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Both the men and the women are what I would call 'missocialized'. Socialized for your parents, your computer, your school, your work. Not socialized for your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:08 PM
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Yeah if women are struggling with men or player men and situationships in their 20's, it's definitely not going to get easier for them in their 30's
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:09 AM
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If you actually thought this you, wouldn't be motivated to post this thread. There's no weekly thread telling men that wearing giant clown shoes doesn't work, because, you can't gaslight people about it. It just generally doesn't work. All the repetitive threads like this one are things wonen believe are happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:37 AM
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The people with the most money are having the most kids. /r/Natalism/comments/1bwxsuj/total_us_fertility_rate_by_family_income/ It's not as simple as 'more money more kids' but the end result is certainly that people with more money are having more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:35 PM
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Like does every post here have to specify that or can we just engage with what the OP obviously means god damn lol I agree with the premise that it's gender role reverse. Another similar one is the so called 'nice guy' narrative which gets upset at men using womens most common tactic themselves. But if I put that in a top level comment I think they'd delete my comment for just agreeing with you in a 'debate' thread, so, it's kinda setup to be constantly argumentative and changing the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:41 AM
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Daily reminder that women aren't all the same person. The type of person who complains about Manic Pixie fantasies isnt often the same woman with fantasies of being swept up by the rich guy. Lol it's the opposite they are always the same person complaining about both. Most people don't personally care but if they have a strong opinion on one they nearly always say the same thing on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:00 PM
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Importing infinity immigrants is done by democrats driven by the same motivations democrats imported slaves with - a lack of cheap labor results in a business drive to imported massive amounts of the absolute cheapest and most compliant labor possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:09 AM
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Were you of the opinion that when you find a woman attractive and want to date her, she’s supposed to approach YOU and arrange a date? See, you do know what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:21 AM
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Anyways, this mate-suppression stuff is really predictable and boring. Like I said I've known several guys to use it and end up dating and married. You just have to understand it as a guidebook for dealing with that girls are fundamentally extremely lazy in dating, not make the mistake of thinking it's a religious guidebook-to-life or whatever, as it works really poorly as a spiritual toolkit. Like trying to fix your toilet with a hair dryer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:06 AM
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Oh you are so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:27 AM
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..from a biased perspective Yeah, if you want to actually fix the problem, you want a plan that's biased tiwards your point of view. Similar to if a car stops working on the freeway, you don't pull out a multisemester course on the workings of an internal combustion engines and various metal milling techniques to build one. An effective approach starts with "Am I out of gas?". Biased towards your immediate situation. Would you also say that men who want to date women, but whom are quick with res…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:01 PM
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I haven't had someone deliberately misunderstand me in like 2 seconds here, what have I been missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:33 PM
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In the context of dating someone you aren't dating already, girls are incredibly and unbelievably lazy. Some red pill stuff has other ways to describe it like that women there's a 'higher cost for pregnancy so girls are slower to act'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:22 PM
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In the context of dating someone you aren't dating already, girls are incredibly and unbelievably lazy. Some red pill stuff has other ways to describe it like that women there's a 'higher cost for pregnancy so girls are slower to act'. If that's the kind of standard the red pill imposes on guys... bla bla bla gaslight, aggressive mate suppression, bla bla bla. Yeah part of the reason girls are lazy is the hostile attitude towards dating from the social structure above them. They end up with 'lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:21 PM
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Like I said, it seems to be fictionalized entirely. Like this one makes the claim but then when you dig into it, it's own stats don't even back up the title. https://www.smfm.org/news/new-national-study-finds-homicide-and-suicide-is-the-1-cause-of-maternal-death-in-the-us Findings show that over the 18-year period, 20,421 pregnant people died. Of that number, 11 percent (2,293) of deaths were due to homicide and suicide. They combined homicide and suicide, and it's still only 11%? It's just made…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:06 AM
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I point out the leading cause of death for pregnant women in America is homicide This makes me want to point out the combination of how extremely safe women are, together with selection bias (excluding anyone under 5 and over 50 gets you the healthiest population), but it's most likely completely made up purely to trigger mens 'protect pregnant women' instinct. The leading cause of death for women between 25 and 40: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK600454/table/ch2.tab4/ 1. Unintentional in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:44 AM
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I've known 3 guys who went from virgins in their 20's, to dating, to getting married, via red pill advice. My only description is that it is more of a technical instruction manual to overcome girls tendency to be incredibly, incredibly lazy, self sabotage, and won't do anything themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:09 AM
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Chad is the outlier guy who half the girls want to sleep with. Being the outlier is what defines him. His status might be temporary or long term, it doesn't matter. To me chad is defined also by the most other men don't really like him (in non-sexual contexts they find him bland or unlikeable) but I might be imposing midwest confusion with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:36 AM
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when a woman says "all men are trash" doesn't literally mean all men. She's not talking about her father, brother, brother in law, coworkers or close friends. The problem is men taking that statement too literally, even if that's too fucking obvious. No, they are reacting with a correct assessment that they are being attacked via women's preferred vehicle of aggression. Women's primary means of aggression, particularly in intrasexual competition, is indirect, relational aggression designed to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:07 AM
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The narrative is baseline narcissism where the person never emotionally evolved past being a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:31 AM
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Your average girl interested in dating your average guy - her most common strategy is to become friends with him and wait to see if he makes a move. The narrative that if a guy makes a move she'll get upset, seems like sabotage, or, a gendered claim accusing him of acting like a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:46 AM
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No, I would think becoming friends with people is not how you're supposed to find a partner nor is it probably common and definitely not the best way. Humans evolved over 100,000 years being hunter gatherers. Sex determines who's child a woman gets pregnant with. There's no way the most common, optimal, strategy for choosing who she got pregnant from - was banging complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:38 AM
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Yet in most cases, the actual 'management' of a household (comparable to what an executive would do at a company) is done by the woman. She decides what the house looks like, attends the 'meetings' (school's parent events, kids' doctor's visits, etc.), is in charge of the allocation of funds (groceries, other purchases), trains and disciplines the 'subordinates' (kids; just using corporate lingo), etc. This is a gender role thing, she's taking the "high social status and predictable" tasks, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:09 PM
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It’s a well documented issue many women have had dating men… the common denominator is men I mean the most consistent common denominator is the woman. It's the only thing that's exactly the same between each interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:37 PM
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This is a dumb propaganda narrative. It's like claiming "soldiers start wars, not kings, because soldiers are the ones doing the shooting, kings are just innocent victims of soldiers starting all those wars on their own".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:02 AM
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The red pill focussed on things you could influence, rather than what it saw as wasting time on things you can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:17 PM
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Well women are a monolith in that they love social drama, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:39 PM
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This is a religious or trancon attitude, not a redpill one. Redpill had a lot of discussion on this, basically, they felt it only works if the entire community is part of it. You just cannot do it in todays culture unless you're part of a mini community like...amish or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:52 AM
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The root of all these narratives is that it's about whether you're attractive, to the girl. Girls big turnon is being in the male gaze of an attractive man. And girls big ick is being locked in the gaze of an unattractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:01 PM
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I see the predictable gaslighting he was talking about kicked in lol. I've had a ton of female friends, and things always head that way. The level of gaslighting you're laying down is pretty typical of how these friendships go. Like he said it's not that friendship are impossible - it's that they always navigate you back into the "boyfriend role" - if you have that kind of skill and put in that kind of effort you're putting in that kind of effort might as well be the boyfriend. The circumstance …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:26 AM
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Yeah disney are actually super red pill / black pill. Girl is always going after the highest status guy in the land - the prince. She's usually surrounded by small adult men who are not considered romantic competition. They're modelled as dwarves, support animals, etc, but they're clearly male and adult - yet not in any way considered a romantic prospect. The girl typically barely even talks to the high status male before becoming absolutely enamored by him. And literally abandons her family and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:26 AM
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This sounds like you are adding angry stuff in to create your narrative. If a boy got rejected by a girl, and another girl immediately expressed interest in him, it would make him feel better. Girls also do this all the time feel rejected by one guy and immediately getting together with another boy and posting it all over social media. They also do it in non-romantic stuff where she gets rejected by one girl group and immediately joins and boasts about being in another girl group. Or if guys see…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:02 PM
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Women complain about men yes but that doesn't change that in terms of this studies findings, they are happier single than we are. These are just survey results, surveys reflect what people believe what they are supposed to say, not what they are actually doing or thinking. Women believe they are supposed to say they are happy single. Men believe they are suppose to say they are unhappy being single. A woman who's 10% happy will say they are happy in the survey, a man who's 10% unhappy will say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:21 AM
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I think you'd want to look at other areas. Men who do serious physical work 'hit the wall' at a similar rate. I'd prefer to quote ages for work but it's easier to find stats on physical sports. The average age of all NFL players as of October 2024 is 26.6 years old. In 2023, the average age of all UFC fighters ranked in the top 15 of every weight class division is 32.3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:38 PM
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This is like saying that on the one hand you could be the boss at work but make no money, and on the other hand you could have an easy as heck job but also make no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:51 AM
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People complain about job interviews, because they want jobs. People complain about parents, doesn't mean they want to be orphans. Men complain about women, because they want to have sex with them. It's all pretty consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:36 AM
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It's pretending to be a battle about avoiding dependence. What it really is is a battle about who you are dependent on. Political parties want you dependent on their party. The corporation wants you dependent on your job. It's not an improvement to mental health to have 3x more than you could give demanded of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah. Ask women if they cheated in a survey, they're more likely to say no. Ask men if they cheated in surveys, they're less likely to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:59 PM
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People respond to surveys with answers that make them feel the best about themselves. Older women believe they look the best if they 'didn't cheat'. Older men believe they look the best if they 'did cheat'. Let's say an 80 year old woman cheated on her first husband. She's long since forgotten about it as she feels it doesn't make her feel good. Let's say an 80 year man cheated on his first wife. Now that he's lost the physical ability to have sex, he sees this as proof that he was a stud muffin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:50 PM
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statistics do show that overall men cheat more, except... There's no accurate way to measure that, which is what all meaningless back and forths come down to. You end up with: 1. Agenda-study (whatever the people paying want). 2. Survey-study (surveys measure social norms - what people think they're supposed to say - with women more strongly saying what they believe they are supposed to say). 3. Misleading result descriptions (in an extreme blackpill world 99 men are virgins, 1 chad is banging a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:43 PM
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It think 'bad boys' is just 1960's rehash of out of date narratives. Perhaps men came came back from ww2 and this influenced this being a real thing - at the time. Emotionally unavailable men is the realistic complaint in the midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:55 AM
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Think of the % of the population that is married compared to the % of the population that isn't. Like 80%+ of the women you talk to online are already married and what you're hearing is a metaphorical game they play in their head now that they aren't dating new people any more. Most real life girls are the opposite - they're simply lazy and they don't know what they are doing. They don't want to do stuff unless they already know it will feel good. They want "big outside force" to show up and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:27 AM
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I think if your spouse moves up, celebrates, then starts treating you much worse, that you will naturally be resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:13 AM
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There was a common pattern where society would tell men that they should encourage girls they were dating to heal their emotional wounds and trained men to help those women to have more self esteem. Some guys genuinely believed in this and figured out how to do it, only to find that she drops them and dates someone else or starts chad chasing as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:24 AM
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This is the "as ice cream sales go up shark attacks increase" phrasing issue. The default implication is that men's feeling are hurt by their wifes success, but it's no less plausible that a more successful wife starts treating her husband worse which is what causes his negative feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:22 AM
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Promotion to a top job in politics increases the divorce rate of women but not for men. And women who become CEOs divorce faster than men who become CEOs. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-promoted-women-are-more-likely-to-divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:15 AM
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Outliers don’t disprove the median Not even actually an outlier, these stories are like "He put gas in the car, but after 300 miles the car stopped moving, conclusion is I was right when I told him gas doesn't work in cars".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:47 AM
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Statement: It's largely due to our capacity for empathy that others seem to lack Actual clip: One of the women starts talking about things she likes in her husband. The show host - jealous that she's momentarily not the center of attention and someone is saying something positive about men - interrupts her to demean her husband as a "servant" and pressures her to agree. "Capacity for empath" lmao Men can stay married for a long time because their relatively needs are relatively simple and stable…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:48 PM
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This sub is like the internet version of this show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7dxUka_apo Reasonable younger people are...not sticking around. There used to be girls on reddit who would write nice things about guys very occasionally, but it's a lot like this clip where they'd get attacked and bullied for doing so, so you don't see those accounts around any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:41 PM
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I don't think you'll get anything informative. The people who sit here spreading these narratives online are - I believe - older married (or previously married women). When they say they don't notice anything, is in some small slice true, because they aren't a part of younger social groups. They have essentially no exposure to the results of their actions. It happens "somewhere else".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:19 PM
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That didn't respond to my point at all but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:17 AM
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I heard at some of the big companies for a little bit it became basically a requirement that if you wanted to get promoted it was you need to find someone to accuse of sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:46 AM
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Lol that's not how that went. If a man was genuinely threatening in the moment women didn't want to risk provoking him by pulling out their phone. They almost entirely pulled out their phone for various episodes of "look at me guys are hitting on me all the time but I'm to good for them".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:44 AM
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They simultaneously claim that most women want an "equal partner " whilst claiming that most men are looking for "bangmaids". This is like someone complaining their job is to easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:20 PM
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Now (takes a breath) you would think that looks being lower priority would help, but it definitely could hurt. Lets say a guys #1 priority was looks. He's a 5. He tries to get an 8, it doesn't work. Then he dates a girl who's a 5. Can he be happy with a 5 when he's a 5? Yes, absolutely. But would he be happy with a 1? No, he'd probably rather not date at all. Back to the women, say she's a 5 in looks. If looks in the guy was her top priority then she could be happy with another 5. But because lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:56 AM
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It's an interesting and very plausible take. But could you you see how it could create the situation where it could actually explain how you reach a point where women are only sleeping with the best looking guys? 1. Normally womens default behavior wouldn't be to focus primarily on looks. But the environment around her kills off these other things. 2. She logs onto the dating app. Impossible for the guy to take meaningful actions through the dating app. Looks are the only attraction trigger avai…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:30 AM
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They are both devout Christians. Closely involved with family. It just never happened and... Despite what the online narrative likes to say, womens most dead-end choice is the same as mens - staying at home and not doing anything, or (unintentionally) sabotaging the people that show a little interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:07 AM
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I really think "party girls" split into 2 different groups. 1. Toddler level attention seeking (taylor swift) 2. Teenager level attention seeking (lindsay lohan) Toddler level types often have long term trouble, whereas the teenager level types do not - well not problems in finding someone to date at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:47 AM
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One of my friends who is married long term would say he doesn't understand these narratives at all. I can see small elements of these things in his wife but it's not her primary motivation and he is probably correct to ignore it as rewarding negative qualities with attention leads to bad results. He would tell you he has literally no idea what these people are talking about with women. On the other hand, another friend got married and had a kid, and his wife dumped him the second a wealthier man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:20 PM
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you [men] need to have sex AS SOON AS POSSIBLE with a woman to kind of “fish-hook” her into falling in love with you. You [men] cannot get sexual too late, because she will get bored and find someone who has more attitude than you. This is 100% accurate. Let's say you wait 150 years to make your move. Will it work? No. You will not get laid ever waiting that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:38 AM
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It's because the women are playing power games, not communication games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:18 AM
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How does one define "mature"? Obviously when our economic system means men are "have my own job and place to live" in their early 20's...they're going to mature later than when they when hit 14 to 16 and that was the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:27 PM
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There has to be some concept about when you've both peaked and it's time to back off the intensity or things don't work long term. I don't like the term "submission" but I haven't found another term for when you both back off the ego to let stability happen - without the "turn the ego off conpletely" thing that can deadbedroom relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:08 PM
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Men or women can lie or spread rumours, but most don't. Seems like you've picked friends who run in those circles and like telling silly lies. Lmao, look at this literally doing the thing I was just talking about, where you instinctively make up a fake story to attack people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:56 PM
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In the sense that real life average women thought I was fun and wanted to hang out with me, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:55 PM
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You may have an issue with being friends with women but I did not. Every woman I've known knows of the potential for other women to attack them by lying about them, just like every guy I know evaluates the potential of other guys to attack them with some level of violence. There's some guys we just don't invite ither and for girls some girls they keep away from as much as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:50 PM
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i always had girls as friends in high school, college, and at work when it wasn't all guys - every single girl had had some other girl make up some lie about her and spread it to everyone in their social group at some point. Every single girl I've met has had this happen with other girls at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:14 PM
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He didn't say most of that, that's my issue, is that he's avoiding talking about where it worked with a bunch of implications. If he's also advocating no one else should be allowed to cold approach then this is the very definition of pulling up the ladder behind them. I'd never approach a woman I don't know, I like where I'm at in life and wouldn't want to gamble that just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:23 PM
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Yes yes now that you're dating someone you're out saying it no longer benefits you so no one should do it any more. Pulling up the ladder behind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:43 PM
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It's the female equivalent of going to the bar looking to get into a fight. They went there hoping to be offended as an excuse to get into a fight - for women it's 3rd party into conflict with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:38 PM
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It would be difficult to tell whether stable marriage causes higher income...whether women simply choose to marry men because they're making more money...whether it's some 3rd factor that happens to cause both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:40 PM
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Only 10% of men in the US are 6 foot or taller. Assumably they're trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:57 PM
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Also women with attachment issues always have some adverse reaction to a display of emotion, which is why their group every single story is that they showed emotion and the woman ran off. Showing emotion triggered her attachment evaluation and for her it's always "attachment? run away!".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:36 PM
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My best theory is that women view positive emotion between the 2 of you as attachment. The more she wants to attach to you the better the reaction. The less she wants to attach the worse the reaction. Women love emotion at the height of success, and hate emotion at the depth of failure. That's also why women who "hit the wall" are suddenly ok with some emotion, since they're looking to attach long term neutral emotion they don't understand is finally totally ok. They've stopped being worried the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:35 PM
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Honestly your tag describes everything we need to know about you, as we've seen this a bazillion times. "White Pill Man | Married | ( Former Red Pill )" You used what you needed out of the red pill to get into a relationship. Now that you're in one, your brain works to destroy the pathways that would break your relationship and lead to a new one. (shrugs) "you are a simp / loser / beta" no women will date you your GF will dump you you'll never get sex As I said in another post the red pill is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:13 PM
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90%+ of men do NOT want to do the things the red pill discusses. But girls expect men do these things in order to date them or have sex with them so someone has to discuss them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:38 PM
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It's interesting, they're both pushing women to be virgins just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:54 PM
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Yes, as often noted, the problem is that women's shit tests expect worthy/valuable men will be stronger than the test. But since no man is stronger than the state it ends with all men "failing" the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 02:42 PM
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Women less attractive than you are more certain about whether they want to sleep with you. It's usually a strong yes. Or a strong no. Women at your same level spend a lot more time waffling around, or waiting for the right external circumstances or mood, etc. Some people will claim this means you should wait but it doesn't exactly work this way because someone acting like they don't like and aren't interested in you is generally a turnoff and makes them less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:21 PM
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You go out to the club. The music is loud people bring their own earplugs. You can't actually talk and all there is to do is dance and grind. Let's out this another way though - the narrative is they shouldn't go the the club without you. In my experience it just sort of happens naturally that people in relationships either stop going to the club or only go together, they just don't feel like going to this high intensity environment any more by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:51 AM
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I've never seen a corporate lawyer tell clients "I can only sign this contract for the first time with a couple beers in me".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:37 AM
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I think it's more than you already know everything other men could give you good advice on, because you're a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:14 AM
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Eh, I think you're half right, but these all kinda follow the same pattern. For some of these women, it's a sort of sexual desirability contest. On the one hand you have average guy who goes hiking (weak). Vs the strength and vitality of a d'dang bear (strong and dominant). So they choose the bear because it's strong and more sexually desirable (metaphorically).
/r/TheRedPill08/05/24 05:33 AM
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Is passive-aggressive ( posting hurtful things...on social media to get a reaction out of them) Criticizes and judges from the sidelines (huge criticism of women constantly) Is condescending and superior (all the time on social media) Denies and dismisses others’ feelings (watch how they talk about coercion and emotional abuse) Identifies as a victim (look at all the bear posts and men arguing misandry) I see you've stumbled across how feminism works. I've often said the red pill is men's versio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:26 PM
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It seems like women are perfectly fine with being single due to their standards because they have so many things that they would not tolerate nor settle for. However, for men it seems like a lot of men are willingly to compromise or lower their expectations just to be in a relationship. This follows lead/follow roles. Girls "follow" so they can make up big explanations about how they'd never settle, then turn off their brain and "go with it" if an attractive guy pursues them. Guys "lead" so crea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:16 AM
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Best interpretation, this sounds like you went looking for social guidance on how a long term marriage relationship should go. How it should feel, what's good about it, etc. But even solid red pill stuff doesn't provide this. The red pill is - for 80%+ of guys who read it - a list of things guy don't want to do, but girls make them do to sleep with them. Red pill forums used to discuss a lot how much they dislike how any sort of guidance or positive modelling of relationships has disappeared fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 AM
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You got that Big Slut vibe to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:31 PM
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Girls calling other girls "sluts" typically isn't related to any actual sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:37 PM
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This is absurd, nearly no one making these comments has actually seen parts they're commenting on. It's an insult based on the only way to disprove it would be to far more publicly embarrass yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:36 PM
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These terms always oversimplify things. I noticed in my parents generation the pattern for married couples was that they were mildly supportive of what was important to the other and stayed out the way if the main thing that was important. So typically if the man interfered with his wife having a social life they were heading for divorce. And typically if the women interfered with his job, they were heading for divorce. The couple up the street were the most mild mannered people I've ever seen, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:01 AM
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Yeah I would say she's almost the definition of a disagreeable personality. Their perspective is she agrees with red pill, but her vibe to me is more like she's disagreeing with the female feminist narrative - like half it's her personality and half she's playing up the character. She kinda reminds me of female joe rogan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:30 AM
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Having femine emotional traits is huge for attractiveness in dating. However you define that. I think "submissive" was just pushed to make people argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:24 AM
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Eh, I think "submissive" was a deliberate mischaracterization to get people to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:16 AM
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Yeah it's a ton of work, work that often is totally wasted when she flakes, or no chemistry, or whatever. And as was discussed over and over anything resembling a formal date tends to lead to nothing. Try to create a feeling of emotion and casualness with someone you don't know is extremely difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:01 PM
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Honestly, I think it's just another sabotage narrative. Girls preferred pattern seems to be that things "just happen" with no one appearing to put any effort into making it happen. So by telling girls that he should be making an effort, she logically looks for guys doing things she's not attracted to, thus sabotaging her. You can kinda make sense of this by imaging a hunter/gatherer tribe, matings draw her towards guys who will naturally be around without trying after she gets pregnant and will …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:54 PM
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I have had many friends from both India and Southeast Asia, and their parents swear “It Works!” A lot if this stuff did work shen it had a supportive culture around it. Humans evolved to seek some validation from the people around them about their mating choices. If you've seen a girl go from bored apatgy to excited interest when ahe realizes you're not a stranger but friends with her friends, you know what I mean. Unfortunately it seems like modern technology and such has made this system no lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:01 AM
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Attractive as a word s supposed to encompass attributes other than just looks. I know it's common to oversimplify but that's not red pill, red pill was specifically focussed on impr8ving attractiveness in all areas esoecially not "just" looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:49 PM
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How would you know someone in real life is 100% for sure autistic? Even less likely, how would you know someone online is? I don't see how anyone would be able to conclusively prove one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:22 PM
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Come to think of it I think this is how we end up where we are. Autistic women's inability to read social cues means they default to primitive "he's attractive because he keeps coming after me" behavior. Like my most annoying pet peeve was girls playing "last man standing" where she sleeps with whoever stays out late at night the longest. I was losing for 1 reason - I had a job. The guys beating me for the girl, they didn't have jobs so they could stay out as long as they wanted. So some time la…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:50 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7721003/#:~:text=When%20a%20woman%20is%20younger,on%20the%20ovary%20and%20eggs. "When a woman is younger than 30, she has an 85% chance to conceive within 1 year. At the age of 30, there is a 75% chance to conceive in the first 12 months. This chance declines to 66% at the age of 35 and 44% at the age of 40. This is due to the effect of aging on the ovary and eggs. To put this another way, it sounds like 25% of people trying to conceive within a year …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:22 PM
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The couples with the most money and lowest divorce are college educated and get married older. I think this is inaccurately being spun as "they met at an older age", when usually, they started dating in their freshmen year of college. Then didn't get married until 10 years later. The age they technically got married at is not related to the age people in successful relationships started dating at, which is the piece of info we'd want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:19 PM
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I had posters here trying to gaslight that waiting until your 50's to have kids was fine, women get pregnant in their 50's regularly and no problem. I think lots of younger people are getting gaslit on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:06 PM
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You're trying to apply statistics from the 70's and 80's to modern day. They're out of date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:02 PM
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fear-monger You keep deceptively calling it fear mongering but it's a real logical issue. The older you get (past a certain age obviously) the less likely you'll meet someone you enjoy a long term relationship with. Sometimes they date someone else. Sometimes you become inflexible. Etc. It's not actually that this "doesn't effect men", it's that they're already acutely aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:56 PM
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Why aren’t men being told to fear “dying alone” and not having kids The difference is men already know this, whereas women: - don't seem to realize - also have feminists consciously gaslighting them about it "A woman's peak reproductive years are between the late teens and late 20s. "By age 30, fertility (the ability to get pregnant) starts to decline. "This decline happens faster once you reach your mid-30s. "By 45, fertility has declined so much that getting pregnant naturally is unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:17 PM
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Red Pill and Feninism are 2 sides if the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:20 PM
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Strawmanning is really boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:18 PM
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"A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:32 PM
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Men have to have feelings to have sex. Maybe not the feelings you were looking for but some sort of feelings. Women do not have that same requirement. Claiming men avoiding feelings is easier is completely backwards, women have an easier time avoiding feelings in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:58 PM
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Completely backwards. Men's physical sexual organs require being turned on. Womens do not. (It's overwhelmingly desirable for them to be but it's far less of a hard, physical requirement). The issue for complaining is women who believe the less he cares the hotter he is. The issue for average people who desire emotionality is: - western girls don't have the experience being emotional for other things so they're very bad at it - girls want to be lazy and have the guy do all the work then just see…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:41 PM
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Girls complain about this in real life, but typically it's far easier and lower effort. They just hung out and never did anything that risked embarrassment to their ego telling themselves if the guy liked them he'd make the move. At the same time multiple different guys were giving her some sort of attention so she's not focussed on 1 guy. If she does complain about this online she'll get attacked by the gender warfare crowd for not following the "dating is bad and everything is mens fault" narr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:10 PM
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Here's one where a female teacher sleeps with a 14 year old: https://nypost.com/2024/02/07/news/va-teacher-admits-to-sneaking-into-14-year-old-students-home-to-have-sex-in-his-bed/ Your reaction is the exact process I'm talking about - your ego is offended. In your mind this "never happens". So if someone surveyed you about if this does happen you'd respond "no, never!".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:47 AM
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Regardless of what a person “wants”, I’ve never known a woman to cheat who wasn’t basically done with the partner she was cheating on. ... Women do not have nearly the biological inclination towards pursuing sexual variety for its own sake the way men do. Arguably, this interpretation is backwards. The most novelty seeking women's desire for sexual variety is so strong she premptively tosses out current partners once they become predictable, just to free up the space for the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:41 PM
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But once again people pretend "studies" return data... When largely they're just survey questions that measure what people find socially acceptable to admit to. Lot of female teachers have been caught sleeping with male high school students, I find it more believeable women are attracted to both, but only admit attraction to one to themselves and on surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:47 PM
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I've said this before. Girl gets done with work on friday. Goes to the club to unwind, blows some Chad in the bathroom. Next Monday she interviews a guy who's a different guy, but exactly the same as Chad. She won't hire him. The male manager won't hire him either. The qualies that make him "hot" at the club somehow make him unhirable in corporate life. One side of a guys personality gets him laid. Another side of his personality gets him a job. If she ever saw his work personality she'd "get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:15 PM
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One common mating pattern for women is they sleep around without much thought beyond "is he hot". Then an external event pushes her to lock down with 1 guy. Pregancy, most commonly. This emotional event that causes her to switch into long term mode never happens so she just continues along on sleep-around mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:03 PM
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There's plenty of girls there's no risk of sexual dynamic happening with, but they don't make good friends. In retrospect I would say girls having trouble viewing guys as worthwile people unless they're attracted to the guy in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:02 AM
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This gets at that male friends will help out without sexual involvement. Women won't. Women need something sexual going on in order to help out with stuff. Guys have helped me move. Girls I'm dating have helped me move. Girls I'm just friends with tend to emote they'll be helpful then dissappear when help is needed. It's time for certain women to admit that if they're not sleeping with a guy, they have trouble being normal friends with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:55 AM
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Yeah I had female friends throughout high school and college. But if there's not a 3rd thing causing you to get together - school, work, a guy you're friends with inviting her because he's trying to get with her - girls viewing every social interaction as a power dynamic about who's winning always blows things up. My guys friends have helped me move. I've helped them move. At no point has a girl I'm not dating ever helped me move, and when I've sometimes helped them move half the time they make …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:28 AM
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"I'm a woman and I'm in danger!" get her attention. Not really deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:32 PM
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The issue usually happens that like the girl in the video, it becomes greedy and she thinks 100% of her stuff is hers and also 50% of his stuff is hers. It's kind of a question of how a persons mentality handles it. I have an emergency fund in case my job goes away, it makes me more relaxed about my job. For some people knowing they don't need to constantly be worried about what the other person is doing makes their relationship more stable. Not everyone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:44 PM
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It's sorta like if someone stranger who neither attractive or unnattractive walked up to you and said "nice boobs!". You like...want someone who talks about it to be either totally into it, or totally not, not just casual ambiguous conversation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:05 PM
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Eh...'The flame that burns Twice as bright burns half as long.' Relationships that need to constantly be high passionate don't last either. You need to be able to be comfortable around each other with nothing going on - at least sometimes - for the relationship to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:12 PM
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After social media you have a different problem - women are so emotionally stunted, they make make no choices at all. The "women choose bad boys" meme is from like...the 1960's and 1970's. It might be related to after effects of ww2 and such. Seriously. Absent fathers, dead fathers, fathers coming back traumatized. I've seen a lot more issues with "women choose boring non-dangerous psychopaths" in later decades which frustrating for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:38 AM
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Girls seem to have little problem falling for guys if some "3rd party or outside event" regularly brings them together. Girls who need to make any sort of logical plans to see the guy seem to jump into desperately hard-categorizing them into "friends only" or "sexual material" with no in between, one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:40 PM
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She's honestly just describing a man with no personality. no personality guy is not quirky no personality guy doesn't have personality traits that annoy her no personality can keep a clean house he simply never brings anything in Guys won't do this a lot of times because it would make them completely disfunction as an adult. Unable to get a job or hold a job, unable to engage in just surface level personality stuff that's necessary to interact with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:24 PM
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Women now have greater economic independence than they've ever had. This puts women in a stronger bargaining position w/respect to choosing a mate...Men will have to adapt if they want to participate. I think you have this backwards...it's women who aren't adapting. Men's "I see it I want it" adapts to any changing conditions. Women's complicated socially driven "I sit back and wait for a guy who's around all the time, without trying, and showing repeated interest in me. Also I pull in what othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:01 PM
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There's no accurate statistics on "attempts". Lot of these topics are deliberately misrepresented, but even if you make an honest go at it you have the same problem. 1 person who commits suicide can only be counted as 1 person. 1 person who "attempts" suicide 12 times can be counted as as many as 12 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:27 PM
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Those women were probably already having “duty” or “chore sex.” These are funny because perfectly defines how Negging works. Try to make the other person feel bad and inadequate, in a way that avoids them noticing that the source is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:52 AM
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Yeah these threads are always like "how can I gaslight you into believing the thing we were openly saying we'd do a few years ago - doesn't happen and doesn't exist?" Lysistrata (/laɪˈsɪstrətə/ or /ˌlɪsəˈstrɑːtə/; Attic Greek: Λυσιστράτη, Lysistrátē, "Army Disbander") is an ancient Greek comedy by Aristophanes, originally performed in classical Athens in 411 BC. It is a comic account of a woman's extraordinary mission to end the Peloponnesian War between Greek city states by denying all the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:48 AM
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a reward, not an intimate act shared by two people. "don't want to catch feelings" is the phrase girls use when they're sleeping with guys with no intimacy. It's a very common thing girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:27 AM
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Lol yeah I don't think that last part is proven. More like "sometimes better sometimes much worse". Whiskey dick is a phrase for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:47 AM
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Yeah the people I know who were assaulted or whatever the #1 factor outside of the other person, was always alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:24 PM
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The rich guy is getting married this year. He eventually gets his own place. I don't know as much with the other guys as some of them disappear from view. The only 1 I continue to get info on, they basically move out from the parents into a place with the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:55 PM
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Are you a bot? Again no relation to the actual comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:52 PM
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Women don’t want men who are living at home with their parents. I was kinda shocked to find out how this wasn't true, for women looking to play the field or whatever. The first guy I know simply had very wealthy parents and lived in a huge house, so, I gave that a pass as the inherent exception because of the display of resources. But other girls who were out sleeping around that I knew were doing so with guys who were living in average size single family homes. The difference seemed to be - the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:05 PM
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Is this is olympic-level Strawmanning? OP made a list said the average man would have "all" those things. Commenters pointed out the average man has "some" of those things, but finding all of them in one person is rare. You jumped in with a stadium size crane and dropped off an unrelated strawman claiming that we're talking about what women respond to. It's like we were playing tennis, and you showed up in a football jersey and tried to tackle the guy on the other side of the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:52 PM
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I don't think it's dead worldwide, it's in 1st world countries that it's dead. In 3rd world countries it's not at it's peak but it's notably above replacement levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:00 PM
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Genitals seemed to be designed to not look good. Even those greek statues minimize them. Kinda designed against aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:52 PM
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I mean I rarely talk about the positive sides of dating experience here, or the positive sides of (non-dating or romance) women. So I don't think you're going to get any sort of accurate impression of the overall oicture of what average guys think reading here...at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:22 PM
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autistic men Avoid mentioning autistic women? Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:09 PM
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and warn each other about I remember when my friend who actually did the "virgin in his 20's -> player with many women" thing was discovered how much easier things got when girls started saying he was a player and girls should stay away because of his player ways. It's the real life version of that reddit meme of "Oh god that's terrible! You better tell me where that's happening so I can avoid it! (wink) (wink) (wink)"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:28 PM
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most of the women commenting admitted to wanting to dump such a man upon finding out about his lack of experience While I agree this is absurd, this is consistent the online crowds always advises making the worst possible decision. "He's breathing? "That shows you should break up with him!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:30 AM
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The father is sharing emotions with his daughter, playing, talking, etc. On anything that gets near the topic of sex he viscerally reacts negatively - he doesn't want to share emotions on subjects of sex or romance with his daughter. It seems like men have a fear of their daughters not getting treated well or just a fear of something I think here we run into the issue that we evolved to live in tribes, the fathers brain is probably trained to default to the negative. "Boys = bad". If she was old…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:12 AM
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A woman who was pregnant with a mans child, but the man has no interest in sticking around, suddenly finds her value on marriage market to have dropped significantly. Also greatly increased strain on her parents now to provide for both her and the child, vs a lot less work if the father is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:11 AM
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Again...you move away from it. Women don't enjoy spending time around large groups of women who they have no social attachment to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:48 PM
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Women don't enjoy spending time around large groups of women who they have no social attachment to. I assume you know what I'm referring to...since you carefully worded your response to tangle away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:18 PM
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They have, many times. Women just aren't actually interested. Like you can convince them to go a few times via social propaganda but it only takes a few times and they find it's not fun and they lose interest and the whole thing shuts down. After the novelty wears off, women find they're about as interested in a dance of only other women that they have no other connection to as men are about a cubicle job - where they don't get paid - aka...not interested. I believe the last one they tried was w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:03 AM
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It's hard for those who have access to these environments (read: normies) to see those who don't This mistakes that a LOT of normie culture is putting on a facade, they have it easier, but they're pretending their 2 or 3 social scenes in 10 years were "happening all the time" as this big imagine management thing they do automatically. When I look back at my life, the main problem I had(still have) is an inconsistent social environment to meet single women. I manage several people, many of which …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:25 AM
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You're confusing what's going on. The point if these narratives is to sabotage women away from from feeling good about being sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:10 PM
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Your over reaction to my asking is more telling. I don't believe you "have" to be tall to date ever etc etc etc bla bla bla whatever. But these posters show up with an attitude like you see in infomercials "I bought these 3 stocks and now I'm a millionare!" towards dating. Some of them are just trolling, but a lot of the people who genuinely believe what they're saying turn out to be tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:01 PM
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Lol my ideology is simply that people who post this on reddit are like 4 out of 5 times following up with "I'm nothing special just 6'2...". In the red pill it's more about not trying to implement game or actions that won't work for you because they have some intrinsic quality you don't that means your game needs to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:33 AM
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6"2 to 6"4 If they're not running away when you pay actual attention to them it's possible something is different, but this is usually what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:25 AM
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Ok, so how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:14 AM
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And, the kind of girl you like? Likely also hates going to loud raucous places with people. In general girls don't go out by themselves they'll only go out with a group. The kind of more introverted girl doesn't go out to these places almost ever either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:43 PM
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When is sex bad according to women online? - when you are having it - when you aren't having it - when you're trying to have it Basically, no matter what you do, it's always wrong. Everywhere this narrative has gone you see crashing dating rates, crashing marriage rates, and crashing rates of having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:14 PM
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Lol I mean you're practically reflecting my own sentiment on it. But, we're stuck with what we're stuck with I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:17 PM
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You're goin a bit overboard here, though, no one would actually want to meet someone without having any idea what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:47 AM
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Gaussian curve... https://www.scribbr.de/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Standard-normal-distribution.webp If you're to nice women don't like you. If you're not nice enough women don't like you. The lie is that being nicer is always better. Anyone tried red pill philosophy in real life and overshot past the mark, has experienced that there's definitely a point where being an overly huge asshole / not nice / etc suddenly goes as badly as being to nice does. Girl loses interest, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:48 AM
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Yeah, the gaslighting pretending that women are approaching is really something. The only thing that's changed is it's all gotten more difficult. Men are still expected to approach. If someone pays it's the man. Men are still expected to be able to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:30 AM
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Agree with this part of it - the NATURAL process for courtship is slower, building, and more comfortable. Ever meet someone in a friend group - not think much of them at first, but gradually you notice little things, that build and build over time. this combined with getting to know the person creates a sense of comfort as well and vested interest - which naturally turn into a relationships. often times, if you had met this SAME person via social media drugged dating, you would of not had those …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:39 PM
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there is zero comparison in magnitude between the sexual deviance and degeneracy of women and that of men "In 2022, 24-year-old Shad Thyrion died during rough sex with a woman named Taylor Schabusiness while they were both high on crystal meth. During intercourse, Taylor strangled him to death, cut off his head, and removed his organs. When she was arrested she told police "they would have fun trying to find his organs." . Thyrion's severed head was discovered by his mother, Tara Pakanich, in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:28 AM
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In 2022, 24-year-old Shad Thyrion died during rough sex with a woman named Taylor Schabusiness while they were both high on crystal meth. During intercourse, Taylor strangled him to death, cut off his head, and removed his organs. When she was arrested she told police "they would have fun trying to find his organs." . Thyrion's severed head was discovered by his mother, Tara Pakanich, in a bucket in the basement of their family home in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Other severed body parts, including Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:26 AM
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These are all things that are euphemisms for: - a much smaller number of normal socialization opportunities. - the socialization you do have is with other people who are poorly socialized (most commonly they also grew up glued to a screen). - and yet there's a very high expectation for everyone's social skills. Like I remember in high school we'd get together and play nerdy card games in the commons during our free period. We came back the next year and the hysterical mother brigade had apparent…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:30 AM
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Most posts here fall under "Where's the nearest man and how can I blame him?" or "Long tirade that circles back to it being the it's somehow the victims fault that they've been victimized".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:20 AM
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Did you grow up in the US, or are past retirement age? I'm really seriously not trying to be rude - but the idea of doctors being sexual status symbols is a few decades out of date in the US. Nowadays doctors have overly clipped egos and horrific schedules. I know a surgeon because he married a female friend of mine from high school - his parents pressured him to get married and have kids (he's from asia) so he married her despite that she doesn't like sex. She's willing to have sex to kids but …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:50 AM
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Like the RP says- women would rather fuck the doctor than the janitor, even if the janitor is better looking. I hate to disagree but I don't think TRP says this. TRP goes somewhat the other way, really...wondering why the doctor has trouble getting laid when he's "supposed to" be at the top. From what I have seen, most of the people that studied the hardest in high school ended up going onto better things than the average person. Sure, but I didn't know anyone who was socially inept and did this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:04 AM
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Friend of mine said the amount of effort it took to go from D- grades to B grades, was less than the amount of effort it took to go from A- to A's. You know, put your energy where it has the best outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:02 AM
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It's possible that you may never talk to people from high school again, but for a lot of people - especially guys - their lifelong friends are the people they were friends with in high school. I can make friends with coworkers at a new job, but I've found once you no longer work there it's very difficult to keep that friendship going. High school friends are people you might not talk to for a year or two then start hanging out with again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:58 AM
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There's used to be a phrase about "letting down a ladder" or something to describe this. You're right that it's not something you "achieve" and that's it - but like if you put a child in an isolation room for years, they're going to be super messed up in their ability to socialize later in life. Your brain itself needs to develop a socialization baseline that moves out of the toddler stage where you know, you have no override of your emotions and just have a tantrum when something upsets you. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:13 AM
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I think they're responding to the way the "teenage sex hysteria" perpetually online crowd is pushing this. They're basically like "well if 20% of people didn't date in high school and went on to get married and be fine then our plan of jailing everyone who dates in high school is perfectly fine". Spending your the emotionally formative years for dating chaste and being told that sexual thoughts are bad, bad, bad is not a good way to go, but it is basically what that crowd is pushing. Why? I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:52 AM
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Don't pretend you can't read the thread above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:32 AM
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The same way they define it. If you take their idea of "hating women" and replace "women" with "men" and that's what they are posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:13 PM
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What does this say about the women who post here every week hating on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:07 AM
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It’s sad you’re barely getting engagement in this post. The community doesn’t want to practice game anymore. It’s extremely sad. In my opinion it's more that it's a pretty good post. So there's not much to debate on - most debate comments come from annoying responses. Either massively (deliberately?) misinterpretting what he's sayin. Or reacting by being disagreeable with no thought past that. Those aren't useful responses. You can even do it while approaching a girl who’s already talking to a g…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah, these threads are super depressing if you take them at face value. But they're always the posters self-projecting women's own insecurities - onto men. Basically she literally doesn't know how to interact with men in a datey way if there's not some 3rd thing in it for her. Since she doesn't have some excuse to be around guys while being like "oh no we're not dating I'm just doing (non-dating) thing over there" she feels lost and doesn't know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:45 AM
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Sounds like he was stuck in a "crabs in a bucket" group that trp used to talk about all the time. The craziest dynamic is that the more positive reactions I got, the more harshly everyone would criticize me.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 08:33 AM
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The implications are that they man is fine with having sex with a disinterested partner. Super gross, hence the OP. This would be the classic case of "where's the nearest man and how can I blame him for what the women is 50%+ part of?".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:44 PM
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You could literally graph how close I was to having sex (when I was younger) based on where I was living. Living with parents? Flirting. Living with a roomate? Making out. My own place? Sex. A man isn't simple "attractive" or "unnattractive" since women are passive and men have to be aggressive "but in an effective way" things can get much easier if the thing that was tripping you up before was - not having a car, not having a place, not having the independence to take some risks about how you b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:22 PM
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To play devil's advocate, I know a few people that simply got married because they were "supposed to". Their lives are a lot easier. Lot less drama. Since neither of them cares that much about it it's basically a friendly roomate situation. Housework not being done? They just hire a housekeeper. She wants to sign the kids up for something? No big deal. He wants to go on trips with friends without her? Not a problem. Looks very calm and easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:58 PM
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We were all suprised to find that dating one girl somehow caused other girls to be more interested. Something your vibe, the way you act, or gossip causes them to like you more. This isn't necessarily true when the girl starys looking for a long term relationship, but, girls are told it would be bad to settle down so a lot of them go for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:44 PM
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If you say so. As a guy there's definitely vibe chemistry etc, the "dead fish" thing is a complaint for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:04 AM
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That's not exactly true. A lot if men don't like "the plastics" and are uninterested in actually trying to sleep with them. You kinda got this backwards, really the reason is that men don't talk and think about these complex things because the anatomy of their equipment takes care of the problrm for them. Men are physically incapable of having sex with someone they're completely unnatracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:58 AM
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Weird, yes. Not a hard and fast requirement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:52 AM
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Yeah sexual drive is mating drive. Mating leads to children. The "safety" rationalization is about that this person matches her attraction cues thus if there's a baby it's genetics come from an attractive father, for whatever her brain decides is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:48 AM
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Your tag being "38m Virgin" is pretty amusing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:48 AM
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I mean from a red pill perspective... Preselection: from having an ex-wife and a kid Outcome Independent: no longer looking for vakidation from one soecfic woman I respectfully listened to my TRP friends, and said no to it. You said no to the "taking it to far" path. There used non-stop discission about how some people were failing to make it past the anger phase so they were sorta failing at trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:48 AM
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I have a friend who's perfected a "system" whereby he gets girls left right and center, and has tons of sex. He dislikes women and sees it as transactional. He's miserable. So choose your goals carefully. I would actually agree with this point, a lot of the Chad players I've know learn to play the game women want but it's like having a job but you loathe working at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:24 AM
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Lol, back to victim blaming for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:26 PM
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People here tell us that we're wrong and average guys get laid easily. But do they? Naw, it's just gaslighting. I'm not really in the "only top tier men" camp in my experience it's more luck, access, and being a guy who doesn't care to much about anything but still shows up over and over again. Modern modern women are largeky lacking in feminine qualities so it's difficult to keep your interest level up enough to fit into this mold, which is part of singleness problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:15 PM
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TLDR: everywhere I can look it seems all the average guys are getting laid. Yet your post has absolutely 0 of these elements in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:49 PM
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I think this is a cycle. 1. Women obsessed with men who are emotionally absent or keep coming after them no matter the obstacles. Part of this is that women are lazy and sitting back and waiting for the guy to make it happen is the lowest effort route possible. 2. At some point it dawns on them that men like this just want sex then they disappear. 3. Their ego-protecting phrase to avoid any blame on their side is "used for sex". From their point of view if you remove the blame aspect it's logica…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:24 PM
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High age consent is typical of countries that aren't producing enough children to maintain their population. Low age of consent is typical of countries with a healthy population growth rate and plenty of people who get married and have kids. The ensless obsession on this topic is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:07 AM
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There's something very off about her maybe that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:29 AM
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Absurdo reductum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:56 AM
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No, it doesn't matter, these are just excuses they came up with to cover up bad advice. Your body didn't evolve to squat up and down with 2x or 3x yourbodyweight on your shoulders. The slightest thing being "off" will eventually lead to injury and something small being a little "off" is the norm. I could go on about what I learned afterwards but it's long to right out. "Injuries" covers minor stuff that heals up in a week, to major stuff that never heals, it's not all one or the other. From what…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:30 AM
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since height alone doesn't generate sexual attraction Definitely do not agree with this. It's not the only thing that generates sexual attraction but it seems to generate some sexual attraction by itself. It's a cute face or good boobs on a girl, girls get laid without it, but that doesn't change that it's sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:19 AM
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It's a nice speech, but keep in mind that the potential for injury is there and it's much worse if you follow trendy fitness advice. Everything they suggest you do in the basic lifting industry (squats, deadlifts) is high risk low reward. I waste away so much time on reddit because I made the mistake of trying some of this advice and f***ked up my leg. In retrospect it's pretty obvious that carrying my own bodyweight on my back with squats was risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:52 AM
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They could invent a sci-fi personal shield and transporter that ensures 100% safety and how they act wouldn't change at all. Thay's not the root of why they do it. The origin of the behavior comes from growing up with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:53 PM
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This obviously operates on a continuum, just take a look at some of their standards. "The guy needs to message me first, then we'll exchange multiple email messages, then we'll share snapchats, then we'll meet in person but I won't sleep with him until the 4th date at minimum..." But when she meets someone in person they don't do any of this and it's no problem. So obviously, some of her standards aren't actually an issue and lowering or removing them won't cause a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:50 AM
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Anusing flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:58 PM
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Ok but "may have" is like "up to"...language used to sensationalize while 'technically' not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:16 PM
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Kinda outta touch, you know where babies come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:42 AM
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Look at the age ranges. 0-15: not on the internet commenting on this (basically). 15-30: dating age. 30+: largely already in a relationship or given up. 15 years of people in dating-new-people age range. 50 years of people in the "dating new people is threatening" age range. There's deliberate political and social engineering things about it as well. Then also you don't know who you're talking to, lot of the things said here are the same thing my sex-hostile grandma would say, but with her you i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:56 PM
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'Fully Developed' is just spin on 'Past the peak and declining'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:09 PM
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Now, there’s some truth to our brains not being fully developed until we are 25 From sports... "...author Claudia Kalb made this claim in 1999: "Muscle mass peaks at age 25 and then decreases by about 4 percent per decade until the age of 50, when it drops by about 10 percent every 10 years." 'Fully Developed' is a spin on 'the point where decline sets in'...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:53 AM
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Younger men who are not physically attractive need to improve themselves and build themselves up so they can attract women they desire instead of having to accept what they don't want. Ok, here's what I found at that point: - 50% of the girls I was interested in are now off the market and unavailable. - 50% of the girls now add in unstated demands that you have the same or more dating experience that they do, they are not willing to go back through the trials and tribulations of being new at dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:19 PM
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It's because on dating/sexual strategy employ is sabotaging their competition. Lot of these posters are older married women (then younger women talked into saying what the older married women want them to say) who are playing "pull the ladder up behind them" in sabotaging everyone else's dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:29 PM
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Sounds like you acted as a father figure Sex is what creates babies. The idea that being a good parent disqualifies you from dating is very odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:24 PM
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Sex creates babies. Saying that displaying parental characteristics is bad is a sign of people with disfunctional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:15 PM
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Sex Drive is Mating Drive. Sex is what creates babies and children. Girls from a resource-starved background - either money or social relationships - have instincts that say "do not have sex with someone who cannot afford to raise a child". as a 19 year old We're starting into the "everyone younger than me having sex is bad" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:08 PM
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All that link said is that women are married more often after 29. That doesn't mean anything when many girls are off the market at 19 with who they're dating and just don't technically get married until their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:54 AM
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Completely backwards, they talk about all the great things men have done in response to the narrative obsessively repeating any bad thing any man has done ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:27 PM
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I explained the thought process that took me a while to figure it out. It's a ridiculous thought process, your description of it being "correlation fallacy" is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:22 AM
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She spent her entire life practicing habits of sabotaged. She just dropped it for a brief period of time, got married, then went back to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:32 PM
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.any time I read a comments about a male who was in an age gap…the answers are almost always the same…I had so much fun,they loved being with an experienced woman,taught me a lot…almost always something positive about the age gap relationship Before reddit became targeted by political/social engineering groups, you used to hear these stories from women. After that targeting any women/girl saying these things would be downvotes and harassed until they stopped posting about it. It's not a natural …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:27 PM
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In my experience they're often more using a process to "sabotage their competition". Last girl I knew who said stuff like this found and married a rich surgeon, then used that to avoid actually taking the bar exam to work as a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:54 PM
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1: This is my theory but I think women are often attracted to the guys that are hard to get and are a challenge. 2: High status guys are hard to get, ergo guys who are hard to get are high status. It's not a declaration of how it "should" be it's a description of what is happening, something that seemed obvious that it's flawed thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:43 PM
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It's amusing you think this is a rebutal, rather than what it is - you catching on to precisely what I was pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:23 PM
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I mean...with the kind of women who post on twox, the entire process is a trap. Demand men start interacting with women at work. The women use this to capture a (work) relationships with the men who are: - sexually attractive, or - - corporate-politics-useful Then the men who don't fall into these 2 categories are discarded - if you're lucky they just push back and stop talking to you leaving you with nothing for your efforts. If you're unlucky they destroy you with sexual harassment accusations…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:39 PM
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They're entitled to not be misled and manipulated. The man or the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:17 PM
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They're complaining that men only ever talk to women if they think there's a chance they could fuck them. Which is exactly what this post is about, that they feel entitled to male company and friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:56 PM
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High status guys are hard to get, ergo guys who are hard to get are high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:54 AM
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This is my favorite humorous comment: "First three points; do not get married, avoid family creation, vasectomy in your 20s. "You seem to have a lot in common with modern feminists. "Switched sides, Rollo?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:50 AM
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Ya ya keep pushing this thing where women try to trick men into being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:39 AM
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This narrative is precisely what I mean, this modern myth doesn't match the actual behavior. In todays world you can think "oh yeah daughters just wouldn't leave the house!" because you can be entertained without leaving your house. Back in the day you'd go absolutely insane trying trap daughters in the house with absolutely nothing to do for years on end. You'd end up encouraging them to go out just for your own mental sanity - whether you're the mother or the father. You'd go social stuff or y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:48 AM
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If anything, men had even less access to women in the past due to stricter standards concerning women, rural life, and stricter dating standards. You've been sold an inaccurate view of history. My grandmother would say the same mean things about sex and dating that you read here. But, then the weekend would come and should wouldn't want my father sitting at home all weekend so she'd shoo him out of the house. "Those teenagers are only having sex because (outside forces) are tricking them into it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:48 AM
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That's not really how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:50 PM
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They're literally just copy-pasting memes about women and changing the word to men. Another day, another reason why women are too irrational to be in charge of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:28 PM
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27% and 35% of men also stated in two seperate studies examining whether they would rape a woman if... Cigarrette companies claimed studies proved smoking is good for your health. Same thing, or in it's clearer form "making things up for an agenda".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:08 PM
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lol oh phone keyboards...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:49 AM
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The other poster said it always means "I don't want to tell you the real reason". I find that oversimplification innaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:47 AM
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Being in touch with your emotions simply means that you are able to describe your feelings and understand what is causing them. Nitpicking a bit, but you listed out 2 separate things: 1. Awareness of what you are feeling (your conscious brain can be unaware of the emotions, bizarrely). 2. Rationalizing what caused those emotions to happen. I'd have to search around for it but the 2nd one is apparently a completely seperate process in the brain from the emotions being generated. Like the rational…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:04 AM
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The point of deception is to act in a manner that copies someone who's honest. Someone looking to rob you says "help me, I've broken my keg!". Also someine who did break their leg and desperately needs help says the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:26 PM
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The theory is that people use different "thinking systems" in the brain for mating behavior. Men use this thinking system towards their job/career, women use it towards which men they choose to mate with.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 06:33 AM
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C'mon, it's as honest as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:16 AM
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They don't really know, it just suddenly catches their attention. It's why the red pill says to ber relatively upfront with your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:14 AM
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"My husband spends 60-80 hours each week at work and that's awful!" "I have a career and spend 60-80 hours each week at work and that's female rights and empowerment!" You'd have to describe which rights you're talking about because a lot of these seem like punishment wrapped up to sound like they're a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:48 AM
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A lot of women's sexuality is reactive, their brain doesn't evaluate our attractiveness until you initiate something with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:03 AM
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Yeah in women being happy is an attractive quality. It's not 100% but it's commonly seen as an attractive trait when women are smiling, happy, etc. It's possible it's the other way...a result of less attractive men settle for less attractive (unhappy) women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:58 AM
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This applies more to the way men act in jobs. When they're younger they have a lot of energy and chase excitement, when they get older they're more likely to want stability.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 10:25 PM
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I think some of these girls are relationship-testing you. Either girls have gotten more paranoid after covid and they're not as trusting, or you've gotten a bit older and girls are less interested in quick hookups. Eventually most players I've known either date someone exclusively for a while, or they stop dating for longer periods 'cause it's just to annoying.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 07:04 AM
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When women talk about having some good experiences with these things, a group of posters shows up to attack them and silence them about it. In the real world it's a mix of good, neutral, bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:21 AM
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The story seems kinda made up. 1. Go to a public coffee shop with lots of people. 2. Bring a book. 3. Repeatedly look at someone sitting in front of me. This isn't a story of "wanting me time". That story is one where I go home because that's a place I go if I don't want others interupting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:16 AM
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I mean, it doesn’t play out in congress…? Marjorie specifically spent last week (month? dunno) going on and on about the laptop pics that are constantly posted on twitter. Then someone had a fit about how they're obsene and shouldn't be shown publicly in congress. When biden said something that turned out to be very popular the comeback was that the politics of it came "organically from accounts on twitter". When boris johnson resigned he gave a speech about how "twitter isn't real life"...which…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:51 AM
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Then why do we see the narratives that show up on reddit/twitter being played out in congress?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:05 PM
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In real life, I find it's like a lot of things with women where they've been trained to believe "doing the thing" is wrong if it's noticed, but they still want to do it. So you say "do you like high status men?" and they so "oh no definitely not". But then you say "Do you think that guy on stage in front of everyone is sexier than he would be if he was by himself somewhere else?" and they're like "yeah, definitely". Online is it's whole 'nother thing, like an inverse disagreeable opposite versio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:35 AM
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Humans involved in hunter/gatherer tribes. Most of the time the people around you knew your whole life. My suspicion is that social status become a secondary draw for women to judge men in things they couldn't judge them in themselves - things other men would need to judge, like hunting ability or whatever that women didn't participate in. Maybe the fact that you no longer know most of the people around you very long causes women to massively overcompensate on status seeking. They're basically a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:01 AM
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Be neurotypical: the NT brain does not have to THINK about social interaction - it is as involuntary as breathing. Not really how it works. Neurotypicals do it by copying each other. Then by faking appearances (+50%). They use a different part of the brain to process it...that's not at all the same as them instantly getting it without having to think about it. They have to be exposed to patterns several times to pick it up, they have trouble modifying those patterns because they aren't aware of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:55 AM
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making her think all you want is sex If your initial problem is that women think you're to friendly - this isn't worth even considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:20 AM
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You're definitely right that this is one way it's used. But I mean, it's a deliberate political topic which is meant to make people argue. No one would use "nice guy" vs "Nice Guy" for 2 button that were important to be able to tell apart. Like, it's intention is to cause people to take different interpretations and argue over it. I think what you wrote is probably the "calmest" very good interpretation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:50 PM
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You're spot on, but it's not just Chad. 2 people are an equal match, girl likes the guy, what is her most aggressive move? She friends him and waits for him to wait a move. Being a nice guy is shamed because you're acting like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:22 PM
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Yeah, I mean there's a few different angles. You can say when she's younger - she's looking for attention and gets it via sex appeal and sex. When she's older - she's still looking for attention and gets it via sex, but now it's sexual accusations.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 08:23 PM
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I'm not as much talking about it in real life (it does happen but only sometimes), but on reddit it's a constant. I am getting at your point though - someone believes there's something to be gained by all-negative comments on men. If only negative things are said about you, wouldn't you after a while not want to hear it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:13 AM
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But why do men get so offended when women talk about their own negative experiences and fears? Why is it that every time a woman says something positive about men and flirting - another woman shows up to attack her it? I've never seen a man say something positive about women, then have other men attack him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:56 AM
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Thanks for posting this. This gets at the issue. When commit crimes everyone realizes it's a crime. If you can prove it it's jail. Lot of times when women do their equivalents there's no punishment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:28 AM
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That doesn't tell the whole story, the ones with very high rates may just be adjusting to normal levels. If life expectency goes up birth rates tend to go down. What's consistent is that developed countries are below replacement rates, while undeveloped/less developed countries are mostly above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:23 AM
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Psychological self-projection. She's trying to control him - so she accuses him of trying to control her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:39 AM
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Not true, maybe you misunderstood something. https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.DYN.TFRT.IN You need 2.1/person. 4.6 - afghanistan 6.0 - central african republic 2.8 - mongolia It specifically developed countries that are below 2.1.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:33 AM
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This is really it isn't it? I read all these texts happened 2 years ago - she heard he had a baby with the new person he's dating and turned into the evil ex girlfriend stereotype trying to destroy him out of spite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:13 AM
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That's not enough if she was deliberately trying to pass as older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:57 AM
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Her photos are gorgeous and most from far away. Are these the photos he actually got upset about? The kind of girl who publishes private texts is definitely the kind of girl who deletes the risque photos before doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:28 AM
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You say that like it's men, when it's older women pushing the the age of consent to be 23 and whatnot. You might be missing the dynamic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:15 AM
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This chick made it clear that she was getting some on the side with randoms/fWbs. This guy walked into it eyes wide open. If this is true, then what is she complaining about. That her main side fling went with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:13 AM
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You seem to be missing the he was much younger himself when this supposedly happened. Also lot of times she pretended to be older to get into the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:10 AM
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His minor mistake is misunderstanding what he'll want to do later. Her major mistake is getting together with someone who will never meet half of her criteria of being at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:22 PM
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If you want to get really red pill about it, this demonstrates why dating women over the age of 25 is a bad idea. They're often bitter and angry trying to do anything they can to blame others to avoid admitting to themselves that they've gotten older and can't draw the attention they could when they were younger.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:21 PM
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He started off with the wrong girl, yes, but you're going to make mistakes in judging the character of girl because they're hot. She hits the wall - for normal women, this causes them to try to lock down the guy they're with. But she's more bpd, more manly, so she doubles down. Or maybe she doesn't like him that much. Whatever it is she pursues empty validation harder. Parties harder, posts more on social media, posts with more guys and hotter guys, spends more time with random men. He tried to …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 08:12 PM
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You're right, they're playing the blameshift game. Minor mistake is made by the man. Major mistake is made by the woman. Shift all the blame onto him. She's playing "capture the alpha and tame him". She's upset because taming him isn't working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:11 PM
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It's the opposite of projection. Men start off thinking this isn't true, and would prefer it isn't. It's only after a while of experience that you change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:16 PM
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They aren't even thinking about their children. It's a question of what forms/triggers emotions like desire, etc. Food doesn't taste better or worse because of what I logically think about it's nutritional value, but nutritional value does determine partly whether it tastes good or not. One issue with evolutionary theories is that they're sometimes so out of date they're completely backwards. Like "last man standing" is a pattern where a girl goes around flirting (often in a bar) and simply slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:47 PM
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Women sexually select for attributes that are useful but they don't have themselves? Being bigger fundamentally makes you better equipped for violence without even trying. It's an enormous advantage without trying or training. Might be why shorter guys can gain more benefits from getting super ripped. Taller guys doing the same thing sometimes backfires - he goes from "mess with us and I'm going to mess you up" into "my mere presence invites challenges and threat that doesn't exist when I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:35 PM
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I honestly think it's something about US culture - just US culture from the last 20 years - that causes this. You gotta realize pointedly friendzoning a guy - which I define as using his sexual interest in her to keep him around without actually having sex with him - doesn't make a ton of sense if the girl has other social options. It's sort of an act of desperation by american women because they lack other ways to make friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:21 PM
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You mention you live somewhere else, where do you live? The social estrangement in the US, I think, is part of what leads to this. I've known a few guys who basically just hung around girls until the girl dated him. But, he was pretty upfront about his interest in her to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:55 PM
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Around me, all the women who treat men like tools have the most success in dating Yeah guys prefer girls who engage over girls to sit trying to make themselves as tiny and unnoticed and unnattractive as possible. For sure. The meek, shy, virgin, no makeup kind of girls never score. Completely agree with you, this is not a successful approach. It's always the over the top narcissistic ones. To be faiiiiiiir...the thing about the over the top narcissists is they're very loud about what they're doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:46 PM
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This is the world feminist politics has created though - by villifying everything normal the only place you can read about it is in places that overlap with crazies. Something something something "revolutionary act to tell the truth".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:37 PM
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But if you want a HVM at all cost then having strong girl-game and being cunning and socially savvy are better than whatever TRP says. I don't think TRP really says this. Some people confuse TRP with tradcon advice, and some tradcons try to push their mentality in trp forums, but for the most part tradcons give the same advice to men to stay to themselves, never take an risks or offend anyone, and it generally doesn't work at all. I agree with your premise - being a wallflower who never does any…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:36 PM
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This seems like it's once again deliberately confusing traditional conservative advice, with TRP advice. Yesterday in response to "What dating advice would you give to women?" I wrote: The one I see the most (girl failure) is the girl who's already cute, but keeps treating invites from guys as her lowest priority, then acts shocked that things never go anywhere. I'm like - if you think the guy is interesting, be more agreeable to going to whatever he invites you to. I honestly agree with you - g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:29 PM
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have choices Which has moved them into analysis paralasis from to many choices that cannot all be fulfilled by one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:58 AM
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I have no interest in a girl who as no attraction to me, but the dating market seems to have turned into a parallel of job searching where there's a lot of unnecessary hoops to jump through that have no correlation with actual job performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:36 AM
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I remember when reddit used to have women here and there who would say positive things about men and sex. Then a crowd of posters showed who would attack them - downvoting, nasty comments, etc. This appearance is manipulated. It's not accurate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:25 AM
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If they really actually meant it they wouldn't be here arguing with men about it. I don't like watching baseball, you know how much time I spend in baseball forums telling people their sport is boring and it sucks? 0 time. Like 1 in 1,000 or 10k comments might reference it and that's it. They're just shit-testing. "A worthwhile man wouldn't actually believe these words I'm saying and would come after me anyways until I gave in" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:23 AM
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Or you have the opposite end of the spectrum, where a woman's turn-on's include a level of ego, aggression, and dominance from a man - where his reaching that level would make it nearly impossible for him to survive in modern society. I realize it's video game characters but it's hard to find these archetypes in tv or movies: https://i.ytimg.com/vi/ATKcWw7r4iQ/maxresdefault.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:11 AM
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There's another, different take, that some women seem to be permanently stuck in an emotionally immature mode that's to immature to reach the point of dating. I can't find a better picture, there's a video game character that sort of encapsulates a woman who's "stuck in baby mode" - https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/villains/images/f/f1/Lady_Kronika.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20190520000035 I'm not sure how/if you can mature someone past that once they're an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:09 AM
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Paradox Of Choice Imagine that you need milk, so you go to the grocery store to pick some up. When you get to the dairy aisle you see that there are dozens of options. These days, not only do you have to make a decision on the percentage of fat you want (1%, 2%, skim, etc.), but also what source you want your milk to be coming from: cows, almonds, soybeans, oats…the list goes on. Almost dumbfounded, you stand in front of the aisle and have no idea what milk to pick. There are so many choices tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:48 AM
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There's so many different girl backgrounds that have very different problems. The one I see the most is the girl who's already cute, but keeps treating invites from guys as her lowest priority, then acts shocked that things never go anywhere. I'm like - if you think the guy is interesting, be more agreeable to going to whatever he invites you to. Dunno, I just see this a bunch of times. Seems like she's repeating the toddler stage where daddy says "do you want to go to the park?" a bunch of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:21 AM
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Frankly I feel you're not being cynical enough. I've found it very necessary to develop low-effort niceness to survive in the corporate world. If you walk in and everyone thinks you're an asshole it's hard to get the job or keep the job. It's almost like a game of who can come across as the nicest, but with the least amount of effort or cost to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/23 12:56 AM
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To this day they are in the same boring toxic relationships, tearing off their hairs about their man-child boyfriends. But they have the same boyfriend/husband though? Lot of people don't understand that women complain about boyfriends like guys complain about work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:50 AM
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Anyway, I think average guys struggle, but a lot has to do with environment. If you are in an environment where you meet & interact with enough new people then you probably will find some who are compatible occasionally, eventually. This is spot on, the biggest struggle is that this is the natural environment but it's hard to find it nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:15 PM
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Women don’t need men anymore for the money like they used to. I honestly think is part of what leaves average women a bit lost. The "sex for resources" model is pretty ingrained, because sex drive is mating drive, and it takes resources to raise children. Another way to put it would be "hedging your bets" where women would hang around a guy because he has stuff and then if sex happens it does...or it doesn't...but it provides like a secondary excuse to interact be around each other that isn't fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:03 PM
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You don’t know it’s not reality. I've literally been in girls "looook how much fun we're all having!" group pictures, while the people there at the time are going "this entire experience was a huge mistake" and miserable. Not every pic on social media is secretly miserable behind the scenes but if you have friends groups after a while you'll see that people are posting because they're not having fun and and trying to pretend they are. When they're actually having fun the tendency is to stay in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:47 PM
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Most people who post the joyous parts of their lives on Instagram on social media are actually very fulfilled in all aspects of their lives hahaha, yeah, definitely not. This isn't even about dating, you can literally run a line for more mental issues -> more online posting. Whenever people I know settle down and seem happy in person they disappear from social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:39 PM
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I mean this is the appeal of asian women in my exoerience. They like you being positive emotional. If they don't like some expressed emotion they're more likely to not care rather than see it as unnattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:30 PM
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Uh-hu
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:08 PM
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Can't come up with a real counterpoint I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:14 PM
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Changing topics to 5 other things (some of which aren't true) doesn't refute the point you're avoiding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:01 PM
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Yeah, I've said many times dating and job interviewing has a lot of weirdly strong parallels. The absolute obsession with getting people who are already dating someone / already working at a job...then acting surprised when they leave you for the next shinier job/person a bit later, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:00 PM
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Not really surprised to get a "opposite of how everything is" response from JadedButWicked I guess. It's your claim that "you can earn wealth better than anytime in human history" that's simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:33 PM
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You are spot-on in your assessment. Develop social skills? Best developed in a social group with people of similar ages and experience. Dating skills? As a guy your age or somewhat younger. Dating pool? This is the last large group of girls who are single for innocuous reasons (their age). After this it becomes more and more of "they're single for a reason" situation. Sometimes those reasons aren't so serious and sometimes they are. Social Skills Idiots claim you don't need social skills for a j…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 06:26 PM
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Not even close to true. Buy $1,000 worth of amazon stock 25 years ago would make you a millionare today. There's nothing comparable nowadays. I'm not engaging in whether it's good or bad today, but it's certainly not the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:09 PM
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That's some serious trolling. Giving bluepill mom advice of "don't worry about girls, just study hard and come along their own". Don't think I've seen someone commit this hard to trolling the forum with old bluepill stuff for a while.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 08:17 AM
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Dumb. Particularly in c.s. - use your college environment to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/23 02:28 AM
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What will get you is that the average women expects you to be thinking about sex all the time. It's like a requirement from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:46 PM
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That's just 1 trick they pulled, I'm sure the entire thing is carefully massaged to conclude whatever the people who paid them want it to conclude. It has no correlation to reality, it might as well say "study concludes women who have cooties all got it from men".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:27 PM
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It says it right in the article. It's simply propaganda, redefining the term "poverty" to cover 50% of the entire population is obviously manipulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:42 PM
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Studies basically find whatever the people who paid for the study want them to find. Sometimes they tell you the tricks they used. Being in poverty was defined as having an equivalised household income below 50% of the median across the country. 11.6% - poverty per goverment definition. 50% - point they chose for agenda/ad/propaganda purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:53 AM
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They don't detect it until it is too late. They did not put attention because they did not expect it, so they don't catch it the looks or seduction. Right...if you have the opportunity to see how it works with the successful people - the people with looks, socialization, successful - it takes them 2-5 times to catch on as well. And that's the fastest rate. Then another factor is people learn by watching the people around them go through. You need to be part of a social group to see it for yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:01 PM
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Not the other poster but things changed severely in corporate around 2015 or so in regards to the work environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:32 AM
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I mean the modern definition of "autism" is often simply someone socially unaware or undeveloped. If yu become well socialized you'll find there's a huge amount of expectation that you won't immediately act or even express your own reaction. A lot of "autism" in my opinion is overuse of thos system - or not having the environment to develop the reactions (you're expected to mask) in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:20 AM
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May be I am understanding things wrong. You're talking to people with an abonormally high level of disgust, their brain's first response is to apply disgust to everything by default. I could do the same thing if I took every girl who had some unappealing attribute and assigned "ugly and disgusting" by default. Like this month I was walking through a hotel lobby. I saw this group of girls who were dressed up for some sort of dance or something. They "vibe" in this uptight way I don't like. I coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:43 AM
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There's some sort of direct link between how women act in dating vs how men act in middle management positions. Manager -> We have HUGE standards for hiring and require honestly? Why did half the people we hired turn out to be lying? Why did the other half leave for a better paying job in a year or two? Women -> Ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:38 AM
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They wouldn't, I wonder if they took "men being afraid women will claim to be on birth control but really be trying to trick them into pregnancy" and just reversed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:18 AM
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Men regularly lie to women and encourage them to have babies when they have no intention of sticking around. You can tell this is an absurdity post right here. People in the US - where you have genetic testing - and child support - are not doing this. The system was changed in a way that economically strangles anyone who gets even close to doing this - like 50 years ago? A long time ago today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:44 AM
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That's actually spot on. The married women here are playing "trick the fisherman". The analogy is a little off because when she was younger she wanted to be "caught"...but now that she's married/older the only game that's interesting to play online is the sabotage one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:30 AM
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Please, by all means, tell me of a period where women were disparaged less than men. Trump Biden Obama George Bush Andrew Jackson Christopher Columbus . Literally all of history is men being disparaged. Litetally reading a history book is a collection of stories disparaging men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:10 AM
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The married women are playing "sabotage everyone else" online. They aren't playing the game that got them married or kept a husband interested in them in online forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:04 AM
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It's always something how it always goes back to that women are never mature enough to have any responsibility in their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:55 AM
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Yeah, I mean, OP's phrasing is unfortunately possible. Like you have one group of crass people who enjoy rough language then the next group is uptight and you make a mistake and the wrong thing. But on the other hand, they have no way of know if this is the 5th time he's done this and they're like "it's not to much to ask that employees don't say vulgar words to customers". I mean I wouldn't keep on a female employee that made daily jokes about making fake rape accusations against men either. No…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/23 06:23 AM
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Yeah I mean you need to at minimum feel like you're better than a version of yourself from 2 years ago (at a task you're new at). Imagine you spend 2 years learning something from scratch and you're no better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:37 AM
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It's not surprising that in online dating women go for shallow superficial characteristics because those are the only reliable things you can tell over the internet. Frankly in my experience there's a somewhat inverse relationship between how people sound online and how they are in person, with nice people in person being a bit awkward online, and people who are really smooth online being much worse people in person. This opinion is only sometimes related to dating, it's been my experience with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:06 AM
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I’m Wondering why is it so important above other qualities such as looks or personality. Why something so external. Sexual attraction is Mating instincts. Have a kid with a high status man and you have a high status kid. These instincts mostly come from hunter/gather times and sometimes are outdated or even backwards when applied in todays world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:56 AM
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Does it really make sense that one set of boobs my brain loves and another it doesn't? What real thing does that relate to. Does it make sense my mind likes one rear end as super sexy, but another not at all? What real thing does that relate to. These things just evolved such that people attracted to certain things had successful children (that's where babies come from) and people attracted to things that proved negative long term failed evolution. So now we have things we're attracted to and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:36 AM
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“I have a boyfriend” I will just say that from a red pill perspective, this one dramatically increases your odds of "sticking your dick in crazy".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:26 AM
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Matthew 6:24 No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon. What I see when education and career reach a level of being someone's "god" (it's a metaphor don't take it overly seriously) they have to choose one or the other. And it's not hard to understand that women choose the mpre reliable long term option. "But, doesn't this affect men as well? It depends if his career ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:15 AM
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And this is precisely why you're single! Listening to someone when they are upset and open up to you is called basic empathy Lol stop trolling, the reason so many women have an "emotional tampon" spot open on their roster is that none of their female friends want to be in that spot either. It's a spot no reasonable person wants to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:46 AM
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Bro, I don’t normally use the “friendzone” term, but what you’re describing is more like the cuckzone. I’d be happy to make more female friends, but being their emotional tampon while they whinge about how Chad treats them sounds insufferable to me. How the fuck did you construe this as a win for us? This is absolutely true. Women's female friends don't want to be in this spot either, you're making the same judgement call all their girl-friends also already made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:40 AM
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How annoyed are you that men keep showing off their hot air balloon skills? Also there is something more annoying that that, it's having to tediously second-guess every...single..interaction...with any vaguely attractive girl wondering if she's into you but not saying anything. It's exhausting. But something women require you to do, carefully avoid acting like they like you until they're sure you're into them first. I get you not liking the results of that, it's not fun on the guy side either th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:36 PM
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But most young women aren't interested in older men They only complain about things that are true, but they don't like. Sometimes it's commonly true, sometimes it's edge cases, but they're not spending their time shaming men for things that don't actually work. "Men are always using their hot air balloon skills to nail all the ladies!" is not a narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:58 PM
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"People say they're being gaslit, but they don't know what they're talking about. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:44 PM
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but she will disregard the good ones and say “all men are selfish” or “all men are sex obsessed” There used to be postets on reddit that would say good things about men. I remember there was a specific point where another group showed up and would attack, insult, downvote, etc the postets who did that until they stopped posting. The destructive personalities make a point of ruining it for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:02 PM
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injustice, but toward women In reality these places go one of two ways: the women are happier, less depressed, less psych meds, etc, or - it is a shitshow but it's one for both the men and the women There's nowhere where the average man is having a great life and the average women's life is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:07 AM
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This is a more interesting thread than the usual ranty stuff. But also....this is definitely incorrect. I've had several experiences that showed a lot of times it's jealousy over not getting attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:39 AM
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So you rephrased the bad advice? Women are incredibly attuned to what you think of yourself. It literally makes you dramatically less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:11 PM
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Because of how the physucal stuff works, men have to be a little but turned on to make it happen, while women don't. It's not an overall statement that they always do or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:16 AM
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Where else as a guy in modern society can you do this as a man and be rewarded, rather than punished for it? You walk into a job interview. You need to imply you have a degree. But you're not allowed to state it directly. You need to imply you have the experience they're looking for. But you're not allowed to state it directly. You need to imply that you'll show up on monday 2 days from now. But they won't tell you directly you just guess. If you guess wrong they'll call the cops on your for tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:25 AM
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We see more and more women getting caught having sex with teen boys. The way every one of these political narratives go, they spend a ton of time complaining that men are doing something, then women start doing the things more and more themselves until they surpass the men in it. April 14, 2023 - At least 6 female teachers arrested for sexual misconduct with students over two days across US Sometimes genuine biological differences stop them from surpassing men in whatever so we'd have to see how…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:21 PM
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This post here tried to equate Leo continuously dating 18-19 year old women and dumping them when they reach a certain age to Olivia Wilde dating a man in his mid 20s who had a career of his own. The two scenarios are obviously very different. They seem to be exactly the same scenario...as this claim fudges leo's girlfriends actual ages. ...the average age of his girlfriends is 22.9...DiCaprio's youngest girlfriend, supermodel Gisele Bündchen, was 18 when they started dating in '99, though they …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:46 PM
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There are actually studies that show that the brain becomes fully developed at 25. So it's not totally arbitrary In sports, the point of peak performance means that afterwards it starts a decline. "At ages 33 and 35, respectively, Curry and James were at an age where most NBA players are considered to be past their basketball peak. In general, research shows that (basketball) players tend to peak around the age of 27 or 28...when veteran players have been in the league for many years and begin t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:31 PM
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A woman's peak reproductive years are between the late teens and late 20s. By age 30, fertility (the ability to get pregnant) starts to decline. This decline happens faster once you reach your mid-30s. By 45, fertility has declined so much that getting pregnant naturally is unlikely. Down syndrome is the most common genetic problem that occurs with later childbearing. The risk of having a pregnancy affected by Down syndrome is - 1 in 1,250 at age 20 - 1 in 1,000 at age 25 - 1 in 714 at age 30 - …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:23 PM
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Things don't work that way so much any more. When you do in-person things, everyone can roughly see your age, and it's awkward to push yourself into age groups dramatically different than your own. Online there's no such deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:54 PM
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They understand perfectly well, you don't see them campaigning against men who show off their amazing nunchuck skills, because they know younger-them didn't care about nunchuck skills. They only campaign against things they know are true - and were exciting to themselves when they were younger. That's the draw for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:04 PM
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How often do people say they're going to switch jobs but they don't? A lot. Or move houses? I know someone who spent 20 years saying they're going to sell and move next year but never actually do. The mindset you're describing is akin to someone who's really hungry and grocery shopping. Everything they see that looks remotely good they want to buy. But go to the store when you just ate, and the appeal to buy everything in sight is gone. If you have decent sex regularly. the average person loses …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:43 PM
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I forgot the part where I asked. Bold of you to brag that you don't know how a forum works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:37 AM
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"partner" is overdone but..."cooks and cleans" is kind of a boomer meme, even in my generation we didn't care so I imagine younger they get they don't care at all. Honestly think it's: - feminine physical qualities - feminine emotional qualities - has something to do with their free time that doesn't involve obsessing over the guy or flirting with other people - literally anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:59 AM
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Sex drive is Mating drive. In our past of hunter gatherer tribes carrying a spear out hunting. The point where a man reached the point of being able to support children was - when he stopped "learning" and hunted and acted out of habit. This is the basic level of attractiveness, giving off queues that you are successful in ways that correlate with creating successful children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:38 AM
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Some of the guys who post pics seem to think that they have 3/4 things going for them in looks, 1 things that's off - not ugly just not great - and that means they're ugly. I can appreciate that it's an ego protection thing for how awful online dating is. But I don't think it's quite the problem they make it out to be. On the other and there's a few guys who post a pic and I'm like "well I see your point" so...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:13 AM
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The people initiating stuff say it went well by default. The people following along say it went poorly if it didn't meet their expectations. Men will be like "I only got off once in 3 times" and say it was worth it, women will be like "I only got off once in 3 times" and say they regretted 2 of them. They had the same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:01 AM
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That's not how surveys work. People respond with whatever makes their ego feel good. Women believe they're not "supposed" to enjoy one night stands? They'll say they regret them. Men believe they're "supposed" to love one nights stands? They'll say everything was great. Their response is about what makes their ego feel good, often with no self reflection on what actually happened. there's no benefit to lying Surveys have no reward for facing your insecurities and being honest, nor do they have p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:49 AM
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What do you think women are actually doing? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5DXb8qBUeAM im just talking about causally mentioning how you see a therapist or that you’ve battled the blues or have adhd or something - not in a pitiful way but an honest and matter of fact way if the discussion is hovering over that territory. Unfortunately even this seems to be a turnoff on some deeper level for many women in my experience. More precisely you can almost see the flames of desire flicker out in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:20 AM
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In job interviews, I've been lied to many times by the people interviewing. Sometimes direct verbal lies. Sometimes lies-by-strong-implication. I actually saw someone get hired then be pushed into working under a totally different manager than they expected to and had interviewed with. The majority of people I've interviewed with in my field are men. Seems like the dynamic is very similar for asking women what they want in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:51 AM
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"nice guy" is shaming of men for acting like women. A girl likes a guy, what is your average girls most aggressive action? Being friends with him. Hanging out with him. Seeing if he makes a move. "nice guy" means "man acting like a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:41 AM
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There doesn’t exist a “nice guy” contemporary for women really. The point of the term is to shame men for acting like women. A girl like a guy - the most aggressive she gets? Hangs out with him as friends waiting for him to make a move on her. It's shaming men for acting like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:30 AM
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Friends mom asking everyones names when you went over to someones house sounds familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:49 AM
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These subs are usually filled with bored married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:04 AM
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I think what causes this is that girls like this didn't have the emotional happy childhood, their emotions kinda got crushed, so now she's out there trying to impose what's in her head onto everyone else. If she has the power to implement it this is what objectification actually is, is the man is supposed to be a money-collecting-object who just works and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:22 AM
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Switching the topic to gaslight on a second topic? Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:17 AM
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it's not because they actually like it It's a mix of both, claiming that no women doing onlyfans like it is a bit absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:40 PM
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C'mon how far are we going to take the gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:05 PM
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I've said this before, 80%+ of the red pill is things men don't want to do but women require them to do in order to sleep with them. It's like soneone reads a car manual and goes "Oil changes? Tire rotation? I don't want to do all this b.s.!" and then gets mad at the person who wrote the manual. If ypur issue is that you're strongly towards being asexual so you don't understand the appeal of dating, the red pill is definitely not going to help you. The assumption is that you already desire a car…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:27 PM
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One of the things that surprised me in the discussions on PPD is how many men there are obsessed with female sexual purity and virginity. I'm from Central Europe and it's hard for me to understand There was a strong feminist narrative in the US that told girls that they could just sleep around with unnattached sex in their younger years, then when they got older they would be ready for a "real relationship". This is something of a counter narrative to that. Whether that itself was a counter-narr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:09 AM
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I remember in high school though, the issue was I'd try to flirt with a girl I didn't know but classes with or whatever and you'd get the "I'm almost willing to hang out with you" kind of stuff that was tedious and it would usually go nowhere. But you flirt with a girl and she realizes you're part of a group of friends that seem interesting, and suddenly she asked when ya'll are going to hang out and everything. Dunno, it's weird to think we're trying apply sexual instincts that developed in hun…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:22 AM
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These are always rather ridiculous where you recast "here's why this happened" as "a personal attack on me". Guys are perfectly aware that a guy with no jaw is absolutely not attractive, regardless of other qualities. Sorry, but sex drive is mating drive, and our ancestors who suceeded avoided others with genetic defects. I would definitely assume she is settling for him...but your comments don't make any sense. I'm sure he's grateful for her attention. If I had a serious genetic defect like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:02 AM
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Those people dropped the dating market because there is no demand for them, staying in the market would not make any difference for them or the market as they are overlooked anyway. I don't agree at all, a lot of times the market itself is toxic, causing both genders to stop engaging in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:57 AM
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but unless you're some kind of mgtow you understand "bye we're breaking up" isn't as simple as it sounds You asked for advice - You don't have to break up with someone to move away. You tell them - you have a chance to get out and earn money and you want to take it. I say this as advice...the issue you run into is your brain forms a pattern modelling your parents where they're older married and have a kid. But you're not. Your brain is fooled into thinking you'll be rewarded by this girl. Seriou…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/23 02:41 AM
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I definitely have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:33 PM
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How old was your now-wife when you started dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:21 PM
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People who are ignored or unwelcomed tend not to go out to highly social places.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:26 PM
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On another level women's mating attraction system evaluates men based on seeing them working and whether they match the patterns they associate with successful men. (That doesn't mean top of the pile it just means a level of competence capable of raising a child). Blue collar men are still doing physical things that you can see. When collar men are doing virtual things that you can't see. Women's brain can't evaluate whether they're smart and accomplished or whether they're total failures barely…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:36 PM
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Sex Drive is mating drive. One of the signs in hunter/gatherer times that a male has gotten old enough to support kids is that he's reached a point where he's not learning anything new. He's learned to hunt, he's learned to farm, etc - when you reach a point where you're not learning anything new and you're just doing things on repeat the brain starts using a different area that's more efficient at repetitive tasks. So girls evolve to feel attraction to a guy in that state. Someone who has matur…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:24 PM
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I'm sure it's many factors, but the fact that they're going after blue collar women is going to be one of them. Girls from blue collar backgrounds will come over because they're bored. Girls from middle class and up backgrounds with run away because they like you. Which one is going to have difficulties in dating is...not hard to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:14 PM
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sexism...rampant in Stem In other fields people have the spare brain cycles, and regular exposure to the opposite sex, to always treat men and women differently. Sexism is much more prevalant, and women prefer it that way, they're comfortable being treated as women not men. In STEM the guys often try to treat women just like they treat men and it freaks women out to be treated like they're men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:13 AM
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My theory is that though Tribal Chad Thundercock would nail a lot of different women, societies would curtail his ways by forcing him to provide resources for the children and raise the children. I mean you got 4 toddlers, you gotta feed 4 toddlers, and 4 baby mommas, you're just to exhausted to be impregnating any more women. In modern times the equivalent is child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:53 AM
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Like would I be friends with someone who constantly gets in shootouts with Police? Hell, no. Dangerous for me just to be associated with them and I don't learn anything useful. But let's say I have a boss who's kind of a dick. He's a jerk to several coworkers, then one day fires someone for no reason at all. Would I be friends with the kind of person who pulls something off the bosses car in the parking lot, then the car slowly rolls down the parking lot and into the river behind us? Yes, defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:44 PM
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Before we all get up in arms, I've actually noticed that some of these tactics work equally well on men for friendships. The dynamic for both is that people often want to find others for doing things they aren't doing themselves. They might look for people with skills they don't have, or they might look for people to take risks they don't want to take themselves. My new approach is just being a fucking bad ass. As a guy, I get one of two things: 1. I watch and learn you doing it successfully 2. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:34 PM
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I think in all the countries in the world men are murder victims dramatically more often than women except...like, 4 of them? There's only this very tiny number of countries where the rate is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:50 AM
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There's another different thing as well. Sex is how babies are made. There's a fear from hunter/gatherer days in women's heads of getting pregnant with a failure child. Lot of the "fear" you hear is women's instincts kicking in on that level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:47 AM
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The Boy Who Cried Wolf the boy calls "Wolf! Wolf! WOOOOOOOOLF!" sometimes - because there's a wolf. And sometimes, because he's bored and wants attention. Similar thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:15 AM
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Playing "nothing you do is ever good enough" is their game, that they don't like being on the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:43 AM
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Have said this several times before, 80%-90% of red pill stuff, is stuff guys don't want to do, but women require them to do to sleep with them. When they've made dating anyone you actually know off limits, cold approach is your only real option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:14 AM
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I searched around, but paid advice is just as bad. Everything seems to revolve around sales and ego expansion - you're hiring someone for an hour, so the script is "work harder, work more often, always more". You can read interviews with people like boris sheiko who has trained people that win serious weightlifting competitions, and he said: There are bunch of "coaches"...now just get above the masters class stuff so basically like what will be considered raw elite here. They get their first cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:30 AM
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the average male can be socialized to truly carry 50% of the overall domestic burden? Can the average woman, be socialized to be attracted to, a man who's personality would actually do this? You know what though, scratch that, in reality these seem to be boomer memes. I don't know a single couple who this has been a problem around my age. I'm not young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:15 PM
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Obviously, The people who are perceived as not being able to fight back are targetted. The people who are genuinely dangerous, nothing is said about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:14 PM
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I decided to try working out via online stuff. There was something a little off about my leg. Doing heavy workouts - I managed to make it much worse and fuck my leg up much worse. I'll tell you, a girls attraction to you take a nosedive when you stand up to walk over and kinda hobble over. I'd have to write a whole page to describe how awful most online fitness advice is - only place worse for advice than political subs are fitness subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:28 AM
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I remember discussing with someone who had read research on it, that there are social parts of the brain that only activate and turn on when you're in-person. Wish I had asked them what they were reading or what it was called.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:10 AM
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I see tons of young couples every day How do you know they're couples? I found a strange thing where who appeared to be strangers were sometimes dating, and people who appeared to be dating were not dating at all. edit: Funny enough I'm not the first person to think this 1 month old account is a propaganda account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:05 AM
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You're feeling angry and want to push someone around to feel powerful. Who do you post about. This guy? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Urkel#/media/File:Steve_Urkel.jpg Or this guy? https://www.ctvnews.ca/content/dam/ctvnews/en/images/2023/4/25/oscar-solis-jr--1-6371369-1682468410521.png
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:08 AM
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It's not women's *most important* consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:01 PM
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Women don't befriend dudes and pretend for months years that their intentions are platonic. Not accurate, I had 2 of them. The first one I was interested in but I was both to blue pill and got unlucky so it never went anywhere. Friend of mine had a similar experience, he got into game because the girl disappeared and popped up later married to someone. After he become a successful player for a while he looked back and realized that in girl terms she clearly liked him but he was to bluepilled to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:19 AM
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I mean...the other 50% of women chose 1 person and dating other people is over for them. It's equally frustrating but not for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:14 AM
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Self-projection is always the root of these narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:13 AM
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It's literally just shaming men for acting like women. "Hanging around waiting for something to happen" is the most aggressive girls typically are towards guys they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:51 AM
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Conflict: 1. Like you 2. Hate you Stable: 1. Like you 2. Neutral (Nothing) 3. Hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:42 AM
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The kind of women who come on the show, are the same kind of women you're arguing with here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:29 AM
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From a woman's perspective (where safety is usually the most important consideration) This isn't real, it's just a narrative. the only one of the two options that makes sense is the one where the woman approaches a guy first whenever she feels comfortable. They've tried to get women to make the first move, and women just aren't going to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:26 AM
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Lots of these things have exuasted in very small amounts forever, but modern social isolation dramatically increases their prevelance. A girl with multiple social opportunities have little motivation to put all this effort into friendzoning you. Whereas, a girl with no friends has a ton of energy to put into it because of a lack of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:32 PM
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Disney movie structure is nearly the definition of red pill. There's the alpha male - the prince There's the attractive girl after him The girl uses a number of beta male characters to get with the prince The beta males are depicted as cute little non-sexual beings so the movie stay emotionally easy to follow. Forest animals, dwarves, sea creatures, talking clocks - you don't feel bad because she doesn't give up on the prince to date the talking clock because you know, dating a talking clock wou…
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 10:04 AM
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Woman evolved to see their sons as their social security payment, basically. You think it's the husband but that's to risky - if he disappears for any reason she has no one to take care of her in old age. And let's forget about his choosing to leave, men in primitive times could disappear because they died from an animal they were hunting taking them out, from predator attacks, being killed in warfare, disease, way to risky in the environment we evolved in for your whole future to be dependent o…
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 10:01 AM
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It's genetic whether some or all of your hair follicles develop a sensitivity to testosterone as you get older. Some peoples hair never does, others does early in life.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:19 AM
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Last I heard your hair follicles change and become poisoned by testosterone as you age. Like the ones on top of your head have this pattern, but then the ones one the side just stay the same and don't develop the sensitivity, so you lose the hair on your head and keep the hair on the sides. That's how hair transplant surgery works - they take hair from the sides that doesn't have this issue and move it to the top. Why we developed this seems a mystery.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:42 AM
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In disney movies their's nearly always a cast of beta male characters who propel the female character into the relationship with the rich prince, with absolutely nothing gained for themselves. What exactly do the dwarves get out of all that drama with snow white? She doesn't marry any of them. She doesn't come back and go "hey guys, guess what? you should meet all my female dwarf friends I made now that I live at the castle". In other variations of the story some of the dwarves end up dead in th…
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:35 AM
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lol what an absurd claim
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:24 AM
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If you're not planning on committing crimes how does it affect anyone? Have you heard about the Whittimer case debacle? https://www.thecentersquare.com/michigan/defense-whitmer-kidnapping-plot-deteriorating-as-fbi-loses-credibility/article_259eef16-6e57-11ec-8aaf-977cb278be6d.html The former lead FBI agent credited with foiling the plot, Richard Trask, was arrested on a domestic violence charge after allegedly smashing his wife’s head into a desk after leaving a swinger sex party and was later f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:23 AM
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Would you like to gain some insight into misogynist terrorism? Might help you realise a few things Wow, that whole thing says to me the exact opposite of what you're saying. The worst person linked to in there had a wife, who was around went he went on his spree. He sounds like a nightmare person but he had absolutely no incel stuff. The rest of the list is a tiny number of guys compared to any overall list who have multiple possible factors, but like look at the first guy. Overly attached to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:43 AM
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Perhaps avoid reading the history of Rome. They just kept on electin's leaders and nothing every changed...nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:29 AM
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When the internet become popular they were more upfront about the fact that the women commenting are often older, married women. I think that's still mostly who's making these posts. They have a lot of free time, and a mindset geared entirely towards sabotage of others.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 06:18 AM
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If you run around saying people who are 5'9 1/2" tall are killers, you'll eventually find some cases where that's true, that if you want to you can pretend it was a causal factor. Feminists opening salvo was to try to slap "incel" or "hates women" onto every shooting and they had like...1 incel in like 5 years or something? It's literally lower than the rate you'd expect if random people were being chosen. Van person was in canada I think? They're so sparse you have to pull in people from other …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:17 AM
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I agree, you see them make the same copy-paste manipulative responses from a small script.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 06:13 AM
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Not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:55 AM
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That's a non-reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:05 AM
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they’re on the radar because followers of that ideology have been known to commit violence in the name of the ideology This seems to be just leftwing propaganda based on persecuting men because don't meet womens sexual preferences. The handful of demographic groups that commit most of the shootings are somehow "off limits" to discuss, but the people who commit fewer shootings than their proportion of the overall population are somehow pushed absurdly as the real danger. Seems more like any group…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:45 AM
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Historically powerful men try to create harems and keep other men away from their harem. Is the impulse to do this the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:31 AM
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This is despite any actual evidence of it, and more like twin factors of persecuting men based on womens sexual preferences and powerful men desiring to sabotage any potential competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:31 AM
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So you're saying you're a looksmaxing chad, you're a bad boy on the run from the law?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:27 AM
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A quick and graceful way to exit that would be, "Nothing really, Just wanted to say that you are pretty." Pause 1 sec "Have a good nigt, OK?' and leave. Not needed if she doesn't engage Exactly...basic social skills with people you don't already know. The next funny thing was watching that some girls would take until like the 3rd one, then it would suddenly dawn on them that in order to meet guys (the reason they came out) they should say something positive back. They're just sorta clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:26 AM
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Yeah, I know 2 guys who dated and ended up married after going through PUA stuff. Most of the time the girls they met were out looking for a guy, but even worse at doing it than the guy was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:12 AM
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No. He's saying women know who they've slept with. That's how you get pregnant. Talking about ovulation is a deflection. This is it, yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:12 PM
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So you're saying sex causes amnesia...leading her to forgetting the other guys she slept with...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:47 AM
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OP is going to sleep with them while the men are away in the woods of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:09 AM
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It is wild how you guys think female anatomy and pregnancy functions. Are you saying women need to be asleep to get pregnant? Because that's not my understanding of women's anatomy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:06 AM
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70% of his audience - hate watchers 25% of his audience - bored watchers 5% of his audience - people actually interested in what he says
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:44 AM
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I said the same thing in another comment, this also seems to be what happens to feminist personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:05 AM
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Then somewhere along the way - the calm , level headed , logical Sneako went down the RP lane. Isn't this what happens to everyone who launches themselves into either: - politics - online celebrity I've often said the red pill is men's version of feminism and feminist posters always either disappear or become radicalized as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:03 AM
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I really think dramatically more people on the left watch him than the right. I mean they're hate-watching him, but nonelesstheless. His whole vibe feels more like the kind of shows women watch - daytime soaps, jerry spring type trash talk shows, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:01 AM
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traditionalism, rejecting modernity and keeping the status quo You know who rejected all these things? The Nazi's. Under the claim that any correlation proves it for all of them, maybe they just didn't want to be nazi's. keeping the status quo This is particularly rediculous though, the red pill is definitely not about keeping the status quo, at least not for you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:57 PM
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You know I think there's a funny thing with commenting online, where like peoples brain process is still thinking about the previous comment when they're reading the new one. I think I meant to write this comment mostly on a previous comment not yours. Sorry. Bit out of place here. I do think there's another factor in this of these narratives trying to actively sabotage people though. "Women never need to make the slightest effort" is rather sabotage - I don't meant this is particularly your pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:45 PM
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Yawn, and we're back to "there's 2 people but it's 100% the mens fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:53 PM
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All my friends with girlfriends are with girls in their league or maybe .5 point above and below (myself included) You seem to be be carefully avoiding friends without girlfriends. Or...is does your friend group form specifically around having a girlfriend? When I talk to women they're often like "I know lots of guys in relationships" but then it turns out they moment their relationship got serious they dropped all their single guy friends, so of course the handful of guys they still know are on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:17 PM
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What a lame lazy response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:06 AM
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I've said before that 80% to 90% of red pill tactics are: - things that women insist that men must do in order to find them sexy - that the average man does not want to do There's 2 people in this scenario - both the man and the woman. You're doing "how can we blame-shift all of this to the man"? But for the average man he's asking - why women are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:03 AM
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Several times I've watched drunk women blatantly try to get guys to physically fight each other because they wanted to see it. On a level less involving bars and alcohol, it's more about requiring men to act like sociopaths on some level in order to date. The entire feminist narrative revolves around telling men that they should never do anything to date a woman - but then just excepting that "worthwhile" men will ignore them and do it anyways. "You know what's hot? When a man I've never met bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:37 AM
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Or are we talking about the gender warfare version of "women" and "men"? I remember when reddit would periodically have women saying positive things about guys. Then one day this crowd showed up and starting attacking any positive things said about men online. Downvoting, direct insults, or the classic "demand they explain themselves until they're exhausted". Many people believe these new posters were a lot of politically funded groups who do gender warfar as some sort of deliberate political we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:07 AM
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Hmm. "In fact, on the national average, a female parent is granted around 65% of custody time, whereas a male parent receives around 35%."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:44 AM
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The 50% of my friends who got married and seem happy with it don't take part in any of these gender warfare back and forths. Their wives don't seem to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:09 AM
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Well that has nothing to do with what I wrote but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:26 AM
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I had girls claim this stuff in real life, so I asked them to tell me who was flirting with me in a dance scene. I went over and talked to people I didn't know. It was always the same, within 2-3 interactions she'd start getting anxious and fearful and not want to do it any more. Girl I remember specifically she admitted it was absolutely terrifying and she had no idea what girls she didn't already know's signals looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:51 PM
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I suppose I wouldn't expect anything other than wrong answers from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:16 PM
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If that's usually the first message it's probably working enough of the time to be worth using.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:52 PM
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Would the average man or woman date either of the Idiocracy "smart" characters? https://youtu.be/sP2tUW0HDHA I don't know how to define the difference between the "smart is very sexy" girls...vs the "ok you're smart, that is not attractive" types.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:17 AM
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homes, cars, luxuries, etc until they die. Boomer statement if there ever was one. Wish it was the 60's and 70's as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:54 PM
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To own a woman means to totalize her psyche. But in this scenario, wouldn't the social response be to force the guy into a lifelong monogamous relationship with her...wouldn't this be the Shotgun Wedding model of relationships? Like once you sleep with 1 girl you're stick with or her father or someone will blow your brains out.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/23 08:41 PM
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Random people on Reddit have 0 institutional power. Institutions wouldn't have invested so much into turning reddit into a propaganda platform that it is if that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:17 AM
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The stories of what some of these women have been through, that they're telling specifically in order to warn other women, are hair raising. /r/nosleep/ has lots of horrific stories to. I enjoy the one titled "If Missing Livestock Returns, Kill It Immediately" involving some sort of devil-infested cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:53 AM
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In my opinion the #1 cause of ending a relationship but still being on good terms - like actual genuine good terms - is a lack of attraction. In my experience you have the cause and effect a bit backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:13 AM
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One of the impressions i get from a lot of dudes, is that they don’t really seem to like women, they don’t seem to enjoy their company, value their dreams and aspirations, they seem to think that women are stupid, boring and not funny. Are you talking about actual real life people? 'cause in general men I meet who have this opinion are doing pretty well dating and sex-wise. I've known a ton of guys who like women, enjoy their company, and value their dreams and aspirations. They're either perpet…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:56 AM
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Lol, this is such rubbish. Look at the women who go online to these subs to bitch and moan about men. Why do you think they do this? It's because they have nothing else interesting that other women want to hear about. Bitching about men is the only thing they have to bond with each other over. It's not because "men" did something wrong it's because they nothing else to talk about with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:05 AM
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Back in the day reddit had quite a few women posting positive stories about men. It was when reddit became obviously overrun by political stuff that groups of posters would show up any time a woman posted anything positive about men, and attack her for it. Saying nasty things, downvoting, reporting for whatever they could think of, endlessly arguing with her until she got the message that saying anything positive about men would get her attacked. I don't think you're understanding how manipulate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:12 PM
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They're saying there's not a normal social environment to go to. Try to talk to total strangers who will by default reject you because you're approaching them randomly in public is pretty much the most abrasive way to uh "socialize". Arguably you may be better off keeping to yourself rather than enduring the social scars from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:54 AM
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They are still sitting alone at home, playing video games and being angry at women and Chads. This is like saying people in antartica are just sitting inside on the computer, and everything would be the same if they lived in hawaii...not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:29 AM
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Huh? Did you mean to reply to a different comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:21 PM
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"sex" is what men say. "relationship" is what women say. This is just a difference of which word they be feel is socially acceptable to use. I mean, it seems like people are getting what they want? This would be a claim that large numbers of young women are looking for a sexless relationship. Seems a bit absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:22 AM
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I'm at minute 12 and they finally realized the guy being interviewed had a fancy mic, but it was broken, and he just realized it. Just seems kind of...funnily prophetic about the whole topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:55 AM
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I don’t understand why others get upset over other peoples boundaries...You wouldn’t change how you operate for a stranger so why are you expecting strangers to do that for you? I can think of no other place where someone I've never met in person, would expect that we spend hours texting. The closest is sales people, and they're always trying to get you to come in in person. I'm not aware of anywhere where people spend large amounts of time texting with complete strangers, that would map over to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:53 AM
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The average age for for IVF is 35 Lol yeah? I'm sure it is, as she's reaching the physical biology end of her ability to have a child, so needs IVF before the window is completely gone. if someone wants to focus on her education/career...or wait until she’s in a more financially stable position to raise a kid This is absolutely a problem that is a problem with the system, not something to be blamed on either gender. Some jobs are so complex you're reaching ages where things become biologically d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:49 AM
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On this sub, you have a bunch of 20-something guys complaining about how hard it is to get girls their age. Here you have a bunch of 30-something guys saying they would never date a woman older than her 20s. The sub is full of women who push that men who are single should never date or they're terrible people who will die. Then turn around and try to gaslight you into believing women can get pregnant and have kids in older age, and that no matter the age there's always a line of single attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:37 AM
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Pregancy is physically taxing on the body. If men disappeared and women had to have 1 baby during their lifetime via artificial insemination, you'd see them doing it pre-30 as well, as the body is much better at recovering from the physically taxing task of creating and popping out and entire child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:54 AM
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This is just the gaslighting thing. Genitals are in general, all gross, if you're looking at them or using them with anyone you're turned off by. This is the same thing as when girls try to gaslighting you with "girls don't poop".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:27 AM
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I'm saying basically every woman has at some point in her life had a discussion with another woman with no men around. About how they can't believe how gross vaginas are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:10 AM
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I can't see what you're doing if you're legit, and not just asking like a snarky kingergardener. Are you saying you don't understand that some things women prefer to discuss only with other women, when no men are around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:16 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:10 AM
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I remember when I was in high school someone got a d&d group going at school. Being a young idiot, I did some dumb thing where I jumped up and broke a ceiling tile. Then even dumber I apologized to the teacher who let us do it which caused the whole thing to get shut down. One day my dad tells me a story about his youth, they were bored as hell, so someone got a superman costume and went to a neighboring town and did a enactment where they pretended to rob the bar (but the people running the bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:50 AM
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Possibly closeted homosexuality based off some of the “vaginas are disgusting” posts I’ve seen. Lmao, this is real funny...this is a topic of conversation almost all women have had with each other when dudes weren't around. It could be a sign of someone who lacks sexual instincts, like a child calling something gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:36 AM
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Also, your average woman has shit awful social skills and nobody cares. This is part of the problem that I see, smartphones have made women's social skills even worse. They revert entirely to their base instincts of "do whatever I think the other girls are doing" which of course leads them to all sleeping with a smaller and smaller group of guys. Or, no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:29 AM
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Not really, a lot of incels are afraid of talking to women. I always find this statement annoying. Feminism has spent the last decade dedicated to making men afraid of talking to women. What useful point are you getting at. There's definitely real reasons for that fear, and they've made more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:27 AM
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Hate to be rude, but I don't think a guy like (this)... I think video is extremely illustrative of what's going on. There's a pattern for men back-in-the-day where if you ever surpass your father, it triggers something that gets you kicked out of the house. Women's pattern is the opposite - women tend to make you dependent on them to some extent so that you can't leave. So he's raised like he's a girl, and here he's doing girl things. Putting himself on display. Publicly moral signalling his all…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:46 AM
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In my opinion, most of the misandry you see online belittling men is just from salty women trying to get the tall hot garbage I think it's majority older women. I think there's at tribal-times game of older women carrying heavy influence on who their daughters are allowed to get together with. The prosocial impressive skilled hunting guy - yes, push the daughter that way. The "everyone he gets close to ends up dead or abandoned" guy - daughter should stay the f away from. But all we see that's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:20 PM
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"Have you tried blaming men, for my own behavior when I was a younger woman? Everything is men's fault. Where are some vulnerable young men I can sabotage their lovelife by telling them they should NEVER do - what the men I found attractive were doing".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:00 PM
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It's less that they never have to learn and more that hotness is so in demand that all the good hot women who want relationships just get into relationships within a month of deciding they need one and stay there...then the crazy ones who want relationships go on to have lots and lots of dates and ONS and short term relationships spreading their craziness round. This is very spot on, trying to take a scientific approach to any of these topics as an individual gets into into this problem. The 50%…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:58 AM
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I mean this lists it out perfectly. It’s a common experience for women, certainly in my age bracket, to date men who are usually very stoic with their emotions Women date men who are stoic with their emotions, as that's what they find attractive. but when they become really upset it comes out in 1. Yelling 2. Swearing at their partner 3. Property damage 4. And in extreme cases physical violence. I’ve experienced 1-3 and it’s scary. Attractive men made a woman upset, so - Fwiw I think it’s likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:15 PM
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Sigh, did you catch it though? Life for me and my husband got a lot better when we stopped trying to read each other’s mind, stopped assuming the other was playing games, and started communicating our honest needs like grown adults. She got married doing all these things - trying to read each other minds, assuming the other was playing games, didn't communicate their honest needs. When she was actually single, this pattern of behavior is what did it for her. The issue for the beta dudes is they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:14 AM
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It's always self-projection. Women are less emotionally skilled than ever. They're more socially stunted than ever, probably as a result of social media + society enforced social isolation + your job is your husband now. More narcissistic than ever. So they go "oh we'll tell men it's their fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:33 AM
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Yes that’s a different matter. It's the same thing but it's a different discussion. My thought is that at 30 men have figured things out and no longer operate like they were when women weren’t feeling them. You hit 30 and suddenly you're expected to act like you're in charge of something and have everything figured out. When you are younger women are attracted to this and often requires this of you. When you get older your employer starts doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:18 AM
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It’s a little more mysterious why grown men (30plus) get sucked into it with such fervor. When women hit the wall at 30 (would be more accurate to call it the ceiling but whatever) they start realizing their "lazily wait for guys to nail them" strategy isn't going to keep working as they get older. Basically the same thing happens to guys with their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:57 AM
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I'm sure you know what I'm getting at if you're this carefully skating around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:26 AM
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Point is that going to work is not at all risk free. Men's jobs are noteabley more likely to be risky than women's jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:52 PM
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I honestly think the most traditional roles are - john works full time in a serious career, and mary works part time in less strenuous roles. Part of this assumes that John has no risks in working. But john could be a truck driver, delivery driver, construction worker, etc and get injured or disabled on the job. John isn't magically risk free because he's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:03 AM
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You're a sociopath if you're deliberately doing things to someone that they're probably not going to like and then judging them for it when they predictably react negatively to it. I'd love to agree personally, honestly, but isn't this how most job interviews go?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:08 PM
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Play is about imitating real world stuff that's important. Puppies play bite, kids imitate adult figures, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:34 PM
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What even is the point of that phrase, except to sow negativity? The phrase itself doesn't even make sense. I should know something that I don't know? It's a question of - why do women act shitty when they might like you? Here's the best example from popular media: https://youtu.be/dGIGG6QLjLg Why does a girl who likes you act like an angry toddler who hates you? Another example is the quintessential girls who like girls story. She goes to a party. There's a girl she finds attractive there. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:23 PM
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It largely has a negative rep in real life because it's about the other person knowing enough about whatever field you're in to actually test you on it, and everything is to complicated and specialized for most people to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:48 PM
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You would never go on a woman centric sub and find then defending the same or "negging". Lmao, come on, that's a good one. The negging that works does so precisely because women have been been negged by their mothers, sisters, friends, and eventually themselves their entire lives. Women's sub care far worse than your average at oushing negging men non-stop. Like it's the entire goal of women's subs. "(All) Men are rapists" "Because of your skin color your ancestors owned slaves so you're bad". W…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:41 PM
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Red Pill advice is like what 90% of men don't want to do, but for some reason women insist. In men's tales the man slays the dragon, then gets the princess. In women's tales the women is both the dragon and the princess, and he needs to defeat her to...get her. Ask a man whether he'd rather do a porno plot where she shows up and they're naked within 60 seconds, or whether he'd rather go through all this rubbish - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyFsCwDNzC4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:28 AM
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I don’t care if average men don’t get sex or feel loved if they are using that to hurt women. It’s disgusting. No, it’s not nice to manipulate mentally ill people to get sex...What is wrong with people? Well, the D.E.N.N.I.S. system is based on the plot of nearly every 80's and 90's women's romcom movie. I thought making the correlation was so clever of me...then I read the always sunny writers simply based it on the common plotlines of women's romcoms. Why do women feel they need to have men ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:19 AM
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Of course, their motivation is often sexual novelty-seeking. The bigger question is whether sleeping around a lot causes things to go that way - or whether it's more that they're already that way and just looping through the same pattern again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:47 PM
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As always they did the useless thing of asking women who they'd sleep with. The participants viewed depictions of male bodies with heights ranging from 160 cm (5′3″) to 190 cm (6′3″), and three degrees of shoulder-to-hip ratio. If you actually date women and ask them, they will tell you again and again that they very little idea who they'd end up feeling attracted to. They often know who they won't like, but they rarely know who they will like - until they actually interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:34 PM
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And the naked pictures they shared with their boyfriends or people they thought they could trust. Or pictures taken of them without their consent. In real world affects this typically simply doesn't seem to matter at all. When the internet became a thing there were a ton of celebrities who suddenly had sex tapes stolen or "stolen" (wink wink nudge nudge). Did any of them suffer negative affects? I don't think so, most of them gained publicity vs the worst thing that happened being it got ignored…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:47 AM
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PPD could really, REALLY do with splitting its members into two: those that have shown they’re informed enough to create material, and those that have shown that they aren’t, and need to learn. Not posting, but learning. Who would be the expert in making that judgement call? Online history shows the genuinely successful people quickly get bored and leave. Endlessly gatekeeping randos is not interesting for them. Over time the moderately successful people leave, or they flip into becoming abusive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:54 AM
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I think you accidentally hit on what's going on here... ...then I would meet one of the girls that was attracted to me in the hallway, and immediately turn right back into James Bond again. You got older...this made you more attractive...whereas before the girls you liked pushed your ego in ways to make you go away, to an older you they started mildly encouraging you on a level you're barely aware of. You just know that you have more confidence and now you're winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:37 AM
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In real life I've never heard a girl deny the friend zone exists. I mean I'm sure there's a blowhard here or there or something, but It only seems to be a tiny number of hyperloud people on the internet trying to pretend it doesn't exist. I've had a few girls curious where the line of the friendzone is, because they want to know if heading into friendzoning someone without realizing it, because they're not all powehungry narcissists looking to maximally exploit everyone, they actually want to av…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:30 PM
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Sounds just like the claim you originally made, being upset at people you never actually dated or were involved with. it's a revenge fantasy/sour grapes. Upset the women in their 30s never gave them the time of day in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:11 AM
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lol love it! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:50 AM
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No wait I got one. That lighsabers and x-wings don't exist doesn't change having a fantasy about being a star wars character. Likewise not having a specific individual target doesn't change a woman's fantasy that anyone she previously dated or was interested will die alone with no attractive options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:41 AM
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I'm already familiar with this game, I'll pass lol, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:36 AM
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Technically I think it's the opposite gender version of Slut. Women sleeps around to much and to easily - shame shame shame! Man doesn't sleep with any woman - same thing! Sluts are of unworthy moral character. Incels are of unworthy moral character. I think someone running the narrative just ran through the slut-shaming script and redid it with men instead. The president has basically said all incels need to be viewed with suspicion as potental terrorists, it's the same thing as the church lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:29 AM
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If I had girlfriend, then she left me for some rich/tall/(insert attractive quality here), not hard to imagine a fantasy where any guy with (attractive quality) who dated her was immediately removed and placed in jail. But also did you miss the part where I've been with the same dude since my early 20s? well it's not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:12 AM
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These narratives are driven by older women, especially cranky narcissistic older women, trying to impose what benefits them - on everyone else. For a while there was a flood of posters on here claiming that anyone under 25 having sex should be arrested and jailed for statutory rape. They used different words but that's what they were pushing. They're just screwing over the younger generation, which has led to specific things like teenagers being in a "we need to jail them and destroy their life.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:45 PM
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Well, technically you are. You're born a virgin. dum dum dum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:39 PM
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For men in their teenage and slightly later years, men's ideal range is late teenagers. If your goal is "meet 1 person you settle down with and that's it" then the best age for that is late teens early 20's, simply because girls with a similar mindset and who are attractive are out of the market after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:44 PM
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Ah, these are always self-projection. It must be a older women's revenge fantasy of getting back at guys who dropped them and dated someone younger or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:40 PM
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You're still literally woman in the meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:51 PM
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Asian culture produces people who are very aware of other peoples emotions, and have egos but expect you to keep your ego under control, and their culture emphasizes and uses group ego (whereas western culture mostly just tries to kill group ego). To men, women with these qualities are very feminine. To women, men with these qualities are also very feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:59 PM
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Lol, you're literally the woman in the meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:08 PM
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I guess what they say about gym bro's being not very bright is true, gymbro718nyc2.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:02 PM
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You're in a sub dedicated to making men scared of women, conmplaining about that exact thing? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:14 PM
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Girl I was friends with in high school would sit on guys laps all the time. Later she admitted she wanted to enjoy sex, but she just didn't like it, regardless of her genuine desire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:07 PM
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This is one of the few things guys actually do. The more she acts like this, the more difficult she's going to make interacting with her after that. This a girl pattern depicted in The Notebook. https://youtu.be/1gDTFygaSws This just isn't worth it in real life where you lack movie plot armor. How this actually goes in real life: - the friend you came with stops going places with you because you're an embarrassment - the guys you butted into to hit on the girl will make any time you run into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:53 PM
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But the real effect isn't to support children. It's coopted for literally everything except having and raising children.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 11:30 AM
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Lol what bot is this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:41 PM
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It's an out of date Boomer meme. They can't come up with anything new so they just keep recycling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:09 PM
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Look at Elon Musk or even Stephen Hawkings. All these dorks were built up by their wives until the man got better opportunities. "Women seek to move up by attaching themselves to men 'above' then those men are predictably playing the same game. Woman walks away with millions of dollars, cries about how hard things are on her bed made of million dollar bills."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:48 AM
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Obviously with this amount of conscious lying on your part it's a waste of time to continue a back and forth with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:30 AM
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You got 2 problems. - women will attack and undermine a man's support network. - since women expect men to do all the heavy lifting in the relationship - making the first move, the second move, etc, obviously she has a lot more energy left over to maintain a support network. I think men evolved to bond over shared activities - my grandfather who worked on a crew for the last half of his career had a ton of friends and social support. As jobs to be more and more isolating, so do men get more and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:26 AM
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What a bunch of unrelated stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:13 AM
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The over-30 women have largely filtered themselves out. I've known people over 30 to get married and they never seem very happy in their marriage. * I'm counting the people who have been dating each other exclusively for 5+ years as married, if they started dating in college but technically got married at 35, I count that as being married in their 20's. I would also like to have kids but I find myself single at 30 and want a loving partner and relationship but fear I have missed the boat. Should…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:24 AM
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They're actually shaming men for acting "womanly" or feminine or whatever. What's women's most aggressive strategy if they're interested in a guy at their same level of attractiveness? Hang out with him, be friends with him, wait for him to make a move. They're literally "I can't believe guys would dare to act exactly like women do".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:09 PM
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When I had my first boyfriend, his friend randomly, unprompted, came up to me at my locker one day and said, “You know he’s only into you because you got boobs over the summer, right?” When I mentioned it to my bf, he said, “WELL, not JUST that…” Could’ve easily led me to spiral — and it did for a little while! — but guess what. Like a normal person, I got over it. This is kind of hilarious if you think about it, the slightest bit. "Well he's only attracted to girls who hit puberty" Well...yeah?…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:07 PM
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Women don't initiate sexual contact the first time. Their most aggressive strategy is to hang around a guy until he makes a move on him. They're shaming men for acting like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:03 PM
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Nope, never seen women do this anyone on a mass scale much less go viral the way it did here. That borders so absurd it's funny, trying to claim this after the last ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:51 AM
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Well it turns out the video ended up being fake, both the woman in the video had the pictures stolen by a bot account who made this weird video and don’t know each other. c'mon, you can put it together... The internet can be ruthless but I was surprised by the thousands of comments by men I saw calling her mid and basically implying she deserved to be cheated on because the other girl is hotter. These comments were highly upvoted too. The first girl was fake. The second girl was fake. The commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:45 AM
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Why do we never talk or hear about men hitting “the wall”? Because men already know it's tough. Especially men who are average or lower income earners. It's an interesting thought but I wouldn't say money is typically the issue for men. It's that your job might eat up and spit out your attractive qualities. Whether it's breaking you physically, stealing all your self respect, or non-stop keeping you off blanace so you never mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:50 AM
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Oh, sure, I'm sure at the age where women start to biologically lose the ability to have children, there is an entire field of attractive, emotionally stable, relationshiop ready men just sitting around for the right woman to come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:39 AM
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Lmao, sure, I'm there's a bunch of attractive emotionally stable men just hanging out and not getting married until their 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:01 AM
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True, but for other things it matters significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:31 PM
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Do you live in the US, and were told this told this growing up personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:08 PM
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People are devoid of authenticity and innate creativity. Instead, they base their personalities on things they buy / use / like, as if these things are personality traits. Worse, they rely on social media to define who they are as individuals. I think there's a lot of this that has always been this way, but making it entirely virtual makes it bizarre and work poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:32 PM
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Seems like men are looking for women who are above them in looks and positive emotion. And women are looking for men who are above them in social status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:26 PM
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Boys usually get taught to shut up, stop crying, man up, and be the silent, uncrying stoic for the rest of your life because that's what manliness is. Are 50 or older? Because being younger than this (and not that much younger even) the only people I saw teaching this in my generation were women. As a guy the issue was having the freedom to develop empathy as there's a sort of competition over it like it's a limited resource. But no guys ever told me this - I mean, no guys my age or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:12 PM
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Most people have no idea how ugly 80% of men are to women, This isn't accurate. These operate largely on 3 things, not 2. 1. Attractive 2. Nothing, don't care. 3. Ugly / unnattractive Average women often put most people in group #2. Not the same as group 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:09 PM
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Conversely, perhaps it's just a fact about the fickle and immature nature of women's poor romantic/selection process. As a guy we use the same thinking systems for buying products. How often have you bought something and it sucked? Pay for an expensive car repair then a 2nd thing breaks? Be wholeheartedly against a product - then someone you know has one and it turns out to be great? At least half the women I've known have straight up told me they've tried, but really have no idea who they date …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:58 PM
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This is what I mean by adults today have no idea how much everything is very different than when they grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:47 PM
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Part of the brain only turn on for things you can see in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:02 AM
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I really want to know where the average 15 year old boy is encountering man hating rhetoric? Are...are you serious? You're on reddit. This sub in particular. You're like standing in the supervillain volcano lair going "I haven't heard of any supervillain lairs, what are people talking about?".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:54 AM
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Mall Of America is considering installing metal detectors because of shootings. I don't know what example could be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:49 AM
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hell we used to just go to like a soccer field and hang out and play music (police lights) Sir, do you have id? You are not allowed on the field at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:48 AM
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No matter how much gaslighting you add up, this is simply based on women's reaction. Verbally stating that you're looking for something serious / long term to a girl who hasn't yet decided she's into that with you specifically is almost universally sabotage. That's her decision and reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:21 PM
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Most women aren’t being ambiguous. Most women want a committed relationship or marriage. A man a woman has never met before suddenly declares the he wants her ling term for marriage. What is that woman's reaction? It's almost universally horror and running away. There are a number of women who are only pursuing men they feel are interested in long term, but it's still typically sabotage to openly state it to them qs well. They try read your emotions and actions to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:46 PM
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Could you provide proof for your accusation? This whole sub is people who present their own ideas or just a hunch they have, as universal truths. It's ridiculous. They'll just double down on it. My dislike of feminist extremism is equally matched by my dislike of manipulative conservative religion. Same contents, different package.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:46 AM
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Each prior partner before marriage increases the chances of infidelity by 7% while each additional year of education reduces the odds by 10% Honestly the first thing I think is "you can't be involved in infidelity if you aren't dating anyone to begin with". The more education a woman has the less likely she is to have children, or at least have fewer children. https://blogs.worldbank.org/health/female-education-and-childbearing-closer-look-data "...it’s a good time to look more closely at the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:34 AM
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To me the issue is that men have absolutely no place to practice this traditional role that is still demanded of them, by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:04 AM
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Not what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:49 AM
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The youth of today are scared of everything and are missing out on a lot. This is what I mean. Two of my most formative relationships that lasted many years each were cold approaches. I approached one and the other approached me. Granted the term cold approach did not really exist way back then. Right, and todays youth are being told stories that would mean this wouldn't happen. If you approach them it's harrassment, if they approach you - why would they do that when they've been told all men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:20 AM
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this is the stereotypical nice guy . Is it? I always thought it was... https://static1.personality-database.com/profile_images/269d1352297d43a5baeefa6b3e8d281a.png or... http://pa1.narvii.com/6970/6888a4ebe24e44347d55b7b35bb23cdcd0b6ada9r1-268-300_00.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:16 AM
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Ned Fulmer...started his own company Ned seemed to be the stereotypical dependable 'nice guy'...Very basic style, not massively physically attractive, steady corporate job, etc. Except.... he cheated. With one of his own employees that works for the company I don't quite follow how a guy who owns his own company is a "stereotypical dependable 'nice guy'". Ned was literally known as the 'wife guy' and would constantly talk about his wife and how much he loved her, to the point where people have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:57 AM
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I've heard this described as "the older generation sabotaging the younger generation". A certain amount of caution is absolutely warranted, but the next gen is growing up with stunted development because they never got the positive experiences their parents did, but they are constantly told over and over about the negative ones. my grandparents: - we'd better not catch you with some boy/girl! (2 seconds later) - you're going out with your friends today right? that tom/tina seemed nice our genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:14 PM
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Clearly overbearing women are going to continue it's totally someone else and not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:49 PM
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Make up stories all you want, women want this behavior if the man is attractive and don't want it if he isn't, so you're stuck in a catch-22.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:47 PM
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I don't know what environment you grew up in. Did you grow up 60 years ago? Outside the US? Or in some sort of ghetto or something? I grew up in a moddle class neighborhood and all the stories kike this were from ny friends parents or grandparents generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:29 PM
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To be faaaaaiiiir...trying making friends with other guys - as an adult - it's extremely difficult. The moment you suggest anything to meet up later they're actually more difficult than women. Men like to make friends around activities they already have on common and seem to be unable to bond any other way (as adults).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:25 PM
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Give a hopeful man an inch and he will take a mile. As a guy, women who are interested expect this as mandatory behavior to date/sleep with them. They'll take you not acting this way as you saying you're uninterested in them. So you're stuck in your own catch-22 as a guy, if you don't act like this at least some of the time you won't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:07 PM
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This seems like another iteration of "where's the nearest man I can blame for this?". The girls I've known who are afraid of talking to men start off with overbearing mothers. After that emotions are formed based on other women - sisters, friends, classmates, etc - and a fear of being derided or insulted by a group who's constantly low level jealous and possessive of the other women in the group. You can watch the adult version of this happen with girl groups where you strike up a conversation w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:59 PM
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If I'm at work sometimes the less attractive women are easier to deal with. Less ego, less posturing, better ability to be rational about work stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:14 AM
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Men don't notice unattractive women - there's definitely truth to this. But... How do women treat unnattractive men? Much worse than ignoring them. Women are far more likely to get hysterical that they might be seen in proximity to an unnattractive man, and try to get him removed or fired. In contrast men for the most part have "leave me alone I leave you alone" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:10 AM
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I would not agree at all, he made a move sideways, I'd say. https://i.insider.com/5e2895e0b6d52d30fd7d94b4?width=1000&format=jpeg&auto=webp https://img.i-scmp.com/cdn-cgi/image/fit=contain,width=425,format=auto/sites/default/files/styles/768x768/public/d8/images/canvas/2021/12/02/e0d24c24-9fb8-44a9-a065-33e58d8f31e9_23c48b66.jpg?itok=T6IM3Qj4&v=1638440949 I'd say he went sideways in terms of looks, trading in a lexus with 150k for an audi with 150k. Whatever caused the change it wasn't looks or …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:58 AM
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but the “ride or die” who loved him when he had nothing goes right out the window once he can use his resources to attract younger hotter women, which is how you end up with starter wives Seems like a bit outdated narrative, google says his new and old wifes ages are 52 and 51.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:57 PM
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Very few women have high body counts. Numerically, most of those women are already effectively-married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:02 AM
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hahahahaha....oh man, that clip is absolutely hilarious. It’s like watching a cheetah chase down a gazelle and going “aw poor gazelle but good for the cheetah. Right, but look at fantasy media for example. The average man's fantasy of sex or dating. - porn - she shows up and immediately gets naked, no predatory behavior at all. - heroic fantasy - he slays the dragon and gets the girl - he displays successful predatory behavior directed to something not the girl to show off, the girl is so impres…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:21 AM
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That is actually how it is though. It's very red pill. Many women won't date abusers, pimps, criminals, registered sex offenders, etc. But guys in those categories are more likely to get laid and date than men who are complete mommas boys. To be clear I don't mean men who simply live at home, I mean their mother controls their entire life and they can't even have friends without her trying to jump into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:03 AM
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That's not relevant to the point. Female sexuality is just as predator (or not depending on which group of men or women you're talking about) as men's. The difference is simply that men do it themselves, whereas women get men to do it for them - demanding it directly, manipulating men into it, or rewarding men who do it with sex as a direct and indirect reward for successful violent behavior. I know zero women dragging their men over to fight. And I know zero violent men in my middle class frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:27 AM
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Are edibles helpful because they mask arthritis pain? While cannabis can't cure arthritis or slow disease progression, some people report that it helps to alleviate their symptoms of pain, inflammation and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:11 AM
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I'm not 100% ok with this stuff, but it's still the case that lots of these early teen girls went out of their way to pursue the men who they found attractive. It's like hearing someone's story of how their ex cheated on them for the bazillionth time. Yes, that's not great, but how exactly is this my problem. Early teen girls try to murder other girls periodically. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slender_Man_stabbing On May 31, 2014, in Waukesha, Wisconsin, United States, two 12-year-old girls, An…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:10 AM
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You'll get a nice knit blanket soon. You can kick back, drink some warm milk, and doze off walking lawrence welk at 6pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:52 PM
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Lemme guess, you're 70 and started crocheting 4 hours / day, and think all those teenagers having sex are only being tricked into it by the devil, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:41 PM
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Like clockwork back to "women are infants who can't think for themselves" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:22 PM
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He is still 100% making those decisions for himself. Perfect example of how women's first instinct is often to refuse to take responsibility for the results of their actions, and blame-shift onto someone else. Woman literally grabs a guys arm and pulls him over to fight, he gets maimed or killed, "how can I avoid taking the slightest bit of responsbility for my actions?" she says. Like if a woman is “demanding” you fight, you know you can say “lol no bitch fuck off,” right? What is she going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:34 PM
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Women find power imbalance sexy. There used to be a saying, men want women visually better looking than themselves, women want men who are socially better off than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:13 PM
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This has happened to me with 2 different girls and I know several other people it's happened to. The only thing that's consistent is girls is being less willing to openly express their desire for sex when other people are around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:04 PM
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However, male and female sexuality aren’t comparable in this way, as female sexuality is very rarely predatory. No ..this is hate group reframing, the favorite tactic of predatory women. The real difference is direct vs indirect. A man who wants to fight with you will come over and try to start a fight. A woman with the same instincts will drag a man over, lie that the other man said something, and demand they fight. The thing is, a man suffers consequences of his actions. He gets hit in the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:57 PM
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You mean the girls who often travelled across multiple states in pursuit of sleeping with rock stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:46 PM
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You're only counting the girls he actually sleeps with. This is behavior demanded by women in order to sleep with them. We've proven that men will do abything to get laid, including being the nicest most passive person you can ever imagine. But women don't want to sleep with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:36 PM
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My opinion on this stuff is that male sexuality is inherently predatory, but in a discovery channel sort of way. They can’t help it. Womens sexuality is acting as prey-lite to test if the mans "hubting skills" or whatever are high enough to produce children with him. At least of women's mating systems sees themselves as prey that should be tracked, captured, and conquered by a mighty hunter man. These movies are for a female audience. Turn off the sound and watch the action - the big sexy man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:33 PM
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The people who push these narratives never have anything good to say about dating. They're high in disgust towards everything all the time and this is their vehicle to screw everyone over with it. They are specifically drawn to targetting, bullying, and destroying nice people. Inside their own head, any time a nice or prosocial emotion pops up, a different part of their brain pops up and kills it. They want to take that process and push into the rest of the world. Left unchecked these people wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:06 PM
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There's sort of a distribution. 1. Promiscous girls who are sleeping with lots of people. 2. Girls who sleep with a handful of guys -mostly boyfriends - then stay attached to one person. 3. Girls who sleep with 1 guy and stay attached to him for the rest of their life. 4. Girls who aren't sleeping with anyone. Your problem is you are at the top of the curve for when you should be getting with a girl, and it's generally downhill from here if you want a girl who's not interested in sleeping with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:29 AM
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Lol, well, that could be. But the entire idea that women aren't specifically signing up for exactly what he's doing is pretty absurdly hilarious when you realize that sleeping with a rich famous good looking movie star and living the celebrity lifestyle until it's vapidness and insecurity becomes tiring, is exactly what a lot of girls would like to do. I think these girls are getting exactly what they were aiming for, it just makes the older women nervous to have a guy around setting an example …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:46 AM
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I mean they manipulate the same hilariously rediculous narratives over and over, as if a woman in her 20's dating leo doesn't know exactly what's she's jumping into - and aiming for that exact thing. Women aim for him exactly because they want to pal around with an attractive high status man, then quite possibly after a while they get bored with the vapid lifestyle. They had their fun and they move on to something more long term having satiated their desire to pursue short term status seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:22 AM
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Does he drop them or do they drop him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:00 PM
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There's more young women interested on men in their 30's, 40's, or 50's Than there are College age women interested in high school age boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:41 PM
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As always with this topic, it's also going to continue to get worse because women fail to develop social and romantic maturity that is 50%- or more - of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:27 AM
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I'd say it's the opposite, that having sex even once can her pregnant, so after the first time her instincts are to keep wanting you to come back iver and iver and dominate your time so you don't have time for other women. Good women do this in a way you enjoy so you just don't even care about sleeping with with anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 03:35 PM
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Worthless waste of time. edit: it's clear they have a 1 month old account because their accounts keep getting banned so they they have to keep making news ones to evade the bans. "social media elevates mental disorders"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:49 AM
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Ah, yes, the 1-month old account with excessive narcissism. In general, narcissism is closely tied to: extreme self-focus an inflated sense of self a strong desire for recognition and praise 2 put of 3 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:26 AM
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Because the post specifically says it's not talking about post-children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:56 PM
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Many women have bragged to me that when they were younger they would use some 3rd party as an excuse for not doing things without directly turning the person down. "I told them my wouldn't let me" when she was in high school. The tone for them is that this shows they were smart and powerful. If men tell me a similar story it's one of shame and humiliation, they were forced to invoke a 3rd party as an excuse because they didn't have the standing to turn it down down directly. You can't treat thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:31 PM
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These are all women projecting their experiences with other women onto men, use men as a metaphore - to complain mostly about how women treat each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:09 PM
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It's a paradox of choice issue. "Autonomy and freedom of choice are critical to our well being, and choice is critical to freedom and autonomy. Nonetheless, though modern Americans have more choice than any group of people ever has before, and thus, presumably, more freedom and autonomy, we don't seem to be benefiting from it psychologically". I've said before that dating apps for long term relationships seem to work the best for people who aren't very attractive. P.S. If your goal is sleeping w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:12 AM
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They're not a good one, their post history looks like one of those male-feminist types who's way to comfortable, practiced, and experienced at shaming and belittling and it turns out in the end they themselves are responsible for half the assaults you've heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:35 AM
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So you've got nothing? They always have nothing. In reality women falsely men of rape has been a staple of american politics for hundreds of years. The Scottsboro Boys are one example a hundred years ago. But back then they said - well this is obviously fake and a travesty of justice. Now they just keep plowing onto the next one with the integrity of a chronic liar. Seriously, it's bizarre, I can't think of a single case of actual rape that they've brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:22 AM
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So you're saying that all women are robots who do what they're told? Women love whatever is socially normal! Hey, mom jeans? Sure! Forced birth! Sure! We don't need careers! We'll be better off strapped down as single mothers. We love to do what society has decided is good for us. That's why we never fight back. No worries! Everyone calm down! The "family bad, work good" narrative is funded, propagandized, and of course eaten up by women who repeat it back ad-nauseum. It's kinda funny how you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:32 AM
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I think those rules are messed up as well, but they aren’t really used anymore They're still used everywhere, all the dangerous jobs are mens jobs, it's just one example of the overall trend. and they were rules made by men "How do you write women so well?" "I start with a man, and I take away reason, and accountability" It's a very feminine trait to cause something to happen, then pretend it was all someone else's fault. Nobody needs to enact violence, especially not in self defense. Obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:28 AM
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Femicide is when women are murdered because of their gender. Additionally, most murders of women are committed by the opposite sex, while most men are killed by the same sex. Men have been killed while women have gone free since before the "women and children first" on the titanic, or the first tribe that sent men out into warfare while the women stayed at home. Women don't like facing the same world men do. Additionally, most murders of women are committed by the opposite sex, while most men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:21 AM
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I know several guys who are happier being single. They all dated and had sex before, but decided they'd rather not be doing that. Some of them have kids, some don't. I've know girls who say they're happier being single, but a lot of them are just saying what they feel they're social programming says they're supposed to say. It's not exactly that they "crave a man" as much as they crave something that they know they're missing and they can't entirely define what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:27 AM
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That'e a lot of ego stuff there, women very much pursue social norms. If their culture tells them success is getting married and having a family they will seek it out. If their culture tells them being a cubicle drone is good and relationships are bad they will lean that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:25 PM
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^ Yawn, exactly what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:08 PM
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its actually amazing how much respect i am losing for trpers in this thread. its actually mind boggling. No it isn't, you started this thread so you could throw out some tired and outdated platidues and pretend you're superior to everyone else. TRP for 90% of men is like a guide book on how to change the oil in your car. You don't really want to do it. It's not interesting or fullfilling. But it's the only way to get the oil changed is to slog through it. TRP is things men DON'T want to do, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:23 AM
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"Where's the nearest man I can blame everything on?" We've all heard this one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:51 AM
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Men are more direct. Women more often spin emotional tales to make immoral behavior seem moral. But their real end goal is exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:39 AM
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They're not right they just playing the manipulative "heads I win tails you lose" game where if something is positive they demand it be given to them and if something requires work or drawbacks they demand soneone else take responsibility for it because they sure aren't going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:28 AM
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My male friends have higher body counts then my female friends. The numbers they tell you are different. One girl told me about 4 different boyfriends she slept with, then the next time we hung out claimed she had only slept with 2 guys. "I asked bosses if they had ever fired anyone and they all had. I asked people interviewing for jobs if they had ever been fired, and no one had. How, oh how, could we explain this difference...".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:41 PM
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Women are so afraid of rejection they never approach to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:23 PM
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I think you misread my comment, as we're definitely getting at the same point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:53 PM
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Lmao at another round of "where's the nearest man I can blame for this?". Women hit menopause between 45 and 55, their biology calls it quits on having kids, which is the purpose of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:15 AM
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The main difference for women is they've typically never experienced it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:02 AM
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There's a whole team of people funded to create theories that blame everything on the nearest man. You should take it with a huge dose of skepticism. "Men who have kids in their 40's create terrorists. And covid. And cause global warming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:50 AM
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To me the whole "women past 30 is old" is just ridiculous and is way for creeps to justify going after younger women. Women hit menopause between 45-55. Sex creates babies, and their bodies "that's it we're done with baby stuff it's all over".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:45 AM
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Doesn't make sense. Why bother with breaking up with them before they hit 25? The narrative is to make it sound like man is responsible for any women's actions. You know, women are children who can't think for themselves - when it's convenient. The reason would be that the women enjoy the lifestyle, but then as they get close to the downward age curve realize they'd better move along to someone who's actually interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:07 PM
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the problem is dude just throws them at 25 Lol definitely my experience that all these girls probably found "famous, rich, attractive - and not looking long term" is exactly what drew these women to decaprio in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:56 PM
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I went from adult men masturbating outside the schoolyard to following me home from a high school they built two blocks away from a halfway house for sex offenders. The very direct equivalent is physical violence from other boys - a bigger boy your age, a group of boys, older boys. You're literally half their size. They can punch you in the face, break your nose, steal your stuff. And if they do there's this weird sense of shame that you either couldn't fight back or weren't smart enough to avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:39 PM
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Men are mean. Women are cruel. I can't find the quote quickly, but someone had a good quote about how the worst of men will kill you, while the worst of women will sabotage you until you're broke and homeless then leave you to die. Different methods - same end effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:18 PM
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The story is representative of how things actually work - women export doing nearly everything risky or dangerous to men rather than doing it herself. If you've ever been to a late night bar women drunk women will drag men around trying to get them to fight each other when the guys don't want to. You also look at the useful side of things. How many women are farmers for example? You'd literally starve to death with all women around. You'd have thousands of nurses, secretaries, customer support, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:05 PM
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Yeah, women remind me of employer with a 10 stage interview process for a low paying job who are shocked that most people drop out before the end, and the people they do hire leave within a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:04 PM
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Seems like you pay a lot of money to get the same results you'd get with online personals. Quite possibly crappy results either way but at least I didn't pay a bunch of money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:42 PM
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If there's anything I've learned in this sub, it's that there is a lot of unchecked projection going on. Yes, but this post is the perfect example of projection - the common case seems to be more than women lose sexual interest in their boyfriend/husband over time moreso than the husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:19 PM
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We call this viewing men as Walking Wallets - women grew up with a father who wasn't around but paid the bills, and now they believe their husband will fill the same role for them. These seem to be the same "men only want 1 thing and it's disgusting" types who seek out men who lack attachment then complain that men who lack attachment...continue to lack attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:11 PM
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Just cause I know the boys would happily still take the wife even if it was a case of assigned. They think they'll be happy because they haven't come anywhere close to experiencing it. For example: the common complaints about Starfish Sex where the woman just lays there and waits for the guy to do something with no real interest in it. The average guy hates that. The guys default is to assme the woman would be interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:48 PM
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It's weird how the whole thing is to state a bunch of stuff that's true, with hysterical tones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:35 PM
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No, the guys I knew seemed perfectly happy with it. It's simply that after a while of doing it their wives lost interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:47 AM
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Women generally want a social/resource superior, if that doesn't work out for them they fall back to an equal. Men generally want a looks/emotional superior, if that doesn't work out for them they fall back to an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:11 PM
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Have you considered making your future family your own priority? Meaning you'll stay home/work from home while she'll be the one who is taking on the financial responsibility? This generally doesn't work because women lose respect and attraction to men who go into the support/child rearer role. All but 1 couple I know who tried this are divorced. That is totally ancencotal but the only other source of common info people trying to pretend it will work because it sounds good, which is an even wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:47 PM
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Thought it was interesting since most men have a huge hang up about women “not paying their way” but when they come across a successful, wealthy woman, they’re not quite happy with that either. Same story over and over again. 1. Women is attracted to men who are alpha or "above" her. 2. She moves herself up. 3. She has a never ending cycle of initially dating men who seem to be "above" her but as the relationship goes along it becomes apparent they aren't really, she loses attraction to them and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:27 PM
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Last time I checked, Gabby Petito was tarred as Amber Heard 2.0. Actually she still sounds like it from the mutual back and forth abuse. No one would look at a man who was constantly picking physical fights with another man, and run around claiming he played no part in it. That's female privilege there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:35 PM
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Very feminist. There are a lot of terp dudes feminsts women who really seem to glorify men women as the superior sex, and almost seem to resent the fact that they’re attracted to women men. Men can feel this way as well, but that gets into who's pot calling the kettle black. On a slightly different topic - It’s a thirteenth-century English document that was written to make the argument that women should not marry, and instead ideally join the Church. The whole “join the Church and never have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:17 PM
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The smartest men are smarter than any woman. The dumbest men are dumber than any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:08 PM
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So, they're copying feminist attitudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:42 PM
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I like the rest of your posts, personally, but I've seen this bit before, it's been repeated ad-nausem since like 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:35 AM
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This is just thoughtless copy-paste of a youtuber or someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:16 PM
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Welp. I'm gonna piss some guys off here... The friend zone is only regulated by women. Men put themselves in it. Lol this is some repetitive copy-paste shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:43 PM
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You can pretend. Doesn't change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:43 AM
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But yeah, let's just take an obvious cherry picked example to show why men can never look better! It's always just a bunch of gaslighting. 40 year women are never more attractive than their 20 year old self. While some 40 year old men are more attractive than their 20 year old self. https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/11/179614/leonardo-dicaprio-hair-style-then-and-now#slide-2 Leonardo Decaprio at 21 https://s1.r29static.com/bin/entry/e8e/545x654,85/1884142/image.webp 32 https://s3.r29static.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:41 AM
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I officially dated a girl, then dated another girl, it was just not a lot of fun. Boring. Mixed with periodic pointless attention seeking drama. Family Guy captured the kind of thing that happens, every week, every single freaking week over and over again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHzjgNoRmjg The next girl I was just friends with benefits. It was just so much more enjoyable. Like 20% as much drama, 50% more trying to have fun (rather than what I would now describe as her constantly rumina…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:41 PM
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It's simply the lead/follow dynamic. The woman is the follow who doesn't initiate anything. She doesn't initiate asking someone out. She doesn't initiate breaking up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:36 AM
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It sounds like you've never actually seen these things in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:49 AM
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This is oversimplifying, there's at least 2 groups of these girls. Some of the introverted girls exist and are passionate, horny, looking for genuine emotional connection, etc - but they have the same issues as the beta guys doing the same, they simply don't meet the guys in any circumstances for things to go somewhere. They don't like the hyper-loud club atmosphere just like the guys don't. Guys would prefer to date this girl if they actually met her. Then there's a different kind of girl who l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:59 PM
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Are you one of those copy-and-paste bots? lol cause your comment has nothing to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:39 PM
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This is literally a topic I've seen in red pill videos as well, that the women they want - the problem is that they wouldn't like each other, it's just impossible to meet them. The girls are working their jobs and sitting at home going "one day it will happen without me trying". And you know, breaking into random houses hoping to find the kind of girl you like is highly frowned upon as we live in a society. I'm not ripping on them, I probably have the most empathy for them because it's precisely…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:08 AM
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Oh, women are into both these things. Yeah "not all women", but I haven't been in a fight since high school and even then it was more of a shoving match than anything genuinely violent. I've had a drunk girl in a bar that we had never interacted with, walk up to my friend and I on halloween and rip his mask clean off his face trying to get him to fight her bodybuilder date. What "purpose" did that serve outside of a primal desire to see men being violent? Another time a girl in our group demande…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:04 AM
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Ok, well my dad walked to school in elementary school. So eh. edit: uphill! both ways! slogging through snow even in august! fighting off large predat...well ok not that part really. but he did walk to school as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:48 AM
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Naw, if you got a lot of testosterone and some alcohol people revert back to their primitive instincts where they want to show off protecting the woman. A stranger just punching a woman out of nowhere in a bar? That guy is going to get beat down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:34 AM
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I wouldn't feel comfortable with that You're in a bar. A guy walks up and hits you in the face. If you're a woman, most likely everyone dog piles on top of him beating the crap out of him. At minimum the bouncer comes at the guy, the police are called, and that guy is your only threat. If you're a man, everyone backs up and waits for you to fight for yourself. The guy likely picked you because you're smaller than him and he thinks someone easy to fight. The bouncer might show up, and wait back w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:25 PM
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Children walked to school alone in the 1950's in the US. From what google says japanese children do not actually walk alone, they meet up with other children at prearranged gathering points then walk together. I'm actually kinda jealous, it sounds pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:17 PM
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I'm sure pregnant women (a number more than zero) are more likely to get murdered than the number pregnant men (which is 0 as men lack the biology to get pregnant).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:11 PM
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But overall women are more risk averse than men You're describing a privilege women enjoy. Women avoid taking risks and it's seen as normal. Men avoid taking risks and it's seen as unmanly or unsuccessful. Society and women need someone to do risky things, so they dump doing them onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:09 PM
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“Men are scared women will laugh at them, women are scared men will kill them.” In reality: men have to deal with that other men might kill them. men have to deal with that women might engage in a campaign to leave them broke homeless, and dying of exposure. In contrast, women have to be concerned that men might annoy them, and that men they're attracted to because of their high aggression might be aggressive towards them. At no point does a woman say "gee, maybe I should be responsible for not …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:57 PM
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We've failed as a society if you can't go for a jog at dusk. Is it coming up on a national election again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:53 PM
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My experience is that if you want to be an emotionally remote player, being tall is 100% the best way to do that. Just standing around girls feel you're "above" them and interesting. If want to actually engage at any deeper level with girls it seems to be a drawback. It's weird. Tall guys I knew were often players but not a lot long term. Every now and then I would see them really try to do long term with a girl and have everyone end up upset and angry or something. I dunno it's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:27 AM
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"In our study from feminists men-are-bad institute, we had people looked at fully clothed women's chests and they could tell the difference far more easily than they could looking at fully clothes men's chests. Thus proving men bad, something something something. "In a corresponding study from the women-are-bad institute, men were photoshopped into pictures. Men who's background implied they were rich, socially popular, or taller than everyone else were commonly remembered by women. In contrast,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:55 PM
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Each person was shown non-sexualized photographs After seeing each original full-body image, the participants saw two side-by-side photographs. One was the original image, while the other was the original with a slight alteration to the chest With people wearing clothes, people had an easier time seeing the difference between women's boobs, than they did men's chests. In their next study, the "researchers" are going to test whether it's easier to see the difference between a bottle of vodka and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:47 PM
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Is this system working well for men or women? There's a book called "The Paradox of Choice" The book analyses the behavior of different types of people (in particular, maximizers and satisficers) facing the rich choice. This book demonstrates to us how the dramatic explosion in choice—from the mundane to the profound challenges of balancing career, family, and individual needs—has paradoxically become a problem instead of a solution and how our obsession with choice encourages us to seek that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:56 AM
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Women: I cannot believe this turned out to be the case! For 6th time to! Gosh how could I have possibly seen this coming! Men: Let me draw you a graph explaining how this works, what can I say. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5zADosF3XoQ
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:45 AM
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The Red Pill is about the facts, it's about the truth. As much as I'd love to believe this, fact is the mods ban you from calling out someone for lying on the red pill forum. That's definitely not "about the truth".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:38 PM
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ha exactly! :D I saw this video on the brain and it often describes what is happening - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfYbgdo8e-8 One half of her brain has one reaction ("I'm supposed to be offended!" while the other half of her brain has the opposite reaction "Oh good my horny feelings towards him can go forward because he's interested in me").
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:50 AM
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but imo most women will initiate hanging out 1 on 1 with guys they truly like, usually after knowing them in the same friend group Finding a friend group that hangs out regularly in person is what is so difficult nowadays. I honestly have sympathy for regular women because this is the environment they're more comfortable in, but it's difficult to make it happen post-college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:24 PM
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This is true, first girl I dated I told "I'll take off my shirt if you take off yours". It was even more cringy in person than it sounds online. Bit since she had come over to see of things would go somewhere it worked, she was just waiting for me to make any move whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:07 PM
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Eh, I mean, guys would be flattered if an attractive girl did that to him. Sure he's bad at communicating with girls but he's treating them like he would want to be being treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:03 PM
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It's like that stereotype of a man who goes out to the bar every weekend looking to get into a fight, despite that it serves no purose - he just wants to fight. Women come to the sub for the female equivalent of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:56 PM
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Are we going to find out you're "nothing special just 6'2 and skinny" or similar? I've gotten to approach guys when they were going on about how easy it was, and despite having none of the extreme drawbacks guys might face, the girl always found it terrifying 3-5 seconds in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:51 PM
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Good list. I pinned it down to 2 if you take out the outright insults and stuff. - self-projection - blame-shifting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:44 PM
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^ 6 year old reddit account, but "mysteriously" only these 2 comments in it
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 12:02 PM
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Men are more than welcome to create their own movement. We all know feminists are going to show up and start screaming that you're not allowed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:17 PM
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It's like asking my people try to get jobs when they complain about them all the time. Also, red pill advice is actually a lot like job hunting advice. It's things you don't really want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:01 PM
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its overall efficacy at 78% annually Doesn't that mean in 4 years you'd by 96% likely to get pregnant? Not great odds. You'd also have to compare it to having completely unprotected sex, where the pregnancy rate even for people intending to get pregnant is far below 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:20 PM
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Dusting daily is definitely neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:33 PM
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it's that women put pressure on themselves Which typically originally came from other women. Her mother, competitions with other women in a peer group, etc. This claim is because pressure from men is often direct - "why is the house always aess?" whereas pressure from other women is "accodentally" overhearing them talking about how your house is a mess, or telling everyone but you your house is a disaster and waiting for that feeling that people are looking down on you to crop up, or the group c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:28 PM
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Normal dudes don’t care about dudes that speculate on restricting another person’s freedoms as a solution to them getting laid either. It’s the most retarded shit on the planet. These things don't really work in these simplistic ways. In the book, Schwartz argues that eliminating consumer choices can greatly reduce anxiety for shoppers. The book analyses the behavior of different types of people (in particular, maximizers and satisficers) facing the rich choice. This book demonstrates to us how …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:45 AM
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Every time I see a woman going on about this in real life she's always in the middle of pursuing some resource or other from men. The most noteable one was staying at a man's house for free, while getting free rides to places from me a man (we were all going to the same events), and she's trying to get some man who claims to be a tv show producer on her reality show idea, then complaining that he's kind of skeezy. Again and again we seem women liking complaining about men and blaming them for ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 07:17 AM
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Would war and violence decrease dramatically if men were to disappear and women reproduced using lab-made female embryos? Probably. The pattern is that society/women offload dangerous, violent, and risky tasks off onto men. Without men around what would women start doing? They'd be raised to do these things themselves, most likely they'd simply start acting exactly like men do. There have been studies done that societies with too many men are inherently more unstable than societies with too many…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:05 AM
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Everyone hates rejection. Men actually risk it, women won't even risk it. Do women ask men out? 99% of the time, No. That's how terrified of rejection they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:55 AM
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"Television programs are loved by children and often contain fantastic events. Do preschoolers know that fantastic events cannot occur in daily life? This study systematically investigated whether children can accurately distinguish between real and fantastic events. In study 1, 90 3- to 5-year-old children watched 16 cartoon clips of fantastic and real events that elicited positive or negative emotions. After watching each cartoon clip, the children were asked whether they thought that the even…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:21 AM
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No. They've just never had the social experiences necessary to socially mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:41 AM
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It's also a problem for the woman you interact with, they've never developed any social skills or experience of their own. Their only experience witheeting strangers is one time they were 5 they talked to a boy and their mother freaked out at them and that's now what they think is normal interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:50 AM
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They're holding out and only going on dates with men they actually like The first problem is that they don't actually know if they like them as they're only interacting online, a place that's entirely artificial and the only way to express emotion is through manipulation. The second problem is they're often not actually going out with guys they like but simply playing the "who's around when I'm horny and available" - which takes on a whole different dimension online. It's literally a numbers gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:46 AM
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Predictably that link has nothing to do with what I'm talking about, it's basically saying women in 3rd world countries are living better lives on paper because improved technology has reached them. Have you asked all those groups if they would prefer to live in the 60s? https://law.yale.edu/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/Intellectual_Life/Stevenson_ParadoxDecliningFemaleHappiness_Dec08.pdf "By many objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the past 35 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:04 PM
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The common real path seems to be that women would sleep with someone or a few people, get pregnant, that would force both the father and her into getting married. The idea of societally enforced chastity seems to be just a concept to reduce sleeping around to an acceptable level, and perhaps a way to control people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:40 PM
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For many people, especially wealthy white men traditionally afforded power, it is scary to realize that their position in the hierarchy is unstable. hahaha, this is so much lying. Wealthy white men will continue to prosper. You don't see bill gates worrying. Mark Zuckerberg has no problems. Instead you'll see a continued scapegoating and war on poor white men. At the extreme you'll end up with a racial caste system with white men at the top, asians in the middle, black and mexicans at the bottom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:34 PM
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Literally the only group who's improved is the one that stayed out of this hogwash - asians. Every other group has stayed the same or gotten worse. Women's happiness continues to plummet. Black people haven't moved since the 60's. And despite the immense amount of lying about it, white people continue to make an extremely average amount of money that stays the same on paper but effectively gets lower because of inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:28 PM
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Yup. They can always take more risks because they can always fall back to a guy paying most of their bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:33 AM
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Interesting post, but I would argue you actually have what society does backwards. The tools you describe are used to train you and train women to self-sabotage their dating life.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/22 04:23 AM
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lol last time I directly asked them how I could get paid to write stuff like that online, but they wouldn't answer me. sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:04 PM
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Reddit is probably the #1 paid for post propaganda site, and the other poster is talking like one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:14 AM
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Correct. When it comes to psychology, a lot of it is "just speculation." Sure, fair enough. ... but this I don't follow. How would this narrative blame men in any way? Please explain. If anything, I'm defending men. Maybe I made a mistake and got upset over your first paragraph and missed some of your second paragraph after that. Just got a bit triggered by the dive into hyperfocus on how the methods used must be the problem. Usually when I read that it's just a dive away from talk of the fundam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:32 AM
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But, no, apparently that's not a solution they're interested in pursuing. So, the thing is, the man-hating from The Narrative is actually it's secondary effect. It's primary purpose is to influence women to behave in a way that matches some sort of social engineering theory of how things should be. The constant demonizing of men via the narrative, cause women to be far more afraid of interacting with men than they would be otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:51 AM
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But if women find it terrifying even with the knowledge that they're much less likely to experience rejection (which I'm sure many of them are very well aware of, given how many men apparently approach them), that should really tell them something about how we might feel. Yah, this is exactly what I mean, the odds of it going bad for them - as in soft rejection or harsh rejection - are far less than they are for men, yet it's still so terrifying they almost never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:47 AM
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A girl told me that it was "easy" to approach and guys were pansies for not doing it. I said "ok, go approach that guy over there". I even chose the friendliest most social looking guy I could find. She actually did it, and you could watch confidence at 2-3 seconds, followed by terror in her expression after that as what she was actually doing hit her. And girls are far less likely to be meanly turned down like guys are. There's a little bit of truth in what they're saying in that the people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:35 AM
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They're actually backwards gaslighting about bars etc. When was the last time you saw a woman getting beat up in a bar? Most likely never. When was the last time you saw a man getting beat up in a bar? If you've ever seen someone on the end of a beatdown in a bar, 99.9% chance it was a man. Men are effectively always the victims of violence in bars, or in nearly any social group. Women's risks only pop up when theirs no other people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:30 AM
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I very much doubt that many men complaining about their place in the world would prefer to be a woman. If tech also let you change who you were attracted to, I would put huge amounts of money nearly everyone would want to be women. The only issue would be that women's advantages would start to diminish because there's so many women now and so few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:05 AM
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None of this really addresses what I said. Women don't shoot themselves after an argument, because they aren't living the the thing wire of both mental self respect and money that men are far more likely to be. Women know they still have options, men don't. edit: this seems like they're pointlessly bringing up unrelated stuff to change the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:56 AM
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When I've seen this happen, the woman is always complaining that the she's being treated as less than the boss or tech lead. Well, no crap. You would think overly talkative or domineering men would get hit with this, but socially skilled but overtalking/overdomineering never seem to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:50 AM
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Women often choose a less disfiguring approach. While men are more likely to use firearms, vehicle crashes etc., women usually overdose. It's still up for debate why the difference is there, but there's a high chance it's because women desire for their body to remain intact. There is no facts in here, just speculation to suit a narrative where it's mens fault for whatever bad happens. The disparity in suicide rates is common across nearly every country.. I could speculate my own narrative that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:41 AM
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Jumping right into victim blaming eh? This just reinforces the concept that women are valued for existing. While men only have value if they accomplish something. Few women would do that. Few rich people would shoot themselves because they got fired from their job, but that's because they still have a stack of cash in the bank. I'm sure poor people who lose their jobs commit suicide far more often because that was the last line for them. Also I can't find what you're referring to in the article …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:36 AM
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There's a few others but it's all "the exception that proves/illustrates the rule". Nearly every country has vastly more male suicides than female, except for 3 or 4 or so. /r/dataisbeautiful/comments/th0i5u/suicide_rates_in_young_men_and_women_by_country_oc/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:20 AM
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Not at all, mens "historical" movies generally fantasize about returning and fighting some big bad evil. Women's "historical" movies generally fantasize about returning to a time of patriarchy, strict social roles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:39 AM
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Women express entitlement over children to the point they murder them. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hart_family_murders Two women, Jennifer and Sarah Hart, adopted six children and attempted to present themselves online as a wholesome, perfect family unit. However, they were actually very abusive towards the children, and when case workers began investigating, they killed the entire family and themselves. Women feel entitlement over their husbands to the point they plant evidence to frame them …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:24 AM
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We know they didn't have sex. We know they were seen talking at a party beforehand. She testified that she didn't remember anything after she arrived at the party. I assume you know you're being deliberately misleading "without technically lying". She filed like a 7000 word victims statement, she wasn’t making shit up wrt how this affected her. My recollection is later most of these "victim statements" turned out to be written by advocacy groups, the kind of groups that need rape cases to happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:55 AM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:36 AM
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Well that's...pleasant but unexpected. I appreciate you looking into it. - I know that factually he wasn't charged with rape because there was no sex. - That they were seen talking to each other at a party beforehand (it wasn't a stranger interaction like they pretended). - That there was a ton of pressure on her, all she testified was that she didn't remember what happened between the time she arrived at the party and the next day. If you wanted to know the history before this, there were 2 "ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:36 AM
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Chad is often categorized as bad to emphasize the fact that he can get away with it. Not necessarily that all Chads are bad people. In the midwest a lot of chads are really boring guys. Puzzling, but not inherently bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:38 AM
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Harsher sentencing for rape. In my opinion someone who outright drugged and raped an unconscious woman like Brock Turner did, irrefutably, should get the death penalty. You've described exactly what the issue is, you apparently aren't aware that brock turner by definition did not rape anyone because he didn't have sex with them. And "got herself drunk at a party before leaving to make out with him" isn't drugging someone either. At best he just got unlucky in that they were making out then she p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:33 AM
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But what about those people who are given idyllic lives? Like convicted rapist Brock Turner? It's scary to realize the boogeyman exists in plain sight. Lol, do you get paid by a political group to post these? Or is it more of a hobby thing posting political memes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:30 AM
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Originally Chad was another guys most guys barely even knew existed. Tall, skinny, but not very interesting, not much of a personality, guys barely even realized he was at the party. At some point you find out he's slept with half the girls on your floor and you have no idea why this is appealling. Later Chad was turned into what the loudest men act like women like - huge muscles, dumb cocky attitude, basically the football team captain stereotype or a modern day hercules.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:30 AM
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It's the easiest thing you can possibly do, if you have the money for it. You literally just don't come back. There's no time it's ever been easier for a person to do. If the concern is the money, well, now you're in the exact same boat as the job problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:02 PM
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I think "being a good person is the cherry on the top" is pretty apt now that you bring it up. It's nice to have, but no one is turning down the cake because the cherry is missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:59 PM
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Nothing could typify this whole thing more than this. " Women get laws passed to make sure they don't work in dangerous jobs. Next generation of women vilifies men for doing what women wanted. "
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:54 PM
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https://latimesblogs.latimes.com/showtracker/2012/03/pbs-reveals-whos-really-watching-downton-abbey-.html Who's really watching "Downton Abbey"? Believe it or not, teenage boys and long-haul truckers. Just kidding. PBS released Nielsen data on Wednesday that revealed pretty much what you'd expect: The drama about stiff-upper-lip British aristocrats circa 1912 packed the most punch with women ages 35 to 49. These shows are women fantasizing about returning to that time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:01 PM
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^ How can we take women privileged and easier lives, and somehow depict this as a bad thing that is all menz faults??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:54 AM
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This is very boring. Like I said, a bunch of propaganda. Obviously it's the same as today. Women don't get added to the draft because the vast majority of women don't want to be pushed into something that's risky or dangerous. Women got it made illegal to push them into dangerous or risky work, because the vast majority of them didn't want it to be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:30 AM
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Change, change, change the topic. Let's be honest, if girls weren't interested in dating guys older than them, you wouldn't be here trying so hard to push this narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:28 AM
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Most guys on here a re severely mentally ill and have no social skills. In that case obviously you must be severely mentally ill with no social skills, otherwise you wouldn't be here trying to convince this crowd of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:27 AM
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Lol girls aren't as worried about their boyfriend being stolen by a 60 year old billionare woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:20 AM
1

This is the thing, we're not having the same conversation. I agree with what I think your opinion is with the people we're thinking of, but the reason we disagree at a high level is that we're not talking about the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:13 AM
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Because in my view getting a girlfriend for guys is okay chances and casual sex for the average guy is hard "Everything is pretty easy for me as a woman so it must be for guys to". casual sex for the average guy is hard It was easier to get casual sex. Modern girls are far more paranoid about relationships than men are. For a while I stopped officially dating anyone I was seeing in college because it was just such a pain in the ass of drama and such, girls were specifically easier to sleep with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:42 AM
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No, it was easier to date a 16 year old at 22 then it was when I was 16 to 18. Money is the ONLY motivation Not for age differences like this, they just don't care about the age difference, but they love that they can escape their overbearing parents and come over to your place and do what they want. Many of those things are not even sexual, they just love hanging out and watching netflix and not having their parents buzzing around. Not all girls are into, but a very large number are. I mean I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:38 AM
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As you can see though, it is true. It is perhaps a bit misleading about how many 60 year men you're competing with, but they are out there. Whereas, women dating younger men aren't competing with 60 year old women for their affections.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:34 AM
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They used to mention the "Half-your-age-plus-seven" rule. According to this rule, a 28-year-old would date no one younger than 21 (half of 28, plus 7) and a 50-year-old would date no one younger than 32 (half of 50, plus 7).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:31 AM
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This was occurring well before WW1 so I'm not quite sure what push you are referring to here. And like I keep saying working class women have ALWAYS existed. Again the "all women were desperate to work hazardous jobs" is simply propaganda that's the opposite of reality. The draft ≠ freedom to join army. Women worked as frontline nurses back then. That is a very dangerous job. You cannot tell me no woman wanted to be a soldier. Google says women in the military on active duty is around 15%. You'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:22 AM
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Like I said I see your point if I look at it a certain way. What I mean by a career woman is the kind of women who defines her entire personality around her career, she works 70-80 hours/week every week for years and years, if you meet her there's either no vibe that makes you think the slightest bit about a dating context with her at all - or she's so adversarial even if you're bored and horny you would not ever try asking her out. There's a certain point where someone invests so much of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:59 AM
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You can leave a relationship with ease nowadays. It's easier than leaving a job. Back in the day when leaving a relationship was more difficult, it was also more difficult to leave a job. You were expected to work for the same company your whole life, people who had left their previous employer were viewed with suspicion and it was hard to get hired into a new job. That's not true today, but like I said - leaving a relationship today is trivial. I guess you'd have to define "relationship" - a no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:22 AM
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Not quite true. I listed construction as one of the jobs women worked but the catch is they were also barred from that. They were seen as too weak and slow to work the job. This caused women to dress up as men or simply forgot their gender for a bit to get the job. In order to push women into the workforce, we get these "all women were desperate to work hazardous jobs" narrative, which simply isn't true. Women were not allowed to work these jobs. That doesn't mean they didn't want to. Even now w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:18 AM
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Many violent jobs such as laying railroads and fighting in wars barred women from participating. Even chain making which was dangerous in the past tried to bar women. When they finally allowed women to make chains as well they only allowed them to produce the small link ones. Yes, women were banned from hazardous occupations that women didn't want to be stuck in. Even if the job wasn't directly violent however, working class women have always worked dangerous jobs. Plague workers, miners, constr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:48 AM
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Ah, ok, looks like I was off base. You know it's funny because a lot of it is how you define "career woman". In the middle class I think of it as "women who's entire personality revolves around her career" which I find unnappealling. But if I think of my more blue collar friends they would have women who were viciously opposed to working at all and they were often equally unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:31 AM
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It's like one of those "would you rather die of a thousand poisonous spider bites, or of drowning?" questions. I don't like either one, but get real tired of the claim that only one of them is bad and the other is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:30 AM
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With no argument, you're forced to resort to dumb insults. These shows wouldn't be made if there wasn't a female audience for them. Some guys happening to watch them doesn't change that. They're mainly women's fantasy scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:13 AM
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The point isn't that women "only go" for bad boys, it's that being 100% a good person isn't attractive to them. You need to be primarily something other than a good person, then maybe having good person qualities is a plus after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:05 AM
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Career woman sounds great. This sounds like a "theoretical thing I don't have experience with sounds like a good idea".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:00 AM
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Women's Independence is a bad thing? What kind of archaic, patriarchal society do you envision? Girls watch Downton Abbey, boys watch the matrix. Girls watch Mad Men, boys watch Iron Man. Which gender is it that longs to return to an "archaic patriarchal society"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:56 AM
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Nobody is saying to go back to 1950's Stepford Wives and "Patriarchy" As always online and social narratives seem to push ideas that are the opposite of reality. Which gender do you think makes up most of the audience watching something like Mad Men? Which gender has more invested fantasizing about living in that time period? Likewise, which gender for Downton Abbey?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:52 AM
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I wonder how many women replaced a non-violent abusive husband with a non-violent abusive employer. This is exactly what's happened, your employer tells you what to wear, when to be there, who you're allowed to talk with, and commonly tells you you're not allowed to talk. If you went back to a time when violent men were more common, violent jobs were common as well, which as always women largely pushed men into and avoided being in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:46 AM
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Obsolete socially but not biologically. I mean if anything it's women's desires that are obsolete. Men continue to find women attractive, it's with women where the "my sexual instincts don't make sense in the modern world" issue happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:31 AM
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if we were to divide all of them into two groups- those who seemed interested after meeting me IRL, and those who I met through dating apps- the ones met IRL were more conventionally attractive. Why do you think that is? Online dating is still something people do only when in-person isn't working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:28 AM
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I mean, did you get a job? I'm not sure there's anyone functional who can't lead at all. Ability to lead something simple is not the same as "needs to be in charge all the time" at all. I know a bazillion guys who got laid via just hanging around for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:42 AM
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And by that, I don't necessarily mean in bed; I mean in the relationship. As a man who's out of the norm and actually wants to BE led, I don't understand where Red Pill and conservative men are coming from. I really want to pick the male brain and understand where they are coming from. Why is it appealing when the woman lets the man lead? It's really the same with a liberal or conservative background. There's plenty of men who were raised to be led. But girls don't want to lead. Girls don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:44 AM
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Sometimes the personality needed to actually sleep with her, would mean you're incapable of keeping even a mild relationship going. If you had the personality to keep a relationship going you'd be bounced away from sleeping with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:31 AM
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I mean it's yet another alpha-fucks beta-bucks story. Guy1 tried beta-behavior to bond with the girl. Failed. Guy2 did upfront alpha behavior, was perfectly happy to chase mutiple girls, didn't care that Guy1 was already going after this girl. Succeeded. Someone else nailed it: Yes its as simple as this. People who attain things want to believe they attained it because they are good. Likewise, women want to believe that they chose prosocial men based on some kind of mystical elaborate character …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:40 PM
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Does it stop you developing the skills and ability you need to make money and be successful? Sorry, but "skills" and "ability" are ablist white supremicist talk and must be replaced with correct terms like "feelings that don't offend" and you will not be allowed to develop skills at any level that might make others feel insecure or jealous about their own skills or lack thereof. Does it rob you of your capacity for independent thought and action? Sorry again, but your post is filled with innappr…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 05:08 AM
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I replied in my other comment - /r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vd8nfb/the_8020_rule_claim_is_incorrect/icmm830/ Like I said the thing is that there there's not actually very many male incel shooters to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:00 PM
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I will list some of them in a second, but the key is there aren't actually very many male incel shooters. It's a narrative they choose to promote, then go looking for. It's not a reaction to any actual widespread events. The original school shooter is apparently a woman, though it was quite a while ago. https://murderpedia.org/female.S/s/spencer-brenda.htm On January 29, 1979, 16-year-old Brenda Spencer killed two people and wounded nine when she fired on San Diego's Grover Cleveland Elementary …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:55 PM
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However, since Elliot Rodgers went on a rampage, the narrative has changed to where they're dangerous, regardless of whether they're sexist or not. No, this is a "we're already pushing this narrative let's hope someone actually does it thing. There's multiple female mass killers - seem to be about the same number as incels - it's just the mainstream media isn't handed a script to villify them, and often hides them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:21 AM
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bla bla bla
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:13 PM
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I've never lied about my n-count once it hit 1. Of course no one really asked either, and I didn't lie about it before as much as just avoid the topic. The few guys I knew claiming high n-counts mostly we assumed they were lying, which in retrospect they usually were, guys actually having high numbers tended to keep quite about it. "A gentlemen never tells" bla bla bla. So, dunno about that. I'm sure there's simeone out there like that but I don't think it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:17 AM
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Oh look it's "how can I blame everything on the nearest man".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:52 AM
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What's the 1st tier? Immediate things you will die without. Oxygen, water, food, shelter, avoiding or winning violence. Stuff that will kill you in the next few seconds to next few days, basically. 2d tier needs are social belonging, sex, social status, etc. Yeah, that's basically what I said. That's cool. I said when you're young, it is definitely one of the primary things that define our image or status. Whether you're in your teens or 20s, as a man, an easy way to impress your friends or a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:57 AM
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I stand by my comment. Almost all mass shooters and terrorists are incels. They may not be "incels" in the sense that they are participating in online communities about inceldom, but they are not getting any pussy. Not even close. I don't have hours to dig through it, but the columbine shooters for example. https://medium.com/exploring-history/the-incel-myth-that-the-columbine-shooters-were-bullied-ea275edd5d40 We've all heard the common mythology about the devastating 1999 high school shooting …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/22 11:03 PM
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There's several layers to this, you can also look at it as women's nature to offload risky behavior they want to do onto the nearest man. Eve goes to Adam to get him to eat the apples, she doesn't do it herself.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/22 10:22 PM
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I like this post, sorry to cherry pick this bit: every few weeks an “incel” does a mass shooting somewhere This is entirely fiction. The actual number of incel shooters is near zero, it's not quite zero, but it's tiny. The reason you think this is that feminism and the msm have pushed it as one of their deceptive narratives. I could explain the simple psychologically of it, but basically it's manipulating womens fear of sleeping with a man other women have rejected, rerationalized into something…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/22 10:15 PM
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Ironically, they're arguing that feminists name-calling men as "incels", leads to rape culture. Ban feminists to ban rape culture I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:12 AM
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I wouldn't go nearly as far as "the majority of our image...is predicated upon how many girls we've slept with". It's a 2nd tier need, but not even a primary one. It's a simple dynamic for an insult though - girls aren't/weren't supposed to sleep around easily so doing so is an insult. Guys are supposed to be sleeping with someone, so not doing so it also an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:09 AM
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You ever realize that "incel" is just the male version of "slut"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:34 PM
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53 female serial killers in the US. That's just the ones that got caught. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:American_female_serial_killers There are female shooters in the US as well, this one shot people because her youtube videos weren't making money. https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/apr/04/youtube-shooting-police-identify-woman-opened-fire-hq The "incel" narrative is the same as any hate-group, cherry picking unusual cases to pretend they're typical. There are no equivalent fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:34 PM
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The Blue Pill is very simple. Game describes 2 aspects to getting laid: 1. Value (aka attraction) 2. Comfort The blue pill pretends that Comfort is Attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:42 PM
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Misogyny causes mass murder and inspires serial murderers and violence against women. This is just feminists projecting their own internal hatred of themselves and their suppressed desire for violence. Men remain the primary victims of violence by every measure, even the last part is absurd. What this is really about is you trying to find ways to take out your own desire to hurt others without getting in trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:31 PM
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Red Pill is a high-control group; a cult. Individualism; any deviation from the boilerplate rhetoric, is attacked and ridiculed. That's 100% a description of feminism, not trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:21 PM
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Pretty thorough description of feminism. I've always said the red pill is just mens version of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:52 PM
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Yeah, womens romance movies don't capture the feel, but the backstory is always that the guy comes after her again and again until finally she goes with it. It's not an "autistic" process usually of persistence, but being emotionally swept up in the mans drive and and desire for her. Posters here will try to gaslight as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:43 AM
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It's always the same thing, their game is they can describe women as "free holes to discard" but they'd have a fit if others describe women in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:15 PM
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I don't think that women are purposely giving bad advice. You mean in general, or here? As for this sub there's definitely a ton of giving out bad advice on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:48 PM
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When women get "serious" with a guy they cut 50% of their female friends and 90% of their guys friends out. This happened to her and she's just trying to shift any uncomfortable feelings about it into him. There's a decent chance that when he saw what she actually liked - rather than the fantasy in his head - it clicked in his head for him that he's not into what she's into, and he moved on looking for someone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:10 AM
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How old is that research? That isn't experience with the people I know. As indians went up in income, so did they go up in dating status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:59 AM
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and I will gladly confront said insult head on. I don't enjoy violence by any means, but I am fully capable of it. The benefit of being 240lbs of muscle I think you're getting at one of the problems of the mate guarding system. It really benefits the people most equiped for violence. If you were scrawny you feel noteably different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:39 AM
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But that is social calibration, not empathy. Social calibration is not a quality that makes you more attractive, it's one of those ones that if you don't have it it can kill your chances. A boring guy who's socially calibrated does not become more attractive, it's an already attractive guy who scares women away who benefits from social calibration. Game used to describe that to get laid you needed value (attractiveness) and comfort. You're building comfort, which is required, but doesn't raise y…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 10:29 PM
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Flirting is an effort in empathy. That's debatable, but you can't build empathy over text. You can clever, you can be cocky, you can't be empathic.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 08:12 PM
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Rereading your comment I'm not sure exactly what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:22 AM
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If someone only knows two feminists they probably don’t hang out in circles with educated professional women like I do. It's literally cause and effect, sure. If you meet women via professional circles, then the i-stay-at-home-because-i-married-a-guy-whos-loaded types aren't in your circle of people you're meeting. Like, cause and effect you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:51 PM
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my feminist friends all want and have equal partners and it’s no problem for them Lmao, both the feminist women I know talked about this endlessley as well, then one married a rich surgeon and the other some sort of business guy where her job is minimum wage and he buys her houses and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:36 PM
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I think they worded it accurately. They're "fine" with an equal partner, as long as he jumps through their hoops and acts in a certain way. But they're nowhere near as excited about it. "We need to get to the hotel before dark, do you mind if we buy a sandwhich from the gas station so we don't have to stop at a restaurant? Fine."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:28 PM
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As a man, her being lesser than me is not an attraction by itself for me. But it usually is for her. It does make things a lot smoother because she's far more excited if I'm "above" her. When I try to date a girl at my level it goes like "oh, why don't you plan some stuff out then maybe if I'm not busy I'll come to some of it, and show up with an attitude like I'm bored and uninterested...tehehe I'm so special and busy and better than you". Typically I get bored with her machinations after a whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:16 PM
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Uh, according to the idea that they're a lot more common than they used to be, yes we are.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 10:21 PM
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I mean the OP's comments are going right down a basic psychological script. If they aren't sitting at a computer being paid to write this I'll eat my hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:11 PM
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Not sure how that's related?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:22 AM
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Most of the comments here are always trying to deceptively skew reality like 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:46 PM
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Well, on this I disagree, I think is is strong novelty bias. People talk about things that are unusual that they wouldn't normally be doing as routine on their own. I could see an argument that that leads to poor advice for people who don't realize what's going on, that's always a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:15 PM
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I get what you're saying, I'm just saying for the most part we're already trying to do that. The reason it doesn't happen as often is because of girls themselves, or some societal structure factor. Guys already prefer to operate by sleeping with girls they'd be friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:27 PM
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I've noticed this trend around here: men who are bitter about not getting women also seem to have nothing but bad things to say about them. Lol, I'm not aware of any online forum where women say positive things about men, especially not this one. Men need to stop pursuing/having sex with women they don't personally like. I dont mean romantically, just like as a human being. Your FWB should be your real friend. Your one night stand should be friend material. Your girlfriend should be best friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:24 AM
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A lady in streets, a freak in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:00 PM
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I don't think this is accurate. I remember when reddit was newer women would say positive things about guys, but then around 2014 when reddit started seeing the influx of disguised political accounts, suddenly any woman saying positive things about men got attacked and pushed to say negative things instead. Women's responses in surveys match mostly whatever they believe it's socially expected to say, they're supposed to say they're happy without men, so tha5's the results they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:32 AM
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Several years ago I was bored and made the mistake of listening to online advice about getting in shape via heavy lifting. One day I wake up with pain shooting down the side of my leg and a "crunch" feeling inside my hop if I put weight on it wrong. Let me tell you, nothing will kill your dating life like an apparent injury and limping around. I was in shape when I was younger. I had visible abs and all I was doing was normal stuff like biking and canoe/camping once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:01 PM
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The main dilema of the friendzone is knowing it's happening in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:05 AM
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Sure, but this isn't describing the situation where it's toxic. It's not such a big deal if you know that it's happening. It's less of a big deal if the other person doesn't mean to trap you in this spot. What makes it terrible is when you don't realize what's going on and the other person is trying to trap you. The most common meme about this is the girl is calling you every week to pick her up from a party at 2pm, demanding you drop whatever you're doing and leave whoever you're hanging out wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:36 AM
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This gets a bit into how you define "alpha". At the far end of the alpha scale they lose the ability to empathize either at all, or with anything outside of their main mission. You have a CEO type alpha who's entire life is entirely dedicated to their career for example. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LDKxpZfsN6Y One common theme on TRP used to be that if you want a relationship, you need 10%-20% beta qualities. 100% alpha fucks, but can't maintain a relationship with anyone worth dating. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:52 AM
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Not the other poster, but most super attractive people with a bazillion options tend to have relationship adhd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:42 AM
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An average girl thinks a man is attractive and interested in her, what does she do? She hangs around him being friends waiting for him to make a move. What they're doing is shaming men for engaging in "feminine" behavior. It's kinda weirdly simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:37 AM
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...and helped her pick better pics when I realized she wants something I'm not willing to give her. She has a boyfriend now. I don't think the point of the narrative is aimed at this, I think it's aimed at women who date way out of their league where they can get much more attractive men to sleep with them - but not date or commit to them long term. It's always the same thing - something is happening, we think it's bad, where's the nearest man we can blame it on? I don't think it's originally pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:29 AM
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I've had this experience several times. I've found with women it's large about attitude and tone in how you ask them, but it's an enormous amount of work to try to tease out what would possibly put them at ease. The red pill calls this "shit testing", and while it doesn't apply 100% of the time, it's common enough there's a term for it that guys went "ooooh...that's what was going on there".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:43 PM
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The filter you go through to get to the date filters for men who are aggressive and self absorbed. You have to spam out a bunch of profiles, then create something interesting, then plan it, then deal with that > 50% of women will ghost and not show up, then plan out everything. Then you need to show up to the date with a bitter edge or complaining about all the work you put in just for 1 person to finally show up (you would be taking it out on that one person who showed up so it's not fair to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:36 PM
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Men: - initiate contact - try to find something interesting to write - deal with > 50% of the people ghosting - plan where to meet and what to do Women: - try to avoid men who are going to be uninteresting - show up - if they feel like it Because women play the passive/follow role that takes a lot less effort, they have a lot more energy left for conversational skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:32 PM
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I mean, as the man you're expected to initiate. Then you're expected to do all the planning. Then you're expected to deal with that like 50% of the women will ghost or bail. Then the woman shows up and expects to be entertained and absolutely refuses to acknowledge the amount of work you had to put in to get to this point. Obviously, self-absorbed men are far more likely to make it through this and feel good about things. I would go as far as saying that it will cause you to become this kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:25 PM
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Yawn. Boring. You could at least mention the various ways tech bros get laid anyways or something, yelling at reality is low effort and uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:45 PM
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Weird how you agreed with them while acting like you're disagreeing.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/22 04:55 PM
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Incel is just a male version of Slut. Girls call other girls sluts all the time, having the social standing to not care is sign of power among girls so they assume it is among guys as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/22 04:51 PM
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Ask yourself this: If we have made so much "social progress" in terms of gender relations over the last 50-60 years why are the majority of men and women fucking miserable today deep down? Every way they try to measure it, the point where feminism reached it's goals in the 70s is the point where womens happiness took a nosedive and never recovered.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/22 04:30 PM
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Ah the "angrily yells at reality" response. You do know where babies come from right? If you don't know you can google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:13 PM
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For some messed up people, confronting them that they're being a jerk is giving confirmation that they're in charge, they're getting attention, and what they're doing is working and they're winning. It's like telling a toxic boss to stop yelling at you. How well does that work - a decent boss isn't yelling at you in the first place, a toxic boss sees it as confirmation of their power over you. That may not be the only way this works. But it is a common one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:59 PM
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You still don't really get it, this guy often tries doing what women say they want and being nice or warm to them and watches them react by pulling away. So he wanders into being an ego driven jerk and he finds that react really, really positively to this. They didn't before when his appearance said "I'm a loser" but now that his appearance says "Ultimate Chad" it's like "hurt me daddy!!!". It's not just the built up negative feelings if being ignored so long, it's also that super prosocial guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:16 AM
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Yeah but it's not like they admit "well basically my mother was a complete ass to my father until one day he went out for cigarrettes and thought 'wait this is freedom I don't have to return to that nightmare'".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:50 AM
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but back in the 70s and 80s it was quite common for the man to just leave, which forced the woman to be the one to file for divorce This is highly misleading. Women often want someone else to make all the big decisions for them. So they'll create an increasingly hostile environment until the guy is forced out. For example, my dad was allergic to cats, so my mother adopted a cat. Then there were the hour long arguments over nothing where they switch sides halfway through and be arguing the positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:35 AM
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it's because they're nearly all a bit autistic This isn't disagreeing with what I mean, the "autistic" mentality is what seems to be best suited for neurotic coding work. Women are unattracted to it because it implies either immaturity in learning new things (or other things but that distracts from my point). "autism" is often the first stage in learning complex things. The next stage is competence and maturity - the point where you've done something a bunch of times and feel comfortable with. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:09 PM
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What's the difference between 1. someone losing interest in you because you just weren't that interesting vs. 2. someone losing interest in you because other options are more interesting? 1. I invite a girl I met once over to my place. Alone with me, she just doesn't find me attractive in any way. 2. I invite a girl I met once over to my place. I drone on about my love of trains, transportation, and a whole bunch of stuff she's bored out of her mind with (not real topics I'd use but it's clear e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:58 PM
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It's the other way, I've known many attractive women via work and social stuff and they're never dating big buff guy. I also lived in uptown for a while where there's a fair number of gym bros, you'll see them with girls, just not particularly attractive girls. The consistency of it is is weird, they're all dating the same 4/10 girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:54 PM
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As a man you simply don't have to worry about other men falsely accusing you of sexual harassment. It's fundamental, no amount of tedious repetitive mashing together other memes changes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:18 AM
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This is the same thing over and over, this really seems to be the big lie of the manosphere. The really attractive women I meet, wherever, are almost never dating big huge overly buff guys. And when I see guys like that with girls, they're always with less-attractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:26 AM
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They're not making real arguments, they're just self-projecting. They tell you it's bad to do something, then do it themselves - (bad when you do it) ...there is something wrong with singling out one gender. (here they do the exact thing they just described) Especially when the vast majority of criminals are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:07 AM
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As a man you simply don't have to worry about other men falsely accusing you of sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:57 AM
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Sex drive is mating drive, one common thing women are drawn to is maturity - the point where are hunter-gather ancestors got familiar with hnting and it was becoming routine. The point where they could support a baby. A mechanic reaches a point of maturity "I've done this a bazillion times and 80% of my job is routine". A software engineer never does, there job is literally about constant never ending change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:20 AM
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"...and you never quit, you're an idiot"
/r/TheRedPill06/05/22 05:39 AM
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But if you never win, and you never quit, you're an idiot
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 06:48 AM
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It's because they just come here to shit post. Half of them are married women dumping their emptionally negativity somewhere that won't affect their real life. Since they're married and older their entire mentality shifts to genetating ways to ensure their marriage doesn't break up - sabotaging any inklings their husband has to move to someone else, sabotaging their own short term desire for someone else. I almost entirely read the forum for guys opinions. There's like 5 or 6 "stay away from att…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:59 AM
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This post reminds me of the other thread about how this is strawman central.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:44 AM
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And handling rejection well means putting a low value on it so it doesn't affect you. Ok, but it's way way easier to handle 50% rejection and 50% success than 10/10 rejection getting laid the 20th time. Way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:35 AM
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Strawman fallacy definitely #1 here. Next up: An appeal to pity relies on provoking your emotions to win an argument rather than factual evidence. My favorite for this sub is Recycled 60's Feminist Narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:20 AM
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men are here desperately trying to understand women, and women are here to ensure that relevant information doesn't become accessible Lmao, dang dawg, you really hit it on the head here.I mostly read the forum for guys opinions 'cause sometimes they post interesting things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:23 AM
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Humans have been around for...100,00 to 250,000 years from what I've read. Humans evolved mostly in hunter/gatherer tribes, they think typically of 50-150 people. The dynamics of your whole life being with a group of 50-100 people is way different than modern life. Perhaps it's the only stable social order that worked when we started doing farming, cities, cars, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/22 01:08 AM
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So, here's your problem. The worst to end up with is the people who are totally crazy but also very good at hiding it. The crazy-on-the-surface people, are sometimes easier to deal with, because others immediately knows who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:02 AM
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Ah, classic "Tails I Win, Heads You Lose".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:23 AM
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I worked with a group of nearly all indians, they had a saying about how the people at the top sorta hoard all the higher-order emotions to themselves. I wish I could remember the eloquent way they had of describing it. Being able to express these emotions - while also having a position of respect/power/influence - seems to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:20 AM
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I'm pretty sure you mistook my comment meaning the opposite of what I mean. IncelsInAction is an anti-manosphere sub. The actual number of incels associated with shootings is insignificant. Feminist has been trying so so hard to push this narrative for so long, and still the number they can associate is less than a weekend of shootings in chicago. It's insignifcant portion of all the shootings in general, even just counting the random ones. It's just nothing in comparison to absolutely anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:18 AM
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The last time there was a shooter on reddit the last sub he visted was incelsinaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:57 AM
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Most men aren’t well educated on consent at all, and most most are taught to be the pursuers and initiate all the sexual contact. 99.9% the opposite of reality. Women only date/sleep with men who are - the pursuers, and initiate sexual contact. That decision is made on the women's side. Men who want to succcesfully date or sleep with women have to overcome the messaging they've received saying it's bad to be the pursuer and initiate sexual contact. You can see the end result of this pattern of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:58 PM
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and women depended on men financially more That's one characterization of it. To characterize it the other, they've rearranged things now so a womans job takes the place of her husband, and her husband takes the place of her side fling. Who has the energy to maintain both long term? So when it starts to get rough the "side fling" (her husband) gets dropped. They don't have the energy for both. It's like trying to work 2 jobs at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:54 PM
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A meaningless exercise in manipulative wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:52 AM
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Average woman lives 5 years longer than the average man. Woman are safer in every statistic dealing with murder or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:23 PM
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"incel" is the male version of "slut" - your opinion is invalid because of your sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:12 PM
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Let's say men stopped existing and it was all women. To maintain population levels every woman had to have 1 kid (artificial insemination) but they could chose what age to have it at. When it was born it was raised elsewhere so worries about raising it. I'd bet you their age range choices would be roughly equal to mens ages sexual preferences. Pregnancy is physically stressful, would you rather put your body through that at an age when you fall asleep on yhe floor and shake it off the next morni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:56 PM
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This ends up being guys trying to sabotage other guys, so there's more girls available. "Treat the girls in the group like they're abhorent, so they feel bad, and want to sleep with me instead" lol.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 08:02 PM
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Not the point. If your goal is girls - dating, sex, whatever - it's sorta like reading "how to become a coder". It might help incidently, but it's not directly relevant. I like his stuff. But being realistic, you gotta realize where what he's saying is useful and where it's not.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 06:32 PM
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I had the same feeling reading the Rational Male. Don't see how all this whinging about feminism and about how men are disadvantaged in dating is supposed to make me more masculine or better with women. It helps if you have decent attractiveness instincts, but have been programmed with women's morality (where you're made to feel bad if you ever take initiative and are always passive in social interactions), but it's no good at all in telling you what to do to become attractive.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 05:45 PM
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Hmm, let's review the story. Scottie Scheffler recently won the masters (golf). He told this story: "I cried like a baby this morning,” he said in the press conference. “I was so stressed out. I didn’t know what to do. I was sitting there telling Meredith, ‘I don’t think I’m ready for this. I’m not ready, I don’t feel like I’m ready for this kind of stuff,’ and I just felt overwhelmed. “She told me, ‘Who are you to say that you are not ready? Who am I to say that I know what’s best for my life?’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:14 PM
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I mean sure, but I think that exaggerates it to the extreme end of the spectrum, and isn't what the other poster meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:50 PM
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I had someone describe being overly respectful of their emotions as suffocating.They want to talk and feel and more forwards, not uave every oittle thing microanalyzed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:15 PM
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Good luck trying to get hired at 40 after 10 years spent raising a kid. My mother (after a combination of her and my dad being stuck in a toxic work environment) led to their divorce. Raised kids is a reasonable reason. I've seen men beaten the crap out as a at a job-they-can't-quit because who will pay the bills for the kids as well. They can end up getting psychologically tortured at work, then fired, then that causes their wife to leave them as well, an entire cascade onto them all at the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:45 PM
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You didn't read the article you posted, trying to pretend it's other people doing it right? ...according to a new Men’s Fertility and Fatherhood: 2014 report released today by the U.S. Census Bureau.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:03 AM
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You can maybe at least open the article. You will quickly find out the % of fathers below 40. Perhaps you could yake a second away from amelling your own farts to actually quote it? Because the only stat I see that 24% of that 60% are old enough to be grandfathers. That's 24 of the 60 number, so 36% of non-grandparent men be8ng fathers. There are 29.2 million grandfathers, or roughly 24.1% of all men age 15 and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:57 AM
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I'm saying feminists did it first, and manosphere youtubers are just lobbing back the exact same vocabulary. "It's just like that because it's socialized" is the counterpart to "It's like this because of genetics and evolution".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:37 AM
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Feminists started off this back and forth claiming "everything our agenda is against is socialized, couldn't possibly be anything else". It's pretty clear the people who seed these narratives are aware that's not the case. It's a back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:08 PM
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The height of feminism achieving it's goal in the 70's is where women's happiness started dropping like a rock and it's kept on falling ever since. This is the same old narrative of "blame the nearest man".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:39 PM
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Polarizing the interaction, winning a social domination contest, is a valid strategy The thing is, it's the jeff goldblumb approach - it's fun in small doses. Doing it repetitively and it has the opposite effect, makes people want to get away from you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 07:36 AM
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Nope. The question is where to go. "Don't go here or here" is not an answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:04 PM
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It's very clear, they don't have any positive advice. "don't this " "don't that" "don't this". They have no idea how people would meet, their entire mindset is about preventing people from meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:34 PM
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I think about that from time to time. It's a 0 sum game for some of them that are not like all of them. For them to sympathize with men's issues with dating literally diminishes their's. Pretty much the definition of narcissism. ...At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism, and they can: - Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment - Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:29 AM
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It's the same "poor people are poor because they're lazy, they need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps" speech just for dating rather than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:42 AM
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is a bad way to have a discussion I understand someone told you this so now you're self-projecting, really this applies to you. It's a threaded comment section, using one point to talk about an overall broader point, is exactly how it's designed to be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:01 AM
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I see you completely ignored what I'm getting at to repeat your point. I don't have anything to debate because like I said on one level I agree with that, on another level - like I said - I started to notice how they consistently hide or obcure stories of people defending themselves in situations they're right, while broadcasting full blast when defending yourself is a little off or even wrong. This is full blast because there's several things wrong with it, but if something was different and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 11:38 PM
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"What about all these other things?" These are all good points that I would have brought up myself before. But then at some point you notice the entire narrative is built around "you're not allowed to defend yourself". Every case of someone defending themselves is villified as bad. Sometimes that's more understandable than others. But if you look at the whole picture, it's very consistent that defending yourself is always cast as the person defending themselves is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:48 PM
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Naw, the other guy is way off. He's talking about a situation where he's spinning plates. If you're actually trying to nail multiple women, it's a bad idea to try to pick up new women, in front of your current girls friends, because they will tell her. When you're sticking with just 1 girl things are different. Here she's ignoring you. Nothjng says high value about you more than you wondering off and immediately finding other girls who flirt with you. That she hears it from her friends is even b…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 08:14 AM
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Dunno, I start feeling like we're going the wrong way on this. Life has become a disaster because everyone gets rolled over and isn't allowed to defend themselves - though this is clumsy, maybe we should be encouraging the ability to protected yourself and your group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:20 PM
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My point was "don't go around saying people don't do X stuff to shut down conversation" and their answer is "people don't do that". It's frustrating. Lmao, yeah, I always wonder how much of these are cold tactics, and how many are just people with narcissistic personality disorder. "What I'm saying is if I point out the truth someone tries to hit me with a chicken!" (They smack you with a chicken) "That is not happening! And if you say it is I'm going to smack you with this chicken again!" It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:08 PM
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“The more people you love, the weaker you are. You’ll do things for them that you know you shouldn’t do. You’ll act the fool to make them happy, to keep them safe. Love no one but your children. On that front, a other has no choice.” — Cersei Lannister, Game of Thrones
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:07 PM
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One "no one is saying that" effectively always means "many people are saying that, including right here in this comment thread". "no woman is like that" seems to be the same thing. The italian mafia spent a ton of time insisting in court and elsewhere that "there's no such thing as the mafia". Seems similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:52 PM
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If you were doing then writing, or doing instead of writing, you'd have experience with why this example is the exact opposite of how you want to do a warmup.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/22 07:35 AM
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Up to his salesy overreach at the end, that honestly sounds like pretty good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:38 AM
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I've seen reviews of Dr NerdLove, apparently he favors his feminist readers more while hating on guys, specifically "nice guys". I made the mistake of stumbling onto his blog after college and reading that combined with a socially isolated job killed my dating life. He's a grifter who found he could make money by repeating the radfem "men are the responsible for everything bad that happens" narrative with a man's voice. If you've seen pictures of him he's literally who you'd cast as "the psychop…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:37 AM
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They think it will help their voters (white men) to get a stable wife life if they fuck up the lives of enough women in their states Oh look, "certain race/gender combination is keeping me down" scapegoating. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2021/05/06/about-six-in-ten-americans-say-abortion-should-be-legal-in-all-or-most-cases/ There's almost not a gender gap in who supports / is against abortion. Among the public overall, there is a modest gender divide in views of whether abortion should…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:24 AM
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Disagree, this gets into a definition battle of what "provider" means and "kill myself in the mines" is severely different than "provides a netflix subscription to be useful". I greatly enjoyed having a car and having a reason to be invited to literally everything my friends and later girls were doing as a result; though I rejected the point where people thought I was going to drive them to things I wasn't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:02 AM
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This is the normal pattern of these things though. Your brain said "sex, that attractive girls body". So you date her. Then your brain processes "ok, actually, she needs to have a personality I enjoy as well" and you move onto the next person. Maturity is really the word for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:59 AM
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You're at the supermarket and you see a woman who looks like she's trying to make a buying decision You: "Pick the left one. I love lasagna." Her: "You read my mind" You: "Glad I can help" What are your thoughts? You can tell from the fact that someone thinks this is a good warmup sequence that they're writing, and not doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 11:33 AM
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Women want to play the game, they don’t want to be told they’re playing it. -- one of those internet red pill guys
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 06:18 AM
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I see you're familiar with the other targets that got left off your list. Those all eventually get mentioned. It's literally the more normal it is to meet a future spouse somewhere, the more noise they make about how it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:28 AM
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If you add all this "advice" up, you get a list of literally everywhere normal people normally meet people they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:56 AM
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Yeah, 2014 was when everything started going down the tubes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:27 AM
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All I get out of these posts is that there's a group of people in a mentally unstable cult, your cult leader told you to hate someone, which leads to these mentally unstable meltdowns. I can't imagine anyone - one their own - actually disliking peterson more than "he talks a bit to fast for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:36 AM
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The first part seems like something I've seen described as "She's become the man she wants to marry". What happened is she starts into middle age and suddenly realizes the "men's career lifestyle" isn't satisfying for her and she's freaking out. Jordan Peterson describes how law firms can't/couldn't keep women when they hit their 30's: https://youtu.be/cUwqRMTL8oc?t=60 ...the law firms cannot keep their women in their 30's, they cannot keep them, the big law firms, they all leave. Why? Because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:53 PM
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Thanks! Mind fragmentation. I'm curious if this is from some larger definition, or if it was a term that made sense to you? I haven't found an exact term to describe it, I use "context switching" but it doesn't quite get the idea across.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:41 AM
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You're not talking to the "average" woman here. One poster defined "toxicity" as ever finding any happiness outside yourself. It's not hard to understand why this person fails to find a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:19 AM
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If a man wanted a girl who had boobs that were both big, and small and perky, we would understand that this man is going to have to settle for one or the other. So to reiterate; settling no, but my thesis is people have a constrained and narrow view of what they like and actually are capable of expanding their range of enjoyment a little. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:14 AM
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The poster you responded to is just spamming the thread with "no, everything is men's fault" responses. No more depth than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:06 AM
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but they’ve been indoctrinated by society to expect certain things of women that they wouldn’t be willing to offer themselves Women expect men upfront - before things even get started - to do things women wouldn't do themselves. We have to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:26 AM
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The whole this a bunch of out-of-date narrative from the 60's. The kind of things my grandparents (who are now deceased of old age) would have gone through. Then it's a list of qualities found in men women (of that period of time) were attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:17 AM
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there are no shortage of 6-7 men who have their shit together and would love nothing more than to settle down and start a family with an equally SMV girl Many of those same guys expect the woman to settle down on his terms. I don't think these are the same 2 groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:38 AM
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Decline in hetrosexual relationships is global even in developing countries. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:39 PM
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If you gotta fallback to calling everyone "retarded" and "weirdo" probably you're just not smart enough to understand simple concepts. No point in wasting my time on it. edit: They're literally like a poorly trained reddit propaganda bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:26 AM
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So what you're trying to say is that you appreciate a woman being oppressed or at least financially disadvantaged so that way you have the upper hand in a relationship market. Replace the people with employees and "relationship" with "job" or "career", and this is an /r/antiwork narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:24 AM
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Is this simple sentence to hard for you to understand? Whether you're working to please your boss, or working to please a husband, you're working to please someone to get your bills paid. The idea you're "oppressed" if you do it for a husband but "free" if you're a corporate wage slave is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:12 AM
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Think the only reason why a woman in that situation would be grateful is because she herself has not obtained financial Independence No one has financial independence, short of millionares and billionares. Just say you want the upper hand financially and you appreciate a woman being oppressed to where she's more grateful. This is honestly why the corporations like women unmarried and needing to pay their bills. Some put time into keeping their husband happy, some put time into keeping their boss…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:08 AM
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Decline in hetrosexual relationships is a global phenomenon. In 1st world countries. The population of Africa has been increasing annually in recent years, growing from around 811 million to just over 1.37 billion between 2000 and 2021 . While Mexico's population continues to grow at a slower rate...by 2065, the total population will start to shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:17 AM
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As far as a guy being white and women automatically finding him more attractive, truthfully this is how it works in some places. Feminism has spent the last 8 years telling women they should marry foreign men; I see no reason men should not do the same thing. Half the girls on my facebook feed who posted feminist stuff are now dating indian guys. If you can simply date asian girls as a white guy, good news - it's even, and everyone got something they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:12 AM
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Thanks for the post. All the posters here do is mostly tell you that "whatever you're doing that might be working, won't work out!". Honestly, everything they described could happen here, but it sounds like what you're doing is superior because at minimum you'll enjoy yourself doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:11 AM
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Almost every dude has met a girl out, vibe was legitimately strong and exchanged #s/socials, hit her up the next day and nothing. Talked for a bit, laughs and smiles. Exchanged info. Nothing today, and not the first time this has happened. Why do girls do this? I realize they have a ridiculous number of options and aren’t as horny as guys but god damn this shit is annoying. Context switching, whenever you switch contexts you lose some people, plus texting is where emotion goes to die. In Person …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:54 AM
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Women wouldn't be here posting on this forum if they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:59 PM
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Would you go out of your way to talk to a woman you had no sexual attraction towards? Why would I got out of my way to talk to a guy I don't know? Same situation basically. But the one you described isn't like that, everyone is already there. If you prefer to believe that the guy was just looking to chat that's entirely possible, when I would go out to socialize I would talk to plenty of people who where there that I had no interest in because that's why I'm there - to socialize. If you prefer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:04 AM
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c'mon they're between the lines pointing it out, they know the job title of every husband associated with their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:52 AM
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Yeah, I think you were right. And my friend was using my situation as a way to try to find out if it might work for her to try? It's more instinctive behavior. Men tend towards doing it by themselves by default then going to group stuff if it makes more sense or is the only way to do it. Women start with pushing the group into doing something, only doing something themselves if that's the only way it can work, or they can't get group involvement. The moral argument is that it's not as big of a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:03 AM
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They're not having a real conversation, it's always the same pattern: 1. blame-shift onto the nearest man, 2. attack (via insults) anyone who doesn't go along with their blame shifting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:09 AM
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A woman I know loosely, responded to my instagram story late at night, maybe about 4 am. Her message was irrelevant, likely just to say something. Once I responded to the message, since I was up at the time, she just liked my response and left it at that. You're left in a quandry online... - if you say nothing back it's like you're ignoring the person; - if you feel obligated to write a paragraph back conversations become endless and exhausting; - if you write a one-word reply it can come across…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:31 PM
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He is the baby...he flirted with her got her number then decided he didn’t wanna buy her a drink and we left the club...Getting girls is literally as easy as buying her a drink, and following up. This sounds a lot like "the problem for a lot of men is that they've been raised like they're a girl". He's acting out the girl role. Someone else gets him to come out (you, you're like the group queen bee or mother figure), he takes a few minor social risks to talk to the opposite gender, then his enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:57 PM
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they care about MORE then looks A job that hires based on gpa-only is one thing. A job that "doesn't just look at gpa" for hiring sounds nice on the surface. Then you realize they mean the same minimum gpa, plus starting a non-profit in your spare time, playing several sports, winning awards, writing essays...seems like they start with the same gpa requirement, then just add more stuff on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:18 AM
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I sometimes wonder if there's something to avoiding 1 alpha male dude with a ton of free time impregnating an endless number of women then disappearing. After all at a certain point, the amount of child support he has to pay (that is based on a percentage of his income) means he no longer has any time to do anything but work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:56 AM
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Because the average PPDer is a drama llama and they usually seem to treat anything that doesn't go their way as a direct referendum on their femininity/masculinity and who they are as a women/man. If you include both genders, most of both genders would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:01 AM
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I've never heard the average to upper class man say, "I want agreeableness" in a woman. Are most of these things this way, that the larger group who goes after the thing usually doesn't say it directly? A guy I knew had this story about to much disagreeability but he wouldn't have put it this way. He goes out with this girl, they sleep together, yada yada yada. Then he calls her and invites her to do something and she passes. He calls her another time and she passes. He calls her a 3rd time and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:46 AM
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What is an example of being agreeable and not submitting? Someone says "I got new indiana jones movie, come over we're going to watch it". Agreeableness is I automatically say "yes" because I haven't seen it before and agree with anything my friends suggest that sounds at all interesting. Dominance and submission is that I have to say yes even though I've seen it before and I hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:03 AM
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Whenever I go out to places, I commonly see men that don't have a single obvious selling point with beautiful girlfriend or generally better looking girlfriend. And by watching their relationship dynamic, it makes me even more baffled, how and why are they together? This was the original Chad. Other guys don't like him - or dislike him - or for the most part even notice he exists.He could have been at every party you went to and you might not even recognize him. One day you find out he's slept w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:42 AM
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...you’re calling me blue pill. I don’t even know what that means. ... A big takeaway from my original comment is where I say “most people are living normally” where I include myself meaning I nor others apply none of this shit to our real lives. Exactly what the other poster meant, don't even know what it means. the men who hate on TRP have come to the realization that they will be rewarded with appraisal and validation from women if they hate on TRP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:42 AM
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insisting that you are an "incel" I realized one day incel is just the male version of "slut". Aka, saying the persons sexual behavior makes their opinions invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:22 AM
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It doesn't matter how many years people debate it here, it can never be verified. Its not verifiable. This is exactly it. The only way these "studies" would provide good results is if you were able to video record someone 24/7 so you knew who they slept with, without them knowing you're recording them. Since there's nothing objective, eventually everyone defaults to arguments that benefit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:30 PM
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You did a really good job of describing the whole alpha male situation and complexity...then you suddenly just declare it bullshit? Lol, you were doing so great in describing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:13 AM
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jetcells: men without private jets who desperately wish they had one femjets: women with multiple private jets but they're always broken down, out of fuel, or being joyridden by someone else, never reliably available when you want them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:09 PM
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women that can't find a high value man to settle down with are just fine living alone with their cats and the occasional girls night out. Then why do women come here and have a meltdown in the comments section? I'm ok with the fact that I'll never own a private jet. But, if you find out I've started a forum, a reddit subbreddit, and spend 2 hours every day, ever week, every year, online telling everyone about how I'm totally happy not having a private jet a reasonable person would start to reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:37 AM
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They did their dog and pony show about adding women to the draft, then it gets cut at the last minute like "shoot, we were almost going to do it! for reals!" within the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:31 AM
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I'd rather have some sex and some money, then just money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:23 AM
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And single mothers have some of the highest levels of poverty due to men refusing to help their offspring to adulthood. Women choose who they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:38 AM
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Doesn't change that sex (or I would argue, a position of respect and responsibility in a family) motivates men a lot further than just "so I don't live in a box" does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:35 AM
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Poor people have more kids on average, which means they’re birthing more degenerates. What I've read is that this class of people comes from parents who have no time to spend with their children -both the poor who are entirely consumed by working, and the rich who are entirely consumed by working.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:27 AM
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And "in the worlds biggest coincidence" you nearly always find those people have social and family support to do what they do. Bill Gates was brought into IBM to pitch his company by his mother. Elon Musk's family is filled with other people starting their own businesses, and he often got huge loans from friends and family. I see little to no evidence that socially isolated people end up "among those ranks".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:22 AM
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That's slavery-level motivation. "I do the minimum necessary to avoid punishment". Feeling that you're part of a family and important in that family provides a far larger and higher amount of motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:17 AM
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You can't realistically believe you can pull a girl "you're crazy about" while living at home with zero secondary education/trade, zero income, zero ambition, and zero motivation or goals. Several of the players I've known were living at home and either working low wage jobs or have enough money from their parents to not work at all. This seemed to be the key to their success - plenty of time to be available to text, talk, and make plans because they didn't have a serious job competing for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:14 AM
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We've all seen this agenda before, "sex is bad, men is bad, better just stay chaste and work until you die". If you do all this stuff it will become like this scene, where allen's prostitute is so tired of his neurosis that she gives him his money back, refuses to have sex with him, and leaves. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szfP9w20yyA No, but what can you do? Live in fear You're obviously using careful scripting to push a fear-based agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:38 AM
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It's male fantasy - where a woman: a. Knows exactly what she wants, and - b. States it clearly and directly to you Men would be perfectly happy with a checklist if it meant the women then came over naked and was happy and enthusiastic about things. We've all tried it - women don't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:07 AM
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So if a woman wasn’t ready to have sex with you, you would stop seeing her? Do you believe that he's no longer allowed to stop seeing her once the subject has been brought up? As soon as she hints as sex he's like her emotional slave that can never leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:58 AM
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5’6 ain’t that bad in person, it sounds smaller than it actually is. And since they're not in person it doesn't matter. Anything you could filter in and out of your search results becomes highly amplified on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:14 AM
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He's not advertising middle class, he's signalling UMC at worst. His target audience are looking to marry well, and they're probably not interested in a black guy. I see what you're saying and agree on this part, but - If he was white he'd be getting plenty of attention from white UMC girls. I've known guys similar to him who are white (except the muscles) and they haven't had it any easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:58 AM
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I'll try rephrasing it - he's advertising that he's a middle class beta male. He's in the exact same position that white guys were in - he followed the social narrative about everything and he "should" be very attractive to women according to that narrative, and he's mystified about why it's not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:29 AM
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If we are being honest with ourselves, the height probably has a lot more to do with it than people are willing to admit. An online website would take an level of preference for height and maximize it. It's like a search criteria you won't see profiles outside of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:45 PM
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If he was white he'd be getting a lot of matches. Personality wise he's appealing to one set of women (Duke, ultramarathoner, etc) If you take out the muscles and abs he's the very picture of the white middle class guy who started reading Game and Red Pill stuff when he "should" have been successful with women but found he wasn't. Good education, good job, makes money. Profile Question: What makes a relationship great is... Profile Answer: Communication, respect, and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:42 PM
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it's exposing men for what they really are: abusers and oppressors. Yeah, most of us women feel this way but we are not allowed to express it openly. This is a great example of what this claim actually means. Here's their previous posts without going past the first page. /r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sxwx45/has_cheating_become_normalized_for_trp_married_men/hxut45w/ All men are dogs anyway. This just shows that they need us to control them. /r/PurplePillDebate/comments/sskk9f/in_what_ways_has_red…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:56 PM
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"Men want to feel unique" "We just want to be special" "We just want to be treated better than the other guys." Simply a result of commenting in a women's forum, if you're arguing with women the arguments get geared towards their audience. Why? Not because these women are doing anything actually wrong, but because they've created a competition entirely in their heads that they're not winning. Now it's a bit unclear whether this is making up complete fiction, or if it's self-projecting women's is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:03 PM
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I'd search for "rollo tomassi red pill frame". This is the most hilarious example of pure frame while he completely avoids someone trying to draw him into a dominance contest that I've ever seen (youtube clip). https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 05:50 PM
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I was trying to put my finger on what was so off about this, and realized it's self-projection that makes more sense with the genders the other way. From this He'll blame women's choices for making him feel inferior or seek women whose sexual pasts (or lack thereof) make him feel superior, but all this does is give the impression that he cares more about his standing among other men than whatever woman he's considering at the time. To this She'll blame men's choices for making her feel inferior …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:19 PM
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Not what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:36 AM
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It sounds like you have a good reason to be angry at a particular man so now you're angry at all men at least right now. This is like an exact parallel of trp's anger phase when men realize the women he's been interested in don't care about his accomplishments in getting a degree and a job, and are instead sleeping with a guy who runs what they're friends call "a crackhouse" in a sort of semi religious cult. (Not a made up story). You're angry because you lost out to something you wouldn't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:26 AM
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Your characterization seems like it's either really out of date, or that you don't like what they're saying - a lot of red pill stuff guys don't really like either. In fact they hate that it seems to be true. A lot of angst in trp is because men don't really want to be doing a lot of these things but they don't want to be sexless and loveless more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:08 AM
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Lazy and disingenous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:01 AM
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I think the author is deliberately obfusicating the meaning for some writing technique. Like sometimes they will say contradictory things deliberately to provoke arguments and gain publicity. Like you said there's a big difference between giving up on "instant overwhelming immediate chemistry within the first 3 seconds" vs good chemistry over time. There's chemistry but they're lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:38 AM
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If I look at a picture of a wendys burger vs a mcdonalds burger, my visual brain always chooses the mcdonalds burger. If I actually eat both, my taste buds always prefer the wendys burger. If I was talking in front of a certain crowd I might feel like I need to say that I only eat the highest quality burgers and would never stoop to eat "fast food" (shudder!) perish the thought! And I might have spent the whole week eating burgers that have no specific name from the grocery store. Seems like any…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:26 PM
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I like that, but honestly, it's because I already agree with it. If your studies of what women like sexually are asking questions - rather than objectively tracking who they're sleeping with - you're not getting valid data. You're just getting "what women believe they're supposed to think".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:20 PM
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You don't have a choice. Well unless you'rr rich of course. But if you're a normal person it's like trying to choose not to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:05 AM
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Stick to the findings in studies if you want the most accurate representation of the truth. Asking women what they want in surveys gives no useful info. The same surveys that say women want a "nice guy" say women want big muscles. That you like one response and dislike the other doesn't change the results have correlation to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:43 AM
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Common online lifting programs are pretty much the opposite of what you'd want to do for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:13 AM
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As a muscular guy who hangs around gyms a LOT, and hangs out with dudebros on anabolic steroids who are even more muscular than I am... I have never seen one of these guys without a hot girlfriend. I've literally never seen this, and I've tried to find it. I debate whether it's made up or whether it's like when Mystery's "10/10" girl turned out to be...somewhat less conventionally attractive than expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:03 AM
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Ok, sure, it looks like the thread exists - /r/PurplePillDebate/comments/su285k/does_western_society_blames_women_for_their/ But what isn't there much or any support of the idea that "urges" make cheating acceptable. Almost everyone disagrees that it's not acceptable, and the only repetitive comments that maybe agree are in the context of dead-bedroom where his wife has no interest in sleeping with him at all at any point any more. Even then, you have to understand that in western culture the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:01 AM
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There’s literally a post from this same day talking about male urges and cheating Where is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:12 AM
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This sounds like boring propaganda and psyops stuff. Where specifically is this "conversation about male 'urges'" happening? Because it tiringly sounds like another irrelevent strawman. It's like me saying "this conversation about conspiring to date men just to murder them in their sleep and take their money needs to stop! women need to stop constantly talking about homicide 24/7!".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:40 AM
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Yup. It's a tactic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ivZcNqB7ZI It's like kneeing someone in the balls to win the fight. Fighting dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:29 AM
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This conversation about male “ urges “ has to stop. Is there some place this conversation is actually happening...or is it another feminist strawperson thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:17 AM
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Yeah, I've seen this to, many times. I realized it in retrospect but my more player-oriented friend started doing it deliberately and he was a bit shocked at how consistently it worked. If he could get 2 or more girls to come out to the same group event and flirt with him he was definitely getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:57 AM
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Did you never socialize at high school or work? Nearly all of these are very typical of what average people run into. You're in high school and your group asks you to do something, then adhd's it away and ends up doing something some seemingly random person suggests? If this didn't happen to you you probably didn't have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:33 AM
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As a guy I've found my brain stops caring if they talk about a boyfriend or whatever because so often it doesn't mean anything. This week she has a boyfriend, next week she's coming onto me and tells me they broke up. The thing that's made my brain turn back on again is seeing them together visually in person. I don't know what it is, but abstract theoretical boyfriend is like "that's cool whatever" but real life boyfriend is like "oh, gotcha, k, they're together now". I've read that it's litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:11 AM
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Despite this, any girl I have been involved with has generally been quick to try to fuck me, where sometimes this has happened in intimate situations and I end up declining because I feel uncomfortable, or otherwise meeting girls/going on dates and then they become disinterested when you don’t "put out". 1. Is this a relatable experience? Yes, very.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:01 AM
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Black Pill concept. Their viewpoint is that trp's focus on personality and behavior is for an older generation of women and younger girls don't care at all. It's either looks, looks, looks, or looks/money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:34 AM
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I haven't seen the same for women as much. Girls goals are often to take something masculine, and adopt it, while still expressing femininity. And men often love that as men want to date a feminine version of themselves. I saw a girl in a video a while back who said that what represents what women are often terrified of turning into is Kelly Kapoor from the office.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:26 AM
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Uh-hu, which specific part of that are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:05 AM
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These tactics are predictable and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:59 AM
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From the person who linked to businessinsider.com, that's rich. These are really boring tactics. Like I said you can find a "study" that reflects whatever your opinion is with 10 seconds on google. It doesn't change that it's just your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:56 AM
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You spent 10 seconds running a google search to find an article that supports your opinion. I'll do the same thing, and can say the research-based evidence says women in marriages are dramatically happier. https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/why-married-women-are-happier-than-single-women After reading the University of Virginia’s study of nearly 3000 people to evaluate what makes marriages work...Women who are married are twice as likely to report they’re very happy than single women. 50…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:25 AM
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Your experience is not relatable because I did the same thing in my 20s. People don't marry the one who took their virginity. This is some Disney fantasy shit. Most of the couples I knew in college who are still together today and seem satisfied were within the first 1-5 people they slept with. Not all of them, but the majority. It's pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:51 AM
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A ton of people find that a need to hyperactively ride each horse on the carousel isn't very interesting. They like to ride one, then sit back relax and enjoy the view, running around jumping on each one for 2 seconds each isn't very satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:35 AM
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This followup of insults, personal attacks, and manipulative ego stuff is right in line with my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:20 PM
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I think there's something else to it. Women go through this cycle of needing to be hit up with sexual things a certain number of times before they're comfortable accepting it, sending a picture of your junk might count as one of those times. It doesn't matter that it's not a turnon - it's clearly sexual - so it has the sexual part of her brain processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:35 PM
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Lol well, not sure if there's much I can do about that, best analogy I could come up with on the fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:41 PM
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Imagine you're going to buy a pet cat. You realize that you're going to need to pay for the cat, pay for shots for the cat, buy food and feed the every day, and do the whole litter box thing. Now someone comes and make a whole political narrative gaslighting you about how it's offensive to say that cats cost money, offensive to say they need to be fed every day, and only cat-hate-groups believe a litter box is necessary. Why - they claim - cats will simply use the toilet on their own like everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:50 PM
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This is why it's not usually worth it to try to be friends with with girl, this persistent game of shifting all the responsibility away from themselves onto you is a big constant cost without advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:03 PM
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It's a lot like jobs, the smarter people see it heading way and leave way before it gets close to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:40 AM
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In response to the comment: Men die and go missing after a date or new relationship? Hmmmmm that’s a new one… :) Someone was trying to start a new relationship and I ended up on the end of mild assault and very serious violence if I hadn't responded correctly at a moments notice without warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:28 PM
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I've many times been on the end of my mother telling me stories that (cough) "just happened" to all lead in the direction she wanted me to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:16 PM
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Point is men do die or go missing as the result of a relationship, dating, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:49 PM
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That's...actually similar to what the other poster is saying, you're the describing the mechanism of how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:19 PM
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I don't go to bars very often, yet I've twice some drunk girl try to get us into a fight with her (male) date for her enjoyment. I had a 3rd woman we were generously giving a ride to (not drunk and during the day) try to convince us we should fight this guy she claims asked her for a blowjob. Like - asked. Maybe rude, but no threat involved in her story. One girl who we didn't just came up my friend and ripped his mask off his face on halloween. Guys can definitely end up at the end of violence …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:50 PM
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It's like all these things, you gotta add "They're hot, and also...". And "hot" involves the non-looks things. I wanted a girl who was visually attractive with no drama. I found one. We...sadly...had noooo chemistry. Not what I wanted after all I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:51 PM
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The list of actual drawbacks has almost no overlap with the things they claim online. But it was interesting to end up in a popular position and suddenly be faced with the real unexpected issues with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:10 AM
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There are hot girl drawbacks. Not as big as the privileges but they are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:23 PM
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I like the concept but I gotta say the other posters are right - girls just don't initiate. They don't call you out of the blue later. It parallels a thought process where this works because you run into them later via mutual friends, in person. I've had girls comment on my facebook pics or stuff like that. But initiate calling on their own? Never.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 11:34 AM
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(head explodes) :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:05 PM
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These are quite hilarious. In one, Alina excitedly posts to Facebook that she’s been invited to a “Ni**a Party,” in which participants are encouraged to dress “hood” and have a party featuring “black music,” and have fun in a “ni**a atmosphere.” Are the people mad at her... a. klu klux klan racist who caught their daughter doing this b. 2021 antiracists? You can't tell! It's exactly the same negative reaction from both. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:03 PM
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I have a preference for big boobs...but if she has a cute face I find I don't care. I have a preference for a cute face, but I find that if she's emotionally energetic I don't care. The only thing that remains consistent is that I'm unnattracted to women who are emotional black holes, it doesn't matter what physical features they have or don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:41 PM
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The downside is if it doesn't work out and now you are stuck with an ex that you can not get away from who potentially has power over parts of your world. Yeah, but facing negative affect if you treat someone poorly may also contribute to why it leads to better long term relationships - both women and men treat the other person as someone they'd rather than burn and churn through because there's drawbacks to doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:11 PM
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No, wrong. A man shouldn’t be doing shit to become more attractive to women. This is like the corporate or parent narrative. "don't worry about boys just focus on your schoolwork" "don't let women distract you from your work". Etc etc. This is how guys end up an a-virgin-in-his-late-20s. The sad lonely guy who did everything he was supposed to do, and most people like him, but no girl. Working his corporate job. Having all the stuff that "should" have ended up with him married but mysteriously n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:49 PM
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It's the same thing. The group is vilified by finding it's worst members, then constantly repeating them over and over to represent the group. Or, by using peoples fear of who they could be to represent the group. But lots of incels do have shit personalities, if not straight up personality disorders. Most of the poor people I know are good people, but I've met one distinct group that was absolutely abhorent people. It's like the same thing with incels, not hard to be one - all you have to do is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:46 PM
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Not to mention, avocados are like $3 a bag of toast is $1. It’s not contributing to anyone being poor. Exactly, and all you have to do to be a guy and an incel is not make a move on a girl. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:43 PM
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From what I've seen, men are more likely to ignore women they find unattractive. Women are more likely to attack people they find unattractive (men or women). Like women don't like to "be seen" around people significantly less attractive than themselves. I'd say of the 2 I'd rather be ignored than attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:04 PM
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If by "invisible" you mean "sexually invisible", yeah. In high school there were like 2-3 attractive girls per class, in a class of 30. In it was worse - there were like 2-3 attractive girls on the entire campus - so I transferred to a different college and at the new place it was back to 2-3 attractive girls per class. One "reputation of being boring" company I worked at had fire drills and the entire 20-story or so building emptied out and I didn't see a single attractive girl there. Later at …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:46 PM
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Do you have a therapist on speed dial by any chance? Right down the psychological propaganda we've seen. What does it take to get one of these propaganda jobs? I find the idea of being paid to look through a psych checklist and insult people fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:36 AM
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?? That’s a very interesting takeaway on this post. I think you’ve definitely got some personal issues to deal with yourself. Perfect example of what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:33 AM
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And then OP wonders why men and women are so far apart. If OP isn't a propagandist, I'll eat my shorts. They're running through a clear predetermined psychologically script.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:18 AM
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You're obviously a propagandist pushing a narrative. It's like watching hannibal lecture in a sitcom. He's going to lure some people in and kill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:15 AM
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The rhetoric is also bizarrely exactly the same. Like "they're poor because...avacado toast" is like the same as "they're incels because...personality". It's like the exact same narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:49 AM
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^ The only value in this comment is if you realize every sentence is wrong, and you should assume the exact opposite of it is true.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 12:29 PM
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She started texting me everyday after the date and investing a lot via text Dunno, honestly, whenever I see this pattern I've just started bailing, because it always blows up. 1. The person doing the texting reaches this freakout point. Their brain is trying to create emotional connection via something that is impossible to connect emotionally over, at some point their brain starts freaking out at the disconnect. 2. Or, the person sending the texts starts dominating the receivers time, which cau…
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:47 AM
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This is sometimes the way it goes, one immerses themselves into an idea, then at some point they get bored with it and realize how to fix the problem, and move onto something else. A -> B -> C - coming to the conclusion that "B was bad" just comes off to me more as trying to force a conclusion that doesn't fit onto the imprecise data. How about: growing up worked? Sure, it's a possibility. 20 is about your junior year of college, I don't think it's uncommon for guys to hit their own "wall" that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:15 PM
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Sounds like the actual the conclusion of your story is that creating an incel site - apparently resulted in him dating - so it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:09 AM
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I saw this clip from the wire, where this woman is part of a gang of people robbing other people at gunpoint. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dRQMXaFxHw Homicide just means a human being killing another human being. If you kill someone in clear self-defense that's considered a homicide, though not considered a murder. When you look at things that are very rare, like women dying, you're going to end up with a lot of non-typical stuff like this. Women aren't usually going around committing violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:17 AM
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I think eventually women would grow to become the same perpetrators men are often lambasted as being. Everything I've seen suggests this would be the case. There's been several cases of early teen and teen girls getting involved in up close and personal murder, beatings, etc. It's way way lower than the number of men of men - but it's there. If women were the physically stronger gender I've no doubt they would become the people doing this, while men cooked in the kitchen and complained about ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:10 AM
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Nah, not only is it deliberately misleading, but posting this you know it's not accurate. There's no reason to take any of these seriously. People pushing these know they aren't "real".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:47 AM
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It's the #4 thing on the list of the longest-living people. OP doesn't even really serious think it's a real thing, they just push it for the fake-drama effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:25 AM
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Why would I apply for jobs that aren't going to hire me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:09 AM
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I've known a couple of successful-with-girls-now guys who got there reading pua. They went from mid-20's virgins to dating/getting married. One guy started when this girl he liked suddenly went and dated a different guy and married that guy. He says in retrospect, she had "given him opportunities" to get together with her that he was just so trained to believe didn't mean anything that he missed them and she simply moved on to someone else. They'd tell you that 80% of it is crap, and the remaini…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:12 AM
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And again, it's somewhere between lying and a deliberate misrepresentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:32 AM
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That's deliberately misleading to push an agenda. If 99.9% of people are killing by suffocating, and 0.01% was killed by a shark, that's doesn't mean shark attacks were a leading cause of death, unless your goal is to deliberately misrepresent things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:31 AM
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Nope. 7.3% of something is not a leading cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:27 AM
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Yes, it is a leading cause of death That's pretty manipulative, based on it being a result of the death rate being incredibly low to being with. But as it's 7.3% of the list, I don't think you can realistically call it "leading". It’s also the leading cause of death among pregnant women Again, it's a manipulative. These are created because women - especially pregnant women - are so safe to begin with. It's like me taking this: https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.162.9.1578 …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:23 AM
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All of that is great, but it doesn’t negate the fact that homicides are a leading cause of death among women edit: This is a lot of deilberately misleading implications, writing "a leading cause of death" which will be taken as "the leading cause of death". https://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod/2017/all-races-origins/index.htm At 1-19 years the list for women is: 1. 32.7% Unintentional injuries 2. 11.0% Cancer 3. 10.3% Suicide 4. 7.4% Homicide 5. 6.4% Birth defects 6. 3.4% Heart disease 7. 2.0% Influen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:10 AM
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It’s crazy to think about, but men seem to be a leading cause of death for women No, this isn't even true. https://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod/2017/all-races-origins/index.htm 1-19 years: unintentional injuries, cancer, suicide, homicide, birth defects, heart disease, Influenza and pneumonia, stroke, chronic lower respiratory disease, benign neoplasms 20-44 years: unintentional injuries, cancer, heart disease, suicide, homicide, chronic liver disease, diabetes, stroke, pregnancy complications, septic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:45 AM
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If you take the definition of 'sexual harrassment' that they like to push no dating would ever happen in the show. Jim would be fired as soon as he flirted with pam the least bit, or for dating that other girl from the other office. The warehouse guy pam was dating would have been fired way earlier. Literally ever relationship in the show would be killed by hr. You can see how corporate-sponsored-feminism arrives at this point, corporate doesn't want to deal with pam's warehouse boyfriend showin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:40 AM
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Alright now you’re just bullshitting. In what world is a guy making 6 figures in tech, an industry that is booming rn and will probably have that guy ending up with a 7 figure net worth in a couple of years, be a low value male? This question is exactly what inspired the red pill to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:14 AM
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AND probably don't have many/any opposite sex friendships For men and women, in my experience it's the exact opposite, they have a ton of opposite gender friends. I'm not entirely how it works but it seems like it causes it or something. They get used to being friends with the opposite gender, you get like - to comfortable in the "friend" role on a deeper level and you get perpetually stuck there. The stereotype for women is the skinny visually attractive girl who hangs out with the "grill and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:25 PM
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Yeah, I was part of a dance scene for a while. I happens faster and it's more obvious in a dance scene. Same dynamic happens in corporate, or in school, etc, it's just a bit slower to take place and less obvious about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 01:44 AM
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Like I said, trolling or bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:01 PM
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Both represent what Chad meant when it first came out. The guy who other guys have no feeling for - they don't like him, hate him, or for the most part notice that he exists. One day you find out he's slept with a third of the girls you know and just doesn't make any sense - why is no-personality getting laid at all? Let alone all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:23 PM
1

you can type "(insert year) (insert model and make) headlight bulb replacement" into youtube and watch a 5 minute video that shows you exactly what to do After having reexplained yhis to you twice and you being unable to understand words, I'm honestly not sure whether you're trolling, literally unable to parse basic basic language, or a bot spamming simple keyword replies. Whatever it is it's a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:53 PM
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I really made a point of describing in my comment, I'm rexplaining how it took so long because he didn't have the instructions and was trying to figure it basically by guessing. Come on man, headlights in modern cars are not hard. Honestly, there's nothing to say other than that you don't know what you're talking about. You can google the topic, some of them are so complex it starts to seem like they deliberately made it difficult so they could charge for shop time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:03 AM
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That's trying to push a religion centered around stoking and creating racism into schools. Sure it's weird to see the right suddenly remember and back the 14th amendment to keep religion out of schools, but if we're going to go for "keeping anything out of schools is censorship" then both parties engage in all kinds of censorship, like not hiring sex offenders, not allowing random adults to just hang out inside the middle school, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:56 AM
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Single women go to the doctor more regularly than single men. I know an older woman who regularly went to the doctor believing she was sick with whatever was trendy at the time. At some point they found a very small possibly cancerous lump in her breast and she had them removed (amputated basically), which is extremely physically traumatic and she was in pain for months after it was done - I think a year total including the chemo before and after it? Like a month later they released a followup s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:51 AM
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It’s been a while since academics in the West really had an issue with being censored by outside forces, and collective memories are short. Not a huge surprise to me that some of them are willing to foolishly use weapons that are most dangerous when they are pointed back in their faces. Yeah, the last time the right was effective in censoring someone was the dixie chicks during the bush presidency, and academics probably don't count that since it's an entertainer. Maybe if one goes back to the 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:19 AM
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Bulllllll shit. Gonna need a source on that. The right is always the censoring type. Lmao, c'mon, you're trying to get away with that claim at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:17 AM
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Probably because the study is funded by the people at the top of the unequality chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:12 AM
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Based on my own observation, rather than on internet/pop culture tropes, I can list a bunch of characteristics that are better predictors of how easily a man gets laid: Comfortable, relaxed mannerisms Extraversion Confidence/self-assuredness Wittiness Ability to ramble and avert awkward silence Tendency to make wisecracks and sexual innuendos, rather than serious logical statements Spontaneity/unpredictability Popularity/leader of social group Attractive face Good style (hair, clothes, etc.) How…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:30 AM
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Exactly, I've (unfortunately though also only briefly) met several women who clearly had a fetish for men getting in a physical brawl in front of her. And the fetishes tend to be about the power dynamic instead of specific body parts like it is for men. "I sleep with my boss" is clearly a thing for women in the past, whereas I'm sure today they're far less likely to tell others about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:27 AM
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