ReflectiveRedhead Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant! Spot on! My NVX ruined our last Christmas together. Bought him some awesome gifts, and I didn't even get a card. 💔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/22 02:58 PM
21	If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant! I...had this happen. 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/22 02:52 PM
1	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them Oh, indeed! Very well-put. Several issues can be true all at once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 12:02 AM
4	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them In reality, they're not tough guys - they're complete cowards. They only abuse people around them that they deem as weaker, mostly women and children. Abusive men and women know what they're doing. Funny how they can hold their tempers in front of bosses, co-workers, and cops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:48 PM
1	Is height preference more than just physical attraction? I don't really understand the question. I never said "my" man, I said "a" man, as in a hypothetical situation. I don't mean that I would want him to be violent - it's more of a quiet confidence. 💗	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:03 PM
45	Men talking about ex's physical attributes I went through this with the NVX that I comment on the reg about. He apparently had an Asian fetish, and would always talk about how they only weighed 80 lbs. He even showed me pictures, and was blown away that I commented on how beautiful she was. I guess he imagined I would collapse on the floor, in a pool of insecure tears! 🤣🤮🤡 I decided to give him a taste of his own medicine, and I casually mentioned my ex was not only 6 ft tall, but had beautiful auburn hair down to his waist. (Which was t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/22 10:42 PM
7	Is height preference more than just physical attraction? Not saying it doesn't happen, but I've never been envious of another woman because her date is tall. I'm short, and prefer short men. As long as a man carries himself well and makes me feel like he'd be protective of me if we encountered someone "off," I'm good! 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 01:07 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection You can believe whatever you choose, and my original post was apropos. Cheers!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 03:19 AM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection So true! Keep on keepin' on!! 💗	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 02:37 AM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Infidelity was involved (she confessed after a solo trip), but there are always other factors, of course. He and I were inseparable as young adults. Wish I could have talked him out of it, and the rest of the family feels the same. 😪	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 02:35 AM
8	I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed? It made me feel like a thing instead of a person. And HE told me about it, like it was just a normal thing to do. 🤮🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 06:39 PM
113	I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed? I made the colossal mistake of sending saucy (not nude, but private lingerie pics) to above-mentioned ex, and guess what he did? He showed his friends, his neighbors, and even his brother. 🤡🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 12:17 AM
57	I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed? My ex wanted me to dirty talk and always pretend I was somebody else 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 12:13 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh, I wasn't groped un a car, but know plenty of girls who were, and it didn't lead to anything good. 🥴 21 is a perfect age, because you're old enough to know what you want, and young enough to experience it with gusto! 😃 It will happen. Just don't force it with someone you're uncomfortable with. Wait until it feels right!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 11:41 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'd rather be a virgin at 21 than be groped in the backseat of a car as a teen tbh. 21 is a good age, because you're a young adult! 💗	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 09:56 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Understandable. However, the only way to suss out the bad ones are to give it time. Bad ones are never bad at the beginning - if you move the relationship slowly, the mask drops. A bad guy is a bad guy. They make promises they won't keep, they play games, and probably have a harem of other women on the side, which you know nothing about. They're dramatic and exciting, but is that worth crying yourself to sleep at night? ETA: This goes for bad women, too!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 09:51 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, don't lie! The right woman would be flattered you chose her, and if it were me, I'd be extra loving, patient, and gentle. Who knows? The woman in question might be a virgin, too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 06:56 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection No Sis, you were just running into the wrong ones. There there are some good guys out there, but there are also a lot of bad ones. Ask me how I know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:49 PM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection TW: suicide I had a younger brother. He was 2 years my junior. I always told him when he was dating to try to date the most down-to-earth girl he could find. Sadly, that is not what happened.. After 20 years married with a big house and 3 adorable kids, (I hope this isn't TMI), he took his own life because he couldn't live up to her impossible standards. I'm only mentioning this for the gentleman out there. Please be wise when you are picking a life partner, make sure your values align. Don't go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:48 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection I've been thinking about going WGTOW, so no shame here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:36 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection There's no shame in removing yourself from the game 🤴🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:35 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection TiL that there are ladies' nights at strip clubs!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:34 PM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Speaking as someone who's always had lower standards and/or expectations, it's always gotten me turned into a human welcome mat! 🤪 Now I spend my time enriching my own life, and if Mr. Right comes a'callin', great! But if he doesn't, that's okay, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:32 PM
4	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection I think that both men and women need to need to level up and improve themselves if they want to attract a certain man or woman. Just to be clear, I'm not talking about looks or wealth necessarily, although I realize there are certain women and men that want to want to attract those those qualities. I guess what I'm really trying to say here is that there are dozens of ways that we can all improve ourselves in the dating sphere that have nothing to do with looks or money.. I am one of the older c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:14 PM
1	All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible. *affects	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 01:48 AM
3	The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot. The man I'm talking about is my son, Sid Excuse me for trying to give a man a sense of hope. 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 08:03 PM
5	The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot. Hey, my son's about your identical height. He's had two girlfriends, and the third is now his fiancee. All three women were gorgeous, kind, and smart. He met them all online, but not on dating apps. 🤴🏼 Don't lose hope! I'm the same height, and prefer short men. 🙂	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 07:20 PM
15	Spotted one in the wild. It took me a shamefully long time to spot the covert "jump through hoops for me" types, but man, this is just blatant! 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 04:07 PM
13	Spotted one in the wild. I am deceased 💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 04:04 PM
1	Would you say the same things towards romantically unsuccessful men towards economically unsuccessful people? Many single moms actually...work. At a job. Nuts, right??🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 10:41 PM
2	If women are all attracted to assholes, how does that explain the women who never cheat or date assholes then? Hmm. The man that treated me the worst in my life was 5'6" and bald. Plus hardly any income, too. I absolutely adored him, and to me, he was gorgeous and perfect! After a few months, I began to be insulted, demeaned, triangulated with his ex, and I was super-good to him. D-bags come in all shapes and sizes! 🥴	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:17 AM
1	If women are all attracted to assholes, how does that explain the women who never cheat or date assholes then? Time and observation (plus stressful life events) really separate the good from the bad. It's easy to pretend when everything's new and peachy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:06 AM
3	If women are all attracted to assholes, how does that explain the women who never cheat or date assholes then? Oh, I agree with this. I've dated/married very attractive men, and some less so. The less-attractive ones tended to treat me like the "mean cheerleader who wouldn't give them the time of day in high school" after they got comfortable. I used to model in my day, but always suffered from a lack of self confidence. Bad dudes can smell insecurity from a mile away. 😟 It was sad, because I never treated any of them poorly or lesser-than. I showered them with compliments, paid as much as I could on dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 05:03 AM
3	Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him. Oh honey...I have stories for days about that man's audacity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 01:10 PM
21	Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him. This hobosexual behavior was SO frowned upon by earlier generations. WTF happened??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 10:45 AM
41	Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him. I took a long time writing a letter like this (and tried to keep it sorta-positive so that he'd read it). Much time and effort. Guess what happened? The next time I saw him, he took my letter and mimed like he was wiping his ass with it. 😟😳 Give these guys the same energy they give you, ladies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 10:41 AM
3	Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔 You've just described my dream life, sis. 💗	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 08:09 AM
10	Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔 YES. Ladies, be very slow to open up to a man. There are some things they never need to know - leave that for your female friends/family, or a therapist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 07:48 AM
8	Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔 Oh boy, this too! Plus a minefield of triangulation: John doesn't like the fact you're three years older than me (53 and 50, 🤢). The ex was able to afford a brand-new car, plus texting and calling her just to drag me, even with blatant lies. The utter temerity of this broke, bald, 5'6" 🤡. (I thought he was adorable, actually, but his meanness turned me the fuck off!) I was able to go off my antidepressant, migraine, and stomach upset meds when I finally had enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 07:45 AM
10	Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔 Oh wow, I can relate. The way my NVX even said my name dripped with contempt. This never, ever goes away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 07:35 AM
32	Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on Craigslist He must be smokin' up Peru to come up with this harebrained scheme! 🤣🤪	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/22 03:27 AM
0	Do we need each other? I'm in the same situation. My life is happy and full now after a bad breakup over a year ago, but I am still open to finding love if it happens!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 01:10 AM
8	Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us? That really was an insightful reply. I appreciated it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 12:49 AM
2	Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes? Exactly. However, later he admitted that he was the one who was dragging me to her, and he was making up outrageous lies, like telling her I smoked, gambled, and did drugs (I don't do any of those things). It crushed me that he did that, but I realize he's not normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 08:30 PM
2	Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes? Thank you for your reply. If I had to do it over again, I would have spoken up when he suggested that we all three have lunch together, but I guess her boyfriend wasn't invited?? He would not entertain me doing such a thing - he just wanted to stir the pot. The most pathetic part about this is that none of us are kids. We're all in our 40s and 50s. I hadn't dated in a really long time, so I didn't get what was happening for a long time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 08:23 PM
1	Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes? Oh yeah. My ex got off on the whole triangulation thing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 10:39 AM
3	Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes? I agree! My last relationship ended because of this. My ex and a woman broke up over a decade prior, no kids. It took me quite a while to catch on, but he'd text her while we were having lunch, and even late at night when we were in bed. She even asked to speak to me one evening, and told me that he'd been saying horrible things about me behind my back! He convinced me that she was just trying to break us up, which stupid me believed at the time. One morning, he told me she was coming over, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 10:29 AM
22	🤮🤮🤮🤮don’t do this!!! Have some self respect. No thank you. Welp time for a second shower! 🛁	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/22 02:18 AM
43	A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call it Yeah, eek. I don't know whether my inner "Hello, Clarice," voice is speaking, or if it's really Miss Cleo saying, "Sorry, dusty mon, but no trauma-fishing in dah cards today!!" 😟🍷☠🙄🤮🔮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 12:27 AM
102	It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spaces Same, sis. My dad gave me mine. He said, "here's your great equalizer." 💗Pops	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 07:36 PM
60	It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spaces Mine too! I've got sweating and goosebumps going on right now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 07:34 PM
74	It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spaces I don't care if he found my damned purse - I'm lockin that door faster than Chipotle diarrhea.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 07:32 PM
33	Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men Absolutely this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 02:14 AM
84	Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men Speaking as an older, white woman, YES. I saw it immediately, and remarked to a friend that if this had been a woman of color, they wouldn't be looking for her poor soul to begin with. 😥 Between this and the sh!t in Texas, I'm REALLY, really disgusted and angry. I almost don't know what to say anymore. RIP Gabbie, and all female DM victims. He and his family should be jailed!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 02:13 AM
19	TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vile Who da fuq are raising these monsters?!?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 08:13 PM
80	TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vile Yeah, if any one of us talked about whacking their 🍆 off, we'd be banned for life. Also, do they own mirrors?? 🤔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 08:08 PM
44	TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vile Same!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 08:06 PM
19	Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”. Or, you can't shove a wet noodle up a wildcat's ass. (Thanks Dad!) 🤪🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 07:33 PM
39	Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”. Yeah, he'll for sure yeet his wife to the moon when this tete a tete becomes a sure thing! 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 06:57 PM
152	I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands. And this guy is probably into all things anal!! Who the hell asks their girlfriend to go down to the local gas station to change when she's on her period? Reminds me of a movie I just saw where they made the African American employees walk blocks away from their places of employment to use the bathroom. I would have been tempted to clog his toilet with it, lol. Hes for the streets.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 09:14 PM
10	Angry scrote literally admits that only 25% of men are dateable and women aren’t settling. Proceeds to get roasted by one of our queens 😂 🤡🐣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 04:02 AM
7	Update: reining in the sub Omfg, I will never forget the 🐣 guy!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 12:13 AM
4	Hu Bing Indeed!! 🥰🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 10:07 PM
2	I have no words Couldn't agree more!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 05:29 AM
44	I have no words Trigger warning: I have trepidation about posting the following story, but I think it's important given the nature of this man's hatred and disrespect to his wife, who brought his own son into the world. In about 2001, I was married to a LVM. We were married for 13 years, no kids together, and at the time I had one teenage son from my 1st marriage. He came home one day, chuckling about the conversation that had gone on at his work at lunch time . He was an electrician and worked in construction,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 12:49 AM
2	Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage. 😂😂😂 I hollered!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:55 AM
22	One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women? Reading this made my blood boil. I wish you could have chased him with a Burmese python.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:06 AM
55	Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a date The absolute temerity of these clowns! 🤡🤬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 06:51 AM
49	A clown in his natural habitat Lol! I was gonna say Billy-Bob! 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 11:31 AM
20	Reminder: Friends with benefits is a scam! Can confirm 😏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 08:24 AM
31	50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies. More like a robot, lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 04:16 AM
4	Happy Valentine’s day! Proudly celebrating single this year! (New account bc other got hacked by scrotes who got mad at my heavy lifts) ❤️ You look absolutely amazing! Keep on keeping on! From an old Sis. 💖👵🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 03:02 AM
91	50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies. I read a quote somewhere a that really stuck with me. "When a man says I love you, what he usually means is, I love what you do for me." Seems fitting! 😡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 02:57 AM
139	50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies. Nor her birthday, or her fave songs. 🤢 Edit to add: I divorced a manbaby like this, after 13 years. I was exhausted and resentful all the time. Oh, and I had to look like a million on top of all that. 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 02:52 AM
8	Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam. Lol, yes! Passed out on the fainting couch!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 06:10 AM
31	Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam. Sis, the bar's so low it's under the floor of the jail now! 🤡 Paying for your own engagement ring is something that would have made my grandfathers (and grandmothers) blush in shame.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 06:35 PM
3	Male depravity knows NO boundaries Omg, thanks for the memories! 🤪🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 07:41 PM
21	Male depravity knows NO boundaries Omg, I'll never forget the nest guy...🐣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 03:21 AM
5	Friend of friends that I’ve never met hits me up for money.. Digital hobosexuality!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 10:21 PM
27	Red Flag: Abuse starts off with control and devaluing the abused partner’s dreams & achievement’s. Throw the whole man out sis! Ladies, never let a man feel big who wants to make you feel small.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 10:16 PM
12	So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!! Remember the "nest" guy from a few months ago?? Bye, Mr. Bobby Bedbug🦠🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 01:21 AM
28	So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!! I can smell the things through the screen 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 01:19 AM
3	I’m wondering if this is a form of negging. I'm so sorry! Just want to give you a hug. What steaming garbage!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 01:06 AM
19	I’m wondering if this is a form of negging. The scrub I just tossed would do this constantly. I've never seen a man who's 50 that possessed less emotional intelligence! At first I would be cool and attempt to "educate" him on how hurtful and inappropriate he was being, then I started grey-rocking, until I got so (silently) fed up, that I began waxing wistfully about the qualities some of my exes had, that he lacked completely. I knew what made him insecure (height, hair, and income, as usual!) I played with him like a cat with a cockroach…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 01:04 AM
8	Just gonna leave this here. I’m sure he didn’t even apologize about the fact that he basically broke his promise, as small as it was. Heck, I’m sure he even forgot about her after he got his dick wet and finished. I hope she wakes up and leaves this man-child. Oh, this. So much. 👋🗑😖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 12:24 AM
14	Just gonna leave this here. I’m sure he didn’t even apologize about the fact that he basically broke his promise, as small as it was. Heck, I’m sure he even forgot about her after he got his dick wet and finished. I hope she wakes up and leaves this man-child. Pro-tip from an old sis: get a Hitachi wand. It always leaves you satisfied, you can throw it in a drawer afterwards, and it won't leave you feeling like you've gone 6 rounds with Tyson when you're done! 😀🤩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 12:23 AM
3	“wHy dOn’T wOmEn iN AbUsiVe ReLaTiOnShIpS jUsT LeAve!?!!?!” When scary and dysfunctional is your "normal," you are in danger. Sadly, as women we're taught to forgive and tolerate the intolerable. 😔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 06:16 AM
3	“wHy dOn’T wOmEn iN AbUsiVe ReLaTiOnShIpS jUsT LeAve!?!!?!” Thank you for posting this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 05:39 AM
1	Saw this post.....how about you don’t do that? Shh! You'll give them ideas! 🚽👉🗑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 05:25 AM
1	Saw this post.....how about you don’t do that? 😄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 05:17 AM
1	Saw this post.....how about you don’t do that? If I want company on a dog walk, I'll invite my sweet, lonely 70-something neighbor. Errands? Are you handing me a gift card, too? Yeah, didn't think so. And I am not getting into any man's car to grab some groceries - I don't know you from Adam. 🤨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 03:55 AM
8	Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡 Sigh...it's so true! They just don't want to be arsed to make the effort anymore. I love vintage pics back when men actually put on suits for dates, etc. We've always knocked ourselves out to look presentable. They're their own worst enemies! 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 03:42 AM
14	Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡 Dear Tony-with-no-self-awareness, If you were the last man on Earth, I'd start looking at cacti before indulging you on any level. You're welcome! 👋👸	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 03:32 AM
12	This is why we don’t sit around and put our eggs in one basket and remember if a man wants you he will say it directly Sweet mother of God...I once had a date who ended the evening by very primly telling me he "never kisses on a first date" (Um...good sir? I didn't ask for a kiss from you!) By the third date (I know, I was a clown) he was telling me how he couldn't wait to (blank) me, in that language, to boot! Take it slow, my patoot! 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 03:20 AM
43	Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔 Omg, this!! I remember back in middle school, during class, one of my friends brought her mom's racy romance novel for us to pass around and blush over. ☺️ I remember being appalled when I saw what kind of stuff the boys were passing around, and this was over 35 years ago! 😣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 03:12 AM
47	40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation? You said everything so eloquently I really have little to add, but I'm 54, twice divorced from abusers/addicts, and I'd rather stay home with a good book than try to slog through the OLD cesspool now. 🤢 I was seeing someone for over a year that ended up being so hot/cold and so much emotional work that I simply woke up one day and thought, "Wow, I'm actually becoming less interested the more he shows me his true colors, instead of more." It's never too late to stop playing the 🤡!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 02:39 AM
10	Let it go Oh Lord, sis, I do, too! They were so fuzzy and soft. But they were attached to a mean, spiteful, entitled 💩.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 07:01 PM
5	What is the Ultimate LVM name? Evan Kyle Curt Sean Jimmy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 10:11 PM
7	Can we talk about guys who sulk? You hit the nail on the head, sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:06 PM
22	Worthy. And I'm certainly done with no effort! ⏰ <---no time for that!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/20 03:25 AM
59	Financial independence is one of the keys to FDS Please!! I wasted my late 20s and all of my 30s with an abusive, LVM who sabotaged me every time I tried to finish my degree. I even worked, did all the housework, and I'm mortified to admit this, but he even demanded that I sign my paychecks over to him (he refused to get a joint account after we were married, because some ex-gf from the mid-80s supposedly "cleaned him out" before leaving him - a story that I know think was 100% fabricated). He made 3x what I did, and still expected me to pay h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 10:27 AM
11	Fact: it's unnatural for men to not chase. The hypothalamus region associated with sexual pursuit is 2.5x larger in men than women. Kind of. The word was around easier, and it wasn't like there were thousands of available strangers to pick from like there is now, with OLD. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 03:31 AM
38	Fact: it's unnatural for men to not chase. The hypothalamus region associated with sexual pursuit is 2.5x larger in men than women. Oh, God, this!! I'm in my early 50s, and it was actual effort back then! They had to pick up the phone and call, show up for dates, etc. There were fuccbois back then, too, but at least you knew back in the day if he was putting forth effort. And porno was purchased, red-faced, at a sleazy store, not one click away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/20 01:34 AM
1	Angela Basset at Age 61. What “wall”? MGTOW Please Sit Your Quarantined A**es down. 🪑 She's so lovely!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 11:13 PM
2	HVM in the wild: breadwinner husband doesn’t mind providing & paying the bills because he appreciates what his wife does for him & how she makes his life easier, despite her having less coin to contribute. 🎶Oh Imma leavin', on a jet plane...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 11:09 PM
4	Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO! As an older woman on this sub, I don't know whether to cry or curse when I read posts like this. And fwiw, the older men my age that I encounter aren't much less pornsick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 10:58 PM
24	A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given. I honestly can't think of a single one right now..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/20 10:33 PM
30	The cockacity!!!! My reply to "I'm sorry"? (With no change in behavior). "Yeah, you sure are." 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/20 06:01 PM