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So dark is the same as a country hick?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:33 AM
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It’s not nearly even
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:12 PM
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It’s objectively not the same actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:03 PM
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I didn’t mention any parents. For the second time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:52 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you care. These tropes aren’t objective. They change throughout cultures and societies. Listening to a bunch of people tell you what they got from society and just telling them that they are lying doesn’t help anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:52 PM
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Right so like o said. You can blame shift all you want. The result is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:48 PM
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Yes it does. I’m a black man. Tall dark and handsome doesn’t mean anything to me, we are all dark. Latinos obviously have different standards for height in their culture. And having darker skin is looked down appon for them depending on where they are from. There is not generalized quips you can use for these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:39 PM
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I didn’t say anything about absent fathers in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:35 PM
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It was not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:34 PM
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Blame shift all you want. The result is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:25 PM
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What does tall dark and handsome mean to a child. Especially if your parents don’t fit the mold 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:15 PM
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Relationships are absolutely taught to you . I reject this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:34 PM
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We aren’t talking about what was observed. We are talking about what was taught . Matter fact, the whole point of the redpill was it being the observation of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:41 PM
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This distinction doesn’t matter. Unattractive women aren’t more likely to be attracted to you because they are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:20 PM
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Parents, extended family, tv and movies. And any girl who friend zoned you would tell you this . I think that’s enough to call society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:18 PM
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Well. Considering being a victim isn’t a gender issue. That kinda throws this all out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:26 PM
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And majority of relationships end . So doing what most couples do doesn’t sound like it should be standard now does it. I’m trying to understand what is it moving quickly for? Don’t you want to know how a person will be in every season before you commit your life to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:56 AM
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What’s crazy about it? Like why is what I’m asking? I didn’t move in with my gf until 2 years in and definitely did not know the full extent of her living habits or personality until I did so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:49 AM
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I mean. what is this based on? You haven’t seen a person in every season or know all their habits within a year , especially if you don’t live together… And why should I leave her. If she’s the one who’s so sure an so rushed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:47 AM
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Why shouldn’t you need years? Or why shouldn’t you be unsure for too long?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:44 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:42 AM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:13 PM
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“ man who is provider but also doesn’t doesn’t hinder any spending” “ man who is a protect but allows the woman to start conflicts around him” “ a man who is generous but doesn’t care about receiving” Things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:16 AM
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Stomping my feet ? Because I simply won’t indulge you? Lol again . There are 3 examples listed. If you don’t believe that there are people who operate by seeking out benevolent sexism then just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:15 AM
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There’s nothing to clarify. They are complete thoughts. If you are confused by them like I said at the beginning, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:10 AM
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I already laid out 3 examples. You decided you didn’t like them. So I’m not going to add more lol .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:07 AM
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like I said before. Anyone else understands these concepts. If you don’t. It’s on you. Not everyone else. I’m not going to lay out more scenarios for you. Either you get it or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:04 AM
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They are good. They are complete. And they are legitimate. These are examples of things that women think a benevolent patriarch will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:00 AM
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“ man who is provider but also doesn’t doesn’t hinder any spending” “ man who is a protect but allows the woman to start conflicts around him” “ a man who is generous but doesn’t care about receiving” Things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:56 AM
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It wasn’t vague. They were clear examples. You just Decided to create a situation out of the examples where it wouldn’t apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:49 AM
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It’s not “ us” the general public knows what benevolent sexism is. It’s only you who didn’t. They were perfectly fine examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:45 AM
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I did. Those were very good well known examples. If you don’t like them that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:49 PM
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Are you insinuating that benevolent sexism doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:46 PM
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No it doesn’t. It just means that they are n outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:42 PM
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That’s because you added different situations that made it not sexist. When they are examples of where and how people who believe in benevolent sexism arise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:40 PM
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For humans. Any woman who tells you otherwise is full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:48 PM
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It wasn’t related. You tried to change the narrative shown in the prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:12 PM
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Well yeah. That’s what a prompt is for. To set the parameters so that people don’t deflect and include random stuff to change the narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:11 PM
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The debate is set with the prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:02 PM
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Being an outlier doesn’t change the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:54 PM
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Doesn’t really matter what people think about sex. It’s literally the largest driving force for humans outside of literally staying alive . Anyone saying anything otherwise is full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:31 PM
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Part of reading comprehension is staying on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:27 PM
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I am correct. And the prompt is the prompt. There’s no broadening the prompt. The whole point Is so you can’t shift the narrative like you tried to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:27 PM
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As a man. This entire concept is stupid. None of these things yall gripe about is actionable or anything that someone would vote to make some kind of policy out of. Theres no laws on the books. Theres no congressmen who are running on a feminist policy plat form. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:25 PM
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Thats too bad. The prompt says negative reaction. It doesn’t say anything about deserving it or that I had to do something first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:57 PM
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“ man who is provider but also doesn’t doesn’t hinder any spending” “ man who is a protect but allows the woman to start conflicts around him” “ a man who is generous but doesn’t care about receiving” Things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:44 PM
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A job won’t insult me , or be rude or negative to me when rejecting my application.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:39 PM
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Again. The prompt says negative reaction. It doesn’t say anything about being polite or courteous. You can’t just change the talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:37 PM
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The prompt says have a negative reaction. Not “ be told no” I guess you didn’t read the prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:36 PM
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It’s like you haven’t read the prompt at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:35 PM
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Murder and rape between 2 people unrelated to this scenario. It’s such a lame excuse to be a negative person because other people in other places did crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:28 PM
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I don’t even expect compassion. Just a common decency in the public space. But apparently they feel that they can justify being nasty to people 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:10 PM
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This whole message falls under the catagory of trying to justify whatever negative behavior a woman exhibits. And like I said, we can all just behave negatively if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:09 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:54 PM
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Someone being mean and rude. Someone insulting you, belittling you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:50 PM
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Considering the vast majority of people don’t. Theres no reason to include the minority of people who do to muddy the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:45 PM
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Nope. Op specifically said negative reaction. Not what men “ take as a negative reaction”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:44 PM
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Saying no directly isn’t a negative reaction. They stated negative reaction specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:43 PM
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Not for me to define. But op said negative reaction and not just declining advances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:39 PM
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We literally do not have the right to not be interrupted in public. Other than that. The prompt says negative reaction. Which means she did something negative and rude. You can’t just change it and add stipulations. Besides , what other people have done has nothing to do with how you treat this different person today
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:36 PM
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You can still be a socially conservative person and support liberal democracy. But yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:27 PM
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It’s not my problem that you can’t tolerate being in public so much that you have a negative reaction to it 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:26 PM
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And why not? Going in public means that you will be constantly “ interrupted” by all kinds of conversations and things happening in the world. If me inviting you to a conversation of me expressing interest is met with a negative reaction from you a definitely do have the right to be upset with your behavior towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:06 PM
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Say what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:03 PM
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Yeah but so does being an average guy . You will get swiped off on anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:57 PM
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When I used apps I didn’t even look at the profiles unless I got a match. I just swiped yes on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:54 PM
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They mean she wants you to perform all the things she thinks is good about the male gender role, and discard all the things she thinks are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:52 PM
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I won’t be marrying for any other reason then having children so no. And I also wouldn’t be monogamous with someone I’m not already sleeping with either. So unless in The situation she’s fine with me seeing others while she takes her time. Then probably not. Everything else is fine because I’m pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:51 PM
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I wouldn’t go in the store. I’m not giving money to a store that treats its customers that way, regardless of what other people stole
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:48 PM
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Who is this “ us” person. If you want to be a negative and mean person in public, that’s your prerogative. Quit being confused about why you are met with backlash for negative behavior, and why your justification for your negative behavior reads as bigotry and prejudice rather than sound reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:45 PM
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Whether you care or not is beside the point. If you have a negative reaction to me and my honest attempt at showing interest, that’s all that happened. I approached you, and you were negative towards me. I
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:34 PM
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This is on topic. If you said this about a race, religion, sexual preference, age demographic, disability, etc. people would call you a bigot. That’s true. Just because you think it’s justified to behave this way doesn’t mean everyone else has to accept your justification for your prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:28 PM
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I won’t be marrying for any other reason then having children so no. And I also wouldn’t be monogamous with someone I’m not already sleeping with either. So unless in The situation she’s fine with me seeing others while she takes her time. Then probably not. Everything else is fine because I’m pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:26 PM
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I’m going off the prompt. She had a negative reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:19 PM
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If you say this about any other demographic that’s not “ men” people will call you a bigot. It doesn’t matter what you prioritize. If you have negative reactions to people in your world then people will call it out. Or they will just be negative with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:18 PM
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I mean. In the interaction between me and a woman where the woman is negative to me. I am the one who had something done to me, regardless of whatever her experiences are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:14 PM
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You are confused because none of what is listed here has anything to do with any individual man. You trying to make justification for why women are mean to me if I try to approach someone I’m interested in Because of what other people did at other times doesn’t mean anything to me. My experience is that I tried to approach you and you were mean to me. And a bunch of women being mean isn’t “ okay” for a society that wants to be pleasant. We can just all behave negatively then if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:21 PM
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Buzzword soup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:12 PM
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This is a lot of loaded language for doing things in bed your partner likes. Which we all do from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:20 PM
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Ohh no I can’t believe a man wants to feel special
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:06 PM
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Ugh I couldn’t imagine actually having to settle for whatever you find by being an average Joe following the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:51 PM
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What would you be trying to influence other men for outside of trying to legislate or socialize some kind of harm for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:54 PM
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Mind you, that’s not a relationship issue. It’s an economic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:47 PM
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No. It’s pretty unaffordable. Especially do what you get at an average man’s price point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:38 PM
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Why? You can have sex and romance for free and without commitment. Like I said earlier, you can make any commitments you would like, the problem is lying and manipulating. Not the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:32 PM
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You don’t have to be in a relationship to love someone. You don’t have to be in a relationship to have sex. None of the things listed require a commited relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:27 PM
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Not really. They have decided that the largest draw in the first place (financial security) is something they can secure themselves. This just means the average men who provided average financial security to offer are no longer options since women provide that themselves. All that’s happening is women are able to be more picky. And therefore they have less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:13 PM
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The answer is truely don’t date, don’t have kids , don’t have sex, or find a better man. A better man in this case is a man who sweetens the deal for you. If you can’t find him. That’s not his fault. That’s yours. There’s no reason for an individual man to care about this .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:04 PM
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It’s not unfair. It’s only unfair if you are lying and not upholding your end of the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:59 PM
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Strange world view considering it’s the driving force for majority of life and human existence. That’s not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:55 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with seeking sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:51 PM
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Correct. Never commit to women who you don’t have sexual compatibility with. If a woman wants a commitment from a man who likes sex that she doesn’t. She has to cut her loses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:12 PM
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Thank you for reiterating my statement for other readers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:07 PM
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No it’s not. It’s just a bad opinion. It’s only coercion if there’s a threat of negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:06 PM
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Justifying your opinion is coercion? My god 😭😭🫵
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:04 PM
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It’s just a justification of an opinion. It doesn’t make a woman do anything. It doesn’t force her to do anything. She’s not in debt for her past. It’s not coercion. That word as an important definition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:56 PM
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Repeatedly asking for it in a relationship is begging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:46 PM
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To which I said women aren’t in debt to men. If you want a relationship with a man in particular who likes kinky sex. Then you have to cut your losses or get accustomed to kinky sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:44 PM
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People have sex before relationships start all the time. That tends to be how people find out if their counterpart is kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:42 PM
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No. It’s not. Coercion is when you are threatened with force, violence, or unwanted outcomes if you deny the request, to try to make the person give consent when they otherwise would not. Begging is not coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:40 PM
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Might want to edit your post then. If she wants a relationship with a man who wants kinky sex and she doesn’t. Then she needs to cut her losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:36 PM
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That’s not what coercion is. Thats just an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:33 PM
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Appreciate you reiterating my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:25 PM
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Yes it is related. You can enter a relationship for whatever reason you like. Including kinky sex. If he likes kinky sex. He’s fully entitled to seek relationships with kinky sex. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean that it’s not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:13 PM
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Kinky sex not appealing to you doesn’t mean it’s “ less appealing” Women don’t owe men anything. It’s called a relationship not a debt. Men also don’t owe women a relationship without kinky sex. It’s called a relationship, not a debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:05 PM
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Depends on what “ it” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:03 PM
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Nah. It’s not even about if I want it so bad as much as if she’s willing to do it with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:41 PM
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Being a simp is not being kind. No one shames men for being kind to women. Being a simp is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:49 PM
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I guess no one is going to give the other gender what they want since it’s split between nice guys and men who are not so nice but attractive 😭 maybe being a man is better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:09 PM
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Why do yall not understand that these guys literally do not have the choice to have sex and that’s the crux of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:51 PM
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If only we lived in a society that instilled confidence and social skills in these men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:22 PM
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Ofcourse it does
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:21 PM
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Bad math. Different men like different things. This isn’t “ men have a wide range” because each individual is very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:05 PM
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My gf doesn’t go to clubs are bars. Would have never met her there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:04 PM
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It’s not. Because the vast majority of men here are talking from a position of women not wanting to date them at all. Not about weeding through options to pick the right one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:29 PM
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It doesn’t matter what’s on the profile if the woman doesn’t want to go on a date with you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:26 PM
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It’s 2026, majority of people are meeting online to date people that they don’t know whether or not they have things in common with. This is why people are casting a wider net.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:10 PM
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If the fish aren’t biting, regardless of lake size, you need a larger net to attempt to catch fish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:58 PM
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And that’s the point. If you can’t date anyone, you cast a wider net to attract more people to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:55 PM
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He doesn’t spend time and effort a girl at all. She wasn’t attracted to him for a date. What part of that do you not get?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:02 PM
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Yes. Because you are talking as if he’s already got a girl to date. He doesn’t. You don’t get that vetting the girl doesn’t matter if there’s no girl to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:40 PM
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If you can go on a date with a girl that has incompatible values , that still means you attracted her enough for a date. Which is still casting a wider net. Yall are always confused about being selective in dating. These men are trying to attract women for dates at all. That’s why you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:41 PM
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If you can go on a date with a girl that has incompatible values , that still means you attracted her enough for a date. Which is still casting a wider net. Yall are always confused about being selective in dating. These men are trying to attract women for dates at all. That’s why you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:41 PM
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If you didn’t care you wouldn’t have added. No need to add lies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:38 PM
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Unless your friend is in a Latino community nobody believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:40 PM
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The average man is not attractive to women. They tell us this repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:40 PM
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Social skills also helps you cast a wider net. Invalidating this whole premise you guys are trying to build
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:38 PM
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This is exactly why they say don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:36 PM
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The levels of improving have always been here. You guys have just now started paying attention. This is why men push back so much whenever people say we have it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:35 PM
1

It’s heavily associated with conservatism because you guys don’t know what redpill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:21 PM
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Traditional values in the west means those associated with white Anglo Protestant Christian culture. You are putting question marks because these aren’t “ red pill values” . Like I said. You are misinformed. Red pill is specifically about teaching you why you should not seek to be a traditional man in a traditional relationship in the modern world. It teaches that the world is not a traditional place. And woman are not traditional women. And therefore you should not be a traditional man. The red…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:59 PM
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The red pill does not espouse traditional values. That’s literally why it’s called the red pill. It’s seeing through traditional values and advice and seeing the reality of sexual dynamics between men and women in the society we set up. You are incredibly misinformed on what the redpill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:33 PM
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Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:55 AM
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Nah. I would say the social standards of what makes a man attractive are preventing it. And men definitely aren’t in charge of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:59 PM
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Yeah. Ofcourse it exists. We are talking about whether or not we there’s are “ plenty of men” successfully using make up to appeal as the every day man to the every day woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:03 PM
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In a way that would make an every day man more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:45 PM
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If you were an authority on the redpill you would know these basics. Yes. The point is to have casual sex and move on. Whether it’s because he found out something he didn’t like, or because he never intended to be exclusive. You are the only one who thinks the point was to keep her. And that’s this is the result of your lack of experience. Women will have casual sex when they want to. Whether they want a relationship or not. You are the person who is foolish enough to think it’s either or.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:10 PM
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My gf does it just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:07 PM
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And the point is. That men like women who look like the “ full beat” naturally. He doesn’t like you having to put on the make up to look how someone else does naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:05 PM
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We are talking about natural make up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:59 PM
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Do you not see my flair? This isn’t redpilled at all. What you mean is that some people don’t have sex until there is exclusively. Which is way less people then you think. People have sex in the dating phase all the time. The redpill doesn’t care what someone says they are looking for. If they end up open to casual sex anyway. That’s their prerogative, not the person who wants to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:54 PM
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If this were true then men wouldn’t live alone much more then women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:44 PM
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Who does that? You go on a few dates, maybe have sex or not. And find out whether or not you would like to be exclusive. That’s the normal path of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:40 PM
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My ideal female partner wouldn’t be someone I can’t have sex with. We could probably make awesome friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:29 PM
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The blue pill is the standard mainstream advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:28 PM
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Only if the point was to lie to get sex. Which only the individual knows whether or not that’s the case . Compared to if the woman said or did something that turned him off from the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:22 PM
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There’s no reason to lie like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:21 PM
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If they are perceived to not be wearing make up it doesn’t matter if they actually were. They would prefer women who naturally look like that , even if other women have to put on make up to achieve the same look
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:19 PM
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Well, considering you can always find out you don’t want to date someone later. that’s not really a negative point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:18 PM
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I don’t know that there’s a good way to enhance masculine features with make up, but then again no one practiced to try
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:17 PM
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Because they are toxic as well. Either that or indoctrinated with toxic beliefs about their worth as a woman And wife
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:54 AM
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There’s more normal ones than toxic ones. You don’t see normal relationships complaining cause they are normal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:43 AM
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No. They just don’t care lmao. I’ve done plenty of dating regardless of my hobbies. It’s never been something that intrigued a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:32 PM
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Women have shown literally zero interest in my hobbies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:15 PM
0

You said wait. Not not have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:09 PM
0

Good. That’s what men want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:06 PM
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No they don’t. A woman would get the best if she could even if she wasn’t improved. This is just women settling when they are average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:19 PM
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This is red pill 101. This is literally why looks money status is the staple statement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:32 PM
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Because he’s exceptional at 2 of the 3 major traits that the people who seek out men are attracted to. If he’s a well known local socialite as well as successful in his business/ occupation, while her biggest show of success or status is being seen with him. Then not only is he already more appealing, her looking good next to him boosts his status even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:28 PM
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These are not the same conversations lmao. Anyway. Looks money status are all pillars of attractiveness. If he has more money and is of a higher status. He is more attractive than she is, if all she has is looks. A woman doesn’t actually care if the man is “ better than her” she just wants the best she can have out of a man regardless of her own position. She just leverages what she has to get it. The only thing that people miss about hypergamy is the worth of a stable relationship, People don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:02 PM
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Even so, you still have to know them. To know what the non physicals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:33 PM
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The qualifier is “ wrong” you don’t know who’s right or wrong until you know em
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:26 PM
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It’s the best solution . It literally saves everyone energy and money and allows her to see you for your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:28 PM
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That’s what this post is. Giving a workable solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:17 PM
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Nope. If you have less sexual interest from women. Then you have less relationship interest from women as well. The pool is always much wider for women than it is men. Whether she wants any of her options is besides the point. Most men have to put in a significant amount of time and effort before they even get considered. And that’s just not the case for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:33 PM
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She won’t be surprised about his options. She’s already been dating men of that ca the whole time. He just now entered the Running
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:11 PM
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I mean as a man, you can never out option a woman no matter how hard you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:53 PM
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All the more reason to stay male ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:39 PM
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Yes. But most of those are conflicts between people who know eachother. If you know how to conduct yourself and not pretend that you are untouchable. Those issues will find you much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:14 PM
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Never. The lack of attention and niceness is made up for by being physically imposing and generally secure in most places
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:53 PM
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Really easy. She just has to be someone I know other men want. And then she has tell me she’s exclusive and ask me to be exclusive for her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:15 AM
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So what. Unless he grabbed it. It’s not self defense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:51 AM
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It’s not self defense if it’s preemptive. That’s an attack. You are the predator
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:33 AM
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There is no way. Everyone is a protential predator. Men have the tools to be more devastating and effective predators. That’s just the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:18 AM
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Cause you said precaution. Not in defense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:05 AM
2

That would make women the creeps and perpetrators actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:56 AM
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And what does that mean? You move away from them? You avoid places where they are? As a Black man who is also treated like a criminal regardless, people move away from us and hide. Is that what you will do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:55 AM
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Yes it does. Everyone has to protect themselves. If you don’t protect yourself, you are vulnerable. You have to take precautions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:36 AM
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What does this mean? You are going to hide inside? Be my guest I suppose. Men are in the world whether a woman is afraid of them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:34 AM
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Yes. That’s kinda the point. You don’t pay for the first few dates. If things go well and you like her then you can start buying things . This is the whole red pill standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:34 PM
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Casual love is love 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:06 PM
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Interesting response…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:45 PM
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What does feel love mean? If you mean. A man will fall in love from having sex. No he won’t in most cases If you mean he will express love for someone through sex, yes if he’s in love already. If you mean feel her expression love through sex. Then yes he can feel that too. I do feel bad for women who think they can make someone fall in love through sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:39 PM
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“ men want love too, until you explain that relationships shouldn’t be seen as the cost of sex” “Then women should stop trying to exchange sex for relationships “ That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:26 AM
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Okay so then you can acknowledge that women do try to leverage sex for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:24 AM
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For the third time. I didn’t say that. You did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:23 AM
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You are skipping past the part where you acknowledge that this is a true thing that women do, and skipping to say what to do about it. And I’ll say again. I didn’t say anything about waiting for exclusivity for sex. You did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:23 AM
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So it sounds like you do get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:20 AM
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Whether or not that type of women is for me doesn’t change that it’s an intentional tactic to use sex in order to get a relationship. And I didn’t say anything about withholding sex until exclusively. That’s different entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:19 AM
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Confessing love isn’t really the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:07 AM
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All of this is a deflection from the fact that women are trying to leverage sex for relationships. That has nothing to do with what the man thinks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:06 AM
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As a man. You are whether you want to be or not. Just like ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:40 PM
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Is it not common for men to rape and murder? I would say it’s common. 1/4 women don’t have a sexual abuse story from nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:14 PM
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Who said anything about being threatened? This about willingly attaching yourself to another’s child and choosing to sacrifice for that child over any other child .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:37 PM
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Correct. I’m not describing ownership. You used those words. Parenting is just the process of responsibly bringing up a child to their adult life with the tools and guidance needed to succeed. That doesn’t change that a child that I produce will be a continuation of my ancestral lines story. Regardless of what they decided to do as an individual. Or how I feel about it. That’s not egocentric that’s matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:35 PM
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I mean that you would be choosing to spend that amount of time with their child. Not that you can detach from the child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:29 PM
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Buzzword soup. How is my blood line or my relatives about me? That’s about Me, my parents, their parents, our extended family etc. which my children will directly be a part of. Being a person of my own doesn’t change the reality that I’m a product of all who came before me. I am an extension of them. I am the result of their life’s and choices. Sounds like you have a weak interpretation of what being secure or lacking in it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:16 PM
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I said you are willing to attach yourself to a child. It’s totally optional to do that or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:11 PM
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Common everyday people. People at the grocery store store. The library, the office, the gym etc. regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:34 PM
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Common people are common. Regardless of if you’re isolated or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:31 PM
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Labeling them as good or bad is beside the point. They are people. They are women. And they operate in the way they do. Just like saying men will try to leverage money or status for sex. Obviously not every man will do that. And maybe most won’t. But enough of them do to where every woman dating will have run into a man who does. I’m not going to try to separate myself from them as the bad men. It’s just a fact that that is a commonplace amongst men whether I do it or view it poorly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:23 PM
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But you are willing to attach yourself to someone’s children because you have a good time with their parent? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:19 PM
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What does a child’s innocents have to do with me wanting to raise someone else’s? My own children are my direct blood relatives. And the direct result of my and our ancestors existence and continuance. That has nothing to do with property or ownership. Raising someone else’s child is facilitating someone else’s existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:17 PM
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As I’ve said to the others. It’s a common enough situation that anyone dating will run into someone who tries to do it regularly, has tried before, or will try it circumstantially. Which makes it a common place even if every woman doesn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:11 PM
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I guess common everyday women aren’t the best kind then. Interesting thing to say tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:05 PM
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It’s just a fact. Those women are still women. And they do it, and try to do it regardless of what men or women think of it. They exist, and they are a common place. And they are part of the whole for women. Which reinforces the point. Women aren’t a monolith. So women doing this as a commonplace doesn’t remove them from the pool of women. They are still women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:04 PM
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why would the actions of women trying to leverage their own bodies make me look bad. You want to separate yourself from women who you want to deem lesser than others. That’s just not what I’m doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:52 PM
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It’s not. It’s not obvious that this is happening to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:51 PM
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No. I’m not going to cast an extra judgement on them to try separate them from the pack. They are women. They are a large portion of women. And they are a large portion of the dating market. It just is what it is. It’s a trait that many women exhibit. Stable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:40 PM
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Common sense is common afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:39 PM
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The same one everyone else does. The general dating market with every day women and men. And even if it’s 45% of women it’s a large enough minority to make it a common place in dating. Yes. There’s an obvious difference between a women sleeping with a man because she just wants to. And one who’s using it as leverage towards an end. We are talking about the ones using it towards an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:24 PM
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Like I told the other person. I’m not going to make a statement of how many do it. I just know enough do it that anyone who’s dating women will run into it, it’s a commonplace rather than a rarity. And it’s self explanatory. A woman who leverages sex to try and : draw a man closer to her towards a a relationship Use it as leverage to attempt to maintain a relationship And even use it to try and draw someone back in they are no longer in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:21 PM
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Choose better doesn’t make women not do it. That’s a trait of ladies regardless of what men choose. And I’m just talking about women who leverage sex for relationships. You are adding the other characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:17 PM
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I’m not attempting to make an estimate about how many do it, regularly or have done it in specific situations. But I would say enough do it to where it’s a common thing that people dating will run into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:15 PM
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In the single market. The women are leveraging sex for relationships. Not sex for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:08 PM
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Yes they are. They are definitely try to use sex as leverage to gain, maintain , and even rekindle interest in a relationship with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:03 PM
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Those types of women are the women in the market. Women try and trade sex for relationships. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:59 PM
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They know how to do it to their own standard. Or how to compensate without. Women tend to not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:55 PM
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Well if relationships aren’t the cost of sex. Women should stop trying to exchange sex for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:48 PM
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You think this is false? You always expect a return on things you do for loved ones? That’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:11 PM
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Well. It’s not up to others to plan where I spend my birthday. I know some people do birthday dinners and have big celebrations and whatnot but those still tend to be coordinated by the person who’s birthday it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:03 PM
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Both. For my birthday this past year me and my gf went out of town ( b days are within the same week of each other) my friends and acquaintances and even family weren’t involved in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:56 PM
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Then they unsuccessfully did the chore of cleaning the dishes. And that’s what the issue is. They couldn’t be bothered to do a thorough job. Their way or any way regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:55 PM
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I would rather someone not do this. As a grown adult I likely have plans and things to do for my birthday. A message if you aren’t directly involved in them is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:53 PM
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No they shouldn’t the person who does the task should do it their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:51 PM
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They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:50 PM
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Its so common that half the the time you don’t have to ask, she will ask or tell herself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:26 PM
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Exactly. Relationship and sexual history are in the same hand . It’s normal like I said. And you will be able to find out these kinds of things in these conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:50 PM
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Yes. I rejected her premise as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:49 PM
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“ oh i I’ve just had a few hook ups here and there, nothing to serious “ “Oh I’ve just just had a fwb for a while, but we haven’t ( been speaking recently: seen each other in a while: I wanted to move on from this, etc) “ oh I’ve just recently left a relationship for, whatever reason “ “ I started seeing my ex again, didn’t go anywhere” There’s all kind of ways that lead into these discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:47 PM
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Yeah me neither, you are the one who said anything about an exact time of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:42 PM
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Not when they were intimate it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:41 PM
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I don’t think anything about what you said. That’s not how conversations go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:33 PM
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Sure. She might bring it up casually. She might ask me a question that sparks my recall of something similar, it’s all in casual conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:32 PM
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Conversely, something like 80% of dates I’ve been on, by date three women are casually talking about other men they have seen / dated briefly or long term. It’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:04 PM
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It’s not my intention if she’s the one who brought up the conversation. You are just outside of the social norm on this one. That’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:52 PM
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Eh. Social awareness is contextual. And boundaries are personal. If it makes you squirm personally to speak about your sexual past that tends to be a minority position in the context of dating . Women will bring up their own experiences on a date. You don’t have to have a narrative of force
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:38 PM
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Whether or not I’ve had a hook up, how many, or when isn’t a fine detail of my sexual history. People , especially people who have done these things before, tend to be fine casually taking about having a hook up. Especially as we get older,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:31 PM
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Interrogate is your word. I said talk. As in casual conversation. People tend to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:20 PM
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Well that’s unusual lol. People talk about those things expecially when they have a history. It would be strange for someone not to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:20 PM
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You don’t talk about your past sexual experience with people your dating? That’s a pretty normal occurrence…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:09 PM
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I mean, you would expect someone who plans to be in a a relationship with me to tell me something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:50 PM
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The average woman is working class and living check to check. Just like the average man. This is such delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:05 AM
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I’m 30. Unless your selling a premium product, building a self advertisement on a dating site isn’t going to be better then meeting someone in person. They will have reason to remember you and be emotionally touched by you irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:04 PM
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This is a weird post. If creeping women out is your issue that should be personal. If other men creeping a woman out is now my issue due to prejudice. Then I just find that woman to be a little dumb and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:14 PM
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I mean. We all know someone who’s going to commit some kind of crime eventually or has already the longer you live. Kinda how living in a society works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:27 PM
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Pretty sure the default is to not do only fans lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:18 PM
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Average is also an insult You just went to a place ethn a different mid point is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:40 PM
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As a member of the generation that founded the term. It means mediocre. Chopped means ugly. Mid means average. People think average is synonymous with ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:00 PM
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Yes mid and average are synonymous. There is no male equivalent that is also average to cleavage. You can be tall. Not average You can have abs or big arms. Not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:19 AM
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Yes we are? Most people are born average actually. That’s kinda why it’s the average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:13 AM
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Yeah. Then they aren’t mid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:04 AM
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Yeah? Hypergamy is about picking a mate of a higher social class. Not being cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:47 PM
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Ofcourse it is. Why would you hear what a minority of people think as the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:02 PM
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Yeah. What does that have to do with knowing how women feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:54 PM
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And I’m saying other men don’t. And statistics back it up. So unless you’re highlighting a minority of people. It’s a useless statement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:54 PM
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Why? It is virtuous to have a woman who isn’t hypergamous .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:35 PM
1

It doesn’t change my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:34 PM
1

Are you refuting that men and women date within their social classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:33 PM
1

I don’t think that. I think for each individual woman. She’s not going to fuck the vas majority of men. Doesn’t mean the same men. But she won’t fuck most of them . So that’s why men find value in being fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:30 PM
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Nope. But it is a dynamic that reflects the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:18 PM
1

Majority of people aren’t in athletics. College or a frat. These are control groups you are referencing from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:14 PM
1

Even if they do this. It’s not the vas majority of groups of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:59 PM
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You date who you want. Or who you can. If you can date a man of the same economic background do it. A lot of men rather leverage their income for looks rather than dating someone because they are in the same tax bracket though. Or you can also leverage your income for looks. And just put up with whatever insecurities arise from the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:04 PM
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More like men cannot be hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:00 PM
2

Men do care about women’s jobs. Most people marry within the same social class. Interests not so much. Politics. I mean. That should be obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:53 PM
1

Why would men go to places with hot women to ask them what they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:50 PM
2

More success? There’s only mid success for mid men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:47 PM
1

Chance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:44 PM
5

No one is going to get flustered at the fact that a man can’t get laid . It’s an insult that means the same thing from both genders. For some reason , you can’t get laid, which makes you inadequate. That’s the joke / insult. A direct movement of men trying to show how happy they are despite sex will be labeled by broader society as such. Not showing broader society that you can thrive without it. This isn’t a drug we are talking about Mature and respectable. Though I recognize it doesn’t really …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:25 AM
8

How would the specific group that is disgruntled by this problem do something about the mass narrative outside of joining the “ ingroup”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:09 PM
9

What incentive does anyone have to do that though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:03 PM
1

25-40
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:51 PM
1

And whenever she consents. It’s not for 95% of men. So op is right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:45 PM
2

That’s not twisted and gross. It’s literally how consent works. He just uses bad words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:10 AM
1

Besides the point. Whether is a date, sex. Or marriage.men place value on it because of the difficulty of getting any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:17 AM
-1

So ops logic is sound. “ ultimate form of investment” is just hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:22 AM
1

Yeah. They are going through life with different women who wouldn’t sleep with majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:20 AM
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Even if it’s a large multiple of the amount you would try life with. It’s still a monsterably small number. the difference is like .05% of men compared to 5% of all men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:10 AM
2

It’s true? I mean the vast majority of men are not your preference for one reason or another whether it’s politics, race, religion, height, nationality, etc. whatever qualifiers. You walk past 100s of people a day you wouldn’t sleep with .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:05 AM
11

It’s not an exaggeration. Any given woman wouldn’t sleep with a good 95% of the human population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:20 PM
13

No matter what perimeter your set you wouldn’t sleep with or marry majority of men on earth. Like a good 95% of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:18 PM
4

Even if civilization denigrated. There’s all kinds of wonders to this world. Humans lived for 100s of thousands of years before civilization got jeee
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:54 AM
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It’s only insufferable because you are so literal that you can’t hold regular conversations with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:32 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:44 PM
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I don’t care about a specific number. More about how you conduct yourself and value your time. Women who are productive and have higher self esteem simply don’t rack up that many bodies even if they like going out and casually meeting people. Edit: also a body count of 5 at 26 can actually be interpreted as low or average depending who you ask. It’s totally possible someone lost their virginity at 19-20. Slept with 1-2 people and then got into a long term relationship. Left that relationship at …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:34 PM
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Duh. If you are going to pick one person to spend your life with. You want the best partner. And women want to feel like the man who approached them thinks that she is the best partner. How could this possibly be a problem lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:32 PM
3

She didn’t. I’m better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:27 AM
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Look into WASP culture. You will likely find what you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:09 PM
4

Why shouldn’t we
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:39 PM
1

You can try. But they will just clown you for how unmasculine that is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:27 AM
1

Yeah. And that’s nature. Doesn’t really change the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:59 PM
2

. Idk why yall always miss this. Obviously embracing who and what you are is seen as masculine by men. And being naturally attractive is masculine to men as well. Plastic surgery is not embracing who you are and being confident. So they call it feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:51 PM
2

How is observing how men behave and reacting to it, being put in a bind by women? They are just highlighting a leverage they have over us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:49 PM
1

So why am I proving something to you that we all already believe to be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:17 PM
1

I mean. Do you disagree with op?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:14 PM
2

The proof is in the premise. Theres a difference between men and women on this subject. We all already know this. It’s obvious that women care less about the promiscuity of men than men do about women. We are all individuals who decide how to judge others ourselves. What we are discussing is an average of people’s judgement together. Not an objective judgement. It’s not morally incorrect for men to feel that way. I do agree that is ungrounded and unjustified feeling. And the historical actions m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:10 PM
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That’s not how it works. Women don’t care to the same level that men do. If they cared in mass. Then it would be the same treatment from both directions. The men care more. Anything about biology and being different is just a cope for their jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:01 PM
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What do you mean justification. It’s not like their feelings are up for debate. that’s what there is to understand. The men are jealous. And so they do all the things that are associated with disparaging women. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:59 PM
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I didn’t respond to the op. I responded to your point. The answer for ops question is different. Men are jealous . That’s it. They don’t want to be compared to other men, and they don’t want to be second choice or second best. That’s the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:55 PM
3

No one said it was good. Or even moral. Men just want to be able to do that. There’s nothing more to it then that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:51 PM
3

You think this is how people praise things? Lmao they literally just think it’s hard and so they praise it. It’s not complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:43 PM
1

What’s the normal measure then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:38 PM
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Praised by who? If by men. It’s for the simple fact that it’s hard for men to get laid. So men admire men who can do it easily. Pretty simple. Women don’t exactly praise men for sleeping around. But they will excuse it for other qualities. It’s not up to men to make women have promiscuity be a standard that women pick against. They don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:46 PM
1

The conversation doesn’t collapse. It’s not my job to not be a slut for my future partner. It’s her job to select for what she wants out of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:44 PM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:11 PM
1

My upvotes say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:04 PM
-1

You definitely need a partner to be violent towards them. It’s not refutable lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:59 PM
-1

Yeah. And so is domestic violence and actually having a partner to perform it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:29 PM
-1

Yeah I heard myself. Trying to understand how this is an equivalence to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:10 AM
1

Who knows how likely they are. They have no women to beats
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:37 AM
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Sounds childish if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:33 PM
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Sure. But even if you can bring yourself from being a 3 to a 6, that’s way better then staying a 3 for your personal life outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:08 PM
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The best the average man can be is definitely enough for western women. Most of us men are just accepting being average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:39 PM
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No. Never was blue pilled. Just got a name for my observations when I started seeing things I already confirmed in my mind online. Not black pilled either though, black pill is just a cope for complacency. You just have to be the best you can, and that’s enough for the vas majority of people on earth. Especially since most people don’t care to be the best they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:05 PM
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Kinda hard to beat a woman with no woman around to beat. Just because a man doesn’t have a woman. Doesn’t mean he wouldn’t beat her if he did have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:40 PM
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Yes they are. The definition of what a man even is has changed multiple times historically to excluded, ethnic groups of males, certain religious groups of males, land ownership/ non ownership, slave/ non slave. Etc. A reductionist take of gendered oppression will never lead to a critical understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:39 PM
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Ofcourse they will. We live in a hierarchy. Individual men are oppressed by higher powered individuals, male and female , every day in various ways. That’s just a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:22 PM
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Sometimes they do. Most don’t. But even if most don’t think it’s strictly platonic, it doesn’t mean they want any further advancements then what they are doing. Some girls like to flirt and feel the attention of attraction and that be all they wanted .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:05 PM
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Yeah. Being in a good relationship is better. But it’s not a measure of how attractive you are. Which is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:13 PM
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No one ever said if would be easy to find one. That’s why you only get one. Out of billions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:30 PM
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If you are a family oriented man. Then it’s worth it. End of story
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:38 PM
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You would have been better off saying different individuals say different things. Saying that people are hearing things is just straight up lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:16 PM
1

No. It doesn’t work that way. Most redpill men are actually using it to date just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:38 PM
2

They didn’t get married because they were balding and fat. They got married when they had hair and were fit. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:55 PM
2

Why would you be in a position to be her best option? Are you staying in contact with women who rejected you in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:55 AM
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You find it fishy because you don’t live in reality. If you’re not a simp. She’s not coming back to you, she’s going to a simp. That’s kind of the point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:33 AM
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It’s important to live in reality my man . Men want women at all their ages. The only difference is there’s an age where most men want them at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:59 AM
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My original comment says why do you think that women who rejected you long ago would want you now. If nothing has changed for you. She won’t. You aren’t even her only beta option ,she’s going with a simp. Not going to ask you if you aren’t simping. If you have become more attractive, you should be too busy with your women who like you to even be talking to her. Case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:45 AM
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Why are you talking to women who” come back” there’s new women every day. If your attractive you should already have women you are seeing by the time she “comes back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:20 AM
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He became more attractive in adulthood. That’s obvious. Even for redpilled men, you have 5-6 years in the gym, cash flow, stable living situation , by 28 you are much more attractive then you were at 20. Especially for those of us that didn’t actually look like men until later
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:19 AM
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You are the only one talking about simping . The whole point is you aren’t supposed to concern yourself with women who turned you down before. Hypothetically or not. You are only supposed to to concern yourself with women who want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:36 PM
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She’s not desperate like I said earlier. She still has access to to plenty of financially stable men who will be the safe option. Even in that game there’s options. It’s not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:33 PM
0

Worlds a complicated place for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:40 PM
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I’m saying that obviously their mom wasn’t done dating just because she reached her thirties/ 40s, gained some weight, or even had a few kids. The evidence is reflected directly in half of this subs lives with their parents lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:39 PM
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If you live by your own standards , and have women around you who reflect that, then you wouldn’t be a simp… you would be dating women who like you the first time…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:37 PM
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Yeah. But think about it a little more. If you make enough money, to where a woman would date you despite being unattracted to you for that security. Then you should most definitely be in a social class or atleast amongst other women who are attracted to you to you the first time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:36 PM
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Whole subreddit filled with people who had moms with multiple boyfriends and stepdads. We become adults and all the sudden that wasn’t real? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:34 PM
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It doesn’t matter what a woman’s negotiating terms are. That’s the point. It’s not up to you whether or not you meet some arbitrary standard of hers. You live your life in the way you want. Setting your own standards for yourself and those you keep around you. And there will be women for you on your terms. The whole point of redpill is to live on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:16 PM
2

And if you are simping like that, obviously you haven’t really improved yourself to the point that other women take an interest in you. That’s the problem that needs to be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:04 PM
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If both you and said woman make it to 40 and single. Everyone from 18-70 is still going to try to talk to her. It doesn’t just go away. The main thing that changes is men looking more like men , and usually having more to offer by 40 then we do at 20
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:02 PM
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No. I meant what I said. If you were some average guy. We all know women on average aren’t interested. If you got older. And became above average over time. Then you are now in a better position. Where women you meet will view you like she used to view the other guys. So there’s no point in thinking about her. We can slander women for being valued for her looks all we want, but we as men are the ones doing that. And at the end of the day. If a man really does pick her and take care of her, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:56 PM
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Self respecting would be you not thinking about a woman who wasn’t interested in you some time ago. She’s not interested in you now either. Other women are. ( if you really did improve that much) If she’s settling for you that hard. That means you likely still begged her to do it. She didn’t treat you in a way that would make you want to marry her. This is all a fantasy cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:42 PM
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A woman’s options never truly run out. Especially not compared to an average man. At every stage of her life someone will be trying to do something with her. She she would even more then one “ lap dog “ to chose from. Most people don’t get the person they Realllllly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:36 PM
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She thinks you are unattractive. She wants to settle down with men who are attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:20 PM
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You wouldn’t. Because she didn’t want you then. And she won’t want you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:19 PM
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Nah they said this person who specifically over looked you prior. So this can’t be a stranger. Otherwise there’s no point in holding a grudge over women who literally didn’t know you in other phases of your life, just like we wouldn’t like for her to hold grudges against us for other phases of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:12 PM
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I figure if you go on to be extremely successful in life then this person wouldn’t even be in the same social circles as you at that point. With all the properties you now have it’s not even worth thinking about some girl from a time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:07 PM
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Why do you think this person would want to marry you after some time passing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:01 PM
0

Nope. The women are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:17 PM
3

Most people I know are feminists. Most people in the country are not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:35 AM
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I guess most people are dumb then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:59 AM
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Who said that? If misogyny = violence, then most people aren’t misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:58 AM
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I guess the dumb ones care about men’s rights huh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:54 AM
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Sure. Most people aren’t feminists though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:48 AM
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Yes. What you said is right here on record. As well as you being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:40 AM
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I didn’t make up anything. It’s what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:36 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:34 AM
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I meant isn’t misandry. But that’s not advocacy really is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:24 AM
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You pretending you have to say the word directly in order for the context to be met is how you’re being obtuse. Which is also why you are asking to be directly quoting knowing exactly what you were discussing. If violent crimes against women is what you use as your metric for misogyny. Then very few men are misogynists according to your metrics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:07 AM
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That’s literally the topic at hand and what you were discussing with your statement. If you would like to be obtuse about your own words that’s on you .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:04 AM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:01 AM
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It's directly relevant Please provide these examples of all these men who raped and killed and abused women, directly and exclusively because of some woman's "misandry" "Misandry" doesn't cause men to do any of those things. Men do those things because they want to and can
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:58 PM
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Advocacy Isn’t misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:36 PM
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The metric for who’s a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:34 PM
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If this is your metric then the vast majority of men aren’t misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:59 PM
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15 years ago this statement would have been insane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:05 PM
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Using a woman is besides the point . A man can approach you and use you. And men don’t care whether you are loose or not, if he doesn’t like you, and is a user, he will use you. Approaching has nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:44 PM
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Women who guys want approach and get what they want. Make sure you preface it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:32 PM
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Besides when women approach and men get approached. You can never black and white the world the way you want. That’s to bad that you are fighting for a false reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:20 PM
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All your doing is trying to justify women’s lack of action. It’s kinda sad. Women don’t approach cause what will men think 😱😱😱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:00 PM
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So you are being a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:26 PM
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Oh man I don’t havee any pain from that I’ve had plenty of love and relationships since then, but it definitely effected my teen years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:23 PM
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I’m 29. I still remember the look on this kids face when that happened to me in 4th grade 💀💀 talk about messing up your self image
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:18 PM
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Nah after the first no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:59 PM
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Because women can be actively hostile when expressing their disinterest lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:05 PM
1

You don’t need an excuse. There’s a place right here for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:37 PM
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Why? All media includes this media. Why can’t there be a discussion about this media
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:52 PM
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I mean , what does finding this out change?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:23 PM
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Just saying anything lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:18 PM
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Yes. Pretty women get princess treatment, regardless of if they are stuck up. Being stuck up isn’t what gets them princess treatment. It’s being pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:14 PM
2

It was probably 7 inches long
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:42 PM
1

No if doesn’t. Why are yall lying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:26 PM
0

Lust is a normal human function. Suppressing it in that way is what’s unhealthy .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:05 PM
1

The way that I would never commit to anyone if this was a social norm 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:02 PM
1

Obviously there’s a disconnect between women saying this and men having high body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:21 PM
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I don’t even get what yall mean when yall say open up. Are you tell us to tell women how we feel about them? Or are you telling us to tell them about the negativity in our lives that shaped us? I’m not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:53 PM
1

Who told you that? Men couldn’t get high body counts if it weren’t for women being willing to give it to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:23 AM
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Exactly! So that one woman can decide whether or not I fit the bill for her. And it’s her bill to decide. Just like I can decide whether she fits the bill for me! And that includes body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:20 AM
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It doesn’t matter what most woman want. It only matters what woman want me. I will never appeal to most women regardless of body count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:57 PM
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Not you saying you can’t comprehend standards being different for different people? 😭 that’s exactly why I responded to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:13 PM
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That’s the answer . It’s different because it’s not up to me to decide what a woman’s standards are. I am myself. And I either fit her standards or I don’t. That has nothing to do with my own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 PM
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It’s not for me to judge myself. It’s for her to judge whether or not she would be with me. I am who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:46 PM
1

Nope. Not more then me maybe half as much as me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:52 PM
0

Yeah. During my casual phase ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 AM
2

What do you believe it means for it to be gendered. This doesn’t mean that it’s a gendered issue to me. It means that it happens for different reasons to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:36 PM
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Yes. Stronger than most women. But not then most men. The biggest threat to all of us as humans are bigger and stronger men. Even to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:24 PM
1

So then we should have the same avoidant styles. There are men on this subreddit who are 5’6 130 pounds. They’re flight or flight should always be in flight mode
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:12 PM
3

Then why don’t men have it? It’s not like we are much more safe from eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:49 PM
2

I said what I meant . Cyber bullying isn’t proof of women’s hardship over men. Cyber bullying isn’t gendered. And we are all possible victims of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:47 PM
2

No . No I didn’t. I used none of those words
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:25 PM
1

Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:53 AM
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Well. I could explain horrible things that happened to me as a male. But I’m just an individual. Just because you had an experience yourself doesn’t make it a woman’s issue cyber bullying isn’t a woman’s issue. Being sexually abused largely is though. I’m not sure why you particularly just want the things that happened to people in their teens to just go away though. Isn’t that the point of the prompt? To discuss times these things happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:35 AM
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You got cyber bullied? That’s what showed you women have it harder? I mean people live individual lives of varying difficulty but cyber bullying isn’t what I would consider proof of women’s hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:20 AM
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Things that happen in formative years affect how people navigate life. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:42 AM
0

I’ll always show empathy to those who have been manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:28 AM
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He didn’t say anything about offering services. He said they treated him well so that that he would do their homework. That’s a request. Not an offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:47 AM
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Yes. I not going to tell a woman. “ I’m sorry but if you feel for it, that’s on you” when she’s manipulated into sex. Especially not when the topic is times that men treated them horribly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:45 AM
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I thought the post was about women treating people horribly. Not who fell for manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:40 AM
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Yada yada yada “ women please be humble and see us” Anyway. I don’t think women are more beautiful than men on average. A 5 out of 10 woman is matched to a 5 out of 10 man even if she’s got make up and a low cut shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:01 PM
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No. Conservatives just tried to co op it and make it about marriageable women, sleeping around is the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:05 PM
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Yes. That’s the point. Creating negative connotations around men who are virgins is bad. Regardless if they were an asshole first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:20 PM
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What does being an asshole have to do with shaming someone for their sexual experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:13 PM
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Why are you lying? You know the average woman puts in an average amount of effort. Why are you pretending they out do men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:42 AM
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Enough to make a significant difference in the conversation but not a majority. Anything from 20-40%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:50 PM
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I said plenty specifically so that you couldn’t that I said say most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:17 PM
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What do you mean how does it work? Plenty of people are still single by 30, plenty of people settled by 30, and plenty of people cheat/ have non monogamous arrangements. Marriage and cohabitation barely has any grounding as a deflection for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:07 PM
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I don’t expect women to do anything. This is a conversation about how women will be in rotation rather than not. Exactly. There aren’t enough attractive men on earth. So plenty of women would rather been in attractive men’s rotations then be with a regular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:55 PM
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What does that mean? Their choices are regular choices . Uglier people having less bargaining power is the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:53 PM
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No I wouldn’t. But I’m also not willing to be in a rotation. Plenty of women are though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:49 PM
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What should there be smoke for the men in a conversation about women rather being in rotation then dating a ugly guy she can have to herself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:40 PM
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What is there to reflect on? Being ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:39 PM
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Yeah slump busters are real. Men who are okay with casual sex with have sex with someone unappealing if they haven’t had sex for Long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:08 PM
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I’m a man. And dating apps have been successful for me yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:21 PM
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Yo gotti
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:03 PM
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No it’s not. Men coined the term and men do the overwhelming majority of of dm sliding. It’s just to hit on someone in their inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:44 PM
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So what. Let them make money on their own from those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:14 PM
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This is not what sliding into someone’s dms is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:10 PM
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I don’t know why people think we can’t tell if you have slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:34 PM
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Do they know what you meant. Here on Reddit? You just said a 21 year old from the ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:47 PM
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Like I said. My girlfriend is from the ghetto. Her parents also scraped it out of the mud to put her in the suburbs in middle and highschool and she has a degree now just like me. “ from the ghetto” is such a bad way to view people. But I hear you man. Poor women don’t deserve nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:41 PM
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Yep. As a black man with dreadlocks and tattoos. I’m seen as a ghetto hoodrat myself even though I’m from the suburbs. I’ll let others chase “ sophistication”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:30 PM
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Learning today that poor women don’t deserve to be wined and dined. My girlfriend is from the ghetto. If that answers the question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:42 PM
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Af/bb is about a woman having a a slutty early life / having a child out of wedlock, and then having a a beta guy o pay to commit to her/ raise the kid. Not just a woman having more experience then the man she’s dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:03 PM
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I think he’s saying that men’s lack of access to social status is decreasing our testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:07 PM
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Definitely a cop out. Most people under 30 haven’t married anyone yet. But it’s more significant for a redpiller some how. It’s a cop out. Welp. THATS to bad. The redpill is what it is. And you saying it’s something else. Doesn’t matter. It’s just uninformed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:02 PM
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Cop out Just because someone says they make “ red pill content” doesn’t mean they are a spokes person for the redpill. People like to argue about discussions that aren’t redpill in the first place. Just like this original post. Sister
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:50 PM
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I’m a redpill man with a long term relationship headed towards marriage. So I guess that logic is debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:32 PM
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What do you mean those are the woman that redpill men want to be with. No where did you say redpill men want to commit their life to, or raise their family with sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:06 PM
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Not really. It just says if we find similar things funny. I don’t even have friendships just cause I think they are funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:46 AM
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Never really thought about how funny a girl is when I decided if I like her or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:40 AM
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It does to me. As a man this prompt isn’t to comment on someone else’s life. It’s a question toward men. which I am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:34 AM
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Ah. So then it’s not that important as the relationship likely isn’t that serious. They are just seeing each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:24 AM
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If we live together then the bills our ours not mine. That means we can’t afford it .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:20 AM
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No this says he can’t afford it, not that “ they aren’t going it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:16 AM
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This isn’t about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:21 PM
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This makes zero sense lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:14 PM
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Do you dis like that women in causal relationships can do what they want? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:09 PM
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If they live together then they are either roommates or partners, If they don’t live together. It’s not a serious relationship anyway. She does what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:57 PM
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They don’t live together. The prompt says she has a better place than the man. But if they live together, and they pay the same bills together. It does not make sense that she can afford something that he cant. And would leave for a solo trip for that reason specifically. That’s not very serious relationship of them. ( putting myself in the shoes of the man since that’s the prompt)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:15 PM
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You also know men who agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:38 PM
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“ how she choses to spend her money is her business” Partnered on housing (money) children( money) life goals (money) travel (money) hobbies (money)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:38 PM
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It is a q4men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:34 PM
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Like what? Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:34 PM
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Sure it does
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 PM
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What exactly are we partnered on then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 PM
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How can she afford something that he can’t? They are together?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:00 PM
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That’s not a solo trip. You are going on a family trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:35 PM
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What exactly are you arguing to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:28 PM
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This just reads as a lack of context. Most people are struggling financially. One of the biggest indicators of someone reaching the middle class is marrying or partnering up. Some people achieve this without partnering. That’s not the norm. So a study about people who aren’t the norm, being able to plan out intricacies of marriage, going to therapy, etc. that’s not normal. Ofcourse they will have a higher success rate. Cause one, there is less of them doing it, 2. They have more financial securi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:59 PM
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So. With the general rule of think. If they haven’t even decided to take on this testing phase, why would we assume they are more serious? Your situation is an obvious outlier .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:22 PM
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Well in that case it’s probably not that serious of a relationship then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah. Generally in the west not being cohabitated or married pretty much means it’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:47 PM
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Oh it does say lives separate. Yeah who cares. The relationship isn’t that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:46 PM
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Yes. That’s not the norm. That’s personal .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:42 PM
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Why? Who’s dating a girl who works at Wendy’s and even quits that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:32 PM
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You didn’t say that in the initial promp. If they aren’t married or cohabitating that changes everyone’s perspective that you are getting here. If finances are completely separate then it’s just a woman you are seeing, and she can do whatever she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:31 PM
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Generally people cohabitate when they are in serious relationships. If they don’t live together, aren’t married, and aren’t engaged. Then the relationship is likely to less then a year or 2 old. And therefore not that serious in the first place. If they don’t live together then it doesn’t matter if she goes on a trip. That’s her business
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:29 PM
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How can she afford something that he cannot if they are together? Don’t they have the same bills? If they are in the same life situation and he can’t afford something, that means she’s going to spend money unnecessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:17 PM
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How can he not afford it, but she can? Do they not live together? If they don’t share bills together then the relationship isn’t that serious anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:15 PM
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You keep neglecting the part about having a partner. You think that she is supposed to go on this trip and spend a boat load of money that we can’t afford. And then come back home to the man. That’s not a synced up relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:13 PM
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Is he supposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:11 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:10 PM
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Would you like the word preference instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:18 PM
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Average face any day. The average women’s face is pretty attractive anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:10 PM
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You wouldn’t get tired of it if it was innate to be that way. That’s the point your missing. You wouldn’t be able to just give away your pro ness to violence because it’s inate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:31 PM
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The only reason I’ve had a life time of being socialized that way is because of group collaboration to suppress people that are that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:27 PM
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Kinda like when your a kid at like a hotel, and there’s another kid of vaguely the same age running around the hotel as well. And you get a crush not because they are spectacular, but really just because they are around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:11 PM
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That’s not how that works. The girl next door is just about a cute familiar person that you see often 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:08 PM
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Those things stop certain people. Not all of us. That’s my point. I have no desire to take these things from people. Others do. It’s not “inate” in all of us. Or else the police would literally be doing the taking themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:05 PM
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The only reason anyone is fighting over territory and resources is because a certain group wants dominion over it. We literally don’t have to do that currently so we literally don’t. There’s no threat to someone taking my groceries or taking my apartment. It’s literally about the lack of threat. It’s a certain mindset that wants to violate others to take control of resources. And that’s not just what everyone does. If that was the case there would be no society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:00 PM
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You aren’t getting it. You won’t see everyone being consistently violent. You will see groups of people who gather together to perform violence on other groups. And then other people come to defend themselves with violence. There is a clear difference there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:41 PM
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That’s backwards. the blue pill is the status quo and the current dating system. The redpill is an observation of the blue pill. And the black pill is just the red pill without action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:38 PM
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Wouldn’t ethnicity do that better. More specific variable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:29 PM
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No. It’s the nature of greed. Everyone isn’t default violent. We aren’t all seeming with violence that’s being suppressed every day. That’s why majority of people aren’t conquers and warriors. Defending yourself doesn’t make you inherently violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:26 PM
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Why is that 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:16 PM
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Laws and punishment are not what keeps me and plenty of us from going on violent rampages. A part of masculinity thay isn’t talked about so much is the ability to understand the potential you have to cause destruction and chaos, and using that power to care for, secure, and protect things and people you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:16 PM
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Also I would go so far as to say that masculinity is another form of conformity that excludes men from true fulfillment of their identity based on their ability to perform masculinity. But the redpillers say I’m not redpilled when I say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:12 PM
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The easiest way to describe is to ask an average man who is more powerful. Himself or someone like Hilary Clinton. You would have to be disingenuous in order to say that by virtue of being male, you have a higher socioeconomic status then Hilary Clinton .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:05 PM
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My explanation was simply that the owning class, the “ rules” would definitely feed other men to the wolves because we aren’t all viewed as equals. That’s even recognizable by the statement that women are intrinsically valuable, but men have to provide utility or usefulness to be valuable. Valuable to who is the question. Feminists are identifying a problem, but attributing it to all men. In other words they are being bigots
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:30 PM
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Completely relevant. “ males ruling” doesn’t mean “ men are in charge. It means a certain group of men were in charge. Most males didn’t own human beings or land. And as a black man ( for americas sake) we definitely weren’t owning anyone’s land or people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:20 PM
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Because “ men” isn’t the ruling group of the patriarchy. Only the top men are. As defined by early forms of politics. “ men” were property owning males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:39 PM
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Sharing flats is part of the statistic. Most Americans aren’t saving any money. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:41 PM
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No 60% of the country is living pay check to paycheck. It’s just more likely that you are if you live on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:39 PM
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62 percent of the country. That’s who.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 PM
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Majority of people in this country do not have that money. Especially if they live on their own. The average men who are complaining about the disinterest from women are also most likely living pay check to pay check. That’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:23 PM
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Sure. If going to Vietnam and bringing a woman from a foreign country wasn’t a massive pay wall for the average American I would hear you . But still, flying across the world is entirely going out of your way in the most literal sense compared to setting up tinder and swiping
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:17 PM
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Being approached by atleast one guy is not an invalidation of the top women taking most of the approaches…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:25 PM
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So what? That doesn’t mean the concentration of approaches from men isn’t at the top 20% of women. The only difference is that more men approach generally then women. They are still approaching the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah . A minority of people get approached . Women already approach a small amount of women, and men all approach the same women anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:05 PM
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Facebook does it for you in one click. Do you really consider if “ out of your way” compared to flying abroad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:04 PM
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No. Shame more men for making take’s like this one 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:50 PM
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Ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:39 AM
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Na I’m right here. It’s just over lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:37 AM
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“Oh I'm well aware that red pillers overlap quite a bit with other extremist and hate groups. That doesn't change the fact that red pill is in fact a hateful ideology itself.” Since you have decided you won’t define anything you consider hateful . I’ll just go ahead and decide that you have nothing to stand on here. “And, among several of them, they also have red pill beliefs as their motive.” Whatever that means "Because I said so" is not a rebuttal.” Funny. That’s all you have done since respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:29 AM
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Yes . Who even is that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:17 AM
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No lmfaooo idc how good they looked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:08 AM
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So now you are just saying anything. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:07 AM
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What does who wrote it have to do with the premise of what is being relayed in that scene? He takes the pill. And they tell him the world doesn’t work the way he thinks it does. that’s not a call to action. That’s not a social movement. It’s just showing him the truth. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:02 AM
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Yes. It’s call intersectionality. The thing that all these people have in common is that they are men. That’s it. You are trying to draw a correlation between redpill that doesn’t exist. Not anymore then any other demographic of men and their mass violence escapades. And that doesn’t matter anyway. Because that doesn’t prove misangry or misogyny in red-pill anyway. No I don’t have to prove why the redpill is misogyny or misandry. Because you are the one who accused it of being so. With no eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:52 PM
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In the movie. Did neo taking the pill make him take any action. Or did he himself take action because of the redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:44 PM
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Stay on line. Trp is not a social movement. It doesn’t do a thing. There is no call to action. There is no agenda, there is no sop. It’s none of these things, I would argue that the way dating conversations are going. Word has spread and generally men use redpill/ black pill terms now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:34 PM
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“Red pillers have gone on multiple shooting rampages Lmao” racists, anarchists, fascists, homophobes, and random men with no particular foreseeable reason cause mass violence. It’s almost like the cause of disaffected males turning to ultimate evils in a last ditch effort of inflicting their beliefs on the world is a a human phenomenon that we haven’t figured out yet. This isn’t a trait of the red pill. Men who have never even had a dating issue have taken their entire families and themselves ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:33 PM
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It’s not supposed to. Red pill is Not a social movement itself. the redpill is not a call to action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:58 PM
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It was your argument that is is… Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:53 PM
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Okay. So I don’t agree that the redpill is a misogynistic and misandrist ideology. So that’s not a start. That assumes that be believe the same thing. So. We have to start with the red pilled being misogynistic or misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:39 PM
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The conversation is easily sidetrack-able. I can literally just say “ not I” You are the one who came to me with these accusations. My arguments aren’t bad faith because I didnt make any, you did lol. Since your keen let’s do it. A specific argument . What is something specifically red-pilled that is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:32 PM
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I am also a meat head. Been lifting since 14, but I’m also specifically educated on social studies enough to understand that dating dynamics are a reflection of larger social movements and phenomena. Buzz words are still words that have meanings,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:29 PM
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No. You just have a horrible lack of reading comprehension skills. Either that or your trolling lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:21 PM
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Not you doing literally the same thing on another post 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:17 PM
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Let’s go with that one if it makes you feel like you have an argument to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:03 PM
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Duh. I’m not on the defensive here. Not only am I not a misogynist. But I’m also a “ social justice worrior “ in my politics. You just don’t understand the space. So your comments don’t need to be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:00 PM
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Lmao if you don’t care then just don’t care bother . Don’t pretend to be talking against something that you don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:52 PM
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Actually for the last 6 or so years. The redpill has grown substantially as public knowledge precisely because of the research and publications of sociology and psychology professionals on the subject of disaffected men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:47 PM
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“But you already said. Attraction. So that’s a one step process that requires ZERO pills.” Everything after that is just bullishit.” Didn’t you harp on rp for not taking social studies classes? Anyone who has ( I have a degree in sociology remember) knows that a word like attraction means nothing without being contextualized, compared. And defined. “Hence RP is just circlejerking” Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:37 PM
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If you aren’t getting laid. Isn’t the first step to identify what gets people laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:06 PM
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No. You claimed it wasn’t about that. I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:03 PM
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It is. In regards to dating specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:58 PM
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To reveal the entire social hierarchy to people and show them what traits and characteristics people higher up on the hierarchy have. And talk about ways to attain those traits and characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:54 PM
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If not. Then the social hierarchy is what it is. It’s not changing. If you are someone who is extremely inconsistent with the social hierarchy, then there’s only so much you can to towards being higher on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:50 PM
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Are you a revolutionary?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:41 PM
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What do you mean they haven’t? It’s literally my life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:33 PM
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“So the RP doesn’t actually make any happen? You just know stuff.” Yes. This is a forum. No forum makes anything happen. This is just information on the internet… “Way to admit that the RP is pretty much useless, I guess.” Information being useless is a weird thing to say “Guys- the RP isn’t actually about getting laid” Then there is no reason for it. Literally proving the statement “The only thing the RP has done after 10 year is get perpetually online dudes to talk about the RP” It’s not about…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:25 PM
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“Because that’s what dudes are literally saying. It WILl make you HVM if you do it. IT will get you the ability to “alpha/mog/hold frame”. It WILL allow you too spin plates, get laid, be the MAN.” Who told you that. The red pill doesn’t make you a high value man, it observes society to see what is considered a high value man. Just knowing what it is doesn’t make you anything . That’s like saying reading a book about real estate investing would make me a real estate investor, even though I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:16 PM
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“You are under the delusion that it is impossible for an ideology to be hateful if hate existed before the ideology was created?” I don’t agree that redpill is an ideology. You are arguing a premise I don’t believe in. “I never suggested red pill was the only way someone could be faulty. I just said not understanding social norms, by itself, is not a reason to criticize someone.” Social norms are more then “ understanding” them. Who, what, and how you are in relation to the social hierarchy is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:10 PM
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“How can you say “you do what it takes” while at the same time saying it takes something that’s out of peoples control?!” You can only ever do what’s within your control… I didn’t know that was controversial “And the statement shows the “observations” are nothing but a bunch of platitudes made to make some dudes feel “special” cause they read about something on the internet that makes them think they “know a secret” while selling then books and super chats and programs and banner ads on message …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:58 PM
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“Are RP average American’s cause according to similar web only 40 percent of the visitors to most RP forums are in the US.” Excuse me, average people. “And so the RP is just observing other’s success And then apparently doing nothing unless you are attractive (where it doesn’t matter anyways)?” Literally yes. Unless you do what it takes to become the things that you observe to be attractive within your ability x “Sounds like a bunch of bullshit made up by a (self) published author if that’s all …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:36 PM
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Red pillers are also average Americans. Besides. You were talking about struggling ppd men. Not redpillers. Most people here aren’t redpiller so and haven’t read anything redpill. Including yourself. Like I said. No one told you to do anything. The redpill is observations. And what you do with it is your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:28 PM
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“So if it’s just “be attractive”. Then what is the rest of the RP?! Just bullishit filler???” You tell me, you seem to be pretty well read on the subject. “Bruh you just made the biggest argument NOT to listen to the RP. “Either be born something where it doesn’t matter what you do. Or it doesn’t matter what you do: too bad”. I don’t see how I made this statement at all. Observing reality for what it is has nothing to with this. “Why the fuck are dudes hustling and building status then????” are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:21 PM
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Struggle or struggle, I chose struggle. Is all you said. The redpill was never about expansion. It’s just about observing reality for what it is. Whatever you do with your observations is on you. There’s nothing to “ work”. If you want something that will “ work” Just be attractive. Thats what “ works”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:15 PM
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… what makes you think there’s anything that would make struggles end entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:08 PM
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I did answer the question. The answer is no. You aren’t faulted for struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:04 PM
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I did answer the question. The answer is no. You aren’t faulted for struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:04 PM
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There’s dudes who never looked at any of this information at all and succeed greatly, and the same for those who struggle. That doesn’t make a case for ppd people who struggle. Clearly not everyone here was read any redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:48 PM
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“It's pretty hard to argue otherwise. Not really any blue pillers going on mass shootings, are there?” I didn’t know blue pill was an ideology. But anyway. I didn’t know disaffected men committing acts of mass violence just started a few years ago. “No, I consider those who don't fit into social hegemony and decide to adopt a conspiratorial and hateful ideology as a result to be faulty.” Sureeee. We know someone doesn’t have to “ be red pilled” for you to view them as broken and faulty. “This ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:47 PM
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How does that include them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:31 PM
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Nope. I already said what I’m saying. People who are struggling with the actions that the redpill expresses are either not actually doing anything. Or are looking for a fix all 100% effective odds of success in life. And they will never find that with any form of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:26 PM
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Well. It is what it is. You consider it an idiology, and you consider it hateful. Also you consider those who don’t fit well into the social hegemony of society as faulty or broken. So that exactly what I’m talking about. It’s just bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:21 PM
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“Why the hell would dudes just observe and not do anything when apparently it’s right there to observe how?! Why would dudes not do anything!?” Same reasons dudes wont: Get in shape, Get more certifications/ education: Get more money, Overcome their insecurities Etc. It takes hard work. And the work can be even harder depending on who you are individually. “The majority of people KNOW about those things tho. Literal industries are built around them. Yet “THE TRUTH” can’t get off a message board?…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:18 PM
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Observing the world doesn’t make you get laid… all it is, is an observation. Majority of people aren’t invested in crypto or wall street. At most they have a 401k or pension, and most people don’t even have that. You are grossly overestimating the amount of action take based on an observation. An observation is not a promise to anything. And I said that more then once. Just because you are uniformed about the thjng you are arguing against doesn’t make it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:06 PM
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Sounds like bigotry to me, “ be like us, even if you can’t, or else your bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:02 PM
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That’s how regulation works. That’s not how social relationships work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:35 PM
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“ normal” yeah. This isn’t missed on anyone. It’s a question of perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:28 PM
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What do you mean according to who . That’s literally what the redpill is basing its model on . That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:23 PM
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No. Porn isn’t just about seeing naked people. You know this. Porn is about all the fantasies and different types of people and sexual activity. Porn isn’t just for people who can’t get laid, arguably porn consumers are mostly men who also get laid since there is more of them. The redpill isn’t “ for “ anything. It’s just observations of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:17 PM
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That’s the point. The status quo pretends that everyone is the same and that something is wrong with you when you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:14 PM
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Why would I redpill ever be bigger then porn? Men who get Laid consume porn. But not all men who get laid consume redpill. Also. Not all men have problems getting laid. So why would every man be searching for redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:10 PM
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Sure. But “ blue pill people” won’t acknowledge that social norms means much more then your hobbies and and if you are funny or awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:03 PM
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What does only fans have to do with what it takes to improve your life and be more successful in dating? Porn is as old as time? Married men are buying only fans. Players are buying only fans. You say it like it’s one or anothe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:58 PM
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1 not it’s not. And 2. If it was. That’s a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:50 PM
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Why do you think that? Look at the world, what you just said is the equivalent of saying “ why are so many men homeless and in poverty? We know just get a job, Why don’t they do it?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:49 PM
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Yes. All of these are either prerequisites for being a normal adult, or imply that something is wrong with you that needs fixing. They are really just dismissive of the question of how to date more effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:44 PM
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The mainstream social order and thinking. is the blue pill . The blue pill subreddit isn’t “the blue pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:39 PM
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I’m an introvert analyst specifically actually. Red-pilled worked just fine for me . If you live with pill stuff like a philosophy then you will ruin your relationships. Seeing reality and your place in it is what you are supposed to do .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:38 PM
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We didn’t give him credence. He got 4 upvotes lol. This isn’t even a pilled take. It’s like window shopping social phenomenon at most. The men here who are complaining about things not working are doing so because they didn’t do the work. Or they miss interpret how reality works regardless of self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:31 PM
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It’s crazy that you think you should be able to decide what is a problem for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:25 PM
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Because he doesn’t know what he’s talking about obviously. He likely has an image in his head of “ a guy with swagger” whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:22 PM
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Because it’s not feminism. It’s literally the regular status quo in regards to parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:21 PM
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This isn’t feminism. This is the normal status quo. That’s how gender roles work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:21 PM
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Yeah. His topic was about “swagger” and sales pitch. What he means that he becomes a confident individual in whatever niche subculture that person is in. We all know there’s no universal swagger that attracts all women. It’s a bad premise from jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah. His topic was about “swagger” and sales pitch. What he means that he becomes a confident individual in whatever niche subculture that person is in. We all know there’s no universal swagger that attracts all women. It’s a bad premise from jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:19 PM
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Op is wrong. It’s z very dorky take. But that doesn’t make what the person you responded to here wrong either. There is plenty information about how to improve your life significantly. I don’t know who is guaranteeing 100% success rate with whatever women you pick just by doing redpill things? Reading it that way is just stupid. The entire thing is about improving your chances. Not guaranteeing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:13 PM
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Women don’t like conformists. That’s pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:02 PM
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What do you mean by 100% of the time? You know women have individual choice right? There’s no such thing as getting 100% of women for any man on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:00 PM
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“But it doesn’t take any discipline to be monogamous. “ Speak for yourself “It’s my natural inclination, and that of most people I know. “ No it’s not, it’s not your natural biological inclination, it’s none of ours. That doesn’t mean that you can’t be socialized to have it be your preference and make it easy to do. But it’s still a discipline. Similarly to how it’s a discipline to eat a healthy diet. You can be raised and socialized to eat healthy portions and healthy options, but our natural b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:53 PM
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What the hell does that mean 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:49 PM
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They are too different phases for the same type of relationship? Baby moma is just a verbal break down of My baby’s mother. What does the hood . Just lik “ finna” is a break down of “I’m fixing to”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:14 PM
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I don’t recall when we started praising and glamorizing anyone masturbating. It’s just a fact of life that most people masturbate somewhat regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:31 PM
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Sounds prejudice against the use of certain vernacular rather then the actual type of relationship itself. But that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:09 PM
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No he isn’t. He’s implying that he doesn’t live in the ghetto. Why wouldn’t they call the mother of their children the baby’s mother? Lmao that’s literally what their relationship is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:04 PM
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No. If you didn’t marry that person. Then they are your “baby moma” which is just short hand to say the mother of my baby. Since there’s really nothing else to call that relationship. People generally call their former spouses they had kids with their ex husband or wife instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:59 PM
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He didn’t say he wasn’t involved or that he was high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM
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A baby moma is just the mother of your children that you aren’t married too. Just because a man didn’t marry the women doesn’t mean he’s not an active father
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM
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He didn’t say he was high value he said he doesn’t live in the ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:55 PM
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No. A high value women gets the type of man who she wants. Because she has the luxury of choice. She simply just won’t date insecure jealous and possessive men. There are plenty of us who do not fear that the women we are seeing will leave us. We aren’t scared lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:53 PM
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“Obama was more powerful than any of these individual men, nor do many of those rich men self identify "white". I bet they don’t. Obama isn’t “ black” either. Racial constructs are funny aren’t they. “If you want to bring race into it then you can't just play dumb that many of those rich men you're mentioning do not view themselves ethnically or otherwise as "privileged white men". It doesn’t matter if they view themselves as white. If the public perceives you and agrees on your race. Then that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:15 AM
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This is a post about the highest privileged. The highest privileged person in the world is one of these richest men who are white. In the country backed by the strongest military in the world. It’s the truth. Economic stratification is its own topic. ( any individual white man still holds more privilege ( or lack of disadvantage since you don’t like the word privilege ) then pretty much everyone else outside of those who are significantly more well off then that individual man.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:53 AM
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Yes. And he continues to find women attractive, and continues to have the ability to reproduce with them . And will continue to have this ability until he dies. We are not monogamous in any sense of the word outside of social norms and discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:29 AM
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Ignoring race where the predominant race of the country and top ten richest people of the country, that is the most dominant global superpower in the world, is just plain delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:28 AM
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For every case of a rich white man who got some form of punishment or being held accountable in a way he couldn’t overcome, there are millions of others who behind do as well let’s not do this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:29 AM
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Thinking anyone besides a rich white man in the west is the most privileged group on earth is just being so unserious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:21 AM
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Because the nature of something being natural means it’s inate to our biology. Being attracted to other women, having casual sex. Etc. Shows that our natural inclination is multiple sexual partners. Monogamy is a discipline really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:51 AM
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Well . Does anyone ever expect love?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:51 AM
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You seem to think society is “ natural” and has to work. Women’s individual interests does not and should not be legislated in this way. We just have to deal with the ramifications of their breeding choices. Really it’s a bigger problem for those who want to have more little employees in the future rather then us as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:51 PM
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If humans were naturally monogamous then cheating wouldn’t be a novelty. And neither would casual sex. Monogamy is a social structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:46 PM
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Having a repulsive trade and indifferent traits leave you in the same position at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:40 PM
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No it’s not. Not in the context of romance. Both of them equal no points toward acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:30 PM
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Which is as good as saying he’s not attractive. Being not a deal breaker doesn’t give you points in being attractive. This doesn’t mean the standards are lower then we think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:08 PM
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He isn’t? Looks like a standard white guy to me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:39 PM
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Welcome back lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:38 PM
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I have a BA in sociology actually. Hypergamy is not an investment in potential. It’s an investment in what already is. Sure there are economically well off kids in stem. But women aren’t going to be flocking to stem majors in hopes that they make it big later, when the fraternities, finance, economics, law etc departments are full of people who came to the university already well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:06 PM
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That’s not how it works. You guys seem to forget that Rich kids are already at the universities. They don’t have to date stem guys because the fraternity guys are already loaded as they head into finance, accounting, and law. Artists only pool from the same types of people. They don’t pull in all women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:46 PM
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Hypergamy is a social phenomenon, not a biological driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:43 PM
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The average guy isn’t going to attract the average girl. He might attract, ONE GIRL, once or twice every few years. And there’s nothing to say whether she will be above below or average. And to be “fine” isn’t to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:41 PM
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You guys say accepted. What people have going in the middle of long term relationships is not the equivalent of attracting a new person. Men with dad bods likely didn’t have them until they were well you know, dads
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:36 PM
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Being fit has done all the talking for me on multiple occasions. Attraction isn’t something you can negotiate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:34 PM
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Take a boombox and play J cole outside of her window
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:08 AM
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I already did. You should want to do this for yourself. Not to be trying to be “right” online. Don’t you want to live in a just society? Why aren’t you reading the full document? Why did I have to tell you to read further then the abstract in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:58 PM
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Read the rest of the document. man. Read it all. If you come out with the same idea then whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:55 PM
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No I’m not embarrassed. Because I read the document. I gave your document a chance. You didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:51 PM
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You are the one who came back to me after a week. With a study that you didn’t read
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:49 PM
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You think the mods who banned you want to hear from you rn 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:46 PM
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It was over 8 days ago when you got banned. Don’t forget this thread starts with momy comment being one of the top comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:37 PM
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There’s no L to take. I don’t need you to concede to my point lmao . If you don’t want to understand complex social dynamics and t even the literature of people who study them then it’s your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:29 PM
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It means you need to keep reading brother
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:26 PM
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No. You are the one who thinks there is something to win here. I don’t . That’s your problem. Like I said, you don’t want to learn something . You want to win. Which is why you sent this publication without reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:21 PM
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People here know how to read the findings of an article rather then posting the abstract. Posting an abstract just signifies you don’t know how handle a published study
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:17 PM
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“ no you”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:15 PM
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I didn’t take an L. I read the piece. But a person like you isn’t looking to learn anything .You want to be right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:14 PM
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Reading comprehension is key to success my man, you need to work on that rather then arguing with me. Especially if you want to read scholarly essays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:11 PM
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I didn’t lose. If you read the results you would see that. But anyways. It doesn’t matter. Laws will not change to start ignoring the circumstances behind the cases in favor of a strict “ law broken= referenced punishment “ system. Observing the circumstances unique to each case and the peoples lives is what makes us America compared to other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:02 PM
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Like I said. And like I said 8 days ago. Reading comprehension is key. If you are going to post to scholarly article. You need to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:57 PM
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You did not read the findings lmao. But that’s okay. If you red the findings you would see that not only did they reinforce exactly what I said. They said that there are more variables besides just criminal history, current crime, and gender that affect sentencing, more then these variables. They also said their whole study over a year period only had 18% of the trails being women since women committed 82% less crime that year. Just as I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:37 PM
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No. Not the abstract. Did you read the findings? The findings are available in the essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:21 PM
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Did you read it? I don’t think you did lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:18 PM
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God I’m so tired of the “ victim mentality “ thing. We will never be free 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:32 AM
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Bc most people who will have kids generally have by then and your body has most definitely started declining by then as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:36 AM
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All your doing is telling these women that they should focus on other men. While that man still exists. that top 20% man will still be top 20%. And someone will be with him. This is the same thing as telling men on dating apps not to be thirsty and message everyone. You practicing this as an individual will just set yourself up to miss out because of the men who actually did message everyone .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:47 AM
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Is this not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:19 PM
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Because. People are trying to make legislation and social standards for other peoples lives based on warped and delusional perceptions of the world and people around them. instead of understanding that their experience has more to do with the hierarchy and their place It, and their response to that place, rather then objective truths about our natural inclinations or experiences. This line of thinking leads no where but prejudice, bigotry, discrimination and disenfranchising for those you disagr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:14 PM
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Sure. If he’s actually willing to pay. Just like he can sleep with her while holding our commitment, if she’s willing to lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:20 PM
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Yes. You will definitely learn pretty much what you need to know about someone’s sexual history within dating them for 3-4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:19 PM
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For funsies. But seriously, what’s the point of anything. With this logic. There’s no point in living last like 40 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:45 PM
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It’s very unmasculine to be trying to redeem yourself to a woman who doesn’t want you lmao .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:21 PM
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Have you ever dated someone? You know people tend to date for more then one day right? You know they tell each other stories about their lives over time right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:19 PM
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Correct, just like he can decide not to commit when it’s time to, I don’t understand why a man buying someone dinner is a rebuttle?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:17 PM
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“Women who sleep with drug dealers are also terrible people and typically drug addicts, but you don’t care. “ What are you a bigot? People who are in prison come from all kinds of situations and hardships. And so do the women who have known and delt with these men. Not everyone or even most people in jail are fentanyl slinging murderers with no soul. “And dude, are you really so naive you believe that the women who are mob bosses’ wives are nice sweet innocent maidens, rather than actual murdere…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:17 PM
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As if men receive child support or custody in equal cases
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:04 PM
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Yes . That’s correct. She had the free will to accept the dinner and he had the free will to pay for it. What’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:59 PM
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are you saying she is lying? Why would she lie about how she used to be? Why should I assume she’s lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:58 PM
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Does it matter why? If they don’t want to it’s their right not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:56 PM
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Yes. The free will to decide where and how he spends his life? Despite how someone else feels about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:55 PM
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Yes they do. Any man with experience with women can tell you this. Especially as you date late 20s/ early thirties women, this is actually quite normal for women who have vibrant sexual pasts. I’ve also had this Situation happen to me before
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:54 PM
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I hear you sister lol, good luck to ya
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:11 AM
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No they are not,so overall. No I don’t agree that complaining about having problems dating is blaming others or making it someone’s fault unless they specifically say that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:50 AM
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It’s a cause. It’s a reason. But it’s not a fault lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:53 AM
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How about we stop correlating dick size with manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:47 AM
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I think we don’t agree on what a fault is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:35 AM
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Do you even know what your arguing about at this point? You seem to think this is an organization that’s recruiting members or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:35 AM
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Is it my fault if you continue to be unemployed just because you applied and I denied you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:15 AM
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Is that a fault in either person? Reason sure, but fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:57 AM
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There is no fault for being single. Dating isn’t guaranteed or required.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:53 AM
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What do you mean disagree, it’s not a debate lol, it’s peoples lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:31 AM
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Correct complaining that no one wants to date you isn’t a question though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:26 AM
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On what part? I don’t agree that complaining about not getting a date is questioning anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:14 AM
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Any man who tries to out casual sex a woman is just going to get his feelings hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:58 PM
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I’ll change the world from industry to profitable for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:55 PM
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It’s not an advice nor instruction. It’s an observation like i said. Ops point originally is that he literally understands his position and that he’s having trouble dating specifically. And voicing that issue is met with going to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:50 PM
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Why wouldn’t they? The men in the way are the ones with the biggest offers. That’s why they are in the way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:37 PM
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It’s not because of women though. It’s because other men are in the way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:34 PM
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So then why are we mad at the women again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:30 PM
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They only control it cause the men want it more no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:21 PM
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Lgbtq obviously stands as a proxy for all groups that are marginalized and discriminated against . That’s why lgbt groups are always at feminist, blm, food kitchens, non profit organizations, etcs. Not only this. But lgbt people also tend to intersect with more then one group. Like a black lesbian, a disabled bisexual person, a home insecure trans person etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:09 PM
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So the enemy is the men who give up sex to easy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:05 PM
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Be honest. How many red pill guys do you think read rollo Tomassi, 48 laws of power etc. By being a redpill content creator, you are already breaking rules. You aren’t supposed to be talking about the redpill. I say that because redpill content creators are obliviously trying to sell Christian conservative beliefs to people. It’s a grift. Redpill “ content” especially books and videos. Are grifts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:34 PM
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But it’s also my responsibility to invest myself in a trust worthy woman. Not hers. If she’s a cheater or not, if she maintains relationships with exes and ex flings, those are her choices to do. But me involving myself with a woman who has current maintained relationships with men that she’s already gone that distance with before. You get what you get really. Who knows it might not be a problem. But for anyone who has the ability to chose, it would just be easier to involve yourself with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:30 PM
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Yes . It exists without the redpill that’s the point… It’s a place where men share observations about the new dating landscape and discuss what does and does not work when attempting to date….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:16 PM
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Me and my gf are pretty much equally yoked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:14 PM
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It’s literally in the side bar. “Trp: discussion of sexual strategy in a world increasingly lacking in positive identities for men” It’s literally about the shift in values and ideals around men and women and adapting to the new frame of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:12 PM
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If they have been friends for years before I show up, and I find that it’s her ex. Then I won’t take her seriously. It’s pretty simple really. Met plenty of women like that before. We can just see each other with no exclusivity until one of us moves on.this is my blanket rule. It works well because she can maintain the relationships she would like to maintain and we can enjoy ourselves together until there is someone who either of us will be with long term. The language you use doesn’t matter. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:11 PM
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They are anti 🌈 for the main part. Everything else they don’t care as much about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:01 PM
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He’s famous cause plenty of us support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:55 PM
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She was insulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:52 PM
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South Korean men giving it all up 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:31 PM
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“ they hate you beyond reason and logic”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:30 PM
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How is her maintaining a relationship with her ex a compromise with me? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:26 PM
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Puas pretty much founded trp so duh. But anyway, idk why we have to keep telling you guys that the redpill is about adapting to the modern dating world. It’s literally about removing men’s entitlements and understanding the new landscape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:15 PM
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You can always use redpill knowledge, part of redpill knowledge is understanding your current position and how it’s perceived by others. “ you can’t negotiate attraction” is a very important observation in the redpill sphere . That’s why self improvement is always discussed . If you don’t want to self improve, or you have physical/ mental limitations, then that’s a different discussion. Most people aren’t equipped to tell people with disabilities and conditions how to go about dating .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:55 PM
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You can always use red pill. Knowledge, that doesn’t mean she’s going for you things like “ you can’t negotiate attention.” Unforced this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:00 PM
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Why are you telling all this to me, the redpill worked just fine for me, I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:31 AM
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He should just wait until he’s older” some woman will be desperate enough to give him a shot. “As ol jordan says
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:30 AM
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And I don’t know what you mean by “ fixing “
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:11 AM
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Yes. So like I said. It’s very interesting how we can just dismiss men as something being wrong or broken with them because they aren’t being picked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:03 AM
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Jordan Peterson also said “ if she doesn’t pick you she’s right, you are wrong.” So idk if that’s where I’ll take my dating advice from. It’s so interesting how we can easily say a man is broken and need fixing if the women don’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:18 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:23 AM
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What does the United States have to do with being conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:18 AM
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What does the United States have to do with bring conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:10 AM
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I have explained. This was my explanation , and I was right. So I’m not sure what more need lol. I’m sure you did know the term before. Couples tend to think alike
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:27 PM
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Whiny Victims of-course. And yes he is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:15 PM
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Yes he is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:14 PM
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Based on your lack of compassion and your laughing emojis. Also, single women don’t generally use terms like victim mind set, that’s usually a conservative man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:09 PM
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This is what you should be telling her. I know therapy is a normal process. She’s the one who said having troubles that are enduced by your position in the world and your immediate frustrations is mental illness. Not me .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:08 PM
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Credibility to do what? Your marriage has nothing to do with trp. I care more about people who aren’t doing well and are harmed then tough girls and the credibility they get from having a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:57 PM
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What’s your point? Or is your point that my comment had 2 different subjects lmao . I’m not sure what that does at a point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:40 PM
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I didn’t compare them. You are the one saying I did. And you are also the one saying they are the same thing. You sound more “ red pilled” then me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:32 PM
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I guess the real solution is to provide women with the good oll therapy bait and switch as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:26 PM
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“ you can complain,your complaints will be heard right on the other side of this pay wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:25 PM
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I know. I just like to argue. No one is really changing anything about their views from this subreddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:15 PM
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Women complaining about the partners they picked is not the same thing as men complaining not being able to find a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:53 PM
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“Guess which men are reproducing like bunnies? Hint: it aint* men with access to social media fringe groups.” The hint is no one, because like I said. National birth rates are declining. “Pandering. The (white)women who can afford to travel for abortions or order pills can and do. “ Which is why in Texas. They are chasing these women down if they travel. “The Right can’t afford to drop the pretense that brown people take white jobs, “ ( and also produce more babies)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:44 PM
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Well I am a beta male so that checks our
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:34 PM
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“Not what happened, I actually asked for clarification and you declined and decided insult me” “ huh? That doesn’t English 🤣” is quite the way to ask for clarification. “ Lol I'm married, been with my husband for 1/4 of my life now and have a wonderful circle of male friends and family 😊 I have no issue with men, in fact I quite enjoy their company. Not sure where you're getting this idea.” Figured you would be married honestly. “If you equate me not liking whiny little bitches with me not likin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:06 PM
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I just responded to ops prompt brother. You are the one who changed the statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:02 PM
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There was no insult until you decided to pretend you didn’t understand what I said to invalidate my statement. It’s okay to admit you might not have a view of men that is conducive to healthy relationships with them. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:00 PM
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Considering changing my flare to purple pill since neither the blue pillers or red pillers think I’m red pilled enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:54 PM
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“ you can’t fire me I quit” type of response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:53 PM
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Correct. Neither of those are popular or mainstream opinions. Do you how crazy you would sound to tell people “ actually , women are only attracted to the top 20% of men 🤓” in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:52 PM
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Reading comprehension is key. Good luck to ya 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:48 PM
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Just because something is hard doesn’t mean I don’t want to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:48 PM
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It’s definitively not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:45 PM
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“Hey, I’ve pointed out your logical fallacy a dozen times lately. Maybe cut it out?” You seem to think saying logical fallacy implies something else? You haven’t actually made your own logical point. Is that not obvious to you? Red pill. Especially on Reddit peaked and dropped considerably already. Most the people here. As I’ve addressed, have not actually been on the redpill subreddit. They are redpilled by Instagram reels and YouTube channels that are obviously trying to sell things. “ Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:45 PM
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Sounds very specific
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:39 PM
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“ Except that's literally not what I said 😂” Correct, it’s not literally what you said, but it’s the broader theme of course . “What? This doesn't English 😂” Sometimes I forget to use layman’s terms. I forget some folks don’t know a lot of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:38 PM
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“I have a feeling you have the same sort of job I have, because I see your name as often as mine. I doubt very much you can deny the overwhelmingly conservative and religious population of the red pill. I feel like you are defensive, but I don’t blame you. TRP has a certain rep.” I don’t deny it. But I understand it. These people were raised with the tools to a world that doesn’t exist. And they are lost and confused about it. That’s why there are so many religious people in trp. “In fact, the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:35 PM
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“Not being able to get a date is not the same as real mental illness but good try 😂” You heard it here first guys. Men can’t be dissatisfied with their life or circumstances or something is mentally wrong with them. That’s why they tell you to seek therapy. You struggle because something is literally wrong with you that needs correcting. Couldn’t possibly be because socioeconomic status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:26 PM
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“No shit, who likes to hear grown men whine about that? It's pathetic” “Ohh no, the men are closed off, repressed and depressed, why won’t they express themselves and be vulnerable “
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:21 PM
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Good response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:14 PM
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So then why even make a comment about calling someone out of you Believe the ones who are being called out are the true red pillers. No true Scotsman is just a cop out for you to say that actually you are the one who defines what something other people do is. Trp is sexual strategy. It’s nothing else. It attracts the religious right because they are generally the most disillusioned from the modern world. Their religious conservative ideals are not what make trp. Observation of modern social and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:08 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:03 PM
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People just don’t like to hear men complain about not getting dates is all. But for some reason there’s a huge industry for listening to women complain about the boyfriends and husbands they picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:59 PM
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“TRP isn't limited to Christians, hundreds if not thousands are from the other branches of Abrahamic religions, and maybe thousands are autists with OCD who have all kinds of problems with sex. And I don't even want to guess at what percentage are self-hating, latent homosexuals, but I feel sure you won't deny this.” I won’t. Because that’s my point. Trp is about sexual strategy, all that other stuff is someone adding their own worldviews to the mix. Trp isn’t a religion, it’s not a political mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:55 PM
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Christian’s will say yes. Non Christian’s will say no, what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:42 PM
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Not bigotry lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:37 PM
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“R/theredpill: a discussion of sexual strategies in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men” This is the headline of thd subreddit. It’s sexual strategy. Trp is an offshoot of pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:33 PM
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It just started
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:31 PM
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Cheating is not related to “ keeping her happy” But anyway, Trp is about getting laid. Anyone saying otherwise speaking with their tradcon world view on top of trp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:26 PM
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People say things like this, but then talk about how young men and women have no guidance or positive role models lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:24 PM
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I’m 28 and I have some 18/19 year old male friends. My gf is 27 though. She just making shit up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:16 PM
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You seem to think the redpill is about securing long term relationships. They specifically say not to get married. They don’t care about keeping her happy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:13 PM
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No there is no point to doing this, you are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:09 PM
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“How in the world is TRP's "sexual strategy" going to help men who are sexually inhibited?” By assessing your own life’s position and seeing where you may be going wrong in scenarios that you relate to, getting information from them and improving yourself. Obviously “Men care so very much what other men think, and men with a dampened sex drive still chase the head cheerleader because they want to win some dick measuring contest by locking down an attractive woman, who they are not equipped to en…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:03 PM
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Yes. But this is much more of a social issue rather then one that can be legislated. Crimes against women are already steeply punished and those who commit them obviously don’t care. This is pretty much the crux of that specific argument, regardless, men always pose a threat to women because the average women can be overpowered by most of us. Outside of a culture where men are accountable and accommodating ( we already have this, bad actors will act badly regardless) there’s not much else to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:53 PM
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Well. Generally the end goal for any movement is security and opportunity. People just don’t agree on what that looks like, for example me being a socialist, I believe in public programs for poor, disabled, veterans, homeless , drug addicted, etc. but plenty of others, who also want to see security and opportunity for these demographics, don’t want it see it from may perspective,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 PM
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This is the definition of defeatist. a person who expects or is excessively ready to accept failure . What part of identifying traits that are more desirable then mine is expecting or being prepared to fail? I’m 5’7, I know that in out of a lot of women’s range by being this short. That hasn’t defeated me? I still did everything I wanted to do dating wise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:31 PM
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It’s not they. It’s religious people. I’m redpill leaning person. But I’m also a secular socialist, the Madonna whore complex means nothing to me because i wasn’t raised in purity culture about women’s bodies or their modesty. Theres people from different walks of life in the red pill. But the redpill seems to hit Protestant Christian’s the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:25 PM
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Well. This country has multiple demographics of suppressed people. So what is considered equality for one demographic doesn’t solve the issues of another. For example. I’m a black man right. Pretty much everything is very clean cut for me outside of prejudice that I receive for being black. Changing the narrative for being black doesn’t solve queer, women, disabled, veteran, poor, religious. Etc issues. It just solve blackness. Which for me would be the only issue. But not for many others. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:22 PM
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Is that not just an observation? What part of that states that I as an individual am defeated just because there are traits out there more desirable then the ones I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:14 PM
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“It’s not prescriptive at all. But think about it. If this is the female nature, why wouldn’t we have gone the whole feminist route hundreds of years ago?” Because we didn’t live in the same type of society where people worked jobs instead of working the land 100s of years ago. Basically the Industrial Revolution and evolving technology made feminism necessary. “Why is it that only hurt men are drawn to it ? “ Men who fit the status quo and reap the benifits of such don’t have to understand why …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:13 PM
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What’s defeatist about identifying a demographic that you don’t belong to is more desirable then the demographic you belong to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:54 PM
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Agreement on what? We don’t agree on policy and legislation. They just agree on sexual strategy. And we don’t even all agree on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:52 PM
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That’s because trp is about sexual strategy. I don’t understand why you guys think that trp is a politics movement. People of all different political ideologies are red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:50 PM
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What is a victim hood dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:47 PM
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No one is happy with the situation as is, everyone has theirs political takes. That what kind of point is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:46 PM
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Correct. Sex is a luxury. A commodity even 🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:45 PM
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Both porn and social media are about what men view, not what men say they are. This I isn’t equivalent. The equivalent would be women getting their standards from watching romantic comedies and tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:50 PM
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It is very much comparable. In his logic. “ defying cultural norms” in favor of equality is whiny. That means defying segregation was whiny. That means opposing any form of bigotry, class, race , gender, religion, nationality,etc is whiny. When someone sets up a premise like this on something small like how chubby a lady is, they are also setting a premise up for All these larger issues. First it will be “ don’t be delusional, your fat, unstylish, not wearing make up, etc adapt to the social sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah redpill is definitely not about long term relationship success. You can’t teach that on a forum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:05 PM
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“Yes, if you dispute this then you clearly don't pay attention and don't know anything.” No “The status quo is what society determines is attractive and valuable And that's women lying about their status.” What do you mean lying? Women don’t determine their own status. Rejecting the status quo doesn’t make it a lie. “You're an embarrassing simp. I can't imagine that you're actually red pill and don't know why you like to argue because you're terrible at it.” “ you aren’t mad at women with me, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:12 PM
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No. The status quo is what society determines is attractive and valuable. You are saying that they need to work to fit those standards instead of esteeming themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:20 PM
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Work on what? Fitting the status quo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:13 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s what the overall narrative is here. Women should think of them selves in the terms that society does. So that you dare the people society thinks you should. That’s not redpill thining to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:00 PM
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Yes. Not attracting something isn’t an L. Not being attractive to the most people as possible isn’t an L. Not being societies ideal of attraction isn’t an L. That’s what you are missing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:08 PM
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That’s because you are framing it as a loss. My self esteem isn’t built around what women value in me either. It’s not an l when a woman doesn’t like me because I’m 5’7 or because I have tattoos and dreadlocks. I don’t build my life around being “ enough” for others. I don’t build my life around being valuable to others. That’s what you are saying the women need to be doing in so many words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:31 PM
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Whatever that means. Do you just want to hear times where a woman liked a man who didn’t like her back? Do you want her to internalize that? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:28 PM
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You think a hot Japanese girl who has tatoos is approaching men to get rejected? Men of all demographics are begging for that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:25 PM
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So what would them not esteeming themselves do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:24 PM
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That’s not how this works. We don’t exist to be valued. A women who is covered in tattoos and works in the arts, is not turning around to try and attract a conservative man. Generally, women loook like that specifically to turn off these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:21 PM
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I agree that women generally have more fragile egos then icels, but that’s because icels have a level of entitlement that the ever age person. Male or female doesn’t have regardless of their appearance . Icels don’t believe that they are insecure. They believe that the rest of us are doing something wrong to them. And that they are owed something. That is not the same. Also. Women definitely discuss insecurities with each other. They don’t discuss them with us. They don’t care about seeming vein…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:12 PM
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What does that even mean? We are Americans. ( I assume you are too) The country is bigger then most countries. People of all different religious, regional, and ethnic backgrounds from all over the world live here. What “culture norms” are being defied exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:02 PM
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Why wouldn’t they? Pretty much everyone hates when others throw rocks from a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:57 PM
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What a whiny premise. No one has to tell you anything about their views on their on body or worth. No one has to behave in a way that you deem appropriate based on the their position in the social hierarchy. That’s blue pilled. To many people here use the redpill as an excuse to try to drag women rather then see the world for what it is and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:56 PM
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Proving you wrong or right in this situation both feeds into you and does nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:51 PM
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Why should someone tell you, who already have negative commodifying views of women. Anything about their insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:48 PM
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Show us the proof where women who have significant rap sheets get the lesser sentences then men with significant rap sheets. I’ll wait
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:18 PM
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No I didn’t say that. I said a singular likely is more likely to have a lesser rap sheet. Therefore she is . more likely to get a lesser sentence. On average, women have lesser rapp sheets. That means any individual woman you pick out, is more likely to have a small rap sheet then any random man you pick out. Reading comprehension is key. Anything you say not related to this doesn’t matter .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:16 PM
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No I didn’t. I said a singular woman is more likely to get a lesser sentence because she likely has a lesser rap sheet then a singular man who committed the same crimes.this is how averages work You just don’t have reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:30 AM
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I did not mix group responsibility with individual responsibility. You just think I did because like I said, you lack reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:40 PM
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You didn’t speak facts. You decided that I changed the context. When I spoke directly about the statistical reasoning for lesser sentences. You decided they were different contexts because of your lack of reading comprehension skills
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:05 PM
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Yeah pretty much.a lot of people either aren’t afraid or just plain don’t care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:04 PM
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Yeah. Because you misconstrued my first point at the very beginning. Setting a premise for an argument that I didn’t make. So I didn’t need to read the rest. You aren’t redpilled. You just hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:41 PM
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Do y’all really truly be waiting on sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:38 PM
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You can’t make points to people who don’t have reading comprehension. It’s so interesting how people can be so confident in their ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:37 PM
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The redpill isn’t a political ideology. My political leanings are socialist, The blue pill is just the status quo. In the United States the status quo is moderate right neoliberal Protestant Christian. It’s the framework for most policy and ideals in this country. We generally just talk about the dating aspect of it, but it’s the same status quo in regards to dating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:27 PM
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“In example, there are large portions of westerners who think homeless people should be jailed. There are also large portions of westerners who think homeless people should receive MORE help. SOME of those westerners even think jailing homeless people IS helping them.” Exactly. Helping the homeless in a way that benefits them in the long run and helps them towards success and movement of class is not the status quo. The current status quo maintains and suppresses homeless people, and even jails …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:23 PM
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You gotta do better brother. Good luck to ya .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:19 PM
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Reading comprehension is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:18 PM
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Laws that make poor people keep being poor. Food deserts that keep poor people unhealthy etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:27 PM
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I mean the current western status quo. There’s plenty of people who don’t care to fit or maintain the status quo who aren’t redpilled as well. The people who created the blue pill sub still reinforce the status quo though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:21 PM
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No. The bluepill definitely cares if you fail. We even enforce laws that are known to disproportionately affect those who are failing and hinder them from further seeking success. They care if you succeed. The status quo loves markers of success and access. The status quo does not care about the process That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:05 PM
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You think the pinnacle of masculinity that all men would come together and agree on would be a talk show host? Lmao stop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:51 PM
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Are we going to pretend 50 year old women don’t have life partners now? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:48 PM
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He’s saying that the general status quo doesn’t care about your path to the results or your reason for striving for them. They only care about the results. Which is true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:45 PM
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You folks need reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:40 PM
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Obviously jailbreaking, factory resetting and selling it on Facebook / to a pawnshop lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:33 PM
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Being bad and ugly is worse then being good and ugly. Most men aren’t capable of being big and strong and assertive. Try asserting anything at 5’4 and see how often you get beat up .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:39 PM
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Almost everyone has a phone on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:36 PM
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“Women getting arrested or charged less should have no bearing on what an inidividual women does.” It doesn’t. But it means an individual woman is les likely to have prior arrests and convictions. And therefore Is less likely to get a longer sentancing. Criminal history goes into your sentencing. “A woman should get less time or be set free for mass murder just because "most women" dont do that. What kind of nonsense logic is that 🤣🤣🤣.” A point no one made. You have to actually read if you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:34 PM
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“No the redpill exposes true human behaviour. Especially womens behaviour. Most redpilled men DO consider womens behaviour as problematic and the root of issues, especially in modern dating and relationships.” Human nature doesn’t exist in a vacuum. It exists in relationship with other humans, whether or not those other humans are redpilled is besides the point. Most people don’t find the behaviors of most women to be harmful to them or hurt their feelings. That’s just what it is. “I dont care w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:16 PM
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“Its still not the point. Her being arrested and charged doesnt changed the fact that women are arrested and charged less in general. In fact the reason things got this far with her in the first place, was because she decuded to be so brazen and public about it. What do you think made them this way? It certainly wasnt because society is hard on them.” Women get arrested and charged less because they do less. You have to accept that women don’t do as much crime as men do. For every one women caug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:47 PM
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“No one is riding with you on that on the redpill side. You are on your own with the delulu crowd.” You don’t have to, the redpill doesn’t nullify overall human behavior. Majority of people don’t consider women to perform behavior that harms them or hurts their feelings as much as men do. It is what it is. “Women nowadays are far more rude than men, far more entitled than men, much more likely to use you if you allow them , much more likely to backstab and be less loyal.” And as a man, what diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:38 PM
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“Not the point.” It is the point. She was arrested and charged like Anyone else. She didn’t go to trial. She died. “Women being convicted more More harsh. Is this even a question?” So the laws are just when convicting men already got it. “What would that even have to do with the point?” You don’t think have a criminal record, or lack there of , has any part to play in the conviction of someone for whatever crime someone is currently facing? Less women arrested and charged equals less convictions…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:25 PM
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Because the things we categorize as shitty behavior, women do less off. a woman. Especially a stranger isn’t going to hurt my feelings by being rude. She can’t really assault me. She can’t really do anything generally unless it’s an extreme behavior like false accusations. Some woman’s self centeredness isn’t perceived any less then a mans. Y’all are just soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:19 PM
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Yes it is. It’s very obvious. And it’s obvious to everyone else .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:05 PM
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She wasn’t even convicted. She died. So this brings me the same question. Do you want women convicted more harsh, or men less harsh? Women overwhelmingly commit less crime, and have less arrests and charges against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 PM
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Why? Any woman can get pregnant in todays world if they want to and are able.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:12 PM
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So who decides what behavior is shitty? Isn’t it obvious the behavior that is considered shitty and harmful from women comes much less often then it does from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah I figured you wouldn’t. No I don’t believe you want to argue in good faith. Women aren’t “ getting away” with anything. The only think that’s happening is you don’t like that people aren’t in mass thinkng the way you think they should about woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:40 PM
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So this post is about men who kill their entire families and literally hitler. Is this really the post you would like to use as proof? And do you mean male predators as in men who masturbate on the beach to make porn, get caught and charged, then off themselves? I don’t know if any stories of that nature. Though I’m sure there are some.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:35 PM
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Is someone defending her crimes? Or you don’t like that people care that she took her own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:22 PM
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She was, she was arrested and charged. Sounds pretty equal to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:18 PM
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So what do you want? To be harsher on women or more lenient on men? Is your position that men and women are equal and should be viewed the same? Or that they are different and therefore should be viewed differently? Do you think there is a cultural/ historical precedent that leads to these thought processes, or that we do these days and we turned the wrong way somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:14 PM
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Is this the hard par of survival? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:53 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:51 PM
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The point is that the women who are worth dating become the Madonna . And In the theory, the man loses attraction to the Madonna as he has turned her into a whore by sleeping with her having kids with her etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:49 PM
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I don’t think that’s what the Madonna whore complex is. But the thing you are talking about is correct. Everyone does that. Most people aren’t long term relationship material to any particular individual. I think the Madonna whore complex is when you marry the modest wife material woman, and you can’t act with her intimately because you don’t want to taint her modest status yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:44 PM
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Society did not teach us to be simps nice guys and brutish authoritarian patriarchs at the Same time. Folk need to quit with this “ society said “ mantra. What did YOU say? Some men are emotionally stunted and latch their self esteem, happiness. Attachment issues, etc. to the first women that gives them any attention. That’s likely how mommy issues manifests. I agree with this post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:41 PM
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So what? This means that she wants him to be monogamous, not that she is actually monogamous and men aren’t. This is just an ego stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:13 AM
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So then you agree dating is not fair and it’s about leverage, good job
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:11 AM
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Plate spinners definitely do not talk about the plates being monogamous Lmao. They literally know that they aren’t commited to anything, that’s what the term “ breaking plate” means. When she leaves for a different situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:19 PM
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It is. Nothing about this is fair. That’s why the redpill says become the best version of yourself so you can leverage it towards the things you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:16 PM
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No he can’t . If you aren’t listening to her, enquiring about what she likes, Registering what she doesn’t like. actively trying to pleasure her. Then you don’t care. She’s not going to teach you to do this, when there are men out there who will already do this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:15 PM
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Most men don’t live online. That doesn’t change their prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:55 PM
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Because they don’t have to. They can just find a man who cares. That’s literally what we tell women to do. Why waste energy trying to get a man to care, when there are men who already care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:53 PM
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Yes. But that has nothing to do with plate spinning. A woman who’s been classified as wife material is not a plate. Not if instead of being wife material she turns out of be spinning her own plates. I suppose a man who stopped spinning plates for her would be upset. But this post is about a man who is already intentionally looking for a wife material partner. Plate spinners generally are spinning plates unless there’s a reason for them to stop,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:48 PM
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Why would they make him instead of just finding a man who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:44 PM
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Well at that point we just have to disagree. I don’t believe the average man has multiple dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:42 PM
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So then you can’t. Who’s at fault is besides the point. Most men aren’t fresh out a relationship, dating multiple people. Or sleeping with multiple people. Most men go extended periods of time with little woman attention
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:24 PM
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Well if he felt that way about her, then she wouldn’t be a plate now would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:22 PM
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Can you really? Considering how many men online are complaining about never having a date or compliment for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:17 PM
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I promise you he doesn’t want to feel special and loved by someone he’s already deemed not worthy of a actual relationship with .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:55 PM
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Yes. So why do you think a plate spinner will feel disrespected of a girl he doesn’t intended to have a serious connection with us also spinning plates. He expects her to. This is obviously coming from a man looking for committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:21 PM
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How? Morality is personal? the redpill isn’t a religion, it’s not a replacement for your moral bases. You don’t denounce Christianity or Islam to become “ redpill”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:19 PM
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He’s not in a minority, most men feel that way. But it’s not justified. Since you don’t have to spend money on someone to go on a date. They are framing it as if you are buying a subscription to her time, which you aren’t. Paying for a date is nothing more then incentive to get her to go. It’s it a commitment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM
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This isn’t true. The redpill position is that the redpill itself is a-moral. Not that the universe has no morals, This means that you apply your own morals to your life. This is the redpill literally saying that it’s not a moral guideline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:00 PM
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Why do you think a man who’s spinning plates is the one who feels disrespected by the woman he’s trying to date spinning plates 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:58 PM
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Atleast 70% of the women I’ve ever been on a date with had either a man she was sleeping with already, a man she was also dating, or has fresh ex that she is in the states of distancing herself from. Very few women , especially in their mid 20s and later, are completely single with no prospects or connections besides one man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:57 PM
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Honestly dating at 30 sounds lame as hell to me. Some folks have to but it’s pretty much guaranteed everyone you date past 25 has a goooooood reason why they are available to you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:50 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:24 PM
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Did you just make this up to respond lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:38 AM
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You don’t know what making a “point” is do you. You think that you trying to pin obligation on a victim for being available to be victimized is somehow justified and comparable to a predator looking for someone to attack. That’s just not how this works. That’s never how it will work either. We are not going po publicly or legally scrutinize someone for being a victim of a violent crime. Even if they were in a ally way. Even if they were in skimpy clothes, even if they were out late, we protect s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:04 PM
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True. But once you get in the relationship. Especially living with a partner, it’s not exactly the easiest thing to get away from. This is generally why women with healthy families and fathers figures aren’t the ones getting abused this way. The actual guidance and teachings are one thing. But physically having a place to go and people who care about you in the event that a relationship turns abusive is another
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:53 PM
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Slut shamers are likely also the overwhelming majority of men who actually purchase prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:51 PM
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Yeah so? We aren’t entitled to nicety or interactions with people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:29 PM
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Well it’s still logical. The obvious ideal would be a man who is strong, capable, and isn’t afraid to turn to violence, but is disciplined, caring, and compassionate towards her and people he cares about. It’s easier said then done to find one who has this healthy balance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:12 PM
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Men aren’t forgiving for height. Not having a standard for a height doesn’t mean your forgiving. Most men I know are definitely not dating a socially awkward woman. Women grow up rude and abrasive because they are defending themselves preemptively from unwanted interactions , not because they have to “ get away” with something: Ugly people get together, you aren’t settling if its all you can do. Men are desperate and taking what they can get, you aren’t being “ forgiving” when you don’t have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:08 PM
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I mean. The question has to be asked. Why do you guys think alternatively. That a woman would want a safe, harmless man who isn’t capable of hurting a fly? How is that’s more beneficial to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:02 PM
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Nah. We would rather there be no agent that causes the death or decades of suffering. So we hold those who cause death or decades of suffering accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:44 PM
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We are never going to hold someone “accountable “for something that someone else did to them. What do you want to give them a scolding? You going to scold someone for walking down an ally, instead of scolding the person who made the ally unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:10 PM
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Because most women who are cougar aged are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:15 PM
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Chad isn’t “ red pilled” Chad gets married and has a family if he choses to lol. Chad is just a imaginary high value man to compare to your average Joe to show the difference in lived experience. Chad can very well be someone who got married at 20 and lived with his wife and kids for 60 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:08 PM
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I don’t know who keeps spreading this idea that Chad doesn’t reproduce lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:02 PM
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Ofcourse you personally don’t have this metric. That’s not the point. The point is that enough women do to where it significantly alters the dating landscape for every man who isn’t tall enough. Mathematically this isn’t true. There will be people left out. Positivity won’t overcome the chance of you being left out. And neither will bitterness. This is just a matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:01 PM
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Yes. I live in Texas. They are much more likely to date within their ethnic boundaries then not, which means other Latinos. And their average height in general as an ethnic group is smaller then Europeans. This sub is mostly of European decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:55 PM
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Being 6’0 is obviously a Eurocentric standard ( in the west)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:52 PM
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Accept rejection, move on, and keep competing with worse odds. So then you understand that it matters. And now you understand why people talk about these arbitrary standards. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:49 PM
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So then you understand? We cannot just “ exist in a place and have offers extended to us? So there fore if we extend an offer towards a woman then we are subject to any critique a woman has for a man? And one of the most commonly critiques being height? You can’t make this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:35 PM
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Because when girls say “ it doesn’t matter “ what they believe as “ mattering” isn’t the same metric. By any measurable instance. It’s changes your odds of finding a partner full stop. And you guys seem to just ignore this for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:12 PM
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Being turned off by shuffling is so specific lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:39 PM
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“And why are you asking me this, when idk of all the girls who rejected you and their personal preferences? “ Because you are the one who said it. We didn’t make it about anything. We didn’t decide what traits are what. “Just because you guys were rejected by other shallow girls does not mean that it is a general rule that "women only want tall men" or "only tall men are successful at dating" If a sizable portion of women are turning down men , even if it’s only 25% specifically for their height…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:37 PM
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Why do you say this as if we aren’t literally the men who have been rejected for whatever shallow trait we have/ don’t have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:42 PM
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And that’s literally the problem with the people who contest dating strategies. Peoples idividual lives are stratified across all forms of socioeconomic status. And you guys for some reason don’t want to acknowledge that. Someone out there literally is 5’0 and balding. Someone out there literally is tall and autistic, someone out there literally is wealthy and ugly. Someone out there is couch surfing but handsome. You guys tend to just assume that a person on online is a sum of averages . A 5’9 …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:39 PM
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Yes. But this wasn’t a conversation about getting assaulted. This is a conversation about unsatisfactory sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:29 PM
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I’m not debating that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:45 PM
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Excuses? We are talking about who is “ in control” of marriage. Bettering yourself and focusing on personal growth makes you no longer average. Unless you d an average amount of growth that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:28 PM
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This is exactly the type of answer I was looking for, thank you. People tend to mean different things when they identify someone as a liberal, and I don’t see many people identify themselves as liberal much these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:23 PM
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I mean do you believe in them as the economic basis that we should be reinforcing and legislating. I identify with socialism a lot, I don’t really like the idea of private ownership of capital and production. I’m not trying to debate or Anthony I’m genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:02 PM
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All you can do is be there. Grieving takes a long drawn out time. You just have let that person grieve and be present with them. There’s no special words to say or actions to take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:00 PM
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Okay so out of all the women on earth, 6 actually let him be in a relationship with her. Nevermind how many he got turned down by. And only one of them was interested in marrying him. Remember women end most relationships statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:44 PM
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Why would someone be excited to accept this is a better question. People don’t want to be single parents. People don’t want to live their lives by themselves. People want to creat solid family structures. Investing into someone who you think you can do this with, and it failing. Is a waste of time, the only thing to appreciate about them is that they ended so you could find the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:40 PM
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Do you believe in capitalism and free enterprise A’s economic bases ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:12 PM
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What even is a liberal to you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:08 PM
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66% of men being married doesn’t mean 66% of men had a table of options. Plenty of those men married the first women that would let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:07 PM
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The average man isn’t filtering options. The woman are. The bulk of women will not allow the average man to be in relationship with them. Never mind marry them. The red pill tells people not to get married. So obviously by options . They mean women to sleep with .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:01 PM
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So how does that make 66% of men in” control “ of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:27 PM
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Women. The average man does not control the marriage market. Only desirable men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:23 AM
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Controversial statement. But no one who participates in this subreddit is “ blue pilled” the blue pilled person is a regular old. Status quo, keeping up with the jones type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:04 PM
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This sentiment obviously comes from the men that women want not participating in relationship dynamics that women want. Women want the men that they desire to want only them and pour only into them. And the men aren’t doing that. But this has nothing to do with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:03 PM
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Which pill is this 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:45 PM
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You are probably confused because you didn’t read. “The problems between the men and women having sex have nothing to do with the man who is not having sex. Her dissatisfaction has nothing to do with the man who isn’t the one dissatisfying her.” You guys need to learn what an entitlement is so you can just stop throwing it as a buzz word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:57 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that pain in sex is an issue between the man who has sex and the woman who has sex. Not the man who can’t have sex whether he choses to or jotc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:04 AM
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This was deep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:41 AM
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Not turned off. But I wouldn’t be looking at her as an option for a long term situation either. I’ll just let her keep sleeping with whomever until she or I find something else to do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:18 PM
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Man I know this is a thought experiment but wow. I’m working class. I grew up working class. I literally don’t know anyone living this way 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:05 PM
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“Theredpill: discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking in a positive identity for men.” What part of this statement says anything about discussion of evolutionary psychology and how it affects the dating world. Especially over the social, cultural, political, and economic landscape over time and how it affects the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:57 PM
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“Furthermore, not all communities are equally keen on EP. It is for example less popular among Men's Rights’ Activists, who tend to favour sociocultural analyses. Even inside communities, positions vary greatly. Examples from all groups are provided, yet the aim of this paper is not to dwell on the many ideological nuances and divergences between manosphere communities, but to draw the attention of the EP community towards their common use of evolutionary science.” I don’t care about evolutionar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:53 PM
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“Theredpill: discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking in a positive identity for men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:37 PM
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Proclaiming allegiance is such strong words lmao. I’m sure you don’t believe that anyone on ppd is going to redpill conventions and donating a organization with some sociopolitical agenda do you? Anyone hosting something like that is a grifter. As far as “ oldest child in the house” I’m sure my partner wouldn’t take to kindly to that considering she’s highly educated and completely self sufficient lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:36 PM
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Of course she likes me because I’m me, not because I’m somebody else. She’s the same as me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:26 PM
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Add to what? You all you did was call the redpill a cult and say “ things” can be easily falsified. There was nothing to contest lol .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:25 PM
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If your red-pilling involves subjugating, dehumanizing, and objectifying women, then your red pill might be a different color then mine with that logic ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:21 PM
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Why would she. That’s not very redpill to say 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:18 PM
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Yes. I know what a no true Scott’s man is. It’s a convenient way for you to decide what you believe to be “ red pilled” when you don’t like something. Most things here people talk about isn’t even “ red pilled” it’s just male insecurity and tradcon rhetoric wrapped up in a little bow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:16 PM
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Not same as me, I’m under 30 with a successful dating life and a current long term relationship. I wonder if they didn’t taek the right prescription..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:13 PM
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“Red pill men like to pretend that red pill tenets require an invitation to some super secret and mysterious club when it's right there on the sidebar, available on all the open and private red pill subs and all other social media as well. “ So polarizing, so readily available, yet no one knows what they are talking about . “Just like any other member of a group who applies the No True Scotsman fallacy when criticized.” You gotta criticize things that people actually do for it to be criticism “A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:11 PM
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Your reasoning for choosing to abstain is besides the point of a man who is can’t chose to abstain of not. Choosing to abstain only has to do with men who get selected for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:11 PM
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How does something being a chance make the extra option worse? Just because you might not like the job once you get it doesn’t make the choice to take the job or not a worse option then never getting the interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:01 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of people here saying they are liberal. I’m curious what does being a liberal mean to you? I’m assuming opposite of conservative right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:47 PM
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It’s fundamentally more valuable to have an option to not have one. I’m sure you would agree with this if it was any other topic where one person gets something and the other party doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:40 PM
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Women don’t get these kinds of reputations ofcourse. Not from men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:35 PM
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Yes. For many women. Their point of perspective is on a higher platform then many men. It is cut and dry. Having a the choice between having sex or not is the point of the conversation. Not the quality of sex if she choses to do so. The man isn’t choosing anything. He can’t have sex that’s bad either. Also. Finding out whether or not someone will be good at sex or in tune with your body, requires having sex with them to do so. So either way. The guy not having sex isn’t apart of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:23 PM
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Come on man. You know the average woman isn’t performing revenge sex. Also to ( get your lick back) * lick being slang for hit* means that she is hitting him back for hitting her first. Which means he cheated and she’s cheating back to show him how it feels. That’s not something regular women do. Most women will just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:42 PM
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Going to repost my same comment. There are 3 people in this equation. A man having sex. A woman having sex, and a man not having sex. The problems between the men and women having sex have nothing to do with the man who is not having sex. Her dissatisfaction has nothing to do with the man who isn’t the one dissatisfying her. Women having mediocre sex vs good sex is not comparable to the man who is having no sex. Mediocre sex is still sex. And the sexless man isn’t having mediocre sex. He is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:39 PM
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With that logic , just take her decision out of it. Men can just assult period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:36 PM
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The only things I’ve learned here is that most people have lost the plot and haven’t actually read any redpill content. Even guys who claim to be redpill do so because they watch fresh and fit or Andrew tate, and not because they read anything from the subreddit or any of the books. Same with the people who argue against the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:31 PM
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Just be in love then lol. Hopefully you didn’t fall in love cause she’s terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:42 PM
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I think the only type of women I generally date are feminist. Traditional women bore me .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:39 PM
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Your wrist is functioned by your forearm muscles. All you can do is put on more body weight for bigger wrists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:37 PM
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Not my girl. Y’all stay safe though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:48 PM
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Is that dude from top boy? Kinda looks like him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:51 AM
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Have you never had a weirdo online repeatedly text and call you over and over as soon as you give them your number? I have more then once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:38 AM
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Honestly this sounds like the exact opposite of what is weird for a platform designed around sociability, but I’ll be quiet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:36 AM
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Because the bulk of the country is over 35 and likely started these relationships before most of the things we are talking about these says
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:56 PM
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Change the channel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:02 PM
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As someone who lifts weights. Same thing applies. Put a significant amount of weight on the squat rack , while having never done a squat before. And let’s see how your back feels after all that correct form you watched. No matter what you say. You can’t analyze your way into knowing how to do a skill yourself. You have to do it to know how to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:43 PM
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No it can’t. The internet can’t give you the mind muscle connections to develop your own methodology around anything, it can only show you how something is done. Just because you read and saw something didn’t mean you can replicate it without experience and practice. Google how to land any skateboard trick and show up without practicing or ever even haven ridden a skateboard and show me that you can land the trick. Sure anyone can do research to get BETTER at the thing that they are trying to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:24 PM
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What doesn’t being confidently wrong help?This is the arrogance that women talk about. The only women that won’t know you are lying are women who are just as inexperienced. The internet can’t teach you how to have a skill. I don’t know why you think it can?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:39 PM
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Why? Why refer to these women ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:37 PM
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Why do you think an experienced woman who knows the nuances of foreplay, “rounding the bases” won’t notice he has no idea what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:20 AM
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Yes. Even my own girlfriend told me she wouldn’t date an inexperienced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:18 AM
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There’s no way you think the average Reddit using woman’s life has panned out like this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:17 AM
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Exactly. We all pay to be with women. So the answer is all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:30 AM
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If they can’t win the debate, fresh and fit will literally kick the women of stream, which doesn’t get brought up enough for some reason. They can make things “ rational “ all they want. But no woman has to accept any conditions from a man that she does not agree to in this day in age. It doesn’t matter if a man is hardwired to cheat or not. If a woman does not want that in her romantic relationships. She is entitled to leave any man who can’t control himself from cheating. That’s just the truth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:27 AM
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Most of us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:19 AM
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28 male 7, 9,4,3,6,5,1,2,8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:32 PM
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Why would the ones who aren’t married be more likely to have kids then the ones who are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:42 PM
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Are y’all really going to let Zuckerberg make everyone a “ companion “?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:31 PM
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Are y’all really going to let Zuckerberg make everyone a “ companion “?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:28 PM
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We tend to do a lot of talking and idealizing in general online about situations that we aren’t actually in yet. Women can be men haters and never want kids or family. Until they meet a man who they honestly feel can be a life partner to them. Men do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:38 PM
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Let’s just get this out of the way once and for all. None of us were born here to be desired. You don’t have to justify your existence or the path of life you take. No matter what. The path you take will exclude people from your dating pool. But really so what. The point is to find a partner who aligns with you. Even within the red-pill. People just don’t see fnf as respectable or trustworthy men. Who would be their partners realistically without being paid to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:34 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t watch movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:22 PM
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Yeah we all got women on their heels forcing them to overachieve and be the best they are ( as they so clearly are doing) As I said, If becoming better and more attractive is faking it for you then idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:23 PM
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I swear there’s like a mind wipe for people after the age of 20. How do you not remember kids acting like this in your classes growing up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:17 PM
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If you aren’t willing to put in work to become a greater version of yourself then I what to tell you. If being “ better” is a chore or a act for you then it is what it is, That’s why men pay. So that pretty much aligns
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:17 PM
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And that’s the problem with blue pill. (The status quo) The status quo defaults to “ yourself” already being a good and acceptable part of society. It’s not When present who you actually are Means presenting a 5’4 first generation overweight Indian man in east Louisiana. You aren’t getting any favors. For most of us. Becoming more attractive means changing a lot of things about your way of thinking and your lifestyle. So you aren’t being yourself, you are becoming a new person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:11 PM
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Different regions hsve different ideals of manhood. Is it really masculine if you are forced to serve ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:04 PM
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I didn’t say anything about being yourself. I said you can’t negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:02 PM
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Quite the statement from a no pill woman huh 🤷🏿‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:00 PM
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You were going to assume that anyway so it is what it is lmao. Everyone knows what raw sexual attraction is. Even you. So idk why you are playing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:55 PM
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This is a debate sub, we are here to debate. The red pill isn’t to be taught here it’s to be debated here .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:53 PM
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Well for one. Almost all men 100 years ago were doing some form of manual labor and almost all men either served or were active in the military ( in america)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:52 PM
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It’s already described raw sexual attraction. The definition of raw is right there. Raw is the descriptive word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:50 PM
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What makes you think this is a brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:46 PM
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No. It’s an ever changing concept though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:44 PM
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Third definition of the word raw. (of an emotion or quality) strong and undisguised. "he exuded an air of raw, vibrant masculinity" Like I said. You know exactly what was meant. Trying to make fun of the language makes you a dork
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:43 PM
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They don’t. Like I said. “ you can’t negotiate attraction “ is like top 10 red pill tenants. It’s all over the redpill subreddit. It’s blue pilled to think you can buy, convince, persuade, or trade your way into attraction. You didn’t know that “ you can’t negotiate attraction” was a important redpill tenant, so clearly you haven’t bothered with “ the entirety of redpill”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:40 PM
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What kind of response was that lmao. You and I both know what it means to have physical feelings of be sexually attracted to someone. Don’t say weird things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:35 PM
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Yes. It’s implied by saying that you can’t negotiate attribution. Money is a negotiation tool. This is a redpill tenant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:33 PM
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That’s why it doesn’t make sense. Both of them are functions of the brain. The brain knows it’s masturbating, the brain knows it’s watching porn. The brain knows it’s not a action being done by itself, but somehow it can’t internalize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 PM
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The difference is a raw sexual desire vs a calculated assessment of long term viability?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:28 PM
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Why would it have a different response? Do you think there should be a different or lesser response of some sort when you imagine something? That has nothing to do with your conscious reception of things. Your conscious understanding is also your brains function..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:24 PM
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You said value. The post is about sexual attraction. This research doesn’t align with the post . Ofcourse when the resources are overwhelmingly hoarded by men, women will then value resources in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:22 PM
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The redpill specifically says that you can’t negotiate attraction. It’s a core tenant of the red pill. Y’all just here to argue against men in general. Not the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:17 PM
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Why do we think the brain doesn’t know it’s masturbating? We know other animals do it. We physically use our brains to do it. We use our brains to find porn. Why do we think the brain doesn’t know it’s doing this? Why do we pretend that our brains didn’t spend millions of years developing around other naked common ancestors, seeing them lay, etc. before we picked up modesty as a societal tenant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:15 PM
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Sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:01 PM
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If you want to be obtuse that’s your prerogative. I came off exactly what I came for. The idea that he is entitled and indebted. ( not oneitis) words have meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:18 AM
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Oneitis is about you idolizing one woman that you like. Nothing about behavior. It’s not one itis. It’s him not taking a hint. Especially since you don’t know what his dms look like, the time between messages. What they were about or anything of that nature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:54 PM
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I won’t be either. Because that’s not what I spoke about. I can talk about the difference between him being entitled and indebted( which isn’t oneitis btw) and him just being a dumb kid who couldn’t take a hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:18 PM
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I already addressed what the problem was. If you disagree with what I said that’s one’s thing. Acting like you can’t read it is another
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:57 PM
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Sureee
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:37 PM
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“ but when I ascribe a teen boys behavior to self righteousness and entitlement, men show up to correct the statement “ Fixed it for you,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:34 PM
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Yes. That’s a cold approach. Seeing someone you find attractive and approaching them on the account of you seeing them as attractive . Not generally speaking with women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:54 PM
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“To save us all time, I believe outcomes are all that matter, “ outcomes in society are heavily based on opportunities and that’s why this doesn’t make sense. “and how those outcomes are reached does not. “ Ah so your a denyer of privilege in general. “People will deny this because they don't want to admit that they can't change the outcome. “ No. This is exactly what’s being stated. Access to opportunity is monumentally better for likelihood of outcome. This is for everything. For some reason y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:38 PM
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To save us time. The overall premise of this argument is that you believe that an inherent privilege over another isn’t a privilege because the person isn’t satisfied with their privilege. And that’s just not how privileges work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:29 PM
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Free pass? I didn’t say anything about why or if a woman should write him off. I talked directly to you about entitlement and feeling of being indebted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:05 PM
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Yes . I’m making assumptions. Just like you did .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:51 PM
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Chad has sex or doesn’t when he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:50 PM
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“ You're proving my point because you don't want to accept the futility of being unable to change the outcome, as most people don't.” Your point isn’t aligned with the context. If you were making an argument about having the choice between fulfilling food and mediocre food, Then you would have something. But a choosing to not having mediocre food cause you would rather have fulfilling food is not comparable to not having a option for mediocre food or fulfilling food. “It's like the choice at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:49 PM
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I was raised red pilled. Even so, the redpill has been around for over a decade. Do you think someone who struggled, and found redpill and no longer struggles doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:21 PM
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“No, you do not have a link with the woman at the shop or the gym.” So seeing a woman doing the same hobby you are doing 4-5 days a week in the same place isn’t a link, but going to a wedding once and seeing a woman there once is? Interesting. “Most people with large social circles “ A qualifier that the average person doesn’t have. “a couple of family gatherings “ and a few work events too, yes it’s normal to bring a friend. “ I definitely disagree that it’s the norm that unrelated people are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:20 PM
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And he obviously didn’t know or take the hint. Cause he was likely a teen. I’m sure it wasn’t 12 messages in 10 hours though. Likely over multiple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:13 PM
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This doesn’t make you “ know” them. This doesn’t make you familiar with them. It doesn’t even mean you know what the link is. Just because you have a contextual conversation starter doesn’t make it less of a cold approach. If that was the case. Any context would make it less of a cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:08 PM
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You will use it if the other option is death. That’s why that analogy is stupid. You I or most people will eat damn near anything if you have been starting for weeks. Sex isn’t a need. So that’s a dumb analogy. It’s more like to having a ham sandwich with no condiments or cheese. And chosing not to eat it because you don’t like it. while the man has no sandwich. The ring analogy also doesn’t work because the higher up person hasn’t actually acquired anything. It’s more like the man never got to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:05 PM
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Does it? Having a balogna sandwich and access to a sandwhich shop even if you can’t afford a better sandwich is much better then having access to neither
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:58 PM
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Red pill men aren’t frustrated with sex, redpill men have sex . Redpill is all about learning to have sexual relationships on your terms. So I’m not sure what frustrations your talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:54 PM
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Did you forget Chad is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:52 PM
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Why can’t he bring up fat girls but you can say “for most individual men who are neithet attractive or charismatic enough to treat women how they want and feel like they're forced to settle for commitment”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 PM
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Yes. This is accurate. At the bare bones, having something. Is more then having nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:46 PM
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How was that red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:43 PM
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Probably cause the other ones were killed in hate crimes , closeted, and died of aids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:40 PM
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Maybe you have something for weddings. Though I’ve been to one wedding since childhood. Not really an occurrence that should be considered. And isn’t it implied that who ever is at your family reunion is in some way family or related to family as such? People don’t normally just bring random friends to family reunions. And work is work, that should be seen as even less socially acceptable then the gym? So, do you not have a link with the woman at the gym or the shop? Considering you are literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:34 PM
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My bad. Thought the definition of womanizing implied manipulation or lying to have sex. Not just having sex with different partners in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:29 PM
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Your point didn’t refute his. A place being more acceptable to approach in doesn’t make it less of a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:27 PM
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Who are these women that you are approaching at someone’s wedding or at your family reunion? Why are you approaching women in your office? Why are any of these more appropriate then the gym or shopping?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:21 PM
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You assumed this is an adult? Why? Everything about this story says teen behavior. Anyway. None of these are equivalent to a text message. So let’s not pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:51 PM
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What are her wants? As far as he knows she just didn’t respond? She didn’t actually say anything? It worked out the same way it would have if he only sent one message. She doesn’t like him, he didn’t find a way to be likable. That’s it. There’s no entitlement or platform of being owed something here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:32 PM
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Definitely aren’t.. otherwise they wouldn’t be womanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:30 PM
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What does that mean? There’s like 2 million men in prison at any given time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:25 PM
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We all act in our own interests. That makes you the bad guy in someone else’s story sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:22 PM
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Written by a man with feet and 6 pairs of shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:21 PM
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There are plenty of womanizers getting validated by women every day. Fuck boys can’t be fuck boys if no one wants to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:18 PM
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“ bond”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:14 PM
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Men harm themselves way more then women do and women live longer then us lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:07 PM
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Women care more about how you make em feel upfront they don’t care about our curriculum visa lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:00 PM
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You and I both know owed is a Loaded word compared to wants. He likes the girl and wants to talk to her . Just because he had nothing better to do but keep trying to talk to her doesn’t mean he feels high and mighty about his deserving of attention from her. He was obviously hoping that there was a right day or right thing to say for her to like him more. I swear ya don’t think of males as people who have to grow and learn things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:58 PM
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Not because they are in debt. I’ll tell you that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:54 PM
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That’s not true. Otherwise men wouldn’t be able to get validation from women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:52 PM
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What was being controlled in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:50 PM
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Exposed and vulnerable are synonyms 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:49 PM
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Yes. And most people don’t live in rural area or upscale areas
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:48 PM
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.. the metropolitan area is much more populated then the cities themselves. Most people live in metropolitan areas. And most relationships start in these areas. They are the most densely populated after all. It’s interesting to assuming that living downtown increases your odds in dating when most of the money being spent downtown is from the people coming in from the metropolitan areas..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:29 PM
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So you discount metropolitan areas for specifically the city limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah but alot doesn’t mean most. And most people live in major cities ( unless they ar Foreign)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:46 PM
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Yes. Many men refuse to protect all women. They don’t refuse to protect their loved ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:12 PM
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Most men today live in working class communities or worse. They will definitely have to stand their ground at some point to protect someone. First world or not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:54 AM
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“ expectations are fantasy” that’s what I’m responding to. If expectations are only fantasy in this particular instance. Then you aren’t participating in the full scope of an expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:29 PM
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I’m going to tell my employer that next time they talk about work ethic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:27 PM
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So then how is it an expectation from women, and then also a fantasy that needs to be indulged at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:26 PM
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No, I didn’t say characteristic, I said expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:55 PM
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What does not all men have to do with this? Does it have to be all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:37 PM
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She she she, what about what you want or need? This is a game of finding a person you care about enough to fufill their needs and desires who also does the same for you. If any of these things come between your relationship then she’s literally not the person for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:02 PM
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