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Big push to call out straight women There was a period around 2005-2015 where people were at least vaguely trying to make society better. Where we were trying to move away from slut shaming women, body shaming people, pushing towards normal healthy bodies and to allow people more freedom by questioning social norms. At this point you may as well give up. Nobody really cares about anyone else's issues anymore. Arguing over this is pointless when everyone is completely self centred. Do what you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:29 PM
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I don't know, I always hear this but is any of it really true. I somehow really, really, REALLY doubt that many women found Stephen Hawking attractive, be real. If someone like Hawking can get into a position where he can cheat on his wife. Then, yes, I believe he was charismatic. It's not that he's good looking or anything. It's how much he achieved considering his situation. Because those are probably the most autistic, it's inconsequential though, it all comes down to how attractive you are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:01 PM
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A chess grandmaster will never be as confident as an average male porn star when it comes to communicating with women Where does this myth come from that highly intelligent, successful men can't talk to women? Last I heard Einstein was a womanizer, Magnus Carlsen was very popular with women hell even Hawking was known to be very charismatic. Chess Grandmaster Ben Finegold is incredibly overweight and respectfully not the best looking. But even he has a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:22 AM
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People didn't warn me that women could be abusive or what behaviours engaged in when they were abusive no. I don't really care if you believe that. Every instance of women being abusive would get swept under the rug or it would be implied it was justified because of something the man did wrong. When my dad's wife threw plates at him the question was always around what he did to upset her. Everything is always about how abusive men are and how dangerous men are. This constant underplaying of abus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:50 AM
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But when my friend is getting kicked in the head by his girlfriend I'm not thinking "gee well it could be worse" I've ONLY had to deal with women throwing shit around the house in the middle of arguments as a means of intimidating me. Lucky me. It was still horrible to have to deal with and I felt scared but ig it could be worse... This is the problem with only talking about the extreme examples. Nobody warned me that women could act like this or how to handle these scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:32 AM
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But risk of death isn't the only negative outcome of domestic violence. I feel like you're massively downplaying the serious negative impacts of women's abusive behaviour by likening it to the common cold or a chihuahua.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:22 AM
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I don't think it's just this though. I know of instances of DV where if it was a man committing it the reaction would have been a lot stronger. But because it was a woman committing it nobody cares as much. Or men don't even realise what's happening is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:13 AM
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Honestly the most important thing for men and bad behaviour by women is that people actually label stalking & abuse as what it is when it actually happens. I have more experience of DV committed by women IRL rather than stalking. But in pretty much every one of those cases people seemed much more hesitant about labelling things as what it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:35 AM
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I don't know if men react worse or if men's capability to do harm when they do react is greater. Maybe a mix of the two. Hard to untangle. I just personally dislike the conversation being characterised ONLY by the extremes. I've definitely felt like there was zero help or guidance on dealing with abusive women because of how little anyone ever talked about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:05 AM
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I think when it comes to the ability of the stalkers and the likelihood for them to cause harm it's lower. Like my ex would hurl abuse at my current partner. But she was small and not intimidating at all. It also didn't last that long. I think when it comes to the more extreme issues like murder and severe violence men are worse. But at the smaller scale it's a lot more even. That's been my experience IRL of DV too. Plenty of women who hit, throw plates at, kick, scream at, bite their partners. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:45 AM
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Maybe I've just been unlucky. But given my own personal IRL experiences I can't help but feel the aggressive and stalker like behaviours of women are massively underreported. Not disingenuous at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:36 AM
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Women can be pretty crazy after break ups. I'm sure we can find examples pretty easily. https://www.canberratimes.com.au/story/6036177/dumped-woman-set-fire-to-ex-boyfriends-car-out-of-revenge-after-sms-break-up/ I kinda hate this "men vs women who is worst" fight. Everyone knows mem can be awful. I think people are genuinely misguided though in thinking that women are lovely post break up. I've known more stories of women stalkers after break up than men. My personal experience of women after b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:11 AM
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Use all the redpill dating stats men use on women. Push/pull, abundance mindset, dread game. They all work just as well on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:48 AM
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Bro. Have you dated a woman with bpd? Hard to go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:49 PM
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True. High N = better at sex. I like sex. Ergo, and therefore I'm speaking at a micro level like OP, sluts good. Aka aka aka: It only matters if she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:39 PM
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No but similar women with similar views and similar priorities do group together. And views bleed from person to person. If one person in a friendship group cheats then their friends are also more likely to cheat. It's like women who enjoy strippers at a hen party. Do they all become friends at a strip club? No. But in my experience whether women's groups all seem to be okay with it or not at all. Why? Because people associate with others like them naturally. A lot of women don't even talk about…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:49 PM
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Friendship groups do tend to attract similar people with similar views. I wouldn't take the views of you and your friends to necessarily be representative of women as a whole. (I mean I don't think the views of women of PPD are that representative either but that's a separate issue) I don't think these women are virtue signalling. You're just projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:52 AM
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As a man when I look in a mirror and feel good about myself. I'm like "Peaches you sexy beast". I masturbate a little bit (I'm basically Patrick Bateman). That gives me the best dopamine rush of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:46 PM
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I saw the photos earlier. Absolutely gorgeous girl. Don't listen to the other men. Unfortunately PPD is not the place to get sympathy or good advice. I enjoy this sub but it's a little bit of a cesspit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:07 PM
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8 intelligence. 6 looks. Though I'm less interested in "ability to complete a complicated degree" And more in "can discuss politics, has novel thoughts on social issues" etc. Some people have the same 5 opinions as one another. It would be difficult to date someone of that nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:17 AM
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Right? And you've been on one date. How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:36 PM
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Find a man to seriously date that will respect all your sexual boundaries is not easy and is basically impossible in todays day and age that there’s no point in trying. This isn't true. If a woman believes this and that why she doesn't date men then that is voluntary celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:10 AM
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Yeah. I've discussed her for a while. The issue is that the problems women seem to face are different. If you have options for romantic partners and don't take them that feels like a very different situation to male incels. Here's what I ended up writing the last time I discussed her: ... i understand what she's getting at, though i don't think the term incel is accurate but the current way of talking does make it difficult for women to talk about their own personal issues. You can be unable to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:06 AM
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It also needs to be paid better to be perfectly honest. Other fathers I know haven't taken it because they earn the majority of the household income and can't afford to take the gap in pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:16 AM
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You haven't slept with your boyfriend yet but you're thinking of having casual sex and losing your virginity with other guys? That either sounds awful or you're making things up. I'm inclined to believe the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:45 AM
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I don't think you have to sit in either camp. Attractive people can be creepy too. It's just that there's a lot more leeway for attractive people than ugly people. Like maybe the attractive guy is labelled creepy after the first awkward or questionable behaviour. The ugly guy gets one shot. No redos. Misread a signal once and ewwww weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:38 PM
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Not every girl is farming likes on insta. The girls OP is talking about are having crushes in real life. The behaviour OP describes is exactly how women were 15 years ago when I was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:37 AM
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If you find that a girl always "just so happens" to end up standing near you in a dance class then that's not a bad start. It's not conclusive of course. You can then flirt with her, see how she reacts and then escalate from there. It's gotten to the point where women aren't even sending signals out. Women have not changed in this regard in the past 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:02 AM
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This expectation exist because of lingering tradition, and because women are bombarded with men approaching since they were a teenager, so it does seem like it's very easy or common for men to approach. I'm not convinced this is entirely socialized behaviour. Not every woman is bombarded with men approaching as a teenager. They're still not approaching en mass. Men learning how to read flirting signals and approach is something men just need to suck up and learn. It will always be this way to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:54 AM
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Sort of funny, as in my experience a lot of women get bored and borderline ghost me the moment they find out I have little, to be exact, no experience. Why are you mentioning it? Don't ask, don't tell dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:16 PM
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Huh? I think you're misreading. I'm not convinced I'm any different. There are likely a lot of biases and behaviours I'm personally not aware of. Over the course of engaging in PPD I've reflected a but and some of the answers I used to give weren't accurate. people arent that stupid or empty Have you seen PPD? 😅 We're a mess. ... Why are you getting upset and downvoting? You asked a question and I gave you an answer. I wasn't even rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:00 PM
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I don't think people are lying. I do think that people lack self awareness. That's not a personal attack and I wish people wouldn't get upset by the suggestion that they may not know themselves completely. But, for example, when I ask people if they treat ugly people differently or if ugly people come across as creepier and they say "no". I know you're wrong. Anyone who's lost weight or put work into their appearance can corroborate. You do get much better treatment in all spheres of life when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:51 PM
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Oh I meant in all contexts. In relationships, platonic friendships, work colleagues etc etc. People prefer better looking friends over ugly ones. The people that I would describe as treating "worse" are those that have shown themselves to be bad people As a rule of thumb people give more chances to good looking people. If they do something wrong it can be written off. Ugly people? One strike and you're out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:48 AM
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Depends on the red pill content. Some of it is kinda vile. Some is benign. Depends on what you read. Things like WAATGM disgust me. Some of that stuff is literally just mocking single mothers and fat women. Kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:39 AM
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I'm sorry. But anyone who tells me they don't treat ugly people worse than attractive people is either: a liar delusional and lacking in self awareness. actively going out of their way to counter their own natural biases. In a large way. (very unlikely) The number of people who say they don't is mostly an indicator of how much people lack self awareness. You're not an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:32 AM
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You literally have no fucking way of knowing or proving that any woman who answers "no" actually treats ugly men worse. EVERYBODY treats ugly people worse. Everyone. If you want to treat ugly people similarly to how you treat attractive people you have to be actively working against your own internal bias. That's just how humans work. It's how you work. It's how I work. If you say you don't. Either you're actively working against your own internal bias. Which you would have to know existed. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:26 AM
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It's offensive because you - and most men here - quite literally accuse any answers that don't align with what you think we would or should say as "lying" and "virtue signaling." If anyone had given any of the answers you put in the original comment, they de facto would have been accused of being "dishonest." Women literally cannot win for losing on this sub and it's kind of pathetic. Because things like ugly people being treated worse socially because of their looks has been measured and can ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:23 PM
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Obviously. If women weren't smart about how they maintained their appearance socially we wouldn't have this problem. Smart women are a pain in the ass. Y'all probably have higher social intelligence on average. The only way for men to win is to not engage. I wouldn't go into a game of chess with Magnus Carlsen and hope to win. Only move is to not play. Or put vibrating anal beads in our butts I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:00 PM
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On dating preferences. Yeah maybe. Getting women's opinions on how to apply Bayesian Inference though? That makes sense. Some women are annoyingly smart 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:48 AM
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Cool. Honest answers. Thank you :) I will say I do think some people on PPD are more open than others. If you scroll down in the megathread though you'll see a guy asking if appearance makes a difference in whether men are considered creepy. To which many people have responded "no". In the thread yesterday on whether guys should disclose gay sex with a female partner. I had one poster get annoyed at me for not listening to the responses of women on PPD saying they'd date bi men even though any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:41 AM
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That's one of the biases. Yes. Women who frequent Reddit are different from the general population. But it's not the only one. women who give unpopular answers or answers which make women look bad are used to getting harrassed so have learned to be quiet. Leads to bias towards answers that go down well. women aren't always aware of their own preferences or actions. This isn't offensive. We don't have any issue talking about how people may be racist and not be aware. Why is saying that women aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:32 AM
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Q4M: Why do you keep asking women their opinions on topics? are ugly men more creepy? (A. No. Women don't judge me like this!) should men disclose sexual interactions they've had with other men. (A. Of course! Women care about honesty most of all!) do women care more about looks or personality most? (A. Personality! Women aren't shallow) Every answer you will get will be biased towards making women look better socially serving women's interests. Not only will your answers be inaccurate. But they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:29 AM
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Why are you asking women this question? They'll say no because if they say yes it'll make them look bad. Even if it's true. Also, even if they're not lying, a lot of people aren't aware of their own implicit biases. Ugly people get fucked over socially. You do have some control over it though at least. Being out of shape, dirty, smelly, badly dressed or ungroomed is all on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:56 AM
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Be persistent and don't give up. Don't get inside your own head. I know several guys who were virgins coming out of uni and did fine afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:48 AM
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I've seen plenty of women who act like this and I'm not trying to date them. I'm married. It doesn't apply to all single women. It definitely applies to some. But. I've also had male friends who wouldn't date anyone but Stacy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:45 AM
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1. I get to be incredibly pretty and I'll just date other gigachad men. It would suck though. I really like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:35 AM
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I really want to see the guys in these situations and understand their dating lives before their current partner. Like if he's just unfortunate looking and doesn't spark desire in women in general. This is the best he can get. That's pretty rough... Should've stuck to being single and paying for prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:28 AM
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I love that some people in this thread are acting like there aren't a plethora of women who won't date bi men. (But would sure be upset if they were judged on their sexual past) https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/jul/20/i-make-my-bisexuality-clear-to-new-dates-with-most-women-that-disclosure-signals-the-end Just read from the experiences of bi men trying to date women. Oh what? It's actually incredibly painful for a lot of guys? Huh!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:28 PM
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Bullshit because....? If you have any other data I'd love to see. I would love to be wrong on this. I really would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:02 PM
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If you want data: The evidence is limited to some surveys but: https://www.glamour.com/story/glamour-sexuality-survey 63% of women, however, say they wouldn't date a man who has had sex with another man You can read about the topic if you like. https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/bisexual-men-dating-women-stigma-lgbt-b2200069.html https://bi.org/en/articles/bi-men-are-not-considered-attractive-new-study-says Participants then received five statements and were asked to rate them on a 7-point sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:21 PM
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you already think women are homophobes A large % women are homophobes though. Or at least won't date bi men. Whether you think that's homophobic or not. Up to you. Many are not going to admit it in a thread like this though. That's not bias. That's how statistics works. That's the experience of bi men who've tried dating women and have been dumped for it. why ask the question in the first place if you don't want to see the answer Because they're right. A lot of women will get upset at being judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:04 PM
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Sure. I don't see why this is relevant: Its not exactly sexual past as much as sexual orientation As if one is okay to select on and one isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:55 PM
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It's generally a silly question to ask anyways. Outside of 1-2 people's most women who don't want to date bi men won't answer because they don't want to deal will the fallout. Even if it's actually 100 women on the sub who wouldn't. Meanwhile the 5-10 women who would date bi men are all happy to respond. I think this plus Reddit's liberal bias gives a strange perception that more women are willing to date bi men than actually are. I've had one woman on this sub say to me "see there are loads of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:50 PM
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I'd say the exception is if you're dating in VERY liberal circles and you kinda come across as bi anyway. You can come out and play your niche and it's not that bad. I'm openly bi (and married to a woman). But I wouldn't be in more conservative areas. Definitely would take it to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:38 PM
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I've known more than one gay, married to a woman, go back to gay behind womans back dude. Okay and? Plenty of high N women cheat on their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:35 PM
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Interestingly I find her the least attractive of the 3 women. Someone else has also commented that they find her partner more attractive. 🤷 I don't think average people are ugly. They're going to appeal to some people especially if they're on type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:48 PM
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Couple 1 Couple 2 Couple 3 These are fairly average couples you'd see IRL. All are either looksmatch IMO or there's not a lot in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:54 PM
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And don't give me this "but everyone is shallow, it's true!". I still can't tell whether you disagree with incels over women caring primarily about appearance. It sounds like you do agree. Just you don't want men to be upset over it. I disagree with incels on just about anything Except on the importance of looks apparently. Which is their main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:39 PM
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What do you actually disagree with incels on? It sounds like not an awful lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:30 PM
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When I see comments about how women are all shallow insects and not worth the air they breathe, then what is there left to say for me? Sure, I can point at society and tell them how there's all these women out there who do have meaningful relationships, . But blackpillers don't care. If they did, they wouldn't have these views in the first place. You can be shallow and also have meaningful relationships, interesting and challenging careers and live happy and fulfilling lives. These aren't contra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:02 PM
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Now I also want to see what PPD men really look like. From seeing the old rating thread and seeing a few guys in private chats... It really is a mix honestly. Some really good looking men. Some very average. Some less attractive. Also not every guy on PPD is failing to find women. Red pillers shouldn't be and neither should blue. It's only the incels who arguably shouldn't be here that have a hard time. Surely, reason of not getting women is more a personality issue than a looks issue. Mix of bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:18 AM
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Based. Big noses on women are great 😍 Genuinely better than tiny ski slopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:27 PM
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Trick question. If there's anything we've learned from the purge it's that most men here aren't at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:22 PM
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What am I supposed to make memes about, common sense and touching grass? There's plenty of room for mocking red pill and black pill. There could be some great blue pill memes. There just isn't much out there. I realized during the purge that while black pill has been making memes for years which they can repost ad infinitum. The same isn't true for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:46 PM
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Have you seen incels? Yes. For every genuinely ugly incel (who I'm sympathetic to) there's like 2 mentalcels. For every Eggman there's an Elliot Roger (not ugly) For every BlOps2cel 🙏 there's a Jake Davison (not ugly)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:32 PM
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Do it! Be the change you want to see in the world! Without anti-male posts ppd just becomes braincels 2.0 at purge time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:52 PM
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You're how tall? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:32 PM
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Do not go to a gay club. Your head will explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:04 PM
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Says the guy who regularly gets complimented on the size of his arms... 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:03 PM
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No you're right. Men have reposting the same 5 memes from last year down to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:58 PM
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I knew it! The ladies love King's Quest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:03 PM
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You either have it... ...or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:45 PM
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But what if I told you that Jeff holds the Any% speedrun World Record for King's Quest V How does Jeff look to you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:43 PM
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RIP the Asian girl who has a crush on OP while he's chasing after white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:09 PM
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The girls are his mum and sister. I did it! I solved the riddle! What prize do I get? A previously owned Bugatti?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:04 PM
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... won't women and men have a roughly even average number of dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:58 PM
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Are you kink shaming people with a breeding fetishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:55 PM
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Yeah but the average man is kinda ugly though so it's fair. Try harder men!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:48 PM
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Do you really think that a man would fly to Dubai just to get (literally) shat on by Arab princesses for 20-30k? Pretty sure there's men that would pay 20k to fly out to Dubai to get shat on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:45 PM
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Ugh! Not even that! My great grandmother had like a dozen children and I'm sad! Do you know how far inheritance money goes with like 12 kids? Not very far. What a goddamn degenerate bitch. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:43 PM
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Just because he has tears streaming onto the keyboard while he's writing those paragraphs dies mean he's emotional 😤😤😤😤😤 Just like the men writing essay in this comment section during purge were also equally cold and dispassionate and not triggered at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:34 PM
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Tbf women only started doing it because it was being done to them all the time. No. No. No grid no! The times I've seen it used recently idk if the women were even aware. Don't give me this women bad only because man bad. It seems men don’t care to change until they’re readily dehumanized in return 🤷🏽‍♀️ Oi! No! I was pretty careful about changing as soon as soon as it was brought up. Whenever you bring up dehumanizing men with women there's like the flying moneys from Wizard of Oz there's a fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:23 PM
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/uj for a moment It actually kinda annoys me when I see women use the opposite "males and women" on Reddit. And now once I've seen it I can't not unsee it. It's everywhere I've looked recently. I blame Radfems for making me sensitive to this whole males/men females/women issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:12 PM
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Oh fuck. Nobody told me that!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:47 AM
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Okay ... but what if I want to wash another man's penis with my penis? Is that still straight daddy Peterson?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:45 AM
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Pretty sure touching someone's penis is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:34 AM
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If you are going to post in a debating sub be ready to debate. Dude. What are you doing? It's purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:03 AM
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If you're only bisexual for Chad it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:59 AM
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I'm still confused. What's she refering to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:30 AM
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Don't get me wrong. Vaginas are great. You can't really swordfight another dude using a vagina though 🥵 ⚔️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:06 AM
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I agree. We all know women would be happier and better off in the hands of men from PPD than they are relying on feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:55 AM
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Politics would be a lot more fun if politicians twerked all the time. A cutie with an ass like that gets my vote 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:52 AM
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Have you tried not being a victim though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:56 AM
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That's sorta similar to the advice my parents told me. Never commit to a man who doesn't know what his own cum tastes like. I think this is better advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:46 AM
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Blah blah statistics blah. Maybe men shouldn't join gangs if they didn't want to get assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:43 AM
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Congrats. You've now become my least favourite PPDer. I won't forget this. 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:42 AM
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Holy shit some men on this sub are sensitive. I'm at -11 and -13 for troll comments... during purge. No wonder some of you dudes are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:30 AM
2

men do be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:10 AM
2

Your mum. I know the woman's just having mindblowing orgasms but she always digs her nails in. That shit hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:06 AM
-1

Men: Why can't women ever take a joke? Lighten up! Also men: Men's rights are no laughing matter 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:57 AM
1

u/ainsleygz you ho! You told me the sex tape we made together was special. "I've never done this before" 😭😭😭😭😭 I've been played.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:47 AM
2

Kinda feels like fishing with dynamite NGL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:38 AM
1

Yuk made a porno!??? Why hasn't he shared it! 😤😤😤😤😤 u/fjbhboy wtf is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:36 AM
0

Ewwwwwwww no. I already am the right person. I am the table. People just need to get on my level 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
3

Shit. I've been found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:22 AM
11

Don't worry babes. Even if you are a bit racist we can still make out. I have zero commitment to my morals 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:36 PM
10

Who's looking forward to that part of the purge where 1-2 regular members reveal themselves to be actual racists? Who do you have your money on this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:25 PM
46

Oh wow! I've never seen this on PPD before! Finally! We can all honest about how racist we are. I've been waiting all year!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:22 PM
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Men are sexually aggressive! Predators! We're not safe! Also: I love Mediterranean men and how forward and romantic they are ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:16 PM
4

You're right. You're too hot to have thoughts. Stay true to your bimbo self 💋
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:35 PM
1

The only way it would be better is if the person sat on top loved DrPepper... Amirite? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:31 PM
0

OMGosh HOT! 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:29 PM
0

Yeah but... ... Have you tried having an original thought or idea? Just saying... 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:25 PM
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Okay. But women have all probably had a 7 inch dick and I'm only 6.5 inches. It's over. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:19 PM
3

Shut up and go back to posting porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:15 PM
4

I have no idea but some guys are soooooo mad. I understand why women troll men on ppd now. It's kinda fun. And I thought men were supposed to be the funny gender 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:57 PM
3

Not getting raped is basically equivalent to being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:55 PM
2

When you think about it... ... the lack of matches might just be OLD protecting you from the dangers of good looking men. You gotta be a bit more glass half full.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:54 PM
2

... by men ... ... maybe you should get on that? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:49 PM
1

Babes it's purge. Lighten up 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:47 PM
-12

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Go cry to r/mensrights
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:41 PM
-12

Most homeless are men. Should've stayed in education then... Like women do. Not women's fault that men take risks and drop out. Being a man has serious issues just like being a woman does too. They are different and I am not here to say who has it worst cause I don’t think it matters. No. You're right. Men getting addicted to porn is a serious issue that men should get on it and solve!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:39 PM
1

Go go go!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:34 PM
-15

Nope! Men's issues are all whine whine whine. Wahh I can't date wahhh. It's so hard being wealthy and free as a man in the Western world. Wahhhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:26 PM
2

Praise drgree 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:05 PM
-1

No one cares who you want to date. I responded to the poster to comfort her and in the usual male fashion, you interjected trying to shame victims like her. In a usual male fashion I responded to someone... On a debate subreddit who was talking to other people as part of a conversation on the topic of dating people with baggage. If you can't handle men even talking to you without flying off the handle idk what to say. If people don't want their trauma discussed like this then don't bring your tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:44 PM
-1

What part of not wanting to date a rape or sexual assault victim is shaming? If you can't get past it then it is something you're putting into other people. That's not shaming to not want to have to deal with that. And for the record. I have personally been assaulted so maybe you shouldn't assume in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:34 PM
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So you are stupid. There’s nothing wrong with saying it’s okay for her to have her wits about her when she’s experienced numerous assaults, and a majority of rapists are male. Having her wits about her? Being worried constantly of what might happen. This is a barrier. You just don't want to call it one because...? Women don’t find worth in things like you either, so you’re good to stick to dating men. I mean. I'm in a relationship with a woman rn. But sure. If you wanna jump to homophobia plz be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:24 PM
-1

I’m sorry you went through this and I hope you received the proper care. You should never forget your experience, or feel bad for thinking about it when the next threat could literally be your date. What part of "thinking about it when the next threat could literally be your date" is not a barrier? Women who think like that are the ones with baggage that aren't worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:29 PM
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I disagree. If you want to date again I think you should work on yourself to move past it. This whole "I'm going to put up 100 barriers because of what happened in the past" is what makes someone a poor dating prospect. I'm sympathetic because these experiences are traumatic but also. Relationships aren't charity. The other person on the other end is going to see those barriers and not want to deal. Why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:02 PM
2

Dude. Who told you 6 inches was small?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:28 PM
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I'm bisexual and I also find hairy men hot. Makes logical sense to me. ... I also don't mind if women are a bit hairy too. Unshaven pits are no big deal. That's just what women look like naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:53 PM
2

No. I'm married. I'm 33. 12 years with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:37 AM
2

Next tier is finding one of the side chats or discord groups at which point your next resolution will be to stop commenting in the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:32 AM
1

Sure. But only in a relationship and with someone I have an emotional connection to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:21 AM
1

Read down. There was a thread on twoX where they were claiming that if you don't explicitly agree where to cum and he cums inside. Then that's assault. I went one step further to say that even if you do agree beforehand for him to not cum inside. It's still not assault. It's an unreasonable expectation for unprotected sex (because of the reasonable chance it can happen by accident)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:02 PM
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Even if you both agree for him to not cum inside during unprotected sex. It's not any form of sexual assault even if he does. Orgasm can certainly happen by accident or quicker than you expect. If you're not prepared for him to accidentally cum inside you during unprotected sex then you shouldn't be having unprotected sex. It doesn't matter how much you think you can communicate beforehand. ... How effective is withdrawal? Typical use failure rates of the withdrawal method are up to 27% (1). Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:38 PM
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You shouldn’t assume they’re on birth control No they definitely shouldn't assume this. (and I've always asked) But if someone told me they were on birth control and they want unprotected sex. I wouldn't think to also ask "and where did you want me to cum?" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:22 PM
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I’ve never had sex with someone who just assumed he could come in me before asking. Like what even is that? Of course you need to ask whether you should pull out. Condoms for the win, though. It seems strange to me that would be expected. You're having unprotected sex. There's a good chance he's going to cum inside be accident anyway. You really should not be using pull out as any sort of birth control. Add in that they were both drunk before hand. I don't think most people ask for consent for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:12 PM
1

In the original post nothing was agreed before hand. They just both agreed to unprotected sex. TwoX are saying that he should have asked for additional consent before orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:03 PM
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Cheating seems like a lot of stress, I enjoy monogamy and dislike casual sex. Nothing to do with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:45 PM
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Because they think they're dating. As in, towards a relationship. With someone who has a lot more wealth than they do and will massively improve their quality of life. Make of it what you will. But it's not "I'm just having sex with this man because I want to hook up and have fun".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:52 AM
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I mean im obviously doing carrot game. But I mever explicitly said anything Like when I pump and dump girls and I knew it from the start, my last message will be like "Hey I really wanted to make something between us work I just wasnt really feeling that spark between us. Really hope u find the right guy" Or, my perfect excuse now I just tell them I had to leave the country for an emergency
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:29 AM
1

it's really up to the person to decide if a label means anything to them. The issue I have with this is that it quite often leads to labels that convey very little information and are less useful than having one term. I'm happy to be able to tell a tin of chickpeas from a tin of baked beans. Which is fine. If the contents of the tin is meaningfully distinct. The issue I have is when it's not. Maybe it's two different brands of bakes beans. They're still both baked beans even if one of the brands…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:35 AM
0

Up front about it only being casual. He lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:03 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/user/CanOfWoody/comments/y7d5ts/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button This is Camo from the PPD discord right? I don't know him personally, just from other PPDers. But the guy seems like an asshole. Pretty sure he's said he's not entirely up front about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:44 AM
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What kind of areas? I'd I'm being completely honest, I find a lot of the various identity labels unhelpful. For example: the distinction between bisexual and pansexual. In my experience whether someone uses one term or the other tells you more about their age and what was in vogue in their formative years than it does say anything about their sexuality. It's why we end up with this giant "bi+" banner to try and pull back together a group of people that have been arbitrarily cleaved in two. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:52 PM
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The don't "identify" with whatever label because of the stigma attached. "Straight" men who have sex with men and bisexual men are the same group of people with a different label.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:01 PM
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Depends on why she's a virgin. If it's because she hated guys and could never meet one that met wild expectations? No. If she was perfectly reasonable but perhaps she's ugly, didn't want casual sex but couldn't find romantic love? Yeah I'm sympathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:55 AM
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Maybe he was exploring his bi-curiosity side with me (and other men). Idk. I think he is bisexual. But a lot of men who are bisexual are like that. They'll hook up with guys a few times when younger and then end up in a monogamous relationship with a woman. But saying "I am bisexual" is this whole big thing that a lot of men don't want to even get into. So instead it's "I'm straight but I sucked a dick a few times. Maybe I was just exploring" Funnily enough I think gay tropes about bi men might …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:47 AM
1

Did Livs have 4 accounts? I only remember 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:50 PM
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Bi woman. It's way harder to get a date with a woman than a man, women are just picky AF. For every 50 likes from men, I probably get 1 woman. But your pool of men is hardly diminished. Bisexual women don't experience dating issues to the same extent that men do. There's a good reason why bi men are much less likely to be out than bi women. It's not the same. But I'm not complaining because I don't expect women to like me, it's their choice. You're not complaining because you're not impacted as …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:35 PM
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I'm bi too so uh idk what I'm "making up." Man or woman? They're two very different experiences. Why can't you fuck a man when you want sex, then commit to a woman when you want romance? If women won't date you then obviously you can't do that. Right anecdotes. There's also a ton of straight men that are mid to late 20s virgins because no woman wants them What do you want? I've given you plenty of stats around how many women won't date bi men. The experiences of people in conservative communitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:23 PM
1

What are you on about? I'm 33 and have been married for 8 years with 2 kids. I'm not out hunting down male prostitutes. That sounds gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:15 PM
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Man, so, you have it better than gay guys (who struggle for commitment) and better than straight guys (who struggle for casual sex) since you can switch between the two to fit your needs... and you're still feeling the need to lie and manipulate? You can't just switch between the two to meet your needs. Just admit you have no clue what it's like at all and you're just making stuff up. There are bi men who come out and literally can't date from that point onwards. Read accounts of bi men. How is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:11 PM
1

In the ideal world I think men would come out. The dude who sucked a dick 1 time but preferred women would admit it. Much easier than keeping anything hidden. Isn't that one detail part of who you are? For a lot of men. No. Not really. They fooled around with a guy once and now want to date women. That's all. It's no more a key part of their personality as enjoying reading Harry Potter as a kid. You would be good never mentioning it for the rest of your life? Depends on the man. A lot of men lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:04 PM
1

After giving her the STDs? I like it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:48 PM
1

Looking at older generations. Seema to me that the number of bi men per generation should be relatively static. However in younger generations it's a lot more common as it's more accepted. Seems reasonable to suggest there are a number of men in older generations who are just not out. Or have homosexual fantasies but still consider themselves straight. Much safer doing that than being bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:47 PM
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The average straight man is not getting 60% of women lol. That's not what I meant. What I mean is you've cut down 60% of your pool before you've even started looking at shared interests etc. The average straight man is probably getting less than 1% of women in his dating pool. So bi men are getting 0.4%. in good areas. Gay men might be only 3% but most of them have far lower standards and games than women. I bet you could have a date lined up for tomorrow if you jumped on Grindr rn Yeah. For cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:45 PM
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you overall still have a helluva lot more option than straight guys because you can date men. This isn't true though. Gay& bi men make up 3? 4? % of men. Then you're losing out on what? 60% of women who are a strict no and even more who view you as less attractive. Even more if you're in a conservative area. Straight men have a larger dating pool than bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:04 PM
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They do want to date you though. Aside from that one detail. Which you can not mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:58 PM
2

Is there any biological reason why people smile? Or wave? Or shake hands? Or give oral sex? Fucking is a male x women activity No. but to claim it's natural Many species engage on gay sex masculine Only men engage in gay sex. How can it be any less masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:57 PM
2

It completely goes against biology Wot???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:52 PM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:46 PM
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Because I made those comments: I don't think it's a question of fairness. Also even though I mentioned a percentage previously. I think it's mostly about your personal experience dating. If you're going through apps and the difference in experience between mentioning you're bi and not is night and day. If you don't. You can get a partner, a relationship and things are happy. But if you do. Your matches are basically dead. There's only a few people interested and you don't tend to want a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:42 PM
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Perceived greater risks of STIs. Side note. This one is legitimate. Bi men are a greater risk of STDs. I don't think it's unreasonable to ask a bi man when he got STD tested last. But someone who has been tested and is clean is no different to anyone else. And you should be asking your partner that anyway. Especially straight men who sleep around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:32 PM
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Not disingenuous at all. I don't see why the expectations on bi men would differ to straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:08 PM
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It's mostly LARP. I've seen women on their admit they get social anxiety going to a shared gym with men. No idea how that kind of woman would ever be capable of swindling men. There's 1 or 2 actual psychos and a whole bunch of other women dreaming of revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:02 PM
2

Okay. So before you have sex with someone you list out all of your exes and all your hookups and you expect her to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:58 PM
2

So you put your entire dating history up on your dating profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:56 PM
1

I think they're only known because they're the ones getting caught. The majority of in the closet bi men just watch gay porn once in a while maybe. Or not even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:55 PM
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So you think its okay for people to lie if being honest means your dating pool would be decreased? Sure. People lie all the time. Should other women and men be completely up front about their sexual history or just bi men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:53 PM
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Why do the guys here feel the need to be able to choose from every woman? They don't. But if you cut your dating pool down in one single trait it makes looking for other traits MUCH harder. You also need to find someone you're attracted to, is attracted to you, you have similar shared interests etc. If you're a conservative Christian dude living in a conservative area where your dating pool would drop to 10%... I don't blame you for not mentioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:45 PM
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The funny thing is. I'm literally in a relationship position. I have to make decisive decisions... all the time. Nobody has any idea I'm bisexual until I mention it. ... Though. Funny story I did have a coworker go off on bisexual women to me (not knowing im bi) He was like. "Obviously women are more likely to be bisexual. It makes sense. Women literally can't make their minds up about anything" I just egged him on to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:42 PM
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I love it when the topic of bisexual men comes up. Watching women crawling out of the woodwork with their dumb AF comments. "More feminine" "Not decisive" "Not leadership material" Jesus Christ. Why a lot of bi men are better off not mentioning it when dating women. If you're never going to sleep with men again, it's not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:33 PM
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I don't understand how bisexual men have fewer leadership qualities than straight men. making decisive decisions being able to show restraint Bisexual men are perfectly capable of both of these. It's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:28 PM
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I don't disagree with this. Also the people who can make the most changes for men are women and vice versa. Right now neither party seems to want to do anything that isn't in their own self interest. Why should men start first?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:33 AM
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I can’t imagine anything more feminine than wanting to take a dick in the ass or get fucked in the face, or being attracted to a dick in general lmao What's feminine about two men having sex? Where are the women in the room? Gay sex isn't just soft. It can be physical and confrontational. Dudes don't break so you can be significantly rougher than you ever could be with women. What's feminine about two burly dudes with beer gut and beards throwing each other around? Actually, define homophobia fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:48 AM
1

Does he get upset when you do flirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:33 AM
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Do or don't date bi men. I don't care. but... It's that it's feminine. I'm not into feminine men, and there's nothing more feminine than liking dick. It wouldn't matter to me whether he was a bi man that had never touched a dick in his life, the fact that he'd even be interested in men is just not attractive to me. It's not manly. This is homophobic. There's nothing inherently feminine about gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:14 AM
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People who actually like and value someone's company keep in touch. There's a difference between my friends that maintained contact over the years despite moving across state/country, and despite life changes such as marriage, children, or serious illness. I think that depends. Sometimes life and other stresses can get in the way. I've not seen some friends in years. Just last month I caught up with someone I hadn't seen in 5 years. It was great catching up and finding out what happened in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:12 PM
1

I don't like old friends I haven't spoken to in years reaching out to me either after a decade of no contact. Why not? That's not an indication that they haven't done anything interesting since.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:02 PM
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Do you mean to hook up again or just to catch up? I don't know. I think it's reasonable to miss old friends and relationships. I sometimes miss friends I haven't seen in 13 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:45 PM
1

They should have a joint onlyfans and make money together. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:49 PM
1

I understand the distinction. I just also think some people are absolutely wild with what they want and would appreciate something else if they'd only give it a chance. Like the fussy person who only eats one meal. Or the person who expects their partner to have bodies like the people they see on social media. When I say temper expectations I mean. Don't go into listening to classical music expecting it to have the energy of metal. Don't drink beer and hate it because it doesn't have the sweetne…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:14 PM
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Not bodycount specifically no. When it's in the abstract I didn't care. But seeing women hook up with or have casual sex with guys I knew? Probably influenced my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:06 PM
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Pisces, Capricorn, Leo... INFP, ENTJ, ESFP... Alpha male, Beta male, Gamma male... ... They're the same picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:55 PM
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It's not about settling though. It's about viewing someone in a different light. Someone viewed through a dating app screen is different to viewing someone in real life. Viewing a person in a work context is different to on a date. Viewing someone who you've gone through shared struggles with (perhaps you bonded at work when you both started in the same week) is different to someone you just have a nice enough date with. You yourself had very different feelings towards your current bf at various…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:43 PM
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Yeah. It really depends on your body. I did not look this good when I got chubby. I just looked fat. It doesn't matter if women are attracted to some other guy when he chubs up if that look really doesn't work for me. It's similar to when some women say they like men with beards. If your beard looks like ass then it's still best to go clean shaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:36 PM
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I don't disagree. It was a facetious comment. I was poking fun at the people who say you can't judge people's high expectations or standards. Those who aren't content with regular normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:22 PM
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Combining this morning's themes of music and appreciating what's in front of your nose. I used to hate Slayer (the band). I tried multiple times to get into them with no avail. Angel of Death... Ugh 🤮 One night at a pub playing pool someone stuck Raining Blood on the jukebox. It was fucking loud... ... And also a fucking banger. It was only in that context, that I appreciated how good the band were. Q4A: Any music you skipped over at first only to appreciate at second/third/fourth glance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:58 PM
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On this one you can't just blame the Tories though. New Labour were very much against weed. Starmer's Labour are looking no different. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/labour-lib-dems-decriminalise-drugs-b2067487.html
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:36 PM
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My sister is early 20s. Work colleagues are mid 20s. My wife's friends and my friends are early 30s. To be clear. Most people I know are also coupled up. But there's still this sizeable cohort of women I know who are perpetually single and can't seem to find relationships. I know men who are perpetually single too but the issues seem to be very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:49 AM
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What kind of experience are you talking about? Family members or close friends who have told you that’s why they’re still single? Several of my wife's friends alongside several other friends and work colleagues and the experiences of my sister. One of my wife's friends for instance goes on date after date but by date three she's not feeling it and there's no spark. She goes back to her friendship group where the other women where she asks "am I being too picky?". Only to be told "no! Don't settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:32 AM
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It sounds to me like men are more content with how women are, accepting their flaws and humanizing them whereas women are always reaching for better. And my experience IRL has been women waiting for the absolute best and ending up being single for years on end because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:18 AM
0

Really? All I ever hear from women is "don't settle for anything that isn't the absolute best'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:54 AM
0

Nobody is perfect. Seeing someone as a human with flaws will help making love easier. Why don't you say this to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:29 AM
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People want what they want But this isn't true. Perception of the quality of a thing is in large part a function of context. Your experience of a bottle of wine when you're told it's worth £5 Vs £50 will be different. It'll be different again if you drink that thing at home by yourself and if you drink it on a friday night with friends. It'll be different again if you drink it right after a bad bottle of wine Vs right after an incredible bottle of wine. ... If you're putting yourself into situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:58 AM
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Congratulations! I hope it works out!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:19 AM
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You're all right. Expecting women to temper their expectations for men is completely unreasonable. Even if those expectations have been inflated by spending too much time on OLD or social media. In the same way. Men shouldn't apologize for having inflated expectations due to porn. Men aren't to blame for watching porn. It's women's fault for not having porn hot bodies and not doing pornstar sex acts. That's just the bar now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:11 AM
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I left several bad reviews on woke superhero films with female leads. That'll show women; I hope they learn their lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:44 AM
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I've known women on this sub who've had men slide in their DMs. They're not jam packed but they're there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:44 AM
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I'm significantly more successful now in my early 30s. In addition I probably look better than I did in my 20s also. Haven't left my wife. I guess the only thing on the list is that we still have great, regular sex. If she dead bedroomed me that would probably be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:42 AM
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I do agree, that's definitely a big part of it. OLD would in theory be the natural substitute. But it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:38 AM
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Yeah, that seems silly. TBH I'd always assumed you were a slow dater given your comments on megathread. Mostly LTRs. No casual. I don't know how people got to THOT. Though I haven't been around much more recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:35 AM
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The advantage of clubs and dancing is you have an excusable reason to make physical contact with someone and escalate. Language learning is a much more sterile environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:27 AM
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Your life is part of PPD history now. IIRC you were looking for a Christian bodybuilder?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:23 AM
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Beginner dance classes, yoga classes Clubs maybe? Women tend to be more into dancing in general than men are IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:20 AM
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I don't think it's just casual sex. OLD gives women access to attractive dudes in general. Even if guys are on there looking for relationships. The average dude if going to look pretty dull compared to the super hot guys the app throws at you to start off with to keep you on the app? Have you watched gen Z women using dating apps? They're elated when they match super hot dudes. Their standards slowly creep up over time. My sister admitted it happened to her. She started with regular dudes and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:14 AM
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If women are sexless too, it can still be because of warped expectations due to OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:03 AM
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Sounds like an excuse a vegan would provide for not giving oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:02 PM
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I know sexual assaults don't only happen to prostitutes. But the dynamic is still different and the pressure is still much greater to not say no. In.the casual sex scenario you are there as an equal party and you enjoyment should be as much a priority as their's. With prostitution you're a service provider where the pressure is on you to cater to the whims and enjoyment of the other party. These two scenarios are obviously very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:29 PM
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I think money makes the whole dynamic a lot more complicated. What if you change your mind half way through? A prostitute will have a harder time saying no if he's already paid. Random sex without cash gives women a lot more control over who she's sleeps with and the circumstances of where it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:11 PM
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Nice 😎 Welcome to the boys team gender traitor 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:14 AM
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So what you're saying is that men are hypergamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:01 PM
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Femcels are also a marginalized group by the same metrics. Ugly women or women with various health and mental issues 100% have a very hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:58 PM
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You're right. But if all you're gonna be seen as is a walking ATM then may as well go to a third world country and find someone young and hot to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:01 AM
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That's why your advice is utter garbage (no offense). For some men, if they don't chase, don't pursue, "not ignore doubts" they'll get NOTHING. I guess it's because I'd rather go MGTOW than feed off scraps. Most men who get treated badly by their partners seem to be happier when single TBH. If it's that bad then buy a dog and some hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:41 PM
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I agree. But I think If you're missing that experience, the best thing to do is to try dating a few people rather than trying to rationalize about everything. After a few relationships or dates you can tell the people who are lukewarm about you from those who are excited pretty easily. IME. So much of dating is non verbal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:38 PM
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On the whole "she needs to sleep with me early otherwise she doesn't value me" topic. Honestly. You can kinda tell if a woman is or isn't into you from a myriad other signals. How much she chases after you. How much she talks about you to others etc. etc. If she says "oh of course I like you" but you feel like her actions and her words don't match up. Just leave. Even if you're super into her. When someone's into you. You can tell. Men just need to trust their gut and not ignore doubts they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:29 PM
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From what I've understood the whole "she needs to sleep with me early" thing comes because men don't know whether she has made other guys wait in the past. They assume that given the current dating environment that at some point she's probably had sex with someone else on the first date. Whether she has or hasn't is another question. But as far as I can tell it's mostly about a lack of trust from men. And it's not entirely unreasonable. There are definitely women who will have a ONS with some gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:18 PM
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Nah. I've had some of my female friends have talk about guys they find attractive... It's because I'm bisexual and want to know if I also find him hot 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:09 PM
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I think men on here typically just want similar treatment from women they date that other guys get. It's just about feeling less valued and wanted compared to some other guy by your eventual spouse. I don't think it's that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:06 PM
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No. I also think a lot of men and women think they know more about people of their own gender than they actually do too. Most people are generally good at understanding and explaining their own worldview and the worldview of their friends. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:51 PM
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Are these not different men? There's a contingent of men who are quite sexually conservative. Typically black pillers. And then a contingent of red pill guys who want to fuck around and have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:07 AM
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Tell you partner. He needs to be able to decide for himself. Also you should probably tell him before you have sex with him again. Even if he does take you back, you're risking his health with STDs. HE needs to be the one to make the decisions in this instance. (Also if you've cheated you should also get tested)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:39 AM
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Nah. More like an auditor. 📚 I want the receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:49 PM
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Why what? To clarify: When I say I'm all for dating being easier for women. I mean I agree with that sentiment in general that it is easier. On reread that maybe wasn't clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:46 PM
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I just wanna know who's mad about it and why. From the people who are mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:38 PM
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I'm all for dating being slightly easier for women. But I don't think it's that simple. Especially when trying to work out who's trying to date you long term and who's just looking to get their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:36 PM
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Who? Name names.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:33 PM
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Oh God, please let me be a 5.... Mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:48 PM
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I did rateme too. Results were all over the place. From 3 to 7/8 Also, because I'd said I was bi in the title I ended up with other bi men in my DMs. Idk if I have the stomach for truerateme. I expect I'd get a 4.5 or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:47 PM
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https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2022/10/04/cheating-relationships-yougov-poll-august-2022 Men aged 45-64 who have ever cheated on a partner: 37% Women: 29% Not exactly the huge difference you're claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:48 PM
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Not every or even most men/women who are murdered by a partner started the relationship with a KNOWN abuser. I'd love to see statistics on this. It seems to be that in plenty of cases, people don't care or assume it won't happen to them. I mean. Charles Saatchi was literally photographed strangling his ex wife. He still ended up in a relationship only a few months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:46 AM
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But it is minimalistic and it is pragmatic though! It's like how men will often wear the same clothes for 10 years. If you don't need something new, why throw out the old? There's pros and cons of this way of living but this is just how a lot of men are. There's nothing inherently wrong with it. Think of it this way. Better to live with a partner who will give you free reign to decorate your house. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:53 AM
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No, I'm white British, as is my ex. She would go to Turkey on holiday for the attention before we got together (she was 13,14,15 being hit on by 30yo men). It wasn't all the guys out there. There are definitely some decent men. But an awful lot of creeps. It's not uncommon for women in the UK to fly out to places like Turkey because of the love bombing and the attention. Men in the UK by contrast aren't quite so forward. (But we're obviously a lot better on issues like rape) Won't lie. It kinda …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:36 AM
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Yeah. So my ex fiance and I had a bad time. She decided to break up with me and fuck the guy who had been hitting on her and telling her how pretty she was since she had been going on holiday since she was 13. At the last minute she decided to not go through with it and it was exactly like you say. He wouldn't take no for an answer and she was raped. He got rough and she came home beaten and bruised. He'd been so nice to her right up until that point. Be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:10 AM
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What was the alternative you were trying out? Edit: I see from the post history it's Turkish men. Yeah. I'm not going to be entirely sympathetic. I have first hand experience of western women taking Western men for granted, thinking Turkish men were great because of all the love bombing. Only to realize a very different reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:51 AM
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Why does someone need to have made a cluttered space and then reduced it down in order to be minimalistic? A lot of guys do genuinely try and keep things cut down in order to keep effort to a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:48 AM
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When you look at gay relationships the gap is huge. Heterosexual relationships and it's much smaller. https://docs.cdn.yougov.com/n9tnprsb8i/crosstabs_Cheating.pdf For instance only 45% of men and 40% of women have never been cheated on. The evidence suggest that men cheat slightly more often but that there's often not a lot in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:33 AM
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License pictures can often make attractive ppl look terrible. You're probably somewhere between the two. I know that feeling tho. I wish I always looked as good as my best photos 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:10 AM
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Just do it Bri; Life's too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:07 AM
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Disagree. Some people still look much better chubby than others look skinny. Genetics are still super important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:10 AM
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Don't believe them. Figuring is not a woman's account.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:01 AM
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I'm the only authoritative non-larp voice in all of PPD these days. You mean mimeneta isn't actually a short, bald, Indian janitor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:48 AM
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Oh for sure. I could have slept around. Just never wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:31 PM
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I'm still not sending you nudes mimeneta. You can't shame me into it. I'm an honest man 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:09 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree but it's not like the majority of men are any better. Most people have their own worldview and narrative and will cherry pick data to support that narrative. Feminism is hardly special in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:56 PM
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As a bi man with low N I feel like I'm doing it wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:48 PM
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Meh. u/figuringmylife has you beat. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:20 PM
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Oh, for sure. I do to. I meant more if someone expects that to happen for them without reciprocating. Or expecting some other special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:04 PM
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Sure. Some women I see as equal. My wife for instance. Some women. Those who depend on others to do things for them. Maybe they don't work or depend on men to pay for everything for them. Or they expect men to hold doors open for them or pay for dates. Those women I don't see as equals. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:46 PM
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q4m what are your expectations when ur woman is the breadwinner? should she humble herself and let you be the man? what does that look like Women shouldn't be breadwinners. Only Bangmaids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:38 PM
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Eh. Women care way more about looks than they say they do. It's just a lot more common for women to like very good looking men and then justify it with something like "oh his personality is amazing" Studies seem to suggest that women constantly underestimate how much they care about looks. https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html I'd rather women be more honest with how much they care about physical appearance like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:55 AM
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Not the person you were asking but... I've had a woman get pissy at me IRL when I brought up Hemsworth's likely steroid use and unreasonable body standards for men set by Thor in the new movie. "Men don't have anywhere near the same expectations that women do! It's about time they deserve similar to what women receive" Me - "this doesn't have to be a competition over who has it worse" "I mean if it was. Women would clearly have it much worse" ... Over also brought the same issue up on PPD only t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:33 AM
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Nowhere did anyone say they found men hotter and would rather date them. You literally inserted that in yourself. no where in that statement did she say she'd rather be with girls Nowhere did anyone else say they'd rather be with guys. But also I'm bisexual and being called gay doesnt offend me at all. It's not about gay being offensive. But calling men gay because they aren't into some women or don't find them hot is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:23 AM
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Lol! So when a woman says she doesn't want to settle for an average man it's all "yes sis!" https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/yarj0o/what_actually_happens_when_women_lower_their/itcshr2?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 A man says he doesn't want to settle for an average woman and he's gay? Okay babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:05 AM
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men who often use it to mean someone doesn't disgust them and they can tolerate them for a quick fuck This is not true. Can we stop this. The majority of men aren't looking around at women thinking "wow I could tolerate her for a quick fuck" Men also have a wider range of women they'd accept for a relationship too. We can see this pretty easily through their engagement with relationship focused dating apps. It's not as if we suddenly become much pickier. I get that "men are just walking penises"…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:35 PM
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Why though? 24 and 33 is a decent gap but that's not awful. You're long since an adult at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:17 PM
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If we're playing the find misogynyistic or misandrist content online I can do that too. I just want there to be no more males born ever. It is possible to fertilize an ovum with the genetic material from another ovum. The technology to do this could be readily perfected. In the meantime if it was possible, and every woman was willing, to selectively abort male pregnancies that would be great. Otherwise, until the ovum-ovum method is standard, I think antinatalism is fine. The earth is beyond its…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:39 AM
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You spend far too much time online reading horror stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:32 PM
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Dude. You're back on the sub for all of 5 minutes and already people giving you shit. Haters gonna hate. Idk how you cope 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:25 AM
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Tell her what? It's y'all who have the misread on Cim. She's not being taken for a ride. She's defining most on the rules of her relationship. Not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:08 AM
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All you've done is whine 😅 We're not in the same boat at all. playing the victim. women are raped an murdered Uh huh. Again. Men are murdered at a much higher rate. All you do is play the victim. Are we in the same boat or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:43 PM
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Because it does affect me and other men. It's not petulance. When average men are treated as suspect because we might be a threat. Or we're dehumanized because we're considered "dangerous" it does affect us. People being wary of men and constantly making women way more scared than they need be does lead to male social isolation which does have a knock on impact on mental health and wellbeing. Because you don't actually have any more reason to be any more wary of men than I am. In fact from stati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:31 PM
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Okay and? I'm not responsible for any violence caused by men. It has zero to do with me. Or anything to do with other non violent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:50 PM
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I disagree. All I ever hear is how terrible and dangerous men are. How scary men are. How afraid women are walking around at night are because of men. And yet. Take the issue of being attacked by a stranger. Men are still much more at risk of being attacked than women are. We're at a greater risk of homicide than women are. We can't just cut men out of society and segregate men just because some small number of men are violent. I kinda hate that men who aren't violent have to justify our existen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:17 PM
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Cat left :( She decided she was too old to be arguing with people half her age I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:43 PM
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This is PPD. She's my bestie here Miel. Hands off. 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:54 AM
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Not my favourite photo if I'm honest. You look perfectly fine but the shot is kinda blurry. I can't really see who you are in detail. Maybe a different focal length on a better camera? Finally. The colours all kind of blend together and are a little drab. If this is for OLD you should be looking for bright vibrant colour in your shots. Even a bolder tie might help. Can you drag a potted plant into the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:47 AM
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Depends on context. Maybe she's flirting. Not 100%. But you look for other social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:24 AM
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Just start sharing the transmaxxing manifesto. See if you can get some dudes to make the leap. I believe they're on version 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:09 AM
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Let us all know how it goes for that added layer of exhibitionism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:11 PM
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Boring! You need to find three other couples and all watch each other having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:09 PM
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Since when was your mum reliant on your dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:13 PM
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I meant more that they hadn't convinced themselves that the handmaid's tale is real life. The bar is so low Poppy. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:06 PM
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Those were the days before FDS and Twoxchromosomes. The older generation of women were of a higher calibre.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:42 AM
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the internet is in decline Andrew Tate told me it all started the second he got banned. I believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:40 AM
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Sorry. I'm confused. 50's is not men's peak? I mean, I can see an argument for early 60s but I'm not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:15 AM
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Yeah. It's dumb. But I get that women are worried that if they selfishly ask for something then they'll need to give up everything else. Or they're worried they'd be judged by other women. That's why they make dumb af justification. But at the end of the day. A lot of women do really enjoy that experience if being paid for. I don't see the issue with them asking for it. Just maybe if it happens we should stop crying about every other inequality in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:03 AM
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Honestly. I stopped getting bothered about this issue. At the end of the day there's a bunch of stuff where inequalities still seep into a relationship despite best efforts. Maybe she does more housework. Or more childcare. I've started to stop worrying quite so much about 50/50. If you don't like the relationship. Get out. Learn to roll your eyes when women talk about relationship unfairness. Nobody, men or women, actually cares or has any real commitment towards equality. You shouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:52 AM
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Do you really want to date someone who holds every mistake over your head forever? That's a HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:40 AM
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It sucks more for women because some men penalize her for having learnt through experience. The men who want to heavily penalize women for mistakes aren't exactly catches. I'm not sure women are missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:59 AM
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Exactly! Don't settle for any post wall woman over 25 until you hit 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:17 AM
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Yup. It's when the grey comes in and we transform into silver foxes. Everyone bashes on DiCaprio for aging badly. I think it's bullshit. Just wait until he's 50. He'll have a resurgence. Just you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:59 AM
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Yeah, u/figuringmylife is a LARP. She's actually an overweight and unemployed 52yo woman w/ a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:51 AM
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Just get multiple monitors for your goon cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:48 AM
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And accept that men in their 50s are at their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:45 AM
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You're right. But this is a sad state of affairs when it happens. I think anyone who judges another couple because one of the two doesn't have a degree should feel ashamed. A friend of mine recently got married to a guy who works in the trades. We couldn't be any happier for her. He's absolutely great and fits in with my friends from Oxford just fine. Even without a degree. (Oh and he's way better than every degree holding ex she's ever dated. We love him)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:24 AM
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Really? I've generally had a positive reception for both my ex-fiance and my wife who were 5ft10 and 5ft11 respectively. Those have just been my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:24 PM
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Just as an aside. Women being desirable by other men isn't always what improves your status. Dating a tall woman for instance can still be seen as a big positive by other men even if they wouldn't date her themselves. Contrast that to dating an unattractive women which can be seen as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:56 PM
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Honestly, I get more annoyed at publications like the guardian who parrot the same opinions without checking their sources: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert However it's sloppy journalism because the guardian has a pro-women bias right now. When you actually read the sources this is not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:24 AM
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This is why as a man you don't take literally everything Feminists state at face value The women on that sub are getting so annoyed him. "That's not what we meant!". It's not even satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:17 AM
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What? I wasn't disagreeing with you 😅 It was a joke poking fun at how Lysa Bell de-humanized men by assuming nefarious motives by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:36 AM
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Nah. Pretty sure it's that men are inhuman monsters whose only goal is the dehumanize women and treat them like shit. They can't have insecurities or defence mechanisms. That's what women (aka humans with feelings) have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:26 AM
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All we've said is there appears to be a strong correlation in women so it's best to avoid those women for LTRs (they can get a good dicking at most) Honestly. It's this conclusion that I do kinda disagree with. Even with correlation, it's still not always the worst idea to LTR a promiscuous woman. Ultimately every potential partner has positives and negatives. People are better off looking at the whole and not hyperfocusing on one trait. Men hate it when women do it with height. I don't see how …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:01 AM
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Both men and women are best with body hair. Funny that you like clean shaven though too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:37 PM
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As a bi man I think she's right. I even prefer women on average. The very, very top of men are hard to beat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:25 PM
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Diabla is such a LARP. I found this comment on the sub and several others like it. The idea of going to a gym gives me intense anxiety but I do think I will try to find a fitness class that doesn't intimidate me tooooo much.. Honestly I think half of the women on Reddit who say "I'm happy being single" just have social anxiety. I don't know why men get so mad at women on FDS. I bet many of them are timid wallflowers who haven't talked to anyone new in 6 months. They're petrified. That's literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:00 PM
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Does your current partner meet those requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:49 AM
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Oh I agree. I think diabla tends towards going beyond consenting sugar lifestyles though. The purposefully trauma bonding and manipulation is what feels gross to me. Women being gold diggers or tryna date a rich man? Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:15 AM
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It comes up a lot that promiscuous women have a higher risk of divorce. But that's obviously not the only metric of success for a relationship. Isn't a 10 year long marriage that's vibrant, happy and exciting better than a 30 year boring marriage? It's not like your life ends when a divorce happens. Q4ALL Just how bad is the threat of divorce or breakup for you? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:13 AM
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I know right? So strange. Imagine wanting a submissive housewife for anything other than sexual favours. I can make my own bed. I can't suck my own dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:05 AM
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There's definitely a level of LARPing on that sub. Or at least women who want to be more mercenary but can't stomach it. It's kinda telling that there are posts about "don't feel bad about what you're doing"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:45 AM
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Not sure how I feel about Diabla. Honestly I think being a sugar baby is fine and purposefully dating wealthy men is also okay. Do what you need to do. Make your money. If you're a woman from a low income background there's no shame in dating someone wealthier to escape. But the whole "Make him trauma bond to you. Take his cash and then leave him in the dust". 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:46 AM
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Oh, wild. My friendship groups IRL are filled with pro feminist men. If anything they're kinda annoying sometimes 😅 I don't know why everything needs to be teams.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:54 PM
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Yeah. I'll be honest I've met way more pro feminist men than I've ever met pro MRA women. r/menslib is what? 211k subscribers. There's no pro men women's group of an equivalent size. Looking through the original commenter's history she's an anti trans Radfem. Of course you'll think all men are against you if you only hang out in misandrist spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:14 PM
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Rape Sexual Assault Being responsible for the majority of homicide and assault (against men and women) Spiking drinks in clubs Not regularly testing for STDs Not disclosing STDs Cheating Stringing women along for casual sex by pretending to offer a LTR Hitting on 16yos when you're in your 40s I think it's dumb to tar all or even most men with this stuff. But it still all happens way too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:59 AM
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According to a small number of women. Are we on the same Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:53 PM
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Oh F. 🥺💔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:42 PM
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These are women I know through work or friendship groups. They're not completely unhappy though. And I don't think it's that they're just holding out for someone super hot. It's more complicated. Like one saw how her mum was treated in her relationship so is hesitant to get into one. But at the same time she's also lonely and wants a relationship. So she's conflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:23 PM
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The research I've seen seems to suggest men benefit more from being in a relationship. But a big part of that also seemed linked to the idea that men in relationships tend to stay healthier and look after themselves more (and have their partner prod them to go to the doctor). I agree that people should date literally anyone. From OP's post history he seems to be living with his parents still. But I've definitely seen women who are both lonely and also just not trying to fix things. Maybe out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:00 PM
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I get you. But at the same time I think a lot of people also get way too pessimistic and discerning in their older years. You can overcorrect. Having a relationship that goes on for several years and doesn't pan out in the long term isn't necessarily a failure. Anyways, I hope you find a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:39 AM
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Of course. But it's also true that I think a lot of people are jumping into relationships with the attitude of "what do I get out of it?" Or are constantly looking for perfection. I've had a male friend ask me "how do I find the one?". And to be honest his exes were great. He just kept picking at issues and so he was never satisfied. Yes sometimes it's about finding the exact right person and people should settle for just anyone. But I do also believe it's also true that the grass is greener whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:19 AM
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Yeah that's fair and probably lines up with some of what I've seen. People with a mix of feelings. Partially being content, but also a bit lonely and also some amount of fear of rejection and failure. But then also enjoying pottering around the garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:07 AM
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I'm not convinced honestly. This is the generally accepted wisdom online that single women are all content being single. Like OP, a large proportion of the single women I've encountered have been somewhat lonely and wanting a relationship. But then they also seemed hesitant at the same time. The research I've seen seems to suggest something similar. That both men and women are happier on average in relationships. However that research also seems to be commonly misinterpreted in the media to impl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:51 AM
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Hugo Weaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:29 AM
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Yeah. I don't think people are disagreeing with you calling things off. Sounds mature to me. Just your analysis and calling it friend zoning. As CruelAngel said, this was bordering an emotional affair. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:52 AM
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She's not friend zoning you mate. She's your orbiter. She's waiting til you and your gf break up. Or she's trying to sneak her way into a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:45 AM
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Do you not have incitement to violence laws in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:06 AM
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Interesting. Would an example be like buying a part for a bomb? Or hiring a truck? How would you prove that the small act is in alignment with a plan? Presumably the majority of terrorist acts contain a number of steps which aren't in and of themselves offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:55 AM
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Planning a terrorist attack is a felony. Yes. Because speech isn't 100% free. People like virtue signalling about "free speech", "free speech" But then realistically everyone draws a line somewhere. I just want people to admit they do. The question isn't whether the line exists. It's where it's drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:30 PM
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How has this nothing to do with speech? All they're doing is planning an attack. They're just talking about it? Sounds like you think some speech is actually not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:28 PM
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This is in response to people saying that all speech should be allowed and that we can logic all people into good positions. I don't know what this has to do with pronouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:25 PM
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Yes. Because speech isn't 100% free. Which is fine. Just want people who complain about cancellations and question "who draws the line?" To actually bite the bullet of free speech or point out where they'd draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:24 PM
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Q4ALL (And especially those people who complain about cancelling of thoughts and speech) Should your neighbor be able to plan and coordinate a terrorist attack? Should the government not be able to do anything about it until it's actually happened? If all speech is okay then you can't do a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah, and I agree. Shutting down that kind of discussion is insane. But what ends up happening is. Some bad limiting of speech happens and suddenly people jump to "all speech is okay". I don't agree with that position. I think people aren't always aware of what exactly that results in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:09 PM
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You can have democracy and still shut down some forms of speech. I don't know if I really want real pedophiles, Nazis, white supremacists, anti-Semites and rapists espousing their views on social media. I agree you can go to far shutting stuff down. But I think people forget how vile and nasty some groups can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:49 AM
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Thank you!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:28 AM
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TwoX was a default sub for several years. Everyone who made a new account during that period was automatically subbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:58 AM
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It's a contractual obligation in the UK for any comedy act to open with a humourous quip about the place they're currently playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:51 AM
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I USED TO BE BLUEPILLED BUT NOW I SEE THE MATRIX Convert YouTube content always does well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:48 AM
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Yeah. See any hot single mum. They date and get commitment just fine from guys who are slightly less attractive than they are. Men want attractive. They will also put a ring on attractive quickly if he thinks he's punching up. ... But women definitely go for guys who are temporarily down on SMV/RMV too. See any guy who's decent looking, is sad and having a hard time. Women do jump in to comfort him. It's their chance to land a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:20 AM
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You are loved DW ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:45 PM
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I think you should talk about the kind of sex that she was into. Talk about how she shouldn't feel ashamed about having rough or kinky sex or whatever. And that you should try doing it together rather than her trying to hide part of herself away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:45 PM
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Don't lie. You're a pickme too. And that's okay ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:38 PM
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I wouldn't expect to best the best first time having sex. You may have to get to know one another. I'm also open to getting better. But if I wasn't my partner's best. Or joint best. After, say, 6 months. I'd leave. Especially if I knew she preferred her ex. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:30 PM
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Personally I'm kinda fond of "For a Few Dollars More"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:51 PM
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I blame women. Hard to be mysterious and hard to get when she's stuck in her phone focused on the latest TikTok. Or if you're on OLD up against 50 other men. Back in the day "hi" was a chad move. So cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:59 AM
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Every day? What do you keep for special occasions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:52 AM
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Nothing is gay if you say "no homo" first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:50 AM
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Oxford University sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:31 PM
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100% agree. AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:55 PM
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No. I wouldn't take the test. However I would also not be upset if my partner took regular STD tests within our relationship. Even if those would largely point to me cheating. I also support fathers getting paternity tests if they feel they need to. I didn't have one though. Paternity tests. Like STD tests. Aren't necessarily about the other party. They're about someone's relationship with their child & body respectively. Also to the edit. No support for a DNA database.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:19 AM
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People who use discord are lame though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:33 PM
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Beginner dance classes. Cards against humanity social evenings. Go look online.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:20 PM
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TBF that may just reflect that you live in a bubble and mostly talk to other people who share a similar worldview as your own. Saying that. PPD is still a little nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:51 AM
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I feel like I did well Judging from the reactions of others at the time I was under the impression you won the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:19 AM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:13 AM
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maybe as a response to the misogyny Cool. Well. Thankfully the misogyny online I see is only as a response to the misandry. So really at the end of the day nobody is responsible for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:05 AM
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Honestly Destiny is the best debater and talker on YouTube. IMO. Him and Aba from Aba and Preach are the only two I really listen. Everyone else is kinda meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:08 AM
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Gay and bisexual men should probably stop using Grindr so much for a little while and get into LTRs. It's gay hookup culture that's the risk. Not being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:34 PM
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Yeah I can understand that. I do think there's something to be said for men being better at intervention over women in those circumstances. Or instead of suggestions perhaps guiding them through the problem towards the goal. I appreciate that dealing with men in those circumstances can be hard. I guess I also know what it's like from the other side. You feel like minor suggestions are criticisms instead of helpful advice. It's also easy to distrust other people as not actually being interested i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:37 PM
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I think the problem is though that expectation on men to reach out does hurt men. That was what I experienced with depression. It was all "how are YOU going to sort this?" "How are YOU going to fix this?" "Who are YOU going to reach out to" Which when you're dealing with anxiety and depression isn't always that helpful. I wasn't in the best place to fix stuff and it would have helped me if someone had intervened. In the end. I did fix my mental health issues. But I did that myself because there …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:22 PM
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I think that happens to some degree. But that effect is overblown and much more complicated. My experience of the topic was that I was treated with, I guess, too much agency. To contrast when both myself and my sister had depression. With her it was assumed she was suffering. She needed help. Effort was made to reach out to her. By contrast, when I was depressed it was seen as an issue of my own making. I was causing the problems. There was no way that I could be perceived as being a victim or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:16 PM
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I've also experienced being kicked out of my house by family members. I've seen the lack of support I received from my family relative to my sister in similar circumstances. Am I still not supposed to comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:04 PM
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I mean. I give a fair chunk of money to homeless charities every year. Am I allowed to speak on the issue now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:59 PM
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Homelessness rates beg to differ. Also Sad to see you're a Radfem 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:24 PM
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I have green eyes and haven’t gotten a ton of mileage out of them for attracting people. Women with green eyes are well known for being witches. That's why men stay well clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:36 AM
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What? I don't mind career women. I was just pointing out that both men and women get frustrated if their careers aren't valued. Everyone seems to complain about what things the other sex values in a partner. Either something is valued too much or too little. Men complain about gold digging but then moan if they have a career and get left behind. There's not really any coherent thread or logic for any of this moaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:47 AM
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Exactly women work hard even though it can cost them in dating. I don't think women go into careers thinking it will cost them. Both men and women go into making money thinking it should improve their status and value. In dating and outside. Both are upset if it doesn't happen. So why exactly is hard working men not being "rewarded" bad for society? There's more than enough driven women to ensure that civilization continues on. I think it's fair to say that if it becomes more and more well known…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:59 AM
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But plenty of women work hard and have a lot of career success and they don't ask for this or that romantically in return. What? Many women gripe about men not valuing them for their careers and instead focusing on other attributes like appearance. I spent 10 seconds on Google https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/dating-expert-explains-why-it-s-harder-for-successful-women-to-find-love-20180805-p4zvo6.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:23 AM
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I was 15 in school and they knew one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:37 PM
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My partner. Except for the one time where I dumped one girl to date someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:29 PM
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Is this the dude that used to be on steroids and is pretty hench? Or am I mixing you up? I vaguely remember a comment from a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:27 PM
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In which case, if you have a lot going for you then you're getting dates elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:00 PM
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Bumble is an idealistic experiment that doesn't completely map onto reality. Her making the first move. Even if it's an awful timid opener should be a good indicator of interest. Bumble still isn't about men sitting back and letting women do all the flirting. Men and women don't work that way typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:59 PM
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But it is. Women are looking more to be led than to lead. That's just how typical gender roles work. (For most people. NAWALT) There are other benefits to being male in society. This just isn't it. Early in dating is where you need to put a bigger share of the effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:54 PM
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That's the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:49 PM
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Who cares if it's performative if it works? Get your dick on the table bro. Plenty of forgettable dudes out there. Don't be the 87th one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:47 PM
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...be born in Scotland. Come on Sarkington. The bar is so low. Is it too much to want a red piller to have even picked up a big pile of books, let alone some weights? Some of these men aren't even tryyyyyying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:45 PM
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Have you tried something edgier to grab their attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:41 PM
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I turn around all I see is a woman happy with her boyfriend Exactly. And if a woman can't find a boyfriend she's probably doing something wrong too. These women you see everywhere can find partners. Women who complain about being single just ain't trying hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:25 PM
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For a dad joke this is surprisingly novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:18 PM
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Oh I don't think people compare to Chad OR to being single. When romance happens people tend to act irrationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:55 PM
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Yeah. Exactly. But they're not thinking "hmmmm. Is this better than how I felt being single last week" People just get lost in romance and the moment when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:50 PM
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IMO if someone is stopping to think about those kinds of comparisons they're probably not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:33 PM
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If people call themselves red but don't gym. don't approach women. don't self improve. That's ridiculous and not red. This sub contains a tonne of men whining "woman bad" most days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:01 PM
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How many reds are actually here? I swear this sub is like 90% black sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:51 PM
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Honestly, I think it's mostly about delivery. If men expressed their depression in a song with a catchy chorus it would probably go down better. Men aren't even trying!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:46 PM
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And all Y'all women need saving from the red pill scourge! Let me take a stand too! We can join arm in arm. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:10 PM
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Make lots of expressions like this 🥵🥵🥵🥵 Sit on some faces Get some good D on a regular basis from a variety of men And when a man or another women shame you for it you know you've made it. Congrats you are now slut qualified. Be proud 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:48 PM
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Sounds like an issue she either needs to get over or find a way to get hotter TBH. Plenty of ugly and average people date their equivalents just fine. Maybe she could find some stud in a 3rd world country like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:38 PM
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I'm not a villain. I'm a perfectly normal happy charming blue pill nothing to see here just blue blue blue Just like you. And you're not evil... ...are you Cruciod? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:40 PM
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Hey look I offered! It's an absolute crying shame is what it is. How am I supposed to improve my pussy licking game if I can't watch two women go at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:28 PM
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They're right though. That's why I cheat on my wife. To get practice for when I have sex with her. I can't improve my skills any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:22 PM
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Wow. That's bad. I thought I was a 7. No wonder I'm single. Well now I know I have nothing left to live for anymore. Because the men she attracts she rates only 4/10? What's wrong with slightly below average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:07 PM
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Stacy is being simped over. That average woman is really not. Just approach more IRL. You'll have very little competition if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:35 AM
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How did she divorce him? 😧 That right there is some good old fashioned American ingenuity. You gotta keep an enterprising man like that locked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:26 AM
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Buy a second trailer Willow. Jesus. Then attach a big ol' pipe between the two that you can run between. Living the hamster life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:11 AM
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Oh shit. Someone actually read the studies. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:07 AM
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Is it a hateful belief to recognize patterns in behaviour among groups of people? Even if we say NAWALT. Nobody would bat an eye about making generalisation about men in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:58 AM
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Evil is the work of women. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:22 AM
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She's negging you. Don't fall for it. u/cruciod is secretly trying to steal you away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:10 AM
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Women should fix EVERYTHING. If you don't actually do that. How are you supposed to write your webcomic and long form YouTube essays on how much work you have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:07 AM
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Just chill back a bit more dude. PPD isn't supposed to be a stress. It's better when you engage in a more "shooting some shit" kinda manner. A lot of what people say on here is posturing, grandstanding, virtue signalling and trolling. Go get some exercise, take a trip outdoors and flirt with some women IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:06 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear that 😔 I don't know if I can help but if you wanted to talk. Let me know. Otherwise ❤️. Hope things turn around soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:10 PM
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But it doesn't. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_labor Emotional labor is the process of managing feelings and expressions to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job.More specifically, workers are expected to regulate their emotions during interactions with customers, co-workers and managers. This includes analysis and decision making in terms of the expression of emotion, whether actually felt or not, as well as its opposite: the suppression of emotions that are felt but not expres…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:04 PM
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Nah. Just mansplaining it to you love 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:20 PM
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Women whinge about the "emotional labour" of writing out shopping lists, planning events once a year and picking up socks. None of this stuff is even emotional labour. It's just regular labour. I swear most people don't know what emotional labour is. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_labor I don't know how this term has been coopted into referring to managing a household. Which is obviously very different to the stress of having to regulate your emotions. Having to be happy and regulate …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:07 PM
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Emotional labour actually involves doing tasks. No it doesn't. I swear nobody actually knows what emotional labour is 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:00 PM
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The latter. She was 24. It was with mutual consent. Honestly I think Bill was selfish in only allowing 2 women to sleep with the president. We need more sluts in the top office. Not fewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:04 PM
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Maybe for LTRs But is prostitution really more expensive for hookups? If you take into account all the effort spent on dates and drink and clothes and gym fees. Then the time and effort spent to get to the bedroom. Isn't it cheaper for a lot of men just to pay a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:35 AM
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I think it really depends on the medium. Meeting someone at a party or through a friendship group is very different to viewing someone through OLD. Yes. A lot of personality can be conveyed through photos. But not in the same way as personal interactions. it was his lack of behaviour stopping him "Behaviour" and "Personality" are very broad. A lot of what happens with makeovers isn't about making someone a better person or giving them a better personality. It's also can be about making them look…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:52 AM
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The Simpsons, Seinfeld, Everybody Loves Raymond (which, incidentally, nobody loved), The Flintstones, Friends, and every advert ever. Don't forget Peppa Pig. Daddy pig is an absolute idiot. Mommy Pig in contrast is hyper competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:48 AM
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Most women care more about reciprocal attraction than men, and sex with someone whose less attracted to you every year you’re together sounds…awful. Like just masturbate or date a woman at that point. Did you miss the parts of this subreddit where men worry about their partner not finding them attractive? That's 90% of the content of this place. Men worrying that their partner found an ex more attractive and is "alpha widowed" or she slept with someone on the first date and not him or that they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:18 AM
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My wife loves it when I treat her like a sex object TBH. "I know you think I'm witty and funny and charming. I just want you to use me for my body" - her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:38 PM
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Womyn's land initiatives have been tried in the 1970s and largely failed. A lot of them couldn't sustain themselves or dropped off because of membership. Not only that but new issues replaced old issues. Apparently a lot of those communities were pretty racist. https://books.google.co.uk/books/content?id=Zao3wTyYE6MC&pg=PA168&img=1&zoom=3&hl=en&sig=ACfU3U1vr2NQVGwBGehziVyabTo7GYQJmg&w=1025 Many women online often have this utopian view that were they to live without men then the lives of women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:29 AM
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Blah blah aquachip is actually attractive even though she's annoying blah blah. You need to start a new arc. This one's gone on for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:48 PM
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It would be interesting to see other metrics of objectification. Things like panning on female body parts I can buy. But the overt stuff like Hemsworth being butt naked. Or the OMGosh Tom Holland has been caught topless again in the new Spiderman film? I don't know if I see them as much in modern cinema. And when it does exist. Like the example of Alice Eve in Star Trek into Darkness. The screenwriters are going out to apologize. ... Idk. Thor seems like the absolute worst example right now beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:26 PM
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I'm just bitter right now. I can't actually not care. Sometimes that irritates me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:59 PM
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To be fair this was probably the 13th marvel movie with eye candy. It's been a trend to have topless scenes in nearly all of them. A lot of media aimed at women is filled with eye candy. This isn't the first. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:57 PM
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Sounds like you're justifying it to yourself because you thought Thor was hot. It's fine. I'm just not caring about women's body issues anymore. Female actresses should be dressed up as eye candy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:50 PM
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I agree to an extent but at the same time how good did he look 😍😍 God. So toxic. Much wow. 😤😤😤😤😤 Do you equally discuss actresses such as Megan fox and her boob job & slim figure for not being a good rep for women standards? Hahahahahaha. Actually yes. I was literally talking about exactly Megan Fox just yesterday in this very context and that it was dumb holding up her as a female beauty standard. u/doshkhaleesi and u/signalthanks6766 can confirm. Though Khaleesi has no idea who Megan Fox is be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:30 PM
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I'd rather people appreciate how awful it is and move away from it into real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:10 PM
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Eh. It wouldn't be out of place in this workplace. Diversity problems. Issues that impact women. Issues that impact ethnic minorities etc. etc. All very common place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:08 PM
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Make a dating app that works well I don't know if this is possible. Online dating seems fundamentally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:05 PM
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That seems a bit odd. Don't you think? Talking about women's body issues seems to be relatively fair game and everyone will nod along that they're a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:02 PM
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I didn't mention it here but I literally said about three times that body issues for women were also a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:58 AM
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It's like saying. "Men would show empathy to women who have been domestically abused if they weren't so bitter about it all the time. Maybe they should smile more and be pleasant to men and then we'd show them some sympathy." There's a general constant pressure on people to perform for empathy. "I'd treat you better and talk to you like a human if you behaved like one" is an abusive behaviour that people often engage in during relationships. I think you can and should still have sympathy for tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:55 AM
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I'm arguing with his idea that no man seriously complains about male beauty standards. Oh I see. Yeah I complain about them all the time. (Though I haven't had issues dating) In case of men who struggle and obsess with visual preferences, I'd guess a good share of them has other issues that stop them from dating. I've seen pretty decent self-proclaimed incels. It seems like a mix. There are definite mentalcels. But there's also the less attractive dudes who I can believe have a mountain to climb…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:41 AM
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"Men as a class would be more deserving of empathy if y'all only just acted better. Men being treated as humans is a right you need to earn." Also Note how men bitch and moan on PPD about what women have had to deal with for eons — being judged by and rejected for looks, being told by the media that we’re incomplete or unacceptable unless we strive to look like supermodels I don't know where you live but I'm pretty sure "there are unrealistic expectations on women's bodies" is the mainstream vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:40 AM
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I mean. If you aren't attractive and you're having difficulty dating because of that. It makes sense that you'd be obsessed with it as an issue. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:31 AM
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The Thor scene stands out because it's so rare. Honestly. As I say. Go watch a lot of the more recent superhero films. This isn't the first instance. From Hugh Jackman as Wolverine or Tom Holland as Spiderman. It's been getting bad for a while. Thor is the worst example in a long line of examples because he's clearly on steroids. As a comparison. Try going back and watching Toby Maguire as Spiderman. Notice how less fit he is. IMO Toby would not be cast as Spiderman in this modern era.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:26 AM
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I understand what emotional intelligence is. It's not like I'm walking up to an abuse victim and saying "hey, I want to have a chat about domestic violence". I'm not bringing up a difficult topic like suicide. I don't think having a discussion about unrealistic expectations of male bodies is anything any regular person should have issues with hearing. If that's something that triggers you, how do you manage to walk outside? There is a balance between not talking about specific topics and not wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:23 AM
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They were significantly more covered. Come on. There seems to be a trend in basically every marvel film right now where the main hero gets objectified. Tom Holland gets caught topless scene? What a surprise. It's literally every film. Whereas on the female superhero side it's pushing entirely the other way. Any objectification is seen as problematic. Captain Marvel it's all about how she doesn't wear makeup. There's a push towards less sexy clothing. There's 100% a double standard when it comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:07 AM
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I can settle for augmented boobs but with a bra on. Or a swimsuit. Something like Alice Eve in "Star Trek Into Darkness" to balance out. But with breast implants. The screenwrite really shouldn't have apologized for it either. If we can objectify men on screen we should be able to objectify women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:53 AM
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I've never understood the issue with diversity hiring or caring about diversity in films in the first place. Miles Morales is an interesting character because of his different background. Cool. We get to see and hear from different groups of people with a variety of relationships. The only issue I have is when it's used as a shield. If you criticize a film it must be because you hate diversity. Nah sometimes diverse films are great. Sometimes they suck. In the same vein a film might suck in gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:45 AM
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Hemsworth's body is effectively not achievable for the average guy without steroids and drugs that will be destroying his health. I'm not sure that's the expectation we should be setting ourselves as a society. But hey. Maybe we should be hiring only women with butt lifts, breast implants and lip filler into leading roles too. That's just an ideal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:33 AM
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The equivalent would have been Natalie Portman having breast implants IRL, having her clothes tears off and a scene where all the guys look in shock at how hot her big breasts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:24 AM
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That isn't true though. Men on here who claim that only looks matter for men are full of crap too. Both women and men care a lot about looks. They both care about personality. There's probably some difference but it's much smaller than most people claim. ... But AF/BB is mostly about men's insecurities and the feeling of a lot of men around feeling like second best or a runner up. Which makes sense if you have a hard time getting casual sex. Maybe because of your looks. It's also hard if you wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:22 AM
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But that's dumb. Don't talk about any problems because other problems exist? Rape exists so let's not talk about other dating problems? I'm not saying this is a perfect argument, but you basically have to deal with it before you can talk about male issues with most women. Nah. I don't see why I should have to couch every conversation in four paragraphs of text about how women have it worse before I talk about any other issue. Women aren't 12. They can grow up and learn that not everything is a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:14 AM
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Now it makes sense why they don't understand when women pick a good partner in terms of how they treat them instead of just going for looks. If women actually did this then I'd agree. Instead women care a lot about looks but seemingly lie to themselves that they don't. It's fine. We're all shallow. Just don't pretend like you're better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:07 AM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:04 AM
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I don't even know why I bother trying with some women sometimes. General lunch chat. Me- "Superhero films are setting bad examples for men in terms of body image. The new Thor film is incredibly toxic for idolizing a male body that's clearly on steroids" Her - "Ugh. Well that's nothing compared to how women have been treated. Blah blah blah' Me - "Okay. But it's not a competition. I'm not saying anything about how women are treated. We can talk about these issues without making a gender war abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:53 AM
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I have no idea what this means but as a man I feel objectified and humiliated all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:19 AM
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Do you eat eggs like you eat your men? Wow. Errrright. You so fierce 🐅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:51 PM
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It cannot be stressed enough but children are a LOT to manage. They're very rewarding but do not have them unless you absolutely want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:53 AM
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Of course. I'd suggest getting a long one. So you can swing it around like a helicopter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:17 PM
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Only if you become a man. We can swap. You wear the beard. I'll wear a skirt. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:51 PM
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No. Though my wife and I had sex together before we went on our first date. Maybe if she'd made me wait until after then I wouldn't have been into her as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:07 PM
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I'm a man. So I can. #Patriachy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:03 AM
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Depends on what community I lived in. Some can be awful and discriminating. But some are kinda okay. As long as I'm not getting beaten up in the street for kissing some sexy pieces of man ass I'm chill. But for me. I love being bisexual and a man. I'd 100% choose this. Yeah some people are gonna choose not to date me. But, honestly, I've found there's a high correlation between the men and women I want to date and those who are either fine with it or see it as a positive. Oh no! Some shitty tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:55 AM
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Exactly! Men should be seen and not heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:30 AM
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Some Universities are a mess for dating. I'd suggest dance classes. One guy I know who did awfully at uni managed okay going to beginner tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:22 PM
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Idk. I chat to some of the red pilled dudes on here who are pretty chill and are either in relationships or are hooking up. Blackpillers don't tend to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:05 PM
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Press X to doubt. Black pill and Red pill are very different in their core philosophies. Black pill is giving up. Red pill is that you can do something about your life. If you can't see the difference you're either blind or engaging in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:53 AM
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Much better to judge someone on how much livestock they currently own IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:37 AM
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The rough asshole who you can take home to mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:34 AM
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Men and women tend to have different vibes and attitudes as friends. It's nice having a mix. Some women like spending most of their time with women. Some women prefer being one of the guys. I don't see the problem. If women would prefer to hang out with me rather than other women... that sounds great to me. All male groups have a strange atmosphere. As do all women groups. I personally prefer mixed sex friendship groups. They tend to be more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:32 AM
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God. Women often complain about men acting like children and having to act like an emotional sponge. But it for sure happens the other way around. Hearing about a coworker whose wife only likes him going out certain days and never too late. Why? Because she hasn't got any friends and won't make any friends so she's lonely. Honestly he should just tell her no. But she should also sort her life out. This isn't the first woman I've seen that's entirely codependent on her partner. ... Whether you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:17 AM
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Gross. She's terrible obvs. But it's not the kid's fault. Though: it got to 5 days without her picking up the child either? Story is missing a lot of detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:00 AM
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It's the black pillers on here whining. Not reds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:53 AM
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The single mums on dating apps aren't even the best ones either. Better to pick up ladies at baby yoga. Top tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:28 AM
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Not a bb. You're a big bad alpha bucks!!!!! Sexy! ... So dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:23 AM
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When are you taking us all out for dinner daddy big bucks? 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:21 AM
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Yessssssss Going out with STEM guys can often be pain when you're the only one being social and making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:17 AM
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Don't know how to flirt. Honestly. Just try. You'll pick it up. Smile a lot. Watch some movies with charismatic women in and just try to emulate those people. The easiest way to pick up behaviours is to watch someone else model and you copy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:15 AM
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Traps too small/10
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:12 AM
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Good thing there's the backup universe to keep things going.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:10 AM
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Yeah. But the queue to date men here is kinda long. It might be quicker to find someone more attainable elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:08 AM
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Gilead. I wasn't supposed to say anything. But I like you so giving you a heads up before the action starts. I'd pick a man soon. Being a single woman in two years time ... Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:01 AM
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The advice given specifically on OLD profile reviews has been better than what I've seen in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:57 AM
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Singles running groups. Beginner dancing lessons. u/doshkhaleesi mentioned to me that her climbing gym has a singles night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:55 AM
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Have you tried one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:48 AM
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I hope guys who are struggling do ask for more female advice if they have women around them Honestly. There are still plenty of women who still can't pick out photos. I checked out my friend's profile after he'd let a female friend do all that stuff. It was a mess that made him look like a total alcoholic 😂 I think guys are best off asking online in subreddits. People online typically have a lot more experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:09 AM
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I'm sure if you actually get results then I'm sure you could make money out of it. You probably want to offer more than just picture fixing though. Dating coaches exist. The first thing I would do is try helping out a guy for free and see if you can get him any results. Many women think it's much easier than it is. Especially on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:01 AM
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Usually, removing sexist motivations in one area will bleed into another. I don't see it. Even as other things get more equal, the dating market still seems distorted. Women earning more hasn't led to this huge wave of women paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:41 PM
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There's also things like big and little dick energy. Napoleon complex. I'm sure others. I think being cheap impacts men more. We're supposed to pay for dates. Provide etc. Being cheap as a woman isn't a big deal. Isn’t getting your life together to be attractive to women a win-win though? Like you can be judged on things like money or status which for women only work to a small degree. That bit, I concede, is mostly okay. Outside of the pressure to perform. But there still don't seem to be quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:48 PM
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Yeah. As someone who spent his uni years with 4 very intelligent bachelors. They really had a hard time dating. Not sure exactly what it was. But there's certainly no group of women lining up for very intelligent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:02 AM
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I hadn't. Then I talked to some women from Gen Z at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:50 AM
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It happens less for sure. But there's still plenty of spice. Women expecting men to be emotionless on some cases. Divorces and cheating still happen. Some men being quite controlling. A lot of body issues. Still women saying "6ft+ only'. I'd say it's more stable. But it's not an entirely different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:46 AM
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Wealthy college educated women still typically date on their level or up money wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:39 AM
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This is generally just my observations from seeing my Oxford friends date. There were an awful lot of single people throughout uni. While they've ended up in relationships since it's not like they're heavily sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:30 AM
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Depends on her intelligence. It's usually only intelligent women who prioritize intelligence. And even then it might only be slightly. A regular intelligence dude who's chill, fun to be around and has a great attitude is gonna get picked over someone who is just incredible academically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:35 AM
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I think if my partner cheated it would either be a: "I'm not happy in our relationship and I'm getting attached elsewhere" Or a "I'm a bit slutty and not happy with monogamy" The latter I can probably deal with. The former sounds like the end of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:04 AM
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I don't know. Probably. I'd take it as permission to sleep with someone too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:40 AM
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Cool. Just let her know you're gonna do it. I'm sure she'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:29 AM
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Boooooo Witches Vs Patriarchy is a eccentric sub. If women wanna be all witchy and do horoscopes and shit. Fine by me. I'd go on a night out with some of those women. Seems like fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:37 AM
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You sound like one of those disgusting high N women who loves having sex. Ewwwwww.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:44 PM
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You mean you're not already? If he were chad you'd be constantly on it. Even while you post on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:36 PM
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Sounds like a terrible strategy to me. Your LTRs are clearly LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:26 PM
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I think it's okay to sleep with a guy on the first date if you're never gonna see him again. It's only if you're looking for a LTR. You don't want him to think you're a woman that puts out easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:01 PM
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This actually happened to me though lol. Walk through door. Wife jumps bones. Go on first date. Any less and she's basically not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:00 PM
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Yeah. For sure. I think I would probably think about it maybe in terms of tiers though. As I kinda mentioned in another comment. There's definitely a level of "A is better than B" but it's way fuzzier than people make out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:20 PM
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Oh piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:02 PM
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I don't think he made it out to be anything stupid or useless. Not every man here hates dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:15 PM
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I think that approach only makes things worse. Perhaps you misunderstand where the feelings are coming from. A lot of these men want a partner who is head over heels for him. Their experiences with women are that they're putting in a lot of the work. They're experiencing things like ghosting and no messages back. I think women sometimes fail to appreciate how much men want their partner to be invested in them. We don't want someone who feels like she settled. We don't want someone who marries us…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:50 AM
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I don't even think there's such a thing as "perfect for you". When you have relationships with different people. You have different dynamics. You share different common interests. You bounce off each other in different ways. And sometimes those things aren't necessarily better or worse than others. It's like. I may enjoy squares. I may enjoy circles. But there's no such thing as a square circle. It's not just that "nobody is perfect". It's that I don't think perfect even exists conceptually. Let…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:41 AM
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I understand where you're coming from. But I'm still not fond of the "I can't get perfect" mindset. I tried to explain it more in a longer comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:08 AM
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If you're thinking of people along some scale of "perfect" to awful then you've got your whole view of people messed up. People and relationships don't have to be like that. Y'all don't do it with food. You can love Lebanese food. Adore Chinese food. Crave Indian food. And not put them all on a big long line where some food is better than others. There's also a lot of food that have flavours that's aren't immediately desirable. Such as black coffee and bitter flavours Vs sweet. There's something…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:54 AM
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It just seems like such an alien way to think about the world. Is everyone comparing people constantly? There is no perfect. Perfect isn't even perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:38 AM
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Speak for yourself. I don't feel like I've settled. Neither does my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:28 AM
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when the money dries up she will be gone Arguably it's easier to hold on to money than other things. Looks for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:46 PM
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The difference between your best photo and worst can be huge. I know if I'm selective I can make myself look more attractive than I actually am. I think I'm probably somewhere in between the two. How much people pick good photos really vary by person. Women typically do it better than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:16 PM
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Q4M: is being masculine hard? The parts of masculine I am. Not really. I tend to try and be the parts of masculinity I like. The assertiveness and confidence. I'd say I'm a mix of masc and fem though. As you know. I love the parts of masculinity that are about doing your own shit and not really caring about judgement. I'm gonna do my thing and try not to worry. My mix of masc/fem works for some ppl. Not others. Hasn't caused issues in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:49 PM
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It just makes me sad. When I read about all the people with body issues who worry about every little flaw. 🥲 It affects me and I know it affects a lot of other people too. There does seem to be a wider cultural problem. Especially around social media, online dating etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:51 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:27 PM
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I don't know. I understand where it comes from. I think there's still an undercurrent of treating these guys worse and appreciating them less than the other men that she found more attractive. I know men focus on sex but I do think it can drip through into other interactions. If you feel like you had to settle there is an expectation of better treatment. I feel as though she needs to learn to appreciate these men more. Until she does that it's going to come out. She won't care for them. She'll t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:44 PM
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I was more just joking anyways. (Which perhaps someone didn't get as I got downvoted 😅) I want to say no. But I also feel like I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic sometimes. If I fell for someone I'd probably say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:49 AM
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I feel like it doesn't get to the core of the problem which is how you view people in general. You're still going into the relationship thinking "this person is less attractive" It's also the "don't sleep together straight away" because of icks. It feels like making something good out of a bad situation rather than fixing the core problem which is how you fundamentally view the world and view people. The reason why it bothers me is because people will think it's good advice. It's sad to me that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 11:35 AM
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Oh I don't disagree with that part. It's absolutely true for women too. But I think you get a pretty good gauge early on. The whole "don't sleep with those men because then you'll regret it".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:38 AM
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Honestly the shallowness on this sub seems pretty split. It's frustrating reading people complain about it while pretending like their own gender doesn't do it. "Oh wah wah wah. Height etc." But also "lol no fatties" But then women clearly believing they're not shallow but then going "ewwwwww" to a picture of several average looking guys. The idea that women are somehow less shallow is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:29 AM
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There are those. But there are also genuinely lovely guys who can't get into a relationship. One of my friends is dating one now. Genuinely lovely but she's his first girlfriend. He's nearly 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:21 AM
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London is alright. I've talked to strangers in London relatively often even though people say it's awkward. The rest of the south is a little less chatty in my experience. If you go to Manchester though. You will have a great time. Everyone talks to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:55 AM
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Holy shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:29 AM
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23f and i completely understand what you mean! i'm not sure if you use dating apps. if you don't, just think of this as an analogy. you know the guys that are attractive enough that you'll swipe yes on and match with, but don't find them interesting enough to reply to? go for those guys. just go on a few dates with those types of guys. attractive enough but not the ones who get your attention normally. not every single one of these men will grow on you, but some might. some will have personaliti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:10 AM
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M 10-15 minutes maybe? Idk. I don't really time it. Sex is typically 30-45mins and most of that is foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:07 AM
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Dude. I wasn't saying you couldn't. FML But it's for sure easier in the North and Wales that it is in the South. Just an observation bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:00 AM
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he was impressed with my confidence to strike up a random conversation with strangers on the street I need to get back into this habit. I used to do it all the time. In the UK at least it depends on where you live as to how hard/easy it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:28 AM
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Stay at home gf would be fine but only if she's gonna be a baby mommy. I'll give her a key to the house in exchange for her birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:24 AM
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And what if it's not just tofu but a blend of stuff? Should a burger not be called a burger or a sausage a sausage either?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:48 AM
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What. You think it's better that we invent long obtuse names instead? Who is this helping exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:29 AM
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It makes it easier to replace things in meals designed around meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:12 AM
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Oh cool. The meat lobby clearly in full control. This is genuinely dumb and already happens with milk. Everyone calls it "oat milk" but apparently it has to be labelled "oat drink" to satisfy the dairy lobby. Hopefully this won't extend to the UK thanks to Brexit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:00 AM
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As a dating strategy drip feeding is probably best for men. Understand the kinds of things women want to hear from you and what things they don't. Feeling insecure? No way. "I'm worried about my penis size" Ewwwww! Not those emotions! What am I? A therapist? ... Upset because your grandfather died? Hot! Especially if you act stoic towards everybody else and express that very limited set of women approved emotions to her. Wow! She will feel special. Bonus point if you can get upset at RvW being r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:27 AM
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And TBH your partner probably isn't equipped to deal with that shit either But men are equipped to actually go to war and deal with the trauma in the first place? In the choice between the two I'd much rather be the one to stay at home who has to support someone through PTSD than be the person actually on the battlefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:07 AM
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Ummm... no Paisley. Missionary and strictly for reproduction only. Oh and you should be thinking about God the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:33 AM
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Frame seems to be used for a couple of slightly related topics. But the way I understand it is as an interpretation of reality. Let's say you work in sales. Over the past 3 months you sold 10 cars. Is that a good number? Is it a bad number? Frame is about projecting an interpretation of reality. "I made 10 sales in the past 3 months and those are incredible results. I am a great salesperson" Bringing people into your frame is about having them share your interpretation of reality. Another interp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:23 PM
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Frame is more an interpretation of a situation which may be shared between people. "It's perfectly acceptable to talk to strangers" From my understanding It's more similar to the concepts of optics or spin in politics. There's also a lot of overlap with postmodernism in philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:05 PM
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Being confident and assured in your actions is a means of achieving a specific frame. Frame seems to be a bit of a broad concept within the red pill and also NLP. There seems to be two slightly different overlapping ideas. Frame is about being unmoving and unwavering. Frame is like the body's frame. Strong and sturdy is better. Frame is about the interpretation of a situation. The frame in this context is more like a portrait frame. It's a bit frustrating because these are two different things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:56 AM
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I think I have multiple types rather than one type. There's a wide array of people I find attractive. But I'm definitely not into everyone. I do notice trends in what I'm attracted to. I prefer curvy over petite for instance. I have a thing for either long or broad noses. I tend to like faces that don't look like my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:08 PM
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The saddest part is that sometimes you break up. And then the other person changes. Codependency can be awful for stopping people from developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:25 PM
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Everywhere. Everything in your post is about you and how you feel about men's vulnerability. There's a fantasy in your head where men's feelings are wonderful and deep and romantic. But the reality of emotions and emotional support isn't like that. It's messy. It can get hard. When opening up is about you and not the person you're supporting. Then how can people really rely on you with their feelings? As soon as he says something that you weren't expecting you bomb out. This is why men feel unco…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:23 PM
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I thought you had yourself? Like I get it. You hella cute. I understand why you're an autophile. Good on you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:58 PM
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Oh... Well... Can I have your bf then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:55 PM
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I'd say I'm gonna steal ur man and joke around. But I'm actually genuinely happy for you. Congratulations. 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:50 PM
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Idk. Men seem perfectly capable of doing it. I've seen way more men stick through their partners mental health problems and help them get better than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:46 PM
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But there might be periods where you do go through depression and are a sobbing mess for a few months. Then the person I've trusted everything to is going to ditch me because things get hard? It's stupid. If I have to constantly question "is this the kind of issue my partner will actually support me on or is it the kind of issue she'll lose respect for me on" that's not support. At the end of the day. Constantly having to go through that roller coaster is what drives men to stoicism. Then women …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:40 PM
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I understand spouses not wanting to be therapists. And if they indicate as such when the relationship starts then fair enough. But the person I was responding to originally was saying that men needed to open up to her and be vulnerable with her. Demanding vulnerability for your own personal benefit is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:30 PM
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Okay. But this feels like I'm opening up to someone for THEIR benefit. Not my own. That's like going to a therapist to make them feel better about themselves. Men's feelings and emotions are not the property of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:23 PM
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Right. But if I'm sat in a relationship thinking "should I open up about this insecurity?". That's not exactly a safe relationship to be in either. Women expect men's vulnerabilities to be in a certain way and a certain shape. "I'm feeling unsure about my dick size" is not attractive for women or what women want. It's just a stupid situation where women are selfishly asking for male trust and vulnerability but then pulling away when that actually happens. Cool. Make yourself vulnerable then get …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:17 PM
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"Be emotional but only in the way it works in my head"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:07 PM
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I think there's sometimes a narrative that the "good bits" of TRP are just repackaged common sense. That people would do just as well reading other dating advice online. Idk. Seems silly to me. I disagree with some of TRP's interpretations of things sometimes. But some of the advice seems kinda practical and useful & a lot of dating advice elsewhere is really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:49 PM
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I'm pretty sure this calls for a fight. 😤 What's the plan of attack?🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:31 PM
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I actually saw the other people say the same thing as you first. Sorry. But I recognise your avatar. So maybe you're still getting there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:28 PM
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I can see why red pillers get irritated on this sub. Reading "frame is just a cool name for boundaries" x 3 just implies someone hasn't read any of the content people here are supposed to be discussing. Am I missing something? My understanding of maintaining frame is that it's something quite different to "healthy boundaries".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:30 PM
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Knowing you I bet you're all about that hobbit life. "Spray cum on your hobbit toes and send me a pic"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:08 PM
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I think one of them had a partner with weird toes. But not that weird. There was just general disgust with feet in general. Idk. You live with your body and your partner's body. It seems so strange to me to be disgusted by a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:54 PM
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My toes were made to be sucked. I'm gonna step on your bf's face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:05 PM
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But they're your own feet. I don't understand having that kind of relationship with your own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:38 PM
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Yes! Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:53 PM
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It's not "boundaries" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:25 PM
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No. Not really. Frame is actually one of the best parts of TRP TBH. Even as someone non redpilled. It's more like a projection of social norms. Like imagine you talk to a stranger. Frame is about projecting that "this is a totally normal thing to do". You do so personally believing and acting like it's a normal thing to do. If you waver, people start second guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:23 PM
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I'd forgotten how boring some women are. In a conversation last Friday. It got onto the topic of feet. Several women in the group gave "ewwww gross" responses. "I would never touch my partner's feet". I don't understand how some people have so much disgust for the human body.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah, exactly. A lot more big numbers and a lot more 0s and 1s. Women sit more in the middle. They tend to not have hookups but the 1 or 2 guys they sleep with are the same ones other women are sleeping with. Imo AF/BB is overstated as an effect. But you can see the skew in the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:19 AM
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Better post on PPD then instead 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:17 AM
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Probably. If it makes you feel any better, both being virgins when you get together doesn't make the relationship much better. You can hold onto that shit too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:11 AM
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Yeah. I'd agree with this. There's a lot of similar stories on twoX. When you read between the lines I think it's clear she's going off crazy on her friendship group. Like one of the women was talking about her bf. He'd told her she'd been spending too much time on social media and it was getting to her. She'd got annoyed because he wasn't as mad as she was. He then "stonewalled" her and ignored her (read. He took some space away because she was crazy). So she broke up with him for being abusive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:50 AM
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Approaching is a good strategy for both men and women. The only potential problem is that women tend to approach men slightly more attractive than themselves. This can sometimes lead to awkward rejections. But you will get hits. In general though it is a good way to get a higher quality partner. If you can stomach it. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2016/03/21/go-ahead-ladies-make-the-first-move-youll-date-more-attractive-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:24 AM
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I agre with you. For the most part Reddit is actually pretty decent. I think the main things I don't like about Reddit as a debate platform is downvoting I still don't understand why they can't make it an option per subreddit. Dogpiling can also be a problem in some debate subs but at least that's largely a moderation issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:19 AM
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Most debates aren't about convincing the person you're dealing with 1vs1 It's about the observers and the lurkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:12 AM
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I met a guy recently who's now dating a friend of mine who I believe was a virgin before they go together. He's 39 I think. I also know a few other virgin men in their late 30s. I don't know any women who are virgins who are older than 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:30 AM
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You're a cuck if, while some dude is screwing your wife, you're also balls deep in his? 🙄 If you're not into it. Sure. But it's clearly not cuckolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:55 PM
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Enjoy the decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:02 PM
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It's not discussed as n-counts. But I have seen guys who refused to date women because they saw her sleeping around. I think for a lot of guys visibly seeing her do it is different to a past he's never observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:32 PM
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Having your partner sleep with someone else doesn't make you a cuck. We literally talked about this yesterday 😅 Cuckolding <> stag/vixen <> swinging <> open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:30 PM
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Henceforth, I expect you to talk to me in perfect British English. The Queen's darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:05 PM
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You worry too much about life sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:01 PM
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Probably. It's more my language changes with every group I spend time with. I've noticed how I talk on PPD has kinda changed over time for instance. I don't think I ever wrote the word "tryna" before posting here. It's natural. I don't get this "oh I need to be exactly the same person in every group".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:57 PM
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Yeah. My brother-in-law almost cheated because he was getting mega approval from that flirting. This is the same guy who's deadbedrooming his wife. He's detached and doesn't get involved in the family. She talks to him like absolute shit. Which one started first. Who knows? But they're interlinked. Him flirting with another woman was about him feeling better about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:49 PM
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We do live in a patriarchy for sure. However too often that's used to imply women's lives are worse. Or that women don't have ownership over some spheres of life (e.g. the family). These aren't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:20 AM
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Right. So you don't mention everything. You leave stuff out. If someone doesn't ask OP if he's a virgin or not. I don't see why he'd need to bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:36 PM
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Right. But do you tell the partners where things have moved more slowly. "Just so you know. I slept with my ex on the first date"??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:34 PM
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Do you wait the same amount of time before you sleep with each person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:29 PM
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In the case of OP being a virgin though. There's gonna be fumbling around. It's either "I'm a virgin" + fumbling around. Vs Fumbling around. ... Yes, it would be better if there was no fumbling around. But any advice to not do that amounts to "don't be a virgin".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:07 PM
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So wait. You lie about your previous partners or at the least don't mention it? We're only talking about OP not mentioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:56 AM
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Okay. But you tell lies by omission too. What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:42 AM
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He never said he didn't care about them as a human being. Not mentioning you're a virgin is also for their benefit. It relieves the stress from having sex and them worrying about the pressure of being a guy's first time. But I bet you won't be 100% either. Do you tell every date you're on about how many partners you've had in the past? Do you point out how many dates you went on before having sex? Do you tell the guys who you're not having sex with on a first date that you didn't do the same wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:34 AM
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I bet you are not 100% honest with every partner you have. Even if you don't blatantly lie. You likely lie by omission all the time. The number of people who don't lie by omission is incredibly small.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:57 AM
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Maybe they saw u tryna be a villain and thought that girl needs help?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:53 PM
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That and with the p values they use. You only need to keep trying so many times before you hit significance. The replication crisis is a big deal. Even outside psychology. It impacts us at work when we're looking at papers from academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:55 PM
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I assume they just got talking online? I don't see how it would be any different from ppl on this sub meeting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:51 PM
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Oh Jesus he is a proper sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:07 PM
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C'mon You're Gaston LARPing as Scar. Soz babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:56 PM
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🥱 2/10 villain vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:43 PM
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FDS is a mixed bag. On one hand a lot of them seem to have gone though a lot of shit with previous partners. On another hand a lot of them sound like they were a cause of a lot of that shit. And on the other hand they make fair points. If they're gonna do most of the housework in the relationship, he may as well pay for the first few dates. "My gender stereotyped relationship is the most equal relationship I've ever experienced" - an FDSer But then many of them espouse abusive strategies. Things…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:28 PM
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Kinda. I feel like that's as big as they go in straight porn. In gay porn muscled dudes get bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:09 PM
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Eh. I don't really care why I've been picked. Money, height, looks, personality, intelligence. I just love my high quality partner. Idk. I kinda think most people aren't that exciting. I would never give up the chance for someone great because of some random factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:07 PM
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Is it too much muscles or not enough hair? Where's the line on muscle size?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:56 PM
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Did you get more attention from dropping down weight then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:10 PM
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Only if I can pour champagne on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:09 PM
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Oh I'm not knocking the book. I guess I find it difficult sitting through a chapter of a self help book let alone going through the same one several times. Some of these dudes have a reading list a mile long. I couldn't live like that. If my marriage was so bad I felt the need to read the entire contents of the New York Public Library I think I'd rather be single and go my own way. And on top of that they're writing these giant journals. Maybe it's just me but I couldn't live life like that. Jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:03 PM
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The sub always appeared incredibly toxic and unfun to me. It's ALL ACCOUNTABILITY ALL DAY. How anyone could "no more mister nice guy" four times baffles me. Maybe your third time through you should perhaps question what you're doing with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:50 PM
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So is it about having less intimidating men for male viewers? Do men get in the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:41 PM
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Why are there basically no muscle bears in straight porn? It's not like there aren't at least some women into it. Whenever I'm watching a video of some giant burly dude on top of some twink there's often some women in the comment section. Is this a small minority of women into this body type? Or is it that straight porn is aimed at men? But whenever I watch "porn for women". There's no burly dudes there really either. I don't get it. Where are all the bears at?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:36 PM
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Depends who their favourite poster is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:03 PM
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A mugshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:59 PM
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Why do people assume that each sex has a single dating strategy (dual dating strategy is one overall strategy) Why wouldn't we assume that different people are naturally wired to follow different approaches? It seems to me that some people act very differently to one another but that there are clusters or types of dating behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:23 PM
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Awwwww sorry sweetie. You're too nice to be a real villain. U can give me some 😤😤😤😤 if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:14 PM
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I think it's nice all having the same surname as a family. Whether that comes from him, her, double barrelled or something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:10 PM
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There's a few more than that. But I guess single digits. But they also tend to have a higher N count. Which is also why I don't understand why I don't understand why men would prioritize low N.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:54 PM
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Thanks. Yeah, it took me a lot of time to realize I didn't need to justify myself to anyone. It's also why I'm on the "I don't care about n count" bandwagon. I'd rather wife a promiscuous woman that maybe cheats on me than worry about a dead bedroom with someone who's scared of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:51 PM
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Oooooooh. On some topics yes I agree. Women on PPD are VERY varied though. I've never understood why they get grouped together. ... I've had women here get very annoyed by those women who expect men to pay on dates. And on the other end women who wouldn't consider dating someone who didn't pay. ... Women who love bisexual men VS those who think we're all STD ridden and secretly gay. ... Legit size queens VS those who are happy with anything that isn't micro. ... Women who find so many men attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:39 PM
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Yeah. It's the longest anime I've watched. I don't typically watch anything more than 26 episodes. If I remember correctly there's not really any major filler. It wraps up at the end. Just felt like it hit your criteria for a psychological thriller. It was 12 years ago when I watched it. I remember enjoying it and all my friends who watched it enjoyed it also. You can always watch 1 episode and see how you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:28 PM
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https://myanimelist.net/anime/19/Monster I watched it a long time ago but it's a crime thriller anime. It's only really "anime" in that it's animated. It doesn't have any tropes or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:21 PM
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Anime okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:12 PM
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You get stuck. This happened with me and my ex fiance. You're in a relationship and things other than sex are good. But there's some incompatibility. In this case she hated giving oral. It caused a lot of arguments. She would be like "oh well maybe another time" and shifting the issue. The thing is the rest of sex was good. Just not oral. She'd also get mad at me "is something that dumb a reason why you'd break up with me. Clearly you don't actually love me". A lot of shit like that that made me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:54 PM
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Yeah. Glad I didn't marry my ex or I'd be in the same boat. Some women enjoy giving. Marry those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:42 PM
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Many women like it and enjoy it. I've kinda stopped getting annoyed by it. Instead ask for something in reciprocation in the relationship. Get her to cook for you or a massage or something. I don't think men ask enough. If she's actually into you she'll say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:35 PM
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Yeye. Create friction and argument. Then follow up with making friends. Not a bad pattern to follow in life in general. Bland agreement is a lil' boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:17 PM
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u/mrs_drgree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:53 AM
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My current partner also has an N of 5 and I thought she had many more when I began dating. Is this UK girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:50 AM
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Q4ALL How many close friendships with the opposite sex have you had that have ended up with some level of sexual tension? When I say close friendships I mean ones where you're doing activities with one another. Talking about personal issues etc. How many of those do or don't end up with at least some level of spark?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:27 AM
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it feels very intimate This is why I wonder if this idea of the abundance of close male/female friendships without sexual tension is overstated. I've definitely had friendships where it felt more platonic. But I do think I've tried coming close to women often and there was low level sexual tension even though we were both supposed to be and trying to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:17 AM
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Yeye. What I mean is. When you're both single. It's easier to get into these close friendships. It's something that I think you can take for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:39 AM
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Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. But that close friendship depicted in the comic. I've found It's harder to get to in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:12 AM
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Okay. But like. What if you want female friends? I feel like it's harder to get close to women IRL platonically now I'm married 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:06 AM
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Relying on "self control" is a terrible idea. The sooner people stop viewing themselves as completely rational actors the better. The problem is when you say that sometimes people take it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:46 AM
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Yeah and if someone's been cheated on, it's understandable why they'd want to track location at all times. But There's also a big difference between that and a 1 time DNA test. Yes it's an intrusion. But as things go it's short lived and relatively minor. It's not like you constantly feel like you're being watched in the same way as someone going through your texts or tracking your location.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:49 AM
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I have never believed that being nice gets you laid Comments like these won't win you orbiters 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:37 AM
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Even in the circumstance where the guy himself had grown up with a man who he thought was his father but wasn't because his mother had committed paternity fraud. You still don't see the difference between him testing and an accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:33 AM
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asking them to hand over their phone so you can read their texts out of the blue It doesn't have to be out of the blue though. You can tell your partner "Look. This is nothing to do with you. I just want to check the DNA of our child after birth because of my own personal paranoia and fear that the child isn't mine" That's hardly an accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:05 AM
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Depends on the person asking. But quite a bit. When you have to use your ID card to get into your office building. You're not being accused every time of being an intruder. I didn't personally do it. But I can see why some men would want it as a matter of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:56 AM
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I assume it all got removed by mods in the end. Did you get banned also?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:47 AM
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People's standards for science go up and down depending on if they agree or disagree. Feminism: everything is socialized Evolutionary biology: human beings are mildly polygynous It's funny how different people will believe one and not the other and attack the one they don't believe in as bad science.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:53 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jJrQs4jlZxU This is all I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:45 AM
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Banned from Reddit. She still makes yt videos. Someone needs to teach her how to use a VPN.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:23 AM
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I have no idea what you're complaining about here. What have men done wrong this time exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:22 AM
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It's not normal to get your partner to pay for 100% of the rent just because she put the effort in and decorated the house. Getting to pay for the house isn't a reward for the effort spent. In the same way men having to plan dates. It's not like it's a luxury and so they should pay for the privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:19 AM
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Yeah but chances are the average woman is getting at least a couple 👀 on her. Not loads but it's nice getting that attention. When women say they want a hot rich man it's a reminder that a small proportion of dudes are getting 👀 and they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:17 AM
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Which lifestyle? Partygirl or babymama?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:09 AM
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IMO if you're average you should probably stop worrying. I've seen you dwell on this topic too much. Average is genuinely good with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:04 AM
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Would it be better if they didn't find their partners hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:00 AM
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Sometimes there are spots you don't want to hit. I'm only a lil' over 6 inches but when my wife had an IUD in. God that scraped. 5.5 would have been ideal in that circumstance 😂 Also think about it this way. The more average you are the better the blowjob you'll experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:40 PM
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She's in the bath. There's a 15 minute wait on the ride. Married 8 years. No deadbedroom yet. Sex is less frequent because of kids but we're still on ~2x a week. That goes up to 5-7x when we're on holiday and less stressed/busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:07 PM
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I want some feel good stories of marriages with happy sex lives to balance out the negativity lol. Lemme go sex my wife and get back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:55 PM
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If you're living together I assume she pays half.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:25 PM
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Given a photo of a girl, I can tell you whether most guys will find her attractive. Given a picture of a guy, I can't necessarily tell you how girls will feel about him. IMI with men there's still two major camps. Those into skinny women and those into thicc/curvy women. This sub is consistently split.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:00 PM
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Don't you want Stacy treatment? What do you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:44 PM
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I see. I think some guys can be really reserved though and if you work on it you can get some emotion out of them. But IDK. I couldn't do it. It would be too cold a relationship for me. I need energy in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:17 PM
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Why not? Make you feel special. Buy you flowers. Dress up nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:14 PM
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Don't you want someone to plan you a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:10 PM
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He says it’s common for guys who have been in the army. Oooohhhhhhhh. Yeah maybe. Weirdly I think a lot of those types end up on r/marriedredpill. It's like they're trying to logic their way through an emotional problem. If they can just read enough books and lift enough weights they can solve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:00 PM
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Is it possibly a temporary thing? Obviously stuff like depression can cause that kind of numbness and we have just had lockdowns for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:54 PM
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But how will she afford your bills and a wide array of sun dresses? Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:46 PM
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Oh and those less emotional guys are the ones you end up talking to a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:44 PM
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That's not your line 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:40 PM
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I don't know. I think many people have practical marriages. It's not the same though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:39 PM
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Oh. I have both. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:37 PM
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It's a tough market. You gotta compete with u/Ainsleygz saying "cum" all the time and u/figuringmylife responding "hot" every 5 minutes. And that's completely ignoring Livs who'll steal them all away in two weeks time anyway when her ban ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:36 PM
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You have to flirt if you want orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:00 PM
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Women have to deal with a greater risk of sexual assault and rape though. How do we compare? Should we get an excel spreadsheet out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:59 PM
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But also everything else. IDK. Both men and women seem to have different perks and different shit to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:55 PM
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Oh I'm over the topic of men paying. Just some of the rationalizations around it are dumb. Men and women aren't equal. That's all there is to it. As I've said before. Chances are she'll end up doing more than 50% of the housework later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:52 PM
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Oh. I was just saying that the claim "the asker should pay" is just "men should pay with extra steps". Except apparently it isn't because the asker receives the luxury of organizing the date. Which is why they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:46 PM
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Yeah but Paisley you're a fucking queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:39 PM
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I'm not even annoyed about that. I'm irritated by someone telling me that women who expect equal pay and also expect the man to pay for the meal don't exist. And when I point out they do exist we end up in "oh but that's different" land.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:38 PM
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Lol Apparently because men have to plan and put in all the labour organizing dates. We also have to pay. Because we chose everything. That's the price. Maybe we should tell women that if they decide to decorate, clean and tidy the house they should also have to pay the rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:31 PM
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That's not what people are saying. You're arguing in bad faith and you know it. Men are expected to do the labour of having to decide and plan the date. And as a reward of all that work they then have to pay for it. Wow. What a luxury. Look it's fine. Just don't pretend like "oh if I saw it I'd call it out for being dumb" if you actually wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:26 PM
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You know this is a no downvote sub right? That is entirely unreasonable. It just boils down to "men should pay" with extra steps. And you won't call it out. Instead you'll pretend like it's not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:20 PM
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Nah they're more likely to hide behind something else like "the person to ask should pay for the date". But they never ask. They're already in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:17 PM
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No. Choose Peter Parker or Spiderman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:59 PM
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Or they don't want to get attacked. It's like painting a target on your forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:34 PM
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I don't think anyone who holds both views is likely to speak up and spell it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:31 PM
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I've definitely seen both being said by the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:21 PM
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But I don't think most men treat women as well as they believe they do. I think this is generally true for both men and women alike. Nobody wants to admit they're difficult to deal with in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:55 PM
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3-4/week I have other things to do in my life other than constant sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:37 PM
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Wouldn't allow that, I'm not sharing my partner. Also no bastards, it messes things up. What if it's the only way to get the partner you want and are attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:07 PM
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Getting into decent shape takes so long 😥 I definitely have more respect for gymbros now. It's not each individual session. It's keeping up the consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:49 AM
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Knightmaidens What is Knightmaiden? Also. What if you were a queen but the king also had a harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:40 AM
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Uh huh. One of the best parts about having a strong wife who's nearly as tall as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:23 AM
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Of course not. Redpill does make it the number 1 priority though whereas standard dating advice puts it much lower down. Standard dating advice also focuses more on losing weight whereas red pill is definitely weightlifting centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:11 AM
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👌 good list
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:51 AM
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Agree. But mostly coz I wanna wrestle. Dom X Dom is hot and actually works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:22 AM
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I don't know if you have to have a high number of previous partners in order to get to sex positivity. My wife for instance had 5 previous partners when we met but also jsn't afraid of her sexuality at all. That's kinda normal I think for the age we met. There are definitely different healthy attitudes towards sex that don't simply fall into total slut/chaste virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:52 AM
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Was having a strong spark/chemistry important for you in choosing a life partner? Yeah. I need those vibes. I need to have a partner I can bounce off of. Someone I can talk about absolute shit to and it's still fun. My wife and I would talk until 4am frequently when we were first getting together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:51 AM
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Fake boobs, bottle blonde hair with roots showing, overgroomed eyebrows and a fake tan? IDK about score out of 10. 3?4? She's really not my type though. I'm sure other guys rate her much higher. I find it hard rating women I'm very much not into.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:11 AM
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No. But I live in a relatively peaceful area.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:04 AM
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I mean. It's like a snack during sex. Would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:57 AM
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Idk. I think rich and average is probably fine. I saw plenty of rich average dudes hookup. It wasn't like they needed to offer relationships. The money bought them clothes and status. They appeared more attractive. As for the voice in the back of your head? I think it's probably best not to care too much. Are you looking for a good relationship or are you validation seeking? It's not like in suggesting only moneymaxxing either. You can hit the gym and make money too. Who's going to turn down a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:22 PM
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When i mean stigma I mean phrases like AFBB The implication is that if you're using wealth to secure a relationship then you're a beta and not an alpha or actually high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:53 PM
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For a group that talks an awful lot about hypergamy there seems to be a lot of stigma against moneymaxxing. All the rich men I knew at uni did great with hookups. It's not just "betabuxxing". Lord Bath had 74 wifelets. Presumably because of his money. I don't know how anyone could consider him a "beta".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:35 PM
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100% No oral is a deal-breaker. I could live in a relationship with no PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:11 PM
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What that women care a lot about money? Already swallowed. My wife told me when I started earning more "I know this isn't the most feminist thing to say. But now you're earning more. I feel more positively about you missing things. Not being on top of chores as I am etc." My mother in law told me directly "I'm happy you make enough money to keep my daughter in a position where she doesn't need to worry" I don't mind. I'm not as fussed as some men are about gold digging. In some ways it takes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:33 PM
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Oh yeah. It's a lie by omission. 100% But that's not AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:27 PM
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is it shallow or holding yourself to a higher standard if you don’t fw broke people There is no "good" way of picking people to sleep with/have relationships with. Money in a lot of ways isn't too bad. It's arguably more meritocratic than, say, height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:25 PM
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He gets to fuck on the first date because there aren't any consequences. If he judges her for being a "slut" who sleeps early on. Who cares? If the amazing guy judges her. She's fucked up a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:19 PM
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I didn't understand until I read a story of a woman talking about two guys she was dating. One she gushed over. He was a doctor. Handsome. Amazing. She was intimidated by him. The second she didn't like as much. He wasn't as good looking etc etc The second guy she wouldn't mind berating or talking down to. But she was also more open with. She was less scared of fucking things up so she did more of what she liked. Whereas the first she seemed to have some sort of imposter syndrome. Like she felt …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:07 PM
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The problem is you're only looking at this through the lens of benefits. Rewards VS punishments. Strangers VS non strangers is not AFBB. And it logically doesn’t make sense How does it not make sense? When you do things or talk through things with strangers. It doesn't come back to impact you long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:53 PM
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I mean. Relationships are a risk. Living your life being risk adverse is a terrible way to approach relationships. It stops you from being open and actually connecting because you spend so much time worrying about negative fallout. You can end up creating self fulfilling prophecies. You're so worried about a relationship ending that you don't fully invest which causes the relationship to end. If you're that worried about life ruination that you won't ever recover from. Don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:42 PM
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It's not even that hard to avoid either IMO Just say something early on that indicates that you don't judge women who aren't afraid of their own sexuality. That you'd rather marry a sex positive feminist than someone who wanted to hold out for sex forever. You're not interested in conservative women. Worked on my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:31 PM
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Honestly the best defence is that people act differently when there is something on the line VS when there isn't. Have you ever talked to a stranger and been more open with that person than you are with some of your friends and family? I think sometimes these kinds of things are like that. If the relationship is bad and not going anywhere. What does it matter if you fuck it up by sleeping together on the first date? If he judges you for "being easy" who cares if you don't end up dating? Now. I p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:20 PM
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What about stuff like "only looks matter" or "looks are 90% of attraction"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:31 PM
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Mod gut feel. Basically it's a dumb rule but it's less dumb than not having it. Without it the sub would just become more of a home for incels than it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:23 PM
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No idea. Just saw she was 🪦 😥 Hopefully should be short lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:21 PM
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Means you picked the wrong day for smarmy day Sonny Jim. Like having a birthday at the beach while it's raining. Yeah we can bring the barbecue inside and maybe recover something but we all know... IT_WONT_BE_THE_SAME
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:20 PM
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She was suspended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:15 PM
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I have a natural tendency towards laziness and complacency. I know if I don't actively work against this laziness I do get sloppy. I do get comfortable. What it leads to is staying at home. Not really progressing or getting better. While it's easier at the time to act this way, it destroys my mental health. When I look back on a lazy or unproductive week I feel awful. I have to actively try to push myself outside of comfort zones. However once I start things feel much more positive. I feel bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:15 AM
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u/flapperfemmefatale We've had a couple back and forths recently but I still actually quite like her. Her perspectives on sex and codependency are unique. She got suspended recently though. Not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:44 AM
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Probably not. I'm not sure it would suit her. It would be embarrassing for her to wear an outfit that doesn't suit. In terms of it being revealing... I think half of our friends have seen her naked already. She has a low barrier for taking her clothes off and streaking or skinny dipping. So not an issue in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:38 AM
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Because she's punching up looks wise. Like given the choice between: someone who is similar looks wise but thinks you're attractive VS someone hotter than you who thinks you're kinda ugly I don't think it's clear which is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:26 PM
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It was strict for about a year. Now it's back to normal again. But the habit stuck and now I like having the independence. I think I'm quite prone to co-dependence in a relationship. Having some independence over bits and pieces like cooking has actually been really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:58 PM
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See. I thought that. And we did for a long time. But it's an absolute pain to diet that way or control calories. We ended up stopping sharing when I had some diet requirements and I needed to eat very plain food for a while. It just never went back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:54 PM
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Do you need an explicit example? If you tax everyone £10 but then give the married couples £10 back. You effectively have a single person tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:43 PM
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There's an implicit "bachelor tax" in that single people pay for the child support of kids of others through regular taxation and don't receive that back. But that's also to prevent children from growing up in poverty. Yes, some people pay more in than others. That's largely to ensure we have a well functioning society that everyone benefits from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:37 PM
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Oooh kinda cute chubby bear type. Yeah I can see guys like him being kinda too laid back. I assume you've tried growlr? Isn't that where all the bears live? Maybe they're more confident in their natural habitat 🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:26 PM
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You're a "My ideal is getting topped by a dominant trans woman" type of bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:06 PM
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The problem I have with cooking for multiple people is the pressure to make an actual meal. There's a lot of time where I just want to cook for practical reasons. For myself I can stick what I need in pan and cook. You don't worry about it tasting the best either of it's gonna get covered in sriracha. I'd feel a bit embarrassed serving that to anyone else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:04 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:57 PM
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Yeah but put it another way. An ugly girl bagged your friend. A guy above her league. Why should she care if he thinks she's ugly or not if he's the hottest piece of ass she can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:53 PM
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Honestly. I cook a lot less than I used to do (as in meals for the house). But that's largely because I prefer having control of what I eat and don't like family meals. I don't expect my partner to cook for me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:34 PM
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Well if she's aiming for marriage then giving 50% ahead of that commitment does set a precedent that may be difficult to reverse. Honestly, this is the main problem I have with using FDS strategy early on and then trying to switch to 50/50. A lot of your relationship is set early in precedents. Your actions attract certain types of people and turn off others. Enforcing gender norms early on in a relationship is likely to lead to the expectation of them continuing. Maybe I'm wrong but I haven't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:14 PM
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Penetration and being penetrated isn't degrading. Also something being submissive and something being degrading are two entirely different things. In the context of penetration between men. I do think it probably naturally leans towards being a slightly more submissive act. But there's also a wide range. Power bottoms are obviously a thing in the gay community, however they are less common. I think in general the act of being penetrated typically puts someone in a more vulnerable position. It is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:50 PM
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Typically people in dead bedrooms haven't had sex in months. I would also not count some circumstances as a deadbedroom. Obviously if she's just given birth or if the guy was recently in a car accident you're probably not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:23 PM
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As a consumer I appreciate calorie counts. They help me know how I can fit a McDonald's in with the rest of a day if I have one. They are a pain in the ass to get though from smaller restaurants. Serious related question: What are your thoughts on restaurants and food delivery apps nudging people towards healthier food?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:47 PM
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Fine then! Didn't want you anyway 😤 Edit: my friend didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:43 PM
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Hmmmmm If someone wears heels do they count as taller? You'd still be looking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:05 PM
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How tall are you? 👀 Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:04 PM
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Oh my gawd. I swear sometimes you're worse than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:01 PM
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My wife tried it and said it was super weird. She said the amount of effort people put into their profiles and how much they show off. It was too intimidating. She just wanted to meet regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah. I feel like you can compartmentalize sex more than I can. I tried casual sex and it was not enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:42 AM
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Yeah but I think there's some level of connection. Idk. It seems less awful that casual sex. I find it difficult to judge. I haven't ever enjoyed sex outside a relationship at all. FWB feels like something that I theoretically could enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:33 AM
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Presumably there's some blocker to dating? Like either you don't want to commit or something about them personally stops you from investing completely. But it's also better than casual sex. I've never done FWB but it seems miles better than casual sex which I do not enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:23 AM
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If I end up divorced from my spouse I will never let any new partner get involved with or dictate anything that's related to my kids. My mother let my stepfather have too much free reign.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:19 AM
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probably commitment avoidant He's asking HER for exclusivity though. He's probably "aloof" because it's 5 dates in and she's still seeing other men. She's the commitment avoidant one. He's just being sensible by avoiding emotionally investing in someone who isn't giving the relationship room to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:59 AM
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Honestly I think she would have been fine with either if she hadn't multi-dated them. 5 dates in and she's still seeing both guys... It's like watching two films 30minutes at a time and jumping between them. Of course both of them appear worse. But that's because you're avoiding getting invested and giving the relationship a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:48 AM
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Multi-dating is dumb. She's stopping herself from enjoying the experience with either by comparing one against each other. I don't think people should be treating dating the same way they shop for car insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:11 AM
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Maybe pro choice men in red states need to start adding "in case of unwanted pregnancy. Will drive you to the nearest blue state. I got you dw." to their dating profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:00 AM
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It's disgusting that my ex. Who was a virgin when we started dating. Didn't jump all over me within two sentences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:47 AM
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Yeah exactly. Women are different. Like my wife was a lot quicker. But she's also a sex positive feminist who isn't worried about who judges her for it. My ex-fiance and I went a lot slower. Both totally simped for me during the relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:42 AM
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As in. It took longer to get into the relationship. She still simped when the relationship got going though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:37 AM
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And as I point out. It wasn't an issue with my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:26 AM
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It's always been a luxury. But lots of women still have crushes on regular guys they're around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:21 AM
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Even if she hadn't been like that it would've been okay. My ex still simped for me but we still had to date first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:19 AM
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Lol. The first time we met IRL she grabbed me, pushed me against the wall and started kissing. We had sex before our first date 😂 Yes. I'm "happy with less". Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:13 AM
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Yes actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:10 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:09 AM
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I've seen those experiments. Horny women looking for some. My wife was plenty into me from v. early on. I'm not worried that I'm not being valued for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:08 AM
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I don't believe she's ever offered anyone sex in two messages. Seems kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:03 AM
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I ain't no chad but my wife is still all over me. Lots of wives megasimp for their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:53 AM
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Finding good porn where the woman genuinely enjoys herself and it's not fake. Also not supporting a shitty porn industry. Which leads to amateur stuff but the issue with that is often the camera work is sloppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:33 PM
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Of those ppl only Destiny is actually decent. Hasan is legit low IQ. Vaush is okay sometimes but doesn't have much actually interesting to say. Talking about the definition of a woman isn't too bad if you want to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:28 PM
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Ow. And after I called u a tank earlier... I'll go back to dissing your anime tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:23 PM
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Oh lol. I think that's different though. That's just figuring underrating herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:20 PM
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I mean of course it happens. As horrible as it is to say. Some amount of nasty shit will always happen. The only way to keep women 100% safe from men is to segregate the sexes. I think there's a lot we do in society to limit how much it happens. I don't think anyone supports these men. We have laws against stalking etc. But I think there's also the potential for overreaction. The vast majority of men who might start talking to you or ask you out in a bar or in public. They're not going to kill y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:14 PM
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I would have also liked to have seen Kylo Ren naked on screen. Honestly only decent character in the 3 films. I was legit cheering for him by the 2nd film.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:07 PM
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If you want to empathize with the "other side" you need to actively ignore the assholes. I've known unsuccessful men personally and they can be genuinely lovely people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:50 PM
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Did she ever claim he was a chad though? She's always claimed to have only dated regular dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:42 PM
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it put in perspective why PPD women think they all have chad boyfriends What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:23 PM
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I'm literally asking a question as an outsider. I know how the British system works. Why would you have a government that can't do anything but a supreme court which can? It seems to me the intent was to have checks and balances and in theory that sounds good. But up until this point it's required some level of goodwill between the parties. When the parties are so divided as they are now, the whole thing comes to a halt. Which has meant that everything has sprawled out into other branches to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:54 PM
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As I said. I think that's fine or would be fine. But the reason why these issues end up trickling into the court is because it's seeming impossible to get things through the senate, no? In other countries this kind of issue would be decided in government. Macron or Boris would be able to get it through as the leader of the majority party. Just seems strange to me how hobbled the government is as an outsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:43 PM
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It just seems strange to me. I don't understand why you should need to get agreement from the minority party to get anything done? 60/100 is a LOT. What's the point of voting in a party who makes manifesto promises if you know they can't be enacted? The government can only enact policies that both parties agree on? In which case what does it matter who you vote for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:38 PM
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The house of Lords in the UK. Our second chamber. It doesn't have anywhere the power the Senate does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:21 PM
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What you should be doing as your first priority is getting rid of the filibuster. 60 votes out of 100 to pass any kind of change is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:14 PM
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It's dumb when liberals do it too. The argument that Roe Vs Wade should have gone through government makes sense. If you could actually get anything through. In a normal democracy. If this happened. No worries. In the UK, the governing majority party would push RvW through parliament. A majority in the commons would be enough. Yeah maybe there's a push back in the Lords but in the UK the Lord's can only do so much limiting. The commons has primacy. The problem is your political system is so terr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:04 PM
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Can someone explain to me? Why doesn't the supreme court need a filibuster when the senate does? Why is it that the democratically elected government needs 60 votes to get anything through the senate but 9 unelected officials only need a simply majority? Imagine a country where you can't vote out the people in power. You can't vote in the people you want to make the changes you want. "People should get out and vote!" But even if you do and even if you win. Don't expect the people you elect to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:40 PM
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Whatever your stance on abortion is, it is undeniably more democratic for each city to choose their own rules. Whatever your stance on abortion is, it is undeniably more democratic for each suburb to choose their own rules. Whatever your stance on abortion is, it is undeniably more democratic for each person to choose their own rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:00 PM
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I assume you're referring to Gerrymandering? That shit is legitimately insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:11 PM
1

You're a 175lb tank. Don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:09 PM
2

What, packing the courts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:06 PM
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Imagine living in country where 9 officials, not elected by the public, are seeming more able to make changes to the country than the democratically elected "government". Why is your judicial branch so political? Why does it wield so much power? Seems dumb to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:53 PM
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Hey! I have my crazy too! 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:43 PM
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Yeah it happens right after the bit where they promote Steven higher for being a man. They explicitly call out that Sarah did more work but because she's a woman she'll gets paid less. That's exactly how bias works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:49 AM
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I don't think all of them are quite so picky. As I've pointed out in the thread my wife has dated shorter guys. I'm also only 1 inch taller than her and that has never been a problem. And it is harder for tall women to date. Just not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:35 AM
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Oh yeah. My wife is very feminine and tall. She basically only wears big swirly dresses and looks great in them. She just complains sometimes because skirts are often too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:26 AM
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Nah. I hate being single. Even a casual relationship with someone I'm not super into it better than nothing. My bar for getting into a relationship is pretty low. As long as she's not bottom 20% looks wise, incredibly boring or super toxic I'm down. Luckily my wife is way above my bar. Just because my bar is low it doesn't mean I'm not picking the best option I can get. I don't understand high standards. I like dating and romance. I don't blame anyone for having them it's not for me. I dated a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:00 AM
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One more reason why tall women VS short men aren't comparable. Tall women have an advantage over short women in the workplace in terms of salaries, getting promoted etc. Short men do worse in the workplace and worse in dating on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:48 AM
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Yeah. I'm giving personal anecdotes because it's all I can do to respond to this thread. I've known 3 tall women who I've either dated or were interested in me. My wife. 5ft11 Had a harder time dating. Still had some amount of attention though. Has dated several shorter men. My ex-fiance. 5ft10. Had an okay time dating. Still slightly harder but still fine. Is now married to a guy shorter than her by about an inch. I think. At least that's what I can tell from photos. I've never met the guy but …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:53 AM
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That sounds very similar to my wife and her experience. She had negative comments and it was definitely harder for her from what she's told me. But not impossible. Like if she went to a party wearing what she called her "pulling moustache" she'd get quite a lot of guys interested all of a sudden. Presumably because the fancy dress made her welcoming and got guys past the tall girl barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:39 AM
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Remarkable how my tall wife had short exes then and you haven't had any then. Yeah she has had a harder time from being 5ft11 but it was never zero. She got actively chased by a dude 4 inches shorter than her who she dated for 2 years. Most of her exes have been shorter than her. Which is what happens when you don't actively pick men based on height. What is the point here to debate? Are we just giving personal anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:24 AM
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Yeah but. She's gotten upset quite a few times by the idea that I don't only think about her the way she thinks about me. She's also mentioned it at a dinner parties before that she worked that way. Another woman called her a liar and it deeply upset her. At this point I believe she's telling the truth on this one. It's the weirdest lie to keep up. Especially considering I wouldn't actually mind if she found other guys attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:43 AM
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Oh lol. Yeah. I mean a lot or most do. And I'm chill with that TBH. But my wife doesn't. She's odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:38 AM
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just better when she fantasizes about having sex with other men while sitting next to you? kidding (kind of…) What do you mean? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:32 AM
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Honestly. If she hooked up with any other guy I probably would have felt differently. But that asshole pedophile who used to flirt with her when she was 13? Like she was free to do it. But that definitely turned it from a break to a clear end. Oh well. Thankfully now I have a much better partner who doesn't engage in half of the toxic behaviours she did. She doesn't have crushes either or talk about how hot guys are to her friends. Which is honestly really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:20 AM
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We'd been together 6 years. There were some feelings about getting back together. I asked her about it, she said maybe... She ended up doing it and regretted it later. She even told me it kinda felt like cheating even though we weren't together. To be fair. It killed any feelings I had for her. When she was upset that things went badly with this guy I wasn't around after and she realized what she'd lost. When we broke up I think she thought she would be better off outside the relationship and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:03 AM
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Honestly. I've had something similar. A guy who was hanging around that my ex was clearly into and who was better looking than I was. The second we broke up she went to fuck him. Honestly I couldn't deal with any part of that situation again. If my partner was crushing on some dude like that I'd dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:56 AM
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TBF we have that too. I just live in a strange microcosm within tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:58 AM
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He's going to apply to be your beta buxx baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:48 AM
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The fetishist figuring posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:52 PM
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You can have that racist white girl from the OkCupid thread if you like. We'll make a swap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:45 PM
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This whole "people have been taught to be valued based on their looks" is kinda dumb. Nah. Those girls on his DMs are trying to make that world happen. They want to use their looks to get what they want. Not every woman has been brainwashed by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:34 PM
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Post orgasm having your back stroked > orgasm itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:59 PM
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Idk. I keep thinking faces are more important. But as I told you I'm also an idiot. I sometimes think the pro body camp may actually be kinda right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:48 PM
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I only date my looksmatch to 2 decimal places.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:44 PM
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Tech My work colleague told me off for wearing blue jeans the other day. "What statement are you really tryna make with those?" She said. Ouch. She's right though. Every day is a runway. I need to up my game with work outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:37 PM
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You keeping a filofax with all our weights in it or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:31 PM
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Lol have you seen gay porn subreddits? Alpha male this. Alpha male that. E.g. (Warning NSFW) r/alphamaleporn They're all at the gym likely taking way more steroids than most of the red pill men. Not sure it's all that different to half the shit guys here say 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:27 PM
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Idk why there aren't more queer people in this community, so people with perspectives who don't fit those groups aren't really welcomed I'm a bisexual male and apart from the one off comment this sub has been fine. Obviously a bit of stereotyping but this sub is more on the offensive end in general. I don't think anyone evades being stereotyped here 😅 I know there are quite a few bi ppl here too. I know of at least 3 men, many more women, at least one gay regular and a couple of lesbians. One of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:07 PM
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men are evil. Yeah. But. What are you gonna do about it 🤷 I'll do and say what I like. This is patriarchy. You complain but let's be honest you secretly love it cos u got daddy issues or something. It's okay. One day you'll realize real women are feminine and submissive and you'll be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:49 PM
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My mum was more attractive than my dad by a point or two IMO. But my grandfathers were both more attractive than my grandmothers also by a point or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:24 PM
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🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱 Oh no. I am upset you said such a thing. Woman. Now I am MAD 😬 We are not wrong. It is in fact the women who are wrong as you are the less rational sex. Who is the one who cares most about looks and lipgloss? You. Who is Albert Einstein? A man. We are smart. Like Magnus Carlsen. Who is also a man. Checkmate feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:19 PM
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Yeah. We need to recognize that time between 16-25 is probably gonna be a bit messy and adjust expectations. Everyone's way too judgemental of 18yos. They're still in the making mistakes period.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:52 PM
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Why are you upset? The guys are just being positive about the girls who don't care so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:47 PM
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they are never talking about ugly women. It's also not true. Margaret Thatcher Theresa May Nicola Sturgeon Some of the highest profile women in the UK haven't been that attractive. No offense to them. Edit. Also: YES. Biggest example of this: Chloe Zhao won a fucking OSCAR, the first Asian woman to win a Best Director Oscar, and the biggest story about her night was her messy braids and lack of makeup. I saw self-proclaimed feminists attack her for “not putting any effort into her appearance” on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:32 PM
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She's just parroting stereotypes that don't reflect real life or the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:01 PM
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You're making stuff up. The majority of bisexual men prefer women. You can see it in the data. https://d25d2506sfb94s.cloudfront.net/cumulus_uploads/document/7zv13z8mfn/YG-Archive-150813-%20Sexuality.pdf The majority of bisexual men are Kinsey 1-3s. i.e prefer women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:56 PM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:34 PM
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No. Sometimes for relationships maybe. But a lot of gay dudes have "straight" fetishes. We're kinda close to that. Like if I went on Grindr saying I was married the fetishists would be out to show me what I was missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:29 PM
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Lol yeah I saw the other day we're about the same weight. It's not like I'm even small or anything. You jus' heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:22 PM
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6ft 0 175lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:17 PM
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I think for me it depends on how I feel about my partner. I dated a girl once and she told me she kissed some other dude at a wedding and that we should probably break up. I was like "alright". It was quite sweet actually. She didn't do it over the phone. She wanted to meet in person and do it face to face "because you care about that kinda stuff". That was quite a compliment. It was like I'd made a positive impression. She then got a bit jealous over the girl I dated after (Even though she'd ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:17 PM
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Yes. High value men. But my data set is biased. I know a lot of middle class parents who focused on LTRs and a bunch of middle class women who went to Oxbridge and met their husband there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:58 PM
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Yeyeye. Men do of course cause some of our issues. Just not all. Similar to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:15 PM
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I think they do genuinely care about a subset of men's issues. But it's usually about when men have problems because of other men. You know. If only we could see that men are the source of all our own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah maybe. But, ragebait aside, people do also become quite attached to their current partner if they're emotionally invested. Even if someone they used to be with was hotter. Ignore the women who are still all about their ex. Not everyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:40 PM
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Yeah. But Europe has free movement of people too and that hasn't been a problem. It's interesting reading why Vermont failed to get it passed but we managed to make the NHS happen in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:32 PM
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Nope. None. Oh maybe one. He's weird though. Very extroverted socially but also self esteem issues in dating. He's still had a small number of relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:28 PM
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Oh the US is honestly an absolute mess when it comes to healthcare. I feel like your whole political system is designed to be as messy and ineffective as possible. I do think that's partially why single payer hasn't caught on in your country. How effective it is depends quite a lot on the country's political systems. I've heard even doing things like single payer in a single state is actually quite difficult. Why is it so hard when so many European countries manage it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:25 PM
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Or you can negotiate down drug prices. Like what happens in the UK when we get the same stuff you do for cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:12 PM
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Don't judge yourself based on how successful you are on apps. Once you internalize that shit you're fucked. Racoons aren't supposed to live on dating apps. They're supposed to be free in the wild. Dude. I know guys who are for sure uglier than you in relationships. But none of them used apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:10 PM
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If you are less attractive than average get off the apps. They'll never work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:03 PM
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Honestly. Sometimes I fall into the lookism hell hole. But then I remember that I personally rate personality kinda highly. Some people are just more interesting and more desirable based on how they act. Maybe everyone else isn't the same but I do think people care about personality and shit. Tell me. Would you actually date all the attractive women you know? Would you choose them over the women you like more personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:50 PM
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They could chase younger men with better hairlines if they wanted to. Men for sure do chase younger. Sounds like it's not really a big deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:47 PM
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🤷 And yet women are still more likely to date someone older than them than younger. Feel like you're just dissing women for their "bad taste".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:37 PM
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A big part is actually wanting to make the grass greener where you water it rather than constantly looking for something "better". Marriages take work. A lot of people don't seem to want to put it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:23 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:19 PM
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Everyone gets socialized healthcare. It's also easier to manage a monopoly in a lot of ways. There's a lot of admin waste in a market. Premiums also don't hit certain people more than others. The sick in society don't get screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:17 PM
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No. Have not done it with my 5yo. I don't see the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:12 PM
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"You're annoying as F. But I also understand you're physically attractive. Just like Amber Heard" Would that be a more acceptable insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:39 PM
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I mean... My mom is trying to date in her 60’s and she was crying the other day about all the old single men who she’s not attracted to. She’s having the hardest time finding a match who she finds attractive in her age group. I feel sad for her watching her struggle. If it was a guy on here saying this he'd probably be called gay or accused of not actually being attracted to women or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:52 AM
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Ahh. Yeah. If you're dating single dads that's probably a lot more likely 😂 When guys talk about dating single mothers the likelihood is she has full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:25 AM
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It's the time constraints and limits on freedom. Want to impromptu go away for a weekend on holiday? Lol Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:16 AM
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Including things like being a step mum and getting involved? Or jus' casually dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:55 AM
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Having really rewarding LTRs & marriages that potentially last for life is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:57 AM
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I'm honestly torn on the topic and I don't know what I'd do if single. On one hand I'm definitely pro LTRs and relationships over casual. Growing old alone sounds like a terrible idea. If that's the only option available, maybe you need to accept it. But it's a big loss to your freedom for kids that aren't yours. I feel comfortable making the trade-off for my own kids. I don't know if I'd do it if I wasn't the father. Maybe casually dating makes sense through your 30s and then settle down in lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:44 AM
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Kids are a LOT though. I can see why some people would rather stay single or only casually date single parents. Also details matter. Something that doesn't get mentioned is number of kids. 1 VS 3 is a big difference Having full custody is also quite different to seeing your kids one weekend every fortnight which is what a lot of single dads do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:12 AM
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Honestly people in real life are typically much nicer, pleasant and more blue pilling for me. Nice, middle class. Most people are in LTRs. The more convincing red pill are some of the women on this sub. (Not the normie ones).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:10 AM
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And don't give up the irl search. It is ok to withdraw from it a while to have a rest, but it is too early to give up altogether if you are a deeply romantic person. If it's not working, why not? Attempting to date forever with 0 success won't lead to anything positive. He's 23 so I don't think he should give up just yet. But there is a point where you have to move on and do something else with your life. You can't chase after women forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:40 AM
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So then date a guy with a flexible schedule who can look after kids. Date a male teacher who can take summer holidays off. Or a guy willing to be a stay at home dad. If you want to put 50/60 hours a week into your career and you want kids. It's a lot harder if you have a partner who's trying to do that same deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:13 AM
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Honestly even as someone on the left I find Destiny is one of the few reasonable content creators/debators. There's too much dishonesty and a desire to win at all costs from other people on the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:54 AM
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Idk dude. I think he still looks good in that first photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:31 PM
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On the topic of averages. Don't forget that time where several people on this sub claimed Joseph Gordon Levitt was an average looking man. This is the guy who's won awards for sexiest actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:25 PM
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That just sounds like someone yanking at peoples insecurities on purpose lol Nah it's pretty common. There'll be some picture here and the person will be attractive and one of the guys or girls here will say they're kinda average or ugly. Which. If you're here and you're above average. It's no big deal. But for those of us who look at the picture and think "fuck. That person is someone you think is ugly. I'm nowhere near that attractive". If it was intentionally malicious it'd be easier to deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:21 PM
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Yeah. Kinda. I don't know anymore. I hate how I look sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:42 PM
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Maybe. Not sure. She's definitely in the average range. She's not anywhere close to ugly for sure. I could buy her being a 5. Her husband is more attractive than her though. He's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:19 PM
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Interesting. Fair enough. In my experience it was always more often good looking guys. Like on the rare occasions I went clubbing the decent looking men did well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:57 PM
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There is a bias towards couples that actually match though. It's not like they took 100 people and randomly paired them. It could be that the things people look for as traits were already kinda satisfied. E.g. let's say looks do matter and people select on them The ones which aren't matched on looks could be the cases where someone finds an ugly partner weirdly attractive. Does that make sense? You have a similar issue with recommender systems where your training set only contains things previou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:55 PM
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Didn't you hear? This is the new standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:50 PM
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Lol. I did grow up. I used to think it was a good idea to ignore it and try to get past it. After fighting over sex for a long time I realized I needed to be with someone sexually compatible. So I vetted for it when dating. Seems much more sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:41 PM
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What's wrong with dumping someone because they don't like giving oral? That's much better than getting bitter and fighting over it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:39 PM
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I'm not single, but thanks :) Hope you find someone 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:20 PM
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No worries. For the record. I'm bi and so can have access to easy casual sex with men if I want it. I just wasn't ever interested in hookups. I also do get judged for having other men in my sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:19 PM
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I mean. It's not really "on" anyone. If you've been promiscuous in the past. Some men will judge you on it and some won't. It's kinda up to them if they want to date you or not. If I could sleep with anyone. I personally wouldn't. I don't like casual sex that much. Maybe FWB? I need to have some level of connection. If someone didn't want to date me because of my sexual past I'd be upset. But it's also their right to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:15 PM
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Honestly my answer to this question depends on the day I answer it. I'd like to say it didn't matter but if the gap were big I'd probably feel some level of retroactive jealousy. The answer depends a lot between guy to guy. Some men feel uncomfortable with it. Some don't. I can understand why some feel bitter about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:11 PM
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I take it you don't miss any part of that dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:04 PM
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Right. But the reason why this dynamic impact typically impacts men more. Is that there are more promiscuous hot guys than hot women. Men tend to want more casual sex than women do. Which means when it comes to hookups. Good looking guys get to engage easily but average and below guys have a hard time. They can't choose to have a hookup necessarily. There's a massive disparity in who gets to engage in casual sex Whereas women and gay/bi men can kinda hookup whenever they want it. If they want it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:03 PM
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Q4ALL: What % of women do you think are batshit crazy obsessive over their partners? Q4W: Have you been obsessive over your partner or ex? Q4M: Have you had partners obsessed with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:08 PM
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I have no idea. It was right after a breakup. It felt super empty and just awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:26 PM
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To introduce drama into the plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:25 PM
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It's always worth a shot. I've been tempted to try in the past too. I'm good if I can get into things but any minor distraction and I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:05 PM
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Yes. The one time I had a hookup. Worst sex I've ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:03 PM
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Drugs party! 🎉🎉💊💊🎊🎆 🥴🤮🫠 🐈💥🔫 😰😰😰 👮‍♀️👮‍♂️🚓
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:59 PM
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I thought you didn't have ADHD and you were just lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:54 PM
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300 pages! I have a hard time making it through some of the longer threads here sometimes 😰 I was more wondering if you'd want to have maybe the excerpt you have on the site be a post and discussed? Could be fun. Might also be stressful at the same time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:25 PM
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Cynthia Payne. This you? Would you debate anything you claim in the book?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:07 PM
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The solution is obviously for men to do pole dancing instead. He can make it as sexual as he likes and keeps her entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:24 PM
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Breaking up would be the adult move. If it's that important he can't get over it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:58 PM
2

Never tried it. But prostate orgasms are legit good. People who judge you haven't tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:00 AM
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Oh yeah, it just comes up from time to time. This isn't an isolated case. She was just suggesting that it was only men on here who didn't know what average was the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:23 AM
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What are your thoughts on the thread below about averages? You were upset the other day that men didn't know what a 6 actually was. Now there's a whole thread claiming that a bunch of guys aren't attractive bar one. Are you sure it's just men who don't know what average looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:21 AM
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“how can a guy approach a girl without being labelled creepy” I think the risk is less that she'd think him creepy. But that other people he knew would do it too and that his rep would be damaged. Especially if you're at a university. Things can be kinda insular then rumours can get around. At the very least it's a social death. At worst rumours get around and people are worried about being kicked out (whether that would actually happen or not idk) I genuinely had a bunch of people stop being fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:35 AM
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No femininity at all? No probably not. If she's stoic and practical all the time, that's not an attractive trait. I need to connect emotionally. Submissiveness I don't get a shit about. A mix of femininity and masculinity is ideal. In both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:03 PM
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Honestly the thing I wish I realized sooner is that you gotta surround yourself with friends that aren't gonna drop you the first sign of you doing something wrong. Those social circles where everyone throws you under the bus to save themselves if you say anything slightly out of line are super toxic. Even if you don't do anything bad, as you say. The anxiety will get to you. Get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:55 PM
1

I think a lot of it is loneliness. A lot of the time people pick labels like these in the hope of connecting and relating with someone who experiences the world just like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:36 PM
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High libido. Honestly, high libido in women increases their attractiveness. It's hard to ignore women who are super horny no matter how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:30 PM
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I meant more like. If you were in a situation where she's not actively comparing you to him. But say you found a photo on her Facebook and he's fucking gorgeous. 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:17 PM
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I'll be honest. My wife told me her co-worker was smarter than me. Not even an ex. She hasn't heard the end of it from me for months. Bitch. He's not smarter than I am. Who is this loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:13 PM
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Q4M If she's hot and great in basically every way. Much better than the rest of your dating pool. Why do you care if she dated a dude bigger, stronger, more attractive, blah, blah in the past? Like yeah. If you're reaching that comes with the territory no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:29 PM
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But you can definitely get better at reading non verbal signals. Also. If you're leading. You're gonna make the occasional misstep. But you can also get better at recovering and turning a misstep into not a big deal. Like my wife's ex was bad in bed. But a big part of that was they'd have sex, she'd not orgasm from PIV and he'd throw a minor fit because he felt bad. Rather than just shrugging and finishing her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:09 PM
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Honestly. I'd like to hear from her why the ex was better. We're only hearing what she told him which was obviously supposed to make him feel good about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:59 PM
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We also should've had Miliband back in 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:23 PM
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Okay. I understand there's currently a thread on men not expecting step by step instructions for sex. But in the scenario, if I were him I'd rather my partner tell me straight and tell me what it was about the sex that made it better. Hiding it that the sex with your ex was better is dumb and might be preventing your current partner from topping it. I'd rather know. I'm not accepting 2nd place without a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:11 PM
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Oh yeyeye. Just to be clear. I agree. I think that's the right attitude to have. Make your money and don't feel ashamed of using any means you can to move up. After going to Oxford and realizing how wealthy the average person was and how much tutoring they received to get in. Many people for sure have a leg up. My only personal beef with diversity programs is they often ignore wealth/class of background. An engineer who worked for me was telling me how in his previous workplace his management di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:53 PM
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Lets be honest. Obama's term as president was relatively weak due to not controlling both the house and senate for most of the 8 years. Like I understand the appeal of 2 houses and check and balances. But it seems like nothing manages to get done in the US. I feel like the Lords in the UK is much less of an issue. A majority in the commons seems to be enough to get most things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:48 PM
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For sure. And you can always ask him? Like, he might change his mind if he sees you're actually leaving and he has a chance of going with you? Back on the original question though. The one thing about FAANG companies is that you might get positives from diversity hiring. How you feel about that is up to you obviously. Personally I've never want to work for one. I figure they already have a lot of clever people. I think I can be more effective and have a bigger impact in other companies. Also I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:41 PM
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Oh yeah. I meant to exclude you. You're the Dom. The Dom does most of the work. It's just in a normal relationship dynamic it's just normally the other way around. I imagine it's not just pegging where you're putting more effort in? You're leading and deciding what happens when, keeping things fresh etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:01 PM
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Yeah. And also keep things fresh and avoid things going stale. We have to read what's going on in her head but not be too formulaic about it. Physical effort is also straight up greater. The thread at the moment about how guys shouldn't expect a step by step guide and should maybe read a book if you don't get it is correct. But it is a decent amount of work. More effort than the majority of women put in for sure. I think it's fine and guys should maybe stop complaining about the unfairness. I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:58 PM
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Are you getting back with your ex? If you move that'll likely not happen unless he agrees to move with you. But if you're staying separated I think moving to a new city sounds like a good idea. I'd say 3>1>2 I personally don't want to ever work for FAANG but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:51 PM
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or find a high libido woman which are more rare but maybe worthwhile Even with a high libido partner I still put much more effort in. All high libido means is her pussy needs eating more often 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:27 PM
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IMO In order to have mutually fulfilling sex, men probably need to put more effort into sex than women do. It's unequal but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:18 PM
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Right. But you understand to the average person this seems contradictory? The thing is a lot of women want you to know how to do everything and also have all the tools to be able to get out your sexual preferences without "showing you how the sausage is made". And a lot of women are quite opinionated on exactly what works for her. But they also don't want to "top from the bottom". Like I understand what it is you and other women want. I like to think I'm quite good at sex. But honestly it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:49 PM
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There's a lot of pressure on guys to be 6+ It's a bit silly. One thing that kinda helped was the time I hooked up with another guy. He was around 5.x and it was still 👌 I get that PIV sex is different but I roll my eyes hearing any woman complaining about 5 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:25 PM
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While I don't disagree with you that men should be using trial and error. I do think it's worth pointing out that this is the exact opposite advice to what men receive normally. A common piece of advice for men is "ask her what she wants in the bedroom". I don't think it's fair to frame it as men expecting women to teach them. Or being lazy. I think a lot of advice for men on the topic of sex is just straight up bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:02 PM
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Did you feel happy about it? Was it because you wanted to date men who'd done the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:44 PM
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Actually no. I'm going now because I figure at 32 this is probably last chance for getting into good shape. If I can tick that box of "had six pack at one point in life" that would be cool. It's all about personal goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:29 PM
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It sets a tone. To be fair. This place is pretty good with downvotes. I've been on other debate subs with "no downvoting" and have seen comments hit -30. There was basically a weekly thread complaining that Radfem women couldn't understand simple instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:04 PM
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Can I answer both being a bi male? I've never sent any but I have received some. Honestly it's fucking weird. Why would you send someone a picture of your penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:50 PM
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Her: I rate her highly but she's my type though. Like maybe an above average Becky. I could see other people not liking her. 5ft11 Slightly chubby £40k/yr ($49k) Me: 6ft 0 6.3×5.3 £85k/yr ($104k) 175lbs, ~17% bf Neither of us can dunk a basketball.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:05 PM
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What stats for women? Height and salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:31 AM
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men also can participate, that would be fun. As in my stats? Height, penis size, salary and if I can dunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:25 AM
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Yeah, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:22 AM
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When I've dug into extreme exaggerations of penis sizes from women it's typically because they're eyeballing it or haven't measured properly. One woman admitted to measuring along the side rather than the top for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:18 AM
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TBF Reddit does lean towards people in STEM which are high earning professions. That one does at least make some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:07 AM
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No actual exes just 300 waifus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:11 AM
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Maybe. Though the biggest predictor of cheating I've seen IRL is just whether they've cheated on the past. I've seen people who were definitely reaching and felt insecure cheat. I've seen super confident ppl cheat. I haven't noticed any noticeable trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:06 AM
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I think the issue is that she likely does want something to happen with you but also doesn't. Emotions can be complex. But even if that's the case. That mess of emotions will be horrid for you. It's gonna be that drip, drip of genuine affection. Even if you have to work with her. Go find someone else. This girl isn't that special. There are plenty of other better single options out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:04 AM
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Penis size matters is PIV is all a guy has to offer. Lesbian sex is amazing and doesn't require a penis at all. Tell that to the bisexual women who'd date women but when it comes to men they still care about dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:54 AM
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You one of Liv's plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:03 AM
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It looks like being in 30s has finally pushed my fellow gay friends to settle down. I still don't understand how many gay/bi men still do the hookup thing and spend all their time on Grindr. It seems incredibly unrewarding. 🤷 Positive to hear they're settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:01 AM
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the vast majority are against their crazy ideas Depends on the topic and what you consider a crazy idea. Trans engagement in sports is deeply unpopular. Trans folks using the bathrooms they want has majority support. At least in the UK. I just looked and the NYTimes have included an opinion article with people making various arguments. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/19/opinion/letters/transgender-women-sports.html
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:06 AM
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I mean. It might be for the best. People get drawn to trans issues like nothing else. The comments section will end up being a giant scrap between activists who don't even read the NYTimes. It's the same fight we've seen over and over and people can get quite nasty. Idk. I think it's an understandable decision to have the comments disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:39 AM
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Honestly when I watched that the first time the first thing I thought was "who TF acts like this?" Seriously. Maybe it's a London subculture thing. I've personally never known any women in the UK who act like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:02 AM
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We are probably fetishized least though. I assume you mostly know white ppl? How would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:43 PM
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Why stop at one clone when you could have 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:22 PM
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Of course. Of course. And also if you and your ex are talking about getting back together that's really good news 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:16 PM
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Oh I see. That would make sense. I do think generally young women are more likely to find them a net positive. I guess. This probably still depends a lot on social circles. Alt women in their 40s are probably still looking for alt guys. My 34yo wife still wants me to get a tattoo. I don't know if she'd ever change her preferences in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:48 PM
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I thought about this when I got new piercings in my 30s. But then I remembered every guy I knew who was in their 40s and 50s and had piercings and tattoos were kinda awesome, fantastic guys. I don't really ever wanna be that "old man". Even my grandfather in his 70s didn't ever become an "old man". Fucking rocking his pink suit at his 60yr anniversary, getting wasted and singing puff the magic dragon like it's karaoke night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:29 PM
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Let's say Happy Father's Day to all the single mums who love their kids more than a father ever could!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:51 PM
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Oh I know, I know 🙂 I meant more seeing her back on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:45 PM
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Depends on the mother and the father. But for me personally I don't love my kids less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:32 PM
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Could be a 4-6. Would have to see more. She's got nice skin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:31 PM
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Who dis? 👀 well confession we recently have been in talks about trying to work things out 👉🏾👈🏾 🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:24 PM
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Neither to a large extent. It's just friendship drama. Yeah he did "fuck zone" her or whatever than means. He clearly only wanted a relationship with her. But I don't see what's wrong with that. It can be really awkward having a friendship with someone you had feelings for that weren't reciprocated. His friendship group needs to leave off on him a bit and she needs to stop trying to force herself in as his friend. Also seems rude to get into a car without asking for a lift home. Even if you don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:02 PM
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Ty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:25 PM
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I know 🙂 TBF. For what it's worth I'd not want to be on either end of that kind of relationship either. My impression is that you have a hard time trusting in general. But that's in large part due to previous experiences, which makes sense. You like having control over as much as you can because it gives you security. Is that a fair read?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:47 AM
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So from what I understand there's some research to suggest that male doctors don't tend to take women's pain as seriously as women doctors do. That ends up leading to issues where sometimes things go undiagnosed. Which I can believe. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't inherently trust a male doctor or that we should replace all male doctors with women as ends up being suggested. We can do things like training to make male doctors aware of their biases. As a patient you can keep it in mind that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:31 AM
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That stuff at least is edging on "pro patriarchy". Which while I disagree with it is no worse than some stuff on twoX. Like twoX regularly has threads about how women shouldn't trust male doctors because they won't take you seriously. I don't see much difference. The stuff decoy posted is blatant hate and dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:14 AM
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If we're looking at Reddit. For me it's about upvotes. Some guy saying "as a hole I have respect for them"(about women) in TRP and he's at -10. Cool. If he's at +17 saying the same thing? That's a reflection on the community as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:09 AM
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I think more the idea is that she may be uncertain about the decision. Let's say she'd prefer to have kids now than wait. From her POV it's the wrong call. But she trusts that he's made good decisions in the past, especially around finances. If he thinks waiting is a good decision it's probably a good idea to listen to his judgement. She agrees not because she thinks the idea is the best one. But because of the trust she has in him to make good decisions on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:18 AM
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Partially. I don't necessarily agree with the "men need to be the leader" thing. But to think the idea through... If you choose a partner who agrees with you completely on everything anyway, then I feel like you're not really leading anything. There does need to be some ability to decide things that goes along with leadership. But at the same time, having a couple where both have very different goals makes no sense too. As an example with kids: Say for example a woman wants kids and expressed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:08 AM
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Yeah. I personally wouldn't try the equivalent on straight men 😅 Even if they found out you were bi they wouldn't care. w/ straight guys they for sure find it more weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:45 PM
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Very good looking male vegan feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:29 PM
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Happy pride month?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:20 PM
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It was good while it lasted ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:20 PM
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What do you prefer about the states?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:18 PM
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Ohhhhh yeah. If you're also spending time in feminist spaces online you'll be seeing a lot of that content too. There's a lot of sharing of rage bait. It spreads well because it makes women angry. If you're anti-kink I have some understanding of the circles you're running in. Spending time there will straight up make you hate men. Even as a guy, reading things there made me feel negatively towards other men for a while. I think it was only when I was having my first child, found out it was a boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:17 PM
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It's not even just pickmes. I think women get annoyed at women who flirt with lots of men. A lot of slut shaming comes from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:04 PM
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Not a single one of my comments mentioned AWALT. Oh sorry. I am clearly tired from getting up w/ kids last night. I was getting you mixed up with someone else. I apologize. Claiming men lack empathy torwards the female sex isn’t dehumanizing men. It’s literally an observable reality that most men don’t experience empathy torwards women. Honestly. I disagree. Most men I know have empathy towards women. This characterization of us all as unfeeling monsters is dehumanizing. Also the specific commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:59 PM
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Nah. You claimed awalt was misogyny and then effectively claimed that men were all incapable of empathy for women. Complain about being de-humanized one second then do it to others the next. I am perfectly capable of empathizing with women TYVM. Men aren't actually monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:50 PM
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Wait so AWALT is misogyny but you making sweeping statements about men is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:19 PM
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On the ageing of Europe. Life expectancy has gone up a lot in the past century and yet pension age has largely stayed the same. We are healthier for longer and yet the pension age of 65 has been unaltered since 1925. People need to accept a higher pension age. Maybe 70 or higher. Side note: I think there's also a good argument for women's pension age to be slightly higher than men's. I don't think that would be too popular though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:20 AM
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There not being enough children isn't an issue in most western societies. It's much more important to improve the lives of the ones we do have. Monogamous societies typically outperform polygamous ones. A man's strategy of siring as many kids with as many people as possible and leaving them without support is good for him and his genes alone. It's not good for society or children in general. I don't see great arguments for polygamy TBH. Only if you're asking "what's best for a specific individua…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:56 AM
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I honestly don't know. Non monogamy comes with complications and I think I'd have to try it. I'd be down for having, say, two wives and a husband though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:19 AM
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Listening to boomer shit is a v. Gen Z thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:13 AM
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Yeah. I mean I'm mostly teasing. But even like London. What I loved was going into a kebab shop. And you can get a Biryani. ... It gets better. ... You order a biryani. And it comes with a fucking egg. Who knew that what I needed with my biryani was an egg? But now I can't go back. ... London just has this vibe. I didn't like living there sometimes because everything was too far apart. But there was definitely something special. Even the tube has its London feel. Canary Wharf? Fucking nuts. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:13 AM
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Happens to me too. It makes me appear too... artificial. Like someone forgot to load the texture pack for my skin. Great lighting and angles are the best ways to catfish IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:45 AM
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No rush and I understand. I had a lot of that shit growing up. Took a long time to get through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:41 PM
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I'll be honest. It is a bit weird. It's definitely less natural feeling than it is with women for me. But dick is also really good IRL. When you get that far it's 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:20 PM
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2015 I think. Like it was fine. Just a bit weird compared to the UK. Everything is so big and corporate-y And the bit that isn't. Everyone told me to visit that penny arcade place. We have a tonne of those in the UK. A saw the first Starbucks and the Space Needle. Had some grits (ewww). Went to a 7/11. IDK. It wasn't for me. As I say it was fine. Just, I think I prefer Europe. ... Oh. Customer service was VERY good though. That was much better than what I was used to. Restaurant staff were lovel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:18 PM
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Errrrrrrrrr I've had dates in McDonalds. Don't judge me. I wasn't really that chavvy. Though I guess a bit? It's hard to say. My LTR ex was quite chavy. All her clothes from new look. Light blue jeans. White knitted poncho. T-Shirt with Eeyore on it... I also dated a very chavy woman but she was also kinda alt. Council estate but wore a choker. This was when I was 15 mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:14 PM
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Oh you met a femboy IRL and weren't into it? I do think the internet can block out some of that "ick" factor some guys feel towards other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:10 PM
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I dated chavs... 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:09 PM
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Don't u like femboys? Or am I mixing you up with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:03 PM
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Adds +1 for me. Traps are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:02 PM
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TBF the one time I went to Seattle it was actually sunny the entire time. Still. I thought Seattle was kinda medium. I don't know if this is all America but it takes so long to walk anywhere because your roads are too big. Also why do you have like a slums?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:52 PM
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That's because Seattle sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:47 PM
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YGO (if you haven’t watched the abridged series, please do, it’s hilarious) Yeah I've seen abridged. Peach girl 🎵 Heavy, heavy, high tension na baby 🎵 That opening is a bop! I think my problem is I don’t know what I would enjoy now as an adult Oh as an adult I enjoyed "your name" the film last year. That was excellent. I go back to watching Utena every now and again but it's hard to know if someone would enjoy it. For me it's a lot of nostalgia. Lol sorry it’s hard to talk about anime from a tee…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:02 PM
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What's your top 5 or 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:34 PM
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Oh yeah yeah yeah. I was a total dork for liking it. It feels weird it being more mainstream. It's good though. Anime always had a weird reputation. A lot of what I watched would've been considered normal had it not been animated. Monster for example is just a psychological thriller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:17 PM
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I started with lurking on Braincels > TRP/MGTOW/asktrp > here. I wasn't part of any of those prior communities though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:01 PM
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Awww bless you. Don't beat yourself up. I'm sure you're more like story mode really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:58 PM
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Lol so am I. Monster is from 2004 😂 I mostly know 1997-2008ish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:41 PM
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When you talk to everyone about eating cum all the time is it really a surprise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:39 PM
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I think ghost in the shell, both the film's and SAC is fairly universally loved. I also very much recommend Monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:36 PM
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Dr.Pepper. I live for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:22 PM
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It's not all pedophilia. There is too much pedo crap in anime though. Why does there need to be sexualization of a 14yo girl in Evangelion? Why does Loveless. A Yaoi manga about sex. Have a 12yo protagonist?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:20 PM
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I don't tend to crush on celebrities much. But this is probably who I'd want to date: Women: Dascha Polanco Serena Williams Renee Zellweger but only as Bridget Jones. Stella Creasy Men: Hugo Weaving CosmicSkeptic Plastique Tiara Stephen Fry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:02 PM
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Male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:49 PM
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I mean it would be pretty easy for me to cheat and yet I don't. I wonder how I manage it 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:45 PM
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Just calling out that you regularly objectify men. I think you see men as less human than women but get upset when guys do that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:12 PM
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But very few men have the qualities that inspire love. Like a 6+ inch penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:12 PM
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That feels crazy. She's super cute. I think attention from UMC men mostly relies on access. The problem is that she might not meet those guys in her day to day life. Not that they're not into her. I don't know. It's hard for me to judge being kinda UMC but also not. I have to be careful not to project.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:41 PM
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Yeah. I think male teachers are a good example. I think a fair number of high flying women would be okay with a male primary school teacher even if he earns less than her and is less accomplished than her. I don't know if the same is true for low status men and mid status women though. I feel like with status, getting to good status from nothing is way more important than getting from good to great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:34 AM
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Yeah I agree. The constantly being on your feet, dealing with social interaction even when you feel awful and the monotony seem hellish. Some of the hardest workers I know were "unskilled" labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:15 AM
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Why is the "pretty" woman less attractive than her "ugly" colleagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:22 PM
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Is a Hufflepuff? 😬 And you're a Slytherin?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:01 PM
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Nah. Rub some sauerkraut and some kimchi in there and start work on that microbiome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:40 PM
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Cousins having children together is probably not that bad if it only happens once. It's only when it happening repeatedly that causes major issues. It's also still better than women over 45 having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:48 PM
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Wtf her husband 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:39 PM
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I mean I love a bit of Penny Mordaunt but I'm pretty sure she's above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:33 PM
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Yeah. They're much more typically average than other celebs. Comedians tend to be more attractive than politicians though IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:27 PM
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Stella Creasy Sarah Millican Jo Swinson Zarah Sultana
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:10 PM
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Yeah I'd agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:07 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:57 PM
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No but she's saying the arousal is coming from things happening to the person. Idk. I've seen plenty of those kinds of comments before "oh I wish someone would do that to me". It's like how men tend to tie women up but women prefer to be tied up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:45 PM
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Nah. I don't think straight women have the same level of disgust towards same sex stuff as men do. They're just not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:40 PM
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Grab her legs and pull her towards you on the bed. Man handle a lil' Be enthusiastic Make lots of noise. Deep moans. Lick long and slow Don't overcomplicate with the tongue. Consistent pace over getting too fancy. Don't forget hands. Hook under her legs and pin her to you. Or grip tight onto her hips. Maybe even play w/ her breasts. Its not a race. Don't come into orgasm too fast. You don't want it to be too sharp. Think of it like a plane landing. Don't hit the runway too fast. Ease into the or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:26 PM
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I'm not answering the question. But I don't necessarily think she's bi. Men and women's sexuality are different. I've seen women comment "god I wish a guy would do that to me" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:07 PM
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I know. I'm jus' teasing 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:24 PM
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Even if a woman has low self esteem it doesn't mean she'll go for less attractive men though, no? It might even be that she wants an attractive man to solve her self esteem issues. If she can date a tall dude then other women will see that she's attractive by virtue of being able to date an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:23 PM
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The sun isn't yellow though...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:18 PM
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Where are you looking? Last I looked it was both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:16 PM
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Q4W If there was a hookup app that was basically getting eaten out & nothing else. r/RandomActsOfMuffDive style (warning NSFW) And guys got rated by those skills. Would you use it over regular hookup apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:00 PM
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Could also be genetics. How did you find their body odor otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:53 PM
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Maybe. Women are more sexually fluid than men. But who knows? Bisexual numbers keep rising every year among both men and women in the younger population. (Even though #s of gay and lesbians have stayed roughly the same) Not everyone but there's for sure people who think they're straight but given the right circumstances would explore same sex interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:52 PM
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Of course. I ❤️ eating pussy. Everyone qualifies. Not being able to go down on my partner would be a deal-breaker for me in a relationship. I don't remember the last time my partner and I had sex and I didn't eat her out at least a lil' bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:24 PM
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responded to the wrong person but hey yall We know you're secretly a boomer larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:51 PM
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Slytherin! Nice! There's no wrong answer except Hufflepuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:47 PM
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Harry Potter quiz on BuzzFeed to find out what house you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:36 PM
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Abs > Traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:59 PM
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Thanks! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:58 PM
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Awwwww all musicals? You don't like even one...? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:57 PM
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Don't you want to date someone who sings Hamilton?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:29 PM
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praying for student loan forgiveness Paid mine off last year 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:20 PM
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I'm making £ and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:19 PM
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I meant more whether individual policies have the intended impact of stopping gun ownership by mentally ill people. Obviously once you start allowing guns for some people it gets harder to regulate for the rest. You can get a gun from someone who got it by legal means. Or people may have gotten the gun prior to having the mental illness. Although I just looked it up and the answer seems to be yes to some degree. https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-does-gun-control-work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:53 AM
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I guess my question would be do those regulations actually have an impact on homicide rate? Also. The big reason for allowing guns in the states is for a core philosophical purpose of "the right to bear arms". Whether you believe that's a good basis for a country. Having restrictions on who can buy, mentally ill or not, seems to go against that as a right. You've effectively let the government in on a process which is supposed to protect people from said government. Does a halfway house of allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:41 AM
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Oh I meant the general premise of comparing gun violence to car accidents. I didn't actually check specific numbers for suicides and whatever. Road traffic accidents and deaths are quite high and higher than people think. People don't call for their removal. So it does set some expectation that some freedoms are worth paying for on deaths. The suicide part of the argument feels superfluous and unnecessary to the point she was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:30 AM
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Now you're getting onto better and more honest arguments. The trade-off between freedom and deaths is a more interesting one. As I said in my response to you before. You pay a price in blood for the right to bear arms. But maybe you say that's an acceptable cost. We pay a price in blood for many other freedoms. It's the pretending that the trade off doesn't exist that I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:20 AM
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For me personally? No. If someone referred to me as she/her I'd probably laugh but it'd be fine. I think it's possible to worry too much about gender. Gender is a prison and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:17 AM
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Niiiiiiice. It sounds like you train him well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:21 PM
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Have you tried sexually frustrating your partner on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:17 PM
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But it's only a brief moment. True. But you can always edge her a lil' bit. Stretch it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:13 PM
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But intelligence can be attractive though. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:53 PM
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If I had to guess I suspect it has something to do with older women being more willing to initiate. Butches are v. Popular among lesbians I believe for that reason. Also keep in mind that contrast can be a positive thing in a partnership. M/F couples have it naturally. Same sex couples don't. Age gaps introduce contrast. Gay men also have a similar thing. Which I kinda get. Men older than me by about 10 years are hot. I think because of contrast. (Any lesbians feel free to correct. I'm largely i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:28 PM
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A trick? I don't think lesbian bed death has to do with age. I think it's more likely a female libido in a comfortable relationship thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:53 PM
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Lesbians love big age gaps though. According to 2014 data compiled by the Williams Institute, 31% of married same-sex female couples have a 5- to 10-year age difference, compared to 21% of married different-sex couples; for 10-plus years, those numbers are 16% and 8%, respectively. Basically: This isn't a new, or rare, phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:46 PM
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