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| 1 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Thank you for your reply. If you believe that men can physically have sex with anyone they wish, even if that person doesn’t turn them on, then why don’t men who have difficulty finding a girlfriend become gay? It can’t be because they’re “afraid” of what society might think, since we live in a very liberal society that celebrates homosexuality. So, if anything, by becoming homosexual, they would become popular and cool in the eyes of a large percentage of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.So, you think men have the ability to get turned on by any woman, regardless of her age, body weight, lack of hygiene, etc.? I don't believe the average man can physically have sex if he's not turned on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.So, I guess those women on the ForeverAloneWomen subreddit are lying about how men don't want to have intimacy with them.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:51 AM |
| 0 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.I don't think that guy represents the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.How are women 'selective' about a man's ethics—by judging him on height and sense of humor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.You said the following about men, "They would have sex with anything." I find your words so odd.. Do you really think men want to have sex with obese women? Or do you think a 30 year old man wants to have sex with 80 year old women? Or do you think men want to have sex with an alcoholic? You should visit https://np.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/and you will see lots of women complaining because men never approach them or because men aren't interested in having intimacy with them. You also said,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Woman kills boyfriend for not having sex, all the comments calling him gay.I don't agree with your point of view. But I respect your point of view. I am glad that this is a place where we don't ban or report people just because they are the "wrong" gender. I say this because I know many subs on reddit where men aren't allowed to express their thoughts, and if they do, they are reported and banned. By the way, do you know who coined the word 'incel"?? Do you know the history? A woman coined such a word to describe lonely women. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/26 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”In a liberal/feminist society that is vocal about how men are evil, why would any man think that he is "nice"? Now, if a guy has money, height, humor skills, etc, he knows that he is desired by tons of women because of those superficial traits, not because he is "nice". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:36 PM |
| -3 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsWell, femninism created this mentality among many men. Feminism celebrates premarital sex. Doesn't it? And the consequences of fornication include: high rates of single motherhood, abortion and STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:22 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Regarding cooking, you said, 'It just becomes a matter of what's easier, ordering or not.' I think that if you have a family, you should prioritize their health over your convenience. Ordering food is not only expensive, but also, what people typically order is usually very unhealthy—for instance, hamburgers, pizza, greasy foods, etc. None of those foods can compare to a healthy, homemade meal. If a person doesn't care about their own health and that of their spouse, they should at least show so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:19 AM |
| 1 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logic" women aren't going to start hitting on men out of some misbegotten idea of equality." The extremely high rates of aborted kids, single motherhood and STDs among women, make me conclude that you're very mistaken. I assume that the person who asked the question was referring to committed relationships that would lead to marriage. I don't think he was referring to "relationships" that revolve around premarital sex. As for "equality," maybe I am mistaken, but I am pretty sure that women, not men, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:10 AM |
| 4 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicSo men want relationships more than women? I thought women said that men only wanted sex and not committed relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:02 AM |
| 4 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenYou have better habits than most fellow Americans. You're probably healthier than most Americans. I think that's truly remarkable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenI think you're mistaken. Maybe you believe that men judge the opposite gender the same way women do. I mean, it is a fact that the vast majority of men find the same qualities attractive. Why do you think that male celebrities have a ton of female fans? Now, men don't have a homogeneous taste when it comes to women. For men, a woman's beauty is subjective, whereas for women, a man's attractiveness is more objective. The reason men might not look at you in public is because they don't want to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:02 AM |
| 0 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardJust because birth rates are low doesn't mean women aren't having kids; it simply means that a large percentage of conceived children are aborted. The high rates of single motherhood, abortions, and STDs among women lead me to conclude that you are wrong about women not dating men. Now, I am not entirely sure if these 'relationships' can truly be described as 'dating.' However, judging by the standards of previous centuries—when only married people conceived children and engaged in intimacy—we c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenYou make it sound as if women found young men desirable. As far as I'm concerned, women don't ask young men out, nor propose marriage to them nor compliment them on their looks, etc. I fail to understand why would an older man think that women desire him, unless he happens to be tall, rich, funny, etc, (Women find those men irresistible, regardless of his age), however, those men represent less than 1% of the male population. I think that most men, regardless of their age, know very well that ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:21 AM |
| 3 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward"It's very odd because when women describe the man of their dreams, the first thing that comes out of their mouths is how they want a tall man. They have many 'good reasons' to justify why they love tall men, such as: 'Tall men make me feel protected,' 'I want to have tall children,' 'I want to hear high heels and be shorter than my boyfriend/husband,' 'Short men are insecure,' 'Tall men are handsome,' etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardI fail to understand your comment. I really do. I have rarely (actually, almost never) seen a woman with a man who is 4 inches shorter than her, or with an autistic man. It is a well-known fact that women judge men based on height, social skills, and humor. Women are adults, and they are free to make their own decisions. I don't care if they dislike or hate short or autistic men. I also don't care if they send love letters to men who are serving time in jail for committing horrible crimes. Now, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 05:43 AM |
| 8 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardLess and less interested? If so, how do you explain the high rates of abortions, single motherhood and STD rates among women? They certainly aren't interested in dating or marrying "unatractive", or "boring" men, but this doesn't mean that they aren't interested in dating "hot' and 'fun" men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardDoes she want to have kids? If so, she should consider the possibility that, given her age and the fact that less than 1% of American men meet her requirements, it is likely she won't ever have a husband and a family.What I don't understand about American women who have this strange fetish for tall men is why they don't travel overseas to find the man of their dreams. In some European countries, a large percentage of the male population is 6 feet tall (I'm not sure if there are also many 6'5" me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardI don't understand. Are you saying that some of your friends don't judge men on height? That's so odd. Would they really date a man who is 4 inches shorter than them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 05:28 AM |
| 1 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?There are many studies, which you can find online, that have found that people who save their virginity for marriage report having happier marriages than people who engage in premarital sex. I have a hard time believing that a person who is a victim of domestic violence would say that his or her marriage is happy. One study found that, "The likelihood of your happily-ever-after marital bliss decreases as your number of sexual partners increases." I see that some people disliked my comment, which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Question for men: How many women did you approach in 2026?Wow, that's so sad. I hope your wife comes to her senses. How do you cope with this? Have you gotten used to it yet? I mean, it's one thing to be rejected by women you don't know, but being rejected by your own wife is a whole different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:18 PM |
| 2 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?Thank you for sharing your thoughts. An overweight woman can lose weight. As for tall women, aren't a large percentage of female models tall? I don't think anyone considers tall women undesirable, ugly, or any of the other traits that are associated with short men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Paternal Surrender/Financial Abortion would look a lot different in practice if it ever came to fruition than how it's talked aboutOnly in sick communities they think that a deadbeat dad is worse than aborting a child. I certainly don't respect men who abandon their kids, but come on, aborting a kid is even worse. Now, I don't know what percentage of abortions occur because the baby's father encouraged the woman to have an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:08 PM |
| – | How should a female navigate a situation where the man is smaller than averageLol, how funny. reminds me of how most women (regardless of their own race) who have a "preference" for white men aren't accused of having a fetish... But if a few non-Asian men have a preference for Asian women, they are accused of having a "fetish." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different.You said, "The truth is that men date up in terms of looks, and looks alone" What do you mean? Are men the ones judging the opposite sex on genetic traits such as height, skin color, eye color, etc? Are men "dating up" in terms of looks by not having interest in women who abuse their bodies by over-eating, doing drugs, drinking alcohol, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:59 PM |
| 0 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?I'm a guy who suffers from social anxiety, and on top of that, I wasn't blessed with height. I know my life would have been better if I had been born a woman. Sure, women have to deal with single motherhood, abortion, a higher likelihood of contracting an STD, domestic violence, etc., but pretty much all of these problems can be prevented by abstaining from premarital sex. By the way, I'm not suggesting that anyone should remain a virgin until marriage. I know that proposing such a measure would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:56 PM |
| 2 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.You said, "It’d be weirder for someone, regardless of gender, to not want a partner they’re impressed by." I agree with you, however, I think it's very, very easy for a woman to impress a man.. If she has good morals and good habits, she is likely to impress a ton of women. Now, for men is extremely difficult to impress a woman, just because he has good morals and good habits doesn't mean a woman is going to be impressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menThank you for sharing your thoughts. I’m pretty sure that if a tall, overweight autistic man had posted your comment, some other men would have advised him to lose weight. Now, if he were short and autistic, in that case, he should lose weight for the sake of his own health — though that’s not going to help him at all in finding love. You said, “Women are less superficial than men, women are more empathetic than men, women are more patient than men” I respect your perspective; maybe you’re right… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menWhy would a man be more likely to abuse an autistic woman than a non-autistic woman? At the end of the day, both are physically weaker than men. If anything, I would speculate that a woman who is always nagging and complaining is more likely to experience abuse than a woman who is reserved and shy. So, I don’t know how trustworthy those sources are that claim 90% of married autistic women experience abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menI’m glad that you found love. Unfortunately, this is something that 99.9% of autistic men will never experience. I’m also glad that autistic women don’t face the same level of discrimination from the opposite gender that autistic men do. Just because a woman has autism doesn’t mean she’s a bad person or that she doesn’t deserve to be loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:04 AM |
| 1 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menI wish—truly wish—I could find love just by being fit. By the way, I’m already a fit guy since I love working out, practicing fasting, and eating healthy. However, this means nothing when you happen to be an autistic man. Also, I’m pretty sure that normal men (that is, non-autistic men) would also love to be judged based on their weight rather than on a genetic trait such as their height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:54 AM |
| 2 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menI am pretty sure that you could find love if you lost weight. I guess what I am saying sounds "shallow," but at the end of the day, you benefit by eating healthy, practicing fasting, and exercising. Now, there's nothing an autistic man can do to find love; even if he is tall (which, unlike weight, is a genetic trait), he is still very unlikely to find love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Contrary to popular belief women have a rather similar taste in menMost women feel “chemistry” with a 6ft tall man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:18 PM |
| 7 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personMen and women are not alike. For instance , women care a lot about a man’s height, but men don’t care about a woman’s height. Similarly, women care a lot about a man’s confidence, which explains why they dislike men who are autistic or shy . As a result, many women get turned on by men who are abusers or misogynists because they perceive those men as being confident . Men on the other hand care very little about how confident a woman is, for this reason , men don’t dislike women who are autistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:13 PM |
| 4 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personI think looks matter a lot more to women than to men . How often do you hear of men sending love letters to women who are in prison for having committed horrible crimes? It doesn’t matter how “hot” she might be, if she has done horrible things, she isn’t going to receive love letters from men. Also,’most men care little about a woman’s genetic traits, and prioritize her good habits associated to eating healthy, exercising, good hygiene, not drinking alcohol, etc . You know, things that benefit o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:08 PM |
| – | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?I wouldn’t feel proud of myself if I hated anyone. Now, sex outside of the marital bed negatively affects a society. It causes aborted kids , single motherhood, STDs, increased likelihood of divorce , increased likelihood of domestic violence, etc. Kids don’t benefit by being raised in fatherless homes, did you know that most people in prison were raised by single mothers ? I don’t think men respect promiscuous males. Why would a man admire a promiscuous man ? It makes no sense. Now, it is true … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:57 PM |
| -5 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingI don’t see why a man would refuse to date or marry a woman with motor disabilities if she has good ethics, morals, and habits. Those are the things men usually "judge" women on—that is, qualities we actually have control over and can change. Men are unlikely to find a woman ‘undesirable’ or ‘disgusting’ because of her height, disabilities, poverty, lack of social skills, lack of humor, or other meaningless traits that say nothing about her worth as a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:11 PM |
| 9 | The entitlement of certain autistic men is bafflingWhy would anyone say that women should be forced to be attracted to men who are autistic? All we are saying is that men who are autistic, shy, or lacking in social skills have an extremely hard time finding love, since women strongly desire men who are outgoing, funny, talkative, etc. The same thing doesn’t apply to women who are autistic or shy, since men don’t see women with such traits as ‘inferior’ or ‘undesirable.’ If anything, many men find those women very lovable. Just because I am stati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 08:04 PM |
| 10 | Men have it harder in dating than women doConsider a man who is short, autistic, and lives with his parents. I can't imagine a guy with such traits ever being involved in a romantic relationship. Now, a woman with those same traits (we can even pretend she isn’t short but tall) would have little to no difficulty finding love. Women usually experience difficulty finding love only when they engage in unhealthy habits such as overeating, drinking alcohol, not exercising, smoking, or neglecting their hygiene. Anyone who does those things wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryAs a man, what I find hard to comprehend is why women don’t value male virginity the way men have traditionally valued female virginity. In fact, it’s not uncommon for women to make fun of virgin men. Apparently, some women expect men to celebrate female promiscuity (just as they celebrate male promiscuity) and to look down on virgin women (just as they look down on virgin men). However, for most men—especially those who desire marriage—such a mindset makes no sense. Why would a man feel excited… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | An average young woman *isn't average*You said, "You want a woman between the ages of 18 and 28? Congratulations – so does every other single man ages 18–50." You make the mistake of thinking that men are a homogenous group as women tend to be. Most women desire, strongly desire a man who is tall, funny, good listener, makes good money, etc. For this reason, they strongly despise men who are shorter than them, autistic, are unemployed, live with their parents, etc. Men are not a homogeous group. Men are diverse regarding the kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 02:56 AM |
| 8 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?What’s the point of your post? To make men jealous? I wish a man could also make himself attractive by dressing well, brushing his hair, having good hygiene, being fit, etc. Now, obviously—very obviously—any man with common sense should practice these healthy habits every day. That being said, a man is not going to be considered ‘hot’ or ‘sexy’ just because he does those things. In order for a man to be considered ‘handsome’ or ‘hot,’ he needs to have the ‘right’ genes. It’s ridiculous and illog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?Even if a very overweight woman posts a picture of herself on Reddit, she is guaranteed to receive a ton of compliments telling her that she looks very hot. The same principle also applies to skinny or chubby women. Now, I’ve seen skinny, athletic, muscular men post pictures of themselves on Reddit and other social media platforms, and they’re lucky if they even receive one single compliment from a woman. The fact is, men’s attractiveness doesn’t depend on things a man can control—it is largely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women like hearing a lot of men's attractiveness is outside of their control?I don’t understand what you mean. Do you think this post would have been created if men were ‘judged’ on weight? And I put that word in quotes because, at the end of the day, we ourselves are the ones who directly benefit when we acquire good habits regarding diet, exercise, abstaining from alcohol, drugs, etc. I think women couldn’t care less if a man is fat. I have never heard a woman describe the man of her dreams as being ‘fit.’ Now, this doesn’t mean that men shouldn’t exercise and eat heal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 05:13 PM |
| 8 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Are those "ugly", "weird", "introverted" guys the reason for the high rates of single motherhood, abortion, STD and divorce? or are the "hot", "fun", "cool" guys the ones who are responsible for those things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?If you don’t believe what Barely-Moral says, then you can do the experiment yourself! I’ve heard women claim that men 'discriminate' against women who are overweight, single mothers, minorities, etc. Well, you can join a dating site and post a fake AI-generated picture of an overweight woman. On the profile, you can specify that you’re a single mother looking for a serious romantic relationship. You can also add that you want a man who will be a father figure to your kids. Finally, make it extre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:47 AM |
| -2 | If women like different men, why are there so many men not liked by anyone?Women like different men? What do you mean? Do you think there are women wanting to date 5ft tall men? As for men liking different women, yes, you're absolutly right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:38 AM |
| 12 | The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short timeInteresting post. If you ask women about the height of their former boyfriends or husbands, they will say that at least one of them was 6 feet tall. I find this very interesting, considering that statistics show only 14% of American men are 6 feet or taller. And remember, a significant number of men who are homeless or in prison are 6 feet or taller. So how is it possible that most women claim to have been involved with a man that tall? The only possible explanation is that they’re taking turns … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 7 | Women want socialism in professional life and capitalism in personal livesYes, those statements are contradictory. Let’s not forget that during the Biden administration, blue states (the ones promoting illegal immigration) had the nerve to bus illegal immigrants to red states. In other words, they didn’t want their tax money to be used to provide housing, education, healthcare, etc., for the very people they claimed to care about. Furthermore, how can a woman claim that others are treating her like a sex object when she does the same by exposing her half-naked body in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Women want socialism in professional life and capitalism in personal livesHow funny. I remember that during the Biden administration, many YouTube videos were made in which millionaire liberals were asked if they supported illegal immigration, and of course, they said “yes.” Then, when some illegal immigrants were brought in and the liberal millionaires were asked if they would be willing to share their mansions with them, their facial expressions changed drastically. They felt highly offended and came up with ridiculous excuses for why they couldn’t share their huge … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:28 PM |
| – | The standards of what is considered cheating today makes monogamous relationships and marriages not worth itWe live in a strange time. In the past, people only procreated kids with only one person, their wife/husband. Nowadays, it's common for people to procreate kids with more than one person.. As a matter of fact, nowadays, most kids are procreated out of wedlock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.Why are some people so nosy? You think a 29 years old woman needs “protection”? What if a 50 year old woman wants to date or marry a 70 years old man? Does she also need “protection”? What if a 29 year old man wants to date a 50 year old woman? Does he need; “protection” from that woman? At what age is a woman old enough to be allowed to make decisions on her own? I thought at 29 a person already had a fully developed brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.I don’t agree with prostitution, but I find your reasoning difficult to understand considering that we live in a time where most women ( if I am not mistaken) engage in premarital sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.Men aren’t nosy people, so we couldn’t care less if a 29 year old man dates or marries a 41 year old woman . By the way, we men would never call an adult man a “boy”, whereas women sure call adult women “girls”. A 29 year old man is an adult, he doesn’t need people to baby sit him or “protect” him from imaginary monsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 01:02 PM |
| 0 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.Are you aware that most countries (not just western countries but also countries in Eastern Europe and Latin America) are suffering from extremely low birth rates? Liberals love to say that the world is “overpopulated”, they use this lie in order to justify the atrocity of abortion, yet, Africa is the only continent with high birth rates.. How do Canada or Romania benefit if birth rates are high in Nigeria or Senegal? Now, what I find disturbing is that the reason birth rates are so low is not b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are more interested in sex than women are interested in money.I don’t justify men who do those things, having said this, I find it interesting, to say the least, how women on average are always ready to defend any bad action done by people who share their same gender. You apparently don’t think it’s such a big deal if women are unfaithful to their husbands, even though this causes “unwanted” pregnancies, STDs and divorces, and yet you think is more serious if men watch porn or make gross comments — actions which I do not defend ! But my point is that being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 12:40 PM |
| – | Artificial wombs wont change anythingDon’t you think that liberal governments that have zero regard for morals will use these “artificial wombs” as a way to “fix” the extremely low birth rates that they are so concerned about, which were created by their pro abortion laws? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sOur “progressive” society has normalized aborting kids, so indeed women don’t get any stigma for hurting their kids . A few days ago I was reading on yahoo news a news story about A New Hampshire woman who fatally shot two of her children and her husband . Well, as you guys know, people who comment on yahoo news tend to be extremely liberal, however, I seriously couldn’t believe that people in the comment section were feeling sorry for this woman, according to them this woman committed such hide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sYou said “ Wanting your partner to be subservient to you is different from, and worse than, wanting your partner to be more powerful than you, even” So are you suggesting that men should go after women who are taller than them, make more money than them, are more assertive than them, etc? Men wouldn’t oppose to dating or marrying women with those characteristics, but are men going to find any women with those traits who is interested in dating and marrying them? The reason men end up dating or m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sInteresting points. Just like some women are vocal about how they want to be dominated, whereas men are unlikely to say anything about wanting to dominate a woman, in the same way, women tend to be very vocal about how they desire a tall man, whereas men are unlikely to say anything about wanting a shorter woman. The fact that most women want to be dominated explains why they dislike autistic or shy men so much .This also explains why western women dislike East Asian men so much, since they perc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?So you think “some” women are attracted to 5ft tall guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Why dont women start a single father epidemic?How about instead of causing an innocent kid to be raised by a single parents, not engage in premaritals sex? Is that not a possibility at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:24 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manI don’t think premarital sex is a good idea, regardless of whether you’re a man or a woman. Now, if a woman wants to engage in premarital sex or have one-night stands, friends with benefits, etc., that’s her decision. However, the reality is that, regardless of what liberalism teaches, women are the ones who can become pregnant and have to deal with 'unwanted pregnancies.' They are the ones who have to live with the remorse of having aborted their children, the ones who may become single mothers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:32 PM |
| 2 | 35 yo single man is better off than a 35 yo single femaleInteresting post.. I find it sad that some women abort the kids they conceive when they are in their 20's, And then, when they want kids later in life, for one reason or another, that option is often no longer available—not only because some men, unfortunately, discriminate against 'older' women (just as women sometimes discriminate against shorter men), but also because age and a history of abortions can make it more difficult for a woman to have children. That said, I believe a woman in her 30… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:04 AM |
| 0 | There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid.Something I've observed among my female relatives who judge men based on superficial traits—such as height—is that they often end up finding their 'perfect' man. But then, when they become pregnant by these men, they discover that those guys have many flaws. Eventually, they become single mothers, and the ones who suffer the most are the children, who miss out on experiencing what it means to have a father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 08:34 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid.I will never understand short women who judge men on height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Men's love is highly conditionalWell, the only one of those things you mentioned that I don't find superficial is the point about gaining weight. I don't think it's unreasonable for a man to feel less attracted to a wife who is addicted to food and leads a sedentary lifestyle. The other things you mentioned are certainly not justifiable reasons for a man to stop loving his wife. Now, do women think highly of a husband who doesn't have a job or help with household chores? Do they admire a husband who spends a lot of time on mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 08:27 PM |
| 0 | You're not an "average" guy if you struggle in datingSo if a guy has impregnanted (and then dumped) a lot of women, does this mean he is "above average"? If so, then I respect a lot more the "below average" guys who aren't causing women to have abortions or to become single mothers living in poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 07:47 PM |
| 4 | You're not an "average" guy if you struggle in datingBelow whom? Men who impregnate women and then cause them either to abort the child or to become single mothers living in poverty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | I'd rather be a man finding a girlfriend than a woman finding a boyfriend.I thought you were going to mention how women are the ones who have to live with the remorse of having had an abortion, or the ones who become single mothers living in poverty, or the ones who are more likely to contract an STD. But instead, you argued that women have it hard because they supposedly can't ask men out—an argument I find weak. I mean, can't women ask men out? Women can choose either to ask a man out or to wait for a man to ask them out. Now, you mentioned that men supposedly have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Women dont need to complain about prostitutionI don't agree with prostitution, I think it causes human traffikicing. Now, you said, "Young men still want to meet girls, be desired, be in love, be wanted.", that might be true, but what do you think a young man going to do if he doesn't have the physical or personality traits that women desire in a man? I don't understand why would a married man visit a prostitute.. I mean, he already has a wife, and furthermore, many single women are attracted to married men, so there's no reason for those m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?I admire that you saved your virginity for marriage. Are you from a Western country? I ask because I don’t think it’s common for women (or men) in Western countries to save their virginity for marriage. I also don’t think it’s common for men in Western nations, at least in the U.S., to desire marriage. If men in the U.S. truly desired marriage, how can you explain the high number of abortions and children raised by single mothers? I also think that the fact so many boys have never had a father f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?This makes little sense considering that according to statistics, most women (especially young women) embrace the feminist, leftist, progressist agenda-- an ideology that teaches that marriage, modesty and maternity are evil things. Also, statistics show that most kids are being raised by single mothers.. So, according to you, who is teaching girls that they should get married? their single mothers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?"Women are taught their worth is tied to being a wife and mother." Do you really believe this concept still applies today? If so, how do you explain that abortion is so defended? Also, let's not forgot that most nations have birth rates below the replacement rate- something I find interesting, to say the least, considering that "pro choice" people claim that the world is "overpopulated".. Now, I am not a "monster" wo is suggesting that women should be "forced" to have kids, however, if they don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:45 PM |
| – | Do you value the opposite gender for their intrinsic worth and dignity? If so, could you learn to love someone who is of the opposite gender based on that?Yes, I certainly care about women's intrinsic worth and dignity, for this reason I find it so sad that in some nations parents choose to abort their daughters. I think life is sacred, regardless of the person's gender. I also find it so sad that in most countries (regardless if they are "feminist" or "traditional") they send men to die in ridiculous wars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:03 AM |
| – | Despite its history, women are the major winners of polygamy and average men are the losers.So poor women in those societies survive by marrying rich guys. Now, how do poor guys survive in those societies? Do they just die from starvation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What would need to change in your life for you to attain a partner you ultimately desire? What’s stopping those things from happening?Maybe I am mistaken, but I think men are usually judged on things are tremendously hard to change such as height, eye color, social status, humor skills, etc.. A woman is not going to like a guy who lacks all those traits just because he has good habits. Now, I am very glad that women are usually judged on things they can control such as their habits regarding diet, exercise, hygiene, whether they do drugs or drink alcohol, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:42 AM |
| -5 | Men committing majority of violent crimes consumes more tax payer money that single momsI won't deny that men commit a ton of crime, however, just like there was a time when owning slaves or killing jews was "legal", in the same way we live in a corrupt society where aborting children is "legal", which means that women who abort kids are never arrested nor incarcerated. My guess is that the number of women who abort kids is significantly larger than the number of men who commit any type of crime. Now, I realize that some women abort their kids because they are encouraged by their b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Most modern men lack the emotional maturity needed to raise a healthy and successful child in today's worldI think you make a very good point. The reason most men in today's society don't have what it takes to be a good father or husband has to do with the fact that a large percentage of children are being raised by single mothers, which means most boys have never had a father figure. So, if a boy never had a father and never saw his mother with a husband, how on earth can we expect him to become a good father or husband when he grows up? Now, I am not blaming women for the fact that most kids are be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itVery respectfully, I’d like to say that you don’t know what you’re talking about. Do you really think the average man wouldn’t want to date a woman who is homely, feminine, chaste, nurturing, caring, etc.? Now, I don’t think the average man is interested in marrying a woman he doesn’t find physically attractive. However, I believe it’s relatively easy for a woman to be considered 'attractive' from a man’s perspective—all she has to do is maintain good habits regarding diet, exercise, and hygiene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:23 PM |
| 3 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeMaybe you're right.. But if I understand correctly, you're implying that women are living celibate lives, which would be a good thing, if they don't intend to get married (same thing applies to men), however, I think women are engaging in premarital sex, getting pregnant and then aborting those kiddos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Men don't "fetishize" Asian women. In fact, women (even Asian women) tend to be disproportionately interested in white men.Would you really say that Japanese or Argentinian folks are "people of color"? Some East Asians and South Americans are indeed "people of color", but many of them, are not. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Men don't "fetishize" Asian women. In fact, women (even Asian women) tend to be disproportionately interested in white men.Funny, when women do it, it's a "preference", but if a man does it, then it's called a "fetish". Women caring about a man's height is certainly an example of a fetish. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Just a little rantHi friend. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling down. I'm also sorry that your previous marriage came to an end. Indeed, we men are rarely, if ever, complimented., yet, most women are showered with compliments every day.. For this reason I wonder why men compliment women so much. Please notice that whenever a woman posts a picture of herself on Reddit she literally gets like 1,000 replies where she is told "you're so hot!!!" even if she weights 400 pounds. I think we men should be complimenting… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/23 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Strong Independent Women Still Won't Make The First MoveIt's interesting to read the comment from someone as respectful as yourself. I believe that sometimes men might hesitate to approach a woman out of concern about not wanting to disrespect her. This hesitation may stem from the common notion that women feel disrespected if asked out by a man they don't find physically attractive. Additionally, it's possible that you're quite beautiful, leading men to assume that you might already be in a relationship. Now, women don't make moves on men because st… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 06:52 AM |
| 2 | I need some input.Hi. How are you? I found your post to be of great value, and I don't understand why some people disliked it. Now, I'm a man and I believe that many women enjoy several advantages, such as getting jobs due to gender-related preferences in certain cases, or laws that may be biased in their favor. They also might not have to worry about their height or social skills, among other things. However, I also believe that women face some challenges, like the possibility of being impregnated and then aband… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 06:41 AM |
| 1 | I need some input.I can't comprehend why they claim that women are more likely than men to be victims of crime when statistics show that: "In the U.S., crime statistics from 1976 onwards show that men are overrepresented as victims in homicide involving both male and female offenders (74.9% of victims are male). Men also make up the majority (88%) of homicide perpetrators, regardless if the victim is female or male." Women are extremely unlikely to be attacked by a strange man! The person most likely to attack a … | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | I need some input."the coms of being a women ie; not being able to walk comfortably at night," Why do so many people say this??? why? It reminds me of people who say that the "world is overpopulated" when statistics show that most nations are suffering from LOW birth rates. A Wikipedia article reveals that: "In the U.S., crime statistics from 1976 onwards show that men are overrepresented as victims in homicide involving both male and female offenders (74.9% of victims are male). Men also make up the majority (… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Paternity tests are illegal in my country (France) to ensure the personnal privacy of the mother and the wellbeing of the child.Why is France like this? I can't believe your country that produced so many saints in the past is now a country where morals are seen as something unnecessary. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 06:09 AM |
| 3 | USA: Florida mum kills her two children and herself in murder-suicide after losing custody battleI think some of the guys who post on this subreddit are liberal, so I don't think you will like what I'm going to say. This woman's behavior is a consequence of the "pro choice" culture that teaches that children are the "property" of their mothers. What I find ironic is that these people who are "pro choice" absolutely hate it when they hear about countries where abortion targets baby GIRLS. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 06:04 AM |
| 33 | Strong Independent Women Still Won't Make The First MoveI once read something like, "the difference between an autistic man and an autistic woman is that the woman is married and has kids". I totally agree with those words.. In order for a man to have any possibility of having a love life, he NEEDS to have social skills, leadership skills, humor skills, etc, if he doesn't have those skills, then his likelihood of ever finding love is close to zero percent. The same principle doesn't apply to women.. It makes me sad that men are judged on these things… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 05:46 AM |
| 12 | Women murder-suicides her TWO children AND herself, after losing custody of just ONE of those children.What are you saying? did you read the article? if you don't trust that source then Google "Brandy Hutchins". | /r/MensRights | 30/08/23 05:41 AM |
| 2 | I need advice on complimenting men.You're right, but she could easily compliment a guy who is a lot younger or older than her, and it is very likely that he would truly appreciate such a compliment. Some years ago, I received a genuine compliment from an elderly lady in church, I obviously didn't think that she was flirting with me.. Her compliment meant a lot to me! I still think about that day! though, sometimes I wonder if she had vision problems. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 10:28 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on complimenting men.Well, you could compliment a guy who is a lot younger or older than you... So, if you're 30 years old, you could compliment a guy who is 14 years old (that might be the only compliment he will ever hear in his life) or you could compliment an 80 year old man (that might be the only compliment he has ever received in his lifetime). | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Spanish football federation president Luis Rubiales suspended over this. That's it. That's all it took to destroy him. With the risk of sounding petty, how many times have we seen women do much worse and nothing happened?Isn't Spain a country where people kiss on the checks to say "hello" or "good bye"? if they consider kisses on the cheeks an everyday thing, then why would it be strange if they kiss on the lips to celebrate something big? Interesting how nobody cared when a female journalist grabbed David Beckham's genitals, yet they make a big deal about a kiss. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Spanish football federation president Luis Rubiales suspended over this. That's it. That's all it took to destroy him. With the risk of sounding petty, how many times have we seen women do much worse and nothing happened?How about the time when a female journalist grabbed David Beckham's genitals? You can find the video on YouTube, which is titled "The Thing We All Wanted to Do - Grab David Beckham's Dick!" | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Are Any Of These Real?Well, I personally think that whenever a 'transwoman" destroys women in sports or is chosen as "woman of the year", we are witnessing patriarchy; nonetheless, feminists support transgenderism. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 08:18 PM |
| 58 | Women have free reign to disrespect men online.So let me guess... She's obese.. She's on welfare. She's a single mother of four kids. She disrespects police officers and then plays the victim card.. Man, even if she hadn't said "telling men that they are trash", I wonder what kind of man would even consider a relationship with such a woman! Are there men with such low expectations for women? I always hear how easy women have it when it comes to dating, however, it surprises me that even women with all those defects would have a bunch of me… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Is it true women were not seen as intrinsically valuable in most religions?As a Catholic Christian, I constantly hear this claim from atheists... I think they make this claim because in most religions, virginity (especially female virginity) until marriage is encouraged, and as we know, most liberals/atheists celebrate promiscuity.. But does such claim make any sense? Let's see.. Which gender was most likely to be crucified? How many times were baby boys murdered in the Bible? Now, were a ton of baby girls ever murdered in the Bible? Were women circumcised? In Biblical… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | So.. The Spanish world cup regarding womens football.. the infamous kiss.This doesn't apply to the vast majority of male soccer players. As for female soccer players, it is indeed a fact that a large percentage of them are homosexual. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Finding friends on reddit as a man is a completely different experience to women.What makes you think that those women are being contacted by "creeps"? I'm sorry but I don't understand men who call other men fellow men names. Now, something I have noticed on reddit and other social media networks is that whenever a woman posts a picture of herself, she receives tons of replies from both men and women telling her how "hot" and "sexy" she is, even if she weights 400 pounds! Men never get that kind of attention... For this reason, I always try to compliment men on reddit. Havin… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 04:50 PM |
| 14 | White Male privilege on the streets of PortlandLiberal cities scare me so much! Portland should be grateful that Texas isn't busing illegal immigrants to that city. You mentioned that ] "Trans and lgbtq advocacy is advertised everywhere." So I don't want to imagine what kids are being taught in Portland's schools. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to be tall?Thank you for sharing this information, I wasn't aware of those statistics. However, among the women who are abused (I'm not saying that there are more abused wives than abused husbands), the person most likely to abuse them is their husband. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to be tall?Since you're a man, I'm not surprised that you don't judge the opposite gender based on their height. Thank you for your reply. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to be tall?Maybe if women didn't judge men on height or social status, we would see a decrease in the rates of single motherhood, abortion, divorce, etc. Did you know that the man most likely to abuse a woman is her husband? https://www.google.com/books/edition/California_Court_of_Appeal_1st_Appellate/RE5EDWcBCMoC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22man+most+likely+to+abuse%22&pg=PA51&printsec=frontcover I think this is what happens when a man's height is prioritized over more important things such as his morals, charact… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Why are men expected to be tall?That's ironic considering that the person most likely to physically abuse a woman is not some random man from the streets but rather the man she chose as a romantic partner. Furthermore, the man most likely to abuse a child is mom's new boyfriend. https://www.google.com/books/edition/California_Court_of_Appeal_1st_Appellate/RE5EDWcBCMoC?hl=en&gbpv=1&dq=%22man+most+likely+to+abuse%22&pg=PA51&printsec=frontcover https://www.photius.com/feminocracy/facts\_on\_fatherless\_kids.html | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to be tall?"However, that's not to say shorter men can't be attractive. " You're funny. Please, ask your female relatives if they would date a "confident and funny' man who is 1 foot shorter than them. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:24 PM |
| 7 | Why are men expected to be tall?I'm sorry, but I don't understand women who claim that they don't care about a man's height, yet they let us know that their boyfriend is 6'2 or 6'3 tall. I'm not saying this just for you, I have encountered several women like you on the internet. I think (as sad as it sounds) that literally 99.9% of women judge men on height.. How do I know this for a fact? because I have female relatives! They not only judge their romantic partners on height, but additionally, they make a big deal about their … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:20 PM |
| 9 | Why are men expected to be tall?Excellent point!! I think they would probably stop talking about "unfair beauty standards" if 100% of men were ok with dating/marrying a woman who spends her time eating McDonalds and watching TV. Now, let's forget about how most men are turned off by such women (after all, what men desire has zero importance according to many people); however, let's consider how children are affected when they have a parent who is addicted to food and a sedentary lifestyle! Those kids usually end up becoming ob… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Why are men expected to be tall?I find your observation interesting considering that society is always labeling men as "superficial" whereas women are perceived as "romantic", | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to be tall?Are you a woman? could you actually fall in love with a man who is 4 inches shorter than you? I'm asking you this question regardless if you are 6 feet tall or 5 feet tall. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 01:47 PM |
| 3 | To a woman there’s such thing as a man that’s too short but there’s no such thing as a man that’s too tallwow, isn't 6'3 literally 7 inches taller than you? that's close to 18 cms!!! Why do most women "need" someone taller than them? | /r/MensRights | 26/08/23 11:39 PM |
| 0 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenI respectfully disagree with the notion that people inevitably look bad as they age. In my perspective, factors such as abstaining from alcohol, smoking, and promiscuity throughout their lives, coupled with a commitment to regular exercise encompassing cardio, weightlifting, and core strengthening exercises, along with a balanced and nutritious diet, can help a person look good , regardless of their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenI think the person who created this thread is not talking about rich people who can afford procedures such as Botox or eyelash extensions. Now, I certainly believe that staying away from drinking (and smoking, gluttony, etc.) helps a person to age well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I may get a lot of hate for it but I legitimately think in the older ages most men look better than womenInteresting thread. Even if you might be right, I think the reality is that most men don't care about their fitness or skin, This might be because even if a man is fit and takes care of his appearance, he is unlikely to ever receive a compliment, so I guess most men develop the mindset, "why bother?" As for (many) women, unfortunately, lots of people celebrate female obesity, they even created the "body positivity movement" to celebrate gluttony.. Additionally, whenever a woman (regardless of he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Men cuck themselves every time they watch pornAnd how do you define "good" and "evil"? I'm just asking since many people used to consider slavery and segregation "good" things, just like nowadays, people consider abortion, pornography, premarital sex, or homosexual sex "good things". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's womenTypically looney tunes lefties. Regarding point number 4, why would this be a problem? The men who are looking for these types of "relationships" are also lefties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 08:35 PM |
| 5 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Most western nations have similar problems to Canada's, we are all dealing with extremely low birth rates, and as a result, liberal politicians are welcoming tons of people from other nations.. What is ironic, is that these same politicians (and people who sympathize with that ideology) defend abortion by claiming that the world is "overpopulated.". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:29 PM |
| 8 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?How strange that they would associate "living their best life" with having men use their bodies as objects, now, I realize they are adults and nobody should tell them what to do, having said this, it's sad when kids (outside and inside the womb) end up paying a price for society's hook-up culture. Now, not only kids suffer as a result of this (as if that wasn't bad enough) but society as a whole also suffers, consider the fact that most people in jail were raised by single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:22 PM |
| -10 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?May I ask how premarital sex, or, as you put it, " having a few hookups, can be fun? fun for whom? Society (especially children) don't benefit at all when people are "having a few hook ups" since this causes abortions along with single motherhood which is linked with poverty. Also, were you aware that most people in jail were raised by single mothers? I realize that people who defend these lifestyles usually claim that those sad consequences can be prevented if people are "responsible" and use c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:14 PM |
| 4 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyThank you for sharing your thoughts. I have female relatives, and they certainly care about a man's height. Maybe I'm mistaken but I think that most women wouldn't want to date/marry a man shorter than them. Now, I have never ever heard a woman say "I want to marry a virgin man", usually women don't care about a man's sexual past, whereas other women strongly prefer a man who is "experienced" and they are vocal about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyDo you have any sources that back up such a statement? All my life, I have heard (from experts) that children benefit a lot when they are conceived in the marital bed and then raised by their biological parents. " More than 30 years of research show that when children are living with their married, biological parents, they have better physical, emotional, and academic well-being (Anderson, 2014, Sandstrom & Huerta, 2013). Studies have shown that people live longer, have less stress, and are more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyPlease take the time to study the divorce rates among people who save their virginity for marriage and among people who engage in premarital sex. I also invite you to read a study that concluded that people who save their virginity for marriage have happier marriages than those who don't. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:10 PM |
| 8 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyIt would sure be nice if women "judged" men on purity, my guess is that this would encourage at least some men to be virgins until marriage, but the reality is that most women don't care about this.. Women seem to be more concerned about a man's humor skills, social skills, height, etc. If anything, I have heard women state that they have a preference for "experienced men"! what a weird thing to say! and then they act surprised when these men cheat on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:07 PM |
| 3 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyAccording to your "logic", only an "insecure" husband or wife would make a big deal about his/her spouse cheating on them, right? They are afraid of being "compared" to other people, is this how you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyWell, according to your "logic" a husband or wife, should feel "lucky" if their spouse engages in extramarital sex in order to "gain more experience" from a "pro", right? Were you aware that people who save their virginity for marriage have very low rates of divorce? Were you aware that people who save their virginity for marriage have happier marriages than people who engage in premarital sex? https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyPeople who save their virginity for marriage have low rates of divorce, they also report having happy marriages. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:57 PM |
| 5 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyWhat "stigma"? it's a fact that premarital sex causes single motherhood, abortions, STDs, increases likelihood of divorce, etc. Now, how do you know that the person who created this thread engages in premarital sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:55 PM |
| 0 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyEnjoying sex? because of this mentality (among people of BOTH genders), we have such high rates of single motherhood, abortion, STDs, divorces, etc. Sex belongs in the marital bed and nowhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:38 PM |
| 9 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyI don't understand your post, could you please elaborate a little more? How are these men "in no position for marriage"? yet they are in a position to have premarital sex and cause high rates of single motherhood and abortion? I'm just asking given that statistics show that the U.S. has very high rates of single motherhood and abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyThis is indeed a fact, but children benefit even more when they are conceived in the marital bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:33 PM |
| 2 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyThis is an interesting post. Statistics show that people who engage in premarital sex have high divorce rates, this is especially the case for women, but it also applies to men. I'm Catholic and my faith teaches that Matrimony is a sacrament , but we are also taught that sex belongs in the marital bed. Now, the way I see it, most people care little about religion, this might explain why most American kids are born out of wedlock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?As a man, the answer is, of course I would.. I'm not so shallow/superficial to judge a human being on things they don't have any control over, such as their genetic traits. Based on the pictures you provided of those women, I'd conclude that they aren't addicted to food, alcohol, gambling, drugs, etc so that's something I would find attractive about them, Also, I don't think those women are a good representation of the "average American woman" since our country has high rates of obesity and alco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsStatistics show that people who save their virginity for marriage have low rates of divorce, this applies to both genders but especially to women. Now, "modern people" will argue that they have low rates of divorce because they are "religious freaks" who would rather tolerate a miserable marriage than get a divorce, yet a study found that people who saved their virginity for marriage are more likely to report having a marriage than people who didn't save their virginity for marriage. Please Goog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceI guess we all define what is "attractive" differently. I personally couldn't care less how a woman dresses or how she styles her hair. My question is, how does she look when she wakes up? or when she is out of the shower? Does she look fit? Does her body have a low body fat percentage? Does her body communicate that she doesn't drink alcohol or eat fast food? At the end of the day, these things not only make a person look good, but additionally, they benefit their HEALTH! whereas wearing fancy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?I have never heard a woman say that she wants a healthy man, unless she is mad because she heard a man say that he wants a fit woman. Women are extremely vocal about how they want a tall man (trust me, I know this because I have female relatives) , but they never say anything about wanting a healthy man, which is sad because when a person actually cares about another person then he or she would encourage that other person to be healthy. Please tell me something, when the average woman describe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?Good morning. Why are you making it sound as if women cared about a man's weight? I have never heard a woman say, "I want a fit man," "I want a skinny man," or "I want a man with a healthy BMI." Yet, they are very vocal about how they want a man who is tall, a man of x race, a man who is funny, a man with good social skills, or a man with a good job. Now, do fat man really want to be with a woman who eats vegetables, fruits, fasts, does cardio, lifts weights etc.? I highly doubt it... If he is f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?Why is it odd? isn't this like short women lusting after tall men? I realize that this comparison makes little sense since height is a genetic trait that says nothing about a person's health, whereas our weight says a lot about our health and habits. Now, it's not men's fault if most women have little concern about a man's weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfI partially agree with you. I agree with you about how women don't benefit from having ex-boyfriends. For this reason, most cultures throughout history have discouraged premarital sex, but feminism somehow believes that premarital sex benefits women. This movement believes that single motherhood, abortions and STDs benefit women. Very strange. Now, I don't agree with you when you say that " An ex-girlfriend makes a man more experienced, raises his SMV, and losing time with the wrong woman does n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfWomen are EXPECTED to have kids? where? don't all western nation promote contraceptives and abortion? isn't abortion a "woman's choice"? I don't understand your point of view. Futhermore, to prove my point, all you have to do is find out the birth rates in most nations... and you will see that contrary to what liberalism teaches, most nations are suffering from LOW birth rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfIt's ironic, on the one hand, liberalism (which is the political affiliation that most women from this subreddit associate with) claim that pregnancy is something "humiliating" for women, and as a result, they promote contraceptives and abortions, which explains the very, very low birth rates in most nations (yet somehow the world is "overpopulated", according to these people), yet on the other hand, these same people claim that women are sacrificing a lot when getting married (getting married? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfIf men get more out of sex than women, then why do women even entertain the idea of premarital sex? Most kids in the U.S. are conceived out of wedlock. Single motherhood is associated with poverty. Not to mention all the abortions. Lastly, women are more likely than men to catch an STD. So, considering all these things I just mentioned plus what you said, I can't help but wonder why women have sex outside of the marital bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Current Obesity statistics USA and WorldwideThank you for sharing your wisdom, but in that case maybe we could compromise and say that BMI and body fat percentage are both important? I ask because I know some people are "skinny fat" so their bmi might be "low" but when they take their t-shirt off you can see that they carry a lot of body fat in their stomach and I don't think that's a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Current Obesity statistics USA and WorldwideThe reality is that men care a lot less about women's weight than women do about men's height... When a woman describes her "ideal" man, one of the first things that comes out of their mouths is "he must be tall", whereas when a man describes his "ideal" woman he is unlikely to mention anything about her weight or even about her looks.. Now, I realize that comparing weight with height is incoherent and absurd since our body weight says a lot about our health, habits and personality whereas our h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Current Obesity statistics USA and WorldwideMen are ALSO judged by our looks! but we are judges on our GENETIC traits! we are judged on things we can't do much about such as our height, skin color, amount of hair on our heads, eye color etc.. Women, on the other hand, are "judged" on things any person should be concerned about, such as their weight, hygiene, attitude, etc. If they want to ignore those areas of their lives, they are obviously free to do so, but they shouldn't be surprised when their mental or physical health deteriorates a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Current Obesity statistics USA and WorldwideI love working out (lifting weights, doing cardio, etc.), and indeed, the BMI isn't a useful tool for people who workout; a better tool would be to calculate the body fat percentage. However, the vast majority of people aren't into working out! For those people, the BMI is an excellent tool to evaluate their health. Now, regarding your first paragraph, for some strange reason, the average woman doesn't seem to care much about a man's weight; they're more concerned with things that he can't con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:34 PM |
| 3 | The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault.I don't think those males are doing women a favor whenever a fat woman posts a picture of herself and tons of men tell her that she is "hot", therefore making her lose any encouragement and motivation to lose weight. Being overweight is associated with many health issues, so I think these men should think with their brains when showering overweight women with those "compliments". Now, I wouldn't have anything against those males if they were indeed interested in those women (not just talking abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 09:20 PM |
| – | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessSo if men don't say those things out loud then what's the point of AngelCrumb's post? is she saying that men think those things to themselves? and how does she know such thing if she isn't a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?I already explained my point... It is hypocrite and incoherent for women to whine about the "slut stud" double standard and at the same time admire, respect and desire men who engage in premarital sex... You are obviously free to desire whoever you wish, that's your choice, but don't complain about the slut stud double standard..... and if you don't care about this double standard either then you are also a very rare woman because most women get hysterical about it.... and if you don't believe j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?Well, you won the lottery!!! most women would like a husband like yours... and I'm not lying!!! I know what I'm talking about, I have female relatives! Congratulations! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?She wants a man who has engaged in premarital sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?Have you considered that maybe inexperienced men aren't interested in gaining sexual experience before marriage? if they cared about it so much they could easily have visited a prostitute a long time ago. I'm willing to bet that a large percentage of women are just like you, they want an experienced man in bed yet these same women whine about the slut/stud double standard, according to these women, men feel admiration and respect towards promiscuous men... which is absurd... Any normal man doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?Wowwww so I guess he needs to be like one foot taller than you? Whatever, I understand those are your "preferences"... I just find it sad when my female relatives care so much about a man's height or race EVEN when they have discovered that these men are far from being "perfect". Now, I have bad news for you... If you visit a dating site (or if you met my female relatives) you would discover that 99% of women want the same man you're looking for, however, the "sad reality" is that most men don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Can you list and describe all your “types”?I find it interesting that women are attracted to “experienced men” in bed and then these same women whine about “slut stud double standard”. The ones who admire promiscuous men AREN’T fellow men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessWow considering in today’s society , what kind of men would dare to say that they want that kind of woman ? I personally have never heard a man saying (at least publicly) that he wants a woman with those characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?I’m willing to bet a large amount of money that most men who engage in premarital sex are “pro choice”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of?As a man, I would like to see other men refrain from engaging in premarital sex, which leads to single motherhood, abortions, STDs, and other problems. I would also like men to stop watching pornography, which is an addiction that destroys our brains and is also linked to human trafficking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?"You think most men will proudly introduce their homeless girlfriend to friends and family? Nope." Throughout history men have never had any problem marrying jobless women... To this day, you can find men who travel to third world countries in order to find love... You claim that women don't want a protector, yet when women describe their "ideal man" one of the first things that comes out of their mouths is "he must be tall" and again, when you ask them why they like tall men so much they will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:50 AM |
| – | What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"?Well. To begin with, many men use porn to satisfy their "needs," which is unfortunate because porn destroys our brains. Second, reading women's profiles on online dating sites reveals that the majority of them are looking for the same man: tall, confident, funny, outgoing, and so on. When a man who lacks those characteristics learns that women want a man who looks/acts nothing like him, he is bound to be disappointed and discouraged, and as a result, he loses interest in approaching women, wheth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?What I said was that women don't want a homeless man or an autistic man or a short man because those men can't fulfil men's traditional gender roles... Women want a protector, a provider a leader. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?You sure want traditional man unless you aren't interested in a boyfriend/husband... if that's the case you are a very unique woman.. Most women want a boyfriend or husband but they don't want as a boyfriend/husband a man who is shorter than them or a man who is homeless or a man who is autistic or a man who lacks confidence... These type of men are the opposite of what they want! they want a protector, provider, leader etc! If you ask women why they care so much about a man's height, 99% of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?I feel sorry for men from that era!!! They worked very hard to support their families... Furthermore, they had to be prepared to be called to war... and yet people from today stereotype those men as "wifebeaters".. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?The problem is that many women don't even realize that they want a traditional man!! I guarantee you that 99.9% of women DON'T want a man who is shorter than them or a homeless man or an autistic man or an insecure man.. Those traits are the opposite of what a traditional man is according to their minds !! If you ask 100 women why they care so much about a man's height, one of their first responses will be "I want a protector".. They also despise autistic men because again, those men don't make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Well, I'm not surprised that men would like to have kids early in life considering that many men tend to die way earlier than women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:33 PM |
| -1 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?How common are couples in which the man is a decade or even two decades her senior? Such couples are uncommon in real life... Given how much women value a man's height, social status, social skills, humor skills, and so on, I can't help but think that if a woman marries a man who is one or two decades her senior, it must be because she couldn't resist his height, humor skills, social status, or some other superficial trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?"Most of those guys typically want traditional submissive women" Which guys are you referring to?????/ We live in a society where a huge percentage of the male population supports abortion, premarital sex, has zero interest in commitment etc... I wonder what percentage of men want a "traditional woman" when at the same time most men want premarital sex.... A basic trait that a traditional woman possesses is her virginity which she keeps until marriage. It would be a great thing if men indeed w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:21 PM |
| -2 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Perhaps my comment will be removed... While I agree with you completely, isn't it true that liberals defend abortion by claiming that pregnancy is a form of "slavery"? So, if carrying a child in your womb for 9 months is considered "slavery," what can we say about a man who provides for his children for at least 18 years? Let's not forget that just like many women/men are "pro choice" when it comes to pregnancy in the same way some men are "pro choice" when it comes to providing for their kids..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?If women were smarter they would also care about a man's body fat percentage! a person's body fat percentage reveals a great deal about his habits!!!!!! You might think that men are "shallow" and "superficial" for "judging" women based on their body fat percentage—something most of us can control by eating healthy and exercising—but I don't think caring about such a trait makes a man "shallow." To me, it makes perfect sense if a man wants a healthy woman who won't develop serious health issues i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it worst for a married man to get another woman pregnant, or for a married woman to get pregnant by another man?This is a "politically correct" forum, so they will tell you that both are "equally" bad..Any form of sexual activity outside of the marital bed (premarital or extramarital) is extremely harmful to society. Now, you asked "which one is worse," and I'd say that a married woman getting pregnant by another man is worse because often the husbands are never informed that the child isn't theirs! Now, if a married man impregnates another woman, this is not going to cause his wife to be fooled into prov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What is the equivalent of the 666 rule (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack) for women?Hi. If a woman wants a man to meet the 666 rule (I think some of them do), then I can't help but wonder what she is going to do if he goes bankrupt or if he has an accident and becomes paralyzed from the waist down. Now, I think it's understandable if a woman gains weight as a result of being pregnant, but I'd assume that after one year she would be able to get rid of most of that weight gain; if she doesn't, then her health will suffer as a result of it. I think a loving and concerned husband w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:46 AM |
| 4 | What is the equivalent of the 666 rule (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack) for women?I think most men don't judge women on things like that.... especially things that are outside of a person's control such as height or social status. Now, I had already heard about the 666 rule but what I had heard was that one of the 6s was for penis size (6 inches) and not for 6 pack which to me makes sense, they want a man who is perfect in the genetics department... a six pack has little to do with genetics and has more to do with diet and exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Why is race and height matter so much in the dating sceneWell, I can find beauty in a woman regardless of her race. If I ever judged a human being based on genetic traits, I would be disappointed in myself.Now, I have no problem admitting that I "judge" women and people in general (even myself) on things we all have control over, such as our habits regarding diet, exercise, hygiene, and also our morals. Now, I find it interesting how you seem unhappy about how some men judge women on their skin color, yet you judge men on height... How is judging a pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What are your most important attributes in a women?1- Values/morals or personality.... so not "pro choice" or "pro premarital sex" 2- N count 3 Weight- I care about weight because I'm a fit person and I can't help but associate fatness with unhealthy habits and serious health issues... furthermore, if she's overweight then chances are that we won't have much in common since I love exercising , eating healthy, fasting etc and I don't think an overweight person does those things. 4- Looks 5 Age 6 career... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Women need scarcity to respect and love a man. Men need abundance.Wow why would a woman choose a man like that? just because of his height and looks? so sad that some women place such a high emphasis on those superficial things.... I wonder how common is for women to date /marry men like the one you described.... could this explain the high rates of divorce, single motherhood and abortion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Does it make me a misogynist if I hate only certain women?propyl21: You seem to have so much hatred in your heart. Why? I decided to check your posts since you found so "offensive" my post where I asked why women care so much about height and at the same time care so little about body weight... Since you seem to find most posts "offensive," maybe you should stop commenting on Reddit or on this subreddit... A good thing about this subreddit is that people have freedom of speech. So YOU are not allowed to violate our right to express ourselves. HardTruth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menThat's an interesting reply! I will never understand how it can be that men who are in jail for having committed horrible crimes, often receive love letters from women! I can't imagine a man being interested in a woman who murdered her husband or child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women peak in their late teens/early twenties, while men peak more in their thirties?If a man is tall, has money, and is the "right race," he will always be at his "peak." However, obviously, very few men meet such "requirements.".. Now, I personally can find beauty in any woman, regardless of her age, provided she isn't addicted to food, drugs, alcohol, laziness, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 07:41 PM |
| 0 | What if dating gets easier for short men?I have never heard a man say, "I want a woman with an hourglass figure." As a matter of fact, some men have a fetish for obese or overweight women, and my guess is that those women don't have an "hourglass figure." I don't even know what "hourglass figure" means, I assume it must be a synonym of "fit.". Now, it is true that most men would prefer a woman who isn't addicted to food, just like they would also prefer a woman who isn't addicted to alcohol or drugs, not necessarily because it's "hot,"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:17 AM |
| 7 | Women being loyal and contributing to the war effortWhy do you consider this post "useless and pathetic"? is it based on a lie? if so, I totally agree with you.. If it's not based on a lie but on something true then I fail to understand your point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 02:17 AM |
| 0 | NO HYMEN??? NO DIAMOND!!!I don't think there's any reason for him to demand such thing.. If she has engaged in premarital sex, why would she want to be with such "close minded" man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | NO HYMEN??? NO DIAMOND!!!Meaningless construct??? So you like having high rates of aborted kids, single motherhood, divorce, and STDs? (I mentioned divorces since studies show that people who engage in premarital activities have high divorce rates.) Now, she can just be an honest person and let the man know whether she is a virgin; if she isn't a virgin, most likely she isn't going to want to be with such a "close minded" man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:48 AM |
| 7 | Men age like wine, women age like...Hi. Obviously, all people will age at some point in their lives; however, I think there's a difference between letting yourself go and aging gracefully. Now, maybe I'm wrong in what I'm about to say, but I think many men more than women exercise , eat healthy, abstain from alcohol, etc... which obviously causes some men to age "better" than some women. Now, women have a movement that celebrates all their unhealthy behaviors! That's so sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:42 AM |
| 4 | Women strategy to get a husbandIt's so sad when people abuse and disrespect their bodies in such a way. Food addicts remind me of drug addicts or alcoholics, these people need help, and we shouldn't be celebrating their unhealthy behaviors that will eventually destroy their health, not to mention that obese parents don't set a good example for their kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:31 AM |
| -1 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.You make it sound as if what you stated was a fact; it's just your personal opinion, and sometimes it's better to keep our personal opinions to ourselves in order to not disrespect other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:26 AM |
| 19 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.Aren't Asian men unlikely to commit domestic violence, drink alcohol, etc.? If they were such bad people, wouldn't there be more of them in U.S. prisons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.What if they're short? what if they are homeless? what if they're autistic? Have you noticed that most homeless men tend to be white? I think some women would be more likely to date these men if there was a shortage of white men in the U.S. but that's not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:20 AM |
| 5 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.How often do you hear of western women traveling to Asian nations in order to find love? How often do you hear western women say "Asian men are hot"? Stop being "politically correct.". I'm not Asian, but it's a fact that in western nations, the "ideal" man is tall and white. I have female relatives who aren't shy when they let the whole family know how much they desire these guys. Similarly, women on dating sites aren't afraid to tell everyone that they want a guy with those genetic traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:16 AM |
| 11 | Brutal racepill for Asian men.Something I have noticed among my female relatives is that they care a lot about a man's height and race. I fail to understand how those things are "important.".. Sometimes I hear women claim that men "have no standards," but I digress! Just because we are unlikely to judge women on their genetic traits doesn't mean we don't judge women on other things. I bet most men want a woman who is loyal, polite, compassionate, etc. Also, most men aren't into women who are addicted to food, drugs, alcohol,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Reddit Women and Men's StandardsWouldn't she want to be honest about it? why would she want a relationship based on a lie? why would she want to be with a "shallow" man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Dating success flowchart.Did you create that flowchart? if so, good job! Now, I'm not interested in meaningless dating... however, I think your chart can also be used to predict the likelihood of a person getting married or reproducing. A study found that "8,000 years ago, 17 women reproduced for every one man". (https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:51 AM |
| 8 | Don't wait too long sis!Aren't many of those women already single mothers by the age of 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.I think you are making things up . I have never ever heard a man say that he wants a woman of a certain age or claim that he cares about whether she has a career or is a homemaker . Now, a small percentage of men certainly want a virgin woman as a wife .. I fail to understand women who want an “experienced” man as a husband and then complain when he is unfaithful .. Premarital or extramarital sex are similar since they both take place outside of the marital bed so it’s absurd to glorify premarit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.Wow you are so aggressive. Judging by your words , I can tell that just like me ,you have never ever visited a Muslim country ..all you know about those countries comes from tv or movies . If what you said was true then Muslim nations would have high rates of single motherhood or aborted kids however that’s not the case . Obviously I’m aware of cases where men in muslim countries have raped girls .. this also occurs in western nations but I don’t think these cases are common . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Average PPD woman when you post anything slightly pro maleHow can they be “prepared” if they don’t have a husband ? Children need a father and a mother .. liberals are selfish when they claim that single motherhood is a good thing or when they claim that 2 men or 2 women can raise a kid, they are selfish because studies show that the best environment for a child is a home where the two biological parents married to each other. Furthermore , the percentage of single mothers living in poverty is extremely high but at least in some nations they receive we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.No, I have never lived in a Muslim country however I know that in Muslim nations they have extremely low rates of single motherhood ,aborted kids and people with STDs. Also , considering how “controlling” are Muslim countries when it comes to women , I highly doubt that anyone in those countries engages in premarital sex . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.I hope you don't mind my comment, but you remind me of short women who dislike short men (even if those short men are taller than them). But anyways, at the end of the day, fatness is a choice, you can at any moment choose to lose weight, whereas height is a genetic trait . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:58 AM |
| 4 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.You're right, but in today's society (ironically, this doesn't occur in "patriarchal" societies such as Muslim countries) men can "choose" to have premarital sex, one-night stands/friends with benefits, etc. and then dump her afterwards; then she is the one who will have to deal with some "unwanted pregnancy"; she can "choose" to abort the kid, a "procedure" that many women will never forget, or she can become a single mother, which is often linked with poverty. Additionally, studies show that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:54 AM |
| 6 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.Is their ego really inflated by being approached by men who obviously only want to use their bodies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:49 AM |
| 3 | why won't you date high n girls?Don't they at some point desire to settle down , especially if they're single mothers, which is often the case? Now, the person who asked the question didn't specify what he meant by "date.".. I assume he means "marry," or else, he would just be another man that she allows to use her as an object. It is very sad that our liberal society encourages this craziness that leads to single motherhood, abortion, and STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Average PPD woman when you post anything slightly pro maleMy guess is that he posted such pic because most likely she is a single mother. Now, regardless of what liberals say, the reality is that society and children don't benefit when kids are raised by single mothers, though I appreciate the fact that these women didn't "choose" to abort their kids. And for the record, I don't think highly of those men who abandoned their kids and girlfriends (rarely wives). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Men are far more obsessed with height than women areHow tall are you? 7 feet tall? very tall men are as discriminated as shorter men... My sister is married, she married a tall man... She has always cared about men's height... I guess her 'perfect height" for a man is 6 feet.... One time she rejected a man because he was "too tall".. So I think you're mistaken... Most women care a lot about a man's height...but as I said... they dislike men who are "too tall" almost as much as they dislike shorter men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 06:14 PM |
| -1 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?I will never understand people who associate being "old" as a bad thing. As a guy, I don't think anything negative about women who are older than me... I realize that age is a trait a person doesn't have any control over.. just like height-- another trait that many women judge men on. Now, you didn't tell us anything about those men's height... Women are extremely vocal about how much they desire a tall man so if you're being approached by short men then I think those men are out of their mind..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 05:45 AM |
| 0 | What advantages does men have in the dating game?I respect your point of view however I believe that women who complain about "dating being hard" are referring to the fact that they have a hard time finding an almost perfect man.... since most women want a guy who is almost perfect..So, these women have a tough time when it comes to dating because of their own high standards and not because they are being rejected by men ..Now, for men dating is hard not because men are looking for some "perfect woman" but rather because a large percentage of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Unlimited sex partners prior to marriageWow . What does the Protestant denomination you were raised in think about abortion or pornography? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Unlimited sex partners prior to marriageAren't there some protestant denominations that celebrate "gay marriages"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 04:04 AM |
| -1 | For those of you who had fatherless homes, how did it affect you negatively?Hi. I'm sorry about the things you went through during your child's life. You said that you didn't trust in "tradition" What do you mean? Do you think that women and not men should be the ones dying in wars? Do you also refuse to use buildings that were built by male workers? Do you refuse to use roads that were built by men? Hopefully, you won't find those questions disrespectful. Why did you mention "religion"? Was your father a religious man? yet he was an alcoholic? I'm not aware of any reli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information?In real live hardly anyone cares if their partner had sex before they met. This kind of reminds me of people who are overweight and claim that it's nobody's business whether they're overweight. And they're right, however, shouldn't they care about their own weight? shouldn't a person want to be a virgin until marriage? obesity or promiscuity are linked to so many bad things... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Is there a male equivalent to having been “used up”?I have never ever heard a woman say anything negative about a promiscuous man... They sure have a problem with men who are unemployed, poor, short, unfunny, unconfident etc... but I have never heard a woman state that she dislikes promiscuous men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is there a male equivalent to having been “used up”?Low counts? what constitutes a "low count"? is it a synonymous of "virgin"? because I see a huge difference between someone who has had premarital sex with "only" 2 people vs a person who is saving his/her virginity for marriage. Either way, I have never heard a woman say that she wants a man who isn't a "man whore".... they are very vocal about how they want a man who is tall, funny, confident, with a nice job etc... but I have never heard a woman say that she has a problem with men who are pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Is there a male equivalent to having been “used up”?You said "having a lot of sex is not harmful." I assume you mean "lots of sex with different partners"; if so, you're very mistaken. Even secular studies show that premarital sex causes single motherhood, aborted kids, STDs, increased rates of divorce, etc., etc. Furthermore, most people in jail were raised by single mothers. Now, we live in a very feminist society. This movement is always ready to attack men. Yet, interestingly enough, even the most feminist women, are unlikely to ever say a ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Is there a male equivalent to having been “used up”?It's strange how most women care more about a man's height than about his virginity! Now, I have heard that women want a promiscuous man because they want to make sure that he knows what he is doing in bed.. ! so I guess they don't care either if he cheats since he is learning new tricks to satisfy their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Is there a male equivalent to having been “used up”?Was any of those men interested in knowing such information? was any of those men virgin? my guess is that they weren't ... most likely they were looking for premarital sex so why would they care about your sexual reputation? Now, if a man is a virgin, and he wants to get married then I think he would ask you about your sexual past... Now, because of your liberal bias, I assume you aren't interested in marriage... so you don't have to worry about ever encountering that kind of man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?When did I say anything about justifying what those men said? I was just wondering why some women show their half-naked bodies in public places.. particularly in areas where kids are present. If men did that, I would be asking the very same question. Fortunately, most men wear very conservative clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking.Hi. Forgive me, I don't fully understand your comment.. but I'm not black.. if I'm not mistaken, black women don't seem to have such a fascination for white men as asian and hispanic women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingNot really.. but anyways, I'm not referring only to white women, I'm also referring to east Asian women and brown Hispanic women; all those women (if they live in the U.S.) have a strong preference for white men. I think you're mistaken by believing that a man's fitness or how he dresses is more important than his skin color when it comes to attracting women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingYou're funny.. There have been studies that have concluded that most american women , regardless of race, desire a white husband. I guarantee you that if you visit a dating site you will encounter a greater amount of women saying "please be white" than "please be fit". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:14 PM |
| -5 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?When I go out for runs, I rarely, if ever, see other fellow male joggers shirtless, even if the weather is 110 Fahrenheit. Also, sometimes I see other women or kids walking or jogging... out of respect for them, I refuse to take my t-shirt off. I'm also the kind of person who refuses to park his car in front of other people's houses, I think that's so disrespectful... I don't understand people who do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:05 AM |
| -5 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?I wasn't justifying those men who made those remarks.. I was just wondering why some women dress like that. I'm pretty sure that most women would feel very uncomfortable if men exposed their half naked bodies in public places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:57 AM |
| -1 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?I just don't understand men or women who feel the need to expose their half naked bodies in public places.. Fortunately, people and laws don't tolerate men who dress like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:55 AM |
| -8 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?Can I ask you something? Why is it that some women feel the need to wear tight clothing? Or why do they wear extremely revealing clothing? (I'm pretty sure that most supermarkets, restaurants, and public places would kick a man out if he was wearing revealing clothes.) I love working out, and I would never wear tight clothing. Also, even if the weather is 100 Farenheit degrees, I refuse to expose any parts of my body! I have so much dignity to do something like that! Now, sometimes when I go out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Thank you for your very detailed reply. Thank you for all the sources you provided. It is very sad that in some countries parents abort their daughters or treat their daughters with coldness. I wish people would stop aborting their kids. I can't believe we live in a time where abortion is seen as a "right". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:01 AM |
| -1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Your post is so contradictory... On the one hand you appear to condemn parents who abort/murder their daughters but on the other hand you are "pro choice"? if you're "pro choice" then I assume that you see the child in the womb as a "thing" or a "clump of cells" if that's the case, then why on earth do you have a problem with parents who abort their daughters? Forced birth? what a ridiculous term.. What's next? men whining about "forced child support"? seriously? maybe if people don't want to de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingYeah, you're right... men who suffer from autism suffer the same kind of discrimination that short men experience in the dating world. I'm glad that women aren't judged on their social skills or humor skills or height or social status or how much they make... I guess this explains why studies have found that humans have a lot of female ancestors but few male ancestors... Now, I wonder why is a man's height or ability to tell jokes more important than his loyalty, compassion, honesty, kindness, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingIt's nice that this subreddit respects people's freedom of speech. I strongly believe that if you had posted this same question/comment on another subreddit, your post would have been removed and your account would have been banned. Now, I don't agree with many of the things you said. As a man, I don't think a woman needs makeup or a skincare routine in order to be beautiful. Now, I know you're right about how men need to fulfill height requirements in order to be considered "attractive" to wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 6 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Very interesting your post... I assume you must be pro life... otherwise, it would be contradictory if on the one hand you are "pro choice" because you see nothing wrong with a child being aborted but on the other hand you have a problem with girls being aborted in China... Now, I'm pro life, and it breaks my heart to think about all those girls who have been aborted in China or Pakistan... and it also breaks my heart when I think about all the black kids who have been aborted in the U.S. (most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?I'm pretty sure that back then, only men with jobs could vote. Also, there have been many studies that have concluded that the average human being has a ton of female ancestors whereas the number of male ancestors is low, which proves that throughout history, men have always been "loved" or "liked" if they have something to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Question for women who went back to a guy you rejected after an event that “lowered your value”Such man would be fooling himself by doing what you propose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Question for women who went back to a guy you rejected after an event that “lowered your value”Many times throughout my life I have heard men say, "I'm ugly," and they obviously aren't making such statements in order for someone to tell them, "You're wrong! You're so handsome" such technique doesn't work for men... Now, I have never heard a woman calling herself "ugly." Women tend to think highly of themselves even if they are overweight, which doesn't surprise me! Women have a movement called "body positivity," which teaches that all women are "hot." Now, men don't have such a movement! … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Question for women who went back to a guy you rejected after an event that “lowered your value”Are you sure such statement applies to men?????? I have a hard time believing that men who are short, poor, shy, unfunny etc think very highly of themselves. Why would they? men rarely if ever receive a compliment... and if they have one of those "defects" they are 99% unlikely of ever receiving a compliment so there's no reason for these men to think highly about themselves... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Do men appreciate male beauty/attractiveness more than women?Can't you compliment a guy who is many years older or younger than you and therefore he isn't going to "assume" that you want him so badly?????????? I remember one day in church a lady in her 80's complimented me! to this day I still remember that day! I obviously think that she was just being nice or maybe she had vision problems but either way, what she said to me meant so much to me. I think most men have no idea what it means to receive a compliment on their looks.. Yet women are always rece… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.EulenWatcher I don't think you should defend single motherhood or "cohabitation". Statistics show that children raised by their biological parents (married to each other) and living under the same roof strongly benefit the kids! When compared to kids raised by single mothers, we find that kids raised by a father and a mother tend to perform better in school, have lower teen pregnancy rates, have lower suicide rates, and have incarceration rates that are extremely lower. Now, I'm not placing all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.I also think that single motherhood is a problem but I didn't like your solutions to this problem At first I thought we were on the same page since you also disagree with kids being conceived out of wedlock but then I saw that you promoted 'condoms" or "birth control pills" .. so, it seems that you don't condemn premarital sex. Why? premarital sex is the reason we have such high rates of single motherhood! I also saw that you listed "abortion" as one of the solutions to this problem...Now, even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Every abortion for abortion can be applied to infanticide.Hi: What are the "arguments" used by people who defend abortion? "It's my choice"? Can't such 'argument' also be used to defend infanticide? "I'm not ready to be a parent." Can't this argument also be used to justify infanticide? "The fetus is not human because s/he can survive on his/her own." This is one of their favorite "arguments.", This same ridiculous "argument" can be used to justify infanticide.. since babies and kids are dependent on their parents for survival. "The baby is better off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Studies show that majority of men prefer women age 18-25 but why does it feel like more people are dating other people who are more close to their age?Why are you making it sound as if men and women judged the opposite gender on the same things? I have never heard a woman say "I want a young man" but they sure say "I want a tall man" "I want a man who is x race" "I want a man with a good job" 'I want a funny man". The man you found "hot" when he was in his 20's, it's even "hotter" when he is in his 50's because now he has money, social status, social skills etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Studies show that majority of men prefer women age 18-25 but why does it feel like more people are dating other people who are more close to their age?Of course women care a ton about men's looks!! but women care about traits that are related to genetics such as height, eye color, skin color, etc... those are things that don't change as a man ages... Certainly if you found a man "ugly" when he was in his 20's then once he turns 50, you will also find him "ugly" because his genetics traits haven't changed just because he is now older. However a man in his 20's that you find "hot" it is very likely to still be "hot" once he turns 50 ... because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Studies show that majority of men prefer women age 18-25 but why does it feel like more people are dating other people who are more close to their age?Why do you and other women hate so much the fact that some men in their 50's are irresistible for many women? if a man in his 50's meets women's "requirements" regarding height and race and additionally he has money, social skills, social status, humor skills etc then I guarantee you that many women would want to marry that man. Now, obviously not all men in his 50's meet all those "requirements"... which means that not all men in his 50's are irresistible for women... just like a man in his 20'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Studies show that majority of men prefer women age 18-25 but why does it feel like more people are dating other people who are more close to their age?And what are those things (related to looks) that according to you women are looking for in a man? women are extremely vocal about how they want a man who is tall and "the right skin color".. those are things that don't change as a man age... Now, imagine a man in his 50 that doesn't just have those "traits" but additionally he has money, social skills, humor skills etc... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:53 PM |
| -1 | Studies show that majority of men prefer women age 18-25 but why does it feel like more people are dating other people who are more close to their age?Do you realize that men and women don't appreciate the same things in the opposite sex? I'm not a man in his 50's but I don't have a hard time believing that men in their 50s have indeed reached their "peak' (especially if they are tall and the "right" race) since men at that age have well established careers, are confident, are funny etc... and all those are things that many women (often, superficial women) are looking for in a man. Now, men (superficial men) tend to judge women on their looks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | "Why do women care less about looks than men?"A large percentage of women judge men on GENETIC traits such as height, skin color or eye color.. How is this not judging a man on his looks? Now, how do men "judge' women on looks" by expecting women to not be obese? shouldn't any person be concerned about his/her weight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do men care so much more than women about promiscuity?Do you actually think a 5'11 man can do anything against a 5'3 man holding a gun at him??? as far as I'm concerned, all bad guys rely on weapons, not on their physical strength. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do men care so much more than women about promiscuity?Hi. You said " Mens virginity has no proof, also, it doesn’t benefit society to shame men about sex:" I think you're mistaken. Society would surely benefit if men were encouraged to be virgins until marriage... this would obviously reduce the high rates of abortion, single motherhood, STDs, and divorce (premarital sex is associated with high divorce rates). Furthermore, statistics show that most people in jail were raised by single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | "Fat woman dont want to date fat men"I don't understand your post.. You said " most fat people don’t want to be fat lol" but also said that you don't plan on losing any weight until the next year? is that what you said? I'm confused. Being overweight is never a good idea... it causes many health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 24 | Why do men care so much more than women about promiscuity?I think a better question would be "why is that from many women's viewpoint, a man's height is more important than his virginity?" I think it makes perfect sense for a man to care about a woman's virginity... especially if he wants to get married, since the fact that she abstained from premarital sex proves that she will also abstain from extramarital sex. Premarital sex and extramarital sex are very similar: they both take place outside of the marital bed. (Google " Does sexual history affect m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Your incoherent "reasoning" could also be applied to men who want faithful wives... You could also accuse those men of being "insecure." I don't understand why she'd lie about something that matters to him. I wouldn't feel proud of myself if I lied to a woman about something that is important to her (regardless of whether I think she is being "superficial")... Furthermore, the truth always comes to light! and I can't imagine how embarrassed I would be and how much I would hate myself whenever sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Unfortunately, there hasn't been much research on this... I guess people who do studies haven't bothered on studying men with high body counts and their likelihood of being good husbands since you rarely hear of women saying things like "I want a virgin husband" they instead say things like "I want a tall man" "I want a funny man" "I want a man with a good job" etc... Now, common sense tells me that if a woman who had premarital sex has a hard time abstaining from premarital sex, then that same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?What you wrote is what I've read many times! by the way, thank you for saying "people" instead of "women" ... Apparently some people think that folks who don't celebrate female promiscuity are hypocrites who have no problem with male promiscuity! what a nonsense! Anyways, someone asked you to provide actual studies on what you said yet when they are provided with the evidence, their subsequent "argument" is "those people are religious freaks who don't believe in divorce"... however common sense … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?I don't know what you're saying. The vast majority of men who want virgin wives are religious men themselves... I don't know a single religion that doesn't condemn men who have premarital sex. Now, I guess men who have a problem with their wives being unfaithful are also "insecure pigs" who want to "control" their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?I think you're right... It's not just about the fact that premarital sex greatly increases a woman's likelihood of getting a divorce, but it's also about the fact that by saving her virginity for marriage, she is proving to be a woman with good morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?So let me get this straight, men who use women for premarital sex respect women? and men who don't use women for premarital sex are evil monsters? And you're right, if the man you're dating has had premarital sex, he'll most likely dump you if you tell him you're saving your virginity for marriage... but it's quite obvious that most men who want a virgin wife are virgins themselves... I don't understand people who brag about all the people they have had sex with... considering that such behavi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:35 AM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Wow you focus so much on sex. .. My comment was addressed to women who actually desire marriage. Based on what you wrote I can't help but assume that you have no interest in marriage or forming a family. Now, let's be fools and suppose that you indeed desire marriage... in that case, I assume you should feel "lucky" if your husband has extramarital affairs because that way he gets to learn "new tricks" to please you in bed. Lastly, it's not that hard for a man to get "premarital experience" af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?So according to your logic, a husband shouldn't care if his wife has extramarital sex otherwise he is treating her like an "object" that "belongs" to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 12:07 AM |
| -4 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?how about 0ish? is that possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?It makes sense for men to care about this issue. Throughout history, men have always desired a virgin wife. Statistics show that people who have premarital sex have a high likelihood of getting a divorce once they get married... Now, if women were smarter, they would also care about a man's virginity.... but instead some of them focus on his height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?There's only one inch difference between U.S. average height for males vs Spain's average height for males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Hi. I personally have never heard a man say that he is only attracted to women who are young or have certain skin color . Have you personally ever heard a man say those things ? I recognize that most men acknowledge that they aren’t attracted to women who are addicted to food .. but that’s a thing a person can control and furthermore we all should be concerned about our weight or else we might develop health issues . If a woman is fit she is very likely to be perceived as attractive by many men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:49 PM |
| -1 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?I respect your point of view... but as a man, I can't imagine myself being so shallow to reject a woman just because she is 10 or 20 years older than me. Now, I think LotBuilder makes a mistake when he thinks that women care about a man's fitness... I think they're more concerned with his genetics such as height and skin color... I have never heard a woman saying "I want a fit man" but so many times I have heard women saying that they want a tall man or a white man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Men and women aren't identical... we are different.... so you're mistaken when you say " it doesn't affect them more than men"... You see, most men hit the wall the very same day that we were born! since we are judged on things that are determined by genetics or luck such as height, skin color, eye color or social status..... so at age 30 a man has known for 30 years what "hitting the wall" means ... Now, women aren't judged on genetic traits.... they aren't judged either on their social status.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?Most men don't hit the wall at age 30.... they hit the wall the day they were born! since males are judged on things that are determined by genetics or even luck such as height, race, eye color or social status... Now, I'm very glad that women aren't judged on any of those things... but they might be judged on their fitness or youth so when they turn 30 they might hit the wall... but at least their first 30 years in this world were nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasBut how are they going to get a green card when those men often have no interest in coming back to America? I know several middle-class American men who married a foreign woman and now they are living in her country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 08:30 PM |
| – | To the single people, what's your ideal partner and why?I think it’s wonderful that you want to have 5 kids ! We live in a society where many people despise kids (that’s why they defend abortion) and as a result lots of countries are suffering from very low birth rates . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasHow can American men be worse than American women when tons of women from other nations want to marry American men whereas American women don’t have such demand overseas ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasMaybe things work differently in Oceania. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:28 PM |
| 2 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasI have never heard a man say that he isn’t interested in women who are certain height or race . I have never heard a man say that women of certain nationalities or social status are undesirable . I have never heard a man say that women who are shy are undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | The mentality of women on PPD and FDS is indeed ubiquitous in america and this is supported by professional research,this problem is not a issue overseasIn the U.S. the average height for women is 5’4” yet most of them desire a man who is at least 6 feet tall .. now Dutch people are known for being very tall .. I assume Dutch women must be on average 5’7” so most likely they desire a man who is at least 6’3” so I think us American men would have a harder time in your country than in our country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).I agree with you.. I’m glad us men aren’t asked out on dates otherwise I would probably be a single father or would have been involved in an abortion or would be a STD carrier .. though people claim that promiscuity is ok as long as “protection” is used yet the reality is that we have extremely high rates of abortion , single motherhood and STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | most women like having sex with their beta husbands too.Very sad how in today’s culture a body count is consider “low” as long as it’s bellow a 3 digit number . In other times or cultures a body count higher than 1 is unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the wall?Are you saying that most young women don't receive compliments from men? and they aren't asked out on dates? and men don't propose marriage to them? if that was indeed the case then women wouldn't be so picky about men... but since most of them experience those things that's why they can get to be picky... unless you don't count those "undesirable" "creepy" "weirdo" men that approach women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What is the wall?Greedyleopard. What's your point? do you think young men enjoy the luxury of having women approaching them and asking them on dates?????? men don't hit the wall when we turn 30 or 40 or 50 or 70.. no sir/ma'am... we hit the wall the moment we are born! unless we hit the lottery on the genetics (tall, blonde etc) or finances department. Now most women when are young are approached by lots of men... and they are asked out on dates, and they receive compliment and men propose marriage to them... bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?So men who are attracted to younger women are "superficial" yet it's ok for some women to judge men on social status, confidence, height and so on? at least those men could argue that they want a younger woman because they want to have biological kids and they are more likely to achieve such goal with a woman in her 20's than with a woman in her late 30's... Now I can't think of any logical reason to care about a man's height, social status, humor skills etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?So if a woman marries a man 10 years younger than her that would make her a "predator"???? why is age so important? reminds me of how some women care so much about a man's height. Why? why not focus on the person's inside? If a woman 10 or 20 years older than me showed interest in me I would feel flattered! in no way I'd consider her a "predator" and if I did I would be so embarrassed of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What is the wall?I think such saying accurately implies that most women when are young have it very easy attracting a man but as they age some of them don't have such luxury anymore...Now it wouldn't make any sense to apply such saying for men because doing so would imply that young men also have it easy attracting a partner which is laughable! (unless they're tall, confident, rich etc) so if anything it could be argued that most men hit the wall the moment they are born and it will stay that way unless they hit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Is there much difference between prostitution and paying Tinder for casual sex?Tinder is way worse since it causes more abortions, single motherhood, divorces and STDs than prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Is there much difference between prostitution and paying Tinder for casual sex?Tinder is a platform which people use for premarital sex...Now, if what you say is accurate then why would that be "bad news"? if anything that would be great news! if premarital sex doesn't take place then there's no likelihood of abortions, single motherhood, STDs etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Is there much difference between prostitution and paying Tinder for casual sex?" Socially accepted means to have willing sex " well, there are many countries where prostitution is legal and therefore is "socially accepted"... Back then slavery was "socially accepted".. Just because something is "socially accepted" doesn't mean is ok to do it... For instance aborting kids is 'socially accepted" but any reasonable person knows that abortion is wrong... even our liberal laws claim that men who murder pregnant woman should be charged with double homicide. I think tinder is way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:55 AM |
| 4 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itSo if she cheats I guess she won’t reveal her husband such information because it’s bedroom stuff that she doesn’t want to make public knowledge. I thought husband and wife were supposed to trust each other .. if she can’t trust the man she intends to marry then maybe she shouldn’t marry him . Also I think the reason some men take pride about their premarital sexual activities is because we often hear how much women dislike virgin men .. I wonder how would this society look like if women viewed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 01:30 AM |
| 6 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itDon’t some men brag about it ? Many times on the internet I have seen women making fun of virgin men and calling them “incels “. I have never ever heard a woman say that she wants a virgin man but they sure let everybody know how they want a guy who is tall , funny, extroverted etc .. I also remember Ted Buddy —the guy who had sex with a lot of women and afterwards murdered them , he was then sent to jail and while in prison he became an idol for many women .. so my conclusion is that I don’t se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you all think of my “sexual commandment?”I’m pretty sure lots of people agree with you and as a result we have such high rates of aborted kids , single motherhood and people with STDs. Some people preach about “contraceptives “ however there’s no such thing as a contraceptive that is 100 “effective “ at preventing “unwanted pregnancies”. Furthermore regardless if the sex is “responsible , safe and consensual” at the end of the day people (and especially women ) who have premarital sex have high divorce rates . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowI would like to say very respectfully that you are probably mistaken! I could surely say that men find a great variety of women attractive however women don’t find a great variety of men attractive . Don’t believe me ? Just go to a dating site and pay attention to the kind of men that most women dream about! And you will see how most of them want the very same man ! Why do you think male celebrities have a ton of female fans ? Easy because those are the kid of men that women are attracted to . N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Hypergamy on DisplayWow you know nothing about men . Let’s consider China’a leftover women .. Have you heard of them ? These are women in China who are older than 30 , are very successful and are single .. the media has made it look as if these women were single because Chinese men discriminate against them for being successful but the reality is that these women don’t want to “marry down” so they find it very difficult to find a man . Do you actually think that in China where men hugely outnumber women , they (the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most groundedIf you visit dating sites you will notice how most women expect men to meet “racial requirements” I have even observed this behavior among my female relatives ! Society says nothing about this because the ones doing it are female .. Now, I can’t imagine a typical man finding a fit woman , with good habits, attitude and hygiene “ugly”.. I personally have found women who were 20 years older than me very attractive because they were fit, had good hygiene , didn’t look drunk , etc. Men being judged … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:42 PM |
| 0 | The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most groundedThe thing is that from women’s viewpoint a man’s “ugliness” is the result of GENETIC traits such as height , skin color , amount of hair on head etc whereas a woman’s “ugliness” from a man’s point of view is the result of her HABITS regarding food, exercise , alcohol consumption , smoking status and many other things that say a lot about a person’s health . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenYou make so much sense! Now I can't help but feel sorry for those men who unknowingly are raising children that aren't theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenI don’t know why some of you find such percentage too hard to believe .. Just google “Almost one in 10 moms isn’t sure who fathered their baby” .. so that’s indeed a 10 percent of men raising children that aren’t theirs ..Why does this shock some of you ? Our society worships sex outside of the marital bed (premarital and extramarital ) so it should t surprise us any of this .. I found funny how the user errright claimed that in developing countries the percentage of men raising children that ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowI think the average man indeed has low standards when it comes to superficial things such as her height , race , social status , social skills , ability to tell jokes etc .. most men just want a kind woman who is also not an addict to drugs, alcohol , food, shopping etc .. Now a good percentage of women judge men on superficial things such as height , skin color , social status etc .. few men meet all those “requirements” for this reason is not uncommon to hear women say that they find most men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowAs a man I wonder if women really benefit by having a ton of men wanting to “date” then on apps such as tinder ? Many of those guys just want sex.. and even if that’s the only thing she wants … a the end of the day she will pay a higher price for such sexual relationship since she is the one who will become a single mother or the one going through an abortion or the one who is more likely to get a std .. so in this sense I think us men have an advantage over women because men who are “ugly” , so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Men's standards are too lowIf what you said was true then most men would be unemployed because I’m pretty sure that no one is interested in hiring a man who has “bad teeth , noose hair , terrible dressers , bad breath “ etc .. why not just accept that the reason most men are”undesirable” has nothing to do with hygienic or weight or things that a man can actually control but is rather the result of things that men can’t control such as genetics ? It is a fact that most women care a lot about a man’s height , skin color , a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowWow how interesting what you mentioned about how “a compliment for most men on a regular day will stay with them for years to come” I always assumed such concept only applied to me ! I’m a guy who works out and cares about looking presentable nonetheless in all my life I have only received a compliment (I don’t count my mother’s compliments out of pity) I remember an elderly lady in church told me out of the blue “wow you’re so handsome” .. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing! This event took … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Condoms and pills aren't 100% effective at preventing "unwanted pregnancies".. Now, my guess is that many women(and men) don't feel proud when they think about their past abortions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Men who are shallow about women's looks don't hide it.... they don't go around claiming that they want a woman with a "good personality". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.So you pretty much agreed with Vreddit about how women regardless of their looks are better off than most men? Do women have the upper hand only when it comes to premarital sex (something I don't care about) or also when it comes to meaningful relationships such as marriage? As a man I don't envy the fact that women have it very easy when it comes to premarital sex because at the end of the day a great percentage of these women are just being used by men and that's why they end up becoming singl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Indeed men have a reputation for caring a ton about women's looks whereas women have a reputation of being "romantic" and not caring about a man's looks... but is that really the case??????? If men care so much about looks wouldn't this cause most women in the U.S. to be single considering that so many of them are overweight? however I have never heard of American women suffering from loneliness. Now, if you visit dating sites you will notice how most women expect men to meet "height requirement… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you."Contrary to popular belief, beauty is objective" I think beauty on the opposite sex is objective if you ask a man but subjective if you ask a man...For instance, I'm willing to bet that most women find tall, white men extremally attractive.... this is something you can witness on dating sites! Now, from a man's point of view a woman's beauty is something very subjective...maybe most of us can agree on the fact that a woman who isn't addicted to food or alcohol is more attractive than a woman wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:49 AM |
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