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Well goodness me! A mod is now involved this? Please spend your Sunday doing something better than this nonsense. It's bloody tragic. Don't get your tits in a knot. I'm banning myself from your sub for my shocking behavior. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 01:42 PM
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He literally denied it told her it was "all in her head". It was 100% gaslighting. We can agree to disagree if you wish.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 01:01 PM
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She is doubing herself because he manipulated her into questioning herself, which meets the definition for gaslighting.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 12:48 PM
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I know this term tends to get very over-used, but honestly, his treatment of you, and the outcome, is the epitome of gaslighting. Firstly, you did nothing wrong whatsoever. You told him that his behavior was hurtful, and he reacted in a way that reframed it as being all in your head. As a result, you have begun questioning your own actions and behavior, which is the outcome of being gaslit. I would actually very clearly tell him this, and make it clear I won't be tolerating that from him, either…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 12:25 PM
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I hope you're also okay with women saying it's logical for them to marry the richest man they can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:38 PM
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Why are these people so angry? The thing is just weird and odd. Like two people just mad at each other or men or women for no reason. Why are you using this random video on Twitter to make broad assertions about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:21 AM
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I won't remember your existence longer than it takes me to send this reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:48 PM
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I feel like we already are compensated in a way. I'm on birth control and haven't experienced any bleeding for years now. We also have pain relief methods and science is ever-progressing to try to to find ways of alleviating and treating issues women face in terms of reproductive-related pain. Imo the biggest disadvantage would be to have a doctor who fucks you up when you're giving birth, (e.g. gives you "the husband stitch"), or get with a husband who seems wonderful, but turns out to be a use…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:33 PM
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during the last trimester of my last pregnancy, he almost cleared out my conditioner in a couple of weeks. He only has inch long hair! I was just gonna ask him to use the cheap conditioner and not my good stuff. But he wouldn't even admit to using it that way. Um. What the.....??? He's using your conditioner as lube?! That's so damn wrong I can't even. He should at least be using his own lube and not your conditioner! Let alone your nice stuff!! I'd be fucking LIVID if I found out my husband had…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:35 PM
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"Freedom from the 40 hour work week"!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:18 AM
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Omg Hoosker (or whatever name he's evading his ban with rn) is going to SHIT when he sees this!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:40 AM
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lolol wimmin never victims of war crimes lolololol reeeee. It's a meme where? The manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:34 AM
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We definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:10 AM
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There are no female casualties of war, right? They're all just taking sexy selfies for Tinder, aren't they? No women are getting raped or killed, no women have PTSD from war, or lost their sons, fathers, brothers, etc, etc. War is shit men demand in the first place anyway, so of course women shouldn't be forced to partake in nonsense men said should happen. And even then, I'm pretty certain that war veterans get a shit load of benefits specifically for them anyway, so your argument makes no sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:52 AM
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How many new accounts are you going to make with this endless same shit? It's so easy to tell who you are by your posts! Endless ban evasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:22 AM
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Making great money, travelling, seeing the world and having a pet is sad? It sounds a damn lot better than cleaning up shit, puke, mess and dealing with sleepless nights with a screaming baby, lol. Especially if you don't even want a baby to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:32 AM
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Oh my fucking god. Martial rape only became a crime in 1991. A quarter of people in Britain still don't view non-consensual sex within marriage as rape. "iT wOrKed FoR hUndRed oF yAers!" yes it worked great if you were a rapist. No consequences. For women, or people whose marriage just didn't work out, it didn't work. Only a psychopath would make an argument that it needs to be written into law that your wife/husband should not be able to leave you if they wanted to. I'm not wasting my time deba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:52 PM
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Because men wanted strict monogamy and early forever marriage. Which is unrealistic as fuck and you know it. Or do you need me to inform you the reality that all relationships don't work out, and that's okay? If you believe in Disney movie "and they lived happily ever after", that's entirely on you, but the way life was before meant a lot of women were being raped their entire lives and forced to bear children by violent men in marriage. Just admit you'd rather women be oppressed so you get to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:39 PM
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Why aren't you blaming dads, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:58 PM
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Lol right?? OP might as well go full-on misogynist-anti-natalist and blame mothers - single or not - for 100% of all human suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:10 PM
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Oh no! Those pesky single mothers! If it weren't for them, sex workers would never have existed! You have to be trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:08 PM
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CMV: Single mothers are responsible for pandemics and climate change, and will single-handedly cause the apocalypse. No. I don't even need to outline why or how.. You dirty witches already ✨know✨
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:41 AM
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It’s irresponsible to have kids out of wedlock. It’s irresponsible to have kids when you are in debt and broke. Its irresponsible to try and have kids to obtain citizenship, get government benefits or attention. It’s irresponsible to have kids to try and trap or change men or to try and make a failing relationship better. It’s irresponsible to have kids just because your biological clock is ticking or to compete with other women. Literally NONE of these things are exclusive to single mothers. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:34 AM
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That's severe trauma that can bring about things like CPTSD or BPD. Things that warrant years or possibly even a life-time of therapy, reparenting, and learning emotion regulation skills and healing from such sustained abuse. Men don't find that shit attractive in women, either. No one finds that attractive, and why tf would they?! You're literally talking about some of the worst shit a human can go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:27 AM
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Hoosker is back! Again!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:36 AM
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I feel like when I wear makeup and all this, I look better to everyone really? I look better to myself, women, men... idk, if I'm nicely cleaned up, shaved, and put a lot of effort into my hair, makeup, outfit, I look better, but that's no shock? It's fine that I look better. Because yes, I have tried to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:26 PM
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So men don't care about love, and women don't care about sex? They just "use" those things to get what they really want? Wtf kind of men and women are these? Women can be sexually frustrated in dead bedrooms with men; men can have their hearts broken if they fall in love with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:42 PM
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Whooosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:58 PM
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We're sexualized by men from the age of about 12. If you're a beautiful woman into cosplay, it isn't going to take you very long to be inundated with requests from men to sexualize tf out of your cosplay and take it further. All those women are doing are capitalising in on what men already want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:30 AM
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Why pretend that nerdy men aren't interested in sexy cosplayers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:29 AM
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They probably got so used to men asking them if they're also sex workers or sexualizing them that they decided it'd be profitable to become sex workers. Fair play to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:42 AM
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People don't generally believe that statistics must dicate every facet of their lives and choices unless they're mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:00 AM
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Lol what normal, non-basement-dwelling men give a fuck about 'ThE dAtA' on virgin women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:41 AM
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I was actually just nodding to the fact that you calling her "dummy" just seems like the kind of stupid insult an insecure man would say. And, you are! All you've told me is that it isn't your hair you're insecure about. It's your race. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:06 PM
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They probably hit on you because you aren't that good looking You so obviously feel triggered by your discussion with her. Men hit on her so she's obviously ugly, like do you actually hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:26 AM
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Even if you're an attractive lovely older man, large age gap relationships still suck. It isn't even just about looks or predatory stuff. You plain don't have the energy to keep up with a 20-something, and your best years are still all behind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:25 AM
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You could have just said you were bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:20 AM
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Well in that case, I wish you the very best luck with your universal male preference. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:54 AM
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"Every single man" has this preference? Goodness me you must not know many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:50 AM
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It would just be so stupidly fucking ironic for a man to be so terrified of a paranoid, toxic woman that he specifically wants a virgin or woman with very little experience. A grown man who can't handle a woman having a sexual past already exhibits features of retroactive jealousy, which is therapy-warranting baggage by itself, lmfao. A man with baggage seeks a woman with no baggage, why? Because she will trigger him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:45 AM
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Lol. One day he might come home after a bad day at work, a shitty altercation with a friend or family member, and snap at his pure lovely virgin angel! And then what? The world ends? Adults who are completely free of baggage are extremely, vanishingly rare. Yes, that includes precious male virgin Reddit users. It's time to face reality as a grown-up at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:33 AM
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It makes sense if you're under like 23, but older than that, wanting a virgin is a red flag in itself. Being with a strong, mentally healthy woman is one thing, but if you're so scared of being with someone with a less than flawless past points to someone being weak and cowardly. You will, eventually, have no choice but to deal with trauma and difficulties in your life, as well as your pure unblemished virgin girlfriend. There are ways of processing the traumas of life without becoming toxic. Tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:54 PM
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Judging by the utter shitshow of comments that came before it wouldn't surprise me if he was just baiting me for fap material tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:58 AM
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Oh sod it, I'll bite if you really need me to enlighten you. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:05 AM
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Yeah there is absolutely no way that you work in the criminal justice system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:54 AM
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I see cases like this in my local news pretty regularly. No one said that it happens "often", but it is totally false to say that it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:49 AM
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People dont randomly barge into people’s apartments and attack them Yeah that never happens! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:57 AM
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Are people actually delusional enough to think Hollywood celebrity situations like this seriously apply to them? Sigh... they are, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:56 AM
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Lol and what percentage of the female population have the hots for serial killers? Spoiler: Not fucking many of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:05 AM
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What's your point? I said there's dehumanization on both sides: TRP and FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:12 PM
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Lmao this is like saying "women have to be misandrist because men are so sneaky / bad / rapists / cheaters / etc". Dude really wrote an essay all just to say he's a misogynist because he's a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:41 AM
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Referring to women as "plates", "sluts", "whores", etc. There's masses of dehumanization of women in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:49 AM
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I clearly referred to the men and women following TRP and LDS as coming away with the bullshit black and white thinking. I didn't even fucking dodge your question, as exemplified by my response of "No idea". It's ironic you say all this, because you're looking at me as somehow saying "it's men's fault" like I must be some kind of man-hating lunatic, when it's you who can't see outside the narrow box of your own ideaology enough to have a normal discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:29 PM
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No idea. But I know there is no equivalent of FDS or TRP for lesbians. Maybe there is that you know of?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:13 PM
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Everyone doesn't follow TRP / FDS. But all you have to do is read the shit FDS / TRP come out with for a while to see that neither view the opposite gender as human beings with individual complexities and nuances. It's just generalizations and black-and-white thinking that provokes just enough rage to become addictive to people of a certain disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:57 PM
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Women know women are human; men know men are human. There's no gulf in understanding large enough to create a radicalised, dehumanizing view of their same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:37 PM
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It sounds like he's become so absorbed with manosphere content that he's forgetting what's right in front of his face: a loving wife and a family on the cards. Does he still want that? Because it sounds like he's jeapordising the wonderful things he has on the back of the content he's consuming. It also sounds like he has trouble regulating his emotions, which I would 100% want in check if I were considering having children with him, as it wouldn't be healthy environment for them. I'd really wan…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 09:01 AM
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The most egregious part is that most women put little effort into the conversation and are lukewarm at best to average men talking to them. It's a signal of disinterest. Many women will talk in depth with men we're actually interested in. Men only talk to other men who are interested in a conversation or they have a connection with. Lol. This is fairly revealing. Men only talk to other men who are interested in a conversation, whereas men will talk to women who aren't interested in a conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:26 AM
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Good point; this is quite true. As a woman I do tend to discuss more light-hearted topics with my girl friends, like our favourite nail polish colours, scented bath bombs, and kitten whiskers. We steer clear of more serious or even offensive topics like porn or if we took an impressively large shit this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:14 AM
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Yes women are all demanding men make 6 figures, be 6 feet tall and be perfect Chads aren't we? We're literally clinically depressed if we fall in love with men who are not 6ft Chad. Our lives are so easy and perfect. /s Yawn...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:10 PM
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Women can't wait to have sex with men who say women turn repulsive after 28! /s What do you want us to do? Fuck incels out of a sense of pity for them? We set up some kind of "sex charity" for undesirable men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:45 PM
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It depends what kind of man you are. If a man can't speak to a woman the way he speaks to his "guy friends", he's probably just an asshole of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:40 PM
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I'd laugh in his face and walk away. I'm absolutely no where even close to being fat. I only approach men I'm 90% sure are interested in me back though. I can't see myself even approaching a man I think would call me fat. I'd never reject a man for his height, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:15 PM
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How many 21 year old women do you think are seriously interested in random 55 year old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:30 AM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:57 AM
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I feel like my boyfriend would prefer a really good blowjob over many of the things on this list tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:53 AM
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A man is not HV if he wishes his woman to be unhealthily skinny. This is exactly what I was thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 08:03 AM
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Tips for looking more girly and beautiful are one thing. Tips for making yourself sick, emaciated and at death's door are another thing entirely. And shorter? It's not possible unless you develop a stoop or hunch-back. Your husband needs to work on his insecurity issues instead of the solution being insulting you and you making yourself ill in order to cater to it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:42 AM
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I don't know how weird I am in this way of feeling, but I feel more comfortable with my boyfriend watching porn than this. There's something about it that feels more personal. With porn it's just people fucking each other, but with try-on haul videos, it's getting off to a specific woman just trying on her lingerie. I completely get that people will continue finding others attractive, but to me, purposefully seeking out other women's content to get sexual satisfaction feels like it crosses a lin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 02:39 PM
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How easy / hard a particular gender role is to fill will depend entirely on the natural inclination of each person. A man with a pre-disposition toward more typically feminine traits will find it harder to fill the role of masculinity.A woman with a pre-disposition toward more typically masculine traits will find it harder to fill the role of femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:17 PM
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You win this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:16 PM
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It's more that just no one outside of the manosphere cares about this, so our objection is more based on that. The vast majority of men simply do not care if a woman has had some sex or more sex than him unless: It's outrageously high to the point that could indicate some kind of addiction or mental health issue. She has STDs. She has a history of cheating. It can be unhealthy physically and mentally to have a massively high body count, but it's also mentally extremely unhealthy to have retroact…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:37 PM
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LMAO I'm not the one seeing this shit in black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:54 AM
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Yes, people liking hot people means that average or unattractive people remain all single forever. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:56 AM
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They're* I don't usually do this, but it's just such a bad look to see you insult their intelligence, when you can't even get that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:56 AM
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Exactly. Fantasies don't automatically mean someone is unhappy with their relationship. It's also possible to share fantasies together as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:09 AM
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Omfg this is the best answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:31 AM
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People fantasize about all kinds of crazy shit regardless of the attractiveness of their partner. This isn't limited to women happily married to "dorky" men, men who are with extremely attractive women, etc, etc; it's a very normal thing that doesn't have anything to do with partner attractiveness. Btw fantasies alone doesn't mean the person having them is sexually unsatisfied, has a dead bedroom, isn't committed to their relationship, OR doesn't sexually go crazy for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:30 AM
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You need to stop listening to this RP bullshit. This "you need to be 6/6/6" nonsense is literally unachievable or literally impossible for most men. The only thing that is variable is the high-paying job, but even that isn't nearly mandatory for attracting a woman. Istg this RP shit is bordering on a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:10 PM
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It's experience. As we get older and have more experience with relationships, men and sex, and we learn what we like and what we don't. We have more confidence to seek out what we want and move past what we don't. Whenever you see those "What do you wish you'd have done differently when you were younger?" AskWomen threads, a very common one is "I wish I'd have left that bad relationship sooner." I think a lot of women learn from experiences like that, and refine our tastes accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:34 AM
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How do you know the women you're pumping and dumping is the same kind of woman who would use you for your money or a meal or whatever? "It's okay" to use a woman, just because in your past a different woman used you? If someone doesn't worry they're hurting an innocent person because "lots of people of that gender hurt me!", it's just a very loose justification for how they became vengeful and bitter. By seeing women as an "all women will use me" monolith, you're justifying treating women badly …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:29 AM
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It's a pain in the ass, but I do it because I prefer how it looks and feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:37 PM
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I didn't even need to read your username to know it was you as soon as I read the title. It's that obvious who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:57 AM
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Not one man, of any caliber, would reject an attractive woman because she was “socially awkward” or any number of other frivolous reasons. Yes there absolutely are men who will reject women for those reasons, and you know it! You keep being told this by men, over and over again, why do you refuse to believe them? It's the same thing over and over again with these posts from you. You could save yourself a lot of time by believing men when they tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:56 AM
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How will you know exactly what she's done with other guys anyway? She might not disclose everything if you just straight-up ask her to cover everything sexually she's ever done. And, depending on how old she is / how many sexually active years are behind her, it's a weird question to ask if you want to know everything. Also, what if she's done sexual stuff you don't even want to do with her? Would that still make you feel put out? 100% of the time, if I won't do something with my current partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:49 AM
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Better get out there and start insulting some women like a pro Dark Triad Chad livin' his best life! :3 I couldn't fucking live with myself knowing some poor lonely guy might DIE ALONE TOMORROW if I give him bad advice like "keep trying" like please god no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:33 PM
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PPD TL;DR: "Women I get with should fuck me ASAP, but also not be sluts. I have no sympathy for women who are abused by men, because women love being abused by men. Look at this study that proves that women love abusers. Blah blah blah Dark Triad. Blah blah blah Chad. INTERNET THOTS MUST BE STOPPED AT ALL COSTS. *screaming about women posting selfies and getting IG likes* Read the fucking side-bar, there's a difference between incel and RP, you're clearly incapable of reading. I can't find a sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:22 AM
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Then imo that's amazing and you're a rare breed!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:04 PM
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Think the warrior-types It's far more likely a man who has endured that much trauma to go onto become a criminal or be extremely fucked up, drig addicted, abusive, etc, etc, and some romantic "warrior" stereotype. He'd need to have had significant therapy, possibly be on medication. If anyone, male or female, endures all that horrific trauma and does go on to reparent themselves, get therapy, etc, etc, that's amazing and I have so much admiration for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:09 PM
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While I do totally understand feeling uncomfortable that all this was aired in front of you, if women fucked every guy we were vaguley interested in from the start, we'd all be "too slutty." You either like slutty women (their slutty past too), or you expect women to just be sluts for you. As an added bonus, here's a comment chain of a woman telling me I should listen to women who said they prefer partners near their height instead of looking at actual empirical evidence from studies in peer rev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:03 AM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:00 PM
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Oh dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:49 PM
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Lol, for all the "women are narcs because they post selfies" I see on this sub, imo this mindset is narcissistic - to go around believing they're speshel or above average. I have some great talents that I'm proud of, but I have no need to see myself as extraordinary. I think they actually even put the "Do you think you're special?" question in tests when they assess for NPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:45 PM
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It is a real suggestion. Where on earth did you get the idea that therapy is for 16 year old white girls? That's so weirdly specific. Did you get it from TV or something? lol. It's a shame if you think you're too old or manly or whatever for therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:41 PM
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I agree. The vast majority of people are ordinary as fuck, will die ordinary as fuck, and that's fine. Imo might as well spend your time doing shit you're good at and enjoy along the way. If that involves having kids, that's cool, but it won't guaruntee you anything. Many a parents ~"legacy"~ turned out to be that they were just some obnoxious asshole anyway, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:47 PM
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Late twenties. I was getting issues that resulted in irregular bleeding, so my dr told me birth control pills could sort it out. It worked great and never looked back since. I also don't want children, and my partner and I dislike the feel of condoms, so there's that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:51 PM
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Passing a bitter "women bad" victimhood mentality onto innocent children will fix exactly nothing. It'll just bring more incels into the world. Feeling done in by independent women can absolutely cause harm Sure. Like any other adult though you still have to take responsibility and book into therapy if it's causing mental illness rather than deciding it's a great time to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:40 PM
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What would be the point of living for a man destined to die without leaving a legacy? You seriously can't think of a way to leave any kind of legacy or mark on the world without marrying and having children? :/ Harness whatever skills and talents you have and you'll be remembered for more than if you just churn out some kids. Feeling hard done by that women are liberated shouldn't cause you depression, and also won't get you anywhere either. I know you said this wasn't a cry for help, but seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:15 PM
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Can't you just post this stuff on an incel sub? You'll get a better reception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:36 AM
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That’s not very Mr.Bitches of you. Omfg I fucking lost it 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:56 PM
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If a nice man is facing constant rejection then he has other problems. As I said, autism, mental illness or other social issues are usually at play in those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:38 PM
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How is this anything other than a personal rant? You're raving about this as though nice, compassionate, wonderful men don't find love and sex all the time, when they really do. And no, they don't all look like "Chad" or "Tyrone" or whoever. Perfectly normal, oridinary, nice men do actually find love. Also it's worth keeping in mind here that "compassion" and "being nice" doesn't give men erections, either. Tits and ass do, lol. If you want to see what makes men hard, look at porn - it isn't abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:46 PM
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Terrible woman: woman’s fault Terrible man: woman’s fault This right here. On this sub, you can bring up men being abusive rapists and they'll bend over backwards to blame the woman. It's 100% bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:02 AM
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Because it isn't that black and white. Sometimes creepy assholes wear it on their sleeve, some of them don't. Some men give out red flags early, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:00 AM
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How come men know who all the good guys are but women don't? Lmfao they don't know. Male friendships are about as deep as a puddle. "He's a good guy!" because you chat shit for a few hours a week over some beers. Men can have absolutely no idea what their best pal is actually like to love and be with in a serious romantic relationship, and that's when the crazy can show itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:46 AM
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Then those men complain that we won’t date them cuz they’re “nice guys”. Yep. They're such nice guys. Who also just happen to be rape apologists, hate feminists with a burning passion, and follow deeply misogynist RP "gurus".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:34 AM
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You're right. You're being met with derision here because you are speaking to a group of men who constantly speak about how hard they have it, how unwanted they are, and how much better women have it when it comes to attracting people. By their logic, you should still "jUsT PiCk BeTtEr", or you're a stupid bitch who deserves it or even wanted it, because they just don't have the first fucking clue about what "picking a partner" actually means outside of hoping a woman might match with them over …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:32 AM
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He's in shape He looks like literal yoghurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 04:32 AM
2

Hello Hoosker-Doos!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:16 PM
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Lmfao that you asked for a source on something like this is so fucking ironic. All you need to do is read some of the socially inept insanity on here to know many people here are autistic af. Many people here are also pretty upfront with their autism diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:12 PM
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Seriously. Some of his posts straight-up read like "these online posts were the warning signs" shit you see in the news after someone went on a shooting rampage. Actually pretty scary to read tbh. Along with all the rape fantasy posts, omfg..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:56 AM
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I'm autistic myself but this is even too autistic for me. It's like asking "how long is a piece of string?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:33 AM
2

You absolutely need therapy. The way you're dealing with this isn't normal or healthy in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:06 AM
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Disinterest. Also, men can get aggressive when given a reason the woman lost interest. Sure, a woman can "do the mature thing" and tell a man exactly why she lost interest: You're too weird; you're ugly; your breath reeks; you give off psycho vibes... You can give a man these reasons and he will simply come fucking unglued. If he's already upset because he's been blocked, the woman giving him reasons which essentially insult the living crap out of him can be a recipe for absolutely insane drama …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:04 AM
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come up with an honest answer for once The subtext being that women lie constantly. I'm sorry, but fuck that attitude, I'm not answering this. It's obviously loaded af, to the point of pointlessness. If women say we'd do housework, we'll get a load of bullshit dick-ache telling us we're lying. If we say we wouldn't, we'd get a load of dick-acke telling us we're bitches. Maybe some rant about feminisist or feminazis or some bollocks. This is not the slightest bit neutral. It's an obvious invitati…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:11 PM
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Porn more often than not, looks ugly to me. Erotica not only isn't exploitative, but also isn't bound by the limitations of reality, so there's more room for more interesting things to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:23 PM
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I'm just sat here wondering if she used the same strap-on for each of the 3 men...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:43 PM
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I feel like being a bisexual woman is helpful when it comes to how we interpret things like those OK Cupid studies. I can find 20 year old women very attractive myself, but I absolutely wouldn't want to be in a relationship with one in a million years. There's such a huge difference between "most aesthetically pleasing" versus actually being with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:10 AM
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Why do you want to specifically date women with these problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:38 PM
1

Is this an incel term?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:59 PM
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He doesn't like approaching women. In order to "try hard enough" you can't be too scared to actually approach people you're interested in. If you're just sat there looking pretty expecting attention imo, you're entitled and not trying hard enough, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:39 PM
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Well yeah sorry this mindset probably won't get you laid much. You complain about how easy it is for women who just have to look hot and show up. Well, you seem to want to just show up and look fit and get laid somehow. Well if women aren't approaching you, and you're not approaching women, tf you think will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:11 AM
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never had a ONS cause I’m not the type of guy to approach a random woman at the club As a guy it’s not really clear what you’re supposed to do You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:44 AM
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You're right men can't expect to meet women through mutual interests. It's impossible. It doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:35 PM
0

Holy shit that escalated quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:27 PM
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I'm assuming if he's asking his children whose side they're on, they're independent adults at this point in time... Otherwise I'd be very concerned if he was asking little kids whose side they're on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:23 PM
1

That scene was incredibly weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:21 PM
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When we were expecting our first born she had told me she wanted to be a stay at home mom. Obviously I was jealous but I went along with it since it seemed logical. So she spends the next 20+ years as a stay at home mom taking care of our kids while I work 12 hour days and then some. I’m not demeaning stay at home moms by the way, but in the context of our marriage she had an extremely easy going life style. That man 100% believes that being a stay-at-home mother is a breeze through life. "Obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:09 PM
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Not sure where you're getting that from my post about what men want? Regarding IG, it's an extremely notion on this sub that women are obsessed with social media, getting validation from social media, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:57 PM
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This is a common follow-up, too. There's an assumption you need to "fake" a hobby, but why not pick something interesting that you like? It gives the impression people don't want to explore more interesting stuff when surely that's like the point of life in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:33 PM
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There's an odd thing I've noticed about some single men who try to meet women on OLD without success. You'll give them advice like meeting women irl, through social groups and hobbies etc, so they have something to actually bond with a woman over. Having something in common other than loneliness is important to make a relationship work and last. But they'll dismiss this advice totally - I don't want to do this, I don't want to do that, I don't want hobbies or going out.. They do fuck all and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:29 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:59 AM
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I'd much rather be single than with a man who viewed me so poorly. Especially the parts about medication, poorly paid work, and talking about women as a "product".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:58 AM
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What's so bad about wooing someone? If you're interested in someone is it that hard to express it? I say this as a woman who has approached men I've been enamoured by. If you feel romantic feelings for someone, you want to express it. If I thought someone was an entitled bitch or whatever, why would I want to woo them in the first place? If a man starts to see all women as stuck-up bitches well it's no wonder he's opting out. But then that starts to veer into just hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:54 AM
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Entertainment value. It's a freak show.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:29 AM
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You can't read it, because it was deleted for breaking Reddit TOS for sexualizing minors. You can read the post from the mod about it saying that's why it was deleted, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:28 PM
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Cool get a copper IUD Hahaha my mother had one of those when I was conceived. *Copper IUD baby enters the chat*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:33 PM
2

Men who wanted us when we were virgins / inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:00 AM
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Because we experiened them personally and it was terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:48 AM
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Came here to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:34 AM
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This just reminded me that I should have also included shit-slinging insults as another common thing single angry men here do. Even for Reddit, this sub in particular seems to have a very high concentration of men who insult others for the most petty reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:31 PM
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A common talking point from men here seems to be the need to blame women for a lack of romantic/sexual success, rather than the man who can't find a single woman who desires him. "The reason I'm single is because women are children" "The reason I'm single is because women want Chad" "The reason I'm single is because women's standards are too high" "The reason I'm single is because women's egos are overinflated by thirsty men on OLD / body positivity / IG likes" "The reason I'm single is because …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:11 PM
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There are many women on subs for BDD, eating disorders, all kinds of forums based around self-image issues. Also articles, books and media dedicated to the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:33 PM
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Fds is nothing like trp. Fds is hateful Exactly like TRP, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:57 AM
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When I finally upgraded from my old ass iphone 6, I was really shocked and disturbed by all the camera features on the 13 I got. I had the same experience. When I upgraded my ancient phone, it was really uncomfortable to see all the features that came with the camera. The fact that there were so many "beauty-enhancing" filters that you didn't download seperately, (it was just with the phone), felt really intrusive. Features like skin-smoothing, make your eyes bigger, make your face look slimmer.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:41 AM
3

You're fuming fucking mad at her for a reason you literally imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:35 AM
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No one wants to date someone with so much baggage that dating is this big stupid competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:32 AM
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Tbf the woman in the zebra bikini has crazy good proportions. She actually looks much hotter than the woman in the image before with a lower bf percentage. I think fat distribution, body shape and waist-to-hip ratio counts for a LOT when it comes to women's body fat and looking appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:47 PM
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It's a revenge fantasy come true. They hate women, so they're gloating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:38 AM
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Are you marching for paternal rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:51 PM
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Contraception and abortion have long been considered wise decisions and responsibility for people who want to have sex but not have children. It's long been seen as irresponsible for someone to have children who would make poor parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:41 AM
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What? I know there are women who support this. I'm talking about the men on this sub, male.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:01 AM
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Judging by all of these concerned male commentors, they really care so much about all these unborn foetuses having the "right to life", and "life beginning at conception" etc. And yet, I am 100% certain that they will cease to care so much the second these babies are born and growing up in impoverished environments, drug addicted and / or abusive environments or foster homes and growing into severely troubled adults. I wonder how many men here glad about this outcome will become loving foster pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:57 AM
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It's crazy how desperate men on this sub are to insult you, your partner, your life, your looks, anything about you - all because you said something they didn't like. It isn't surprising so many men on this sub are single, struggling and angry. The rage toward women is off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:46 AM
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Depends how many hours you buy, lmfao!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:37 AM
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Sorry, I have nothing to add here, I just wanted to say I agree 100% with you, and I always really enjoy reading your posts!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:38 PM
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I'm in an age gap (I'm 35 but look 10 years younger; he's 45) and don't give a shit if people think it's creepy. You need to not care about what people think about you if you're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:51 AM
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It's much less about standards and preferences in a partner, and much more about outward behavior if rejected or turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:53 AM
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Maybe not the answer for everyone but depression / poor mental health can make people have no aspirations at all, just lay in bed overeating with no goals like those you refer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:29 PM
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Video games are what brought me to my current LTR partner! We bonded over the same consoles and the same games, and still do to this day. Idk if I'm an anomaly really though I've heard women really hate their boyfriend/husband playing them, and other women like me who really like it. I think tbh it's the men who are unhealthily addicted to video games who women complain about most. Like the guy won't pull his weight in the relationship and / or neglects her or work in favor of games. Think unemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:05 PM
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I'm not seeing how this is any different to men marrying the mother of his children but who lusts after sexy porn stars or IG models? Everyone lusts after people who are hot, have resources, good genes, etc, so technically everyone "settles", but just because we find extremely physically attractive people hot doesn't mean we'll be unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:28 PM
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35 years old, 125 lbs, 5ft 5. Good diet and get a fair amount of exercise. Not sure what the female equivalent of a "V taper" is but I'm proud of my 0.7 hip to waist ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:47 AM
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If a man wants to relieve his sexual frustration by paying someone to have sex with him, sure. But many men want love, a relationship, possibly also children and a family, which prostitutes cannot provide. Here in the UK sex work is legal but we still have unhinged incels. It's not just about sex. They want to feel wanted and loved too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:17 PM
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This doesn't reek of bitterness at all. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:54 PM
2

Yeah. Reddit suspended him, not just like he got temporarily banned from this sub or something.. It must've been bad. Although I never saw him post anything rule-breaking, his mental state did seem a bit concerning. Maybe he just snapped?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:23 PM
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Hoosker-Doos has been suspended? Did I miss something??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:14 PM
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Lmfao 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:38 PM
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Oh okay. I've just seen a big crossover with blackpill and men who are suffering BADLY in terms of loneliness and shit. Blackpill men seem to be going through a lot more mentally than redpill even if not incel. Well anyway I hope you're okay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:17 PM
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I was gonna respond and then caught the flair. Blackpilled at 20 is fuckin tragic. OP there are some wonderful women out there. You've only just come out of your teens. Pretty much universally accepted that teenagers are annoying af because they're still basically kids. It gets better when you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:10 PM
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There's shit here that I read and just think "Thank fuck I don't think like this. Thank fuck I avoided becoming this." This thread is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:35 AM
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What in the ableist hell did I just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:27 AM
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Well firstly I think this is a "correlation doesn't equal causation" thing. The guy with the v.high body count isn't more attractive because he has a high body count. He has a high body count because he's more attractive. And that said, there's such a thing as "too high" when it comes to male body count, especially if it's for romantic partner. You're right about the "not feeling very special" thing if the body count is very high. But even if he just wants to slut about, the STD risk can be off-…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 08:33 AM
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This post kind of reminds me of in movies where you see a man approach a woman he's interested in, only to respond with "You're an ugly whore anyway!" when he gets rejected by her, lol. How do you even know she has an "inflated ego"? Just because she rejected a man? That's the literal definition of entitlement: He thinks he's entitled to her because she's less attractive. (Which, who tf would want to be with someone who sees them like that?! NO ONE). What exactly is she acting entitled to here? …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:33 AM
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Re: Men angry about TRP forums and spaces being shut down for men to just want to "discuss their struggles": They get shut down because of the vocal minority who are absolutely unhinged maniacs promoting rape and violence against women. So my question is this: Why aren't you upset at the bunch of crazy lunatics among you who are prompting these shutdowns in the first place? Why are you instead upset at the people who understandably don't want to host shit like that on their site / forum / sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:49 PM
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Let me guess, you're TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:24 PM
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TRP and FDS both come out with just as much mentally sick, entitled, pathetic shit as each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:04 AM
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Watch this get deleted within 5 minutes, which completely proves my point. And it's been up for 10 hours now. Completely disproving your point. I'm not sure what you want to say that is so heinous that so many people would want to kick you off their group / forum / website or whatever, but there are plenty of places you can be a seething hateful ball of mess. Just understandably not everyone wants that on their site.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:18 AM
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What if she was initially attracted, but then you dropped some red flags and she wasn't attracted any more? Because you realise that's a thing, right? People stop feeling attraction for other people all the time based on all kinds of things: red flags, bad manners, rudeness, poor hygiene, gross habits, sex/kink incompatability, lack of things in common, you find out they're sexist / racist / creep / weirdo / crazy / cult member / religious fanatic / asshole, etc, etc, etc... like you're really g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:57 PM
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Tomorrow's thread: "Women Reject Men Due To Ego Inflation From Excessive Social Media Likes"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:51 PM
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I don't think he's done much cold approaching. He's never been on a dating app (Gen Xer who hates tech!) He says it's mostly women who have approached him so he hasn't needed to approach, or he's gotten with women he's met organically through irl social interactions or gigs (he's a guitarist and been in several bands). Prob also worth mentioning I approached him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:02 PM
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There is no such thing as an "attractive woman" What. The. Fuuuuuuuuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:54 PM
3

What's your view on contraception? Should everyone who has sex have children? Are you Catholic by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:39 PM
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A sub littered with men who conjure revenge fantasies on the daily because they resent the living fuck out of women who can get sex whenever they want. HMM. I WONDER HOW THIS THREAD IS GOING.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:33 PM
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What's with the crazy assumption that all of our boyfriends/husbands have been rejected THIS MUCH?? 90% rejection, holy shit, just no.. My bf has a high-ish N-count (lots more people than me anyway), a history of LTRs and never had issues attracting a girlfriend or sex partners in his life. I'm tempted to show him this thread for a laugh though. How would you feel if for experimental purposes your husband or boyfriend had a “dummy” Tinder account made and you were to see the results or lack ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:27 PM
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I'm already perfectly matched with him in terms of attitude and interests. I just like looking perfect for him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:38 PM
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Nah. I do what I've always done and base the specificity of my self-improvement efforts on an aggregate of every woman my boyfriend has told me he thinks is hot, lol. Seems to work pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:07 PM
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I don't think there will be too many traumatised children The world is already packed with traumatized children, children waiting for adoption, children waiting in foster care. There are already too many traumatized and unwanted children. women will massively cut down on sex with those who they don't believe will provide for a child. No, they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:50 PM
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Your opinion is clouded by wishful thinking based on 20/80 fear, though. You think (hope) that making abortion illegal will make undesirable men women don't want to fuck more attractive, so women will somehow not opt to fuck sexy bad boy Chads for casual sex. And you think that is worth bringing traumatized children into the world for! It's a completely transparent take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:15 PM
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Total blind incel take, lol. Wtf do you think people did before abortion was legal? Cavewomen weren't fucking Cavechads?? People fuck the brains out of each other whether abortion is legal or not. Even if you make adultery punishable by death people still do it. Making safe abortion illegal won't stop abortion from happening. It will make it a lot more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:09 PM
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People are thinking of the children in this discussion. What do you think happens to unwanted children the parent/s wanted to abort? Or tried and failed to abort? Do you think those babies get born into a magical place where mummy and daddy are happy and the child thrives and grows into a healthy adult? Because that's a nonsense fairytale. The depth of your thinking with this is only extending to "Life = Good!", but that's all before the baby will emerge from the vagina into a shithold situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:07 AM
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Yep. Making abortion illegal will only create more traumatized individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:56 AM
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So you're saying it's better for women to give birth to unwanted children they never wanted and / or can't afford to take care of and give a healthy upbringing? So we'll have a world with more unwanted, neglected and / or abused children is better than women breaking a stupid law? Those children will become unhealthy, traumatized, unstable adults with all kinds of horrific issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:55 AM
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It sounds like you're making some shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:01 AM
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So you are pro-insulting women, because you want to knock their self-esteem down to a level you find more acceptable. So this has absolutely fuck all to do with "defending women from just criticism" or whatever bullshit, and everything to do with you hating women so much that you gloat when random assholes insult them. No wonder you didn't prove any examples! Because you 100% know it'd be panned as sexist bullshit and you didn't want to be called out. Btw, this kind of shit isn't going to make y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:17 PM
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This thread is completely pointless and redundant without pointing to any specific examples. Is OP actually looking to have their view changed? Or do they just want to frame what is really a rant as a CMV so it doesn't get deleted? Because without examples, how can anyone "change their view" about this when it's not even apparent what they're referring to in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:51 PM
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Did you mean to say unreasonable or illegitimate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:23 PM
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So who gets to decide what is and what isn't a legitimate criticism? You? The man who dictates what turns women on? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:13 PM
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Is it bad to defend women for any reason? Lol. Or just some, that who decides? You? Are men pretending to defend women in every case? Are you saying that men all secretly just feel nothing if a woman is being insulted, attacked, or put down? Your thread is so vague and sweeping, you need to be way more specific than this to even have a tangible point. women are completely turned off by this submissive behavior. Yeah, us women really hate men standing up for us in any way, total turn-off. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:07 PM
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It isn't always as easy as "If she has BPD, run!!" Lol if only it were that simple. People with BPD aren't running around shouting from the rooftops that they have BPD. It's usually they charm the fucking pants off someone they're interested in, person falls head over heels in love, and then during the course of the relationship, after the honeymoon stage ends, the crazy starts coming out. By that point, a certain level of commitment has formed and it's not as straightforward as leaving. Further…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:54 AM
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So what do you want women to do about it? It's up to individuals to improve their own attractiveness to be desirable to others. I don't give a fuck if a man is complaining that he has to "work" for "women less attractive than himself". That's his problem, isn't it? To suggest this is somehow "womens' problem" insinuates that women have to start pity fucking men they don't even want to, which is rather rapey isn't it? Or at the very least, treating men like some kind of charity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:26 PM
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People acting in a celebratory or dismissive way about the death of a highly controversial figure on the internet who many argued was an extremely toxic influence isn't exactly news to me tbh. I'm not sure if it breaks any kind of rule or whatever but it's not surprising or shocking to me. I don't think it makes a woman "egotistical" to not bother trying to understand him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 07:21 AM
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It’s often said that chivalry is dead and that Woman are responsible. I've never heard that phrase in my life. My boyfriend is thoughtful and respectful though, and I've never had any issue meeting men who are kind, so I definitely don't think it is "dead".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:32 AM
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All it's "proof" of is how Amber fucking Heard thinks and feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:16 PM
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I'm assuming you do actually talk to this person and hang out with her, etc? Otherwise how tf can you know you want her to be your girlfriend - someone you love and care for - on the basis that you like her ass? 😂 EDIT: body* Dunno why I said ass.. I made an ass-umption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:03 PM
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So every single woman who posts a selfie online is an egocentric narc? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 11:12 PM
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Then why was I more hated when I didn't put in that extra effort? How tf should I know? I don't know you or who you interacted with! The only other choice is to hold you to an equal standard in all facets of life and be perpetually disappointed by you. Are you disappointed I am not a psychic who can tell you why you were hated? Because you're welcome to be as disappointed by me as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:38 PM
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I don't believe it is sexist to acknowledge the simple biological fact that women are weaker than men in the first place. I always gratefully accept when a man offers to help me out if he can see I'm struggling with something. It's a kind gesture, and I've always appreciated it with thanks. I don't really feel one way or another about in general though. I don't see why helping someone should be so gendered really, though. The world works on the basis of people helping one another out. It isn't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:18 PM
2

Indeed! Most curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:02 PM
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Don't date women with fragile egos who post a load of selfies to social media then. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:51 PM
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Do you actually have any good statistics for male and female body image? Because last I checked, women have rather poor body image generally, and social media has actually made that much worse, not better. There are tons of studies now showing how social media harms body image, and it's mostly in women. https://qlsroar.org/2020/09/27/social-media-and-body-image-its-worse-than-you-think/ Seeing obese "kweens" on social media saying "I'm hot sorry" is not all that reliable, is it? How many people …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:40 PM
4

You decide women are "in denial" the same way you declare yourself the arbitor of male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:14 AM
2

And who decides if a woman is "settling" or not? On what basis is that conclusion drawn?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:00 AM
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That meme is terrible, lol. A female equivalent of that could so easily be made. "Men love nerdy girls" and take a hot, model-tier woman and put glasses on her, lol. The majority of people don't look like supermodels, but most still manage to have people fall in love with them, want to have sex and be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:57 AM
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The thing about this is women are only looking at the top 20-5% of men. They're the only men that exist in their brains. Why is it that so many men are in relationships then? It's pretty clear that women aren't just going for the "top 20+%" of men as evidenced by the sheer amount of men who are in LTRs. Most men aren't incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:51 AM
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It's pretty clear men and women don't rate themselves and each other the same. I don't know why people even bother with the nonsense of ratings and this thread is the perfect example of that. We have OP telling women that Robert Pattison "isn't attractive" as though he's any kind of reliable authority. It's obvious that just he personally doesn't think Robert Pattison is attractive. We also have OP up in arms about how some women find Post Malone attractive. (Apparently, again, according to OP, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:37 AM
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The funny thing about this is that women pretty passionately disagree on which of those men they find attractive. Women who find Pattison hot might find Lautner totally not their cup of tea, and the other way around. It proves that women are not a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:34 AM
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You nailed it. Though I fear it will fall on deaf ears. OP seems to only take looks into consideration will all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:27 AM
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All you've proven here is how off your judgement is when it comes to assessing male attractiveness to women. I will remember this for the future threads you make about this same topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:18 AM
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How is this any different than a woman ranting about how men all go for slim hot young women with big tits? Plenty of men lust after taken women. We all know the sexy stereotype kind of woman men love, the same way we all know the sexy stereotype men than women love. But who cares? Plenty of people still find each other attractive enough to spend their lives together, despite not conforming to the ideal of perfect beauty that barely anyone can live up to anyway, and even that won't last even in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:32 PM
1

Women largely don't want sex with strangers, and sex is "scarier" for women because it's riskier for us and we plain don't want to fuck most men. Doesn't mean you need to pathologize us lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:31 PM
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I find this extremely hard to believe. Obviously anecdotal here, but the music scene I'm part of is bursting with talented Gen Zers, male and female. My Gen X friends pretty much all say they've never seen so many young people forming bands and becoming gigging musicians. Plus whenever I open TikTok there seem to be young women showing off their talents musically and artistically. In response to my comment, though, the basic gist of it is: Women suck, are boring as hell, and / or their hobbies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:55 AM
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I met my boyfriend through a guitar class. We have the same taste in music, enjoy playing guitar together, and are part of the local music scene. No one says you need to feign interest in things that bore you, just that you actually have interests of your own and meet people through them. Plenty of people are out meeting people through mutual interests and having fun together. Honestly a lot of this just seems like men who don't get out or do much, projecting a boring personality onto women as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:23 PM
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You doubt most women even have hobbies? Holy christ, no wonder you're struggling. It's 2022, yes, not 2020, are you still in lockdown? Most women I know are enjoying gigs, events, festivals, have hobbies like playing musical instruments, songwriting, skating, art, reading, gaming. Take classes for something you find interesting. Go on Facebook, look at the Events section. If you aren't actively involved in the world around you, to the point you doubt women are even enjoying things, then it's goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:00 PM
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It's humiliating because it's inherently debasing to treat people like a score in a game. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If you're cold-approaching random women you've never met in your life, the only thing you have to go on is your looks and charm, so you have to expect to be appealing enough on first glance to people who have no clue who you are. You literally have to be to the personal taste of people you don't know. And hope they're also single and looking. And willing to take it furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:08 PM
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I experience seething rage when I see those "Cher in the 70s. Cher in her 70s!" things, and people are all "sHe AgEd So WeLl!" Madonna gets the same treatment. Are they just being deliberately blind to the obvious fact that these women do not naturally look like that? If they naturally looked like that, they would be a miracle to science. They look like that because they have access to every cosmetic surgery and beauty treatment under the sun. As for my source of insecurity? Any woman I think my…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:03 PM
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Yeah. Men have "wingmen"; women have this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:34 PM
12

You've literally never seen a younger man help an elderly woman with her shopping, or help her across the road?! You seriously think men only help young hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:19 PM
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My boyfriend helps women regardless of their age or whether he can fuck them or whatever. He's helped single mothers up stairs with their prams, even gone to the trouble of helping some random woman get a new sofa in her house. I just don't buy that men just decide to stop helping women out because they're not young and hot, lol. I think if someone is in trouble with something or needs help, and a person to decides not to help them because they're not sexy, they're kinda not that nice, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:14 PM
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I thought it wasn't shut down, but they made it private or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:36 PM
3

Fall in love with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:00 PM
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Don't men already have "plate spinning" and trying to avoid "oneitis" and whatnot? Anyway, getting yourself wound up about whether or not a woman has other options is a pointless endeavor. You're better off just working on self-improvement enough to hope you're desirable to more than one person on the planet in your lifetime if you get dumped (which, if you have managed to get with one woman, you're probably going to be desired by other women too anyway). It isn't like you can simply stop women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:52 PM
1

Calm down dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:29 PM
7

What is "our game" here that you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:47 PM
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Why do you need to "even the playing field" in the first place? What's the goal? So everyone has a rebound the second one relationship breaks up? Not the healthiest way to go about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:39 PM
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i'll add women are more emotional and opportunistic, not logical thinkers first. Lol, I wondered how long down this thread I'd have to scroll before seeing "women stupid, men smart" sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:33 PM
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He's the one who is supposed to be helping them better their lives in the first place. There are people who need help who don't even seek the help of a psychiatrist at all. It's just sad that he's judging struggling patients who are suffering from more misfortune and hardship than he ever has in his cushy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:13 PM
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Omg yaaaaaa he should just tell all his patients to become upper middle class!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:51 PM
1

What bleak world do you inhabit where love and loyalty do not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:24 PM
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All this post really demonstrates is that that being born into wealth and privilege can make you short-sighted as fuck. "As an upper middle class individual, I have noticed that the lower class people that I'm responsible for treating have less money and more problems than me." (!) What breaking bloody news is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:40 AM
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You're blaming women for being raped because some women like aggressive men. NO women like rapists. So no. It's still not women's fault. And men are still in control over whether or not they become a rapist or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:33 PM
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https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/rape-victims-clothes-displayed-brussels-belgium-debunk-victim-blaming-myth-a8152481.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:28 PM
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This sub has reached a new low. Holy fuck.. I honestly hope this shit goes the same way as TRP and all those other hellholes now. Just fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:10 PM
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Other men will tell you it's fucked up if you feel like you need to resort to being violent and aggressive to "get girls". Seems like an incel post to me. If you can't get women when you're nice, you probably aren't one of the men who can when they're acting like a cunt either. You'll just be lonely and a shitter person than when you started. If you're contemplating violence due to inceldom, you definitely need therapy more than to be around another human being.. before you get thrown in jail fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:33 AM
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I guess it being "fair" depends on if you even want kids to begin with, and also if you consider it "fair" to the children that they have old parents and / or highter rates of poor health due to the age of their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:17 PM
7

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:06 PM
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Men can have babies in their 70s. Idk why men here keep parroting this. Some men can have children in their 70s. But whether or not those children turn out to be healthy is another thing entirely. In a recent study in the BMJ men aged 45 years or older had increased odds of fathering infants born premature, of low birth weight, and with a low Apgar score – a score used to test the health of a newborn – compared with their younger counterparts. On top of this, the offspring of fathers older than …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:03 PM
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Source: https://theconversation.com/male-fertility-how-age-affects-mens-chances-of-having-children-156411 One study examining sperm quality in 5,081 men aged 16.5 to 72.3 years reported ejaculate volume, sperm concentration, sperm motility and sperm morphology didn’t change before the age of 34. However, sperm concentration and the proportion of sperm of normal morphology declined after the age of 40. Sperm motility fell after the age of 43 and ejaculate volume after 45. Older fathers are also a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:59 PM
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TRP loves extremes and black and white thinking. Some people aren't even attractive to begin with. Some people "hit the wall" in their early twenties by piling on weight and living a lifestyle full of bad habits. Some people start out unattractive / fat and then dedicate time to losing weight and improving their appearance age 30+ and look better than they ever did in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:54 PM
4

Look we get it, you downplay male victims of domestic abuse because the abuser was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:17 AM
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Lmfao, yeah sure. Tell that to him now. I'm sure her looking hot outweighs being abused, treated like shit and dragged through all this horrible legal shit he's involved with rn. /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:15 AM
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An apex predator. Ha.. Interesting choice of words considering her predatory activities are all over the media rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:55 AM
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Johnny Depp married an abuser. The obvious fact that your first "source" is footage of her acting in a literal movie aside, it's common for abusers to present as perfect angels at the start of the relationship, lovebombing and building trust, only then to turn crazy once the trust has been earned. Committing to another person is a risk. Sometimes it's worth it, sometimes it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:52 AM
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why should a man give you life long commitment without getting to experience your youth???? Why should a woman give a crap about giving life-long commitment to a man so fixated with her youth???? Such a man would be discarded very quickly for serious, long-term prospects. It's not like he'll be getting sexier by the year either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:38 AM
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It depends on if the person wants to get married or not. My boyfriend (also 10 years older than me) doesn't want kids and doesn't want to marry, and I'm identical to him in my future plans, so for us it's perfect. It will work for you if you're both on the same page, that way there's no conflict or fricton, just you both living your best life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:28 PM
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I don’t even consider simps real people. Lmfao oh how convenient! So all the men who hit on women they know are taken are simps who you conveniently don't even acknowlegde, but let me guess... the women who try to get with taken men is all or most women and most definitely not excluded!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:32 PM
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Ah, fair enough! I get it. :) Thanks for the explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:51 PM
1

You prefer sex when she has her top on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:34 PM
3

Thanks for assuming it's my theory, but it isn't. It's what I have learned from people who study human behavior and child psychology. If this is something that really interests you, you can watch these brilliant examples how these influences play out in children for yourself here and here. It's fascinating to see how much weight things like toys, clothing, culture, interaction, and the beliefs of their parents have on child development, child's self-image, personal assessments of personal capabi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:39 PM
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That is an enormous over-simplification. The choices people make as adults hinge massively on their influences during their formative years. Boys are encouraged to think more analytically from babyhood and all throughout childhood by the kinds of toys and entertainment given to them. Girls are encouraged to think in more social, nurturing ways from babyhood, by the kinds of toys and entertainment given to them. Without even realising it, parents help strenghten these stereotypical gender expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:37 PM
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Plus, TikTok algorithm is a recommendation system based on the previous content the user has watched. It's desgined to show each user content deemed to be of high interest to them specifically. If someone is seeing "vulgar hip hop" showing up on their feed, it's because TikTok algorithm thinks they'll enjoy it based on what they've been watching already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:20 PM
4

DUDE...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:00 PM
5

We deliberately put it there in our bf's sleep to mark our territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:54 PM
16

Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:49 PM
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So women are "acting like dudes" saying "bruh" and rapping (!!!), and that's bad because women thrive on male attention, but somehow.... at the same time "there are hoards" of men encouraging it. Yeah that's because there exist many men who desire and would love to be with a woman who is into hip hop and all this. When you're scrolling your TikTok just keep in mind that women don't exist for you. Women will enjoy continue enjoying hip hop without your approval. You can't deprive women of enjoyme…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 10:40 PM
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I mean... it doesn't actually sound like your demands are that extreme? You're essentially describing an hourglass or pear-shape body, which, pear in particular is really common. I guess it depends on where you live and how common women who fit this type are in your area. Plus, if you were previously engaged to a woman who you were seriously attracted to, it's not impossible for that to happen again (though hopefully with a better outcome).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:34 AM
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Wow, okay fair enough. Weird. Where do you live if you don't mind me asking? I'm in the UK and it seems so odd to me that every woman you know is obsessed with social media and getting "likes" and all this. If anything, women where I live are kinda judged as being self-obsessed and "up themselves" if they're posting a ton of selfies on social media for likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:08 AM
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How many women do you know irl? The vast majority of women in my social circle aren't using social media in this way. I think if most of the women you know do this, and you find them unbearable, you probably need to meet different types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:30 PM
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Why is he assuming that they're rejecting him because they have inflated egos or whatever?Rejection happens for all kinds of reasons. And if he is being rejected by women who have inflated egos and thinks she's too good for him or whatever, then he's dodged a bullet surely? Who would want to be with someone with an inflated ego and all this in the first place? I know out of all the threads you've made on this lately that you don't want to hear it, but that doesn't stop it from being true: Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:59 PM
5

I don't understand people whose experience of falling in love doesn't involve being practically obsessed with that person. When I fall in love, I feel like I'm on some hard drug. That person is all I can think about. I dream about them at night, daydream about them all damn day fixating on when I'm going to see him next. I want to be close to him 24/7 and kiss him all the time. It is gut-wrenching and it's like I feel ill. People have told me this is too much, crazy, etc. Well, what the fuck do …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:48 PM
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If someone has to resort to something like this to make someone else like them, they are not average, they are well below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:53 AM
2

Oh sure men never exploit women for our sexuality. Doesn't happen! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:18 AM
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Because men don't give a fuck about rings and gifts and all this shit. Men care about getting enthusiastic sex, blowjobs, and a woman who maintains the same body weight she had when he asked her out. Men don't complain about being oppressed because women don't buy them $10k rings. Men here complain about "being oppressed" because women aren't fucking them all equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:59 AM
2

No. I don't want children and don't like being around children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:14 AM
7

The quality of the sex suffers if she hates her body. Not wanting to be touched in certain areas, sex with her top on, sex with the lights off, boring positions due to insecurity affect how good the sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:08 AM
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Unless you and your partner are absolutely lucky as fuck, you can still expect to endure illness, trauma, injury, relationship issues, bereavement, and situations and occurances throughout your life that will negatively impact your libido. And that isn't even taking into account aging and hormonal changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:00 AM
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Anyone who expects sexual activity to remain high forever is woefully naive about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 09:49 AM
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All of those are "wrong" and things like making friends and having a social circle is total waste of time. Your logic is a hair away from "I should just be able to think about a woman really hard and have her appear in front of me."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:59 AM
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It's TikTok. If it were a hot sexy psycho bitch doing exactly the same thing - telling men to stop approaching her, fucking her, getting with her - her inbox would still be full.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:37 PM
1

Insanely ironic that you strawmanned the shit out of the OP and are accusing me of doing that. Where was yelling and punching mentioned? OP is talking about feelings (discomfort and fear), not punching and yelling. Did you even read the post?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:22 PM
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It's funny because it's like they want to make out they're "ONLY saying hi!" to make it look like women are overreacting like crazy to someone nicely saying hello. But when that's addressed, it emerges that no, it wasn't "just that" at all. He was trying to start a conversation and get to know a stranger, which isn't easy regardless of which gender you're approaching, and there are many ways that can be awkward as fuck or just plain not wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:31 PM
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Why are you focused so much on the "passing greeting", Because that's what it sounded like you were referring to. Women responding with horror at being said "hi" to. But if a man goes up to a woman, says "hi", smiles, and just stands before her expecting a conversation to flow, there are many ways that could come across as weird and unnerving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:50 PM
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It genuinely sounds like you're expecting way too much from what is very likely interpreted as a passing greeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:33 PM
1

Holy shit! Thank you. This is fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:08 PM
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He's referring to situations where a man is out in public, not at a dark alley at night but say walking his dog at the park on a weekend morning or on line at a busy Starbucks surrounded by people. He's dressed complete normal, he's acting completely normal. He crosses paths with an age appropriate woman and he smiles and simply says "Good morning" and yet she still recoils in a panic and horror of uncomfortable body language and scurries off because "she felt threatened" and the guy is left sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:06 PM
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What am I meant to do? Act like some paranoid possessive weirdo and make sure I escort her everywhere. Lol, that's a huge strawman. A boyfriend responding to men approaching their girlfriend with discomfort is a world away from him losing his shit and going crazy escorting her everywhere. This is about discomfort, not possessive psycho shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:50 AM
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I'm very British, very hungover, and very ignorant about gun ownership in the US.And have questions... Do women carry guns like just casually around with them? Like in their purse something? Is it normal in the US for women to do that? Does it vary by region? Is there a kind of culture around buying guns? Like women talk about their new gun that has hello kitty on it or whatever? Are there cute guns?? EDIT - I am eating chocolate while laying in my blanket right now watching this woman do an ASM…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:43 AM
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The victim mindset is their own worst enemy, not the guy approaching them Lol how do you know, though? See you're talking like every man who cold approaches won't be aggressive or crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:36 AM
1

How is my boyfriend allowed to feel about men approaching me in the street? Does he need therapy because that makes him uncomfortable too? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:21 AM
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Today on PPD: Women Aren't Entitled To Their Own Internal Responses. This is such a stupid take, holy shit. So you're a nice guy, great! The woman you're cold approaching with your weird PUA bullshit doesn't know that. If a woman has a history of men harassing them in public, (which many of us do), a therapist can't magic away learned experience. It's life. I was talking to a basement dweller yesterday, and he told me he was scared of cold-approaching women because of what society and subs like …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:05 AM
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"Once" men judge women for all this? Lol. Men already judge women for these things. It's discussed at length on this sub on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:05 AM
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Google "BPD women are hot" lol. The extreme levels of insecurity and fear of abandonment in these women can make them go well above and beyond what average women will do in terms of looksmaxing and trying hard to be sexually pleasing for men. This huge desire many of them have to please can be irresistible to men but also trap them in a cycle of abuse that is hard to break.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:39 AM
3

This is very subjective; many women love hairy men. I don't have a thing for excessive hairiness personally, but I'd be weirded out if my boyfriend shaved his armpits and was all grossed out by it. I understand the preference for women shaving their armpits, but for a man to be disgusted by his own natural body hair seems strange to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:17 AM
1

Many women literally can't orgasm from penetration alone, they require clitoral simulation in order to orgasm. A vibrator can easily fulfill that purpose with minimal exertion; a penis might not; fingers might get tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:41 PM
4

Call her "lazy eye girl" to her face. Problem solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:57 PM
1

Tell me you feel threatened by sex toys without telling me you feel threatened by sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:46 PM
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I think if you really like someone, you'll go above and beyond and try to make them cum. I think OP was vastly overstating her requirements tbh. Each to their own but from what he'd written it just didn't sound too excessive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:39 PM
3

Yes! Also for some reason I keep seeing the white one with the blonde slick-back hair, black shades and suit EVERYWHERE.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:23 PM
5

Staring; asking excessively personal questions; standing or sitting too close; persistent attitude after rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:21 PM
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You know that women having specifics on how they're able to orgasm doesn't mean a woman has "hangups", or "isn't letting herself cum", though, right? It's like you're conflating these things. It sounds like you're literally just frustrated the woman you're with is specific about what makes her cum but it's too much work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:06 PM
2

N-count and body count both sound weird to me, ("body count" sounds like they killed people); I just prefer the regular old, "How many people have you been with?". There were brief discussions of it in every relationship I've been in; either I asked, or they asked. I'm definitely interested in knowing - am I dating a virgin, someone who has been with only a few people, or am I dating someone who has been with upwards of 100 people? I feel like it does matter to just know because it's how someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:19 AM
3

Well if you can't land a 9, you can't get a 9, and are likely simply not as appealing as you think you are. 9 is well above average, near supermodel-tier, so expect exactly no pity, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:07 PM
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If OP were a woman, I'd have said exactly the same thing. But I don't think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:58 PM
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I have more sympathy for incels than this nonsense. Imagine complaining that the women who want you have looks you rate a 7. Above average. The fuck? Are we supposed to feel like he's having a bad time because he thinks he's A LITTLE BIT PRETTIER than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:54 PM
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If you can't "pull people less attractive than you", what's so upsetting about that really though? Do you need to measure every person you're interested in against you in strictly superficial terms? Boil everyone you meet down to a soulless looks rating and compare that against yours? Normal, healthy, well-adjusted people don't see other human beings in this way. The guys in the 7.5-9 range are often forced to put in WORK just to fuck or even get the attention of a 6-7/10 girl. Why wouldn’t they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:49 PM
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I think it's good to be willing to discuss it mutually - it's fair to both disclose your own past and enquire about theirs. Especially if STDs are involved!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:30 AM
2

FDS takes "vetting" to the same OTT extreme that TRP takes "taking a calculated approach".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:00 AM
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I think it's decent to discuss this kind of thing before the relationship gets serious - to be honest about everything: number of partners, if you've cheated, etc. I don't think going into graphic detail about sexual experiences is necessary, but just to let the person you're dating know about your past. I think that is very fair to expect. I think the whole "none of your business" response kind of sounds overly defensive and cagey. Like they feel like they have something to hide they feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:14 AM
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Well there is a difference between having certain experiences, and making them your actual identity. But really - male or female - there are a lot of victims out there. And I do believe that male and female, they deserve care and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:03 PM
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Men worth being with are sympathetic to the amount of sexist, disgusting shit women go through. And I'll bet you that women worth being with are sympathetic to male struggles and hardships too. It costs absolutely nothing to simply listen to the opposite gender with care and not invalidate their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:40 PM
2

Sorry, but what? Do you think men become gay as a result of women? Because that's really not how sexuality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:37 PM
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It's not an irrational fear at all. Men really think women just walk around, not being assaulted? Damn, sounds like a nice life. I've been grapped, groped, assaulted and followed home by men more times than I can fucking count. I love the great men in my life I trust and I do not tarr all men with the same brush, but me simply avoiding strange men I don't know is a protective mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:30 PM
4

See this is the issue.. Many autistic long-term single men or incels actually don't want their equivalent: a single autistic woman. They want a hot, neurotypical, high-functioning woman. Which they often can't get. So they stay lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:28 PM
5

Imo that's a brilliant idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:02 PM
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It depends. I think if you're an autistic man / have poor social skills, it's honestly probably a crappy idea and won't really get you anywhere if you don't know what you're doing. You'll just go there and fail there too. It'll be the same as any other place of human interaction. Education in how to actually socialize and how to interact with people is probably much better and more important, but it can sound insulting if the context is just "help lonely man".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:25 PM
2

I already cringed after the second sentence. Blowing his inheritance money on Twitch streamers.. What an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:52 PM
5

That's just such a horrible attitude to have. I don't think I've ever "measured" any men up like this, in this "Well I'm an 8 and he's a 6... WAAAAAAAAAAAH!" way. People are more than their looks. If you want to attract sexier people, then the onus is on you to appeal to them. It's ironic, because the way you talk is like highly attractive people need to just start liking you more because you feel entitled to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:18 AM
2

Not having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:18 AM
2

"Well I read this guy on Reddit saying that us women are entitled bitches with over-inflated egos... And now we're married!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:15 AM
2

What is the solution then? It isn't like you can just tell women "stop having sex with men you want to have sex with" and expect women to start rejecting men they want to be with, and start getting with men they have zero desire for. Sure the whole "get buff and take a shower" thing is crap advice to men who are struggling, but putting no effort into self-improvement at all won't fix the issue either. It's literally the only thing you can do to change things, other than carrying on and continuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:10 AM
2

Why have you framed this as a "debate"? Why would men want to argue about these things if they're well-established facts? Do you want your blood pressure raised by FDS women who don't give a fuck about any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:32 PM
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I agree with this. They tend to fixate in a highly autistic, extremely obsessive way on the science of facial struture. Use of words like "maxilla" and "canthal tilt" is "tell me you're an incel without telling me you're an incel" material.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:30 AM
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I have nothing of my own to add, except for that this reminded me instantly of the quote by Bela Lugosi (for anyone not in the know, he was a Hungarian-American actor best remembered for portraying Count Dracula in the 1931 film, Ygor in Son of Frankenstein (1939) and his roles in many other horror films from 1931 through 1956): "It is women who love horror. Gloat over it. Feed on it. Are nourished by it. Shudder and cling and cry out - and come back for more."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:56 AM
2

He really does. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:53 AM
2

I'm 35 and have the exact same 0.7 waist-to-hip ratio I had at 25, so I have no idea what this person is talking about. The way bodies change seem mostly affected by fitness and diet (or lack, thereof). I think a lot of men on this sub are young and just want to throw women over 30 into the "I don't wanna fuck" bin because of age. Which is absolutely fine, but spreading misinformation about our bodies is silly to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:59 PM
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You're new here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:33 PM
2

She gets the financial security she wanted Financial security isn't guarunteed either. Unemployment, job loss, getting fired, being made redundant, companies folding, facing health issues or injuries that mean you can't work, all happen too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:32 PM
1

Who is dating dark triads??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:24 PM
2

Men feel pain cheating on their wife women feel nothing cheating on their husband. Lmfaooo what a wacky claim! "Men feel pain cheating"!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:19 PM
3

That's absolutely horrible.. I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:57 PM
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Only here can someone read an account of someone who was cheated on and betrayed in an absolutely horrible way, and instead of any sympathy, just tell them they're full of shit because they had enjoyable sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:57 PM
3

that I know of I'm sure parenthood takes nothing out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:51 PM
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I've never been married so I can't comment exactly on what happens with this from a personal standpoint, but I suspect it probably has more to do with having children than strictly just about marriage. It seems very common for women to lose their desire to have sex after having children due to a combination of obvious physical changes and their schedule being absolutely overrun with the needs of the child. While it does seem common for sex to decline after marriage and kids, I don't think it's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:04 PM
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Hell no. Never! I've learned from my valuable gaming time in character creators! Randomization always results in utter chaos. I have never used randomisation and it result in attractive appearance, lol, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:52 PM
1

IT GOT BANNED FROM HERE TOO??? NO WAY! SPICY.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:47 PM
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Interesting seeing the men describing how they want lovely, sweet, caring women.. and then arguing like fuck with each other about how they plan on using and dumping sluts when they get older, whether those plans are realistic or not, and dumping raging vitriol on each other with unhinged crazy shit.. All while saying how terrible "wahmen" are. Pretty fascinating thread to witness ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:54 PM
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Ironic how you're dismissing her point!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:51 AM
3

Feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:36 PM
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No, that comparison sure isn't close! I'd much rather someone "destroy my family" by simply walking tf out, than murdering me and my children, lol. My point was just that men are also capable of losing control of their emotions in ways that hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:44 PM
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Women destroy entire families over their emotions. They destroy their lives, their husbands' lives, and the lives of their children. Women are more emotional. They allow their emotions to run their lives. Men murder their entire families over their emotions. Men go on shooting rampages over their emotions. Men beat the shit out of people over their emotions. Not having control over your emotions isn't exclusive to women by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:27 PM
6

I had to Google this and said out loud "IT'S A HIPPO!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:43 PM
1

Women will be accussed of doing shit for male attention even if they're actual lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:21 AM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting a good looking partner. Women also want that. It's normal to want to be with a beautiful or handsome person; I'm not denying that. It's just when someone acts actually entitled to a really hot woman (normally who also magically has a low n-count), it starts verging on the ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:52 PM
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Yeah if I had to list every demand my post would have been even longer. But still file that all under "stupid, unrealistic af things to expect or demand", lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:47 PM
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Also, it's still okay to be attracted to someone for being financially stable and / or looking good. I'm not demonizing the attraction to those things. It just becomes absolutely fucked up when that's literally all you're looking for in someone, and you start acting entitled to a hugely wealthy man, or a stunning virgin unicorn for any reason. Or justifying why someones value rests solely on their bank account or appearance. Both money and looks can vanish, so people who put all this crazy empha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:41 PM
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FDS's dream is to get with a man with money. TRP's dream is to get with a women with looks and youth. Both types are shallow people who seem incapable both of love, and of viewing the opposite sex with humanity. Normal people don't go around seeing each other like this. What do FDS women do then if they meet the "wallet of their dreams" and the man loses his job? Gets fired or made redundant? Or his company goes over and he loses it all?! He becomes a "LWM"? She falls out of love, dumps him and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:36 PM
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Yeah this is a terrible way of viewing women. It's ironic too, because you're literally the flipside of the same coin. FDS women saying "Men are only worth their wallets and cash" is the same as you here saying "Women are only worth their looks and youth".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:22 PM
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"FDS women are ugly and beneath me. I'm a superficial man, and I have a gorgeous wife."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:20 PM
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Especially considering that men are visual first, and everything else comes second to that. Unfortunate, because you can do little as a woman to prove yourself beyond your natural beauty, but some men will find those as big bonuses, so you might get lucky. So basically "FDS women aren't physically hot enough to demand anything". I feel like you're forgetting about the r/Vindicta strand of this, (women who do place hugely significant importance in improving their looks), which actually ends up co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:18 PM
2

Why are you mad that some random person isn't going to have babies? That's pathetic and odd. Have kids yourself if you want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:11 PM
1

Something that gets missed in this discussion is - what if I plain don't like being around children? The kind of life where I have to be around a kid, cleaning up after them, cooking for them, entertaining them, teaching them, just plain isn't the kind of life I want. I don't look at kids and think what a great life I'd have if I had one around me. I think it'd be a nightmare. Having a child would ruin my life, because I don't feel any need for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:55 AM
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People are really acting like broody grandmas over women they don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:51 AM
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can you feel not shame that you are the unbroken lineage of a billion years of maternity, and that you are the singular failure? I feel immensely proud of this as a childless woman. The ongoing madness of intergenerational trauma ends with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:35 AM
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Your husband has a close female friend. They had a thing for each other 15 years ago in college, and they were friends going back to high school. She's divorced with a couple of kids. Are you OK with your husband: --going out drinking and partying together, just the two of them? --going on vacation with her? --going on a business trip with her, overnight? --getting lunch on a regular basis with her? --confiding things about your marriage to her? Assume these are legitimate friendships. There was…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:08 AM
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Came here to say this. It's like OP has someone in particular in mind. I felt like I was reading about an individual. It's very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:57 PM
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I think he'd be dumb for not wanting her if she's his dream girl. It just seems a bit pointless. Like is he supposed to vet and compare himself to the ex of every woman he's interested in, and if her ex was taller or bigger or whatever, to just gtfo? Ironically that retroactive jealousy screams of weakness in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:36 PM
1

I feel bad for people in miserable marriages, but also I just think if they're unhappy in their relationship, they should break up if they have exhausted all their options for improvement. I just don't think that the existence of shitty marriages should mean that people just sit in resentment for the rest of their lives, believing they'll never be happy. It only hurts them in the long-run to refuse to believe ANY relationship can work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:36 PM
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My bf does not look like the stereotypical "Chad", but I am most definitely extremely viscerally attracted to him. Idk, this is actually something I can pretty much agree on with the guys who want this. I can understand it.. I felt like I'd been hit by a fucking truck of mad attraction when I was falling for my bf, so if it turned out that he didn't actually feel the same about me, it'd feel a bit crappy tbh. I've actually been in those kinds of relationship before - where I was the one who felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:24 PM
3

There are unhappy marriages, of course. And every marriage unfortunatley does not last forever, yep, true. That still doesn't negate the existence of happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:31 PM
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I don't know why so many men here don't believe this.. That women actually marry men and enjoy enthusiastic sex with them. If I'm not enjoying sex with a man I'm in a serious relationship with, what's the point? They think we're all settling and constantly silently resenting our boyfriends and husbands for not being Chad. I don't know why they think women are all miserable with men unless they're 6/6/6. Unless they've overdosed themselves on reading FDS. Or personally living in unhappy marriages…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:26 PM
2

Maybe go outside, get some air. You've clearly spent too long in the Gentlemen's Debating Room with your cigars and challenges. Do you partake in fencing too by any chance??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:15 PM
1

Men challenge each other - circlejerks are a woman thing. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Genuinely made me laugh out loud!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:56 PM
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Most men don't. Men in niche "manosphere" chronically online circle-jerk communities? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:29 PM
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Yeah what I was saying definitely applies more to the kind of people who met organically and already spent some time together before the first date, rather than scenarios like a couple who just met over Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:16 AM
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There are situations in which the man is so seriously interested in the woman he's taking out on a date, that he won't even let the woman split the bill despite her offering to. I've taken this as a sign of him having serious interest in me. This "you're not special shut the fuck up" stuff comes off as aggressive and out of touch with the reality of how it actually feels to fall in love with someone, and how it feels to actually want to spoil them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:42 AM
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A lot of men here hate this answer, but doesn't stop it from being true: Personality. Maybe he's witty, charming, funny, perhaps he has interesting perspectives on things that matches with how she also views the world. Maybe he's really kind and genuine and that attacts her too. There is so much tied up in individual character that can carry massive appeal that gets too underestimated and laughed off too often on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:21 PM
0

Especially not if you can strong-arm yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:22 PM
5

OP seems to be accusing every woman who is fine with porn of being a "pickme" on this thread.. Is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:12 PM
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Lol, is this the reason you created this thread? To accuse all women who are fine with porn of being pickmes? Porn doesn't make every woman uncomfortable. Plenty of women enjoy porn too and don't care their partner watches it. Do you think all women should not allow it or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:11 PM
5

I agree. You can rely on some random guys here to launch a full-scale interrogation program the second a woman here expresses anything against porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:33 AM
1

Are you going to flood my inbox with questions about my personal relationship now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:54 AM
0

Don't worry I'll be sure to let him know. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:48 AM
3

He doesn't want to "jerk his thang". If he wanted to, I'd let him. But he wants to fuck me, and he does. This is not an issue for us. And I am already in my 30s. Stop making shit up. PPD men get triggered when women don't like porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:41 AM
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Oh yes I am sure he will tooootally dump me for (x) nonsensical, made-up PDD Reddit reason, lmfao!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:36 AM
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That sounds a lot like projection. My partner overwhelmingly wants and prefers sex, whereas masturbation is a complete and total last resort for him when sex is not available. Masturbation to him feels like a shitty consolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:46 AM
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All of it. If my partner wants to orgasm over other women he can do so as a single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:49 AM
5

How does maternity leave have nothing to do with reproductive rights though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:45 AM
6

Rape is really on par with adultery in terms of severity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:43 AM
5

You really just decided that paid maternity leave for mothers "does not seem very relevant" just because you said so??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:41 AM
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I stopped wanting male attention somewhere around my mid 20s, but young women tend to correlate male attention with their worth as a person. It is common for young people to feel a strong need to fit in, be validated, and have approval and recognition from others. I think as you get older you don't feel so desperate, and you become more confident in yourself. I do actually think that male attention is more valuable than attention from women, purely in the sense that women are simply more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:37 AM
2

No one is taking away the right to masturbate. This is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:31 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:26 AM
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Watching the first LOTR movie. Samwise and Frodo epitomize the opposite of toxic masculinity and characterize the absolute ideal of male friendship. Impossible to CMV on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:21 AM
1

Hugh Hefner was rotating a harem of the best looking women in their twenties when he was practically 100. There is no female equivalent of that because male and female attraction works differently. Many elderly women don't desire some kind of rotating harem of young men in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:27 PM
2

"Goodbye, ladies"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:24 PM
4

They're not picturing fifty year old average bald dudes. They're picturing Leo Dicaprio or some rich handsome playboy on his yacht.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:23 PM
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If any man with a shred of self respect read that he’d drive to the strip club that night Lmfaooo that has to be the first time I've seen "shred of self respect" in the same sentence as "strip club" in this way!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:38 PM
1

I prefer men who have a huge preference for sex over getting off to porn, and would give up porn for me in a relationship. These men make far superior lovers ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:47 AM
2

It's not the same thing. It isn't "our bodies can't keep up" with all the same old young fucking we want to do; we literally don't want the same kinds of sexual experiences we had when we were younger. We utilize the sexual knowledge we accumulate throughout our youthful sexual experiences to be more discerning and make better partner choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:59 AM
1

“I find you very attractive, would you like to fornicate?” I would laugh at my own boyfriend if he came onto me with that absolute stinker. The impression I’ve gotten from this website is that women see it as a slap across their face if that question is asked, but it seems very logical. Mate it isn't "logical". It's spectrummy af and socially blunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:43 PM
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How do you know they don't approach men irl? And this still has absolutely no relation to your original question about whether or not there's much difference between prostitution (you pay a sex worker to have sex with you) and paying Tinder (you give money to some app devs to be more visible to prospective partners on their platform)!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:29 PM
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Why are you assuming a woman who is happy to engage in casual sex with someone she met on Tinder wouldn't do the same thing with a man she met irl? I'm not even sure why this point or assumption matters in relation to your OP. The woman still isn't a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:38 PM
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Wtf? Of course it is hugely different. One, you are paying a prostitute to have sex with you. You are paying a sex worker for their services. She is doing something she may or may not have done were to she to see you on a dating app. This is not about her personal desire for you, it's not about attraction to you. It's work. The other, you are paying an app to make you more visible to more women who might willingly have sex with you out of her own personal desire. It is based on actual attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:56 PM
1

How is it Bidens fault that Putin is doing this? I genuinely don't understand how you can come to this standpoint..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:44 PM
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Lol no. I just would never refer to myself like that. It sounds babyish and egotistical. It also gives FDS "kween" vibes. I don't see myself or anyone else this way, as prizes. Just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:35 PM
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I think you may have misinterpreted me? I meant that most women want men older than themselves, not "women want older men" (as in "old men", lol). The average age gap is 2.3 years, with the man being older than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:29 PM
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This reads kind of like you're almost trying to create a problem for women that doesn't exist. Most women actively desire an older man in the first place. What 30 year old women on 100k are sitting around moping about their comparative SMV in this way? You are looking at this through neckbeard-coloured glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:06 AM
1

This is about power and control that FDS women refuse to relinquish. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:38 PM
1

Zero. That said, how am I supposed to know if he has a 6 pack unless I'm seeing him shirtless? My male friends don't make a habit of walking around topless... Or discussing how much they make. I'm British though, there are many unspoken rules about this shit, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:00 PM
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I support sex workers, but never men who use them, because most of the time, the women doing it, really don't want to be doing it. You're very likely paying someone to pretend to enjoy having sex with you, for your own personal pleasure. That's just a mentality I feel like I'd need significantly less empathy than I possess to be accepting of, and on-board with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:21 AM
0

People with those kinds of views get called SWERFs, too. Even if those views are actually shared and expressed by actual ex-sex workers. It's an objective fact that the sex industry is dangerous and rife with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:18 AM
5

Isn't "women aren't capable of internal reflection or self-criticism" every bit as short-signed, sweeping and inaccurate as "tons of men are garbage?" RP men really believe most women are stupid children much the same way FDS women really believe most men are trash. Who is right? Maybe they're both broken af. Regarding whataboutism/gaslighting: If you making a huge negative generalization about a gender, I mean, do you expect either men or women to seriously entertain either? If someone is telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:11 PM
7

All these soyboy simps these days must brush up on their 90s Shania Twain lyrics goddamn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:26 PM
4

We hear a lot from RP men here that women are children who cannot make good partner choices... "I am friends with actual high quality men (aka the men women avoid because of vagina tingles)" We also hear that RP tells men to focus on self-improvement in order to attract women. So then, what kind of self-improvements do RP men undertake exactly, in order to attract women who make poor partner choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:23 PM
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No, I am friends with actual high quality men (aka the men women avoid because of vagina tingles) This is such peak PPD. Imagine someone speaking this sentence with their human voice in reality... "Ackshual high quality men" "because of vagina tingles" This isn't reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:15 PM
2

Keto is something I've never done before but I'm definitely curious to try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:22 PM
1

Very similar to my diet, but I eat fish instead of red meat. I love tofu as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:11 PM
1

Q4All: What kind of diet do you have? e.g. if you eat meat, if you're vegan, vegetarian, pesc, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:03 PM
2

Even people who want to be poly can't be poly without all kinds of stupid drama and completely avoidable issues if they just didn't sleep around. It's usually one person who really pushes for poly, with some poor fuck who just wants a regular mono relationship. And women (typically) definitely do mind sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:16 PM
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Because 90% of the time, I'm with my boyfriend when I'm in situations in which I could be approached. The rest of the time, I deliberately look and act standoffish af.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:05 PM
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"It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility" is true, and can be a damn painful fact that can take years to accept after enduring trauma (abusive upbringing, abandonment, etc). I've seen this with incels who blame women, or men, or everyone but themselves for their situation, and use the "but you don't realise, I'm an asshole because of what's happened to me", when people try to tell them that women reject them because they're assholes. Yep, and it's still on them to fix it. Hurt people …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:02 PM
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Oh god. You do realise what you're saying here, right? No. If some supermodel “woman” tried that with me I would know it’s a scam. Come on. No “9” has ever shown interest in me, they’re not going to start now. It would be a quick laugh and delete. “Damn bot” I would utter to myself.. You're saying that you're so unused to beautiful women coming onto you that you'd see it was a scam. Well, the women in that doc were very used to male interest, (yes, even at their age! Gasp!) and if you get a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:07 PM
2

Isn't he banned from most dating apps now and trying to be some kind of business marketing person or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:09 PM
5

Dont get your hopes up bud. There will always be people who fall for POS. That's likely never going to change. The issue is when you see all women as a hivemind. Plenty of women fall for good men. Plenty of men fall for good women, despite how you still get female murderers being sexualized, and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:32 PM
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TRP says women are materialistic. The women in the documentary fell for the swindler largely because he appealed to their materialistic natures. I am finding it interesting how the sole focus of this thread is on the women who fell for his scam, but nothing at all about the absolutely pathetic narc of a man who cried like a baby when he lost all of his stupid designer goods. "Homeless King🤴", etc. Men here can really watch an entire documentary about a man so desperate to drown himself in some l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:15 PM
2

I don't think you taking into account, that the first women was attractive , she was completing her masters which makes her educated, she had some money and she had over a 1000 matches on Tinder. Perhaps you need to rethink how you define a "high value" person. That's the whole problem with TRP: It sees men and women as looks, money, status - things that have nothing to do with the real person underneath a pretty face, cash and followers. Elliot Rodgers saw himself as having LMS, but was astound…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:56 PM
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she was attracted to the billionaire lifestyle Lol, you're kidding. Who isn't? Sure, he basically swept her off her feet from the start with interest and luxury. Much like a stunning, lovely, hourglass-shaped woman with could do the exact same to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:46 PM
5

What do you want me to say about that exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:35 PM
3

No one is generally supposed to go through anyone's phone. It's a breach of privacy. Why does anyone need to go through their partners phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:27 PM
2

Same. It's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:26 PM
11

That type of fraud would not work on a men it would only work on women. Men are more than twice as likely to fall for romance scams than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:22 PM
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He also swindled other men too...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:20 PM
10

Men fall for "shiny" women and get burnt: women bad Women fall for "shiny" men and get burnt: women bad You hit the nail on the head!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:17 PM
8

People - male and female - would probably hope to be with an extremely hot, extremely wealthy person over an ugly, impoverished person. But if you're not those things, what's the point in tying yourself in a knot over it when you could still find someone who loves you? After all, most men in relationships are not rich and extremely attractive, and many women here are just trying to let obviously struggling men know that all isn't lost for them. Looks and wealth being attractive is obvious to any…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:12 PM
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Women against porn will cite human trafficking, rape, drug addiction, abuse, violence, the normalization of abuse against women, and men will laugh in our faces, and then expect us to take this seriously? On par with the harms of pornography is.... Book covers? Dialogue? "Sexy stuff?" This is farcical. You are pretending to be upset that books have dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:27 PM
1

This makes sense.. It's depressing how much dating apps have really pretty much poisoned dating today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:42 PM
1

I don't understand why people here see their prospective partners in this way, like just a bunch of physical characteristics that all have to be "the best" or whatever.. If you meet someone you really get along with and really love their company, why would it matter they're less than 6ft, or don't have these perfect physical traits? Even stunningly beautiful people don't look perfect forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:57 PM
2

My god. Do we seriously need another thread on age gaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:45 AM
0

Wait, what?! Is this true? Scared to ask for an actual source on this!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:23 PM
7

Well I've been groped and grabbed in bars, so... All kinds of shit happens in public spaces / broad daylight, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:53 PM
2

You are vastly over-simplifying this situation down to genitalia. A game of getting into a cunt as fast as possible. An actual human being is attached to the pussy, remember. She doesn't want to repeat her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:40 PM
1

Why do you think he "messed up"? Because he's not getting into her pussy as fast as he'd like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:13 PM
1

It doesn't "view them". They're "outliers", so they don't count. TRP likes to see everything in sweeping generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:47 PM
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The whole point is that you don't know what will happen. He's a total stranger. It isn't necessarily that we think we could be murdered, but he could still assault you, be aggressive with you, unpredictable, crazy, etc.. you have no idea, so you want to at least be careful. I've been grabbed, groped, had men be aggressive, men follow me home, all by men who "just wanted a date" or were interested in me, men I didn't know. You can't help but be cautious. There's a lot of fucked up crazy shit that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:45 PM
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Sadly, you are right! I should have used the /s tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:23 PM
2

Of course I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:15 PM
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He's not getting access to her pussy fast enough though. And because his dick is all that matters, treating this woman with basic decency and respect can go out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:09 PM
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Pick me's are women who are acting out of insecurity, not empowerment. They're not expressing a fondness in everything masculine because they genuinely like those things, they're doing it because they know men like it, so it's ultimately all just an act. The fact that you call it a "strategy" is exactly why they're looked down upon. The same as RP men put on an act. When you bullshit your entire personality, character, tastes and preferences, and bend over backwards to try to attract people of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:00 AM
1

A lot of the autism subs I follow say the same thing. "Just be yourself" doesn't work if you're autistic either, but masking and basically pretending to be someone else - someone you're not - really isn't the solution if you're looking for a LTR. Eventually the mask will slip, so then what will happen? You need to find a partner who will love who you actually are when you're not masking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:57 AM
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"Women are children."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:29 PM
2

No, probably not. I don't want children myself and cannot envision myself as a parent. It wouldn't feel right to be to date or marry a man with children unless I could picture myself in a motherly role to his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:06 PM
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Raise your standards, then. No one else can do that for you. You can't make the women you like the most like you back, though. A lot of this comes down to "I want to fuck hotter women than I can get. Someone else (women) should do something about it!" This is like complaining about not being able to get a top-notch job while being underqualified, and ranting on Reddit rather than studying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:53 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:10 PM
4

Lol being a size 0 isn't a sign of good health at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:12 AM
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Yeah it's creepy to cling onto old nudes of exes in a new relationship imo. If you don't enjoy looking at them anymore, then what's even the point in keeping them? It's not like keeping a dead relative's necklace or something, lol. Plus your exes themselves probably don't want you keeping them either, if you're not together anymore. Seems disrespectful on both sides. What does it say about you that you'd rather make your current gf feel bad than just delete them? It means exes nudes come before …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:07 PM
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You really believe that all you need to do is hear that a man somewhere is getting sex to draw the conclusion that he must be unintenlligent and does nothing for society. If only women would have gone for Minassian right? Or the upstanding citizen that was Elliot Rodger! /s By your logic, we need to fuck incels who do nothing for society and hope they'll blossom into upstanding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:46 AM
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I'm already having sex with an awesome man, so why have us women got to fuck some Reddit incels who probably do F.A to "save society"? Do you expect women to just provide incels with pussy and then just hope they might get their shit together and get out of bed and do something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:34 AM
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Men aren't motivated to keep those things going to support themselves? What about gay, bi, asexual men? How many men are even struggling to such a catastriphic degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:25 AM
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Having sex with men we don't want to have sex with will maintain our quality of life, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:21 AM
1

Less "a flex", more "learning from experience" for me. 🤷‍♀️ Doesn't mean every age gap relationship is bad, of course, but people eye large age gap relationships with suspicion for good reason, especially when the youngest is under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:20 PM
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My god The Sun is so incredibly shit. "Person Gets Divorce". Why is this an article?! I feel foolish for even giving this trash a click.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:07 PM
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:'(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:45 PM
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Because I'm not going to the time and effort of carefully compiling sources for someone who is giving me "nice try". u/Ppdebateismental posted a relevant link though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:58 PM
2

As a woman you’ll never, ever understand what it’s like to experience that over and over and over. Eventually it’s worth risking coming off as a creep to some uptight cunty woman to not live in the world of what “could have been” And as a man, you'll never, ever understand what it's like to be harassed at work by creepy men over and over and over. It's funny that rejection makes us "cunty" and "uptight". This is exactly why we learn to see men as nobodies or potential threats unless they win our…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:20 PM
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Is literally everything a male power fantasy? No. Cmon. Atwood said everything is a "male fantasy", not a "male power fantasy".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:16 PM
2

I am absolutely 100% postive that you do not give a flying fuck about how prostitutes are treated when it comes to crime, so yeah, you're getting minimum effort from me on this. You're free to research this on your own, if you care, but we both know you do not!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:05 PM
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"Women and children", sure. Prostitutes don't fit the category of human being when it comes to crime though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:16 PM
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How does the lack of protection for sex workers negate any of what you're saying? We're talking about sex workers, not coal miners. But if you want to talk about something else, make a different topic. It's just interesting how when prostitutes are murdered and police authorities don't care, men responding only suddenly want to talk about men and laugh it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:15 PM
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LOL, and there you have it. MSM says it so it must be true. No idea what MSM is, but you can find information about how prostitutes are treated in crime cases very easily. Not wanting to see it doesn't mean it isn't real. Yes, because it's not even called murder when millions of men are sent to their deaths on the battlefield over nothing more than an aristocratic grudge. No one even bats an eye when men die at an astounding rate from 'black lung' or scurvy because even basic workplace safety do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:13 PM
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Repair her roof Fix a broken pipe Repair or replace a heating ventilation system Fix her car so she can go to work and make money Ime this been entirely begrudging, because strange men are still threats to us, even if they can fix our boiler, or whatever it is they're doing. But many more women are in these kinds of work positions now too. The last person who fixed my heating system turned up to be a woman. I was surprised, but very happy it was a woman coming into my home and personal space, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:35 AM
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Watch some true crime. You'll learn pretty quickly that authorities pick and choose which murdered people they give a shit about. If you're a murdered prostitute, largely they absolutely do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:21 AM
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You can be an extremely sexually attractive woman and look everything like top-tier porn star, but if you're in a relationship with a porn-sick man, there's literally nothing she can do to pry him off the porn. Why? It's not about her. It isn't about how sexy or what she looks like. It's the fact that he wants to jerk himself off to something he's looking at on the screen, and doesn't want to participate in the physical act of sex. It's a preference for lazy masturbation where the main and only …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:19 AM
4

This has been exactly my experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:11 AM
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It isn't weird at all when you consider sex work is an extremely dangerous and risky job for women. There has historically been extremely little, to absolutely no protection for sex workers at the hands of the "users who make that job profitable", which is exactly why people are waking up to this and seeking to change now. It's also why people mostly despise men using sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:46 AM
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80% of men are considered non-attractive by women Are 80% of men single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:43 AM
3

I'm just encouraging people to follow the rules, what's wrong with that? Very rich coming from someone who broke the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:21 PM
5

Hmm. I think calling someone "a fucking loser" qualifies as intentionally insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:04 PM
5

You just repeatedly personally insulted someone for no good reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:53 PM
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There's another guy on here grilling someone for posting scientific studies. Can't do shit right here, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:37 PM
3

I didn't downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:20 PM
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I didn't downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:15 PM
1

Okie doke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:56 PM
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How "wrong" it is really depends on how shit of a parent someone is to begin with. There are no perfect parents, but if your trial and error is still traumatizing the shit out of your child and leaving them with life-long psychological issues, you plain should not have had kids to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:42 PM
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Everyone I know doesn't have or want kids, but the women who I know who wanted them do have very specific traits. They all have a strong preference for a lowkey, stay-at-home lifestyle; I'd describe them as "homey"; they're not party-goers. They didn't lead a kind of life that you'd have to make many sacrifices for for children. And most people want to have kids, sure, but everyone is not cut out to be good parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:32 PM
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Holy shit that has to be one of the worst reasons to have children I have ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:22 PM
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34 year old woman here. The older I get, the less it appeals to me. The young people I know having kids just seem to be living extremely high-stress lives where it's just a constant battle to make money and care for their kids. No time for themselves, and everything is just chasing screaming kids about. I recently spent some time with some extended family (with young parents) over Christmas and holy fuck I was exhausted being around their kids. I just wouldn't enjoy dealing with that 24/7. I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:53 PM
1

Yes. I don't think everyone stays in that hormone-fuelled ooga booga "I see hot person, I want hot person!" thing, where you're actually contemplating fucking off with someone for their looks. And I don't think mature adults absorb every silly viral thing a teenager wrote on social media like "Know your worth girl. If they fucked up in any way at all, leave hun. <3" Youth is sometimes spent fucking up and making these kinds of mistakes, and learning from them, whether it is leaving someone you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:29 PM
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This is like telling women not to date assholes. There are BPD women who are absolute magnets to men in the same way there are assholes who are magnets to women. People who are extremely manipulative know the value of external charm and looksmaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:18 PM
1

I wonder if he'd have had an issue with the mess if he hadn't had guests over and it was just him and his family. I think that'd be a pretty good barometer of how objectively bad it actually was, and if it was objectionable to the point of abnormality. It seems kind of like he was just embarrassed that the place obviously wasn't ready for guests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:46 PM
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If you have kids above 5 year old they should be trained to clean after themselves. The thing is with kids is that them playing with toys just looks like mess and clutter to adults, whereas they're just simply being kids in playtime mode. From that perspective there probably wasn't anything for the mother to "tidy up" because the kids were just being kids. I remember being a child and if adults were coming over, the house being tidied up meant that toys were put away, which meant that playtime s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:27 PM
1

Just reading all the uproar among men this caused. So very prim! Men who cannot can't stomach some untidiness! Sharing house duties is one thing, but she was unwell, asleep and missed the text. Oh well. No one was hurt, and yet it's like his psyche was just.. shattered by it. Is this what they mean when they say "men are too weak now"? Because god damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:17 PM
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Very accurate! "I want pussy but women get in the way" sums up a lot of the mentality I see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:55 AM
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No. I'm not a Zoomer either! I'm 34. I watched Moulin Rouge when I was about 14. Just because I'm acknowledging how sex work has changed over time doesn't mean I think the kids invented it. That's such a weird stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:06 PM
7

?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:48 PM
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OFs takes modeling and porn to a new level of sickness, creating a pseudo-intimacy between content creators and fans that is the core element behind the business model. Guys constantly jerking off to porn is bad. Guys jerking off to OFs content from models that the men think they have some type of intimate or special connection to is just one level deeper into Hell. I recently read this being referred to as "the commercialization of human intimacy" and I felt a bit sick; it's a very accurate des…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:32 PM
4

I think I do find less than 20% of all men unattractive, but the important caveat is that my personal standards are not at all just easily-transferrable across women in general. For example, accounting for income/career (six figures or more) Lol I've never dated a man who makes that much. Most of the men I've been with have been broke young students because I was a broke young student. The man I'm with now I lived through poverty with while we grew our own business together. We're far from earni…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:25 PM
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All women have exactly the same taste in men as each other? That's good to know! I'll be sure to tell my sister of this news.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:46 AM
4

Do most men not do their sexual experimentation before marriage too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:09 AM
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Someone decided they wanted to spend their entire life with him. Not crazy that other people see qualities in someone who is also desired by someone else. TL;DR: Desirable man is desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:05 AM
1

Women do like men with insecurities. TRP will just scream at us that we don't because they read some bullshit on FDS, and people say all sorts of dumb junk online. People have insecurities, but not everyone can admit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:00 AM
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The definition of what makes a "top man" varies greatly from woman to woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:56 AM
2

So what? So it's funny that a man who calls himself that went off on one, and then when someone engaged him on his points, magically realized he didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:42 AM
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Lol you've tagged yourself "Slut Whisperer" and you expect feminismsms to give a shit and your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 10:18 AM
2

He also faces rejection, alligators, and divorce rape. Damn life is rough af for poor men but I didn't know it was this bad. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:00 PM
1

I think maybe the women dressed in sexy clothing are distracting to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:18 AM
2

Fuck no. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:14 PM
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Seeking a partner who is financially stable or equal to you can be a want, not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:11 PM
3

Why do you care why people aren't having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:02 AM
0

Does it sound exciting to you at the age you're at now? Do you feel like those things should lose appeal over time, or are your own interests just different? I'm in my mid-30s and all those things still are definitely appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:01 AM
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You can't take criticism without accusing people of being sociopaths. This doesn't make you as a strong candidate for a mature relationship as you think. You seem to think you're so very pure and precious and wonderful, but it just comes across as a superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:18 PM
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This is the most entitled, self-congratulating load of crap I've seen here in a while. If you're soooo wonderful, why have you been single all this time? Perhaps you "threw your best years away" being a stuck-up goody-two-shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:05 PM
4

Fair enough. Yeah okay that's pretty terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:39 PM
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The thing I don't get about thit is: How will you know either way? Do you just assume you're not as good as her exes? Why? Are women telling men they're not as good? Are men being told "Yeah the best sex I had was with someone else lol sorry hun"? Because from what I've seen here, it always seems to be based on a completely bullshit made-up reason, like "She doesn't let me fuck her up the ass or <insert specific sex act here>, but her ex did it to her, so obvs I'm not as hot / good / Chad." When…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:39 PM
1

"I don't think I'll ever care about a single men's issue until men stop killing women." Men and women suffer. Misogyny kills women. But sure, let's just pretend that women are being killed by men simply flirting or saying "hi!" or whatever other absolutely ridiculous minimization. Women are still being raped and murdered by men. Men are still killing themselves. Why not just care about human beings regardless of their gender? Doesn't it say something concerning about you if you're only capable o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:36 AM
1

I have better things to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:09 PM
5

Hoping that your spouse finds someone new if you die is exactly the same as saying that he may as well cheat on you while still alive and together, obviously! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:37 PM
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The real meme is how they used a woman who looks 60 for the 30 year old!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:40 PM
1

Men of average height can't do any of those things? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:30 PM
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Oh isn't it so much worse to be insulted for being a man of average height than literally anything physical a woman gets insulted for!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:25 PM
2

You're being deliberately obtuse. Toddlers learn from experience. 16 year olds learn from experience. Adults learn from experience. People learn from experience. The intended point of learning from experience is obvious. You can replace it with any other similar analogy to convey that point, but being as you're unable to form an adequate rebuttal to the actual meat of my post, you're bimbling about with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:36 PM
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Because an analogy meant to explain how people learn from experience totally just makes my standpoint fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:25 PM
0

It's his flair ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:05 PM
5

Ah I see, so girls that we grew up with should make these "largely poor choices" with men much older than them, and at the same time men their age typically stand no chance because they do not yet have the resources, status, money to compete with said older men yet should accept this reality and wait a few years for the relationships to fail and women to end up broken emotionally and full of baggage and then date those women? Did I get that right? No you didn't. All you did was fart out a bunch …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:04 PM
4

And this is why you are "Male virgin, late 20s".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:15 PM
10

Why is that? You didn't have a problem with it when you were doing it but all of a sudden its an issue when you aren't that same young girl? Because we learned through directly experiencing those relationships that they were largely poor choices. We were young, immature, naive, and the grown men who wanted to be with us wanted to fuck some young pussy. It was much less we were "mature for our age", and much more "this man is immature for his age". Its hypocrisy and jealousy at its finest. You're…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:13 PM
1

"BuT MuH wHiTe FeAtHeR!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:08 PM
5

Unpopular opinion: being fat is not attractive How is that an unpopular opinion? I'm pretty sure that is a very popular opinion, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:42 PM
1

This explains why love is rarely ever given a mention in RP ideaology. Only "oneitis". Like it's a disease they need to mentally neuter themselves against in case they get hurt, so best to pretend that love doesn't exist and keep "spinning plates" (aka, treating women in the same exact way they'd hate to be treated themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:48 PM
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I always laugh at this red pill claim that men love from a romantic pov while also advocating for men to treat women like plates, never get emotionally attached, never commit, and make sure she knows she can be replaced if she doesn’t submit but using manipulation tactics like dread. Yes! The sheer hypocrisy and extent of double-standard here is stunning!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:45 PM
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It's one of the bleakest, saddest RP beliefs. Sure there are golddiggers in the world, but so too are there men who want to use women for sex. But that doesn't mean that there aren't good women and good men out there in the world who are absolutely capable of sincerely loving another human being and putting someone else's needs before their own. It's sad that many RP men don't seem to believe this, and it makes me wonder what they've been through in their life that made them draw this conclusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:41 PM
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She answered the question. Yeah women answering questions is rage-fuel here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:19 PM
1

Profoundly depressing. It reads like straight-up mental illness; unwell people trying to drag each other down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:10 PM
1

Inaccurate. So inaccurate it's entertaining. It's why I read this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:20 PM
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"You're an outlier so you don't count! I am talking very specifically about the specific women I'm specifically talking about!" They have an axe to grind, and you, despite being a woman, are not their preferred subject matter, which is mean bitches riding cock carousels during their youth, and then using men for their money when they hit the wall. If you don't conform to RP shit, they don't want to know. Funnily though, they'll aggressively shit-sling either way: You're either an annoying anomal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:35 PM
2

This is a vastly outdated belief in this age, as things are changing drastically in recent years on this front. As Beauty Norms Blur, One-Third of Young Men Say They’d Consider Wearing Cosmetics - Oct 2019 Beauty and the bloke: why more men are wearing makeup - Feb 2020 More Men Look Into Buying Makeup During The Pandemic - March 2021 The Changing Views of Men Using Makeup (2019 Survey Results) Moving beyond basic grooming, the male beauty industry is (finally) on the rise - Oct 2020 There are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:18 PM
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So you outsource a million wank-monkeys in an IT department to scour the internet for nudes of 1 female colleague. She'd make more money on OF than her office job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:40 AM
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How many IT departments have a million code jockeys with a million computers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:25 AM
2

Lol, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:20 AM
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I think you might be projecting your own feelings of porn stars onto everyone else here. This is subjective; it's already very drastically changed within the span of a decade, and is showing very little sign of recoiling back into any form of prudery anytime soon. Perhaps there'll be a big backlash in another 10 years, in response to all this hardship of ex-OF creators. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:17 AM
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every pervert in the IT department has jacked off to pics of my asshole You're vastly over-estimating how many men access every single content creator. There must be millions of women across the span of decades whose assholes have been jerked off to. The chances of men in one IT department having specifically jacked off to one specific non-famous content creator who earns a modest to comfortable living, are extremely slim. Besides, most women known now that men in our IT department will jack off…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:14 AM
1

What's your point? This is Bree Olson, notable for being a "sex goddess" to well-known actor Charlie Sheen in 2011. OF hadn't even been created then, and popular cultural narrative hadn't yet broadened to "sex positive inclusive" language we have in 2021.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:09 AM
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This just isn't true. It's also assuming that every OF creator is going to get a typical job after she quits OF, when many actually continue down the route of self-employment and creating their own businesses. Aside from that, unless she's someone like Sasha Grey, or a notable porn star, the world is flooded with far too much porn to actually pick out individual random women and remember each of their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:01 AM
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I went to private school, and was literally wearing a catholic uniform (white blouse, short plaid skirt, thigh high socks). I also went to a private religious School with a similar style uniform. From the reactions I got from adult men - despite my being very obviously a child going to/from School - I felt like I was being treated like I was walking around in literal fetish gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:47 PM
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I was about 10 - 11 years old when I noticed grown men expressing sexual interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:51 PM
1

Damn. That sounds like a lot of drama. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:45 PM
1

I agree with you. By "do better", I meant do better by club standards specifically. By this metric, strippers also "do well" in clubs in terms of male attention, but obviously men would not necessarily approach a stripper for a serious LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:33 PM
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Women who dress slutty as hell also do better in clubs than women who are dressed more modestly. Clubs are meat markets. Everything is caveman-brain. It's a different specific set of rules than other places for meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:23 AM
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You could say the same for more stereotypically male interests. Weed and video games could also be seen as a way of coping. Idk. People like things, man, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:02 PM
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A great many internet comment sections paint a dire view of humanity when broadly applied to the entirety of it. And this is TikTok. They're going to be kids, not "ladies".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:22 PM
0

Are there any side-effects to women using testosterone to increase libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:45 PM
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Oh for goodness sake stop using one person to tar an entire gender. This is precisely like a woman seeing some idiot fuckhead man saying he only wants to date a playboy model with DD cup breasts and her saying "See?! Men are superficial trash assholes! All women are to men are fucktoys! This is what women are to men. Wah wah wah!" This kind of perpetual victimhood thinking will only hurt you in the long run. It's stupid, it's nonsensical, and it'll get you absolutely nowhere. Using some clip of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:03 PM
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They think their misogyny is perfectly justified and morally righteous because women are all bad people who want to hurt them. So they become hateful, angry, vindictive, poisonous men which is completely fine. They get to possess a perpetual and acute sense of victimhood from women, but there's never any causality or deeper meaning to women, just the unrelenting strategy of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:47 PM
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What a terrible idea. The last thing children need is to be indoctrinated into an ideaology that teaches them to hate the opposite gender and see them as sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:19 AM
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I guess I'm bluepill. My parents married young and remained together all the way until my dad passed a few years ago. They had a pretty traditional marriage (mum stayed home and kept the house; dad worked), and it worked out well for them. I'm not really sure on the marriages of my friends parents tbh, I think it's pretty varied though actually. Interesting question! The environment we grow up in plays a huge role in our view of relationships. I think it's definitely more likely for people to tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:56 AM
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It's amusing how he wants to judge women on their childhoods, but absolutely does not want to talk about his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:48 AM
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Part of the reason I find this sub entertaining is the flippant "well you're an anomaly and don't count / I'm not talking about people like you" when people crop up who don't conform to their view of women or men. And how many times they have to say it. You'd have thought they'd clock on. But nah, everything is black and white and they know better, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:27 PM
2

Ahh now I'm tempted to do the same thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:02 PM
3

Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:00 AM
1

Is that the new Spiderman movie? I haven't seen it yet!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:15 PM
1

"All men watch porn" I never made any such statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:29 PM
1

Lego is pretty popular too, and not everyone is into Lego either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:52 PM
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I'm not "gaslighting" anyone. I think bi women are allowed to have preferences? Why does my being bi matter anyway? This is a question for women. Not exclusively straight women. Stop being hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:57 PM
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Might be a good idea to stop basing your view of women on the shittest parts of internet culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:16 PM
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I mean, fair enough, each to their own. If you prefer how you look in that way then that's always a good thing. I was just going by my personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:07 PM
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Maintaining a healthy body weight improves the attractiveness of anyone, male or female. Muscle gain though? Negligible imo. Maybe a little toning, but I'm probably biased because I find the whole very muscular look extremely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:27 PM
1

Guy 1 - 0 Guy 2 - Ehh maybe 2? Neither are my type at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:21 PM
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To men who have had absolutely no luck in organically (not OLD) finding a nice female partner, and seem to have endlessly bad luck with women, have you thought of moving to a new location? I'm posting this because in the area I grew up in, I seemed to just simply not be attracted to anyone. All the guys in my area seemed to want to do was get laid at nightclubs and fuck around being stupid assholes. It took me a while to realise that actually this was kind of the culture of my location at that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:18 PM
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Idk why so many men here imagine that all women own vibrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:44 AM
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My hair is almost hip-length. It was light brown, but I recently highlighted it blonde. It's honestly a total pain to maintain, but I feel so much prettier with very long blonde hair so I'm trying to just live with it and remember that every time I've cut my hair shorter, I've regretted it. Shorter hair just plain doesn't suit me as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:15 PM
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Men on PPD: Women trick men into commitment and marriage! WOMEN BAD. Also men on PPD: I trick women into casual sex. This is fine, because they deserve it for trying to trick men into being a Beta Bux!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:55 PM
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He correlates sex with degredation and immorality, so perhaps some religious indoctrination going on there. He questions why he should treat women "like people" for being sexually active, the subtext to this being that his conception of what it means to be a person means not having sex. It's such a ridiculous notion (people obviously do have sex all the time), so he is probably projecting his own individual experience of what it means to be a person onto her. He himself doesn't have sex, therefo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:32 AM
1

No. Not my type at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:21 AM
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I care about my partners sexual history as far as if he's respected the women he's been with, and his body count isn't extremely high or extremely low. Other than that, nah, I don't really care. Secrecy about it would be a red flag though, because it'd make him seem like he had something to hide / has a guilty conscience like he knows he's done something bad. There's a big difference between someone asking a question out of curiosity and to get to know someone better and retroactive jealousy imo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:58 AM
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TRP will say FDS and FDS will say TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:48 AM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 11:47 AM
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It’s a troll, right?! Hard to tell who is trolling and who is being serious in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:53 PM
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Oh okay. I guess I got the definition of Chad wrong. I thought a Chad was an extremely stereotypically physically attractive alpha male. There are plenty of slobbish men who don't fit that description who are in relationships, so it seems weird to assume he must be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:13 PM
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How do you know the shit-stain guy is a "Chad"? There are plenty of unattractive male slobs in relationships who definitely would not fit the description of a "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:09 PM
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I'm referring to how females are treated as children. And children largely do not have agency. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:40 PM
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At the private school I attended at least, I don't think a single boy went to a gym or worked out. (Can minors go to gyms?) Boys were mostly typically more interested in enjoying the spoils of the girls who were self-sexualizing and judging who was a slut and who was a frigid bitch, while closely monitoring the masculinity or "gayness" of the boys around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:23 PM
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Boys don't do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:17 PM
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The external pressure to self-sexualize can and does exist alongside developing sexuality, sure. Also, the need for approval and acceptance from a teen female peer group is mixed up in that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:13 PM
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The worth of women is strongly tied to sexualization, but also it seems that many college-educated women are realizing that they can actually make more money on OF than whatever it is they're studying for. You don't feel the same because men don't have any entry-level experience of being seen as a walking fucktoy, whereas many women do when we're still underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:07 PM
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A common strategy that seems to be employed by both TRP and FDS is the dehumanization of the opposite gender as a dysfunctional coping mechanism to help avoid the pain of being dumped, used, abused, or rejected. The ends very much justify the means to both camps, with "but it works" being prioritized over the important (but painful) inner work of recovering their mental health from whatever trauma attracted them to TRP/FDS in the first place. If these people wanted true self-improvement, they'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:59 AM
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My boyfriend is ten years older than me. Am I to expect that he should never have fallen madly in love with a woman before he met me? Because that would be ridiculously unrealistic and very pathetic. I already know he's spoiled his ex-girlfriends rotten, because he's an absolutely lovely man, but he also spoils me. It takes nothing away from my love for him that he's either done the same or more for ex-girlfriends. If he is currently doing less for me, then that's fine too. He has been hurt in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:21 AM
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I'm not pissed off. I'm just making an informed decision as to why I should bother giving you a considered response, if all I'm going to get back is shit about "hamstering" and lots of caps lock dramatics telling me I'm wrong and you're right if you don't like my answer. Why would that be worth my time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:55 PM
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If you've got all "the facts", then why even bother asking the question in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:46 PM
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Why are you even asking us this question? It's so obviously loaded. If women say "Sure! He can get laid!", or give you an answer that you even mildly dislike or disagree with, you'll get mad as hell and start insulting the women answering you. You may as well just not bother and just go with whatever you decide women think about this like you will anyway, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:39 PM
1

Oh look! Even I'm getting this shit and I didn't even answer the damn OP, how predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:58 PM
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Absolutely zero point in any woman answering this. She'll be brigaded by men telling her she's lying, or otherwise mansplaining her own attraction to her. I haven't even read the comments here yet but I bet its already happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:00 AM
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Lol, this thread is such a happy divergence from the usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:39 PM
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You accuse women of lacking self-awareness and being mental midgets and all this awful, insulting nonsense, all because you're so arrogant as to presume that you can speak for all women because you've read Grazia or something online. Are you consciously attempting to become more narcissitic with this, because you think it'll get you higher up the HVM ladder? Are you flirting with me??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:44 PM
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RP men will trigger themselves endlessly about what mentally unstable FDS women want. FDS women will trigger themselves endlessly about what mentally unstable RP men want. RP men don't speak for all men. FDS women don't speak for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:34 PM
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So all of this really has simply got to do with just raw sexual desire, which is why there are never any positive personal traits like "being sensitive", (I guess, traits that would make a man an effeminate "simp" or BB). So if you're female, as long as you're young, hot, and fuckable, you're a HVW, and if you're male, as long as you're high status celebrity or very wealthy you're a HVW. If the vast majorrity of men could never even hope to reach this level of percieved value in their lifetime, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:30 PM
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What utter drivel. What women are seeking sex with Trump, Biden and this lot?! You are far more likely to hear other men idolize these people, particularly the likes of Musk and Bezos. In terms of the political and business world, yes, the more of a psychopath you are, the more likely you are to get ahead. However, that has nothing to do with who women find more desiable or what makes a man "high value". "Women are liars" is just overtly misogynistic nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:12 PM
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Not sure why you're acting like men don't obsess over youth and beauty in women and that that itself isn't a form of pressure. Ime it's certainly more men who have made me feel pressured to conform to beauty standards, but really it can come from both sexes. EDIT - Tbf after reading the comments, yep, capitalism is to blame for this also.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 10:00 AM
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Whenever I see these "HVM" discussions, they're never about personal qualities (love, loyalty, affection, sensitivity). In fact, all of the traits which to me make a man "high value", to the minds of many RP men, seem to make a man a "beta bux/simp". They seem to want to be wealthy and lack as much empathy for women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:44 AM
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You can disagree all you want it's the truth I'm afraid I still completely and totally disagree. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:05 PM
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Well that's really dependent on the genes I disagree completely. I don't believe it's genetic. I believe it's a byproduct of a poor upbringing. There are plenty of "ugly men" who still manage to get along in the world of sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:17 PM
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I'd consider myself a complete and total failure of a mother if I brought up a boy who turned RP/incel/MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:52 PM
2

I had way more male friends at around 2010 who defended feminism and none saying against it. Now in 2021, I have seen much more misandry and anti-feminist ideas. Its sad but I totally understand where this is coming from Purely anecdotal, but I actually experienced the opposite, though with that said, this is referring to two different friendship groups. My male friends in 2010 were making rape jokes about Anita Sarkeesian and watching "feminist cringe" videos; my male friends now are mostly sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:00 PM
25

RP men know them, and they've had sex. Wow. Cool bro, that's some real top 1% shit! Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:42 PM
25

RedPill men. Richard Cooper, Andrew/Tristan Tate are redpill and make up 1% of the population in terms of success. Funny then absolutely no one aside from RP men know who the fuck these guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:32 PM
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Is a "beta" just a word for a man who can actually function in a loving relationship with a woman? It seems so. This thread makes it seem women ought to objectify men down to their six-pack and penis, and men need to objectify a woman to the point they fear being pro-feminism. Threads like this make me feel so glad I live in reality, where women and men actually fall in love with each other for reasons other than this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:30 PM
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All you're really doing here is showing that you're willing to go out of your way to minimize rape as long as you get to be the victim. According to you, it's not about women "maturing" (because women are children, right?), it isn't about "rape", (because we all know silly women just lie about that, right?). Oh no. It absolutely has to be that this is poor little you being oppressed because she doesn't desire you that much. Even if that were the case, what do you want other people to do about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:52 AM
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Ah yes, the "gotcha" of - we only want to kiss people we actually want to kiss, otherwise we moan about "harassment", and "assault". How dare we. How awful asking for consent is, she might say no! Better just be confident and forget about consent and boundaries, ey?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:29 AM
0

I advise against asking strangers if you can kiss them. That's pretty weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:23 AM
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It is, very much, actually, lol. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:16 AM
1

Not being into "kink and shit" =/= being a sex-negative prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:01 AM
-1

men absolutely have to push boundaries if they want to be respected as a potential partner Sounds like something a rapist would say tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:59 AM
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This is weird for me as a bisexual woman. My sexuality is entirely reactive towards men, but entirely spontaneous towards women. This leads me to wonder how much estrogen has to actually do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:57 AM
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6 is median, so half the population is below 6, and a gigantic number probably at 1 or 2. Not really "most men" then, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:13 PM
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Is it? I looked this up. According to 2011 to 2015 CDC data, women between ages 25 and 44 had a median of 4.2 sexual partners, while men in that age group had a median of 6.1 sexual partners. https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women I don't think this is the life of most men. Where are you getting your information about this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:22 PM
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I like this take. It's healthy. I don't see how anyone can really argue against it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:00 AM
1

Damn the overweight/obese meters are scary too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:46 AM
2

"I love you because I don't know any better" vs "I've known many women/men, and I pick you above the rest" Which one sounds better? Additionally, you are unlikely to remain sexually satisfied in the long-run if you've been exposed to multiple bodies. You will begin to think about and crave the sexual encounters from your past. Purely anecdotal but I do see posts on the relationship subs from men who were virgins before their first serious relationship and down the line end up feeling like they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:42 AM
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I instantly just thought what an incredibly sad world it'd be if everyone were designated ONE ice cream flavour their entire lives, lol. It's basically deprivation of choice because your perception is so narrowed, you just don't even know any better. There's a huge difference between knowing other "flavours" exist, but making an informed choice, and just plain living in ignorance. How can you know you might not vastly prefer another flavour, other than vanilla?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:33 AM
2

Cancel culture. I do wonder if we'll see things improve just because I don't really see how it's sustainable to simply put people out of work for simple disagreements or saying something someone didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:27 AM
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I think if someone is bullying or harassing someone, regardless of gender either way, I think action should be taken. If women are getting away with bullying men, I do think that's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:01 AM
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Kind of unrelated, but still, women are certainly getting fired, cancelled and losing their jobs for saying stuff about transwomen. We're not immune.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:34 AM
2

When they walk bowlegged the next day is just... Chef's kiss "Here's to swimmin' with bow-legged women."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:09 PM
0

What on earth are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:05 PM
1

Holy shit look at that thread of comments deleted by moderators! My god the poor mods will have their work cut out for them on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:43 PM
0

The men who can't take 30+ year old women seriously are precisely the ones I've always wanted weeding out of my dating pool, that's literally exactly why this works so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:21 PM
0

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:14 PM
2

This is what I've been trying to articulate in this thread, but you have done so far better than me! You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:08 PM
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We don't necessarily fall in love with the most stereotypically handsome men on the planet, though, the same way men don't necessarily fall in love with the most stereotypically hot women in the world. Falling in love is much more valuable and meaningful to many of us than finding Chad / Stacy with perfect bodies, bank balances and whatnot. A great deal many of us are not mourning because we fell in love with someone who is not 100% perfection, and to actually seriously have such ridiculous stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:06 PM
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So women want simps? That buy you flowers at the first date and that put you on a pedestile? Ok gotcha... When you fall in love you tend to want nothing more than to shower them with affection. Around here, "simps" is a synonym for "man capable of loving a woman". Which is terribly sad. I once get ditched because I invited a girl to (high quality) tea, after flirting for many minutes, should have had cocaine at home was like offering to show her a collection of old stamps or something. I just da…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:15 PM
3

Oh, this is about Chad isn't it? Sorry, we don't want that nearly as much as men here seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:59 PM
1

No man is capable of loving an older woman because she's not as cute? If that were actually the case, and thank goodness it isn't for many men, what would the loss be for us if he were so superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:21 PM
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He was smart, he was successful, he was ugly. I read in this in "Hollywood blockbuster movie trailer" voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:16 PM
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Their options don't diminish, but the quality of their options absolutely does. This just isn't reality, at least ime. When I was in my teens and twenties it felt like there were just endless thirsty fuckboys who wanted to pump and dump on the basis of my youth/looks that I had to wade through to get to the actual decent options: Men who wanted me for who I was as a person. I feel like the more I age out of that niche youthful look that drives men crazy, the more I can trust the men who retain a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:10 PM
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Lmao there's clearly a difference between having a natural hourlgass figure and looking like Jessica Rabbit due to extreme use of image editing and / or surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:31 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:35 PM
2

Idk? Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:30 PM
3

I was obviously referring to the highly edited IG bodies though. The naturally hourglass fit women on that sub look nothing like many of the crazy-edited IG models.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:24 PM
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There is no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:13 PM
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Is this really "a tactic", or just extremely severe trust issues? You're too frightened to let yourself fall in love, so you can only keep a woman at arm's length while trying to milk her for sex and "fun stuff" until she figures what's really going on and presumably leaves you. It's like you're so terrified of being with a woman who will fuck you around, that in the process of trying to avoid it, you've made yourself into the male equivalent. I can't see good things coming from this long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:12 PM
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I wonder how many of their perceptions of "slim-thic" is the IG that basically barely exists in reality without surgery. Kind of worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:01 PM
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Yes. I think he's doing a lot of projection in this thread. If all men felt and thought like him, I would give up on men entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:28 PM
3

Imagine comparing sex to "taking a piss".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:00 PM
1

Why doesn't the same apply to men then? Would you see a man with a high N count as a potential cheater and all this? If not, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:17 AM
3

I was watching a video recently about cats, and it was explained that a female cat can actually take on the sperm of more than one male cat during her pregnancy, thereby resulting in a litter of kittens with the genetics of multiple male cats. I just Googled this. It's called "superfecundation". And there are cases of this happening in human women birthing multiple children at a time too... Woah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:17 PM
2

Well, yes, plus people on all sides of this tend to be highly emotive due to sheer burnout.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:53 PM
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One of the things I find the most disturbing about all this is how people were calling people crazy stupid conspiracy theorists for saying there will be vaccine mandates and forced vaccination. And now we're seeing those things actually happen, those same people are saying it's great, should be done more, and ridiculing them further. I just think.. at least they should apologise for being wrong? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:38 PM
2

It comes across as very paedophilic, doesn't it? If women are "children", you really, really shouldn't be interested in them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:24 PM
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This right here! ^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:23 PM
2

This sub has gone full-on blackpill at this point. Goodness me, the comments too.. :( I genuinely feel bad for men who really believe these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:09 PM
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I'd tell you to DM me if you want to ask me sex questions, but my DMs are closed, so I guess that's too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:23 PM
1

Porn viewing stats generally are very fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:18 PM
1

? Why are all these responses fixated on me personally and not the OP? This isn't an AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:03 PM
1

Well they're really not like me, my brother or my boyfriend, though, are they? All of those people are getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:18 PM
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I did. I guess I could've just edited it in, but meh, who cares? lol. It was just an extension of my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:13 PM
2

I did (unknowingly at the time) actually date an incel. My first boyfriend was sexless at 21 when we met, and has remained sexless ever since. Unfortunately though we were far from a perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:12 PM
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I'm not obsessed with incels. I do find them an interesting subject though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:00 PM
3

A study about the porn preferences of incels would be a very fascinating read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:54 PM
3

Presuming they watch mainstream porn, how do incels reconcile the conflict of both hating and wanting revenge on the Chads and Stacys, with masturbating to porn and getting off to watching Chad and Stacy fuck? Does the rage and aggression get channeled into some kind of warped sexual energy? I wonder if there's a correlation between the increase of incels and the rising prevalence of porn featuring violence towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:51 PM
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My current partner is vastly superior to my exes in terms of how he treats me, so why does he need weird sex tips from men I dumped because they weren't as good? It's honestly just bizarre. The idea of him trying to replicate sexual things exes done with me is honestly revolting to me. I like him for how he treats me, not some damn ex?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:43 AM
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It has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity. I like my current sex life fine enough as it is without feeling any kind of need to dredge up old histories with men that I left for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:33 AM
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That's just stupid. I can understand his sexuality without needing to be told intimate details of the exact movements of his tongue on his ex-gf's pussy. Flipping this around, there is no way I'd feel comfortable telling him intimate details of what ex-partners have done with me. I don't want to bring my past sex life into my present with my current partner at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:15 AM
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Interesting that you interpreted it as me using an insult? It's a literal fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:07 PM
1

Also, lol at "porn addict" https://eurweb.com/2018/02/21/chris-rock-opens-up-about-infidelity-and-porn-addiction-in-new-netflix-special/ 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:57 PM
4

If you want advice from a cheating porn addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:26 PM
2

Lol. This is a very "Chris Rock" take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:09 PM
2

And that would be equally as narrow-minded and pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:15 PM
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"First off, you don’t want to know all the details." You seem to be advocating ignorance is bliss. There's a difference between knowing something happened, and knowing the details, though. For example, I know my boyfriend has had a sexual history. That's cool, absolutely fine. But do I want to know the details of all he did with those other women? No way. I don't need to know that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:41 PM
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No. Manipulation isn't the same thing as being forced, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:32 PM
3

most feminists support abortion, so I'd consider them violent. More violent than incels or TRP or black pill or mgtow. So you value unborn fetuses much more highly above born human beings, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:29 PM
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That man was emotionally blackmailed and emotionally manipulated to fuck by a woman who needed therapy before she tried getting into another relationship. Now he'll probably need therapy getting over that craziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:20 PM
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It's really telling, isn't it? I see so many women on my social media displaying absolutely phenomenal levels of talent, absolutely breathtaking artistic skill, or musical talent. I'm an artist and musician myself and I know that's why I see them on my feed, but holy crap, if my perception of women was limited to what I see on social media, I'd come away thinking all women were artistic and musicial geniuses. I do have to limit my social media time though, because scrolling that too much just ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:46 AM
2

The algorithm thing is a really, really good point, and I wonder how much that plays into what some experience here when it comes to women. If they are hate-watching social media material to "confirm" any negative biases, the algorithim is going to throw up more and more of the same, further cementing those biases, and making them feel "all women are like this". People can really be unintentionally curating a deeply unhealthy feedback loop, disorting and entrenching their own biases without even…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:40 AM
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How many men here are basing their opinions of women in TikTok videos and shit on social media, due to the fact that they're not socializing with women irl and so their entire perception of women is limited to social media? I kinda can't help feel but no wonder their feelings about women are so messed up if this is the case. Influencers, wannabe influencers and attention-seeking social media posts should not count for 100% of "what women are like".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:19 AM
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I think it's the assumption they make that men must surely mean a great deal to these women, and so insulting them for being a "crazy cat lady" seems to them like it'd hurt, even if it wouldn't. I'm happily in a relationship, but I can very much envison a happy life enjoying the company of pets. I think, really, you kind of have to be able to envison being happy on your own no matter what, because unfortunately being widowed is still a thing, being left is still a thing too. Ending up single is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:37 AM
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At times I feel like some here (possibly more men than women) speak about this in a way that comes across like Retroactive Jealousy or something bordering on a psychological condition worthy of seeking the help of a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:25 AM
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sweet, unisex fuckboi shit I am very intrigued to know what these colognes you wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:32 AM
3

I think a huge block to men understanding this is actually their own lack of insight into how other men truly are, due to how surface male friendships tend to be. There's the relationship a man has with his male friends, and then there's the relationship he has with a woman he's intimately involved with. They're very different. Men can go for many years operating under the very sincere belief that his male friend is a terrific, upstanding guy, because they have a laugh together and drink togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:18 AM
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I am autistic and I got autistic vibes from this post, lol. You want a way more detailed and highly specific answer than people usually give friends in casual response to this question. She wasn't being deceitful when she said she wanted a nice guy, she's probably just not chronically online enough to know not to fall into the "I want a Nice Guy®" manosphere trap. We all want what can be easily summarized to others as a "nice partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:56 PM
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Would you maybe be looking for a demisexual man? Someone who only experiences a sexual attraction for a person when there's an emotional bond. I'm not sure, but that seems like a potentially good way of weeding out men who feels attraction for random women based on her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:48 PM
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Haha I wish I could control how other people see me! That's like the least-controllable thing about people. Everyone has a different perception of each other; a person's own self-perception is limited to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:24 PM
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This has to be up there with among the absolute worst takes I've ever seen on not just this sub but Reddit in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:02 PM
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That sounds wonderful! Glad things are going great for you; long may it continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:53 PM
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I know I speak about it a lot lately but I do wonder how the pandemic and lockdowns / restictions will have affected sexlessness and loneliness. A lot of the most recent studies on this topic seem to be around 2018ish, but none yet from 2020 onwards.. I feel like it's gonna be a pretty intense further rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:40 PM
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Not at all and never have tbh. But I've also never been a woman who dreamed of a big poofy wedding and a ring and a baby and all this. I sound like a pick-me but it might just be my autism, lol. It's just never been a thing I cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:33 PM
2

What's so bad about dad bod?! Meh, I say enjoy some cookies!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:31 PM
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I don't doubt that at all honestly. I'm more referring to the kinds of just depressing "internet debate"-style stuff you wade through on here every day. I rarely see it, but I don't doubt these men do have actual lives outside of Reddit. Well, I hope you're not that rare in that sense, anyway, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:24 PM
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asktrp Hasn't that sub been banned or shut down or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:21 PM
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How often do RP men here actually engage in healthy discussion about any of those things though? Like FDS, they spend the vast majority of their time simply sharpening their knives against the opposite sex and complaining about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:38 PM
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We are living lives where we are cut off more and more from each other, and I think the restrictions due to the pandemic have massively increased that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:59 AM
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The pandemic and lockdowns / restrictions haven't exactly helped. I think there was a huge rise in people in general experiencing mental health problems since 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:55 AM
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I'm not incredulous about why men would want to have sex with someone looking at a picture at all. This is a question for women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:47 AM
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Idk why men are feeling compelled to tell me this. I think every woman alive knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:13 AM
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The only time I see ENM mentioned is when people are having horrible problems with it. I do wonder how often those kinds of situations pan out well without any insecurity or jealousy problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:15 AM
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It does seem to be becoming more common in recent times for men to wear makeup. I think especially among the young generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:14 AM
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My love and pussy aren't charitable donations to prevent men from writing long ass bullshit on internet forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:06 AM
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People are allowed to be uncomfortable while also understanding that it's perfectly normal though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:27 PM
1

Someone being uncomfortable with strangers approaching them doesn't mean they're "walking around grumpy and angry" lmfao, that's such a ridiculous stretch!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:16 PM
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"I don't give a fuck about how you feel or your insecurities based on sexual trauma, wanna date me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:13 PM
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How could I know if I want to have sex with someone based solely on my seeing a picture of them? A bunch of pixels. I haven't even met them yet! I have no idea who they are, if they're nice, if they're emotionally or intellectually engaging, if they stink, if they have social difficulties, if they're an asshole, nothing. Showing interest based on a picture is just that. I can't base whether I want to have sex with someone on that alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:56 PM
1

Why am I getting replies on a post 24 days old suddenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:45 PM
1

So who is this "they" you're talking about? You're not talking about men who resort to crime to make ends meet for their families, you're not talking about men in porn either. Well what about the women who aren't doing porn to make ends meet for their families? There are parents who do stuff society finds untoward to cover their bills, and parents who don't. I feel like this is kind of going in circles a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:12 PM
2

Have you never heard of gay-for-pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:51 AM
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This is true. Unless their mother was some kind of internet-breaking porn star, the chances of finding random thirst trap pics over 14+ years old belonging to their mother is probably vanishingly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:20 AM
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Devotion is useless if there's no compatability, and compatability is useless if there's no devotion. There's a middle ground between the two. A couple does not need to be perfectly aligned on absolutely everything in life. Both should be free to have seperate hobbies, interests and opinions, but there does need to be devotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:57 AM
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Because men can't make anything close to as much money from showing their butt holes online as women can. I guaruntee you if men earned as much as women on OF, there'd be a great deal many men doing the exact same. Look at sites like Chat Roulette and Omegle. Men don't even need a financial incentive to show their dick and asshole or whatever. They do it for free. ETA - And many men aren't making ends meet. Many can't pay child support and can't afford to care for their families. Personal opinio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:32 AM
2

Aldabruzzo talking about rape is always an ordeal, I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:13 PM
2

I'm not a mother myself and I've never been in this position, so I can't tell you what goes through their minds with this. I struggle imagining any mother necessarily wants to be a sex worker while parenting. As I say, this isn't anywhere in the realm of my own experience, but when I try to mentally put myself in that position, I just imagine it to be a position of complete desperation, where the object is to do anything in her power to provide for her children in the immediate sense. I imagine …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:19 PM
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Lmfao this is why I love this sub. Magical sex ghosts!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:44 AM
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I think it's not just about the frequency of consumption, it's the kind of content. At least, in my experience.. If he's into violent or fucked up porn, he could be getting off to it once a week and it's still unhealthy / bad imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:41 AM
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What are your feelings? What are your hopes? Has she given any kind of signal that she's attracted to you? Also, is she the daughter of a relative of your family? I'm just assuming this since it was Thanksgiving? (I'm also British and clueless about Thanksgiving, lol). You'll need to consider the impact that this could have on your family if people find out you're chatting her up. (It could have bigger implications than if you were to chat up a 19 year old who wasn't close to your family).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:36 AM
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I just need it to be okay for me to ask. Ask for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:19 AM
1

Are they wrong tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:15 AM
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How do you know OF models are doing it for "pleasure", and not out of the regular reason of financial desperation and issues entering other forms of work? It also seems odd to conflate mothers who do sex work with not caring about the wellbeing of their children. How do you not know that's the only thing she can get to put food on the table and a roof over their head?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:29 AM
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Most if not all of them do it in front of their partners too, sort of as a form of spousal / relationship tests. Do what in front of their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:13 PM
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It's not wrong to prefer traditional gender roles. If you want to be a stay-at-home mother and live your life like it's the 50s, I say go for it. If that's the kind of life that would bring you the most happiness, then do it. Unfortunately, due to capitalism and rising costs of pretty much everything, the kind of life you want is now incredibly difficult to obtain. Many couples literally cannot sustain a traditional 50s-style marriage even if they want to, just because it's now so difficult to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:06 PM
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I get equally as excited about my boyfriend's birthday as I do my own, lol. I love celebrating his birthday, as well as our relationship milestones. They're cause for celebration because they pertain to things I value deeply. I'm not sure why there's disparity between men and women when it comes to these things though. And I do get you on the takeout and comfy blanket, lol. I've never really cared how these things are celebrated, (also, money being tight can really change how viable certain opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:24 AM
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^ So much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:10 AM
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Omfg, I do! God that feels so damn long ago now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:39 PM
1

What's the most incel song you've ever heard? Also, what's the most Chad song you've ever heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:21 PM
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What's the most fucked up thing you've read on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:28 PM
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Then find a guy that likes it. Probably solved. Lol well it's not exactly that easy. Enough men are disgusted by hairy pits and legs, and it's so strongly culturally enforced, that it's pretty much a waste of time bothering to vet for it. I don't hold any kind of grudge against men for this, I should add. Heck, I can see why it looks (and feels) much nicer. It's just a massive pain in the ass (sometimes literally, lol), is all I'm pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:59 PM
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I don’t understand why some women are upset about it. Try going through your life making your entire body hairless, except for your head, eyebrows and eyelashes and maybe pussy (but trim it, oh and make sure you don't accidentally cut your genitals lol). It's fucking boring, painful, and (depending on how it's done), expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:54 PM
2

"Dehumanize women to protect yourself from getting hurt by them, and to get sex from them."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:14 AM
1

Eating out has changed my mind on cauliflowers. There was me thinking "what has oral sex got to do with cauliflowers?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:14 PM
1

"ENM" = "I would like to cheat on you without consequences <3"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:13 PM
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Because it's shitty, pathetic behavior and you should be massively embarrassed of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:05 PM
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Oh my god why do you even give a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:37 PM
2

And here was me thinking this was referring to impotence and firing blanks... When a man shoots his shot in a group setting, if he fails, he has a much lesser chance of getting any other woman in that particular group, whether it’s because of group think ,the others don’t want to feel like second choice etc, whatever the reason may be he just has a lower chance. Just stop firing your jizz at random women dude, this is what is hurting your chances. Of course women will "talk".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:17 AM
4

...Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:20 AM
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I was reading a thread in FDS If you base your outlook on women based on that sub you'll end up needing therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:17 PM
5

This discussion is really wobbling your brain isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:19 PM
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Men enjoying the beauty and sexuality of women's bodies = fine, good, approved. Women enjoying the beauty and sexuality of their own bodies = TRAUMATIZING! There's a lot of Madonna-Whore complex going on here. Because these women are now mothers, they shouldn't be allowed to be sexy anymore. It's all very black and white (as ever). Now that their reproductive objective has been fulfilled, they must now become invisible women resigned to the obscurity of domesiticty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:58 PM
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Prudery, puritanism, offence caused, sensitivities triggered, fits thrown.. The holy Joes on this thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:46 PM
5

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:26 PM
1

Anna Karenina is one of my favourite books of all time! I strongly suggest War and Peace if you haven't already read it. That book absolutely blew me away. While I generally love classics, I really couldn't stand Pride and Prejudice honestly. The way it was written felt like stale bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:23 PM
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Yeah, women are relentlessly judged and evaluated for our looks. Seeking validation is a consequence of being subjected to that. Yes, even married women with children. It's not exactly rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 02:05 PM
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It makes me sad that they had such a fun time together posing for the photos, but when it came to looking at them, the whole vibe just turned horrifically self-critical to the point some of those photos made them want to cry. It also makes me sad that they brought new life into the world and yet still feel like they need to look hot and perfect in bikinis. I totally get the wholesomeness of showing post-pregnancy bodies and all that, but it's.. they clearly wanted to appear as unscathed by pregn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:40 PM
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They can go ahead and do it if they have daughters. If they have sons, they are scum for doing this. Why does having sons make this so much more traumatizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:29 PM
3

A bit rich coming from Red God-Emperor of Slut Country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:26 PM
2

That sounds rather like your personal opinion. I have at least read some studies which have measured the outcomes and effects of objectification on women, therefore carrying with it the obvious implication that it has demonstrable consequences which can be observed and measured.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:35 PM
2

Sorry, I'm not following you. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:19 PM
2

No objectification does exist though. Whether it's a woman seeing a guy as a walking wallet, or a man seeing a woman as a walking pair of tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:44 PM
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FDS and RP both objectify the opposite gender, (e.g, he has to be 6/6/6; she has to be a young virgin hottie who hasn't "hit the wall" or had sex with attractive men), but hate the same being done to themselves. - FDS women hate being objectified for their youth / looks; RP men hate being used for their money. Seemingly neither FDS or RP believe in love, or rather, believe the opposite sex is capable of love. So what's the deal? FDS women begrudgingly self-objectify to attract a POS men they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 09:23 AM
1

I think that sums it up well honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:52 PM
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How do you know they're not attracted to each other? That's literally a total wild assumption based on absolutely zero evidence. And not being in the limerence or honeymoon stage doesn't mean there's no longer any attraction at all. That's such black and white thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:43 PM
1

Fleischpeitsch is absolutely on fire lately with these threads! It's great to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:59 PM
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Women actually started learning that when they chose "fixer uppers" or project men that they ended up in weird dysfunctional or abusive relationships. I come from a culture where I was taught this "validates them and nurtures them" narrative and all it sets women up for is to be harmed by unstable or immature men. Absolutely this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:36 AM
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This has nothing to do with women being so wonderful that he's some kind of silly fool for wanting to dump her to have sex with other women. It's to do with this: I hadn’t been with anybody other than her due to constant rejection which then lead to lack of trying. I can see why he feels frustrated, but considering his huge lack of success, he will very likely fail on his mission to start having all this casual sex experience, and throw away something good in the process. people are making very …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:40 AM
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"high octane neck beard," Lmfao!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:50 AM
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So should we put you back in the kitchen by force then? Fucking . YIKES. It's funny how you act like some kind of sober intellectual, deeply concerned with people here giving you "biased / unreliable sources" and shit, and then we see you just come out with this. Most telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:45 AM
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Oh it doesn't surprise me that a lot of women went for it, the same as people buy into Law of Attraction and pay mind to all kinds of pseudoscience hooey. But the types of people who gravitate toward certain people for serious life direction, I think definitely merits some consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:09 PM
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Lmfao, what are you talking about? I wish women would not projects their standard of sleeping with another man on man, if he protects you and comes back to you at the end of the night, he loves you, isn't that what matters that he only loves you and not this other meaningless women? Why can't that be enough? You're literally projecting your own feelings onto other men. What makes you think you can speak on behalf of men like this? Do you think men really wouldn't care if their girlfriend cheated…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:35 PM
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I am saying this as a woman in an age gap relationship with a man. Age gap relationships suck. What's wrong with it? Firstly, all this talk of young, firm, perky female prettiness... It's all very nice, but she has no way of knowing just how obsessed with her perky tits this man actually is, so when she also inevitably ages, how much is that going to affect how he feels about her? She has perky tits. Great. They're not going to be perky forever, and I personally hate that my youth and beauty is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:00 PM
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After looking her up I do wonder what kinds of women specifically went to self-professed "Spiritual Healer and Master Abundant Life Coach" Rebecca Lynn Pope for help with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:01 PM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:29 AM
2

Q4All: How do you feel about Christmas? Do you love it? hate it? Do you have a favourite Christmas song?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:46 PM
1

A match made in heaven! Hmm, what'd the show be called?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:37 PM
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A woman is ready by 18-20. That's an outrageously batshit lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:32 PM
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Just imagining them approaching a restaurant for the date... The guy opens the door, walks through and lets it fall on her. Date over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:28 PM
1

I would watch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:27 PM
3

I need to be tough to handle all the incel rage-.. oh wait, I mean PPD debate and RP self-improvement lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:23 PM
3

Hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:04 PM
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Some men here will literally downvote and insult women for being decent just because it doesn't conform to their set image of woman as "evil bitch from hell who is incapable of love or respect for men". Are women on FDS like this when men are nice to them, too? "No, you're obviously lying because men are evil and if you're telling me you aren't, then you're manipulating me!!"? It's so unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:50 AM
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You know deep down most women don't like to see their man whining like a girl. That's probably just women's biological nature. No. If someone is so emotionally stunted that they can't cope with their partner crying, they have serious problems they need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:31 AM
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Not in a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:21 AM
2

Wait, I thought RedPill was about self-improvement. So RP is about hating women? Lmfao holy fucking god this is entertaining. Ofcourse you’d deem it as non- intelligent but deem misandrist as intelligent. Hmm wonder why🤔 No I am sure you are an absolute scholar! Very clever!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:15 PM
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I never made such a claim. But honestly, why do you even give a shit? If you had an intelligent reason to substantiate your hatred for women, I'd listen to you, but all you've done is whinge about someone on the other side of the exact same coin as you. I quoted her because the men in this thread were doing exactly what she detailed. Including you. Your behavior is literally conforming to the misandrist you're dismissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:54 PM
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I grew out of black and white thinking about men and women quite a while ago now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:44 PM
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That's why I said "if by your logic, her misandry discredits what she has to say". I obviously quoted her because I personally don't believe her misandry does discredit what she has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:04 PM
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Pauline is a self-identified misandrist. You appear to be a self-identified misogynist. *shrug* Meh. If, by your logic, her misandry discredits what she has to say, then your misogyny should also discredit anything you have to say too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:39 PM
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I've just been asked here why I think some men hate women, so I thought I'd just ask directly. Question for men who hate women: Why do you hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:31 PM
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The hatred of women is literally the dictionary definition of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:30 PM
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Yes I do, frequently. Feminism and men's rights interest me both equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:23 PM
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Woman observing male behavior is "crazy". The men in the comments of this thread are doing precisely what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:18 PM
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Who gives a crap? Entertainment has never been grounded in reality, lol. That's the entire point. Escapism. Fantasy. Watching people and situations that don't mimic mundanity. Do you get upset seeing superhero men flying around in capes with insane superpowers because they're not "grounded in reality" either?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:14 PM
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Some women do, some women don't. The same as some men do and some men don't. They ALL go for the top 5ish percent guys. End of, no compromise or second thought. ZERO self awareness or regard as to whether they're anywhere near that level of attractiveness themselves. Just boom, beeline for the same guys. We all do, do we? I don't think we all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:49 PM
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I'm going to summarize the responses you hear from men in regard to this subject with the following quote from Pauline Harmange: 'Strangely, not many men actually stop to wonder why feminists dislike them so much – if they did they might notice the statistics are quite damning. But they’re too busy explaining to us that they’re not like that, that it’s really not nice to generalise like that. And if we alienate them with all that talk of men are trash, the risk is they won’t join in and help us …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:20 PM
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Now. My 30s. In a serious LTR with the same man. I spent my teens and twenties in LDRs with incels I'd met online. There was no "riding the CC", or sleeping with "Chad". I just wanted a sweet, socially awkward autistic guy like me who wanted to fall in love. I don't feel like I'd rather have slept around, but it probably would have beaten getting abused by (what ended up being), emotionally disregulated men with no grip on reality who were addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:37 PM
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I'm in the UK. The only men I know who are sexless are very obviously autistic. But then I also know quite a few autistic men who are getting sex or are married or in relationships... A lot of the chat here seems very American. Even down to the "Chads" and "Stacies". Lol. I'm struggling to imagine what the British named versions of those would even be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:29 PM
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I thought we were supposed to vet properly first, rather than fuck the first guy we like the look of physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:52 PM
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It being voluntary, rather than mandatory, doesn't change anything? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:33 AM
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Thanks. <3 Thankfully, we both mutually agreed it wasn't helping our relationship and stopped. (Inb4 I get my inbox filled with "lolol he's still watching it behind ur back silly")
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:30 PM
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If I were a man I directly wouldn't be concerned with trying to look 18 for as long as possible to please my partner. How tf are you supposed to "vet" for this anyway? I approach potential mates and ask them "Do you find attractive young women attractive?" and stay single forever? Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:27 PM
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I don't think my bf likes milfs... :/ When we watched porn together (we don't anymore. I noped out of it in the end), it was all "teen" category. Damn I really hope my bf likes milfs... I'm 10 years younger than him but still gripped by post-wall terror.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:09 PM
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I think it already has tbf. I don't know how to just stop myself being all bothered by it. I kinda hope that by the time I'm 45 or so, the quality of cosmetic surgery will have improved enough that I won't just look like an older woman with surgery.. Or alternatively, perhaps when we have the "Metaverse" or whatever, I can just create an alternate version of me which stays eternally sexy and youthful and my boyfriend can have VR sex with that version of me like some kind of Blade Runner 2049 shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:38 PM
3

their body was hiding a cute little auto-immune surprise. Like a really shit Kinder Egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:45 PM
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Lmfao is this is what Tinder is like? Holy hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:42 PM
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I've obsessively maintained my appearance and weight to probably mentally unhealthy levels since my teens, lol. Seriously, this shit keeps me up at night. I know it's too much. And ironically, probably actually pretty off-putting in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:30 PM
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This genuinely made me feel a lot better. <3 Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:34 PM
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I think it's already happening. Boys can nut all throughout their teen years to infinite numbers of hot women getting fucked before they even have their first kiss. By the time they're ready to actually have sex, their ideas of sex have already been brutalized by all the porn they spent their puberty and developing years fapping to. As a result, they end up making poor partners whose ideas of sex are based on porn, and find it harder to maintain erections, and so hard to maintain relationships. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:33 PM
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nutting in a silly girl The wording of this made me laugh. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:57 AM
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Ah, okay, I think I'm starting to understand this better now. It’s honestly not so much about how hot a woman is, but more about the actions happening. This makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:19 AM
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Yeah I get guess it is more the concept of aging. I really hope I have a mindset more like yours as I get older. The flip side is you stop getting hit on by randos (well more so) and learn to be comfortable in your own skin. Now that is definitely a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:14 AM
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How do you not feel miserable about it though? I mean, I get that it's natural, it's just... fucking miserable? I really don't get how other women accept that they'll eventually become saggy-titted old women, with a man whose dick still loves 20 year old hotties. I mean, I guess look at the beauty / diet / cosmetic surgery industries. How many women are being cut open and risk severe reactions or even death, just for the chance of looking younger, prettier and more physically desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 09:37 AM
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I don't understand women who don't feel insecure about their partner watching porn, or busting nuts to models or whatever. How do you go from the intoxicating bliss of falling in love with someone, to accepting that they find other people so hot they want to orgasm to them and not you? Lol. I've always felt kind of embarrassed? Like, here's my cue to put some more effort to make him want to choose me over some whore on his computer screen. A whore whose younger, prettier, much sexier looking tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:50 AM
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Okay Ben Shapiro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:35 PM
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What about men who don't want to "invest" in a slut? They just want to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:17 PM
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CMV maybe? Is slut-shaming really just plain old envy? Women: Envious of being considered highly sexually desirable by many, and also a potential threat? - "What if my partner wants to fuck her? / What if my partner has fucked her?" Men: Envious of how easily-accessible sex is for her. - "She can get sex any day she likes. I can't. I wish I had her sexual freedom." Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:07 PM
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Well that was irrelevant to the CMV Oh! Is it really, now? Lmfao you aren't even trying to hide how hard you're attempting to twist this to suit your own agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:32 PM
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And ? And, the CMV is not "Slut-shaming is good/bad". The CMV is "Men don't actually slut-shame in real life".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:11 PM
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Men invented slut-shaming with their religious doctrines as their justification for it. Men have written entire books on how women shouldn't be sluts, how we should dress, behave, etc, for centuries. This thread reminded me of this absolutely hilarious preacher, complaining about sluts and slutty outfits for 30 minutes straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:02 AM
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No. This has never happened to me. I think this problem only applies to people who are only capable of maintaining sexual arousal for a person if they have a particular type of body part they have a fetish for. Arousal seems to have nothing at all to do with the person they're having sex with, just the tits, in this case anyway. Basically it looks like you've figured out that you're aroused by a woman as far as what her tits look like? but beyond that, maybe women don't do all that much for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:01 PM
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Banned from FDS. It was a while back now, but I think it was because I was also a member of men's rights sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:44 PM
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2, easy. He sounds a lot like my current LTR partner. 1 sounds like he could be a psychopath. I've never been with a man like this and have always gone out of my way to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:08 PM
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You think it's friendly and playful. Women don't necessarily interpret it the same way as you. Perhaps men should speak to each other like this. They seem to prefer it more than women, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:37 AM
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It's gross. It's dehumanizing in a kind of embarrassing, infantalizing way. I'm an adult human being, not a gingerbread man made out of sugar. If I dunk my finger if your coffee, It'll fucking burn me. You'll have germs or possibly hand sanitizer in your drink. Imagine my co-workers, customers, my boss seeing me do this. So what am I supposed to say as I refuse to do such a dumb thing? Just stand there awkwardly, smiling through the embarassment. It's also gross because it says "I want to be abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:22 AM
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Oh no, not women saying how comments make them feel.. It isn't as though women's feelings should be taken into when paying them "compliments", is it? Heaven forbid. You literally state that you find it "endearing", which is fine according to you. But the women whose input you're asking for aren't allowed to say it's "gross"? By not clarifying their feelings they're literally fulfilling like 10 female stereotypes. Men: Allowed to say things. Women: Source plz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:14 AM
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^ THIS, right here! He's asking women for their opinions and then invalidating them! OP, if you'd like to be told this and you'd take it as a compliment, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:08 AM
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And? I'm disproving your point that feminism hasn't done anything for women. That feminism also has benefits for men doesn't mean that it hasn't benefitted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:16 PM
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I really like being able to vote, though. I like my birth control too. I don't see how men being able to have more sex or any of these things is such a terrible blow for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:14 PM
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I doubt there's a single thing that feminists have achieved for women. The right to vote? Access to birth control / contraception and abortion? Maternity leave rights? The MeToo movement? These things are all pretty good imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:14 AM
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Porn sex is designed to look good to viewers, but it's more like a sport than actual, enjoyable sex. It's physically taxing, exhausting and objectifying, because everything is about how good you look constantly. It doesn't make you feel intimately connected to your partner the way sex should. It's a performance, and I don't think men should expect real sex to emulate porn. Tbh I think expectations from porn can ruin relationships. You can still have hot, enthusiastic sex. It just doesn't look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:03 AM
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Most of the pics look very heavily edited, making it hard to tell what she actually looks like.. Hard to judge based on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:12 AM
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Do you have any appreciation for how maddening it is to hear this kind of argument again and again, whilst simultaneously hearing women whinging when men DONT pay attention to them? Lmfao, no I don't! We don't want to be fucking catcalled. We appreciate nice attention, sure, but being shouted at from across the street or from a passing car? Whistled at? "Nice tits!"? No, and I'm not the least bit sorry our dislike of it upsets you. Made more insane when the woman complaining about it seems to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:33 PM
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Isn't this kind of assuming that every road-builder, house-builder, food-grower, electrician, etc, is male and also straight? Are gay men also "bad deals" if they don't put out for men who build stuff, or whatever? Or is it just women's fault? Wait, what about lesbians? This reminds me... the last boiler repair person I had over turned out to be a woman. Who actually looked a lot like Emilia Clarke.. An Emilia Clarke look-a-like fixed my damn boiler. EDIT - Wait, even if men don't get pussy from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:49 PM
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"Cat calling" is now called sexual harassment, while it used to be taken as a compliment. Doesn't this disrespect those who were - in fact - harassed? It is harassment. (while of course they are wearing shorts trough which one can see what they had for breakfast). Oh for god's sake. You had to being up what the woman is wearing while getting perved over while having a door opened for her didn't you? Convenient that you brought this up, really, being as this is exactly the kind of crap we're tire…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:38 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:52 PM
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Ah okay. Thanks! It's just a terms I've seen around here lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:52 PM
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What does "natty" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:48 PM
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"Predator eyes" Prominent jawline Muscular builds Perfect teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:21 PM
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There's a huge difference between treating a woman as a sexual human being, and sexually objectifying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:14 PM
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Oh, lol.. I thought she was just a random woman wanting to work on her appearance. Still, the response to her post (if we're thinking of the same person) seemed extremely OTT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:06 AM
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You nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:09 AM
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This "but love conquers all!" mentality is plain naive honestly. Sexual compatability absolutely exists. You can be in/compatible with someone in terms of sex drive and how often you want to have sex. You can be in/compatible with someone in terms of personal fetishes and kinks. You can be in/compatible with someone in terms of even just how well you physically interact and synchronize together. You can love someone dearly and be completely sexually incompatible with them and there can be no fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:46 AM
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Sex is an expression of love and I'd want to share it with the person I love. I'd struggle being celebate for someone who can actually have sex with me. Also, ensuring you're even sexually compatible in the first place is absolutely mandatory before comitting to another person. You can't do that if you're not having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:38 AM
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Fascination.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:58 AM
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I remember when they started banning women for not being "ugly enough". A pretty woman had posted a selfie and stuff kicked off. I feel like that sub is just exacerbating the already bad mental health of its members. There's a very fine line between giving beauty advice, and reinforcing unrealistic beauty ideals that other people aren't even measuring you against. I imagine many of the women there have BDD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:47 AM
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Precisely this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:33 AM
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As a guy I can't disagree more. I mean, you literally can't disagree, because your experiences with women do not somehow negate women's experiences with men, and vice versa. Women who have experienced trauma from men don't speak for you, and we don't speak for your traumas from women either. Many men are still dangerous, despite dangerous women being put on a pedestal. I am saying women are not any LESS dangerous especially in these modern times. It's not a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:32 AM
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It seems kinda like the reasons people would try to shame men into marriage was for perhaps religious or reason to do with very ingrained, traditional cultural values. Whereas now, it's more MGTOW getting shamed for being extremely vocally misogynistic online. At this point, they can call themselves whatever they want, things have changed significantly since "bachelor tax" was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:49 AM
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Perfect answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:15 PM
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Resting bitchy face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:18 PM
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Do you take it as a red flag that he doesn't want to do it given how easy it is to do and accurate Assuming you don't need his permission to do it. do you go behind his back and do it anyway? Yes to both. Would you want to do the test at all? Of course. I don't know why any woman wouldn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:56 PM
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I don't think FDS speak for many women in the average population. It's wild over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:54 PM
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If you're under 6ft, you're only a man who can be settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:45 PM
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Q4All: In your view, is jealousy a sign of love? Why / why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:37 PM
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What's wrong with that, though? Is it wrong to want to be with someone you find physically attractive? Having a "type" doesn't automatically mean the standards are "he has to be 6ft, ripped, look like x celebrity" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:59 PM
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My friends are mostly over 35, some with children. None of them are concerned with "racking up 30 bodies in a week". But if it were all just about that, then it would make sense to worry about not being extremely physically attractive enough to warrant people throwing themselves at them for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:52 PM
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When two people get together and form a serious relationship, and then one person breaks it off, typically, the other person is deeply mourning the love that was lost, not all the other people they could have fucked while in the relationship. If foregoing sexual novelty is a huge sacrifice that it so deeply pains you to make, and if meaningless sex means more to you than a loving relationship, then you probably aren't cut out for a relationship. Or monogamy. EDIT - It's amusing me thinking of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:37 PM
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How did we get to this as a species?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:24 PM
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This is just mindblowingly nonsensical. How is casual sex "true love"? If you literally just want cunt from a woman, then why would you even be concerned that she might not want more from you than your dick? And how is that exchange a signifer of "true" attraction to a person? Because only genitalia gets involved? Tf? A relationship is nothing more than a bargain in which the girl gives up the least amount of sex she considers fair in the transaction to extract financial and emotional resources …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:17 PM
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As a woman it makes no sense to me. These have simply never been my priorities or the way I function. It literally just looks like RP men are trying to be the dream men of FDS women. At the same time as hating FDS women. Really bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:56 PM
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Well, very obviously, extremely physically attractive, extremely financially successful people have life on easy mode. But how is life as black and white as "you're either Chad, or you're doomed"? I know many men, most of them average, and most of them in relationships or married with families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:12 PM
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I'm sure they do sadly. It's pretty crazy, I can well imagine naive young men reading FDS and becoming red-pilled, and young women reading RP and becoming... whatever the fuck FDSers call themselves. On that note, what do FDSers call themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:07 PM
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Are you sure you don't just read too much FDS and take stupid internet memes too seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:54 PM
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Even when it's about relationships and marriage, they'll try to tell men that women are incapable of loving a man who isn't Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:46 PM
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Why do so many men here relentlessly go on that men have to be 6/6/6, (six foot, six inches, six figure), or need to have a strong jawline, must be muscular, etc, etc, when the average couple (two people in love, living together, having sex, marrying each other) look average? I don't understand why so many men are aggressively trying to convince each other they have to be supermodels or else they're fucked. Real life very obviously does not work like this, so why is this a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:41 PM
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So what, in your view, do Japanese women need to do to "learn some honor"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:40 AM
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I'd want a man who was so head over heels in love with me that he didn't question these kinds of things about me. For real... I've never fallen in love with a man and thought, "Well, his looks are average but his personality is amazing", or "His personality is average but his looks are amazing." I'm either smitten with the entire man or I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:21 PM
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But how are you supposed to gauge your own level of attractiveness as a woman? By relentlessly scrutinizing and comparing our appearance with every woman we pass, meet, or see with our eyes, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:47 PM
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I've never done that, no. I guess it just seems concerning that you've had so much sex with so many different women, but struggle remembering you're in a relationship with someone? Like seriously how "nice" really does that make you? Perhaps you're physically attractive and have a charming character, but I honestly don't see any niceness about treating women like this. It'd be an absolutely huge red flag. Tbh, I'd wonder if you were a sex addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:38 AM
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Okay you have to be trolling. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:35 AM
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You're a nice guy who forgot he was in a relationship? Lol sorry I don't even know what to make of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:32 AM
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How many of the 40 - 50 have been girlfriends / LTRs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:27 AM
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There is also an addiction to actual sex. Howcome that one is never discussed? I think we hear of porn addiction more because it's basically a new issue, with more and more people researching it's effects these days. It's also much easier and much more common to gaslight women into tolerating porn addiction than trying to gaslight women into tolerating sex addiction. "I just have sex with other women, honey it's normal, you're just being insecure. Get therapy" is much less common, and much harde…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:06 AM
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How is it not a bad thing? Addiction is a universally negative thing. You are not even interested in those men anyway and porn is keeping them out of your way so what's the problem? I don't think it's as simple as that tbh. Men who are prone to addictive behaviors can actually be very desirable, or even already in relationships, but use porn more compulsively until it slowly becomes an actual addiction. I don't think it's a case of "These man are bad. Women don't want these porn addicted men. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:58 AM
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No woman can ever really be "attractive enough" to compete with porn, though. Men have access to endless varieties of women of different kinds of beauty at their disposal online. You can get tired of one kind of beauty and find endless others to enjoy. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think I recall reading that that's the reason studies say that lots of porn usage can make men feel less attracted to their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:04 PM
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You absolutely nailed it. I wholeheartedly agree with you. I can acknowledge that on a strictly superficial level, he's an extremely physically attractive man, but I'm not the least bit attracted to him for exactly the reasons you stated. The vibe of a person is extremely important. There's a huge difference between "that's an attractive person", and "I'm attracted to this person".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:21 PM
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It's interesting when they do this: "No, it's the other way around. The awful personality and hatred of women I developed came AFTER they rejected me and treated me like shit. I was a pure and lovely gentleman before the nasty women changed me." Okay, it's still: Definitely going to kill your chances of finding love and sex. Your responsibility to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:50 PM
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You can be the coolest, most normal, most middle class gentleman in town, but gushing about the virtues of masturbating to VR porn while talking about "The Handy" kills it stone dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:26 PM
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I hope you find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:18 PM
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Who cares if you're "low value" if you have someone who loves you? There are short men on the planet who are loved by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:16 PM
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The title is worded so badly. "This thing makes sex so satisfying, men might give up on sex for it." It makes no sense. Sex requires two people. They should say VR porn makes masturbation so satisfying. A guy jerking it to VR porn is still him just masturbating on his own. It's like even they are confused between the difference between virtual reality and actual reality, lol. Onto the actual subject: Porn is already a desirable replacement for sex to many men. VR porn will escalate all of the is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:27 AM
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I'm curious - how would your wife feel if she read this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:53 AM
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If you can get a person much more attractive than yourself, cool! If you can't get a person much more attractive than yourself, you might have to face up to the possibility that you're not one of those people who can. Just because there are men out there with girlfriends much more attractive than they are, doesn't translate to meaning that every single average looking man can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:49 AM
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You chased after Chad hard and gave him enthusiastic hot sex Lmfao. No I did not! I chased lonely "nice guy" incels when I was 16, 19 and 22. This post makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:40 AM
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That's incredibly kind and thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:38 AM
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How many times have you seen guys on forums with a random post with some title like "Can't get a girlfriend. Am I ugly?" Then you look at the pics and there are like 4 photos of him, showing his body at every angle, and a selfie of him with a 100-mile stare - proper mugshot style, his social ineptitude screaming from every pixel - and you're like... my dude your looks aren't the problem? They never believe you if you tell them that physically they're fine, but they give off bad vibes. Unless you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:37 PM
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Men in PPD debates have assumed many wild things about what I must look like based on my views alone. They've all been laughably wrong. Apparently to these guys, it's still fun insult a woman for her physical appearance, it doesn't matter if you don't have a clue what she even looks like, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:25 PM
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I completely agree. I also want to make the point that many incels seem to be undiagnosed autistics. Many incels exhibit extremely strong autistic traits. Being able to read people, particiapte in small talk, pick up on body language and subtle cues, show empathy, regulate emotion, etc are all things autistic people (autistic men in particlar) can struggle with immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:58 AM
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Perfect answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:31 AM
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Sounds perfectly normal to me tbh. It just sounds like he just grew and learned more about himself through his past, which is fine with me. I don't feel any great need to start pegging him anyway, so it doesn't feel exactly like I'm missing out, lol. Besides, I know my own bf has done kinky stuff with beautiful exes that he isn't doing with me, and I'm still hoping we'll marry one day, so there's my answer I guess. It doesn't bother me. I myself have had enough partners to know that sex is diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:30 AM
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He suddenly tells you about his 20s year old attractive ex and how he went down on her and made her orgasm multiple times. Lol why is he telling me this? It seems like a weird af thing to say to your partner. I'd be much more bothered about the fact he needed to tell me this, than about the oral sex thing itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:23 AM
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It's the first time I've encountered this belief tbh. After 18 months of lockdown and restrictions, it seems fairly obvious that for many, being isolated is terrible for our health. Also I guess try saying "we don't need people" to lonely people and incels. People need human contact. Some more or less than others, but all the evidence would very much suggest we evolved as social creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:45 AM
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And the "We're a social species" theory was debunked ages ago already. 😉 By whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:21 AM
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There's a difference between "spinning plates" (dating multiple people at the same time), and having female friends. Male or female, nobody can control whether or not their partner might potentially be interested in another person they know should the relationship end. But you can control whether or not you choose to date numerous people at the same time. Reducing people to crockery is a form of dehumanization which makes it much easier to justify two-timing them. Unless you're choosing to hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:30 AM
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