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What is her name?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:05 AM
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I think most people would be lying if they say it wouldn't be factored into the decision to some degree. "Unattractiveness" isn't really something to go on because everyone has different taste. However, obese is a different story. When you're saying "obese", I'm also assuming you don't mean just hitting obese by the standard measurement? We're talking really big here, right? In that case, that is just really bad habits or something weird is going on. One could argue a person's ability to functio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:06 AM
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You couldn’t really be considered to be at a high status from doing that. You are constantly walking on banana peels, because the people who watch your content do so because they’re insecure and like to see other people be discredited. So you will be eaten by your own sooner or later and have to start over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:27 PM
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You couldn’t really be considered to be at a high status from doing that. You are constantly walking on banana peels, because the people who watch your content do so because they’re insecure and like to see other people be discredited. Do you will be eaten by your own sooner or later and have to start over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:27 PM
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Many of these 18-21 models are just good looking early 30s girls in a lot of makeup. I'd argue it's the opposite. It seems like it's filled with women in their early 20's and then when they hit their 30's they are against the industry in it's entirety. There's a few documentaries about this out there with interviews from big pornstars, and many women talk about it online. There's a huge grey area between telling a woman that she should come in for a photo shoot because she's good looking for $40…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:35 PM
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The manosphere is just becoming diluted now. It's what happens with everything that's similar to it on the internet. A few people start producing what is considered helpful content. Those few people decide to go full-time and monetize their efforts because they have to if they want to go full-time with it. Then other people see it as a money play, so they jump in and start producing as much content as possible for attention and money. Now you have people walking around *talking* wild "RP shit" f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:50 PM
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It is much easier to discredit someone for attention than it is to get to the point where you can genuinely compete with them. This is why business owners and entrepreneurs that are at the top of their game don’t have to spend time trying to discredit other people, they actually collaborate more times than not…. There’s such a lack of people operating at that level that actual competition isn’t necessary. However, you’ll see people attempt to discredit them who are nowhere near as known to get k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:56 AM
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Is the difference between being creepy and “chasing” just whether or not she finds you attractive Yes, that is the difference. Most women will admit this too. Money and materialist items play a factor as well…. This example won’t apply to all women, but I would definitely wager it applies to most. same dude in each scenario, same outfit First date example A - Hey, I have to head to (blank state), would you be interested in coming with me? Woman to her friends - He asked me to go to another state…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:37 AM
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He definitely does have really good comedic timing and funny things to say for someone who isn’t a comedian. However, I think you think I’m saying he’s faking everything and playing a character in life as a whole. That’s not what I’m saying, what I’m saying is that when he’s filming his hot takes or doing interviews with random chicks he’s definitely mostly playing a character. You can see him break it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:49 AM
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There’s videos of him breaking character all over the place. You think he actually thinks eating sushi is gay? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:03 AM
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The problem with people like Andrew is that he plays a character for attention and people take him seriously. That’s really the simplest way I could boil it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:10 AM
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Andrew seems to have a track record of a few very successful businesses and he is a world champion kickboxer. From my understanding he was a kickboxer, but then decided he wanted to make more money so he started a webcam business with a handful of girls that grew quickly. He then dipped his toes in the water of the casino business and wound up doing very well there, he now seems to be an angle investor as well, and runs Hustler University and The War Room as of recently. What’s all the fuss abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:54 AM
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You should be fully in touch with your emotions, you should not ignore them and “grit your teeth”. People can see when you are ignoring your emotions, you will not be fun to be around, and you will not be able to create an atmosphere that people want to be apart of. The key is to leverage your emotions. When you ignore them, they creep in and cause unexpected outcomes no matter who you are. When you learn how to leverage your emotions, you will appear to have no emotions as opposed to looking li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:31 AM
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The issue I take is that all to often men take TRP advice in its mainstream form (shorter explanations and clips) without having the other half of the equation finished. If you’re not in a similar position as Myron where women will legitimately come to you, you most likely lack the leverage needed to actually execute on similar demands and standards. It equates to telling someone to pay them before any of the products or services are available or legitimized. This is obviously said considering t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:03 AM
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I would say there’s a lot of reasons, and it’s not really possible to boil it down to one or two things. I have a few theories though for the sake of conversation… A lot men don’t think they need therapy because they saw their father as a miserable bastard and think that’s just how life is. A lot of men are being raised by single mothers who are struggling to be a good parent. All too often I see single mothers claiming their child needs therapy because of issues that are a result of their (pote…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:35 AM
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When did I say they didn't? God, some of you people are so sucked into internet culture you don't realize you can't even read and respond properly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:21 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:20 AM
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If a woman were to say “I’m not looking for a relationship. I enjoy my life as is, therefore, for a relationship to be tempting for me, he would have to bring a lot to the table.”, that’s a very fair stance. However, that’s not really the case when this point is being discussed…. It is usually women who waste the time of men by not being upfront about their standards, and use men in the meantime for small wins without making it clear they do not fit their standards and abuse their resources. Bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:39 AM
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Eh, I’ve met a lot of women who have matured in their 30’s and started to be more “lady like”, which is what I’m attracted to, so I may have a distorted view there. However, I do have to say the likelihood of men improving in their 30’s may tip slightly in our favor. Mostly because it’s very difficult to have a man’s wants and needs met if he’s not performing well in pretty much all areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:54 PM
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They have less time to screw around with men who may not satisfy their wants and needs. With the increase in technology and the availability of it, both men and women who stay in good shape can remain great looking well into their 40’s. Women are very aware of this, however, most know their options will get slimmer and slimmer within the decade. The solution to this is not to just settle for someone who doesn’t meet your wants or needs, the solution is to put in the work and have the leverage to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:28 AM
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A lot of people simply despise those who don’t live paycheck to paycheck, that’s why this nonsense exists….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:39 AM
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It’s not really about being lazy, people just think they naturally know how to do most things successfully when that’s not the case at all…. Society lead astray the majority of people by not emphasizing the fact that we are not naturally good at 90% of what is required to live a happy and fulfilling life in these modern times. So much so, that it has almost become insulting to infer the opposite to an individual or group. If you tried to campaign a book on “How to Be a Better Mother/Father”, peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:02 AM
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but that you should make peace with the fact that reality is never going to be what you'd like it to be, no matter how noble your ideals, unjust your lot or great your efforts. I agree, however, there's a major point I always make when discussing this.... When I was young, my father used to make me play chess with him. If I beat him, he'd give me $10 (I think he would let me win quite often, he denies it until this day, but that's not the point lol). The point is that it taught me to play within…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:36 PM
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Yes that person needs therapy, as for the rest, I don’t think I understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:57 AM
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Many things have changed overtime, I get what you’re saying, but many people want to see change and a few people from each generation are usually successful in putting it in motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:54 AM
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You’ve never heard of it? I’m pretty surprised you haven’t as a RPW. It’s a show on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:19 AM
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Yeah she’s definitely not going, there’s no point. Plus, I also have a brand I’d like to maintain and not get brought into that. I mainly posted this to prove that the people who think fnf just pays all the girls to be on the show and that they’re hand picked are flat out wrong. The reason people accuse them of doing that is because they want to deny the fact that women by and large actually act like that, and argue like that when confronted with topics concerning intersexual dynamics. My other …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:46 PM
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She’d be accused of that, yes. However, no, she’s not a pick-me. She wouldn’t intentionally try to put down the other women, but when a topic came up she’d most definitely wind up in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:41 PM
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She posted a pretty conservative photo on Instagram with the geotag so wasn’t really that but I hear ya
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:39 PM
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My girlfriend is red pill, she would just wind up arguing with the other women on the panel lol….
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:37 PM
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I’m not surprised that people gain weight, I’m surprised they keep it on. Idk how many times someone has to say that the habits you create in your twenties will follow you through your life, people really can’t take the simplest advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:36 PM
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My girlfriend is in Miami and just got an invite to fresh n fit haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:35 PM
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I don’t think it’s “mostly due” to either gender. Being fat is a huge red flag to most people in general, it’s the most upfront and obvious sign that something is wrong… As far as being fat goes when it comes to gender, men will likely tell other men to their face they are fat and need to lose weight. Women tend to discuss another woman’s weight behind her back. You can walk straight up to a guy and say “Hey man, you’re getting pretty fat, you need to adjust something”, and a lot of men will thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:19 AM
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While I don’t agree fully with OP (especially with how #3 goes and that women will trade height and dick size preferences when status is involved), you having only been with one man your entire life, and that man being 5’11, doesn’t really allow for you to argue their main point here (unless I’m reading you wrong here, and you’re not arguing it). I think it would be incredibly out of touch to argue that for the majority of women, height and dick size is a prerequisite, which means it is what wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:28 PM
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Not going to add or argue with any of the other comments left here, however, the actual/tactical reason to why he’s so popular is because of his marketing strategy. His online course (in which all of his students seem satisfied in, which is why he hasn’t been busted by scam reviewers) urges his students to edit his videos in their own way and post them on social media…. He has around 100,000 students, and a large percentage of those students are posting his videos daily on various social media p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:44 PM
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5/10 making 110k, however, that’s way too low of an income for myself and a lot of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:49 AM
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While I agree that’s a logical fallacy, how fat are we talking here? Men can definitely be a little more out of shape at scale without it affecting the relationship. Should they be in shape? Yes, however, I think there’s a pretty large grey area on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:47 AM
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This is all false pressure that is talked about a lot but is not the reality of the world we live in. Men who scramble to put a life together because of this false pressure will have built a home with toothpicks, duct tape, and construction paper. A woman’s looks and a man’s looks will stay great if they take care of themselves, they can look great well into their 30’s and sometimes even 40’s. I think some women actually start to look better as they start getting a little older, that’s just my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:30 AM
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"Take people at their word, love with all your heart, and if you get hurt, then pick yourself back up and do not take it out on others" Like I said, I do agree with this. However, I do think there is room for a discussion when it comes to what is practical in relation to one's own success and fulfillment over time. The way I view the world is that everyone must pay a certain amount of "dumb tax" in their life. The easiest way to pay the most amount of dumb tax, is to not think clearly, or to avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:47 PM
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Mind you, correlation is not causation. I agree, I also think there are many bad takes when it comes to N count, especially amongst the RP community. But.... I'm not so sure if you can agree that there is a correlation while casting judgement towards others who would make assumptions based on N count on the premise that people are more likely to be not only fully self-aware, but surprisingly honest when asking them about deep rooted questions as opposed to being blissfully unaware of their corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:17 PM
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Do you believe there's zero correlation between the amount of casual sex someone has and their own mental health? There are studies that argue both sides of this argument, but to completely write it off doesn't seem like something that can be said in good faith. No love is sin, there is no need to atone nor punish someone for their past. I agree with this. Consider who they are in present, for that is where you are. Take people at their word, love with all your heart, and if you get hurt, then p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:37 PM
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No, that’s very normal. My back cleared up as I got older, but nobody would be turned off by scars on your back. It never was an issue for me, and I don’t know anyone who it was an issue for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:45 AM
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I want to know how she came up with the price.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 06:41 PM
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Number 2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:05 AM
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I personally don’t think that’s healthy. That is my opinion though. I would speak to a professional about this so that they can have a much better understanding of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:03 AM
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I don’t think many relationships can handle a party getting to the levels of fame in your examples... If you think your boyfriend is going to be the next Elon Musk, then yeah, you have a few things to worry about statistically speaking lol. However, since this post is general advice, this advice is bad unless one could provide some reasonable evidence that men who grow a small to medium sized business, or excel in their careers over time, are likely to leave their wife that was with them through…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:15 AM
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I always find that narrative funny….. “Girls who bang on the first date aren’t shit, because they probably do that all the time!” “Well, what if you’re just that good of a guy and she was really enjoying everything so it happened quickly?” Pshhhh, me? Enjoying this? Yeah right…. “Nah, she’s a slut bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:52 AM
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This is true in my experience, women with high body counts tend to treat relationships with a “passive attitude”, but when my friends meet a girl with fewer past relationships and lower counts, they’re much brighter, outgoing, attentive, driven, and overall nicer to be around. Same situation occurred when my girlfriend and I got together years ago, but I can see it much clearer now in my friend’s relationships. Also, that’s not to say a woman with a lot of past relationships or a high count can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:35 AM
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This is true, and something I think men don’t understand well. You don’t have to “Chad it up” on the first date at all, especially if you are actually confident in your ability to be a husband/boyfriend. A lot of men need to put on an act though, because the unfortunate reality is that their actions don’t coincide with their apparent ideals, values, and ethics. If things get heated and wind up going to the bedroom on the first date, that’s a “whatever thing” to a guy that is actually worth his s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:28 AM
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I was chilling with my girlfriend and her friend the other day and I brought up the idea that I think a lot of men have a pretty good guess for women's count. Her friend told me to guess her's and I was right lol. Very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:08 PM
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Yeah......I didn't say it was just being annoyed though? I was asking OP what it felt like because they said they experience rage, but only after saying people would argue with them about how it's not a big deal or that it's not annoying. So I was curious if anyone actually doesn't find that annoying. That description also seemed pretty passive so I was just wondering if it was almost like a panic attack feeling, or a moment of extreme discomfort because of the noise, and then rage due to the ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:38 PM
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Yah, I know there’s a difference between being annoyed and experiencing rage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:39 AM
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Women who claim they will be “traditionally feminine” when they meet a man that checks off all of their highest standards, are just lying. This is the when/then fallacy. Their ideal is to fit a traditionally feminine role, but it’s conditional on obtaining something they won’t obtain or utilize properly unless they are already doing the things that would warrant that outcome in the first place. It’s like people who say, “When I get a nice pair of running shoes, then I’ll start running.”. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:28 AM
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How would you heal from that? Is it a really intense feeling that makes you feel excruciatingly uncomfortable? Are there people who don’t find people chewing with their mouths open, chewing loudly, and slurping annoying af? I also hate when people scrape the bottom of their bowl with a fork or spoon, but doesn’t everyone else hate that, kind of like nails on a chalkboard (which is a much worse sound, but that’s not the point)? Idk who was calling you crazy for finding that annoying, that is very…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:09 AM
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An interesting point I think to add would be that I tend to notice that most women do run into HVM pretty frequently, but they are invisible to HVM in terms of LTRs because of their own actions, beliefs, and values. Because of this, women come up with their own definition of a HVM to give reason to why they weren’t picked by the true HVM. It’s a defense mechanism. A HVM is pretty easy to distinguish, similar to how high value cars work…. I think women essentially do the same thing men do when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:29 AM
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That’s fine. I’ve never taken a picture of my dick, don’t intend to in the future, the thought of it feels weird. My girlfriend will send me snaps here and there to be funny, but I’ve never seriously expected her to do it, and this was also after years of dating. If I just started seeing a girl and she sent me a nude I’d be a little turned off in terms of LTR potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:43 AM
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There's a difference between having a standard set when it comes to someone's ability to provide for you and being solely motivated on the money aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:10 AM
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I would say this is because the artsy skinny guy is more likely to be a bit of a loser and women just become more aware of that as time goes on. A successful artsy skinny guy would have no problem in this aspect and that's obvious, however, you can only say "I'm going to make it" for so long before the majority of women become uninterested in you as a life partner. Everyone's bias is built on their experience, so after seeing this play out time and time again from either your friends or personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:43 PM
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That’s what I figured, but I didn’t want to assume that. Isn’t that what pro-lifers want? For women to view it as a good thing to be more picky with who they have sex with? I’m not saying you’re wrong, I just find it to be an odd stance to take in combination with each other. From a pro-life standpoint, this argument would be equivalent to “They just reduced the speed limit and have cops on every corner to enforce it! So less people are going to speed now and people will have to learn how to sch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:17 AM
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I think I could have framed my question better. I am aware of your stance on a ban. they should be pickier than ever to who they have sex with m My question is if you think this ^ is a good thing or a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:06 AM
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I’m kind of confused on your stance, are you saying this a good thing or a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:00 AM
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I do believe people should be able to get abortions So there’s a reason that comparing being against gun control to being pro-life in attempts to frame those who fit both molds is a non-sensical argument. Being against gun control and being pro-life at the same time is far from contradicting. People who are pro-life believe in objective morality (as most people do), and objective rights, with their main differentiator being that they believe rights are granted at conception and those rights are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:33 AM
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If I’m not mistaken, TikTok in China is now its own version of TikTok with censorship. A company based out of Texas purchased TikTok a while ago from what I understand, I have meetings with people who work at their office there pretty frequently. Out of all the mainstream platforms, TikTok actually seems like the best in terms of allowing people to speak their mind without being labeled poorly or banned without good reason, usually if someone is banned for a bad reason, it’s more so that TikTok …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:03 AM
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Lost me at “communism isn’t bad”, what a load of crap. These people need to be exposed for who they are more often. They take positions to be self-fulfilling that are posed as “a greater good” for the sake of feeling like they’re actually doing something with their lives. These people are providing ZERO value to the world. If you were to ask most of them what they do in their day to day, they’re not helping people, they’re just telling everyone how their thought process is fucked up and how thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:38 AM
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Haha, I mean, that would be a very cut and dry example. I wouldn’t say that your example doesn’t actually exist though, so it’s something to run with as a legitimate example, which is just a long way of me saying “yes”. The term “love language” when used for manipulation is a way for certain people to try to get what they want by essentially threatening the idea that if it’s not done, they are not loved or feel love. While in reality, it’s just something they want done for ulterior reasons and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:36 AM
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Would you mind sharing one? I’m just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:11 AM
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I don’t think people have anything against genuine love languages, I think people just understand that there’s a lot of people who will use the term “love language” as a manipulation tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:59 AM
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Not much of a hypothesis, there’s a good deal of evidence supporting this. The problem is, it’s wrong to think this way while simultaneously having children. If you don’t think a man or woman partner would make your life better, you are completely lost in terms of what has gotten us to this point. If you want to question it, fine, but know if you do follow and live by this ideology that you’re setting your children up for failure statistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:45 AM
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If you have the money and you haven’t tried this already, I would suggest joining a martial arts gym of your choosing rather than a personal trainer. Most gyms have pretty ruthless workouts and you get a good level of accountability. It will give you something else to talk about and you can replace that with gym bro talk if the topic comes up. Plus after a year or two you’d fuck up the majority of society in a fight (which you shouldn’t test out because that’s dick af, but it’s just nice to know…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:49 PM
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I love how she says “ideas”. My girlfriend and I joke around about how she’ll try to give input to my business here and there, it’s just never an actual good idea because she’s not involved in my business. I’ll just be ranting about something on the phone or thinking out loud and she’ll say something about it. It’s light hearted and it doesn’t make her stupid, it just doesn’t make sense for someone to be able to do that at all. I don’t have any “ideas” for another line of work that I’m not parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:34 AM
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Handbook Different versions of it, depending on what you’re talking about specifically. do you go to the TRP sub? No, as I’ve said in this sub before (not that I expect you to have seen it, just saying I frequent this point), I’m not interested in reading what people who sit in echo chambers running away from any type of actual discussion have to say. Communities almost alway ruin the idea of why they are built. The reality is that the large majority of people who read RP content will not act on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:31 PM
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It’s debatable to me whether or not people actually understood the gamble, people shove it down the throats of others constantly. These people think that just because the SEC isn’t involved means that what they’re doing isn’t illegal, it’s still very much illegal. The SEC is your friend, when you’re doing something wrong, they warn you. When the SEC isn’t there, the DOJ will eventually just show up out of nowhere. Should be fun to see play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:25 PM
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Yeah….not buying that one, I would never refer to my significant other as similar to a dog. I’ve heard more people say “TRP calls women teenagers” than RP people calling women teenagers lol. Similar to how feminism contains misandry, RP will contain misogyny. So your point is pretty silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:21 PM
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Imagine how women would feel if men called them “typical golden retriever girlfriends”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:12 PM
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I stay away from crypto personally, I’ll throw some money in there here and there but ultimately I stay away from it. The whales can do whatever they want and they do whatever they want. They pump it up themselves and dump it repetitively at massive amounts. This happens to a degree in the overall market, but not like crypto.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:10 PM
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I wouldn’t say TRP thought leaders are mostly PUAs, have you ever read a RP book?(I feel like that sounds way harsher than I mean it to be, it’s a genuine question lol). Someone like Jason Capital was a PUA and is definitely red pilled, he rarely discusses this topic anymore though (for the same reasons I said most people just don’t discuss it IRL). The rest could easily be applied to feminism, and it would be wrong. When it comes to statistics and facts, it’s pretty rare that “taking the whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:16 AM
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The reason I asked for the thought leaders to be pointed out is because (as I said before) misogynists are not going to be found in the opposing space. Saying you see a lot of RP people say something does not mean that RP is what originated or caused them to think that. I have never heard from anyone who is held to a high standard in RP claim AWALT or refer to women as the oldest teen in the house. The actual points of RP are to take strategic approaches to the dating market because you can and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:22 AM
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I would never mind copy and pasting of thoughts/statements. That being said, can you substantiate these claims? I would never call something wrong at its core without explanation. If TRP is at its core misogynistic, how so? Who are the thought leaders in that space that you can point to that are misogynists by definition? I don’t quite understand what you mean about seeing RP IRL, I own two businesses, and fly around the country because of it, I know a lot of other dudes who are leaders in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:26 PM
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Conflating the two is what most people would do, but that’s what continues to cause divide in many areas of needed conversation. By that logic, feminism is pretty much misandry rather than a place for women to go when they’re in need of explanation and direction, and TRP is pretty much misogyny rather than a place for men to go when they’re in need of explanation and direction. If you were to ask the the majority of both sides whether or not they hate men or women the overwhelming answer would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:21 PM
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Not really, saying TRP is misogynistic and saying misogynists aren’t likely to join the opposing side are too different things. Feminism isn’t misandrist but misandrists aren’t going to join the red pill lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:57 PM
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Most of the time communities destroy the purpose of what the community was started for in the first place, which then causes people to attempt to point fingers and try to rationalize guilt by association to a certain way of thinking or set of beliefs. At the end of the day, if you sit around in echo chambers on the internet looking for internet points as opposed to having genuine discussions, most of your values are probably bad. There was a higher end community near the area I grew up in, years…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:50 AM
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I don’t think the gender wars will never end because each gender spews their own bad takes, I think it will never end because most people don’t know how to rationalize why they do things so we can’t talk about it at the scale we would need to talk about it to end it. If you were to take 100 men and ask if they want to work under a man or woman, most of them would probably say a man, but they wouldn’t be able to explain why they feel that way at all. If you were to take 100 women and ask if they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:37 AM
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They make content that is mostly true that people don’t hear often to attract persisters and use charm to attract promoters. Then they push the boundaries to attract rebels. By making content that speaks to 3 different personality types while not only ignoring the remaining, but criticizing them, you’ll gain a pretty large following with a good enough output of content. Then you can make a course that mostly provides good information but provide the seemingly easier affiliate opportunities and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:23 AM
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You missed my point there haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:05 AM
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Maybe closeted, but a big part of blue pill is sticking to what most people just want to hear and rejecting the red pill. Regardless of that, if there’s plenty of misogynists in the blue pill, would that make the blue pill misogynistic lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:58 AM
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Well it’s not like people who are misogynists are going to go blue pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:50 AM
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Its really wild when I travel to a place like Texas and everyone is just…. Yea. Like you said. I really wonder what it is that does it. I feel comfortable wagering that in areas where people are just actually less attractive that a lot of it has to do with income and generations of people living there who don't make it out or see much of any other cultures. However, everyone must workout at some point in life, they must know that being in shape just generally makes you feel much better everyday,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:12 PM
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There's no exact answer, but typically people consider 4mph jogging, some may consider 4-6mph jogging, but 5mph will get you a 12 minute mile, I'd consider that running.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah, I think it would hold the most weight if it wasn't based on newborns and old people. Going to have to assume that if this was documented at some point that nobody was surveying 2 year olds. Maybe the elderly was included though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:00 PM
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Like actually run a mile uninterrupted? I would assume so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:58 PM
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If you are requiring like a 12 minute mile or faster (5mph), then I could maybe see it. Well to be considered running you need to be moving at least 5mph, which would be a 12 minute mile. I'm sure a much, much larger percentage could walk a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:57 PM
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I think that's fair, I can also buy 70% depending on where you live. It's wild to me how certain areas of the country can just be so much more fit in that little pocket compared to the rest. I was just in LA and everyone seemed to workout and be in decent shape, then I'll be somewhere in PA and everyone looks to be in pretty bad shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:43 PM
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What do you think would be the percentage if it was something around 15 - 55?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:26 PM
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I just heard that less than 10% of Americans can run 1 mile at any speed (5mph or higher to be considered running/jogging?). Do you think this is true? I literally can't find any data to back this up which is pretty crazy to me. I feel like this is something that should be relatively easy to find, but everything I see only relates to higher standards, like "How many Americans can run a mile in under 8 minutes"....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:21 PM
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This logic is all too common unfortunately. I've heard so many women say things that just make absolutely no sense. I hear things like this from men as well, however, while this is anecdotal, it seems more rare coming from men to me. Causal sex seems to be an overall negative return for women, I believe men should avoid it as well, but it seems to take a much bigger toll on women. That being said, whoever this quote is coming from is pretty much just saying that they can't find a good man. assau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:42 PM
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That’s a false equivalence for a few reasons, poor people don’t tend to make good decisions or don’t have access to birth control. Poor people are also incentivized to have children. More people plan for having a child than don’t when it comes to birthing children, the majority of the decline in not wanting children overall is coming from the middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:26 PM
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People living in poverty are a small portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:10 PM
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I think people just don’t have the money to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:03 PM
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The research on this topic is pretty bleak; pretty bad at some points as well. However, if it were to be true to the point where “trauma” from your parents that occurred before your mother was even pregnant with you could in fact alter your behavior for life, it would be a nice explanation, I suppose. I think the issue would be the fact that you’d essentially be telling people they have to alter their gene activity to feel or behave better in most cases. At this point you’d be arguing with Harva…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:00 PM
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Everyone values health, yet fat people exist Not everyone values health, health can be wagered as an ideal for most, but definitely not all. Values are derived from what you think is most important and the best possible option, most fat people are fat because they have an eating disorder, when you have an eating disorder, that doesn’t mean the disorder is making you go against your values. For example, I have experienced bouts of alcoholism when I was younger because I grew up with anxiety witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:08 PM
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Meaning living close to your values would increase your worth? Not really, because your worth would be dependent on your values, not how close you can live to them. If your values cause you to be ignorant, lazy, unsatisfied, unjustifiably entitled, and unsuccessful, living close to those values wouldn’t make you worth much. If you hold values that would increase your worth, then being close to them would just be a prerequisite for being able to claim you hold those values, because in reality, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:57 AM
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Yeah, and like I said, that’s cool, I didn’t mean that sarcastically. My point still remains that most people can’t assume their date is very into politics and social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:29 AM
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It’s not really about getting mad that someone asked, of course that would be a huge problem, but it’s more so that you could be signaling that you bring topics up like that frequently, or you’re someone who is a “walking point”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:50 AM
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You’re asking why men don’t bring up complex and controversial topics on a first date? I feel as if the answer to that is pretty simple, most people just don’t want to do that. That’s ignoring the fact that most people also don’t know how to have a genuine conversation, and even worse, a lot of men will lie about what they believe for the sake of getting laid (which is shameful in my opinion). As I said, men typically find out the women they interact with have opposing beliefs and values through…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:09 AM
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Again...who is asking them to do that? Who is asking men to find out if their values and beliefs align with the person they're dating? That's just a given pre-requisite for a long term successful relationship. I was merely correcting your perception that feminists don't like talking about feminism on dates. Where did I say feminists don't like talking about feminism on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:27 PM
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Oh, I'm not talking about a problem that doesn't exist, it does exist. What I'm saying is that men can't strategize their dating life around the fact that a few feminists would like to discuss those topics because they find them more interesting than what is normally brought up on a date. Then I was just clarifying that I never said you were asking men to navigate their dating life according to your opinion and that I never said it was your concern over whether or not random dudes get a date or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:53 PM
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I don't see anyone asking them to...? I never said you were. Whether a random dude I don't know gets a date or pussy or whatever is none of my concern. I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:33 PM
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That’s cool anecdotally speaking, the problem remains that men can’t navigate their dating life according to your opinions on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:43 PM
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OLD is a shallow game that is marketed as if it allows for deeper connections. This will probably play out by itself over time, but men should really just get off of OLD if they’re actually looking for a LTR. Just let it be a cesspool of people who need to or want to rely on it for casual sex and let’s go back to being a little more traditional in the approach for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:19 AM
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Men don’t think women sit around talking about feminism. Men mostly find out the women they associate (in whatever way) with have opposing views through an inconvenient process. It would be pretty odd to be on a first date and ask a woman if she holds beliefs that you would find silly and it’s not easy to get those answers by dancing around the topic or through other questions. The internet is a place where people engage in topics they most likely wouldn’t in a real life social situation unless …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:06 AM
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This response seemingly ignores the latter half of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:26 PM
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There is nothing worse than internet mental health “experts” who have main character syndrome and believe their way of dealing with things is the only way to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:15 PM
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There are studies that say the opposite of this, but casual sex is associated with higher levels of depression and anxiety coupled with overall lower levels of psychological well-being. We can play study tennis all day on that one, but at the end of the day the studies that say the opposite just don’t really make sense to me. Sex in a relationship is better, everyone I know who engages in a lot of casual sex is disgruntled, you’re not working towards any type of sustainability with casual sex, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:54 AM
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Doesn't exercise, eats poorly, struggles financially, holds little to no accolades, complains about reality constantly, not confident, can't contribute to a conversation, makes fun of other people, thinks they know everything about anything, dresses poorly, can't make accurate decisions, holds thoughts and beliefs that only contribute to this cycle of mediocrity. Stuff like this, unfortunately, a lot of these behaviors and actions can come as a result of depression and anxiety. So it feels harsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:07 PM
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TRP is there to explain to men how to avoid the women you are describing as the wrong woman that would cause them to be hurt and feel uncomfortable with their understanding of women (at best just being women, most likely they’re questioning much more after being hurt). Men who get red pilled and go on a rampage in hookup culture are pretty dumb and missed the point generally speaking. The audience of red pill has taken the point and ran in the wrong direction for the most part unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:41 AM
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Same thing applies to everything else in life too, in my business I will point out very simple mistakes to people. To me, it’s my skill so it seems fairly simple, but to the client it can change their whole perspective. That’s why I tend to enjoy conversations like this so much. It’s really interesting to watch it play out and see why people are in the situations they’re in (whether that be good or bad situations), and then reverse engineer it to decide what you should be doing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:48 PM
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100%! When I was in high school I made the same mistake over and over and over again. Never knew what it was, it caused a lot of confusion, self-doubt, and a feeling of low self-esteem. As I got older I learned what it was, but it genuinely took me years to figure out. It’s very funny how the very large majority of us (if not all of us) all work the same in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:36 PM
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People who have less options tend to flirt without shame. However, the very large majority of people will flirt without shame regardless of age when confronted with an option that they know is rare and scarce for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:34 PM
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One of my girlfriend's friends came to me one day because she wanted advice on relationships. She was struggling lately at the time and I guess she wanted to hear from me due to the fact I have been with her friend for 8 years. This girl is very attractive, has a very good job, lives in a hot spot for high value men, and continued to go from relationship to relationship with repetitive failure. She would start dating men who were of very high caliber, and completely drop the ball. She jokingly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:27 PM
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If you're working on yourself all the time, you may end up developing impostor syndrome / "I'm not good enough" feelings => mental illness That's like saying if you start working out all the time you may tear your shoulder. Yes, it can happen, but there are so many steps you can take to make sure you avoid it. If you think you're the best thing to ever happen to Earth, you may develop a massive ego and end up foregoing self-improvement Yes, you should never believe you're the best thing to ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:21 PM
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*I find this idea to apply to so many things in life* People conveniently hold themselves to the lowest standards while feeling entitled to the best, these people also tend to claim they are the victims when someone or something else begins to hold them to equal standards once in that desired role. Most people don't make it to the "role of their choosing" though, but for those who do, they usually fumble the opportunity because of their own poor beliefs. Again, for most they never even obtain th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:11 PM
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Not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:52 PM
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I think everyone should be meditating. The problem is that it’s not a quick fix, just like how working out isn’t a quick fix, and as a result most people can’t run a mile and or they’re all screwed up mentally. The same way people will buy diet pills and supplements that they think will make them physically healthy is the same way people reach for Xanax instead of meditation. People won’t spend more than $40 for a gym membership but they’ll spend $100’s on what they think is a quick fix with sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:13 AM
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I find it ironic how many women will call men a misogynist because they simply don’t like what they’re saying about the relationships between men and women, meanwhile so many women are actual misandrists by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:03 AM
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Why don’t you post them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:58 AM
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I think starting it too early as an excuse to get on gear is dumb as fuck. You should only be hitting youthful levels anyway, Generally speaking, yes. If you're an athlete about to make hundreds of thousands/millions for you and yours, I can't call the risk "dumb as fuck" since everyone is juicing on designer drugs. But yeah, for most people, healthy youthful levels after a drop seems to be something most men should partake in. Even if these guys I speak of were to die 3-5 years early, you still…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:48 PM
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It would depend on my stage in life, right now I know she wouldn't want that because she wouldn't exactly be set for life right now and she would want me to make sure the child is taken care of and I'd have to respect that. In the coming years she probably will be set for life and in that case I'd die and let her live even if she wanted me to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:44 PM
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This seems to be a really healthy thing to do that a lot of men just avoid entirely. When I first started jiu-jitsu there were a bunch of older men that I could have swore were 40 years old and just in really good shape, then overtime I found out they were 53-60 and they all take HRT because their levels dropped at a certain point and they swear by it. They literally have the body of a 28 year old that is in really good shape and they're coming close to collecting social security lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:41 PM
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Yet another example of how obvious it is people are being brainwashed. You don’t come up with those conclusions yourself, you are taught those conclusions for a reason. Look at how confident she was that she had the right answers for all of those questions, she actually thought he was the mistaken one, meanwhile, every fact she tried to present was completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:56 AM
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Doesn’t look that short and doesn’t look that frizzy, I think you’re beating your hair up for no reason here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:39 AM
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I’m looking at your profile, you didn’t post 2 years ago in a “rate me” sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:20 AM
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Wait, are you saying your hair “healed more” from that photo you posted 2 years ago? Your hair looks fine dude, I’m confused why you even think it looks bad at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:17 AM
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I just don’t see a problem with frizzy hair I guess, some people just have frizzy hair and I think a lot of people rock the look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:14 AM
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My bad, I was scrolling and saw someone’s username who I know is a woman and then confused comments. In that case, why do you care at all? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:12 AM
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Same here, but my life is picking back up. I used to do so many cool things before COVID, then during COVID I just made more money and did nothing with it except buy a new car and take one vacation. I know a few guys who just went from being all over the place to just chilling too, but things seem to be kicking up again :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:08 AM
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Guys don’t care about frizzy hair, in fact I would say a lot of guys like it. Not saying you only care about it because of how men would view you, but this is similar to the “I have to wear a different dress to each party” fallacy. It’s just something consumerism has ingrained into the minds of women so that they can maintain being 85% of consumerism lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:06 AM
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And it got me thinking: that’s the mentality of some of the dudes here on PPD. Even if they could pull some tail, it won’t be enough: they are only happy being pissed off. That's the majority of people. It's a fallacy to think "Oh I'll be happy when (x) happens" or "I'll do (x) when (x) happens". It's human psychology of people refusing to help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:51 PM
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Did you mean “why we should date high n count women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:36 AM
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Most likely the internet or her friends that heard it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:35 AM
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It’s not all that difficult to remain good looking well into your life if you have set a good exercise routine and a healthy diet for the years leading up to when most people start to decline. The problem for most people is that they don’t have a good exercise routine and a good diet because they didn’t need it as much when they were younger, so they pushed it off. Then people have a bunch of excuses like “It’s so hard when (insert life event that takes up more time) happens!”. It’s only hard be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:32 AM
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You can’t just misrepresent and attempt to discredit what I said once again and expect me to fulfill your request of allowing you to have the last word. You’re the one who initiated the debate with me in the first place and have not only not been able to construct a single good argument, but have insulted me and repetitively misrepresented what I said. You also ignored my question, what definition of heroism were you alluding to? You don’t seem to know what that means. Yes, I do see the logical …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:43 AM
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That’s not what I said, I said you haven’t seen examples of what I’m talking about, I didn’t say you don’t know what you’re talking about. You know what you’re talking about when it comes to what you were talking about, but you misinterpreted what I was talking about so your argument wasn’t a legitimate argument to my statement. Again though, that’s just another weak attempt to discredit me, you’re just bending it further this time so saying “nah (that’s not why I tried to do)” isn’t true, you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:59 PM
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What you just tried to do was discredit my entire statement by making it seem like my argument is that I, as a male, understand female-female interactions better than a female, right? On a debate sub that’s a pretty whack tactic to try to get away with, and funny enough, it only supplements my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:21 PM
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I agree with your former paragraph, disagree with the latter. That’s fun for like a month or two, and then it becomes very frustrating. It’s much better to have friend who are more successful and smarter than you, it encourages growth. Obviously if everyone subscribed to this ideology it wouldn’t work though, same goes for the other option haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:14 PM
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“Sexy videos” aren’t porn, that’s why I said sexy videos and not porn…. This is very easy to find on TikTok as a man. I’ve seen many girls call their “friends” whore in a serious way, meaning it’s not a joke, they’re actually calling them a whore by definition. As for the rest of what you said, it seems you haven’t even seen examples of what I’m talking about here but you’re trying to disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:11 PM
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You could argue that is true when it’s genuine support, however, I tend to think that there’s deeper reasons for this behavior, especially when it comes to women online (plays out in real life as well). Really hot girl posts “sexy video” - girls say she’s a “pick me”, slut, whore, stupid, try’s too hard, and point out their minor flaws etc.. When a conventionally unattractive overweight girl posts the same thing - girls say she’s beautiful, hot, sexy, etc.. The former can be boiled down to jealo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:49 PM
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Are you blonde by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:15 PM
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I can see how one would view them as different when it comes to the act, but if you care about n-count for the right reasons the fact that it’s a man or woman each time shouldn’t make a difference aside from the sub-factor of judging someone based on their lack of care for risk of getting pregnant when it comes to a woman having sex with a woman since that risk doesn’t exist there, but that’s a small part of the bigger picture. I will retract my statement of “Why would it be?”, as I should have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah most people are this way, and it’s a good thing until your brain cooks up problems for itself that don’t seem solvable when in reality the reason there’s no solution is because there’s no “real problem” which turns into a problem in its own. I’ve been there, it’s not fun and is hard to break out of, especially when everything in your life is going well, or in my case, pretty great. I think we as humans need big problems to solve, and when we’re left without most problems, we begin to look f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:02 PM
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Do you categorize sex with men and women differently? No, it's not different in this regard. I don't see why it would be? I would assume being presented with this situation is quite rare as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah, his brother would just kill people all the time too and talk about it at dinner with his family. He was a hitman for the cartel and would graphically describe how he killed someone that day or caught them and beat them within an inch of their life. Sometimes when him and his brother were on the way to the market his brother would see someone out in broad daylight and just kill him right there and they’d go buy oranges and apples together like it never happened. He had so many crazy stories…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:40 PM
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I think it’s inspiring in an odd way, in reality we have a lot more choices to make regarding our mental health than we think. Obviously getting to a point of thinking this way is not easy at all, but I think once you break through a certain threshold it’s really the only answer, you just have to actively choose to let it not be debilitating. If you’ve been mentally and physically abused your whole life, it will take a while to adjust to new healthier circumstances because it’s always difficult …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:34 PM
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This is an extreme example, but there are many cultural differences that exist that are shockingly normal to that culture in comparison. My first boss was from another country, he explained to me that when you turned 11-13 you would just go down to the local food market and have sex with random vendors, both boys and girls would have sex with full grown adults while losing their virginity. In America, that would mean therapy for the rest of your life, yet him and his wife found it weird that was…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:22 PM
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Theres more parts shared with a wedding than there isn’t, so much so that’s it’s only missing one part lol. You’re clearly trying to belittle it for whatever reason though, so I’ll just move on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:15 PM
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Probably the latter, and I should correct myself, these people are only smart enough to pursue a better understanding of why they’re in the situation they’re in, but they clearly don’t absorb it correctly. I’m not really sure how you come back from that far off of a stance, it could happen, but it’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:09 PM
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I think it’s built for people who are smart enough to recognize the shortcomings of feminism and the modern world, but dumb enough to think that means you should give up rather than just having a better understanding of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:40 PM
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I’m not sure if you’re being deliberately obtuse or you actually just don’t see the difference. A “random party” to the majority of people would be inviting people over to your house for a quick impromptu barbecue or something along those lines. A commitment ceremony is not a “random party”, it includes most, if not all of the traditions of a legally binding wedding, without being legally bound at the end of it. So it’s a wedding without the legal aspect, it is far closer to a legitimate wedding…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:23 PM
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“Looking for something real” Using a service that thrives on people fully judging you by photos of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:01 AM
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I feel as if it’s actually impossible for teenagers to not be more opinionated now, they have access to so many more things to have opinions on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:54 AM
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Anyone else noticing that teenagers are becoming a lot more opinionated before having real life experience? I think we all experienced this to some degree, but I wasn't nearly as sure of my opinions or held as many when I was younger. These kids talk like they've been around the block for a while lol. Dangerous IMO, spending your time developing opinions before any and all experience will result in you wanting to protect those opinions even if you experience negative outcomes repetitively due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:25 PM
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I think a lot of Gen X knows the competition to have an average lifestyle has gone up but they have once applied an "all out" strategy to get their needs at one point in time. Then they take that "all out" mindset and apply it to modern times without truly having experienced the difference in workload. Either way, to get there in modern times you either need to go "all out" for a period of time or take a risky path, I went with the latter, luckily it worked out very well because of who I surroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:19 PM
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Wow, I did not know that. That's incredibly short to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:14 PM
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I don’t think you’re grasping the concept, look up “promise ceremony” on Google. People do it, it’s a wedding without getting the state involved, it’s not just a random party.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:44 PM
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In this day and age if you’re not signing a prenup idk what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:43 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:42 PM
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What do you mean? People still want weddings and the party that comes with it, it’s the same thing without being legally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:25 PM
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I know the reasons why people would do it, but there are a lot of people who would benefit from not getting the state involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:24 PM
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There is, but it takes a while for people to be legally living together for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:23 PM
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I disagree with that but I think the idea is more so that LVW will never change their standards and that it’s only their improbable ideal and LVM should live in accordance with the idea that it will never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:07 PM
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My girlfriend and I are just having a promise ceremony. It’s exactly the same as a standard wedding but the state just doesn’t get involved. Same rings, same ceremony, no difference. I don’t know why more people don’t do this unless they’re in need of the financial change, but people should look into it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:05 PM
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That sounds like an odd thing to be worried about, if you’re that interested in a subject I wouldn’t hide it from the person you’re seeing. It would be one thing if you didn’t want to get wrapped up in something here while being with someone, but to be worried about them “catching you” here seems like you’re embarrassed for being who you are when you shouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:18 AM
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They don’t think they’re bad people, they know it lowers their value or places a burden on them to lie in the future. They don’t want to subscribe to something they know is true which creates an internal conflict and it’s projected onto whoever is in their crosshairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:06 PM
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I’d argue it’s higher, depending on the criteria that would define someone as “unadjusted”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:00 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with it, who says they are bad people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:59 PM
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I definitely would argue against the “too old for kids” part. I mostly see younger women participating in the argument. However, I do agree that a lot of the people are strange looking that are in the space, but I think that’s just a result of a bigger issue in that people tend to take bigger issues head on when they have a lot of existing issues in their life. At the end of the day, the smart thing to do is to worry about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:58 PM
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Bruh, life is not easy for women, and in the ways that it is easier that would get old real fast. The idea of life being easier for women is a fallacy, men and women are just different and live “easier” at different ages. You sound like you need some man park activities in your life. There are just as many benefits in being a man than there is benefits in being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:09 AM
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Same, but I don't understand how that makes it harder, if anything it would make it easier. You get your answers upfront. People who are lazy and eat like shit probably won't work out in the long run anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:16 PM
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Well anyone who is thinking “You have to go into STEM because that’s how you make more money to increase your value” is a bit of a shithead in the first place lol. If that’s how you view money, you can make much more by doing stuff that’s way simpler and you can start pretty much immediately without wasting 4-6 years of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:04 AM
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I understand how you feel, but this is the jackass approach when it comes to self-improvement. Self-improvement should 100% be for yourself, you shouldn’t raise your standards because you just decided to improve yourself. You should keep your initial standards, and make yourself happier but improving yourself. If you obtain a partner of higher standards because you were at your peak of self-improvement, chances are you’ll have to maintain yourself at that level to have a successful relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:53 AM
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What? How do you think people used to find self-help/career/business/finance books back in the day? If your parents didn’t teach you the practices/methods found in those books, you had to go to the library. You couldn’t download books onto your phone written by Napoleon Hill, Bob Proctor, Dale Carnegie, etc., you had to go to the library and stumble upon it or have someone suggest you read it. Go talk to anyone whose older than 45 and is successful by their own means in their business and life, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:16 PM
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You’ll be fine, it’s not that hard to obtain good social skills. If you were an asshole hater that would be another story, but anything you’re willing to put effort into to fix will go your way 98% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:46 PM
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Women decide whether or not the responsibility will exist after the man makes the decision to grant a woman that responsibility by having sex with her. That’s why I said it’s binary for men, every time you have sex, you will either be a father or you won’t be a father. I believe a fetus is a human, but once a woman decides to delete that human, the responsibility for the man no longer exists, if the woman decides to keep the human, the man can still opt out of his fatherly responsibilities and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:58 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to compare abortion to men being father’s. You’re either a father or you’re not after you partake in sex, so it’s not really an equal argument when the woman has to make all choices of what she’s going to do. It’s pretty binary for men. Then when it comes to deadbeat Dad’s, I have no respect for that at all. My father stayed in my life and I see a clear difference between myself and others like myself when compared to men who were only raised by their mother. Not being a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 07:13 PM
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Yeah I meant more so that it sounds silly that a man would do a 180 in life because women were denying them haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:56 PM
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I think it's pretty unfair to say people like Jordan have never helped anyone but themselves, Jordan has definitely helped me in my career and relationship and he is far from the only one to have done so. I read and learn from a lot of people and like to meet them in person and follow their lead of what they're doing when it comes to business. Without the internet, I would have never learned or heard from people like Jordan unless I spent hours in the library looking for books, which is what mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:21 PM
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That’s what you call a near-deadly addiction? Jordan wasn't experiencing a "near-deadly" addiction, that's just what it can feel like when it comes to benzos. He wasn't abusing the drug, he was taking his prescribed amount and it eventually stopped aiding his symptoms, so his doctor increased the amount to another suggested prescription amount and it did not help either, so he decided to quit the drug and try ketamine treatment, which is far from "unproven quackery", it has helped a lot of peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:16 PM
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but the people who want women to "not sleep with trashy men" actually mean "not sleep with trashy men and instead pick me". Maybe some do, but I don't think it's fair to disregard the entire point by saying that everyone who says this really only says it with selfish intent. I have had a few friends I had to part ways with because of how lazy and out of touch they became. For those friends I can say with a good amount of certainty that if women weren't having casual sex with them throughout that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:05 PM
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I agree with the former, but decreasing the severity of punishment for a crime clearly leads to an increase in that crime, and other countries that have absolutely brutal punishments for crimes that aren’t seen as that big of a deal in the west don’t really experience those crimes as much or at all. So I agree with you, but I just think the argument is bad. I agree people who want to have an abortion should be able to get an abortion, but I also understand the argument for setting a precedent fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 04:46 PM
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Did you meet someone who said they were an incel? Or are you just speaking on the topic generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:04 PM
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I would assume with Kevin’s increase in fame, past relationships, and the remaining years he had in plan while still looking somewhat young that he was not very interested in a relationship any time soon. Are they saying it’s sad he died alone? I doubt he was sad at all. I don’t understand how this isn’t being understood by some people. I can understand someone generally disagreeing with Kevin, but Kevin would have women on his show and they would ask how they can obtain a man of what they would…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:50 AM
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I’m somewhat of a nerd and I am frequently complimented on my style, it makes me feel good. It seems like a nerd with a bad style will have a very, very bad style but a nerd with a good style will have very, very good style lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:32 AM
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My father worked anywhere from 55-70 hours a week until retirement, it was horrible to see what it did to him. He was a smart guy, but he was convinced of “job security” even though we still struggled the whole time. I worked like that for a few months and immediately realized it was just extremely silly to me. I vowed to never work that hard on something that wasn’t my own, and I stayed true to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:29 AM
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I think women have a harder time being FWB than men do. I don’t blame them either, as a man myself, it’s definitely not something for me. That being said, I’ve had girls I was friends with in the past that I had no sexual relationship with get mad or jealous about the other girls I was friends with on pretty much every occasion. Not sure why really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:17 AM
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Wouldn’t that make him not an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:09 AM
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You should change your flair to 1000 cats and a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:48 PM
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10-20, but right around 15 is when I really see an impact on their overall attitude towards life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:41 PM
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I agree that anyone who wants to have an abortion should just be able to get an abortion, but women across the board will take this statement and apply a small percentage of abortions received due to rape in attempts to argue against the fact that the majority of women could just opt out of having sex themselves, have safer sex, or only have sex with a man they are ok having children with if they don’t want to wind up in this boat. As with anything of this nature, once you crack open a discussio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:36 PM
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That was supposed to be more of a joke, however, depending on the car it does send a signal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:41 AM
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“Practical” is highly subjective though. What is practical for one person might not be practical for the next unless you were to really boil it down to just the necessities. I don’t think women across the board are consciously thinking “Wow, that guy has an expensive car, he could probably financially support me as I’m going through all the stages of pregnancy”. It could be a subconscious feeling women experience, but to say this is something women are consciously thinking about to be able to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:57 AM
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Wanting a man who makes well over six figures is very practical. Nobody is saying women shouldn’t prefer this, it’s mostly brought up in relation to women’s expectations and how a lot of women are delusional when it comes to their ability to hold down a man of the caliber they claim to want/need. i.e. it’s perfectly fine for women to prefer men who make a lot of money, but if you’re loud, obnoxious, slightly overweight, have 30 bodies, don’t like to cook, and don’t enjoy the idea of quitting you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:37 AM
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It is definitely not the majority of women that are granted the opportunity to not have to work, but within that group of women who are granted that opportunity, a lot of those women still choose to work aside from the time period before pre-school or Kindergarten. My girl doesn't have to work, but who the fuck wants to stay home all day. There is no way that is good for your mental health unless you fill your day with many social activities, but even if you did that, you'd probably still feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:16 PM
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He got a house for three fingernails and a bag of potato chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:51 PM
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If you would get into a relationship with her, you’re already too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:26 AM
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It isn’t just “some” lol, I’d say being that averted to risk to the point where you wouldn’t even honestly find it a little attractive is quite rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:00 AM
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The “no go zone” is what a lot of people find hot, hence the explosion of step sister porn. Ultimately a lot of women will find a man who is pursued by other women as more attractive because he’s been vetted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:55 AM
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Sympathy and empathy are two different things, but yes, people with Asperger’s mostly lack empathy due to the nature of their childhood and how different it is from your childhood, my childhood, and how most people on this sub experienced their childhood. It’s not very possible to deploy empathy when all of your life has been different than most people because of a mental condition. That would also explain a lot his relationship issues as not being able to have empathy is pretty destructive to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:50 AM
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Reality is sexist though, so I’m confused by your point on that one. I don’t think Elon hates women either, or at least I’ve never seen anything that would lead me to believe he hates women. AOC has been caught many of times being a hypocrite, changing her story, and deleting tweets (like she just did her reply to Elon as that was obviously about Elon and a childish move on both of their parts). Elon has Asperger’s, he just made a car with 1,000+hp that has the brakes of a Toyota Camry, that dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:13 AM
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Both Elon and AOC don’t give a single fuck about you or us, at least Elon provides a genuine product though lol. AOC is a politician, she’s a master at making you think she’s on your side and “for the people”, politicians are weasels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:51 AM
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Yeah by definition it’s two attributes, you’re essentially just proving my point more (not that you’re trying to argue it) by saying that you’re referring to men who haven’t won the lottery lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:12 PM
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the reason I believe straight white men have made ideologies like TheRedPill their home is because they simply have no genuine community to rely on. TRP was really made to apply logical explanations for emotional interactions. Men who think logically at a high level usually are the ones that have a difficult time with women. Take for example the average tech worker making $200,000 a year. If this person applies logic to every decision they make and thus doesn't understand how to create an "emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:04 PM
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I wouldn’t consider this “neglected” myself, I feel as if it’s a pretty popular topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:50 AM
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Some people do like money, but just say drive/ambition as code for money. That's all I'm saying. It does not, many people work very hard and have high ambitions, but don't get paid a lot. It does because someone feels qualified for having drive and ambition when really that's not the qualities women are pursuing. You want/need to respect and admire the person you date. Yes. Although it's true that a lot of people are more easily wow'ed with money (because we need it so much to live), others are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:09 PM
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Yeah, but that still just comes down to making more money lol. You can have a lot of drive and ambition making little to no money, then that just causes confusion. Also, very little? It's somewhat difficult to get to that level with having very little of those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:16 PM
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Yeah, nobody with this standard wants to get in relationship with someone whose going to make $300,000 one year and then $30,000 a year for the next 5 years. So many women dance around the subject lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:43 AM
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I really don’t understand the whole “drive/ambition” thing, drive and ambition to what? Just say you want a man that makes over 6 figures, there’s nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:12 AM
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you’re living in bubbles full of generalizations and anecdotes instead of realizing there’s a huge world with billions of people who all don’t act alike and who all feel differently on the topics presented here. I hear you, but this isn't the best practice for life IMO, feel free to disagree though, but before you do, I'd look at the "opposite" for examples like this. if I were to say "All women would be angry at their man for cheating on them", would you counter that with "there are billions of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:07 PM
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Yeah, that's just an odd standard lol. I don't enjoy spicy food, I especially wouldn't want to partake in spicy food on a first date for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:21 PM
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i still have a spark of excitement inside and hope for the future. that died in most of you guys. Understanding the ins and outs of any game can easily sound like you lack hope when you're really just subscribed to the reality of the situation. Reality isn't all that fun and exciting. What is fun and exciting is acting in accordance to reality while simultaneously receiving the better outcome because of your full understanding of the game. For example, if someone were to say "Every other boxer i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:13 PM
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You sure you’re not just hanging around people who have bad input? I’ve never heard this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:13 PM
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I don't get how so many people can just brush virginity off as "there's more to life than sex!" Where is this happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:31 PM
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I don’t know what that response is supposed to mean… But if you’ve “done every job under the sun” then you probably haven’t made it very far in any career path because it takes a very long time to even come close to mastering something. You’re probably at the lower tier of workers in each career path so I find it harsh to say “Men have no pride and are lazy”. Sure, some don’t have pride and are lazy, but those men are usually not doing to well in life. If you find yourself constantly surrounded …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:13 AM
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Of course, you can enjoy food, everyone does. But it shouldn’t be used for pleasure throughout the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:06 AM
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Well yeah, I’m asking what jobs have you held. What does your experience consist of?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:04 AM
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From long experience I’ve learned that men actually have no pride What does this experience consist of? Farm work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:51 AM
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Yeah it’s overblown, only a small portion of the US deals with an eating disorder. That’s not to say it’s not a problem though, because for those who truly have an eating disorder, that’s a huge problem to have to overcome. In reality, I would assume the majority of people claiming to have an eating disorder just don’t understand that food shouldn’t be used for pleasure throughout the day and most people need to exercise for their body to process food well and look/feel good about themselves. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:48 AM
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Just found a Youtube account named JustPearlyThings, I really haven't seen much RP content made by women, that could be my algorithm though. Anyone familiar with her? I scrubbed through a couple of her videos and I can say she definitely seems to be gunning for it and doing decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:32 PM
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I hear it a lot man. I do understand the argument for it as well (you shouldn't live together because you won't work on your problems as much as you would in a marriage, and living together will cause more problems to work on that most likely will never be worked on), but modern times require modern adjustments lol. They're older and I feel like they settled tbh From what I see, many didn't feel as if they were settling, but their wife just went south as time went on. It happened to many friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah that's why it's super important to date in a "marriage setting" IMO. I know a lot of people say you shouldn't live together before you're married, but I don't agree with that. You need to see how they will behave as a wife in a SAH setting. Men are pretty much always expected to act as a husband, but women seem way more likely to be conditionally wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:05 PM
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My girlfriend and I had/have many conversations around this topic. We’ve been together for 6 years now and marriage is around the corner, thus these discussions have been happening frequently. As OP of this comment stated, normies really have it wrong these days. They’re super fucked up wrong, but they’re the majority, and the statistics back it up. My girlfriend and I discuss how “If you want to be successful these days, you need to avoid doing what everyone else is doing, and this goes for any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:48 PM
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I don’t disagree, but any proposed solution I’ve seen just seems like a bandaid to the bigger problem. Absolutely nobody wants to talk about this, but the economy is controlled by the people way more than we realize. You saw this play out in the past couple of years in the housing market. People were moving out of big cities by the thousands and took their “city money” and “city rent” to war in bidding wars paired with low interest rates which resulted in a huge rise in living expenses; ultimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:24 PM
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The economy isn’t really all that trash. Wages are just low for the majority of jobs because the majority of jobs are bullshit. I guarantee that most people under 30 would do way better owning/operating a really simple business like driveway sealing or power washing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:04 PM
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I think of myself as a smart, funny attractive and confident person. Dating is affecting my self esteem Side note: The fuck is a “funny attractive” person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:39 PM
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I’ve actually seen this play out quite a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:36 PM
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Apparently they released some examples…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:44 PM
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Nicole could play that off smart, but she probably won’t. We know why you only have 7 posts on Instagram now, your dress up doll has been dumped so the photos are deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:53 PM
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Should be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:50 PM
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FDS contains the same amount (if not more) of the delusion that is found in similar spaces for men. Most men will not become "high value", they're not smart enough for it, and they lack emotional intelligence. I'm sorry Jake, your T-shirt brand you made and post photos of while smoking a blunt does not make you an entrepreneur and your brand is not going to take off and be as big as Supreme. Stop selling drugs, making bad T-Shirts, buying cars/clothing you can't afford, and stop smoking weed 24/…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:39 PM
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Yep, unfortunately that's the boat a lot of men are in. My best friend's Mom did this exact same thing to her family, pretty much to a tee. She had kids, stayed home for a bit, then never went back to work. His father could barely afford it, but he figured if she stayed home and took care of cleaning, cooking, and other chores that would usually fill up their weekends that it could be worth it in the long run. She wound up doing none of those things. The house is always a mess, the way she cooks…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:28 PM
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saying that the guy is compensating or trying to be tough because he goes to the gym or does martial arts. Yeah, I agree with this. You also know who this is coming from.....women who don't exercise or take care of themselves. Usually what I see is that a man who the woman THOUGHT was a nerd or a shy geek or some shit like that turns out to be more confident than was assumed, all of a sudden he's "Pretending to be something he's not" I've also seen this play out, but to be fair I think that it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:14 PM
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The entire family court system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:49 PM
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That was more of a sex joke. However, I do get massages a lot. She’s also pretty good at getting me gifts for holidays/my birthday. I never see them coming and I do enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:47 AM
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Yeah, any girl who responds to men saying they want feminine qualities in a woman as “wanting a pet”, move on from that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:42 AM
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My girlfriend doesn’t spoil me, that’s my job to spoil her haha. She just returns the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:41 AM
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Yeah if you work on it you'll push through!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:48 PM
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How old are you? This will probably diminish as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:14 PM
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Men also know support isn't in high supply for situations where they are mentally or physically abused, so most just move on or remain silent in their abusive relationship. My hope is to see men across the board raising their standards and learn a thing or two from women when it comes to vetting a partner. Men need to stop turning into suckers once they're sucked off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:13 PM
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So when you say life is suffering, do you really get it? I have had to overcome very large obstacles in life, my childhood was a rough time both physically and mentally. I have a rare blood disease, IBS, an anxiety disorder, I have been to detox, and I'm still enrolled in an outpatient program to this day. The majority of my issues that I created for myself were due to bad choices as a result of my childhood (which most of our issues stem from) that can easily cause bouts of depression as well. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:04 PM
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Yeah, life pretty much is suffering, most of us just choose what type of suffering we want to partake in. For example, pushing yourself while doing hard cardio daily or very frequently sucks when you’re doing it, sometimes you feel like you’re going to throw up, sometimes you shake a little bit afterwards, you’re breathing heavy, your heart rate is through the roof, and you try to find excuses to stop. However, then you feel good and better overall, but you’re sore, have to make the time for it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:53 AM
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Sounds like a guy who would bathe 8 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:28 AM
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Maybe I’m just not seeing what you mean, could you provide an example? I do think there’s room to discuss how much we should respect the opinions of people once they reach a certain weight. If you’re at the point where you can’t/have difficulty when wiping your own ass, I highly doubt that’s the only thing wrong you have going on. But if you’re a little chubby, there’s a lot of guys out there that are into that. Do I think you should still lose the weight? Yeah, you’d probably feel a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:25 AM
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I completely understand that comment lol. That’s like rule 3 for sustaining a good sex life in a LTR. Women want to feel sexy, but for men that’s something they don’t care for at all for themselves. We’re joking when we attempt to feel sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:14 AM
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That’s pretty normal I feel like. I think the issue becomes when you get fake boobs that look bad because you didn’t spend that much money on them or start fucking around with your lips and you look like a duck on Xanax.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:10 AM
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I wasn’t trying to play word games per say. I just think hate is a pretty strong word.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:09 AM
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Children being raised by only a mother or a father at scale is a shit show for society, which is currently playing out due to divorce rates, mostly where the father is a lazy fuck who doesn’t care to parent their child anymore or a mother who reverses the parenting of the father. Also, once you turn 40-50 and don’t have a family, it seems to turn out very sad more times than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:07 AM
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I guess I just haven’t witnessed it, I don’t know anyone who just straight up hates fat women. Maybe they don’t respect them, but that’s the max I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:03 AM
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I mean, how many dudes are out there saying “I literally hate fat women”? Would I date fat women? No. Do I find fat women unattractive and at certain points repulsive? Yes. That doesn’t mean I hate fat women though, they’re just people struggling with a problem. No hate, just not attracted to them at all personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:59 AM
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We’re about to see this play out, should be pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:56 AM
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Sounds like it is was material that people who were appointed to look for found and decided wasn’t necessary in a math book.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:31 AM
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That requires effort and recognizing your own personal flaws, that’s not something most people are willing to do. Even if people are “willing to do it” most people have no ability to fully understand what is brought to their attention. For example, if you were to say to someone “I think you need to work on your communication skills.”, most people would take that as someone saying “You’re an overall stupid person.”. It’s pretty scary how often you can see this play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:33 PM
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Banning/censoring will always come back to bite whoever made that decision in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:42 AM
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Well I don’t believe a math book should even begin to hint at anything along those lines tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:40 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if housing increased because NYC is becoming increasingly heavily crime- ridden. This is already happening, people from the city who are paying $7,000-$8,000 a month are just buying up homes on Long Island through bidding wars and just want to win and get out. They're also taking city culture more east as time goes on. People on Long Island moved away from the city to get away from the culture of the city, we don't want it here. Now if you're going to turn Long Island int…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:47 PM
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Long Island is just such an odd place. It truly is, I know a lot of people would say something similar to other areas, and it would also be true, but Long Island takes the cake for me personally. Everyone here lives a very, very odd lifestyle. Most people seem to have very odd morals and ethics surrounding money. If you were to go to other areas and explain that the average person on Long Island chooses to live paycheck to paycheck to live in a house they don’t need and drive cars that are a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:57 PM
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A lot of people accept this idea, I don’t think many intelligent people don’t agree. I do disagree with some of your statement though. Regardless, yeah, even if it wasn’t case that a 50th percentile man isn’t equal to a 50th percentile woman, it still plays out that way. The thing is though that many women are going to wind up single or unhappy because they’re not willing to adjust their standards in relation to what they bring to the table for a man that fits their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:43 AM
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Politics is just another business that’s sold by smart people to stupid people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:52 PM
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At least he was willing to pay for it and gave you a pretty straightforward reason lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:45 PM
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No offense taken, but care to explain further?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:28 PM
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Damn, I don’t consider that much of a hot take. Not sure what that says about myself lol. My hot take is that if you’re an average man by todays standards you’re only entitled to below average women. The average man (by today’s standards) has little to no emotional intelligence, lives paycheck to paycheck, and is most likely an extremely boring person to talk to. They don’t read books to better themselves, they only consume garbage content or watch sports, play video games, and most likely use d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:21 PM
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I agree with you, but again, I don’t see this as being realistic. You’re a lawyer, I’m a business owner, you also played football in college and you’re probably extremely disciplined. People like you and I have the luxury of having standards and dating women out of our league looks wise, but most men are not going to be sweeping women off their feet on the first date. Again, I agree with you in theory, but I just don’t think it plays out like this for the majority of men. You’re probably tall to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:55 PM
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I’ll jot that down as “a few” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:45 PM
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I’d buy that, it doesn’t matter your sex or gender, when you’re pursuing women you need to come correct to the best of your ability. It doesn’t change because of your sex or gender, very rarely will there not be someone pursuing a relationship while the other party is more so being sold on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:07 PM
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I haven’t been single for 8 years, I’m just pointing out that a lot of men have to win their woman, and they might not be able to do that in a date or two. I’m not saying what you’re saying isn’t ideal, I’m just saying it’s not really all that realistic in practice for most men. It’s an ideal that falls in the pursuit of what may be that “hidden gem” in a very large amount of cases. My lifestyle is pretty cool and interesting, and I’m in the top 1%, if I were to be single I wouldn’t have this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:01 PM
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I wouldn’t say this with as much certainty as you are. Do men know their lack of experience can/will be a red flag? Yes, most do. However, a lack of experience can come as the result of many circumstances. I think we’d have to define what you consider to be a lack of experience as well, but for the sake of conversation, I’d say this. If a man is experiencing mental health struggles in his early to late 20’s due to trying to find his place in the world and build his value of as a man, women can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:31 PM
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I don’t think you can apply this across the board and expect men to react like this all the time. Women can easily push off having sex in a justifiable way, especially if she is the conservative type. A lot of women will hide behind that justifiable route in pursuit of the free 5-10 dates (or even way more), which puts men in a odd spot. They’re thinking “Hm, maybe this girl is just really conservative, she really respects herself, probably has a low body count, and she’s smart in her approach i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:18 PM
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You will obtain social prominence by marrying into status though. Partner in crime to me really just means doing things with someone you know you really shouldn’t/don’t have to be doing but you do it together anyway. It could also come from what you said, but I would lighten up on that one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:58 AM
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I take some issue with this. Women rule the world by proxy, modern feminism is just a false ideal that will always be thrown away by women once their wants and needs are met. Women are not actually living their lives while letting feminism dictate their actions at scale or living in accordance with feminist ideals, or they will until they won’t, way before they die. I won’t do this idea justice tonight, but what has become expected by women in their 20’s is just not really attainable for most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:05 AM
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Self-respect is pride and confidence in oneself, you saw through the “fuckery” because of your education and you didn’t give in because of self-respect. I wouldn’t say the women who it would work on have low-self esteem, they might or might not, they just don’t know the tactics some men will use. Also, there isn’t “one TRP move/strategy”, understanding the negotiation between men and women is a skill you build on over time, it’s how you have better relationships and marriages too. So a women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:36 PM
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I was at the mall yesterday to grab something from the Apple store and I got my quarterly dose of how disgusting people are. I walk through the Cheesecake Factory and there were multiple men and women whose fat was pouring through the holes/gaps in the chair, then while waiting for my appointment at Apple a man who looked relatively young and fat as shit needed a chair to wait for his appointment, another man was buying an Apple Watch next to me and said “Yeah, I don’t want to know what my heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:30 PM
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Yeah men will definitely get frustrated, but in reality it will work on the next girl (figuratively speaking that is).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:24 PM
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I bet she explained it in an extremely aggressive manor too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:32 PM
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In my experience men who preach that they don’t enjoy women doing this don’t do it themselves. In fact, I’ve had to talk two of my friends out of trying to just date one girl at a time from OLD apps. I wasn’t talking to or seeing any other girls when I would date women, I met my girlfriend IRL and the second we went on a date I removed tinder from my phone, so did my girlfriend. Also, the intentions are much, much more different here. Women have admitted time and time again that they will consis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:31 PM
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I don’t mind if hair grows from time to time, it’s natural, but I do expect my partner to shave. Meaning I won’t be turned off by a little hair, but you still have to participate in shaving frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:19 PM
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Oof, immediately saw one of those guys who say things like “Men like this are insecure because they only think with their dicks and so they think that’s how every other guy thinks…”, yeah….that’s the guy trying to bang your girlfriend right there Lmaoo. You can catch him by the pool reading a non-fiction hardcover book and making sure everyone can read the cover while he wears non-prescription blue light glasses outside. I have never been friends with a girl that I wouldn’t want to have sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:23 AM
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Find a woman who trains jiu-jitsu.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:05 AM
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What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:03 AM
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That is 8 years ago. What would have changed so drastically? Those men are still fathers 8 years later. The only thing that could realistically change is the age at which men are fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:02 AM
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That wasn’t targeted at you, I probably should have prefaced it with that. It was more so a blanket statement for what most people will use it as. Most people are not “only doing this to get that”. There are plenty of reasons why people do things and people who attempt to boil down their actions into a simple this -> that, aren’t that bright in the first place. If you’re “only going to the gym to get laid” and you will state it that way, well, I don’t know who would want to be around those peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:12 AM
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Got it. To me, that post looks like shitty copypasta. If it’s true, that guy sucks. However, the utter lack of context provided in a situation of that magnitude leads me to believe it’s fake, or this dude just sucks that bad and is running on nine and a half brain cells. For the study reported on by NBC, it seems to only be a small hypothesis that men not being attracted to unhealthy women was the main contributor of a divorce if a man’s wife finds herself diagnosed with a life-threatening illne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:53 AM
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Link to the post that’s going around? The link to NBC is broken also. Are men capable of being completely selfish? Yeah, and so are women. Are the majority of men and women selfish to a certain point? Yeah, probably. However, the majority of men are not selfish in the way you are asking here. I would argue most men who are happily married would die for their family. We’re all selfish to an extent, but there are many, many reasons for that. It doesn’t have to be because men are simply “transactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:31 AM
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I don’t think it has much political momentum because it’s incredibly hard to be taken seriously when it won’t be accepted by organizers that the wage gap is not simply a result a gender discrimination. Since you can’t get past that, it’s really hard to have a legitimate conversation. It would be like trying to argue with someone about space who thinks the earth is flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:59 PM
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Yeah, really don't understand that one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:50 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:48 PM
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Yeah someone else just said that feminism claims that motherhood is cool and empowering, I was under the impression that feminism kind of preaches against motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:48 PM
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Is motherhood being cool and empowering a topic pushed by feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:47 PM
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Generally I just disagree with their whole thing. I was about to say, while I was reading the top paragraph I was like "Seems like that's their whole spiel." lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:46 PM
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Q4W, what topics surrounding feminism do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:15 PM
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Sounds like succubus activity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:36 AM
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It's a place to actually talk about how you feel without someone providing an exception to what's commonly experienced by men to attempt to discredit their beliefs and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:06 PM
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You think so? It seems popular, but idk if most people have it figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:29 PM
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One of my girlfriend’s friends came to me one night and wanted to ask me advice on her relationships. She’s ridiculously good looking, but has a slew of mental issues, bad habits, and has a very low control over her emotions. Men will entertain her but consistently ghost her, or her relationships go sour, so I tried to show her some RP ideology to explain to her that this is how a lot of men think when it comes to dating. She then started to just argue the points as if I was even saying RP ideol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:29 PM
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Gonna guess people thought when I said younger I meant that 50 year olds are looking for 22 year olds at scale. That being said one of the first rules of this sub is to not downvote so people who downvote aren’t too bright in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:49 PM
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Yeah I’ve definitely met a decent amount of people who were organically red pill, however, that doesn’t mean they automatically would consider themselves legitimately red pill and have a conversation amongst the pills in my experience. ”damn I can’t get no bitches let me hop on Reddit” Well yeah, that’s my point here haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:11 PM
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Makes sense to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:09 PM
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That’s definitely true also, it seems like doing PR in your own life is becoming more and more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:04 PM
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I actually prefer participating myself when I feel as if I can in good faith. I think a lot of people are around in this space to just blow off steam in regards to their life situation and their mind really won’t be changed at all. If I’m being honest, Reddit has actually been what has shaped most of my opinions for what I assume to be the better because I can get in full blown arguments here without really risking any impact on my real life. Of course there are many pros and cons to anonymous i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:45 PM
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I’m also curious as to how many people in this space are actually old enough to even have experienced divorce. That’s not to say this space is filled with kids at all btw, I’m just wondering if it’s a lot of early to late 20’s which is just my assumption, and in the modern day I’d say that’s rare for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:36 PM
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For sure the gender debate is becoming more mainstream now. Someone on here the other day was trying to frame TRP as “being around for a while”. Sure, been around for a while, but at this level? That’s hard to argue for me personally. There are content creators who are extremely popular that are dipping their toes in the water of the gender debate that otherwise have never made a single piece of content surrounding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:32 PM
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Same, I talk to my girlfriend about it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:54 PM
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I’m honestly not even sure how many people actually know what the pills are, I guess a lot of people just fit the description of a pill without really knowing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:54 PM
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I’m going to be pretty honest, for whatever reason the topics discussed in this sub and those alike interest me, but I barely talk about being interested in it IRL. Does anyone else ever feel a little weird for consuming this type of content? For me it seems to be caused by seeing thousands of people interact with content like this but you’d rarely ever find out someone thinks about things like this in person. I’m probably not saying that as best as I could, but thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:47 PM
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Well we could play study tennis all day on that one, but I think most guys with a decent income look for younger women and women tend to look for older men with a decent income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:08 AM
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My girlfriend was friends with a girl who was at 35, she started dating a guy who asked and she completely lied about it. She was batshit crazy. My girlfriend met her through work, we both discovered she was nuts at the same pace. She wound up going manic and moved out of the country. Other girl I knew at around 35 moved to Hawaii and constantly posts text threads with her arguing with her family and ex’s and calling them all crazy. Obviously both extreme examples there, but the rest I know are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:33 PM
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You’re getting way too far ahead of yourself here, but I do see your points as valid in assuming that’s where I was going, they just don’t apply to myself or my argument because it wasn’t where I was going. In fact, if we were to talk about cultural differences between black and white people, I’d argue more white people “fall victim” to something like consumerism than black people do and that white people actually take black entertainment too seriously as life advice and that’s a culture of it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 11:26 PM
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If she isn’t settling and lies about it, for sure. Would probably still work even if she didn’t lie about it. Would have to guess she is settling though, and that definitely lowers the chances of long term success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:14 PM
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80/20 seems to be more applicable to me. 95/5 could be applied to certain situations but I think for what matter most 80/20 is safe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:10 PM
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Holy shit really? I mean that genuinely. Where I grew up it was more surprising if your parents were both still in the picture. Divorce rates were pretty high too across the board. I also agree a big part is “where is the father?” for sure, I’m not trying to blame women for this entirely. As for the latter half, I agree that’s a factor, but I’ve definitely seen first hand a women’s mother can steer them in horrific directions, and it usually comes with an absent father or just overall deadbeat. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:45 PM
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Yeah that’s my bad, I kind of considered it a given based on my own experience. I did in another comment, but I will admit that it’s difficult to drum up a specific action or belief rather than an overall bleak feeling you’d get when looking at a parent which is why I just tossed it in the daily chat as opposed to making a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:38 PM
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I’m sorry, I didn’t know you were looking for that, I just thought you were generally asking how a bad parenting style would lead to bad morals. That’s my bad looking back on it. That being said, single mother’s consistently giving bad advice to their daughters on how to find a good man while simultaneously telling her most of the worlds problems are men’s fault and that she doesn’t need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:34 PM
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I guess we will have to to agree to disagree. My girlfriend’s TikTok is also showing gender discourse pretty frequently and she’s not all that interested in it (but that’s anecdotal). What isn’t anecdotal is that very, very popular content creators who have otherwise never been involved in gender discourse are now using their platform to make content about it and hosting debates or getting involved in them themselves. You also can’t really argue to me that TRP isn’t becoming more adopted and und…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:28 PM
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You’re just going to ignore the rest of that statement and hone in on that question that’s still different than what you said? I mean, it’s obvious you responded in bad faith initially, so I guess I should have expected it, but then what do you attribute all of this to? Lower marriage rates and consistent discussions/arguments surrounding said tension is enough for me to believe the tension is growing. Just look at a platform like tiktok, you did not have 16 year olds arguing for red pill ideolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:16 PM
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A simple one being lack of responsibility - “Our situation is insert outside factor’s fault and because of that I have to do bad things to get by.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:09 PM
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Well I, myself, love when people can’t read. Where did I ever claim tension between men and women is strictly a modern phenomenon? Different climates will yield different tensions, I only suggested that one growing issue in society is contributing a decent amount to another. Would you argue that tension between men and women isn’t growing, and isn’t more common in the modern age? I also find it amusing that you literally did exactly what I said people do lol. Me - “Said issue is a big catalyst t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:01 PM
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I agree it’s odd with no explanation, but I couldn’t be sure that’s what you were asking. It depends on the life they lived to me personally. You could have been promiscuous in high school and college and realized that wasn’t a good way to live or that something was causing you to behave that way, that can easily add to a higher n-count that wouldn’t be a problem for me. However, once you do hit that 15-30 number, you have some explaining to do (again, this is just my personal opinion), and your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:44 PM
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15 to 30, and beyond obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:21 PM
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PC culture and progressive parenting (non-traditional) seems to yield poor morals and ethics more times than not. I don’t believe it’s black pill to say this is a root cause of a lot of the tension between men and women in the modern age, and before that’s fixed things will only get worse. The trend seems to be synonymous enough, many children are being raised by parents and entertainment/media like this, and the issues continue to grow in line with it. Because of this, a lot of “rules” or guide…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:19 PM
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I feel like this shouldn’t be a thought in the first place, just do things for you (the right way) and watch it unfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:55 PM
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Idk if “secret world” is the right way to say it, but yeah, this definitely exists. Even highly attractive men will realistically only close about 10% of the women they talk to, so if this is your thing, joining a “club” for something like this is definitely ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:53 PM
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Came here to say this, I don’t know anyone with a high n-count that isn’t simultaneously riddled with personal issues and flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:50 PM
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My experience differs from yours and shapes my reality Again though, this isn’t something I’m arguing against and you’re stating it as if I’m arguing that everyone’s experience should be synonymous for genuine conversation or debate at an intelligent level. That being said, if your experience is what leads you to believe that every part of America needs to fall (institutionally speaking), then in my opinion your own behavior and culture you subscribe to should be audited with a fine tooth comb. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:57 PM
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I’m not really sure why this would bother anybody. However, for the sake of conversation, I actually have noticed this myself in the field of law. I have a couple of clients who are in matrimonial law and or forensic accounting. I have no idea what it is, but all of them (and the other people I meet because of them) have divorced and remarried someone close to their age. I like all of my clients, so I’m not trying to be mean or anything, but I think it’s worth pointing out that simply making 6 f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:47 PM
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I didn’t message them or anything, they just found you saying that. The right and left is a spectrum, liberals are on the left, conservatives are on the right. That’s what I mean when I say colleges are left leaning, I’m not saying they’re filled with communists or socialists in this regard, even though I think in 5 years we could revisit this and have a different conversation surrounding that because colleges are failing and I doubt any responsibility will be taken on their end. You can be a le…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:22 AM
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At this point I just think you’re trolling, I said I didn’t watch them that much, I just catch clips here and there and I found the segment interesting. So you’re either trolling or you’re just that thick headed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:36 PM
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You’re really not making any sense here at all. You seem to have made a bold claim and can’t provide any sources. I obviously looked this up, I am finding zero concrete evidence of this. I see one video from a guy in a tank top showing emails he’s received and he’s receiving backlash in the comments for not providing any proof. He then said he’d make a follow up video with the proof he was shown and he has not made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:17 PM
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Established by who? If there’s any proof out there from reputable unbiased sources I’m all ears, as I said from the beginning, it just doesn’t seem sustainable at the level in which they do the show a long with many other factors. I was looking it up last night and I can’t find any proof at all, again, I can see if they paid girls to be on the show initially because they had no following, but I can’t even find that. That’s also only just my justification in the scenario that they have done it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:46 PM
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Thought you were going to have a good argument initially, but I should have known better based on your initial response lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:31 PM
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It’s not even gas prices right now. Here’s a short video that explains how Uber is a scam regardless of inflated gas prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:21 AM
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Definitely appreciate the honest truth and I doubt you have any regrets in that department, but some short research would show that being a delivery driver/driver in general for businesses like these are essentially a loan you will pay back with car maintenance, gas, and taxes. So you didn’t exactly lose out on a researcher lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:12 AM
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Nice high school accusation lol. They’re all hookers? My friends girlfriend applied to be on the show and they accepted it. She’s actually not a hooker. All those girls have fake personas on the show and are just hookers? All of them are lying about their jobs and relationships? Just doesn’t sound believable to me, they might have paid for guests early on, but that can be normal in the entertainment business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:38 AM
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What? No they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:12 AM
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Was just watching Fresh and Fit with a friend of mine. They did a segment where they role played and switched roles where the women who claimed it was easy to pick up girls played the role of a man at the club and the men played the role of the women. I don’t watch fresh and fit much, I catch their clips here and there, but that segment was a really good idea. It was actually crazy how bad the women did, they were saying the creepiest shit or completely fumbled the pick up. I’m not sure if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:55 AM
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Replying to your other statement in that comment that got deleted for making up your own rule lol…. So you’re arguing that every college based study that shows colleges are the most leftist institutions are arguing that colleges are communist? That’s the only way I can read what you’re writing. However, based on your previous statements, I don’t think you’re thinking that clearly in general. You’ve been quoting me and then responding to it as if I said something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:29 PM
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Yeahhh, club is just filled with idiots lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:12 AM
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Where did I say college is filled with Marxists? but don’t misuse the word leftist it means comminist. What? I don’t know why you’re accusing me of not attending an economics or business class either. Also, one of the first rules of this sub is to not downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:15 AM
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There are literally dozens of studies that show how left leaning the education system is. It’s pretty much the most left leaning institution in America. As for the rest of your statements, those are so silly I’m not even going to respond to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:01 AM
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Disagree, I think women are just way better looking in general compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:55 PM
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Those are not platitudes, they’re core values. Whether or not a leftist would agree with a core value like peace through strength or others does not mean they’re meaningless values or platitudes. You can pretty much call any core value a platitude at this point in time, you’d just be wrong in doing so. However, to further my point, I’d look at the most leftist dominant industry, which could very easily be argued as education. Aside from recent bills passed in Florida in the US, non of those core…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:54 PM
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Examples? Conservative values include peace through strength, fiscal responsibility, individual freedom, and human dignity. A lot of those values line up with TRP. However, that doesn't mean that you're politically conservative because you believe in those things, in fact, I'd argue a lot of men in TRP are capitalistic libertarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:03 PM
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Sounds ass backwards to me. Standards and dating strategy is not dependent on libido IMO. It's dependent on leverage, just like how almost everything in life comes down to leverage. When you're young and better looking (specifically women), you hold more leverage in attracting a partner of a higher caliber, as your leverage starts to fade, you have less leverage in the dating market. This is then understood and taken into account when it comes to searching for a partner. Most men start off with …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:21 PM
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How is this TRP? I mean that genuinely btw, I'm not saying it's not RP. Unfortunately feel the need to stress that on the internet because people have no idea how to communicate anymore lol. Where is the defensiveness? I really can't see anyone arguing this, it's literally a fact that this is what women search for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:16 PM
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Well not being boring doesn’t automatically make you interesting in my book. Just like how not being pretentious doesn’t make you humble, or not being an asshole doesn’t make you a nice person. That’s why I said they’re just a small piece of the puzzle, and tbh, I think a lot of women believe that if they just don’t have the negative quality that they’re automatically the opposite of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:35 PM
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Guys who pick their nose and eat it at dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:10 AM
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I hear ya, but not being boring/being hot is just a small piece of the puzzle. Especially when it comes to LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:42 AM
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Straight men also like when other men impress them, everyone likes being impressed by things like this. You’ll interact with more people like this more and more the more you bring more to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:25 AM
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Yes I think it would be less of an issue if women were more honest about it when speaking generally BUT not in every scenario with an individual, keep in mind who it is an issue to in the first place, it’s not the men who benefit from it. To me that fact rises the issue of women putting themselves at risk for being brutally honest with already frustrated men quite often, and I think it would be incredibly ignorant for us to say that wouldn’t hold it’s fair share of danger amongst certain men. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:27 AM
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I don’t agree, but I’m 26, however, I still believe most peoples first dating experience is in public school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:12 PM
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There's a lot to unpack from OLD, but my shortened opinion is that women have access to men they otherwise wouldn't for a decent timeframe of their life and because of this men have become less attractive overall in comparison to those men that women wouldn't "normally" have interactions with without the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:43 PM
1

That dude is definitely trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:29 PM
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I'm not even sure how RP I would consider myself, but your whole narrative here seems to rely on the idea that RP guys don't get any women. In my experience, that's not really the case, or you could just apply the same lack of sexual encounters to RP dudes that you could to any other group of men. I think you also have some men using RP as an excuse to not engage with women, but that's a whole other topic. I think most guys that are RP consider themselves to be RP because they at one point weren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:27 PM
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Going to the gym can make a wild difference in not only your confidence and physical appearance, but it can also do wonders for your mental health. Is everyone going to reap those benefits from going to the gym? Probably not, but that's really going to be their fault mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:15 PM
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I think the frustration from most people comes from the fact that women deny it, I don't think anyone is angry about the the reality of the situation, it's more so the "fuzziness" caused by women acting on it while simultaneously denying it. I do not agree with the idea that all female behaviour can be distilled into something as simplistic as RP ideology because I don’t believe a gender is a monolith. That being said, I do agree with this as well. I don't personally believe all women are hyperg…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:03 PM
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I feel like there’s more to it than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:52 AM
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I find the term “high value” cringey, with that I don’t have an alternative so I run with it when I feel it’s necessary. That being said, the term mostly seems to be applied by men to separate themselves financially and physically. Do women who claim to be high value have the same defining factors? What makes a women consider herself “high value”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:28 AM
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You shouldn’t categorize entire groups of people, but in terms of a persons practical perspective, I find it incredibly hard to argue that you should tell people to blindly interact with everyone without allowing your own assumptions (that have been proven true repetitively) to guide you in those interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:25 AM
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The issue isn’t a kid finding out you’re doing hoe shit, a child won’t even comprehend that accurately or think anything of it. The issue is the behavior of parents that participate in hoe shit outside of doing hoe shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:37 AM
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Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:19 AM
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Doesn’t seem to be the men they want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:06 AM
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Oh haha, well I wouldn’t call that playing dumb still.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:24 AM
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That’s just called listening to people, not playing dumb or being a caricature. Not saying this is you, but a lot of people who consider this “playing dumb” are the ones who think their opinion applies to everyone and they’re just “holding it back”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:02 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:00 PM
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Looks faded, single, has a past that a lot of people don't want for a LTR, standards remain high when they aren't realistic anymore. Stuff like that. Not saying each of those things are a guarantee, but again, even that level of success from doing what we're discussing here in the first place is far and few between.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:15 PM
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Sure, it's possible to to reap the benefits of it, but that definitely isn't the case for the majority of people and it's most likely to result in a car accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:04 PM
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Not for LTRs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:07 PM
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Yeah, but that’s a very specific sector of work. To say that’s popular enough to apply it to a general discussion doesn’t really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:05 PM
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0, been sober for a while now. Much better way to live IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:55 PM
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I actually don’t think it should affect anyones career, but I can see how it would, I just don’t think it should. I do however think it’s very unfair/unrealistic to say the bigger price will be paid when it comes to their relationship pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:53 PM
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I don’t believe class to be the sole differentiator here, I would say it plays a part in terms of your network though. For example, a man who is in the circle of “Instagram influencers” probably has done equally “wrong” (depending on how view it) things to get where he is, so it becomes a non-factor, but that’s a very small supply of men that only the women who have made it to their level or beyond have access to for LTRs. Mainly I would say class is not the differentiator here because there’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:49 PM
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I never said the vast majority of women did. Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:38 PM
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I’m 26, so it’s not like I have some type of age experience that you don’t, but do you believe that your interpretation of what men care about for LTRs is accurate? My only experience that differs from yours is really just the fact I’m a man. I really don’t know any men who are older that would be cool with their wife doing this stuff. I also can’t say this without it being a humble brag, but because of my business I hangout with a lot of really successful older dudes across the country (35-50).…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:27 PM
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How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:22 PM
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If you’re a playboy model I think that’s a different story. That’s your job and career path. You’re signed up for that for a decent amount of time and will be acclimated in those circles. Women are doing this who just want the short term attention but don’t view it as a viable career path and don’t have the same resources as a women who is a professional model.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:21 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:19 PM
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In the short term, sure, but it doesn’t seem like these women are sticking around. Not saying there aren’t exceptions, but in reality there is a major difference between an Instagram model with a million followers and a girl who does this with 2,000 followers IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:18 PM
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Well yeah, so you do agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:12 PM
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Well your workplace shouldn’t be able to care at all. That’s your personal business, you’re there to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:11 PM
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You think this will fade? I personally don’t think so. Sure it may become more accepted in the workplace, but I’m talking more so about men not taking any of these women seriously, the men these women would want to be taken seriously by?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:11 PM
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Most men don’t respect this at all when searching for a LTR. Failure is obviously subjective here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:08 PM
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Instagram is different than TikTok. So to be clear - Instagram will mostly show you who you’re following aside from reels (which is their version of TikTok). I don’t follow any girls who do this aside from girls I still follow from high school that have started doing it. Reels however, will just target you with women who are doing this if you’re a man even if you don’t subscribe to content like that because they know it keeps men on the platform for longer. TikTok is the same, I don’t follow a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:07 PM
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Q4W, do you guys agree that a lot of women are setting themselves up for “failure” by using Instagram and TikTok to post soft core porn at this point for short term attention? I don’t mean to set that up with a snuck premise in anyway, I just don’t know how else to ask the question and find it very hard to ignore the fact that a lot of women have gone from a bikini picture on Instagram a couple of times a year to pushing the limit to the point where you’re just trying to avoid having your post r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:58 PM
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I think the younger you are the less it makes sense, but as you get older life becomes less about experiences because of how much busier you become and more about the overall feelings you have day in and day out. Since it’s very unlikely you would be able to manage having positive experiences repetitively and having a “grounded feeling” with random people, a relationship starts to make a lot more sense. A lot of people are also pretty crazy in different ways to each of us as individuals, as you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:02 AM
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This is exactly it. Nobody preaching "bootstrapping" wants to be unless they're selling something, so what the fuck are the other options? Go on reddit and complain in r/antiwork? Yeah, great use of your time.... I'm sure our rich world leaders will realize we need to put more effort into the people who work 15 hours a week and spend 35 hours a week on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:05 PM
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Hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:59 PM
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That's a pretty big stretch in comparison to your original comment IMO. It's like saying a guy isn't homeless because he was able to sleep in a warehouse for a few days. This only works if your previous statement is accurate, which I don't find it to be.... Ok, the apparently insatiable thirst for sex was relieved for at most 12 hours out of the whole year. The customer base for sexually active men (even if it's casual and far and few between) buying sex suits will not be comparable to a homeles…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:07 PM
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Well that just doesn’t make sense then, because they’re getting laid in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:48 PM
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That doesn’t have anything to do with what you originally said. You went from…. Men would rather have sex with technology than treat women with respect. Which would mean that if a man was presented with two options, either A. Have sex with this technology or B. Go on a date, be respectful, and you’ll get laid, that men would choose A over B because they can’t treat women with respect. To Rejecting women based on their looks and treating them like a piece of meat lowers a man’s options in having …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:43 PM
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Sure, if you didn’t care about the way a person you want to have sex with looks, you’d open your options up a bit. However, treating women like a piece of meat probably works out better for most men in terms of ONS and STRs. I find it very hard to believe most men aren’t getting laid simply because of the fact they don’t treat women the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:09 PM
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I don’t believe those two are mutually exclusive. A lot of men don’t get laid because they don’t work on themselves, not because they refuse to treat women with dignity and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:02 PM
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I also think a lot of women aren’t necessarily looking for financial stability, or they just think they are when they’re really not. I think they’re really looking for people who make a lot of money by chance and don’t know what they’re doing. If you break down a really “wealthy lifestyle”, it really costs around $200,000-$400,000 a year. Private planes, vacations, expensive cars, clothes, jewlery, higher end housing. The chances of someone who can afford that stuff spending it on that yearly in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:29 PM
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I don’t think “they’re left to die”, I think it’s more so said in relation to the idea of raising a family and being a wife in general. If that’s not your objective, then you won’t be left to die, you’ll just need a job for most of your life with a retirement plan or a plan to make a lot of money in a shorter amount of time, accept the fact you won’t have kids (or if you do it won’t be ideal), and accept the fact you’re risking placing yourself amongst one of the most unhappy groups of people by…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:01 PM
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Well, they're two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:47 PM
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Actual conversation with my girlfriend's "ex friend". "I'm not telling my boyfriend my body count." "Why, is it high?" "It's 25, he doesn't need to know that." "Did he ask?" "Yes, I didn't want to tell him because it doesn't matter." "If it doesn't matter, why didn't you just tell the truth?" Conversation ended there, almost laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:23 PM
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however the vast majority of women still are not simply giving it up that easily and most of them want some sort of committed relationship attached. I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years now, but the OLD strategy of the women my girlfriend interacts with as well as my friends who are men experience with OLD is more so this.... Match with men they find attractive. Go on a date with these men while weighing the pros and cons of each. See how far you can get up the ladder by repeating this …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:18 PM
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I don’t think guys have to change, I just think they have to grow up, and a lot of people don’t grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:35 AM
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Yes it is genetic, but when it comes out is a taught behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:10 AM
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You said that weed isn’t something people can put time or money into, which is very untrue haha. It is comparable to wine, in fact there are many, many articles comparing their similarities and a lot of people in California and Oregon are beginning to offer both their own weed and wine. Again, I don’t drink or smoke, but I think it’s silly to think one is so far above the other that you wouldn’t consider the other a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:50 PM
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Okay, but again, all of that has nothing to do with my point. You can’t say weed isn’t a hobby because of any of these points, weed being less socially acceptable doesn’t make weed not a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:04 PM
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You’re straying off course pretty hard here, my point was that you saying weed can’t be a hobby is bias because of your wine hobby when in reality it can easily be compared to weed at a shallow level. If your hobby is just going to a vineyard to get drunk and nothing else that’s the same as saying your hobby is going to the beach to smoke weed. Wine being harder to make has nothing to do with my point, if anything it only supports it because people are then more likely to grow weed on their prop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:56 PM
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Yeah, it’s actually more work to grow weed than it is to make a wine cellar haha. People build entire rooms and sheds with specific lights, vitamins, minerals, shelving, etc. to grow weed legally. It’s a huge hobby to grow weed, I just don’t think it’s fair to say it’s not compared to wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:32 PM
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A lot of people will discuss weed, you’re obviously not diving deep into it because weed isn’t being served lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:03 PM
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That’s very untrue, I’ve been to many dinners where that was discussed haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:59 PM
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I feel like that’s pretty bias. I don’t smoke weed or drink but weed can definitely be learned in terms of growing, it’s strains, and stuff like that. Very similar to wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:22 PM
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I feel like that’s a limiting belief you’ve placed on yourself tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:22 PM
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Of course, but that brings me to my point that in most cases it’s comparable to saying smoking weed is a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:22 PM
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I live in one of the wine capitals of America, and most people just go to the wineries to get drunk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:19 PM
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Feel like that’s a cop out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:18 PM
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I would agree that wine at that level is a hobby, but you’d really argue that’s a popular pipeline being filled? Cooking can be just a necessary skill or a hobby IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:01 PM
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Examples of men making them unhealthy that’s not a video game addiction? (Which is a very real problem lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:55 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:54 PM
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Also, I really don’t see how you can’t see the difference between both of your comments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:38 PM
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You don’t believe the debate is open for a lot of people not knowing how to cook? Becoming better educated on wine can be a hobby 100%, but I would say in reality it’s definitely just comparable to saying smoking weed is a hobby in most cases. You would say most people know wine history and it’s origins? Long distance running is 100% a great hobby. I would say calling social media scrapbooking is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:36 PM
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Yes, at least one thing they could talk about for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:33 PM
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What!? That’s such a cool hobby, no good person would think that’s lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:31 PM
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I mean it could be a hobby tho, maybe not useful as a job, but still a hobby. Idk if I’d pay tuition on a lot of them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:29 PM
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I will say the same thing to him once he starts to build an alternative narrative. Yours was “lots of women have hobbies, what hobbies to men have?”, not “what hobbies to men have?”. I know that’s where he’s going, but I’m just not there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:28 PM
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I don’t understand how people think someone’s hobbie doesn’t count. I mean sure, if you can’t get better at it or there’s not much to learn then it’s not much of a hobbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:25 PM
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What is a common complaint? That women have hobbies? I’m saying the opposite, people should have more hobbies….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:16 PM
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What? Yes they are? I am highly confused as to how you came to that conclusion based off of my comment. Having hobbies means that you are willing to dive into something that you know you will not be good at in the first place but will put in the work over time to make yourself better at it, I personally think reading and cameras are awesome hobbies to have and work on overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:14 PM
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Wouldn’t really consider myself a unicorn for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:10 PM
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Why? Those are great hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:09 PM
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How’s it immature? Because you’re attempting to discredit the statement by insinuating that a lot of men also do not have hobbies, which could 100% be the case, but that’s a separate talking point. Also, I would have to ask if you feel as if you’re an exception? If yes, the discussion still applies generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:09 PM
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Me personally? Martial arts, physical activities in general, cooking, building/working on tangible items like cars or motorcycles or enjoying them as is, reading books, editing videos and photos (not doctoring them or using a filter, like actual editing).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:57 PM
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That’s a pretty immature response. I guess I should have said the younger generations because I know older women like to knit and sew, I don’t see anyone younger knitting and sewing, that seems to be something people get into in their later years. Cooking is definitely a hobby, but again, the debate has been open for years that the younger generations don’t know how to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:52 PM
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That’s interesting, my friends and I definitely have the opposite experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:46 PM
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Some guy on tiktok made a video asking “How many women actually have hobbies?”. He’s getting stitched and made fun of by girls who are overselling his point acting as if they are retarded without actually even showing their hobbies. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of the responses are funny, however, this is something my friends and I have definitely noticed over time. It seems like a lot of girls just don’t have any hobbies….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:20 PM
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This post has a lot of holes in it and doesn’t really make sense when it’s applied to your title. Why would you expect a 29 year old woman not to have sexual experience? Nobody really expects this, of course a 29 year old woman will have sexual experience. The problem is more so that women think having a body count of 20-35 shouldn’t be a problem unless a man is insecure or religious. I agree that it’s healthy for a 29 year old woman to have had sexual experience and it would be weird otherwise,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:24 PM
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I read your whole post so I’m not trying to discredit it with a short answer, but I would argue that women don’t get used for sex because they have nothing else to offer, I would say it’s because what they offer aside from sex is in most cases a negative for a man. No women or person only offers sex, as human beings everyone has other things to contribute to a relationship whether it’s positive or negative. I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 years, her friend who is very good looking was recentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:32 PM
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TRP encouraging people to not settle is still essentially saying most people settle. Not only that, it’s out of reach for many people to not wind up in a relationship where one or both parties have settled. I also wasn’t saying TRP said that, I was just giving an example of how a nihilistic view can be viewed in either direction, but I understand the way I wrote that was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:59 PM
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men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it. This is something I've battled in my own head for some time now, and here's why I would disagree. I believe that generally speaking TRP can and will cause false conclusions at scale for the men who read and listen to the literature, and even if it is accurate, there's no reason to be right in these scenarios. TRP can easily cause a negative version of nihilism for its participants. For example "We all settle" can be vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:31 PM
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But would you say you blame women for the current dating climate based on that? Sure women can be dishonest about what they want out of things, but when has that not been the case? Also, men are dishonest as well, even if they are honest about it after the fact it still happened in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:50 PM
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I hear ya, but that’s why people who are professionals say “you need to change your diet”, everyone has a diet, so whenever someone says “you should diet”, it usually means you should go on a diet which never works long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:46 AM
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Even diets are stupid, just don’t eat like shit year round and go to the gym/exercise on a regular basis. Whenever I’m somewhere and someone brings up the latest diet trend I want to shove cement in my ear drums, because these people are NEVER HEALTHY in the first place or they’re just trying to sell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:38 AM
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I get what you’re saying, but your explanation of yourself is not the norm. If you were to take 100 men, and 100 women, I would have a very hard time not believing that most men would know more about tangible things while lacking in the emotional intelligence department (knows how to change a tire, but throws a fit while doing so) as compared to women who wouldn’t know a lot about how to solve the issue at hand but understands why a man lacks in the emotional intelligence department and why they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:13 AM
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Yeah this pretty much sums up the main issue with the majority of these discussions. When you lack emotional intelligence and self-awareness, it simply becomes harder and harder to deal with the problems life throws out as you get older. Solving problems in a healthy way is what builds people up, but for a lot of people they just don’t have the tools in the toolbox to deal with it. Then there’s the issue where most people have trouble even having a productive conversation about something that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:38 AM
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I get that but that’s not really the point of RP. You’re likely reading bad RP shit. Men sleep around. Men look for hottest woman for casual sex. Men settle for less attractive women to marry. That’s just a people thing, not a women thing. RP is about understanding that women aren’t always honest with their intentions and what they truly find attractive in a man, this way you can understand the reality of the situation and not grow up to despise women. For example, when I was in high school my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:03 AM
1

I feel like you’re kinda asking for broad general claims to be refuted by anecdotal evidence. Why would it matter if these are true or not in the first place? Would you then disagree with RP in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:26 AM
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Me, very long relationship, very happy. Yes I'm RP to an extent, so is my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:55 PM
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A lot, because most of the important topics discussed in the modern dating scene coming from a man’s perspective is to try to solve a bigger issue that doesn’t apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:30 AM
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I was on the phone with a client’s ex assistant the other day who was convinced she got fired because “she was too hot”, like not joking, deadass believed that was the reason. She got fired because she had no idea how to do the job she applied for, she said she was well versed in a subject she had no clue how to do, then couldn’t remember the training, then got mad at how hard the subject was, and got fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:38 PM
2

I’ve also noticed that women (and men, but mostly women) tend to storm in as if they have an idea that hasn’t been thought of and have a hard time accepting the fact they’re uneducated on a certain subject. However, I’ve noticed men and women handle this situation differently in my experience, when you tell a man that his ideas are wrong or overzealous, they immediately internalize that and work on reframing their proposals while often times women will then just dump the whole subject and critic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:18 PM
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That happens to men too, we just don’t complain about it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:14 PM
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I believe that’s a fair share of it, I think it’s mostly men just realizing that women are not on the same page as them, which is fine, but needs to be addressed so that men don’t grow bitter. However, as I said, most men won’t take RP advice in its full scope, they’ll just wind up betas who call themselves alpha to cope with their lack of self responsibility in relation to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:21 PM
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I take bits and pieces from all viewpoints, as far as RP goes for me, I believe it’s necessary for men to be aware of because of the pitfalls it lays out for you in the same way people explain financial responsibility. The issue is that you are considered RP the second you start to discuss how women will do bad things to men in a strategized manor or out of a complete lack of responsibility for their own emotions and actions. If you’re not RP at all, the chances of you falling into the same shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:11 AM
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Shouldn’t there be something else? I mean yeah, and there is. The problem is that everyone just abuses hook up culture now. Most of us will have a period of it, but at the end of the day it’s pretty dumb and a total waste of time for the majority of people. I personally think it affects women way more than it does men, but at the end of the day I don’t think it’s good for either party.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:56 AM
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What I laid out isn’t really difficult, it’s mostly about not being negative towards genuine advice. I was down bad myself at points, didn’t take much to turn it around for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:05 AM
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Being fit and muscular is pretty much and the same thing. Don’t be an asshole Read books, be willing to learn, have slightly better discipline than most people (the bar is low as fuck). Sparking sexuality comes from having those things. Go to a good barber, shop online in sets (like order pre-made outfits), blemishes are fine if you’re in shape to a degree, they should go away with bare minimum skin care and a healthy diet. Photography can be done by other people, if you can’t write this, you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:00 AM
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Not understanding that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:43 AM
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That goes for most issues men complain about as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:38 AM
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A woman can’t do any damage to you What? Yes they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:57 AM
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I think the term "personality" has mostly adopted a definition of "not being a complete dickhead". Girls will definitely hook up with dudes who are dickheads, but at the end of the day those guys have a pretty high chance of winding up single in the latter half of their life. Once age hits, you need to have good people skills to be successful in almost every facet of life. This is why the "popular kid" in high school usually winds up a total loser and the kid who got picked on that didn't bother…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:17 PM
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I also feel like little boys don't hangout with little girl's anymore. When I was young I had a friend named Olivia, we would hangout and play with our different toys and wrestle outside. That probably sounds pretty weird to people now, why would a boy rather play with physical toys outside with a girl friend instead of being in an immersive simulated world with hundreds of other people competing or playing together while talking to their friends as games get better and better and better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:26 PM
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This happens to guys all the time, just saying haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:47 AM
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That’s not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:29 AM
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There are literally hundreds upon hundreds of resources that teach you how to stick out and be above average, books are the simplest vehicles for this, it’s pretty much impossible to argue with someone on this topic because if you don’t see it you’re essentially just choosing to not see it at this point. I have empathy for the situation, but I simply cannot relate whatsoever when it’s being borderline placed on our doorsteps at this point, and it’s never too late to start. As for the rest, first…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:15 PM
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I’m not really telling you what to do, I’m just explaining why older women tell younger women to do that and my personal opinion on the consequences of doing the opposite. Being above average is really not difficult, it’s mostly a poor mindset that stunts the ability to grow into what you choose to be for yourself, and there’s nothing wrong with being average if you want a simpler life, but there’s obviously going to be pros and cons to that as there is with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:54 PM
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Yeah that’s normal, it’s why they typically want traditional women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:29 AM
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To be honest, those just sound like poor excuses. There are many things to be done wrong in the business space, it’s not an easy place to be, but that’s besides my point. Even if you have good motivation, fail (insert whatever excuse), and then decide to not try to achieve higher than normal standards, you will most definitely still live a life better than most and be a better partner because of it. You don’t have to be #1…. Number 50 and so on (within reasonable limits) is still way better off …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:21 AM
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This is why older women advise younger women to find the young man who shows that he is a driven individual even if the rewards are not there yet. However, the general population does not want to wait, they are inpatient and think they deserve things earlier than they do or wait for it to happen without putting in the work, that goes for both men and women. When I first met my girlfriend 6 years ago, I lived in my parents basement and was struggling with money because I just started a business a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:38 PM
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Well I would say it definitely plays out haha. One of my clients is a marriage counselor for high profile individuals/couples. She has told me that the man having sex with other women is not the issue in those high profile relationships at all, it’s actually not even a discussion point in most cases. She actually typically works on rehabilitating their ability to have fun with each other because the “high life” gets very boring after a while so she reels them back into simpler activities. I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:53 PM
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Only responding to your last paragraph because I can’t disagree with the rest. But I’ve heard many women say they would date/marry “insert super rich/famous man” and stay monogamous to him while knowing he would have sex with other women throughout the year. However, they wouldn’t allow men of the caliber they typically meet in reality to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:33 PM
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As a man I personally don’t agree with other men complaining about being physically unattractive. I’m not the best looking either but I just keep myself in shape. Go to the gym and eat healthy, I have not seen a single dude not look at least somewhat attractive after doing that/maintaining it. Maybe my viewpoint is bias because maybe I don’t look for what makes a man attractive the way women do, but for the most part I’m pretty confident that having at least a flat stomach and a somewhat built u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:57 PM
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You pretty much just said men and women should stay in their gender roles to maintain healthy relationships and that we should listen to each other to solve issues. At the end of the day, you’re just preaching “don’t be a fucking idiot”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:28 AM
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Yes, but understanding that allows you to hold a better chance of avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:58 AM
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instead of just refusing to play an unfair game. There is a handful of men who are choosing to not, there is a handful of women who are choosing to not. I’ve been in a healthy relationship for 6 years now, my guy friends who are single call me up with the craziest stories of how unfair they are being treated, and my girlfriend is frequently on the phone with her girl friends who are single telling them “you can’t do that to guys, it’s going to hurt them”. Easiest thing to do as a guy is just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:23 AM
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Lots of reasons in areas where concealed carry isn’t popular IMO. The chances of them having something on them easier to sell, chances of them having a weapon (men don’t typically carry pepper spray or tasers), chances of them not knowing how to fight if it came down to it, not feeling bad for robbing men as much as robbing women because there will definitely be a solid amount of time where women think they’re going to get raped. Robbing men is probably just a lot easier, if I was on the subway …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:41 AM
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This is misleading, as it’s due to men being way more involved in shady gang and drug shit. “Officer, somebody stole my weed!”. Jokes aside, yes men are more common to be the victims of violent crime but that’s not due to gang violence, as robbery wouldn’t be reported by people involved in gang violence. I think that’s a hasty conclusion on your end to say that’s the only reason. I think a better approach is… Women are more likely to be sexually assaulted compared to men, I would rather have my …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:34 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:26 PM
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You initially said.... women say their dating experience includes a lot of men who overestimate their own physical appeal From there you said that "dating experience" includes denying dates, yes, I agree with that. However, the idea that this is actually the reason men aren't going on dates at scale doesn't make sense whatsoever to me. Either that, or men who are overestimating their appearance are displaying that once on the date, which would mean in the case men can't get any dates, that might…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:13 PM
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So now the quote I'm waiting for is the one that demonstrates that I initially argued that it was a good thing for men to try to date women who were more attractive than themselves. You have not provided it. You're not reading what I wrote correctly at all and you're simultaneously reaching very far, you're whole narrative makes no sense. Almost to the point where it's impossible to respond to. You also seem to be wildly out of touch with the data of OLD for men. Let's boil it down to this, is y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:46 PM
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Yep, this is a big reason why so many people are jacked up mental health wise. We've gotten way too comfortable with imagining there's no consequences to living far off from the beaten path in every aspect of life. There's certain times where going against the beaten path is very helpful, but the idea there's no consequences to it....that's extremely ignorant and it's how most people are leading their lives now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:00 PM
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What? I just addressed it in that response? Are you not reading my responses? Why doesn't it seem reasonable to believe it when women say their dating experience includes a lot of men who overestimate their own physical appeal? My rebuttal to this was that even if true, it doesn't apply to OP's post. You're essentially just trying to fit a random experience in to discredit his post and it makes zero sense, and on top of that men would actually be getting dates in this case, or.... I find it bord…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:29 PM
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I find it borderline impossible to believe there’s a large enough pool of women who have found evidence that a large amount of men think too highly of themselves in terms of physical appeal before going on an actual date with them. That truly doesn’t make any sense in terms of the modern dating scene in relation to OP’s post (as I said this whole time), to backpedal into “well they’re not getting dates because women are denying it beforehand” is a pretty strange way to try to dodge the fact that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:54 AM
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Yeah…I know what patently false means. Your point still doesn’t make sense though, it appears you’re just bringing up a separate talking point from women’s experience and trying to slap it on as a rebuttal. Why would a man choose to pursue a woman above his “level” if not for the fact that he believes himself to be more attractive than he actually is? Because people will pursue people they find physically attractive? That doesn’t automatically mean they think higher of themselves as opposed to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:17 AM
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to communicate the OP’s disbelief of the idea that men overestimate their physical appeal. Huh? That’s not OP’s point, he’s saying that when men don’t find dates it isn’t “because they want someone hotter than them” at scale. That has nothing to do with men overestimating their appeal, rather quite the opposite actually. On top of that, if a woman’s experience is that they go on dates with men who think higher of themselves, those men are still going on said dates, so in a way that would insinua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:42 AM
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Can’t really avoid being blunt on this one, that’s not what I mean by context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:41 AM
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From your perspective, in what context?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:36 AM
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Wishing you were more attractive is not a “men’s problem”, who is claiming that’s a problem only applicable to men? Of course everyone wishes they were more attractive. Nobody that actually is interested enough/cares about these modern issues are jealous of “chad”, they’re just referred to as a man that has a lot of casual sex. Again, the quality approach here is not being concerned with being sexually pleasured, that could be a subset of the issue for men, but men not being pleasured sexually i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:22 AM
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I don’t really see where or how OP was insinuating that it wouldn’t be reasonable to believe a woman who says they date men who overestimate their physical appearance. On top of that, I don’t see how that applies to the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:15 AM
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Yes, it might sound better when you’re younger but if you just continue on the path of casual flings the studies show that people who are alone in their 50’s are the most depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:27 AM
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I genuinely don’t know any adult who would shame another adult for being a virgin, if anything it becomes a concern that you can discuss with that person. I would also argue that this is a bigger downfall for women, if a woman is a virgin in her mid to late 20’s, she will have a very difficult time pleasing a man throughout the natural pace of relationship building. Women like to poke fun at men being bad at sex, but women who are bad at sex can literally end a relationship where as it’s so made…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:03 PM
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i’m confused as to what you’re saying now because i was under the impression that people were agreeing with you but there were some slight differences I'm saying in general, when it comes to these topics, it seems a lot of women will argue tooth and nail with each point provided until the bigger picture is presented and then respond with "I agree with most of what you're saying...". Well what are the points that are agreed with, because it seems like most of them are argued in the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:36 PM
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But that makes little to no sense, if someone has argued every point that was presented why would you stop to ask if they've changed their mind? That doesn't really seem like it should be the responsibility of the person presenting their point. It would almost be childish to present it that way IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:11 PM
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The issue is that each point is argued until the full picture is presented more times than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:01 PM
2

Had a conversation with my girlfriend today about the recent eruption of discussions surrounding the modern relationship between men and women. We've talked about it in the past but it feels as if it's become more mainstream now, and we were wondering why? Aside from that, I pointed out that a lot of women tend to use this line after getting into a "pill debate", and that is, "I agree with most of what you have to say...", then they don't point out which parts they actually agree with. I feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:08 PM
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I believe the biggest issue in men and women is what they actually provide in terms of creating feelings for each other. If you don't have the resources and emotional intelligence to make yourself desirable you're going to have a rough time if you're either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:34 PM
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I was friendzoned by many women in high school, which is definitely a reason I am now interested in the relationships between men and women in general to this extent. It doesn't make me feel better to see past friends do that because I understand now what I was doing wrong during that time that lead me to not be attractive. I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years now, but obtaining that required me to change some things about myself for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:26 PM
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Who is genuinely trying to do this when unsolicited? There is a difference between saying how you genuinely feel about a group of people's actions and demonizing an individual. From what I see a lot of the discussions that come about around this topic are more so a response to the years of condescending and bad faith questions asked to men. Again, that's not to justify men doing this while unsolicited, in that case you are most likely just a misogynist at some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:37 PM
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Yep, "You're such a nice guy and I love being your friend, you'll find a great girl one day!". 10 years later - "Where are all the nice guys?".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:28 PM
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Diets are stupid af too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:28 PM
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Of course every guy wants a loyal and caring woman, but I think “submissive” has been thrown around too many times without context. From my experience, men like to put themselves in fantasy scenarios and build parts of their life around that fantasy without actually putting in the work to obtain the full picture. When I was building my business in my early 20’s, all of my guy friends would constantly talk about how they’re going to start their own business and none of them did whatsoever, yet th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:45 AM
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The majority of people eat like shit, don’t have anywhere near good cardio, drink alcohol, and don’t take care of their skin. To look good at 60 years old is pretty hard to do, genetics come into play at that point. However, from 55 and under your life decisions will heavily affect your looks and it’s not impossible for anyone to continue to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:57 PM
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I think a big reason for any of these approaches is to really see what will happen long term and it’s a response to most relationships straight up failing. At the end of the day, most talking points are predictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:58 AM
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That’s the response you came up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:02 AM
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Not really game, just very good looking so it’s easy in your early 20’s. I’m 6’2, I did have to grow a beard because I don’t have much of a chin, it definitely makes me look better but it’s not part of my personality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:00 AM
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Identity politics will separate the winners from the losers, so it will get better for the people who care to educate themselves and worse for those who don’t want to accept reality. Dating profiles will reveal your full beliefs, morals, and ethics off the bat, for both men and women. People who think one way will live over here, people who think the other way will live over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:19 AM
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To complete tasks with, which I’ve noticed is much easier for people who lack a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:13 AM
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I liked your video, I think one thing that’s important to add is that red pill is an odd method in terms of its practical usage, ESPECIALLY when misinterpreted. For example, let’s say I was told it’s important to eat sugar before a workout and the next day at the gym someone catches me eating a cheesecake before working out. I didn’t necessarily misinterpret what I was told, but I’m definitely not using the advice practically. This is all my opinion, but I think when men hear of red pill, a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:20 AM
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I’ve definitely had women come on to me because I was the funny one of the group when there were guys who were better looking than me, and that was before I got in good shape and was able to grow facial hair to hide my lack of chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:09 AM
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I would assume so, but don’t want to overstep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:07 AM
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Eh, debatable, I have a lot of guy friends that are very good looking and don’t have much of a personality because they never needed to develop one to get laid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:07 AM
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Yeah men for sure age well if you stay fit, if you don’t you’ll look pretty shitty pretty quickly. Women have a much harder time with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:05 AM
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I’m surprised they haven’t had a date, is that by choice? Because it seems like the more ruthless treatment is signing up for these dates through social media/dating apps and having women treat you like a walking wallet that has no feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:19 PM
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My point is there are women who genuinely feel the way that I described. I agree the majority is tainted in some way, shape, or form. I literally had a friend (man) call me today saying that he’s looking for a therapist after having an unbelievably rough time through apps like hinge and tinder for the past 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:03 PM
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I don’t fully disagree with you, but the thing is that a lot of women also know the things you’re saying and admit girls who have allowed social media to warp their way of thinking are silly for doing so. The types of girls who would disagree with you are the ones who also think it’s okay to post virtual lap dances on tiktok and then wonder where all the good men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:51 PM
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And that’s without even pointing out the fact that looks fade lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:30 PM
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The ones who were in a relationship? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:28 PM
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My experience with women who are “conventionally attractive” as well as all of my friend’s similar experiences is that it’s a train wreck more times than not. This is all anecdotal, but I’m 26 and all of my friends that are girls who are also highly attractive in the eyes of society have been in 15-30 “relationships” at this point, they’re mentally unstable, and continue to make the same mistakes over and over again while expecting different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:47 PM
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I’ve been told by many women that being funny will trump good looks as long as you’re “decent looking”. Meaning they’ll pick a funny guy with an average body over a very good looking dude with no personality. This is completely separate, but I as a man have started to find women who are “very attractive” by societies standards as less and less attractive as time goes on. For me, the chances of those people having a low grade personality with an inflated ego and past baggage from other relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:29 PM
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