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I hope so, but why not find your heaven on earth? it starts from where you are. You don’t have to leave the USA to meet a foreign girl, if you take yourself out on dates, you’ll bump into them constantly. Everything you need is around you, free game for a lame
/r/seduction24/04/26 05:50 PM
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Wherever you go, There you are
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:36 AM
1

If your seduction tactics would make a woman accuse you of SA, then you need to work on your game big time
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:35 AM
3

Throwing insults left and right because that’s actually who you are lol
/r/ExRedPill05/01/26 10:40 AM
4

This is a righty. Trust me on this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/25 08:53 PM
11

She’s corny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/25 10:06 AM
4

Sex has way more consequences for women than men, especially if they pick the wrong person to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:49 PM
4

Building rapport is best if a girl has tons of interest surrounding her and when you see her, she is constantly in public.
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:52 PM
5

❤️
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:51 PM
2

Balance is key…some thrill with some boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:37 PM
2

Yes, depending on the person, we are actually 100% boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:20 PM
1

But both of you are right…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:08 PM
1

Lol bro that’s not what nice guy means. If a person is boring, then the person is just boring. Being a plumber is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:51 PM
4

Relationships are not scientific… But how it’s usually done or assumed is a woman may say no to having sex or intimacy and the guy goes off talking about “after all I’ve done for you”…it’s a fair assumption at that point that he was not doing nice things from the goodness of his heart but was expecting something from her the entire time. This is why I’m not overly nice to women I am attracted to (exclusively). If you wouldn’t do it for the people you aren’t attracted to, then don’t do it for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:47 PM
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You didn’t refute anything she said…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:42 PM
4

Because “nice guys” aren’t actually nice because they want to be. It’s a manipulation tactic that women can see through and therefore, mock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:41 PM
1

I mean, who likes boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:40 PM
1

ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:35 PM
6

Cut all ties. Easier said than done but please cut all ties. Your peace is priceless.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:49 PM
5

They are real but rare. You basically just can’t have feelings for each other. Usually these are childhood friends that remind you of your brother or sister type of vibe.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:48 PM
2

Do not take downvotes seriously bro. Some people are just nuts lol. No use in getting caught up. The score will balance out within 24-48 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:16 PM
2

I appreciate the detail in your comment but bro, you are talking about the Western world. The Western paradigm of liberty and freedom has always been a subset of global dynamics. The Western world breeds rebellion as nature intended. Therefore, everything that is CURRENTLY happening (and I mean, every single fucking thing) does not come as surprise. Frankly, your comment is superfluous. The point is that whatever this problem is started centuries ago as do many modern problems we have today. Kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:33 PM
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Therapy produces self-knowledge. Self-knowledge is attractive to the female sex. Doesn’t mean happy marriage or relationship, but you will be attractive if you walk and talk like you know yourself. Good or bad. Therapy taught me that I can be an asshole to the wrong people. Didn’t stop me from being an asshole. Just a more thoughtful one. Most of us do not know who we are but portray a different persona. Lies are the problem and many men have been able to get away with this with women until now.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:16 PM
1

Eh. I’m a 6.5 and still get women to have sex with me. Charm and wit works. The problem is finding one that meets my relationship requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:14 PM
0

Therapy is not about getting better with women; it’s about getting better with people. Also, therapy is not just your typical “vent to a shrink on a couch”. It’s examining why you have certain beliefs or why you take action in the way you do. How many of us ACTUALLY know who WE are? Self knowledge is critical to success in any area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:12 PM
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Do all of the women Elon has been with have an active healthy relationship with him today? Even with all of his billions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:58 PM
2

Seeking help is the first start to changing one’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:43 PM
1

If you don’t know the difference between hooking up and a relationship, I feel sorry for you. Respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:42 PM
1

I know lots of women in my family who are homebodies and introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:37 PM
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What does my or your loneliness have to do with whether a woman is into me/ you or not? I haven’t been in this subreddit in 6 months and dudes here are still complaining and whining - “woe is me”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:32 PM
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Some men will die virgins because it might take them until 35 to lose their virginity and they may just die before then.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:36 PM
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You will never be at peace or happy in a romantic relationship if you don’t conquer this fear of yours. It is the fear of the unknown. You have a fear of abandonment, regardless of the reason. It’s just that financial reasons would hurt you more. Why is that? Are you insecure about your financial status that if a woman left you because of that, it would break your heart? Why? Where did this come from? Does this stem from childhood/the younger years? When was the first time someone shamed you abo…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 02:13 PM
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You need to get some head bro. It’ll calm you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:16 AM
1

Lol Now I’m a “retard” you’ve overdosed on the red pill bro. Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:14 AM
0

Yeah okay bro, just say you think women are inferior. It’s okay to tell your truth. Stop playing with your words. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:11 AM
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Yes it does. Implied value is value nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:47 PM
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Where did they insult you? Serious question… And why does your body count matter here lol. If you have a high body count as a guy, you don’t even need to parade that. It will show in your answer. Just chill out bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:18 PM
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Nah bro, their eggs make them super valuable during their best years. They have more to lose than us. They are in shorter supply than us. Look at dating apps. Nature literally gives them more value. That’s just what it is. As a man, you have to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:15 PM
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Nostalgia. The problem is nostalgia is just as fake of a feeling as regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:14 PM
1

That’s smart brother
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:25 AM
2

Nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:56 PM
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Hmm what’s the purpose of language being developed? Why do we talk? Is it not to further define the non-verbal? To be certain of a direction? Language has been a major advancement in humanity. I am not discounting non-verbal consent. It is obviously the foundation. But why not use language to be sure of how far you can take things, even asking whether you can forgo a condom or if you can fuck her face ? Is that not a form of consent too? Why are we all acting like we didn’t develop language for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:53 PM
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To piggyback, if you cannot read body language well (such as being autistic), then ask verbally. Nothing wrong with being sure…especially if you are on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:47 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that bro. Women should ask for consent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:31 PM
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yes it’s clear for most but for some, you gotta get them to acknowledge that they want to have intercourse that second. If not, they’ll wave the carrot in your face for an extra while just for their own sick pleasure… even though they know they want to fuck…like shit testing you etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:29 PM
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I almost agree 100% with you but what’s wrong with having autism and not letting it fuck up your chances at sex? Verbal consent does exist aka asking someone if they feel comfortable sucking my dick after they’ve been feeling on it, especially to speed the process up…It’s awkward sometimes but better than getting accused by some random woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:22 PM
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Life for all genders is manipulative. Life is not fair by nature. Whether you want to fight that notion or understand that this is simply life is up to you… but I’d suggest you get with the program of life and choose the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:19 PM
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look up body language/social psychology Udemy courses, read books on how to build rapport, trial and error
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:23 PM
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+1 for emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:23 PM
1

Charisma + emotional intelligence Edit: n count is a factor (doesn’t have to be though) but knowing that you can have sex with almost anyone you put your game on will give you the confidence to keep on pursuing new women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:19 PM
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lol you think all conservative women don’t engage in premarital sex? which rock have you been living under? seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:03 PM
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Can’t lie, all the ex sex workers I’ve met say that they hated it. Paid good but their souls and their bodies were ABUSED. Some men were good but most of them tested/violated the boundaries of these said women. Boundaries are way too important to play with. Anyways, they said that they felt like objects. As a guy with way too many lady friends and women that raised me, I simply can’t support sex work because of the risk involved. However, highly vetted escorts (the ones who enjoy it) and cliente…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:06 PM
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Voluntary celibacy changes your life. Good job man. I went 2 months without it and my life improved tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:57 PM
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Precisely. What’s worse for him is his profile is beyond fitness. He’s a ultramarathoner and currently training for a triathlon. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:05 AM
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He’s foolish if he thinks that will actually help. Okay let’s get more shallow women just to get more matches lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:01 AM
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Shittttt I’m a guy and I’m there for entertainment too. Isn’t fucking random women entertainment? Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:53 PM
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How many times do I have to say it’s not only about his height, ffs? Why are y’all so silly about this height shit? His profile is one dimensional. That’s the reason. He’s not fun. It’s very simple. He’s looking for a marathon partner not a fuck/love partner. I do agree though, why do we keep talking about this guy? Edit: made clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:50 PM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:33 PM
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You have to be a bit on the psychopathic/sociopathic side to get ahead in corporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:30 PM
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There’s more to someone than being ambitious…talk about that on the first date…in fact, there’s an interest area on bumble that you can select “ambitious”…overselling yourself is unattractive, for all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:29 PM
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Again, it’s not the sole reason🌹 My 5’7” ass gets lots of matches. I get asked out by women damn near everyday. Because I’m mysterious and women want to figure me out. This is the feedback I get from women who wouldn’t have dated me based solely on height. His profile makes him one dimensional. That’s the real truth. He created a box for himself and he’s stuck in there…solo. Edited: removed some TMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:18 PM
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His height is NOT the sole reason lol. There was ZERO mystery about him. NONE. Boring ass profile. Cool catch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:53 PM
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I know the exact post you are talking about and yes they will because women are selfish humans with feelings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:51 PM
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got you whenever but I’m on low supply atm. also got addys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:01 PM
1

my bad bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:55 PM
1

That’s true! but they’re still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:51 PM
1

Nah, this is a patriarchy bro. Men still run shit. Let’s keep it real, man to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:48 PM
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We do not live in a matriarchy man come on. How many leaders in the world are women? Women aren’t really given much of a chance. Even in the USA, we still haven’t had a woman as president. Until we have more women as leaders, it is not a matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:47 PM
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there’s already products that allow women to pee while standing up so it’s not that much of a privilege today as it was in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:44 PM
2

I will say, not being taken advantage of by car salesmen and mechanics. The amount of times I’ve had to go with my close lady friends to help them haggle on pricing and make sure they don’t sell her a lemon was out of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:43 PM
1

What would it potentially be then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:45 PM
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No, it’ll be most likely 50/50 because both options are extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:27 PM
3

Nice, do you have to have the link for this? If not, no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:26 PM
4

I’m glad I came back to this thread. This is super insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:00 PM
2

There’s no man that fucks on the regular that will say a body count of more than 1 is high. He has to be super young, like 19 or 20. I honestly think he’s joking fr 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:54 AM
1

Thank you for the link boss!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:06 AM
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yeah it’s just…corny now. At first I was supportive of OP but now I’m just sighing by this point. I’m quite red pilled myself but not so red pilled that I won’t listen to a woman when she talks, especially if I ask them a question. Like come on, engage in respectful dialogue, dig deeper with insightful questions, not with frustrated rebuttals. Making us all look like clowns over here lol but whatever…I’ll skip to my Lou somewhere else and leave this shit thread alone haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:44 AM
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These are actually insightful answers. Just make this a CMV post. You’re replying to everything with rebuttals. Edit: you said you were “genuinely curious” in what women had to say about this topic, which I am too, but we all see that you’re actually not. Corny shit bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:08 AM
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Yeah, this should have been a CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:04 AM
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lol women are incredibly immature to correlate size with attitude towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:02 AM
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Why do people (women) have to body shame men every time just to get their point across? 🤡😂 My GOD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:01 AM
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So if he has other women wanting him, that’s a good sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:15 PM
2

So basically confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:14 PM
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“The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is a metaphor about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs seek to move close to one another to share heat during cold weather. They must remain apart, however, as they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp spines. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur, for reasons they cannot avoid.” Source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:19 PM
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People tell me that this is extreme but do not share a lease with any woman you are seeing romantically, unless you two are married or in a civil union.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:16 AM
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In my exclusive relationships (yes, the ones where we both expressed that we wanted to be exclusive), I’ve never been ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:00 AM
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Not true at all. Socioeconomic status is relevant but not in the way you think it is. What RP/FDS tries to solve is how to establish boundaries in your life in order to not get taken advantage of emotionally in dating. As a result, RP/FDS will attract those who are on the lower end of income/status because more than likely, their socioeconomic condition is being negatively affected as a result of having poor boundaries. Having poor emotional discipline in dating could mean that they have problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:09 AM
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You keep going back and forth with her when she literally said that she wants to get married for her kids to have a mandatory safety net. That’s the reason. Whether we men like that or not, that’s usually why women want to get married. It’s to secure “stability” for her and by extension, the children. That being said, fuck marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:49 PM
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Yep, selfish clowns disguised as helpless angels LOL. All these obtuse women commenting their unsolicited opinion about his “ugly” appearance and how they would never swipe right on him, as if that’s relevant? Their whole spiel made me laugh and also somewhat nauseated. According to their opinion, he’s too ugly to ghost/ignore women. Apparently, his perceived “ugliness” by them invalidates his right to “ghost for whatever reason”, even though they preach exactly that in FDS. Whoops. Exposed. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:08 AM
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Okay great! I’m so so glad that we agree. Any more groundbreaking insights that you’d like to share with the rest of the class?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:05 AM
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So why are women mad at West End Caleb, to the point of doxxing him and making him lose his source of income? The reaction he received is uncalled for then, you agree? From what I can tell, he was not in a committed relationship or friendship with any of these women. Therefore, according to your POV, he’s not in the wrong. I love his style, truly. I hope more men follow in his footsteps. And I’m pretty much there with you at this point. But to be sincere, I’m at the stage of not even caring abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:58 AM
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I’m in NYC, I wish I could take WEC out for a drink honestly. I wouldn’t have done what he did but I agree with his “right to ghost for any reason”. So long story short, he basically used FDS strategies on women and they didn’t like how it made them feel. Oops.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:25 AM
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Well well well, if it isn’t women taking a sip of their own medicine and going into a brief but entertaining psychosis, in this subreddit AND on TikTok. Quite sad overall…but funny. Actually, you know what’s really funny? Ghosting is emotionally abusive. But how come when men get ghosted, it’s a “who cares! Nobody owes you anything!” I’ve been ghosted by women who would do the same shit WEC did and in many instances, would drive me into a drug filled psychosis and basically relapse. Every time I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:06 AM
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Thank you my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:30 PM
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Wow! May I ask: What was it like to apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:55 AM
6

Ah okay. Thank you for answering! That means by definition you would be bisexual, rather than strictly heterosexual, since you still find women attractive sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:56 AM
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would you consider yourself bisexual now? or straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:41 AM
5

Way too much effort. It screams desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:40 AM
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Ah okay, thx for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:20 AM
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I don’t care. Just don’t have any STD’s or be promiscuous if I’m in an exclusive relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:54 PM
2

Since when is 80% (8/10) average… I haven’t had a math class in over a decade so excuse me if I’m wrong but I would assume average is like 4.5-6.5/10. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:11 PM
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Bro, she just told you lol! Don’t put a woman on the pedestal when trying to get to know her. Be confident and personable. There is no formula and it won’t work with everyone but it’ll work with most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:08 PM
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I mean, women be horny too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:07 PM
4

I like the way you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:06 PM
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Time to make an example out of you. :) Lol at “your mom” jokes. That’s original LOL. Bravo! You clearly haven’t had sex with anyone, or at least anyone recently. That’s a fact. Look at how defensive you got. Thank you for taking the bait. 😂🤡 It’s clear from your pathetic and defeatist comments that your mother should have swallowed you instead. Look at yourself, so worried about puss while you live in depression and squalor. You clearly can’t relate to my comment so why even speak about a level …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:46 PM
0

When was the last time you had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:03 AM
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You’re right on the money!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:45 AM
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I understand what you saying. My observation is that you can’t even date without having money. It’s a prerequisite. You have to show that you are able to earn a living. A woman will not be exclusively paying for your drinks every date while at the courting stage. Some women may pay for a date here and there and that’s lovely. But money IS power. You flex it by paying for the date (within your budget) or at the majority of it. Especially at the beginning. Also, women like leadership behaviors. Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:36 AM
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So if she treats you like shit, cheats on you, talks down on you but she’s skinny and a 9 in the face, you would get with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:06 AM
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I mean who is the main demographic for OnlyFans? It’s not women, that’s for sure lol. I’d be damned if I pay for a subscription of a woman I “follow” on IG who doesn’t follow me back when I could just watch porn for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 05:03 AM
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BRO, listen to him. I’m telling you to listen to him. Please. You increasing your income is by far one of the few things you can control. You can’t control your race, your height or your genitals but you can make a darn good living for yourself if you FOCUS. Opportunities may be harder or easier depending on your circumstances but it is much better to direct your energy in getting as many monetary opportunities as possible (instead of sex) and your chances at getting what you desire from dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:41 AM
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One of the best comments here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:36 AM
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Wanting to have sex with a woman is generally different than wanting to be in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:25 AM
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A big no for me. I used to be fine with staying friends with exes until I realized that exes are not owed friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:22 PM
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Damn. Crap show indeed. You get it. I think it’s a matter of finding women who are critical thinkers. Unfortunately, too many humans have lost their ability to think for self but I know that there’s still some thinkers left. I’d just rather not go through mud anymore to find pieces of gold. Some of these women who put height requirements on their bio didn’t even care about height a few years ago; they only started because their lady friends were doing the same and they decided to follow. Ask the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:41 PM
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They could unfortunately say the same thing about us, in terms of accessibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:12 PM
2

Same here. This is why I don’t take any compliments seriously. Had a woman recently tell me that she wanted to be in my life forever and then she literally left 3 weeks later because I confronted her about hot/cold texting intervals. Never allowing that to happen to me again. Not even going to show my interest in any woman through text again. I’m closed off. No more emotional attachment from me until they earn it. Sucks but that’s where I’m at right now with them. In terms of online dating, apps…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:02 PM
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I agree with you. I don’t have much of a solution either. I’m just working with the odds presented. I think it would have to be up to online dating apps to step in and regulate a bit. Unfortunately that almost always leads to censorship of some kind but women (and men too) shouldn’t be allowed to treat each other so callously when the heart is involved, even if it’s casual dating. Also, promoting dating as a way to build an empire or “home” rather than simply a “you’re hot/attractive” thing woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:54 PM
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Ahh I get what you’re saying. I never thought of it that way but it makes sense to call it unregulated. I’ve just simply called it a mess. What would you suggest should be done to regulate things again? Would be up to governments? Religion? Online dating apps stepping in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:17 PM
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No long term relationships for them. Nothing personal. I just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:29 PM
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this sub is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:41 AM
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it’s…forever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:31 AM
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Brilliant vid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:16 AM
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I can/could tell. Lol Edit: I can tell you’re a good person. I’m just glad that you caught on and protected yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:01 AM
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Women make it clear that they want to kiss me. Or I ask if I’m in the clear. I’ve never really heard a no. I just don’t want to get Aziz Ansari’d. I’m not taking my chances or playing mind games with women. Too much at stake. If you want to be accused of sexual assault, lose your reputation and access to jobs/income, be my guest. Furthermore, I don’t like people enough at WORK (semi-corporate office) because I’m focused on earning my salary, keeping up with my clients and leaving my cold ass ope…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:53 AM
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Okay. My main point is that many women don’t want to only do housework just like many men don’t want to only pay for everything, without appreciation. Edit: removed sentence about peggin’
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:40 AM
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Nothing wrong with second chances for the right person. Good on you. I’m glad you didn’t give him a third chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:22 AM
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I mean, you’re at work though. Edit: the only reason why both of you are at work is to earn money—-it would be best to err on the side of not giving physical compliments at work…because you’re at work. Also, kisses? What? Why would you kiss someone who isn’t kissing back? Bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:10 AM
3

and apparently all the Chads in Chad are named…Tyrone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:00 AM
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Bro, there are women who are attracted to that. I’ve met them. Let ‘em be. You can’t speak for everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:54 PM
3

Many people, regardless of gender, like to feel appreciated for doing something like house work (picking up after someone else) rather than it being expected as something you have to do, which is why it could feel like “slavery”. Even when my ex gfs would cook or clean for me, I still would be appreciative, write them thank you notes around the apartment or buy them random flowers which would make them do it even more! Ding ding ding. Also, everyone has to clean up after themselves, provide food…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:50 PM
2

Did you talk with her about that and she agreed or are you simply expecting that she will do 2x the cleaning? If it’s the latter, don’t bother getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:44 PM
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Did you give him another chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:31 PM
6

Then many people (especially in this sub), by your standards, are not functional adults…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:56 PM
3

whoosh I never said approaching a woman can (or can’t) get you arrested. I said you have to be an actual conversationalist to get a favorable result today than in the past when you could use a pick up line and still get her to pay you any mind. Today, she doesn’t even have to entertain you irl or a man she doesn’t know in public because she can just hop on her phone and meet men that she wants intimately, from her preferred distance. Furthermore, why would I (or you) be thinking about arrests wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:27 PM
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Because too many guys, especially in this sub, are unable to actively pursue women without running the risk of sexual assault. I can tell. Or they don’t know how to actively pursue without catcalling or making the woman feel uncomfortable. Seriously. Most of the things that worked back then are considered unacceptable today. Today, you have to ACTUALLY be a conversationalist and not just a forced smooth talker with terrible pick up lines. A woman today does not have to engage with a man she does…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:51 PM
2

It lessens it to me. It’s a kindness flaw. Kindness is a positive connection with someone/something. If you aren’t willing to disregard your biases in order to show kindness to someone because of their skin color then maybe you’re not as kind as you think you are. If someone chooses “something” over showing kindness, especially so indiscriminately as race, then that person is more of that “thing” (in this case, a racist) than a kind person. If your kindness isn’t universal, then you’re not a gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:34 AM
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The racist grandmother’s kindness clearly does not go far enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:15 AM
2

It’s in the word. “Minor”-ity. There’s your answer mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:39 AM
2

Even if they go to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:34 AM
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Avatar fam :) I still don’t like to hear it upfront but I’d respect it more. Most likely though, I won’t be able to seriously date someone with an explicit onlyfans but there’s worse dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:29 PM
2

Having an Onlyfans account that you didn’t tell me about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:04 AM
2

You sound jelly at the dude above bro lol some women don’t even like 6 inches relax, some like it smaller if that’s not ur size don’t trip height too. just cause there are giraffes on earth don’t mean u can’t be a lion 🦁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:18 AM
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Um…Yeah. As I’ve said to others, there is such a thing as being TOO red pill. A lot of guys here take it too far then become bitter when they don’t get what they want. I’ve been there too so no judgment. But I’ve lost high quality women in recent times because I was too red pill. I’m trying to help the homies here cause I really live this shit on the daily. Being a bad boy means being yourself and not shitting on others in the process. But you know it all right? Go speak to the waters and come b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:40 PM
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Excuses excuses excuses. Yawn. I was a late bloomer. Called ugly all my life, even by my own mother (this shit still hurts but it’s been a while). It wasn’t until I started to take care of myself before women fell in my lap. It was always the women that I had deep conversations with that wanted to fuck me afterwards. I’m not any of their type. In fact, I just finished dating a model (I wasn’t her type either, she literally told me every time I saw her…but she wanted ME) but fucked it up after a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:04 PM
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I’m not a woman. Stop blaming everybody else for YOUR shortcomings. Edit: if you think MGK and Pete are Chads, you are dumber than I thought. In fact, most dudes here are lazy fucks, and can’t get any bitches because they refuse to work on themselves then blame their race/height/looks or something they can’t change. Learning how to be a master conversationalist is something you can do regardless of how you look. Learning how to be free is something you can do regardless of how you look. Learning…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:44 PM
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Is this surprising information to…anyone here? As a late bloomer myself, I am trying to understand the purpose of this post and why we have so many grown virgins in here refusing to work on themselves. I literally get “adult” virgins in my inbox saying that I must be attractive with how “easy” it seems for me to attract women. Then when I explain that, actually I’m 5’7” with a 5-6/10 face at best but still get laid when I want to, they just break down. Instead of getting inspired or asking me fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:59 PM
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This is a longer comment than I wish for it to be but I hope it’ll give some insight into the appeal of MGK and Pete D. 🍿 MGK and Pete Davidson are not Megan’s or Kim’s typical type. What they are though is “different” to them. They are not easily duplicable which increases their potency and their perceived worth in the dating world exponentially. They make Megan and Kim feel something DIFFERENT than what they have experienced with men previously. They exude a unique charm tailored to their wack…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:48 PM
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Yessir. This is the one. Had a woman I was into (but also friends with) tell me years ago that I seemed like an interesting “challenge” so she wanted to explore things with me. I wasn’t even her type (I was shorter than her too haha) but because she knew that I had no trouble with attracting other women and was super unapologetic about dropping them out of my life, she became interested in me. Funny. At that time, I was known in my friend group for having 3-4 women on rotation and she knew it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:48 AM
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THIS. I’ll never forget when I met a woman at the bar and we were flirting all night. I got her number at the bar but as we were all heading out due to the bar closing for the night, she hopped in the train station around the corner (at 3 am - NYC) before I could order an Uber and ask/tell her to go home with me. I called her, she answered and told her “What the fuck are you doing? Stop playing with me. It’s 3am. Get your ass out of that train station and ride in this Uber with me right fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:07 AM
2

Getting laid is easy as hell. There’s someone for everyone. There’s an asshole woman ready to f*** an asshole man. Duh. We are humans first. Horny humans at that. Having a high value woman want you beyond sex while thirsting for you consistently and wanting to invest her time with you is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:57 AM
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Yes. Porn is a terrible example of BDSM…or sex in general. Almost all the porn I’ve seen in relation to BDSM, there is an unhealthy focus on torture to the point where I wonder whether the woman is actually deriving any pleasure from it. Hence I don’t watch porn anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:25 PM
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This is the comment I was looking for. Yes sir. Edit: I’ve had women who told me that they never would have considered BDSM but they have “some interest” in exploring. Because I would take things slow, they trusted me, they let it all out and let me take charge. Trust without judgment is a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:21 PM
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You keep ruining your otherwise solid argument with low hanging fruit-esque insults and it’s breaking my heart man. I can’t believe I’m on the side of women right now but here we are. With all due respect, your economics degree doesn’t make you an expert in economics. We laugh at that notion in business school. You make good points (Micro-/Macro- were literally my favorite courses in university) but it’s all theory. Personal liberty matters more than societal responsibility in the West. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:23 PM
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