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I can have sex as early as the second date and having sex early or late doesn’t impact my opinion of them. I probably wouldn’t wait super long though (months) because I’d view sex as being used as a commitment bargaining chip. And I think sex with terms is not healthy and will lead to future dead bedroom issues. I want to date someone who finds me attractive and wants to have sex with me. If you can wait months, there is a problem IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:24 PM
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Women can have whatever standards they want. Just don’t lie and say that the bar is on the floor. I could say “the bar is low for women, I just want to date someone who is nice and sweet.” But I definitely won’t date someone ugly or fat that’s nice and sweet. So it’s wrong for me to say “nice and sweet” is the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:09 PM
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The issue is that there are plenty of subreddits that blatantly violate Reddit TOS but only subreddits that engage in wrong-think get banned. FDS is literally an incel subreddit on par with manosphere subs but is basically able to get away with it because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:55 PM
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Let’s be honest. “Incel” is used primarily by people who wish they could still use ”faggot” “gay” as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:49 PM
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Have any examples of this rule breaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:14 PM
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I would absolutely trade the benefits of being a man for the benefits of being a woman plus having periods. I would become a ruthless MBA girlboss overnight and be able to get away with it because I could hold sexism accusations above the heads of any critics. I could quickly climb the corporate ladders by taking advantage of my looks/charms and the need for diversity hires.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:11 PM
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Hawaii is like this. Every 5 and 6 think she’s an insta model with a million followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:39 PM
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Tall women are more beautiful and elegant anyways. 5’7”-5’9” is ideal height.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:57 PM
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Based and grifter-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:30 PM
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Out of curiosity, if it’s the “bare minimum” why don’t more women filter for that quality? The amount of “I’m leaving my abusive partner” posts I see on this website is insane. And almost all the stories reveal red flags existed pretty much from day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:03 PM
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A motivated minority can win over an unmotivated majority in politics. I agree, but let's really think about this. There are 4 groups; liberal men, liberal women, conservative men, and conservative women. Conservative men and women are pro-life. They both are against hook-up culture and only have sex in committed monogamous relationships. Liberal men and women are pro-choice. They are not against hook-up culture and have sex outside committed monogamous relationships. The only people calling for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:30 PM
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Not when 55% of men and 45% of women are pro-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:41 PM
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Yes. But that doesn’t make my point any less valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:41 AM
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This is unfortunately why women will lose abortion rights. When 30% of men haven’t had sex in the last year, what is your sex boycott going to do? Women claim this will be the end of hookup culture? 1, I never got to participate in it and 2, that’s a good thing as far as I’m concerned. I’m pretty damn pro-choice but TBH it’s been hard for me to be that upset over the recent SCOTUS opinion leak. It doesn’t effect me as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:04 AM
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Absolutely, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:06 PM
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Additionally, if your love language is physical touch and you're a man, you basically need to be in a romantic relationship for that to be fulfilled. It's very socially acceptable for women to be able to practice skinship touching/cuddling. If a woman is feeling shitty due to bad news, she can easily find a close girlfriend to cuddle and watch trashy reality TV with on the couch. For men, cuddling with a guy friend and watching football together just makes you gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:50 PM
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Probably, yes. I don't think the average man would care that much about having sex on the first date. He's just glad he's getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:42 PM
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Absolutely. The earliest I've ever had sex with someone was the second date, and we ended up dating for 3 months. I ended up calling it off for unrelated issues. I've never viewed anyone less for having sex with me "too early." I care more that I'm getting "her best sex", because that's what I try and give every new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:31 PM
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Did you even read his post?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:14 PM
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145lb Bench 205lb Deadlift 185lb Squat By no means am I a jacked lifter bro. But that's after like 6 months of serious lifting. I'm also pretty low body fat and bike 5 miles every other day. Those aren't my 1RM for the record, these are just what I'm currently at when I do proper sets. 6', 165lbs. Even with all of this I still struggle to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:27 PM
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Some did want children when they were my peers. They just got snatched up by older more established men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:48 PM
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If men know they want multiple kids, they need to start popping them out before 35+ too. Unfortunately men really don't have that luxury. I'm 31 and wish I could have started popping out kids 3-4 years ago. But all my peers that I tried to date didn't want to settle down and wanted to live a few more years of the single life. Now, trying to date 30-33 year olds, I'm running into women who want accelerated timelines. Sorry. I'll go find me a younger woman who actually wants kids because she wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:14 PM
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I agree with you. I actually already replied to another commenter where I agreed men do not love/respect women on a genuine/deep level. They do love them, but only for the utility they can provide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:33 AM
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I never said there was systematic discrimination against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:33 AM
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Because men interact with more than just the women they are related to and are close friends with? Systematic racism is a great example of the concept I'm trying to illustrate. It doesn't matter if a black person experiences no racism and only has positive interactions with their friends and family. We wouldn't use those positive experience as evidence that marco/systematic racism exists and they can suffer from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:23 AM
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They absolutely get love from women in their lives. But they do not get love from women collectively in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:26 AM
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Respect and empathy. I also don't think a lot of people know what "macro" means when it comes to what I'm talking about. I made this comment in another reply. Women collectively do not love men. Men collectively do love women but their love is not a "deep/etherial" love of the gender. They love women because they provide utility to them. But women also collectively don't even love men for the utility they provide. Because their utility is disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:42 PM
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I genuinely do yes. I grew up around many strong/powerful women. Used to work in a field almost exclusively dominated by them. I admire the way they form and maintain friendships. I admire their creativity when it comes to how they express themselves through fashion, makeup, hair, etc. I think their dedication to their family, especially their kids, is incredibly admirable. I am honestly kind of jealous of the fact that they literally can create life with their bodies. I don't really have any ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:24 PM
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The best part about your comment is that you think you got an "own" in on me but you didn't, because I agree with you. Men do actually care about women but they don't actually care about women. Men's care for women is purely based on a women's utility to themselves and society: "Women and children first"; men ought to save women because women are child bearers that can propagate their bloodline. Women "homemake" for a man. Providing love and affection to his kids and maintaining his household. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:35 PM
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I am not using macro to describe a broad range. I’m using macro in the macro/micro binary to describe a “large-scale” opinion/sentiment. I argue that on a macro level women, even when married, do not love men. They treat their man as “one of the good ones” and still view men collectively negatively. You personally love men, that’s amazing! And I’m happy for you. But that doesn’t change my argument. The same way me saying “I personally love black people” doesn’t invalidate their arguments that sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:42 PM
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I personally have a love for women. As a single man I can’t have a macro love of women but we can have the debate on whether or not men have a macro love of women if you want. EDIT: Sorry. I see where I messed up. Said “love” and not “level.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:37 PM
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I’m pretty pro-choice and politically active (vote in all elections, even local, even primaries) and it’s hard for me to be motivated to care about Roe being potentially overturned. I got on TwoX and all the femcels say stuff like “shame on you boys, no more hookup culture for you” as if the majority of men have ever actually benefitted from hookup culture. I mean no one ever faults women for not caring about men’s issues, so why should I care about women’s issues? Yes; men have wives, mothers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:38 PM
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Sex was more equitable when women were repressed and relied on men to provide for them and their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:26 AM
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That's not. But that's what people call dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 04:23 AM
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Most people don't even know what "dad bod" is. This is not fat, it's a bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:48 PM
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What's the number 1 piece of advice in every Reddit thread whenever a guy complains about dating prospects? lifting. What's the number 1 piece of advice in every Reddit thread whenever a girl complains about dating prospects? taking a break from dating, loving herself, therapy, or new hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:06 PM
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But the STD argument is an often wheeled out argument against having sex with high-n women, which is an argument women push back against hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:01 PM
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Sometimes as a man I feel like I understand the risk more than most women. I’ve legit had women (who are not on BC) tell me that we can switch to the pull out method after only dating for like 1 month. Not to mention all the amazing stories I hear of dead beat dads and shitty partners who were so obviously shitty from day 1 that fucking Stevie Wonder could have seen the red flags, yet some how meet the standards to have unprotected sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:21 AM
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Nope. I only hook up with quality women who I’d be OK with having a baby with if she accidentally got pregnant. Plus I have money and a great career I can afford one no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:18 AM
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That’s why I got fit, so I can justifiably get mad at fat American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:50 PM
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Which is fair but only really matters if you plan on having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:47 PM
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Collective shaming tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:04 PM
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Let's take a look at housing under that rule. What system seems more patriarchal? The capitalist system, where a woman is free to buy whatever property she wants wherever she wants, no matter how big or small, provided she has the money. The Marxist/communist system, where single family homes are reserved for married women who bear children (because they need more space) and unmarried women only get modest 1 bedroom apartments. You could further argue that a man wanting to be an intellectual is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:13 AM
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I have an amazing career, lots of friends, and interesting hobbies. Those don't fulfill me as much as being in a loving relationship does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:48 PM
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They didn't complain about having to economically provide or not having the social ability to express most human emotions. The big problem is that men are still held to those standards but no longer benefit from meeting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:33 PM
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"From each according to their ability, to each according to their need" is inherently an anti-man sentiment and hyper enforces gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:30 PM
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She will. But then her friends will ask him if it's because he has a big dick. And she will lie and say yes but every time she has to lie she will get more and more annoyed until she decides to dump the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:19 PM
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That won't work because she won't be able to brag to all her girlfriends about how big his man's dick is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:16 PM
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Then you could look into ways to make it work, like penis sleeves. Imagine a bunch of guys saying you should have your girl wear fake boobs because you don't like how hers are too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:15 PM
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I would argue there are more overweight and obese women due to the fact that most of these studies rely on BMI to get their numbers which doesn't work well for men who work out a lot. With how big gym culture is I wouldn't be surprised if the number was really 10%-15% less for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:11 PM
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All the pro-maskers talking about how it's "just a piece of cloth." Well it's "just exercise."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:06 PM
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You’re absolutely not “past your prime” but as a 30 year old man I tend to prefer to date younger. I was a late bloomer and want to experience the fun of a relationship before the obligations and expectations of starting a family. I want a family. Would be totally cool with up to 3 kids if my wife wanted it. BUT I know that a 29 year old will expect a much more compressed schedule compared to say a 25-26 year old. I don’t rule out people my age, but you’d need to be exceptional for me to invest …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:55 AM
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If you specifically crave what romantic love provides, what are the alternatives/substitutes to romantic love that provide the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:32 PM
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Most people are broke. I'm not. And blue pillers tell me I should date someone at my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:18 AM
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Men don’t care about other men because men have been conditioned to view male solidarity as toxic, patriarchical, and against progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:16 PM
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I never said it was gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:44 PM
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I’m all for women not wanting to be hit on while they work out or wearing ear buds while they are commuting whatever. Theres so many places to hit in people where that sort of thing is encouraged. To acknowledge that is to ignore so many relationships that formed in the past because people were sitting next to each other on a plane or on a train and their only way to pass the time was to interact with people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:26 AM
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Many guys know how to talk to women. It's just become socially unacceptable to talk to them. Read what women write on Reddit. I'm sure 10+ years ago tons of people met at the gym. Now? "Umm yikes sweaty I'm not going to the gym to be hit on." Also how do you talk to people when everyone walks around with earbuds on?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:44 AM
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Millennials are slowly working their way into their 30s. Another 5 more years and expect to see tons of articles and opeds about the declining marriage rates for millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:42 AM
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All a guy has to do is enthusiastically eat pussy before PIV starts and he will easily become one of her best sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:07 PM
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Out of curiosity did you notice anything about yourself physically after giving up artificial sweeteners?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:49 AM
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Honestly his bar is so low it's basically at the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:43 AM
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I’m 30 years old and was a late bloomer mainly due to extreme bullying and some light sexual assault in my youth. That coupled with undiagnosed ADHD made me a very anxious and anti-social person. I’ve only dated 2 people for about three months each. I personally feel that I would be a “bad” partner in the sense that anyone I date long term would have to be open to me navigating the struggles of long term dating for the first time. I more or less agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:22 PM
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If a woman does not at least offer to pay I usually don’t go on a second date with them. It’s 2022. I want to find someone who will be an equal partner in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:16 PM
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Oh shit, I’m completely missed that. Now I 100% believe this is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:59 PM
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EDIT: I’m an idiot. The dude did suggest meeting at her place. Keeping my L up for posterity. Part of me thinks this is fake. “Starbucks would great. I usually don’t give out my address.” He never asked or suggested to meet at your place, so why would you bring it up? I do a lot of buying and selling on marketplace and if someone suggests a place to meet up and exchange, unless I’m offering an alternative location, I’m not going to provide them a list of places I don’t want to meet. And for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:49 PM
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So then you’d agree with me if I said that it’s perfectly fine the way men today talk about and to women since it hasn’t stopped the success stories from rising above?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:23 AM
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I mean some women I’ve dated have shown incredibly low levels of caution. I’ve picked people up, had people come over my place, etc. I just never put any pressure on them to do that though, every time it was something they suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:13 AM
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I mean some women I’ve dated have shown incredibly low levels of caution. I’ve picked people up, had people come over my place, etc. I just never put any pressure on them to do that though, every time it was something they suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:13 AM
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Nope. But I wouldn’t invite a women to my home on a first date because I’m cognizant of the dangerous realities women face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:50 PM
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By not engaging in harmful rhetoric and checking when others who do. Even if it’s “just playful banter or jokes.” People listen and notice, and it leaves impacts on them. FDS is a perfect example of a misandrist space that, by simply existing, is negatively impacting men on this website. It was the same way with incel subreddits and subreddits like coontown, but the larger Reddit community rightfully pushed them to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:46 PM
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Being cautious is telling your friend where you are going, not going over a guys place first date, and googling him. Being cautious is not doing all those things because you think all men are secretly rapists/abusers until proven otherwise. I am careful walking around rough inner city neighborhoods because there is high crime, not because I think all black people are thugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:45 PM
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Serious Question: Do you not think harmful rhetoric around entire classes of people can be bad for their overall mental wellbeing? Isn’t that the entire point around identifying and stopping racist or sexist rhetoric? If society was saying stuff en masse like “black men are violent/thugs/gangsters” would that not impact the mental wellbeing of young black boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:21 PM
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Damn. Cold blooded. Gotta give you respect though for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:18 AM
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Don’t dodge the hypothetical. If you had the choice between attractive kids, or ugly kids, which would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:06 AM
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Serious question; if you have kids would you want them to be conventionally attractive, or ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:48 AM
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Because women don’t want to raise sons who are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:38 AM
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They want a tall handsome boyfriend that they can show off to all their girlfriends. Also; tall sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:34 AM
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I would rather have daughters. While it is harder to raise daughters than sons for a variety of reasons I feel like I'd have to "worry less" about them when they are adults. Worse case, they settle down with a beta bucks that will provide everything they need. They're way less likely to be a victim of violent crime, way less likely to be homeless, and now thanks to affirmative action 20-30 YO single women out earn their single male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:07 PM
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In your initial comment you were making the argument that women are “owed” their societal/social benefits and advantages due to the other areas of their life where they are clearly at a disadvantage. I further interpreted you’re comment as saying that at the aggregate women still have it worse then men. I disagree. I argued that the disadvantages that you have are not necessarily unique to you (other than the biological ones) and that the average women is still advantaged more at the aggregate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:44 PM
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>only mentioned the one thing because that’s the only thing you were talking about >”hurr durr I cant believe you can only think of one thing that’s tough about being a women” zzzzzzzzzzz EDIT: and the answer to your eventual followup question; yes, id rather reap the benefits of being a women at the expensive of having to deal with the hardships. Yes all the ones you’re thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:34 PM
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It’s a tradeoff. I personally would be OK with the arrangement of getting significant societal/cultural privileges at the cost of having to be the one to give birth. Also women have like 15 different kinds of birth control. The accidental pregnancy risk is basically non-existent if you approach casual sex with an ounce of common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:29 PM
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No one is forcing you to have kids. Also adopting. Also artificial wombs are like 10 years away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:07 PM
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What are y’alls thoughts on this? https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/tt1nn3/covid_made_me_realize_i_was_horrible_to_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:02 PM
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It’s projection/jealousy.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:46 PM
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I complain about single moms but if I got someone pregnant I’d absolutely try to make the relationship work. I was raised to take responsibility for my actions. And even if the relationship did not work I’d fight for at least 50/50 custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:57 PM
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When I gotta plan them, pay for them, and add to the fact that she’s probably also dating/talking to other guys at the same time so at any moment she could just ghost me? Yes. Or the fact that she could decide on date 3 or 4 she is not interested which basically made all of those dates a giant waste of time and money? Yes. And considering the fact that HVM literally don’t have to work for sex? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:13 AM
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If you're not a top tier guy who can actually hookup with women the day you meet/start talking, and you're a guy who wants sex you need to be chatting, escalating to several dates (paying for them of course), and then you might have a change of having sex after 1-2 months of work. At that point I'd rather just go lift and jerk off to porn. The juice is great but it isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:59 PM
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Incel meetup vs inceltears meetup. It speaks for itself. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jdm2x0/never_forget_the_incel_meetup_vs_the_inceltears/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:39 PM
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If you’re a woman and your man can’t make you orgasm you either need a new man or you need to communicate your wants and needs. Thankfully I have never had this problem because I love foreplay and eating pussy. If you’re guy doesn’t do those things break up with him, don’t bitch about it on Reddit or write some NYT oped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:14 PM
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Women genuinely think they want a guy to be super open and vulnerable, but when they see it play out they can’t ignore the lizard part of their brain that says it’s unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:05 PM
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If you claim to be into global politics and don’t know about the Warsaw Pact you are ignorant and naive yes. Even though “the Warsaw Pack is 30+ years old” it basically is the source of the majority of Russian related conflicts in eastern europe. Hell, a lot of the problems in the middle east can still trace their routes back to the Sykes-Picot, and that happened over a hundred years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:12 PM
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We should automod “gaslighting” and “gaslit.” If you cannot explain why a behavior is abusive without using those words then it probably was never gaslighting in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:18 PM
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:thumbsup: Won't happen again!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:43 AM
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A generation ago, most of them would have found community and genuine comfort in their womanhood amongst butch/stud lesbians, tomboys, non-girly gals, and so forth. The sad part about the recent mass acceptances of transsexuality is that it has basically rigidly defined and enforced male and female gender roles. In the 90s/early 2000s if you were a girl who dressed a little more masculine, loved to play baseball, and was not super into makeup you were just a tomboy. If you were a guy who was a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:29 PM
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The reality is that there are no shortage of 6-7 men who have their shit together and would love nothing more than to settle down and start a family with an equally SMV girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:15 PM
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“You too can be expecting at 37 after $50k and 2 rounds of IVF.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 08:59 AM
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I was raised in a very conservative and Catholic family. Currently I am very much an Agnostic Liberal. I have unironically thought about conservative-maxxing, going back to being involved in the Church, and finding a nice trad Catholic girl to marry. When I used to be really involved with the church during university all the women I were friends with were way nicer than the majority of liberal women I meet. Like genuinely good, caring people down to their core. I had a lot of catholic friends fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:08 PM
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Oligarchs are not the ones cockblocking me. Also the United States isn't an oligarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:06 PM
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“Playing sports as a child makes you taller” is this your opinion or a scientific fact? My guess is he is looking at correlation not causation. Sports self-select for tall individuals due to the advantages they have in athletic performance. Even in sports like Soccer where you would think height doesn't matter as much. Longer legs = longer strides. Longer legs = potentially harder strikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:25 PM
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Millennials are already becoming the new boomers. Who do you think have all these spoiled misbehaving kids that are sending kindergarten teachers to the hospital? Hint: It’s not boomers. At least boomers had “family values” and shamed their peers for having kids out of wedlock. Millennials will end up being worse than boomers. Save this comment and come back to it in 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:21 PM
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A lot of bisexuals do not necessarily want to date the same gender. But have no issue finding members of the same gender attractive and hooking up with then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:19 PM
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I agree with you 100% but I think one of the problems people have is that in places like AITA or relationship subreddits we only ever get one side of the story. And sometimes with a little more critical thinking and seeing how the OP is responding, and specifically which questions she’s ignoring, can often show there is more to the story. I can’t speak to your specific example but there was a post by a woman talking about how her husband gave her an ultimatum that if she didn’t loose weight he’d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:42 PM
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Absolutely based. It’s cringe as fuck that people are more concerned about something with a life span of 8 years that just need food and shelter to be happy than actual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:18 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man use a women’s sexuality as an insult. Almost all the insults I hear reference their personality; “bitch”, “cunt”, “nag”, “crazy”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:09 PM
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B-b-but I thought women hated big dicks at least according to /r/sex’s weekly “small dicks are the best” post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:39 AM
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Women believe it’s hard for them because they are going after top tier men and can’t get them to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:51 PM
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“Toxic masculinity” will always exist so long as women positively reward men who exhibit those behaviors. If women want to tear down the patriarchy and toxic masculine power structures they need to start positively reward, via sex/relationships, men who do not exhibit those behaviors. But this will obviously never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:55 PM
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I think for a “maximize the greatest happiness of everyone” goal you must argue that both men and women pursue people that are their “looks-match”/SMV. Obviously you can say “hurr durr let the market decide” but is a society that almost exclusively operates on the 80/20 rule, leading to declining birth rates and increased depression/loneliness/etc a “good” society to live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:46 PM
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I’m tall and skinny. I went from 140lbs at 6’ to 165lbs. Same body fat %. People still think I look the same. I need probably another 1-2 years trainings/eating at my current pace to get to 180lbs and maybe then it will be noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:54 PM
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I’m a guy who definitely won’t fuck anything because I’m trying not to catch herpes; oral or genital. Never so much as had a cold sore in my life. Trying not to start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:24 PM
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If you’re a healthy weight as a woman you are at least a 6-7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:49 AM
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I’m happy with expensive cost of living areas, keeps out low class poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:27 PM
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/r/relationships and /r/relationship_advice are incel fuel. It’s insane how many women put up with literal man-children then complain that the “BaR iS sO LoW” for dating these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:48 PM
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I’m 30 and this is why I’d never date someone over 30 (unless they were easily a 10/10). I never got to enjoy dating when younger, never had a girlfriend before (or one that lasted 3+ months). I want to be together at least 3-5 years before popping out kids. That just doesn’t work with an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:23 PM
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I used to date someone who actually didn’t wear really any makeup. Just the occasional eyeliner. I both preferred that look and I would argue she had better/clearer skin because she didn’t spend the last decade layering makeup on her face everytime she wanted to leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:39 PM
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While I agree with you if you’ve already gotten to the point of talking about sex/sexual preferences you pretty much already sealed the deal. I’ve been that open before about sex with people I’ve date and it’s been successful, but I couldn’t do that really early in the dating stage until she’s more or less made up her mind about having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:46 AM
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I'm a former Catholic and the main reason I would never switch to regular Christianity is because it almost feels "wrong" in the sense that I still miss parts of being Catholic. So if I was going to lean back into being religious why wouldn't I just go back to Catholicism. At the end of the day my issues with Catholicism primarily stem from the institution of the Catholic church itself and less to do with the actual teachings (though I do have some disagreements there). I also find it a bit lazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:11 PM
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Every Sailor knows someone who got pregnant while underway or right before in order to get out of the deployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:01 PM
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Out of curiosity how do you externally signal that you can give women orgasms? How can I let girls know that I love foreplay and eating pussy? Or is it just an extension of the 80/20 rule? Girls get with guys that get with lots of girls because "if he has lots of girls into him he must be pleasing them."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:44 PM
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They don’t care in the sense that as long as she has something that’s enough. Men are not specifically looking for women with “sexy” careers like doctors, firefighters, military, law, etc. Just that she can make her own money and won’t rely on you for support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:31 PM
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Yes, because at any time a top 20% guy can settle down with any of the women who he is having casual sex with. It’s all on his terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:22 PM
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I resonate a lot with the third paragraph. “On paper” I’m everything a woman wants. 6’ white guy, blue eyes, slim/fit. Have an interesting career that comes with status, have my shit together (no debt, no car note, buying a house this year, etc) yet it is such a slog to even get first dates. I’m tried of constantly having to be the initiator, planner, etc only to have women show barely any interest. So it is hard to stay motivated to keep putting myself out there, especially when you go online a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:11 PM
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I think it’s good that more men are starting to show gender solidarity. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:27 PM
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Does anyone have screenshots of WEC’s profile? I want to try lovebombmaxxing. I’m a decent looking tall white guy and figured if I can setup my profile like his I can make up for not having a “wild phase” in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:52 PM
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I heard a saying once; “women marry men hoping they’ll change, men marry women hoping they won’t.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:08 PM
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It’s not a raw number. It’s the number in relationship to your age. An 18 year old with an N count of 10 is promiscuous. A 40 year old with an N count of 10 had a pretty normal sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:00 PM
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You all Umm yikes sweaty your comment doesn’t specifically apply to me therefore your perfectly valid generalized observation is actually invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:47 PM
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I have found that I have been the most “content” in life when I’m getting sex regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:51 AM
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The “issue” of the patriarchy is that it will never be solved until women stop rewarding men (via sex/relationships/attention) who perpetuate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:17 PM
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Part of the reason I don’t date fat/chubby girls is because I’m paranoid they’ll use having a kids as an excuse to throw in the towel. I’d be perfectly OK with someone who is slim/fit gaining a nature 20lbs throughout pregnancy. But someone who’s already overweight will probably gain 50lbs and then some. I’ve seen it too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:48 PM
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How can you have a romantic relationship without sex? A sexless romantic relationship is just a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:38 AM
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Women overwhelmingly prefer Loki to Thor Only chubby/fat women prefer Loki to Thor because they are worried that Thor will have high standards for their body. Slim/fit chicks overwhelming prefer Thor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:56 PM
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I have a few female friends that are on Hinge. Your typical late 20s nurses. Have their lives together, are relatively attractive 7/10, and they have plenty of good quality matches. They have the occasional guy that opens with a weird sex joke but they have no issues getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:01 PM
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Men historically have been contractors/carpenters so if you really think about it, it was men who chose to put the coffee table there. House layouts and furniture design are inherently patriarchal. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:56 PM
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30+ women are trying to spread the “power imbalance” meme as a way to shame their peers into dating them instead of younger women. That’s really all it comes down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:44 PM
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No one is complaining about a power imbalance between a 25 and 35 year old. I literally read an /r/relationships post yesterday where one of the top comments pointed out that a 27 and 34 year old age gap was “problematic.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:41 PM
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A lot of men and women go into dating looking for any possible reason not to date the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:34 PM
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This. I have no problem waiting months for sex if the woman is high quality and has a good relationship history of no hookups. I actually prefer to build a connection as I feel that makes the sex better, but I refuse to be the safe/reliable option to a LVW.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:42 PM
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Never heard of doing this but will probably start doing it early in relationships. I want to date a high value woman who understands that men have emotional needs and worries. I usually drop that I’m in therapy during the 1st or 2nd date. If she takes it well, it’s a good sign. And before anyone tries to flip the script and says “women don’t trauma dump that early” I’ve literally had women share with me on the 2nd or 3rd date that they’ve been raped and are still dealing with the mental side eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:39 PM
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Men absolutely want to settle down earlier but unfortunately it takes two to tango and right now one of the genders very much does not want to settle down. So we are expected to pretend we enjoy single life and freedom and get ready to accept desperate early 30s women when they’re ready. Thankfully I found the secret; find a mid 20s woman who actually wants to settle down and start a family before she turns 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:04 PM
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Do guys unironically say that? Demisexual isn’t even a real thing. Every demisexual I’ve met just has really niche/specific taste and the minute they meet someone that checks all the boxes they behave like any other horny guy or girl does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:38 PM
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imagine sitting on a table with a guy that clapped your gf cheeks for months :) 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:23 PM
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Dog owners that lean heavily into the “dog mom” aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:19 AM
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Student debt is special because it’s the only debt upper middle class people hold. Student debt relief is just a wealth transfer to the already wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:53 AM
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Face: 8 Body: 7 Personality: 7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:22 PM
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While women and men are definitely held to pretty tough standards I think anyone who is honest with themselves has to admit that male standards of beauty are just harder to meet. Focusing on just physique: A chubby woman can have her "beach body" with 6 months of dedicated training. A chubby or skinny man, to get the "lean/athletic" look, easily has to spend 2-3 years in the gym lifting. I'm 6' and 165lbs and my starting weight was 133lbs. If I take my shirt off around my female friends they pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:10 PM
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Essays are super fucking easy to write. My Bachelors is in Computer Science but my Masters was in Business Administration. I had to write tons of professional essays as responses to case studies, draft hypothetical business plans, etc. All you need to write top tier quality is to have at least one or two good writers as friends that can help mentor and peer review your work. The only impressive form of writing are people who actually write original works (books, poems, etc). Also every autistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:53 PM
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The movie could have actually been really good if it was 20 minutes shorter and less heavy handed with its messaging. Lots of funny moments, all star cast, and an interesting premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:37 PM
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Dating apps should shadowban people who have handles in their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:21 PM
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I wonder if women of AITA would be OK with their fiancé getting her engagement ring comped by an ex-gf of his who works in the jewelry industry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:12 PM
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The reason I don’t want to raise someone else’s kid is because I will never (rightfully) be my partner’s #1 priority. In a traditional relationship where we both have kids together we start out by being each other’s #1, then become each other’s #2 as we have kids that rely on us for food/shelter/security. In a relationship where you’re dating a single mom she will be your #1 while you will be her #2. This creates an imbalance that really can’t be overcome. And you wouldn’t even want to be her #1…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:01 PM
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I think people don't really understand the argument. Do people "owe you sex" in the sense that you can go pick a random women out of a crowd and demand they have sex with you? Absolutely not. Do people "owe you sex" in the ethereal sense that in a just/equal society everyone should be able to naturally find a partner to have sex with? Absolutely. People will naturally and rightfully appeal to the concept of consent, but many people who argue "nobody owes you sex" would probably argue that "socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 07:12 PM
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I have many single female friends. Many have tried online dating. The ones that leaned into it, had realistic expectations, and brought their own qualities to the table quickly got boyfriends. We're talking 1-3 months on the app max. The ones that were insecure about "needing to use online dating" and basically only used it as a validation and "sit and wait until Mr. Right falls in my lap" tool are still single. I always ask to look at their profiles and they are full of the most basic shit ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:19 AM
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The best sex I ever had was with a woman who easily came from PIV. She was way more sexual and horny, would often initiate. I still ate her out for breakfast, lunch, and dinner but it was nice that she was able to come the “same way” I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:31 PM
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If I found a hot girl I fancied at the gym could I follow her around and stare at her ass all day? After all “men stare when they like you.” I’m just following my natural instinct. I can’t help it!
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:54 PM
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The fact that we give OP a pass just shows how people on this website treat women like children. She’s following a dude around thirsting on him. Probably staring at him while he lifts. Pretty disgusting TBH.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:50 PM
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I’ve missed that short window to marry and have a family Said the 39 year old women who’s “window” was arguably between 22-35 years of age, those “short” 13 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:45 PM
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Power dynamics are the issue but an age gap in and of itself is not a power dynamic. A 30 year old teacher dating a 23 year old student is wrong because there is a superior/subordinate power dynamic issue. A 24 year old who started dating his 19 year old girlfriend at 16 is wrong because there was an adult/child grooming power dynamic issue. A 32 year old dating a 19 year old who is financially dependent on the 32 year old is wrong because there is a power dynamic issue where the 19 year old is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:17 AM
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A 20 year old is not a “girl.” She’s a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:35 AM
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I’m a 6’0” man (actually 5’11.5” but lie because I’m insecure) and prefer women between 5’6”-5’8”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:47 PM
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