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CMVUrFoodMolestedMyNose/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:10 AM
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CMVUrFoodMolestedMyNose/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:08 PM
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CMVUrFoodMolestedMyNose/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:46 AM
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CMVUrFoodMolestedMyNose/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:56 AM
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CMVUrFoodMolestedMyNose/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:26 AM
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Geez, hadn’t logged in ages and now this place seems pretty black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:42 AM
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You should just stop lol, you’re digging a hole you can’t escape. Guys right, to are you even saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:52 AM
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I no longer believe that being hot or famous itself makes people shitty. It just makes them visible. You now care and notice they suck to be around lol. Happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:13 PM
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Yes. Some guys are really guy ugly because: bad hair cut, fat, short (prepubescent type). There are guys I knew back in height school that I see now and they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:11 PM
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Right??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:04 PM
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Arguing with people is fun lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 10:27 PM
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Ill ask straight up: is there or is there no a correlation between attractiveness and having a high n count/ being a slut. Yes or no. Receiving payment for it doesn’t erase the fact you slept with 100 guys. You just went off talking about completely irrelevant facts to this question. Tell me, is there a correlation between women with high n counts and level of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:57 AM
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Since when did making men pay for sex make you not a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:21 PM
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Always wanted to point this out: if women who sleep around are mostly unattractive, who are those famous guys sleeping with? Who are those attractive hookers? Are they not attractive women and a large amount of them, using sex to profit either socially or financially? It seems to me very attractive women sleep around, but they guys they sleep around with are so high up the totem pole, you don’t even see them or so low it happens in absolute shadows.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:42 AM
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This lollll
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:14 PM
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A dirty chad is no chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:31 AM
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Agree. No idea why he got rated so highly. He looks unclean and old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:20 PM
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It literally sums up to: Men always have something to gain by keeping any woman around Women only gain something from having a certain threshold value man around. As a result, any man below that value threshold will find his looks/match would rather be single than date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:24 AM
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Lol.. if Christianity is correct, it seems God thinks so too. Dude tried to eliminate us and start over then threw his son at it to deal with it. Finally, he settled with automatically dealing with his mistake(heaven hell), never to interact with us again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:32 AM
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One of the top only fans creators is a 70 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:36 PM
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You guys are delusional. Look outside the USA, it’s legal. Things are exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:17 AM
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Well i guess you have a point. It is a rejection of what you have to offer. But it’s understandable that people wouldn’t want to be in a situation where they can derive no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:32 AM
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I meant men who have to pay for dates basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:55 PM
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The men who do this are usually low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:19 PM
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I don’t get men surprised by this. From their perspective, you aren’t the only guy of your caliber that matched with them. And You should realise that you aren’t the only guy who had the idea to go for them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:31 AM
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Repeating an argument used by men here: “If that’s all you have to offer, that’s what they will care about”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:08 AM
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Have a feeling you also don’t wipe after shit.
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:59 AM
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Can just ask? Why? Like, it’s not like your “rejection” by the women you want was personal or something. I don’t get why the anger is directed at others who in all likelihood had no idea about your problems or had even a single part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:34 PM
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Didn’t say it was a rule. It’s purely anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:28 PM
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Not sure what you mean by “off the deep end” but I’m going to assume you’re talking about violence projected outwards. Society doesn’t consider it their problem because it’s doesn’t affect them. When you go off hurting others, yeah that affects them. You’re now a threat to them. Problem is, even after that, all they can do is try to limit your ability to harm people (watchlist, prison, banning things etc) Because, how can they help? They can’t force the women you want to either come into existen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:26 PM
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When men say stuff like this I literally don’t know what they expect us to say. Yes it is a problem for you but I don’t see how it’s a problem for everyone else. The market keeps going regardless no? Dating isn’t a charity. We feel bad that you aren’t get what you want but also understand that you only get what wants you. There’s literally no other way about it. Those same women are also complaining about their options. What can we tell them? The same thing. It’s their problem. All anyone can do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:21 AM
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I don’t understand why people even debate this. There isn’t any right answer. Besides, the market will decide regardless. Let’s say, If men who don’t pay never get a second date then that’s the markets decision. At least that how it’s worked out so far from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:20 AM
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I’m just saying, a woman that old with no history is rare, rather than a man that age with no history. I’m not personally invested in your decisions or outcomes, just want to understand the thinking behind it. Do you see what I’m saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:16 AM
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It’s not until your realise that men and woman are valued for different things. Don’t know how old you are, but a woman with no or little history is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:39 AM
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What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:12 AM
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This isnt even true. People in Africa of all places keep having kids dispute on-going food scarcity. Taking away support doesn’t stop people from making bad choices. Drug addicts are going to do drugs and OD even if we don’t give them free drug testing. Same logic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:47 AM
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Nothing. I guess I should have said if you’re a 5 and you haven’t got anything untill women started to settle down, you’d probably jump on the chance and ask few questions. That’s the only incentive I can think of why these guys do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:57 AM
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Yes, absolutely. This discussion is useless because it’s not based on morality and ethics like it pretends to be. Men don’t like it because it simply doesn’t benefit them. That’s it. It’s like the boss vs employee debates. What’s good for the boss isn’t always good for the employee and vice versa. There is no real side that deserves to have things go their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:45 PM
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Not from the US, but is hardly a majority. I’d argue that being born to “unwed” parents is different from being born to a single parent household. Especially, when you consider falling marriage rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:41 PM
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You don’t have to but as it stands now, there are other 5’s willing to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:37 PM
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It works like this: Most men suck at sex. If you’re going to have sex, atleast let it be someone more attractive and also more likely to make you Orgasm (there is a study that showed women are more likely to Orgasm with attractive partners). No doubt a good part of it is validation, especially with women who know the deal with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:02 PM
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There was really no thought behind the numbers chosen. The fact you’re so fixated on them instead of the overall point is surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:58 AM
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There’s no way you genuinely believe the majority of women are messed up let alone solely because of their OLD habits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:56 AM
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Maybe you as an individual wouldn’t but, Men collectively would. It’s a similar premise as outright lying or lying by omission about intent when dating a woman for sex— you know tell the truth would be harmful to your success so, you don’t. Lying isn’t gendered in the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:15 AM
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.. and most women are also BECAUSE of this fact: single mothers depressed -heartbroken unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:07 AM
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Wouldn’t you say most women today are messing around or have messed around above their station due to OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:04 AM
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Most women aren’t single moms to chads kids. Heartbreak and depression over dating are exclusive to women messing with men above their station.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:54 AM
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I think you misinterpreted my position. The point of hammering home that the rest of society doesn’t care that they want a foreign wife is in a way a “shut up and do it then”. We know it’s not that simple and most importantly, we know they know it’s not. They just chant it like some sort of threat society and women are afraid of when in reality, even if they COULD do it, collectively society wouldn’t care or notice. It honestly reads like someone threatening to do something they themselves don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:51 AM
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The ones who suffer the consequences are the delusional ones. The ones who don’t see it for what it is- men dipping down for more sex. Regardless, there are always the unfortunate ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:38 AM
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Never said that. Literally just said we don’t care men are going to find women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:33 AM
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Ugh, the numbers don’t matter. It’s just an example
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:31 AM
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You have a point. It’s important to add that you can tell something has genuinely changed when you look back at the effort you had to put in at a younger age to get x result, then see what similar people today of that age who follow this advice get. I would say a 20 year old guy using Pua in the 90’s would not see the same level of success as a 20 year old today using the same tactics. I guess you could say that the horrible basic advice older people give men on dating not working today shows th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:03 AM
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You can be yourself. The problem with that is if you’re looking at dating strategies then, being yourself clearly isn’t enough to get the results you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:57 AM
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Let’s say you’re a 5 and you are 18. You aren’t going to get a 10/10 to commit to you at all, but you can sleep with him and have some fun experiences. The best part is, even if he doesn’t stick around, when you’re tired of it all you’ll just settle for a 5/10. Or Never have fun experiences with a 10/10 and settle down. Only have memories with 5/10. If presented with both choices, it easy to see why so many choose the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:49 AM
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I’m not a guy XD But all of what you’re saying is just men being upset at the quality of women they can attract and demanding society do something about it. They aren’t happy that even single mothers have standards that omit them or expect them to put in effort. For them, there is some great moral failing of the world when women they see as bottom of the barrel aren’t begging to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:49 AM
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I don’t really understand how anyone falls for this kind of thing. It can all be disproven by ask yourself a few questions: do I honestly believe women my age are interested in my dad or my friends dad. Idk for me it’s a resounding no. Obviously, if you’re like 60 yourself you won’t get an accurate survey on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:42 AM
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Women will get desperate later in life when they draw nearer to life goals (have a husband and having kids). As long as you are atleast a good option for this when that time comes, you will do better within your cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:25 AM
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Is not being starved for male attention that’s makes them desperate. It’s internally driven, it’s women who expect themselves to have kids and a husband in a certain time frame. They are fine in their 20’s because they have years before they are even expected to settle down, but at 30? The pressure is there now. People will start asking things, your friends will be getting married and having child, suddenly you can’t relate to anyone worth anything in your age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:08 AM
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This. I never got they they keep saying it like women and society care. Men who are considering this possibility are already not valued by those groups. Idek why they would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:56 AM
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Listen, don’t make decisions on the future based on a chance. He told you he’s not interested in a relationship. Are you going to really “waste” time on a chance he could flip? I’m not saying he won’t but you could spend years waiting for this guy when in an alternate reality where you took him at his word and kept looking, you could have been in a relationship you wanted to be in.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:09 AM
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You have to be near the top or middle to be able to “shoot down” though. It’s those guys who are low value who have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:06 AM
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It’s not different on paper but it is different in reality due to how things actually work. A guy who can afford to buy sex consistent is getting “casual sex”. However, in the real world, this isn’t affordable for a lot of people and you’re back to square one. Because of this fact there are always low value men desperate for relationships. There are desperate women but due to women having access to money and sex (economic freedom) a lot of them are a lot more willing to simply be single than be …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:54 AM
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I would argue that some men and some women are unhappy with it. Certain groups of men and women. Trads, low value, idealistic are some on the traits these people possess (not saying they have all). But that doesn’t mean all men and women are unhappy. Every system has it’s unhappy population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:25 AM
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You’re missing the point, a guy not chosen to fuck (a low value guy) will almost always be willing to enter a relationship (given the chance) because he cannot get casual sex. These relationships suck if your a woman but they exist. the consequence in these relationships is that if she leaves = sex stops If he leaves, money doesn’t necessarily stop. This creates an imbalance, one that only exist in men who cannot get causal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:19 AM
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Thats you. For a lot of guys, unless they are in a relationship, sex is not in any way frequent. I guess my point is, women, by being given economic freedom, don’t need a relationship to get either consistent sex or money. Referring to the comment above, women are holding out because they can. This is why there are guys getting nothing and guys that get it all. Because, women can afford to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:43 AM
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But how many of these types of men exist? They are so few that they are not a distinct threat, just a type of chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:21 AM
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Tell that to the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:35 AM
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I’m actually convinced red pill people who bring up that the happiness of women has fallen over time have no idea what they are talking about. It is completely disingenuous and it stupid to even suggest that this difference is due to new dating dynamics. So much has changed. It is well known women suffer more from body image issues since the advent of social media and that is just one of the possible and more realistic reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:21 AM
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Because barely anyone wants it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:09 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:39 AM
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Nothing wrong with it. To blame the creators for selling to lonely men is like blaming the liquor store for selling to an alcoholic. It’s like blaming fast food places for selling to morbidly obese people. You are responsible for your own wellbeing in situations like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:45 PM
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I really think n count statistics should be age grouped. I honestly believe that the average is very much dragged down by older women who’ve spent most of their adult lives without the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:21 PM
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Ew wtf. That guy doesn’t look like a “bad guy”, he looks like a meth addict
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:43 PM
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Women are free to live life as they choose. It is a purely male take that women should provide something to men to justify their existence. As long as said woman has a job, she’s doing enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:22 AM
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They are whining but I’ll tell you this: they aren’t willing to lower their standards. That tells you everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:17 AM
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They don’t need it, they want it. It’s a difference. As a result, they are way less willing to do as much to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:47 AM
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Just wait untill they threaten to burn down society if they can’t find what they want lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:45 AM
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Why don’t you do hair loss therapies?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:59 AM
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The men here are funny af. You give the the solid statistics that prove the majority of men simply can’t pull younger women and suddenly, anecdotal evidence is king. “It’s not true because look at me and my friends”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:27 AM
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It’s gross. It’s something you shouldn’t bring up- it’s something I’d rather live in ignorance about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:01 AM
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Idk you never know how long the relationship will last. If you’re a person who actually desires to experience multiple different relationships (not at the same time) you can easily end up hurting people when you feel a relationship has gone on too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:24 AM
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It would make settling for beta bux a lot easier
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:34 AM
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It’s the same truth used for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:32 AM
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How will the rest follow? Seeing a hooker doesn’t improve chances of getting a women to like you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:15 AM
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People complain about stuff. What makes it uncomfortable is the awareness of a lack of solutions. They might not like the solutions I.e date down a bit, but they exist. A guy who says no woman wants him and has tried everything? What do you say to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:32 PM
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2 6 5 9 1 7 4 3 8 Didn’t see a 10th
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:01 PM
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I’d add Chads gate-keep relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:59 AM
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The OP: erotic and porn are the same They aren’t. Because : what I just said. That’s why they are treated differently by society. No further explanation needed. No idea why you even commented.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:42 AM
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Its not seen the same because it doesn’t elicit the same level of problems in populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:25 AM
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The whole argument of “you aren’t owed X” is a cop out due to a lack of any perceived ways to advise the unfortunate party to improve their situation, combined with a perceived sense of responsibility being placed on the speaker for the outcomes of the unfortunate party. Basically, they feel there is actually no way to fix your problem and want you to stop talking about it because it makes them uncomfortable. This argument isn’t usually directed towards women because situations they find themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:05 AM
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It’s no where near as common a problem as porn addiction. Don’t need any sources for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:11 AM
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I hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:35 PM
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Lmaooo - It’s no where near the same at all. - No one becomes Addicted to erotica - No one messes up their genitals because of it (I don’t even think women masturbate to that stuff but idk ) - No ones turning down their partner for it - No ones emptying their savings over it - No ones spending large amounts of their days with it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:17 AM
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Why don’t guys who don’t get sex easy or at all just chadfish? Sure you can’t meet up and get actual sex, but you can get nudes and sexting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:02 PM
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Lol you’re not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:55 AM
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Foreigners. They have more kids and their children (born in the west) often turn westernised
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:29 PM
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They are willing to do what it takes and or halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:19 PM
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Thanks for this, explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:24 AM
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Lol. All women once brought to the west adopt the life style
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:46 AM
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He could. But then he’d have to live in a 3rd world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:25 AM
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..because guys follow what OP is telling them to do and make it that these women don’t have to date men their own level
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:19 AM
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You’re the one who doesn’t like the idea of dating a woman who has been with any men better than you. Women value men being 6 ft plus. You can be attractive and under 6 ft yes, but the tall and good looking guy will always be ‘better’ to the 5 ft something and good looking guy. If you aren’t that tall but good looking who’s to say she hasn’t been with a guy 6ft and good looking? There is always a bigger chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:21 AM
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Most guys can’t become an 8. You can’t become. 2/3 of the 666’s- you’re born into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:09 AM
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That’s like 30% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:53 PM
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If you’re below like an 8 as a guy, you’re going to have a hard time finding a young woman who hasn’t slept with a guy 8+. If you care that much about this issue residing solely in your mind, don’t date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:52 PM
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I guess it is if you’re a guy because some guys can’t even get ugly fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:01 AM
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What do you mean forthcoming? I’m am friends with these women lol. I following these accounts because we’re such close friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:00 AM
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I’m a woman with a lot of close female friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:59 AM
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Because even fat/ ugly women have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:30 AM
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Yeah I can’t even think of any girl I know that doesn’t have a second private insta acc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:17 AM
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Dating is amoral. Guys who lie to get sex shouldn’t shame women who use guys for attention, resources and or making guys wait differing amounts of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:12 AM
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Ever heard of backup guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:16 AM
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r/cakeeater
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:52 AM
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This 💀 confidence only works if it looks like you deserve to be confident. A confidant ugly guy is just a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:23 PM
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If you could go into a female only gym, you’d see they dress exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:04 PM
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This, men largely don’t CARE if women molest them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:57 PM
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That’s all she gets too? Sure she matches with a lot of guys and picks the ones she goes out with- but she doesn’t choose if they stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:37 PM
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Well You have to realise at the very least that you are competing with other men at your level. Let’s say you’re a 6 and she is too. She’s got other 6’s ranging from making bank to broke. This isn’t even to mention all the 7s dipping into her DMs because in their own league, they are bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:43 PM
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The vast majority of people will have to settle. Especially women. Its reality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:39 PM
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Its a numbers game for men. You keep meeting women and you’re eventually going to run into a woman who considers you her best choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:04 PM
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Men would disagree too. It’s only women who are expected to settle for men they don’t find attractive. No man would do that. Women are justified in valuing looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:08 AM
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Lower sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:12 AM
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That’s the world they live in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:28 PM
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Very insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:53 AM
2

You kinda do with taxes. Women consume most of the tax money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:35 AM
1

It’s not just women who do this tho. It’s a human thing. Beautiful women have always been able to act terrible too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:44 AM
-1

The men who say that are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:38 AM
1

It’s legal where I live. It changes mothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:37 AM
7

Women have never liked being lied and cheated. It just so happens the guys who do this tend to have traits (being very attractive) the cause women to overlook these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:17 PM
2

The problem is how will a guy even know that she treats men equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:48 AM
2

You have to play to get paid tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:33 AM
1

Thats the whole point: these guys are failing in the casual sex market so they enter relationships. Those are the guys who put up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:34 AM
4

It’s not supposed to be a grand plan but people seeing which way the wind is blowing and using a strategy that works for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:44 AM
3

Forget what you think about fds. Their strategy if taken up by all women would be a response to men being low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:41 AM
2

That’s assuming men when presented with options don’t turn to causal sex. The top guys will always have casual sex due to the self interest of women across all smv
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:39 AM
3

You’ll have to ask them. I’m just reporting reality. There are examples places in the west with access to paid sex that still have a thriving dating market. I’m telling you, paid sex doesn’t change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:23 AM
3

FDS is an example of women doing this. I guess you could say FDS is a response to the redpill. The high value guys will always exist as they are. They aren’t the problem in the scheme of things. The problem is the bottom 80% wising up and demanding to be treated like the top 20
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:21 AM
2

It’s less expensive when you consider the sex to money ratio if you enter a relationship. If you’re a guy not deemed attractive enough for the casual sex market it’s going to be expensive to try to get sex there. You’ll be expected to invest high with no promise of sex. However if you enter a relationship, it’s cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:18 AM
1

Yes but it’s not fair to fault women for not having a working long term strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:15 AM
1

I’d argue if all men put in work, the percentage of men in the top range would stay the same. It would just take more effort to be in that percentage. This strategy works if you get in before most people m.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:12 AM
2

I’m saying it would because it allows all guys to have enough access to women to not commit. If it were easy for a 5 to get 5s to talk to him, guys 5 guys would be able regular casual sex and not be forced to commit. Because casual sex is unevenly spread to forces a large portion of men into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:10 AM
9

Because I live somewhere where sex work is legal and men who struggle with women don’t just give up and go to hookers. I’m guessing it’s validation they chase of having a woman want to be associated with them or something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:03 AM
3

Aren’t we already seeing the response from women to this? A refusal of low effort dates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:02 AM
1

“I’m only doing this for money ” Vs “You are worth taking the risk of being pnd”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:59 AM
3

It’s not a planned thing among women. You have to account for competition for guys women really want. There will never be a zero percentage of men who get casual sex because that would mean women of low smv don’t go for guys above their smv. These women inherently know in order to compensate for their relatively low value they have to risk more (have sex early) Basically because each women is trying to get the best guy for themselves regardless of their own Smv, there will always be guys in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:55 AM
2

Nothing changes then but the number of men able to really do that stays limited
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:48 AM
1

I guess it’s the validation aspect of it that keeps them there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:46 AM
6

I guess it’s expensive and not validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:46 AM
2

You can only really plan for now. Women don’t know what men are going to do before they do it. To see their reaction you’ll have to wait untill all guys find out about this and simps stop existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:45 AM
0

If they only thing that makes chad a fuck by is the option to do so, how does it benefit women to give all men the option to do so? Naturally controlling the amount of men who hav to choice to do so kind of forces men that otherwise wouldn’t be into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:43 AM
4

Don’t let this sub darkened your view of humanity. This is all generalisation and doesn’t account for the random thoughts individuals have that influence their dating choices. There a women who love men but just can’t get with the men they love. If you’re lucky you’ll be the object of some woman’s desire. All of this extra stuff just comes down to humans being humans and wanting the best ending for themselves, be damned everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:41 AM
1

None of it is. It’s basically a individual people in a group seeing what the other side wants and coming to similar conclusions over how to use that to get what they want. Women will risk more of HVM but not for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:35 AM
3

It’s basically a back up plan if securing on of the few top guys doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:33 AM
4

That’s when the investment requirement comes in. If you require a guy you’re seeing to pay for dates and see you regularly, he won’t be able to afford to see multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:31 AM
3

The division is between men who can get casual sex and men who can’t. Not men who can’t get anything. The whole idea is the guys who can’t get casual end up just staying in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:27 AM
8

I don’t thinks it’s possible for women to collectively restrain themselves from top men. The 80/20 rule isn’t some thought out plan by women but naturally occurring. Each woman is doing what she thinks to be best for herself without realising the implications of all women doing so. Women have similar ideas about what an ideal guy is and realise at some level he has options. Although the individual women is unlikely to win over this high value guy, she loses even the chance to do so if she doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:25 AM
1

The honest reality is the majority of women are never going to get that HVM because not every guy is going to turn into one. Setting is reality from the perspective of most women. Most will end up married to some guy they never wanted for themselves. However this reality is much better than a reality where 80% of men are able to behave like chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:15 AM
1

These things are reactive. We have yet to really see how women will collectively react to men as a whole finding out about this. IMO we will know we’re on the edge of seeing it when all the simps are gone because they know they are wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:11 AM
1

It’s a generalisation of how people here describe the forces that make the dating market what it is. So, it’s kind of bound to come of somewhat neurotic. Can’t really discuss these things without these generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:07 AM
2

I wish I could live for 1000 year so I can see the ultimate fate of the dating market. When all guys wise up, how will women respond
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:03 AM
3

Power to ya but this isn’t really relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:58 AM
2

The last bit depends on if they find out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:48 AM
5

You’d be surprised how many guys’ll stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:47 AM
1

There was no intention to place any moral weighing behind it. It’s just plainly describing the type of women who’d use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:11 PM
5

Then wouldn’t you say it will filter out guys who just want to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:05 PM
4

Normie culture amid where the women are in the west. Counter cultures like tradcon are bound to be a sausage fest. Men just go where the women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:19 AM
1

No ones entitled but, if you can reliably expect something and get it is it really entitlement? Because why would someone who can get it settle for anything less?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:16 AM
2

Probably voice or make it somewhat clear during sex you aren’t happy with some aspect of it. Don’t aim to hurt just like make it clear something is bothering you the same way a woman would make clear a guy isn’t pleasing her in bed. After just say vaguely you don’t think you’re sexually compatible. If you did the first part right she’ll probably know what it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:39 AM
1

Reddit psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:37 AM
1

I think of it as a guy who has many women in FWB situations with him. These women are mostly voluntary loyal to him because they are hoping to turn it into a relationship. These women might go on dates with guys in an attempt to establish a line up of back up plans. but best believe Mr. Harem is first choice and if he even gives a hint of wanting to be serious with her she’ll flake on every other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:20 AM
4

Hm, seems to me you’ve misplaced your reading glasses. The sample size my generalisation is based off purely my own experience and never claimed to be anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:44 AM
8

Doubt it then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:05 AM
6

Like 5
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:27 AM
2

Yes but which is more likely to affect a woman’s self worth in the dating market: men gassing her up. women gassing her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:26 AM
1

Isn’t that what the red pills all about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:55 AM
13

Admittedly not many. But all I’ve seen are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:55 AM
1

Women already know what men are about for the most part. I’m explaining why you won’t find women saying any of this stuff irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:21 AM
0

I kind of hate how guys here assume individual women can just openly say this stuff. If you say it you disadvantage yourself as an individual because guys will think you are like that but not other women (blue pill line of thinking) And generally people will dislike you. Even other women for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:17 AM
1

Dude, SO many MEN hit them up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:20 AM
0

Its really funny when they say that because 9/10 they are the ones complaining about being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:14 AM
26

This tbh. Most people in open relationships I know are ugly af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:11 AM
2

Then why don’t you : - seek paid sex - casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:10 AM
1

You really come off as female xd
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:14 AM
-2

He really isn’t that hot tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:53 AM
1

Since we were cave people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:14 AM
1

Thats not even true. For most of human history that wasn’t the case. It’s only due to the development of society that that became the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:21 AM
1

See, that thing about consistency— it’s never consistent because that’s not how it was ever meant to be. Sex was never meant to be earned. You’ll never find a woman who is consistent in the amount of effort she requires be spent on her to sleep with a guy because that’s not how it works. Women sleep with people because they a) want to. B) eventually have to. The second category of men only exists because men believe they can earn sex. These are the guys who’ll pay for what’s free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:33 AM
4

There are a couple guys here in ppd who are very vocal about their taste in fat women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:58 AM
1

Fundamentally. It just happens when two people what to fuck. There isn’t supposed to be some process to “earn” it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:45 AM
0

Because sex isn’t a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:42 AM
2

Cant believe you really went through my comments to find that lol. Never got why men bring up women talking advantage of the sexual situation of men to better their lives as some kind of Ah ha! Moment. You can be independent and use people. The difference between someone that isn’t independent and someone that is, is that if you remove the dependency they are fine. Therefore, you’ll have a hard time influencing them to do anything but take what you give. Women who use men to pay for things are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:06 AM
4

You deserve to be sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:31 AM
2

What the other guy said: there are definitely people who stand by what they believe but, they are often forgotten because they tend to be worse off in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 06:26 AM
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No. People are willing to do anything for clout/money. Generally people are willing to abandon ALOT for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:37 AM
1

It’s like religion. Some people believe in thing that are utterly bizarre and to an outside perspective seem very dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:07 PM
1

But if it’s possible to work on yourself to the point where you don’t need to chase you would need to get used to rejection- you’ll be the one rejecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:37 AM
4

Also the redpill: “you’re fit and have nice style And shower daily? you’re not getting women because you didn’t cold approach and get rejected by 99 women for that 1 to say yes” “What? That didn’t work? Approach more”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:42 AM
2

Welcome to the party
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:29 AM
1

No ones getting dopamine’s here. I just find this interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:10 PM
1

This is all to common. It’s kind of pointless to debate them on anything at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:09 PM
3

Lol. Make an account anywhere as an “old” woman. You still get messages. Any you’re assuming that these random men are anyone worth talking to. Who the fuck spends their time entertaining the dry come-ons of random men on instagram? No one with any hobbies whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:18 AM
3

You must not know many women. Tell you what, most of the women here are married or in relationships. That says everything you need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:41 AM
2

What does any of that have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:19 AM
3

I know you’re not talking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:08 AM
1

It’s all right, just pointing out number 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:07 AM
2

One is more popular with women without a doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:06 AM
1

Think for once in your life. Rule out status, why are bts and the guy who plays Spider-Man more popular than any equally high status masculine celeb like Henry Cavill. Really think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:08 PM
15

Probably right about the 3rd point. I have a few shy female friends who basically aren’t on the dating market because of the bad reputation of OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:48 PM
6

What if she has your kid and leaves you because she now has you on the hook for child support for 18 years. This is such a common thing among rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:42 PM
2

Women aren’t known for harassing men they find attractive. What they ARE known for is hanging around him shooting indicators of interest. This is far from harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:42 AM
4

This. A lot of the stuff guys here hate about a woman’s past is so easily lied about lol. I don’t even get what the point is caring about something you can never verify
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:40 AM
2

Yes but women attracted to women tend to behave much better around attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:34 AM
1

The number of girls turning 18 is lowering with every year due to falling birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:16 AM
-1

This. Let them continue to hamster a set of goal posts that make it that women actually are more or equally violently upset over dating requirements lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:03 AM
4

Women aren’t killing people over it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 12:11 AM
1

That’s not so easy as you’re making it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:47 AM
1

I took too many pills man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:46 AM
1

I agree but so many men either don’t get this or don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:45 AM
2

But it has been found that women are more likely to orgasm with attractive partners
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:34 PM
2

But some guys can only get women by doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:13 AM
2

Why do guys here ask women anything if you never believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:09 PM
2

I will never understand people who lie to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:32 PM
2

Would recommend reading the whole thing^ good right up about basic economics that drive women to interact with men in certain ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:22 PM
1

I think the Chinese are very expansionist. I heard there was a trend of them marrying African women in Africa
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:03 AM
1

How does this prove me wrong? They are likely dating the same guys and don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:02 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:08 AM
1

This is true, but it does affect the guys here who are obsessed with getting with women 20 years younger than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:04 AM
0

No no lol. I’m female and this is just an observation that I think some of the guys here already on the watch list would be interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:03 AM
17

Ask yourself if you would lower your standards in the face of being alone forever. Next question, Ask yourself if you are successfully attracting people who meet your standards ————— If the answer is yes to both questions : your standards are reasonable. If the answer is yes then no : Your standards are too high, you need to lower them. If the answer is no then yes : Your standards are reasonable but with little wriggle room. Best to find your partner now. If the answer is no on both questions: …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:28 PM
0

Force them to do a sport if they are male and teach them early that isn’t not acceptable to be unclean. No, you can’t just skip your shower (my brother used to only shower once a week untill he was 16 Yes you must wipe your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:11 PM
2

I just realised that the number of young women entering the dating market per year is dropping lower and lower as people increasingly forgo having children. No one should be surprised upcoming women will become more and more “entitled” as multigenerations of men fight for a dwindling pool of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:37 PM
1

Well no because the point he’s trying to make is that the chads started training early and possibly unknowingly while other guys were being greasy n pale playing video games. This is about self improvement which is redpilled. But I do agree that some guys just can’t become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:05 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:00 AM
2

He literally says it: you develop an attractive body. I’d also add you gain social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:18 AM
1

This is so stupid. Look at almost any animal species- woman pick men based on genetic fitness. It is who are responsible on a biological level of maintaining the genetic quality of the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:00 AM
1

How? All insurance would do in this scenario would offer a pay out to the wife at their expense and remove any incentive for a man to stay married (not losing his assets)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:21 AM
1

A lot of men like yourself do this thing where you assume women are care about the “greater good of the species”. Lmao. No we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:44 PM
1

You’re clearly out of your depth in this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:25 PM
1

Yes but, look around in society. Most men have significantly lower standards than their ancestors
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:19 PM
1

Yeah but most marriages don’t even last that long
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:07 PM
1

It’s likely because the odds of someone needing to actually cash out soon is pretty high which doesn’t leave much room for profit making. We are talking about paying monthly over any amount of time (likely very short, don’t have stats on hand up I’m sure the average length of marriage is pretty short) to cover the loss of 50% of a persons assets that probably amounts to decades of savings and somehow despite this an insurance company is supposed to be okay with potential paying out way more mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:01 AM
1

Billionaires transfer money through divorce and inheritance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:05 AM
7

Only time will tell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:18 AM
51

It’s because change the social narrative is way more effective. Think about it. Men went from demanding virgin brides to accepting high n count women who don’t put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:01 PM
2

It’s the stupid shit they say. All the suggestions and thinly veiled threats of anything from harming women to mass rape. There’s no justification for believing these things- zero empathy will ever be afforded to such people. It’s hard not to hate them and I enjoy messing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:23 AM
–

I bought a Quran after reading the comments here. May Allah show these men the way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:29 AM
7

Whats stopping women from dating old men? Curious? What is it if it isn’t the fact they don’t like them. You don’t have to be old to be mature. Being mature is a trait in and of itself. We are talking about women liking old men. Put it like this, if all things are the same between two men besides their age, the older on isn’t going to be preference. It’s only when he has something to make up for it he is picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:29 AM
16

That’s the thing, desirable older men have qualities that are simply desired. Its more accurate to say women like successful men rather than it is old men. Women clearly by the evidence, do not like old men. They prefer men their own age. However women like successful men and that can be. Man of any age. If you don’t like that fact, maybe you should change what you’re claiming lol? The example you equated to my response is not representative of what I’ve said. My statistic in this context is rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:47 AM
17

No, the statistics support their anecdotes. The average age gap is 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:29 AM
2

Who told you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:20 AM
3

This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:13 AM
9

Glad I’m not the only one who only cares for gay porn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:22 AM
9

I think she means facially attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:22 AM
1

Hvw aren’t going to date him if he ever gets tired of his lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:15 AM
2

That’s blue pill people. I mean I get it, I don’t say this stuff in the real world because there are consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:49 AM
1

I was referring to the phenomenon of deadbedrooms and the fact marriage is declining as a goal. Key word
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:48 AM
3

Idk if it’s just me, but sex isn’t a reward. It doesn’t go to those who are most moral because that’s not what people care about when having sex. All you have to be is not annoying and hot. As for the “feel safe” thing. If you want sex and lack attractiveness you’ll have to have up for it somehow I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:59 AM
1

Marriage isn’t aspired to as it once used to be. Women don’t have to put out at all to receive men’s wages via taxes. The women who are married aren’t really known for putting put ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:54 AM
-1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:25 AM
1

Cheers for another year more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:48 AM
0

These are the types of guys I’m talking about that get PND by women. He’s hot, I’d sleep with him but who in their right mind would date him? Maybe desperate women, but some of us have standards about the types of guys we’re seen with in public!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:44 AM
0

That’s the wonderful thing about society. Even if women need men to survive as evidenced by they net tax drain, it’s doesn’t matter. Women don’t have do a thing to keep men doing that. They are independent from their influence entirely. We don’t even have to treat men well. Whereas a man who wants sex is heavily influenced by the whims of women in order to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:40 AM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:45 AM
8

I swear guys project their obsession with sex and women onto women. If I’m posting about life sucking it’s usually got nothing to do with men but family or work/school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:50 AM
1

10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:03 PM
5

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:03 AM
1

If that’s what men what, then it is. I’m not a guy so I avoid making comments on what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:50 AM
1

Yes it is. They don’t believe in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:59 AM
1

I don’t even care as long as it isn’t anyone we know in the real world— I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:38 AM
1

Look in my comment history. Off the top of my head I can say I do talk about the 80/20 rule and chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:23 AM
1

Idk and idc. When it can live outside of me we can talk about its autonomy. Untill then, if I don’t want to be pregnant, I’m not going to be!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:22 AM
5

This guy (the op) has a room temperature iq for this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:02 AM
1

My bodily autonomy is more important to me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:56 AM
2

Never got the fawning over the Nordic man look tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:40 PM
3

Ah. Totally see how you ended up here. Condolences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:49 PM
3

How many times were you married? I keep seeing you talking about ex wives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:32 AM
0

No one asked for your opinion in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:26 AM
2

That’s their choice. I’m not going to thank them for doing what they wanted to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:07 AM
0

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:06 AM
1

😭😭😭 I’m not in any way LGBT. My name is referring to tall the pill colours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:05 AM
4

Just because you can do something doesn’t mean you have any intention of doing it. Kids are gross ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:35 AM
13

Depends. For starters I wouldn’t date a guy who didn’t act and give me what I wanted. Finding out he did “extra” for his ex wouldn’t bother me because I’d already be getting what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 02:14 AM
1

No because it brings out sadistic tendencies in me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:52 AM
2

Idk women who aren’t fat or ugly who compete for men. Like, there’s so many of them. The go to response to finding out a guy isn’t super serious is to leave lol. Once had a guy who so so delusional he thought I’d fight for him. Was one of those guys who think they can turn a no into a maybe and that all women are just playing hard to get. Used him, not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:47 AM
2

Is he my type? No = no attraction Yes = attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:11 AM
6

Doesn’t really matter in the end if they say they are willing to or not. The statistics show they mostly end up with guys like 3 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:12 AM
1

Age : <23 5 years is the hard max, like dude would have to be absolutely amazing. Anywhere from -2 to 3 years older is ideal tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:08 AM
1

Men should at the very least have better standards. But of course this only works if all of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:45 AM
1

What guy is going to believe that one isn’t fucking anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:23 AM
1

3 years of age difference past like 20 is like nothing. That’s the point. There isn’t this mass marriage of unattractive young women to old men. They are largely marrying men their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:22 AM
2

There’s nothing wrong with hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:19 AM
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Anyone who says 2 is lying or stupid. Why the fuck would a guy spend money and time on a woman he isn’t interested in being with? They may not have had sex, but no one involved and witnessing this is going to actually believe that. One is like two only it’s worse because he’s clearly leaving you for her or you’re a side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:50 AM
1

Not in most places in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:09 AM
4

The average age gap is 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:07 AM
4

I wouldn’t say it’s a prize more than it is something to do as a woman. Imagine being a woman who likes casual sex. You have your pick of the cream of the crop every night, no effort. You’d get bored. There is zero effort involved. Naturally you move on to the next thing on the list to get: commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:59 PM
1

Because I don’t see how I can help him. If is mild like mgtow I won’t disown him. I said it depends on how he’s acting. But if he’s out here talking about repealing womens rights and going ‘ER’, yeah no I have no son.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:58 PM
1

Online is the only place I actually interact with these kinds of people. I literally have nothing else to base my answer with because I don’t interact with guys like that for very long irl. Seconds if possible. You’re acting like I’d be happy to see him fail. I wouldn’t- I just believe it’s something that he has to get over himself for the aforementioned reasons above. You’re acting like boys who end up red pilled weren’t originally taught by the people around them to be nice to women to get the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:34 PM
0

You cant control women. They will behave how they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:23 PM
8

Based on my experiences here, I honestly don’t believe the red pill is something you can just talk someone out of. By its very nature it teaches people that everyone except the redpill bros they know only are lying to them or stupid. I honestly believe they need to see that mentality personally fail miserably for themselves to change and thus end the phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:50 PM
6

Its a good idea tho. You should help out your homies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:44 PM
0

(14-18 ) Pray it’s just a phase and it will naturally resolve itself (18+) depends how he’s acting- if unacceptably, will probably go no contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:33 PM
4

I support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:25 AM
1

Sometimes people just want sex and to not be manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:53 AM
3

This. It’s a basic physical jobs that get automated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:11 PM
1

Why do guys believe this? You know there are first world countries right now who have legal prostitution? I happened to live in one- nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:48 PM
1

It just refers to the idea that getting involved with women the normal way when you have money or status can lead to them trying to stick around and be your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:45 PM
1

Well for chad it’s certainly free. No dates required. Other guys it might be subsidised depending on how many dates it takes. The bottom line is casual sex, if you’re doing it right, should be cheaper than a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:44 PM
1

Never had it happen but I know a girls who’s boyfriend literally told her to her face he was only dating her for the lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:43 AM
1

Only if you’re rich
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:33 AM
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Idk about you but the rest of us are seeing you can make men accept a lot. Just a century past women were treated worse than they are now AND expected to be virgins to get a guy. Now you don’t need to put up with bad behaviour or be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:28 AM
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Because most guys in a position to get women the normal way aren’t virtuously going to give up free sex in favour of paid, arguably more ethical sex. The only guys I can see actually taking this route are rich men. Because: they have assets to protect that can be jeopardised by hooking up with women who only hook up with them (if they are unattractive but even attractive guys run this risk) in the pursuit of commitment (complete access to resources). Their time is worth more than 200/hr (what it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:24 AM
2

I know but that doesn’t really impact their value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:03 AM
1

Seeing a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:48 AM
1

Women care about money so those people fit the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:38 AM
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Rich people pay them to leave. Women are desperate to get with the likes of drake and be in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:37 AM
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Men attractive enough to do that, do that. Those that aren’t pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:36 AM
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Now that’s just a lie lol. Most attractive guys just pump and dump women. Why would attractive men who aren’t rich waste their money on something that they can get for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:32 AM
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Welp they must have a reason. The reason itself doesn’t matter, only the fact the situation does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:33 AM
1

I’m your previous comment you talk about men committing down in looks because of “power dynamics”. I took that to mean a woman who has her own fame and expects to be valued and supported by her HVM man in this category. So I brought up the example of attractive women who do not have status because the HVM found her before she eventually gains some status from being with a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:24 AM
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What is a man doing with a woman he isn’t attracted to in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:12 AM
0

Sounds like women who like hoe around should filter for men who “know what they are getting into”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:10 AM
1

Wonder what happened with will smith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:07 AM
3

The term high value in this context refers to the type of men who have traits that women care about. Women don’t care if a guy is “a cold hard killer”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:06 AM
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Soooo women who are attractive are more likely to be pnded by HVM. It’s not even the attractive celebs I’m talking about. I’m also talking about the endless amount of women who got their platform because they were attractive to some HVM. They weren’t famous before him, there’s no power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:58 AM
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Let him. I’ll be too busy funding my CC adventures with the alimony and CS to care \s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:55 AM
1

I guess if that’s your sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 AM
1

Famous women are usually famous because they are extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:39 AM
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*hoes who try to get chad to commit instead of finding a beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:33 AM
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I’m not saying there is any way for them to be able to do so. When an average guy makes it clear he pays for sex it makes it undeniably obvious to women that he is undesirable. A high value guy (usually rich in this case) that uses paid sex isn’t a loser because he has value that is readily apparent. There’s no way to get confused and think he’s paying because he can’t get any. He just doesn’t want to deal with women after his money trying to stay with him. Its self evident
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:30 AM
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Not sure how that’s relevant. Deadbeats on paper don’t appear to have overlap with prostitution users.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:25 AM
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If men want to go to the third world, fine. Bring them here and they’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:23 AM
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Chad p n d’s women of all smv so this isn’t true. Being super attractive doesn’t mean you’ll get commitment and you know it. Look at all those famous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:21 AM
1

Read the edit of my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:18 AM
2

Read my edit on the original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:18 AM
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Because they are actually paying them to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:16 AM
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It’s not hard to hide. That’s why plenty of men fall for it only to find out later she was a hoe. Those are only the ones that get caught tho, image how many didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:15 AM
2

Yet so many men end up with hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:13 AM
2

I said in another comment that this doesn’t apply to guys who are rich
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:12 AM
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That’s up to them. Young women aren’t tripping over themselves to get with old guys tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:11 AM
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I don’t see the problem with that. A decent amount of men will just accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:20 PM
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They already got the message. Look at the black community (exemplified by hip hop). Coming to a town near you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:19 PM
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??? I’m responding to your post. I didn’t suggest anything. I’m just saying the reason you have for why women don’t respect men they know go to prostitution to get sex isn’t what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:08 PM
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He doesn’t have to. I’m saying the types of guys who saw them usually have low value written on them to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:06 PM
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??? I’m explaining why women look down on men who go to prostitution. Unlike op’s reasoning, it’s not because he spent money on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:05 PM
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Only if they aren’t careful and tell everyone. No one but the guys I was with know what I did
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:04 PM
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With men who use johns there is likely correlation between the mans attractiveness and his likelyhood of going to prostitution. No guy attractive enough to get women is going to them. Most of the guys engaging in this behaviour, even if they lie about it after, their value is low as it was before they saw them. Women of all smv levels can be hoes. Depending on smv before being a hoe, you can still be high value again by simply lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:02 PM
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Idk where you guys are getting this? I’m sure men do but it’s easy enough to erase by simply not letting on that you are. There is no association with a woman’s value before being a slut and her likely hood of being one. You’ll run into 10/10 who seem around and 1/10 that do the same. With men, unless they are rich, there is a correlation. No guy is going to pay for sex unless he’s so low value he can’t get it for “free”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:58 PM
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Men may think it’s low value but is easy enough to just pretend you weren’t like that. And just like that, value is restored. My original comments point was to highlight that your conclusion is ultimately wrong because women don’t care if a man spent money on other women. We don’t. It just looks pathetic when it’s spent on women who blatantly are only putting up with you for money. It says something about the mans value that he had to seek sex out that way. No ones would have an issue with a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:47 PM
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This is wrong. Women don’t like men who use prostitution because it’s seen as a loser thing to do. Like you’re so down bad you can’t get sex for free. It is pathetic. I know guys here will go on about how sex is never free or something about paying them to leave- but, this isn’t true. You’re just low value and trying to deal with that. Edit; this doesn’t apply to rich and easily verifiably attractive men because they are the only ones who pay them to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:33 PM
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I prefer “you aren’t compatible” over “she isn’t attracted to you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:35 AM
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I wouldn’t take the advice of men here on this topic seriously. There’s nothing you can do to convince a guy to take you seriously once they’ve decided not to. You can’t control everything and you shouldn’t need to. Do what you want. Fortunately for you, you’re female so you’ve got plenty of potential options to reach run through in search of... whatever. Keep going on dates with many guys at once. The ones who desire sex in a time frame incompatible to your own are free to stop going out with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:54 AM
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I suspect it’s mostly women recounting their past sex lives with their current partner and letting slip things they used to do— or, a sex tape gets leaked. Ladies, don’t film sex tape ffs!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:52 AM
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Yeah but no one but my exes know I did them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:05 AM
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Thisss. The only thanks they deserve is the $$ in their pay checks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:09 AM
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Anecdotal evidence really doesn’t matter when we have cold hard stats. Just lol at people who use anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:05 AM
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This advice isn’t meant to benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:53 AM
1

Good to know I’m not the only one who experiences this. Orgasm (clit) > penetration > clit stimulating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:45 AM
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None of it holds up when you ask for data. Women marry men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:42 PM
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Most men regardless of age will never have an smv high enough to pull younger women. That’s why I find it so funny when guys here spout this nonsense. The reality is, there is little to no competition from younger women because they aren’t interested in settling down with old men. Old men definitely do try to get younger women, but the majority of them aren’t interested in the majority of old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:33 PM
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Idk why women be telling people what they did with their exes. Just say nothing and that you don’t want to, don’t film anything and no one will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:27 PM
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Lol they are allll like this 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:38 AM
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Read your own comment then ask yourself if it’s fair to blame women for not knowing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:24 AM
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It’s because you (men) can’t get the story straight. We hear different things from different men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:48 PM
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Have sex when you want to have sex. Could be after 1 year with on guy or 1 day with another. You will know when.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:41 AM
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Will men report it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:29 AM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:28 AM
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It will never stop being funny to me how guys like you shame women on heat for being “sluts” when most of the women here are successfully living their best life regardless of the fact (are in relationships if that’s what they want)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:23 AM
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Wow, they really do be losers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:45 AM
0

This
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:11 AM
4

Hm what happened to gimp girl? Don’t really see her around anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 09:07 AM
2

Yeah, but why are men willing to let women in their expensive car to increase their chances of sex but, women are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:35 AM
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Also don’t literally believe in it but for simplicity (I can’t be bothered explaining my views on it everytime I need to use it which is quite a bit) I just parrot it. I agree with the idea that women have significant overlap in the types of men they are attracted to so much so when compared to men. You ask men if they prefer short or tall women or ass or no ass, tits or no tits and they’ll be a debate war in the comments. You ask women the type of guy they like and it’s the same template (tall,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:56 AM
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No, none of my current friends. I know one ex friend who would but it’s only because she’s like a 4/10 and has super low self esteem when it comes to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:51 AM
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Bet these guys watch porn and take away from that how women like sex to be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:49 AM
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None of this is about morality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:06 AM
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Because society at large has an incentive to make women happy. Women are the majority spenders so business will promote things they want to see. Women are majority voters so governments will enact policies that women like. No where in this is and scheming. Just various parties “trading” with each other. Again, I’m not siding with anything. That’s just how things are. Things are the way they are because it benefits certain groups that have the power to enforce things (government, women when it co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:55 AM
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There is no incentive for men to behave badly, acting badly has consequences like jail time and social exclusion. There is just real no incentive for men (if the only incentive they care abt is access to women) to be good. Society doesn’t care what path you take, it has a response for everyone action. You choose the response inflicted. Apartheid It’s wasn’t moral. But in all cases they changed their behaviour to create change. Lots of boycotts that affect money ect. Like all systems it didn’t ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:31 AM
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I’m not advocating anything. I’m just stating how things work. We all have our individual morals but none of them have much impact on how the world works. All I’m saying change isn’t going to happen until certain parties deem it beneficial (due to a change in behaviour in another group) to do so. If men attempted anything, do not be surprised that the parties benefiting from the current system don’t lie down and die. Society isn’t going to just let men act out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:09 AM
1

Look I get the resentment of the system and I reiterate that I’m just giving the facts, what you choose to do with it is your choice. No one else is invested in your personal choices the way you think they are- atleast untill it starts affecting them getting what they want. If you want to go breaking laws and bothering people as a response to reality that’s your choice, but don’t be surprised when the “system “ punishes you for it with jail time or some form of social isolation. As long as the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:46 AM
2

Everyone including the government and media is out for themselves too. Women are the biggest spenders and voters. That should tell you all you need to know. There is no grand conspiracy to screw men over; it just so happens systems that benefit men aren’t conductive to getting re elected or making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:32 AM
2

My point was more along the lines of a strategy given to men made by women will be on how to best give women what they want rather than how to get what you want from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:16 AM
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Well, what I’ve done is give men the the rules of the “game”. What they choose to do with this information is really up to them. If they choose to walk away, that’s their right, no one will stop them. Listen to me, people especially women, do not have your best interests at heart. The only person that truly does is you. I’m not saying the world is out to get you but, it’s naive to believe it’s out to help you get what you want. Women who are benefiting from the system will. Not. Change. It. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:14 AM
3

I think any strategy given by the opposite gender will always be kind of useless because it’s hard to grasp exactly what scenarios are considered good for them as opposed to why is good for you (your gender).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:54 PM
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We say that because it’s reality- life isn’t fair. A woman who is fit has higher smv than a guy that is the same because they are rarer and female. It annoys me to no end that guys complain that women won’t tell them the truth but when we do, you don’t like it. There’s literally no winning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:49 PM
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Forget what the media told you, Women also care a lot about looks. As a result, some of them only prioritise this aspect and end up dating guys with shit lives and personality. Sex isn’t viewed as reward by women- women want to have sex with people they are attracted to and “personality” isn’t as attractive as you may think. Sometimes these people women are attracted to a assholes some times they are not. However they are all attractive. Some women see sex as a tool to get when they want, NOT a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:18 PM
1

They choose one to commit to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:52 PM
1

they are in relationships with multiple men they want a child
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:05 AM
1

How are you supposed to raise kids with such an unstable family unit? You’ll end up with 6272 kids with 2782 different fathers coming around your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:31 AM
1

Will smith
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:33 PM
5

It’s truely astounding how many men can’t take hints (or even outright no) and end up being “used”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:44 AM
3

I absolutely hate these type of men. The actual scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:15 PM
2

Even chad isn’t in a position to withhold sex. He the promise of a relationship to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:22 AM
4

Students regularly have sex in the bathrooms where I study. It’s not uncommon to open the woman’s bathroom door, and hear moaning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:38 AM
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I dont get why guys bother trying to use logic in order to justify shaming women who sleep around. This isn’t something you can just shame away anymore- women who have chosen this path have already decided they don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:18 PM
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Can confirm, my grandmother hated my grandfather. They were together till death because “religion” but she definitely hated him till death lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:47 AM
3

If a guy makes me wait, his dick game better be on point!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:44 AM
1

Cousin fuckers 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:00 AM
1

This lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:08 AM
5

I don’t see a problem with the core strategy of FDS. It works, it’s pretty good advice if you’re a woman just looking for the most financially useful guy. Some women want that and it is in all honesty every woman’s (once they come to the conclusion chads are unattainable to them as an individual) eventual strategy to just get a “beta bux”. I only disagree with aiming to be married young. I just don’t like the people there and the way the present this information. They are all so bitter- look I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:43 AM
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This. You don’t need experience to enter the dating market, only value. Chads were virgins too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:22 PM
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I hate this sub sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:38 AM
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Normally I’d agree but, this post is focused on evolutionary success .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:46 AM
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It can make him a beta bux cuck (the kids he raises aren’t actually his) tho and that makes him an evolutionary loser though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:58 AM
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They don’t seem to actually be female
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:04 AM
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It is helpful for people struggling to wrap their heads around ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:12 PM
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men who actually think women are incompetent leaders men who actually hope the world burns because no women want to sleep with them men who want to go back to a time or country where women have less freedom just so they can get sex men who think women owe them anything for participating in society men who hate abortion and think they should have any rights associated with it. Just a few off the top of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:46 PM
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Most redpill guys are losers even after finding the redpill. Chads don’t need to even know about it. Those are the guys women mess with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:29 AM
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The issue I’ve outlined focuses on the fact there are guys in the real world who fiercely resent me for sleeping with attractive guys and using tax dollars to fund my abortion(s).. for example. The issue is not having men be truthful about who they really are; the issue is what kind of person they really are. Women who aren’t on ppd probably don’t even know guys like the guys here exist like, these are thoughts any guy can even have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:27 AM
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Tbh all this sub has done is make me more suspicious of men irl. Once you start seeing the subtle signs from guys irl that they probably believe in the stuff guys say here, you can’t Unsee it. 90% of guys irl seem nice and are nothing like the guys here but then I realise one of the supposedly “nice” guys I encounter could very well be a guy here in deep disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:00 AM
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Idk why guys complain women dole out sex for things. You guys literally see sex as a reward and get upset when someone you feel didn’t “earn it” gets it. Let me just tell you, it doesn’t work like that. If a woman wants to sleep with a guy for any reason be it after knowing him for 10 minutes or 10 months, she’s free to do so. The truth is, not all men are created equally in the eyes of.. well, anybody. In this era of online dating where people hedge against disappointment by exercising their op…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:52 PM
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Can I just say that happiness levels are no where near indicative of any genders sexual market preferences. It’s just isn’t and it’s either extremely stupid or manipulative to even suggest. It’s simple: way to much has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:32 PM
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Only good answer here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:51 PM
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Disgusts me to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:54 PM
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Closest to my answer here. If they are hot I’d sleep with them. That’s it though. There’s just something embarrassing about dating a guy who makes less than you. Cannot see how that dynamic would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:47 PM
1

This. This is very telling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:45 AM
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There is some truth. Depends. You’ll need to assess for yourself if there are reasons for them to lie in the context. But generally, people are willing to be way more open and honest about their true thoughts and feeling on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:05 AM
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It’s the internet. No repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:00 AM
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This. Idk where this drivel comes from that women were somehow lied to. Most understand that working is the price you pay for your independence from male influence. Because we work, we aren’t dependent on making our husbands happy to get the material things we want. This is the freedom that makes it worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:58 AM
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An excess of male presence. Guys are messaging every woman. Women are selective on apps. Here’s a numerical example of what I mean: Say there are 5 women and 5 men on an app All 5 men message all five women. Each woman in turn has 5 options. Each woman swipes of let’s say 1 of these guys. Each guy gets 1 match. (not even accounting for women’s attractiveness grading system that in reality would skew the female match’s to pool with the top men which would result in even less of a presence of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:39 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:23 AM
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Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:17 AM
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You’ll be surprised how low women with low self esteem and other issues will go when it comes to self respect. It’s sad but definitely not an implausible story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:11 AM
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Some guys are boob guys tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:03 AM
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..what? I literally say looks can’t be substituted with “personality”. Their is no deception or attempt to justify. Only admission that looks are just as if not more important than “personality”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:55 AM
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No sure which you’re referring to but if I’ve seen it I’ve explained why it isn’t viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:23 AM
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Debatable but I’ll cut to the chase; how do you fix that? Opt out clearly isn’t viable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:45 AM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:39 AM
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Never said that. The point is there is no way to implement a opt out for men with degrading society or unintentionally funding “women’s lifestyles”. Its not a right but it is the law. This law exist because it is actually the best way of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:28 AM
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You can’t take people’s kids because they are poor. What is with you guys and believing stepping on peoples fundamental rights is the answer? Like I said, there is a reason no one in the real world is considering this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:12 AM
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Repeat after me: There is no practical way to seperate care for the child from care for the caregiver so you should probably just get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:08 AM
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There are no safety nets in Africa or poor countries and they have the most kids dying and suffering. Taking away safety nets doesn’t fix the problem! It’s stupid to think it does. You are blinded by your hate of women to even see this. No one takes this opt out seriously because it won’t work and will degrade society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:01 AM
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This is so stupid you must be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:56 AM
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That is a description of sex... It doesn’t translate to women being submissive in general. It doesn’t. I don’t know how you can’t understand this simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:55 AM
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We are talking about behaviour. Why the hell are you turning this about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:03 AM
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This is the conclusion of a child. Plenty of living organisms feature males penetrating females while exhibiting no dominant traits in these males. I don’t know how you thought that was evidence lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:01 AM
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No. Then explain to me why when society removes pressure for women to behave this way, few of them do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:53 AM
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The specifics of sex don’t determine behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:52 AM
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That “smooth brain black and white thinking” is the problem the evo psych in the pillosphere. It’s never used properly and is abused to push narratives as truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:36 AM
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You’ve missed the point. There’s no argument in what I’ve said over the dimorphism of humans. This is a criticism of the ways people reach these conclusions. For the record. Men and women aren’t the same but we aren’t nearly as different as some people make it put to be here. Whatever the truth is, we can be sure it isn’t “men are dominant and women are submissive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:19 AM
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From the way people use it here, you wouldn’t even think it was a science. Listen, first fucking rule, you are supposed to base theories of observations of reality NOT what you think reality should be. “Women are hardwired to be submissive” Reality: women aren’t submissive unless you punish them for not being so which also applies to every guy. “Oh women today are broken blah blah something about pairbonding” Me: you’re so fucking stupid. Long story short, leave evo psychology alone, you don’t k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:54 PM
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Why do guys here try so hard to make it seem like their lack of sex is a problem for women? Untill any actual consequences relevant to women actually emerge, why would women care? Its like they know it doesn’t affect women and the compensate by drumming up some epic dystopia that emerges because they can’t get any 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:33 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:05 AM
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Never got preselection. Wouldn’t that mean one woman’s must have liked him first at the very least for reasons other than preselection?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:25 AM
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Its simply the options presented not being worth the effort of a relationship. This being single is preferred
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:59 AM
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The reasons for it don’t really matter I’m the grand scheme of things. If you get what you want who cares? Referring to your original comment; in which way is it helpful for a woman to change their view on the male psyche based on what internet guys say when their beliefs are of no consequence when dealing with real men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:57 AM
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I don’t get why society changing is of any concern to her? If she wants to be alone if she can’t get chad so be it. Society changing as you’ve said won’t make chad want her. You’re just projecting your jealousy of seeing other living their best lives while you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:56 AM
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Men’s actions > words
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:47 AM
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Agree with the last point. The statistics point to women preferring men their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:56 PM
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It’s gross to pretend to be friends with someone just to ask them out. The whole friends to lover thing doesn’t work or apply when the friendship never existed. If any of you enter the friendship wanting the other you’re not really friends. It really shows when guys ghost after you turn them down and go on to “befriend” other women lol. Jesusss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:56 AM
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I think you’re looking for the friend zone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:51 AM
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I know for a fact mgtows are. There’s a lot of talk in their circles about “IQ by race” and “being a race realist”. It’s so pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:48 AM
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I just want to say that a rich woman would marry a guy who works at home depot is he was attractive enough. Never got why people bring up men not caring about wealth as if it is a good thing. Why would men care about a woman’s wealth logically? Women largely aren’t willing to bankroll the lifestyle of a Man Unless he’s very attractive and usually young. So, the only thing left to consider is character and looks. The point is there is no incentive for a man to care about a woman’s financial situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:25 AM
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Did we date the same guy? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:59 AM
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Thsi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:56 AM
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Where the hell do men get this idea from? No women don’t. You are project your fantasies onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:00 AM
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“I don’t care about her income REEEEEEE” Ten years later “What the fuck she took everything in the divorce oh my good REEEEEEE”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:46 PM
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Hm depends if women find the average woman to be more attractive than the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:16 AM
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The larp and bitterness is real with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:07 AM
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If he’s good looking and not just for an old guy, he won’t need money. The reason for the avoidance of old men is because they are uglier. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:02 AM
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I think it should be considered how guys get when suddenly they can’t pay for stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:26 AM
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There are women in relationships with men in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:17 AM
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You know nothing about me xd it’s “..theory..” for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:49 PM
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Where did I even imply that the beliefs I’ve stated were ever remotely my own or that I’m blue pilled? Not spending money but using it as bait doesn’t change the fact the only thing attractive about these guys is their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:08 PM
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No idea where you people got the idea that any of those beliefs are my own. I’m pointing out what they believe and the impact it has on their other beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:02 PM
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Ugh hate when that happens
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:28 AM
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Anthropology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:27 AM
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Tired of people bumping into me because they “didn’t see me there”. Kind of feel like people take me less seriously especially when it comes to physical my boundaries. You’d be surprised how many random guys think it’s okay to try to pick me up and when I tell them off they think I’m joking????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:11 AM
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I’m female lol. Probably should have added that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:17 AM
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The conservative woman provides traditional home services in what she views as a symbiotic partnership. She appreciates and respects their rich husband as a person. The gold digger does no such thing and aims only to take as much as possible without any genuine appreciation or respect. Not only that, he isn’t viewed as a person more than he’s just a bank account that requires social manipulation to dispense his dollars. Think onlyfans creator - simp dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:31 AM
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In America there isn’t any real consequence if a woman isn’t subservient. The examples are nothing alike. The difference between the two is one has choice without serious consequences and the other doesn’t. The consequences aren’t legal but social. A woman not being subservient in Egypt would undoubtedly face much harsher consequences than a woman in America. Its not even compareable. In places like that you get honour killings bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:52 AM
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Random? Ahagahah They are essentially the same thing repackaged to avoid cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:38 AM
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Why is the average age gap only 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:50 AM
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This. Never got why the red pill seems so pleased in their ..theory.. men’s peak is tied to their financial peak. Congratulations, you’ve just admitted your peak value being a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:49 AM
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Not dating related but I’d give 5 years off my life to be a bit taller
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:46 AM
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Actually, compared to other primates, human males produce a relatively small amount sperm a day. And male penises are shaped in such a way to shovel out other male sperm. Men and women’s sexual strategies aren’t as cut and dry as you’re making to out to be. Both and be on either end of the spectrum and biological evidence supports this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:07 AM
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Anthropologically speaking humans have biological features suggesting a history of both. Males have relatively small testicles suggesting a more monogamous life history. However the male human penis is thought to have its shape in order to scope out sperm of other men out of a females vagina. I think humans are both. Its depends on the individual. If monogamy isn’t for you, live that truth. But it’s is certainly far from the truth for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:58 PM
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The Incels on .com are literally what comes to mind when you say incel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:04 PM
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Incels aren’t anywhere near attractive enough to get away with saying the stuff they do. Very few men are. So, when you see a guy acting like your average incel on .com, you’re going to assume the reason they aren’t able to even get an very low value woman is because they are ugly and shitty. There’s literally no benefit to be had in associating with them even if you’re an ugly woman. All this information you can gather from behind a screen even without really thinking about it. It must be added…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:36 AM
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It came off like you’re against these self improvement techniques being marketed to men as the ultimate 10 step program to entering the dating market. Where I disagree is not following the advice. Doing what you want may not get the results you want more than doing everything from easiest to hardest untill you see sufficient results. Also why wouldn’t you do what you think you need? If you’re looking to improve yourself what you need and what you want should be similar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:17 AM
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I mean, if you’re looking on the internet for help attracting women; you’re probably in need of a fair few of those “upgrades”. I don’t see the harm in promoting long term self improvement. I just think there needs to be a message thrown in to both approach women and go on your self improvement journey. That way, when you reach the point of self improvement absolute necessary for your individually determined success; you stop. This way you avoid going overboard and wasting your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:07 AM
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All they prove to me is that using men’s “”suffering “”to make money isn’t a solely female endeavour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:59 AM
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Which part do you have issue with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:58 AM
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The first bit has always happened and been a thing. What’s new is women actually do have a choice, they aren’t mindless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:44 AM
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I feel like the narrative of “women like personality” is just to cover for gold diggers where it’s so obvious she’s not in it for his looks or charm. I don’t know any women irl who actually go around saying they like guys for their character unless they are trying to be nice or not objectify a guy they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:38 AM
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This. Confront any of them and you see the insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:44 AM
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I suspect a lot of the guys there are actually on the spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:40 AM
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I believe it’s super important for Asian women to beware of gross types of men that exist. They have a massive target on their backs drawn on by losers and the media .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:38 AM
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I think men just find out their place in the smv hierarchy faster. For them it stops at the first interaction. You approach a woman out of your league, she ignores or laughed at you. For women this process is no where as clear. You’ll encounter all sorts of guys on all levels giving you attention. Not only that, trying to sleep with you. Sure most are likely going to stop at sex but any guy can do that. It isn’t an immediate sign like being ignored or laughed at is to men. The point is, There ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:38 AM
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I think I have a very ridged type lol racially ambiguous (white + anything not white but strangely I don’t really like white guys unless they fit the following bellow well) dark brown to black hair (can be lighter if skin is dark) eye colour in the range of green - black. athletic build. Fat is a big no not even chub. However skinny is ok as long as they don’t look bone-y. taller than me but taller is better up to about 8 inches taller (5’10) then no benefit is gained from height. cheekbones. no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:45 AM
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I don’t know if finding each other today would have changed anything. For context they are both religious nutcases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 10:34 PM
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My dad was basically chad. I would definitely exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:40 AM
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How about 1/3 or men not getting any?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:44 AM
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“Your people “ don’t agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:41 AM
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It’s annoying when they think women care what they like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:38 AM
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Not sure why you would do worse somewhere you should have even higher value and subsequent success with women. It suggests to me you either had some form of status in high school that didn’t follow you out of there or you became less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:51 AM
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As a guy, you are going to need to make moves. Women aren’t generally or reliably going to throw themselves at you. Ask women out. the only guys who can get away with not doing so are attractive men. Like solidly attractive. Your description of yourself lead me to believe you are of average attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:41 AM
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Often male feminists are only feminists to compensate for their lack of appeal. Just like nice guys. Putting on a fake persona doesn’t make up for ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:48 PM
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The guy with a horse shoe pfp and toughanswers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:20 AM
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Based and Christian pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:38 AM
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I love how varied the responses to this is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:57 AM
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Well if they won’t accept what’s available to them they should accept that they will likely never find anyone and peacefully be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:55 AM
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https://youtu.be/2jixgtCV1Jk One of the top 1% of only fan creators is a overweight 69 year old woman. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:36 AM
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Yeah but why a 69 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:10 AM
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Even then. These people choose to form parasocial sexual relationships with a 69 year old overweight woman where onlyfans is flooded with many better looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:22 PM
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But why? Why would guys spend money every month to see ... that.. when: porn is free porn features better looking women only fans features better looking women That’s the part that’s difficult to wrap your head around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:14 PM
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What!? 💀😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:48 PM
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Yeah. I saw this and really had to think of I even know anyone who’s experienced this. No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:34 PM
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This. If guys were the gate keepers of relationships the way women gate keep sex, even the lowest value guys would be able to find women to date just like even the lowest value women would find men to sleep with them. Hell one of the top 1% of only fans creators is a 69 year old women who’s overweight! https://youtu.be/2jixgtCV1Jk. Even the lowest I tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:32 PM
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They are so dense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:00 AM
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Incels dicks dry af and women hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:13 PM
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I don’t even hate guys In the real world. They are pleasant enough. I just hate the men here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:40 AM
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Elaborate on “catering to our needs”. The advice has always been to leave men who don’t hence men complaining about women divorcing over supposedly minor things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:52 AM
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Possible other reasons: people have less friends and are less close to their families social media affects women’s self esteem a lot rise of eating disorders in women And many morw
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:40 AM
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No. You people always bring this up as if it even means anything in this debate. Men are happier also yet more and more men are having less sex and relationships. I guess I should bring this study up when ever guys argue they think the rise in sexlessness is a problem. You see? Its a hypothesis but the evidence for it is near totally meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:37 AM
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Love when guys say this while at the same time the only blood they probably spilled was from when they they punched their screen in anger over women not giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:28 AM
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How on earth is this evidence that women liked the trad life? I swear you people have no idea how to use studies. So much has changed that you can’t claim it’s because of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:03 AM
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Lmaooo why do men get so angry when it’s made clear to them we don’t actually care at all what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:00 AM
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Lingering around him. Finding any excuse to be where he is and be part of whatever he’s doing. Suddenly you see me a lot more and there’s no real reason for it. A big one is he will likely catch me looking at him. When I say looking I mean “ there’s no reason for her to be looking at me this much wait did I have ketchup on my face... everyday this week?”. I think this is more obvious though if I knew the guy previously as they would be able to better pick up on the shift. Loosening of boundaries…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:57 PM
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Not notably any worse than their girl in any areas that count. She might be a drug addicted 5/10 her bf is of similar character. She might be a 8/10 and her boyfriend is similarly attractive. Basically what they deserve based on who they are. They are great for them. It just doesn’t appear that sluts have to settle any more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:23 PM
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No idea where you got my usage of the word “loser” to be referring to guys how think like that? I meant they typically weren’t ugly/poor/socially messed up in comparison to their partner. Basically there didn’t seem a need for him to suck up to her anymore than any guy typically does to their girl. I understand the social penalties admitting these beliefs, not why they can’t be acted upon? All you’d have to do as a guy is filter them out. No one has to know that is the reason certain women are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:15 PM
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That’s the thing, their boyfriends usually weren’t losers. They weren’t they usually weren’t the type of couples you walk past and think “hmm wonder how he got her”. No doubt men without options settle or starve, but men with opinions don’t even seem to care. I don’t know many celebs who actively choose those clearly low n count women. Looks >>>>> n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:57 PM
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Well Very few ask for an n count in my experience. Most Openly slutty women I know have great boyfriends. Idek just generally feels like looks matter way more than n count to a degree it’s not even comparable. The guys i know aren’t exactly chasing after the meek things. Maybe it has something to do with the whole gen z bad bich trend idk. Its just what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:51 PM
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I mean yeah they are unlikely to comment but, in my experience very few even care to ask tbh. I used to have a few openly “slutty” friends. The guys knew, they still ltr them. Seemed like guys cared way more about looks than something like n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:30 AM
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Men irl don’t care nearly as much about n counts as men here. Men irl don’t seem to hate women or display misogynistic behaviour nearly as much. Men under like 5’8 don’t complain nearly as much about their dating prospects (or seem to struggle even half as much as the men here make it out to be)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:37 AM
1

I think you’ve missed the point. Women don’t care about make virginity. As you’ve said, women care if men are unattractive. An unattractive man being a virgin or not isn’t going to change much for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:32 PM
7

The issue isn’t how explicit what he is saying is it’s the lack of social awareness. He actually gives an example of say this stuff in front of her family 💀. Everyone at that table is going to know what you meant and you’re just gonna look so weird and make everyone uncomfortable. The worst part is he won’t even know that was the outcome he caused.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:00 PM
14

I’m betting on autism. There’s no way any non autist would ever think this was in any way covert. I got uncomfortable just imagining someone saying this irl.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:41 AM
8

Guys famously have no standards when it comes the the women they will sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:55 AM
6

Men do too. Its not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:34 AM
1

Liking anime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:58 AM
3

Idk what world you are living in. Both genders shame simping but to some degree understand why their gender does it. Women hate pick mes. Men hate simps. Both understand why they are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:17 AM
17

Men do the exact same thing when they simp. Pretty privilege is about looks not personality. There’s no nice privilege. Its human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:51 AM
21

No. This is such a low level analysis of the situation. No, women don’t like being treated like shit. Yes, women like hot guys. Yes, hot guys can afford to treat people badly. Yes, women are willing to put up with bad behaviour if you’re hot. No, it doesn’t make women bad or stupid- its just human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:01 AM
6

I think it hurts their egos causing them to act like that. As a woman you are basically told for a young age that every guy wants to have sex with you. So naturally when you encounter a guy that doesn’t you feel like there must be something very wrong with either you or them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:49 AM
1

Taller than me by atleast 4 inches. 2 if he’s really good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:40 AM
0

This seems like the actual truth. You hear this stuff in these circles from men because they mostly “missed out”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:38 AM
1

Yeah people here are definitely like that. I don’t really see the point in going around saying men or women are bad or whatever. They are both fundamentally the same in the fact that they both seek the best deal for themselves. Just because the exact expectations are different doesn’t change this much. Guys are going to try to get (whatever they want in a woman) for as little as possible Women are going to try to get (whatever they want in a man) for as little as possible. Same game, different t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:28 AM
2

what did you expect me to say xd ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:11 AM
2

I think a better example would be some loser wanting a hot mommy bang maid while being a loser, but I think you get the point: you meet their expectations and they meet as little of yours as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:03 AM
2

Its the avoidance of expectations not good looking men. Ideally they’d be good looking with no expectations. Ideally. I’m not saying it’s fair I’m just saying that’s the thinking behind it. That’s why you see women who demand so much but seemingly offer so little.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:00 AM
4

If you know someone isn’t going to be compatible with your lifestyle and you have no desire change your life style, why would you just wait around for them to reject you? If you already know it’s not going to work out why waste time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:37 AM
5

This. Its more that they seem like they would have high expectations that you just don’t feel like meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:19 AM
1

How are you imagining these men “take what is there’s?”. If you stop working you don’t get paid. Its that simple. If you’re talking about not contributing to taxes— if you don’t want to contribute to the society in which you live then by all means leave. Men should take their money where they feel valued. Oh that’s right, those places suck in every other regard. This is all really an empty threat that is only actively acted on by black pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:08 AM
1

How would you stop the immigrants? Men aren’t the majority of voters and men in power benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:31 AM
0

All I’m saying it it’s delusional to think anything else is going to happen in response to men “walking away”. No comment made on its harm or societal impact. Its just the solution they will seek. You already see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:27 AM
-1

There’s a pandemic going on. Naturally there are issues in importing people from 3rd world places because of this. Never said trying to fix the problematic works— just Thats it’s generally preferred as an approach to issues like this. Look at the west
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:23 AM
-1

You dont need an infinite amount of them to do all the jobs your people don’t want to do. We already have immigrants doing jobs like fruit picking and cleaning because people don’t want to do them . Some do cause issues but if it comes down to no one doing a vital job vs some problematic people doing it most will opt to attempt to alter the problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:14 AM
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I disagree with this mentality but I will admit that there are a number of women and men who think like this. People like this a childish. If someone doesn’t meet your needs and refuses to you leave and find someone who does. What you don’t do it dread them into doing things they Clearly don’t care to do for you. Just find someone that wants to if it so important to you .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:59 PM
-5

so unrealistic Do these people not understand that we live in a capitalist society? If men in the west decide to stop doing that kind of work this is what will happen : 1) we get immigrants to do it. That’s it. Even that’s unlikely. Their jobs aren’t doing society a favour. They are working to provide for themselves like everyone else. If they are willing to essentially become NEETs just because women’z don’t like them then so be it lol. I’d love to see them do it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:48 PM
3

It’s sad how often this plays out here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:09 PM
1

Soooo “prime” women aren’t attracted to “prime” men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:41 AM
4

Deadbedrooms sub complaints from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:48 AM
4

Oh i don’t disagree with her unattractiveness, just was unable to pin point what exactly about her was just worse than her sisters
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:00 AM
5

Can someone explain to me what it is about Khloe that’s unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:40 AM
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No. Women only got with old guys in the past because they needed them for financial support. We don’t need them anymore, we have no reason to get with them. Society didn’t do anything. Society tells men not to date younger women and they still very much try to way more than women try to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:22 AM
2

Huh this makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:14 PM
2

The only reason I can imagine a woman paying for sex is : She wants to keep it hushed , She’s gay Sex is free and easy to come by if you are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:13 PM
4

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with preferring to be alone than with someone you would rather be alone than be with— irrespective of your own looks level. Sounds like he’s decided he doesn’t really care about being with women enough to put in the effort or settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:05 PM
2

I think these theories come from guys less fortunate than yourself to have had age appropriate women when they were in their 20’s. It’s probably just a (insert banned word) they used to deal with feelings of having “miss out”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:56 PM
10

If it died how would.. certain guys.. deal with the fact they told themselves they would get young women later after they acquired money... and lost their hair and got wrinkled
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:47 PM
1

Bruh. Why would they lie about their commitment level in a study? There’s no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:44 PM
1

https://www.statista.com/statistics/612174/mean-age-at-first-marriage-in-european-countries/ https://www.theknot.com/content/average-age-of-marriage. First result for the USA ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:42 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Surprised you have the audacity to keep replying with zero valid arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:24 PM
7

I swear the only people I hear talking about how attractive Clooney are middle aged women. Young women don’t care for him. Its kpop guys like V from BTS
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:08 PM
5

Yuh where are the cute kpop boys at!????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:04 PM
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This is so stupid. Women don’t like old men. They like older guys sure but not old men. There’s a reason women avoid them and it isn’t society. Why would old women care what men their age want? Most relationships are between people of similar ages likely because young women strongly prefer it that way. Think about this. Young women fan girl over young teen heart throbs not your stereotypical rugged older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:53 PM
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This. I don’t understand how these guys can’t get it. Women don’t want to be with old guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:49 PM
2

Its not a uniquely female thing. Everyone let’s people they are sexually attracted to get away with more stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:31 AM
2

Define “acting like men”. Because being an asshole isn’t acting like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:11 AM
1

Most women are okay with risking a few good guys slipping through the cracks because of the sheer amount of attention they receive— one is bound to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:26 AM
2

You’d be surprised how many guys act tough but are actually insecure shells of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:01 AM
2

Its anecdotal, but I tried the whole submissive gf thing with an ex after he started complaining about how demanding I was (I hated his friends and how he treated my friends. Don’t date the bad boy your friends all hate y’all ). It was the weirdest experience ever. He just seemed confused the whole time and ultimately reacted by becoming a huge baby. It became a mommy - son dynamic really fast and I hated it the whole time (didn’t last too long after that). Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:11 AM
5

Its sad how often this is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:01 AM
6

What the..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:34 AM
1

This is that pew research link I sent earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:19 AM
1

It doesn’t break down by age and gender but only 1/5 are looking exclusively for casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:17 AM
2

Basic math dude. They marry at 30. You take the relationship length of 2-5 years away from that. They met at 25 on average at the earliest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:16 AM
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I’ll make it simple. Why are there more men than women at 40 looking for commitment. There is almost double. Double. Why is it that if the men who marry, they marry women close to their age? Why? How can you know this and still think women give up looking for a husband because they couldn’t find commitment? Maybe they couldn’t find a guy they wanted but there is statistically an abundance potential husbands out there who are proven to be marrying women their own age. Where in all this do you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:16 PM
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People choosing to not marry and have kids has nothing to do with the theory that a woman’s age affects her ability to get married or commitment. If it did we would see the few men prepared to marry flock to marry younger women. Since if male commitment is at an all time low and women value commitment above everything, wouldn’t the few men marrying have the leverage to find younger brides? The statistics do not support this at all(why are the fewer and fewer men supposedly offering commitment “s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:07 PM
1

You have provided nothing. Seriously. Send me the evidence. You’re the one with the theory you need to prove it. I’m disproving it. You cant propose a theory then have no evidence too back it up. The wall is a theory so prove it with actual relevant data lol. It is clear you never interact with women in real life and believe FDS to actually be representative of most women. The fact you consider sub Reddit’s to be actual evidence is so so telling in judging your competence in backing up your evid…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:10 PM
1

find out why she doesn’t want sex more fix
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:02 AM
1

The bit about lib fems... you need to accept the Majority of women will have their cake (alpha in their youth) and eat it too (beta after). All the evidence points to that. You’re hamstering right now. You have no proof so you make up stuff and twist things. The burden of proof was on you. I have evidence you have n o t h I n g. But that’s ok, I’ve been here before. I didn’t expect you to be any different— they are all the same when their theory’s are exposed to have no weight whatsoever. Avoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:28 AM
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Lol. Case #3 for my bio. The projection is so real. You have no evidence. You just want the wall to be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:16 AM
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If they weren’t we’d still be in the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:23 AM
0

Why? What are you gonna say to get banned? As long as it isn’t incel stuff I doubt you’ll be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:03 AM
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I just write them as a post, then save them as a draft on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:21 AM
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You’re doing it lol. How does anecdotal evidence prove anything? See? My bio stands, FDS attracts women having problems. Dating over 30 is the same. It like going into a therapy waiting room, doing a survey on the people there and coming to the conclusion that all people must be crazy. Yeah well the sample you’re taking from is inherently gonna be more crazy. The majority of women as the statistics show, would not have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:17 AM
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Your calculation is incorrect. The age 27 is the age of proposal. And 5 years is the amount of time in total untill marriage at most. It doesn’t take into account how long the engagement is which actually counts as part of the relationship length. So the real number is : 30 (average age of actual marriage) - years dating before it (2-5). You get the actual number of : 25-28 of when they would have met their husbands. For your idealised set of events to occur women would have to be in relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:07 AM
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I’m trying to find any evidence that there is at any point an age women struggle to find commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:48 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Most older single women (40+) aren’t looking for a relationship. In fact, more men are at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:16 AM
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The average age for engagement is 27 for women https://priceonomics.com/how-long-do-couples-date-before-getting-engaged/ The average relationship length before marriage is between 2 and 5 years. https://www.brides.com/story/this-is-how-long-most-couples-date-before-getting-married Definitely not early 20’s then. Again so much evidence. How is it women being spoiled? If women can afford to act that way they will. Just like chad does. People with options or perceived ones will have higher standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:05 AM
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I don’t disagree about its moral standing, but how will it impact society negatively?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:44 AM
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The data you sent fro the wall doesn’t prove there is actual evidence men’s preferences affect women’s dating prospects. Yea they all like early 20’s, but there’s so much much evidence suggesting they can’t get women that young. The average relationship age gap is 3 years, on average women marry at 30 and more women are in relationships in their late 20 and thirty’s. If male commitment was so valueable and women’s age affects their ability to get it, we wouldn’t see this. Looking at the commitme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:40 AM
1

The wall, pair bonding, women like assholes trope, women finding money in any way attractive and women being happier under pre sexual revolution lifestyles. Just to name a few
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:01 AM
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Hmm I don’t think any moral justification can be found tbh. It just comes down to people aiming for the best they believe they could possibly get. This is further exasperated with OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:56 AM
0

Well to start, it’s statistically impossible for enough commitment oriented chads to exist for every woman. Why would chad care if the average woman won’t commit to average men? I don’t see how one justifies the other
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:27 AM
1

The red pill mostly lol. Sometimes the blue too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:25 AM
2

Found out the hard way after a break up: No, unless they are gay. As soon as things were over, my male “”friends”” stopped caring about me and started demanding (covertly) that I get with them now or no emotional support. It was so gross, cut them all off. Some of them even covertly threatened to side with my ex 💀❗️ I still have guy “friends” but I don’t consider them to be my friends anymore. I don’t rely on them for emotional support and I only talk to them when i want something they can give …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:21 AM
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We need more commitment oriented chads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:01 AM
1

?? But it functions exactly like true independence. Literally name one difference. And my bio needed to be said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:49 PM
1

Men are paying more for less because men aren’t worth very much to women. That’s all. Its a two way thing. You can offer to “pay” as much as you want but if she doesn’t want to “pay” as much for you well too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:08 PM
1

Hope ur joking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:32 AM
4

Whats the point of asking this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:21 AM
2

Well the whole point is the guy in the relationship (unless he actually is a relationship type of guy) is losing because he literally can’t get sex any other way. He has no choice but to put up with it to get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:12 AM
1

No. He’s not entitled to the same treatment. If I don’t meet his Standards he should go find someone that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:05 AM
1

Basically women = bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:33 PM
5

This is the clear solution. Its hard to understand why guys complain about something so avoidable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:32 PM
2

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:26 PM
7

This. I wouldn’t even be dating the guy in the first place if he doesn’t give head. This issue is completely avoidable by going after people who give you what you want. Then you won’t even care how they treated anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:57 AM
1

I think a lot of them either don’t believe in self improvement (genetics) or they have looks maxed and still haven’t seen any change. The evidence should matter. In reality people prefer to hide inconvenient facts or just deny them. People who deny scientific evidence should go back to the stone age Whatever the reason, they aren’t the type to self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:29 AM
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I admire their extensive use of scientific evidence tbh. Obligatory I’m not an incel no ban
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:57 AM
2

Its legal here. I don’t even notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:32 AM
1

... who said spinning plates is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:30 AM
3

Women lose interest in sex within a relationship faster
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:51 AM
1

This is a legal issue. You say all this but none of it matters if the justification doesn’t hold up in court. It proves its a stupid justification that hamsters around the reality that you are not justified to hit someone because they said something you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:21 AM
6

Never settle believing they should treat you better. Its never worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:04 AM
1

Lol honestly try this defence in court. Its not gonna hold up because it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:31 AM
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Not it isn’t. You’ll still go to jail for doing that because you aren’t justified in your actions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:19 AM
2

Believing you are in any way justified in using violence when someone verbally abuses you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:14 PM
2

The real question
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 09:04 AM
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I don’t think these crushes are something the guy finds out about. OP only knows from reading women’s admissions online. Anyone you’re in a relationship who straight up tells you they have a crush on your friend doesn’t respect or value you. Just leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:57 AM
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They only thing you can hope is: You’re dating a woman smart enough to hide it untill she gets over it. she breaks up with you instead of cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:53 AM
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Its not something women exclusively do. Its just most men don’t have a RMV high enough to afford to implement it. Chad implements double standards too. He will take his looks match on dates and buy her things but that 3/10? Only gets calls at 3 am to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:43 AM
5

Leave obviously, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:13 AM
2

If you fail YOU FAIL. If I lose the spelling bee can I beat someone? No. Its not that difficult. You are responsible for your reactions. If you think losing is a justification for being violent you deserve the consequences coming to you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:04 AM
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Lol I hope these guys just say this stuff on the internet. Otherwise jail awaits a lot of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:48 AM
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“Creating an environment for domestic violence”. This is so stupid. There is no excuse for domestic violence. If someone is saying things you don’t like you remove yourself from the situation. If you do anything else you deserve what’s coming to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:45 AM
1

Roast beef is the idea that a woman who has a lot of sex with see her vagina stretch over time. No, I don’t believe in pair bonding. Having a lot of partners doesn’t affect your ability to fall for the next. What having a lot of partners does is create an abundance mentality. You’ll be more willing to let people go for the smallest things once you know there are 8999 other people who want to get with you. “””Pair bonding””” is just men hamstering why having an abundance mentality if you’re a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:44 AM
6

💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:04 AM
1

All three of those have stereotypes of overbearing parents and preference to keep things within their race
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:02 AM
2

Concealed ovulation in human women is there for a reason. (Afbb)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:11 AM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:04 AM
2

People do shame women for having standards. The only reason the female to male shamming is more prevalent in society is because business caters to their profit margins and women are the biggest spenders. Knowing this, it becomes clear why the media is seemingly biased towards women and their narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:02 AM
1

His manifesto
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:13 AM
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Attraction is predictable. Its symmetry and colouring preferences. There are studies where attractiveness that prove attractiveness can be predicted. When isn’t predictable is love. Just because someone is more attractive doesn’t mean you’ll fall in love with them and leave your current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:42 AM
1

What does a wife bring to your life that you can’t get without one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:37 AM
1

How is society forcing men to stay with women? This is so stupid. If you’re talking about marriage, no one told men to get married. They choose to. Men settle just like everyone else. There aren’t enough women who could meet their standards to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:39 PM
1

The promt says all other things being the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:26 PM
1

Ask the guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:25 PM
1

Settling exists. Statistically, the vast majority will have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:24 PM
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I don’t disagree on how essential or basic it is to a guy. Just if a guy goes out into the dating world and find no woman who doesn’t think that he should be okay with being alone or drop the requirement. There’s no shame in choosing not to date people who don’t meet your requirements. I guess what I’m trying to say is no one is entitled to finding someone who meets their requirements but you are entitled to choose to remain single if you find no one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:53 AM
2

Its just based off personal experiences. Likely doesn’t reflect the wider world. The truth is, I don’t know who does it more. But on reddit I think its men because of the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:44 AM
1

It sounds like providers aka your average husband was respected because there weren’t any chads regularly existing for any comparison to be made between them. Basically with chad removed, Tom from accounting is at the top of the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:38 AM
1

When it’s purge all other pills seemingly go on holiday. Especially blue. As this is a debate sub, that’s pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:34 AM
1

I didn’t mean to imply there is something wrong with them being here. In fact I think its pretty pointless banning them. Just keep the high quality post filter up and most of the issues they bring are eliminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:28 AM
3

I laughed when I saw how many votes for livestock xd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:25 AM
3

I swear the majority of guys here are blackpillers skating around the normal rules of ppd designed to identify and remove them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:23 AM
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I can get with that. I’m curious, could chads even exist pre revolution? If most women are loyal and married where are the multiple women a chad could have sex with consistently?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:21 AM
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I agree. How about the top 20% of guys? What would benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:13 AM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:07 AM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:07 AM
1

Wait how am I a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:00 AM
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They why are you even asking? Chad does it better anyway xd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:49 AM
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Irl? No. Both seem to do it at similar rates. However if you compare FDS to the Redpill, the red pill guys are way more likely to try to use jealousy to make women like them. I’m pretty sure it’s literally one of their tactics. Think they call it “pre selection”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:47 AM
3

You know the likely answer then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:43 AM
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Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:39 AM
4

Wasn’t it found that facial attractiveness correlated with women cumming
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:37 AM
3

Bro she just doesn’t like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:35 AM
2

Personally go about cleaning any evidence online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:20 AM
2

You’re telling me it isn’t common for people past 30 to hear stuff like “why haven’t you found somebody yet” ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:19 AM
2

How is that relevant to what I said? Doesn’t matter what you end up doing people will expect you to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:06 AM
2

Enjoy the decline like they say. Its inevitable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:04 AM
10

This is PPD. Where guys actually believe in roast beef and pair bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:14 AM
1

If they drop out how will they pay for their copes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:12 AM
3

Past your 20’s people expect everyone to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:39 AM
1

Your position overlaps too much with mgtow to stand on its own as a separate pill. You’d probably just be classed as a non lib mgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:04 AM
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Voted for other because I wanna see results
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:01 AM
2

So mgtow?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:58 AM
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You’re allowed to leave for any reason. Any. You just have to be prepared to accept the possibility that you may never find anyone willing to meet your requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:57 AM
2

Be honest, it’s mostly done to gain favour
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:19 AM
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Tell that to everyone who’s mad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:03 AM
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I don’t speak for all women. Only myself. If most other women are saying something else, go with that. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:52 PM
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He never asked any girls out. He didn’t. He expected they to just come to him and offer a blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:46 PM
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No one wants to be settled for, be glad women are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:45 PM
1

The guy on the far right isn’t ugly at all. He still has a awkward smile like the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:44 PM
1

Yeah I can, just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:42 PM
1

He would have got girls where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:41 PM
3

Then you’re by definition, volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:38 PM
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That’s the thing. You don’t know how high it is. There’s so many stories of men finding out some time after a relationship has been established the true past of his gf/wife. And those are just the ones caught
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:36 PM
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You said a few comments ago, men building their value marry the first woman to give him the time of day and that woman on average is 27. I’m saying there is no evidence age affects women’s prospects in any meaningful way. Lots of evidence to the contrary tho. Anacdotal and statistical. I think there is a study floating around where they found men, regardless of age found 20 year olds most attractive. Average age gap is 3 years. This suggests these older women bring some value that men marry them…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:34 PM
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This. He’s probably like Eliot and has some issue socialising
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:26 PM
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Honestly it’s the facial features and haircuts and general awkwardness I’m getting from their postures and smiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:18 PM
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Pass the phone to Tyrone, I wanna hear his input too. In all seriousness, I never said they weren’t worth of love and if I implied that, that’s not what I meant. I just said they are unattractive. I don’t believe simply being clean is enough to be average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:16 PM
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You’d have to be pretty stupid to volunteer to associate your real life self with this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:01 PM
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Am I the only one who thinks Eliot was attractive? He was just mentally ill. No? I’ll just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:00 PM
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I’m sorry if I added to any unfounded feelings that you may have of women having unrealistic standards. These guys (if they didn’t just publicly label themselves incels) are in all likelihood going to find a girl at some point. I’ve seen worse looking guys in relationships. Literally neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:58 PM
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Wow. I must have high standards for not finding simply being clean and presentable to be average attractiveness??? The bar must be on the floor. I never said they were undateable. But they aren’t far at all from what I expected incels to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:54 PM
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Out of curiosity what do you rate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:42 PM
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The majority of women that want to marry will have to settle for what’s there. You cant actually tell me these guys are the type you’d expect to be orbiters atleast?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:40 PM
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Yes but marrying out of wedlock doesn’t solve anything it only decreases it. Kanye was singing about child support not alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:38 PM
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Why does it matter? If she’s leaves child support is still a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:34 PM
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Most are still ugly. Like only one guy is even remotely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:29 PM
2

It demonstrates increased commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:27 PM
1

Have you heard of the bait and switch?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:26 PM
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What’s the point of having done all that and being unable to leverage it to get anything? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:16 PM
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Most men choose pre Most women choose post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:56 PM
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White men have money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:59 AM
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Why don’t white guys just tan and dye their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:58 AM
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If I were you I’d save the quality posts for after purge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:21 AM
1

Join the poll: https://www.reddit.com/r/PPDpolls/comments/q0ezaw/people_of_ppd_would_you_rather_all_other_things/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Would you rather live in a pre or post sexual revolution society?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:15 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PPDpolls/comments/q0ezaw/people_of_ppd_would_you_rather_all_other_things/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:14 AM
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Interesting I’ll make a poll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:02 AM
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Wdym stick the landing? Why would women want early marriage? The trends seems to point to it getting pushed back later
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:01 AM
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I have denied repeatedly that there is any evidence for a wall. All you’ve provided so far is rationalisations in response to evidence flying in the face of its existence. How is it bad logic to look for HVM (which women already do) when young (the true majority of cases, it’s simple math, most women will have to settle there’s no way around it) only to give up, and settle? You might as well have fun while looking. Who’s to say young women won’t commit when given an actual high value guy? You’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:00 AM
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If that was the goal then it worked pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:27 AM
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Idk. Let’s put it this way, if you asked any woman if she would rather live pre or post sexual rev which do you think they are most likely to say? Do the same thing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:27 AM
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No. The number of women getting HVM is set in stone because it is only limited by how many HVM exist. More women settling down younger won’t increase the number of HVM. Settling down younger only marginally increases your chances of finding a HVM to marry. In summary, your chances are already pretty slim, might as well have fun before you settle with beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:48 AM
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Blue pill: Some arguably ugly but funny Asian guy had girls after him in high school. I actually know a incel in real life. They don’t know I know. It is 100% their personality. There are guys with his height and face with girls. I know he’s an incel because one time we were hanging out and he mentioned was low key trying to black pill us? 💀 everyone was confused and I also pretended to be. Mgtow pill (yellow sign pill) I personally know a chad who gave up on dating because “women ain’t shit”. R…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:12 AM
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No other pill brings race into things like incels do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:43 AM
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Sad how accurate it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:41 AM
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Never got the pushing. You’re just asking to go to jail at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:40 AM
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Asexuals exist. There are no people exempt from needing any other needs tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:37 AM
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27 isn’t young or getting “her best years”. This whole thing has gone off track so ima just simplify things: what is the evidence that the wall actually exists? average age of marriage 30 average relationship age gap 3 prime is early 20’s high value men only want young women apparently women already seek high value men when they are young they just don’t commit they settle at 27 apparently for a “HVM” who just finished improving himself. (How are they high value if they can’t get what men want: …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:33 AM
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I don’t concern myself with the opinions of men on what does or doesn’t constitute respecting myself. We will never agree I accept that and I also don’t feel the need to have to align our views. I do what I want when I want. I respect only my own desires when it comes to what I choose to do with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:56 AM
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Maybe to you but that’s not my concern
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:49 AM
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Why would I care lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:47 AM
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Of course it’s new and most people aren’t pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:46 AM
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Yep. America isn’t even progressive compared to some other developed places
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:45 AM
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But those guys these women are dating at 20-27 aren’t high value yet. Women chase and sleep with high value men. Not high value in the making. That’s why I said they are probably betas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:44 AM
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I swear you’re running around me in circles. Isn’t what you’ve described beta bux?? Aren’t these the guys the red pill talks about ending up in dead bedrooms? Guys who had to build their value often didn’t get anything while they were building it. They were probably some woman’s orbiter untill she reached 27 and realised chad isn’t going to commit. How does this match what the redpill says?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:39 AM
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Having abs don’t make you a chad. Having abs and a nice jaw, height and eyes makes you a giga chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:31 AM
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Greater than my age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:26 AM
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Because actual high value men are rare and by red pill logic these men would only seek the best of the best AND by your own logic men value youth and beauty. 9/10 20 yo is peak by your definition. Why wouldn’t they be the ones getting the HVM? Why would HVM marry a woman past her prime much less an unattractive woman when by their very definition they are desired by all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:22 AM
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What do you mean we don’t want to admit? This whole post if filled with women saying they don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:45 AM
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I understand the whole high value pairs with high value. What doesn’t make sense why you think the wall still exists when all the evidence point to it not. There is no threat from men women’s age marrying younger. Women choose to marry when they get off the cc, which you’ve said is 25? Right after college? This doesn’t add up with the redpill stance that women spend their 20’s on the cc only at 30 to go “where have all the good men gone?” I’m struggling to see the evidence for any wall at 30. Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:43 AM
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Its not but you took the risk. You cant say you don’t want to take responsibility for your choices just because you didn’t like the outcome. How is this cited for abortion? They have to option to terminate something in their body and they do. Its not any more complicated than that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:31 AM
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Not gonna happen where I live, that’s for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:29 AM
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This isn’t true in the west. Guys aren’t marrying virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:28 AM
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Men too. You take responsibility for having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:26 AM
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Chad thundercock and Stacy tinyslit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:06 PM
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This. Why haven’t they thought of this before? So much for being the logical gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:35 AM
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Based and green pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:34 AM
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I think at this point that’s not gonna happen. Women are firmly in the workforce and would likely double down on it in response:
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:26 AM
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I agree it’s irresponsible but it’s not a mistake, it’s a choice. https://medium.com/publishous/poor-choices-are-not-mistakes-ed1d9d8e5345 First result.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:19 AM
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And and only virgin you’ll ever touch is your own hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:14 AM
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What’s wrong with safety nets
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:09 AM
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We understand some men do hold the perspective of virginity being important. We just don’t care because there is no reason to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:08 AM
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The second mistake isn’t a mistake. Its a choice. In order to make the second mistake by your logic, she must have known before the second choice that she was going to raise the kid alone then decided to do it anyway. That’s a choice not a mistake. She could have aborted if she wanted to avoid the second “mistake” . She clearly didn’t want to in your scenario so she made the choice. Before hand both in he mans first mistake and and woman’s, is possible they didn’t know what the person was. But w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:05 AM
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The vast majority of men in the west marry non virgins no problem. Knowing this, why would any woman feel unworthy when men have by their actions, determined she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:54 AM
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Its not a second mistake if you know you have the choice to get rid of it after the fact. Her choice comes later his is before sex for the time being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:52 AM
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Let’s say women understand. Now why should they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:50 AM
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He made the poor choice to have sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:47 AM
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I don’t think it’s welfare the messed up the black community. For so so many years they were actively prevented from bettering themselves through work and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:46 AM
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Yet I don’t see it being taken away just counting on people to save for their own retirement. Because no one want to risk irresponsible people not responding to increased consequences. Its just a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:22 AM
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Your “”””argument””” has so far consisted of: its not fair! its not natural! Lol so much for being logical eh? Sometimes it’s better to just admit you don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:09 AM
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If that’s true then do women not ride the cc ? If they met me average guy at 20 or whatever they must have been with his men untill they married. Where’s the time for chad? Not to mention how that doesn’t fix anything. It doesn’t change the fact that most women marry when they are older and men marry them older. Where is the evidence of a woman’s age affecting her ability to get what she wants? Where’s the incentive for women to actually care that men don’t like that they had fun in their 20’s? …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:04 AM
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Irresponsible people are already shamed. No, getting rid of pension completely is nearly the same as getting rid of child support. You’re throwing them to the wolves completely by leaving them to deal with the consequences of their actions. Only it’s way worse with child support because children are the ones that suffer and single parents don’t have decades to prepare for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:44 AM
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Most women aren’t looking to settle down young so where are these women these men hope to marry? The statistics show that most relationships have a 3 year age gap. 3. Not to mention most marriages occur later in a woman’s life (not sure in the exact age) So either - men can’t get young women to marry - men don’t prefer to marry young. And here we are, age doesn’t in any meaningful way effect a woman’s options
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:38 AM
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The reasons women can have abortions are biological. Its their body. I can’t have by balls removed cus I don’t have any by virtue of being born a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:35 AM
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.. and somehow taking away financially support is going to make those statistics better? Irresponsible people will always exist. These broke single mother you hope to get rid of by taking away their financial aid are irresponsible. Why do you honestly believe they will act more responsibly? By your logic we should also cut pensions because people should have been responsible and saved for their retirement and not providing a safety net will make them to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:32 AM
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I live in a western country too and I’ve never seen in irl too. And the few white x Asian couples I see are almost always both bottom of the barrel from their respective races. I respect what everyone else is seeing but I don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:27 AM
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And perhaps this way works well so no ones in any hurry to change it or risk a child’s potential upbringing hoping irresponsible people will be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:24 AM
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I missed nothing. Because of biology, things can’t always be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:22 AM
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Humans are PART of nature. We do things that aren’t “””natural””” all the time. Something not being possible without human technological advancement doesn’t make it bad. Surgery isn’t natural and I don’t see you going around telling people to avoid it. Yeah, okay let’s live completely naturally guys, let’s go back to the caves bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:08 AM
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They aren’t. But it’s in place for society to actually function. Can’t have single mother households running worse statistics that they already do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:05 AM
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There’s no need to ban it :) it exist and is her choiceeee
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:02 AM
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Ya still haven’t explained your justification for what’s natural or not woo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:02 AM
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Its isn’t the women’s choice 💀 trying to justify it by saying we are an equal society is so dumb. There are biological realities you just have to accept. Men are stronger than women there’s nothing to be done about it. Women carry babies, there’s currently nothing to be done about it. Its her body and she can choose to what happens to it. Men because of biology only have a choice before sex. Take responsibility’s for your actions and stop having sex if you don’t want the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:59 AM
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And killing cows for my dinner is? How interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:55 AM
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This was literally how it was in the past for women before child support and birth control. Its a biological reality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:54 AM
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He personally shouldn’t have had sex with her then 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:52 AM
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Its a service provided by people. It’s natural and has nothing to do with fairness only biology
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:47 AM
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Abortion is females choice sex is the mans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:46 AM
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Your say was when you choose to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:46 AM
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Anddd ima use my rights to shit on them 🤷‍♀️ gib child support and alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:43 AM
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Probably younger. But it’s a losing bet. There’s only so many high value men so the chance of getting one to yourself is already very low even if you’re ahead of the game at and ready to settle down at 20. The chances decrease even further because men that valueable are going for young women who are the hottest. Since the majority aren’t going to be the 9/10s these men want settling is all but inevitable for the majority of women. It’s better to just spend your youth having fun rather than wasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:36 AM
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The whole idea with the wall is : after a certain point the tables turn in men’s favour because after a certain age women struggle to get what they want. It’s supposed to be a number, an age or a point in a woman’s life where things stop working out. You’re probably right about that being the reasons for the delusion, but here’s where I believe the disconnect to be: The problem is, no matter how much hamstering they do trying to change what these women supposedly want that they can’t get past th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:15 AM
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Not even going to bother arguing with you over how unrealistic it would be to get a law locking up people for doing what they want with their bodies. Punishing people for having a child while being poor does nothing to solve the problem of there being a child that suddenly needs to be looked after. Punishment doesn’t stop the crime from happening. Especially if it something they really want to do. Having children is one of these. There will always be people willing to do it anyway the same way p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:02 AM
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Statistically speaking, no matter what women do it is unavoidable that the vast majority of them, (if they want to marry) will have to marry a sup par guy. There’s no way to avoid it. The wall doesn’t change this fact. Even if every women married at 20 and was a complete pick me. Its not possible. The wall does nothing to change this reality. This reality isn’t evidence of any “”wall”””
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:52 AM
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That’s probably exactly what some guy said 40 years ago before the free love movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:48 AM
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You’ll be waiting awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:47 AM
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Everyone is out for themselves tbh. It’s important to acknowledge the reasons for a behaviour rather than just attributing it to being a bad person. I’m sure you would have “unreasonable” standards if you had to filter through all the piles of attention you got. This isn’t even to mention that for a lot of women, being alone is preferable to being with a guy they don’t really want. There’s nothing selfish about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:47 AM
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I’m not sure why men demonise women for not outright telling every short ugly guy they are unattractive and also demonise women for having physical demands for men I don’t go around telling men exactly why they are unattractive because it’s rude. The only way I could go about this to try to give helpful yet honest advice is by pointing them to way they might fix the issue. But that’s the problem, a lot of these problems you can’t fix. No woman wants to go around basically bullying men into reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:13 AM
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Society is fine the way it is now with legal abortions and no opt out. I’m sure if someone made a graph plotting legality of abortion per country against gdp there would be a correlation. This isn’t say that having abortion rights increases gdp or the economy or anything like that. The point is, it does no harm to anyone but men who don’t like having to pay for children they didn’t want. Introducing something like opt outs without finding a way to not push responsibilities onto others it’s a bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:08 AM
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Muscle doesn’t make you attractive to women the way you think it does. If your face is ugly and you’re short you’re just a ugly short man with abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:53 AM
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You guys can’t even agree on anything. I spoke to a guy here who denied men have any problems getting casual sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:44 AM
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Idk. But I believe in letting people do what they want where there is no victim to be made from their actions. This expanded to every area of society
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:42 AM
2

Hahahha thisss is the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:39 AM
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Abortion isn’t a right? Its a service. If you can’t afford it or are unable to get it for any reason you don’t get it. Its not something (atleast where I live) that a woman is entitled too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:37 AM
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Opt outs will never be a thing untill you can find a way to opt out and not push your responsibility into the tax payer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:34 AM
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This lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:33 AM
3

Idk how people still believe the wall. Most women get married after the wall. So what exactly is it that women can’t do after”” the wall”””
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:30 AM
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I suspect Guys that date multiple women without telling each one about the others. Untill more research is done we can’t really know. But it’s unlikely to be because most women are dating older if on average its only 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:27 AM
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Lol. Do you want women to be concentrated to a smaller and smaller percentage of men? That’s what’s going to happen if polygamy is brought back. Then you’ll complain no women want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:53 AM
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You cant tell a persons n count before sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:34 AM
3

He’s ugly but with muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:32 AM
1

You don’t get it. Male protection has been commodified. We pay policemen with our taxes. We have taxes for society to actually function
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:23 AM
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Stop saying this. There are a few countries where prostitution is legal and it hasn’t changed gender dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:11 AM
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The average relationship age gap is 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:48 AM
1

Men die sooner than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:38 PM
2

This is how you spot the 1 IQ redpillers from the rest of them. They can’t understand basic things like this. It annoys me to no end how many guys actually believe women like assholes 💀. I swear these guys just don’t want to accept looks matter so much to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:52 PM
10

No but my grandmother was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:13 AM
2

We are simply doubling down on our human reproductive strategy of increasing investment in a fewer number of young. The higher the investment the fewer young. The idea is that the few you do have will have been invested in so much that they will be near perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:48 AM
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They really don’t get it. This new reality is only a worse deal for men. I would much much much rather live now than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:39 AM
17

Ngl better than being barefoot and pregnant to a guy I don’t even like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:25 AM
1

I can’t, this is too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:20 AM
2

Why did you bring autism into this?? 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:16 AM
1

I can tell in like the first few seconds of knowing a guy if I like him. If ive determined I don’t, I never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:14 AM
1

Fat -> not fat -> lean That’s it. That’s as far as your would need to go. Anything else overboard and only really impressive to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:08 AM
9

Wouldn’t you say that say 30 years ago the number of simps wasn’t nearly high enough for something like onlyfans to exist and and be as successful as it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:42 AM
3

What’s up with onlyfans then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:35 AM
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Why do men seek modern women more and more despite endlessly complaining that they bring nothing to the relationship? What I said isn’t overtly communicated- You just notice it. If you aren’t attractive you need to provide resources upfront (prostitution or sugaring) or over a great amount of time (marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:13 AM
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It is not accomplishment whatsoever for a woman to have a FWB. Its easy. And to be honest a lot of guys need to actually bring something to the table (resources, In undivided attention or whatever else) to be worth being associated with if they lack physical attractiveness. A man not committed isn’t going to be able to provide this and without the physical attractiveness to compensate, its not worth it. Unless of course the guy is very wealthy and can afford to make up for May shortfalls with mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:05 AM
0

If men died a lot in wars in the past, wouldn’t that mean a lot of families were characterised as being a single mother household?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:20 PM
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Even if every woman was chaste, the majority would still have to marry a less than ideal man. There’s no guaranteed benefit for a woman to be low n count if she doesn’t herself wish to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:17 AM
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What world do you live in? The majority of women in the west get married at an older age, so you can assume they had a hoe phase. Being slutty in this day and age doesn’t affect ability to get a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:18 AM
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This post proves red pill guys know absolutely nothing about women. Geez, there are guys saying women are attracted to k pop men because of money or fame. How did they get famous?? How? They don’t appeal to men so women are their audience. There are plenty of masculine famous men, why aren’t they as popular?? Serious question. Red pill guys just can’t accept they actually know very little about women and “”masculinity”” isn’t going to improve their chances with women the way they think it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:23 PM
2

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:01 PM
2

I’m not saying the mother cares for the father to be involved. I’m saying that her children would want their father. As she was also once a child, she too would want to have a relationship with her father and their grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:43 AM
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For a lot of people a happy relationship is where they are getting what they want. There isn’t too much consideration of what they want as long as you get what you want. The majority of women can get a guy to give them what they want without having to be a pick me. They don’t have to do they dont. That’s my point. Only women who feel like they aren’t good enough would think to sweeten the deal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:19 AM
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This. Its not that hard to understand that not every guy is worth the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:29 AM
2

Think about it this way: why would someone who can get a man without doing anything feel the need to sweeten the deal? Answer: low self esteem or generally being unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:59 AM
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You don’t get what these women are like lol. They tend to have few or no female friends because they are embarrassing to be around and they think every woman is competing from her male “friends”. These girls are friends with mostly guys and think they are cool girls for that. One of the boys types.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:52 AM
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No one tell women to work on their personality because it won’t really affect them. Simps will simp for a nice hot girl or a mean one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:49 AM
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I dont think that would appeal to most women. We gotta remember that women are always someone’s daughter. Girls would want a relationship with their father. This is mirrors what seems to be happening in that community I mentioned. The children from there are hearing about the western concept of family and beginning to want to live like that and have relationships with their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:29 AM
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Ideally I’m what ever Oprah is or the cool aunt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:36 PM
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Oh wow this brings back memories. They also believe that fathers aren’t actually fathers in the sense that they are biologically contributing to the child’s creation. He’s “just a spray” and the child has always existed inside the mother. It crazy how different societies can be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:59 AM
2

This. Investigate your head shape and what haircut would suit you. Just looking at you now I think you’d look pretty good with no glasses and longer hair say, up to your checkbones?
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:42 PM
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You should look into cooperation with human linages. It’s pretty much what you’re describing and is actually pretty natural
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:26 AM
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The average age gap is like 3 years. So no, it can’t be that common
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:19 AM
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Its only boasting if you see it that way. That’s her reality, she doesn’t need to apologise for her existence just because you envy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:35 AM
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This is pretty true. When I hear about guys who let their bi gfs have sex with random women I roll my eyes. Do they really think she is out there only fucking women? You’ve given her the perfect excuse to be out of the house doing who knows what.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:35 AM
3

This. They will never get it. They can scream forever about it, we don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:17 AM
2

Only if they are seeking commitment from men most women choose to casually sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:11 AM
1

This is probably it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:31 AM
1

God isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:23 AM
1

This is probably the best summary of men’s dating problems on PPD. None of this bs blaming dating sites and feminist propaganda. Its so simple yet few see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:19 AM
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What are you going to change to make women care about doing those things? That’s the real question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:12 AM
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Its a revenge fantasy. Everything points to that. They won’t let it go regardless because then honestly think they will turn into incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:08 AM
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This. This is why I will never stop telling women to have their own source of income. Never be dependent. Its not about “trying to be a man” or what ever stupid shaming language RP guys use; it’s about having the freedom to make the choices you want without having to consider anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:17 AM
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Never got why men scream that they don’t care about a woman’s career when it so clearly matters down the road lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:10 AM
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If he can afford to have you be a stay at home mom and life comfortably, all women will be interested because money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:57 AM
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This. There is still simps everywhere in those places. You might even argue it’s worse there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:44 PM
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I hate it hereeeeeeeee so so many degenerates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:18 AM
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Were you happy about it? One of my exes would always get uncomfortable and weird when anyone said anything about his ass. From then on, I kinda just assumed all guys don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:06 AM
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I said men I’m not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:56 AM
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I’m talking about the statistics floating around here that about 50% of young men aren’t sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:52 AM
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Chat controls relationships Women control sex Most men control nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:19 AM
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Not sure why you’re make a generalisation based on your life experiences and willingly discarding both statistics and common anecdotes that are the opposite of your experiences. Seems to me, the majority of men aren’t doing so well in this day and age. There’s a reason the majority of pua dating couch things are targeted towards men. There’s a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:04 AM
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Just wondering, why are men complaining about the dating market far more than women? Why is is nearly always men wishing they could go back in time? The delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:39 AM
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I dont like knowing random men I’m not attracted to are thinking about my boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:00 AM
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This lol. For me it’s like a see you, think hes hot then keep walking. Unless I know I’ll him again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:49 PM
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Doesn’t fit the narrative so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:48 PM
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They probably like nice ankles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:40 AM
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I’m talking about fat people claiming being fat makes dating harder. At this point they are the status quo. If they are all trying to date each other where’s the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:59 AM
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Then if the majority of them aren’t trying to date slim and the majority of people are fat, why would the be struggling? There’s an abundance of people who in theory should be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:32 AM
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I swear I will never understand why other women care if a guy watches porn? Unless it’s an addiction who actually cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:06 AM
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Never got how it would make dating harder. The majority of people are overweight. Unless you’re all just try to date slim people, none of you have and leverage to demand anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:02 AM
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You’re rich. Women who like a certain lifestyle aren’t too picky with the age of the person attached to it. I never got the resentment for women who didn’t like you. You didn’t have anything of value to them back then. You wouldn’t date a woman who didn’t bring value into your life so why would they? I’m not saying you should forget that they weren’t into you back then, I’m just saying that’s how things work and you shouldn’t be upset. The women you’re going after now would have rejected 25 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:21 AM
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This, but mix in the fact humans can contemplate their own existence and we get why we are the way we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:38 PM
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Things I assumed you would believe: Men peak at 30 and from there supposedly have the power to dictate who they commit to. Okay if men peak at 30 and have leverage in the dating market, and also still want younger women, why would they marry women only 3 years younger? That’s barely younger at all and doesn’t match up to men parroting here the statistical findings that men regardless of age find women in their 20s most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:35 PM
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This is why you cant argue properly with these types. They don’t believe what they do because they know its true, they believe it because they hope it’s true. When you try to take away the revenge fantasies you reveal the shell of a person who sought out such delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:16 PM
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Oh my life! Look at these guys denying stats when they don’t fit their narrative! Wow I’ve never seen this before! Redpill bro science isn’t science. Its copious amounts of cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:13 PM
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Clearly doesn’t apply to the majority of men if the following is true: - women peak in their 20’s - the average age gap is 3 years - men peak at 30 (implying they are the most attractive to women at this point physically lol) - men want youth. One of these things has to go. The statistics not add up boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:04 PM
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Anecdotal. Don’t know why you even commented this. We’re taking about statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:01 PM
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I don’t know why people care about a number. I could tell you any number. The more you make a certain number seem bad, the more likely people with that number will tell you what you want to hear. Its so pointless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:45 AM
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No matter a woman’s age, high value men are always hard to get. Women “at a certain age” only notice this fact because by then, they want to settle down. When she was in her 20’s it wasn’t a problem that HVM only wants her temporarily, she felt the same. Its interesting how when ever guys try to defend their point that women must like older guys, suddenly the words get mixed up and older guy becomes synonymous with rich and successful like that was what you meant all along. There’s nothing attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:18 AM
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No one considers 5 years to be a lot past the age of like 20. When people typically talk about age gaps, they are talking about some 20 year old with a 30 year old. Not a 25 year old and a 30 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 08:13 AM
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If women are attracted solely to successful men and they are older, why is the average age gap only 3 years? Something isn’t adding up here and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:23 AM
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You aren’t getting it. If only 7 percent of relationships are 10+ age gapped That means only 7 percent of men are currently successfully dating women younger than them by 10 years. That’s so so small if you believe what men say here: all men want younger women. Well, if all men want and “a lot “ of women want, why isn’t the statistics much higher? There is no reason for it to be low— unless, women don’t actually like dating older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:18 AM
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You’re delusional if you believe the majority of guys can even say that. If the average relationship age gap is like 3 years and every older guy wants young women, why isn’t the statistic higher? Clearly young women largely don’t want anything to do with old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:10 AM
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It’s just like the wall. They deluded themselves into believing that after being rejected by women in their 20’s that suddenly when they turn 30 all these women who rejected them will be desperate to be with them and young women will be absolutely desperate to be with them now. I laughed everytime I think about it. All I have to say is a lot of them are going to have a huge wake up call at 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:01 AM
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Telling women they aren’t entitled to something while they are clearly still able to get said something is stupid. If you want women to stop being entitled, you need to take away what they feel entitled to. People don’t feel entitled to things they know they can’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:11 AM
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What abortion ban? Don’t live in America lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:42 AM
1

That would be the moral thing to do. Not everyone cares about morals so you need to consider that risk before you do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:41 AM
1

Yeah, explain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:28 AM
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The woman leaving you after the child is born should be a risk considered before deciding to have sex with her. Even getting her pregnant despite using a condom should be considered as possible risk before you do anything. Risks. They are everywhere and unavoidable if you let them be. The only 100% way to avoid child support is to not have sex. If you choose to have sex, you implicitly accept the risks no matter how tiny. Yes, it’s sad something like that can happen, but it does happen. I’m sorr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:24 AM
2

Look at this dude 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:06 AM
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Very. Watch them start spouting nonsense like “sex is a need there’s no option I must have sex with womenzz!!!” The only people who’ve got it right here are MGTOWs. They At least they understand that to avoid risks you STOP doing the activity, NOT complain about the risks expecting them to magically go away because you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:39 AM
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They don’t want to admit this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:33 AM
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This is why I don’t feel sorry for guys stuck with child support anymore. You choose not to use your absolute choice to not have sex to avoid the situation you’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:33 AM
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Its isn’t. You’re delusional if you think the government won’t just eventually give up and import people from the 3rd world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:15 AM
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Its more likely they will continue to glamourise single motherhood and going to sperm banks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:13 AM
2

Enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:11 AM
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Gay men seem to be doing fine. I remember reading somewhere lesbians had the highest rate of domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:46 AM
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Read. It. Again. The whole thing. You don’t even know what you’re talking about. I repeatedly said “no matter how small [the risk] “ The point is, no matter how small the risk is or isn’t, there is no point doing said action if there’s no benefit. Because, only a benefit can outweigh the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:43 AM
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Hear me out, we inject testosterone into women. Then we can have the same dynamics as gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:38 PM
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Yes. It literally describes the benefits being worth the risk and why it isn’t the same as women taking a risk to compliment men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:04 PM
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That’s interesting. I suspect they do it to hide other worse sins like sex before marriage or cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:37 AM
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You obviously can’t read or something. My argument is and always was : there is a danger in complimenting men no matter how small it is. Not only that, there is no benefit to complimenting men to make women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:12 AM
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Sure they won’t. Women don’t care what men want or like so men should probably do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:10 AM
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I’m convinced the men here are too stupid to understand what a risk/ benefit evaluation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:57 AM
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The benefit of driving makes the risk worthwhile. There is no direct benefit in complimenting men, only risks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:51 AM
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No ones stopping them. Its just not acceptable to lie to the women. If they can’t get women to agree to be part of the rotation, then no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:38 AM
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Men: so I had to conduct an epic Hail Mary on my girlfriend last week. Praise be to rollo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:29 AM
3

“Guy privilege”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:22 PM
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Statistics aren’t racist. I don’t care what anyone says, it isn’t. But it is important to recognise the reasons for it before you judge the statistic and the people(s) it reflects. The African American community was disadvantaged from its very inception. You don’t enslave generations of people then throw them into society while actively undermine any efforts they have or could have taken to improve themselves for decades then wonder why things are the way they are. Its not racist to point out st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 02:01 PM
2

Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:20 PM
0

Pornstars can get husbands. Enough said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:49 AM
4

Where’s CRISPER when you need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:45 AM
7

Would be better put to use raising their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:42 AM
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I’m speaking in generalities. Example: the number of women giving men random compliments is never zero. Some women will do it regardless. I’m just here theorising over why the majority choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:09 AM
3

Tell that to male simps. Never stopped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:51 AM
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This isn’t about relationships. That’s how people work. If there is no benefit in doing an action, it isn’t done. Much less even if there’s no benefit yet risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:50 AM
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That’s up to men. Women aren’t forcing them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:40 AM
5

Okay. Women have biological reasons to be more afraid. That still doesnyon it’s own disprove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:35 AM
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Men are not at a disadvantage physically because the threat is : other men or women. Women are at a huge disadvantage because the majority of threats will be men. Jesus its not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:23 AM
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I’m sorry, as much as you might want it to be, “”creating a nice environment”” isn’t a motivation for women when deciding to compliment men. It just isn’t. Something like littering has risk (consequences) that the individual may encounter very time they litter. Someone might see you and you’ll suffer reputation damage. Someone might see you and fine you depending on where you live. Not encountering these consequences (which the probability of happening increases the more you do it) of littering …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:00 AM
4

I’m sorry this is your reality, women really are. We just want you to understand it really isn’t personal. You aren’t being punished for being male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:43 AM
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You’re ignoring the fact that most the the violence commit against men is done by MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:40 AM
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You’re completely missing the problem of their being no benefit gained directly by the woman to compliment him and take the risk (however small it might be) if getting stalked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:39 AM
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Not sure if you’re bluegill but, this is bluepill thinking. Its funny you say that when the majority of compliments women get from men are worthless because they are said with the goal go getting something 80%% of the time. People aren’t as nice as you make them out to be. There always needs to be some kind of personal reward for someone to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:38 AM
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I like this comment. But it clear it comes from a privileged person as you’ve self identified. People are actually pretty selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:27 AM
6

Men give compliments believing it earns favour with women without realising that women know that and proceed to use them for cheap validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:25 AM
7

This assumes: All women are red pill All women are collectively plotting to spin things in their favour in the sexual market Women don’t have their version of the prisoners dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:24 AM
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You do have a point. But given the lack of direct benefit and the existence of risks it going to be pretty hard to convince that critical number of women to give things a go and bare the consequences untill more women see the results of their efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:47 AM
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No it isn’t. There is always a risk with every action no matter how small it is. If the risk isn’t worth the action the behaviour isn’t engaged in. Now tell me, why does the average women directly benefit from giving random men compliments?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:31 AM
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You’re missing the point. All we want is for men to understand WHY things are the way they are from a woman’s perspective. We get and understand why men lie to get sex. Men are so unwilling to understand basic stuff like why women don’t compliment men or why women have sex with very attractive men regardless of their personality. Women don’t waste time trying to shame men into not doing things like that than they spend time trying to develop strat to avoid men like that. Men here largely never d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:25 AM
4

People, especially women, enjoy receiving compliments that are not intended as iois. Men do it too but it’s usually compliments surrounding something a guy accomplished like muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:45 AM
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Questions. Men have to give compliments? Men aren’t afraid of rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:40 AM
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Why do men always do this: link something women complain about not being able to get with something women give a reason for not wanting to do? The difference is women don’t act entitled to commitment, they are disappointed with being unable to get but UNDERSTAND why men don’t give it. ut Men demanding women give them compliments despite women giving actual reasons why they avoid doing something isn’t UNDERSTANDING and ACCEPTING why women do the things they do . typical complaint will go: - Men k…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:38 AM
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Yeah sadly. It included this example based off an interaction with a guy on PPD who literally said women going outside where there is a risk of rape disproves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:18 AM
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I feel like if compliments are reserved only for people you’re attracted to then, it becomes less valuable and a means to achieve an end rather than being a behaviour people engage in to strengthen relationships; platonic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:04 AM
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I think the only women surprised are: A) those who’ve never made that mistake before B) women who think men and women have similar life experiences. I think most understand why men take compliments the wrong way and just add it to a risk sides of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:30 AM
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I wasn’t talking about giving compliments within a relationship. Obviously if you’re in a relationship you should give compliments to each other. Men are allowed to be hurt and upset over the fact women don’t compliment them just as women are allowed to be over the fact men use them. The point is that you shouldn’t deny that people doing things in their best interest is the primary motivation for a lot of people. Similarly, men who use women for sex shouldn’t be surprised when women refuse to ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:19 AM
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Telling women you love them to get sex is a high reward low risk action. Its worth doing because the risk of something bad happening compared to something neutral or good (no response or sex) is low. So it makes sense to engage it this behaviour. Seriously, tell me one actually benefit women would realistically get from complimenting men? I swear there aren’t any. Everything women want from men can be accomplished with way less risky behaviours like indicators of interest .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:41 AM
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Women don’t owe you compliments. It’s obvious unattractive people will not receive compliments. I never denied that’s why some people individually never get them. Women as a whole don’t generally complement men as a whole (including attractive individuals) because the risk (being stalked, guy thinking you’re interested in him etc) isn’t worth the benefit to said woman giving compliments. As a result, women do not engage in said behaviour. You aren’t entitled to women talking risks, no matter how…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:32 AM
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um what? What don’t you understand about risk? Why should women take the risk, as small as how ever you imagined it to be, to compliment men? Clearly the benefit of doing so is no where close to out weighing the risk. Its really not hard. Its not women coming up with excuses, its not women being scared thingy ever guy is a rapist; it’s the truth. Its simply not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:23 AM
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Idk how its hard for guys to grasp that because there is a risk in complimenting strange men, women won’t do it. Even if women vetted guys to compliment, the risk isn’t worth the reward so no one takes the risk. Its not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:56 AM
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Interesting insight.. never thought of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:37 AM
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No I think they have the ultimate abundance mentality tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 12:15 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:03 PM
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He’s “quite attractive and 6ft”
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:20 PM
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For me and from stories I’ve heard from friends; as soon as you’re old enough to go anywhere by yourself basically the gross men show up trying to hit on you. Its so gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:56 PM
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It’s because of how some men act around women. That’s why. Look at Japan. They had to make whole train sections women only because of how much groping those dudes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:52 PM
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There needs to be more women only spaces tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:42 PM
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Like I said it my post, things like gambling and lotto are predatory because there is a degree of lying and dishonesty involved. They market very hard to convince people that their product will make people money easy and fast. Most people don’t even know you have more a chance of getting struck by lightning than winning. They deliberately open up shop in poor neighbourhoods where they know people are desperate. Something being predatory or not rests in the way it’s gone about. If only fans girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:36 PM
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Its like an alcoholic going to the same liquor store every night. The shop knows him enough to know he’s an alcoholic — who the hell buys 7272 bottles a day? But they still sell. When something bad happens to the alcoholic because they couldn’t recognise they had a problem and seek help, no ones going to say the store preyed on them. The store, much like the only fans or porn girls were selling a product. They didn’t actively try to seek out the alcoholic or sex addict. They they came. How is it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:26 AM
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I don’t understand how this makes it predatory. Sex isn’t the only need that is marketed too. High energy food has its own reward systems leading to rising obesity among western populations yet; no fat person has the right to claim they were preyed upon by KFC. How is only fans any different? Do you not see how that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:19 AM
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I don’t know much about finding, but my understanding is that there are some men into it? Doesn’t exactly make them mentally ill, just weird I guess. I don’t see how in the cases where findom goes to far should be on the findom girl? From her perspective, she’s engaging in an arrangement agreed upon by all parties. When the guy eventually realises he can’t afford it, the logical reaction isn’t to rob and kill. An alcoholic robbing and killing people to feed their addiction isn’t justified in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:10 AM
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I can get with the idea of men paying for the parasocial aspect of it, but I don’t see how its predatory? Typical only fans and porn women themselves don’t even market that aspect. Its always : “butthole pics 10$/M” but said in a more interesting way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:58 AM
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Men always cry about women not being direct but men aren’t. They lie. The guys using women for sex lie and omit the truth. The guys helping her for sex do the exact same thing. They are never forward with their expectations and that is a problem. Only fans and porn aren’t predatory because they don’t lie. Every party knows exactly what the end game is: pay money to see butthole. It’s clear. There’s no promise of sex, only naked pics. You know exactly what you’re getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 10:35 AM
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Probably some unconscious distaste at people circumventing traditional dating dynamics to acquire something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 07:30 AM
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You cant deny there a wayyy more men who vocalise support for a reduction in womens freedom than the other way around. Its not even close .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:14 AM
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People aren’t more broken. They just talk about it more instead of hiding it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:28 AM
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I’d say women. There aren’t many women advocating to strip men of their freedom than the other way around. Looking at you incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:19 AM
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Growing up is realising that because your rights end where others begin, you aren’t entitled to anything. Just because you became X doesn’t mean Y is waiting for you at all. Because Y has the right to not be the type of Y X wants. Given this fact your choices are to take Y as they are or gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 12:03 PM
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Probably a guy who went overseas to get sex or used a hooker is the closest thing. Generally though I doubt there’s any real comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:37 AM
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Idk why the thought of some guy going into fight or flight over sex is so funny 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:35 AM
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I’m afraid one day I’ll like a guy then he’ll turn out to be lurking in red pill forums. Its so gross. Imagine knowing you’re with some guy who is calculating and planning every interaction to get the result he wants, posting about potentially every conversation to his redpill bros to pick apart and come to autistic conclusions over something you said with minimal thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:33 AM
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I think in this day and age it’s going to be pretty hard to find a guy who doesn’t look at porn and ig girls. Honestly, as long as these aren’t people he knows or tries to contact I don’t personally see an issue. Its just something to whack off to I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:07 PM
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Ehhh well see when they get here. I don’t doubt men will go for them over women and women substitutes. What I do doubt is how accepted it would be within society, will probably be stigmatised. If it cannot carry children, women will still be valuable and sex workers would probably switch to being surrogates. Women understandably wouldn’t like losing a free source of income that men currently are. They are currently the largest consumers and the biggest voting block. Unless this changes who’s to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:04 AM
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Young women don’t want to be married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:03 AM
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Lucky for them feminism is propagating itself across the world. That and you’d have to live in a third world country xd so, please go there. They are dying to come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:09 AM
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Attractive women don’t need feminism. They don’t mind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:40 AM
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Think about it this way, if you married a guy for his money and you literally don’t love him, who cares who he has sex with? As long as your holiday get paid for no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:02 AM
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That’s what killed meeee💀
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:04 AM
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People are always chasing the next hardest step
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:58 AM
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What about corpse husband
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:56 AM
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This. Even if every guy on earth was red pilled and participated in self improvement, women would still only care about the top 20% of them. Not sure if it does but I doubt it does, it should have some kind of time frame of self improvement and the time it would take to notice success . If you don’t find yourself actually high enough in the smv after that they should outline further options for guys who will just never be chad. The redpill gurus prove to me everything I need to know about the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:53 AM
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Lol you don’t realise that it is in capitalism’s best interest to have both genders working. Twice the labour pool for the price of one. Regardless of how competent you believe women to be in the workforce. Once you’ve given women rights, you are unlikely to ever go back to laws that favour men. Why? Because women are the majority of the voting population because they live longer. That and they are the majority spenders in the consumer market so companies must pander to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:49 AM
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This tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:52 AM
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I’m surprised he did that? What is he getting out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:33 PM
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Well you have to remember their brains are still developing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:31 PM
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You’re forgetting women live longer than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:27 PM
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I think you wrote this coming from a place of insecurity. That’s okay, just acknowledge it. I want you to understand that no, men generally do not prefer fat women. Given a choice between a fat one and a skinny one 90% of guys will choose the skinny one. However this isn’t something to be distraught about. 70% +- of people are overweight. Meaning, the majority of men simply won’t be able to get a skinny woman. On top of that you will find someone who loves you with the increasing normalisation o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:49 AM
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Men aren’t the largest part of the consumer market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:24 AM
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No one chooses to be ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 05:05 AM
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Are you familiar with alpha fucks, beta bux? Similar concept. If you want a guy stable enough to marry, you will likely have to settle for beta (less successful or attractive men) I have no idea why women settle. I would rather just not get married. But it’s something a lot of women do. My best guess is it’s just some milestone to them that they feel must be reached?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:11 AM
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You’re talking about a subset of men who’s income in their 50’s is great enough to afford that lifestyle. Peak wealth is subjective. Some guy could have been making 10 dollars an hour at 25 to 30 an hour at 50. Unless that peak wealth reaches a certain threshold, it’s meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:01 AM
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They are expensive and statistically speaking most people will never be wealthy. There is always going to a subset of men who are either rich or very good looking that also happen to really like younger women and leave for them. Given the facts: -most people can’t afford sugar babies -most people won’t be hot in older age -most young women aren’t interested in marriage Wouldn’t this make sense?: So, hot/rich men who like younger women are unlikely to find one who will marry so why would they get…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:51 AM
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Boomer men cheating on their wives doesn’t automatically mean it was with a younger woman. That’s not an assumption you can make given the data. The number of guys who can and do, do that is likely much smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:38 AM
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This. Absolutely this. Every time I see a guy online ranting about how he needs a sub women, I can’t help but imagine some 1-3/10 guy demanding women pretend he is 10/10 with his 1-3/10 life. Oh he can be absolutely loser who makes shit life decisions but there has to be a woman out there who is totally just gonna let him run things. What a joke. Men aren’t superior decision makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:15 AM
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A man who wants to and is able to be with younger women exclusively isn’t going to be getting married. They eliminate themselves from the marriage pool. The only ones left would be guys who wish they could but settled and guys who don’t care for younger women. This isn’t as big of a problem as you make it seem simply because most men, even if most of them wish they could, aren’t even able to get younger women. And even if they could, younger women are largely uninterested in marriage. If he want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:07 AM
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You dont have the right to shoot someone else because they have the right to what happens to their body. Your rights end where others begin. Its really not that difficult. No man will ever have to right, no matter what rights you think it destroys, to tell a woman what she can do with her body. Thats her body. Any rights he had ended when her body became part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:52 AM
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This is so stupid. The reproductive rights of men end where the bodily rights of women begin. Its that simple. Arguing that nature didn’t enable women to have to choice to carry a baby is utterly foolish and irrelevant. Nature didn’t intend for us to be able to do surgery to prevent death from heart attacks but we do. As technology advances, nature becomes irrelevant. Women have the choice because we now have the now technology and someone is happy to make money off said woman’s choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:22 AM
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Real questions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:45 PM
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Wtf is this? Sex feels good and option one is literally described as being good at it. Who wouldn’t go for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:29 PM
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Neither. What you do is do 1, then convince 2 that you’re actually carrying his child. In all seriousness though, thank god for abortions and birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:20 PM
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Thats adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 04:19 AM
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Dude bullying shouldn’t be something encouraged wtf. You don’t give people unsolicited negative comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:46 AM
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It’s like companies hiring 3rd world workers because they can get away with paying them less and treating them worse. Its gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:46 AM
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They are losers who go to 3rd world places where they are essentially like millionaires to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:26 AM
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No, if people are individualistic and she is a person why is it surprising she only cares about herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:09 AM
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I think its more about men not seeing other men as victims. Everytime I read a story about a guy getting molest by a girl, all the guys in the comments are like “what a win”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:46 AM
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You say it’s about how everyone is going to be and in the same breath that we are individualistic. Then how is it hard to understand that she doesn’t care about the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:24 PM
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The thoughts exactly. I’d rather just die than live as women did before,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:21 PM
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Height: 5’7+ Body: High degree of bodily grooming. Skinny to toned. 6in+, big hands. Salary: same or more than me. Religion: agnostic Age : -3/+3 Personality: modern, vanilla, neither dominant or submissive. Ideally they are assertive and expects and enjoys receiving that same energy back. More outgoing than me. Sex isn’t really a big deal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:49 PM
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Oh. Then what do you call it when you’re just generally testing for actual interest? It is tiring. Its the equivalent of men trying to get girls. You gotta go through a bunch for bad interactions to get a good one. There’s always guys complaining that some women they thought loved them left them when the money dried up. That wouldn’t be surprising if they knew the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:06 PM
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judging by the comparison with being in sexual situations with unattractive men/ creepy men it, must be pretty gross to be that guy. Just wondering, Is this related to the fact her N count is astronomical, being her back up plan who doesn’t get what chad got from her or both? I think women kind of distorted the truth about dating because if they didn’t, it would jeopardise their phase 2 : find beta at 30+, he’s happy believing he was actually the winner in the end, the prince who saved her from …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:57 AM
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This 💀 I am amazed with how much time men here spend trying to scare women into doing things that benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:29 AM
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We all have our standards. I don’t care who the guy is, I’m not giving or doing anything I don’t want. What I’m saying is, the HVM who are into that are filtered out . Not every guy is the same, not every guy demands submissiveness. So, you filter the ones that do out and look for ones that don’t. Plenty of HVM who don’t make such demands. Will Smith is objectively HVM- no such demands (sorry about his wife tho). You are coming from this dumb idea that every women has no self respect when it com…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:40 AM
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I don’t think any gender has it easy tbh. Just different paths to the same destination: ending up with your looks match. I’m not saying you should feel sorry for women who spent her time with chad until she had to settle. I’m saying try to imagine what that’s like to understand why women behave the way they do when they do settle. Its like living in the west with all its luxury the. Suddenly you have to live in a village in Africa. You will never be happy knowing what it is like to have lived th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 04:35 AM
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His wife was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:44 AM
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Why do men think their idea of a HVM is womens idea of it too? A guy who wants me to be submissive is not HVM to me. I don’t want a guy like that not matter how good his other traits. A HVM to a woman is a guy that has all the other HV traits but none of the demands I don’t want to meet. None of this “HVM will demand certain things” no. Rappers have money but they aren’t HVM simply because of their shit behaviour in relationships. Women go with them for money. If you don’t actually like someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:42 AM
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I think its hard for a guy to understand because it’s not something most men get to experience. Women are way more picky with who they sleep with. If a guy did experience women all wanting to sleep with him, it would mean a lot more than if all men wanted to sleep with a woman. If you ever reached that level of abundance for sex, got tired of the sex then wanted a relationship; suddenly your vetting process just got 6272728 times more complicated. Went from “she/he’s hot, he/she’s probably not g…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:37 AM
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Men who require submissiveness aren’t on my radar in the first place .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:14 PM
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Pretty sure he cheated on his ex wife with her so, no def not loyal. That still doesn’t explain why he got with her of all people if he really likes 22 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:12 PM
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Why did bezos leave his wife for an older woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:16 PM
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When I said men are obsolete I meant to women on an individual level. There’s no longer any pressing reason for women to quickly pick a guy and settle for average like they used to. I’m not saying rich men would want to harm the average guys chances with women through capitalism- I’m saying he wouldn’t care. Women no longer needing men directly to survive has a negative impact on men’s dating lives. Yet every year this effect is more and more exasperated with women being the majority of uni stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:43 AM
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I think young men are being told not to talk to women because you can get arrested for it now. Also, women have expressed over and over that they don’t want men to talk to them. There are so many accounts from women of all ages doing so much to just avoid men trying to talk to them. As for men’s value already being artificially reduced as you call it; don’t you consider that men have made themselves obsolete? Technology is primarily why why are no longer valued the same way they once were and me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:57 AM
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This. Its not that women don’t know men like submissiveness, we just don’t care. In the past we had to care, now we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:33 AM
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I see where your coming from. Just wondering, what do you think needs to happen to restore male value? I ask because I’m getting vibes that you want to artificially reduce womens ability to financially provide for themselves or to be safe in society— all things that were historically the purpose of the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:27 AM
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Atm? Not really. Recognise that it is because of that fact I can experience “chad”. I accept it for what it is and the trade offs it has. If you’re realistic about it, it can’t hurt you. Chad is unlikely to commit, doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your time with him. When I’m older and maybe change my mind and want a family; yeah I can imagine feeling terrible about it because it would make searching for the highest value guy you can get to commit to you a long, annoying process. As for men getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:06 AM
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You are right that it shouldn’t be surprising, but not on the reasons why it does. Basically, if every guy basically want to fuck, why fuck the less hotter ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:16 AM
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Women who sleep around don’t sleep with everyone lol. Why would they? If Every man wants sex from you, you only pick the best to sleep with. Its very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:14 AM
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As long as it never touches the shoulder, you it isn’t tied up and is kept clean, it’s fine c
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:36 AM
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I’m just saying most young women don’t actually like being hit on by old men. I don’t care about the women who are into that- not really my problem let them get their bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:02 AM
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But how can you get society to value men if men are constantly trying to undercut each other’s value and women benefit from (so will seek to keep) men’s value low?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:41 PM
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All true. But you forget men are used to seeing other men as competition. Most guys would happily throw another guy under the bus for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:19 AM
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They marry them though at 30. It’s inevitable the women will have to settle with someone subpar. Even if all women did settle at 20, there is always going to be a very low supply of HVM. The majority will have to settle anyway. 20 or thirty - it doesn’t matter. At least if you delay it, you get time to have fun with chad. Beta is always waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:48 AM
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I swear these guys live in some delusional red pill world. Most women get married later in life. They forget ‘simps’ exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:17 AM
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Clearly they want the old guys to stop trying to talk to them? Idk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:03 AM
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I think she’s just trying to say in a nice way that old men are gross .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:01 AM
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Getting hit on by old guys has to be the worst experience ever. Nothing leaves you feeling more dirtied. Guess they call them dirty old men for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:57 AM
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