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| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Yes . . . but so do relationships with small or no age gaps. All relationships can be predatory and abusive. And in an age gap, either the younger or the older may be the predatory/abusive one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.You haven't observed it, but nevertheless, it happens. I've seen and lived it. I'm sure there are plenty of stories right here on Reddit in the age gap subs. It's not unheard of for the older person to be wary from the get-go, knowing they may be viewed negatively, so they let the younger person dictate the pace of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Too bad about your friends. They may lack the ability to step outside of their own preferences. Solipsism. Tell them "Baby I was born this way!" and good luck to ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Should 18-year-olds be allowed to vote or drive, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Yes, it's true that ~25 is the best physical shape for everyone. But after that, seems like you're exaggerating to a point bordering on just being untrue. Age gap relationships may be unequal in each person's personal resources, financially, but that doesn't make them mentally/emotionally unequal. Are they treating each other well? That's what counts in a legitimate relationship. (Sure, there are abusive people out there, but EITHER partner can abuse, and in case, I'm talking about regular, plai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.Back in the 80's a 16-year-old girl faked her ID to get into porn. It was quite costly to some of the men involved when they found out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Women saying they wouldn't date younger is meaningless.They do indeed say that . . . but then we see that it's not true whenever they feel like disagreeing with a relationship, or to conveniently shame a man for something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:58 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sounds like fun! I'm curious to hear how it goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:08 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Has anyone seen the 28 Years Later movie? Haven't seen yet, and I'm wondering if there are any BONE-HEADED, idiotic moves the characters make like in 28 Weeks Later, or if it actually has some halfway intelligent characters. Wondering before I spend my pennies on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Women might get told #1, but definitely not #2. And they don't get nearly as much conflicting info, the way #2 and #3 contradict each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Not just that their experience is different, but that they are unable or unwilling to think outside the box of their experience. They don't study men; they don't put themselves in men's shoes the way men do women. It's the solipsism, to a little or a great degree, depending on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 02:38 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Different GFs have said different things. One liked my shoulders and my scent when sweaty. One liked my shape - slim but with some muscle. Current one says I'm handsome, and sometimes calls me sexy, but doesn't specify what makes me sexy or if those words overlap. I also suspect my confidence/ease in many social situations helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:04 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Suddenly wanna go to the circus . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:01 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Am invention truly underrated by most of us in 1st-world nations. (I hate the overuse of the word "underrated" online these days, but I do think it's actually warranted and accurate here. People in poor countries have a much messier, stinkier situation than we do most of the time.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:49 AM |
| – | As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better.It's a thing, but it's as rare as hen's teeth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 10:59 PM |
| – | As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better.What grinds my gears is when they use the phrase "obvious hint." It's a freakin' oxymoron! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 10:56 PM |
| – | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?I'll add a second comment just to say that I do understand that some people want to chase power, totally. I'm not one of them, though, and I suspect they're in the minority. Probably the more you love power itself, the more sociopathic you might be? I dunno, not an expert in the details of socio/psychopathy. But yeah, some CEOs and presidents and PTA moms are that type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:02 AM |
| – | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Absolutely. But I don't have a love of power. I don't make money because I want power. I make money because I need power, because that's simply what's required to keep living. It's like brushing my teeth or clipping my nails - I don't particularly enjoy those things; but they're just things that must be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:51 AM |
| – | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Some do mock it. I wasn't talking about childrearing at all, but about the working/providing thing. But childrearing is its own obligation too. Someone's gotta do it, right? I'm just saying that the working/providing thing isn't all candy canes and fun; seems often that women talk about it as if it's some magical thing that men are hogging to themselves, especially when women focus on the rare glamourous jobs, ignoring the much more common jobs of drudgery and danger. (And again, I don't even ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Awesome. Lucky guy to have a woman that genuinely wishes that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Power? Being stuck at a job I don't like, dealing with dumb customers and asshole managers, isn't power. And I don't even have it as bad as others. Providing isn't power; it's obligation. And when both parents have to work, it's not because they're powerful - it's because they're both obligated, cause one income can't do it anymore. If women took over the workforce, they'd only be increasing their own level of obligation too. (I say let 'em have it!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?A few random women here and there, sure. Society en masse? Ha! Never. After all, what is society but the veneer we've placed over our animal nature? Our basic programming doesn't follow the path of female providers. Especially when it comes to an expectation of protection, physical industry, bodily sacrifice for your partner, and necessary (even if rare) violence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Nope - I wasn't hinting at anything. I was explaining that women are more limited than men. I was explaining that men have an abundance that women do not have(in the context of reproductive ability). Any rich and powerful man could have 30 children, whereas, in the entire history of humanity, probably no woman, rich or poor, has had that many. It's technically possible, 🤔 but extremely difficult. A woman is more likely to get hit by lightning. ⚡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?What devaluing are you talking about? We're just talking about numbers of available cells or numbers of offspring. It seems you're talking about something else entirely, a different topic about mental health . . . ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Are you tired of being pursued because it's always fizzled out? Did the relationships you pursued end differently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?They never said that those apex women lack options. Just that the equivalent man has more options. Just a comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?It does make it easier for them. Which is not the same as saying it's easy. Just comparatively easier. Two things can both be difficult and still be compared to see which is more difficult than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Glad there are a few who understand this! Women aren't naturally the "fairer" sex. Men are just the hornier sex, therefore also the sex with the burden of making the first move, and that first move in the mating process is to evaluate her fertility with our eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?The second one. Men are just more horny. Horniness itself helps determine how pretty you consider someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:38 AM |
| 16 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?That's not theoretical or stupid. That's just biology. It's as basic as saying "humans have two arms and legs." Men produce millions and millions and millions of sperm at a time, from puberty to death, more or less. Women release one egg per month, for less than 40 years. They are the reproductive bottleneck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Yes. It will always be true, outside of bizarre end-of-the-world scenarios. But no, it doesn't take anything away from what women face. That statement doesn't at all deny that women have their own struggles. Example statement: "Shaq is taller than Jordan." Does that statement take away from the fact that Jordan is tall? No. It's only a statement of comparison, not a statement of negation or of any quantized calculation. Michael Jordan is still taller than most people in the world. The only thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:31 AM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsWhoops, mis-posted. Re-posting my previous response here. Your scenarios/analogies are inaccurate. To fix the first one, it'd be more like: TWO people are driving drunk simultaneously. The cause a collision with someone else. The woman, if she chooses, can walk up to the damaged third vehicle and shoot the third, innocent driver. The man gets no say, even if he wants to defend the third person. Now some men are saying they want to walk away from the scene of the collision. It was always the woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 10:17 PM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsBoth have precisely the same rights (where abortion is legal, otherwise women have fewer rights). That's not true at all. Where do men have access to abortion? Where abortion is legal, women have a privilege, not a right, that men don't get. If abortion were illegal, things would actually be more equal, cause neither sex would have any way to evade parental responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 10:26 AM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsFetuses are not parasites. Whatever your politics/religion/etc., that's just factually incorrect. Call them an expense, call them inconvenient, call them annoying, sure. All of those may be true. Kids can be a pain in the ass. But they're not parasites. Let's be accurate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 10:22 AM |
| – | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsMen consent to parenthood when they have sex... And women don't? That doesn't make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Most men never have a sexual primeYou gotta define if you mean prime as in - maximum interest in sex? - maximum physical fitness and fertility? - or maximum attractiveness to the opposite sex? Seems like you're talking about this one, but many will say you're wrong because "sexual prime" is often considered the first one. It's not consistent, though, what people mean by it. They're related and may overlap, but they're not perfectly identical times of life. I'd say the first two are identical in men and women. Both sexes are horn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 12 | Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projectionsYour honesty is refreshing. And ultimately, it may very well not be complicated. We're all mammals, right? Problem is, women aren't usually as honest/direct/clear as you, and may say the opposite, leaving men - who want to respect what women say and take them at face value - confused, unsuccessful, and eventually angry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 07:46 PM |
| 14 | Women use ‘nice guys’ as a dumping ground for their projectionsThis right here. Even the 'assertive' women still usually want a man to make the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 07:40 PM |
| 12 | The average person is clueless when it comes to how physically strong men are.I was so surprised by this in my early 20's. Discovered it by accident when my gf at the time told me it turned her the hell on. She enjoyed it, but to me, wrestling with her was kinda boring cause I was so much stronger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:06 AM |
| 2 | What is your goal in dating?I'd like to build a life and family together . . . with my harem. But I'm not famous/rich/tall enough to get that, so I'll aim for a family with one woman. I think I'll only marry if we definitely choose to have children, for the children's sake. Just having sex would be nice, but having reciprocal love (as well as sex) is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?Lifts aren't cringe; they're strategic. A tool, like a hammer, a bra, or a pair of work gloves. Perhaps you don't like them, but that alone doesn't make them cringe. Just like, for instance, I don't like fake breasts, but that doesn't make them cringe. I recognize the strategy of a woman enhancing her beauty. If the person wraps up their personality in lifts or a boob job, I'd call that person's mental outlook cringey. But a tool or device isn't cringe. Also, women are in competition too. Less c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?It's not just about security, to be fair. I'm secure, for instance, but I still recognize the strategic benefit of lifts. I'm dong job interviews and I'm seriously considering getting lifts just for that sake. I wouldn't use them once I'm hired, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?I'm surprised at this question. But if you don't wear it and you don't date women, you're probably not paying any attention to it. (Just like there are things I'm not paying attention to. But yes, many, many, many women are wearing makeup. If women suddenly stopped, it would be on the news, and I'm not exaggerating. BILLIONS of dollars are spent on makeup in the U.S. alone, and hundreds of billions in the world in general. I don't think it will ever go away, as long as humans have a sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men are shallow as wellIf you bring biology into this, I don't think the word "shallow" can apply. After all, what makes a woman beautiful? Generally, her fertility. It's not shallow for a man - or his instincts, really - to be concerned with fertility. Reproduction is one of our major purposes, isn't it? If a man specifically is interested in old and/or ugly women, he'd literally be acting against what makes biological sense. That'd be pretty dumb, and a biological dead end. The "Wall" is rooted in biology first. Bea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:16 AM |
| 36 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personTo be precise, we specifically outlaw male nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 08:59 AM |
| 5 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsIf the guy is really into her, having to live through a one-side friendship can feel terrible too. Shouldn't be protect his heart by leaving? Or, if he has a goal of marriage and children, isn't the time spent with the friend potentially a waste of his time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 08:50 AM |
| 4 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsDoesn't necessarily mean it wasn't real. But should he stick around if his heart has been crushed, and just be stressed about the unrequited feelings? If he has a goal of marriage and children, isn't the time spent with her a waste of his time? Even if it was real, he may decide it's not worth maintaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsPessimistically speaking, sometimes it seems that a man's morality and his attractiveness to women are inversely related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 09:41 AM |
| – | If you aren’t violent, the dark triad is highly effective for both making friends or sleeping with randomsSure. Agreed. I'm just pointing out that your previous comment was contradictory. Of course people complain about things they're unwilling to do, or that they're bad at. That's just how complaining works for normal people. They don't complain about having to do things they actually like to do, or that come natural to them. I'm about to eat some ice cream right now, and I'm sure as hell not gonna complain about it. But I've been complaining about an upcoming move, cause I hate moving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 09:05 PM |
| – | If you aren’t violent, the dark triad is highly effective for both making friends or sleeping with randomsWell, yes. If they were eager to be assholes, then they wouldn't be complaining about it. They would just be assholes. (The ones who are just naturally assholes aren't complaining about it.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What's gonna happen to dating and marriages in coming years ?AI will make people question reality. The next generation to grow up, unsure what's real, tired of fakes, might reject online dating in order to go back to analog. Once AI is good enough, the major porn studios and OF stars will go out of business. On a small scale, though, Chads/bulls will perform for crowds at sex theaters. Expect sexbots to get sophisticated and cheaper, produced in numbers for men, but not so much for women - just less demand. Surrogacy will rise and women will make money fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 11:37 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Funny that patriarchy is "unpopular" in the mainstream signaling of virtue, but most women aren't willing to actually take over and change things into a matriarchy. Plenty won't even vote for women, like when Hillary and Kamala have run for office. I'd be curious to see a city or state try a true experiment of matriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:27 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Surprising. In my experience in both real life and online, women are overwhelmingly the ones to talk about "manifesting" and astrology and nebulous "feminine energy." Are you spending time with guys in a niche social subgroup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:22 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And if it were mandatory/universal, it wouldn't even cost that. Doing it at that scale could reduce the cost big-time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:19 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Once I become those things, I'd post it for free. But at the moment, I'm only the last one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:18 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Never done themed showers, but I do like soap/body wash that smells tasty. At the moment I'm using a coffee bar of soap, and occasionally a body wash that smells like oranges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:16 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If that was an option, wouldn't he have already considered it and/or mentioned it? Also, you know the general assumptive viewpoint of this sub is heterosexual. What's the point of this question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:14 AM |
| 7 | Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills DesireSub 0? Come on. Let's keep it realistic. Are you horribly disfigured? Are you missing an ear, several teeth, and scarred? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 09:09 AM |
| 5 | Why do women give bad advice to men?OP is assuming/implying that it's not "some" women, but rather most of them, who give men bad advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Why do women give bad advice to men?A lot of people misuse words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:42 AM |
| 1 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityThis is true. Some of the issues leftist women cry out against are coming from inside the proverbial house. They're wasting their energy thinking men are their enemies, when it's more of a conservative vs liberal thing than a sex vs sex thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Anytime a woman is giving a dating advice for men, that advice only works for men who don't need it.Women say plenty that 'looks don't matter,' or 'size doesn't matter,' or 'I world date a short guy.' The issue here isn't failure of men to understand; it's failure of women to communicate. Of course attractiveness matters. I think it's intuitive in our adolescence. It's in our genes. But then boys turning into men get told explicit lies like that stuff above, making them turn away from what they knew intuitively, or confusing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Vincent doesn't represent men's struggles, she represents trans people'sWho's this "y'all?" Who says trans people aren't real? That doesn't make any sense. No one is denying they exist. Some don't like how much attention is being given to them. Some want them to get treatment for mental illness. Some don't want their children to take life-altering hormones. Some don't like being called 'cis.' But no one is saying they don't exist. And Norah Vincent wasn't trans. I've read her book and recommended it to others. She was comfortable being a woman, and acknowledged to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Women seem to believe men struggle because they are "shooting out of their league"True? But perhaps not a great example. And who is "society?" Is it men, women, or both? Men are less picky than women, so it's only natural that more women are considered attractive to men than men to women. Women's idea of attractiveness is more rigid than men's. And regarding this specific example - a woman's height doesn't usually have much to do with her attractiveness. Guys are looking at her legs/face/proportions, etc. So the short girl isn't really the opposite of the tall one. An ugly on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.No, I did not. You're misunderstanding, and derailing the conversation in the process. If I was talking about rape, I would've just said rape or sexual assault, cause I'm not implying things; I'm stating them directly. I take the word tape very seriously, cause it's a serious topic. I explicitly said I was talking about violence between MEN, in part for sexual COMPETITION. I didn't say anything about sexual violence against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to.It can definitely be too harsh if it's unrealistic, if it excludes the vast majority of potential options and makes it difficult on herself. It's easy to find big boobs, for instance. Or big boobs and nice and interested in having children. It's not easy to find that 6'5" muscular rich Mafia boss with a big package who's just violent enough to be sexy but not too much and who only wants one woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to.What could men do differently so that women wouldn't lie? One quick anti-lying solution, for instance, would be universal paternity tests. But women vehemently oppose that. Any other ideas that women would actually go along with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.Wtf? I'm not talking about rape. Reading comprehension, lady; you're going off-topic. I'm talking about why violence, most of which is male-on-male, was/can be beneficial enough to be passed down. It's against animals or foreign men to protect the home, or against animals for food. It's against foreign men for resources. It's by the state/king/whoever to keep social regulations. On a small scale, it's to correct/punish children. And it only takes a moment of observation to know that most animals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Having kids has no benefits to women1 - Fathers don't generally leave because the woman has become less attractive. In fact, her birthing his kids may give him mom/wife goggles, making him more attached. And men don't hate single mothers. They find them less appealing. 3 - Same goes for men - being a parent diminishes your money 4 - Well of course, no guarantee you'll like your kids, but we're literally programmed to, so we do the vast majority of the time. Your last line: as a woman, (Assuming you're in the U.S. or other parts of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.Maybe I'm missing something here, but how it this relevant? We already know men are more violent; that's not even up for debate. Wasn't OP's question along the lines of relative concern for safety, disproportionate fear of violence, and possible hypocrisy of men warning women about the danger they're in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.That doesn't make it not human nature. It's human nature to feed our young milk, for instance, even though women are 100% of the ones doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them.Probably cause that urge to violence helped us survive and reproduce way back when. Some violence is necessary for our survival, and it just makes more reproductive sense for the male body than for the female body. Both sexes have some form of sexual competition, but men have to do it more openly and physically, and violence is one of the ways they compete, since women are often attracted to violent men. Also, since men are the more disposable sex, we as a species have always been able to afford… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t say that women are wrong for worrying about their safety and at the same time that it’s dangerous for them."criminals have no incentive to play fair." Very well put. A typical criminal isn't gonna pick on someone bigger than them, or someone they suspect has a weapon, etc. And/or they'll stack the deck with the element of surprise. And even granting that men are more capable 'in general' of defending themselves, that's more than cancelled out by the fact that criminals attempt against men much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Status > Looks: History's Most Prolific Men Weren't HandsomeKHAAAAAN!! 🤬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Most boyfriends would be happier forgiving their cheating girlfriend or wifeYou are in an open relationship, period. Full stop. That is not up for debate. What can be debated - between you and your man - is how you choose to run the relationship, cause there are levels/flavors of openness. In this case, it's open only on his end, so it's polygynous. Which is fine. We're not hating on you. We're just saying this: call it what it is. You can't have an advanced debate if you're confused about basic terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 09:47 AM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?I've definitely done it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 09:33 AM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?Don't do that. You're implying aberrant behavior to the majority. Normal men aren't attracted to kids. They're attracted to young women, because young women are the most fertile women. Forget any moral or religious issues - it just doesn't make biological sense to be attracted to children, cause they're not fertile. Nature doesn't like obvious bad reproductive strategies. Just like most people avoid incest - it's a dumb/dangerous reproductive strategy, so our programming is against it. It's fine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 09:24 AM |
| – | Love and sex is not a rightIt saddens/annoys me when people say "X is a right" when they really mean "X should be a right" or "I wish X was a right." Seems alot of people don't know what rights actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do you want to be in a relationship?Very simply and bluntly, it's biology. For anything so near-universal across humans, regardless of culture, the simplest explanation is that it's biology. Instincts are built into dumb animals in order to make sure they do the things that keep them alive and cause them to reproduce. And we're clever animals as trained adults, but very dumb as infants. Why do some people pray five times a day, or speak Finnish? That's cultural. But why does sugar taste good? Why does poop smell bad to us? Why do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.You - and many others - are using the wrong word, which is casing unnecessary friction and wasting time in debate. "Transphobic" doesn't apply here. It does not mean what you're asserting. Unless he says he fears/hates trans people, or that trans people should die, etc., in that vein, he's not transphobic. Otherwise we have to conclude that you don't understand English, or that you're actively trying to change the meaning of the word by way of a social strategy - maybe even outright gaslighting?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.True, athletics may not be "fair," but it's always been systematic, which is what makes it an actual competition. The results are within predictable limits. It wouldn't make sense to have humans race cheetahs, for instance. Even though an adult human could beat a baby cheetah, there's a systematic, predictable difference between those things which renders the event pointless and non-competitive the majority of the time. Just as there're systematic differences between males and females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do?I'm surprised to hear about the waiting lists. That's unfortunate. But I can't believe the police don't take DV seriously. Don't a number of police departments have mandatory arrest rules for DV calls? And are you effectively saying that men are being irrational in how much they fear getting accused of DV these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: an average or below average looking woman matched with you on tinder. She messages you that she is trying to escape an abusive boyfriend and wants to crash with you in exchange for sex. What do you do?You've commented about men advising this, but what men, where, are advising women to do this? That sounds far-fetched. And it's well-known that there are plenty of women's shelters and the like, and the police, which is easier than finding a stranger and offering him sex. Were it me, I'd be tempted for a moment, sure, but I'd tell her to call the police and/or go to a shelter. I wouldn't trust the free sex, or worry about retaliation from the abusive guy, since she might choose to go back to him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 09:20 AM |
| 1 | How much do women actually care about sexual compatibility?I would not accept a bad relationship if the sex was fantastic. The opposite is bad too, because sex is important, but if I had to choose one of those unideal scenarios, I'd choose the bad sex, cause at least I could attempt to teach her or try to work out an agreement for me to get that taken care of elsewhere. And if that isn't an option, well, you spend much more time doing everything else than you do having sex, so I'd want to have harmony in the otherwise great relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | How much do women actually care about sexual compatibility?A tangent to the original question, but out of curiosity, do you then seek out asexual partners? Or do you have an open relationship in that regard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:25 AM |
| 0 | How much do women actually care about sexual compatibility?So in your case, you would indeed accept bad sex, assuming other aspects of the relationship were great? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitMakes sense that anyone with abundance of something doesn't value it as much as someone who has a dearth of it. Agreed that women don't value it as much as men do. But comparing it to gay sex doesn't work as an analogy, though, because women, though they value sex less, do ultimately want sex with men. (Straight) Men don't want sex with men period, access or no access. A better analogy would be something men have access to and actually want, but can afford to be picky about it and only want it u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 06:20 AM |
| -2 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Women fully have the opportunity for these roles, but they don't aim for them. How many women actually put in the work for those senior roles? How many women actually want to work 80 hours a week for 20 years to get there? Precious few. Hell, I'm a man and I sure don't want to do that either - even among men it's uncommon! And if you want us to look around, be sure you're looking around: are you forgetting the bottom-of-the-barrel roles that men fill? How many women work in garbage collection, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?This right here. Quantity enables quality! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:41 AM |
| -4 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?I might argue the opposite. We're all potential targets of violence, sure. But being sought after, while it may be a hassle in ways, I'd argue that it actually protects you from some violence in a way that men don't get. After all, it's out of that drive that men came up with phrases like "women and children first." We'll step on other men to protect women. We'll kill each other over women. Men are the more frequent victims of violent crime, after all. We arrest each other over women's accusatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:40 AM |
| 2 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?No single person or sex has that ability. It's done jointly. Though women do incubate the new life, and that's both privilege and burden. Privilege in the ease of access to reproductive partners, privilege in assurance of maternity, burden in the actual incubation and physical vulnerability, and burden (before modern tech) of feeding the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:27 AM |
| 8 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Quantity, while not equivalent to quality, directly enables quality. You're more likely to find quality in a pool of 100 than a pool of 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:22 AM |
| 9 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?That's a privilege or advantage in getting the job, but that doesn't mean the job itself is a privilege. It's not a privilege to die on the job, or to have the job put tons of wear and tear on your body, from exposure to the elements, or to be exposed to harmful radiation, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Why was there no PUA for women?"We know that dating is just as difficult for women as it is for men." 1) DO we know that? Not saying there's no difficulty, but to comparatively say it's just as difficult is unlikely to be true when men mostly have the burden of being the active party in seeking and approaching a partner, and are the ones who face rejection most of the time - sometimes very rude rejections - and are the ones who more often don't get to reproduce at all. (That's not even going into post-relationship stuff like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:08 PM |
| – | Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other WomenNot saying the post is true or not, but I can say that criticism of women isn't misogyny. And he's only criticizing or making a claim about a certain subset of women at that, not women in general, which would be a factor in actual misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 09:49 AM |
| 6 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?I fully agree that it was not cool that there was a time when men could vote and women couldn't. That was not fair treatment and was sexist against women. That being said, I just wanna point out that it's not a great argument to use, cause that time was so short, ~50 years unless I'm wrong, and now, it's been twice as long - ~100 years - that women can vote WITHOUT the requirements that men have. Meaning that it's been sexist against men for twice as long. Meaning that women have had a voting pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Men can’t be feminists due to its inherent nature as advocacy for women’s rights for the sake of equality.Nah, that's clearly wrong at a glance. Generally, anyone who follows the beliefs/tenets/habits of X group are X-ists. Feminist, Christian, programmer, etc. You're portraying "feminist" as if it's a race or something unchangeable, when it's merely a self-identification and/or a pattern of habits. It can be official or unofficial, but in this case, there isn't one official governing board to which you have to apply for membership in feminism. There's just people who call themselves that and people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Men who have been wild in the past can they be loyal to a fault in a relationship?He had a wild past. But was it specifically a cheating past? Of course, anyone's past behavior shows potential for their future behavior. But if he was only wild while single and loyal while attached, then chances are good he won't stray. Also, a wild past for a man doesn't seem to be as much an issue for making future connection as it is for a woman. If he was wild and cheated on past gfs, then yeah, you may have a problem on your hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 10:35 AM |
| 4 | strong and independent is???You're 100% correct - by definition. But unfortunately, there are some women out there mis-using the word independent, when they are anything but. It might give a bad name to the women who are actually independent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:12 PM |
| 4 | strong and independent is???Independence isn't intimidating. A threat is intimidating, especially a physical one. If she's waving a gun in a man's face, he'll be intimidated. If she's waving her paycheck in his face, most men would be like, okay, good for you, or just shrug. I'd personally ask her if her job is still hiring! :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"No problem if you lost interest after giving them a fair chance. You can change your mind. But why did you ghost them instead of just letting them know you weren't interested so they would know what was going on? I would let any woman know that I'm not interested, because I find ghosting to be incredibly rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 02:53 PM |
| 3 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"I'd agree to an extent. A guy might outright lie about his intentions, pretend he's looking for a relationship. If she only had sex because she thought a relationship would follow, in that case I'd say he's using her. Though she still should've used her judgement and perhaps waited to secure the relationship. Outside of that case, it may just be whining that they couldn't "pin down" the guy they wanted, hoping he'd change his mind even though he made clear his intentions. In those cases it's 100… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity"It's toxic, but it's not not toxic masculinity. It's toxic femininity. Cause it's the women propagating this, and it's women benefiting. If men were doing it it'd be masculinity. Word games, denying a man's existence - that's more feminine. Violence, direct domination - that's more masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:25 AM |
| – | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.For me, the loss of sensation makes sex not even worth the trouble with a condom. I'd rather just wait. So that's why I haven't had one-night stands and my sex has been mostly within monogamous relationships where she was on some form of birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:15 AM |
| – | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.Yikes. Are you some kinda Chad, or in a region/community with particularly uncareful people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:12 AM |
| – | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.Dang, unfortunate about that allergy. But glad you've been able to remain clean. I take it you have to tell doctors to use different gloves during medical visits too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:09 AM |
| – | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.Former Shark here! Hehehe, good times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:05 AM |
| – | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.Oh, it's definitely the case. Professional sports leagues like the NBA sends their players an annual reminder not just to use protection, but to to bring their own protection, and to take the used condom with them when they leave, because of that very fact. Cause women who would abort Joe Schmoe's baby won't abort Chad's baby. If you didn't hear about it, look up the Drake-hot sauce thing. Remember that we all have selfish reproductive instincts. Chad will selfishly stick it in as many women as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:00 AM |
| – | Both men and women who want to be strict about condoms are kind of screwed in the dating world.On the sub where we're not supposed to downvote, people are downvoting you. Guess men aren't allowed to exercise reasonable precautions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:55 AM |
| 6 | Q4BP/PP: What is the point of modern relationships/marriage (especially for men)?I'm all of love and whatnot, but getting married doesn't make your love permanent, though. Getting up each day and still appreciating that person is what makes it permanent. You only really know it was permanent when someone dies. There are unmarried people who've been together for 40 years, and married people who couldn't make it to 2 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 12:34 PM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsYikes on the 38-year-old and the 19-year-old. That's WAY unprofessional on the part of both of them, and something should be done about that. Where I work, if a couple works together and one goes up a position, one of them has to either quit or transfer to another location to prevent the higher one from enacting favoritism. It's not bizarre that men find 18-yr-old women attractive, though. They don't have to "normalize" it, cause it IS normal, just as it's normal for women to like tall men. You … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 09:00 AM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsThe ones who don't take care of themselves, you mean. I'm in an active community of people who dance, hike, swim, etc. We've got men and women in their 60's that can run circles around many of the obese 20-somethings out there these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 08:33 AM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsDang, where was he finding all these middle-aged women? Just, uh, asking for a friend. 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 08:28 AM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsThe way you keep using the word "kid" in a discussion about adults is a bit . . . worrisome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:42 AM |
| – | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsI'm curious what these predictable factors are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsGotta say, that's condescending and kinda rude. Just as if someone at 45 said that to you. You can just tell them no thanks or you're not interested or something like that. They're younger than you, yes, but they're not children. They're still adults, and they made a deliberate choice to ask you out, as any man does. They're well aware they're younger than you. Treat them with the same respect you'd have for a guy your age. I say this as a guy who's dated older women, and who regularly hangs out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsYes, some men take advantage of women, whether younger or older. And some women take advantage of men, whether younger or older. But it still stands that men like attractive women. Just as women like attractive men. Most of the time, for normal, non-asshole guys, it's just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:19 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.That actually is consent. It's clearly not enthusiastic, but it is consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:41 PM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Yes, yes, yes. Your reasonableness and good sense here is refreshing. 🙏<3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:27 PM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Because it feeds into the notion that men are owed sex. No it doesn't. It was a man doing something nice and loving for the woman. That doesn't feed into any "owing." It could, perhaps, feed into the idea of being unselfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:22 PM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I've done it. A past gf with an unusually high sex drive, and sometimes I wasn't in the mood, or kind of in the mood but exhausted. But I wanted her to be happy, and I do enjoy making my partner feel good in general. So I did it. It wasn't "enthusiastic," shouting from the rooftops or something, but it was agreed-upon and voluntary. Wasn't rape. Wasn't coercion. I freely chose to go through with it. I didn't fear I'd lose her or anything. I could've withdrawn my consent at any moment, but I chos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:18 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.I agree that men are complaining here - I might be one of them sometimes :P - but where are they complaining that they're owed sex?? They might complain about divorce stuff, or women's bad communication, or body count, maybe other stuff, but they're not demanding sex. Feel free to point me to where you've seen that, but that's not the general vibe I've gotten from men here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:23 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Preach, preacher! I've literally scolded my female friends who've told me they fake orgasms. That sabotages their own pleasure and it ANGERS me that someone would do that, then go and claim to be a "good communicator." And they only create more ignorant men in their wake who hen THINK they're hot shit in bed but have been misled. Sure, some men have egos, but I'm pretty sure that's the minority. I believe that most guys are halfway decent fellas and want her to have a good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:13 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.He's pointing out (some/many?)women's desire for a man with experience, and their avoidance of a man they'd have to teach. For instance, a past gf, after we started dating, outright told me that had she known I was a virgin beforehand, she wouldn't have started dating me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:09 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.I don't know, I feel like you should just know." URRRR *record scratch\* If a woman told me this pre-coitus, it'd kill my mood and I'd just stop right there and turn it into a lecture/lesson on being a damn adult. Which would then kill her mood. No sex that night, I guess. I've had female friends (who I care about and therefore want them to enjoy the good things in life) tell me they've faked orgasms and I dropped what I was doing to basically scold them, telling them to cut that the hell out. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:07 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.I'm curious(lol not in that way) as a straight guy, what IS fun exactly about size? And when it comes to "knowing what to do with it," what can a gay guy with a small dick do with it per se? How will he market himself, knowing that many he's interested are size queens? Or having made it to the bedroom, what can he do to keep a guy coming(another unintentional pun😆) back? And on a tangent from that, what do YOU find interesting in this very hetero-oriented subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:56 PM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Why would you doubt this? It's retail and customer service, and these are products they can't just put back on the shelf, if returnable at all, so the store takes a hard loss on returns. It's in the store's best interest both for reputation and just financially to have a knowledgeable employee so the purchaser can get something that fits their needs. I've never worked in a sex shop, but I've done plenty of customer service. Same reason deparment stores have a fitting room, and other examples are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 11:21 AM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Some would consider that itself a benefit, hehe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 11:17 AM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Even lesbians penetrate each other with toys and strap-ons. Penetration's certainly pleasurable for women - it's just that it's usually not the only thing they need to get to orgasm. And not as central/vital to the experience as it is to men. (good penetration, of course, when he's hard enough and she's wet enough, etc.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 10:12 AM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Agreed, and like an improv troupe member, I'll 'yes-and' to add that women have selfish sex too - pillow princesses, for instance. And faking orgasms - that adds to the problem by training well-meaning men to do the wrong thing. And both sexes can have a solipsistic issue with forgetting that the other's body is different, so they can't assume that what works for them works for their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think it's sexist/misogynistic/problematic for a man to fully avoid and decenter women?Don't we already have this happening with some men? This just sounds like MGTOW - the strict ones avoid any unnecessary interaction with women, and no longer date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think it's sexist/misogynistic/problematic for a man to fully avoid and decenter women?It's not something I would do, but the main reason I can think of for a man avoiding interaction with women to this extent would be for his own safety/peace of mind. How would that be a "gotcha?" In a similar vein, when woman holds her keys in her hand or carries mace for protection against attackers (likely to be male), that's not a gotcha against men; that's just for protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:23 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you think it's sexist/misogynistic/problematic for a man to fully avoid and decenter women?Well he's doing this for his own safety, but if every single man on planet earth had this attitude, the human race would end. And vice-versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:10 AM |
| 3 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?Eh, "everyone wants something different" is sorta true, but sorta false. In a world of 8 billion people, there aren't 8 billion ways to be different. There aren't 4 billion ways to be a woman. Individual people aren't that special, which is what makes is an easy question to answer. Most of us really do want mostly the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?With that short list, you actually DID just build one that would appeal to most men. It's easier than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?"god ass-ets" 😆 You ain't wrong, though. This is the woman a man would wish for when the genie says he has three wishes. And then he'd wish for two more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?Fantastic answer. All of that in one woman is of course wildly unrealistic, but that's what a generalized answer is, and most of it easily applies to most men. That answer covers easily covers most men. I'm happy to say that my girlfriend has a few of those, and that feels rare already. I will slightly echo what someone else said about the blonde/blue-eyed thing. I suspect that a serious desire for a particular eye color is a regional thing. No data to go on there, just my impression from guys I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?Congrats! <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:29 PM |
| -1 | What kind of woman do you think most men would be with if they could be with any woman in the world?Well said! I agree with all of that except the "difficult to answer" part. That was actually an easy answer, especially since it was generic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Are you really "doing it for yourself"?Yep. I say that the vast majority of the time, we're dressing to some extent for others. Maybe the color choice, or the cut of the pants, or the fact that we're wearing pants at all. We don't go to bed wearing tuxedos or low-cut dresses and heels. It's not for us, or only partially for us at most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Are you really "doing it for yourself"?For 99% of us, the way we dress most of the time is not completely for us, and hasn't been since we were like 8 years old. It's not always sex-related, but it is almost always for outside reasons. We wear item A because we want to look good for the opposite sex. We wear item B for job interviews. We wear item C as a work/school uniform. We wear item D for religious ceremonies. We wear item E because we like it and we feel cool in it . . . but upon examination, we only feel cool in it because we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Are you really "doing it for yourself"?Pretty much everyone does. Some just don't want to admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemMer aren't bugged at being nice; we LOVE a nice woman. My girlfriend's super nice and it endears me to her greatly. Men bugged at lying. You can be nice without lying. And you can think you're being nice when you lie but actually mislead someone and make their life ultimately harder. As an example in man world: How helpful would it be for a man to say to his short buddy: "Dude, you're so tall today!" The short man would see through this immediately, thinking his friend was being weird, if not ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemGood luck! Cultivating more male friends is something I need to do. I have mroe female friends than male, which is nice at times, but a drag at times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:13 AM |
| 5 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemIf anything, I gather that most of the compliments men get in the gym are from other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:12 AM |
| 3 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemHurting feelings isn't the worst thing a woman can do at all. They're less capable of hurting a man physically, but they can still do so, knowing that the man is restricted in retaliating. A man acting even in self-defense can be lied about and his word ignored by the police. Women can destroy a man's reputation, domestically or professionally. They can harm boys and get away with it more often. They can take a man's children away, possibly turning his children against him. They can defraud him … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:04 AM |
| 3 | in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problemI call this the accountability gap. That's a great way to put it. I'm gonna use that phrase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Which is more attractive ?Plenty of red-voting women indeed. Which is part of why the liberal women talking about sex strikes are misguided about who their actual enemy is. But, Because since Trump won, there has been an outbreak of "Your body, my choice" Where/how is this happening? Forgive me for not paying close attention to the news; there's alot of news and it seems mostly bad. I assume you're talking about abortion, and only recently, not in regards to Roe v Wade? As far as I know, women can still get abortions in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Which is more attractive ?You didn't specify in what sense you meant "attractive," so I'll say that physically, it shouldn't matter, but the extremes are to be avoided, cause what they think will affect how they treat their body. Extreme liberals may have the shaved heads, multiple tats, and be obese with some misguided idea of false "body positivity." Personality-wise, again, the extremes are to be avoided. I'm probably a moderate who leans slightly liberal. I've been lucky with my current gf, who's a small-town girl wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:59 AM |
| 2 | The only real form of love is unconditional love.You contradict yourself. And looking at some of your responses, it sounds like you're trying to change the definition of the word love. You can't say unconditional love is the only love. "Unconditional" is an adjective to narrow down the meaning of the broader noun "love." So NO ONE can say that ANY type of love is the only type, because there are inherently different types and different extents. That's like saying Hondas are the only true cars, or turkey sandwiches are the only real form of san… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:21 PM |
| 22 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themThey say things like "real men" to refer to the men they want. Or "incel" to refer to any man they simply disagree with. Or "manlet" to refer to short men, and say they're not real men. Or are contemptuous to him for merely attempting an overture. They call basic masculine traits wrong, assuming that men should be like women. They call a man not a man, not because he's not actually a man, but cause she doesn't approve of how he spends his time, or he's not attractive enough. It's the shaming lan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:00 PM |
| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areSounds like you want everyone to stop being supportive of women. Is that right? Huh? What the heck are you talking about?? He said nothing of the sort, and in fact just said that the support for women is good. That does not imply a let's-remove-that solution. If anything, it implies a let's-do-that-for-men-too solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingIf she hasn’t displayed any signs of infidelity Lack of signs of infidelity don't count as proof of lack of infidelity. It's just a sign, not black-and-white proof, therefore, we still don't know - whereas not attacking her is very black-and-white: either I did, or I didn't. I was just pointing out the difference there, between a definite and a maybe. So again, the test is really the only way for her to actually establish a pattern. (Or keeping her guarded in my harem, but who's got the time for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:01 AM |
| 0 | Women had nearly flawless PR until social media which has inadvently led to the RedpillIt's not just "a variety" of sex acts; it's stuff that's in exact opposition to what he - and many men - were told as boys. I think you're being sarcastic, but this is a real, actual discovery that men have to make. You would too, if you'd been lied to about men all your life.Women really WERE framed as practically angelic. This is why so many men have an "angry phase" when they get into RP topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:26 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo one guy has been with enough women to have a representative sample. The high libido women I've met have been a mixed bag. One cheated, one probably didn't. Based on that data, it's a coin toss, and still wiser to be wary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingJust cause it's not an issue personally to you doesn't mean it isn't an issue. Because it is. It's relevant to half the population. Having access to tampons and such isn't an issue to me, but I recognize that it's an issue to women. Same deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingA partner of years doesn't bring pepper spray because the man has displayed, over the course of years, a pattern of NOT attacking her. Whereas with pregnancy (which is much less frequent than dates) the only way for her to display a pattern of not defrauding him is indeed to get the test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingI don't see the contradiction in those htings, necessarily, cause there's a thread there of protecting the interests of men. Whether it's marriage avoidance (in the current state of marriage, not a in a blanket, forever-and-ever-amen way) or universal paternity testing, it's about protecting potential victims. These guys would be fine with the government in their relationships if the government was being fair to them. Had I the capital to invest, I'd gladly open those labs. That would be the mai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testing(Agree, the argument wasn't about health, but there would be health benefits anyway in assuring parentage.) Ran against a database of those crimes? Sure, I'm down. That extends the bounds of our discussion, but totally applicable. Just like universal paternity testing, it would protect people by dissuading potential criminals, and those who aren't dissuaded would be more easily pursued. I think you're being sarcastic at the end there? Well, that's a whole discussion there, with pros and cons. Gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingAsking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating. It's not an offensive thing to ask for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingMade universal, it wouldn't cost that much. It'd just be one more test tacked on to the many tests already done. And even if it did cost a billion, that's what, 4 dollars per year for every adult American? We're already paying more than that in taxes for less useful things that we're not completely on board with or that aren't relevant to us. Hell, I spent several times that in donuts alone in the past week. Even if I never have children, I don't think a few bucks per year is a serious burden fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:43 PM |
| -1 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingYou (and I) already pay for things with our taxes that we're not completely on board with, or that aren't relevant to us. If this was universalized, it'd actually be easy and could be made quite cheap. They already test the baby and parents for a number of things; it'd just be one more thing on the list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingPaternity test only during the first month of dating? Unlikely for a pregnancy that quick. I'd say for the first pregnancy, whenever that happens, after they start dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you be opposed to a public "Cheaters List"?A true list, kept free of false accusations? Hell yeah, do it. Wouldn't make much difference in the life of Chads, and a number of women would still pick a cheater, but regular guys and discerning women looking for someone they can trust would put it to good use. And anyone who gets with a cheater can't act surprised if they get cheated on. It's not a smear campaign; it's data for informed decisions. If it's not a magical list, there'd have to be some sort of verification process and allowance f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you be opposed to a public "Cheaters List"?It wouldn't matter much in that direction, for women choosing men. But for men choosing women it would matter. They'd think twice before getting with a known/confirmed cheater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 02:40 PM |
| 3 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?This right here. A disheartening number of women refuse to actually communicate, and let well-meaning men fumble around their bodies, then get upset. And worse, some fake their orgasms, which only creates men who are bad at sex by giving them faulty data! I've chastised female friends who've told me they've done that. They're sabotaging their own pleasure. Makes no damn sense and it actually makes me angry. 😠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?Actually, if she has been around she's less likely to get attached. More likely to cheat. Pair bonding and long-term satisfaction and all that. I imagine that's where the saying "You can't turn a ho into a housewife came from." So it's not necessarily insecurity for a man to be wary of a promiscuous woman. It's simply playing the odds and making an educated guess. I've experienced it personally. Not making that mistake again. Also to be considered is the woman's orgasms - does she orgasm easily … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?I agree with much of what you're saying. But women certainly do NOT initiate all the time. Not even most of the time. Not even half of the time. They do want sex, but even when horny, they often want the man to initiate, and for the man to guide the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Women don’t actually want to be invisible, they just want selective attention.men are basically taught to brush off behaviors that women are taught to see as sexual harassment Yep. Just about anyone who organizes a social club where both sexes meet has seen this, if they're honest. Women get away with things that would get men kicked out or worse. And we men are complacent in it! We're not fair to our own sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerousWhat, exactly, is the "wrong message?" It isn't a major step backwards for equality. They're choosing to do it. They're not being kidnapped into forced servitude or something. They could get up any time and go get a job. EDIT: This can't be most of them anyway. How many can actually live off what their man makes? It has to be the partners of men who are on the affluent side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 11:08 AM |
| 8 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.My current gf is somewhat like that and she's freaking great. 😍 Gimme a "boring" woman who reads any day. No drama here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 11:42 AM |
| 7 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men."Masturbation with extra steps" doesn't really work as a description. Masturbation is supposed to be easy, quick, simple, and solo. Sex with women is none of those things! 😂 And masturbation is definitely inferior in physical sensation. So some other description would be more appropriate. I agree with the sexual function/release, though - I think sex with a woman appeases the animal brain in our basic programming. They have done a study or two that shows that hormone release post-orgasm is diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.They are, though. Isn't testosterone almost literally the hormone of initiative? Whether male or female, high-T people are more willing to take risks. Since the millennials, women have been told to do what they want, take initiative. Even more so with Gen Z. They're not being told to be quiet and demure. They're not being told to be barefoot at home and pregnant. They've been told that they're equal, they've been given a privilege or two over men. They're told to freeze their eggs and get that b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:21 AM |
| 6 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.Not saying I don't believe you, but I'm curious about those 2 unlucky ones and the process they applied. We know that being so outnumbered by men on apps, a ton of women on apps don't swipe on regular guys, focusing heavily on a tiny percentage of guys. (For instance, I have a good female friend who told me she swiped on only 10% of men and she personally feels she's not being picky enough!) Were your two roommates actually casting a reasonably wide net, to your knowledge? Were they actively mes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:14 AM |
| 1 | It's beneficial for society when women experience negative consequences for choosing the wrong manNot everything. We all know there are bad men who mistreat women, who lie about who they are, and it's not her fault. OP isn't talking about those cases, though. He's talking about when women who SEE the bad traits decide to be with the man anyway. Those who specifically look for bad boys and ignore the good men, then act surprised when the bad men does something bad to her. I imagine most of us by adulthood have seen both scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 09:39 AM |
| 4 | It's beneficial for society when women experience negative consequences for choosing the wrong manBad men should certainly have consequences for their actions, but that's not where OP is focused. He's talking just about the women who SEE the bad traits but decide to be with the man anyway. Those who specifically look for bad boys and ignore the good men. If the man tricks her, that's not her fault. No argument there. But if she knows he's a bad dude and gets with him despite that, that's her fault. I don't know what proportion of women that is, but it's enough to have been noticed by many fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 09:25 AM |
| 22 | Calling men incels as a common insult is unproductive.What about the guys who aren't creepy but are called creepy anyway? Just like incel, the word "creepy" is also being overused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 11:44 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Why are males more likely to stay in miserable marriages?My condolences to you for the jackass that to told you that. That's actually a super sweet and very parental thing you're doing. Good on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 11:21 AM |
| 7 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?Your premise isn't true. Porn is kinda like alcohol. It can be fun, or even beneficial, in moderation. Some people get addicted, but plenty don't. A few idiots mistake it for real life. In my opinion, men who have a negative judgement of women are mainly men who've been hurt by women. They don't get that from porn. Though once they have that judgement, they may seek out porn that matches the judgement they already had. I can easily say yes to your question and give up porn for that woman you des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 11:15 AM |
| 11 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?Those men are in the minority. And even in those cases, porn isn't the cause, but rather the effect. A few potential causes: 1) The wife is physically attractive but has a terrible personality. 2) The wife is great personality-wise, but has a low sex drive. Not her fault. Not his fault. 3) The wife is great, but the man just has a built-in desire for more than one woman. Not her fault. Not his fault. Even in those latter cases, porn itself isn't to blame. In fact, it can sometimes be helpful in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 10:25 AM |
| 5 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?The fact that they continue to watch it doesn't tell us they're addicts. To know that, we'd need to know - to what extent? Is it every day, or just once in a while? Is it taking over their lives and interfering with their relationship? That's what an addiction does. For instance, if I have a drink once a month and don't drive right after, I'm not an alcoholic. But if I'm doing it all the time, and passing out, and becoming unreliable, or becoming dangerous with machinery, etc., that's an actual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?Doesn't the converse follow, then, that men prefer a woman to porn? If that woman in your scenario really is that good to him and having sex with him regularly, most men would have less interest in porn. It's a direct correlation like that for me. I only watch it when in a long-distance relationship. I don't use it when having sex regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 09:56 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's not necessarily rude to ask that. It's a basic information-gathering question, like many, many others. It just happens to be one that women don't like. Just like men don't like when she asks his height, which isn't necessarily rude either. But it can be done in a rude manner, or not. I've asked some or most of my girlfriends but not in a rude way; it just came up in conversation sometime before we were involved, or early on, when talking about past partners. Some volunteered it or it just b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 10:01 AM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe world would be a COMPLETELY different place. An alternate reality. While we're at it, we should have people look more attractive the kinder they are, and uglier the more evil they are, like in some old movies and stories. You could just look at someone and actually know their character, encouraging more people to actually have a good character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?And the fact that you told him what you wanted/needed! Unfortunately, a sad number of women refuse to give basic communication in bed, or worse, fake orgasms, and end up sabotaging their own pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?Reddit is certainly not the end-all-be-all. Take something from it, but take from other sources too, to balance out what you consume. Look at people's experiences, and ask them what they regret, and what they're glad they did. Decide what your regrets are likely to be. Don't just listen to what people say; watch what they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?In my early/mid 20's, while a virgin, I dated a woman who wasn't. It wasn't something I specifically hid; we were still pretty new in the relationship so it hadn't quite come up yet. But once she found out, she said that had she known, she wouldn't have started dating me. She claimed she was worried that once we eventually had sex, I'd suddenly go crazy to find out what I'd been missing and wanna go to other women or something like that. I didn't think it was quite a rational fear, but that's wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 08:58 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD40M, 5 "all the way," though a few more with which I made out and/or came close to having sex with but chose not to. I waited till my mid-20's due to religious upbringing. I also tend to have LTRs, so no free time to rack up encounters; never had a one-night-stand. Attractive enough in facial features and athletic shape, but my height and treating women well probably make me "boyfriend/husband material" instead of ONS material. And on the rare occasion a short-term fling would be possible, it wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?YES. Sometimes men wanna be the little spoon. Right on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?It can be outside of the actual act of sex, but there's still a sexual undertone, cause it's things we don't want from others, or that feel differently from our romantic - and therefore sexual - partner. Being attentive to my body in general - cuddles, hugs are the main thing. Playful kisses even when we're not specifically making out. Back rubs/muscle rubs when I'm sore. Taking care of me when I'm sick? Or maybe that's something else. Sharing music with me that shows that she loves me/misses me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?All about the hugs here too, man. Such good medicine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 08:36 AM |
| -1 | Rapper Waka Flocka walks off Fresh and Fit podcast over debate about rape culture and body count. 6 girls leave as well. Myron says rape culture is a myth. Was he being way too insensitive with this topic whether it’s true or false?They're definitely not saints; I don't agree with them on various things and I'm sure they exaggerate some points for entertainment value. But in their defense - they berate the women who are loud/obnoxious/rude. Some women have left of their own accord without noise or drama. Once or twice I've seen them berate one rude woman, but if she came with a non-rude friend who then also had to leave to give her a ride, they were not mean to that friend. Waka left of his own accord and wasn't loud or ru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Rapper Waka Flocka walks off Fresh and Fit podcast over debate about rape culture and body count. 6 girls leave as well. Myron says rape culture is a myth. Was he being way too insensitive with this topic whether it’s true or false?But that's pickup stuff, not RP stuff, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Red Flag, Green FlagYou sound great to me! But for real, the not expecting some to read your mind is HIGHLY valuable and rare. It's a sign of raw intelligence to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Red Flag, Green FlagWell, average concession is 5 inches, right? Wait, that's something else . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've got one of the rare ones without insta, without even facebook, and under 30. I was pleasantly surprised. Pleasantly shocked, perhaps. But she grew up rurally, and is aware of all the misinformation and nastiness online and knows that she's sensitive enough to not want to deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreaddoes not mean they’ve consented to being objectified in perpetuity I'd agree 30 years ago, but with the nature of the internet and free porn these days, that's kind of exactly what one is signing up for. If I got into porn, I would acknowledge for a fact that I can't later erase that history. It's out there for good, whether I like it or not. And I wouldn't get into porn unless I was 100% sure I liked that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs that most of them though? I doubt that that many men have that kinda cognitive dissonance going on. Otherwise they'd be as vocal as women about the ills of porn, I'd imagine? I, for instance, don't have that dissonance: I watch it from time to time, but harbor no ill will against those doing it, not would I treat them as less of a person if I ran into them in real life. I only harbor ill will against those who are hypocritical about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGabrielle Union. My goodness she's beautiful. Damn near perfection. I also found Kirsten Dunst kinda cute in the Spider-Man movies, but otherwise I haven't really paid attention to her. And strangely, recently I've kinda crushed on Christine Baranski? Or maybe it's more a crush on her character in The Good Fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd stay, sure, if it wasn't her fault, as long as I can get access to someone else's holes. I can love someone and still acknowledge that I don't want a sexless life. And I can love two people, so I'd get look for a second partner. I've been in a relationship with an ovarian cancer survivor whose hole was compromised, so to speak, so I actually have indirect experience with this hypothetical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, he must be. I'm not surprised this happened. Not cause all guys are assholes or something, but cause women are so inordinately picky on dating apps, which they can afford to be, that for her to choose him at all means he must've been a rarefied guy, Chadlike or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | You must pick oneThe first one. Not that difficult a choice. You may be discounting the fact that men probably care less about women's intentional attempts to beautify than the beautification industry makes it out to appear. In this scenario, assuming she's consistent about not putting much effort into her appearance, then this implies she's naturally attractive. Or at least, attractive enough to me. So I knew what I was getting into at the beginning, and I'm unlikely to be disappointed by that. The domestic laz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | No, the 80/20 rule does not existFirst date sex is definitely casual sex. No matter how well the date went, you 1) don't know the person well yet, and 2) don't have a romantic commitment yet. Those two factors are basically the definition of casual sex. If there's only one of those factors, you could maybe argue it's not casual in certain particular cases, but with both of those together, it can only be casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:31 AM |
| – | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?I'm purple pill if anything, and I'll say much the same as the other guys here. Kindness, generosity/unselfish, love of children, intelligence, curiosity, sincerity, sense of humor, loyalty. In more detail: Raw intelligence is good, but doesn't mean she has to be highly educated. As long as she can keep up in conversation and can think critically. Sense of humor doesn't have to be active - in my experience, most women aren't that witty (not cause they can't do it, but cause men have to be the on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.Oh no, not all kids. Look at all the adults who are idiots. They started as kids . . . who were also idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:13 AM |
| 4 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.Don't we already know those answers? I'm not being facetious. Men are just stats to women too, and I think we've already answered those questions: Women would generally choose taller over shorter. More money over less money. Muscular over scrawny. High-status over low-status. Sexually experienced over virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:11 AM |
| 2 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.🦁 Can't blame ya. Gotta make sure she goes into heat so you can start your own pride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:07 AM |
| 3 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.Straight man. Dang. Neither is ideal, but if I must, I say the divorced one, assuming the reason for their divorce was her ex husband's fault, and assuming she wants another child or two. Cause you say long term relationship, I'm thinking possible marriage. Why? The single mom knows how to stick to one man, which is valuable. If I'm considering her for long-term, she's gotta be faithful. The kids are potentially an issue, but if we have one or two more of our own, then I'm good. The other twin i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:05 AM |
| 0 | Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose OptionsIf you don't want shitbags, then stop having sex with shitbags. Yup. I feel bad for women who have been legitimately duped by clever bad men, but so many go willingly with the very blatantly, openly bad men. And women choose which men reproduce. So if women didn't like assholes, assholes wouldn't exist. It's pretty simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:54 AM |
| 4 | what's worst in a marriage, paternity fraud, or Child Support?The first is worse for the man, and the second is worse for the woman. But the worst overall? Paternity fraud, easy. Paternity fraud means the man has no child. Reproduction is more of a gamble for than it is for women, and he's lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Is pro-female bias biologically ingrained in us? Or is it cultural?😲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadAren't most people non-virgins for the same reason? They decided to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThe vast majority of men had nothing to do with this, so sex strikes don't seem like they'd be all that productive to me (unless it's specifically from the wives of the judges). And some men who might otherwise support abortion are certainly thinking, "Welcome to life without reproductive rights, like it's been for men already," so they may be feeling smug enough to counter the trouble of a sex strike. If women want more men to support abortion, they should also support abortion rights for men. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?Agreed. I'd rather have a happy medium, but if I must take an extreme, I'd go with too skinny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?If he's tall that helps alot. Plenty of women would take a tall ugly guy over a handsome short guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:46 AM |
| 4 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?You don't get titillated by that which you do not want. Titillation indicates interest and excitement. If women don't actually want it, titillation is the wrong word. But the popularity of the series is the action that speaks louder than words. And I agree that it seems abusive. That's exactly why it's disturbing that so many women love the series. I'm not an abusive man. I've been trained well by society to now harm women. Even my girlfriend asking for her hair to be pulled during sex disturbed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?Thank you for our honesty and realness. In my experience, porn has only been a second or third-best, a make-do, not a threat to my relationship. I'll use it in a long-distance relationship, but when living in the same city as my partner, or even living an hour or two away, I've gone months or years without watching it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:19 AM |
| -1 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?But I know what I want is unrealistic. You're ahead of 90% of the population by acknowledging that alone. Both sides are unrealistic about some things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 6 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?50 Shades of Gray is arguably creepshow stuff too. Many men, myself included, are downright baffled that so many women like it, and are disturbed by its popularity and what it implies about what women want. It goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceOf course; I understand that a trope isn't guaranteed to be true . . . but it isn't guaranteed to be false either. There can be a seed of truth to a stereotype. Not all, but some. It takes discernment to see where the truth is, if any. And in the case of these dating-related tropes, well perhaps PPD is the wrong place to find guys who DON'T believe them, cause I guess (just off the top of my head, so I could be wrong) that a large proportion of the men on this sub, myself included, have seen som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?I said "among other things." Yeah, there's more to it, but being rich is at the core and according to their own posts, is non-negotiable. They would not consider a poor man high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.“meh if I don’t get it tonight I’ll get it tomorrow” And that's how even completely run-of-the-mill, average, not-at-all-special women view sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.No offense taken. That didn't seem to be aimed at me. As a performer and sometimes-teacher and customer service worker, I certainly have to manage my emotions. And I have to be aware of the difference between reality and perception of reality. Sooo many people are indeed immature, and don't take the time to find out what the reality of a situation is and just fly off the handle. I see it (and have to deal with it) all the time, especially now in the pandemic, and it's left me disappointed in bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Agreed. That's the literal, on-paper definition. But in real life it's not so cut and dry. Ideally, people would just ask, "Do you feel confident?" But they don't. They interpret things the way they see you, not the way you know things to be in your own head. And they'll treat you based on their interpretation, which may or may not be the truth. If you're lucky, if you're dealing with someone who's rational, observant, and/or knows you well, their interpretation will be more accurate. But often … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.That's cool, and sounds like it must have been fun so kudos. So you didn't make the choice early in the night; you made the choice later, maybe last-minute. (Or you made the choice as soon as you met her, but she didn't make the choice until later.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.It's still choosing. Outside of actual rape, it is always choosing. Being drunk doesn't take away your choice. It reduces inhibitions, sure, but you still make a choice of yes or no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.Was it difficult to get hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 4 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.LOL that's gross but also totally awesome. Good for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:15 AM |
| 3 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.the large majority of confidence is the result of how other people view you This right chere. Many don't realize that "confidence" is not just your personal feeling, but also what people think of you. At times, it's mostly what people think of you. Cause for better or for worse, people are just not treated the same. A tall man doing something daring will be called daring. A short man doing the same damn thing may be called "overconfident" or "trying too hard," even if mentally they had the exact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.objectively and conventionally attractive. Conventionally, yes. You can say "widely." You can even say fit common criteria of attraction. You can even say "to many or most men." But "objectively," no. Cause objectively is universal, requiring no clarifying context. If only one man in the world finds her unattractive it's "nearly universal" and you might as well treat is as objective, but you still cannot call it literally objective. For the same reason, chocolate is not objectively tasty. It is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.performance pressure A man's work is literally never done, because even the reward for our hard work requires yet another performance, more work on our part. Such is the life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Highest SMV Male CareerI need to do what you do. That sounds grand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 10:11 AM |
| 0 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceI don't have a scientifically rigorous dataset on hand, but there are the general cultural tropes - look at the popularity of assholes and fuckboys. Sayings like "Nice guys finish last." The testimony of men who've lost women because they were "too nice." And hybristophilia; there's some data out there on that. We do know women are more fond of actual criminals than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:00 AM |
| 0 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceWanting niceness in a partner is more true of men than of women, but that aside -- how many men are ambitious? How many women are ambitious? By ambition I'm talking about acquiring money and doing great public works, and seeking power and status. Doesn't the general appearance of society already imply that it's a masculine trait? And whenever women are asked what they want in a man, ambition readily comes up, but when men are asked what they want in a woman, it's rarely ever mentioned. Do a poll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?That's not at all what he asked. You completely made that up. He asked, "what's your understanding of our thinking?" He wants to know your perspective on what men are thinking. He's trying to learn something about your thought process by seeing what you think about ours(men's). And he might also want to learn something about men in the process too, cause some things about yourself you can only learn with the help of an outside perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?Assuming those boys are heterosexual, they're screwed. . . . By which I mean, they may not ever get screwed. 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceThose are separate and unrelated to confidence and ambition. The first three are related to health; both genders want a healthy partner. Confidence and ambition are not related to health; they're personality traits. Attraction isn't symmetrical. And it's probably better that way, biologically at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:00 PM |
| 3 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?Lol! The way you put it is hilarious . . . but also sad and it happens. It hit me back when I was dating the town bicycle, and I pictured us getting married and realized that half (if not more) of the guys she would likely invite were guys she's had sex with. It was not a comfortable thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?It's just a question. But perhaps the men who care are narcissistic if that's what you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?We both have expectations on us, and pros and cons based on biology, but as far as sexual "performance" and sociosexual expectations go, the heavier weight is on men. Men have the burden of: - having to magically know what to do to please the other partner. Women often want a man with experience, and yet are more reticent to directly say what they want in bed. Men are more willing to teach a woman who isn't doing it right. Despite being the less experienced one in literally every relationship I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceYou're still you, the best qualities of you. Well who defines "best" here? If it's your own definition, then I guess it's still you. But OP isn't talking about one's own definition of "best," but rather, what the opposite sex considers a positive. For instance, if I don't care about making money, but rather, say, knitting, I can be my best self and do that. But I'll likely attract more women by focusing on making money instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceI see what you're saying there, but you're not accounting for the proportions. OP is implying that most women like personality type A. If those who liked personality type B were common, OP would've found someone already and wouldn't have been moved to make the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:15 AM |
| 0 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible advicebeing confident and ambitious doesn't have to be masculine Those are things women value in men, though. Doesn't that imply therefore that they're inherently masculine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Would you want your son / daughter dating a woman/ man like you?Oh yeah, definitely. I'm intelligent, sincere, a good dancer, caring, patient, attentive in bed and I have lesbian-level pussy-eating skills. I have faults, certainly, but I can communicate with my partner and make compromises. I'm drama-free, so I may be kinda boring to some, though. I'd be happy with my daughter dating someone like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:16 AM |
| 20 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?Oh certainly, easy yes. Masculinity is a precarious thing. In dating, women's standards of masculinity is higher on men than men's standards of femininity are on women, so women have more wiggle room to flout the standards and still land a guy. And a women can question a man's sexuality at any point. Outside of dating, women are seen as "powerful" and "boss babe," etc., for taking on masculine traits, but men are seen as less for taking on feminine traits. It should be no surprise that men fear … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?there are arguably more women who like being dominated than men who like dominating That's certainly been true in my experience. Ive had girlfriends tell me they want me to pull their hair and be rougher, etc., and it 100% for them, NOT for me. I'm definitely more the gentle lover type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?And English orthography is terrible too. Can't blame ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?What she shouldn't do is shame woman who don't pick the same thing Is that really happening though? It seems to me (my perspective is limited, of course) that many more women are shaming women for wanting to me wives and mothers than they are shaming women for wanting to be powerful and financially successful. Some feminists, though they have a nice idea about equality on paper, have gone too far in encouraging women to NOT be wives and mothers and to eschew men entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol I hadn't heard of Winter Vagina until now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:05 AM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet's remember that this is a woman's rating, and women aren't as conerned with measuring and accuracy as men are. So I'd take this info with a grain or two of salt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTake my ex out of the count and the whole population's average would drop. Bazinga! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy condolences for your losses. It stinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think anyone would want to be with a partner who thought there body was meh but the connection was good, man or woman. True, most wouldn't want that ideally - but I think it happens in many, many relationships. Women'll take a meh body in a man if he makes money, and men'll take a meh body in a woman if she has a cool personality and has potential to be a good mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue dat. Make it mean something! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot sure, but maybe Rumchata. Love the sweet stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo be fair . . . they sure are! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Protective instinctSadly . . . you're probably right. It's the "women are wonderful" effect. I've felt that too. When I see a woman crying, I feel moved. I don't think I get the same reaction seeing a man crying, even though I KNOW that a man's tears are more serious than a woman's. Despite the strife between the sexes, we may very well be built to protect women and let them get away with stuff, which just isn't fair to us . . . though it might make perfect sense on the grand reproductive scale of the species. Ugh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah I got lost in the mush and cut my losses. There's only so mch time the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen it turns out you two have been rabidly against each other on PPD but in person you can't keep your hands off each other. PP Darling, the latest rom-com, coming to a theater near you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:08 AM |
| 5 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterBasically if anyone says their past doesn't matter, consider it a red flag. The main ingredient of the present is the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterCondolences on the breakup. I hope you learn something and teach something here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 5 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterWell it still defines or informs who they are, because it was the bullying that drove them to become successful. Whether positive or negative, the past is the main ingredient of the present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Men are hypergamous too, but with looksNope. Hypergamy is about social class and status, but even if you shift it to looks, it still doesn't make sense for men, because hypergamy is also about comparison to oneself. Men do want attractive women, certainly, but they're not specfically seeking someone more attractive than themselves. That wouldn't make sense either, cause we're judged on two different scales of attraciveness. Hypergamy is also about trying to get the best one. Two problems with that: 1) Guys want something great, but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Men are hypergamous too, but with looksThis answers like 89% of the strife here, but people will downvote for daring to say that they're being irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?You've been denying it this entire time. In saying that men "are not pursuing women genuinely comfortable with casual sex," you're moving the focus of what impedes sex onto the men, implying that getting sex from women is easy, and that men are their own stopgap. If women were the more active sex, if the majority of women were comfortable with casual sex, your focus on the men's mistakes would make sense; men would indeed be stupid in that scenario to pick the wrong woman. But it's the reverse: … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Protective instinctI feel protective of family and some friends, the closer ones. I feel protective of my romantic partners. I feel some protectiveness for all children, and try to help if there's something happening, though I wouldn't risk my life for children I don't know. No kids of my own, but if/when I have them, I'm already sure of my biological programming, that I'd be protective of them and want the best for them. It's an instinct. It's programing, and it makes sense. We wouldn't have made it this long as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh thanks. Lol. I find that phrase funny 😂. . . but I feel bad laughing at it. 😢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Correct. Because most women are not genuinely comfortable with casual sex. Which is my point. Women are the limiting reagent. In any interaction, the less comfortable person is the limiting factor. Women are less comfortable with casual sex, therefore they're the limiting factor. It's pretty straight-forward and should be easy to understand. Exceptions exist, for instance, genuinely religious men, but they're not the norm. Now I was one of those exceptions and it was painfully easy to see that I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I wasn't challenging if you'd date them. You asked about paying for sex and I was answering that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt ruined not just the freindship with her, but the whole group? Dang. That's unfortunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:49 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?The overwhelming feeling I come away with after having read what you wrote here is sadness. Remember that with different sex comes a different background, different biological motivation, different societal treatment, and so on. What's seems sad to you may actually be ideal for someone else. For instance, I work overnight (it's currently 3:45am) and others avoid it like the plague cause it would bore them TO DEATH. But it works for me, and I'm great at it. I don't judge them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:47 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Well pedophilia is towards actual children, which is not most men. Pedophiles are rare and abnormal. The majority of men find youth attractive, but it's still constrained within reproductive maturity. She still needs to look like a woman and not a child. So if you changed the laws, definitely some men would date younger, but I think the age of consent is already kinda low so I don't think men would go much lower than that. I personally think official age of adulthood should be raised to 19 or 20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:40 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Yikes! Well that stinks that guys were coming at you that young. I'll say that generally men do feel protective of youngsters who look like youngsters. I'm a man who has babysat and helped strangers' kids in trouble. Unfortunately, kids don't look like kids anymore. When the girl looks like a woman, it may activate the guy's lizard brain, but once he learns that she's way too young he can choose to not act on it. The guy who actually wants a girl who looks like a girl is a problem though and tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:33 AM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Yep. I was a virgin until my mid-20's, for religious reasons. But even while abstaining, I certainly still craved it. My sex drive was still there. I get you on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell it wasn't just you that screwed that up. She did too. It takes two to tango. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:03 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExcuse my ignorance, but what's an SBIJ? All I've got is "small business institute journal" and I'm sure it can't be that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn general they are, and it's by far my best feature. Depends on the person. Some go ga-ga for them, some prefer dark, some don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlot of men are dying to be taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:28 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHa! That woman sounds like an ex of mine; I'm sending her the link and she should get a good laugh out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Women. Women are the thing that keeps men from getting free casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:08 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?You're forgetting/discounting several major things here. 1) It's not that that specific man has trouble getting laid. It's that almost all men do. It takes work to get sex. It costs money and time, whether it's with a prostitute or not. 2) Men don't get casual sex by being clear with women about it. It just does not work that way. The majority of women - even the slutty ones who DO want casual sex - just don't approach it as directly as men. Men have to wine and dine her, and/or work hard for ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Your orgasms aren't real and I guess your furniture isn't real either? 😂 I play piano mostly for myself, for fun. But when I get the opportunity to charge for it, of course I'll take it. I'be glad that you enjoy what you do and get paid for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?You're projecting. It's important to remember that you're not everyone. Other people are real, and have their own desires and motivations. OP already acknowledged that not all prositutes enjoy it, maybe not even most of them. But some do. And even if they do, they're SMART to monetize it. They recognize that there's an EASY money-making opportunity that doesn't feel like work. It is the dream to be able to get paid for something you would do for free; those few women are livin' the life that mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Better question: are they okay finding out that their man slept with men in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 06:08 AM |
| 5 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?Because we're not the same. You ever think about how a real-life First Contact would go? There may be very little we can connect on with an alien race, cause their life experience may be radically different from ours. It's not to the same extent here, of couse, cause we're all human, but it's still alogn those lines. We're literally built different. We're born different, before any acculturation. Then our social training give us different things for years before we're capable of thinking for our… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Gut check: how do we, as a community, feel about staying friends with your exes?Depends on how the relationship functioned and how it ended. It can end maturely, with mutual respect, or it can end with bitter resentment cause one or both of the partners is/are an irredeemable asshole. One of my exes is probably my best friend today. We hang out regularly; I help her and she's helped me. Another one, she could die in a fire and I'd think that's still too good an ending for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?What about the hands? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?I've heard that a shoulders-waist ratio of 1.6 is ideal for attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?1.) meets my physical requirements (face, style, build, hair) What are those? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?🙋♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What are the best online dating services? What are the worst and which ones are in between?Is anyone looking at if the responses here align to gender? Might be an interesting bit of data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks?Lol I had no idea this was a thing! (guess I've been wasting opportunities!) I've gone to gay bars with friends just cause we're social dancers and there was a dance thing going on. I've gotten hit on by a guy or two but no big deal. I've definitely seen women I found attractive, but assumed it was safer to assume they're gay and not try anything. I've also organized LGBT-frendly dance events and in a non-club, no-alcohol setting, I've chatted up and flirted with some of those women. Many social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks?Based on what you said I'm curious, then: what does your husband look like? Is he not what other women would consider attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:22 AM |
| 10 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyActually, the context here is "caring what people I'm romantically/sexually interested in think about me." It's a man, and the topic, being on PPD, relates specifically to relationships, so the general "people" is overly broad. The OP has a narrower topic. I'm not saying you're wrong per se. I'm just saying that you're somewhat off-topic. On PPD people are generally talking about romantic/sexual relationship unless otherwise stated. So what other men think is not relevant to OP here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:11 AM |
| 2 | If men thought of and treated and women based on how women treat and think of men, what would men be changing, or what are men already doing appropriately?It's probably better that we don't treat women the way they treat us. Women are brutal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:05 AM |
| 1 | males tend to want the best women without knowing their own standards.It gets plenty of likes because she is what they want. Do you click like on things you do not actually like? Why would a man do that? Cause that's what you're implying here, and that's patently absurd. Non-relationship example. I like pineapples and dislike cucumbers. If you offer me both, I'll choose the pineapple. It would be real stupid to choose the thing I dislike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?And they turn around and say that men are the ones doing the objectifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:34 PM |
| 9 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Female Dating Strategy, a female-only subreddit where they talk strategy. Probably most men would consider them toxic and unrealistic, and maybe even a bit scary. They're hyper-focused on vetting for HVM (high-value men, implying among other things that he's rich), waiting before having sex, his height, and ghosting men who don't fit. Some of those are valid things for women to consider, but they take it to an extreme and encourage being bad at communicating with/to men. Some of their members ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?You'd be surprised how many there are out there who are totally ignorant, or who refuse to accept it when they're taught. Some are naive, some were sheltered, some are just stupid, some are entitled . . . it adds up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 0 | [CMV] Men struggle with sex because they pursue women with low/average sociosexualityWell let's be honest and realistic here. It is exceedingly rare, but it's not impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen are capable of that, but don't focus on it. We don't hate our bodies; our bodies are just . . . there. Our bodies are instruments, both to ourselves and to women. And a mark of a man's success is how many women they can get. That's difficult, and that which is rare and difficult is what is valued. So to get more attention from women would make us feel more positive. I think - I guess? - that it has to do with what tangible results our bodies get. As men, we have to go from reality - we recog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA true, legitimate body positivity movement for men won't happen unless women buy in. This would require women to date shorter men and date broker men, which I don't see happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrThat's unfortunate. But what you've seen was probably an unusually concentrated pocket, not the overall norm. Generally, if a guy makes fun of another guy about his partner, it would be if the woman's ugly, not about her height. Or they'll just say nothing if they have nothing nice to say. I think more often, the woman has to contend with her friends saying something about it, putting doubts in her mind. I'd agree that some preferences feed into each other, but remember that men are the less pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs and behavior of a "post wall" woman?If only! 😆 But they can't take what they themselves dish out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | What are the signs and behavior of a "post wall" woman?Wow, she's impressively fit! If more American women did just HALF of what she did, I daresay the whole country would be in a different place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:35 PM |
| 21 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?The storyline. Just assume that everything is more complicated for women. They don't (generally) just see a man. They see a "story" that is wrapped around a man. They want a backstory, a context, a prologue, intro chapter and warm-up before getting to the juicy parts . . . if they bother to get there at all. (And being the receptive/passive/picky sex, they have the luxury of waiting if and when they want to, cause a man is always ready and willing to get to the juicy parts when she eventually, f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltr5'7" is short - it's just not very short. (assuming you're in the U.S., 5'9" is average) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 01:07 PM |
| 2 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrLikely that plenty of shorter men have been interested, but most of them are assuming you wouldn't say yes. (a few of them are insecure or find you less attractive, but that's the minority) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrActually, some of them are. 5'4" guys are struggling alot. 5'7" guys are struggling somewhat. 5'9" guys have an average amount of struggle. 6'0" guys struggle less. 6'4" guys barely struggle. It's on a cline, like many things in life. They struggle, but they're still taller than the average woman, so it's not hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 4 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrI guess OP is saying something along the lines of "short guys just go die somewhere so we can forget about them?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:03 AM |
| 3 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrOh, it's a disadvantage. It actively counts against you. It's not a passive. Some things are, but not short height. If it was such a neutral "lack of advantage," all these posts wouldn't exist. Women excessively post shit about short men on places like FDS, they give nuclear rejection to short men in real life, and men are constantly complaining about it here because it's a real thing. It's as real as the sun is hot. Yes, you can work on other things to bring your average up, certainly. But in o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:01 AM |
| 20 | real talk: unless u r tall or very short your height wont play a role in dating and ltrA few definitely do, but the proportion is waaay less than the number of women who have an issue with being the taller one. Generally, guys care more about the woman's shape/proportions than her height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Men will call women out for "weaponizing" sex, since they claim it's an "equal value exchange", but will then refuse to pleasure their partner.Lol. Ah, the cringefest that is humanity. Can't blame ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Curiosity Post: What famous people do you find sexually attractive?A cornucockia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | What are your OSRI (Open Sex-Role Inventory) results? Are you more fem? More masc? Non-binary? Androgynous?Haha! I see you, fellow straight-but-squint-and-they-seem-almost-gay dude. I love women and I love musicals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 12:06 PM |
| 2 | What are your OSRI (Open Sex-Role Inventory) results? Are you more fem? More masc? Non-binary? Androgynous?Cis-Het Male here. Masculinity 90, Femininity 99! I'm surprised the fem is higher, though I guess I'm not surprised that they're close. I'm a friendly guy, more female friends than males. Started in male-dominate major and finished in a more even or slightly female-dominated major. They say men are interested in things and women are interested in people, but I like both. I don't understand what the difference between "undifferentiated" and "androgynous" would be. https://imgur.com/1siK7Pc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 11:01 AM |
| 1 | I'm giving up: science is seen as sexist. I'm not a "pill" guy, I just happen to study behavioral biology and criminal profiling in my spare time. You'll always have the same idiotic ideas.Maybe our biological program isn't as concerned with self-preservation as we'd like to think it is, especially for men? We're the more "disposable sex," after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?It's the same thing, and they should be treated on the exact same level as women's makeup. But we all know that women are given more leeway in being visually deceptive. That's just how it is. And women judge men on more immutable factors, so a man finding out his woman wears makeup doesn't lead to the same adverse reactions as a woman finding out her man wears lifts. That's just an unfairness of life. 🤔 After all this talk about it, now I'm thinking of investing in a pair, but only for job inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 11:04 AM |
| 0 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?He was a liar and she was a dummy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 6 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?Haha! That guy knows how to hack women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?Wow. So he lied . . . but so did she in a sense, cause she didn't actually require a man to be that tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?😮 Dang, is that makeup, or special effects?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 10:44 AM |
| 6 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?This definitely happens. I'm spending years of adulthood cleaning up after childhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men who have sex, please share your story of successful IRL approachesAll my sex has been in LTR's, so while the quantity has been lower than I'd like, I think the quality of my sex has been on the higher side. My approaches were all or mostly also long-term/slow burn. It took at least a few months building up rapport by phone (half of my relationships have been long-distance) or in-person hangouts. None of them were someone I immediately "targeted," but rather, someone with whom I was pleasantly surprised to find a rapport growing. So my "approach" hasn't been ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men who have sex, please share your story of successful IRL approachesHow'd I make her sing? Surely bro it ain't no thing But a chicken wing. A modern-day PUA's haiku. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Wow, I'd never heard of a permanent lip tint before. Looking it up now, I see the logic behind it. So I'd agree, some women could definitely fool men with them. Well if it's there permanently and doesn't feel weird when in contact with my lips, it might not bother me. But in my social circles of vegans/organic/borderline hippies/etc. people, it's unlikely to find a woman who'd do that. Edit: I'm gonna mention it to my ex who likes wearing lipstick and see if it's something she'd do. Might make f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Women and men aren't on the same spectrum though. (Unless you're specifically talking about a bisexual/pansexual person who leans toward preferring women. But we're assuming heterosexuals here.) I see what you're getting at, but the comparison doesn't work because while mathematics skill is judgable on the same spectrum for everyone, attraction isn't. Women judge men on one spectrum and men judge women on another spectrum. My argument is simply that the spectrums should have the same shape with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.No way; that dude is buff as hell at his age! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.Question about your attraction for him: Do you just avoid looking at his belly? Or is that part unattractive but became acceptable as your feelings for him grew? Or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness.The most American of pies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?the vast majority of men just aren’t attractive How could that actually be possible, though? Things like this can only exist on a bell curve, cause some are extra ugly, some are slightly ugly, many are meh, some are kinda cute, some are super hot. The vast majority cannot be unattractive cause nature - and math - just doesn't work that way. I think it's more likely that women, with tons of options due to horndog men and due to online dating - which provides an absurd amount of options beyond wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?"Looks" covers the face and the body. Remember that meme of the boyfriend checking out another woman? He's not looking at her face. Some care more about one of the other, of course, but you don't know that until they say so, or until you see someone they consider attractive and can infer from that. Now if a man says "cute," that is likely referring to just the face. And "sexy" can refer to just the body, though it's not a guarantee. For instance, I think that Melissa McCarthy is cute, but not ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Not me. I learn early on, cause I make a point to tell the women I date that I don't like a ton of makeup, that I want to see her natural. I don't even kiss her lips if she's wearing lipstick, just cause I don't like the feel of the residue on my lips after. This might make me an exception, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 4 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?For most people, I'd say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?It's not ludicrous at all! It's actually extremely rational, efficient, and expedient. I've more or less had that idea, and I'd almost call it a fantasy, imagining that I could go on a first date with a woman and see her naked, check out her parts, sniff the pussy, etc. - and it's not at all a fapping fantasy, but rather an engineer's fantasy, for the part of me who appreciates optimization and efficiency. She'd smell me too (women's sense of smell being potentially a predictor or reproductive c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it?Uh . . . since when did women get called out more for it? Or have I been living under a rock? Seems to me that they're only just starting to get called to task, as men become emboldened with the rise of RP and MGTOW and increased attention to incel groups. Both sexes are composed largely of idiots who should be called, of course, since they're composed of humans. But in my lifetime, there seems to have been more disdain and suspicion towards men. As for responsibility, well we can't be blamed to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:33 AM |
| 3 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedWtf? That's just . . . wow. Those are what we call dummies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Seinfeld is proof that people were picky before OLDLol. Those people were specifically portrayed as more selfish and self-centered than the average person. Real-life men with average height (Jerry is two inche taller than average) and income can't afford to be as picky as Jerry. Elaine was slightly more realistic simply because woman are naturally pickier, and she was pretty enough for most guys. But still, overall the characters were over-the-top and that's part of what made it entertaining. (That was a funny episode tho!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Withholding resources can and has been a valid mating strategyWe can try, but most women just don't want to be providers. Even when they make plenty of their own money and could support a family, they still seek a man who makes more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Is the gist of the argument of most male posters here "women should BECOME attracted to the average man"To convince someone of what they shoudl be aroused by, if anything, seems like what women are trying to do these days with the fat acceptance movement, or with those who say ridiculous things like "Why don't you try men?" As a guy if I had a chief request of women it'd be not that they change what they're attracted to (not really possible), but rather that they be more direct in their communication and honest about what they really want from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:01 AM |
| 160 | New article finds that apps like Bumble have women feeling dismissed and dejectedMen have traditionally done more of this work. Many of them don’t exactly cherish initiating conversations with countless strangers, a process that’s rife with anxiety and rejection. For heterosexual matches on Bumble, women are now required to do the part. Yet to place the work of initiating conversation solely on one group seems to encourage passivity in the other party, which seems to only hamper healthy communication. Huh. Who'd a thunk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:55 AM |
| 2 | For those of you that watch porn, particularly creampie or cuckold fetish, why?Apparently it makes sex feel ‘complete’ for men. Correct. When I hear couples talking about the pull-out method I tell them they to get some damn condoms or birth control, cause it's fighting deep, primal instincts to not cum inside, and not every guy can be trusted in that moment of passion. For me it would be deeply unsatisfying to not cum inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to truly love a woman and convey it without her losing attraction for you?Me too. Poppin' that lactase though cause some things are too tasty to cut out of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenHuh? You're not making any sense. Boys are irrelevant to the discussion because children don't care about this stuff before they start puberty. This matters to men. Women don't have to worry about it, so it is literally a manly thing to worry about the paternity of your child. It's okay if you don't like it, but don't call it something it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Is There Anything You Can Do Or Say Which Can Determine If A Woman You're Talking To Is Interested Or Not?Yep. That's happened to me to. I was like, "Really, her?" I consider myself observant, for a guy at least, and I still totally missed it. Maybe also cause I wasn't interested in her, so I wasn't paying attention? But I felt like even if I was paying attention, there wasn't anything overt there to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Is There Anything You Can Do Or Say Which Can Determine If A Woman You're Talking To Is Interested Or Not?When you're a star, they let you do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Is There Anything You Can Do Or Say Which Can Determine If A Woman You're Talking To Is Interested Or Not?if she's interested in you it's obvious If it was, the question wouldn't have been asked. Alot of guys miss these things. Alot of people are just shockingly oblivious, and some women are extra subtle and unclear with their communication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | For those of you that watch porn, particularly creampie or cuckold fetish, why?I don't especially watch cuckold; to me alot of the cuckold videos are way, way cringe. But if it pops up and the woman is attractive and they're not over the top with it, sure. I can just focus on the hot fucking aspect of it and ignore the cuckold aspect, which is something I'd never go for in real life. Creampie is satisfying to watch, cause that's what a guy wants to do in real life, of course. That's the natural thing in real life. But in porn these days, facial seems to be the norm. The su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex?You don't say if it's simply no sex until marriage. Assuming it's no sex forever, well, I"d consider it, but it'd have to be an open relationship where I could have sex and children with someone else. People talk about "sexual frustration" and this sounds like exactly that kinda situation, cause being romantic with her would get me going sexually too, without an outlet, and that can really mess someone up eventually. There are folks like this, where for some physical or mental reason one partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible to truly love a woman and convey it without her losing attraction for you?Damn. You're like in the top 2% and you can't find a quality woman. What the hell are the rest of us supposed to do? I really feel your dream. It's hard to be a compassionate man who wnats to be genuine and cuddly. This world ain't made for guys like us. But congrats on what you've got so far; at least you're in a position to capitalize on it if you do find her. Good luck. <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to truly love a woman and convey it without her losing attraction for you?There's an entire chapter on bananas, cause some people love them, some people hate them, and some, like myself, enjoy eating them but find them distracting in a milkshake, potentially overpowering the main ingredient that I actually wanted to taste. Good to explore alternative thickeners like avocado and protein powder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread37, purple I guess. Not as close as I'd like. She's always been a tough women, and hard-working. I know she loves me, no complaints there. But she's abrasive and impatient and thinks she's right about EVERYTHING. She's a negative reinforcement kinda person, always complaining about anything in my life that she doesn't understand. She's kinda solipsistic, assuming my mood and my needs. But we're very, very different people. So it's difficult and a chore to talk with her, though I love her. So I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenIt wouldn't be a lot of public money though. If done universally, the costs would drop significantly. It'd just be bunded into all the other tests done on newborns anyway. One more test with clear societal benefits. Even if I never have children, I'll gladly pay a few tax dollars towards something with such clear benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenActually it means less. Because women would now be incentivized to not cheat, or at lest to abort the child if it's not their man's, or if they don't have a steady man. The number of out-of-wedlock kids would reduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenIt matters when you go to the bank and get asked for an ID. It matters when you go to drive and they require a driver's license. It matters when you go to your email and you're asked a password. All of those are to protect you from fraud, cause some people are deceitful and would steal from you. It's the exact same thing. So when you're against it, you sound like you support fraud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenSo you support fraud and theft. Got it. Officer, arrest this one right here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenWidespread DNA testing would cause women to not cheat, or at least to not birth a cheat-child. So there would much fewer children that drain the state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI'm for it. It would probably end up saving society some money overall. No more civil paternity suits. Doing it universally means the federal government or municipalities or whatever can negotiate dirt-cheap contracts or something (I'm not an economist, but scale, right?)which reduce the cost of doing it, just one more boring-ass item bundled into the other costs of having a child. And doing it universally prevents the bad-faith shaming of the man for addressing a legitimate concern, and release… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI’ve never cheated in my entire life and never even considered it. Yes, but he does not know that for sure. I've never committed fraud against anyone and have never even considered it. But when I go to the bank, they don't know that for sure. And they're at risk if I'm lying. So they ask for an ID to ensure that I'm not stealing from someone. And it doesn't offend me, because I recognize that some people DO commit fraud. It's not personal. Doing the paternity test is the exact same thing as all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?Damn, bro. That is freaking cruel. Sorry you've been through that. <3 And it's sad that the women we want to connect with won't grasp this existence at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.Well you (women in general) do rate us men too, just as much as we rate women. Our height, for instance, is one way women rate us. And that's a much more rigid number than any number men give women. Your issue isn't actually with the rating - it's with cruel people. People will be cruel using any tool at their disposal, whether emotional or physical, whether verbal or numerical. Rating will never go away and is an integral part of what humanity is. But cruelty is something I hope we can do away … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some."It makes little sense to me to limit yourself" We're not limiting ourselves - as in, it's not conscious. We don't choose who we're attracted to. We can make compromises and choose to be with someone we're not that attracted to, or choose to avoid someone we're very attracted to if we know they're trouble. But the raw attraction itself isn't a choice. For me, I do have a physical type, but a woman's personality can go a good way towards making her seem more attractive, or at least making me more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.and cruel when it comes to people It's not about cruelty. It's about comparison. Which we do in every other field in life as well. You get grades in school. You have a credit score. You have a net worth, an age, a white blood cell count, a pay grade at work, etc., etc., etc. For better or for worse, we'll never stop rating people in some way or another, until the day we become something other than human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:55 AM |
| 3 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.You may be an exception in how your attraction works, but it's important to point out that most of the time, even people who do not want children still have types that are biologically based on reproduction. The things that men generally find attractive in women are the things that suggest reproductive ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.The short girls will also give it up to you more easily, as you're the tall Adonis they demand, even when it's grossly disproportionate to their own height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?Why, besides your Y chromosome, do they despise you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:31 AM |
| 7 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?All of this has happened before, and all of it will happen again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?Definitely, of course. That's included in the inconveniences and risks we must deal with. We face constant, repeated, often painful rejection. It stinks, but it's our lot in life. 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 5 | What are the quotes/texts that you think best encapsulate your experiences as the gender/sexual preference you are, dealing with the opposite sex and dating?Both sides are screwed here due to our stupid animal genes. Women don't exist for men's pleasure, correct. But we all do exist to complement each other and reproduce, and unfortunately, that will only happen if men approach women. This is one of those things where you can't have it both ways. I guess I absorbed the typical polite gentleman/good boy training in childhood, cause I don't approach women in their place of work - but I understand why other guys do, and I acknowledge that I'm passing u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notOoh, Blackarachnia! Damn, it's been years. I see the resemblance. Nice to see a fellow Beast Wars fan! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | How a n count is even calculated? Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive?In a row? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat'll do it. I've got packrat tendencies by nature, but having to move multiple times has forced me to minimize on stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFeel bad for him. But then big YIKES at one of the comments: After a rough year with less and less sex, it was a sudden burst of sexual energy out of seemingly nowhere that clued me in to the fact that my SO was suddenly trying to have a baby despite our conversations on the topic and the fact she was supposed to be on BC. I finally confronted her and she came clean that she suddenly had this crazy drive to have a baby, and "pulled the goalie" in an attempt to trick me into fathering it. I broke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notAh, that helps narrow it down! I couldn't put my finger on what exactly is was, but yeah, something about the shape/size of her jaw and how it connects to her cheeks is off. Plus, her neck is disturbingly long in some photos. In a photo or two, she reminds me of D'Vorah from Mortal Kombat: https://cdna.artstation.com/p/assets/images/images/000/641/176/large/marco-nelor-dvorah-5.jpg?1443932002 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notSuper attractive: - Gabrielle Union. 😍 She's been my "celebrity wife" for years. I'd simp for her. - Scarlett Johansson. Above average: - Kajol from Bollywood. Even with her unibrow, she's got a great smile. https://cms.qz.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/kajol.jpg?quality=75&strip=all&w=900&h=900&crop=1 - Kendra Lust. Hot damn. Her body is perfection. Just something about her face is . . . ever-so-slightly masculine? Maybe it's the chin. - Janet Jackson in her heyday. Yes, please. - Allison Mack … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or nothis personality adds to his looks. Yes, it adds to his looks. But it can only do that because they were separate things in the first place. Looks and personality can interact, but they are not the same thing. They are inherently separate. They both must be taken into account in figuring out someone's general, overall appeal. But they are their own individual aspects of any given person, and this conversation only exists in the first place because they are separate things. When I think of my roma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notI can't quite decide how I feel about her. Certian angles I like her look, and others I think she looks weird. I did think she had some cuteness about her in that "Emma" movie though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHell yeah. I could eat garlic bread every day of the year and not tire of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood stuff. It can indeed be used for good and it seems people don't talk about that. For work on self-control, or even educational purposes some of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh they're both lifting heavy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue. I've met some pear-shaped women who looked worse when they lost weight, or in older pictures, cause they lost DAT ASS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'll give you some of the snow where I'm at. I have no need for it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Men Who Look For Partners Overseas And Search For Love In A Different Country. Thoughts?Except their children are all in government sponsored day care Well that's a good deal for her! Where's the money for this coming from, the husband's payroll taxes? And/or general shopping/services/munipal taxes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | If you are going to be vulnerable with a woman by lowering your guard with her it's wise to only do so if you are callous enough to withstand her scoff, scorn, or laughter. And to have the ability to walk away and go about your day if she does.I'm not saying that people should stop vetting, or that men should be lazy. One should be vigilant and watch for red flags. (I'll admit that I've ignored red flags before.) But I'm just pointing out that in the end, despite your vetting, you might still end up with a jerk, and some things just cannot be vetted for until the actual situation happens, until the actual shit hits the fan. Some people (of either sex) even manage to hide their nastiness until marriage, then transform into their final … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust went through it myself, and though I cant' say for sure, I imagine it was omicron, from the mild symptoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAwww! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wanted to have an honest conversation with him and I asked why. Lol she's a dummy or being disingenuous if she's actually surprised at his reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not that they need to be told that looks matter. That's very broad and most anyone can pick up on that. It's that they need to be told what specifc aspects of looks matter, cause they're coming in with assumptions based on what they themselves look for. People need to be told that attraction isn't symmetrical. For instance - I always assumed that things like my face and my hygiene mattered, and I assumed correctly there. But yt was not obvious to me that my height matters. I still remember … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah I've seen women right here on PPD claiming that women don't care about height, that men care about height more, and that women are just as visually stimulated as men. And I'm like, do you know any humans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:42 AM |
| 3 | If you are going to be vulnerable with a woman by lowering your guard with her it's wise to only do so if you are callous enough to withstand her scoff, scorn, or laughter. And to have the ability to walk away and go about your day if she does.Problem is, vetting can only catch so much. We're not mind-readers, so we don't - and can't - know she's that type of woman until we're vulnerable with her. And the way people work, you're not immediately vulnerable with someone on the first or second date. So by the time we are, it's three months or two years in, and by that point she has the power to crush our fragile male hearts with her asshole-ishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Cheating and breaking up with her can overlap, but are not the same thing. I'm NOT condoning it. Cheating can be incredibly hurtful. I'm just pointing out that men are not likely to leave a woman they recognize as being a good woman, whether or not they cheat on her. A man's cheating is not very indicative of whether or not he will break up with her. Also, the opposite happens plenty - many men can only get sex within a relationship, cause they're not attractive enough to get casual sex. So they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Men don't automatically think overweight women are not good women. Overweight women are not attractive women. I'm friendly with fat females that I wouldn't date. Just like you have short male friends. You don't think they're attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 0 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Isn't it more that men want both the good woman AND the casual sex? I think both sexes want to "have it all" in opposing ways, and both sexes are deluded, or at the least, want things that conflict with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?😆 Some of us are happy to dive into the bush. That saves the woman prep time. I've had to tell two or three past partners to stop shaving down there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?I don't really do quickies, unless she wants one. I make sure my gf cums first 9.9 times out of 10, cause I know that once I cum the sex is over. So she'll get at least one orgasm first, often more. There are plenty of selfish jerks out there, but not all of us are like that. Also, early on in the relationship the woman's gotta be willing to properly communicate what she needs to cum and direct the guy, and not fake orgasms. Many women (not saying you) are with a man who wants to please her, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?And what's funny is that it probably wasn't even that high a level of testosterone she was taking. Still much lower than what you've got in your system. Women don't know how hard it is. No pun intended. 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadC'est très intéressant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's legit sexual assault. You would've been tarred and feathered if you'd done it to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBest they learn at an early age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI wasn't referring to discipline or health, but the raw taste of pizza and the way our taste buds are programmed. You can't change that it tastes good with a thought. Attraction can be influenced by outside sources, but I think the extent of that is very little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 04:32 AM |
| 3 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realI'll be your first data point right here. As a musician and music aficionado, I want to keep all my damn hearing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueWe all have general human worth, yes. But again, people are stupid and are unfair to other people, so you ALSO have an effective social value in many (not all) contexts that has nothing to do with your "general" human value, but other people will treat you better or worse, either overvaluing you or devaluing you. It's like real estate. A house objectively either has or doesn't have a 3rd bedroom or an in-ground pool, right? However, no matter what the house objectively has, humans place social v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI guess I'd say that when I'm in a romantic relationship they're no longer compartmentalized and both remain open simultaneously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueA man who has to put forth serious effort is by definition not Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueYou're saying you might be aromantic? Argh, it can be a difficult thing to put into words, but by romantic, I mean limerence. The emotional connection which may not be entirely rational. The lovin' feeling that was lost in that famous song. I mean, if your FWB suddenly became monogamous with someone else, would you miss him in a way that's different than the way you miss a platonic friend? For me, romantic attraction is - missing the person when I don't see her for a while. It can ache, mentally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueYou can't just tell people to stop doing that and expect them to. That's like telling people to stop thinking that pizza tastes good, or to stop opposing their legs with the opposite arm when they walk. Humans are not cold, rational computers who can instantly change their programming. We're subjective and we're stupid animals with instincts that we cannot quite control. If you can do so, you're better than the rest of us, and you're a shocking and vanishingly rare aberration. Sadly, and embarra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI'm kinda inclined to, cause I think I've seen them still express some frustrations related to dating despite their advantages. (maybe I should keep better track in order to catch if/when they're being inconsistent in their stories) Cause why go to the trouble of coming on here and lie? Some people do, but I don't, so I hope the people on here aren't and try to give the benefit of the doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueThis I can believe. These guys aren't getting that opportunity, but if they were, yeah, probably many guys would act this way. A potentially uncomfortable truth that wouldn't surprise me. I've been well "behaved" with a low N count, but I know my ideal. I'd be happy to "settle down" with one beloved girl for reproduction, but get to fuck others on the side. I can admit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 6 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueThere may be one or two here - we've got a few who've mentioned being extra tall and in shape, with big 'ole schlongs to boot that put them in a very rare percentile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueSounds like you're demisexual; I have a friend or two like that. So how does that mesh with high libido? Before your FWB, did you masturbate frequently? And when you did (if you did), did you ever use mental imagery of someone in a scenario, or was it just focused on the physical sensation and nothing else? Also, once you find someone physically attractive, is that inseparably/intrinsically linked to romantic attraction as well? You've heard ad nauseum how people, especially men, can separate th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMass appeal makes sense - the studios want to make as much money as possible. That being said, seems like there are no romance movies (or very few) that are more male-targeted. Really they're action movies with a romance subplot that could almost be left out. And vice-versa for the movies that appeal to women. Romance movies that may have a subplot of something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadromantic movies for men . . . are there any? There are romantic movies starring men, but aren't they still essentially chick flicks, supported largely by female dollars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYo, did you steal my playlist?! You listen to some of the same stuff I do! In Your Eyes Cold Nights The Midnight in general. Good stuff! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat percentage has an attractive face? Basic math/probability states it should be a bell curve, with the vast majority of men between 4-6/10 and dwindling out from there. So 50% should be above average. Most of those only slightly above, a small minority moderately above, and a tiny smattering of Chads who are way above. In a world where things make sense, that is. It is clear to me that this is not that world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh . . . problematic to link "creep" with anything remotely sexual if the person isn't actually being a creep. That word is way overused and abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI actually hangout with/socialize with a bunch of LGBT folks and once the pandemic's over I've been meaning to encourage them to use that one! 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow does it improve a woman’s life that a man is a certain height? Beats me. 🤷🏽♂️ Ask all the women who demand it. Yea, women are totally impressed with guys who can dance. Just lol. Well I'm just talking about my particular social group. Just like any social group, like D&D players or golfers or tattoo artists or roller derby players, if you have a surplus of the required skills, you gain status. Mine is social dancers - people who do salsa, contra, swing dance, ballroom dance, etc. In those g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:27 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, but when a woman says that stuff, she makes it sound like her worst is her default, like she's proud of her worst, like she's not even gonna attempt to be at her best. I know I'm not perfect and might upset my lady at some point, but it will never be on purpose. And I expect the same of her - she'll slip up at some point, but I should be able to assume that it was by accident, and that she's willing to work on it/talk it out/compromise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:12 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou work for 911 on the phone line? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 09:31 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTeeth straighter than I'll ever be That one made me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 09:26 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat sounds delicious! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?That's a good question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol 😄 - if you think women don't care about a man's height, you're an alien who's only just stumbled upon humans. Or you're a human who is trolling, cause that's basic knowledge, almost as basic as the fact that humans have two eyes and two legs. 👀🦵🦵 Now if YOU specifically don't care, that's awesome - and it makes you part a small minority. I've just been lucky enough to come across a few members of your minority. Or, they cared, but they enjoyed other aspects of me enough to offset it. Cause i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep. The problem is that sex, as fun as it is, involves other humans, and humans themselves are just gross. 🤢 But damn, some humans are also do damn hot. 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure. If that was my only option, and I had enough money/time to raise the kid on my own? I'm up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:51 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBlack girl was hotter to me; I'd keep her and have the white girl as side-piece. Bro could've started his harem right there but messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:42 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell there's the "front end" and the "back end," so to speak. Front: Guys don't care what their guy friends think when it comes to approaching and starting a relationship with a girl. Back: Once he's with her, THEN if his guy friend also approve, it'll be a nice pat on the back or an ego boost. For instance, the hottest girlfriend I ever had was probably a good 9 for most men. While getting with her, I was only focused on her and my feelings for her, but once we were together, guys would complim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:30 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like you actually understand and you're being facetious, but just in case you're being serious: "Ax" isn't new. It's ye olde Englishe stuff, been around for centuries. It mostly died out, but not completely, so the majority of modern speakers say "ask" and are surprised when they hear "ax." Some things kinda waffle back and forth over the centuries. There's evidence that "ash" is also another version of the word, though that one did completely die out. "finna" is from "fixing to," from So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOoh, tough one. 8 personality 7 face 7 body Also, have you heard of the book "A Spell for Chameleon?" You should read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy taller gf preferred being the little spoon. Can a guy be the little spoon once in a while please? 😢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAren't great and starfish mutually exclusive? Assuming most men want their partner to be engaged and an active participant, showing that she's enjoying the sex and wants to be there, that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread😲😕 I don't even understand what's happening in that photo, but I don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNoooice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think I have been lucky, cause I'm not tall - fully half of my partners have been taller than me. And you know THAT'S unusual. And I think all of them have made more money, too. My experience has definitely been the exception to the rule. Also, considering that I got a late-ish start after a religious upbringing in childhood, it's a wonder I've gotten any action at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd be upset either way, but yeah, probably more upset at cheating with another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?Hold up, you resent his looks? Like, you're upset that he looks so good? How is him looking good a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?On 2: I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm saying that that's just how men are, that we've always been that way even before modern internet porn. I'm willing to accept an uncomfortable truth about my sex. On 3: You didn't comment on women objectifying men. Are you willing to accept that uncomfortable truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNoice! So my idea will work, hehehe. I'm bringing an extra shirt to all dates from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Whoa, you're going in a whole different direction, lol. Plus you're putting words in my mouth. Please slow your proverbial roll while I remove those words. #1 We're not talking about porn. That's a whooole 'nother topic you brought in outta left field. We're talking about women in gyms, their state of dress, and men looking at them. (And for the record, I recognize that porn can be a problem, so lemme take that accusation back out of your mouth.) #2 A man merely looking at a woman isn't degradin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat happens far, far too rarely to be a viable strategy for most men. Even Chad has to do a little work sometimes; average and especially short guys would be left in the dust. If men stopped approaching, human population would drop precipitously. I say this as a guy who has been approached and/or received a clear indication of interest once or twice before. But I know it's highly unusual and I've been lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn the first date, I'll pull off my shirt and ask very bluntly if she finds me attractive. Then I'll put it back on and be a perfect gentleman. Gotta weed 'em out somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's a gel, I hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Living life on easy modeWhat I see on FDS honestly is frightening, and a woman-run world really would be a dystopia for most men. But maybe a man-run world, a true patriarchy, would be a dystopia for many women too. I dunno where the balance is, but I don't think either sex should rule unchecked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is ghosting so maligned?Ghosting is cowardly, and shouldn't be done outside of an actual issue of safety, which is the exception not the rule. If it's not gonna work out, I'd sure as hell like to know why, in order to not wast my time waiting, and to make myself better for the next person, or to better choose someone who's okay with whatever idosyncracy it was that turned one potential partner off. Being ghosted is a whiplash and can be jarring. I would not do that to someone cause it's incredibly rude. No answer is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Well being looked at doesn't automatically mean she's being degraded. There's a difference between noticing vs appreciation vs degradation. If she's comfortable, she's not being degraded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiving in large cities Yep, having the leverage of a big population makesa a difference. There are women in big cities who've literally lost count of their bodies by the age of 23. I dated one, unfortunately. I'd be interested to see a male partner distribution too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | If You Ever Have Kids, What Advice Would You Give Them So They Don't Wind Up Becoming A 30 Year Old Virgin?Well the advice that answers your question is specifically for a son, because most daughters don't need any help getting laid unless they're extremely ugly. This is just about sex, as you only mentioned virginity and didn't ask about relationships. I'd tell a child of either gender: - Women and men are different. Learn what the opposite sex wants. - Watch what they do. - Get tested. To a daughter, I'd say: - Stay in shape. Your beauty is your value. - Don't have sex with any guy who won't get te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do people say that "women are born. Men are made"...?? Well obviously, and I said nothing to that effect. You're confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread🤣 You're not a fan of Arrested Development, are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do people say that "women are born. Men are made"...?Men dont work like that. Social status has ZERO effect on our visual attraction of a woman. It may garner respect but not attraction. Yurp. I totally respect Oprah and Angela Merkel and Mother Teresa(may she rest in peace). They're rare women and I'm glad they're in this world. But I have no romantic/sexual interest in them. Their fame neither helps nor hurts their chances with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do people say that "women are born. Men are made"...?You know what he values? Not being taken to the cleaners by a bored and resentful housewife. You know what he values? Someone he can bring around his friends and family and not feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. You're 100% correct on those. But Saborizado is focusing on the raw attraction factor, separate from the final decision to marry or not. A woman's socioeconomics may be pragmatic factor to consider, in order to appease one's mother, or because the guy knows that they'll need two incomes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 01:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWoohoo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 09:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUgh for real. It makes no sense to me when tiny women want giant men. Like, don't you ever want to kiss him and look him in the eyes without having to get on a stepladder? Or without straining his back bending down all the time? I think hugs are less satisfying too, with that much of a variance, and I'm a big hugger so that'd be disappointing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 08:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell it's alive, and it's human, right? As opposed to being a giraffe or an apple. Or maybe you're going by how dependent it is on the mother, in which case it's not a human life till it's at least ten years old or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 08:35 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha! Well plenty of men want kids . . . they just ALSO want unlimited pussy, whether it's with their wife or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 08:29 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadActually it's the opposite, or at least it started out that way. Vegeta was born stronger, from a stronger family. Goku was a "low-class Saiyan." But Goku is the main character and has the happy-go-lucky mindset/power of friendship favoritism from Toriyama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 07:44 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell definitely, she should. But if she isn't after all this time, makes me think (perhaps pessimistically) that she never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot as much at night as in the day, of course, but some, especially on the weekends. It can be kinda dead in th emiddle of the month and early part of the week, plus fewer now during the pandemic. I'm in one of the busier stores in my area; some others are more dead at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 07:07 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwomen consider average small This right chere. Also, micropenises are extremely rare, but a number of women in the thread claim to have had one. That seems suspect to me. Just sayin'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:33 PM |
| – | Would you rather share an unfaithful alpha man, or settle for a faithful beta man?Well if he lays it out clearly at the beginning that he won't be sexually committed, then it's not cheating, cause it's not behind your back. It's just part of your accepted agreement. Most men cannot do this, of course. We're talking about a tiny minority. Edit: the downvoters apparently don't know that there's a difference between cheating and an open relationship, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:26 PM |
| – | The futureMy prediction is that the sex doll industry will expand and robotic technology will improve, making them closer to the real thing. For men much more than for women. Why? - Men are hornier and more desperate for sex. They'll welcome the respite from having to approach and get rejected repeatedly. - Men don't require status in a partner. When you can build a girlfriend, it won't be perfect, but it'll be good enough for a number of lonely men. When you can build a boyfriend, it won't be good enough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf he's getting Plan B, he must not be corny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI work at a 24-hour currency exchange/Western Union kinda place. I'm the overnight manager. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHI love a nice set of cheeks as much as the next guy, but when I see a woman who's clearly under dressed for the winter, I shake my head and harumph in disdain at her lack of sense and disqualify her as a dummy, even as I caress said cheeks with my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgreed. Outside of some adverse weather gear, I'd say approximately 5% of what we wear or put on our bodies is "for ourselves." Anyone who says otherwise is deluding themselves. One is always aware that others see them. The best most of us can do is a compromise between appeasing/appealing to others and our own comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've never watched this show but after that clip now you're making me want to indulge in this cringetown schadenfreude. LOL STAHP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI do want universal healthcare, but it should be almost-universal. People like him should be excluded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMake sure to repeatedly hammer in the fact that their bodies old no interest to you whatsoever. That'll make 'em satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDamn. I really feel for the guy. I grew up with the "wait till marriage" message, and I held on to it for a while. That's a massive disappointment. The only solutions are both things his religious socializing would disapprove of - opening the marriage, or divorcing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven the original strain was killing a few youngins. A 32-year old who'd gone to my old high school died from it last year, before the vaccine had come out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?That I can more or less agree with. And would say, to be more precise, that everything potentially matters, but not everything matters to every particular person, and specific priority of the things that do matter varies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Yes being fit is a must. But what if you're picking between multiple fit women? Well at that point, if hair color matters to you, you pick the woman with your favorite hair color. Of if it doesn't matter, like to me and plenty others, you pick the one with the sexiest voice. Or the youngest. Or the one with the sexiest feet, for those with foot fetishes. Or the one who promises to give you head. Or the one with the full bush or shaved pussy, depending on your preference. And so on. Hair color ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?I'm telling you that pop culturally... No, you're trying to tell me what I like, or what I should like. Or you're saying that I'm lying about what I like? Okay, I watched the videos. For the first one, I'll slightly quote logicAndFury here in saying that yes, there's been an idealization of blondes in the media. I'm aware of pop culture. But the media isn't real people and not everyone has been inculcated with that. It's not true for every man, and probably not even for most men. I'm a real pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUgh, with you there. I wasn't crazy about it. And some shinies I think are downright ugly. But a few I like, like Charizard, Gyarados, and Umbreon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOoh, good parallel with the flashers. Forgot about them. guess I never understood them either! I can get into the mind of streakers, I think. But that's more of a prank or a dare and less personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread5 hours isn't unusual for me either. But I'm a night owl. At work on the graveyard shift right now! ⚰️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHappy for you! <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, that's too complicated. Assume men are dumb and are only thinking with their penises (or only thinking with their genes) and you'll have the right answer: young women are hot. And of course, the women are just as dumb and thinking with their ovaries when they go for older/asshole men. Humans in general are dumber than we'd like to accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell we'd check before marriage, but assuming something unexpected for the scenario and it's not anyone's fault, I wouldn't divorce her if she's willing to have a surrogate carry the child or she use donor eggs if she wants to carry it. It happens. I think I'd mainly get married for the sake of raising kids, so she'd be on board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've asked not one, but three girlfriends to STOP shaving their pussies for me. But for arms/legs I'm the reverse of you. I'm more tolerant of leg hair on a woman than arm hair. But most women don't have that much anyway so I've never been with someone where I felt the need to ask her to shave it. But heavy armpit hair? 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just learned that in Churchill, CA, some people leave their doors unlocked in case someone is urgently trying to get away from a polar bear. That's a whole different kinda life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWOW. Lolol. Then you moved away so you wouldn't have to ever see her again, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread*locks doors* I'm your dad now. *drives off into the sunset* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably similar to the odds of catching a shiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDidn't know about Vitamin D keeping people up! Something to think about, as someone who's long struggled with sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not accurate, but it's catchy. What redpillers are really saying is that the thing that men value in women ages more quickly than the thing that women value in men, cause men value women's youth, while women value men's amassing of resources. Whether you're redpilled or not, it's easy to see that men do value youth in women and that women don't (on average) value youth in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol okay but how many people an actually afford those things? I'll tell you - not many. I actually knew a guy taking growth hormone in college. His family was rich though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have a dick and I'll definitely claim to understand much of what men do . . . . but sending an unsolicited dick pic to a CHILD??? That makes no fucking sense to me whatsoever. I am floored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 07:57 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?I very much know it. Intrinsically. Guys are stereotyped as looking at women as a collection of body parts, right? Well, it can be true sometimes, and can be a benefit. We compartmentalize and compromise. We can focus on the good parts. Also, butterface means two things. You're focusing on the "ugly face" part. But it also means "nice body." "My eyes are up here." Why does that saying exist? Cause he wasn't looking at her face! Lol. That meme where the distracted boyfriend is checking out anothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 07:06 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?It's not that I'm being unfair. It's that life isn't being fair. This sub isn't overexaggerating the height thing; rather, you're just lucky enough to not be in a position to experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 05:58 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?It's average mathematically, you're correct. He's saying that women don't recognize that, that women are unrealistic (or even delusional ) about what's average/normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?and book gigs in acting, modeling, etc Say what?? The vast majority of men are excluded with the height requirements of modeling. Models are literally NOT models because they don't depict realistic male heights. Same goes in female modeling; most of them are freakishly tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 11:39 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?(Can't see the youtube links cause I'm at work right now but I'll look 'em up later) Okay but what's that got to do with me? Lol are you trying to tell me what I like? No pretending here. I never denied that some men like yellow hair. I didn't say blondes are unattractive. Yeah, they're popular . . . but so are all other varieties of women, cause at the end of the day, men like women. Blondes are not the only standard. I was just agreeing with u/Rfupon that many men (I can't give an exact percen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 11:26 AM |
| 5 | Doesn't the existence of lesbians completely destroy a lot of red pill views of how women view men?Red pill views are specifically about women who are interested in men. If you're gay, we're on a different subject by default and are no longer talking about red pill theories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:51 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Stop you right there. Thick/curvy is not fat. You must pay attention to who is using the word, because it originated with men, but today's fat acceptance women are trying to change the meaning. So when a fat aceptance woman uses the word, thick=fat, I agree. But in the hands of men: Thick = curvy = voluptuous. They are more or less synonyms. Ocford Dictionary on voluptuous: "curvaceous and sexually attractive." Fat is not sexually attractive to most men, therefore fat cannot be equal to curvy or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?I am involved in the romance genre Like, you write romance novels or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Lol I'm taken aback at your candor but really, really appreciate it. Women who can approach the manner so straight-forwardly can probably shed some interesting light on the topics we argue about here. Though, the very fact that you're so candid about it may itself make you an outlier. Dang. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Really good looking guy at 5'5" is still getting less matches than the average looking guy at 6'. I think a mistake men make when trying to make a mental model for women is compartmentalizing the height from the "looks." I'd argue that a man's height IS his looks for many women, that shorter is literally uglier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?That's your man. Your man is not all men. He might not even be most men. I did acknowledge that it matters for some men, but it doesn't matter for me. If they're all in a lineup with identically attractive bodies and all willing to have sex with me, I'd look at their facial features - the shapes of their facial features. The shape of their eyes/nose/lips, etc. After that, I guess I'd flip a coin or chant "eenie meenie minie mo" to make my decision. The fact that I said I can't even remember the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Fuckable =/= attractive That's like only 5% correct. If anything, I might argue that "fuckable" is a slightly larger category than "attractive." NOT all yougn women are fuckable, because some young women are hideous. The majority of fuckable women are attractive, and some are merely plain/average, where they're neither beautiful, nor ugly. None are completely ugly, or if their face is, their body balances out. And all attractive women are fuckable. Men do not masturabate to women they do not fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?we're just capable of being attracted by things other than looks Both sexes do; women just do to a greater extent. Men marry women all the time who don't match up in the facial category. But maybe they click super well cause they both nerd out about archaelogy, or she's got a bangin' ass. I myself had a crush once on a girl who was overweight and lazy-eyed. She certainly wasn't my type physically, but she was so intelligent and had a nice personality that I found myself drawn to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?It matters for a minority of men, but the majority of men are looking at her shape, not the specific colors. There are women (and men) that I've known for years and I can't tell you their eye color or hair color. But I can still tell you if she's hot or not, and still rank them compartively, and still tell you why or not I think she's hot. I was with a gf for several months before it even occured to me that she was my first blonde(turned out she was dyeing it anyway, so I guess it doesn't count?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:54 AM |
| 0 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?She'll struggle, but she can find someone if her expectations are reasonable. She won't get a guy who cares about the face, but she'll get someone who's an ass man or a tits man, etc., and who doesn't care that much about the face. Hehehe - she's a 10 in the dark! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Lol these people are not equivalents! Tess is one inch taller than average, is fat, and tatted. Jon is EIGHT INCHES above average, which is a big deal in women world. That alone, before we even look at his gut, makes him hotter in comparison than Tess. If we made Tess taller or shorter it wouldn't affect her hotness significantly. But Jon is in the top 2% or something (I'm just guessing) for height. Then, height aside, Jon is NOT visibly fat for his height (maybe chubby but not FAT), plus he has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:48 AM |
| 7 | When it comes to body standards, are men's harder to meet?Its called situational awareness. Yep. Like I was flabbergasted to learn that women were falling into toilets, cause I look before I sit. There is no excuse for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?You misunderstand. I'm not talking about literal pensions or financial retirement or vagina magic or anything like that. I was merely pointing out that she isn't not child-free. She's post-child. Two different things and different life experiences. Therefore her previous comment wasn't relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?You misunderstand. I'm not talking about financial retirement or 401Ks or anything like that. You're not child-free. That's what I'm saying. You're post-child. I'm not saying anything negative here - congratulations and good for you. I'm just pointing out that your experience is not what the previous commenter was talking about. Two different things and very different life experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | In regards to women who perceive "prostitution consumers" as disgusting.I could be wrong here, but apart from the finances, I think some men are counting all the sex they're NOT getting as part of the payment/cost for being in a marriage. We go into it expecting the woman's sex drive to decline faster and leave us frustrated. Even though I'm interested in marriage and raising children, that particular aspect isn't appealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 11:29 AM |
| 2 | In regards to women who perceive "prostitution consumers" as disgusting.For me it's a good thing. I'd rather a prospective partner had had lots of sex with one man rather than a little sex with many men. Edit: I should add that I did date a woman in pretty much exactly your situation. Older but refreshingly low count due to a long marriage. I was happy with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Do you have female friends?Actually most of my friends are female. It was the opposite in grade school, and switched over during/after college. Maybe in part due to my major? Linguistics, not as male-dominated as computer science. And in adulthood a major hobby/sometimes job is dance, so since I dance mostly with women, that's who I get to know, and that's who I'm interested in hanging out with, whether or not I'm dating someone. To describe my two best female friends right now: - One is an ex. We broke up on good terms. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?What does the rise in open queerness have to do with non-monogamous relationships? Those are separate phenomena. Increasing liberalism/progressiveness makes way for both of them, but they're separete things. Plenty of queer folks wanna be monogamous too, and if anything, I think open queerness allows them to be more monogamous now, because now they can make their relationships more "official " and therefore harder to break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?That's not the perks of not having children; that's the perks of having had children young and getting it out of the way. Reproductively speaking, you've already done the work, retired and are enjoying your pension now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Several points, but they're all connected and influence each other: - More men as a gender are horny and desperate for sex. They make sexual access easy for women by having easier standards to attain. - More men as a gender have higher testosterone levels, a marker of sex drive and sexual intiative. - More men are visually stimulated. Men spontaneously check women out much more often than women spontaneously check men out. Men check out mannequins, for Pete's sake. Manneqins! A mannequin is not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | While it's not true that women don't approach, it may ad well be true due to their general incompetence in doingMaybe, but again, just for that opening moment. I'm guessing (I could be wrong) that most men still will expect that they'll have to do the masculine things after that point. Most guys aren't expecting that they can just sit back and not participate. (Unless he's really not that into her and would just date her for sexual access. But if he's into her he'll do his part.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Yikes! Well I guess she's screwed. (And not in the fun way! :P) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?You acknowledge that each sex is defining a different beauty. Therefore it doesn't make sense to say that one is inherently more beautiful, because there are two different "players" or "judges" making subjective ratings here. If everyone was bisexual it would make sense, cause then everyone is looking at the same things. But we're not. It's like this: I like to social dance. My brother likes to play sports. You can't tell us that one of those activities is inherently better than the other one, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Two questions: Who defines male beauty? Who defines female beauty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?god knows that’s what I want. Unfortunately, women and men often want different things. As crazy as it sounds, you really have to scratch out everything you think you know when you're trying to figure out what guys want, because your assumptions will be based on what you want, and you cannot ever assume a man wants the same thing as you. Some do! But you cannot assume that right off the bat. It's safer to assume that most don't want the same thing you want. And annoyingly, it actually makes some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Nope. Women look like women and men look like men. But men talk about their partner's beauty more. Men use the visual as the first step before approaching. So a women's value is more tied to her looks amd more attention is paid to her looks and the beauty industry is aimed at women's looks. All humans are visual, but men more so. Neither sex is inherently more beautiful, but each sex focuses on different things. Since men are more visual (and more horny), men are more immediately moved by a body… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Depends on how overt the scam is. If it's a well-thought-out scam, and/or the victim made a reasonable effort to get the details but was thoroughly misinformed, they're not necessarily stupid. It's not stupid for so many men to be misinformed and believe that misinformation if they were raised to be honest, and are working on the assumption that most others are also honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:48 AM |
| 4 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Ouch! Bro, your honesty is painful . . . but necessary. Many in positions of privilege don't recognize how good they've got it. Good to hear your voice here, even though some of us may be a bit jealous lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Wow. Are things particularly bad for online dating for women in Russia, more so than in other places? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Damn! A 5'0" man with a 5'9" woman?! I'm amazed, and shocked, and happy. That is an extreeeeme outlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Unfortunately, it's very, very common. Remeber that men are getting mixed messages when we're young, being told things that don't always help, and sometimes actively hurt, our chances with women. Also, when we're young women are going for guys slightly older. So the average guy going into his 20's has less experience in relationships than the average girl. (average, not all, etc.) Also, and this is important, when we see stuff in the media, we're not looking that closely at the men in those coup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Most women are totally clueless when it comes to men. I know educated women in their 50s who are hopeless with men and have no idea how to make relationships work. That's really sad, to be that old and still be clueless. I have a friend who's 58 who just started using the OLD apps. I hope she knows what she wants at that age. The numbers work in her favor, but I still worry a little for her. I hope she doesn't get disillusioned and hope she finds a nice guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?#1 There is no such thing as common sense. If sense was that common, we wouldn't need the phrase, and we wouldn't have PPD, cause everyone would just know things and not need to be told. Almost nothing in life is obvious. #2 Guys understand the idea that women would/could/can like attractive men. But part of the problem is that some (many?) women lie about it, saying things like "looks don't matter" or "size doesn't matter" or "be yourself," etc. So guys get conflicting messages. You think women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 08:39 AM |
| 1 | If you don't have kids yet, do you worry you won't be as attracted to your partner after she bears a child? If you already have kids, do you find yourself less attracted to your partner as a result of pregnancy/childbearing?Nah, nitpicking isn't an excuse. Nitpicking is having an extra-strong filter; it's being extra picky. Women nitpick more than men by nature, so if what you said was true, you'd also be claiming that most women are gay. Now if this were a teen sub, maybe we could talk about confused teenagers who are still figuring out their sexuality. But we're talking about adults here, adults who have sex and/or relationships. Adults overwhelmingly know what they are, and they don't nitpick the sex they're not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 02:31 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathread??? Where the heck are you getting pedophilia from? He said new pussy, not pre-pubecent pussy. New pussy means a new woman, a new sexual partner, a new (adult) person in your bed. Have you heard of New Relationship Energy? Like that, but very finely focused on the sex part - the excitement of it and the new physical sensation of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | While it's not true that women don't approach, it may ad well be true due to their general incompetence in doingSo that some women end up mistaking consideration for lack of confidence Bruh. I got this megaphone for you so you can repeat for everyone in the back. 📣 It's sad, but many of us guys got the message as kids that no means no and respect a woman's choice, etc., and we're good citizens about it, but then when we're respectful we're they think we lack confidence. Oy vey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:22 AM |
| 3 | While it's not true that women don't approach, it may ad well be true due to their general incompetence in doingIt merely sets a precedent that she's interested. That's just the approach, and doesn't have a bearing on how the rest of the relationship will proceed. Even if a woman approaches me first, I assume that she's expecting more intiative and work from me in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 09:18 AM |
| 3 | While it's not true that women don't approach, it may ad well be true due to their general incompetence in doing100%. It's like a number of things in life. Like paying bills. Most normal people don't have a passion for giving away their hard-earned money paying overpriced bills. But you also don't wanna live in the street, so you do what you must. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:53 AM |
| 15 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?This is the next generation. Correction: This'll be the LAST generation. Cause this is clearly your secret plan to end the human race. If men could actually follow on this, that is. Cause they can't/won't. It's just absurd for men. It's extra arrogant and picky for women, but still works along their general strategy, cause they're already the pickier sex. Either men fail at trying to be the pickier sex and they're embarassed for having tried, or they succeed . . . and then almost no one gets to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?So I ended up having a LTR with a woman in I met in a homeless shelter. Best decision I ever made. Taking note of this strategy. Well done, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?I’m very tall for my area Lol yes, and that area is "the planet earth." You're tall for a female human period. Edit: I dated a girl who was maybe half an inch taller than me, and she loved heels, but it upset her that with heels on she was seeral inches taller. It was funny to me cause I didn't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?It's more true than not. Not all men, of course; very few things are 100% universally true. But more than not. And even for those who refuse, it's likely (again not 100%, but more likely than not) to be a class pressure thing. His raw attraction is still towards the poor sexy woman; marrying the ugly rich woman is bowing to outside pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Do men care about how much a woman makes in ltr?Nah, her income is almost irrelevant to me, either way. I live simply, so most of the women I've dated have actually made more than me. It's mattered to some of then, but I didn't care; I never felt emasculated or anything. Seems in general it matters more to women than to men. For a wife/mother of my children, I'll be happy to know she has some income, just to know that she's not lazy and is willing to contribute, but that's a practical matter due to the crappy economy, not a matter of attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 05:33 AM |
| 0 | If you don't have kids yet, do you worry you won't be as attracted to your partner after she bears a child? If you already have kids, do you find yourself less attracted to your partner as a result of pregnancy/childbearing?No kids yet, not married. I'm not worried about if it'll happen; I kind of expect it to happen, and if I'm lucky I'll be pleasantly surprised. Not everything can be controlled, of course, but if/when I marry, whoever it is, I expect her to make a reasonable effort to be active and not let herself go post-partum; I'll make it clear beforehand that taking care of her physical fitness is an expected part of our marriage committment. That being said, I've dated singles mothers and older women before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 05:25 AM |
| -2 | If you don't have kids yet, do you worry you won't be as attracted to your partner after she bears a child? If you already have kids, do you find yourself less attracted to your partner as a result of pregnancy/childbearing?Huh?? Maybe those men are wired a bit tight in their window of attraction, or they're being unrealistically picky, but they're still scrutinizing women, as opposed to men. Their sexuality isn't a question here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's like a boxing match. The more you think about the incoming punches and the more you think about your own movement, the more likely you'll be to fuck up. So you're saying we need to access ultra instinct? Lol just kidding. But I agree. I do alot of no-pressure flirting, not trying to actually take her home, just having fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 5 | Terrified of Having SexSince you're young, I'll say this: An important thing to do is to know yourself. Make a list of what you want and what you don't want. Figure out why you want those things. Figure out what's a strong boundary for you, and what is negotiable. Then, it's important to know what men are and what they want. The fact that you're on here at all makes it seem like you're already doing that. If anything, I recommend you not even bother with sex until after high school. You wanna focus on learning about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo when a relationship starts to sour women ask themselves "would I be happier with someone else?" For men, getting a girlfriend requires a lot of effort and won't happen right away. So they ask themselves "would I be happier if I was single?" Damn. That puts it in stark contrast. Ouch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuestion does not compute. Pedo is about age, not height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe first one it went to was about Tiny Texie and her partner and I went ahead and watched it. Like, who would have a problem with that? So there's a big height difference. It's not that far from what some normal-sized women ask for when they want absurdly tall men. *shrug* But as for the TRP wet dream - yep, lucky man, he's livin' the dream. But so is she - she's got her big, strong, money-makin', virile man and she doesn't have to work for moeny and dela with the bills. If they're happy with i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt serves public something, if not health. Not sure what word to place on it, but the public good, or public societal cohesion or something. It serves the same public good that we get out of requiring an ID to withdraw from a bank account, or a fingerprint to teach children. We require those things because we want there to be informed consent, and proper access to what's yours, and to prevent theft/fraud. Theft and fraud cost are costly and wasteful to our quality of life. Making paternity tests… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity.Men who get cheated on are seen as a big joke aka cucks. Women who get cheated on are seen as victims who deserve sympathy. You know what's messed up? An ex of mine cheated on me, and SHE was still the one treated with sympathy. Wtf? I mentioned that I'd broken up with her to a woman who then said that it must have been hard to be my ex, what with all the men who were interested in her. That was incredibly insensitive to me, the actual victim. I didn't have a response cause it was just such a to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 07:29 AM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStory time: I have a female friend. One I care for and have helped when she was in a pinch, and though I find her attractive, due to a mental health thing on her end, I'm unlikely to ever try dating her. We were chatting casually about our day, and right before talking with her I'd watched a video advocating universal paternity testing. I was just skimming the topic and hadn't even made a specific case for it, but merely mentioned in passing that as a man it made pretty obvious sense to me. Inse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 10:23 AM |
| 11 | Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity.But there is a chance of her not knowing there are other babymommas, just as a man might not know about other babydaddies. Just because one might be raising the kids and the other wouldn't be, that doesn't mean it's any less of a gut-punch either way. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Not comparable situations. It is vastly different to be a woman and learn your man has a secret child with another woman vs being a man and learn that your woman had the child you thought was yours with a secret man. It is definit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 09:14 AM |
| 6 | Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity.He's not saying it's not bad; he's saying one (or the results/consequences of one) is worse than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would you watch a show you literally, actually hate? You must not actually hate the show. Does "hate watching" mean something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't even have a word for how dumb that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“But like I said, I, it’s not why I started the school . . . wait, say what? It never even occured to me that I could get women by starting a school. Lol. The rich and famous live on a different planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEx-girlfriend, right? Fired for poor listening skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Yes, it's about looks - but only the first step. Let's get to the core of the matter: a man is an animal, a vehicle for genes, and genes aren't concerned with looks - genes are actually concerned with reproductive potential. But looks are the first way a man has to gauge that, cause genetic counselors and blood tests are invented, not natural. He makes a judgement, then step #2: he asks her out in order to find out how she is as a person. Then many more steps. Again, it just has to start somewhe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHumanity is both the best and worst thing about this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNoice! Haven't played, but I've listened to and enjoyed the soundtrack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNothing wrong with you. You're a good chemical match, hurray! It stinks - pun intended - when you like someone's mind but your body dislikes their body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHell yeah. Delicious AND fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAw, crap. There goes my salvation . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Do you personally see it as a red flag if someone who wasn't interested in you before later seems interested after they find out you own a home (or other asset)?Damn. Very bluntly, and tragically, and demotivationally put. It sucks to be a mammal. Despite being the same species, the sexes are basically aliens to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?A random guy who they don’t know immediately asking them out probably isn’t going to provide that. Not quite. It's stupid in that they ignore that there must be a starting point. We can't just blink and instantly be married with 3 kids. It's not that the random guy isn't going to provide that. It's that they don't know yet what the random guy will provide. Now that he's approached(assuming he isn't being rude or something), we can start communicating about our values and look for a deep emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Haven't seen, but I'll look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Appreciate Physical Differences in Women More Than Vice Versa?Taking a look there, it seems kinda . . . fetishistic? Interesting, and good for you/them, but not my thing. I'm a gentle guy, not a super-macho alpha or anything, but I'm also not into dom/sub play or that kind of thing. Guess I'm pretty vanilla there. My current gf is taller than me, but it's just by coincidence; I didn't specifically seek her out because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?I guess what's normal for the gander seems like a bizarre fetish to the goose, and vice-versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | As a man, you cannot be both weak and meek. You can only afford to have 1 of those handicaps.Sorry I missed this question before. To answer - it's contradicted when a woman questions her guy's masculinity, or even dumps a man for being "too nice" or "too soft". Not all of course, but a disappointing number of women, it seems, WANT their guy to be a bad guy. This is why you see some of these frustrated guys on reddit. Alot of guys were raised "properly," to open doors and be respectful, and that "no means no." But some women make their "no" mean "try harder," and reward the assholes. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")My friend Peter Parker knows a guy who agrees with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?she found out he proposed and was planning a wedding with his ex when they broke up. But tells her he's never getting married. Ah, maybe this is exactly the gender-flipped scenario needed to get understanding between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?Me neither. But I've been lucky. Some people end up with partners who are just that entitled, or who aren't actually attracted to their partner and only have sex out of duty. Not great for either partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 6 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?Or more likely, she wants to have sex, but is lazy and selfish. Again, phrases like "starfish" and "pillow princess" exist for a reason. Because some assholes want sex, but don't want to do anything for their partner. If she doesn't want to have sex, she should say no. If she says yes, she should engage properly. I've had to say no to my girlfriend when I was exhausted or had no time of whatever. I said no, like an adult. And there have been times that I was reluctant, but I said yes, because I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:41 PM |
| 5 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?I hate to sound like a stereotypical "Reddit purplepill autist" or whatever here, but . . . source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 03:29 PM |
| 6 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?Sounds like the porn isn't actually a problem for you physically, if you can cum without direct stimulation. Good on ya, bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:20 AM |
| 20 | If “pornsick” is an actual thing wouldn’t being “alpha widowed” be real too considering they’re basically the same thing?He didn't say anything about mistreating her. You made that up. He specifically said that she was a starfish - that means someone who's lazy during sex ad just lays there without active participation. It's more or less the same as a "pillow princess," more common among lesbians. Either way, it's the lazy partner who's being the selfish one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | FDS women talking about their male friends trying to have sex with them, as if they were trying to murder them.You're implying that women don't want sex. We know that's not true. Women want sex too. Either you're wrong, or you seriously mis-worded what you meant to say and need to try again. Also, we're not just talking about sex here. We're talking about getting out of the friend zone, which could also mean a full relationship. It's not selfish to take the chance of a connection, whether a relationship or just sex, with someone. Otherwise there would be no human race here today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | One woman with 4 husbandsIf you're happy with it that's great, and sorry if I sounded insulting; just saying my piece. If given the option of one more inch or three more, I'd certainly be tempted to go larger, but in the end I'd take just the one extra. Incidentally, I dated a girl who, according to her, had indeed experienced an ultra-rare ten-incher. I remember cause I bought her a 9-inch dildo, then after, I'll admit I was a bit worried about how big it was in comparison to me, and she said she'd had even larger. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | One woman with 4 husbandsWow. I imagine that many (not all, etc.) men will have a visceral reaction of disgust to this. This is motivation to get on the ball and make some money, men, and not end up like one of these guys. The father-to-be said that the pregnancy helped his friends and family get on board. Well of course! Now they know that you've actually managed to do your reproductive duty! Part off why I couldn't do this is the level of energy it would take. I do want children, and If I was in this situation, feel l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | One woman with 4 husbandsa resource with limited utility like a single vagina That's an important point. There are benefits to the vagina, certainly, but when it comes to raw numbers of babies(important in the wild from whence we came), the penis is superior. One man, assuming he has the resources, can make much, much, much more children with a harem of women than one woman can with a harem of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | One woman with 4 husbandsJeez. That sounds terrible. Mines is pretty average, and I wouldn't mind an extra inch, but I wouldn't wanna be stuck with all that. The one time I couldn't fit in a woman it was just so much less satisfying. Or I'd have to have one woman to wife up, and one woman who can take it all to get the satisfying sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | FDS women talking about their male friends trying to have sex with them, as if they were trying to murder them.OP didn't say anything about the men being selfish. They're making an overture and they're not mind-readers. They don't know how the woman will react until they try. It's not crazy to see potential for a relationship and try for it. A decent man will ask her out or whatever; he'll make his interest known. A selfish man would just rape her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage?and he was also younger than me (!!) Why the exclamation points there? Was that a good thing? A bad thing? A weird or funny thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 11:09 AM |
| – | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyDoesn't mean a damn thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Number of partnersActually, I was the one who refused more; they definitely wanted to go the whole way, and one was quite upset that I wouldn't (though at the same time she respected my self-control). We were young and I still had the religious "wait until marriage" mindset. And, like a bunch of other young folks in that realm, my boundaries gradually and eventually eroded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Number of partnersWell that happens too, sure, but no, it's not a retarded point, because religion was an example of a subculture where (pre-marital) sex is actively discouraged - vs IT where it is not discouraged. Plus, of course, there are many more women in religious communities than there are in IT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: Are there any sexual acts you used to do for exes or hook ups regularly that you won't do for your current partner?That's the kind of thing I've put thought into, cause I wanna maximize our pleasure, both hers and mine. So I experiment with different positions and different angles. I've been able to make my current gf orgasm in positions she previously though impossible. And it's easy to take turns - I make sure she orgasms first in a position that works for her, then we switch to the position that I want for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Number of partnersMale, 37. 4 "bodies" for full-out (or full in, lol) PIV sex. Two more for oral. They've all been monogamous LTRs. Ideally, I'd like a woman with the same or less, but that is really freaking hard to come by at my age, and frankly unrealistic. I did date a woman with a super high number, but that blew up in my face, so no more of that. And in general, every woman I've dated had a higher number than me. So I'll have to settle for someone with a higher number, but hopefully only a few more than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:33 AM |
| 6 | Number of partnersIf you don't mind saying, how did you manage to get to 31 a virgin? That seems so rare these days, even in religious communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?Your responses here are somewhat troll-y in the way you're denying the existence of hard-wired sexuality. Most of us straight men are just not that fluid. It's biological programming. That and the fact that the vast, vast majority of women won't pay for sex. The few who do, though men may fantasize about them, are literally abnormal. And even then, they're only paying for the top 10% of men, leaving out the vast majority of men. So there is essentially no market available for straight men to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?They are definitely huge, unrealistically so. As men, we're quite cognizant of what is normal. End of discussion. Now, if you do want to discuss penis size in porn, the question worth discussing is: WHY are dicks in porn so much huger than normal? Beats me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:12 AM |
| 6 | Spontaneous sex drive vs Reactive Sex drive. The reason for misunderstandings between Men and womenLol, nope. Art imitates life. The extent to which the visual affects men is something that women just don't understand. Even men are sometimes surprised by it, when they catch themselves doing something ridiculous like checking out a mannequin. I know I've done it. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] How often do you think Men talk their way out of getting laid?Lol - I looked it up and I'm kinda disappointed that it's not sex thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 2 | She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your faultI wanna mostly disagree, but unfortunately, and frustratingly, some women really do prefer the asshole guys and rapey behavior. I still remember being baffled when, during college, my then-gf called me "unconfident," disappointed that I didn't continue when she didn't like something. When a later guy continued, she called him confident. I didn't lack confidence. I merely paid attention and stopped when she was uncomfortable. What us "nice guys" were taught to do. Alot of us are confused/upset la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Q4WOMEN: Are there any sexual acts you used to do for exes or hook ups regularly that you won't do for your current partner?I find that interesting, as it works for many women, even better than missionary if their man cums very quickly. Do you know why it doesn't work for you? Can't get quite the right angle, or is it too much physical work for you, or something else? Edit: Downvote for asking a legit question so I can learn something? I thought that was the point of this sub? Shameful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Q4WOMEN: Are there any sexual acts you used to do for exes or hook ups regularly that you won't do for your current partner?Wow, what an idiot he was. I really thought people were using critical thinking out here, but this guy clearly wasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?It's technically not empathy then, in that case. It's just an acknowledgement. Maybe true empathy just isn't possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who will go wild just for them; Women want a man who will be tamed just for them (for a while at least)It strikes me as a particularly teenage desire. I wouldn't say it's a teenage desire, but rather that it's only teenagers that don't know how unrealistic that is in real life. It's a desire some(or many?) adult men still have. I certainly do. I just know it's not realistic. By the time you're an adult, you're hit with real life and all its factors, whether personality/social/religious/STD/age-related, etc., and leave that dream aside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who will go wild just for them; Women want a man who will be tamed just for them (for a while at least)Unsurprised. I think romance novels are to women what porn is to men. It can give them the young ones unrealistic ideas. A fantasy they can get swept up in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 09:30 AM |
| 7 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyPimpin' ain't easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyOr rather, the bi-est shit you're ever read? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 09:03 AM |
| 5 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI had a bi/lesbian girlfriend who communicated directly, and that was something that stood out about her, I didn't have to ask the same question three different ways to squeeze an answer out of her, which can be intensely annoying with some women. I'm not sure what stood out about me, but something must have, as she'd been avoiding men for a few years before dating me. She did think that we had a common intuitiveness that made communicating easier. Looking back on it later, I guess I've got a fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:34 AM |
| 6 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIf you understand, can you use a phrase that actually makes sense, then? Like, Confident Confident energy Extroverted Take-charge attitude Energetic There are a number of options available, and any of them actually make more literal sense. Cause "big dick energy" doesn't actually mean anything anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyWe haven't realized, or with cognitive dissonance have downplayed/forgotten the fact that . . . well, we're animals. We're mammals, and we have the same urges that regular-ass mammals have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIt's all of those, PLUS you have your pick of who to fuck, so you have the luxury to wait until a great option comes around. You have an abundance, fo rbetter or for worse, so waiting till tomorrow isn't a big deal. Makes sense how women can wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.Like I said, one of the only people who ever claimed I might be "intimidating" was a man. Yep, I acknowledged that. And I said not all men. You've drawn way too strong of a conclusion from purely anecdotal evidence, and it's also kinda a pointlessly judgmental. Nope, not being judgmental; don't know where you're getting that from. 'm just pointing out a difference of usage. Straight men use the word "cute" one way, women and gay men use it in a more expanded way. Just a simple observation, consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy 25-year-old self was already screwed. But I'd tell my 24-year-old self to avoid the girl he was falling head over heels for at the time, that she was bad news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol she looks pretty darn white to me. Latina, yes, but still pale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat a fuggin' idiot. I suppose if I dated her and she eventually learned that I was right-handed, she'd wanna break up with me for not telling her, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadApparently she does, but come on, be realistic here. You know that that puts her in an extreme minority. We weren't there, but based on the words she put down, she is an idiot. Unless she adds more to clarify, that's the most reasonable interpretation of the situation. It behooves any rational, neurotypical adult to understand what the general patterns are around them, whether or not they fit those patterns. For instance, I'm not sensitive to caffeine. But I understand that that makes me a minor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread100% normal, bro. It's a freaking turn-on to see her aroused eargerness. I think it's hard for most guys to get that in real life, at least, not from women as attractive as porn stars. So many women think that guys don't care about her pleasure, but I certainly do. Even though she's on a screen and not in bed with me, I wanna know she's having a good time. I'm sure if someone looked at clicks and download rates, those videos would probably turn out to be the most popular ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExceptional indeed. Good for them! If she really doesn't care about height, they need to reproduce so that there are more women who don't care about height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnsurprising. Every woman I've dated has had more partners or a longer sexual history than me. I guess it's too late for them to talk about it now, but I feel like she should've said something during that early date. And I'm uncomfortable with her "sanitizing" things. That says outright that she knows it coul dmake him uncomfortable. Therefore, she should've said it early on to not have to wonder/worry/feel guilty. Maybe he doesn't care though. Or he cares and is afraid to ask. Cognitive dissona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | What is your MBTI and what is your partners (If you have one)I'm very close/borderline on all the traits, so my results vary. But the most common result is ENFP, and the E is consistent. My current gf I dunno, but I think is similar, ENFP. I did date an INTJ a while back, the "magic pairing." We didn't stay togehter romantically, but we're very close friends today. Enneagram I'm probably a 9. I don't know it very well; can't say anything about wings. I know they're not scientifically confirmed or anything, but I think they're still interesting to see, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Do men really like intelligent, driven or ambitious women or do they like the idea of them?I like an intelligent woman. I can take or leave the ambition though; it doesn't work for or against her, unless it means we only see each other once a month or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.I don’t think it’s fair to say it’s gendered because women still also use the “threatening” definition too. I'm not saying you don't use it that way. I'm saying that you do use it that way PLUS another way that I'm not using it. And it's not that I'm being unnecessarily insistent. I'm saying that it's just the way the word is to me, and probably many other men, but not all, as you've had a man use it your way. The way you're describing is a whole new thing that has never crossed my mind before. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Meeting Women Outside Just Isn't Viable AnymoreDamn, damn, damn. Actually, over six feet tall and making over six figures? Dude, you're more like in the top 2% already. And if it's this bad for you then I guess it's just plain over for the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI need to get a HUD installed so I can keep track of my tokens. If I could create this I'd make a trillion dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWow, what do you do for work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLOLOL I know it's probably a waste of time to respond to a bot, but this is the first time I've seen this one and it cracked me up. So if you see this, whoever made it, kudos to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrying to clean and arrange things in my new place. I moved last month. Hang out with a friend or two. Tutor another friend. That's about it; work is taking up alot of time these days. Good luck with your kitchen work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell full disclosure, (I may delete this later) she used to have a more normal vagina, then had a hysterectomy due to cancer. Things were stitched up a bit short in there so even though my penis is pretty average, I couldn't entirely fit. The radiation treatment also must've killed some of the lubrication action too, as she was drier post-cancer, even when aroused. Unlike other women who could go for hours, she would get sore during sex. I don't know if this helps prove your point or the women's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread*shrug* Well it's kinda both in this case. In that relationship I saw that her vagina did expand, but the expansion didn't last; she needed to keep using them. There were other health factors so it could've been a special case. We could do a poll of women who use them to ask their experiences or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure is! If you don't now, I suggest you give it a try! It's a great way to burn some calories without having to count reps. You barely notice that you're exercising at all. Plus it's a low-pressure way to be in contact with folks and meet people who enjoy the same music you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.I read and understood what you wrote, and I'm not denying it. I don't think you understood what I wrote, though. My point is that for men (I'm generalizing, of course) the word "intimidate" only means threaten. Like, you have a broader and more expansive meaning of the word, cause we just can't use the word to mean that. That just does not compute for me. It would feel weird for me to use the word that way, just like I assume it'd be weird if I told you that "french fries" can be used to refer t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWith that, you're already ahead of the pack! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI want to make my cougars cum, not go. But happy for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan corroborate. They make vaginal dilators specifically to increase the size of an overly tight vagina. They do make a difference. A past gf used them to better accomodate me. But in our experience, she had to use them for a few minutes every day, cause the difference was only temporary and was lost after a few days without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDuring non-pandemic times, I only rarely work out, but I do social dancing so I must be getting some cardio there. During the pandemic I've been doing some working out at home - pushups, stomach crunches, curls mainly. Some jogging in the summer, but not anymore now that it's cold. That's about it, nothing fancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDamn. My condolences. Hope you have a better time next week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm not strictly RP, but why do we have analogies at all? Isn't an analogy only created in the first place to illustrate something that was already considered true? I think the belief came first, then came the analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Alternative to the Key/lock analogy.That makes sense, and I totally agree with it . . . but it's not an analogy and it's off topic. This isn't about bodily autonomy. No one's trying to take autonomy away. This is about perceived sexual/relationship value and how promiscuity affects it, and whether or not it's different for the different sexes, and how to parse it into an analogy for comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Alternative to the Key/lock analogy.Well it's not just the shape of the key and the phallic symbolism there. It's also (I'm inferring here) a representation of how dating/sexual effort goes, and how we're inversese of each other in a sense. The man/key has to come to the lock, which is more passive. The lock has to qualify the key or deem it "worthy." Like in dating where men generally have to approach women, and women select from the suitorrs. Therefore, a key that can open many locks must be valuable because many locks deem it "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWow, I hadn't heard of Bereznak before but after looking her up now and reading a few articles, ugh, gross. She's quite the hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Alternative to the Key/lock analogy.Actually, women aren't all over that third option. I know cause I'm that third option, and women aren't busting the doors down to get with me. Not that I get NO women - but no woman has ever commented that my low N count is appealing. One woman actually regretted getting with me when she found out that I was a virgin saving it for marriage (at the time). Even religious women have told me that they want a guy with experience, despite the religious teachings that say we should all be virgins. Eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Alternative to the Key/lock analogy.gonorr-key-a! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 09:34 AM |
| 4 | Would most women stay with a guy that wants to wait before having sex?This happened with me some years back. I was still technically a virgin and when my gf (who had a count of only one at the time) found out, she explicitly said that she wouldn't have gotten with me if she had known. (Not that I had hidden it, it just hadn't come up in conversation) And I wanted to wait for marriage, but she didn't, and was majorly frustrated. I think it's part of why she eventually broke up with me. I was eventually having sex with a later gf, but we were long-distance and I not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 09:31 AM |
| 2 | There are no "intimidated" men.Yeah, getting hurt. But physically. In those cases a person has direct and immediate power to harm my body. Perhaps the immediacy is part of the equation. I agree, there's a difference betwen fear and intimidation, but to me and probbaly most men, they're inextricably linked or correlated. One feels fear due to something that is intimidating. If one is intimidated, one is currently fealing fear or some kind of threat. It could be social, but physical is the first kind we think of. Men generally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.Hmm . . . well we're clearly having a mismatch here, and I'm not sure if it's a disagreement on the word usage, or just a difference of perspective and the actual raw feeling we're experiencing before it's put into words. Cause overawing/dumbstruck still don't make sense to me as words to use for food. Now when it comes to women, I think I could use the word "awestruck" if I'm taken aback by how beautiful/attractive a woman is. Or I can be impressed by her accomplishments, certainly. But those w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread*nods head nonchalantly* 'sup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf he's nervous, it's cause she's pretty, not cause she makes money. Though he'll take her making money into account and know that his chances of getting with her are lower if he doesn't make that kind of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey're both in and both have always been in; ass has just gone more mainstream (as in, white people are now paying attention to it) is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen a woman goes OVERBOARD in her rejection, being rude or crass or framing the guy as a creep for even talking to her. It's 100% okay to reject a guy - hey, we have to make choices in life. But when she says "Ew, I would never! Don't even talk to me!" or "Step off, ya short bastard!" instead of just "No thank you," or even "Thanks but you're not my type," that's nuclear rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.A very large steak or a whole rack of ribs can be intimidating. Whut? But . . . it's food. Food can't intimidate. Unless I suspect it's got something I'm allergic to? A living bull with big-ass horns and literally hundreds of pounds of muscle is 100% intimidating! But steak on a plate is an inanimate object and no longer has the power to scare me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.I agree. As a boy, I was intimidated by my mother. She had physical power over me and could - and did - whoop my ass. As a man, I really can't think of any women I've been intimidated by. My last four partners have all made more money than me, and half of them have been taller. My current gf, in fact, is a whole 2 and a half inches taller; it's very obvious when we walk around. But it's irrelevant to me. My only concerns about her body are her overall shape (for her attractiveness) and her healt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.Please explain in more detail, cause you're a minority on this topic and I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | There are no "intimidated" men.The man may fear rejection, or may worry aout messing things up with the attractive woman. Generally(generalizing here) though, a woman's education and paycheck don't scare a man. They can be a nice bonus, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:06 AM |
| 4 | There are no "intimidated" men.Or all of a sudden he must be GHEY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:59 AM |
| 0 | There are no "intimidated" men.Lol good point! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:37 AM |
| 4 | There are no "intimidated" men.Yes yes yes yes yes. She was being annoying. She was being repetitive. She was been a braggart. But she didn't make you afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:36 AM |
| 5 | There are no "intimidated" men.Men are intimidated by physical harm. A woman with a machete - and who's willing to use it - is intimidating. A female with a sniper rifle is intimidating. A trained and experienced female MMA fighter would be intimidating to some men, but not to all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Interesting. The things I fantasize are things I want. I fantasize about having powers, about kicking out bad presidents and taking over the government, about going to space, about having a harem of women, about time traveling to meet my future grandchildren and having an adventure with them. Those are all things I would absolutely choose if I was given the choice. fantasize(verb): "indulge in daydreaming about something desired" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?Why would you fantasize about something you DON'T want though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] What is the biggest assumption you had about the opposite gender that was proven wrong by experience?I'm a guy and I'm the first one - clutter isn't a big deal to me. But it better not be actually dirty. Take out the trash and throw out the damn expired food, and wash your ass, but you got a pile of books, stray notes and boxs, and (clean) clothes lying around? Whatever, no biggie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood luck! Yeah, they're out there. I've been dating one, but they're rare. So often women find younger men invisible, the way alot of men find older women invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Women don't peak in their late teens/early 20s, and women with a strong career are more attractive.If I felt 100% sure she was fine with that, (the way you seem to be with your guy, (which seems to be quite rare)) then I'd go with the richer woman, going back to wanting more children. So her having more money can make a practical difference considering the economy, but it doesn't make her sexier. We're assuming that both are equally attractive and equally pleasant here. (Now if we're getting fanciful, I'd say I get with both of them, effectively doubling the amount of kids I can have, and tee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Women don't peak in their late teens/early 20s, and women with a strong career are more attractive.Assuming they're identical otherwise, I think the answer depends on my income, which is more than $20K, but less than $80K. My first thought was the $80K woman, just to have more with which to raise our kids. But after thinking about it, I may actually go with the $20K woman. Cause the richer woman may come to have an issue with making more than me and end up leaving me high and dry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Women don't peak in their late teens/early 20s, and women with a strong career are more attractive.While it's true that some, or maybe even many, men are considering a woman's finances in partner selection, it's only a practical/pragmatic matter due to a dumb economy where both people need to work. It makes sense if you want children and you understand that kids ain't cheap. But practical does not equal attractive. I've dated a number of women who made more money than me. It was mere coincidence, and didn't make me hard. Their bodies made me hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Are women (maybe men as well?) more open sexually with a partner they are attracted to physically?Aren't men making an erotic sacrifice as well? Sex is more important to men in the first place. Monogamy keeps men from the variety they may naturally seek, and keeps them having less sex when the woman's sex drive falls off. At that point the woman doesn't give much fucks about all the fucking they're not doing, so she's not suffering from lack of sex. (I'm not an expert and not married; just extrapolating from what sexless folks say.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: Does it turn you off if a guy feels intimidated by you? Has it ever happened where you like a guy but but whenever you get close you can tell he feels intimidated and after that you don't see him the same way anymore? And why?I'm lost here. Where are all these men who are intimidated by women? Maybe I'm in a strange social circle. As far as I was aware, I and other men are only intimidated by a woman who can physically harm us - which for the most part means a woman with an active weapon. Like my mother with the belt when I was a kid. Aside from her, I guess if I ran into Rhonda Rousey or a female soldier I may be intimidated. (Though these days I'll admit I am wary of women without a mask on . . .) I understand bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?Are dating apps still easy for you? That might be too broad a question and too subjective. Maybe ask, "how many messages do you get per week?" and that can be compared to how many (or how little) men get. Cause a woman may think she's in a desert and it's with the number comparison she can be made to realize she's been in an oasis, compared to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?. . . well, women have a lot of control. Very little about what men like on a woman's body is immutable. A man can't change his height, though, which for some is the primary aspect on which he gets rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?Come on, would you watch a movie where a bunch of exceedingly average guys do nothing interesting, show no interesting ability, and give up at the first sign of adversity like people do in real life? Seinfeld the movie? Sure, I'd watch that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 0 | How to write strong but accurate female action/adventure characters?When it makes sense in context, I'm totally cool with it. It makes sense when Wonder Woman's kicking male ass, and it can be really cool. But we know that she's godly, literally less human than other women, therefore the normal rules don't apply to her. It doesn't make sense for Black Widow to kick so much ass, though, even though she looks cool (and hot) while doing it. As far as I know, she's unenhenced, and in real life unenhanced women just can't beat most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow commonly are guys doing this? I had a gf send me nudes. Sexy, sexy nudes. I've never shared them with anyone. Even though it ended badly and I would've been warranted some revenge, I've never shared them with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnother vote for The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly. Maybe listen to the soundtrack before you watch the movie. Good stuff. Also, The Ten Commandments with Charleton Heston. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor what it's worth, I got a laugh out of it. And if only one person laughs, even if it's the person who originally made the joke, it's a success! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell we're assuming in this scenario that she asked why he rejected her. Is that right u/Standard-Logic? It only became an exit interview because she asked a question. I probably wouldn't say those things unsolicited But if you ask me a question, I'll answer it honestly. Being honest is not being insulting. Those are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHuh? I'm not the insulting kind either. That's also rude! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMead: Only tried once, but found it delicious! Hope to get some again some day. Hard cider: I think so? I guess I made my own a while back, mixing apple cider with some butterscotch schnapps, and also apple cider with Fireball whiskey. Wine: Yes, the sweeter ones, and sangría. Though occasionally I'll force down a dry red wine, since it's supposed be good for you. I've tried a variety of beers in order to give them a fair shake. But they always taste nasty to me. Once one was somewhat tolerable,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI will never ghost. That's incredibly rude and insensitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadApparently. I've gotten compliments on my fingernails; some girls have even said they're jealous of them. I'm like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was called a "handsome devil" like 5 years ago and I still remember and cherish it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's being specific, not being mean. There's an important difference. Being specific is particularly important if it's something the person can improve in order to be better for the next partner. If he says something like "I'm uncomfortable about your body count." or "Your body count is too high for me," he's merely explaining. If he says "You're a dirty slut you bitch!" then he's being mean. Goes the same for women with height too. It's okay if a woman merely says "I don't find shorter men attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou haven't been on the receiving end of it. Ask the short guys how often they're heard a woman vocalize that. It's probably more common online, where people censor themselves less, but women definitely say it in real life too. It's basic knowing-women-101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm a guy and I hate beer. 🤢 I've got a sweet tooth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice way of putting it. What channel was this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Are friendships with women a good way to get sex or dates?If friendship was a good way to get sex, the term "friendzone" wouldn't be around. If it was a good way to get sex, this question wouldn't have appeared, cause all men would be getting sex. It's pretty obvious to me that that's the case. Men are (generalizing here) results-oriented. Let's do what works. If friendship worked, men would be getting all the sex they want, and this sub would be almost a ghost town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell I didn't mean in the entitled arrogant sense that some women have. More a general, mutual "let's be grateful that we have each other" or along those lines. Forgive my sappy romance-novel moment there. :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI enjoy giving my gf my keys; it shows trust in her, and also that I'm trustworthy, cause I must not have anything to hide in my space if I give you free access to it. But being together less than a month that seems too quick to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGirl needs a sandwich Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestKeep that Sabbath holy, babe. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:30 AM |
| 3 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestTrue dat. Most of my friends are dancers, active people. So I don't interact with many fat slobs. It always surprises me for a moment when people talk about obesity statistics, cause in my circle I know people in their 70's who can still cut a rug. Exercise makes a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | There's no excuse not to workout and look your bestThe fork is just a condom for your hands, separating us from our primal nature. Gotta get all up in them spaghetti guts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag?I was reading a thread in FDS Well that was your first mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:23 AM |
| 0 | The Question of Preference😮 Damn, that's really f'in messed up. What an asshole. My condolences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:21 AM |
| 2 | If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women?Evolution takes millions of years. We've changed socially, but we haven't evolved one bit. We're still the same species we've been ever since we became the species that we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 08:57 AM |
| 3 | A woman shows her true self when she’s youngNo matter how horny you are, there are some women you'd reject. And yes, your lizard brain is saying maybe they shouldn't procreate. But you don't actually hate them. You're just not into them sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 0 | A woman shows her true self when she’s youngWhether or not you're aware that you have a power, you are aware of certain opportunities that you have. Meaning that you can still abuse that power because the power is providing you with certain opportunities, and you're abusing those opportunities. But if the woman doesn't take advantage of those opportunities, then yes, she's not abusing her power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHa! This is kinda the opposite of what happened with me. My ex straightened her hair and was so exited to show me . . . and I didn't even notice, and when she pointed it out I was like, "okay, cool." Cause her hair was already nearly straight in the first place, and cause I'm not really a hair person. She was disappointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, no reason for you to be intimidated . . . but also, they haven't invented a fleshlight yet that feels better than a pussy, that can do what a pussy can do and more. This situation implies (I didn't listen to it) that the dildo (and by extension, her ex) is better than her husband's penis. Guys can feel nervous/insecure about it cause it's easy to make a dildo that's bigger or that vibrates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've found that some people are just too dumb or too serious for jokes/puns in general. So one should tailor their jokes a bit and be careful who you joke with. Also, some will laugh but never make jokes of their own. I make dirty jokes with certain co-workers, but not with the manager. Not because of her position at all - but because I've seen that she misunderstands jokes in general, dirty or not. In my experience, women in general, though they may be capable of it, don't really make jokes. (M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, I'm just floored at this. Sex should be a collaboration. Maybe a gift, or even an act of service. But adversarial is messed up. I understand these women want pleasure, sure. But one can cooperate with their man, with a simple, "Hey, here's what I need," or a "hey, ladies first, lemme cum first." Or take turns: this time the sex is woman-focused, next time it's man-focused. And so on. But she's making sex straight-up stressful and almost masochistic, wtf! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOr just go clubbing in the Phillippines and be taller than average over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh, if it's regular reincarnation, the results don't mean much, cause you don't remember your past life, so it's irrelevant what sex you were before. If it's a rebirth with full memory, though, then it may mean something. In that scenario, if it's to be reborn in modern times, I'd probably choose woman. If in the past, I'd stay a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI watched the movie Emma, which has sparked some interest in reading the book some day. I read Catcher in the Rye. Either my taste didn't match it, or maybe I was too young at the time, cause it didn't make a lick of sense to me, and I don't remember a thing from it. It bored me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:46 AM |
| 1 | TRP is meant to be a locker room not a scientific studyAll the other stuff is pretty self-explanatory, but what, exactly, are "piercing eyes?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:44 AM |
| 2 | TRP is meant to be a locker room not a scientific studythe fact most men are below avg in attractiveness and height shows you beta males were good to breed That doesn't make sense. Most men can't be below average in height, because "average" is only relative to whatever there is. Average is by definition right around where most people are and that's what makes it average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 2 | If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women?I firmly believe that you and your partner should be open and honest about your background and life experiences. 100%. People who say "the past is the past" have something nasty to hide. The past matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women?Wow, I'm taken aback that a woman would lie UP about her number. That's completely out of my experience. Was the community you grew up in very secular, as in, not-religious? Like a very liberal or hippie kinda community? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women?What aspect would be alot of work for him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh cool, I didn't know about the grit options. Hmm, maybe I'll give 'em a chance. 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?Haha, well I don't claim to be perfect, but I meant "good" as in not a "bad boy" asshole type. I was kind, patient, faithful, and always gave her orgasms. I'm the kind of guy most women claim they want. My self-esteem was fine; I just wasn't as jealous as some guys. Letting her strip was to give her an extra outlet where she could express herself WITHOUT touching, cause I wasn't into an open relationship, though she was interested in one. Clearly, you could say it backfired . . . but it wasn't d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone's hypocritical Moral of the story right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've been curious about Dr Squatch soap but I don't wanna order it cause I must smell a soap before I buy it. Can't just order that sight unsee-- I mean, smell unsniffed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you haven't played the Dead or Alive fighting games, you must. Two words: jiggle physics. Three more words, what me and some friends back in in the day used to call it: jiggling titty technology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat are the side effects? I may wanna use something soon and I'm wondering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?That is where I think men are headed. I have no idea about women I doubt women would head there, because of the social components of what drives their attraction - status and money. A companion that you buy/order may have the perfect abs and broad shoulders, etc., but has no job, no income. He has a serial number instead of a bank account. It's a better dildo for some women, but methinks that many won't go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?I'll co-sign on that. Being combative and disagreeable doesn't mena someone is intelligent. My combative customers who refuse to wear masks, even the hot ones, I consider garbage bin-level IQ and wouldn't ever mate with them. My potential children deserve a more intelligent mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Wow, that's just bizarre to me. Of course, I'm not a tall guy, so they're experience is different, but still sounds weird to freak out about a tall girl. For me, a woman's shape/proportions come first. Height could potentially a practical concern if it's an extreme difference, just cause I wouldn't want to have to bend far down, nor do I want to have to jump, to kiss her. But no woman THAT much taller than me is interested in me anyway, so that'll probably never be an issue. What I've usually se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?😂 Giants need lovin' too, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 9 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Damn, you're tall! (I know you already know that) Sorry about the men you've had to deal with. They're the exception. My girlfriend is 2.5 inches taller than me and I don't care. I think that most secure men don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTough one! Both pretty. I like Samantha's face better overall, except the chin dimple, which is a no for me. So Jeannie in the end, unless Samantha twinkles her nose and removes that dimple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends on the guy. For me, it may not be an attraction, per se, but I do appreciate it, especially if she's competent at something that I'm NOT competent at, so that we can complement each other. I enjoy learning something from her as well as teaching her something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat kind of freindship is possible, but improbable in real life. I have a close friendship with an ex, but we don't much about sex with new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?Okay that's a super-freakin' sweet, heart-melt sandwich right there, I won't hate on you. But damn that's also super-freakin' rare so don't count on that people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?This is funny and sad and completely true, and needs more attention. Romance is a minefield (🎵love is a battlefied🎵) and as a man it's rare, if ever, that you're completely sure you can go where you want to go. It's like an aymptote. You can be 60%, then 80%, then even 90% sure she wants it . . . but there's always a chance that things can explode in your face, and as a man you may be guilty until proven innocent. Even though I've been pretty lucky in that regard, I usually view that first kiss … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?"If he has to ask it's a total turn off." - a women in this very thread. The correct answer, everyone, is "depends on the woman." Throw your dice, good luck, don't get your hopes up too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?Depends on the woman. Another women right here in this thread said "If he has to ask it's a total turn off." So guys really are walking a minefield when it comes to asking, sad to say. I've been lucky in that regard, having had enough context to go for the kiss, or sometimes she went for it. But alot guys have gotten burned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?"In 10 seconds, my face is moving through this space. If your lips are still there, a kiss is gonna happen. Otherwise, better get off the tracks cause this train is comin' thru!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 08:36 AM |
| 13 | Women, how would you prefer to be pursued in real life?You're making perfect sense here and I'm happy to see that . . . problem is that many other people (of both sexes) out in the world do things that DON'T make sense. Some women out there are labelling everything harassment, even when it isn't. Those women are who these men are complaining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultwomen are not more attractive than men, by default That part maes sense. Women aren't inherently the "fairer" sex. It's just that men are the more visual sex. All humans like beauty, but men place more importance on physical beauty as a partner-choosing strategy than women do. That aspect of our biology informs that aspect of our culture. try to not be horny in general Wtf you can't just mind over matter your drives that easily. You can reject your horniness, you can not entertain your horniness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 06:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultLol can we make sidebar with topics that have been debated to death so that they're officially are off-limits? Nevermind that would kill this sub within 3 days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh, got it. Well a bit more broadly then, when a woman says "tall, dark, and handsome," is the "dark" there exactly the same kind of dark you're referring to? That phrase never made much sense to me, cause I only heard it in white media and I always thought, But they're not dark though so what are they talking about? I know you're not white, but you may have a better idea than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol well I wouldn't want anyone railing MY wife. But he sounds happy about it so good for him. But mainly my compliment was about her still being hot after 30 years. That sounds awesome. Either she's kept herself in shape very well - unlike many other people these days - or he's just that madly in love with her still that he still finds her sexy. (some combination of the two I imagine) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA name like PussyEatingManiac implied that you don't try that hard to stay away from women, lol. Love the name, by the way, for I too enjoy the eating of pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDang. My girlfriend and I need to make some friends like you! Lol. Sound slike you're livin' the life so congrats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI gotta ask for some clarification here. What exactly does "dark features" mean? Cause South Asian men may have dark skin, but often their facial features are typically similar to those of white Europeans and they share a ton of DNA with Europeans (not that I'm an anthropology/genomic expert or anything, but what little I've looked into is along those lines) So I'm curious if you're talking about their skin, the actual facial features, the combination of the two, or . . . something else entirely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCredit union | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?Not the simpiest thing in the world, but one that amuses me more than traumatises me: I was a poor kid, and in 8th grade. I spent the rare dollar that I had on a little pack of Snickers. 8 delicious, bite-sized pieces. Now I would've been glad to give away one or two pieces to friends. But this girl, not even an actual friend, asks me if she can have the whole package . . . and I just gave her the whole thing. I didn't taste a single piece. She was so damn cute, and she stared right into my eyes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?“Tales From The Simp” Haha! I just pictured the Cryptkeeper in a new show: Tales from the SimpKeeper, MUAHAHAHA! and was bonding with him over a “shared interest” in things (movies, music, etc) I had just taught her about. Like literally using the same words I had just said to her so she could make him like her. Damn, that's foul. She basically has you in a proxy relationship with this guy. Like, she should pay you for being a dating coach to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?I really enjoy making custom CDs for people. But that 3 months after part hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Redpillers: What’s the most simpy thing you did for a girl pre-TRP?I dated a stripper. I was the good guy boyfriend who wanted her to have an opportunity to "express herself" and whatnot. I got burned when the stripper decided to also become a prostitute. Without telling me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:08 AM |
| 3 | What signs tell you a man is taken?When I was younger and single, I noticed - with annoyance - that it seemed like women talked about their boyfriends all the damn time. Then I got a girlfriend and eventually realized that I brought her up all the damn time too. It wasn't on purpose. It was just that, the longer you're with someone, the more involved they are in your life, and the more of your stories involve or include her or are incited by her. It's natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Psychology Mega-ThreadCool, thanks! I'm intrigued. I think everyone should be required to take an occasional course of some kind as part of their adult citizenship, a national continuing education, to be reminded that they don't know everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 0 | For Non-Red Pill Men(this is about marriage or LTR): What sort of women do you like or seek?Like most things, some have a strong opinion and some don't. For me it's hard to describe, but I think it encompasses several things: - the true completion of the act - it's the follow-through - minimizing a mess - acceptance - showing a selflessness to focus on your partner's pleasure It can feel quite like an insult and a rejection to have a girl go spit after you've ejaculated, during which time you've just been very vulnerable and at her mercy. It can feel kinda unfair considering that when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Are you fucked if you don't engage in drinking culture?I guess the question is rather, if you're not fucked . . . Edit: But to be more serious - good on ya for taking steps to improve your life and body! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Are all women polygynous?Wow. Sometimes I'm embarassed to be a member of this species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Are you fucked if you don't engage in drinking culture?It is! When I'm cold, it's easy to temporarily keep warm by increasing blood flow. I need to learn some biofeedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 08:29 AM |
| -2 | Are all women polygynous?I agree that probably no one's happy about being the fifth option. But who the heck would be LARPing about something like that? Who does it benefit? Why would a man( or woman?) pretend to be a woman who's the fifth option for a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's true. But knowing my mother, a religious conservative and not too homo-friendly, better safe than sorry and just have a well-worded reply ready in case, for when she asks questions and starts making the situation more dramatic than it needs to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Psychology Mega-Thread- Did you enjoy it? - Did it confirm/counter any RP stuff? - Did it make you think more along the lines of "Hey, nature is pretty cool," or along th elines of, "Wow, humans are really just animals who have forgotten that they're animals." - Would you recommend everybody here take it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgh! Sorry, I was startled at the phot for a moment there. 🤣 But for real, I agree. I think he's kinda on the guly side, but so many women find him attractive and it's got to be his height and his fame/money cause I just don't see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh, Plemons. I think he was slightly on the ugly side in his younger days. Now the facial hair helps and he's gone up to average. He's grown into . . . I dunno, his face or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread1: Sure I guess. I'd start preparing for the boy to come out some day - fine by me, but I'd have to explain it carefully to my mother. 2: N/A 3: I really don't give a rat's ass. Not even half a rat's ass. I, and the vast majority of people on this planet, have got bigger problems than she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAwww! Congrats and good luck with your MIL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?Same here. I don't care if she's shorter or taller, but hopefully within a few inches. I cannot fathom being a whole foot taller or shorter than my partner. Not because they wouldn't be attractive, but it just seems increadibly inconvenient. I like making out and I don't wanna break my back or have to grab a stepladder to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Be honest, do you really think women are more attracted to celebrities than non-elite men? And if so, if you were a woman for example, would you also find said men attractive?Oh yes, I think it's true. Just look at how mena nd women talk about celebrities. Look at whose posters are getting put up on bedroom walls. How many men crush on Rosie O'Donnell? Yeah, crickets is the answer, despite her being rich and famous. Whereas how many women crush on rich and famous men who aren't that attractive? Plenty. It's just a difference in what men and women find attractive, whether we like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If they wanted to, men have a substantial amount of mutable traits they could adjust to better inspire desire in or respect from others.Some of those mutable traits are stilll affected by the immutable ones and women's perceptions of them as positive. This can affect #'s 4, 5, 6, 10, and 11, if not more. For instance, two men saying the same thing, the tall one will be seen as manly and assertive, and the short one will be seen as Napoleonic or rude. The tall man is automatically seen as having more "masculine presense." And ugly man who says the same charming thing as a handsome man will be seen as a creeper while the handsome … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If they wanted to, men have a substantial amount of mutable traits they could adjust to better inspire desire in or respect from others.It's not the tall women that are the problem. Tall women are totally justified for wanting tall men. It's average and short women, who spurn short men, demanding absurd height differentials, who are the problem. The f-foot woman who wnats a 6-ft guy, for instance. (Not all, etc., but you know what I mean.) (And also, tall women can want tall men, sure, but it's messed up when they're mean or shaming with their rejection of a shorter guy.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | For Non-Red Pill Men(this is about marriage or LTR): What sort of women do you like or seek?Raised with blue pill tendencies, though some experiences have purpled me. I've done mostly LTR, and am still open to marriage with the right woman. There's gotta be physical and mental compatibility. For mental/emotional: - Intelligent. She doesn't need to be a PhD, but she has to have a decent ability to have a conversation, and not be wildly irrational. I want to look forward to hearing what she has to say. - Along with intelligence, is to be a communicator. Understand that I'm not a mindread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:38 AM |
| -1 | For Non-Red Pill Men(this is about marriage or LTR): What sort of women do you like or seek?You won, bro. Congrats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Can’t older women just date older men?The way I see it, men don't actually "age like wine" - after all, women live longer than us! So the phrase is kinda facetious, but the element of truth is that men's sexual value to women ages like wine, and women's sexual value to men ages like milk. Like caption291 said, women look for a man who can provide. Men aren't typically looking for that in women, and even when they do, it's a practical economic concern, not a factor of raw attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Can’t older women just date older men?Approximately zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:20 AM |
| 17 | Can’t older women just date older men?Sounds like they're either ugly or awful personalities. Actually, it doesn't. She explicitly said that most of them are not ugly, and she didn't say a single thing about their personalities. So it doesn't sound like almost anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?Men in those ages would like to be with women their age, but they'd like to be with younger women even more. In general, women from around 18-25 or so are simply the most attractive. Of course there may be plenty of reasons to NOT be with a woman that age. But I'm just talking about raw physical attractiveness here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | An Average Mega-ThreadDidn't know her before, but upon looking, I agree. Not ugly, not WOW. She's just kinda there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | An Average Mega-ThreadWell to be fair, a man's tallness being attractive isn't niche. That's like, women's favorite things 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?Most of my friends are female, and I'm not trying to bang them. A few I've never felt anything for at all. One or two I've had feelings for, or have simply lusted after, but know that it wouldn't work and have never attempted to do anything. One is an ex - we were friends, then lovers, and now even better friends, and I don't expect it to ever get romantic again. I kinda would want it, but even if she wanted it too, for a number of reasons I know it's not a great idea. But no matter the way we b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?Lol - this place has all kinds of strange creatures. Welcome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?Damn that's sad . . . and gets an upvote cause life is just making do for most of us until the bitter end. 😢💔⚰️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?It seems so many women like some gray hair on a guy! As a man it kinda baffles me. Often I've heard them say it makes him looks "distinguished" . . . whatever that means. I've found some gray-haired women attractive, but it's always been despite of, not because of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?Damn. Girl 1 needs to be locked up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 09:36 AM |
| 2 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?I've encountered several examples. Those I remember off the top of my head: - 13-yr-old in high school used to brag about her 24-yr-old boyfriend. I was 16/17 at the time and even then, I found that absoulutely gross and crazy. I never saw the guy, so I suspected she was making it up to make other girls jealous. Or that the guy was just a pedophile and she was super dumb for being with him. Her parents were idiots or arguably, downright abusive if he was real, and if he wasn't real, it implies t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | How is someone supposed to have a low N-count and be happy, if they have a bad time at finding lasting relationships ?Absolutely! And sadly, and ironically, it's actually normal to be a hypocrite. Men and women both want certain things, but don't like the other things that come with them. Men want an enthusiastically sexual woman, but only want her to be enthusiastically sexual with him, and that doesn't come easy. Women want a buff guy, but they also want attention, and being buff takes tons of time away. Women want a guy who's ambitious and monogamous, but an ambitious guy doesn't want just one woman cause he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | How is someone supposed to have a low N-count and be happy, if they have a bad time at finding lasting relationships ?From that description, you sound like a pretty normal guy to me in the way you approach sex with love vs. sex for just fun. Though you're certainly in the minority for wanting a woman who is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've done it a few times. Physically, it felt good but not as good as non-period, as the blood changed the consistency/texture of my gf's wetness. Mentally it was slightly off-putting, but not the end of the world, and my gf would've had a fit and been offended if I said no, so I did it. I also went down on her once or twice during a period and that was fine, as I could just stay above the blood and focus on the clitoris. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:11 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?It's a stupid, stupid, and shaming phrase and I can't roll my eyes enough at it. I think a better reversal might be "tight/loose pussy energy." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospects<3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | CVM: SUPER UNPOPULAR OPINION WARNING...looked over FDS and it seems like it actually may bring about the positive changes in the world that TRP complains won't happenI'm glad for you that your relationship works and that you're adding value to each other's lives. I don't know your personal journey, but on the surface you sound reasonable and not at all like the rabid misandry on FDS. If you were able to take the good and avoid the bad, that's awesome and maybe other women could learn from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 2 | How important is it for your spouse to be a virgin?A virgin would be pretty nice, but in my 30's it's not that realistic. I'm not a virgin, but my N count is low so I'd hope for a relatively low count in a woman too. Even if by some miracle I found a virgin, there's the question of well, if she's still a virgin by now, what if her sex drive is super duper low and she trends us towards a sexless marriage? The things you want, whether you're male or female, come with potential consequences and that's one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Appreciate Physical Differences in Women More Than Vice Versa?Well I prefer short men Do you mean a short man who's still taller than you, or a man who's actually shorter than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Appreciate Physical Differences in Women More Than Vice Versa?Serious question: do you mean you actually don't care about height and could date a guy shorter than you, or rather that you care about height but since you're short, the vast majority of men still qualify even if they're short for a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Appreciate Physical Differences in Women More Than Vice Versa?Damn. These guys live in a whoooole different world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Appreciate Physical Differences in Women More Than Vice Versa?Lol where are these women? A "sizeable minority" is the men that like fat women. They're a minority, but they're known. They make porn according to their tastes, and they support women's fat acceptance movement. The women that prefer shorter men are unknown and unheard. And also, to be specific, by shorter, do you mean shorter than average but still taller than the woman, or just shorter than the woman herself? For instance, I've dated several women taller than me(which already is unusual), and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Do Men Appreciate Physical Differences in Women More Than Vice Versa?Eh, you're describing how a woman becomes famous. Women become famous because they're attractive. Whereas men become attractive because they're famous. I mean, it's not an absolute, but yeah, status is part of what makes a man attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Yikes, estás loco? No way. I've only taken a look there a couple times, but frankly, I was terrified and disgusted by what I read. They're misanthropes who look down on even the Chaddiest of Chads as a tool (yes, they're objectifying as hard as man has objectified), and show no committment. They clown on the majority of men, regular guys who are only guilty of being short, or balding(a consequence of testosterone, ironically) who are just trying to make it to the next day. I'm a laid-back guy wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I mean shit like this isn't illegal either, despite how despicable it is. Wow, holy cow! That made me kinda sick to read and contemplate it. And yet . . . I hate to say it, but I understand why they outline this crazy, soul-killing strategy. It's not merely selfishness, it's a strategy for men to respond to the woman's selfishness. Men's reproductive powerlessness is why that strategy is outlined there. (Of course, a man who is responsible in the first place is unlikely to need it.) Ugh. 🤢 I n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?You know too much, and will soon be eliminated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Could society collapse because of picky women?I knew slavery would come back into vogue in some form or other. Or we could just kill them. Or turn them into animals, like in the movie The Lobster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Could society collapse because of picky women?And extensive plastic surgery will not work because hypergamy is relative. Women will just raise there standards more. Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")but it’s big enough that I could sacrifice a good portion of it and still be way above average. Yeah, that is exactly monster class size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")You mean you'd sacrifice your life to end the human race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")Dang, that's messed up. It can be fun if someone you know and have a connection with does it, but strangers? That ain't cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")High IQ guy and I think I wouldn't mind dropping ten IQ points if it gave me at least two inches of height. Not even just for sex life, but for general success. It's wild, the difference it can make in a man's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")Oh, haha. Then out of curiosity, why do you wanna be taller? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been in love before?I've been in love before. I came across this sub by accident, but have stuck around cause it's interesting and sometimes fascinating. I like seeing how people tick, and comparing experiences to make sense of how I myself tick. A breakup didn't lead me here, but I've had bad breakups before, and being here has given me thoughts on what may explain past relationship issues, and on how to proceed in future relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been in love before?I was done wrong by a woman who almost became my wife some years ago. At the time I though she was damn near insane. Sadly, disturbingly, and scarily, red pill would explain much of her behavior too. I thnk (hope?) that the truth is somewhere in between. That RP has a point in that the sexes are different, that we have different assumptions and expectations that biologically-propgrammed and/or socially-influenced . . . but also that some people really are just shitty and evil. I wish you success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")Whether you want to date or not, it'd still improve your dating life to be taller (assuming you're male). Edit: This is objectively true for males. Whoever downvotes the objective truth is . . . there isn't even a word for how dumb that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 0 | The "biology" of the age gapWe already know the men like younger women. There's contention about women liking older men though. Gotta face it, ladies - alot of young women really do just prefer to date a guy at least seceral years older. (Some outliers wanna date a guy decades older, but yeah.) Ask women in their 20's, many are outright DISGUSTED at the idea of dating a guy even two weeks younger. It's not all women, but it's definitely enough to call it a feminine trend, something that doesn't exist among men. As they get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | The "biology" of the age gapHPV is an extremely common STD and leads to cancer, herpes cannot be cured and is not routinely tested for. I'm with ya on that. In major cities you can get tested for gonorhea, syphylis, HIV and chlamydia for free, but you have to pay for herpes. Alot of people who say they're "clean" really mean "nothing that I know of" and haven't gotten tested for herpes, if they've even gotten tested at all. Though in theory, I'd love to have sex with 100s of women, fear of STDs (and other factors) keeps my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 08:42 AM |
| 1 | What birth control method do you use?From what I've heard it's an all-or-nothing thing that's consistent per person - either his precum contains it or it doesn't. I don't remember where I got that from, though, so it could be incorrect. Though leftovers from a previous ejaculation makes some sense too, if it's soon enough after that the sperm hasn't died already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 7 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Something I've thought about before is making it so that everyone can, by conscious choice, check the "compatibility aura" of anyone nearby. The closer it is to your favorite color, the better of an overall match they are for you in aspects physical/personal/reproductive. There wouldn't be one specific soul mate, but you could find a handful of people who are damn close to a soul mate, and gauge relative compatibility before even saying hello, which would cut out alot of time in dating, and enco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?You should read The Power by Naomi Alderman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 0 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Danny's fame might counteract his short baldness, though, as women like status. Gotta be a random unknown guy. Maybe he comes with a Wal-mart uniform? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 01:45 AM |
| 4 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Thanks to hybristophilia, which women have more than men, the guys with a high assault count would still get pussy though, unless you make a second wish to delete hybritophilia from humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor real. Those songs talking about making love all night are not realistic for most folks past 25. Probably even most folks under 25 too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | The vast majority of people absolutely do use relationships for personal development and growth, intentionally or unintentionallyShe threw me out of a moving car once. 😮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?Current bae is quite witty. We can wordplay with puns and innuendo and it's a blast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?If she has to be attractive, though, doesn't that mean you do have a physical type? Otherwise how can you tell if she is or isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 6 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?Time to build a boo! 37M here. Ideal physical: thick - (meaning not fat, but curvy (the stomach is not a curve, ladies)) enough to look feminine, but not as extreme as, say, Kim Kardashian. Gotta have a nice round ass. Boobs less important, but if they fit my hands that's an awesome plus. Love dark nipples. Love big nipples. Hair color doesn't matter. Outside of munchkins and giants, height doesn't matter; I've dated a few inches shorter and taller than myself. I'm open to any race, though my de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Do you have one type or multiple types ?Two questions: 1) Your brain is deciding - well our brain decides for all for all of us, really - but is there some commonality you've noticed after the fact? 2) You can tell that someone is attractive and not be interested. What about the opposite - have you been interested in anyone that you found unequivocably unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wish I had a girl who looked good; I would call her 📞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood for them! I really need to move back south, cause the weather is crap here (Chicago). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills'Interested! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | What birth control method do you use?Wow. It's unfortunate that other methods didn't work. You've been super lucky with the pull-out, though, as some men's pre-cum contains sperm. Your husband must not be one of those! And also, you better not let go of him! He must really, seriously love you, cause I can say that for probably most men, pulling out is intensely unsatisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What birth control method do you use?Yikes. I was thinking about it myself, but now maybe not! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf it's a head doctor they'll get accurate results. 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey use anesthetic lubricant in porn to not feel such pains. For real? I've wondered about that, with some of the freakish guys in some porn. How'd you find out about the anesthetic lubricant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey should! You're making perfect, reasonable sense . . . but it seems (at a glance) that most other women don't think as data-oriented as you. The data is right there, but they don't make those connections during the relevant conversations. I'm sure they can if prompted, but that's just not their go-to way to think. You'd probably make a great air traffic controller! (random thought there but yeah) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome were shocked when I told them that homeless people existed in the US. Can confirm as well for other 3rd -world countries. A number of people in the 3rd world have gotten some kinda magical propaganda or something, and think life is pure bliss here in the U.S. It's better than some messed up situations lke Syria, sure, but it's not as great as they're led to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread#2 and #3 are important to consider. Guys are mis-measuring and over-estimating. Guys with shorter dicks are scared to be measured. And guys with big dicks get more sex, so some women, especially the slutty ones, have a skewed sample cause they happen to have had a few monsters and think normal guys are small. (also maybe guys on average are also just more mathematically/exact measurements oriented and women spitball things?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't get it. Like, don't people have critical listening and reasoning skills? People talk about "presence" and it almost sounds like a woo-woo thing when they talk about cult leaders. Even if he's attractive, even if he's animated, you still have to process his words, right? I'm amazed and flabbergasted at how people can fall for cult leaders, and I wonder if it's really their sway, or the gullibility of stupid people, that he's just leveraging his words against people who are particularly sw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 07:38 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThe church is run by men, yes, but they don't want either sex to have premarital sex. They tell both sexes to abstain until marriage. I grew up in a Latin American church and they were all about us being virgins. And one thing I hear these days (it's hearsay so I dunno for sure) is that in American churces nowadays they're encouraging men more to "step up" and date single mothers; isn't that kinda like forgiving former sluts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysYou misunderstand - I'm not talking about confident women. It's great to see actual and deserved confidence. In performing you gotta have confidence. I'm talking about women who go beyond that, who are rude or arrogant or stuck-up thanks to their looks and the biased treatment it's gotten them. Happens with some men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy.As a man I certainly see troubling things here, but I doubt it's a directed, strategic conspiracy. More likely the result of the mass accumulation of human bone-headed stupidity and hypocrisy, and unforseen consequences of things thought to be good social developments at the time. (In this case it's female-led hypocrisy, but males are certainly full of their own brand of stupidity and hypocrisy too) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysIt’s almost they want women to be beautiful as long as she doesn’t know it. That actually is kinda a fantasy for men in some ways. Notice the songs men have written about women who don't know how beautiful they are. Guys feel that a beautiful woman who doesn't know it won't be an asshole like the beautiful woman who does know it. But with today's media, no beautiful woman doesn't know it anymore. And even average women think they're more beautiful than they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysI've got no gripe with you for seeking height, considering your own height. I have no qualm with a tall woman who seeks a tall man, as long as she doesn't shame short men. I have a problem with the shamers, and the short women who demand a giraffe of a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysI totes agree on the cosmetic surgery aspect. Cosmetic surgery benefits women more than it benefits men so they're getting more and more as it becomes more and more available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 07:52 AM |
| 2 | How is it superficial to not want to date unattractive men if procreating with them would mean to reproduce their genes?CAMEL FEATURES LOL. The kiddo looks mostly okay to me, but Jeez Louise now when I See Jay-Z I can't unsee it. 🐪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread*raises hand* I've had that experience and I'm a fairly unremarkable man in size and stature. Men (on average, not all men, etc.) commit so little violence against women these days that many women, though told so back in 3rd grade, have totally forgotten that men are stronger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I do agree with some of that. I didn't say our lizard brain drives are necessarily "good." They're good for reproduction, I suppose, but at odds with some of the social stuff we're trying to build. And I already agreed with you that women enjoy new dick. However, women on average don't want a new dick that's JUST a new dick whereas many (not all) men are happy to try new pussy without emotional connection. I'm actually one of the guys who prefers a connection - I'm a sweet and tender lover, as c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I didn't say that women don't like new dick. All I was saying is that you shouldn't ascribe a man's desire for new pussy to his social maturity or lack thereof. People in general like variety, but men like variety even more than women do, and men's orgasm being as simple and easy as it is, men can (on average) derive more satisfaction from casual variety than women, cause the simple in-and-out works for most men whether it's the love of his life or a stranger. Humans in general are pretty selfis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I don't know if it's true or not, but someone told me that the Catholic church in Mexico, in order to lower the statistics on divroce, have been suggesting something like this. That way we can't call it a failed marriage; it's just an expired marriage or some such thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.The awesome feeling of new pussy is separate and irrelevant to how juvenile the male is. Whether the male is a teen hopped up on hormones or 40 years old and starting to grow a beer belly, new pussy is awesome. That's not to be argued. The thing to be argued is what OTHER things in life satisfy him enough to not seek new pussy. If he's got children and loves his wife, he makes the conscious choice to make the compromise against his lizard brain's desires because the social value is enough. And m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.That's awesome. Some men would totally balk at being a SAHD, though it seems there are more women who simply wouldn't respect a SAHD. But I'm glad it worked out for them, and by extension, for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?You can most certainly be attracted to someone and not want to marry them. I know several women whom I feel drawn to, but who I know are absolute trainwrecks and they'd ruin my life if I let them, so I stay away. I broke up with my super hot ex when her cheating made me disgusted with her. I no longer wanted to marry her, though I could still acknowledge that she was an attractive woman, in fact, that her attractiveness was the thing that facilitated her cheating. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?You mention guys you hook up with; maybe I missed something earlier. Are you in an open marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?Referring to both this, and to the earlier thing about men wanting to be "treated like shit": No normal/sane person wants to be treated badly. But men and women have different priorities, and to judge one by the priorities of the other will make either one look bad, and isn't a fair judgement in either case. It's easy to see if I flip it around, for I can just as easily say, "Immature women (women I wouldn't date anyway) care about height. They're irrelevant." But no, that's not true. Many, many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?I'd tentatively include tradcons, cause though tradcons espouse that casual sex is bad/wrong, any of them who are realistic can acknowledge that to avoid casual sex is to fight their natural urges, that naturally men are visual and the knee-jerk desire/instinct is to have sex with many women. In my youth I wanted to wait for marriage, but I it was easy to see, once my hormones kicked in during puberty, what my body would rather do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Tattoos are a cheat code for getting girlsSeems like a pain in the ass to try to find a woman who doesn't festish your tats. After all, it's easy to be neutral or take-it-or-leave-it to one tattoo. But someone who's actually neutral to you being covered sounds like a unicorn! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you think FDS has a fair assessment about bald men?I actually knew one . . . but yeah just one so she was certainly an outlier. She was slim and said that a man should be a big teddy bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Introverts and extrovertsOh I know that experience and prowess aren't the same thing - I'm pointing out that some women relate the two. And in my personal case, I was indeed a virgin with options, who chose not to exercise them due to religious constraints. That didn't matter to my gf; it was still a negative to her that I hadn't had sex already. The women I talk to cover a wide range, as I've dated women my age and dated women older too. I'm talking mainly about women my age(mid-30's) and younger. I have an ex who is 6… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsWell I didn't say that all women prefer them. I was just pointing out the difference between the immutable things that women like in men vs. the mmutable things that men like in women. I think you're right at the end there, that most men's penises can satisfy most women. But there's definitely a stigma against small-dicked men in society. Women have made songs about it, they've written things about it, and these days they make tiktoks or youtube videos about it. Even if it's not the majority of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Introverts and extrovertsNope, it's more his sexual inexperience, at least that's the common thing women say when asked about this. In my experience, women have said that they want a guy who can please them in bed. In the broader RP space, they say that women want a guy with "pre-selection," as in, if he's a virgin he must not be good with women. And for a few people, including some men, there's a fear that your partner will wonder what they've missed by not having sex with others and that they may cheat or leave you be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Introverts and extrovertsExtroverted woman/introverted man is more problematic than the reverse, in my opinion. Women tend to like a man who takes up space, physically and socially. But either way can potentially work as long as they communicate and make compromises. The extroverted person has to understand that the introvert's need for alone time isn't a personal attack on them and give them that space when need be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Introverts and extrovertsOh, they do, certainly do more than men do. Women are faaar more likely to avoid a virgin than a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?I agree with those claims. I think the truth is something in the middle - that women care maybe a touch less than men think, because men forget that women aren't nearly as visual as we are. But women do care more than they say they do on average. Certainly some or many are lying. My own experience: In college a girl who only ever gave me a handjob said mine was big. Girlfriend soon after said it was small. We were young and she hadn't seen that many yet. When I told her it's slightly above avera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?In person, and at random, and at gun point, to ensure the random guys will drop trou. Otherwise there may be some self-selection that throws off the results. Guys with bigger dicks will be happy to participate and guys with smaller dicks may shy away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What characters are you attracted to and why?I've crushed on or lusted after numerous characters over the years. Sailor Mercury - cute and brainy. Too busy with her books to cheat on me, but has just enough time to save the world. Ty Lee from Avatar: The Last Airbender. Damn she's cute! And strong too! And has a pleasant disposition and she cares for her friends. Lana from Archer. Damn, she's hot. And strong and intelligent and really wants to be a mother. As you might guess, I'm not afraid of a strong woman. Storm from X-Men. Usually draw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Uh, Loki? Kylo Ren? DRACULA?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Are there men who aren’t sexually dominant?Wow, your experience has not been normal. Most people, men and women, are pretty vanilla; it shouldn't be hard to find a neutral guy. I'm very neutral myself, and in my experience it's women who like that stuff more. But I don't think my experience has been completely representative either. One ex, when we occasionally watched porn together, most enjoyed porn that featured the women getting treated roughly. Two of my girlfriends have asked for me to be rougher, which just isn't my style. Even ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever hit on guys on the internet solely based on their posts and comments, without seeing their photos?That's awesome. I'm happy for you. 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure, totally. I'm intelligent, patient, physically coordinated, and I've been called handsome a couple times. I'm in decent shape so I guess my female counterpart would be too. I like good conversation and would eat pussy every day if possible. I'm a procrastinator and have slight germophobic tendencies. I have a low N count. To find an intelligent woman with a nice face, decent body, who can hold a conversation, low N count but genuinely enjoys sucking dick as much as I love eating pussy? Imme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel sexual attraction towards older high power women. I wonder if this is partially how women work with sexual attractionWow, you're an anomaly. Definitely sounds like how a woman's attraction works, not a typical man's. I've had attraction for and have dated (and am dating one now) older women, but it's had nothing to do with power/money. It was just a great personality connection, and they were still physically attractive enough. A younger woman is certainly hotter, but they'd maintained their fitness and knew themselves, and didn't have the shallowness of many young women. I wasn't getting any career poewr by d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Out of the sexual partners you’ve had how many did you slip and fall into their lap?Male. My sex partners have all been LTR's, so my N-count is low. I feel like all my relationships have graaadually come together, a slow burn sorta thing where I wasn't the sole pursuer, but she sorta-kinda pursued me too. Not sure if that counts for what you're talking about, but yeah, it doesn't feel like I've had to pursue very strongly, and they have all been women I met through my normal social activities, not from a deliberate search for a partner. I did move across the country for one gf,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 08:58 AM |
| 2 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Sorry to hear that. Typical disconnect between the sexes, sounds like. Although it shouldn't be emasculating to hear that penetration isn't enough, some guys are dumb enough to feel that way. People need to just accept that our bodies don't work the same way - a duty that both partners have if you ask me. Unfortunaltey, it's hard work mostly on the guy's end, cause it requires that he slow down his natural process, while it doesn't seem like a woman can speed up hers. But I do it for my girlfrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?2 days gym + 4 days running/swimming is still a fitness rat, 6 days doing something physical, plus a serious focus on nutrition, proper sleep, etc. Not the gross Ahnold look, but still it's something that requires dedication and is practically a full-time job in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Well remember that men's sexuality is tied to the visual. By the time he's approached you at all, he's already decided he's interested in getting to know you intimately. You should assume that in every approach, he's already decided he's interested in you sexually. He may want it now, or he may want it down the road after getting to know you personality, but whether he's a random or not, there is generally no approach without sexual interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 09:47 AM |
| 13 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Many do. It's practically a meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 09:30 AM |
| 2 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?I'm in my 30's and it seems more and more women my age and younger are indeed this - they've taken to heart the whole "ethical slut" thing. It's convenient for men. . . . . . except, problem is, when they're in a relationship that's supposed to be monogamous, they can't turn it off and cheat on you, turning out to be a slut but not at all ethical. It's a risk you take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 09:30 AM |
| 4 | What cases of "What they say they do VS What they do" do you see in the opposite sex?Do you know why it's not usually enjoyable for you? What are men doing wrong? Have you been overstimulated by vibrators, or was sex always not good for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:56 AM |
| 4 | Why has the number of single women risen so much, and continues to rise, yet women are also complaining they are single and can't find a man?That would make a whole lotta sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Homemade porn isn't unrealistic, it's simply that some people are not getting enough actionCool. I kinda feel an irrational pride at that. I wonder why that is; maybe due to women becoming more vocal about wanting orgasms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Lying about birth month is justified because girls have retarded prejudices about horoscope signsWhat I wouldn't give for a genie to grant my wish that everyone had to be completely honest with each other for a while. Not sure if society would flourish or fall apart . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Sick of the gender roles in fashion / beauty- shrug - It should be pretty clear why this is. Men are more visual than women. Therefore, the visual bar of beauty is higher on women, and the productive/financial bar is higher on men. Each sex determines the hoops the other has to jump through, and women have (collectively) decided that they like strong, productive men, and men have decided that they like beautiful women. A number of the topics here can be boiled down to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Homemade porn isn't unrealistic, it's simply that some people are not getting enough actionI'm surprised. Last I checked (years ago, admitttedly), average was supposed to be 2-5 minutes. Maybe guysare lasting longer, or the study I heard about year ago wasn't accurate enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:08 AM |
| 12 | The way women see men on TV, movies, Netflix or any medium to show off your status, proves that women only appreciate what they can get but will always want more if it's attainableThe difference is that the man's attractive because he's famous. Whereas the woman's famous becuase she's attractive. Momsen's status isn't very relevant to most of the men who crush on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:38 AM |
| 10 | Lying about birth month is justified because girls have retarded prejudices about horoscope signsThat's too much trouble to go to to get around her horoscope belief. The proper thing to do if that's really important to her is to say, "No thank you, I need a woman who's a bit more rational." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.Yikes. Well if you were a typical woman, the decision would be easy to wait for another, as there are plenty of manfish in the sea. But as a man, unfortunately, women often want a man with experience. It's kinda the Catch-22 of the job world. You don't want to lead her on, but you feel pressure to gain SOME sort of experience. Well what's she looking for? If she spends a few months or a year with you, would that be wasting her time? I'd say find out what she's looking for out of this, and tell h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessHmm, depends on what priority the woman places on money? I mean I'd be in top percentage financially, but not hte top percentage of attraction otherwise. But if I'm that rich maybe I'll have time to vet for the unicorn who actually does like me as I am before showing my finances, then my money will be a nice icing on the cake for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4M How would you prefer a woman to reject you?I'll repeat what many have already said here - be direct. Women have the mistaken idea that being direct = being a bitch. NOT TRUE. Remember that men are not mind-readers, so it must be unambiguous. It can be polite, but don't leave room for a misunderstanding. And if a reason is given, that's ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 07:11 AM |
| -1 | Q4M How would you prefer a woman to reject you?Or maybe women who want men to keep on pushing are ruining it for the rest of y'all. This right chere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Q4M How would you prefer a woman to reject you?I don't like the "I have a boyfriend" if she doesn't actually have one. As men we're already complaining that women aren't honest. So let's not encourage women to be dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them?Oh yes, on average women definitely need to step up their sex game. And a number of men, too. If there was more good sex in the world, maybe people would be less stressed out on average and better able to take care of our other global problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How many men actually prefer monogamy?My experience has pretty much been just monogamy. I know I have the emotional capacity for more - I can love and care for more than one woman, and I could enjoy unattached flings and still come back to the woman(women) I love. A harem would be awesome. HOWEVER, there ain't enough time in a day! I'm amazed when people say "I've got 4 partners and might be adding a fifth." Like, do you not have to work?? Plus, I'm not a rich/high statused Chad who could legitimately demand my women not have sex wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?What's the big deal with blondes? Hair color is irrelevant to me. If she has hair, I'm happy. It's not a turn-off, just something that I'm neutral too but that seems to get fetishized all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?I'm 37, and have twice dated women who were 20+ years older than me, and currently date a woman 13 years older. For me it's not that I have a specific thing for older, but that I can like a woman despite the age difference. The physical attraction does need to be there to an extent, but as a social dancer, I know a number of older women who are physically active and have aged well. I agree, they can be less shallow than young women, and more self-aware. But yeah, the problem is that it takes tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand?There are some very un-ghetto women who still get a kick out of "let's you and him fight!" Seeing their man be physical, or play-wrestling with their man to experience his strength first-hand, can be a turn-on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 08:05 AM |
| 3 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessSay what? Uh, I wasn't referencing my own sense of rejection, so you're going off in a weird direction. I make a reasonable attempt to acknowledging my shit But to answer the rest of that: No, and yes. Sure, women do evaluate men on their behavior, and a man's confidence is a part of his appeal. But again, OP was describing (correct me OP if I'm wrong) things leading to sexual attraction, to make her want to have sex with the guy, to make her wet. Whereas the things you're talking about are trai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 6 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?Agreed. For some it works out as an acceptable compromise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessThese are all great things, useful and important things for the longterm to a woman who's not shallow . . . but unfortunately, many women (and men) are shallow, even if it's genetic and not their fault. So these aren't really relevan there. None of those are the things that "gets him in the door," which are the "shallow" things the OP was talking about - physical attractiveness/status/money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 09:43 AM |
| 2 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessI mean . . . if that height isn't doing much for you, mind if I grab an inch from you? Man, if I could create a machine to sell/trade/loan attributes between men, I'd be the richest man in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 09:31 AM |
| 13 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessMUST MONETIZE THIS EARTH-SHATTERING SECRET SOMEHOW lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 09:24 AM |
| 18 | If the idea of being denied sex in a relationship is wrong, then why is it wrong that women won’t lower their standards to be with men they’re not attracted to, while at the same time risking their own sexual incompatibility?wanting to leave his wife of nearly 20 years because she now suffers from an illness that prevents her from giving him sex at his will. Damn, that's messed up. So much for "in sickness and in health." I can understand he's upset, but it's not her fault. They could discuss an alternative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 09:14 AM |
| 19 | Extreme height is not enough to bring you tinder matches ( on its own )Eh, I'd argue that tall ugly is . . . less ugly. And I've seen women flat out say that short men are categorically a no-go, regardless of his facial handsmoness. A number of times I've seen guys in real life and celebrities like Adam Driver have women swoon, and I'm like, "him? But the guy's kinda ugly if you ask me." I think that a guy's height is for better, or usually for worse, basically part of his handsomness/ugliness equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 11:05 AM |
| 4 | "Try harder/Do more" comes from a Just-World Fallacyso they'll say no expecting him to try to push through the no This is true for some (many?) women and it really pisses me off. I, and many other "nice guys" grew up with the constant message that "no means no," and we took it to heart. And some women have a "no means try harder," like in sales, and like in the chick flicks. It's a seriously mixed message that confuses and frustrates men, both the nice guys and the assholes. And it causes some nice guys to become assholes, cause assholes ignore t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 09:01 AM |
| 4 | "Try harder/Do more" comes from a Just-World FallacyDamn. Kudos to you for the effort. And more sad proof that dumb luck is as strong, sometimes stronger, a factor in our success as hard work is. What, praytell, are the factors (besides just being male) that have worked against you in dating, whether online or IRL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 1 | "Try harder/Do more" comes from a Just-World FallacyTime to start the body positivity movement for short men and shame women into dating them, yeah! There is someone on here who claims that people CAN choose who they're attracted to, and who tried to shame me for finding an attractive woman attractive. A rare exception who does have control of her attraction, or maybe just a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?He's already fucked . . . and not in the fun way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?If a man knows a woman’s sexual past before feelings get involved, it’s easier to process and he can decide if what he hears is a deal breaker. Yes yes yes. I have an ex who I wish I knew her sexual history BEFORE we got involved. By the time I did, it was too late - I was trapped, so to speak. I was madly in love, and already fluid-bonded with her. The ick factor was there, but I did my best to be a "modern man" and not apply a religious double standard to her. But in time, and with the disaste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Does establishing sexual attraction & chemistry before seriously dating help mitigate retroactive jealousy & sexual jealousy for you?I don't have a serious dog in this fight, but I'll point out that the guy's priorities could change. Maybe all he wanted at first was sex, but then what he was expecting to be mediocre turned out to be awesome, and he decided to see if something more could be built from it cause the awesome sex part was already there? I'm a bit more interested in quality than the typical guy, who's interested in quantity, and this is the scenario that comes to mind for me, where high-quality sex can change his m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWow. Just . . . wow. I can't even fathom doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo way; that's a dealbreaker. The smell (tobacco) is gross and irritating, and lingers in your clothes for hours even if it's only secondhand. And of course, it's unhealthy. The smell of weed doesn't bother me, or if so not much, so that'd be tolerable in moderation, like smoke outside or something. My activities don't really bring me into contact with many tobacco smokers, but if so, none of them would be an acceptable partner to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread??????????????? His lifestyle wasn't on deck when the cop was on his neck. The only thing that mattered in that moment was the cop's abuse of his white and state-sanctioned power. No matter Floyd's lifestyle, the cop's behavior was grossly inappropriate for that situation. (And the family of anyone who dies like that should get a fat settlement. People in power can abuse anyone) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCongrats on the weight loss. And I agree - to have a partner at all is to accept that you're not just acting for yourself anymore, that some of what you do is for your partner(and children if you make any). Making a reasonable effort towards staying healthy and fit is not too much to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol Narniafox does Dallas Manhattan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDon't know until you try! After you filter out for crazy/stupid/etc., you should have prospective men give you a sweaty shirt for your daughters to smell, and let them filter out by which smells better, before they meet the man. Assuming your daughters are NOT on hormonal birth control, which (according to some) may throw off their natural olfactory detection of sexiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:42 AM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of makeup?Would it make sense in your view to say that women are sex "objects" and men are sex "actors?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 2 | For the women who follow FDS, what do you do for your "HVM" in turn?If he craves it, it's not boring to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you agree with "Women love sex, and if you don't give it to them someone else will"?Good for you that she stuck it out (or rather, stuck it in) for you. And my condolences for your loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNoice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Can men actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic?And that's average, meaning many people are living on less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4M Would you date a bi woman? Why or why not?I have twice - one who was bi but ultimately felt most satisfied with a man, and one who was trying to give up men and declare herself a lesbian, but couldn't deny our chemistry. Several ohers were ostensibly straight, but had a slight interest in women, or had experimented once or twice with women. Interestingly, in my anecdotal experience, a number of "straight" women still have a very slight interest in women, whereas straight men are very straight. But there are certainly the "strictly dickl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 10:08 AM |
| 3 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?I with you on this, but trolls gonna troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | If you could only choose between a man who thought your looks were mediocre/average, but your personality amazing, or your looks amazing, but your personality average, which would you choose?That sounds like what I think is ideal. A fantasy, I know, but if you BOTH each put the other on a pedestal it could be great. If each thinks the other is the bee's knees, then you've both got someone always looking out for you unselfishly. That's probably super rare, though, and more often one is more in love than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Can men actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic?Well yeah, those standards are totally unreasonable, the ideal fantasy, and very few men are lucky enough to be able to do all that. Which means that very few women can land those guys permanently too, so there are still plenty of women you can get with. Best the typical guy can do is manage your time well, deciding what you're okay with sacrificing socially, and be in "decent" shape and you'll beat all the obese guys out there. Thankfully, testosterone is on your side, the hormone of fat-burnin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?It's easy to see with your eyes. But it's amazing how many people judge the opposite sex by their own pre-conceived notions. We each have to clear the proverbial chalkboard when trying to understand how the other thinks. Think about it - if people truly, intrinsically understood this, there'd be no need for this sub. You wouldn't have to ask your question, and there wouldn't be so much name-calling and strife between the genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?Being sexual with your partner isn't being a bimbo. A bimbo is an attractive idiot, possibly also slutty. Think like Kelly Bundy, or the image people have of Pamela Anderson and Kim Kardashian. But taking care of your partner sexually is being engaged in the relationship. For me, taking care of my partner sexually is a major showing of love, cause I want her to feel pleasure. She knows that I'm paying attention in a selfless way when I focus on what makes her feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:17 PM |
| -1 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?Keeping your partner happy isn't an achievement? aren't we both burdened with compromise, with doing things that we'd raher not do to please our partners? But now that I think about it, yes and no as to the male things being achievements. After all, money can be inherited, and I've seen women fawn over a guy whose family, not himself directly, had money - he hadn't earned that attention. Status can be unfailry given. And we're naturally stronger; that doesn't take work on its own. But I've found… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe's like a bird; she'll only fly away. She can't stay put in a place to save her life. You'll have to be let her drag you along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlso due to differences in development, liking a teen boy is not ephebophilic in the way liking teen girls often is. But boys start puberty later than girls. So they're literally less physically developed. So what you're proposing is actually MORE ephebophilic. I'm not necessarily against it (I've dated women older than me) - I'm just pointing out that it is definitely ephebophilic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 09:00 AM |
| 3 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?Lesson #1: men are not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 07:46 AM |
| 2 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?And vice-versa: men have to be performative too, making a show of our status/money/strength. Attraction isn't symmetrical, as convenient as that would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 07:45 AM |
| 5 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?it's the opposite - most women DO have this as an option. They may choose not to take advantage of it, and for various reasons maybe they shouldn't, but it's generally available to them. Only a minority of women don't have this option. Even in your case, you simply haven't tried. But if you're not horrendously ugly, you could find a willing man in 10 minutes or less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Attraction doesn't make logical sense so people should stop trying to apply logic to why someone is attracted to another.You can sort of will yourself to be attracted to someone ??????? What witchcraft are you talking about? If people could do that, half of our reltaionship problems would be solved and this sub would be a ghost town. If you can do that, you are an extreme rarity and you should seriously - I'm 100% serious here - teach people how to do that, cause it would literally change the world. As far as common knowledge is concerned, attraction is not a choice. For instance, I'm attracted to my boss at work.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Are looks really objective?There are both objective aspects and subjective aspects, and subjective modifiers that may change based on social factors and emotions. If you're emotionally connected to the person you may think you find them more attractive, or at least you're more willing to forgive their physical flaws. And there are also people that lie about how/what they find attractive, for various reasons. he things that are most universal and most generalizable are the objective things, or the MOST objective, if nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:33 AM |
| 6 | Are looks really objective?I honestly think height is a big part of it. Im 5'9" in shoes and most of these dudes are dumbo looking 6'2" or 6'3" guys. Yep yep yep. I think guys would do well to remember that their height is part of their looks. Like, your height might as well be a part of your face, the way women look at things. Look at Adam Driver, who is kinda ugly to me, but women swoon over him. He's tall (and rich). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for womenYes, I can (and did) still have sex while the emotions were subsiding. It may depend on how the emotions are failing in each situation, and how much resentment there is building between the partners, as losing feelings is different from not having them in the first place. But with the way that men can separate sex and emotion, I imagine most men can still have sex with a partner with which the emotions are fading. They may prefer the strong connection, but it's not absolutely necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 06:12 AM |
| 33 | Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for womenYou're in a mutually passionate relationship with a girl and then she see's a photo with your friends and realizes you're the shortest one in the group and the lust just evaporates. Note to self: get shorter friends. . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | What would make it worth it?This is the truth. I go to town and leave nothing unlicked when I go down there, so I expect to be taken care of down there too. Not swallowing is a dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What traits make men prime husband material?Wow, you're a rare bird! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Just curiousSadly, many men will probably take it as a negative - cause even if we think he's kinda ugly, he's still exceptional in his money and his height. So he's not a good example of the female attention most men can achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | I think men are more accepting of womens faults than women are of mens.Ain't nothing wrong with that. I'm dating an older woman. Sometimes it happens. Though I do recognize that younger women are hotter in general, I happen to hang in an active crowd so the older women and men I know are more fit than the average obese American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Do you have a #-date rule?I'm just here to say thank you for not being a ghoster. It's sad that there seems to be a whole generation of ghosters out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Has this tactic ever worked on any girl ever?As a non-cat-caller, and someone who's ever seen it happen in the wild, I can't comment on the inciting factors for the man. But seems it does work, even if only rarely, juuust often enough to encourage guys to continue. It's probably at the conjunction of the sluttiest women and the best-looking men. I, sadly, dated such a slut, who, to my anger, did indeed respond positively to it. Once a total stranger in a bar not just spoke to her, but outright slapped her ass, and she enjoyed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor me as a straight male, I don't usually find guys gross, but more like uninteresting. The idea of sucking dick is just . . . boring I guess? It seems dull to do that when I have the same organ and I'm familiar enough with it. But pussy is new, it's different, it's EXCITING! It can smell intoxicating at times, so there must be some pheromones flipping switches in my lizard brain. 🦎 I'd happily eat it every day, and that's not an exaggeration. I'm proud of how thoroughly I've pleased my girlfri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI fucking love to eat pussy. It doesn't usually make me hard, but mentally/emotionally the experience is pleasurable. I get great satisfaction from making my woman feel good, and the smell of pussy can at times be intoxicating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSmart smart smart. Look at the mess that older people have made and do the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Who does PPD attract?Curiosity. Fascination about what makes people tick. A love of reading. I stumbled on this subreddit by accident but found it highly intriguing, and my IRL friends would be afraid to discuss these things. So I come back now and then to read perspectives, article links, and to share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Who does PPD attract?Well played. But this describes Redditors in general, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Just curiousLol. I keep forgetting that women find him attractive, so whenever it's mentioned, I'm like "Huh, him? Really?" Not that my opinion matter much on a male celebrity, but I personally think he's slightly on the ugly side, like a 4.9 or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOne's an asshole with nuggets of truth; one's a pandering, lying asshole with a TV show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | For men and women: what do sexual and romantic attraction mean to you, are they different, and at what timeline in a relationship do you feel them?37 male. Sexual attraction is just about their body. It has nothing to do with her mind. Romantic attraction is the draw to her mind, and the dynamic of us together as individuals with long-term potential. Sexual attraction: Immediate. I can evaluate most women I meet as to whether or not I find them attractive and would - in theory - have sex with them. Romantic attraction: I have to get to know her. The spark can start within a few minutes, but a few hours is a better gauge. Doesn't require im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | How common is casual sex among friends?Bruh, you're livin' the dream. That's not my experience, and sounds like how I imagine living in a porn plot is. There was maybe one friend in college, but in the real world, every woman I've had sex with has been in a committed relationship. My face is handsome, I'm told, but maybe I'm too nice and/or too short to get that kind of easy, uncomplicated sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | To what extent can a man become more attractive by working out?If he's tall, he can't fall THAT far on the scale. His height might as well be a component of his handsomeness. Remember that a 3 isn't just plain, but getting into the butt-ugly, practically deformed range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | To what extent can a man become more attractive by working out?I'm looking and I can't tell what makes the first V-neck better than the second. Can you explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:24 AM |
| 6 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsPenis enlargement is effectively non-existent and not applicable to this conversation. It's dangerous, and not anywhere near reliable enough yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:19 AM |
| 6 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsNot equivalent, or not equivalent enough. A man can't change his height, nor his dick. But a woman is 100% in control of her body count and number of kids. Also, there is social support/programming to glorify single moms and fat women. There's no such support to glorify short men or small dicks. They are ridiculed and avoided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen like taller guys, sure, but I am honestly BAFFLED at short women who want giant, towering men. Like, how the heck are you supposed to even physically interact with each? How are hugs supposed to be satisfying? Won't your neck hurt all the time? Whether a woman is shorter or taller than me doesn't matter, but I just don't want an extreme in either direction. I'm not going to break my back bending down to kiss her; nor am I gonna carry a stepstool around to get on when I kiss her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, they can . . . but despite that they often still want a man to earn more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhile I agree with you, I have to also play Devil's Advocate a little and point out that humans began as a migratory species, and some of us still are. Maybe the RV life is in a sense going back to our roots? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Are motherliness and fatherliness something natural or something instructable?PARENTALITY Sounds like a way to kill people on Mortal Kombat. Nag them or spank them to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you said no before and he ignored it, then he's in the wrong. If you never actually said no, then you're in the wrong. If you're not giving him an unambiguous rejection, someone could still argue that you are indeed leading him on, or at the least you're being incredibly rude. Wouldn't you rather be told no than to be wondering what happened and wasting your mental energy on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha! Or maybe Kirsten Dunst, to switch the gender too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadzyramain69 isn't talking about the man not getting good, but rather about the woman not giving him a fair opportunity to get good. And women are (stereotypically) bad at giving direct/honest feedback about what they like, which makes things more difficult, whether or not the man is eager to please her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've tried and tried . . . and failed. Only once did I for sure realize I was dreaming, and I immediately woke up. That was about 23 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread😂 Funny cause it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Do most women prefer to share their attractive male partner rather than to settle with average or below average partner?😮😮😮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn?"aren't as," I said. Of course women respond to visual stimuli and would prefer a hot dude, and humans in general are visual. But when it comes to sex, it's not to the extent that men do. They don't prioritize the visual like we do, looking at other factors like his income/status/ambition/what have you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn?Just to share, and add my anecdotal perspective to your data points: as a teen, I read a handful of those steamy romance novels. Yes, I did indeed wank to them a little bit, and I've seen a few women mention doing so too. It was "poor man's porn." Many a young guy has made do with something like a lingerie catalog, but probably very few did as I did with only written text. As an adult, I do watch porn and masturbate to it when single and when in a long-distance relationship (I've been in several… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn?That equivalency doesn't quite make sense to me. After all, it's men's visual nature that makes porn so wildly successful. As well as strip clubs, and OnlyFans, etc. Sometimes a man can orgasm from visual stimulus ALONE, without touching himself. Whereas women aren't as visually stimulated on average. It's unusual - arguably abnormal, even. Romance novels (and maybe chick flicks?) are probably a better comparison. They provide the story, buildup, and drama that women want in a sexual release. Vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?She's just okay in my opinion. Not ugly, but not the hottest around either, not worth all the hype. For me her face may be a touch too masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Is it normal to find the flaws in others to be attractive?I personally find clumsiness UNattractive in women. Like she's not fit to reproduce with me. I'm a dancer and have done some athletics in the past so I suppose being physically coordinated is important to me. As far as physical flaws in her body, no, I don't like them inherently. But if I love the woman, her flaws become less and less important and become part of the whole package that I love. So I won't love them, but I will accept them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What is Your Opinion About Fresh & Fit?YEP YEP YEP. Beautiful women and rich men (and sometimes handsome men too) get away with things. Seems to be built into humanity, really. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 01:23 PM |
| – | Do men enjoy being desired more?Lucky man! Congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | If casual sex suddenly became readily available to you, (same way it is to women) how much time would you now devote to having sex? If you're currently in a relationship, would you drop her?Wow. In this scenario the world en masse would change overnight, the very fabric of society would crumble! . . . but as for just me, myself, and I, yes, I'd have more sex, but not like every day. My other activities wouldn't suffer much. I do prefer relationship sex, but regular casual sex would still be a nice change of pace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 09:21 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?A man's virginity is worthless. A woman's is priceless. Ooh, that's totally quotable; I should remember that! :P But for real, in all seriousness, outside of strongly religious circles - and even then, not universally within those circles! - a man's virginity isn't nearly as valued as a woman's. Women are known for saying they want a man with experience, and for rejecting virgins outright. Men don't do that. Women can literally sell their virginity for thousands of dollars. Female virginity is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man?Your attractiveness is determined entirely by the person viewing/contemplating you. So men can't be inherently less attractive. It's that women are inherently pickier. Also, what women find attractive in a man isn't as narrowly confined to the physical as it is for men considering an attractive woman. A picture is worth a thousand words to a man, but like 700 words to woman. So to speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:45 AM |
| 7 | Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man?Just cause she initiated doesn't mean she's desperate though. And sadly, I think that yes, a number of men would happily be with a desperate woman. Either because they're themselves desperate, or because of the ego boost, or because of the convenience. Convenience of sexual access can be attractive to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man?Passive desire isn't itself a relationship. It's a type of arousal. And it isn't healthy if both are always like that. Nothing would ever get initiated and we wouldn't reproduce. Someone has to initiate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:35 AM |
| 11 | Is female sexuality only 'passive' when she is not sufficiently attracted to the man?He's saying it happens and is much more accepted/tolerated from women than from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:32 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI 100% agree that men shouldn't be creeps . . . sadly, talking to her and/or asking her out is by itself enough to get labelled a creep. Being labelled a creep isn't properly correlated to actually being a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?Lol I never heard "wife goggles" before but it makes instant sense. I've definitely had feelings for women who weren't visually all that, cause their personality prettied them up to me. And the reverse can happen where a hot girl says something so dumb that I'm grossed out by the thought of doing something with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 09:06 AM |
| 2 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?Yikes! That's most definitely beyond thick. Unless she's 7 feet tall, that sounds like straight-up fat to me. And that's coming from someone who does appreciate some thickness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels Discussion ThreadWell his work was mainly with men for a while. He just he didn't explode in fame until he started with women too, only since the pandemic, I think. I don't think he expected that, but he's sure capitalized on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 07:53 AM |
| 4 | As a man, you cannot be both weak and meek. You can only afford to have 1 of those handicaps.I think you'd be surprised at how many women say they think that way, but contradict that with their actions. Maybe you're legit, but if so, you're a diamond in the rough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 07:48 AM |
| 5 | As a man, you cannot be both weak and meek. You can only afford to have 1 of those handicaps.There are some men who don't want to be the shorter one, but they're in the minority. Men care more often about her shape than her height. The overwhelming majority of the time it's the woman who doesn't want to be the taller one. In my experience it's three things: 1) she finds the shorter man less attractive, 2) she finds the shorter man attractive but she's insecure in her femininity being the taller one 3) she finds the shorter man attractive, but is swayed negatively by her friends who bad-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The redpill and ‘self improvement’ is little more than a scamNo high schooler ever had to “self improve” to get a girlfriend, he just existed, thought it would be cool and fun to play sports, and a girl was attracted to him and they gravitated towards each other. Well yeah, that's how it happened the first time, the second time, maybe. We all start out ignorant, and things happen haphazardly. But then, red pill or not, you notice patterns. Humans are pattern machines. You notice what the opposite sex pays attention to, you notice why you kept getting reje… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.OLD is definitely part of real life . . . but not the only part of it. The bottom 50% of men have no chance online, but may still have in real-life, face-to-face interactions. They can go to social clubs and hobby groups to meet like-minded women there. They can be religious and meet conservative women who've been taught to look for a man's personality rather than his face and wallet. They can date more technologically conservative women who have eschewed the absurd amount of validation found on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Are there really that many men interested in silly nerdy girls?I'm not defending porn; just pointing out that in a sense it's reflecting what we are, as well as being a product, a commodity for consumption, and you can't sell unless there's a demand. All mammals are sexual, and we're no exception. Hence, the demand is built-in. We've been sexual beings with reproductive instincts since long before written language. And once we could paint, people made porny paintings. Porn didn't normalize anything - it simply is normal for (most) men to value youth when co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:29 AM |
| 16 | What drives people who are willing to be paid for, or pay for, sex?they’re horny and don’t want to be a dancing monkey to get sex Lolol! Yep, this and all the others are spot-on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Are there really that many men interested in silly nerdy girls?Porn isn't "pushing" the teen thing. Men already have a natural inclination for youth in women, and porn merely shows that. . . . . . but porn really isn't a great example here anyway cause porn shows almost literally EVERYTHING. While there's alot of "teen" porn, there's also TONS and TONS of MILF and cougar/mature and even granny porn. If you look up highly searched porn, you'll see how popular "mature" porn is. So looking at that, one could easily make the argument that porn is pushing the MI… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Introvert vs Extrovert dating.Makes sense. Extroverts will do more socially - and also have more social tolerance/energy for social things that they're not actively doing themselves. I'm on the extroverted side, and it makes me more visible than introverts, cause I end up on stage, I end up getting into conversations, I end up trying new things. I've dated both sides of the spectrum. It's nice when I can be out all night with my girlfriend. But if she's an introvert I can give her space too. As long as the extrovert understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What book are you currently reading and why?At any given point, I'm reading several books. At the moment, I just stared Tina Fey's "BossyPants," recently finished Irving Wallace's "The Man," and am reading a number of fan fics online, mostly in the worlds of Harry Potter and Worm. Edit: Why? I'm a fan of Tina Fey. I enjoy sci-fi/fantasy, and I'm sentimental and like alternate realities. The Man was recommended to me. I liked it more than I expected, considering its age - written in1964, it's the story of the U.S.'s first (and accidental) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Can monogamy make men less attractive?There's some study out there showing that married (or maybe just monogamously partnered) men, upon having children, lower in testosterone levels. If that's consistent to our biology, then yeah, marriage with children would make a man literally less chemically manly, and therefore possibly less attractive to the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Why are most Red Pill gurus that actually show their face so ugly and unsuccessful?You would expect that the PUA and Red Pill gurus would be good-looking Actually I expect the opposite. It's the average or ugly guys who most need the help. The really good-looking guys don't need it, so they're not gonna be the ones diving into these communities and becoming big names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Online dating and filtersI like that idea in theory. I can't help but wonder if in the end, though, biology will win out and alot of people may end up dumping the personality match and go for what they find physically/viscerally hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Online dating and filtersscreening for a type is stupid. Hot or not is all that matters Someone being your type is exactly what makes them hot. They're not hot UNLESS they're your type in whatever characteristics you like. For instance, I don't find women with a flat ass hot. Therefore, that's not my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Realistically what's the lowest you'll go in terms of a woman's looks?There's a certain peace of mind in dating a less attractive woman. I dated a 9+ and guys were comin after her literally everywhere. It was ever-so-slightly pleasing, to be in a coveted position, but it enabled her cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Gen Z Tik Tok - The new gen of dating politicsDon't forget that women (and men too, but in this case you were talking about women) can misinterpret charisma/confidence and unfairly mis-weigh the actions of a below-average-looking person. The hot guy and the ugly guy can both be confident, but the ugly guy will be called creepy and arrogant. People aren't as objective as they think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 08:52 AM |
| 6 | CMV: the incessant hand-wringing over "sexual coercion" is unwarrantedI'm with ya. I know two couples where for one reason or another, one partner was no longer interested in sex. In one case the man, the other, the woman. In each case they gave the other partner permission to pursue outside sex, cause they otherwise were still a great pair together and wanted to be together. Sometimes it works out in a great and healthy way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of men so strict about weight on a woman?Oh do you have a tail? lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What are nice little things you do for your partner and they do for you? And not that little.Currently single, but when attached some things I've done: - left little love notes hidden at her place. Like really hidden, so that she may find it months later as a surprise. - go to pains to visit her. I've been in several long-distance relationships. - ate that pussy like it was going out of style. (It never goes out of style though!) - drove her to the hospital (this was for an ex actually, but we're still close) - helped her move - road trip with her - sing showtunes with her - show off on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | ppd pics threadSeems like you're doing quite well! Keep up the good fitness work. 💪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 09:17 AM |
| 2 | What kind of video games do you guys play? And do you play on PC or console?Empires and Puzzles mobile game. Occasionally PC, going back to old standards like Diablo 2 and Empire Earth. Haven't played on a console in years, but I'd like to again. Used to love RPG's, Sonic, Mario, and fighting games like the Tekken Soul Caliber series. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Black supremacy coming soonThe Black Supremacy: the latest exciting entry in the Jason Bourne series. Cumming to a vagina theater near you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | If you could swap one gender inequality which one and only one?Like many guys, the first thing that comes to mind is the easy access to sex. Not all women want it like that, but the slutty women are livin' in their ideal universe! But to think with my head instead of with my penis, maybe I'd take the longer lifespan that women have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 08:00 AM |
| 1 | If you could swap one gender inequality which one and only one?Shouldn't you be looking at your body fat percentage though? I think some women get into trouble cause they're trying to lose weight and not trying to lose fat. Though you may already know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Left or RightNo sound? Both nice to look at, but isn't the point of this to hear them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)Congrats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)I was raised to be a good boy. To read my Bible and pray. To open doors, be a gentleman, and not interrupt people, etc. Problems: 1) Eventually one day your overprotective parents do a 180 and want you to go from a good boy to a good man. But they didn't train me to be a good man; they trained me to be a good boy. 2) Eventually when in relationships and dealing with women, I discovered that some women didn't want a good man. They went after the asshole. They called my niceness unconfidence, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)True dat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)Saving this for use . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)People are stupid and don't follow the rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)Black women are some of the most promiscious group of women in America. Wait, say what?? My experience has been the exact opposite. White women I know are having all kinds of wild monkeys sex, and the black women are more careful at best, or outright prudes. Growing up, it was a stereotype among young black guys that white women gave better blowjobs cause black women were too prudish(Somewhat true in my personal experience, sadly), and that a white woman was for fun, but a black woman was to set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (11 October 2020)Maybe someone is . . . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGPlCLf9AZ8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here been completely besotted with someone they've only met once?You probably mean mestizos, the mixed Native American + Euro or African look. Latino is a broader cultural term, not a racial term, and isn't a specific look. I'm Latino, for instance, but not mestizo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Problem? https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/trollfaceIs that really Chad? I'm getting an uncanny valley vibe, like I'm not even sure he's human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Describe your ideal partnerSmarter than me and overall better than me Hypergamy confirmed!! Lol just kidding. But for real, good luck in your search for love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | MLK in the streets KKK in the sheets.Upvoted for the wordplay in the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Most women would rather date a shorter man with a big dick than a tall man with a smaller dickThis annoys me cause I'm a grower. I've seen women make fun of small flaccid penises, but a small flaccid penis doesn't mean a damn thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Billie already hit the wall!I don't know anything about her music, but I actually think the worst thing about this pic is her green hair. She's got a little pudge, but nothing crazy, and damn look at those tits though! Plus doing a quick google search shows that she's got a great smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Billie already hit the wall!I'm with you on the lack of knowledge and lack of access in your younger years. It can be tough when your parents don't have the knowledge or lack the funds. Staying in shape isn't difficult for me, but due to immigrant parents who didn't know about proper dental health, my teeth are messed up and it's a literal pain to deal with as an adult, as dental care is so expensive and broken here. Good on you for the hard work you do in being healthy and to look good. Is being here on PPD motivational f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How much does money matter to women?You're 34 and your N is only 1? Oh my. I'm scheduling our first date already! (Just kidding!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?Wow, as a male, that's just so strange to me. I notice a woman's face and her body immediately. Ever since I became a dancer, I also notice her coordination and fluidity - clumsiness is a major turn-off. Her height means nothing to me - her proportions are the important thing, no matter if she's a foot shorter or a foot taller than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?What in your opinion do "nice lips" look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?Interesting. Can you follow up on #'s 3, 4, and 6? For 3, do you mean valuable to you emotionally? Or valuable to society socially? Or something else? For 4, do you want him to take charge and make the decisions in the relationship? Or do you mean take charge in the bedroom? Or maybe not really belonging to him, but just being associated with him? Or something else or some combo? For 6, are you talking about a natural smell, or certain kinds of cologne/incense/? I'm reminded once of when I felt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?Very interesting! Thanks for sharing. And for your honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?Shapely hands What kinda shape? Like big and meaty? Or slim and dainty? Long fingers? I'm curious cause I have "piano fingers." They're probably as long as any typical guy my size, but slim and agile, and some women have complimented them. One gf said she loved seeing my hands on her body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?Scheisse! lol damn! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?Two questions: 1) On the takes up space thing, what exactly do you mean? Like, what is he doing? 2) On the physically attractive thing - what do you find physically attractive, strictly talking about his body? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: What makes you sexually attracted to a man?They're not weird! Own your thoughts, girl. We're sexual creatures and it's totally natural. :) Wiggles fingers suggestively . . . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Men actually like gold diggers, if they can afford them.I'm not changing the definition. I'm just stating the general consensus on those words. Gold diggers are already considered bad. Therefore the OP's premise is wrong, unless she uses a different word like sugar baby or prostitute or something. There's nothing positive to be said about a gold digger, but some men absolutely do like prostitutes and strip club dancers and what not. For an analogy - there's nothing good to be said about a murderer; it's bad by definition. Someone who kills in self-de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:25 AM |
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