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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
281	Porn use negatively affects men's sexual satisfaction in actual real-life sex	CMV	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 07:35 PM
138	casual heterosexual sex is most likely to be a negative experience for women who want to be happy	CMV	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 06:32 PM
49	q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 02:48 PM
21	What's the appeal of women to you?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/21 05:59 AM
21	Consensual casual sex isn't the problem, it's toxic people being two-faced or reckless or hateful that's the problem.	CMV	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 06:54 PM
16	Women don't initiate strongly for the same reason men don't want to buy affection	CMV	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 06:49 PM
15	waiting for sex is not a game and it never was, y'all men know this and you actually really like it	Purge Week!	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:46 AM
14	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:47 AM
13	Men DO have inherent value. Many men are attractive when taking care of themselves, and that's most young men.	Purge Science!	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 02:55 AM
7	Gave you ever pulled the "fake date" joke on a girl? How familiar are you with this trend? It seeks to have happened to a lot of us women based on the thread earlier...		houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 02:00 AM
7	Q4Men what do you think when men lie down about N count?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 03:25 AM
6	man whores are too fucking nasty	Purge CMV!	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 02:06 AM
5	Men who say "men who pump and dump are just dumpster diving below their league" are being intentionally dense	CMV	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 05:08 PM
3	Wherever you are, I love you.	Purge CMV!	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:19 AM
3	Q4MEN who have been in very long term relationships... could she ever get your attention again, and if so, how?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 11:01 PM
3	CMV: men have an accountability problem with all this talk about how they "date down."	CMV	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:37 AM
3	What is your female relative's reproductive story?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 11:49 PM
1	q4m: what if you're the LL partner?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 05:28 AM
1	anyone guess my previous account?	Purge Week!	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 02:15 AM
1	Why the hell have you not banned Gimpboy?	Purge Post for Mods!	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 12:44 AM
1	Do you have an N count double standard What? What inherent gender difference makes the N count double standard OK with you, if it's OK with you?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 05:48 PM
1	Is there any way to reconcile these ideas?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 03:09 AM
1	For those of you who are more experienced, is love separate from sex? How do they relate, without using the whole "I only want love WITH sex" stupid TERPer trope?	Question For Men	houstongradengineer	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 12:39 AM

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1	Where are the impartial women? but yeah hooray for untrafficked prostitutes, too bad i live in a MENA shithole where i'd get physically assaulted if i spoke up for decriminalizing johns and prostitutes No one is physically assaulting you for that. Oh my God, OK I'm leaving this sub again. I do disagree with you, though, being a John is irresponsible and gross and should be illegal. voicing your sexual frustration on reddit is the same thing as banging strangers unprotected in bars Read this sub for a bit, what are you new her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 04:17 PM
1	Where are the impartial women? Complaining endlessly to internet strangers about one's sexual frustration as though one doesn't care how one has sex or who would get hurt is literally a sexually irresponsible attitude. Those men are about one trafficked woman or one too many beers away from being super irresponsible. They're the same type of dude - the type with impulse control issues who don't handle their emotions with healthy coping mechanisms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 04:08 PM
1	Where are the impartial women? Men are more socially allowed, where I grew up, to chase sex under any circumstances. Women have always felt consequences for that behavior when it goes wrong. Men have, too, but they're more likely to say "doesn't matter, had sex." That's an actual song sung by an all male band. How is it more extreme to point out the dangers of such ideas than it is to say that your sexual impulses should never be criticized? Some of y'all never had nieces and nephews or half sisters raised by toxic coparents,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 01:42 AM
1	I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted to See this is a surprisingly honest and interesting take. Is it a porn thing? The same way y'all get off from watching strangers be sexual even unrealistically so, y'all find sex to be an interesting topic to discuss graphically with other people for no other reason than good clean entertainment? Is that the deal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:46 AM
3	Most 50 / 50 LTR's will fail if you are the guy, if you want it to work, you have to exploit a power dynamic Being single is not a torture sentence. No reason to be that desperate. Perhaps you should tell people this instead of supporting power struggles. Fuck, even if no one clearly wins the power struggle to a point of clear power imbalance, the effort itself is too exhausting. That's how abuse happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:24 AM
3	Most 50 / 50 LTR's will fail if you are the guy, if you want it to work, you have to exploit a power dynamic A relationship where one party does not respect the other party, and the other party does not desire the first, is objectively a fucking failure. None of us would want that for our nieces and nephews, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:22 AM
3	Most 50 / 50 LTR's will fail if you are the guy, if you want it to work, you have to exploit a power dynamic You only need ONE relationship not to fail. If you try 4, and one is successful, you could be married by the time you're 28 easily. You could also just stay single. You don't HAVE to do shit. If you've got a slave instead of a partner, you already failed, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:15 AM
0	I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted to Putting a penis in ones vagina is difficult. Pleasurable sex, mutual respect, admiration, passion, orgasm? Yeah, that takes real work on both ends. I feel like most sexually active adults would know this... And if finding a part to stick your part in is so difficult, get a toy. Fuck what other men say, just do what you need. No one else will know unless you are literally such a tool that you can't be discreet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/24 01:13 AM
2	Are relationship worth it? Apparently he is, and he considered the alternative cheap 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 02:23 AM
0	Are relationship worth it? Cheaper? You're delusional. I subsidize my husband's existence as much as he does mine lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 02:22 AM
2	Are relationship worth it? Never heard of a man actually treating a woman in a friendly and sexy way... And NOT wanting her to do his laundry, stay over, pay half the bills, etc. They don't seem capable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 02:16 AM
2	Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating. but still overall women are going to want to date up or at least equal as that’s how they are naturally. Anyone who says men aren't this way is lying. Now, a man might bone someone unfortunate for a few nights like a woman might have some bad first dates, but otherwise we all are human and we want something as good for us as we can manage. Strange to me that this ever became gendered or a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 03:17 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's like saying "give it time and you'll be curious about crystal meth." I mean, sure we all have weird fucking impulses every now and then, but that doesn't mean it's right for us. Some things are too serious to just jump into them on a whim of desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 03:07 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Watching Fight Club for the first time! Brad may be a huge asshole IRL, but he used to look great on camera. I have NO idea how all the red pill little bitches can complain about their dry dicks, or that one crazy woman, or how they have to wash their own boxers after watching this movie!!! In the first 20 minutes alone, I basically beat my depression that's caused by a REAL set of problems and not some misogynistic pity party. So anyway this is a decent Sunday night. Quit being snowflakes out t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 03:04 AM
-3	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? I think most people are average. People revert to the mean. I could be wrong. Is it possible? Highly unlikely. is it wrong to speak of someone this way even if it's true? Definitely. Remember, this brilliant man chose to knock up this horrible woman. That's what makes it even more unlikely Anyone with half a moral compass would teach his child not to speak of their poor, helpless, challenged mother this way. That part is not for nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 02:48 PM
2	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? when I said he was right, I meant he was right about me leaving her. That's not how you worded it. You intentionally added these bits. Hormonal issues... God ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 04:07 AM
1	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? .....? She was sick? How? And even if so, him fixating on the 'young' part is so dumb. My parents would just assume I was going with someone age appropriate no matter what!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:49 AM
-2	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? My mom was incompetent, had poor genes, and just all around is miserable to be around. But my dad is incredibly intelligent. Whoo boy. Wonder who taught you how to talk about your mama this way. Must have been your amazing dad, no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:46 AM
2	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? Hell, I was like 24 or 25 back then too. Dude that makes it even worse I also didn't say I should go for as young as I can. You agreed with your grandfather, who said that. Same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:45 AM
4	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? Half the men on this sub want a "barefoot and pregnant feminine woman." No woman ever had said "you don't need to learn how to cook, I'll do it for you!" And gaining an employable skill takes years after high school, nonstop experience, etc. Learning how to cook is something all people do before high school. It's not an opportunity that is taken away from men, ever. False equivalency. Sure the tone is not great, I guess, but hatred against men? You wouldn't know the meaning of the phrase, or mis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:44 AM
-2	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? How did she take your money? Dates and stuff? I thought y'all got married, did she not have a job and contribute or what? Big guts on you talking about how she wanted to play the field when you are talking about going for as young as you can get like you are somehow different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:40 AM
3	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? Fuccboi, but loved with her and cheated on her? Yeah, that's the woman's fault, sure! /s What the fuck, dude? who she admits she thought he was kinda lame at first. But he was devoted, stable, and hardworking, so she went on to marry him and eventually really came to love the guy Doesn't sound like that has anything to do with your "grandad" being physically weak or unmasculine or unattractive. Sounds like your grandma probably had a bit of a slow time warming up after she was cheated on by some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:39 AM
3	The term ‘Situationship’ is used almost exclusively by women when they are FwB-zoned by a guy above their league I ain't stopping her from replying lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:28 AM
0	The term ‘Situationship’ is used almost exclusively by women when they are FwB-zoned by a guy above their league No, she says they already took the time to juggle several people and to determine that they weren't suited for a relationship before sleeping together. They already managed complications, but the complications were there. IMO, always have been and always will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:26 AM
2	Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill? in retrospect, we both should've listened. How in the fuck do you figure this, and are you aware that it sounds like you've basically sipped your family's destructive kool aid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:24 AM
-2	The term ‘Situationship’ is used almost exclusively by women when they are FwB-zoned by a guy above their league Possibly because sleeping with a guy she likes quickly could accelerate the whole commitment thing faster than she wants, or slow it down? Could be possible. Sex makes things complicated, unless you're putting effort in otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 03:21 AM
1	The existence of the r/sextortion sub proves that men are not the smarter or more logical sex There's nothing romantic about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:25 AM
5	Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice? No, it definitely doesn't happen after sex. My husband was my first. Most of my side of the family is this way, or was when young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:12 AM
–	"The Wall" Another look at the idea and what it really means for men. The oldest French Open tennis champion is a vegan soyboy. He's healthy as shit, and he has been particularly resistant to injury with a very long career. You're putting veganism in the wrong column entirely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:10 AM
–	"The Wall" Another look at the idea and what it really means for men. They hit on them but no one is committing to them commitment is the ultimate goal. So you're married then. Right? Right? If not, then don't presume things you can't stick to yourself. Hypocrisy is a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:02 AM
1	The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women. Your GD title says "dating advice," that is the part that's unclear. I would never open up a serious talk about substance use with a roundabout line like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 02:11 AM
-1	How many women have you asked out? He ain't you, and he's glad. Did you come here just to troll women, or do you have a genuine defense for why you are out here recruiting other men to just fuck about indiscriminately and casually without spelling anything out? Would you not be concerned about your nephews getting involved with someone they regret, if they listened to you? Do you not care for the young men who are listening at all? Or do you just have no idea what you're talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 02:10 AM
0	How many women have you asked out? I'm married, but nice lack of civility you got there	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 02:06 AM
-4	How many women have you asked out? No, I just rolled my eyes at them and changed the subject because I had to deal with the manwhores. You? You I can mute if I want. But you came to this place, you claim how nice it is to take your road in life. You're actually on a soapbox, this isn't some passing comment you made in the middle of a workday. You get my real opinion, and you can mute me too if you wish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 02:04 AM
1	The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women. Really? Did anyone else thing that yours rant about self-respect counts as "dating advice?" Especially when you start out by assuming dating is something NO man should do? Bitch, that's like me saying, "I have some drug tips, don't do them." Does that make any sense to you, even if someone agrees to your premise that wahmen bad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 02:01 AM
-1	How many women have you asked out? I'll take a mental note that "taking the redpill" means slinging around diseased community dick until someone comes along cheap enough that you don't need to ask them for a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 01:59 AM
2	The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women. Well, you made a dumb post with a dumb title, because "have the self-respect not to date" is not dating advice. Learn to write more clearly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 01:53 AM
3	The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women. Hahaha Yeah babe, surely the women you have been asking out will suddenly be asking YOU out if you just stop. There's NO way they don't want you, you just haven't had a good approach! Oh come on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 01:46 AM
8	CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „mysoinist“ or „inel“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself. Hating the people you fuck and shit posting on the internet is not a pretty result.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 01:43 AM
2	are women doing okay? Meh, you caught me on a night where I can admit it's hard. Trusting my partner is hard. Dealing with men at work, and preparing for a difficult male-dominated job, is fucking hard when I'm still expected to do all the dishes and remain the "sexually pure yet super sexy" one. Sometime life is hard. I'm sure men have those days, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 05:05 AM
1	Would an older man lacking experience be a deal-breaker for you? Oh, even living in a rural area might make sense to me why you don't have much romantic experience. I could easily understand this. No, I don't think I consider this an automatic red flag or a problem. It might be a CHALLENGE, but it's not one that's insurmountable I don't think. What you said about support? That makes a difference, I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 02:36 PM
7	What sort of music do you think the girl who would be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you listens to? Tchaikovsky is the best classic composer, hands down. With with your RP flair? I'm not sure you would stack up to such discriminating taste. And I like rock music myself, even moreso than classical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 08:26 PM
-1	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. Most women don't even approach men, the standards for charisma have always been tougher on men. Different standards for yes. From my perspective, I'd this means anything, rude and unsociable men made me feel awful when I dared to flirt as a teen girl, so I assume their "social standard" is for me to be "submissive and feminine," creating this difference of expectations. In the end, it still boils down to common social expectations, which to me means not expecting me to hit on you while also feel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 12:19 AM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. Hahahahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 11:14 PM
2	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. Anyone who manages to impregnate a woman was almost guaranteed to be given the chance to get in her good graces, and that of his children and both of their extended families at the very minimum, not to mention the added career bonus opportunities men have. Yeah maybe that's not "men of the manosphere," but it is a factor real world men living the life experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:41 PM
-1	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. Thank Lilith, you're the real MVP!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:35 PM
0	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. What of your father? He had children with a woman. What was his role there? And what were his grievances with ya mom? We are talking about a compiling of social events and phenomena that are changing the landscape of dating and it’s negatively affecting a large portion of men. That’s what you guys don’t want to believe in. I told you what I saw in my family. I am in my late 20's. I've also told you what I've seen in men you get than me. Very rare that any of them would share this huge social con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:35 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Dismissive? I said "they should break up so he's not miserable from his preferences," and you think I'm dismissive? No. And of course I would say the same for a woman whose important preferences aren't being met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:32 PM
2	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. Every man in my family would be ashamed at the comments on this site made by most men. So no, just based on real life experience in my area, I do not think most men share those experiences. And in the younger generations, the men who aren't so wholesome just... Don't seem to care about anything more than sex in a relationship. I do not think this experience of "women suck" is common to men. However, even the initial comment I replied to implied frustration as a basis for men's complaints about t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:07 PM
2	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. So all women also should be treated like queens by men who deserve to be tolerated, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:00 PM
3	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. Yikes, no I'm pretty sure most grown women know what they get themselves into unless they are literally lied to when a partner says they are monogamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:58 PM
6	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. I'm pretty sure most married men have broken up with at least one woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:57 PM
7	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. When two consenting adults knowingly make things happen, they both need accountability. It needs to go BOTH ways. "Oh well I had to take advantage if you because I knew one day a supermodel would sweep me for my feet" does not take a man off the hook for spreading around diseases to perfectly nice ladies in the meantime. But if the women knew it was casual, well, they should be testing and they should be on birth control and they should be aware of the risks as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:53 PM
0	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. But the men on here complaining about wahmen are not saying "I am frustrated," like an emotionally intelligent person might. The men on here literally say "this is not OK, we have a gynocracy and men are impressed and there will have to be an uprising." There are two arguments to be made, then. "Of course it's OK, your claim is whack and has no foundation. How can anyone even be this dense?" Which I have said, and usually is met with "lol that's not an argument. Yeah, pal, and neither is anythin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:50 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I wouldn't date a dude who is on Insta. I'm not 18 anymore, and even then it was a dealbreaker because I had a life and an education that I didn't want to interrupt for some diseased doucherocket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:28 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm pretty sure the man gets thrown away because he said something rude, which is valid. 15 years, huh? What an exaggeration. But yeah it's better to separate the household than have a miserable husband/dad who can't get his dick preference. If weight loss doesn't happen in 14 years, it might be a bit much to take on for that person. And dealing with the miserable, dry-dicked man is even worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:22 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah, there's a normal way and a not normal way to make requests. Requesting something reasonable that you like out of care is fine, whether that is a nearly trimmed beard or a nice dress. Acting like your partner is gross for having one hair out of place, or for wearing a tube top, is not fine. At that point just quietly break up and don't add to the drama.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:16 PM
1	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. It might be that they don't talk about their casual one night stands or "short relationships" with you? I mean, that would make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:07 PM
3	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. I dunno, I feel like the consequence of social isolation (because everyone realizes you are a thoughtless jerk) and the consequence of having to deal with people you clearly can't respect are really bad consequences. As a woman, I would never, but I guess if I had all of the financial advantages of a man and I had this drive ONLY to have sex without ever wanting to hold another person close and care for them, maybe it would be different? Idk, I hope not because I have a husband and a father whom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 06:02 PM
2	CMV: Women don’t have high standards. Below average guys keep thinking they are average. A sustained 49% incel rate would be crippling. As a woman, we can't fuck a man into bettering himself. Can't keep negotiating against ourselves due to a threat of violence. If whatever is happening is unsustainable, then maybe it's time to come over to "our side" a little bit. Doing the dishes and being fun/sociable doesn't seem too much to ask, when it's looked at by the gender who has been doing this the whole time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 05:58 PM
0	Women cannot understand how men can feel horny for women they don't even like I hate to ask this.... BUT... So why? Why do you have demand for your side job, then? All of that money for something they could get well enough from anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 03:36 AM
0	Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not. I'm pretty sure men can say no, too, but they don't want to. It's like telling me you have no control as a voter, when you stayed at home on election day because you don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 11:16 PM
1	Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not. I'm shocked that not a single manosphere clown has attempted to address this glaringly obvious hole in their "argument." Well, I'm not THAT shocked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 06:35 PM
3	CMV: Girls who do hookups are better than girls who wanna go on a real dates Doesn't it strike you as a little mentally unhinged to be stuck to and sleeping with a guy who may or may not even be able to enjoy ONE NIGHT with you? Because when my sister did that yeah she was very unhinged	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 08:56 PM
1	CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility. Niche scenarios and really bad luck do not account for the majority of people having excessive struggles, especially not for only one single gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 06:37 AM
0	CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility. But women ARE attracted to men and socialize with men, especially in school when men could be putting in effort and settling down early instead of riding some pussy carousel "because they can."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 06:34 AM
1	CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility. here we are criticising men and telling men that is their fault that they are not valuable enough to date an average chubby looking McDonald's girl. I don't think that's what's being said. I think it's being said that average men ARE likely "valuable" enough, and that it is illogical to conflate this "value judgment" with what their social life is actually like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 06:33 AM
1	CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility. How does our bitching affect your perfect life. This, Einstein. This is how. You want to bitch, defend your right to bitch, but a WOMAN'S life is perfect and everything is all about men. Narcissism, bias, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 06:30 AM
3	Is it better to have too many kids or miss the train and end up childless? I think few people that have families really regret family formation and the kind of unmatched social bonding that generates even if they have some regrets about not being about to live out some bourgeoise fantasy life YOU, my friend, are the one with classist and biased perceptions on the issue. I grew up middle class, a house and a bedroom of my own but no cable TV and no car fof me. Parents made some bad decisions (only supported 1 kid though), maybe I took too long to correct the issues. So …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:54 PM
5	Would you date a man who has slept with 100 women? YES! My opinion, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 03:36 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, that feels incredibly invasive for men I know OR men I don't know. I'm literally not into porn. It's bad enough if my imagination takes on forms I don't like, which only happens rarely. I'm in a monogamous relationship, so what feels good to me and my emotional needs and desires are connected with my husband. If I'm doing something on my own, it isn't about a guy or some kind of desired connection. I'm actually happy just having been with my husband. Solo time is just about taking the edge o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:23 PM
5	I don't want to judge but do we now have proof of girls' poor choices? Getting treatment for a problem isn't a red flag. Letting the problem fester is a red flag. Treatment is a green flag. Now, mental problems CAN be incredibly difficult to treat and manage. Pete's manwhore history IS a red flag, but it would be truly hypocritical for the women he's dated to call that out. Almost like he does flock to red flags... And yet regardless of that, he is not a deadbeat dad and he extended a lot of compassion to both Kanye and Ariana. Just by that alone, he's doing better…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:16 PM
–	Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating? :-l Actually fat women almost never criticize fat men, so your claim about this being one-sided is false. Y'all men on ever even will say a man's weight doesn't matter as much, it's mainly height, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 11:45 AM
2	Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating? They literally made it a movement to try and get men to stop being unattracted to fat women Bruh, how did you type this?!?!?! Let me promise you, if women had ANY recognition for their agency and humanity, you would never have said this with your whole chest that "women's movements" are really all about fucking men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:32 AM
2	Q4Men: Why is it important that people agree that men have it harder in dating? "You have all the power if you are a good looking man! Just remember that, be all about yourself, and then that's a healthy relationship!" Bruh wtf are you on? Can I have some for the holidays?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:29 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Q4M: have you ever been hollered at by a group of men from a driving car, or is this just something men only do to women? It happened to me, so I'm curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 02:53 PM
1	If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being weary Haven't heard a woman complain about this in a club environment where women actually dress raunchy. HAVE made this complaint myself wearing long, baggy shorts and a t-shirt walking down the road. don't know if it was sexual attention or not, but it was unwanted attention for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 02:51 PM
3	There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point. Plenty of prostitutes have very low looks standards, and much higher money demands, than a woman just looking for enthusiastic sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 02:23 AM
3	There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point. My body count is 1, so, idk about all that. Not always true. Yes I do want to like the guy, not for money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 12:36 AM
1	There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point. You have your other business to shield/clean your cash income. You don't think you could report abuse without getting automatically accused of something that is already next to impossible to prove? Couldn't ANY rapist or abuser just accuse the woman of that, and have her be arrested? What exactly do you think they would do to prove some case against you? Believe me, I've looked into it more than I wish I had to, and it doesn't seem easy to build a case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 12:33 AM
1	There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point. I would violate terms of service so, so fast...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 12:30 AM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Marriage of 6 years, together 10. Not much experience outside of him, but neither my mom nor my stepmom seemed to ever be OK with a lack of sex at any age except maybe when my mom had her terminal illness. And what "works" for you, to avoid what you say is the trend? I haven't figured it out for me. Maybe staying fit and taking on even more work, which you say in post is a BAD thing, but those things are a lot of effort/hassle on my end and I'm still working on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:38 PM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Didn't ask you. Like you said, maybe I prioritize different things. He's a good husband in many ways and he treats me as a worthy, equal human. Point is you are stereotyping, and from my perspective it doesn't seem accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:31 PM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Both men and women want to be treated at least with equality and fairness. Some particularly bad people are OK with holding self-centered double standards for others which they don't meet. Those people are fucking exhausting, for men and women both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:17 PM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… That seems to be YOUR assumption in the post, where the husband comes in wondering why all of his attempts simply cannot build the opportunity to rekindle sexual connection so much so that he geta frustrated and has to talk about it. You even say this is common, but far from it in my experience. One time, a young man asked my husband if being married means he can get sex whenever he wants. My husband said "yes, that's how marriage works" because I really like being with him and I like sex, I lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:15 PM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… only adhering to your terms would qualify someone for something akin to slavery. OR, and hear me out, it could be an agreement between two people who want the same things? Including taking care of one another when they are sick and at the end of their life, like in a marriage. I actually WANT my husband to be taken care of if I die or he gets sick, and I WANT to be the one to comfort him. Those are as much my terms as they are his, but of course it should go both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:10 PM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Not "necessarily" for your assumptions, either. Mr. Always Right, much? I promise you my husband hadn't touched a dirty dish in the house in 2 years. Not that it would stop me from loving him, but it can get old and stressful if kids are involved and it's bad enough. Usually by that time with the lack of equality... That's the one things it's hardest to come back from in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:03 PM
1	The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another woman Eh, plenty of women are single and don't meet boyfriends but also don't keep entertaining malicious fuckboys either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 11:48 PM
5	The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another woman The whole point of a f-boy isn't that he slept with someone and dumped them. That's just life, and frankly most any guy might do it once or twice. It's that he has made multiple mistakes leading to an unhappy route over and over again. That's what makes a bad dude, a bad dude. That's the negative part. A guy who keeps making these shitty, fickle decisions over and over again might even sometimes be "nice," but he's going to have some serious issues that take time to work through for a long-term …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 05:00 AM
6	Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why? But women don't care about that. Half of us don't WANT to fuck half of a football team. Problem is, even if we have 1 or 2 normal boyfriends, we can't help but be accused of it. It kinda sucks, but our close good people obviously won't be that rude to us. And they likely wouldn't be even if they knew we fucked 3 football teams, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 11:57 PM
8	CMV The Concept of „Male Friends“ as a taken Women is completely ridiculous and if you think logically about it, it makes zero sense, and the manosphere is right about this one. "Would maybe fuck" does not necessarily mean "is waiting to fuck, will take risks to fuck, will commit to fucking, and still thinks about fucking once the guy is also married and has 3 kids." And that's if she even meets the looks threshold. She might be large and/or ugly, or "mid" as so many men on here negatively say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 11:47 PM
1	How attractive do you usually find your female friends' boyfriends/situationships/fwb/ons? Most of them wouldn't be my type, but they're not ugly either, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 03:01 PM
–	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? Yes!! You put that so well, thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 01:58 PM
4	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? More like "how dare you demand that women understand your perspective, while you also can't bear to listen to a woman explain what many other people might want in a relationship?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:13 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think most people tend to enjoy being sexually aroused and reaching orgasm Primarily this is a physical release in my opinion, especially if under the influence of certain visual stimuli. It's not really about the joy. If it were, personally I think it would be done differently and I certainly don't think it would so often involve straight guys zooming in on another guy's dick. I can't seem to open your links, but if you're basically talking about 50 shades style stuff, many viewers got joy ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:11 PM
1	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? Women don’t seem to even try to understand men’s perspective on this. It’s really bizarre considering it’s coming from the “empathetic” gender. OK, here, let me understand. You have witnessed it experience some poor treatment from women. You graduated to Chad status, and experienced better treatment. Despite the fact that this would be incredibly rare for any woman to ignore her own sexuality just to sell out for some "honorable" relationshio with a mid guy, I will believe you. Congratulations. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:07 PM
3	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? It would be relevant because women can love their partners, too. And we wish men on here could believe it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:01 PM
2	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? How about we #believemen? No, because another one if your comments said women don't even know how to show empathy, and men have been told to believe me all the time yet they never do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:59 AM
1	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? And a man having a relationship with a woman is also not the highest honor. Why are you copying and pasting otherwise?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:55 AM
6	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? You've never had a woman in your family share compassion for your situation? I have told this to men I know. I may have even said it on here. But it doesn't excuse how most men in here shit talk women. Not every situation deserves the same response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:53 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread 99% to be sexually aroused and orgasm. That's not why people watch movies, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:52 AM
3	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? I'm a woman who doesn't have different standards, so forgive me if I don't take your word and your assumptions so seriously. Are you sure you just didn't literally find different women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:44 AM
4	Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? I’m not trying anal or using handcuffs unless l know for a fact that I’d trust you with my extra set of house keys. I ain't even touching a man's D at all unless this is where we are at. That's just how it is. Are we supposed to pay for a hotel every time I want to bone? Am I supposed to kick him out before cuddles? Are we not gonna make breakfast and joke around after, even though he's the only guy who heard me fart in my sleep? I just think I can do better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:42 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Same with my hair. I don't like it that much. Might be better if I was able to get more sun and pay for healthy hair treatments/maintenance though. Too poor for that right now though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:26 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men: men will find so many women hot and fuck them and even treat them OK, women have dating it sex life easy Also men: wow she is a 4, I couldn't even begin to get hard, and I'm good at this! Yeah yeah, whatever	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread People don't watch porn for entertainment, though. They watch it for one reason only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:15 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:14 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Every female romance lead I've read has a family of her own, friends, and/or a career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 11:13 AM
-2	Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach. Oh that's funny because it sounded much more overly broad and cliched to me the first 100 times I've seen it here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 05:57 AM
2	Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach. I've never seen a man in the west take a hit for admitting he likes girls. It is very much expected. But it's also expected to respect women, somewhat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 05:38 AM
1	Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach. Men who don't approach... Cannot complain about how much they age failed, because they tried nothing. That is the argument. Don't fucking pervert it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 05:32 AM
-4	Men on this sub need to understand that actually being attractive to women is more important than finding the right place to approach. That seems like a Hella convenient excuse to go through life thoughtless towards any partners, but sure go off I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 05:28 AM
-1	Men don't hate promiscuous women Oh your implication that they fucked was clear enough. But it doesn't make any damn sense for all of the reasons I mentioned, and you never outright stated that sex was had. You just implied it with the dick comment. But sure you don't have time for me, and I don't have time for your farfetched story of a woman simp. So bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 02:58 AM
-1	Men don't hate promiscuous women I mean, they all went as friends and he slept with everyone else? She didn't even have sex at these places? No that doesn't sound to me like dating? Duh? I am attracted to my husband, he is hot to me at least, no he will not be touching anyone else without me dumping him. That's how it goes, is that not how it goes with your mother and your sisters and cousins? What culture are you all from? Even I am from the US, my family is evangelical and would never support such a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 12:37 AM
1	Men don't hate promiscuous women Because it should be a mutual act with mutual satisfaction and pleasure. "Selfish" should never enter the equation, although ideally there should be some personal satisfaction as much as satisfaction for other partner(s).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 11:10 PM
7	Men don't hate promiscuous women But are YOU also sexually promiscuous, and think that somehow you don't "fit" just because rules for your own dick are different from rules for "bitches"? That is the question. I LOVE a man that can turn down a woman who is a bad fit. Not so much one that knocks her up before using that judgment, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 11:08 PM
-2	Men don't hate promiscuous women You... don't mention her sleeping with this muscley guy specifically. But then you say she wanted access to his dick? Which thing is true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 11:06 PM
0	Men don't hate promiscuous women Yike	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 11:03 PM
8	Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle? You asked us about our feelings, and then you wonder why our responses are about us?! Talk about reinforcing MY point. Obviously it's not just about women being advantaged but a small minority of men possibly being the only men who experience real desire. My gym analogy is problematic in that very strongly built women are arguably even more rare than chads. I don't believe this is true about men being able to be desired, and there you go using that Chad word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 12:39 PM
1	This subreddit seems to greatly exaggerate how likely casual sex is to evolve into anything more And I don't tolerate men in my bed that I don't love. I can still enjoy sex when I get the opportunity, my libido isn't a problem. Have you HAD good sex with a random man, without working for it? Yeah my husband did the work, too, but like... effort from my end is OK and helpful when it's worth it for example I also like sex a lot, and he is a caring intelligent man. What does bad in bed even mean? As far as I'm concerned, a loving man is almost totally likely going to do well when given a fair …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:41 AM
1	This subreddit seems to greatly exaggerate how likely casual sex is to evolve into anything more Yes, I can't say that was all that easy for me. And neither has it been to have a relationship that's worth my time. At least make sure it's the best you can have. I DO agree not to press the issue too quickly when meeting someone, but after sex might be too slow, definitely too slow for me. If I was ready for that, I would already be in love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:31 AM
1	This subreddit seems to greatly exaggerate how likely casual sex is to evolve into anything more Choices matter. Always have. Especially for the good things. How did you not know this? Have... have you ever accomplished something important?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:18 AM
1	This subreddit seems to greatly exaggerate how likely casual sex is to evolve into anything more You gotta be detached enough but also interested enough iykwim. It's a delicate balance. Lmao even my sister can't do that! Definitely couldn't be me. I want it, or I don't. There is no in between. I always knew I was capable of more, and it happens by working for it. Good things don't just fall into people's laps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:15 AM
1	This subreddit seems to greatly exaggerate how likely casual sex is to evolve into anything more I have such a hard time believing this, but it might be because of my cultures and religious upbringing or my high expectations. I had at least 3 boys who openly wanted to have sex with me. Like, teenagers, boys that age young adults at the oldest. They were handsome, but I wasn't that into them emotionally (possibly vice versa in some ways). One had a drug problem, the other was a bit racist and told me he didn't believe in marriage. One simply didn't have much to talk about and did not seem to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:12 AM
12	Do women find it very challenging to hear about men's struggle? I don't think your little thought exercise is very helpful at all, for one thing. I don't find it challenging to hear about a struggle. I find it challenging to be told I "live life on easy mode" when half of y'all would never make it through what I made through. I find it challenging that men expect to be immediately heard by the other sex without judgment... when I've never had that luxury in my life. I find it challenging that men have more sex partners than women, and yet men STILL claim tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 04:02 AM
3	If men are so desperate for sex and a relationship, it makes no sense that half of them never ask women out Because the first thing men who struggle to get sex or a relationship are told is to "improve". Is this accurate? We say this online, assuming the men struggle because they already tried and failed. We don't tell this to every 15 year old boy who doesn't bother asking anyone to dance at homecoming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 03:50 AM
9	Men, has a woman ever stepped in to protect you from someone? Women have you ever done or seen this? Oh, yeah I did this one too! Like I made sure emergency services were on their way for a literally overdosing man. That was fucking scary. I didn't have narcan because I don't do drugs or hang out with druggies, but looking back on it I'm glad I didn't have Narcan and have to decide on getting closer to use it. I'm not a trained professional, and druggies are scary. Careful walking around downtown Houston at night, folks. Someone just... dumped him in the side of the road it looked like. Yeah, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 03:04 AM
4	Men, has a woman ever stepped in to protect you from someone? Women have you ever done or seen this? I did this. There was a boy in my middle school being quite literally kicked by a girl while he was down. I screamed at her to get off him. She did. I was much shorter and early in the school while she was probably 2 grades above me, but I was strong and trained. They teach you in martial arts how you aren't supposed to attack people when they are down. It was an instinct. I am a different woman today. I will always value men as people, but I haven't been in that position for a while, and I have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 03:00 AM
1	Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women? If I can't find a partner that is willing to pay for my life I failed as a woman and deserve to die. Worst take ever	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 11:20 PM
5	Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women? Yeah I met my man in college too, we make the same amount and anyone who tries to say "beta bucks" is silly as hell, but I AM an educated professional and I was required to grind. I also have only ever been with him sexually. Not sure why you are keeping the bar so low for yourself as an imaginary woman, I don't think it works like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:51 PM
3	Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women? Always bet all chips on the life you want. Any other option is not worth living. Strongly disagree. Life with a man can be great, so can life without one. Dedícate all the time and effort that people use in a job/career to improve myself as a partner and meet/vet/attract a single man that combines realistic potential with lack of options and just enough morality to be compatible with my goals. Be the best he can ever get from early on and continue to be that while building a life with that perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:43 PM
4	Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women? marketing myself as a good long term option would be like “taking candy from a baby”. "NLOG" yeah yeah, dream on, most women don't actually suck. If everywhere you go smells like shit, check your shoes. I think the issue for me if I was a girl is finding a guy in terms of PERSONALITY that I genuinely WANT to be with. I’d struggle with that for sure. This part is actually true though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:40 PM
5	Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women? And how did you meet her? What does she do? Are you Ivy League? Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 12:38 PM
6	Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of men Umm babe, I have only slept with my husband, so you're telling me I'm not allowed to say men are trash now because I never slept with one who abandoned me? Wow, that feels too limiting. I think I'll prove you wrong! Some men are trash. They can be trash to other women, but still trash. They can be single monks and also be trash. I could be trash. Not all men, not all women, not my husband, but definitely some humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 01:47 PM
3	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. Some men can be boring at conversations. Most educated ones aren't, though. Just my opinion. Helps that I'm willing to hold up my part most of the time. My biggest question was about your age. Folks in school, folks who are of age to do many social activities... they will usually learn on their own about how to socialize with women in similar ways to men. I have worked with men before, and while it is weird with some of them it is usually not much different than working with women. Romantically,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:20 AM
0	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. The title said things I've seen before, and frankly does not well match the body. In the context of this sub, where I have heard many such things as the title before, someone needed to hear my criticisms. I don't consider it a personal attack, obviously. I made a very valid, needed point and asked for some more clarifications. You might want to pause reading too and make a bit of a fine point if you kept on hearing your gender be dehumanized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:15 AM
8	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. I genuinely feel like a lot of men in the manosphere have not given any deep, independent thought to women in relationships as full people. I have gotten too used to seeing it on here, I suppose. Too many things start to look a certain way. You do have my apologies for my assumptions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:13 AM
0	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. I try not to be a liar, even online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:08 AM
1	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. Honestly no, not until after haha I mean, I get it, sounds like you get a lot of dry convos. That can be draining. I try not to do that to people, but I'm sure I do sometimes. I have a lot of people I talk to with similar or common interests, and we usually talk fine. At least I find that folks will ask questions or smile or be nice. Romantic interest, though? I stand by my first comment. If course people shouldn't try to force something that doesn't align.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:04 AM
8	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. Breaking fucking news: women are people, and people have their own personalities, needs, and life paths. How old are you? And why are you here if you never even got that far in considering what interpersonal relationships are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 04:01 AM
–	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Extreme responsibility? Not fucking women who fall short of the mark for commitment or motherhood gets men taken advantage of now? What the fuck have you been smoking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 10:40 PM
–	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? They have some, stop denying it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:46 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Sex requires consent from multiple people. Being a bad parent is entirely in a man's control, actually, not just the woman's. Unilateral my ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 03:18 AM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Eh, that dude may have at least been above the level of online bitching. Most are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 02:18 AM
2	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Many people try their best to that and still divorce. Those people still have lives. Hell, sometimes sex protection fails. Abortion isn't for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 12:33 AM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Men have rights when it comes to adoption... hey have all sexual and reproductive power, fuck it up, and still expect men to fix their shitty lives for them. No woman "expects" a man to come and fix things just because some single moms are open to dating, SMFH And men have at least some power. Use it. Jesus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 12:19 AM
1	Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youth Depends on what it is? "Women live on easy mode" is absolutely untrue. Half of the things men say won't help their situation at all, so yeah it's better for everyone if they shut up or at least keep this in private conversations where it's more relevant, more helpful, and less general. If men actually WERE helping themselves, we would have a different conversation, but no the manosphere does not do that. I would sooner take a bullet than have my nephew be taken in by the BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:16 PM
1	Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youth women just want men to stop talking about the problem because they're benefitting from it. You think women are benefitting from men not talking about their problems? Because talking about the problems... fixes them somewhat? I'm not sure I agree. The issues are not that simple. Furthermore, it should be easily understood why women pipe up. You must admit that, on this very sub, you have seen men say the phrase "women love on easy mode." You have to know why we would have an opinion on that. It i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:12 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Older people are more likely to indeed have dependents to take care of, and early dating doesn't involve folks' children anyway. My closer cousin's boyfriend knows her kids. He buys them gifts sometimes. He's nice to them, and he has the money to be kind this way if he chooses. That's as far as it goes, they don't live together or anything as the minor ones still need stability. But since they were dating for several years, of course he met them. Just not in the first month probably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:04 PM
2	Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youth The manosphere knows the transaction that took place and women will deny it till they're blue in the face. I know these things exist, but that's not the case for most old men line cooks asking out the young waitresses and you know it. No woman lied to you and denied it. I can't even with this level of ignorance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:02 PM
3	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Usually yes. Just like usually people should date in their age range. But if 2 people wanna date and they get along and everyone who knows them thinks they are happy, I'm not gonna complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:01 PM
4	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? And women make investments, too. Protect yourself from big evil all you like, but then you wouldn't be the man who is serious, would you? And men who make investments can fuck up later, as can women. It happens. Your biases can't refute that. At least see the reality, or you won't be protected from anything and neither will your nieces if they are taught slanted falsehoods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:50 PM
12	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? No trailer trash woman is bothering you as a potential good future father. Don't act like that is the case. Some middle class women, like 2 of my cousins for example, have children whose fathers are present and were in a relationship for a long chunk of childhoods. However, they are single now, and you would be as biased as you are uninformed to try and just ONLY the women for that relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:41 PM
1	Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youth No one has said older woman don't struggle though. And no one said men don't struggle though. We just said y'all don't struggle so much more than us. when men point out that its going to be a lot harder and you should secure a good guy now, they're ignored. No, you are not ignored. Your words are taken for exactly what they are. We know what our options are. We know if we even have the option if a good man we want, you don't. We know if we are straight or gay, you don't. We can make our own choi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 09:39 PM
-1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Aww thanks bb	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 08:03 PM
29	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? men as a whole do not want to undermine the importance of fatherhood or of a woman choosing the father of her children carefully. Then perhaps men as a whole should be more careful about their sperm? The manosphere way too often forgets that men, too, have a choice in their sex partners and in how the next generation is cared for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 08:02 PM
-2	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? If a single mom offered herself to the type of loser jerk that bitches about women online... those men would be punching way above their weight. Although I suppose, in a sense, you are right those men have not been trying too hard for ANY woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 07:42 PM
1	The main reason why women should never make the first move Obviously I don't think that's a good enough reason, for most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 06:15 PM
6	Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age. I'm confused. These women are doing well besides dating, and on par with the men? Why the fuck is anyone calling them high maintenance? Because they don't seem happy with repeated ONS? Can you see a problem with that? Why are you saying it's correct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 01:12 PM
3	Just because older men are doing better than younger men , it doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your youth Just because younger women are doing better than older women doesn't mean it's not a problem to struggle in your old age. See how that works? Yeah, yeah, everyone has problems. Even today, our whole society has extended adolescence. It's hard. That doesn't mean you get to overgeneralize and trash women online without being called out. We all have problems, part of life, some reactions are uncalled for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 01:08 PM
0	The main reason why women should never make the first move Why would someone want a guy who thinks she is ordinary but he is attractive? Even if it were true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 10:52 PM
1	Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience? So even inexperienced women often find themselves choosing the experienced guys. I understand where you're coming from. Even though he told me he was a virgin, this happened to me. Many men might reduce my decision down to him being attractive, and that's one side of the story. I married him, of course he is very attractive to me. I do feel like men miss the other side of the story, though, where some attractive and inexperienced men basically turned me down or when I turned down good-looking, e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 11:20 AM
1	The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girls "Women of all ages are just generally bitter toward men, especially old men...and it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with envy." That is copy and pasted from you. Comprehend deez nuts. I mean look how triggered you just got and you didn't even understand the question! I told you facts. You assuming some sort of feelings is biased and fallacious. I simply do not feel attraction to old age, as most people also do not. It is something we learn to appreciate when there is a deeper love. The …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 04:15 AM
2	The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girls We truly don't like like old men... because we are bitter? And you're sure it's that? You're sure it's not the saggy balls, the balding, the patchy white beard, the beer belly, the smell? All of that shit is inherently gross when it's not developed throughout years of a relationship with a man I have other reasons to love. Is this fucking news to you? Do we women need to be much more militant online about our sexual attraction, like men are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 04:05 AM
1	CMV: Women would be best suited in a society where women who the ones approaching men for relationships. My husband managed to overcome his cowardice though. And given the other things I have to put up with, that became a fair enough pre-req.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:48 AM
2	CMV: Women would be best suited in a society where women who the ones approaching men for relationships. 100%!!!! Well, that OR a very cruel rejection. I'm sure that last part comes with a certain type of privelege, which I am OK acknowledging... As long as I'm not basically told I'm living life on easy mode with my own concerns being dismissed. Oh... wait... not gonna happen any time soon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:46 AM
3	Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience? We're not. We are turned off by people who have experience that is totally incompatible with our own. Women with limited experience like myself hoped for men like you once were.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 11:15 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The other commenter is right. Many men with high body counts are way too into drugs, alcohol, and other bad things. They're not that great of men, and the women who choose them are bottom of the barrel themselves. I don't know why so many other men are blind to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:33 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread A more understandable mistake for her. I personally am very, very against pressuring others. That's just my values, or arguably my personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:01 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's a little more understandable when you realize women have to go through the age of like 22 before marriage is reasonable, and almost no guys are really waiting until marriage. Some aren't assholes though. Shame the one she got seemed more like a true asshole at the end. If you feel like you're fighting too hard... maybe you also have a problem. It shouldn't be a fight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:37 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thank you for this, literally	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:29 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? No u r false	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:26 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Seeing as how you travel for work, I get that for you. Sure it works for some people. But like you said, maybe some birds don't actually suck and some people from those places aren't blind. Russia? Really? Dunno man, I would definitely find it insulting if my son told me he specifically idn't feel like dating where he and I are from, but that's your business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:37 PM
0	Do you think it's possible that some couples divorce when they shouldn't? Possibly, but rarely even so. It's not going to be a decision made lightly. There would have to be a reason, a real one that is super challenging to fix, and we can't make our partner do their share of the fixing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:15 PM
1	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… No one asked you to give standing women an ovation though. Shutting your mouth would have worked fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 07:11 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? surely it must be normal weight men who are fed up and leaving I wouldn't know or care, to be honest. I don't think it's truly happening as much as it is really hateful online blustering. Only guy I knew who was a "passport bro" was an old guy with white hair who brought a wife back form the Philippines. Cringe, wouldn't want that for my daughter, but not my business. Yes he was a normal weight but he wasn't a young, cute guy that ought to be starting a new family. He should act his age, if I wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:58 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Statistically speaking, yes that's what's going on in the economy right now. More and more people ARE giving with family, and those who can't are paying way too much in rent. I only wish it was a joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:57 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? saying that you “pay your own way” is a yellow flag. Not because that’s bad, but listing that upfront implies that is the best thing you bring to the table. Kind of like if a guys tinder profile only read “I’m a nice guy”. I'm married and not trying to date, definitely not you, all you need to know is I'm not a burden and I am working very hard including getting back into shape despite my shitty culture. If it's easy to find someone anywhere, so many people would not solely choose Poland. And mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:45 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? I think men should never marry, because it's a dupe. At least in America. You think much to generally for all other men. You think fat guys are pulling women in foreign countries? Lol. No, I think fat guys stay in the US as do most successful guys as well, and to advocate against that is weird as Hell and most men seem to be fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:41 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Outcompete... how? I keep hearing men say this, but what I DO NOT hear is any of my European cousins slobbering over the thought of an American.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:39 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? The average Joe is paycheck to paycheck, especially a young single guy. You seem out of touch. Unless you're expecting dudes to be old...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:18 PM
1	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women That's all well and good if you are 28 dating 23 or something. More power to you. But, if you ruin those relationships time after time, 28 year olds will not see 28 year olds as losers anymore. You, at 33, will just be less hot. Even at 23, most men my age and even above were losers but I was not willing to dumpster dive for something with lottle potential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 05:06 PM
2	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women And she might be wrong. That's her choice to make though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:56 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Not only are they not virgins, but the average bodycount for this woman is 7+ That is lifetime count. Not just 25. Many people divorce or become widowed. Also many American men are fat. It's a culture thing, and one I don't imagine many hot, fit eastern European or Asian women would appreciate. Being sexually open is also cultural. If you were raised in NYC where sex is normally not a big thing, it ought to be just normal to you as well. I was raised in the south, it was pretty important to me, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:55 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? I'm not ashamed to tell my wife that she's more attractive than the women whom I could attract in my own country. Wh... what?I mean, how does that even WORK? We all have someone who is the most attractive and the best fit, but for that to depend on someone being raised differently than you... that could be a symptom of a problem, or at the very least it can lead to a problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:49 PM
0	Thoughts on Passport Bros? We all had geography in 10th grade, babe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:43 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Right.. the men who can't afford to leave, the men who are clearly not as unhappy as you are... you're protecting them... Get a batter argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:41 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? It was a man who posted this question. It takes a man being creepy first for someone to even make a post, and believe me the women do not want them to stay. WTF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:39 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Because dating is easy enough for them to get married, but long term relationships are fuckin hard. Divorce impacts women, too? Men can be at fault, too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:38 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Why not date someone who understands the culture where you grow up? What is so wrong with me, as an American woman? FWIW, yes I am fat, but I will be joining the Navy myself within 6 months. I'm sure you met women in the service, too. I am working fucking hard, and I pay my own way. What's so wrong with that? And how, as a practical matter, it THAT much easier to find someone in Poland? I would think they not only want their culture understood as well, but they have standards. Polish men are hot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:31 PM
1	Thoughts on Passport Bros? Actually most same country couples date within their class, not significantly poorer. Dating someone from another country, even if not poor, is a vast chasm of difference to overcome even for couples that click by chance. But to CHOOSE to travel outside of the country, SOLELY for women... That's extreme. Just like dating out of one's socioeconomic class is extreme, but traveling for romance would be even moreso. A man who cannot accept his own culture is, by definition, an outlier. Most men here…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 04:27 PM
2	If you were to move in with a guy that makes significantly more than you, would you be okay with splitting household expenses roughly 50/50? No, I wouldn't be OK with that at all. And that's exactly why I no longer expect a man who is a millionaire to marry my broke ass. If a man is sleeping in my bed, especially every night after night living with me, he becomes family. The way I was raised, spouses do not have separate retirement accounts and separate food budgets and separate levels of vacations from spouses. I plan to make more than my husband as soon as I can, but he's still going on my adventures with me and he will be taken ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:54 PM
1	If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with? Because many young boys are exposed at age like 11 or 12 when their brains are incredibly vulnerable, for one thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:16 PM
1	What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year? There are many people like myself who consider prostitution often akin to rape. After all, trafficking has also existed, and you mentioned what marriages used to be. There is a reason these terms are used to separate these acts from, well, pleasurable experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 02:12 PM
1	What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year? And yet sex with consent is so markedly different from other penis-vagina action that laws are made with the differences in mind. As you've said, there's a word for it, it's called rape, and we can use language in modern times to mark the huge difference. There are horrible rapist men, and a few women, in the world. It's a thing. We all know it. We can't change them, but we don't need to identify with them either just because they touch genitals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 01:46 PM
2	What's wrong with average men? I would say, on average, most young men are a little easy to bed, unambitious, and antisocial for my taste. On the other hand, I don't consider myself average. I'm sure, for plenty of average women, there's nothing wrong with many men. It's a matter of two people who are flawed in ways that work together. Parents, and older mentors, probably do not talk quite enough about the fact it's not supposed to be easy to find. It's not supposed to feel unnatural, either, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:59 AM
2	What's wrong with average men? most thoughtful men feel the same about average women they might or might not date. I do anyway. It's not a clap back. It's the truth. So why aren't you holding all of the absolutely troubled dudes in the manosphere to this standard and explaining shit to them? They need it, but they're getting it the wrong way. I'm a woman, so it's not my place online for strange men, but you could maybe explain this to many men on here...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:53 AM
4	What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year? Men can have sex whenever they want. They just have to pay for it Eh, that's not sex, is it? Sex is fun, mutual, intimate. Sex is not a dick going into a pussy. There just more to it. I can't explain it to the minority of men who don't get it, though...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:44 AM
1	CMV: Just because a wife works the same hours as her husband doesn't make it an equal contribution Do not marry someone to tell them their time is worth less than yours. Even if you are a capitalist pig who strongly believes such notions, you should NEVER even marry into such a circumstance. Become a monk, go make all of your own money. Even if technically the household gains very little, society needs workers of all trades and levels. Capitalism is actually a failure, but even the stupidest capitalist knows not to marry with this type of attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 03:41 AM
2	Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorce I think men tend to make these types of relationship decisions much quicker than women do, even if they slow it down for caution's sake. I always believed it, and at one point I found some stat to back me up. It's fine to have that sort of standard for the physical atttaction, in fact I think I understand your point very well. On the other hand, I think a group hang out or something sort of conversation can help set up some further standards and weed out some boring dates. That's my personal tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 04:13 AM
1	Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorce Very high bar is fine, but honesty many women are great. Most men do end up finding a very good marriage, or at least one. You mentioned the legal system, and that is going to depend upon some specifics, so that part is up to you. For me, as I was young and in the US when I found love, it made sense to marry legally for both of us. To be perfect for me, the woman only has to be cute enough that I immediately want to have sec with them Lol what? From there it is all about her intellectual and emo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 04:05 AM
1	Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorce I just said special. I can't tell you what that means to you. So, what then? You meet someone a little special, then trash it? Don't try to build up the bond and water the grass where you want it to grow? Damn, I dated men and I like dick. If I found a man who was a little special... I'd work with that the absolute best I could. Met a few in my day. At least I admit they exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 03:52 AM
1	Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorce I mean, my husband was 19 when we met. His mom cooked for him. He has a good palate for healthy food, never impacted his weight. I didn't know she planned his lunches. Why would I have asked that? but because they are who they are, and didn’t change throughout the marriage, and women want more and more over time. This is true to an extent. My husband hadn't changed... too much, anyway. But I am learning more after I lived with him. We share finances more. We got together when we were flat broke.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 03:42 AM
2	Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorce Yes, only marry if you find someone special. A little weird to assume that special women basically don't exist, especially to you, but go off I guess. You know best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 03:36 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean, I'm NEW. Of course I need to learn. I can't get licensed until I train. I wouldn't feel fucking bad about it if one of the old white men in the field would actually take on that responsibility, but no I guess we can't have that. Whatever. I'll figure it out like I always do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 12:09 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Umm no, I didn't get the job, so no diversity wave. Thanks. The job I did get is menial compared to what I can do, but I just passed probation and I proved myself good at it. So no, you can accuse me of many things, but not that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 12:04 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread don't really think what anyone says here should factor in anything that you do does hard work justify some unreasonable standard if that's what you're implying. I'm outright stating that I don't have to justify myself to anyone when I'm serving my country and making serious sacrifices. No justification is required, and yes, no other opinions need to be considered. I'm a pretty reasonable person, and I always endeavor not to be rude. I would never act entitled to some big, strong, strapping Navy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 07:01 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread but more than that I'd have thought the former makes more money no? Yeah, so I am certified but none of my efforts have yielded this great paying job yet. I'm sure there are several reasons, but seeing as the percentage of women in my particular interests is so low, I can't help but feel that has worked against me too. So now I get to join the armed forces. Y'all want this half form of equality, cool, just know that when I'm serving my ass off I will have earned every single bit of pickiness I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:48 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hmmm. Wonder why. Actually don't tell me, bye lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:32 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread They are, hence why we don't actually live in an equal world, and why men's focus on women's sexuality "catching up" kind of makes me want to vomit	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:31 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Accepting to work with me, percentage of engineers, and used to harass women sometimes but at least that seems to be mostly better in Cali. I don't have solid stats for most of this, just my experience. We could maybe blame age and the economy, too, I guess. Plenty would argue with me that young men have it just as hard or my level of skill sucks. Well, I'm busy equally paying my own bills and I took out the loans to learn what I could in school, so I don't know what more could possibly be expec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:27 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread To say it or to like them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:20 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Should be obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:20 PM
2	The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people" Talking to someone as a woman... is talking to them as a regular person. Even if it's not the same as taking to them as "OTHER' people. Women are regular people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:20 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread We live in an age of equality but the male engineers whom I made every reasonable attempt to work with collaboratively have not caught up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:18 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Actually you didn't say you like them....	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:17 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Now do women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 06:07 PM
1	Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attraction I've never dated as an older woman. I cannot say, only that I would rather not date a much older much. Yes, I used an extreme example. And you've illustrated my point perfectly, indeed. It's not that money makes a woman OR A MAN more sexually attractive. One with a little less money will do fine, but a little experience and status and life and intelligence will matter compared to not having any for sure. I can't think of a worse match than two people at different life stages. It's not like a man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 04:18 AM
0	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? Great now tell that to women instead of crowing on and on about how the wall makes it less likely for a woman to find a good, exciting relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:14 AM
1	Yea it's true that wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women but this has nothing to do with attraction I don't know. Your average wealthy man is likely going to be decently smart. You don't think he'd get bored by someone who isn't equally smart? You don't think they'd be viscerally disgusted by trailer trash? I feel like these are valid points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:10 AM
1	Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had? I grew up with a very present father who is 6 feet tall. I don't fetishize tall guys. I'm embarrassingly short myself. With that being said, a man who knows how to fight and shoot and a man who defends what he values is non-negotiable. My caring father would have it no other way. I was just thinking earlier of the shorter man who protected my when I was little. I think he grew to be 5'7'' or 5'8'' as an adult? I don't know. I don't carry a measuring tape for men. But he was in track and field, g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 03:05 AM
0	I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big deal i'm a dirty commie tho so i blame capitalism, natch. Based AF take the commie red pill. I am inclined to agree tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:28 AM
5	I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big deal Don’t you respect men enough to believe the words that they say? Ummm, THOSE men? The ones who say problematic shit online and harass me? No. Belief in someone's judgment is earned. My husband, however? Yes. He said he doesn't want to do more or socialize more, OK great. Unless he is exhibiting unhealthy behaviors, then I'll believe he may indeed be taken care of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:20 AM
4	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? No one is owed anything. Choices can be made, and those have consequences. Like sex without even an orgasm or anything positive at all that just ends in nothing but being tossed aside without so much as a friendly conversation... well, that is what it is. It happens, and I'm unsure why you want me to pretend that I see how it's truly positive for women. But in the end, that's their call and their decision. Orgasm for the man, and not for the woman. Objectively not equal. Happens more often in ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 01:09 AM
0	Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed? This is the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:49 AM
6	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? Both individuals benefit from sex and Isn't that up to me to decide in my case, and everyone else in their case? I know for a fact there are offers being made for sex that I would not benefit from. That is my call, thank you very much. neither is obligated to provide a relationship or even friendship afterwards. Never disagreed. Plenty of men have tossed women like cum rags. Occasionally a woman has done something similar. Sometimes people split for good reasons. On the other hand, if it happens…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:48 AM
1	Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed? I don't know if "less emphasis on looks" is the right way to put it. We still like an attractive guy importantly, but we recognize that attractive for 50 is different from attractive for 25. My sister absolutely did not start going for ugly guys, and I could be 80 and I wouldn't do so either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:44 AM
2	Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot. The ones who weren't into me were so very mean in high school, I honestly didn't want to bother to keep up. A few handsome guys from my teen past reached out to ME much later. Accepted one on LinkedIn because he was previously nice enough, ignored the other on Facebook because he was very not nice and newly single and based on context I'm sure wanted to bone. So, the jerk is now a single dad and must still be super promiscuous. The reason I rejected him in high school never changed. The other gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:37 AM
1	CMV RP Guys that claim that beeing Romantic is simp behaviour have Zero Life experience and they should touch grass. link But it's not a joke. Some men on here do actually say rather dumb things like all marriage is a scam and all women are burdens and all men really really really just need and want sex. just ask u/workaholiconew	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:16 AM
0	CMV RP Guys that claim that beeing Romantic is simp behaviour have Zero Life experience and they should touch grass. I could honestly care less if guys wanna buy their girl flowers or telling her how good her outfit is RP is a strategy. Would YOU be a loving partner ever? Without any feelings involved, do you accept that it's a good strategy for some situations? As far as I can see, TRP does not. In fact I recently had a man on this sub tell me all women are burdens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:09 AM
10	For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”… I think I disagree. If my husband was a bad listener compared to literally everyone else in my life or something, that's an issue all on its own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:03 AM
7	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? Men can’t simultaneously be the gender that’s desperately trying to settle for anything in a skirt, while also being extremely picky and only focused on a small subset of women (The latter just seems like projection and an imitation of common male critiques of women tbh.) Let me explain the counter-argument usually goes more like “but how many women are actually going to be viewed as too ugly to fuck by literally all men?” Yeah being fucked and then tossed like a cum rag is a pretty easy thing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 12:00 AM
-2	For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”… If it is true, you'll have to evaluate that. But if you don't have any real evidence and things are actually good, I wouldn't tirelessly look for some unfixable problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 11:51 PM
-5	For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”… If you are a big enough dick, no you kinda can't just undo that... Furthermore, worrying about what you CAN'T change is even sillier than worrying about what you can do better. Decide early on if the things you can't change are good enough, quit worrying, and if things change later then roll with it. I can't turn myself into a skinny Asian model either, I'm aware. I can't let it mess with my head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 11:50 PM
8	For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”… You actually think a woman can find someone to listen to her, give her gifts, have more interesting conversations... and that won't lead to her neglecting you? Because she won't be your emotional tampon anymore then either. She won't bake you cookies. And I guarantee you, whether you admit it or not, your girlfriend provides those things to you besides sex that are important. Like yes I can have friends, but if they are more romantic with me then my husband, that IS going to lead to issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 11:47 PM
1	For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”… Ask them, they are here lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 11:44 PM
3	Are people who are against age gap relationships expect men to be casanovas? I genuinely believe it would be easy enough for you to find at least one woman your age who you could have dated at one point. All the men would be taken too in your age group, so the competition is a bit less stiff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 05:03 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lmao this is what my personal trainer told me. He was the quintessential basically strong, thick dad bod. He literally said "I know how to cut back on bad foods and body fat, but that's not fun, I don't want to do it."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 04:54 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If men's problems were actually all about sex, this might work. I'm not dumb enough to buy that's their main or only issue, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 04:53 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I wouldn't hold off forever. You should be able to manage asking for a date with someone you like while akso building your life. Young women are also building lives, and if they're going to date while young (which apparently men prefer) then those young women will want men who aren't way too far ahead of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 04:51 PM
-5	Misandry doesn’t exist I've seen a lot of young people on drugs, unable to move up. Men and women alike, seemingly worse for women as we don't have the same muscles and we get pregnant and old white men judge us while loving to mentor young men. That's just me speaking as a woman in STEM, though, I realize. Also men tell women it's our fault all the time I do realize it comes across as hateful, but not just towards men. The hate towards men specifically comes from a different place, in my opinion, but it's quite clear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:32 AM
1	Musings about Age Gaps the gap in experience due to having had greater experience sexually and in relationships,which women tend to have far greater due to the ease of finding partners, is never discussed. My husband has had more sex partners than me. Actually most guys I ever talked to had more romantic experience, except one. I don't know where you're getting your assumption from that things are so easy for ladies. Talk to the awkward girl at school, talk to your female cousins, figure this out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:14 AM
1	Musings about Age Gaps It actually IS a huge deal to date someone in a different socioeconomic class or with too much of a different past. I specifically don't recommend that, unless the structural issues are addressed somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:12 AM
5	Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom? My father was 75 having sex with my stepmom. So yes, I think old people like to bone. Retirement homes are STD hot spots. Sex is fun, it just is. The trick is to make space for it in a somewhat younger adults' busy life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:02 AM
–	Most women who claim that "sexual past doesn't matter" would probably not date a man who has previously had gay sex. CMV. Yeah those women also wouldn't have sex with those previously gay men. FAR different than nutting in someone, and then fucking their best friend, spreading diseases to all, and then saying "Actually all of you are too slutty for me, but I was attracted enough to bone though. Good luck! Byeee! I guess I hope I don't find out whether or not y'all are pregnant!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:00 AM
-5	Misandry doesn’t exist Kick a dog that's down enough and it's eventually going to stop getting back up. You actually think men get dragged down and kicked when they are down by society? That's so far from the truth of what I have seen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 01:39 AM
5	CMV : As an average man comparison to exes and potential partners will always lead to the end of your relationship or ruin its quality Exactly this. Happens a lot. Most first relationships in high school or whatever are absolute shit. I'm lucky I even had a good one in middle school. Definitely none of them ruined my ability to have a happy relationship now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 03:13 PM
2	The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractive It's a polite social shortcut to saying "i don't think we are a good fit." Could also be used when my celebrity crush kicks ass at what he does, or it could be used to say I DON'T have a spark with a guy who is always a horrible tipper. There's nothing wrong with having this polite social shortcut. In fact, it might do you good not to self-deprecate when a woman turns you down by saying this. Just move onto the next, and if you're truly happy the way you are don't try to force a change through a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 03:07 PM
–	Shut up rings exist, but what about shut up marriages? Where I am from, marriage comes with important legal rights and religion is decreasing in it's stronghold. Still, people take the social bond of marriage seriously. I understand that not every family or every culture will see things this way. On the other hand, reducing all of marriage to the one small thing you dislike, which must not even be a big part of your life anymore, seems like a bit of an intellectual shortcut to me. Your life, not my business, I guess...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 05:10 AM
1	Shut up rings exist, but what about shut up marriages? If you have ever delt the desire to have sex or a relationship, you have felt the desire for something more than is necessary or needed. If you have logistical reasons for not wanting marriage, that's all well and good. If you simply do not feel your happiest in any of your relationships as of yet, that occasionally happens. Nothing wrong with that, but it's probably really common and normal for many people to WANT marriage when they're in a happy relationship that will last.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 12:50 AM
1	Q4W: Is your current boyfriend/husband the best looking partner you've ever had sex with? He's the ONLY, so of course. I have never been quick or over eager to have sex. It's an adult thing that should be taken seriously, even if people are more casual, but I am a stable person who would consider raising children and being loyal for life to a man who I would care for on his death bed I deserve to look my hardest for the sane in return. Not only is my man to the best looking, but he also proposed to me. He seems to be as capable as I am of monogamy - non casually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 12:45 AM
-3	Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not? average guys rarely do Average or mid or whatever LOOKING guts definitely do. They are typically less capable in several ways than men who form a precious few meaningful valuable relationships, though. Much like you'd probably say if a woman. Clearly that's my point of view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:46 AM
-2	Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not? Same reason some women have many more sex partners than others. Incredibly lower or higger standards. Men do tend more towards the extremes, especially of lower standards. They are like vagina seeking missiles. They go to where the easy sex is, no matter even if it costs them literal money sometimes. Men do that much more than women. Idk why, I try to just hope that my standards can weed that out. All I know is that promiscuity is not for me, and I deserve someone similar in that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 01:20 AM
1	Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed of I am the person who controls my own conversations, obviously. I can't make certain ignorant men in this shut shut up, but I don't need to engage with them on matters of which they wilfully understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:35 AM
1	Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed of Because it is a delicate subject. Not everyone can learn from it, not everyone can teach about it, we are on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 11:12 PM
3	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision whres and nerd incels at best, criminal at worse. Someone who enjoys sex. The worst thing a woman can be, right? I know you don't mean someone who sells it or something. No wonder why single moms often hate the fathers of the kids so much... their plan to make them stay did not work, and it was just a sillly game of power. I would blame the father more if women did not have basically all power after coitus and before Your logic isn't even consistent within itself. Men DO have some power before a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 12:54 PM
4	Never-married single moms, even if they are good moms, took a very selfish decision Fr	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 12:48 PM
13	Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed of One step further: sex isn't something you get, it's something you share. Getting YOUR way.... isn't sex. That's something else entirely, which I don't wish to discuss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 04:30 AM
-11	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Then you should be a monk and find something better to do then, if that is how you see shared sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:45 PM
1	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) 100%, but how long does that take in favorable circumstances? Less long than it takes a man to finish with his disk being untouched, probably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 03:35 AM
6	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) I guess? And how is that anything to do with a woman wanting to use a vibe because her partner literally doesn't care about touching her clit? Is there some epidomic I don't know about of women who request mainly specifically large dildos in the beginning of sex with men? This is such a silly conversation...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:01 AM
4	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) Own it. Ick. I don't fucking want to. You won't own that you know what I mean, so I'm not even inclined to bother with anything coming from you tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 12:43 AM
8	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) Put a vibe on a clit or put on some porn without touching him. See which orgasms faster. You fucking know what meant, if you're gonna play dumb go home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 12:36 AM
6	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) That's... not how a dildo works? Dildo's aren't even usually the tool women want to use during shared sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 12:05 AM
7	Women who have to rely on vibrators and other toys to get off during sex aren't worth men dating.(NSFW) Porn doesn't actually lead to an orgasm. You can watch it and not get off physically. You can not, however, put a vibe on a woman without her literally orgasming. It is nowhere near as simple as you describe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 12:03 AM
1	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? I dunno, marc behavior can get really really annoying when repeated and clear and very close.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 11:41 PM
1	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? POTENTIAL partners. That's a difference, don't you think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 11:32 PM
3	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? Actually, sort of the opposite. I can appreciate a man who can believe in something. As long as he had a sensible and grounded reason for putting off a relationship, I would simply be glad to be a man's first. It kinda sucks that my husband was with other women before me, and I didn't even know it. Would have been nice to start out as firsts. Maybe if the priest man loved and respected me and I treated him the best I could, that's as close as I can get to getting back what I missed. That fantasy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 04:09 AM
1	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? I can't speak as directly to that, and I do think dating gets easier for both genders as they age, but if I was single and celibate when I was "younger and higher value" as a woman, well, it can definitely happen to an older woman. I just can't speak to that from experience as I have been married in my years since I was young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 03:50 AM
3	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? I can explain about friends. There was a dude in college. He was funny, handsome. Old for my taste, though, and I usually go younger. I liked him. I wouldn't say outrageous, but it was inconvenient the timing he chose for sure. And I had to process all the guilt that things had gotten so, so confusing by the end. Again, like I said, this was not the same as a bad casual sex proposal, though. I knew he didn't mean any harm. Flattering, just overall sad and inconvenient. In another lifetime, thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 01:54 AM
1	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? I'm always hesitant to use black and white thinking. A man might make a mistake that blows up a relationship. Maybe he deserves that loss, but I wouldn't swiftly call him evil as a whole ass person. Same thing with a woman - just because she is a single mom with maybe just one co-parent for a father doesn't make her evil or any black and white thing. Also, as a woman... a lot of the guys I know I didn't really date. Maybe they were sort of flawed or lacking. I try not to trash them. I didn't dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 01:32 AM
1	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? In the same way it's easy to say incels and virgin men are annoying when you've always had easy access to romance and sex. I mean this with the utmost respect, but please, go talk to young ladies. You will find many of them have problems getting a date to prom, many have had mainly had romance dangled in front of them as pressure for sex. This was me when I was younger. I don't know about suffering in silence, perhaps therapy or a lot of things can be employed, but asking women to accept casual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 01:26 AM
-2	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? I can see the stereotyping in the way you're describing. There's definitely a biased component to consider, similar in both cases of men. I get that. On the other hand, folks who have lived in big cities or been hit on by really desperate men will understand, it's not JUST a boss to a stereotype. There is a statistical chance that the person making trouble for you on the streets actually does have a serious problem that is not easy and simple to fix. The best chance might be to just get away as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 01:20 AM
0	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? while it's true that not all women judge virgin men, most women do. I explained why that happens in a dating context after a certain age. I was under the impression that antisocial behaviors (narcissism etc) were actually more attractive to most women. You were mistaken, although narcissism is actually classified as antisocial in a clinical sense rather than a colloquial and literal sense of being against socializing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 12:23 AM
0	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? If you found yourself single again, would you go for a virgin the same age you are? If I were single again and I met a virgin priest - someone who wanted to give up his collar for me.... I'd be the luckiest fucking woman alive!! Unfortunately, you and I know that isn't the case for most virgin men trying to date. Let's not take harmful intellectual shortcuts. Women don't always judge "virgin men." Women take issue with most men who are passive, asexual, porn-addicted, antisocial, etc. Partly bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 12:07 AM
1	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? Yeah no one likes a waste of consciousness. To be cruel about it is uncalled for, though, understand. Not everyone needs my opinion, and I understand that. Even moreso, though... someone or several people repeatedly begging me for money/favors/sex I can't give is just uncomfortable. That goes beyond doing nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 12:03 AM
-5	Do women resent men who are late bloomers? Honey, being celibate or a virgin is your business. Treating women like it's THEIR fault or problem is shameful. Know the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 12:00 AM
6	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? I'm setting my goals for a reason - I am going to need for us both to be aiming a little higher. I would like to get debt free and enjoy a week having sex on the beach without doing dishes. Him gaming for 2 weekends a month isn't going to stop those things from happening. Maybe once we do have more resources he could cut back a bit and that would be fine. Yesterday morning he helped with one of my goals and even found something special for us to both do. He's doing alright enough for what we hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:37 PM
5	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? Hahahahaha Oh the just world fallacy and probably some form.of several others too. Can it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:29 PM
2	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? There are multiple reasons, especially financial, too. I would fully expect a father to game with his son. I'm not opposed to all gaming, but he can't even manage a lot of responsibility just between just the two of us and he will literally get in a bad mood if he is interrupted and he has very little patience for noises/children/diapers in general. His priority is significantly with gaming. He gamed for 7 or 8 hours yesterday, he's been gaming for 3 right now. That's his weekend sometimes. No, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:28 PM
1	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? No, my response says the same thing. My husband games. He'd rather game than help take care of a baby, for sure. Do I find that kind of lame? I guess. So we have used protection methods until it gets worked out. I have accepted there are things I won't do as much or at all because of his gaming. It's way more acceptable than drugs or whatever, and he is much easier to relate to and spend time with as a person even though he games. I totally agree. I still find it lame, but in my particular relat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:20 PM
0	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? Mmhmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:14 PM
5	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? Wow that's a lot of assumptions being made for no reason. Oh wait, there is a reason. She has a job of her own, a degree, she makes her own money. The dude was on a similar level to her, but of course he made more money than her because she breastfed and stayed home alone and and took tome off when necessary for their 4 kids. Dude has cars and motorcycles for himself. She doesn't have fancy shit really, she saved plenty and did not stifle him on what he wanted/earned. You don't know what the fuc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:08 PM
2	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? The fact that it's such a common complaint amongst women basically proves that they are less likely to disqualify the gamer in the first place There's a lot of them, some can quit in the dating phase or at least hide it. Of course these men end up dating plenty of real women. It's not an addiction with withdrawal or something, but it CAN cut into daily functionality when living together happens. Also, it might be something to compromise on. Like with my husband, it's not a disqualifier, but I'd …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 10:02 PM
-1	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? My cousin is a single mom. Her husband worked for a big company, traveled for work, made a lot of money. Very functional. They divorced, so she's a single mom. Dude probably cheated from what I can gather. Wouldn't accuse him to his face, but the point is this: single moms do not all have children with losers. Sometimes single moms have children with functional men who have a major flaw. Almost everyone has a flaw. Sometimes, 10 years down the line, it can snowball into something unacceptable. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 09:59 PM
-1	What’s the reason women as a group in general seem much more angry about guys playing video games than guys being drug addicts, alcoholics and criminals? Not angry? Who the fuck said we are angry? You believe everything haters say about women without the input of actual women? No. We are not angry. We see alcoholics, criminals, addicts, and we can stay away. Real simple. My husband, though, he's a good guy. I don't want to leave him. I genuinely didn't know he would game this much. Apparently any normal enough guy can just fall into pushing the boundaries of responsibility for games while his wife does the chores. It's a lot easier to run into. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 09:54 PM
1	The “low libido” argument. Ugh I never said you did. I simply said it's not an option , and I went even farther to say that there WERE no viable options or really much to say, making your entire conversation a non-starter. There's always breaking up, I suppose. That would be a different conversation, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 06:27 PM
5	The “low libido” argument. I would agree, but if my husband says he's not been in the mood because he's stressed, what would I say? No means no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/23 04:17 PM
0	ROFL the new Stones track is about an old boomer with a dead bedroom You don't have to like the newer art. Not everyone will, but I would definitely say respect the game. I personally think their art seems to come from Avery genuine place, even if deemed too repetitive or whatever by some.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 09:13 PM
1	ROFL the new Stones track is about an old boomer with a dead bedroom De Niro and the Stones are legendary icons for a reason - especially the Stones. Nothing, and I do mean nothing, was ever going to top Tattoo You. If all you value is a legacy of superiority, yeah they could have stopped a while back. Personally, I value a lot more than that. They do what they clearly love - which is why I connect with their music so much in the first place. De Niro is an actor with a face and a look. The Stones have soul, they make the crux of the art themselves (De Niro's work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 08:20 PM
0	ROFL the new Stones track is about an old boomer with a dead bedroom Look at the song "Doom and Gloom," plus the song you originally pointed out. These guys are taking on very modern issues, issues very different than they would have thought deeply of 30 years ago. Their perspectives have evolved, and their art still has novel value. By the way? Take their other newer single "One More Shot," and put it in perspective with "Angry." Might take your original opinion and change it around a bit about the irony.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:25 PM
1	ROFL the new Stones track is about an old boomer with a dead bedroom In my opinion, it's not really ironic to talk about anger in a long relationship among older people. Trauma, history, whatever - stuff happens. I've been with mine for almost a decade. We aren't actually old or saggy (well, not too much so), but I am too embarrassed to post online some of the things he's done. He is very good looking, but he is infuriating. Some would say this relationship could turn out to be a failure. Well, anything can happen. I've learned things in this decade of my first a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 06:47 PM
3	ROFL the new Stones track is about an old boomer with a dead bedroom The Stones are my favorite band because of how real they are. And they're also introspective. They know she's mad. She's not just old and/or unaroused. She's ANGRY. There's something going on beneath the surface. In a lot of boomer relationships, that's the case. My father had had no problems with his more recent wives because he understands this now that he's not young and dumb anymore. With that said, I'm sure old and saggy genitals don't help. It takes love and care and also something beneath…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 04:59 PM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? A lot of times, yeah. Not always in a sexual way, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 03:27 PM
5	CMV: Older child free men are rarely miserable. And I still have plenty of time to “play video games and jerk off to porn.” Just not at my parents place. Lolz. So this is enough for you? Do you think many men feel this way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:50 AM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? I follow some gay men on Tik Tok, highly recommend. One of them was literally advising straight men to wear shorter shorts, and he has a point. Those long ass basketball shorts do not do men favors. Crop tops are fine too, although I get why thy came out of fashion. I'm not sure if Nike level short shorts really work for men, they are not common enough for them to do anything other than shock me lol. But I do know that men could stand to go shorter on the shorts. Time for a trend change. I even …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:43 AM
1	Should guys be jealous of women getting experience before then if they still get the women in the end? Is there... Is there not some way to have a medium experience with a medium experience woman? I thought that's what most people do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:26 AM
1	Should guys be jealous of women getting experience before then if they still get the women in the end? So question. Is it your contention that most of these guys posting woman hate on the internet are 100% virgins themselves? Because I honestly never took it that way. Even when I hoped for a virgin, I did not end up meeting one who was bold enough to form a relationship with me if his own choice. Even men claim on here "every guy honestly wants a virgin woman" before. It's not that men are jealous of women with MORE experience, or a life, for that matter. That's not how I've been reading the situ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:19 AM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? No, I've never been to an actual club. Yes people in clubs - where there is probably heat at night in winter - are going to dress a certain way. Yes, if you're at a literal club people might be more interested in socializing romantically. Yes, most of those people are probably single. Sometimes there's maybe a group of girls who go out to hang with friends and they dress in the club-esque way to look like they fit in, but you shouldn't make assumptions in that case before there is some kind of s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:16 AM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? Bikinis are about the beach, dude. Not everything is about some sex market. Come the f on. And even if a woman looks attractive in a romantic market, do yourself a favor and meet her or talk with her at least one time before immediately jumping to sex. Making assumptions just because you met someone on a hot day outside or at the beach is a very, very socially stupid thing to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:09 AM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? I never did. Maybe in clubs, you would? Miniskirts were not that popular even in summer. I could buy short shorts and leggings, maybe... Maybe a shorter dress, if the occasion was special enough and the heat was on? But not just to attract attention while going down the street.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 10:04 AM
2	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? I've had a gym membership before, and I've never seen what you're talking about with the shirt. If anything, I need to actively pull my shirts up in the front more towards the back so the entire world doesn't see my cleavage when I am stretching or planking. Mileage may vary where you live, I guess. The point is: even if women don't actively cover their butts in leggings doesn't mean they want to have sex with a man. I promise you most of these women aren't even thinking about sex with men they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 09:52 AM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? Yeah I've heard of that in New York. I never lived in New York. You'd have to ask someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 09:45 AM
1	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? I would say signals CAN be sent that way. I would also say it's really ignorant to assume a woman is thinking that way in almost every case you see on a daily basis Unless you are also at a rave/sex type club/etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 04:05 AM
0	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? Fucking men can be done without short shorts. Surviving a Texas summer cannot. Source: a woman born and raised in Texas	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 03:50 AM
2	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? Suddenly women spontaneously forget all the ways they've been wielding their wardrobe. Nothing to forget. I saw a woman today in the gym wearing converse. Not exactly practical, but the only man in the gym was my husband. No makeup in this heat. Trust me, not trying to fuck. I'm not saying we don't have ways of wielding our wardrobe, but you'd be amazed how little it actually takes to fuck. Clothes are quite rarely a mating call, and even when they are, I would personally argue it is quite unnec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 03:49 AM
0	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 02:57 AM
0	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? All that can be done without deliberately dressing like a hooch. And the vast majority of women, especially at work, DO dress in a way that might be considered fashionable but not "hooch." Nothing wrong with this but obviously all the men not in booty shorts during the same 110 degree day can attest the ass cheeks hanging are also not necessary. I mean, yeah if your balls hang you have different priorities. You need a few more inches of protection. However, when it comes to women, that random gy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 02:57 AM
6	Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public? It's not a mating call to wear what everyone else is wearing that is comfortable on a beach or something. Not a mating call to want to look energetic, lively, and hip in business functions to project room for growth. It's just not like that. I Obviously, I grew up in Houston. Rule of thumb: if a woman is wearing short shorts in 110 degrees, she doesn't want to fuck you, she wants to beat the heat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 01:27 AM
10	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples Ciara had like, one boyfriend, no? That's all I ever hear about. How the fuck do women get called promiscuous just because they don't want to kill their baby? I fully support the right to choice, but that definitely means most women are going to avoid abortions as much as possible, and this doesn't make them promiscuous. SMH.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 12:20 AM
1	Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age. You are just a weird for presenting yourself as some kind of bad boy and making druglord references for dating guys, that are a little younger. I'm just saying it's not that big of a deal lmao. It was meant to be a comical commentary on the original post which seems to claim that men have a monopoly on predation and all women are just shaking scared in our boots from fear about men rejecting us or grooming us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 11:08 PM
2	Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age. I don't care what you think. Point is, I won't date an older guy. And I'm not under 25. I can, and I will, avoid that. Whether you think I'm cool isn't the point. These men who think they're "worth more" than women their own age are clearly the ones who aren't as cool as they think. Just look at the facts, 18 year olds do not line up for 30 years olds. Even 25 year olds don't. Average age gap is small.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 12:34 PM
1	Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age. I'm almost 30, and if my husband dumped me I'd probably date a 26 year old man! I'm mistaken for early 20's by the women I work with. Yes I am selfish about these age gaps, but not in the way you're thinking. Bitch, I AM the predator. I am the danger. I AM THE ONE WHO KNOCKS. You don't have a monopoly anymore. I'm doing feminism a favor. Even my now husband is slightly younger. I do have some standards though, obviously. I'm not totally ignorant to what actually lasts, and to why I care about so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 12:39 AM
1	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire (for some it might be even their only job opportunities). Are you capable of acknowledging what an absolutely terroristic threat that is? Not just to onr woman, but to ANY woman in as society that says a woman's only ability to live can be through gratifying a man's penis? SWERF my ass. Thoughtful customer, my ass. I've worked survive before, but thankfully it was a little more safe than sex work! I know how thoughtful customers are. When you work your way through that, we can maybe talk about t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 03:52 AM
0	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire You don't care about the consent, because if you did, you wouldn't be taking away the autonomy from sex workers and let them give their own consent whenever they like, not whenever you like. Actually I'm not for arresting sex workers. I respect them. I'm for arresting Johns. It might be ethical to give consent whenever, but it's not ethical to take what you might like to consider consent. If you're the only one with my survival in your hands and sex with you is the only sufficient employment I c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 01:58 AM
0	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire (and I'm not getting back to that abstinence bs for your wants). Yeah that's called rape. Which is illegal, immoral, and not a dog whistle. You can't buy consent. At least I wouldn't want you buying my nieces consent, and that ought to count for something, shouldn't it? Religious or not. I don't care if you go out and have fun, as long as you have the responsibility to take care of consent and sexual/reproductive health issues equally with your partner. I'm genuinely not very religious. What's y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 01:10 AM
1	CMV: An age gap of around 5 years is optimal once both partners are at least in their mid-twenties I had ONE sex partner, who I wanted to be my husband. Does that sound like I'm compatible with someone who views screwing around with several people as "more fun?" And, I'm a woman in STEM. Only reason I was a little behind is because my mother got sick and died, and my patents sheltered me. Do I sound like I'm compatible with someone who intentionally wanted to hold off on career ambitions? That's not me. I understand certain situations happen. 5 years isn't too extreme, maybe things do happen.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/23 12:28 AM
2	CMV: An age gap of around 5 years is optimal once both partners are at least in their mid-twenties That IS one of the things that would concern me about an older man. Like... If you're on my level now 5 years older than me, how far apart are we going to be in 10 or 20 years?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 11:29 PM
1	CMV: An age gap of around 5 years is optimal once both partners are at least in their mid-twenties Well my husband is a couple of months younger than me. We married young. I'm not young anymore, but I did give him my virginity, so I'm not gonna be happy if he doesn't treat me like I'm beautiful anymore after the 10 year anniversary. I don't want only 10 years of easy, passionate sex in my whole life. I'm sure you could understand. And I'm also sure that there might be less available, attractive older women than you get women for a single man. But there are people in my situation, though. Some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 09:15 PM
4	CMV: An age gap of around 5 years is optimal once both partners are at least in their mid-twenties Go through the economic troubles together, it'll build your bond and it'll allow for both partners to have their input instead if one partner saying "this down payment is mine, so I want X and you have to agree."	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 08:15 PM
2	CMV: An age gap of around 5 years is optimal once both partners are at least in their mid-twenties Are you saying you're not attracted to women your own age? Should I dump my younger husband assuming his eyes aren't going to be mainly for me for the rest of our lives, since I'm about to be 30?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 08:13 PM
1	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire FYI "I'm not sure a lot of people would make that choice" is not meant to be condescending, and it might appear less so if enough men had an ounce of respect for women in the first place. Are you new to this sub? Have you seen the dudes on here? They are MUCH more dangerous to women, especially sex workers, than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 08:01 PM
1	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire Don't let the internet raise your kid, be a responsible parent maybe. OK fair, eventually those kids will need some independence though. Maybe 13 or 14, they will find a way to browse the internet wherever they wnt basically. And as a woman who apparently clearly doesn't understand the concept of sex work and has never had a brother who grew up as a man to share this information with me and to impart understanding, what would I say? How would I parent a son? Where to begin? you'll find tons of p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 07:50 PM
1	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options I certainly want the draft to be illegal, and I certainly am against acts of aggressive war, of course. Silly argument. Soldiers have reason to want to protect their families and their own lives from terrorists, though. Sex workers have no reason to care for a rich asshole's nut EXCEPT for threat of death/terror. What's not to get? You're not out selling access to your vulnerable body parts, are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:24 PM
1	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire They are filling a need in a market and deserve respect like any other profession. All people deserve human dignity, which is why I'm not for turning anyone's private parts into a professional tool. There is no market need for that. Men - and let's be real, it's usually men - can get their own nut without risking public health. I'm sorry but I'm not cool with people who blame sex work for the shitty behavior of some men. Boys as young as 11 are now routinely exposed to internet porn. These are b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:17 PM
1	Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating life Whose goal is it to "get laid" by women who are "easier"? I, for one, am not talking to anyone who has that goal. If you got that goal, go elsewhere. On the other hand, I assume that over 70% of people really want to be with a good person. If you want a relationship that lasts more than a few nights - if you want something more than a "plate" (eww) - you need to also be a good person. Why? Because those other good people also want a good person. They know they deserve a good person. Being with a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 03:31 AM
0	There is a night and day difference between how men and women experience sexual desire Your compassion for teenage boys cannot extend to the anuses of the internet or to the realm of women's rights. Wrong is still wrong. Unhealthy ways to vent are still unhealthy. Posting hate is still hateful. Women are still people. Now with that said, I have lately said I would be scared to raise a son. Your entire argument is the reason why. The existence of porn is a modern change, and yes it may have impacts which you were wrong to immediately deny. On the other hand, even 100 years ago, boy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 02:39 AM
0	CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”. It’s merely to be free to definitively walk away from a bad woman/relationship knowing something better is out there for them And that's a freedom men have. Women DO like men, you know. Well, most women who swing that way, anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 12:35 AM
1	Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap. Yes, can. That does not mean every time, or easily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 12:04 AM
1	Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap. Yeah I'm sure they just don't want orgasms. Must be it. Lmfao. Also, whatever happened to research? Both my partner and I read articles that helped SO MUCH right from the start of us even trying to have sex, it has been fun every time but better and better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 08:33 PM
2	Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap. I very rarely have multiples, I've also been fine with him just having his. It's definitely not several fold, but even anything favoring women tends to happen in relationships with men who care. Casual sex absolutely does not favor women in any way. I can get why that would be an ego boost, but so is being a good father and husband, so I'd prioritize that one like my father always did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 08:32 PM
0	Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap. My husband did his research and knew what to do, no problem. I didn't have to tell him, although if he didn't satisfy me the first time I most certainly would have let him know. Also, I was smart enough to vet for ALL compatibility before moving onto sex. I knew he was a great researcher, I knew he cared to please, and I knew we could communicate. Whenever there is something to say, I can easily say it. There just never has been anything major, he is great in that department when we get the chan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 08:30 PM
3	Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap. AND to figure out if we want to be with them. Getting to know people takes time, and it's unpleasant to rush someone who you like who you are newly dating. I wouldn't want to put pressure on my partner to commit early or anything that I see as special until sufficient time has passed. I appreciate the same from them. After all, that handsome guy you went on a few dates with could be anybody... One of my early boyfriends ended up being a dealer. I had no idea until we already broke up when he tri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 08:27 PM
2	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Hardly anyone is going to want to sell access to vulnerable parts of their body for no socially productive reason. There will likely be very little supply of sex workers available in a healthy society. There will also hopefully be very few men who are THAT "lonely," but somehow many dudes who see sex workers are actually in relationships. The supply and demand problem has encouraged exploitation within the industry, all because of certain sexist attitudes. For the record, I would be easily fine …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 06:47 PM
0	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options You making sound like every country that has legalized prostitution has sn std epidemic. Which is not true. Legalized prostitution isn't the only form of prostitution, and my country HAS seen an increase in STD rates in recent years. If it was legal, some argue that condoms would be even more likely to be used. I'm not so sure about that, but I AM sure that your view on this condom mandate in a "free market" would decrease the clientele available for an entrepreneur. Less prostitution is fine by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 04:31 PM
3	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Medical staff have personal protective gear mandated. Prostitutes are paid extra not to use it, as that ruins a lot of what Johns like about the experience. It's not just a job, it is an unnecessary public health risk. It just so happens that the working party involved doesn't even get a nut out of it. Honestly, I can't even explain to you what the John gets out of the experience without making myself physically ill. It's like they enjoy putting the woman at risk and making her dance like a pupp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 04:21 PM
3	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options When I was a woman of 26, I had one adult long-term relationship. Just one. I think I would never want to be with a John, but I would have really liked to have been with a virgin. It would have been nice to be someone's first, as long as he loved me. Too bad for me, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:28 PM
1	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options It is difficult now that you're out of school. I won't lie to you. I'm not sure what you mean about experience. I admit it's difficult for me to understand your situation, as I was learning to socialize in public school as a teenager. Even if I didn't have many people to date, I learned to talk to boys and how to respond to the things they would say. I didn't have brothers myself, so almost all of this learning occurred in school. Even that helped me to navigate dating my husband in college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:24 PM
5	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options I disagree that true love exists And yeah. That right there? That's what you need to question and re-explore. To me, that's what's not objective. Just because people work together and share things with each other doesn't mean they don't also have feelings - real feelings, the kind that aren't paid for. Honestly, I can see why you have extra difficulty finding someone if you can't wrap your mind around the idea of caring about someone and sharing with them mutually and voluntarily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:21 PM
6	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Sorry, but touching someone's body FOR MONEY is not intimacy. It's phsyical touch. I also personally view purchasing sex as pretty gross like you now own something the other person should have the most influence over. Personally, the thought of someone acting like they knew me and wanted me when they really don't would make me physically ill. I do believe that, but I'm just some Internet stranger. If I knew you and I cared about you as a person, I'd wonder why you are willing to spend your money…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:18 PM
4	Is it true autistic guys are too shy for women, which does not seem to be the case in my experience? CMV flair doesn't seem right for this... But no, men are not "shy" in my opinion. Men are highly motivated, competitive, strong, and emotional. They cannot fully hide what they want very well usually. Autistic men are still men. Autistic men that I know - and there have been a few - have been just as honest, opinionated, and open as any neurotypical bro. It helps that I don't treat people very poorly if they have special interests, poor vocal tonality, tics, etc. People know things don't have to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 01:40 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread the department from which most people derive the greatest meaning and happiness in their lives. This is entirely just false. My husband has a lower libido, and more experience than me. Our sex life, while fun when it happens, is absolutely the smallest part of my success. How hard I work for my career... The closeness we share and the goals we work for to climb up from where we were born... Those are FAR more meaningful and joyous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 01:32 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread 33? Women 15 years your junior are barely adults, first of all. Second, I am almost your age with ONE SEX PARTNER. Your generalized judgments about women aren't all too accurate, just from an objective standpoint. Like other commenters said, working on social anxiety is something you can do. I think your sexual anxiety is more related to socialization and trauma than it is actual sexual performance. You can't expect a woman's "feedback loop" to heal you. Clearly, that ideal is not working, and f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 01:29 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sex with a random person isn't special. Good sex with a good person is. No one does need a bad relationship. That doesn't mean people don't have a drive to be with some other people on occasion. Big difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 09:21 AM
4	Why Should Men Get Married? More risky. You want your partner to get hit by a truck and leave their life insurance to their next of kin? You want them to leave the shared car or their half the house to someone who's not you? Want to worry about inheritance tax when spouses don't? Want their medical decisions left to someone else? What about your own wishes? Listen, if you don't want a likely lifelong level of commitment, you're a fool to mix finances and give your partner a permanent key to your private sanctuary. Period. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 01:06 AM
3	Why Should Men Get Married? Clearly that's just your opinion, to which you are completely entitled. Act on your opinion. Do not ask other people to change it, when you're clearly happy with it for yourself. Make sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:57 AM
8	CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re not These "attractive, but not very attractive" guys are literally average. I'm sure their girlfriends see them the same way I see my husband. I'd call him very attractive to me, you surely wouldn't consider him significantly above average. Listen, many women are attracted their share of men - everyday, normal men. I keep telling you PPD this, but God forbid normal men even consider a woman who doesn't approach them and immediately make a baby together. Because all wahmen are sluts or whatever, righ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:50 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Seeing as how he just went to the gym with me and pays half the bills and he wished me good luck on my event today... I'm gonna say he passes this at least a lot of the time. I'm not the only one putting in effort here, and that counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:44 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Don't have a penis or identify as a man, I wouldn't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:10 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's honestly hard to tell if the relationship is stressful, when the other shit we've been through since college together has been so bad we can't think of much else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:10 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Bruh What do you think a divorce and a frat boy could do for my mental health? That's the most impulsive alternative here if I was operating based off one sole, inescapable priority. But I have recently had sex with my husband, as happens with married couples. I'm thinking I'll be fine. I absolutely do benefit from sharing love with my husband, but if he said no that would be a HELL NO, obviously, and I would not be cheap enough to rush into anything stupid. It wouldn't even help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 11:55 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh yeah my husband might be a misogynist in some ways, theoretically, but he's not thinking with his dick. He likes me to do his dishes and shit. Even outside of himself, he's not so boring and so distant that we cant spend several days together talking about things other than sex while the laundry isn't being done. He is a whole person, and he sees me as more than a vagina (even if he sees me as someone who can serve him sometimes). Big, big fucking difference. I've also never been used for sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 11:34 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah no guy in my family, or any guy worth associating with, would ever say it. No coworker would ever say that. But go off about your locker room ass saying, king.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 11:28 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Of course it's not good enough. Literally almost ever human already knows and empathizes with the fact that sex is a strong biological urge. You don't need shorthand for it - you don't even have to say it at all! We ALL know! Have you heard a word I've said about MY relationship? We get it. As an internet stranger, that's the best we can do. People/friends in real life could do it better. But when these men get on a public soapbox because of how women's rights hurt them so damn bad they could DI…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 11:27 PM
2	What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world? Not everyone wants a relationship, or is straight. Yes struggling with dating sometimes at a young age is normal. No one said good wholesome relationships are always easy from the start, but getting along with women at work and getting to know women of your own culture should at least be doable and not a special problem. Women don't need to make it easy for young men to date right away, the way I've heard women in other countries will literally bend over backward for some very lackluster relatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 11:18 AM
11	What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world? Women are targeting resources. Impoverished women, in fact, are targeting rare and bare survival resources. It is not about any set of men. Many type of disgruntled western guys will croon about becoming a passport bro lmao. You think Benedict Cumberbatch is going to Thailand for a wife? Nah. High earning isn't the phrase you're looking for. On the other hand, men with decent money who can't find a happy relationship in their culture of origin are obviously looking for something that women gener…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 03:25 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread I guess that's your prerogative. As a woman, I never felt that desire in general except on very rare occasions. As it turns out, I'll never be a truly model looking person even if I get fit my glutes and my height and other things go against me. I accepted it, but I still think being in a monogamous and passionate relationship is the only kind that should exist - even if the passionate people know they're not full models.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 12:45 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Chad in training? You work out every day? Listen, I'm going to go out on a limb and say diet or even weight may not be a real issue for you... Keto did work for me, but also just limiting food in general. I can't afford the low carb stuff, except flaxseed bread that I ead given from charity a couple of times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 12:39 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread I only speak for me, but going to extremes is the only way for it to go fast. It's not pleasant, and I don't recommend it. I'm sure you can do it, if I can. I recommend looking into running. That's my next goal here, and I think it will help a lot overall with health and fitness. It seems to be my weak point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 12:34 AM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread I just commented that "I'm trying to lose weight." I've lost like 40 pounds and I'm still just like "idk if it's working lol." Anyway, trying my best!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 12:17 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Trying to lose weight, so a small portion of leftovers. I'm not cooking a thing right now. I can. Will later in the week. Not today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 12:16 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I really like your take. Thank you for this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 12:15 AM
1	Do women see it as “shameful” to propose to the men their with? And if so, why? I don’t understand how expressing your desire to get married to someone you’re with officially somehow lowers your value because you have different body parts. I repeatedly told him we didn't have to do it. There was one time I even gave the ring back. It was a long while before we set a date, and at that point especially, I was like... Ok now that we are making a plan, are you sure? You don't have to go through with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 02:12 AM
1	Do you think men's fashion really matters in attraction? Cargo pants are much worse than basketball shorts. Makes somewhat of a difference in smoothing over an initial approach to look like you fit in at the venue. If that step has been a struggle, taking a look at your wardrobe might be worth your time. It's fairly cheap, fast, and easy to fix. Also, there are plus-sized women in suits at some places. If you are a plus sized man, I would wear a suit and shave your neck to get a much better shot with those women. For some men, especially older men, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 01:21 AM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Was called a cum dumpster when I was a virgin. I agree. I knew nothing about cum or erections until I was 20.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 01:11 AM
3	Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sex Maybe slightly more presentable, but not big enough of a difference to matter for a relationship. Trust me, I still look like me in clothes. So does my husband. And that's not even to mention the risky effects of changing looks verus spreading diseases. If you end up not liking how she looks in a few months, no big deal really. If you get her pregnant and bail, HUGE FUCKING DEAL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:53 PM
2	Have you "experienced" pre-selection or do you think it exists? Everything exists sometimes, probably. There's a lot of nuance in the world. Has a guy appeared more attractive to you due to his relationship status and options? I don't want to fight for a man that's taken, or to prove myself special. I'm not into competing for love. Work is work, love is something else. I have never felt this way about a man who is in a relationship, but a guy who can socialize and knows what he wants is good. A man who did not wait until he was 30 to decide relationships are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 11:50 PM
6	Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sex That's... What PIV sex is.... Unless you believe in abortion, I guess. And there ARE times when that's a necessary evil. Anyway, there are other methods of contraception, and I think it makes not only the sex turn out better but it shows a lot of character to make sure you love the person you're welcoming into your private bedroom. There's always the chance it won't work out, but obviously it did for me and for my parents who married quickly. They might have used condoms though lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 10:11 PM
6	Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sex Sorry, not gonna spend money to purchase condoms to protect against diseases my husband shouldn't be out catching. We were both tested before. And get this - if I did get pregnant - there is a plan in place. Imagine that, we actually took the time to work through complex issues. What risk do you think I'm taking here, exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 10:04 PM
7	Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sex Condoms fail, and the vast majority of men don't know how to use them properly. I never fucked a stranger, personally, nor have I used a condom. Testing is done first, and I made sure it was real. We are now married!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 09:58 PM
11	Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sex This behavior is manipulative and should be shamed more. Or you could fucking try to meet women in person and ask them out? Duh?! Find me a man who hasn't told women "just wait for sex, that solves your problem!" and you will see a unicorn. But that's actually fine, because I did it myself and I'm glad I was never with someone who dipped right after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 09:58 PM
6	Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sex Because he enjoyed the sex enough to have it, and could have gotten her pregnant. It only hurts everyone to dip at that point. Find me a man that stupid, and I'll even pity him, but I'll also be surprised at that level of colossal stupidity and cruelty. I've seen it before. We see it in this sub. But it STILL shocks me, every time. I can't look away from this sub, and I can't ever begin to understand. I'm just... Shocked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 09:56 PM
1	Why Don't Passport Bro's ever ask Guy's living in PPB Paradise for advice? not sure I understood the question, How are "western" women more demanding? That is the simpler way to phrase my question. they will basically try to find out what kind of woman you are looking for and try to become her, ...... That, that doesn't sound like good treatment to me. Is this what men want? Fake ass shit? As a woman, you'd bet I'd pass. Of course, I know most men don't have the discipline to actually try to become anything for me. What they really are would be lying just beneath the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 09:53 PM
2	why do women want marriage more than men? This makes a lot of sense. Not that I ever told myself it's only fair I get to sleep around - that's NOT ME - but I can understand wanting to be ready. Hell, I'm married, and these years of being poor together are very difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 07:28 PM
1	Im against marriage, i think FWB is the best approach, but here are the reasons for a marriage You never know. My mom was a decade younger than my dad, and she died on him. The point is that BOTH parties should want to leave their shared home to their life partner when one life ends. Don't have to know who, can't know who.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 07:01 PM
3	why do women want marriage more than men? My husband wanted it much as I did. He knew I wasn't going to jump out of my ass 5 years into a relationship just so he can be my boyfriend. If it ain't forever, I'm not putting too much into it. He also felt the same way, though. Now, in the younger crowd, some women are concerned about their limited fertility while men are concerned about being financially set. Men may take more time, but I DO believe they want marriage with someone they love. Couples that don't marry, in my country, don't sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 06:59 PM
–	Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work? neither Call of Duty nor "life experience" is a qualification for a relationship, Bruh If you're 45 about to date someone likely half your age who has never held a decent job or been financially independent or grieved the death of a loved one... You're gonna have a bad relationship. And I'm sick of men pretending otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 02:57 PM
–	Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work? Less demanding? Oh now you're making shit up. Once the guy meets the standard before even dating her, she's got no reason to have to demand anything. It DOES make for a more functional relationship, and that's quite the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 02:52 PM
–	Why do older women (35+) raise their standards and think shaming men their age into meeting them or dating them will work? Because no amount of "I don't want to be alone" can make it appealing to mother a grown man who also wants to jackhammer your holes. Some 25 year old women think there's a bit of time to grow up. Most 20 year olds think there's a bit of time. By 35, there's not much time to become more self-sufficient. Hardly any 35 year old woman's standard is a millionaire, and you know it. She wants a man in her level, and you shouldn't even question that. Wouldn't you want the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 02:50 PM
1	Why Don't Passport Bro's ever ask Guy's living in PPB Paradise for advice? How do these other women treat you better? And what do they feel more demand for than western women, in return?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 05:09 AM
0	how important is oral / fore play for you as a woman in terms of how much you like a man? Funny, in the automod someone is saying Chad doesn't do oral. Can you men not agree on what stereotype is which? Is many, like, 3 others? That's how many others it was for my husband, my one and only. Of course he's the best I had. And you know what? There were some things we got better at, but he was no slouch even in the beginning. It's sex, not rocket science. Being good looking helps I guess, but no not ever woman fucks Brad Pitt. What the fuck is with this line of thinking? The best guy I e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 02:46 AM
2	Misbehaviour in male's sexual game is being shamed, in female's it's not Oh I probably shouldn't be saying this But If anyone doesn't think women's sexuality is shamed, that person just doesn't WANT to see it. Single moms this, ho's that, prudes there. Spare me. I cannot even have this argument. I hate saying touch grass, and I guess I'm not. I REFUSE to believe anyone's feet are that dry. This ignorance has to be willful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 02:39 AM
–	Can y’all stop telling each other what both genders are attracted too? I'm not a man.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 02:32 AM
1	Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns? I don't even make that assumption about men. Matter of fact, a close colleague of mine is a significantly older single man. I adore him. He's not the most fit anymore, but not for nothing he is tall and has nice hair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 01:43 AM
0	Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns? 40 is much older than 25, first of all. I don't know about society, but I know my own opinion. I mean yeah I was married at 23, but that was WAY early. We have a lot of fun, but he also might be hiding something bad. Don't ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 01:33 AM
17	Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns? You might consider that women 16 to 25 are focused on aspects of life that don't involve a romantic relationship with a penis haver.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 01:10 AM
–	Can y’all stop telling each other what both genders are attracted too? Also it would still be happy even if she was gold digging because she would technically be getting what she wants No	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 11:35 PM
–	Can y’all stop telling each other what both genders are attracted too? Ok yeah but happily married fathers aren't on PPD shitting on women, yk?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:48 PM
–	Can y’all stop telling each other what both genders are attracted too? But men really do be lying though. Me having a good job or some relatively normal aging/life experience does not mean I can't be loved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:46 PM
–	4 levels of social interactions Sounds like you're just agreeing with me, someone who doesn't critically analyze their experience likely won't have much real success and shouldn't be dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:33 PM
1	Q4W: could you use very good friendships and a vibrant social life to replace the need for sex ? Sex is not a need. Sex is also a very unique, intimate experience that cannot be replaced. Your entire question is ass backwards. Notwithstanding, I shall try to make something helpful in response. Mutual caring for platonic friends is similar to PARTS of a beautiful, loving sexual relationship. In fact, if a man cannot be friendly to me, i assume the possibility of good sex does not exist with us. Masturbation can fulfill a sexually pleasurable PART of the equation. With all of that said, there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 04:01 AM
–	4 levels of social interactions but it feels like a pretty torturous way to ask a woman out on a date. I think taking interactions one step at a time in comfortable. These steps taking time is really normal if you are young and inexperienced. On the other hand, yeah if you are 35 and experienced, maybe you can afford a dinner or 2 without testing the waters slowly first. Experience does count for something. But in the beginning early 20's or whatever, slow steps actually decreases anxiety. I can't tell you how much of a relief…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:47 AM
–	4 levels of social interactions Experience is worth nothing if you don't use it to think critically. But of course you have to actually be fair and objective in your assessments...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:44 AM
3	Q4W: What do women bring to the table? Ummm... There's a common denominator here. And women like sex, so I'm pretty sure it's not women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:30 AM
2	The best way to end a date In the first 3 dates, a kiss. If you want to end up in bed, that personally doesn't "just happen" for me. I needed to know my husband was into what I liked. I had the share that with him a little bit at a time. We needed to both be tested. We needed to work out contraception, and what happens if we actually both become parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 02:41 AM
7	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. This idea that just because you’re the same age, y’all will have a lot in common isn’t rooted in reality Ya know, no one ever said that, but it probably IS EVEN more difficult to have things in common with someone from generations past. Gen X'ers are almost never on the same page as me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 11:39 PM
2	Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing? After all, sex is a mutual and intimate experience between two people. It involves some level of connection and vulnerability. The sex I HAVE is like this. But then the dudes who want casual will talk shit about women being desperate, about how that one lady is crazy because she worried about getting pregnant when he didn't use a condom twice. These are actual, real things I have heard from a grown man who is a divorced father. Sometimes, sex is not the beautiful thing we all know it should be. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 12:09 PM
3	Would you date a mute guy? I actually have a story that is quite similar to you, although I probably have some neurological advantages. What I mean is YOU have to try. With YOUR resources. It's the toughest thing I've ever done in my life realizing I'm on my own battling uphill on several fronts, and it took a long time. I'm likely never going to be a mother from all the time and effort spent on other things. But with that said, I'm doing a lot better these days. I love my colleagues, they like me. I even made plans to ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 01:14 AM
1	Would you date a mute guy? I mean you could like.. try socializing? I've liked dues with many of these traits, I'm just not going to carry the convo every time. I already carry the load of planning every holiday, most meals and dates. Hell I'm about to even make more money, I hope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 12:13 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Samesies	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 12:10 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then the fact that you know just makes you closer, and still isn't a bad thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Finding out a truth that you feel strongly enough to care about is a GOOD THING. Not a fault, of anyone. Hiding it in the first place might be tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:56 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think that's how they define winning.......	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:50 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Girl. Tf?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:49 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hahahahahaha I'm about 5'0. At 120, my stomach was flat as a board. Up to 130, I could outrun most crusty dudes and still looked pretty good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:45 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If I get a divorce from my only partner because he cheated, and I'm about 35, did I "have my fun?" I also wouldn't plan on reducing my work hours at that age. By that time, I will have leave saved up and I will have an actual plan for the kid most likely. Although childcare and housing costs are ridiculous lately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread More like 50. 40 is questionable. And any age more than a few years older is more radioactive than necessary when looking for a life partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:41 PM
1	Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focus One woman should be a compliment to a man's life, but strong enough that he'll actually put some effort into maintaining that complimentary relationship. Like if she's having a bad week, maybe pick up a bit of slack in a way that doesn't deplete you. If she has a great opportunity on the other side of town, consider working with her to find a "win-win" compromise without sacrificing your purpose. That's what I do for a man who complements my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 11:37 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Same with Benedict Cumberbatch. He's a longer, darker version of my first love, from face to personality to voice to physique. I appreciate his work on its own, of course... But it isn't the same. Sherlock gets me really emotional sometimes lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 12:05 AM
1	Do you think it's problematic for men to prefer petite women? Are you really trying to make women get on here and say that men can't have a preference among young, single women or something because 'this isn't about age'? Get out of town. Men have preferences all the time. We know how you feel about ass and tits. We are not stupid, and no one is persecuting you! If you're single and you choose to date some people grow the Hell up and realize no one else cares. The reality is that weight does correlate fairly strongly to age and pregnancy/motherhood. If men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 11:35 PM
2	Women would be straight up miserable if their partner refused to have sex with them, yet because it usually happens the other way around they find excuses that sex is not important Women would have the stones to leave if they were in a miserable situation. There, fixed it for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 04:18 PM
10	Q4W: What do you perceive to be 'weakness' in a man? Utter lack of ambition, work ethic, or standards. Obsession with some unrealistic, shallow goals to the detriment of anything more important/meaningful. When they blow up or hide shit instead of actually facing problems in a more healthy, timely way. Yes, this includes emotional problems. Inability to adapt to change especially when it's genuinely a necessary, normal part of life. Failure to stand up for and support the people closest to him when they deserve better. If you can't be good to one …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 06:25 AM
1	Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitment Being a slob justifies breaking up. But you did some things before you got to that point, didn't you? Well, not everyone else does. Just saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 10:16 PM
1	Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitment You know what? Maybe you're right. Maybe sex is earned. Not from one side, but in general. It IS an adult responsibility, after all. It IS a mutual effort that requires this level of communication. It requires agreements. Might as well be negotiation. Even though it's supposed to be generally fun, there's a give and a take in some senses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 10:14 PM
1	Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitment Yes, Einstein, a couple who wants nothing to do with each other will break up. A couple that both cooks and cleans and engages emotionally and sexually, however, might likely be happy for both parties. Have you considered that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 10:10 PM
10	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" accept fat, masculine and combative women? And what are you here? Do what you want though, it's your life. Just try not to be so biased, as there are plenty of women who are much much more understanding and gentle than you seem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 09:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I prefer not to stifle the guys I'm interested in early on. Maybe a text here. Maybe one phone call per week I'm between dates. More than a couple hours of phone calls per week that early on, and I'd be concerned of love bombing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 03:13 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh bullshit. You can't know someone within only 6 hours or so, and sometimes those hours are all in the same very limited context at first! That's bullshit. No one brings home to mama someone after 6 hours/possibly 3 dates. If you sleep together right away and your dates are all weekend long, you'd have an argument, but then you'd still be sexing early on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 03:08 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread And what type of sex drive is it where you are looking to have sex with a random person without really knowing them? It's what they call "being willing to hookup/FWB." Hope this helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 03:04 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think you shouldn't speak in absolutes if you're really only talking about a trend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 02:28 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's what purple just said lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 02:23 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well I guess I have the luxury of knowing they're wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 01:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread When you call people sexually repressed and tell them how they don't enjoy their long-term partners, you're definitely pressuring people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 01:56 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You're on fire today 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 01:55 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread BRUH. Are you really saying I don't enjoy my husband?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 01:54 PM
0	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? Because I don't care that much, and furthermore it's a lot more effective AND polite to determine attraction holistically through video chats and in-person meetings. I'd be hesitant to use OLD AT ALL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 08:04 AM
17	CMV: The reason why most women initiate breakups/divorces is because they are physically unattracted to their partner The emotional problems DO start to affect physical desire, but it often starts on the inside IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 06:33 AM
5	Would you wait for a guy until he achieved his peak? I would never want a man to get surgery for me, especially one that hurt his intimate sensitivity. No guy at a 6:00 mile is dating me. Mine is already far from that, and far from the bench. I'm the one doing the work mostly. He still looks great to me. Imagine that. Listen, when someone told you straight women aren't ever attracted to a normal/average decently healthy dude with minimal training, they lied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 06:01 AM
1	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? He doesn’t have his height listed in his bio, so you ask. He says 5’10”. Would never happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 05:48 AM
1	Today society is PERFECT for men Oh come on now. Sure a lot of men do great, but nothing is ever perfect, and wealth inequality is a bitch these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 01:38 AM
1	Everyone is worse off when women approach Considering players make initial approaches on women all the time I doubt there is much correlation at all. The players move on fast when they don't touch you. They can't hold conversation, can't make plans, can't think critically at all really. The non-player who approaches with intent to marry you, that's someone who wants a future ANd works for that future. Which is what most women want if they're gonna risk getting pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 01:02 AM
1	Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems? That depends on your location and your life, doesn't it? I am trying to live off charity/foraged food and get strong at the gym, so yes I am much busier than you would imagine. Also in the suburbs there aren't a lot of people just out and about hanging out. People have stuff to do. Even in downtown Houston, you have to go to bars and stuff to have idle chit chat. In the streets, people are moving. No one wants to be interrupted in their shopping or their business or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 04:26 AM
1	Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems? I'm sure you can socialize with coworkers and yet avoid spaces 1-to-1 private meetings too. There are like 4 people in my office, max. The very first time I came in to this job I was alone with a man for about 20 minutes just because we were on time and on point getting set up. You'd have to be mega powerful and not worried about being late or blowing someone off entirely to pull off NO one-on-one time with the opposite sex. I imagine there are even senators who would like to have a private word…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 04:24 AM
1	Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems? And that's fine, but there will be a lot of opportunities to discuss work that are friendly and not problematic if you are not excluding the opposite gender. I know this because almost all of the people in my chosen field are opposite gender. Of course I avoid pressure problematic types of things, but I am still friendly with male colleagues in a platonic way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 04:18 AM
4	Is it a good strategy for men to not befriend women at work to prevent problems? Yeah that's a red flag for me, too. Bring your fucking kids if you're just showing me around the area, I don't care! But even then, big difference between "Hey can you step into my office alone real quick with the door open to look at this software issue? Hey do you want to order a pizza today and celebrate our new client?" Versus "let us meet when my wife and kids are away." Good Samaritan is doubtful, but honestly I agree that HR is not the move in that scenario unless there were additional is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 04:16 AM
2	How did you get manipulated? Are there really many male manipulators? Told me he was a virgin. Since I was, too, I was dumb enough to believe him. I did not have the life experience to know different. I was, however, smart enough to know if he was planning to stay with me. We married. I'm a bit more confident in my experience level now, slightly. That might help in the future if I have to face the big bad dating world again. I know not all women have this situation. I know "not all men." Not many men, even. It seems rare. Now, on the other hand, I didn't go lookin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 05:51 AM
0	How did you get manipulated? Are there really many male manipulators? Harder to find, yes. I would not have been likely to meet many older men with anything fun about them. Cautious? Oh God, no. I used to think that bad people were so rare. I was wrong! Harder to get in general.... Yeah no. We were all broke, so he could be broke too. Now that I've made something of myself, men ask "why are your standards going to be hire when you are old an valueless?" Bitch my employer does not find me valueless. My degree is actually in something good. I'm actually smart. And y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 05:39 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I lost another couple of pounds already. I'm healthier. Still feels like I have a long way to go. I'm just tired, man. I'm tired. I hope this hard part financially and physically ends soon. I'm gonna get some rest now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 05:31 AM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male Russell is human, I'm sure he did some shit too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:40 AM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male If Future was father of the year and his kids loved him and the kids didn't want another father figure and treated Russell like shit, you might have a point somewhere. Except Future is a POS, and Russ essentially functions as a true father figure. Those ARE his kids, and it certainly seems like Ciara has treated him like a respected member of the full family as well. Blood isn't everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:21 AM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male Yeah HER children has value to her. It's not just his. TF?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 11:17 PM
1	In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity? That's good for you. I don't have casual sex, so for me my sex drive can get out of hand pretty easily and mix my feelings. I have gotten good at creating distance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 10:46 PM
2	In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity? That is radical. Y'all should have done it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 10:24 PM
1	In your experience, do platonic opposite-sex friendships often involve a lot of "giving" by men without reciprocity? Yeah, I agree. But I never had that situation WITHOUT ATTRACTION. There was always something romantic there in those situations, even if it wasn't official. I was never super close with someone who wouldn't have made a pretty excellent partner in some ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 10:22 PM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male Umm? And? Since when is stepdad and insult? Even if you don't want that for you, your assumptions about other men who are stepdad are unwelcome and inaccurate	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 09:23 PM
1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? If I decided that relationships with men were not an option, I'd be celibate. That's an option. In no universe is it hot to sleep with someone who does not want me. I have put my 20's into one intimate relationship, and the only way it's ending is if he cheats on me or something horrendous like that. I can understand if that happens a few times, I might give up, but I can't understand wanting the very thing I can't keep in my own comfortable home taunting me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 02:20 PM
2	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Your experience of gender roles clearly isn't mine. We are allowed to have differing point of view. If you decided you were done with relationships, one I wouldn’t judge you your choice is your choice. I want to be clear, I agree. I asked a question, and I was considering multiple possibilities for the answer, but everyone has their own breaking point where they can give up on something. 25 is fairly young, that's probably not a lot of failed relationships in the first place and likely not a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 02:17 PM
1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? He wanted it bad enough to work on it before, and 25 is pretty damn young to say something you started at 16 or 18 just never worked out yet. "It just doesn't bring him happiness anymore" feels like the very, very short version of the story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 02:11 PM
2	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? if the escort is barley surviving on $30 which isn’t true Clearly I don't agree with this entire sentence starting here, and I don't believe there will ever be a way to find some sort of wisdom from someone who goes on vacation with a bunch of cheating assholes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:59 AM
1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? That’s just their price. Dog, $30/he is barely surviving on that sort of work and you know it. You haven't won shit. I just don't want to talk to you, and the rules limit what I can about it. I mean, what use would I have arguing with a man who thinks cheating with hookers is no big deal and it's JUST a price... For a human being's disease risk?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:51 AM
3	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? I’m sorry, but do YOU know what consensual means? It means they shouldn't depend upon you for bare survival when deciding whether or not to fuck you. But hey, you know what, you go do you. And your friends are assholes, btw. Nice choice in friends. I can't emphasize enough how I'm glad you're not dating or touching anyone I know including me. Have a good one bye	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:43 AM
2	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Money can be the difference between life and death. Doesn't apply to a rich escort work 5k/hr, but it definitely applies to a Mexican hooker charging 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:24 AM
7	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? I've been applying to the same class for 2 years, school to prep for many years before that. You might be underselling the emotional investment in a career by a bit. But see, I am not a cold robot. I do understand there is a period of grief and heartbreak when a relationship falls through. One night even want to be single for a bit and regroup. But to stop loving entirely for the long term? To detach sex from love entirely? Well, I'm a woman. How the Hell would you judge ME if I did that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:16 AM
1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? You and I both know, if it was going to be equal, I would want it equal in the other direction. Which is exactly what I want, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:04 AM
6	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? I didn't say it shouldn't hurt. I said it's a part of life, and I asked "why quit on this specifically?" I know exactly what I said, but you sound like you don't. This guy had whole ass relationships. He was doing OK. No one is belittling him, in fact it seems he gave up on a path where he was merely a few years away form what he was looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 05:03 AM
2	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? We’re going to pretend like rejection especially a string of them over time isn’t painful Never said that. It would be fucked to put words in my mouth!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:57 AM
-1	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Where I am, hiring is NOT legal. Furthermore, the minute you realize you can't with that person, your dick should deflate sufficiently. I would never touch a man who I didn't know wanted me. That's NOT hot, no matter how he looks. Sex is more than tits and ass bouncing around. It's a shared moment like any other in the comfort of ones private home. Personally, I wouldn't even have that type of fun with anyone casual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:25 AM
0	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Clearly I disagree. Paying someone one office work hour's wage to put their health at risk for your nut and their chafing is WAY different then me wanting my husband without employment being involved. I might even see your point if you were hiring someone who's been working for $5k an hour for a few years, but you wanted it cheap you say. They aren't doing that for funzies, you don't need a shrink to know that. Don't care how you think I sound. It would be illegal for my employer to try that shi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:22 AM
2	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? If we were to apply your strict definition of consent then every sex is rape. Nope. Many women want to gate-keep easy sex to ensure they have value in dating market. You ever consider what this might mean to my definition of consent? Although, yeah there are a lot of sexual encounters that just bring drama. Men at least cum, women cum less in causal encounters especially. Maybe having slightly less sex would be a benefit to others, it's worth thinking on. That's up to them. As for me, I CAN cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:11 AM
6	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Bruh that's a lot of money... Yeah I enjoy sex too, but I know it comes with risks and I don't just have it any time I feel like having a bit of harmless fun. And you missed the first question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:07 AM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male I did not look that deep into it. I don't care too much. It was a lot of years ago. We don't know what all he told her, or how all he treated her, or why she wasn't dating others. Speaking as a woman, I can speculate about one factor. When she was "childless" and young, there would have been less men her age looking to settle down so early. She might not have had as many options. I know that goes against what TRP tells you, but I had many fewer peers looking for serious relationships at that you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 04:02 AM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male Idk about those women. I don't idolize random dudes, especially not ones I know so little about. I wouldn't hold him up for an example personally, not would I make him a villain. I think we can all explain to men how they should be without comparing to some dude none of us know much about anymore. They aren't all that public, really. They tried to avoid that for their kid presumably due to Future and his assholery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:45 AM
5	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? I’ve gotten 5 escorts on a boat in Mexico at night for $30 each. All beautiful women. Do you know what consensual means? But yeah hot chick go burr, whatever. Lmao your looking in the wrong spot. I'm not looking at all. I would never, and let's be crystal clear about that. I am a woman, but still. He wants sex on the spot so he pays. To each their own. I have had relationships and actively date, That's not what the OP says, though. He says it wasn't good for him to date actively. Strippers might…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:34 AM
1	Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC An inferior animal who is incapable of determining and explaining reality, according to you, apparently. If I say someone is treating me as less than competent, I mean it. End of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:31 AM
1	Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC ...... On the internet without evidence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:27 AM
2	Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC Honey, are we on the same subreddit? And you aren't in my life with any context. I don't expect you to 'get it,' but I also wouldn't expect anyone who respects me as a person to randomly call me a liar without information.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:26 AM
5	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? Just based on your post I'm seeing red flags even without knowing that your loved ones have voiced concern. "Rejection bothered" you. Yeah, that's life, I'm sure you've gotten rejected from jobs and apartments and educational programs and special events and awards. But you still participate fully in the real world trying to pursue happiness. Why is it different with women? Furthermore, it's what's NOT in your post. You're only 25, you've had sex the personally intimate way before, but you never …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:23 AM
2	Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC in an attempt to win people over. OK let me be clear. If you don't want to respect me or treat me like a whole human, that's fine. If you don't see the value, I'm not going to try to change you. I'm too cynical to believe it would work. I just don't LIKE it. I don't like having lies spread about me, I don't like it when I'm underestimated as the full human being I am. Just like men don't LIKE being treated in ways they feel are unfair. I think men are the ones trying to change women, though, I'm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 02:33 AM
2	Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC I did NOT have sex with casual men who weren't right for me Also did not do drugs or drink Did not mess up my educational opportunities I got the basics right, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 02:25 AM
2	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? Not on a busy street to every single person, no... Maybe to people you're speaking with personally, or someone who is approaching you specifically head-on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 01:34 AM
2	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male You wouldn't know the first thing about Ciara, that's what I think. Future isn't whoever you guys think he is. He's literally just a punk. I promise she's not losing any sleep over him. And her new man isn't "good on paper," he is committed and classy in practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 01:31 AM
2	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? Huh. So it's not a desirability thing, but a man thing? Not sure about that, but I guess you'd know much more than I would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 12:49 AM
2	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? I know here in brazil nearing the city of Campinas there is a huge ad board from Hope (sells lingerie fyi) with some hot actress posing, i forgot her name. The region has about 60% of all accidents in the highway, and it is not applied in the reverse way, only the direction where the Ad can be seen. Yeah. Not an average woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 11:26 PM
1	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? The only way it would be possibly to specifically notice MOST dudes is if there were very, very few of them. In the current world with 4 billion men, it would be exhausting to check out half of them (or even to check out as many as you see per day in NYC). That doesn't mean they aren't desirable, it's just that they don't stand out. Like I said, there are 4 billion men and 8 billion people in the world. Most don't stand out. Do you honestly think men look twice at an average woman walking down t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 11:14 PM
0	Do you believe a scenario where the average man is desirable is possible? I believe the average man IS desirable. Just a matter of finding the right sort of lifestyle fit. Takes some time, socializing is hard, but once people get off their asses and put some effort into it they can be desirable. It just depends upon HOW desirable, and how mutually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 11:06 PM
3	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male And what dynamic do you assume that is? Aren't they married, and she's gorgeous? I know her ex is a POS, but from what I hear she has done her best do behave in a classy way regardless of him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 11:04 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I said that lib men say they don't care, until they are faced by it and they feel the ick. Which would imply that women have done this frequently enough for it to be a problem, which I doubt. And it's not a "male" ick, to be clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 07:46 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You act like "lib" women are out there having sex with drug dealers. But really, that's a HUMAN ick and women do feel it. Sorry to bring up women an burst your bubble, but we do exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 06:47 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread And the vast majority of women in your rich soul life are likely a part of the equation you ignored here. Why is that, exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 05:19 PM
1	Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single? some freakin' insecurity-inducing sexual past that can potentially jeopardize your relationship if disclosed, which will make you feel like the man in the relationship This is the most honest thing I've read in... A long time. This is going to need a moment to sink in lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:52 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Omfg stop replying to me, I thought you didn't want to talk. Off you pop now	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:49 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread You would be surprised about what women would think about unprotected sex with a drug dealer, it sounds like....	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:49 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread One dumb comment does not represent all women. It does count as cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:47 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I did struggle with finding dates and boyfriends when I was young. A lot of people weren't ready, and I guess you could say I was mature for my age. Didn't want an old man, didn't want a man my age. None of them wanted me, either. I did struggle, so don't say I didn't. Also marriage is not all easy sex, let me tell you. In my marriage, that mostly goes for me as the woman lately! Just because I found ONE partner does not mean everything was easy. I'd be willing to bet half these dudes did have o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:46 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread They underthink. Wouldn't take much to realize this is physical and does not even apply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:43 PM
3	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? Nice downvoting lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:29 PM
2	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? It just never occurs to women that men want things from their relationships too. I am in a relationship, so I do know this, of course. Not only is it rude for you to assume otherwise without any indicator, but it's wrong. Wait a minute now, men's rants about how wahmen are all some evil monolith on the internet are about their own relationships? You are the one being defensive about men here. Remember how this whole conversation started: Me - it's OK for men to back off, I would never assume it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:28 PM
2	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? Some shit post with no link? No I didn't read it, and I'm not going to trust it while it avoids providing context for its claims about internet wahmen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:16 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread they can recognize if someone is attractive or not based on their own criteria. But if they are not judging their sons, why does their OWN criteria matter there? It's not like it's an ethical dilemma, it's purely physical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread YES	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:01 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The first progressive social policies I ever cared about were geared toward helping the bottom 10% (Or whatever %, probably less than 10% of men are unhoused) of unhoused, mentally ill, addicted men. Then I went to college, and I became a part of the top 25% or whatever portion of women in STEM/lucrative fields. It became clear to me that women need some help not only at the top, but I also stopped excusing the poor behavior I dealt with in high school. I started to admit the problem was not "ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 01:49 PM
1	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? No men actually say anything like this. Not even men on the spectrum. Welcome to PPD, are you new here? The way it actually works is that the man has to withdraw, and say nothing, because that’s his only option. And even when men do that, women freak out and call us pigs and accuse us of wanting only sex. Men can’t win for losing here. No woman ever says this, even if it's a woman on the spectrum. I could NEVER be arrogant enough to assume a man wanted to sleep with me when he never said so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 01:28 PM
1	Is the average purple pill participant butter against women? In a marriage, one would hope it's the right partner, and if not the marriage SHOULD end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 05:15 AM
3	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? Close friend dynamics + sex = relationship(roughly). I mean, that's a major reason why I'm against casual sex in the first place... At the very least not close friends Boundaries at a certain point are OK. But if you cannot admire or break bread with a woman or share a social event with a woman, you probably have dehumanized women from very normal human experiences. I don't think excluding certain groups from your personal relationships is a huge deal, especially if it's based on factors that ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 05:14 AM
0	Is the average purple pill participant butter against women? I actually agree with that. But I AM aware, so I would intend to make adjustments if we ever did plan to adopt. I still think sex is a very worthy priority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:58 AM
3	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? I seriously doubt I'd get along as friends with many women platonically. Doesn't have to be many. As long as you look at them as individuals instead of trusting stereotypes, then you aren't dehumanizing anyone and you will likely have 1 female friend or something. I enjoy talking to the guys I work with in a friendly way. I would give them recommendations, I would attend their family funeral with them if they invited me. Same as my female colleagues. They are all equally good people with equally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:55 AM
5	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? " yo am I only friends with them cuase they pretty ". I would have these really great conversations with my former male friends. They would be there for me. I would make them laugh genuinely. We could talk about stuff, and I would give good advice. But sometimes they ended up thinking I was pretty, and it IS difficult to separate that out. At least I always have the males who rejected me to remind me I'm still worth attention even without being attractive. Thanks to all my haters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:39 AM
6	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? due to lack of common interests So only some men, those that lack their interests. Disinterested for a reason that applies equally to women. That's fine. If you, as man, tell me you never met a single cool soccer player or a tuba player or an artist or a skater girl who could be your friend, you are lying. And if I said I never met dudes with cool interests, both straight and gay, that would be a lie. the concern that these men will use friendship as a guise for approaching them sexually/romanti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:36 AM
7	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? Yes. People are capable of so much more than sex on a personal level. When you discount that, you lose out and you also show signs of psychological issues. Not that I have ever seen a woman actually do that, but yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:19 AM
9	Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why? It's dehumanizing to say "If SEX is off the table, I don't want anything to do with you. I approach women personally with the main intent of sex, with no other qualifications. The problem is sexual, and I cannot be bothered with people in general except to scratch my dick itch." It is NOT dehumanizing to say "Hey I was looking to consider a relationship with you as a WHOLE person, but since that won't work out due to your lack of availability to me, I want space to move on and focus on other peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:12 AM
2	Is the average purple pill participant butter against women? People who divorced over sex weren't too broke or too tired. They WANT to have sex, and they can't for whatever reason. I AM married. No kids, but we have struggled economically. Yes things slowed down, but personally I'm working to better our finances AND I still enjoy sex as often as possible. I would expect the same from him. And over time the streets should get better, not worse, as we establish ourselves. I've gone months without even seeing my husband. There are dry spells, but years or de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:03 AM
0	Is the average purple pill participant butter against women? What's crazy is to stop having sex. Like, it's fun.... I get it if you're super busy with toddlers, but otherwise it's a priority. Why would you not?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 02:13 AM
3	Permanent sterilization should require many sign offs and the approval of your partner Actually my husband got one without my sign-off. I respect his decision, although in my opinion the decision was not centered around me. I don't feel like it has to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 11:36 PM
9	Permanent sterilization should require many sign offs and the approval of your partner Then the patient will bear all of the main consequences. As such, they ought to be the decision maker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 01:51 PM
7	Permanent sterilization should require many sign offs and the approval of your partner Having a baby and moving across the country is pretty serious, too, but men don't complain when women make those serious decisions as very young, fickle adults. I mean, yeah 19 is a bit young for either of those permanent things, but doctors know what kind of standards they need to have. You don't. Leave it to a patient and their doctor. That is all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 01:47 PM
9	Permanent sterilization should require many sign offs and the approval of your partner This is as much between a patient and a doctor as abortion is! Who faces the most consequences? The patient. Who has to be present? The doctor. If your partner doesn't want kids, but you do, then just move on. Assuming they are an adult, it's THEIR choice and they can make it within reason. If a 19 year old can fuck up her life by moving across the country and getting pregnant by an old crusty washed-up man, a 19 year old can say she doesn't want to be pregnant. EVER.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 01:43 PM
3	Pew analysis: husbands are the sole or primary earner in half of all CHILDLESS marriages FWB Don't want kids? Don't want diseases? Then don't go around fucking anyone and everyone multiple times consensually. 99% of the time it's really that simple for a man. I believe what you meant was "stay friends," but that's a stupid take, too. Not everyone has to go from 0 to 100, and even less people have to have sex at 0. The only reason you should move in together, nevermind marry, is to have children. Otherwise stay FWB until you reach that position. 1) I contribute financially to rent fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:30 AM
1	Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing? The other commenters basically answered for me. I would handle some nighttime duty for kids/pets and kitchen as long as the work WAS kept up with throughout the day and the kids were being raised the way I needed. I would make sure my partner got the same break I did, ideally, unless their "breaks" were while I was gone somehow like if the kid had kindergarten or was a great napper lol. If I didn't have to get up all night because he did the feedings, I'd be willing to take over most of the nigh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:23 AM
1	Many of the so called "real relationships" can be infinitely more demeaning and degrading than "casual sex" is Love is just something that you are expected to have a small amount and that will do as long as you are hot. Maybe for a short time. 10 years down the line, other things happen. There lies the real power in relationships between men and women. Sex. That's not what sex is in my opinion at all. I've shared it with one person safely, so, yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 03:14 AM
1	Many of the so called "real relationships" can be infinitely more demeaning and degrading than "casual sex" is Yes and how do you get that consent again? With money. Which is what? Relationships are not mostly financial in the way paid sex is. In relationships both partners contribute, consensually. What are you talking about? I made ONE typo, but it ought to be clear that I meant that someone who has paid for sex would know what I mean about paid sex being the power thing, not relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 12:34 AM
1	Many of the so called "real relationships" can be infinitely more demeaning and degrading than "casual sex" is Someone who insists that ALL relationships are about power (What? what kind of power are you even taking about? Personal relationships are literally about consent.) Definitely will not respect their "employees." THAT is about power. You obviously don't get it. Actually it sounds like to get it, but you don't want to admit it, which is a shame. Honesty I'd a beautiful thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 12:30 AM
9	Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing? I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 12:21 AM
24	Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing? If my husband was a house husband- which I doubt would ever happen, but just IF... I'd do maybe an hour each night to make sure he got his free time to wind down and bond while the older kids are home. I would try to take on the chores he hates most because I love him. Hire out help for deep cleans every now and then. A lot of this has to do with SLEEP, especially when children are involved. All parties need to not feel genuinely overburdened. I would be monitoring that carefully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:16 PM
1	Many of the so called "real relationships" can be infinitely more demeaning and degrading than "casual sex" is Relationships, all relationships, are about power, not love. Love is the thing that either happens, or doesn't happen in between tying these social contracts. No. Just no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:05 PM
2	Many of the so called "real relationships" can be infinitely more demeaning and degrading than "casual sex" is I'm sorry, but there is no real empathy or love in paid sex. A psychopath who is dead inside is exactly someone who could not tell the difference. There IS a difference between encounters with love and those without love, and it is a huge difference. I'm not even saying casual sex can NEVER be respectful or fun. I would not bet the success of my evening on it personally, but it's possible. I'm just saying there is a VAST difference between having those types of standards and, well, not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 12:56 PM
3	Many of the so called "real relationships" can be infinitely more demeaning and degrading than "casual sex" is it's just sex, sometimes it can be hot, sometimes not, in either case, it's just... fucking. Nah. You were right when you were younger. Respect, and having a good time in the good times, is key. Otherwise you're just dead inside. Whether you're dating someone for real or not, it's just... Dead inside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 04:05 AM
1	If you have ever complained about men "pumping and dumping", have you tried lowering your physical standards? Who told you that? Let me guess, men? Lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 12:59 AM
0	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? Who the fuck wants their first time with a partner to be with a condom? Especially just because the fucker doesn't want to fulfill his responsibility of proper STD testing in the beginning of a new, promising, should-be-caring relationship? I'm gonna be honest, at that point I'd feel like I was dating a child and the whole thing would be ended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 04:26 AM
1	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I would disagree, especially with how STD testing works and how little I want to have a random man talking about me to his friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:32 AM
2	Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust? A leader. Someone smart. Not a manwhore. Healthy, masculine look, pretty wide range. My husband could be described as a Norman warrior. People call him skinny, but that dude can throw some weight in the gym and do many pushups/pull-ups. He knows how to shoot and will defend our lives or our things with absolute wrath. Even on the small stuff, he doesn't like to get pushed around. A little direct conversation can lead to compromise, though. He is capable of being rational. As an accountant, he's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 02:37 AM
1	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? But a dude can cum like any night in his own and decide if he likes someone. Same as I've been doing my whole life, it's second nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 02:24 AM
–	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I'm sorry but you are not special the only reason your husband is with you is because the woman he really wanted didn't call him back. Hahaha oh yeah but not a big deal, right? What a lame thing to say. Anyway bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:40 AM
2	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? Yeah, act eventually, when it's time. But not before you even know you want that other human being in your house all weekend, and eventually hopefully throughout all of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:34 AM
1	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I can see that about relationships. I simply haven't been willing to risk having sex with enough people to know what a high bar is for that particular thing. I'm not trying to fuck a football team. Especially if it means losing the relationship I know is so rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:33 AM
2	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I don't consider disappointing sex to be the most good of anything. In fact it makes me sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:31 AM
2	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I said he had sex before me. He HAD other options. Once he got to know me, he chose me even though I did not have sex with him as quickly. There are millions of if not hundreds of millions that look as if not more attractive and have the same if not better personalities. But he's not with them. If he wanted to be and he could be, I presume he would be, right? We were the best match. That's why we stuck together, which is the kind of thing I was looking for. Think. Life is not a fairytale you are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:29 AM
5	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? Months, probably months. Adults are busy, you can't crawl up each other's asses determining how your relationship is in a mater of days. In my opinion, even weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:22 AM
1	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I see no point in going that far, and I still think it's hard to believe. Again, being a lover is not rocket science. Although, I don't know, maybe different partners make you feel differently on a carnal level even if you are initially attracted? Even if that's the case, I'm not going to throw away a good few relationships for what I don't know. And I'm not going to settle for less than good relationships for some allegedly slightly better sex. None of that was happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:21 AM
1	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive He gets my glass often, too. If he's carrying extra stuff or busy with laundry, I need to step up. If not, he sometimes gets both glasses. He might need any number of things, or he might surprise me by getting my glass. We are married, lots of things have happened on lots of nights. His family who have seen the extent of it have seem to think it id overboard, but I'm not unhappy. I will say, making my own schedule is one of the biggest sources of conflict in my life right now. I have to remind m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:15 AM
3	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? That's the problem with men. It can be bad, you never want to see her again, but you don't have the sense to walk away ASAP. You'll drag it out even multiple rounds lol. Not all men, but man, even the worst women don't do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:13 AM
1	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? I'm gonna say like 3-5 times the amount of conversation and activities, especially that early on, makes a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:12 AM
-2	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? Awwww. How romantic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:09 AM
2	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? As someone who has had one sex partner, I don't see it this way. If someone is the best I ever had, that's what I want. Otherwise, well, that's not something I think I could settle on easily. It isn't rocket science to be a giving, passionate lover. If average me can do it, so can my average dude. Only caveat is disability, if my husband became disabled I would of course want to work with that we have. Toys exist for reasons, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:09 AM
4	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? My husband remained. He has sex before me, although I didn't know it. And yet I was worth waiting for because I was the right one, not the only one. That's love. This is so crass and rude for a stranger to say, and I'm sorry, but I wonder what people think about their fathers when they post things like your comment. Did your father treat your mother like an option? Or was he all out of options? Have you never, in your life, seen where a TOP choice is worth waiting for? Of course my hot take of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 01:06 AM
5	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? But you've said men like you don't do that lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:59 AM
1	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive It's been both. "Like damn, get off your phone, I'm tired and its time, go do the next thing" because sometimes I really AM distracted. Or sometimes it's "aww babe, let's brush our teeth together." Also, sometimes he wants a night shower, sometimes he doesn't. We almost always shower together. If he wants us to do a night shower after a day where he sweated a lot, then I have to do that before the teeth. Sometimes he'll want help with getting a glass of water, sometimes not. I'll never know wher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:57 AM
1	Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this? But how does that happen? You fuck like 10 people, date some more, and you can't figure out before sex if she's gonna be any good or not? That's a little hard to believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 12:54 AM
4	I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak” Yeah it kinda is for a grown adult. Try knocking one up, you'll be in for Hell. People who are not functional members of adult society outside of high school are not prepared to be starting families or responsible for public disease prevention. Sex is an activity for folks with full responsibilities, and anyone who ought to be having it knows that. Even kids with half a brain are ashamed of their lizard brain impulses before they're actually ready to do the thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 10:21 PM
2	I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak” But if you are 30, you should not be in that same place where you are still maturing in those ways over time. Being in such a different place is a headache not worth it for the kind of relationship I prefer. It only gets worse if both people still grow at their own, historically very different places. Even for one night, I could see there being issues. "Oh you mean you never tried this before? I have to take it slow? Hmm, I'm bored." "Oh you mean other people actually LIKED doing that with you? …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 10:18 PM
5	Assuming the table represents the relationship itself and we’re talking about a man and woman then what should each bring to the table? My opinion? Loyalty, for a start. Effort. These things might look a little different to different people. Trust and communication. It's not necessarily gendered, although some women tend to be more creative and emotionally supportive while men tend to do more acts of manual service. Some folks don't even enjoy sex that much, but most do. Either way is fine, we shouldn't judge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 10:11 PM
1	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive Not every single night on his exact same schedule I don't. In the morning I do, because we have to get going immediately at the same time every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:32 PM
2	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? He has earned everything he has, but the reason he did most of it was not out of his own desire or career-orientation. I gave him some really good ideas which he took, because I considered his own orientation as well as my own desires for more security and recourses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 09:22 PM
1	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? That's interesting, because before my intervention, my husband would not at all be considered career oriented. Even now, I put more planning and effort into him moving up than he does. I didn't ever see him now as "career oriented."	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:54 PM
4	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? Men get better with age up until they're late 40s. Hahahahahaha Ok byeee	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 05:32 AM
3	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? Thank you for your input!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 05:18 AM
3	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? No offense, but please read what I commented. These dudes do not have to be rich, they just have to work at some job around the level of the lady. Hell, in the last restaurant I worked at, I would say the dudes doing were easily punching way above their league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 05:11 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread And guys should do the same thing....	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 05:05 AM
3	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? Well if you're gonna stretch it that far, yes it is possible for a less attractive dude to be with a more attractive lady. You never seen the old man who gives the young, sheltered girl her first attention? Sure maybe she has barely started her first job, and he might technically be making more than her, but he's not rich or impressive at all. That shit does happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 05:05 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Even those guys are JUST good looking or rich. I still don't want them in my body, but I'm attracted to some just like I am also attracted to my husband. The same thing would not work for a totally ugly dude who I did not notice in a few initial meetings (usually one meeting). Not talking about dates before they get noticed romantically/sexually. It just can't be full sex until the guy is like family or a pet like you said. Sex is in my bed, my home is my sanctuary. Not to mention all of the oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 05:00 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean it definitely helps be lower my inhibitions with my husband that I can allow him into my private space safely and trust him with my life, but my inherent desire for his body comes from some place else. No man could make me feel uninhibited without time, and I've never had sex with anyone else but the husband. Yet some guys are still quite good looking, even some women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:44 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah that's a comfort thing. Not a sexual thing. We know if you're hot pretty early on within the first good conversation, it just may not mean we want to FUCK. Different levels of attraction. I don't consider it to be full sexual attraction until I am comfortable enough like an established pet to share the same room for a weekend. But at the same time, that's your lover not your pet... Way different, we are homo-species here I promise. Some physical attraction part also exists for women earlier…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:37 AM
2	Do you have a “one that got away”? Yes. My childhood love. Like I was literally a child. I am married now. Life moves on. There's no use in fantasizing. He's a good guy, and I still know it, but what's done is done. Anything else would be in a different lifetime or different universe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:28 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread And men should too? What's your point? PLEASE do not reach children in your life this sexist and reckless way of thinking....	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:23 AM
3	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? Good to know you don't think it's only women who value looks highly to a strict percentage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I still like my clients as people bet they are just not my man. I'm a woman like you, I'm not even on your radar for dating, and yet I still don't get this AT ALL. On the other hand, the amount of men who use sex services outnumbers the service providers, so maybe you'd have a BETTER chance of a man getting it. I don't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 04:18 AM
3	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? you can see an ugly woman with an attractive man. If that was possible, I might have been with an even hotter dude once upon a time. But that never happened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:52 AM
5	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? Most attractive TO THE INDIVIDUAL. Like how you prefer your type when a lot of guys don't. There are women who really, really don't like my husband that way, but I do. Phsyical atttaction does matter, but people are also fickle in a way. Once I see a hot guy acting like a fool, he does get less hot. Once an ordinary man proves to be a very good match, my views might change. I remember specifically that happened to me in early high school once. There was a boy with bad teeth and baggy jeans and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:51 AM
–	Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ? do you even know which end of a screwdriver is which? There is NO reason for this type of discussion. Pointless. how fat, pasty, and out of shape are you, compared to your blue collar colleagues? Faring quite well, actually, thanks for asking. I've been working on it because I'm planning to GO "blue collar" potentially. Even engineers do field work in certain positions. I didn't come here to be rude and bicker, just saying. You don't have to personally attack me. It is against the rules and hone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:48 AM
–	Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ? About myself? Way to make things personal. Actually please just go away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:34 AM
1	Q4ALL: How would you react if you found out your son was... Below 18, parents have obligations. The only OK thing you suggested is MGTOW. I don't know how I would treat the son, that depends on what specific issues he had. No two troubled manosphere men are the same. A man genuinely going his own way is fine. There are many reasons a man might be single. We can't judge based on these stereotypes, except that there's no good reason to brazenly resent basically all women. I would feel absolutely devastated if I raised a sexist, resentful, unhappy son. As l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:33 AM
6	Q4W: Would you date/marry a guy who doesn’t want kids AND isn’t career-oriented? My husband doesn't have to promote ALL the way up, but I needed him to follow my advice on making a reasonable income without kids. I don't want to be dirt poor AND kinda lonely while he games. I helped him figure it all out. He doesn't have to supervise large regions or something, now he only has to apply like I do. This is fine for me, I guess. Would prefer kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:23 AM
7	What could (would?) you do with this information about anonymous women's general income/career requirements? I am inclined to agree for the most part, but you've seen all the questions out here, right? I'm trying to figure out what is up. However, as a woman I feel we are in a competition that internet men will often neither understand nor acknowledge. As an average-ish woman, I'm not out looking for a Henry Cavill. We are not actually delusional like men think. My less attractive friends find less attractive dudes. My more attractive friends find more attractive dudes often. Some things are more subje…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Honesty truly is the best policy! I wish you good luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 03:04 AM
3	If a sexually experienced woman begins a relationship with a sexually inexperienced man, she should be willing to experiment with him and teach him I mean, I never got to experiment myself and a man who is desperate for that would be a horrible match for me, but otherwise your take seems at leasy fair. Like good for you babe, you can pay for the weird stuff you need unless I want to do it for me. It's not unreasonable if it doesn't interfere with your needs/feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:53 AM
3	If a sexually experienced woman begins a relationship with a sexually inexperienced man, she should be willing to experiment with him and teach him My man was way more experienced than me. I never got to experiment. He was my first. So how can he help me overcome the bitterness? Do you have an answer to that for me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 02:51 AM
2	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive Because he's ready for us to get ready to go to bed together, and I'm distracted with something else. Or maybe one time I was about to forget or crash.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 12:20 AM
1	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive Of course I do, but not necessarily in his exact schedule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 12:15 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes. If my husband is 70 and sick and he's been loyal to me for 40 years, I will absolutely 100% be wiping his ass on occasion. I will be courteous about it, too, but enthusiastic won't be the right word. That's how marriage and dying together works. Bedroom? Well, I'll put it this way. I am vanilla flavored. I go to "genuinely uncomfortable" pretty quickly. On the other hand, a couple of times I tried things I was on a fence about, and I ended up liking it in certain ways. 40 years of almost ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:19 PM
2	Is it better for men to ask out women as soon as they know them, or is it better to build up a friendship first? Ask them out when you want to. Like, when you know enough about them to decide "I would like to have dinner with just you and tell you you're pretty and have some laughs and likely keep seeing you for a while to learn more over time." But not after she's comfortable telling you about that time she peed herself in 5th grade. Ask SOON after you know her well enough to know you truly want to try dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:10 PM
1	Self Improvement WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC I don't care about how impressive or capable someone is, I'm not a woman. Yeah you have a view I don't agree with. Good luck with that. As for logistics, most people from the same culture are geographically convenient and have more in common. You being unable to accept the whole ass culture you grew up in is a bit questionable and not usual. That's me being civil, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 11:02 PM
3	Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ? Pro tip: maybe don't hate people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 10:54 PM
2	Self Improvement WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC Women are women. There are plenty of western women with tattoos. I have none. I like kids, I like dresses, I'm painting my nails right now. If I could afford all of those things securely, I'd do it all. I'd still work, but that doesn't make a person less feminine or impressive or capable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 10:54 PM
-1	Can women be “squares” Don't need your rant tbh. People all are supposed to be risk-takers in small ways. Men are crazy bitches too. Anyway bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 10:35 PM
3	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive I don't take it that personally. And I help him with basics sometimes too. It's just normal for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 10:05 PM
9	Men treating their partner/spouse like women treat theirs is considered abusive Umm my husband is the one who does this to me every night! Not that I mind, like, we do get ready and go to bed together when he's ready. It seems normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 09:48 PM
3	Self Improvement WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC Positives: I'm just so poor lol, but I've applied for promotions, so that is good. I planned a trip to bond with family socially. I continued getting back on the exercise train even if slowly. Struggles: Mainly the things that require daily consistency. Even with the diet, exercise, and the appearance-related personal stuff. Anything requiring consistency and money is more difficult these days. Solution: I'll make a pact. Just for this one week, I'll be consistent. And another week after that. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 09:46 PM
2	Self Improvement WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC What a strange claim. How do you back this up? What do you expect of "quality?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 09:18 PM
4	Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ? They usually hide behind the intellect to hide physical inadequacy. The irony. You're talking down to people without realizing it. I work with some blue collar people. A lot of them seem pretty cool. I don't have an issue with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 09:12 PM
1	Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner? My husband makes a little under 50k, as do I, in a very expensive area. But we are ambitious and working our way up. We started on the same level and grew together. We are growing together, which appears to be the point. He wasn't some old man with some house decorated by an ex-forever-girlfriend in a location where only HE had HIS best opportunities yet he expects me to move in and do his dishes. F NO. I worked hard to build towards supporting myself, and any future children in the event of an …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 07:25 PM
0	Men certainly don't need to be more in touch with their emotions Strength is quite important, and I'm pretty sure that's covered in therapy. I'm also sure that expressing feelings IN A HEALTHY WAY is a very strong thing to do. I absolutely believe in focusing on things one can control. That goes for struggling men as much as it goes for me, a woman. Being able to express it understand a feeling is part of being strong, it doesn't take away from strength. I don't think I've ever met someone who has had too much therapy. I don't even think most men I know expre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:13 PM
7	Men certainly don't need to be more in touch with their emotions No, not everyone is in therapy by a long shot. I would agree something is off. For my generation, the economy has been way off my whole life without question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:06 PM
-1	Can women be “squares” Literally lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:47 PM
15	Men certainly don't need to be more in touch with their emotions Omg! What a stroke of genius! Be strong and useful! I'm sure no one ever told this to the multitude of men who ended their own lives! If only they knew! Umm, what the fuck? There are factors besides therapy being normalized, but even "more normalized than ever" is a very low bar. Many of these men were NOT, in fact, in touch with their own emotions still. Mostly I'm sure the economic factors did not help at all, neither with being useful and self-sufficient NOR with being emotionally expressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 12:46 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread People are poor, even ones who work. Maids don't oten do dishes, at least properly. It takes half an hour a day. Not the most convenient fir hiring outside help. Idk man. It's not the biggest issue for me, but I can understand it's a thing. Especially with kids. Nannies are NOT dirt cheap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 04:47 AM
2	Being sexually open is a viable mating strategy for women Just to be difficult? Well that's NOT a good strategy, but if what you want is a patient man and something more than sex maybe you can check those priorities first as a good strategy. You know what's also a bad strategy? Getting an STD or getting pregnant by a douchebag. Or even wasting your night with a douchebag and him ruining your reputation over it. Sometimes, when a man tries to rush, it won't work. So don't have sex, just end it. And make sure you take however long you need to know it wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:52 AM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't understand why more hours at work bringing that extra money to the household didn't translate into less hours cleaning the house, but here we are. The failure is not in failing to become a millionaire. The failure is in not doing your own dishes, it providing emotional support, and a million other small things that can ACTUALLY be expected. "Bring more to the table" can mean lots of things. Try not to strawman the other side. There night actually be a lesson for a handful of man to take …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:40 AM
1	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards It's normal to be excited about one's engagement, and FDS is not about chasing anyone so I think you've been taking it all the wrong way. If you have rare and special issues with fine dining, that's one this, but to think that waiting for sex and focusing on long term partnership is a bad set of priorities? Well, that's not the kind of girl I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:03 AM
0	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards You sound like you might be from Scandinavia. If that is the case, I understand your perspective, but as a somewhat large and impoverished and overworked American, your perspective will not be shared much in Houston and it won't be shared by me. I'm too busy to date someone for multiple hours every week at a time. It would likely come off as clingy to men, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:00 AM
0	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards In 99% of cases, it's fair to assume that fine dining is not supposed to be a painful experience. I get the restaurant thing scientifically, but I have my own history where I've gotten sick off of food much more often in my own family home, so it looks different to me. OP is a VALID person. Are you referring to grace towards her, or towards me? Because I'm pretty sure she did nothing wrong, even though I may have made an assumption that turned out to be arguably uncalled for an insensitive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:57 AM
0	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards Everybody's got to eat. I grew up in Houston, obviously, which is VERY hot. People are not hiking. Swimming sure, and I did that several times with him, but I also ate with my partner. Cheaper and more convenient than driving an hour to the other side of sprawled out metropolitan area for an aquarium. If you are reluctant to eat with a person, how would you have them in your home for extended times to work towards some sort of full partnership including sex and kids and medical stuff?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:53 AM
-2	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards It's not nonstandard that you'd say you like coffee or cafe's. It's more weird that you'd try to insult OP's fiance. It's weird that you'd say you HATE fine dining. I don't even hate coffee shops or Cafe's, some are nice I'm sure. I just wouldn't go there on a whim as a standard first date when I'm getting to know a guy, unless it works out for the reasons I outlined in another post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:45 AM
0	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards I don't WANT to sit on a couch in my cutest dress or when I'm eating a carefully crafted meal. Maybe one experience is more comfortable in some ways than the other, but I think they both have their places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:42 AM
1	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards I had a coffee or a little too much wine at a hipster place before while I was in college (if you know the locale I'm talking about, you know). Sure it was fine every now and then with the right company, but the view was utterly unimpressive and it was quite crowded. The sweets were not better than mine, and I could have bought a whole sandwich next door for that much money. I was just passing the time because I was bored on a school night, nothing special to be there. I do like some tea and pas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:39 AM
0	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards Good restaurants have candlelight and excellent service. I relax there very well. I also am comfortable in a cafe. There is nothing wrong with enjoying a deli sandwich, I enjoy that myself, I just wouldn't say I HATE someone else's idea of a perfectly legitimate romantic evening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:34 AM
1	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards Most days you are right, just not every day. I wouldn't say I HATE fine dining. But it is quite an expense, and I do try not to be wasteful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:32 AM
2	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t No, I don't agree. There is no domination. Either both people enjoy a good experience, or both people are wasting their precious nights on something ultimately worthless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:31 AM
-4	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards But someone else's unique cooking IS an experience that can be a very happy one. You could still also go to a classical concert or something. My man knows value too, and it's rare to spend on food, but it is something I get to do every now and then when we are flush.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:29 AM
1	I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them? My former date is an addict. Very good looking when he was younger, charismatic and smart, but now looking TOO wiry and never did go to school. Has very little except trauma building every day. On the occasion when they are sober, I enjoy a chat. They might even be generous on occasion. He is a friend, but these days he has ED and I don't want that smell in my home. I don't want his nose in my finances, well, literally! Other than that, he's cool people lmao Had a friend who I could study and dr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:26 AM
-4	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards What kind of grown woman hates a well-prepared meal and a chance to look a bit nicer? Who even are you? I mean, sure it's not a weekly thing, but for anniversaries and special occasions it's really nice for everyone. Cafe's that have more than coffee are cool, too, but a man who knows how to take things up a notch is nice for sure!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:16 AM
3	Say No coffee dates!!!!! have standards coffee date is very appropriate for two 21 year olds making the time between college classes. I agree. Literally my main problem with coffee dates is that you have to take travel time and get-ready-time only to spend fifteen minutes with someone. It's wasteful! And all for someone you probably met online if you're THAT unsure about sharing a sandwich with them. Unless you're broke, you both live super close to the same coffee shop, you have a common social circle requiring respect, and you can m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:13 AM
2	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t No. Even the literal "arena" of real, pleasurable intimacy in a bedroom takes a lot of work to build, and it sure as FUCK isn't public. Do the entire world a favor, and remember that comment is supposed to go for men, too. It's not just women who are supposed to build positive, meaningful relationships all on their own. Unless we're talking about homosexual woman relations...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:07 AM
2	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t No you did. And way to make things personal lmfao. Not sure why you'd say that when you are the one who missed the whole ass analogy and I obviously don't care for your opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:57 AM
3	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t Seriously! Sex is fundamentally the opposite of a competition. It's a collaboration. That would be the fucking point. Tits and ass are not the point, and I will never understand or respect a man who would be mistaken in such a way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:52 AM
1	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t Faith in humanity restored.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:17 AM
0	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t Dude sex isn't a fucking game smh! I went back on this sub for ONE thread and I'm already done. Back to working out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 01:16 AM
1	Is it wrong to track data in your relationship? Different for different data/purposes. If you're tracking orgasms because you want to make her 500th special by going to Bora Bora, that's kinda sweet and I wouldn't call it wrong. If you track the time you spent washing dishes down to the minute, that sounds exhausting and unfulfilling and I can't imagine there would be a RIGHT reason for all of the hassle. Expecting your partner to track things down to the minute for you is far worse than the worst boss I ever had, so I defo think that would b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 12:59 AM
1	Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no sense Bio requires specialties. So does CS, generally. Cross-pollination on any complex level is going to be difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 12:45 AM
–	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself Quit telling other women online that they can't do things because you can't. That's not helping anyone, especially other women. I literally earned my credentials and earned my own money and spent it moving myself across the country for opportunity. I did it, so you can stop with this: Emotional maturity is a huge part of being a professional. If you are still dwelling on high school teasing, you have some maturing to do. And any other woman on this forum who does not share YOUR biases will see f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 12:41 PM
–	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself Oh, people do want to work with me. I have a job. People who don't immediately pile on to personally insult a woman when she criticizes some issues tend to do OK working with me, just to be clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 12:05 PM
–	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself but no grown man is going around calling 16y/o teenagers cum dumpsters for holding hands, lol. That's not how Texans speak. And by the way, most slut shaming comes from other women. That's the first insult you hear slung between women. Really makes you think, huh? Well you're right about one thing. It was a boy who called me a cum dumpster. He was my age, but it did happen and not from a woman or girl. Would you want that for your daughter? Then get her out of Texas so she doesn't have to go int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:59 AM
–	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself Oh you mean like it would keep me from getting the credentials or applying? Yeah I fucking did that, so your advice is not as helpful as I'm sure you imagined. I also said I moved all the way across the country to search for opportunity. You can take a seat now, goodbye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:53 AM
–	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself I lived in Texas at 16 and through college, as you might have guessed from my username. I don't work in HR, and I would not be poor enough to use Reddit for entertainment if I could even get hired at the jobs for which I qualify. The problem is I can't, even though I earned my credentials and I applied in the real world. So yes. I have had trouble in the real world being accepted by men in a male-dominated industry, and I WAS slut shamed as a 16 year old virgin because I held someone's hand. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 11:28 AM
0	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself I'm not saying it's totally lopsided. He's the one who learned how to shoot a gun, and he carries out spiders. We both don't want kids... For now. Since we both earn next to nothing in a high cost area, we definitely didn't win any lotteries. The point of my comment is that pure traditionalism isn't the best ROI for every dude. If you are a guy who likes/wants kids and you already have millions in the bank before you meet someone you love, being traditional would probably be a decent ROI for you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 10:59 AM
2	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself My point was that the hyperbole in your first comment absolutely rises to absurdity above the more tempered second comment. Although, even your second comment rings vet false in my marriage. I accept a man who earns barely 40k and I earn the same myself bringing even more to his life. Compare that to the investment of a man who had to earn $100k+ just to keep everyone afloat while his wife does basically what I do at home. Your idea of return on investment is simply wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 03:48 AM
-1	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself Do you think all the cultural norms and traditions that brought us here just happened by accident? Got any woman in your life ever? You need SOME sort of life experience to know reality versus your ideology, because the level of ignorance in this comment is ridiculous. I want to pull your own bullshit out on you. "You want to call me a slut when I'm a 16 year old virgin, and you want to tell me I'm not capable in the workplace? Fine. Men get to select that, believe me no woman has ever had contr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:38 AM
1	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself at least a little bit Downplaying what it means to actually be a feminine woman while acting like holding open doors is all men have ever had to do. Spare me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:33 AM
2	You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urself Yeah I can't imagine a man being traditionally masculine with or without any conditions. It's kinda not necessary, much like a full-time stay at home mother is also no longer necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:31 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Ewww.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 02:59 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. In a few short hours, you'll know for sure if they are a good meal companion and they are fun at group parties. Takes me less than that usually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 12:38 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. If you like them, they're probably somewhat caring or at least have something you want, I imagine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 12:09 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Well like I said I'm NOT a millionaire. I'm not worried about one trying to test me, and I'm not accustomed to anything very fancy except I don't like taco bell. Secondly, 100 dollars on a meal to a millionaire is the equivalent of a McDonald’s meal to the regular dude. Well, exactly. That's the point I'm making. A reasonable expense is fine depending on where we are at financially, but it we can do at least better than McDonald's or Taco Bell I'd want to do better. Denny's, even. Finally, if th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 12:08 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Why did I wait? I was a virgin, I wanted it to be special, didn't want to get a disease or have to have an painful abortion, didn't want to waste my time pleasing someone ended up being a POS. All very good reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 12:03 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Oh it's fully material. Their objective doesn't matter. Yours does. If you like them, they are worth the time and emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 12:01 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Except "affection" doesn't mean sex. At all. You should see that she cares about you deeply before you go buying an expensive vacation. But you also shouldn't risk her getting pregnant until you've also decided she's the one. Do invest time, before sex. That's what my husband did. Now with that being said, he was a broke college kid. If I was a millionaire dating a millionaire, I would not want to have to invest in a man who already has plenty. I would not want to be eating taco bell weekly with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:53 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. You can do both at the same time by taking the smallest amount of time to decide you actually like the people you go out with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:49 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. "Some time" is probably a few full waking days of getting to know each other, not a few hours. And if someone wants to rush it, that's a potential problem. Being able to take time and not be all over someone new from the start is important. You can even be seeing several women who might want a bond at the same time if you have that many options. Either way, rushing before you're sure leads to bad things. Don't stick your dick in unknown territory would be my advice for a man I cared about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:47 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Women over 25 who are no longer with their first real BF or 2? Yes, I guess. Personally, I think it's better not to rush. You're worried about being the right guy before you even know she's the right lady? Whether it takes 2 months or 5 months, it's one step at a time. No need to rush. If no one is ready fast, that might not necessarily be a bad thing. But if you think she's right, and she's not quite sure for another 2 months later... Yeah that's a problem. Same if you are ready way slower than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:42 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Well I've never had sex in less than 6 months together. The money he spent wasn't an issue. He was my first, we are now married. Your beliefs, my dude, are wrong and biased and alarming for someone your age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:36 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Lmfao what do you like not even kiss without having sex? Friendzoners, that's crazy. It might make sense not to spend $700 per month on a friend, but yes it is OK to go on more than 3 hangouts with a friend. There's nothing wrong with that. Get this: you can even date several people while hanging out as friends so your time isn't wasted at all. Imagine that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:34 PM
1	Asking your partner not to dress provocately in a serious relationship is not toxic. There are plenty of people who know to dress appropriately for events. It's toxic for those standards to change based on a relationship. It's toxic for someone to be seeking attention in a way that doesn't fit the event/venue. Sure, if you want to ignore all that, I guess there's no problem.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 11:15 PM
3	Would you pay for a dating service that had lying detection? I'm fairly uncomfortable with my husband even watching porn given the current situation. I definitely don't think it should be a regular thing in a typical healthy marriage, like I'm not gonna be staring at other men or using a vibrator twice weekly while still having plenty of genuinely satisfying sex with my partner. That's not me. How are men gonna do it? Let's just say most decent men I've seen don't seem to be super into that, not at my age especially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 12:45 AM
2	Would you pay for a dating service that had lying detection? If I divorce my husband due to lies, disrespect, and infidelity? You bet your ass I would pay for some security. It would have to be better than what I could do on my own in the decade of my first intimate relationship, though. That's a high bar to meet, and I don't imagine it would be cheap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 12:16 AM
3	Would you pay for a dating service that had lying detection? Monogamy to my standards is getting harder and harder to prove/verify in the age of the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 12:13 AM
8	Would you pay for a dating service that had lying detection? Being a virgin is a plus for 90% of non-promiscuous women, and if you have opinions that are a problem I guarantee you that was going to come out eventually. You want that to wreck your life while you're in the middle of raising kids, or do you want to take your time to do dating right and honestly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 12:10 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I have the context of both of their fairly public careers. If I can know that the relationship was incompatible, surely Jonah could have known without trying to suggest she give up her career and her personal habits. Jonah should have known. I haven't read the messages, and I'm not one to throw around talk of abuse. Jonah has gone public about certain traumas. I'm not trying to judge either of them from afar. It's just that obvious how they were never going to understand one another. That's the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 08:05 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Respecting agency by itself doesn't make you in line. That's just the way it goes. I don't necessarily think it's controlling even, it's just really presumptuous to think she would want to consider it at that stage. It's like if a stranger asked me to have sex with them. It wouldn't be assault, but it would definitely be out of line and I would walk away from that. I can understand most requests, but there's a select few that are out of line including "trust a stranger with your sexual health" a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:48 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It was out of line. Online photos are already out there forever. She can't just stop that from being a thing now. Think about that the next time you jerk off to stranger sex videos. He's asking her to give up money for no good reason. She's always going to be comfortable going to the beach in a bikini. She's always going to do her hair and dress up. She's not like him. It's actually absurd to think anyone can solve fundamental incompatibility just through her ceasing to make money and travel. Ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:32 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh I agree no man should be belittled if he can't achieve something important to him after he put in much effort. That would be cruel. My husband told me he was a virgin, turned out to not be true after a good couple years of our relationship progressing. Now when he hides things, because he definitely does, or when he seems uninterested in sex, I always wonder if a previously virgin man would be doing these things in a marriage. Maybe a woman who had been around the block a few times herself wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I didn't even read the texts, but yeah any suggestion that she stop her career(s) is way out of line. No boyfriend should ever be that presumptuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:13 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's actually normal to love and be committed to the first person you make love to for at least until mid-20's. I've been with only the one guy. I guess if the guy doesn't love his partner he is a failure, but that's his fault honestly. Should have become a monk or something if you are that unhappy with your results in mid 20's. I promise there aren't that many men who are incapable of finding one decent partner. Well, I hope so at least...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:12 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I thought men's pants came in numbers so that you know your pant length in any brand/fit? That's better than women get! But also, yeah you have to try on things first. I'm a woman here, and there are no 4'11'' models either. I do not shop online generally. I need to know how it looks, I need a brick and mortar store with dressing room for the best fit. Services like StitchFix where you input actual measurements are also potentially helpful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Newsflash: I'm a woman like that who could barely get dates, too. Dating is hard. It's not supposed to be easy, just focus on quality and be patient to make it all worth the hassle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:04 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread In defense of Jonah Hill's thoughts on his prior relationship, he does not post thirst traps. He's not a vain surfer boy type. He might have done some stupid shit, and he might have done even more than we know, but I don't think he was hypocritical or wrong at all to think that his former relationship with a surfer model was incompatible. That's one idea upon which we can all hopefully agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 07:02 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because he was trying to fuck with her livelihood. That's why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 06:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you are measuring a man having a body count of one as a failure, you've got shit fucked up. I wish my husband had been with only me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 06:57 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Many "women" who abort in the third trimester are literal minor children who could not even have legitimately consented if they tried, first of all. Secondly, many abortions or even procedures are caused by medical issues. These things can't be determined before getting pregnant. I had sex with my husband, I consented to pregnancy, just not to pregnancy by some other guy who raped me in the same month. I tried to make a baby with my husband, but then it was an ectopic pregnancy. None of these fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 06:56 PM
1	Cold approaching women is seen as 'shallow' and 'objectifying', but women rejecting men because they aren't physically attracted is normal Having standards is critical, both for looks and for other things. Also, cold or semi-cold approaching isn't shallow or wrong if you at least start with relationship stuff instead of sex. My husband asked for my number after having a 10 minute conversation with me and sitting with me in class. That wasn't weird, because we had something in common and we were compatible and I gave him openings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 01:27 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ok that makes me feel better. hope you have a great night then lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:55 AM
5	Marriage 2.0 is much better than Marriage 1.0 No "other people" know what your kids need better than you do. Marriage really is JUST about the people in it. I've been married 5 years. Cheating is by far the most likely reason for me to end my marriage, or something even worse. I do bear responsibilities, but in the age of the internet trying to prove and show all of the details of my humiliation really ain't it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:53 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There are things Tate does that I really, really hope you also won't do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:48 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Mmk	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:43 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No need to go to extremes. Acknowledge that men online perpetuate these expectations, and then just move on. Very very few women do that shit anyway. I know because I am a woman who doesn't get approached, and honestly it's best that way. Whenever I increase my rate of being approached, it's always by the wrong type of dude anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:42 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you are on the internet talking about how women are guaranteed to be approached, you are part of the problem why a woman would think her night alone was very abnormal. Rethink your conclusions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:35 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread On the wrong side of the tracks/on campus, I would often get approached by older men or just very casual men. At my favorite bars/pubs? Almost never, those were chill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:27 AM
2	Q4M: Would you rather be needed by OR wanted by a woman? If it was your daughter? Say she's "low on funds" metaphorically. This guy is dangerous, this guy is a liability, she's strapped down. She needs to cut the weight, so she gives up the positives of the relationship to salvage her stability again. She "sells the handbag." This shouldn't be done just because a guy has a rough financial month or something, but it's definitely important for someone you love to be able to prioritize and cut losses when they're facing a hard time. You should realize th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:24 AM
2	Marriage 2.0 is much better than Marriage 1.0 Yeah, marriage 2.0 is enough pressure. We made public vows, there are courts involved, there are sometimes kids involves. I do think people need those things, but we don't need a "fault" designation or some kind or even further shame like we had 40 some years ago or whenever. Sometimes, unhappy people don't spontaneously get happier with their completely neglectful spouses. Plus? Proving cheating is Hella, Hella hard these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:11 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I went to a similar cocktail bar, and I was not approached by a man or a girl group ever. It takes effort, not just picking a place like men do on a date but picking a place where many single men go. Also, let's not forget the left the apps voluntarily and decided to put in effort for a reason. The men on the app didn't work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 04:05 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Personality wise, those things just bring a great magnetic interaction that can't be denied. It doesn't take great looks, although passing a bar helps. Just being fit and aiming for your same "type" helps. Once you get to your late 20's and you've socialized enough, you can tell which "types," tend to be attracted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:59 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Steak with potatoes, gravy, and veggies is the best. Needs the variety. I admit steak is a favorite of mine. There's other really good foods though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:57 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well I wouldn't know. Experience too limited. It's the sacrifice I make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:54 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread So do other foods though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:53 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread People on this forum are very wrong about men's sex lives. Every woman has met an attractive man. Many of us have had the chance to sleep with one. That's very true. They are not that uncommon, though, in fact it's painfully mundane. There needs to be more than superficial stereotypes to keep my attention, personally. Even the stereotypical features to initially grab attention are not that rare. Simple social skills, fitness, confidence, and consideration. There's several in every restaurant sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:53 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Like why though. I mean I guess it tastes good. Are you upping your protein? Is it a nutritional thing? I generally try to go for variety, both nutritionally and just preferentially	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:48 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your metaphor doesn't apply in my experience at all. I realize that might be pathetic, but it is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:47 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's a huge steak. A lot at once, but looks fairly good. If it is Wagyu, that stuff is good. It is meant to have sides and be a bit smaller, though, if you can manage. Also, it pairs with red wine not white.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:45 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Just because most women have a positive reaction to a dude doesn't mean he had to be slutty when he was young. That's my opinion. I doubt anyone would want to hear that. What about Stacy? You think men have any standards which aren't skin deep for Stacy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:43 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some conservatives are offended snowflakes. It happens. I thought some of Letterman's things were funny! Conan is awesome. And that British dude, holy shit I love that British guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:41 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I knew some really good looking boys who were assholes to me and to others back in my younger years. Personality wise, they were unappealing. Otherwise, they had a shot. I honestly want to say that was WAY more common than poor shy boys who weren't that good looking or confident. I find males attractive, I just do. I'm straight. Well, straight enough lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:39 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Buttholes are very different from the cheeks. And that's as far as I'm taking the conversation with you lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:37 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, yes it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:36 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Conservatives are the main ones who don't appreciate these shows, as was clearly my point. And they WERE funny, sometimes, if you're not a conservative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:34 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread A guy who doesn't need to brag to or worry about friendly men for validation, because he is capable of the romance he desires. "Stacy" doesn't need "you go girl" from ladies on social media, does she? But then again, usually men on the internet will discount personality entirely on this assessment. They will take even the most relationally unappealing woman and call her "Stacy" if she looks like Margot Robbie. So, I guess, these terms just mean a very conventionally attractive person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:33 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah conservatives don't seem to like the portrayals of modern reality. Now that I'm no longer drinking that Kool Aid, though? Some Late Night is funny. SNL is hit or miss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:29 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Probably Hugh Laurie. And IRL, I don't even like older dudes. I've dated younger more often than many ladies. Married younger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 03:26 AM
2	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? Posting beach photos as a surfer is not actually acting single. It's having a hobby, a social one at that. Big shocker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 02:18 AM
3	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? What's bad, again? You have ceased to make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 02:09 AM
1	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? Except she did this for a living and we have no reason at all to think that her life was unhealthy. He just didn't like it, and decided to monologue to her about her own perfectly valid choices. It does seem odd to me, honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:46 AM
3	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? Let's be really generous and say that's the case. He could have said "Listen, I notice I've been changing, I'm sorry but I'm going in a different direction. I'm going to have to call this off." In no way was it ever going to make sense for Jonah to even suggest that a surfer stop posting beach photos and surfing with men - especially when her photos were already all over the place to begin with, it's not like they can be deleted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:43 AM
2	ELI5: Didn't Jonah Hill just leave a relationship that didn't work for either of them and move on to happiness and a baby with someone more compatible. How is this not a win for everyone? A woman who spends half her life and career on the beach, taking a picture on the beach after she gets out of the water, is going to post some pictures. That doesn't mean she's trying to get attention from men. I don't know what her socials look like, but unless there's a lot of really inappropriate posts, I would not think it's a loyalty issue. Don't men have a lot of even pornier stuff they could be looking at these days, anyway? Why would they be showering some random surfer with attention?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:37 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Doesn't seem to be average. Also co-parenting generally is ill-advised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:33 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hot guys generally aren't deranged....	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:31 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Masculinity in general absolutely isn't toxic. But assault and rugged individualism isn't exactly core, nor is it feminine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:29 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What happens? Noticing a person is good looking and admiring their biceps? Yeah, happens early on a lot. Fantasizing about specific sexual acts that one will usually think about while masturbating? Well, I can't speak for other women, but personally no I don't do that with strangers. Feels off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:24 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:23 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Sad situation, but honestly once you go that far in distance it's pretty much forever over. I've been long distance before, and I literally can't keep doing that with my husband. It sucks too much. I got married to be married, not alone, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:23 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I often think "he's very attractive." But that doesn't go into fantasizing easily. My fantasies and what I'd like to do with someone in bed are very personal. I don't go into that much thought until I at least know another human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I dunno man, there are reasons to break up with someone you're attracted to. It happens sometimes. Abundance. You'd dump a hot chick for being broke or something, right? It happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:19 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh that's just stupid. She was across the country, how did she not know that shit was over? I'm assuming y'all weren't long distance together, and I'm actually pretty sure of it because if you were she would have planned that whole trip alongside you with you in mind already	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:18 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You have never seen someone fuck up what could have been a perfectly great relationship because of grief, distance, life goals, or something? This stuff does get in the way, just saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:16 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Exhibit A of why no one should listen to men tell us how to dress. If I have to look at your face and read your internet garbage, you have to see my bulky arms. That's freedom, babe. Don't you love it? If not, stop posting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:15 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That makes no damn sense. There are definitely hot guys in any other state. What did she need you for specifically? I mean, my friends across the country mean a lot due to nostalgia, but if I went to them it wouldn't be for just sex. JUST sex can be had anywhere. What am I missing?! Why are people worshipping this type of clearly meaningless, random sex? It's literally common enough, but not enough fun for me to see an appeal. The fun is in sharing, which requires love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:12 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What healthy person would make this a boundary? I've never cheated, and that's as much my husband's child as it is mine. Why would I ever want to refuse a test on his own child? That's his right. I would normally say that at least it doesn't make sense for the government to run EVERY child's DNA, but honestly it would have been great for me to be diagnosed earlier, so I wish they did kinda.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/23 01:00 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, but I can tell the difference between 'hot' or 'not' on the first encounter though usually. Especially as I get older and I know what works for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 11:13 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't know, I'm pretty sure I would be a lot happier with policies that you disagree with precisely because I'm a woman. Also, the fact that you think society is doomed indicates to me that you don't intend to save it, so what's the end game?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:54 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Society meaning men? While that might be historically true, I don't accept it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:48 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Same reason I care, I guess? You think I haven't gotten my own survival, being a grown woman? Think again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:40 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Someone ban this guy already	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:34 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Maybe because you're not a POS?! Like, tf?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:33 PM
–	Question for Women : Would you accept that your Man has Sex with other women (you would be his only Girlfriend/Wife) if he would be MR Perfect? Cut him off, but it might not even be about the sex. Who the fuck calls someone a dumb ho and then fucks them?! I never want my son to turn out like that. But you maybe asked the wrong question. Would I care if MR Perfect had a FWB while I was already satisfied from my past sex life? I don't know. That seems less of a problem, but it's hard to say given that I have NEVER gotten bored or partaken in multiple of sex partners. I don't know how men can stand to do those things, I really can't. At le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:29 PM
2	The response to the Jonah Hill situation has demonstrated that women will demonize men at every turn, and take zero accountability for their problematic dating behaviors/role in making dating what it is today Preferences are an individual thing, and that's OK. In general it's probably best to only tell people who have asked about your feelings, though. Also, being tactful is a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 10:03 PM
1	Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken. I typically don't like someone enough to be concerned about who they bang until I'm already sure they're not living a party lifestyle to the point they are very likely to cheat. The chances of me cheating at home are basically 0. The chances of me cheating at my friends graduation are higher only in theory, but in practice the chances are still basically 0. This theoretical difference might as well be an imaginary number. I believe the phrase is "statistically insignificant." Also, factor in how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 12:23 PM
3	Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken. Oh a party lifestyle is something to consider for sure, but it's a matter of judgment instead of some hard boundary where you say "hey if you go out where people drink ever I'm dumping you." That's not a reasonable boundary, especially if you can't define what a "sexually charged environment" is. Some family friendly places fo serve alcohol and men can approach, but people can also have graduation and birthday dinners at those places with a group. It's also worth noting whether or not your partn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 12:13 PM
2	Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken. Depends on what you call a "sexually charged environment." Sure I'm not going shirtless to a club with strobe lights where half the people are on MDMA. On the other hand, if my friend is having a celebration and she invites me to some live music, I'm! going with pants and an appropriate shirt and with a group. As a matter of fact, when I went to my friends graduation some guy bought me a drink because I was taking too long in line. That's it, I didn't cheat, I just order the cheapest thing on th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 11:55 AM
0	What do women get out of relationships with men? Liking sex would typically be a reason to BEGIN a relationship rather than to end one, but that's just me I guess? Anyone else think this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 02:36 AM
1	Q4A What partner would you prefer to marry I'd personally agree. Health food is great, but so is knowing how to make and enjoy comfort food for one's loved ones. I know how to make health food myself, but I also make amazing sugar-free apple pie and creamy broccoli casserole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 01:12 AM
2	Q4A What partner would you prefer to marry I'd personally agree. Health food is great, but so is knowing how to make and enjoy comfort food for one's loved ones. I know how to make health food myself, but I also make amazing sugar-free apple pie and creamy broccoli casserole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 01:01 AM
1	Q4A What partner would you prefer to marry It's like you say that but women who know how to cook are rarely very thin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 12:00 AM
–	Do you think strengthening in-person vetting and a better police system can reduce the need for Are We Dating The Same Guy? Depends on how private. Posting a picture of someone fully clothed in public ain't revenge porn exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 01:54 PM
2	Do men actually want love? I guess there's no real reason to separate them unless it's special cases I agree, but I think this question was asked because. a Large number of men on this sub implied it directly said otherwise	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:15 AM
3	Do men actually want love? I couldn't have put it better myself	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:12 AM
6	Do you think strengthening in-person vetting and a better police system can reduce the need for Are We Dating The Same Guy? Most of the time? Absolutely. Emotional abuse, how do you capture that in camera? How do you capture a lie on camera, besides a screenshot? Audio recordings aren't even legal in many situations, for the reasons you're talking about. Sometimes we have to share our version of events even if the law or a camera is not involved. It's only necessary in specific instances, of course, like death threats or cheating and stuff. Also, I'll tell you from personal experience, what you get on camera might ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:09 AM
3	Do you think strengthening in-person vetting and a better police system can reduce the need for Are We Dating The Same Guy? Details about people are fine as necessary for the personal protection of others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:06 AM
5	Do men actually want love? I'm a woman and I do feel this way! He's a grown adult, I know he enjoys sex. If that changes with me for no apparent reason, that's a fucking problem. If he gets injured on the other hand, that's not all on him, I can be willing to help, too. It's just his emotions that are out of my control. If that isn't the problem, I'm willing to help and work on the problem myself. I'm a good wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:04 AM
5	Do you think strengthening in-person vetting and a better police system can reduce the need for Are We Dating The Same Guy? Ideally facts, supported facts but not excessive details or unsolicited details. We need to be able to share our own experiences and feelings in our own words for sure, when others want to hear them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 02:52 AM
6	Do you think strengthening in-person vetting and a better police system can reduce the need for Are We Dating The Same Guy? That's why revenge porn is illegal and why people don't usually have the time for sharing other people's business. But if you're an abuser, you kinda forfeit the right to privacy based on the other needs for protection being more important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 02:47 AM
3	Do you think strengthening in-person vetting and a better police system can reduce the need for Are We Dating The Same Guy? Slander and cheating, for that matter, are parts of life. We can probably reduce the use of this, I agree, but we can never eliminate the need for this kind of sharing. Humans need freedom of speech and collaboration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 02:34 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I married a man with the same name as the first guy I kissed. When the other guy found out, he was a bit weirded out. Yeah it is weird, for me too, but I just use nicknames or a last name for the other guy now. And it's a really common name, what am I gonna do, be a nun? It's not like I just stumbled across marriageable men every 10 minutes back when I was 19 or 20...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:58 PM
–	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? Great I guess we are done talking then. TTFN.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:28 PM
–	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? I can't be forced to respond to an unsolicited comment that doesn't even follow the rules lmao. That's absurd! Are you telling me that happened to you? Or were you given an actual argument to which you could respond on your own post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:26 PM
–	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? Don't be scared, learn to follow rules. And maybe while you're at it learn to bring up real points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:23 PM
–	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? I answered the main question in the thread. Other person completely derailed in favor of a personal attack, which he then continued leaving no actual point TO address. Do you see it differently?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anyone who goes 30 years can go more, I'm sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:14 PM
–	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? Just stop, I'm not interested in talking to you. Would have thought the same, but I guess the TROLLING applies there. You have been reported.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:13 PM
–	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? Don't troll. Be civil.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 11:01 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread She's literally strong. No one is snapping that. I'm not afraid lol. Now there was an anorexic girl I saw at a restaurant drinking water. THAT concerned me. I thought she was gonna collapse on her bony ankles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 09:08 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is the internet. I don't know, but I hope that the facts have at least been taken into consideration for most women who have seen it. I know I followed the advice from my mom and grandma, after taking everything into account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 06:53 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Alright let me be clear: I have always told women to stay away from slutty men. Having fun on occasion when appropriate is not slutty by itself, but there are a lot of ho's out there who "don't like condoms even with randoms" or never had a meaningful relationship in the past decade while constantly having sex with someone. That same thing applies to man. If she's been acting in a way you find inappropriate for good reasons, your standards are paramount! I support this! You are allowed to have s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 06:32 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Are they desperate, or are they entitled? Obviously if I was jobless with no savings and family and rent costs what rent costs now, we should all understand why a woman could be desperate for money. It helps people survive. But sex with someone who doesn't want you?! What's there to even want, much less be desperate for? I could never. To me, that's just entitled. If you want a nut so bad, you got hands. Even if you don't got hands, there are tools, I imagine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Switching careers is pretty rare, and if there is a commitment like marriage that should be discussed by both parties. People usually keep the same type of friends, even if the actual friends might come and go every now and then. If you know you want to make a man a father some day, you should only get with boyfriends who are capable of being that sort of father you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:57 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Eh, if you've got to pay for it you know she don't want it. That's certainly my reason for never wanting to pay. Even if I had a billion, I wouldn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:50 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread People generally don't change after a certain age. Never expect a partner to change except in basic life stages sometimes. You don't want to know what he did. The point is, I always knew those things would bother me, I just didn't expect it from him because I thought he loved me. I guess I still hope that, but I'm trying to make sense of it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:48 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is the internet, toots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:47 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread keep smashing for as long as you can and then dip. It’s like: Classy :-l For what it's worth, women are not attracted to this. Knowing what to say and especially how to act would be so much better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:43 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I never expected my boundaries to be pushed in my relationship. But then again, he didn't do all of those strange ass things FOR A LIVING. I do have some sort of self-awareness, doesn't everybody?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:42 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean, I would suggest that people be grown enough to work that out before they get into a relationship. Especially the sex scene part. It costs $0.00 and is really easy to immediately know you won't be comfortable with that before you start dating someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:39 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Priorities. Sometimes there are higher priorities, like dignity. Other times, what you can give up for sex might be worth it. If the sex is not casual, there's a much higher likelihood of the sex being good and the dignity beint intact and the experience being worthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:36 PM
4	For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them? I don't believe I deserve a rich man. I'm not rich, and I wouldn't be able to meet or attract one with my limited means if I tried. I believe I deserve a loyal partner, and intelligent partner, a caring partner, a supportive high value partner. I would hope that what I do to deserve those things and to attract those things is quite obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:31 PM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. And thinking that prostitution is basically easy money where the woman has the power somehow shows an understanding of women's lives? I think TF not. But yeah I have known celibate priests who manage to be good men. I know my father, who would never encourage anyone to be a John. I know my husband, but you don't even want me to go there. I'm sure there are exceptions to every rule, and there are ways around the law for a reason, but you would never want your daughter with a John either. So it's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:47 AM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. Yeah when you're ignoring reality it's plenty easy. Why are we having this discussion if you are going to resort to apex fallacy about $2000/hr escorts? You know that's not the norm, even among this activity that shouldn't be common at all anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:41 AM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. Empathy was never meant to be for an adult who is just living regular life going through ups and downs and decides that their best coping mechanism is exploiting other people's bodies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:37 AM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. I've never met a "high end" escort, but the ones whose names I've heard of are very much disrespected and laughed at. There are many more low-end escorts, I would imagine. Like, you can find them on the streets, it's easy. Men who see high end escorts and pay an agreed upon price to fuck them, while not admirable, are not "bad" I guess not, but then how do you arrest the guy that takes advantage of the poor 18 year old? Sorry, but I'm OK with a high end escort OR her client getting screwed over …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:35 AM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. Prostitutes are more often than not pretty fucking poor compared to those who pay them. There's an obvious power dynamic and I dare any reasonable person to say otherwise. Hysterical my ass. The law doesn't apply to just men. You're the one insisting it's even gendered at all. I agree it is, but you can't even admit WHY because admitting that some small portion of men is bad is just too hateful for you. But lacking compassion for brutalized women is fine. FOH.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:17 AM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. Men =/= men who buy women. What don't you get?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 05:12 AM
8	Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuity It's not so common to you, apparently, because I have slept with 1 man and a man who has slept with 50 people is NOT acceptable to me by any means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 04:22 AM
–	Female women, do you also fear humiliation and anger more than rejection? I don't even remember what the note said, it probably just had my email address or something. I guess he wanted to make a point, well, point made. Now I let men make their points very, very easily. It was indeed a pretty bad experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 02:52 AM
–	How do you like Zac Afron physique? Jason Statham is hot AF honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 02:46 AM
–	CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry. Oh this is a sickening take. This is anti-man? Because only men want to buy the bodies of unwilling poor people? Fucking good, mate. I'm sorry, I just no longer have the patience for this type of take. No one's trying to pay to peg your bunghole while you scream in dry pain. Do you ever, even for an instant, think about that? Have you ever even tried empathy? Have you tried celibacy? I encourage all of those things, and that's the absolute kindest thing I can say. Good luck, try not to spread di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 02:35 AM
–	Female women, do you also fear humiliation and anger more than rejection? I have never been told no by a man/boy. I've been publicly called a cum dumpster by a guy I didn't even approach, been called a whore in a foreign language, I've had my note spat on. But I've never been JUST told no. The answer to your question is yes, absolutely. However, because I do understand rejection, I don't blame a man for "missing" my signals. That's about the only form of rejection that's not completely overboard, in my experience. I won't complain, I'll take it. I think, if you're at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 02:32 AM
1	Is the male equivalent of sleeping with a guy on the first date; "he didnt ask me out because he didn't like me enough" I have always found this to be the case for me. It doesn't even necessarily have to be an assumption. Even if I'm hoping I'm wrong and giving things a chance to develop more, I'm always completely correct that a man who backed off was really not interested. I am 5 foot nothing, very sweet-tempered, and I dress in pants and a t-shirt and sneakers usually. I've been a victim of sexual harassment several times. I'm not exactly known for being intimidating in a personal matter. Disclaimer: if I'm NO…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 07:25 PM
1	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. I have asked myself every single time I look at this sub lol, how do certain men even think this works?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 07:11 PM
0	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. If that was true, people with known allergies or diabetes would not unwillingly die. Turns out living in a society, having complex social needs, and having legal rules about basic necessities really fucks up the theory of strict individualism. Who would have thought?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 07:09 PM
2	The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative. Umm? Because there needs to be 2 sides here, and no one knows that better than people who have the actual best interest of the world at heart?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 07:04 PM
1	Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it Some people do have standards that are harmful. That's people's right to be stupid. It's a thing. Nothing wrong with calling them out, not like we are taking their rights away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 07:00 PM
0	Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of it This whole concept of MAKING a man wait is literally ridiculous because of the second part of your sentence. A man can walk at any time. If a man waits, it's probably because he is also looking long term like a fully functional and healthy adult. Men can want to wait, too. I recommend it, maybe try it some time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/23 06:57 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah no. My health is more important than 60% chance of blue balls, and I am important enough and committed enough for like a real relationship that involves much more care and time and effort. I said it's worse to be pumped and dumped than to not have dates. That is very different than solitary, coming from someone in corrections. It just is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:46 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because orgasms are uncommon for women in straight hookups, that's why. It's enough of a statistic for me to never trust a casual male acquaintance with my body for sure. Plus I have a sense of character, so I wouldn't want to spread any diseases to those men with my own recklessness either. If the woman says the guy gave her a lacking time, she has the right to say it and she might be telling the truth obviously. Not all men are even willing to use condoms. I'm not betting my health and my joy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:38 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah not going on a date is not solitary confinement. Duh. Source: I know corrections professionals. Furthermore, there's a difference between say, for example, a bad night versus 5 years of shitty relationships. No one needs treatment for a lonely week or a bad date. Years of being pumped and dumped by douchebags, though, will definitely require treatment. Literally ask any woman who has actually been through it, and see if you think she's got treatable problems. Again, you are also ignoring th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:20 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ok, this might be hard to believe... That's not why women say men were duplicitous. They might have actually said things that were not true. Also, being into someone early on is WAY different than nearly making them pregnant. There's, like, a world of difference. I can't even imagine going to get a blood test just for the safety of some guy who I wasn't already sure about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:15 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'd like to see you in person and find out how often you perceive perfect confidence in the people around you lmao. Like, that's not life for real people, it's just not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:07 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Unironically, the second one. There's nothing worse than being lonely and insignificant in a bed with another human. It also physically hurts the vag lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:05 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then obviously don't do it. You should be sure. The fuck do you think you're sacrificing? Someone better? Then go do better smh	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 01:03 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread As a woman who married her very first and only sex partner, I don't really give a fuck. I'd never FEEL attractive to him again after he left me at home alone waiting for him to go waste time or money on some random other woman who doesn't love him like I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/23 12:58 AM
1	How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after? Just because life isn't a fantasy doesn't mean you can have a shot at being happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 08:49 PM
1	How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after? She's getting it on the side.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 08:39 PM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Again, it's not that common. Look at your female friends who are happy, look for the happy married moms. Maybe your aunts if that's all you have. How many of them didn't give a shit that their husbands are rakes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 08:33 PM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? And that's important. Anyone who doesn't think women can see that is a sexist fool, to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 08:29 PM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? We don't. But if you have player friends, of course they are going to tell you about what works for them. Do you just ignore all the guys who have normal relationships and maybe a handful of sex partners up until their 50's?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 08:28 PM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Then why are you on here arguing instead of out being a whore? Ugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 09:21 AM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? No. A handful of really promiscuous and usually troubled women do not determine a man's value. I've known women like this, and trust me, if the worst of the worst men wanted them, he could get his turn. Not so much for me though. Bottom of the barrel type stuff for both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 01:29 PM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? I will admit there are several factors that make it easier to know ones audience. There's how many woman the guy propositions, there's social intelligence, and then there's basically what you said of just having some obviously attractive qualities. Overall, though, most guys have an audience of a modest number of ladies with complementary traits. It would relatively be unlikely for a dude to be an outlier on that, although anything can happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 11:14 AM
2	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Community dick is a dude that fucks indiscriminately. Women don't always find that out early, especially if those women are young or inexperienced. 3 times in 10 years isn't community dick. 3 different women in a month IS, and many women in that situation aren't going to know one way or another. Some won't care. Doesn't mean the average woman wouldn't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:39 AM
2	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Approach 100 women. 3 women out of a hundred say yes because of all the wrong reasons and not because they care for him or even enjoy him. He is community dick. The majority of women in general, however, are repulsed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:17 AM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Not what I said, not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 02:15 AM
0	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Give me a better example of women harming a relationship than "wanting a tall guy" and then you can accuse me of that bullshit. I've got examples of me avoiding women with BPD, judging lying women, and trying to get women to make better decisions, but you'll ignore all of that lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 01:47 AM
0	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? I think YOU are missing the point. Wanting different things, like a penis or a vagina, is fine. Wanting things that harm your relationship is what's worth questioning. These different "double" standards very much should be viewed differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:40 AM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? It would be a lesson you deserve, but also one she deserves to learn because you probably aren't the monogamous type. I judge men, so apparently it is happening sometimes and you refuse to admit it. My husband lied about his to me for a long time, and it's nowhere near as high as yours I'm sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:36 AM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Almost as if you JUDGE her based on things you don't judge yourself for. Because let's get real, you're not "considering" it. You're associating it, and given your own experience you should know better. I'm sure she is less judgey about this than you. Lots of people are, she just probably doesn't even know about your own double standard. It's a shame she's so uninformed and that she doesn't consider the facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:29 AM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? She SHOULD judge. She's bound to get hurt if she doesn't, especially since you're judging her past in ways you don't hold your own self accountable for. Almost as if you don't even believe in any objective values at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/23 12:12 AM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? I would disagree, obviously	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:47 PM
0	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? "They" don't keep fucking him. In a world of billions of women, a few select women fuck the guy and still amounts to a disturbingly large number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:47 PM
-1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? High and low N count do the opposite of complementing one another. The stats will show this, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:43 PM
3	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? And how's that working out for you? Sounds like a lot of sex and not a lot of commitment. If my husband is any indication, you'll get bored. But hey that's you. And you may have not asked me, but I do judge your count. If you can't stick to something that takes effort, it's a bad sign. Just saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:42 PM
0	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Except every poster here is forgetting that women hate community dick, too. It would be as if tall men didn't lie short women and they rarely got together. And guess what? People of vastly different experiences usually sont stay together very long at all, not after the differences come out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:16 PM
1	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? It's proof that the guy knows his audience. You'd have a lot of options too if you knew your specific audience, even if the majority raw percentage of women might not be into you. And ultimately, that's what sex partners are for many high N count people: options, several of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:15 PM
3	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? No they're not lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:12 PM
3	How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high? Trustworthiness isn't genetic or sexually dimorphic. It isn't the same way women want tall guys at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 11:12 PM
1	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. If you think you can pick and choose whose body you use, you're not protecting and providing for anyone. One sex is filling their function, I guess I know which one. Most women do have sex and stuff, most want kids when they are part of a team like that. Whatever, I'm not particularly enjoying this convo, bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 01:28 PM
1	There is no hook up culture I mean, does that not sound like patriarchal entitlement of the worst kind to you? Because it should. That's all it is. Facts don't care about men's feelings. If I feel like I'm being denied a fundamental life experience because I don't live in a mansion for free and have free personal chefs, no one fucking cares about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 12:27 PM
0	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. Women explode because we give a shit. Maybe if men would stop promoting wars y'all could do something about this. Personally I'd love to see conscription end worldwide, but I can't do anything about it. And I'll tell you what's wrong with it: it's my body and I don't want to do it. I'd rather die, actually. And anyone who thinks women are only designed to have sex is an idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 12:18 PM
1	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. Thanks. I think it will be good, and I hope so. First, I have to get there...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 01:18 PM
1	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. I'm probably going for an engineering MOS. It is my only choice to thrive, like I told the other commenter. I won't let an internet jerk stop me. However, if his comments are any indication of the attitude I will get in the military, it will be a one-contract-and-done situation. Of course I fear for my safety. Not that I would ever preemptively cause any man harm due to my fear, but I'm not an idiot. I stay vigilant to the extent I can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:41 PM
69	Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties? Yeah there are a lot of parents who don't know shit about their kids and our struggles. That's life in my generation, anyway. It's not a gendered issue or a romantic issue, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:24 PM
3	Is it still offensive to ask a woman to disclose how she weighs? You studied the so isl sciences and you can't find something about other people's social activities that interests you? That's interesting... Yeah the pandemic sucked. My networking went down the drain at that point, too. But I'm not done yet. We can both try to continue socializing in new groups, I'm sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:21 PM
3	Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything. I recently received a comment that told me I would be useless in the military for anything except keeping the soldiers satisfied sexually. Forgive me for being afraid, I guess? What do you want me to say?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:17 PM
-1	The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexuality No one is shaming what makes your dick hard. No one cares. The only point you made about women that stands is that we are uplifted for wanting a comfortable life with the father of our children. In this day and age of hard times, other people have empathy and sympathy on that subject. No one else cares about the height of the guys we date or their age, either. Aren't we all adults here? Can't we be honest about that? Oh, and about "big dick energy." That was never about a dick, and it's honestly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:15 PM
6	Is it still offensive to ask a woman to disclose how she weighs? I was bullied too in middle school and high school. But there were at least a handful of nice people. And in college?! Way different ball game. The bullies were worse, but fewer and less accepted. You could at least date there. Are you still in school at all? I highly suggest doing some activities with a more diverse group. I'm sure there are drawbacks to being a man, but when it comes to co-ed activities at least you are less likely to be harassed than I was. I think it will work out. Still tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 12:10 PM
2	Are some women maybe hypocritical when they tell guys to lower their standards but then criticize them for it when they do? "Lower your standards" applies when you never ask out any woman who shows a genuine interest. I'm sure those women exist for any functional man, and some of those women are nice to boot. If you've gone years without it, your standards are too high in some form of speaking. "Lower your standards" applies when you haven't had an orgasm with your wife in half a year because you somehow stopped enjoying what used to be enough for you. "Lower your standards" does not apply when you are not a function…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:35 AM
1	Is it still offensive to ask a woman to disclose how she weighs? I would much prefer to be asked out in person by a man who already likes me than interrogated by some online asshole who doesn't know how to schedule a video chat or invite a group of people to a group party. In other words, yes, yes it is quite rude. Thanks for asking. This is why I never did online dating apps. It's pretty uncomfortable and impersonal. I feel like it conditions men into thinking the bare minimum of courtesy is too much because "she's a stranger." Well I guess if being kind is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:17 AM
6	Is it still offensive to ask a woman to disclose how she weighs? Completely irrelevant comment. Women are not complaining that men "filter," even on this thread. As such, perhaps men can maybe manage not to complain as well. More importantly, I've never heard of a woman who can tell man's exact height in person either. Women do not filter based on a number like the OP here is wanting to portray with an example, except in OLD. Honestly, men's overuse of OLD is just another reason I think they shouldn't complain. You all outnumber women on OLD by vast majority,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:11 AM
2	Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegal Thank you for your consideration. I very much understand where you're coming from, and I personally don't think you're shallow at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:07 AM
3	Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegal I maybe know a handful of women who actually go around sleeping with anybody. Even the few who made small-time mistakes were using protection and did not get pregnant. Of the ones who don't vet, after a certain age of maturity, I just don't associate with them. I don't judge women as a whole this way, but when I know women like this I definitely judge them. My sister is a single mom of 2 children by 2 different fathers. She does not have custody at all anymore, or extremely limited. She pays chi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 03:55 PM
1	Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegal I certainly agree with taking precautions. I'm a poster on here who has always been completely against casual sex, and I would teach my kids precautions if I had kids. I just don't think we should prosecute any woman who dates to parent without a man for whatever reason, nor do I think that men should be excused from being called deadbeats while his sins are heaped fully on some woman for being "indiscriminate." Trust me, the baby ain't usually mad at mom for trying her best. They almost always …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 02:59 PM
2	Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegal The children of lasting couples also get screwed. That's life. Make a community that can somewhat make up for a lost parent or two, I think that's great. Hell, people unexpectedly lose parents all the time. But don't blame someone who decided not to freaking abort their child. Ultimately, their choice IS top priority. Others will judge them for aborting, and for not. No one, however, will ever be able to bear the responsibility or the consequences like a pregnant woman does. So maybe just take a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:18 AM
1	Single mothers by choice is extremely selfish and should be illegal You're gonna make a nonconsensual exception? How do you expect to prove that without changing constant camera supervision everywhere, or by taking the word of the woman? In the end, the woman just has to use her judgment and you and I can't really know any better than she does. So in that spirit, stop fucking trying to police other people's reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:14 AM
1	Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male). The Tik Tok influncer is over 30 and doesn't brag about his relationship online which is a huge plus, but he also has a flexibility and certain skills that greatly surpasses Arnold in his prime. Novak Djokovic, the oldest French Open champion, is married with two kids. Rafael Nadal recently had a baby with his new wife, who stood by his side as he was a dedicated champion in a real individual sport for something like 14 years before they married. These men have a dedication and relationships wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 02:45 AM
1	Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male). He often looked unnatural, there's the cheating, plus I think he enjoys the limelight a little too much. I wouldn't say disdain, but he's hardly my picture of a secure and fulfilled and valuable grown adult. There's a guy on my Tik Tok feed (actually probably 2 guys tbh) who is more of a fitness icon than Arnie. There are multiple male tennis players who are physical icons of strength, endurance, and control. Just because a dude has large muscles doesn't make him masculine, healthy, or admirable…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 02:24 AM
1	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women I'm not arguing that it should be disbanded, but I do get to control what I find reprehensible. What I'll argue with is that men who think that sort of stuff are dangerous and should be avoided by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:16 PM
0	Andre Tate is a schmuck and a poser. The REAL specimens of masculinity right now are Arnold Schwarzenegger (Alpha Male) Keanu Reeves (Theta Male), and Gordon Ramsay (Sigma Male). I love Keanu, and there is a lot to be learned from Gordon. Arnold's a schmuck and not hot, and I don't care who knows it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:53 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Babe I'm a little too old for "keep trying." No one is paying my bills and welfare isn't really a possible thing for me either as once again I AM STERILE. Mothers are heavily favored. I'm nearly out of options and not trying to KMS. What are you, like 12 years old? Do you not understand economic hardship? I mean I am trying to become an engineer in the public sector, but that could take time and my initial comments also touched on other factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What do you think happens on bases? A whole lot of nothing? You'd be wrong, I imagine. Not that I'm against a bit of welfare anyway if that's the best my society can do for someone like me anyway. I already put in the work to learn advanced math and graduate with a tough degree and applying for everything, useful or less useful. Listen, I was born sterile and my husband recently had a vasectomy, so you've put your foot so far down your mouth it has come out of your rectal sphincter. Might want t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I do work for the government now, actually. Someone's got to do it. It's not a waste at all. It's not like I didn't apply for private sector jobs and get denied. What am I supposed to do? Starve? Shut up about things you clearly don't know anything about, thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:39 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The military does not provide free childcare. Not that it's any of your business, but I definitely can't be getting pregnant. Do YOU get deployed from your job? Is that the requirement for anything? What are you on about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:36 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread "OMG go get a job leech." "Wait I know you are signing up for a 2-3 month intense basic training after becoming physically fit and you had to pass a knowledge exam, but not like that, that's BARELY better. I get to judge your worth." Who do you think you are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:34 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread JFC go say that about a man why don't you. What's your problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:31 PM
2	Has the “body positivity” movement lost its way? It is, now, simply a beautiful lie? Honey I married a broke man. I'm broke myself. On another comment, I talk about how obesity is related to poverty. I think I keep the same energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:27 PM
2	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women Well for one thing, women come together to talk about things men have done and how we can cope. Men come together to blame women for the horrible crime of, well, not having sex with them. That's a big difference in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:26 PM
2	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? We all know how that usually goes. The people who laugh are pretty rude and careless, those who sre offended have been historically oppressed. most people don't just get offended for no good reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:23 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I disagree. That kind of insecurity will never be repaired IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I agree, you have to listen to people. They tell often. And this one is a huge dealbreaker, objectively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 08:38 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah it's so fantasy based it almost seems like ragebait, but the comments are what caught my eye. This wasn't something stupid to say, I mean, she had examples ready lol. I guess it's great she was able to be honest, but um, that's not really a fixable problem. What are they gonna do, drugs and threesomes? Maybe for some couples that's an actual solution! Not me though lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 08:38 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I have my own views on the timeline, but this is definitely breakup worthy. And it should have been talked about long ago IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 08:36 AM
2	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women They are one frame of reference. I also mentioned another frame- the guys who are actually interested. You can tell the difference between both types based on their conversation and their activity suggestions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 08:28 AM
3	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women Not many men, but the men who are like that will try it with any woman who listens. So all women will experience it several times. I will say it's not necessarily rude to propose a little fling, but with someone you don't know it's a bad idea and if the person has to reject you that's at least awkward. Be careful about it, at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 08:06 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah I usually think "touch grass" but I ain't got the time to say that civilly every time it applies. I ain't here very day anymore. I'm busy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:56 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No. So-called evangelicals are way too judgmental, I have radical family members, OF barely pays, and honestly my husband would likely get swept up in the fame. Filming kinda takes away the fun, the internet is forever, and I don't want random people on the street getting involved with what's personal to me. All downside and very little upside if at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:53 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't often come in on the side of "Maybe TRP was right that normies give awful advice," but... check out this thread Those comments are wild. How can anyone even question if this matters and is important? Of course it's important! Of course it matters!! Almost no one on this subreddit would disagree, I don't think, but these normies, I tell you what. Sometimes sticking to personal beliefs on sex regardless of society is important. By no means is that an excuse to degrade and generalize women,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:50 AM
0	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women Most men who proposition women for sex on the very first walk around the city together are like that. That's just common sense. Go walk around the city with a few men who is attracted to your gender, you gonna find out real quick. The guys who get to know you in school and see you for who you really are are not usually like that, in my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:10 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread He's a good man from what we can see from the outside, we get along, we have fun, and I care for him so much. There's just one or two things that have built up... I guess I'm trying to hold off on judging the magnitude and the merit of these issues until I have all the facts. As of right now, I love him and he gets the benefit of the doubt, lame as it may be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 07:08 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Maybe we talk tomorrow, in the meantime enjoy your party evening. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:52 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm making a low wage in a place where housing is ridiculous. Next promotion is about a year out at best where I might begin to save something. I suppose I could get another roommate in place of my husband, but that's less "wiggle room" and more "nuclear bomb option."	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:51 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I don't WANT a divorce nor do I plan on it. I want the truth (or at least some stability and wiggle room to decide if I want any sort of costly changes), but I don't expect PPD to understand that so I'm being vague.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:47 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Maybe a month ago. How else am I gonna get my own funds so I can dig into the root of this mess I find myself vowed into?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:23 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I am still married, we just slept together tonight, and I'm still quite possibly a fucking clown. Not much new as of yet. I lost a few more pounds but I have more to go before I gain my ability to join the armed forces and be independent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:14 AM
5	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women TwoX is a forum for women to talk to women. What do you think speaks for itself? Damn. This is what I meant in my first comment. Know the difference. I'll admit I don't go there everyday, but as a woman who loves many men in her life, I understand some of the posts completely without being bitter. 1 and 2 aren't changing, but if the avg person is more attractive, less overweight, more emotionally intelligent, has healthier attitudes towards the opposite gender ect... then dating can improve to s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:13 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The convo changed when you asked why I said males. Obviously it's because the women I interact with have not showed this behavior to the same degree. How is that not coherent? Yeah women in my recent experience are generally better picking their battles and regulating their own emotions and knowing when they are making asses of themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 06:09 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Eh, can't remember the last time a woman dumped that crap on me. Oh wait, maybe my mentally ill sister? But even then, she had her reasons, she didn't spew it out on the internet to a stranger and she's actually gone through stuff herself. So yeah. Even my literally mentally ill sister with a broken inner child acts more maturely than internet men do. Honestly it's a very very small subset of men, but damn if right in this particular moment it doesn't feel a little statistically significant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 05:58 AM
9	Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward women When a subset of men are being called out for shit they actually do, that's not bitter. When women are generalized and slurred, THAT is bitterness. Know the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 05:54 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It does make sense. Don't fume when people put you in your place, and don't act like you have the high ground by saying some really asinine stuff to someone who has heard it all before and made it through the other side. Simple. Why don't some internet males get it? Stay tuned for more next week on PPD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 05:51 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's happened before, and it'll happen again. It's also not someone anyone else needs to see. The lesson is not meant to be specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 05:47 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I honestly love it when males fume at being told to take a seat while they think they can dish out shit that's 1000X worse to people who are 1000X stronger and more mature. Such a joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 05:39 AM
1	Question about how body count and status works. He's less excited about sex than me a few years into the relationship, for one thing. I can't prove it definitively enough, but he's done some sketchy things that might have betrayed my trust. Somehow, I think a virgin guy wouldn't have behaved like that. He'd understand the importance of sexually related discussions a little more, he might have more sexual energy to share with me. At least that is what I associate with the reasons why I am very selective about the person I shared a bed with. He…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 04:45 AM
1	Question about how body count and status works. I don't have an awful lot of experience, but even the minimal extra experience my husband has compared to me shows big differences. I guess we can work that out, but I honestly DON'T romantically like a man who frequently and unashamedly goes off fucking random people. Why would I? Was I a virgin when I met my life partner for the fuck of it, or because I had beliefs and values? It's definitely the second one, just saying. I've liked a man with a drug problem. I've liked a man who didn't believe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 04:33 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh dear girl, stay away from that content! It is awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:36 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread My husband will never raise kids. I kinda fight for his "help" at home, but this guy is devoted to gaming and knows the hold he has over me, and he knows my dedication to kids. If I ever had a child in my care, he would be doing bare fucking minimum at best. He has shown he doesn't have childrearing in him, and we have decided a NO on kids so neither of us have to. He basically does the minimum of what he has to before I explode, but he absolutely works out and showers and does the few tasks I r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:35 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Gr8 b8 m8 r8 it 8/8	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:30 AM
5	Has the “body positivity” movement lost its way? It is, now, simply a beautiful lie? I'm a currently overweight person who was normal weight most of my life, and I'm going to share with you my medical experience. My doctor was super respectful. The biggest thing he did was run tests, and give honest facts about how to manage the numbers. That is a doctor's job, and I thank him for it. I would never be able to successfully sue him, and it's crazy how you'd pull that out of nowhere. I have lost weight, and my medical numbers have improved. I'm trying to do even better, but poverty…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:17 AM
8	Has the “body positivity” movement lost its way? It is, now, simply a beautiful lie? Because she's not a politician who can affect change in the specific countries where public health is an increasing society-wide problem?! Tf you expect her to do?! It is a doctor's job to be concerned about the health of their patients. It's not fucking yours. Not my job, and not the other commenter's job. Thank you very much, and off you pop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 03:12 AM
2	Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism? Again, if you want to reduce the percentage of "immoral abortions" or whatever the fuck your beliefs are, I probably fucking agree with you. What's not clicking. Of course I bring up what you call "edge cases" because they actually happen multiple times a year in any community. If you don't have a plan for that, and all you want to do is punish women who commit actions you don't like, I'm not gonna agree with your policy. My mother had a miscarriage. She never seeked medical care due to religiou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 02:02 AM
-4	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? People need to talk about what is and isn't offensive. Obviously if someone didn't know it's offensive to a whole other group, there should be politeness and guidance. But it's worth talking about, and it does make difference in what's actually funny versus what actually just offensive. The 2 concepts are often opposed, despite your prior comment. Offensive things are offensive usually for an objective reason, although there can be misinformation and a gray area rarely I guess. Chris Rock is kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:51 PM
0	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? People don't laugh when they're offended. It's really that fucking simple. What don't you get?!?! Off you pop	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:25 PM
6	Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism? Except the organs sustaining life are in the woman's body. I don't personally feel like my own pregnancy would be a clump of cells, but if my baby was conceived through rape and I knew its father would make both of our lives Hell, I might consider ending things before the baby can feel any pain. That's how it is. That's the burden a mother might have to live with. If you want to work on increasing contraceptive use, I love that idea. Still doesn't mean you can punish women for going through with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:24 PM
3	Question about how body count and status works. Until he did tell the truth. And yeah it has been an issue. I would say the truth is the biggest issue in the relationship. That one might indeed break us up, but I figured I owed him a bit more of a chance. Gotta be forgiving, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:51 PM
2	Question about how body count and status works. I claim that it's not a 100% indicator of who a person is, which is why I couldn't tell right away as a young idiot that my boyfriend was not a virgin. I also claim that it's not something to meddle in until you ARE intimately involved with a person, and it's not something to be judgemental of. But it does matter. Low N people work with other Low N people. High N people work best together with those people, if at all. My husband isn't above 5 or 10. He's still low, a few numbers didn't make him …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:40 PM
2	What was your "they're not gonna lost long" moment? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC You missed the best part of the story. Where were you? What was your moment in this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 10:25 PM
2	Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism? I mean no man, ever, has proposed such a thing to mw. Not just ugly ones. None. Men just aren't that rich these days, first of all, and the ones that are aren't dumb enough to pick me lol. And I'm not actually complaining. I don't mind working. It's more secure, I find. Weird that the other commenter would find otherwise, but maybe I just haven't looked into deeply it since I got no offers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 09:57 PM
2	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? I would say creatures are magnificent, yes. But some are also off-putting in a scary way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 09:24 PM
3	Question about how body count and status works. ... have you been here long? I'm a regular and it's not exactly a secret that my count is very low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:37 PM
-1	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? Too sensitive to jokes- I'm a funny guy. Hmm, but are you though? If it offends several people, it might not actually be funny...	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:20 PM
10	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? Sorry, I kill cockroaches and mosquitos. I wouldn't say I dislike them, I guess, but those suckers are fast and sneaky and hurtful. You don't deal with them quick, they cause problems. Can't have that. I won't gleefully cheer at death, but still.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:19 PM
4	What is considered to be an ulterior motive? Screw society. The only kind of hidden motive that matters is the kind that leads to a violation of individual mutual agreements and decency. Once you violate someone's personal trust, there is no coming back. If there wasn't a violation, there would probably be little reason to hide your feelings/motives from your teammate. What you tell society, on the other hand, doesn't matter. And what society approves often also matters very little in the US. You can theoretically enjoy someone's wealth wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:16 PM
4	Question about how body count and status works. Virgin men aren't actually a problem. I thought my husband was one at first, but uh, that was a lie. It's not an indicator of status. Like the other comments said, N count could indicate a lot of things like being religious or indiscriminate. That's not the question anyone should be asking or worried about, but certain very misguided men do it anyway. Maybe as a way to shame women they're angry at, idk. Now, I do think it's important to have these discussions in a serious relationship. I thought…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:09 PM
1	Question about how body count and status works. 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:03 PM
18	Question about how body count and status works. (and bragging about it is a great way to turn others right off) Say it louder for the young people in the back who need to not fall for manosphere bullshit	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 08:03 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? I would be a little skeeved out too, not because you "don't see age" (ok how much younger? there is a limit especially if you're the type of guy who is mature and moving forward in life) but I have a partner count of 1. Any guy who "dates around a lot" is probably not a good fit for me. You being 35 dating a 30 year or two in your whole year old is not "dating younger." That's just dating, really. I can't imagine any woman taking an issue with something so incidental. Sounds a little suspicious …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 07:41 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? The older man that can attract the younger woman is usually a higher quality guy that women his own age would also want. Hahahahahahahaha Oh shit. That's funny. Thanks for the laugh. Have a great day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 07:33 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? No problem lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 07:30 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? For hookups? Sure. Although it's absolutely unjust/unfair to be bitching about someone you're with finding you easy whilst you yourself apparently feel the same. Which is one reason of many why I would not hook up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 07:27 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? Never said that. I was speaking for me because you asked a question to women. Tf?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 07:04 PM
2	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? Actually, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 07:03 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? I mean, if she's 30, a man of 25 is not (hopefully) immature or super inexperienced. Below that age range, I can agree that maturity and experience are big issues (especially for casual).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:56 PM
1	Do women prefer younger men for hookups? If not, why? I married younger and would happily date slightly younger if I could, so long as the man was a good fit. I just usually find them more attractive lately. Don't kid yourself that most of the wonderful, attractive men older than me are not taken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:55 PM
5	Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism? It is biologically life. Even ethically, when it is my own body at stake feeding the life, I consider myself to have obligations. However, I do not consider myself of any form of government to be capable of dictating those ethical obligations in what is often a very complicated situation, often medically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:43 PM
3	Q4M: What are some positive things about modern feminism? That's crazy to me. Maybe I'm just ugly as Hell, but never did I ever meet a man who would be willing to provide sufficiently for me and some babies without me also working my ass off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:40 PM
3	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? Difference between being blunt and being careless. I am blunt myself, but I don't perpetuate things that are harmful to half the population. Also, I am actually accurate. Your characterization of "value" as the thing that attracts someone initially is patently inaccurate. As is that looks don't matter for men. My father wouldn't have landed any of his wives if he was less good looking, honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:37 PM
3	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? Yeah that kind of language is pretty problematic. I'm sure you've been told that already though, so I'll see myself out of this convo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:34 PM
1	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? That's what the Red Pill is. Assumptions and labels. It just so happens that those types of dudes got labeled back. My post made sense, I'm sure you can tell what I meant especially in my second paragraph. There is no excuse to use these generalities under the pretense of "guiding young men." I'm not even that young and I know I'll ever own a home or have kids. The majority of young people do not need to be told to do what they can to make money. That's not helpful guidance, and it's no excuse. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:32 PM
1	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? You can't point to "several cities" and then claim a majority of the world. That's not how statistics work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:29 PM
4	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? Because you misused a word in the same way that misogynistic men use on this forum in misogynistic ways. "Wahmen bad" is the subtext, just like how you are claiming in your other comment that women are chasing after elite men when I have seen nothing of the sort nor do I think it serves any other point than to demean half the population. Why do young men need to even be told to have ambition? No one had to fucking tell me to go to college and work hard and earn as much as possible to make sure I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:28 PM
3	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? I've yet to be in such a society myself, nor have I met any women with such a standard. If it's a problem in your own culture, I can appreciate that, but I probably have very little to add to the discussion by way of my own experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:25 PM
6	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? She expressed discontent with a handful of asshole people on this sub who will say that what women are under the surface is meaningless. And then you went and you basically defended the questionable viewpoint, for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:23 PM
4	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? Words have definitions. You can't just turn any word you want into a "wahmen bad" gotcha lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:22 PM
6	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? It's not sugarcoating. We'll tell you the truth in full, and there's nothing sweet about it at all. Men tend to be able to make more money than us, and we modern women in the US need careers for any possibility of eventual security. We work hard and we have ambition, usually out of necessity. When a man does the same, he will tend to usually earn more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:20 PM
4	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? Seeing as how men on average can earn more in the society where I live, yes it usually works out this way unless there is some superhero factor and the guy already was born with Bruce Wayne money	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 06:18 PM
1	Q4All: Is the !cumulative! risk a woman faces when going on a date even positive? Lunch. A slice of pizza. Sometimes I even paid, but they didn't WANT me to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 09:33 PM
1	Q4All: Is the !cumulative! risk a woman faces when going on a date even positive? Drinks are a maybe, if it's at a well-known public place with food too. Froyo can't keep you occupied if you DON'T want to leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 09:32 PM
4	Q4All: Is the !cumulative! risk a woman faces when going on a date even positive? Going on dates? Like with a man who wants to pay and tell you you're pretty and listen to you talk about your day? With a man who is mentally mature (romantically) and might actually marry you? Sure, it is minimal risk. Going on drives or "walks?" Or grabbing coffee/froyo/liquor with a near stranger who just wants to see your tits? No, that's how you get victimized. I would say ask me how I know, but I think a lot of PPD users are tired of hearing from me at this point, so I guess just go with y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 02:10 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Porn and erotica aren't the same thing, one being a nice fantasy and the other being a look into a very real person's actual sex life. 'well, I wouldn't date you anyway''. Kinda seem like you took it personally. I was agreeing with you and making a point that you're right. It's not personal. It's an incompatibility. I don't even know you. You do you, I'm a married woman, 5 years. I wouldn't want to get off to watching other people get off. And seeing as how he rejected me a lot for a long time t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think you misread that if you thought I was taking it personally at all. I was making a point. Wow though, you're a woman and you feel this way? That's surprising. Most women don't watch porn at all. I don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:36 PM
1	men should lie to women and do ANYTHING for sex You know how I said he slept with more people than me? It's not because he was a ho for a long time. He was just my first. I learned about how penises work literally with him. I was young as well, we met when I was 19. I would definitely advise having some standards, though. That's just based on my experience. What pisses me off more than anything is how men's voices are completely ignored. And now we have subreddits like this popping up everywhere. Men and boys are becoming extremely mentally u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:17 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you're gonna post on here, you should at least consider that it might be a factor in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:11 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you're the kind of dude who literally pulls a new woman every day as much as the weather changes, this model might apply. If you're more monogamous, you want to put in that extra few days time for 95% accuracy. And again, it's not like this TRP model even leaves any room for nuance. It would be one thing if TERPers commonly admitted what they're doing, but they don't. They say AWALT and that my method wouldn't work. They are wrong, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:11 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you post porn, it's cheating. Why is it suddenly OK to view other people's cheats for your own sexual pleasure? Yeah I know it's not the same as screwing another person, but it still can be fucked up. If you're long distance for a year and you watch a couple of times because you had a moment of weakness, that's not the end of the fucking world, and I get that. But in reality, you have 80% of men viewing weekly porn. That's not OK either. The whole "well it's not the same as cheating" bullshit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well I do think that porn harms a relationship, and I wouldn't want to deal with you, either. If my feelings are less important than a screen, I agree you can't deal with me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:05 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread ............... You've never known a low libido guy, have you? Like, not once? Or maybe they're too ashamed to admit they're actually the repressed ones in real life sex sometimes. Maybe they just didn't tell you. Those men are out there, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:04 PM
1	men should lie to women and do ANYTHING for sex Everyone that is sexually open, has at some point in their life wanted some casual fun. TIL that I'm not sexually open lol. Look I enjoy sex very much, on my own terms. Otherwise, it's not worth it. I wouldn't say it's extreme to expect a man to commit to one relationship at a time, spend time together outside of the bedroom, be in public with their partner, and get tested between every single partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 01:00 PM
1	men should lie to women and do ANYTHING for sex It is great with the right person, but not great enough that I'd sell out my entire soul to have it with a wrong person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 12:56 PM
1	men should lie to women and do ANYTHING for sex I will try to take what you have in consideration, but your outbursts are on my niece's internet. The boy she is dating could see this. She could see this, and form some really strange conclusions if the truth isn't also pointed out on the same forum. My husband is under 6 feet, and he's a "grower." He wasn't thrilled that he's a grower, but I immediately told him (after we entered that stage of the relationship to talk about sex) that I actually like watching him grow down there. He's slept wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 12:55 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I was meaning to reply to you before, but I got busy. These "predictive models" based on RP are literal crap. If you had a weather channel that was 70% effective, you'd switch your channel to the 95% effective one. RP is 75% effective at best with these crazy assumptions about first date sex or whatever. Actually communicating and using your judgment based on individual circumstances is more like 95% effective, but RP doesn't want people to change the channel, so they rail against any form of nu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 12:50 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread He put on a playlist of my favorite band a few times, I thought it was sweet. Some of the best I ever had, to be honest. It's nice to feel seen, and I don't stop liking good music when I'm horny lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 12:45 PM
1	Your girlfriend(or wife) is in an argument with her dad Ladies what would you want your SO to do? I'd want him to strongly suggest to me that we leave. And then we leave. My husband has done this multiple times with my dad, who is not only on overbearing with me but is also overbearing with my husband. People with a temper have a temper, whether it's with their kid or with their in-laws. Also there was one time my dad was yelling at me on the phone, and my husband took the phone and hung up. It was probably the right thing to do at the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 12:30 PM
1	Men are more superficial about weight than women Does it matter? That is the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 01:19 PM
2	Men are more superficial about weight than women That's your problem, clearly. Facts don't care about your feelings lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 12:39 PM
0	Men are more superficial about weight than women There's not a need for many women to shame or complain about fat men because I think most men have a more realistic understanding of where they rank in terms of physical attraction. JFC, no other people don't NEED to be unable to compliment themselves or contently look into a mirror just so you find them REALISTIC. Just accept the fact that no is actually arguing with you about who you date, and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 12:37 PM
9	Men are more superficial about weight than women Women who are fat are just as entitled and unable to take criticism as thin ones and demand to be considered attractive. Try not insulting someone for 5 solid seconds, and watch how quickly they accept that you are leaving them alone. Damn. It could be so simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 12:34 PM
12	Masturbation to written porn and erotic stories is no more or less harmful than masturbation to porn videos. Scientifically, books have been shown to have a different effect on the brain than visual stimuli. It's not the same for everything to which we pay attention. Scientists recommend showing little kids books instead of letting them have much screen time. These differences probably contribute to why it commonly seems that visual porn addiction/overuse is so much more common than Literotica addiction. 80% of men view visual porn on a weekly basis. The numbers are similarly high at other frequencies,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 12:32 PM
1	Female women, what was the stupidest reason that made a guy break up/reject you? It's not the same as it was when I was 14, that ship sailed many years ago. I'm just glad that the world is a better place for having my old friend in it, somewhere far far away from me probably with some very lucky other woman. It's worth noting that relationships change even when people are still together over many years. However, since my husband is actually present, some of those changes brought us closer rather than tearing us apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 12:12 PM
1	Female women, what was the stupidest reason that made a guy break up/reject you? I wasn't BORN married lol. I experienced some forms of rejection early on in dating like everyone does. Idk why men on this sub act like they have a monopoly on it. Also idk why anyone acts like it's the end of the world, no a few rejections back when I was young does not mean I could never get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 12:00 PM
–	CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other lovers If by "shit ton" you mean some, then yes. This is a reflection of men, not of women. Also, all a woman has to do is say "I'm a single mom" or not be 22 anymore, and men on r/whereareallthegoodmen or something will be judging anonymously even if they're matching. Let's not pretend that women's profiles are not critiqued.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 12:07 PM
–	Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene? I've reported you for incivility. You get what you give out into this world. Don't forget it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 04:31 AM
–	Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene? So you knew it was judgmental. You just support the judgment. Good for you,. And you can't do anything about it Hahaha, cute. Anyway bye now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 04:27 AM
1	Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene? In the context of a society that has forever judged women and only women for sexual acts outside of marriage, upholding that value towards your daughter without any elaboration has the effect of being judgmental. Obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 04:20 AM
1	Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party. even complain about them consistently , It's a response to men on here who consistently basically fetishize age gap relationships. Which is totally the red flag, by the way. Dating one person one time who happens to be slightly younger in a unique situation is fine. Seeking out people younger for no discernible reason other than youth and TRP style beliefs, is the red flag. I do believe that young women are actually mature enough to decide for themselves if they want to be with an older guy or n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 03:09 AM
1	Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party. Eh, somehow if a 19 year old agrees to a really bad situation, it's bad whether the older person was 100% honest or not. It's also mostly the significantly older persons fault. It's also more likely for a mismatch/drama to occur in massive age gaps than it is to occur in relationships with 2 same-age people in the same life stage/normal social circles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 03:04 AM
–	CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill community Hold up. I've only ever been with one man, and I married someone who lied to me about his past, and you think I'm a cheat who married a safe dude? I might be naive, I might be coarse, I might be constantly anxious, I might be poor, and I might be underachieving in some ways. But I am absolutely not those 2 things. Those are like the only 2 things in the world where I can say "Oh Hell no, I actively turned down cheating and I probably married the most unsafe guy I ever crushed on or dated." If I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 03:01 AM
11	Female women, what was the stupidest reason that made a guy break up/reject you? One guy told me I cared too much lol. One guy dumped me because I didn't want him to touch my genitals on the same week I had my very first kiss. One guy dumped me because we went to different schools. We were literally 14, and it doesn't sound stupid. Except maybe when you consider that I still love him 15 years later no matter what. No reason for a few guys who seemed lack interest even though I might have had interest. I just assumed they weren't that into me or weren't in a place to date. Pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 02:45 AM
6	Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene? Not only is this extremely judgmental but also cold and ignorant of what intimacy even is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/23 01:21 AM
10	CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other lovers says "I prefer women with a low n count" and the amount of vitriol by women calling him an insecure loser, his small pp can't satisfy a woman, masculinity so fragile Yeah it's fragile and toxic as hell to have a whole dating profile that says what you demand in your matches, while not mentioning anything about yourself. Duh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 01:45 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You're not always based, but you were with this comment. Thank you for this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 12:35 AM
5	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." "The right woman doesn't need me to pay for a date or ever get a gift." "The right woman is still in her prime and/or a virgin." "The right woman for me will have sex on the first date." All things I've heard from men on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 11:53 PM
1	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." Don't respond with this shit to me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:52 PM
1	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." I hope my husband doesn't bitch about me... That certainly wouldn't be fair. I don't understand how anyone could feel like that about their spouse. I will defend my husband for insane things even when I maybe shouldn't. I'm not saying I've never vented, but it's certainly not my feelings on a typical Wednesday night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:51 PM
3	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." My husband brings me up. He tells me when he talks about me. I also put in the part about a useless woman not being attractive. It's true. Now, maybe a woman is productive and helpful even with something domestic like raising kids, but every time a man is deeply attracted to a woman in the long term she needs to have some sort of skill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:35 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Absolutely, but there are regulations because unregulated fights are immediately too dangerous. Those regulations would theoretically prevent excessive immediate damage even in a fight with different bio genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:31 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Silly	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:13 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I have nieces lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:06 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Been realistic in my relationship, thank fuck. With having to close the lid when you flush like a civilized human, it makes the most sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:05 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Equality means everyone sits to pee. That's equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:02 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread People make hundreds of decisions a week, minimum. Some of those decisions should use emotions as a factor, for sure. Not all, some. Plus emotions can be motivators, as my husband reminds me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 10:02 PM
9	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." To tack into the top comment, I want to point out the biggest equivalency in your shitty analogy. This man is being told what he can't EXPECT from strangers, which is just accurate. This is being told to a man as a way to shut down his complaints. The woman is discussing how her partner will view her. This is being said to women unsolicited, as a way to take away from the depth of a whole ass relationship. And let's be honest, it's fake because no man feels this way about his wife. He's proud wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 09:59 PM
2	Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..." 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 09:51 PM
5	Women what was some ways that you were hit on that you enjoyed I think I speak for most guys when I say this but I think the biggest fear isn’t rejection it’s accidentally being creepy or weird. If this is your fear, I suggest getting to know people for a couple of meetings without getting too romantic or sexual. In my opinion, even as a man, you have to know someone for those things to even begin to blossom into genuine desire. So get to know people, just a bit. Decide if you even want to go out with them, whatever that looks like to you. For me, a good co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 09:50 PM
5	Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to men You can only logically raise your standards in a partner if you believe you can attract such a partner. Obviously that's not true. Singleness is valid. And I bet that's what you'd be telling a man if he said "I just don't think the juice is worth the squeeze."	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 08:18 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Except they had sex again that morning, which damn well better have been good if he's gonna risk impregnating her for it, and he literally ghosted. Men can break up with someone. If they don't give a realistic reason, they risk looking like assholes. That's how life works for women, too. And if they've done that after risking a pregnancy for someone else, it's their responsibility to stick around to make sure the other person isn't pregnant. That's life. You're allowed to leave, but you are also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 08:05 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Maybe I like talking to people? Especially people who I'm looking at playing card games with for the next 50+ years? Like, the fuck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 07:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There's no truer form of love than that. Ok now I REALLY hope you're single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 07:57 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Or don't fucking marry someone who you cant keep happy without being miserable. I hope you do that and that's great if you're single, but some men actually love a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 07:54 PM
2	Which Person Would You Choose To Date? Neither. Too much anxiety with guy one, not enough passion with guy 2. I want to have fun inside and outside of the bedroom. It's that simple. Normal looking guys can be attractive, but you said guy 2 isn't. And guy 1 sounds like too much drawn too quick, but he could maybe be forgiven under extreme circumstances if he was able to change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 03:32 AM
–	If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are ok and/or lose their job. Lost job =/= jobless. There's getting a new job, which a healthy person would do if they loved their family and their family needed support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 12:36 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Right. People being forced to physically give birth know what it's like to be a man. Makes sense. Talk to me when you're being less hemotional. I was just thinking about this earlier. If I went down to Skid Row, I'd probably end up having violence committed against me and it would probably be sexual violence. Is there any equivalent for a man worrying about his sperm being jacked? You ever had trouble with someone trying to force you to be a father? No? Yeah, that's what I thought, so stop derai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 07:43 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread you could realistically kill time with just random hobbies (not serious hobbies as you say) But people wouldn't, though, if they were retired and comfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 12:00 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Them being insecure is exactly what makes them undesirable... If that's the reason. It probably sometimes is. Insecurity is human. I'm my case, I actually think men have a higher median body count than women and men are way too easy, so I don't even give them that excuse of insecurity. I don't want the men who think like this because it's a double standard. It's gratuitous self-serving, plain and simple. I think most men want a woman who is not fickle or flighty. I expect that from a man, too. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 11:57 AM
-1	Why do so many men here want casual sex? The sperm will be obvious, or the lack thereof. you pretended, obviously it couldn't have been genuinely convincing though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 12:28 AM
-1	Why do so many men here want casual sex? You literally said you left bruh. That's all I'm saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:12 PM
1	Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good looking And that reaction is not inherently uncomfortable. It might be uncomfortable if the attractive person is a different person than your spouse. It might be uncomfortable if the attractive person is a little mysterious or sketchy, but not bad enough to repulse. Otherwise? Attraction to a good person who you trust is fun as Hell, and freeing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 12:04 PM
2	Why do so many men here want casual sex? Because relationships take effort, being celibate takes effort, and some human beings are lazy as Hell even at the expense of others. This applies to women as well as men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 04:00 AM
2	Why do so many men here want casual sex? I think that tons more men would become more romantically and sexually experienced which could help narrow the orgasm and relative desirability gaps. No. Causal sex is the worst sex for women, and you're out here saying those guys are usually getting the most sex and have the most experience. You even disprove this yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:54 AM
3	Why do so many men here want casual sex? To me the biggest risk is associating with a woman who's after something. So let me get this straight. You're gonna stick dick in someone, probably without ever having a vasectomy. You're gonna risk getting her pregnant or getting scabies or some shit. And your biggest fucking fear is that she might value a better life for that child, a life with 2 loving parents and sufficient financial support? Holy Hell, that is so foreign to me. Would you mind explaining?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:52 AM
0	Why do so many men here want casual sex? That's relationship sex you are describing. Not casual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:49 AM
2	Why do so many men here want casual sex? That sounds like sexual abuse. Who is doing this?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:39 AM
-1	Why do so many men here want casual sex? You didn't fake it. You can't. What you did was leave, which would have been great if you didn't try to pretend some bullshit on your way out. Even better if you found out her sexual preferences before getting naked with her and putting yourself regrettably in her. Better luck next time, I hope this helped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:37 AM
0	Why do so many men here want casual sex? Literally	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:34 AM
2	Why do so many men here want casual sex? Because I want to? Absurd or not Accountability is a thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:50 AM
0	Why do so many men here want casual sex? f a woman just doesn't have casual sex at all, TRP's fine with that. Are you SURE? Because I've had men tell me that makes me a gold digging whore who demands love as payment for sex. I've never got the impression that TRP is just fine with me lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:41 AM
0	Q4ALL: Do you know any men that previously had no success with women and were able to find it? Why do you think so many men believe that is impossible? I only got asked to one HS dance, and that was a super shy guy who didn't ask anyone else yet. I think I know how proactive young men are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 12:27 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah but you said she had to talk to you alone. That's not the case. You can ask for her phone number while she is with her friends. She can't just leave them, if she's a different person. If you're uncomfortable asking in front of other people, it's not on her to magically come up with a way to subtly talk to a stranger away from her friends for 2 minutes. I don't even advocate for cold approach at all, and this is one consideration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:58 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You're not entirely wrong, but you also can't go 2 months without seducing your wife and then ask "what is HER problem?" like you didn't do the exact same nothing she did the last 2 months. It's a give and take. In the beginning, many women vet for men who can make a first move, which is totally fine. At some point, though, a full-on partnership with a two-way street is built.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:55 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No I'm not, you specifically said "if she doesn't offer time to talk to you alone." You also said she's with her friends, or at least not alone. Get her her details, then maybe you can ask her on a date one-on-one later. Of course there's always a bigger chance of rejection there as with any cold approach, but at least don't expect her to leave her friend alone so you can get her number in private. Exchanging details or making a few minutes to chat does not require alone time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:48 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Same place men get the stones to say that women live life on easy mode and women get affirmative action in their careers and all such similar bullshit, potentially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:30 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Or alternatively she's literally out with her friends and you can message her later if you get her details like a considerate human being	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:29 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, not at all. It's not crappy for a friend to have had an attraction to a friend. It's only crappy when those feelings are dealt with in some unhealthy way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:27 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Personally, I'd see this as overly interested. Not being able to socialize as a group, and not being comfortable without talking to your interest for a short time, probably means you're trying to rush the relationship in some sort of way. Not to mention, the "unattractive" friend might be an interesting human being, and I'd not want to cut myself off from that. If they couldn't keep the combo going, that's when I'd redirect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:24 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Now imagine you also take on the responsibilities of childbearing, childrearing, and you get called a gold digger if you don't do 50/50 finances but you get mommy tracked at work. Still sound good?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:13 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Wait really? I can't even make my car insurance payment and I'm "crazy" for not adopting another human being into my mess of a life? Really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 11:11 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread To answer your question about how we resolve it, I have to break it down into the very deepest level of what I need and find some way to meet that need, preferably something he is willing to do. He will show me that he understands my feelings, and he's on my team still. That's the important part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 03:17 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I will keep trying to talk, until he eventually responds. Usually it's me making a request that's difficult for him, and he feels he can't or doesn't want to help, but he feels too bad to discuss it and I feel too bad to just let it slide. Been a long time since this happened, at least a couple of years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 02:44 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do women feel bad when they constantly ignore or blow off dudes that they aren't attracted to? No, because one "no" should be enough, and because if that guy went to a group social gathering he would be included normally. Not to mention, we generally wouldn't call him "so and so's fat/ugly friend." At least from what I've seen of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 02:31 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Many times. Sometimes days at a time. Him being the one who didn't want to talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 02:26 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You deserve an award, but I am too broke to give one lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 12:53 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Growing up in a suburb of Houston, I can say team sports are expensive yet absolutely vital. I can also say that public transport and bike lanes would make it easier for poor people to attend ANY sort of event including work or sports. It's a major city, but it is spread out as Hell. Between the broken economy and lack of a car, I was held back in a major way economically and socially and physically and too. There are improvements to be made in the cities for sure. Otherwise, I love the idea of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 11:00 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Other people's marital status and parental status are not really your concern except for self-serving reasons, let's be honest. So let's tackle the real problem here, the only other criteria you have actually used to filter: obesity. There are things in my country, the US (where most Redditors are from, and many obese persons), that can be done to combat obesity. We need more walkable cities, better income equality, better quality/more affordable food, and better health education. We need these …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 10:48 PM
8	Q4ALL: Do you know any men that previously had no success with women and were able to find it? Why do you think so many men believe that is impossible? Literally every person started at ground 0 when dating. 60% of adult men have had recent shared sexual relationships. If they don't think those relationships are successful, they should let the relationships go. There are some unsuccessful men who just aren't that into prosocial relationships in general, and I hate to break it to the men, but that makes sharing an intimate and naked physical experience pretty damn tough. Sometimes, people want to be ready right now but they haven't identified th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 10:36 PM
2	Women love one night stands as much as men do Surely men must have more going on in their lives than telling women how women feel, correct? Frankly it's hundreds if not thousands of years old, and I am endlessly tired and bored of it. Imagine if I tried telling you how men feel. I was argued with on this forum that men are the more empathetic gender. Can we get ANY practical show of that from you men on here? Just a wee bit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 08:20 PM
2	Who stands more of a chance - women who've been 'fuck-zoned' or men who've been 'friend-zoned'? I guess if a man realized he was all out of options for a nurse and a purse, he could choose someone he sleeps with out of convenience. Same for a woman. What women would stick around solely for sex with a desperate man long enough for said man to have that epiphany? I doubt it happens often at all. Yet, can the same be said of a woman who views a man as nothing more than a friend? Of course. We all start as friends in the beginning, don't you think? There is generally some form of time limit, j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 11:33 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Bruh his existence put the paparazzi onto them. Diana died. Yes, that dude can afford to have them protected. He didn't, and he should be shamed for it. Personally I wouldn't choose a private jet for the first option, but either way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 03:49 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not for a long term relationship, not in my country anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 03:34 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread He ain't married. Whether he's fucking around with parties or video games or with actual sex, he's not focused on a family even when I'm sure he could make the opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 03:23 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Within his own class/league, absolutely not. Being good looking and wealthy isn't all their is to life. I'm sure he has options a lot of us don't, but at his league there will also be increased competition. He doesn't strike me as the fatherly type, tbh, is the issue. I could be wrong, but I don't think I would see him that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 12:48 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Wanting to fuck around forever at the expense of your future family is not a high value trait	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 12:45 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread He's good looking I guess, he's not high value. Chad settles down when young, just like men on here think women should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 11:55 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah you did smh, own your comments	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 10:15 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Neurodivergence is not mental illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 09:56 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yeah, multiple. A cycle, like none of them will stick around very long. So dateable, I guess, but not anything long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 09:03 PM
1	What’s so condemnable about making dating your number one priority in life? Balance is vital in life but if you have carved out an otherwise decent life for yourself and have no glaring areas of neglect than I don’t see why you shouldn’t be able to make dating your primary focus. Basically you just went and said: "Well if you have 100 other top priorities sorted out, you can make this Priority #101!" Well, yeah, duh, but that's not a first priority then, is it? You should indeed put effort into dating, especially as a man. There's nothing condemnable about that, and I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 06:09 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Umm, ok? Who asked you? If you have a problem with someone else gaining a pound, attacking them and their control doesn't fucking help. We want to lose weight even more than you want us to, so trust me, you are not inspirational or innovative by saying that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:44 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Good luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:36 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I've had enough of these ignorant comments tbh. No one gains anything by you blaming people you don't know for problems to clearly don't understand. Give it a rest, please. Thanks fam.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:23 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Give her your number so she has it within 24 hours. Let it drop, wait another 2 days or so, and do a phone call to talk about your days. Ask her out on a date at that point, if she's been extra friendly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:17 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There is a limit to what we can do, but speaking out in favor of governmental changes is much better than speaking out just to insult people. As for me, I am in the process of make my personal changes. It's really, really hard but I'm not lazy so I at least try. Anyone who comes up and says I'm not doing enough and I'm a problem is really not helping at all. I need to hear about what I CAN do not about how only perfect results matter or whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:12 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ego? Oh please, come on. You are the one who is berating people and making things personal by making those sorts of personal statements. Yes, there is a problem in the West. The very fact of Europe being better off probably means that factors like wellness education, walkable cities, and more available unprocessed foods would help. But you're too busy making things personal and using social game to see the real changes that need to be made. And you think you're the one helping?! Yeah ok lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:07 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread All boys/men are different. They'll have to do what I did and figure out what their tribe of people need or expect. It's a journey of personal growth, which is why no one movement in the manopshere will ever be as ubiquitous as all of them claim to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:04 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread All else is a society-wide issue. Avoiding it doesn't help anyone. How is it better to berate people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:02 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread For ME when I was really young? -learning how to come off friendly instead of pushy -not making the first overt move on boys -breaking the cycle of purity culture in my attitude Just to name a few things that changed my life and change how I internet personally with others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 05:01 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The millions of variables that go into fitness, like walkable cities and food availability and wellness education and processed foods, make a huge difference. Maybe learn the meaning of the word entirely. Things are rampant some places and not others for reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:59 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes actually. Look at the stats in different societies if you want the evidence. Thanks bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:54 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well, it's good for me to see that content personally because I need to remind myself I can do it when it's really hard, when everyone else like men on this site tell me I'm incapable. I need to know that I have some things in my power still, despite all of the struggles that come along with a new fitness routine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:53 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's rare outside of certain countries because of social and economic reasons. Shaming people for society-wide issues is just ignorant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:48 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh yeah, that was gone for me when my mama died. Keeps getting worse and worse as life sucks. I guess I hoped it was that way for everybody? Misery loves company. But I guess people who get affection, their own family, and an honest living can feel a little better about their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:42 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm barely 5 feet tall if that, I do not weigh anywhere near 300 pounds, I have ran 2 miles in a row several times recently, and I still have much work to do on losing weight. And yes I deserve people not to comment on my body or bodies like mine. I'm just living, and I was never mean to you or men like you (well not through body shaming, anyway). You really see fat women working out everywhere you look? That's crazy, I sure don't, and I actually wouldn't mind that content at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:41 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread None of those skills have rubbed off on your interpersonal demeanor? Even considering your line of work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:33 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's not a tangent. I'm just saying, I have not lied nor have I done those other things, ya know, poorly. It's relevant. I'm sure no one on this site cares about the lies, or about me lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 04:32 AM