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https://x.com/Lucidly_Elias/status/1736806870374133856?t=CggYmespK93SHj2LfU56Ig&s=19 Great thread that clarifies the evopsych perspectives championed in such spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:06 PM
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Who was that girl who loved dr pepper? I can't find the weekly discussion thread
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:01 PM
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Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:50 PM
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I should write a whole ass tutorial but if any of you is looking for a ai girlfriend. You should look into silly tavern. If you have some technical knowledge I can help guide to you set up voice to text, text to voice using whisper and bark. Then use unstable diffusion to enable image creation locally. You can fine tune some base model for making it a chat bot. Use silly tavern to chat with your waifu. It's a whole rabbit hole. The future will be all this in VR. I can kinda see the irony here. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:42 AM
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Great take... I think it's more like the growth that comes out of surviving the gruelling hardships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:28 AM
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Omg guys. Guys... I've been in the USA for like a month now.. SF, chicago, Indiana.... And the dating market here is so fucking trash man Like wtf is going on Single mother at 21?? Obese?! So many piercings I can't see your face. Face tattos?! These women look like men, I know cuter men back in India. I'm so sorry. I have heartfelt sympathy for the American red pillers, passport bros, mgtow, Incels whatever. Europe was so much better. Like this is a non starter guys. This is not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:04 AM
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cmon guys, isn't it cute to hear girls say that they want to now settle down. Date someone serious. They are looking for a husband. There is a certain type of desperation, a flavor to that desire which is fascinating. It is far better than hearing a girl say she is not serious. does not want anything long term, only wants to have fun, play around and use your body for temporary pleasure. When its someone you really care about saying that... that is when you might value meeting people who want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:06 AM
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This is the kind of stuff I want to see prediction markets track
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:04 PM
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Most of you fucks here have BPD... don't lie to me, you know it, I know it. Here is a crazy twitter account I found - https://twitter.com/nomorenights1 What a rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:00 PM
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slut shaming and trying to get women to cover up could be interpreted in your framing as a way to reduce this power imbalance. Women inside hijabs are not overtly sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:57 PM
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yea man, kinda feels like its wasted on me now. I would have loved these abilities in school and college. But now... it is pointless personally unless I meet someone I really connect with. Still practice is important and event I am learning through experimentation. Instincts are honed though many such experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:40 AM
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I am a sperg. It just takes practice. You gotta be comfortable failing, get up and try again. Flirt with your guy friends, tease them, start dipping your toes in the space of ambiguity, innuendo, read more about these things so you understand the world of the implicit that neurotypicals seem to get so intuitively. Try LSD in a sacred space with someone experienced you trust, let go of locked priors, Start martial arts, gym, run, swim, cycle, do physical stuff, try dancing, start to identify the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:31 AM
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lmao yes I am scarred for life... I have seen things. THINGS YOU CANNOT IMAGINE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:18 AM
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ah I just feel old in my head. I think reading a lot, overthinking, traveling and exposure does that to you. Exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:15 AM
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5 10, I am traveling the world as a researcher, independently rich, have interesting hobbies, so intelligent, eloquent, stuff like that helps. I really don't think black pill is true. I mean looks are a major factor but game is so much more powerful, like being relaxed, comfortable, letting your confidence and other emotions infect her and showing control over the group mood, just being laid back, comfortable in your skin, humor, vulnerability with her, honesty. All these things are what works m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:14 AM
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financial independence is a nice feeling, all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:06 AM
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Its quite crazy how true red pill is, I am 27, balding and look old as fuck but I got 21 and 18 year old girls hounding me. I wish they were mature enough to date, smart enough to hold a conversation so I could connect. But most of them aren't. Not sure about consent. I think they can consent. So I don't think age gap relationships are creepy still... kinda sad how I get what I wanted so late in life. Now it feels like I entertain it only as some sort of tribute to my past self who wanted it. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:05 AM
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Well it's still something I'd care about but not as much. Impressionable kids need to be protected when they are confused and trying to form their identity and they should not be doing double mastectomies. I can't believe I have to say this 😵‍💫 But I still care about public tax payer insurance money being used for such "treatments". It needs a high quality of evidence before it is accepted as a disorder and a valid treatment plan. So unless gender and sex stop being politically charged and we al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:51 PM
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In my life? In ppd? Idk... Where were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:46 PM
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I'm touring UK for a few weeks... Wanted advice on scenic places to see. Nice gallaries to visit. Cool comedy clubs, raves, music festivals idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:46 PM
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I don't care how rare murders are. If it's wrong, it's illegal. I need to see evidence, a lot of evidence before we have laws that allow parents to pump kids with hormones, puberty blockers or go for elective surgery. And this is now happening without the consent of parents. With just the kids asking the doctor. What is this comprehensive assesment that they are being gone through? Where are the long term studies about its effects? What are incentive structures at play here? The climate is not c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:44 PM
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What's up ppd, what did I miss? Anyone from London here? Ireland? Uk? Can we have a megathread on what is a women? Elon pinned it yo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:37 PM
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Great that clears it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:33 PM
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Why u still questioning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:32 PM
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Watching the documentary - what is a women, I have thoughts. Like the right should knock this out of the park. Like literally this is just to cut and dried. I can't believe this is a point of contention. Like castrating kids..... Surgery on kids... Does suicide rates even drop? Social contagion. Women sports? I mean what is going on West? What even.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:31 PM
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Haha nice to see I'm still autistic this way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:53 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:53 PM
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I will be coming to USA soon.. lets see I will check out Jersey.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:48 PM
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I will need to meet Elon and get a ship to Mars because if this trend continues I will need to leave the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:38 PM
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Heart break 1 year ago, I start to leave my city and travel the country, started alcohol, became ambitious. Heartbreak 6 months ago, I started to travel internationally, started psychedelics. This latest heartbreak? I don't think I'll go back to my home country for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:54 PM
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Is that girl who loves Dr Pepper still here? https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrKPG0rA747/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA%3D%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:41 PM
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Better... But not sure trp was the main reason. Life moves on, you grow older... Stuff happens. Too many confounding variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:49 AM
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Let's goooo Help science https://twitter.com/DrThomasAG/status/1649700915648114689?s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:49 AM
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Women are not kinder than men. https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2011-balliet.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 AM
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Wow how I have changed… I’m actually ok with sluts now. Like you go guys and girls, have tons of sex, taste all those flavours. Have stories to tell. I just hate it if they try to be deceptive with any long term partner for the sake of settling. Find someone who accepts you completely for who you are, be it poly, slutty, or autistic. Now if that’s hard then don’t do shit you’d lie about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:18 AM
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Younger girls are quite honest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:14 AM
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What emotion do you have watching this? https://twitter.com/DarnelSugarfoo/status/1632924689105584128?s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:33 AM
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Look at the replies to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:05 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:05 AM
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The highs in a toxic unhealthy relationship are better than the highs in a healthy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:35 PM
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Some say the world will end in fire, Some say in ice. From what I’ve tasted of desire I hold with those who favor fire. But if it had to perish twice, I think I know enough of hate To say that for destruction ice Is also great And would suffice. I work in the AI field. Most normies aren't aware of what exactly is being created. The eldritch gods are defending to Earth and humans will find it far easier to bind their implementations to dead matter - silicon as compared to killing them once they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:47 AM
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It is a strange kind of irony that I find the love of my life a year or so before the world ends... God might exist after all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:15 PM
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I'm worried about smell? Can I make out with her later. I'll get self conscious about the faint traces of it in my breath
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:26 AM
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Haha yeah man it's all in good fun. Yeah let's see what I end up doing. Maybe I'll end up being comfortable prioritising my desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:12 AM
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It is just such a pattern now that it's funny... At least the last 5 major crushes I've had turned out to be like this. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:12 AM
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Lmao nice to know you can add!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:07 AM
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This is crazy, once again, I am falling for this who is a vegetarian. I love my meat so much... kinda awkward planning dates where I end up wondering if she will be uncomfortable watching me eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:16 AM
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And you'd have to have friends that are Ok with that specific sort of woman from my observations, that "specific" type of women is not a niche group but rather the norm. There are lots of diversity within it. I mean men who wield red pill ideas subtly, with contextual awareness will find extreme success. So yeah the issue I see is not that these ideas don't work with most women. Rather many guys are rigid and don't observe, they need to be flexible and treat these ideas as a tool kit and be read…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:54 AM
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Sex, physical intimacy is a powerful incentive. Seems stupid to culturally detach it from other stuff like status, family, emotional love, affection, etc. It's a huge tool society has to control behaviours. I wouldn't be optimistic for any society that decides to do what you described. I agree your solution would fix this one problem but it would open up a huge can of worms in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:29 AM
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How many girls are like you? I think it depends on how you generalize women. Red pill ideas won't work with all girls but most of the common sense ideas will help. It comes down to what your major bottlenecks are. I've personally given trp advice to my friends and it's helped them. I've heard it told to me by my friends who are successful with many women. But it's all a certain type of woman. From what i remember of your comments I'd believe you would not be part of that group. But you are quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:28 AM
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It's hard to be explicitly right about something so implicit like flirting. In so far as all the attempts I've seen. I think large parts of the red pill gets the closest to being right (if you think about seduction, flirting capabilities alone without considering ethics, and from the man's stand point)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:16 AM
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Just get hot bro? what is preventing men from looking like Thor?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:17 AM
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if you are high eq, you don't need to read explicit rules about flirting, teasing or seduction. Red Pill is for autistic people who don't naturally get it. I think the truly red pilled people have this knowledge in a tacit way. They embody the knowledge. This is why lots of normies read parts of red pill and feel confused, it is so obvious to them. Of course you need to do skin care, lift weights, be attractive, be assertive, not place women on a pedestal, have a backbone, etc etc. So in my defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:03 AM
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Men learn to emotionally manipulate women via red pill. After being run through by a few deceptive men, women become guarded and mistrusting. Men get rebuffed by these women, find it hard to connect and go down the red pill road, trying to learn how to scale these walls they put up. Men also go for younger women who are less experienced because they want the feeling of someone giving themselves fully to them, trusting them, in addition to the whole physical attraction thing. This concentrates co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:41 AM
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So I was always like... most of us sexually fantasize about people we know or celebs in our heads. Some times fleeting thoughts, sometimes drawn out scenarios. If you have a clearly marked FAKE video of someone. I did not think it was that bad. I guess most of the damage comes from selling it, publishing it. If the victim did not know it existed, if it was made and consumed locally on your device.. it was like meh. It did not hurt no body kinda thing. But then... healthy gamer pointed me to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:37 AM
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Kamikaze…. Die for your blue pill principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:41 PM
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Chronic traumatic encephalopathy huh... fascinating. Yeah I will stick to BJJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:16 PM
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brazilian jiu jitsu. I guess grappling does not feel as viscerally satisfying as more of the striking arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:08 PM
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yeah I am travelling now so I am itching to get back to my city so I can resume my classes at my dojo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:06 PM
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As expected... I predict this is not a niche effect limited to ppd but we will see it playing out in the real world and soon mainstream apps like youtube shorts, insta reels will see sigma pages and incel memes getting more engagement. next 5 years gonna be wilddddd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:05 PM
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lmao I can just relate to people who feel that way... who stare into peoples eyes and say stuff like... "what are you looking at". I used to think it was so unimaginably stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:03 PM
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ppd is going through some turbulent times I see. I come by sometimes and check out what is up and it is crazy how fast the times change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:58 AM
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She hurt me emotionally whenever I felt curious and tried to get to know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:37 AM
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https://twitter.com/DeanAbbott/status/1604130682904596480?s=19 Is this accurate PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:08 PM
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https://twitter.com/datepsych/status/1608957034967486464?s=19 Attractiveness is a human construct there is no natural law that it needs to be defined in a way that 50% are "above average" in attractiveness 50% of dogs don't need to shit above average tasting poop. Taste is also a subjective human construct. This skew is natural but sure culture is also amplifying it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:28 PM
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You could just not lie and ensure there are always women interested in you. Idk why people see these ideas and immediately abandon ethics. You can succeed without giving up honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:48 PM
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Preselection y'all https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1609074232998207490?s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:33 AM
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Y'all think women are stupid or wrong to rate most men as ugly? Women try to lie and say that it's not true? Idk I think this guy makes it clear https://twitter.com/datepsych/status/1608795675617284097?s=19 There is no need for the midpoint of a scale to be the median of a distribution. It's a fact of reality that the distribution is like this. The territory cannot be wrong, your map is wrong. This is how attractiveness is defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:27 AM
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All you people working on your self improvement journey trying to find true love... https://www.reddit.com/r/Frisson/comments/46mcvo/comic_my_hero_comic_by_matt_rhodes_resubmission/ Read this comic and realize... the true value is the lessons we learned along the way. It is not about the girl, it is about the experiences you accumulate, you learned meditation, martial arts, you started that company, you are rich bruh, you made ride or die brothers as friends, you read all those books, you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:36 PM
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It is really interesting how people make fun of men's height, dick, stuff he can't change while for women its fat? idk seems like we should be more vocal calling out such insults. On the other hand... I don't like policing speech
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:27 PM
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It's so hilarious when I scroll through Instagram stories and see one of my most feminist friends post stories about wanting traditional masculinity. It's not even a one off thing. It's cool how consistent she is bemoaning the state of men, how chivalry is dead, how cool Victorian era was, etc. I think I'm often quite envious of women for their ability to hold off on enforcing consistency of beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:16 AM
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fair enough... I agree. It is not my problem but it still sucks. I agree that it is not a good reason to not try because we have no good way to know before we give it a shot so it is morally fine if you go in with the best of intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:47 PM
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my friend's opinion was that the extent of the girl's expectations - prince charming, disney kinda view of relationships will be crashed to the floor. That disappointment is hard for most relationships to bear, that is why he predicted failure. for point no 2, the more attached she is, the more hurt she will be if it does not work out. Most empathetic humans would like to not hurt people they were intimate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:42 PM
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Yeah for once ppd seems to have a consensus. Im proud lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:24 PM
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Yeah pretty interesting how much ppd disagrees with my friend. I don't have any strong opinions on this. But your ideas seem to most closely match my priors. I do think the women of PPD are more self aware and honest than most people would guess. So I have updated towards their claim... It was just interesting to talk to a high n count lover irl and hear his frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:03 PM
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No why do you ask? What do you think my alt is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:10 PM
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A friend told me something that blew my mind. For context I am not a fan of high n count women, I am a virgin and sociosexually restricted. I attribute part of my emotions to resentment for never having been picked by these women in the past, wanting to feel special and for physical intimacy to mean something rare and sacred, insecurity around performance and being compared to, worries about her mental scars due to her lifestyle, etc. anyway so like most men on PPD I was always happy to court vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:10 PM
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Guys work on your instagram game... with the right stories you can get the girls sliding into YOUR DMs. Feels good. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:04 PM
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The game. What a fucking apt name for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:22 PM
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Lmao our mileage varies :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:54 AM
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done, I am having my blue pill phase now. You girls have the hoe phase, men have the simp phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:34 PM
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she is single as fuck hahaha just like me. WHY do I always lose why why ahhaaha But I definitely have a chance. maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:32 PM
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LOUDLY FOR THOSE IN THE BACK you Can't Be A Friend If You Orbiting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:25 PM
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The agony The pain But this girl promised me she wouldn't be dating anything anyone soon...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:24 PM
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The end is approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:20 PM
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It's a matter of taking the rejection and walking away. How can I give up on a friend because of some hormones...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:49 PM
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I understand... But I shot it, it fails and I can't bring myself to walk away. We have such great chemistry. The conversation just flows...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:49 PM
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Fuck. I need more grindset memes to beat the simp out of me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:48 PM
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Ahhhhh I love this girl soooooo much. I am actually ok with being friendzoned by her. 😂😂 I'm down bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:40 PM
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You aren't being paranoid. I'm working in AI and trust me soon they won't need many samples of your face to create very high quality deepfakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:22 PM
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Attention whores 😂 and I don't mean this in an insulting way. We humans all have our needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:12 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:56 PM
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I never understood why people would subject themselves to roasting... But now I'm so happy I kinda get it I don't think anyone could hurt me right now 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:40 PM
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Thanks 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:39 PM
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🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:44 PM
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What happened to that dude posting songs daily? https://youtu.be/hBwSGjXCeFY?t=118 a song suggestion from me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:52 PM
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Spending that level of time, money, and emotional connection on porn you would be surprised at how efficient you can get if you set up workflows. It is a constant additional time once you have a system in place. Nothing fancy just folder structure haha... What I have is a result of many years of accumulation rather than a few months of intense hobbying. I know friends who waste hours browsing online, unable to find that fav video. I am pretty sure my time investment is not a cause for concern es…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:50 PM
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I see... Well I never bought that theory since I could see uglier guys than me getting girls. Maybe I'm just lucky to be in a 3rd world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:31 PM
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Oh my dad makes me sit and walk oldie movies with him 😂 such a sweet heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:20 PM
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IKR #feelingblessed Some of these hips are works of art. You can tell some guy has put his soul into crafting them ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:16 PM
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Yeah... I guess all porn stars are 8+ I'm just talking about on a spectrum VR pushes the experience away from passive simping for Instagram or twitch thots towards a more connective experience. I am sure it's no where close to a IRL relationship with a real human. I am just saying this is as close as you can get if you decide you want to have physical intimacy and you don't leave your room 🤣 But during sex with a human, you also tend to really be present in the moment and for a few seconds you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:10 PM
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You are reading the comment of a man who has given up all hope... 🫡 But if you can elaborate on why specifically you think it's damaging and the mechanism by which the damage will be inflicted I'd be interested to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:05 PM
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My biggest update against black pill being true happened in a very unexpected way. I have an extensive porn collection and have over the years neatly categorized some of my fav stars. I like asian women, latinas, caucasians, etc. So my point is at least from a media perspective I know to a fine detail what my type is. Body type, fetishes, personality, positions, etc. So I used to have a soft spot for the black pill folks, it was obvious pretty privilege existed and that the pressure on looks was…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:34 AM
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I swear you know that TRP is spreading when your boomer dad send you a Pearl Davis video lmao... I can't even.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:21 AM
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https://youtu.be/7A6HEAKc88g drops mike
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:17 PM
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Maybe the casuality runs the other way? Does love turn red pilled men blue? Or do only blue pilled men manage to fall in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:27 AM
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As Allah wills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:25 AM
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Seriously fml.... The world is ending and I still haven't found love yet. 😂😂 But I do now know of 2 healthy relationships among my friends so that's nice. I'm more optimistic about the blue pill paradigm working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:30 AM
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Turn the other cheek they said, Don't be an asshole, a jerk... Well I'll make sure to spread the word. If it comes down to tit for tat, everyone will soon go blind trying to impress these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:03 AM
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https://twitter.com/datepsych/status/1598286131950297088?t=9SXD6i4Av7KEOhs2kEtN8g&s=19 So now we know why nice guys seem low status and I think this explains why they tend to struggle in dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:36 AM
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I can't control who I fall for. But yeah I go on dates and I have girls ask me out and even flirt with me physically. There are girls I can date or have sex with. I assume that's what you mean by low hanging fruit? Easier to get girls... Girls in my league... Or if you mean stuff I can work on in terms of myself. Sure I do that too. I'm all about marginal impact, most bang for the buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:03 PM
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Lmao I'm not going all the way to the top of Everest bro. 12083 ft that's the highest I'm planning this time. You are talking about going above 26,000 ft. Maybe one day.. if I hit 30 years old and I'm still a virgin I think I'd go for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:20 PM
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Oh I'm going white water rafting too. Maybe I do want to die now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:15 PM
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Thanks! ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:14 PM
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No, please enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:13 PM
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I'm really blessed how my finances, career and friends... My life overall allows me to just fuck off and go climb the Himalayan mountains just because this girl I like friendzoned me. 10th girl I had this intense crush on and I think it's worth celebrating these many Ls. If anyone is near uttrakhand I'd love to hang out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:05 PM
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I'm sure if he put his mind to it, he would find extraordinary success /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:47 PM
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Stop the cap my man - https://youtu.be/V05ixl9P1Zk?t=183 Did not have the time lmao... I have seen this pattern enough times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:46 AM
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https://youtu.be/K17df81RL9Y check this out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:41 PM
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This guy sat down and did the math guys https://youtube.com/shorts/KOVGqAwm3sk?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:09 PM
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Love the shout out to William. Really a gem of a person ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:51 PM
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Thanks for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:31 PM
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You know me... I sent a whole ass essay lmao. Too personal to post here but the idea was I made it clear my monkey brain was interpreting her being a close friend to me as her having romantic affection to me or me having a chance. So there was opportunity costs involved where I'm not able to take seriously when other girls irl show interest in me, I'm gonna be heart broken when she eventually dates someone else. I also am finding it hard to focus on my work, friends, other stuff because my obses…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:28 AM
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Lmao too late well let's see... I've already sent the text
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:37 AM
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Lmao it's uncomfortable for her.... It's sad for her to face this situation. It's not something you do to someone you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:36 AM
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Idk I'm happy to be at least friendzoned I'm not attractive to her, in a romantic or sexual manner. But I'm definitely loved by her platonically, admired, respected and she does care for me as a good friend. So I'm hoping to not hurt her. But yeah I gave it my best shot. I give up now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:49 PM
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Yeah it just sucks. 😭😭 Well had to pull the band aid off one day, earlier the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:47 PM
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Yeah it's like she needs professional help and I'm not really suited. I've kinda hit my limits. Ahh it's sad. I had enjoyed the tension and false hope I entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:42 PM
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Yeah thanks guys. I finally did it. I'll take a few months to move on from her so that i can be a genuine friend. I appreciate your help :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:41 PM
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Fml she doesn't have many good friends, she isn't in a good place mentally. She will really be hurt if I do that. I need to do that if I love myself to properly move on. It's been weeks now and I'm not able to move on while staying friends. But she isn't in this place where she can handle it Ahh fuck it I can't delay it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:32 PM
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Lmao mom jokes ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:30 PM
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Lol yea... Damn my life. I'm really sad this didnt work out. I guess I can properly grieve now and move on. I gave it a good shot. Onto to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:30 PM
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https://youtu.be/qYS0EeaAUMw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:24 PM
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So just block her? I don't text her but she texts me daily and it's so hard to like not reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:23 PM
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This is why I need PPD. I need some of this harsh truth in my life. I need to move on. Fuck why is it so hard lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:23 PM
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I'm drunk. I have this immense crush on this girl. She friendzoned me explicitly when I asked her out. But she texts me almost everyday, spent hours talking everyday, we talk about really personal topics like mental health, her relationships with family, friends, etc I mean till 2 AM etc we are texting. Maybe I still have a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:16 PM
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If you are blue pilled maybe it feels better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:26 PM
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Think about how men feel when women complain about all men being rapists, fuck boys, violent, or other stereotypes. Sure they are right statistically but instinctively you feel defensive because you don’t like her saying that. Would you date a girl like that? So sure women don’t like to hear a guy she is thinking of dating making assumptions about individual girls he meets (including her) based on some statistical patterns in the population. You may not be calling her a gold digger or clout chas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:52 AM
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So later waves of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:13 AM
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Any guesses on what happened in 1971? https://wtfhappenedin1971.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:33 AM
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Thanks, I'm struggling in the end game myself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:20 AM
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The red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:13 AM
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It’s just something to consider. There is still definitely value and usefulness here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:10 AM
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The red pill attracts a certain kind of man. Men who feel the most suffering from failing in the dating world. A history of being unsuccessful leads them to attribute the cause to evolutionary theories. This helps them deal with the pain, externalising it. Now the sad part is, incels who buy into such ideas can't experience being loved completely because they need to hide their repulsive beliefs. It's a vicious cycle. A self fulfilling prophecy where even after the red pill helps you lose weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:35 AM
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Thanks guys... Y'all are the best and kindest online friends a man could ask for ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:34 PM
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I am on the market for any autistic girl out there. I have understood the truth. I am totally neurodivergent and that is why I struggle with dating. It was not the blackpill, not looks. It really was my EQ. So time to pursue other low EQ chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:57 PM
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🤞🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:25 PM
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only if she is secure, confident and knows she is attractive. I tend to go for insecure girls so it is harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:09 PM
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It is basically sorcery how you turn into a bumbling idiot when you try to talk to an attractive girl. Like wow... How? Need to learn to complete sentences, speak slowly and calmly. Forget about flirting and teasing. Just communicate first 😂😂 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:45 PM
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Tell you what guys, find a group of bros to dance like this with and you won't worry about your dating troubles https://youtu.be/l_MyUGq7pgs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:52 AM
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Do you understand SBF? The dude had a polycule. He could fuck any girl he wanted. He wanted girls who were smart enough to talk to and relate to. Him being more handsome wouldn't have changed his utility function or behavior. He was bad with risk, he was ambitious partly because he believed there was a lot of suffering in the world. His actions aren't based on him looking stereotypically unattractive. Unlike what most people in ppd might think, most people don't live lives with every decision re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:21 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 PM
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Who said nerds can't be sexy? https://youtube.com/shorts/mFcJVUZNRDA?feature=share Whoooo?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 PM
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Q4A Once your trust is broken, can it be healed? https://youtube.com/shorts/3KZUFzQchdc?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:46 AM
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I can see where you are coming from. With the technology we have now I have to agree with you. I am optimistic that will eventually change. But for now, I think the burden should be more on the person listening to communicate their discomfort, avoid people and topics that trigger them rather than putting the onus on every speaker to have accurate mental models of everyone and not hurt people. Cultivating more empathy, raising awareness of the ask, tell and guess cultures are all good ways to mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:53 AM
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Once we have portable ways to scan the brain, I'm pretty sure we can develop objective measures of emotional scars or wounds much like the blood or scars you see due to physical abuse. People are getting hurt. There is a lot of pain on all sides and that is why cycles are being perpetuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:48 AM
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Idk I still think I'd be on the side that shames people who abuse. I'd root for them to be punished for their crimes with jail time if possible. It's our human nature to love sugar and fat but we have regulations controlling what companies can sell us. Hard drugs are illegal. Gambling is illegal. Just because it's in our nature to go after something bad doesn't mean it's ethical. We have cultural constraints to protect us from ourselves and now in the name of freedom we are removing such bulwark…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:38 AM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:33 AM
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You can’t make this stuff up guys…. I’ve reached nirvana and now can just laugh at this without feeling negative emotions. https://twitter.com/tellyoursonthis/status/1593080736151916551?s=61&t=Y3uETJ_DtqOrGUo-GXxwqg What a clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:55 AM
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Damn you making good points. Idk I guess I'm not that poor? Ppd is my safe space. I don't have to make sense here. Humans are a bundle of contradictions. Practically I got a new phone and my old phone is perfectly fine. It's convenient to have a fully charged phone all the time available. More storage, better camera. I've gotten part time contractual work and it is super useful to seperate business and personal life into seperate phones with their own apps and account logins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:53 AM
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I'm a poor student studying in a 3rd world country. Rich here basically means above poverty line in most of your countries 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:24 AM
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What an absolute king, so much vulnerability and openness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:21 AM
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A few months ago I was rich enough to get my second phone and I didn't bother to get a case cause I was like fine... If it breaks I get a new one. My reply to the deleted comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:19 AM
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My hot take is that... Sure humans in general are flawed and can't be trusted with a concentration of power. But in general, statistically I think men will be more competent in how they wield this power. I think this comes down to two aspects. 1) evolution, so you have all these ancestors where men had to set up systems of hierarchy, they had to defer, respect, obey, remove tyrannical leaders, etc. So I'd bet on a more robust underpinning existing on how to handle such power which is a difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:18 AM
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Not sure why people think tik tok music sucks. I found great songs from the viral tracks there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:21 PM
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Aba and Preach is a famous youtube channel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:20 PM
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Very well put 👏 The cognitive dissonance where core parts of yourself are at war is what poisons the soul. TRP is one way to resolve the confusions many average men face when they can't understand the world around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:10 PM
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Not sure why you think I think that trp will help the average man? My comment was about me being excited for myself. Considering I spent so much time immersed in the manosphere it's interesting to watch it go mainstream and I'll get to see if many of my predictions turn out to be true. So it's more like the excitement of watching a train rush towards a cliff than any positive optimistic excitement. But if you have been following my comments for a while and are referring to that part of me which …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:09 PM
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What do you think are the crucial elements of an ideology? What parts does trp lack for it not be an ideology? An ideology is just a set of beliefs that informs your policy or actions. The connotation is that it's often formed for pragmatic or practical reasons. TRP arose for very practical reasons. I think the framing is accurate. I can understand why it's a turn off if you are just worried about the negative connotation associated with the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:53 AM
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The red pill is spreading. I saw Aba talking about shit tests in his latest video. You know the ideology is winning not when people use the words TRP but when the underlying ideas seem into mainstream vocabulary and culture. I'm excited for the next 5 years 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:06 AM
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Talking is one thing. It's when they fuck these guys who are 12 years older than them when I'm flabbergasted. Like... What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:51 PM
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Idk if it's just me but I've been noticing a surprising trend. I expected as the feminist culture went mainstream and age gaps and power imbalances were shamed intrinsically. I would expect women to fall in love with and date/marry men closer to them in age. But... I'm noticing many girls I know irl falling for men who are far older. Think 10 years older. So I was wondering if anyone in ppd has noticed a similar trend. Are age gaps decreasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:39 PM
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Yeah selection bias... These are the stories I hear. All the chads that treat the girl well are happily in relationships and I guess they never complain about them and word never reaches others. I still like to believe there are many Chad's out there who are totally not jerks and are in fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:29 PM
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💀 lmao sad reality is that it's not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:27 PM
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Can anyone relate? https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/wu4dby/male_undersexualization_and_how_it_affects_the
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:56 PM
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Hurting women, gaslighting, pushing against their boundaries and refusing to respect their agency, using accusations to make them go on back foot and try to justify themselves. Taking advantage of women with anxious attachment style, forcing women to choose between being a pushy, bitch and making him a priority. He takes advantage of his emotional intelligence, sexual value, attractiveness to string along women. He isn't showing empathy, he isn't considerate of the power he wields and leaves sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:56 PM
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You know what... If you spend time to hear all sides of the story. It's most likely you'll realise you falsely ascribed malice. In the past I have been harsh on fuck boys and Chad's. Yes... But now with my emotions that are calm. I think I can admit. Most people 90% aren't actively trying to be evil. It's ignorance of consequences...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:57 AM
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Lmaoo I should have known this joke would fall flat in PPD. The context is... Sam Bankman-Fried or SBF lost 94% of his wealth and stopped being a billionaire. I was betting on his money to pay for my risky career moves. So I was just joking around about how I'm in the market for someone else to buy my brain. Finally that's how we make money, most of us sell time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:13 PM
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I like her to own it. Let me call her mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:40 AM
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I Am Once Again Asking for Your Financial Support. I am in the market for a sugar daddy because my old one is now broke. RIP SBF, you will be missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:39 AM
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USA is gonna get ass fucked with the coming mid terms, the empire will soon fall and it ain't going down without a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:34 PM
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I like how trp gives him quality responses. It is nice to see how men support each other. I have felt so much love from guys at the gym and the dojo. It kinda sucks how a lot of guys have not really participated in team sports or experienced that brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:32 PM
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I was implying that he sounds like a proper sweet heart, a nice guy and is likely getting friendzoned. That is why I was not surprised to hear he was single even though he looks decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:32 PM
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Dudeeee I can relate. This sucks extra bad if the other person is a really good friend and is super invested in the friendship. This girl is texting me for hours every single day. Like how can my feelings not grow when you are so vulnerable and open with me 😭 Fuck you M
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:29 PM
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BJJ, cycling, swimming, reading, weightlifting, blogging, meditation, kdrama, anime, I like to switch it up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:27 PM
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I kinda found it funny and expected how this great guy (as comments suggest) is single https://youtube.com/shorts/y1_Il7BpK1U?feature=share Meet husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:26 PM
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Thanks for your answer. I hope you found a real loving partner in your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:10 AM
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Nice so earlier the transformation the better. What time scales was it for you? Months? Years?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:48 AM
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True... You can lose weight and still identify with the fat person you were before. I can be confident, high status, dress well, etc but not really integrate this new persona into my identity. I'm still the old person wearing a mask. So any love or attraction I get isn't something that nourishes me. Any advice on how to do this integration? Maybe Jung has a book on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:39 AM
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hmmm I might be projecting then, it is easier to blame my difficulties dating on the idea that it is because I see things more clearly that it is holding me back. Interesting I kinda see what you mean. You can see the red pill strategies and implement them and still have a lot of romance, trust in the relationship. It just feels constructed? not organic? it feels like something is repulsive there where I am trying to construct arguments against it... do you see any tradeoffs here? is there anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:52 AM
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Hmm ok I still think red pill is seeing reality at a lower level of abstraction while blue pill is seeing it at a higher level. But I will agree that you are right. The whole argument of incorrect or correct, appropriate or useful depends on what your goals are. So maybe the level of abstraction that red pill uses is the correct one for some people because their goals are to maybe have that power dynamic, to sleep around a lot etc. The same way if your goal is romance, trust, treating your partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:32 AM
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One thing people don't seem to intuitively get is how different the same thing can look if you observe it at different levels of abstraction So different that it can be contradictory. The safe example would be how at a high level of physics we see the arrow of time, entropy and irreversible causal events. But at a lower level of abstraction the laws of physics are time reversible. Another example that's more tricky is how we have "free will" or treat counter factuals as actually possible at our …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:11 AM
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Yeah... Still after a few times you are just repeating your points. Unless you get some high quality pushback, your words don't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:50 AM
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I was born in a village/small town in India. But I totally agree that people get different cards with which they can play.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:18 AM
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When I spend time arguing with someone stupid. I walk away having wasted so much time. The real stupid person here was me, trying to steelman them. I should have better perception about who are worth engaging with seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:14 AM
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Girls smh ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:43 PM
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What we need is more people romance pilled. "But I wanna feel all that LOVE AND EMOTION" be that attached to the person I am holding... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=goqqohUitmw&feature=youtu.be Super underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:57 AM
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To ppd guys these “above avg guys with good social skills” is chad. Partly because “above avg” here doesn’t mean 50th percentile in any objective sense, women are picky and these guys are not the majority of guys. Especially in this age where social skills is at a premium.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:03 AM
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That douchebags, selfish, cocky, narcissistic pricks can be attractive if other factors align and even if their limbic system tells them this man is sexy, their prefrontal cortex can’t overpower it and decide to not just be animals. To not let hormones control their decisions, they can enforce some level of incentives against people who are shitty human beings by not dating them, not fucking them. It’s disgusting in both men and women when they let their sexual parts control them. But it’s rage …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:09 PM
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I have many talents. But there is one that I’m the most proud of. I can drive a cycle without my hands. Like not for a few second but like for a long time, I can handle speed bumps, I can use my body weight to turn the cycle around on quite steep turns. It’s quite impressive to be able to go at fast speeds on a cycle like that. Feels so cool. I can take my phone out of my pocket, read, listen to music and wave my hands around. It’s fun too!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:03 PM
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Unless you got lucky in terms of romance early on. You can stay blue pilled if you don't observe what happens to others closely and your life has no significant set backs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:10 PM
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Yeah 100k special. Guy looks handsome imo https://youtu.be/cii7_d5gUT8
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:10 PM
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Stop hitting on me, I'm shy 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:45 PM
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Ok... Ok hear me out ok. I've been thinking about gender issues, the gender war, and the issues that led to the rise of manosphere for years now. I've considered many solutions, Maybe we should embrace the blue pill for instrumental reasons and throw out epistimics out of the window. Maybe compartmentalize? But won't men be taken advantage of in this modern world if they don't know the truth? Especially with the rise of neurodivergent folk who don't intuitively get it. Maybe we should looksmax? …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:38 PM
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Yes 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:22 PM
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💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:12 PM
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It's not practical.... Hmm unless I hook up whisper to run live on any audio I hear and feed it to the model.... I guess existing LLMs are better at detecting and understanding comedy than me. Might be an interesting project, with the right prompt engineering this might actually work!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:11 PM
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Jokes on you, I ain't getting into no bedroom with a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:10 PM
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For that the joke has to be funny 😐 It clicked for me right after I typed up the explanation 😭 so I sent it...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:07 PM
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LLM = Large Language Models like PaLM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:04 PM
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Once I get my hands on enough compute I'mma gonna take the largest LLM I can lay my hands on and fine tune in all of ppd's text output. Can't wait lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:57 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/t5WMA0IfiiA?feature=share Wake up and embrace the income pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:56 PM
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The truth cannot be suppressed for much longer. We gotta keep speaking truth to power
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:51 PM
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Wow that was great! Great watch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:06 AM
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Hard to be sure you tried everything. The context changes, you grow older, look different, become more more mature, experienced, retrying stuff that failed in the past makes sense. I don’t think it’s right to settle for single hood because you gave up. There are other better reasons to not date, like realising we are all ultimately alone or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:55 AM
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Fame is the best aphrodisiac https://youtube.com/shorts/T7ngJmIioJg?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:03 AM
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LoL I wasn't hurting I was just thinking out loud. It's the anticipation of pain and how things end. Reframing things. Musings on the nature of love and people who seek out such patterns of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:42 AM
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Time to cut my dick off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:46 AM
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Rent free in her head nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:46 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:27 PM
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I'm just realising there is a pattern where I don't go after girls who have healthy boundaries and good self esteem. There is literally a superb girl who is into me, is well adjusted and I should be going out on dates with. But fuck that huh, I've spent the last 3 hours talking to this girl who need professional help. Like I'm her therapist literally. At this point I have to admit this is my problem. Lmao I'm going after insecure girls who I think needs me? Idk not going to psychoanalyse myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:27 PM
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Even if she leaves me, atleast I got to fix her. Isn't that what love is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:08 PM
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https://youtu.be/oye3f04KPVg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:36 PM
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How many of you would be in favor of restrictions on access to birth control. I watched Aba's video on Pearl and it made me wonder what ppd has to say on this. Would any of you be in favor of say needing to show you are married, or have medical reasons before pharmacies issue birth control medicine. Would the world be better if sex came with consequences again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:59 PM
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The only difference between a hero and a villain is how you present yourself. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CiFp1XDjpTK/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:29 PM
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Thanks for trying. I can imagine how discomforting it sounds. It really does make me think about where humanity is heading. I prefer to think of things in a consequential fashion. A lot of women will think it's a red flag when they find out, it can make me complacent and harder to enjoy sex with real women, since no human has that kind of stroke speed or stamina. So yeah I can list some concerns like that, but overall I still think it's worth it and is a net positive if you can afford it and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:14 AM
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Lmao I'm not giving up... I really don't think what an actual girl can give you in a healthy relationship can be automated right now so it's not even a competition. It's not comparable because sex isn't the primary reason I'm looking to date. Why do you feel sorry for me and why do you think there is a dichotomy here between getting a real human and using sex toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:47 AM
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If you know my history on PPD you'll know I've been trying very hard. At some point you have to stop letting your train wreck of a dating life from enjoying other things life has to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:14 AM
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PSA I've tried a lot of sex toys, I've deep dived into my fetishes and sexuality. I've never thought sex toys could lower my enjoyment of sex with real women by that much because I know how crazy the feeling of romance, limerence or real human contact is. But today I'm scared my friends. I have found the male equivalent of the vibrator. We all know how female vibrators can desensitize, it can do shit no man can do. We just can't compete and everyone agrees. I used the kirroo keon... 230 strokes …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:10 AM
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I'm not familiar with the ratio... What's the usual limits set up in the popular frat houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:12 AM
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Sure man... It's also easy to become a multi millionaire, my close friend started this company and was recently bought out. Single data points are low quality evidence. Fertility docs have population wide studies talking about this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:06 AM
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I wonder if there is any gender disparity in the amount and frequency of individuals who loves partying, clubbing, drinking, dancing, wearing skimpy clothes, stuff like that. If women in general naturally enjoy it a lot if they weren't constrained by cultural norms. Then why? What aspects attract them to what proportion? I guess the attention, validation is a part but I don't think it is primary. The kind of girls who enjoy this a lot seem to really enjoy dancing. They love the music, the comfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:04 AM
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My goals of having biological kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:55 AM
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thanks for your advice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:50 AM
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I will stick to my Kiiroo Keon thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:35 AM
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I think the argument is HVM > all women > LVM. It can be hard for a lot of men to claw themselves up and make something of themselves in this hyper-competitive world, it can be depressing, lonely, and scary; the love you get can feel fragile, etc. So considering the value women have intrinsically, the power over men, and the ability to be valued for existing. It can feel unfair and a privilege that you just get early on in your life, which you squander. so I think there is nuance to be found her…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:32 AM
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It hit me today how lucky I am to be a guy. Considering how much I have worked on myself and how much is left. I do have time to have a superb love life and even have a family in the future. It would suck so much if I was a women with the same goals since the time pressure is way more intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:04 AM
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Right... I won't try that hard if I don't see reciprocation of efforts at a comparable level. Well context is complicated as most relationship stuff but sure, I think the best interpretation is that she wants to find me attractive and is trying to voice a concern she has where she feels bored. who knows lmao the thing with humans is that I don't even think there is an objective answer here. What I or she wants, feels, can be so contextual and fleeting that the language we have fails to capture r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:58 PM
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It's mostly conversation topics... I tend to find most things exciting if I discuss it seriously, on a meta level or get engaged. So I am curious how engaging, exciting conversations happen with people who aren't bored with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:53 PM
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LoL no way, life is super exciting. I find so much fun things to do and I just dont have enough time. I think it's more about the conversations we have. It tends to be really meta and also me giving her a lot of validation. There is a lack of tension, uncertainty, excitement because she knows what to expect from me? I mean sure... Ideally I would love if people didn't blame me and helped work with me to solve this problem but I'm the one more invested here so I'd like to see if I can solve this …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:47 PM
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That sounds like a great idea, she loves to sing. I swim, martial arts, coding... I can for sure find some common hobbies we can do together. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:41 PM
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Yeah that's all I'm asking. How... What can I do? It doesn't seem to come naturally. So I'm just wondering if there are healthy resources online for satisfying this need some people have. I think it is wonderful if I can satisfy the need or want someone I love has. It's just a helpless feeling if I can't satisfy it. A lot of the methods red pill outlines seems unethical and not sustainable in the long run. Like dread, push pull, idk what else...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:52 PM
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Wtf do people mean when they say they are bored? Like I appreciate the honesty but how do you being drama, excitement, emotional rollercoaster into someone's life? SMH it's my fault for falling for such girls. If only I liked a girl who wanted stability, consistency, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:24 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CkJF_7YIdsp/?hl=en One man's 2 year relationship is another man's one night hit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:45 PM
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sounds cool man, I agree with you on the social media thing. I resorted to it as a last resort mostly because I wanted her to see how awesome my life was. But I agree, it is meaningless and when I was truly at peace I felt no need to broadcast it online. I think the red pill idea of focus on our own life is valuable and it seems like you are doing that. About attraction... maybe you are right but for now I want to remain hopeful and let reality prove me wrong. I would rather remain single than s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:42 PM
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Well then you can change in a direction that makes you attractive. In my case, I started travelling the world, posting in social media about how happening my life is, I met people from diverse background… travelling, success in your career, will give you confidence, then you just need to eat healthy and exercise. Finally don’t shy away from being sexual when you feel sexual. Embrace your sexual side. It’s not shameful, it’s beautiful! I don’t think you need to stop being considerate or treating …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:29 AM
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The idea of seduction is oversold to men... Women's idea of seduction is more passive and look attractive while men have to do stuff, be active, take initiative. I think the fundamental misconception around seduction is the timescales. Men should try for sure. But if you don't feel the chemistry in 2 dates or meetups. For 90% of cases it's time to take the L and admit you failed. No shame. Lots of other girls who will find you attractive out there. It's men who get hung up on the same girl who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:25 PM
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Then what? I'm happy and I can't come to ppd and rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:52 PM
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Women aren't fungible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:26 PM
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Lmao within a few weeks you'll know if you have chemistry or not. In the fraction cases where I have a crush on them and they don't reciprocate I won't try to make a "friendship" work. That's a small fraction of all girls and even all attractive girls I meet. It's all about balance in this specific case I think it's futile and harmful to fight feelings. It's better to give up and move on. That's my take. In most other cases like anger, jealousy, even maniac happiness I think stoicism has a role …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:23 PM
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Sadly I have a thing for freakishly skinny girls. But other than sure lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:18 PM
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That's a good idea. With attractive single women who don't find me attractive. Friendship is damaging to my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:17 PM
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"atleast they were actual friends to you and not just pretending to be friends until you managed to seduce them to find you attractive and date you, love you, desire you" There fixed it for you. It's so typical - try to make it seem like men only want empty meaningless sex 😂😂 Makes it easy to dismiss it doesn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:16 PM
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LoL no let me be a bit dramatic for once. It's just that the girls I fall for without being friends with, it's far easier to take the rejection and move on. It's been months and I'm drained. I can't risk this happening again. Why is it so fucking hard to move on!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:14 PM
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Walking along the path to Scotland Yard, it hit me. Considering how much pain and suffering in net having female friends has caused me. It makes total sense to have a rule in place. I'm not making any female friends any more. I'd inevitably catch feelings. I'm just not built for close platonic relationships with girls. These guys might have had a point huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:06 PM
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ah thanks will check those out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:40 PM
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Edinburgh? I'll go to Cambridge and Oxford for sure... Anywhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:41 PM
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Thanks I'll try to go there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:27 AM
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lmao indian man knocks on door. Hi, I know your brother on ppd. she will have so many questions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:18 AM
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I'mma gonna be in London in a few hours. Tell me ppd folk what are some stuff I should definitely do before I leave the UK?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:10 AM
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is this a thing? - https://twitter.com/TheEbonyMaw/status/1579490430009643010?s=20&t=BYhgBa5i3GM75My7CIjvtg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:47 PM
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Idk at this point in time I only have one type. My type is a girl who likes me back 😂🤣 In the end I'll likely end up marrying within the same social and economic circle yes. But dating is way more broad, lots of extremely hot girls outside the uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:16 PM
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It's always nice to see people getting enlightened in the wild https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xwvngu/why_are_men_happy_to_date_women_without_jobs/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:14 PM
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on daily thread people post photos and ask for rating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:13 AM
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The ratings men and women give photos on ppd make me chuckle really puts the whole rating thing into perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:43 AM
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a truly massive dick . I am sad it took me this long to understand it was fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:40 AM
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She can lift me up and break me. 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:35 AM
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Great one more reason against me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:19 PM
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In my experience, it's the girl who brings up the past first yeah but it is still up in the air how honest girls are when they talk about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:05 PM
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I'm just remarking it sucks for women. Don't you feel sorry for men who need to fail to learn how to flirt better? But they get penalized for trying and appearing creepy. If women could ask or see the history of all the times a guy was creepy in his efforts to get better at navigating interpersonal relationships it would suck for men. I'm not saying men shouldn't do it. I'm just trying to understand this situation better and I'm loudly remarking I don't think young men have better sense when it …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:19 AM
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I used to think young men in general (less than 27) had better taste in partners than young women. Like I see the kind of stupid choices girls make and then regret. I was on the red pill side on that. Now I think it's really not that large of a difference. Most young men and women have horrible taste and make mistakes when young. Some are better than others but most learn this way. It sucks more for women because some men penalize her for having learnt through experience. Its mind boggling how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:56 AM
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Imagine knowing yourself so little 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:34 AM
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It really is amazing just how stupid the median human is. Like wow.... I feel awe at how specific the skills needed to sustain society is and it is really more correlated with being sheep than with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:01 AM
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rich men should lower their standards to date them people seem to be shaming di caprio for breaking up with 26 year old women? pointing out that his standards are shallow, <insert other words>. trophy wife, sugar babies there are words in culture that seeks to control what rich men do and their relationships with women. Everyone is on board with controlling people's choices in dating... it happens on an implicit level with respect, admiration, jealosy, status, financial requirements, media, beau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:24 PM
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You have chosen death
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:06 AM
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Did JP crying help Olivia's movie or hurt it? is JP the incel hero?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:58 AM
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Join the rationalist community, go to top universities, go for bjj, check out crypto forums, you'll find some subculture near you where they enjoy this arm chair philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:04 AM
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You should definitely have water and electrolytes... Why are you starving? Want me to come rescue you from your kidnappers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:22 AM
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2 days was enough to achieve autophagy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:57 AM
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Anyone tried extended water fasts? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIuj-oMN-Fk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:20 AM
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oh that is also sad... sounds like how autism might have always been there silently and now we are just hearing about it. Hard to tell unless we have systematic studies on it. Eventually it should become clear with countries having health records and social norms about seeking medical help for multiple decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:45 PM
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Coddling is more harmful to me as a man. It makes men unattractive in a way that it does not make women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:44 PM
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Though it may sound similar enough, PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) is a bit different from PCOD. In PCOD the ovaries start releasing immature eggs that lead to hormonal imbalances and swollen ovaries, among other symptoms; while in PCOS, endocrine issues cause the ovaries to produce excess androgens, which makes eggs prone to becoming cysts. These cysts won’t, however, be released like in PCOD - rather they build up in the ovaries themselves. I mean both these conditions... too many people I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:22 PM
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The lack of data on PCOD is worrying, I am pretty sure there is an epidemic ongoing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:11 PM
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Arrggghhh.... Is that how a farmer sounds like 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:52 PM
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I can relate to the grudge... But doesn't carrying it hurt you too? Isn't it better to aspire for apathy? Do you like that petty part of you? Would you like to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:50 PM
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In some sense I love that I'm a guy. It's cool how hardships help me grow, make me more resolute, determined, driven, the edge is honed under many blows. It is pitiful to be so sheltered and coddled. Weakness isn't easily forgiven as a man... It's nice to have such incentives helping me stay properly aligned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:49 PM
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Eyes on the bag boys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:21 PM
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You gotta use your "friends" as g pigs... If they used the source for months without issue that source is green lit. Then be ready to pay top dollar for quality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:19 PM
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What potential? 😂 Everyone pursues their particular brand of hedonism. Fame, curiosity, sex, no one can take the moral upper ground
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:04 PM
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Now I see why people party drink and do drugs. Some things can't be understood they need to be experienced. Give in to the dark side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:42 PM
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The 5th one was really nice https://www.instagram.com/p/CjGOmyUJpNn/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:06 PM
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Getting banned on ppd is a ritual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:57 AM
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So you are a girl? I assume you like dick? So you'd date a transwomen who is a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:57 AM
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So that's the only thing stopping you. If we had technology to do a uterus transplant would you be ok? Can you consider surrogacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:56 AM
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Q4M would you date a transwomen? I was watching this video was wondering what percentage of straight men would be open to that nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:26 PM
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Can you ask your closest male friends or relatives honestly if they would care about N count... I understand and believe they never brought it up around you. But if they are single, ask them how they would feel if their partner revealed the n count. Would the number matter at all? Would it make them uncomfortable if the number was like 10? 100? 1000? I've heard women say money isn't a big deal, she wants to be comfortable. But if you press them to put a number on it, we hear numbers like 100,000…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:53 PM
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Travelling the world 😎 (various cities of India, Singapore, London...) Saving the planet. (AGI risk) Getting my heart broken... Losing friends, making more. Living life... PPD is a time drain and time is the most precious resource we have 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:50 PM
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Idk I've tried many types of fleshlights and onaholes. The kind of textures, lubes, vr porn. I don't think calling it pussy is accurate. It's about being respected, desired, lusted after, that human connection is important. If it was just pussy, prostitution would solve this problem. But status, wealth, attraction to women is a zero sum game so we have so many losers as the competition stops being pockets of isolated markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:47 PM
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Having Chad friends isn't worth it. I agree partly with your analysis. I mean reality is complicated and there are more moving parts that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:44 PM
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Think of all the shit tests you are facing. Chad wouldn't face that. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:42 PM
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Nice gem of a post. Thanks for sharing. I guess it might have worked out even if she made him wait as long as she explained early on why she did it? Idk... It sucks for both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:32 PM
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It just hurts my soul. I couldn't lead someone on like that. If I find someone attractive and I'm sure she doesn't want anything more than sex... I guess I might go for it but it's too many constraints and hasn't happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:28 PM
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I'd be interested in studies about this... How many men have no issue about the n count of a women if they are thinking about her seriously as a prospective life partner. I think I would be surprised if that was a minority of men.... But maybe I'm wrong and hookup culture has really normalised this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:26 PM
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To find purpose, they might channel their frustrations into things like video games, making money and hustling, follow people like Andrew tate, join the army, etc. We are already seeing the decline of democracy. I predict it will get worse in the next few decades In every region of the world, democracy is under attack by populist leaders and groups that reject pluralism and demand unchecked power to advance the particular interests of their supporters, usually at the expense of minorities and ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:13 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:01 PM
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You can get a max of 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:28 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:42 PM
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nothing you want to prepare for? maybe do a few things on your bucket list... take a few loans and give into hedonism?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:19 AM
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If a friend of yours had compelling proof that the entire planet would explode. How many days/months/years before the D day would you want to be told?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:16 AM
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Sounds interesting, worth checking out at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:11 PM
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Anyone gone to Koh Tao or Koh Samui islands? I'm planning to visit and relax over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:24 PM
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Surreal shit.... This is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:41 PM
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Lots of my friends couldn't tell I was high. It is weird how normal I'm acting when inside I'm tripping so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:13 PM
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I'm still high and it's 24 hrs. I hope it's placebo lol this is weird. My brain hopefully hasn't been rewired. I'm invited to give a talk in an hour... This feels like I'm gonna be high in my YouTube video appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:00 PM
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Question 1) it's been 24 hrs how long before I go back to 100% myself? 2) what's 2cb?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:42 PM
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Maybe in a few years... Let's see haha I need to do a lot more reading. The anxiety wasn't nice the muscles tensing up, feeling suffocated. Losing control of the self. But it was an experience for sure. Yolo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:59 AM
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I was stupid. No other words. I thought it was like smoking up and didn't even do my due diligence. I was completely bowled over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:58 AM
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I didn't ask to be born with 15 women's worth of horny hormone in my blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:40 AM
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Oh I didn't do that... Enough. I stared at the chocolate on my fingers, I could feel sensations. I wanted to maybe try masturbating in that state but it felt surreal enough didn't want to push it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:28 AM
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Can relate... Same thing happened. I was a puppet and someone was controlling me. I just watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:23 AM
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My friend gave me 125 mg, that dumb fuck. I was a first time user of edibles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:18 AM
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Panic attacks, paranoid feelings... Mind opening up... I had literal episodes. This is not like smoking weed. This hits different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:00 AM
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The overlap exists ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:58 AM
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Facts... I'm creepy for adoring large boobs but she can fetishize height huh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:57 AM
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18 hrs and I'm still tripping balls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:50 AM
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PSA edible weed hits very differently compared to smoking it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:49 AM
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Yess it's lonely at the top of wealth, power, intelligence or looks. But it's easier for men because they don't feel like it's "dating down" when they go for partners below them in such hierarchies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:04 PM
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https://youtu.be/d-CbF0IXkQo ok Chad memes can be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:01 PM
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Woah that paper man 🤡 what a clown world 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:59 PM
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I think a lot of the advice for vetting works for both genders. Pay attention to his friend circles, spend time with him when he socializes with other people, notice how he treats other people, people who have no value to him, are lower status to him. Check if he can say sorry, admit his fault, take corrective actions. If he has moral principles he holds even if it costs him bad outcomes for sticking by them. Have uncomfortable conversations and see if he can have it in a mature fashion. Don't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:57 PM
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“I got, like, 20 software engineers doing this procedure right now who are here in Vegas. There was a girl”—because girls can be tech bros too—“yesterday from PayPal. I’ve got patients from Google, Amazon, Facebook, Microsoft. I’ve had multiple patients from Microsoft" https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.gq.com/story/leg-lengthening/amp Tech Bros realise how their height is holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:27 PM
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Even finding a handful of people like this stuns me. Forgot about voting.. I don't know if people who are so stupid can give informed consent. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:30 PM
1

I see thanks. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/wu7RXlIEbog Lolol the stupidity is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:23 PM
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You'd want your friend to let you lie to your life partner? She should have talked in private to her friend about coming clean... I don't agree with the way she did it but...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:16 AM
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I mean... Good friends should hold you to high moral standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:15 AM
1

It has to be a troll right? I have so many face palm moments on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:59 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/xiyre9/wife_went_to_hen_party_last_week_and_is_being/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Is the guy really ok with the implications or just coping?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:41 AM
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2043
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:18 PM
1

Blue pill could bring it up and I think red pill acknowledges the physical phenomena known as love. They are just reductionist in their approach in deconstructing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:18 PM
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Yep you just cant... It's the holy grail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:28 AM
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For all the discussions around gender relationships, sex and dating. I think it's kinda sad and interesting how ppd doesn't discuss love. The feeling that takes you by storm, makes you irrational, passionate, selfless. I think what love is, the different types, how long it lasts. How fast it comes. They are relevant topics that we need of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 09:38 AM
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The Lil Nas X twerking on a devil comment he made was what made me pause... There are aspects of pop culture that we allow our kids to watch, sing to and see that we should maybe reexamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:34 PM
1

Can you name a different video which got this many views in this much time?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:30 PM
1

Ah I see well I'd defer someone with a deeper first hand experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:07 PM
1

Happens to all of us ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:01 PM
1

That's sad... Atleast in the bay area I don't think there is a general dislike. It's mostly the smartest Indians that is seen by the higher socioeconomic class in say usa. So that biases their view of India rather positively. Or they visit spiritual centres and meet those kinds of Indians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:01 PM
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Other nerds who also have low EQ will be able to tolerate the low EW of nerds unlike normal folks who will find it jarring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:58 AM
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Before I leave cause I need to the save the world from extinction let me just solve this whole dating problem for y'all All nerds that are struggling just need to date other nerds. It's as simple as that. As Bach puts it so eloquently here https://youtu.be/P-2P3MSZrBM Nerds think communication is for the purposes of submitting his ideas to peer review. They choose true coherent beliefs that explain observations over useful socially acceptable beliefs. Most people get that communication is for ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:31 AM
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I found it surprising he was deplatformed across many domains so quickly. It sounds like there is communication across these monopolistic companies in terms of black listing. Now these companies have the power of govts with the checks and balances that guarantees due process.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:12 AM
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If you want to defend yourself make sure you read the manual your enemy uses https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38607065-how-to-destroy-a-man-now-damn 💀 Don't get destroyed out there boys
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:16 AM
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Ah it's been a while.... I'm sure ppd missed me. But don't get your hopes up, I'll be gone soon enough... This is just me dropping by and enlightening your souls with knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:28 AM
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I ask a simple question to them...... Why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:27 AM
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I think there is value to consider the whole difference in diet and culture. Just thinking out loud here. 1) growing up in a country with a high population density means you calibrate to a different volume of personal space so initially this can creep out other country people cause they are used to people giving them more distance when interacting. 2) things like the Indian head nod or staring can make people feel negatively and it's possible to interpret it uncharitably. 3) the Indian diet with…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:24 AM
2

Equal rights mean equal lefts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:17 AM
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It's kinda wild how people don't see this... I think it's like makeup. Small amounts or well done makeup/photo editting does make you look way better but not everyone can do it that well so lots of low quality examples float around. But the people are drawn to these tools because they see examples of it done well and want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:16 AM
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Is it surprising to anyone here that a 5 hour Andrew Tate interview got millions of views in days? https://youtu.be/iv-C4CVGk28
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:12 AM
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Don't forget to stay toxic out there.... https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cg6rnHvgYmP/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:10 PM
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Most women are not gold diggers. Quality women you want to date seriously seem much less impressed with wealth than what is joked about on the internet and red pill scene. I think the frame of - can he earn money, competence, is way more attractive for most women than how much money he currently has or how much money he is willing to spend on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:34 PM
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Leftovers 🤡💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:58 AM
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Why are all my friends getting married lol I'm just 27, this is too early 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:31 AM
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How would you define love and on average is men's love more sacrificial? https://twitter.com/TellYourSonThis/status/1567662566742130689?t=H8yQB3fUEDpO6U-Il6AnOw&s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:21 AM
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Q4A you are talking to your date, they reveal that they are a sex worker. is this a deal breaker for you? yay or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:12 PM
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What's the latest consensus on ppd when it comes to false accusations? If you can prove with strict evidence that someone accused another person of a felony like sexual harrasment what punishment if any should be on the books? Should it also be showed the accusation was made with malice and intent to hurt? So if the person can show it was a honest mistake then no punishment. But even then considering the chilling effect such a law can have on actual victims who struggle to gather the courage to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:58 AM
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I mean the uni is big... It's not like their handle is going to be enough to track them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:49 PM
1

Ironic how this show has old ass people...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:28 PM
1

That actually makes sense... Trp is true for shallow people. The question is, how many humans are shallow...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:00 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:59 PM
1

Anyone here from Oxford University?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:24 PM
2

Works
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:04 PM
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Are you Indian? You should try.... It gives me insights at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:03 PM
1

Yes 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:55 PM
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Indian Matchmaking S2 dropped.... Anyone watching that? I think there are lots of red pill ideas there. Like the lack of sexual chemistry with the nice guy. In E7 the hot girl admits her ex boyfriends who she had that spark with didn't treat her that well. It is hilarious how people make these list of criteria and then when they find someone they like, they throw it out the window. Humans are just so good at hamstering. Like viral is totally real and honest but she wanted a guy who reads and in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:40 PM
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So I guess your answer is no? You don't see any huge untapped potential here for memes that might feel relatable to the wider public?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:22 PM
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Do you guys think there is a lot of potential for memes that are untapped when it comes to topics like dating, relationships and gender wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:03 PM
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Never huh, that’s surprising. There are many kinds of people out there. Are you an introvert irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah it was a new question…. I wanted to just confirm that you had boundaries. When it affects your “in group” then it’s serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:43 PM
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Makes sense… I think it’s easier to tell when you are hurting someone else and harder to tell when you are hurting yourself. Do you think it is hurting oneself if you see your friend pining over a girl who clearly rejected him? He wants to be loved and he is just wasting years orbiting this girl. Do you think it’s hurting oneself if your friend stays “friends” with people who take advantage of his wealth, and use him, laugh at him behind his back. Do you think it’s hurting oneself if the person …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:41 PM
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So I guess torturing animals, bullying that nerd in your class, stealing money, scamming old grandma's would all be stuff that would be deal breaker worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:25 AM
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Even if he was killing your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:21 AM
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Damn.... That sounds unhealthy. I mean there are situations where your approach is right but you sound like you'd apply it all the time Sometimes your friend is being dumb and you need to whack some sense into them. ,
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:21 AM
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Who said no one wants to follow me 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:20 AM
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Young women whose type is toxic guys? Do you think you are thinking of a specific type of women when you say "women" like in terms of age or socioeconomic status? Or just women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:02 AM
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Q4A when is someone being "controlling". Imagine a friend A of yours is doing something you don't like. 1) staying friends with a person B who you think is a garbage human being 2) eating meat when you are vegan 3) being part of a cult 4) refusing to stop dating toxic people Idk I'm just throwing stuff out there. The point is, you can make your boundaries clear and say I can't remain friends with you if you continue on this path. Your actions are hurting me, my mental health is being compromised…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:00 AM
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I'm pretty sure a lot of guys who complain about how women have absolute garbage taste in men fall into either of two categories. One they like women who are trusting, open, naive, gentle, etc and these women are also preyed on by garbage guys. The same qualities that help women protect themselves against such men turn out to be turn offs. Two is more interesting... I think a significant minority of men go for women with rock bottom standards, who are people pleasers, who have no boundaries part…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:54 AM
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It's funny... That's all. I like how he gives 0 fucks. The guy is like 25 is my hard deadline. It's like women who won't date below a certain height or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:57 AM
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It is like clockwork - https://twitter.com/zedonarrival/status/1564730774485704704?s=20&t=XYNQfvBHM8hPmV7C0lRffg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:49 AM
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Give me nightmares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:41 PM
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Chad's are overwhelmingly bad people. I am happy for every Chad I see that's also a good human for it means maybe the world is worth saving.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:29 PM
1

For today....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:28 PM
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All humans are trash, some are just slightly better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:23 PM
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You know what I have to try for women that age and check if the frequency is marginally better. Thanks for destroying all hope I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:04 AM
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I used to think the whole "19 or 20 year old years are so immature", it is such a turn-off when they open their mouths" was such a cope, but I guess I was wrong. Indeed, they are by and large insufferable. They are almost always not hot enough to compensate for their lack of life experience. I was wrong. I am now more skeptical of a healthy, serious bonding between an older guy and barely legal girl. I mean never say never but it just seems like unlikely that can relate and really enjoy each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:13 AM
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be valuable - physical appearance, intellectual capacity, wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:40 PM
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Physically I'm going to Singapore, then maybe Oxford... Who knows. Mentally I'm going to be toxic 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:18 PM
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Wealthy communities - 5 star hotels, clubs, are high trust environments with minimal verification. There is a lack of friction which mean people can get away with a lot of deception. It's fertile ground for conmen to thrive that's why there is a lot of gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:59 PM
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Stay toxic kings! 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:58 PM
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I know my type now, broken women who have mental issues, who are hurt, guarded, feminist, independent, scared of loving others. I guess I should embrace my identity as someone who likes to fix things. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hA_lMj07LO8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:03 PM
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Any one in Singapore?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:34 PM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:00 AM
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Is it just me or is Andrew Tate being favoured by the Algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:45 AM
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Just pick a country where the norms and laws suit your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:29 PM
1

I’ve heard it does wonders for your cum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:56 PM
1

Is that why you are so sweet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:26 PM
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I like this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:33 PM
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Are codependent relationships really that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:28 PM
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Hmm I see that's true too... But they won't be bitter if they found success in some domain. They would have gotten the validation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:04 AM
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His height times the appropriate constant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:29 AM
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Kinda amazing how much some of the unattractive girls I've met have achieved in their life. They really did not have their looks to rely on so they went out and really made something of themselves. Many hobbies, skills, passion. So if a girl like that has a glow up wow... Or just the fact that beauty is subjective means that there is value in trying to get to know girls like that. I think most guys who find trp want to be loved and desired by someone they find attractive. The cool thing is... Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:28 AM
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Yet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:59 AM
2

How many have you had of that intensity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:07 AM
1

You need the weekend of course
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:06 AM
1

Pepperidge farm members
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:17 AM
1

Wait are you dating someone now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:15 AM
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Maybe after enough heartbreaks people lose their hearts. They stop caring as deeply? It doesn't make sense how people throw themselves into serial dating when the odds look so bad and the pain is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:14 AM
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Princess Azula 🚩🚩🚩🚩 get some help bruh lol but seriously, tis fine, she was hot enough for her crazy imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:08 AM
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I maintain that both genders have shit taste when it comes to the kind of people they are attracted to. Evolution did us dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:54 AM
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Ok ok guys... Imagine you meet a 11/10, absolute perfect girl. Super attractive and you are blown. She is into you and is talking to you with a lot of interest but as you talk to her you realise she is completely bat shit insane Totally cray cray. What's your threshold? At what point do you say fuck nah and walk away?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:30 AM
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time to go sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:26 AM
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real bros are happy to help a close friend out. this is what always confused me... so even after I get a gf... I will still be more vulnurable to my bros? lol Feels like the idea of what a relationship looks like is different from what I imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:21 AM
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Do you think that someone who is shy and nervous, has social anxiety, seeks out validation and compliments. Isn't sure he is good enough for a relationship with anyone. Does this guy need therapy? I was curious because I think in friendships you have people who depend on each other for acceptance, validation, trust, respect etc. But TRP seems to claim that men should not expect their girlfriend to pat him on the back often, "mother" him and still be sexually attracted to him. So I was wondering …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:32 AM
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so you are feeling bad that you are not the kind of person who can just go sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:17 AM
1

why was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:17 AM
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When is the last time you felt sorry for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:53 AM
1

So now you live far away?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:09 AM
2

Vancouver?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:33 PM
2

Vancouver?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:33 PM
2

I was thinking more like 1 hr drive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:09 PM
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Pretty sure there are guys who treat women who give sex on demand like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:00 PM
2

Anyone here living near University of California, Berkeley?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:58 PM
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The whole point of ppd is to post these kinds of opinions. Keep your handle anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:43 AM
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Built that way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:41 AM
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How do you guys feel when you see a girl on a dating app and her bio is basically “Looking for a good friendship”. I mean it just feels sus to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:56 PM
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You sir won the internet today
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:12 PM
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Are men or women generally more fickle?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:32 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=%22scale+is+all+you+need%22&newwindow=1&client=ms-android-oneplus&prmd=sivn&sxsrf=ALiCzsZwKsWSkE92rARFYMKAAYbJXm9iAQ:1659167179849&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwi_y4Kzj6D5AhWzw4sBHQZPBT8Q_AUoAnoECAIQAg&biw=384&bih=769&dpr=2.81
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:46 AM
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Haha I wasn't thinking of this 🤣 but got it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:16 AM
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They say even a broken clock is right twice a day. These redditcareresources are spammed so often that they end up coming sometimes when I am actually feeling really low 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:50 AM
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My new research paper : Preselection is all you need. Please comment if you get the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:48 AM
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It's my love for the girl and her love for me that makes any girl special. No girl is innately special without both those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:24 AM
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https://youtu.be/0K1ZIbFU6O4
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:38 AM
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People need to lose. People need to suffer. People need to feel pain and agony and regret and remorse and then a little more pain. Yes, all people. Even you, who is right now laughing out loud at a series of such ridiculous statements. Suffering is a good thing when it’s in service of a larger goal. It means you really care about something. About living, surviving, about love. Allow yourself to feel. That’s what it means to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:31 AM
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At this point I'm not sure if it's actually more men who want hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:34 AM
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Lol can’t wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:09 AM
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Yayyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:47 AM
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I got access to dalle! Fuck yess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:36 AM
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I can be a beta tester if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:59 AM
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It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:58 AM
1

I still get notifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:58 AM
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One of the hardest questions to answer is... When do you give up? When do you choose to move on? When do you keep being persistent and chase after someone? Most answers I've heard have been on the side of err on the side of move on. "Don't bother people like that, have some dignity, self respect". "People don't respect those who chase them" But in practice I see both men and women chase the person they fall for hard. They put in a lot of effort and don't play it so safe. Sure mostly they fail bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:51 AM
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low body fat, agility, endurance, stamina, strength, bone structure, skin care, hair style, fashion, hand to eye coordination, dancing, flexibility. Power - aggression, bravery, endure pain Status - Ambition, **popularity**, social proof Competence - Intelligence, Self Discipline, Skills Confidence - Assertiveness, perseverance, self control, leadership Humor - make people laugh, keep everyone’s mood positive, smoothen conflict, charisma Soft skills - Common Sense, presence of mind, critical thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:37 AM
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Women love pragmatically, and men love romantically. aka Men are the romantic gender pretending to be realists, while women are the realistic gender pretending to be romantics. the pragmatic aspect of a woman's love comes from her focus on nesting and child-raising - two things that require an enormous amount of pragmatism (there is nothing "romantic" about trying to keep alive a helpless, hapless, emotionally-volatile child 24/7).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:29 AM
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How often do you need to get drunk to be called an alcoholic? Is once a week too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:49 PM
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I got a reply apologizing just now... But still I'm not weak, so it's ok. But imagine the sad state of affairs. How overworked they are, understaffed or just lazy. People can actually die here. No hospital would do this if the issue was physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:07 AM
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I send a mail to university therapist asking for an appointment. 2 days pass. I physically visit. Sadly it's lunch break, place is locked. 1 day pass. I send follow up mail. 2 days pass. I'm tempted to send an email, "I'm almost gonna kill myself and if I die it's on you bitches!" I mean you get the idea. I'm totally joking ofc but I think they deserve such an email.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:50 AM
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Feeling demotivated in life? just get rejected by the person you love. Nothing pushes you to work on image crafting on social media apps than wanting to make your ex feel like she is missing out on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:04 AM
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Never forget the og gang
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:08 AM
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Never heard of that meme? Link me to some pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:58 AM
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In India here we have it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:07 AM
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I hope that happens to me bro. Fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:45 AM
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Do you regret it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:37 AM
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I just realised I'm trying arranged marriage the same way hot girls try dating apps. Just for validation. I'm not actually going to get hitched this way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:05 AM
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Is it just me or do girls like the thriller genre more than men in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:16 AM
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Yep so true. Your son is lucky to have you as his mom ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:31 PM
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Well then I’ll make my living some other way. This is charity. I can imagine being able to raise lots of money for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:24 PM
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Thank you, even supervillains need to be believed in sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:22 PM
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I was thinking of helping boys like me. Autistic, nice guys, wimps, simps, etc. So my advice would be ideally be useful for those kinds of awkward, shy, nerdy kids. I plan to write an extensive blog post on this soon but it will mostly be common sense stuff like. Take up a contact sports or martial arts. Take care of your clothing style, groom your hair, and maintain healthy body fat percentage. Don’t stay friends for too long, don’t be afraid to tell someone how you feel. It’s ok to get rejecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:21 PM
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I will save them all. Life’s purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:11 PM
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I was voted most likely to become a supervillain so… maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:11 PM
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If I had to bet I’d agree with you but it’s all worth trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:10 PM
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idk, it just sounded cool to say lol... hmm maybe write a book? make a game that teaches the key insights I gained. Make a dating app that works well. Shift social norms in a direction that means incentives help healthy relationships form. Will figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:03 PM
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I shall dedicate my life to ensuring boys don't have to struggle in dating like I did. No one should have to suffer this much. The world would be a better place if each of us spent some time to ensure the next generation did not face the same troubles that hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:57 AM
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Haha I do that sometimes. When life punches me in the gut I come to PPD to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:37 AM
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It just sucks so much. I wish the blue pill view was true and platonic affection could supersede and create sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:58 AM
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Sexual attraction is shallow, based on ancestral measures of fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:47 AM
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Me before any risky endeavour
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:29 PM
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What are the pros and cons for a person if they start their very first relationship in a casual manner? With no commitments. An open relationship, no exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:33 AM
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I am more interested when men hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:31 AM
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Walk away, if you are in pain that's not a healthy relationship. Friendship, family or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:16 AM
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It's possible to make no mistakes and still lose the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:57 AM
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Love hurts like a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:14 PM
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Cool ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:00 PM
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Guy and girl meet at college. Become friends and hang out often. Guy develops crush but due to knowing the type of guys she dates, how she treats him, his insecurity, fear of rejection, losing what he has now... He never asks her out, he estimates his chances are low. Girl never thinks about it, consciously she is unaware. If anyone asked her she would laugh and say no way. But everyone can see the way he treats her. Makes her a priority, those googly eyes. On some deep subconscious level she kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:25 PM
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When you say knowing his feeling you mean consciously aware right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:56 AM
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If there is a guy orbiting a girl, how would you split the blame for what is happening? 80 20? 30 70? 100 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:08 AM
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Damnnn too real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:16 PM
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Every fuckboy I meet seems to have the story of the one who got away. A girl he genuinely loved. At some point they stopped looking for someone to give their heart to. I'm still figuring out what makes some people so comfortable with casual sex while others seem to have a lot of inhibitions associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:45 AM
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Any predictions regarding trp culture in 50 years? Stronger? More mainstream? More prescriptive? Less descriptive? Lost to history and only shadows remain in memes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:25 PM
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Wow how did you dig up my old video... I know I'm the spirit of any party when this song plays
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:15 PM
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Does trp contain the rules on how to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:13 PM
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maybe it's not so obvious every human out there? Typical mind fallacy. Isn't that all the valuable parts of trp. People are able to do fine with dating without having read about it. A lot of this is intuition with rigor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:08 PM
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Great point... Being nice, smart, helps if you are attractive and doesn't do much if you don't clear the looks threshold. Same if you have poor boundaries, weak frame, low confidence, insecurities etc stuff that makes you unattractive. Unless you fix those stuff you can't say it's your positive qualities holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:58 PM
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I thought it meant that guys should not try too hard to win the affections of a women. That it should happened naturally. That you can never get her to desire you through effort. If you suck you go and improve so that when you meet the next girl she has that spark immediately. You don't "build" vibes. You don't negotiate for attraction by giving favours, gifts, simping, by listening to her, by doing things. You just are. You are whatever you are and that's what she is either attracted to or not.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:52 PM
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Indian guy: you are doing me dirty bruh we have chads too https://media.istockphoto.com/photos/indian-man-headshot-picture-id1138008134
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:44 PM
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How many of you agree that "attraction cannot be negotiated"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:43 PM
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What exactly is that thing he wants that he can never get? It sounded like he just wanted to be loved in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:08 PM
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that guy is kinda red pilled only https://youtu.be/R_2XBrzbSgY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:38 PM
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I held off for a decade. Then within a month of giving in, things looked way better. It is a cheat code of sorts. It is fine if you pace yourself. Do your research and keep track of how often you indulge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:07 PM
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Pain and suffering are the best teachers I know. Unforgettable lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:06 PM
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This is actually a very important point. I think it's a common difference between my friends who struggle with dating and those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:00 PM
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The post might be sus, who knows but the idea is interesting. It looks to me as if a man can either love or be loved. And the truth is we need both. But if I really have to choose, I choose to love. Loving someone is a beautiful thing, and being loved without loving back is useless. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/vvqmpe/i_cant_swallow_the_red_pill/ Most of the advice is fine.... stop social media or cut down, on escapism or consumerism of tv shows, porn etc. Sure be more productive…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:39 PM
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If you saw him you might be impressed. But maybe I'm underestimating how drunk people get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:50 PM
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Nah cold approaches in bars and just lots and lots of rejections later. Well it's possible the dude was larping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:55 AM
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I met this fat, chain smoker who was ugly. The dude has such a high n count.... Listening to him I was in awe.... The dude took "dating is a numbers game" to a different level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:39 AM
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Word
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:50 PM
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Can't believe this.... Fav scene of that movie irl https://youtube.com/shorts/_0nV6GVvaTg?feature=share The dude is crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:43 PM
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may it last :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 PM
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yayy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 PM
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Yesss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 PM
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thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 PM
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thanks 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:57 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:57 PM
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Thankss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:55 PM
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It's awesome 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:55 PM
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Finally... A girl I am crushing on likes me back. Turned 27 today. It's been a long journey as a single man. Success 🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:43 PM
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Makes sense. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:14 PM
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What advice would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:10 PM
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what changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:16 AM
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awesome man how many girlfriends have you had? what is your n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:16 AM
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To improve your self confidence and self esteem all you need is to pick a goal that you respect. Start working towards it. As long as you make progress however small you will start to admire yourself. Don't hesitate to pick grand goals, just break it down into smaller actionable chunks. YOLO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:20 AM
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Nothing gives you courage like believing that all of humanity is going to go extinct in a few years. Embrace doomerism and do all the risky stuff you are scared to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:38 AM
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Q4M: How many girls have you directly asked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:17 AM
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based, should thank my mom for these genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:21 AM
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Ehh no, I usually feel more hungry and order food. I eat when I'm sad, happy, or anxious. This loss of appetite is really weird 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:55 AM
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Is it normal to lose appetite if you are in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:26 AM
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Directly asking out enough women is a cheat code more men should be aware of. Be confident and ask them out. Don't stare at them and be all ambivalent about it. Be passionate and it works once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:53 AM
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wow... I think we disagree on a lot of things? I am noticing a real pattern where you are kind enough to reply to my random ass comments but I just feel like you are always missing my point. Insecurity and inferiority which is imagined is not helpful. My comment was talking about actually very attractive people who think they are not attractive. They have an inaccurate idea and you can only improve if you identify real inadequacies. it has consequences in terms of it affecting their mental healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:46 PM
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ehhh sorry man, all of them are people I care about a lot and it hurts me to even write it down. When they opened up to me about their dark fears, body image issues, insecurities. I felt really bad. I can talk about myself I guess. I am pretty well off. In terms of inherited wealth and income. I guess you have seen the stuff I write on ppd. The time I spend here. I have issues too, I can't believe someone will really desire me or accept me. I need constant validation and it can be exhausting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:43 PM
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women are going to be the ones to lose their shit. JP talked about makeup in the workplace it was an interesting point. How much sexual signalling should we allow and in what contexts. it was william wyatt who explained that we must be considerate of women's desires. They want to flirt, get validation, orient themselves on the attractiveness scale. So a complete ban might be too stifling. There is a middle ground in these situations were we don't give people complete freedom nor do we go back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:15 PM
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Idk how to help them. If you tell them they are awesome they won't believe you. I'm just looking for a solution here...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:02 PM
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Are you currently dating someone like that? Any tips for how you help them? Does he believe it if you repeat it enough times?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:38 PM
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Wow this the first reverse captain save her I have seen. Heartwarming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:28 PM
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It is crazy how prevalent insecurity and inferiority is in relationships. Objectively attractive women in the top 10 percentile easy. High income men, kind, smart.. all of them have such deep insecurities. Something systemic and to do with modern society imo. No way our ancestors survived with such poor mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:11 PM
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social little. used to be me. I read a low growing up. Now I am really social. Tons of friends and activies outside. I managed to learn a lot by reading... but the kind of learning you get by travelling, meeting people, experiencing life is qualitatively different. nature so apologies if I can't keep a lid on it. tis fine, crocker rules apply. For now it does not seem like you are debating in bad faith. keep your empathy and compassion at arms length I knew this was coming that is why I editted …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:49 AM
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lol still thanks for your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:59 AM
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the blame from the abusive partner, blame is a matter of choice. Whatever works for you you can decide. The truth is there are two parties here. Both play a role. We can choose to track the causal chains back and decide when we stop. The reason I am focusing on the "victim" is because that is what we all are trying to avoid becoming, I don't want to be hurt, neither do I want anyone I care about to be hurt. For that we need the right incentives. It is never as easy. Right now we are both seperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:58 AM
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you can take it slow? spend months vetting. Look at his friends, family, meet them, spend time with him in different contexts. Observe him. Too few abusive partners are that good. Most cases seem to be of poor vetting rather than sophisticated con men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:05 AM
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ahh interesting thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:00 AM
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Ok thanks! Much appreciated man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:23 AM
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Yayy I'll try that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:23 AM
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Haha so it started with trying to understand what is "vibe" spark, chemistry. People seemed obfuscate the reasons why you like or dislike someone romantically. Part of it was to ignore the transactional aspect of all relationships. How unconditional are feelings anyway. I had already understood what politeness was, what humor was to a degree. But then the domain of romance was pretty hard to decipher. I seemed to see patterns of behaviour which hinted at larger truths. Like how we are all more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:22 AM
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Stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:39 AM
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Books, science, technology, romantic... I like activities. Throw ideas and I'll see what sticks. I know her pretty well by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:37 AM
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For some it's to find a partner, a sex buddy, to maintain relationships, to get over breakups, to find answers.... For me it's mostly answers. It's the result of searching for the truth. Trp is the ugliest truth I've seen. It's not useful for most people imo. It's one of the classic examples of that which is true isn't necessarily useful or healthy. Or that many myths or lies can be very useful for humans to function. It's an area of study, I think it's a subculture that has potential to mutate …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:29 AM
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I’m somewhat of an expert 🤓🥸 not really red pilled per se. it’s a tool, a framework which I’m considering, testing and understanding. Lol but yeah I’d bet most red pill guys will see transwomen as actually men. It doesn’t affect them, since they don’t want to date them. So it’s not relevant to the discussion prevalent in the manosphere. It’s like asking what trp men think of grannies, I guess most would be like let her do her. To be polite I’ll use her pronouns. I don’t actually think she is a “…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:02 AM
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Come on ppd give me date ideas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:43 AM
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The collapse is almost here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:42 AM
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I’d rather talk in public if you want to talk about trp in general. If you have specific personal information that will likely come up I can slide into your dm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:42 AM
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Just speaking up. Your goals should be SMART. Specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and timely. You can pick the goal as "I'll maintain 1 second more of eye contact in the next 10 interactions." Or I'll intiative a topic next time. Or I'll bring up on pov once. Etc you get the idea. Forget about underlying principles. Focus on imitation, emulate so that you are functionally the same. Masking is one type of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:13 PM
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Exposure therapy... Voluntary try to do small steps? The brain is more plastic than what anyone gives it credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:34 PM
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I guess it’s stronger than the typical crush? You can read about concrete examples at r/limerence The causes I gave were what I thought applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:41 AM
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Happens every time 😭 Started from 14. It is heady, heart beat rises, time slows down, butterflies in your stomach, she looks like the prettiest girl in the world. Small things remind you of her. You dream of her. Wake up and think of her. There is no way dating her is as fun as the fantasy my mind promises me would be if she loved me back. My mental simulations of how being in a relationship with her become decidedly skewed to optimism. Complete euphoria if I make any progress. I’ve always manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:40 AM
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There is a certain sense in which healthy relationships are “equal”. I don’t mean the absence of power dynamics. You can have one person like or love the other person more, it’s fine as long as the person with power is responsible. Shows gratitude and isn’t a tyrant. It’s fine to domain specialise and have division of responsibilities. But the equal that’s important is how you value yourself and her. If you value yourself too less compared to her, you put her on a pedestal, you have insecurities…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:34 AM
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This is a mental state where you have obsessive thoughts, fantasies and desire for your limerence object. This involuntary state of intense desire is exactly what most people call [[Love#Passionate love]] You idealize your crush, you fantasize about them and are unable to catch any red flags. Causes Maybe other parts of your life - career, parents, friends are in a bad state and you are trying to avoid those problems by hyper focusing on this crush. You might be plagued with [[Insecurity]] and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:31 AM
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Yeah... A person told me he doesn't believe in the idea itself. That the idea is not useful because such obsessive feelings are normal even in healthy relationships. So his argument was that it's not useful to demarcate limerence out as a special case of passionate love. I was just wondering anyone felt something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:45 AM
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How many of you think the idea of limerance is not useful or true?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:01 AM
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The lows of limerence is so much worse than the highs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:27 AM
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I would be 100% ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:26 AM
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Oh then it's the same as the guys... I think there should be overlap between the directions of growth that you see for yourself and the kind of girls those men would date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:21 AM
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I think it's a fair demand for you to have. There are many fair demands in this world that are unlikely to be satisfied. Many nurses and teachers demand a fair wage from society. The world isn't fair or reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:18 AM
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Are you a virgin by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:51 AM
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There are guys who keep getting rejected and are sad about that. There are girls who can't find any good guy and are sad about that. I feel sorry for the girls here because their problem as conceptualized by them is external. The world is lacking in the kind of men they want to date. They have no hope. The guys in this case have no business moping around. Every rejection is fuel to become better... And better and better. There is no motivation stronger than a rejection from someone you strongly …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:50 AM
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Principles are itself a product of what outcomes you desire. I guess if I had a deontological view of morality I'd be happily able to pick principles over any outcome. But from a teleological pov you need to think about every principle you hold and its effects on your long term happiness. What's the cost I pay in my relationships, mental health, by being more disagreeable. What's the cost society pays when each of us is incentivized to be more disagreeable. Just how much more attractive does it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:39 PM
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Yeah that might be true... But we don't want to promote such negative behaviour easily. What kind of girls like this? Most girls? Girls you'd want to date seriously? Idk man... I don't know if I want to know 😂😂 It's not like I would like to pit my principles against my desire to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:14 PM
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Rule 1: be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:08 PM
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It's not your positive nice guy traits making dating hard for you. It's your other unattractive traits... The whole trp thing is a by product of people unable to swallow the fact that all these beta traits - money, kindness, aren't enough to compensate for the unattractive traits (an absence of the alpha traits as defined in the sidebar - confidence, EQ, physique etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:00 PM
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How I wish I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:07 PM
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How about all the time 😂 When your life has too little real problems, we notice the tiny molehills and manufacture mountains out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:42 PM
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The red pill is the closest I've come to hating the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:58 PM
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Passionate Love is a scary emotion. Why do cultures celebrate it like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:36 AM
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It's one explanation for why "bad boys" are attractive. Beauty and the beast trope. He is an asshole to everyone. I tamed him. His love for me tempered his behaviour. I fixed his anti social behaviour. It's a more honest signal of his love. If a usually nice person is nice to you, it doesn't mean anything special. It's not hard for him to be nice. It's expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:10 AM
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Dosa and chutney
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:06 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:04 PM
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Seems like an eq thing. People might be struggling with the exact boundary on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:38 PM
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That's actually a good point. Love bombing clearly works. But there are clear differences between what I'd say simping is and what love bombing is. People who lovebomb express interest openly, confidently, and with wild gestures. Simping is more subtle, it's employed by people who want the plausible deniability. It's most favors, reprioritizing, being humble, sacrificial. People who lovebomb pressure for reciprocal affection quickly. They want to move fast. It's a whirlwind. People who simp play…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:37 PM
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Did it ever stop being counter intuitive? I mean it's not like "girls care about physical appearance" ever felt counter intuitive. Being emotionally stable, rich, high status. Most trp ideas just make sense... But nice and humble? I mean it just makes 0 sense. Everyone likes that. It's a great quality. Helps in LTRs I don't see how self deprecating humor, flexibility, selflessness can't be anything but sexy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:31 PM
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I used to think they were just "playing games" and it's not a healthy perspective to life etc. But as I grow older I think there is some value in this idea. As some comments explain. It's about respecting yourself. Noticing how much the other person cares about you and reciprocating in proportional. Not falling into codependent relationships. Vetting people before giving them your heart. I am not saying you should change. Not sure I could even if I wanted to and I've tried. Like you said it's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:28 PM
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One of the most counter intuitive ideas is how simping makes you unattractive. Most nice guys think that it's obvious common sense that you are nice to the person you like. If you are normally nice to everyone then you are extra extra nice to someone you have a crush on and want to date. You treat her so well that she likes you more. You make her feel positive emotions. She associates those emotions with you, wants to spend more time with you. Starts to like you and eventually love you/crush on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:15 PM
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Yeah I think it was me trying to lie to myself there. Spinning low EQ as a positive. Low EQ appropriately defined is never a good thing. I don't mean exclusively look for someone outside your race who is also willing to date outside their race. Then the pool would actually shrink. I mean being open to dating them. I agree most people don't see it this way and you might be right that it's unhealthy. I think you've hit an important reason for why it's not healthy. It's quite easy to fall into the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 06:06 PM
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It’s a very interesting question. So there are different positive and negative concerns when it comes to such a marriage outside your community. Race being one such group. Tradeoffs mean the relative value you place on each pros and cons and how they end up making an equilibrium. Let me explain why I think I’m particularly sensitive to the pros and built to handle the challenges of cons. Positive Heterosis means more fit offspring. Not a lot of people think so much about genetic fitness explicit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:19 AM
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Well this is an observed phenomenon across all forms of life. When two populations of any sexual organism are separated and kept isolated from each other, the frequencies of deleterious mutations in the two populations will differ over time, by genetic drift. It is highly unlikely, however, that the same deleterious mutations will be common in both populations after a long period of separation. Since loss-of-function mutations tend to be recessive (given that dominant mutations of this type gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:46 PM
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Humans are animals too. Well I’m in India and we have this caste system where there is a very low (like 5%) prevalence of marriage outside of caste. And this endogamy has persisted for 2000+ years. You can read more here it’s fascinating. https://scroll.in/article/897802/how-same-caste-marriages-persisted-for-thousands-of-years-in-india-and-are-still-going-strong We also have many people practising Consanguine marriages. That’s like 20 to 30 percent. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0021…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:10 AM
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I explained? It's called hybrid vigor or Heterosis is the opposite of inbreeding depression (more recessive traits manifesting themselves) where we observe reduced biological fitness as a result of inbreeding. I guess the word love might signal I am way more enthusiastic about it than I actually am. I think there are real tradeoffs involved and I'm particularly suited to marry out of my race/country. I'd need a longer comment to elaborate all the details but think of a women who doesn't particul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:41 AM
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I’d love it…. Hybrid vigour is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:49 PM
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I think ppd men are somehow more representative of irl men than ppd women. But not by much.... just an intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:28 PM
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it is just beginning. 寧為太平犬，不做亂世人
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:27 PM
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for sure... I can never wrap my head around how pretty I find female bodies overall, but why my monkey brain does not automatically do that with vaginas. This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:00 PM
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Code geass, kokoro connect, detective academy Q, mirai nikki
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:58 PM
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Is it gay to think dicks are prettier than vaginas? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:55 PM
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Oh for sure... But I just revised the proportion to which the environment matters seperate from diet and excercise to obesity. That article made me think maybe I was expecting those two to pull too much weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:56 PM
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Hmm yeah the cultural norms might be a key reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:33 PM
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I think I've read that autism presents differently in females. They just do masking more naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:09 PM
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Hmm it will take time for that number to hit a critical mass I think? Also many seem to feel this way after many years of trying it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:01 AM
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why are hikikomori mostly male? One hypothesis is that the pressure for social realization, that is to say the root cause of hikikomori, is culturally greater for men. In other words, this means that on average there are greater expectations for male children on behalf of their family, school, their peers, or society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:08 AM
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when I say pure ideal I mean in the sense of it being a higher order abstraction. It is in a descriptive sense. You can imagine cultures where they have ideals of what it means to be a women which would be misogyny according to most western people. See you are looking at the ideal and judging it to not be "pure" in the normative sense. That is it ugly, wrong or immoral. But I am not making a moral claim here. My claim is that it is an ideal. People can disagree regarding the moral nature of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:38 AM
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Thankfully, I started observing that on my own, and tried things little by little. so it sounds like you did not do anything active to get over it. You just paid attention and observed how people behaved. You tried acting less nice and again observed results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:14 AM
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in this comic, there would be no issue if the guy was happy for his female friend. I mean unless she picks someone who is bad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:12 AM
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xkcd has a comic for every single situation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:01 AM
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I thought all these people who said being obese was a disease, that dieting/excercise did not help them were just coping. I mean I was convinced it was a matter of self control, healthy lifestyle. Sure our environment made it harder to excercise restraint. But now reading about the controlled overfeeding studies 1970s makes me think there is a lot of truth to the idea that some sort of environmental contagion is causing this epidemic. It used to be hard to be this fat and stay this fat. The set …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:35 AM
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Be me Having trouble getting matches A friend suggests I left swipe on hot girls out of my league. He explains that the algorithm will prioritise me in other people's phones if I right swipe on girls who right swipe me and my right swipe on these baddies are just making my profile invisible to most people. That makes sense. So I left swipe on girls I think are way too hot to like me. First profile, absolute stunner. We both agree I should left swipe. Bumble: You have missed a potential match. Bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:44 AM
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Unironically Purple is cringe. I'd rather say leaning red. Three pills is too many. If we start naming all nuanced takes on pills then it loses the point of having an ideal. An ideal is pure, it's an unrealistic platonic idea. It's illustrative. Does anyone say they don't believe in human equality because there are certain contexts where equality does not make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:03 AM
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I was reading skin in the game and I could relate. It's amazing just how wrong we can get with pure reasoning and no feedback from reality. We all need skin in the game, we need to risk something. Face the consequences of our beliefs. Try to honestly falsify your beliefs, out in the real world. Your beliefs are only as accurate as the cost you would have to pay for being wrong. If you are already paying the cost then it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:01 AM
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✋
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:56 AM
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Same 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:51 AM
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Verified Chad here so I believe you But it's like they say, we all cry but it's better if you can cry in your sick Lambo than on the streets. So I think it should help blunt the blow and it's not the same. Being Chad is more Pareto optimal...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:02 AM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:58 AM
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Autism . . . . . . . . . . . . jk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:56 AM
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Woah I was reading comments on that and it finally made sense. I used to think I had a problem with girls who had a hoe phase. That maybe I had retroactive jealousy etc. But no.... It's not about the number of guys she slept with but the kind of guys. I know this girl who is horny as fuck but is struggling to sleep around because she has super high standards. It's hard to rack up numbers. I guess girls also judge the past girl friends of a guy and look down on him if they were really trashy. Yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:44 AM
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It just sucks if you are a horny nice guy and all these fuck girls think you are too innocent and nice to ruin with her dirty self. I'd rather believe that's an excuse and in reality she just didn't find the guy attractive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:34 AM
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So you don't think about them. You focus on the higher level justifications because it's not useful to pay attention to a lower level in the ladder of abstraction. Do you think about the fact that the music you are listening to will end in 2 min when you are listening? It's a fact. It's true. But focusing on that fact will reduce your ability to immerse yourself in the song and enjoy it. A lot of times, the beliefs we choose to hold, the framework we adopt is not about picking the more globally …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:18 AM
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I’m slowly realising that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:15 PM
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Kinda amazing how badly we managed to fuck this up. Nearly 50 50 split of men and women, both are biologically wired to want each other. Yet increasingly people are refusing to find a nice compromise that works for both of them. I mean if I’m hungry and you have bread that will rot. I can’t imagine negotiations will easily break down. Fascinating how hard this is getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:12 PM
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Then there is me, where this girl literally forced me to split the bill. Some feminists are really walking the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:06 PM
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Brutal man, you'd think I'd get used to hearing such stories. I read so many but it still pains me to hear what you went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:35 PM
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How much time did it take to get over the fact that being nice isn't attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:30 PM
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Lol I didn't even bother checking your profile because people LARP all the time. Then I checked you out. I remember you from wayyy back. Pretty cool to see you actually stuck around in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:28 PM
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Lots of women are against the hookup culture too. Lots of women bemoan the state of dating now. I am not sure most women feel like there is a lack of problem. Maybe their diagnosis of it isn't accurate? That is what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:14 PM
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Thanks a lot, I really appreciate you telling me this. ❤️❤️ It helps a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:11 PM
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things are rapidly becoming worse and after a point, it just get harder and harder to heal such wide rifts in society. These things have inertia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:03 AM
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roughly 40 percent of single men in their 20s who were surveyed have gone on a date with zero people, or, in other words, have never been on a single date in their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:36 AM
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This is one explanation for the existence of settled but still disputed issues; people who learn the answer leave the conversation. Often it's not worth the effort to dispute and persuade people. Is the sky green? Or blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:03 AM
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Why accept an inherently biased and unflattering characterization? Because you value the truth? because the first step to fixing yourself is to be strong enough to accept the brutal truth. You can't begin to plan to lose weight unless you admit that you are fat and that it is unhealthy. Of course this is because I disagree that the characterization is "inherently" biased. The side bar explains the concept of alpha and beta. These traits exist along a spectrum but it can a useful way of recognisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:23 AM
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A friend asked me if I ever fondled a women's breasts by referring to the action as doing the "honka honka". hahahaha I laughed so hard. This was in a university canteen and people definitely overheard. I think I can get behind funny ways to refer to sexual acts. Calling the penis, willy or weenie is kinda funny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:55 AM
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How do you see yours/others' actions through this lens without just losing all faith in human capacity for hogher-level thinking its called compartmentalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:45 AM
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I think mental health issues usually makes a person interesting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:42 AM
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feelstooreal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vl1cvo/daily_community_chat_megathread/idw5plo/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 random person tagged me in ama telling me they got banned no idea if it’s the same person https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/comments/vlmqb5/im_18_and_homeless_ask_me_anything/idwxlsx/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:40 PM
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Anime titties are the best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:12 PM
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Is that the person who said I’m awesome? Weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:10 PM
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Oh so younger women get a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:38 PM
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I wish :( But I still have hope :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:07 AM
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my flair is just a tongue in cheek reference to meeseeks. I think ppd did not make me bleak, life does that on its own. I have not been that active here, not even lurking. Honestly, there are better ways to waste my time and I don't even have any time left to waste. things are moving fast and I am actually engaging myself irl in interesting pursuits. Thank god covid is over. Irl clubs, meetups, swimming, basketball, ji jutsu, research, you know too many stuff you can do. While ppd mostly does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:06 AM
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haha its awesome to know people enjoy reading my comments. Life has been busy and I have not been that active on ppd. This topic is pretty much over imo, it is beating a dead horse at this point. I hope to get irl experience before I start to have any new insights. I think too many irl friends know my handle is this... so I can't use this profile to freely rant about my life without fear of cascading effects. But crazy stuff keeps happening to me. Really fun stuff, sad stuff.... but I rarely get…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:02 AM
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I liked it a lot... Didn't finish reading it but it's flirting section helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:57 AM
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Who is...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:55 AM
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What's up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:53 AM
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Interesting answer. Legally it's paid on https://www.dailywire.com/videos/what-is-a-woman I should be able to pirate it soon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:38 PM
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I don't think Matt walsh was unreasonable asking what is a women. When asked, my friend responded... "Anyone I'd want to smash" in a joking manner. But it reminded me of what I read on PPD... Do men not see unattractive women as women? What is a women to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:09 PM
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I reminded myself, every day, that no, there’s no conspiracy to make the world a hell for shy male nerds. There are only individual women and men trying to play the cards they’re dealt, and the confluence of their interests sometimes leads to crappy outcomes. No woman “owes” male nerds anything; no woman deserves blame if she prefers the Neanderthals; everyone’s free choice demands respect. https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=2091#comment-326664
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:21 AM
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will it not be skewed rating black women? idk I think the skew will always be there. Try posting any pretty girl's photo and I bet you can't find near consensus on scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:34 AM
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do you know what that girl is doing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:36 AM
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Rate Emmy Rossum from shameless on 10
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:29 AM
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Do you think people tend to take what they get easily for granted? Like if someone is naturally nice, caring, affectionate, etc vs someone who isn't but you spent time and effort building that relationship where you finally got them to treat you nicely sometimes. I think I've noticed a trend where the first kind of person, both men and women end up not being valued appropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:28 AM
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Awww thanks concerned redditor. It's nice to know people care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:28 AM
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Yes there are. India has tons of them. Bharathmatrimony Shaadi.com Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:27 AM
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How many of you have vivid sexual acts happening when you dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah the power dynamic really matters here. Older experienced women, maybe boss? With blackmail? A feeling of helplessness can make it really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:50 PM
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You lift? Likely a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:40 PM
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I'm not saying most of these guys are traumatized the same way women are. But it's still not cool... How do you feel about it happening to you? Found memory? Disgusted? Violated? Proud?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:24 PM
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If you are a Chad you have likely been sexually assaulted. I mean this in the broadest sense. All my Chad friends have stories of women not respecting their boundaries, feeling them up, kissing even after they said no, etc etc. Women don't ask consent and it seems like they misread body language too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:20 PM
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When you start to love someone and see them as special it’s easy to forget that you are special too…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:00 AM
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Sekina's comment is a top level comment on the post. I'm the OP of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:16 AM
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Hmm ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:10 PM
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Ohh interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:56 PM
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I was not asking if some types of speech is a crime. I was asking about how you would like you personally use the word violence and also like to see society use the word. Like rape, that word has weight. I think you might not like it if it was casually thrown around in the place of sexual assault? People who have medically diagnosed depression bemoan the casual use of depression. So over the years the boundaries around words start shifting. There is concept creep, conflation, etc. Violence could…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:05 PM
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I don't think that is primarily affecting my dating life. It's not something people get to know about me quickly enough. Other stuff make them like dislike me. I'm pretty open about it. Everyone knows and I kinda think it's a strength in most domains of life that I go down and understand stuff from the ground up. I think it's gotten me similarly minded friends I value. In dating I think it might have been something girls have chosen to accept as a tolerable flaw that they can live with consideri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:51 PM
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Hmm I was interested in how you personally would consider it. Would hate speech that is clearly mean to incite violence be practically violence in your eyes? Would you be comfortable using that word for such speech or would you feel like that word needs to be reserved for like "actual" violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:51 PM
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That would be considered assault? Would it be legally violence? Verbal assault? Defamation? Would you feel comfortable classifying that sort of speech as "violence" treat it as gravely as you would treat physical assault or do you think we need to reserve the word violence for specific violations of spatial boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:49 PM
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Typo I meant speech
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:42 PM
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Lolool edited and fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:41 PM
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I guess I have a hard time letting things go? I need to know why, analyze it, ask questions... Beat a dead horse so to speak. Not everyone enjoys that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:37 PM
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Can some types of speech be considered violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:36 PM
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Only the good parts of equality for me please
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:53 AM
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Depends on what you want from life. Worrying about IQ to me is the same black pill as worrying about your bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:02 PM
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Nice to see you again! I had not seen you post for a few months I think? I would push back on women being suited to modern pressures. I have observed that most women seem to be increasingly unhappy, stressed out and ill suited to the pressures of corporate life. There is an increase of many reproductive issues, hormonal levels, pcod, anxiety. Men aren't doing that much better but women seem to have unique challenges with menstrual issues, mood management, etc. The kind of skills our modern econo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:27 PM
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I kinda am doing B but for a lot of body types I think diet is super important. Without that it just takes way too long. People overestimate the usefulness of exercise for weight loss. Sure health and looks improve… but don’t look down on diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:08 AM
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Lol I just posted about parthenogenesis in daily now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:15 AM
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Chinese law is based, he take ask her to repay all the money he spent and punative damages? Woah…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:14 AM
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I usually love house but in this episode I think it was immoral of him to lie https://youtu.be/JFvATIiUHAQ What do you all think?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:11 AM
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great website, wonderful resource. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:03 PM
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He still has to pay alimony? Half his shit is hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:36 PM
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SOUTHPARK SPOILERS FOR skankhunt episode. Lashing out at everyone because you can't get laid "well atleast I have a reason to be angry... what about you? just trying to be funny?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:12 AM
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I just update my understanding of what type is then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:12 PM
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Will you let him know what ratings he got?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:12 PM
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Are you currently in a relationship with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:12 PM
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Oh that kinda makes intuitive sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah I think crows feet and the right type of wrinkles come because of constantly smiling. It’s sad how we worship youth so much that everyone is scared of growing old to this degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:30 PM
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Are you just being harsh on yourself? Or unique face shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:26 PM
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Im not into older women sexually. Not even milfs. But…. Somehow I don’t understand why most people seem to think crows feet is unattractive. It adds character to your smile. I think natural grey hair and these wrinkles aren’t stuff to be feared. Again not saying it adds sexual value but I don’t think it reduces value either. Also a person has more than sexual value to offer. I mean being able to carry it off with confidence is a great look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:11 PM
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Most humans would be like “damn that person is attractive” Big brained ppd folk decide to ask why and how someone is attractive and thus we see such levels of analysis https://www.instagram.com/tv/Cegv46PK_l0/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:08 PM
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Is social awkwardness one of the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:48 PM
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It does not for the purposes of my question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:23 PM
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Did you actively work towards that happening or was it just something that just passively happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:08 PM
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FlamingCoochies He was too precious for this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:23 PM
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It still messes with me a little. ask their body count before you give your heart and fall in love? Learn from this... To get over something, you need to deconstruct it. Why do you feel RJ? get to the root of it, if you do that maybe you can dissolve it since you realize it is based on stuff that is contrary to your values. RJ is when you obsess over your partner's past relationships, sexual history. A feeling of intense anxiety, jealousy through intrusive thoughts. Causes 1) You might be seeing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:19 PM
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the pantheistic God of Baruch Spinoza.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:56 AM
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Girl : I think I'm ready to do something stupid Ted Mosby: I'm stupid, do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:35 AM
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It’s a huuugeee cofactor, old is also likely to be one with the least overlap with others. I think trend is clear with the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:33 AM
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If you read the cited paper you’d see it was an open ended question. How did they meet. A retrospective analysis. Multiple ways can work together… there can be overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:16 AM
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You gotta pay really close attention though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:36 AM
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Lol I'm sober now... But I honestly can't compare. I respect my dad more. I think I like them equally. Maybe mom in the past and dad now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:15 AM
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It's fine man. You live and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:00 PM
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Hope you find a way... I don't even take caffeine that's how much I try to avoid addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:53 PM
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My uncle was addicted to smoking. So I never touched nicotine. Others in my family never got into alcohol we have low tolerance and never really acquired the taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:42 PM
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You just like me bro. I overthink do much, I'm so much stuck in my head. With alcohol in my system I'm all in the moment. My mind is free, no filter. I say stuff with confidence. Panache... Hmmm I can see what you mean. Just second time for me. But I can imagine how I'd want to use this persona next time I'm flirting. I'd be so confident. I'll watch out. I would not want to prefer this over my sober self. Good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:32 PM
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Yesh good for you... Hope that worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:30 PM
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Nice try... Being drunk doesn't make you lose control. I'm never that drunk. I only find it easier to say stuff to my friends I've always wanted to say. I can say stuff I wanted to say without embarrassment or cringe. I have only blocked one person on this sub and saying I hate them is an exaggeration. They betrayed my trust. I chatted with them in private and I thought they would keep that private. It hurt me to see them use that in attacking me in the public forum.. Unless she is using sn alt …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:29 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:21 PM
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Oh ok then that's my bad. I was partly trolling. If people are at risk of getting addicted then it's clearly bad. Everything in moderation of course. I'm just amazed by how I feel drunk. It's so nice to be loose. It sucks to be so inhibited all the time and have so many worried and concerns. I can empathize with people who have trouble flirting and I think maybe the revulsion towards alcohol might be too much for some people. Both extremes are bad and it can really help with socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:21 PM
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Thanks ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:18 PM
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Guys.... Guysssss Just be hot. Listen it's simple forget all the other bullshit Focus on lifting, swimming, martial arts whatever. Get fit. Healthy weight. Clavicle!! Then get professionals to handle your hair and beard. Ok? Done? Body fat, grooming, done. Ok then we can discuss other stuff. Just do this guys... Just focus on health. Health.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:15 PM
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Thank you daedra... You are just divine. I don't appreciate you enough. You are an awesome human being. Seriously. I will drink more water just for you. I hope there is justice in this world and you get atleast a fraction of all the help you put out. ❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:09 PM
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I mean no? There is a difference between experiencing something and knowing it abstractly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:07 PM
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Ohhs ok. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:46 PM
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Yessssss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:18 PM
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Noted but I'm in college. This shit is why I took a PhD programme I get days off on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:17 PM
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Margarita! Chocolate flavored vodka.. Old monk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:16 PM
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Win win
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:13 PM
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Idk... Just saying shit when I'm drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:13 PM
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Lol first 2 times is fun. But I have bad company. They be tempting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:13 PM
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I'm drunk again. I think I'm getting addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:12 PM
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You either get a girl when blue pilled or stay single long enough to take the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:06 PM
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7 and I'm being generous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:03 PM
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PSA: attention all incels. Get drunk. Make friends, get drunk. Get so drunk you understand how it feels like to have no inhibitions. Trust me... You will progress on your path.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:02 PM
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Yeah sounds right. That's the ethic I was trying to capture. In any relationship you should strive to act in such a way that you both enjoy the process but ALSO you leave each other in a better place or atleast not a worse place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:13 AM
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Most guys who say that are also virgins or really inexperienced for their age. So it’s just them being socially sexually restricted or just sex negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:48 AM
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Cute everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:40 AM
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I’ve noticed even tall guys don’t like girls who are too explicit about their height preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:36 AM
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When dating someone far less experienced than you, less attractive, less wealthy, less intelligent, younger, etc there is a power dynamic at play. I think it’s morally fine as long both are adults and are aware of the various leverages at play. If both parties take effort to have empathy for the other party and ensure no one is taken advantage of I don’t think any strict rule need apply. You can be wealthy and just that one leverage might be enough for 2 people to overlook other areas. Each pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:34 AM
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Preselection is like an aphrodisiac
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:12 AM
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I don’t think it’s always incels shooting up schools. It could be bullying, parental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:07 PM
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I actually agree https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/1334759-jordan-peterson
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:44 PM
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Evolution loves crabs https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carcinisation#%3A%7E%3Atext%3DCarcinisation_%28or_carcinization%29_is_an%2CNature_to_evolve_a_crab%22.?wprov=sfla1 Take the crab pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:40 PM
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Gun control is smart... We need to be careful who we let drive cars and even more careful who we let buy guns. I'd be for extensive background checks and month long training. BUT it's not solving the underlying problem. This is like that University removing ceiling fans when they found tons of students were committing suicide. You gotta ask why are kids shooting up schools and target that too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 03:39 PM
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I think sex is something of an intrinsically valued thing. Like even if you aren't hungry food tastes good. It's a mesa objective if you think about it in terms of optimisers https://youtu.be/bJLcIBixGj8 So sex can be good or bad... You can enjoy it more if the person is attractive, admires you, desires you. Maybe for certain people they enjoy it more if they don't desire you? But at the end that's just the way this desire manifests... Like taste in food. It's not an instrumental goal. It's some…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:03 AM
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Sex isn't the same as masturbation. But I'm not trying to say you hate men just saying that I can imagine people who can masturbate perfectly well but still wanting to have sex and thus looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:44 AM
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he had been training his entire life for this day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:43 AM
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How many of you would be ok with the govt collecting dna and maintaining a registry of all citizens. It is used only for 2 things, strict security and privacy. 1) to catch criminals who do serious crimes, no dna evidence seen at the crime location will be wasted. 2) for establishing paternity at birth. If P.F is found, both the husband and the actual father is informed. If the actual father has a wife, she is informed too. Would you want to use this registry for anything else? like let insurance…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:28 PM
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Not common enough it seems lololol... The numbers are fucking crazy Look even if the number was 2% or 1%, imagine how many times she must have cheated for the contraceptives to fail, for the egg to pass the quality checks and actually be carried to term. So the cheating rate can be estimated from this and that is a whole other discussion. By studying other animals we can see just how common extra pair coupling is...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:15 AM
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that he should be happy to raise the baby as his own. even if you take that extreme position, I think red pillers can try to summon some empathy for the child who should not carry the sins of the mother. I would try not to hate the kid and if I find out quite late I don't think I would mind staying a father to him/her. I just don't think as a culture we should make it easier for women to do this to guys. Anyone in the medical field should be taught how to sensitively inform the father in such si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:09 AM
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breaks my heart. A betrayal from someone that close to you must hurt so so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:06 AM
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So depressing man. Well atleast if more men are aware they can always get a DNA test done themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:54 AM
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Fascinating thread about paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:50 AM
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Ohh thanks for the advice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:23 AM
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Fav would be black Russian. Least would be gin fizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:50 AM
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Not? You mean I shouldn't drink too much right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:58 PM
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Scot pilgrim against the world Her Can I eat your pancreas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:52 PM
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So much fun. Like this is crazy... I'm laughing for no reason. This. Shit is awesome. I feel so relaxed. So uninhibited. Totally understand why people tolerate the crap taste and expensive nature. I had it with friends so it was nice. Had nice fun conversations. Yeah I'll drink water and crash. Maybe listen to some music. Make the most of the high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/v4odxh/daily_community_chat_megathread/ib6k1z8?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:50 PM
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Lol it's high right now 🤣🤣 worth pushing past the bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:44 PM
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5 litres no worries. Can't believe I waited till I was 26 this shit is trippy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:38 PM
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Drunk for the first time in my life ama
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 08:33 PM
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Sure you can tell it is a retcon cause you were there. But how can a mutual friend of yours decide? It's his word against yours right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:25 PM
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What no pussy does to a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:23 PM
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It is common for both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:21 PM
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He was a psycho. lol facts...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:54 AM
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Those are serious accusations yes.. this is what is scary. It sounds like she is lying on purpose. That is an extreme case. It is more tricky when it feels like she actually believes what she claims and it comes down to interpretation of what the text messages meant, a lot of things taken out of context are hard to judge accurately. So claims of emotional abuse, manipulation are way harder to prove and refute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 09:12 AM
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Yeah I know a few guys who do this too... But in my experience it's usually women. Do you see any gendered pattern? Or is just some rare people, not enough to say...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:55 AM
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she’s still continuing ten years later. did she turn those mutual friends against you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:39 AM
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It's very more wild when you are friends with both of them and it's so obvious they are making shit up. Like I was there with them, so unless the dude was pulling some Jekyll and Hyde routine I'd have known. I think maybe it's the girls way of dealing with it? Sorta like ranting and not really meaning it. Do you think they really believe it themselves? Or is it like a way to do reputation destruction? Like hurt her ex the way he hurt her. When people are in pain they lash out... So it's possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:29 AM
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scary stuff man... I am seeing a pattern too irl. What about guys? do you know any guys making up shit post breakup?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:22 AM
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Is it common for exes to demonize their former partners as an attempt to get over them? Like extreme love turns to obsessive hatred, spreading rumors, trying to turn their former partner's friends against them. Is there any gender assymmetry here with men or women more likely to resort to such methods post breakup? bonus points for stories of people who retcon the past... or how to tell if it was a retcon vs actual realization after breakup that they were manipulated or abused during the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:12 AM
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There was this cool contest I missed, but if anyone wants to save the world, they should seriously consider making an attempt at this toy problem https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/QEYWkRoCn4fZxXQAY/prizes-for-elk-proposals
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:08 PM
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Was that a shit-test? gg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:07 PM
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Did you even read what I wrote 🤣
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 07:41 AM
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Sure let me try. So equality is a very primal value, it is linked to ideas of fairness and justice. It forms part of the bedrock of the social contract, the reason humans all agree to cooperate. We see it manifest in all cultures in some form. But like any value, taken to the extreme it is destructive. We can point to the tradeoffs it has with meritocracy, truth, and diversity among other ideas. But that discussion would be really broad and abstract. In this particular comment when I was talking…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:01 AM
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I'm talking about conveying information vs telling empty platitudes. People can figure it out themselves and they won't need help then. Those who struggle and ask for help need a concrete direction to aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:17 AM
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When you are told to be everything, you are also being told to be nothing. To convey information you need to constrain possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:36 PM
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Chads exist. I've seen them... From a distance ofcourse 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:21 PM
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Stoic men are broadly attractive for a number of reasons. One it signals mental strength. Most people need someone in life they can depend on to act as a rock, an anchor, dependable. Can he persevere? Endure through hard times? There are correlates to self discipline and not giving into impulses. All emotions aren't created equal. If a guy is nice to everyone then being nice to her isn't special. Nice behaviour from a jerk or even a neutral guy is more valuable than from a guy who is nice to eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:18 PM
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Well it depends on what level of detail matters. We can study populations and talk about economics, history, politics. These are complicated for sure and coordination problems are hard. But usually you can get away with treating the individual humans involved in these systems as simpler approximations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:00 PM
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There are two ways in which people typically interpret complicated. Colloquially it means hard to learn, hard to do, easy to fail at. But I mean a different type of complicated. I mean that it's complex, consisting of many many interconnected parts. I mean that it's hard to understand, deconstruct, teach to a machine, describe explicitly, predict, etc. It's the same way walking and seeing is easy to do but hard to teach a robot. Just because we are build to naturally do it doesn't mean it's a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:36 PM
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is there any aspect of human existence as complicated as romance? Think twice before you say, "Well, it doesn't seem all that complicated to me; now calculus, on the other hand, that's complicated. If people do not believe that mathematics is simple, it is only because they do not realise how complicated life is. - John von Neumann love is (at least potentially) more complex than being nice to your friends and kin, negotiating with your allies, or outsmarting your enemies. Aspects of all three, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:32 PM
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Well it seems like your goal is set. All the best. Good goals and intentions are great. Now you just need the intelligence to see the path from where you are right now and where you want to be. I hope you achieve it :)
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 05:12 AM
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Impatience isn’t good. Losing weight and building a healthy body takes time. The same is true for your mind. Accumulation takes time. If you want a stable foundation you need to be ready to work for the long haul. Take it slow, persevere. If you rush you’ll have a veneer, on the surface you will appear as you changed while inside you’ll still be the same person. Your system 1, intuition and instincts need to change. It’s not sufficient if you logically know these things, the subconscious parts o…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 04:25 AM
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If you want to change, you need to focus on lifestyle. Make friends who have the values you want in yourself. Adopt their hobbies, spend time with them, read the books they read, movies they want. Cultural programming or socialisation is a matter of exposure. You can pick any ideology you want and if you consume enough media in that direction, it will seep into you. Be careful you don’t go the other extreme of radfem. It might be too late by the time you understand the perils of equality.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 03:44 AM
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Why did you shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:26 AM
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Are these girls your subjective 9s or 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:24 AM
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Fascinating how simping and misogyny can be so closely related
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:15 AM
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Happy cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:56 PM
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I think the threshold for whining is lower for men before people stop tolerating it while women can get away with more. While men can get away with being more bitchy or rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:22 PM
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Kinda crazy how either most not ok women seem to be in relationships in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:21 PM
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That's the thing with human experiments... People are awfully sensitive about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:31 PM
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Survival is a low bar. We used to do a lot of shit in the past. Slavery, rape, etc. We can and should strive to do better. The question is one of optimality not basic survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:27 PM
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Isn't it healthy to slowly expose your child to harsh reality. Like the brutal aspects of the world? Raising them to be sheltered seems like a recipe to make them immature. You really can't protect them forever. It seems better to do it under controlled conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:25 PM
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Hmm fair enough... High school is still a turbulent time. Teenage angst and you lose your best friend.. often it's a slow decline too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:50 PM
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Did you lose any familial relatives? Friends? Did you feel anything then? Do you know why? Were you close to your cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:49 PM
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Ok if this is the standard practice. Is that the parents wanting to help the child avoid short term pain or does it even have long term utility in terms of shaping his personality in a desirable way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:40 PM
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I wonder if it's more helpful or hurtful for a child to raise a pet and then watch it die. I mean most cats and dogs have small lifespans. So it will hurt a lot to watch the dog age, grow frail and die of old age. What do you think? Will it be an experience that helps a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:34 PM
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Why is that you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:28 PM
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I mean are you grateful to anyone or society at large for something else? If you think about that... You'd see even that you had to work on it. Just because you had to work to achieve don't mean you can't be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:23 AM
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Someone post that meme about how women are into all types of guys for me. https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/bo8itt/women_love_all_kinds_of_men/ why I should feel grateful to women in general for pushing me in that direction, though. who are you grateful to and why then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:26 AM
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if any of you are into philanthropy.. I think EA is a great space to explore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:23 AM
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Monkey see no evil. Keep on moving people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:17 AM
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The idea is most people can do better if they optimize to a niche of women. You know play to your strengths, your natural inclinations and become a archetype that appeals strongly to a subset of women rather than weakly appealing to most women. I guess I'm pushing back against AWALT when it comes to types of guys they are interested in... Well sure it can be a powerful motivation. But when you reached a healthy weight were you grateful to women in general for motivating you to become a healthy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:24 AM
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Expectations... People who love you, see your potential and expect a certain direction of growth that is time bound. This provides structure, or constrains your freedom but it also provides motivation. The direction which these push you should be aligned with the direction you want for yourself. It is a double edged sword. It feels nice that someone believes in you and sees your potential. But if you lack confidence and the challenge seems too hard then these expectations are burdensome. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:09 AM
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Thanks for explaining. In that sense I agree it is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:59 AM
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I was hoping you’d see it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:42 PM
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Do you think any part of trp is accurate? Would you call yourself a Chad? Do you have any big takeaways from your dating life you'd like to share? Something that surprised you and you don't see most people being aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:41 PM
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This is you?? Damn 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:36 PM
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TIL Dr pepper is an agnostic's drink. https://youtu.be/JxDvjWTCmIY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:25 PM
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He dragged it out for too long. 2 times would be ideal then he should have laughed it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:35 PM
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You and her are the last humans on earth You: <worst she can say is no.> Her: let's just go extinct huh. https://youtube.com/shorts/NRgionxEe9g?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:28 PM
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India
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:27 PM
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It's pretty trippy that a non violence, non cooperation movement actually worked in my country against colonizers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:18 PM
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Tip Appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:16 PM
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or just be autistic, you will find true love that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:46 AM
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just report their comments what type of comments are usually ban worthy from the admin? like does it have to say "all men are trash" and be very hurtful?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:44 AM
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I'll happily consider your unfinished project car I enjoy doing this with furniture too, it was refurbishing my study table from something that was thrown away a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:38 AM
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Why would you describe this page as good? https://illimitablemen.com/2015/06/01/the-hierarchy-of-love/ has written as TRP ideas if you are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:36 AM
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care to elab ? I was just thinking aloud. When I say society I mean bubbles or communities of course. Not the whole world or even the whole country. The analysis would not hold at that scale. I am thinking that if only a small fraction of a local school had children who were poorly adjusted meaning parents neglected them, lacked positive affirmation, self esteem issues, was molested, became hypersexual, got into the social media arms race, had body image issues, eating disorders, anxiety, depres…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:57 AM
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In fact I'd say the vast majority have a very healthy self-esteem. That is interesting, most girls I know who engage in hookups regret it afterwards and don't report satisfaction. To me it felt similar to how people go on binge watching of shows, eating junk food or go shopping. Trying to fill that emptiness inside. I think it might be because the girls I know are early 20s. I would expect later in life they will have a more stable personality and be more sure of what they want. I can imagine th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:42 AM
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a certain demographic of women. how large do you think this demographic is? 1%? 20%? is it growing with time? I personally think it is sad how many men and women there are with poor mental health. It also seems to be contagious in some sense. Society has left the equilibrium where if you are slighly off the well adjusted scale, your environment will push you back towareds normality. While now people seem to get less well adjusted with time if they are surronded by the wrong crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:36 AM
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can't live with that forever yeah not a nice feeling to be trapped under.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:36 AM
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but then did you not meet girls who were not like this? girls who did value all the effort and care you gave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:32 AM
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but I have gotten insecure as I grew up so thats not gonna be a problem now so getting more insecure helped?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:31 AM
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I think the Captain Save a Ho serves a key role in the adoption of TRP. Men who are insecure in their ability to get women, seeks out broken women who have self esteem issues and treats them well, tries to be that "nice guy" and often he ends up getting hurt, toxic relationships, etc. So he thinks the red pill is validated. More than any guy, youtube video or blog post, it is when men fall for the wrong women that then ends up making him take the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:19 AM
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😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:35 PM
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They bond strongly, more oxytocin, more emotions. Men have experience suppressing emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:03 PM
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oh of course the person getting dumped is hurt more. In most cases it is the guy who gets dumped so if you correct for that I think you might see a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:41 PM
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It seems like in most cases the girl suffers more after a breakup? what are your experiences, is there a assymmetry here? Consider all cases of people breaking up. If you consider a reasonable measure of emotional pain as the output and to some extent "x" you will see that the person who was dumped will be hurting more. Now correct for this x and above and beyond this cause, I am saying the gender itself might predict some amount of the variation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:37 PM
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One piece
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:52 AM
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9
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:51 AM
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This is more like the true average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:50 AM
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I understand but it still sucks for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:12 AM
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enforcing rules ends up using big govt and if you enforce it via norms it is more like changing values.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:34 PM
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Gisele Bundchen now? at 41? https://people.com/style/gisele-bundchen-feels-better-in-40s-than-30s/ I would pick 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:23 PM
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High n men seem to have dumpster dived a lot. If you want sex it's simple, leave empathy at home and lower threshold. (alcohol helps)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:21 PM
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Will Trump win in 2024? https://electionbettingodds.com/President2024_week.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:52 AM
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When they say don't stick your dick in crazy... I think they mean, be wary about the consequences. She can be clingy, hurt you, ruin your reputation, you might end up hurting her fragile mental health, etc. So this advice just gets turbo boosted if she is a family friend or peer at work. You can't avoid meeting her and there is too much social circle that the ramifications of it ending badly are just raising the stakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:51 AM
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🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:53 PM
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You are a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:48 PM
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All my friends used to be single and virgins. Once I started making new friends who are Chads. I'm getting dates, lots of improvement. I don't think I needed to have cut them off. Just make new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:47 PM
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Beautiful, makes me tear up thinking about what we have done to the environment. The beaches near human settlements are so dirty. The fish I saw then were filled with vitality. Now the local fresh water fish look sickly. I found the roads there too boring all straight. It's such a huge continent Africa. The Mercator projection doesn't do it justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:45 PM
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I'm starting at 26 and my sensei is very understanding. The kids sometimes laugh at me though 😂 Kids are cruel little devils. I don't mind it as much. It's without malice I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:38 PM
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My sis is far more attractive than me. I am not sure most siblings are looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:37 PM
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I saw pristine nature when I visited Kenya and Uganda decades back...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:36 PM
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Yeah it’s insane how common that response is, I’ve kinda gotten less open I think? Why complicate matters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:22 AM
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I know... But he doesn't seem to be responding to our DMs. Well any ideas will help. Maybe he is reading but not replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:40 PM
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I use the word for people who have the right mix of alpha and beta traits. I know them and respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:42 PM
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Who all liked bunny ears here? Please tag people you know who might be his friend. Remarkable sort was his username.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:41 PM
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Oh ok. Thanks for sharing your data point then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:22 PM
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Never? Well I'm talking about the rare times it does happen. Are you a guy who has dated many girls? You've asked this to your guy friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:13 PM
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She does get to have sex? She gets rewarded for being easy. I mean what's her game plan? Never let him know her past? Expect him to feel like he got a prize when he realises how she usually behaves? How can he continue to be interested when she inevitably explains her behaviour... Are there guys who don't mind this... Maybe if the guy values her commitment sufficiently it won't be irritating. It might help if the guy can laugh at the guys who didn't get to spend the rest of their lives with her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:58 PM
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If there is one thing that annoys me more than it should. It's when girls make husband material guys jump through hoops and make them wait. While this same girl sleeps quickly with fuckbois. I guess it just sucks to see a girl value her commitment way more than her body. Acting like a fuckboi 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:50 PM
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Can someone walk me through how extremely rich guys get laid a lot. I mean that post about lying to women referenced how extremely famous or rich guys might get more sex. But I don't understand... I know rich guys who don't get laid a lot. Are these people talking about rich people buying escort services? Are there girls who will sleep with you if you take them on expensive dates? https://memes.getyarn.io/yarn-clip/d5a8dc5e-916a-4b24-b8f5-65af0bc05572/gif#ZYdcwaep.copy Are they talking about guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:08 AM
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I can barely think of any species which have genetic monogamy. With social monogamy, we have tons of extra pair coupling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:49 AM
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It's nice how much respect/ positive sentiment override trp men give other men. I think they can form strong friendships with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:42 AM
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That's why the antinatalism movement (overlap with feminists) is so interesting. Just like the mgtow group, some ideologies self select themselves out of the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:08 AM
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I liked how they used friendzoned as the supreme curse 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:01 AM
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Dark humor is the best side effect of suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:59 AM
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I wonder if most women would say the people they respect also has such a gender skew
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:54 AM
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So can 33 year old guys date 19 year old girls? Can she consent? What is your take on the age of consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:30 AM
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Jesus… best of both worlds? Is this natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:15 AM
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I guess you mean no 4? I think I liked his wide genuine smile but I think the way he kept his beard is what lowered the rating to average. His facial bone structure, isn’t like what I see in Guys that girls seem to like. It’s hard for guys like me to rate other guys. For guy ratings might as well check out what the girls say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:08 AM
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Well the world is likely a chaotic system and over long periods of time it gets harder to predict with high level of accuracy, but my argument isn’t based on determinism. If no one can predict does not mean it’s possible to control. You can only control that which behaves in predictable manners. Also it’s not like all aspects of a system are that chaotic. There are parts that we can predict. Humans predict other human’s actions to high accuracy all the time. Computers do it even better, what ite…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:02 AM
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That incentive to do so, the sensitivity to that particular incentive needs to be encoded in who you are. Through your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:37 PM
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Right... That's all. I just think it is interesting how much our conscious self seems to feel in control but studies show how it's doing post ad hoc rationalization https://psychology.stackexchange.com/questions/546/is-decision-making-emotionally-based-with-rationalization-as-the-only-conscious#:~:text=there%20is%20a%20fair%20bit%20of%20evidence%20that%20explanation%20follows%20decision-making%2C%20rather%20than%20the%20other%20way%20around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:24 PM
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Girls are nice and all but I like my life too much to start riding a motorcycle https://twitter.com/ashleevance/status/1528884524540518400?t=8rLXIv2P3h_aVcowADlktw&s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:21 PM
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Hmmm that's sad. Good think most people don't seem to know how far we have gotten with the proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:17 PM
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What do you think will happen if we could conclusively prove free will doesn't exist? How would the world change if that knowledge was freely disseminated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:11 PM
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It's a useful belief for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:04 PM
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Counterfactuals are useful... Even if you toss a coin. Give the weight of the coin, pressure applied, wind in the room, gravity etc, you can calculate which side would fall to very great accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:03 PM
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If your decision to write this is linked to the past using deterministic chains then it's affected in predictable ways by the past. You can add randomness to this. But randomness is not predictable by anyone, that's what random means. It is not control. It is not you or the past. It's just chance. The libertarian conception of free will seems to be literally a magic soul that can create a new node in the web of causal events that is just spawned in the middle without links the past. Like a kid w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:02 PM
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How many of you agree with the quote Schopenhauer said: “[M]an does at all times only what he wills, and yet he does this necessarily. But this is because he already is what he wills.” [Chapter 5 of On the Freedom of the Will] As paraphrased by Albert Einstein in his essay My View of the World (1931), it is put like this: “A man can do as he will, but not will as he will.” You are fully formed in the instant you make any decision. Your genes, past experiences make you the person you are. You can…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:43 PM
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It's cute 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:23 PM
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Oh stop it you all, if you keep reaching out to redditcares I would think someone likes me at this point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:03 AM
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Oh you are in luck then, Leaky cauldron, 1 diagon alley, Charing cross road, london, England. See you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:53 AM
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Who said "getting laid"... It's almost like people don't want to try and read. I said BAR. The minimum bar to pass so that he is considered for a date. You know what dates are? A way to get to know a person better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:52 AM
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Probably... Some? Some overlap? 😂😂 I'm just highly skeptical people in PPD genuinely seem to believe women's taste in men are so diverse. I'm talking about the majority of women and what they wish for in their partners and you don't think we would find broad agreement? Men and women seem to really believe they are so special. Sharing so much genes, being raised exposed to so much similar media... Taking actions that are so predictable. Being manipulated by companies to buy what they want, politi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:50 AM
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If black pill is wrong and we all seem to agree it is. Then if you break it down you should see a lot of mutable characteristics come into play. So the bar will consistent of stuff you can work on like in my list you have character, eq, parts of looks that you can work on. So I'd highly disagree that it's not actionable. You have picked only success and fashion while I have listed so many actionable traits like fat percentage, empathy, volunteering, confidence, martial arts, humor, standup comed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:47 AM
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I found this funny Is this what they call autism? I thought maybe the author was trolling... But after finishing the article I think it was written in all seriousness for the sake of helping others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:54 PM
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Ok so you think the bar is pretty high in a descriptive sense. I just want agreement on descriptive facts. It annoys me if people disagree on statements that describe reality. We can disagree on value and prescriptive statements but I got this feeling people weren't on the same page about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:50 PM
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That's as useful an answer as saying "physics" . It's trivially true and doesn't tell you anything. Theories or explanations need to constrain your expectations. Make your beliefs pay rent. https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/a7n8GdKiAZRX86T5A/making-beliefs-pay-rent-in-anticipated-experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:15 PM
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I'm talking about western women. Let's stick to usa since most people in PPD seem to be from there. If you need to take some premises as given that's fine. Like basic mental and physical health or not in deep debt. I don't think the minimum bar varies so widely from women to women. I'm pretty sure the bar has risen with time as women got empowered. I'm just not sure if it's a minority of men struggling to clear this bar or a majority of men. I mean I think the data shows most men do end up datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:09 PM
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The height, handsome features, being fit, being outgoing is part of the bar. I'm not talking about the bar conditioned on some facets a small minority of men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:05 PM
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So you are on the "the bar is high" side. Then you moved onto explain what that is so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:02 PM
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The same women will set a different standard for different men because they are different in some measurable way. These women have eyes, ears, they distinguish between these men and treat them differently BECAUSE they are different. 😭😭 You have taken the mystery of "what is the bar and how hight is it" and turned it into a different mystery "into you". It's like you don't believe that this "into you" thing can be broken down even approximately as a list of concrete traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:58 AM
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Thanks for your honesty. I knew these points already but it’s always nice to get a data point confirming my beliefs. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:02 AM
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Ok thanks for elaborating I think I largely agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:23 AM
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Sounds like you think the bar is low then? It’s not that hard to meet for most people? The people complaining are being lazy? Unless the delusional folk make up most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:06 AM
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I think this comment is talking about not just getting a date but also the dating culminating in sex being easy for most normal well adjusted humans. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uvrgos/where_is_the_bar/i9nlj73/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 I think that’s a direct example of someone who thinks the bar for dating is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:26 AM
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What determines if a girl is into you? Some magical soul compatibility? There has to be some reasons behind it right? It can't be totally subjective. There is some agreement where most girls tend to be into a subset of all guys who share certain traits. There is a direction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:40 AM
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We really need a mega thread on this. The bar can’t be both low and high. I can see that there are people on both sides who genuinely believe the bar is too high and too low. I think the resolution is simple. Women with options keep the bar as high as they can keep it. Men ignore the women who keep the bar low. So those women talk about the bar being low. The men who are aiming for the desirable women are honest about the bar being high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:48 AM
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We all know how the relative weights for these 3 points are. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:49 AM
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Any idea where you'd like to go?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:42 AM
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Where overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:15 AM
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😂😂 the explanation seemed dumb to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:15 AM
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Just statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:16 PM
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That’s the culture war, I’m thinking secessionist policies, riots along those lines. Due to fundamentally incompatible values.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:09 PM
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When will the next USA civil war break out? In 2 years? 5 years? 10 years? Not within 50 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:54 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/jg2DJuieJKw?feature=share would this even work??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:37 AM
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Great! Totally agree with you 👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:49 AM
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Oh sounds like reasonable numbers. Now would you say the people with suppressed feelings are still real friends of hers? Was it wrong of them to not let her know? Since she was going by the default assumption her friends don't think of her that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:40 AM
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I've heard in rp circles or adjacent ones that bisexual men struggle more than bisexual women. I think they would try to project a hetro structure onto a gay relationship with a top and a bottom, a partner being more masculine or Dom and the other being more feminine or sub. I think trp would called polyamory an option for people with low self esteem because they are willing to share. They might use the cuck culture reference. If it's harem situation trp might just say that's natural, expected a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:38 AM
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But you must have seen examples to the contrary in your life? Around you.... When you say most friendships do you mean like 90? Or like 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:33 AM
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We do a little trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:29 AM
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Consider the top 10 percentile of conventionally attractive women you have met as part of college, work, etc. What percentage of her male single friends do you think would have developed feelings for her, crushed on her but decided not to verbalize it and just kept it suppressed? How many do you think would have seen her completely platonically? Maybe like a sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:25 AM
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You are not digging deep enough, you are simply accepting “because it pleases me” as a legitimate answer without asking how that came to be, and why. Lots of people don’t feel the same way as you that’s why it’s important to ground ethics in other stuff, human’s fickle desires tend to lean towards hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:01 PM
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How can a person know if their resistance to casual sex is due to a sex negative culture, conservative mindset with guilt shame etc. Or if it’s due to legitimate fears around being blackmailed, baby trapped, gain a stalker etc? Maybe it’s because he values his body enough to be get physically intimate with a stranger? Maybe he is sociosexually restricted? Are there scenarios where you can propose which help determine which category the guy falls into by predicting his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:43 PM
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Yeah pick based on interest rather than gender ratio. Aim to be genuine. Approach with intentions you wouldn't mind being transparent about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:01 PM
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Awww that's a wonderful story ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:37 PM
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Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:35 PM
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Sounds very sweet, you are blessed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:54 PM
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I realise in hindsight it seems like I'm checking if girls have daddy issues. But honestly I was thinking about my own dad and dad's in general having trouble verbalising emotions. I was interested in guys responses and also the regulars who don't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:09 PM
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Sounds like a story out of a fairy tale. I’m really happy for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:02 PM
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Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:48 AM
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😵‍💫 literally have no words. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:11 AM
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You seem way too well adjusted for ppd 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:09 AM
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How many of you have hugged your fathers? Was it rare? Has he ever verbally explicitly told you how much he loves you and is proud of you? Do you have any loving memory you’d like to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:29 AM
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Sounds good 👌👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:08 AM
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But don’t you want company there? When you are in pain and suffering, I’ve noticed people gravitate towards others in similar situations, they are happier to know they aren’t alone. Kinda like how incels gather. They can exchange stories, they can feel empathy instead of sympathy because those people actually know what you are going through. People might have the best of intentions when they tell you they feel for you but they can never truly know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:26 AM
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It might help if you stop putting so much pressure on yourself. You don’t need to approach, you can in some sense just give up. Forget about dating. First approach strangers who are men, make friends. Use reasons like time and directions. If that’s hard, practice hot approach, by joining clubs, meet-ups, groups with common interests. There are levels to this thing… break your problem into smaller pieces. You can take baby steps and praise yourself for trying even if you fail. Just going to a bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:14 AM
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Opposites attract?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:11 AM
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Are you gainfully employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:07 AM
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Anyone who is someone’s waifu automatically deserves to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:06 AM
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Ohh ok. Sounds very positive. Here's to hoping more people take your approach to this. In media there are characters like Dr House who justifies his acerbic behaviour because of having to deal with chronic pain. In real life I've seen people just withdraw from any productive activity because of their problems. I can totally see how the opposite can also be a attitude you can take. I guess this is why people say more than what situation you are facing, what is important is how you decide to react…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:02 AM
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why you keeping such close tabs on me I'm your biggest simp 👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:08 AM
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Oh I thought you were livs... I thought PPD was not healthy for you and you took a break. I'd seen multiple accounts masquerading as her so, I was thinking... Is she coming back and deleting accounts multiple times? Is she ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:53 AM
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That's the best source of altruism. When you can convince others that it's not meaningless sacrifice but that self interest appropriately defined means taking into consideration others and the future. Here it is a question of what the self is. Just the present you that exists for a second?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:51 AM
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That's ambitious and is definitely possible. I guess it's just rarer to see people helping people who are better off than them overall. I should pay more attention. They are surely learn a lot, but it needs a lever of maturity to be able to set aside your pain and be that selfless. Don't you feel like your issues take clear priority? Since you are struggling with chronic issues. But yeah in a domain specific sense, sure a person who has struggled a lot with have a lot of specialized information …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:49 AM
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If we can't stop some men from simping, we can make them all simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:25 AM
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I thought you wanted to leave PPD behind?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:21 AM
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Did you watch it? He doesn't say you can fix your issues. He says that look it sucks ok, lots of stuff may not have solutions or even solutions that won't work for everyone. So these people can always, ALWAYS find someone else who is a worse off situation than them and try to help. 2:46 in the video. It's simple. It makes you feel way better. I think men who struggle with dating can use that pain, loneliness and instead of hating women, sluts, Chad's whatever. They can help other incels or femce…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:46 AM
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Books
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:27 AM
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Atlantis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:26 AM
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The hedonistic treadmill is used to explain why people in first world countries aren't necessarily that much happier than people in third world countries. People like to say 1st world problems are somehow less worthy of attention because it's smaller than the 3rd world problems. But problems are problems, since humans stabilize quite quickly to their situation. People return to a stable level of happiness (A hedonistic setpoint) quite quickly even after they get that increase in pay, award, gadg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:19 AM
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Most men have to pay to get women like livs to stomp on them. Only in ppd do we get it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:00 AM
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No reply, I messaged him a while back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:59 AM
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I think this is a great message for people dealt bad cards in life. Like incels might find value from this speech. https://youtu.be/82lUNvyoxrA
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:59 AM
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Don't most women have low self esteem? Aren't we all naive at some point in our lives? Do you think we are doing enough to prepare our young kids as they enter the dating scene to not be called "naive". Ahh yeah I think sheltered upbringing does correlate with being trusting and naive. Not even some of the blame? You don't think the victim can reconsider what they could have done better? The whole idea of calling them naive is to bring to their attention there were clues they didn't bother looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:29 AM
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That show was how I realised I’m not that autistic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:16 AM
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crickets 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:15 AM
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Incel but it’s surprisingly a close one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:12 AM
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Right I think women do this too, with demanding change in social norms, help in house work, child care, respect, freedom, etc. they would be willing to be alone if they don’t find the right guy. So that is also doing it’s share to exert pressure on men to change. This only works if you are vocal about why and you should be desirable of course. Seems like a really self sacrificial thing to do… for the greater good?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:25 PM
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Right… but i am noticing even women seem to be less about marriage nowadays. I think both genders are giving up on the institution of marriage. I think in usa now most households aren’t married. I don’t think most women reaaaly want marriage. They want commitment, even if it’s not legal. Cohabitation would be enough. If enough men go mgtow route. Women will be sad but they will go the cat route and it’s a kamikaze style victory… Like most of the guys are still not the “guy” she wanted. Maybe she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:20 PM
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So these men, they are kind towards their friends? Family? I agree that men can be deceptive towards the girl they are trying to seduce but I’ve noticed that these abusive men are assholes to people below them in the hierarchy, they aren’t agreeable. They lack empathy, there are so many blatant red flags. So don’t you think people need to watch how their potential partner treats others? Not just themselves? The idea that “he treats me well so that’s enough” needs to go imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:14 PM
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My point was trying to address op… op was curious why trp doesn’t say “pick better women” to men like how they tell women should “pick better men”. In trp’s framework, AWALT so you can’t pick better women. You can just work on yourself and become the kind of person who can handle her at her worst or preemptively ensure she doesn’t go in that direction. That’s why I talked about self improvement and men having a lack of options because most women don’t find him desirable. Trp says men pick bad wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:11 PM
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Well I didn’t find his videos useful and I didn’t watch enough of it to have a tight confidence interval. If you can link me some videos where he does this I can update my beliefs. But it’s very much possible you are right, I spoke from what I know of the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:03 PM
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Oh I meant how long was it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:55 PM
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How was your hoe phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:40 PM
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Idk, a lot of hot guys who are also fuckbois seem to be former fat kids. Is this just me or have you seen this pattern? They hit the gym, lose wear, wear fashionable clothes. The trauma of when they were unattractive weighs on them and they seek out casual flings for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:25 AM
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Alexander Grace's fan base seems to be comparatively a good one. Which ones are better you guys think?
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 04:46 AM
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Thanks https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:43 AM
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Nowadays women don't need men. They have jobs, they have friends, they don't define their identity based on kids, relationship, etc. They have career, hobbies etc. Being alone isn't necessarily that bad or lonely during her 20s and 30s so they don't feel that intense pressure to find someone or anyone so the bar is high. There is also the added risk of picking a bad person. Once you give your heart to someone it's harder to cut ties. You find yourself trying to forgive them. So with the rise ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:35 AM
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The way I see it, trp claims women are attracted to traits in men that correlate with other negative traits which makes a healthy relationship hard. This is why they tell women to be careful who they go for, take responsibility for who they pick. While for men, the issue is often a lack of options. Mens attraction is towards traits in women thay don't seem to correlate with say crazy or bitchy behaviour. So men need to work on themselves and self improve. When men struggle with their partners wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:30 AM
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Lolol look what happened to me You got kicked from r/PurplePillDebate reason: Unspecified Maybe I wasn’t active enough on discord?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:10 PM
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damn... you are right lol I guess I was just looking for an excuse to not make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:18 PM
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Sure I mean I wasn't thinking in terms of specific time limits. More like experience of people and also clues, behavioural cues which indicate the person is in a healthy mental state again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:50 AM
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Yeah and that usually takes months…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:32 AM
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If a friend breaks up, is vulnerable. What’s the right amount of time after which you can morally make a move on her? If she is going to go for a rebound anyway, might as well be you right? But I think it feels wrong to take advantage of her mental state to get into a relationship. There are loose taboos around this stuff, how do y’all navigate this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:06 AM
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Are you me? 😂😂 it’s all about how you frame it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:57 AM
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Damn that is so sad. Now I am questioning all the help I give my friends in their time of need. It’s a fascinating idea… trp says that if you like a girl you should treat favours you give her as scarce resources that you give to people who earn it. While the blue pill approach would be, “be a nice person, a decent friends, help her out when she needs it.” The idea that you going out of your way to help a friend you also have a romantic interest is. Will lead her to having an ick is mind blowing.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:51 AM
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Hmm so it’s like women who would have causal sex with a financially unstable man but wouldn’t marry him doesn’t “hate” him. The use of the word hate is overused in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:28 AM
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I think women consider it shaming or insulting when men say, “only causal sex material but not relationship material” that shows that the men judge her to be inadequate in some way. What is shaming? You shame someone for doing something wrong. You lose respect for them, think less of them. Most girls eventually want to settle down, so they do feel shamed if a guy rejects them just for her n count. So sure the anti red pillers seem to paint this as extreme hatred etc while the truth is just rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:22 AM
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Yea... My bad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:32 PM
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Yeah maybe... Seeing the response comments and thinking it over. I take it back... I was just being emotional and on my friend's site. Objectively he did nothing wrong and is likely a great nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:19 PM
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it was not immediately after. Supposedly they remained on really good terms for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:06 PM
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sure he has no obligation to even stay in touch, but I don't think he cut contact with her in a polite way. It was so abrupt and she claims unprovoked... him suddenly blocking her. Who knows, she might have bothered him a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:47 PM
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so did you sus it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:42 PM
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ehhh it is obviously expected to be nice during the relationship. A nice person will try to be nice even afterwards imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:42 PM
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People can be quite bitter about exes. nah she still likes him That's normal relationship drama even between two adults that are trying. yeah I don't have the full context. I think he blocked her out of the blue and she is sad about it. Supposedly he gave no explanation, nothing. That sounds rude. But sure he did not do anything "not nice". I guess this was standard behaviour. I just thought he was this emotionally mature super nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:34 PM
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yep she really praised him a lot for his nice behaviour. I found it very interesting. I mean of course logically who would not love a nice person lol... but trp seems to paint a different picture of what makes a guy "masculine".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:31 PM
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What you mean by this? nice means being considerate, having empathy, valuing other peoples feelings over his own selfish needs and desires, agreeable, polite, compassionate and gentle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:29 PM
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Ah this sucks. A close friend of mine told me how her ex boyfriend is being really rude to her and being inconsiderate of her feelings. That was one relationship where I didn't think she "went for the jerk". It sounds like the dude isn't that nice either. I hope I can keep searching and collect more examples of relationships where the guy is a reaaally nice dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:01 PM
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I was talking about obesity in my comment. I don't think the faces I don't like are "gross". Plain faces are fine and can be charming if I start to like other aspects of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:13 PM
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It's a great field, we need to do a lot more to improve it. As it stands now it doesn't deserve the respect and validity we give other hard science fields. https://fantasticanachronism.com/2020/09/11/whats-wrong-with-social-science-and-how-to-fix-it/#There-Are-No-Journals-With-Strict-Quality-Standards Most studies replication is a coin toss https://www.replicationmarkets.com/index.php/2021/11/16/resolutions-for-replication-markets/#:~:text=we%20are%20revealing%20the%20overall%20replication%20rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:46 PM
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I don't think so. But I am a straight guy so I will need to ask some honest girls and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:06 PM
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Ohh like that... Interesting. Will need to think about that. I thought the guy will seem like a confident dude who knows what he likes, he has character, he is true to himself. Passion, bravery, thick skin, etc might be correlated... But the no EQ would likely cause the downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:43 PM
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Yeah same, some punished0xf dude replied to me, but I can’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:19 PM
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Nah I think risk aversion is worse than a person who took risks that haven’t panned out yet. He will try again, there is still hope, he has the courage and perseverance to keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:18 PM
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I believe it exists in a transient sense. For a few rare people it might last decades and gracefully transition into a more comfort based, predictable, love. For most of us it fades and it gets harder to maintain the illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:17 PM
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Eh not a strong crush. A teeny tiny one… sure a few years back. 🤣 <sup>helpme.</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:45 PM
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Hahaha sounds like I have a certain reputation in ppd now 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:39 PM
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Two friends of mine had a ugly breakup. Now I’m stuck in between them. The dude is telling me shit about her. Another friend married this stranger he met after 14 days. It was so late because his parents got covid so that delayed the wedding. Another friend who is a complete sweetheart stopped using bumble after he got like 0 likes. He is in a city, works in a FAANG company, Lots of crazy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:34 PM
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Dude everyone has faced oneitis at some point, the solution to it isn’t gonna change based on your specific case. When I had it, she was the perfect person in every way. Body, mind. It’s not rational. You imprint on her. It’s an obsession on some level. You see, sane compared to some of the cases I’ve seen. You aren’t gonna rationalise your way out of this. Stop thinking about her. Block her, move on. Delete photos, go nuke it all. Distract yourself with work, gym, hobbies, other girls. Get a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:33 PM
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It’s ppd duh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:20 PM
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Something like this can help us understand what living standards correspond to these numbers called wealth or income https://www.gapminder.org/dollar-street?topic=kitchens
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:34 PM
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Change teams, forget ass focus on boobs. Be a man of culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:18 PM
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Takes years to realise that. But happens every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:49 AM
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ohh ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:25 PM
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I will completely detach from reality. wait so you are an example of such a person? are you in a relationship? yeah hard to imagine marrying and almost surely not having kids with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:51 PM
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If legends like elon, james franco, depp... thought it was worth it. Imagine how great her pussy should be if he stayed in the relationship after she shit in the bed. Her head is so good, that he is willing to risk 600 mil, his career, his fingers... imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:57 PM
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ahh well I will take one for the team. I have heard sex with BPD women is the best. Can't die without trying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:45 PM
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you know what... I thought about it and talked to one of my crazier friends. I was wrong. I can deal with small doses of crazy. I can't marry crazy. I am not that M. I take it back lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:42 PM
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a skinny 120lbs soaking wet kid into the offensive line and expecting him to fight a 200 pound professional, great analogy. Pre TRP I would rather get bullied than face dating troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:39 PM
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yeah so most of the guys who "hate" the chasing now might just change their tune when they start to get good. If they really apply themselves to self improvement and start to win large and often, they will imo start to have fun with the chase itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:13 PM
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it's obviously not going to be great for you. yeah it comes down to how you are doing. Same with math or football, etc. If you keep failing it affects your self esteem, you stop enjoying it and it starts a negative cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:11 PM
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cause some of us liked the chase do you know what characterises the guys who like the chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:10 PM
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Words are cheap... I would give commitment in slow gradations. Testing waters. But in my past I have usually gravitated to people with mental issues of various sorts. I have not met any girl with something so bad that it "impacts their ability to function independently" but one of my close male friends fits that description. I think I do ok with him. oh yeah mild stuff is usually doable but the hypothetical said severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:10 PM
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depends on how severe, how compatible she is in other areas. I don't think I can do physical. Somehow I think I might give mental issues a try... I feel confident in my ability to somewhat handle it. I would ideally try to avoid it but I would not rule it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:37 PM
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Kinda interesting how for the guys who are good at it, they enjoy the chase, the trying to seduce her, playing the game. They end up bored once they have her. Lots of them end up moving on to other girls after a while. So there are men who enjoy this dance between the sexes. We also have men who hate how hard it is, how much of a struggle it is and complain about how women are making it near impossible for them. So I think this comes down to... if you are good at a game, you enjoy playing the ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:34 PM
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Art
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:24 PM
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Yea... It was like that South park episode. I didn't read the terms and conditions. It turns out I had sold myself into perpetual slavery. They wanted some live incels to experiment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:59 PM
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Heyy I already tried this. It wasn't fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:21 PM
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It's all about marketing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:13 PM
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maybe being passive aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:55 AM
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Eh carry a bigger knife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:30 AM
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Impossible by I am King is a really nice song. I am seeing this same song by so many artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:29 AM
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Do you want to understand them or love them? “Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood" - Oscar Wilde You can't understand your partner as an individual but you will struggle to understand your partner as a member of a group while also loving them. That sort of analysis necessarily needs you to abstract away important details. To desire romance, to love women. I like romance anime, some of them really tug your heart and can make you cry. Your name is a good movie, torodora is a good ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:26 AM
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Hmm so basically being humble means believing in the the equality of all humans? It's not a bad way to frame it. I think people who are humble by my definition due to having a holistic view are more likely to buy into the Equality value. The only issue is that by your definition too few people will be humble. Dominance hierarchies are literally hardcoded into us. We negotiate status in any social context. It's very deep, part of linguistics, body language. Our actions embody how we don't really …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:46 AM
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Oh maybe we have different conceptions of what humility or being humble means. When I say humble, I mean the opposite of or lack of pride. Pride is the "origin sin" for a good reason. Humble people know their limits, they know they have bubbles of competency. That money, looks, intelligence, status have domains where it has utility but outside that they aren't special. Prideful people have an overly internal locus of control. They refuse to acknowledge the role that others played in getting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:21 AM
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That's part of what makes it so attractive. Scarcity is one of the most fundamental sources of value. I know many rich people who are humble. It starts after a few generations of wealth and depends on the quality of parenting - exposure, lack of entitlement etc. I know some smart people who are humble. I know few pretty humans who are humble. Intersections of these sets starts to get vanishingly small. But I know atleast one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:14 AM
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😂😂😂 gg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:14 AM
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Shoulder day! How many of you do weight training? What's your fav day?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:04 AM
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Outsource to an Indian call centre. Value for money service.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:01 AM
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Play beatsaber
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:57 AM
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Yes, don't overdo it but don't be stingy. You know genuine, enthusiastic flattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:56 AM
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