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A disingenuous post? From Lillith!? Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:41 PM
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Let's say this standard reply is true (I'm dubious but let's grant the premise for now. Doesn't the fact that she "feared disappointing" the other guy, but not the current one, that she wanted to be an "adventurous girlfriend" for guy A but not guy B, kind of prove the point that she wanted guy A more? Clearly she was willing to do more to avoid losing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:56 AM
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You've got it backwards. Making women feel at ease and engaging in interesting conversations helps, but only if there is already physical attractiveness. Source: 44 years of life with many women in multiple friend groups who feel at ease and conversational with me - almost none attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:15 PM
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Um yeah... its Lillith. "Grossly disingenuous" is kind of her thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:38 PM
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There's a lot of things in the natural world that we have decided don't work in civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:43 AM
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I had a relationship kind of like this. My partner would always reject me when I tried to initiate sex so I backed off and let her initiate when she wanted it. Soon enough she complained about feeling unwanted because I never tried to initiate sex any more and she always had to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:18 PM
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There is a contingent on this sub who insist that women hooking up with men in their league is the same as straight men hooking up with other men. This question would seem like an attempt at a "gotcha" by one of them, except whoever it is never followed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:54 AM
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Isn't this just a long form writeup of "lower your standards"... the same thing men routinely get shit on here for suggesting that women could stand to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:07 PM
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Right... no woman is a good enough liar to convincingly fake interest. Yet somehow every abusive man is an actor on par with Daniel Day Lewis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:07 PM
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How long have you been single?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:36 PM
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Wrong, the world could be so much better than it is. And maybe it would.be if fewer people listened to therapists telling them "it could be no different".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:36 AM
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Yeah... I'm definitely not going to therapy if it makes you think the world today is "as it should be"!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:19 AM
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You would have to convince me that gaslighting myself into believing everything is fine despite all evidence to the contrary is healthy. At which point you would be outing yourself as a therapist and thus revealing your true motive for saying everyone needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:09 AM
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It's easy to say "your empathy makes you high value" in a forum like this where you never have to put your money where your mouth is. But if empathy was really something women valued in men, then the man with "so much empathy in his heart" would never be in a situation where he would see himself as low value, would he?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:45 PM
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I assume these apps have some method to "forgive" a user who ghosts because they got there and felt unsafe. Which will of course immediately be abused by the flakes and ghosters. So no, I think this is actually worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:59 PM
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So let me get this straight: A man shows lots of affection early in a relationship and then pulls back when that level of affection is not matched. And we now call that "love bombing" and use it as another example of "men bad"? I swear to all-powerful Atheismo! If a guy donated his kidney to save a starving orphan, women around here would say he was just a horrible manipulator trying to make himself look selfless!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:34 PM
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Trying not to come off as creepy or be incorrectly seen as is different than trying not to be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:27 PM
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Reflect on what situation? Reflect on men saying "I try not to be creepy and I worry about being perceived as such despite my best efforts". You brush that aside by saying "the fact that you try at all means you've already failed". I didn't downvote you. Ooh bad luck. Turns out people who say they didn't downvote definitely did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:01 PM
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Nope. Sorry. That's just easier for women to say without having to reflect on the situation. Thanks for the downvote btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:50 PM
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And thus have the goalposts moved from "worried about being perceived as creepy" to "being creepy". Amazing how quickly that can happen. The tragic thing is, as someone else pointed out the guys who worry about being seen and labeled as creepy are the LEAST likely to actually do creepy stuff because they are constantly self policing. The genuine creeps don't give half a fuck how they come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:09 PM
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Way to illustrate exactly what he was talking about. The no nuance "you wouldn't be worried if you did nothing wrong" attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:52 PM
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For me, I wanted a man who was into gaming, so I joined a bunch of gaming groups. I wanted a woman who was into gaming so I joined a bunch of gaming groups too. In two years I met four cis women. Two we're dating each other. One was married to another player. And the fourth quit after two sessions. It's almost as if things are different for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:05 PM
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Solid advice but that's not really the point is it? Don't date a racist, break up with him for reasons unrelated to said racism, and then try to get extra sympathy by saying "oh, and he's racist". Where was that energy when you were dating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:23 PM
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Did you miss the part where OP said this wasn't about actual abusive behavior accidentally or intentionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:19 PM
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I should have read your flair and realized what I was dealing with. That's on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:06 PM
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So because the consequences are less dire men have no right to try and avoid them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:37 PM
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And there's another classic: "if a man is attracted to me and its not mutual, he's automatically a monster who just wants a woman to use as a fleshlight." It's not enough to reject a huge swath of men; you have to vilify them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:36 PM
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In the sphere of dating. Correct I do not. And saying "you could date men and have as many options as women do" is not much different then from telling a woman "your brother's a good guy who cares about you, just date him". It's not a real argument, it's a thought terminating cliche really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:16 PM
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Not really. They're comparing a woman's choice of men below her standards to a man having choices entirely outside his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:12 PM
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Everyone has things to be cautious about. If you can't admit that there's no point in discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:54 PM
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Im sorry but no it isn't. This is like saying its just as hard to find shoes your size in a shoe store as it is in a home depot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:41 PM
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Suspicion that women are using him for dates. This is a red flag and reflects a negative outlook of women Isn't this just caution and vetting? I'm not supposed to assume that a woman covering her drink around me, or texting my description to a friend on a first date reflects a negative outlook of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:38 PM
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You do realize that this comparison, whenever it is made, kind of confirms a big manosphere talking point: if you're not attractive enough women dont even see you as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:27 PM
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Ah yes, the women so lonely for companionship that they... banned men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:53 PM
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Yes. Everything you just said is precisely the point. Create an environment where people can thrive and they will not seek unhealthy coping mechanisms because they won't need to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:54 PM
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Your comment makes me think of the "rat paradise" addiction experiment. Specifically, your apparent solution - remove or restrict all the easy coping mechanisms - sounds a lot like removing the drug water from the bad habitat. The rats there would still be miserable even without the outlet of the drug - that was kind of the whole point of the experiment; addiction is a response to environment, not to the presence of addictive elements. Removing those elements doesn't help - improve the environme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:29 PM
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I assume he meant romantically, as a refutation of the classic "make friend with women and they'll set you up with their friends" thing. No they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:15 PM
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Honest question: do you really believe the only difference between friendship and a relationship is sex? Or are you so deep in your misandry that you assume sex is all a man could ever want from a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:05 PM
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I don't buy this for a second. Men who do complain about lack of romance get blown off and told "you're just mad you can't get your peepee wet" all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:05 PM
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Wait wait! I know this one! "No one is 'withholding' anything from you. You are not entitled to compliments from a man just for existing. Do the work and improve yourself to become someone worthy of compliments."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:16 PM
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Please point out the coded language in OP. I'm genuinely curious because I did not get that from my reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:53 PM
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Because they are and they can be. It only seems like they are devious master manipulators who spend years masking their abusive nature if you don't pay attention to how they treat literally anyone they're not trying to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:36 PM
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Fair enough. Usually around here PPBs get painted with the same brush sex tourist/predator brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:34 PM
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So you encourage passport bro behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:46 PM
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So just gonna fall back on "you hate women" huh? If you have no argument I guess I don't need to engage any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:33 PM
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You know you can't just say "you hate women" and win, right? Are you saying Bundy wasn't a piece of shit before he got caught? If he was, then women can't magically detect a bad personality like your side says they can. If he wasn't... well we don't need to go into that because obviously he always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:52 PM
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Bundy was doing just fine with the ladies before he was famous. This deflection is super weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:34 PM
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I think they think that means they can be an absolute piece of shit and still expect women to throw themselves at them. A That's not it and you fucking know it! But if a piece it shit like Bundy has women throwing themselves at him, then a comparatively unshitty man should not have to face a lifetime of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:22 PM
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The best comedy comes from suffering. Patton Oswalt was right on the money when he said there's nothing less funny than a happy comedian. Now I'm not saying women don't suffer. But the things they suffer are all things that women themselves have decreed Must Not Be Joked About. That doesn't leave them a lot of room for truly great comedy. Look at two examples: Bo Burnham and Hannah Gadsby. Both did specials that centered on their specific pain, but Bo was able to keep his funny throughout while …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:37 PM
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Way to not address what I said. The point js if you are unattractive, you will be vilified even if your motives are pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:08 PM
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A performative “nice guy” is often unattractive. More like an unattractive nice guy will have his niceness deemed performative to dismiss it/him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:32 PM
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Good at something / passionate / has their own thing they are the LeBron James of at least in some way "Just be top 5 in the world at something, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:29 PM
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This right here. Someone in another thread actually suggested "play D&D at local stores" as a possible way to meet women. And God help me, I think the poor dope actually meant it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:30 PM
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Not to mention: "respect and dignity" are value judgements. Two different men doing the same thing can be placed on wildly different sides of the "respect and dignity" line depending on... factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:23 PM
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Nope. I already know I'm decent and kind to everyone. It's how I was raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:53 PM
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By your logic they should have already. And yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:24 PM
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I'll tell you the problem with this, extending the "XP grinding" analogy: Dating isn't Skyrim - it's Elden Ring. You don't gain confidence win or lose or draw; you have to win. Multiple failures keep you at zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:23 PM
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Thank you for that. I needed a good laugh this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:46 PM
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Can't speak to the commitment part but as for physical attractiveness, it's important to remember that while this is technically true, men have a much wider range of what they find attractive than women do. Something about me is utterly repulsive to women, but I've had IOIs from so many gay men it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:55 PM
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And once again we see the infantile leap in logic: "if it bothers you that abusers get relationships easier than good men it must be because you wish you were an abuser". Get some new material, seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:57 PM
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As far as I'm aware, every dating app still has a short bio section that you can read before swiping. Women never do because the picture tells them all they want to know. I happened to be in the room with a female friend in the old days of OKC when it still had all the good matching tools you mentioned and saw her going through profiles... and wouldn't you know it, she up or down voted based entirely on the first picture of each guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:32 PM
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Obviously nothing has a 100% success rate. But if - for example - a medicine had a high enough failure rate you would expect doctors to eventually stop prescribing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:21 PM
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I tried to learn how to be attractive to women. But no matter how much I studied my face remained the same and I didn't grow a single inch taller so... maybe I have a learning disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:19 PM
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I have barely been here for two weeks, Is no one else going to call her out on this blatant lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:23 PM
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Nope. You're doing it again. This is some pretty weak trolling my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:21 PM
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The point everyone is making is that you're misunderstanding the initial premise (or - more likely - intentionally misrepresenting it). First, no one has to do anything. But your partners assessment of your desire for them is going to be informed by those things that they want to do and whether you did them with previous partners vs whether or not you will do them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:38 PM
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And yet, watch the demisexuality leave any woman's body as soon as Chad starts pushing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:10 PM
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Sure if that was a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:26 PM
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Why do you want to be in a relationship with a guy if you aren't attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:27 PM
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I make a man wait because I need to make sure that he isn't trying to use me. And men walk away from women who make them wait for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:07 AM
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In my humble experience, looks are a prerequisite to be having that conversation in the first place. Can't make her laugh if she refuses to talk to me, can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:04 AM
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I would not be going on multiple dates with somebody if I wasn't attracted to them. Congratulations on being one of the good ones. But we can't tell who is who any more than woman can tell which guys are secretly assholes. Maybe she's delaying sex because of [insert reason here]. Or maybe she has no intention of ever having sex and is stringing me along for [insert reason here]. Tell me how to know with certainty which it is and I'll erect a statue in your honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:54 AM
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In those very rare cases she ought to let the guy know, not make him wonder. Women are all about "communication" right up until it's time to let a guy know if he's a sexual being or a meal ticket in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:48 AM
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And gtfoh with "withholding sex." Lmao. Bc heaven forbid we just don't want to fuck you then and there. Fair enough. But if she doesn't want to fuck me why should we keep dating? Unless there is something else she wants, which goes back to the idea of being used that most people - men and women - try to avoid. EDIT: Quite a few downvotes on this. Women really must hate the idea of a man refusing to be strung along and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:15 AM
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Every man who has ever found out that he spent years raising someone else's kid said the same thing. Just saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:26 PM
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If only it had been explained a thousand times in a thousand threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:39 AM
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How do you think I found out they didn't want to date me, big brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:12 PM
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It's super fun being in that sweet spot where my personality is good enough that every woman I meet wants to be my friend, but also so bad that none of them want to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:14 PM
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Left Hand Milk Stout Nitro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:59 PM
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If age of majority was raised to 25, how long do you reckon it would be before "common knowledge" shifted to say the brain doesn't full develop until 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:55 PM
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That's because it's not advice, it's a thought terminating cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:06 PM
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I often wonder though how many of those DBR "women" are actually men reversing the genders in their story so as not to be immediately vilified with baseless assumptions about what they must have done or not done to "deserve" a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:52 PM
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And at no point did it occur to you to just stop pretending to be interested in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:42 PM
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If you're trying to say trump doesn't lie more often and more blatantly than any politician in living memory, then you are being utterly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:32 PM
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And as we all know, trump is a man of unfailing honesty who has never in his life said something that wasn't entirely true. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:54 PM
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Show me a therapist anywhere who will willingly tell their client "okay you're cured you can stop paying to come see me every week".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:07 PM
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What an inspiring story about being hot enough that a woman will hit on you. Not saying your friends aren't idiots for not realizing that's what she was doing. Just pointing out that most men will NEVER be given a signal this clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:12 AM
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I really want to know why this is framed as "to her detriment". He had sex, she had sex. Unless said sex was terrible (or sex is, in fact, NOT something women actually want) then she's lost nothing in this exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:32 PM
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Well that's one way to finally get women dominating STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:11 PM
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I've got plenty. Your argument is inconsistent. You work on that; I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:25 PM
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Of course. Not sure why I expected you to be honest about things you're on record saying three comments up the chain. That's asking a lot, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:51 PM
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So when pressed, you will admit the guys were actually there getting rejected, not huddled at home alone afraid of girls like you initially suggested?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:37 PM
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The other men were mostly ignored or outright rejected. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:32 PM
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I must have missed the part where he said it was only sorority girls approaching those guys. Feel free to quote it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:14 PM
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So who were all the guys he saw getting ignored and rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:12 PM
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You don't think "the numbers are about equal and someone's lying" defeats the initial post of "look how unequal these numbers are"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:49 PM
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Could be. Are you willing to admit that it's just as likely the actual rates are probably roughly equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:11 PM
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Anything self-reported, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:40 PM
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You know men cheat more than women, right? 20% of married men and 13% of married women admitted to having sex with someone other than their spouse. You realize just because men admit it more, it doesn't necessarily follow that they actually do it more, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:20 PM
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Because it's illegal to operate a for-profit Healthcare facility over there. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:26 PM
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I read the Anita Blake books, right up until the one where she was urging her sweet, average Joe werewolf boyfriend to man up and kill his pack leader which he he finally did, only for her to get "frightened" by his wolf form, run away, and immediately fuck the dangerous sexy vampire who has been stalking her since book 1. If that's an actual peek into female desire then I really will just hold out for a robo-girlfriend thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:16 PM
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Very smart to make this a "question for women" so men can't make top level comments of the obvious answer. EDIT: a down vote without an argument is a tacit admission that I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:58 PM
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Just gaslight yourself bro! Great advice! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:38 PM
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Remember "don't have sex" is the same advice pro-lifers give women. I leave you to decide whether or not you are in good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:21 PM
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The post apocalypse thing isn't a great flex for this because the apocalypse hasn't happened (yet). The same logic could argue that women should be okay with their men cheating because in a post apocalypse with very few men they would obviously let him sleep around to help repopulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:42 PM
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I mean... it's set in the civil war and it was made before civil rights, so yeah there's gonna be some stuff that is at best insensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:15 PM
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And on that day, women in that gym had a glimpse of what it's like to be a man literally anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:54 PM
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Was he falsely accused by a woman? Was his life ruined as a result? Anything else you try to bring into it is moving the goal posts from your initial question: "has anyone's life been ruined by a false accusation?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:38 PM
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That is true, but the inverse very much is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:04 PM
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Moving the goal posts are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:56 PM
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Yeah there's definitely nothing boring about sitting on your ass and watching other people play a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:33 PM
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Whose life was ruined by false accusations, Emmett Till for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:28 PM
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Number of comments doesn't tell the whole story though. If there are two comments for the cheater and 99 against but the two "pro" comments show up first because they have 200+ up votes each compared to a handful at most for any given post condemning them...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:55 AM
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All right. I'll play. What does bangmaid mean if not a maid you bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:38 PM
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The large numbers were chosen to illustrate the point that "even if you never succeed your chances were better" is cold comfort if you never succeed. Who cares if the odds were slightly better if they still weren't good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:59 AM
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even if dating never happens, you’ve increased your chances What good is that? Am I going to feel better about my failure knowing I had a 50% chance instead of 25%?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:36 PM
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Three words: lesbian bed death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:58 PM
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We want good women to teach other women that this is wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:10 PM
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Source: it was revealed to me in a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:17 PM
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And why would honesty not get consent if women wanted sex just as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:58 PM
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In my defense I didn't forget, I never knew. Happy Birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:09 PM
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So it's a question the protestors are asking? Then it's absolutely gendered, because they're only asking it in attempt to come up with a reason why male abuse victims should not be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:17 PM
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It seemed to be the implication given the situation. Apologies if I misinterpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:02 PM
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How do we prevent female abusers from doing that under current systems? The truth is we don't worry about such low probability scenarios except when we need an excuse for misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:50 PM
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You're still trying to evade my question but I'm not surprised since really understanding what you said isn't a good look for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:48 PM
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Oh don't worry, they came up with a dodge for that. Basically if you turn away from feminism because of their abuse you were always against feminism in your awful little maleheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:36 PM
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Did you read the post? This is about feminists fighting against an instance of men trying to help men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:34 PM
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You're evading the question but I too am glad we're both pro choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:32 PM
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They argue the campaign si designed to attack women and feminists, and that it is in fact a hate campaign. What is it feminists are so fond of saying...? "When you're used to privilege, equality looks like oppression."
/r/MensRights20/05/24 08:31 PM
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So you want abortion to be banned in placed where it is currently legal until and unless it is made legal everywhere? What an odd take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:17 PM
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Just to be clear, your argument is that women can't opt out of parenthood in some places so men shouldn't be able to anywhere, even in places where women still can?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:00 PM
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"Sapiosexual" means she wants a Chad who sometimes wears glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:07 PM
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A few years back I was at a halloween party and there was this super hot girl I had my eye on, but I was informed that she was the unicorn to a married couple at least 10 years her senior and each weighing at least two of her. Never understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:28 PM
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she has a gift for helping the animals go peacefully When you put it like that, of course not. Sounds like a kind caring person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:40 PM
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If my wife is a size queen I'd rather get her a dildo than inevitably have her fuck another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:16 PM
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This is the way. It can be hard to make yourself take that first bite if the hangover is giving you nausea, but once you do...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:04 PM
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The men who are abusing women and the men who are so rejected by women that they would date an AI are almost certainly not the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:00 PM
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Women being more likely to message men they think are unattractive doesn't really make a difference for several reasons, chief among them being that woman barely ever send the first message anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:51 PM
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Ah... turn it back on her and ask how she feels about anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:00 PM
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Respectfully, I think it's you who's missing the mark. This idea that guys who have trouble dating have no female friends is a ridiculous fallacy. The truth is just that you can't learn much about romantic (or God forbid sexual) matters from platonic friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:59 PM
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Okay I'll own that I don't flirt a lot. But is this something women commonly bring up in the flirting stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:56 PM
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At least this article doesn't make a point to say "physically healthy" like all the other ones I've seen about her and the other girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:40 PM
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Fetish: noun - anything about a woman's appearance, background, or personality that a man she is not attracted to finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:38 PM
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Why is porn the only place for young men to get ideas about women? Can't they draw experience from interacting with the women who are dating them? Oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:34 PM
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You've never seen a woman argue that nice guys are actually worse than abusive assholes? It happens here on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:56 PM
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Sure it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:08 PM
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And yet, notice how this man is not trying to convince us that criminal girl is actually a better person than all those nice girls and that's why he's thirsty for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:21 PM
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Last time I had an actual conversation with a man I wasn’t related to was before the pandemic. I will never speak to one irl again. This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:07 PM
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My point was that "self fulfilling prophecy guys" aren't making this shit happen. They just know it will and people either don't believe them or when they turn out right blame them for it. You know, like they did to Cassandra.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:01 PM
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We prefer the term "Sons of Cassandra" thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:24 PM
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No, that's why I won't accept worse treatment from a woman than she gave her previous partners even if they were better looking than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:48 PM
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Interesting because in reality that only happens to the bananas that no one thinks are good enough to put inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:33 PM
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Problem there is some women will just "not realize" they're pregnant until after the man's window has expired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:01 PM
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The didjeridoo I got at the renn faire says "no, mate".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:34 PM
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Alternately men are pretending to be women since that is the only way to get most redditors to sympathize with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:33 PM
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I would but I've heard onlyfans does some sketchy stuff with your credit card info.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:33 PM
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That's asking a lot. She can't even write a post worth reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:11 AM
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I'll never know the joy of helping my children give their mother a special Mother's Day because none of those people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:01 PM
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Pretty sure the first word of her flair tells you everything you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:03 PM
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What's to understand? Alpha males (those guys they claim don't exist) get them wet downstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:36 PM
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Then you wonder why so many men end up lost in the wilderness when it comes to their own identity in terms of dating and sex. Somehow I feel like the organization that lasts well into high school age (in case you were thinking of scouting as just a little kid thing) and goes on long camping trips in the woods being coed might actually help some young men in terms of dating and sex. I sure wish there had been girls in my troop back when I was a scout. That said, I don't envy the adult leaders who…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:52 AM
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Why are none of mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:54 PM
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Being tall is your ante. It doesn't guarantee a win by any means, but you're not even welcome at the table without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:21 PM
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I volunteer as tribute!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:18 PM
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Quite often, almost always from women who didn't want to "ruin" our friendship by dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:04 PM
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Honestly thinking of adding to my bio: "Not going to send a first message even if men can now. If you're not even interested enough to make so simple a gesture, what kind of relationship could we possibly have?" See if that gets a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:25 PM
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To be fair, they only gave up on the m&ms thing because one of the trumps used it unironically to justify the right's anti-immigration stance. They couldn't really go back to it after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:55 PM
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I heard the Antifeminism subreddit got removed so we're probably getting some folks drifting over from there. EDIT: stupid autocorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:50 PM
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You don't expect women to actually read those do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:08 PM
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"Women have higher standards." "No! Men just have lower standards!" Not to get too mathematical, but X>Y and Y<X are equivalent statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:07 PM
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Done in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:06 PM
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Grown up feminist seems more likely to produce those results.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:52 PM
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I agree. Teachers also shouldn't be able to drink, smoke, watch 'R' rated movies, skip going to church on sunday, or have anything other than procreative missionary sex, and that's only within wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:47 PM
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You probably should give it a reread if you missed the point that badly, yeah. If someone is talking about interactions entirely between human characters it actually doesn't matter if there happen to be dragons offscreen. Anyone with even a shred of media literacy will tell you the same thing. EDIT: and note, that is the exact argument you're making with the "happy ending" of Mean Girls: that the fanciful elements don't matter when you're discussing the parts based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:16 PM
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I have seen practically every form of physical abuse among boys in school and yes that very much includes locker stuffing. I myself was subjected to a good amount of it. So forgive me if I'm not going to get on board with the idea that girls who had their feelings hurt were somehow worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:13 PM
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Sorry I'm not buying it. Plenty of people have used aspects of films or TV shows that obviously reflect situations that exist in real life and you've used the more fantastical trappings of the media in general to dismiss their point. It doesn't matter if there are dragons in house of the dragon if the person posting is talking about the very human interactions between the characters. Yet I have seen you use the presence of the dragons to dismiss what they said. That's all fine and well and withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:09 PM
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You want the button? HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE HER OF CHEATING!? Enjoy being single again thanks to your own insecurity!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:45 PM
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Sorry let me rephrase it in the way men and boys hear it all the time: "Someone said mean things to you? Oh no! Nothing worse than that has ever happened to anyone!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:42 PM
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Well I'm told emotional and mental pain is something that's easy to get over and ignore. Maybe that only applies to men though. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:32 PM
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Jesus dude! You need to stretch before doing mental gymnastics like that! You're going to hurt yourself! Anyone else on this sub points to a movie as evidence and you give them a snarky version of "movies aren't real". You want to use a movie to make a point and suddenly they're relevant. And even if the movie doesn't actually support the point you're trying to make you'll still try to weasel out of it. You have to pick one. Either fiction is applicable to real life or it isn't. And the neat thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:30 PM
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I'll be sure to inform the weaker guys once I figure out which lockers they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:07 PM
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A: don't you usually consider fiction irrelevant to reality? B: remind me how that movie ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:06 PM
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No I don't mind them having that peace of mind. ...now about that paternity test...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:04 PM
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Bears are obviously right out. As the only man I would likely be exiled by the women for their "safety" and die alone in the wilds. So it's gonna be men. I won't be the top of the heap but as long as I contribute to the general survival of the group, I will be allowed to remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:46 PM
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Men will be required to go on mood altering medications that deaden their negative emotions to keep them from hurting others. Those who won't or can't will be institutionalized or imprisoned. This will very much include people who can't afford the drugs in places without public healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:04 PM
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I mean, it's what I heard happened. Could be apocryphal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:25 AM
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I am convinced that all men here that are miserable intolerable people are because they are single. Some are born miserable, some achieve it, but let's be real, most have misery thrust upon them. EDIT: your downvotes only make me more convinced I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:26 AM
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After my last breakup I swore to myself I would never compromise on attraction again. That was 15 years ago and I'm starting to wonder if maybe I made a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:22 AM
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Without googling, what is average height?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:52 PM
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Most guys don't care about a woman's height. And the height preference in women isn't for a man taller than her, it's for a man taller than the majority of men. That's why it upsets men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:43 PM
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That's the only kind of woman that seems to be into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:31 PM
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Trying to decide if this was a subtle bear thread. Honestly just jokin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:02 PM
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i feel like goldilocks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:58 PM
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Not in places where they are illegal and/or prohibitively expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:15 PM
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Reminder that the creature designers took their initial designs around the office and asked "would you?". Then they altered the design and did it again, repeating until a majority answered "yes".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:13 PM
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Trinket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:11 PM
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Interesting way to say women are only capable of loving the most attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:10 PM
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Um, yeah. I have a bank card. I'm not going to pay in the store like some fucking peasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:37 PM
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It's not about "not being picked" it's about being considered more dangerous (in whatever capacity the woman fears) than a wild animal. Trying to make it about not being picked is an attempt to ignore and minimize what men actually find offensive about the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:35 PM
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It's probably porn-induced for the most part. Source: it came to me in a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:14 PM
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Why doesn't the gas station have a roof over the pumps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:13 PM
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That was just an example but I'm sure you realized that. You're a smart good faith poster and not a troll after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:53 PM
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You can win. It just might involve coming up with thought experiments and scenarios that reflect reality and aren't loaded with misandry. I eagerly await the day a woman tries that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:30 PM
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Cobain, but I worry that it's only because he didn't live long enough to show his ass like Lennon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:08 PM
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That's not the slam dunk dodge you think since all it does is reveal that you think a man is as likely to rape you as a bear is to kill you. It's still misandry no matter how you try to turn your head and squint at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:06 PM
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"Unpaid labor" is the three dishes she washed while he was having fun perched precariously on the roof mucking half-rotted leaves out of the gutters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:30 PM
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In fairness, that's a two-way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:28 PM
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I think there's like one somewhere in upper Michigan and another in Vegas but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:08 PM
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Looks like he couldn't get the support a person needs solely from male platonic friends. I actually curious what the "cure your loneliness through the power of friendship!" crowd has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:26 PM
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They are making a blanket statement about a group of which I am a part. They don't have to say my name to be talking about me. And with any other blanket statement about any other demographic you would understand and accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:56 PM
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Also if you think a random man is more likely to rape you than a bear is to maul you, you need more help than a dating sub reddit can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:54 PM
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Do you know me personally such that you could exclude me when you make a blanket statement about men? No? Then you are including me by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:51 PM
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Right? Why would someone take it personally that you think they're more dangerous to be around than a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:39 PM
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"The average man is more dangerous than a large apex predator in its natural hunting grounds. I don't understand why men find this idea offensive."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:35 PM
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Never been that guy for any of my women friends. More proof (as if I needed any) how fugly I've always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:44 PM
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Mosquitoes have us all beat for all time in death toll. Of course since only female mosquitoes bite...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:11 PM
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I never have that problem. If it takes me longer than 5 minutes to choose I just default to Bloodborne.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:17 PM
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If you needed a mascot to sell toilet paper, would you pick a man or a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:14 PM
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Those are traits women want in their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:33 PM
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Please describe the personality traits that make women find a guy fun to be friends with but not a romantic prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:28 PM
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It shouldn't be weird for all the guys who are apparently single because of their terrible personalities. Much wierder to me are the guys who get told that they must have a bad personality - because there's no other reason they could be rejected romantically - yet women are somehow eager to be platonic friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:23 PM
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Women are truly suicidal less often than men, so they choose methods they are likely to survive as a cry for help. Men know they aren't likely to receive help no matter how long or loudly they call for it so they pick a method that gets the job done to end their suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:06 PM
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I'm actually on bumble not tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:26 PM
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So what are the things you think somone at 20 can be trusted to k own about their own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:25 PM
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Don't forget the classic: multiple pics of the same three women with no indication which one is her (spoiler: it's never the one you hope).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:18 PM
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I do what women do with age. I lie in the height box (to get past height filters) then say "oops got that wrong teehee" in my bio so I'm not technically lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:17 PM
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At some point this entire sub (and I guess this entire society) really needs to reach a consensus on whether 20-year-olds are adults or children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:14 PM
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You have not established that there wasnt personal choice in the past. Nor have you established that disliking someone's choice necessitates a desire for them to have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:56 PM
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So you're saying the peasant could have self improved to the point where the girl would have picked him over the king?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:25 PM
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You have not established that the one follows from the other. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:01 PM
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Again, you can dislike someone's choice without thinking they should not have the freedom to make it. Honestly it's sounding like women just want to be universally praised for everything they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:04 PM
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Well now hold up. That's not at all what you said initially. You indicated the only reason someone could be horrified at modern dating is due to a corresponding horror at female autonomy. Defend that position or admit it was flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:05 PM
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Odd take. If you dislike bad things people have done with their autonomy do you automatically think they should not have had said autonomy in the first place? Cause that sounds like a "you" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:48 PM
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I'm not saying you should be held to that standard. I'm saying someone who does hold you to that standard should be prepared to be held to it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:41 PM
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But my point is, if feminists are going to hold men to that standard (and I think we can agree they do) then they need to hold themselves to the same standard... at which point it is not inappropriate to take their silence in the face of misandry as agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:49 PM
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I mean I don't want to waste my life patrolling people in real life and the internet to ensure all immoral viewpoints are snuffed out, Except that's exactly what feminists expect men to do when it comes to misogyny. "If you don't challenge, you agree" is a thing i have literally been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:30 PM
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If they polled incels.is and all the guys there said they didn't hate women would you accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:48 PM
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I mean... you can stop inviting them to speak at your events. You can stop teaching their books in your classes. You can do more than just say they aren't true scotsmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:37 PM
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I get media from a pretty wide range of sources. If there was actually a lot of challenge going on (and not being deliberately hidden which, why would you?) I would expect to have seen at least some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:34 PM
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Fair enough. I would only argue that if the measured feminists are only willing to challenge the radicals where men can't see it happen, they can't exactly make surprised Pikachu face if men assume they agree with the radicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:28 PM
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All those feminists who "don't hate men" stand by and say nothing when the ones who do hate men get going. What is it they themselves say about men who insist that they're not misogynist, but don't challenge men around them who display misogyny? Mainstream feminism does nothing to cast out the radfems; at best they will make a token no true scotsman argument when confronted with them. Mainstream feminist scholarship still teaches Dworkin and Solanas - not as historical relics but as thinkers who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:00 PM
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If you've never met young and now you're both "old" and she wants you, there's no reason to not give her a chance. People always say this, as if guys can't tell when a woman would not have gone for them in her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:02 PM
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That still sounds sketchy. Can't hurt to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:39 PM
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Might want to make a report to the labor board while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:22 PM
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A porn star active in certain niche genres.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:21 PM
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Answer the question instead of dancing around it. You chose the lottery as a metaphor. An ugly guy and a hot guy have the same chance of winning the lottery. So do you or do you not believe an ugly guy has the same chance of becoming a sex symbol as Meeks did... because otherwise you cannot argue that it was purely luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:27 PM
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So you're saying a dude with a double chin ans splotchy complexion could just as easily gone viral as "too handsome for prison"? Just a total crapshoot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:11 PM
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It's only luck if you assume women picked which mugshot to drool over and share around at random. Is that how you think they chose him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:52 PM
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Lottery is random. People choose to make other people internet famous and it can be instructive to observe who gets chosen and by whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:43 PM
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No you just insist they don't matter or aren't representative. Same net effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:26 PM
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People will call real world examples of RP fictional anyway so might as well cut out that middle man as it were.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:26 PM
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Nice try. Don't pretend a 5/10 woman wants a 5/10 man any more than a 7.5/10 woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:59 PM
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Not only juiced, but more dehydrated than astronaut ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:54 PM
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If there's nothing wrong with my heart (as my doctor insists) why does my chest still hurt? Don't just tell me what's not wrong; figure out what is wrong and FUCKING FIX IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:35 PM
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I see what you did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:46 PM
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But is there a titty bar in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:42 PM
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I'm still gonna go with Compton. Can't buy weed and a 40 in the woods can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:40 PM
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Well if we're to assume this is threat analysis, I'm always safer if I'm entirely alone so I guess compton.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:35 PM
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In the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:31 PM
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A sad commentary on the extremes men are being pushed to by the inflated standards of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:55 PM
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Rtx 4s kill fewer men every year than women do (especially without power) so definitely the computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:51 PM
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So how ugly does he have to be for it to overcome a good personality? Or is it that thing where the hottest guys also conveniently all have the best personalities anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:54 PM
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If you're a killer robot from the future or an abusive psychiatric orderly sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:58 PM
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conducting a study related to how people exit inceldom They get laid. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:41 PM
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Sarah Connor in T2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:39 PM
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"We stopped having sex with men who care about consent! Why haven't rapes decreased!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:58 PM
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So young women are more likely to be partnered than men in the same age range but it doesn't count because those are probably age gap relationships? EDIT: the down vote is how you know your post hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:35 PM
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What practical difference does this make if the end result is that theyre worse? You don't get to break someone and then claim they were already broken. Getting rejected a few times Does anyone actually believe this or do they just try desperately to convince themselves? What made them better? The way the were initially taught to treat women, with kindness courtesy etc, before they realized that doing so would be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:32 PM
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Learn to drink it hot like an adult and you'll never have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:24 PM
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Kinder, more empathetic, less selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:23 PM
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What is ELO? Besides one of the greatest prog rock bands ever, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:09 PM
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"Average shy nerds are no better than Chad!" Well, they were before years/decades of rejection crushed their spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:44 PM
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Evolution doesn't really work like that. Genes don't recognize the good of society. They don't really "recognize" anything. Helpful stuff gets passed on, harmful stuff dies out. An "adapation" that makes it's host unlikely to reproduce will never propagated because how would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:35 PM
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We literally wouldn't message you first at all if the app didn't make us. Women don't chase men. Fine but then don't complain about men being "low effort".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:23 PM
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I especially love the implication that she's eventually going to work her way up to mind blowing sex with "total package" guy instead of, you know, starfishing and eventually DBRing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:19 PM
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Funny you say that, because I'm on Bumble. You know, the one where women have to message first. Want to take a guess how many words the longest opening message I've ever received was?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:08 PM
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I mean you do have to stretch the definition for USSR but it did involve a ruler selecting their successor, irregardless if there was a bloodline involved. Not unlike Roman emperors adopting unrelated people to be their heir and successor. A stretch? Totally. But there is and argument to be had whereas there is no sound way to even suggest dynasty for the third reich.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:02 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:54 PM
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USSR arguably but I don't think a government that collapsed after 12 years and with only one head of state in its entire run can possibly count no matter how much you stretch the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:53 PM
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Rarely if ever faceless monsters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:51 PM
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Of course they will, but their perspective will be unreliable, colored by their immense privelege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:23 PM
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Untrue generalization Exactly what OP is talking about. Untrue generalization Misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:17 PM
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And why, pray tell, do you suppose your threshold for "better than shark sex" is so much higher than a man's (hint: it just might have to do with who is hornier in general)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:06 PM
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When your best argument involves sex with an entirely different species, it's not the "gotcha" you might think. If anything, you're sort of proving his point. "Women are just as horny as men, we just see sex as comparable to having your genitals bitten off by a shark".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:57 PM
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Stress will only make conception less likely. You should both just consider this license to raw dog as much as you want and have some fun. If it still doesn't work you can then look at other options but at least you enjoyed yourselves instead of turning sex into some kind of scheduled chore like a lot of people trying to conceive do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:46 PM
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Bingo. I was in my college anime club. Not a single instance of sexual misconduct of any kind in the four years I was there. I wouldn't even want to guess how many there were over on Greek row in that same timeframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:41 PM
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Fantasy Football is bad because it's just D&D for the people who used to beat up the people who played D&D.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:32 PM
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I mean it's not especially in the context of possible constitutional ammendments but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:31 PM
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Thank you for illustrating my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:25 PM
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It's easy to tell someone you're rejecting that they're cute; you never have to put your money where your mouth is. It's the same as the ones who say "you'll make someone so happy someday! (But that someone will never be me)"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:05 PM
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The way you frame this illustrates the problem. Certain parties have spread a false dilemma about gun control: that there are only the two extremes of absolute allowance or absolute ban available.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:34 PM
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Precisely the point. The constitution can be changed when necessary, but that necessity has to be well-founded in order to get the support necessary to do it. That's the idea anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:33 PM
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How dare you suggest a woman needs to contribute in any way to her own enjoyment of sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:14 PM
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If she wanted to she would. "Mental recession" is just an obfuscated "it's not you it's me". If a guy she actually wanted were to hit her up tomorrow she'd suddenly be in a mental post-war boom. Sorry bro, but you're better cutting your losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:08 PM
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Webster adds pop culture terms every year. Just recently, the added "simp" for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:25 PM
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Why would his medical degree be in a dictionary?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:22 PM
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I don't think we're going to see eye to eye on this one. To me, legal consensual sex work will never be listed among "the most vile and degenerate behavior" (emphasis mine) like murder will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:32 PM
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So... just so we're clear... taking your clothes off and dry humping people for money is morally equivalent to mass murder of innocent strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:15 PM
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Yeah. On the one hand she's pretty clearly some kind of malignant narcissist. On the other hand, it couldn't have happened to nicer people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:12 PM
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I've always been amazed how my personality is wonderful to be friends with but somehow also what's holding me back from dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:57 PM
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Yes. A woman with a really great body who chooses to dress in skimpy goth gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:26 PM
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Loneliness crisis has always been about romantic loneliness. Trying to make it about friendship is a deflection. And anyway the men I've known who struggled the most with romantic loneliness have always had lots of friends usually of both sexes. Their problem is usually that no one will ever look at them as more than just a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:25 PM
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I'll stop saying it the moment it stops being true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:26 PM
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Where does he party now that epsteins island is closed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:24 PM
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If we all just kept our heads firmly in the sand, problems just wouldn't exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:21 PM
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Did that study control for whether this decline in being taken seriously was among people who did or did not know them pre-transition? Or for that matter, whether they are "passing" post-transition? Transphobia is still an unfortunate reality after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:12 PM
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Men have been pointing out lately that every type of woman has at least some men who find them attractive... How can we spin this as a bad part of being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:41 PM
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Fair enough. Any single mom who can prove to me that her kid/s were fathered by God gets a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:40 PM
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So why are posts about being unhappy (woe is me) banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:57 PM
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I'm just quoting the reason given for why posts about being unhappy are banned. Maybe those posts don't bother me as much because they're not so transparently meant to get a reaction just like this one. So congratulations I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:54 PM
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This is a debate sub. Where is the debate in your brag post?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:39 PM
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You know what you're doing. Nothing is served by playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:32 PM
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Thank you for reminding us all why brag posts should be banned the same way woe posts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:28 PM
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Tutorial Mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:04 PM
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Why would I enter an LTR with somone who doesn't want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:52 PM
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Not their life but their goods. They watch the black shopper more closely because they fear shoplifting. There is no substantial difference. It's prejudice all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:34 PM
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So your argument is that it's fine to "follow your instincts"... just like it's fine for the racists shopkeeper to follow theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:07 PM
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If you disagreed with OPs main premise, you should have said so. Instead you said it was fine to view men as creepy and worrying about how it's a double standard is silly. So which is it? Men are seen as creepy and it's fine? Or they're not seen as creepy in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:37 PM
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Being the group not subjected to the double standard must make that pretty easy to say. I'm sure store employees who watch black shoppers more closely employ similar reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:14 PM
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unless every woman is afraid that all average and below average looking guys are going to rape/kill her I mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:33 PM
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Would you go so far as to day 3D men are some kind of disgusting...perhaps like unto a pig ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:45 PM
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I think this highlights a big part of the problem with modern dating. Women, with their near-infinite options, can't imagine not just ending it at the first wrinkle or yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:21 PM
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Yes they want a lot more which is why the bar is nowhere near the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:30 PM
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And yet, men who do none of those things get rejected every day. This indicates that the bar is, at best, a moving target.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:02 PM
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Well to be fair, they don't when the guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:30 PM
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Women will tie themselves into knots trying to deny it, but yes this is absolutely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:09 PM
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Wish I could find a woman who would be this willfully blind about my nerd hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:05 PM
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That's a BS cop out. If you're afraid of someone you want them gone ASAP. Stringing them along and feigning interest will only keep them around longer. Which is awesome if your goal is to extract something of value from them (time, money, attention, other) but not a great strategy if you "fear for your life" from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:07 PM
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I think if they wanted to cast her in a movie about fish people it should have been The Shadow Over Innsmouth not The Little Mermaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:59 PM
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I encompass multitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:44 PM
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It's also easier when you're good looking, born in the right family, etc. Pretty much what I said. Nobody said shit's fair, unfortunately. We just do whatever we can with the hand we're dealt. Fun that you use a card metaphor. Would you tell someone with a weak hand in poker to just fold without even trying to bluff?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:30 PM
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It's very easy to have fun being yourself when "yourself" already has the qualities that please a large number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:43 PM
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Well I'm already 5'9 with a 5 (at best) face so I'll happily take either one as an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:03 PM
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I don't know. It seems like men are the ones who can't catch a break here, condemned no matter who they are or what they believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:32 PM
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I mean... there's a not-insignificant number of women who are thirsty for actual serial killers so...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:16 PM
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So much. Maybe it's because I burn so easy, but I can't stand sunny days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:12 PM
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My college anime club in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:34 PM
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Check the ICUs and the morgues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:33 PM
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Well first of all because many men trust their partner too much for it to even occur to them to do this, and they get deceived. But even for men with suspicions, it's gonna be hard to get that swab before the birth certificate is signed, and once it is it won't matter much how a test comes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:11 PM
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They also conveniently ignore that the whole point of mandatory testing would be to protect men who do trust a partner without knowing she is not worthy of that trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:55 PM
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So how was Dune?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:57 PM
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If men got pregnant they could be artificially inseminated. No need to find them a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:57 PM
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"The times in your life when you see only one set of footprints; that was when monster_lily lost her air pods."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:30 PM
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Women can't vote until they give birth? That's news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:22 PM
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Only an abuser would try to paint retaliation against abuse as primitive or immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:32 PM
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Interesting how as soon as it's an election year in the US again the right wing nut jobs start coming out of the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:46 PM
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No he was cheating at football. I actually kind of wonder if this is all a planned thing to make sure Giselle comes up instead of deflategate when you Google "Tom Brady cheating".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:50 PM
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Fair enough. That's a choice every man has to make for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:30 PM
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Because what's the alternative? If you don't the next guy will so there's no incentive for women to change the game. You can never win if you don't play.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:17 PM
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You'll be back. The ones who need to announce their departure always come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:29 PM
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Be fair. That's only if she doesn't reciprocate and the rejection hurts him too much to maintain the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:12 PM
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Wasn't he found guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:49 PM
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No western woman has deigned to touch me anywhere for a long long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:39 PM
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Your first mistake was thinking top 40 songs are an accurate reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:32 PM
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Take it from me, there is exactly no peace in being wronged, watching the wrongdoer get away without punishment, and then being sanctimoniously told its on you to forgive them "for your own good".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:47 PM
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Fuck that. I'd rather hold it forever than say that what they did was okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:09 PM
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not forgiving individuals that have done you wrong The first step for forgiveness is apology. I'm still waiting for those who wronged me to take that step so the rest of the process can commence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:39 PM
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SMV, like any other market value, is not intrinsic. It is dependant on market conditions. That's why passport bros do what they do. Leave their current marketplace for one with more favorable market conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:26 PM
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Brawndo. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:14 PM
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Don't remind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:13 PM
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Well when you assume, you make an ass out of u.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:02 PM
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"Confidence is everything" is just the other side of the "you're alone because you're bitter" coin. It's a reversal of cause and effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:57 PM
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Lower tier looks. Women will bend over backwards to convince themselves a hot guy is interesting despite any evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:48 PM
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This has to be the dumbest hot take I've ever seen repeated ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:43 PM
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So what? Point is no one is going to name a pair of hypersexual archetypes after dolls with no junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:26 PM
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Chad and Stacy are known for being able to fuck. What anatomical detail is so iconic to Ken and barbie that it was literally the punchline of the Barbie movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:18 PM
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In that highly unlikely scenario I guess whichever seemed safest. Which since I'm not a misandrist would not be based on their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:48 PM
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Way to move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:44 PM
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Thing is, there are plenty of comics aimed at women. But the complainers aren't interested in those, they want the ones that aren't aimed at them changed until they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:16 PM
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That seems irrelevant. If you're not the target audience you're not the target audience, be it for a single artist, a genre, or an entire medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:11 PM
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I used to try to tell women that when they would complain about comic books and video games being too "male-gazey". It... did not go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:41 PM
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Read it again. I would not leave my child alone with a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:28 PM
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I wouldn't leave my kid alone with a stranger of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:23 PM
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Pretty sure you're not supposed to do good things in expectation of you being rewarded for it. I swear that's something women have told certain men one or fifty times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:20 PM
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Well if she's not attracted to the guy she didn't really change her standards in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:09 PM
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Realistic standards are a bare minimum. She should lower her standards without expecting to be rewarded for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:40 PM
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If she "lowered her standards" so that she could virtue signal about it, she didn't really lower her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:29 PM
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So this is what? Fuck you, got mine? Would you willingly go back to feeling that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:40 PM
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No one who has experienced actual loneliness or been unwanted would so easily brush off those feelings in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:03 PM
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Yes they are she is!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:22 PM
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That doesn't really refute what I said. It's just a dodge to avoid acknowledging that the people who insist the loudest that being alone is fine have almost certainly never experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:11 PM
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People have lost the point of "apples to oranges". It's supposed to mean that you shouldn't judge one thing by the standards of another. Example: you wouldn't say "this is a bad apple because I can't peel it with my bare hands" because that's a feature of oranges, not apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:08 PM
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Hey don't shoot the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:47 PM
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As did male isolation. Google hikkikomori.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:41 PM
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No, sorry I was too vague. As someone older I must share the sad truth that this never stops, no matter how far school is in the rearview.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:37 PM
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I have some bad news...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:31 PM
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It's a similar cause to the cat girl fantasy - the only way some guys will ever be loved is by a pet, so make that pet human enough for romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:15 PM
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The Scots had the right idea (and most non-horse-based ancient cultures too I guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:13 PM
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Yup. You can almost guarantee that anyone who insists "you can be perfectly happy single" isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:13 PM
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Second paragraph is the way to go I think. I imagine half the fun of a BJ alarm clock is never knowing when it might happen so establishing a blanket consent for it seems like a better idea than saying "how about tomorrow morning?" That’s what my ex and I did (of course she then never actually did it because she was not the nympho she pretended to be when trying to get me to date her but that's another story).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:11 PM
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Seems to happen to a lot of guy's stepsisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:50 PM
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And since my HUD conveniently displays a woman's experience level above her head right next to her health bar and faction affiliation, this is easy to determine before approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:44 PM
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It's the initials for telling you to commit a certain kind of irrevocable harm against yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:40 PM
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Here again we see that women don't want an inexperienced man but are also repulsed by the idea of a man trying to gain experience. "He should spring fully formed from the thigh of Zeus or I get the ick."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:38 PM
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That depends entirely on how attractive she finds you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:29 PM
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You fell for one of the classic blunders. You tried to use an analogy to illustrate a point. Did you really think women were going to let you get away with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:28 PM
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Funny how many women are saying that men "grow on them" over time. I feel like the term "friendzone" would not exist (or at least would be less common) if this were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:13 PM
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Fooled myself into thinking I was. Reminded myself that I couldn't do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:43 PM
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Exclusively. If I hadn't I'd still be a virgin today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:37 PM
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Probably because silence looks like agreement to an outside observer. And who would want to be seen agreeing with the vile stuff you spew here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:50 PM
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No one would come to you for basic humanity, let alone pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:40 PM
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It doesn't love you or geel any way about you. If women don't either what's the loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:44 PM
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This absolutely. "I'm not asking for a pat on the back, but that doesn't mean I'll accept a kick in the balls."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:49 PM
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How is someone on (presumably) a TV show a non celebrity? My non-celebrity crush is Dana from the payroll department.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:27 PM
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"Feminism merely believes in the equality of men and women... and also that men are subhuman animals without real emotions."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:25 PM
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Today you learned that context matters. He bought that for his girlfriend (who he was presumably fucking) and when that fell apart instead of trying to recoup some of the financial losses or saving it for his next girlfriend, he gives it to yours on the most stereotypically "romantic" day of the year? Be honest, if you were the lady getting the necklace would you seriously not question his motives at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:08 PM
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Now that's just patronizing. We both know where it came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:04 PM
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No because he's not likely to be as ugly as I feel. And even if I had a high self esteem day and felt confident I was better looking, her accepting a gift that I could not provide (on valentine's day no less) would not bode well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:55 PM
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He's trying to steal your girl. If she accepts it she's reaching for the branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:48 PM
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So therefore (again, if that's what you believe) you would not be best advised to select a partner with whom you are less likely to produce offspring, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:36 PM
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What point are you trying to make here? I'm really trying hard to untangle it because it seems like you are saying that women don't want to have kids with the men who would avoid them for fear of them not wanting more kids because the men who wouldn't avoid them are likely to abuse their current kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:31 PM
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But you're saying that the men you say are worried about population shrinkage should date single mothers. But that makes no sense if making sure to grow the species is their goal since there is a good chance a single mother won't want more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:27 PM
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Unfortunately the plural of "anecdote" is not "data".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:22 PM
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I think you are vastly overestimating the number of single mothers who have any interest in having more kids with the stable guy once they find him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:04 PM
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But nothing you said disproves that fear. Devoting yourself to the care of someone else's offspring doesn't make offspring of your own, so even if the concern is purely reproductive numbers in general it's still a bad way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:57 PM
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Yep. Use whatever language you want, you can't shame me. I am a DNA distribution system just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:51 PM
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You got me. I don't care about the future of the species unless my own genes will be a part of it. And honestly? That makes me feel kind of good, knowing I have that in common with literally every other organism in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:39 PM
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Right here should’ve been where you could see this wasn’t going to be a good faith debate I mean, he probably should have guessed it just based on who he was debating with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:24 PM
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To be fair, you only have to remove male emotions and how many people care about those?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:09 PM
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I've never yet met a woman who minded PDAs with guys she was proud to be seen with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:15 PM
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I guess if you're dating someone you'd be embarrassed to be seen as a couple with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:00 PM
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Tell that to King Robert Baratheon, First of His Name.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:57 PM
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First sign it wasn't going to work with my most recent ex: she would only hold my hand in public if we were alone. As soon as anyone else could see she would let go as quickly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:52 PM
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Then there's always a risk of dooming your kids to shortness. Better just not have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:48 PM
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Better be tall yourself then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:05 PM
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Of course, those people usually get smacked down verbally and told they have no right to be upset...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:03 PM
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Okay I call getting fighting mad over a game a red flag no matter who does it but you do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:02 PM
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That doesn't sound like the kind of thing anyone has ever said on PPD in reference to any other situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:53 PM
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Why do yall care so much about a guy's height?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:07 PM
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And is that not a red flag? To get that heated over something so inconsequential? Realistically there is almost nothing at stake. He gets his millions and his endorsement deals whether the chiefs win or lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:59 PM
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Good luck jogging without candy and cookies. At least take a water bottle now that your hands are free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:41 PM
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Crazy thing I just had an article show up on my Facebook about people watching her "get the ick in real time" not from this moment, but from watching him celebrate the the chiefs win, and if that don't just say everything...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:40 PM
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Until she needs material for a new single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:25 PM
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Well if I'm supposed to volunteer to feel better about what my life lacks is it going to help to see that even the lowest still have what I can't? And let's not go into how it's a bit fucked up to try and make yourself feel better by being surrounded with people you can feel superior to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:06 PM
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Ah, the old "you can't be sad unless things literally could not be any worse".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:49 PM
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Yeah volunteer at a soup kitchen and you can see that even homeless people have a date that night but you don't. Sounds great for mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:30 PM
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The American President. Borderline but I say it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:57 PM
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Okay, who found that offensive? I'm sincerely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:07 PM
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Depends on if she could commit to the bit. I had a girlfriend who pretended to be interested in getting into tabletop RPG like I was. But every time she played she couldnt keep herself from doing things that made it clear that she would rather be doing anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:40 PM
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Why were you even on OLD then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:20 PM
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What do you mean she "missed a few words"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:19 PM
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Read it again. Men she isn't attracted to don't even count as men to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:14 PM
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It's funny how #notallmen got shamed to hell and back but if you mention anything even slightly negative about women it's suddenly "women aren't a monolith".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:45 PM
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He fell in love with a literal baby. EDIT: oh you said edward. Yeah no, he's over 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:28 PM
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I think I misunderstood you, the comment felt out of place in the rest of the lecture? I can see that depending on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:25 PM
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I guess a better question would be why does a professor having a view you don't share make you feel out of place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:09 PM
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You disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:05 PM
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Rage bait authors are rarely smart enough to be subtle. This one never strays into implausible territory like they usually do. I'd say this sounds pretty real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:04 PM
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Google glass went to market. It was only discontinued in 2023. It retailed for around 1500 usd, less than half of visions 3500. It was more transparent and light than vision, just look at pictures of the two. Btw: I think Google glass was a stupid idea too. It just amazes me how many people don't think so when you more than double the price tag and slap a piece of fruit on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:11 PM
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Can anyone tell me a substantial difference between Apple Vision and Google Glass? Besides the Apple version costing twice as much, I mean. That's just standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:48 PM
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Why you booing her? She's right? Now this won't hold true for all countries of course. But the way school is done in the US is at best counter-intuitive and at worst actively harmful. It takes children when they are at their most energetic and curious and shuts them up inside for hours at a time where they are required to sit motionless and have facts told at them in the most unengaging way possible. 90% or more of every class is just prepping for the next round of standardized tests. There is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:22 PM
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Assuming you are not just writing these yourself (since you never link them): do you honestly believe these stories are anything more than made up rage bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:11 PM
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Except you can't fake good looks/charisma so you'll never "make it" to where you have enough success to build actual confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:59 PM
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This is one of those things I wish I could force people to understand. That guy isn't succeeding with women because he's confident; he's confident because he succeeds with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:21 PM
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Oh it will. And when it does, the same people who told you this will tell you that you shouldn't have tried to fake an interest to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:32 PM
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Reminds me of that bird that bonded with a concrete decoy out of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:30 PM
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And now you're changing casual relationship to situationship. I can see how this goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:04 PM
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That's changing the parameters though. The original question was just "start of a relationship". I could just as easily say, for the sake of the situation, a woman who's looking for the "best" man available.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:13 PM
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IME, women will take that casual relationship over commitment from an "inferior" man 11 times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:54 PM
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As many a feminist will happily yell at you in other circumstances: privilege is invisible to the people who have it. Doesn't matter what they "see". I see who is single more and for longer and draw logical conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:49 PM
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Obviously this is exagerrated for humor, but the thing is it's true even if both purchased items are equivalent. Why when a girl buys a vibrator, its seen as a bit of naughty fun. BUT when a guy buys a vibrating stroker hes called a pervert?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:31 PM
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Not really. A woman needs to be really interested in a man to ignore the abundance of better options that are presented to her on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:28 PM
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In that context it certainly makes sense to celebrate female sexuality as empowering. But it still doesn't make sense to view it as inherently virtuous and it especially doesn't make sense to view male sexuality as inherently disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:24 PM
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At every stage of the relationship the woman needs to be more interested in the man or that relationship is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:18 PM
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I'll ask you the same thing I asked the first person to regurgitate this: How does that (debatable) party line answer the question? Being controlled does not automatically equal virtue, no more than being free automatically equals vice. The two axes are unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:11 PM
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Divorced women will apparently continue to torment their ex even from beyond the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:08 PM
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How does that (debatable) party line answer the question? Being controlled does not automatically equal virtue, no more than being free automatically equals vice. The two axes are unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:06 PM
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Mega-man 2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:02 PM
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If we're to judge by my dating history, I might not even count as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:51 PM
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There's no Queen of England Well, not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:24 PM
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I mean... women do the same thing. "I can't get an abortion in certain states, therefore Handmaid's Tale".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:58 PM
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Head firmly in the sand I see. Remind me, how many men ran to defend that asshole who got himself smacked with a can of Twisted Tea a few years back? And he didn't even hit the guy who was celebrated for hitting him, he was just being too much of a dick to get away with it. Men have an intrinsic understanding that if you poke the wrong bear what happens next is on you. If they want real equality (as opposed to privilege) women need to understand this as well. And even then, women still enjoy the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:55 PM
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And they'll say the same thing if that happens to a man. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:48 PM
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No one says "equality" when a man beats up a woman out of nowhere. They say it when a woman feels free to hit a man because "you don't hit girls" and he surprises her by hitting back. To imply otherwise as you have done is extremely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:43 PM
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The reward being....?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:22 PM
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Bingo. "Asexuals" are just chadsexuals who want to feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:18 PM
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Ah yes, the power to literally never be free from ads for a single moment of your life. What a glorious future daddy Elon has in store for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:14 PM
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So sex is the resource women give men in return for... having sex with them? Isn't that how sex is supposed to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:27 PM
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Sure, start having babies with the kind of men who don't watch football. I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:23 PM
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You do you. Me, I'll start applying the bro code to strangers as soon as they start applying it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:13 PM
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Okay as long as you're consistent. The slash fanartists should be sued and doxxed. Final answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:02 PM
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If this was about a normal person I might agree. But no reasonable person would actually believe Taylor Swift did porn. That leaves this at the same level as fanart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:55 PM
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At which point he leaves her and she turns around and hits you up for child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:52 PM
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I assume you reserve this same level of rancor for the women who draw super detailed fanart of the guys from Supernatural sucking each other off, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:51 PM
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I really do believe it yes. She gave me a bullshit variation on "its not you it's me" then got with the next guy within a month. And let me just say now how much I love all the people here assuming I'm a slack jawed dumbass who can't read the fucking room. You people weren't there, I was. Allow for the possibility that I might actually know more about the situation than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:41 PM
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Early 20s out of college. I know because she almost immediately "found" a new guy who she married and had kids with. I was just practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:15 PM
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TIL that context and circumstance means nothing. Unless she says aloud (the way that no one does) that it was this way, it must not have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:19 PM
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It turned out I was my first girlfriends starter boyfriend. No one seemed to think she was being cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:26 PM
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I pity these men. They have been gaslit into believing that they actually get off on giving their money away. If you want to look down on depravity, turn your eye toward the women who "provide" this kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:10 PM
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Right? One could almost see it as an indictment of the dating scene outside apps that so many people would choose apps instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:45 PM
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So whining and pretending all your financial woes are conveniently due to things you can't control? Seems like I've heard something similar somewhere before on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:48 PM
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Don't hate the player...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:11 PM
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Match group would hate this. How are they going to convince male users there are a viable amount of female users if they can't make bot accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:14 PM
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Because you can't afford to bet on outliers. It doesn't matter if a few woman like short men when the vast majority (i.e. the ones you're likely to ever meet) don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:22 PM
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So he needs to show physical or monetary damages, but they should sue for "emotional pain and suffering"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:35 PM
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As often happens when I hear about stuff like this, my mind drifts to Office Space: "Shit. I'm a free man and I haven't had a conjugal visit in six months."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:32 PM
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Why would they cancel it? It's not sci-fi or fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:19 PM
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or at the strip club? As well they should. Simp local!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:11 PM
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Fine as long as you say the same to women (i.e. you are a pro-lifer). Otherwise there's some hypocrisy going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:20 PM
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You were happy to gamble with it. Gambling includes losing. An easy sentiment for those who know the house will cover their losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:05 PM
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Oh I was told the exact opposite. And then I started observing who has the most effort made on their behalf to make it more fair instead of just being told it isn't. And I won't lie, I got a bit disgruntled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:56 PM
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There's a mile-wide loophole in that rule though. She has to "make every effort" to locate him. And if she somehow fails... it's all good. And even that little bit isn't required for leaving a baby at one of those "safe baby" signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:36 PM
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now the welfare of the child overrides the interests of either parent. Not really though. The mother can still opt out via closed adoptions, safe drop-offs, etc if she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:19 PM
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Interesting how in every other case where there is a biological inequality between the sexes it is imperative that society or technology or both do everything possible to close that gap. But in this one case...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:02 PM
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Come on, you know that's not the point. Whenever there's an abortion debate some jackass comes up with "just don't spread your legs if you don't want kids". And he's a jackass and everyone says so. But for some reason it's fine to say the same thing to men when opting out of child support comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:36 PM
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Ah yes. "You can only have sex under the risk of involuntary parenthood". That thing that for some reason it's only okay to tell men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:27 PM
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What's the statute of limitations on treason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:46 AM
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Isn't it wonderful how easy it is for the well fed to tell others not to hunger?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:13 PM
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Dude dating the OF girl is getting for free what a thousand simps have to pay through the nose for the mere fantasy of getting. Who exactly do you think is cucking who in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:53 PM
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Right but does she just not know who has been at the helm this whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:24 PM
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That confused me so much. Has Kathleen Kennedy not been in charge of Star Wars for almost a decade now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:43 PM
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There's no camera for me to look at instead of having the writers come up with actual funny dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:51 PM
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Saw a tik tok on Twitter I'd feel more confident taking advice from the actual raccoon in your gif.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:50 PM
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I'm sure that's what they tell you and themselves. Thanks for the downvote BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:41 PM
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Fair enough. I must have skimmed that last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:44 PM
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Careful: there are studies that show the same about regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:39 PM
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To hear a lot of women around here talk you would certainly get that impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:38 PM
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I'm sure that's a great comfort to all of us who will never get either one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:13 PM
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Well they did put their finger on the scale by casting Anne Hathaway as the 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:48 PM
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They're not even guessing. They just prescribe the drug made by whichever company sent pharma-girls to buy the office lunch most recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:50 PM
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All women need to do in order to "choose better" is pay attention to how a guy treats other people. "If he's nice to you but a jerk to the waiter, he's a jerk" may be a cliche, but it's also true. Every woman I've seen date an asshole saw him be an asshole to everyone he wasn't trying to sleep with when they first got together - she just ignored it because he was hot/gave her tingles and wasn't abusing her yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:44 PM
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Pretty sure Bernie Goetz said something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:25 PM
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What a lovely, nuanced, not at all from a position of privelege take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:11 PM
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"I can't get a girlfriend." "Learn to be happy with just your friends then." "They all eventually leave when they get girlfriends." "Then get a girlfriend I guess." Problem solved everybody! We can all go home!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:54 PM
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Yeah, be the kind of beta who is this invested in taking offense at what makes strangers happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:49 PM
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I can't recommend. Thought it was quite a mess honestly. The second one is fun, though a lot more brutal, if you're not into that. EDIT: also if you're coming off of Bird's of Prey, I would imagine you'll like Harley a lot better in 2 than in 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:49 PM
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First or second?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:46 PM
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I've always understood 80/20 to refer to the percentage of men women consider attractive (80% rated "below average"). It has nothing to do with what men do or do not do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:29 PM
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I want to go see Godzilla Minus One this weekend but I don't think I'll be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:13 PM
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So then just basic social skills are, in fact, not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:54 PM
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Klingon?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:06 PM
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I would honestly have reservations about dating someone who hadn't already seen it on their own initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:05 PM
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Conversation is usually more like: "I am unable to find someone who wants to have a relationship with me, it's over for me" "Do you go to bars/clubs?" "Yes, I get rejected by everyone I approach there until I take the hint and go home." "Do you go to raves/festivals?" "I tried but nothing came of it and I'm getting too old to be welcome in that scene."" "Do you go to any parties?" "Often. Everyone splits off into groups and I'm left talking to the cat." "So you don't participate in any activity …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:30 PM
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If only we humans had developed some form of verbal communication that she could use to just tell a guy to leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:02 PM
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Local game store on d&d/minis night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:29 PM
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Because women are renowned for the abundance of slack they cut guys who are "working on it" (whatever "it" happens to be) but not there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:26 PM
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I always find it ridiculous when people say deadbeat dads aren't held accountable, as if the fact that "deadbeat dad" is a phrase in the vernacular with no femal equivalent doesn't say everything about who is and is not being held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:23 PM
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Things that didn't happen for $400 please Alex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:33 PM
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No one who says they are leaving ever stays away. Its just another part of the desperate attention seeking cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:31 PM
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Yeah, that's just the reason my ex gave when she broke up with me: her own insecurities made it hard for her to feel attractive or sexual. Of course, we couldn't break our lease for a few more months and the walls were thin so a month or so later I got to hear exactly how attractive and sexual she felt with a new guy. As always: ignore what they say, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:18 PM
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Oh, well if someone on TwoX said it...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:28 PM
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I actually did well with women, it just never led to sex. Then... you didn't do well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:25 PM
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So they're different problems. And...? They're still problems. You're just comfortable saying there's no solution to the one that doesn't affect you so why even bother bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:46 PM
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You can rephrase it all you want, your argument still boils down to "life's not fair deal with it" which is never a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:31 PM
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Someone with a chad body would never end up without confidence or social skills because those things are a result of people finding you attractive, giving you the benefit of the doubt if you miss step, letting you learn the skills. Kind of like how a kid who is coached in the shallow end with a floatation device will eventually become a better swimmer than the one who was just tossed alone into the deep end and told to figure shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:21 PM
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Women can't tell the difference. That's part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:18 PM
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Imagine if the women who heard that when they wanted to vote or work had listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:16 PM
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The irony is guys get told this literally all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:55 PM
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Women don't know how it feels because if that guy "rejects" her (I'm not going to go into how being rejected for both sex and relationship is obviously worse than being rejected for just one or the other) she can just move on to the next guy. And the next. Until little goldilocks finds the one who is just right. Rejected men don't have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:03 PM
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Just confirming that looks and personality are directly linked. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:10 PM
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Because personality matters more than looks. ...right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:52 PM
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You mean he agrees with you. Two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:59 PM
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White knighting doesn't work bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:50 PM
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Well an admitted misandrist wrote up this dialog and posted it online with no sources so how could it not be an accurate view of reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:34 PM
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Girls take studying and doing homework more seriously, while boys are often more focused on practical learning. So in an education system where the former is favored over the latter, girls will have a systemic advantage even if their teachers happen to be male.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:42 PM
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They're pedos who want a prepubescent boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:00 PM
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The part that always gets me is, if I was making university football coach or Hollywood producer levels of money, I'm 1000% certain I could easily find women who wanted to have sex with me. Why would a guy in that position risk it all by harassing the small minority of women who don't already want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:59 PM
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That's most "asexuals" as far as I've been able to determine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:42 PM
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She'll be back. Hell, read the post again; she probably won't even leave in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:40 PM
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1) Being "nice" is a basic expectation of existing in a society. Stuff like this always gets me. If niceness is such a "basic expectation" or "bare minimum" as we are often told, how do so many people do so well without it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:14 PM
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Ironically, a beard would probably help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:11 PM
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Why do people think the sun sheds more light than the moon? It's easily observable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:28 PM
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D&D group women Now pull the other one bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:26 PM
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OP specifically addressed that. Question isn't whether it should be rewarded with sex but simply whether or not it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:34 PM
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No! Impossible! Only absolutely autistic friendless cringe lords have any difficultis. Every other guy is swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:55 PM
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Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:53 PM
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Nice guys murder scientists and get eaten by demons? Okay bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:35 PM
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And then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:04 PM
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If that's all you took from those comments it's because that's all you wanted to take, ignoring anything that you couldn't snark at. That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:35 PM
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If you were actually interested, you would read the earlier comments that explain it quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:14 PM
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Predictably incorrect take. See some of the actual responses below for something closer to the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:08 PM
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Do what women do with age: lie on the height field to get past the filter, then tell the truth on your bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:05 PM
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If the other choice is not to date anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:01 PM
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Well according to your flair you are a man, so you'll never be accepted as fully non-misogynist by the people who write lists like this. Don't strain yourself trying to reach a goal that was never achievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:30 PM
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It's only visible to non-misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:24 PM
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I mean... I communicate with people I'm dating between dates too, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:12 PM
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If you don't know a person after three dates you are not paying attention to anything they say or do... which is another marker for lack of attraction interestingly enough. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:06 PM
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Oh, has it been long enough since trump Jr used that analogy about refugees for feminists to start using it about men again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:02 PM
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Except most guys have at least one story of a woman who kept them "waiting" indefinitely because- surprise - she never wanted him sexually in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:58 PM
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At that point you’re just looking for a hookup/fwb, Nope. Just looking for someone with a compatible sex drive. Seems to me like that's an important factor in having an ltr/marriage that will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:49 PM
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Two drops in the olympic-sized pool of examples that support purple?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:44 PM
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Not necessarily. But your single counter-example doesn't disprove a general trend. Unless you think all women are like you, in which case: hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:27 PM
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So women are a hive mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:22 PM
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That's the beauty of "self improvement" as advice. It's like sending "seed money" to a TV preacher: if it isn't working, you obviously haven't done it enough. The problem is always you, never the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:59 PM
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I see it the other way. Can't show off your hot tatted legs in booty shorts if said legs are the width of rodeo barrels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:18 PM
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If you don't escalate during this window, you will be rejected. She will think you're not masculine, inexperienced, gay, not interested in her or something is wrong with you. Maybe the guy just takes time to be sure with someone before escalating. Maybe he used to kiss real early and decided he didn't like it. Expecting to be kissed on her schedule (and whining about lack of attraction when she doesn't get it) is pure entitlement. It's expecting a man's attraction to work the same as a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:35 PM
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It's one thing to not be open to a romantic interaction. It's quite another to lable said interaction as "harassment".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:08 PM
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The rare times in my life when I've been in a relationship, I haven't used porn at all, only going back when she inevitably decides she can do better and dumps me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:36 PM
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What needs do women have that are not being fulfilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:29 PM
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Well I porn/masturbate a lot and I also attempt to pursue relationships with real women a lot. But they always reject me which sends me back to the porn. Now, who has the power to break this loop? (Hint: it's not me and it's not the porn industry)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:14 PM
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But women aren't having sex with ugly fat guys they feel no attraction to, so where is this "orgasm gap" coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:28 PM
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This was already explained pretty well by the poster above me so if you want to go ahead and pretend not to understand fine but I'm not going to engage with that kind of dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:24 PM
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God, I hope false. If they don't understand, then the way they behave can be attributed to ignorance. If they do, then it's malice, which is a much more depressing possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:23 PM
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They should be able to "sense" it, the same way they supposedly can with the shorter, less attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:53 AM
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You typically get more and better sex within a relationship. Absolutely. That's why r/deadbedrooms exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:31 PM
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And then they'll work to ban those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:52 PM
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Take the gatorpill my brothers!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:04 PM
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Nothing in this world more romantic than people's discarded peanut shells crunching underfoot the whole date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:04 PM
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Nine Inch Nails - Pretty Hate Machine Stone Temple Pilots - Purple The Offspring - Smash "What is musical taste if not high school trauma persevering?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:57 AM
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"But how would you even know what she did in the past?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:52 AM
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I've had female friends my whole life and none has ever done this for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:41 AM
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And make him feel like it's just around the corner, not months and months away. You don't think guys will catch on when it's been "just around the corner" for months?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:38 PM
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I've never seen her hate on feminists. I've often seen her claim to hate on them equally when called out on misandry, but actual unprompted criticism? Not once.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:52 PM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:40 PM
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For women...?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:34 PM
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Pretty sure that's when women complain about positive attention, not negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:20 PM
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I think you're looking at the wrong person's post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:56 PM
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Normal people don't have different responses to the same thing depending on the flow of the conversation though. See the constant exchange of: "Obviously looks matter, no one said they didnt!" "So my romantic failure could be down to my looks." "No! Looks aren't important! I know an ugly short guy..."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:37 PM
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Dude should sue for custody. Of course, the court will never give it to him since he's a minor. And, you know... he.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:55 PM
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Honestly? For men in modern western society? Blade Runner 2049 You have no intrinsic value. Your only purpose in existence is to provide a service to society. If your emotions ever stray outside of what is deemed appropriate, you will be punished because you are "dangerous". Same If you try to abandon the role society has set out for you. The twist really hammers it home. (SPOILER) If you start to think you might be special, more than just a cog in the machine... you're wrong. Only a woman can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:21 PM
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No. I would get way too depressed being surrounded by people I'm attracted to and knowing nothing will ever come of said attraction. Hell, I'm usually pretty depressed by the end of a night out with friends because of this. I can only imagine what dealing with it every day of my working life would do to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:26 PM
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Can't imagine spiralling that much for being accused of doing something I didn't do with no actual impact on me You can't imagine spiraling after being cut off and disowned by your entire family? Also post seems fictional Ah of course, the old "Any post that challenges my worldview is LARP" defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:20 PM
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It's gender neutral in the same way that "mandatory minimum" drug sentencing laws were race neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:41 PM
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Crazy thought here but: don't go on dates with people who feel unsafe in the first place. What are you getting out of going on a date with someone you fear? And if you fear all men then the time you are spending on dates might be better spent in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:20 PM
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So are the guys who get first date hookups. It doesn't seem to impede them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:09 PM
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It doesn’t mean she’s not attracted to you. It means she doesn’t feel safe enough with you yet. Oh you're right. Proceeding from the base assumption that I'm unsafe is a super solid foundation for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:52 PM
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I don't know that at all, but I don't assume my fellow men are just a bunch of horny animals so my gut says there are more like me than like what you describe. Attraction, not interest. I exclusively date adults so yes, I assume someone who doesn't want sex pretty quickly lacks attraction. I don't necessarily assume they're "making me wait" (not that that wouldn't also be a dealbreaker). I just infer from an abnormally slow "natural proegression" that attraction is lacking. I want to be with som…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:11 PM
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Yes. I want a real relationship. If I don't give a crap about her I'm not going on a date with her in the first place. But if we're not sexual within a few dates that indicates she isn't attracted to me and that's not good for a long term committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:47 AM
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Thinking that women have some grand conspiracy to make you wait for sex because they hate you personally That's an odd way of looking at it. Unless you're saying that women hate men they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:36 AM
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Not necessarily. Just because a man sees sex as an important part of a relationship doesn't mean it's the only part he wants. I don't even get where this "logic" comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:20 AM
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She was interested him all this time and he couldn't see that, Can't imagine why. Maybe it was the rejection and dating guys completely unlike him? And women will absolutely switch from hard no to yes... as soon as the guy has something they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:35 PM
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That's just what happens to organisms that don't get to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:30 AM
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no more apps Women don't need them - rarely use them anyway according to oft-quoted stats. No more approaching dudes Something women barely do to begin with. Putting yourself in situations and spaces where you won't be attached. Women are approached everywhere, including places where they don't want to be. They complain about it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:47 PM
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I'm always fascinated by women who say they are "checking out" or "giving up" on dating. What exactly does that entail? Do you stop having guys hit on you? How exactly do you do that? If a guy who is everything you wanted before shoots his shot do you now just tell him to fuck off? How do you stop putting in effort when your part in the dance never required any?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:38 PM
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The women in question wouldn't feel this way if they saw sex as a worthwhile activity in its own right instead of a coin of exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:37 PM
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Right. Only bad when women are asked to do it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:14 PM
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Sounds a lot like emotional labor to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:07 PM
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Don't walk. Run!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:05 PM
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Point is you can say you only care about Y not X, but if most people can't achieve Y without X that's a meaningless distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:50 PM
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How much time do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:35 PM
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This is as meaningless as saying "women don't know or care who has what career. They just care who's rich."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:14 PM
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Can't believe there are people trying to paint the titan "crew" as intrepid explorers who perished while bravely attempting to expand human knowledge. I even saw one dipshit compare them to the Challenger astronauts!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:44 PM
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She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. If you're only "good" because you expect a reward...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:28 PM
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I'll do it when you get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:10 PM
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You're on the right track here but honestly even zootopia makes the same mistake - predators did previously hunt other animals after all, so the stigma against them "makes sense" in a way real bigotry never does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:09 PM
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"Any story that contradicts my worldview is LARP."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:17 PM
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Maybe it's a rule of 3 thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:30 PM
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Funny how it's always "why do you care what strangers think" until they're thinking it about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:24 PM
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"Yeah the guy had five other baby-mamas before me but how was I supposed to know the sixth time wasn't the charm?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:28 PM
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Sticklers for the rules... right up until you won't risk your job by breaking one for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:17 PM
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Lol, you think that shit started during purge? Certain people have been posting that multiple times daily for months now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:33 PM
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To me a good personality is someone who won't send his followers to stab you to death in an attempt to start a race war, but you know, different strokes I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:33 PM
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You and I have a different definition of "good". A good personality does not murder or advocate for others to do so. Liking solanas means you are okay with people who advocate for murder. Hence not a surprise you think manson was good as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:21 PM
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I would expect someone who likes solanas to think the leader of a murder cult had a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:59 PM
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More pointing out that his personality doesn't seem to have been a stumbling block.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:59 PM
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I was using sarcastic "agreement" to highlight a counter-example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:21 PM
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At the risk of "making it personal": you suck at the Pokérap bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:16 PM
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women care about personality most. And if you don't believe that: ask the lady who almost married Charles Manson a few years back. She'll tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:13 PM
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Missing information here. How hot is the barista? Is he dealing on the side? Any priors?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:01 PM
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And God help your news feed if a pretty blonde girl goes missing overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:55 PM
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Wish my ex had known that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:42 PM
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Women have a hyper-accurate sixth sense for detecting misogyny... but it only works on unattractive men for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:28 PM
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There is a line from one of my favorite TV series: "When someone does a foolish thing, you should tell them it is foolish. They may continue to do it, but at least the truth is where it needs to be." Too often the "be civil" rule hampers one from putting the truth where it needs to be. And so I appreciate the times when it isn't a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:14 PM
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Oh man I disagree hard. Being able to call a troll a troll out without seeing "be civil" never gets old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:09 PM
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Anyone else a little bummed that "purge week" only lasted three days?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:24 PM
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Honestly I don't know that you can. Just pointing out that appeal to nature is not the best argument to make when it comes to human dating behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:50 PM
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Careful. There are many animal behaviors that we quite rightly do not want men to engage in. Why not hold women to similar standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:27 PM
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It's fun how you make this argument multiple times a day but never seem able to make it without stacking the deck with shaming language. Almost as if you realize it doesn't stand on its own. Or maybe you're just a small, mean-spirited person who gets off on insulting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:15 PM
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You want to fight female nature? Are women human beings or are they beasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:11 PM
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She apparently whined to the mods. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:48 PM
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She's a troll. Don't expect a great deal of reading comprehension from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:31 PM
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You're arguing against a point no one's making. The "sex is a need" crowd specifically and repeatedly make the argument that human needs encompass more than just what you will or will not die without.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:59 PM
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No contradiction there. I can struggle with something and still avoid activities I know won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:46 PM
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Almost like the asshole part was never the real problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:31 PM
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Of course you would make that ridiculous logic leap. You'll do any mental gymnastics required to see anyone who disagrees with you as a bad person. It's one of the things that marks you as a troll to everyone who is paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:18 PM
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No one said it. Some people pointed out that her reductive "needs are only things you won't die without" argument excludes things like rights and freedoms as a way of showing that it is an inadequate argument. Rather than reevaluate (because what troll can or will do that) she strawmanned. It's pretty common. If you've been here long enough you've seen lillith do this multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:07 PM
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I don't personally care how many guys a woman has slept with so, as a neutral observer, let me say I don't see a contradiction or hypocrisy here. They can want a woman who has sex quickly but doesn't jump from relationship to relationship and so amassed a low overall number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:53 PM
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Your misandry is not an accurate reflection of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:20 PM
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Well if I hold out for a woman who respects me I'll never sleep with anyone again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:38 PM
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This was my issue with the society in Handmaids Tale. It's the most ridiculously inefficient solution to the problem. Instead of literal sex slavery wouldn't it be easier to say "Hey, women who can still bear children: how would you like to never pay taxes again?" And then wait for the line to form
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:35 PM
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People saying you want to be like this guy in 5...4...3...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:31 PM
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Just set it up like the draft and make it so they'll only be tapped for breeding duty in the event of a massive population crisis. Boom; any complaints can be deflected with "it will never happen so its not worthy of being upset about".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:10 PM
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Sounds to me like apple just "invented" Google glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:14 PM
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No one ever will. They'll insist it's a game changer but when asked how it's different from regular vr, they can't give any concrete ways. Just a bunch of people doing unpaid hype for apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:38 PM
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Yeah if your partner has a known long term health problem that makes sense. But I maintain that a person who is actually attracted to their partner will still let them know in other ways in such a situation. It's the people who always have a new reason to turn their partner down that I am suspicious of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:08 PM
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"Honey, I know you're sad about Boxer; I miss him too. But... he has been dead for nearly a year now. Are you still too sad to fool around?" Hyperbole works both ways, and it can be fun, but it doesn't accomplish much debate-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:33 PM
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The phrasing makes your question seem a bit flippant and disingenuous but ill give you the benefit of the doubt and answer in good faith. If you're distant for a week because your dog died that's one thing. If you're cold this week because of your dog, and all of next week because of work stress, and all of the week after that because you "don't feel attractive" and all of the following week because you're too tired... You see what I'm getting at? If there is always something inhibiting your par…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:26 PM
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If you actually lust for your partner you will find a way to let them know regardless of circumstance. If you don't, almost any less than ideal circumstance (of which life will always provide at least one) can be an excuse not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:52 PM
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We make time for the things that matter to us and excuses for the things that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:46 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:54 PM
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In what way is it more realistic than current vr?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:51 PM
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Sexbot or holodeck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:49 PM
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It's a catch-22. Stay the same and fail: "well you need to make a change". Change and fail: "you need to be yourself, people can spot a faker."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:58 PM
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So one out of the many matches chadfish get is playing 5d chess and trolling them soooo good! I guess that invalidates all the others. We can all go home now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:06 PM
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I find that hard to believe. You are likely falling victim to the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:47 PM
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What I don't understand is why they are so quick to give up and why they hate the idea of self improvement. That's a distorted view though. Many (perhaps even most) spend years trying everything they can think of to improve before finally concluding that nothing will ever work... then they get met with "you never even tried".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:33 PM
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Nobody owes you an N count discussion. Learn to be happy without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:27 PM
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...I've got some bad news for you, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:05 PM
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I did miss that part but given all the complaining about do-nothing husbands that you see around here, it seems like those guys are getting relationships and marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:24 PM
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Guys like the one you described. Don't cook, don't clean, won't do anything if they aren't getting sex. And sex they get, so ask their ladies why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:19 PM
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Ask all the women having sex with guys just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:16 PM
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Could have sworn Flannery O'Connor was a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:26 PM
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Special Agent Dale Cooper
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:17 PM
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The alternative is acting like everything is fine and fair, i.e. denying the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:11 PM
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Good point. Getting his ass kicked is likely to trigger the ick too. The only winning move is... well, to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:09 PM
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I always find it interesting how whether it's "healthy" to accept or deny the truth seems to depend entirely on the comfort of uninvolved third parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:07 PM
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If you don't think less of him why would you suddenly not want to be in a relationship with him any more? Honest question, because it seems like a contradictory statement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:00 PM
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I'd say it's neither good nor bad, it just is. If people who will never know what it feels like don't enjoy hearing from people who do, I'm sure they have other places they could go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:57 PM
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At least you're honest I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:54 PM
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"It's fine that you're screwed but please stop saying anything about it; you're really bumming out those of us more fortunate than you."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:50 PM
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Not everyone lives in dorms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:42 PM
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Literally it has happened to me three days in a row here. I point out that women are choosing these bad partners and someone comes back with "so it's the wife's fault her husband sucks?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:47 PM
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A lot of people here seem to think that suggesting you are accountable for your own choices means the bad people you chose aren't responsible for what they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:51 PM
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he wants to use this to take control of me so he can use me for sex Wow, there's clearly a lot written between the lines there. Either that or you're making unfounded assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:48 PM
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now he wants to be involved. knows he's going to have to pay child support because I refuse to let him get out of this Something doesn't add up here...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:41 PM
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cut her tits off. Didn't she do that because she was almost certain to get breast cancer otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:19 PM
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Not that much. There may be guys out there who are super helpful equal partners until the kid is born and then 180 to useless couch potatoes. But I would say they are vanishingly rare. More likely the tendency was always there but she ignored it because he ticked boxes that were more important to her at the time. He didn't change - what she expected from him did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:16 PM
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You can pick a baby daddy who will stick around and be helpful. Of course you may have to get some different vetting criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:09 PM
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Half of what archeologists have found in the ruins of Pompeii is porn. Porn has been around forever. The idea that it is responsible for current negative trends in dating is quite frankly ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:51 PM
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Being attracted to me. Super rare, but MY GOD does it turn me on!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:45 PM
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Porn can't cuddle... but it also can't ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:28 PM
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Lots of people won't acknowledge the wide variety of looks and body types among porn actresses because it gives the lie to another popular "man bad" believe: that all men only like one type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:27 PM
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Yes I think we are all aware of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:22 PM
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HE MUST CONSTRUCT ADDITIONAL PYLONS!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:20 PM
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Lol, I read that as "leases" at first and I was thinking "definitely monthly"!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:36 PM
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Crunchyroll and hide-the-pole
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:38 PM
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This is a bit like asking if any star wars fans have noticed that Obi Wan Kenobi is pretty good with a lightsaber.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:17 PM
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Even if I accept your assumed level of interest in drake. And even if I agree with your estimation of his looks... Thats still a top status guy vs a top looks guy. Which is the only level where your idea of status>looks might hold water. For us average guys, it doesn't matter if 5 status beats 5 looks because it will be beaten by 6 looks. Status can only win in very specific contexts where there is no higher level of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:06 PM
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Unless you actually have access to drakes social media to prove your "unlimited" assumptions, you didn't prove a damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:52 PM
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So to be clear: you ran an "experiment" on tinder with a top tier looks guy and got more attention in a week than most guys get in a month. You then compared that to what you assume is the infinite attention an a-list celebrity gets. From that you concluded that any level of status trumps any level of looks. I'm sure the Nobel Committee will be in touch any day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:47 PM
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Every day when I hit my daily swipe limit with no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:22 PM
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Shhh! No! Every guy is a Stacy chaser! Don't shatter that illusion for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:58 PM
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Appeal to nature is never a good argument - especially when it comes to sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:57 PM
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One thing I've noticed over and over about such people is that they are never single themselves. Nor are they usually the type who would need to worry about being single for too long were their current relationship to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:48 PM
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What's the catch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:34 PM
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I'm not enjoying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:31 PM
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The first writer ever to sign their work (born around 2286 BCE in ancient Iraq) was a woman, so miss me with that "women weren't allowed to write" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:54 PM
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How can he resolve it like an adult if she won't behave like one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:18 PM
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I want purge back just so I can tell someone they're being a dipshit troll when it's obviously true without getting "be civil"ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:31 PM
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I mean new ones in the "pre-twilight" style.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:09 PM
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But there won't be any new ones. The human mind craves familiarity and novelty in equal measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:36 PM
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Not women in general, just Stephanie Meyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:18 PM
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Because if you have a bad collision that really pushes your car around there's nowhere to go but into the drink. So they keep the speed limit low to keep any accidents minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:07 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:02 PM
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Likely he just agrees with everything she says without question or comment. She's perfectly nice to people here who are willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:28 PM
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Feminism is love, loving men, wanting to be loved by men! Where did you get that idea from? I'll believe this when feminist scholarship stops teaching Dworkin and Solanas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:25 PM
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I make it a point to never read the writings of people who hate me for the way I was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:57 PM
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Bottom line, if the way patriarchy tells men to behave didn't appeal to women, the men who behave that way would have failed to reproduce and died out a long time ago. Thanks for the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:58 PM
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So women could smash this aspect of the patriarchy whenever they want yet they choose not to. Interesting. As for the last part of your comment, you are completely wrong. Men respond to what they see working for other men in terms of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:37 PM
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If women valued a man's glorious unique identity or whatever, the patriarchy would encourage men to express that uniqueness. Old ideals of manhood became entrenched because they are what women respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:21 PM
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Don't know of many gods who love unconditionally either, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:52 PM
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Yes, the more balls you play with the straighter you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:35 PM
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How many times are you planning to spam this? Just asking so I can plan my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:42 AM
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Don't be fooled. If a woman is with a man she is actually attracted to sex will relieve her stress as well. And she'll want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:32 PM
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We appear to be engaged in two separate conversations here so I'm going to bow out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:20 PM
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Not really relevant but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:06 PM
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Then excuse me but why are you jumping in to try and invalidate when a man talks about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:01 PM
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So what was your point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:50 PM
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You're refuting "constant rejection is damaging" with "I've been rejected and I'm fine". For this to work as a rebuttal, the rejection you experienced should be as close to constant as possible. If that were the case you would definitely remember how many times you were not rejected because they would vbe exceptions to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:32 PM
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How many times would you say you were not rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:25 PM
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Saying "we all face rejection" is like saying "we all get headaches sometimes". A bit of eye strain now and then is not the same as chronic migraines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:23 PM
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They realize. They just don't care. Largely because men who they believe are worthwhile won't face enough rejection for it to be damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:07 PM
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Highly radioactive. It won't be safe to enter until long after all of our lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:55 PM
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No way to know the "women" aren't either until you meet. So again, why not just say "no in-person period"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:41 PM
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Not giving lessons to people who send weird messages is common sense. No in person lessons for anyone would be an understandable solution too. It's the blanket ban on only one sex that is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:37 PM
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Soon we'll start to hear about how the awful men in those countries are taking advantage of lonely women who come from abroad just looking for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:35 PM
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Not really. The level of psycho needed to pay someone to come to your house so you can harm them is just as likely to turn up in women as in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:33 PM
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Fine with strange women though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:20 PM
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Maybe it's a test? Making sure they don't accidentally hire a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:13 PM
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Lying isn't nice. I learned that one back in kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:27 PM
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The only time a woman ever told me she was "too busy to date" she was dating someone else within a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:12 PM
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The problem with that answer is that it can just as easily be used to justify other inequalities that women have rightfully fought against.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:14 PM
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Work is exhausting. Chronic chest/shoulder pain that multiple doctors over multiple years have been either unable or unwilling to diagnose. Realizing more and more every day that I'll never know what it's like to be loved by a woman. You know; same old shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:11 PM
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I'm not, but that can hardly be news.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:15 PM
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This is nothing new. Porn for women is always more accepted than porn for men. I've recounted this before: in my youth (pre-internet) if I wanted a copy of playboy I had to sneak it into the house under cover of night and hide it like the nuclear codes. Meanwhile my sister openly had a bookshelf full of Harlequin bodice-rippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:14 PM
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Well then somebody at the supermarket is getting sued.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:19 PM
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If you like connective tissue, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:49 PM
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I mean... I haven't been wrong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:37 PM
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Not sure how you would get bored with all the amenities listed there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:47 PM
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I want to find one of the coins people around here use when they need to explain why a man's preference makes him a bad person. You know the ones: about the size of a silver dollar, gold plated, stamped with "ENTITLED" on one face and "INSECURE" on the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:43 PM
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Compounds have everything, some have more, some have less. Some quality writing right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:37 PM
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My hobbies are not conducive to meeting women now that I'm far past college (and weren't great for it even then), but I refuse to give them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:02 PM
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Women don't even get equivalent punishment to men for actual rape/SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:53 PM
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"Fantasist" is a fun way of softening "liar".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:24 PM
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You're missing the point. Say there's a post in the group: "This guy is a domestic abuser". How do you (or the mods) tell if that's the truth or if it's slander from a bitter ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:30 PM
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Because their "plight" is self-inflicted. There are plenty of men who would happily be with them - but those men are ugly too so the ugly women think they deserve better. So they reject those guys and justify it by pretending that all they wanted was sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:15 PM
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If you want to look at it like that I guess technically yes. My view is: if she had a great guy and he died, it's possible she thinks I'm just as great as he was. If her first choice was the kind of guy who would dump her or be so awful she had to leave him, well I'm not like that so I'm obviously a fallback option. And if she was the problem (running out on him or pushing him to leave) then she's not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:44 PM
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Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:43 PM
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Because women very rarely choose to be widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:54 PM
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She's a single mother for any reason other than widowhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:24 PM
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So? So? So? So they're different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:15 PM
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I can bleach my own anus; don't need my girl to do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:55 PM
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I see no need to answer a bad faith question. Answer me one: are men who don't approach women because they've been told not to the bad ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:52 PM
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By filtering for "confidence", women shut out a lot of men who would respect boundaries and let through a lot who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:42 PM
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He went into what your own right wing media described as a riot. That is a level of danger far beyond just a bad area and if he wanted to be safe from it all he had to do was not go there. Instead he armed up and headed in looking for trouble and lo and behold he found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:39 PM
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As usual you are utterly incapable of recognizing that different situations are... well... different. What Rittenhouse did is assumption of risk far beyond just walking in a bad part of town.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:27 PM
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And he definitely has no motive to lie about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:25 PM
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Are you in a position to start dealing drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:39 PM
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Illegally taking a firearm across state lines to "help" the police definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:24 PM
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I'll happily teach "don't try to be a vigilante fuckwit and kill people when things get too hairy.:
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:16 PM
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Attract? -1 Deal with? Depends on the man I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:15 PM
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Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not (I'm not 100% awake yet this morning), but pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:02 PM
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Not every woman. Some just make a new post where they rewrite the argument so they're the winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:42 PM
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It should be the guys burden. But unless women are going to make a shift and start dating guys with less "confidence", they're going to keep ending up with assholes who take what they want without asking. If ignoring boundaries is going to be what it takes to get a woman in bed, how can you expect these guys to suddenly start respecting boundaries in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:37 PM
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Of course there are. They don't say it because they don't feel it. They are with their partner for something other than sexual attraction. They might have sex if they feel it's necessary to maintain the relationship, but they're not going to pretend to be excited about the prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:59 PM
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Could that have something to do with the fact that when pretty women are outgoing it is likely to be well received, thus reinforcing the behavior? 🐔 🥚
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:20 PM
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She's about to ask you for links.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:36 PM
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A meaningless statement. Value is not objective or intrinsic. What is low value to you might be indispensable to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:55 PM
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Anyone who has people of their preferred sex who actually want to have sex with them should be grateful. They don't have to reciprocate the desire or fulfill it, but they should at least acknowledge that it's there if and when they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:48 PM
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The other 90% just make up statistics off the top of their head...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:27 PM
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No no, I'm running up that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:57 PM
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25 years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:49 PM
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If men who can't get laid aren't intrinsically bad people then the world isn't just and if the world isn't just then bad things that I don't deserve could happen to me too and that is a scary thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:13 PM
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I wouldn't take her agency away. But let's not pretend a lot more people wouldn't be comfortable calling the older person a cruel manipulator if only the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:28 PM
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Sure if she set boundaries. But (and granted I have not read his post history) it sounds more like mixed messages at best: "It will always be no..." "But my perfect man is just like you..." "But I'll never want you that way..." "But I totally wish I could..." Edit: I think we might also find some value in reflecting on what the reactions would be if a 40yo man was doing this to a 21yo woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:52 PM
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No man it's all about chrisma! Srce: jst trst me br.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:35 PM
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Sure but would you also keep him on the hook by reminding him that you Want a guy just like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:29 PM
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Exactly as strong as yours. What rigorous scientific studies are you offering?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:26 PM
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I don't know that that's relevant. Age is not a reliable indicator of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:22 PM
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I never claimed clairvoyance but I do possess pattern recognition. Maybe this lady is the outlier but the thing about life is you can't afford to bet on outliers. But it's clear from the way you've been wording your responses that you have no interest in debating this in good faith, so I'll bow out now and wish you a pleasant Sunday. Thanks for the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:21 PM
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Sounds like someone keeps picking shit dudes. But hey, at least she found a convenient scapegoat to put the blame on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:56 PM
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I've seen plenty of guys without enough "chrisma" to fill an altoids tin get by just fine on looks alone. So has everyone who has ever bothered to pay attention even a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:55 PM
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Having been in "friendships" like this, I 100% guarantee she will never willingly be the point of contact between him and any other viable partners. If she did he might actually go for them. And nice try with the shaming language. Just because I think being alone is better than being on the hook doesn't mean I don't value things other than sex. That's such a bizarre take I'm not even sure where it came from except perhaps the knee jerk impulse to paint all male sexuality as tawdry and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:49 PM
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No reason to assume that from what was written. Even if they were, mom's debt is still entirely hers. Dad didn't bring it up and she didn't say "we have".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:45 PM
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and who's fault is that No one's, unless you count not being born with a tremendous talent and/or not being in the right place at the right time to blow up personal failings. Looks are paramount for the average man on the street because they don't have fame and fortune to get by on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:42 PM
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In what way is he doing better? He's just as alone as they are but he has to watch someone he clearly has romantic feelings for keep dating other guys while reminding him that he's her ideal but she doesn't want him (oh but she wishes so much that she could... oh if only! )
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:38 PM
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Not a strawman at all. Your example of ugly guys doing well was rap stars and celebrities. And yeah, at that level the other stuff can outweigh looks. But most guys will never have that level of money or status so they still need looks to get them in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:34 PM
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"I want to find someone just like you (but not you)" are not words a mature friend says.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:32 PM
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irresponsible parents Are we sure that should be plural?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:29 PM
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Oh good all I have to do to overcome my looks is make a fortune rapping. Sounds easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:27 PM
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I would say the "average" incel wants both - just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:51 PM
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Probably just keep it and stay lonely. Just wish I didn't have to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:35 AM
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If you're going to tell me where I can go that it's acceptable to just walk in and say "I'm here to eat pussy"? Dealer's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:20 AM
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Tabletop gaming (board, rpg, minis) and associated arts (painting and crafts). All those jokes about how gamers are all virgin dudes? Yeah that's cause it's the one hobby where you will NEVER meet an appreciable number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:48 PM
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Point me toward the pussy-eating meetup. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:41 PM
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Because I only have so much free time, so if I take up a hobby where I might meet someone it means I have to give up another to make time for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:55 PM
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I really like my current hobbies and I hate that I have to abandon them and find new ones if I ever want to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:48 PM
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If so then that makes it more of a minor annoyance. But I can't imagine that's true because anything that's unlimited right out of the gate is something match group can't sell an unlimited version of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:53 PM
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Definitely. But more to the point, the apps are supposed to be for meeting people not advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:11 PM
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That would be fine if swipes weren't limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:09 PM
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Anyone who posts their Instagram, snapchat, or onlyfans on their OLD profile should be reportable to get banned from the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:49 PM
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Stop it! You're making me homesick!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:12 PM
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You seem to think the only options are "free" or "many times more than it needs to cost because there's a bank taking their cut at every stage of the process".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:04 PM
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People used to just... you know... build houses. You only think the middleman of a bank is necessary in the homeowning process because they took steps to artificially make themselves necessary. Kind of like Healthcare (in the US): you need insurance because Healthcare is so expensive... but it's only that expensive because insurance companies took steps to make it expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:52 PM
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In the current system no. And if they're never allowed to fail out of fear of hard times, a better system can never be established. Oh and the answer was "abuser". Abusers talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:38 PM
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"I may treat you badly but just remember you'd be even worse off without me. You need me." Hmm... if a person talked like this what would we call them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:34 PM
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Lol, you won't even quote the entirety of what I said because you know it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:15 PM
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What's the point of quoting any of your hundreds of daily diatribes? You've "worded them carefully" so you can always claim that you didn't mean what you so clearly meant. But anyone who's been here long enough to be familiar with you can see the truth pretty plainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:23 PM
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For mocking your use of weasel words to try and hide your true bigotry? Um... you're welcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:54 PM
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"I SAID MEN HERE NOT ALL MEN!!!1!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:50 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:52 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:47 PM
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Thanks but: A - I already knew that of course; and B - If people don't Google international men's day today what will misandrists use as a "gotcha" next Nov 19th?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:42 PM
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I'm googling men's day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:12 PM
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What's wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:54 PM
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Lol okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:43 PM
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I assume that people saw the big deal made of international women's day, waited all year for the corresponding men's day, never knew it happened because it is never mentioned or hyped anywhere, and then when women's day rolled around again thought "what the hell?" and Googled to see if there even was a men's day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:41 PM
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Netflix will routinely override its own algorithm to push things it wants to be popular on EVERYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:18 PM
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I also think you need to take into account what type of dating scenario you’re taking about bc the criteria changes The drunk bitch going home with chad from the club at 3am doesn’t give a fuck how much he makes per year or what kind of car he drives The 28 year old who wants to start a family and settle down can’t stand chad from the club and wants someone who has his shit together and will be consistent Um...AF/BB is pretty well established. I don't think anyone's failing to take it into accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:13 PM
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Oh you're one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:41 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:34 PM
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Even the sapios and demis aren't swiping right on some of us bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:26 PM
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Sure I do. I've spent my life watching relationships or hookups (whichever they preferred) fall into their laps with zero effort on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:16 PM
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Daughter wouldn't need advice so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:14 PM
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How so? I want him to be happy, not sacrifice himself on the altar of someone else's idea of morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:13 PM
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If you're dating you're not too ugly to date. Like how are you not getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:10 PM
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I would advise him to employ any (non-criminal) strategy that nets him success and to ignore anyone who shames him or calls him degenerate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:08 PM
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Could be worse man. You could be too ugly to date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:06 PM
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Sucks man, but on the other hand, be glad you're still getting dates. If you find a woman who actually doesn't care how you look, fucking cherish her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:57 PM
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Learn how to have casual conversations in public without performing assault. Rule 1...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:43 PM
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They likely have one or more female friends who have rejected them and now use them as a shoulder to cry on when the guys they date do something upsetting. This naturally leads to the conclusion that these better looking guys are all assholes because they only hear about their bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:15 PM
1

Get your girl some mango skin cream. This is a solvable problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:08 PM
1

But if you rely on it solely and entirely the problem will never be solved and will in fact grow worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:57 PM
1

So it's not a solution to the broken leg itself? Because you may not have realized it but that was sort of my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:55 PM
1

And the morphine will fix the broken bone too right? Nothing further needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:48 PM
1

Absolutely. Don't set that broken leg, just load up on morphine. That'll fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:46 PM
1

Yep that does seem to be our current answer for anyone with problems. Don't try to find actual solutions, just stuff them full of drugs until they can't care any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:42 PM
5

She tells Jake about her sexual past, and that she likes him, but she really wants to get to know him, and she won’t have sex for the first 6 months of their relationship. The weight should never have become an issue because Jake should have moved on right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:03 PM
1

How is being a criminal taking himself out of the dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:32 PM
16

The only good way to reject is to say plainly and simply "Sorry, I'm not interested in dating you". Obviously don't be an asshole or act disgusted or affronted that someone "beneath" you showed interest. But on the flipside, don't patronize them with disingenuous lines about how great they are and how happy they'll make some other hypothetical person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:45 PM
1

Sorry was I not clear that that's what I was trying to do in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:17 PM
2

I always kind of suspected: I had no dates or girlfriends in high school - but I told myself I was a geeky guy at small school with a lot of preppy girls and not enough geek girls to go around. So I went to college, found a group of anime fans and gamers with lots of girls, actually became a "high ranking" member of the group... and still struck out every time. That's when I knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:53 PM
2

Giggity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:03 AM
4

Of course! I need to know if that dude's stepsister ever gets unstuck from the laundry machine!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:53 PM
3

Oh if only...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:50 PM
10

Ah yes, followed up quickly with "we don't want a bunch of creepers joining our hobby groups to try and meet women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:48 PM
2

Pretty sure it's going to be bespoke AI generated VR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:42 PM
7

It mostly comes from women, whose experience of the dating scene vis-a-vis hobby clubs is naturally going to be different from that of the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:40 PM
2

IME most of the women who claim to be demisexual on OLD are just looking for a foodie call or an emotional support boyfriend and use "demi" as a defense against any attempt to take the relationship further.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:36 PM
4

Q4A: what are your biggest red flags in OLD? For me: IG/snapchat listed in bio - double if she wrote nothing else. "Demisexual" Describes ideal partner as "generous".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:25 PM
2

Fair enough. Probably not a common scenario though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:00 AM
1

If their advances are welcomed how is it rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:56 PM
8

Sure they can. It weeds out the men who care about the "rules". The men who don't give a fuck and take what they want regardless of whether their advances are welcome or not will still approach - just as women want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:48 PM
3

Maybe they should stop being shallow about height...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:07 PM
2

It's the just world fallacy. They can't conceive of a person failing through no fault of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:47 PM
1

If you needed an instruction manual for something, would you honestly prefer one that doesn't guarantee success?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:39 PM
1

It's a catch 22 then because if you are already doing the common sense stuff and getting dumped for not saying/doing the right thing, then your only option is to strive to say/do the right thing... and then apparently get dumped for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:33 PM
1

If you want to believe I hate women go right ahead. It won't make it true but I guess it might let you have a false sense of superiority so... win?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:08 PM
1

Of course not. But it's still worth minimizing the chances of them going. Otherwise you reach a point in your life where they've all gone and no more are coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:03 PM
1

Don't respond on threads you didn't bother to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:00 PM
3

Paris or Kim: to sponge off their fame Cardi: ...robbery fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:58 PM
1

Who wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:50 PM
2

You're mental gymnastics are impressive. If only this were an Olympics year. Now would you care to step away from abortion and address the other rights to avoid parenthood women have that men don't? Like drop off spots and closed adoptions? Also when you say forcing men to give birth (if they could) isn't something the government would do, its entirely appropriate to point out areas where the government already reserves the right to exercise a claim on a man's body. Its not a "tangent" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:44 PM
0

Everything short of being taller or more handsome (which i couldn't afford surgery for). And let's not pretend that isn't the implication when they worship low N and demonize high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:33 PM
2

The US has conscription. It's called selective service and can be used to perform an actual draft whenever congress deems it necessary. Yes men don't get pregnant. Is that really your only argument as to why they should have no other options for avoiding unwanted parental responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:25 PM
0

I've seen a woman dump her boyfriend of several months because he showed up for a date in a shirt she thought was ugly. I've watched the attraction drain from a woman's eyes when her boyfriend cried over the death of a beloved pet. I've had the privilege of watching over a friend's shoulder as she went through opening messages on OLD and seen how little it took to earn them an "ignore". And I've been on the other side of that equation, sending messages to women who chose to swipe right on me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:15 PM
2

I'm not a "blooming chad" though. Guys like me can't get away with slip ups the way you can get away with almost anything. You talk about what you've seen. Would you be interested in hearing what I've seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:57 PM
2

In the US the government essentially has a lien on a man's body from 18 to 25 if they feel the need to claim it for bullet fodder. Women have the right to opt out of parenthood after pregnancy has occurred in any of several ways (abortion yes, but also no-questions safe drop off etc). Men have no such right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:48 PM
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You've had plenty of people in that thread explaining why these numbers aren't necessarily to be taken as gospel. I would link you to the thread so you could see them but... well the links right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:29 PM
2

You're damn right I try hard to do everything correctly. If women don't like that maybe they can start being even a little bit forgiving of imperfections and missteps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:24 PM
2

Based on what though? They have no argument that doesn't break down the second you point out that low N is just as likely to cut and run.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:18 PM
1

So we agree low n count has no effect on pair bonding and does not predict greater loyalty. Good glad thats sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:13 PM
2

I mean... it maps perfectly on mens reproductive rights and on the government's ownership of young male bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:11 PM
1

I call it HelLDR so that should give you some idea where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:09 PM
1

Then why care about n count at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:08 PM
0

Even if that were true (it's not) shouldn't the full strength pair bonding ability of the low n woman have compensated?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:07 PM
1

My girlfriend in college was a virgin until we had sex (as was I). A year or so after graduation she dumped me, saying she "wasn't feeling attractive or sexual". A month after that she was feeling very attractive and sexual with a friend of mine. But tell me again how low N count guarantees loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:50 PM
2

"Dad bod" for most women is Jason Momoa when he's not on a dehydration cycle so...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:40 PM
1

Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:45 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:27 PM
4

Same thing I do every valentines: masturbate furiously then cry myself to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:59 PM
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Everyone who habitually uses water will die. If they try to quit they'll just die sooner; that's how addictive it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:50 PM
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The current paradigm, overall, is that the initial approach and each subsequent attempt to advance to the next stage in a relationship or casual encounter - up to and including sex- is the responsibility of the man, with the woman deciding whether to accept or reject at each stage. Hence the woman "gives" sex (or doesn't) because the man by default is in the position of requesting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:37 PM
1

You stop that!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:33 PM
6

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:48 PM
19

The last time I talked to my dad before his deteriorating condition made him entirely unable to converse, the one question he was able to ask me was "are you dating anyone?" And I had to tell him "no". The man was dying and I wasn't even able to at least give him hope that his name might live on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:02 PM
7

This actually touches on the really interesting thing about deepfakes. They will make all video evidence of anything obsolete. Once deepfakes cannot be distinguished from real footage, there will always be reasonable doubt of any video being genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:29 PM
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Nine Inch Nails - Pretty Hate Machine Cowboy Mouth - Voodoo Shoppe Green Day - American Idiot Rammstein - Sehnsucht Spinal Tap - Break Like the Wind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:45 PM
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How do women not see through the act with the same magical second sight that lets them spot redpill men and guys who are only faking confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:51 PM
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The lady doth protest too much methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:26 PM
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I've been wondering the same thing lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:08 PM
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Spot on. Also this is somehow never an acceptable point when arguing against the existence of a wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:55 PM
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Oh I see your game now. Ask for examples and when anyone gives you one just laugh and say they're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:49 PM
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Honestly its self evident. If a cop is required to arrest someone and his training tells him abuse is something men do to women not vice versa its inevitable. Ill keep looking of course but it's odd, when I try to Google female on male DV in any way it decides I must be asking about male on female instead. Can't imagine why...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:41 PM
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Yes a model of law enforcement that portrays men as abusers and women as victims coupled with laws like VAWA which require arrests on domestic violence calls will never lead to abused men being arrested. That's just crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:12 PM
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Feminism pushed the Duluth model, which causes men to be arrested if they call the police when they are being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:54 PM
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Why would I? They're getting laid just fine on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:52 PM
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Indeed I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:46 PM
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So pay for the date and she'll feel obligated to... let you pay for another? Win?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:35 PM
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The bad stuff is going to happen anyway. Why deny yourself the good stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:39 PM
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You saw an Olsen twin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:11 PM
1

Why should he assume that best case scenario when she won't even play along with a bit of flirtation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:24 PM
1

He made an innuendo and her first instinct was to shut it down hard. She would not have put out, certainly not on that date and possibly not ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:09 PM
3

Yeah. A vocal feminist who's a great housewife and sexually adventurous. That happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:28 PM
2

I've said the same about women on OLD who matched and then never replied or messaged and got quite a bit of backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:16 PM
2

Alternate theory: he has few options and thus doesn't waste his time on ones that aren't attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:14 PM
16

Are you diligently observing rules 1 and 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:26 PM
2

Absolutely. If I were a woman, my main hobby - which hasn't gotten me so much as a date in close to 30 years - would get me a life partner within six months. Any potential difficulties would be worth that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:59 PM
2

There is way too much variety in body types among female porn stars for that complaint to make any kind of sense. Unless they mean men want to have the body of a male porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:08 PM
1

I'll let you know if and when I'm able to remove the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:25 PM
1

But if circumstances keep her from getting one she should just stop wanting one. I've been told its just that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:56 PM
2

Why does she need a relationship to be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:49 PM
3

I was in London a few years ago and I went to Whitechapel, to the Ten Bells, the very pub where Jack the Ripper's victims (and likely Jack himself) drank. The barman there poured me the most immaculate pint of Guinness I have ever had. The head was just the right texture, just the right width, and came up right to the rim of the glass without a drop spilling over. It was glorious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:01 PM
1

If anyone is attracted to her she should report them to the police, not date them. That means a life without romance, but she can always find other things to fill her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:53 PM
1

Why do their ratings have less validity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:50 PM
1

She should accept living without a relationship. There's nothing bad about such a life, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:48 PM
3

Are you engaging with anyone in particular or just freeforming?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:46 PM
1

I'm not going to pretend I can explain the messaging part. But it doesn't make the rating part untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:33 PM
1

What do you think made them lie in their ratings?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:23 PM
2

No, that entire study was based on observing the way users rated each other. No one self reported anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:01 PM
3

Point of order: quoting the OKC study is not believing what women say, it's watching what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:55 PM
1

I'm no ornithologist but I'm almost certain a peacock shaking his tail feathers can't selectively target which peahens who see it will be attracted and which won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:49 PM
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Exactly. Unattractive men have less sex, while unattractive women are unaffected. That means attractive men are having sex with women "below" their level to make the numbers work. Unless you have another explanation for why women's chances are unaffected while men's are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:10 AM
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That doesn't answer your question of who is fucking all the women. It only supports the idea that the top guys get more than their "fair share".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:02 AM
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Do you have a different explanation for the numbers presented?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:54 PM
1

Dude! What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:59 PM
2

I certainly am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:43 PM
2

Like a couple years after, when I realized it would never happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:41 PM
12

Is that why they only run to the secure man once they've failed to lock down a fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:09 PM
2

Thing is, this answer is different for everyone based on their specific histories. For someone who has been withheld from emotionally, caring might very well be the answer. For someone who has only ever been the utility friend, never the boy/girlfriend it might actually be sex. People are individuals and so are their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:53 PM
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How many times does this need to be said? Men want their partner to be attracted to them; not just to value whatever he can provide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:36 AM
15

There will be a massive genetic bottleneck as only the smallest top percentage of men will be able to find a partner to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:30 PM
0

Lose it, if no one is going to have empathy for me (and they aren't) I would rather not reflexively have empathy for them (as I currently do).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:41 PM
1

Everything you listed can be done by friends. There doesn't have to be love involved. At least not the kind we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:37 PM
0

And you cowards out there can downvote me all you want. If you can't actually refute what I said all you're saying is that you're salty about me being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:59 PM
1

I've found plenty of people to "care" about me by your definition. None of them loved me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:52 PM
0

You got there before I could but this is the gist of what I would have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:29 PM
0

Don't pity her. Do you have any idea how hard a pretty woman has to work to maintain insecurity? Be proud of your friend's achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:57 PM
2

Don't use the sinking ship. People here seem to have a hard time believing that emergencies and disasters ever happen any more. My advice: use war. We literally just saw in Ukraine that when your country is invaded women and children get to flee to safety while men are forced to stay behind and fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:43 PM
2

Come on don't fall for his lame scam! Join my OF and I'll give you a video rating. I'll even use your name for an extra $20...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:24 PM
2

You say this several times a day, but you never say what you think is the ultimate expression of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:18 PM
1

And get death grip? No thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:15 PM
1

No that'll never fly. Better idea: instead of dick pics we start sending tease images with the actual dick and balls covered up, then tell the ladies they can see the full monty on our OF/Fansly/Premium Snapchat. Then once they're subscribed you can offer the totally honest tit rating for an extra charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:14 PM
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Sometimes thats the case. But I would wager that at least as often they think so because women make the creepy judgment before they've opened their mouths or done anything. If she has nothing but looks to go on it's only logical to assume her judgment was based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:11 PM
1

Why is she swiping new dudes when she has a date lined up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:44 PM
1

She shouldn't swipe on people she has no intention of messaging. I don't see how this is an unreasonable expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:33 PM
2

Smash and smash... nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:58 PM
1

And all it took was being one of only 12 people in history do a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:29 PM
1

So she was swiping multiple dudes and only picking the best one? That's hardly the meaningful swiping that bumble's "only women can message" setup is supposed to encourage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:16 PM
2

It took you this long to realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:13 PM
1

Yeah still odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:29 PM
2

Well he demanded 100 nazi scalps so right away... Oh, did you mean sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:28 PM
1

Context I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:12 PM
2

Without context it's nonsensical at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:58 PM
1

I think a good amount are trying to call attention to the hypocrisy of laws that literally say only men can rape (see the quote of UK law below).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:54 PM
1

Don't try to downplay my powers!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:29 PM
1

Absolutely. Prior consent discussion would be nice though. But the closest I've ever gotten is an ex who had the conversation, got the consent... and then never did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:18 PM
2

Well if it wasn't me that means a woman did something less than wonderful. Don't think you'll get much traction with that idea around here but give it a try I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:57 PM
5

Latest Bumble match didn't just wait for contact window to expire; she deleted her account. My ability to repel women is so powerful I'm almost proud at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:33 PM
1

It's 72 virgins. And "virgins" is likely a mistranslation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:24 PM
2

Because the one can be seen by some to at least partially absolve them of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:47 PM
2

It's not a spectrum issue. It's a misandry issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:42 PM
6

Man bad woman good. How are you not getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:56 PM
2

Nobody actually wants you to examine your emotions. They just want you to shut up about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:18 PM
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Gatekeeping in general is a good thing. And to anyone (i.e. women) who disagree, consider the following: should a man who wants to join a previously all female yoga or pole fitness class have his motives scrutinized, or be accepted without reservation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:03 PM
3

If she doesn't enjoy sex, she doesn't have everything I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:00 PM
2

If what makes me happy? Believing that my feelings are valid? I mean it's pretty neutral, but I guess it makes me happier than denying their validity would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:49 PM
2

Well sure I can invalidate my own feelings like the guy suggests, but how is that good for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:39 PM
23

So just to be clear: you doubt the results of a study that you didn't bother to read. On what do you base this opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:30 PM
2

Gonna be honest: the message seemed to be "ignore the arrow in your gut and give some sympathy to this person with a splinter in their finger and a pair of tweezers they refuse to use." Maybe I'm doing everything he says not to but I can't help it. I would kill to have the level of options that redditor he reads from has, because I know that among them there are absolutely some who would want her for more than just her looks. It might take some effort to find, but that is effort I would gladly p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:58 PM
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