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We're just sharing our top-of-mind knee-jerk reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:43 PM
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Hate to be that guy, but my first thought is that you're overpaid and undertaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:37 PM
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Oh? Enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:33 PM
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The analogy would be whether Americans would see Canada joining a military pact with Russia that puts Russian weapons and troops along the border as aggressive against the USA. Answer: hell yeah we would
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:08 PM
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You're doing the pomodoro backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:53 PM
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Yeah it's disappointing. Of course, any cheater with more than half a braincell and who can pass the marshmallow test isn't bringing any STDs home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:30 PM
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Are you talking about vote ratios? Your modprivledge is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:23 PM
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I'm sick enough that I want to suspend disbelief and hope this soap opera plot is real. Hot sauce in a condom. It's just missing a spicy punchline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:14 PM
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Nope. I actually knew a guy who would say shit like that in high school chess club in the 90s. Real cream of the crop. Ultimately he ended up in prison after raping a coworker at an amusement park.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:11 PM
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Oh I misinterpreted your first comment slightly. I didn't understand the "after" to mean "if" and thought that was more of an origin story. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:49 PM
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how did she know how to do it first?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:36 PM
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If you think sunk costs are the only reasons a man would stay with you, maybe you should hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:27 PM
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I'd definitely give it a shot. Google Lens/Translate can be pretty good (read: hilarious) as backup. You can practice at an Asian grocery. In the old days you'd have to figure out how to find characters in dictionaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:23 PM
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But why even bother have the app allow men swipe then? If the goal is to just get generic "here's a female" match, then by all means swipe indiscriminately. Why randomly swipe though? If you're limited on right swipes, left swipes are whatever. I can absolutely see some sort of a network that you tune to learn facial preferences and then hook that network up to the app to transfer that learning into the swipe app. That actually has value because it's applying your preferences into the swipes. Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:16 PM
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Machines can process far more profiles per second than anyone ever can. It just makes no sense to me. It's like running adblock and antitracking (no problem with this) but then also whining that all the ads that get through aren't targeted. Like, duh. That's what you're teaching the machines to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:06 PM
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Are people who swipe right on everything completely aware of the computing law of "garbage in, garbage out"? Signal is everything. If you're not helping the machines, how to you expect the machines to help you? I get that people are trying to get as many matches as quickly as possible, but if you're not willing to help the machines you're going to be wasting your own time with garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:58 PM
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I posted below about Republicans threatening that ending the filibuster will be bad because it would ungridlock Congress. No. Stop. Don't throw us into that briarpatch, McConnell!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:52 PM
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It is generally true that men who are successful make money, but be careful about making money into cargo. Money is sort of a weird proxy thing. STEMlords make a lot of money and have stable careers, but women neither respect nor desire them, for example. Quite the opposite actually. Most first marriages today do not end in divorce, but there are a number of factors at play in that including delayed marriage and lower marriage rates and different class stratification and changes in religiosity. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:43 PM
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Somebody should make a romcom where an incel says fuck it and starts with an ugly chick and trades her up paperclip style until he's dating [insert hot actress of the day].
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:32 PM
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Nope, I'd disagree with that. Men need to be successful enough to be respected by the woman, but I don't think they need to be the more successful of the two. But also all the divorces in the 70's and 80's were from relationships where the man was the more successful one of the two. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:25 PM
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I hate to break it to women but you all will age and there's always going to be a fresh hot barely-legal spring chicken. So what if he like boobs? All it means is he's with her for other reasons than her boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:18 PM
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She just posts that as a desperate attempt to get people to stop stuffing her DM with dickpics and other low-effort DLV.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:03 PM
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Why are you hanging out with onlyfans chicks if you hate hanging out with them? I don't follow this "hey if you're on onlyfans, that must mean you're looking to be my free prostitute" thing. Hire a prostitute if you want a prostitute. It's possible she's a prostitute, but if you want to play John, don't expect $0.00 to get much action.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:47 PM
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There’s nothing she can do about his fixation other than surgically modify her own body or leave him. Or... and here's an odd idea... she could user her adult words and tell him she's sensitive and insecure about it and ask him to tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:39 PM
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In this case it's a short form of anal retentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:37 PM
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He’s putting his girlfriend down for it Can you quote the part where he did that because my manbrain seems to have missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:33 PM
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I really wonder who the hell is photoshopping this shit? Here's a simple test: do you ever see these bodies in porn/at the waterpark/beach? If no... then it looks goddamn fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:42 PM
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WTF are those Instagram photos. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:34 PM
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If it's unlabeled how do you know it is the snacks container when it's empty? Or if it's only got one type/brand of snack inside? Maybe it's the stale pretzel stick container.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:28 PM
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No? These sorts of hugs are just greeting rituals. Nobody's saying "go spoon with uncle mike and comfort him if he sobs".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:17 PM
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Dunno it just seems like a low effort supplement for guys who are skilled with women. Seems like a major stretch to assume they wouldn't be getting women whenever and wherever they can. Tinder is 24/7. Bars and clubs not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:53 PM
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That just means they can afford to be picky on Tinder. Not all high quality women spend their lives at bars and clubs. I'm sure their personality works just fine in chat etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:49 PM
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But why would guys who do score at bars/clubs not also be on Tinder? And why wouldn't they be successful there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:42 PM
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Today in self-unaware bizarroworld Senate Republicans threaten to do their jobs if the filibuster is weakened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:35 PM
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tbf that's kinda hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:27 PM
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... what sort of kinks? You can't just type that without elaborating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:24 PM
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I actually already explained that it's basic manners and etiquette. You may well be happy raising unruly and uncultured swine, but that's not how I roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:17 PM
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It's nothing more than giving family a hug. It's merely basic protocol and manners like not putting your elbows on the table or talking with food in your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:10 PM
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Kids don't want to go to school or go to bed or wash their hair or brush their teeth or eat their veggies or not jump on the furniture or do their homework or not curse, either. Tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:05 PM
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No, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:56 PM
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Oh grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:50 PM
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women should despise nice guys and incels, they're pieces of shit too. It's the same thing as the shit Smurf posted the other day. Making the argument that women don't care about guys being pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:39 PM
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Yup. Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:28 PM
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more whining about "nice guys" being the same assholes as the guys you're fucking It's fascinating to me how the female smooth brain just cannot muster the self-awareneness to understand that they're conceding the point that women flock to the pieces of shit assholes when they charge forward triumphant with this line of devastating arguments. Whatever point you think you're scoring here is actually an owngoal. You'd be closer to winning if you shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:21 PM
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Edit I take it I take all this back. He was convicted in 2002 and exonerated in 2012. This is ancient. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brian_Banks_(American_football) See also: https://ethicsalarms.com/2013/03/26/wanetta-gibson-is-even-worse-than-we-thought/ aka jack shit happened to her because doing anything would dissuade actual rape victims from coming forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:52 PM
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Ah, my high school rumor mill had that wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:20 PM
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You can get pissed at the school district all you want but ultimately it goes back to the Obama white house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:04 PM
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Can't squeeze much juice from a raisin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:57 PM
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Traditionally that would be true. But this is the twenty first century and it sounds like you made an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:09 PM
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Did you explicitly have the exclusivity talk? You weren't married. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:00 PM
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In honor of Bob Saget, I'm gonna cue up the Alanis Morissette while I read this comment by the female who spends all day whining about guys whining about their dry dicks rather than people suffering from racism, poverty, child neglect, child abuse, unemployment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:51 AM
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In my experience intimacy (knowledge of each other on all levels of existence) is far higher in a relationship than in a friendship. I don't know if that makes it better or not, but it does make it a deeper connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:52 PM
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Oh it's that girl from all the Disney shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:36 PM
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that horrid period of teeth growing (how is it called in English?) teething
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:33 PM
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Who could have predicted that decades upon decades of union crushing would wind up crushing the worker? But don't worry everyone can be rich if they pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Macroeconomics don't real. 👻 it's a mystery 👻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:52 PM
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Gay and straight aren't genders tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:49 PM
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What it actually means is that if you brainwash someone into thinking they're gay, then anyone who tries to unbrainwash them goes to prison. Milo would be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:20 PM
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Why on earth would she tell anyone? What's anyone got to gain from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:41 AM
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Most women here say that arguing with us losers causes them to respect and appreciate their partners more. Since respect is fundamental to female attraction, it makes perfect sense that it reignites their bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:36 AM
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There's a version with a black lady reacting to it and it's hilarious. Her face is so expressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:29 PM
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It started with Eve. What is it about apples??!??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:21 AM
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Matthew Lillard (I remembered him from Scream)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 03:19 AM
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What is it with hoes and eating apples?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:31 AM
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Plagiarism is copyright infringement and violates reddit TOS. Poppy should issue a DMCA takedown request.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:18 PM
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Call him out in a sticky with a link to the original.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:17 PM
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I need to brush up on my Airplane! but "fasho" = "for sure" I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:51 PM
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She and I were having a conversation before you decided to sealion. At least you're honest about not adding anything to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:41 PM
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You always respect a guy who has a hot girlfriend (unless he betrays himself to be a simp/pussywhipped).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:27 PM
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Sure. Except that never happens. It's always just one side screeching hysterically drowning out all sane discussion. Republicans used to be very good at this. They're just banshee dumbasses now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:05 PM
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All systems have strengths and weaknesses. The current system prevents some harms and imposes other harms. A different system will prevent other harms and impose different harms. Perfect systems will never exist. I'm not familiar with NY or their system and I don't actually know why I my opinion about what NY does matters. That article is pretty low on details (and old). I don't think a battle of anecdotes is particularly helpful for examining system behavior. That's just to say that some woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:57 PM
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Some of these posts about physical traits etc are getting to the point of cat owners arguing about which is the best breed. Come on. A type of cat is your thing or it isn't. You walk into the shelter and find a cat you like or whatever. At least I'd never adopt a cat based on some measurements and a photo. You either like each other or you don't. Putting out a detailed specification and requesting applications is ridiculous. It's not build-a-furball. "Oh no all the cats at the shelter scratch an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:16 PM
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I thought it was stuff like sending petty drug offenders to rehab programs. I've never heard of it being used for violent offenders, but perhaps it's domestic violence stuff which... is tricky. I mostly see this topic as a republican blue state fear mongering strawman tbf. I've lived in red states forever where it's calm and rational republicans who have been pushing for this and putting it in practice for decades. Improving outcomes and reducing costs is a no brainer. But... it tends to be in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:38 PM
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Not to make a big point of it but it's more accurate to say that women are men with uterus instead of dicks. The lack of penis very is significant. The rhings you are describing are rational functions (how people think about things in the frontal cortex). But there are somatic and sensory differences that should not be neglected. I've been percolating a post about how culturally we have these ideas that our genitals have minds of their own. It's a pretty common colloquialism that men think with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:18 PM
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Wouldn't care as long as my dick is happy. I also don't really care about emotional affairs, but in particular same sex emotional affairs are nothingburgers. That's just women being best friends. I've always known/expected women to talk to each other about literally everything. Also is this friend of hers hot? Cause in my mind this friend is hot and I can spankbank that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:39 PM
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Misspelling "you're" is the most cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:37 PM
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What's the bail reform about I haven't been paying attention. Is it about how that guy in Wisconsin was able to get out and drive over that Christmas parade?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:35 PM
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Uh. That's a weird one. No idea really. Mostly wondering why I even know and she isn't just telling me that she miscarried. I suppose the first thing I'd do is talk to her about it and try to understand why and if she wants out of the relationship. The only thing that actually makes sense to me about this situation is she realized she doesn't want a child with me. So that's where I'd be starting from and she'd need to convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:22 PM
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one > three >>> two Two looks like you were too lazy to shave and therefore probably haven't showered in a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:30 AM
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It's not even common in the Midwest, Mountain West or South. Dunno about Cancerfornia though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:22 PM
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FYI just use a backslash to prevent the formatting functions of characters like \#notheading or \^notsuperscript or \*not bold\*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:17 PM
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🪞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:31 PM
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What does he say at the 2min mark? I do think there's a transition from boy to man. There's a physical transition and there's also a psychic transition and the psychic transition is more culturally defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 12:28 PM
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As far as the law is concerned they are 100% his kids. There's nothing to dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:04 AM
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How much time does it take? Is it a 9-5 five days a week or more of a never-ending 24/7 grind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:02 AM
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He wasn't asking about probabilities of average fat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:12 PM
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Sure, I was just gestalting the trend line. So maybe 180±15 or somewhere in the range of 165-195. IIRC the thing I got that from also said college athletes are a little shorter and few pounds lighter than the pros. Dunno if there are similar stats on Olympic athletes but those would probably be the best ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:56 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:49 PM
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https://www.psychguides.com/wp-content/uploads/05-IEGST5U.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:46 PM
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It's this. We should mint Burr's Law to join Godwin's Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:41 PM
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idk I got that number from professional athlete mass tables. Edit: tbf I did have to extrapolate the prof athlete data a lot to get down to 66"... which is actually probably informative itself in terms of women's height preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:26 PM
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No guy is fat at 12% bodyfat. This question is about muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:23 PM
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Most women learn how to put in the appropriate effort to attract romance as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:57 PM
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To be taken advantage of, sure. For romance? Nope. Unless possibly she also happens to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:51 PM
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Probably around 180 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:45 PM
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Ok well I don't think I was agreeing with his premise but I don't care. I'll just delete.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:34 PM
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I don't mind moving it but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:31 PM
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Do you think a woman can be a shut-in hanging out exclusively in her bedroom 24/7 reading novels waiting for prince charming to swoop in and lay on the romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:29 PM
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What does it mean to be "willing to be the stable option"? How do men get to that point? If it ultimately just means "if a woman wants to settle down, then the guy she's with must be ready to settle down" then I'm not sure what there is to be worked up about. But I also don't think most people want to "settle down" into a boring existence. People want excitement but with stability to build larger relationships. People who are ready to settle down understand that and don't feel any sort of sacrif…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:11 PM
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Vanilla as in refuses to participate in kinkiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:51 AM
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In a monogamous relationship both partners must strive to be each other's best. There was a post linked in the weekly a few days ago where a guy and his gf were drinking with friends and they all got to talking about their best sex. She had said that her ex had the best sex but that she felt a lot more comfortable with him. He seemed more hung up about the comfortable part of statement rather than the best part, but everyone was talking about the ex having been best. Anyway one of his followup c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:47 AM
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And we discussed kinks, he basically doesn’t have any, while I definitely do… Is that a problem? Do you need a guy to have kinks or do they need to be the same as yours? Or does having any kinks signal something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:26 AM
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Howdy! Permanent breaks are hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:55 AM
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Being a cuck got old I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:51 AM
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What about Tina Fey or Amy Poehler? I think they're at least as funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:21 AM
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Now that I'm no longer tempbanned for "trolling" I have just one simple question [CMV] women are tetrapods
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:14 AM
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It actually only reflects badly on them when they lose malpractice lawsuits. There are changes to medicare in the works from Obamacare that are slowly starting to bake outcomes into reimbursement. They're being fought pretty hard by medical lobby groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:58 AM
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Mostly that she inspires me to be playful and is somewhat of a puzzle to me. I can't really put my finger on what it is exactly. Some women just have that sort of thing about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:36 AM
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That just how it works right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:55 AM
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I'm talking about the women who minimize height. See for example her's is 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:47 AM
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Women doctors are more likely to be at higher quality institutions. Also less likely to have the surgeon God complex. It reminds me of the study that found that fewer cardiac patients die when all the senior faculty are away at the major national conferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:29 AM
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lol not a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:25 AM
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[Q4W] who among you has the shortest husband or boyfriend? How tall is he? (Like right now, not in a relationship that didn't work out)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:20 AM
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Well sure women tell them they don't care personally, but later those sane women admit they have a 6'+ husband or bf. It's some law of nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:17 AM
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“in my experience, women have rejected me for my height,” This is always retorted with "nah, women don't care that much about it. it must be something else. do you take showers? wipe your ass? hate women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:57 PM
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I would too. But... I have kids already so CF-by-choice chicks probably wouldn't be interested. I'm also snipped so a babyrabies chick is not gonna work either. Honestly I'd not be opposed to dating a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:27 PM
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Seems like that will be counteracted by an increase in SMV of older women. Particularly as they remain child-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:51 PM
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Ok. I will concede that it's possible for sex workers to enjoy the work and places like Finnland in particular seem setup to foster a less objectionable form of sex work (as described in the article). I don't really live in a place where those items apply. But I can also see how some of the things mentioned in the article such as the shift to internet-based work and access to online communities/forums and the move away from streets and newspapers (which were new in 2008 but that I assume have on…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:55 PM
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Are gold star lesbians considered virgins? That's what I'm aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:31 PM
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Yeah, but does "dating" mean paying for a lap dance or what? Because if it doesn't then dating an exotic dancer isn't paying her to perform anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:14 PM
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Generally the old theory was that young men need to be anchored with families otherwise they become volatile and destabilizing. I assume similar things would be true of women. So in a democracy the equilibrium point would probably be at some protective rate that prevents 50% of the voting public from becoming so hopeless about their prospects that they decide to burn it all down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:12 PM
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I've heard escorts can be very good at making you think they care and I would assume sugarbabys are as well. I don't really know what you mean about dating dancers. Is "dating dancers" a term for sexworker arrangement the way sugars use the term "dating"? If not then actual dating is dating. It's not paid sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:58 PM
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That seems like thinking it's great to have a yes-man as second in command.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:00 PM
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If I've learned anything from PPD it's that apparently a lot of women experience a lot of shit sex with guys who don't care how shit it is for them. That seems like the easiest bar in the universe to catapult over. A part of me still questions whether it's a giant conspiracy and they're all lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:54 PM
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Yeah, but you need to want to worship her to. You don’t have to worry about texting her, when you will see her next, how she feels about you or anything else because you already know and she makes equal effort towards you. Honestly I can't imagine that. I mean sure worrying about texting seems odd but I'm not a huge texter anyway since I'm so old I missed even the SMS boat. But I can't imagine being with someone I wasn't constantly looking forward to seeing next and making plans to be together w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:20 PM
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You don't think women could pool their minds and come up with their own standardized model articles of incorporation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:43 PM
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See what I don't understand is why marriages can't be setup like a SV startup with articles of incorporation and shares and vesting and buybacks and distributions and bonuses. Possibly a board of directors, etc. But I know my feelings on this are a bit different because I think people should have the legal right to enter into marriages that are dictated entirely by private entities, say the Catholic church or whoever's in charge of Judaism or even chartered corporations or trusts etc. Basically …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:26 PM
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There are a number of holes in there because it respects the user privacy settings (for example reddit has a preference to not allow comments to be indexed by search engines). pushshift used to not respect that and I think reddit cracked down on them. It's also known to miss things for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:12 PM
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Thanks, I'll give it a read after work. It looks interesting. (FYI, I had to delete everything after .pdf to get the link to work)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:08 PM
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Oh, that's OK. Don't go to all that effort. Are you aware of the r/pushshift database?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:03 PM
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I'll read it but there's no rush. Was it published in Penthouse? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:00 PM
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Mostly because I have never ever seen a retired hooker say otherwise. Active sex workers have a lie to sell and hiding the loathing of their clients is one of their biggest obstacles. I cannot believe a damn word sex workers say isn't part of a carefully-crafted sales pitch. At least for appealing to normies--I'm sure there's a large minority of guys get off on using women who hate it, no need to bother pretending for them. Good hookers are just more convincing at faking it and price scales with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:55 PM
2

Oh hey if you have a database of all this... it might be cool to look at total votes cast in all comments to each post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:50 PM
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Oh thanks! Someone mentioned "Body types men cheat on" and I had missed it. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:44 PM
1

Well I guess we do need to consider that some people might be a bit emotionally fragile. Not sure those people should be here during purge, but... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:40 PM
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Sure, for the right price proz can have hot bodz and skillz, but deep down we know they hate us. There's just a fundamental idea that civilians might actually like us. It may not be "true love", but it's not "fake love". Also there's thrill in the chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:08 PM
1

What was there? Have all the undelete things stopped working?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:55 PM
1

What do dumb women become?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:28 PM
2

So? Relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:46 AM
2

Quelle suprise!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:40 AM
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ITT: lots of "it's for the legal benefits, stupid" and not a lot of "willing to accept a prenup that removes all assets and income from the table and limits the marriage strictly to those legal benefits only" Something don't add up. Gee golly I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:50 AM
1

He needs statistics for me to tell you that there's no alimony or divorce court involved when you're not married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:55 PM
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Those relationships are transitory, transactional and conditional. They're not commitments and they're easy to break. You don't make a wife out of a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:50 PM
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More and more men are choosing that everyday as the word spreads. They're certainly not choosing to be married. Which is why you had to go for coupling statistics rather than marriage statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:39 PM
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Men who are aware of this are NOT ok with it lmfao. It's the whole AF/BB topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:33 PM
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He's a lucky man. But why not just hire prostitutes/escorts/sugarbabies? Seems like it would be easier and more straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:22 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:20 PM
2

That's just been my experience people watching with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:19 PM
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Didn't you answer it yourself though? Women just don't understand men as quickly and easily as men do. I'm sure women can read other women way quicker than men can and have their own "obvious ____ is obvious" quicktakes when men crash and burn. In particular it seems like women pick up very quickly on women who are faking attraction to men. neediness The theory I've seen that resonates the best with me is that women sort males that they become intimate with in two modes: the male who needs to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:14 PM
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Yes. Had to move for career is the only one of those reasons I would have dumped her and could accept returning to her in the future. It at least has hero's journey arc. If I was too busy, she'd have dumped me. Needing to sow wild oats as a reason to dump someone and then returning to them later is pathetic--sowing wild oats is not heroic. It's like you know she's prison but need to go have some fun before turning yourself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:54 PM
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Had to move for career/work/school is ok, the rest are hell nopes because they're regressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:49 PM
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Ok, well my opinion still stands. The only thing being described is that I'd have had some reason to dump her and the only thing that's happened in the interim is that I'm feeling some sort of guilt (best case) or feel she's pathetic and demeaning herself (worst case).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:44 PM
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Aren't you that guy who keeps getting back with this girl who's trying really hard to get him and dumping her because you don't feel it or am I confusing you with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:40 PM
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Her again? I don't know what's going on with you and her, but you don't seem to actually like her. But no: I would not. If I dump someone, they're dead to me. There's no need to keep repeating the past as if something different will happen. What could possibly change? That you think she's more pathetic and desperate? That's not how to build anything worth building.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:35 PM
2

Right. That's why guys shouldn't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:30 PM
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Even if women truly believe 80% of men are ugly and admit it, who cares? Right so let me run the math for you on this. 70% of Americans in relationships. Then: At least 70%-(<)20%=(>)50% of men are in relationships with women who are not sexually attracted to them and who have settled. It doesn’t stop men from getting sex and dates. Sure... but you're describing a relationship closer to prostitution where women tolerate sex in order to obtain non-sexual goodies. Which I know given your dim view …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:13 PM
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Apparently AP English likes to force people to read it. TBF it's a good preview of program content for anyone contemplating humanities in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:06 PM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:02 PM
2

It became a "classic" because hurrdurr feminist dystopian scifi.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:55 PM
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(It's because he cheated to be with her and she was the other woman. That's the entirety of the logic.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:52 PM
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What makes it a chick flick is that it's boring and melodramatic. I've seen porn with more engaging plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:49 PM
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Oh damn I didn't see that one. My favorite image post was the one about quitting OLD and bars to date divorced women who are selling their wedding dresses so that you can sort by size. I still chuckle about that one. Edit: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rujg1k/swiping_apps_dont_work_because_there_are_too_many/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:44 PM
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Sorry, Her Royal Highness Queen u/tiposk declared forever purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:10 PM
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That was older than the first but it's been deleted so dunno what it said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:05 PM
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I don't think prettiest is anywhere near equivalent. Great sex can happen any time with anyone. It's pretty bleak to think that anyone's best sex can only be in the past anyway. Even if it was with me and it was "oh the best sex I've ever had was with you 15 years ago" that's... just not something I'd take any pride in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:31 PM
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See, it's probably different for people who are not as neurotic as I am but in the absence of info I trust, I'll just assume the worst. I'm super good at spotting people who are trying to manage my feelings and much prefer people just spit it out rather than watch them drag their wheels around until they finally spit out what I already knew they were going to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:28 PM
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Meh. Some people appreciate honest feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:25 PM
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I think he's fine to have mixed feelings about it but I don't think he needs to dwell on it. I seem to keep talking about the same books over and over but Jack Morin did research on "peak erotic experiences" where he had people from all over and all walks of life submit anonymous descriptions of their most memorable sexual experiences (he would solicit them at talks he gave and in ads etc) and then studied them for patterns and themes. And frankly it just underscores that people are all weird an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:19 PM
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https://fredblog.stlouisfed.org/2021/01/whats-behind-the-recent-surge-in-the-m1-money-supply/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:35 PM
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Pre-purge in a discussion about music we like someone said they like everything except hate jazz and that reminded me that Cowboy Bebop left me wanting to check out bebop. I've been listening to it almost non-stop since. It is so great. I've been needing this! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:01 PM
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I suppose being high would help explain the abuse betas tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:53 PM
2

Seriously. Who are incels to look down on guys getting the bare minimum of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:51 PM
2

oops haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:42 PM
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Pretty sure she's that one chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:36 PM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:30 PM
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True. Not all women are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:17 PM
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Oh yeah. She was that romanian or something mail order bride gold digger who claimed she kept trading up? She was so obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:08 PM
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It's way easier to identify women than going though some back-and-forth dishing contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:15 AM
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Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:00 AM
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Six months salary on a ring? Where the hell did they get that rule? Even the de Beers cartel pushes two months salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:25 AM
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Match would include whether the other person is interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:05 AM
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It also factors out match rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:53 AM
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There are more white men than black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:40 AM
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It's the percentage of yes/no in the edge of the graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:36 AM
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The chart is percentages (it's annotated once in each cluster and it's also labeled as "rates"). You would have to convert them to raw to do this sort of comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:30 AM
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You'd think that Women responding to white men: 7.8%+5.0%+6.7%+5.4% = 24.9% Men responding to black women: 10.3%+16.4%+9.1%+8.5% = 44.3% Would be a slam dunk. But you actually can't add the percentages like that because you don't know the relative weights. For example if you added "thirsty incels" as a category with 100% response rate to black women you can't just add it all up. 10.3%+16.4%+9.1%+8.5%+100% = 144.3% You have to weight each percentage by population. So the answer is that chart does…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:26 AM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12039606/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:45 PM
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BPD is just extreme female brain the same way that autism is extreme male brain. Basically diagnosed BPD is "woman" dialed to 11/10 and normal women are "BPD" dialed down to like 7-9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:14 PM
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Found the neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:18 PM
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Imagine waiting 10 years for some sorry pillowprincess starfish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:51 PM
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Why not just take the win-win and join the attacker?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:41 PM
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a Fail
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:02 PM
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Ouroboros would like a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:51 AM
5

What if I'm a user who is also being used?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:49 AM
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Why ya gotta be so rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:34 AM
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Was that the guy who would talk about pulling chicks with his drumming and about his exploits making out with girls in his apartment complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:01 AM
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Where the hell is the clit?!?!!!??????? and why is it so hard to find? Why do women have all these obtuse hidden spots like G and P etc? What's the evopsych reason for all this hassle?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:57 PM
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I often find there's a lot of complex and uncomfortable white guilt thoughts that come up. When I'm able to get past that I find many black women are actually quite attractive and they have rather great personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:47 AM
2

Do you miss getting fucked by guys who don't pity you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:05 AM
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Thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:46 PM
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You should move to Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:45 PM
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You definitely look Texan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:17 PM
2

I came reading your sentence so probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:34 PM
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Post your 69andme. Pretty sure you'll find that you're at least 1/16th Texan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:32 PM
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Apparently only TheHeroReditDeserves gets to post. Good joke mods. You suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:02 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:46 PM
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Cleaning the garage, getting the wife drunk, long massage followed by marital rape after the kiddos are in bed to ring in the new year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 05:00 PM
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Male, 44. 20% my stuff (and that's shared use things like nail/hair clippers, towels). Everything I need (soap, toothbrush, toothpaste, floss, tongue thing, hairbrush, oldman daily pill box thing) is neatly in a corner next to the sink. Razor and two bottles of hairshit in the shower. I have a bunch of geezer vitamins and supplements and unopened tube of anti-wrinkle cream that's probably expired in the medicine cabinet though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:50 PM
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Fit black girl > fit blonde (Americanized only) >>>> "hot" Ukrainian
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:22 PM
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Women respect men for what they provide. Women cannot love men they don't respect. But love and respect are not identical and women don't love all men they respect. So ultimately it's not really that they love men for what they provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:23 PM
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True, there's a heavy markup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:55 PM
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He wants to buy a girlfriend for 5 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:43 PM
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Best wishes! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:42 PM
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Can confirm. I also live in imaginaryfantasyland.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:37 PM
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I don't see what no fault or at fault divorce has to do with how money is allocated. Except for in the past you used to be able to sue for damages I believe. But I think everything in the past was pretty much a lot shittier than it is now. It's great that Mary guys and gals can escape marriages they don't want longer want to be in without having to meet some courts standards of evidence. So I think that's good. But ultimately I think it's better that people aren't forced to be together if they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:38 PM
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Favorite meal: Fresh krill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:42 PM
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You can just do what geezers have always done and buy her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:30 PM
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It's definitely smart marketing. False advertising would be more that thing where they post a group photo and allows you to believe they're the the hot friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:11 PM
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Apparently it's become extremely easy to wind up suspended so you could try that. I tried delete+willpower and failed. Maybe someone can adapt Alan Carr's r/easyway for escaping PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:00 PM
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Maybe they'd think it's lame you waited so long to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:35 PM
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Why early 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:34 PM
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Degeneration is any action that brings short-term benefit only to the subject(you) and does no good to anyone in the long run. Sex is pretty damn good at maintaining intimate relationships and enhancing cooperation. So to the extent that long term relationships benefit the subject(you) and your partner that's benefit in the long run. Also you are left with a lack of energy, which you would otherwise spend on more constructive things. I really doubt this honestly. There's nothing more motivating …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 08:01 PM
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I don't follow what you mean about how the data dismisses that. I'd think wealth is included in "financially vulnerable" but I didn't check methods. Edit: Oh I see. Financially vulnerable was defined as having income below a regional threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:10 PM
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I'm groking the results in that report as the combination of two types of factors at play: People who are doing better are more likely to get partnered up as a selection effect. This is somewhat obvious because the desirable partners are the ones that are expected to do well. Partnered life is cheaper/more economically efficient. It's just going to be more expensive to live on your own. This affects the rate of wealth accumulation for people with the same incomes living in the same locations. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:46 PM
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It's going to depend heavily on what happens with AI and space colonization so it's very difficult to predict. I'm also worried we're due for a World War that will ultimately bring about world government, but I'm not sure that will happen in the next 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:14 PM
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The concern generally is that ever since colonialism, we've been in a mode that relies massively on expansion and population growth and that it will be extremely painful to shift gears and transition to stable populations (if it's even possible).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:13 PM
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How hot is your friend on a 10-point scale? She doesn't sound very hot, so I'm just wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah, it's true that it's not terribly difficult to find something to be 95% at. That can be more about the sorry shape of the competition, though. Some things will always be difficult at the 95%-ile based on where you place your filters. As he mentions, even 99.999%-ile isn't impressive if nobody is doing it and nobody cares to be impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:06 PM
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The risk is big. All it takes is a whistleblower and healthcare workers aren't the happiest bunch at the moment. Edit: assess the actual risk of dying from Covid Well I'd probably look at admitting diagnosis or patients with positive vs negative tests. Most of the reporting will be by physicians and the inclusion/exclusion criteria will be noted (i.e. admitting diagnosis and symptoms etc). Studies using covid as cause of death would likely be more about non-hospital death risks (which this is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:01 PM
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That's definitely a you problem. I don't see why I should care at all about all that. Good luck with your app. So I'll happily read it if you ever decide to circle back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:59 PM
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Honestly I think there's just some major misunderstanding going on. Compliance really is not a joke in a hospital. If you're cut off for Medicare you're cut off and you go bankrupt. My guess is the word covid is showing up somewhere. But I doubt cause of death is listed as covid unless there is a positive covid test. Which is certainly possible if she stayed in the ICU. It may be something ancillary to covid. Or it could be that her ICU stay involved covid precautions and reimbursement for all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:53 PM
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Okay if you find it and want to discuss it I'll read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:42 PM
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I did and found his blog, but it doesn't seem relevant or at least I can't see what you think we should read there. Am I supposed to find something specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:24 PM
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But there's that thing. Read Dan Luu Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:59 PM
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I do prefer Newton's Flaming Laser Sword but it doesn't seem applicable here. Hanlon's Razor might be applicable but it seems a stretch to apply it speculatively at the end of a successful prosecution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:30 PM
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I encountered one of these perky asscheek fitgirls in the freezer section of Whole Foods recently. Very nice. 🙏 I had to feign disapproval because I was with the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:44 AM
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Wikipedia lists a metric shit ton of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:41 AM
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Pretty sure it's a closure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:35 AM
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When you figure it out, let me know so that we may further support and encourage this trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:31 AM
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Is anyone saying she worked alone or that all investigations are over? Her case just ended and it makes sense to seal her case's files. I honestly don't see what there is to get worked up about. There are other open cases and ongoing investigations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:28 AM
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Covering my ears to what? She even says she doesn't know whether they ended up having COVID. It's all hearsay. Honestly don't even know why Medicare gives a shit about cause of death to be honest so the story makes little sense. They pay for procedures performed. It sounds like someone's reading a bill not an autopsy report or something. Everybody should just chill. I'm happy to hear about substantiated things but stuff bubbling through the grapevine deserves copious salt. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:23 AM
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Occam's razor seems to suggest protecting the victims is sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:18 AM
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Doesn't sealing files just mean they can't be accessed by the public? Does it prevent prosecutors and investigators from accessing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:16 AM
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Why shouldn't the files be sealed? Seems like a good idea to provide her victim's some privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:05 AM
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Dunno man, medicare fraud isn't a game hospitals win. Very risky game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:37 AM
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Oh? What happened. I saw willow-girl's and it's pretty difficult to assess whether they might have been denied ICU or other care. Second guessing pathologists isn't necessarily something I'd engage in. Pathologists don't give a shit and they have no skin in the game one way or the other. Calling shit covid-related rather than malpractice isn't really that much of an improvement at the end of the day save for the fact that it shields health care organizations from lawsuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:16 AM
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Scored 31% more on the first one. On the second merely average for narcissism and a paltry 38%ile for psychopathy. But I did score 98%ile for machiavellianism so at least I've got that going for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:41 PM
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Maybe she was? I don't know anything about her origin story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:20 PM
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I didn't see anything indicating he's hanging out with his best friend's step brother's cousins uncle's adopted son-in-law's ex girlfriend. It seemed like a second hand thing via his best friend at best. We're all speculating on chinese telephone hearsay. But welfare and assistance could certainly explain what's going on rather than assume it's lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:20 PM
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Honestly I think what could have happened to the best friend's step brother's cousins uncle's adopted son-in-law is that he had been paying her. Then she decided she needed welfare or other child assistance. It could have been that if she acknowledged it existed she would have been ineligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:22 PM
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So he would have to have known AWALT and/or expected a lawyer to pull their punches in court (really?)? I get why that happened, but it's not entirely unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:49 PM
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It sounds like your friends could have been way better prepared for this because these are mostly sounding like self-inflicted drunk captain type wounds. You are correct that the system can steamroll the unprepared. But it's really not too difficult to learn what to do proactively and what not to do and what to expect rather than stick your head in the sand. One of the things MRP always has advised all married guys was the value of talking to a divorce attorney even if you're not immediately pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:38 PM
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I don't really have any problem with that aspect of child support. It's not what I was complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:58 PM
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It's more complex than that. What's really going on is the state is collecting the money to reimburse them themselves for the welfare and child support the state is paying the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:46 PM
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The way I understand it the reason the system is so awful is because the government was trying to incentivize people to get married. I do think it's going to be repaired and fixed in the future. And I also don't think the mothers are benefiting from the system either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:40 PM
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That's fun and games until you're unemployed and the machine starts chewing on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:35 PM
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Yeah, that's true. Child support laws can be fairly awful particularly when States get involved. I expect that situation to become better rather than more draconian over time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:30 PM
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she knew I wouldn’t go if I knew Not cuckery, just betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:21 PM
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What things do you see the government doing to try and fuck men over?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:17 PM
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Maybe call a vet or animal control. At the very least, they should know who to direct you towards. How do you know it died of rabies? It seems odd that someone would diagnose that cause of death and not give you instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:12 PM
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My assumption is that's primarily a result of childcare costs. Broadly speaking I don't really see why anyone would have a problem with the government compensating women for providing childcare labor and services.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:07 PM
2

I thought saving on taxes was one of the main talking points people give in favor of marriage nowadays. If that's true then women pay more taxes by staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:05 PM
1

I don't know much about his divorce. How do you think red pill would have benefited him? Are you only referring to the "never get married" thing or did he do something egregiously blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:01 PM
2

I don't think that chart is particularly helpful for thinking about causes of divorce. Primarily because it's normalized the two categories and you can't tell whether there are more people divorced who cheated vs didn't cheat. It is odd though that widowed is 7% in both but dunno. It's just not the easiest presentation of the data to reason about anything except odds of cheaters being divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:58 PM
3

Women aren't obligated to even date anyone. So I cant see how there's any obligation to fuck on schedule. Men aren't obligated to date anyone either. If a guy doesn't like how the relationship is progressing he should walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:21 AM
2

Nice try. That's exactly what a secret smokeshow would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:17 AM
4

This guy never sounds like there's anything good about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:10 AM
2

Staff at Jezebel, FDS moderators and MensLib readers, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:56 AM
3

Oh damn. I assumed you were a smokeshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:45 AM
6

People don't talk things out anymore. They go online and recruit their respective possies to bitchfight in the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:43 AM
2

I figured you'd be quite familiar with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:11 AM
3

Dunno that chick asking about mom seems kinda wild and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:04 AM
1

Assuming they care equally about body, it wouldn't be unless she refuses to make effort to similarly satisfy his preference. They could also transact on different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:59 PM
2

Has nobody clued you in that biomoms divorce biodads frequently nowadays? I predict we're going to switch to artificial uteri in the near future anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:52 PM
4

It would be hypocritical for a man to demand his preferences for women's pubic hair are met, while also refusing to accommodate the woman's preferences for male pubic hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:47 PM
2

If you've vetted a solid mother why not adopt or use a surrogate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:33 PM
1

Hard to say. Probably not unless there were some sort of massive betrayal (deception) involved. But over time I probably might be less lenient about what I tolerate in the marriage and other women might be more tempting. So I'd say the odds of getting divorced for other reasons could increase slightly. But that would depend on things like whether we adopt or whatever. Mothers are allowed a little more leeway on the intermittent raging hormonal bitch scale in my book. (Big caveat that I am marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:07 PM
1

You only thought you did. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:30 PM
2

She sounds hot. Did you smash?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:28 PM
2

lol she's already suspended. The hate is strong in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:24 PM
12

What sort of experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:19 PM
4

Bingo, they watch the parade of dudes railing their moms and take notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:39 PM
7

Why would single mothers give better advice than not-single mothers? For this reason, your view isn't self-consistent. You can only expect boys raised under a single mother household to have the best dating outcomes if advice from fathers is detrimental. You can't have mother-only advice giving outcomes better than mother+father advice, unless father's advice is counterproductive. (edited for clarity... hopefully)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:06 PM
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It doesn't have anything to do with advice that's good for women being misapplied to men. It's more reactionary to how women felt during dating. They're trying to improve what they experienced. For example "be patient" is a reaction to women feeling pressured, etc. They just are completely unaware of the parts they don't know about so it's missing fundamentals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:04 PM
1

I get angry when I'm forced to waste my time watching anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:55 PM
1

I guess I'm asking because I'm seeing guys in PPD keep saying that their friends that are successful with girls have openly misogynistic beliefs. I need to figure out how to probe that more directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:52 PM
1

Hmmm. Well, I somewhat disagree because I have tried extremely hard to STEMize my daughters and they really just can't give a shit about any of the things. They just don't have the je ne sais quoi--desire to master the universe(?). You can bring a horse water but you can't make it drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:43 PM
2

Q4M: What is one thing you believe is true that you also believe is misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:09 AM
1

Honestly that sounds more like a question of your calibration. If you have time to burn and need to the pipeline, go for it. Or if you want more variety. That's more of a you question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:45 AM
1

Hmmm. I can't really say that I care. I mostly want to find out if people are interesting and if we click or not. I don't mind if someone's unsure and is willing to see where things go, but someone who's hell no but tolerating me because they have some dare or new years resolution sounds like watching paint dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:32 AM
1

Advocating for oneself isn't misogynistic. You can expect women to have the same agency and advocate for themselves the same as anyone else. It's obviously far more misogynistic to treat women as if they are incapable of advocating for themselves and making their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:22 AM
1

... if you say so. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:14 AM
2

Didn't see, don't see it, and don't see you responding to it anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:39 AM
2

tut tut. It's not about what we want to hear. This is why you ignore what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:08 AM
1

Yeah, it's a bit insane. Honestly I'd say that only ~2% max of women I encounter day-to-day do I even ponder how they might look undressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:00 PM
1

Short of forbidding your kids to date kids from broken homes there's no way to contain the contagion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:30 PM
0

None. In fact all the women I've talked to who have OnlyFans say it's a very personally rewarding experience. Many even go on to say they'd recommend doing it if it were unpaid. I strongly recommend all young women start one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:25 PM
1

So why do younger short men complain and not older short men? If age and shortness are both unattractive the old short men have two handicaps while young short men have only one handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:55 AM
1

So are you arguing older women suddenly find short guys acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:26 AM
1

Yeah, that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:40 AM
1

They keep shoving it at me, but I can't care about the chick they have in the trailer enough to even watch to see if she gets hit by a bus. Is it any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:28 AM
2

Well, men whine about difficulty when being short and don't whine about being old (the opposite actually). So basically... something about those studies doesn't add up to the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 02:19 AM
5

Adding to this: women are always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:48 PM
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The studies I've seen actually show no meaningful difference between the genders. There's just a major difference in whether men recognize it as abuse and report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:45 PM
1

I can't find an app named Nice like that in Play Store. I'm assuming you're on Apple?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:43 PM
2

What you mean is that women are more likely to complain about domestic violence than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:38 PM
1

Well we're not less faithful than our options. Of course options include softballs such as prostitutes and sugar babies. So make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:36 PM
1

Those pictures are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:33 PM
1

Well honestly I don't give a shit what Saudi Arabia and South Korea do. Those aren't my cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:23 PM
2

It actually is and it's quite heartbreaking. Generally the story is that the husbands (particularly of certain generations) suck at caring for them (and themselves) while the wife's sick and it's sort of the last straw. Some of the top cancer centers run "how to care for your sick wife and yourself and stop being a burden for stuck-in-the-mud 50's era men" programs. It's one of the reasons those centers have better outcomes. It actually came out of following up earlier studies on those that got …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:20 PM
1

What are the other stages?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:28 PM
1

Well, sure. Young folks are usually poor and can't afford the finer things. A 35yo should have her shit together and be able to chip in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:44 PM
1

What do you wish was different about her? Have you ever felt more for a different girl in the past? (Honestly you sound sort of out of your element and in uncharted territory. That's very good in my book because it means you're learning and exploring. Personally, I'd see where it goes until you reach your own clarity about it. I don't really see the harm in whatever you choose.)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:23 PM
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i.e. NOT sexually arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:51 AM
3

Yeah, it probably looks as "sexy" as looking at a photos of kittens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:38 AM
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What does "hot" even mean? Does it sexually arouse you? Or is it like some Paris Hilton utterance because I honestly don't think "hot" means anything beyond women grunting general approval at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:34 AM
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If you're saying they settled the divorce because they didn't want to fight in court, nobody really forced anyone to do anything. It's what they mutually agreed in negotiations. Maybe she just didn't want to fight over the car or got something else for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:10 AM
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Why can you see having 35yo for sex, hookups and fuck buddies but not also doing non-sexual things together? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:03 AM
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It makes it the marriage's money. Divorce is liquidating the marriage's assets and dividing them between the partners. All the nasty shit that happens in divorce also happens in partnerships that don't setup articles of incorporation or other contracts or agreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:32 PM
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If it's entirely his money he wouldn't have put it in a joint account or used it for joint expenses. Sucks, but that's how it works and it does make perverse sense. Like if you have a business and put your own money into the business's accounts it becomes the businesses money (for example if the business gets sued). If you put your money in the marriage it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:23 PM
0

In what world is a pimp considered a simp/cuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:06 PM
1

Oh! Is that where that tiktok sound came from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:48 PM
3

So what's the legal lower age limit on carrying mace? I'm feeling like grabbing some last-minute stocking stuffers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 01:26 AM
1

Good driver = turn on. 👍🏻 yeah right. Welcome to Bridge Emporium.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:54 PM
2

Sooooo... no vagina with ovaries retained... but what about clitoris?!???!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:41 PM
1

I'm 44 and I've understood it to mean that since I was a wee tyke in the early '80s... In fact I'm pretty sure I have an illustrated children's book somewhere from the '50s probably that illustrates it that way. But it's still packed from moving so I'm not going to be able to get a picture of it right now. I can't remember if it was a Richard Scarry or not. But it was one of those illustrated Mother Goose type things full of all the sayings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:50 AM
1

Ahhh... Whoosh. I should have figured that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:43 AM
1

Or sell a frequent sinner indulgence punch card. Tenth sin is on the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:38 AM
1

What's NEC? He asks having flashbacks to the time he couldn't remotely understand why some chick was talking about her DSL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:27 AM
1

Makes sense, one stop shop for indulgences until the virgin Luther fucked it all up. Must have been nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:21 AM
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So my perspective is this: while your uncle and aunt were married they both agreed that the plan for retirement was to share his pension. That's what they did throughout the marriage and that's all the divorce is doing. If she had been working then she would also have a pension or retirement that I'd think would also have been split. I think the challenge is that guys don't understand what it means economically when a wife is performing stay at home labor rather than joining the labor force. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:26 AM
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Yeah I see what you're saying but at the same time that's what he was doing the entire time he was married. I honestly don't understand why people get married and have stay-at-home wives without children. I so understand stay-at-home-mothers. Stay-at-home-wives just make zero sense to me. It's a complete waste of economic output and labor and any man who does that is committing value destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:20 AM
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Yeah. Did she have her own retirement? Was that also split?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:06 AM
2

confess it's stuck in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:06 AM
2

Was she stay-at-home?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:59 AM
0

That's a yikes for me honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:57 AM
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Ok now I can't stop laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:53 AM
1

Well I'd never even heard that song and now I'm confused and it's stuck in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:34 AM
2

If billy can't get 3D from a slut that's entirely on him and his 3Dmadonna/2Dwhore issues. The frigid asexuals are the women who can keep their knees closed beyond their 21st bday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:09 AM
2

Yeah, but honestly you gotta blame billy. You can't expect a slut to be happy if she's only being dutydicked twice a year cause billy prefers 2D.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:59 PM
3

Women are people. Men are ATMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:53 PM
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I understand that's mostly how it works in the US, too. What happens though sometimes is people do things that are considered to convert that initial 500,000 into a marital asset that gets split. I think it mostly has to do with sloppy bookkeeping and not being careful to keep things separate and not being able to produce documentation to trace the money through the marriage. I have heard of some pretty fucked up things in the UK though having to do with houses. Where like the guy is not permitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:22 PM
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Okay I guess I wouldn't know. I don't really see how that relates to your comment or my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:17 PM
-2

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:06 PM
5

Well excluding the first one about muscles which duh, muscles are masculine so I'm ignoring that one because to me it's a sexual dimorphism and sexual dimorphisms are attractive/repulsive. The rest is about narrative building. Humans are creatures of narrative in the sense that we look to stories to help know what's expected and routine. There is a core truth women are reactive and need to be sexualized ans sexually charged by their romantic partners. So where guys get turned on by seeing women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:05 PM
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It's more that straight women are easy pickings for "bad boys". And at best your articles etc are more about ways straight women are groomed to be easy pickings for "bad boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:29 PM
2

How old is he and she and how many kids and what ages are the kids? What happened to the babydaddy(s)?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:23 PM
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I'm sure she's a really great person. But I honestly can't really imagine his parents being so happy about it. I guess it depends on ages and details though. I don't really care about the virgin part, but the single mom part and being older is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:23 PM
2

You actually think Trump supporters jump when Trump tells them to jump like a bunch of lemmings? Wow. Let me tell you this: maybe Trump didn't "do anything" because he knows that the heckling he gets about it is the reaction he would get? This isn't the first time he's advocated vaccines. He's done it before at his rallies. And they always boo him. If you want Trump supporters to get vaccines you need to figure out how to actually reach them, not figure out how to puppetmaster them into getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 10:17 PM
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Do you not remember when everybody was pissed off at Trump because he was buying all the vaccine stock out from under Europe and everywhere? Jesus give me a break with the revisionism. When covid first started Trump tried to lock travel from China down in the Democrats and California in particular freaked out at him calling him racist and that it was an overreaction. And then New York got smashed and the Democrats shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:55 PM
2

RIP your bf. 🕯️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:44 PM
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When was Trump ever anti-vax? Honestly it is a fair question whether these vaccines would have come out this quickly under a non-Trump admin. The thing I liked most about Trump is he didn't give a shit and made things he wanted to happen happen. Sometimes they were very dumb things, but it was decisive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 09:39 PM
1

Fromm frames and analyzes love as having four components: care, responsibility, respect, and knowledge. These mean different things in different contexts/types of love. Commitment can fall under responsibility. But one of the things about erotic love specifically is that people are only capable of erotically loving one person at a time. This claim surprised me at first but I personally cannot remember ever being deeply romantically interested in more that one person at a time. And there was a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:22 PM
3

If Rollo Tomassi said he was an evolutionary biologist when he started his channel would women be agreeing with him? Just calling himself whatever wouldn't make him anything. And given the fact that Rollo posts links to Buss articles after only reading the title (particularly when the content actually directly contradicts Rollo's "theories") doesn't bode well for Rollo's chances in academia. For example Buss is extremely opposed to AF/BB and Dual Mating Strategy for the simple fact that he can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 07:02 PM
2

He handled it well. The fuck is that guy doing stepping on the bar? This followup video was suggested: https://youtu.be/jup9ENRXrc8 One thing noted in the followup video is there are two other guys hanging in the back ready to come join any brawl. Supposedly that aggressive guy has now been banned and is being sued and an employee was disciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:54 PM
2

Well ok but what about this one, Lestrade?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:41 PM
1

I haven't heard that restriction. I'm no Columbo but my guess is it's restriction on visitors and outpatients (i.e. not inpatients). Boom solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:38 PM
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Ultimately, yes it is true 100% -- eventually people must chose to love each other. I don't really know why this is controversial--after all you can certainly chose to not love someone. Love is a complex word with many meanings. The Greeks had a variety of different words for things that we all call "love" (and I always forget them all, but they're interesting to study). What's stuck with me more is Fromm's book "The Art of Loving" that emphasizes love is a verb and not an emotion and has a slig…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 06:24 PM
0

I didn't realize Jordan Peterson used to be that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:47 PM
0

This is where the best advice of TRP comes in: you don't do any of it for girls. You do it for yourself. Ultimately girls are like mosquitoes--they show up to feed all on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:42 PM
1

That reminds me I still haven't seen the new Bill and Ted sequel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:39 PM
0

Landing pages nowadays typically are these polished things with "Pricing" "Blog" "About" "Login" "Signup" tabs full of wishy-washy descriptions to dress up some trivial bullshit. For $10/month? Seriously? Just to send me a reminder? I guess? Which is why I almost always head immediately to youtube to find someone struggling through the lack of documentation to show me what the fuck they're talking about because there must be some reason people feel the need to drop $10 on some bullshit. But this…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:27 PM
2

Hmmm. I've never really associated luxury items with fads. They always seemed like keepers to me. This is among the reasons I can never consider BMW rust buckets to be luxury items so perhaps there may be some differences in opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:51 PM
2

"certain personal reasons" Ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:38 PM
4

I think he's trying to be trans inclusive here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:44 PM
2

You're preaching to the wrong choir. I don't think it should be forced on someone, but people can certainly chose it. Some people aren't cut out for life long monogamy. Some are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:39 PM
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Your responses seem to mostly be opinions rather than arguments. If you don't like marrying virgins then nobody's going to force you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:21 PM
1

oh well if a machine endorses it, you know it must be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:20 PM
2

I looked at the subreddit and couldn't find this handbook you're talking about. Edit: found it for anyone else who only used old reddit https://old.reddit.com/r/SavingSexForMarriage/wiki/virginshandbook
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:09 PM
1

well ok but like german pancakes über alles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:53 AM
1

I wouldn't say people should do it as like a self-harm thing. The idea is to learn the red flags yourself through experience rather than letting obsession with identifying red flags keep you on the sidelines. So I'm seeing it as more along the lines of "perfect is the enemy of good". Obviously people should pursue the options they view as the best. If you require every person you date to be only the long-term compatible ones you might miss experiences that can help growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:32 PM
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I don't necessarily see the harm of dating guys that you know will inevitably have red flags? Like it says always remember do not marry them. I think there's value in learning to cope with troublesome relationship situations and learn first hand what it is that makes them poor lifemates. FWIW I've distilled what I have learned from this thread about that quote here in the followup thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:37 PM
1

D'aww. Now see this is how you do self-deprecating humor. It's cute and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:31 PM
2

That rookie is in drama heaven right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:28 PM
2

Is she pregnant? Anyway this whole thing's gotta really suck for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:26 PM
1

idk it seems like a little collar and chain play could keep a guy around while preserving her virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 09:00 PM
0

Are men become gay or asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:45 PM
1

What makes you think it's more difficult to put a collar and leash on a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:11 PM
1

It really depends on how outdoors you are. You can mostly learn how to walk on flat ice carefully with sneakers but yeah you'll slip occasionally. In much of the US you're often just walking between buildings and your car and those tend to not be so bad because they'll be salted or plowed. I think I remember you saying you've recently moved to Sweden, so I dunno how commute works there. You should be able to observe what others are doing. I know a lot of women here do a two shoes thing. They see…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:30 PM
0

I'm going to hell for this but it sure seems like they'd be impressed that she succeeded given all their bleating about how only men are actually smart enough to pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 07:08 PM
1

:( did you know her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:52 PM
2

the right can laugh at itself [example is nothing more than unfunny edgelord strawmanning that fails completely to introspect ha ha ha ha]
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:36 PM
5

I'd ask each of them to rate their subjective experience of the relationship. The lowest rating would be my rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:32 PM
1

3rd booster? I've gotten flu shots annually for at least 15 years. I really don't know what you're so hysterical about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:18 PM
1

Likely. Musk is indistinguishable from satire at this point. Edit: seems interesting enough https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvGnw1sHh9M
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:10 PM
1

Musk told The Babylon Bee Seems like this is r/atetheonion territory...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:56 PM
1

They're going IPO next year, so you'll just have to wait 'till Elliot Management gets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:41 PM
4

but if you ghost her then you're just left fantasizing the best part where she begs desperately for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:02 PM
5

See the problem is she can't fix what she don't know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:53 PM
1

Reddit don't care that your account was suspended.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:50 PM
0

Did you comment on other subreddits and how old was your account? I had another young account just before this one for a few days and it was suspended almost immediately as soon as I commented in a non-pill-sphere subreddit. I don't know if it's algorithmic or whether other people are just blanket reporting PPD users when seen in the wild. So this one's PPD only now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:45 PM
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Yeah, she appreciates him but she has never respected him and she's not going to start now. He needs to leave her, she's no good. RonaldWRailgun nailed it Something similar happened to my now ex gf. Not a whole lot you can do, honestly, and probably this will lead the relationship to slowly die. To me it was the combo of, on one side and due to certain patterns, realizing that if she doesn't trust your judgement, questions you, snaps at you, and then goes ahead only to make horrible choices, ult…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:41 PM
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I am trying to be the bf who doesn't abandon his gf just because she got raped. I hope this brings a tear to his eye after he's rebuilt her enough to inevitably dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:31 PM
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He deserves a better girlfriend that doesn't get herself raped after she feminsists on doing stupidslut things after he warns her that his spidysenses are going off about the guys she wants to go party with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:12 PM
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Based on that thread I have come to somewhat understand that quote rather differently than I have over the years. So my edits would be more about removing the misunderstandings I had and that I see others having about it. Just to explain how I now understand what it's advising, I now see it as setting up a sort of two stage process: The first stage is exploration to understand yourself and others and relationships. The key part here is to take marriage and long-term commitment completely off the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:30 PM
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Just speaking mathematically, yes we pretty much can. Suppose there are 1000 men and 1000 women. We select 100 women to be town bicycles and 100 men to be bachelors. Then all men can sleep with the town bicycles (all men reach N=100). 900 of the men can then marry one of the 900 virgins. The remaining 100 men don't get virgins (but they could have one of the low-N ex-virgins after a divorce or widows or something). Alternatively all 1000 men marry one of the 1000 virgins but any women who divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:56 PM
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I don't remember why I saw that thread but the obvious answer was there in multiple comments... feel his junk up while making out. IDK why this seems to require rocket science and subterfuge. Re: the removed comment--my guess it was removed for attempting to undermine the OPs standard or potential to start a slap fight. There's no need to suggest the OP is a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:20 AM
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Care to explain how it proves me wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:40 AM
2

Oh so you are statistically and mathematically illiterate or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:33 AM
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COVID-19 vaccines are effective at preventing infection The freaking first sentence, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:31 AM
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Yeah it does. Learn to read the papers you link.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:54 PM
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Not to be rude by why should anti-vaxers and anti-maskers be allowed to enter? Stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:51 PM
1

How are they doing vaccine records? Just linked to account?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:05 PM
2

BPD = borderline personality disorder BP = bipolar disorder BPD is catnip.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:57 PM
2

I sometimes wish our automod was like the ones on AITA etc that copy the text of the post into the automod comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:18 PM
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I missed it but maybe it was just tripped automod and it will be back. It's somewhat odd but the posting of automod comments and processing of content by automod don't seem to be synchronous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 10:15 PM
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I don't know it's really kind of cool to see what movies have the same airplanes or the same cars or the same guns in them. I don't know it's bizarrely interesting. I don't really know anything about which guns are which so it's kind of cool to link them to knowledge of movies and characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:31 PM
1

What's the difference between busting balls and shit testing (aka foreplay)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:22 PM
1

I was today years old when I learned about IMCDb IMPDb IMFDb Also, one of these sites is not like the others...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:14 PM
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It is pretty much yo dogging theory of mind, so it's not really fair to expect autists to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:57 PM
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Absolutely no need to qualify! Got laid 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:54 PM
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ok but did she blow you in the bathroom? this is a good start to a porno but it's missing the meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:47 PM
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A woman might decide he's worth fucking in the odd chance she's horny or disinhibited enough. But it's certainly not something that's going in a sober woman's "good provider" column. Women are not impressed that guys have sex. Getting assets are difficult for both men and women. Getting sex is difficult for men. Getting sex is not difficult for women so it's not a skill impresses. It's like you expect guys to be impressed if a chick can do something trivial like open a jar of pickles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:42 PM
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Women are also looking for safety and security. Pre-selection is probably more at play here rather than it being a demonstration of being a good provider. Sleeping around is a threat in the sense that the man may abandon you. So it's a more calibrated thing: If a guy has no interest from other women, then it's probably a good heuristic to assume that he has poor provider potential. If a guy pursues a lot of other women, then it's probably a good heuristic to assume that he's a risky option as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:29 PM
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This is my understanding of it. In flirting and early relationships both parties are escaping reality to conjure fantasy versions of themselves in the other. But it's far more real than role play. This is a process somewhat related to the égoisme à deux theory of mind game where both are playing roles and narcissisticly enjoying seeing idealized versions of themselves in eachother's minds. Negging is then a tactic that inflicts a deliberate narcissistic wound into this mindgame. The victim is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:13 PM
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She was very involved in the development of Google's ads and sales departments and was a high-ranking executive at Google when she left to become Facebook's COO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:17 PM
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Well, I'm actually wondering if I've been misreading it. I can see how it could be advice that just because you find a bad boy to be sexy, that is in itself alone not a green light that he'll make a good husband. Maybe that's what was actually intended. Another commenter mentioned that the chapter or section the book comes from clarifies that (I have not read the book myself) and that it's more a call to not be prematurely hyperselective and to get out there and date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:54 PM
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That explains a lot actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:50 PM
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Thanks! Your reply seems to have been auto removed but I can read it on your profile. I've somehow never even considered that r\hypnosis exists. Thanks for the hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:31 PM
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The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. What's your interpretation of that sentence? Dunno it just really rubs me the wrong way like it's saying good husbands just aren't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:26 PM
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Pretty sure members of this HOA can find offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:01 PM
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To avoid painkillers during pregnancy, she can learn hypnosis to switch off pain. It is a proved way that works and is also allowed during dentist procedures. This should be learnable in 5x3h sessions from online tutorials What do I google to find this sort of self-hypnosis? It sounds like a very useful skill to attain in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:47 PM
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One way is to be an only child, marry an only child, have only one child. Then it's like that 2048 game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:26 PM
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Generally true, but a lot of rich people seem to become enslaved by their own wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:23 PM
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What's the comparison with? Obviously blonde hair on a man is more masculine than blonde hair on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:11 PM
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I like Mating in Captivity a lot and Where Shall We Begin? but I've not been able to muster the courage to read State of Affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:55 PM
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Thank you. It sounds quite reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:51 PM
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I suppose you can go ahead and adapt it for males, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:15 PM
1

I imagine they'd probably be in French. If you find some let me know because that sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:09 PM
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Ahhh, ok that makes sense. It's quite sad that guys allow that happen to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:02 PM
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Can you elaborate on what's meant by "not much difference between the men once you're exclusive"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:53 PM
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So elevating the advice to more of a metaprocess rather than a specific steps. That's more abstract and adaptable, but I think it's perhaps less specific advice. How does someone go about deciding what they're looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:31 PM
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Well I don't really want to make it a team or negotiated effort. But in terms of feedback, your version doesn't raise hackles in me the way the original does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:27 PM
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Feel free to go ahead and edit her dumb hole blathering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:55 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:49 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:42 PM
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Do you agree that the quote classifies men into two mutually exclusive categories?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:27 PM
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So true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:01 AM
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This is why I laugh whenever women talk big about being "high libido" and "just like men" and then go on to describe the most paltry of sex drives as if it's supposed to be impressive or relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:51 AM
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Surely you have sources on this totally factual assertion about the male experience of porn viewing. I'll hold my breath while you look them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:42 AM
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I'd pay a hobo to burn it unopened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:49 PM
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Too bad? Actions have consequences. If they want kids in marriage they'll know what is expected. If not then they'll manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:34 PM
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Or ... and this may be a difficult concept for you to grasp ... you do whatever you want but you just don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:29 PM
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Or she just takes getting married off of her to-do list?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:04 PM
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You're in denial. Marriage rates are already plummeting and will not rebound. In 15 years it'll be toast. Educated women already struggle to find acceptable males and that's only going to get worse. My kid's generation will never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:23 PM
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Seems a bit presumptuous to assert that "lack of marriage" is a punishment in a post-marriage world. Yeah they'll kind of have to decide which pathways they want to go. But the only guys who are going to be interested in marriage anymore are the ones who want virgins. That's just how it is. "Keep your knees closed if you want to end up married to an incel-class mouthbreather" isn't exactly the message you seem to think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:19 PM
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I didn't say whether it's wrong or not? Are married women "good" and unmarried wonen are "bad" or something? Marriage is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:12 PM
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Dunno they seem to hate males with a burning passion that would make even FDS cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:30 PM
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I didn't even have to bring it up. It's vernacular in middle school nowadays along with simps and pickmes and thots etc. The whole younger generation knows more about this than any of us. The decline is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:26 PM
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TRP is the fusion of PUA and MRA. MRA are driven by guys who got royally screwed in a divorce. The fusion is basically to take the obviously best hand that's available: get the best sex PUA has to offer but avoid the MRA worst outcomes by never getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:24 PM
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Yup. I'm teaching mine: No hymen, no diamond No bachelor's, no bachelor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:08 PM
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It's far too staged for me to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:03 PM
1

What about the idea it's obviously acting and fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:56 PM
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Why bother calling out water for being wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:58 PM
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Definitely. They seek the validation that hot girls want to follow in their footsteps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:57 PM
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Certainly not after metoo set fire to Lake Wobegon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:56 PM
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You underestimate female narcissism. See the re:re:re:re:posted example below where some young lady shopclerk's being harassed at work. Rather than record the skeeve and blast his ass into oblivion, her first thought is to record herself. She doesn't care about destroying him, she just wants to use him for attention on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:51 PM
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My favorite at the moment is Darknet Diaries. I enjoy the topic and it's very well done. Episodes 99 (The Spy) and 100 (NSO) got me hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:39 PM
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That has got to be a troll. And if not he needs to find a girl and fuck the crazy off his ideas of what makes pussy special. Sure, it's nice to work out the discrepancy between fantasy-of-sex vs reality-of-sex with someone you feel safe with. But sex takes practice. One time with a rando isn't a great learning environment... but you can't expect to be playing Vivaldi the first time you grab a violin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:33 PM
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I have no experience with swipe apps but it would probably depend on the time and effort needed to get from a match to a satisfying outcome. If meh matches each sink 5min of time, then I can see being more selective. But if it costs nothing beyond the swipe then why would anyone care? But also if you've already got a pool of matches to compare against, I can see not bothering to muddy the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:18 PM
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I don't know whether "wife material" is a compliment or not, but generally there's a trend that men no longer aspire to married life. It used to be that sexuality outside marriage was frowned upon. That's no longer the case and that decoupling of sex and marriage is behind this becoming an insult.* *notwithstanding the women of PPD who constantly assert without evidence that in ye olde days all guys constantly had a cadre of mistresses while frequenting child brothels and only solemnly fucked th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:57 PM
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It's more that they're both part of the increasing "post modernist" rejection of the unified life script vision. People no longer buy into dedicating themselves to a religion or employer or partner or family. You're correct that the destruction of the common vision leads to a rise in individualism since every person no longer sees themselves as part of a larger narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:45 PM
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Midterms gonna be fun after the Supreme Court rules the way it looks like it will. I can see why you're eager to get them over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:24 PM
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To me it just has a slightly different personality. For example I prefer the short hair version of Marilyn Monroe. Severija Janusauskaite also really hot with short hair. Short hair women just seems more powerful and I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:19 PM
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That first haircut is really hot and has a lot of personality. But yeah, I can see how transitioning to a different style later might be a challenge. But challenge doesn't mean impossible and I'd think that sort of transition is something hair stylists are aware of and have methods available and probably enjoy working with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:15 PM
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Who twisted your knickers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:06 PM
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Whatever science is involved really needs to solve the "will my kids actually eat this" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:59 PM
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I'd file it under "Capitalism is the astounding belief that the most wickedest of men will do the most wickedest of things for the greatest good of everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:56 PM
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Sorry, but can you tell me what's the actual mess? That's what I'm missing here. I just don't see what the big deal is. She hates cooking, and her husband has cooked since they got married. They don't fuck enough, so she's moody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:48 PM
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IDK it just seems really odd to be putting her under the microscope. Like the picture I get of her doesn't scream "what a bitch" or anything. So I find it somewhat odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:37 PM
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She doesn’t have a job Why do you say that? I thought she works full time. Anyway I don't really see what's to be seen here. Also I'm not sure what ballooned wife is supposed to mean. The deadbedroom seems to have started almost immediately after they married. She also seems to have had pretty nasty postpartum depression. What am I missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:17 PM
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They're definitely the useless backseat grumblers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 05:40 PM
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I get that a lot. ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:53 PM
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I wonder whether any shopping apps will adopt the swiping paradigm. It's actually something I might use and I hate shopping. I just want to save looks to think about and get back to them easily later. My wife uses her cart that way somewhat but it's clunky and could be way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:27 PM
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Well it's going to be dumber than that. It takes weeks for sperm to get from the testicles into ejaculate. At least that's what they told me after my vasectomy and why I had to spend weeks diligently clearing the tubes before they would bother test if the procedure even worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:56 PM
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All those in favor of a tiktok trend teaching women to put testicles in their mouths and hum say aye.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:46 PM
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Gonna be a tough climb trying to unseat that anti-mask anti-vaccine Trumpist Washington State senator who just died begging his colleagues for info on monoclonal antibodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:42 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:21 PM
0

Ok. But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:13 PM
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Why? Oppositional defiance? will take a bullet before the shot CNN: Five times as many police officers have died from Covid-19 as from gunfire since start of pandemic. https://www.cnn.com/2021/10/16/us/police-vaccine-covid-deaths/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:06 PM
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I'm not sure that white-passing is relevant here based on how I understand the term. She's obviously not white white. I didn't really try to guess her makeup and I'm horrible at it but I might have guessed Mediterranean, Spanish, Middle-Eastern or Hispanic in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:41 PM
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I suggest reading about Jack Morin's research into "peak erotic experiences". He wrote about it in his book The Erotic Mind. The long and short of it is that attraction is only one element of people's most erotic experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:31 PM
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Male, 44. Lost it at something like 22-24 with my future wife after we'd been dating a year or two. I assumed I would remember the date/year/something and never wrote it down, but now I can't remember. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:18 AM
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Oh man I bet that smells amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:30 PM
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#brownchickenbrowncow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:17 PM
3

Oh my... look at the time... it's... golf-o-clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:52 PM
2

Purge is only good for slapfighting. Anything else can be dressed up with lipstick and posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:41 PM
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long term garunteed Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:59 PM
2

Shitting on AFABs is always PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:17 PM
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Nice! It totally figures that the mods of r/ShemaleDatingStrategy also mod r/badwomensanatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:08 PM
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That's what he's saying -- vows are nothing more than socially-mandated lip choreography.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:48 PM
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how do men look at other men who do this Among men it's generally understood that his ex was an entitled bitch harpy. Sucks to be her, but props to him for putting up with her as long as he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah, actually. Love isn't an entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:20 AM
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It's certainly not anything to take personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:54 PM
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Who cares? It's not like you know her or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:51 PM
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When you notice her settling for other guys then you get schadenfreude so it'd be a bigger insult for her to settle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:43 PM
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Maybe she has other stalkers who harass her and she just has to play wackamole blocking anyone she does not know or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:41 PM
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You probably followed something shared by one of those radfem or antiporn subreddits or something got all sorts of bizarre evercookies in your browser identifying that you only seek radfem and antiporn guilty pleasures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:41 PM
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Okay so I just checked it out and I don't see anything like that on the main pornhub landing page. Maybe you've got some weird browser cookies going on based on your search histories and proclivities. I can post a screenshot later if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:32 PM
2

... so anal? Yeah that's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:46 PM
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I'm thinking, "this will be penis in vagina, right?". FUCK NO. I saw much worse, and you know it. Every dude knows whats on the main page of the hub. oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:43 PM
2

Cartoons only change society when Disney does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:30 PM
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View changed. +1 give this guy a delta
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:56 PM
2

Attraction to unhealthy people seems like a far greater character "defect".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:31 AM
2

The fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:02 AM
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[CMV] There are only two types of women attracted to fat dudes: (a) fat women and (b) liars milking fat dudes for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:55 AM
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What's your OF?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:29 AM
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I honestly can't think of any company that merits that level of simping. It sounds like your typical labor mill where the company exploits fresh morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:52 PM
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so brave
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:48 PM
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Why would you expect a company to hire someone who's overqualified for the job and who's going to be taking a pay cut? I wouldn't hire that way. It's no good bringing you in just to have you immediately looking move on to a different position and leaving that position churning again. And if your plan is to hop up to a different job at the company after getting your foot in the door, why wouldn't I just advertise the position you are qualified for and collect applicants directly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:39 PM
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Your "article" (actually just a short letter/note and not a research article) says that if you're infected with COVID and symptomatic you're... symptomatic. It doesn't compare anything about odds of being symptomatic with or without vaccine/booster etc. It also doesn't even attempt to address anything about the odds of vaxed/boosted people who show minor non-specific symptoms actually having a COVID breakthrough infection vs having something else. Also, water is wet. But I suppose you need a Lan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:12 PM
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FYI we found out that the public library where I am hands the home tests out for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:14 PM
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Yeah, labeling guys abusers is basic bitch AWALT hamster. But basically every guy could be an actual abuser so it doesn't really mean anything to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:20 PM
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paternal uncertainty: the religion Pretty sure the rabbi called your mom a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:37 PM
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You could take one of those home tests that are done in 15 min.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:32 PM
2

Hmmm. Well in that case I wonder if Amazon was an outlier by not telling the evening shift to stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:03 AM
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Prostitutes are included in N-count. Nobody's impressed by a guy buying sex though. Buying sex is tutorial mode for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:54 AM
1

Sure. Whether public schools are open that day is the real rubric.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:47 AM
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I don't really know. Were they under Tornado Warning or Tornado Watch? Also I think it mostly depends on whether the warehouse had shelters and a warning system to get people into shelters. Generally, you don't go home, you shelter in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:07 AM
2

You don't have to marry every woman you date. One step at a time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:34 PM
1

Yeah, I actually strongly agree with this. The Dual Controls model is life. See in particular the second to last panel. One secret is that women are more than happy to tell you what's turning them off in the moment. Just understand that she's not telling you things she finds attractive, just things that prevent her from letting go and sliding into fuckmode. Every turn-off you eliminate gets you closer to fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:26 PM
1

How was it? Have you seen the Robert Wise ('61) version?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:06 PM
2

BP = transwomen and gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:51 PM
1

Probably you're able to do it now in a way that's not asking her to do anything about it. Women seem to love to take on "emotional labor" so if you're not careful and you're opening up about things it's sort of like a work assignment for her. But if you're able to do it in a way that's not "fix my problems" then it's not much of a big deal. In fact I think they sort of enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:26 PM
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Inspired by the Garbage song Supervixen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:35 AM
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Honestly when I was 30, most 18-20yo started to seem like high school students to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:26 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:22 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:20 AM
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You sound depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:20 AM
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No, cheating is pretty much the same for men and women nowadays assuming women have access to birth control and abortion and that men have access to paternity testing and can use lack of paternity to avoid child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:08 AM
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A "nice guy" is a person who uses niceness as a tool and facade. They're not genuinely generous and kind, they just think niceness is a transactional thing they can use to guilt others into doing their bidding. Ultimately they seethe that they don't get whatever it is they imagine their niceness entitles them to get from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:49 PM
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that's hot 🔥🔥🔥 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:47 PM
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I guess it depends on how much I want to do the thing she did with the ex. But to be fair just the fact that she did it would make me curious about trying it regardless. Idk I'm just dumb but I can respect the "I'm not that kind of girl!" type of boundary, but if she's already done whatever it is with her ex, then she is that kind of girl but just not for me. It's dumb I know but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:27 PM
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Ok well then it would depend on the things. For example suppose ex pushed for anal and got anal. Now with you she ties you up and making you watch her fuck Tinder randos. She claims she didn't offer that experience to her ex, but I can't say I'd be too appeased by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:44 PM
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I'm a man. Does my gender matter for some reason? My question for you: are your parents married and happy? The things you're describing are just typical run-of-the-mill bog standard relationship things. The reality of the universe is you will never know what anybody else is thinking. You can impute whatever motives you want into anyone. You can see people as genuine. Or you can see people as conniving manipulators. Even when they're doing exactly the same thing and treating you exactly the same.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:19 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong. What does it mean that women don't love romantically?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:29 PM
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Women do love romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:19 PM
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What do you think love is and how would you want a woman to actually love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:12 PM
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How long until she turns 22 tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:46 PM
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It's like the women who reply to the "did it with the ex but won't woth you" threads who just spit out extreme doubt that it ever happens. Like ... Ok? ... If it never happens then what's stopping you from condemning it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:45 PM
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Yeah, dude's a dumbss. Women aren't objects and comodities. If his Cheerios were hypergamous and decided to leave his ass then he might care. But also even in his stupid analogy it should be about eating someone's leftover soggy Cheerios.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:04 PM
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Did the ex wanted to do it and she wouldn't do it with him? (Reason cannot be that his dick was just too massive but mine is comparatively miniscule)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 12:16 PM
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Does she sell NFT of her farts? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:23 AM
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Well I'd again point to how quickly he knocked her up. I personally don't think relationships that move to kids that quick are particularly ripened or stable. It's more shotgun wedding territory where the couple is forced together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:35 PM
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I think she was just really unhappy and didn't see a future, so she channeled that anger and frustration into prepping her branchswing. The main point I'm challenging is that it's pretty clear to me the weightloss was a symptom of the failed relationship, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:10 PM
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I don't know anything about Adele's marriage and divorce but glancing at wikipedia they only married in 2018 and have a 9yo son after barely dating? To me it sounds like they got married as a hail mary to try and save that relationship for their kid. And the weightloss seems more as something she deliberately did to escape the failed relationship, rather than something she expected the relationship to weather. I'm pretty confident she chose to leave before the weightloss. That's just my uninform…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:49 PM
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Everything I've read about Epstein/Maxwell etc bores me to tears. Traffic and fuck some underage chicks. So original. NXIVM has them beat by a landslide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:04 AM
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You will be okay until you're overthrown.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:21 PM
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How does this even happen? The guy tells the waiter to split the check, pays his half and goes his merry way? What exactly is the woman going to do? If she says it's one check, then she's paying. Go full-on Karen shrieking at the waiter "don't you dare split that check" and demand to speak to the manager or something? Manager's just going to split the check. There's no expectation of joint checks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:15 PM
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There are moments or decisions/junctures where you chose one path or another, you remember those. But after a while they're no longer the most recent choices that shape your existence. I barely remember being 18 anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:30 PM
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You're going to look back at 27 similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:22 PM
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I lost it completely at "People tell me I'm a fun drunk."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:45 PM
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Frankly I've never been particularly impressed with any of this data or the analyses. What I want to see are three heat maps showing: x-axis: bride's N-count y-axis: groom's N-count heat map the first: number of marriages heat map the third: length of marriage None of this fancy pants regression or logistic regression bullshit. If anything about N-count actually matters it will be obvious in these plots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:29 PM
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A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away... Chad was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:03 PM
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Incels are the unfuckable subset of virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:22 PM
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I stole it from Smurf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:17 AM
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🙋‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:17 AM
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Who cares. Don't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:50 AM
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Hint: afab = assigned female at birth (i.e. born female)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:48 PM
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*checks notes* *buys box of skittles*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:42 PM
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I can't tell if I'm going to heaven or hell for laughing this hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:28 PM
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Personally have always understood the line for "sin" to include anything sexual involving genitals (handjobs, blowjobs, masturbation, oral, anal, PIV, etc) but virginity to be purely about putting PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:56 PM
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Who knows? Does it really matter? The perpetrator of the abuse is of course immediately to blame for the abuse and I'd place primary scrutiny on the abuse itself. If you want to get more philosophical about the metaphysics of it, then it would depend on the details. Sometimes people are abusers and hide it well. Sometimes people are abusers and their partners are willingly blind to it. Sometimes people bring out the worst in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:50 PM
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There’s men and women out there soliciting male sex workers in all forms Are there any stats on this? My Bayesian prior is that "men and women" = ">99.99% men and <0.01% women".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:53 AM
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Yeah. Reminds me of this one woman legislator who was pushing hard for a no-tolerance anti-texting-while-driving law that would result in instant suspension of drivers licenses. She gave an interview and was asked why the law was necessary and her ONLY answer was that she needed it to be illegal so that she personally wouldn't text while driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:32 AM
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Damn everyone on this sub is so angry now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:02 AM
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I always fed them on my prior accounts, so if I don't feed this one I'd be a major hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:04 PM
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Consider two rollercoasters. The first rollercoaster has 2hr wait times and the second rollercoaster has 20min wait times. Waiting in line is a nuisance, but people tolerate it because the ride is worth the wait. For this reason the length of the line reveals how much the rides are desired. If an individual woman is willing to wait 2hr to ride the first rollercoaster but will refuse to wait even 30min for the second then clearly she desires the first rollercoaster more. she grew out of liking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:48 PM
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Where did I say or even suggest I consider it acceptable to have painful anal sex? If someone is doing something wrong and hurting themselves or other people because they're doing it wrong, then educating them about the correct way to do it is the correct response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:44 PM
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Male bowels. lmfao Sorry you had an unpleasant experience but it's actually entirely possible to have non-painful anal sex. if you had a sister and she came to you for advice about this. "My boyfriend wants anal and I did it with ex but it hurts so much and I couldn't stop crying but my boyfriend now says that I have to have it with him cuz I had it with ex.". What kind of advice would you be giving about the boyfriend if you wanted to look out for your sister? Send her/him links to howto guides…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:26 PM
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And those people are the same people who oppose the death penalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:10 PM
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You think they want people who say "bad" things to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:08 PM
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Women choose to get gussied up and go to bars and clubs to be fucked while sober. Drunkenness just lowers the bar for which men she finds hot enough to fuck that night. If you think women prep looking hot and going to bars and clubs without sex already on their minds, then I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:03 PM
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I'm challenging the relevance of your statistic of regularly having anal sex (however "regularly" manages to be defined) to this discussion of women refusing to ever have anal sex with some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:00 PM
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What percentage of the male gay community ever has anal sex though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:54 PM
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Why should speech be free of consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:51 PM
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I think it's more than that. A particular woman if she's already in the mood will initiate, so women who are in the mood will go to places like bars or clubs etc to find men and pick hot guys. But part of what's happening is the activity is starting the reactivity. So ultimately hot guys will be approached, but that's more of a birthday problem about figuring out which women are in the mood for him from among a large crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:31 PM
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are you sure you're not hurting yourself with your toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:56 PM
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who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:45 PM
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we live in a pecking order
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:02 PM
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I wouldn't have any problem with that... so long as she doesn't make me think she's comparing our performance and I can't ever measure up. In fact knowing that she enjoys anal and knows how it's done would probably take a lot of pressure off. Ultimately GGG attitude is what matters to me and this situation is great. My biggest concern would be performance anxiety and feeling like I need to get it right fast enough without feeling babied.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:54 PM
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I think it's pretty simple. Republicans tend to restrict women's freedom and align themselves with projects that limit women's freedom. The reverse isn't true. Democrats don't tend to restrict men's freedom or align themselves with projects that limit men's freedom (at least not in ways that men feel personally threatened by).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:55 PM
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Pics would be if them in their early-mid twenties. Girl's dad would be 30+ at that age. Edit: I'll take it back. My sister's room was a shrine to Michael Flatley and he's only three years younger than our dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:21 PM
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I just can't imagine any young girls hanging up posters of guys their dad's age or older on their walls. That's just not something I believe even happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:53 AM
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The worst is how horrible the suggestions are on android. Like for whatever reason my spelling nemeses are "bureau" and "restaurant" and there's seemingly no way to get close enough. But in Word... boom. Done. Word even seems to grok the "you accidentally hit the key next to the correct one" situations. You'd think the damn touchphones would implement that .. but NO! It's actually easier to use voice typing on Android than to use the keyboard. But you can't voice type PPD comments in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:41 AM
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Yeah this is among the reasons I couldn't hire a pro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:37 AM
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Seriously what's up with that? All I can think is Microsoft must have some key patents it doesn't share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:25 AM
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Why would they need an echo chamber? Who are they hiding from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:45 PM
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I never said post menopausal women have no value. I said they have no reproductive value to men. That doesn't mean they have no value to men. It also doesn't mean they have no reproductive value to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:51 AM
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I'll let you know next time I date a woman because she'll make a great grandma to my kids she can't bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:55 AM
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Suspicion Notorious Double Indemnity Sorry, Wrong Number The Fountainhead Touch of Evil Rear Window North by Northwest The African Queen Harvey Arsenic and Old Lace
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:46 AM
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Probably the orcas, totems, chowder and the Chihuly. There used to be a really awesome restaurant that brought your food on model trains, but it's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:27 AM
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There's no post to link, this guy has just been breadcrumbing this in comments to my non-PPD account (and others) for the last few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:29 AM
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That reminded me of another detail. They had been having sex but in the months leading up to the wedding she decided they should take a pause until they're married. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:27 AM
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Seems like he discussed the safeword suggestion with her and they have a winner. Now he gets to enjoy making her squeal without guilt. Problem solved. They all live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:21 AM
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He should have annulled ASAP. That's some grade A bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:07 PM
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Seriously. And to top it off he thinks she was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:05 PM
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So I was reading one of the more obscure relationship subreddits but I thought I'd probe PPD's opinion on something I've pieced together from this guy's comments. How big of a schmuck would a guy have to be to have his wife cry at the altar, be fine skipping sex the night of the wedding (due to exhaustion) and then also the entire honeymoon (due to her being "sick")? WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:02 PM
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On a scale of 1-10, just how fat, insufferable and useless are your Chad-chasing friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:54 PM
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Even so, they remain more attracted to fertile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:50 PM
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Few mammals even include the male in child rearing. That's why females and not males breastfeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:43 PM
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Not my problem. This is the world women have fought for. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:39 PM
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Women don't set their own market value so that's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:38 PM
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Are you suggesting that young women lack these traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:31 PM
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Can't really see how you're making this any sort of a competition. Old wrinkled guys have been impregnating fresh young women for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:27 PM
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oh god what is that device my back is already cracking just looking at it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:19 PM
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No, it's about women becoming undesirable as mates. Women past their reproductive prime have no reproductive value to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:16 PM
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... are you thinking Ross Perot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:13 PM
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What's GHD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:11 PM
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lol nah. She made herself wait for 7-8 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:53 PM
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Yeah, it can definitely go wrong. At the same time anyone surveying the wreckage will just say "welp that's what happens when you don't vet for [insert thing that wasn't vetted for in that instance]".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:52 PM
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There was an MSM/blog/article a few days ago that was making the rounds that was basically some salty women on campus bitching that there weren't enough men and that all the women throwing themselves desperately at the few men on campus (who parenthetically according to these women weren't actually all that) went to those guy's heads because they became flighty and refuse to commit due to lack of competition. Basically the theory is all these guys bring to the table is a penis. https://nypost.co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:45 PM
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making her wait for what
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:34 PM
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I'd only care if my kids found my account. It's not age appropriate and too nuanced/jaded for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:32 PM
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Pleasure is very multidimensional though and can depend a lot on who you're doing an activity with. For example a 12 hour road trip with a romantic partner vs with a 5 year old. You can't just say "well you enjoyed the 12 hour road trip with your lover, so you'll enjoy driving 12 hours with a screaming kid". And you'd be equally wrong to assume that the person who refuses that followup 12 hour road trip with a screaming kid would also later refuse another 12 hour road trip with another romantic …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:20 PM
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Well in the situation (she's done it repeatedly with prior exs) how can you say it's something she doesn't like? It's pretty obvious it's about the "who" not the "what". Not liking it is like Aldabruzzo said: tried it once or twice, never liked it and never did it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:10 PM
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Many women are indeed turned on by seeing other women flirt with and interact with their men. Maybe this infidelity play can work for alphas, but since your friend is married it's far more likely that he's a beta. For betas this sort of look what I can do! play is completely transparent to a women like his wife who knows him so well that she knows his thoughts before he thinks them. It's seen as an extremely passive aggressive and spineless way of getting into her pants. It will destroy whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:48 PM
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It wasn't talking about you, specifically. Edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:40 PM
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To me that sounds like an (insecure) guy who's looking for any excuse to dump her. One should just dump her if one's not happy. Why wait so long if one don't want to wait so long? "Our sex isn't working for me. Sorry." The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:34 PM
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What? If you're bothered by waiting 6 months and you wait 6 months anyway, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:31 PM
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I think the point is that if a somebody wants oral sex in a relationship, they should be in a relationship with someone who does oral sex. That's why it's a deal breaker--it doesn't matter whether they ever did it with anyone else in the past--a relationship with someone who doesn't perform oral sex is not acceptable. It's perfectly reasonable to dump someone who isn't sexually satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:26 PM
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Yeah it's normal, just more extreme. As long as we're productive and happy with our lives it's nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:27 AM
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ADHD isn't only about that, there are periods of intense hyperfocus. When I'm actually engaged in something that interests me, it's impossible to pull my brain off of it. Other people seem to call it flow and have rituals for entering it, but it's mostly involuntary for me. If something doesn't interest me, it might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:20 AM
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Yeah, she's got a fabulous body, but there's something about her face I dislike... extremely. I can't quite figure out what it is. Maybe her facial features are too wide and short. Dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:13 AM
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Lately I've begun to think it's a side-effect of undiagnosed ADHD. I have to fix something and I go deeeeeeep. Appliance repair is another I strongly recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:12 AM
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I'll have to check her out. I read through her filmography and as far as I remember the only thing I've seen is Grumpier Old Men. To be fair I have always lumped her in with Raquel Welsh as "women guys think are hot but that I somehow I find repulsive" and have never had any desire to investigate her work. Repulsive is probably the wrong word but I don't know a better word. Maybe vulgar. But my taste in women has broadened a lot in the last few years so I should give her a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:56 PM
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Plumbing is actually fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:53 PM
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With the caveat that I don't have a clue what IPM is, I enjoy doing all of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:52 PM
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Huh. I'm actually not familiar with her somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:28 PM
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Do you have examples of women that have the equivalent of BDE? I'm a dude but what comes to mind for me is Lauren Bacall. She's just dunno unapologetically confident in her femininity in a way that's not looking for approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:36 PM
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... a childfree woman ... who wants a man to support her? Why even would they.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:09 PM
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Huh. That's interesting. I mostly don't care except that I don't like to watch small dicks. But as far as physique goes, PPD has created this thing where I have like this little shoulder Atlas daemon that pops up to shout at me that guys who are are too manicured are obviously gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:47 PM
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Sounds gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:24 PM
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Let me know if you figure it out I've been trying to quit PPD unsuccessfully for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:38 PM
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People like a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:02 PM
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Why would it be "bad" even if you had a substantial body count? Any guy who's dating you is either satisfied with you and how things are going or he isn't. The same should be true of women. Why are women looking to guys to tell them what they should be doing? Women should do whatever works for women. Individual men will have different opinions and even the same man will have different opinions about different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:32 PM
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First of all, being convicted and incarcerated of a crime is different from having actually committed a crime. Also the people who want to fuck the inmate might not have committed a crime, so what's the justification for depriving them of sex? What makes you think plenty of sex doesn't happen inside prison anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:23 AM
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Australia is a penal colony. TF do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:08 AM
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But what's ∞ × 0 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 09:36 PM
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I think 5G is different from 5GHz. The 5G means fifth-generation but as far as I know it operates on roughly the same bands as 4G and 3G. I was mostly talking about your comments about EMF power and bioeffects. There actually are people who can hear RF. It's pretty interesting. I think the last I read the thought on that is it has something to do with causing some sort of localized heating in the cochlea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 06:21 PM
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Many of these regulations used to be extremely conservative because there was no relevant evidence to base things on. You can learn a lot about this and how new evidence has changed our understanding in the https://www.icnirp.org/ guidelines which almost everyone bases regulations on. Admittedly I'm not familiar with the 5G band, I work mostly with low frequency and radiofrequency. There really wasn't a lot known about this until after the 2000s and even now the requirements are very conservativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:29 PM
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The video was probably her first exposure to his actual personality vs her fantasy of his personality. If they had established good rapport she'd have a way to frame what she's seeing. Looks get you noticed, but getting noticed is merely the first step of the gauntlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:24 PM
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Why not just pick some place you actually want to live? Women that want to settle down and start families exist everywhere and the women you'll find there will want to be there near their families. Maybe optimize your religion/congregation instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:34 AM
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He should hire a findom who will make him stop stuffing his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:17 PM
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Tell them it's an infuriating mental tarpit that they'll never be able to escape. Like that Skin of Evil oil slick that swallowed Lieutenant Yar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:00 PM
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It's not wrong, it's just solipsism: Do all of this Get male attention Male attention feels good Women couldn't care less what the man gets out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:25 PM
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The anglerfish is a fishermen and a fish at the same time so it's like the spirit guide of all sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:29 AM
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Just when you think the liberal ivy tower elites can't possibly sink to a deeper level of post-structuralist depravity they find yet another way to debase and corrupt young minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:16 AM
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Both look like trailer parks from the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:34 PM
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fact that men and women both display sexually dimorphic features is proof that both choose Extreme doubt. Obvious example is the anglerfish--one of the most sexually dimorphic species that exists--lady anglerfish ain't choosing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:28 PM
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Sure so a woman's SMV is determined by supply and demand. How does a woman know if a guy has higher SMV than her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:55 PM
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"Hypergamous" is "attracted ONLY to those people who are above my SMV." Sort of begs the question of how a woman determines her SMV? Men are attracted to people below their own SMV, at their own SMV, and above their own SMV. Also do you see many men trading down in SMV? Like dumping a high-SMV woman to commit to a low-SMV woman? Trading up until you can't trade further seems more like the crux of hypergamy... everyone does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:09 PM
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You should check it out. It's a slightly different question but related to these topics. It's about genetically deaf parents who are part of a long-running deaf community struggling over choosing whether or not to surgically enhance their kids by giving them cochlear implants. It sounds simple but the implications for the deaf culture are profound and an existential threat. It's a nice microcosm for thinking about these topics (conflicts between parents, community, medicine, outsiders, etc). Non…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:38 PM
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I mentioned the documentary Sound and Fury in a different comment. It's about the impact of cochlear implants on the deaf community and the controversy. Have you seen it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:34 PM
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There's an element of severity that's relevant here. We're not talking about cutting off the glans or penis, so that seems irrelevant. The sorts of circumcision I'm discussing leaves boys with perfectly functioning dicks--so it's ultimatly closer to a cosmetic procedure which is whatever. Parents do all sorts of cosmetic corrections to their kids. Even non-cosmetic alterations like cochlear implants can be controversial (see for example the documentary Sound and Fury)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:55 PM
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Generally this is a decision made by fathers so your centering of the mother here seems suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:39 PM
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Honestly that just sounds like you have FOMO to me. What would having an additional 1/3 of nerve endings actually change in terms of my sexuality or sexual satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:36 PM
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I'm circumcized and not missing out on anything. It's not a particularly compelling argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:45 AM
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Because children are part of their parent's culture? What gives you the right to meddle with another parent's kids? Do whatever you want with your own kids, but I fail to see how my kids are any of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:29 AM
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If there's a cultural history of cutting off baby pinky toes then I don't see why I should care. It's not like we're taking about that african region where all the great Olympic runners come from where they're circumcized in adolescence with the foreskin tied into a bow without anesthetic and the boys are ostracized if the flinch or wince during the procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:17 AM
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Men have been circumcised for millennia. It's no big deal. Sure, botched circumcisions are a problem. But otherwise guys are still sexual, their dicks still fuck, blow loads and impregnate. Big fucking deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:02 AM
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Yup RP is always telling guys to marry a women who makes you feel gipped. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:44 AM
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99.9% of the time they're either (a) mamma's boy to a mamma who's rabidly pro-life, (b) opportunistically simping for quality pro-life pussy who still bother look and act feminine or (c) don't really care but just want to piss off the libs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:42 PM
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We kill vertebrates and mammals all the time. I don't see why we can kill a cow or a pig or a cat or a dog or a rat or a mouse or or a fish or a chicken or a snake but can't kill some poorly developed blob that can't even survive on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:21 PM
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It's good because women are intelligent beings and it gives them additional control over their fleshy bodies while further advancing homo sapiens sapiens' imperative to dominate Nature and control our own destinies. I do think viability-based limits are reasonable, but the mere existence of a cell that's been infected with foreign DNA or an invasive undesired blob of cells is no more relevant than the existence of a cancerous mole. Yeet the traitorous cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:45 PM
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The reasoning is "women can't help but have emotional tantrums from time to time".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:04 PM
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I'd conservatively wager that the ratio of simps to wannabe pickmes watching those howto strip/sugar videos is at least 10 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:22 PM
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I find that redpill has a lot of interesting ideas and advice and perspective. They linked to certain core ideas and feelings I had but had wildly different ways of thinking about them. I don't think it "works" like some sort of 12-steps program, but it can be helpful to have more direct and honest discussions about common situations. If you are a red pill subscriber, did your life change for the better or for the worse? Much, much better. Do you get the results you want or you wish you've never…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:58 PM
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The "why" is because guys have penises that are extremely sensitive and we learn very quickly what causes erections and what does not. So guys develop what I would call a "penis sense". Many women can observe erections and their effects on men and learn to use that effect. Women on the other hand just seem to be more cerebral about what's attractive as if it's art appreciation and it seems like their genitals aren't even connected to their brains. I consider most women to suffer a form of "genit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:16 PM
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What exactly do you consider "sex between consenting adults" to include and exclude? It seems to me that you're just redefining "sex between consenting adults" to mean "sex that doesn't bother poppy_blu". That's not "starting from wildly different places", it's just "poppy_blu doesn't have a counterargument".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:30 AM
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You wouldn't consider abuse to be among "every single detail" of someone's relationship past? Even "sex between consenting adults" is pretty damn hairy when you start bringing in consentual non-consemt and rapekink. I suppose you're cool with a guy who used to enjoy routinely beating the shit out of a woman and raping her and pimping her out to his friends or making her fuck animals because she was cool with it? "Consent" absolves all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:50 AM
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That's OPs argument: If he's not abusing you, his past abuse of other women is irrelevant to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:29 AM
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To clarify: what do you think about guys who conceal they were abusive or have restraining orders or criminal records or are sex offenders or families they've abandoned? You may not, but nost normal women would definitely have a problem with that. I suspect this boils down to more of a "some types of history matter to me" and "others don't matter to me" sort of thing which is opinion and not really a view that can be challenged or defended. So rather than absolutist views the real argument shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:23 AM
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Female 1 seems like a ditz. She'd probably be fun for a bit but needs too much parenting. Female 2 seems somewhere on the spectrum of annoying and not as available as I like. She doesn't really sound very stimulating or interesting. It could maybe depend on her field. If we work in similar fields then... perhaps. I don't care for either of these options, honestly. I could see dating either short term but I don't foresee a long term future.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:22 AM
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Yeah, but you must acknowledge how much lower the bar must go to reach the people who can't even manage that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:58 AM
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HVM don't eat McDonald's. The hot women will get hired at places that HVM do frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:51 AM
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Yeah. It's more a class thing. They might take an interest in someone they meet who works at McDonald's, but if the relationship has legs, they won't let them continue working at McDonald's. McDonald's is too working class whereas something like Starbucks is middle class acceptable. If he can help reposition her career to something more acceptable it might work. There's also a major age-appropriateness angle. McDonald's is like teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah he can't to anything reactive like a re-wedding or re-proposal to appease the beast. He could conceivably do something else that's genuine and in his frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:32 AM
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I wouldn't be worried about FDS. What FDS shows is what motivates desperate/stressed women. Basically they're skeletons of women who have been stripped of all ornamentation. Guys can easily use that knowledge to attract and keep desirable women. Women are women afterall. The undesirable ones just show their cards on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:20 AM
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Learn to develop boundaries by making a list of rules about things you will not do. Follow your rules and hold yourself accountable. Be sure to include the all important rule "no contortions to bend the rules". Anything that needs an explanation to explain why a rule was broken is too contorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:26 PM
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Your take is ironic because my immediate thought was that if he was making her feel desired and important in his world right now, it wouldn't even be on her mind. When people backtrack to "why are we even together" it's because the right now sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:22 PM
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I doubt that's possible, but the world is big so a handful probably do exist somewhere. In my experience the only way it's possible is in men who are either asexual/low libido/gay or have been conditioned to repress their sexuality (by religion, etc). Most guys if they are honest with themselves will not deny that many women are sexually interesting even when in a relationship. I'd also wager that guys who say otherwise have limited relationship experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:10 PM
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