotic by nature just not with sex or social related things. Lots of ppl on here are highly neurotic about sex or social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:31 PM
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Yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:26 PM
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Ok. It seems you've never seen dysfunctional marriages or been around toxic marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:01 PM
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Thinking about a "sensible" fear too much is textbook neuroticism. Being aware of STI and pregnancy is prudent, wearingprotection is prudent. Reducing sexual activity because of it is neurotic. The thing I'm thinking of is when some on here say they literally don't have sex other than with tested people bc of it. That's an extreme example but an example nevertheless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:00 PM
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Yes for an actor he's short lmao. Also he has a pretty weird face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:56 PM
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I agree but that's not what I gathered from that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:55 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:54 PM
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I mean I get it but I just don't think it's a huge deal compared to some of the other things discussed in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:52 AM
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Entirely disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:11 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:11 AM
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Well there are plenty. I lost my sex drive for my exgf after she acted strange and sketchy for a bit. Ended up breaking up & turns out a lot of sketchy shit was going on. I had sex with her maybe 2x in the last 4mo we dated. Conversely my current partner and I have had sex like 1 to 5 times every single day we spend together. I think male sex drive is a loooot more variable than you admit bud. And hell. I'm not even low libido. Some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:50 AM
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Interesting. That's very interesting. I thought using it the term abuse was an analogy to the person who's withheld from feeling like shit. But they literally classify it as abuse. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:49 AM
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True. Just like I've never heard any man say "I want my company to lay me off! It's 2008!" Yet women still leave those men en masse-- which isn't unfair at all, but neither is men leaving sexless marriages (or opening them up/giving ultimatum to open up else they're filing for divorce)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:47 AM
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Was it because he thinks of women purely or partially as "sexual providers" rather than equal participants? If so, no, I wouldn't date a man with those beliefs. Was it because he was desperate for sexual connection with another person, and he has healthy respect for sex workers? Then yes, I'd be fine dating this guy, Completely agree with your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:46 AM
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Fundamentally, he enjoys having sex with people he knows don't want to have sex with him for its own sake. u/thetruthishere_ All I had to do was scroll down about about 2 comments to find an example of the idiocy and projection about sex workers and their clients that you mentioned 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:45 AM
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Most will assume they are losers that cant get sex, etc. Most will assume these men dont give a crap about us in anyway. They assume we cant pick and chose who we see. They assume we dont like our clients. They assume we wont dont enjoy any of it and claim we are rape Why do you think this is true? I mean I agree. I mean why do you think the femcel type women criticize in those ways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:44 AM
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Honestly it's not even that different for non sex worker stuff. I lost my virginity at 16 to someone I liked but I wasn't really ready to have sex with her yet. I've also been societally pressured to have a lot more casual sex than I realize I actually prefer. I can imagine that for an older virgin it's even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:44 AM
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🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:42 AM
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Got it. Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:40 AM
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Which is exactly what you said the woman in the example was. Broke, gorgeous, and the type of personality you desire
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:29 AM
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I never said every single virgin girl fits that bill. I said the vast majority do. And cmon, you know that it's true with society today being very sexually open and sex being so easy to get. The reason I encourage other men not to date virgins is because they're deluded into thinking they're going to meet some sweet princess Disney unicorn who suddenly treats them like God who also has a high sex drive. It ain't happening. If they really find a virgin what's gonna happen is they rarely have sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:29 AM
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Is it not even more romantic for someone to actively choose to be with you when they don't have to be by legal obligation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:16 AM
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The only thing I did to change my diet when I began dating my partner is eat more fish bc she eats fish. But I don't/didn't really treat meat as a side dish. I ate what I ate and offered her some without the meat. If I made steak and broccoli and a baked potato I made her a loaded baked potato. Etc. While yes, having a partner who eats INCREDIBLY worse than you is bad, most people in the US are within a similar range of eachother. Aka not great and not super healthy, but not fast food 3x a day e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:12 AM
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All studies that show what I've always believed about women are true". Nope never said that. For example body counts are a lot lower on average than I thought due to religiosity. But this? Yes, this is objectively true. And you are just arguing against it bc you hate that it's true and you're the aberration here. Most women have casual sex (statistically). I just proved it above Prove otherwise or shove it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:00 AM
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Nope 73% of women love casual sex and when I have casual sex I tell them I want it! And it's a win win. They get the sex they want and I get the sex I want! Everyone's happy! Sorry you're not tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:59 AM
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That's not true either. Getting obese or becoming not-obese directly and immediately impacts your lifestyle and every single person in your households lifestyle. Srry you're just way off the mark. Take it from someone who's been obese and not obese. And if you or your partner ever get obese you'll think of this convo and be like "shit, he was right"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:57 AM
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Not necessarily, but it certainly is less widespread. I don't want a submissive woman (I don't respect them) and I don't particularly care about overly feminine . But if those are the things you like then go for it. However, if a man had all of the characteristics a woman wanted (say, hyper masculine, fit, tall, and handsome), aka the gender flip of your comment, the woman would still date them regardless of $$
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:55 AM
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I entirely disagree. If you're a virgin girl past the age of 20 you are absolutely one of those. Asexual? Don't want for obvious reasons. Religious? I am not. Damaged? I'm not Bob the Builder, I won't begin to date a girl with lingering trauma, even if it sounds harsh. Sex negative? Definitely not. I have to have sex and determine sexual compatibility with a girl before dating them seriously. And sex negative people aren't sexually compatible with me. The ONLY way I'd date a virgin is if she was…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:54 AM
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Weird. Most women on here or IRL who have one neurotic compunction about sex have many. But I guess it really is just a mouth thing for you. What about kissing??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:49 AM
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Yes joining households is a big step. But what if the man promises his intention is to be with you forever? Even though he doesn't believe in marriage bc he's libertarian or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:47 AM
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Yeah that's very uncommon. I'd say only half ish of the women I've ever slept with could cum from penetration alone and that's even higher than the stats say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:46 AM
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men have asked me to move in on a third date lol Plz remind me to kms if I ever do that do have a rule about not living with a man until we’re at least engaged, Why's that? My ex had that rule too but it was bc she was Christian. And because her family would have freaked out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:38 AM
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You can eat different things than your partner though.. my partner and I have wildly different diets. For example she's a vegetarian and I love meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:38 AM
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Interesting... definitely never heard that before. There's no reason you can think of other than it just doesn't feel as good as other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:37 AM
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I am quite big compared to average but that isn't quite as relevant as shape in my experience. Ive met women who can take large dildos comfortably but not my dick. Then some women can't take a large thick straight dildo but get more aroused by a human man so they can take me. Or they're curved right. Or terribly , and we can barely fuck. Etc. Sexual compatibility is HUGE. which is why I'd never commit to a woman I hadn't had sex with and no woman should commit to a man without it either. And yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:34 AM
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So why is being a long term partner offensive to you if you seem to not agree with the major tenants of religion, and are generally not particularly superhigh or superlow in openness big 5 trait as per your answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:30 AM
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So you'd be fine dating for a LONG time before marriage then? You just want it at the end of the road?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:28 AM
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So it's not due to being grossed out, not about a man in a submissive position to you, nor insecure about your vagina shape, smell, etc? Those are the ones I've seen most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:28 AM
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Ok maybe this isn't what I'm understanding. Why does society pushing for that hurt the socially vulnerable groups? I mean, I agree that virtue signaling is trash and not helpful. But how is it actively harmful?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:26 AM
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I disagree on both counts Marriage is usually culturally sound and required due to religion and general culture. Not the wedding itself. Alimony? No. Child support, maybe. But alimony has nothing to do with children. Childfree people still pay alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:25 AM
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Have you ever had unprotected sex with anyone other than a long term exclusive partner? Have you ever had anal sex or done any bdsm or alternative sex play? Have you ever let a man cum inside you (while on Birth control)? Those are telling answers if the answer is no to all of them. Fear of STIs, or poop (I feel that way about anal myself), or choking to death, or pregnancy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:25 PM
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You're * And no, I'm not. Women still have agency not to act patriarchal lmao. The go to insult for women who find men unattractive is creepy, not incel. The go to insult for men who find other men annoying is virgin/incel/f*g/pussy/weak Men do it a lot more 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:24 PM
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If a man or women dates down or settles they'll be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:22 PM
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They're basically either damaged or asexual, or super sex negative. Or really religious. Any ways none are good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:22 PM
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Ok so extreme neuroticism. Honestly makes logical sense. I'm glad my personal neuroticism exposes itself in different ways but I could see how if it was sexually focused I'd have a similar perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:21 PM
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Sometimes casual sex still happens after because women sleep with men trying to get them to commit and he doesn’t. Personally I think women with really high body counts have something wrong with them. Most women don’t get anything out of it physically Lmfao what the fuck post is this. No, plenty of women have enjoyable frequent casual sex. Just because women can have bad experiences like men, doesn't mean that will deter them from the good experiences nor they'll even have bad ones in the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:20 PM
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I want to be in a lifelong commitment, where we work shit out rather than jump ship Would it not make it even better if jumping ship is an option yet the opposing side doesn't jump off, because they WANT to work through it rather than HAVE to? The monetary stuff makes sense. And power of attorney as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:17 PM
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This is a good argument for decrying large expensive weddings and things like alimony.. but generally I agree, convenience and societal benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:16 PM
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m a devout Catholic, want to have sex, and want to have children. Props for admitting what most ppl on here won't: judeochristian ethics require marriage to not feel dirty about having sex (or in your case as a devout, to have sex at all)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:15 PM
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And being a long term live in girlfriend is frankly kind of offensive. Are you Christian or Muslim? Additionally, are you (personally) socially conservative? Have you ever tried drugs, had casual sex or a ho phase, or drink and party frequently? Just curious. Not judging. Everyone wants whatever they want and it's valid as long as it doesn't infringe on others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:14 PM
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the only legit argument in my eyes against marriage in that regard is alimony, cause it’s bullshit And prenups exist and that becomes irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:12 PM
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Do you have a specific timeline set out? I.e. marriage by X age, kids by Y age, engagement by Z time in LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:11 PM
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$$$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:11 PM
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Damn. It takes balls to marry a cancer patient. Similarly, I genuinely fell in love with my partner when she supported me during a health problem last May when she didn't have to and we weren't even exclusive. I wasn't very fun to be around and she stuck with me through it. Thankfully it was not a long term issue like cancer but I'm sure he's extremely gratified that you made that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:10 PM
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Numbers 3 to 6 are the ones I agree with. The other ones can be achieved without the government getting involved in a relationship. 3 and 4 can too but it's harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:09 PM
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Yup. Fat people of both genders are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:07 PM
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No girl will ask a guy to stop working out! It's mutually beneficial. He's hotter and healthier and fitter overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:07 PM
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It's actually worse when husbands get fat. Way more guys are OK with a fat spous Eh. I agree that being fat makes men hella unattractive. But I don't agree that most men are more ok with it. You're projecting because you're ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:06 PM
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Yup. That's why I somewhat downplay my income. I don't want a woman like that. There are ways to suss it out if she's smart but conspicuous consumption is not a smart play
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:05 PM
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And it doesn't affect the whole family's actual lifestyle (often meaning the other partner has to adapt how they live to fill in and creating stress Yes it does. The leading cause of mortality in America is obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:03 PM
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The equivalent for a wife getting fat, is a husband getting fat. Stop acting like men only value women for their looks while women don’t care about looks at all True dat. Maybe she doesn't say it - but also maybe she's not as enthusiastic in bed or frequent in bed. Maybe she doesn't say it - but is happy he's getting fat because she knows she's ugly now that she's fat and she loves him as a person and doesn't want him to leave her. Plenty of reasons for her not to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:02 PM
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They don't need it in modern society but their biology forces it. Just like male biology forces us to want a fit woman with clear skin and long hair. The ONLY metric on which either gender doesn't care about dating "up" on is men for female richness/wealth. Every single other metric both genders want the best they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:00 PM
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Lol. "All studies are irrelevant because they take a sample! All population samples are bad!" Let's just throw out all studies then. The researchers did their best to take a representative sample, as the study said (read their methods if interested). Their sample might not be exactly perfectly representative, who knows. But it is strong, peer reviewed, satistical evidence that over 4/5ths of women have casual sex (and about the same proportion of men -- men arent the sex crazed fiends you make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:58 PM
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"Royal you" is hard for you (personally) to understand I guess. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:55 PM
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I never said being short was good tho? I said there was a lot more to attractiveness than face and height. Though both are factors, they're not the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:55 PM
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Thing is, it often takes experience to realize something's not for you. That's true. When I lost weight I went wild and slept with a lot of women (for me). I kept going for more and more attractive women bc I thought if I only got the hottest girls on campus I'd be satisfied. Still wasn't. Then I met my college ex and although we didn't work out, she taught me that having sex with a super attractive woman is less fulfilling than having sex with a good looking but less attractive woman whom you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:53 PM
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The definition of hypergamy is marrying someone of a higher socioeconomic status. Ok, I had to look it up. you're right. It's not hypergamy. But it is the same principle. Women do it with education and status. Men do it with looks. Both genders want something more than they provide. It's not wrong inherently, but it is kind of a bad strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:48 PM
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I have in the past 🤷‍♂️ if I want casual I say I want casual. And 73% of women are down for it ;) But if I want a LTR, I don't say I want casual, because I don't Stay mad!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:46 PM
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Ok, take Danny devito then. He got married and had kids at 4'10 and obese And yes that's the point? Using famous rich actors as an example to elucidate that saying face and height are not the end all be all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:45 PM
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Hahaha I have more idea than you, clearly. Keep making excuses for your failures in dating though 🤷‍♂️ I'm SUUUURE it's all just genetics. And you're ripped, rich, famous, charismatic, and have a huge social circle but still fail. Omg the world is so unfair!!! Reality: if you're short and ugly in the face and you fail its not because you're short and ugly. It's because you haven't compensated for being short and ugly with other positive traits Being short and ugly is no doubt a hindrance. But if…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:44 PM
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No, that's women engaging in patriarchal behavior not matriarchal Yes, women do it frequently. But that doesn't mean it's matriarchal Plus idk about you but I had MUCH more pressure to have sex with tons of girls from male friends than female friends. Just because women do it doesn't mean men don't do it more.. Men call other men pussies or gay for not having sex a lot more than women call men incels or virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:41 PM
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And shortest lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:39 PM
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Ok well my below average friends had no success in the college town. Here I don't really have any below average friends. Although one from my college went to Atlanta and lost his virginity at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:38 PM
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Sorry I don't understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:37 PM
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It's literally the definition of it???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:36 PM
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Ah yes a handsome guy huh? Hahahahaha https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ4J9vk63wa8ffJvS_9U5x8aeRx4rr-O2w2Qw&usqp=CAU Literal average looking mostly fit guy. He's rich and famous and charismatic. Cruise is hot, yes But guess what? They're both short LMAO being short is no excuse to be sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:36 PM
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https://gss.norc.org/ Database search it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:34 PM
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Guess we're incompatible lmaooo Why do you hate it? Most girls have been thrilled that I love spending 15 minutes or more giving oral whenever I get the chance. Hell, I gave frequent oral to a girl who had a jaw problem and couldn't give me bjs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:33 PM
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This. I wonder if we're penis twins. I had the exact same experience but thankfully it was only a hookup. Unfortunately I declined to see her again. Cervix pounding is fun for no one. Vaginal microtears are fun for no one. "Omg ur so tight" is a bullshit social phenomenon. Barely fitting into a vagina is fun for NO ONE. Funny enough size of the woman's body doesn't seem to correlate ime with internal vaginal shape. The best sex I ever had was with an extremely tall skinny girl. The 2nd best was …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:31 PM
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But I vetted for sexual compatibility. It is probably in my top 3 things I need from a relationship. I was with partners that were bad, average and good in bed. And it makes a hell of a difference for relationship satisfaction for me if my partner is good in bed. Precisely. And this is also the main reason why I'd never commit to a woman before sex and why women should never commit to a man before sex. You build an emotional connection with a man who's bad in bed and your life is FUCKED. Sex is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:27 PM
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I actually do not know a single guy who ever ended a relationship because a girl was average in bed. (Maybe all my friends are just drowning in panties. Doubt it). Or maybe guys would be too embarrassed to tell their I have considered ending one because of this. And it was part of what I brought up during the breakup. Also, my recent partner is so good in bed that I decided I'd absolutely break up or not even start with a woman who was or became bad in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:25 PM
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Nothing will change, there will just be more single women now. Or more multiplenwomen dating one guy. Or more LGBT people/asexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:23 PM
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No, it's just ridiculous femcels and redpills who are talking about it as transactional. Most people have sex and date like normal people and don't trade sex for love or money. But a lot of femcels and redpills want to be or to be with covert prostitutes I guess 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:20 PM
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Personality matters a lot. HOWEVER. Your initial post is incorrect or missing info in many ways. Personality matters AFTER the gating period of looks and fitness and wealth and charisma and confidence are met. Once those are a yes? Then you can still be rejected for being a cunt, or not listening, or being emotionally stunted, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:19 PM
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As of 2018 , 27% of men under 30 hadn’t slept (and we can guess not in a relationship as well And as of the 2021 GSS, that number is 12%. You are using outdated statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:14 PM
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The Men Who ignore average women do so because they do not want average women. Is pointless and downright idiotic to pursue a relationship with you're not going to want to be with long-term Of course. This is hypergamy too, though. Hypergamy among men and women both is the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:10 PM
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True but I'd rather be a 5 in LA than a 10 in (mycollege town). Realistically I was probably 8-9 in collegetown and 6-7 in Cali. Guess where I had more success? Yeah it wasn't where I was the big fish small pond. Sooo many attractive guys here in Cali. But soooo many attractive girls too. Just don't live in silicon valley.... sausage fest!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:09 PM
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Big city dating scenes are 1000x better than small ones. I went from a medium city to a small college town to a huge megaopolis. The best dating success I've ever had is in megaopolis. Small college town? Shit. If you don't fit the (white, WASP, stuffy, christian) culture you'll have almost no success with those who do. Except when they have sex with you then regret it because of their internalized religiosity. Which is helpful or fun for no one afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:07 PM
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Tell that to someone like Cilian Murphy or Tom cruise. Short asf and pull any girl in the world. Why? Status. It's more than height and face. It's height and face. And status and fame. And money and riches. And fitness and a hard body. And confidence and social skills. And wit and charisma. And intelligence and career success. And having a big social circle and extroverted persona (if not genuinely high extro). It goes WAY beyond height and face bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:05 PM
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Number 3 is Super high socio sexual people who genuinely DO want tons of casual sex, of both genders. They're happy with this false narrative bc it pushes medium SS people like myself to more casual than they would have otherwise had
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:03 PM
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Great point. The patriarchal notion that men who have casual sex are better than others leads to men doing things they don't really want to do. It also leads to toxic NiceGuy syndrome. Additionally it leads to plenty of men just having sex with attractive girls for clout or praise from friends when they actually want LTRs and that's bad for Male mental health overall. If you genuinely want to have a lot of casual sex then go for it, assuming consenting women. But most men... don't. I had to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:01 PM
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l start with an extreme example: criminals. There are plenty of drug dealing, murdering psychopaths devoid of morality that have no issue with getting sex. Serial killers serving life-sentences often have interest from women on the outside, and some of them even get married.. In my own personal experience, I’ve seen plenty of abhorrent men do fine on the dating scene. It’s often the case that men who are “rough around the edges” are more sexually appealing than those who are on straight-and-narr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:57 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:54 PM
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Most women have had casual sex sorry. Wrong again. 73% to be specific. Plus 12% decline to answer. Aka 73% have had it and are unashamed of it and 12% have had it and are ashamed of it LMAO. AKA you're one of 12% https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mating-game/202004/gender-differences-in-casual-sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:53 PM
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No? I don't have to tell every person what I vet for. I also vet for honesty and integrity. Should I tell a woman if she lies I won't date her? Nah. Just because you're sex negative and think sex is different doesn't mean it is. Plus, during the time I DIDN'T date to be in a LTR I did tell girls I was looking for something casual. It was even on my bumble profile. And guess what? Plenty still slept with me lmao. You're not correct if you think all women are like what you're saying. If you're so …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:50 PM
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That's incorrect. If she doesn't want to sleep with me she doesn't have to. I vet based on compatibility, sexual, emotional, and intellectual. Should I have to tell her "if you let slip you don't know anything about current events I won't date you either?" No. You're just incredibly sex negative and have a different standard for sex than other forms of compatibility. Well I don't. I date to determine generalized compatibility. Sex is part of that - but it's only one small part If she doesn't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:03 PM
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Lolololol you wish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:01 PM
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A majority of women do not lie about body count. A majority of men do not lie about intentions. Go to therapy if you genuinely believe both do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:01 PM
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Incorrect. Older women are not more popular in porn, statistically. Just because a category exists does not mean it is the majority of viewership lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:08 PM
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And I repeat, most porn watchers are young sexless men. Those aren't exclusive. My argument is clear. Teen is more popular to milf in categories because attractive women age worse than attractive men. Try to keep up. Unattractive ones don't age well regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:10 PM
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No, I will not tell women that. Because it makes it unnatural or might pressure a woman into sex. Instead, I'll just let her decide what to do. If I like her and she wants to have sex I will, then decide if I want to date her after sex and multiple dates and convos. If she doesn't want to have sex that's perfectly fine, but I'm not going to say sex is part of the vetting unless we've already had sex, because pressuring a woman implicitly is wrong. If she doesn't want to have sex that's ok like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:09 PM
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LOL this is as dumb as men who say all women lie about body count
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:05 PM
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You said the majority of men are liar/cheaters. A clear falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:05 PM
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Bullshit. You literally have no nuance. Power in the absolute IS NOT THE SAME THING as power in intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:04 PM
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I distrust men I don't know Exactly. I hope some day you make it into a professionals office and bring this up. You obviously won't listen to a rando on the internet. Probably won't be a male therapist tho 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:03 PM
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One thing about this is the women have the power to date above their tiers Not really. You think that because of the internet but it's very uncommon. The only time that happens is when women get fat while already with a good looking man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:01 PM
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In general men have more dating power. Not women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:00 PM
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Morally you're correct. Realistically it's irrelevant and women will not ever care about male issues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:00 PM
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and dating Women are not the choosers for dating Only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:47 AM
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True. Neither male nor female sexuality is free from cultural influence. HOWEVER said cultural influences are clearly instigated by evobio sources. Examples being bound feet (protective of femenity), clear skin (health), large boobs (fertility), etc. And of course in societies where starvation was common, fat people were thought of as attractive due to their status in society. Nowadays more Americans die of obesity than anything else, so fat people are disgusting. But? It's based on what is prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:47 AM
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Hahahahahaha nope. Most RP men and internet denizens who have never been a ho want to be a ho. If all the men you encounter want to fuck and chuck and never date a girl... oof. Something wrong with that girls personality. Very wrong. It's one of the reasons why they shame women for being a ho. Jealousy Wrong again. Some guys shame women for it bc they're insecure about other men fucking the woman better than them As long as you tell her this up front. Oh I'd never say I'm looking for sex! Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:23 AM
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Hell no I just Said 20% are not. I'm correct and you're a troll. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:20 AM
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Lol, I'm arguing with multiple people https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:20 AM
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It’s usually women who call female molestors molestors and it’s men who express “I wish I was him” kind of sentiment. That's not true in the slightest. But the first part of your comment is. Women dgaf about male issues because.. They're male issues. However women expect men to care about female issues in society. Expectant empathy that almost no one has. I'm white ethnic Irish (american, but heritage is irish). Does anyone give a shit that we were oppressed other than the Irish? No, they just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:11 AM
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Most porn watchers are young sexless men. Cougars are taboo to them. Additionally, MILFs are consistently lower on the viewership than "teen" Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:07 AM
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No I understand exactly how human brains work. And I didn't say you were bad or wrong, and not like it's not understandable. It's totally understandable. But it's also trauma that you're attributing to (certain) men that ultimately boils down to your own timidness and hesitancy. Do you think men who sit at home and never approach women deserve gfs? No, because they're overly timid and hesitant too. But you'll never overcome that trauma if you don't get help for it. I hope you do. Mistrusting 50%…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:01 AM
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No just have the same views on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:53 AM
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But I bet hardly any man wouldn't give up an opportunity to be a ho. They need to "sow their wild oats", so to speak. Incorrect, men have levels of sociosexuality just like women. Some have low sex drives and some high. Some are attractive and some ugly. Some are cheaters and some moral. Broad brushing an entire gender is as stupid as red pillers saying AWALT. But I'll continue to have sex with women as one of the ways to vet them for dating, sorry. If you want to date me, make it clear before w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:50 PM
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When it comes to their intentions with the opposite sex, they most definitely are. As I said, you're objectively incorrect, I provided clear reviewed statistics. You can believe a lie if you want 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:49 PM
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Do you genuinely believe most men have 2nd families and cheat or are you trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:48 PM
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They mostly weren't men, they were usually the same age as I was and this was between the ages of 14 - 18 Then they were children too! Jeez. If you let teenagers color your view of the opposite gender then you've got issues beyond this. I went through some shit with women in my teen years too but I recognize they were stupid little girls and are not indicative of the whole gender, and currently have a beautiful partner whom I trust implicitly who's NOT a teenager. personally think they were resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:26 PM
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Maybe women would like to make their own way in the world and not rely on a man? Jeez what a concept lmao? Just because you'd sell dick pics if you could doesn't mean women want to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:10 PM
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If men were honest, relationships would fall apart over night. What
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:09 PM
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Huh Do you really think most men in society want financial abortion 😂😂 red pill is not reality And yes, men are more dishonest than women overall (except young women who are more dishonest) but you are objectively and factually incorrect that, quote, "most men are definitely not honest"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:09 PM
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That's often true but a lot of times men don't go for personality; they go for the hottest, youngest woman they can find. No, a lot of times is incorrect. Men who have a ho phase like women who have a ho phase go for the hottest person of the opposite sex they can find, true. But the vast majority of their life (both sexes), men are trying to find someone to date, whether casually or seriously. And if you're going on dates with them they have to have a compatible personality. Ever heard the term…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:07 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:31 PM
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Geyges and waxy butt are conversing in this thread. It's quite funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:49 PM
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She's a troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:17 PM
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I love cimzin I'm glad she's back. We overlap on basically everything except sociosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:17 PM
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Yeah if you block someone on ppd ur a pussy lmao it's an anonymous debate sub who gives a shit what someone says to you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:16 PM
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A woman (can't remember her name) whos 'strategy' (she called it that) was to get with a low self esteem overweight neckbeard who was obsessed with her - then got him to lose weight and be fit. The guy eventually dumped her when he got more attention. Ouchhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:15 PM
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I miss some of the other regulars. Don't quite have enough time to post anymore which is disappointing bc this is amazing entertainment Kandyapplez was like 3 years I think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:14 PM
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Nope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:12 PM
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Objectively incorrect sorry. Most men are honest and still get laid. Statistically, in the age group 18-29, women are more dishonest than men (11% vs 12%) Overall, men are more dishonest (20% vs 13%) however 20% is 1/5, not a majority and not really even that close. I don't know if you're a man or a woman. If you're a man -- you're justifying your own lies and deception by saying all men do it, which is false. If you're a woman -- you're justifying your dating failures and encounters with liars …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:09 PM
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Hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:07 PM
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Haha damn you're savage, a real bad bitch. Wow, can I learn from you please? 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:58 AM
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If you believe that then please stay single lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:41 AM
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I guess it's more hilarious how idiotic someone is its like saying "men have stronger bodies than women on average" and having someone ask for a source 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:40 AM
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Nope. If you're too dumb to Google "Average bmi usa" then you're not deserving of consideration in debate. If it's some random stat that's hard to find? Sure. But not here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:17 PM
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Sorry man. If you over analyze your shit you're going to go crazy. Get back out there and just be yourself and don't think about it Note I mean be yourself if yourself is actually fun to be around + interesting. The problem with be yourself advice is that some people arent fun. The positive side of it is that you just simply cannot fake it or over analyze. You'll slip up and then your real self will be shown anyways. Also if you're not ripped or at least fit do that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:12 PM
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People ARE sexual with eachother to initiate a process though? But you have to be honest and upfront about what tyoure looking for. If these men you slept with and you never talked about any of it, then sorry but not trusting men because of this is bs and it ultimately goes on you. would make it clear my intentions and they went along with it. Please be specific. Did you outright say what you were looking for, as in, I want this to move towards a ltr? And ALL of these men deceived you? I'm sorry…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:01 PM
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Horseshit. And if you genuinely believe that the women who you attract WILL be compatible -- as in, hella transactional gold digger types
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:55 PM
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Both true statements
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:55 PM
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Not all men are honest but most are, same with women. That's irrelevant to the other comment though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:54 PM
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No woman can look at you and tell if you want to pump and dump True. Just like no man can look at a woman and see if she's a cheater or gold digger, no matter how much RPs try to say otherwise. so women giving sex on the first date isn't a smart strategy You would be immediately eliminated from my dating pool for saying that. Sex is not a gift. Sex is a shared positive experience that both people give to and gain from. If you think that sex is something a woman gifts to a man then you're the per…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:54 PM
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Lazy af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:40 PM
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No it doesn't. Not if he's upfront with his intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:56 PM
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In America yes. Most men and women both don't fit those. Average bmi 29.5. Median earnings 25k.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:55 PM
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So what the regular Billy won't ever sleep around Eben if he loses the nice guy charade. He'll just get nothing, instead of a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:54 PM
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As do women when misogynistic say AWALT and stuff? As do black people when they hear a white boy use the N word? Of course someone being a cunt to your group is going to make you mad??? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:53 PM
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I don't get the value of a brief sexual encounter over a life time of affection and love. The lifetime of affection and love comes after the sexual vetting. I'm not going to commit to a girl if I don't know that she's compatible in bed with me! The girl I am with now whom I love deeply fucked me on the first night. My ex gf whom I loved but broke up with when she cheated, fucked me on the first night. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:52 PM
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It has irreversibly damaged my view of men in terms of trust. I cannot help but always be suspicious of being used. Why does your choice to sleep with the virgin nerds n the normal guys mean you distrust men or were used? If you'd said no, would they have raped you? It sounds like you're projecting bad behavior on to these men who just wanted sex and didn't know you were going thru a lot. I've slept with women like that and didn't know it, but most women I've slept with were just high sexuality …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:51 PM
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Men being fuckboys is good for men because it allows us to gain sexual experience. We can pump and dump a few easy women or have "practice girlfriends". We can learn what works and what doesn't work via raw experience. And this is beneficial to us because women don't want inexperienced men anyways. It's not tho. I was a fuckboi for about a year and I wanst happy with it. Did I gain experience yes. Am I better in bed than before and better at wooing women? Yes. Did I have one iota of the cuddling…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:47 PM
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That's true, which is why I recommend men do it secretly. It's not difficult if you interact with the baby frequently. Just swab the mouth send it in and boom. The woman doesn't get insecure and the man has peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:45 PM
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Because there's no sexual tension so you don't need to pretend??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:41 PM
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Yeah you're definitely a healthier perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:41 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:40 PM
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We don't actually want to be friends with men. It's just something we say to men we don't want to be polite LOLLLLLLLL If that's true for you that says a lot about your character. It's not true for many girls, thankfully though :) Lots of guys and girls are friends without ever making a move in the first place. Some of my girl friends are unattractive. Some are attractive and cuffed up. And some are attractive and single but I'm still not interested because there are millions of attractive girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:39 PM
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It works for men too not just women. The advice isn't "get to be friends then fuck them" it's "be friends with many women so you know how to interact with women and then you can make a move on a DIFFERENT woman" Your issue is you misunderstood that as "friend zone then make a move." No. It's "make a move on your girls friends friends" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:33 PM
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average american makes that. Average =/= median. More people make below 50k than above 50k. "Average" is a statistical element that counts Jeff bezos with 100bil along with someone making $50,001. The average in that example is almost 50 billion. The median American makes about 30-35k. And no, sorry, having shit options is the same as having no options, the result is the same -- people get on welfare instead of working at McDonald's and women stay single instead of dating ugly guys. Also ugly gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:25 PM
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Yes, a woman who spends all her free time on tiktok or celebs and has no opinions of her own deserves to be single too. You thought this was a "gotcha" but you're wrong. Plenty of people don't have their shit together. If you don't actually do things or read things or discuss things, you're kinda a sad person And no, "unloved" people don't always deserve sympathy. Some do, if they're just ugly asf and that's why no man will date her or vice versa. But if your shit isn't together then you don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:19 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zhu3yo/to_love_and_be_loved_and_to_make_love_is_one_of/izpj8he Don't u love when someone refuses to Google readily available stats
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:45 PM
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Not really. Not good ones. You yourself admitted the abundance with this line. Sure, and you could go work at McDonald's tomorrow does that mean you have an abundance of job offers? Lmao Average woman makes 30k, has no degree, and is 5ft4 and 175lb. Source? Jesus are you that fucking lazy that you can't Google it? This is ONE time I'll do it for you https://www.cnbc.com/2020/07/18/heres-how-much-men-and-women-earn-at-every-age.html https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/average-height-f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:45 PM
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Sure. I just don't think shallow vs interesting is related. Shallow ppl can be interesting or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:36 PM
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TRT and HGH are not anti aging things due to fear, they're medications to treat hormone imbalance lol. Just like progesterone hormonal birth control to regulate a period. Yes, most men are afraid of aging. Not because they get less attractive quickly like women, but more simply, they're closer to death. Both genders lose attractiveness, this is true. However womens' is a cliff and mens' is a green circle ski slope. Ofc if you don't take care of yourself it's irrelevant and you'll never be hot ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:37 PM
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Women's hookup options are the same as their dating options!!! It's a myth that hot guys hook up with average girls regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:35 PM
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Incorrect, 97% of men in their life get married or have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:34 PM
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You don’t have a winning smile or a good personality or anything else that you tell yourself so you can sleep at night. You just don’t. It’s called the halo effect - look it up. Hahahaha. So. You say he's successful only because he's attractive and he's probably a bad person or has a bad personality. But you know nothing about the guy. This makes it even funnier because you are exposing yourself, saying subtly and covertly that you're genetically cursed but a good person with a "winning smile" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:19 PM
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It kind of hilarious that women on here quote stats like 60% of child support is unpaid. I'd love to hear a controlling study that controls for --ability to pay --fairness of the actual settlement --controlling for 49% custody arrangements And paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:10 PM
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have many options without doing shite, Not really. Not good ones. Average male makes 30k, has no degree, and is 5ft8 and 195lb. Average woman makes 30k, has no degree, and is 5ft4 and 175lb. The average American is an uneducated low earning borderline obese person addicted to socials or video games
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:02 PM
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Why? Most I've seen are. Video games are basically slot machines or candy crush/bejeweled for guys. Except it makes some of us think we're smarter because we planned out a game strategy in leagues of legend or CS GO, or killed someone in halo. It's ridiculous and trite to say most single men aren't video game addicts (as per a definition of 2h+ average per day)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:59 PM
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Ten a penny, common and low value, can be found anywhere in the bottom 50 percent of men, valueless boring and in the long term a source of resentment and unhappiness Fucking thank you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:58 PM
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Love? Maybe. Barely as they have little time Companionship and support? Nope. You're playing video games and not a high earner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:58 PM
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Why can't someone who plays video games and has a bland nine to five find love Because, and this might hurt, but it's true: someone with a bland 9 to 5 and who plays video games in all his or her spare time is not worthy of finding love. From their mom? Sure. She'll always love her little girl or boy. From a romantic partner? Nope. You have to be driven, attractive, fit. You can't waste your time on video games. You have to be confident and act extroverted. If you're not, you don't deserve s gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:57 PM
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There's no hypocrisy in the concept but there is hilarious hypocrisy in the delivery
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:50 PM
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Why were those red flags? Sounds like the perfect woman for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:48 PM
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Art hoes are sometimes super interesting and creative. Neoliberalhell on Instagram for example. No, shallow girls can be interesting and fun too -- they just are shallow and don't date or fuck you for who you are as a person. Hence only revealing some attractive parts of myself after hooking up already. For example I make almost exactly 100k (few over) cash plus some solid stock options (that I can't cash yet) But I wear basically normal polo and khakis and like no jewelry, a $30 smart watch, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:32 PM
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Just ensure it's genuinely them lying though. It's very probable that they were making inferences that were wrong about a man wanting to be with them. As opposed to just assuming a man who likes them also wants to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:30 PM
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Huh I was in under grad 2015-19 lmao that's post internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:28 PM
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To add another layer, because most people live in american style suburbs, they’re usually far away from said “third place” ergo, getting home will either have to mean an expensive cab/uber ride, lots of time on transit or driving for 30 mins or so. Really unless you’re a college student going to a college bar or cafe, the concept of a 3d place is non existent. Incorrect. Firstly, more people = more fun = better. Secondly, most Americans statistically live in urban settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:32 PM
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Being super fit makes a world of difference. Take it from someone who used to be obese and now hovers between 14 and 17% BF
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:31 PM
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Exactly. That's why I prefer sometimes wearing baggy clothes and a hat because then if I'm talking to a woman at a party and she likes me and we start dancing and making out, she's pleasantly surprised when we go home together that I'm fit and reasonably attractive , instead of going for me just for looks (gets VERY old VERY quickly and attracts really shallow hoes)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:15 PM
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Oh you're wrong about that, classism is not reducing due to the internet its increasing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:13 PM
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Yes, that's correct, but that's not what we're talking about here now is it? Seems like a whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:13 PM
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I'm a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:04 PM
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No, plenty of ugly short balding men are not muscular lol. Look at all the manlets you see, most are chubby or skinnyfat. Most PEOPLE of both genders are unfit! So yes being fit means you have an advantage and you are more attractive than the average disgusting American woman or man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:43 PM
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Also most men only use apps to find casual sex Ummmm no??? If your experience is just that men on the apps want sex then you're probably not a worthy partner as per those men's decisions and desires/standards, most men want a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:38 AM
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Being “fit” doesn’t make you attractive Yes, it does. Scientifically you're incorrect Or a goof partner Morally? True. But just like X height doesn't make men a good partner yet its a standard for women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:36 AM
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Depends on the woman. But average height of 5"4? 135 is borderline too heavy (depends on other factors like muscle) You are generally correct in saying that most men do not date the 70% of women who are fat, usually
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:34 AM
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No it's not. Just go for them. If you fail you fail. But one day you'll succeed. Unless you're like incredibly butt ugly you'll find an attractive girl eventually, if that's what you want. Because plenty of attractive men (their match) go for women they're compatible with instead of the hottest woman they meet. If you saw me and then the girls I've ever seriously dated you'd only see a couple at or above my level. Not ugly per se. But normal looking. Girl next door plain Jane for a few. So you'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:39 AM
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Sure. It's here.. just search the database https://gss.norc.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:32 AM
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I'll simp for 30 year old trinity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:31 AM
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it doesn’t really matter to me as long as he can afford a home, a family of 4, and one vacation a year. The median salary requires like 30 years of saving to buy a median home. It's a fair requirement just like all dating requirements but to be clear, you're limiting your search to the top 20-25% of male earners. I make over 100k (barely) yet could never afford a house fir a family of 4 on my salary. Unless you're talking renting for a family of 4 in which case it would be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:29 AM
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Better translation: if you're a guy who meets the required standards, one can be compromised on Really, any one of them. Like a 5'2 guy who's ripped hot rich and big dick will do amazingly well. Alternatively a 6'5 hot ripped guy can be poor asf. It's not as simple as Billy needs bank and chad doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:26 AM
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Today 33% of men are not having sex. Incorrect that number is from 2018, it is outdated. In the 2021 GSS the number was updated: its 12%. Sorry if that pokes holes in your narrative but it's just the truth. Most men who drop-out of the official labor force, also, aren't computer gaming denizens they're normal people working under the table or getting welfare -- and most of them still have sex and gfs lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:03 AM
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A fellow bath lover!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:01 AM
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Yes the qualify of men is declining while women are keeping normal standards, this is true. However you ignore the fact that the quality of women is also declining and good looking men with stable careers pretty much have the pick of women they want Additionally fewer men care a lot about income and career than women, so if you're an average woman but make 100k (5f4in, 175lb, normal face) you're going to be passed over by a man with options for a normal face, but skinny/not borderline obese woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:59 AM
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High N women cheat more than low n women statistically But they don't end relationships more. That's low N women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:19 AM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:18 AM
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No they aren't. Average engagement period is 6-12 months You literally keep misquoting your own stat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:18 AM
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Huh? Your previous comment said 4.9 years. Read it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:49 PM
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Oh most European women are attractive tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:48 PM
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CMV based on something I saw in a daily top thread.. here's my logic Men are afraid and insecure to date hot women with high body counts due to them possibly fucking someone she's more attracted to. This is a valid insecurity but a common one. THEREFORE These men are trying to reduce cheating divorce rape and her leaving. HOWEVER A high body count woman is no less likely to cheat OR leave than a low body count number when combined. The studies posted by RPs only consider cheating, but many low N…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:27 AM
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Mid males have to live with the knowledge that a better man could take her away at any minute or at least use her up behind his back and send her home with some extra cream filling. Ya but the thing they don't get is that getting her first is irrelevant and that she can sample the chorizo at any point lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:23 AM
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No way lol they're often way chiller and more agreeable. How many women have you dated and which ages?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:22 AM
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No no no!! Did you not watch the Dom Mazetti video on why the dad bod is worse than ebola? Well watch it. He's a genius masquerading as a brodude. The dad bod is for women to date men they feel superior to. So they're the "pretty ones." So they don't get left. So they can put in less effort and get a lil fat. But the issue is they're never really that attracted in the first place. Hello dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:17 AM
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women are naturally more attractive than men Disagree. It’s just men who are naturally more thirsty. The average woman isn’t really attractive. Fr bro. The average woman is 5'4 and 175. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:16 AM
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Not really. I have 98th percentile neuroticism that causes me all sorts of issues. And I do just fine. One of my best friends is a huge womanizer with major depressive disorder. He's medicated but not happy. If you wanna specify to exactly these traits: Autism Severe SOCIAL anxiety Then sure I'd agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:06 AM
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Okay, well your two comments strongly imply that you surround yourself with shitty people -- those whom you date or dated, as well as the "every single trad husband you know" who takes advantage of their wife. Just because you're trad doesn't mean you can't be a good person. For example my uncle and aunt are in a trad situation and they raised 3 kids in an upper middle class situation and before my aunt broke her back, she was the typical trad wife, cooking childcare etc. When she broke her back…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:05 AM
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Um no? Say that most people either marry within 1 or don't marry for 10+ And if you're part of the former you're pretty dumb lmao Anyways don't really know anyone who dated a person for longer than 3 years and didn't marry them. Pretty comical considering your AVERAGE STAT even including my grandparents type, is almost 70% more than your comment... hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:54 AM
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Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:54 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:54 AM
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Women who don't have sex... don't have sex. Like. The RPs on here who try to say they'll turn a woman into a freak or nympho are either delusional or have just low experience. Most women with low body count just don't love sex very much so.. they don't have it. Thats ok! There are plenty of men with low libido or who don't think women should fuck them that often in a LTR. Also, they tend to be more evangelicals 🤮 or tradcon 🤮🤮 At the very least they will not be someone fun who enjoys partying go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:20 AM
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It's very very simple. Most men are taller than most women. You don't see it often bc tall women (6') are rare and short men (5'4, the average woman height) are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:14 AM
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Nah, it's shifting black unfortunately. Lots more people feeling left out I think. Doesn't mean they're right but...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:13 AM
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Bitter female virgins are the absolute worst people to date. See my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:57 AM
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This is incorrect and has been debunked. Do not spread lies. https://www.today.com/health/study-linking-divorce-illness-retracted-due-error-2D79603843
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:54 AM
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Yes they do. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:54 AM
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"Sadbitch 55," do you possibly think maybe what you read on the internet is not always true? Lol Regardless.. most men are loyal. Most women are too. Most humans have never cheated. Men are slightly less loyal than women. 20% of men and 13% of women have cheated though of 18-25 year olds women cheat more. Regardless -- the starter gf thing is dumb because most men who have the ability to date a hot girl aren't gonna date one just for shits and giggles. After all if I could have sex with many hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:53 AM
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also "The total average time spent in a relationship before walking down the aisle is 4.9 years Ye and that includes lots of people who get engaged within 6mo. What's the stat, removing people like my grandparents who met in Jan were engaged in that Mar and then married in June. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:41 AM
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You ask every girl has done porn before dating them? And no I don't know how long you date girls? Why would i
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:39 AM
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Getting rid of insecurities is impossible as everyone is insecure about something. And getting fit and rich is never going to make a short ugly man attractive. However, being red pill can certainly stunt a man's social ability and make him even more paranoid about women Addressing and fixing issues is a great idea, but saying all RP men will reach dizzying heights if they fix their (quite obvious) mental issues is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:24 AM
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Your understanding is incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:19 PM
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It's soooo varied. So many topics. But an economic perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:33 PM
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There you go. Your persona/way of dating prefers shitty guys. Sounds like something to bring up in Therapy Thursdays.. I've attracted and dated some of the worst and some of the best people I've ever known - if i ONLY dated bad people I'd do some self reflection personally And that's with a family that also is super dysfunctional (8 total marriages among my parents and their siblings, 6 divorces and 1 dysfunctional marriage, 1 normal family). I’m in the part of the south where I don’t quite end …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:14 PM
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Not a lower bar at my frat, they basically were like "if we see any ugly girls in here I will kill you" lol So obviously I was strict bc I didn't wanna get beaten on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:07 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:06 PM
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but I can never feel socially present in them, it's like being around a different species, so I always end up leaving feeling like I got nothing out of it (or, worse, feeling like I wasted time and mone Don't go then. Clubs aren't for you. I love clubs because they're fun and I meet fun people. If you hate it don't go
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:05 PM
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Whether you think they have good personalities or not doesn't mean your friends do lol I have a friend with a gf who's cheated who's madly in love with her I also have another friend with a super trad GF Both are bad personalities to me.. but it's not my decision now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:47 AM
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, I want a kinda weird, kinky, deviant gf who knows what she wants and isn't ashamed of her sexuality. Thissss except for the kink
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:40 AM
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Many? Or this specific statement? Club promoters want ATTRACTIVE girls in the club not any girl. Hell, I was a doorman when I was a pledge and the rule was "if you're a brother or friend of a brother, OK. If you're a rando but you have a ratio > 1 to 1 of hot girls to guys, OK. If you're an ugly girl with a hot girl, OK. But if you're a rando guy with no girl, no matter how good looking you are as a guy NO. If you're a rando ugly girl with no hot friends, NO." Yea I know. It's ruthless. Even kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:38 AM
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Hmm. Good point. Pure looks are NOT ENOUGH to get the tip top of the status heirarchy. Good looks are a baseline but there's a lot beyond that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:31 AM
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Them dudes are rare. Most guys like that find a super model type and date her tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:31 AM
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Good point. You won't be magically better with girls just because you're attractive. But you will get 2nd chances to show you're better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:30 AM
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The guys like that I know personally don’t tend to date casually much though, they mostly are in happy LTRs with wonderful women. This sub doesn't wanna hear this bc they think all good looking guys just are permanent fuckbois when in reality they usually try it a bit then hate it and date normally from then on (a few hookups/a few fwb in between and then they find their next LTR, which hopefully works but often doesnt and repeat the cycle). Permanent fuckboy-ery is not fun or gratifying for mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:29 AM
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Well most men and women both aren't super attractive. Avg man is 5'9 and 195lb average woman 5'4 and 175lb. Borderline obese. Average person has no degree and makes 35k. Etc. Attractive girls usually date whomever they want just like attractive men. Have you thought that maybe those men who are 9s actually.. you know.. fell for a slightly above average 6.5 girl bc of her personality? Not everyone maximizes looks in a relationship. At least for me, I've dated a fitness influencer and plenty of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:26 AM
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Let that be a lesson that abusive and kind Men are not determined by their profession, attractiveness, shyness, extroversion, or any other of those factors. There are butt ugly stemlords who'd love to be controlling and abusive and incredibly attractive superstars who'd love to be controlling and abusive. There are also nice men of both types. Morality and kindness aren't modulated by success, profession, looks, or even really culture/religion. I know plenty of trad con men who will give you the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:18 AM
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I’m sorry but I highly doubt math or computer science majors are getting any action. Not all of us men are STEMlords u know lol. I have a masters in a humanities discipline (sorta.. business) First: About 1/3 of American Men have degrees (the other 66% are mostly getting laid after their shift working construction) Second: CS and Math are not the most popular majors, and although 78% of those majors are Men, those 2 aren't 78% of all majors (can't find an exact number but what I saw a while back…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:14 AM
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However it will never go back to that because of the declining birthrate. My 4 grandparents (Boomers/Silent) had a total of 6 children. Those 6 children had a total of 6 children. The replacement rate is 2.0 not 1.0. Those 6 grandkids (self included) have zero children, and all 6 of us are of childbearing age as per my grand parents time. 1 is married 1 is engaged, I am sort of dating someone, my sister is asexual, and the other 2 cousins I don't know very well but they don't have kids or partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:06 AM
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Interesting. Can you link that pod? I love freakonomics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:00 AM
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First of all you have a increasingly smaller number of men with the best of genetics and resources having their pick of mating opportunities. Many of these men will refuse to settle down as there are simply too many opportunities to spread their seed Except for the fact that even the attractive men don't tend to be fuckbois forever. Yes, they often try out the life, and maybe even enjoy it at age 20, 21, 22. But after a dozen or so women , it becomes routine and somewhat meaningless. I did it at…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:59 AM
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Like all psychological and evobio explanations; it's part nature and part nurture
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:50 AM
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Thankfully I am NT so I do respond to normal things like medication, therapy, and life changes. However, only the correct ones, and the "typical regimen" failed. Horribly. Yes, I agree that it's a good idea for someone with common issues to seek therapy because there's no downside, if you waste your time at least you tried. But with OPs type of deal it's complex because there are valid insecurities at play. I'll use the example of height because I'm 6'3 ish and it's not relevant to me (though ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:47 AM
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Reasonable assumption for someone who is creating pornography How is flashing the same as sexual intercourse? Cmon lol When did the exception become the rule and that would be a red flag, and I already don't think she's telling you the truth. She (3 girl) didn't tell me lol. Only the 40 girl told me. Also so low BC is a red flag? No, she likes attention but she only likes sex from BFs/loving partners. As per a trusted source that is NOT her. Also why do you believe one but not the other hmmmmm m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:33 AM
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Yes, CBT is more effective than DBT for me, though neither is very effective in comparison to maintaining a strong support network and talking with my friends, gf, and family about my issues unashamedly I don't want to sound crass or conceited but a lot of the therapists I went to were just not very insightful or smart. Also, they're humans with their human biases just like everyone else and I am a very different person to a lot of people they see (i can elaborate but its a long story), and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 AM
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Sorry what How are either red flags at all lol Only reason I know either of their bodycount is because I'm friends with a lot of girls and they talk... a lot Neither has overt red flags like being cheaters or liars or addicted to drugs etc, I did think girl 1 was a slut but that's not a red flag unless she's a ho Ho behavior =/= slut behavior srry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:24 AM
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I don't really have intrusive thoughts, but I've tried DBT for a different issue (high neuroticism/baseline anxiety) and it didn't really do shit I'm just saying "don't think about X" is a surefire way for you to think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:21 AM
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Easier said than done
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:20 AM
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The slutty girl is fishing? What's that even mean? Fishing for what? Hot women like her can find any number of hot guys to have meaningless sex with she ain't need to fish hahaha. No, she just likes attention and is honest about being an attention whore. But she she doesn't go home with guys at the bars. And yes, I believe her as I found this out from another friend who I talked to about it and was like "Damn aren't you jelly of (SLUTTYDRESSGIRL) bc I am, she rocks it and I'm sure she gets a ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:20 AM
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. I don't really know anyone who dated a person for longer than 3 years and didn't marry them. You live in Mississippi or smth? I dated my ex for 2.5yrs, weren't engaged My current partner has two female friends dating over 5yr, neither is engaged or plans to be My mom dated her last bf for over 7 years without marrying him Yeah sorry you're just wrong, at least in a modern urban environment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:16 AM
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most people date with the idea of marriage being the end result. Not true which is giving them half your shit Not necessarily true, prenups exist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:15 AM
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Sounds like your problem not hers, defrauding someone requires intent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:14 AM
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How do you know even 1 dude fucked her lmao I know a girl who dresses super slutty and is an attention whore but has only had actual sex with her long term BFs (so 3) I also know a super introverted girl who dresses super conservatively, she's fucked over 40 guys Sorry you just can't tell from behavior alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:14 PM
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Yes many of which have statutory limits However, I do agree with the few that dont have limits at 16 (10-15% USA by population) being raised. And a 40 year old dating an 18 year old should be fully socially accepted at that point. Glad we agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:00 PM
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Hahaha exactly my question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:56 PM
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Don't like in terms of what? Don't feel romantic feelings to? Infinite, if they're consenting and I'm consenting then we don't have to be romantically involved to be sexually involved. But I'm upfront and have never strung anyone along Don't enjoy the company of? Zero. I can't do that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:55 PM
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