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She wants the clout and engagement.
/r/MensRights19/02/26 02:49 PM
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Get your brain checked jfc
/r/MensRights09/10/25 11:35 AM
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Not everyone against marriage is against the idea of loving a woman and coordinating lifestyles. Marriage on a state level is an unconscionable contract for men. You'll be surprised at how many men would be on board with marriage if marriage was reformed on a state level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 07:37 AM
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Men are only valued on what they can provide, which has to be earned and built. They can create social networks amongst men, but they'll only do with men who have the resources and skills to produce results. Women naturally have value, they can bypass many skill climbs because they are women and they are pretty. Even now, women are getting paid more than men on average, so whatever problem you are trying to display has already been solved, at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:58 PM
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I don't question the influence women have. They have skills in social connections that men cannot emulate, because women are good looking, highly desired, and have a better understanding of social context. Their influence is more covert, for men it's overt. Men have to conquer and socially dominate in competitive environments efficiently before they are taken seriously: men don't receive any benefits in life that isn't hard-fought for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:16 PM
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That's a good rebuttal, but exceptions don't make the norm. Most of the things that left wing/liberal identities support are well recognized in social groups and media (women prioritization, LGBT activism, wealth disparities, immigration reform, etc...) The combination of women who support mainstream political beliefs because it gives them a following and validation, along with men who support the same thing women support in hopes of being able to sleep with them (to clarify, I am not saying tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 12:23 PM
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Women are valued more by their looks, and men their resources. Unless a man was born privileged he has to spend his youthful years grinding to obtain any sort of wealth. It's why the whole sugar daddy , sugar baby situation is so common: it's much more likely that a woman who wants a good lifestyle will find it from an older man who put in the work to be able to provide such a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:48 PM
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I don't plan in putting myself on the market until my fitness and finances are leveled up very high. I plan to offer an attractive body and an ability to provide, along with an easy going personality. Until then, I'm just the platonic guy to women, and I don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:57 PM
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Meh, it's not about visceral attraction, it's about the knowledge of knowing someone else got more out of her sexuality (more frequent sex, willingness to engage in more kinks/ideas, etc...) without having to put a fraction as much effort as the LTR guy did. There is no right way for a man to ask for more sexuality. It's seen as pervasive , predatory, and shameful to even want it naturally. The only way a guy can get access to the sexuality he really wants is by being the guy that naturally comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:40 PM
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Most people settle with what they can get. I'd prefer to die alone than to be the clean up guy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:27 PM
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It sounds like you are trying to convince unattractive men to back off so women don't have to factor them into the decisions they make. I get that your point is to compromise, I don't think it's wrong, but the tone is very patronizing, and I am unsure if you even see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:26 PM
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Other than very clear examples of sexual abuse/harrassment, women like to call any instance where a man gets his way "predatory behavior".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:31 AM
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Never understood why women fight tooth and nail against men realizing they are not sexually-stimulating. Like, we aren't even trying to change their standards, it's just a harsh reality we have to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:37 PM
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It's been like this for a long time. Men are far too indoctrinated now, we live in a gynocentric world and it's not stopping anytime soon.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 03:26 PM
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I used to have a lot of women friends, but I realized it was dishonest to remain friends with them in hopes that I can convince them to bypass platonic friendship. My belief is that men who have a scarcity mindset, specifically scarcity with sexual validation from women, shouldn't be friends with women because regardless of how well they fight the urge, the urge to escalate things sexually will surface in the most sneaky ways. They would need to keep the friendship at a good and clear distance i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:15 PM
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The accuracy about this is astonishing. A rough estimate of 99% of the time I was honest about my perspectives, friends changed how they viewed me and decided they can't associate with me any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:16 PM
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Yes, a lot of women would opt out of hooking up/having sex that isn't for procreation, or they would try to find ways to get sexual catharsis without the risk. That being said, this wouldn't do anything to affect the majory of men, considering they aren't having sex anyways. Abortion rights or not, marriage or hook uo, it doesn't matter : there's no instance where women decide to give guys they aren't into a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:04 PM
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Most women will just opt out of seeing the man if he doesn't pay for the date. Your dating life will be all the more scarce as a result. Equality isn't real, and trying to enforce the detriments of equality to women is uncharming and pointless. Just focus on getting your money right so that the few dates you go on aren't burning your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:15 PM
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Two wrongs don't make a right. Your letting misandry dictate your moral alignment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:12 PM
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It's all vindictive. Both genders are out for their own best interests. Legislation is how we fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:56 PM
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But it also means women can't shirk responsibility. If men are going to get fucked over, might as well drag women with us. We'll all suffer together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:27 PM
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It's impossible to do anything about it. Women naturally don't want to associate with the majority of men. If women don't have any empathy for men, why should men have empathy for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:25 PM
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All women are conniving narcissts until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:23 PM
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Women just conspire in secret, or convince men to fight their battles. Women don't have a moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:23 PM
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Women already avoid the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:19 PM
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Until men can opt out of child support if he didn't want the baby but she wanted it, no abortion rights for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:17 PM
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You aren't wrong, but the main thing about men in their 30's reaching their peak is because of the amount of resources they have to attain to be able to provide women with the lifestyle they want. These type of women who want a lifestyle are a certain type that are okay with being with an older man as long as he provides it. Yeah, there is a chance she may cheat eith a younger hot guy, but if the older man is smart he will withdraw all his resources as punishment and find another girl. But withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:24 PM
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Meritocracy is about the end result, not the journey. No one cares abput your journey until you are demonstrably valuable. Life is unfair, it's impossible to regulate fairness. I understand that to some degree it's worth considering, but solutions like Affirmative Action and similar policies forcing companies to hire people out of diversity is not effective at all.
/r/AntiFeminists06/03/22 08:32 AM
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The privilege is the amount of options to choose from, not what happens contextually with whoever they choose. Women naturally have value and an abundance mindset, where men have a scarcity mindset and nesd to grind hard to be valuable to any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:54 AM
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Resourceful men, otherwise commonly known as betas, are growing aware of their place and they aren't happy with it. Personally I predict we will see a growing spike of loneliness due to the increasing number of uncooperative betas and alpha widows who didn't secure a man they really wanted in time, which will lead to a depopulation plummet and traditions being circled back as the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:52 AM
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And people wonder why sexworkers are so universally loathed.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 12:41 PM
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Look at history and you'll see that marriage and family had almost nothing to do with compatibility and "finding your soulmate". It was done for pragmatic reasons, to repopulate and nurture the young to continue the legacy, and for families to unify their skillsets and maximize their benefits. Literature and film made romanticized the idea of havimg a partner, shaped them into being the full package: a lover, a best friend, a partner, everything. It stimulates the feelings and creates idealized …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:32 PM
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They don't want us to use our own brain, they want us to be docile and programmable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:20 PM
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Collapsed the whole point with that statement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:06 PM
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They became an alpha widow at a young age, and now that they hit the wall, they'd rather die alone than settle with someone mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:10 PM
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Definitely true. This doesn't pertain to 100% everyone here, but it's relative to a majority of the Reddit users to the point where it should be considered when making a judgement call.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:28 PM
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To answer your last questiom, what HAPPENED was that the people who treated their partner with love were considered boring and got discarded. After getting hurt enough times, people recognized the pattern and changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:26 PM
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Okay, Mistress Misandry. Opinion discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:02 AM
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Men having high n count is completely different than women having high n count. All a woman has to do is initiate and they are close to guaranteed to get sex. Men need to demonstrate value in many, if not, all aspects of what attracts a woman to get sex. It's just a better gamble to invest in a woman with a low n count than to deal with the headache of a high n count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:15 AM
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Literal fucking lunatics.
/r/AntiFeminists26/02/22 01:46 PM
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Whatever feminism teaches compels feminists to approach most conversations with men with hatredand prejudice.
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 02:25 AM
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The fucking comments are revolting. They are just as bad, if not worse, than incels.
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 02:23 AM
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It's frightening how detached women can be when it serves their needs.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/22 05:07 PM
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This behavior needs to be punished more severely. Women need to understand it's not fucking okay to assault a man and play victim when he fights back
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/22 05:06 PM
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Single, been that way most of my life. RP made me realize men are born without value and have to create it, and women are born with value, and have to preserve it. That's why the majority of men have trouble dating to the point where they gain mental issues, put themselves in a negative feedback loop that is incredibly difficult to break, and why the self-deleting rates for men are so high. This entire post is just an emotional appeal as a "gotcha!" moment. The indication that most men are singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:27 PM
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Most guys would rather die alone, with the detriments that come with it, than settle for a woman with a lengthy sexual history, who probably only settled with them after their priorities chanfe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:52 PM
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Any identification, whether it is incel, RP, feminism, MRA, MGTOW, hell even FDS, what always happens is the most vocal and most projecting personalities are usually the most ignorant, and misrepresent the movement they identify with because their personality is that of ignorance and obnoxiousness. EDIT I was supposed to continue, but anyways: So when people shit on those demographics, they are thinking about the worst examples. If you put two polarized ideologies, depending on the two people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:33 PM
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Well something's gotta give. Women should not be allowed to lie about who the father is to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:28 PM
0

Never cut off your prospects. Bridge burning is so you are forced to be reliant on your s/o
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:46 AM
2

Either sexual attraction or indirect provision extractment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:30 PM
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Sleeping with multiple women is a benefit for having the discipline to be the best man you can be. What makes a man attractive is his ability to live past his primal urges in regards to his health and diet, and his ability to indulge in sex is a reward for reaching his potential. No one is asking the women to stay in a relationship where she got cheated on. The only reason most guys get shitted on for cheating is because women settle with a man they didn't think would have the audacity to cheat …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:41 PM
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Women should do whatever they want, they just need to stop being so bothered when men respond to the choices women make. Almost everything that women complain about men all have to do with men having the audacity to not cooperate with the status quo. If men refuse to date unattractive women, it's a problem. When men decide not to involve themselves in the dating world, it's a problem. Is "leaving men the hell alone" an option anyone considered?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:22 PM
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Respect is earned, and it's only earned when there is a fear implication going on. To some degree, someone has to fear your capabilities before respecting you. I don't doubt that it's easier for a man to be given a natural degree of respect in comparison to a woman, but whatever natural degree is given will quickly dissolve if the man doesn't prove he is worth any further respect. He will be scorned or rendered practically invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:55 PM
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15% or lower body fat, and 50k/year or higher. Increase one side to make up for the other liberally. After that, he can be picky about looks and sexual history, among other things he wants. The pickier he gets, the better he must be in regards to his looks and finances
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:33 PM
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Women and accountability are so far away from eachother, that any attempt to request women to do anything is met with scorn, disdain, and an attempt to silence you. It's funny because now that the Red Pill is being more normalized, all that's ever displayed is how the problem with our generations is men not stepping up to doing what's necessary to being a man, and everyone LOVES that part. Now try that vice versa. Try requesting women protect their chastity, try requesting women utilize their ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:03 PM
1

Both genders want different things at different times Also everyone wants the best, but aren't doing the work necessary to being the best, especially their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:02 PM
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Literally the giga-male that we think gets the most women will still have to approach. Arousal gets skmeone throygh the door, but social skills also play a part in a woman wanting to sleep with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:54 PM
1

Read the sidebar material, it's to the right side on desktop, or if on mobile it's on the "About" section. Also read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 07:43 PM
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Big facts. Focus on building yourself to be the best man you can be, so it's easier to be considered the best man to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:22 PM
1

Yeah, it's not binary and subject to nuance, but it can be safely inferred that men have a higher attraction/arousal threshold to meet before he is considered an option, enough so that it basically feels binary. The number of untouchable men will continue to increase the more they don't allow men to access their masculine side. Then they will complain that men aren't shaping up, and lash out when men refuse to cooperate with women's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:21 PM
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The RPer's who aren't okay with being alone are low functioning, and I have no interest in their future of irrelevancy. I know it's moving the goal post after the words we traded, but both genders will have two types: The people who are okay with being alone because what they want is not being met, and the people who try to demand the other gender to conform to their ideals. Women are the ones who attach virtue with their preferences, and men are the ones who both men and women repeatedly critic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:18 PM
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Tbh you should have treated her as a side chick from the beginning. Also, the best demonstration of value when a girl shit-tests you about another guy is to show how quickly, and without emotion, you can cut her off and move on if she tries subverting the frame of the relationship. As soon as she mentioned the pro-skater, you should have left/kicked her out directly and without emotion.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 05:34 PM
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A conquered man is not a man at all. At least, in a woman's eyes. If she feels she has reached the climax of her time with you, her interest in you will 180.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 05:32 PM
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You're not asking the right questions, you are looking at minor statistics and reaching comforting conclusions. If you want to believe women are happier alone and self sufficient, you are welcome to have that perspective. The way the near future plays out will shed some understanding of these harsh realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:13 PM
3

Single mother epidemic and the current state of the generation raised by single mothers proves how essential men and masculinity is. Women don't prioritize self suffiency the same way men do, and no matter what age or amount of money they have, they naturally yearn for a man to take care of them. We'll touch base when the women you are referring to get to 50 and report being single and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:02 PM
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Societal context doesn't change women's disposition to be attracted to the most valuable male. It's just, dependent on the culture they are a part of, they will prioritize different standards, and usually it's the distinction between what sexually arouses them and what attracts them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:58 PM
1

I expect nothing out of anyone and react accordingly to context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:48 PM
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That has nothing to do with the fact FDS is clearly violating Reddit's policies, and they are being inconsistent with not banning FDS but silencing most male-oriented subs. They don't get to pick and choose who they ban and who they keep, they are either consistent with their rules or they are biased and need to be called out on it.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 01:21 PM
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Gynocentrism is the new norm. It's not our world anymore.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 01:13 PM
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That's such a garbage excuse, and any Reddit moderator/management that agrees with that should be ashamed of themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 01:11 PM
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Literally, who the fuck wants to be around people that have this fanaticism with policing everyone's actions? It's astonishing how they are so self-absorbed in their crusade against men that they post shit like this publicly and project how deep their social dysfunction really goes.
/r/AntiFeminists10/02/22 11:22 PM
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Just don't confuse the entitled losers who sincerely think their fat, videogame-addicted ass deserves a super model with the guys who are aware that the globalization of the sexual marketplace has made it very difficult for average men to get laid, and very easy for average women to overestimate their value. Anyone with half a brain recognizes that no one is entitled to anything, and that any intimate experience between people is earned after demonstrating value, but a lot of people's frustratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:18 PM
1

This life trajectory is exclusive to men who take care of themselves. If you don't, you age like milk. It's why men gott get into that healthy and active lifestyle, the road is paved in gold for us the older we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:17 PM
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Yeah, I am on the same road. It's difficult, but worth it. These sexy women who want to fuck exist, but we gotta meet their standards and gain their trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:10 PM
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If you aren't happy with how inaccessible women are to you, you need to work on maximizing every quality you have that makes women attracted to you. Looksmax, chase money and success, it's the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:44 PM
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Get to 15% body fat or lower Consistently groom yourself and your body Get into photography, and find a way to exhibit social proof that you are openly kinky and love casual encounters. It's not just about being upfront with your intentions, you should always be upfront and honest, it's about being attractive and establishing a reputation as someone who is kinky and sexual. You need a resume that indicates to women you know what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:40 PM
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Ooh baby you do not want to start the argument about judging a demographic based on disproportionate crime rates. This will NOT go your way at all lmfaoooo
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:59 PM
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I am fucking laughing cuz I was about to say the same thing.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/22 06:58 PM
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Young women prefer men that arouse them, which is why they'll have casual encounters with young and attractive men, but that's all it usually will be: casual. Older men still have their value to the majority of women, usually in the form of resources. Older men are more likely to be successful and wealthy, which is generally attractive. If an older man takes care of himself and keeps himself physically attractive, he'll maximize the amount of women that desire him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:53 PM
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The ideal male fantasy is to have that one special lady who provides you a family, but is still sating his sexual desires with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:51 PM
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Basically the tables turn once a man is qualifiable enough. They become the one who stands by and lets an abundance of women approach them, and they are the ones that do the vetting and try to match all their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:45 PM
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The attractive men who want a committed relationship are usually taken very early. It's like when a guy is looking for a virgim tradwife gg: they get scooped up so quickly, the people who are still left on the market are either sub-par or looking for spmething casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:43 PM
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The romanticization of love made everyone think they are entitled to the best partner, but do nothing to reflect on what they have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:14 PM
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TRP is quarantined and FDS is not. S'all I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:38 PM
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This post is a trap so RP people have to play defensive to prove someone's attempt to debunk strong assumptions. The point of AWALT is not to typecast women, it's to be aware of the common behavioral traits women have that they'll never tell you about. Good examples include that women are more attracted to your looks, money, and status than they are your personality, and they will leave your ass if you lose what originally attracted her to you (lost your job, got fat, etc...)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:57 PM
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That same argument of aligning with ideals due to Machiavellianism can be argued with why women align with the left. But I do hear your point, the Right has it's own culture and following, so it's not exactly being against the grain. They are just losing very badly, conservatism is slowly being eroded. I think men are more likely to get away from group think and are much more willing to stand by the things they believe, even if it means being socially ostracized. It's rare to find women who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:43 PM
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Women go with the norm, men have ideals that make them more likely to go against the grain. That's why you'll always find most women in socially acceptable places, and why most guys splinter off into their own groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:10 PM
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It's my favorite when women who hit the wall double down on their preferences. She solidified her place outside the dating market, no one in the right mind will want her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 02:26 PM
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Good, if the majority of men want low value women, that just leaves more women for men with standards and goals beyond dating/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:36 PM
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The mental gymnastics to avoid any accountability is real.
/r/AntiFeminists04/02/22 04:30 PM
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The fact that this guy was able to fake RP theories and dynamics and twist them to his favor proves that actions speak louder than words, and that you can control your actions to reach the goals you want, which is exactly what RP gives you the tools to do: make an informed decision. Going full Dark Triad all your life is a short-term but lavish (if successful) lifestyle, but it's only one aspect of RP. A man who wants to maximize his life trajectory can take the lessons of people who live unethi…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 01:40 PM
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Your first mistake is taking anything someone in FDS says seriously. They are far beyond help, it's just a femcel group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:26 PM
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I'm fucking deceased 💀💀💀 First we got cucked by Chad, now we are getting cucked by Chadbot 3000?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:53 PM
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No, mid-20's
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:58 PM
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I... Am unsure what you mean by this
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 09:59 PM
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"wicked folly of 'Women's Rights'" She sees the concept of a woman having rights with scorn. That's a skewed view, and innately judgmental. People naturally criticize and judge what they hate.
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 09:26 PM
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I think the issue is we demonize anyone with a counter-opinion in general, and the people who are the most vocal in these sub-reddits are usually the ones who mis-represent the points so badly that the gap for understanding and compromise continues to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:01 PM
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Well, I don't thibk they are directly correlated, I think it has more to do with the idea that the things that make someone sexually desirable has a lot to do with health and physical capability. Let's throw away sexual desire entirely in these hypotheticals. The average 50 year is not as healthy or physically capable as the average 20 year old. Some people are deathly afraid of getting old and losing the abilities they now have, so their priority is to maximize the lifestyle they can get in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:59 PM
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Preferences don't change , priorities do. It's a new buzz-phrase being parroted around, but it is valid. Physical attraction is alwaya there, no matter the age, it's just that older people KNOW their looks are dwindling, and they don't have the same privileges of having flings and thriving off hook up culture, so they change what their standarda are because they want to secure something that is long term, and they want loyalty and commitment. That same loyalty and commitment is not something the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:40 PM
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Meh, sounds like gaslighting to cope with the fact that getting older sucks, and not everyone is going to develop successfully by their 30's and 40's. No one is owed an explanation to the parameters of what someone else prefers. People age and don't take care of themselves, it's no one's fault but their own if they can't find anyone that wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:30 PM
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Tbh the men at 30 who yell at women for being "damaged goods" are vastly different from the men at 30 building the best life for themselves. We'll never see their perspective because they'll never find themselves here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:16 PM
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I think there is enough nuance in men and women's sexual currency when it's related to the average person. The sort of standards of what a HVM wants is where my point falls apart, because a rich, successful, and handsome man will want a sexually attractive, youthful woman who sexually pleases him and enhances his lifestyle. The average person has to maneuver their preferences to the point where it's not completely unfounded to say that a young man may end up being okay with being with an older w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:14 PM
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This is the type of shit that makes other groups want to brigade us. This is a bad post, like a really bad one, and all it serves is to incite hatred for the woman gender, which is not what I joined this subreddit to contribute. By all means, don't show mercy in the criticisms you have against Feminism. I sincerely believe the only way we can counter the snowball of the Feminist Imperative is by being vocal about the rebuttals and criticisms we have based on the observations and experiences we h…
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 07:03 PM
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Love when someone's double standarda put them in a corner. He either agrees that individual women/men want individual things, so there is nuance for subjective preferences in standards, or he doubles down and goes with the "No it's different because" drabble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:44 PM
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I completely agree with you. Men have a harder time getting what they want, because to get what they want, they have to strive to maximize as much value as they can. Women are naturally valuable and, depending on their age and how well they take care of themselves, their value degrades. I'm not mad at the game, my issue is that women don't recognize that their perspective and standards operate off of the privileges they have (and yes, I am well aware women also go through their own struggles and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:32 PM
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The thing about women lowering their standards, it's usually a small amount of compromise in comparison to what people mean when they tell guys to lower their standards. A woman who usually has a lot of traits she looks for in a man, whether it is physical or lifestyle, will make a small compromise: "I wanted a guy who is 6ft, but I can settle with a guy who is the same height/as tall as me". "I want a spontaneous guy, but I can settle with a more conventional guy", "I usually like lengthy white…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:52 PM
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That last paragraph isn't talked about enough. It's entirely possible that people can realize later on, after they have had sex, that they aren't working out. A lot of people assume that if they had sex and broke up, it's because they were just using them for sex, and forget that breaking things off has multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:41 PM
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Yes, and I refuse to elaborate further.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:44 AM
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It's attraction privilege. Both genders have it, but women are a little bit more reliant on it, and the privileges they get are much more than what a man can get being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:23 AM
2

Hapiness
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 01:54 AM
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Assymmetry in the face, disproportioned features, acne/blemishes. Not trying to mentioned body fat % or muscular structure (as in fit, not bodybuilder) because that's obvious and any guy who isn't doing the work to maintain a good physique will never have a chance at attracting a woman. One of the reasons your attraction levels feels like it's related to your height and race you is because the women who are most beautiful have the most options, so they are most picky (anyone, man or woman, who o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:53 AM
1

Intellect, articulation in what they want to say, able to contribute to a conversation so it doesn't feel one-sided. If she has a killer fashion sense, that elevates them greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:14 PM
1

Rehabilitation, not condemnation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:00 PM
2

Bro the obesity ratings are so high in America, being lean or fit is already a form of peacocking. It's just it requires a lifestyle that is so far from the standard american lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:33 PM
1

I think the people who have been hurt from the pursuit of dangerous thrills open up about their experiences and try to prevent others from experiencing what they went through. The thing is, people chase dangerous and deviant thrills naturally, or if they spend most of their lives living a safe and dull lifestyle, then their deviancy can come out in worse ways. Plus, it's difficult to factor in the people who got away with dangerous or deviant thrills, because both parties actually kept it a secr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:44 PM
1

20 year old with the 16 year old. They are both still kids, but a 16 year old is a lot more susceptible to being taken advantage of. At least wait until they are 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:52 PM
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I think people forget that just because you are dating someone and there is an age gap, it doesn't automatically indicate manipulation. Definitely a yellow flag, something to be cautious about it, but isn't always grounds for immediate criticism. Younger people are completely capable of manipulating older people, have you seen how sugar babies strategize finding a sugar daddy? How strippers charm older men? Hell, even younger guys love cougars because they enable the young guy to be a spoiled ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:58 PM
1

"Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love." Sigmund Freud on the Madonna-Whore complex, the distinct separation between someone worth loving and someone you want to fuck. It's about women but it's not limited to women, men go through feelings of boredom with who they love also. Long term bonding is oxytocin, but exciting and quick sexual thrills are dopamine. Sometimes we want a little dopamine spike that our oxytoxin buddy cannot provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:27 PM
1

Personally, I do nice things for friends regardleaa of gender, like offer advice or spot them on food, buy a round of drinks if we are going out. When it comes to paying for dates, having long phone calls, or prioritizing time more often, there is usually an intent, but I learned to just be honest about my intentions from the beginnings. It's better for both sides to not deal with headache when it comes to these awkward moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:04 PM
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Relax bro. She isn't coercing anyone to stay friends with her. If a man remains friends with someone who isn't interested in him romantically/sexually, and he continues being friends in hopes she'll change her mind, that's his fault and his fault only. He has the option to walk away from the emotional turmoil of hoping for something that is highly unlikely to manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:55 PM
1

It's possible to get out of the friendzone, but it's like a .0001% chance and usually not worth the trouble. Just be direct about your intentions and move on if they don't match with hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:52 PM
2

The fact that this stirred the pot so much validates it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:41 PM
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Naive. Attraction doesn't change, priorities do. Eventually a woman realizes they have to secure a man, so physical attraction and sexual desire are not as huge a factor as is his ability to provide. Any woman who settled for a man who provides would easily ditch him if one of the men they had casual sex with was willing to provide just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:22 PM
9

The word gets thrown around so much, at this point an incel is just anyone that you disagree with.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/22 08:15 PM
1

Holy fucking shit their ability to maintain the troll is phenomenal, I legit cannot tell if they are trolling or not.
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/22 04:38 AM
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Oh my god, you're the clean up guy. My condolences bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:13 PM
4

So what do you call a heterosexual person who is only interested in people of the opposite sex who are cisgender?
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/22 08:06 PM
4

Plenty of reasons, the most common one I think has to do with how feminism has hurt people to a point where they are against it now. Plus, egalitarianism is more closely relative to the concept of equality than feminism. Even the name itself is prioritizing women. Logically, that proves that feminism is not about equality.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 10:38 PM
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What's with the rhetoric that, if someone identifies as an anti-feminist, they automatically support the exploitation and abuse of women? This sort of black and white brainwashing is exactly why people don't want to support feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/22 06:03 PM
34

It's cliche as fuck, but we can't change the world , we can only change ourselves, and learn how to present ourself in a way that arouses curiosity from non-polarized people. We'll never convince the people we argue with our points, but there is always lurkers whp are absorbing information who may end up agreeing with what we say. These are the sort of wins that you won't see being counted, but they end up being the most influential.
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/22 06:44 PM
10

It was never about equality or morality. It was about socially condition men to remain on standby and be designated their role by women. They will choose men they want for a casual hookup/FWB. They will choose men who will play the role as the lifestyle provider AKA the "safe guy". They also have the man that acts as a therapist/relationship counselor, and the one they go to for quick, the backup guy, etc... That's why they absolutely CANNOT STAND the absolutely fucking AUDACITY for a man to dec…
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/22 03:15 AM
1

I'm not concerned with labels, as long as it isn't FDS, I pay more attention to their actions and how they react to contextual situations.
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/22 12:48 AM
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Eesh this is gunna give some female lurkers an anxiety attack. That was so cutthroat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 04:44 AM
10

Good on him. No one wants to be the clean up guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 01:45 PM
47

That last paragraph. If she isn't actively trying to sexually please you, nothing you do will change that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 01:44 PM
3

Low Value Man
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/22 08:00 PM
4

Where are all the Brigaders here to explain themselves? They had a gleeful time making posts like "Is this satire?", trying to make us look toxic Is this book satire? Is this who y'all want representing feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/22 12:35 PM
1

At least they are weeding themselves out the gene pool.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/22 04:13 PM
5

I hope the people invading this sub learn that approaching civil discourse with underhanded tactics like they did never works. If they want to have a discussiom and learn, they can approach with actual consideration, not being prepared to condemn our every point. Concern trolls are a different type of annoying.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 03:52 PM
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You did nothing significant. Please, keep commenting so I can downvote you more.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 10:42 AM
10

Everyone: "Men and women need to have conversations about hard topics so we can come TOGETHER" Men: "Well we don't like it when women do this" Everyone: "Look sweaty , maybe you wouldn't have this problem if you went outside and touched grass."
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 10:38 AM
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Bad bot.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 10:29 AM
2

What was the point of this post if all you are going to do is listen to reply? You feel any better for disguising your need for argumentative catharsis as some noble act at pointing out the flaws of a group?
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/22 10:26 AM
6

It's hard not to be defensive about your original post when you are implying that the entirety of the Sub-Reddit's is something that only makes sense if it was a huge joke. And I do find that for every group whose purpose is to highlight the flaws of another group, it easily becomes taken over by the most loud, vocal, and ignorant people. That psychology applies to many groups. It might be easier to dissect this group if you asked more specific questions about it's goals/how the people who brows…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 08:32 PM
2

Fucking dead lol, I gotta use this one day
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 02:52 PM
3

Men go through the same shit. The ideal body for men in advertisements/shows/movies is peak performance and attraction. You don't think guys get insecure? I'd empathize more with women if it wasn't for the fact that all they have to do is post a full body selfie and get tons of likes and comments from both men and women telling them how pretty they are. When guys post pictures, usually all they get is someone commenting on a background detail, or calling you gay.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 02:50 PM
2

FDS is just femcel forums. They are so deluded in their thought processes and absolutely out of touch with the real world. They probably haven't spoken to men in years. They used to hurt me with the way they think, when I first discovered them. Now I just find entertainment in their lunacy, and to a degree I do pity them. Just a tiny sprinkle.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 02:46 PM
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I was losing hope on finding a comment that was more relaxed than hyper-fixated TRP protocol. Every relationship is a risk, and if you check out everytime a sliver of a red flag appears, you'll likely end up alone.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 07:33 PM
5

When the teen shows more maturity, humility and intellect than the adult. Imagine getting mogged this hard by a teen 😂
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 03:52 AM
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Read a comment where a guy states that FDS is not a reflection of how women think, but incel forums are an extensionof make behavior. The double standards are so amazingly blatant it's unreal. We live in a clown world.
/r/AntiFeminists21/10/21 05:22 PM
2

Ew this dumpster fire Reddit page is back
/r/AntiFeminists15/10/21 07:46 PM
3

What about the boy? Bejng told he is a waste of time is not going to do good for his self esteem, it could easily translate into long term self esteem issues that prevents him from achieving an ideal lifestyle. We can't let shit like this slide for our youth.
/r/AntiFeminists11/10/21 08:12 PM
3

Sigma morning routine: 1. Wake up 2. Do a few stretches 3. Take a shit 4. Get out of bed
/r/AntiFeminists11/10/21 08:11 PM
6

Good fucking riddance.
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/21 06:43 AM
2

At this point, feminism is just women hyperactively attempting to strip men of any agency and ability to pursue their own personal desires. They want men to be drones, to be programmed to do only as they please. They don't care about us, they only care about what theu can take and make us do.
/r/AntiFeminists09/10/21 01:21 AM
5

Holy shit is this is what incels look like to women. What a fucking trainwreck
/r/AntiFeminists08/10/21 04:35 PM
14

Lmfao at first I was shocked at the aburdity in the shit they say, but honestly I pity them as much as I am amused by them
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 05:48 PM
31

FDS women are ridiculous
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 05:47 PM
9

"I AM AN ALPHA MALE SIGMA ON HIS GRINDSET. I TAKE COLD SHOWERS AND DO NOFAP. I WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THIS RELATIONSHIP WILL NOT BE PLATONICAL."
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/21 05:45 PM
3

My god, reading the comments on this FDS post is a true "crabs in a bucket" analogy. Everyone keeps telling her the man is scum and not HV. Literally no self reflection whatsoever, only the validation that she wanted. For FDS, being a "High Value Man" is literally being an obedient dog who does only exactly what she wants, with any deviation resulting in her leaving. No wonder these fools are single.
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 05:50 PM
4

Very true. It's sad because I can understand why someone feels the need to lay down their terms of a relationship, they don't want to feel like their time is wasted, but it actually ensures the other person will back away. It's a strange paradox that one of the best ways to ensure you find a partner you can do an LTR with is by letting things happen naturally, which comes with the great risk of wasting your time and getting hurt after getting your hopes up. It's no wonder so many people either d…
/r/AntiFeminists11/09/21 05:43 PM
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As someone who doesn't have sex, nor does OLD, these suggestions for a sexual abstinence revolution against abortion laws are kind of amusing to me. It in no way effects my life. This is coming from someone who is pro-choice, also.
/r/AntiFeminists03/09/21 10:53 PM
11

FDS is one of the most vile Reddit groups out there. It's insane that it hasn't been quarantined, let alone banned.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/21 12:20 AM
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