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It’s objectively not the same actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:03 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you care. These tropes aren’t objective. They change throughout cultures and societies. Listening to a bunch of people tell you what they got from society and just telling them that they are lying doesn’t help anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:52 PM
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Yes it does. I’m a black man. Tall dark and handsome doesn’t mean anything to me, we are all dark. Latinos obviously have different standards for height in their culture. And having darker skin is looked down appon for them depending on where they are from. There is not generalized quips you can use for these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:39 PM
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It was not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:34 PM
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Blame shift all you want. The result is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:25 PM
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What does tall dark and handsome mean to a child. Especially if your parents don’t fit the mold 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:15 PM
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Relationships are absolutely taught to you . I reject this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:34 PM
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We aren’t talking about what was observed. We are talking about what was taught . Matter fact, the whole point of the redpill was it being the observation of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:41 PM
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This distinction doesn’t matter. Unattractive women aren’t more likely to be attracted to you because they are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:20 PM
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Parents, extended family, tv and movies. And any girl who friend zoned you would tell you this . I think that’s enough to call society
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:18 PM
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Well. Considering being a victim isn’t a gender issue. That kinda throws this all out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:26 PM
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And majority of relationships end . So doing what most couples do doesn’t sound like it should be standard now does it. I’m trying to understand what is it moving quickly for? Don’t you want to know how a person will be in every season before you commit your life to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:56 AM
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What’s crazy about it? Like why is what I’m asking? I didn’t move in with my gf until 2 years in and definitely did not know the full extent of her living habits or personality until I did so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:49 AM
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I mean. what is this based on? You haven’t seen a person in every season or know all their habits within a year , especially if you don’t live together… And why should I leave her. If she’s the one who’s so sure an so rushed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:47 AM
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Why shouldn’t you need years? Or why shouldn’t you be unsure for too long?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:44 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:42 AM
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I did. Those were very good well known examples. If you don’t like them that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:49 PM
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Are you insinuating that benevolent sexism doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:46 PM
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No it doesn’t. It just means that they are n outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:42 PM
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That’s because you added different situations that made it not sexist. When they are examples of where and how people who believe in benevolent sexism arise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:40 PM
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For humans. Any woman who tells you otherwise is full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:48 PM
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Being an outlier doesn’t change the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:54 PM
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Doesn’t really matter what people think about sex. It’s literally the largest driving force for humans outside of literally staying alive . Anyone saying anything otherwise is full of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:31 PM
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As a man. This entire concept is stupid. None of these things yall gripe about is actionable or anything that someone would vote to make some kind of policy out of. Theres no laws on the books. Theres no congressmen who are running on a feminist policy plat form. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:25 PM
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“ man who is provider but also doesn’t doesn’t hinder any spending” “ man who is a protect but allows the woman to start conflicts around him” “ a man who is generous but doesn’t care about receiving” Things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:44 PM
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Murder and rape between 2 people unrelated to this scenario. It’s such a lame excuse to be a negative person because other people in other places did crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:28 PM
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I don’t even expect compassion. Just a common decency in the public space. But apparently they feel that they can justify being nasty to people 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:10 PM
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This whole message falls under the catagory of trying to justify whatever negative behavior a woman exhibits. And like I said, we can all just behave negatively if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:09 PM
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Someone being mean and rude. Someone insulting you, belittling you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:50 PM
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Considering the vast majority of people don’t. Theres no reason to include the minority of people who do to muddy the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:45 PM
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Saying no directly isn’t a negative reaction. They stated negative reaction specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:43 PM
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Not for me to define. But op said negative reaction and not just declining advances
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:39 PM
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You can still be a socially conservative person and support liberal democracy. But yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:27 PM
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And why not? Going in public means that you will be constantly “ interrupted” by all kinds of conversations and things happening in the world. If me inviting you to a conversation of me expressing interest is met with a negative reaction from you a definitely do have the right to be upset with your behavior towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:06 PM
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Say what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:03 PM
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Yeah but so does being an average guy . You will get swiped off on anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:57 PM
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When I used apps I didn’t even look at the profiles unless I got a match. I just swiped yes on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:54 PM
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They mean she wants you to perform all the things she thinks is good about the male gender role, and discard all the things she thinks are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:52 PM
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I won’t be marrying for any other reason then having children so no. And I also wouldn’t be monogamous with someone I’m not already sleeping with either. So unless in The situation she’s fine with me seeing others while she takes her time. Then probably not. Everything else is fine because I’m pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:51 PM
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I wouldn’t go in the store. I’m not giving money to a store that treats its customers that way, regardless of what other people stole
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:48 PM
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Who is this “ us” person. If you want to be a negative and mean person in public, that’s your prerogative. Quit being confused about why you are met with backlash for negative behavior, and why your justification for your negative behavior reads as bigotry and prejudice rather than sound reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:45 PM
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Whether you care or not is beside the point. If you have a negative reaction to me and my honest attempt at showing interest, that’s all that happened. I approached you, and you were negative towards me. I
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:34 PM
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This is on topic. If you said this about a race, religion, sexual preference, age demographic, disability, etc. people would call you a bigot. That’s true. Just because you think it’s justified to behave this way doesn’t mean everyone else has to accept your justification for your prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:28 PM
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I won’t be marrying for any other reason then having children so no. And I also wouldn’t be monogamous with someone I’m not already sleeping with either. So unless in The situation she’s fine with me seeing others while she takes her time. Then probably not. Everything else is fine because I’m pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:26 PM
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I’m going off the prompt. She had a negative reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:19 PM
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If you say this about any other demographic that’s not “ men” people will call you a bigot. It doesn’t matter what you prioritize. If you have negative reactions to people in your world then people will call it out. Or they will just be negative with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:18 PM
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I mean. In the interaction between me and a woman where the woman is negative to me. I am the one who had something done to me, regardless of whatever her experiences are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:14 PM
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You are confused because none of what is listed here has anything to do with any individual man. You trying to make justification for why women are mean to me if I try to approach someone I’m interested in Because of what other people did at other times doesn’t mean anything to me. My experience is that I tried to approach you and you were mean to me. And a bunch of women being mean isn’t “ okay” for a society that wants to be pleasant. We can just all behave negatively then if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:21 PM
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Buzzword soup
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:12 PM
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This is a lot of loaded language for doing things in bed your partner likes. Which we all do from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:20 PM
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Ohh no I can’t believe a man wants to feel special
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:06 PM
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Ugh I couldn’t imagine actually having to settle for whatever you find by being an average Joe following the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:51 PM
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What would you be trying to influence other men for outside of trying to legislate or socialize some kind of harm for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:54 PM
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Mind you, that’s not a relationship issue. It’s an economic issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:47 PM
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No. It’s pretty unaffordable. Especially do what you get at an average man’s price point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:38 PM
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Not really. They have decided that the largest draw in the first place (financial security) is something they can secure themselves. This just means the average men who provided average financial security to offer are no longer options since women provide that themselves. All that’s happening is women are able to be more picky. And therefore they have less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:13 PM
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The answer is truely don’t date, don’t have kids , don’t have sex, or find a better man. A better man in this case is a man who sweetens the deal for you. If you can’t find him. That’s not his fault. That’s yours. There’s no reason for an individual man to care about this .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:04 PM
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It’s not unfair. It’s only unfair if you are lying and not upholding your end of the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:59 PM
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Strange world view considering it’s the driving force for majority of life and human existence. That’s not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:55 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with seeking sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:51 PM
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Correct. Never commit to women who you don’t have sexual compatibility with. If a woman wants a commitment from a man who likes sex that she doesn’t. She has to cut her loses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:12 PM
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Thank you for reiterating my statement for other readers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:07 PM
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To which I said women aren’t in debt to men. If you want a relationship with a man in particular who likes kinky sex. Then you have to cut your losses or get accustomed to kinky sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:44 PM
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People have sex before relationships start all the time. That tends to be how people find out if their counterpart is kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:42 PM
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No. It’s not. Coercion is when you are threatened with force, violence, or unwanted outcomes if you deny the request, to try to make the person give consent when they otherwise would not. Begging is not coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:40 PM
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Might want to edit your post then. If she wants a relationship with a man who wants kinky sex and she doesn’t. Then she needs to cut her losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:36 PM
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That’s not what coercion is. Thats just an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:33 PM
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Appreciate you reiterating my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:25 PM
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Yes it is related. You can enter a relationship for whatever reason you like. Including kinky sex. If he likes kinky sex. He’s fully entitled to seek relationships with kinky sex. Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean that it’s not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:13 PM
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Kinky sex not appealing to you doesn’t mean it’s “ less appealing” Women don’t owe men anything. It’s called a relationship not a debt. Men also don’t owe women a relationship without kinky sex. It’s called a relationship, not a debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:05 PM
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Depends on what “ it” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:03 PM
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Nah. It’s not even about if I want it so bad as much as if she’s willing to do it with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:41 PM
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Being a simp is not being kind. No one shames men for being kind to women. Being a simp is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:49 PM
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I guess no one is going to give the other gender what they want since it’s split between nice guys and men who are not so nice but attractive 😭 maybe being a man is better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:09 PM
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Why do yall not understand that these guys literally do not have the choice to have sex and that’s the crux of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:51 PM
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If only we lived in a society that instilled confidence and social skills in these men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:22 PM
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Ofcourse it does
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:21 PM
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Bad math. Different men like different things. This isn’t “ men have a wide range” because each individual is very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:05 PM
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My gf doesn’t go to clubs are bars. Would have never met her there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:04 PM
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If the fish aren’t biting, regardless of lake size, you need a larger net to attempt to catch fish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:58 PM
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Yes. Because you are talking as if he’s already got a girl to date. He doesn’t. You don’t get that vetting the girl doesn’t matter if there’s no girl to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:40 PM
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If you can go on a date with a girl that has incompatible values , that still means you attracted her enough for a date. Which is still casting a wider net. Yall are always confused about being selective in dating. These men are trying to attract women for dates at all. That’s why you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:41 PM
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If you can go on a date with a girl that has incompatible values , that still means you attracted her enough for a date. Which is still casting a wider net. Yall are always confused about being selective in dating. These men are trying to attract women for dates at all. That’s why you’re clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:41 PM
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Unless your friend is in a Latino community nobody believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:40 PM
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The average man is not attractive to women. They tell us this repeatedly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:40 PM
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Social skills also helps you cast a wider net. Invalidating this whole premise you guys are trying to build
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:38 PM
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This is exactly why they say don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:36 PM
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The levels of improving have always been here. You guys have just now started paying attention. This is why men push back so much whenever people say we have it easy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:35 PM
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It’s heavily associated with conservatism because you guys don’t know what redpill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:21 PM
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Traditional values in the west means those associated with white Anglo Protestant Christian culture. You are putting question marks because these aren’t “ red pill values” . Like I said. You are misinformed. Red pill is specifically about teaching you why you should not seek to be a traditional man in a traditional relationship in the modern world. It teaches that the world is not a traditional place. And woman are not traditional women. And therefore you should not be a traditional man. The red…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:59 PM
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The red pill does not espouse traditional values. That’s literally why it’s called the red pill. It’s seeing through traditional values and advice and seeing the reality of sexual dynamics between men and women in the society we set up. You are incredibly misinformed on what the redpill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:33 PM
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Why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:55 AM
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Nah. I would say the social standards of what makes a man attractive are preventing it. And men definitely aren’t in charge of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:59 PM
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Yeah. Ofcourse it exists. We are talking about whether or not we there’s are “ plenty of men” successfully using make up to appeal as the every day man to the every day woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:03 PM
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In a way that would make an every day man more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:45 PM
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If you were an authority on the redpill you would know these basics. Yes. The point is to have casual sex and move on. Whether it’s because he found out something he didn’t like, or because he never intended to be exclusive. You are the only one who thinks the point was to keep her. And that’s this is the result of your lack of experience. Women will have casual sex when they want to. Whether they want a relationship or not. You are the person who is foolish enough to think it’s either or.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:10 PM
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My gf does it just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:07 PM
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And the point is. That men like women who look like the “ full beat” naturally. He doesn’t like you having to put on the make up to look how someone else does naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:05 PM
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We are talking about natural make up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:59 PM
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Do you not see my flair? This isn’t redpilled at all. What you mean is that some people don’t have sex until there is exclusively. Which is way less people then you think. People have sex in the dating phase all the time. The redpill doesn’t care what someone says they are looking for. If they end up open to casual sex anyway. That’s their prerogative, not the person who wants to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:54 PM
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If this were true then men wouldn’t live alone much more then women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:44 PM
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Who does that? You go on a few dates, maybe have sex or not. And find out whether or not you would like to be exclusive. That’s the normal path of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:40 PM
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My ideal female partner wouldn’t be someone I can’t have sex with. We could probably make awesome friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:29 PM
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The blue pill is the standard mainstream advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:28 PM
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Only if the point was to lie to get sex. Which only the individual knows whether or not that’s the case . Compared to if the woman said or did something that turned him off from the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:22 PM
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There’s no reason to lie like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:21 PM
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If they are perceived to not be wearing make up it doesn’t matter if they actually were. They would prefer women who naturally look like that , even if other women have to put on make up to achieve the same look
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:19 PM
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Well, considering you can always find out you don’t want to date someone later. that’s not really a negative point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:18 PM
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I don’t know that there’s a good way to enhance masculine features with make up, but then again no one practiced to try
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 06:17 PM
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Because they are toxic as well. Either that or indoctrinated with toxic beliefs about their worth as a woman And wife
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:54 AM
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There’s more normal ones than toxic ones. You don’t see normal relationships complaining cause they are normal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:43 AM
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No. They just don’t care lmao. I’ve done plenty of dating regardless of my hobbies. It’s never been something that intrigued a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:32 PM
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Women have shown literally zero interest in my hobbies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:15 PM
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You said wait. Not not have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:09 PM
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Good. That’s what men want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:06 PM
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No they don’t. A woman would get the best if she could even if she wasn’t improved. This is just women settling when they are average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:19 PM
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This is red pill 101. This is literally why looks money status is the staple statement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:32 PM
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Because he’s exceptional at 2 of the 3 major traits that the people who seek out men are attracted to. If he’s a well known local socialite as well as successful in his business/ occupation, while her biggest show of success or status is being seen with him. Then not only is he already more appealing, her looking good next to him boosts his status even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:28 PM
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These are not the same conversations lmao. Anyway. Looks money status are all pillars of attractiveness. If he has more money and is of a higher status. He is more attractive than she is, if all she has is looks. A woman doesn’t actually care if the man is “ better than her” she just wants the best she can have out of a man regardless of her own position. She just leverages what she has to get it. The only thing that people miss about hypergamy is the worth of a stable relationship, People don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:02 PM
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Even so, you still have to know them. To know what the non physicals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:33 PM
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The qualifier is “ wrong” you don’t know who’s right or wrong until you know em
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:26 PM
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It’s the best solution . It literally saves everyone energy and money and allows her to see you for your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:28 PM
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That’s what this post is. Giving a workable solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:17 PM
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Nope. If you have less sexual interest from women. Then you have less relationship interest from women as well. The pool is always much wider for women than it is men. Whether she wants any of her options is besides the point. Most men have to put in a significant amount of time and effort before they even get considered. And that’s just not the case for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:33 PM
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She won’t be surprised about his options. She’s already been dating men of that ca the whole time. He just now entered the Running
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:11 PM
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I mean as a man, you can never out option a woman no matter how hard you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:53 PM
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All the more reason to stay male ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:39 PM
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Yes. But most of those are conflicts between people who know eachother. If you know how to conduct yourself and not pretend that you are untouchable. Those issues will find you much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:14 PM
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Never. The lack of attention and niceness is made up for by being physically imposing and generally secure in most places
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:53 PM
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Really easy. She just has to be someone I know other men want. And then she has tell me she’s exclusive and ask me to be exclusive for her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:15 AM
5

It’s not self defense if it’s preemptive. That’s an attack. You are the predator
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:33 AM
5

There is no way. Everyone is a protential predator. Men have the tools to be more devastating and effective predators. That’s just the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:18 AM
1

Cause you said precaution. Not in defense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:05 AM
2

That would make women the creeps and perpetrators actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:56 AM
3

And what does that mean? You move away from them? You avoid places where they are? As a Black man who is also treated like a criminal regardless, people move away from us and hide. Is that what you will do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:55 AM
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Yes it does. Everyone has to protect themselves. If you don’t protect yourself, you are vulnerable. You have to take precautions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:36 AM
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What does this mean? You are going to hide inside? Be my guest I suppose. Men are in the world whether a woman is afraid of them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:34 AM
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Yes. That’s kinda the point. You don’t pay for the first few dates. If things go well and you like her then you can start buying things . This is the whole red pill standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:34 PM
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Casual love is love 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:06 PM
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Interesting response…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:45 PM
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What does feel love mean? If you mean. A man will fall in love from having sex. No he won’t in most cases If you mean he will express love for someone through sex, yes if he’s in love already. If you mean feel her expression love through sex. Then yes he can feel that too. I do feel bad for women who think they can make someone fall in love through sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:39 PM
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For the third time. I didn’t say that. You did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:23 AM
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You are skipping past the part where you acknowledge that this is a true thing that women do, and skipping to say what to do about it. And I’ll say again. I didn’t say anything about waiting for exclusivity for sex. You did
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:23 AM
1

So it sounds like you do get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:20 AM
1

Whether or not that type of women is for me doesn’t change that it’s an intentional tactic to use sex in order to get a relationship. And I didn’t say anything about withholding sex until exclusively. That’s different entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:19 AM
1

Confessing love isn’t really the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:07 AM
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All of this is a deflection from the fact that women are trying to leverage sex for relationships. That has nothing to do with what the man thinks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:06 AM
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Correct. I’m not describing ownership. You used those words. Parenting is just the process of responsibly bringing up a child to their adult life with the tools and guidance needed to succeed. That doesn’t change that a child that I produce will be a continuation of my ancestral lines story. Regardless of what they decided to do as an individual. Or how I feel about it. That’s not egocentric that’s matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:35 PM
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Buzzword soup. How is my blood line or my relatives about me? That’s about Me, my parents, their parents, our extended family etc. which my children will directly be a part of. Being a person of my own doesn’t change the reality that I’m a product of all who came before me. I am an extension of them. I am the result of their life’s and choices. Sounds like you have a weak interpretation of what being secure or lacking in it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:16 PM
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Common people are common. Regardless of if you’re isolated or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:31 PM
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Labeling them as good or bad is beside the point. They are people. They are women. And they operate in the way they do. Just like saying men will try to leverage money or status for sex. Obviously not every man will do that. And maybe most won’t. But enough of them do to where every woman dating will have run into a man who does. I’m not going to try to separate myself from them as the bad men. It’s just a fact that that is a commonplace amongst men whether I do it or view it poorly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:23 PM
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But you are willing to attach yourself to someone’s children because you have a good time with their parent? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:19 PM
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What does a child’s innocents have to do with me wanting to raise someone else’s? My own children are my direct blood relatives. And the direct result of my and our ancestors existence and continuance. That has nothing to do with property or ownership. Raising someone else’s child is facilitating someone else’s existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:17 PM
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As I’ve said to the others. It’s a common enough situation that anyone dating will run into someone who tries to do it regularly, has tried before, or will try it circumstantially. Which makes it a common place even if every woman doesn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:11 PM
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I guess common everyday women aren’t the best kind then. Interesting thing to say tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:05 PM
1

Common sense is common afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:39 PM
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The same one everyone else does. The general dating market with every day women and men. And even if it’s 45% of women it’s a large enough minority to make it a common place in dating. Yes. There’s an obvious difference between a women sleeping with a man because she just wants to. And one who’s using it as leverage towards an end. We are talking about the ones using it towards an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:24 PM
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Like I told the other person. I’m not going to make a statement of how many do it. I just know enough do it that anyone who’s dating women will run into it, it’s a commonplace rather than a rarity. And it’s self explanatory. A woman who leverages sex to try and : draw a man closer to her towards a a relationship Use it as leverage to attempt to maintain a relationship And even use it to try and draw someone back in they are no longer in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:21 PM
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Choose better doesn’t make women not do it. That’s a trait of ladies regardless of what men choose. And I’m just talking about women who leverage sex for relationships. You are adding the other characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:17 PM
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I’m not attempting to make an estimate about how many do it, regularly or have done it in specific situations. But I would say enough do it to where it’s a common thing that people dating will run into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:15 PM
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In the single market. The women are leveraging sex for relationships. Not sex for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:08 PM
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Yes they are. They are definitely try to use sex as leverage to gain, maintain , and even rekindle interest in a relationship with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:03 PM
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Those types of women are the women in the market. Women try and trade sex for relationships. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:59 PM
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They know how to do it to their own standard. Or how to compensate without. Women tend to not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:55 PM
4

Well if relationships aren’t the cost of sex. Women should stop trying to exchange sex for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:48 PM
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You think this is false? You always expect a return on things you do for loved ones? That’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:11 PM
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Well. It’s not up to others to plan where I spend my birthday. I know some people do birthday dinners and have big celebrations and whatnot but those still tend to be coordinated by the person who’s birthday it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:03 PM
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Both. For my birthday this past year me and my gf went out of town ( b days are within the same week of each other) my friends and acquaintances and even family weren’t involved in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:56 PM
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Then they unsuccessfully did the chore of cleaning the dishes. And that’s what the issue is. They couldn’t be bothered to do a thorough job. Their way or any way regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:55 PM
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I would rather someone not do this. As a grown adult I likely have plans and things to do for my birthday. A message if you aren’t directly involved in them is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:53 PM
2

No they shouldn’t the person who does the task should do it their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:51 PM
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They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:50 PM
3

Its so common that half the the time you don’t have to ask, she will ask or tell herself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yeah me neither, you are the one who said anything about an exact time of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:42 PM
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I don’t think anything about what you said. That’s not how conversations go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:33 PM
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Conversely, something like 80% of dates I’ve been on, by date three women are casually talking about other men they have seen / dated briefly or long term. It’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:04 PM
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Whether or not I’ve had a hook up, how many, or when isn’t a fine detail of my sexual history. People , especially people who have done these things before, tend to be fine casually taking about having a hook up. Especially as we get older,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:31 PM
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Interrogate is your word. I said talk. As in casual conversation. People tend to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:20 PM
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Well that’s unusual lol. People talk about those things expecially when they have a history. It would be strange for someone not to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:20 PM
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You don’t talk about your past sexual experience with people your dating? That’s a pretty normal occurrence…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:09 PM
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I mean, you would expect someone who plans to be in a a relationship with me to tell me something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:50 PM
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The average woman is working class and living check to check. Just like the average man. This is such delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:05 AM
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I’m 30. Unless your selling a premium product, building a self advertisement on a dating site isn’t going to be better then meeting someone in person. They will have reason to remember you and be emotionally touched by you irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:04 PM
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This is a weird post. If creeping women out is your issue that should be personal. If other men creeping a woman out is now my issue due to prejudice. Then I just find that woman to be a little dumb and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:14 PM
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I mean. We all know someone who’s going to commit some kind of crime eventually or has already the longer you live. Kinda how living in a society works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:27 PM
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Pretty sure the default is to not do only fans lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:18 PM
1

Yes we are? Most people are born average actually. That’s kinda why it’s the average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:13 AM
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Yeah. Then they aren’t mid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:04 AM
1

Yeah. What does that have to do with knowing how women feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:54 PM
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Why? It is virtuous to have a woman who isn’t hypergamous .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:35 PM
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It doesn’t change my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:34 PM
1

Are you refuting that men and women date within their social classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:33 PM
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I don’t think that. I think for each individual woman. She’s not going to fuck the vas majority of men. Doesn’t mean the same men. But she won’t fuck most of them . So that’s why men find value in being fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:30 PM
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Nope. But it is a dynamic that reflects the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:18 PM
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Majority of people aren’t in athletics. College or a frat. These are control groups you are referencing from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:14 PM
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Even if they do this. It’s not the vas majority of groups of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:59 PM
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You date who you want. Or who you can. If you can date a man of the same economic background do it. A lot of men rather leverage their income for looks rather than dating someone because they are in the same tax bracket though. Or you can also leverage your income for looks. And just put up with whatever insecurities arise from the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:04 PM
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More like men cannot be hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:00 PM
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Men do care about women’s jobs. Most people marry within the same social class. Interests not so much. Politics. I mean. That should be obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:53 PM
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Why would men go to places with hot women to ask them what they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:50 PM
2

More success? There’s only mid success for mid men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:47 PM
1

Chance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:44 PM
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No one is going to get flustered at the fact that a man can’t get laid . It’s an insult that means the same thing from both genders. For some reason , you can’t get laid, which makes you inadequate. That’s the joke / insult. A direct movement of men trying to show how happy they are despite sex will be labeled by broader society as such. Not showing broader society that you can thrive without it. This isn’t a drug we are talking about Mature and respectable. Though I recognize it doesn’t really …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:25 AM
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How would the specific group that is disgruntled by this problem do something about the mass narrative outside of joining the “ ingroup”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:09 PM
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What incentive does anyone have to do that though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:03 PM
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25-40
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:51 PM
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That’s not twisted and gross. It’s literally how consent works. He just uses bad words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:10 AM
1

Besides the point. Whether is a date, sex. Or marriage.men place value on it because of the difficulty of getting any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:17 AM
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So ops logic is sound. “ ultimate form of investment” is just hyperbolic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:22 AM
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Yeah. They are going through life with different women who wouldn’t sleep with majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:20 AM
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Even if it’s a large multiple of the amount you would try life with. It’s still a monsterably small number. the difference is like .05% of men compared to 5% of all men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:10 AM
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It’s true? I mean the vast majority of men are not your preference for one reason or another whether it’s politics, race, religion, height, nationality, etc. whatever qualifiers. You walk past 100s of people a day you wouldn’t sleep with .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:05 AM
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It’s not an exaggeration. Any given woman wouldn’t sleep with a good 95% of the human population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:20 PM
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No matter what perimeter your set you wouldn’t sleep with or marry majority of men on earth. Like a good 95% of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:18 PM
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Even if civilization denigrated. There’s all kinds of wonders to this world. Humans lived for 100s of thousands of years before civilization got jeee
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:54 AM
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It’s only insufferable because you are so literal that you can’t hold regular conversations with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:32 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:44 PM
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I don’t care about a specific number. More about how you conduct yourself and value your time. Women who are productive and have higher self esteem simply don’t rack up that many bodies even if they like going out and casually meeting people. Edit: also a body count of 5 at 26 can actually be interpreted as low or average depending who you ask. It’s totally possible someone lost their virginity at 19-20. Slept with 1-2 people and then got into a long term relationship. Left that relationship at …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:34 PM
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Duh. If you are going to pick one person to spend your life with. You want the best partner. And women want to feel like the man who approached them thinks that she is the best partner. How could this possibly be a problem lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:32 PM
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She didn’t. I’m better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:27 AM
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Look into WASP culture. You will likely find what you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:09 PM
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Why shouldn’t we
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:39 PM
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You can try. But they will just clown you for how unmasculine that is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:27 AM
1

Yeah. And that’s nature. Doesn’t really change the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:59 PM
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. Idk why yall always miss this. Obviously embracing who and what you are is seen as masculine by men. And being naturally attractive is masculine to men as well. Plastic surgery is not embracing who you are and being confident. So they call it feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:51 PM
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How is observing how men behave and reacting to it, being put in a bind by women? They are just highlighting a leverage they have over us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:49 PM
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You definitely need a partner to be violent towards them. It’s not refutable lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:59 PM
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Yeah. And so is domestic violence and actually having a partner to perform it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:29 PM
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Yeah I heard myself. Trying to understand how this is an equivalence to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:10 AM
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Who knows how likely they are. They have no women to beats
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:37 AM
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Sounds childish if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:33 PM
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Sure. But even if you can bring yourself from being a 3 to a 6, that’s way better then staying a 3 for your personal life outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:08 PM
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The best the average man can be is definitely enough for western women. Most of us men are just accepting being average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:39 PM
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No. Never was blue pilled. Just got a name for my observations when I started seeing things I already confirmed in my mind online. Not black pilled either though, black pill is just a cope for complacency. You just have to be the best you can, and that’s enough for the vas majority of people on earth. Especially since most people don’t care to be the best they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:05 PM
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Kinda hard to beat a woman with no woman around to beat. Just because a man doesn’t have a woman. Doesn’t mean he wouldn’t beat her if he did have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:40 PM
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Yes they are. The definition of what a man even is has changed multiple times historically to excluded, ethnic groups of males, certain religious groups of males, land ownership/ non ownership, slave/ non slave. Etc. A reductionist take of gendered oppression will never lead to a critical understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:39 PM
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Ofcourse they will. We live in a hierarchy. Individual men are oppressed by higher powered individuals, male and female , every day in various ways. That’s just a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:22 PM
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Sometimes they do. Most don’t. But even if most don’t think it’s strictly platonic, it doesn’t mean they want any further advancements then what they are doing. Some girls like to flirt and feel the attention of attraction and that be all they wanted .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:05 PM
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Yeah. Being in a good relationship is better. But it’s not a measure of how attractive you are. Which is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:13 PM
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No one ever said if would be easy to find one. That’s why you only get one. Out of billions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:30 PM
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If you are a family oriented man. Then it’s worth it. End of story
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:38 PM
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You would have been better off saying different individuals say different things. Saying that people are hearing things is just straight up lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:16 PM
1

No. It doesn’t work that way. Most redpill men are actually using it to date just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:38 PM
2

They didn’t get married because they were balding and fat. They got married when they had hair and were fit. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:55 PM
4

It’s important to live in reality my man . Men want women at all their ages. The only difference is there’s an age where most men want them at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:59 AM
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He became more attractive in adulthood. That’s obvious. Even for redpilled men, you have 5-6 years in the gym, cash flow, stable living situation , by 28 you are much more attractive then you were at 20. Especially for those of us that didn’t actually look like men until later
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:19 AM
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She’s not desperate like I said earlier. She still has access to to plenty of financially stable men who will be the safe option. Even in that game there’s options. It’s not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:33 PM
0

Worlds a complicated place for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:40 PM
4

I’m saying that obviously their mom wasn’t done dating just because she reached her thirties/ 40s, gained some weight, or even had a few kids. The evidence is reflected directly in half of this subs lives with their parents lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:39 PM
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Yeah. But think about it a little more. If you make enough money, to where a woman would date you despite being unattracted to you for that security. Then you should most definitely be in a social class or atleast amongst other women who are attracted to you to you the first time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:36 PM
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Whole subreddit filled with people who had moms with multiple boyfriends and stepdads. We become adults and all the sudden that wasn’t real? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:34 PM
3

If both you and said woman make it to 40 and single. Everyone from 18-70 is still going to try to talk to her. It doesn’t just go away. The main thing that changes is men looking more like men , and usually having more to offer by 40 then we do at 20
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:02 PM
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No. I meant what I said. If you were some average guy. We all know women on average aren’t interested. If you got older. And became above average over time. Then you are now in a better position. Where women you meet will view you like she used to view the other guys. So there’s no point in thinking about her. We can slander women for being valued for her looks all we want, but we as men are the ones doing that. And at the end of the day. If a man really does pick her and take care of her, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:56 PM
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Self respecting would be you not thinking about a woman who wasn’t interested in you some time ago. She’s not interested in you now either. Other women are. ( if you really did improve that much) If she’s settling for you that hard. That means you likely still begged her to do it. She didn’t treat you in a way that would make you want to marry her. This is all a fantasy cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:42 PM
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A woman’s options never truly run out. Especially not compared to an average man. At every stage of her life someone will be trying to do something with her. She she would even more then one “ lap dog “ to chose from. Most people don’t get the person they Realllllly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:36 PM
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She thinks you are unattractive. She wants to settle down with men who are attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:20 PM
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You wouldn’t. Because she didn’t want you then. And she won’t want you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:19 PM
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Nah they said this person who specifically over looked you prior. So this can’t be a stranger. Otherwise there’s no point in holding a grudge over women who literally didn’t know you in other phases of your life, just like we wouldn’t like for her to hold grudges against us for other phases of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:12 PM
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I figure if you go on to be extremely successful in life then this person wouldn’t even be in the same social circles as you at that point. With all the properties you now have it’s not even worth thinking about some girl from a time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:07 PM
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Why do you think this person would want to marry you after some time passing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:01 PM
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Nope. The women are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:17 PM
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Who said that? If misogyny = violence, then most people aren’t misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:58 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:34 AM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:01 AM
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It's directly relevant Please provide these examples of all these men who raped and killed and abused women, directly and exclusively because of some woman's "misandry" "Misandry" doesn't cause men to do any of those things. Men do those things because they want to and can
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:58 PM
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Advocacy Isn’t misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:36 PM
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The metric for who’s a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:34 PM
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If this is your metric then the vast majority of men aren’t misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 10:59 PM
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15 years ago this statement would have been insane
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:05 PM
10

All your doing is trying to justify women’s lack of action. It’s kinda sad. Women don’t approach cause what will men think 😱😱😱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:00 PM
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Oh man I don’t havee any pain from that I’ve had plenty of love and relationships since then, but it definitely effected my teen years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:23 PM
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I’m 29. I still remember the look on this kids face when that happened to me in 4th grade 💀💀 talk about messing up your self image
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:18 PM
13

Nah after the first no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:59 PM
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Because women can be actively hostile when expressing their disinterest lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:05 PM
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Why? All media includes this media. Why can’t there be a discussion about this media
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:52 PM
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I mean , what does finding this out change?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:23 PM
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Just saying anything lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:18 PM
6

Yes. Pretty women get princess treatment, regardless of if they are stuck up. Being stuck up isn’t what gets them princess treatment. It’s being pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:14 PM
2

It was probably 7 inches long
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:42 PM
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Lust is a normal human function. Suppressing it in that way is what’s unhealthy .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:05 PM
1

The way that I would never commit to anyone if this was a social norm 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:02 PM
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I don’t even get what yall mean when yall say open up. Are you tell us to tell women how we feel about them? Or are you telling us to tell them about the negativity in our lives that shaped us? I’m not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:53 PM
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That’s the answer . It’s different because it’s not up to me to decide what a woman’s standards are. I am myself. And I either fit her standards or I don’t. That has nothing to do with my own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 PM
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It’s not for me to judge myself. It’s for her to judge whether or not she would be with me. I am who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:46 PM
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Nope. Not more then me maybe half as much as me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:52 PM
0

Yeah. During my casual phase ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:15 AM
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Yes. Stronger than most women. But not then most men. The biggest threat to all of us as humans are bigger and stronger men. Even to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:24 PM
1

So then we should have the same avoidant styles. There are men on this subreddit who are 5’6 130 pounds. They’re flight or flight should always be in flight mode
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:12 PM
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Then why don’t men have it? It’s not like we are much more safe from eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:49 PM
1

Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:53 AM
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Well. I could explain horrible things that happened to me as a male. But I’m just an individual. Just because you had an experience yourself doesn’t make it a woman’s issue cyber bullying isn’t a woman’s issue. Being sexually abused largely is though. I’m not sure why you particularly just want the things that happened to people in their teens to just go away though. Isn’t that the point of the prompt? To discuss times these things happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:35 AM
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You got cyber bullied? That’s what showed you women have it harder? I mean people live individual lives of varying difficulty but cyber bullying isn’t what I would consider proof of women’s hardship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:20 AM
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Things that happen in formative years affect how people navigate life. Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:42 AM
0

I’ll always show empathy to those who have been manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:28 AM
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He didn’t say anything about offering services. He said they treated him well so that that he would do their homework. That’s a request. Not an offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:47 AM
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Yes. I not going to tell a woman. “ I’m sorry but if you feel for it, that’s on you” when she’s manipulated into sex. Especially not when the topic is times that men treated them horribly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:45 AM
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I thought the post was about women treating people horribly. Not who fell for manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:40 AM
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Yada yada yada “ women please be humble and see us” Anyway. I don’t think women are more beautiful than men on average. A 5 out of 10 woman is matched to a 5 out of 10 man even if she’s got make up and a low cut shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:01 PM
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No. Conservatives just tried to co op it and make it about marriageable women, sleeping around is the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:05 PM
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Yes. That’s the point. Creating negative connotations around men who are virgins is bad. Regardless if they were an asshole first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:20 PM
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What does being an asshole have to do with shaming someone for their sexual experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:13 PM
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Why are you lying? You know the average woman puts in an average amount of effort. Why are you pretending they out do men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:42 AM
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What do you mean how does it work? Plenty of people are still single by 30, plenty of people settled by 30, and plenty of people cheat/ have non monogamous arrangements. Marriage and cohabitation barely has any grounding as a deflection for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:07 PM
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I don’t expect women to do anything. This is a conversation about how women will be in rotation rather than not. Exactly. There aren’t enough attractive men on earth. So plenty of women would rather been in attractive men’s rotations then be with a regular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:55 PM
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No I wouldn’t. But I’m also not willing to be in a rotation. Plenty of women are though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:49 PM
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What should there be smoke for the men in a conversation about women rather being in rotation then dating a ugly guy she can have to herself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:40 PM
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What is there to reflect on? Being ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:39 PM
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Yeah slump busters are real. Men who are okay with casual sex with have sex with someone unappealing if they haven’t had sex for Long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:08 PM
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I’m a man. And dating apps have been successful for me yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:21 PM
1

Yo gotti
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:03 PM
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No it’s not. Men coined the term and men do the overwhelming majority of of dm sliding. It’s just to hit on someone in their inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:44 PM
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So what. Let them make money on their own from those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:14 PM
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This is not what sliding into someone’s dms is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:10 PM
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I don’t know why people think we can’t tell if you have slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:34 PM
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Do they know what you meant. Here on Reddit? You just said a 21 year old from the ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:47 PM
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Like I said. My girlfriend is from the ghetto. Her parents also scraped it out of the mud to put her in the suburbs in middle and highschool and she has a degree now just like me. “ from the ghetto” is such a bad way to view people. But I hear you man. Poor women don’t deserve nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:41 PM
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Yep. As a black man with dreadlocks and tattoos. I’m seen as a ghetto hoodrat myself even though I’m from the suburbs. I’ll let others chase “ sophistication”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:30 PM
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Learning today that poor women don’t deserve to be wined and dined. My girlfriend is from the ghetto. If that answers the question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:42 PM
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Af/bb is about a woman having a a slutty early life / having a child out of wedlock, and then having a a beta guy o pay to commit to her/ raise the kid. Not just a woman having more experience then the man she’s dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:03 PM
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I think he’s saying that men’s lack of access to social status is decreasing our testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:07 PM
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Definitely a cop out. Most people under 30 haven’t married anyone yet. But it’s more significant for a redpiller some how. It’s a cop out. Welp. THATS to bad. The redpill is what it is. And you saying it’s something else. Doesn’t matter. It’s just uninformed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:02 PM
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Cop out Just because someone says they make “ red pill content” doesn’t mean they are a spokes person for the redpill. People like to argue about discussions that aren’t redpill in the first place. Just like this original post. Sister
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:50 PM
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I’m a redpill man with a long term relationship headed towards marriage. So I guess that logic is debunked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:32 PM
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What do you mean those are the woman that redpill men want to be with. No where did you say redpill men want to commit their life to, or raise their family with sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:06 PM
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Not really. It just says if we find similar things funny. I don’t even have friendships just cause I think they are funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:46 AM
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Never really thought about how funny a girl is when I decided if I like her or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:40 AM
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If they live together then they are either roommates or partners, If they don’t live together. It’s not a serious relationship anyway. She does what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:57 PM
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“ how she choses to spend her money is her business” Partnered on housing (money) children( money) life goals (money) travel (money) hobbies (money)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:38 PM
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It is a q4men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:34 PM
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Like what? Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:34 PM
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Sure it does
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 PM
1

What exactly are we partnered on then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 PM
2

How can she afford something that he can’t? They are together?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:00 PM
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That’s not a solo trip. You are going on a family trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:35 PM
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Well in that case it’s probably not that serious of a relationship then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:07 PM
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Oh it does say lives separate. Yeah who cares. The relationship isn’t that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:46 PM
2

Why? Who’s dating a girl who works at Wendy’s and even quits that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:32 PM
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You didn’t say that in the initial promp. If they aren’t married or cohabitating that changes everyone’s perspective that you are getting here. If finances are completely separate then it’s just a woman you are seeing, and she can do whatever she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:31 PM
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How can she afford something that he cannot if they are together? Don’t they have the same bills? If they are in the same life situation and he can’t afford something, that means she’s going to spend money unnecessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:17 PM
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How can he not afford it, but she can? Do they not live together? If they don’t share bills together then the relationship isn’t that serious anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:15 PM
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You keep neglecting the part about having a partner. You think that she is supposed to go on this trip and spend a boat load of money that we can’t afford. And then come back home to the man. That’s not a synced up relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:13 PM
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Is he supposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:11 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:10 PM
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Would you like the word preference instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:18 PM
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That’s backwards. the blue pill is the status quo and the current dating system. The redpill is an observation of the blue pill. And the black pill is just the red pill without action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:38 PM
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Wouldn’t ethnicity do that better. More specific variable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:29 PM
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No. It’s the nature of greed. Everyone isn’t default violent. We aren’t all seeming with violence that’s being suppressed every day. That’s why majority of people aren’t conquers and warriors. Defending yourself doesn’t make you inherently violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:26 PM
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Why is that 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:16 PM
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Laws and punishment are not what keeps me and plenty of us from going on violent rampages. A part of masculinity thay isn’t talked about so much is the ability to understand the potential you have to cause destruction and chaos, and using that power to care for, secure, and protect things and people you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:16 PM
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Also I would go so far as to say that masculinity is another form of conformity that excludes men from true fulfillment of their identity based on their ability to perform masculinity. But the redpillers say I’m not redpilled when I say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:12 PM
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The easiest way to describe is to ask an average man who is more powerful. Himself or someone like Hilary Clinton. You would have to be disingenuous in order to say that by virtue of being male, you have a higher socioeconomic status then Hilary Clinton .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:05 PM
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My explanation was simply that the owning class, the “ rules” would definitely feed other men to the wolves because we aren’t all viewed as equals. That’s even recognizable by the statement that women are intrinsically valuable, but men have to provide utility or usefulness to be valuable. Valuable to who is the question. Feminists are identifying a problem, but attributing it to all men. In other words they are being bigots
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:30 PM
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Completely relevant. “ males ruling” doesn’t mean “ men are in charge. It means a certain group of men were in charge. Most males didn’t own human beings or land. And as a black man ( for americas sake) we definitely weren’t owning anyone’s land or people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:20 PM
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Because “ men” isn’t the ruling group of the patriarchy. Only the top men are. As defined by early forms of politics. “ men” were property owning males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:39 PM
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62 percent of the country. That’s who.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 PM
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Majority of people in this country do not have that money. Especially if they live on their own. The average men who are complaining about the disinterest from women are also most likely living pay check to pay check. That’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:23 PM
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Sure. If going to Vietnam and bringing a woman from a foreign country wasn’t a massive pay wall for the average American I would hear you . But still, flying across the world is entirely going out of your way in the most literal sense compared to setting up tinder and swiping
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:17 PM
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Being approached by atleast one guy is not an invalidation of the top women taking most of the approaches…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:25 PM
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So what? That doesn’t mean the concentration of approaches from men isn’t at the top 20% of women. The only difference is that more men approach generally then women. They are still approaching the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah . A minority of people get approached . Women already approach a small amount of women, and men all approach the same women anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:05 PM
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Facebook does it for you in one click. Do you really consider if “ out of your way” compared to flying abroad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:04 PM
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No. Shame more men for making take’s like this one 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:50 PM
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Yes . Who even is that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:17 AM
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No lmfaooo idc how good they looked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:08 AM
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No. You just have a horrible lack of reading comprehension skills. Either that or your trolling lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:21 PM
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Not you doing literally the same thing on another post 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:17 PM
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Sounds like bigotry to me, “ be like us, even if you can’t, or else your bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:02 PM
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“ normal” yeah. This isn’t missed on anyone. It’s a question of perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:28 PM
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What do you mean according to who . That’s literally what the redpill is basing its model on . That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:23 PM
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That’s the point. The status quo pretends that everyone is the same and that something is wrong with you when you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:14 PM
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Sure. But “ blue pill people” won’t acknowledge that social norms means much more then your hobbies and and if you are funny or awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:03 PM
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Yes. All of these are either prerequisites for being a normal adult, or imply that something is wrong with you that needs fixing. They are really just dismissive of the question of how to date more effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:44 PM
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The mainstream social order and thinking. is the blue pill . The blue pill subreddit isn’t “the blue pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:39 PM
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Because he doesn’t know what he’s talking about obviously. He likely has an image in his head of “ a guy with swagger” whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah. His topic was about “swagger” and sales pitch. What he means that he becomes a confident individual in whatever niche subculture that person is in. We all know there’s no universal swagger that attracts all women. It’s a bad premise from jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:19 PM
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Yeah. His topic was about “swagger” and sales pitch. What he means that he becomes a confident individual in whatever niche subculture that person is in. We all know there’s no universal swagger that attracts all women. It’s a bad premise from jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:19 PM
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Op is wrong. It’s z very dorky take. But that doesn’t make what the person you responded to here wrong either. There is plenty information about how to improve your life significantly. I don’t know who is guaranteeing 100% success rate with whatever women you pick just by doing redpill things? Reading it that way is just stupid. The entire thing is about improving your chances. Not guaranteeing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:13 PM
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Women don’t like conformists. That’s pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:02 PM
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What do you mean by 100% of the time? You know women have individual choice right? There’s no such thing as getting 100% of women for any man on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:00 PM
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What the hell does that mean 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:49 PM
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They are too different phases for the same type of relationship? Baby moma is just a verbal break down of My baby’s mother. What does the hood . Just lik “ finna” is a break down of “I’m fixing to”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:14 PM
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I don’t recall when we started praising and glamorizing anyone masturbating. It’s just a fact of life that most people masturbate somewhat regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:31 PM
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Sounds prejudice against the use of certain vernacular rather then the actual type of relationship itself. But that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:09 PM
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No he isn’t. He’s implying that he doesn’t live in the ghetto. Why wouldn’t they call the mother of their children the baby’s mother? Lmao that’s literally what their relationship is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:04 PM
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No. If you didn’t marry that person. Then they are your “baby moma” which is just short hand to say the mother of my baby. Since there’s really nothing else to call that relationship. People generally call their former spouses they had kids with their ex husband or wife instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:59 PM
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He didn’t say he wasn’t involved or that he was high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM
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A baby moma is just the mother of your children that you aren’t married too. Just because a man didn’t marry the women doesn’t mean he’s not an active father
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM
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He didn’t say he was high value he said he doesn’t live in the ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:55 PM
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No. A high value women gets the type of man who she wants. Because she has the luxury of choice. She simply just won’t date insecure jealous and possessive men. There are plenty of us who do not fear that the women we are seeing will leave us. We aren’t scared lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:53 PM
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“Obama was more powerful than any of these individual men, nor do many of those rich men self identify "white". I bet they don’t. Obama isn’t “ black” either. Racial constructs are funny aren’t they. “If you want to bring race into it then you can't just play dumb that many of those rich men you're mentioning do not view themselves ethnically or otherwise as "privileged white men". It doesn’t matter if they view themselves as white. If the public perceives you and agrees on your race. Then that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:15 AM
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This is a post about the highest privileged. The highest privileged person in the world is one of these richest men who are white. In the country backed by the strongest military in the world. It’s the truth. Economic stratification is its own topic. ( any individual white man still holds more privilege ( or lack of disadvantage since you don’t like the word privilege ) then pretty much everyone else outside of those who are significantly more well off then that individual man.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:53 AM
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Ignoring race where the predominant race of the country and top ten richest people of the country, that is the most dominant global superpower in the world, is just plain delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:28 AM
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For every case of a rich white man who got some form of punishment or being held accountable in a way he couldn’t overcome, there are millions of others who behind do as well let’s not do this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:29 AM
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Thinking anyone besides a rich white man in the west is the most privileged group on earth is just being so unserious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:21 AM
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Because the nature of something being natural means it’s inate to our biology. Being attracted to other women, having casual sex. Etc. Shows that our natural inclination is multiple sexual partners. Monogamy is a discipline really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:51 AM
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Well . Does anyone ever expect love?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:51 AM
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You seem to think society is “ natural” and has to work. Women’s individual interests does not and should not be legislated in this way. We just have to deal with the ramifications of their breeding choices. Really it’s a bigger problem for those who want to have more little employees in the future rather then us as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:51 PM
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If humans were naturally monogamous then cheating wouldn’t be a novelty. And neither would casual sex. Monogamy is a social structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:46 PM
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I have a BA in sociology actually. Hypergamy is not an investment in potential. It’s an investment in what already is. Sure there are economically well off kids in stem. But women aren’t going to be flocking to stem majors in hopes that they make it big later, when the fraternities, finance, economics, law etc departments are full of people who came to the university already well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:06 PM
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That’s not how it works. You guys seem to forget that Rich kids are already at the universities. They don’t have to date stem guys because the fraternity guys are already loaded as they head into finance, accounting, and law. Artists only pool from the same types of people. They don’t pull in all women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:46 PM
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Hypergamy is a social phenomenon, not a biological driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:43 PM
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The average guy isn’t going to attract the average girl. He might attract, ONE GIRL, once or twice every few years. And there’s nothing to say whether she will be above below or average. And to be “fine” isn’t to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:41 PM
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You guys say accepted. What people have going in the middle of long term relationships is not the equivalent of attracting a new person. Men with dad bods likely didn’t have them until they were well you know, dads
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:36 PM
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Take a boombox and play J cole outside of her window
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:08 AM
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God I’m so tired of the “ victim mentality “ thing. We will never be free 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:32 AM
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Bc most people who will have kids generally have by then and your body has most definitely started declining by then as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:36 AM
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All your doing is telling these women that they should focus on other men. While that man still exists. that top 20% man will still be top 20%. And someone will be with him. This is the same thing as telling men on dating apps not to be thirsty and message everyone. You practicing this as an individual will just set yourself up to miss out because of the men who actually did message everyone .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:47 AM
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Because. People are trying to make legislation and social standards for other peoples lives based on warped and delusional perceptions of the world and people around them. instead of understanding that their experience has more to do with the hierarchy and their place It, and their response to that place, rather then objective truths about our natural inclinations or experiences. This line of thinking leads no where but prejudice, bigotry, discrimination and disenfranchising for those you disagr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:14 PM
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For funsies. But seriously, what’s the point of anything. With this logic. There’s no point in living last like 40 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:45 PM
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It’s very unmasculine to be trying to redeem yourself to a woman who doesn’t want you lmao .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:21 PM
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As if men receive child support or custody in equal cases
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:04 PM
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How about we stop correlating dick size with manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:47 AM
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What do you mean disagree, it’s not a debate lol, it’s peoples lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:31 AM
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Correct complaining that no one wants to date you isn’t a question though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:26 AM
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On what part? I don’t agree that complaining about not getting a date is questioning anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:14 AM
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Any man who tries to out casual sex a woman is just going to get his feelings hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:58 PM
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I’ll change the world from industry to profitable for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:55 PM
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Lgbtq obviously stands as a proxy for all groups that are marginalized and discriminated against . That’s why lgbt groups are always at feminist, blm, food kitchens, non profit organizations, etcs. Not only this. But lgbt people also tend to intersect with more then one group. Like a black lesbian, a disabled bisexual person, a home insecure trans person etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:09 PM
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So the enemy is the men who give up sex to easy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:05 PM
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But it’s also my responsibility to invest myself in a trust worthy woman. Not hers. If she’s a cheater or not, if she maintains relationships with exes and ex flings, those are her choices to do. But me involving myself with a woman who has current maintained relationships with men that she’s already gone that distance with before. You get what you get really. Who knows it might not be a problem. But for anyone who has the ability to chose, it would just be easier to involve yourself with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:30 PM
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Yes . It exists without the redpill that’s the point… It’s a place where men share observations about the new dating landscape and discuss what does and does not work when attempting to date….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:16 PM
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Me and my gf are pretty much equally yoked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:14 PM
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It’s literally in the side bar. “Trp: discussion of sexual strategy in a world increasingly lacking in positive identities for men” It’s literally about the shift in values and ideals around men and women and adapting to the new frame of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:12 PM
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If they have been friends for years before I show up, and I find that it’s her ex. Then I won’t take her seriously. It’s pretty simple really. Met plenty of women like that before. We can just see each other with no exclusivity until one of us moves on.this is my blanket rule. It works well because she can maintain the relationships she would like to maintain and we can enjoy ourselves together until there is someone who either of us will be with long term. The language you use doesn’t matter. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:11 PM
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They are anti 🌈 for the main part. Everything else they don’t care as much about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:01 PM
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He’s famous cause plenty of us support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:55 PM
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She was insulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:52 PM
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South Korean men giving it all up 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:31 PM
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“ they hate you beyond reason and logic”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:30 PM
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How is her maintaining a relationship with her ex a compromise with me? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:26 PM
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Puas pretty much founded trp so duh. But anyway, idk why we have to keep telling you guys that the redpill is about adapting to the modern dating world. It’s literally about removing men’s entitlements and understanding the new landscape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:15 PM
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He should just wait until he’s older” some woman will be desperate enough to give him a shot. “As ol jordan says
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:30 AM
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And I don’t know what you mean by “ fixing “
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:11 AM
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Yes. So like I said. It’s very interesting how we can just dismiss men as something being wrong or broken with them because they aren’t being picked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:03 AM
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Jordan Peterson also said “ if she doesn’t pick you she’s right, you are wrong.” So idk if that’s where I’ll take my dating advice from. It’s so interesting how we can easily say a man is broken and need fixing if the women don’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:18 AM
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This is what you should be telling her. I know therapy is a normal process. She’s the one who said having troubles that are enduced by your position in the world and your immediate frustrations is mental illness. Not me .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:08 PM
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I guess the real solution is to provide women with the good oll therapy bait and switch as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:26 PM
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“ you can complain,your complaints will be heard right on the other side of this pay wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:25 PM
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I just responded to ops prompt brother. You are the one who changed the statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:02 PM
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Correct. Neither of those are popular or mainstream opinions. Do you how crazy you would sound to tell people “ actually , women are only attracted to the top 20% of men 🤓” in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:52 PM
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Reading comprehension is key. Good luck to ya 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:48 PM
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It’s definitively not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:45 PM
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Sounds very specific
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:39 PM
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“ Except that's literally not what I said 😂” Correct, it’s not literally what you said, but it’s the broader theme of course . “What? This doesn't English 😂” Sometimes I forget to use layman’s terms. I forget some folks don’t know a lot of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:38 PM
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“Not being able to get a date is not the same as real mental illness but good try 😂” You heard it here first guys. Men can’t be dissatisfied with their life or circumstances or something is mentally wrong with them. That’s why they tell you to seek therapy. You struggle because something is literally wrong with you that needs correcting. Couldn’t possibly be because socioeconomic status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:26 PM
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“No shit, who likes to hear grown men whine about that? It's pathetic” “Ohh no, the men are closed off, repressed and depressed, why won’t they express themselves and be vulnerable “
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:21 PM
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People just don’t like to hear men complain about not getting dates is all. But for some reason there’s a huge industry for listening to women complain about the boyfriends and husbands they picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:59 PM
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No there is no point to doing this, you are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:09 PM
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Well. Generally the end goal for any movement is security and opportunity. People just don’t agree on what that looks like, for example me being a socialist, I believe in public programs for poor, disabled, veterans, homeless , drug addicted, etc. but plenty of others, who also want to see security and opportunity for these demographics, don’t want it see it from may perspective,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 PM
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It’s not they. It’s religious people. I’m redpill leaning person. But I’m also a secular socialist, the Madonna whore complex means nothing to me because i wasn’t raised in purity culture about women’s bodies or their modesty. Theres people from different walks of life in the red pill. But the redpill seems to hit Protestant Christian’s the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:25 PM
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Well. This country has multiple demographics of suppressed people. So what is considered equality for one demographic doesn’t solve the issues of another. For example. I’m a black man right. Pretty much everything is very clean cut for me outside of prejudice that I receive for being black. Changing the narrative for being black doesn’t solve queer, women, disabled, veteran, poor, religious. Etc issues. It just solve blackness. Which for me would be the only issue. But not for many others. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:22 PM
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Is that not just an observation? What part of that states that I as an individual am defeated just because there are traits out there more desirable then the ones I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:14 PM
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“It’s not prescriptive at all. But think about it. If this is the female nature, why wouldn’t we have gone the whole feminist route hundreds of years ago?” Because we didn’t live in the same type of society where people worked jobs instead of working the land 100s of years ago. Basically the Industrial Revolution and evolving technology made feminism necessary. “Why is it that only hurt men are drawn to it ? “ Men who fit the status quo and reap the benifits of such don’t have to understand why …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:13 PM
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What’s defeatist about identifying a demographic that you don’t belong to is more desirable then the demographic you belong to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:54 PM
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Agreement on what? We don’t agree on policy and legislation. They just agree on sexual strategy. And we don’t even all agree on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:52 PM
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That’s because trp is about sexual strategy. I don’t understand why you guys think that trp is a politics movement. People of all different political ideologies are red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:50 PM
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What is a victim hood dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:47 PM
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No one is happy with the situation as is, everyone has theirs political takes. That what kind of point is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 03:46 PM
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Both porn and social media are about what men view, not what men say they are. This I isn’t equivalent. The equivalent would be women getting their standards from watching romantic comedies and tik tok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:50 PM
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It is very much comparable. In his logic. “ defying cultural norms” in favor of equality is whiny. That means defying segregation was whiny. That means opposing any form of bigotry, class, race , gender, religion, nationality,etc is whiny. When someone sets up a premise like this on something small like how chubby a lady is, they are also setting a premise up for All these larger issues. First it will be “ don’t be delusional, your fat, unstylish, not wearing make up, etc adapt to the social sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah redpill is definitely not about long term relationship success. You can’t teach that on a forum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:05 PM
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“Yes, if you dispute this then you clearly don't pay attention and don't know anything.” No “The status quo is what society determines is attractive and valuable And that's women lying about their status.” What do you mean lying? Women don’t determine their own status. Rejecting the status quo doesn’t make it a lie. “You're an embarrassing simp. I can't imagine that you're actually red pill and don't know why you like to argue because you're terrible at it.” “ you aren’t mad at women with me, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:12 PM
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No. The status quo is what society determines is attractive and valuable. You are saying that they need to work to fit those standards instead of esteeming themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:20 PM
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Work on what? Fitting the status quo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:13 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s what the overall narrative is here. Women should think of them selves in the terms that society does. So that you dare the people society thinks you should. That’s not redpill thining to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:00 PM
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Whatever that means. Do you just want to hear times where a woman liked a man who didn’t like her back? Do you want her to internalize that? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:28 PM
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You think a hot Japanese girl who has tatoos is approaching men to get rejected? Men of all demographics are begging for that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:25 PM
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So what would them not esteeming themselves do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:24 PM
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That’s not how this works. We don’t exist to be valued. A women who is covered in tattoos and works in the arts, is not turning around to try and attract a conservative man. Generally, women loook like that specifically to turn off these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:21 PM
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I agree that women generally have more fragile egos then icels, but that’s because icels have a level of entitlement that the ever age person. Male or female doesn’t have regardless of their appearance . Icels don’t believe that they are insecure. They believe that the rest of us are doing something wrong to them. And that they are owed something. That is not the same. Also. Women definitely discuss insecurities with each other. They don’t discuss them with us. They don’t care about seeming vein…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:12 PM
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What does that even mean? We are Americans. ( I assume you are too) The country is bigger then most countries. People of all different religious, regional, and ethnic backgrounds from all over the world live here. What “culture norms” are being defied exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:02 PM
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Why wouldn’t they? Pretty much everyone hates when others throw rocks from a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:57 PM
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What a whiny premise. No one has to tell you anything about their views on their on body or worth. No one has to behave in a way that you deem appropriate based on the their position in the social hierarchy. That’s blue pilled. To many people here use the redpill as an excuse to try to drag women rather then see the world for what it is and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:56 PM
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Proving you wrong or right in this situation both feeds into you and does nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:51 PM
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Why should someone tell you, who already have negative commodifying views of women. Anything about their insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:48 PM
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Yeah pretty much.a lot of people either aren’t afraid or just plain don’t care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:04 PM
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Do y’all really truly be waiting on sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:38 PM
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The redpill isn’t a political ideology. My political leanings are socialist, The blue pill is just the status quo. In the United States the status quo is moderate right neoliberal Protestant Christian. It’s the framework for most policy and ideals in this country. We generally just talk about the dating aspect of it, but it’s the same status quo in regards to dating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:27 PM
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“In example, there are large portions of westerners who think homeless people should be jailed. There are also large portions of westerners who think homeless people should receive MORE help. SOME of those westerners even think jailing homeless people IS helping them.” Exactly. Helping the homeless in a way that benefits them in the long run and helps them towards success and movement of class is not the status quo. The current status quo maintains and suppresses homeless people, and even jails …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:23 PM
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Laws that make poor people keep being poor. Food deserts that keep poor people unhealthy etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:27 PM
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I mean the current western status quo. There’s plenty of people who don’t care to fit or maintain the status quo who aren’t redpilled as well. The people who created the blue pill sub still reinforce the status quo though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:21 PM
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No. The bluepill definitely cares if you fail. We even enforce laws that are known to disproportionately affect those who are failing and hinder them from further seeking success. They care if you succeed. The status quo loves markers of success and access. The status quo does not care about the process That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:05 PM
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You think the pinnacle of masculinity that all men would come together and agree on would be a talk show host? Lmao stop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:51 PM
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Are we going to pretend 50 year old women don’t have life partners now? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:48 PM
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He’s saying that the general status quo doesn’t care about your path to the results or your reason for striving for them. They only care about the results. Which is true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:45 PM
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You folks need reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 01:40 PM
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“Its still not the point. Her being arrested and charged doesnt changed the fact that women are arrested and charged less in general. In fact the reason things got this far with her in the first place, was because she decuded to be so brazen and public about it. What do you think made them this way? It certainly wasnt because society is hard on them.” Women get arrested and charged less because they do less. You have to accept that women don’t do as much crime as men do. For every one women caug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:47 PM
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“No one is riding with you on that on the redpill side. You are on your own with the delulu crowd.” You don’t have to, the redpill doesn’t nullify overall human behavior. Majority of people don’t consider women to perform behavior that harms them or hurts their feelings as much as men do. It is what it is. “Women nowadays are far more rude than men, far more entitled than men, much more likely to use you if you allow them , much more likely to backstab and be less loyal.” And as a man, what diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:38 PM
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“Not the point.” It is the point. She was arrested and charged like Anyone else. She didn’t go to trial. She died. “Women being convicted more More harsh. Is this even a question?” So the laws are just when convicting men already got it. “What would that even have to do with the point?” You don’t think have a criminal record, or lack there of , has any part to play in the conviction of someone for whatever crime someone is currently facing? Less women arrested and charged equals less convictions…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:25 PM
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Because the things we categorize as shitty behavior, women do less off. a woman. Especially a stranger isn’t going to hurt my feelings by being rude. She can’t really assault me. She can’t really do anything generally unless it’s an extreme behavior like false accusations. Some woman’s self centeredness isn’t perceived any less then a mans. Y’all are just soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:19 PM
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Yes it is. It’s very obvious. And it’s obvious to everyone else .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:05 PM
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She wasn’t even convicted. She died. So this brings me the same question. Do you want women convicted more harsh, or men less harsh? Women overwhelmingly commit less crime, and have less arrests and charges against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 PM
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Why? Any woman can get pregnant in todays world if they want to and are able.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:12 PM
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So who decides what behavior is shitty? Isn’t it obvious the behavior that is considered shitty and harmful from women comes much less often then it does from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah I figured you wouldn’t. No I don’t believe you want to argue in good faith. Women aren’t “ getting away” with anything. The only think that’s happening is you don’t like that people aren’t in mass thinkng the way you think they should about woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:40 PM
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So this post is about men who kill their entire families and literally hitler. Is this really the post you would like to use as proof? And do you mean male predators as in men who masturbate on the beach to make porn, get caught and charged, then off themselves? I don’t know if any stories of that nature. Though I’m sure there are some.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:35 PM
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Is someone defending her crimes? Or you don’t like that people care that she took her own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:22 PM
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She was, she was arrested and charged. Sounds pretty equal to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:18 PM
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So what do you want? To be harsher on women or more lenient on men? Is your position that men and women are equal and should be viewed the same? Or that they are different and therefore should be viewed differently? Do you think there is a cultural/ historical precedent that leads to these thought processes, or that we do these days and we turned the wrong way somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:14 PM
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The point is that the women who are worth dating become the Madonna . And In the theory, the man loses attraction to the Madonna as he has turned her into a whore by sleeping with her having kids with her etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:49 PM
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I don’t think that’s what the Madonna whore complex is. But the thing you are talking about is correct. Everyone does that. Most people aren’t long term relationship material to any particular individual. I think the Madonna whore complex is when you marry the modest wife material woman, and you can’t act with her intimately because you don’t want to taint her modest status yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:44 PM
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Society did not teach us to be simps nice guys and brutish authoritarian patriarchs at the Same time. Folk need to quit with this “ society said “ mantra. What did YOU say? Some men are emotionally stunted and latch their self esteem, happiness. Attachment issues, etc. to the first women that gives them any attention. That’s likely how mommy issues manifests. I agree with this post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:41 PM
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So what? This means that she wants him to be monogamous, not that she is actually monogamous and men aren’t. This is just an ego stroke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:13 AM
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Plate spinners definitely do not talk about the plates being monogamous Lmao. They literally know that they aren’t commited to anything, that’s what the term “ breaking plate” means. When she leaves for a different situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:19 PM
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It is. Nothing about this is fair. That’s why the redpill says become the best version of yourself so you can leverage it towards the things you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:16 PM
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No he can’t . If you aren’t listening to her, enquiring about what she likes, Registering what she doesn’t like. actively trying to pleasure her. Then you don’t care. She’s not going to teach you to do this, when there are men out there who will already do this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:15 PM
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Because they don’t have to. They can just find a man who cares. That’s literally what we tell women to do. Why waste energy trying to get a man to care, when there are men who already care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:53 PM
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Yes. But that has nothing to do with plate spinning. A woman who’s been classified as wife material is not a plate. Not if instead of being wife material she turns out of be spinning her own plates. I suppose a man who stopped spinning plates for her would be upset. But this post is about a man who is already intentionally looking for a wife material partner. Plate spinners generally are spinning plates unless there’s a reason for them to stop,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:48 PM
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Why would they make him instead of just finding a man who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:44 PM
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So then you can’t. Who’s at fault is besides the point. Most men aren’t fresh out a relationship, dating multiple people. Or sleeping with multiple people. Most men go extended periods of time with little woman attention
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:24 PM
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Well if he felt that way about her, then she wouldn’t be a plate now would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:22 PM
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Can you really? Considering how many men online are complaining about never having a date or compliment for years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:17 PM
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I promise you he doesn’t want to feel special and loved by someone he’s already deemed not worthy of a actual relationship with .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:55 PM
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Yes. So why do you think a plate spinner will feel disrespected of a girl he doesn’t intended to have a serious connection with us also spinning plates. He expects her to. This is obviously coming from a man looking for committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:21 PM
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How? Morality is personal? the redpill isn’t a religion, it’s not a replacement for your moral bases. You don’t denounce Christianity or Islam to become “ redpill”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:19 PM
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He’s not in a minority, most men feel that way. But it’s not justified. Since you don’t have to spend money on someone to go on a date. They are framing it as if you are buying a subscription to her time, which you aren’t. Paying for a date is nothing more then incentive to get her to go. It’s it a commitment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM
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This isn’t true. The redpill position is that the redpill itself is a-moral. Not that the universe has no morals, This means that you apply your own morals to your life. This is the redpill literally saying that it’s not a moral guideline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:00 PM
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Why do you think a man who’s spinning plates is the one who feels disrespected by the woman he’s trying to date spinning plates 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:58 PM
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Atleast 70% of the women I’ve ever been on a date with had either a man she was sleeping with already, a man she was also dating, or has fresh ex that she is in the states of distancing herself from. Very few women , especially in their mid 20s and later, are completely single with no prospects or connections besides one man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:57 PM
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Honestly dating at 30 sounds lame as hell to me. Some folks have to but it’s pretty much guaranteed everyone you date past 25 has a goooooood reason why they are available to you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:50 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:24 PM
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Did you just make this up to respond lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:38 AM
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You don’t know what making a “point” is do you. You think that you trying to pin obligation on a victim for being available to be victimized is somehow justified and comparable to a predator looking for someone to attack. That’s just not how this works. That’s never how it will work either. We are not going po publicly or legally scrutinize someone for being a victim of a violent crime. Even if they were in a ally way. Even if they were in skimpy clothes, even if they were out late, we protect s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:04 PM
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True. But once you get in the relationship. Especially living with a partner, it’s not exactly the easiest thing to get away from. This is generally why women with healthy families and fathers figures aren’t the ones getting abused this way. The actual guidance and teachings are one thing. But physically having a place to go and people who care about you in the event that a relationship turns abusive is another
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:53 PM
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Slut shamers are likely also the overwhelming majority of men who actually purchase prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:51 PM
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Yeah so? We aren’t entitled to nicety or interactions with people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:29 PM
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Well it’s still logical. The obvious ideal would be a man who is strong, capable, and isn’t afraid to turn to violence, but is disciplined, caring, and compassionate towards her and people he cares about. It’s easier said then done to find one who has this healthy balance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:12 PM
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Men aren’t forgiving for height. Not having a standard for a height doesn’t mean your forgiving. Most men I know are definitely not dating a socially awkward woman. Women grow up rude and abrasive because they are defending themselves preemptively from unwanted interactions , not because they have to “ get away” with something: Ugly people get together, you aren’t settling if its all you can do. Men are desperate and taking what they can get, you aren’t being “ forgiving” when you don’t have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:08 PM
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I mean. The question has to be asked. Why do you guys think alternatively. That a woman would want a safe, harmless man who isn’t capable of hurting a fly? How is that’s more beneficial to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:02 PM
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Nah. We would rather there be no agent that causes the death or decades of suffering. So we hold those who cause death or decades of suffering accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:44 PM
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We are never going to hold someone “accountable “for something that someone else did to them. What do you want to give them a scolding? You going to scold someone for walking down an ally, instead of scolding the person who made the ally unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:10 PM
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Because most women who are cougar aged are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:15 PM
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Yes. I live in Texas. They are much more likely to date within their ethnic boundaries then not, which means other Latinos. And their average height in general as an ethnic group is smaller then Europeans. This sub is mostly of European decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:55 PM
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Being 6’0 is obviously a Eurocentric standard ( in the west)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:52 PM
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Because when girls say “ it doesn’t matter “ what they believe as “ mattering” isn’t the same metric. By any measurable instance. It’s changes your odds of finding a partner full stop. And you guys seem to just ignore this for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:12 PM
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“And why are you asking me this, when idk of all the girls who rejected you and their personal preferences? “ Because you are the one who said it. We didn’t make it about anything. We didn’t decide what traits are what. “Just because you guys were rejected by other shallow girls does not mean that it is a general rule that "women only want tall men" or "only tall men are successful at dating" If a sizable portion of women are turning down men , even if it’s only 25% specifically for their height…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:37 PM
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Why do you say this as if we aren’t literally the men who have been rejected for whatever shallow trait we have/ don’t have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:42 PM
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And that’s literally the problem with the people who contest dating strategies. Peoples idividual lives are stratified across all forms of socioeconomic status. And you guys for some reason don’t want to acknowledge that. Someone out there literally is 5’0 and balding. Someone out there literally is tall and autistic, someone out there literally is wealthy and ugly. Someone out there is couch surfing but handsome. You guys tend to just assume that a person on online is a sum of averages . A 5’9 …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:39 PM
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Yes. But this wasn’t a conversation about getting assaulted. This is a conversation about unsatisfactory sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:29 PM
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This is exactly the type of answer I was looking for, thank you. People tend to mean different things when they identify someone as a liberal, and I don’t see many people identify themselves as liberal much these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:23 PM
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I mean do you believe in them as the economic basis that we should be reinforcing and legislating. I identify with socialism a lot, I don’t really like the idea of private ownership of capital and production. I’m not trying to debate or Anthony I’m genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:02 PM
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All you can do is be there. Grieving takes a long drawn out time. You just have let that person grieve and be present with them. There’s no special words to say or actions to take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:00 PM
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Why would someone be excited to accept this is a better question. People don’t want to be single parents. People don’t want to live their lives by themselves. People want to creat solid family structures. Investing into someone who you think you can do this with, and it failing. Is a waste of time, the only thing to appreciate about them is that they ended so you could find the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:40 PM
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Do you believe in capitalism and free enterprise A’s economic bases ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:12 PM
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What even is a liberal to you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:08 PM
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The average man isn’t filtering options. The woman are. The bulk of women will not allow the average man to be in relationship with them. Never mind marry them. The red pill tells people not to get married. So obviously by options . They mean women to sleep with .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:01 PM
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So how does that make 66% of men in” control “ of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:27 PM
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Women. The average man does not control the marriage market. Only desirable men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:23 AM
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Controversial statement. But no one who participates in this subreddit is “ blue pilled” the blue pilled person is a regular old. Status quo, keeping up with the jones type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:04 PM
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This sentiment obviously comes from the men that women want not participating in relationship dynamics that women want. Women want the men that they desire to want only them and pour only into them. And the men aren’t doing that. But this has nothing to do with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:03 PM
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Which pill is this 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:45 PM
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You are probably confused because you didn’t read. “The problems between the men and women having sex have nothing to do with the man who is not having sex. Her dissatisfaction has nothing to do with the man who isn’t the one dissatisfying her.” You guys need to learn what an entitlement is so you can just stop throwing it as a buzz word.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:57 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that pain in sex is an issue between the man who has sex and the woman who has sex. Not the man who can’t have sex whether he choses to or jotc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:04 AM
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This was deep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:41 AM
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Man I know this is a thought experiment but wow. I’m working class. I grew up working class. I literally don’t know anyone living this way 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:05 PM
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Of course she likes me because I’m me, not because I’m somebody else. She’s the same as me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:26 PM
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If your red-pilling involves subjugating, dehumanizing, and objectifying women, then your red pill might be a different color then mine with that logic ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:21 PM
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Why would she. That’s not very redpill to say 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:18 PM
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Yes. I know what a no true Scott’s man is. It’s a convenient way for you to decide what you believe to be “ red pilled” when you don’t like something. Most things here people talk about isn’t even “ red pilled” it’s just male insecurity and tradcon rhetoric wrapped up in a little bow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:16 PM
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Not same as me, I’m under 30 with a successful dating life and a current long term relationship. I wonder if they didn’t taek the right prescription..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:13 PM
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“Red pill men like to pretend that red pill tenets require an invitation to some super secret and mysterious club when it's right there on the sidebar, available on all the open and private red pill subs and all other social media as well. “ So polarizing, so readily available, yet no one knows what they are talking about . “Just like any other member of a group who applies the No True Scotsman fallacy when criticized.” You gotta criticize things that people actually do for it to be criticism “A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:11 PM
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Your reasoning for choosing to abstain is besides the point of a man who is can’t chose to abstain of not. Choosing to abstain only has to do with men who get selected for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:11 PM
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How does something being a chance make the extra option worse? Just because you might not like the job once you get it doesn’t make the choice to take the job or not a worse option then never getting the interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:01 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of people here saying they are liberal. I’m curious what does being a liberal mean to you? I’m assuming opposite of conservative right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:47 PM
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It’s fundamentally more valuable to have an option to not have one. I’m sure you would agree with this if it was any other topic where one person gets something and the other party doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:40 PM
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Women don’t get these kinds of reputations ofcourse. Not from men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:35 PM
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Yes. For many women. Their point of perspective is on a higher platform then many men. It is cut and dry. Having a the choice between having sex or not is the point of the conversation. Not the quality of sex if she choses to do so. The man isn’t choosing anything. He can’t have sex that’s bad either. Also. Finding out whether or not someone will be good at sex or in tune with your body, requires having sex with them to do so. So either way. The guy not having sex isn’t apart of this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:23 PM
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Come on man. You know the average woman isn’t performing revenge sex. Also to ( get your lick back) * lick being slang for hit* means that she is hitting him back for hitting her first. Which means he cheated and she’s cheating back to show him how it feels. That’s not something regular women do. Most women will just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:42 PM
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Going to repost my same comment. There are 3 people in this equation. A man having sex. A woman having sex, and a man not having sex. The problems between the men and women having sex have nothing to do with the man who is not having sex. Her dissatisfaction has nothing to do with the man who isn’t the one dissatisfying her. Women having mediocre sex vs good sex is not comparable to the man who is having no sex. Mediocre sex is still sex. And the sexless man isn’t having mediocre sex. He is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:39 PM
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With that logic , just take her decision out of it. Men can just assult period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:36 PM
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The only things I’ve learned here is that most people have lost the plot and haven’t actually read any redpill content. Even guys who claim to be redpill do so because they watch fresh and fit or Andrew tate, and not because they read anything from the subreddit or any of the books. Same with the people who argue against the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:31 PM
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Not my girl. Y’all stay safe though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:48 PM
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Is that dude from top boy? Kinda looks like him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:51 AM
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Have you never had a weirdo online repeatedly text and call you over and over as soon as you give them your number? I have more then once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:38 AM
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Honestly this sounds like the exact opposite of what is weird for a platform designed around sociability, but I’ll be quiet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:36 AM
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Because the bulk of the country is over 35 and likely started these relationships before most of the things we are talking about these says
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:56 PM
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Change the channel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:02 PM
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No it can’t. The internet can’t give you the mind muscle connections to develop your own methodology around anything, it can only show you how something is done. Just because you read and saw something didn’t mean you can replicate it without experience and practice. Google how to land any skateboard trick and show up without practicing or ever even haven ridden a skateboard and show me that you can land the trick. Sure anyone can do research to get BETTER at the thing that they are trying to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:24 PM
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What doesn’t being confidently wrong help?This is the arrogance that women talk about. The only women that won’t know you are lying are women who are just as inexperienced. The internet can’t teach you how to have a skill. I don’t know why you think it can?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:39 PM
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Why? Why refer to these women ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:37 PM
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Why do you think an experienced woman who knows the nuances of foreplay, “rounding the bases” won’t notice he has no idea what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:20 AM
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Yes. Even my own girlfriend told me she wouldn’t date an inexperienced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:18 AM
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There’s no way you think the average Reddit using woman’s life has panned out like this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:17 AM
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Exactly. We all pay to be with women. So the answer is all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:30 AM
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If they can’t win the debate, fresh and fit will literally kick the women of stream, which doesn’t get brought up enough for some reason. They can make things “ rational “ all they want. But no woman has to accept any conditions from a man that she does not agree to in this day in age. It doesn’t matter if a man is hardwired to cheat or not. If a woman does not want that in her romantic relationships. She is entitled to leave any man who can’t control himself from cheating. That’s just the truth…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:27 AM
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Most of us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:19 AM
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28 male 7, 9,4,3,6,5,1,2,8
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:32 PM
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Why would the ones who aren’t married be more likely to have kids then the ones who are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:42 PM
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Are y’all really going to let Zuckerberg make everyone a “ companion “?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:31 PM
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Are y’all really going to let Zuckerberg make everyone a “ companion “?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:28 PM
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We tend to do a lot of talking and idealizing in general online about situations that we aren’t actually in yet. Women can be men haters and never want kids or family. Until they meet a man who they honestly feel can be a life partner to them. Men do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:38 PM
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Let’s just get this out of the way once and for all. None of us were born here to be desired. You don’t have to justify your existence or the path of life you take. No matter what. The path you take will exclude people from your dating pool. But really so what. The point is to find a partner who aligns with you. Even within the red-pill. People just don’t see fnf as respectable or trustworthy men. Who would be their partners realistically without being paid to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:34 PM
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I swear there’s like a mind wipe for people after the age of 20. How do you not remember kids acting like this in your classes growing up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:17 PM
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Different regions hsve different ideals of manhood. Is it really masculine if you are forced to serve ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:04 PM
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Well for one. Almost all men 100 years ago were doing some form of manual labor and almost all men either served or were active in the military ( in america)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:52 PM
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What makes you think this is a brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:46 PM
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No. It’s an ever changing concept though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:44 PM
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Third definition of the word raw. (of an emotion or quality) strong and undisguised. "he exuded an air of raw, vibrant masculinity" Like I said. You know exactly what was meant. Trying to make fun of the language makes you a dork
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:43 PM
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They don’t. Like I said. “ you can’t negotiate attraction “ is like top 10 red pill tenants. It’s all over the redpill subreddit. It’s blue pilled to think you can buy, convince, persuade, or trade your way into attraction. You didn’t know that “ you can’t negotiate attraction” was a important redpill tenant, so clearly you haven’t bothered with “ the entirety of redpill”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:40 PM
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What kind of response was that lmao. You and I both know what it means to have physical feelings of be sexually attracted to someone. Don’t say weird things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:35 PM
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Yes. It’s implied by saying that you can’t negotiate attribution. Money is a negotiation tool. This is a redpill tenant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:33 PM
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That’s why it doesn’t make sense. Both of them are functions of the brain. The brain knows it’s masturbating, the brain knows it’s watching porn. The brain knows it’s not a action being done by itself, but somehow it can’t internalize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 PM
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The difference is a raw sexual desire vs a calculated assessment of long term viability?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:28 PM
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Why would it have a different response? Do you think there should be a different or lesser response of some sort when you imagine something? That has nothing to do with your conscious reception of things. Your conscious understanding is also your brains function..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:24 PM
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You said value. The post is about sexual attraction. This research doesn’t align with the post . Ofcourse when the resources are overwhelmingly hoarded by men, women will then value resources in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:22 PM
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The redpill specifically says that you can’t negotiate attraction. It’s a core tenant of the red pill. Y’all just here to argue against men in general. Not the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:17 PM
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Why do we think the brain doesn’t know it’s masturbating? We know other animals do it. We physically use our brains to do it. We use our brains to find porn. Why do we think the brain doesn’t know it’s doing this? Why do we pretend that our brains didn’t spend millions of years developing around other naked common ancestors, seeing them lay, etc. before we picked up modesty as a societal tenant?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:15 PM
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Sureee
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:37 PM
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Yes . I’m making assumptions. Just like you did .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:51 PM
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And he obviously didn’t know or take the hint. Cause he was likely a teen. I’m sure it wasn’t 12 messages in 10 hours though. Likely over multiple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:13 PM
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You will use it if the other option is death. That’s why that analogy is stupid. You I or most people will eat damn near anything if you have been starting for weeks. Sex isn’t a need. So that’s a dumb analogy. It’s more like to having a ham sandwich with no condiments or cheese. And chosing not to eat it because you don’t like it. while the man has no sandwich. The ring analogy also doesn’t work because the higher up person hasn’t actually acquired anything. It’s more like the man never got to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:05 PM
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Does it? Having a balogna sandwich and access to a sandwhich shop even if you can’t afford a better sandwich is much better then having access to neither
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:58 PM
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Yes. This is accurate. At the bare bones, having something. Is more then having nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:46 PM
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How was that red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:43 PM
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Probably cause the other ones were killed in hate crimes , closeted, and died of aids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:40 PM
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Maybe you have something for weddings. Though I’ve been to one wedding since childhood. Not really an occurrence that should be considered. And isn’t it implied that who ever is at your family reunion is in some way family or related to family as such? People don’t normally just bring random friends to family reunions. And work is work, that should be seen as even less socially acceptable then the gym? So, do you not have a link with the woman at the gym or the shop? Considering you are literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:34 PM
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My bad. Thought the definition of womanizing implied manipulation or lying to have sex. Not just having sex with different partners in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:29 PM
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Who are these women that you are approaching at someone’s wedding or at your family reunion? Why are you approaching women in your office? Why are any of these more appropriate then the gym or shopping?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:21 PM
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You assumed this is an adult? Why? Everything about this story says teen behavior. Anyway. None of these are equivalent to a text message. So let’s not pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:51 PM
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What are her wants? As far as he knows she just didn’t respond? She didn’t actually say anything? It worked out the same way it would have if he only sent one message. She doesn’t like him, he didn’t find a way to be likable. That’s it. There’s no entitlement or platform of being owed something here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:32 PM
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Definitely aren’t.. otherwise they wouldn’t be womanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:30 PM
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What does that mean? There’s like 2 million men in prison at any given time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:25 PM
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We all act in our own interests. That makes you the bad guy in someone else’s story sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:22 PM
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Written by a man with feet and 6 pairs of shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:21 PM
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There are plenty of womanizers getting validated by women every day. Fuck boys can’t be fuck boys if no one wants to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:18 PM
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“ bond”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:14 PM
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Men harm themselves way more then women do and women live longer then us lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:07 PM
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Women care more about how you make em feel upfront they don’t care about our curriculum visa lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:00 PM
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You and I both know owed is a Loaded word compared to wants. He likes the girl and wants to talk to her . Just because he had nothing better to do but keep trying to talk to her doesn’t mean he feels high and mighty about his deserving of attention from her. He was obviously hoping that there was a right day or right thing to say for her to like him more. I swear ya don’t think of males as people who have to grow and learn things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:58 PM
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Not because they are in debt. I’ll tell you that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:54 PM
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That’s not true. Otherwise men wouldn’t be able to get validation from women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:52 PM
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What was being controlled in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:50 PM
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Exposed and vulnerable are synonyms 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:49 PM
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So you discount metropolitan areas for specifically the city limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah but alot doesn’t mean most. And most people live in major cities ( unless they ar Foreign)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:46 PM
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She she she, what about what you want or need? This is a game of finding a person you care about enough to fufill their needs and desires who also does the same for you. If any of these things come between your relationship then she’s literally not the person for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:02 PM
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As a man who takes care of himself. It does not take an enormous effort to work out a few days a week and eat good foods…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:55 PM
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Why are you guys like the most densely populated regions and n the country aren’t the 2 listed? Literally most people are already in these places. That includes the men and women of this subreddit. “ excuse not to do anything” while these people were literally born in these areas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:50 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the definition is. What people mean when they say the word matters. What they mean is what I said. Being willing to endure physical/ mental discomfort, harm, and adversity for the sake of her comfort and prosperity. That’s what they mean. By saying women are more likely to self preserve, they mean that women are less likely to be willing to endure physical/ mental discomfort, harm, or adversity for the sake of that man’s well being or property. If you aren’t making a state…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:00 AM
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I’m sure you know that “ time, happiness, personal goals etc. “isn’t what they mean by sacrifice/ self preservation right? You know they are talking about specifically enduring physical/ mental harm, discomfort, adversity for the sake of her well being and prosperity right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:47 AM
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I don’t agree. If you lose sight of yourself, then it’s not a sacrifice. It’s just you giving yourself a way, becoming a utility. That’s not sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:39 AM
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The “protect” part of the deal is both sacrificing well being and or lively hood for hers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:35 AM
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What part of sacrifice means lose sight of yourself? And most men definitely do not and will not put their own happiness over that of the family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:33 AM
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That’s because fathers end up over bearing in the name of physically protecting their daughters. Like others said, a pregnancy by a man who isn’t financially responsible or capable, or an abusive man physically harming her/ getting her pregnant. Is detrimental to her, and by extension the rest of the family. It’s implied that you don’t have to physically protect your sons this way ( obviously it’s more complicated then this. ) and his fuck ups to another woman ultimately don’t have him that same…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:00 PM
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Really? My father talked to me about manipulative women. having children out of wedlock, Dead beat women, women who want a baby from you, classless women etc. All of these things can pretty much ruin the prosperity of you and your children. Obviously after the age of around 11, physical threats from women, especially my peers. Became a non concern
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:47 PM
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So? Do you think I’m wrong? Are fathers generally okay with their sons dating and mating with any kind of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:38 PM
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Just because you know what’s best for you, doesn’t mean you do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:36 PM
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Why do you think fathers aren’t? Fathers, and families in general, definitely set a precedent for the type of women they would like to see their son being home?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:19 PM
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Lmfaoo that’s a take, good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:42 PM
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But that doesn’t go without saying for men for some reason. Most of us can lift weights for 20 years on gear and not come to half of what Ronnie Colman was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:02 PM
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Well a stripper isn’t exactly a miss Olympia competitor either. Andrea Shaw looks like Ronny Colman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:39 PM
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That’s uh. Not normal lmao. Especially not today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:36 PM
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A kid who is young enough to be in daycare isn’t a kid who’s old enough to play outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:14 PM
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Yes. That’s because the difference between the ghetto annd working class is generally a 2 income household, that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:34 PM
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“ I hate people” definitely checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:09 AM
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I responded to your comment about why someone would obscure. Redpill isn’t about obscuring. That’s just a male thing in general. Some men lie. But others don’t. You don’t have to lie. And it’s not a lie if she sleeps without without adhering to her own standards about commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:02 AM
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No I’m not? How would you know this with a woman you just met? And if you have known her long enough for her to know you aren’t commiting. Then she just shouldn’t be hanging around you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:50 AM
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“boys have sisters and generally go to co-ed public education” Do you not know that public education is a recent development? As in the literacy rate in the year 1900 wasn’t even 20%? “lol bro you've been lied to about capitalism” I’m a socialist, with a degree in sociology. This isn’t about capitalism, it’s about technology. “a lot of men seem to think it used to be normal for men to approach women who are strangers to them and for the women to be excited and accepting of a male stranger.” Yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:39 AM
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Oh. I didn’t realize just being liked by a woman is considered manipulating her lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:33 AM
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Player is subjective. It’s not “ wrong” to assume that just because she likes me enough to sleep with me doesn’t mean there’s any promises of life commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:32 AM
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Generally yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:30 AM
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Would you say that men were socialized in recent history to spend time with women in general? Let’s be honest, we have more free time now then any time prior in history. Men and women were not spending more time together before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:29 AM
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You don’t have to . No one said you have to actually tell anyone anything about what your interested ins. If she sleeps with you 3 dates in, without confirming whether or not she’s a candidate for a long term relationship with you, then that’s her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:27 AM
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Only if you want to retain them. But that’s not much different then maintaining 3 full relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:22 AM
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Part of the problem is thinking that red pill men have default to monogmous long term cohabitation in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:19 AM
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Yep married for over 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:42 PM
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“No.” A red pill man who has never been abandoned
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:27 PM
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If this is the case then the redpill isn’t the problem. It’s just the average man is the problem to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:06 PM
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They will not be. You already see the controversy around it in the first place. There’s much less controversy around marrying an unattractive woman. Also. It is assumed that someone’s wife they they pick will treat them well. So you don’t really get points for being treated well by a foreigner specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:40 PM
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I’m sure you have your mind made up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:34 PM
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No one said anything about hooking up causing destabilization dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:35 PM
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Those weren’t the options. It was unattractive native or attractive foreigner. Either way. It’s not to be justified. It just is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:33 PM
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Doesn’t matter. A man will chose whatever he chooses. It’s up to him to be comfortable with the social ridicule or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:24 PM
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Then I guess your just arguing in the air lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:23 PM
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I guess you missed and then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:47 PM
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Sounds rich
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:14 PM
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They aren’t talking about moving to other countries. They are talking about taking the women back to their own
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:57 PM
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Ah yes. Nothing like destabilizing countries and then taking their women 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:08 PM
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I mean, how would we know. Most people don’t. My mom has been disabled from a stroke going on 10 years and my dad is right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:02 PM
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Exactly. So unless you mean “ control” as a man being in control of his own life. Then I don’t see how my comment is incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:23 AM
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Yes . And I would gladly increase my taxes paid if this was guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:21 AM
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Well. Most people who speak on feminism for or against , hsvent read any feminist theory. Let’s be real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:19 AM
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Does having the ability to make a choice not supersede actually making one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:17 AM
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How is the ability to choose a personal choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:16 AM
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What is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:04 AM
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Do you think the average feminist identifier read any bell hooks, or even knows who she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:34 AM
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This statement leads me to believe that you don’t think men should be in control of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:21 AM
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I’m right here. The red pill socialist you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:19 AM
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If they wanted to do that, they would I just buy their own drinks. They want to get hit on, they want men to buy tiem drinks. That’s part of their fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:35 AM
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The answer is that it’s a minority of women. Especially club google women, hords of women go out on the weekends fully intending to have all their drinks bought
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:20 AM
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Is it a lot or most?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:18 AM
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Literally no one believes this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:07 AM
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Your friends got shot down cause they went out of their league lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:00 PM
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The black pill is derivative of the redpill that’s why. Its just where your place is in the totem pole once you find out about the red pill and if you are optimistic or not really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:51 PM
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Redpill The redpill is not a philosophy, it’s a collection of observations. And strategies. But from Reddit. Pave the life that you want as a man by becoming the best version of yourself unapologetically, and not falter to the whims of others especially romantically. I only “identify” as red pill as far as I have to have a flair for certain topics. All my observations, life experiences, and advices are considered redpilled by general peoples standards though . My lifestyle will also be seen as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:45 PM
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I don’t think you read what they said lol. They aren’t dealing with women who don’t have raw desire for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:18 PM
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No. Our grandfathers went to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:02 PM
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My grandpa fought in Okinawa, he had anxious twitches and spasms until the day he died. No one wants thay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:58 PM
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Nah. You consider it weird when it’s actually quite a norm. Are you saying you got a foot fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:16 AM
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You just don’t know how wired people are is Al
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:38 PM
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They think their purpose in becoming closely related to a woman is to have a family. I don’t think that’s the same as “ woman’s value is being a mother”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:12 PM
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“30 minutes on the internet can do all that” is exactly why people are in dead bedrooms and unfulfilled lmao . Y’all suck at sex and don’t even know it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:48 PM
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Yeah, Disney land and hobby lobby, and church
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:47 AM
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Yes. To do aggressively wholesome things with their likely aggressively religious family
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:36 AM
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It’s funny that people think virginal women who live lifestyles that go with virginity are just hanging out like the rest of us. They usually live at home and are accompanied by family at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:33 AM
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No I’m not. It’s not about nothing mattering. You guys want to apply that because I said that I do not exist to be anything, that it means I won’t do anything. Obviously I have a career, Obviously I provide value to my co workers, family and friends, Obviously I provide value to my lane lord. My statement is about self worth and self determination. I don’t exist, I was not born to do any of these things. These things are choices of my own determinant and reciprocations, their perceptions of me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:26 PM
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What do you mean how will life go? I’m 28, life already been going. No one has shunned me, my friends, family, and girlfriend think I’m great, some of my friends have even adopted my ideas about self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:28 PM
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It’s beyond you because it’s not your life, which is obvious by your statements. The reality you are talking about isn’t most people’s reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:56 AM
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How many relationships do you think someone who’s 26 could have actually been in? And why do you think they have all this baggage instead of causing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:45 AM
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“Did you seriously downvote my comment for simply clarifying what you are asking? If so, yikes man. Don’t let that downvoting power go to your head.” Lmao you know I didn’t, they just don’t like your comment “Yeah times suck economically for many people. So men need to be realistic about whether they can afford to support a family. “ No we don’t. I’m reality most of us come from, and will be entering dual income households. “And if you aren’t making a substantial income, it narrows your pool. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:41 AM
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As if everyone has a vested interest in supporting the well being of the current status quo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:54 AM
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All men who want to be in a relationship being capable of providing for a family. Statistically literally most Americans are not. Yet alone the men. Statistically most families are duel income. So this is literally not true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:53 AM
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41k a year is right where op is stating? sA regular job is a job that someone can get out of high-school without specialized training or certifications. You know, the jobs most people are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:47 AM
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Unless you live in Manhattan, no he doesn’t. Also, a store manager isn’t a “ regular job”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:32 AM
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Yes. That’s how social isolation works. That’s why class is such a big issue in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:27 AM
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Does this seem reflective of reality to you? Considering the average income of the country is below 50k?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:23 AM
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Anything that she comes up with that’s legislated will take legal enforcement at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:00 AM
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It’s not for society. It’s for the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:54 AM
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You think rejecting the notions of someone else’s value system is burying your head? Deriving my value based on their value system and working for approval in another value system is trash. Like I said , I exist, I can be perceived by society however society likes, that’s not my choice, but I wasn’t born , nor do I exist, to be defined by the dominant societies standards and ideals . Your statement emplies that society is an objective right, and that one should work for better placement within s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:17 PM
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“Your self determined value should align with society’s. “ Defining yourself based on societies standards, regardless of if your a member of some group marginalized or disenfranchised by or simply a minority in that society is frankly idiotic, and the main cause of things like the black pill. “Otherwise if you perceive yourself as higher than what society perceives you as then you will feel entitled to things. You will think you deserve more than you actually do. “ Based on my last statement, I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:51 PM
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Yeah that’s what I said, we live in a society where you participate or else. The point is your judgment of me is not my worth. I don’t exist to produce value to society. I wasn’t born to produce value to society. Your judgment and evaluation of me is not what makes up my self worth of my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:32 PM
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I made no such statement. I just said that our participation in society is by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:56 PM
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Is your worth defined by how handsome someone thinks you are? I wasn’t born to be seen as handsome either. All these things are perceptions of you, that are casted on you by others, by virtue of you existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:20 PM
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But I am. Because no one else is or has an authoritative say on whether or not I’m valuable. They only have the authority to say is them being in relation to me of value to them. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:15 PM
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“It means more to my life in practical terms than my own evaluation using my own metrics.” That’s a personal evaluation of your own determinants “There is no reason for anyone's existence. It changes nothing.” Having no reason for existence reinforces that we definitely don’t exist as utilities to others . “So others people judgement and way to value you have a practical effect in your life. A greater effect than self worth.” The statement wasn’t what affects you more. It was what is defined as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:06 PM
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This is the definition of violence. behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something. That’s it. Policing a community is violence. By definition. You can argue about how good it is here or how much worse it is somewhere else if you would like. But in both places society uses violence for compliance. If that’s funny to you, I guess you can chuckle all you like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:59 PM
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Well, that thank you fir your opinion I guess. Lmao I’m glad you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:39 PM
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Society having rules. And enforcing said rules with violence, punishment, detainment. Etc is violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:28 PM
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We are then talking about the value of your relationship to something or someone, which is more specific, but I hear you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:33 PM
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I believe you. But you and I both know that that isn’t the general case or the general discourse around casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:16 PM
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No, others evaluate your worth based on their own metrics Their evaluation means moot in the grand scheme of the universe, because we don’t exist to be utilized by others. Though society had been struc and legislated to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:13 PM
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Entitlement? He called her… it’s not like she baited and switched on him. She came over, and decided to express her feelings in that moment. We can debate whether she had already come to that conclusion or not before hand ( in her perfect world she likely wanted some form of reassurance and to still have sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:35 PM
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Yes. Not being around someone you don’t want to be isn’t being an asshole, putting someone out of your house in that manor cause they won’t fuck you is being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:28 PM
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I don’t exist to be valuable to you, I was not born to be valuable to you. And just because society is violently enforced opon us, doesn’t mean that this truth has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:21 PM
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Where are you getting “ doesn’t acknowledge women’s who aren’t attractive” Also , why do you assume a woman who’s unattractive is any more likely to approach them a hot woman? If she’s unattractive then she probably knows it, and is probably self conscious about it, this isn’t a recipe for approaching average men, you are just making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:00 PM
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So then why would you add extra stipulations like whether or not if a woman is attractive, if you aren’t even going to listen to when they say women don’t approach them in general? That’s quite the leap of assumptions to make don’t you think? I myself may get approached for general conversation, yet alone an attempt to get my contact information 3 times a year maybe? And that’s after my stent of self improvement…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:53 PM
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You assume that women are talking to them unsolicited… why? Time and time again men say that women have rarely if ever walked up to them and started any kind of conversation, are you rejecting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:39 PM
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What guys don’t acknowledge this? Are you talking about men who have never been approached in their life? They don’t acknowledge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:34 PM
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Thinking Average women deserve less is what’s going on here truely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:26 PM
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This shouldn’t reinforce anything. If he wants to not know the women he’s sleeping with at all, that’s his business. But stating things like “ sex or leave”, while implying that after the sex you leave anyway is definitely asshole behavior. Ofcourse I’m not saying that she’s entitled to his time, but there is communication skills for a reason. You can communicate about the nature of the relationship and come to a conclusion that reinforces your boundaries ( booty call status only) with poise. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:00 PM
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Shallowness isn’t about what you see her as? It’s about what she sees you as
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:04 AM
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Ah yes. Then I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:41 PM
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Do you consider this a redpill subreddit? I thought we were here to debate , not learn redpill theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:35 PM
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Being incel is not being redpilled. You can be blue pilled and be celibate despite all your efforts. And the black pill literally claims red pill observations are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:34 PM
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Well you let me know what our agenda is and when we rally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:32 PM
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Is there? We don’t even all agree what the redpill is at this point. I argue with other “ red pilled” men here more then anyone in the other pills
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:29 PM
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How would that even be if I haven’t visit a redpill subreddit, group, or channel in years…?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:13 PM
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About the redpill? I haven’t actually browsed the subreddit or watched a video about it in a few years. I have my own experiences now to reinforce or break down any redpill believes I developed. Now as far as ppd, the same amount of time as the other people who work desk jobs and fk around on Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:18 PM
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There’s nothing to join? Lmao you say it as if there is a place of worship, a non profit organization, a political party etc. to be a part of. I guess you can make red pill truths your identity if you want want , but there’s no organization to join. It’s just information
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:04 PM
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You don’t join the red pill. Idk who keeps telling people that you join the red pill. It’s not a club, it’s not a corporation, it’s just stuff to read. Obviously as you can tell everyone who identifies with the red pill doesn’t agree with everything that is written there, just like any other forum. Anyway. I was on Reddit trying to learn about body language as so I could learn to present myself better, it lead to me to the seduction subreddit which lead me to the redpill. I was in college and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:15 PM
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She was on there for multiple years. And talked to plenty’ of men Ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:11 PM
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Idk my girlfriend met her expectations on a dating app and found a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:05 PM
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Most people don’t go to college
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:54 PM
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Women don’t reject simps. Simping isn’t bad to women. They reject unappealing men. A lot of high ncount men are high n count specifically because they are simps, and willing to do a lot more for sex then other men .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:12 PM
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They are implying that women don’t want just sex on average, which is true. Generally women that I’ve had casual sex with are also interested in more of a relationship then having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:03 PM
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They expect to be accepted for who they are, even if who they are is unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:09 PM
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It’s not redpill to be tolerated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:01 PM
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No she’s not, she’s got a flabby body and acne from poor eating and no gym membership either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:40 AM
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Y’all say that until she has no car, lives with her parents or other relatives, and only old faded clothes/ sweats to wear
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:00 AM
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“ why are you mammal ? “
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:14 PM
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No one is downvoting you because they think you are lying, they are downvoting you because you think this is romantic , when it’s actually gross and insulting to a lot of us. We don’t want to “ grow on “ a woman. Any time someone has ever said this to me it was a sign to not take this situation seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:49 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:29 PM
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So doesn’t this imply that there’s a woman actually in space for them to be flirting with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:31 PM
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We aren’t looking to be attractive to our friends co workers etc. also I will not be catching feelings for someone that I wasn’t initially attracted to. Not in a romantic sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:28 PM
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Why did you assume this specific person struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:25 PM
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Not original commenter. But i definitely don’t find it romantic or cute to grow on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:24 PM
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No. Unless you are talking about the extent in which we both agree on something, politics is about more then debates or opinions. Especially when you are part of referenced demographics up for political debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:17 PM
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Saying medial shit like “ whether their politics align” is actually crazy. I’m not trying to make anything work with someone I’m not politically aligned with 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:06 PM
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Should should should. What about what is . You don’t know when or how people learn anything or what they might have been illusioned into
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:10 AM
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And the redpill identifies such classism. So no. Seeing wealthy men and their wives isn’t going to make us “ shape up” lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:43 AM
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Ohh so red pill men are poor. So actually the blue pill is just classism , got it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:35 AM
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Do you think average woman don’t go to bars or clubs or parties? Do average women not celebrate life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:56 PM
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What do you think hold your frame means? What does that have to do with other men and their families? How would other men and their families make a redpill man more secure?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:50 PM
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Women have their own systems of illusions and frustrations with dating. Women leaving the dating game hate the game just like mgtows
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:48 PM
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Men aren’t natural leaders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:43 PM
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How? What does other men with their families have to do with being red pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:42 PM
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So what’s good for me then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:40 PM
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Revenge? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:14 PM
3

Lmao you are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:45 PM
2

Just because someone commits to you doesn’t mean there aren’t other men trying to talk to your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:44 PM
2

Why do you think you have athority in a market that she owns lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:48 AM
2

The options never “ close” but you can tell whether someone in entertaining their options or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:45 AM
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Liking someone and monogamous commitment are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:42 AM
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“Your claims of having a girlfriend just went out the window. “ Lmao I hear you brother “You also don't speak for majority of women who clearly along with men with critical thinking skills disagree with you.” No one disagreed this comment has 5 upvotes lmao “She ain't the one or you're doing something that shouldn't occur in relationships. “ Thinking your boundaries are supposed to be tested by your partner is so funny 🤣 “ I won't assume which is the cause of your misconceptions” Heard brother l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:39 AM
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I’ve been in the gym since before puberty even finished .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:27 AM
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That’s not what they said, they said the red pill. Even so. I’m 5,8 you don’t see me getting surgery cause girls call men under 6 foot boys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:38 AM
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If a “red pill guru” sitting in his car talking about women being old at 30 makes you get plastic surgery idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:04 AM
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The human mind doesn’t view cheating differently , individuals do. Cheating is about making a pact with someone, then breaking it behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:57 AM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:48 AM
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“In almost every scenario. What you think you can get a woman to act right without doing zero work?” The only think that makes a woman act favorably is her wanting to , you can’t make her do anything. a woman don’t just become what you want just because you like her. “No i expect women to check mens boundaries. All women test you like that. There is no such thing as a woman who wont test your boundaries, you guys can stop dreaming about fairytales.” Women don’t test boundaries of men they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:34 PM
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Nothing happens. That’s the point. Only difference is I’m not going to be confused as to what we are because I’m setting the tone of the relationship ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:25 PM
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“This is the ideal scenario. But it doesnt work for everyone. What part of that is hard to understand?” In what scenario does this not work ? Sure it doesn’t work for whatever particular girl you might be fixiated on, but she’s supposed to pick you , not the other way around. “Im going to be real with you. Most men will have to do this.” They only have to do this if they are doing the picking. If you get your life together, and you become the best version of yourself, any man over 5’4 will have …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:20 PM
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“And whats going to prompt her to ask a man those things?” Her wanting commitment from you. If she doesn’t want commitment, she won’t ask. If you have to ask her to leave her options alone for you, then she isn’t keen on the idea of committing to you in the first place. “Most guys are simply not going to be in a position where this happens. They will grow old and die first.” All the more reason. Do not put yourself in a position where you need to hood and pray that a woman is actually being fait…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:01 PM
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Exactly what? You don’t troll this behavior it’s a trolls post on its own
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:53 PM
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Idk what pill this is supposed to represent. But I’m just going to start prefacing things I say with the red pill. A man on this day and age shouldn’t be asking a woman for anything . Don’t ask her for her socials, don’t ask her for her location, don’t ask her not to see other men , don’t ask her for monogamy. Nothing. She should be asking you for these things. If she isn’t, then don’t worry about it. If she’s seeing other men, then don’t worry about it. If you feel like you have to track a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:53 PM
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What’s strong about performing surveillance on a woman 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:51 PM
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“ ocd becomes second nature” 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:48 PM
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“You’re acting like a woman expecting you to commit before risking a baby and STD’s and single motherhood is somehow “entitled” and “audacity” No I’m not. That’s not what I said. I said a woman expecting commitment BECAUSE she had sex with me is entitled. Not that she expects commitment before sex. Don’t argue against things I didn’t say. “when it is a perfectly reasonable, and incredibly common standard to have. “ Correct, it’s is incredibly reasonable to wait for commitment to have sex with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:17 PM
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Why would I complain about that? I’m not waiting until marriage and neither is she in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:58 PM
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To live is to be at risk, what kind of point is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:29 PM
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That’s what she gets for thinking that she is” giving me something” for sex My commitment isn’t purchasable through sex. And you aren’t about to paint me as a bad man for not committing my life to you just because we had sex. The audacity to think that this is the correct way of things is actually insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:26 PM
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Redpilled men aren’t using this as rage bait unless they are grifters on YouTube. We don’t actually care about things like looking “ icky “ I’ve seen my share of the ick posts, they are generally dorky and harmless. If I did something. Say I tripped and fell, and a woman I was with said that was an ick, everyone who heard that would be laughing at her, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:13 PM
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It’s actually red pilled to just not care what a 19 year old calls an ick lmao .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:59 PM
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As a black American, it’s safe to say that you definitely don’t have to be as funny and entertaining as other groups. That’s an inter observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:24 PM
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By the amount of money they were able to spend alone, they weren’t ordinary guys. The most ordinary one is the guy who bought a house. I’m sure he just took out a mortgage. But I’m top of that. The average man isn’t even going to 1/10th of the lengths to keep a woman around him as the guys listed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:59 AM
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So essentially. It might be a problem for most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:55 AM
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Why do we try to limit certain types of posts. I mean, this sub Reddit can only have so much content that is on topic without being repetitive in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:52 AM
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Come on man, for every man who’s in a stripclub at any given moment ( most men don’t even go to strip Clubs in the first place) how many of them actually spent entire paychecks worth of money on a stripper? All these examples aren’t reflective of an average level of simping at all, especially when 2 of them are the results of long term relationships and not trying to get the attention of a woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:45 AM
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Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:41 AM
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Yes. Bullies usually have shit upbringing’s. Who would have thought it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:41 AM
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Shouldn’t older men know better then literally everyone else about this though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:40 AM
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Likely unchecked mental illnesses, an over flow of income for some reason, and a hyperfixiation on a particular person. No matter who you are, you don’t spend 60k to Jack off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:32 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:28 AM
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There’s no way you think this can be explained by a guy being horny rather then severe mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:23 AM
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As a male, I will never depend on someone else for my financial security, that’s just it lol. But for everyone else. I really doubt more women are willing to start relationship’s specifically with househusband men. Now more women are in a position that would allow for the negotiation of a househusband over the course of a relationship. But they are not starting relationships with the idea that they will have a house husband in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:50 PM
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That’s obviously one of the consequences to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:05 PM
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They don’t want more options, they want the relationship they are in. Is that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:04 PM
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Because the consequences of not doing what she wants, especially in a relationship the guy wants to be in. Are worse then the consequences of say, not hanging out with the boys this time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:38 AM
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It’s not a creep shot of him, so why are you relating it to a creep shot of her? He’s looking right at her as she films.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:35 AM
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The blue pill works, It’s the status quo for a reason after all. You will definitely get the most out of your life through a redpill lends though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:59 AM
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Are you claiming it “ doesn’t work” or that something else works? “Red pill truths” aren’t a call to action. They are observations and nuances that you reference and keep in mind. the strategies that are presented use, in conjunction to taking control of your life and putting the work in, will yield you better results then you had before. That doesn’t mean they will turn you into a 8 out of 10 from being a 3 out of 10. This is one of the main reasons the black pill exists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:47 AM
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Did someone tell you it was impossible to date without the redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:22 AM
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Sucks for him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:07 AM
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Nah I won’t mute you. Because your a dork. Good luck to you. I see why they didn’t pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:06 AM
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What kinda of slander is this? Lmfao I know you don’t talk to people like that irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:00 AM
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It doesn’t. It doesn’t work well if your below average or mentally unwell, but neither does most advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:14 AM
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“im not only talking about an UMC woman who says that because its convenient. im talking about someone that would genuinely be happy with very little money. lets say you were a struggling artist, and you have some disdain for materialistic people. wouldnt you rather focus your social attention on people who share those values, rather than take some pill and consistently discuss how most people dont share those values?” As someone who’s lost everything I’ve had, and lived in a hotel with 4 people…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:51 PM
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We matched online. Met in person for coffee. Hung out a few times, things worked out well. Not that I’m saying that this is what you should do as a man, it just worked for me ( as of today ) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:16 PM
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“Whatever traits you think these social pressures are creating in women, whatever goals theyre setting, you think everyone is the same? Or those social pressures result in some common denominator that almost all women share?“ No, but that doesn’t mean what you think it does either. It’s a lot easier for a upper middle class fit blonde from la to say she doesn’t care about beauty standards or a man’s income because 1. She was lucky enough to be born specifically as the standard of beauty in her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:15 PM
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It was written that way back then intentionally too to sound more “ manly and rugid”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:49 PM
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I never did in hs cause shy kid who was below average for his demographic. Didn’t have to in college cause I took the redpill at the end of my freshman year, it’s been good ever since then to the point where online dating worked well enough and I have a relationship now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:47 PM
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“The red pill seems like its mostly about dating so im focusing on that.” You can’t it’s all related to each other. Socioeconomics and dating go hand in hand. “Social pressures dont affect everyone the same way. They dont produce the same desires, goals in everyone. If you think all mainstream women are some way, then by minority i mean not mainstream women. Why not focus on that? Why focus on the mainstream ones with distressing features?” What does that mean? What is a non mainstream women? “N…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:45 PM
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Go buy a prostitute dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:35 PM
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I’ve never formally asked a woman out on a date in person in my entire life 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:31 PM
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“Which is it? Nearly all or most?” What’s the difference “1A: what i mean here is that this reality is harsh for YOU, is it not? “ This was in context in the reality of life in society general. Not just the dating world. Unless I’m the only one who sees it as harsh I guess “It may be harsh for others too, but specifically you. If this leads to beliefs about “most” women that are harsh, sad, unfortunate or whatever for YOU, why not think about the group lesser in number, who do not reflect these …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:30 PM
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It’s obviously their tradcon undertones. The conservative red pillers are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:55 PM
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Me too, ( im 5’8)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:53 PM
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I supposed if you would like to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:43 PM
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⁠We live in a society. Most every females in this society has been raised up to be woman, as well as being interacted with by everyone around them with wile being perceived as girl/ woman. These experiences while being perceived as as woman/ raised as one guide behaviors and thoughts a lot more then we like to admit. This same thing applies to men by the way. ⁠We aren’t All as different as we like to think we are, unless it comes to very specific situations and contexts. 1A. Women don’t represen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:41 PM
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That would be if everyone was on board with having children . With the wrong legislation that could get distopian really quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:13 PM
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Having an overall pool of money fof the support and upbringing of children on a nationwide level would really be an entirely different conversation. And now that I think about it. Might be a slippery slope for women’s right to have children or not in general lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:11 PM
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Yes. But majority of men do fall further on the critique to violance ratio then the majority of women do. With the most extreme end being murder, and more men committing murder over critique then women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:03 PM
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A man will literally kill you over critique lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:45 PM
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“5% of unplanned pregnancies are from broken condoms, not 20% so you would lose that bet.” I’m sure lifestyle and trogon definitely like this stat better then what I said. “I agree not having the sex is the only sure fire way, but if someone insists on having casual sex they need to use condoms. If they stupidly convinced themselves that a 95% reduction in pregnancy risk isn't enough to make using them worth it then I don't know what to tell them.” No debate there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:39 PM
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Even if you want to include that group of women just to fight what I said, it doesn’t matter, because I didn’t say anything about direct male influence, you did. And even though that’s not the point of the discussion. Men still produce the sperm, so it doesn’t matter how she got it. Even of a fertilized egg was implanted in her, it was still a man’s doing to fertilize that egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:38 PM
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Are you really going to include a woman self inseminating just to argue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:28 PM
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No it cant. I bet atleast 20% of the people in here were conceived during condom sex. Condoms malfunction. The only sure fire way is abstinence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:26 PM
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What ? You don’t believe someone can trick you into believing they are using their birth control affectively, tamper with if, of tamper with condoms? Humans also get caught in bear traps. So idk where that Line of logic was going.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:24 PM
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What do you think a trap is? The whole point of a trap is to trick you into believing something to get you . Is a bear trap not a trap because if you walk in the woods a bare trap can be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:14 PM
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Are you saying there aren’t women who sneakily create conditions that will make themselves more likely to get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:04 PM
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No I’m not in this senario. Both the bystander and the gang member are the the pregnant woman. And the killer is the man. Neither one of these people would be killed if no one killed them. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:34 PM
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Do you think most men are on Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:07 PM
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Imagine not paying for your own child. But paying more taxes in general for everyone’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:04 PM
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Are we talkin about what’s likely or what happened? A single mothers odds doesn’t matter because she ended up a single mother. If her odds was 80-20. And she ended up a single mother, that means that 20% still happened. Also. There are no legal grants to relationship, a man can leave any woman for any reason. And legislation only obligates you to financial care of the child, you don’t even have to speak to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:02 PM
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No they aren’t. Most single mothers are made from failing marriages or multi year relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:57 PM
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No, you don’t need both to chose the level of commitment a man is going to provide a woman. Only a man choses that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:56 PM
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“Care” is a fluff word. There’s no garuntee by a man’s care, it’s a gamble no matter what when a woman falls pregnant. Even if a woman is celibate. The one time she lets a man in and gets pregnant. That man can leave her. Many people in this subreddit can attest to this. There is no reading a man to make sure he will stay for life. Anything can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:53 PM
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Nope. Men create single moms. Men create pregnant women. Therefore for men create single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:46 PM
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You seem to think that pregnancy isn’t a gamble for women. I want you to know. That every single man who ever gets a woman pregnant. Can impose single motherhood on her. We are not legally forced to maintain relationships with the women or the children. You can marry a woman, have children and leave her, you can hook up with her, and leave her, you can be with her for 17 years. Then leave her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:45 PM
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No. I mean that no woman on earth became a single mother without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:43 PM
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You literally can no become pregnant without a male lmao. 1.No man you pick garuntees that he will be with you for life. Doesn’t matter what your birth control options are if you fall pregnant anyway. In my state, men specifically voted against women’s ability to have abortions, and now they can’t, men absolutely have a say, and they said it. In what world do you Believe a woman can bring a child to term, give birth, and put it up for adoption with no social repercussions? You can’t even adopt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:34 PM
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So are the ones with no effort entitled to it? How does this translates to other forms of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:59 PM
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Does that change what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:32 PM
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11% of people here identify as red pill. 33% identify as at least a bit of red pill. So most people there aren’t red pill. So majority of the men here aren’t red pill. So that rules that line of thinking out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:21 PM
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Yes. And most of them are under 30, and not red pill? What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:17 PM
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That’s not a contradiction? I didn’t say the redpill was mainstream or that it’s mainstream advice. I said it’s tailored to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:11 PM
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Why do you think the average guy would use niche internet advice from the corner of the web? The red pill is specifically tailored to average guys. They aren’t the one’s complaining? I’m sure you have a Facebook or a Instagram. The average man is most definitely complaining. Just look at the comments on literally anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:08 PM
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In what other realm of life is the advice to achieve something, to stop pursuing said goal specifically 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:00 PM
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Isn’t this sub specifically about discussing the red pill? It’s obviously not about discussing “ most guys” Most guys feel or think these things with no plan or self centering. They just talk smack or feed into it and that’s it. There’s plenty of red pill guys on here who have success in their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:56 PM
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Why do y’all think it’s not working? The redpill works for pretty much all average regular men, the b1ak pill isn’t a dating strategy, and neither is mgtow or any other manospheric group. Only the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:49 PM
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So do you think they would do so, if the options were women who weren’t a size they don’t like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:37 PM
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You are talking about couples? Not dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:21 PM
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Sometimes you go so hard trying to disprove the redpill, that you just end up dropping hard red pills on all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:51 PM
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What do you mean society can’t. You seem to think that society wants to not do this. We don’t, society loves beer, you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:26 PM
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Gotta agree. How does someone even get into the position of essentially a free therapist for their “ friend” who they are actually hoping to have an romantic engagement with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:17 PM
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That’s not hypergamy lmao it’s perversion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:47 PM
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This man thinks alcohol was invented 40 years ago 🥱🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:39 PM
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It isn’t deniable that everyone doesn’t know. People are literally learning it in this forum
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:39 PM
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Being Den something you want isn’t going out of your way to be unhappy lmao. You bring up Chad, but we are talking about no dating prospects. Not the prospect of casual sex everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:36 PM
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You know the point of mentioning it. Obviously plenty of people don’t know that they are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:34 PM
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Ah. Atleast you understand now. They aren’t happy. And they don’t have to be, which is why the pills exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:32 PM
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Which the average person does. The average person is living in a average way. You don’t have to care. Living in an average way and being 5’4 is a detriment, so far that you could only equate a 6’1 man who’s terrible in every other way besides being 6’1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:31 PM
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Obviously men who have no choice between that women or “ better by Liliths standards “ women either. You just don’t get what the men here are talking about and it’s evident in everything you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:30 PM
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You can’t “ put up “ with a woman who’s not in relation with you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah. But you would have to be objectively worse in every possible way, which is why that’s not a good point. If your just a regular person then thjs doesn’t apply
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:27 PM
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That’s all she had to do,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:23 PM
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Why is this energy directed at men rather then the women who are tarnishing y’all’s image. Just wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:17 PM
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The only other person who does this kind of behavior in real life is a child to a parent, that’s what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:29 AM
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I don’t like it. I need a grown adult for a partner, not to be someone’s dad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:06 AM
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Definitely not. Surely specific individuals are. But that group in mass is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:04 PM
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Aggressively biased, my mother is a saint, haven’t met a woman like her since. She’s sweet, kind, personable, engaging, pretty much anything people think motherhood is like. Both her and my father a red-pilled within the jargon though. They have been married over 30 years. I have a wonderful relationship with my mom. As the oldest, I was responsible for most household chores growing up, I didn’t cook often though. She mostly did. I didn’t vent to either of my parents. Natural born stoic I guess.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:50 PM
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Most every women I know is in a ltr yes. Even the ones who aren’t are able to date on their terms easily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:36 PM
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I don’t get my worldview from online, I know plenty of men in real life, I know what they talk about, this forums actually has way worse adjusted people then the average man , but the observation is the same for them too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:29 PM
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What demographic are you in? If your talking about educated middle class white men, those aren’t average men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:23 PM
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He struggles an average amount for average men. Which is only above below average heterosexual men, all other demographics of people struggle less. So it’s not average for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:16 PM
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What makes you think that? Why do you think a woman wouldn’t want her commonalities to come wrapped up in an 8?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:00 PM
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So how do you think, in a world where the pool of women who are interested in I’ll use myself as an example. Of all the women in my state, there’s a chance that maybe 15% of them would entertain a date with me, how would making that pool of women even smaller be beneficial? Who’s to say that a woman who has commonalities with me, wants me or is available to me. There are a lot more women who have similar morals and values to me then are willing to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:59 PM
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None of this matters, how hot she is, if you want casual sex, if you want a ltr, etc. if you can’t secure a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:35 PM
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Idk, I feel like this is too strict. I mean realistically, with no leads, who is actually finding a whole relationship to be in within 6 months? That’s not light work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:09 PM
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Well, a short, ugly, dumb, and broke man probably does have issues in dating, regardless of his taste in women 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:03 PM
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Well I guess if he was smarter and more wealthy, he wouldn’t be average would he
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:57 PM
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So how often do you believe a average man is able to secure a date, for anything. Don’t bring up casual sex, that’s not part of struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:50 PM
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I keep seeing people who are saying the average man doesn’t struggle in dating. I would like to find out what you guys think “ struggling in dating” looks like so that I can decide if I agree or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:49 PM
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Do hot women not say hello or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:47 PM
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You know us, me and the boys on sugaring sites and hanging out in section 8 after leaving our office jobs. Do you guys think when y’all write stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:46 PM
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What does “ struggles with dating” mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:44 PM
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Why do you think you get to exist without someone having an opinion about your opinions? That’s literally all of our lives? No one on earth is perceived in a perfect life for all their thoughts and ideas. And you aren’t an exception, especially with an option that controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:09 AM
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What are you basing that on? How is this statement that has nothing to do with mens behavior, separating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:33 AM
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Why do you need to make sure that the advice is spoken a certain way, the audience is male and the subject is interacting with woman, so what is not gendering the conversation doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:58 PM
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Advice directed at one group about a different one isn’t sexism? It’s specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:49 PM
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Not in that aspect you can’t, it’s very specific, why open it up when it’s very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:33 PM
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Doesn’t matter, it’s different. Not as many women are showing attention. It’s not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:58 PM
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Well I’m saying this in general as well. People say this often. As if women are net positive actors while men are net negative sctors
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:48 PM
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“ women have gotten used to poor treatment” implies that they just receive negative treatment without having done anything to recieve it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:37 PM
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Well that’s the point. If you are in the introductory stages with someone, bad someone is behaving in a way that sends off alarm bells, regardless of what they say about it, it’s most likely better to just cut your losses then to hear out this pretty much stranger in hopes that the justification is better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:41 PM
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Well, I figure if this women is your friend. You would have much more insight the the situations and her life anyway. This is more about romantic interests that you don’t know well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:30 PM
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Is that what you got out of “ you don’t actually have to buy a woman’s time”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:25 PM
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No, unless he said “ we are in a commited relationship and I am agreeing to monogamy.” She is just making assumptions. Not everyone has strict boundaries about their friends. I literally saw a dude on tiktok yesterday saying he’s going on a first date with a woman to her family’s thanks giving celebration. Treating a woman with respect and being generous is not love bombing, that’s actually a weird thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:25 PM
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Nah, I definitely will not take a woman I’m not already sleeping with to dinner, you don’t have to buy the time of women who are already interested in going out with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:22 PM
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Yes. And that’s the only thing you said, or that’s what I responded to, so when you asked about siding with manipulators, which didn’t actually respond to what I said in the first place, I went ahead and responded to that. In which I said, unless someone literally said , “ we are in a committed relationship “ to get sex and then break up with them, this doesn’t actual make sense unless a woman expects to get something other then sex from the man, when he has sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:21 PM
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No there isn’t, you don’t have to take a woman out to eat for a date. If she will only go out with you if you pay for dinner, then you are buying her time .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:17 PM
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So you read everything I said and decided what I actually said was nothing, even when I directly responded to what you said. Your rebuttal is right there , just respond to it,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:16 PM
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No. Pretty much everyone puts their best foot forward in the initial stages of dating that’s not a good enough answer, plenty of woman do not have this issue consistently when it comes to men who would treat her well or not. it makes much more sense to infer that either her picker is off ( double points if you actually know of some of the men she picked) or that she’s leaving out information in the stories in which she would be accountable for the responses that she’s getting from those men. Ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:14 PM
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I don’t make the rules for how people navigate relationships. But I don’t have sympathy for people who think they can purchase the attention and commitments of another, whether that’s with their money or their genitals. Unless the lie is “ we are in a relationship “ has sex, and then dumps her, then I don’t see how anyone is getting tricked into doing something they didn’t want under the guise of a future situation. Just like you said, we all see it, if we can all see it, why would anyone be tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:07 PM
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What do you mean challenge them? It’s not about making them behave, it’s about understanding how they behave
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:04 PM
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Do y’all not realize that the redpill is a forum talking to men about women? It’s not about general advising to mankind..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:57 PM
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The answer is obviously focus on your own dating life if it’s working now, then work it now, no one said you have to commit just because someone else wants it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:43 PM
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Yes. And until someone verbalized their commitment to you, and you set boundaries together for the conditions of said commitment. Then there is no indication of what is to come of how it’s going to go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:41 PM
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None of this means “ we are in a long term commited relationship”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:32 PM
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If we all see what we are doing, then how are these women falling for “ relationship lies” whatever that means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:32 PM
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It doesn’t depend. If you try to buy her attention. It’s the same as her trying to buy your attention by giving you sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:30 PM
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You can have whatever opinion you want about it, like I said, it’s legal, we had to set a hard stop age for it, for legality. Public opinion does not align with your opinion though. No one wants a older man dating their young daughter, sister, cousin, friend. And no one wants their dad, brother, friend, co worker, bringing around a teenager .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:16 PM
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Seeing them in a different light is what re evaluate means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:04 PM
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Without the goth edge she’s plainly a 5 . I’m sure the goth edge tips the scale for some though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:56 PM
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Are you saying that homosexuality and interracial reproduction are similar to where we draw the line on someone’s right to consent to sexual activity? Did you forget that in both homosexual and inner-racial relationships, age is still a factor that can and will be frowned opon by popular society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:55 PM
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It’s not illegal, there’s a standard set, so you can do what you want legally, that doesn’t mean it will be socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:39 PM
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Why do you think she’s a pure person? You guys don’t feel weird when you assume that women have default “ good” behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:04 PM
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Yes. The difference, on average is 35k, the average household is living off less then 80k a year. Including children. You do realize that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:57 PM
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Is 35k a year, you know the average American salary of someone working full time, not enough to contribute? I mean that’s what they would have if single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:51 PM
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And she’s already attained All the finances? How is that a point? People are aggressively stratified across all distributions of wealth. Saying “ finances matters” doesn’t actually say much in reality unless you are believing that you deserve a standard of living afforded by someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:45 PM
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Men deserve the right to inconvenience is crazy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:35 PM
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You will never catch the hint of attention that your equivalent of a woman does. This isn’t the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:07 PM
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Well. If we maintain the current socioeconomic structure. Then the elderly are already enslaving us anyway. They are the owning class
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:00 PM
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What is this a threat 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:57 PM
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How would any woman that you don’t have a prior relationship with be superior to the relationship you are already in?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:49 PM
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If you generalize men as a collective then yes. There aren’t any women who “no men” will sleep with, someone would. But the average man isn’t going to sleep with just anyone, he will lower his standards sure, but not literally anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:48 PM
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They are supposed to date just like everyone else. Why do women have it in their head that their level of attainment has anything to do with having a relationship with someone else. That’s soooo weird .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:30 PM
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Have you actually read the sidebar? It literally says what it’s about in the side bar
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:43 PM
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That’s not what the red pill is about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:27 PM
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That’s what I would tell my daughter as a redpill man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:33 AM
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Correct. Now bye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:28 PM
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Sexual strategies, in the social world of dating, makes it about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:03 PM
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The redpill is about dating, it’s not about maintaining long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:55 PM
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So what? Did mgtow ever discribe itself as never discussing women again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:07 PM
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So be a fuck boy, got it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:50 PM
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So you figured out what mgtow is. You aren’t bringing a solution. The solution was already made by the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:44 PM
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Being needed by others is definitely not a part of my validation as a masculine man. It’s a responsibility and an obligation in my relationships that is default. The women these days obviously want to be desired more then they want to be needed. They talk about it all the time, they think that being wanted is a better recipe for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:34 PM
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That’s because liberals are also conservatives. Where did you get the idea that the liberal and conservative agenda had different plans for the overall socioeconomic base?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:32 PM
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Obviously different ways in different real situations. Usually an argument, or attacking an insecurity, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:07 AM
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Yes. They charge memberships on different apps if they are actually content creators. Not all or even most are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:40 PM
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Wel you said so, so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:35 PM
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Correct. You sound weird when you are by default telling people you are socially unconscious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:39 PM
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Yeah, neither are most things we calll “hate” but you know what it means In this context
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:30 PM
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You know women feminists is only an insult to conservatives right? Progressives really do not care that you think it’s insulting to be class concious lmao. Anyway yes. Calling my feelings and mental state immature for allowing you to actually see them is precisely why men feel this way about women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:28 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:08 PM
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Reducing a man’s complex emotional and mental vulnerabilities to “ overgrown toddler “ is precisely the hate that men are talking about, you obviously think otherwise, but you are viewed just the same as those women for holding these thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:06 PM
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They mean that opening up and being vulnerable either gets thrown back at them later down the line specifically to hurt them, or that the women starts disrespecting them because they thiml he’s weak
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:04 PM
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The average Instagram model does not have sponsors, or ads. Patrons to what exactly? They are literally regular people who have followings cause they are hot. The term Instagram model itself exists because they don’t do actual modeling and aren’t content creators
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:00 PM
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Yes. What do you guys think Instagram models actually do for income?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:47 PM
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Becky the dental assistant is specifically the woman who looks like this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:43 PM
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I believe in intersectional feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:39 PM
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As a red pill man I will say this. The moment men here, the moment men realize that we do not have leverage the way women do , and you can’t logic your way into dimming the leverage women have, you will be better equipped to protect your emotions and become the type of man you want to be and gain your own form of leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:42 AM
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You must be a librarian the way you talk about self reliance all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:09 PM
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What of your father? He had children with a woman. What was his role there? And what were his grievances with ya mom? My father is a 6’1 former division one college athlete. I’m sure you see what side of things my parents are on. We are talking about a compiling of social events and phenomena that are changing the landscape of dating and it’s negatively affecting a large portion of men. That’s what you guys don’t want to believe in. “I told you what I saw in my family. I am in my late 20's. I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:39 PM
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“Every man in my family would be ashamed at the comments on this site made by most men. “ I’ll believe you since I can’t prove it otherwise. Guess my family is all bad lol “So no, just based on real life experience in my area, I do not think most men share those experiences. And in the younger generations,” Oh so you aren’t in the current dating age I see. “the men who aren't so wholesome just... Don't seem to care about anything more than sex in a relationship. I do not think this experience of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:13 PM
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I mean it’s a forum specifically about a solution to dating problems and giving reasoning to do so. Why would you expect it to not be full of people talking about this thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:03 PM
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But the men on here complaining about wahmen are not saying "I am frustrated," like an emotionally intelligent person might. The men on here literally say "this is not OK, we have a gynocracy and men are impressed and there will have to be an uprising." Fear mongering. That’s not even the general conversation of this sub, yet alone what the men here are saying. Sure there are some fringe comments here but that’s not the norm. This is still patriarchy’s doing. There are two arguments to be made, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:01 PM
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R/mgtow is right there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:53 PM
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No they don’t. For every one man they had sex with, there’s an entire world of men they didn’t . Women are selective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:14 PM
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Doesn’t even make sense. If it was a myth then you could sleep with whoever you want without fail
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:06 PM
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Or a lot of men are fat and have no business telling other men not to be? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:59 PM
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Yes it is. The entire gym culture is pretty much specifically that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:58 PM
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Conservative red pill men generally don’t care about being wanted. They like being needed and feeing useful as it validates their worldview of their masculinity and general manhood. Which I don’t really see a problem with that, but I also don’t care to be “ needed” as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:49 PM
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Being “ok “doesnt help any individuals frustrations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:42 PM
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How would you even find a stat like that? People who are alive now having lived “ their life time “ yet. People who are 40-50-60-70 etc have overwhelming marriage rates compared to younger generations. Partly because we haven’t lived long enough yet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:41 PM
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Low life women date low life men, y’all gotta quit being vague about women and specific about men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:38 PM
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So when was it said that most men don’t have sex? Isn’t the virgin statistic always been 1/3?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:30 PM
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It does The question you are asking is like asking if a homeless person choosing to sleep outside is a necessary component of anti homeless architecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:01 AM
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No I’m not. I’m implying that the only sex a man is having is under whatever conditions women have set. The men have to adapt to whatever condition or standards women set for sex, if they want to have sex. That’s what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:49 PM
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correct. Unless you are making a statement that men should protest sex. Then any sex a guy has is under whatever conditions she places. Including casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:36 PM
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No. Women control all sex, any sex that you are having is because it’s been allowed by her, casual sex, relationship sex, marriage sex, procreation. All hers. We can only have whatever sex is allowed by any individual
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:49 PM
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Why do you think that men who are on Reddit dming random internet women are the same men being defended about seeking relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:46 PM
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Department store
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:40 PM
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Been here a long while. Also have girlfriend. Wonder how that wor
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:45 AM
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You are the one who added not catch anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:42 AM
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Lol . Think about what you just asked in any other case. Why would a fish help you catch it? Or catch their friends? C . Y’all don’t like any comparison or analogy for dating that isn’t mystical human curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:31 AM
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B. Every day. I’ve never received advice from a woman that made me more attractive to other women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:29 AM
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So I’m sure you know they aren’t talking about the same thing riggt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:28 PM
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Are you a dom in kink or a “dominant man “
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:49 PM
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God I love how close the average person just comes to eugenics without even realizing it 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:42 AM
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