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I’m a dude in college now. And I know so many good looking girls here who are perpetually single because no guys approaches them. A lot of guys think girls are getting approached because they assume every guy is doing what they themselves want to do but are too afraid to do. When I’m reality most dudes I know are too afraid to ask a girl out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:13 AM
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I’ve fucked multiple girls on the first date. I can tell you I don’t enjoy the process either. Because regardless of having a solid success rate or not, you still have plenty of failures and plenty of getting ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:38 PM
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No shit dude. We are a bunch of random people making sense of stuff even scientist barely understand. Most of us here understand this isn’t some perfect science and these are very general trends with a lot of exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:32 PM
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“Breast feed me as much as you breast feed my kid. #mensrights”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:13 PM
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Put any mothers who do false paternity on a list and let it be publicly known so they can be avoided. Good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:26 PM
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Yeah, On top of that, with women, it can distribute to breast and ass well so in theory some women look better with a bit of extra fat. Men? Most look worse with extra fat and no muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:18 PM
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M20 Penn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:19 PM
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Generational maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:17 PM
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At the college I go to, a ton of the girls I know are dating outside the college. Guys as well. This is even more so the case in big schools near or in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:11 PM
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No, it really doesn’t the pool is essentially the same. The big benefit for college so that you’re far more easily able to get to know the other person because you essentially live with a lot of these people. Have classes with them as well. This gives you easy ability to talk to the other people around while also seeing them a lot in many contexts. People get a less shallow interpretation of you and it gives you better dating chances than randomly meeting someone at a bar or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:05 PM
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I think it is mostly because you’re seeing people far more consistently which you just don’t have the chance to do outside of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:40 PM
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I’m at a college with plenty of muscular dudes. It helped me. I’m pretty social and talk to a lot of people and regularly invite people out. I am proactive and get a lot done.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:34 PM
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No. I’m not a model weight loss I also built a good bit of muscle to the point people comment on it. I’ve never seen I don’t know what to tell you then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:58 PM
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I’m 5’11, all the girls were white, and not a single one fat lmao. Edit: I’m all also not white
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:53 PM
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Tbh, those are also apart of my boxes lmao. I just didn’t want to list all of them and decided to go for more specific ones. And yeah….the idea of this has popped up multiple times. I might have to take a quick trip to the UK for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:21 PM
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I know, because I have been with a couple of red heads lol. Athletic but none seriously into lifting. Also the other boxes still aren’t being checked by any of them either. That’s kinda what I’m getting at. We all have standards but we also shouldn’t be looking for the purple unicorn. Keep your standards reasonable and accept a few caveats and we all win pretty much. And I’m happy your bf fits yours. When someone fits you in all the right ways it’s great. And these days it’s hard to hear positiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:00 PM
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I said “all your boxes”. Not no boxes. Massive difference. For example I’d like a girl with a nice ass who likes games and is a redhead that also weightlifts but at the same time I know it’s entirely unrealistic to try and find someone that fills ALL these boxes and is attracted to me. So I’d settle for getting most of these boxes and not all of them. Because all of them would realistically keep me damn near single for my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:51 PM
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This, the only time I really hear women ever say they don’t want anything is in college because they want to focus on their major etc. Women who aren’t college going is an entirely different story though. Even then I think a lot of women in college only do this because they’re under the false impression getting good grades in college mean anything. Besides like going into academia or graduates school, your grades mean nothing and the only thing that matters is internships and connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:02 PM
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ticks every box It sounds like your friends are young. I understand if they just didn’t want a relationship because they have things they’d rather focus on but “tick every box”, just sounds like an unrealistic and naive ideal because practically speaking no one is gonna unless there standards are really low. Which in that case I have to wonder what kinda men are in their area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:39 AM
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I’m just confused here? I’m just posting in agreement. why hookups Because I’m a college student and that’s what I’m doing. I’m not currently looking for a relationship. And I’m posting that yes when I did what you’re talking about it increased the number of people interested. Edit: and yes being succinct in this case is better. I don’t need to type out some essay to say “yeah what you’re saying works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:26 AM
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This. As a guy, when I weightlifted for a year and got better outfits, my hookups sky rocketed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:19 AM
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Don’t have any studies, but from personal experience fitness is 100% true (go to damn near any gym and majority of the occupants are men. Fatness is also statistically worse for women in basically every race in the USA as well.) Everything else sounds like bullshit tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:07 AM
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I think it’s even more specific than that, peoples overrate their friends and family. Like how many women say to their sons “look at my handsome you man, all the girls will fall for you”. When you have good feelings towards someone you tend to overlook a lot of negatives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:43 AM
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I think it’s weirdly a gender thing. Hang out with a lot of guys and you’ll see guys dating below their belt. Hang with more girls you’ll see the opposite. Why? Idk, it logically makes no sense but for some reason that tends to be the case. At least based on this thread. That or men and women have very different ideas of attractiveness and what rates highly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:53 PM
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the nerds just figured out the patterns Chad already knew naturally That is probably the funniest and accurate way to put all this. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:03 AM
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Again, most of this list is just obvious stuff most people know men and women cheat at similar rates Who didn’t know that. We’ve all heard millions of examples of both genders being cheating on just from being around anyone in a relationship. women aren’t punished as much in crimes Again, who didn’t know this? two parent households This has been beaten to death in politics and common knowledge for decades. Many studies have been discussed about this by many groups. This isn’t knew information Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:34 AM
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The thing that has me scratching my head is, who unironically believe women could do no wrong and needed some new knowledge explained to them. I thought it was basic common sense that humans in generals are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:57 AM
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Depends if he weight lifts or not. If you’ve weight lifted for awhile? 200-220 at that height can be fine. I’m like 5’10-11. Weight 180 and I still got my abs after lifting for a couple of years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:23 AM
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a lot of places don’t fuck with minorities And I pointed out a big place that doesn’t,China. yet I know plenty doing just fine over there they’ve been killed And? Yeah there were racists there and things got extreme. ewwww I knew a 5’6 skinny fat dude that wasn’t very smart, wasn’t very good looking and got with a cute blonde. will some dislike you more for not being the most attractive? Yeah. But does that mean you can’t get a girl and you’re doomed from birth like many black pillers preach? No…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:33 PM
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You could literally be a 10/10 looking dude and not fuck hot models all the time because quite literally there are very few around by the very fact that models are a small percentage…otherwise they wouldn’t be models. Not to mention plenty of them are already dating people. The fact that you think this is a bad argument is strange lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:14 PM
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Because: There are very few around 2.I don’t really care about models. I mainly go for girls based on “do I find you attractive enough and do I enjoy your presence” which plenty of models aren’t gonna fit the enjoyment aspect. I’ve been with girls my friends and random dudes thought were very attractive anyway so this question is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:08 PM
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Depends. In the majority of places, regardless of race you can get laid. I’ve been to plenty of places. Hell I’m not even white and have fucked women all from outside my race. And these girls are from majority their own race countries. I’ve known minorities in China and they get relationships and sex just fine. It’s basically a heavily over exaggerated issue that is really just minor. If you’re blaming race for why you can’t even get one girl, you’re just in denial. “Your face looks weird” Unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:04 PM
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Tbh, it’s so confusing how a lot of guys don’t know where the clit is lmao. Like I googled that shit before my first time. Plus some women have outties
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:44 PM
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No…..? A lot of them have never had this experience are black pilled. They just don’t get laid is the general experience and then they extrapolate that to all these bizarre reasons like having a small chin or not having lucious hair or being Non white.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:41 PM
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Of course there is some truth but, like you say, they gotta really take it to the limit. Like yeah being physically attractive matters but there is plenty of shit you can do to actually get places. Grooming, exercise, being social, will get you somewhere but they want to pretend if you have a shitty jawline you had zero chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:23 PM
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Black pill is easily the dumbest ideology on the list. Easily disprovable by just walking outside
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:35 PM
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Bruh, you being semantic like this is what people mean by “autism”. Autism as a slang insult is just someone who overlythinks things, shit at reading social queues, and taking things far more seriously than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:31 PM
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It’s an improvement to go from no basic maintenance to some lmao. A lot of men lack the bare basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:07 PM
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Rape, especially when drinking is involved is incredibly hard to punish tho. You’re relying on a lot of random stuff to make this work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:36 PM
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While I agree with the sentiment, we both know full well, the type of person who’d purposely do something like rape and know it’s wrong, isn’t gonna care about being taught anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:20 PM
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It improved mine. I noticed it and I feel it massively. short and jacked Yeah. That’s gonna be a blow. I have a friend that is jacked and 5’2. Still a virgin at 22. Its rough out here for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:10 PM
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Honestly I think being jacked is underrated. It gives a lot of minor utility that affects a lot of other factors. For example, posture. Your posture is a decent part of first impressions. It can give you the ability to be intimidating, makes you seem more youthful and more confident. The question is does it compliment you as an individual well? I’ve seen many people who are jacked that take zero advantage of the impression being jacked gives them. If you act timid or aren’t very social while bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:39 PM
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I pull more than most of my guys friends besides one, and that’s only because I started the game later than he did. I definitely have the most amount of hookups in a short time span though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:24 PM
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I do it all the time. I workout, try new hairstyles and buy new clothes. I shower 1-2 times a day, wear cologne and even brush my eyebrows. Only thing I don’t do is makeup. However my guy friends on the other hand do Jack shit besides maybeeeee working out. Even then most of my friends don’t go to the gym. So a lot of them just aren’t that attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:44 PM
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I find this very interesting. It explains a lot of mens lack of hygiene etc. many don’t see any need to improve so they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:22 PM
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Tbf, age gap or not that would’ve happened. Could’ve been the same age and likely would’ve felt like shit after the guy just used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:35 PM
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Trust me, most men who care this much about virginity are either A. Religious and it’s purely a religious thing Or B. They don’t fuck so they have little idea of the ramifications of what they’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 10:58 AM
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I’m a guy, I’ve had sex with multiple women, including a virgin, and I much preferred the women with bodies than virgins because the virgins did not know what they were doing it all and are usually pretty frigid initially sexuality wise. Virginity is overrated as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:08 AM
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I’ve hooked up with multiple women within like the first 1-2 dates. Just talk to them, get them over and be willing to do stuff that pleasures them first. Give oral or do some good breast play and most of the time I find girls become pretty down for sex. You don’t and they won’t be in the mood. And this is assuming the girl likes you in the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:39 PM
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Eh, the sun and redpill in general says a lot of shit -only face matters -money matters (just look at the whole beta bux meme -gotta be in the top ten percent of men And more. Plenty of it contradictory or context specific
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:41 PM
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Sorry, it’s just “it’s now mainstream” implies it wasn’t already common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:46 PM
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Bruh, this shit was said for centuries. Most TRP concepts are as old as time. Like do you really believe women only wanting men for their money is some novel concept? A lot of this stuff is old news just rebranded as “the redpill”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:39 PM
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Bruh the redpill is basically just old school sexism lol. Only thing I see it does new is like the 80-20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:30 PM
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All women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:45 PM
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“Impossible” If you think society currently is left wing you haven’t seen what left wing is. It can certainly get far worse than this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:12 PM
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I have far better times irl than jn video games. Games are entertaining but no where near as the good times you have with your friends irl. Being an addict is different from enjoying what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:08 PM
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Neither would women in that situation. Everyone’s at the same level of sexlessness in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:36 AM
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Only thing that matters to a lot of these people is that a girl can get fucked any time. Not the relationship aspect. As far as they’re concerned fucking is an option
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:31 AM
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Most people don’t think that deeply about what they wear. They usually just wear for function, what they think other people think looks like, or because they just need something on. So changing up their style or outfit really won’t affect majority of people. Even then within your own preferred style there are ways of bettering it as styles and genres of design have their own trends and dos and donts. Only people this would cause an issue for are Really religious groups like Muslims that require …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:51 PM
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Depends on how. Changing some of your clothing choices, your physique etc.? Not a problem at all. Personality? Yeah that’s not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:48 PM
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This is pretty true. Most girls I’ve gotten, I’ve literally gotten by sitting my ass down and talking to them. That’s about it. The only time I’ve had trouble was from cold approaching randomly in public and that’s because women are just on guard in general from that. Even then, I had decent success in having good conversations and establishing some good rapport. I also think women are affected massively because many women don’t know how to carry a conversation themselves so when a guy they like…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:25 AM
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On some aspects I agree, as a guy who got into fashion, changing hairstyles etc. i gotta says lot of men look and dress terribly. Like bare minimum effort put in and I’ve noticed it after I changed things up. I also received far more compliments from both men and women. Men need to start dressing better. However, you’re dead wrong about the physical aspect lmao. I also got into weightlifting and it massively helped in terms of people finding me attractive. Especially considering after I did, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:13 AM
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It’s like expecting how people work to magically change. Biologically women are meant to be picky as an evolutionary stand point. While men are biologically meant to spread their genetics as much as possible. This is seen across many species. We are just seeing the ramifications in a highly developed species whose tech development far outstrips its biology’s ability to adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:05 AM
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Probably is, I’m just saying what I hear second hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:29 PM
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I’m in college and I’ve seen loads of girls date down lol. Like it’s common asf. Many girls are kinda desperate because all the guys here don’t got the balls to ask anyone out. Idk why people here have this idea that women date only above them. Statistically that’s impossible. Besides a lot of your parents are likely “mismatches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:48 PM
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Didn’t say eastern Europe was. Note Eastern Europe is separate from third world. Besides only place that fits third world is Balkans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:47 AM
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Bruh, just go to a number of 3rd world countries or some Eastern Europe. I’ve never done it but I’ve known many men that have. And they all say the same thing, cheap and easy as shit with some great women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:10 AM
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It’s true, while I am afraid of false allegations, I know full well cops will not act on a false one considering how fucked they are on real ones. However I would fear someone trying to spread rumors and get a lot of social ostracization. Even then at least you can in theory walk away from that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:28 AM
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that blows Yeah…..that’s what he wants you to do. Lmao. Seriously tho if he’s getting pissed that’s his problem. He kept doing all these round about things to get you to like him instead of growing some balls and asking. It’s his fault he wasted his own time. Don’t feel bad about it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:25 AM
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Bro. Most people are not gonna be like “omg what a creep” if you respectfully ask a girl out. Literally even if they do so what. “Omg, that guy over there said he thought I was cute and wanted to see if I was interested in going to dinner with him sometime”. Like does that really sound like a creep? No. Also hitting on someone is making a lot of sexually charged comments. That’s usually what creeps a girl out. Which if you just met them you shouldn’t be doing. Asking someone out isn’t hitting on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:22 PM
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Imo, it’s literally just taking the plunge and taking to people. Go to social events. Go hiking, join a book club, wine tasting, dance lessons etc. the best way to get girls is literally just by talkin to them. If you got any sort of awareness at a decent level you’ll be able to tell if they’re into you and work from there. Or just simply shoot your shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:56 PM
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I find it interesting, I get bored, and honestly some of these posts crack me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:21 PM
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I’ve heard others are better but they’re all trash. Let’s keep it real. Meeting people irl is the best move. It always will be. Also from what I know the apps secretly do discriminate by race based on dating site statistics. So if you’re non white you may also be disadvantaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:06 AM
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When it comes to dating apps the issue is it’s MADE on bar rules where if you aren’t paying you’re not getting in. Tinder basically discentivizes all non paying male user base. And it was pretty much just a game of if you’ll pay or not. I still got matches but I noticed matches I got drastically decrease after a few days of swiping but every time I took a month or so break and came back I got matches pretty quick. On tinder gold you get somewhat comparable matches to a women and can get places E…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:22 PM
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Depends entirely on what I’m wearing but a couple of things are very noticeable regardless of what I wear unless it’s real baggy. I got a good V taper My chest is big. Like it’s pretty prominent. I got a nice ass from heavy weight squats. Good posture (you think this wouldn’t matter but no most people have terrible posture from sitting at desk and weight lifting fixes that which ups your looks very subtlety). I wear fitted clothing a lot. So a it becomes more obvious I’m definitely above avg. we…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:15 PM
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Nah, I’m Gen z, worked out for a year or two in the gym so far and people think I’m ripped. Never touched a PED. And I’m no genetic marvel, I just got good V taper. Most people are decently impressed with this. Most girls standards are not even close to requiring the juice. Most people on the juice only really do it for their own egos. Anyone whose been around enough knows, if you don’t got game the muscles mean nothing. I’ve known multiple ripped dudes who are incels lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:00 PM
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Bruh, literally who doesn’t settle? Like 99% of people do not get their first choice. Even when they get lucky enough to they likely don’t last that long like most relationships. The idea of being anyones first choice is fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:39 AM
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Depends. I haven’t read through it yet but did they account for muscle mass? Like if it’s just a general study of BMI, a lot of men who are just Jacked or have a lot of muscle can count as obese or overweight despite it mostly being muscle. I got out at a 26 bmi despite having abs and weight lifting for years at the doctors office. With this in mind I can see the male numbers changing by a percent or two but then again we have to pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:57 AM
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I weight lifted after cold approaches. Beginning of school I cold approached. During corona I weight-lifted while at home and came back in person after a year with muscle. I think weight lifting helped my confidence even more because girls I’d take out would note that my confidence was a big factor. My friends even comment I’m confident. Though then again I had that before I weight lifted. I’d also point out that girls I asked out who weren’t interested didn’t have an issue either. Don’t know ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:51 AM
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Well this gets complicated because my attractiveness has jumped up over time. I was a fat kid then come highschool I swam, lost weight and got broad shoulders. From there girls would say “I’m cute”. I’m college I eventually weight lifted and went from 155-180. So it’s hard for me to be objective since I’ve shifted but I’d say I’m a 7. Decent face, good body. I’d probably be a 8 for body alone. Maybe a 9. When I’ve gotten naked or taken my shirt off in front of girls they’ve commented how good it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:21 AM
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It’s not difficult to deal with. Just never tell them you’re doing this to intentionally fuck anybody. I’ve done this before, just simply hang out normally with your friends in different social settings and you’ll meet new people that your friends know. Just saying “hey I want to fuck your friend, introduce me” is gonna obviously cause issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:10 AM
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The biggest part you’re off track is how acceptable it is. It’s way more acceptable than you think. I’ve literally gotten 3 girls numbers from the gym last semester. No issue and no awkwardness. I even ask girls to hang out while I’m in the cafeteria. People overrate the me too stuff. If anything it’s far more dangerous to mess with girls at parties. That’s where you find girls doing shit while drunk and regretting it. That’s where all the new too stuff tends to happen. I find so long as you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:45 PM
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I say this as someone on a college with plenty of girls. Loads of attractive girls have straight up told me they don’t get asked out. This really isn’t a consistent thing. I’ve known girls who I worked out with at the gym. Great looking and everything that have never been asked during the semester and they even asked a guy out and got rejected. I’m not even saying it’s because “they’re too gorgeous”. For whatever reason they just did not. While I’ve seen other less attractive girls get asked out…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:10 PM
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I think a lot of it is also confusion. For example, my mother when I was in highschool always got mad at me for not trying to clean enough but when I saw what she said was a mess I was like “uhhhh…. This is a problem?”. Usually it’s something inconsequential like a sock on my floor or papers on my desk. Men and women have different standards of house cleaning and because of this I often find women think that men expect them to clean everything when often time men don’t even expect them to clean …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:40 PM
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Problem is most women don’t actually get asked out irl. Like many women are never approached and because women are socialized to only be approached they think no man really wants them. Remember, the 8/10 probably has hundreds of guys that want her, but only like 5 ever talk to her and 3 ask her out. That’s how it is outside of dating apps. Shit happens all the time at college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:32 PM
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