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Ok fair call I didn’t know you’re European. It is a big thing in Anglo countries (U.S., Australia, UK, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:22 PM
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Most men don’t but they’re more likely to match on your like if they see you’re 6 feet tall or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:09 PM
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I have screenshots of it on my phone. If you’ve never seen Hinge prompts or Tinder/Bumble bios talking about men’s heights you were probably on the app for only 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:09 PM
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Have you ever been on a dating app and read the prompts women put on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:21 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. Can’t ever win with either strategy because they’re both wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:06 PM
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It’s not wrong though. For every woman who’s aware of that, there’s ten more that it actually works on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:58 PM
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Crickets from the women here as to why a man would suddenly get more matches when he shows signs of wealth in his pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:46 PM
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It means that basically any women can find a guy who wants to be with them. There are 600 lb. women who have boyfriends who love them and feed them. There’s literally a guy for every and any type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:16 PM
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This is how like more than 50% of my dating situations have gone. Women see kindness as like blood in the water. They’ll complain about a-hole guys but then be a-holes to normal guys who treat them with respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:13 PM
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Do you not feel some revelation that your personality didn’t matter at all when you started attracting people after having a glow-up? The Red Pill can be toxic but at least it has actionable theses and tools people can use to improve themselves. Also another thing is that aesthetics and looksmaxxing is accepted as baseline when that wasn’t the case 15 years ago. If you openly talked about mewing and looksmaxxing 15 years you would’ve been seen as a weirdo, now Gen Z is fully red-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:58 PM
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Why would a younger woman concerned with having children choose an older man? Because that’s been the norm for most of human history. I’ve also tried dating older women, even they want older men. As much as women here deny it, it’s the preference of the average heterosexual woman. Does this mean literally all women want to date men who are 10+ years older than them? No, but you’re also more likely to see that than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:43 PM
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The suit, mustache and hairstyle are doing heavy lifting here to make him look older. But generally yes I agree men back then just looked older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:39 PM
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I think it’s more the “Women are wonderful” effect and most men aren’t cave troll Neanderthals like what people online want to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:40 AM
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Because the reality that they get by in life on the graciousness of men is too upsetting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:37 AM
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They hate porn except when they want to try to make some money from it. And then when they retire they go back to hating porn and thinking it’s destructive/disgusting/misogynist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:36 AM
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Lol you just busted him. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:25 AM
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Only like 10% of the world’s population have blue eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:22 AM
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It’s just the Blue Pillers here being delusional as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:14 AM
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No, no, let’s see how this shakes out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:05 PM
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I briefly dated a female narcissist once and this sounds very familiar. I’ve also probably met men like this but I don’t typically associate with men who act that way, and it’s much easier to spot in men usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:16 PM
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This. At least there’s no delusion with the Green Card wife about what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:01 PM
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But was she delusional since she got what she wanted? Statistically speaking, yes. Run that scenario 99 more times randomized and she would predominantly still be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:15 PM
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They wouldn’t bother with marrying an average-looking guy unless it was some kind of keeping up appearances thing for their parents or like an arranged marriage that they had no say in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:01 PM
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I predict that in the best case scenario they’d share them and in the worst they’d be fighting and competing to secure one. That basically already reflects existing Pareto distributions in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:58 PM
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That is exactly what would happen, they’d just all choose the same small group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:56 PM
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The exception to this that I’m aware of is that he’s a Chad physically and she knows she’s not his looksmatch. Just something I’ve observed with a relative. And it didn’t last, she ended up settling for a guy who was the same height as her. My prediction in the scenario where all women out-earn all the men is that they end up becoming a harem for the top 5-10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:55 PM
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Do you really think women would not still get with men simply because they fell in love? I believe this proportion of women would be at or less than 10%. For women under 30 it would be like 1% to 5%. Do you really think that if you lose your income you automatically lose your wife? Maybe not if the guy has been married for 20+ years and his wife is his high school sweetheart but apart from that, yes I believe for the vast majority of straight men and women, the moment he loses his income he’s de…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:52 PM
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Just because they were ugly to you doesn’t mean that they were objectively ugly. Also women tend to twist things to match their perception of reality. Like “Oh my friend’s bf cheated on her, obviously he was ugly”. You see how nonsensical that is? They were so ugly they had girlfriends and also had side pieces. I actually can’t even think of any guy I know who’s ever had that kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:47 PM
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Probably women on TokTik.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:39 PM
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Sheldon’s biggest strengths were that he was legitimately a genius and he didn’t care about what other people thought of him. He would honestly fall outside of all this analysis because he himself never saw a relationship as a goal he wanted to achieve. He just accidentally met his SO because his friends set up him up on a blind online date and he felt socially compelled to attend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:28 PM
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That’s not true. I want a girlfriend but most women are crazy and have weird emotional problems and have avoidant attachment. It’s hard to find women nowadays who are actually looking for a relationship and not playing weird games and looking for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:08 AM
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Of the 4 original main characters, Sheldon was the closest to being the Chad among them, to other nerd women. He didn’t have to change himself or do anything different to attract them. Leonard never got anywhere with women until he was already in a relationship and then other women would want him, and that only happened more as he got older. That was a recurring plot point across the entire series.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:35 AM
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He was sweet and sensitive, you just don’t get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:28 AM
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Sounds like that song Cola by Lana Del Rey lol. That seems fine to me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:27 AM
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…So she’s been with a lot of male partners who only gave her oral and never had PIV sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:27 PM
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Would bet my house it’s because the guy was either >6 feet tall and/or had a good face. The West Elm Caleb type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:17 PM
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I’ve straight up dated women who were with men who stole money from them, leeched off them, and cheated on them, and was still rejected by them. I’ve also dated women who couldn’t drive, were between jobs/unemployed, and/or were living with their parents or roommates. A lot of those dates also didn’t lead to anything further. There’s something to the idea that women are just attracted to men with Dark Triad traits. And are probably more lenient to men with physical features they find attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:13 PM
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Sheldon was basically a nerd Chad though, so he’s a bad example. He had at least two intelligent women repeatedly throwing themselves at him during the series, and he won the Nobel Prize in Physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:05 PM
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It wouldn’t be sexist or misandrist for you to want a robot butler either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:02 PM
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Can you explain this phenomenon The thinking goes: Women who have been with a lot of men will have less qualms about cheating on you with another man because that barrier for them is much lower. Especially if their range of experiences is broader than yours and you have no idea how you truly compare to other men they’ve been with. And the more ex-FWBs and ex-partners they have in the picture that multiplies the chances they’ll be unfaithful to you. And yes that probably applies to promiscuous me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:55 PM
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It just makes me laugh. Women are the only ones who care about “Euro-centric beauty standards” from my life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:42 AM
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A good looking introverted guy is viewed as mysterious that women want to know more about. I remember when the Twilight books and movies were hot, this was definitely a demonstration of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:26 PM
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That would be the equivalence to short, fat ass girl. Men would be attracted to her, and also to Taylor Swift. Because unlike women, most men are attracted to most members of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:07 PM
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You have a complete misunderstanding of beauty standards if you think women aren’t also subject to Eurocentric beauty standards. Men have very varied attractions. Think about how men get accused of fetishizing women who aren’t white, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:06 PM
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I didn’t say anything about myself being infallible. I just think it’s a positive thing to see a woman unequivocally say that cheating isn’t acceptable conduct for either gender and not think that women have some special exemption that should allow them to cheat or lie to their partners about the true paternity of their kids. Because I’ve definitely seen that on this sub and on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:31 PM
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You’re a good person. Don’t ever change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:44 AM
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Fucking exactly lol. Women were the ones claiming that men who can’t get into a relationship have bad vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:06 AM
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You can tell from how they act, the company they keep, and their lifestyle. It’s really not that hard. Like my sister got with a guy with no job who was living on bennies at home with his mom. When we later found out I was confused why she was working to support a guy who wouldn’t get off his ass. Women have no logic in their decision-making and will blame other people for questioning their dumb choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:05 AM
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Women think most men are terrible though. That whole thing of preferring to choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:51 PM
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On the contrary I feel like OLD just removes the veil and exposes people’s (especially women’s) actual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:50 PM
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Women genuinely think men should prefer to be the guy who has to date a woman for six months before making love to her over the guy who bangs her an hour after meeting her. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:05 AM
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This is a big one that women frequently fail to understand. No guy is going to care if you are a business owner or if you’re a lawyer, if your personality is also garbage. It’d be nice, but men don’t actually look for that in their criteria. Especially if other criteria haven’t been met.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:02 AM
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Would you rather date a man who takes every girl he dated for at least a month on a trip to Paris, or do you want to date a man who you know took women he knew for a month to Paris but wants to make you wait at least a year (if at all) and then he’ll see how he feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:53 PM
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But... If I did come to have this kind of information and I found out that a girlfriend did all kinds of things to please a former boyfriend/lover it would affect me. How could it not? … But people also verge into serious gaslighting territory on this when they just flat out say it doesn't matter. Anybody would have a reaction to this (mostly hypothetical) situation if this came up. Not necessarily about sex but about something that, to them, is a meaningful way for a partner to express to them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:48 PM
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So men should also be doxed as a means of accountability? …They already were being doxed on Tea. That Tea got spilled on the women users who downloaded the app and were propping it up is accountability and just desserts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:54 PM
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The bar is in hell when it comes to our expectations for tall, conventionally attractive white men Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:50 AM
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Bingo lol. Interesting how no-one has replied to you to say that they disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:29 PM
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A straight person not wanting to date a bisexual person is perfectly reasonable. That’s basically latent homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:28 PM
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Don’t lesbians have higher rates of DV?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:09 PM
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The average or below average looking woman don’t think they can get or deserve a man wealthy man. They absolutely do believe that, from my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:44 PM
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*similar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:19 AM
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This. I feel like the average self-aware man is much more aware of his own place in the attractiveness scale than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:35 PM
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Bingo-bango.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:11 PM
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Yeah and OP saying that she’s 6’1” means that more than 85% of men are shorter than her so she can’t afford to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:05 AM
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That’s not the story that dating apps tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:12 PM
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Because she’s a girl lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:38 PM
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Even Harley Quinn couldn’t love the joker entirely in the new movie. Because the Joaquin Phoenix Joker is like the Urban Dictionary definition of a basement incel, he even literally lived with his mom as a grown man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:02 AM
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They would never do that because it would expose half of them as having horrible skin. Most men don’t take great care of their face but most women often don’t look that great without their makeup and favorable lighting either. It creates the idea of a “looks gap” between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:00 AM
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What height are you and did you find your partner’s height off-putting when you first met him. i.e. Did he win you over in spite of being shorter than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:57 AM
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Being bald isn’t a deal-breaker if you’re white or black and over 30. From what I’ve seen women are actually ok with bald and overweight if you can carry it off as looking powerful. Think Hank or Walter in Breaking Bad. Wish I had that advantage. If you’re Asian you’re fucked. You’re either the Dalai Lama or the creepy Asian guy in Dexter. Hoping that I don’t lose my hair when I’m older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:55 AM
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I think I shoot comfortably within my league but from my experience it’s dumpier women who seem more picky and discriminating about men’s body types and attractiveness. I’m thin as a rail btw. Makes me wonder if chubbier women are insecure about dating thin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:58 AM
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It’s looks-based. They like guys who look like the bad boy. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11565045/amp/Ashley-Gabbie-allegedly-met-Cranebrook-murder-victim-Dannielle-Finlay-Jones-Bumble-dating-app.html This is another good example where the dude was living with his mom but had no trouble getting a date because he fit the attractive bad boy archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:52 AM
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I wish I could mind-read so I could see the logic of this. It just baffles me. I probably have red flags of my own but it baffles me that some men are able to get away with murder and other men get nothing at all. I’ve gone on dates with at least 2 women who said their fiancé cheated and also took the wedding/house deposit they had saved together. I think at least one of them immediately moved on to being in a relationship with the girl he cheated with. The only way to square it away is that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:55 AM
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Women care a lot about personality and identity. A fat guy who will be a good provider and protect his family is attractive to woman. Bullshit lol. That was true in 1955 and probably true up to 2005 but that’s not the case anymore unless they met in high school and he’s the only man she’s ever been with, or she’s just as overweight as he is. I don’t know any Peter and Lois/Homer and Marge couples. If they are out there it’s because he’s probably rich or the CEO of his own business, not because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:49 AM
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women tend to have dating struggles tied to vetting and wasting their time on bad partners, not necessarily due to high standards. They have high standards for the wrong things imo. None of my male friends who are/were single are the kinds of guys who would do the things I hear women complain about but you ask women and that’s all they experience. But most of my friends also have white-collar office/computer jobs and have nerdy interests. At some point you have to ask what kinds of guys are they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:45 AM
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Do you think prime Selena Gomez's face is ugly? She’s definitely not ugly, but not notable either. If she was a nobody walking down the street I’m not sure I would do a double-take of her. She seems like she has a nice personality though. When she was with Justin Bieber I saw him as the one who was out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:33 AM
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us females find her gorgeous Women will call all other woman gorgeous because they rate all women as above all men. They’ll call Lizzo and Tess Holliday “gorgeous”. It’s a meaningless word coming from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:31 AM
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Personally I never felt shame while single I used to get asked by family all the time if I was seeing someone and if I was, when would they get to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:08 AM
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Anything low-level behind a computer. But forget about being in a corporate leadership position.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:52 AM
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I still get straight dudes somehow "matched" with me even if he didn't come up in my feed at all. That’s the app’s fault. I’ve been shown gay men, non-binary people, trans women and queer-identifying women even though I only selected Women to be shown and put that I’m straight. If you’re getting likes from men as a lesbian woman it might be because the app is showing you to men and the men think you’re bi. Or you ticked the wrong box on what you identify as.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:41 AM
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Was that 15 years ago? The standards are different today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:35 AM
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I was talking with a married girl on Hinge last week and probably could have had something casual but her TikTok revealed she had a kid and then I got the ick. Everything about dating is confusing. The single women in their 20s don’t want to date men their own age, I get more consistent attention and conversations from women who are 8-10 years older. The nerdy women who have nerdy interests don’t want to date nerdy men, and married women want to fuck men who aren’t their husbands. Whenever someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:44 PM
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Men settling/dating down is just as bad imo. It’s bad but it makes me laugh and makes me feel better. I was talking to a girl on Hinge last week who said she was in an open marriage and I considered suggesting a meet-up but then I looked up her TikTok and saw she also had a kid which gave me the ick. Her partner wasn’t bad looking but he was out of shape. I don’t get how people in a marriage with a kid could be ok with that. I was probably messaging her while her husband and kid were in the room…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:37 PM
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It means she doesn’t like you so you might as well go for broke with her, and also start looking for other girls to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:32 PM
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She’ll hit OP up when she wants some Uber Eats after working up an appetite having her back blown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:31 PM
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Men are much more forgiving when it comes to women’s looks. OkCupid’s data analysis confirms it, and the most brutal comments I’ve ever heard about any woman’s looks has always been from another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:30 PM
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or my uncle taking on debt to marry his daughter I read this and nearly choked on my drink, I assume you mean he’s taking out a loan to pay for her wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:28 PM
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I'm not with my partner just because of his looks. His looks are so appealing to me because of who he is as a person. This is post-hoc rationalization. If he was ugly or disfigured you wouldn’t be with him and you wouldn’t be saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:53 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fmjw07/i_36m_had_one_of_the_most_bizarre_and_hurtful/ OP probably forgot to take a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:33 AM
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My friend lost her attraction to him because he gained so much weight the only way they could fuck was doggy style and he had to lift his stomach up and put it on her back to be able to get it in. I like that you knowing this for a fact means she shared this with you lol. Tbh if he was a bully boy outside of fatherhood, that doesn’t make him a good guy. Serves him right to get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:54 AM
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He must have been really good-looking for you to overlook that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:03 AM
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I have friends who are middle-aged women and none of them ever say they find balding men attractive. Even the one that has a balding boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:56 AM
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you seem insanely successful, so it’s kind of wild that anyone could even think of you as a ‘loser.’ I know guys who are objectively successful who would never get the time of day from a girl because they’re average, glasses-wearing, polo shirt-wearing $20 haircut kind of guys. They’re successful but they don’t walk around looking like Bruce Wayne.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:49 AM
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Their culture is terrible so I feel like that plays a huge part it in. Life in general over there is not worth much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:32 AM
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I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:29 AM
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inb4 “the bar for men is on the floor!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:51 PM
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It’s 2024 and women think and act differently now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:24 PM
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No one is attracted to "most people". I reckon it’s true that most men are attracted to at least 50% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:08 PM
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Simps on IG and SnapChat. I just remember because it shocked me how openly and casually she said that. I knew that guys simp on social media for women but I didn’t think it was that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:38 AM
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Yeah my grandma was trad and she would often just let slip that if my grandpa stopped having enough money for her liking/working for too long, she’d divorce him lol. Your grandma had a backbone and knew what was up. Props to her. My sister supported her abusive boyfriend and his abusive mother and he was on benefits and didn’t have a job. I never met him so he must’ve been pretty good-looking because he sounded completely worthless otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:35 AM
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They probably were because they ruined things for everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:31 AM
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I would trade my life for Al Bundy’s any day of the week. Dude sold women’s shoes at the mall but had a nice suburban house and a hot wife who always wanted sex with him, he had it made.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:31 AM
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If those men were so happy bitch wife humor wouldn't have caught on like it did among older generations Fwiw, I’ve never known any people from that generation who made those jokes. But then again most of those couples were happy and stayed together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:30 AM
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A girl I work with said when she’s out she puts the restaurant’s menu on IG and SnapChat and tells guys to buy her food using the QR codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:41 PM
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I agree it's likely always been like this. It was harder to do before. There was lack of information and barriers to doing it pre-2000s and now they’re all gone. The market didn’t have perfect information. Now it has almost perfect information and we see people’s true preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:51 AM
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Most women aren’t like that. They do, it’s just their tolerance threshold is a lot lower for the husband than it is for a guy they’re actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:28 AM
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Actually most people on relationship subreddits blame the man and say it’s his fault or call him a porn/sex addict if the relationship has a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:26 AM
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Only for gold-diggers and women in foreign countries. Most Western women don’t care unless you’re also good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:27 PM
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Wish I was of age back then. Do you feel like the physical and financial standards for men are way out of whack compared to what they were back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:10 AM
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You honestly must be pretty good-looking for some of them to message or approach you first. And make you food on a first or second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:09 AM
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No woman CEO has ever stooped to marry a pauper. Or, if she did, it would only be because she’s unattractive and he looks like a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:06 PM
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Exactly. If you’re a Chad then not having a job or living with your parents / 5 room-mates or constantly borrowing money from your gf and cheating on her is not seen as a deal-breaker the way it is for a Normie. I’ve dated women who were Alpha-widowed/been with Chad. It’s just eye-opening when you hear the behavior and the things they put up with from the previous guy, because they were attracted to him so they were willing to put up with it. They’ll act like they’re performing charity for going…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:19 PM
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Married with Children became less culturally relevant because of the decline of the American nuclear family unit and because Seinfeld had superior writing. And also because political incorrectness became less acceptable in family-oriented sitcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:05 PM
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She said it’s rare that a genuinely single guy ever approaches her They get rejected and probably try less/stop approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:38 PM
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What's there to say? That’s it’s the truth of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:14 AM
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And then blame the men and say all men are evil and awful lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:51 PM
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Men are able to love, women aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:28 PM
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How is that mathematically possible? Are many women dating men a decade older than them? Yes, among other things. That’s what the numbers suggest. I’ve dated women who were younger than me, women who were bisexual and one woman who said she’d been in a non-monogamous relationships before. To me this would imply women have many more relationship options than men. I would never date a man because I’m not bi and women I’m attracted to can be taken off the market by guys who are 10, 20 years older t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:27 PM
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Then why couldn't those men try dating one of the 4 women that are left alone? Why all 5 of them have to date this one woman since there is roughly equal number of men and women Women have more options and are more likely to be bisexual, poly/ENM, in a FWB, and/or dating older guys. I’ve dated women who were bi, ENM, had had a FWB in the past, and/or had either dated an older guy or moved on to an older guy after me. A guy is not just competing against other guys like him, but also against bi wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:07 AM
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It’s women who are doing it and encouraging it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:58 AM
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🤷‍♂️ Leonardo DiCaprio is overweight and gets women even though there’s better-looking and younger men available. Because he’s famous and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:17 PM
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If you’re not rich or a celebrity you need to be tall and handsome. And if you’re tall and handsome then you don’t need to be rich or have high social status. It’s just the average guy is obviously not going to be a millionaire or famous so they need to be above-average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:23 PM
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Many rappers are ugly yet you still see women going crazy for them. They have money, fame, and social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:54 AM
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On average, men get married. Is that based on current data?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:50 AM
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Can you put a comment reply saying what you look like and how you make yourself attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:44 PM
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What does his face look like, and what kind of clothes does he wear. Is he +6 feet tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:16 AM
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Then they blame the bottom 90% of men and say all men are trash because they got pumped and dumped by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:51 AM
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Because women will get attention and approaches wherever they go. Men have to struggle for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:50 AM
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It’s amazing to me that women will complain it’s “overwhelming” yet they could choose to swipe less and only talk to 1-2 guys, but instead they do the exact opposite. I honestly believe dating apps should be redesigned to allow women to only have 2-3 matches at a time and then I’d be interested to see if it increases engagement and success of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:49 AM
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This as well. Age isn’t a number when it comes to fertility. There’s a point where it becomes biological reality. Hugh Jackman and his wife adopted their children because the fertility treatments for his wife’s pregnancies weren’t working and she kept miscarrying. They’re also millionaire Hollywood celebrities. They had the resources to pursue this, and they couldn’t do it. Maybe the technology’s better now but you’re fighting against biology to make the pregnancy viable. I just don’t understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:38 AM
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I just looked it up and Dafoe’s first wife was 11 years older than him, which is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:34 AM
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Maybe it’s the negativity they project and verbalize. Although from my own personal experience that negativity and bitterness is mainly from older white women. The most Red Pill comments I’ve ever heard IRL came from older (40+ and 50s) single white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:20 AM
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Most women under 30 are pretty influencable though. They’re obsessed with Instagram and TikTok, and influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:52 AM
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Sure. I’d also add just because a man asks you out doesn’t mean he thinks he’s exactly as attractive as you are. But maybe he thinks taken as a whole person he has a shot. That’s not delusional and is actually representative of Blue Pill ideas of how dating works. Although yeah I don’t think fat men should be picky. There’s no reason to be overweight with all the information and resources we have now, unless the person has a severe hormonal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:47 AM
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I've heard of something in evo-pysch that is well verified called "sexual over-perception", where males over-perceive their sexual attractiveness to the opposite sex. I mean they can say that but I believe most modern men who have been single in the last 5 years have a pretty accurate idea of their attractiveness to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:49 PM
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Does he have an Instagram? I genuinely want to see his profile now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:36 PM
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That’s probably true actually. I’ve had a lot of time wasted by women who were just looking for validation or their idea of dating was men making every single move or they were just on there out of boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah that’s what I meant. Because the comment I was responding to said that there are unattractive men with girlfriends/partners/wives. And that’s true. But I would bet the women they’re with, didn’t have other options that were better. Or evidently they would do better than the guy they ended up with. And I put forward my theories/reasons for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:17 PM
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Or especially if the gender imbalance for young men to young women is off in the area she’s in. Or if she doesn’t have a car and is in a smaller town.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:47 PM
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If she went to high school or grew up in an area/town where the options for men weren't all that great. Especially if it’s not close to an urban metropolitan area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:46 PM
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Either because those women had no options, or they both met when they were 18, or the couple is 35+ years old and met before modern social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:12 AM
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This is probably the best analog. Or Michael Douglas’s character in Falling Down. Except he’s not supposed to be a good guy. Although neither is the Narrator in Fight Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:43 AM
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Did Alan even show any desire or interest toward Barbie? It teaches young girls that they can have a platonic relationship with the shy nerdy boy and it won’t blow up in their face (I.e. she just wants to be friends and he falls in love) It was a mostly women-centered movie anyway. As if it would have some message like that. I say that having liked and enjoyed the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:40 AM
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From my experience though they also get pissed off if you don’t text them enough. No winning either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:25 PM
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This is why conservatives prefer traditional gender roles. I think on a deeper level they think it’s more socially stable and benefits/reinforces the family unit as a whole and to be honest I’m starting to see the wisdom of that. I didn’t grow up in a traditional nuclear family and as an adult I feel nostalgic for that. I don’t think people should be locked together in a shitty marriage but I don’t really have any good argument that single parenthood is a desirable thing for the child or society…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:00 AM
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I like left-wing and leftist women… but I’ve definitely noticed they also tend to prefer more traditionally masculine men. I’m not saying they love mouth-breathing Trumpers but they don’t particularly love liberal men either, unless the guy is a hunk and happens to hold generally liberal views.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:56 AM
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Do you punish the men who came after that bf, for his wrongdoings? That’s been my experience with dating some women that had bad experiences with a previous guy, that they took it out on me or used the date to vent at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:10 AM
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Those men are like less than 10% of the population though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:02 PM
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I’m impressed your bf managed to land a gf when he didn’t even shower. Can I ask what you saw in him that made you attracted to him in the first place? Was he charming and physically attractive to you when you first met him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:50 PM
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Those women are 40+.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:05 AM
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I reckon that you could design an app that overcomes the issues but it would need to treat women, average and below-average men, and above-average men all very differently. I have ideas for that. Like ultimately restrict the choice for women. Let’s say they can only have two or three active chats at a time, and can’t swipe or have another chat initiated. If they want to talk to someone else they have to un-match someone but there’s a cool-down for them where they have to wait maybe 48 hours to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:07 PM
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They can get anything easily tbh. If I was a woman I could probably get a good boyfriend in less than a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:30 PM
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According to /r/dating, /r/dating_advice/ and /r/TwoXChromosomes, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:24 PM
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The fact that she traded up to a 6’ tall CEO and says she never loved her ex-husband or any of her previous boyfriends basically confirms Red Pill Theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:57 PM
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She’s looking for a man to “step-up” and settle down with her to raise a family though. Completely different scenario! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:46 PM
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I feel like he made the wise choice for his own self-preservation. You do not want to get involved with a jilted hormonal pregnant woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:44 PM
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Can I ask, is it because he’s unattractive. Like short, balding, bad face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:41 PM
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I’ve never heard someone blue-pilled actually admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:46 PM
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then how come there are so many guys who don't have anyone? The m/f pop is generally split 50/50. Don't make no sense Women generally date up in age. E.g. An 18 year old woman may be dating a 22 year old man. A 25 year old woman may date men 25 to 35. A 35 year old woman could be dating men up to 45 or even 50. Men generally don’t get to date women who are older than them because most women don’t want that. Some women will knowingly or unknowlingly share a man they’re seeing with other women. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:39 PM
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Are you a guy or a girl? If you’re a guy, yeah you’re doomed because you’re short and scrawny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:32 PM
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I imagine a lot of those men must act like they’re the catch in the relationship which tricks those women into thinking they’re dating up. Women like men with an IDGAF attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:41 AM
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>tfw when 4chan was right all along
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah but is that rebelling gonna do anything. Iran shows no sign of being more liberal on women’s issues and women in society. The U.S. has been starting to go backwards on women’s issues like abortion and contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:46 PM
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The only benefit that guy ever got is that his step-son took his name and made it famous as a billionaire. Apart from that, it probably wasn’t worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:10 PM
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Same for my mother and sister. And also my step-mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:38 AM
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The hollowness and loss of collagen in her face was what I noticed. She’s a rough 38 and she should have been looking for a guy to settle down with and marry 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:05 PM
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I’d bet all the money in my pockets the only type A women who date incompetent men are women who are shooting out of their league looks-wise. Most women don’t put up with crap from average-looking, incompetent men. Unless they actually love them, or they know the man is physically out of their league because he’s the better-looking one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 07:01 PM
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Have you not seen houses where the woman is in complete charge and the man is more or less like a child? Maybe it's not as common as I have seen. 🤷🏾‍♂️ My sister is the only example I can think of that’s close to that but she’s a woman of color who’s always dated white men. She lets them get away with being incompetent in order to get the physical type of man she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:58 PM
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I reckon the race factor is a big thing. Like if you’re not unambiguously white then that’s an automatic negative you need to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:34 PM
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The kind of job where you get hired for being an attractive woman in her early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:14 PM
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I’ve had a few guys offer to pay for a first date dinner, but I’ve suggested splitting instead and was always taken up on that idea (which I’m perfectly fine with, or I wouldn’t have offered). From my experience; about 80% of women let the guy pay, about 10% offer to split and about 10% offered to pay for me. That you’ve had men offer to buy you dinner in a restaurant the first time they met you; says a lot. That’s only happened about once in my entire life. The other couple of times it was a dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:13 PM
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I don't know if some men truly are just slaves to their biology, but I have a feeling that a lot of men get their self-worth from the flat number of women they can sleep with. More like, most women’s standards are so inflated that most men can’t get with a woman who’s supposed to be his match. So a man who’s an 8 can either spend months chasing women who are 8s or he can get with a 5 in one weekend who sees him as the catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:07 AM
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And she just admitted it lol. She said she wanted him to drop everyone else and pursue only her. That’s the average woman’s fantasy basically. Being pursued by a guy who’s desired by many other women who chooses her over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:15 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17g90ig/he_asked_me_for_money/ Another example of how women give hot guys way more leeway than they give average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:58 AM
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If the social welfare state ended today we’d see a pretty different tone from the people saying “Men haven’t adapted.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:07 AM
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I think it’s more like things are reverting to the way they were in feudal and primitive times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:49 AM
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but I still ponder why so many grandma's are here. Because they’re lonely and have nothing better to do. And if they say they’re in a happy and satisfying relationship, they’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:11 PM
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Lois got Flanderized over time into being a completely different psychotic character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:57 PM
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Roseanne is probably the closest example to what you said. Crass, crude, dumb, non-sexualized female character in nuclear family, with a husband that’s probably too good for her. Although John Goodman wasn’t really a trophy husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:55 PM
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Like I think the takeaway you’re meant to have from these shows isn’t that the wives should leave their husbands, it’s that they should stay with them because despite everything deep down they’re good people. I don’t think you could pull that with an unattractive oafish selfish female character. I think Roseanne might be the only show I can think of where they successfully did it with a female character. But that’s the only example I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:48 PM
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Weird how women don’t respond to the comments from the male perspective where men talk about how 30+ year old single moms suddenly flood their DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:25 AM
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23-33 is probably the male prime Maybe for looks but for the overall package I seem to recall that mens’ peak desirability to women is at like age 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:22 PM
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Yeah, like look at Henry Cavill and Jason Momoa, and compare them to when they were 20. They were good-looking but age gave them more distinguished looks. Or George Clooney at 50 vs. 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:20 PM
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all men will start declining at 45.) Eh. There’s like a minority of men that get even hotter up to a certain age. Like compare 55-year-old George Clooney to 30-year-old George Clooney. Provided they didn’t get portly I think a lot of men benefit from having some age and lines on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:19 PM
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She makes weirdos on 4chan seem enlightened and rational by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:59 AM
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I agree with this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:44 AM
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Not true. Men have a much greater range of women they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:22 PM
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Thanks. Yeah just confirms for me if you’re a conventionally attractive white guy, the world’s your oyster. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:42 PM
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Can you link that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:37 PM
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If he was my friend I’d say something, otherwise I’d just silently think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:42 PM
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Most women will upgrade and fuck the hotter guy if they have the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:25 AM
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He said that they’re failing to lock down a guy because they’re going for a guy out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:45 AM
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If he’s older and has some wealth he may have an easier time of it. There are literally less men available to women of older age demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:20 PM
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You almost had me in the first half, ngl. Do you define yourself as RedPill / BlackPill from what you’ve seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah at 5’8” you might still have a 1% chance of finding a woman who’ll date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:32 PM
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But how was she in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:28 PM
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Tbh most actual billionaire men would probably gross you out. Can’t name one who could be considered good looking except maybe Musk 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:44 PM
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Any chance for me? :( Unless you look like Tom Cruise and have a billion dollars, no. There was some statistic I read a while back that said a man being 5’8” in height or shorter was a deal-breaker for like 60% of American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 PM
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Serious question, would you go out with like a 60 year old man because he was a billionaire and made a move on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:32 PM
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What if it was like Bill Gates or Elon Musk hitting on you in a bar or at a conference. Be careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:32 PM
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I was wondering if I was shadow-banned on Hinge because I didn’t reply to someone a month ago and she un-matched me and then instantly got a message match after liking a BBW type girl’s profile prompt lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:31 PM
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Women just have to exist, men have to be far more attractive than the average man and also average to above-average in other non-physical attributes. That’s honestly my experience… I’ve been rejected by unemployed women, women who couldn’t drive, women who only finished high school or dropped out, and women who live with their parents (and more than one of the above). Any one of those would be a complete deal-breaker to 99% of women unless you were an 8/10 man or higher in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:57 PM
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If you’re a nerdy black man you’re doomed. If you’re not, your success is probably highly dependent on location. I’ve heard that black men do well in Atlanta because of favorable population demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:07 AM
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Single women don’t go to those things, they stay in-doors and watch Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:58 AM
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His best bet at getting with a woman was 30+ years ago before the whole dating landscape changed. He should do self-improvement to not be overweight but he’s basically doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:42 AM
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Or he under-estimates the attractiveness of his friends. I think most men would not be good at determining the attractiveness of other men. I can absolutely believe he under-estimates their attractiveness and he over-estimates his.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:33 AM
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He’s also talking about a 60 year old man. Women had different standards 35 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:52 PM
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Dean Norris would be forever single if he was a Millennial or Zoomer. Dude is from the last generation where being portly, short and bald wasn’t a complete deal-breaker if you could bring in an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:51 PM
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Those things aren’t necessarily contradictory. Every other day there’s a thread on /r/relationships or relationship_advice with some girl asking why the guy she’s sleeping with isn’t taking things to the next level to formalize their relationship. There comes a point where most women want exclusive commitment and that’s where the settling for a Beta Bucks who can help pay the mortgage comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:36 PM
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Yeah that guy is a 5 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:08 PM
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Texas is more conservative though. That’s not that surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:07 PM
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They have similar features but even then she’s better looking as a woman and has a better sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:35 PM
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I’m assuming you are white, probably have blue or green eyes, a decently defined jawline (no recessed chin or excess fat around your jaw) and decent hair/no male pattern baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:16 PM
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They should pick a guy who’s interested in their having an orgasm then. I swear women have blindspots to red flags in men that other men can see from a mile off. Although to be fair they’re also probably better at seeing the same in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:14 PM
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Are they over 35/40 and looking to settle down? I’ve never in my life met a woman who wasn’t at least a 5, who was “desperate” for a boyfriend or a relationship. Most women I’ve met who had trouble finding a decent partner or a boyfriend, were for the reasons above.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:11 PM
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Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner? Yeah. Why not. I saw Blade Runner 2049 and Her and can 100% believe at least 10 to 20% of men would be up for an AI companion if they had no other prospects in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:09 PM
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Some girls do this, because they are desperate as the OP said. Whether that means desperate to feel validated or have attention or just to feel included and go on a date. Or desperate for a boyfriend I’ve met women who gave off vibes of wanting me to immediately be their boyfriend but they were usually overweight, alcoholic and had bad skin or a below-average face. May or may not have had a stable job. Tbh I could understand why some of them had shitty boyfriends or kept getting caught in situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:06 PM
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Are you like a 9 outside of being short though? Most women can’t tell the difference between men who are 6 foot and who are 5’10” provided they’re at least 6 inches shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:02 PM
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How would you feel about that? Does her desperation reduce her attractiveness? I would get really suspicious tbh. I’ve had girls pay for drinks/food. But I’ve never met any girl in my life who’s cancelled other plans just to see me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:01 PM
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I don’t like Ben Shapiro but the algorithm also introduced me to Brett Cooper so there was some benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:00 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15l585v/booked_a_500_dollar_flight_to_nyc_to_see_a_girl/ This was painful to read but hopefully this guy gets out of a Blue Pill mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:59 AM
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Yeah exactly. Agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:34 PM
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Harry wasn't a bad boy For a Gryffindor he was a bad boy. and ends up with Ginny too. He killed Voldemort, after that he could get any girl he wanted. And she had eyes for him the first 5 seconds she saw him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:46 AM
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I’m a teacher in an upper middle class area . I always find that the fathers of my students always seem more attractive than the mothers. But this is ONLY if both parents are working… Do you have a personal theory for why this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:36 AM
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How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman? Someone I knew from work - their boyfriend was a lot more conventionally attractive than they were as a woman. She was kind of average-looking (not a girl you would look twice at) but was over-weight. But she had a 10/10 personality so I see why he went with her. And he probably had more leverage in the relationship as a tall conventionally attractive white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:34 AM
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I’ll add clarification that I think certain kinds of ugly guys can get women if they’re seen as dangerous or tough. Or if you’re short - ok if you look like Robert Downey Jr., Tom Cruise, or Tom Holland? You might be ok. Because you have an attractive face. But a standard ugly or short guy - he has no hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:30 AM
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I’ve never met any woman who loved an ugly/shorter man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:10 AM
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You are not competing with men that she never had a chance at. You're "competition" is men that actually want her Hard disagree. Women will hold out for men they have no hope with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:26 AM
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many men struggle because they will still refuse to give chubbier women a chance. Depends on how you define chubby. Women tend to be more lenient on the line between chubby and fat/obese than men IMO. Like most men would consider Lizzo obese but most women would consider her chubby or curvy. I like chubby and curvy but I’ve gone on dates with women who struggled to keep up and got winded just walking down the street at normal walking pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:26 AM
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The 5’8” guy didn’t cheat and treated her great. But she said they didn’t last because “it just didn’t work out.” LMFAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:23 AM
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If your husband actually looks like that, you’re either an abnormal woman or you first and met and dated in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:12 PM
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Dating men who aren’t Chad is hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:49 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152vysz/f25_met_great_guy_m27_but_taken_back_by_his/ Girl is attracted to guy until she finds out he’s bi and has been with men before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:49 PM
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Adam Driver is understandable. He looked like a dork before he grew his hair and facial hair out and hit the gym more, but he’s got strong features and a deep voice. He’s also huge, like 6’2”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:25 PM
1

What about Chris Hemsworth with his normal hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:22 PM
3

Harry Styles Henry Cavill Chris Pine Jason Momoa Keanu Reeves Jensen Ackles James McAvoy Jeremy Allen White Idris Elba
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:21 PM
1

If you have it bookmarked can you link it? Just curious because it confirms what I’ve thought for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:07 AM
4

Because women are hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:39 PM
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It’s always this and I get sick of hearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:39 PM
2

I hear people talk less badly about it strippers than OF girls Most normal women would only turn to stripping if they had no other options. Like the kind of woman who normally becomes a stripper is practically cliché. But OnlyFans lowered the bar to that kind of sex work, legitimized it for middle-class women and brought a bullshit philosophy that it’s “empowering” and helps women take control of their bodies and own businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:37 PM
1

That’s depressing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:16 PM
2

*Way easier. Just wear a button-down shirt with pants that aren’t cargo shorts and some nice shoes. Neat haircut. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:03 PM
4

I’ve seen some crazy and sad Reddit relationships threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:05 AM
2

Do you think you let him get away with a lot of bullshit because he was physically attractive? I’m a guy but that seems to be my experience that women seem to tolerate more crap from a man if he’s really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:05 AM
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The last guy is an idiot. He needs one or two pictures of himself with his friends so women know he’s not a cat-fish or a serial killer, and one or two lines about an interest or hobby. It’s embarrassing that I look worse than him and get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:12 AM
1

The dating landscape is different now compared to 5+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:55 AM
1

Red Pill philosophy essentially agrees with this though. It says certain standards they’d hold other men to melt away if they just find you attractive or feel attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:55 AM
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This. They ain’t gonna admit it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:51 PM
3

Rogan would be almost indistinguishable from a guy who’s exactly 5’6”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:34 PM
2

He’s slightly below 5’7” which is closer to short than average. I’m taller than him and I’m average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:24 PM
3

Joe Rogan is short and it turned him into a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:07 PM
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Maybe OP is an Autist? Even tall people need basic social and flirting skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:59 PM
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Or they can call up the best-looking guy in their friend group, or have a FWB arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:21 AM
2

See also: Nick Cannon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:10 PM
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The actual average man today would've been a bottom 10% man 40 - 50 years ago. Jack Nicholson was also considered a sex symbol 40 years ago and the male beauty standards were a bar on the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:39 PM
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Plus most average to below-average looking men are either treated with indifference or like shit. Welcome to the experience of 80% of men. I’ve been called attractive by some women, I still get treated like shit because I’m not a 6 foot tall white Chad. Being an ugly woman is basically like being born an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:33 PM
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“Used for sex” ok. Stop fucking Chads on the first date then. Easy. Get on Bumble and swipe on Billy Beta who makes $50K a year and is 50 lbs overweight. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:32 PM
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They don’t acknowledge that ugly (even normal/attractive women) don’t want to just get fucked by some stranger and want a relationship instead, to them if you CAN get sex then you have nothing to complain about Women are the gatekeepers and they set the market price. If the market doesn’t clear then it’s because the price, their expectations in a man, are too high. There are men who are attracted to women who weigh 400 lbs and women with dicks. There’s a guy out there for every woman, the questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:30 PM
6

The right to vote is something that has always had to be fought for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:05 PM
1

There’s probably other things at play. Maybe the model is broken in assuming height and income aren’t correlated. Also any men who are 18 to 23 and 6+ feet tall but aren’t earning $50K a year because their career isn’t developed would be excluded on the basis of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:41 AM
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At least now you know better and you can’t be un-RedPilled. I wake up every day and I’m thankful I’m no longer the naïve beta that I was 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:24 AM
1

It’s not a member of NATO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:18 AM
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I have a friend who has done this and the women are beautiful, but he says that they are really boring and extremely clingy and possessive. Oh wow a hot girlfriend that actually wants to spend time with him, what a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:10 AM
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If you and your partner broke up, how long do you think it would take you to find an equivalent guy who also wants to be with you? He may well be a unicorn but you don’t realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:05 AM
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Well roughly 50% of all men would be 5’9” or shorter I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:03 AM
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This is what I’ve noticed about women, they’ll treat any guy who’s not a 10/10 like he’s garbage. It’s just sad honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:47 PM
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I don’t even feel mad at him, I feel mad at all the women out of his league who rejected men in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:17 AM
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if given the opportunity to choose between banging a celebrity and an average girl in a private setting, I bet your ass most men would choose the celebrity. If it’s a girl I know who I’m attracted to vs. the celebrity, I would choose the “average girl” every time, hands down. Kim Kardashian and Miley Cyrus don’t do it for me. Not anymore with Miley, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:10 PM
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Are they that desperate for men’s attention? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:46 PM
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The guy in question was 6'3, athletic, college educated, dressed well, had a fancy job in finance. I wouldn't say he was particularly charming but he was definitely conventionally attractive and easy to talk to. This is the part of your comment that explains the rest. Men who are tall, athletic, conventionally attractive and rich basically have all women open to them. The rest of us fight and compete over scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:56 PM
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I've seen so many straight dudes wear a sweat-pitted shirt to go out to a nice dinner with their girlfriend, who was dressed in a cocktail dress. Those guys are probably Chads or the couple is 40+ years old because I don’t know any guy who could get away with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:36 PM
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Not in about 6 years but I’d bet my net worth that teenage girls don’t care about what’s going on Leonardo DiCaprio, unless they’re being brainwashed by post-wall women on TikTok who have nothing better to do than make gossip videos about celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:18 AM
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That’s different because Billie Eilish is someone those girls are actually following. No one under 30 gives a shit about Leonardo DiCaprio. And they’re wrong for feeling they should have a say in whether her relationship with an older man is “toxic” or “gross” or whatever. Eilish is a grown woman now, not a child. And I don’t care about that either, they’re getting invested in relationships they have no idea about and feeling they have a say in it. There’s probably girls who didn’t like that Har…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:16 AM
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What’s her view on men and is she red-pilled? Does she see men who aren’t Chads as sub-human?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:02 AM
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Except teenage girls are equally disgusted by it They don’t seem to give a shit about things like that. It’s usually women 30+ or 40+ on Internet forums or social media complaining about it. You can tell because they know who Leo DiCaprio is lmao and seem disappointed he didn’t go for a Plain Jane PickMe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:59 AM
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Laughs in Joaquin Phoenix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:54 AM
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What’s the most interesting insights you got from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:53 AM
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I was reading about Don McLean yesterday and read that he’s married to a woman who’s like 50 years younger than him. It’s like yeah, twenty year olds aren’t going to date an average sixty year old but at the same time this was really pushing the limits of what I thought hypergamy was. I don’t care about Leo DiCaprio either, if the women he goes out with are doing it voluntarily why do people care? It really stinks of 50 year old women being upset and jealous that their teenage heartthrob didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:51 AM
2

I laughed way too hard at this reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:48 AM
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Meanwhile Reddit is full of dateless, matchless men who get a first date once every two years lol. I feel depressed about only getting a date every couple of months and then get more more depressed when I talk with my friends and it’s several months or years for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:02 PM
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Not even fat girls you match with on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:31 AM
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I really wouldn’t be surprised if it leads to a new resurgent conservative movement among young men in the Millennial and Zoomer generations. People won’t want to be enlightened liberal feminists if they see all of their women friends are being dicked by Chad who doesn’t commit to any of them and doesn’t bring anything other than High Value Dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:42 AM
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I remember when he got viciously attacked and savaged for advocating for “enforced monogamy” when he was merely pointing out that marriage existed in societies for a reason before, to stop this sort of thing happening and de-stabilizing societies. I feel like seeing how taboo it is to discuss stuff like women being willing to be in harems for only the most desirable men is has made me more Red Pilled and conservative. When I was Blue Pilled I used to believe there could be someone for everyone b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:51 AM
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A.k.a. The West Elm Caleb effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:43 AM
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Or you and your friend only like to go out with hot, lazy guys. You’d rather a 9 who’s lazy than a 5 who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:43 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10r03lt/i_can_now_understand_why_people_in_their_later/ This thread is incrediblely pessimistic given the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:47 PM
2

If you’re paying a mortgage for empty rooms you’re not using then you wasted money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:38 PM
1

You mean the idea about getting a SE Asian wife? I’ve never seen the appeal of that although I was always had more of a thing for Eastern European women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:35 PM
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Would you rather have a woman who's genuinely into you, who loves having frequent sex with you, who respects, praises you and you know would never cheat on you, BUT she's lazy around the house and doesn't put much effort into her appearance (not obese or anything, she just doesn't care to spend time beautifying herself) I don’t think I have super-high standards for looks for women I already find attractive and if she isn’t morbidly obese and wants to have sex all the time but doesn’t like doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:36 PM
4

Mommy kink for a woman who doesn’t even want to fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:34 PM
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Bloody hell if those are AI generated I can’t wait for the future. And with that onlyfans models are out of a job. Soon pornstars will also be. It was always a bubble. I think there will still be a niche for men who want to know they’re subscribing to/interacting with a “real” woman. Although I could also imagine at the same time an AI “model” becoming popular like something from that Her movie with Joaquin Phoenix. Giving rise to parasocial relationships with AI women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:58 AM
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Tony was kind of a simp for Elvira though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:27 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10ntzz1/guy_never_took_me_on_a_public_date_and_dumped_me/ He must have been really good-looking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:33 AM
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Am I better-looking or worse-looking than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:49 AM
1

So you’re a Chad now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:20 PM
7

They don’t want to openly admit they enjoy banging men who aren’t liberal or feminist, and usually prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:53 PM
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Dudes complaining about not getting play because they are openly conservative are just average (or worse) looking. This. Women don’t give a fuck about politics if you’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:52 PM
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Because women in their teens, twenties and early thirties prefer to move to and live in cities like New York and L.A.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:48 PM
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And, I know this because of how they start acting towards me. I feel like I get treated worse because I don’t outwardly display signs of wealth. I wear nicer clothes in my opinion but they wouldn’t know that because I don’t wear anything that has logos except for Nike sneakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:47 PM
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I think a lot of women under 30 nowadays have basically converged in personality and interests because of TikTok and Instagram. There are far more men who have diverse interests and hobbies than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:46 PM
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If they got married/met their partner more than 5 years ago then I feel like things are different. Something’s changed in the last couple years and I feel like the 80/20 effect has gone into overdrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:36 PM
8

The demographics in some cities/states can be brutal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:35 PM
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This honestly describes a couple of my friends. Ticks the boxes, not conventionally attractive, no game/little women-appealing charisma. They get along well with other men and they’re invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:34 PM
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The guy wearing worn-looking jeans would probably work if he had the look for it. Maybe he doesn’t. I’ve seen hipster men and women wearing worse clothes. If he looks like Urkel and he’s wearing worn jeans then it’s probably an incongruous look. When I wear a flannel and jeans I get compliments because I have long hair and facial hair like Johnny Depp, when I wear office worker clothes I get weird looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:32 PM
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Felt like I was set up lol She talked to you because she thought she needed a ride. You should take control of the situation and arrange where the meet-up is. Letting her tell you where to meet was a dating rookie mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:56 PM
1

You could have paid via credit card and tried charging it back/disputing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:55 PM
1

Why is 25 the cut-off point lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:04 PM
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They are all adults so there is nothing much we can do beside advising against but let's be real most people wouldn't want their daughter to be with a 40 year old at 20 It’s not 40 year old and 20 year old. It’s more like 42 year old and 32 year old. Or 33 and 26. And those are two real examples I know of. Not 20 years, but close to 10? Absolutely I’ve seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:53 PM
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Like two days ago a girl I stayed friends with on Facebook got into a relationship with a guy 7 years older than her. The age-gap thing is real and alive and kicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:51 PM
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I know you’re not lying because this story is so funny and awkward no one could make it up. This like true irony. You should try re-connecting and seeing if she’s still interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:55 PM
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Now if she’s significantly younger than you and you’re an average 30+ guy with average looks, average charisma, but a well-paying job? Yeah, you’re getting played. If you’re going to get played, may as well get played by a hot 25 year old than a 35 year old who may or may not have kids they expect you to be step-daddy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:48 PM
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It teached me that women love making use of men's horniness to their advantages. This is one thing but it’s also another thing where women use a guy (usually a friend or an acquaintance) knowing he has actual feelings. I feel very jaded about women in general. They get away with treating people like crap and it’s seen as those people’s faults. But something happens to them and everyone cares and gives sympathy. It’s been a long time since I’ve simped for somebody and I feel glad I wasn’t taken a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:20 PM
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Even average looking white men can slay if they know what type of niche to lean into. Women can be into bald white men with bad faces if they’re reasonably jacked and have tattoos and a leather jacket. I can’t remember the last time I saw any movie or TV show where the Asian or Indian guy was seen as more desirable than the white guy. Kumail Nanjiani got jacked for Marvel Eternals and he’s legitimately good-looking with jawline and hair and he still had the part of the butt monkey joke comic rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:13 PM
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At least you get positive stereotypes and women desiring black men. Asian men have no positive stereotypes except for teenage girls who like effeminate 20-year-old South Korean pop singers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:52 AM
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Only if it’s physical and attractive. You don’t see women chasing Autists lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:50 AM
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This. If the average height was 6 feet tall, women would just start chasing men who are 6’6”. Or they’d find some other thing to discriminate on. Blue eyes, or a certain hair color.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:53 AM
5

No, you have it backwards, it’s women who have insanely high standards when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:51 PM
5

Do you look back on that as being a Red Pill experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:21 PM
3

Are you black? Or Asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:20 PM
2

Non-religious and non-homophobic black men are hard to find. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:18 PM
1

I rewatched The Social Network. By the most charitable interpretations of the events possible, Zuckerberg still comes across as incredibly cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:39 PM
1

Just saw that a girl that I liked and talked with 6 months ago got in a relationship yesterday, that unexpectedly got me feeling down. She’s 26 and he’s 33 so maybe by my early 30s I’ll be doing better. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:37 PM
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It angers women because they see it as sexual objectification; but when they desire a man for being tall, attractive, etc... It's taste. The running gag that they’re attracted to personality and it just so happens all of their exes and crushes were 6+ feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:55 AM
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I get a new date about every 2 months on average now. That might be higher if I was rejecting every woman I went out with but really it’s more like I get rejected 75% of the time and the other 25% it’s because lack of physical attraction made it hard for me to over-look their other issues. Usually it’s them being too overweight. I basically don’t have any standards except I have to be physically attracted to them and I have to find them likeable enough to want to spend another 2 or 3 hours with.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:48 PM
1

women care more about the mate providing security to raise the offspring. You have to be multi-millionaire status to overcome being a sub-5 as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:01 AM
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Most of the women tops I’ve met were actually submissives who wanted the guy to know exactly what to do to get them off. From my experience the women who claim they’re the best in openly communicating about sex don’t want to talk or work through things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:45 AM
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That’s when you Nope Out of there. Or hang around to see if you can get with her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:43 AM
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I was already over it by then but my other friends were not and after I said no he didn't ask either of them. He liked you specifically and you probably crushed his feelings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:42 AM
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If you need to be a lawyer/dentist/surgeon to get a leg up against guys who are 6+ feet tall then why is this sub even called PurplePillDebate. It’s basically red Pill fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:41 AM
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We can end the thread right there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:34 PM
1

That’s why you bring a gun. It’s like the one thing Republicans are right about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:46 PM
2

right....but you'd only be settling....if you had more attractive women trying to give you the time of day, you would pick them instead... Are you a woman saying this trying to dunk on me? Weight doesn’t really matter for me up to a certain point. I’ve dated chubby girls and I’ve dated girls on the more normal/thinner side. I find girls with a bit of chub probably more attractive sexually. As long as whatever girl I’m with doesn’t have like a pot-belly with A-cup boobs and wants to have sex more…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:20 PM
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I’d settle for a chubby girl my age but their standards are high lol. I feel like their most recent asshole ex-boyfriend causes them to punish all men who could be future potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:19 AM
1

Hugh Grant got arrested and he was a Hollywood celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:14 AM
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99% of men don’t achieve that and even if they do they don’t bring baggage of it to the next girl for her to deal with. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:19 AM
1

what works best in mens experience. I’ve never done a first date dinner date and never will lol. Unless I’ve known them for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:51 AM
1

Based on the few nurses I’ve dated, they’re the horniest women I’ve ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:53 PM
1

Things like this ruin sexual fantasies for me. Like I don’t want sand or dirt in my junk or my crack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:52 PM
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My bad. I totally agree though, based on what I’ve heard from friends who are middle-aged overweight women. The amount of attention even homely and older women get compared to the average man is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:38 PM
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Yeah I could probably get into a relationship with a girl 60 lbs heavier than me no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:24 PM
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You should go for bar and pub dates more often and push for a first date kiss/make-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:23 PM
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This. It’s basically accelerated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:21 PM
17

From my experience that’s bullshit and the only women not having sex are those who are basically asexual or religious conservative. I’ve met women who satisfy the sex need outside of relationships with open relationships and hook-ups. But they’ve also complained about men “only wanting one thing” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:21 PM
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I’ve met women who have lots of sex. They just seem to be really choosy about who they have it with. Not even in terms of wealth or class or status, they often know even if it’s something casual they’ll get a good-looking guy who is charming enough and that’s all they need from their perspective. And a lot of those girls also go for non-monogamy/polyamory. So they get the pick of the men they want and the men have no leverage. It’s just interesting when you meet more women into polyamory than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:19 PM
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I feel like that alone says so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:55 AM
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It’s basically undeniable at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:18 PM
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older guys who had higher status and who were more assertive and better dressed than me Why would you hate that guy? If anything I was hoping I’d grow into becoming that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:16 PM
1

I dont really care either way but I don’t understand why he deserves more attention than any other human being and I feel suspicious when the media starts pushing me to hate any person I was barely aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:35 PM
1

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TQmUxU11kqQ
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:33 PM
1

Is the 35 year old still going to get more attractive women than the 20 year old? Or is he banging older women that are also attractive? The 35 year old just had more options so he has more to work with. Maybe some of those women are hot but they were hotter 10 years ago. Objectively speaking? Most people who are no ideological will agree that most women (i.e. who aren’t Meryl Streep or Cassandra Peterson or whatever) don’t tend to get more physically attractive with age. Most women age just as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:27 PM
1

For context I'm a 22 year old male about to turn 23. Some people would say I'm in my prime and will hit my peak at 28. If you’re 22 you’re not in your prime unless you’re Harry Styles or look like Henry Cavill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:22 PM
9

I’ve been on way too many dates with women in their 20s who have had at least one shithead/narcissist boyfriend/ex-fiancé. In a lot of cases they’re still hung up on the guy. I really can’t get my head around people like that are able to slide in and out of relationships and I’m stuck with the wrecked women treating their dates with me as therapy sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:53 PM
5

This is what terrifies me. That I’ll never be in a relationship again where she genuinely desires me and I genuinely desire her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:39 PM
3

Or they think they can change him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:24 AM
12

That’s literally what most women think about men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:10 PM
3

Okay I dress completely down. I wear plain clothes I’m comfortable in (nothing sexy), no make up either. I get zero attention from men. Do you know the type of women who get a bunch of attention from men? Are you overweight? Do you have greasy hair/face? I mean I’ve met some really plain/ordinary-looking women who don’t plaster themselves with make-up and they have boyfriends/husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:52 PM
5

Ok, I agree. I’ve seen some very average-looking tall guys with cute girls that a short guy would never would have had a chance with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:28 PM
12

I mean that fits the idea that most (i.e., 80% or possibly more) men are Betas/Blue Pills who only ever have 1 or 2 women interested in them in their entire lives. Their attractiveness increases around the time they hit 30 when women hit the wall and those women who aren't dumb find a suitable chair before the music stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:07 PM
4

You mean if he wasn't famous at all, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:55 PM
2

That's fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:55 PM
5

Why do women go on dating apps and talk to guys they have no intention of meeting. They crave men's attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:53 PM
1

I have a friend who’s 40 and childless. I didn’t know she wanted kids until she mentioned she’d tried with her partner and they couldn’t get it to happen. This would have been a few years ago when she was in her very late thirties, past 35. Anyway that and the Hugh Jackman example kind of sticks in my mind whenever people say age isn’t an issue. They’re just completely full of shit, it’s hard enough for 30 year olds to conceive and I even know a couple of mid-thirties couples who had to try mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:41 PM
1

Sounds to me like the lady in the article was unreasonably picky and the clock ran out on her finding a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:41 AM
2

That having children at 40 is going to be a breeze. It just isn’t true. Hugh Jackman and his wife adopted after his wife mis-carried multiple times. She’s 12 years older than him and he was obviously fertile and rich. If they couldn’t do it there’s no reason to believe an average 45-year-old woman will be able to successfully carry a pregnancy to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:13 AM
3

It was published by Marie Claire and most women’s publications wouldn’t have any political agenda to publish hit pieces about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:50 AM
27

If they fled Ukraine before the war then no way in hell are they going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:59 AM
17

I don’t entirely agree with the OP but I do feel society doesn’t value men who served in uniform after their time in service. Sure they’ll get “Thank you for your service” but no one’s helping them when they have PTSD or lifelong disfigurements and injuries. And their wives are tempted to not be faithful when they’re away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:58 AM
5

He’s an uber-nerd and says when he was a kid they called him Fat Cavill at school. I don’t think his personality changed much, he just became a Chad through puberty and lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:12 AM
2

He grew it for the Mission Impossible movie he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:10 AM
8

She’s looking for a “real man” now to step up and be accountable!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:09 AM
3

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:08 AM
3

You nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:49 PM
3

The whole Mattress Girl debacle at Columbia University was because a below-average Asian girl couldn’t get her tall white fuck-buddy to commit to her. Reverse Yellow Fever is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:55 AM
3

Your dad is Robert De Niro?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:48 AM
65

This isn’t even a meme, I believe women here and other dating subs have said this. Or someone asked and they admitted their boyfriends have been 6+ feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:02 AM
3

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:20 AM
4

It will matter when you’re 35 and all those independent liberal women suddenly realize they want a Beta Bux to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:31 PM
6

You know the funny thing about that is I’ve met a lot of women who complained about the men they were with being broke. Which just further reinforced the truth of AF/BB for me. If you’re hot enough or desirable enough, women don’t care if you’re a broke deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:27 PM
-1

This. I’m a normal weight guy and I can as many matches as I want if it’s with a girl who weighs 60 lbs more than me. Which is not something I think I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:58 AM
0

Depends on what younger or older is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:59 PM
-1

So he was a Beta that you settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:44 PM
1

Biff wasn’t a real Alpha. He got his lights punched out by a rail-thin guy half his weight and could only get laid by literal rape, and then went to work for him waxing his car.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:56 PM
0

Is her boyfriend hotter than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:54 PM
2

It honestly depends on the man I think. There are 2s who never want to be monogamous and there are 9s and 10s who are and don’t want anything but their forever wife/girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:53 PM
2

Also the statistics of a porn website don’t tell you anything about who men actually want to date. Otherwise you should be seeing more relationships with step-sisters/step-mothers/step-daughters. The whole argument is just junk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:51 PM
1

Can any man explain why Ebony is the #1 pornhub category in the US. Red pillers like fresh and fit told me black women were the least desirable group of women The men looking up that kind of porn are probably the kind of people that liberal black women don’t want to date. Weird gross white guys who fetishize/objectify black women. I have a feeling that mixed-race black women do better than women whose parents were both black. The Tinder/OLD app data doesn’t lie and men who are attracted to certa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:50 PM
2

It’s good but I’m not sure I see Hal as a good male role model. His relationship with Lois is sweet but he’s a complete door-mat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:47 PM
3

If women thought like men she’d see he’s clearly a winner at life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:46 PM
2

I choose to believe the dude just really wanted to go to the zoo and the way things worked out he managed to get in for free. I went on a date once where the girl was heavier than I thought from her photos and I got a free drink and free food because she insisted on paying because I arranged the date. From her perspective I got free food and she got nothing out of it but a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:45 PM
3

But to become a red pilled woman makes no sense, and red pill wives and women subs are just full of posts by women asking how they can better shrink themselves to make more room for men. What a shitty way to live life. They’re not really becoming Red Pilled though. I feel like a Red Pill Woman would be focused on becoming the ultimate house-wife or the ultimate mom with a career. They’re just wanting a lifestyle where the man does the hard shit and they get to post on TikTok and Instagram all da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:39 PM
2

Yeah I don’t understand why she’s complaining. She doesn’t even have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:36 PM
1

That’s interesting because most educated women under 30 that I’ve met tend to be driven. It’s the people that never went to begin with that seem unsure about their career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:35 PM
0

What kind of gun would you recommend another woman get, out of curiosity. Most gun owners on Reddit tend to be conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:33 PM
2

I find based on looks alone I can be picky but I’ve found women to be more attractive based on personality after getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:41 PM
1

This. Elon Musk has hair now because of transplants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:36 PM
2

Unless you’re Asian or Indian. Then you’re just fucked. I agree though. My mom has dated bald men but they were traditionally masculine and taller/bigger build than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:34 PM
0

Would it be fairer to say something like 70% or 80% of women like men with Dark Triad traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:32 PM
0

And 3/5 men have probably not truly experienced a woman lusting after them or told them they’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:29 PM
4

I’ve met women who openly talked about how much they like sex but I could probably count them all on one hand. I truly believe 90% of women could go without sex for the rest of their lives if they never had an encounter with a man they considered fuck-worthy. Or they’re satisfied with sex like two or three times a year which is basically nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:27 PM
1

If I magically became a fat woman (I’m a skinny guy) I’d push the limits of online dating and bars to see the hottest guys I could reach for. Just to test the theories here to the limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:23 PM
5

This is why most of the women I know who aren’t jaded middle-aged spinsters are in relationships. Or they’re living with their whole family and can’t have a serious boyfriend living with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:21 PM
0

If I have the exact same thoughts, emotions, interests and personality then I’d probably continue living my life the exact same way I’m living it now except I’d be able to get a partner now. But I’d probably stop caring so much about what I eat because of the female body positivity movement and there are men interested in every body type. I’d date guys and choose the one seems like they’d be the best long-term partner. It’s not hard. Get on Hinge and start liking guys I think are attractive, hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:19 PM
3

That’s a meaningless and arbitrary distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:25 PM
1

My bad, I made a typo in that last paragraph and meant “views of men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:25 AM
2

Join a gym and get jacked so you have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:47 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:45 PM
2

women decide whether promiscuity is attractive in men. I agree that women don’t necessarily find this desirable but they find the qualities that such a guy has to be desirable. So they’ll take the guy with the N count of 50 over the guy with 0. 9 times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:44 PM
2

Yes. If you’re not like 100 lbs overweight or have a mustache, dating is piss-easy for women. Even then there are guys that are into fat chicks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:30 AM
1

Even if only 10% of men are “relationship-worthy” if you have 100 matches that’s 10 options to choose from. Most men don’t even have 2 to rub together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:29 AM
0

The majority of women don’t put any thought into dating or relationships at all from my experience, they’re like NPCs along for the ride. I think that’s why some of them have such bad relationship experiences up until their mid-30s, they treat it like they’re a passive passenger on the roller-coaster and the guy is the ride operator.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:23 AM
1

I feel bad for men so weak that despite not liking women they feel compelled to be in relationships with them. I mean I’ve been on dates with women who said the exact same thing. “Men are trash, they take take advantage of women, etc.” The difference was that they knew those guys were assholes and still chose to be with them. Honestly the biggest Red Pill for me has been just listening to single women of all ages (from 20s to middle-aged female friends) talk about their views of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:19 AM
1

I choose to believe the AI can create a list of people who I find attractive, I don’t necessarily believe all those people would want to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:51 AM
2

1 might have been a romantic at some point or had his heart broken by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:28 AM
3

Seeing 30+ women pissed that men are stingy with the upper range of their dating age preference never gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:27 AM
3

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zicz4q/comment/izr5sq8/ Using Ryan Reynolds as an example of male hypergamy is the worst argument I’ve ever seen. And Scarlett Johansson > Blake Lively, all 7 days of the week lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:25 AM
1

Maybe Top 40% if you have 10/10 personality. I was at the movies yesterday and saw a 10/10 with a guy with a shitty perm haircut. Although he was tall-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:20 AM
2

I just read this comment and had the weird thought that it would be interesting see an episode of Star Trek or something where the crew goes down to an alien planet where the female population is highly attracted to men shorter than 5’5”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:42 AM
3

So height is probably best modelled by a quadratic equation then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:20 PM
0

Still nothing of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:19 AM
-4

I’m not OP but you said nothing of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:59 PM
2

I guess that’s the thing. Find a woman who’s horny for you and get her to fall in love and you can get away with whatever. The hard part is the first two parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:14 PM
4

I’ve met women who supported their partners and even my own sister did that with two of her exes but I’ve never really understood how that was possible. It’s something that feels out of reach for me and like 99% of men. I don’t know if I’ve ever gotten that kind of unconditional support even from my own mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:20 PM
5

The two women that I know who are single basically live at home with their parents/family and have had a conservative upbringing. Literally every other woman I know who is under 40 is in a relationship. But 4/5 of my male friends are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:10 PM
1

I have a friend who I know would be a great boyfriend/husband. He has some unfortunate facial features though that don’t make him conventionally attractive. At the beginning of COVID he once had an online date with an Autistic woman who was living with her parents so I know his standards aren’t high. He had a girlfriend for about 5 months last year and he was helping her with her computer science studies. I feel sad knowing he could continue to be single for years when he’s one of the most inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:04 PM
1

You’re gonna struggle I think. Women want masculine men and they’re ok with masculine lesbian women. They don’t like feminine or sensitive men. What women say they want and what they actually want in men are completely different things and I say this as someone who is not traditionally masculine or manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:21 AM
3

And I always frown when I hear someone speculates about some womanizer who supposedly sleeps with women thanks to lying how much he loves them. I believe this but the guys are handsome narcissist psychopaths and the women usually have self-esteem issues and are attracted to assholes. Pretty sure I’ve met a few women who came out of relationships like that. The only thing I can conclude is that women will lie to themselves that they had something special with a prick as long he was good-looking/c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:48 PM
13

This. This needs to be at the top of the comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:13 AM
2

Yes, Staceys are typical hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:12 AM
2

Last question, how many other non-hypergamous women like me do you think exist? Women are as faithful as their options and I fully believe 95% of women would leave their current partner if Harry Styles/Justin Bieber/random K-Pop star walked into their life and asked them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:27 PM
1

There was a Tom Clancy branded book series about this idea, except it reported directly to the President. I was never able to get fully on-board with three books knowing IRL it would be an unconstitutional and legally dubious shit storm waiting to happen. And I’m not sure Tom Clancy himself would have come up with the idea if he was writing the novel himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:23 PM
0

I can see how social liberals see their views and philosophy as vile but I don’t see how they can deny the facts and what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:20 PM
1

Yeah but men 30-35 who are suitable husband material and want kids aren’t plentiful. Think about how attractive the baseline average man is to the average woman and then add in the things she needs for him to qualify at a base level to be a husband and father. Then add in his willingness to marry her and have kids with her. Family-minded men are most likely already married by the time they’re 30. A 35 year old man who wants a family and doesn’t have baggage or issues that make him unsuitable for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:16 PM
6

I'm sure men in their 20s won't be interested, but I'm concerned that now men my own age will also prefer someone younger. I would also like to have kids but I find myself single at 30 and want a loving partner and relationship but fear I have missed the boat. Should I be this worried? There’s an exaggerated idea by those who say it’s all a myth that “35 year old men aren’t running around dating 18 year olds.” But no-one said that. That’s a straw-man. What it means practically speaking is that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:10 PM
1

They do for a time and then they move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:43 PM
1

“I took the pill my family and my doctor said I should take without taking the time to read about the side effects or the chemistry of how it affects my body.” TFW when you wake up at 40 and realize you were an NPC for all of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:31 AM
-1

(Also, good luck continuing society in any form if you successfully deter the poor from procreating.) The modern welfare state is something that has only existed for less than 100 years of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:04 AM
1

If welfare didn’t exist those single moms might have made better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:03 AM
1

The sad thing is that any normal dude is able to spot those fuckers from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:02 AM
4

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z6d37e/comment/iy0wxyi/ Women openly talking Red Pill truths. “Just focus on education and self-improvement, and then maybe 7 years from now when women your age are 30 they’ll settle for you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:29 AM
2

99% of women and girls I’ve met have had at least one relationship by the time they were 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:20 PM
6

When women say the bar is on the ground, it’s on the ground for guys like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:15 AM
2

Would prefer Stable Variety and that’s what I think I’ve always wanted but neither option seems achievable in this current climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:48 AM
2

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/z5mp0v/27m_boyfriend_broke_up_with_me_24f_because_hes/ Even though I know the answer when I read things like this, I wish I had a picture of the guy. Bet he’s a Chad. I’ve had girls pay on dates before, but never the whole relationship. The next guy probably ain’t gonna be so lucky lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:40 AM
1

Try going on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:05 AM
2

A lot of people think he’s a charlatan who doesn’t have anything of worth to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:57 PM
12

I find women to be more deliberately and meaningfully cruel. Cruel men tend to be stupid and/or impulsive. With women it’s more calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:44 PM
2

This is very enlightening advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:41 PM
4

Different countries and cultures have different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:40 PM
1

You don’t want to date other races?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:26 PM
1

They do that because they’re used to doing that in the Middle East where they don’t get MeToo’d. Different cultural standards and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:46 PM
2

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:37 PM
1

He clearly likes her but she doesn’t seem to like him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:31 PM
1

He was a dick in the movie so it sounds like he was adapted faithfully. I only have a passing familiarity with the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:31 PM
1

In Hollywood that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:30 PM
2

More like 2 to 3 years bare minimum tbh. Depends on the major.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:29 PM
2

Theoretically you could do it in 3 years if you were allowed to take classes during Summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:28 PM
3

Smoothness is also just a coded word for how much the girl wants to fuck him. And the reality is most women know that before the guy even opens his mouth. I’ve been on that side of it where women openly admitted they said yes to going out with me because they thought I looked cute and that was it. Nothing about what my interests were or what kind of person I seemed like. Women drool over a guy like Henry Cavill because of his face and body, not because of how much he loves World of Warcraft and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:27 PM
3

Smoothness is kind of irrelevant. You can act like a jackass as long as you’ve got the looks to pull it off. I’ve dated women who told me horror stories about their exes. I didn’t get to see pictures of them but the only thing I could conclude is that they put those guys on a pedestal and they must’ve been pretty good-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:23 PM
2

I’m kind of average in looks and I’ve been in bed with a girl on the first date a couple times. When a woman really likes how you look, you’re starting from a point where anything goes until you say or do something to fuck it up. It really makes you look at things differently when other women want to drag it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:59 PM
5

I’d bet all the money in my pockets that she’s obese, below-average in looks, or has emotional issues. Guys probably don’t approach her or she doesn’t have an active social circle. She got “cat-fished” by an Autistic guy, sounds like she’s not exactly that bright or she’s desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:56 PM
3

It’s a bad-looks tax. Not as good looking as her ex who Alpha-widowed her? You gotta pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:53 PM
5

Bruh if she makes you wait a month for sex but her ex got it on the first/second date… yeah she’s not worth a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:52 PM
1

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yurff3/spent_over_3000_on_travel_expences_to_meet_catfish/ This story is cringe but this woman has issues if she was thinking of buying property and being in a LTR with a guy she hadn’t even met. WTF. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. This is like a guy being surprised that a woman he’s “in a relationship with” online only wants him to send money to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:51 PM
31

There will be excuses that women mature and their tastes in men change but really I think it shows they’re no less shallow than most men. Their standards literally drop to the floor if you pass their looks threshold but none of them will openly admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:40 AM
33

So, what convinced you that redpill ideas are valid? I think experiences I’ve had IRL just confirm the things I’ve read. Women will say they’re looking for certain qualities in men but invariably end up with men they find physically attractive regardless of whether they have those qualities or not. You can be broke, jobless, living at home with your mother, unable to drive or pick her up, abusive, mooching off other people, no future prospects, have personality disorders, but if you’re good-look…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:35 AM
6

Hugh Grant cheating on Elizabeth Hurley is something that baffles me to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:25 AM
3

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yc4ajm/should_i_continue_dating_a_man_that_doesnt_seem/ Turns out you can get away without showering/changing clothes if you’re attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:22 AM
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I dated a narc woman once and the scary thing was she seemed hyper-emotionally intelligent. Look out for boastful women with no censor who always fish for compliments on their looks (even when they’re objectively attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:41 PM
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My guess is no. Having experienced heartbreak and friends who went through it, it wouldn’t have helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:20 PM
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I feel like a guy can wake up one day and decide he wants to stop fucking around and be in a relationship, and easily find someone who meets all his criteria and is ready to commit. I’ve seen this happen with my dude friends. A lot of women can make that mental shift but will still struggle to find someone who fits their criteria to get serious with. And I’m not talking about unreasonable criteria, I’m talking about someone equal to them. It seems like there just are a lot more highly-educated, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:43 PM
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Assuming nobody here is Brad Pitt or Margo Robbie I want to personalise the question( as the stats are already very clear in terms of what age Men and Woman GENERALLY find most sexually attractive) and ask what age did you PERSONALLY feel you received most attention from the opposite sex? 6, 12 and mid-20s. I don’t remember very many girls liking me in high school in my teen years. Maybe 2 or 3 at most. There were girls who were sweet on me when I was just a kid/elementary school age. But I had …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:49 PM
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Do you think that says something about the lack of options and guidance those men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:10 PM
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Would you find a 6’4” sperm donor to contribute if you thought your 5’7” partner was inadequate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:12 AM
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Wait, I thought that height didn’t matter. Now suddenly a man who’s 5’7” is a genetic dead-end?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:11 PM
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Indian men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:12 AM
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Face: 7/10 Body: 3/10 Her body doesn’t look like a woman’s and most blonde white women on TikTok are roughly the same attractiveness as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:10 AM
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If I woke up as a woman I’d start a Twitch stream and an OnlyFans and pay my mortgage off by the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:08 AM
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Scandinavian countries can be pretty racist from what I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:07 AM
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I’ve dated women who led with the topic. Honestly if they think you’re hot or that you’re above them you can get away with a lot. I’m not even that conventionally handsome either. But if a girl thinks you are it opens doors that would be bolted shut on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:59 AM
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"Men" as a demographic don't really have any crazy advantage if you're a good person. If you're "live fast die young" type of guy with no morals, then it's extremely easy. If you put together a facade that's only supposed to last for 2-4 weeks max, you basically already won. Women, contrary to popular belief, DO NOT have built in sensors to detect if you have ulterior motives. You could lie, cheat, steal, get women pregnant, leave the kid, and just be a general piece of shit and there will ALWAY…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:19 AM
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It works if you’re an attractive white guy and that’s it. I’ve heard some really pathetic things about Dark Triad guys from women I’ve dated and my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:56 AM
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You did the right thing. Don’t feel bad, if she really wanted you you’d know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:41 AM
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I thought Overwatch was trying to tamp down on the sex appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:37 AM
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Girl I went on a date with last year told me she hooked-up with all these guys after her ex cheated on her and broke her heart. She said they were engaged and expecting to marry. I just nodded and acted sympathetic and never contacted her again after the date. She liked me too but I was on the fence and after she said all of that I noped out. Too gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:34 AM
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Yup. And her husband’s the Beta Bux sucker she had to settle for. “Oh well, he has a career and I’m 25, I guess I have to make a baby with him now. But not because I love him.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:26 AM
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They’re in a bubble. Men do care about it. It’s just most won’t make a big deal of it, they’ll make up some excuse and break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:23 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/xyimqi/how_do_i25f_tell_my_husband25m_that_my_ex_who_i/ Feel really bad for this girl’s husband lol. He will never live-up to her Chad ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:21 AM
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Women have threesomes with men they find hot. It’s just that they don’t find that many men hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:39 AM
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(The woman's team wouldn't even do that in the first place.) If he was hot enough and discreet, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:31 AM
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I’ve had at least one woman comment on my bone structure and it felt incredibly weird. I’ve gone out with women and asked a couple what made them initially want to go out with me and the ones I remember said they thought I was attractive or had nice hair, which scares me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:23 AM
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They have the Dark Triad/asshole appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:51 AM
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Except it has been known since forever that men are 100% lookist. But men are also realistic about what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:50 AM
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This. Most of the women he dates are already famous and wealthy from being models. They don’t financially need him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:14 AM
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Crackhead Johnny is the bad-boy women under 30 crave. I’ve been on enough dates to hear similar stories. Women like shitty men so long as they have good looks / Alpha energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:06 PM
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Most women don’t listen to their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:25 PM
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Women control the dating market and society is becoming increasingly gynocentric.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:22 PM
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I think people here overestimate what you can do as parent. Teenagers are super stubborn and most won't do what their parents want them to just because. Or at least that's what I remember it was like during puberty. Maybe I come from a different cultural background from you but I would’ve been open to more guidance from my father if he’d offered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:18 PM
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I don’t get why men can’t get thru their baggage when they meet the right person. Maybe there was a woman earlier in their life who broke the trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:00 AM
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men will continue to be 4 inches taller than women. Taller than that, I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:48 AM
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You seriously think most women are attracted to aggression? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:23 AM
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And that making the “relationship” guy wait and buy her dinner first really means she values him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:53 PM
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I’m thinking of Joseph Gribble now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:25 PM
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How are they going to know if she's promiscuous by the second or third date? I’m terrible at reading people but I can usually tell from their vibe. I’ve so far never dated a woman who was more promiscuous than they initially implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:16 PM
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Those guys would get sex with women more easily than any other man because they’re naturally alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:18 AM
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I’d pay to see the looks on the girl’s faces when they give birth to the offspring of a guy who’s had plastic surgery and hair implants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:16 AM
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Whenever I feel bad about my own life I think of that asshole and laugh. Guy had everything and threw it away over social justice bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:04 AM
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Bezos cheated on his wife and willingly divorced her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:20 PM
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2006 me too movement I think that was 2016, unless the pandemic has fucked up my perception of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:59 PM
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This is also one reason why online dating works best for men in the top 20% (profile wise) while it absolutely sucks for men in the bottom 20%. I’d argue that there’s basically nothing distinguishing men at the 80th percentile and men at the 50th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:52 PM
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smol pp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:16 PM
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They’re blue-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:08 PM
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Will Smith at 17 was a wiser man than Will Smith at 53.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:33 PM
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Evidence that Tucker is a cuck. He was so traumatized by that he completely reinvented his public persona. Notice how he never wore that bow tie and Ivy League preppy get-up again after that on Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:41 AM
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I felt bad for him but he’s just kind of pathetic. Margot Robbie always looked like she wanted to fuck him so he should have just dumped Jada and gone with her. Jada’s not an ugly woman but she’s nothing special and her personality is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:39 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/whpcxf/men_wont_date_me/ I’d bet by “chubby” she means she’s technically obese. I went on a date with a girl this year who looked chubby in her pics but she was obese in person. Like the top she wore didn’t fully cover her muffin top so her belly was visible. Idk, maybe she gained weight. Feels a bit like a double standard though because guys who are chubby get told to lose weight and I’ve always been skinny and it’s never been of any benefit to me except …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:38 AM
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I see so many men claiming that they want a “good girl” type who is a virgin or low-n, quiet, sweet, no drinking, smoking, or partying, not a lot of makeup or revealing clothes, no tattoos, maybe a bit of a plain Jane, but that’s okay as long as she’s thin and has long hair. I like “plain-looking” and chubby girls but I find even they can have high standards. A lot of average women want men with above-average physiques.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:28 PM
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She’s normal weight/skinny and shy and kind of sheltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:45 AM
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Kinda. She’s probably a 4 but she has a nice personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:45 AM
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Idk why men here are so against serious relationships with women. Have you seen the shit women in love do for men? I’ve heard stories but it seems out of reach. I wish I’d get the chance to break a woman’s heart once in my life. It’s amazing hearing some of the things some guys were able to get away with because she was convinced they were the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:29 PM
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Is there something like a "beta" women? A woman who otherwise would be a good partner but never gets asked out and never has a boyfriend. I have a friend like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:10 PM
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Idk I have seen some couples where an attractive man is with a less attractive woman and claim he likes her for her. I have seen this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:07 PM
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If an ugly man had non-commitment sex with a beautiful woman then by virtue of that he must be high-value in some other way. Maybe he’s rich or high-status or he just doesn’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:06 PM
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Clearly he’s not physically (or really even personality wise) attractive. The hair transplant he had and better styling took him from a 3 to a 7/8. It’s hilarious though seeing old videos of him where he’s half bald and wearing shitty clothes even as a multi-millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:19 PM
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There’s a spectrum though. You can have the greatest personality in the world but if youre average height and weigh +250 lbs I’m not going to be attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:23 AM
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The thing about the Red Pill is that it explains a lot of shit that guys experience that nobody in their peer group, family or other social groups talks about in depth. Why are women attracted to abusive men. Why are some men who don’t have a job or career prospects, or have a criminal record, are able to attract women anyway. Why do men who become massively wealthy or high-status suddenly get massive success with women. Why do guys who studied engineering and IT not get women. Why do a lot of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:17 AM
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Bald spots are genetic though. Kind of dumb to dunk on a guy because of his family’s hair genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:52 AM
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Men swiping on every profile to get a match is a huge problem. Women have an average swipe right of 6% IIRC and think that 80% of men are below average in looks, they should try having more realistic standards for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:14 AM
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Men choose many relationship types because if an attractive woman walks up to them and says she only wants sex, 90% of men are not going to turn her down just because they also want a relationship. It’s like if you’re in line to be seated at a steakhouse and someone offers you In-N-Out burger. You’re hungry and will probably say yes even though that’s not what you’re in line for. And sure there are guys who lie about what they want but they’re not really relevant. I literally don’t know any men …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:13 AM
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If she sleeps around but doesn’t make OP wait that means OP is at the same level as the other guys she sleeps with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:12 PM
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Tbf if she was splitting all along I wouldn’t really care if she wasn’t putting out for weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:12 PM
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Those sounds like classic signs of narcissism if he’s attracted only to women who see him as an amazing catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:26 AM
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a guy who is 5'9", 5+ face, thin body is top 12.5% I call bullshit on this. I fit most of those criteria and I’m not top 12.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:01 AM
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Because any beta normie guy with a functioning brain can tell you who’s a fuckboy within 5 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:13 PM
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This guy is hitting the gym though and according to his previous videos he’s undergone medical intervention to re-grow hair from male pattern baldness. He’s clearly trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:44 AM
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This guy isn’t even particularly ugly either or out of shape either. There are women on TikTok who are 100 lbs overweight acting like they should be treated like queens and this guy’s a 4/10 beta normie who has a realistic view of how attractive he is to women and he still gets women shitting on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:43 AM
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The guy is short and brown with a skinny build, calling him unhygienic is basically a code word for “not white”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:41 AM
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Women are not as overtly obvious that they’re shit. They wait until they lull a guy into a relationship and then the nonsense starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:40 AM
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Your compliment was sufficient, Im_The_Daiquiri_Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:38 AM
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I got complimented on my bone structure by a woman who was fitting glasses for me once but I have a BMI between 16 and 17. 4 years ago I was a little baby-faced even though I have basically the same build. Getting older is going to suck if I end up gaining significant weight and it goes to my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:31 PM
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His mistake was being a beta loser and not being a Chad. Something most women here don’t understand is that there do exist women who will flirt with men or toy with them/lead them on just to get a kick out of the attention and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:24 PM
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I know women in their 50s who still get asked out by men, according to them. They’re not especially attractive or slim either. As a guy I kind of envy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:21 PM
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Maybe. Maybe not. I don’t know yet if I want it and I was trolling her in my responses by text and she took it as flirting which is funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:29 PM
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Went on a date with an overweight girl and she seems into me. It’s been a while since that’s happened and it feels weird. There’s something to be said about acting natural and playing it cool like you don’t give a shit that seems to work. I barely got in the door at home and she was texting me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:47 PM
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It shows how fucked the biological wiring of women’s brains is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:33 PM
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Based on what I’ve read, nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:30 PM
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His girlfriend is probably above-average and your standards and ideas of what’s average are skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:29 PM
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Most men are not tall or high income earners. I think only about 1 in 7 men are 6 feet tall or taller. That shrinks to about 1 in 50 if you want a 6’2” man. Any adult woman who says she wants a +6 foot tall high income earner is already looking for a man way above average. That’s not even taking into account looks (tall doesn’t equal handsome!), weight and body build, what he’s like as a person. You can have a tall, good-looking Harvard-educated lawyer/banker but that doesn’t mean his relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:42 AM
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Income and height are correlated but I don’t believe that d size is known to be correlated with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:38 AM
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That’s what made it ambiguously believable for me. He was weird and had serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:39 AM
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It comes from guys being taught that women value certain things in men and then it turns out what actually attracts women is other more superficial and aesthetic things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:15 PM
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They choose shitty partners and then blame all men because their boyfriend who they chose to be with is trash and lazy and abusive. The constant passive-aggression after the fact “TO THE MAN ON THE SUBWAY WHO LOOKED AT ME AND COMPLIMENTED MY DRESS BLAH BLAH BLAH”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:11 PM
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I think there was evidence one of his accusers fabricated their alleged abuse and was coached by their father but on the other hand MJ was definitely way too close and intimate with those kids. I have no clue. Either possibility is plausible for me. I was like 10 years old when this was going through the legal system so I always thought back then that he probably did it but that’s only because there was a media circus about it and they wanted the viewers. When I grew older I became a lot more sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:08 PM
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He needs to lose the glasses or get better ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:44 PM
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You’re right. He’s a 5 in that no one would look twice at him if he walked down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:43 PM
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Feminists seem to be shallower about mens’ appearances and only want traditionally masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:06 PM
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He must look pretty good to pick them all up from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:00 PM
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Do you just… ignore them and hope they notice you? What? A lot of women do that, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:54 PM
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OLD sucks but in hindsight I’ve managed to date hotter women who were out of my league from apps compared to IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:25 PM
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I was told nothing in particular except for that appearance does not matter to men. I remember my mom saying “a man should be a little bit more handsome than a monkey, it’s enough”. For your mother and father’s generation that was probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:01 PM
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And those women aren’t attracted to guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:39 PM
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Personality > Career
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:38 PM
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Those women are too feminist and woke to admit that what appeals to a woman is rarely ever what appeals to a man. Yes a smart woman can be attractive. Yes education can be attractive. No, you being a lawyer and another girl being a waitress doesn’t make you inherently better than her, not in his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:37 PM
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This is what I’ve read on Reddit even with women who find him attractive. They feel like a pervert for thinking he’s good-looking because he looks so young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:06 AM
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But I'll also date someone shorter or taller, skinnier or fatter, with blone hair or blue eyes. In America, men don't give much in terms of appearance, so striving for much of anything in men asthetically isn't going to work. Men in America are very very plain. …Compared to European men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:04 AM
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A woman with a 40+ BMI would need a stomach staple and cosmetic surgery. When you’re that fat you’re basically a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:56 PM
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I think it’s supposed to be a “gotcha” about body count to prove that it doesn’t matter or that the men here are hypocrites. I think in hypothetical terms body count wouldn’t matter to me if I had guarantees it meant no-one in her past would come back and that I’d be treated the same as the previous guys and she wouldn’t cheat on me, but there’s no guarantee of that IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:54 PM
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Sounds like lot of those women need therapy and blame men for everything wrong in their lives. Imagine going through your own life thinking you have that little agency about the men you end up in relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:16 PM
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B and D aren’t acceptable partners. I choose A as a partner and accept her past given that she’s up-front about it and in this hypothetical scenario I’m given a guarantee she won’t cheat and she’s not Alpha Widowed. Typical Stacy’s aren’t actually my physical type though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:10 PM
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Amber Heard could probably have gotten away with that and all her other shit if she was fucking an uglier guy than Johnny Depp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:31 PM
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I mean that’s not unlikely. Your partners must be very handsome and/or they’re fuckboys or both. There’s no way around it. I literally don’t know anyone who’s actually managed to get a new partner the next day, if you don’t include high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:06 AM
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I think if the relationship’s fucked it’s ok for him to do that but I wouldn’t do that with just any girl unless she gave clear signs she wasn’t relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:04 AM
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She torpedoed her chances of re-kindling the relationship when she fucked a guy the next day and he torpedoed whatever future relations he had with her by not holding frame. The correct thing he should have done is not reach out and find someone else, or play it cool and approach her about trying again but don’t commit and treat her like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:27 AM
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Only in an American sitcom could a guy like Ross get a girl like Rachel. If they existed IRL they’d have nothing to do with each other except as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:24 AM
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Your boyfriend was a Chad and out of your league if he had a new girl the next day. Or he was cheating on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:22 AM
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That's true, but a woman can be very sexually aroused by you and still want to wait. If they’re making you wait they’re not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:55 PM
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I can actually understand the reasoning behind why a woman would want to make a man she sees a future relationship with wait for sex. Here’s the thing though… unless they’re asexual, women don’t make guys who they think are really hot and want to actually have sex with, wait for it. With the right guy, they want it just as much as a man wants it. Any woman who thinks you’re really fuckable is going to remove barriers to that happening. It’s something I’ve learned as I’ve gotten further into my t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:30 PM
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That’s an ice-cold take and probably the least controversial thing I’ve seen posted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:35 PM
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She’s 25 with a 1 year old daughter going out getting tattoos and the father’s not in the picture anymore, I doubt she’s doing quality parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:19 PM
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We don’t know where OP lives and maybe their area is racially biased against non-white ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:16 PM
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He’ll rush her into having another kid and then reveal himself to be an abusive narcissistic Dark Triad type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:11 PM
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I haven’t been cash-strapped in a long time so maybe that’s biased me. But basic ingredients to make healthy, nutritious food aren’t expensive. You don’t need to buy very expensive designer clothes to get stuff that fits right and looks nice. There are hobbies that don’t require spending thousands of dollars. The main things are having money for a car and a place to live but if you’re good-looking enough neither of those things is a deal-breaker. You don’t even need to be intelligent or well-rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:08 PM
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That demographic is highly desired and representative of a Stacy-type. If a guy like what OP described locked down a girl like that who’s cute and not morbidly obese then he’s gone against Red Pill dating predictions. But a guy like that just having a girlfriend doesn’t invalidate the Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:04 PM
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Enlisted servicemen aren’t losers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:00 PM
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All of my friends are middle-class and/or white collar but a couple of my sister’s ex-boyfriends fit that description. But then again they managed to get a gf without a stable job or money while living at home so really by virtue of having a woman want to be with them they must have some value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:59 PM
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I think unless a girl is seriously overweight or a 1/10 he’s never going to even consider that she might be a virgin or has never had a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:57 PM
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Yeah she’s got that cute Girl Next Door quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:54 PM
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I have friends who have interesting hobbies and life experiences. They’d do a lot better if they looked better or were rich. There’s no point in being interesting if the better-looking guy or richer guy beats you to the girl 9/10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:54 PM
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I’d rather be broke but the best-looking guy in any room I walk into than average or ugly and the wealthiest guy. You don’t need a lot to get by. Good nutrition is cheap. A good wardrobe can be accumulated over time. There are hobbies that aren’t expensive. If you’re good-looking enough you don’t even need a job or to be living alone to have a girl over. Being good-looking is basically playing on Easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:51 PM
2

People whose whole identity is built around how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:48 PM
3

I’d be happy with the validation if I believed it or if it had any tangible effect. When you’re told you’re physically attractive by women who then leave you anyway, you tend to not believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:47 PM
5

Uhhh Asian men, short men, and black women are three of the least desirable demographics in the dating market according to statistics taken from dating websites and apps. That honestly fits right in with some of the Red Pill beliefs I have. or does it not count since it wasn’t a white lady? I’d honestly say come back when he has a white gf with blonde hair. I don’t think I’ve ever seen that in person and only recall one or two IRL examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:43 PM
3

You do it so that you’re not sitting at home alone all 7 evenings of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:40 PM
3

I don’t see this story ending well. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:39 PM
3

If JGL wasn’t famous 9/10 women walking past him in the street would not look at him. I’m a similar build (slim, average height) with similar features (brown hair, brown eyes) but I reckon I have a better face and hair than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:52 AM
7

So basically women are the biggest slut-shamers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:47 AM
8

The comments in this thread saying none show how skewed the women’s population here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:09 PM
0

Slut-shaming is more prevalent among women and guys generally don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:36 PM
3

If he wanted to fuck a lot of women he should’ve gone into banking or something instead of politics after Princeton and Harvard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:18 PM
4

The idea of Ted Cruz knowing who Pete Davidson is and being jealous of him is hilarious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:16 PM
2

Implying she’d let her little boy get married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:13 PM
3

You can tell if a girl likes you from the way she looks at you if you’ve spent enough time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:11 PM
5

It's funny seeing guys hating on Amber, but I know they're shallow enough to totally date/fuck her type despite all the red flags she'd show. There’s a big difference between wanting to fuck a woman and thinking she’s relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:49 PM
1

And if bad in bed = “doesn’t give oral to women” I assume by default the guy must be hot in the eyes of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:17 AM
1

Was he hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:16 AM
1

Women don’t have bad sex with people unless they’re hot or they think they can’t get anyone better than that guy, i.e. he’s the best she can do in terms of looks or status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:14 AM
8

Those women should stop pursuing hot fuckboys thinking that male attractiveness = sexual compatibility and good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:07 PM
7

Blaming men for everything and saying it’s their fault if sex doesn’t happen is pretty sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:05 PM
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Women claim to be more empathetic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:57 PM
8

Depp may be an alcoholic and a drug addict but I believed most people who testified said he was a decent and kind man. I’ve grown a lot of sympathy for him over the last couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:42 PM
4

So basically he groomed your friend? He sounds like a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 01:11 PM
1

Sounds like you just found a cheat code for free coffee lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:22 PM
2

Those women are the women most men wouldn’t want to fuck (as their first choice) anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:18 PM
3

If those people do it en masse then it does have an effect on the dating market. There are certainly a lot less marriage-minded men the older they get. I’ve seen and heard stuff complaining about it that 35+ year old women can’t find men who want a serious relationship, they’re either all snapped up in stable relationships or they’re commitment-phobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:17 PM
4

I’d bet all the money in my accounts that a man admitting he’s been to therapy would make 9 out of 10 women dry up and not want a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:14 PM
1

Uhh women do sleep with men they don’t like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:08 PM
1

I wish more women like her existed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:09 PM
6

The swipe rates of men and women on dating apps imply women are far more picky and shallow when it comes to looks than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:08 PM
1

Women know how to hide it better and they’re more likely to get away with doing it because women don’t fit the stereotypical societal profile of an abusive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:06 PM
3

I’m an average guy who met a girl (fat, below-average face) this year who wanted me to raw dog her 10 minutes after meeting her. If a woman thinks you’re hot you can get away with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:03 PM
1

Yeah I looked up this TV actress who I thought was hot when I was 15 the other day and she did not age well at all. She gained weight and especially her neckline and face looked puffed up and with more fat. I would tap it while drunk but yeah she did not age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:01 PM
6

She surely knew he was a drug and alcohol addict when she married him. It’s a bit late to complain about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:59 PM
1

He’s not OP and he’s talking about Amber Heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:58 PM
1

You’re talking about the wrong person, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:17 PM
1

I’m really not ok with someone taking a shit in the same room I’m in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:58 PM
3

however even worse than that is a man who takes risks yet none of them pay off. Nah. If a man is handsome enough, any risk-taking behavior that would cause any other guy to be seen as a loser is excusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:55 PM
3

I’ve never really be successful asking a guy out on a date. You’re either lying or you’re only approaching guys who are out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:12 AM
6

That’s what makes them orbiters tho. Of course male and female orbiters aren’t going to want exactly the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:18 PM
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Not as often as people think. I feel certain that every woman who I’ve ever gone out with had at least found me fuckable on appearance alone. It’s when I show up and open my mouth that I fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:44 PM
1

For whatever reason when I read this I instantly thought of Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:38 PM
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Women don’t choose men for intelligence, women choose them for how she feels when she’s with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:35 PM
2

Same. I was in my early twenties before I believed women enjoy sex. Even now I’m not sure I actually believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:32 PM
10

There are some women orbiters of men. It’s more common for orbiters to be male but I don’t think it’s an exclusively male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:17 PM
1

Well yeah I mean wouldn’t you be disgusted if you found out your husband fucked 100 other women before marrying you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:15 AM
1

My dad’s second wife is a regularly church-attending Christian and I have awareness that they had a healthy sex life at least in their 40s. Just because a woman follows traditional gender roles doesn’t mean she doesn’t want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:14 AM
1

But they don't seem as willing to just come over and smash anymore... probably bc of the trope that fat women put out easily lol Because they can get a 9 on Tinder to smash them if that’s what they were looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:56 AM
1

Do you think liking kinda chubby girls makes it easier to get laid? Nope. I’ve been turned down by chubby/curvy women who I thought were my looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:56 AM
7

After which date did she suck your cock? Who says he didn’t suck hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:53 AM
2

S word behavior lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:48 AM
3

But I thought that according to the women here, men were supposed to be more realistic about their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:47 AM
4

If she got back together with John Stamos then he’d definitely be fucked. But she also gave birth to his children so… 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:38 AM
2

The fact that he was the one who left her also would have left an emotional crater.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:31 AM
3

Some men get Red Pilled early in life and others only get it after half their life is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:17 PM
1

It’s not like they for all married couples. I happen to know that my dad and step-mom had a healthy sex life into their 40s but he got lucky that he married a Christian woman who was previously married to a closeted gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:26 PM
1

I was thinking if she’s blaming him for her being overweight then they should just divorce and get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:24 PM
1

Is the guy in Scenario 1 gay or straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:21 PM
1

Well she’s either a pathological liar or a moron, either way you were probably better off not getting involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:18 PM
1

Wtf is the game here, I know she never responded and that’s such a blatant lie that makes her look dumb Women are fickle and capricious, and like to play stupid games.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:17 PM
10

When did he realize he was used? The moment the daughter said she wanted Bio Dad to walk her down the aisle?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:03 PM
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I’m in my late twenties and don’t know any men my age or in my whole life who were childless and then became a step-father. It is a pretty damn uncommon thing. The few step-fathers I knew were single fathers after their first marriage ended, not childless bachelors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:23 PM
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The men I knew growing up who were willing to be step-fathers were typically older than 35 and had already had their own children in their first marriage. I never knew any childless men then and don’t know any now who’d be willing to get involved with a single mom and put up with the kids. As a boyfriend? Maybe. As a step-father? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:21 PM
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Your friend is kind of a dumb-ass for going full step-parent. Never go full step-parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:18 PM
2

If the ass is fat, you must tap?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:17 PM
0

Statistically most women and most moms are not in good shape though. The ones you see in good shape are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:28 AM
3

The men are unhappy they’re not in a relationship/don’t have a FWB. And the women secretly hate their SO and are unhappy in their relationship because why the fuck would they hang around this sub if they were actually happy and doing shit in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:27 AM
2

There are married men here lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:26 AM
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90% of moms look like hammered shit. My sister’s hairline receded like three inches after her pregnancy and she looks older than I do now. You can’t really have your cake and eat it too with the “pregnancy takes a toll on women’s bodies” card and also “women not ageing well is a myth” card.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:26 AM
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I wanna see pics now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:48 AM
1

I think she also cheated on him multiple times right? She knows she can do better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:54 PM
9

This comment should be stickied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:50 PM
1

You feel lethargy because you’re eating less?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 01:00 PM
1

Doesn’t V8 have added sugar? I heard it’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:59 PM
1

WTF happened to the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:17 AM
2

I was thinking the other day what I wouldn’t give to swap bodies with him and actually appreciate being a celebrity and famous actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:40 PM
2

I’m starting to think all those rants on ask women and twox about “locker room talk” are projection or something. Most men I’ve met don’t talk about their sex lives in detail. It almost never happens in my friend group unless it’s obvious someone hooked up and then everyone just says, “Nice” and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:34 PM
14

Don’t forget that he’s the winner because he’s the one she settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:09 PM
10

Fuck that, the therapy would be a waste of time and money. OP needs to emotionally detach himself from his wife. If he had already been Red Pilled before he got married, he would have been better prepared for a revelation like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:06 PM
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Well maybe if women didn’t piss away their twenties and were ok in investing in a guy instead of looking for a husband at 35, guys could settle down a little earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:41 PM
2

He probably has a really nice face tho. That’s basically why 45 women chose him to be their sperm donor lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:40 PM
1

TBF the donor in the article was only 5’10”, clearly they were willing to be open-minded to short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:30 PM
3

Donor #2757 Kianni Arroyo had to work harder to meet her genetic family. The first person she found was her biological father. Donor #2757 stands 5-foot-10 and weighs 185 pounds. He has hazel-green eyes, wavy brown hair and is descended from German, Irish and Native American stock. In his profile, he’s described as a photographer with a bachelor’s degree who likes biking, surfing and writing. He donated his sperm to pay off college student loans. The women who chose Donor #2757 did so for variou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:22 PM
2

If a girl has 50 dudes in her past that’s 50 guys who may have some probability of showing up again in her life and screwing your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:11 PM
5

I think another factor is the guy finding out she had a wild past and she wasn’t up-front about it, and their current sex life being lackluster. No man wants to have been the guy who married a slut who became a reformed prude because she regretted her past and wants to put it behind her. That’s literally the worst of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:09 PM
4

That ick was probably an instinct on some level protecting you. You can get a lot of nasty shit from fucking the wrong people, even if you use a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:07 PM
5

The talk about things like losing her ability to pair bond, while not entirely untrue I’d be very wary of entering a monogamous romantic relationship with a promiscuous woman. The odds of you being the best partner she’s ever had are basically zero and articles I’ve read recently about marital sex suggest men can adapt to sexual monogamy over time, but women start to crave sexual novelty and promiscuous women in particular seem pre-disposed to that. It’s not a moral thing here, it’s setting your…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:04 PM
4

I think Asian countries get breakfast right. There should be more breakfast places that do fried rice and beef pho soup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:50 PM
4

Uhh I’ve seen the opposite where, in obvious long-term couples, the girl is often a lot homelier than the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:45 PM
2

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:28 AM
3

The one young single woman I know day-dreams of a K-Pop boy band member proposing to her. She watches Chinese and Korean soap operas all the time. The older women I know are jaded af and either can’t get a man or have given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:27 AM
2

Weird that you’re a woman and you’re saying this. It did some good, I mean it got Harvey Weinstein and Bill Cosby put behind bars. But really I think it needs reform. Allegations can’t just be enough, that’s how get shit like this and the Aziz Ansari thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:23 AM
3

Well I mean yeah, the young male archetype of the NEET originated from Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:22 AM
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and if you are not a pretty woman you are screwed. They could settle down with their looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:02 AM
7

I’m average and definitely a couple girls have thrown themselves at me like I’m a Chad were the below-average overweight slutty type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:55 AM
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Did she accuse her average guy friends of sleeping around? I have a girl friend who assumes I’m way more sexually active than I actually am. It’s definitely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:53 AM
1

20 is pretty old if OP has also never kissed or had a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:11 AM
8

What tf does he look like? Generically handsome white guy with nice hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:07 PM
8

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:06 PM
1

Plumber, electrician, mechanic, carpenter, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:35 AM
3

Yeah the Beatles were the furthest thing from traditional masculinity in the 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:22 AM
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like what do you think men should i guess do? like what is a good enough husband? I think society as a whole doesn’t even really seem to know. If I knew for sure I’d probably be doing a lot better. I have my own ideas of what men should do and be but that honestly doesn’t align with things I’ve seen and heard out in the world. Realistically I think women choose better-looking worse-quality men over the inverse because what they select for in men are traits and capabilities that translate well to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:17 AM
2

Don’t threaten me with a good time!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:17 AM
2

Maintain your current friendships and put effort and energy into them. Look to make new friends and expand your social circle. A number of years ago I just took the mindset I should say yes to anything people invite me to. Get interesting hobbies that gives you small-talk potential. Take care of your health and eat better. Take care of the way you look. People who get married and have kids or stay in LTRs tend to be more fallible to letting themselves go. Don’t get fat and take care of your body…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:17 AM
1

A lot of single men don’t have that option and a lot of women would prefer to do it themselves if they can’t get their dream man as a partner or FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:12 AM
2

For women who have a compatible mindset I don’t think it would suck. But they have to be ok with being the more submissive one and letting a man lead. My grandma from my extended family was happy with that. But her husband wasn’t a piece of shit either. It can work but it needs both partners to be fully aware of all their responsibilities and to be giving their 100% for the relationship. I think modern women seem to want everything and society coddles them and tells them that they can have it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:10 AM
1

I’ve only ever met and dated “liberal” women too. I’ve never gone out with a woman who identifies as social conservative but surely they’re out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:03 AM
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This just reinforces my belief that a lot of women would rather date a high-value conservative man than an average liberal feminist lol. If you can make up for it in other areas then politics becomes irrelevant. Do you and your partner argue about abortion and Roe v. Wade?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:02 AM
1

Regular or below average girls can still give you head or fuck you anyway lol The below-average girls make it hard for me to maintain a hard-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:59 AM
2

But most men masturbate even within relationships. I’ve met a tiny handful of women in my life who I’m sure I wouldn’t have had to masturbate with if I ended up with them but that never happened lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:58 AM
2

It’s a covert way of ending sex within the marriage. If the guy wants sex badly enough he’ll use a condom. No guy would go indefinitely without sex if the alternative was using a condom every time. This whole thing is stupid. I’m pro-choice but framing it as “sex with the ability to get an abortion or no sex at all” is retarded. Y’all never heard of condoms, birth control, IUDs, vasectomies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:56 AM
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Most of their husbands are probably not even anti-Roe v. Wade so I feel bad for them. They’re getting punished for something they had nothing to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:53 AM
2

If she’s running her hand through your hair then touch her back sexually, but not roughly. Put your hand on her ass or her hips and give her an “I want to fuck you” look with eye contact. Women can be cryptic but they don’t touch the hair of guys they don’t find fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:52 AM
2

You think pro-choice women marry Republican men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:40 AM
13

People settled down a lot earlier decades ago and women didn’t have social media to distract themselves with. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:53 AM
1

His friend acted too Beta being up-front about wanting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:10 AM
2

SJWs are the biggest man haters around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:24 PM
2

Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:59 PM
1

I think it did happen a couple years ago but I didn’t pick up that the girl probably liked me until a lot later. She was cute but not really my type anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:59 PM
2

I don’t really go out of my way to make friends with women or girls but I don’t see the harm in being friends with them as long as you’re not attracted or hoping for anything to happen. You can learn a heck of a lot about women’s behavior from them and what makes them tick, and it provides social validation. Women will hang out with alphas and betas but they don’t hang out with creeps. Other women see you with them and you look like a viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:57 PM
8

Actually I do know one guy who plays MTG but he’s like 6’4” and an 8. Women aren’t attracted to him because he plays MTG.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:41 PM
14

This. Women don’t get wet for guys passionate about Magic The Gathering or painting Warhammer figurines.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:49 AM
5

I’m thin and I actually prefer chubbier, full-figured girls from a sexual standpoint. I have a feeling tho a lot of women prefer slightly overweight to slightly underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:28 PM
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In summary, as long as a woman is not overweight, they will always be playing the dating game on easy mode. Women in their mid to late thirties start getting a lot more frantic about finding a guy to lock down though. There seems to come a point where they realize not all attention is good and just because they have 100 Tinder matches doesn’t mean any of them want to go out to dinner with her or meet her parents or come with her to her bullshit social outgoings. Women are social creatures. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:25 AM
1

When he’s 35, if he doesn’t live with his parents, still has most of his hair, doesn’t have a pot belly, and has a stable job and car and no ex-wife or kids. It’s a recurring thing I’ve seen on the dating and relationships subs where a 30-something PickMe is upset that the 30-something guy she’s seeing is slow to commit. But that guy obviously isn’t a fat ogre either. But he’s a rare commodity for those women. Women aren’t un-attracted to guys with kids and exes but it has to be compensated in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:54 AM
3

Bald and fat is bad but just being old/older in general isn’t an issue if the guy has a youthful outlook and wealth/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:52 AM
4

Women get more vaginal dryness as they age, and some have an even lower libido. She’s acting like men’s physical ability goes to shit even though there are men who are still fertile in their 60s and 70s. A lot of those guys (talking mainly celebrities and musicians) didn’t exactly take great care of their bodies either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:51 AM
8

Please CMV The creepy guys women complain about hitting on them sure as shit don’t seem to have low self-confidence but that doesn’t translate into them being seen as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:41 PM
3

So basically he was Mr. Average Beta Bucks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:06 PM
1

Ed Helms is below-average in looks but I agree he would struggle with OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:05 PM
5

It causes issues because women are choosing to settle down much later than previous generations and are ok on some level with fuckboys if they’re hot enough. That’s just a fact. There’s nothing that’s Red-Pilled me harder than seeing and hearing women’s dating and relationship stories in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:00 PM
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Find more ways to help people live at a healthy weight without fat-shaming. Obesity limits lots of men and women in dating. Fat-shaming needs to come back for those who choose to live unhealthy lifestyles, for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:58 PM
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Average men for the most part always just took what they could get. There was never this golden age where they had tons of options. That’s true but the way things were 30+ years ago at least average men could get into a monogamous relationship with average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:57 PM
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I’d prefer a woman thinks I’m a hot mess over a reliable mule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:33 PM
3

First option because I low-key wanna feel that kind of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:32 PM
1

I was bored and just wanted to see what she’d been up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:02 PM
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She said the buzz was because her hairdresser fucked up trying to give her an undercut but yeah she definitely lost several points from that and the dye jobs alone. Tbf three years ago based on my haircut I probably wouldn’t have been her type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:59 PM
1

I was horny and she said she thought I was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:54 PM
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Not to be mean but yeah, and she used to have long brown hair. When I last saw her, her hair was buzzed short and she’d dyed it orange and then green. She didn’t look model gorgeous in her old pics but she was definitely “nice girl next door” cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:49 PM
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crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:45 PM
2

Just now was snooping through the Facebook page of someone I hooked up with a few months ago and was surprised to see she used to look a lot better. If I met her three years ago I would have pursued a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:43 PM
5

Very cynical by nature. About dating and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:36 AM
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We all know what the messages to him say lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:25 PM
0

Do you just constantly cold-approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:04 PM
43

Your job? Seems like s bad idea. Especially in a white-collar corporate job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:03 PM
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Some dudes enjoy the process. The 10% who are hot enough to invite a girl over to bang on the first date. I don’t think any of my friends enjoy dating. Because they’re usually stuck at getting a first date and trying to get a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:01 PM
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I feel like I live on a different planet cause most men I know are in relationships or married. Are they 40+? I could count on one hand the number of young men I know who are married/in a relationship and still have fingers left over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:59 PM
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The men here are probably a specific set of the population though. Men in happy relationships or who’ve never had negative relationship/dating experiences aren’t gonna be commenting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:01 PM
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If you’re hot enough, women will never cock-block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:01 PM
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That guy is trashy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:48 PM
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but i wonder if this is more common than men would lead us to believe? I mean sure but like you said the guys are probably lower-class and low-intelligence. The kind that unironically enjoying watching Jackass and Bam Margera.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:47 PM
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I wish I was taller for dating purposes but I’ve never had any girl directly say my height was an issue and I’m 5’10”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:45 PM
1

or giving out your address so someone can pull up and fight you Depending on what state you live in, blowing them away when they step through your door is an acceptable response to their intrusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:49 PM
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Maybe he’s nervous. I really liked the way a girl dressed for me on one date last year but stupidly only mentioned the bow she had in her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:47 PM
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I’m thinking back to when my dentist asked me if my partner notices I grind my teeth at night and wondering if I should take that as a positive that he assumed I’m not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:43 PM
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I’d ask for an open relationship and if that’s not available then break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:34 PM
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Yeah Jason probably won that one. And Olivia and Harry’s relationship is going to be over when she hits 40 or when the kids start growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:07 AM
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I can see why older women might not, which is why it’s somewhat surprising to me to hear that Olivia Wilde is into him. Harry Styles is considered one of the top musicians and singers in the whole world by most women under 30. Obviously women are going to be attracted to that status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:50 AM
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Harry Styles may have money and status but he's definitely not what I'd consider a high value masculine man Are you 40? Harry Styles is the highest value man alive for most women aged 16 to 27. Second maybe only to Justin Bieber.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:48 AM
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Olivia Wilde is a middle-aged mom who is going through a midlife crisis and misses her ho days and being the object of desire to someone other than her husband. Remember behind every hot woman is a man who's tired of her shit. I just looked her up to see how old is she and she’s only 38. She’s still a good-looking woman but she did not age well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:46 AM
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February isn’t even that long ago tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:53 PM
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My GF’s best friend, who looks like a stereotypical cheerleader (blonde/white/stacked), is currently dating a Chinese immigrant financial banker and they met online on CMB. This is literally AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:22 PM
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You're doing pretty good if you own a house at 27. All of my friends who own their own home and have good careers are the ones most unsuccessful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:02 PM
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Aside from these, two - my other brothers are Red Pills - example of attractive men doing low IQ things in regards to women, attractive men can only do so well and will struggle in this capacity. One is a criminal covered in tattoos in prison for drug-trafficking among other things, his current charge attempting to murder his girlfriend - that has always had women; managed to get one while behind bars. He does not have the capacity for happiness, let alone emotions. The other brother has always …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:36 PM
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We don't wanna be inseminated by trash, we want it from our husbands or a sperm bank if we're single and can afford a baby. Idk, there’s a lot of trashy single moms out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:26 PM
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They don't want to get inseminated by a loser They’re ok with that as long as he’s hot. He’s abusive and doesn’t have a job? That’s Bobby Beta’s problem to fix 5 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:25 PM
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Unless you fuck and date men how would you know what they're doing behind closed doors? They’re my friends and I’ve known them for years. None of them are “players” or the type to use women for sex or money, or to abuse them. I reckon most normal men can easily spot the fuckboys and assholes and Dark Triad types from a mile away. It’s women who have the blindspot, not us men. Because you get blinded by the tingles you have for the bad boys and players.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:45 PM
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The mentality I got from my brief perusal of FDS is that there’s a lot of damaged butt-hurt women who got used by hot fuckboy assholes in their teens and twenties (or married a deadbeat) so they take out their rage on every subsequent man who dates them and then they wonder why they can’t get a man to stick around… I literally don’t know any men who actually act like what they describe but I’ve met women who were in the same situation and the overwhelming theme seems to be an attraction to Dark …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:03 AM
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We need Elon to buy Reddit if there’s to be any improvement. This would have been a meme a year ago but I can’t see how he could make it any worse than it now is. I approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:58 AM
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If OP is an Autist but still a married doctor then 99% of your suspicions are explainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:27 AM
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I’ve met middle-aged women who thirst over Henry Cavill lmao. They might not want a 20-year-old athlete but they still thirst for younger men just the same way middle-aged men thirst for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:25 AM
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True. Lawyers and people with a philosophy degree would be able to answer the question correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:16 AM
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Only a male on the Autism Spectrum would answer that question logically and correctly though. Most normie women aren’t gonna think more than 2 seconds before giving the answer they think sounds right. This question basically tests if the woman answering it has a STEM degree or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:13 AM
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I know you would. Most women wouldn’t lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:39 PM
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I’m not the OP, I’m a different guy disagreeing with them. Their take is completely wrong. Unless every woman you’ve ever met whose had a bad/abusive partner must have been as toxic and awful as their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:38 PM
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The “only toxic women are with toxic men” thing is one of the biggest myths I’ve ever heard lol. Next time someone here says their ex was a toxic asshole I’m going to link this thread and ask them why they don’t stop being toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:35 PM
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I guess you don’t understand how set theory works? Do you understand conditionality? I’ve met pleasant women who’ve been with toxic men. I was specifically referring here to pleasant women who’ve had toxic partners in the past. Not literally all women. Do you understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:32 PM
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You wouldn’t and I never said you would, but if you were in a room with 5 other women, 3 of them would probably be open to it. If it was Patton Oswalt in a MAGA hat, they wouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:31 PM
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So most women are with toxic men?? No. But most women I’ve met who have been with toxic men aren’t the kind of woman portrayed here. They’re normal women. In often cases, incredibly hard-working from my experience. Which makes it all the more baffling that they put up with unemployment and mooching and cheating in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:27 PM
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This comment should be stickied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:19 PM
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Nah. Bullshit. I’ve met pleasant women who’ve been with toxic men. Their problem from what I gather is that they’re too agreeable with those men so they let those guys walk all over them. I’d say it’s self-esteem issues, inability to set boundaries within a relationship, shallowness when it comes to looks, Daddy issues, feminism, and them thinking they know how to handle every aspect of an adult relationship without any kind of advice or help or outside perspective. These aren’t stupid women but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:17 PM
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Buscemi would never get a chance, let’s be real. I know men better-looking than him who struggle with dating. Brad Pitt with a MAGA hat would do well. Women in general accept disagreeable and toxic aspects of a man’s personality if he’s good-looking enough. Not you personally, but that’s my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:11 PM
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What do you look like, how do you dress and what do you talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 02:25 PM
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It’s free real estate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:35 AM
2

WTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:34 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uc46er/were_friends_who_are_having_sex_at_the_moment_wtf/ Guys aren’t vending machines that you put sex coins into and a relationship falls out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:33 AM
2

The Biden administration is probably worried Trump will incite another Capitol siege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:45 PM
2

I’m 5’10”, 120 lbs and I’m personally secure with my height but for dating purposes I’d prefer to be 6’2” and it would be nice if my body type was more lean-muscular as opposed to just skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:41 PM
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Nobody is self-aware when they're young. Hard disagree. If you grew up disadvantaged or under-privileged in some way, you have awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:38 PM
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And what her friends are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:33 PM
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A machine could probably compose a better song than a human but that doesn’t mean making music is a waste of human effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:34 AM
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I know enough about women that they want a gyno that makes them feel comfortable and safe during their exams, and wouldn’t think anything of them having a male gyno.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:41 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:18 PM
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Plus lighting. He learned not to take a selfie in a dark room in front of a computer monitor. Dude wasn’t ugly before, he just learned how to game selfies the same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:43 AM
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He got contact lenses. If I got blue contact lenses instead of glasses I could probably go from a 6 to a 9 in face alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:40 AM
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The dude grew his hair out longer and got contacts. And learned how to take a selfie the way a woman would. He looks like a nerd in the first pic but he doesn’t look like an unwashed dslob.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:40 AM
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I’m legit wondering if he sucked in his cheeks a little for the picture. He definitely learned how to properly take a selfie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:38 AM
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Women really don’t like men who talk more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:55 AM
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Women don’t want to admit it but that’s basically true. You can have the personality and charisma of a Bethesda NPC but if you’re good-looking enough and don’t smell like ass it’s not going to be a problem. And if other women look when they walk into a room together it’s even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:54 AM
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I have IG only because my friends have it and to prove I exist, if I’m seeing ass-shots it’s because IG is pushing it in the trending section or whatever, and from Bumble, Tinder and Hinge. If I’m horny I watch porn, I don’t need to trawl IG for material lol. That’s a Zoomer thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:49 AM
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My mom got one from my sister and showed it to me once when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:46 AM
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Not really, I don’t like using IG all that much and IG thots aren’t usually my type. And you’re just one woman lol. But it’s also probably the IG algorithm + young women looking for validation on OLD apps. Unless you’re a man you’re not gonna be seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:44 AM
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The ass shots thing is also basically true for like 60% of women under 30 who have IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:37 AM
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If you believe the average women is getting pounded by every man she sees 24/7 and spends all her time posting ass shots on Instagram I mean the second one is basically true for a lot of Millennial and Zoomer women. Not even just the hot ones either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:36 AM
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You’re dating a zombie?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:35 AM
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The’re literally NPCs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:08 AM
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This is sad… Do you have any idea of the reason why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:02 AM
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Well when does that spell get shattered? Probably as early as 30/35 for women. Because women 10-15 years younger would be getting more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:00 AM
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After all these comments I’m wondering if it’s weird that I already knew exactly where a C section scar should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:54 PM
1

I don’t know any but tend to meet a lot of them when I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:36 AM
2

Why didn’t you bang one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:35 AM
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You’re honestly better off sticking with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:34 AM
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This is what Red Pill philosophy calls hamstering lol. The older I get the more I realize men and women operate on completely different planes of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:32 AM
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Norah Vincent says when she posed as a man men were kinder to her than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:29 AM
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Men at a healthy weight are also fine even if they are skinny, so long as face is passable, arms, shoulders and shoulder-to-waist ratio look good: https://imgur.com/a/AHhMyhN That’s my exact body type. You’re saying that that’s acceptable? I’m surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:08 AM
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I’m actually pro-choice but I think if the woman has all the say, the bio father should have the choice of signing away all custody and visitation rights under the law if they want all child support obligations waived. I’m not a particularly religious or conservative guy but if women want to have a deadbeat’s kid out of wedlock that’s their choice to be a dumb-ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:03 AM
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Condoms make guys last longer because it doesn’t feel as good, so she wants sex with him last longer than it does with you. If a woman wants it in her NOW and doesn’t give a shit if you’re wearing a condom, that says a lot about how much she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:38 AM
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It sucks but the upside is as a man you have nowhere to go but up now. Some people’s lives peak at 20 and then they wallow in mediocrity and under-achievement for the next 50 years of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:36 AM
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I like the whole transgenders in sports things cuz it screws over women and in some cases makes them reexamine their stupid bullshit about gender. Men don't really have to worry about some woman transitioning and kicking anyone's ass. It is pretty funny. Men are better at competing as women than women are. I identify as socially liberal/libertarian but it’s fun watching leftist SJWs eat each other over the issue of trans-women in competitive sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:33 AM
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I don’t think men deliberately seek out toxic women though. Whereas women absolutely do pursue toxic men and stay with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:07 AM
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Virtue-signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:36 PM
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Being good looking isn’t enough for a man to spark being attractive If she thinks you’re good-looking enough, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:59 PM
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Bottom line is: men generally don’t go out of their way to spend one on one time with women they have absolutely no attraction to. Ehhh, depends. I’m open to it if I’m invited but yeah, I don’t pursue friendships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:26 PM
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Yes, and he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:28 PM
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His sex-life with her is probably non-existent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:22 PM
4

It really is mind-boggling. In all likelihood R did end up with his match/maybe even partnered up in terms of looks but that doesn’t mean she sees him as the best partner she’s ever had. If I were him I’d be paranoid she’d jump into bed with the next Chad who acts like he wants a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:18 PM
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Maybe there’ll be an epilogue 5 years from now where R finds out K settled for him or doesn’t do things in bed with him she did for other guys, or comes home and finds her in bed with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:14 PM
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R is going to have his world shattered as soon as British Captain America or another hot guy enters K’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:13 PM
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I definitely mentally filter out women I think I have zero chance with and who wouldn’t like me back. Mostly skinny sun-tanned blondes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:06 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u8li1k/7_days_7_guys_7_datesmy_23_f_experience/ Even Blue-Pilled guys are expressing their dismay lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:05 AM
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Women: 18 to 30. Peaking at early to mid twenties. Men: 26 to 40. Peaking at mid thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:33 PM
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If happily ever after with "the one" isn't an option what's second best? Women don’t even believe that’s possible until they hit their early thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:07 PM
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Your friend is a Chad and a scholar hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:58 PM
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crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:50 PM
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I'm amazed you guys have never heard of this thing called "an ugly face". I’ve met a lot of ugly/homely women who were married. Men don’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:48 PM
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for the men who have sex or who have had sex, do you actually care about getting your partner off or is it not a major concern for you? Yes and I’d wager most men here do… I highly doubt the men who aren’t generous in bed are single for that reason. More often than not I hear it’s the other way around. Girls will put up with guys who don’t care about their pleasure because they see him as higher value and don’t want to lose him. I think younger women especially are more likely to equate looks wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:34 AM
1

Your dad was right. High school and college are like a fish pond compared to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:07 AM
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No but I wasn’t really given any advice at all. My mother has given me bad advice about what women find attractive but I’ve never taken it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:06 AM
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its almost like they're trying to do some type of weird father/son thing with their audience because they never had the chance to do it. but its even weirder than that because they could be teaching all this red pill dating coach shit to someone who may end up with their daughters... You might be on to something. It’s like the male version of women who follow female social media influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:05 AM
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Yeah I’ve had two girls this year send voice notes in our chats on Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:03 AM
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this is the type of guy you think about all day because you were so stunned by how attractive they were. So women definitely do this? Because I’ve seen and heard a lot of stuff out there about “not all women are the same” but that doesn’t seem to reflect the reality that there are guys that almost all women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:02 AM
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Fuckzone > Friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:29 PM
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I care if I think she’s relationship material and has more going for her than looks/sex. If I don’t see a potential long-term future with her, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:27 PM
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Because the women who are single mothers made bad choices and while they won’t say that out loud, they will say their ex was a POS and abusive etc. etc. They want another man to take them and their child on and be the Beta provider while still pining for their ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:13 PM
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Guys who don't want to date single mothers are not wrong or evil or whatever Some of the dating/female-dominated subs would disagree haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:35 PM
3

Ricky Tan dead!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:08 PM
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Watching that video gave me shrinkage. Euuuggh. She looks like a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:42 PM
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I mean 90% of women 25 and under use TikTok and Instagram so even though that shit bores me to tears to them it’s their real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:35 PM
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The only thing women’s sexual selection criteria will select for is for men to be worthless peacocks. Men will have zero incentive to do anything but peacock in the mating game, so that is all they will do. Women will find less and less “real men” and more and more fuckboys. This is something that seems to have ramped up in the last 5-6 years. Just look at the West Elm Caleb debacle. Or any shaming video made by jilted women on TikTok about fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:33 AM
1

My sister has a kid already so I’m well on my way to that. Hopefully when I’m older I don’t end up looking that creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:37 AM
2

Min Pin for the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:33 AM
2

Ok this show actually sounds entertaining and now I want to see it. So they randomly set up couples together and they have things they discover about each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:32 AM
1

Nicer titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:30 AM
1

Really? I need to get me some red shirts…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:41 AM
1

I’ve seen stretch marks on women who weren’t pregnant but I guess that’s men’s fault too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:49 AM
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They probably meant they want a wife from those countries because she’ll be ok with being a housewife and homemaker. Not because being non-Western means she thinks fat nerds are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:36 AM
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🤷 It’s just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:35 AM
6

Are you old enough to remember Hugh Hefner? You can’t be a gross fatty and date 20-something women but if you have some wealth or power/celebrity status then yes absolutely, women will date men older than them. Sometimes decades older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:24 AM
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“Women ignore all but the top 20/10/5% of men but also are just dying to date an old man.” *Older, wealthier/more powerful men. That one’s demonstrably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:16 AM
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AWALT! Expect in poor countries where all the women are totes different and just love short, ugly, socially awkward western nerds. I don’t think anyone believes this. The idea is that most Westerners are higher up the socioeconomic hierarchy so they’ll be able to find a partner in SE Asia or Eastern Europe because of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:14 AM
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OP isn’t successful with women because he’s not a top 20% guy. That’s the end of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:09 PM
6

She wanted the monkey to dance because she was bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:50 PM
7

I’m not interested in being friends with women although I’ve had a few over the years and it’s pretty good when you’re not attracted to them and don’t see them as partner material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:05 PM
2

Yeah. If you hate him then you probably won’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:01 PM
1

Definitely. At the same time I feel relief from being less inclined to respond to people quickly unless it’s my manager, since they can’t come over to my desk directly to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:00 PM
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The people calling him an asshole in the comments section seem insane to me… if a guy was moping about a girl he met once blocking him on all social media platforms that would raise questions but with her apparently not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:53 PM
1

I got lazier and less productive doing WFH and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:43 PM
3

Bill Maher has a podcast where he had Quentin Tarantino on as a guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:42 PM
7

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u3g0lh/got_dumped_and_blocked_on_everything_because_i/ If OP had been a guy, I don’t think the responses would have been as sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:41 PM
1

Pete Davidson doesn’t need muscles because he’s 6’4”. He’s taller than like 80% of men his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:59 PM
6

Very rarely do I see a woman with a male partner more physically attractive than them I’ve seen a lot of homely/overweight women with men who were objectively better looking than they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:58 PM
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I mean people not ending up in a couple because one party’s standards are unrealistic is technically a market failure. That wouldn’t have happened 40 years ago, people were realistic and had sensible ideas of what was possible. At some point something has to give and people have to settle for someone in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:55 PM
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I’d say it’s shifted from richest men to richest and/or best-looking men. And arguably more toward best-looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:21 PM
10

This is a bad idea and you should never do it because once they get a foot in the door they feel like if they are just a little more persistent you'll date them Probably because this has happened IRL and couples have ended up together because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:19 PM
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That’s the Brock Turner type. There’s also the Bill Cosby type who I fully believe have a predatory rapist pathology. You don’t just drug and violate multiple people as your MO without conscious, deliberate thought and motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:16 PM
0

Could just bang them and then say you don’t feel a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:13 PM
3

That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:11 PM
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Until they get desperate lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:09 PM
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I’ve been to dating events and I have friend groups with very diverse demographics. Almost all the women in the groups who are 40 or over are single. Single men over 40 seem to all be taken and most of the women have given up on finding a partner. Meanwhile most of the men under 35 I know are single. There’s definitely a point where things seem to flip and men become more valued in dating closer to 35-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:08 PM
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This is the most realistic and correct answer. Japan is what “men opting out of society” would look like on a mass scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:04 PM
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Was that Dean Norris’s character?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:02 PM
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Yeah there’s definitely a looks threshold for a lot of women where your personality doesn’t matter at all if she thinks you’re good-looking enough. I’ve had it happen to me with some women I wasn’t interested in at all, I was putting in almost zero effort to be flirty or have anything other than a baseline white bread personality and they were still attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:01 PM
5

Like alimony and having a working husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:56 PM
-2

No, because birthing children does not come with a lifetime pension. AFAIK, alimony still exists and if you’re having children out of wed-lock/a LTR then you’re doin’ it wrong. If you fuck things up in your life after child-birth that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:56 PM
3

What about a liberal military man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:53 PM
2

How did she screw things up so badly between her first divorce and her second divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:52 PM
6

Because society is gyno-centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:49 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:26 AM
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I feel bad for their future partners who are definitely going to be punished for the wrongs their exes inflicted on those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:12 AM
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I like how they’re suddenly romanticizing patriarchy in the past now and saying that a woman choosing to date an unemployed bum who knocks her up three times is modern men’s fault for forcing regressive culture on them. WTF kind of insane troll logic is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:11 AM
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It tells so much about the men they dated in the past that they even think a scenario like that is realistic. I have met women like that and they are not attracted to men who are actually men who can provide for themselves and don’t financially take advantage of women. But they’re typically in their twenties or younger, still going through their “bad boy” phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:08 AM
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And yet women here say most women don’t like casual sex lmao. The narratives are all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:57 AM
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Women have no idea what it’s like being a man lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:56 AM
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Because there are plenty of women who do exactly that because they enjoy the attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:55 AM
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Maybe he’s cool with having you as a friend and doesn’t have one-itis for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:54 AM
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And also now the higher-income earners lmao. There isn’t a partriarchal corporate HR office in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:52 AM
1

The aunt is jealous because she’s a lonely fat wine aunt cat mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:56 PM
2

There is a preference among poor men for male children. Not sure why that's the case, or if it's because foreign immigrants are over-represented among the poor in the US. Boys can help the father with labor. That’s basically it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:53 PM
2

I was thinking the other day it would be an interesting situation to pull a reverse-China and have more girls born than boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:52 PM
2

I learned recently that Quentin Tarantino has a wife and kid now and his wife is 20 years younger than him lmao. I just find that so interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:22 AM
3

I wanna hear this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:04 AM
5

Pete Davidson is literally the poster-child for the “chaos goblin line-cook” archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:43 AM
11

If by asshole you mean: being disrespectful, violent, or excessively pushy then most women will not be into you. I’ve dated women who were still pining for their exes who had these characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:40 AM
4

This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:38 AM
1

Would you date your equivalent? Why or why not? I would. But I don’t really have that option lol. On paper I’m a catch and to certain women, I’m their physical type. It’s not that men don’t care about a woman’s job or education but a man who is not in the top 10% of looks or wealth doesn’t have that option. My equivalent would be a very high-achieving woman but there aren’t many of them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:38 AM
1

Eh most of the women I’ve met from Hinge desire a relationship so I can believe attractive women will go there rather than Tinder if they want a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:00 AM
2

TIL the MMA subs are now woke lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:23 AM
1

while women date down I’d contest that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:22 AM
3

It’s also worth noting that Hinge has a lot of fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:39 AM
6

Post hoc rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:32 AM
1

Sure it is. If you only cum from putting a vibrator directly on your clit you probably have a vibrator addiction and need to stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:17 PM
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If she can only cum from direct clitoral stimulation with a vibrator she’s probably broken her clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 05:03 PM
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I’ve seen how easily a woman can go from head over heels in love with you to dropping you from her life like you never existed when a certain image she had of you was shattered in a moment of weakness. This is something I knew that I couldn’t even verbalize, but you’re right on the money with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:03 AM
2

I’m not a head-turner and there’s not that many women into thin boyish men anyway. Idk. I’m insecure if I ever have a problem with my hair then goodbye to whatever sex appeal I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:49 PM
2

I’ve been a Chad to a couple of women in my life so I know what it feels like when a girl really wants it but it makes me feel a bit sad they only felt that way to begin with because of the way I looked. My friend says I look like a discount Timothy Chalamet. If I was bald or shorter or worse-looking I’d be fucked. I’m not a head-turner either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:23 PM
1

This comment should be stickied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:20 PM
11

They like it when they think the guy is a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:20 PM
2

Daddy issues and evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:19 PM
1

Without extensive martial arts training women can't defend themselves against bigger men. Joe Rogan would be so disappointed in u If Joe Rogan was Emperor of the Universe, every man, woman and child would be trained in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. His idea of a perfect world is one where everyone goes to the gym five times a week and is a BJJ black belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:18 PM
2

It is nice that I don’t have to ask anyone for permission to do anything, and I can watch and do whatever I want at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:16 PM
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Men in their 20s are not commitment-minded, Depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:33 AM
1

Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:31 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tvsh42/he_disliked_women_with_high_body_counts_but_being/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tvsh42/he_disliked_women_with_high_body_counts_but_being/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tvsh42/he_disliked_women_with_high_body_counts_but_being/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:01 PM
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I’m a man looking for a LTR and my preference would be a woman with an n count between 1 and 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:08 PM
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I don’t get what’s abnormal or weird or a red flag about a 32-year-old man who doesn’t want to be with a 24-year-old virgin woman. Are people here really that cynical or short-sighted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:02 PM
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Most women his age would ghost a virgin man her age. It’s not that weird. IMO the guy seems pretty normal. He realised they weren’t right for each other and broke it off. If this guy was a walking red flag he’d have had sex with her and then ghosted. Instead he broke it off. It seems like a pretty normal reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:01 PM
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As someone who is new to dating, help me understand, why being a virgin would be a turn off? I’m not team wait for marriage; I just haven’t gotten around to it yet (which I mentioned). What is the ideal number for a woman to have? If you flipped the sexes around here, no one would even question why a 32-year-old woman would dump a 24-year-old virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:58 PM
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For example, blowjobs are pretty much expected as part of foreplay while a man going down on a woman is more “optional.” It’s optional if a woman makes it optional. If you tell a guy you want him to go down on you and he doesn’t, dump him and block him. It’s not rocket science. Women don’t do this because they know HVMs they date can get it elsewhere if they make it a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:02 AM
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If it was that easy there wouldn’t be a million-dollar industry in dating advice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:50 PM
13

OP’s comment is proof against any woman who says, “Just approach a woman.” Lol no there are women who will cry harassment and assault if you dare to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:37 PM
3

I was on an activity date last year and my date went to the bathroom and another woman started talking to me. I think it was the first time that year that a woman I didn’t know started a conversation with me unprompted. It basically never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:35 PM
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What I gotta have a kid with birth defects because you ladies were “finding yourself” from 18-34? Seeing Reddit threads, Tweets and TikToks complaining, “Where are all the good men?” and “Men don’t want to commit” is also eye-rollingly frustrating. So because they chose bad relationships and wasted years of their life with guys who weren’t LTR material, now it’s a Blue Pill guy/Beta Bux’s responsibility to wife her up and father children in less than two years of dating because she suddenly real…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:30 PM
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Those women were using you for your Beta Bux, they’re not lusting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:10 PM
5

This is a quote that needs to be in a book or something, this shit is profound. I’d add that an attractive man who was ugly when he was growing up can still feel resentment that he went through that difficult period.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:38 PM
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You’re the only person on here besides me who’s questioned the results of the survey on the basis of age lol. And some people here don’t seem to get that. Not shit someone’s 45-year-old mother or 70-year-old grandmother has a n-count of less than 10. But no one gives a fuck about that because that’s not what’s being talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:24 PM
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I think most men are worried about the n-counts of the hot women they're extremely attracted to. Pretty much all of those women have n-counts north of 20. I know very few stunningly beautiful women who haven't gotten around a bit. From my experience the girls with the highest n-counts are overweight and/or have a below-average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:22 PM
8

In addition they seem to think we use sex as a coping mechanism for everything. Fight with boyfriend? She's sleeping with someone else within the hour. Boss yell at her? She's sleeping with someone within the hour. Sad? Lonely? Bored? Bang, bang, bang. There’s a lot of men who have actually experienced this. Fight with a girlfriend leads to them running off to an orbiter they keep on the hook for comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:20 PM
14

That Chasing Amy story from Chasing Amy was blue-pill as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:16 PM
2

Women don’t obsess over dick size as much as you or men in general tbh which is weird you would think but all that size queen shit is projection. Size kings should have been the term /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:46 AM
1

Sounds like she could have been your wife if things turned out differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:52 AM
1

Anakin was a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:45 AM
2

So women do intentionally manipulate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:50 PM
0

The Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:39 PM
1

How do girls keep consistently finding the 1% of psychopathic narcissists in the population - and not kick them to the curb at the first red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:34 PM
5

I’ve had arguments with my sister that ended the same way. She’s had a harder life because she welcomed bad men into her life, and that’s the universe’s fault and I’m privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:14 PM
2

I’m a numbers and strategy guy but when I play games I don’t want to be activating that part of my brain. I find anything that triggers the min-maxxing part of my brain starts to feel like work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:11 PM
2

Emma Sulkowicz. Liberal feminist 3/10 chick who tried to lock down a Chad with FWB sex and anal, and when he said he didn’t want a romantic relationship with her she went nuclear and accused him of anal rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:08 PM
2

Depends how old you are and what your upbringing was. If you’re a 5’6” 18 year old and you don’t have good game or a handsome face you’re probably fucked. If you’re older than 30 then you’re theoretically old enough to remember a time when dating apps didn’t dominate the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:07 PM
2

I do honestly wonder if these women are in happy relationships then why are they spending so much time debating gender politics with people they despise on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:05 PM
4

>Implying manlets who are shorter than 6’0” are real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:03 PM
7

I’m playing the remastered Grand Theft Auto games and I’m remembering why men are disappearing into games. I get more sense of achievement becoming a virtual crime-lord in Vice City than I get from my career and 90% of the other things I do in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 04:02 PM
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If he started out today he’d be an incel. There’s literally zero reason for a woman to date a short guy unless she’s looking for a guy to marry in less than 2 years and she’s all out of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:58 PM
5

NYC is full of basic liberal arts sex-positive feminist bitches who crave Chad cock. Like that Mattress Girl chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:56 PM
1

I’d rather be single for the rest of my life than be in a DB marriage. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:54 PM
3

I loved how salty they were about him. His game was so weak too. He makes one crappy playlist and sends it to all of them and that’s enough to get them to drop their panties. That and being 6’4”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:53 PM
2

Fuck, I’m seeing it with friends and we’ve already paid for the tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:51 PM
1

There still are women like this. You guys just don’t see them. I’ve met three in the last year but they were all below-average in looks and social skills and everything else. I know this because they I could tell they wanted to pursue something serious with me and I chose not to see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:50 PM
2

Women didn't want to fuck unattractive/short/fat/bald guys in 1978 -- same as now. Those guys at least had a chance of settling down with their looksmatch. Women didn’t have such an inflated view of their own attractiveness until about 5-7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:48 PM
3

Meanwhile West Elm Caleb was banging a new thot every other day lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:46 PM
2

Is he BP or RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:06 AM
1

To me it’s not the laughing that looked bad (obviously it doesn’t look good), losing his composure and getting teary-eyed was way worse. There’s something not right with him. I’m wondering what’s going on behind closed doors in his marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:05 AM
1

Is anyone wondering if Jada Pinkett Smith will divorce Will?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:03 AM
1

People said that he banged Margot Robbie but I don’t believe it. I believe he could bag her but based on what happened I don’t think he’d even want to. No one can tell me with all that’s happened that he doesn’t want exclusivity with Jada. I’m honestly wondering now if he’s caught up in a narcissistic relationship with her. That’s the only thing that would explain his behavior, her behavior, and what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:02 AM
3

Why would you help your friend if he started the fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:50 AM
7

I’d bet all the money in my pockets she only goes out with Chads lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:49 AM
2

I used to love mac and cheese but that sounds gross af. Canned chicken wtf. You couldn’t cook a steak with some greens and rice?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:42 AM
7

Yeah that was like instant simp alert lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:40 AM
3

Are you implying that women aren't aware that being fat will make people view them as less attractive? For some fat women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:54 AM
1

You can't tell which girls have daddy issues by looking at them. Unless they talk about their ex-boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:55 AM
1

Upper Middle-Class.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:51 AM
3

I believe in that conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:47 AM
2

Holy fuck hahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 03:47 AM
7

Interestingly, the fattest women had the highest number of partners, This rings true with me. The sluttiest women I’ve met who I knew were high n-count were overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:31 PM
5

Because we want to know what it is you’re compensating with. Women don’t get wet for short, bald guys unless they’re famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:30 PM
1

They’re the female version of Betas, Pick Me’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:27 PM
2

Were you talking about me? I didn’t complain about any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:12 PM
4

I think you linked to the wrong guy, that’s me not him lol. We’re not the same. And I’ve never complained about “not being able to pump and dump”. I have complained that women seem weirdly attracted to guys who are selfish either because of the way they look or the way they act. They can be with them if they want but don’t complain that he’s selfish in bed lol. Women will whine about the guy that they’re with but not consider that they should get with a guy who doesn’t treat them like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:11 PM
5

Remember that whole Aziz Ansari scandal where a woman accused him of pressuring her into sex she didn’t feel she wanted to have. It’s kind of dumb it’s seen as the man’s fault for assuming she’s sexually interested in him if she agrees to go back to his place after dinner and she doesn’t say anything verbally about not wanting to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:53 PM
3

Because feels lol. Everything has to be men’s fault. Including the men who aren’t pumping and dumping or cheating/being abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:50 PM
2

And if okcupid’s study is true, that means too many male 3s think they deserve female 7s. Men shoot their shot because they can, not because they think that’s what they’re entitled to and deserve. Men aren’t like women who think they’re entitled to relationships with only the people they find most desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:49 PM
3

How does that make any statistical sense? Some women are just dumb and ignorant and easily influenced. They’ll “have sex” with a man if he doesn’t take their No as an answer and then later complain they got raped. I mean technically yeah but who’s responsibility was it that you put yourself in a vulnerable position where you felt you couldn’t say no. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:47 PM
2

Depending on where you grow up and where you went to school, 15 is either early, normal age or late.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:09 PM
3

I think porn over-use is a bad thing but women also literally don’t seem to understand average single men will go through dry spells of months or years. All of the problems with achieving good sex get put on to men. And then we get these Reddit posts that the guy they just started dating isn’t good at sex because he didn’t last very long or he had trouble staying hard the whole time. I’ve had trouble staying hard during hook-ups even though I wanted to have sex. Although that might also be an em…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:07 PM
1

Meh I think if you have a below-average face but you’re 6+ feet tall and otherwise masculine, it can even it out. Average height + Ugly = Fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:16 PM
1

This guy doesn’t filter at all and doesn’t seem like the lying type, my guess is he tried to move too fast and then she dropped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:13 PM
2

He had some people call him a pervert for something sexually suggestive he said on Tinder which made me laugh because if you read the conversation he screencapped, the girl he was talking to laughed and said she’d be ok riding his face and thought he was cute. 100% if he looked like Henry Cavill or Robert Pattinson no-one would be giving him shit about hitting on so many different women or being sexual in a fucking Tinder chat lol. Whether you’re creepy or playful comes down to whether the girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:11 PM
1

Pharrell would be a 4 at best if he wasn’t a rich talented music artist with style.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:05 PM
2

He’s about as attractive as Pharrell which is not super-unattractive but he needs a personality do-over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:39 PM
1

They ignore the red flags and I know that from talking to several women (multiple women I’ve dated, plus my sister) it’s a pattern of repeated behavior within the same men and across different men. They’ll forgive and ignore things until eventually the man leaves them for the other woman he was cheating with or it reaches a crisis point where it’s not safe for her to stay with him. I’ve heard it multiple times. It definitely has to do with them having a type of guy they like. Almost like a fully…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:38 PM
1

100% it’s lack of confidence, body language, and the way he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:25 PM
5

His therapist did the right thing dropping a Red Pill/Black Pill truth on him. Most therapists are BP as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:22 PM
1

They pick attractive men and/or men with personality disorders that make them attractive and then complain their boyfriend doesn’t make an effort to wipe their own ass or do dishes. They say the bar is so low and yet from women I’ve dated IRL the stories they tell, they’d prefer a boyfriend who cheats and literally steals from them over a guy who doesn’t. Modern women are broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:21 PM
0

I don’t know any men that have this mindset but then again 80% of my guy friends are single. Women select for dumb men who need a Mommy McBangmaid and then complain all men are useless because they choose useless men lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:17 PM
3

They still get into those relationships anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:15 PM
1

It would not surprise me if, at any given time, 20% or more of the women on Tinder have a personality disorder of some kind. Most men come across them from time to time, and experience of them can distort their view of what normal women are like. Last year I met one of the most outgoing/extroverted women I’ve ever met, and one of the most introverted women I’ve ever met, within a month of each other. I think there is something to be said that dating apps attract non-neurotypical women. The ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:12 PM
2

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tqag9e/no_woman_is_like_that_is_always_a_lie/ FWIW I dated a woman last year and some relationship/sex things she told me in person contradicted things she posted on her Reddit account, when she had no reason to lie to me. I think she was a narcissist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 07:05 PM
1

That’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:40 PM
1

He pursued his first girl (my mother) at 26 and married her less than a year later. That’s really sweet that your mom was your father’s first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:39 PM
3

Lol no. By virtue of matching you should consider yourself in their pool of men they find acceptable to date but that doesn’t actually mean you’re just going to skate on into a relationship or FWB. If she gets bored of talking to you or decides not to open the app for the next two months or has a Chad hit on her IRL, you’re screwed. Matches don’t mean Jack shit, 80% of women can’t carry on a conversation or won’t respond, 19% are just bored and looking for male attention and validation up until …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:01 PM
14

I think most women get this dynamic from very young so they see it that way and can't even fathom the frustration and unhappiness being "bad at dating" can mean to a guy. They go on with the "just have some hobbies" "enjoy your friends and family" etc., they just can't see how that frustration can eat your whole life as you see your self esteem crumble before you. They have guys stumble into and out of their life all the time so they have no concept of the idea that someone can literally be sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:52 PM
1

I find this to be the most believable version of events. He laughed because he was preparing to laugh at every joke because that’s what people do in that setting. He changed his tone when he noticed she didn’t take it well. There’s no grand conspiracy behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:44 PM
2

I feel sorry for your partner that you see all men as monsters because you hung out with the wrong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:29 PM
1

There is something kind of arousing about the idea of being with a hot woman who could beat the shit out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:55 PM
1

They’re 200 pounds and have more than one cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:52 PM
1

That’s most Reddit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:51 PM
2

I wonder how guys who believe that Women have it easier but would rather have son's instead of daughters, balance those two ideas? I have a younger sister, I’d much rather raise a son than a daughter knowing the crap my sister got up to. My sister was the poster-child of “girl who makes bad choices” up until a couple years ago when she found a good guy and settled down with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:50 PM
2

Not my type but I’d smash if the opportunity presented itself. Not sure I’d let her give me a handjob though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:47 PM
1

Young Kathy Griffin was pretty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:45 PM
1

It’ll feel better with a man you love who knows what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:09 AM
1

I’m ok with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:02 AM
2

I looked up the guy and it seems she probably knew him for a while and felt comfortable with him. I think she could have gotten a better deal but her time’s running out. She doesn’t have a lot of value to high-powered men or very attractive men. The risk she runs as a 50-year-old woman is attracting men who want something long-term and serious with her, who aren’t going to cheat on her like Bezos did and waste her time. Men her age and status are dating women 10, 20, 30 years younger. She could …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:00 AM
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