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/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:37 PM
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Breathpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:37 PM
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Lol funny yoh say this because Khloe looks like a dime now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:32 PM
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Tbh I've already met a girl and we are gonna get engaged at the end of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:28 PM
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I ain't a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:10 PM
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never said it wouldn’t be beneficial to your life in general of course it does but that does not make you alpha. Just being widely attractive to women is the only defining factor. A chav living off benefits but gets women above his level consistently is more alpha than some subservient middle class toff who is constantly has to pull teeth to attract women. You’re right there’s many problems that PUA has but in terms of my own experiences with picking up girls they’re totally spot on. I don’t wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:25 PM
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Jesus God no. Some of you really, really overrate the value of women's opinions. I know plenty of absolute losers dating stunners (something I've never really agreed with redpillers on). I'm someone who has both fucked a lot of women and has accrued some half decent accomplishments in my time. The latter has been way more beneficial to my life, sense of wellbeing and relationship with my family, girlfriend and peers than fucking a load of women ever has. Lay off the PUA shit. That shit is as pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:45 PM
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I'm a "successful" guy. Both physically and professionally. I tend to meet three kinds of people...those who live it, those who resent it and those who don't give a shit. What intruiges me about the second lot is that I tend to find they're the first type to claim what you're doing in the OP. Love and sex are MASSIVE fuckind deals to people. And what annoys me about the second lot is that they'll claim its not a big deal whilst obsessing about it the most. They're the types to get visibly upset …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:28 PM
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I actually think female redditors are uniquely socially challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:37 PM
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Hundreds
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:31 PM
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Personal consequences? Yes. Social consequences? No. I can't recall anytime women negatively penalised my high partner count. It didn't even come up. I knew plenty of dudes apprehensive about a prospective partners dating history. It wasn't the be all and end all. But there was always an underlying concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:22 AM
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Everyone is interested in some form of power. That's called being a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:20 AM
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Maybe. But they're outliers. As a tall man myself I wouldn't be a dickhead to deny the clear advantages it has. What irks me about the women who claim they prefer short men is that it always reveals itself to be some bullshit rationalisation to ensure she has power in the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:05 AM
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Dude...people take pay cuts all the time. You're young and don't know any better. Lol you'll learn, in time. Also, trust me, 100k in the UK goes waaaaay further than $200k in new york. anywhere near comparable to the well-kept and well-educated red-blooded American women in NYC white collar circles. Oh boy. Lol you'll learn soon enough young buck 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:14 AM
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This is it. I mean I went to clubs...I actually scoff at porn now because most of the shit I experienced in real life makes it look tame. Funnily enough, I actually kinda respected the honesty of the cuckold thing. At least both parties knew the score. What was more fascinating were those single women I met who you just knew would be acting as angels outside of the venue. I discovered the whole thing by accident when a very seemingly respectable school teacher from the gym told me revealed to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:06 AM
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What on earth from that rant would make one think that I'm white? Let me guess. You're another loser black nerd mad that white women won't fuck you? Be gone lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:55 AM
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No it isn't. It's called contracting you dumb fuck. Just because you're another absolute loser with nothing going for himself on Reddit, doesn't make anything I say wrong. I go from an £800 a day contract (which equates to about £165k a year) to a 100k full time job. People move from higher contract rates to lower perm role salaries all the time for the security. Yes, I'm a devops engineer and I've moved from contracting to two new permanent roles, one with a wealth management firm and another w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:49 AM
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It should be obvious what the fucking point is through my example. Most dudes are not jumping rapists because they "want the victim all for themselves". They're jumping rapists because they're rapists. LOL dude, touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:20 PM
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Dude...really? Rapists get regularly fucked up in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:45 PM
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Hmmm, you've been spittin' recently, dropping knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:13 PM
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Being muscular and in shape. Having a German ex of mine (tall, blonde, easily 8/10) tell me how much she envied her sister who had a kid and a guy (who wasn't the father) just sat there waiting for her whilst she fucked all and sundry. Another girl I dated telling me how one of her other FWBs dicked her down better than I did. I lost my phone in a laundrette and a kind stranger handed it to her (she was the last outbound call). She looked through my Tinder and got mad that I was talking to anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:10 PM
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OLD always used to be seen as being for odd people, I think it's slowly going back to being seen that way. Thats a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:55 PM
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As long as I need to. The later the better actually. Didn't have sex with my partner until after six months. Don't hit me with that nonsense. Only desperate clowns who aren't secure in their own sexual appeal need a woman to give it up as soon as they meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:18 AM
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Nah. I don't think you're wrong. I just don't necessarily agree. I would estimate my partner count at maybe a little south of 350. I wouldn't date a girl with more than 5. My girl actually has about 4. Is it hypocrisy? Maybe. But I put it down to two things. Firstly most of my count was accrued through Tinder and swinging. Both kinda realigned my position on female sexuality, with the latter moreso really, really opening my eyes. I went from being a virgin at 21 and thinking sex was special to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:53 PM
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You keep talking about studies but haven't cited fucking one. Don't deliberately ignore the article citations and then ask for further proof. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thestar.com/amp/life/relationships/advice/2019/02/15/why-many-women-settle-in-their-romantic-relationships.html A survey by the dating app Bumble asked 1,003 Canadian women between 21 and 37 whether they were settling in any of their personal relationships. The survey was done between Nov. 30 and Dec. 10, 2018. ARTICLE CONT…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:37 PM
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I'm nerdy and non hood and black. Good career, not one to wear nike tech fleece tracksuits lol I honestly don't understand the "plight" a lot of blerds claim they have. I don't think I've ever er struggled to garner the attention of black women despite dating a variety of races. I think many actually wrongly believe they have to adhere to certain behavioural expectations whilst forgetting that, fundamentally, attractiveness rules the roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:32 PM
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But what you need to include is simple variance --- being in the right place at the right time when she's in the right mood with the right logistics and the right life situation. No one wants to be this though. No one, with any sense of dignity or self actualization, wants to hear that it's simply a matter of being in the right place at the right time. And it doesn't just apply to dating. I work in a highly paid field, the reason I keep working on my skills, taking courses and practicing intervi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:22 PM
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There aren't. What does that have to do with my point? Of course if men are sexless, that spreads to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:58 PM
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What does that even mean? Your personal insecurities will affect your relationship. I legit wonder about the intellectual capacity of some of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:06 PM
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The problem with trying to question the GSS data is that there is other data from other countries purportedly saying the same thing. In the UK a large poll was done of sexual behaviours of university students. https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/212843-article-university-students-arent-having-sex-and-corresponding-study/ 43% of starting undergraduates have no sexual experience to speak of. The first post cites a Telegraph article which is behind paywall. Tbh there really needs to be more data on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:32 PM
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A lot of the people on apps are the same people who have been on their for years now. Jesus Lord. This. I remember having a fallout in 2020 with my girlfriend and we both went back on tinder. I remember creating a new account after my old one got banned (why I have no idea btw) and seeing some of the fresh incoming matches. There was one woman I saw in particular who has pretty much always matched with me since, like, 2015. Thing is back in 2015 when we first started talking, she was too uppity …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:55 AM
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everything you say is wrong and stupid and you are a horrible misogynist until you bring the evidence, then all of a sudden it was basic common sense that everyone actually knew all along so why should people listen to you Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:09 PM
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He's high value because he's a Yale alumni with a successful (likely) syndicated show eith a networth likely in excess of millions. This is what annoys me about women on Reddit. I feel it mostly stems from the fact the majority don't actually interact with desirable or successful men which makes me think you even ask this question. You place far too much stock on irrelevant bullshit or deference and then wonder why you're stuck arguing on fucking reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:55 PM
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Only 15% of women are childless by 45. At doesn't account for women who simply can't have children either. My sister is nearly 40 and married with no kids. She likely doesn't want any either. But, you see, unlike you she works a high pressure career as a consultant surgeon, doesn't go one incessantly about not wanting kids nor does she sit online arguing with incels. What annoys men are these women who talk endlessly about not wanting kids who only reveal themselves to be full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:49 PM
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This is one of these arguments that I find weird. Are you trying to pretend as if its only manosphere types who insist that women date more placid men to better thier chances of getting good treatment? I've seen plenty of women insist, in fact I see plenty of posters here claiming how they wouldn't want to date a "Chad" whose more likely to be obnoxious and unfaithful. However I do think there is a distinction that can be made. I genuinely think when men talk about "choosing better" they mean ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:44 PM
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Jesus what is up with some of you. Its like you exist to be obtuse and foolish on purpose. I'm in my 30s and remember 2002 very well. Smartphones didn't exist and even 3G was barely making a dent, I distinctly remember an advert put out by Hutchinson 3G which blew everyone's minds showing a shitty quality video call and half the population was still on dial up. Internet communication had absolutely nowhere near the ubiquity it does now and even trying to pretend it hasn't fundamentally changed j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:41 AM
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OLD and social media has largely changed the game. Add to that divergent sexual lifestyles. I was talking to a woman in a group convo who went into stripping and told me she signed up to one of those NSA sex websites. She said her inbox had 700 messages. Interestingly though, the guy she was into was average. If anything, she actually seemed more averse to men who looked good or "chads". I think its kinda complex what's happening right now. It's not merely that "Chads" are winning. If anything, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:25 AM
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Hmmm, an interesting take that I don't necessarily agree or disagree with. I feel this sub attracts primarily women of color and a very middling, relatively mediocre, liberal white woman. Where I disagree with OP is that attractive women are naturally narcisstic. Tbh I've not really noticed any major moral difference in average and attractive women. However, in regards to Reddit, I feel it attracts women who struggle with the opposite sex just as much as the male demographic do. I've been guilty…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:36 AM
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They're not even messing with your emotions. Wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things. If a woman thinks you're attractive then she'll want to fuck you. Whether she actually does is another matter entirely. But at that point, what does it even matter? Just find someone who is in the right frame of mind or mood to fuck you when you want to be fucked. I look fucking sensational and get complimented daily pretty much (especially on my physique). Whilst I've noticed tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:33 PM
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People do that all the time. Honestly, some of you need stop relying on redditors (the female ones especially) to shape your real world perception. Chronic Internet dwellers tend to be extremely literal and interpret interpersonal interactions as such too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:31 PM
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I mean...yeah. I've received many compliments from those I know weren't interested in pursuing anything. It's just there is an element of redundancy to the whole thing. Just be complimentary to the men you're interested in and less so to the ones you're not. What gets me is how many modern women almost fall over themselves to try and highlight that they're not interested. Often it's claimed to avoid creepy men but I actually think its moreso out of intense fear of rejection. It's like "signals",…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:07 AM
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Again. More nonsense about you being the victim. Christ what's happened to our generation...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:25 AM
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The pretty girl that’s sweet and quiet is more hated than anyone. Yeah and let me guess you're that pretty, innocent, sweet girl right? Christ how pathetic. Do some of your hear yourselves speak???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:38 PM
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Well maybe both yours and OPs issues having nothing to do with your attractiveness or OPs lack thereof. How about those issues are attributed to your characters and personality? I mean sitting there thinking attractive people are some kind of persecuted clas definitely doesn't make me think you're an altogether well adjusted individual. Woah. To think I'm talking to grown adults...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:22 PM
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If op is wallowing and you're bringing up the flip side and owning them as your own experiences, how are you too not wallowing????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:26 PM
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You have. You do know post history is public right. You're another dude whining about how easy women have it. It's literally soy boy ground zero 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:20 PM
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That doesn't make a lick of difference. You're wallowing in self pity and dumping all your issues on other people. So yes, you sound exactly like an incel. And, from your own posts, people don't seem to value your person...so yes I would say you're in the exact same predicament as most incels. I mean trying to palm off your issues with ehaciourla boundaries as being the result of your good looks. I mean are we still in high-school?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:19 PM
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Eh. Are you fine though? Sorry but a lot of Redditors claim some particular activity hasn't fucked them up and then you see their comment history and its clear they're riddled with issues. I watch porn too, frequently. I would definitely say its not a healthy outlet for sexual expression. I don't think it should be a dealbreaker in a relationship but I think its fair for women to be concerned if her man is excessively watching pornography...especially if he's delving deeper into its more toxic s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:30 PM
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There's definitely men who don't find porn all that interesting or sexy. But I definitely can understand your frustrations...from the sounds of it its not that he's not into it but that he acts like he's above it when there are visible signs hes partaking in the very act h acts like he's above anyway. People like that can be fucking annoying. At the same time though it might be worth asking yourself if you're fostering an environment where he would feel comfortable expressing his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:25 PM
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I mean you sit here crying about how women don't sympathise with your incel self because men have it oh so hard (Jesus wept) whilst complaining about FDS (a fringe movement at best) yes surely its me who doesn't get out 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:42 AM
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Why must one have such things for self improvement? Because in a society people are judged on their credentials. Skills and accomplishments matter. It's why you don't get on a plane without a certified pilot and why you don't visit a hospital without a qualified doctor. As I keep saying I have no idea how many of you reach adulthood whilst asking stupid fucking questions like these. How is this even a sign they are competing heavy when one can say your area lack nail salons and there's been more…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:56 AM
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Being attractive doesn't automatically mean you'll be treated like shit and you sound exactly like an incel right now. Spare me the delusional rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:40 AM
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"I know everyone has their dating woes" That's a sentence that I actually wrote in the OP. Yes, learn to fuckkng read.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:39 AM
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No they're not. I'm a 1%er and have been posting on Reddit subs way before I made it here. And I wouldn't be caught dead complaining about struggling with the opposite sex. And yes, when someone assumes that physical fitness comes at the expense of intellectual endeavour then I will indeed insult their intelligence. But you can't be particularly endowed with such to maintain such an ignorant opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:31 AM
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Nah. This is your own poor self esteem. I've dealt with people being threatened with my looks but I have a truly wonderful partner and friends who have helped bring me to where I am today (and I'm doing okay). It's not your beauty that's a problem, it's your inability to keep away from those who are insecure about your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:29 AM
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I'm probably ten times more academically accomplished than your husband could hope to be and there is a 99% chance I outearn him too. Spare me the bullshit rationalisation. Christ, the pathetic shit some of you come out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:20 AM
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Learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:13 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:12 AM
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You don't really believe that "dadbod" crap do you? Even on Reddit, you'll find a bunch of women complaining it's a thing. I can link the threads too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:03 PM
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Eugh. Just from the way you talk your boyfriend doesn't sound remotely appealing. Why is it you "alternative" shut ins always try to wax about your neckbeard boyfriends. Of your guy was a "Chad" you would know it and you would be pretty succinct about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:01 PM
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It's true tbf. There's now a regular set of women who I've seen consistently in the gym for at least two years. Without fail you'll see them at least three times a week. I only used to see that with men. Times are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:21 PM
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Agreed. I don't even think it's gendered. Life, especially in the west, has become more competitive. The result of an aging population, population growth, immigration and increasing living standards for those in much of the global south. Problem is, mind is legit blown by how many people simply can't grasp the concept of self improvement. There are a ton of people out there with no education, no accomplishments or skills to speak of. And it has parallels in dating. Now, more than ever, if you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:36 PM
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And why should I give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:30 PM
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Cut down on the gym, learn how to have a conversation and read a fucking book. Why would need to cut down on the gym to read? This kinda makes me think you're doing neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:02 PM
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LOL someone hasn't been watching the news. Its "birthing people" not mothers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:53 PM
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I’ll happily continue on in lefty cuck fantasyland because I’m content with it. I’m glad to provide you with some entertainment in turn and someone to laugh at. LOL you seem to enjoy feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:51 PM
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Actually possibly not. https://www.emmottsnell.co.uk/blog/female-paedophiles-how-prevalent-are-they Thats relevant to where I am, the UK. But you can literally see this if you've been paying attention. However, conviction rates may only be the tip of the iceberg. In 2015, forensic psychologist Dr. Joe Sullivan suggested the number of women sexually abusing children was much higher than conviction rates would suggest. Reasons for low conviction rates are cited as male teenage victims in particula…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:50 PM
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I can just imagine that there are some decent people in prison This imagination is based on what? Wishful thinking? In my country most people are not in there on first offences. Stop making assumptions, be they about convicted felons or my emotional state. You've been incorrect on both. There is a wealth of data to show that prisoners are hardly a collection of misunderstood mischiefs. Its a long and pretty well documented road.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:47 PM
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This isn't men projecting some latent homosexuality. This sounds more like something women would do, if women were men which they aren't. Projection is a defense mechanism which is extremely popular with women. OP is a lesbian with a bone to pick with women who fuck men too. I swear, looking at post history is so helpful, reveals how full of shit a lot of OPs in this sub are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:43 PM
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Often it is simply the guy who had the balls to flirt and ask them out. Eh, plenty of dudes have the balls to flirt. They're just terrible at it and are (rightfully) labelled creepy. Its weird how many on this sub desperate to convince themselves women don't have eyes and ears just like we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:40 PM
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Muscles are attractive, yes. I'm confused as to why you doubt this. The good news is, you can get your lazy ass into shape. TRP's number 1 advice is to become physically fit. If you're not hitting the gym you don't really deserve a date. This is what I have always wondered. I honestly its from both sides. Men whine because they're too lazy to get themselves in shape and women fear because once you are in shape as a man, it "levels the playing field" somewhat. You'll be surprised how many women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:38 PM
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Whats the insult? Calling people clowns? I seriously wonder how you enjoy any success in life, hell, how you function altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:33 PM
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My point isn’t that women choose good men. It’s that what they see in men is so often so much more wholesome and kind than what we, at least initially, see in them. This post, and the rest of your post history is fucking pathetic. You seem to run around in female spaces telling women how wonderful they are. And it doesn't point to you having anything resembling a healthy relationship with the opposite sex. Women have just as much fucked and flawed desires as we do. How can you not see this being…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:32 PM
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This is why I genuinely respect for a lot of you clowns, You legit know nothing about life and it shows. I've had family members in prison and did two weeks on remand for absconding bail. I bunked with a dude who beat his wife so bad, the scene looked like a murder. She lost pints of blood. You make an assertions about the issues with the criminal justice system all day but spare that lefty, idiotic horseshit about prisoners having simply been "unlucky" or made a mistake. A lot of the dudes in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:30 PM
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The wrong thought is what is attractive or not Fair enough, but then what is attractive? https://www.amraandelma.com/top-100-male-influencers/ Thats the most popular male influencers on Instagram. All traditionally good looking, accomplished, desirable men. Yet, in reality, there is nothing stopping you from creating an account and DMing them. There is a potential access which was before unthinkable. And hell, on many occassions, we've some of these influencers actually going through some of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:26 PM
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Survival, procreation and morality are in no way linked and women have shown no history or reputation for choosing honorable or nicer men. Thats not a slight against them, just a fact. Men are no different or better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:16 PM
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Its not projection....if anything I see more of that coming from you. Its also not exclusively about looks. Every-fucking-day, we're bombaded with X or Y footballer/rapper/athlete whose DM's are chock full of women. Hell, I've had many women ask for my Insta and act disappointed when I tell them I'm not big on the app. Instagram isn't only about wanting "Gigachads" its a window into the potential lifestyle you're selling. My friend is younger, well paid and big into Instagram and Snapchat. Its a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:07 PM
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It’s extremely intimidating and guilt-inducing how wholesome most women are in what they feel attracted to. The keyword is "feel". When I was younger, I remember visiting a relative in prison. It always amused me how many hot women you would see on visiting day. If any grown man genuinely believes women are in anyway "wholesome" in their attraction to the opposite sex then they're a buffon and they should end their genetic lineage as they're straight up polluting the genepool. No one that stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:55 PM
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no one seems to care No one seems to care? Lol pretty sure the US government just showed 2.98 billion reasons why they care 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:18 AM
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It's access. When you say stuff like this it's kinda proof you've never been courted by a desirable, wealthy man. The vast majority of men around 20 year old women will be young and broke, and that's mors rhan adequate for most women. For those who look good enough, many will barter that in exchange for the lifestyle a wealthier and (somewhat) older man can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:04 AM
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Women are pushing average men away, not the men they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:01 AM
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Yeah I would say early 30s is the peak for most men both looks wise and financially. I'm 33, I've been in great shape for a while but it's been in these few years that I've really come into my own financially (income in the multiple six figures). It's honestly the same for my friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:57 AM
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The cultural left has a clear, well-articulated idea of what a "Woman" is, what they are entitled to, and what their duties are. Women support each other through menstruation, commiserate over shared expectations surrounding motherhood, and bond over shared experiences fending off advances or mistreatment from non-women. Does it? Pretty sure this no longer considered the preserve of women in the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:54 AM
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I'm in tech too. And that's also very very true. So, as kinda mentioned, it's not entirely on the candidates. It seems like a generalised divorce in wants and expectations. Funnily enough that job I mentioned was for a. Ery well known semi conductor company and whilst the interview wasn't particularly stringent, they had a pretty good idea of what they were looking for...and it wasn't an overqualified code monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:07 PM
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I think the idea is that average people will date other average people. The implication though is in the fact that average people (now moreso than ever) don't want to date other average people. And I think that goes for men and women. And it's not only happening in dating, I actually think its happening in the labour market too. Of course, employers aren't absolved of blame (too many have gotten away with shitty working conditions for way too long) but I'm noticing more and more a surplus of vac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:06 PM
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30% of young men have no had sex in the last year. 1 in 5 of all men overall. Whatever your opinions are of average men based on the people you see means nothing. The data supercedes whatever you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:55 AM
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What the hell do celebrities have to do with anything? Jesus some of you need some perspective. STATISTICS show that couples are largely determined by education and income. Sitting there mentioning celebrities is exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:53 AM
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What makes a "power couple" a myth? Most successful men marry educated and successful women. Most of you dudes talking about women being unable to partake in the workforce are losers who fear a woman being able to economically compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:44 AM
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What you see is irrelevant. I'm going by statistics. 3% of men are autistic. How the fuck is it an indicator of anything? Too many of you clearly based your interactions heavily on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:36 AM
2

I see. Honestly I think the issue is where we are as a society. I think one thing wider society has accepted is that its no longer acceptable to be a mediocre man. Average men get nothing and that's okay. I think where 10-15 years ago "seduction" and "pua" used to be all the rage...many of the men who would have been enticed by those communities have resigned to the fact that they can't attract the opposite sex...I saw this in real time with the rise of the incel movement at about 2013. However,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:58 AM
1

Ew. The fact you admit this along with your various hygiene issues in previous posts is disgusting. I really should be done but I'm actually a grown adult can sit there prideful about not taking daily showers and needing their husband to clean for them. Legit. Who raised you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:11 AM
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In almost every facet, getting older is generally seen as a barrier to opportunity and performance. Getting a college degree gets harder towards your 30s Competing in sports gets harder towards your 30s Hell writing your most groundbreaking thesis is said to be something which is mostly likely to occur around the age 27. Putting the nonsense of redpillers aside, getting older is widely considered an inhibitor of many things. And that's fine. Because with age tends to come a degree of wisdom. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:44 PM
1

I'll be here for about a year, get bored and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:21 PM
1

Even if that's the case, 90-95% of white women wanting to exclusively date white men would still leave a sizeable chunk available. You're simply using race as a crutch and I would bet you mention it repeatedly in your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:19 PM
1

Correct, I don’t shower daily. Yeeeeah I'm out 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:06 PM
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Lol no problem. Me shitting in my underwear is not a normal occurance. I had a extremely bad case of diarrhea. I never asked him to clean up after me. I was just gonna throw the underwear away. looooooool you do know most grown adults have had diarrhea too and dont end up shitting their pants 😂😂😂 I have no BO. Congrats I guess, christ what am I willing to bet you dont even shower daily 🤢 You just admitted that you are too grossed out by basic life functions and you wouldn’t take care of your gf …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:47 AM
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I dont care. You post on purple pill debate, please dont make out as if you're above wasting your time on meaningless faff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:38 AM
1

Sorry, but I had a cheeky look through your posts. You admit to shitting your underwear, maintaing substandard hygiene in front of a husband you dont seem to respect (I disregard the opinions of those with partners who are pushovers) and have admitted to him cleaning your nose and ear wax. LOL you really want me to believe you're someone who actually takes adequate care of themselves? My girlfriend isn't a stunner and she wouldn't dream of doing that half that shit. I went to a HS as a guest lec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:33 AM
1

Thats not true. And if you dont invest in taking care of yourself I genuinely hate to see what your skin looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:23 AM
1

Yeah and I would bet by bottom dollar you don't look particularly appealing. I mean you haven't even suggested so yourself. And your income matters a lot, even as a woman. Of course if the only men you're engaging with is losers and incels on this sub you'll think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:46 AM
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Lol no it isn't. The waists are entirely too small and sleeves too thin. Jesus are some of you in any semblance of decent shape? There is no way you can exercise regularly and put those on thinking they fit well. Or maybe its an American thing. You guys tend to have a terrible sense of sartorial awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:44 AM
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You complained about unwanted attention and I said I experienced the same in my line of work. Then you went off on a tangent about sexual assault and I said I experienced similar. You want a monopoly on victimhood. Only you cam be bombarded with unwanted attention because, again, you want us all to see how hard you have it. I honestly tire of talking to loser mentality individuals on this sub. Sometimes I just look at profiles to get a gauge of who I'm engaging with. You have tons of selfies for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:41 AM
2

Cast of Love Island UK is all white. No the fuck it wasn't. The cast this year was very diverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:36 AM
1

Great Post. As usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:34 AM
1

Yes it will. Low bodyfat does wonders for many and even beyond that...surgery is so accessible today. I mean, fuck, they can change your height. If you want to sit and wallow in misery that's your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:19 AM
1

This is massive projection. You're obsessed with race and assume everyone else is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:17 AM
2

This is an opposing viewpoint I can respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:34 PM
0

To fuck. That's not an achievement...or even desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:27 PM
1

I am getting laid. A stupid amount. Christ why are you all so slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:38 PM
1

have a daughter who struggles to find dates not for lack of attention but because she can't find anyone she genuinely likes who is her intellectual match or better. They're either too stupid or boring for her. She is attractive enough to have unwanted orbiters but has yet to find someone she would seriously date much less spend her life with. She also has unique political views that are deal breakers. I mention this because you don't even touch on personal preferences in your post. Ah yes. I'm s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:37 PM
2

Lol get a load of Tyler Durden over here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:38 PM
0

If you're objectively attractive to a large contingent of the gen pop then this thread doesn't apply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:02 PM
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Thing is most people disagreeing with me are the saddos who post on fucking myers Brigg personality type subreddits. Some of you make it abundantly clear you have no real world friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:00 PM
1

What makes Indians ugly by virtue of being Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:29 PM
1

One not finding you attractive doesn't suddenly mean said man isn't attractive. Plenty of women don't find Elba attractive. Doesn't mean he's unattractive and it doesn't mean he struggles either. And female bodies being mainstream doesn't mean they're any more or less attractive. Let's not pretend a voluptuous woman was suddenly struggling 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:28 PM
1

Actually I was sexually assaulted two weeks ago. Stop playing the fucking victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:25 PM
2

San Fransisco is a shithole with a DA who refuses to clamp down on drug addicted vagrants. I'm in a major city and the majority if homeless people are drugs addicts who very much look the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:24 PM
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Sure 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:22 PM
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And I don't care. I'm not massively convinced any women here are capable of attracting a desirable and charismatic man considering how much of a rare elixir its made out to be on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:20 PM
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Yes. I get that right now. 5-6 calls a day feom annoying ass recruiters in India and 60 unread messages on LinkedIn. I would take this 11 times out of 10 over working in a call center again. Just GTFO if you're gonna try and convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:47 PM
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so I'm saving up for some plastic surgery. If you're actually being legit and this isn't some pathetic self flagellation then good for you. Surgery has done wonders for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:45 PM
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No it's not. Even if you're an American and a black male, you're significantly outnumbered by white women. You should be able to find one. And not every white woman who will be into you is merely "into your blackness". These toxic, low self esteem attitudes are almost as bad as having a lowly appearance. Attractiveness is also not all that subjective. A guy who looks like Idris Elba or MBJ won't struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:44 PM
2

Oh my god. THANK YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:39 PM
1

Oh piss off with this black pill, incel crap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:38 PM
2

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:58 PM
2

Again, you speak as someone who doesn't know the first thing about investing in their appearance. Trust me, that waitress has put in a ton of effort before leaving the house. Comments like these are why I get it when women bounce on their shrubby boyfriends or just go dead bedroom on there. I myself would hate to be with a guy who didn't understand the importance of keeping up appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:53 PM
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Lol somewhere more liberal than where you are. Still stand by my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:48 PM
2

Is that all you have in your wardrobe? T shirts and jeans???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:47 PM
2

You just said you're none of these things so what the fuck do you know about being attractive? Attractiveness is effort. Any woman who turns heads puts in work into her appearance. Hell, any man too. Decent, high quality clothing isn't cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:46 PM
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Is it? Where is the data for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:44 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:43 PM
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1 or 2 matches a day is fairly decent and may say more about your location than your desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:43 PM
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Not really no. I know everyone on Reddit is desperate to believe in the balding 5ft3 guy whose just oh so charming and sexy...but women have eyes too and there are a whole a bunch of physically attractive charming men too...probably the reason why guys in here struggle so much in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:42 PM
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No those are just the only jeans that fit well on a guy who trained his legs. As said a lot of you will wallow in failure and argue this pathetic shit until the cows come home...and then wonder why your dating lives (and your lives in general) absolutely suck. No, I won't be caught dead in a pair of $10 jeans thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:40 PM
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A big part of being fashionable is being up to date. It's the reason why no one tells you how sexy the guy in a g unit hoodie and three quarter lengths is. As much as the social failures on Reddit don't want to admit, being fashionable is a big part of being desirable. Don't refuse to wear decent clothes and then wonder why you're struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:37 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:34 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:34 PM
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Dating doesn't suck for everyone. If you're ugly and mediocre my post probably applies to you. Thats your problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:40 PM
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That the vast majority of people have no right to complain if they have difficulty dating? Yes, TBH. That's like you writing that people who have an IQ below 140 have no right to complain if they don't do well in school. No because a high IQ is not a requirement to do well. Its more if people were barely showing up to class, never doing their homework whilst complaining that school is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:38 PM
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The fuck are you even on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:07 PM
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Thats clearly not what men are talking about on here when they're talking about struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:49 PM
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The idea that Scandanavians dont approach is somewhat of a misconception. They're kinda like us Brits in the sense that they become pretty fucking loose when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:49 PM
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No they dont. Because a basic t shirt and shitty bootcut jeans dont fit well on a lean, tall physique. I would know because I have one. Chad isn't shopping anywhere other than Levis/Topman because those are the only affordable jeans that fit worth a damn and he isnt touching any t-shirt which isnt slim/muscle fit either. They don't have to expensive, but conscious decision making has to go into looking presentable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:46 PM
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So saying looks matter is black pill? No, black pill is thinking your natural born traits are a determinant of your looks and that nothing can be done to improve. Fucking pathetic when saying looks matter in your ability to date has become indicative with black pill rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:44 PM
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I genuinely pity people who think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:43 PM
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Then they should work to improve themselves. I'll struggle to get a decent rate on a mortgage for an averaged priced home with an average 600 credit rating, dating is no different. You can't be a 4-6 and wondering why you're not garnering any attention from the opposite sex when nothing about the way you look is remotely exciting to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:42 PM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:40 PM
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Pssst...there is no such thing as a "level of sociosexuality", unless you're a cuck who likes knowing his girl has been fucked by plenty of other men...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:38 PM
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A thots desire is hardly something I lose sleep over. Some of you can only attract desperate beta males and assume the same must be for every man. Your woeful choice of suitors are no indicator of the state of the wider gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:37 PM
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Dating is hard for everyone. Yeah, my life sucks and yet hear you are saying "dating sucks for everyone". Right, its my life that sucks and yet here you are claiming its difficult to fulfil the most base tasks of human existence...breeding. Jesus, Redditors...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:36 PM
1

A great opinion of you and attractive aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:34 PM
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Social skills are only seen as massively valuable to those who have none. Hence why so many on Reddit think its this massive advantage. I've never known anyone in real life who struggles due to some form of neuro divergence or autism and it tracks because autists make up less than 3% of the population. Again, this speaks to how many of you may be basing your reality of your severely socially handicapped friendship groups or parasocial networks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:51 AM
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Again. You people will say this and then complain about how the world perceives you. Every good looking man and woman I know at least tries to be fashionable which means keeping up with the latest trends. No it doesn't mean they'll be blowing their entire wage on new designer clothes (a lot do that anyway) but they'll have a decent amount set aside for shoes/kicks and decent, form fitting clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:48 AM
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MOST people dorn have mental or personality disorders..hence why they're DISORDERS. Maybe you're thinking about the reddit demonand assuming most people are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:45 AM
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I'm saying the nuances aren't that important. Sometimes a spade is a spade. If you want to take a gamble thinking someone dripping with indicators of their personality isn't what they seem to be then by my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:42 AM
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Well yes because "homeless" is a catchall term often used for those in insecure living situations as well those living on the street. But why are we sitting here pretending as if it's not a pretty clear indication of someone whose homeless? Are you seriously going to sit and say if you were asked to pick who was homeless between a guy whose clean and in presentable attire and a guy in tattered clothes whilst smelling of liquor, you're gonna pick the former? This is the point OP is making. Let's …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:35 AM
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I just told you. Why do you keep asking for signs? Promiscuous women, specifically involved in ENM or swinging, will pretty much tell you what they're into all on their own. That's kinda the point. And it's also true to a lesser extent for women who are promiscuous but don't partake in that too. As the great author, Maya Angelou said... "When someone tells you who they are, believe them"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:27 AM
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On it's own its meaningless, but alongside a bunch of different things it may suggest a desire to experience a variety of different partners. None of these are set in stone. They're meant to give insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:22 AM
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However, isn't it possible that a woman in her early 20s could be in to this just for the fun and not as a lifestyle? Maybe after having fun, she wants to settle down with just one guy - it's a possibility. Sure some prefer an ENM relationship but many promiscuous women eventually settle down with just one guy - speaking from his perspective, how would you distinguish between a promiscuous woman and some one who's not. This is what I mean. As someone who was in the scene heavy, there really aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:09 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:04 AM
1

Lol nice insight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:03 AM
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Lol, trust me, plenty of people in your real life know you're an escort. You've probably been outed already. You'll never admit it on here because you're too desperate to convince us all what an amazing life you lead being a sex worker 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:54 AM
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Loool as someone who has fraternitised with women who are into the "gangbangs in sex theatres", you can tell. Women into that scene let one know very quickly what time they're on...so much so a lot of them will tell you they're only wanting to date a guy form that scene. Again a lot of these comments come from a place of naivety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:51 AM
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Tattoos can look amazing...but are we really going to pretend as if they're not often a sign of behavioural divergence a lot of time? As someone said this is obvious to people not on Reddit. It genuinely makes one wonder about this site at times...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:48 AM
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Lol aren't you the guy saying you need a "high-n" woman because if so she'll be good in bed 🤣 No shit a woman doesn't need to have a million partners to be sexually competent...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:45 AM
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Are you seriously asking this? The tattered clothes, bad smell, visible signs of drug use and literal sleeping on park benches isn't a giveaway???? I can't tell if you people are arguing for the sake of arguing or genuinely are this socially hopeless...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:42 AM
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What lie detection is needed? Sluts, for the most part, don't lie. I would bet the prevalence of women straight up lying about their partner count is negligible. Instead people obfuscate, change subjects or have entirely different measures of promiscuity altogether. Plenty of women who will consider a blow job as not sex whereas a man might. That's why I agree with OP. A lot of you are socially fucking clueless. Discussions of the past aren't all linear based questioning where a man grills you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:34 AM
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Yep. Keep in mind it's a lot of women saying this too. My girl and I were discussing how she reckons there's a lot more autistic women than realised but it's likely heavily underdiagnosed. It's the same for ADHD (my girlfriend is a sufferer). Thots don't even hide the fact that they're thotting, the few who do always end up saying something which is a dead ass giveaway. A remember a girl I was talking to previously who literally told me on the second conversation that her friends judge her for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:31 AM
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Not on a daily basis, because no one goes out or dresses to impress on a daily basis. But if you're even remotely social and attend clubs/bars/restaurants/gatherings and you're not getting approached then yes my post is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:06 AM
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It's 8am where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:34 AM
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I'm not interested in sexy And with this comment alone why should I take anything you say seriously? Christ, arguing whether being sexy is important in sexual attraction. Fucking redditors 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:30 AM
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I personally don’t think she’s all that cute. Lol this quote is telling and shows where your head is at. You're cripplingly insecure and think your youth and looks should be bringing the world to your feet. I'm assuming despite this you're not actually meeting men who will treat you that way...hence why you're on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:03 AM
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You have options because you're young. The older and less attractive you get, the more those options dwindle. For both genders. Lol i remember when I was 23 too. You're fucking clueless. Not even sure why wasting my time responding to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:09 PM
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Yes they are applicable. I'm in the UK and boomer and gen Xer is a commonly used colloquialism here alongside the fact that Western Europe experienced similar population trajectories as the US. Christ, pick up a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:31 PM
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Did you have it better than your mother's? Honestly you sound young and not particularly informed. Your mother was liklekt a gen Xer or a boomer. Standards and costs of living were actually lower and the divorce rate was higher. I just laugh at anyone who thinks anyone who wasn't a young woman today was some kind of oppressed handmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:23 PM
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Do you dudes really think it's like this? Yeah it's a "vending machine" but those same men never respect the women on there. I met so many women online that I didn't even bother meeting in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:20 PM
5

Getting lucky should never be used as anecdote. Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:09 PM
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You're 44 and (if single) it's already way too late for you anyway. But, even then, being Reddit you're lost likely from an anglicised country and, as far as I'm concerned, my point still stands. You choose north Europe or the mainland where the women are younger and prettier (compared to the UK) or central, southern Europe where the women are (again) prettier but the behavioural expectations are more strict.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:53 PM
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The problem is, as a guy, I can't imagine what kind of sad fuck you have to be to think women have this kind of immense privilege in the dating sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:49 PM
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My mind is blown how many people here think women are some privileged class. Its hilariously pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:46 PM
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This. My girlfriend has spilt so much gossip about her friends and told me how their higher n counts always became an issue of contention. Its why I legit feel a lot "bluepilled" people on here have even more sorry social lives than their redpill counterparts. Dishonesty is hard and it kills relationships all the time. Only on Reddit is there this asinine belief that people can just bury their baggage on a fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:45 PM
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And what country would you move to? Northern/western Europe where the social standards are more lax but the women are in vastly better shape? Or much of the rest of the world where expectations of chaste of feminine behaviour are even more stringent? Lying is a skill and most people aren't good at it. The vast majority of people don't even want to keep secrets from a partner they truly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:42 PM
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No matter what you do, as a woman, men will want to fuck and date you. On top of that, a good chunk of men will be more than happy to pay for you and your time as well, whether it be on a date or through your relationship. No they won't. And the data supports me. Men are getting married less and the desirable men, those who are educated and wealthy, are largely staying within their socioeconomic groups. Honestly, male redditors have a rep for being losers but I've been saying that I think the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:36 PM
1

I don't think it's more important, it's just that women will compromise looks for someone whose more compatible with their lifestyle. Unlike men, women tend to not date outside of their social circle, socioeconomic group or race. HOWEVER, this is rapidly changing and I actually think its the other way round. Where men used to rely on social networks and am element or shaming to kettle in women's desires, things now seem more haphazard. Yeah you don't tend to see the goth girl with the cheerleade…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:23 AM
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WE HAVE TO WATCH WHAT WE EAT, EXERCISE DAILY AND SEE ARE DOCTORS REGULARLY So does everyone who is in half decent shape. You're no martyr here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:17 AM
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Because Reddit is full of delusional clowns who let their views shape their reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:28 PM
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A size 14 in America is a size 18 where I am. Its fucking big. My girl is a size 8-10 and she's never had to starve herself to stay in shape. Jesus some of you are so lazy or unwilling to pur effort into your appearance. It's not exactly some magical challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:22 PM
6

NYC has really lopsided ratios in favor of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:15 PM
3

No you haven't. Really annoyed reading this stupid rationalising nonsense on here. I've been active in the bodybuilding scene for years and I can't count on one hand the amount of dudes who weren't dating someone who wasn't into fitness themselves. I'm actually one of the rare ones to be dating a woman who, whilst not overweight, isn't a fitness buff either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:14 PM
5

Looool economists are known jackasses who have consistently proven to be absolutely no grasp on future outcomes and completely useless without state intervention. No "marketplace" exists in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:59 PM
3

I've got a ridiculously high body count and have a very high "sexual competence". What explains me having a preference for low body count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:50 PM
1

Yeah. Even more so. You're telling me you'd never feel some type of way if your boyfriends exes were all either fat or unattractive? Go on, tell me you would. Redditors have a propensity for being full of shit but I wanna see how bad it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:00 PM
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Would you write this same diatribe for a woman concerns about a man's "body count"? I'm assuming no. I've come to the conclusion that a lot of the stances here are purely written to appease women. And not just any woman, particularly attractive (7/10+) cisgendered white women. I'm about as sexually invigorating as it gets and I've dealt with a few "whores". I just wasn't hot about either being compared or the considerable "grass is greener" mentality that tends to come wirh promiscuity. Maybe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:58 PM
2

In my case, it’s talking about the ex after sex, even if it’s to say how much better the sex was with me, fuck off….I’m not a prop to help you get over him. Woah. Preaching there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:21 AM
2

Well thanks for letting me know you like broke, ugly dudes who dress bad. Your own lack of standards may not be the representative for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:13 PM
2

And which or these are "in the ways men find attractive". In shape men are more attractive to women. Richer men are more attractive to women. Well dressed men are more attractive to women. If you're going to bring up some dumb point about bodybuilding, you should know super jacked dudes do it to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:04 PM
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A lot of women really admire slim, elegant looking women. Model types. Men seem less into that look. How? All the most successful, powerful and famous men have women are slim and elegant looking. A bunch of runway models end up with athletes, movie stars and billionaires. The men who don't have them often time simply can't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:10 PM
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This is true. I find it even more pronounced being a well put together man. Jesus, some of the straight up resentment I get from women who almost find it an insult they're having to talk to a man whose of good appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:07 PM
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How can "things it takes to be attractive to be a man" not actually make men attractive? Christ the constantly stupid shit people write on here... Men work out, wear nice fitted clothes, buy cologne, moisturise, and make money as ways to attractive to the opposite sex. In what ways are these things women don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:04 PM
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Tbh it's not so much about attraction as much as it is about appreciation. It's hard to explain but if you're a man whose accomplished in any facet, you notice a certain appreciation from those around you. There are certain women (often older) who will tell me how great I may look even though I'm well aware they have no desire to pursue anything with me. This is what OPs talking about. I feel now so more than ever women are encouraged not to appreciate men. And it's this lack of appreciation a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah tbh I feel men are just more vocal about their appreciation. I'm in tremendous shape...to the point it gets commented on pretty much daily. But there are other things I do for my outward appearance. I invest a lot in good clothes, skincare and even more in aftershave. I actually appreciate a compliment more when it's on one of these things compared to endless comments about my physique. However many of those compliments only come from men. I feel despite societies complaints about men not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:40 PM
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Jesus, you are very inarticulate. That very sentence is contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:05 AM
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EXACTLY both. To the letter. Swinging clubs tend to attract women looking for multiple partners and A LOT of men either like simply watching or prefer to use the club as a way to meet future hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:10 PM
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This is just excuse making. You cant complain that your life sucks and do nothing to stop it sucking. There are literally apps for meetups and making friends. You can join a gym or a niche club. There is really no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:39 PM
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You will be surprised just how many girls act like this They're perfectly aware there are women who act like this. They are these women. I'm still mind blown a lot of people cant see the toxicity dripping from a lot of the female posters here. The entitled redpiller rhetoric isnt one way traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:27 PM
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Another friend of mine I've seen once a year for the last two years. 3rd friend I've been bugging him multiple days in a row so I can stop by his place and drop off a computer I made for him. I find that if you're not already social your social friends and acquaintances will avoid you, thus perpetuating the cycle. These people either 1. Aren't very social themselves or 2. Are actively avoiding you because they ain't really your friends. You need new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:22 PM
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It is possible to socially engage with people online. It isn't. Its only really valid if you're engaging with people you actually know...otherwise you simply have the emergence of parasocial relationships which is becoming a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:20 PM
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Actually a lot the matriarchal societies collapsed specifically due to patriarchal European colonialism. Those two examples were just the first I could think of. What bookends this point is that rhe only religion which largely survived colonialism in the region was Islam. Which is pretty damn patriarchal itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:05 PM
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Yep. Surburban and white. And I feel I can emphasise the racial angle because the development and implementation of suburban living was heavily influenced by the desire to keep black and hispanic people outside of these communities. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/how-federal-government-intentionally-racially-segregated-american-cities-180963494/ Its definitely visible in America (and to a lesser extent in some cities here in the UK, London is somewhat a misnomer due to its population den…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:06 AM
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Highly Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:48 AM
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Both Benin Kingdom and Ashanti in west Africa had highly influential female leaders. Both collapsed under the weight of patriarchal British imperialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:44 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:30 AM
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Its not. If you knew anything about the dynamic of those parties you would know its not that terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:07 AM
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Yeah that's because John F Kennedy was shot in the head, Diana died in a car crash at 37. If you can't tell the difference between those and a 96 year old woman dying of natural causes then that's precisely the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:32 PM
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The replies saying no. If they have kids, I wonder if they send them to the worst performing schools, in their neighbourhood? Conversely if they had the luxury of choice; would they choose a better school for their kids? They're actually the worst. The types that will come out and question you for looking "suspicious" if you don't fit the waspy physical or sartorial expectations of their middle class bubbles. If there is one thing I've learned being on Reddit, it's just how absolutely full of sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:25 PM
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Yes. And it does for EVERYONE. I'm in the UK and I've spent the last week watching people performative mourning for the death of a billionaire who lived to 96. Status matters to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:22 PM
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There are plenty of swinger parties that allow single men and I never saw the ratio beyond 1:4. Been to some nights where the ratio to was 50/50 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:20 PM
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That doesn't happen. Do you know anything about swinger parties or even been to one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:13 PM
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Nah, not really. A lot of guys like the sound of swingers clubs but it's another thing actually going to one. I've been to events with single guys and there's a few things to note. Any "swinger" event actually needs to have more men than women. When it comes to....ahem...performance. You quickly that men have a lot less stamina to "keep going" through the night. Not that many single men actually like the idea of having sex with a bunch of people watching or judging you. Stage fright. I also don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:11 PM
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Single men aren't really restricted from swinger parties. In fact, in my country there is quite a heavy demand for well endowed black men (or BBC as the quilloqualism is commonly known). There are about two dozen swingers clubs and half of them at least have "black man's fan club" nights which cater to women so inclined. And that's not to mention the "independent" ones. An acquaintance of mine runs an event which is VERY balls to the wall for women who literally want to live out the "dogfart" po…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:59 PM
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Preserving humanity isn’t a good enough reason for me Ita a good enough reason for others. If people aren't giving birth then you have demography and employment base problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:36 AM
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Wait...so being unattractive and fat means you suddenly attract guys who do value you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:18 PM
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What are you even talking about? I had a really awesome high school experience. I'm sure you did. Doesn't mean that you NOT being a hot girl in high school doesn't colour your perceptions. I played sports with some of those girls and really had zero negative experiences with them. I’m just commenting on trends I’ve noticed. You see here is the thing about, it ends. At fucking 18. Do you know the amount of goobers and class clowns I went to school with who've gone on to be engineers, investment b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:13 PM
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I don't need it to make me right. I've presented facts and data to do that. Calmly making your garbage points doesn't make them less garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:50 PM
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Also, I gotta be honest, I've not really seen this immense correlation with being hot and being this terribly entitled person. Met plenty of hot bimbos as well attractive women with intellect and integrity to spare. I think this speaks to the immense insecurities a lot of redditors have about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:46 PM
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Girls who are “hot” from a young age get a TON of positive reinforcement from it. They are also the ones more likely to dress in an overly-sexualized way to play up this strength. Wait...how? Since when did being hot mean you're more likely to dress in provocative clothing??? 😂 Wowser, the bitterness and cope with some these comments. I was NOT a hot girl in high school Wow. Never could of guessed that...🙄 Seems like a lot of you ain't gotten over high school either...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:43 PM
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I'm in the UK too. Ever more reason to note you being full of shit. Telling me to "calm down" doesn't make your points any less false or asinine. Young women aren't getting married because they don't want to get married. I'm hard pressed to find any young attractive women (or man) who wants to be shacked up with a marriage or kids at 25. But how does this prove your point? Claiming being desirable makes you more susceptible to bad suitors is about as idiotic as saying being fat makes you less li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:32 PM
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Being young and submissive is not synonymous with lack discernment or being unselective. Jesus, some of the pathetic garbage cope some of you come out with is pathetic. I know a ton of young nubile women with good partners and a ton of older birds who, at 35, still can't find a man worth a damn. You're not at a disadvantage by being desired by the opposite sex and claiming you are knly really speaks to your pathetic need to make yourself feel better. Hell, plenty of wealthy men are likely the ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:17 PM
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Keep in mind in another thread this woman will be saying she has no jealousy towards younger women. Can you imagine a short dude making a thread claiming he actually felt for taller men/"chads" because of all the sexual interest they got? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:12 PM
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No. There is no such thing as a "rational gender".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:43 PM
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Two $48k salaries is $96k. In many LCOL areas thats pretty serious. I have no doubt about the rising costs of living but do you really need to be rich to have a family? I dunno, I feel a lot of you have incredible delusions of grandeur. The vast majority of our ancestors were never rich in order to procreate...and the vast majority of you lack the skill, education or intellect to really expect to be massively high earners before breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:16 AM
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The major question is whether its out of choice or necessity. I'm leaning on the latter but we will have to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:13 AM
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As someone with poor impulse control and very low inhibitions, being a jerk almost comes hand in hand. Honestly, whenever someone these days tries to convince me that sexual success and adventurism isn't linked to even mild anti-social behaviors I completely disengage as 95% of the time I'm talking to a clown who still believes in perfect knights in shining armor. A big reason for this is the "corporatisation" of society. And its not even necessarily a bad thing. Much of our daily lives and ende…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:31 AM
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Why does it need to be "rational"? There is nothing really rational about liking taller men or bigger dicks but plenty of women do. Why is it always a man's preference that needs to be justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:24 AM
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Women like men who fuck a lot of women. They may not like the actual fucking but the ability to do so is highly attractive. I have a high body count but so do my male friends. They're all well put together, educated and in shape. No man gets sexual attention purely on the merit of being a man...thus its our achievements that make us more desirable. More achievements mean more desire from the opposite sex. Of course you'll get a bunch of the usual loser female redditors who populate this sub argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:22 AM
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I mean unleashing ones anxieties on others is a PEOPLE thing. Are we legit saying older women are incapable of this? Christ this sub is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:56 PM
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I have more faith in the opposite gender. Be it my girlfriend, female friends and even some messgaeboards...I've heard some not so pleasant aspects of female nature. And that's not even a slight. We are human beings and delightfully imperfect. What does disgust me is when I venture to reddit and witness some of the most facile virtue signalling I've seen on a public forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:54 PM
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That's not what I said, at all. I'm actually saying it's people in those fringe communities who know how to do open relationships properly. The vast majority of dudes with no exposure to that scene are the kind of clowns who think they're either going to get more action than their girl in an open relationship or those desperately trying to cling onto a thot who isn't that interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:37 PM
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Yes thats all women. I'm talking about women in 18-29 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:35 PM
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TONS are. If you haven't met them then you're living in denial. I'm also someone who was big into polyamory and other kink communities. I saw plenty of relatively "healthy" kink/cuckold/hotwife couples who has been married for decades in some cases with kids and mortgages and then the reddit/fetlife types who always skewed younger and were using it as some self destructive outlet for their behavioural relationship issues. I don't think I ever met a tolerable/likeable couple where it wasn't the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:04 PM
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Yeah at 31 is a bit silly. But I don't believe women don't have anxieties about aging. Hell, I know a lot of men with those anxieties. It's a bit rich when women on here try and sell the idea they're so comfortable with themselves whilst sitting arguing with redpillers and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:50 PM
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Yes. And if you disagree just read the comments in the Daily Mail. One of the most popular papers in the world with a mostly female audience. I'm not saying ifs guaranteed, but toxic jealousy of younger women expressed by older ones has been a narrative mainstay (in mostly literature aimed at women) for a reason. We live in a really bizarre time where toxic and negative female behaviour is being whitewashed. If you want a more legitimate discourse on this subject you're better off visiting the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:41 PM
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Because anyone who agrees with a sentiment expressed by redpillers is assumed to be an incel so I like to kill that assumption from the off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:38 PM
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online radfem spaces Lol and in another thread you'll be complaining that men get their perception of women from online dating. Too many of you gain your perception of reality from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:42 PM
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You don't have to pay for sex to desperate for it. Again, if you were sheltered you would know this. You dorks have no fucking lives, sit all day on Reddit and then want to lecture about what men or women are like. The vast majority of men (promiscuous men included) don't pay for sex so why the fuck do you keep bringing it up? Because you don't go outside and assume the creeps who obsess over escorts are the majority. They're not. You would know that if you actually engaged with men offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:38 PM
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He doesn't sound happy though. And cuckold relationships don't work like that. I've fucked plenty of cuckold couples and I would say that the guy was often way more into it than the girl was. This is the problem with a lot of the women worshipping clowns on here. Cuckolding is a fetish for couples to explore, it's not an excuse to be in a degrading one sided relationship where you can eke out your self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:21 PM
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Honestly dude you sound pathetic. And I don't say that as an insult. You need to grow a spine and some courage. When people here complain about "bluepilled" dudes. This is entirely what we are talking about. I'm also willing to bet this girl is more physically attractive than you. Some of you try to palm this off as being "understanding" but it always comes down to self service and sexual preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:15 PM
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I've actually ove met those too. The government of Gambia recently came out discouraging western women from travelling to their country to have sex with poor locals. Some of you are so fucking sheltered and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:12 PM
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Honestly some of the horseshit you people come our with genuinely disgusts me. What on earth makes a radfem more likely to be lesbian or asexual? Again, so many of you saying absolutely stupid shit just to say it. You'll complain about men having regressive opinions about women and then repeat these same regressive opinions as if you're saying something intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:10 PM
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Asian women are entirely culpable. It's not one way traffic and we need to stop pretending as if there aren't plenty of Asian women who act as if they're allergic to Asian men whilst putting white men on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:57 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/02/06/10-facts-about-americans-and-online-dating/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:50 PM
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Since when? I've known a lot of hoes who were desperate for dick. I've known ever more who were into completely indiscriminate sex. What fucking planet do some of you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:49 PM
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That's the most amusing thing. Women have become so tactless with how they approach men these days. To see these pathetic betas defending women who have no issue catcalling or ass slapping (I've experienced both in the last month) is just sad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:41 AM
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It does. For both genders. What annoys people is women trying to play it both ways and claim it doesn't matter when it comes to a woman's sexual promiscuity...but then those same people will claim it does when it comes to man, say, paying for hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:36 AM
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Not the majority. But a damn significant chunk. Pew pegs it at about 1 in 3 and that's for all women. I would guess women 18-29 is like 40%+
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:30 AM
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No it isn't. The entire discussion as thay meeting people on the Internet means attention is largely concentrated among the better looking men. Be it Tinder, Facebook or Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:14 AM
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No the fuck it isn't. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.statista.com/chart/amp/20822/way-of-meeting-partner-heterosexual-us-couples/ What the fuck is up with you people just saying stupid shit to say it. How about just googling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:04 AM
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There is no data to suggest anything like that among young people. If 1 in 3 haven't had sex in the last year then that already throws your statistic into disrepute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:38 AM
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Sex isn't a human right. Neither is the ability to afford a mortgage. But if people are increasingly doing neither then it's a cause for concern and worth analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:36 AM
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I don't mean just looks. I mean attitude. I essentially treat sex (and women somewhat) is disposable. Don't need to 250lbs to do that. Lol I wish i was 7% bodyfat btw 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:34 AM
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There is a whole host of data from a variety of countries showing the same fall in sexual activity among young adults. I'm not relying on a single study from one year with a sample size of 95 which seems negate data charted from 2009 up until 2018. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/parenting/university-students-arent-having-sex-parents-dont-know-whether/ It's a problem because sex leads to relationships and relationships lead to families. And it's not like data on happiness, satisfaction or men…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:21 PM
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Well for one the study you cite sample size for men under 30 is ninety-fucking-five so the room for error on that is going to massive. And an uptick of sexless men is a statistic worth acknowledging.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:45 PM
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That's ALL men genius. This discussion in about young men largely within the 18-30 cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:30 PM
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Finally. A post I can actually respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:19 PM
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I tried arguing this and got bombarded. I noted that it was really like shooting fish in a barrel whilst being an attractive male on tinder. Got accused of LARPing so oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:50 PM
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This is what we hope will happen. But, again, data is showing that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:47 PM
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We will have to agree to disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:45 PM
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What "latest data"? Are some of you just saying shit to say it? https://www.healthline.com/health-news/young-adults-especially-men-having-sex-less-frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:44 PM
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You must be fun at parties. Life isn’t fair or just, never has and never will be. And this is where redpillers have the drop. You can't claim that all that is required is being a better person and then just resort to "oh well life is not fair!!!" When you're presented with adequate coutnerarguments. One thing I'll give redpillers and blackpillers is they appreciate life isn't far from the jump, the former seems to suggest methods to accommodate that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:41 PM
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You say you're black. 80% of black women are overweight or obese and nearly 60% are single, dating among the lowest earning men. Being overwight harms their prospects as it does yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:31 PM
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Its not a subset. 60% of younger women are in education and educated women largely want educated men. Jesus fuck why are u all trying to palm this off as some kind of rare issue that is only concentrated among a subset. The very statistics quoted in the clip make it clear thats not the case. This sub is mental. When an issue is affecting nearly half of the population its a big deal. And simply letting women die alone is not a solution. Especially of you're even remotely concerned about demograph…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:30 PM
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I mean that's all well and good. But fundamentally we both know being slimmer aids your prospects and I would bet you're actually trying to lose the extra pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:08 PM
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Boom. Exactly..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:07 PM
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30% of young men have not have sex in the last year. No amount of horseshit you unload on here will make that statistic not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:06 PM
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Dating apps are where apparently 40% of newly single couples have met. Pretending this isn't an issue is the height of delusion. It's not about fucking cOnFiDeNcE. There were audible claps when Maher noted that more and more women were unwilling to date non college educated men. Too many dorks on here are obsessed with talking about social anxiety because they assume everyone else just associates with incels and reddit dorks. Many women are choosing to forgo dating altogether stating unhappiness…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:03 PM
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He mentions that lopsided gender ratios on dating apps. Did you even watch the clip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:56 PM
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It's not about me. It's about wider society. Women don't seem much interested in men that aren't like me and there is no point pretending as if they are because too many academics and analysts are starting to see the obvious reality that they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:55 PM
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That's fine. But the problem is with kicking ass is you need to what and to kick. I was able to make something of myself because I was largely around people who didn't appease me. I dislike when I get on here and have people making our as if most peoples failures are simply down to them not being "nice" enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:53 PM
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And yet you're here, presumably single, on purple pill debate. I don't deny there's plenty of men who are partial to a shapely larger woman (I am myself) but there is absolutely no point pretending its an ideal. You can do a cursory Google search of men who are at the top of the social hierarchy. Most aren't dating fat women. Jesus, there is really is too much delusion among women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:48 PM
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It doesn't though. The statistics all reflect that as well on dating apps. Since when was low-n synonymous with unattractive? If anything I've found the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:42 PM
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Nah. The average woman is like 5-6" shorter than a man. There isn't any reason for a guy to not aim for a woman of equal height or much shorter if he wants to. The reason is tend to disapprove of lopsided heights in relationships is the same reason I don't approve of stay at home dads or "AFBB". I feel these days women try to convince themselves its the wave only to end up bitter and jaded when it inevitably doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:31 PM
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That's the problem. Most of the shit said does work and it works to great effect. But indeed the problems are two fold. It's audience. Mostly made up of bitter, single men ripe for radicalisation. Women (many of whom know it works) but will play dumb because it doesn't benefit their own biological imperatives. The biggest problem is the lack of male role models in many lives which leaves an avenue for guys like Tate or Fresh and Fit. I was pretty much taught red pill ideology by my older brother…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:36 AM
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It's weird I used to be big into gaming but don't remember con culture such a big part of it. Guess that's just me as I never got that much into online/youtube gaming and the communities that sprung up out of it. Tbh, despite the deserved backlash again gamergate...I always judged women who were deeply invested in gaming culture negatively and if you were one of those who listed anything related to gaming in her dating app profile it was almost an assured left swipe from me. There is just someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:21 AM
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I doubt you know what a guy you've fucked needed to get laid. People without standards often don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:51 PM
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But you are the "sluttiest and the trashiest". You claim to have been fucked by guys you hardly know in front of others. You're the very definition of what you claim is "slutty and trashy" and it would be you whose delusional to think otherwise. And that was my point. Only the sluttiest (like yourself) would consider fucking him. Hence my advice not to wait on such low value women and instead cultivate a personality and physicality which would make him appealing to more than just those who (as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:48 PM
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If you lean blue pill, are against gender roles, etc then sex is a equal exchange and thus you can't get used in exchanging something of equal value with someone else. This. Its unbelievable. People arguing that a guy who wants to get laid os someone is "using" women. The same women will then get up and argue against archaic ideas on gender. More and more I feel "bluepill" is really a euphemism for the garden variety idiot who lives in an urban environment and shallows whatever mainstream faux l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:41 PM
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I'm not whining. Just calling you a social failure. That's the same opinion I have towards most women who post on here. You speak of experience and yet fail to realise that the vast majority of women are completely devoid of standards and self esteem that they'll fuck any dude within a throwing distance. For those with a semblance of self worth, it's best telling a guy that cultivating a personality, looks and liveability will work in his favour...not sitting around waiting for thots who get tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:36 PM
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Yeah. Again you're clearly one of those people who never partook in any of the fucking. It's not about effort. Tomorrow when I argue looks matter the most for men your ass will be sitting here telling me about personality. Women aren't walking up to guys and fucking them at random. They're fucking the guys who who've danced, kissed and chatted them up all night. Again, you would know this if you had some semblance of a social life. Plenty of wallflowers in most parties too just making up the num…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:15 PM
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Right and wrong. But I think me thinking you're wro g may be based on the European perspective. Here, clubs are more expensive but nothing particularly prohibitive. You're looking at about $50 per night a single guy and a lot less for couples and often free for single women. What I actually tend to find is that a lot of the good clubs will have membership fees to keep away the creeps. Having said that, I do agree that most men tend to feel put off by clubs as most aren't welcoming of single men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:07 PM
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Lol comments like this only serve to make it clear that its actually you who has fuck all social life and likely isn't someone who is particularly well versed at courting the attention of other people. Really annoying that the most of the consistent posters here are incels or social failure ass women who married the first 4/10 beta who gave them any attention and hold delusional views of either online dating or college life for those who actually have large friend groups. Simply going to a party…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:00 PM
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Lol comments like this only serve to make it clear that its actually you who has fuck all social life and likely isn't someone who is particularly well versed at courting the attention of other people. Really annoying that the most of the consistent posters here are incels or social failure ass women who married the first 4/10 beta who gave them any attention and hold delusional views of either online dating or college life for those who actually have large friend groups. Simply going to a party…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:00 PM
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Lol I wonder how many here claiming the hypothetical guy in the OP would he expoiting women by having sex eith lots of them are the same ones complaining about men not wanting women with high partner counts...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:53 PM
1

Having sex with lots of women is deceiving and exploiting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:52 PM
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+1 for charisma on command. Not really adherent of "bluepilled" stuff myself but it's kind of a shame because there used to be a bunch of YouTube channels in the early 10s which were geared towards improving social skill without the redpill tinge. The issue is now is that things have veered more to extremes. Redpill has descended more into an oddball conservative-lite political movement and "bluepillers" seem more and more to be those who believe in gynocentric, left leaning nonsense that tries …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:49 PM
1

I've never complained about dating apps and have been told by friends that Hinge is one of the better apps. Not sure what the fuck you're on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:42 PM
1

Whilst I agree with the sentiment, the CMV angle from me comes from the fact that I don't actually believe older women desire older, worse looking men. If anything, I've seen the opposite. Older women who largely regret "giving a chance" to uglier men who now want to experience a younger, more physically attractive and virile man. Its also why I can never fully get on board with the "AFBB" thing. Incels and redpillers complaints largely stem from thier inability to act. Of anything, I notice a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:52 PM
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It's not great but it's not exactly terrible either. Most people just don't know how to use it. Men need to adapt with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:27 PM
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They do though. How are literally walking outside and noticing a lot of young women not even paying attention to the road they're crossing because they're so glued to their phone and then assume they're not living online? I won't deny many of those people are likely on a messaging platform but many others are also on sites like tik tok and Instagram having their perception shaped by algorithms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:25 PM
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Reddit is bad for advice in general. If you're into redpill shit I would actually say you would be better off going to a dedicated mrssageboard for that. I used to post in MMA, boxing and bodybuilding messageboards and I found the discoure on there far better. You would have the incels but they were often drowned our by hobbyists who didn't need to descend into whatever weird cult was being sold. That's not to say the users were any better, but it was way less echo chamberish. The problem with r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:20 PM
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Last I checked Hinge was 6040. Don't know where you're pulling that shit out from. Also hilarious seeing a bunch of female lames who sit online arguing with incels all day claim they care little for male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:09 PM
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The remarriage gap between men and women is closing. Divorced women largely remarry these days. I think women say this shit desperately trying to convince others and themselves that they're totally not interested in male company but no one is buying it. If anything I would be more inclined to believe it coming from older women and gen Xers. But the millennials who desperately thirst trap on social media and popularised online dating apps? Lol fat chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:01 AM
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Right, so who do I trust. Some dumbass on Reddit or academics who've studied 40k students. ​ Hmmmm, how difficult...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:58 PM
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Wow, you're clearly not very bright. If there is only a one percent difference between those in the 18-29 group whilst the percent tsge gap is higher in older age groups then, yes, the gap is closing. Also, do you even know how percentages work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:21 AM
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What the fuck? Are you stupid? In what way does "study where men cheat more in all age groups except 18-29, where the difference is one percent" negate my statement that the INFIDELITY GAP IS CLOSING. Do you want me to post five other studies which say the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:01 AM
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They're average people with average expectations who live in the real world, and are fairly happy with the average results that they get. No, the fuck they're not. If you think modern millennials and gen Zers are happy with average then you're fucking delusional. A landmark study of 40,000 university students in the UK, US and Canada between 1989 and 2017 found that perfectionistic traits are more prevalent in young people today than 30 years ago. According to the research, the perception among …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:15 AM
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Everytime I post that the infidelity gap is closing I get downvoted looool https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/why-are-millennial-women-cheating-more-than-men No, women are not only having sex with hot and/or wealthy men...but if you're hot and/or wealthy, you would realise how much of the market has become about superficial standards. Some of these desirable celebrities and influencers are only a DM away. That shit has an effect. Every stat seems to suggest that less women are having relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:11 AM
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You could just say I'm wrong. None of you ever do when I make that assessment. Even if I am projecting, doesn't make it incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:04 AM
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Really? This sounds like scarcity speaking. So many of you dudes make it clear you don't get much and you're not that appealing to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:57 AM
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I'm not. The infidelity gap is closing rapidly among under thirties. https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/why-are-millennial-women-cheating-more-than-men I've literally seen this. When I was swinging there was an explosion in popularity among 20 somethings. Ths vast majority of them were looking for an extra man or wanting some kind of cuckolding experience. The whole reason I even knew that whole scene existed was when TWO WOMEN introduced me to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:40 PM
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Not anymore. https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/why-are-millennial-women-cheating-more-than-men Dude, where have you been
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:37 PM
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Same experience. The worst thing is that most of the dudes saying not the judge women's sexual pasts are exactly the types not to have the patience to deal with trauma or psychological issues that come with that behaviour. A lot of people are weak minded idiots who think their virtue signalling and milquetoast rhetoric will carry them through life. Why do you think so many idiots read self help books or follow snake oil salesmen on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:35 PM
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It's not about being angels. Its about who you "truly desire". One thing I won't deny is that a lot of men who participate successfully in hook up culture will spend a lot of time "fucking down". For women, its not the same. Men are way more horny and just about every avenue used to explore options for casual sex (clubs, bars, dating apps) will have a lopsided ratio of men to women. The chances of a women meeting a someone she "truly desires" are a lot higher than a man's. However its very rare …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:26 PM
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Other women only take positives from FWB relationships. To be honest I think a small amount of women are having most of the casual sex Yep. 20/80 works both ways, though I don't think those 20% are taking the positives either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:17 PM
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It's a fair question. When I was single I was not only using dating sites but hookup apps meant explicitly for NSA stuff or for swinger/fetish types. Whilst it was a pain for the average guy, it was apparently heaven for women/couples. A bevy of all manner of men at your beck and call with any and all attributes to be enjoyed. Tall? Available. Buff? Available. Huge dick? Right there. With the lopsided ratio in mind, it often meant men who didn't either have the requisite looks or attributes or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:10 PM
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Fair. Bur even excluding the alternative sexual lifestyles that still leaves cheating. There is a whole load of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:20 PM
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I will rep this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:32 PM
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No, it's settling. Even more so considering the rising number of female cheaters and rising number of couples exploring "alternative sexual lifestyles".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:29 PM
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Fair points. I'll keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:24 PM
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Pretty much. Its why there is endless debates about men desiring low n-count women. The fact a man even has a preference is an attractive quality in and of itself. Most people on this sub simply aren't appealing. Neither the redpillers nor the bluepillers/women who argue with them. I think the latter even less so. I get people disagreeing with redpill tenets but then I become a little more suspicious when people on here cry about men's feelings towards overweight/promiscuous/unattractive/sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:44 AM
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Women love guys with money, guys who are popular, guys who can cook, guys who know about exotic things, guys who write books and have traveled to exotic places like Batali. Lots of broke women have also been known to try and escape poverty by sleeping with their boss for promotions and raises. And lots of women who have made false rape allegations have done so because they regreted consensual sexual encounters or they tried sleeping their way up the corporate ladder but didn't get the results th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:30 AM
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Isn't that a good thing? So many of you come off as lames who have no real world experience on anything? Dudes who want virgins and dudes who want to cuck quickly are likely not the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:00 AM
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Lol as a dude who is often sympathetic to redpill idioms and sensibilities...I can say the dude definitely needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:54 PM
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Its funny, I argue against the idea that men not wanting to date promiscuous women is negative. But then I read posts like yours and wonder whether some of these people I argue with may have a point. That was one of the most pathetic diatribes I've read in some time. Jesus, do some of you not even read back the absolute shitw you post? Cool, you want to date virgins because you feel they'll appease your ego. But what's this garbage about women being women only being for emotional comfort and sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:51 PM
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So not here then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:29 PM
1

Who actually admits to having a long term unhappy marriage whilst in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:43 PM
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You age from 0 to 18 and suddenly you're "legal". Prior to that, your sexual identity is very clear. Although it's also clear that other women are in a sexual hierarchy. This is entirely based on the genetics you were born with, however, there are things you can do like makeup, workout, etc to improve your sexual hierarchy. The bulk of your value is based on sex. You will rarely be valued for your mind because the value of sex is so high. How much money does a doctor make in a lifetime? How much…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:14 AM
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You wear your virginity like a badge of honour and its kinda pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:06 AM
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Give men sex? This seems to fly in the face of redpill/incel rhetoric that women are often fucking chads. Sounds like your friends are ugly losers. I know a lot of women out there who fuck good looking/desirable men and feel little qualms about things not working out. Sex is a two way street, not some "gift" to be rewarded to men. When guys pay for things, get married, lose half their shit in a divorce, have to pay alimony/child support, get led on with no intention of ever being slept with and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:04 AM
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LOL not sure you can be lecturing about happy marriages when you're already on your second husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:48 AM
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Empathy is overrated. What is needed is action. Problem with all these pills is that people become consumed with their intricacies and end up in echo Chambers in a race to the bottom. It's why reddit largely sucks. When I heard about redpill I was on random messageboards it wasn't even called "redpill" but random gems on dating and women. Because there was no defined community, I could take concepts and apply them on the real world rather than argue with clowns or circle jerk with fellow losers …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:06 AM
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Endless sexual partners is just as damaging for men the same way endless power corrupts most men. Problem is, men for the large part are rewarded for both. Unlike men, women largely desire men who have high partner counts. Not because they have high partner counts but often because said sexual experience is often a marker for good looks, status, wealth and sexual prowess. The same is not the case for women. I know plenty of broke uggos who've fucked dozens of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:57 PM
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Again, using my experiencing in polyamory and swinging, the idea of the sexual liberated "unicorn" whose completely devoid of desire for romantic male companionship is just utter bullshit. The moment some promiscuous chick realise you're half way tolerable behaviourally she'll be trying to lock you down and keep other women away from you. Every woman on that scene had some sob story about trying to "make it work" with some other dude who just saw her as another woman to fuck. The rest already ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:54 PM
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Equals? No. Correlates? Most definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:48 PM
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And just having a low body count doesn’t make you worse off in bed. I banged a pornstar for 2 months. She was fun because she could legit come multiple times if you knew what you were doing, before she became sensitive. She startfished sex until I made little jabs about it(amazing BJs though). Best sex I’ve had was a virgin to me. No cap. Only downside is she is difficult to make come, you just really have to take your time. This is what I also find weird. I used to act as a "bull" for cuckold c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:39 PM
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Virgin? No. Legit have no interest in going down that road. Low body count? Yes. Honestly, I've dealt with women who've slept with more people than are currently online on this sub. I think sexually insatiable women sound good to those who have not experienced them but as someone who was deep into some divergent sexual communities, you start to realise they're often a fucking headache. So many of these women were perfectly decent people but they would always bombard you with their bullshit and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:29 PM
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You mean Bella Thorne? Former Disney kid and social media influencer with millions of followers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:46 PM
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Even as a man I understand that. A rather simple comparison is the current job market. I'm a senior devops engineer, there are tons of shitty, lower paid entry level roles out there...but why would I take them? Especially when I have years of good experience and qualifications under my belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:59 PM
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No the fuck they dont. The vast, VAST majority of Onlyfans models barely make $200 a month. https://influencermarketinghub.com/glossary/onlyfans/#:~:text=Most%20Accounts%20Take%20Home%20Less,less%20than%20%24145%20per%20month. Contrary to the beliefs of dry dicked dorks, Onlyfans is hardly the gateway to ultimate riches for any 7/10 willing to show her vagina. I slept with some stunning girls who barely broke the top 30% of onlyfans and were, obviously, making fuck all money. The ones who do mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:23 PM
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Status means you are the bad boy with hundreds of FB friends and instagram followers. You are the one people are high fiving and girls are gossiping about. Jesus, I hope you're 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:17 PM
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Why do so many of you idiots who clearly know fuck all about basic human behavior try to lecture on what tenets of whatever pill you want to dissect make sense or not? You're lecturing on status and looks when you clearly have fuck all of either. There are certain venues and stores that I can't even venture anywhere near until the bouncer has looked me up and down and determined I'm in the just the right amount of gaudy designer bullshit to convince him that my existence is worth a damn. Too man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:08 PM
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The lack of threat doesn't make it any less demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:00 PM
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He's a loser for feeling emasculated but you're a clown for wanting to enter into a mortgage agreement for someone you've only known for six months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:19 AM
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Finally admitting average women don’t experience this ridiculous abundance of men. I'm no redpiller, I don't believe average women have any advantages over average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:06 PM
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Wait...u still with this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:23 PM
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It is real. But I think its something that more pronounced among women who are at least 6/10 or above. Just speak to any attractive woman who was able to barter her looks and she'll tell you how challenging it was going from having men at your feet to having those same men kinda lose interest in appeasing you. What redpillers call AFBB is just these women realising their marketability and acting accordingly. The issue with a lot of online spaces where women act incredulous about it is often beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:17 PM
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Both my mother and my girlfriends mother experienced significant health complications upon entering menopause. Pretending its some wonderful thing is the typical asinine, horseshit I read from women on here. You have no idea just how debilitating menopause can be for some women to post this stupid, rationalising garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:10 PM
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don't agree with cat calling at all but it's hard for me to believe that most women get PTSD from it especially considering that most women enjoy the attention as well more so than the absence of it. I kinda glaze over when women complain about cat calling. I'm tall, black and very lean and muscular. I was literally catcalled outside the supermarket a few weeks ago and had my ass smacked in a club last weekend. Makes me he ain't distrust this idea that it's this oh so traumatising experiencing c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:50 PM
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Statements like these are why at laugh at people pretending the unhinged weirdos on here are just men. This is a laughably bad take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:46 PM
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Dicaprio is gay. Is painfully obvious now. Though it does make me laugh seeing people so outraged at an adult dating other adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:40 PM
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This is a fantastic write up on the importance of double sided reciprocity to build interpersonal relationships. I liken it to a bit done by a comic called Doug Stanhope who joked that it's actually your faults that endears people to you, not what makes you nice. Especially as a man. A flawed character gives people the opportunity to almost see the decency in themselves. One thing successful people have always been great at doing is cultivating relationships for their benefit and then using thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:45 PM
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It's kinda BS. It's mainly to do with income. I actually got a lot more sex when I was younger despite looking downright I credible now at 33. But the thing is, you become so much more content in yourself. I surprise myself how much I don't engage with the opposite sex even if they're sending lots of signals. That, in turn, is an attractive thing if you're 30+ and still in good physical shape. But, as said, most people age terribly to the point that when I tell people I'm 33 they're legit stunne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:30 PM
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10 - 15 at 23 is not average. Its way above and its fucking asinine how many of you not only think your numbers are normal whilst judging men for being the very people you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:26 PM
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Nope. "Effective phrases" are the underpinning of an entire industry of bullshit self help gurus. From Tai Lopez to Tony Robbins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:04 PM
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For the gender normally tasked with approaching, (with our species, normally men), it means there will always be someone else to approach. A man can encounter a lot of rejection, and still have an abundance mentality. An abundance mentality actually minimizes the emotional effect of rejection on men. If you look at rejection as a statistical part of the game, rather than a reflection on you, then approaching women simply becomes another video or casino game, albeit one with greater risks and rew…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:59 PM
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When they teach you maths in highschool, they often use things like BODMAS and PEMDAS, because acronyms and unique naming systems are often highly effective ways of communicating concepts to the uninitiated. And, even then, no (again) "plenty more fish in the sea" is almost always the refuge of the dowdy male loser trying to cope for the fact that he's been rejected for the 50th time. I see why people run from it like the plague. My older brother told me about creating abundance by not simply th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:54 PM
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Most men who command the respect and attention of other men are desired by women. Do you actually know any men like this? I can’t stand a “only has female friends” type of man. These men often aren't very successful anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:20 PM
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He's right though. Everyone I met who said "plenty more fish in the sea" often said that when they were rebuffed or not having any success with a particular individual. Its not the same as acquiring an abundance mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:18 PM
0

bye bye femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:15 PM
1

Erm...okay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:26 AM
1

Which in now way negates the fact you're angry at him sleeping with others? Why do you people say such stupid shit which doesn't support your own stances?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:26 AM
1

You fall in love with someone after two months? That's just lust and infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:00 AM
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Erm...yes? How fucking desperate are some of you???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:37 AM
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The "bluepill" really isnt that different from the "blackpill". Its largely a difference based on being comfortable being a social and sexual failure and the other wallowing in self pity because of it. Check out this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/weqde7/would\_you\_wait\_to\_have\_sex\_until\_a\_relationship/ Look at how visible angry the women are. Dude is seeing a hottie and two other less attractive "side pieces". Apparently he needs to drop those women immediatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:31 AM
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Well I agree mostly to an extent but how often do you hear about 30+ year old women sleeping teenaged boys? HUH? I hear about it all the time. There is a story in the news every fucking day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:24 AM
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No it's not. One of the biggest contributors to increased lack of sexual activity among millennials and gen Zers is economic vulnerability. Frankly, the more successful you are the better you do. The problem is most on PPD aren't successful and often aren't all that socially capable either. It makes them feel better by thinking there are a bunch of uber successful incels out there who somehow are inferior because they're lacking in "personality" but reality says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:05 AM
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looksmatches Lol again these fucking incel terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:26 AM
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I mean you literally have on your page a bunch of sex personals. You're exactly the kind of person who would think women are magically more adjusted on here. I mean, you need to incredibly lame and creepy to use this site like its Craigslist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:19 AM
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As I keep saying. Incels are a minority within a minority. There are too few of them to make any kind of observation on male behaviour. Most are often soberly autistic or socially stunted anyway. I don't really care about incels and, increasingly, I wonder why so many of you are so obsessed with them. I legit believe its because many of you struggle just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:10 AM
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If dudes want to make excuses they can. That's not my problem. Not going to pretend looks aren't important because some dude doesn't want to get his finger out of his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:08 AM
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So, by this logic, should I sit on white supremacist forums arguing with racist idiots too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:07 AM
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As. I keep saying. Most of you are as much failures with the opposite sex as the incels you argue with. Most of you don't even deny it. Explains why you think someone saying they have effortless sex on tinder must be larping. How pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:06 AM
1

Elliot rodger was a mass murdering weirdo. Thats your example? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:01 AM
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EVERYONE makes conversation. Am I in any way more charming or "better" than a guy without success? No. The fact that people can't accept the immense advantages good looking men have speaks to a naivety which a lot on this board are notorious for. I also find it surprising how many seem to think women have a particularly strong sexual selectivity. As I keep saying, if any of you knew attractive men, you wouldn't be even denying this. You'll literally see their hundreds of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:30 AM
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I think socially maladjusted dudes are probably more the norm here They're not. Can't stress that more. There are a lot of weirdo femcels on here. Men and women on Reddit are as lack socially as each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:27 AM
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Drinks? No. Do you legit think making basic conversation to the point a woman comes over and fucks is some herculean task??? Or one that requires an above average amount of charm?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:20 AM
1

I'm actually 283lbs. It fluctuates 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:18 AM
1

Only on here can hooking on fucking tinder be seem as LARPing...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:17 AM
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No. I don't take lessons from those whom man pay to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:14 AM
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There is plenty of good discussion to be had about modern dating. Unlike you though I'm not a loser whose obsessed with incels and their online daddies like Peterson because she's probably possessing those socially useless tendencies herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:13 AM
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Says the person who thinks you need to be famous to have frequent sex lol Good-looking weird guys struggling with women is also a real thing. Of course you would say that. As said, you speak like someone who can't get pussy to save his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:11 AM
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Loool dude you sound like a dude who gets no fucking pussy. Jesus dudes out here legit think you need to be famous to get laid frequently 🤣🤣🤣 lol how do you think there are almost 8 billion of us running around?? People are fucking. Lol its 2022 and women's standards ain't that high, da fuck is going on in this forum??? Yall complain about incrls but you all seem just as socially hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:10 AM
1

Lol am escort lecturing me on dating norms. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:07 AM
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Men will fuck hot sluts but not marry them. Please don't tell me you believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:05 AM
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Lol Jordan Peterson hasn't been relevant in the mainstream since like 2018. Again, who cares? I honestly think people like you obsess over this shit brcsue you have no lives. You live in this bizarre internet bubble where you assume thede conversations actually matter whilst repeating every stupid fucking twitter buzzword. Go outside and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:04 AM
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I don't give a fuck about this sub. OPs topic pertains to people outside of this sub. It would be nice if you gender war addicts would refrain from treating every topic as one that needs to be addressed from the point of view of some loser redpiller or incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:01 AM
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How? The question makes me think its something you're praying is not true. There are a whole load of hot guys who treat tinder like a pussy buffet. Just because you're not attractive enough to enjoy the spoils doesn't mean it's not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:59 AM
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Lol I guess my lived reality doesn't count. Jesus you people are fucking sad. Imagine being triggered at the idea that women aren't all that behaviourally selective with attractive men. Lol I honestly blame Disney for grown adults being this naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:58 AM
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A lot of the women on here are the same pathetic, delusional l losers they claim incels are. Most men have basic sociability. Laughable she claims people are chronically online whilst trying to make out as if socially maladjusted dudes are the norm. Honestly, people don't realise how many women on here are the same terminally online clowns they claim TRP types are. Probably why they rail against them so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:54 AM
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Lol yes. The last two people I met on tinder was a girl u literally came over on the same day and a cuckold couple. Neither asked me to "escalate". We sat, talked about being on tinder then went upstairs and fucked. I went to the girls house so getting her a drink didn't really apply 🤣 MOST men are capable of basic interaction with the opposite sex. Again, stop using incels as a baseline for male behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:50 AM
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But...he gets girls. That's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:44 AM
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I've literally done it. Multiple times. As said, get a fucking life and stop thinking loser incels make up the bulk of the male populace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:38 AM
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As such, he does get girls So to agree with the OP, you've completely negated their stance. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:35 AM
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unless you are getting those girls to come to your house Again, I did this plenty times on tinder. Being a "social human being" is what 99% of the population does. You clowns clearly spend too much time around losers and autists and think that makes up the bulk of the population. Most men outside of here can conduct basic conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:33 AM
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they literally believe chad puts up a tinder profile and a girl delivers herself to him like a pizza and has stone cold sober sex with him just for being good looking even if he literally acts like a plank of wood. That's literally what happens. These posts really give away who doesn't associate with desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:31 AM
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No part of trp or inceldom has ever stressed chad being charming. You're just making thar up to make yourself feel better. There is a reason they run experiments on tinder using hot guy pictures as pedos and sex offenders. Men will readily fuck Stacey, Becky, Henrietta, Lucia the agoraphobe, and Beatrice the beast. Women do the same thing. You've never been on of these men, so it's like trying to show a dog the workings of a computer. A lot of guys do operate on a different playing field. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:26 AM
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Be hot. Don't not be hot. Legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:16 AM
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I got drawn into it. Surprise, surprise 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:15 AM
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Lol I was truthful the last time 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:13 AM
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When it comes to sexual attraction, guys like you take for granted just how similar women are to us men. Ask any "chad" and they'll happily tell you of all the times they fell into pussy. All this talk of confidence and personality is irrelevant. The vast majority of people can carry basic conversation, incels are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:12 AM
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Why I ask? You're just gonna say I'm lying 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:09 AM
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Dude. A lot of women just want to fuck a guy whose hot. Ain't no rhyme or reason to it. I laugh at clowns who post shit like you do thinking women are this mystery to be unlocked. I'm tall and muscular and have a big dick. If I shut up long enough women just end up sitting on said dick. All this talk of confidence of self assuredness is for the birds. I know a lot of you want to think that a woman is sooo into your unique personality and your collection of Pokemon games but, for the most part, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:07 AM
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Sowwy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:03 AM
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I don't get why dudes like you are so insistent on fighting redpill ideology. I consider it mostly a joke and got banned after about five posts when the sub was here on Reddit. But what gets me is the guys so offended by its existence. Its almost like you fear some of the shut they say having merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:03 AM
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Partner count probably 350+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:58 PM
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No. Before getting into a relationship and during our hiatus, I tested out how much of a dick I could be and get away with it...honestly I feel I got more success when I became more egregious. Yes, social ineptitude ain't cute but the amount of hot guys and girls I've met who can barely construct a sentence whilst coasting through life and love does worry me at times. And it's not that being attractive makes one more likely to be "dumb" (I've met plenty of hot smart people) but I just feel it ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:53 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:43 PM
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Actually countries like India produce more engineers than here. You're not particularly bright and don't really understand what patriarchy even is. If you think everyone outside of the west is simply either a baby maker or a child rearing then you have literally no knowledge of the vast vast changes which have been happening pretty much everywhere outside of parts of Asia and subsaharan Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:37 PM
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Lol this post is laughably contradictory. Most men don't care about a woman's sexual history OK they just don't want to hear a about it Soooo they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:32 PM
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Like that's all women have ever been valued for I actually don't think that's the case. Especially outside of Western spheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:48 PM
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letting them drive you around and feed you, have (orgasmless for them) sex and then let them drive themselves home. That's not a rare experience for women. Huh? Whats with all the femcel freaks on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:34 PM
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You can infer lots of things about people without explicit knowledge. I'm certain you would say you can tell an incel from the way he carries himself and the shit he says. Its the same the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:01 PM
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All the people I've meet into it are weird (no offense). None taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:59 PM
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Hot/hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:04 PM
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The lifestyle is extreme but it really shows what extremes people tolerate and with whom. All pretenses are put to the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:02 PM
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Tbh that's some wisdom. But it's a difficult thing to decipher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:47 PM
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No I think bring unattractive is a bigger penalty in one's dating life than anything else. I think people will ignore a litany of red flags in pursuit of more attractive people. Of course this isn't exactly a revolutionary take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:46 PM
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That's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:43 PM
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I'm certain they won't. But it still doesn't negate what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:39 PM
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Competence. Genuine confidence I feel comes in the ability to reach goals or overcome challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:33 PM
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I think pair bonding is one of the dumbest terms I've heard in a while. But if you think wifing a hoe doesn't significantly increase your chances or divorce then I have no legitimate respect for you. And I legit think you're too stupid to reproduce. 2022 may be the year dumbass redpill culture goes mainstream but im seeing a ridiculous dichotomy where some men try to negate that misogyny by being absolute fucking apineless retards with no sense of self preservation. If you think the added risk i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:22 PM
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Tbh nah. Being good looking means you can kinda coast in a relationship. It won't be ideal but you'll have plenty of offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:04 PM
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I'm a good looking guy. Don't even bother to be modest anymore. On any given day I'll get compliments from multiple men and I've been hit on in public multiple times, catcalled, groped...all that bullshit. Tbh no, good looking men don't struggle. You just don't. Anyone saying you do is likely bullshitting. I'm a super intimidating and standoffish asshole and there have been plenty of times I've just fallen into pussy. Using Tinder was like shooting fish in a barrel. My partner count is disgustin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:00 PM
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Interesting. I notice certain "blue pilled" posters on here that I disagree with and often you people are former conservative christians. I was raised in a pretty conservatives Christian household in the UK but was heavily exposed to American televangelist charlatans like Creflo Dollar, Joel Osteen and Benny Hinn...hell, I went to a Morris Cerrulo "salvation event" when I was about 12. However, I feel the reason I don't completely rail against Christianity is because I was still exposed to a div…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:48 PM
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Good question. I don't have a strong stance either way. I had FWB back when I was single and I would guess the reason I did t commit to them was because I didn't feel they were the right fit for a relationship. What does always intruige me is, as said, how common it is now and the reasonings behind some peoples unwillingness to commit. I actually think it's one of those questions that gives redpillers some vindication. Same with someone recently asking how many people knew their partners n-count…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:39 AM
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What kind of stupid fucking comment is this? People want to be complimented to their faces. It would be pretty shitty if I never said anything good about my kids except when they weren't there. People need positive reinforcement and men in relationships are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:04 AM
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I find that a bit rich from someone try to tell me there was a difference between rape and "real rape". As I said, you clowns actually think you're virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:38 AM
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It's because the "seperatists" never actually separated. They never stop talking about women and some go as far as planning terrorist attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:21 AM
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No. We don't agree. Because you've clearly implied multiple times that a woman's sexual history is not important and that's the literal antithesis of everything I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:14 AM
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The actual number is irrelevant. This is my issue. I'm thinking about women in real life and you're thinking about the manosphere. So many of you are so obsessed with your little Internet gender wars that you insert that horseshit into everything. I don't care for FDS, TRP or any other bullshit acronym used to describe internet dwelling dorks. For women in real life, a significant amount can be deduced about their attitude towards sex from the shit they say, the experiences they've had, the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:07 AM
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The problem is you put women on a pedestal. As the original poster said, most people aren't that clever. You can fucking deduce a lot of feelings from body language let alone the shit people say. There is a reason why FBI agents and intelligence operatives in the field often have years of experience and training. Behaviorual opacity is difficult. Why on earth are some of you so enamoured with the opposite sex? It's fucking pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:46 AM
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I've dealt with sluts and super sluts. There isn't that radical a difference. It's about female nature. Once that door is opened there is no closing it. They're not that hard to read. Extensive sexual experience constitutes to ones expectations and experiences and they show themselves in any long term interaction. At least they do to men who have some experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:40 AM
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My ex was a cam model. Her disgruntled ex boyfriend sent some of her pics to her workplace and she was subsequently fired. The guy did get a year in prison for revenge porn tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:05 AM
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Nope. I know a girl who does OnlyFans. Old fuckbuddy of mine. She's absolutely stunning. Just gorgeous cute and beautiful at the same time with an amazing figure. Makes a whole bunch of boygirl content too. She makes fuck all on onlyfans. It's legit hard and those you see who are successful are largely those who've leveraged large social media followings. One thing thay intruiged me was the type of exclusive content a lot of her subscribers were wanting. It wasn't so much sexual but strange requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:59 AM
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The more you guys talk, the more it seems you've never actually dealt with the sexually experienced women you cape for. It's not even about hoes "slipping up", extensive sexual histories come with a whole load of baggage, expectations and behavioural quirks that can't be ignored by anyone with a modicum of understanding of sexual nature. I think the reason why I'm better at deciphering this is because I spent a lot of my early twenties dating significantly older women. One of my earliest on/off …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:35 AM
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I don't know if you have much experience of these relationships. Everything about your posts makes me think they may sound good on paper to you but you haven't actually lived them. I've been deeply involved in both pplyamory and cuckoldry and met plenty of men who genuinely LOVED the idea of their girl fucking other men. Almost every one of them complained about how hard it was to meet a woman who could look at them the same way for their fetish. There were rare exceptions but they were just tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:27 AM
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As someone who literally fights in BJJ comps and K1, I can tell you size and musculature count for a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:26 PM
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Have you been in a physical altercation before? They often don't last 5 minutes and a middleweight like Silva doesn't have the luxury of weight classes. And, even then, musculature and size are hardly inhibitors of genetic survival otherwise west Africans, Polynesian and Nordic men must be doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:45 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:59 PM
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We basing dating on aushwitz now? I legit wonder about the IQ of some of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:57 PM
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Should tell that to Francis Ngannou
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:56 PM
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Yeah except most women aren't homosexual or bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:23 PM
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Life is weird. Indeed it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:32 AM
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Actually that's not true. There are plenty of middle roaders, redpill/seduction types and bluepillers on here. I've said multiple times that a certain subsection of women focus on incels because, in truth, they aren't all that successful dating themselves. It's easier to dunk of some delusional clown who believes all women are the devil than it is to engage with a dude asking legit questions about double standards and misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:56 AM
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Boom. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:42 AM
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Tall, decent looking, fashionable, wealthy, fit, sociable; the god damn works They're not gems. Most of them are full of shit. Also, as someone who dislikes a lot of women and doesn't struggle with the opposite sex...disliking women hasn't really been something that has held me back. In fact I would actually say my general scepticism was seen as massively refreshing for a lot of them. Yeah they wouldn't brag about me to their friends but I can happily say I've not experienced the horror stories …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:41 AM
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A $10m endowment and the only thing you can think of improving is your sex life? Some of you are fucking losers man. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:21 AM
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I got locked out of my coinbase account today. No biggie I thought, I'll give them a destination address for me to move my bitcoin. Turns out they haven't and I likely won't be getting my money back. I come on Reddits coinbase sub for advice and half the posters seem to think I'm at fault for an unscrupulous company not allowing me access to my own money. Some say coinbase is incentivizing some to play down their numerous customer service limitations. You only need to have seen coinbase recent m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:18 AM
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i used to date ugly men who lived with their moms thinking they would treat me right. Of course you did. You need to fix your non existent self esteem before lecturing about which men are decent or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:30 PM
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I'm way older than 25. Tbf 200k guy is about 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:13 PM
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Yeah but...who cares about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:12 PM
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Women comment on social media all the time about their beautification regimens and their fashion purchases. Thats social media. There are a bunch of roided up fitness models on social media too. Doesn't mean everyone I see is jacked. The majority of women are NOT into improving their appearance lol where are u getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:25 PM
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lol you've lost me completely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:24 PM
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What do crime stats have to do with anything. This is what I am talking about, a lot of you sound as socially hopeless as the incels you like to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:18 PM
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Yeah, no. Lets not do this bullshit. Women are just as mediocre as the men and just as many are looking for a long term partner. Posters like you are as fucking irritating as the incels. A study here in the UK mentioned that only 50% of women do rigorous physical exercise at least once a week. And thats a survey...meaning there are whole bunch of out of shape women walking around. And I see plenty of disgusting looking women too...I legit don't see any major differences in physical upkeep in eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:13 PM
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LOL thats whats amusing, they're not complaining. Never said they were. In fact they where their partner mediocrity with a badge of honor. Makes y'all "not shallow" apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:07 PM
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Boom. Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:05 PM
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It doesn't even matter, these are "ideals". There are going to be plenty of people whose ideal would be one race and they're dating another. Its not a topic I'm particularly invested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:45 PM
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A lot of them say as such. I dont know why people make this dumbass statement. I've seen women reveal their partners dont do laundry, don't exercise, are below average female height, are broke, are virgins (people are saying that in this very thread). Its assumption based on the demography of Reddit and the fact I'm not going to pretend as if a woman who spends her time arguing with incels has some crazy busy social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:41 PM
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I dunno, I'm just going off the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:37 PM
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Both genders can be jaded and have very polarizing views on this subreddit Jesus, to think this is a controversial statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:37 PM
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Oh and let me guess, you're one of these "wholesome" people right? God, Redditors are such clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:56 PM
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Being an attractive woman doesn't make someone a better partner either but we all know highly attractive women are more likely to get more responses on any dating site. I'm not here to argue bullshit arbitrary nonsense with another delusional PPD woman. Height, resources, good looks, physical fitness are desirable to the opposite sex. Case closed. Insane that someone is legit trying to argue that a tall/successful/educated man isnt seen as a catch...when every other fucking publication has women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:47 PM
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We may laugh at redpillers about 20/80 but it makes no sense to. Basically women want thetop 20% of men. And so they should, they're no longer reliant on men for economic reasons and in many metropolitan areas they outearn men under 30. Of course these women are going to have higher standards for the guy they date. But more desirable dudes often have multiple women to choose from. Any woman who isnt interested in being pumped and dumped is largely going to sit out dating altogether. Its already …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:25 PM
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perhaps they are overestimating their own value and not dropping their standards This is all it is most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:10 PM
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Yep. I see it both online and in real life. And what blows my mind is the endless complaints from bluepillers about incels when, judging by some of the topical choices, there are just as many pornsick, inexperienced women on here too. A lot of virgins, FDS femcels, and "I've only had one boyfriend and he's a furry" types on here Yes, women's standards for sex have gotten higher. But men's standards for relationships are higher too. I graduated eith 3 other dudes. All of whom are more than decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:02 PM
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Again. Go outside and touch grass. Most people who are attractive and successful ARE socially capable. Their social capability is often the reason they're attractive and successful. Problem is you're doing the same annoying shit most people here do, conflating social capability with "niceness" and it just sounds like a rationalisation for mediocrity. Plenty of attractive and successful dickheads end up with partners because they're attractive and successful, and actually so...not clowns on Reddi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:47 PM
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Rational traits 99% of the time do pretty much guarantee dating success. I dont know many tall, attractive, fit or handsome dudes who haven't had any success in dating. I don't know any wealthy dudes struggling to meet the opposite sex. I don't know any pretty women who absolutely cant find a date. The problem with these discussions on the internet are that they're on the fucking internet. A hive of mostly losers who lives suck so much that they need to come online and fake their reality. Any du…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:15 AM
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As sad as it is, I actually wasted the last 5 minutes reading your laughably pathetic posts. But then shouldn't have expected much from someone who legit named themselves "reddits older bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:39 PM
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What always amuses and blows my mind about this sub is how seemingly being a man and having a high partner count is worse than being a woman. But then I remember most of the women on here are losers who talk about their mediocre partners and the guys are mostly incels and ex-incel white knight clowns. This argument is redundant. Few respectable men in real life is wifing a promiscuous chick. Some try and learn the hard way. Others have a fetish for promiscuous women. No amount of bullshit blovia…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:24 PM
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Limited by practicality? Yes. Limited by biology? No. I mean, Elon Musk just had a lovechild at 55. Thats not happening on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:36 PM
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I honestly don't think the men or women on this sub are all that different. When I think back to the times I struggled in real life and women gave me good advice (which was rare) it was often those who had the best success who were able to adequately identify the issue I had and then offer good solutions. I'm a guy who gets a lot of attention from the opposite sex and the women who kept it were always those who weren't necessarily the most stunning but the ones who were great at making me feel u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:02 PM
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A few... "The wall". It does exist. I wont let anyone tell me different. Literally had my girlfriend kinda hardball me saying she would walk if we she didnt have kids by 30. I'm not even mad at her. I think the desire to have kids is an evolutionary itch most simply cannot scratch. I think Reddit is full of jackasses with no sense of self awareness who like to circlejerk in subs like antinatalism but the fact is, many of us if not most want to pass on our genes. Women's time is limited and I gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:36 PM
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The chick is a weirdo. Her posts really stand out. But I think her mentioning that she hasn't dated a guy who she hasn't approached and the fact that her man is socially awkward kinda makes it obvious she unhealthily obsesses a little too much with sexually confident men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:20 PM
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And honestly, the girls that spend every weekend at bars ARE the judgy, mean types Oh look, Nice GirlTM
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:15 PM
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He said she’s very smart, charismatic and charming, the sort of person that can make you feel special and is actually fully present in a conversation, makes you feel like they’re really listening and interested. I guess that should give some insight into their relationship. I dont doubt any of that for an absolute second. But she still was the person whose brother had Bezos dick pics. Just cant unsee the conflict of interest there. And yeah, I don't think I'll ever attest to Bezos being socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:34 AM
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If I went to KFC and didnt get any chicken I'd be mad...don't mean it aint cheap ass chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:39 PM
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They will fly to a 3rd world country and have sex with boy toys Is that...better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:37 PM
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nerd will wife you up in a heartbeat and probably be a good husband. this is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:55 PM
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The fact that you're even asking the questions means you're in a better position than a lot of women. The question now is what you're going to do about it. Some relish the fact that they're unattractive and use it as a crutch, others use it as a means of motivation. My biggest issue with a lot of undesirable women is how many who refuse to admit their undesirable. At least the incels know they suck and the redpillers know they need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:50 PM
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What's with all these threads anyway?? 90% of the women I came across on dating apps were utter gutter trash. They really don't deserve anyone carrying out these idiotic experiments to determine whether they're worthy of attention. If you're anything resembling fit and don't look like fucking Jay Z/Steve Buscemi in the face then a bugger worry should be how to weed out the acres of garbage women online, not wondering whether you'll get likes compared to "chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:47 PM
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There is though. I've had plenty of older fuckbuddies who spoke about their lack of satisfaction in regards to their romantic lives. The "wall" may not be some horrible end to ones romantic life but there are plenty of older women who, if they're being honest, will know that many of their options have shrunk. Its not even due to "competition" from younger women but more due to the fact that a lot of viable men are in relationships are raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:56 PM
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Not really much a friendship group then is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:47 PM
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Ah yes, some good ole bodyshaming there too...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:20 PM
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Hopefully this is some trolljob because you literally don't sound all there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:19 PM
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Mostly all guys want the kim kardashian look As someone who likes fat asses...no the fuck they don't. And Kim Kardashian isn't even an example of a good fat ass. Its deformed as all fuck. I mean seriously, how does this poster sound any better than the garden variety delusional incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:35 AM
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Lol its crazy men here are deemed all incels and redpillers when I see just as many "incel"ish posts from the women on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:34 AM
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Its what I find a bit unnerving about this sub, I legit think its worse than FDS in some ways. The doublespeak is kinda insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:33 AM
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If a woman already likes you a lot she'll excuse a lot Good point. I think this is what I struggle with. I put a lot into my physical appearance. I'm at the point where I stand out a lot. Whilst its been a fucking long time since I struggled with the opposite sex, I'm kinda at the point where I realise I really didnt need to invest this much into my appearance or various other aspects of myself to enjoy any kind of success. The bar is low but that bar's "lowness" I think heavily depends on vario…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:20 AM
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And thats cool...but I heavily dislike people dressing up that need for excitement as something more virtuous than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:02 AM
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I dont really care whats a "good look".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:41 AM
2

Your guess would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:35 AM
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I don't think it's devoid of logic at all. I just think behind the big business and captaining of industry, Bezos is fundamentally a dork getting played by a seasoned hoe. His current girlfriend has already dated a whole bunch of NFL players and somehow was embroiled in a scandal involving sexts and intimate pictures of Bezos which apparently ended up in the hands of her brother. The world saw the look she gave Dicaprio right in front of him. A lot of middle aged guys love the excitement of a "d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:32 AM
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Elon Musk fucked staff members and is already under investigation for sexual misconduct. I find it amusing how anyone can use "looking for happiness" and Elon Musk in the same sentence. More so considering he's your ex husbands best friend. I dunno I would think fucking my girlfriends friends is off limits but that's just me...and I'm hardly some arbiter of moral justice. Again, I think a lot of women on this sub talk a good game about their virtuosity but comments like these really reveal many …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:27 AM
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He's not even funny. Tweets like a 17 year old. I think anyone whose either attracted or looks up to him is a fucking moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:20 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:18 AM
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Yeah. Same way strength and conditioning can completely take a middling athlete with moderate talent from am also ran to a world beater...being attractive and in shape does wonders for not only sexual appeal but simple logistics like stamina and position. I've fucked fat women before, no shame in it because I'm partial to a thicker women but I would be lying if I said I didn't encounter issues ranging from an inability to last, an inability to use certain positions and, on a small amount of occa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:04 AM
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I also spent time in that scene. Went to a couple nudist events too. I can't count the amount of couples who would complain about the "caretakers and dinner ladies" clientele and the fact that they were relieved to be fucking someone who actually took care of their physical appearance. Yeah, sex driven nudist spas, resorts or swinging/kink events may haev attracted an older/less attractive clientele...but that wasnt anhthing close to ideal. All the female friends I had who looked good would get …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:57 AM
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Again. My "flaw" isn't height because I'm not short and I'm not struggling. Another clown who can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:10 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:33 PM
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I'm not white either. I earn a fuckload of money. That doesn't mean I don't face disadvantages in the employment market. Doubly so for my foreign name. If someone sat there saying "I don't get why people make out as if race is such a big deal" I would assume they're a bigoted wanker who wants to negate my lived reality I've seen plenty of highly sexually successful 5ft3 guys let alone dudes of average height. That doesn't mean reality doesn't exist...doesn't mean height isn't an important prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:25 PM
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The most fucked up thing is I've seen women insult a man's height so fast when he does something wrong. I think as a tall man I find it even more irritating. I've never been one to feel above people for some shit I was born with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:13 PM
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I've fucked an amount of women that you probably couldn't catch up with in multiple life times. That's not the point though, I don't like people bullshitting on the fucking obvious. One day you losers will learn being successful with the opposite sex doesn't mean sitting around appeasing their bullshit. Pick me's of either gender are fucking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:08 PM
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Its a reddit thing. I've come not to trust a lot of what I read here. The Karma system simply makes discourse too vulnerable to group think bullshit. And yes it's not about focusing all your energy on one thing, it's also not about living in a false reality to make you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:53 AM
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I honestly don't know why you're here. Judging from your posts you need some real world friends. Reddit isn't your diary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:49 AM
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Men who are 6ft3 or 4 get 60% more messages than men who are 5ft7 or 8. That is the very definition of "overwhelming extent". I don't even know why I waste my time arguing with you types. Irritating as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:59 AM
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If one in two women only want a man taller than them and taller men get messaged more how the fuck can you say its "not that important". How do you define the importance of anything then? No physical trait is everything but plenty provide significant advantages to those who possess them. As said, I'm sick of the gaslighting on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:50 AM
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Even claiming its "not as important". If you want men to stop self loathing or stop being so self defeating then you tell them to work with what they have and build confidence through other means (competence and achievement), you don't lie to them and claim that height isn't a significant factor in male attractiveness. It's something I'm seeing more and more on Reddit especially and it's just...eugh. "I dOnT lIkE mUsCuLaR gUys" "I dOnT lIkE bIg dIcKs" "MOnEy aNd sTatUs iSnT tHaT iMpoRtAnT" Why l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:37 AM
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https://exclusivematchmaking.net/blog/matchmaker-talks-about-whether-height-matters-in-dating/ I'm getting tired of women on this sub. The lies and gaslighting are starting to become a little too much to deal with. Height matters. Just about every study you can find out there highlights its importance as well. And the fact that you've been on this sub for years isn't a good thing...in fact it's kinda telling that you would write this nonsense. Redpillers and incels bore me with their self loathi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:18 AM
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I don't really give a shit if you own your own company. Especially if you're not earning the salaries you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:30 PM
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I'm not a woman and lord knows I'm probably the harshest against women in here. But lets be for real, as someone who actually earns northwards of 200k you actually tend to find the women earning those amounts simply interact and date men in similar fields or industries. There is no point using your 200k and 199k example and pointless. For example, as a senior software engineer, salaries like such are commonplace...a woman earning such will be looking for a guy whose in a similar position or high…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:54 PM
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Thank you. I do acknowledge we may be in a period of late stage capitalism in the western world but I do also think much of the population legit, more than ever, want to "strike it lucky" or get the maximum with the least amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:54 PM
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How the fuck is this even golddigging? If I'm a successful and accomplished women there is no fucking way I would be opening my legs up for some bum or a dude who was born a man and still didn't manage to make something respectable of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:52 PM
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Used to love too when I was complimented for wearing Bleu De Chanel, or Grey Vetiver. Loved girls that acknowledged that, without being too forward. Yeah this. I spend literally hundreds on Arabic oud perfumes and its disappointing how few people even acknowledge what they are. People endlessly complain about golddigging but often don't even fucking have any gold to dig. I actually like a woman who can desire a successful and accomplished guy and many of the women I dated (including my partner) …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:51 PM
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Thats a pretty damning indictment on them (and yourself). I can't imagine how sad it would be for one of my exes from years ago to still be proposing dates years after we were together...unless they were just looking for easy sex. Seriously, some of you really need to deal with a better caliber of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:32 PM
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If a woman is too "easy" (reality - she may just really like him) he may assume that she is not a hard-earned prize. Fair point. But then why is it so difficult for people to understand why partner count matters for most men. Most men are competitive and we want someone who feels like they see us as somewhat special...if your girl is opening her legs for every Tom, Dick and Harry who hits on her then chances are she's not particularly picky. People complain about incels but I've been...shocked b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:25 PM
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Not necessarily. Plenty of "soft play" couples and plenty more where they play exclusively with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:43 PM
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I honestly don't know. I think its a voyeur/bisexual thing for the "cuck". I myself am an exhibitionist so I wouldn't mind a guy watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:58 PM
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I KNOW she isn’t going to secretly start banging a partner. Really? You do? Lol as someone who had plenty of experience in the scene comments like this make me laugh. I can count on one hand the amount of couples who either stayed together or stayed on the scene. It's not this wonderful, sexual free for all. It's a very delicate tightrope which most can't walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:24 PM
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Yep. I've acted as a bull and met a boatload of swinging couples. Older couples who have been married a while I think should be the only couples attempting it. I mean I've met younger ones on occasion too (and they were perfectly cool) but those younger ones were almost exclusively onto the cuckold dynamic and the guy would often not be seeing other women. In fact there were a lot of cases where the guy was kinda "forbidden" with being with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:19 PM
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Been there. Done it. Would never do it in a relationship. Whilst I'm not a redpill proponent...swinging is the LAST place you want to be if you want to argue against those points. I feel most get jaded by it eventually unless you're a mostly unattractive guy in a couple and it's the only way you can really get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:13 PM
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Lol a lot of you are so desperate for women yo go for your mediocre selves. Suck it up buttercup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:44 PM
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Well...yeah. You're not wrong. But I've heard it said here that women are perfectly within their right to truly desire the most attractive men (they are) so it shouldn't be a surprise men want to do the same thing. Ultimately, we all want the best available options to ourselves. However, due to technology and the democratisation of labour...women can now largely earn their own living. That standards of a moderately attractive woman are now higher (keep in mind I don't believe they're actually th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:34 PM
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Honestly, other factors are largely and increasingly irrelevant. I was out at a nice Brazilian grill restaurant last weekend and all the hot guys I saw were with equally attractive women. You would see the usual "hot girl, meh guy" combination but it would be...concerning how much wome in those couples would gawk at me (tall and msucular) whilst with their man. It kinda gave me second hand embarassment. A lot of dudes are, kinda rightly, tired of the false pretense that looks aren't a significan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:05 PM
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Except they're not though. I was on a messageboard before and looksmaxx was a term used by one incel weirdo. Now I see it everywhere on Twitter. For a modern "social media" site, it blows my mind how out of touch so many redditors are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:32 AM
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Here was me thinking u need to be an incel to be an incel. Shows what I know...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:14 PM
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Lol yes because I'm an incel right? You never touched on the dead bedroom thing? Crazy the only man you found who can clean up after himself is the one who can't fuck 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:02 PM
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Everyone and anyone. My girlfriend isn't a clout chaser by any means but she'll never turn down my inviting her fo some of the high end bars and restaurants in town. I’m an introvert So your opinion is pretty worthless then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:01 PM
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bi monthly lights off missionary The fact you think you need a hoe to enjoy kinky sex is exactly why I think you have a beggars mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:59 PM
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I have a pleasant relationship with a girl who has even less followers than I have. She and I were compatible but she told me how dudes used to treat her like an afterthought when compared to some of the traditionally super hot instagram types she knew. Just like pretty women have plenty of dudes ready to drink their bathwater, highly successful men enjoy a lot of women of varying wealth and status at their beck and call. I fele denying this is so pathetic. Speaks to a fundamental weakness in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:58 PM
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Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:42 PM
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No they're not. Jesus, it's posts like these that make it clear women here have no social lives. A lot of them get "scouted" by a guy in a famous guys crew or will be invited to the VIP section. If they're on social media then a famous person will either be perusing the accounts of attractive women or know someone who does. It's mot even about clout chasers. I'm in London, certain venues are very selective about the physical appeal of the female clientele.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:40 PM
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Lol exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:38 PM
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If you want chaste women go for it but don't be surprised when they're not sexually charged Lol that's a beggars mentality. I'll let you see it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:28 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:26 PM
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Lol I've been around wealth and some models and celebrities too. It's mot just about looks but about men's status and wealth as well. If you want to pretend these men don't enjoy the lions share of options, have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:25 PM
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You engage with me the same way you engage with incels. Lol its like your husband is the first dude you met who wasn't s complete hapless, unkempt loser. But then you post in r/deadbedrooms so I assume he's a loser too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:09 PM
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Honestly, unless you're a cuck then I don't see the appeal of a thot. You claim its because they're more sexually charged. Again, a woman doesn't need to be a thot in order for her to have a healthy sexual appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:08 PM
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Your exes can't load dishwashers or use washing machines. I'm just gonna assume they don't shower regularly either. Never been wrong on that front before 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:24 PM
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You're rhe one complaining about her partner not showering. Gor mw to project would be for me to suggest that most of the women I dated hqd bad hygiene. I cs. Happily say this has naver been the case. This hygiene issue is a you problem. And considering people tend to date their familiars I'm going to lean on you also being one possessing substandard hygiene. Never known a woman whose actually clean and who takes care of themselves to consistently put up with unhygienic men. As said, you're tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:17 PM
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A college senior who's taken a year out can be 23 that's not the gotcha you think it is. And tbh you come off too much like a guy whose thankful a woman is giving him play (like a lot of dudes here). When you actually grow up and gain some self worth beyond your sexuality (which women may have just started acknowledging) you'll learn a thot isn't the flex you think it is...a woman can't be both chaste and desire you sexually. Standards do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:11 PM
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No. The bar for men YOU associate with is low because you are probably a loser. It's like me complaining all women are fat. There are plenty of women who are actually fat but I don't complain about them because they're simply not on my radar. how many women in real life went apeshit over finding out I don't have to wash my husband's clothing I mean. Jesus. This says it all. I already know the women you know are likely unattractive, lower middle class and unable to court a half decent guy to save…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:06 PM
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I actually do most of the household chores. Which is what's funny. I'm no anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:03 PM
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Rage at what? The fact that you date losers who can't wash?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:02 PM
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I married someone who does his own fucking laundry Lol you make that sound like an achievement. The myriad of women you know are bums dating bums. Let me guess, most of the women you know are fat and unkempt too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:01 PM
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I'm talking about experienced promiscuous women who've actually had good sex with capable men. Not some 23 year old who gets in drunken fumbles with college seniors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:38 PM
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More and more I'm getting the impression you've not actually dated any promiscuous women. Definitely not ones well versed in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:36 PM
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Do you dudes actually get laid? Posts like these make it seem like you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:47 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:04 AM
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You're really giving off bum vibes. It would be like me complaining about women's hygiene because a woman I dated didn't wash her period stained underwear. You're really just speaking to your own lack of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:57 AM
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I can tell a lazy fucktard of either gender a mile off. If you can't then either you're desperate or as lazy and unkempt as he is. Look at how fucking pathetic you sound. You can't even find a guy who can load a dishwasher. Lol so many of you really fucking tell on yourselves. To think you legit think this is some kind of standard of most men when it's really just insight onto how slim the pickings are for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:55 AM
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That's your beta female self's problem. Too many of you want to date incompetent/unattractive/incapable men and then act like it's some kind of indictment on the male species. No, you're just too much of a coward to date a man with a strong sense of self/independence (of which there are plenty) because then youll have to compete with the women who are better than you. Men have been flying rockets to the moon and constructing entire cities in deserts. If you can't find a man who can load a fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:53 AM
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You don't know any women then. I see this constantly when I'm outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:38 AM
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HOW CAN YOU TELL this happens with the majority of the population? By looking at the stats, of which there are plenty... British study on sexual satisfaction: https://www.studyfinds.org/survey-only-two-in-five-women-fully-satisfied-after-sex-with-their-partner/ Only one in five believe they're with their ideal partner: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/most-brits-settle-relationships-study-8826967 The "science of settling": https://www.theverge.com/ad/21497137/science-of-settling-relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:57 PM
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You can tell. Unless you're going to sit here and say you've never met a woman who cheats or browbeats her partner or remains in contact with an ex or undermines her partner. You sound scarily naive to the point where I can't take your posts seriously, The same issue I have with a lot of you on Reddit. You're way too much into this "oh the complaints on PPD aren't real and women are actually awesome" and it comes off as coping. For what, I don't know. From what I recall you've made posts about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:32 PM
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I tend to understand points on promiscuity and dual mating strategy but I genuinely get aggrevated when men complain about women's "high standards". Because they're not that fucking high. I can't count the amount of women dating fat/ugly/broke men. If you're sitting here complaining about women's high standards then you're either a clown who relies exclusively on OLD for dating or a dickhead whose average as fuck and thinks he deserves an influencer. Never met a dude who don't conform to either …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:13 AM
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You cited information concerning doctors from people that were likely several decades older than most Millennials or Gen Z. Rubbish. Millennials and generation Zers are even MORE likely to date within their economic and educational circles. Social mobility has crumbled. What reality are many of you living in? Online dating means nothing, in fact OLD has actually exasperated the calcification of wealth. https://talkpoverty.org/2016/03/28/the-inequality-of-online-dating/#:~:text=While%2046%20perce…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:33 PM
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Which was far different from the first wife, I chose for myself. And it sounds like you paid the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:23 PM
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they attack women for having too high of standards I dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:22 PM
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Lol dude...stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:51 PM
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Most doctors end up being beta providers because they actually think the hot girl likes them for them. No. Most doctors marry other doctors. Do you actually know any doctors? https://medrecruit.medworld.com/articles/why-do-doctors-often-marry-doctors Most successful/educated dudes are taken off the market pretty early. I graduated with three other engineer friends. Only one remains single. The "beta provider" shit only really applies if you completely lack wereithal and seek out "club hot" women…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:45 PM
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hypocrite Yeah I am. Life is full of double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:52 PM
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You know, I remember taking a number from a pretty girl some time ago. When she gave it to me (after me approaching her) she told me "btw, I probably won't reply". Of course, I never bothered messaging her. In fact, I stopped talking to her period and would ignore her every time I saw her. I say that to say, in her mind, that comment must have seemed perfectly reasonable. Of course there must be men so desperate that they'll scoff at a statement so asinine in the narrow hopes they'll get laid. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:51 PM
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I've slept around with hundreds of women. Literally. To the point people claim I'm bragging when I mention it. However I do so to stress the importance of most of the sexually successful men I meet caring that their girl doesn't open her legs for every Tom, Dick and Harry. He may not have some arbitrary number but to pretend as if any man with a semblance of standards doesn't care is just preposterous at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:39 PM
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Because its the only gender for which is matters. It really blows my mind when dudes and women on here try to convince us that men and women sleeping around is anything remotely related to the same thing. But I guess its just testament to what a weak sap of appeasing garbage the average man is. I'll stop putting a premium on female chaste the moment women stop using "slut" and "slag" as the first form of insult for another woman they dont like. If you're a man with any semblance of options, it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:37 PM
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Do you say this to the women here wanting guys who are muscular and 6ft2+??? Jesus comments like these are beyond pathetic. Raging and crying that people have standards. You're literally in this thread saying your ideal is Chris Bumstead. Jesus Lord there needs to be an age restriction on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:13 AM
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Of course not, but then I look at the state of the couples. A lot of good looking, in shape dudes I see with any sense of style seem to be with women who are equally good looking/decent looking or are just fucking half the town behind their partners back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:14 PM
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Are we forgetting MGK is a tall, good looking, successful rapper?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:11 PM
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The why also matters. LOL nah this is being obtuse on purpose. You know if someone (man or woman) has 300 partners. Some of them are gonna be problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:10 PM
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Tbh my girlfriend has read some of my reddit posts and I regularly share with her some of the discussions I have on here. Your comment doesn't address anything i said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:04 PM
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I'm probably older than you. Still not on Bumble though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:54 AM
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Tbh it's statistical fact that being, say, 193cm would put one in the top 1.5% of male height. So, in reality you shouldn't be seeing a mass of people taller than you when you leave the house. If you are then you probably aren't actually 6ft2.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:31 AM
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Cool, but you are on Bumble in your 30s 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:27 AM
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The reason why this sub is slightly redundant is that a lot of women here argue in bad faith. Tbh it's a big problem with Reddit. You need to venture to more niche, women favoured mesageboards to get a better gauge...and in lost cases women are often a bigger judge of female promiscuity than even men are. Just look at how many teenage girls will tell you they developed early and were bullied by other girls for being sluts despite having no sexual experience. Men care, women care, people care. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:23 AM
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Lol wow, that OP seems extraordinarily accurate. I would increase the amount who don't care to 5% though. There is a legit chunk of dudes who get turned on at the idea of their girl fucking other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:09 AM
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Again, I saw a line for a big up and coming indie artist. A massive line of teenage girls. I'm almost certain an MGK type would probably fare pretty well...but then they all looked like they couldn't legally drink. A lot of you share advice for how to successfully date 18-21 year olds. It's amusing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:32 PM
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Jesus do any of you look at women in any capacity beyond bloody teenagers? I hope you're under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:28 PM
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Unbelievable that this even needs to be said. Modern society is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:37 PM
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mogged by a skinny eboy in another Yeeeah that doesn't happen. A big part of attractiveness is respect from other men. The biggest factor which people often forget is that women often desire men that other men respect. Dudes respect a tall, well dressed, in shape dude. Can't say the same for someone who looks and dresses like MGK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:35 PM
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LA, NY, London... I'm one of these dudes. Not Chad, more Tyrone. And yeah its rare. Yes people legit stop and stare, take pictures (have had that twice today) and just generally do all kinds of stupid hokey shit when they see me dressed on a night out. It also makes me laugh when people claim looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:33 PM
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Oh shut up, god. I've experienced the kinds of sexual shit most only see in porn. 10 man gangbangs, threesomes, cuckold scenarios, I've fucked 10 women in a night. I've also seen women taking part in some of the kinkiest nonsense...getting pissed on, fucking in front of dozens of people, double penetration, fisting, orgies...all of it. I say that to say most of what you wrote (and the proceeding posts) is bullshit. Women don't even remotely match mens sexuality and I've seen women use their sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:05 AM
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Intriguing post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:36 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:30 AM
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Of course there are people out there who genuinely don't really care for "shallow" physical attributes but the issue is finding those people. Its like dudes who claim hot women are evil. Put a hot woman in front of them and that entire bullshit ethos goes to shit. People generally lack integrity and are mostly full of hot air. I've actually noticed the women who care the least about things like size and musculature or looks don't go out of their way to tell you they're not into them. They often …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:25 AM
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They're not. People's standards aren't that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:19 AM
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Honestly, this. Even ignoring redpill. Take a look at Kevin Samuel's. Was I a fan? No, I thought he was too harsh but he's opened up a much needed conversation about women and their dating preferences. I've seen a lot of women discussing whether he may of had a point. A lot of women benefit from men being docile and easy to manipulate (it's true for both genders tbh). This was apparent when I myself was single. These open discussions mean a lot of dudes are more equipped with the knowledge to mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:18 AM
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The fact you think Reddit is more intellectually stimulating says a lot. And yeah not having profile pictures is exactly why I don't think this site attracts the attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:10 AM
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If you want a hot girl, you have to put in the effort to be a hot guy Bingo. I don't get why this is so hard to grasp. What's worse is that I legit don't even think most women standards are that high. I'm not single but I put a fuckload into my appearance, it's intimidating for most women. A lot of women are comfortable with a guy in reasonable shape with a respectable sense of style and behaviour. The problem is these lonely/pill type dudes are incredibly neurotic and choose to rely exclusively…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:29 PM
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This is largely the cop out of mediocre people. There are plenty, plenty of sexy and educated women out there. In fact, I would say you're actually more likely to find attractive women on a college campus than on a night out in a bar. This is what I mean by this bluepilled coddling of mediocrity. If you can't find attractive, educated and accomplished women the that's a YOU problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:24 PM
2

Low. Self. Esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:21 PM
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Go ahead and Google just what people think of the audience for shows like Love Island and Keeping up with the Kardashians. They're hardly seen as the brightest. This is a stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:20 PM
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Doesn't matter what he is described as. His death wad covered by both CNN and BBC News. No point pretending as if he was purely niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:19 PM
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Sorry, been described as a solid 8 Lol yes by a redditor I'm guessing...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:18 PM
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It has everything to do with this conversation. In a debate about whether women in this sub represent a wide berth of the female genpop, I'm not going to be taking the word of an escort. It would be like the weed dealer being lectured on general patterns of male behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:17 PM
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Is what I said about you being a sex worker wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:19 PM
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I would think that the userbase is tech savvy and people who work in the high paying tech sector is likely heavily represented here. Nah. I actually work in that sector myself, I'm a Software Engineer. I've never met anyone mention reddit in the various companies I've worked for. The millennial demographic still skews heavily towards exclusively targeted sites so something like stackexchange will be more common, even quora. Redditors aren't actually that tech savvy. At best a few will have basel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:18 PM
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Dude, shut the fuck up. Its always clear when many of you just say shit to make yourselves feel better. Anyone with half a brain knows you don't share any political ideas or beliefs with people at work unless you want to open yourself up for bullshit. I was in my last company for nearly three years and my boss never once shared who he voted for. This is just common fucking sense. And I can guaran-damn-tee I earn a fuckload more than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:38 PM
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When it comes to women it seems that there are a lot of insecure women who need ideas or are confused about dating. I am not sure if this is normal, I do not think so for following reasons. Their sex gets approached way more in life so this is not so natural. Also girls are more in groups so better social adjustment. The proportion of mean girls is the same in this sub I think. I have not yet isolated or noticed strong, confident, actively dating women here more than 20% Max. Who have social cir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:34 PM
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here seems to be more women than men who profess to be here to laugh Fucking love that you mention this. LOL at these clowns posting that as if that is indicative of a normal, well adjusted individual. Imagine me running to truefemcels or FDS and claim I'm just there to "laugh" at the delusional women. How fucking sad would that make me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:25 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:23 PM
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Don't you claim to be a sex worker. Pretty hilarious to see you arguing about being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:23 PM
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Reddit is a mainstream social network, but the reddit userbase is not at all representative of the general U.S. population (in a way that Tumblr and Pinterest are mainstream networks but do not have representative userbase compared to the overall population). The Reddit userbase is overwhelmingly millennial generation, white, male, liberal (especially the progressive and socialist version), urban dwellers. If you look at the upvoted topics on the front page, it obviously and overwhelmingly is sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:17 PM
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I kno plenty of gorgeous women who arent searching for the 6'6" chad It tricky though and whilst I definitely don't sympathise with dudes out here, I get them. My girl was never really searching for my phenotype. I'm tall and jacked and have always had loads and loads of matches/dates/offers when using pretty much any dating site. My girl met me and said that she always "preferred" dadbods and that she never needed someone who had the masculine mindset that I did. She has always told me that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:48 PM
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Nobody irl I know talks about the gender dating bs we do in here Bullshit. Not as much as a sub dedicated for the discussion but lets not pretend as if Kevin Samuels didn't break into the mainstream and was being eulogised on cable television. Be it Kevin Samuels, Patrice O'neal or hell, even, Andrew Tate. I legit didn't even have a clue who that was until my real life male friends introduced him to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:29 PM
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I'd also argue, potentially, a lot of women who spend lots of time on niche reddit forums are probably not attractive. I'm sure there ARE some attractive females on here. But as a whole, probably veering more towards niche subcultures and nerdyness and introversion. Yep, I think though that men also skew heavily towards introversion and social inability. But with women, a lot of those attributes are dialled up to 10. The only people who will deny it are the hit dogs (who always holler) and the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:28 PM
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Yes I did. If you think me acknowledging that a bunch of women going back and forth with incels makes me a redpiller then have at it. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:07 AM
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Mate ive done penis exercises for 4-5 years LOL you could have stopped there tbh. Honestly if its working for you, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:05 AM
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I just dudes like you, like a lot of people on Reddit, are absolute low lives. I encourage dudes to get in shape or better their earning potential if they want to be better with...just about anyone in life. You sit here obsessively posting in penis size subforums and have the audacity to lecture anyone on anything in life. You've already proven yourself to be a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:04 AM
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That's all in your head. Imagine someone shunning diet and physical exercise over oenis enlargement exercises which most doctors believe either don't work or discourage heavily due to damage to penile glands. What an absolute loser you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:02 AM
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Also id argue that a big dick is more valuable than being jacked or tall, Says the guy silly enough to fuck with his dick doing penis enlargement exercises. Honestly don't know why I waste my time with you dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:34 PM
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Sleeping with 100 dogs isn't really enticing to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:31 PM
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There is nothing stopping you from getting to 10-12% bodyfat and having visible abs except your diet. https://external-preview.redd.it/t0PXDq22X1A6gCHT0Dy_NnquI88xosgUAhWHdMXglvA.jpg?width=640&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=2e92d8df0da5b7926bdc12cc98eebd30867bed1f This is hot to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:23 PM
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Morally? No. A female cheater isn't any worse than a male cheater. Logically? Yes. A woman cheating is a sign your relationship is over. As I mentioned before, I feel the place this became most apparent is on the swinging scene. I would say a significant chunk of that scene is now made up of women who sleep with other men alongside their partner. However I noticed a few things. Firstly, the demographic of women who would do so would often skew older. I also noticed that for many of these couples…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:11 PM
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I'm talking legit abs. Not the "outline"/"kinda visible"/"in the right lighting" abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:55 PM
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Kim Kardashian????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:50 AM
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9/10 of the guys I date I get the “why are you dating him? These are often the musings of people who are desperate with no/poor options. I discussed this with my GF and she said the same thing...she also thought I was a catfish and had bottom shelf self esteem when I met her. Being unattractive doesn't suddenly make you virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:48 AM
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Either pretending or your looks would determine your opinion irrelevant. Its always one of the two. And this is twice now you've insisted on posting this. Doth protest too much and no one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:39 AM
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In this very thread you have women almost exclusively claiming it doesn't matter. Who is your post even for? Men for the most part KNOW that women don't have any genuine desire for a dadbod/fat dude but it's women stuck trying to convince men of exactly that. It's fucked up because you are saying this shit whilst it's largely other women disagreeing with you. This is why things like redpill have exploded in popularity. Western social discourse seems to vr obsessed with the gender virtua signalli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:50 PM
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I’m also a certain type of women. Yeah, probably one who isn't desirable. Liking "dadbods" is very 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:43 PM
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A lot. Why dudes choose to punish themselves by claiming it doesn't, I have no idea. Again, watching a show here in the UK called Love Island and half the dudes in there have muscular, low bodyfat physiques. Even the guys a little on the more normal sides of things still have a favourable waist to shoulder ratio. My face has always been pretty meh/alright but being tall and muscular has meant that I've fucked maybe a little too much pussy. I'm over a decade into fitness so it's just part of who …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:36 PM
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You overvalued women's interest. I've had plenty of interest from women I have no interest in and evidently didn't reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:13 PM
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Jesus, some of you are such toxic shit posters. Plain Jane's are uncommon? Where the fuck is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:01 PM
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It really does make you wonder why people punish themselves by not being in shape reading this thread. Genuinely nice to see people understanding the value of self care. I don't really feel my input is valuable as I've pretty much been in shape since I was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:55 PM
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As someone who has all the traits that incels and redpillers claim to not have, yall place way too much virtue in women's choices. Most women have a history of dating unremarkable dudes or losers. Most will go on to marry unremarkable dudes or losers. Successful, capable men often end up marrying successful, capable women. I'm educated, my girl is educated. I'm in very good physical shape, my girl is in good physical shape. I'm tall, my girl is tall. There is a thread in the r/amianasshole sub w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:45 PM
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Depends on the venue. A few here in the UK actually let in single guys who are verified on a site or if its a Friday night. In fact, some of the LBGTQ friendly clubs have gone the other way and let in single guys often at the same price as couples and single female attendees.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:03 PM
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That really infuriates me and I'm not even Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:38 PM
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Guys don't want a casual hookup to be expecting things one would from a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:27 PM
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milk toast no. no. no. no. no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:00 PM
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swingers clubs I can weigh in here because I've done this many a time in the past. It also seems slightly different here in Europe as single men are a far bigger part of the scene than they are seemingly in America. And yes its very much a case of the guys with the best looks, biggest muscles and dicks tend to win the most. Its actually the shallowness you experience of a normal club dialled up to 10. And unless you dont have stage fright and get get hard among a crowd of desperate dudes, you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:58 PM
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Because thats not what they want. As someone who has delved knee deep into very, very sex positive social groups and slept with a few lifetimes worth of women, its kinda intriguing just how many single women want even casual flings to provide them with the "boyfriend experience".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:08 AM
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It happens. I've been approached in random places like gyms let alone nights out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:49 PM
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And yet you're married (I think) and the bulk of your posts are in relationship subs and a relationship debate sub. Some of your posts just make me think you're somewhat lacking self awareness. That may be a personal attack and against rules but I feel it has to be stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:06 PM
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Another condescending loser posting from his 12th alt account.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:01 PM
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They're full of shit. And one would be stupid to believe them. I made a thread on this very thing. Any idiot can get online and claim they're beautiful and unloved. Doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:59 PM
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Poor self esteem and an inflated ego actually go hand in hand. Honestly a lot of you make observations from bumfuck irrelevant countries as if your perception counts for anything. The majority of people on this sub will be living in metropolitan areas in the anglosphere where social media and mobile telecommunications has had a profound effect on social patterns, behaviours and habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:36 PM
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Have you guys actually met any women with even a 3-10k social media following? It almost always goes to ones head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:31 PM
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Look, we ALL die alone. No the fuck we don't. I legit get really fucking angry when people say this. I've experienced two women, one was a friend of my mother and the other was an aunt. Both died alone. My aunt didn't have kids and my mother's friend had one son. When she died she sat decomposing for two weeks before anyone even discovered she was deceased. I'm assuming it was the smell (I feel even saying that sounds shitty). My parents aren't perfect by any stretch of the imagination but they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:28 PM
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Endless social media validation is just the female equivalent to a crippling male porn addiction Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:22 PM
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physical appearance is meaningless if he's awkward or intense Nope. Funny is you clowns will then claim attractive men have no personality 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:18 PM
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Lol is this the female version of "boys do this, men do this!" What are you? 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:17 PM
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But the basic level differs for many. The basic level for me is a small waist, height and a fat ass. My girl and I are very compatible but she meets that threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:08 PM
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Women are good at sensing if it's fake or authentic Lol no the fuck they're not. Evidenced by the amount of losers in the gene pool. Blows my mind people who believe this stupid shit. Women aren't particularly perceptive. Just better at it then men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:33 PM
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Physical attraction is required for chemistry. Otherwise it's just flirting or behavioural compatability. Also there is the halo effect which makes desirable men seem more virtuous than they actually are. A lot of people on this sub need to stop downplaying male physical appeal. It's MASSIVE. It's just that a lot of guys don't care to better their attractiveness or feel things like height and genetics hold them back. If a woman is telling you looks aren't that important then its likely she eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:31 PM
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Being adept and being vulnerable aren't exactly the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:34 AM
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Get the fuck out of here. Female attention is not a gift. Especially if said woman is mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:06 AM
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I've tried to set up my "less attractive" female friends What is "less attractive" though? In many cases, when a woman is willing to admit another woman doesn't look good then it means that woman looks...dreadful. TBH I'm not surprised your male friends were offended as it is likely you consider those same men to be on that woman's level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:05 AM
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Homosexuality is no refuge from the complexities that come with sexual attraction. Gay men for example are just as discriminatory on race, looks, penis size. Just sign up to Grindr and you'll see for yourself. I hate this premise because it's a fucking stupid one and often comes from a place of little to no experience or intricate interaction with the LGBT community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:24 PM
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Lol I think too many dudes frame questions from their own sexual fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:21 PM
1

Great post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:15 AM
2

The globalization of Chad. WAATBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:13 AM
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Reeves isnt married and his long term partner is a successful visual artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:46 AM
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Honestly when I was in London a few weeks ago I saw some pretty decent looking white girls with some blerdy looking black guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:43 AM
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Its a form of power play and virtue signalling. I have no idea why so many men cant see through it. Besides female twitch streamers are just lol, you shouldn't be surprised with what you're getting when dealing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:37 AM
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Jesus Lord, baaaased. But I take issue with this... It is okay for men to enjoy video games, porn and other non-productive things The problem with non productive pastimes is the fact they're not productive. They're ultimately debilitating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:19 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:17 AM
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nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:56 PM
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Its funny, I largely believe the Chad Stacy thing is laughable bunk as well. But then I also notice how many times a traditionally masculine/muscular guy like myself slept with a lot of these "nerdy/alternative" women with real ease when I was in college myself. Some would be pretty honest about it but I remember having a conversation with my girlfriend (wasnt so much a nerd but very much the prototypical "girl next door" type) and she used to tell me how, before she met me at least, she used to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:20 PM
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Interesting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:13 PM
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Haha yes. That poster is a clown. Indicative of just about every negative trait you find in a lot on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:16 AM
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Good question. Yep. Definitely bitter and cynical. And I dare say a little spiteful too. Though I was never really unsuccessful, just didn't really try. And I got my finger out of my ass fairly young (22). Two things seems to make a difference for me. Leaning out and escalating. I didn't read much specifically on seduction but I did read a lot about persuasive behaviour, body language and sales techniques (I worked in sales for 9 years). I think what bugged me was how effective leaning into my a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:00 AM
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Yep. I've slept with literally hundreds of women and even I still don't know what cues are a lot of the time. They're so random. Society has also gotten worse in this regard considering how many young women are seemingly socially awkward and absolutely unwilling to show any interest in a guy they're interested in. Crazy times. To note though, it is easier on things like nights out when alcohol is involved...but if you're not relying on parties or night life based activity then it's a pain. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:36 PM
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Again. No. There is no "certain level of hotness". People who are highly attractive will be given more leeway for poor behaviour than men who aren't as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:15 AM
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Voting for a man over a woman as a woman makes total sense. Voting for an open misogynist like Donald Trump whose not particularly strong on anything political related? Not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:39 PM
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I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:37 PM
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I was talking about how women judge men Again. looks matter for men, a lot If you think looks don't matter for men and the better looking the man, the easier he has it...then you simply are not paying attention or haven't dated any attractive men. And I mean genuinely attractive, not ones who claim they are on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:37 PM
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Nope. AT BEST middle class white women. But even then...I know Hillary Clinton was a shitty candidate but seeing so many women lionize Trump in the 2016 election really opened my eyes to the latent internalised misogyny a lot of women possess even in the wealthiest country on earth. Republicans seem to be making a concerted push on repealing roe vs wade but you'll still see them getting a massive female voter turnout in 2024 and the coming midterms. Class and race will always be bigger determina…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:28 PM
2

Same thing. Being an exceptionally attractive woman opens you up to opportunities simply not available to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:13 PM
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looking good alone won't help you Yes it will. I got even more attention from the opposite sex when I was good looking and broke. The fact is none of the dudes here actually look good. Most just sit around on Reddit creating these bullshit scenarios to stave off actually self reflecting and committing to some self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:11 PM
1

You genuinely sound like a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:09 PM
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Except there is nothing arousing about post malone ot Pete davidson. OP is just another redpill/incel weirdo obsessed with the preferences of teen girls. Young women have liked the skater boy/skinny/androgymous archetype since as long as mass media has been around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:07 PM
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They're not. Once you reach a certain threshold for looks as a man, it really doesn't completely alter your perception of female sexuality. Looks matter for men, a lot. Its just that people have more influence over their looks than their lazy asses are willing to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:05 PM
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This entire rant seems weird and incelish. Here in the UK there is a show called Love Island. The men? Tall, muscular, tanned, masculine. Not one skater boy archetype among them. A lot of you dudes need to fucking touch grass. It's clear as fuck you're only engaging with pink haired shut ins on Reddit. The Ryan Goslings and Brad Pitts are what women are after. Nothing has really changed. Yeah, "alternative" looks may be more celebrated by generation Z but this generation is also shown itself to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:04 PM
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I honestly think Patrice Oneal is the best out there. But I think he's better for guys with a little experience under their belt. Honestly, OP you need to just casually date. Sounds like you go into every interaction with a woman thinking this could potentially be the lovd of your life. Too many people do that and then wonder why they're awful at selecting mates. You also need to self reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:49 AM
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N-count is largely irrelevant for men. It's not the high n-count, it's the fact that men who have these high n counts do so because they have traits that make them desirable. Charisma, good looks, status, wealth. Believe me, no one is lauding a guy who slept with a 100 escorts or a date rapist. Your point is idiotic and shows a fundamental misunderstanding of men. Which isn't a surprise on here considering how woefully inept both genders on this sub seem to be about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:43 AM
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This is the exact point I was arguing against, so what exactly have I misunderstood. It's like the dudes who complain about objectively desirable women being terrible people. It just seems to come from a place of insecurity. Whilst insecurity is a standard emotion, I dislike people making out as if less attractive/desirable people have any kind of moral highb ground. They dont. A lot of men who can sleep with half the city actually often end up not doing so, because good looks/dominance doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:24 AM
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Anomaly in real life? Yes. Anomaly on Reddit? No. Honestly women on Reddit need to stop this lame pink knighting for internet validation. It's so fucking sad and a lot of the men on here can see right through it. I was reading another female centric mesageboard and they actually had an entire thread dedicated to the fucking sad ass pick me rhetoric on here. "Oh yeah lol I love guys with no sexual experience, dad bods, short stature and small dicks!!" In reality, if you're finding yourself that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:33 AM
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Meh its kinda overstated. In traditional societies where women are often lacking in social and economic power, hypergamy is a lot more common. In modern societies where women are able to better dictate and negotiate romantic desires due to a level of economic independence, its more complex. Little point chasing men of power when you can wield it all on your own. These days I'm seeing more and more women date men who aren't only physically unattractive but also have little going for themselves ed…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:08 PM
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It came into wanting to feel special online with men who speak to you. That goes both ways. Men also want a woman who they feel is "untouched" and saw them as special and unique. A lot of you losers haven't had a date in years and yet sit on here lecturing about the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:59 PM
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Women know when men are trying for anyone they can get and not putting in any effort. It isn't attractive. Even on a dating app, we want to feel special. One of the very few you just had to approach. Were drawn to. You were so nervous because you liked us so much that you messed up a bit what you were going to say, but that made you more adorable to us. Doesn't this fucking go both ways? Utterly insane writing this but then you'll be complaining if a guy doesn't like a woman with a high partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:47 PM
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I have met plenty of nervous people who have gone on to do a shitty job. Plenty of interviews I've done where I've also gone onto make a shitty impression. Women's "nervousness" isnt an issue for them because, increasingly, said nervousness is no longer served as a call to action for women in our culture. Now any shitty characteristic a woman displays on a first date can just be chalked up to a guy not being "strong enough" to handle an independent woman. I don't even think its the performance a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:43 PM
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But the sting is, 20% of women also have 60% of the sex THANKYOU. People seem to conveniently forget this. The vast bulk of dudes who complain about "all women being whores" are largely fucking the same women. Some women are nymphomaniacs, many more have absolutely no standards. I've seen this, even in swinging, when I went to many events a lot of the women literally just came to have a chinwag or meet a guy who they can make into a regular thing. The types who "played" with multiple men in a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:13 AM
3

I disagree. I actually think it's very difficult for for women. Honestly, I think its even harder. Problem with a lot of redpill/incel men is that they take a relatively narrow period of male adulthood, 18-30 and then extrapolate that and apply it for the entire lifetime if a man's experience. All the data seems to show men largely couple up after 30 whereas single women increasingly find themselves struggling to meet men who fulfill their criteria. When these women have standards such as height…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:59 PM
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I've lived all my life in a city. Spent all my life growing up with people of different backgrounds, religions and sexual identities. I'm not some clown who came from her backwater shithole and now wants to preach to everyone about how progressive and forward thinking she is. In reality, the dumbass, regressive ways of perceiving the world still reek from your posts. Hence why your slow enough to think there aren't plenty of lesbian women with complaints about the same sex and still haven't lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:00 PM
8

The problem with posters like you is that you're always preaching this stupid shit only for it turn out you live in bumfuck Lousiana or some backwater middle american shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:53 AM
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If you're actually 7x5.5 then she hasn't seen that many bigger dicks and the very fact that was even in conversation means she was probably trying to get one over on you. Women do that...a lot. I've literally frequented swingers clubs and seen more erect dicks than most men. There genuinely aren't that many huge penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:33 AM
1

Tbh a lot of male pornstars are genuinely short. It's not exactly all that difficult to decipher someone's height. I've noticed it's only really Blacked that has big ass dudes with big dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:31 AM
4

If its any consolation, I used to be deep in the swinging scene and had sex with a lot of couples who expressly looked for black men. Whilst large sizes had its place, it DEFINITELY wasn't the sole reason many were looking for black men. Tbh if someone does say that be deeply suspicious because three likely racist and using it as a way to demean you. There was a lot of that in swinging too. Women who weren't really attracted to black men, rather attracted to the idea that it was "taboo" or to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:31 PM
2

Brian Pumper is 5ft4. That fact still blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:25 PM
2

The responses in this thread is why I think most men on this sub are fucking pathetic. Absolutely laughable just how little self awareness most dudes have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:20 PM
10

When I told my girlfriend my actual size she was shocked. This is because I'm someone who actually measured from the base and actually didn't just add on inches for the lulz. It's another reason why conversation on dick size is useless. Besides so many women's perception of size will change dependent upon how she feels about the guy in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:17 PM
1

Never participated in a hookup LOL OK thanks for this information that I never asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:16 PM
1

Women in small groups challenging the very different societies around the world alone would suggest that women aren't spineless as you claimed. Oh indeed. But you're not one of them, neither are most of the women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:04 PM
1

You know what I mean, though. No I don't. Are you slow? Why would I be able to decipher a typo? Its your job to ensure what you write makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:03 PM
1

It's not actually not that special to be one of a few women doing something that some women (nor all women) do Huh? This sentence doesn't even make any sense. 21% of software engineers in the US are women. What are you even on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:59 AM
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There are even some rare women engineers in my area, but I interviewed with panels of all men Why do you insist on this being something special? Of the last four interviews I had, three of them had a woman on the interview panel. One was an engineer, another was a product manager and the other was a product lead. You aren't particularly unique and none of those women displayed any characteristics that would make me think they somehow greatly diverged from general feminine thinking or behavior. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:51 AM
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You think interviewing for engineering positions makes you some kind of maverick? In the middle east, africa and india no one even blinks at female engineers, they're common as fuck. One's choice of profession does not make one masculine, doesn't apply to men and doesn't apply to you either. The fact that you wrote that sentence is hilarious. Especially being an engineer myself and knowing what many are like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:44 AM
1

How can it be a myth to condition people for hard labor and war when both things are some of major contributors to our mordern world and are both realities being experienced by men across the globe. As I type this there are people risking their lives in mines and dudes fighting on front lines on the brink of death. Just because its something we have the privilege of not experiencing in our day to day, doesnt make them myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:40 AM
1

This. Women absolutely do not determine masculinity in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:37 AM
3

weak and insecure and incapable? No, I don't buy it. I do. I think women on this sub display that more than anything any redpiller/manosphere type could convince me. I'll start to believe in women's ability to take risks or challenge established norms when a female poster here actually starts saying something that actually opposes widely held views espoused by most of the other women on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:35 AM
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I kinda get it. There is a difference between someone who has firm understanding of their perception and those who desperately want to convince themselves they're desirable. It's the difference between a woman who wear modest, form fitting clothing that you accentuate her good figure and one who leaves the house half naked. The latter is often one who wants to believe she's desirable (thus desperately courting the attention) and the former is one who is aware and often doesn't go out of her way …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:46 AM
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Your "honour culture" is utterly garbage. Lol at bragging about a culture which kills hundreds of female family members every year. You're possessing no moral high ground here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:35 AM
5

It's crazy. I've been with hardly any cheaters (that I know of) except for one I can remember. She was stunning but she also claimed to have been a former escort. I met her in the gym and wasn't remotely aware she had a boyfriend. He sounded like a kook though so I'm not sure I can cry tears for him. Funnily enough I've smashed probably over a hundred mens wives with their husbands consent. For all the talk about cheating, there are a surprising amount of men who are seemingly turned on by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:32 AM
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There isn't going to be a single woman in this thread who says anything other than this. Why do people make these stupid fucking threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:28 AM
1

Neurological disorders discount women too. I think autistic women have even less partners than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:37 PM
2

Tbh I don't think it's too high
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:36 PM
2

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:28 PM
2

Tbh asking for a guy who lives alone in a metropolitan area is probably unrealistic. Especially if you want the guy to be below 30 which I'm assuming you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:36 PM
-1

OKC and Tinder are not the be all and end all of human attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:06 PM
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Ah yes, OKC and Tinder data. Exactly what I was expecting...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:02 PM
2

Shouldnt you provide the data though? It was the basis of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:52 PM
1

You really think some hag swinging in her 40s is what "moderately attractive guys" want in a relationship? I really should have specified in that piece that she was merely looking for a fuckbuddy, not a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:51 PM
0

Mens employment rates, college graduation rates and obesity rates have all rocketed in that time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I just think this is horseshit. Only on Reddit is there this dumbass belief that shorter men are somehow complete devoid of sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:49 PM
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Firstly, its important to just ask. Closed mouths don't get fed. Ask him where he stands and if he tells he only wants something casual then cool beans. If he tells you he's desiring a relationship and merely saying so to string you along for sex then it should really temper your expectations, as you're dealing with someone emotionally dishonest. Most men (at least ones remotely desirable) in the west dont lead with wanting a relationship. Its really just what the culture is today. What often ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:37 PM
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The fact that you think being semi hot makes women bitches by default says a lot about how you perceive the opposite sex. And I'm no great lover of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:35 PM
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I'm very intelligent and emotionally receptive. Very polite. Always had great conversations on the dates. It's weird. These sentences don't really help negate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:23 PM
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I take the word of my friend because she actually exists and I know her and I've seen the men she's dated. None of them were anything mind blowing. And their were dudes that she often chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:03 PM
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When the fuck did I say she cared about the value of the man. I said moderately attractive and consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 04:01 PM
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Yes both those are true. 80k in New York and a gym novice isn't going to drive women wild. Do you think it does? Fo you think it should? Do you think these things should negate your poor attitude? Do you think a woman earning 60k whose been sixth months training and now at a healthy weight is entitled to be a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:58 PM
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I literally say the complete opposite. The victim complex here is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:49 PM
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Women's physical standard to trigger contextless attraction is sky high, yes. I fele guys think they're entitled to "contextless" attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:29 PM
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They may have rejected you for your attitude. It's not exactly a panty wetter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:28 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:21 PM
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OP, with respect, your very first about a 40 year old woman that's fully admitted she wants to date attractive, fit men and not being able to find them... Not date. Just fuck/casual fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:14 PM
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Lying about their height. Bullshitting about whay they look like. Obfuscation about what they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:05 PM
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The top 30-40% really isn't something to be making out as if you're impressive about. That's almost 1 in 3. I'm not sure I would be blowing my trumpet about being something that a women could find at least twice in the next 5-6 guys she's talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:02 PM
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But this is the issue. Guys lie, bullshit and obfuscate on OLD all the time. We need to stop pretending catfishing is an exclusively female problem. This was the point the older woman was making. She said going off of the websites catering to the scene, there was fit good looking guys abound. When it came to these guys actually showing up? Nah. Reality hits and it becomes apparent how those same dudes aren't all that common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:01 PM
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Pretty much. Hilarious average guy sleeps with women because of his charm and humour. The problem is that a lot of dudes want "bad bitch" treatment without being "bad bitches".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:00 PM
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I don't deny the value of height either. But, again, a lot of dudes will claim they're 6ft when they're actually 5ft10 and then get surprised than women claim they want "6ft minimum" in many cases those same women aren't even good at deciphering height correctly as so many guys bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:34 PM
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They are rare. Incels on this site try to make out as if they're not. Or as if those things don't make a difference. There is a big difference between dudes CLAIMING they're in good shape and dudes who actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:32 PM
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Not really. My implication is this. She actively seeks out men she deems desirable. Which, for her is being in good shape, it doesn't even relate to the latter example I mentioned. To expand, what she complained about was that the online platforms catering to swingers were full of guys either with picture appearing to be a good shape or claiming to be such...only for reality to contradict these claims. And yes, I'm going to straight up say 80k in say New York or 6 months of lifting can, will or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:30 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:26 PM
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Nah I don't even believe that. I've been in shape a long time. Even then I had occasions where I just...fell into pussy. Even when I was in my swolefat phase and was a mega awkward 21 year old. I had plenty of interest. I didn't capitalise on it all that much but the interest was still there. Some of the less attractive ones would just straight up hit on me. I'm just not buying anymore than any remotely attractive dude or one who takes of himself to any degree is completely devoid of female atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 12:15 PM
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I think 80/20 is already happening for women actually. Honestly incels seem to be in a bubble. There is an immense amount of angst being espoused by women online about not getting the relationships and/or treatment they want. Especially among women of color. It's just that the concept of 80/20 seems to only involve sex. Women don't value sex because men will fuck anything, they value commitment and attention. The lions share of women who experience this are either attractive, charismatic or sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:32 PM
1

Tell me about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:30 PM
1

Woooooow You haven't dated many adults or you're still in your early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:30 PM
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Nicely and concisely put.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:17 PM
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You think people deluded by bullshitting politicians aren't deluded by Disney and ITV? I strongly suggest you watch a few documentaries by Adam Curtis and may be do a bit of reading into Freud and hoe his nephew, Edward Bernays, shaped modern mass media and marketing. Your idea that people somehow become pragmatic when it comes to dating is just...daft. Look around you. Pew has been pumping out research showing upwards of 30% of men aren't having sex period. Marriage rates have fallen off a clif…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:14 PM
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That is the average normie. If you don't think the average person is a delusional idiot who believes in pipe dreams sold by the mass media/political class then you haven't been paying attention. You claim you're from London. Watch an episode of Question Time on BBC1 (a show which is really about current affairs and politics) and you'll see how stupid, delusional the average person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:26 AM
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I honestly feel guys like you who say this either are lying to make yourselves look better online or you don't actually do that well in real life. I've never known a guy whose genuinely successful with women who wasn't slightly cynical. I tend to find solace in the fact that whenever I interact with women they always see men like you as worthless trash. Full of hubris, easy to taunt and easy to trick. What's sad is how long it takes reality to hit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:00 AM
0

Probably 300+
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:24 AM
0

I don't think my dad (or my mother really) taught me anything about "respecting women" but my sister is hard-core. Super ambitious doctor married to another doctor who doesn't tolerate shit from anyone. I actually think the "respect women" is toxic nonsense meant to serve a very narrow idea of white femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:52 PM
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Bullshit. I know tons of sexy women who have their profile set to private.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:49 PM
2

NASCAR sub and concluding it means everyone loves NASCAR I would assume everyone posting in a Nascar sub is a Nascar enthusiast. Are u serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:33 PM
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I think a lot of guys here overestimate how much thought women give to men as a whole You give a huge amount of thought to what men think. Thats why you've got hundreds of posts on this sub. I think this false pretence is what annoys a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:07 PM
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my high n count friends seem to not respect men much at all and seem even more hostile when it comes to them My girlfriend says the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:57 PM
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I've been with hundreds of sexually available women. It kinda varied really. I think the best I dealt with were always those who were already in some kind of relationship. Just as polygamy works in some societies, I definitely think there are some women who can thrive in having an "emotional" rock whilst fucking men she sexually desires on the side. Polyamory essentially. The single ones often always seemed bitter. I think the issue sexually available women have is a lot of them want a desirable…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:55 PM
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Confident, with high libido She does not use sex to have a relationship, but to have sex. Men often long for them and try to have a relationship with them. Therefore, these women do not feel resentment being pumped and dumped. On the contrary, their main concern is that their lovers do not fall in love with them too much. They have a good relationship with men, they love masculine men (because they are more fun in sex). They are usually successful and continue their lifestyle until they find lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:51 PM
2

If I didn't I wouldn't look like a Greek god or be making 200k. Those things are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:54 PM
2

Rape convictions don't offer an insight into the amount of rapes actually taking place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:02 PM
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I'm not satisfied with my life and deeply insecure. I'm also earning $200k and look like a greek god. Dissatisfaction is an essential part of the human condition. Its what makes you get up and decide you want better for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:07 PM
1

false accusations are super rare just like real rapes are super rare Wut. This is why I find you "bluepilled" types amusing. You always reveal yourselves to have very dubious ways of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:40 PM
1

Good point. I've actually noticed this even more in the professional world. Word really is bond. I've dealt with so many recruiters and bosses who thought I was just spouting empty threats only for them to see me walk away from roles or job offers. They always, ALWAYS come back when I do too. Bluepilled thinking is largely pushed by the elites an increasingly feckless western population lacking integrity and self belief. Communication is meaningless without conviction and boundaries...which so, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:51 AM
1

Lol, trust me, if I tell my girl to clean the house...she'll clean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:27 PM
1

That's where you are, which is probably America where the scene sounds resoundingly shit. All the good clubs in Europe except for maybe the resorts like Cape D'adge let in single men. The only events which don't are the super high end ones like Killing Kittens where you're essentially paying $300 to look at attractive people peacocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:25 PM
1

You do know, in the UK, there is a massive site dedicated to swinging and I can name half a dozen swingers clubs throughout the country. They dedicated ONE night a week (Saturday, and even then the biggest clubs in Nottingham and Manchester don't even bother) to single women and couples (nights a lot of couples end up hating) and maybe a Monday to LGBT inclined swingers...every other night is open to single men who end up being the lifeblood of the real life scene not only because they pay the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:56 PM
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LOL you literally just dreamed this up from thin air. Data from fucking Pew says the complete opposite. https://minnesotasnewcountry.com/doing-household-chores-makes-men-less-attractive-to-women/#:~:text=According%20to%20new%20data%20from,attractive%20by%20their%20significant%20other. You're another one of the posters on here who legit can't tell what plane of reality you exist in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:48 PM
1

I don't. I do most of the housework. My girlfriend does 99% of the cooking. And, honestly, when my girl exhibits poor habits I scold her for it. Too many people seem to be allergic to holding their SO accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:46 PM
2

Nope. Because they dont. Honestly though, its funny hearing you complain about mediocre men because it seems clear those are likely the only men you're capable of attracting. You said it yourself after all, you get what you give out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:44 PM
2

The vast majority of polyamorous couples are neither chads nor looking for an extra female. Most are looking for MMF threesomes. I'm talking about successful couples too. Swinging is filled to the brim with couples where the women play and the men do not. And I have had too many women on the scene tell me so during swinging related events for someone on Reddit to convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:37 PM
2

Most men are not particularly masculine or posessing particularly masculine markers. Most dudes are average height, overweight, unfit, moderate to high pitched and largely docile.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:26 PM
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Don't even waste you time. So many clowns on here with laughable comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 02:23 PM
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There are literally multiple women arguing that in this very thread, the fuck are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 01:10 PM
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Whats pathetic and enlightening is that you women on Reddit say this as if you want a medal. Who is to say you're someone who couldn't even get a masculine man...and if thats the case why is your opinion even relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:51 AM
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Besides the blue pill empty anecdotal arguments (ex: every fat feminine man I know is married to a super model and is getting porn star level sex on a daily basis with his smooth dish washing skills), is anyone surprised? Blue pilled stupidity is at epidemic levels. I remember one thing when I had a brief spell on Tinder in 2020 was the sheer amount of couples looking for a "plus one". 30% of young adults are "open" to polyamory and among millennials and generation Z-ers, female rates of cheatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:09 AM
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I mean...no shit. But have PPD bluepillers tell it, women actually like feminine short guys who wear lipstick and eye liner. I keep telling guys, its not just about going to the gym but just getting fit and leading a healthy lifestyle with strong fulfilling pursuits which build your confidence. Honestly, the way masculinity drives women wild is like nothing I can describe. Women literally stare at you like snack. I've had my girl or my friends tell me that so many women eyeball me to the points …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:05 AM
2

Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:38 AM
0

Find a friendship circle or find a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:25 PM
3

Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:19 PM
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Also do older women 40s 50s with sons give better advice? Yes! Especially older attractive women. Whilst I dont agree its always refreshing to hear more conservative perspectives from someone who no longer feels they have to put up a "nice girl" front. The men online are introverted and often socially stunted. However I actually feel the women are even worse. I don't think I've ever met a balanced women IRL who was heavy into social media let alone posting on site like these. I also tend to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:15 PM
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I do. But it's that fake Reddit style optimism which is steeped in fake positivity and mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:43 PM
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That's reddit in general. Also remember Reddit has the most mediocre and economically deprived userbase of all the major social media platforms. Put it this way. When it comes to questions on coding issues I have at work I can either come to Reddit for answers or StackExchange. The latter is ALWAYS the better option despite the userbase being much ruder. The top answers will ALWAYS solve the problem rather than just being some dumbass trying to make the same tired joke to karma fish. Any questio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:42 PM
1

What’s the longest any of those women waited to have sex with you and under what circumstances? Were you an exclusive couple at first or was it before any of that happened? Took me six months to sleep with my girlfriend. Five months to sleep with a rebound. Three months to sleep with the hoe I dated before her. It's called self control, doesn't suddenly mean you don't have standards. Not sure what you mean by this? Mind expanding? Men and some women (who I think legitimise the term "pick me") se…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:39 PM
2

Right. This is the thing. I've dated women in gyms, on tinder, on swinging sites, had sex in swingers clubs, had one night stands...there was fundamentally little difference in regards to what turned on those women. They were fundamentally driven by my looks. My girlfriends sexual appetite is higher than that of women I slept with who had been with hundreds of partners and partipated in gangbangs and sex workm. I would say the only difference about swinging was a focus on sexual prowess. Trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:09 PM
1

Men do care about confidence and other personality traits, it just doesn't make her more attractive but if you're into a confident obese women then more power to you. This is why I think you have a scarcity mentality. You care way too much about obese women. Makes it seem like it's an option for you. When thinking about confident women (or a lack thereof) obese women don't even enter my periphery because it's simply not something I select for. Its a pointless strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:52 PM
2

Yeah and don't you find it funny that sugar sites seem to be the only dating sites with more women than men on them? Most women simply don't have the choice of a man either wealth or without it. Most are forced to date poorer/average men. On sites where wealth is paramount competition is fiercer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:49 PM
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Frequency doesn't denote preference and vise versa. Christ, you people really do believe a more chaste woman somehow doesn't enjoy things like good looks, height, muscles and big dicks. Swinging is fundamentally about NSA sex. Most involves couples into group sex but there a sizeable amount of singles looking for purely NSA sex with men. Any site or venue will have plenty of single women "playing" with single men. In fact, I found many single women actually preferred the company of single men. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:45 PM
1

If I wanted to study how aggresive human males are and used a max prison as my sampling. I think we can both agree that my results would be way off compared to if I just took random men off the street. Thats what I was pointing out with your sample of swinger women. Just cause its a large sample doesnt mean its perfectly representative. Any more than a million convicts would be. Lol no they wouldn't. I think both Fyodor Dostoyevsky and Nelson Mandela spoke about just how much about societal habi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:25 PM
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Oh Jesus not this bullshit. No, fat women are mostly unattractive to most normal, healthy men. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/04/160407092947.htm Why do I even have to post this? Your outliers are not the fucking rule. They're not that varied at all. We are largely drawn to healthy, strong characteristic in the opposite sex. Also, all women like the fuck a lot. It just varies the degrees to which they do so. The average partner count for women is 6-10 and a good chunk of women will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:58 AM
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someone claimed to know about women’s sexual nature from being active on sugar dating sites, I would laugh them out. Tinder women will undoubtedly value wealth too, but they will value it a lot less, and they will value it for slightly different reasons. It doesn't matter what they value it for. Fact of the matter is they value it. The privilege of selectiveness actually makes it more difficult to figure out how important certain traits are to people. If you are constantly bombarded with options…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:50 AM
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Women are afraid of dangerous men by default. Since when? Last I checked most rape and murder victims were killed by men they knew. Your posts make it obvious you don't know what you're talking about. Even down to you claiming men don't care about women's confidence, we do actually. You just don't know it. You need to stop projecting your scarcity mentality onto everyone else. It's like you put women above you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:25 AM
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If I went to some sugar dating site, it's safe to say the majority of the women on there will be looking for wealthy men. If I then went to Tinder, would I legit pretend as if wealth isn't something women are attracted to and select for? The same way a sugar dating site prioritises wealth is the same way a swinfer prioritises sexual prowess...but people only really prioritise desirable things in the first place. Only on here do clowns seemingly purport the idea that good looks, height and myriad…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:24 AM
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There is no subsection of women who somehow have different tastes, that's nonsensical. The only difference in those circles is that sex and sexual attraction take priority. Women with lower sex drives aren't going to suddenly not be attracted to the things I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:58 AM
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They all work in tandem tbh. I don't think a single one necessarily overrules any other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:56 AM
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Again. Stop assuming women are virtuous people by default. A lot of people just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:43 PM
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Conversely a 6'4 guy with a perfect face could be rude to a waiter and women will instantly dry up. Loooool do you people actually think this is true???? I swear the more successful I notice a guy is with women the more likely he is to be a general dick especially yo service workers 🤣 Stop this just working fallacy nonsense. You people call yourselves grown adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:55 PM
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But what is the quality of these women and how frequent. The sexual experience between a good looking man and an average one is genuinely night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:52 PM
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Hmmm. As I've said numerous times I've had sex with North of 300-350. Predominantly though my time in swinging and polyamory. Its really the best place for unfettered view of female sexuality. You're partially right in the fact that women are heavily driven by looks just like men. I also think the threshold for a woman to experience raw sexual attraction is higher...BUT it does exist. There are dudes who women fuck in a heartbeat. However I do think women's sexuality is largely reactive and is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:50 PM
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It happens. I mean I don't know why so many weird ass posters think this is some kind of scenario diametrically opposed to many lives realities. I mean remember watching Chris Rock joke about in an old special of his from 2004. "Fellas, you ever caught your girl just...looking at ya?" "You wanna know why? "Because you ain't her first choice!" *crowd erupts* On PPD there seems to be an overabundance of rather dubious thinkers who want to pretend as if settling isn't a thing or as if plenty of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:55 PM
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The whole world thinks in terms of USD. I'm a Brit and do the conversion because, after all, the dollar is the global reserve currency. Seriously some of you posters make me wonder...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:46 PM
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Well no to that too. My college was nothing to write home about. So far I've worked for one of the best known media companies in the world, my country's equivalent of the department of labour and now work for one of the largest chip makers in the world. Skills pay the bills. If you need a doctor/nurse/software engineer with a proven track record you're going to take the risk on the college of your candidates choosing. In this labour market you just don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:40 PM
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Except it is. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.kiplinger.com/slideshow/business/t012-s001-worst-college-majors-for-a-lucrative-career-2019/index.html%3famp This isn't about "what I heard" it's literally established fact and it's not like the department of labour doesn't print the data every quarter. I genuinely wonder what reality you people are living in. Sorry but I'm not taking the word of a HR or recruiter, it's often full of the most clueless clowns who have sweet fuck all clue about the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:35 PM
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I don't really hold your opinion very highly. The "STEMlord" is the reason why this site even exists and why you can continue to post your garbage takes on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:04 PM
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Communications is great for PR, marketing, business management and a plethora of other careers. All of which have decent pay rates. Yeeeeah...no. The good jobs in all those fields is heavily dependent upon which institutions you attended and your GPA (in America). The same country literally has trillions in student loan debt that the millennial electorate is praying Biden is going to write off. Pretending as if a major like communications is a gateway to a career in marketing or media is a fools…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:03 PM
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Thanks 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:36 PM
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I'm gonna be for real, I judge shitty majors too. I also am not going to pretend as if I haven't noticed a pattern of younger, heavily overweight women often being wholly unremarkable in other areas of their lives. Don't shoot me, I'm just a messenger🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:34 PM
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They exist though. My girlfriend is one of them. Has talked me out of every large purchase I've made. I know I got lucky and everyday I think God that I was rewarded with such a good woman as most men don't receive the dome fortune. But, even then, there are red flags. My girlfriends parents are comfortably middle class but still drive an 8 year old car and encourage their kids to live with them before renting. My girlfriend told me her parents heavily discouraged credit cards. She also largely …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:32 PM
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What is "3x the average income of your area"?? Tbh whilst I do think women aren't held to a particularly high standard, I believe your ones are still for too superficial. Way too looks based. And yes, I think you know your standards aren't calibrated with your own looks simply by the way you're posting. Also, money is a funny thing. I'm a contractor and make about $1k a day. It works out to about $300k per year. However, my lifestyle hasn't massively changed. I get to buy A LOT of nice little bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:09 PM
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Oh yes indeed. Ask any desirable guy and let them tell you how fucking easy it is pulling on tinder. Or let a famous guy show you his DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:57 PM
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I don’t know if Leo could pull a 33 year old scientist who has no interest in the entertainment industry I'm sure Leo is dying over the fact he can't pull a frumpy 33 year old scientist whose years of study will never amount to real career or monetary achievement unless she secures some kind of tenureship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:47 PM
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It might be against the rules to say, but let's be real...if the men on Reddit are seen mostly as losers and autists, what does that say about the women? I've been spending the weekend in London and perused some of the designer fashion houses in Central London. The average bag in even a lower end store like Michael Kors starts at £700. Now take a look at the women in these stores. ALL attractive, ALL well put together. Even the front end staff are clearly hired on their physical appeal. The aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:16 PM
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Honestly the "personality and individualism" can die a death. It blows my mind that there are dudes older than twelve who think wearing t shirts with fucking dragon balls on them is the peak of individuality. Oh awesome, you're an attack on titan fan, just like the million others who've also seen it. People arent into the pastimes you mentioned because they're notorious for nickle and diming their customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:01 PM
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Interesting stuff. I spend maybe $300 a month on skin care and grooming products. Retinol, hyaluronic acid, vitamin C cream, face masks, caffeine shampoo, neem, turmeric, various aqueous and coconut oil based lotions and tons of other shit. I also spent about $8-10k in the last year on clothes and shoes. And that's not even touching on the amount I spend on private dental care. I do notice the complaints that OP is talking about but it's mostly sour grapes. When you discover just how much of a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:52 PM
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Women are not more likely to be victims of murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:28 AM
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People have a limited amount of hours in their day, the more of them you're spending in the gym the less of them you're spending in everything else. Honestly I'm kinda tired of this cope. I'm brolic and spend good time in the gym. I would also bet cash I'm more educationally accomplished and financially solvent than you. It's actually the people who aren't in the gym who seem to have nothing going for them. Hence why most people posting on this sub (and reddit in general) see unremarkable and br…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:21 AM
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I think evolutionary psychology is a thoroughly misunderstood subject matter. Whilst I do believe physical strength and size are markers for attractiveness, I do believe a lot of this attraction is socialised and (if this even sounds logical) down to our last few thousand years of civilisational history where big strong men were likely to be successful in organised conflict. I also believe the admiration physically large men get from men is actually influencial for women too. If anything, I've h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:17 AM
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How tall are you? 270+ lbs lean is something most people could never dream of achieving even with access to any and all PEDs. Yeah to be fair I am 6ft4 am super curious about the how many in a single night though. Mine is 3 lol, mostly because I was flying out the day after and got greedy about trying to hang out with all of them on that day. Yeah tbh mine is about 10. It was a crazy time. Generally I think the physique women consider to be "too big" is far underestimated. I bet most people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:15 AM
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I have insanely good genetics for bodybuilding. And yes tbh my go to is basic test with HCG and arimidex. I run a high dose but outside of that I've only really dabbled in a bit of anavar and trenbolone. There is so much more to building quality muscle than simply blasting heavy shit and so many just don't have the genetics for it. I was 6ft3 and 238lbs before I ever stepped foot in the gym. I was big but never really fat. My younger brother is fucking massive as well and he doesn't take bodybui…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:35 PM
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Most of you are fucking incels. Why so many of you complain about not getting laid and then try to lecture about women's desires always amuses me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:57 PM
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Timothee Chamalet is a beautiful man. Its not something that's particularly confounding. So are the kpop idols. This isn't 1996 where showing attraction to some hot Korean dude made you some kind of "traitor". They're legitimately highly desirable men. There is no "type". A lot of desirable women with options and a tendency to be promiscuous would have fucked a guy who looked like me and someone who looked like Chalamet. It's not some zero sum bullshit which people here try to sell it as.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:55 PM
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I'm not going to keep at this because, quite frankly, it's not my remit. I just question why it seems so many dudes try to convince themselves its not something women want. Hell, I don't even know what women want. All I know is what I've taken from swinging, BDSM, some dabbling in the "twitter sex worker" world and doing some stuff with a professional domme who arranged parties for cuck couples. People want fantasies and I fulfilled that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:53 PM
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And saying that means what exactly? Dome of you need to go outside and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:51 PM
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277lb at 10% bf??? you got any pics man thats insanely huge. I think I will soon in another thread I create in the near future. youre probs an exception my bro, so many jacked gym bros yet skinny dudes with nails painted get laid more. i dont doubt jacked guys can be popular with women but average woman will pick a the physique i sent over roided guy. Most women don't have that choice. Again I was big in the swinging scene and attended many events. Kink, BDSM, highend sex parties, sex clubs. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:34 PM
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I'm telling as someone with a beyond steroid physique. I'm bigger than Hemsworth in both height and sheer muscle size. Tipping the scale at 277lbs this morning at about 9-10% bodyfat. Most people assume I'm on GH and slin if not for the fact I've got a flat stomach. Gotta be for real I've had sex with maybe 350 women at an estimate and I won't day how many women I've had sex with in a single night because I'll be called a liar. It's never a requirement for women to date a guy my size but it is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:22 PM
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I will stipulate that in general, humans are poor judges of their own attractiveness. Men are prone to think themselves more attractive than they are. Women often think themselves less attractive than they are. (Unless they are obese, in which they simply have no idea how repulsive they are.) I honestly think this is horseshit and I'm waiting for that study claiming so to be debunked, if it hasn't already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:59 PM
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Dude, this post literally sounds cray. Women laughed at you for post meal bloat? Do those women have an even basic understanding of anatomy???? I can happily say I've avoided any kind of surgery but this is one of the things a man has to be careful about when delving into self improvement. You must maintain frame and a good bearing of yourself because women will try hard to destroy your sense of masculinity the better you actually look and I feel this can cause insecurity to intensify. Even toda…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:54 PM
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besides steroid physique aint attractive to most women. Tbh it is. Same way men love super large breasts and the enhanced figures of instagram influencers. Human beings are shallow. There is a reason why Hemsworth now looks like a fucking NPC competitor. The market is asking for it. I actually think women's desires for men ate trending towards those of gay man. Hypermasculinity has become hyper desirable to subsection despite it being unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:51 PM
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Being jacked, tall or even well endowed doesn't automatically make you secure. I have all three and I'm intensely insecure about my physique. If anything I would say the more perfect a guy looks, the more insecure he is about it. Problem is people confuse insecurity and poor self esteem. Sometimes it's hard to quantify the latter but I can happily say that I now feel a strong sense of assurance when I'm out in public. I tend to just exude confidence. The problem is the insecurity, I've legit had…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:49 PM
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Isn't that literally what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:38 PM
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Masculine men and feminine women are sought after, especially if they look good. No point pretending as if young, submissive, nubile, sexually inexperienced women aren't prized. No point pretending as if handsome, tall, fit, accomplished, experienced men aren't sohht after either. The competition for these individuals is often fierce and many just drop out of competing entirely. I see it on sites like Reddit and Tumblr a lot. It's no surprise a site which often attracts largely introverted, soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:55 PM
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This is the irony though. Hypermasculinity is highly coveted among gay circles. There is an overabundance of twinks and fems. Its the ultra masculine guys who are highly sought after. I got way more comments about my dick or my physique from gay men than I did from women. This is why I personally feel the desire for feminine men is largely a cop-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:25 PM
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Size and strength are important masculine markers. After all, testosterone literally makes you taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:24 PM
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People here are saying that there is no one size fits all method of dating and I think that's that's true. Problem is, be that as it may, doesn't mean you actually are one of the outliers. I feel a lot of people think they want some form of non traditional relationship purely because they're either incapable or simply haven't experienced anything resembling the norm. Reddit is chock full of relationship advice threads about women who feel they've been pushed into "open relationships". I noticed …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:10 PM
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Because you can use reddit on your phone. And I'm not going to pretend I'm 100% sane either. Believe me, I ask myself the same question...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:43 PM
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Good on you for at least admitting it. A lot of men here suffer the same problems. There are so many female oddballs running around here unchallenged. I have one repeatedly messaging my inbox right mow. Women don't need to empathise with mens issues in the same way you can't expect a child to empathise with the struggles of a parent. Simply hold women accountable. Once you start doing that everything else will fall into place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:17 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 I love thar you keep posting this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:20 PM
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I have an ex who was an ultramarathon guy, and he was NUTS about this stuff. Weighing everything he ate and shit like that. Good for you if you're not, but it's a Thing. Well let's not pretend as if women are banging down the door for ultramarathon runners lol. He must have been gaunt. And even then, if he's a legit athlete good on him, that's the price of success. A meal could be the gap between first and third place. That's how it is with any competitive athlete. But if you keep attracting bor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:46 AM
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You seem incapable of thinking that some people don't find fitness stuff interesting. That it's something you do to look good and be healthy, but is not fun to talk about, and if you're so into it that you won't eat the food I cooked for you or skip a single day of training to go on the day trip I planned, you are not a desirable partner. You clearly haven't been with a fitness junkie because that's not how fitness works. I've competed in both bodybuilding, BJJ and MMA. Unless cutting weight in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:35 AM
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Oh? What do you think of social media influencer women? Do they maybe seem kinda vapid and dull because they expend all their energy into looking good and presenting themselves well? Well wouldn't that depend on the content of the influencer? You seem so wrapped in thinking any desirable man or women must somehow be vapid and shallow, its actually kind of pathetic. I follow pretty girls who do nothing but post their ass but there are plenty others who've been able to create a respectable busines…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:20 AM
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So that's bodybuilding, martial arts and Tinder. Those activities/apps will select for a lot of men. So whose left? I really pity those who think that physical fitness is some kind of inhibitor of intellectual capacity. Must suck to have to rationalise ones mediocre dating choices. Damn sure wouldn't catch me saying good looking/fit women are somehow less intelligent or interest by merit of their good looks. (You also, judging by your comments, really missed the point of Fleabag--that show is ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:05 AM
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They're just...grating. Honestly I've had a lot of women understand my stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:45 AM
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Erm...okay. I don't think I can even be bothered to explain all the things wrong with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:41 AM
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The OP may be a little on the odd side but let's be for real, do you really want to be an environment of largely women? I have to admit I worked in an office with mostly women and it was legit horrible. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:38 AM
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So physical strength or a lack thereof makes abuse...not as a bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:36 AM
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Domestic violence isn’t as much of an issue in lesbian relationships WHAT? Seriously do some of you even interact with any LGBT people? Abuse is a huge issue. https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.01506/full
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:35 AM
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You see a lot of them on Reddit and it's absolutely pathetic what a lot of dudes have become. I think its great that men and woman have their own friendship groups and networks. My girlfriend moved city to live with me and she's met a bunch of new female friends local to us. I can't think of anything more pathetic than trying to muscle in on those largely female networks. But it seems that's what a lot of guys these days are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:11 AM
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It's data just largely irrelevant. An outlier doesn't make the rule. I can post data from half a dozen other western countries like France and Canada too...according to you we should discount these larger populations for fucking New Zealand. Use your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:09 AM
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Tbh I don't think you're wrong. Every remotely well adjusted woman I've met largely enjoys the company of other women most of the time. They'll have a smattering of male associates but most of these guys will be the partners of their female friends. Honestly most intergender friendship groups I've seen just come off as ones full of people either dating or trying to date each other or full of guys who don't score high on the "masculinity" index. Edit: tbh OP you fo seem like a bit of a weirdo, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:40 AM
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New Zealand is a population of 5 million. Compared to the 330m of America and near 70m in the UK. Both countries also have significantly large ethnic populations. Can Maoris and Pacific islanders even be considered "ethnic" considering they're the indigenous population?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:37 AM
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If telling yourself that makes u feel better have at it. Beats being some weird who makes every conversation about the pua dorks who apparently approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:27 AM
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That's great. Glad to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:25 AM
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Very good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:23 AM
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The US: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/2021/5/10/22425178/catalist-report-2020-election-biden-trump-demographics The UK: https://www.iser.essex.ac.uk/research/publications/524117
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:11 AM
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What you have is that the most likely ethnic group to vote centre-left are pacifica, followed by maori (our indigenous people), Asian then white (least likely) This is an obfuscation. "Most likely ethnic group to vote for xxxx" and "majority of ethnic group vote for xxxx" are tep different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:46 PM
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Very nice. Agree with a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:16 PM
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From what i've been told a lot of these apparent "autpmatic weapons" are merely high capacity and don't fire multiple rounds in a single burst.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:10 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:09 PM
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media doesn’t represent art Dude...what? Some of you genuinely make me wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:04 PM
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Whats the issue? That its bragging or that its bullshit? Because if its the latter, I'm afraid to tell you that number is a very conservative estimate...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:51 PM
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it concludes black men are the biggest threats of rape And it would be correct in reflecting the fact that said opinion was what many white people thought. Or did the numerous lynchings, emmet till and the various massacres in places like Tulsa not happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:49 PM
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And it still reflected life. Hell, even films like Birth of a Nation gave a window into general american sentiment and are used by historians and cultural anthropologists the world over to explain numerous modern cultural phenomenons like "missing white woman syndrome" and racist assumptions of predatory black sexuality. Quit with the fucking self victimisation. I'm black too, its not the reason for your shitty outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:07 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:03 PM
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It is...but there are plenty of cheat codes. I was a good looking guy and kinda disliked how much time and effort I wasted on dating apps and clubs trying to engage with women who would be equally obfuscatory about what they wanted. I then discovered polyamory and swinging and probably had sex with in excess of 250-300 women. Its bad, I know...but I'm 6ft4, have a huge dick and I'm very muscular. It was like being a kid in a candy store. Guys play the game wrong. I'm not single anymore but even …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:02 PM
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Well...no. Come on, you seriously take a guy drunkenly making out with you in a club as a genuine indication of interest? ​ Really????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:55 PM
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A there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:54 PM
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I think you might be right...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:53 PM
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Would me being LGBT make my point any less valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:17 PM
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Well don't you think drawing conclusions about 300m+ populations, centuries long civilizations might be a bad idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:00 PM
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It sounds like you’re more successful since you do treat your girlfriend better than her ex, though. Well no, because she never left her ex. I'm also objectively better looking. And just because I took her seriously it didnt (and doesnt) mean I have my own set of negative character traits that I carried into our relationship. Believe me, I have a few. Here's what I think. I'm not kind, I'm useful. I have been instrumental in my GF finding a sense of self worth and confidence to the point she now…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:56 PM
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Thinking that European attitudes to sex stem exclusively from a lax attitude to alcohol is a comical level of ignorance. I mean, Jesus, Wikipedia is your friend. Start from Martin Luther and go from there...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:53 PM
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There are some women who know how to be feminine, submissive and have an attractive personality and can hold decent conversations with men, and they dont have these problems. Oh indeed, I don't think I articulated it substantively but this is my overall point. Shame so few seemed to grasp it. Actually you said everything I wanted to say but smarter and less antagonistically. I need to get better at this debating shit looool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:50 PM
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In your own life, don’t other people really like the individual who is genuinely nice and kind to others? Nope. My girlfriend is a genuinely kind soul. Her ex strung her along for years and the few men she spoke to largely treated her as a plaything. Thats how the cookie crumbles. I was the first guy to take her seriously, albeit she was young. I think that actually liking women and seeing them more than just “sellers” of sex is a good start Again, rubbish. Shit I think weak people say to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:45 PM
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You're focusing too much on alcohol. The drinking age in many countries is lower but alcohol consumption will still pale in comparison to countries like UK. Our drinking age is lower than that in America (18 to 21) and yet the prevalence of alcohol related deaths is way, way higher in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:33 PM
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Which is ironic because they same types will criticize conservatives. It just seems to me that the progressive/blue pilled attitudes on here are extremely surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:27 PM
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Thats fair TBH It concerns me that there are men out here pretending as if that isnt a significant base of their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:24 PM
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Yeah but there’s a lot of stereotyping and exaggerating By who? What the fuck does this sentence even mean? Are you implying stereotyping and exaggeration is the exclusive preserve of art? That it isn't a mainstay of the human condition? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:20 PM
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This is just low level thinking. There are PLENTY of toxic relationships that have gone on for years. Plenty of people living lives of codependency. There is no subsection of people living wonderfully perfect lives and it concerns me how much of Reddit tries to pass it off as something that is possible. I treat my girl well in some ways and in many ways not so well. She has friends who had long term relationships with seemingly great men but they broke it off because they felt those guys were "t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:17 PM
3

Well that's funny considering I've been in one for six years and plan to propose. We've moved in together and my parents love her. I'm actually lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:08 PM
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This is too just world fallacy-ish for my tastes. Plenty of absolutely awful successful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:02 PM
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Do you legit think minority groups in western nations outside of America vote for Conservative governments? Really????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:01 PM
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Seems like you're just unable to discuss the topic at hand and are resorting to whatever it is you're doing right now. I've been wrong before and will be wrong again but it appears a lightweight like you won't be capable of adequately disputing my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:00 PM
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A genuine improvement in social engagement would help. There is a discussion in here about how European attitudes to sex and relationships is better (they are in some ways) and learning aspects from them would go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:57 AM
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Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:55 AM
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It was the poster who left this comment that I was replying to They're not praising them is the thing. Just showing off. "Look, my boyfriend is better than you on this arbitrary thing you care about." Are you even following this fucking conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:53 AM
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Actually the Conservative government in the UK has become more aligned with those in the US than ever. Our current government is the most right wing we've ever had. Senior figures like Jacob Rees Mogg have openly criticised abortion rights and our current hono secretary has successfully pushed through policy that will see refugees shipped off to Rwanda. We annexed ourselves from the EU and we're currently toying with removing ourselves from the Geneva human rights convention. The tories have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:49 AM
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That's a good point. It's easy to peel the layers and expose a lot of these nice guy redditors full of shitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:36 AM
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Television and art both reflect and shape the culture. In the UK shows like Chewing Gum and Fleabag have been lauded for their accurate depiction of the lives of urban twentysomething women. They're largely successful and lauded for undeniably good writing because they resonate with the viewing audience. I tend to find the biggest losers on here are the ones who seem to challenge any view on here that doesn't subtly imply women are sugar, spice and everything nice. Good lord if I shared on here …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:35 AM
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Actually in America its a good indicator that they're probably not. I can post poll results proving this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:30 AM
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That doesn't make a difference. It doesn't take a genius to work out stabbing someone with a 7+ inches isn't fun for ones cervix. The issue is even using it as a measurement or yardstick at all. It would be like me bragging to my friends about how slim my partner is. Her slimness wouldn't be a determinant of my attraction to her but if she learned it was a point of comparison I don't doubt she would feel insecure about it. In fact I'm certain that happens IRL anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:29 AM
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You exist in an echo chamber What's the echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:24 AM
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This is the irony. I've met the Kevin Samuel's fans girl. Genuinely nice woman. My girlfriend is another great person. This is what is sad. So many men just seem so, so weak. Intent on defending behaviours that shouldn't be defended. I've met some great women in my time but I think doing so has come been because I've become resolute in the exact personalities I DONT like. The fucking irony is that so many of the men replying to me will be stuck in shitty, failing relationships whilst telling me …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:21 AM
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In America maybe. Its different here. My MMA gym is 70% Asian, the other big MMA gym in my city (which a couple big UFC guys fight out of, is at least 50% black) and that's just MMA. My boxing gym, like most boxing gyms, is black as fuck and they make up at least half the clientele. I think its no surprise that a place where men are at their physical peak is a place where there is generally little time for bullshit conformist and poltically correct attitudes. Less full of shit middle class white…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:17 AM
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They would. But again they would need to be funneling weapons better than a single shot AR15.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:14 AM
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Yes, very nice comment. The UK fascinates me. I've actually come to think its not as bad as the US, this sub was influential in that change in stance because the opinion from many Americans here is legit frightening. But I think UK has among one of the most uniquely toxic dating cultures in the western world. However, if you learn how to navigate it, it can end up being quite fulfilling. e's a very strong "looks over everything else" mentality with dating in the the UK. It's hard to explain, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:51 AM
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One time this British guy grabbed me and started kissing me in a club. I know a lot of women wouldn't like that, but for me it's much better than mixed signals Again, this seems to be nothing more than sheltered Americans opining about Europeans that they genuinely know nothing about. Drunk make outs in clubs is a very, very British pastime...he likely stuck his tongue down five other women that same night. British men are actually well known for being very averse to direct approaching. Dating i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:42 AM
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Germans are very social people This makes me struggle to take this post seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:38 AM
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Women don't tend to discuss penis size ​ Yeah they talk about it to men because they know it matters to them So which is it? You're such a laughably inconsistent poster. Its hilarious that anyone takes what you seriously 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:35 AM
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DICK THREAD!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:30 AM
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What I'm saying is the average fat fuck American's gun isn't going to save them from a highly organised and capable tyrannical government/military infrastructure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:53 AM
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looool organised international networks of islamist militants with significant backing from foreign powers couldn't take bumfuck Syria and yet idiots think their little AR15 is going to stand up against an entire organised military. The best and first line of defense against a tyrannical government is free press, education and democratic values among US populace, not guns. Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:34 AM
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Boyfriends, friends, fuckbuddies and acquaintances
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:28 AM
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Young American men and women largely have the same issues. It's just that men tend to act out their trauma through the infliction of pain on others where women internalise and act out trauma on themselves. Yes, angry men definitely exist in America but I actually think these massacres say more about easy access to guns and even white supremacy than it does about disaffected young men. America has always had a toxic culture of entitlement and misogyny, I think things have actually gotten slightly…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:47 AM
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Your posts read like some fucking stupid revenge fantasy similar to the same stupid shit redpillers write about "the wall".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:41 AM
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I'm in the UK, the culture isn't great but its not as bad as the US. Anglicised culture does seen to correlate though with a lot of individualism and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:21 AM
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Too many losers who happen to have white skin seem to get a little giddy at this idea that they're oh so persecuted because someone may think negatively of their preferences. No one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:26 PM
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Black men here complain that they can't match with white women Do we? Not seeing that a whole lot here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:03 PM
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I’ve noticed most of the white women that find me attractive are bigger…if you’re a black guy you most likely know lmao. My girl is a size 8-10 and is the slimmest girl I could ever go for, she's got a fat ass though. A lot of white women with nice asses respond positively due to the attention they get from black guys. I know you get the porkers but then you also get the white girls who carry a bit of weight in their hips and ass. Having women of that physique being mostly interested is a blessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:11 PM
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it’s frustrating when 50%+ of women in general won’t give you a chance off the bat because of your race Is it really? 50%+ is fucking good odds. Besides, nothing makes my dick go softer than a fucking racist. And I'm a black guy, though I guess I'm not average so I cannot say for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:00 PM
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While I am looking for an educated man who at least has his bachelors This is already a minority. Educated gen Z/millennial men are becoming an increasing rarity. What is stopping you from dating a blue collar guy? What is stopping you from dating someone a little overweight? As always, and just like I tell redpillers, this argument goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:19 PM
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I am in a relationship for 4 years now and I'm still waiting for my bf to drop me because he found someone else that offers more despite him constantly telling me that he loves me. This is not healthy thinking or in any way insightful. This is dangerously low self esteem and you shouldn't be sharing that on here, you should be talking to a licensed therapist. Society tells me I'm worthless. Really? I think this sub needs to do more to address some of these worrying attitudes being displayed by b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:16 PM
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I heavily dislike the WOC pity party thats become all the rage online in recent years but I actually do think you're right. I just don't get how guys don't understand it. Most men's criteria on here seems to be below 30, slim, white. This narrows it down to about maybe 10% of the wider population at best. Guys just don't understand that a lot of women are invisible and its becoming even more pronounced. But I don't really absolve people like the OP either. Go there its likely you're looking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:06 PM
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Nonsense. You need to walk before you run. Learn how to engage in mentally enjoyable conversation before jumping to engage in the kind of conversation that gets your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:06 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:36 PM
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Yep. Here in the UK there is a company called killing kittens and the participants are all vetted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:57 PM
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Again. Bullshit. My girl isn't a super model and she gets hit on at work, on commute and in the gym. As I said a lot of you are full of hot air.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:30 PM
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Is it just me or does that poster always seem to fake complain about how much they get hit on. It's amusing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:49 PM
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Possibly New York
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:46 PM
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Tbh I brag myself on here. Its not the attributes which makes people seem full of shit, it's the incongruence. I'm someone who stands out and even as a man, people talk to me a fair bit. Any woman trying to convince you she's attractive and doesn't get hit on is full of shit. They all do. Any pretty girl IRL will tell u that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:44 PM
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Not directly but I dated this german girl before. I would put her at about 8-8.5/10. Very hot, 5ft11 and used to be a cam model. She was a nightmare and luckily I got out of there fast but I remember telling me about how jealous she was of her sister who, like her, was a big time thot who had a "orbiter" who waited years for her only to eventually raise the kid she had with another dude. It was one of the MASSIVE red flags that made me yeet the fuck outta there. She kept speaking about how lucky…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:34 PM
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The only part of this that makes disagree is the fact that I was big into swinging a few years ago. The single women almost always skewed towards overweight. I think its right not to attribute behaviours directly to looks but there is a point where humans realise that they can barter whatever characteristics they have for greater access to whatever it is they desire. It was rare to meet an attractive woman on the scene who wasnt either monetising her looks or demanding higher calibre of suitor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:54 PM
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Probably bannable, but I actually think men attribute behaviors to too many women. But whereas most "bluepilled" types would say men are wrong, I actually think its that men are half right. I actually think it varies more by culture, with some being more toxic than others. Honestly, I tend to find the black women/WOC who post here (who aren't femcels, there are a lot of those) very insightful and often genuinely open my mind to new perspectives. By comparison I tend to find a lot of the white/mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:35 PM
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I believe that a woman can't maintain a low n count if she sleeps with you on the 1st date (meaning she's done this before) and it's counter-intuitive to want a low n count woman who sleeps with you on the 1st date. TBH I also find this logic from redpillers dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:20 PM
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This is very true. But apparently there is something called "assortive mating" which aligns with what you're saying. I see the same thing as someone who is tall and good looking and muscular, the easiest women to hook up with have (and always are, ALWAYS) the most attractive women I've spoken to. However I must admit chubby women are also very, very easy. I think its really women among the average (5-6...though I hate attractiveness scores) who tend to be the most difficult to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:19 PM
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Fair enough, I'll give u that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:15 PM
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but about women who post here specifically, as the OP was asking for it. The OP didn't specify women specifically posting on this sub at all. You're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:06 PM
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Gee, thinking men should pay for dates and men not having dating issues are legit opinions not held by most of the female gender??? I deeply, deeply dislike women who post on here precisely due to comments like these. The hivemindedness is really bad. And I'm no fucking redpiller. I feel I run into loads of women IRL who hold other women accountable and genuinely form their own stances but the moment I get on this sub, its like women purposefully become hyper reductive and intellectually dishone…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:01 PM
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It's like working hard and telling people how hard you work. Most people like to simply see the results rather than being told how much harder a successful person is working compared to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:50 AM
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That's a male only phenomenon. No the fuck it's not. And you post like an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:36 PM
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This all sounds very binary. And I still think it comes from a place of possible questioning of one's self worth. You're attractive and successful and court the attention of more attractive women and yet you're complaining about not having the lot of lesser physically appealing males shacked up with lesser physically appealing women. What's the problem here? Also ditch the "delayed gratification" thing. Its lame. Since we are bragging I have a physique that if posted on here would definitely hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:23 PM
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Im from the UK and first entered university in my early twenties. I then returned to complete my masters, switching from electronic engineering to computer science. The first time I went was a ball. It may have had something to do with the fact I went to a redbrick (our great value version of ivy leagues). I was literally swimming in women. I just felt as if women were very open to meeting fellow young students. The second time I went was slightly different. Social media had become more of a thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:21 PM
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But mostly because they don't socialize with women and make moves enough. Men are told that they're approaching too much and that anywhere outside of a social venue is unacceptable. This is the issue, there is too much doublespeak and too much inconsistency from women. Only an absolute fucking idiot would be running telling men too approach unabated considering just how much various forms of harassment are being touted as being common experiences for the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:32 PM
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talk to the girl that would become my first girlfriend ​ she told me actually she wasn't interested at all at that time Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:16 PM
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I'm awful at it. I don't even pretend otherwise. Though the weirder thing is that I think the signals have become more and more confused. I'm a very standout guy physically and hence I get a lot of really bizarre reactions from both men and women and a lot of stares. However I notice stares can kinda vary wildly. In a club environment it, most of the time, often means an indication of some kind of interest. Most of the time. TBH though I've had plenty of occasions where the women was willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:13 PM
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Messageboards were never hip but it does seem like more and more of the posters seem to be strating further and further from normal/well adjusted. The average poster on here now seems to be the kind of person who would be considered a troll a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:10 PM
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Op doesn't sound like she gets out much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 03:05 PM
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If I told my girl that I wanted a FFM threesome she would probably slap me and then cry and fear our relationship was on the rocks. I keep saying it but I genuinely wonder about the takes made by women on here and the female demographic in general on here because a lot of the stupidity posted on here is done so with no pushback. At least there's a healthy balance of redpilled and bluepilled men countering each others opinions. Too many women here are clearly social failures and recluses operatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:35 PM
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Most dudes simply have little faith in their own attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:12 PM
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Groping is sexual assault. You're really coming off as an unhinged incel weirdo here. You think in a rape case, a recorded conversation with you apologising for sexually assaulting someone will help your defence? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:09 PM
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Honestly fuck off. The dude is a convicted rapist and it's clear as fuck from the evidence (which included a recorded conversation with him apologising) that he isn't some victim of "opportunistic whores".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:21 AM
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Is it even "unfair"? I know an onlyfans girl, very pretty. She said her craziest request wasn't anything sexual, but a guy wanting her to build a maze and try to escape it and keep failing. Honestly I would take a minimum wage over having to interact with a guy like that with any frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:49 PM
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I find it funny the dudes posting the most here are the subs "bluepill" regulars. And many of the regular "bluepilled" females side with Heard or at least slyly undermine the seriousness of her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:30 PM
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Honestly I think people who say this are cowardly and intellectually dishonest and hiding their own questionable stances in regards to the topic at hand. People did the same in regards to the "wagatha christie" trial I mentioned in another comment. In that case it indeed involved two social media obsessed idiot wives with too much money....but at the same time one party was clearly in the wrong. One of the women has shown to be repeating leaking stories to the press and destroying relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:27 PM
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Firstly I think Depp is a toxic jackass who blew his money and hasn't put out a good performance in a decade. However I think Heard isn't merely narcisstic, abusive and manipulative...she's downright self destructive. This entire case has been a lesson on how to completely destroy your career. In the UK we have a slightly similar thing happening in a case dubbed "the WAGatha Christie" trial. Called so because it involves two wives of ex footballers whom one Colleen Rooney (wife of former England…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:18 PM
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Don't really care. So don't think I can help u. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:03 PM
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Some of you really try too hard to make yourselves not look like the socially stunted losers you obviously are. Its pretty sad to come into a debate sub and act as if you're above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:37 PM
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Soooo they're right then? Womens standards are too high...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:32 PM
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Yeah but I don't think its done out of any kind of purposeful slight. I just don't think women here are that well socially versed. For all the talk of incels, I dont actually think a lot of the women here are that far off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:30 PM
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Wow, its like you said everything I believe in a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:00 PM
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I thought we all agreed collectively only weirdos do this tho. Like I always avoided profiles that had a list of demands. Thank god most people aren’t like that So because yummylickey23 on Reddit says its weird we should all discount out lived experiences? https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/women-say-they-wont-date-short-men-in-dating-profiles https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/nov/19/ask-eva-should-i-list-height-dating-profile https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-48956…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:58 PM
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Wdym? It's pretty self explanatory. Someone will claim they love guys above 6ft and fit and yet most of the guys they talk to are 5ft7 with dad bods. I don’t really see the push for a false sense of exclusivity It's exactly that. When you're making online dating profiles claiming you only date XXXX race/height/income then you're creating a false sense of exclusivity. And A LOT of people doing it. Such as? Height, ripped, very high income Tbh is a man ever asks me out I’ll probably think it’s a Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:58 PM
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On a side note, I am a software engineer as well, a senior one and I work from 10 am (9.15 if you add commute) to 8pm (sometimes we have to wait to upload code updates later in the night,to not disturb our customer's work) , and I am required to be in the office. I used to go to the gym afterwards but now I have zero energy to do that. Maybe I should opt for remote roles even though I think I'll miss the interaction between coworkers. But this is fundamentally your own choosing. In 2022 there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:51 AM
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Most womens standards are low...like, really low. The problem is women, western women especially, front. A lot. To the point that 95% of the time when a western woman tells me that her criteria is made of xxxx feature, then she is going to pull out a ton of mediocre dudes who she smashed who dont fulfill any of the criteria she mentions. Its really sad how many of us in the west are brought up to create a false sense of exclusivity to deal with our insecurities, social media doesn't help with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:45 AM
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I'm very muscular and make very good money. And not that "swolefat" muscular but legit ripped. People really limit themselves. I work in a field considered one for the socially inept/autistic/intelligent but, in reality, I think anyone can learn how to adequately code if they have the patience and willingness to learn. It also is actually one of the jobs thats most beneficial to lifting. I now opt for exclusively remote roles and that allows me to eat, rest and get all my nutrition and supplemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 11:34 AM
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Meh I was massively popular in college and fucked around a ton. Tbh fumbling in bed with a bunch of women who didn't really know what they were doing wasn't really the wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:37 PM
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Who the fuck hits their career/material peak at 25?? Where is this "study"? Or was it something you just made up because you're bitter at redpillers because they challenged your ego. https://www.sciencealert.com/here-are-the-ages-you-peak-at-everything-throughout-life https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:28 PM
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They can tell. Trust me. Especially if they're from a middle class background. My gf dad was a former military man whose been making six figures in a job where he travels the world. Shes never struggled. She claims she saw my potential. It was probably in the way I carried myself and spoke. Her ex also came from a similar background. I make a similar amount to you and also drive a (respectable) newish Honda Civic. I flirted with buying a brand new 60k BMW but decided against it when I realised I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:20 PM
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who are young now That's because they're young now. Lol give it 5 years. It's crazy, 9-10 years ago I was saying the EXACT same shit you were 🤣 Life comes at you fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:05 PM
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Hmmm. Interestingly enough the last girl to hit on me was a teenager. Aging varies massively from one individual to another. I mean, in boxing/MMA early thirties is largely considered most heavyweights prime. I'm in better shape than ever, truly eye catching right now...but I also have more money than ever. I was severely broke in my 20s, was earning a respectable wage by 30 and then just saw my income shoot up to the top 1-2% over the last year. However, if anything, I would say I noticed women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:03 PM
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If you're more attractive I do think online tends to yield a lot more results and allows you to pick and choose more. I've done the real life thing too but I realise the last time I met sell adjusted, non slutty women was in uni. Now being slutty isn't a bad thing in and of itself but it's something I found myself wanting avoid and felt it was easier finding women who adhered to my expectations online. I think any sensible guy should be exploiting both though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:24 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:17 PM
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Some women want wild romance and are risky enough to date strangers. There are lots of women who have different preferences though and a minority of women who just can't feel attraction to strangers. Is dating strangers that risky? I genuinely can't tell. But it does seem like "stranger danger" is a lot more of a thing that I remember it being in the past. And I'm in my early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:32 PM
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Never at a bus or train station though. Indeed. Most people will appreciate a nice conversation with someone’s number offered at the end of it, even if they reject you. You would think... Honestly, I've found a lot more women these days just seem overly suspicious of men who approach anywhere but some bar or club...no matter how polite they may seem. I feel its a combination of increased social isolation meaning women are often only being hit up by the weirdos with nothing to lose and harmful me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:30 PM
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As someone who used to cold approach a lot, I will definitely acknowledge its a genuinely great skill to have. Not just for interacting with women but people in general. I tend to fair really well on the culture/communication side of many interviews despite the fact that my technical ability (software development) is kinda average. Being able to communicate, express a positive demeanour through body language, tone and inflection are all skills which require practice to get good at. I won't deny …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:25 PM
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The sad thing about modern dating is that I legit can't tell if you're serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:01 PM
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Do you care so much about what people outside are thinking of you? LOL yes, because most men want to be one of a number of men dating one woman. This is exactly the problem people have with polyamorists, for the most part people don't want to live lifestyles which I going to have them derided by the wider populace. Everyone thinks they're oh so enlightened but there is a reason why polyamory circles are often the preserve of social rejects and unattractive men. And lets not for a second pretend …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:02 PM
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I'm in the UK. Entry sales roles are often about 23-25k which works out to about 30k and maybe worth 40k in equivalent spending power. This excludes OTE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:33 AM
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So yeah, most women I met in those circles were absolutely lovely. Great people. And how many of those women are legitimately single. If you don't mind being part of a woman's harem have at it but, as we all know, its a lifestyle choice where male participants are treated with a lot of disgust and derision from those outside of it. That being said, I completely avoid mainstream swinging and am more active in queer circles, so it might not be the same culture. Honestly queer circles have the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:16 AM
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Is job hunting enjoyable? No. Are interviews enjoyable? Mostly no. I just did one where a sat through a bunch of technical questions and had to answer each one using the "STAR" technique. I have another hour and a half of this tomorrow. Its a fucking pain. But...the jobs I'm interviewing for all pay $120k+ and these are second roles and have me as either a senior or lead engineer. I could probably have a far easier time applying for jobs doing sales $30k. I remember working in sales and finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:00 AM
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Do you consider short men? Guys who don't take initiative? What exactly is the hypocrisy? I men and women meant to desire the same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:47 AM
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This is where my experience being in polyamory/swinging comes in. I interacted with a lot of women in that scene and it really opened my eyes to womens sexuality, it caters to women after all. The issue with promiscuity is that it often causes commodification of sexual interaction. I've seen this so many times, I've likely dated a lot more promiscuous women than you have. It was rather simple actually, a lot of them possessed the same problematic behaviours that promiscuous men had and then some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:44 AM
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Does your girlfriend know you’ve slept with 300+ women? Yes. But I'm 6ft4, brolic and make like $200k. She'll live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:26 AM
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You would avoid dating a high count women just because some (or most) high count women you met were insufferable? Isn't this weird? Like, let's say I think Firemen are assholes because most of the ones I met were assholes. If I liked a woman or a man working as a fireman, I still wouldn't not date them because of their profession. This is why I think men have questionable standards. Funnily enough a video went viral a few weeks ago where a family lawyer earmarked professions to avoid in men. Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:29 AM
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Whatever u need to tell yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:20 AM
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I don't really know or care about who you are. Just assume your contributions are as shitty as most I interact with on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:11 AM
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It sold 15 million copies and the movie franchise made $1.2 billion in the box office. Yeah...all that was just it being seen by people ironically 😒 The problem I have with a lot of you on this sub is that you don't operate with any level of intellectual integrity. I think the transformers series is hot garbage and, as objective cinema, it doesn't offer much to the artform...but I won't sit there and pretend the young male audience who watched them (including myself, multiple times) did so just …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:01 AM
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My partner count is in the hundreds. Maybe 300+. My girlfriend has been with 4 or 5. I met her when I was 27 and she was 20/21. Its never been a hugely difficult thing to find women who aren't promiscuous, especially now, I just tailor my approach...I've never been one to demand sex on first encounters and I tend to enjoy numerous dates with prospective partners these days regardless. I think a lot of women and men who can't do any better like to perpetuate this idea that if you're a promiscuous…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:35 AM
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Not difficult but thoroughly unenjoyable. I found myself back on Tinder after a temporary separation and getting matches was never difficult...but even then it was still difficult difficult form anything resembling a connection with just about any woman on there. I remember talking to one girl in particular. 24 years old, beautiful, owned her own house but it struck me...she never gave me a compliment once, except to tell me in one of our final conversations "Gigamon, you know you look good..." …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:15 PM
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But like if the womens opinions on here don’t matter why come to this sub? That's a good question 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:01 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:30 PM
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Lots of HVM eat pussy btw So many of you talk about what "HVM" are doing but rarely do you ever actually seem to br dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:26 PM
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I mean, let's be for real, if your man is dicking you down right would you be arguing with incels online? Most women here are enduring terrible sex and broke dick 🤣 there is a reason why every other chick on here stays trying to convince me that dad bods, small penises and male virginity is all the rage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:20 PM
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And those six hours can be spent on a boss you don't end up even defeating. I would have dreamed for games like Elden Ring and Souls when I was 14 but being in my 30s, they just seem like a time sink with with no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:03 PM
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It's just as bad. I've criticised my girlfriend on numerous occasions for spending hours at a time scrolling on instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:01 PM
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It's not about you "accepting" the past, it's the fact you're posting in r/hotpasts. This clearly turns you on. I won't judge negatively though, I've met plenty of dudes into cuckolding/hotwifing and I'll meet plenty more in the future. I think its just best not fronted as some kind of topic of debate when it's not really that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:00 PM
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Eh. I've literally read this before on here a few weeks ago. This reads like a cuck fetish fantasy. Loool I mean you've been sharing this story in r/hotpasts. You guys ain't even trying 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:49 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:01 AM
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Yeah because the word of a serial killing cult leader is totally reliable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:26 AM
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Thanks bro, you the mvp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:04 PM
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I'm genuinely not trolling but come on man, you can't expect me to read all of that 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:05 PM
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Why are you offended enough to comb through my threads and take the effort for an attempt at personal insult? Because every time someone talks a good game about being so above the incels and redpilllers on this forum, it always turns out they spend acres of time going back and forth with them. I like surfing reddit too, you know what I don't do? Waste time in subs with people diametrically opposed to my world view...whilst also claiming my (single) life is so awesome, consequential and fulfilled…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:37 PM
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You're saying all this shit and yet argue with fucking mens rights activists and post in datingoverthirty. You're the butt of your own joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:26 PM
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Who the fuck is this? I know your ignorant ass may not be privy to it, but Nigeria and most other western nations have a whole host of famous celebrities. Most don't look like that. It would be like using Tess Holiday or Ashley Graham as the standard of Western beauty because she features on a few magazines. A lot of you liberal types really tell on yourselves with this ignorant shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:17 PM
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You said it yourself. Resorts and holidays used to be the preserve of the wealthy and well traveled. Its only in the last maybe 30 years has air travel become affordable for the masses. Again, sun-kissed skin would have been a sign of wealth among European societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:14 PM
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Loool yes 1000% on point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:12 PM
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Industrialization. Invention of machines and tools which mechanised a lot of outdoor labour. Coupled with the development of cosmetics making obfuscation skin treatment and make up available for the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:38 PM
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People used to bathe once a week, usually before church - that was just normal. So you wouldn’t dislike someone (unless you were upper class where there was a different norm) for only bathing once a week. Whereas now, if you don’t shower regularly (which is the norm) it’s a different story. It's not about cultural influences as much as it is about cultural progress. Soap wasn't introduced to Europeans until about the 18th century. For many travellers, cities like London and France were renowned …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:32 PM
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In many nations, even prior to colonialism, tanned skinned was an earmark of poor farm workers/serfs who would often work the fields in the hot sun. Wealthier land owners and elite often stayed inside and thus didn't tan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:30 PM
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I hate when clowns think they're arguing against bigoted stupidity with even more stupidity. I'm Nigerian. Whilst more shapely women are preferred there is absolutely no preference for fat women...and I would know as I consume a fuckload of Nigerian media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:28 PM
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You mean the white faces that are prone to sun damage, lack melanin and often possess thinner lips (a trait which every other instagram girl is trying to lip fill their way out of)? I'm gonna press X to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:26 PM
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It's interesting. I do wonder sometimes. I still oftentimes think I'm way too muscular. And yet I'm always surprised at how many women seem to like it...but then I look at a lot of comic book movies and wonder whether this something that has been conditioned by mainstream media. I mean, guys like the Rock and Chris Hemsworth aren't "big for an actor", they're straight up big ass dudes who wouldn't look out of place among heavyweight in my MMA gym or NFL linebackers. I definitely don't remember t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:23 PM
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Here's the problem, when was the last time you actually did that? There are so many physical activities people think they can do until they actually do them. It's part of the reason why countries like the US and UK have become so fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:17 PM
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No it's fat. I don't get why people like bullshitting people like this. She has a good shape anyway so losing weight will be beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:15 PM
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Tbf some have been coming with receipts and there isn't many actually claiming to be in super duper shape anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:13 PM
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Then you're not in shape. If you tried to run a mile you'd struggle. Physical fitness should be an obvious caveat, not sure why OP didn't put it in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:05 PM
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I've been lifting a long time. Have done personal training and diet plans. People oftne think they can lie/obfuscate but there are often a lot of giveaways. Someone knee deep in fitness will be very frank about their weight and the fact that they attend the gym 4-6 times a week. Any variation of "I do pilates/hiking/biking" is often just a euphemism for "I did this activity as part of a Groupon deal 6 months ago and I'm going to pretend as if it's a regular occurrence".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:02 PM
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No the fuck it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:55 PM
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You're not physically active 16 hours a day. If there is one thing I tire of its fat and out of shape idiots lying about the amount of exercise they do. Standing around is not akin "active 16 hours a day" and as someone whose competed and worked out for over a decade, I really don't have time for clowns who are so delusional. Lol you claim your blood pressure is "usually" about 115/70 and then also say you haven't been to a doctor in a few years. Why do you overweight people do this? Who exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:00 PM
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It's a simple question. You're either in shape or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:11 AM
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I was in the swinging scene for a while. Both on the straight and bi side. To even attempt to argue this shows you're straight up anti intellectual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:47 AM
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Oh shut up. The "data" you quote is a book written by an idiot and some shoddy abstract from the 13 year old study which doesn't seem to even measure libido. Testosterone is everything. And I'm tired of scientifically illiterate people on here quoting "studies" which, half the time, the link doesn't work or cites something completely unrelated. There is no such thing as "fostering sex drive". Attraction and libido are two different things entirely. If you think simply "being a good partner" is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:42 AM
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Good relationships require more than niceness and good vibes to function. This is actually one thing that annoys me about all "pills", the idea that niceness is some great contributor to one's desirability. Sure, if you're casually dating then being carefree and fun is great...but if you're considering a man to build a future with? Well it's no surprise so many opt for good genetics, wealth, education and ambition. There is a weird contingent of younger folks who seem caught up with shaming othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:16 PM
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