Trikger Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If woman understand there own attraction and stuff, why then people do studies? "Instead of doing a study, why not just do a study?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 02:37 AM
18	how frequently you turned on about men you see in public ? Never. I don't passively (or actively) fantasize about people who are minding their business. When I see an attractive person, I get a little zap in my brain that says: "Oh, nice! Anyways-" It's like how when you see a pretty flower, you don't think about having sex with the flower. You just appreciate it for what it is, not for what it can do for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 02:36 AM
5	Most women have someone. What are women supposed to do here..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 10:53 PM
6	What do abusive men bring to the table? My father was unpredictable and violent, especially towards my mother. My parents taught me what love was supposed to look like, and it looked like uncertainty, resentment, fear and unavailability. Regular people learn that relationships are supposed to feel safe, but for a lot of people with childhood trauma, safety doesn't feel right. Love means chaos and pain. My last two relationships were with complete polar opposite men. One turned out to be a horrible, abusive man. The other was about as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 10:20 AM
–	If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated. This subreddit is genuinely one of the best counterarguments for your claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 04:19 AM
1	Do abusive men have good personalities? Do your research. Hitler was considered an idol. Teenaged girls had posters of him in their bedrooms. Hitler received tons of love letters, gifts and marriage proposals from women, and he kept his private life hidden from the public for the same reasons as current male celebrities do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/26 11:50 PM
1	Do abusive men have good personalities? Do you think he's hot..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/26 10:32 PM
9	Do abusive men have good personalities? John Wayne Gacy? One of the worst people to have ever walked on this earth; a fat, ugly, middle-aged man; a guy loved and adored by his entire community. Or Adolf Hitler? There are plenty of examples of horrible, manipulative men who are also unattractive. The halo effect is a thing, but it's not absolute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/26 04:59 AM
0	People MASSIVELY underestimate the math imbalance on the dating app marketplace I feel like there are a lot of nuanced factors and variables that get ignored when it comes to dating apps. From my experience, there are three types of people: Type 1: Those who use dating apps for casual/sexual relationships Type 2: Those who want to meet their partner organically Type 3: Those who use dating apps because being Type 2 isn't working for them Now, I'm definitely biased because I'm Type 2. I view dating apps as a last resort, and a lot of people I know feel (at least somewhat) th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 05:55 AM
5	Would you leave this woman? Hey, buddy. It's totally normal and it happens to everyone from time to time. If it's something you're struggling with, lay off the porn. That stuff can mess with performance big time. Jerk off less, work out more, fix your diet. If it still happens after that, get yourself checked at the doctor. I'm not here to shame anyone, bt if you feel offended by the truth, know that that shame is coming from within.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 02:29 AM
8	Would you leave this woman? My boy, you're either rage-baiting or projecting like crazy. You can't accuse me of doing something that only happened in your head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 02:10 AM
3	Would you leave this woman? Body shaming how?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 01:58 AM
9	Would you leave this woman? I almost get the feeling that how hard a guy gets leads directly to better sex. Absolutely. Both mentally and physically. If it's soft, there's less friction and pressure, which means there's less feeling. It also tends to "flop" out way quicker, and putting it back in feels more lackluster and clumsy. Emotionally, it also feels like there's just something missing. I guess it's similar to a woman not being properly wet. It lacks passion. You're right about size, by the way. Most women can't orga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 11:51 PM
1	Defending women at all costs isn't protecting women,it's setting them up for when accountability catches up Are you trying to say men are stupid and can't take a pill everyday? Realistically? Yes. When it comes to contraceptives, I don't think I know any man who is as informed as he should be. Men should be expected to know just as much about it as women do, and they should care just as much about it as women do. Yet time and time again, I've found myself explaining the absolute basics to partners, friends and colleagues. Even recently, I had to explain to a 23-year-old that women don't get their peri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/26 05:02 AM
3	Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages? Yeah, but the transfer itself would still be a matter of bodily autonomy. It would be far more invasive than just taking an abortion pill. Even if we had artificial wombs, your best bet to successfully transplant an embryo is by removing the whole original womb first. Definitely still a huge breach of autonomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 03:22 PM
2	Could artifitial wombs technology bring more drawbacks for women lives than advantages? How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/26 07:34 AM
1	Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid. Both your former and current mindset make a lot of sense when you've experienced something like that. A lot of people on here like to think that SA rarely happens, because it has never happened to them. I'm glad you grew out of your old mindset. Please remember that it's not a competition; regardless of which gender faces it more, your SA doesn't become any less valid. It's still real. It's still not okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 06:14 AM
7	For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex. Honestly, extremely valid. I once had a huge crush on a colleague. Our job had us cleaning theater floors for hours, so he'd often smell like sweat and deodorant. One shift, I finally mustered up the courage to tell him he smelled nice. He was shocked and said that he had been worried the whole time that he smelled bad/sweaty. I obviously didn't tell him that that was the part I liked though, lol. After we grew closer, he told me that that was the first compliment he had ever gotten from a girl.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 05:48 AM
1	the "nice guy" paradox: why rejecting "chivalrous" safety offers is a safety move in itself Why is it misandrist to be cautious?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 06:09 PM
2	the "nice guy" paradox: why rejecting "chivalrous" safety offers is a safety move in itself The majority of people do what is right, but that doesn't stop us from locking our doors, covering our drinks and keeping an eye on our wallets and phones. If it was your daughter, would you be fine with her being so reckless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/26 06:26 AM
2	Men of Reddit, do you think a man should have an opinion of how his wife is dressed? Actually it's not about whether you might cheat, it's about other men approaching. If the issue isn't cheating, why is it a problem if she gets approached?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 06:59 AM
2	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone, though..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 06:28 AM
8	The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness. Because they were still satisfied?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 06:22 AM
–	Ageism is proof that looks is where its at even for bluepillers How do they know their child is being (financially) abused if the child doesn't tell them, though? Also, a tautology is when the same thing is repeated in different words or phrasing. Neglectful parents isn't the same as a toxic age gap relationship, nor vice versa. It's not even a definitive precursor. Neglectful parents can still have a child who is in a good relationship. People can still be exploited when they have good parents. Their child can be private and reserved. Their child might hide…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 10:11 AM
–	Ageism is proof that looks is where its at even for bluepillers the only exploitative age gap relationships are the ones where the younger person comes from an unstable household/got a bad education or were working at a young age in entertainment or industries where children are used. I don't really agree with this, mainly because none of those things inherently make an age gap relationship exploitative. Rather, they increase the risk of being exploited. A person can have a bad education, marry someone 20 years their senior, and still live a happy, healthy a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 09:56 AM
6	LVM saying they prefer non-virgins but yet claiming to be “secure” is counterintuitive. Exactly this. When I lost my virginity, I thought my ex and I were having great sex. Many years later, I have come to understand that it was actually pretty horrible. I used to brag to my girlfriends about all the crazy and amazing things we did, and I somehow believed it, too. Meanwhile I faked every orgasm and never got a chance to figure out what I actually liked. I thought good sex meant that the man actually enjoyed himself and got to call all the shots while I basically "performed" for him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 10:35 AM
2	Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms? That's because vaginal orgasms are still clitoral orgasms, only it's caused by stimulating another part of the organ. Whether a woman can or can't orgasm from penetration is predominantly based on the distance between the internal part of the clitoris and the vaginal walls. If it isn't positioned just right, vaginal orgasms simply can't happen. However, just because there's not enough stimulation to climax, that doesn't mean that there is no stimulation at all. In this case, you can just imagine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 01:02 AM
1	QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”? I would, in the most sincere way possible, ask why it's so important to be the victim. It isn't a competition, and if it was, what is supposed to be the prize for the Victim Olympics? What's the point? "Women have it easier nowadays", so what? Whether I agree or disagree doesn't even matter. "Men are really the victims now and the ones that are truly discriminated against" I don't get the comparing. If it's true, why on earth would there be a need to compare? Why not say "men are being discrimin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 12:50 PM
1	Who gives more and who takes more: men vs women If that's what sex is like for you, you're not doing it right. When you're actually in the mood, you want to do things. Women are like that as well. If a woman just "lays down and expects the man to do everything without any actions from her side", and if she has no interest in satisfying herself during or even afterwards, then she's just not into it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 09:48 AM
1	Who gives more and who takes more: men vs women asking a man to explain something to you does not elicit frustration and disgust the way asking a woman to explain something does. This 100% comes down to the individual, not the sex. If anything, I believe it's more related to a person's upbringing and their own eagerness to learn. Someone who grew up with impatient/strict parents would probably inherit a similar temperament. On the other hand, people who are curious and naturally love to learn also naturally love to share. This isn't really ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 08:19 AM
2	Who gives more and who takes more: men vs women That's called masturbation...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 08:00 AM
6	Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms? I guess it's basically the same as sneezing from irritation in your right nostril as opposed to your left. Different stimulation, same organ, same result.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 07:51 AM
–	AI and it's effect on women's expectations with respect to online dating. This wouldn't make any sense. Dating apps aren't designed to match the perfect couples; they're designed to make money. Why on earth do you think it would work like that? If anything, dating apps absolutely prey on simps, orbiters and known perverts. They're the ones that bring in the most money. When it comes to online dating, oftentimes, women are the product. I don't use dating apps so I don't know the lingo, but I know you can pay money for perks like extra swipes and such. Women generally a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 08:02 AM
–	Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count? Because being fit is a good trait while being fat is not. Just like how rich is good and poor is bad. Fit men are fit because they work for it. It would be hypocritical for a fat woman to only want people who work on their body, because she doesn't work on her body. I'm a smoker. It would be hypocritical for me to only want people who don't smoke. If a non-smoker only wants to date smokers, it's not hypocritical. It's just odd, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 03:08 PM
5	Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women? It's crazy that people actually think like this... A woman's consequences are a man's actions. It removes responsibility from the man and instead blames the woman for his behavior... Let me guess: you think Iryna Zarutska also suffered the consequence of her choice to sit in front of a black man in a train, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 11:23 AM
6	Are there any positives to usual porn consumption? Tbh, I do want to add that as someone from one of those highly accessible countries, I feel porn also normalized sexual assault to the point where victims don't really feel inclined to speak up or go to the police anymore. There was a fragment on TV about a girl pressing charges on a guy who assaulted her on the street, and it shocked me because I've been in that situation plenty of times and never even thought to get law enforcement involved. It sparked a discussion with my parents, who come fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 01:12 PM
4	Do women like sober casual sex? Tbh, I feel like if you need alcohol or other substances in order to be ready for sex, you're just not ready for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 01:51 AM
–	Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use or am I just mindbroken by the internet? My bad, bro. When I type too fast, my brain sometimes gets the letters confused. I do know that "ratchet" originates from the word "wretched," but their definitions are still different. A wretched woman, for example, is a woman with a horrible personality. The word rarely gets used anymore in conversation, though it can still be found fairly often in literature. Generally, the word has a strong negative connotation. A ratchet woman, on the other hand, is a trashy and/or ghetto woman. They're usu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 10:54 AM
11	Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use or am I just mindbroken by the internet? I don't know... I've never heard any real life woman talk about men (or their dicks) in that way. I don't know what women you hang out with but if they use that kind of terminology, they sound kind of... ratchet... ... or also just severely influenced by social media, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 04:26 PM
12	How many are looking for a financially equal relationship? I'm from the Netherlands. There's a reason they call it "going Dutch." It's basically the norm here. I'm a bit more traditional and I love it when my man pays, but I give him my card when the bill comes. I guess I just like the feeling of being taken care of like that, even when it's still my money. I'd prefer a financially equal relationship if it's possible and fair. If one person makes 2k and the other makes 4k a month, I think it's fair for one person to pay a bit more than the other. If one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 08:20 PM
-1	In 2025, would you rather your child be male or female? Male. My brother and I would have different rules growing up, with most of them leaning in his favor. My brother was allowed to stay out longer and go further. While I wasn't allowed to leave the neighborhood, my brother was allowed to go to the city. If my brother didn't text, everyone was calm. If I didn't, my mom would blow up my phone until I'd finally see her calls and messages. I hated it back then, but as I got older, I started to understand why we were treated so differently. I work unti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 08:08 PM
3	What is it you actually like about men? Fair. I have ADHD, as do most of my friends, and being with them can absolutely drain my social battery in minutes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 02:37 AM
3	Is it fair to pressure men into taking testosterone? Then explain why the pill and IUD's are so common as birth control methods...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 01:24 AM
–	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. They didn't deny that, though..? Newborn babies sleep about twice as much as regular adults. They don't sleep 16 hours straight, though. They wake up every 2-3 hours, cry for food and a diaper change, and then (hopefully) go back to sleep afterwards. I don't get your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 08:13 AM
2	Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges? I can stick out to some women in a positive way by being romantic, having an open mind, taking a shower, loving to give oral, being enthusiastic, lasting 10 minutes while not going slow, and having an above average member. I hate how right you are. Over the years, I had to teach multiple men how to clean their dicks because they didn't know how to wash themselves and never cared to figure it out by themselves. It's also becoming more and more common for men to see foreplay as a chore rather than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 10:00 AM
1	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? I don't really get your point. I'm talking about a perfect, impossible world scenario. Humanity is shit and that's why there are shitty jobs that don't need to exist. I said that I'm against the military in the context of the thread. I'm not the kind of person who encourages others to become soldiers, I'm against the draft, I believe it's an occupation that violates a person's human rights and also comes with a huge set of risks to their safety and health. Just because humans are terrible and fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 11:58 AM
1	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? Okay, let me lay it out for you in a way you might understand... Me: "I'm also against the military." You: "So who protects the country against the military of other countries? If you are against a country having a military, what is your alternative solution to provide for natonal defense?" I am not against a country having a military. I never said that. I said I am against the military. If you remove the military, questions about who will protect us against the military of other countries would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 10:48 AM
2	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? What's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 09:42 AM
1	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? I guess a good way to check if she's really interested in the date is to suggest something that's free. A walk in the park or the forest, free community events like neighborhood concerts or festivals, going to the beach... I also once read a comment on here from a guy who likes to go out for drinks and play games with his date. Simple games like cards and stuff. Whoever loses has to pay for the next round of drinks. I even did this with my boyfriend once and it was really fun since there were ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 04:13 AM
4	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? That's really deep... I love how, instead of elaborating, you're just throwing a bunch of words together to make your bundle of nonsense sound eloquent. How poetic. I reckon you won't care to elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 02:38 PM
2	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? I literally started this thread, lol. Being forced to stock shelves for eight hours against your will for a single day without monetary compensation will not traumatize you. Being forced to have sex for eight hours against your will for a single day without monetary compensation will traumatize you. This was my original comment. You paraphrased this as... “Being enslaved will not traumatize you unless you are a woman and the slavery is sexual in nature.” The only act that "being enslaved" could …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 02:37 PM
2	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? I mean, I thought that logic was kind of... obvious..? If someone only wants to do something if they get something in return, then they're doing it to get that something in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 02:28 PM
2	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? If my boss makes me stock shelves in order for me to earn my wage, am I being enslaved by my boss? You might wish to reread the post. The reference was to stocking shelves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 02:23 PM
8	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? I'm also against the military.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 01:16 PM
6	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? Lol, no. Going on a date isn't the same as having sex. We are biologically hardwired to experience sex as a deeply emotional and intimate experience. It's not uncommon for people, but especially women, to cry after sex from being overwhelmed because it's so intense. Dates, especially the ones you mentioned, aren't nearly as emotional of an experience. If it's a dinner date, you'd basically be eating together. Anyone can do that with anyone. Family, friends, colleagues- even strangers. It would s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 01:16 PM
3	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? well it is disengenious because we would have to talk about intimacy, consent, bodily autonomy etc and people specially on reddit refuse to -> make it impossible to compare stuff in a credible way... I don't really know what you're trying to communicate with that arrow... Nevertheless, I am willing to compare stuff in a credible way. I'm not sure what you want to compare exactly, though. btw if we talk about health risks the soldier or coal miner etc destroys his body "one example dust entering …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 08:21 AM
3	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? id say thats a cheap excuse about morality and a double standard but whatever... Elaborate..? people are disengenious about it and consent or bodily autonomy anyways... Once again... Elaborate..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 06:24 AM
13	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? In another comment, I compared it to animal cruelty. When animal testing is done for medical purposes, it's a lot more forgivable than when it's done for cosmetic purposes since one is a necessity while the other is absolutely not. If someone only wants to have sex with you if you pay them, then it means they don't want to have sex with you; they just want to get paid. If someone doesn't consent without being bribed, they're not consenting at all. To me, having sex with someone who doesn't want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 06:23 AM
7	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? I don't know much about coal mining so I can't speak too much on it. However, sex work is entirely for entertainment purposes while coal mining is not. This shifts the morality since one is a necessity and the other is a "luxury". I'm not going to deny that coal mining isn't dangerous, but on an emotional level, sex work is far more damaging. Since sex is an intimate act between (usually) two people, it affects sex workers in an emotional, interpersonal and sexual way. It's difficult to compare …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:56 AM
5	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? He was referring to being to do dangerous jobs, like slave mining. Where? The only provided example was given by OP about stocking shelves being akin to slavery. Nowhere did the other commenter mention anything about dangerous jobs or hard labor. Hard larbor slavery is ignored I think it's important to differentiate between labor that is necessary for survival and labor that is solely for providing entertainment. To use animal cruelty as a comparison, animal testing for medical purposes is a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:40 AM
1	There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girl Hard agree. I do think that at 30, a difference of ~5 years could be totally fine depending on the circumstances, but anything more than that would be in red flag territory. People in their 20's are still figuring out their lives and are learning to settle into society. In my opinion, psychologically speaking, someone's 20's can be as significant as their teens. When I was 20, I got with a guy who was 7 years older than me. While I was set to go to uni, he already had a steady career and a house…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:12 AM
10	There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girl Then why did you bring feminists up to begin with..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 04:50 AM
12	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? Men can get raped, too. Men can get traumatized from being raped, too. I don't know why you think men don't experience trauma after being raped, but that's just false. To put it bluntly: Regardless of sex or sexuality, being fucked in the ass against your will is a lot more traumatizing than ringing up someone's groceries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 04:15 AM
1	What do you think separates women who have good experiences with casual sex from those who don't? I mean yeah, but the question was about what separates women who have good experiences with casual sex from those who don't. The original commenter's answer was a bit blunt and generalized, but it's not like there's no truth in it. I absolutely believe that women who haven't been through trauma are much more likely to have good experiences with casual sex than those who have. Trauma causes a host of issues that could negatively affect a person's sexuality. Dissociation, people-pleasing tendencie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 03:40 AM
2	What do you think separates women who have good experiences with casual sex from those who don't? I think, at its core, this is exactly it. If she's relaxed enough, she would feel comfortable enough to be vocal about her needs. If her partner gets her to that point, he'd also be the kind of person to listen to her needs which would make the experience good. If she can't relax, her partner can never get her to relax. If she's able to relax but her partner can't/won't read her cues, she won't relax. In both cases, the woman will remain unrelaxed and they can't move on to focus on her needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 03:27 AM
2	What do you think separates women who have good experiences with casual sex from those who don't? I have low inhibitions, I like going 'all out' when I have sex and Im very comfortable being a sexual person. Unrelated from the original post, but is this something you learned or has it always come naturally to you? I'm the opposite; while I'm very sexual, I'm also very inhibited. It ends up making me feel extremely guilty for even wanting pleasure at all, and when I'm on the receiving end, I find myself worrying and apologizing for any POTENTIAL inconvenience, no matter how irrational. I know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 03:18 AM
20	Question for feminists: If paying for sex with prostitutes always non-consensual since that consent is bought with money, wouldn’t that make all paid labour also non-consensual since that labour is compensated with money? To me, sex shouldn't be considered labor to begin with. It comes with risks like pregnancy, STD's/STI's, permanent physical trauma as well as psychological and lasting emotional trauma like PTSD, anxiety, depression, eating disorders etc. Sex would never be an act that could be regulated enough to the point of it being suitable for labor. Being forced to stock shelves for eight hours against your will for a single day without monetary compensation will not traumatize you. Being forced to have se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 03:05 AM
9	Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband? I guess it just wasn't his jam. Perhaps the jokes were too saucy for him, but I don't think he'd open up about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 02:57 AM
9	Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband? It's absolutely jarring that females expect men to PAY for their jars AND open them!! And what does she bring to the table?? Because it's definitely not the pickles!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 02:16 AM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. Yes, I would. I dated a femboy for a bit, lol. Generally, I do prefer more dominant men but that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone who is less dominant. If I told the femboy, who was obviously submissive and feminine, that he should "man up", then I'd be enforcing gender roles. I don't force traits upon him that aren't his based on his gender. If I'm into a guy, I chase him. I plan dates, give gifts, initiate sex etc. Maybe it's because I'm (Western) European, but gender roles are much less o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 01:52 AM
1	If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles. I'm against gender roles in the sense that they shouldn't be an obligation. A person who doesn't abide by their "role" shouldn't be seen as bad. I don't expect men to do all those things. I don't consider someone less of a man if he doesn't do all of those things. I also don't consider someone less of a man if he doesn't do all of those things all of the time. Everyone's different and we all have different preferences. So long as that's allowed, I don't feel like it's a matter of gender roles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 06:01 AM
1	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Elaborate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 02:51 AM
0	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships To be fair, you're 28, not 30+. A lot can change in the years that follow college/uni, and you're much closer to obtaining financial stability and independence. The average person also receives their bachelor's degree at a younger age, so you're more of an exception than the rule. I don't even believe in categorizing something as complex as life itself into stages in the first place. It's too arbitrary. How so? We all enter stages at different ages, or we might skip some completely, but to deny …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 05:57 AM
2	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships It's not about being a "fully grown adult" so much as it's about two people being in very different stages of their life. A 21-year-old often still goes to school, doesn't have a stable income and career, lives at home, and hasn't completely figured out their life yet. This means that they're not self-sufficient and makes them vulnerable. Someone above the age of 30 often does have their life figured out. This difference in independence can create a power imbalance. I was in a small age gap rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 04:40 AM
4	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? The problem with that is that it's still very performative and meant to please the audience instead of the woman. Actual sex is pretty boring to look at. There's a lot less movement, a lot less noise, less expressiveness... But yeah, I also agree with that last part. Isn't it also just a source of pride to know that you can satisfy your woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 03:06 AM
3	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Oh, wow. I didn't expect such a validating and empathetic response on a sub like this. It's truly a breath a fresh air on here whenever people can acknowledge nuance in other people's experiences. Thank you. Ipso facto, these have got to be flings that they're sour about. That's a fair assumption/conclusion. I also agree that in those instances, people should just choose better. You're also right about the kind of men women generally are attracted to regarding casual sex. I work at a casino with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 03:01 AM
2	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? A lot of what you say holds merit. In truth, I am bitter about how quick people are to accuse women (and, in turn, me) of only chasing "Chads" and then playing victim after said Chads pump and dump them. I'm an unfortunate case with a relatively hefty dating resume. Started young and haven't always been in the right headspace, so I guess that explains a lot. When it comes to "casual" relationships, I've made my fair share of mistakes. I stopped having casual sex after my teens, so a lot of those…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 12:49 AM
3	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? "Most men aren't assholes. You're picking the assholes! Just pick the men who aren't assholes!!" Great solution! Truly! Tell me, what do such empathetic and considerate partners look like? When you go for "confident" self-assured men who think their shit doesn't stink, it's not a surprise when he treats you and what you feel like an afterthought. When I go for a guy who is the opposite of that, it is a surprise when he treats me like that. That's the issue. If they were dismissive from the start…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 11:09 PM
6	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Yeah, he was a genuinely fucked up guy, especially sexually. He used to yank on my nipples whenever he'd see them, even when I was just changing. It hurt a lot so I always told him to stop and even suggested he'd squeeze my breasts instead. When I suggested this again while we had a smoke, he calmly reached out, grabbed my breast as if he was about to thumb-wrestle it and squeezed so hard that it actually bruised my tit. I have tons of appalling anecdotes regarding this guy. He really views the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 11:34 AM
4	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Not really? I did experience both the best and worst of it with serious partners, if that matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 07:33 AM
0	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 07:27 AM
5	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? Both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 06:53 AM
18	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? I can't speak for everyone, but for me, it absolutely elevates the experience. As someone who can't orgasm from penetration, the definition of "satisfying" might not be the same as that of men since they usually can and do orgasm from it. Penetration will never truly be sexually satisfying for me; it's more emotionally fulfilling. If my partner focuses on my pleasure before his own, it's a huge turn-on. When I am satisfied, I am far more excited about satisfying him in return and it doesn't feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 05:59 AM
7	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? If it even gets to that point. Women are expected to be vocal and performative during sex, so it's pretty hard to focus on your own pleasure. I hate it so much. Women are notorious for needing more time and attention to orgasm, yet men are the ones who are socially allowed to be quiet and focused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 05:27 AM
16	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? I genuinely think it's because of porn. Most porn is so focused on the man's pleasure, it teaches them that that is what normal sex is supposed to look like. Women there usually don't cum, and if they do, it's obviously fake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 04:03 AM
33	Is it true, in your opinion, that many/a lot of guys aren’t good at sex? I keep hearing this sentiment. Why would this be true? In my experience, yes, it's true. Many/most guys are simply not good at sex. What determines the quality isn't things like size or body-count, but one's ability to listen and adapt. Most guys I've slept with aren't actually interested in going out of their way to make a woman feel good. They believe their penis is a gift and that it's more than enough to make a woman cum within a handful of minutes. My ex once told me I was entitled for asking him to stimulate my clit. He "educated" me on how I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 03:59 AM
1	It is much more about the penetrative factor I want to point out that there's a difference between queer people and the LGBTQ+ community in itself. One clear way that biphobia is present is with how fundings are distributed. Organizations supporting bisexuals only receive a small fraction of what non-bisexual LGBTQ+ organizations receive. Even though my country is big on pride, I never actually associated myself with the community. Because of that, I don't have any good experiences or bad experiences with it. I have heard of a lot of insta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 03:41 AM
1	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can You're right that it sounds more inwardly aggressive. I do think that it's sort of bittersweet that it rained when he died. Based on the kind of music he made, I'm sure he'd have loved that. I remember another song I listened to a lot that might fit the bill: Wolf in Sheep's Clothing by Set It Off. Baa baa, black sheep, have you any soul? No sir, by the way, what the hell are morals? Jack be nimble, Jack be quick Jill's a little whore and her alibis are turning tricks So could you Tell me how yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 04:15 AM
1	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can Does the extreme paranoia cause any lasting harm, though? For me, no. It causes me to believe everything (and I mean literally everything) is a lie, and that everyone is scheming together to try and kill me. This type of paranoia alone could definitely end up with someone losing their life. Weed may also contribute to the onset of schizophrenia, as well as induce schizophrenic episodes. Girls should learn about periods. There’s no reason boys should at that young of an age. Why shouldn't they? W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 03:11 AM
1	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can It's a beautiful song. I know it's not as aggressive as Vampire, and I'm not sure if I know any song that would compare, but that's mainly just because I don't listen to that kind of music. While Vampire is about a girl that already left the relationship, Cherry Wine is about a man who is still in love with his abuser. I've been in an abusive relationship before and it really illustrates how illogical those feelings are. And it's worth it, it's divine I have this some of the time The way she sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 01:49 AM
2	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can Weed is not harmful. It is, or at least it can be. I know plenty of people who are addicted to weed. Addiction is, in itself, harmful. It can also induce psychosis, as is the case with me, my mom and my brother. I've had plenty of times where I end up puking in the bushes after trying weed again, hoping that it would finally "hit right". I thought that if I kept trying, I would eventually experience a nice high instead of immediately spiraling into delusions and extreme paranoia. Children do nee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 01:08 AM
1	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can No, I wouldn't. I love songs like Cherry Wine, which discusses a man who's in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship with a woman. I don't feel offended, because I don't cheat and beat my partner. Men can sing about being abused. I don't find it offensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 07:51 PM
2	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can Just because you're fine with them, doesn't explain why they'd less bad than talking about periods, though? I'm Dutch, so I'm obviously fine with weed and have done plenty of drugs myself. I'm fine with them, but they're worse and more harmful than periods. And Kendrick isn't a pedophile, but he raps about it, which means he's exposing children to the concept of pedophiles. Olivia only mentioned her period. She didn't show it, and yet you have a problem with it because "think about the children!…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 07:48 PM
2	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can How are periods worse than drugs and pedophiles to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 11:03 AM
9	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can If a man wrote an equivalent song about a woman, would you be offended? Aren't there plenty? They're not misogynistic if they're about specific people. If she was singing about a woman, the story would still be the same. She's not singing about how he's bad because he's a man; she's singing about how he's a bad person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 10:57 AM
26	Female performers can get away with more than male performers can Olivia Rodrigo talked about being on her period on stage, and the audience included all ages. Imagine if a male artist talked about the wet dream he had had the previous night in front of an all-ages audience. They are very different. One includes cum, the other includes blood. There is nothing remotely sexual about periods. It's also something many, many young girls feel a lot of shame about. I would take minutes as a teen opening the packaging of my pad in the school bathroom out of fear anyon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 10:53 AM
2	It is much more about the penetrative factor It's not the penetrative factor; it's the fact that it's another man. Lesbianism is fetishized and men don't consider women as a threat, even if it stares them right in the face. Society considers women as less sexually valid than men. This can be seen with bisexual people, who are commonly rejected by the LGBTQ+ community, as well as society as a whole. Bisexual women get questioned whether they're actually bisexual or if they're just going through a phase/trying to be quirky. In the eyes of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 10:24 AM
13	If women claim to hate guys who pay for sex workers then why do they buy male hookers for bachelorette parties? Because men shame women who have sex by calling them whores, sluts, hoes, low-value, for the streets, loose, worn-out etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 10:07 AM
16	If women claim to hate guys who pay for sex workers then why do they buy male hookers for bachelorette parties? Can you show some examples of women like this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 10:06 AM
2	If most women don’t care about size & can’t orgasm from PIV, isn’t PIV sex inherently misogynistic? PIV sex isn't inherently misogynistic. Considering PIV sex as the sole focus and goal of sex is misogynistic. The way our culture is built, sex does mainly revolve around the pleasure of men. I partly blame porn for this, as well as the fact that female sexuality has always been frowned upon to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 06:05 PM
2	How did you girls meet your significant other? School, club, party, work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:57 PM
–	Most women can only be with men who deny a part of themselves, and so male mental health is in conflict with heterosexuality. Porn, or any sex work, is nearly always done solely for the money. There will always be exceptions, but a general rule of thumb is that if they're doing it for the sex, they'd be doing it for free. The moment money is involved, sex stops being sex for the person who is getting paid. It has become transactional. Sex is supposed to be comfortable, but with money comes pressure. In comparison to porn, the way the average woman gets off is a LOT less eventful. Usually, the men in the videos are pret…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 05:30 PM
26	Most women can only be with men who deny a part of themselves, and so male mental health is in conflict with heterosexuality. Seriously, what percentage of women are disgusted by porn? By sex being shared more publicly/liberally or with more people? Or "random sex", even in exchange of great monetary compensation? You are confusing porn for sex, as many men do. To most men, sex starts when they enter a woman and ends when they cum. This mentality has become so much worse after porn became mainstream, and on top of that, women are asked, expected and pressured to perform sex acts that not only make them uncomfortable, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 08:17 AM
3	Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist? As well as the people in the videos potentially being underage and/or raped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:47 AM
5	Why do women hate guys who use OnlyFans when it’s pro feminist? Why... comment on a debate sub if you don't want other people to debate you..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:45 AM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? The US isn't the whole world. Not everyone is American.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 09:41 PM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? Why should we normalize having sex with people who don't want to have sex with us?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 02:49 PM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? This is about prostitution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 02:30 PM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? This is where the yikes comes in. I can't understand why someone would WANT to have sex with anyone who is just "consenting" as a means to an end. The moment I see that my partner isn't into it, I dry up. I can't respect someone who has sex with people who don't want to have sex, in whatever form that may be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 01:56 PM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? Sex shouldn't be a job or a chore. If I'm doing the dishes against my will, I'm an adult. If I'm having sex against my will, I'm being raped. Treating sex as something women have to do is not something women are into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 11:54 AM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? Paid consent isn't true consent. They're not having sex because they want to have sex; they're having sex because they want food on the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 10:52 AM
10	Women would not make the decisions they want men to make if they were us Yeah? Do many women really state that they would love to be able to have sex with women without the risk of getting pregnant? Do they really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 01:59 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do That's not the same as blue eyes and blonde hair though..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 06:41 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do I just can't relate on the height whining. That's such a weird Anerican thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:40 PM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do If that's all it takes, why is it that the vast majority (86%) of people getting plastic surgery are women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 05:02 AM
–	Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do Women don't really care about a man having blonde hair and blue eyes, though..? If anything, it's a standard that gets pushed onto women way more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 04:59 AM
–	It's much harder for men to build a hot body than it is for women. Hair removal? Since we're going for hot, I'm not talking about shaving since every woman is expected to shave, and even shaving comes with a lot of ingrown hairs, razor burn and nicks. When waxing or epilating, you're literally removing the hair at the root. Imagine doing that on your arms, legs, armpits AND pubic area. You can't tell me you don't think that that isn't painful. Also, women work out too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 11:58 AM
–	Women’s bodies are respected and protected more than men’s Explain how it is less severe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 09:37 AM
7	Women are bad at estimating penis size. I think nearly every guy has measured his dick at least once in his life. When hair stylists ask how much hair has to be cut, it's not like their clients are taking out rulers and measuring the length of their hair. I also don't really know people who answer with specific inches. They either show a picture, ask for the dead ends to be removed, or discuss the new hairstyle that they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 04:33 AM
17	Women are bad at estimating penis size. We generally don't measure our hair...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 04:25 AM
1	Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want. I'm a short, young woman who is considered attractive. First off, I want to say that the idea that any woman can find a partner without any issue is false. It absolutely depends on your looks. I know women who don't get any attention and who struggle getting a date, let alone a relationship. They're there, but they're invisible. When I hear men talking about going on vacation by themselves, I get envious. I could never see myself traveling the world alone, and I've talked to plenty of people abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 03:09 AM
1	Is there a theoretical threshold where you would start feeling sorry for men for their position in online dating? Being spotted on a dating app is social self-harm. People who want an ego boost obviously care about social status, so they obviously wouldn't get on dating apps for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/25 04:02 AM
4	Q4W: Do You Feel Like You Get Vilified Too Much On This Sub? What makes you think you're the norm instead of the exception? If women on a grand scale were incapable of feeling love, it wouldn't make sense for relationships to be designed the way they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 12:21 AM
9	Q4W: Do You Feel Like You Get Vilified Too Much On This Sub? Unless you are every woman on the planet, you couldn't have lived it. Love is an emotion that you feel personally. You can't determine whether women do or do not feel love. You can only feel your own emotions. What makes you think you are more capable of assessing women's emotions than actual women themselves? Once again, if I say men are incapable of love, would you agree? Would that be reality? It wouldn't, right? You are a man and I'm sure you believe you are capable of love. I know plenty of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:56 PM
7	Q4W: Do You Feel Like You Get Vilified Too Much On This Sub? Lol, what? She's not speaking for you. You can't make up something about another person and get mad at them when they tell you you're wrong. If I say men are incapable of love, would you agree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 11:11 PM
4	Is the reason reason for the explosion of female teacher on male student sexual harassment is because of feminism ? So therefore all the training on sexual harassment is basically men as the predators and women as victims and never does it mention that women can be perpetrators. If you look at western culture pre-feminism, do you really think that they saw women of even being capable of raping men? Do you think that men back then were taken seriously if they spoke up about their sexual trauma? Men were not recognized legally as victims of rape until only a few decades ago. It was only after the emergence of f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 01:05 AM
6	the game plan for women? Not everyone feels the same, though. Those who work towards their desired end state aren't those who are satisfied with what they currently have. Working towards the future is good; it's important to have stability and ambition. But I wonder what happens to those people once they reach their goal. Will they be happy then? Will the goalpost just be moved? Focusing on the future prevents someone from enjoying the present. It's all about ensuring that the future will be better, yet it will never be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 04:01 AM
5	Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenience I seriously don't get the men on here. They shit on feminism, yet also shit on the things feminism is fighting. Independence is gendered because for the longest time, women weren't allowed to be independent. Even when they were, it was still very much looked down upon. That's why there are so many women proudly exclaiming that they are independent. It is a relatively novel concept. And, of course, there is a lot of pushback. Women are getting backlash for remaining childfree, becoming career-ori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 10:06 AM
7	Why is it considered anti abortion to be anti child support ? Oh yeah, sure. I've birthed 18 babies from 19 different men, all of whom are now spending their life savings on child support. Without their knowledge, I've already donated the children to charity and am living alone in Dubai, chewing on condoms and trapping rich sheiks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 05:39 AM
3	Why is it considered anti abortion to be anti child support ? How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 05:36 AM
10	Why is it considered anti abortion to be anti child support ? A woman doesn't need to cum in order to conceive a child. It's literally the man's choice to cum and insert his sperm or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 03:06 AM
17	Why is it considered anti abortion to be anti child support ? "Women will go to the store before you and poke holes in the condoms." "Women will go through your mail and poke holes in the condoms you ordered." "Women will go to the manufacturing company and poke holes in the condoms before you order them."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 03:04 AM
1	Why is it considered anti abortion to be anti child support ? Do you have friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 03:01 AM
–	Men face more sexism than women and that is due to society pandering towards women and favouring women more. I say this because statistics have revealed that women are usually awarded child custody in more than 90% of divorce cases. In the case of child custody, I won't deny that mothers are definitely favored. You've put the 90% statistic in bold, yet you share no link or source. I can't find anything about it online either. Where did you get this number from? Regardless, it's important to note that even if women are awarded …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 11:16 PM
3	"Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality. But men are not an oppressed group? So it can't be compared to an oppressed group..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 05:22 PM
1	"Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality. According to the USSC, ~94% of sexual abuse offenders were men. Pretending like men and women are equally violent when the perpetrators of violent crimes have been predominantly male is willfully oblivious. As a woman, being raped by a man isn't unlikely. Being raped by a woman has never been a fear, let alone a reality, of mine. Once I get molested, assaulted or raped by a woman, my views will surely change. Until then, my fears will be based on my current experiences. Women won't empathize wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 05:11 PM
2	"Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality. Is it true, though? Have you only ever been victimized by black men? How many? And if it's not about sex/gender, why still clarify that it's a man? Have you never been victimized by black women? Because if it's only black men but not black women, then the issue is still with sex and not with race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 03:45 PM
0	"Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality. I don't know, it doesn't really make sense to me. Women are most often victimized by men, regardless of race. Specifically narrowing it down to both race and sex instead of just sex will make it unjustly racially motivated, because men of all races attack women. If I'm alone at night and see a white woman walking towards me, I feel reasonably safe. If I see a black woman walking towards me, I feel reasonably safe. If I see a white man walking towards me, I feel unsafe. If I see a black man walki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 03:37 PM
-3	"Everything is misogyny" is confirmation bias, not reality. Maybe it's good to take a second and think about why men were forced to go to war while women had to stay at home. I'd reckon there were many mothers who would have done anything to switch places with their sons if they could. Throughout history, all over the world, soldiers were considered to be one of the most noble and honorable professions. Spartans, shinobi, knights, samurai- the list goes on. They were the weapons of whoever they serve. In war, countries didn't force men to fight because t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 02:57 PM
3	I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from men Your anecdote also made me realize that there are different kinds of confessions, and not every move made has equal weight. Some years ago during a group hangout, I got introduced to a new guy who was a friend of a friend. We chatted for a bit and he told me he found me attractive and asked if I wanted to go out sometime. I rejected him and said I'd love to be friends, but nothing more. We're still friends to this day. I had another friend who suggested we could try dating each other. We had bee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 04:27 AM
22	I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from men I somewhat disagree, but that's more from my own personal experience. when a woman says she "just wants to be friends," it just means no about 70% of the time. The remaining 30% of the time, she may continue leading you on, trying to maintain a friendship. In those cases, yes—she’s keeping you as a backup. I've been asked out a lot. Because of this, I've put many guys in the "friendzone". Call me delusional or oblivious, but I don't consider maintaining a friendship afterwards as leading them on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 01:24 AM
8	Assortative mating is said to be women's ideal mating strategy. But it's an illusion hiding hypergamy. Literally nobody gives a fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 11:09 AM
8	Assortative mating is said to be women's ideal mating strategy. But it's an illusion hiding hypergamy. From both your comments I take that you're either a bot or manic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 10:26 AM
–	Assortative mating is said to be women's ideal mating strategy. But it's an illusion hiding hypergamy. Imagine giving birth to a baby, raising him to the best of your ability, watching him grow up and hoping he will make you proud by being the best version of himself... ... and he turns into a guy who spends his days on Reddit, obsessively talking shit about the opposite sex because he doesn't know how to be happy and needs something to blame. I feel for your mother. She must be very disappointed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 09:36 AM
1	The worm question indicates/implies that many woman's love is conditional and inauthentic. At least more so than a man's love. This is hilariously pitiful... The "would you love me if I was a worm?" question is a satirical twist on the typical "would you love me if X" questions that people, and especially women, ask. It's ironic, not literal. For 1, yeah. Nobody would date a worm. That says nothing about their character other than the fact that they're not attracted to literal worms. Same thing, of course. If I was a worm, my boyfriend wouldn't be my boyfriend. That would be really weird. I'd also not have any brains to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 04:40 AM
–	A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a fly You say you studied sociology and yet your responses still come across as passive-aggressive, close-minded and salty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 08:32 AM
2	Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ? I got it. First, you’re basing a lot of this off of interactions on social media, which is primarily thought and content driven by men who really don’t know what they’re talking about and lack game. Other than Reddit and YouTube, I don't have social media. I've talked to plenty of guys who look down on promiscuity and actively shame on and hate women who partake in casual sex, even though the guys themselves also partake in it. While I don't get directly influenced by social media, those around …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 12:13 AM
3	Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ? The glorification of female virginity. The obsession with a woman's body count. The way that words like slut, whore, hoe etc. are used to put women down for their sexuality. (the concept of slut-shaming) The lock and key analogy. The myth that the more men a woman sleeps with, the more her vagina will "wear out." The excuse given to justify why women are deserving of this hate while men are not, is because it's easy for women to get sex while it's an achievement for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:56 PM
0	Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ? I have no clue why he talks like that, lol. He uses big words that he doesn't understand the meaning of to try to appear smart and uses them incorrectly. I think he's trying to say that any and everyone has more than one option. Otherwise every other option chosen by people who support your worldview wouldn't make any sense. "Any yet everyone" isn't a thing and doesn't make sense. "Heuristic" makes no sense in this sentence either. "Espoused" means adopted/embraced. I don't know why he used it i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:40 PM
1	Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ? Crazy whataboutism here, especially when women's sexual experiences ARE seen as low value and deserving of disrespect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:26 PM
4	Question for the Women on this sub who regularly go out to bars and clubs. It's nice that she got such a positive first impression of you, though. Sad that it didn't work out. Definitely be less kissy and feely. Get to know her first. It's not that physical contact is forbidden, but it should be used sparingly and wisely. Don't use it to make her feel like a piece of meat that you just want to put your hands on. Women know that if you're quick to touch her, you're quick to touch anyone. It won't make you look good and it won't make her feel good. Instead, use it to mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:21 AM
3	Question for the Women on this sub who regularly go out to bars and clubs. Yes, that's great! Being able to form a connection before the night ends is really important when it comes to leaving a lasting impression. In my opinion as well, especially in this setting, don't be too handsy. When alcohol is involved it's easy to just go with the flow, but fun experiences like that can definitely end up seeming pretty trashy once the alcohol's gone the next morning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 03:21 AM
3	CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. Ravikant Do... do you not understand the definitions of vague and abstract..? The definition of TRP isn't "The strategy/strategies one uses to attain sex as an outcome." That, once again, is too vague and abstract. Be more concrete. What strategies are used? How are they used? How useful are they? Why is sex the endgoal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 03:16 AM
2	Question for the Women on this sub who regularly go out to bars and clubs. I feel like I could literally be borderline fucking a girl and she still won't want to see me after. I've made out with girls, danced with them, felt them up, and still nothing after the night is over. I can see how the dancing and touching can be fun, but it's meaningless. The best chemistry I've had in clubs wasn't on the dance floor, but in the smoking area. I remember this one time where I met a guy at the start of the night. We went out for a smoke together and stayed there for hours, just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 03:09 AM
4	CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. Ravikant No, of course not. That's vague and abstract. If you could explain how it is a "toolbox of sexual strategies," it would make things a lot more clear. What are the tools? How are they used? How useful are they? What's the endgoal and why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 02:50 AM
5	CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. Ravikant Even just the definition of TRP isn't clear to the point that those who identify as red-pilled have opposite ideas of what it means to be red-pilled. It seems like there is no general consensus. Sure, you can say that it's a community/movement that focuses on self-improvement and figuring out gender/sex differences in order to become socially/sexually/romantically successful. But when you shine a light on it to see how it operates, you just find a burnt-out dumpster fire. It's a sad and sorry si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:50 AM
5	CMV: TRP works because it operates on this premise; “Philosophy is just when you find the hidden generalisable truths, amongst the specific experiences you’ve had in life.” ~ N. Ravikant take what’s useful; discard the rest That's reasonable in literally any scenario. That also absolutely isn't what TRP is. If anything, it's the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:08 AM
9	Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa? It's as therapeutic as self harm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 11:28 PM
13	Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa? Complaining about it isn't going to fix it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 09:29 PM
14	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? I have a BMI of ~22 (still working on gaining more weight though) and I definitely prefer the before. In the after, his head looks a lot bigger and out of proportion. Generally, the whole bodybuilder look doesn't really look human to most regular people, so unless the woman is into that specific scene as well, she likely won't prefer the after version.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:53 PM
1	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women why on dating apps almost every woman over 27 has the tag "looking for a relationship"? Because it's a dating app? Most women aren't interested in finding casual sex online, so the main reason for why they'd use an app like that to begin with is to find a date. 2) why single women over 40 are the biggest users of antidepressants? Technically single, but not just single. It's divorced, separated and/or widowed women who take the most antidepressants. For one, women are more likely to seek mental …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 07:03 AM
0	A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date them Where does it say that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 10:58 AM
0	A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date them A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date them This is the title. Demisexuals don't complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date them. It is estimated that around 1% of the population falls somewhere on the asexuality spectrum. According to this source, roughly 1% of asexuals identify as men. Demisexuality gets placed under the asexuality umbrella (asexual, greysexual, demisexual etc.), meanin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 03:51 AM
0	A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date them ...I'm not talking about men who naturally develop feelings for a girl after getting to become her friend or are fine with being friends with an attractive woman even if she doesn't want to date them/is taken. Demisexuality: a sexual orientation in which a person feels sexually attracted to someone only after they've developed a close emotional bond with them. Forming a bond doesn't guarantee a person will feel a sexual attraction, but the bond is needed before sexual activity is even possible. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:50 AM
2	A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date them This isn't about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:42 AM
2	A culture that centres female pain struggles to acknowledge when women cause it Future romantic prospects or dates had a differing opinion, that I could have “defended myself” or they couldn’t have hit me “that bad”. That's disgusting. It doesn't matter if you could have defended yourself; you should have never had to defend yourself in the first place. I've been abused before, and even with (most cases of) physical abuse, the damage is still mainly emotional. Being slapped isn't bad because of the physical pain, but rather because of the implication and intent behind it. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 11:41 PM
8	CMV: "women are less likely to date bisexual men" is just an attempt to frame us as homophobic Bisexual here. Biphobia is common in both heterosexual people, as well as those in the LGBTQ+ community. Simply but, bisexuals are too gay to be straight and too straight to be gay. People often think that those who claim to be bi are simply going through a phase. For bi women, they say they're going to grow out of their attraction to women. For bi men, they say they'll eventually come out of the closet completely and are just hiding their homosexuality. Men also tend to sexualize lesbianism, so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 06:16 AM
0	The root of the orgasm gap seems to be genital mutilation more than anything else Let me ask you a question... If I compare the hardships of being a retired office worker to the struggles of being a war veteran, would that seem reasonable? Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 09:04 AM
3	The root of the orgasm gap seems to be genital mutilation more than anything else The foreskin has a lot of nerve endings. Why wouldn't that make sense? If you google "can circumcision make you last longer?" you will see a bunch of articles and discussions about this because it's a fairly common belief. Lol, that's not why I think people don't do it. Rather, I think people generally don't think about the future sexual stamina of their infant. When you look at your child, it's not normal to think: "I want to circumcise so you can fuck better." That would be super creepy. I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 08:55 AM
2	Women who ask their male partners to not use condoms are in the wrong morally. In part due to feminism, only women have discrete birth control they can take without their partner knowing, not men. My guy, the pill makes me suicidal and erratic. If men could have their own version of the pill or something, I would cry happy tears. There is not a single woman who doesn't want male birth control. We don't want to be the only ones carrying the responsibilities of what happens to a man's cum once he shoots it inside. While guys get to have their orgasm, women have to choose bet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 07:09 AM
7	The root of the orgasm gap seems to be genital mutilation more than anything else The WHO classifies partial/total removal of the hood as FGM, referred to as "Type Ia". Yeah, but when we talk about FGM as a whole, we can't say it's just removing the clitoral hood. That's the most "mild" form of FGM, and it's not the most common one. It's nonconsensual genital mutilation. How is it not similar? The procedure is vastly different, as is the effect. Men can still jerk off and climax after circumcision. Women can't, because they're robbed of the organ that makes them do so. Unless…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 07:03 AM
10	The root of the orgasm gap seems to be genital mutilation more than anything else That's true, and it is FGM. However, generally, FGM goes beyond that and removes (at least) the clitoris. In worst cases, the clitoris is removed and the labia are cut, repositioned and sewn together to "seal up" the vagina. In no way can FGM be compared to circumcision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 06:36 AM
21	The root of the orgasm gap seems to be genital mutilation more than anything else I can't help but notice it's primarily cut men saying finishing is by far the best part while intact men (and some women) saying it's not the most pleasurable part. When/where are they saying this? How do you know whether they're circumcised or not? We know FGM victims have damaged perceptions of sex because of their mutilation and AMAB foreskin is anatomically equivalent to the AFAB clitoral hood. FGM doesn't remove the clitoral hood. It removes the clitoris. It's akin to removing the tip of yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 04:27 AM
0	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Yet we frame their attempts to find relief through AI as somehow more dangerous than the crisis they’re already facing. Putting a piece of tape over a gunshot wound won't help it heal. I believe that the relief through AI would only worsen the crisis in the long run. Substance abuse is a relief for those who want to escape reality, but it won't get rid of their desire to escape. It will just make them want to escape more. I believe AI will have the same effect. You speak as if any man can just c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 02:05 PM
-2	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Generally, to each their own. Right now, I'm talking about it in a dating sense. This is a clear vulnerability situation for me, so it should attract women based on what you said. I'm a woman. As a woman, I am responding to the comment above by explaining why it doesn't attract women. Like, bruh... Not being attracted to a guy based on his actions isn't shaming. Explaining why and how those actions aren't attractive to someone who says it would be attractive also isn't shaming. AI girlfriends ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 11:46 AM
-1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Amateur porn is still performative and fake. The ideal length of foreplay for a woman is around 20 minutes. The average length of a porn video isn't even that long. Often, women can only cum from specific stimuli in specific positions. Those who cum from penetration alone are very much a minority, and even then, it's not as easy as porn makes it seem. Most orgasms are still obviously faked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 10:33 AM
1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men That's true, but porn has shown that realistic doesn't sell. Why would AIGF be any different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 08:36 AM
1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men You do you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 07:20 AM
-1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men I'm just speaking from personal experience, as well as that of other women I've spoken to. Look into the orgasm gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:28 AM
11	Getting women is just like getting another job I love how he's grilling you because in his Purple Pilled world, a woman could never make a man happy. You tell him you're in a loving and healthy relationship, and he's trying to catch you on something because he feels he somehow knows your relationship better than you do. What other standards do you have for a man besides material costs? That last part really shows the salt, lol. Prepare for him to throw you some whatif/aboutism next, though. "What if he changes his political views later in li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 06:01 AM
22	Getting women is just like getting another job Part of EQ is knowing that telling someone to "relax" won't actually make them relax, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 05:50 AM
1	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men I actually think it will increase loneliness. The user might want to isolate themselves more because they found something to attach to, using it as a crutch while feeling less motivated to socialize with real people. Especially for someone who's already struggling socially, this could end up snowballing into becoming a recluse. Depending on the type of AI, it could cause the user to create impossible standards for the real person they might end up dating later. An AI doesn't have a "life" outsid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 05:46 AM
0	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Vulnerability is sexy. Vulnerability isn't having an AI girlfriend. I'm my ex's first girlfriend, and he was vulnerable to me about how, before I came along, it really got to him that he hadn't had a relationship before and that he felt lonely and insecure because of it. For him to be so open about his emotions made him very attractive to me, because it showed that he could cope with negative feelings in a healthy way. Having an AI girlfriend is not attractive and it doesn't sound like a healthy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 05:08 AM
2	How comes jocks and street boys don't get the "inc*l" label? It comes from the internet. They're chronically online and echo the same sentiments they hear in the women-hating spaces they frequent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 12:35 AM
5	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? I'd be turned off and weirded out. Sexual consent forms don't hold up in court. You asked someone else if it would be better than not having anything at all. Frankly, and you can use your own brain for this, the answer is no. Of course it wouldn't be better. Taking a sexual consent form to court will only show that you expected to be taken to court. To expect to be accused of rape after having sex isn't common, so it will be extremely suspicious. If she's falsely accusing you of rape, do you rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:46 AM
2	Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people? So 50/50 doesn't work because it isn't a split, lol. It's not 50% of men and 50% of women doing it. It would be 100/100	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:35 PM
3	Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men? Yeah. In my experience, whenever a friend found someone familiar on Tinder, it would always be a talking point. Always. If a student finds a teacher, the whole school will know. People's exes, friends of friends, old classmates, current classmates, colleagues- it's a hot topic for gossip. And it's absolutely not gender-exclusive either. Both men and women do it. They or a person they know will recognize someone, take screenshots and show them around for shits and giggles. If you have any enemies…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 09:43 PM
2	Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men? Yeah, fair. I just figured that people who are using dating apps aren't really patiently waiting anymore for love to come by when fate has it. I guess that's still sort of my mentality, but I understand that that is also a privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 06:56 PM
3	Why do you not use dating apps as much as us men? Frankly, it's my ego. I don't want my face on there in case I end up getting recognized. That in itself already feels awkward and embarrassing to me. My views are going to be very harsh so I'm sure people are going to hate on me, but I acknowledge that these are more personal beliefs: I only see myself getting a dating app if I can't find anyone organically and am desperate to be with someone ASAP. It's not an alternative to me; it's a last resort. It's admitting that a significant portion of so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 04:46 PM
2	CMV: The world would be a better place if males adapted to how women handle problems u/SayuriKitsune Y'all... Let's not have a fucking dick-measuring contest over which sex is better at killing themselves and being miserable. I get it, it's easy to get sucked into a debate where it feels right to defend the side you feel you're on, but at the end of the day, no side is right because everyone is still depressed and suicidal. Yes, men kill themselves more than women. That isn't a damn flex; that's horrible. And though it's true that men have more trouble seeking professional help …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 02:54 PM
8	What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate? The thing about sex dolls as well is that, no matter how human they look, they will never look alive. I don't understand how it could be appealing. Pretending to have sex with a cold, stiff and lifeless woman is... disturbing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 12:21 AM
2	CMV: it's a green flag if your date uses a sexual consent app Or get a hobby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 06:23 AM
6	CMV: it's a green flag if your date uses a sexual consent app No. Absolutely not. If a guy I'm seeing suddenly pulls out a sexual consent app, it would just show that he's chronically online. It would seem detached and honestly just weird to me. Step 1, 2 and 3 can be done through conversation. If I'm planning on having sex with someone, I'd rather bond by flirting than by filling out a damn consent form. I'd also question why he has a whole app on his phone dedicated to ensuring "consent". How many people is he using it on? Did he get the app just for me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 04:56 AM
1	Q4M: Would you be upset if your girlfriend got you a subscription as a gift? T-bone steaks aren't flowers, are they?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 06:22 AM
1	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" "If we have sex, I'll know you're serious about us."	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 05:35 AM
11	What kind of stalker is more disturbing, male or female stalkers? 8% is quite a big difference though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 07:05 AM
–	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Well... Considering Trump will be president again... y'all couldn't have picked a more emotionally immature and unqualified person for the job. Emotional maturity isn't just related to age. Age is just a factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:59 AM
–	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Genuine questions... 18 is the sort of universal age of adulthood. It's not really based on anything biologic or scientific; it's just a number that societies have decided on. If it's about physical maturity, on average, girls can be done with puberty as early as 15. If it's about emotional maturity, the brain will keep developing until mid-late 20's. ...So if we got rid of the legal age, where do you actually draw the line? Respectfully, this is the thing that really confuses me. The older I be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:28 AM
–	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics I feel like most of society's views about girls my age who end up sleeping with much older guys either that they're considered weird/socially isolated or inept, have mental problems, or are doing it for money. The issue is that it's partly true. Teenaged girls and middle-aged men have nothing in common, so the chance of there being genuine mutual attraction, respect and chemistry is very, very small. But because the girl is struggling mentally and/or financially, there are people who somehow bla…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 09:06 AM
–	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Back when I just turned 17 and had recently gotten out of my first relationship after having been cheated on for half a year, I ended up sleeping with a 30-year-old. I consider it the biggest mistake of my life and it has only given me a lot of miserable feelings and shame. I can say from experience that in just about every way, a guy in his 20's is better than a guy in his 30's. I'm 23, so I do hope and believe that my views will change as I'll age. If I end up ogling a bunch of 20-year-olds wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 07:00 AM
48	Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamics Right?! They keep yapping on about how the older a man gets, the more attractive he is. As a 23-year-old, nobody around me is looking at middle-aged men like they're snacks unless they were already attractive back when they were young. Balding, erectile dysfunction, wrinkles, slower metabolism, less energy, less stamina... It's bizarre how they keep trying to use the argument that young women desire old men. Like, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 05:02 AM
1	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? I don't know. I'm European, so our culture is kind of different. Assuming you're from the US, it sort of makes sense why you feel that way. In my country, I noticed that the upper class people value performance, academics and ambition, regardless of gender. Generally, the more lower class people still have stunted values, though. It's usually quite easy to know a person's background by the way they act around women, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 03:21 AM
7	Stop Complaining and Start Committing: The Problem with Modern Women's Advocacy There are many tribes where it's completely normal for the women to be topless. Breasts are for breastfeeding. If you believe that feeding an infant is even remotely biologically sexual, you are very, very disturbed. In Europe as well, I've seen many women topless at beaches and nobody really bats an eye because it's far more normalized here. Breasts are culturally sexual. Both men and women's nipples can be stimulated for sexual arousal, yet men's nipples aren't publicly criminalized and sexual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 06:55 PM
16	Most men are basically what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'. Literally what parent doesn't? Both mothers and fathers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 06:41 PM
4	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? So-so. I grew up ugly and got bullied for it. Now, it's the opposite. I get a lot of attention and even had a former bully try to shoot his shot with me. I know that a lot of my worth is based on my looks, but I also know that looks alone don't determine my value. Age doesn't immediately make a woman unattractive. As long as a person takes care of their body, presentation and mind, they will remain attractive. Personally, while I do worry about the concept of getting older, I'm not scared of loo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 04:52 PM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) So if she uses tampons, masturbates or plays sports, it's a no..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 03:46 PM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) Lmao people are shitting on you for this answer, but I think it's absolutely valid. So much is also just about how it got to that number in the first place. You're 21. If you got with someone of the same age, they would have been pretty busy even if they started young. If she started at 15, it would be at least 5 different partners per year. If you were 60, I don't think you'd care anymore since it will be spread out over a lot more years, and the excuse of "I was wild in my 20's" would make a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 03:45 PM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) Unfortunately, my first boyfriend. My last ex also had a somewhat similar kind of mindset. Of course, both were heavy porn addicts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 03:31 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning I mean, okay... I can fit into surprisingly small spaces. The amount of times either of our mentioned skills could come in handy is... not really noteworthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:43 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning Sorry, your writing is a bit... unclear? And why are you suddenly comprehending it now? What do you mean with "comprehending it now"? Comprehending what? Most women actually want that as much as possible What is "that"? Are you referring to the previous sentence about comprehending? Do you mean to say that most women want to comprehend as much as possible..? You have to clarify what you want to talk about before actually trying to talk about it. It's difficult to understand what you're talking a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:37 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning But you want the optimization to be one-sided? Yes, sure, it's optimized for YOU when your partner feeds you and cleans up after you. It doesn't save time for the partner, though. They have to do more while not really getting anything in return. Why would someone commit to you if all you're going to be is a burden for her to complain about? I'd honestly be super embarrassed if I soft-force my partner to take on a parental role just to ensure that our living space is adequate. Knowing that my par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:51 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning So what would the woman be getting out of the relationship? In this economy, it's difficult for a family or couple to live off of one income. To live comfortably off of one income is even harder. Women have jobs. The era of men being sole providers has already passed, so why should women still do all the cooking and cleaning? Working a second shift at home while your partner feels entitled to your free labor without feeling the need to take on part of the responsibilities within the home is hone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 03:47 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning ... bruh. If you want to date your mom, just say so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 03:32 PM
–	As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and Cleaning I’ve noticed a lot of women want a man who provides, protects, and loves unconditionally, Aren't most men in this sub bashing modern women for wanting to be independent and have careers and stuff? I think it's quite rare for a woman to want a man to provide and protect, while not doing anything around the house. I don't see much of a balance with one partner doing the cooking and cleaning and the other having a job, a life outside the house, vacation days, a retirement fund and a paycheck. Those…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 03:30 PM
0	“The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above them These days this sub has become an echo chamber of bs for people who don't go outside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 01:28 PM
3	“The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above them That doesn't mean they're attractive, though. People could also pay them because they're cheaper or because they tolerate more. A low value man can be a hoe. It just means he's a hoe for low value women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 05:18 AM
1	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women The population is about 90 million so you can find every type of mental illness and psychotic ideologies Yeah, but it should be a fair expectation that these mentally ill people should make the law. What gets me isn't just the fact that it's happening; it's the fact that it's legal. Since women by the default don't have the right to divorce in Islam and men do(an individual man can give the wife the right though.), How is this different from slaves and slave owners..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:47 AM
1	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women Writing on early marriage in Iran in November 2019, Shamin Asghari stated that, according to Article 1041 of the Civil Code, ‘… the minimum age of marriage is 13 for girls and 15 for boys, and any exception is contingent upon the permission of the guardian and the child’s best interests as determined by a competent court.’ The minimum age for girls is 13. Any exception is contingent on the guardian's permission. This means that girls under 13 are allowed to get married, so long as they have perm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:12 AM
1	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women Isn't child marriage legal in your country..? Being able to sell your very underage daughter off to get married with a very adult man in exchange for goods is basically slavery. Even if the practice isn't as common as it used to be, the fact that it's still happening at all says a lot. I read that girls under 13 need to have their parents' permission to get married... Is that true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:46 AM
2	When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive? But if the outer part doesn't fit the internal part, then the outer part wouldn't be the same boat...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 12:16 AM
3	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women It's people like OP that give men such a bad rep nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 12:13 AM
3	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Looks like you haven't been nagged so let me put it in a more better way. Lol. I've been through way, way worse. But I've been through plenty of nagging, too. The dishes aren't the same as rape. Doing the dishes is my job. Sex isn't. Men who compare sex to a chore for women shouldn't get mad when their partner doesn't want to have sex with them anymore. If you can't pull your weight to the point where your partner has to act like a parent just to get you to function, then you aren't ready for a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 07:42 AM
4	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Yeah? Lmao. I should be pulling my weight, and if I feel like I can't, it's my responsibility to address it. My partner is also dealing with their own shit on top of their household responsibilities, so it's not their job to coddle me and investigate my feelings. I'm an adult, not a child. It's not abuse for my partner to tell me to do the things I am supposed to do when I haven't done them yet. If my partner tells me again and again to do the dishes because I just won't do them, I'm genuinely p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 07:23 AM
7	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women ? What a weird way to phrase it. Nagging in itself isn't abusive, but nitpicking a person's flaws definitely can be. Saying "nagging" is abusive is just wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:34 AM
3	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Depends on what I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:06 AM
7	Nagging as a Form of Domestic Violence: Addressing the Overlooked Abuse Perpetrated by Women Agreed. The desire for people to be victims is fucking insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:39 AM
0	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? he tends to be shy around women? ... Let’s also say that his shyness comes from the fear of coming across as creepy or bothering a woman ... his fear of offending/bothering women This can be the case for both platonic and romantic interactions. A platonic interaction still comes with the risk of coming across as creepy or bothersome. The friendzone isn't a thing here, because there needs to be a friendship in the first place. However, if you're so scared of women that you avoid talking to them a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 06:34 PM
1	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? Let’s also say that his shyness comes from the fear of coming across as creepy or bothering a woman, We're not talking about exclusively romantic interactions here. We're talking about a guy who's scared of coming across as creepy or bothersome to women. People who are used to interacting with women will understand what is and isn't considered creepy and bothersome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 05:54 PM
1	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? No, of course not. It's just that he wouldn't have had that fear of women if he had surrounded himself with more women on a platonic level. The reason why he's not single is because I'm the one who approached him. If I didn't approach him, we wouldn't be together since he wouldn't have approached me, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:30 PM
1	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? I was the one going after him, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 03:55 PM
1	Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men" I didn't point it out. He didn't change anything except for shaving, because he told me he's been struggling with it and didn't know what to do. It's easier to smell with armpit hair than it is without. I know it's not the sweat itself that smells bad, but that isn't the point? Why can't you just accept that, lmao?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 04:29 PM
1	Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men" No..? My boyfriend smelled like sweat. I told him to start shaving. He starts shaving. He stops smelling like sweat. Armpit hair IS a hygiene risk because it increases the chance to smell like sweat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:26 PM
0	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? We were colleagues	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:15 PM
1	Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men" Okay... so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:14 PM
–	Why do so many men hate sex workers? Shouldn't the same then go for men who consume it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 05:15 AM
9	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? Sounds like my boyfriend. 10/10, obviously. As for advice... has a small group of guy friends My boyfriend also has a small, close group of guy friends. As far as I know, he doesn't have any female friends, nor has he ever had any. I know that some of the guys have had girlfriends at some points, yet they seemed to prefer to keep their relationship and their friend group nearly completely separate. Aside from the first introduction and the boyfriend's birthday party, that's about as often as the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 05:14 AM
2	People who only know shallow people typically are shallow themselves. I think OP absolutely lost the plot in this comment thread. Reading their post, I generally agreed with their views, but I definitely don't side with their comments. Would it be fair to assume that back when you were overweight, you were insecure? Or maybe socially awkward or shy? To give you my own personal anecdote: For most of my childhood and teens, I was a hideous kid. Crooked teeth, ugly glasses, unflattering clothes, a weird haircut- I was aesthetically challenged. I wasn't the only ugly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 03:44 AM
3	How did or would you react if your partner said he was born without testicles? I read the title and wanted to jump in with a semi-joke about how I'd be seriously pissed that I've been taking the pill this whole time for nothing. The pill messes a lot with my mental health and wellbeing, so taking it is a genuine sacrifice for me. But you're not really talking about an all-hypothetical situation like they do in other posts. It's the first time I've ever really heard of men being born without testicles, let alone using actual prosthetics. I'm really, really sorry you're stru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 01:01 AM
1	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Not only can people eat different foods together, they can also have different workout schedules, etc. Never denied it. I just said that those who eat together generally have the same diet. What actually happens is that fat people end up with fat people. Do you think they were each other's first choice as far as physical attraction goes? It might not be their first choice, but it's still one that at least makes sense to me. If I don't even care about my own body, it would be weird to care more a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 12:25 AM
1	Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men" I think it's something that's a lot more common with the younger generations. I don't think I've ever met a man above 40 that shaved his armpits. But yeah, I am on your side when it comes to promoting shaving/removing armpit hair. I get that shaving sucks because of razor bumps, which is something many people as an argument, but trimming is also fine. Even taking a pair of scissors and cutting away most of it is fine. I also feel the same about pubic/ass hair. If they haven't just gotten out of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 11:12 PM
1	Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men" What you're missing is that the majority of men don't shave their body hair. I don't know what makes you think that the majority does, but it's really quite uncommon. My boyfriend only started shaving his armpits because I asked him to give it a try. He was bothered by the smell but didn't realize that hair could promote and trap sweat. I'm big on hair removal and I epilate most of my body. I don't like body hair, and that's my preference. If someone doesn't want to shave their legs, men or woma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 10:59 PM
1	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Why is it par for the course? Because those who live together and eat together generally have a similar diet. It's also why fat people usually have fat kids. Smokers usually get with smokers, or the smoker will have to stop smoking. Being fat is a choice since you get to decide your own diet, even if you don't feel like you can control yourself. Imo it's not settling for a fat person to end up with a fat person, since they both make the exact same bad dietary choices. If you don't choose to be h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 06:52 PM
2	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. No, I genuinely am. I'm not even from the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:37 PM
1	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. As a European, I don't know if this is satirical or not lmaoo	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:36 PM
11	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. What I want is to not have been sexually assaulted for the first time when I was 14. What I want is for men to stop murdering women simply because they are women. What I want is for men to stop feeling like they have the right to physically assault women. What I want is to walk outside at night without needing a man beside me to save me from another man. What I want is to be valued for more than the way I look. What I want is for our culture to stop sexually objectifying women. I get that the dr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:16 PM
4	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. It wasn't even a gendered thing, though. Ethnicity and education mattered a whole lot more than sex did. Both uneducated men and women voted for Trump. What earned Trump his votes wasn't the fact that he got men on his side, it was the fact that most of the US is literally too stunted to have critical thoughts. Trump was banking on the people who were too dumb to think, and unfortunately for everyone in the country, Trump's bet paid off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 02:22 PM
5	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. How does immigration hurt Americans? Please explain why Trump was a better candidate. What policies did he have that were good?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 02:20 PM
7	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. Or, or, orrrr... Men become feminists? And by being feminists and allies to women, they can work together to fight for both men and women's rights? When women were practically property, men weren't fighting for their rights. Feminism is a female movement. But men do have the option to support people who are taking away women's rights. Then women have a choice, offer men a better deal or let their rights taken away. So men can manufacture incentive to make women do the right thing. No, it's not a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 02:17 PM
5	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. ... What do you mean..? In what way do either of them have to cater to anyone? You understand that Trump doesn't mean most of what he says, right? He doesn't have to mean anything he says because once he's in, he's in. He's not going to cater to men because they already did what he wanted them to do. There's no reason for him to give a single fuck about any regular man or woman anymore. He said what he said because he wanted the votes. Kamala actually wanted change, Trump just wanted to win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 02:06 PM
3	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. Bro who are you even talking to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 01:53 PM
29	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. This guy would rather fight against women's rights than fight for his own. I hate how common this shit is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 01:26 PM
4	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. The reason Trump won wasn't because of men vs. women. It was because a big part of the US seems to be highly uneducated and aren't able to think for themselves. The reason why feminists are fighting for women's rights is because for centuries leading up to the movement, nobody was fighting for them. The feminist movement exists because women are trying to fight for their rights. It's clear you're not a feminist, so why do you expect them to make life easier for you when they are still busy fight…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 01:24 PM
11	How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough? Oof, this takes me back to my teenage years. I was the average weird, quiet kid, so I was an easy target. I've had times where people would question my sex/gender, laughing about how they weren't sure I was even a girl. I didn't present as masculine or anything. I was just ugly as fuck, lol. I eventually got to a point where I decided to put a ton of effort into the way I presented myself and it ended up working out. It was really weird to suddenly be liked by people, both sexually and platonica…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 03:30 AM
1	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object I've never been in love with a fat, balding guy, though I know quite a few who have wives and kids. Granted, their wives are also fat, but that's kind of par for the course I guess. As for skinny guys with acne, I personally wouldn't have an issue with it so long as he washes his face. If his acne is due to a lack of hygiene, I'd have an issue with it. I used to have a lot of acne in my face as a teen until I actually started taking proper care of it. I also know that not every type of acne is d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 10:50 PM
1	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Isn't this a sub full of guys who get the ick from things like women being over 30, not being virgins and wanting to have jobs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:32 PM
1	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Please understand the definition of sexual objectification. Finding your partner desirable is nowhere near the same as considering them a sex object. A partner should be considered a person that you want to have sex with. With sexual objectification, the partner is considered an object that you want to have sex with. The object has no further purpose or value to you; it is solely for sexual desire and gratification. If you like your partner for both their looks and for who they are as a person, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 11:47 AM
1	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Ah right. I have no say in this because I refuse to use yellow faces and little pictures when I text someone. Why the fuck can't I dislike dumbass normie shit like emojis? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 10:00 AM
2	Women who get the ick = porn brained men The ick you're talking about and the ick that the rest of society talks about are two vastly different things. but you’ll only say the icks that are reasonable. The only ick I've somewhat "admitted" to getting in the comment you're replying to is the emoji ick. And sure, the one in my initial comment was about smelling bad. Everyone has "icks". It's not an aha! moment when a person says they get turned off by someone when they do XYZ. That's normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 07:12 AM
3	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Oh, yeah, for sure. Some are just dumb. It's kind of like a spectrum, I guess. I've been somewhat guilty of the emoji ick, though. I just feel enraged when I see those ugly ass yellow balls, but that's beside the point. I find it strange that OP tries to sexualize the ick in order to make it comparable to porn sickness. He creates this entire narrative about how the woman has a sexual fantasy about the alpha sigma chad uber male or whatever, and that him wearing socks to bed completely and utter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:08 AM
5	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Definition hypersexualized: rendered or viewed as sexual or erotic to an excessive or inappropriate degree. A woman who gets the ick after observing a man doing something emasculate had a hypersexualized image of the man in their head.. ..To her, he was strong, unyielding, aggressive, unemotional, unaffected, etc. A completely sexualized fantasy of a masculine man that comes from movies, porn, literature. You say that to her, he was strong, unyielding, aggressive, unemotional, unaffected, yada y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 02:18 AM
1	Calling men incels as a common insult is unproductive. Those are imo worse than incel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 12:49 AM
1	Calling men incels as a common insult is unproductive. Pedo, rapist, cannibal, furry...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 06:39 PM
-1	Calling men incels as a common insult is unproductive. You keep doing this, what is the point of the words or language in general? I was trying to explain how this mentality is simply uninformed. Incel really isn't the "ultimate insult" at all. It has just lost its true definition of solely being involuntarily celibate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:53 AM
-2	Calling men incels as a common insult is unproductive. Why do people call women "whores" for sleeping around when they don't charge money? Why do we call people asshole, dick, pussy or other body parts when they aren't these parts? People get called faggot for not being manly enough, even though the slur refers to gay men. When someone spouts nonsense, people call them retarded, even though they aren't. Words and language evolve constantly. The English language now sounds a lot different from the English language centuries ago. Often, words that sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 10:27 AM
0	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim How was/is Trump better than Harris? What has he promised to do for the country that makes him better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 01:16 PM
4	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Says who? Who are you to say what someone respect or not? It seems you don't understand the definition of respect. Again, says who? Who are you to say that I don't view them as humans since I view them as sexual objects? ?? Are you serious? They cancel each other out. That's the whole point of sexual objectification. A human isn't an object, and an object can never be a human. That's like saying you're an atheist who believes in God or a vegetarian who regularly eats meat. If you view a person a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 12:37 PM
2	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Well, no... the whole feminist movement fights for better rights for women. Things like abortions, female reproductive rights and the right to contraceptives are quite a big issue right now for western feminists. Of course, there is a lot of bickering between the sexes. As is clear from spaces like these, as well as the entire manosphere which is currently the closest thing men have to a male version of feminism... Men resent women for what they don't do for them. Women resent men for what they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 11:12 AM
4	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Respect is a positive social emotion. You can respect the person who invented the toilet or the person who installed it, and you can appreciate a toilet for its function, but you can't respect an object because it is convenient for you. If you view women as sexual objects, you don't view them as human. It would mean that to you, their entire "use" is to bring you sexual gratification. It strips the woman of her individuality and humanity. If you don't even see women as completely human, then wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 11:12 AM
1	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim why do we have to gender oppression if men and women get oppressed in similiar % areas Can you elaborate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 09:30 AM
3	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. Most of the women I know are in relationships. However, I personally have come to find that many men are, in fact, trash. I'm not saying most, just that there are many. I'm biased because I grew up in a "traditional" household, I guess. Neither my brother nor my father know how to operate a washing machine without my mother having to write down the instructions. When I asked my brother if he was ever going to learn to clean up after himself, he just laughed and said he won't need to, because he …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 09:29 AM
1	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. When a woman is pumped n dumped, strung along, in a situationship. They have this fantasy in their head about the future. Go outside, touch some grass, put your phone down and turn your PC off. You've been online for way too long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 06:37 AM
4	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. The irony of this post is so thick, it's bizarre.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 06:35 AM
12	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. they just have the choice to be single Did you read over this part? Women don't feel entitled to get "top tier men". They feel entitled to being single if that's what they prefer, and they do! Just because women would rather not date anyone than date trash men, doesn't mean they're delusional or entitled. They'd just rather be alone than be with you, and that's their right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 06:33 AM
16	Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection. Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” Okay... Conversely, men are almost universally sick of women’s entitlement and delusion. Completely mediocre women feel owed top tier men, viewing even men more desirable than them as inferior, it’s gotten completely out of control to the point that western women’s entitlement is a worldwide meme. So which is it??	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 06:29 AM
2	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Ah yeah, my bad bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 02:21 AM
1	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Because I make decisions based on what I consider convenient and not on feelings? If that was the case, you would have stopped responding long ago. There's nothing convenient about this argument, lmao. For you that may be the case. No, not for me. For everyone. That's basic human nature. We're not worker ants. The respect is still there even if the actions are motivated by other priorities. That makes said respect useless. If treating someone like shit takes priority over being kind to them, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 02:20 AM
11	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object I live in the Netherlands so height works a bit different here, but he's definitely not short. I think for Dutch standards, he's average or slightly above. I guess that would be around 6'0". The only thing I could come up with is the fact that he's rather passive. He plays soccer three times a week so he's definitely in shape, he has no trouble socializing at all, has a solid friend group, and an extremely loving and well-off family. Aside from the romance stuff, he genuinely just had that perfe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 01:43 AM
2	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Under that definition if I feel respect towards someone but treat them like shit I still respect them. Why would you treat someone like shit if you respect them? Our actions are motivated by our feelings. If you treat someone like shit, then your actions aren't motivated by respect. Your definition is bad enough to be divorced from reality. Oxford: [uncountable, singular] respect (for somebody/something) a strong feeling of approval of somebody/something because of their good qualities or achiev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 01:03 AM
7	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim Why has there never been a female president in the history of the United States? Did you vote for Trump? If so, why? There is 0 states where men can choose to not be fathers after conception What about all the single mothers men on here like to shit about? Those children have fathers who chose not to see them, yet the mothers are shamed for stepping up while the fathers are never brought up. Why is that? Why is there more hate on single mothers than there is on fathers who walked out on their ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:02 PM
3	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object I do respect objects quite a lot. I am willing to bet that I respect my objects way more than most women respect their partners. If whatever you feel for objects is something you consider "respect", then I'm afraid you are incapable of feeling actual, genuine respect... this is not the flex that you think it is. Also, the way you treat someone/something is the only way to measure respect. There is no way to measure the internal experience and feelings a human has. I'm getting more afraid... This…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 10:56 PM
4	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim If women were actually oppressed, none would believe they are. Well, that's quite ironic, isn't it? If corporations, governments, lobbies, and elites are constantly pandering to women, constantly giving speeches on how tough they have It, constantly giving them special treatment, then women are not oppressed. Are you from the US? The country that's busy with the abortion bans? The country that came up with Project 2025, which partially focuses on women's reproductive rights and how they're going…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 10:38 PM
11	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Do you understand the definition of a sex object? If you keep someone around just so you can have sex with them, you don't care about them as a person. There is no respect in that. You can treat a woman with respect just because you find her sexually desirable, but if the only reason why you treat her with respect is because you find her sexually desirable, then you don't respect her. Paying for someone's life isn't really respect either. I paid a lot for my PC, but I don't respect it. It don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 10:20 PM
21	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object Ahw, this makes me sad. As cliche as it is, I'm sure there are women out there who find you attractive. For what it's worth, when I met my boyfriend, I immediately fell head over heels for him. I ended up stressing out for months about how to talk to him, and if he had a girlfriend, or if he was talking to someone already, or if he thought he was too good for me and I'd make a fool out of myself- you get it. Turns out I was completely wrong and he never had any luck with the ladies at all. It's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 10:12 PM
12	Women desire respect for being anything other than sex objects. Men desire respect for being a sex object The solution is quite simple: Don't pick people you're not compatible with. They want to be respected outside the bedroom via their efforts in their day to day lives. This shouldn't be hard. If a woman isn't respected outside the bedroom, she's definitely not being respected in the bedroom. while they seek the sex lives they think they see women (and a small subset of men) in their lives getting to experience. They want to be respected via being genuinely desired in the bedroom. He doesn't reall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 09:41 PM
3	CMV: Lesbian dating and relationships tend to be smoother because there are two women involved and no males Tbh, I might actually make a post out of it, but the negative karma scares me lmao. It's just so sad and weird to see how many people parrot the whole, "Lesbians have the highest rates of domestic abuse!!" when nearly 1/3rd of the lesbian statistic is still men. And regardless of that, even if all of them were lesbian women and the stats were 100% spot-on, they still wouldn't have the most domestic violence. That's what really drives me up the wall. I don't know if it's because they lumped bisex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 09:21 PM
3	CMV: Lesbian dating and relationships tend to be smoother because there are two women involved and no males Thanks! People keep throwing the same argument around and would usually link random articles that are vaguely referring to the study instead of actually linking the source. I'm genuinely grateful you pulled out the actual report because I had some trouble finding it myself, lmao. The article doesn't talk about domestic abuse so much as it talks about domestic abuse victims. There is a big difference there, especially when talking about LGBTQ+ people. Lesbians are amongst the most victimized, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:35 PM
3	CMV: Lesbian dating and relationships tend to be smoother because there are two women involved and no males Not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:33 PM
2	CMV: Lesbian dating and relationships tend to be smoother because there are two women involved and no males Source? :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 03:48 PM
-1	CMV: Lesbian dating and relationships tend to be smoother because there are two women involved and no males Don't be shy. Give me your source! :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 03:47 PM
11	How would you react to a partner asking you to "wear" a fleshlight because your vagina is too loose? Honestly, if you can stuff a whole fleshlight into your vagina and still have enough room to make penetration not only possible, but pleasurable for the guy, I think a trip to the gynecologist would be somewhere on the list, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 05:46 PM
3	Breasts: A Symbol, A Stigma,the Contradictions of Topfree Advocacy, and Dating. If breasts were just body parts, trans surgeries wouldn’t rely on them, and cis women wouldn’t face judgment over their size, visibility, or absence. We can compare it to hair. Many trans women prefer to have long hair because it's something central to femininity. CIS women, especially younger ones, may face judgement over the length of their hair. There are cultures where women have to cover up their hair while men don't. In those cultures, if a woman exposes her hair in public, she gets judged…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 05:30 PM
–	Are men afraid of their girlfriends aging? If her beauty is more important to you than having a baby, you should get a vasectomy and remain child-free. Getting pregnant isn't the same as getting fat. There is a difference between weight changes due to medical reasons/pregnancy, and weight changes due to overeating. It's like having a partner lose a limb. If they get in a horrific accident or have a medical intervention to remove an arm, it's a lot different than someone chopping off their perfectly healthy arm and expecting their partner…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 01:23 AM
7	q4w: what fundamentally logical decisions do most women demonstrate that shows they are able to choose logical decisions such as choosing one over the other (E.g. foting). In 2023, there were 14,327 murder offenders in the United States who were male, in comparison to 1,898 who were female. However, there were also 5,279 murder offenders where their gender was unknown. -Source I believe that choosing not to murder someone is quite logical since both the act and the consequences are very severe. Taking someone's life is in most cases also a very emotional decision that lacks rationale and logic. I reckon that your question is a very emotional one, too. It seems to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 04:34 AM
6	If both partners work, what are men's expectations for a wife/mother? If men want their ideal marriage and family to work so badly while women want to focus on their careers, why don't the men just stay at home instead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 04:34 PM
–	If women like bad guys, who don’t men…. That was only a specific type of woman with an actual philia. (Hybristophilia) This would be akin to me posting a picture of a toddler and saying that she's popular with men. Yes, there is a group of people who absolutely get off to the idea of being sexual with something they shouldn't be. Thinking it's the norm is absolutely wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 02:22 PM
5	Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist? Wow. I have never read such a sane, valid take on this sub before, and I've been here for years. Gendered teasing is imo totally fine. I was having dinner with my boyfriend and his parents recently, and his father made a joke about how a bit of "window shopping" is allowed. His parents have the healthiest relationship I've ever seen, so it was clear that it was really only a joke. I just looked at the mom, shook my head and said, "Men..." Obviously, it was all in good fun. The world feels a lot …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 08:27 AM
6	WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATING Yes and no. At its core, these men are angry at women for being selective while also being angry at women for not being selective enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 05:59 AM
26	WOMEN ARE THE “MAIN ISSUE”IN MODERN DATING This sub is so full of contradictions. It's women's fault for being selective and leaving a large number of men single and sexless, yet when women select a bad partner, it's their fault and they have to "choose better". There is no winning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:34 AM
9	If feminist pages and women in general talked more about different issues that men face, that would help get men out of the red pill / alt right / anti SJW rabbit hole I get where you're coming from, and it does have some merit. However, at this point in time, feminism has its hands full with women's issues. That is not to say that men don't face their own set of hurdles and problems. Men's mental health and victimization (be it abuse, rape etc.) doesn't get enough awareness and recognition as it deserves. Currently, it feels like the "manosphere" doesn't talk about these things. Instead, it chooses to undermine feminism, spread hate and misinformation, and en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:28 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Lol, fucking loser. I'm European. You're genuinely getting a power trip out of being an actual fucking creep because you think you have more power over me now. Fortunately, I wasn't born in the cesspit that is the US. Abortions are legal and free where I live. And no, I don't know men would die for their women. I wouldn't even want my man to do that, lol. You did jack fucking shit for men What is this even supposed to mean. Once again, that last bit is actually just fucking creepy. I don't know …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:46 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. I'm European, so I don't have to personally worry about your outdated beliefs. How is a clump of cells the size of a crumb my kid? Would taking a plan-B pill also be like killing my kid? How about birth control? If it never lived, then it isn't my kid. Every time a woman gets her period, a non-existent child could have had the chance at a life. Every time you cum in a sock, you kill the non-existent child that could have had a chance at life. Regardless, I'm just glad I live in a country where I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:33 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. What? What shit? If women were raised with idea that they can punch us in the fucking face, they would be mad that we took their rights away, forbidding violence. But we're not? How is that relevant? I don't get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:20 PM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. No, it was not mentioned as a threat. The thought of it hindering you guys doesn't cross their minds, and it's weird to assume that in a situation as serious as this, people like you would be important enough for that. It's not that they stop having sex because they want to get revenge on men. They want to stop having sex because they fear what happens if they might get pregnant. That's the issue. Women were mentioning it because it's a scary time to live in for them. They're making plans on sto…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:52 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. As someone from a developed country, it was absolutely bizarre to watch the US revoke the right to have an abortion. It doesn't matter if it's in one state or in all 50 of them- it is disturbing. Imagine having to drive to another state just to get a medical procedure which could have been done in your own state if the people there didn't hate women to the point they believed that women didn't deserve the right to their own bodies. Something like an abortion shouldn't even be a topic of debate. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:55 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. You can't give someone the rights they deserve, only to then take them away because you changed your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:25 AM
14	Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wanted You do realize that the entire world sees the US as a developing country with a Gucci belt, right? Americans are notoriously delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:08 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. It's not about being petty towards men. Women just don't want to get pregnant. It's not about you guys and it's weird that you just blatantly assume that it is. Women are being stripped of their rights and try to find the best way to cope and survive, and red/purple pilled men all assemble and think: "Is this an attack? :o ...For me? :3333" How does it not click that an abortion ban leads to women not wanting to have sex because the risk of having it is too big? If we wanted to withhold sex as a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:06 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. OP doesn't understand why women don't want to have sex anymore and just made up some weird, petty and pathetic reason for it. Women don't want to get pregnant and be forced into having a baby because they don't have the right to abort. They also fear the health complications that come with pregnancy, as certain pregnancies need to be terminated in order for the mother to literally survive. It is not a punishment towards men; that is by far the least of our concerns. It's just that sex isn't wort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 09:00 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. ? What? That doesn't make any sense. In what way are women who don't want to have sex anymore out of fear of getting pregnant and having to bring a baby to full term or risk permanent health complications as a result of pregnancy... ... in what way is it them admitting that they can only offer men their pussy..? How does that make sense? Women just don't want to get pregnant? Wtf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:57 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Ew	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:55 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. If you listened, you wouldn't feel the need to make up weird ass arguments to argue against, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:54 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Please look up the statistics of how safe each type of birth control is. Nothing is 100% safe aside from abstinence. It was also never a virtue signal; it's women freaking out because they've had their right to bodily autonomy taken away. Also, it's more than just 3 states, buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:54 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. That literally just feels like taking a shit backwards. Women don't have a prostate, dude. It doesn't feel nice. Porn isn't real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:50 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. The land of the free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:49 AM
–	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Please think about the connection between the abortion ban and the concept of sex. What makes you think women want to stop having sex to "teach them a lesson". Do you even understand what the abortion ban means?? Why on EARTH do you think it's about you?? Lmao. You literally make up something in your head and come up with arguments to debunk it. Please use some critical thinking, my guy. Women want to stop having sex because of the abortion ban... BECAUSE THEY CAN'T GET AN ABORTION. The risk of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:49 AM
6	CMV: Ran-through girls make better partners Tell me you've never been in a relationship without telling me you've never been in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 08:02 AM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? I don’t know how many feminists, especially on Reddit can deny misandry exists, when shit like this happens. I said it because OP said this. Misandry does exist, but it's like racism against white people. It's there, it sucks, but it's incomparable to the racism that people of color face. That's also why many people deny it, since misandry isn't the main reason men get murdered, assaulted and attacked. It's just not "severe" enough to be considered a valid issue for feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 03:13 AM
6	Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)? Someone else actually preferred to be physically abused because they wrestled with their brothers and got hit by them like--- That is so not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 09:42 PM
11	Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)? This. Cheating sucks but you either get to a point where you leave or you just stop caring. It's weird how some people here don't associate physical abuse with emotional trauma. Many victims don't have permanent marks, and it's not the pain that's the issue. If my partner accidentally elbows me in the face, it's no problem. There will be an "Ow!", an "I'm so sorry!", an a "Haha, it's okay." That's the impact of simple physical pain. If it's done on purpose, there are so many unspoken words behin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 09:38 PM
5	Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)? Lol, I wish. Been through both and physical abuse is definitely worse because it's not about the physical damage, it's about the intent behind it. Being with someone who hits you, especially if it's regularly, will eventually end up making you feel entirely worthless because that is how you are treated. It is what you are shown you deserve. You lose your right to speak up and to be your own person with your own desires because everything that doesn't align with your partner will be punished and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 09:25 PM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? What..? Do you understand the concept of misogyny/misandry..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 05:21 PM
2	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? so women fearing men much more than men fearing men is probably because of fearmongering. I think what also plays a role here is that women are significantly (roughly 40-50%) weaker than men on average. It's kinda messed up to realize that most people can just pick you up and render you defenseless if they had the intentions and opportunity. What also doesn't help is that, while men murder more men, it is the reason that matters in regards to why we have the fear we do. It's rare for a man to "j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 12:48 PM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? You can keep bringing up comparisons but I literally just asked who is killing men. The Domestic Violence Hotline states that: Nearly 1 in 5 women (18.3%) and 1 in 71 men (1.4%) have been raped in their lifetime. Nearly 1 in 10 women (9.4%) in the US have been raped by an intimate partner in their lifetime. 1 in 6 women (16.2%) and 1 in 19 men (5.2%) in the US have been a victim of stalking at some point during their lifetime in which they felt fearful or believed that they (or someone close to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 10:04 AM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? It's a suggestion as to why many women and feminists don't prioritize these issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 06:16 AM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? men are most likely to be raped or SA or victim of DV by women than by other men. I mean, that makes sense. Heterosexuality is the norm, isn't it? But since you're commenting here... is your point that men experience more rape/SA/DV than women in general? Or just that less homosexual men experience these things compared to heterosexual men? Because I otherwise don't completely see how that matters in this context. I also think that most western countries have laws against violence of any kind. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 04:30 AM
0	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Men are majority victims of violence by other men and women Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 04:17 AM
3	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? We're on the topic of misogyny and misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 03:14 AM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Generally they're average height. Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 02:12 AM
1	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Since we're on the topic of misandry and misogyny, can you give me the statistics on who attacks who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 02:12 AM
0	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Well, I have quite a few male friends and we're all pretty open about our experiences and grievances. Sharing what stresses we all face in life is part of what makes us friends- it's not something you need to be "overly curious" about imo. One of my friends was in a very abusive relationship with a woman and I know how much that changed him. Another friend got threatened with a deepfake of himself and was told to send money or they would leak the photo to his contacts. I obviously have more anec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 01:34 AM
-3	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Do you not think we talk about this kind of stuff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 11:57 PM
-2	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Well, who is attacking and killing these men? ETA: I'd love to get into the debate about statistics and such with an open mind, but if you're willing to debate, I'd appreciate it if you'd give me the same grace. Also, what makes you believe women being more fearful comes from fearmongering?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 11:53 PM
-5	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? Because, as a woman, I can't safely go outside by myself after dark. The men in my life don't feel that same fear. I understand that for them it's still dangerous, but they don't fear the opposite sex. I've been stalked down streets by men, or followed by cars when I'm on my bike. The first time I got assaulted by a stranger, I was 14. When I'm alone, I know I'm not safe. I can assure you that I've been through enough physically dangerous situations to understand that even in the western world, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 11:25 PM
3	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? I don't have social media aside from Reddit and YouTube, if those count, so I haven't seen any of this stuff. Obviously, reactions like that are disgusting. They're also entirely unproductive. I doubt Margot Robbie appreciates people wishing death upon her child as well. People wishing death upon men because they're men have lost the plot entirely. Misandry, in its simplest form, obviously exists. There are people who hate men because they're men. That in itself is unfair. To be realistic though…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 10:05 PM
2	Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.) Women are weak because they can control their anger more than men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 07:50 PM
11	Anal and blowjob only way man can be safe in abortion situations. They were saying that it was an option/solution, which is objectively true. It might not sound like a fun option, but abortions aren't cute either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 03:43 PM
4	Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.) No, because women aren't as emotional and irrational as men. Men are killing each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 03:01 PM
4	Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.) Why is it that women act like they're doing over a small bump? What does this even mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 12:25 PM
2	Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.) Men are so no-weak that they get stumped and murdered even easier and more often lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 03:10 AM
5	Men are just as irrational/emotional as women. (If anything, they are arguably more so on average.) Why is it that when a man gets a cold, he acts like he's dying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 03:08 AM
10	If men don’t have a right to sex, then women don’t have a right to abortion. It's not the doctors that disagree with abortions. If they were against giving abortions, they wouldn't be giving them anyways. It's a specific part of the field that not any doctor can do, and they need to study for it. They wouldn't choose to do it if they didn't want to do it. If a dermatologist didn't want to deal with skin, they wouldn't have specialized in dermatology. Same with dentists, gynecologists, surgeons in their respective fields, etc. Nobody is forcing a doctor to perform an abor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 10:58 PM
0	Has any women on here experienced a libido drop in a relationship? I guess I technically did. There was still a logical reason behind it though, so I don't think it counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 01:39 AM
19	"Chinese Foot Binding" could have been women's own fault Men didn't like bound feet because they didn't want their women to run away. They liked them because it showed fragility and dependence, and there is a strong link between foot binding and foot fetishism, which isn't shocking at all. You're comparing the modern era with historical ones. "It's not for you, it makes me feel more confident," doesn't apply in an era where women were treated as property. What a woman wanted mattered very little. Women were to be chosen and "purchased." Four-year-olds…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 07:43 PM
37	This is the wrong way to teach about empathy. I can't watch the videos (not available in my country), but I agree that it's weird to equate honesty with a lack of empathy. "Ewwww. This lemonade sucks!" "This tastes fine! I like it." From an empathetic standpoint, the second response is more empathetic than the first. However, it's also the safest. "Thank you, but I don't like the lemonade. It tastes salty." A response like this would combine honesty with empathy. Teaching children that a response like this is okay will help them be assertiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 05:40 PM
12	What’s the one quality in a woman that instantly wins you over? I think I know what type of person you're talking about. Respectful, kind, a bit rough around the edges but in an endearing way, and also someone who doesn't let people walk all over her. Not the type to start conflict but also not the type to avoid it when necessary. I hope you find yourself someone like that. You'd make an iconic duo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 05:45 PM
1	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? No worries, I don't hate men. Most of my friends are guys and they're all amazing people. Before you ask-- my boyfriend is 100% okay with me having male friends and knows I will take him seriously if he ever feels insecurity, doubt or discomfort because of it. I also trust that my friends would tell my boyfriend if they found out I had cheated on him. Frankly, I wouldn't want it any other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 08:58 PM
4	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? Honestly, it's still the same. Their partner did nothing to deserve being cheated on and are innocent in all of it. They deserve to know the truth, and the friend has still shown that they're morally broken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:55 PM
2	Women - do you judge your friends who engage in affairs with married men? "The sisterhood" falls flat when a woman doesn't support other women. To me, a traitor isn't a sister, regardless of who she betrayed. I'd tell my friend that she has to contact the wife and tell her what's going on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 05:14 PM
2	If An Attractive Guy Were To Ask You Out in Person And You Simply Said No Because You Didn’t Know Him, What Could He Do To Change Your Mind? Just want to hear it from her. Maybe see if there's a possibility to self-reflect. I don't understand the group of people who believe it is the man's job to reach out, take the first step and do all the work. It seems very boring to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 08:38 PM
1	If An Attractive Guy Were To Ask You Out in Person And You Simply Said No Because You Didn’t Know Him, What Could He Do To Change Your Mind? Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 07:55 PM
4	If An Attractive Guy Were To Ask You Out in Person And You Simply Said No Because You Didn’t Know Him, What Could He Do To Change Your Mind? In modern days? No. If he asks for her number, he'll come across as pushy and it will make her feel put on the spot. If he gives her his number, he's giving her the option to contact him. It feels more respectful and makes her feel less pressured. The confidence is in even approaching the woman at all. There's also confidence in not asking her for her number and giving his to her instead. It shows that he doesn't think he has to push her to talk to him. She can talk to him if she wants, but she …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 07:06 PM
14	If An Attractive Guy Were To Ask You Out in Person And You Simply Said No Because You Didn’t Know Him, What Could He Do To Change Your Mind? It's better to ask a woman if you can give them your number instead of asking for theirs. This is less intimidating and pushy and shows from the get-go that you care about their safety and comfort. Regardless, if I'm single and someone I don't know asks me out, it's basically a guaranteed no from me. Even if he's a "top 1% guy", I don't know what he's like. He could be dangerous, so it's not worth the risk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 06:50 PM
3	Declining birthrates mean less young women for future men to date There aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/24 09:57 PM
1	Is it frustrating being physically weak compared to men? I'm 5'0" in a country where the average man is 6'0". I also live in a city, so there are crazy people abound. I guess because of this combination, I find myself thinking about it quite often. When I'm waiting on the metro, if someone somehow got the deranged desire to do so, they could easily lift me up and throw me down on the tracks. It's a weird thing to think about, but once again, I live in a city with crazy people. It sucks to know that if it comes down to it, I'm pretty much fucked. I kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 11:18 PM
–	Women hate sluts more than men do Definitions don't matter here, though. Let me use a simplified example: Boys are human. Not every human is a boy. The definition of boy is: a male child or adolescent. Does this definition matter in this context? No. Of course not. The definition of boy doesn't erase the fact that a boy is still a human. This type of logic requires a bit of critical thinking, so I understand that it might be hard to understand. Let's think together for a second! You define the word slut as women who have sex wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:44 PM
0	Women hate sluts more than men do Are you saying sluts don't enjoy having sex..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:55 AM
-1	Women hate sluts more than men do They'd rather shame women for having sex than be nice and get laid. It's a bizarre, contradictive mindset. I genuinely don't get the men who are angry that women don't want to have sex with them while in the same breath berating women for wanting to have sex. Of course you're not getting any action with behavior like that. If I complain about being hungry yet shame cooks for making food, telling them they're despicable for literally dishing out meals, it's common sense that they aren't going to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 10:10 AM
0	Women hate sluts more than men do Sluts are women who like sex. Not every woman who likes sex is a slut. It doesn't go both ways like that. But you bringing up that lots of married women have a lot of sex basically proves the guy's point that women just like having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 09:21 AM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do Well, as a woman, I also don't understand your take completely. If two consenting adults have casual sex because they like it, I don't see why the woman would be to blame for the disrespect that certain types of men like to spew. Wouldn't it be much better if there was more equality between the sexes? Considering women the "gatekeepers of sex" because they don't want to be intimate with people they aren't attracted to feels like a weird take. I have male friends that have rejected women because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 09:15 AM
5	Women hate sluts more than men do You speak my language. I fucking hate fart culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:51 AM
1	Women hate sluts more than men do Slut shaming has literally never gone away. It's already widespread. And if you don't want women to lie about it, don't shame them for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:50 AM
2	Women hate sluts more than men do Not gonna lie, as a former slut, I just realized that you're kinda right. I've had some crazy times back then, lmao. I don't really understand why guys on this sub hate sluts so much... Men are allowed to have sex as much as they want and can, and women get shamed for it. The double standard is wild, and most promiscuous women don't like red/purple-pilled guys, so it's not like they're bothering them. Such a weird thing to fixate on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 08:47 AM
1	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. Is her husband 6'5"+, cute, with a high status job, 6+ inch dick, buys her anything she wants, has a head full of hair and a fit body?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:21 AM
6	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. "What??!!! You want to have a life?! And be happy??!!! B-b-but !! You will die alone !! And you are selfish! I will label you a [low value] woman by your desire to contribute to society!!" Because apparently having higher social, financial and developmental value makes a woman... low value. Fortunately for us, the "higher value" men have little interest in women who don't want to work and be successful. Independence is pretty important to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:16 AM
3	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. Oh fuck yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:05 AM
5	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. I mean... The fact that we're on Reddit debating this is kind of a self-report.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:05 AM
15	Q4w: Please skip this post if you don't like the options. You can either be an never-married successful employee or be a mother and wife? Choose one. Most women are selfish, self centered, and unable to live for a family that is bigger than themselves. Lol, that's cute. How many men do you know that homeschool their kids, barely send them out to socialize and who don't work? How many men do you know that, by your definition, are selfless? How many do you know that are, once again by your definition, are selfish? And as you can see, one can be described as up, daylight, one, right; the other can be described as down, night, zero, left. What in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/24 05:03 AM
2	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? I'm against sex work entirely. The reason there's no pushback yet is because people are brainwashed into believing sex work is empowering. I especially don't appreciate teenagers partaking in sex work. I don't really feel like it's female supremacy because it's still just women making a big part of their life all about existing for the pleasure of men. They choose to degrade themselves to being mere sexual objects and believe it's a good thing. Once they realize it isn't a good thing, there isn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 02:18 PM
-7	If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female? I'll just say, as a man, you can't really tell who is and isn't a nice guy since you won't be there when their mask slips. However... In reality the sociopathic "nice guy" probably represents less than 1% of people labelled "nice guys"... ...The vast, vast majority are genuinely sweet people that get shit on for no reason. Be that as it may, the label still stands. You can have 99 nice people and 1 bitch, and even if there is only one bitch, that person will still be a bitch, no matter how nice …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 09:32 PM
3	Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men? The thing that's tricky with abusive relationships is that the concept of "mutual abuse" is still widely debated. When two people in a relationship seem abusive, one of them is acting out through "reactive abuse." However, like I said, I am in no position to pick a side. The biggest reason why the internet picked a side is because we saw Rihanna's picture. It makes it hard not to see her as the victim after seeing her face all beaten and bruised. I've absolutely heard this. "Oh, you're a man, yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 07:46 PM
14	If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female? There are different kinds of nice guys. The reason why we put "nice guy" between quotation marks is because this kind of man is only a "nice guy" when he feels it will benefit him. It's an act. A "nice guy" will compliment you in ways that say: "You're not like other women. You're one of the good ones." It's the kind of guy that will see your discomfort and hesitation as openings to get closer, emotionally and physically. They believe their niceness is currency that they're investing. If they ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 07:19 PM
5	Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men? Yeah, that's fair. Tbh, I do think both sexes enjoy these kinds of shows and we all see women hitting men in a, "she's so weak, it doesn't hurt him. He's so inconsiderate/sarcastic/oblivious, he kind of deserves it" sort of way. I barely watch any TV and all I could think of was stuff like Family Guy and The Simpsons, so thanks for the examples. You're right that that stuff gets normalized way too much. It reminds me of this one 90 day fiancé couple: Angela and Michael. It's reality TV, so it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 06:40 PM
-3	Isn't it weird that it is normalized to berate and hate on men? Wait what show are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/24 05:43 PM
6	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? A "certain level of uncertainty" isn't thinking there is a plausible chance your partner is fucking a bunch of other men and getting pregnant with them. My bad, bro. To me, the whole "guilty until proven innocent" mentality regarding a pregnant spouse is just too insane, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 11:02 AM
4	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? If I choose to have a child with my partner, then I trust him just as much. A certain level of uncertainty isn't thinking your partner is fucking a bunch of other men and getting pregnant with them. That's wild. I don't want my boyfriend and another woman lying in the same bed or having sleepovers. That's a "certain level of uncertainty". However, I 100% believe that he isn't impregnating a bunch of women. The moment I even consider the thought would be enough reason for me to step out of the re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 08:18 AM
12	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? If my partner is paranoid over something like that, a paternity test won't alleviate his struggle. If I have given my partner 0 reason to think I am unfaithful, and he somehow sees me as the kind of person who would fuck a guy until he gets me pregnant and then lie to my boyfriend so that he would raise his child... frankly, it would mean that he sees me as utter trash. A paternity test isn't going to calm him down because his fears are literally delusional. He'd still suspect me of cheating, on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:17 AM
8	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? I don't need someone to trust me 100%. Entertaining the idea that your pregnant, long-term partner that you chose to have child with and who has never given you a reason to doubt her is actually a cheater and is secretly pregnant with another man's child... that's not 100% trust. That's not even 50% trust. I don't get why any man would willingly choose to have a child with someone they think so low of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:10 AM
7	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Oh no, don't worry. I am actually able to think critically. Of course it's an absolutely absurd percentage that can't actually be real. It's just interesting to see what kind of source they'd pull up. At this point, I'm expecting some random "alpha" dude's podcast to be the main source of information. Thanks anyways, though. It makes me happy when people use their brains on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 07:04 AM
6	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Why would he want one if he's sure I'm not a cheater?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:33 AM
3	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Unfortunately, the dumb paternity debates on here aren't like the second case; they're literally the first. It's why quite a few men on here are adamant that "paternity tests should be mandatory" and whatnot. They don't doubt the child; they doubt the women they want to impregnate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:33 AM
2	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:27 AM
9	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? No, not for me. If he can think those thoughts about me, then that is where he has set the bar for the relationship. It's fickle and unstable, and it goes both ways. If I believe that I can't have much faith in my partner, even though they have been nothing but faithful to me, then that suspicion feels more like a projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:25 AM
9	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Well, since these men don't want to be stuck paying child support or raising a kid that isn't theirs, I'm assuming they want the test to be done ASAP. Preferably when the baby hasn't even popped out yet. I think after a few years, as a man, you will see some similarities between either him and the child, or his relatives and the child. At 3 or 4, it feels like the suspicion has an actual concrete reason instead of just paranoia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:22 AM
5	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Then I'll look at the mother and say that she has a lot of explaining to do. However, she is an exception, not the norm. I don't want my partner to think I am the kind of exception that cheats on him and make him raise a child that isn't his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:19 AM
7	Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive? It’s much cheaper just to go over each others houses with and bring drinks , Uno, twister, blast music, watch shitty scary movies, skating, whatever This is true, but it's an entirely different vibe. It's like going to the movies vs going for a walk. Both are great, so it's fun to enjoy both. I like clubs. For me, it's the whole ritual of getting dressed up in a flashy way that wouldn't really work in any other setting, and to just sort of let go for a bit. Busy clubs are nice because it's kind …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 06:16 AM
20	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? Relationships are built on trust. To love someone is to believe you can rely on them and build with them. Asking for a paternity test is admitting that this trust is not there. For the other party, this can feel like a devastating blow. As the woman, you carry and grow your partner's child for nine whole months. Those months aren't easy and will change the body forever. It's a sacrifice, but it's one that's worthwhile. Years of trust will have led up to that moment. Years of building something t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 05:59 AM
1	Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom. Or just don't create problems like that to begin with? It's really childish imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 10:51 PM
1	Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom. If* two couples a couple gets into an argument in their shared bedroom then that room is tainted and one person has to go sleep somewhere uncomfortable and cold. Unless a spouse has used that room to cheat in, I don't see how a room can be "tainted". If it's a regular argument, as adults, you should be able to either talk it out or put your differences aside for the night and sleep on it. If the argument is about something that could end the relationship, like for example cheating, it would be a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 04:53 PM
2	If men are against OnlyFans why are they consuming it? If you put it like that, it's pretty back-and-white. It's called the madonna-whore Complex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 02:24 PM
3	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Why on earth do you think slim, fashionable and educated Asian women would want a guy that doesn't even get 10 likes per month from unattractive women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 03:09 AM
9	The saying "women mature faster" is a lie. Is it possible that you dad got into a relationship when he was not mature? Why would that matter? Abuse relationships are never abusive from the start. If that was the case, leaving would be easy. The whole point of abusive relationships is that it becomes gradually more abusive over time, or in such a way that it disorients the victim. If your question is true, then that means that he was immature when he stepped into a seemingly healthy relationship, and mature when he stayed in an abusive on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 08:08 AM
0	For women who are against porn because you believe it harms women, are you also against drawn/CGI or otherwise artificial porn? The thing with porn is that it will always escalate. A few decades ago, softcore porn was seen as highly erotic and would easily get the job done for most. Nowadays, we're at a point where women are being choked without their consent, pressured into performing sex acts seen in porn, shamed for not looking and/or acting like they do in porn, you name it. Violence is absolutely rampant in porn. Categories that float in the grey area of legality like "barely legal" and "step-family". If it was lega…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 06:36 AM
4	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? God. Damnit. I really hoped it would have ended differently. It sounds like one of those cheesy love stories, but in a good way. It's sweet that you helped her lose weight. Even though you didn't end up together, it sounds like that summer is still a fond memory. I'm glad she found happiness. As for the first girl... who knows? It could have been something, it could have been nothing. I don't blame you for being too scared to confess. It is scary, especially when you're young. There's also just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 06:12 AM
10	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? Well... Before, I was too scared to talk to anyone. Now, I can make friends easily. People like my company and are somehow drawn to me. Talking to people is easy now, even if they're total strangers. Appearance-wise, I did a complete 180. It's like I went through a second puberty or something. I went from being objectively ugly to (somehow) conventionally attractive. Especially as a woman, appearance is extremely important. People are much kinder and forgiving towards me. I actually have value t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/24 01:39 AM
8	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? No, these women think they are invisible because nobody so much as acknowledges them. They hide themselves away out of shame and insecurity, and the people around them pretend they're not there. And sure, these people do still see them. Of course they do. But they ignore them all the same. Also, my original comment had quite a bit of different info. What exactly did the girl you asked out say?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 11:41 PM
3	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? I don't know about that... I think people were uncomfortable with who I was already. I didn't really talk at all. I'd sometimes try to have a conversation with the people around me, but I would quickly freak out and not know what to say, resulting in an awkward tension. They didn't perceive me as an "asexual nun"; they just perceived me as a loser. But yeah, at the time, I guess they all understood that I'd "never" have a relationship. Nobody would ever want to date someone like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 06:12 PM
13	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? Exactly this. In life, they're sort of just background characters. They're there but you don't see them, and they don't really want to be seen. Deep down, most of them do, but they feel like that life isn't for them. That's how we all get such biased opinions on here. We get our information from the loudest bunch and since that's all we can see, we'll assume that's all there is. It's why so many people hold beliefs about the vast majority of women being addicted to social media and chasing chads…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 06:05 PM
7	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? Technically? If you count laser eye surgery. I had terrible eyesight and looked ridiculous with glasses. I wore contacts in my mid-late teens but they messed up my eyes. Other than that, no. My teeth were all crooked, my skin was messed up, I wore no makeup and my hair didn't suit me. Looking back at old pictures, I just looked... off, I guess? People definitely weren't shy about calling me ugly to my face back then. I was that person people would ask out on a dare, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 05:59 PM
9	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? No. I said in another comment that I became self-aware enough to realize that instead of sulking, I could actually fix the things that were wrong with me. My grades were bad enough that I could redo my schoolyear, meaning I'd be in a whole new class. I chose to do that. Would love to go into detail on what I did to improve, but it's lengthy and boring so I'll spare you the details.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 01:06 PM
1	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault It shouldn't be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 12:11 PM
23	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? To be fair, I genuinely was pretty weird. I had undiagnosed ADHD and a lot of issues at home, and I literally didn't know how to talk to people. I just had no clue how to have a conversation that didn't die after one minute or feel tense. I also liked things that were considered weird, like anime and creepypasta. Anime is a lot more normalized nowadays, but back then, it wasn't. I eventually became self-aware and realized that I was actually able to change the things I hated about myself. Before…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 10:09 AM
32	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? Oh, no. Looking back, my body was actually pretty great, even though I was very insecure about it. But my face was definitely... a work in progress, I guess. I had no sense of fashion, no social skills and was just "the weird, quiet kid."	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 09:38 AM
1	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault Sex isn't work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 09:35 AM
17	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? Lol, no. I've spoken to women who've been through similar things, so I know I'm not the only one. I'm not saying "men suck for not even noticing", or whatever. I'm commenting on OP's question about why female losers won't date male losers. Considering he says things like "why don't you want to date a male loser," and, "I understand that you're biologically and socially programmed to be hypergamous", in reality, it's not a matter of not wanting it or being hypergamous. Rather, it's because nobody…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 09:34 AM
106	To the female losers here, why won't you date a male loser? I was a female loser for a decent while. Granted, this was back when I was a child/teen, so perhaps you think it doesn't count. Back then, I was nearly invisible. One classmate who I've had every class with for 3 year didn't know who I was. He saw my name on a list or something and (sincerely) asked out loud: "Who even is that..?" To which others laughed and pointed out that it was me, sitting right there. Apparently they knew who I was, yet in all those years, they never so much as talked to me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 07:49 AM
1	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault Consent is to be given freely with no strings attached. With ultimatums, there are very much strings attached.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:24 PM
1	Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! I've literally never seen smegma in my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:21 PM
5	Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! Fact. I'm European and it's really only done here for medical reasons, which is valid. I've heard that in the US, being uncircumcised is actually quite shameful. That's extremely sad. I understand that it's easier to keep clean, but having a foreskin isn't inherently unhygienic. If it's dirty, it says more about the person than the presence of some extra skin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:19 PM
3	Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! I feel bad that crying for men isn't normalized. My sweet boyfriend is the kind of guy who never gets mad. In the 9 months we've been together, he hasn't shown anger a single time, not even in the slightest. He is far quicker to cry and express his negative emotions in this way. He doesn't let his sadness and hurt turn into anger, and instead faces it head-on. That's fucking awesome and should be encourage and applauded instead of shamed and ridiculed. Also, this is an awesome post. We should ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:14 PM
1	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault "Sexual assault: sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent of the victim." "Ultimatum: a final demand or statement of terms, the rejection of which will result in retaliation or a breakdown in relations." If someone consents because of threats of retaliation, it is no consent at all. They're not having sex because they want to have sex. If the other person knows they don't want to have sex and have sex with them anyways, it is rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:06 PM
1	Women need to learn to be happy being used for sex You don't know what women are for romantically speaking either. It's quite worrisome. Genuine question: If all you care about in a woman is the ability to stick your dick in it for 10 minutes every now and then, why not get a sextoy instead? I don't see why you'd need an entire human being for a few minutes of fun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 10:33 AM
8	Women are lazier when it comes to relationships So you basically made this post to bash on women because your own relationship sucks and you have a lazy partner... yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 09:04 AM
2	Women need to learn to be happy being used for sex Men: "Ugh, females expect us to read their minds. Dumb females!" Also men:	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 09:02 AM
1	Women need to learn to be happy being used for sex Please tell me you're trolling... this can't be real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 09:01 AM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman How did her family react? And her friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:52 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman How long have you been together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:33 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Why did you break up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:29 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman And the guys who can get younger women will, and the guys who cant will be left over for older women. It's more about the woman than it is about the man, imo. If a young woman is romantically involved with an older man, she's likely not with him because he's "such an amazing person," but rather because she has some childhood wounds that haven't properly healed yet. Either that, or the guy has mega bank... or she's just really desperate. I'm in my early 20's and frankly, I don't see why I would e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:28 PM
10	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Idk why that's such a common misconception among redpillers. I'm in my early 20's and am disgusted by older men pursuing me. None of my female friends are in relationships with older men, nor do they have any interest in such a relationship. I don't understand how anyone could think younger women would want them when they're old, divorced fathers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:51 AM
24	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I would be heartbroken She has an emotional connection to that man. That's a big part of what keeps a relationship afloat. Realistically, many married women with children are better off alone if we look at it from a practical standpoint. Since women do most of the childrearing and household chores when married, divorce will relieve some of this weight and place it on the shoulders of the man. The woman now only has to take care of herself; the man will finally have to take care of himself. If th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:44 AM
8	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman there is a significant proportion of those marriages that ends because women is at fault. What makes you say this? You don't elaborate on it... Men have to perform and bring value to a woman's life or they will be thrown away. That's how relationships work. It goes both ways. Your complaint is that it's unfair of women to have equal responsibilities..? That doesn't make sense. men generally earn more and a woman spends more so it's financial net gain for women. 78.2% of women are the primary gro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:23 AM
5	CMV: Women who have been sexually assaulted are the female equivalent to male virgins That's a bit dramatic, isn't it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 02:24 AM
2	CMV: Women who have been sexually assaulted are the female equivalent to male virgins I'm 23 and he's 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 01:12 AM
2	CMV: Women who have been sexually assaulted are the female equivalent to male virgins Idk dude, my boyfriend was a virgin before we got together and I was the one chasing his ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 12:39 AM
1	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. The vast majority of women don't orgasm from one night stands. The women that I know who are or were sleeping around also don't do it for the physical pleasure. Women have plenty sex toys that feel much better than some random dude who doesn't know what he's doing. Usually, women like that are deeply insecure and try to seek validation through sex. Since women experience sex in a more emotional way, it makes sense. To them, it's about the vulnerability. To be exposed and still be desired. It's m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 08:29 PM
1	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. Do you think it's the same women doing and saying this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 08:20 PM
2	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. Well, men were able to masturbate without porn just fine for thousands of years. The thing with porn is that it is the purest form of female objectification and sexualization. The women in the videos are, to the viewers, nothing more than objects of lust. The industry is a miserable one. Rape, abuse, coercion, assault, grooming... The people in the videos aren't actual objects; they're human beings. They aren't the visual representation of male preferences; they are people. If a man's pleasure c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 06:43 PM
3	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. I do. I'm a woman. I talk to women. Hoe phases aren't about physical pleasure; they're about emotional validation. It's about feeling attractive and receiving intimate attention. The majority of women don't orgasm from penetration. This isn't propaganda. The reason why vibrators are so popular is because women need clitoral stimulation. Very few women are able to receive enough internal clitoral stimulation to climax. Women do moan, sure. My point is that they don't sound like dying seals. There…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:37 PM
3	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. You came up with a whataboutism claim. I debunk it. Why bring up prostitution in comparison to porn when you now say they're incomparable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:32 PM
3	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. You are exactly on point. It's not uncommon for men to "need" porn to get off, even going soft during real intercourse because they've hardwired their brain into associating sex with porn. They need to finish themselves off with their hand or need to fantasize about porn to get off because the real thing isn't good enough. And watching big-dicked men having their way with pretty women does definitely mess with their self-esteem. It's a big reason why so many men are insecure about their size, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:31 PM
3	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. The majority of women can't orgasm from penetration. The majority of women don't "moan" like they're dying seals. The majority of women do care about their pleasure in bed. The majority of women want and require foreplay. The majority of women need clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. The majority of women want sex to be more than just about the pleasure of the man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:08 PM
3	Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements. Would you date a stripper, prostitute, sugar baby or woman in the middle of her hoe phase?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 04:05 PM
2	Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs? I have a mixed friend group. Men and women can definitely be just friends. My partner's friends are all guys so I can't speak from experience, but I do believe I would be fine with him having female friends. Usually, those friendships require a few more serious conversations where boundaries are put down. My partner went on vacation earlier this year with one of his friends. They shared a bed. Later this year, I went on a trip with my group. I asked my partner if he would be comfortable with me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 11:36 PM
1	MMA boyfriend gets pounded and girlfriend gets disgusted at it. Well, as an example: I once overheard him and someone else mock another colleague (she wasn't there) about her weight. This was very out of character for him since he's usually very kind and has always been nice to her. After work, I brought it up and told him I was surprised he'd talk like that and said it was "mean girl" behavior. When he realized what he had done, he immediately began to cry and apologized. When it comes to regulating his emotions, he's absolutely fantastic. However, I do bel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 12:36 PM
1	MMA boyfriend gets pounded and girlfriend gets disgusted at it. Lol no. I've seen my boyfriend cry plenty of times and it has never made him unattractive. I always just immediately try to console him and make him feel better. My man is a sensitive man, and it's part of what I love about him. It makes him more beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 06:03 AM
3	MMA boyfriend gets pounded and girlfriend gets disgusted at it. One of the last things I want is to see my partner fight. At all. I don't care if he wins, I don't care if he loses. I don't want to see him put himself or anyone else in danger. But if my boyfriend is getting beaten to the point he needs to protect his head, then there would be nothing more appalling to me than to see him give his opponent two middle fingers and a "fuck youuuu" as he goes down. Prioritizing pettiness over one's own safety is a far bigger turn-off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 07:06 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have Most women can't cum from penetration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 02:36 AM
1	The friendship paradox I have quite a few guy friends. Some of them have asked me out shortly after we met, and I kindly declined and became friends with them instead. Another friend asked me out after we started talking more, so I declined and he moved on. About a year later, we had become best friends without even a hint of awkwardness. A friend I had known for a few years also asked if I wanted to give a relationship together a shot, but I said no and we stayed as close as we were before. It takes a certain level o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 07:47 AM
1	What if your boyfriend had a past history of viewing only softcore porn? What if he's an absolute slayer in bed and you find out he got this way from watching and learning from lesbian porn? Lesbian porn is NOT accurate and is designed for the eyes and pleasure of men. If he's "slayer" in bed, he didn't get it from porn. Anyways, so long as he has stopped and actually understand how harmful the industry is, it's okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 10:04 PM
1	Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent data Shoulda gone to church, bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 02:37 PM
4	I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore" I never said those things weren't handicaps. It's all black-and-white thinking that puts at least one half of the people down and paints them in such a light that they seem like hopeless cases who die alone. I said this. I get that having favorable traits increases the chance of success in the dating scene while having unfavorable traits decreases the success rate. The issue with BP is that the world isn't as hopeless as its adherents believe. What you said here was basically my point. "Red pill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 05:04 PM
23	I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore" It's honestly quite unfortunate. "stop trying to control your woman and start controlling yourself". It says not to debate, not to demand submission, to "keep frame" and NGAF about minor details and, when faced with an environment that doesn't appreciate you, it recommends reminding yourself "I am the Prize" and NEXT that situation in search of greener pastures. This is genuine solid advice. Unfortunately, the current TRP climate seems to be the complete opposite of what you described above. It …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 11:16 AM
58	Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give you This sort of happened to me... At one point in my last relationship, my ex confessed that he wasn't actually attracted to me, but wanted me as his girlfriend for "status" since I'm conventionally attractive and young. He was one of those "nice guys"... 0/10, wouldn't recommend. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 06:43 AM
1	if your partner wanted to check your phone would you let her or him I am big on privacy and my boyfriend knows this. It isn't because I have things to hide, but I'm just sure that if he looks, he will find embarrassing things about me. If my boyfriend wants to see my phone because he is suspicious or has doubts, then I will hand it over to him. Once he's done, we'll have a long conversation about what caused his suspicions and what we'll do to change it. If he goes through my phone behind my back and I find out, my trust will have been broken. That would be a se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 01:45 PM
1	Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you? I guess being blocked is like a sign of utmost respect. Instead of speaking when spoken to, she does not speak at all. Epic Chad feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 03:36 AM
7	Question for Women: Is it true that you lose respect for men who perform oral sex on you? I don't know. The alternative would often be that the guy finishes and the lady is left unsatisfied. I think a man who can, or at least tries to, satisfy his woman is a respectable man. A man who can't be bothered to please his woman is a man who's terrible in bed. These are the men we lose respect for. I do want to clarify that some women have a lot of difficulty reaching climax, no matter how much effort the man puts in. This doesn't make the man bad in bed, and so long as he invests time in p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 02:05 AM
19	Women's double standard about the wandering eye Margot Robbie and Scarlett Johansson have left the chat. OnlyFans and porn have left the chat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 03:54 AM
1	What are people's thoughts on "love"? Love isn't that intense, euphoric rush that makes your heart race and your hands tremble. Love is what comes after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 03:50 AM
1	What constitutes as cheating is mostly a subjective matter and more couples should openly discuss their boundaries when it comes to the matter Just out of curiosity: What would you consider verbal flirting? Is there a limit to the extend that you're fine with it? I've been told before that I'm a "natural flirt" because I compliment people and initiate/carry conversations. I guess in some people's eyes, a woman being friendly towards a man is considered flirting. To me, the difference between being nice and being (covertly?) flirty is a bit vague. I tried Googling examples of verbal flirting but it mainly gave me useless pickup lines li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 05:51 AM
4	What constitutes as cheating is mostly a subjective matter and more couples should openly discuss their boundaries when it comes to the matter I completely agree. Some people see no issue with their partner going to the strip club; I believe they have no place in my relationship. Sex with other people is fine for some couples while it isn't okay for others; both are valid so long as there is transparency and respect. It is absolutely crucial to have that conversation early on in the relationship. I know many men on here accuse women of being controlling for not wanting their partners to watch porn. I'm one of those women. At the start …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/24 04:14 AM
–	It’s not ethical to go to Twin Peaks or Hooters as a married man. The only part of your comment relating to this post is the first word. That's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 01:19 PM
–	It’s not ethical to go to Twin Peaks or Hooters as a married man. This post is about Hooters, though..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 01:07 PM
17	95% of bad Dating decisions by man (single moms, girls with several trauma which cheat on you) happen because those dudes have no options, the argument "they just love them" is manipulation and our society needs to stop with this. Be real. Not every man is into children, my dude...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 09:08 AM
3	The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups. How is a husband getting drunk and having the smell of another woman's perfume on him equally suspicious as a wife being pregnant? Unless you have issues in the sperm department or the baby comes out a different race, there wouldn't be anything suggesting the wife would have cheated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 04:01 PM
1	Would you gossip (i.e. tell other people such as family and friends, in a slightly to very mocking way about your man/woman not being good in bed?) Question for BOTH Never in even a slightly mocking way. I also wouldn't share details about my partner's junk unless it's actually relevant to the problem. The most important thing to me about sharing this kind of stuff is whether the friend it gets shared to is mature or not. If I talk about a bedroom problem and my friend laughs at my partner, then they're not a good friend. After my boyfriend and I had our first kiss, I opened up to a friend about how it was kind of awkward and uncomfortable. My friend didn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 10:20 PM
4	Online dating will not decline because Localized Options require compromising Standards therefore impossible. Men are attending those places less and less. With "those places", do you mean outside? Women leave with the man they want quickly. So how come there are men left over? Majority of males do not attend parties or events. Do you go to parties? Also, you're the one who brought up "parties and events" as a potential place to meet attractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 04:51 AM
4	Online dating will not decline because Localized Options require compromising Standards therefore impossible. She will be forced to expand her diameter of search which is only possible through online dating. Or she goes outside and socializes..? Many women are afraid and lack confidence to put themselves out there and prefer to talk over phone/chat before meeting the man. Then why is it that dating apps always have a predominantly male userbase? I think the vast majority of people actually prefer to meet their partner organically. Attending parties and events doesn't have to be expensive at all, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 02:55 AM
–	Women of the purple pill, if you met a guy whose IG was full of selfies, what would you think of him? bought likes*.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 05:05 PM
–	Women of the purple pill, if you met a guy whose IG was full of selfies, what would you think of him? I don't have Instagram, so I wouldn't know until a friend told me. But for me, it would obviously be a major ick. It makes me feel like he has a low level of self-awareness and a high level of self-importance. I also can't handle people who are constantly on their phone. If he posts daily, it's a bad omen. The fact he's edited himself to an almost cartoonish point also signals to me that he is chronically online and doesn't remember what unfiltered faces look like. The cringy captions definitely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 09:09 AM
10	Q4Women: At what age do you consider it offputting when a guy is a virgin I'm disappointed but also not surprised that that's the standard. When me and my boyfriend started dating, I learned that he was a virgin. Funny enough, this fact made both of us nervous. I was scared I couldn't give him a proper first time. Looking back, I stressed way too much about that. We started having conversations about our sexual insecurities and worries. After we became official, we both talked about it with nervous excitement. It was a lot more wholesome than spicy. We both kept on re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 05:42 AM
2	Q4women: do you enjoy/desire sexual attention from men who aren't your husband/boyfriend? I guess my comment will contrast the others a bit, but I do care about if people outside of my relationship find me attractive. I definitely wouldn't appreciate my male friends looking at me in a sexual way, though. While I personally don't notice when guys stare, I know men are a lot more observant in that regard and can notice it a lot quicker. According to the guys I've dated, I get stared at quite a bit. This is the kind of attention I personally feel sort of flattered by, especially when I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 07:36 AM
–	CMV: being a stay-at-home parent is harder than being the breadwinner My father, actually. He might turn the dishwasher on or bake himself an egg a few times a year, but that's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 12:43 AM
1	How conditional is your love? It's a valid question, honestly. As a teen, I genuinely suspected I had BPD as well. Unpredictable and volatile moodswings, splitting, impulsivity... I never got myself tested for BPD, though. I do have severe ADHD and PTSD, and there's a lot of overlap between the disorders in regards to presentation, so it might just be that. Over the last 5 years, I've been working on regulating myself more and improving my communication skills. Unfortunately, I don't think I can ever get rid of the moodswing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 06:28 PM
3	How conditional is your love? It is very much a possibility. The messed up side of relationships is that those who love the most, risk the most. Trust is something that can easily be taken advantage of, and it unfortunately happens all too often. I believed that if we worked on the relationship and on ourselves, we could be happy. He unfortunately didn't value my happiness and only chased his own. This came at the cost of mine. There came a point near the end of the relationship where I asked him why he continued to do thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 03:22 PM
2	How conditional is your love? It might be because of my ADHD, but there have been a few times where I meet someone and there's an immediate, very strong click. It's like an instant desire to want to know as much as possible about that person, which is kind of like a hyperfocus. It usually takes a year/ year and a half after a breakup before I meet someone "special" like that again. While I can recognize that people are attractive, I very rarely feel attracted to them. It isn't like they're not "good enough" for me, though. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 02:14 PM
14	How conditional is your love? In the past, my love was unconditional. I grew up in a broken home, so violence and emotional abuse had all been normalized. Since it was my first example of love, it was the kind of love I believed was okay. My last relationship finally changed this. My ex was controlling, and I followed his command like a loyal but pathetic dog. He wanted me to move in with him so I moved in with him. He didn't want me to hang out with my friends so I cut them off. He wanted me to drop out of uni, so I dropped…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 03:31 AM
4	Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating? It's a bit tricky for me to imagine a male equivalent of myself. All my traits and features are very youthful and/or feminine. I'm 5'0", have big eyes with long lashes, a button nose, a small mouth and pale skin. I know that conventionally, I am considered attractive. But if you stick those traits on a guy, his dating pool likely consists only of femboy chasers. I guess male me'd have a decent shot with the goth mommies, so that's cool. I'm also great with new people and can easily form an immed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 12:33 AM
1	Women are dishonest about their appearance ... What..? Every functioning adult makes an effort to look presentable in front of others. When it looks like someone takes care of their appearance, it looks like they take care of themselves. Regardless of sex, we are taught to be conscious of our looks and overal presentation. This isn't outrageous; it's expected and the norm. Even the most health conscious women will slather her face despite it being harmful to her skin. Very much untrue. Skincare is extremely popular among women, and it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 09:03 PM
3	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit Since the husband had full control of all the money, it wouldn't make sense to punish the wife since she had no legal existence. Back then, it would be like holding a dog accountable for its owner's crimes. a feme covert was not recognized as having legal rights and obligations distinct from those of her husband in most respects. Instead, through marriage a woman's existence was incorporated into that of her husband, so that she had very few recognized individual rights of her own. As expressed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 09:59 AM
–	As a male victim of serious domestic violence it is heartbreaking some women shut down after I tell them. I've been through my own share of abuse, from mommy and daddy dearest to a nasty ex. One thing I've learned is that the people who don't know what it's like will have the strongest opinions about it. They question why you didn't just leave, if it was really that bad, why you didn't grow a backbone and stand up for yourself. They'll use it against you in a fight, to hurt you, to make you feel crazy and weak. You have been abused. It's your story to tell, and if you prefer it not be told, that's y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 09:28 AM
7	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit What..? What I said is correct. You're apparently just unable to finish reading a sentence. In the 60's, women were allowed to open their own bank accounts. However, banks could also outright refuse women if they did not get the signature of their husband, brother, father or other significant man in their lives. So simply put: 1960's - Bank CAN demand man co-sign. Bank CAN say no to woman if no man. In 1974, the Equal Credit Opportunity Act outlawed discrimination by sex, race and marital status…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 08:59 AM
9	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit That's a bit rude...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 07:14 AM
6	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit I mean, isn't that obvious? In marriage, all income belonged to the husband. If the woman owned property before, all that she owned would fall under her husband's name. It's why women traditionally take their husbands' last name. Just like her property, she herself would also fall under her husband's name. Everything regarding finance was the husband's responsibility because the wife had no legal identity. These women could not make contracts or be sued, making it impossible for them to work in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 07:13 AM
10	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit Last I checked, bankruptcy isn't a crime..? What do you mean, "bought to justice"? Who exactly would be bankrupt..? What does coverture have to do with bankruptcy in this case?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 05:49 AM
20	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit Initially, women weren't allowed bank accounts due to a legal practice called coverture. The principle was that upon marriage, the wife loses her independent legal existence and falls "under the wing" of the husband. In simpler terms: she becomes his legal property. When women were finally legally allowed to open bank accounts, the ideas that women were less capable, financially unreliable and irresponsible still remained. Traditionally, men were in charge of the money, women were in charge of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 04:31 AM
28	the idea that the 'Evil Men' are stopping women from leading is bullshit It's a common misconception that men have intentionally kept women down out of pure malice to control and diminish women. For most of history, married women had no right to their money, land and bodies. Their property and legal existence was transferred to their husbands upon marriage. In the 1960s, women gained the right to open their own bank account. Many banks required women to have their husbands' signatures and wouldn't grant credit cards to unmarried women. In 1974, women were finally all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/24 02:40 AM
3	Why its important for men to have female friends This. Go to conventions and you'll find loads of women who don't care about Taylor Swift and Snapchat gossip. Go to a rock concert and you'll find an entirely different type of woman. It's bizarre to assume every woman from an entire generation has the same personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 03:02 AM
2	Men and women are not, and never will be equal Are we talking about the same kind of poor here? If there's opportunity to climb up the social ladder, then it's not the kind of poor I'm talking about. If the rich can afford near-endless luxuries and the poor starve before they make it to their first year, then they're about as inequal as it can get. Some are born into a life where they can decide who they want to be without worrying about money; others are born to die.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 04:36 PM
9	Men and women are not, and never will be equal and can not ever be solved unless men would somehow be able to give birth. Give men and women equal pregnancy leave. Let men take on half the childrearing duties so that mothers can remain in the workforce. If a woman has a child, a man has one, too. Sharing equal responsibility would make it so that both parties have equal opportunities. Why is having a stable relationship the only option for most women to be happy? Wouldn't that also go for men then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 03:19 PM
5	Men and women are not, and never will be equal No, the opposite. Women are being treated like children. That's why I said "half of society can't tell the difference". That's also why I said "We are telling our children that we're equal so that someday, humanity might start acting like it. People lose their shit when men attack women because women are considered weak." Can you read?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 02:16 PM
20	Men and women are not, and never will be equal Why is it that when you talk about how men and women aren't equal, your first and only example is about one's physical and social ability to inflict pain on another? When we tell children we're all equal, we don't think about violence. why is it that whenever another man is being attacked by a woman, literally nobody comes to his defense, but as soon as he decides to defend himself against another equal human being everyone loses their shit? Because Rome wasn't built in a day, Timmy. We are tell…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 01:40 PM
4	Do you consider makeup, shapewear and image filters as false advertising? Funny thing is, most people aren't going to see skin impurities as anything even close to a dealbreaker. My bacne is a huge insecurity of mine, yet when I see it on others, I don't have the urge to round up everyone around to point and laugh. I just see a back with acne. A few pimples on someone's face will only become noticeable when the person points it out, and even then, they're just pimples. I do remember having a big, red pimple on the tip of my nose when I started high school, and I quick…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 04:31 AM
6	Do you consider makeup, shapewear and image filters as false advertising? Lmao, basically. I look pretty young and have rounded features, so "shading" my cheeks with contour would look really weird. Personally, I like highlighter because it's just glitter. It doesn't really look realistic and it doesn't alter the appearance. It's just glitter! I know people can go crazy with foundation and contour, but unless the skin underneath is perfect (i.e. Korea's "Glass Skin"), you'll be able to see that it's fake. The face looks sort of crumbly, or cakey. You can see pores, ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 03:43 AM
11	Do you consider makeup, shapewear and image filters as false advertising? Yeah, that's contour. It's nearly impossible to make it look natural, and when it looks natural, it won't make that big a difference anyways. Just like colored-in eyebrows, contour is a choice, or I guess a preference. Blush is also something that, depending on the style, is allowed to look very fake. Not every make-up look is supposed to look natural after all. Blush can be especially important for those who wear foundation. For a natural look, only a small amount of blush should be applied. Wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 02:55 AM
1	Rich guys are not on reddit I'll be honest with you- I had no clue what pink pill actually was until you pointed out my tag. I'm Googling it right now and... it's for femcels..? I'm just a dumbass bimbo who wanted to have a pink tag because I like really pink... Also I'm sorry, but I have no clue what NA is. English isn't my first language and I haven't slept in like 3 days. I tried Googling that as well but I failed. The pink tag stays, by the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 07:48 AM
2	Rich guys are not on reddit Ngl, I've deleted a few older secondary accounts that were like 10K each as well. I just really love to talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 07:21 AM
2	Rich guys are not on reddit Oh, no. I'm neither rich nor a man. Sorry to disappoint you, bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 07:00 AM
6	Rich guys are not on reddit Nah dude, I am on Reddit. The fact that I'm active on this sub alone already made that clear, lol. Then again, I'm also not a rich man. Maybe there is correlation after all...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 06:41 AM
6	Rich guys are not on reddit It's not that women believe only broke guys use Reddit... I don't think I've ever heard anyone say that. There is a difference between using Reddit and being on Reddit. Everyone uses Reddit. When we talk about people who are on Reddit, we refer to those who are active on it. Those who enter Reddit via its home page instead of searching a specific question, and those who frequent multiple subs where they interact with the community. If your main account has 10 karma, then you're not someone who's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 05:03 AM
2	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality At 14, we were all going through puberty. Every guy in that class that was asked the same question had easily admitted to doing it. I highly doubt I was the only girl who actually had to lie about it. But no, nobody actually admitted it. Even just among girls, it wasn't normal to talk about that stuff back then. Nobody talked about it. Because it was so taboo, it felt nearly impossible to open up about it. Looking back, I think I'd rather be accused of eating my own boogers or not wiping after u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 11:15 PM
1	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality Why does it sound like I hate men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 02:47 PM
0	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality Ah right. I guess you know more about the female anatomy than researchers, gynecologist and women themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 11:33 AM
1	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality Between 70 percent to 90 percent of women are unable to achieve orgasm with penetration alone, Whelihan said. "Of those that claim they can have purely vaginal orgasms, 90 percent of them say they have to be on top," she added. "Guess what? When you're on top, sitting on the partner's erection and grinding on his abdomen, it's really not just a vaginal orgasm. You're rubbing your clitoris on his abdomen or pelvis." Nine out of 10 women in her practice have had an orgasm during their life, Whelih…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 04:36 AM
2	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality This might seem like it's somewhat coming out of left field, but there is this book called Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski that talks about female sexuality. In it, Nagoski describes the "Dual Control Model" - the Sexual Excitation System (SE) and the Sexual Inhibition System (SI). SE is the accelerator while SI can be compared to the sexual brakes. SI can be divided into two kinds: One is the fear of performance consequences (imagine your grandma walking in on you- the turn-off is immediate an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 01:24 AM
4	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Yeah, I also picked my old habit back up of covering my cup with my hand as much as possible. Honestly though, I can taste the finger flavored beer you mentioned, lol. The glass feels warm when you drink from it, but it beats getting drugged. And holy shit, the murder part is terrifying. If you go out, you better also start covering your drinks from now on. Drinking at home or at someone else's place is definitely safer, you're right about that. Honestly, with a potential serial killer on the lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 06:00 PM
1	For the women out there, what would you prefer in terms of someone making a move on you if they live close by? These are all very sudden and quite intense. Watching the moon is cute when you're already well acquainted. Keep in mind, you're nearly a stranger to her. Being invited to a stranger's backyard at night is very risky, even if it's just a few houses down. Inviting her to a sports game would only be okay under a specific set of circumstances: 1. She will need to have told you during your chitchat that she's a fan and into sports. 2. You will need to casually pass her by again on the street and sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 05:01 PM
18	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim Jesus that's terrifying. It reminds me of this one time I went to the club last summer. I had accidentally spilled a random guy's beer so I got us new ones since I felt bad. We ended up talking outside in the smoking area and I immediately made it very clear that I wasn't looking for anything but friendship and he said it was totally fine. We talked about our lives while my friends checked up on me every now and then to see if I was doing okay. I started feeling weird, so I told one of my friend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 04:31 PM
10	Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim It's not just that. People aren't always able to handle rejection properly, and even more so when alcohol is involved. Having a friend pull a woman away is a safety measure as the chance of it ending in violence or intimidation is a lot smaller. since the woman isn't alone anymore, the man won't feel as eager to keep forcing himself on her. This strategy is also less likely to offend the man since there is no direct rejection. Instead, it's the oblivious/clingy/jealous friend that takes the blam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 04:06 PM
5	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality Would you? Would you want that? Is that your desire want or is that something you’re just capable of doing but not interested in? Oh, absolutely. It's unfortunately not quite feasible since I live with multiple people in an apartment and I don't always have the time to do it. Going to my boyfriend's place is a treat because he's very generous and prioritizes my pleasure, and his house is way bigger so I don't have to worry so much about people overhearing. If time allows it, we both go multiple …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 03:41 PM
8	Male Hyper sexuality vs female hyper sexuality You wanna know the thing about female sexuality? Most women (80%) can't cum from penetration. When it comes to generic sex, women won't be left physically satisfied. A penis simply isn't the tool that can make a woman cum, but it doesn't mean she can't cum. I'd love to get off multiple times a day, every day. I reckon I have a high sex drive. However, I've had a time where my libido just about vanished. Sex turned from something desirable into something exhausting. Before long, it felt like a ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 09:54 AM
1	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? I'm already paying people to go to the store for me, lol. I'm not good with housewife/mother stuff since I have severe ADHD and prefer stimulation instead of endless, frustrating repetition. Staying at home will (literally) make me depressed and it's just not good for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 09:06 AM
2	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Being a stay-at-home-parent isn't a 40 hour work week. It's a 24/7 kinda deal. You wake up before your kids and go to sleep after they go to sleep. The "comfort of your home" has literally become the workfield. There is no comfort in that. There is no place to go to after work to sit down with a sigh and just take a moment for yourself. Those don't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:14 AM
3	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Honestly, I don't know if this is satirical or not but... I genuinely wouldn't mind a partner who takes care of all that stuff. Staying at home without social stimulation feels like hell. Children... are hell to me. My boyfriend wants kids, so we already made some firm agreements that if we'd get to that point, I'm not taking on the responsibility to raise them by myself. And honestly, if I make enough to provide for my family and my boyfriend wants to become a SAHD, then I'd PAY him to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 03:00 AM
7	Does paying for everything excuse you from chores? Childrearing should not be underestimated. There is a reason families often can't afford daycare. There are a few amazing things about being a breadwinner: When you work a 9-5, you work from 9 to 5. Maybe there's some overtime here and there, but you can also take an hour-long break on the shitter and nobody will bat an eye. When you're the one that takes care of the children, you'll work around the clock. No vacations, no downtime, no breaks. You go to bed after your kids go to bed and wake up …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:39 AM
0	"What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbers The biggest problem that I have with the question is the absurd lack of tact. When it comes to relationships, we all have wants and needs. Just "being a partner" obviously isn't going to be enough when the expectations of partnership hasn't been discussed yet. "What do you bring to the table?" is another way of asking, "Which of my needs can you fulfill?" The problem with this question is that the person's wants and needs usually haven't been stated yet. You will essentially have to try and read…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:41 PM
0	Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers? I want someone that from the very beginning decided that I am the best option available. To me, this is contradictive. It takes a lot of time to get to know a person. When you first meet someone, you can't rationally believe that they're the best. It takes months, if not years, to know that for sure. When I met my boyfriend, it only took one night for me to fall in love. Obviously, this was just "crush" territory, but it definitely planted the seed of my feelings for him. From the very beginning…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:15 PM
0	Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers? I think you're getting two things confused. Falling in love is involuntary. But staying in love is a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 11:54 AM
5	Feminism encourages women to never take accountability for their poor decisions when it comes to choosing incorrectly You know what a "red flag" is. How much research did you have to do before you discovered the term? Not a lot, right? The fact that red flags have become a trend is proof that people are focusing more on picking up signs of toxicity, and we're encouraging each other to walk away. We are also not responsible for the actions of another person. If your girlfriend smashes your head in with a bottle, then you're girlfriend is in the wrong- not you. Nobody wants to be victimized. Feminism isn't about …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 05:11 AM
8	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. So wouldn't you say that their standards are already low enough?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 08:54 AM
–	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't My preference is sort of specific. I prefer the kind of skinny that is caused by a really fast metabolism. My boyfriend is someone who is always hungry but can't gain weight. I think my underarm has more fat than he has in his entire body. He looks slender and beautiful. I think the reason why I like thin men with big appetites is because it shows that their bodies are naturally like that. If my boyfriend looked the way he did because he restricted his calorie intake, it would be unhealthy. I do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 12:11 PM
–	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't What about the gals who like their men without extra muscle or fat? I'm a sucker for skinny legends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 10:09 AM
11	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? Women were financial slaves in the past. It was only in the 60's that US women were allowed to open their own bank account. I say "allowed" because it wasn't an actual given. Unless their husband co-signed the papers and gave his permission, the woman's request would be declined by the bank. In 1974, the act was passed that finally gave women the right to have their own money. If they need help going through college they should be looked after. Women have more student loan debt than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 04:54 PM
13	Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck? Homie out here calling rape a myth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/24 04:32 PM
–	Why do you care what men masturbate to? Thoughts of my partner stimulate me enough. I don't see how it could become boring since I want to be sexual with only him anyways. I am not sexually attracted to people other than my partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 03:31 AM
–	Why do you care what men masturbate to? This is subjective. I consider the people in porn to be human. I am not comfortable with my partner getting off to nudes and videos of other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 03:10 AM
–	Why do you care what men masturbate to? These things have nothing to do with my standard and expectation of monogamy. If he chooses other women over me, then it won't work out. If my partner doesn't want me to choose other women over him, then I can live with that. We are in a romantic relationship. If I change my mind about having an abortion, then I will discuss it with him. If he doesn't want to continue the relationship after that, we won't. If I decide not to shave anymore, then I will discuss it with him. If he doesn't want to c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 01:30 AM
6	Why do you care what men masturbate to? In my relationship, we've agreed that we'll only get off to each other. There was no fighting, no objections, nothing. Just an, "Okay. I was doing that already anyways." It worked out. Neither of us feels controlled, so I don't know. There's not really an issue. We're both happy with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:23 PM
1	Is it hypergamy or just inherent lower libido? Oh, don't worry about my boyfriend. The casual sex wasn't an addiction so much as it was just a terrible phase. Looking back, it almost seemed like I was in some sort of manic episode. If you figured out I had a porn addiction and were referring to that, then know that it's completely taken care of as well. While I don't feel like it, I still know that I am conventionally attractive. It seems that no amount of external validation will make me see myself any different, unfortunately. My relations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:19 PM
17	Why do you care what men masturbate to? Masturbation is completely fine. Nothing wrong with that. I don't want my boyfriend to masturbate to porn. Porn is a topic I can go on and on about due to all its negative effects. In short: The industry is disgusting, it kills intimacy and it messes with the user's personality and perception of women and sex. I don't want my boyfriend getting off to other women because he is in a monogamous relationship with me, and if he doesn't agree with this, he can leave. Those are my terms. I used to have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 08:41 PM
1	Is it hypergamy or just inherent lower libido? Ah, oops. You're the exception though, lolol. I've had quite some nasty sexual experiences and I recently realized that my views on sex were very skewed. It finally dawned on me that sex wasn't just about getting the man off, and I was supposed to feel satisfied, too. Before, I always believed that I was just there to "perform" and be used for another's pleasure. I blame porn. I've been sexually active for eight years now. Perhaps TMI, but yesterday, I finally had an orgasm from another person f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 08:12 PM
1	Is it hypergamy or just inherent lower libido? Woman with a high libido here. As much as people like to argue otherwise, women are still shamed for having sex in the first place. Not counting Reddit, I don't have social media. Whatever is said on there usually does not align with reality. A woman who has casual sex, especially if it's regular, is very much frowned upon. How important is it for you to have an orgasm during sex? Would you mind it if you don't cum sometimes? How much fun would sex be for you if you never got to cum? When we tal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 07:19 PM
0	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? This is literally still not relevant to the question asked in the post???	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 06:45 PM
5	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? Yeah, so? Masturbation is not the issue here, is it? Did we read the same post? The post is about the morality of what visual content is consumed during masturbation. Masturbation is entirely okay; nobody here believes otherwise. We are comparing porn to pictures of familiar people. What does it have to do with vibrators?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 05:34 PM
7	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? What..? How can it be comparable to vibrators?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 05:30 PM
–	I think people are born with stats in regard to SMV and etc. (easy, medium, hard, impossible) Considering you still live with your parents, wouldn't Wealth be lower class? Being in your 30's and still living with your parents doesn't sound very "middle class", honestly. If you say you live on hard mode but your stats are all at least decently positive, then these stats are either incorrect or redundant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 06:00 PM
1	Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him? Met him at work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 05:21 AM
5	If evolutionary psychology/hypergamy was true, shouldn't it be men who beautify themselves instead of women? Back in the day, women had no independence. Their value wasn't based on academics or skillsets; it was based on looks. Put bluntly, families sold off their daughters' hands in marriage to the highest bidder. After marriage, it was considered a woman's duty to remain as valuable to her husband as possible. She had to keep looking her best, because that's all she was worth. Women now have their independence, but regardless of sex, I think we can all agree: The better you look, the better you'll ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 05:19 AM
–	The truth about males and females I think the only “fair” way to actually KNOW who would be “wrong” would be for a man to literally “magically” become a women and a women to become a man. Even then, it still wouldn't be accurate. A woman who has been trafficked from a young age surely has a different opinion from a woman who has lived in a safe and nurturing environment. An extroverted, charismatic man would also have a different opinion from an introverted, socially awkward man. If women and men are already sold on their point …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 11:18 PM
3	How big of a concern would it be for you if your children/potential children reached adult age without any romantic success? Though I don't have kids, I can still imagine it's quite a difficult topic to bring up. While I'm not saying it's the case for OP, I can imagine that even compassionate comments can still be perceived as disappointment or judgement since it's something that's already loaded with so much internalized shame. "We noticed that you haven't brought anyone home yet. Do you want to talk about it?" I come from an emotionally unavailable family, so I might be biased, but a question like this still feels s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 07:30 AM
12	The idea women are loved unconditionally Honestly, it's only really the white women that are conventionally attractive. I was pretty ugly growing up, and the world sure wasn't kind or even remotely lenient with me. After I grew into my skin and had an insane glow-up, there was definitely a huge difference. Then again, that tenderness just about equaled that which a person would give to a child or pet, like you said. Regardless of what you are, so long as you're a woman, you're no better than a child, it seems. Or perhaps an accessory a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 05:14 AM
3	How big of a concern would it be for you if your children/potential children reached adult age without any romantic success? It depends. If they are happy with the way their life is, then I don't see anything wrong with them being single. Some people choose that kind of life for themselves and I think it's a pretty fair choice. If they aren't happy with the way things are, then of course I'd be bothered. There is no disappointment in them, but rather for them. I'm my boyfriend's first, and he has opened up to me about how he struggled with dating before I came along. Emotionally, it wasn't easy for him at all. So what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 05:06 AM
–	Why can't women take an L? It's also something that you choose, rather than what you are. Glasses, clothes, hair are all choices we make for ourselves. Having our choices validated by someone is much more meaningful than having our existence validated by them, since it's not a stranger's place to have such grandiose opinions about us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/24 06:55 AM
–	Female women are you also scared of approaching men and end up imagining disatrous scenarios in your head? I have this giant crush on a guy at work. A few months back, we had a work outing in a different city. I was talking to a friend of this guy about going there via public transport, and the friend told me my crush was going to drive them there. He then suggested I text my crush to ask if he could pick me up as well. This friend had no idea I was crushing on his buddy, and yet he still suggested I'd reach out. Great idea. Beautiful setup. Chance of a lifetime. I couldn't do it. Didn't know how. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 09:21 PM
1	If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex, and knew you would never go back, how would your views change? This is Reddit... Don't overestimate people's social skills on here, dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 10:44 AM
–	Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue? Because it's transactional. Consent is about wanting, not tolerating. When I lived with my ex, I was too scared to reject his sexual advances out of fear he'd kick me out of the house. I can't imagine prostitution being any better than that, and I already had a lot of difficulty coping with what was happening. Using someone's body as a tool to masturbate is very dehumanizing, and yet it's all that prostitution is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 10:42 AM
–	Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue? They would not have consented had the money not been involved. With labor, there is no issue. Sex is different and can't be compared. If someone leaves a store without paying, it's robbery. If someone leaves a prostitute without paying, it's rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 10:36 AM
2	If you woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex, and knew you would never go back, how would your views change? Because homeboy literally said that he only wants sex. It's the only reason he leaves his house. Considering sex is his only motivator, gaining women's approval is pretty important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 09:17 AM
–	Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue? Not gonna lie... paid consent isn't really consent, dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 10:39 PM
4	Is cheating in women ultimately a matter of time and place? My unborn daughter is having sex with Chad AS WE SPEAK!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 06:19 AM
5	Is cheating in women ultimately a matter of time and place? There are women in the walls, having sex with Chad!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 03:45 AM
4	The most important thing a man can bring to a woman, is attention (and sex) This. For men, attention and sex are like water in a desert. For women, it's water in a swamp. The right partner is like clean drinking water.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 02:23 AM
19	Is cheating in women ultimately a matter of time and place? LMAO WHAT?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 01:57 AM
12	Is cheating in women ultimately a matter of time and place? Women are less likely to masterbate because it's easier to get infections. ..? What? Women definitely do masturbate, and we don't consider masturbation as a risk to get an infection? During work our fingers might get dirty and full of germs. We wash our hands with soap, you know? If a woman wanted to masturbate at work, the thought of germs on her hands will not stop her. The risk of infection is also extremely small since most women don't actually enter their vagina when masturbating, and inste…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 01:57 AM
0	How do you rank the importance of these traits / factors in a potential partner? Top traits with the most important one first: Aligning hobbies. Having a few hobbies in common makes it easier to connect. Social alignment. Being able to talk effortlessly. Openness and clear communication. Wanting to find solutions instead of win fights. Their apparent level of interest in me. I want them to be into me. Integrity. It's what builds trust; the foundation of a relationship. Ambitions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/24 04:18 AM
–	Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy. Why is it that so many men think women can "just" have an abortion if they feel like it? It is often insanely painful, both emotionally and physically, to terminate a pregnancy. Therapy is often recommended for those who have had an abortion because it is something that will stay with you for the rest of your life. Even though these women aren't ready for pregnancy and motherhood, they would still give up their own ambitions for the life of their child. Raising a child isn't easy, but when unabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 10:43 AM
–	If women say they don't enjoy casual sex, why does hook-up culture still exist? Short-term validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 09:50 AM
0	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience What..? we're taught that men "need" sex and orgasms while women's pleasure is but an afterthought We were talking about this, not about wanting sex and orgasms. Did you forget?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 12:35 PM
0	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience The porn industry, which is what most young people use to "learn" about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/24 03:10 AM
6	The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question Discussion Because it can become very overwhelming to be confronted with heaps of chores that suddenly seem long overdue. If your kitchen stinks from old dishes and you have no plates left to eat off of, you really need to get your shit together, no offense. That's a college lifestyle. Cleaning a couple of plates and glasses isn't as frustrating as cleaning an entire kitchen where every counter and surface has something dirty on it. The most infuriating feeling for me was having to stop doing the dishes be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 11:12 AM
2	Why do you think women suffer from postpartum depression? My (obgyn nurse) aunt says it’s because they realized that they picked the wrong man (unreliable, passive, low social status) from her experience. This... really isn't it. However, the midwife did actually state some situations that can cause PPD. After pregnancy, there are many emotional stressors that a new mother may struggle with. Both a lack of support and the added stress of work can overload an already overwhelmed brain. Body image issues, fears about taking care of a newborn, sleep depri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 06:28 AM
12	The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question Discussion why is it that no one has ever considered that women enjoy housework to the extent the spend more time on it than men. Because if it was enjoyable, it would not be a problem. Who really doesn't have anything more interesting, relaxing or fun to do than some damn chores?! As a man, if things are just clean enough I'm fine with it and have no drive to make my house spotless. But at the same time, 100% of the time i've had a woman over, within 5 minutes they cleaned something. Did you ever wonder i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/24 04:35 AM
8	(fixed flair) It's easier for women to get laid, but they're much less likely to be satisfied with the experience 80% of women can't orgasm from penetration alone. The vast majority of people consider sex to be penetration while clitoral stimulation is deemed foreplay. Nobody has to cum all the time, but in a world where we're taught that men "need" sex and orgasms while women's pleasure is but an afterthought, there is little left to appreciate. In your analogy, I assume the rich kids are women and the poor kids are men. What you fail to acknowledge is that the toys both children are given are immensely di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 11:17 PM
–	The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the same I completely agree! It's an obvious type. I'm assuming the women he's talking about (which, according to him, are all women) don't use Reddit. Either we aren't women, or we aren't real... or I guess we're pretending or something? I don't know. OP seems too far gone to realize women are just as human as him, having their own lives, experiences and goals. What I've learned from this sub is that if we flip the genders, OP would just be another "Becky" chasing "Chad", and is now getting mad that Cha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 03:03 PM
–	Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their will Sorry dude... the hot ones come back too if they're actually interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 02:52 PM
–	The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the same Reading this post, all I can think about are my female colleagues. Just about everyone gets along with each other perfectly fine. We're all in our late teens/early twenties, and I think that's just about the only thing we all have in common. While this is all just anecdotal, I'll still use my colleagues for reference since you both mention work and meeting (random) women. The phone thing is ridiculous. It's very vapid to focus on/care about something as insignificant as a brand of phone. Among s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 12:35 PM
2	When women consume media for men, do they wish to be like the MALE main character too? This. Walt is definitely flawed, but at least it's easy to be on his side. It's hard to root for the woman whose birthday present to her husband in the first episode is the saddest handjob a person can think of. It's obvious we weren't meant to like her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 11:53 AM
2	Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrent These kids will never contribute enough to society Because... they have autism..? Autistic people will never contribute enough to society because they're autistic? while fewer and fewer younger people are born to take care of an elder population and younger disabled people. I think people are always born young. We live in a (western) society where children are not expected to take care of their elders in a personal way (washing them, changing their diapers, you name it) and the vast majority of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 05:54 AM
1	When women consume media for men, do they wish to be like the MALE main character too? I guess I never really considered it much of a gendered thing. Do all women desire fictional world peace? Do all men desire fictional anarchy? All the time? The answer is obviously no. I've never met a soul who would choose Skylar over Walter. All the women in Breaking Bad are pretty shit, honestly. Skylar was shown to be an asshole from the first episode and her entire character is hard to relate with. In most shows, I don't imagine myself to be the main character. I'm no Walter White, no Kim P…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 05:27 AM
13	RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children? Okay but the commenter talked about spanking, which is just another word for slapping, onlyon the ass. The intention of slapping is to inflict pain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 01:12 PM
7	RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children? Spanking is gay confirmed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 01:10 PM
3	Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea? I'd actually love that. A few months back, I am 99% sure I got drugged in the club and I am another 99% sure I know who did it. It was a horrible experience and I never want to go through that again. While I know women-only clubs won't be the safest place on earth, I am certain that the chance of someone getting drugged will be significantly lower there. I think it might also open some doors for the girls who have parents that are more strict. Men also won't have to worry about their women cheat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 01:35 AM
2	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Yeah, no... not everyone is this superficial. Many men struggle socially and lack the confidence to approach whoever catches their eye. Nobody likes to be rejected, and pursuing someone puts a person in a very vulnerable position. Even if they can handle a no, they don't know how bad that "no" is going to be. Middle and high school have left their marks on many of us, and many still fear that their feelings are comedic at best. If someone catches my attention, I don't see why I should stay away.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 12:03 AM
4	Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ? That's really #deep but honestly, I like to pursue what makes me happy. If it's a career, why care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 06:12 PM
9	Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ? I have ADHD... My brain is literally hardwired to not slow down. The concepts of striving, doing and achieving are nothing modern. It's part of what makes us human, and we have been human for a very, very long time. Striving is what got us to today, and it's what will get us to tomorrow. Some do not care for progress, others live by it. If growth is what makes me happy, why would I stop?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:08 PM
15	Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ? Honestly, I still feel like there's a difference. Sure, I love staying inside as well, but as a stay-at-home wife, it seems rather lonely. You're not building towards anything. Every day is the same; it's pure maintenance. There is no paycheck, there is no major goal. In my previous relationship, I was sort of "forced" into this role. I had to drop out of uni and basically focus on cleaning the house, cooking dinner, catering to my ex... it was genuine hell. I wasn't living for myself anymore. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 01:36 PM
25	Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ? Aren't we all forced to work in this economy? Being a stay-at-home wife sounds like hell to me. There are no specific hours, there is no paycheck. Imagine living at your place of work... There is no possibility to climb the ladder, get a better salary, progress in any way shape or form. You have no colleagues... Your lunch break is alone. There is no social stimulation. The only time your "job" requires you to go outside is to get groceries. As kids, we're asked what we want to be when we grow u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 01:15 PM
6	CMV: women who get offended by toilet humour are not wife material No, and I don't want to be married yet either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:13 AM
36	CMV: women who get offended by toilet humour are not wife material Aha... So only women with a tasteless and immature sense of humor are "wife material". She's nice but she's going to be single forever, because no man will want to commit to a woman who censors him and who he will have to constantly watch his mouth around. What about the men who aren't like this? Not every man is appalling, you know? Some have tact and manners, even around their partner. Some prefer a woman who is more feminine and graceful. Some find beauty in tact, others find beauty in... lit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 05:39 AM
5	Do you think people find you boring? I love this question! It's a lot nicer than "What do you bring to the table?", which I've come to find is more of a trick question than anything as it has no possible right answer. I don't believe people find me boring at all. Perhaps it's because I have ADHD, but I have trouble appreciating routine. When I'm with someone, my attention is focused on them. I am invested in learning about this person. I don't mind listening to them going on and on about the things they love, and I'll like it even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 09:30 PM
1	Reassuring your partner about fidelity Alright! I am very well-versed in the language of women. my only response is that I’d probably become self conscious and try to escape because I’m shy. This, my friend, is not the way. Your main reason for walking away isn't because you love your girlfriend; it's because you're shy and insecure. If your social skills are what's stopping you from finding someone better, your loyalty isn't shining through. “what if a better girl than me hit on you” Keyword: BETTER. "Better" is the entire focus of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 07:48 AM
2	Women are the ones slowly destroying the dating market without knowing Level 1-10 men 500, women 500 I think I just cracked the code, guys. Science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 07:22 AM
19	Does anybody else feel ostracized from their supposed genders “nature” I never quite fit the mold men described all women as being like. Of course not! The mold that men describe is a caricature at best. Take this sub for example: On here, women are seen as tactical, spoiled and opportunistic sociopaths that are unable to experience neither loneliness nor true love. Their loyalty to a man is as deep as his pockets and they are overconfident to the point where they believe they will never have to lift a finger to get whatever it is they desire. By this description, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 08:38 AM
2	Are most women demisexual? If it was normal for most people, porn wouldn't be a thing. Dating apps also wouldn't be a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 12:40 AM
5	Does Chivalry Still Work in the 21st Century? my relationships it was met with an “awww that’s nice thank you” That's about all you're gonna get. They're sweet little gestures and are appreciated, but that's it. They shouldn't happen all the time, but once in a while is sweet. Handing coats is nice if you're already getting them, of course. It's kind of like getting a drink for yourself and pouring one for your partner while you're at it. Getting flowers shouldn't happen too often. But if my partner got me a gift like that out of the blue, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 09:01 PM
2	Being gay, bi, or trans is better than being straight in 2023 in first world countries Right? The reason the orgasm gap is so big is because 80% of women literally are unable to orgasm from PIV. The moment PIV becomes the main point of sex is the moment dead bedrooms start to become common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 08:48 PM
1	Why is openly questioning "what do i get out of this relationship?" only a 1-sided discussion by societal norms or expectation standards? It's not because YOU think you two had a connection that you should assume he thinks so too. If I'm on a date with someone, why wouldn't I think there's a connection? It's not an assumption when it's already confirmed. he'll tell you whatever is needed if he wants to get into your pants Using the guy I'm currently dating as a reference: If that was the case, it would have already happened. It hasn't. By WHO? By you and similar men on here? You cannot make this shit up... You're literally doing i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 05:21 PM
3	Why is openly questioning "what do i get out of this relationship?" only a 1-sided discussion by societal norms or expectation standards? It's the female version of I got a boner What..? No? It's two people getting to know each other better and subconsciously scanning to see if they are a good potential partner. then why do you have a hard time answering the question? Because every reason will be considered invalid. If I talk about what I bring to the table, it would not be considered worthwhile because it is either redundant or inadequate. I am currently working my way towards a Bachelor's, after which I'm planning on going for m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 09:35 AM
6	Why is openly questioning "what do i get out of this relationship?" only a 1-sided discussion by societal norms or expectation standards? Are you blind..? It seems to me, if money is the only thing you bring to the table, it's the only thing you value. So what is it a man wants a woman to bring to the table? Why isn't the man bringing it to the table too? OUr silence is funny because that question is a stupid game that doesn't have a proper answer, and yet you're expecting one. You don't want money, but the only thing you care about is money. If both parties are connecting and having fun together, and the man pays, then the materi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 05:42 AM
6	Why is openly questioning "what do i get out of this relationship?" only a 1-sided discussion by societal norms or expectation standards? And don't say "me", "discovering the other", etc because the man also provide that. Yeah, no, don't worry. It has to be something more concrete. When I hear the question about what someone brings to the table, I always assume "the table" is a metaphorical reference to the relationship. Regardless, while men might still be expected to pay for the first date, I am also happy to pay. Calling it "providing resources" when your hypothetical first date might have just been a $2 ice cream sounds off. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 04:06 AM
1	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. Firstly, no one is talking about cosmetology students ... ... T4yl0r Sw!ft and Jennifer Lawrence are two prominent examples. Celebrities are worse than cosmetology students. We are talking about natural concealers Natural concealers don't cover every blemish. The skin of the face has a rainbow of undertones. The forehead has a yellow undertone, the cheeks red, the chin blue, and perhaps there is some blue around the eye as well. Cover it all up with foundation, and you'll have an unnatural hue. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 02:56 AM
10	Why is openly questioning "what do i get out of this relationship?" only a 1-sided discussion by societal norms or expectation standards? Why is "what do i get out of this relationship?" such a taboo and difficult question for women to answer with a response that actually makes sense? Because by saying this, you have now made the relationship a transactional one. You sound like an employer during a job interview. The fun part of getting to know someone is that you'll figure out what kind of person they are. It's a waste to cut that short by simply saying: "Explain how you will benefit me." The person who asks the question also att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 02:26 AM
1	Q4W: How would you react if you discovered a man you liked wore a toupee, shoe lifts, etc? Absolutely. If he looks at a kid for a second too long... oof... not a good look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 01:43 AM
2	Q4W: How would you react if you discovered a man you liked wore a toupee, shoe lifts, etc? I'd call him out. I wouldn't have batted an eye at the shoes since homeboy was walking around with 10" thick soles from day 1; that's not a secret, that's a fashion statement. But the bulge... is really weird. Unless a guy is hard, I've never noticed anything through their pants. I would have assumed he'd been rockhard the whole time, so that would have been pretty awkward already. I'd probably figure he took care of it while in the bathroom, so I don't know how I should bring it up, but once I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 01:39 AM
2	Men can succeed very far in this world even while single. Can women do this too? REALLY far ahead in life while single?... ... working on a far away construction project, or she's a miner or something No offense, but as much as I respect people with these jobs, I do not associate them with the concept of "success." Yes, they're tough jobs, but our society generally and unfairly looks down on the blue-collared workers. It is not that a woman is scared to be so far away from civilization, it is just that the environment does not sound appealing. Choosing to stay away from what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 11:15 PM
1	“Women are hornier than men” 80% of women can't orgasm from penetration. Why? It's the clitoris that makes us cum. Some have the internal portion of the clitoris positioned close enough to the walls of the vagina so that stimulation is enough, but most simply don't. Also: no guy has ever asked for a picture of my pussy. Tits and ass are more appealing when it comes to photos. Women complain about dick pics because they're usually just not hot. The pictures are often unwarranted and look crusty, weird and unappealing. What a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 07:34 AM
28	If recording random men and putting them on the internet to be ridiculed is ok, how do you feel about creepshots? "You don't like it when men are creepy and are calling them out for it... ... so how do you feel about me taking a pic of your pussy?" Sir... a vagina is not the same as a man trying to look up someone's skirt. If a vagina is so offensive to you that it makes you feel violated, why would you even need creep shots??	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 10:50 AM
–	Do you agree with the following phrase? "Men protect their emotional sanctity the same way women protect their sexual sanctity?" You know, I find this one really tricky. A part of me disagrees simply because the concepts are so very different, but they're both stupidly unfair stuff that we have to deal with, so I'd still say it's a fair comparison nonetheless. I've never heard women complain about men's emotions in real life, but I do definitely believe it is a very real thing. Society still believes vulnerable emotions are weak. As a woman, I've experienced a lot of negativity for my emotions by certain male figures that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 11:57 PM
3	Women, I have questions I’ve found that women often become defensive when questioned or critiqued by men. Every human being has at least some amount of narcissism. A healthy level of narcissism is a thing and that's what drives us towards success and happiness. When questioned or critiqued, person A suggests or tells person B that something about them is wrong. Of course person B will become defensive if they have zero actual connection to person A, or even if they just find the critique itself extremely inaccurate. Do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 11:08 PM
1	Who does it benefit to say “people on medication are a red flag”? A large chunk of mental illness is a reaction to the world as opposed to a personal failing. Absolutely true. Believe me, you're not the only one with baggage; we're in the same club. Mental illness is just about never a "personal failing." The brain is an organ, and a very complicated one at that. Genetics, childhood trauma- there are many things that can cause mental illness. Though it isn't someone's fault, it's still their responsibility. If someone clearly has anger issues, don’t date them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 10:28 PM
2	Who does it benefit to say “people on medication are a red flag”? Some people often talk about wanting to kill themselves or they have anger issues that they actively try to justify or excuse. Most people who are abusive probably need some medication or at least proper treatment that they aren't getting. I think it's easy to say they aren't taking the medication they should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 08:08 AM
3	Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have? It's actually not funny at all. Wouldn't it be better if both could just stop?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 12:56 PM
3	Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have? If women don't pee after sex, they are at risk for getting a UTI. Men tend to have this issue far less because their urethra (the tube that lets out urine from the bladder) is much longer. Since women have a short urethra, sex can cause bacteria to go into the bladder and if left too long, will cause infection. I'm not the best with remembering to pee afterwards. As a result, I now know what it's like to piss blood. Actual blood. It feels like glass... It's nothing personal. Getting up to pee af…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 12:54 PM
–	I really don't think it's respectable for women to have children outside of marriage Well... no, I don't really agree. I know many people that aren't married, yet live together and have kids. They're a family, with or without the official stamp of approval. I also believe it would be just as shameful for the man as it is for the woman. But also... more often than not, I don't see a reason to care. Being insecure enough to abort a child simply because it is out of wedlock is absurd. Humans are animals; we're not some mighty being. We live until we die and pass on the torch of our…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 03:33 AM
6	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 You have an opinion about letting people with premature cognitive functions make a life-altering decision that will likely ruin their remaining future. A decision that they might come to regret once their brain is fully matured. Why? Because you like getting off to teenagers. You have an opinion about the drinking age and want it lowered to an age where alcohol can negatively affect and stunt brain development. Why? You like alcohol. You have no opinion on the presidential age. Why? You don't ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 03:21 AM
7	The age limit for porn performers should be 21 Nahh, at 23, you'd get moved to the GILF category. Them's the rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 03:04 AM
3	Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women? I'm 22 and consider myself young, especially since I still look barely 18. I also generally have no trouble attracting people. I am still concerned for the younger girls that are with older men. It's dangerous; I've been there. Can it go right? Absolutely. But it's definitely risky and definitely questionable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 08:49 PM
–	Do you pick your boyfriend’s outfits? What..? Of course not. He's not a toddler; he can dress himself. I'm not going to do it for him. Clothing is important to me since it really represents one's character. I want to look at my boyfriend and see my boyfriend, not a reflection of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 10:39 PM
1	Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women? They should hit on a shower and get their shit together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 09:39 PM
2	Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women? they can have gay sex at any time. As in, like, sticking their own dick up their asses..? The only women against it are the ones who are upset men have more sexual outlets other than dealing with modern dating. These men have to pay for sex because society does not want to be contaminated by their genes. Women aren't upset that those with evolutionary defects are getting sex; women are upset that there are women who have no other option than to sell their bodies to these defects just to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 07:58 PM
–	how much money did your first sexual partner make? 0? We were teens, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 03:53 PM
2	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? Why? Europe is a whole continent with a ton of different countries... we have internet access too, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 12:00 PM
2	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? That's dope. GG.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 10:56 AM
4	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? I'm European. In my experience, most guys shave. Those who don't usually don't have a lot of hair anyways; it's not that pube look that you can sometimes see where there's an actual bush peeping out. And I remember in gym class, the girls used to whisper about a guy who DID have bushes like that under his armpits- none of it in a good way. I've only met two girls who didn't shave their armpits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 10:52 AM
1	Women. How often do you initiate sex with your man? I have a really high drive usually, so when I'm in a relationship, I initiate most of the time. As to how... it really depends on the situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 09:50 AM
–	Why women doesn t like a shy , anxious guy? These girls often also choose abusers. It's not a compliment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 08:48 AM
–	Why women doesn t like a shy , anxious guy? Bro if that's all you need, just get a silicone doll at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 07:14 AM
–	Why women doesn t like a shy , anxious guy? Lol, those are psychopaths. They are an obvious exception. People are social animals. We mirror other people in both emotion and movement. Even yawning is contagious. When someone is shy or insecure, they are conveying an underlying message that they do not trust themselves. When someone is anxious, they are conveying a message that they do not trust you. Regardless, neurotic behavior is uncertain and thus unfamiliar. It's hard to relax with someone who's on edge. If someone is unable to do the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 06:33 AM
46	Should we feel sorry for guys who are forced to have relationships in order to get sex? They're really out here acting like child brides, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 12:37 AM
7	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? I know you asked for the experience of the "average woman" but I'd still like to focus on my own hardships since I can't speak for everyone. - I always have to pretend to be someone I am not. I grew up shy and ugly until I decided to work on myself. I made scripts so that I could keep up the illusion that I was social and talkative, and I spend a lot of time and money taking care of my appearance. Every conversation I have is one where I feel like I have to "prove" myself because I feel deeply u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 11:30 PM
19	Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself? "Would you date a woman bashing, low income man who still lives with his dad, bad at budgeting and mostly complains, but was very attractive ?" she said no in disgust. I explained to her that this was just a male version of herself... You absolutely killed her man, damn. As for the question... Yeah, I think so. I'm far from perfect, but at least we'd have the same expectations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 10:15 PM
3	What is the term for when males seek the physically "hottest" females? The contrast would be when females seek to "date up" socially we call it HYPERGAMY. I think what the dude is trying to say: He loves her and he is attracted to her just fine. When he brings up them not looking like models, you should be able to pick up on the message behind those words. He's obviously not comparing him and his partner to actual models, but we associate models with beauty in a league of its own. Society's top tier. He and his partner don't have top tier looks. He knows they don't have to look like models to be hot. He's just saying that for most people, they wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 07:09 AM
2	What is the term for when males seek the physically "hottest" females? The contrast would be when females seek to "date up" socially we call it HYPERGAMY. I can't believe I got criticized about being too skinny constantly in my last relationship, only to come on here and see that there are people who actually don't think it's hideous? I still freak out about my weight multiple times a day now because I know I need to gain weight. I think this community is ironically one of the only ones that still supports skinny girls, lol...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 06:54 AM
1	If a man does not have the Hero Instinct, then what? I think men have this hero instinct as much as women do. Even as a woman, it would make no sense to me to not have it. According to them, all men have a deep instinct to feel needed and appreciated, and be seen as strong by the women in their lives. Okay, maybe the dating gurus and coaches are wording it kind of wonky since it doesn't even have to be about strength at all. In your previous post, you mentioned all sorts of tasks that you did for your family, but all of them were physical labor. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 06:47 AM
2	Anecdotes are superior to studies in providing sufficient information for forming conclusions regarding entering and maintaining a relationship. The thing I hate most regarding this topic is the way people throw around studies as though their findings are absolute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 03:46 AM
10	It's Illogical For Men on this Sub to Blame Women Men will blame women for things such as for caring about looks, caring about money, not being nice to socially awkward men, not liking cold approaches etc You couldn't even make it to the second sentence of the first paragraph...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 03:20 AM
2	Men are privileged when it comes to sex. Women orgasm via the clitoris. Most women do not have a clitoris positioned in such a way that vaginal penetration will stimulate it adequately. Most women are physically incapable of orgasming from penetration, just like most women are unable to orgasm from having their bellybutton poked or their elbow licked. It's just not going to work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 02:40 AM
4	The problem with this subreddit is that half of the sub are people in their 20s, the other half are early Millennials and Gen X The grey pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 02:29 AM
3	Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pill Oh God... You're right. I saw you compare pot smokers to those who are into heavier stuff and that was spot on as well. Back when I was 17, I got recruited into this sales/marketing team that would basically talk people into donating to specific charities. It was an experience. The majority of the people there were all very attractive, charismatic and wild. Many of the women were also true sweethearts. We'd have "office parties" where we'd get drunk off our asses with people going in and out of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 02:28 AM
1	As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023? Nahh most women also have to go out and look for someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:19 PM
3	Men are privileged when it comes to sex. it's always the man's fault. He needs to do more whatever, last longer, etc. No, the thing is that it doesn't matter how long he lasts. Most women cannot cum from a penis. When a man doesn't orgasm or can't get aroused, he is a porn addict with unrealistic expectations about sex or has "death grip." It could also be performance anxiety, having an off-day, having already wanked before without having a porn addiction. Porn addiction is very much real and can affect intimacy detrimentally, but we'r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 04:51 AM
2	As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023? This one's actually tricky for me since I'm not too invested in the dating scene. I don't use dating apps, have no actual aversion to dating in general and can appreciate the nice traits that make each man unique. When I'm single, I tend to focus more on myself than on getting back into a new relationship. Though if I really had to name one thing about dating that I hate... It's probably the fear that I'm not going to be good enough or that I'm embarrassing myself. I think I'm actually quite f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:58 AM
4	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I guess they can find comfort in the argument that they are virgin by choice, but it's not actually much of a choice to begin with... people trying to police other's sexuality is most definitely one of humanity's most common and most toxic traits. My friends aren't from religious families, fortunately. The one dude who does come from a religious background is in a long-term relationship with another member of the group. She was the one who had to wait for h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:37 AM
4	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women Honestly, quite a few of my male friends are virgins. While they're not desperately trying to get laid, they do want to get laid. Though as far as I know, they are also the type of men who have no interest in hookup culture and casual sex; they want to be in a serious relationship with someone before they have sex with them. They also have nothing in common with the stereotypical incel in regards to behavior and beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 01:05 AM
1	What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons? Oh yes, absolutely. You mention recessive genes yet ironically also voiced that comparing my child's looks to mine and the father's is "not how biology works." Ironically, dominant and recessive traits mean that that is exactly how biology works. Take eye color, for example. Just like it has recessive (blue) alleles, it has (brown) dominant ones. I have light eyes, meaning I carry two recessive alleles. If the father of my child also has light-colored eyes, it means that he, too, carries two rec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 02:26 PM
2	What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons? Explain?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 12:15 PM
5	What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons? Crazy how hard it is for women to empathize with this The thing is, I am still allowed to have my own opinions and boundaries. I do empathize with this, only I express it in different ways. My partner will never have to ask for my location because I want him to know where I am. If I'm on my way to my parents, I'll send him a picture of a pigeon at the metro station and a picture of my cat at home. When I'm in love, I want to share everything with my partner. My partner will never have to ask who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 10:41 AM
6	What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons? You know what's funny? Right now, I am on the pill. If all goes well, babies will be off the table for around half a decade more. 5 years. Let's cross our fingers and hope I will keep my partner. Imagine some time into this, I tell my partner I want us both to get an STD test. You know where his first thoughts would go? Cheating. Unless he cheats, he cannot give me an STD. Unless I cheat, I cannot give him an STD. To bring up the topic of an STD test is to bring up the topic of cheating. But you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 10:14 AM
3	Do you guys/gals actually want advice? What are you looking for here? Well, I'm a very social person. I'm close with all sorts of characters. Contrary to what is claimed on here, both men and women can be very, very diverse. At one point, I sort of made it my goal to befriend as many people as possible. I was very interested in every person's unique pattern of thought. There are far too many beliefs shared on here for me to remember off the top of my head, but I'll try to name a few. Men and women can't be friends. That's an easy one. They definitely can. While I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 09:04 AM
7	What do you think about the moms who refuse DNA paternity testing? Would you refuse one yourself and if so what would be your reason or reasons? Unless there would be a valid reason to doubt my loyalty (like the baby coming out with an unexpected skin/eye color), I would feel very, very hurt. If you turn it into “he doesn’t trust me!” to men it feels like you are literally gaslighting them. "Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic in which a person, to gain power and control of another individual, plants seeds of uncertainty in another person’s mind. The self-doubt and constant questioning slowly cause the individual to question their reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:54 AM
12	Do you guys/gals actually want advice? What are you looking for here? I might get hated for it, but I'm only really here to try and understand other people's perspectives surrounding this stuff. My own beliefs and experiences are very, very different from those shared on here so it often makes for an interesting read! It's also fun to take what I've learned and talk about it with my friends. Once in a while, I also meet people on here who are pretty decent company.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 02:59 AM
1	What's with all the generalization? Yet at the same time complaints of conflict is because humans are not monoliths While I do agree with your argument, I feel like the internet is a place that lacks the brains to see nuance. More often than not, generalizations are actually weaponized against the target. "All women are boring." == Women are more agreeable. If a woman feels more at ease, she might become less agreeable. While this sounds like an emotional utopia, there are enough theories on here to prove that "there is no deeper meaning. there is no solution. All women are boring, all women are bad." The gen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 12:32 AM
3	Women who don’t have casual hookups are only appropriated online Then for the love of God, surround yourself by better men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 11:55 PM
7	Women who don’t have casual hookups are only appropriated online I’m saying this as somebody who is in college with a huge friend group. A huge friend group is just a gaggle of the same people in different fonts. A woman who wants to get to know a man before sleeping with him isn't "struggling" with dating. She's winning. The women who start dating one of the guys she's sleeping with might feel a cute little burst of short gratification, but it won't account to much in the grand scheme of things. Women who want to wait aren't bothered by waiting, bro. These w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 11:05 PM
2	That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guy "Are you in high school?" >> "... No." "You graduated?" >> "Yeah." "So you're in college?" >> "Hmhm." "Where at?" >> "Kent..." "Is that around here?" >> "... ...yeah, it's about... 40 minutes." "So how old are you?" >> "19." "Hey Nikki, can you help me pick out a sticker?" >> "... I think you got it." "You think I got it?" >> "Yep..!" "What city is Kent in?" >> "Kent..." "There's a city called Kent and a college called Kent..?" >> "Hmm." "What is that, East Cleveland?" >> "No, it's Kent, OH." "S…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 10:54 PM
3	That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guy If he was young, he wouldn't open with, "Are you in high school?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 10:00 PM
2	Morals don't matter compared to how attractive you are physically, socially, and sexually I've always been big on clinical and forensic psychology, so Netflix's Dahmer was really interesting to me. While the show did alter and fabricate some aspects of the story (such as Glenda Cleveland's arc), many of the more gruesome scenes were depicted accurately. When we think of serial killers, we think of psychopaths. Ted Bundy, a man capable of charming the world with his confidence and wits- a man who derives pleasure from taking the lives of those he deemed weak. That's a psychopath. But …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 09:13 PM
11	Morals don't matter compared to how attractive you are physically, socially, and sexually Hybristophiliacs are people who are sexually aroused and attracted to people who have committed cruel, gruesome crimes such as murder and rape. It occurs more often in women than in men. These women are usually delusional and will try to find excuses for what the criminal did. They will develop relationships with a criminal and feel that they are special -- that even though their lover may have killed numerous people, he would never harm her. They usually feel that they can “change” their lover …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 04:24 AM
1	What could someone with 2/10 social skills do to make himself 5/10 ? Have you seen someone socially awkward becoming better? Yes, me. I was too scared to talk in class. I held in my coughs until I turned red because I was terrified of drawing any attention, and when I had to sit down with the rest of my group during school camp, I hyperventilated and cried because I was too scared. Technically, I'm describing "socially anxious" but you can imagine that I wasn't going to be a star at actually talking to people either. Then, one day, I became aware that I could act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 04:10 AM
12	Morals don't matter compared to how attractive you are physically, socially, and sexually Well, since you put a serial killer on the list... let's add another one. Jeffrey Dahmer, much like Bundy, had his own group of women swooning and drooling over him. He regularly had female fans sending him nudes and love letters in through the mail. If you're not aware: Jeffrey Dahmer is very much gay. It was clear no fangirl ever actually stood a chance. Unlike Bundy, Dahmer did not have ASPD ("psychopathy") and thereby lacked any form of superficial charm. Alongside Borderline Personality Dis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 03:47 AM
4	In what ways is porn addiction damaging for men, and why? I didn't believe in it either until I got with someone who was addicted. My libido was far higher than his, but he wasn't interested in having sex with me. Sexually, I was extremely low-maintenance. I was more invested in him and his pleasure and only wanted to please. He could only get off with me if he fantasized about porn. He preferred porn over sex and believed any man was like that. He masturbated on the toilet at work, knowing full well he had a girl to come home to who would do anything …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 05:44 PM
4	In what ways is porn addiction damaging for men, and why? The brain doesn't know the difference between porn and real life. I am really happy to read this because while this is completely true, many people are completely in denial about this fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 05:36 PM
5	In what ways is porn addiction damaging for men, and why? It's addictive in the way gambling is. I had a guy who couldn't even maintain an erection because of excessive porn use, and it would take him hours to be able to orgasm. Porn is not an addiction to mainly just the body like cigarettes are, but it's predominantly psychological. It installs all sorts of skewed beliefs about sex and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 05:34 PM
–	”You can’t wife a hoe” I think God is just as against sharing your partner as you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 04:47 PM
6	Why girls don't want a househusband Being a parent isn't 8 hours a day. It's 24. Whenever, wherever, whatever. Children aren't going to act like adults. They'll act like babies, like toddlers, like children. They'll be childish and immature and they'll make mistakes that you have to clean up. As a fulltime parent, there is no "going to work" every day. You go to work once. When you come home from the hospital with a fresh baby in your arms, you'll be on the clock. You don't go to work, you are at work. The good thing is that you c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 02:30 AM
7	Why girls don't want a househusband Being a SAHD should absolutely still be seen as a job, though. It might not be one where you get paid every month, but that only makes it more valuable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 02:19 AM
8	Why girls don't want a househusband There we go! A fight for equality that benefits men, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 02:11 AM
2	Real dating life is closer to Instagram/YouTube than it is to reddit. I just read your post feeling like I usually do when reading people's theories, assumptions and theories on here. However, I came back to this post after closing it because you might actually be right. Something that took me a while to realize was that the American dating culture differs quite a bit from the European ones. However, for most places, mainstream social media is American social media. The language of the internet is English, there's no doubt about it. Many people use social media, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 01:44 AM
1	CMV The Concept of „Male Friends“ as a taken Women is completely ridiculous and if you think logically about it, it makes zero sense, and the manosphere is right about this one. I am friends with quite a few men, so I will use them as reference. if a women Meets a Mans looks threshold he will fuck her if the opportunity arrises, the point that he would fuck her is enough to prove that he cant be a friend off her. Not every man is only interested in looks. In my group, most of the men are virgins. They have no interest in hookup culture and don't understand the appeal. I know that my single friends would not turn me down for my looks, but I do believe that they would sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 02:29 AM
1	sex toys Well, the other options are female masturbation, which is mainly for men; gay sex, which is mainly for men; heterosexual sex, which is mainly for men; lesbian sex, which is mainly for men. And also, by your logic, what is popular in porn is also a turn-on in real life. There's a reason many men get off to the women on the screen but would never want to associate with any of them in real life. The more popular a porn star is on the screen, the more she is hated for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 12:53 AM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war Many of these women were groomed before turning 18, which is why they are able to immediately make an entrance after becoming legal. Thing is, at 18, your brain is still not fully developed. It takes over half a decade before the frontal lobe is done maturing. You know what the function of this lobe is? Decision-making. It's just a more grown-up version of offering a child candy to take off their pants. Yes, the kid might do it. No, it's absolutely not right. Once these girls realize what they'r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 08:43 AM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war Oh absolutely. I was focused on outlining the damage done to the actors, but the way porn affects the users and our culture as a whole is devastating to me. I've been in romantic relationships with two porn addicts. Neither understood nor respected my desire for autonomy. If I said no, the first would continue to beg until I gave in (though he did end up overpowering me once and ignored my begging until I freed one hand and slapped him across the face) while the second would scream at me for not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 08:33 AM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war Sorry, I think there's a misunderstanding. This isn't a matter of opinion where your definition of forced might be different from mine. I'm talking about legal theory. The official term for forcing consent is sexual coercion: Sexual coercion is unwanted sexual activity that happens when you are pressured, tricked, threatened, or forced in a nonphysical way. Coercion can make you think you owe sex to someone. It might be from someone who has power over you, like a teacher, landlord, or a boss. No…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 08:13 AM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war You know that if it wasn't for the large viewerbase of men getting extremely sexually aroused from watching women get tortured, beaten and raped, there wouldn't be a need for these women to get tortured, beaten and raped? Isn't it absolutely deranged that this kind of abysmal content is in high-demand? Of course there will be women who are angry that they felt forced to eat puke and piss to keep their job. Frankly, I think we should all be angry that there are people in this world who are derang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 06:55 AM
2	Do you split costs in a relationship 50/50? Fair. The patriarchy also made it so that women couldn't have their own bank accounts, and when they finally could, the banks required permission from their husbands. If you want to reverse the roles, that would be great. You don't have to pay for any date, so long as all the money you have goes to your partner! You don't have to work, you don't have to vote, you don't have to complain!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:58 AM
3	sex toys How is male sexuality shamed? Did you already forget what this post is about..? Sexuality is more than just heterosexual sex. Men are disgusted by women's partnered experiences. Women are disgusted by men's solo experiences. Solo masturbation is also part of one's sexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:46 AM
–	Holding women accountable for their decisions is still taboo: Former pornstar complains she is now asexual after her “career” and people are literally treating her like she was kidnapped during a war Well, the porn industry is extremely toxic. The Human Trafficking Hotline reports sex trafficking as the leading type of trafficking, identifying porn trafficking as the top-ranked industry in this category. When Lana went into porn, she was just a teenager. This industry isn't one where girls go around having amazing sex with hot men and feeling empowered from it. She was gagged until she threw up into a bowl, after which the guy pissed in it and "asked" her to drink it. People try to minimize …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:40 AM
2	If you have a sibling of the opposite sex, has having that shaped your understanding of the opposite sex in any way? I have an older brother. We're close in our own way, which is common for the younger-sister/older-brother dynamic, I guess. My brother definitely embodies the ideals of a certain type of ideology... which is one I despise. Usually, children take after their parent of the same sex. I had the misfortune of growing up in a sexist household. My mom was a SAHM, and we grew up watching our father treat her without basic human decency. Looking back, it makes me so angry that I adopted this behavior tow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 11:24 PM
–	Why SHOULDN'T I treat marriage like a job? That is such a lovely way to put it, though! Marriage isn't a job; it's a personal business. I think healthy relationships can be truly beautiful because of all the growth. Falling in love, accepting each other's "uglier" sides, getting a house, marriage, kids... both working towards the same goal. Relationships can come with many unexpected hurdles, from financial to emotional and even physical... but you're overcoming them together. Keeping score can be a death-wish to any relationship. If bot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:46 PM
–	Why SHOULDN'T I treat marriage like a job? Because, to be blunt, why bother even being alive at that point? A life that empty doesn't feel like a life at all. Marriage isn't a job. Marriage is work. Marriage is a lot of things, but it should never be a job. The biggest reason why you shouldn't do this is because children are part of this transactional relationship. Children learn what love looks like from their parents. The way one parent bonds with the other will be the way the child instinctively expects their own romantic relationship…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:39 PM
3	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? Did you work/volunteer at the Efteling as a dwarf?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:08 PM
–	Do women reap most of the benefits of a relationship being single? Literally no woman has any doubt in her mind that being catcalled doesn't signify anything long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:05 PM
–	Do women reap most of the benefits of a relationship being single? So you're telling me a woman can be mature and desirable?!?!?!? WE'VE BEEN LIVING A LIE!! OH NOOOO!!! I ABSOLUTELY NEVER SAW THIS COMING!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:03 PM
4	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? I just checked and it turns out I'm still shorter than most North-Korean women. The good thing is that finding someone who's taller will never really be an issue for me, lol. And thanks for your condolences, lol. I can't even join the military if I wanted to here. When it comes to romance, I'm fortunate enough that I don't fall for one specific kind of appearance only. I think the worst part is that some guys are so tall, I've gotten elbows in the face at the club because they'd move their arm b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:17 PM
5	Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring? Ahhh, I'll be honest. The whole definition of "drama" is absolutely skewed to me after my last relationship. I personally dislike problems but am still the kind of person to address them to try and find solutions. When I first started dating at 14, I was nothing like that. Being emotionally dysregulated, I could turn extremely volatile over seemingly nothing. After a ton of introspecting and growth, I have found a solid answer for why I did this: I was extremely, extremely dumb. My emotional int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:27 PM
2	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? Okay but don't complain about never getting sex or female attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:53 PM
5	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? Bruh how many 4'10" men do you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:52 PM
15	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? Lmaooo. As a 5'0" Dutch woman, I don't think I'll ever meet a man in this country that couldn't overpower me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:50 PM
–	Does feminism create MGTOW mindset in well meaning men? Go right ahead! Honestly, I'm somewhat optimistic that far more people would be supportive of feminism if they actually knew what it stood for. Instead, social media has painted this insane caricature of feminism where women (and even men) deem women supreme goddesses and men worthless filth. It makes me really sad and disappointed... So anyways, if you have any questions, I'd love to talk about it more!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:30 AM
–	Does feminism create MGTOW mindset in well meaning men? Feminist here with male feminist friends. If you're on TikTok: Get off TikTok. The real world isn't as radical, I promise. Men can sit down next to women in public transport. Men can look at women. Men can treat women as humans, just as women can treat men as such. Feminism isn't about men being rabid rapists and pests; it's about men and women being equal. Both sexes' struggles are important. Feminism doesn't talk about all men being bad to women. Feminism is about wanting the men who are bad t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:37 AM
2	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? I think it's also accepting that you won't always be your best, and that that's okay. It's cutting yourself some slack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:01 AM
1	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? Confidence is to not feel like you have to compare. You are happy with who you are and don't look down on others for being their own self. It's a bit tricky. If you have an amazing, high-paying job, that's something to be proud of. It's not what should define you. Rather, it's the traits that got you to that point. Confidence is not something you need to prove; it's something you feel. Using myself as an example: I can befriend others quickly. Objectively, I am likeable. I know this and am proud…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:58 AM
1	How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women? Fat men are well known to be funnier than skinny men. Not really. I don't know where you got this assumption from. wouldn’t fat guys be more comfy to cuddle This depends on preference. I prefer naturally lanky guys with fast metabolisms. more bouncy to ride on? The more fat a guy has, the more difficult it is to move up and down since the woman needs longer thighs. Also, most women can't orgasm from penetration so even if it's bouncy, it doesn't mean it's better. Wouldn’t fat guys be more likely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:45 AM
–	CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still single No. It means I am proud to have a partner who is attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 10:58 PM
2	CMV Status and Money does improve you‘re GENUINE Attraction if you have base value. You'd still be lonely, even if you weren't alone. People who are only after your money are no different than subscription AI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 08:19 AM
2	CMV Status and Money does improve you‘re GENUINE Attraction if you have base value. Technically there's a third... Use the money for good plastic surgery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 07:17 AM
1	CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still single Imagine a hypotheses where this guy comes out not wearing a shirt and showing off his abs and a bunch of girls are checking him out. I love it when I'm with my partner and people check them out. It makes me so proud, almost as if they're indirectly complimenting me. I've had exes that were the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 05:35 AM
17	I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection. we're told to volunteer, join a club, do a social hobby, play sports, etc. Which doesn't work for most of us to begin with and can have negative consequences. Why should we have to do these things to meet someone? Because you choose to not be a part of society. Why would society choose to help you? If I buy a car without insurance and crash it, would it make sense for me to expect the insurance company to give me a new car? No. What do you bring to the societal table?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 05:28 AM
11	CMV: Dating is heavily genetically determined Where do those who are neurodivergent go that don't have autism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 05:10 AM
21	Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity? I was 20; he was 26. The difference might not have been that big, but we were at completely different stages in our lives. I was a student while he worked fulltime. He pushed me to move in with him, and when I brought up the issue with money, he had no issue promising it would be fine. He knew exactly what my plans for the future looked like and seemed invested in making it work, even saying that him supporting me financially was an investment, and so I didn't have to feel guilty. I took on all …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 02:07 AM
3	Men are emotional. No one is saying men come out of the womb without emotions. All the blue pills and feminists keep thinking we are saying men have no emotions Truthfully we don't know that much about the brain Very true. Though in psychology, we have discussed this topic in quite a bit of detail. Technically, we are born with three emotions: distress, pleasure and interest. However, these emotions are more mechanical than anything. I could even argue that it has no more depth than the emotions of an ant. It's for basic survival. 2-3 months: infants acquire joy, sadness, anger and disgust. 6+ months: Fearfulness and surprise. 18+ months: Infants acquir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 11:29 PM
–	Women been backing up involuntary celibates' theories Honestly, I've been socialized to not even look men in the eye when I walk past them in public, simply because I'm scared they will say something to me. Sometimes people around me will make certain remarks about people's hair or faces, and I'll always reply with, "oh, I didn't see..." because I avoid eye contact. I guess it's the idea that if I don't see them, they don't see me. It actually works, but it probably doesn't make me look too friendly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 04:06 PM
7	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it Well... they do say that men only care about pussy... I guess they meant it literally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:59 PM
2	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? You're the one playing semantics AND you're begging the question with your caveat premise conveniently thrown in. OP speaks in a specific language and chooses to only argue in this language. I'm playing by his rules while still trying to get my point across. I don't want someone with a vagina, I want someone with genitals and then I have a double standard: I require a vagina for the other but not for me. This is not based on moral principles. Nobody chooses to be born with a penis or a vagina an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 03:25 AM
4	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Double standards are hypocritical. They're synonymous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:25 AM
–	Should married people travel leisurely without their spouse ? I've read stories on here of people who do it, and if their partner is fine with it, I don't see the issue. However, if their partner is opposed to it, I think this is completely fair and should be respected. And yes, people should definitely fund their own trips. If a partner wants to fund or gift them a vacation, then it's obviously fine, but if you go alone, you pay alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:13 AM
6	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? Well, you did agree that the term "double standard" fits better, right? Expecting someone else to have something you don't have, while the thing in question is not gender-exclusive. In this case, it's virginity. You also bring up losing weight as another example. Hypocrisy: "the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense." You argue that requiring a partner to be or do something you aren't or don't, does not match the descriptio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:10 AM
9	Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical? it's not hypocritical it's more having different expectations so on this point we don't disagree. ... Lord... Totally irrelevant to the discussion but ok. Your question literally starts with, "Am I wrong..." How is them saying it's technically not "wrong" but the real world will still morally agree that it is wrong? They're literally answering your question. If trying to argue you want to call it mental gymnastics good for you. Well, yes, they're mental gymnastics because you're trying to ration…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 12:04 AM
2	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? I legitimately think that the decision making ability to choose the right people to be around, the right things to do, and the right things to pursue is something that has to be learned. In a way, I completely agree. Some people grow up in an environment where these skills are almost innate. For many people, the relationship dynamics they witness in their early years are very similar to the ones they will experience in their own romantic relationships as adults. The way their parents interact wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 02:31 AM
–	CMV Its very easy to „bust“ a golddigger or a Women that is settling for you. I thought you were talking about the contractions? What else could you possibly feel? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 01:17 AM
–	CMV Its very easy to „bust“ a golddigger or a Women that is settling for you. Bro... women can... tighten their vagina... on command... Please tell me you know this. Please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 11:20 PM
–	Why not just avoid telling a potential boyfriend/husband about the past? Why not just not tell just tell him something he'll want to hear and avoid all the hookups stories? Because this is manipulative and undermines one of the most important characteristics of a relationship to me. I am an honest person. I don't want to lie, especially not to my partner. Respect is also very important to me, and lying would contradict this. What I did in my past is in my past. If my partner does not feel comfortable with my past, then that's an issue I want to tackle with him head-o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 08:01 PM
10	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? Meh, it's difficult. All I got is my own experiences and those of my friends. Obviously, the 80/20 rule doesn't actually apply here. The whole idea centers around women who have a shit taste in men, me included. The bar is mainly about how a man acts in a relationship. One of my friends is getting more and more invested in this one guy who keeps bread crumbing her. She knows about the game he's playing, yet she still wants him to want her. I've seen his pictures and frankly, he's not too attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:51 PM
1	Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attraction I'm from a country where at 11, we do a bunch of tests of which the score will determine the difficulty level of our secondary education. I got a near-perfect score and was thus recommended the highest level. I went to the only high school in my city that offered this level of education and was hit with an actual culture shock. While I grew up in a "white trash" neighborhood, everyone around me seemed to come from money. Senior teachers would talk about how they remember teaching the parents of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 04:36 AM
5	is anyone else who is attending college afraid because of all the rape cases going on?… I'm 22 and very much enjoy a good party or a night out clubbing. While I'm not a student, I live in one of the biggest cities in my country and have raked up some life experience. You can have fun, even if you can't let your guard down completely. Not too long ago at a club, I was drugged. I was feeling tipsy when we went inside, and after two beers, I struggled to stay conscious. I had never felt so out of it. It didn't end badly, fortunately, because I had followed the most important rule when…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 03:55 AM
1	Question for the girls with friends like this Ai ai ai, tough one. I'm not big on texting, but I'm very social in real life. Having struggled with social anxiety for most of my childhood, I invested a lot of time and energy into turning myself into someone who can talk to anyone. To answer one of your questions: yes, they might actually just be that boring. It's close to the only personality type I find myself put off by. I ask a question, they reply and will sometimes look like they are waiting for another one. "How was your day?" "It was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 03:28 AM
1	How many of you guys use the height filter on your app? Would you be for or against apps having a weight filter and why? I will say, I don't use dating apps. However, if I did, I wouldn't use the height filter. I'm 5'0"; I'm not worried. I've been extremely attracted to quite a few short guys, so filtering them out would be an absolute waste. As for the weight filter... indifferent. I'm 110lbs, so I'm far from being too fat. Having said that: weight filters would be a bit wonky. One woman weighing 120lbs wouldn't necessarily be skinnier than a woman weighing 130lbs; if the second woman is taller, it would make sen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 09:43 PM
2	Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groups Absolutely! A generally positive personality has so many benefits. Making others look good already makes you look good, but they'll also actively make you look good in return (if they're good people).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 07:10 PM
–	Misandry doesn’t exist Time for the downvotes: I consider myself a feminist. Misogynism is far more than hating women because of personal reasons. Rather, it's a far more deep-rooted, majorly subconscious belief that women are simply worth less. There are good women and bad women, yet even the best woman is worse than the average man. It's more than just sexually; it's emotionally, rationally, intellectually- you name it. Misogyny is inherently bad and shouldn't exist. Misogyny is objectively more damaging and deep-ro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 09:53 AM
2	Women and Men screwed up dating... Why blame the mother if the father chooses to abandon his child completely?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 08:05 AM
1	Women and Men screwed up dating... I'm actually seeing it happen more and more in real life, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 07:53 AM
6	Musings about Age Gaps However, I have doubts (not backed by science) that most relationships with an age gap like that involve the older person exploiting (consciously or unconsciously) a younger person's inexperience and creating an unfair power dynamic. Been in a smaller age-gap relationship. I met him when I was 19 and he was 25; we got together a year later. The circumstances weren't in my favor since I was a student while he had worked fulltime nearly his entire adult life. I have learned that maturity isn't wha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:43 AM
0	Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not? Dog standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:14 AM
3	Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not? I swear, the people on this sub are becoming more wholesome and lovely by the day. It's genuinely great!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:08 AM
1	Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not? I was nodding along in agreement until your 9th point. Me and a colleague had a conversation on the same topic just a few hours ago. Nearly everything is high-waisted right now. Shorts, skirts, jeans- it does not fit my figure and makes me look weird. I haven't found a single store in years that sells anything but high-waisted bottoms. I'm still on your side, though. High-waisted anything just hides the curves of the waist... not everyone wants to hide their belly. :/ 10) Always wears makeup. Va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:06 AM
1	The only reason women have the extreme upper hand in dating is because men are way hornier; simple supply and demand. Well, yes and no... Slut shaming is a huge thing. I just started working at a new job and one girl is quite open about her sexuality. Even when she's in conversation, another colleague will go up to her and ask her something obscene like, "did you have sex with another 50-year-old again last weekend?" She's never had sex with anyone even remotely near their 50's, since she's 19. The guy that shames her is around 25, I'd guess. I know guys pushing 30 who go to clubs and spit on the backs of teena…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 07:29 AM
2	The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order. Nah, most of my guy friends are pretty open about their relationship troubles. They're liberal though, so that might impact how they talk about and handle those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 10:35 PM
2	Single women, what are you looking for in a relationship? Thanks for being willing to read! My family has already given him the green light as well and his father seems to really like me, too. My first relationship was with someone from a rich family (we were 14) and my "in-laws" really disliked me for being quiet and coming from a non-rich family. I fortunately found my voice over the years, but the fear of not being approved of by my partner's family always stuck. Life really seems to be in my favor. As for leagues, try not to worry about it! Every p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 07:30 PM
1	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? You want kids then? Or STD's? Both?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:10 PM
1	The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order. How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:07 PM
2	Single women, what are you looking for in a relationship? [DISCLAIMER]: Sorry!! It's a long one. I ended up going over every point mentioned. Hope you don't mind... Anyways, Thank you! I honestly feel like I don't deserve him, and he keeps bragging about me to his friends and colleagues. It's insane how quick life can switch around. As for the criteria he meets: - Loyalty, exclusivity and honesty. These will never be an absolute given, but he's extremely open about the people in his life and he's proud to have me, so there are no red flags at all as of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 06:06 PM
2	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? My dude, if she says you don't have to use a condom; you have to use a condom. Kids aren't the only diseases you can get from sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:50 AM
3	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? Aight GG use a condom though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:43 AM
6	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? How's that going for you so far, buddy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:36 AM
6	The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order. Most guys don't care too much. Of course, it's something that differs per person, but to my knowledge, nobody really cares if a woman's had a handful of partners. My current boyfriend has never made an issue of my number either, and he's my 11th. He's more surprised that my number isn't three times as high, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:51 AM
7	The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order. Because this forum is not representative of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:44 AM
5	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? Oh nonono, it's not on the same level at all. A relationship is a tier higher at least. If your horse can't even walk, nobody's gonna bet money on whether it can run. If you want to find a girlfriend, you kind of need friends. Can't be rich without having money, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:43 AM
1	Single women, what are you looking for in a relationship? I'm still going to answer, even though my relationship was made official today. As a little disclaimer: I'm 20. Absolute requirements: - Exclusivity. No threesomes, no cheating, no openness to experiment with other people. - No secrecy. I don't want to hide the relationships from friends and family. - Open and clear communication. No half-truths or complete lies. Compromises: - Height under 5'10 is absolutely fine. - So long as I think he's attractive, he's attractive. - I'm young enough to not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:37 AM
10	The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order. I love how Reddit is just an entirely different world. I'm just living my best life, come home and settle down, go on Reddit and see this stuff. But it’s the men who know that the woman wouldn’t have gave sex to them in the days of chad chasing that causes most men on here to be bitter. Yeah, I agree. It makes my brain fuzzy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:09 AM
8	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? I should not need a massive social group to do this. I literally said "a friend." Singular. If you're not able to maintain friendships, how do you expect a woman to look at you and believe you can maintain a relationship. I don't understand what your gameplan is here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 02:03 AM
2	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? I met my boyfriend at a party/get together, but since you don't have any social circles and social hobbies, I guess the best place would be a club? A pub? Isn't it a bit of a stretch to go for a girlfriend if you don't even have a normal friend..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 01:37 AM
5	Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors? Agreed. Romance is beautiful, but it's not a fairy tale. It sounds like a dream to be swept away and live a happily ever after, but reality can be pretty cruel. Nobody should become dependent on anyone, regardless of age (except children, of course).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/22 12:46 AM
7	Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors? Agreed. I have friends that already shiver at the idea of an gap over two years, and it really confuses the crap out of me. I was once interested in a guy 5 years older than me, back when I was 18. The gap itself was completely fine, but he constantly tried to put me down because of it. He was convinced that my previous 2.5 year relationship wasn't actually serious because I was "only a teen." The fact that he pretended I was still only a child made met run pretty fast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 11:47 PM
8	Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors? Ohhh, I had a neighbor that gave me some creepy vibes! I've lived in my apartment building for my entire life, and a couple moved in when I was around 6 or so. Me and my mother went to the baby showers of both their kids, and I've watched them grow up while I was also growing up myself. Then, when Rona hit and I was 18/19, I kept seeing their father more and more when I went to our garage or took out the trash. He even invited me to use the tanning bed they apparently had, and he suddenly starte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 11:33 PM
3	Are large age differences in romantic/sexual relationships always bad? Are they sometimes acceptable and sometimes not? What are the limits? What are the factors? I actually just got into a relationship like this. I'm a 20 year old student who lives at home while he's 26 and working. Since it's still fresh and I'm the "younger party," I can't really make a judgement that doesn't sound biased. However, I do think it can work so long as both people see each other as equals and have around the same level of maturity. It definitely differs per relationship, and it's important to not get swept up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 11:25 PM
1	Most men present themselves poorly in public. Well taken care of teeth, nails + cuticles, skincare and haircare are all things I consider "attention to detail." Facial hair is also something that often goes ignored in the grooming process, or at least as far as I've seen. I think the definition of "basic grooming" is pretty vague. However, I believe lotions, ointments, moisturizers and serums are all additions that boost one's appearance. I've had to explain the concept of a "hair mask" to my guy friends at least a dozen times, and none of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 11:15 PM
3	Everyone’s delusional about the opposite sex Lmao, I didn't even realize how his views completely go against the existence of sex toys designed for women. Then again, when you're so far off the deep end, an explanation for it could be, "Sex toys are designed to make men believe women are sexually active. Women don't actually use them outside of a man's view." This dude is only describing sociopathic/psychopathic men and asexual, manipulative women. I always wonder how someone's views can be so skewed...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 07:48 PM
7	Everyone’s delusional about the opposite sex I'm cackling. They don’t know what love is and only have sexual feelings for girls. Thanks for your wisdom. Homosexuality is a lie, it seems. They have no empathy and don’t even love themselves so how could they love anyone else? There are amazing men, boyfriends, husbands and fathers all around the world. The extend of their love is not limited to their personal sexual needs. Girls are practically asexual compared to men. They’re in post-nut clarity 24/7. They don’t really have sexual feelings …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 07:44 PM
3	Most men present themselves poorly in public. Nope, they were talking about presentation. Fashion is one part of it, but so is hair and attention to detail. The way someone presents themselves in public does not only refer to their fashion sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 07:34 PM
25	Most men present themselves poorly in public. People seem pretty butthurt here, but I genuinely agree. Nobody has to put effort into how they look, but yet people are still trying to defend themselves for why they do or don't do it. It's all up to what you want as a person. I used to be an ugly duckling that nobody really cared about/noticed. Instead of actively changing it, I sulked to myself about my shortcomings. When I finally tried looking and being the best I could be, people suddenly cared about me and liked me a lot more. Presentati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 05:47 PM
1	Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men? "I just want to be able to go outside and get groceries or meet with my friends without having to worry about whether or not I will make it home." -Me, previous comment. You: "You have never specified what result you want to achieve." However, experience has taught me it really doesn't matter what you look like. There are disgusting people who don't care about age, appearance, race. They like vulnerability. The stronger you grow, the more of a challenge you seem. Some people love making others f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 08:28 PM
1	Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men? Wait a second, sir... I hope you do realize Techwear isn't cosplay; it's a style. As per Urban Dictionary: Techwear is a Style of fashion that is defined by aiming to combine functionality with style. Lots of compartments, pockets, hidden features etc. Most Techwear pieces are constructed from performance components (i.e. performance fabrics (e.g. Gore-Tex, X-PAC), technical/military buckles etc.). Oftentimes, Techwear primarily uses shades of black, grey, olive etc. (i.e. subdued tones). If you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 10:25 AM
1	Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men? I am dying here, sheesh. Something that always amazes me on this sub is how people make the weirdest assumptions and then pretend like it's an absolute fact. I'll go over all your guesses here, buddy. Long hair- - - Yup. Haven't gone to the hairdresser in over two years. earrings - - - No. probably a couple finger rings - - - Hell no. makeup - - - Certainly. fruity/flowery perfume - - - Nah. Women's perfume never really stays on for long. However, "fruity/flowery perfume" is literally just about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 07:48 AM
2	Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men? Bro, my drip is literally baggy streetwear with tons of layers, and yet it doesn't make a difference. Don't you like going out the door feeling like you look the most presentable you can? Even if you don't: Don't you at least feel like you should be able to if you wanted? I understand that men get beaten for their femininity, but how many of them were beaten by a woman? Women get beaten too for being masculine, you know. Nevertheless, it's a different kind of assault. I empathize with the men yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 10:40 AM
3	Q4M, What advice would you give to your daughter or younger female sibling about dealing with inappropriateness from other men? So imagine your teenaged daughter coming to you for advice on how to be safer when walking alone. She can't always have someone hold her hand or go with her, so there will be times where it's only her. Are you really gonna tell her, "get a buzz cut and hide all signs you're a woman"? Sheesh...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 01:03 AM
1	Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women? Except man don't give a shit about the wealth of a women, Okay, I'm on the verge of giving up. I hope you'll learn about the historical context of the things you want to discuss next time. I don't do this often, but I'll forfeit the conversation. It's extremely tough to try and talk to someone about historical beauty standards when that person has no clue about history and seems too deluded to actually try and educate himself before he spews a new chain of assumptions. Sorry dude. May we meet ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 01:18 AM
1	Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women? Please actually google around a little bit instead of grasping at straws. People preferred pale skin because it means you weren't a worker that had to be out in the sun all day. If you were getting by without having to go into the sun, then you must be really rich. Fat people had a surplus of food. If you had a surplus of food in times were people on the streets died of starvation, then you must be pretty rich. Have you ever heard of foot binding? It's the process of taking a young girl's feet a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 12:39 AM
1	Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women? . Probably it was a rational calcultaion back then people had sicknesses probably even the chances that such women would cheat would be smaller. Okay, I don't quite understand what you mean by this, but no. It was because of poverty. The bigger you were, the more you were able to both feed and indulge. It was like a Gucci belt. In times where food was scarce, having fat was a luxury. That was weird times would you argue that this fake hairs and man running around with white color in their skin w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 02:00 PM
1	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? surely a father is more likely to have more relatable advice by shared experiences If every son is a copy of their father, then I fear for my brother. And I fear for his family. What I learned from my father is that which he did not teach. He taught me the importance of knowing how to handle emotions by showing me what it's like when you can't. I don't want my son to be that way, which is why I want to teach him that. I can tell him, "people are going to reject you and nobody will love you," but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:50 PM
5	What is there more of; people with great looks or people with great personalities? Great looks. I see a lot of people that I consider attractive. But most people bore really fast. It's rare to find someone who's genuinely nice, kind and overall just interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:37 PM
1	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? Do you think no woman has ever experienced bullying? Or has ever been excluded from a group? Grouping all women together and assuming they all fall into the same, generic stereotype is like me assuming every guy lives like chad. Homie, for a little self-awareness, we're on Reddit. we're on the PurplePill subreddit at that. Do you really think that people with great lives frequent this sub? We're all a depressed bunch. Rejection isn't gender-specific. If you believe it is so, then there is no gen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:30 PM
0	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? It's almost as if women can never experience and therefore advice on things they have no clue on "Women can never experience... ...things they have no clue on." What..? What does that even mean? Also, why are you assuming stuff? I never talked about whether I've experienced a lot of rejection or not. What are you deriving this off of?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:15 PM
3	Was cuck culture more normal among older generations than it is today? And god forbid you're an ugly, socially anxious woman. This world is so interestingly cruel, and yet so disappointingly predictable. Isn't Lady Luck just nice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 06:01 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lmaoooo, you're misinterpreting the clauses; I'm not throwing shade on myself. Lemme retry... I don't feel like: "I have to have sex with someone because nobody else wants me."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:19 AM
5	Was cuck culture more normal among older generations than it is today? If that's what you want to go for, then all the power to you. There are many girls like that who are dying to get whisked away, trust me. Only they're as close to invisible as people can get. It took one guy 3 years before he realized I was in his class. 7 hours a day, 5 days a week for 3 years straight. People on here always say women inherently have it easy, but it's genuinely only the pretty ones that do. So, genuinely, I'll hope you'll notice one of those shy girls and have a happy ending wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:10 AM
3	Was cuck culture more normal among older generations than it is today? Oooohhh, I hate to break it to you. homely, chubby, awakward looking, introverted and shy girl But this was me as a kid/teen. For some strange reason, 1 guy was blind enough to not only talk to me and befriend me, but to also get in a relationship with me. 14 year old me was never the same after that. Though, while I feel like the odds of you finding and romancing a girl like that are slim IMO, it's not impossible. However, please know that these are the types of people that often come with bagg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 04:39 AM
0	Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women? Lmaoooo no, actually. First off, cultural beauty standards determine very much what weight class is attractive for women. It is a social construct. Ancient Greece preferred chubby and full bodies. In Italian Renaissance, the more a woman weighed, the more beautiful she became. She had to be as fat as possible. In the 1920's, the best women had 0 curves at all. No smaller waist, no ass, no tits. 10 years later, the hourglass was in vogue. Women were liked with a healthy bit of fat. In the 60's, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 04:26 AM
7	Was cuck culture more normal among older generations than it is today? LMAOOO. A woman who has declined every guy's advances will either be extremely picky or will have had 0 advances... The woman who has had 0 advances will be someone you likely have no interest in, so that leaves the other option. What makes you think someone that picky would turn their head for you? That's not a rhetorical question, by the way. I'm genuinely curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 03:37 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread College aged girl here: No need to be scared. I don't feel like I have to have sex with someone because nobody else wants me. I don't know many women my age that do. A lot of us are pretty happy with feminism as well! Thank you for your concern, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:55 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ohno... I'm so sorry, that's absolutely shitty. I'd probably be petty enough to say something like, "If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't even let you meet her." Standing up for yourself against toxic parents is tough and a lot of the time, it won't really matter anyways. The best thing is to realize they're full of shit and you still have a life ahead of you. Still though, that doesn't change that they're full of shit. Stay strong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:48 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Does this mean the "Alpha fucks, beta bucks" mentality goes both ways? Flip it around and the women's version would be "Pretty bucks, ugly fucks."	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:40 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Okay, I just tried Google Translate to give an example of why it's just as bad as writing a sentence yourself, but it's actually not that bad. I'm also translating this into Google Translate now, but I expected it to be a lot worse. When I was in high school I needed this... five different languages and no useful Google Translate. sheesh. I hate that Google Translate actually does a decent job now... However, even though I do get where you're coming from, the internet is kind of how most foreign…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:31 AM
3	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? It was interesting to see the world from his perspective and culture, but it was equally as heartbreaking, too. His country still stones homosexual people, and he got genuinely offended when I asked if he's ever had a girlfriend or boyfriend. (I didn't know his thoughts on homosexuality before that.) When I tried to reverse the roles and asked how he'd feel if the situation with the teacher happened to his hypothetical 12 year old daughter, he said he'd be extremely angry. "At who?" "The daughte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:10 PM
3	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? Yup, and a lot don't even realize it. I talked to a guy on here once, and he told me the story of how he lost his virginity. He was around 12, and his gym teacher started hitting on him. She was in her mid-20's. So I told him what happened wasn't right. "I know, but she seduced me and I was in my puberty, okay." So I said, "No, no, you weren't in the wrong. She was." "Nahhh, she's just a cougar. Maybe she just wasn't sexually satisfied." He comes from a country where gender roles are still very …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 09:00 PM
4	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? I'm a woman. I think I'll teach my son about healthy communication and how to properly handle and express his emotions. I'll make sure to let him know I'll be there for him if he feels like he needs me, and that I won't judge him if he comes to me for advice or support. I'll try to teach him about healthy boundaries and that "no" is a full sentence. When he's old enough, I'll give him proper sex-ed and make sure he knows men can get sexually assaulted as well, and there's no shame in speaking up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 08:49 PM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? I hope you can change your opinion and see another perspective. I doubt it. I have ADHD and a whole bunch of other mental baggage. Most wouldn't know it, because I know how to hide it. The world is pretty cruel, I am aware. Not everyone is attractive by default, and I doubt I was born into this world with any propensity for it either. I was ugly through and through, on all fronts of my life. And so I learned what others wanted. When I changed, I didn't look at myself and think, "how can I be bet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 03:44 PM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? Yeah, it's honestly not impossible to get laid. But most of these people don't go out very often, so of course it's going to be difficult. Women don't spawn in your house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 03:26 PM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? It's a common RP metaphor. You're taking my use of RP metaphors too literally, but nice try bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 03:23 PM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? That's why some of us consider that looks are the main predictor of confidence That's undoubtedly so. When you're born pretty, the world wants you to exist. People born with the fortune of being attractive will often find themselves with many attractive traits at once. Empathy, charisma, wit, humor etc. I unfortunately can't really say what "grade" I was before and after I did my 180. I can say with certainty that it was more than 2 points, however. As for the people there, I feel like it's slig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:34 PM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? I think our opinions will remain divided when it comes to that. While genetics do definitely play a part in how attractive a person is, there are so many, many things a person can change to make themselves attractive. I used to get called ugly often for the biggest portion of my life. After I got done changing and bettering myself, it was like night and day. It made me realize how many of my own flaws were simply choices I had or had not made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 07:49 PM
1	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? Aahhh, the first part actually made me laugh. You were absolutely spot-on. would he feel obliged to go through such a large article in order to be polite. I need to make it easy for him to ignore the article. Especially this. I hate how accurate it is, but that's exactly how I think. I remember my high school language teachers always filling my essay pages with red-inked, "By whom, where, when?" "What evidence?" It's definitely a common trend with me. Nice job on spotting it, though. what guaran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 07:42 PM
2	CMV: Red Pill and friends are lying about their affinity for Pick-Me Women. If they liked Pick-Mes, they would introduce as much incentive to those women as they do for OF Models and Adult videos Riiiighttttt. You know, I can't even be mad. If that's what they want to go for, I'm not gonna stop them. I don't think I'd want to take that girl's place. While still very young and vulnerable, I'm pretty sure those girls are also smart enough to choose better. Homies really be saying the stacies only go for chads, meanwhile the neckbeards only go for the barely legals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 05:40 PM
2	What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'? I have a bit of a theory surrounding this, but nothing is set in stone just yet. As a bit of backstory: I've got a typical case of daddy issues. Most of its negative effects on me have been worked through, but it has left me with a keen sense for that which isn't "right." Now, the last guy I fell for was someone from a friend group. I met him via Discord. A new server was made where everyone from the group was added in, and he'd sometimes pop into VC if others were on call to say a quick hello a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 05:36 PM
2	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? On average, they're all similarly physically attractive except for the sales group. Since the work revolves around having the best possible charm, you'll obviously put a lot more effort in looking good. While we all had close to complete freedom when it came to clothing and how we presented ourselves, the more put-together you looked, the more people would be willing to listen. You'll learn how to be attractive once your paycheck depends on it. Of course, a pretty face won't get you too far if y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 04:54 PM
1	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? Ahh, I definitely agree that there is always at least a sub-/unconscious reason for attraction. From the top of my head, there were three factors that played a large role in (emotional) attraction as per one of our psychology classes. Proximity, familiarity, and similarity. I wanted to add that childhood also plays a big role in a person's future partners, but I suppose it's something that already falls under "familiarity." As a little side note, I found a chapter that seems to align quite well …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 01:32 PM
4	Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum? I personally find the irony in the 'masculine vs. feminine debate' that the "hyper-masculine" men are truly not so masculine at all. Being masculine isn't being embarrassed of having emotions, it's being confident enough to show them. It's being proud of having the emotional maturity to understand yourself and know what you want. Someone who pushes those emotions down has no clue who they are. They have no control. It's only insecurity and misguided emotions resulting in rage. That's neither mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 12:01 PM
1	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? Honestly, I'm kind of happy about that. My friend is the type of person who has to know someone before he finds them attractive (though not always romantically or sexually), while I tend have an immediate, though unfortunately rare spark with seemingly random people regardless of "societal rating." My brother mentioned ratings as well, and he once remarked how I never "came home with an 8 or up." Funny thing is, both men I introduced to my family as romantic partners were a 10 for me. I wish mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 10:03 AM
1	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? You're a menace. I appreciate that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:38 AM
6	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? Honestly, the people in sales are definitely a rare breed. The people who go to clubs and bars- not so much. When I look back at the people in my classes, both highschool and uni, you were kind of the odd-one-out if you didn't do that stuff. "Quiet kids" are a far rarer breed than the popular or average people tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:37 AM
1	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? Hahaaaaa, I'm so sorry for the essay. It might as well be the draft for a scientific paper... No need to actually read that monster of a reply. Save your sanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:25 AM
1	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? Oh lord, I see many questions. I'd love to answer them, but I will warn you that I'm an enthusiastic writer; apologies if my reply is too long.... As for hypergamy: My own perception of love seems to differ from how it's described. For me, romance isn't a calculated choice. Neither is attraction. I feel like any relationship that's solely/majorly based on conscious thought leaves very little room for natural attraction and love. My romantic track record is perhaps good evidence that hypergamy is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:23 AM
9	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? It's who you surround yourself with tbh. I already mentioned it in another comment, but I have multiple friendgroups that are all predominantly male. The group that likes to go clubbing has a general bodycount of 20+, the houseparty group has 5-10, and the group that keeps a small, familiar circle has 0-1. I used to work in sales, and while our work group was diverse, many were (obviously) very outgoing, charismatic and energetic. The more prominent these traits were, more often than not, the hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 07:18 AM
2	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? Perhaps a little bit off-topic, but I do genuinely wonder. The rating thing; is it something that automatically pops into your head when you look at/meet someone new? I find it both a bizarre and intriguing concept tbh. I never found attraction to be so linear that it could be spread out on a spectrum or stamped with a number. My best guess is that it's because of the countless traits a person can have, as well as my own affection for that person. It's also a matter of personal taste. Me and a f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 07:11 AM
3	Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped? Closest thing to this I've been in was a "situationship" where we kept it going for about a month before he peaced out. It was extremely... confusing? There was also some stupidity on my part, but in my defense, this guy wasn't really a generic "chad" or anything...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 06:08 AM
2	What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'? Unfortunately, I only seem to fall for a very niche personality trait called, "covert narcissism." I've met many men who I found physically attractive, and I've met many men who I found emotionally attractive in a "logical" way (possessing qualities like being caring, considerate, charismatic, funny, confident.) yet none of these men have really given me a romantic spark. I find them attractive, but I am not attracted to them. The only thing that does it for me is the immediate (non-sexual) arou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 05:19 AM
6	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? I gotta be honest, and it will get a lot of hate but I stopped caring. If the only people they can get feel below them, then they're shopping above their price range. I've seen a 5ft, jobless, in-debt, unkempt addict succeed. There are women who aren't picky at all. It's mainly down to how picky you are. You can get laid if you wanted and tried; you just don't like what the market has to offer with your budget.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 05:02 AM
17	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? I'd say on the contrary. for 21% of men to have had at least 15 bedpartners, with ages starting at 15, that's a relatively absurdly high amount... 21% is roughly 1 out of 5 men. If you were to put a man of each eligible age in a room, you'd count 30 heads. You yourself have stated that 8 partners would be generous at 40. Add 7 more; almost doubling the number. Tell each person who has not had this number of partners to sit down. 6 men remain. In a group that counts minors, homosexual men, and re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 04:49 AM
0	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? Number: 30% of men are confirmed not sexually active between ages 18-25 You: i'd wager atleast 50-60% of men are not having regular sex You: Never in history has this happened before Why bring up the number if you're going to disregard it anyways? I'm not bashing on the fact that you're guessing, but I don't understand the purpose of mentioning material that you're going to waltz over anyways. It's an odd strategy... I also believe that a reason for why less men are supposedly having sex is that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 04:30 AM
3	What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women? I don't think Reddit would be the most reliable source for this stuff... A buddy of mine recently talked about his "history" and told me he had at least 20. His best friend definitely either has the same or (most-likely) more. He then went on to talk about a friend of his with over 100, which was when he stopped counting. In another group, I know one dude that has had at least 12. He'd definitely be considered a chad, though. (vain, narcissistic etc.) Another dude has at least 23. The more "timi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 04:18 AM
2	CMV: Red Pill and friends are lying about their affinity for Pick-Me Women. If they liked Pick-Mes, they would introduce as much incentive to those women as they do for OF Models and Adult videos Would you consider a woman who's hyper-fixated on a man's height "high quality"? For me, a person would immediately lose a lot of points if I find out their preferences are so shallow... I guess in my mind, if those are things he highly prioritizes, the connection will be ankle deep at best. It's like basing a game's quality and value on graphics rather than, for example, story. There are many people like that, and they're free to want what they want, but I wouldn't take them too seriously. If t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 04:05 AM
3	CMV: Red Pill and friends are lying about their affinity for Pick-Me Women. If they liked Pick-Mes, they would introduce as much incentive to those women as they do for OF Models and Adult videos Did... Did you really just say virginity is the bare minimum? LMAO From what I've gathered, most high-quality men don't care as much about virginity as the guys in this subreddit do. For most western woman, an obsessive fixation on virginity automatically diminishes the "high-value" status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 03:33 AM
7	CMV: Red Pill and friends are lying about their affinity for Pick-Me Women. If they liked Pick-Mes, they would introduce as much incentive to those women as they do for OF Models and Adult videos This sub is absolutely full with people who prioritize virginity over just about anything else. It's one of the main qualities men (at least most of the men on here) tend to look for in their partner. This sub is full with reasons why virginity is preferable. How it links to personality and shows that a relationship's success is directly connected to how many bedpartners a woman has had, or something like that. Purity, lack of promiscuity, loyalty, devotion yada yada. It's supposed to mean all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 02:56 AM
2	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? I'm not too familiar with all the red pill ideas, so I can't give you a concrete answer. However, I do have opinions on the two things you mentioned. Hypergamy - the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. If this is your definition of hypergamy, then I don't see anything wrong with it. My first boyfriend had a "superior sociological background," and that experience has personally pushed me away from dating rich peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 02:48 AM
2	The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern society I think you're right about things being taken out of proportion, though I do hope that, while both can understandably suck, the importance of hair is different for women than it is for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 06:41 PM
2	The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern society I agree for the most part. If you compare the situation to what Justin Bieber had to endure for most of his teens, a simple joke like that is -quite literally- laughable. However, I don't really appreciate the "only highly sensitive women could be that offended" part. (Ironic, I know) At the end of the day, she does have alopecia. She's completely in her right to be hurt and offended after someone mocks her for having a health condition she can't control. My brother's hair started visibly thinni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 06:01 PM
8	Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum? Ah, I come from a family where femininity is definitely seen as a bad trait in men. It hurts to hear my father talk about how "crying/emotions are for women," or "only women do XYZ, ew." He's the type of person who lets negative emotions fester to the point where he explodes in rage. If that's the masculinity that he so praises, then being a "true man" only brings forth pain. I've had a boyfriend who made it no secret when he was sad. He loved it when I brought face sheet masks with me to have a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 04:12 PM
41	The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern society ... praising Will Smith for not tolerating another man for insulting his wife in public. A thing to note about this is that after the joke, Will was laughing along like everyone else in the audience except for his wife. Then, moments later, his demeanor completely changes and he's suddenly angry. Another reason why so many eyebrows were raised is the fact that, while he does not tolerate another man insulting his wife, he "seemingly" tolerates another man and his wife insulting/disrespecting him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 03:22 PM
9	How has autism or adhd made it difficult to date? I'm a woman with ADHD, but I still want to answer. Sorry. Growing up, I used to be considered weird. I was the quiet kid that drew in class and always got "comically" low grades. When people pointed out my flaws, they didn't feel the need to sugarcoat it. And then I had my "glow-up," and I taught myself how to look better and talk to people. Suddenly, all those traits that made me weird weren't so weird anymore. They were "cute" and "quirky." But in relationships, people actually got to know me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 03:15 PM
8	Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum? Agreed. Being 100% masculine or feminine is both very unattractive. If femininity is defined through qualities like self-care, emotionality and nurturing tendencies, then it's important to not push those traits down. Likewise, if masculinity is defined through qualities like strength, independence and assertiveness, it's equally as important to maintain those traits. Understanding and harboring a healthy balance between two sides is what makes a person attractive and successful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 03:01 PM
4	Do you think masculinity and femininity are on a spectrum? I honestly think it depends on how far they lean on the spectrum. Hyperfeminine men are indeed underappreciated when compared to more masculine men. However, I also believe that hypermasculine men are starting to become less popular as well. Now that society is becoming more liberal, younger generations especially are turning to that which falls outside the norm. The way the internet went wild over Pinocchio's voice and character is a great example of this. I think the same is said about hyperfe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 02:51 PM
2	Q4W: At what age did you lose your virginity? I was 14. of the two other women in my group, one was 17 or 18 while the other is still a virgin. From your history, I'm curious why women have to be a virgin? To each their own of course, but I'm intrigued.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 08:10 AM
2	Both men and women just want to be treated like they are human Agreed. My main friend group is predominantly male. Most of these men have never had a relationship and are still virgins. Of the three women in the group, one is in a happy longterm relationship with one of the guys while another has never had a relationship and is still a virgin. The third one is me; a single woman who had had relationships and liked going out. If everyone just treated each other like human beings... This is why the dynamic works. We all have our problems, and we all talk abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 08:02 AM
1	Women should not do 50/50s I can't believe I'm getting roasted by a fellow Genshin Player. Ironically, I'm actually on the fence about whether I want to have kids at all. I am curious as to how you made a connection between my comment and your crude assumption. Care to enlighten me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 05:19 AM
1	Women should not do 50/50s Ah, you misunderstood me... When I asked for further explanation, I didn't mean the "blowing out... and coochie" part. I'm quite well-informed about all the risks and long-term effects pregnancy could have. I will have to correct you on the fact that none of these issues are guaranteed. Some women experience none of these side-effects while others do. It's not as simple as rolling the dice either, since genetics come into play as well. I'll also say that you misunderstood me on the "team effort"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:47 AM
2	Women should not do 50/50s Reasons for why a man has to pay for a woman's entire existence: - Woman will get pregnant one day, maybe. - He puts in all the effort during sex while the woman remains... passive..? - She buys overpriced beauty items. I get the concern regarding pregnancy, but it's not really actually about that... Having the need for financial stability during (and even more so after) pregnancy is absolutely valid. Using this as an excuse so that he pays for every date, gift etc. while there isn't even a kid …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 12:52 AM
1	Women should not do 50/50s shit end of the deal in life This is very subjective. What's a shit-deal for you is not the same for me. I don't really understand what you mean with the rest of your comment, so if you will, please elaborate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:20 PM
1	you aren't lonely because women find you ugly. you are lonely because you are a 3 looking for a supermodel When someone is anxious, they fumble with their hands and look at least somewhat uncomfortable. Other people subconsciously pick up on this behavior and will be more wary about a supposed threat. Because there is no direct source of a threat, the brain will be more inclined to label the anxious person as the source instead. When someone is confident, they don't have those nervous mannerisms. Instead, their confidence has a more soothing effect on others. People are followers by nature, so when s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 09:16 PM
2	Women should not do 50/50s Exactly. In a relationship, you're supposed to be a team. If my partner will ever have to go through losing his job and personal source of income, then I want to be able to catch him and help him back on his feet. I want that to be the other way around as well. I can't believe some people are actually content with being so... useless..? I want to have a child together with someone instead of simply "bearing my partner's baby." It's supposed to be a team effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:50 PM
5	Women should not do 50/50s If he wants to split 50/50 and be equal then he has to agree to before mentioned things. You sound delusional trying to justify your beliefs. If you don't want to be financially independent and instead leech off a man, find someone who wants the same thing. If I had a man that paid for the first date, then I will pay for the second. I will find someone who wants the same thing. then it means he must take FEMALE responsibilities and allow you to strap-on him as well. Not only are you lazy when …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:16 PM
1	If TRP men here think women are inferior and are exactly the same, then why bother being around us? There is nothing "normal" about being talked about like a worthless sex-object whose only value comes from the amount of people they've slept with. I feel like I'm often communicating with others outside my "little female privileged bubble," yet it never feels like the other person harbors negative feelings for me based on my gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 11:02 PM
1	Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex. In a way, I do think I understand the both mindsets, but it really sounds like a, "These are the rules, but I'm the exception" type of thing. If a woman immediately shared the bed with any man she might become serious with, then her supposed value would be in the negative. Three years ago, I lived a far different life than I do today. It's one I'm not proud of today, and I've since changed ways. Having those unfortunate, teenage decisions be used against me doesn't really sit too well with me, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:07 PM
1	Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex. "Body count lowers a woman's value." "I'm angry she didn't immediately rip off my clothes after the first date." ????	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:13 PM
1	Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex. Someone doesn't have the right to dictate when another person has sex with them. It's a complete lack of respect for someone's bodily autonomy. Not wanting to date someone who doesn't immediately have sex is fine. Getting upset with her because of it is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:10 PM
1	If TRP men here think women are inferior and are exactly the same, then why bother being around us? What am I asking for then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 01:13 PM
1	If TRP men here think women are inferior and are exactly the same, then why bother being around us? If y'all treat cats the way you treat women, please never get a pet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:55 AM
1	How much responsibility does a man have in protecting a woman and vice versa? Welcome to equality, ladies. Thanks? I'm not complaining. Unless the ones we need protection from are men; that still kind of sucks. That's also not really "equality" either, lmao. Use that pay cheque to protect yourself. W... what..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:52 AM
1	How much responsibility does a man have in protecting a woman and vice versa? No offense but... if she's a stranger to you, then you're a stranger to her. This girl really jumped into a near-stranger's car, huh? I think you did protect her by teaching her that what she did really isn't a good idea. Neither gender is more or less responsible for the other. If it was obvious that she was in danger and you could help her, then that's the right thing to do. Swap the genders and the consensus stays the same. However, this girl could have put herself in danger by going into you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 09:50 AM
1	Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they? A friend of mine is a (female) virgin at 20. She told me she just hasn't really found the right person, and I've never really seen her be romantically/sexually engaged with any guy either. She's got a lot of qualities and traits that would make it easy for her to land someone if she ever actively wanted to, but while she isn't opposed to the idea of dating, it just hasn't happened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 06:01 AM
6	Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex? Wow, I have experienced life opposite of how your female friends are described here. I was ugly and shy as a kid, and there were enough people who were more than willing to remind me of that truth. I was convinced nobody could fall in love with me. At one point, I was tired of it, so I changed everything I thought I could possibly change. Behavior, personality, looks; I did a 180 on them all and obsessively tried changing more. And only then did people finally treat me like a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 12:10 AM
2	Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex? Of course. At one point or another, there won't be much of a reason to impress the other sex. Many people will also have the realization that they shouldn't even have to try. If people aren't impressed by their regular self, that's completely fine. I think it's an on and off thing that differs per person more than it does per gender. There also is a difference between wanting to look good for the opposite sex vs. wanting to look good for yourself. At the same time, I feel like many people don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 11:51 PM
1	You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv" Yes but they still have to meet all of your dating criteria Where are you getting this from? Are you seriously trying to enforce your argument with an assumption you plucked out of nowhere? It's better to ask thing you don't know than to throw around false statements. If a man meets all my dating criteria, then I would automatically consider dating him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 11:04 PM
1	You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv" Lmao, what? I know plenty of women who slept with someone they don't want to date. I am one of them. Maybe it's a generational thing, considering older women are often more conservative, but the, "He's fun for an evening, but I don't want more than that." line is one I've heard plenty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 10:41 PM
7	Any casual conversation that a man initiates with a woman will be seen as flirting Then what's your belief on platonic relationships between men and women. Is that still possible since it's passed the threshold of the misread flirting stage? Also, it's a matter of confidence. If a woman is overly confident, then she'll believe all men are flirting with her. If she's insecure, she won't believe anyone is flirting with her, even if it's obvious they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 06:08 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men I can get mad bitches regardless so why would I bother? Why would I dress for men if I've never had trouble attracting just about any guy anyways? It makes no sense to me, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 05:50 PM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Lmao buddy, where are you getting your information?? These are all quite the assumptions to make. I'll correct them for you, since your perception of me seems a little off. I don't go out to look for male attention. If your referring to places like clubs, I will definitely not be wearing any heels. I only wear heels when I know I'll be sitting down a lot. Being short is actually more of an attention grabber than being of average height, since it goes against the norm. If height is what grabs tal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 05:29 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men I think they make me look cute, and they make my butt look bigger. I'm also a sucker for change. One day I'll be wearing heels, stockings, a skirt and a cute top; the next day I'll wear a techwear fit with no accentuated shape- flat shoes included. It's not because I am insecure about it; I just think it looks nice. Plus, I have a young face. It'd look weird if I were tall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 04:31 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men It's not really a hard thing to gather, in all honesty, but sure. If only you could truly gather why women wear heels, lmao. Out of all the things you could have said: better posture, thinner legs, bigger butt- you chose the thing that nobody really cares about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 03:44 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men I don't know if this is sarcasm, but I'm just gonna assume it's not and say that that's already my life. I'm 5ft, the average guy in my country is 6ft, and I have a few amazing pairs of platform heels that really finish my look when I want to go out and look glam. Sneakers don't really match the skirt&stockings look, you know? Even with those heels, enough guys are still at least a head taller than me. I never got the feeling any of them didn't take me seriously, and since I've never known any d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 03:29 AM
1	Q4W: Are you (or have you ever been) afraid of having a guy settle for you? Fortunately I haven't, which is weird because I don't think highly of myself at all. Even so, I'm not being treated like I'm "just good enough", so that might be why. I know enough women who do have this fear, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 03:22 AM
2	What if your partner can't do any better than you but still loves you for you? Lmao, I've had this happen to me. It broke my heart, not for myself, but for my (then) boyfriend. I ended up looking like a pissed off chihuahua, yapping away. Not once, however, did I have the feeling he was only with me because he "settled". Then again, even though I don't think highly of myself, I also don't feel like I'm settle-material, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 03:15 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Lmao, the guys I know (I guess I'm from a younger generation..?) all have a full head of hair and still wear beanies and hoodies because they like them. As for the short girls I know, me included, height never really seemed to be something that made me less attractive. If anything, it gave me a boost since most people automatically feel the urge to help and protect me. I genuinely wonder how many women you know who are willing to talk to you about their insecurities- family not included. Hm...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 03:05 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Just because people like spicing things up, doesn't mean they're insecure about it. It's like saying people who always wear socks are insecure about their feet. Are guys who wear hats insecure about their hair? Are people with hair insecure about their head? Being short as a woman literally isn't a bad thing. It's not an insecurity issue like small breasts and butts are. Since being short as a woman is generally appreciated in the west, there's not much to be insecure about. It's like telling a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 02:52 AM
0	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Buddy, this debate is about current day attraction, not about what happened in the past. Women used to be property and had no right to choose regardless, so it really doesn't matter. Even going back millions of years, I won't deny that women are physically weaker than men since it's an objective fact. I wonder what consent laws they had in place back then... If you check the internet, the majority of research papers state that women prefer men with feminine faces. The fact that you constantly br…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 07:47 PM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men men dont prefer feminized male faces, Unless we're adding gay men into these debates, the fact that men prefer a certain type of face on other men does not really matter. The fact that you take the few days in a month where a woman is most fertile and pretend like it's superior is strange, since the men in our society don't have sex with random women in order to impregnate them. If they have sex just to have sex, then it doesn't matter whether she's ovulating or not. I'd actually say most prefer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:37 PM
0	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Why would tall women want to wear heels though? Also, I love your stereotypical stunted mindset: "Short women who wear heels are insecure." "Tall women who don't wear heels are insecure."	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:11 PM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men "We found that women expressed a preference for, gazed longer at, and fixated more frequently on feminized male faces. We also found effects of relationship status, relationship context (whether faced are judged for attractiveness as a long- or short-term partner), and hormonal contraceptive use. These results support previous findings that women express a preference for feminized over masculinized male faces"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:09 PM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men Even if they're dating a really tall guy, it's still not an issue. I'm 5 ft, and I once dated a 6'3 dude. We both loved the height difference, even though it might have looked a bit odd to other people sometimes. I love wearing heels, because I feel like it completes my outfit and it's great for you posture, so you'll automatically look way more put together. Granted, being short also means you have to look up at everyone, so my posture is generally already fine. I've never worn heels with the t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:01 PM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men "Height raising insoles" Dude, we're talking about heels. If you want to compare; compare heels. If you see a man wearing heels, stilettos, pumps, whatever, do you think it's an insecurity issue? Do you think, for example, drag queens wear heels because they're insecure about their height? The fact that you're bringing in height raising insoles already shows that you know heels are worn for different purposes. It's part of an outfit, like a jacket or a sweater. Some people have a specific style …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 10:40 AM
5	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men No..? Humans prefer feminine faces over masculine ones. It has nothing to do with makeup- it's literally just about looking feminine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 07:16 AM
2	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men They can also wear heels because they like how they look in heels..? Why does that immediately make them insecure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 07:10 AM
1	It’s a myth that women are better looking than men testosterone The hormone that increases a man's attractiveness..? puberty The stage in life known for turning awkward teens into much better looking adults..? even the simple fact that men grow taller means that there is more probability that that growth phase causes more aesthetic "flaws" to appear. Those few inches won't make that big of a difference. Women develop wider hips, larger breasts which can have a lot of aesthetic "flaws" (uneven breasts, small breasts, large areolas, inverted nippl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 07:08 AM
2	Simps have ruined the dating market. Not quite, lmao. It's really just the top 20% of women that get validation like that. The thing with simps is, it's not going to be an even distribution. I know many women who aren't conventionally attractive and hypersocial, and without those traits, it's quite near impossible to get that validation. As someone who's been on both sides of that rusty coin, I can tell you that you need to have a certain set of traits in order to get that special attention. A few years ago, I used to be invisible.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 10:58 PM
1	Simps have ruined the dating market. You're describing the top 10% of women. There are enough women out there who don't live a life like that, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 10:44 PM
3	Simps have ruined the dating market. What I'm trying to say is that the entire illusion of those women is completely distorted. I'm a typical "Stacy" and know quite a few other women who fit the bill as well. None of the ones I know, including me, do this type of crap. From my own experience, unlike your MALE friends, I don't take advantage of others. Not once have I gone on a date with a guy for a free meal or a romance discount. I'm sure there are a few outliers, as there always are, but the vast majority of women neither do this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 10:43 PM
7	Simps have ruined the dating market. Once again, you're using your own rationale to explain another's perspective; it doesn't work like that. The words of a simp are as good as worthless. Since their love and attention is given so quickly, it's not special. It doesn't make you feel special. It makes you feel exhausted because of how adamant they are that they love you, even though they barely know you. They're living in a delusion and are trying to drag you along with them, but you have no interest in their distorted reality. A rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 09:02 PM
10	Simps have ruined the dating market. Okay, so how does "Dating Market" come into the mix? Because what you're talking about is just "casual sex market" stuff. Also, most women don't really appreciate the validation from simps, if you'd even call it that. They're empty words and hold no meaning. A computer generator might as well send a message like that and it would have the same value. It's so strange how guys always try to describe things from a woman's perspective without putting themselves in her shoes. You take her situation b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 08:48 PM
20	Simps have ruined the dating market. So if simps supposedly steal all the girls; why are 99% of these simps getting denied?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/21 08:02 PM
2	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? Lmao I still interact with them as though they're doing me a favor, because it feels that way to me. I won't treat them like a microwave or toilet; I talk to them and try to accommodate them if possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 12:43 AM
2	In regards to education. What if we taught our children that looks, finances and social statuses does play a role when it comes to attracting the other gender? Honestly, I used to look at myself and feel nothing but hate. I was as of unfortunate looks as my peers were, and even with them in my life, I became my biggest bully. Yet no matter how much I beat myself up, it never dawned on me that there was so much about myself that could be changed. And then, one day, it did. And I acknowledged every bad part about myself: my hair, my clothes, my body, my behavior, demeanor and personality, and I made a mental note of it all. I then brainstormed how I coul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 12:41 AM
2	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? Wait, nonono. The person who commented compared prostitutes to sex-toys, which is dehumanizing and condescending. They said nothing about the people who pay for a sex worker's services, and implies that of the two, the prostitute is the only party who should be dehumanized. However, in my opinion, if sex workers are granted no human value, then neither should their consumers. It takes two to tango, after all. But as for actual sex toys, there was no mention of it at all in this thread; it was on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 10:40 PM
1	In regards to education. What if we taught our children that looks, finances and social statuses does play a role when it comes to attracting the other gender? It most definitely would. A single glance at Hitler's teachings about the Jews would probably be enough evidence for that. The things with looks is also that beauty standards are everchanging. What's considered attractive right now will be hideous in another ten or twenty years. However, I do firmly believe that looks can also be altered in a lot of ways. From my own experience, I used to be an invisible, shunned pushover until I decided to give myself a makeover. I changed my appearance and per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 10:26 PM
2	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? No..? What I'm trying to say is that if we dehumanize women for being sex-workers, by that logic, the men who pay for this service should also be dehumanized. However, that logic is appalling and we should all see people as human, regardless of their needs, desires and occupation. You're also the first person I've ever seen using "John" as a term... Please explain what you mean by that, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 10:03 PM
2	In regards to education. What if we taught our children that looks, finances and social statuses does play a role when it comes to attracting the other gender? If kids didn't know this, bullying wouldn't be a thing... It's common knowledge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 06:59 PM
2	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? I see them as equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 06:51 PM
5	In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women? If prostitutes are sex toys, then the people paying for them are desperate, unwanted money disposers. Fortunately, they're not, and have as much worth as any other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 05:51 PM
1	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Reddit has a platform for just about anyone and anything. It seems so sad to put yourself in a box and follow those rules just because it gives you supposed value. It's such an empty life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 10:52 PM
2	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? Lmaooo same. I think it's women who try to class men as low and high value, as well as go by specific rules for dating. Not sure though...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 07:42 PM
3	Is it OK for a man to ask a woman he's dating for emotional support? You are unnecessarily making things complicated for nothing. You know deep down most women don't like to see their man whining like a girl. That's probably just women's biological nature. Lol, how old are you? So far, most of the younger generations don't mind having a human boyfriend with regulated emotions, rather than an emotionally broken child in the body of a man. A man is allowed to feel bad, and he's allowed to express it. Not in the old-school "I'll hit whatever's in sight because my fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 11:58 AM
1	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? I think it's a lot of things that stem from insecurity and homophobia. The fear of not being enough, the fear of their SO actually being in the closet, the thought that their partner is not masculine enough. There's even the thought of having twice as much competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 04:53 AM
6	What do men and women genuinely get wrong about one another both here and in real life? I think it goes the other way as well. When I was around 15, it was out in the open that about every guy from my class masturbated. When they asked the girls, all of them shook their heads with a firm no. I'm pretty sure all of them lied. Women are often taught that masturbation is shameful and disgusting. Sex is something that should not be given away to just anyone, even if you yourself are more than willing to have sex with them. It puts a pressure on the girl to push down her own sexual need…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/21 06:13 PM