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Unironically a lot do. They aren't relationship material, sure, but if a dude is looking for a quick fuck, misogyny is absolutely a net positive. You just can't be an incel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:51 AM
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Misogyny is a net positive in dating though, so they got the first step covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:15 AM
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You can't give them hope. It's the first thing that gets killed when entering the pills. You have to prove to them, without a shadow of a doubt, that things are not the way they believe they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:14 AM
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The problem is your wiring is way different. Talking to women I don't know feels like a set of coinflips where none of the coins are weighted in my favour. Women are much more socially aware, and as such are a lot more unforgiving about social mistakes and social awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:10 AM
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This is the same line of advice as "just be confident bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:07 AM
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Can't care about them, can't not care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:03 PM
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Yeah living in delusion is so much better than knowing the truth and adapting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:45 PM
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Impressive or not, a whore is a whore That's just reality, babe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:09 AM
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I agree, that is an issue. High count people need to stay with high count people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:08 AM
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They statistically are. Individuals might not be, but in general they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:19 PM
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It has been proven several times that high count women are a bad bet for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:50 PM
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Nah you'd be suprised how many women get all fired up about it then later want to fuck the guy You just can't go full incel rage about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:26 PM
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Ah makes sense It's just that most feminists I come in contact with are the american kind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:38 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:36 AM
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Yeah how dare a human being have a set of beliefs that doesn't conform to my naming standard!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:35 AM
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You're wrong. None of the traits you mentioned actually help with getting a partner. And to practice and show off those traits one needs a partner. How to get a shot at having a partner? Well, the blue pill has no idea other than "be urself uwu", which has been proven not to work. The redpill in the other hand offers an actual blueprint which, while it wont work always on all women, if adopted right it'll work enough times. And a relationship oriented man often just needs it to work once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:25 AM
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Comments like this is why the redpill is becoming popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:15 AM
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This is the exact bluepill bs that drives men to the redpill. Your advice doesn't work for the vast majority of men. But what does work is becoming high value. And yes, the redpill has a lot of bad in it, and the less aware men can fall prey to it. But as long as the bluepill refuses to accept reality as it stands before them, and starts giving them advice based on that reality, redpill beliefs will keep spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:54 AM
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Amazing how both of you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:21 AM
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Considering misogyny is a net benefit in dating, and he seems likeca whiteknight, I'd wager the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:19 AM
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I think it's the feminist part that sets them off Even as I was reading your list it was "ok, that's perfectly fine... oh, oof".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:16 AM
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King behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:56 AM
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Welcome to modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:54 AM
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Extremely important. If more men experienced teen love, we'd probably have a lot less incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:18 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:16 AM
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Depends on whether you and your partner are compatible Sex with my exes wasn't anything fancy in terms if kinks but it was so fucking good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:17 PM
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I don't need to fuck to develop as a person Based beyond belief God I wish more men and women understood that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:02 AM
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Everywhere. They just aren't attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:56 AM
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At this point FBIs radar means sleeper agent for the next school shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:40 AM
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I'm probably already on watchlists for suggesting politicians belong in woodchippers, what's another list to get added to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:38 AM
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No because that's the core of the argument. I can make up a million scenarios where the guy is a bad guy and pretending for pussy, but that's not the point because that's not what the argument is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:49 PM
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Likes cats (have yet to meet a male cat lover I didn't like) You haven't met me yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:38 PM
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Fart and dick jokes don’t count as wit and humor. Let me guess, you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:31 PM
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more likely to be mentally stable The funniest people are often basket cases, so that doesn't really track that well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:28 PM
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Amazon mommies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:25 PM
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TIL hyenas are my spirit animals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:25 PM
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You're focusing on the irrelevant part of the argument and making baseless assumptions to twist your argument into being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:51 PM
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Well, like I said there, it's just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:29 PM
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A person with nothing remarkable about them, in either a negative or positive way. As for who I'd like to look like is probably Chris Hemsworth. If I managed to look half as good as him it would be an insane boost insane. But admittedly that's an extreme example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:28 PM
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I'm definitely not a good person, but I fit OPs descirption of a "good guy" in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:39 AM
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It's just personal experience. I believe you, but I believe you're the outlier, not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:03 PM
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I love how nice this comment is while you're saying I don't have a grip on reality in another one. No hard feelings, they just appear back to back in my inbox and it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:58 PM
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I actually think I'm below average but a few female friends I have told me I'm average
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:49 PM
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I did. My dick wanted to critically be inside of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:44 PM
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When one path leads to constant failure, eventually you take the other. I wouldn't exactly call it a choice, as much as survival instinct. Contrary to what women want, men aren't stoic unfeeling mountains. Our sanity is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:04 AM
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On average you meet less than 100 people in a lifetime. Let's say all 100 women for some magical reason. The chances of an average-or-lower man finding a woman to like him in those 100 women is infinitely small. Now let's map it onto reality: As a guy, you'd be lucky if all half of that 100 were women. A small chance of success mapped onto all 3.5 billion women, sure you'd get hits. That same chance mapped onto 50 or less people? You're better off trying to win the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:45 AM
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Guys may be crass when talking about men, but women are vitriolic when talking about men. Also not all men are biologically ignorant, a lot of us don't mind you talking about menstruation and whatever other girl problems you have, it's just that we have nothing to offer on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:33 AM
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I've yet to see that, but one can hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:27 AM
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That women start approaching in situations they deem appropriate to approach in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:25 AM
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Bonus points if you point the gun at them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:17 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:16 AM
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It's people like that that ruin approaching for the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:15 AM
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Damn you go boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:14 AM
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Typical that a woman wouldn't understand the social consequences of approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:10 AM
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If it makes you feel better my awkward nerdy ass would probably gravitate towards you at a party. I hate smalltalk and getting into a several hour long nerdy discussion is way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:04 AM
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They might be drawn to you, but only platonically. Especially if it's a nerdy hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:54 AM
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Nerdy girls are usually liberal and liberals are insanely hoe-ish Which is a shame, because those are the only women I have things in common with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:21 AM
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How does he know he doesn't actually enjoy it? Biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:18 AM
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Truer words have never been spoken. I was the first good guy twice. Big mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:09 AM
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And democrats excel at getting poor minorities to vote in policies that benefit the rich, and only the rich. Two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:51 AM
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If I answer I will be banned from reddit Based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:04 AM
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cuts herself, is an addict, has 3 cats she might be crazy lmao But to help out, two things are highly likely: She fucks like a succubus She will ruin your life So I suggest you think long and hard whether you wanna pursue this
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 05:52 AM
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Male or female, a slut is a slut It may be more impressive for a man to be a slut, but he is a slut nontheless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:20 PM
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Last avenue to test out before I throw in the towel for good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:38 PM
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I'm looking for long term only. Hookups are a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:35 PM
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Felt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:28 PM
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Absolutely not. We're not compatible. I want exclusivity. Someone flashing her tits for money is not exclusive. Aba said it good in a recent video, if you're with me, why are you seeking attention from other men? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:36 PM
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Unironically if women did this, the dating world would be a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:29 PM
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Preach brother
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:13 PM
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Except none of that was mainstream nor discussed and broken down to the current degree until the redpill was dragged into the light. The usual trash forcefed to unattractive guys was "just be good, respect women, get a job and eventually you'll find the one".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:41 AM
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Stopped going to the gym back in October 2022, due to disliking having to drive and spend gas money to go to the gym. I'd say find a workout routine to do at home. There's plenty of YT content that has home workouts. ​ I'd love to have that kind of feminine energy in my life. Female friends are definitely something I recommend to guys, but they're also incredibly hard for guys to cultivate because of our nature. As for meeting female friends, I don't really have any advice because most I met thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:54 AM
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Would not wanting to date OF models/pornstars and telling women to stay the fuck away from doing any sort of porn, then squeezing one out to some OF chick be considered hypocritical in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:10 PM
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Ok, so what's the alternative when a guy is undesirable but has an extremely high libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:34 AM
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I'm 23 and mainly into anime women Based. But yeah dating is trash, you best stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:51 AM
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I honestly have no idea. Current ones are probably rolling the dice on dating apps, or asking female friends (if you have them) if they know any single girls. Also hitting the gym and looking as aesthetically pleasing as possible. Other than that, I'd say focus on what you love and ignore dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:13 AM
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As a dude I hear the same, because it's often used in that context by redpill ragebros. Maybe it's bluepill delusion, but I feel a woman can be feminine, agreeable and cooperative without being submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:27 AM
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I slutshame both genders because promiscuity is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:17 AM
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Women would be treated the way dudes treat dudes. No simping, no attraction, just "yeah whatever". It might come to a point where women would start simping for average men, but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:14 AM
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It might exist, in the same way that one might win the lottery. Not impossible, but improbable. And pretty much yeah, looks determine whether your neurodivergence is quirky and mysterious or weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:10 AM
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Off the top of my head I don't know any, I admit But there has been more than enough fake allegations thrown around that absolutely destroyed peoples lives, all because some dude was a little weird/awkward I'm 2 for 2 on those, and unattractive to boot It just makes no sense playing a losing game where the consequences can be that extreme If it was just a simple no or a mockery (hell even a slap or having a drink thrown in my face are acceptable) consequences, it'd be a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:14 PM
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IDK felt sarcastic to me In my defense I just came home from work so my brain is was still trying to reboot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:02 PM
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Looks obviously You may be sarcastic, but this is objectively true. If you don't have looks as a dude, you need to make up for it in other ways. If you can spend a day in bed I could do that with all my exes. One cheated on me, the other broke up with me. Why? Because chemistry is not enough. You need the important things first (looks, money, status) before chemistry is even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:08 PM
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It's not that it could just go wrong It's that if it goes wrong it's a permanent mark on your life Jobs, friend, future prospects gone because a woman was mad that you're ugly and awkward while speaking to her Like I said, I'll sit my ugly ass far away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:58 PM
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I'd have to take the lonely and frustrated one. It's more likely we'll have more things in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:23 PM
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liberal couples are more commited Open relationships don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:17 PM
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That's the attitude of most modern women unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:12 PM
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And what do you think sparks attraction and chemistry?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:08 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:59 PM
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I never said don't try. I said don't expect to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:43 PM
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You know very well what I mean mate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:42 PM
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I'm gonna stay away from women like I stay away from buildings that are falling apart then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:02 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:00 PM
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The redpill offered explanations to women's behaviour that I didn't understand. Hell if I knew the things I've learned back when my relationships were falling apart I could've saved them, or gotten out in time and saved myself and my exes the torture. I thought the usual bluepill bs of "women are people just like guys". They're not. I mean they are people, but they're wired way differently. Now I know how differently. It helped me become more true to myself as well. Unfortunately, my true self i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:01 AM
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Incorrect A large focus is on sex and dating, but at its core it's becoming a better man for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:13 AM
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Doesn't cure romantic loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:02 AM
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Yeah unfortunately Asexuals and aromantics don't know how easy they have it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:00 AM
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What if my hobbies are interesting to me, but aren't interesting generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:39 AM
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Second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:38 AM
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Trust me most of us don't like it. But we're duty-bound.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:18 AM
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Can confirm, this is good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:16 AM
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If you had nothing, you lose nothing. If you have to do all the heavy lifting, you have nothing. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:12 AM
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Yes the guys are socially awkward/anxious, but the issue is women aren't forgiving of social mistakes while simultaneously the entire risk of approach falls on guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:09 AM
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No two people are the same I've been unfortunate enough to be around people long enough to know this is absolutely not true A lot of people just fit themselves into a basic mold and stay there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:42 AM
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They do They don't use those terms, but they do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:39 AM
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It's cute that women think this It's in the way you talk and act about sex specifically You think you're subtle, but you're not The real difference is, for some reason a lot more dudes IRL like sluts, far more than the internet would have you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:34 AM
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Translation: they are unattractive and dared to exist in the same spacetime as you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:26 AM
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Social consequences can lead to legal or professional consequences if the woman is hateful enough Sure most women might not be, but all it takes is one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:20 AM
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some people aren't cut out for relationships and that's ok Please explain that to my biology because I've been trying for years and it refuses to listen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:04 AM
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Because women percieve every minor thing as a drain. Sorry, I don't have the time and mental energy to be a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:00 AM
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I wouldn't say its useless. It's good to keep in mind that despite all the self improvement you're still likely to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:51 AM
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Because they don't want us. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:28 PM
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Instinct. Biologically we want to protect the ones we love, especially the mother of our offspring. Women have a similar instinct towards protecting their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:27 PM
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I'm stealing that line
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:59 PM
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As someone approaching 30 my dating prospects have completely evaporated, even though my value increased, though not by much. Maybe when the housing market eventually crashes and I snag a tolerable apartment I'll be in a better position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:52 PM
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I'm talking about the differences in how its percieved in dating, not what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:39 PM
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From one neurodivergent dude to another: The only way women would find that endearing is if you look like Chris Hemsworth. And even then the girl would tolerate it up to a point. For the rest of us, that point happens before we even approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:01 AM
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Yup. For women, neurodivergence is a quirk. For men, it's a dating death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:53 AM
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To quote myself: (keep in mind you can still fuck this up if you don't have charisma)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:54 AM
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Except that's not how you do it because what you did is turn an objective truth and managed blame men for it. The correct rewording would be: "Women want the best of the best. Most men wont make the cut. It is what it is. "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:27 PM
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As long as people like you exist, this wont go away You're creating the exact ground for ideologies like this to fester
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:24 PM
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When it's mainstream to shit on men, caring about men sells.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:21 PM
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Here's the thing, women's advice is generally made from the standpoint of the girl already liking you. That doesn't help if you're trying to find a girl to like you. The redpill advice starts with ground zero, and reaches all the way to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:07 PM
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Dating is harder for women because they naturally want the top tier men, which most men are not. The difficulty is self-inflicted by female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:36 PM
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This is one of the most annoying ones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:25 PM
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It does actually have an objective criteria to it: Good looking? You get a pass to approach (keep in mind you can still fuck this up if you don't have charisma) Average-to-unattractive? Stay away and save yourself the headache
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:22 PM
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No. Our views and experiences are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:00 AM
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"Once a cheater always a cheater" became a saying for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:39 PM
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I wanted to marry my last partner. I saw her as an equal. She wanted to be treated like she was beneath me. That's not my vibe. So she decided to dump me after making my feel like I'm losing my mind for a few months. The first one was a toxic cheater and turned me into a toxic person as well. If I knew then what I know now I could've done things better and maybe would've even earned her respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:55 PM
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Wanting my partner to understand my emotions and to not throw me to the street because I had a bad day and cant be a stoic mountain for a few hours is now unhinged. The absolute state of women. Thanks for proving my point I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:50 PM
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Female platonic friends are much better at handling emotional talks. They might not understand male issues directly, but they understand the feeling that those issues cause. The male just grunt and nod or refuse to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:47 PM
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Patrice knew women AND men like no one else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:09 AM
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A crazy world makes crazy people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:58 AM
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I mean, realistically, men and women have nothing to offer eachother anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:54 AM
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I do. I'm not attracted to my friends and they bring value that male friends don't bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:41 AM
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Yet when men are emotional y'all lose attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:30 AM
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I've said it time and time again, men and women unironically need to stop interacting outside of close friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:28 AM
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Do you know what a metaphor is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:27 AM
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this is true, generally they had positive experiences throughout life, which helped shape them into a good person ugly people usually had mostly bad experienced so even the nicest ones became somewhat ugly on the inside, again, generally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:21 AM
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I love how you pretend to be some alpha dude and say the most beta shit imaginable "oh chad didnt want this woman so now you can get her" Except she's still attracted to chad, not to you If she was attracted to you, you would be the first, last and only choice at that moment Anything else is a no go
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:20 AM
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It's not, but our surroundings shape us through life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:11 AM
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If that is true, you're a rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:09 AM
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That's a troll, just ignore it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:09 AM
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"These men need to know when women are attracted to them so they need to spend 5 years surrounded by nothing but other men." Absolute headass take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:02 AM
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You expect logic from redditoid mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:39 AM
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I'm a 4/10 on a good day. My exes were a 6 and an 8. I still don't know what the fuck they saw in me to pursue me directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:11 AM
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Better for early relationship stages as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:41 AM
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Faith has been beaten out of us by the world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:39 AM
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But those aren't attractive traits. They're positive, sure, but they dont drive attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 06:37 AM
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eastern europe dont experience this issue Oh yes we do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:07 AM
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I'm curious what exactly you meam by this, because the red/blackpill experiences shreddes apart any blue pill beliefs I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:48 AM
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Based That's true equality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:45 AM
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Throwback to when my ex couldn't accept objective reality with proof because it didn't fit her narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:50 PM
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Meanwhile the thought that maybe you could listen to him for once doesn't even occur to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:46 PM
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With all the bluepilled bs the media is filled with, unfortunately the only way to learn is the hard way
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 07:05 AM
1

I mean, yeah that's kinda what's happening atm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:08 AM
1

So I should aim for 0's and -1's, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:12 AM
1

Your looks are almost never a barrier to getting a relationship. It's most likely your personality Why do you people insist on pushing this lie? It has been proven wrong time and time again It's time to drop the bs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:11 AM
1

Fuck, that's not a very encouraging comment. I guess I intrinsically knew it, but reading it really hits deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:03 AM
2

Having a thing for alt girls is torture when I don't look good or am interested in dressing alt. Hell I even got the starving artist part down, I just don't look the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:57 PM
1

Truth. Although, unless you're constantly going to see extremely popular artists, some local concerts and cover bands are fairly cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:44 PM
1

Paradoxically, that also makes you boring as fuck. I am. However, I'm interesting as hell to myself. ​ But I still like you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:40 PM
1

People in their 20s are a mix of zoomers (25-) and younger millenials (25+)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:35 PM
4

You don't see rich socialists Literally every socialist spokeperson is a rich cunt and most socialists are rich college kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:22 PM
1

It is. There is no hope, not in the next few generations at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:20 PM
1

woman who probably actually loves him That'll be the day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:16 PM
1

I don't like to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:08 PM
3

Zoomers are in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:56 PM
1

Well, that's good to hear, however, girls like you are a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:51 AM
7

Sounds like a dream. Best of luck to you both. But what I was getting at is that neurotypical men are generally more forgiving towards neurodivergent behaviours than women are when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:32 PM
24

Had to learn that the hard way. You can get a fun conversation out of it at best, but it doesn't drive attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:26 PM
1

It's an overdramatic response to the whoreorama of the modern society. Neither are a good thing but one is an unfortunate side effect of freedom, while the other seeks to remove freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:14 PM
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4 needs to be said louder. My hot takes: Misogyny isn't a negative in dating. Depending on what kind of women you're going after it might be a net positive. You just can't go full incel rage about it. When women give dating advice, they do it from the standpoint of the woman already liking you, which is why it generally doesn't work or seems illogical. Being neurodivergent as a man, regardless of LMS, is a dating death sentence. Nerdy hobbies are a net negative in dating, even if the girl has th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:06 PM
3

Can confirm. It's been 2 years since my breakup and I'm nowhere close to ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:25 PM
1

Noticing a shirt takes a second or two. Maybe slightly more if it has text. Not a soulpiercing stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:43 AM
1

Projecting a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:15 AM
1

Generally if a girl gives you looks, if you're not actively attracting attention, you're either gorgeous or horrifying. I do look far better than I did in the past so I thought maybe I'm on the positive side of the coin this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:14 AM
0

You didn't read it. Otherwise you'd actually be following the events that I wrote down. And also I'm not nearly attractive enough to get that kind of attention from women. I look good, but not that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:39 PM
-1

Did you read the part where she was staring at me the day before, or did you conveniently ignore it because it shreds your point into pieces?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:27 PM
3

Nope, not either of those Can't be a cuck when I'm possessive Can't be gay when I don't find dudes attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:58 PM
12

Maybe in whatever utopia you live in. Here, if you're any combination of unattractive traits and you dare approach its a social death sentence. Hell, I caught a girl stare at me and I thought maybe she likes me, I'll ask her out the next day The next day, she basically walked to the other end of the train when she saw me I think that tells me all I need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:48 PM
2

You do this crazy thing where you meet a girl Damn, that is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:32 PM
0

As long as he says 'no homo' it still counts as straight right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:30 PM
19

Problem is, even if you're the slightest bit awkward or weird, you're labeled creepy before you even approach
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:23 PM
15

So now approaching AND not approaching women in public is sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:19 PM
3

Yeah, but dating apps give that initial safety net of knowing that the girl likes you (in theory) So it's easier to manouver a conversation when you know you got an in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:11 PM
4

I'm not masculine and don't care to be Being true to myself is more important to me than women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:05 PM
2

It is, but so am I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:59 PM
1

I mean what's the alternative for neurodivergent dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:47 PM
12

6 in looks 8 in int Higher looks tend to be higher maintenance, and I need to relax Plus I like it when girls are smarter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:42 AM
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I mean, you can say "Nope" but that's what I saw, and am still seeing now. The redpill just explained the how and why. And I mean the original teachings of the redpill, not this manosphere griftorama. Men aren't pushing these masculine ideals. Women are. Most masculine dudes I talked to want to at least have a break from it to relax for a day or a week, but can't, because women expect men to be stuck in their traditional role. I coined a phrase recently "Women decide the dating game, men just pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:14 AM
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Extremely rarely Both of my exes approached me But you're better off trying your hand at winning the lottery than betting on a girl approaching you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:20 PM
1

Women decide the dating game, men just play it What women decide is important, men obsess about If they stopped, men suddenly wouldn't care It's that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:14 PM
1

I didn't convince myself, the world did I'd love for the opposite to be true because I'm nowhere near masculine and never will be But alas, the universe dealt me the wrong hand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:10 PM
2

Only if he looks like a greek god Otherwise it's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:03 PM
2

You do realize shit like that only works when the woman actually likes the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:01 PM
1

Absolutely not As an extremely introverted and fairly shy and awkward person, extroverts are the bane of my existence It's much easier to talk to and relate to other shy awkward weirdos Plus they're more likely to forgive me for making a social mistake than extroverts are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:54 PM
1

Those women still prefer extroverts though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:50 PM
2

Don't let that stop you Whore is a unisex word in my vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:07 PM
-1

Because women are the ones that care about it Why do you think men care about height? Because women do If they didn't men would at worst use it for banter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:27 PM
1

That's the only kind of relationship I've seen liberal men have I admit, could be selection bias
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:25 PM
1

Wrong again And you attacked me first way back when bit sure kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:18 AM
0

I wouldn't define some hipster's hyperpoly relationship where his girl gets ran through by other dudes daily as success but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:14 AM
8

They ignore it because it shatters their points
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:05 AM
3

And other lies women tell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:42 AM
2

You can make it happen within the same comment chain when you ask them "why indulge in casual sex then"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:29 AM
1

Because of other women Men really don't care that much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:26 AM
1

If you want a woman, you have to meet her standards Standards keep exponentially increasing yearly Or you can be like me and check out of the race, which is a lot more freeing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:25 AM
1

If that was true most women today wouldn't be doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:22 AM
1

We wish we could close our pipes at will as well, trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:19 AM
-1

That's because women obsess about it What both genders don't understand is that women can't tell size at all They only understand the number when it comes to size, they don't conceptualize it in inches
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:17 AM
1

Why do you do it then instead of pursuing relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:12 AM
1

Except he didn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:08 AM
1

Pretty much my preference as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:27 PM
1

It does It's simple for attractive men It's hard for unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:24 PM
2

Only normie-accepted nerdom is mainstream. Which still leaves a big chunk of us as outcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:48 PM
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Depends. There is a difference between thicc (my preference) and morbidly obese. I go absolutely primal for one. I run away to not get eaten by the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:39 PM
1

Hmm, fair enough, that does put a dent in that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:30 PM
0

Obviously, but most men aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:29 PM
0

I mean complaining about the only interesting thing about you being holes is a little pointless then no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:54 AM
2

It doesn't, but knowing I'm incompatible with dating and accepting it is freeing, though not very comforting. The redpill at its core was and should be the acceptance of how things are, regardless of how uncomfortable that is, and improving yourself regardless, while learning how to navigate the minefield of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:52 AM
1

I mean it's not like it can fuck up a date when I can't even get one. But then again I'm not exactly redpilled. It did, though, help me realize that I'm incompatible with the dating world of today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:41 AM
3

You'd be suprised how often that would work if you were good looking and said in the right way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:14 AM
5

Have you thought of maybe asking him out if you know he's awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:05 AM
5

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:53 AM
-1

Maybe you could try being more interesting than just the holes in your body and men would value you more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:44 AM
8

Based I need to go for autistic girls then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:40 AM
1

Only women have the luxury of being this delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:57 AM
10

Let me guess, you're a woman? Because only women or delusional men think dating is simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:11 AM
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And the problem will never go away because it benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:07 AM
16

Jesus Christ man you translated my feelings and experiences so perfectly into words. Preach brother
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:34 AM
1

The only thing you're right about is sports being good for the body. You're dead wrong on everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:50 AM
1

Being a methhead means she's a 0 0s aren't hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:22 AM
2

Thanks, I'm here all night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:07 PM
1

Maybe she should get her own skills then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:51 AM
1

Yes it is. It's why we invented laptop bags. Which can also fit more than just laptops. You're just making up a problem where there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:47 AM
2

but I want to argue about politics on discord :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:28 AM
2

One thing I'm learning from this is that video games are an "ick" to women still, despite becoming slightly more accepted and more women playing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:27 AM
1

You do realize laptops exist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:20 AM
4

Just avoid harem anime and you should generally be good, outside of occasional fanservice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:11 AM
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Yeah but I get sweet loot from bosses so who is really the loser here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:10 AM
1

There's no utility in making music or playing sports unless its their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:02 AM
1

That's actually solid advice. I'll do that when I catch some free time to really focus on what's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:30 AM
1

I kind of know what I want, though after my last relationship I have trouble splitting what's bendable from what I refuse to bend on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:01 AM
1

hey god, i've seen what you have done for others and i want that for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:14 PM
5

They're all outliers, whether they admit it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:03 PM
1

I wouldn't date an alcoholic, no matter how good she looks I'd rather be single than suffer through that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:01 PM
1

Considering he's a short king one would think it would be easy to hide him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:11 PM
1

I don't. I always said outliers exist. But banking on that is like banking on winning the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:01 PM
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If that was true those short guys would have a lot more luck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:37 AM
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Because women that don't mind short are unfathomably rare, and those that prefer them are even rarer. So more likely than not it's just clout chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:16 AM
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It's a meme, it's not actually a thing They realized that they could get clout from short simps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:06 AM
5

There's no cure for being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:43 AM
7

That's nice and also has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:33 PM
43

It's amazing how much bs you need to stretch out just to pretend that women aren't passive when it comes to the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:16 PM
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The fact that guys have to put this much time, effort, thought and practice in what should be a natural, organic free-flowing process But the problem is that it was NEVER a natural free-flowing process on the guys side. To women, love is like a rollecoaster ride. To men, love is a game of chess against a grandmaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:12 PM
1

I may be crazy here, but wouldn't telling her to "prove it" just lead to her trying to fuck your brains out?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 07:24 AM
2

Nice try, but I'm not a redpill dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:19 PM
2

The general man? No. But the fuckboy types the RP is geared towards? I think it does. Otherwise he wouldn't be nearly as popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:16 PM
1

I mean, you can lie about what I said, but the problem with that is what I said is clearly visible above the very comment where you lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:02 PM
2

Do you unironically think he could make women believe that if he didn't have game?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:01 PM
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How does that disprove anything I said? Yes he's a cunt. That doesn't magically mean he doesn't have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:01 PM
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In the real world outside of social media, his tactics do not work Yeah they do. Why do you think he's such a successful pimp? His methods work. Now, being a scammer and a pimp isn't something I'd personally recommend or follow. But the Tate fuckers have game, that's unfortunately undeniable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:35 PM
0

Nice try, but that's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:12 PM
1

For future reference, bringing politics into a debate where there was no mention of politics makes you actually look uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:58 PM
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Nah, they made it easier for misogynists. Not being a misogynist gets guys nowhere but the friendzone. Misogyny is unironically a plus in dating, as long as a guy isn't blatant about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:53 PM
0

women playing a losing game HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Sure kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:51 PM
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It just doesnt add up to me. Because it works. If being a chill dude worked, guys would all be chilling. If being a fat cunt worked, most guys would be fat cunts. What works gets popular. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:47 PM
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That's unironically a good thing. Well, except the feeling worthless after 1 relationship part. But pussy discipline is just as important as dick discipline, despite what the feminists harpies say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:32 PM
0

So, women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:30 PM
1

The radical views were never ever mainstreamed the way that RP is mainstream now. They absolutely did. The only reason the redpill is as popular as it is, is because those views became mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:30 PM
0

"The sexual revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race." - Uncle Ted, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:28 PM
1

I was about to ask if you're sure that's the argument you wanna go with, but I read your flair, you're delusional enough to think it's a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:03 PM
1

Half of your body language is shit you do naturally, so that doesn't count as an IOI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:25 PM
8

Depends on how good looking you are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:18 PM
2

King behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:18 PM
10

I should've read the flair before wasting my time on the wall of text
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:13 PM
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I mean when you witness it happen, it's kind of hard to deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:12 PM
0

Cops will do whats easy. Hunting down stalkers and violent offenders takes actual effort. Picking up some schmuck for being "creepy" is easy and fills out their quota.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:10 PM
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Ugly and/or awkward guys are labeled creeps before any interaction even happens. Ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:07 PM
1

A good example is the very comment that sparked this chain. Aggressive and dominant men get hella women. Yet you claim it's bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:09 PM
2

Nice try, but no. Female advice lands you in the friendzone. Male advice lands you a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:11 PM
2

Nah, if you're a heterosexual male you'll listen to the men. Women are clowns when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:54 AM
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It isn't. Speed dating is the precursor to actual dating. It's basically a live (and arguably better) replacement for a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:34 PM
2

The creation of the universe and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:40 AM
2

Who do you think is more likely to cheat: a) The woman who sees sex as less than a handshake b) The woman who sees sex as the ultimate form of intimacy with her partner Spoiler: We have data on this, the answer is A
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:37 AM
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B. Bigger chance I could make it work because there's less partners to compare me to. Her pair bonding ability also hasn't been ruined and she likely has the same views about sex and intimacy that I do. Basically it comes down to compatibility. I'm extremely low count for a man my age, so a woman with 1 previous partner is a better bet for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:28 AM
3

It gets significantly worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:22 AM
5

That's not "dating", that's "a date". Dating is a long term process of 3+ dates, possibly a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:19 AM
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Will you actually listen when we speak? Are you an engaging conversationalist? Are you funny? Do you have a hobby or passion outside of work? Have you processed your trauma in order to avoid dumping it on me? Are you self-aware? Do you love children and will be a good father to my kids? Will you treat me as an equal? Are you loyal? The part most men are frustrated about is that women keep saying this, yet all of it gets thrown out if a guy is good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:26 PM
1

Every single post here can be boiled down "chad but fits my aesthetic" Then women have the audacity to claim their tastes are more diverse than men's Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:37 PM
2

Nah you're wrong I live in Europe, the standard here is 180cm instead of 6' Every single woman I know or have talked to mentions height as one of their main requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:30 PM
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Women are the ones that care about male height. If they didn't, there isn't a single guy in existence that would care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:26 PM
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Depends. Are you good looking? The bar is in hell. You just have to not fuck it up. Are you average or below? The bar is higher than the Everest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:10 PM
0

You act like a man and don't give a fuck about how other people think you should live your life. Damn right King behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:02 AM
2

Male manipulation tactics don't work one men, that's OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:12 AM
1

Do you deep down see women as equals? Yes and it's not even deep down, I'm open about it. But it should be clarified that I mean I think they deserve the same opportunities that men do. They are nowhere near the same as men, and that should be acknowledged. Both genders have their strengths ad weaknesses, and pretending that they're exactly the same is sexist towards both sides. Do you think women and men can connect intellectually and that such a connection is the basis for a relationship? That…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:18 PM
1

Like I said, I don't think you're lying. What I said was, that my own personal experience leads me to question whether or not there's also other reasons, which is why I'm curious about his side of the story. Something about the way you worded it evoked that response in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:57 PM
0

He's not upset that women have a choice. He's upset that women consistently make the wrong choice and expect no consequences to occur while in the same breath blaming men for all their ills. Society was built mainly to protect women and children. Men without any have no reason to protect society, especially one that demonizes them and treats them as disposable and worthless. So they only have one person to care for, which is themselves. And men need very little to be happy, which goes against th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:34 AM
1

Take your emotion out and reread what I said. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:11 AM
1

No worries, happens hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:33 PM
0

The very original comment wasn't me. I was the first reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:27 PM
3

I'm testing a theory and I wanna ask you, do you politically lean left?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:23 PM
5

You can call it incel shits if you want but it's observable behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:21 PM
3

You're an attractive woman. There's someone somewhere that would find your quirks attractive. Personally I'd say be yourself, but that's because I dislike when people are pretending to be something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:15 PM
0

Women's attraction becomes dumber and dumber as a concept every time I read about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:08 PM
2

Most do, actually. Pre-selection and all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:04 PM
1

Well, I usually prefer not to assume. I prefer to get to the number through natural conversation. But with promiscuity being encouraged today and women having access to a near infinite conveyor belt of good looking men, it isn't a far fetched guess to assume it's high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:03 PM
0

Her average might be too high for me though. Someone with more than 5 partners is high compared to me, and I have no business being with them, nor do they have any business being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:58 PM
5

I shame both genders for it, do I get a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:55 PM
4

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:54 PM
2

Yet women desire those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:54 PM
1

Is it possible to find men who do not put a huge emphasis on looks? No. But unlike women, men actually have a large variety of tastes/standards. So you can likely find a man that finds you attractive. But unfortunately, men are physical creatures when it comes to attraction. It's biology. If we don't find you attractive, it wont go up. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:49 PM
1

I don't see Muslims in the US trying to input their religion into law Yet. Bring in enough of them from a country with tyrannical religious laws and soon enough they'll try. And with how forgiving today's society is towards anyone that isn't white, they're far more likely to succeed. Any religion trying to put chains on society is a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:30 PM
0

Clashes too hard with human nature and as such will never be a viable system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:16 PM
2

They were gaslit into thinking it's empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:15 PM
1

Way to miss the point and walk right into proving him right. It's artful really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:04 PM
1

Hmm. I've been through something similar with my ex. The way you described him is probably the way she would describe me. But the problem is, she was full of shit. You do do one thing different, you at least admit there are problems coming from your side as well. My ex would never ever admit she did anything wrong ever. Still though, I'm curious what he would have to say on the matter. To clarify, I'm not saying you're lying, but with my personal experience being similar, there's that itch in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:47 PM
3

Fuck this got a little too real too fast But a great writeup, put my feelings into words in ways I never could, and I'm sure a lot of other folk here feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:37 PM
1

May I ask why you broke up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:31 PM
1

Girls do have cooties though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:04 PM
15

Why do you think there's a general dislike of women among modern men? They set up a lose-lose system, and then berate you for losing. It'd be genius if it wasn't so painfully annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:02 PM
-1

If y'all weren't so similar we wouldn't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:24 PM
1

Keyword being "enjoy" Most jobs aren't enjoyable That's why they're jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:20 PM
1

Same buddy. The locations are different in my dream, but other than that it's pretty much the same. Hope we get there bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:17 PM
1

Japan seems more likely. These men are worthless to society, but they're worth something to themselves. And as such have no interest in a system that actively hates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:15 PM
14

It is a bad thing. Reddit mods are powertripping morons, even on more right leaning subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:10 PM
7

That's just the police pretending they were doing their job yet magically a tragedy still happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:07 PM
9

Men know they're in competition with eachother. Women are the ones that think they're entitled to a 10 while being 4 or 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:05 PM
1

I'm not 100% redpill, but I'd probably reach my beliefs sooner if I was attractive. Would save me a lot of wasted years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:50 PM
1

Yes to all. Unfortunately, women dont like men making less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:48 PM
2

successful in everything else I'm already a failure in dating, might aswell be good at something else instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:46 PM
1

most women want to be approached by attractive* guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:40 PM
4

redditoids arent very intelligent, simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:20 PM
1

Personality and looks (weight falls under looks for me). There is no such thing as a 10 in looks. What makes a girl a 10 is her personality. N-count. Ties into personality. If your N-count is too high for me, we're likely not compatible. Career. I'm not gonna be rich for a long while, so she's gonna need to have her own cash. Age isn't too important, as long as we can vibe. But preferable around my age (I'm 27).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:15 PM
1

I know several, me included, but I think I win first place: - I look like a short fat version of The Dude from Big Lebowski - Mental health isn't the greatest, also possibility of ADHD and/or autism - Selective crippling social anxiety, as in I can't start IRL conversations with random people which prevents me from cold approaching, but I have no problems conversing with someone that started to talk to me - Poor (work as an intern while working on my masters, paid by the hour) - Live with parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:28 AM
2

Hell what he's talking about has been known way before the RP was even a thing. Check out the Black Philip Show by Patrice O'Neal. He's been talking real shit since the 00's. It's a shame he passed away, the young men of today could use his knowledge instead of Tate's grifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:44 AM
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What value does she bring to your life outside of sex? Because if she brings nothing and also doesn't bang you, you're better off single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:20 PM
1

That's kind of what I'm wondering about demisexuality. If someone was objectively unattractive, could a demisexual individual find them attractive after getting to know them (provided they clicked ofcourse)?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:36 PM
8

His point is, if I can unjumble the mess, that you wouldn't be attracted to him at all, regardless of your demisexuality, if he wasn't objectively attractive. Don't shoot the messenger, I'm just translating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:52 AM
1

I live in a small town but half an hour away from a big city by train.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:34 PM
0

HAHAHAHA yeah good one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:21 PM
2

That's how I met my last two exes. But it'll be years until an opportunity like that shows up. Pretty much everyone in my social circle and adjacent social circles is taken. I don't remember the last time I met a girl that's single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:14 PM
1

You're failing to account for the other side. Women have "chads" served on a silver platter on dating apps. Sure, it's terrible for men, but it's top tier for women. They can filter out the genetic trash and match only with who they're truly attracted to. Sure dating apps might get less popular with men, but they'll spike in popularity with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:03 PM
2

One can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:55 AM
3

Because the risk/reward of asking strangers out is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:45 AM
1

Promiscuity is a plague upon the dating world, as such the words "whore", "slut", etc. are unisex to me. Anyone contributing to it is a slut.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:51 AM
2

Hamza seems to be getting more popular.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 09:30 AM
5

Yeah, when I first came across the definition of negging I was like "that's just called banter". It did however push me to try and trashtalk my female friends the way I trashtalk my male friends. Suprisingly (or unsuprisingly to the socially calibrated), it worked and I grew from the friendgroup creep, to the funny asshole. Still no romantic success though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:32 PM
8

Yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:18 AM
1

Most of the things on this list aren’t complicated or even special requirements lol In that case, guess I'm not cut out for long term dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:56 PM
1

Ideally I'd start dating someone in a similar situation to me so we can work towards something together (that was kind of my original plan, but the girl broke up with me). Unfortunately, women, even young ones, seem to want a solved man, which I doubt I'm ever gonna be, at least by society's standards. My idea of success and the societal idea of success differ greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:44 PM
1

Am I not allowed to call out bullshit when I see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:37 PM
1

They do. Garbage or not, you can follow the thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:35 PM
1

stop waiting for daddy government to give you a wife Never said I'm doing this. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:17 PM
1

Sounds about right with bills and everything. And that's only small rundown ones in bad neighbourhoods. I prefer not getting stabbed or stolen from. I know, my standards are too high, right? But you need to keep in mind we don't use Euros or Dollars here. My monthly pay is around 500$-600$. Hopefully it'll increase in a few years/a decade. And before you say "just get a roommate", I prefer my own peace and my own way of doing things, so if I'm getting an apartment it's gonna be me and maybe a ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:16 PM
1

Ofcourse it isn't. Communism is for morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:02 PM
1

Eastern Europe. Not gonna dox myself further than that. But figures why you think getting a master's costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:01 PM
1

Okay, let's solve this the easy way: Which country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:58 PM
2

Consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:57 PM
0

Figures that you think being a musician isn't a dream worth pursuing. Stay a corpo drone fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:56 PM
1

To exceptions, yes. There aren't enough exceptions to go around unfortunately. Smart men take them and wife them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:55 PM
2

The reason I'm responding like that is because what you believe doesn't track with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:54 PM
1

You're the exception then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:53 PM
1

They're exceptions. Why do you think all of them are taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:52 PM
2

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:52 PM
2

Woman are not some machine where if you put in the right inputs, you get the sex output. Never said they are. Wild that you would want them to be. Never said I did. Wanna try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:49 PM
0

Is your attention really so fucking short that you can't follow a basic conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:48 PM
1

The only thing I'm jealous of is his looks, but I'm jealous of most people's looks since I'm a 4. I'm actually ashamed that I'm smarter than him, especially considering he's a political streamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:47 PM
1

"go back to school" he says while I'm finishing my masters. Alright, grandpa, it's time for bed, apartments don't cost 10$ a month anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:46 PM
5

Hey, if you choose to believe that having hobbies prevents you from having a job, that's your own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:42 PM
6

If you choose to believe that, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:42 PM
6

"a man has hobbies, how dare he" Bruh Edit: also stalking my profile? How basic can you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:27 PM
4

Nah, dogs tend to be loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:20 PM
1

I'd rather waste my life chasing dreams and be stuck in a cubicle because it makes good money, so I can't knock someone doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:18 PM
-1

There's no reason for them to be this fucking stupid about it though. At least men mostly make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:16 PM
3

It's one thing to have inconsistent rules, it's another thing to have absolutely moronic and contradictory rules like dating has.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:13 PM
1

Depends. If she's using the job as a means to an end while working on something interesting for her hobbies, that can be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:11 PM
4

But you can choose to stop caring about their issues - and you should. Throw feminism in the trash, dump damseling and simping on top of it, light it all on fire, and look out for number one. Preaching to the choir. The men who need to hear this refuse to listen unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:01 PM
7

And yet, I see time and time again that it is. Even the girls that I know that are normal need more than half of these for the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:59 AM
10

Like I said, you're lucky then. Even my aunt and mom agree that women today have fucking insane standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:55 AM
6

I do. I've never heard him be correct ever. I'm suprised the dumb fuck doesn't have to manually remember to breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:51 AM
5

You're lucky then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:50 AM
2

Those women don't want most men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:34 AM
3

Sounds good, doesn't work. He's better off investing all that time into pursuing dreams than into grinding rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:30 AM
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27 Ask any millenial or gen z woman. They consider this the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:26 AM
0

You can try, wont have the same effect 'cause you'd be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:23 AM
6

Considering he's objectively wrong every time he speaks, I'd rather stay ugly with at least above room temperature IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:20 AM
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Because a lot of women virtue signal about totally being attracted to short dudes i swear bro while their boyfriend is 6'2. And the one before was 6'1. And they all know this one bridgetroll that uses his charisma voodoo magic and fucks 175 girls a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:19 AM
1

It's sure a fuck of a lot easier than having zero options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:15 AM
19

Absolutely all of it is necessary, and probably more, because women like to act like this is "the bare minimum".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:45 AM
10

Yeah I'm the one that caused the prices of everything to skyrocket to the point where i'd be lucky to eat once a month if I decide to get an apartment. Got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:43 AM
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I mean why would they care about us? What incentive is there for them to care for our issues? If anything, the more "loser" men leave society/dating, the better the entire deal is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:38 AM
4

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:30 AM
3

That's the exact thought process that got us into the current mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:45 AM
1

Possibly, but you're definitely an extreme outlier then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:44 AM
3

Seems like you still don't, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:43 AM
5

Jist ignore women*
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:43 AM
14

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:33 AM
4

Because you still need to have enough social skills to actually keep a woman interested in what you're saying. Just blurting out "women bad" doesn't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
1

Is he ripped? I'm just trying to gauge how much of an outlier you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:21 AM
2

With all the so called "excitement" of the modern age a little boring doesn't sound too bad. But then again I'm a simple man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:19 AM
0

It is. Teaches you a lot about people and how they tick. You should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:17 AM
1

Yeah I figured after the fact that it might come of as mean. And I'm willing to meet people halfway if I do like them. But others refuse to do so for me. So some traits (like extroversion) became much bigger red flags than they really should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:14 AM
3

I'm curious too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:29 PM
4

They are. It takes around 10000$ to enter the "War Room". I'm pretty fucking sure you can get therapy for cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:26 PM
5

Anal Taint Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:23 PM
2

Simple: Being nice doesn't spark emotion the way being not-nice does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:20 PM
1

I mean if we go by that route yeah I can buy a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:17 PM
1

That doesn't mean one has to settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:16 PM
2

Hate to be that guy but how tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:14 PM
4

You can refuse to believe it, I've witnessed it happen. Hell, I personally partly lived it. Being nice doesn't get the emotions jumping like being an asshole will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:13 PM
3

Settling for =/= willing to date when they would prefer to date the dudes that are actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:02 PM
1

I kind of doubt it at this point in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:59 PM
0

Life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:52 PM
1

It's not horn tooting if it's reality, is it? And I wasn't sarcastic in case it came off that way, I do think the way you described how your differences bounce off of eachother is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:49 PM
1

That I agree with. There need to be similarities and differences. But the similarities need to outweigh the differences IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:46 PM
2

It's like they forgot cougars exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:51 PM
0

Nah, I said women are cheating aswell, and that they're more likely to lie about it. The reason you think this means I hate women is because you're not used to women being called out. I never denied men are cheaters. I merely said that in the current promiscuous society it's highly likely that women cheat equally, if not slightly more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:47 PM
6

I think you're mistaking women for men there. The looks treshold for men is hilariously easy to meet. Women think most men are ugly or at the very least unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:42 PM
1

And I'm saying it's not beneficial, but rather that it's just the hand the dudes were dealt, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:39 PM
13

And yet, when I became an asshole, women started treating me better. Curious. Nice is boring in the eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:36 AM
1

See, this kind of bs doesn't work in reverse because reddit is full of porn of women of any and all sizes and shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:33 AM
1

There is no benefit. But reality doesn't care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:32 AM
–

Let's hope he's right about that one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:28 AM
0

That's cute. But unfortunately you two are in a minority. Most people with differences despise eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:25 AM
2

I hope the fuck not, extroverts piss me off, the last thing I need is to be in a relationship with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:21 AM
13

Men will either be greek gods, move abroad, clock out of dating, or clock out of life. Women will be complaining that there are no good men left well into their 100s while refusing to consider why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:19 AM
12

I know a few people who are extremely mysoginistic. Girls throw themselves at them. I've seen chicks shamelessly offer up cheating with them. Now, like I said, these are not quality women. But if your goal is getting women, being mysoginistic is a thousand times more likely to get you girls than being nice is. Being a nice person is like the antidote for sexual excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:16 AM
1

Your delusion is believing women are angels and men are the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:11 AM
0

You clearly don't otherwise you wouldn't be this delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:02 AM
1

she thinks youre ugly trust me, ive been there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:53 AM
11

That 4/5 wont get a date because he doesn't pass the initial bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:47 AM
5

Serious question, are you a woman? I have a theory I want to confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:34 AM
13

Hating women is more likely to get you women than being nice. Now, the quality of those women is questionable at best, but it has been proven to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:12 AM
4

"average" Y'all really are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:48 AM
1

I can't get anything. Does that make my league 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:37 AM
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It's everywhere. Painful to see when you look like a short version of The Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:31 AM
1

Real recognizes real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:25 AM
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Fuck them, this is the future they chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:15 AM
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I'm 27. Any day now right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:08 AM
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Yeah such as marrying rich so they can feed their travel addiction instead of growing a personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:59 AM
1

Everyone's taller and/or better looking than me. Especially in nerdy circles where I run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:54 AM
2

If she says no, it's a no. If she's too stupid to not play games, that's on her. Don't catch SA charges over thots. Find a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:24 AM
2

The moment he decided to scam his fans is the moment he lost cred.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:22 AM
0

Talking to real people. Maybe if you actually talked to a woman you'd realize the lengths that they go to to justify their cheating. That's why I don't trust your study. Not to mention today, promiscuity is pushed on women mainly by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:21 AM
1

That's a sixhead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:42 PM
1

That's what happens when men lose a reason to fight for. On top of making men the enemy and the elite making it increasingly harder for the average person to lead a normal life. Society as it stands no longer benefits those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:53 AM
12

Your standards are way too high
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:43 AM
2

Income: Generally don't care, but until I can provide for a full household I do expect her to have a job. It's the unfortunate reality of the current world. And no I wouldn't mind if she made more than me and was the breadwinner, but women seem to dislike that their man earns less. Height: Anything that falls under normal range. Prefer someone around my height (5'7), but wont knock a pretty girl that's taller or shorter. Race: Don't care, I've seen smokeshows from all races. But I seem to crush …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:35 AM
1

God I hope it falls apart and resets back to sanity and monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:16 AM
4

In my experience, young men especially want monogamy. The hoes and boats lifestyle comes after they get hurt by a girl and fall down the redpill rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:13 AM
1

Because women do cheat more. They also lie about it more. But it's not by much. I'd wager the difference is around 1-2%. Men are just more likely to admit it. Why do you think women are the ones pushing polygamy today so much? They want the cheating without the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:08 AM
1

I hate cheaters specifically and think they're worthless, regardless of gender, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:43 AM
-1

It ain't a fantasy if it's reality. You and me might not be cheaters, but our genders are equally full of disloyal scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:38 AM
2

Oh I disagree heavily with the dark triad stuff. But I'm seeking a relationship, and a lot of the stuff in the red pill is geared towards ONS, which is a waste of time in my mind. And I agree, people should be seeking to get as many perspectives as possible, even if they disagree with them. Honestly the redpill teachings that resonate the most with me are what people refer to as the oldschool RP teachings which are essentially learning female nature, accepting it, and improving regardless of it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:36 AM
-1

Cute but no. women definitely cheat more, they just also lie about it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:45 AM
2

I think you believe I'm fully down the redpill rabbit hole, which is not true. Sure, at one point I was falling down the hole, as hard as it is to admit it. But I came across the "depression isn't real uwu" and "men and women can't be friends uwu" bullshit pretty quickly which zoned me out of it. The thing is, I believe what I see. I have seen and experienced depression, I have many female friends who I absolutely adore. Which is why those bullshit redpill beliefs don't track with reality. But I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:51 PM
0

Hahahahahahah, good joke. Women cheat just as much if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:34 PM
3

Well damn, I gotta stick that shit in my tinder bio then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:14 PM
5

Fuck all that, I'm gonna go get my life ruined by a girl with a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:58 PM
4

Well I'm not redpilled and I never understood wanting a dumb woman. Intelligence makes it easier for us to talk about fun topics that might go over an unintelligent person's head. But then again I'm only looking for relationships, which is probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:45 PM
7

What's easier, finding a needle in a haystack or finding a needle in the void of space?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:31 PM
2

You could've just started carrying a lighter around without damaging your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:11 PM
2

The thing is, even if one likes exercise, it's still physically hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:09 PM
3

So what you're saying is, beating all the Souls games is attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:07 PM
3

So don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:04 PM
0

That's the thing, I don't think it does work. Or rather it works for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:59 PM
5

And staying away from her partner. If she wanted him, she would try to find a compromise that works for both, not be in a big city alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:23 AM
8

There's a difference between that and straight up moving away from your partner so you can party.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:03 AM
3

It's a nice fairytale to believe, but doesn't track with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:56 AM
1

I feel like we're talking in circles around eachother, so let me bring it back: What exactly do you mean by "getting hurt" in the context of dating? Because on the surface I agree that life sometimes needs to kick your ass for you to get your head out of it. But whenever I was hurt in the context of dating, the why and how was pretty much perfectly explained by the red pill. I don't see how hunting more hurt would disprove those ideas. A consistent wave of opposite experiences is required to bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:50 AM
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I don't think it's healthy but so far it has been reality. I would like to meet a person that accepts that I have emotions and that sometimes I need her to have my back instead. I know girls like that exist. But I also know they're extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:43 AM
2

She lost the spark in her eyes when looking at me. Nothing stings more than that, not even the breakup itself. But as far as the causes go, the tingles were going elsewhere, and hypergamy kicked in. It's not as simple as that, but that is the gist of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:25 AM
1

Can confirm, am jaded and miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:21 AM
2

You lost, grandpa?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:41 AM
2

A woman's first instinct is to lie Why doesn't this suprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:36 AM
-1

Ugly to them or ugly to society? In general you're correct, if our biology doesn't like you, the relationship is gonna be miserable for both partners. However, I've found some women my friends considered ugly to be smokeshows and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:33 AM
2

Welcome to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:27 AM
5

Unfortunately I can't stand stupidity. A 9 who isn't bright is basically a 0 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:21 AM
3

I'd be vulnerable, because I can't help it, I'm overly emotional for a dude. Then I'd start the clock for the inevitable break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:15 AM
9

She's either cheating or they have an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:10 AM
1

The redpill at least tracks with my dating experiences. You said you're 40 right? We're playing in different fields. Hell, at this point we're playing different sports. Dating apps and hookup culture completely changed (aka ruined) the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:51 AM
1

Not exactly redpilled but I do agree with some of it: Spending the rest of my life with my partner in crime, retiring to a nice snowy place surrounded by foresty areas, watching our kids grow up and take on the world with pride, cuddling up together every night and enjoying this little spark called life in the dark of eternity. And fuckin' like rabbits well into our old age. Now admittedly, I've never had a relationship for longer than 2 years, so I don't know if I'm cut out for the long haul. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:13 PM
5

So your solution to being unattractive is to approach a woman so she can tell me I'm unattractive? The logic doesn't track for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:58 PM
3

All I'm learning is that: I'm pretty much on the money on what women like I'm nobody's preference That last one stings a bit but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:40 PM
1

Not really relevant when we can't get em.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:23 PM
3

Wait I'm not? Damnit. I was just about to change my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:15 PM
3

How exactly will getting hurt disprove anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:49 PM
1

Virtue signaling for clout. All of those chicks would go for someone jacked if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:40 AM
2

Hookup culture needs to die first for OLD to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:32 AM
1

Women are lying about this. Or rather what they think a dadbod is doesn't map onto reality. I have a dad bod. An actual one. Women don't find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:10 AM
0

As someone looking for relationships I can tell you that aint true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:21 AM
1

Real talk it's a mystery to me too. I hear conflicting information from every source and I'm just hoping to find someone that shares my values. This entire tectonic plate of bullshit called dating infuriates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:05 AM
9

It is to me, considering i'm looking for a relationship and not a slut, nor am I looking to be a slut. The more people engage in that behaviour, the less likely it is that I'll find the type of person I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:15 PM
5

I went years without sex and I'm about to go years without sex again (it's been more than a year since my last relationship). The reason for it is not libido. My libido is extremely high, even for a dude. But I'm only looking for relationships, casual sex disgusts me, and I'm not good looking enough to get sex consistently either way. So it's not always that we're low libido, it's that life gave us a trash hand to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:01 AM
7

Sorry kid, but that's the dating life. I feel like dumping me over my height is unfair. The world doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:54 AM
8

We don't see sex as a bad thing. We see treating it with less weight than a handshake as a bad thing. That's the trashy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:50 AM
11

There's a difference between being sex positive and supporting degenerate behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:47 AM
1

Fucking hell I feel bad for the girl, but not even shooting a "thank you" text? The comments are right. Most dudes are actually like this. But they watch fuckboys get girls upon girls why their surroundings are dry as a desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:40 AM
2

Uncle Ted is right in more ways than he ever expected to be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:24 AM
1

If nothing else the lunatic is gonna fuck like a succubus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:22 AM
2

Fair point, and I consider that stupid too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:20 AM
1

Normal or not, it was always my goal. I'm looking for a peaceful life that I can enjoy. The richbitch high life of fuckin random hoes and owning overly expensive things, while interesting as a concept, never really interested me personally. And I never said I wouldn't put any effort. My problem is purely with corporations and being just another random drone. My current career path is programming. It's what I've been going after for years, have a bachelors and soon gonna have a masters for it. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:18 AM
3

Their average and the realistic average are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:30 PM
3

You got it backwards. The negative experiences usually come first. The redpill provides explanations. But I agree that one shouldnt follow it "by the book". That does make you become a cultist. Take what you can from it, throw the trash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:27 PM
2

Maybe in your fantasy world. Back here in reality, looks make or break your chances. You can still fuck it up while looking good but you have to actively TRY to fuck it up at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:23 PM
7

Don't forget, they eat food and think its a personality It's no wonder guys are attracted to the crazy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:16 PM
2

Your counterargument of using kings, which could histotically do whatever the fuck they wanted, doesn't disprove that their pair bonding ability wasn't shredded apart. If anything, the fact that they had harems just proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:40 AM
1

Agreed. That doesn't disprove that hookup culture ravaged relationship expectatioms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:44 AM
2

Highly disagree. That's just redpill bullshit. High count men are just as much of a bad bet as high count women. Their pair bonding ability might be a bit more resilient, but it's not resilient enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:42 AM
2

Nice ad hom. Like fucking clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:00 PM
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You do let shaming stop you from being upfront in dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:41 PM
1

I'd recommend not asking a girl to take out her earphones just to ask her out. Make it more natural. Well yeah, but that's the main problem I'm running into. Every single girl around my age has headphones or earphones on when I'm out and about. And asking them to stop the vibe just so I can be a thirsty ass for a couple of minutes is just a big no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:40 PM
1

They sure as hell look like they do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:37 PM
2

Well, if they did change it, you'd have more unattractive men approaching, which I highly doubt is what women in general want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:37 PM
1

That's an interesting take actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:52 PM
2

Skinny jeans So you like your men without balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:43 PM
2

I feel called out. But I wouldn't say it's a red flag so much as a yellow one. The reason for that is that it feels like jumping from relationship to relationship. Do keep in mind I did have only had 2 relationships and it took a long ass time to get them, so 10 seems insane to me. But to answer your Qs: Am 27. 2 LTRs: First was with a high ncount girl. She ended up cheating on me after 2 years. Second was with "The one that got away" so to speak. Her hypergamy kicked in the last 6 months and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:33 PM
2

Off topic but how hard was it to open a store like that paperwork-wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:19 PM
1

Deflecting again? We've been over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:08 PM
1

I'm an arrogant prick and you've given no argument to prove me wrong. Because men are weak and need to grow balls. I make my intentions known from the start, but then again I'm looking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:07 PM
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Don't care, it's weakness A real man wouldn't care about how others percieve him to lie and be deceitful I'm not an alpha, I'm a bitch But at least I'm not afraid of making my intentions known unlike you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:03 PM
1

Starting a family in some semi rural snowy place, while making enough money from my career, or better yet my creative hobbies, to laugh off bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:01 PM
1

Well to be fair, I made 2 wrong choices so far (3 if you count my inaction as a teen) and I'm already questioning whether I'm cut out for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:01 PM
1

Ok and? You're getting blamed by some dipshit you'll never see again in the entirety of his existence. Why does his, or the opinion of a million other men, matter? If you don't put out, don't put out. And if you do, go ahead. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:57 PM
1

No, what happened is you realized answering my question is a death sentence for your illogical argument, so I had to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:54 PM
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Only weak men lie. Stay true to yourself. Lying is for betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:48 PM
1

So expecting someone to have integrity is now considered bad faith. It's adorable how hard you're trying to deflect. Here, I'll make it easy, I'll answer for you: "There is nothing stopping women from rejecting men if they expect sex too soon. The women that do have sex too soon do that by their own choice." There, your argument no longer exists. Feel free to thank me whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:47 PM
1

Nice try, but you are deflecting, because I didn't say anything about financial bs. Dig back through our convo. I'm clear and to the point. I asked a clear question. You refuse to answer because it would kill your point the instant you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:35 PM
3

I mean I'd look at a girl's bio beyond her pics because I'm looking for something more. But a girl that has a bio like that I'd have nothing to go on besides pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:33 PM
0

Well, currently I'm in my 20s so I judge according to that. But there's a part of me that wonders how he could've made that many wrong choices before meeting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:54 PM
2

Cute deflection, I just told you in the comment above. Serves me right for trusting you wouldn't be bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:52 PM
3

Funny enough I actually have a fair amount of friends, both male and female. And have no problems talking to new girls in a setting where I can freely be awkward/weird, such as when they're friends of friends. But approaching is where my brain just shuts off. But it's not just the social awkwardness, having many female friends I've heard stories of them getting hit on, and I'd prefer not to be one of those dudes. Plus asking a girl to take out her earphones just so I can be the 51st asshole to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:50 PM
1

I doubt that, I'm an intern with an extremely loose schedule due to my classes and exams. I highly doubt you work less hours than me. Hey, I'll be poor and lonely, but at least I'll be able to say I took a shot at my dreams. Trying and failing is better than not trying at all. At least I'll know where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:17 PM
2

And yet you're acting like women can't curve the guy. So I ask again, why can't women in your mind stick to their principles and reject dudes that expect that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:12 PM
10

Which is honestly really sad that you need to be unattractive to get them to show their true colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:10 PM
2

You, kiddo. But I see you've resorted to deflection because I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:08 PM
2

I'm not upset over anything, I'm just asking why women can't stay true to their principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:04 PM
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The cutoff is whatever the guy thinks it is. It's a personal thing. Mine is 5, and even then I'd question her choices. The reason is that I'm inexperienced (my count is 2) and I got cheated on by a high count woman before. Also there's a proof that high counts increase the risk of cheating. I don't want someone who thinks sex is worth less than a handshske because that goes against my principles and my worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:02 PM
2

Based I'm in a similar position but on the other side of the coin I don't want someone experienced because I'm not experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:56 PM
2

I mean most of them do. I've talked to women IRL. I've talked to women online. I've had exes. All of them wanted someone tall. Now are there outliers? Sure. Are these outliers common? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:54 PM
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I usually got girls talking about stuff like that. I don't know how. The caveat is that we're friends so they see me as a non-sexual object so they might be more trusting to talk about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:50 PM
2

That's the consequence of a world where approaching isn't frowned upon. Guys like me might try to take a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:45 PM
0

They might, then they'll realize they settled for less and they'll cheat. Settling is a death sentence for the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:43 PM
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Sure that's an extreme. But if you're seen as creepy for whatever reason (such as being awkward which I am naturally) you can develop a reputation. And not a good one. Now will that happen? Not right off the bat. But neither will a date. As they say, it's a numbers game. So the question is how much you're willing to gamble. And before you say "Exhibit C" , yeah I am absolutely risk averse when the risk has no benefit to me, I don't hide it, but I do analyze the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:40 PM
2

Check Burger King, they've got plenty to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:34 PM
1

So? Aren't they strong independent women that can make their own choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:33 PM
1

Better than being fat, that's for sure. Chicks dig skinny guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:30 AM
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You're not going to stack 10+ bodies just through LTR unless your definition of LTR is extremely loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:25 AM
2

King behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:17 AM
2

If that was true they wouldn't be getting attention so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:57 AM
2

What would you suggest then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:45 AM
1

I'd probably hit on my lesbian friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:39 AM
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Maybe if women were more open to actually being approached and not instantly labeling every slightly awkward or unattractive guy as a creep, you'd get approached more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:10 AM
2

girl This is literally the only reason a bio like that can pass, if guys even read beyond your pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:52 AM
2

I mean, is she wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:48 AM
0

I would, but I'm on a crusade against hookup culture degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:18 AM
1

Both genders are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:16 AM
1

No they wouldn't, because they want an above average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:10 AM
2

Never had casual sex in my life. And I only wanted relationships since I was like 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:10 AM
2

It's the normalisation of hookup culture that's the problem. Nobody wants to try in relationship anymore when they can just jump on the next person when shit gets tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:06 AM
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The problems in the relationship started soon after she realized she could get a guy like me, but drastically taller and better looking. So it absolutely was hypergamy. That doesn't, of course, disprove that she was looking for a partner who is a better fit. Hell, that's basically what hypergamy means. A better man is a better fit for her than me.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 05:51 AM
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So you had your first bad relationship. It wasn't the first. But it should've been the last. She didn't see it that way for absolutely stupid reasons. Turned out the reasons were bs and it's just that her hypergamy kicked in. Can't blame her. It's been a year and I still haven't recovered. But thanks for the good wishes nontheless. Wish you the best as well.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 07:10 PM
2

Yeah, the 2 out of the 3 women in total that actually found me attractive in my 27 years of existence. One cheated on me, the other changed her entire personality and then I magically "wasn't good enough". If anything, those prove that people don't want to date me. ​ Nobody except celebrities is getting swarmed. I wasn't being literal. Even 2-3 women liking me would be a swarm to me and guys like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:01 PM
1

You misunderstand. I was the one without power in my past relationships. I was the one deeply in love, believing things should be equal. You can guess how that ended.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 06:54 PM
1

And when I say sex is the ultimate form of intimacy between to partners, your reply will always be "but sex is worthless brooo".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:52 PM
2

Hope you're doing better. Mentally? A bit. Romantically? Damn near everything the redpill said still holds true. I come here to challenge my views, because the world as the redpill says it is doesn't benefit me, but more and more it seems that it's just the way the world works, redpill or not.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:36 PM
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Started falling for the redpill as it explained accurately a lot of things that happened in my life regarding romance/dating. Came across some bullshit such as "depression is not real" and "men and women can't be friends" and the general misogyny among other things, which zoned me out completely. I still agree with the parts of it that I witnessed or still witness in real life, but generally I would not call myself redpilled.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 01:10 PM
2

I did. Deeply. They didn't love me back nearly as much.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 12:58 PM
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Ah. In that case he made his choice. As far as I see it, the relationship is open whether he likes it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:56 PM
2

That's the thing, I'm not dating because women don't actually want to date me, whatever the reason might be. As for the number all I really need is one I click with. That's the dream. But the choice of a hundred makes that one easier to find, than a choice of none.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:54 PM
2

Anything I say will be worthless to you because you see sex as something akin to a handshake, if not even less relevant than a handshake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:51 AM
2

Then you have your answer. What, that I'm unattractive to women? I know that, I have a mirror. ​ Women do chase, by the way, I know some do, my two exes pursued me first. But happens so rare it barely count as a statistic. I doubt I'll get that lucky a third time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:49 AM
4

Don't. Going through with it is weakness. Get her messages, show it to her husband. Help a fellow king throw out the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:25 AM
2

Of course not. And even if they did women don't chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:21 AM
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If this was true, women would actually want to date guys like me. Yet they don't. In fact, more often than not I've seen misogyny be a benefit to getting girls. One of the most misogynystic dudes I know has women offering to cheat with him. I've witnessed this happen when we were out, it was eye opening. Now would I want women like that? Of course not. I want a relationship. But relationships are clearly not what women want in general. Or rather, what women want is what you claim men get applaud…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:09 AM
1

It is unfortunately all about power. The one that holds the power in the relationship is the one that cares less. So on that front I can't really help you. That being said, maintaining frame doesn't mean you have to be a jerk. You can maintain frame and be nice, without allowing people to walk over you. Push&pull also doesn't have to be toxic. Where I'm from it's called banter. I don't exactly know how you're being a jerk, so I can't give you anything specific, but try to relax and think. When t…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 09:26 AM
1

"If" I'm as old as I say I am? Dude, who lies about their age and claims to be in their 40s when they're younger? That's retarded. You'd be suprised. I've wasted years and years on this hellscape we call the internet, I've seen things. ​ I'd have to be celibate way more than I was. Wish more of my generation and younger had this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:10 AM
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Again, your damaged view of what sex is is why you can't comprehend people wanting to do it for love and why it means so much to those people. This is why I say, high n-count and low n-count people have no business being together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:08 AM
2

I mean if she's dumb enough to think I'm lying despite my female friends confirming it, that's a red flag. I've been with someone refusing to accept reality before, I don't need that in my life again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:06 AM
2

Feel free to send some my way. On a serious note, I'm not denying they exist, but they're an extremely small minority.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/22 08:04 AM
1

And a lot of men aren't. I know more men that don't mind or prefer tall women than I do those that dislike tall women. I've never met a woman who liked someone shorter though.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 11:27 PM
1

I'm pretty outspoken about it when the topic switches to dating/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:55 PM
2

According to that, as a man looking for a relationship, women should be throwing themselves at me. Spoiler alert, it's not happening. So clearly they're not desperate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:33 PM
1

Typical corpo drone reply. Anyone that doesn't follow in your footsteps and lick the corpo boot and doesn't work in a cubicle for the rest of existence is lazy. Sorry I don't dream of overworking myself to death for some CEO cunt that got into their position through nepotism, and prefer to be free to work when, where and how I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:29 PM
7

how meaningless sex actually is. This bullshit right here is why you can't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:14 PM
3

You guys make it sound like it's easier to win a world war by yourself and using only a walking stick as a weapon, than it is to get a girlfriend who wants to fuck you. It unironically is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:11 PM
3

The reality is that it's no different to the grand scheme, but that specific man might be a bit happier being alive than dead. Eternity is long. Life is short. Might as well enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:00 PM
3

Drop out of the labor force at never before seen rates. That's what's happening. Good. A society that sees men as worthless and replaceable should crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:59 PM
3

Women are absolutely not desperate for relationships. There's a reason the happiest women are single. If women were desperate for relationships, the dating market would be very very different. But I do agree that porn is damaging to men. Although, the alternative of getting your self-esteem sledgehammered into dust by repeated rejection isn't much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:57 PM
1

The reasons she might be sharing her extensive history are as follows: - She kind of trusts you and wants something more (maybe a FWB or even relationship situation, so she wants to be clear with you) - She kind of trusts you and wants nothing more (she likes you platonaically because you're fun to talk to, and maybe hoped you'd be understanding of her history) - She's the kind of person that's open about it (this can be true with either of the above statements) ​ My question is, why do you want…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 11:48 AM
7

Tate and Clown&Circus are grifters trying to get losers to shell out cash for trash. Anyone that wants an actual relationship gets essentially nothing from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:55 AM
2

Because we expect consistency. You can do whatever you want, just don't expect to get a relationship from a guy you string along for months on end because he's the "better option" than all the dudes you fucked on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:31 AM
-1

Preselection is not really beneficial when women don't want you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:16 AM
5

Agreed on the last part. I'm relationship oriented. The decline isn't enjoyable, it's very fucking frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:00 AM
2

You're ascribing a lot of things to me that I never said. I heavily disagree with the redpill on a lot of things. This, unfortunately isn't one of them. And the reason for that is my real life experience. Now, do outliers to what I said above exist? Ofcourse. Even in the comment section you postee there's an outlier here and there. But outliers don't disprove the rule. I should know, I am one in a lot of things. Now to counter the obvious retort: outliers are rare. The chance of meeting one is e…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/22 07:34 AM
2

Nice try, but unlike you I'm actually following my dreams. A job is a means to an end to me. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:55 AM
2

Men are the happiest when they have someone to protect and care for, which is why married dudes are the happiest. Women no longer need men to protect or care for them. They have their own money, for any other financial things the have simps and sugar daddies, for any sexual needs there's Tinder. Any relationship oriented women are snatched up by a smart guy that aint letting go so easily, and more power to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:53 AM
2

Because I can recognize RP bullshit when I see it, and dudes around here (not all, but a lot) spew a lot of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:42 AM
1

Oh don't worry, I'm trying to improve, I'm just realistic about my results.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:41 AM
2

If anything, it shows you’re not paying attention to what guys are doing. I'm paying attention to the guys outside of reddit. ​ Part of vetting is dating people to see who they are. If they want to fuck immediately, and you don't, the vetting process is over and he should be kicked to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:50 PM
4

Women no longer need men. However, I feel that men still need women. Hell, it was proven in studies: - The happiest men are married - The happiest women are single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:34 PM
1

There's no such thing as 'it's nature' Yes there is. Especially in dating. Female biology wants to procreate with the best specimens of male biology. That's the basis of our entire dating system. ​ Have your spoken to 1000s of taller women and 1000s of shorter men to show that the women are less likely than the men to consider this? I don't need to. The people tell it themselves willingly. Like I said, go dig through the comments in the post you linked. ​ How do you know that the issue mostly is…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 09:30 PM
1

Bullshit, because when women are consistent, men in this sub just claim “Nah, youre lying you’re a whore”. Don't care, because their opinions aren't relevant. ​ The answer will always go back to “I demand you fuck me immediately”. So don't date losers like that? ​ Which is also bullshit because a lot of men demanding women be truthful typically lie their asses off themselves. I condemn them too, they're part of the problem why dating is so fucking trash today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:13 PM
2

I’ve caught 3 red pill elite out in blatant lies. Let me guess, Rollo, Tate and Myron? They're the usual grifters who keep talking trash and running from debates. ​ Believe me, an attractive man with the depth of a teacup or the brain of a child, loses his appeal very quickly. True, but an unattractive man can't even pull you in for you to see the depths of his character. ​ you can see plenty of short men with taller women. I spend several hours a day walking through a big city, to and from work…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 09:01 PM
-1

Seriously? There's always one person that will come along and turn this into 'this means that red pill is right' I mean, read the comments and tell me it isn't. ​ but that's because of what society has told us No it isn't. It's nature. Also there's a LOT more men that don't mind or even prefer a tall girl than there are women that don't mind a shorter guy.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 08:44 PM
2

What men want is this (and I'm using the general "You" here, I mean no offense to the OP): - Be consistent. If you fuck on the first date, we expect you to do it with us as well, especially if we're the so called "better option". Making an exception, especially a worse exception, for the guy you want to be with makes you look like either a manipulator or unintelligent, both of which are unreliable. - Be truthful. If you're a slut, own it. Some men love that shit. Others don't. Pretending to be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:29 PM
0

I agree with you on your rant about the redpill, and it's pretty much why I never fell deep into it. However, in my experience in real life and online, most women gravitate towards a singular standard (not saying they all want that singular standard but it's usually within range of it), while men's standards are a scattershot with a hard to define singularity.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 08:01 PM
1

That's a good point as well. I think that's because the new age "right winger" is what used to be considered center left.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 07:43 PM
7

Says the corpo shill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:30 PM
0

Because I want a life partner. Someone to make this world just a little brighter as everything else falls to ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:28 PM
7

Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:24 PM
-1

Kind of just confirms what the redpill is saying, with the addition of tall girls not being able to find someone to make them feel shorter.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 12:58 PM
1

Yup. I grew up in very conservative surroundings, and my parents are fairly liberal, so naturally I was always left leaning. Until 2016. Seeing the left play the right wings playbook sickened me to the core. The morons managed to even gaslight themselves into demonizing video games and managed to make free speech a right wing talking point somehow. It would be kind of sad-funny if it wasn't the mainstream narrative. And it only got worse from there. Fuck, even Destiny, who was the face of the in…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 12:10 PM
1

The overwhelming majority of men don't, so I assumed you were of similar mindset. My apologies. No worries. I'm sorry if it came off sarcastic or combative, it's more so that I thought it's kind of funny, because more women being demisexual would probably fix a lot of problems I have with the current dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:52 AM
1

Well, in many ways I am, in many ways I am not. I'm mostly trying to stay true to myself, and what my true self wants is a life partner, not just fucking random hot girls because "a man should fucc uwu". I can't be with a girl unless I'm attracted to her in all aspects. Just sexual attraction isn't enough. Guess it's a nurture thing because I was, and still am, surrounded by great lifelong relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:49 AM
1

It's not a feeling, it's the truth. The left and right are now two sides of the same moronic coin. Join me in the center brother. Join the sane side. Also Tate is a grifter. He may have a good point once in a millenia, but his only goal is selling you bullshit. Why do you think he's cosplaying a saudi prince right now? Muslim my ass, it's all a grift.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 02:25 PM
1

Fair enough, in that case it's their own fault for expecting something sooner. Also I love how you said in the other comment that I wouldn't like more demi women around, meanwhile you said you dated nerds of questionable attractiveness levels. Like I said, that kind of dating market sounds much better than the current one where I basically got no shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:17 PM
1

It is to me, because sex and intimacy are intertwined for me, so giving that away to random nobodies disgusts me. And believe me I would. Not like it would change my dating prospects much, but at least I'd have a reason to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:11 PM
1

Yeah the problem is the ones that want relationships usually go unser women's radars because they're usually not attractive or interesting enough. And to me, that sounds like you're stringing him along because your brain is telling you you should like the guy, but you aren't actually attracted to him. I get maybe not being instantly horny for him, but if there isn't even a slight hint of wanting to kiss or make out with him by date 3 I'd recommend considering if you're actually attracted to him …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:55 AM
1

I am, like I said, there's only so much a 4 can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:35 AM
0

If that was true women wouldn't whine constantly about men only wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:35 AM
1

Nah, fuck that, whoring onesself to random people is cringe as fuck, and hookup culture is degenerate. There should be more women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:32 AM
1

That's fine. My problem is with the whining that comes with it. "where have the good men gone uwu" while constantly choosing the ones that she knows wont commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:30 AM
0

True. But that's not "way hotter", that's going from unattractive to barely scratching the surface of attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:27 AM
1

If my choice was between Myron and that fuckwad Hassan, I'd choose Myron any day of the week. And I hate Clown&Circus and their dumbass rhetoric. But Lassan is both a bigger grifter and bigger idiot than anyone in the redpill, including fucking TATE who is currently cosplaying a Saudi prince.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/22 06:25 AM
1

In their minds they can get a high value dude for sex which means they can get a high value dude for a relationship. Anything else is a downgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:52 AM
2

Nah you'd find a dude who is willing to wait. There's plenty of them. Hell if a woman clearly wants me, but shows restraint due to her principles, that just makes her sexier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:56 AM
1

37 with only 1 partner Based as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:45 AM
1

Wouldn't suprise me. The height requirement is already clown tier, might as well put a red nose on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:41 AM
9

Yeah... Because it was used a lot and ruined their regular business model So they moved it to cash only
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:37 AM
3

King behaviour, keep at it brother
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:34 AM
-1

There's no amount of working out that'll turn me from a 4 to a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:18 AM
10

After being with someone way out of her league? Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:16 AM
1

I mean, yeah, fair enough. Unfortunately I'm neither poly nor queer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:29 PM
0

Yes women like tall guys. Yes being short drastically reduces your chances of getting with most girls. But ask yourself this: Do you really want to be with some clown who thinks height is important to the point where she would curve you because of it? There are girls that think a 1 inch difference is good enough. There are girls that will overlook your height if your other qualities are good. Improve what you can improve, ignore the rest, get a woman that appreciates you, ignore the clowns. Ther…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 09:23 PM
1

Authentivity help me feel less anxious Same, but it still doesn't let me interact with random strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:16 PM
2

avoid socializing with neurotypicals Based, fuck the normies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:23 PM
1

Out of curiosity, how did you manage to both overcome anxiety and fuck that much in 3 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:22 PM
2

There's a reason I call them Clown&Circus.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 04:06 PM
1

It's hard to project something onto someone that they outright tell you. Now admittedly, I wouldn't want to be with the women who go for dudes like that, sure. But saying misogyny magically prevents you from getting women is absolutely false.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 04:05 PM
1

You'd be suprised. Women throw themselves at these dudes.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 12:33 PM
10

Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:48 AM
3

Never confirmed it but I'm pretty sure I'm on the spectrum And yeah socializing and dating are very strange worlds for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:17 AM
1

I've witnessed them pull. I'm the quiet dude and let me tell you, ain't no slaying happening. But that's mostly because I'm not attractive.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/22 07:11 AM
5

Very based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:51 PM
1

I don't know, the dudes I know that slay the most are insanely misogynystic. The only dude I know that's a gentleman (like an actual one) had less success than me, and I'm just a random loser with barely any success.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/22 09:42 PM
1

I don't think it'll ever get better. Pandora's box has been opened, and it sure as fuck ain't gonna close. At best it'll stay a net negative for men and women to interact, at worst it'll get progressively worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:34 PM
1

It isn't but one can still find out enough for their brain to go "yeah, i want to try with this person" Unless you literally do nothing but smalltalk over text
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:42 PM
1

My physical standards are low. You just have to be attractive to me. Other standards are another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:00 PM
0

I mean, realistically that only benefits women. Less losers for them to sift through.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:17 PM
1

Honest question: Do you even speak to people you date between dates? Because 3 dates is plenty of time. That being said, I don't expect sex by date 3, I expect the desire for sex to be there by date 3. I didn't sleep with my last ex until date 5 (6?) but it was clear we were going to fuck eventually from date 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:37 PM
1

Yeah, a lot of RP stuff goes against my principles and beliefs, so it was easier not to fall towards the extreme and grifty parts of it. Plus I get exceptionally annoyed and distrustful when I feel people are trying to sell me shit, which most of the mainstream manosphere is. Which is also why I'm looking for ways to disprove the rest of it, because the RP truth is not actually beneficial to me, so I'm looking for alternates. Unfortunately, it's hard to disprove something you witness on a day to…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/22 12:26 PM
16

King behaviour I'm in the same boat, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:34 PM
3

Exactly my point. Which is why his "just be confident bro" spiel doesn't really mean much for most men, since most of us can't even get the audition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:52 PM
10

You were dating in a different playing field. The rules have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:41 PM
3

I'm not missing anything. The thing is that being good looking DID get him somewhere, he just wasn't banking on the colossal advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:23 PM
1

Yeah I was being cheeky with that first line, I did need some motivation to get back into the swing of things so I do appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:56 AM
12

"bro just be confident bro, ignore that everyone around me said im good looking bro its just confidence bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:56 AM
1

Damnit every time I get close to drowning that annoying bit of hope in me a post like this shows up and reignites it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:50 AM
4

I mean, if you really are as old as you say you're not playing the same dating game as us. The rules have changed unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:41 AM
1

So is literally every other politician, not really an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:53 AM
1

Clockwork
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:50 AM
1

Considering I'm also pureblooded it would be preferable. Or at the very least someone who has accepted from the start that it should be a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:42 AM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:37 AM
1

Local redditor discover that tall men are actually rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:36 AM
1

I hope the fuck not, society is degenerate as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:34 AM
1

Yeah I get what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:22 AM
0

That's fair, I still highly doubt anyone would classify me as a fuckboy as I don't look nearly goo enough to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:41 PM
2

I'd say it's the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:40 PM
1

Funny enough, as someone who is very 90's influenced that's my usual attire. Currently working on getting everything under the hoodies and baggy pants looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:39 PM
1

I love how I do everything you mentioned except shallow conversations. Yet I'm the complete opposite of a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:46 PM
0

As a narcissist can confirm. Several people have asked me how im so confident. I'm literally not. But also if I ever stumble into another relationship I'll have to test that walking thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:43 PM
1

At the very least it'll give you more options to pick from
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:37 PM
7

something something disaster for the human race Uncle Ted was crazy and a criminal but the bastard was right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:30 PM
2

The mechanics really aren't that complicated are they though? You either look good or you don't. Everything else is fluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:28 PM
0

Wrong on both accounts. For the first, reread my first comment. I have said most not all. For the second, name where I said that. We're talking about women which is why I'm focusing on women. And third, it's pretty easy to vet whether or not someone is 7ft and muscular. If you find that person scary yet still go through with meeting them, that's running headfirst. You have less than 0 reasons to meet this person. It's a self inflicted problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:22 PM
0

I am concerned about it. Which is why I would avoid that situation and not run headfirst into it. And I only look down on people who can't admit that they cause their own issues. Also I don't care whether or not you care men get laid. It's not a problem women or men can fix because it's a problem caused by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:57 AM
1

Fuck that. I got shit to do, and am looking for a life partner to enhance that experience, not random losers off the street that have been laid more times than all the bricks of my building combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:41 AM
6

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:37 AM
0

Women's problems on OLD are almost entirely self inflicted, outside of random dick pics. You literally don't need to go on a date nor fuck a guy you find scary. Yet you do (using the general "you" here). You can avoid this by not doing it. Crazy concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:00 AM
3

I mean I'm a 4/10 and I've managed to date a 6 and an 8. I still can't figure out why they were attracted to me, but it sure as hell wasn't looks considering how many times they said I'm not their type. Edit: I should mention both left me for the typical chad looking dude. So cold approaching in any way is a no go, since cold approach is entirely based on whether or not you look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:54 AM
2

I mean most of us dont have a choice. It's the last avenue I haven't tried outside of cold approach, and I'm not attractive enough to cold approach. Also, to clarify, I'm strictly looking for relationships and casual disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:46 AM
2

Nah women are just gonna do what they do now and go for the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:12 AM
1

I felt that last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:46 AM
5

Believe me you don't want to. It's torture when you know those people are ways out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:16 AM
1

Then I'm truly doomed, because bad luck haunts me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:51 AM
2

Most of my female friends are feminists and think all men are trash I can only imagine how grating it would be hearing that every time you fight with them about anything And that's only the mild version of modern feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:49 AM
1

I've been described as funny (no I don't really know why either). Doesn't really spark attraction unless she's already attracted. Works good if she's pre-attracted. I agree on the spontaneous/adventureous part, I've seen that pull women. Unfortunately I'm not either of those. I've been described as a good listener, to the point where people randomly shared some of their darkest secrets and moments and then wondered why they did it. Same as with funny, I literally don't know why people percieve m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:33 PM
1

Name your reasons then. My guesses are that some of those will be: Personality Being funny Being caring/nice Not bring misogynystic/an asshole in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:13 AM
1

I've yet to see it. I've been looking for a relationship since the moment I started wanting to date. No dice. Women would rather gamble on a smokeshow fuckboi that says stuff like you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:07 AM
3

The woman that I want doesn't exist. Or if she does, she's probably taken by someone with more luck than me. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:57 AM
4

This, well said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:51 AM
6

Why were you in a relationship with the hot dumb guy for so long?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:51 AM
1

I usually have trouble keeping eye contact, though I'm getting better at it, but when a woman has pretty blue eyes I actually have a hard time looking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:59 AM
1

Keyword here being handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:57 AM
1

And yet I see it everywhere. The problem is women dont find those men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:34 AM
0

Girls like you two are few and far inbetween though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:42 AM
2

If only women reacted like that IRL maybe us relationship dudes would have more chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:39 AM
1

I mean yeah. Did you see modern feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:21 AM
7

I slutshame both sides. Hookup culture and promiscuity are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:19 AM
0

The reasons you give are generally not reflected in reality, that's why they get ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:18 AM
2

What kind of drugs did you take and where can I get them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:13 AM
1

I mean yeah, that's what they're gonna do. Getting fucked over by fuckbois is better than dating losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:10 AM
2

I found it once in a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:59 AM
0

cum once and we are done What kind of low T bs is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:58 AM
1

Ah, fair enough. My mistake then. Still doesn't track since most dudes here do likely get girls. It's only us 4s and below that don't get any either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:52 AM
1

Nah alcohol just helps me be weirder than I already am
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:14 AM
1

Shame, poly goes against my nature, so that's a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:06 AM
1

Not what I said. Take your coffee and then reread the full context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:00 AM
1

True enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:59 AM
1

That contradicts your original comment. So which one is the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:59 AM
2

Weak men* can't stay faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:20 PM
2

Feminists hate men anyway so no sane man actually wants to be with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:10 PM
4

Yes, this, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:08 PM
2

King behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:37 AM
1

those guys aren't the ones posting on reddit Yes we are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:28 AM
1

If this was true, women would be becoming less promiscuous, not more promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:25 AM
1

Consider how many women are promiscuous today, a better question would be if women even consider the female perspective when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:23 AM
1

It's not like I have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:06 AM
1

Truly a horrific experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:05 AM
1

I mean he's got a point. Everyone around my age has earphones stuck in and is averse to approach from strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:59 AM
3

Most of my friends are girls. They are all taken and all of their friends are taken. Life's a joke, let me tell ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:14 AM
2

I love how more then half of those a blatant lies that you made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:02 AM
5

Pretty much this. It's not even playing a losing game, it's just losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:01 AM
4

Yeah there is. Like I said in another comment, someone wanting you physically is the first step towards finding someone that also wants a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:33 AM
1

Unfortunately it does. It means someone wants you physically. That's the first step to finding someone that also wants you for a relationship. If you said, getting pumped and dumped is a terrible thing, that I can agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:32 AM
1

Well, those of us that despise promiscuity also end up alone and complaining, so it's not much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:09 PM
1

They threw me to the curb like nothing as soon as their type came around, their type being the stereotypical "Chad" ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:07 PM
3

Maybe if women weren't asocial IRL men would approach more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:05 PM
6

As opposed to women who are so interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:55 PM
1

Even as a dude I don't get it. Like I get wanting to settle down after whoring onesself out to random bimbos, but with a virgin? I don't even care for a virgin and my body count is stuck at 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:40 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:29 PM
5

Generally if she's left leaning politically chances are she's promiscuous.
/r/AllPillDebate05/12/22 01:14 PM
2

That's what we normal people call delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:09 PM
1

I wasn't going for "Stacies". Sure they were pretty, but I knew we wouldn't click because I was an outcast. Turns out the outcast girls want the hot jocks aswell. Go figure. Am I stupid for not realizing this? Sure. But I did somehow manage to stumble into two relationships, which twisted my view on it. Both ended with a reality check though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:07 PM
1

I mean women care about status and looks drastically more than men do. But incels absolutely aren't indiscriminatory. Though most of them aren't as vile as the ones on the incelsis forum.
/r/AllPillDebate05/12/22 09:25 AM
4

True, but if they can get a ONS, they can likely get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:19 AM
1

To each their own. I can't stand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:18 AM
0

Cause girls focus on body so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:00 AM
0

Cause I'm not from america.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:44 AM
1

I'll believe that when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:38 AM
1

Lmao no Source: my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:35 AM
4

My dream girl would be my wife. Loyalty is more important than some prissy little golddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:34 AM
1

Neither is ok. Hookup culture is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:33 AM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:30 AM
1

You're going to the place that breeds mass shooters and wonder why they are mean?
/r/AllPillDebate05/12/22 07:26 AM
2

Aite, I'll give it to you, you understand what it is. I'd still have to see it to believe it, but I concede that you might have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:17 AM
2

So is mine. I didn't get any of his genes. Nature is a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:14 AM
9

Ice cold
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:09 AM
26

My friend whose shape can literally be described as "round" bagged a ONS recently. It's getting harder to believe that ugly girls can't get it, I admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:03 AM
25

Those 0 options I have sure are genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:59 AM
3

What would you describe game as? Because I've yet to see a girl have more game than me, and I pretty much have none, so I'm a bit skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:56 AM
3

Our biology decides what we're attracted to. We can't negotiate that. That's the problem. So Flaticia might not get our motor running. The manosphere is absolutely necessary as a concept, though I agree it should do away with the toxic grifters like Tate. That being said, the most mysoginystic men I know get the most girls. So respect clearly isn't a necessity. Also it isn't that we don't know that good looks get chicks, it's that we're told over and over that "personality and respect will trump…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:53 AM
23

Yeah. But you can get them if you tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:49 AM
2

While I disagree with pieces of your first paragraph, the rest are pretty much on the money. Well written.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/22 02:08 AM
1

If you read my comment you'd know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:19 AM
1

Saudi Grifter Prince
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:18 PM
2

TIL I'm a boomer at 27
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:13 PM
1

Because they're not naturally that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:06 PM
2

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:00 PM
10

That's fine. I'll put a book down if the chapters are trash. I can reject people for the same reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:46 PM
1

Yup, that's the worst part. Met an absolute sugarcube of adorable nerdiness recently but she's also taken unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:39 PM
8

The most shocking thing about this is that somehow a Marxist managed to gaslight himself into a logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:16 PM
2

I was also cringe before it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:10 PM
9

God damnit I start improving my life and its a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:04 PM
1

Jesus tapdancing Christ those mods are fucking insufferable. But this is exactly why I could never go full redpill, some of the deeper more deranged shit breeds sheep men like this, who then ruin women's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:01 PM
31

Some redpill bros are easy to spot. Others, who only agree with pieces of the redpill like me, are harder. Most of the things and people you mentioned I heavily disagree with. I think the most surefire way to gauge it asking how important they think looks are in dating. Alternatively, if they're like me, you can literally just ask what they think of the redpill. But I know people like that are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:32 PM
2

Oh I wont don't worry. And if I do it'll be in the context of a joke. Hell some girls I know are far nerdier than me in some ways, however they're also all taken, which is why I specified "single" in my semi-ironic post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:42 PM
1

Yeah go check with the doc.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/22 06:58 AM
2

Damn, in that case well played.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 06:14 PM
1

I don’t know about % but I don’t see many men saying “I want a tall muscular woman” - beauty standards (societal) for women are generally petite and “soft” as in curvacious (actually curvy, not fat) or slim/fit in a way that is not too muscular. Fair point, but you can easily find groups upon groups of men that do like muscular women, and any other shape and size of woman you can name. The same, however is not true for women. That is to say, while they do exist, they're not minorities within the…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 06:10 PM
2

When did he say that? Because he might've truly meant it. A good woman can turn her man into a better, well... man. I was definitely becoming a better person when I was with my ex.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 04:28 PM
-2

It isn't any better without dating apps. Once you're out of college it's game over.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 04:17 PM
2

You realize you still need to physically approach someone to meet them?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 04:16 PM
0

Are you a girl?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 04:15 PM
-3

No. Even when I was in my redpill rage phase, pushing away my friends, male or female, would've been an idiotic move. It's the same as people breaking decades long ties because "muh politicx uwu". Weak and worthless people.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 04:08 PM
1

Yeah, my local gamestore has very little women and the women that are there are taken usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:53 AM
2

Where does one go to find girls like you but that are somehow magically single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:14 AM
1

If any woman tells me I need to act like Will Smith she's getting the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:49 AM
1

"Hey girl you wanna grab a coffee" I yell from my sniper's nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:47 AM
1

A lot, but there's a reason stereotypes exist and are often witnessed in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:43 AM
2

Maybe if they stopped being hoes this wouldnt need to be overturned For the record I'm against the Roe v Wade overturn but calling for men to get vasectomies is fucking moronic Oh let me just ruin my future because they're too fucking weak to practice pussy discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:39 AM
0

That's great, but you're an extreme rarity. There's a higher chance of winning the lottery than meeting another girl that likes actual dad bods.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:28 AM
-1

taller Not to be that guy... I jest, I jest. 20 years together That explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:04 AM
1

implied refute: cuddling often leads to sex because sex is the "advanced" form of closeness, and closeness is what men want in a relationship. So this makes sense. And this makes perfect sense for an actual LTR Yes, thank you for understanding. I want to argue that this fails to make any argument for the casual sex most RP men on this sub talk about Here's the thing, I consider hookup culture degenerate, and anyone who participates in it, male or female, a slut. So I'm not the right person to ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:48 PM
1

Here you need this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:38 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:16 PM
2

I never said that, nor will I ever say that. I ain't entitled to anything. I'm just saying what I expect. The fact that you think that means I'm entitled to something says more about you than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:07 PM
1

Better now? You guys and gals really need to update your dictionaries btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:06 PM
1

Actually yes I can. And if I don't get equal treatment, the relationship isn't happening. I've seen what happens to guys who don't get equal treatment. I'm not in the business of leading a miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:31 AM
7

Except there's a clear implication that she fucks on the first date if the guy is attractive enough. So, yeah, she's easy. Just not for "boyfriend material" guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:29 AM
6

Because that means she's not physically attracted to you, which will lead to relationship instability. If a girl made all guys wait, that's fine, she's keeping a consistent standard and I respect that. I do the same. If she's making excuses for wishy-washy bullshit, she's a liability in more ways than one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:26 AM
4

I hope that number increases in future generations. Hookup culture is just mental torture for relationship oriented men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:46 AM
6

Backwards logic. This is why I say women are clowns when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:43 AM
1

I'm never moving to america. What a hellhole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:37 AM
1

I mean they're right. Women no longer need men. To them we're pretty much disposable and replacable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:35 AM
1

Would the male equivalent of this be "crazy dog lord"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:34 AM
1

Out of curiosity, what do you think about sex like that lasts several hours at least 3 times a week? Is that too much to expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:17 AM
12

I'd rather women went back to just missionary if it means promiscuity dies as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:49 AM
1

I'm guessing English isn't your first language. If a male cannot have any physical contact with another person without the immediate expectation of penetrating someone with his penis afterwards, he is not a mentally stable individual. Not what I said. ​ I do not socialize or interact with males that expect or demand sex because someone touched him. Irrelevant to the argument. ​ Human intimacy isn't just penetrative intercourse. You may not be aware of this if you're from a culture where men pene…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:26 PM
1

Is this patriarchy in the room with us now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:29 PM
4

man wants to be intimate with he's partner "he's mentally ill uwu" Why the fuck do I even bother with you americans, you're all fucking psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:27 PM
1

You're so desperate to be wrong it's almost sickening. Let me educate you: - Men want relationships - (Most) incels and redpillers are coping that they only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:25 PM
1

I don't expect women to sleep with me on the 3rd date, but I do expect the attraction that will lead to that to be that by the 3rd date. I know americans are antisocial when it comes to dating, but here in Europe people talk and get to know eachother between dates, so 3 dates could very well be a month, or longer, with a lot of talking in between. So, if sex in the near future isn't on the table by date 3, the girl clearly doesn't have the attraction necessary for the relationship to work. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:22 PM
2

Cap Talk to an actual man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:12 AM
5

Tell me you haven't talked to an actual man without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:06 AM
2

Ever cuddled with a guy which then eventually led to sex? Why do you think that is? To us, all parts of intimacy are tied up in one big ball, with sex being the ultimate form of closeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:49 AM
3

Stop with this utter bullshit. Platonic and familial companionship, while also necessary, CANNOT replace romantic companionship. Anyone that thinks it can is coping hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:40 AM
0

Considering the "evolution" is complete regression into degeneracy and hookup culture, I'd rather buy a dog and die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:36 AM
0

Women aren't attracted to husband material, they're attracted to hookup material. That's why we say that. Also what's the point in investing into the relationship if you're not attracted to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:31 AM
0

Would you have empathy for a man repeatedly jumping in a pool of bloodthirsty sharks then complaining about possibly getting his entire arm or leg ripped off? Because that's equivalent how most women here describe dating, yet repeatedly continue to date. I have empathy for ugly girls who are stuck in the same boat as most men today. It's hard to have empathy for someone actively jumping on the traintracks and complaining about the trains.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:21 AM
2

Women's standards are inflated but they don't stand in the way of their own happiness. The happiest women are single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:08 AM
14

The moral choice is telling their partner then breaking up. Because if they truly loved their partner, there wouldn't be another person. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:49 AM
3

You weren't. Your views on sex were drastically mismatched.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 05:40 AM
8

Despite what people here will say, your reaction is completely normal. Shaming her for her sexual past isn't good however. She's wired differently, it is what it is. That being said, your views on sex are mismatched and unfortunately I think the only course of action is breaking up. Because otherwise, you'll grow resentful of her, which will lead to her resenting you. And since her views on sex are wildly different, well, you can guess what'll happen.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 05:34 AM
2

Most of the dudes I know don't know what redpill is. We all like them young, thin, and curvy. Dunno what to tell you then. In my experience, men's tastes vary a lot, while women's only fall around tall, muscular or skinny. Might be a Europe vs America thing. ​ We are talking about preferences not the minimum bar for who you will fuck and never see again. The bar for both is the same for men and women, the difference is, the women's bar those is drastically higher. ​ In fact this is a problem wit…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/22 05:37 AM
3

Personally, as much of an alcohol-monger I am, I'd stay away from girls that desperately want to get hammered. That being said, u/mikayrodr probably has the best advice, though as a guy I have to put heavy emphasis on do not sleep with her if she's drunk.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 07:47 PM
7

You aren't made for monogamy. Your options are: - Dump her, and get back to your old life - Open up the relationship, on both sides (fair is fair)
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 07:41 PM
2

If men didn't find these women attractive these magazines wouldn't sell. I never claimed otherwise. Reread my comment. In its entirety. You'll quickly learn that we agree. It doesn't change the fact that the mainstream is pushing an agenda, they're just lucky their agenda falls within the parameters of what men find attractive. If they started plastering average chicks their sales would at worst barely drop because the audience would shift, at best get quadrupled because those girls would look m…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 07:17 PM
2

Men's physical preferences are very singular and you can find that look all over men's magazines. Magazines aren't proof of what men find attractive, it's what the mainstream thinks men find attractive, or the mainstream is pushing a trend they believe men should find attractive. Either way, what's on magazines is utterly irrelevant, because while it may be attractive, it doesn't even cover 1% of what men actually find attractive as a collective. Same goes for the redpill definition of "attracti…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/22 02:15 PM
3

You have to do activities outside the house consistently to see results, and it should be more than just walking around. That sentence was related to the next 2 you quoted, but you make a fair point and I agree. I agree with most of what you said actually. ​ Wow women have physical preferences just like men do. Blowing my mind right now. My point was that men's physical preferences aren't NEARLY as singular as women's.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 07:30 PM
1

The things I want in a relationship is support, love, laughter and some shared interests. If I found a partner had those qualities, looks matter much less. There are certain deal breakers for me, such as poor hygiene or smokers, very much falling into the basic self care camp. Agreed on everything, pretty much the same things I'm looking for. Also I don't fully buy into the OkCupid study, or rather the percentages it poses. If anything it's closer to 30/70 or even 40/60.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 07:11 PM
1

Should women like dad bods? I mean they can like what they like, but what women see as a dad bod, and what a dad bod actually is, are wildly different things.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 04:23 PM
1

Well, I'll admit, since I'm below average, it's not that hard to be above me, so my grading is probably skewed a bit in that regard.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 04:21 PM
0

Well, I'm only guessing they were attracted to me for some unknown reason, because I have no other explanation as to why they were with me for 2 years. However, the first one cheated on me with what the internet would call a textbook "chad", and the second on realized she could get my personality in the body of a greek god, which basically started the downward spiral of our relationship. Essentially, everything was fine-ish until their hypergamy kicked in. And since I'm below average, it was eas…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 04:19 PM
2

I feel like there is a difference between ugly and just physically not captivating. Fair, bad wording on my part. ​ I think there are women who genuinely love men they personally do not find attractive. Depends on what kind of love you mean. I don't think romantic love is possible without attraction. If you mean that some women find some generally unattractive men attractive, absolutely, like I said, every rule has an exception, but one can't bank on exceptions in life.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 02:47 PM
2

I mean I agree, men in general are ugly. But women often like to claim that looks don't matter or matter little. Which doesn't track with their actions.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 11:03 AM
1

I don't. I think it's a bit silly, but nature's nature, it is what it is.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 10:42 AM
1

I guess there could be an element of that. But the dudes are all some combination of tall, skinny or muscular.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:36 AM
2

That's exactly the path I'm on, friend. Whether it attracts women or not, we'll see. But I want to be a better version of myself for myself.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:25 AM
1

I know you didn't use that word. I'm using that word. What would you call a man that's morbidly obese, with an acne-ridden face and an unwashed and unbrushed set of hair?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:21 AM
1

By that logic, she doesn't deserve me because I'm improving my life and she isn't.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:15 AM
2

I'm trying to improve my life and health. Why would I be with someone who refuses to do so?
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:01 AM
1

I know it. It's way above you. But you can rise to that spot. Hell, as a woman you can go BEYOND me. You just refuse to because whatever feminist you listen to convinced you that being disgusting is empowering. At least the redpill tells men that being disgusting is unacceptable. As much as I hate most "alpha uwu" grifters, that's one thing they get right.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:00 AM
2

Except I didn't say pretty, I said pretty to me. Most girls can easily pass that bar. Going by your own previous description of yourself, you could probably pass that bar if you actually put effort into yourself. And your "muh intagram gorl" bs doesn't work on me, because I find makeup-caked girls with fake asses and tits repulsive.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 08:51 AM
2

See, but my belief is that you're an exception. ​ Looks really don’t matter that much The way I see it, to put it in very unsexy terms, looks only matter to the point where biology kicks in and wants to procreate. The "problem" is that for most women, that bar is insanely high. Which I understand, but it that doesn't mean that the truth hurts any less.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 08:42 AM
1

You can call me out all you want, I'm just telling you what I see around me.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 08:32 AM
2

That's what I was trying to figure out. But it doesn't seem to be the case, generally. Exceptions exist, sure, but they're exceptions for a reason.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 08:22 AM
3

or world you be willing to date a woman who isn’t particularly pretty, but has a great personality and loves you/supports you? This. All the girl needs to be is be pretty to me, not objectively pretty. Which is extremely easy to do for most girls. It's a bit shallow ​ You might find that your friends prefer good looking men but would totally date a guy with meh looks whose got other positive features. There's a hopeful part of me that refuses to die that kind of believes, or rather, hopes this i…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 08:06 AM
4

Sure, but women like to say they like "dad bods", and when you show them what a dad bod actually looks like, they recoil in horror (well not as dramatic, but they quickly realize how wrong they are).
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 07:39 AM
2

I don't act, I always was, but I tried to be a nice person before. Turns out being nice gets you nowhere. What I mean by "became" is that I stopped trying to be nice, and started being the cunt I was always meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:34 AM
1

No offense to you and other guys like that, if you can’t strike up an intelligent conversation within first talking to me , I’d rather be alone. That's fair. ​ So far you sound shallow. Unfortunately yes. I can't force my biology to be attracted to something its not attracted to. But so far I have been attracted to a wide range of body types, as were the guys I talked to, whereas women seemed to echo eachother. I don't knock them for having those standards, you can't negotiate attraction, my iss…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 07:32 AM
1

The dog's at least gonna be loyal.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 07:02 AM
1

I'm doing both. I became an asshole first, which opened up the avenue to actually share my feelings with them because they liked me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:38 PM
-4

How can you tell the earth is round when your surroundings constantly reinforce it's flat? Proof exists. A better analogy would perhaps be gravity, but considering how many times in my life I fell down I'm intimately familiar with the fact that gravity exists. ​ Women liking muscular and tall men it's absolute common sense. There's nothing shocking about it. There's nothing wrong with it either. Agreed, but looking at the variety in tastes men have for women, you'd expect the opposite sex to hav…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 10:08 PM
1

No offense to you and other girls like that, but if you can't at least put the same effort into hygiene and working out as I do, I'd rather be alone. I think I'm at least allowed that standard since my bar for that is pretty damn low.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 09:39 PM
-2

I mean, I have found various sizes and shapes of girls attractive, so to speak, and most guys (not pill poppers) I've talked to generally have a far wider range of tastes than women do. It was mostly just curiosity if girls are the same. What I expected is pretty much what I got. The coping from one girl that I'm "normal height for a guy" because she was now dating a short dude was fucking hilarious though.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 09:33 PM
1

The first one, asked what their preferences are. The thing is I was curious because my taste in women is fairly diverse compared to most red/blackpillers, and since my female friends are fairly liberal I guess I was digging to see if they're more open to dating a wider range of men. Turns out, not so much.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 09:21 PM
0

Because they get some things right doesn't mean their philosophy is sound. Absolutely agreed. ​ You probably have very high standards for a woman's looks I don't know, people keep telling me my standards are too low because I find a wide range of women attractive. The redpill also only likes skeleton women with big tits which I find beyond disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 09:16 PM
1

Sure, you can, but considering my female friends actually treat me better after I became an asshole, there's an easier road to go down, and most men would take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:33 PM
3

All guys are gonna become assholes then because that's pretty much the only thing that works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:21 PM
5

That's not feminine, that's being an introvert.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:20 PM
2

Maybe, but it still disproves your point of "just dont be sexist"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:16 PM
3

The RP advice that helps you get girls is the same advice that'll help you get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:51 AM
2

The female nature said hasn't been completely wrong yet in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:43 AM
1

Except plenty of sexists get an insane amount of women So you're wrong on that too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:40 AM
0

Women's dating problems: "I have too many options" Men's dating problems: "I never had options" Totally the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:34 AM
1

To be fair it's not like I was getting laid before anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:29 AM
1

Every post like this needs an added disclaimer of "only the men I find attractive are like this" because if you actually look at men in total it's hilarious how wrong you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:23 AM
12

I think a romantic partner can become a best friend without starting out as one. I'd replace that "can" with "should". Because if they don't, there's really no point to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:08 PM
0

I mean, as toxic as it is, it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:05 PM
0

I literally never see a guy talking about what kind of personality traits he wants in his best friend. Well, for one, that question isn't usually asked around these parts, and two, a girl that has slept with who knows how many guys will not match my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:01 PM
4

That’s just what insecure women who don’t dare to make the first move say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:54 PM
7

What generation are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:53 PM
23

I mean, my female friends started treating me better after I started being more of an asshole. It's hard to argue when you witness stuff like this in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:21 PM
1

Very much. Female friends are far better at helping with emotional stuff, in my experience. Or at the very least are far more open to listening. Also if it wasn't for them, I'd probably be a raging blackpilled misogynyst right now. Currently I just think women are clowns when it comes to dating, and unfortunately their behaviour tracks with that. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:16 PM
2

Considering most of those morons think anything other than a walking corpse is overweight I wouldn't put too much thought into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:57 PM
3

"Short" for non-binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:44 PM
1

Modern feminism, the internet, dating apps. Lots of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:36 PM
1

I'm asking myself the same question. But the answer is something neither of us will like. In the past there was a reason - either resources, safety or even love and companionship which I witness every day in my parents and grandparents. But in this new internet age there's no reason. Men are utterly worthless to women beyond the rich dudes used for resources and the hot dudes used as glorified sex toys. The few outlier relationships that exist, are so rare that they're barely a statistic. And, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:12 PM
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It's hard to understand because it's stupid. When I'm faced with potential danger I avoid it to the best of my ability. Example: There's a crossing near my work which is so fucking stupidly designed that it's essentially begging the universe to kill you. I've been nearly run over once. Which also could've been avoided if I decided to take the longer path sooner. Now, I take the said longer path. Is my chance of being run over 0? No. But I'm avoiding the danger to the best of my ability. ​ Now le…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:47 AM
2

I admit, when most women believe casual sexy is dangerous and can result in your death, while continuing to do it, and calling all men potential rapists and murderers, while still dating them, it's really hard to empathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:37 AM
48

If douchebagness wasn't rewarded, men would've stopped being douchebags long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:19 AM
1

Absolutely not true. Rarely is a girl ride or die, and she especially wont be if she's a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:21 PM
1

There was a "scientific" paper recently that was gaslighting about this I believe. All the polyamoids jumped at the chance to excuse their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:08 PM
2

Sex already would mean so little to them. Exactly! Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:06 PM
0

Fries your pair bonding ability, makes you no longer think of sex as an intimate activity but rather something closer to a handshake. This happens to high count guys too. Anyone that claims it doesn't is coping hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:03 PM
1

The change happens in both men and women. Men just like to cope that they're immune to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:57 PM
1

Even with that visceral attraction, a slut will highly likely go and find someone else to fuck when things get rough in a relationship, because her pair bonding ability is fried
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:54 PM
1

Actually, there's nothing more loyal than a slut in love. If you count cheating as loyalty, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:40 PM
2

In my experience and the experience of people I know, outside of the occasional outlier, the looks requirements are equal to both, with some small leeway in terms of relationships in case your personality is really likeable to the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:39 PM
0

The problem is that it has been proven that one can math themselves into being attractive. There's a general baseline of what's attractive to most women. Now, there might be outliers that fall for a fat weirdo (I admit I don't believe that's possible, but for some reason I have two exes, so go figure), but by a general rule it's pretty known what women like, and if the guy falls around that baseline in looks, he will have far less problems getting dates than the fat weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:22 AM
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Girls that are relationship oriented are never without a relationship. You at best have a month or two long window before she's snatched up again. If you don't know her in that window, or don't know that she's single, tough luck m8. Also, the same standards for looks apply to both a casual and relationships, relationships just need everything else on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:06 AM
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I'd love to, but all the average girls are taken by above average dudes. Self improvement only goes so far. Edit: edited out a part because mods claim everything not 110% bluepilled is magically incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:49 AM
1

If those women are so completely right uwu as you claim, then why are they calling a significantly above average in all categories guy "average"? What you claim, and what they claim, doesn't track. Either they're attracted to him, which confirms he's above average, or they're lying for clout. There's a reason why "watch what they do, not what they say" is a popular term when describing women's dating preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:48 AM
2

It wasn't obvious he was a scammer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:13 AM
26

what ugly or average guys are doing Being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:00 AM
1

The weebs usually have an asian fetish And also me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:33 AM
4

based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:30 AM
1

It has been my experience aswell. The only thing "going outside" did was bring me closer to the blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:27 AM
1

I mean a cocaine habit easy to get, the rest not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:21 AM
1

Nah. That was a red flag even in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:19 AM
2

I had more success being myself than pretending to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:18 AM
1

Hey at least you finally admit that I'm right. Progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:14 AM
1

Hey, believe what you want, you and I both know the truth, you just don't like the truth and prefer to pretend it isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:08 PM
1

My bad, misread. Still though, he's above average by most metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:37 PM
1

Yeah, I'm sure their attraction has nothing to do with the fact that he's: - Tall - Rich - Relatively good looking and in shape - Is in a career that requires high charisma He's just a funny lil average guy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:35 PM
1

Did you read the title?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:28 PM
6

- Men not being able to accept no. - Incels that think enslaving women will solve their issue. - Men that like Clown&Circus or Andrew Tate. - Men that hate women and still want to be with them. The list goes on, but these are off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:53 PM
1

6'3 average Delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:34 PM
1

"hurr durr you're right but you're a man so you're mansplaining" You can't unironically think that women would fawn over him if he was actually ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:33 PM
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Women can find a guy to fuck within seconds of looking for it Men, unless they look like a "chad", aren't going to have near as much success, if any
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:16 PM
5

How
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:12 PM
6

I s2g y'all want to assign online dating homework to women who aren't hard-up enough to care. You literally just proved his point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:40 PM
1

0%. I like what I like, and you can't gaslight me into liking or not liking anything else. It helps that my taste is extremely varied though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:36 PM
35

Break up. Non-monogamy is a losing game for men, and even if it wasn't I'm not interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:31 PM
11

Oh my sweet summer child...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:31 PM
1

I mean that many breakups are also a red flag, and low n-count men are better off staying away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:25 PM
2

Women also reproduce with men that mistreat them and are criminals, so this doesn't hold water. They are biologically better, not socially better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:14 PM
2

Some women do have issues with male vulnerability. More like most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:11 PM
2

To be fair Clown&Circus also bring on the lowest tier dregs to their podcast which you just can't take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:09 PM
0

The problem is that they're ignoring the actual reasons he gets so much interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:03 PM
1

The lie is that he's considered "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:58 PM
4

I’ve heard guys say “cheating” isn’t disloyalty, but leaving is. Cheating is always disloyalty. It's outright betrayal. Leaving depends. Leaving because another guy is better, while not betrayal in and off itself, is still in a way disloyal. Sounds to me like you're bundling loyalty into consideration, which is fine, and I'm inclined to agree to an extent. The thing is, loyalty is consistent in it's application. Consideration is malleable. To go back to my example (mostly because I'm too lazy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:21 AM
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On the contrary, the people that don't value loyalty and honor are the ones that need to work on themselves. My word has weight precisely because I try and keep my promises to the best of my ability. That includes relationships. You could offer me billions upon billions of dollars to cheat in a relationship, and it wouldn't happen. I expect the same kind of loyalty from the person I'm going to end up dating. Being considerate, on the other hand, doesn't hold that much value. Because one can argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:56 PM
4

One of the talents I have is finding new lows in comedy so, believe me, it can always get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:22 PM
8

i'm already overusing "I'm going to powder my nose" and "I'm going to take a bump of coke", I need something new to overuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:18 PM
1

It is. Especially with economy in shambles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:16 PM
8

Should've told her to call you "Father".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:13 PM
3

He left a space before his punctuations “how’s your day ?” Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:13 PM
7

I doubt a guy would be phased by that. Go with "moids".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:10 PM
6

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:07 PM
5

I guess one benefit of being unattractive is that I'll never have to deal with something like that, sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:04 PM
15

Called going to the bathroom “shaking hands with the bartender”. Every single time. I'm going to use and abuse that line. A girl I was recently with, it's not so much what she did but, she has a big mouth and it reminds me of this. She's actually very nice and fun to hang out with but I just... can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:01 PM
1

It's just a bus ride away Airbus, that is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:55 PM
1

Not too far, I'm in the Balkans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:51 PM
1

I wish we had snow. Haven't had a white Christmas in years. I miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:45 PM
3

That's because the friends first "approach" never works. The only time being friends first works if both parties are actually friends and attraction grows. Which isn't an "approach".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:39 PM
2

I mean reddit is trash advice regardless of what side of the "pill" fence you sit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:23 PM
1

Imagine if you used critical sense to produce an actual counter argument than "dese men bad >:(".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:03 PM
1

Alright, then what's the point of talking about anything on the internet if nothing is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:58 PM
2

You're right, time to close the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:58 PM
1

Imagine if you actually read the entirety of what I wrote instead of trying to argue halfway through.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:57 PM
2

You do realize we're on the internet, on a dating subreddit, which has similar ones in the sidebar, right? Where do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:36 PM
1

I mean, sounds to me like you're both ego trophies for eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:32 PM
1

Hey, I'm sure the stories of thousands upon thousands of men are all lies and you're the one that has it right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:29 PM
1

I didn't think I'd get this far so uhh... nice weather we're having?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:27 PM
1

Not really a requirement, but I prefer women around my height (5'7) Logistics surrounding the devil's tango are much easier to manage that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:25 PM
6

Same It's also why I consider women's standards to be clown tier
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:21 PM
4

Not every, but plenty enough do for it to be considered a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:19 PM
2

To me? None because I don't get any But I've read and heard plenty of stories
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:18 PM
1

Finally, a fellow man of culture
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:07 PM
4

Don't worry it didn't get popular In my experience, any time a woman claims they like a "dad bod" it's basically just a fit guy without visible abs. And with any woman that's dating a guy with a dad bod for some reason, I can 110% guarantee you, if that dude got ripped, the girl would be hunting him from room to room like it's Alien. The thirst would skyrocket. Source: have an actual dad bod, working on removing it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:04 PM
2

Hello there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:58 PM
1

The ever expanding list of the traits I should like but either find uninteresting or disgusting: - Submissive - Dumb, or worse, playing dumb - Big lips - Instagram model types - Big and/or fake tits - Lots of makeup - Skinny, but that's mostly because men became moronic and anything that isn't basically a skeleton is now considered fat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:51 PM
1

It is important. But people aren't entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:37 PM
4

So why dangle it like a set of shiny keys instead of breaking it off and fucking the one you actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:33 PM
1

Uhh, no. Monkey brain likes women. Monkey brain wants more women. It's that simple. GETTING that is what requires status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:24 PM
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I mean considering how many women actively use it as such, and considering that only 20-30% of men are actually considered attractive, or attractive enough, is it really suprising that so many men don't believe women actually like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:19 PM
5

Dude looks like he's gonna make his family into future missing persons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:14 PM
3

That's too bad, because we're splitting regardless. No free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:04 PM
1

The study they cite is from 2016, though. I'm pretty sure the study on ~30 percent of men being sexless is more recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:54 AM
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I think you're the outlier here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:21 PM
1

None of those generations had the internet ravaging their society, did they though? This is yet untreaded ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:18 PM
1

Replying cause I'm curious aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:14 PM
1

Maybe in the past. Unfortunately this is a new age. The amount of men being "leftover" is increasing significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:11 PM
1

Most dudes either get a gf or become blackpilled instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:05 PM
3

I’m not diagnosed yet but highly suspect that I’m on the spectrum because I tick lots of boxes. Check. Was talking to an autistic friend I met recently and we share an eerie amount of behaviours. ​ weird posture and body language (ofc, some might interpret that as me being insecure) Check Add to this not understanding their body language, or understanding it, but social anxiety and overthinking stopping me from doing anything ​ talking about my special interests at length Check ​ the conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:25 AM
2

You can't. Anyone that says or thinks you can is unironically unintelligent and needs to start accepting reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:06 AM
0

Not taking no for an answer. If she says no, it fucking means no. Leave. If she's just playing some clown tier games, you're better of without her anyway. As far as my red flags, probably the biggest one currently is that I'm contextually misogynistic, specifically in the context of dating. Outside of that, I'm pretty chill with women, and somehow managed to get to a point where more than 50% of my friends are female. Clown world, I tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:24 PM
1

Interesting. Seems like the women want to lock you down so they don't want to risk losing you for a little fun. Out of curiosity, how rich are you? Ballpark it, no need to go into detail. And yeah, as soon as a girl even thinks of thinking about threesomes or cucking me, it's over. Hoes get the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:15 PM
0

Men need to give up on women the way women have given up on men It's the only way to get a full reset and start from scratch Unfortunately, nature gave us two heads and the smaller one tends to do more of the "thinking", so that's never going to happen So, nothing Best case scenario, society collapses and a pseudo-reset happens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:11 PM
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27/m Impossible Firstly, I despise casual sex and hookup culture But, if we say for a moment I didn't, I'm still not attractive enough by women's standards to get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:03 PM
1

This reads like a shitpost Honestly it seems like the only reason women like you is because you let them fuck other dudes Not hating, you do you, but I prefer my monogamy monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:59 PM
3

So ~20% of men are useful to them. Big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:43 PM
3

literally)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:36 PM
2

I don't care about evolving, I care about having a partner in life. Evolution can shove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:34 PM
2

I was aiming for introverted and not wanting to go out constantly, but sure that works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:02 AM
2

True, but when you do everything right and still lose, you can't blame s guy for feeling just a bit annoyred.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:00 AM
4

If only more girls were like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:03 PM
1

This feels like it was written by me. We're in the same boat brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:01 PM
2

Thing is, it's a vicious cycle. Guys get rejected for their height and become bitter. They can't fathom a girl actually liking them despite it, especially if she's taller. The girl gets hurt by short guys and becomes bitter towards them. She rejects guys over their height. Not saying it's your job to break it, just an interesting observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:58 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:48 PM
5

I'm beggining to hate women in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:47 PM
2

I'm old fashioned. I'm not ready to just throw the towel in when things get hard. Plus I truly truly loved the woman. She was almost literally my dream girl, at least when I met her. The girl she turned into wouldn't even get a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:17 AM
1

What I believe happened is that she was in love with a version of me in her head. The more she realized I was never going to be that person, the less she loved me. Realizing she could get someone similar to me in a way better physical form just sped up what was perhaps inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:14 AM
1

That does actually make me feel a little better. Hopefully it'll take less than 4 years though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:11 AM
3

Thing is, that was mostly a downward spiral that happened in the last 6 months. The year and a half before that, we were both broke ass and jobless, and it was the best time I've ever had. You know all that lovey-dovey fantasy bullshit the bluepill describes relationships as? It was basically that. Our long term goals, dreams, damn near everything was similar, while our personalities were just different enough to keep it interesting. Back then she seemed to be every man's dream, the ride-or-die …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:42 AM
1

Hopefully. We'll see. It's been a year and 2 months and I don't think I'm still completely over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:32 AM
1

It was brutal. My first relationship was eye opening, but this was mind opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:25 AM
3

Don't get me wrong, it's fine if you worry, but girls tend to take it too close to heart, in a way? It's hard to explain without outright pointing to an example, but most men, who haven't been exceptionally traumatised (which is a whole nother can of worms), have been battling their demons for most of their life. We need you to be in our corner, not try and fight them for us. Also, I think another problem is that men's emotions in general are fairly explosive, even if the man is in control of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:02 PM
4

I wasn't ambitious enough, despite: - Working an internship that paid better than her job - Working on my Master's degree - Pursuing several creative hobbies, mainly writing and making music Also, I wasn't hanging out with her enough despite her schedule being fucked, constantly switching, and any day we managed to both kind of fit into eachother's schedule, she already made plans with her friends. On top of that she expected a constant shower of gifts. It had to be a new gift every time. But no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:30 PM
7

That what happens when men are actively discouraged from opening up. When we trust you enough to fully open up, you get the whole tidal wave. Work stress is also generally irrelevant to us generally, as in we expect to deal with that bs, it's all that deeper shit that's causing the ever-festering mental illnesses. But the thing I don't think women understand is that we don't need you to bear the burden. It's our cross to carry. All we need is encouragement and trust. If we know you're there for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:35 PM
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27 Had my first love at 19. She cheated on me. Met the love of my life a few years later. She left me last year for absolute clown tier reasons. Dating is a losing game for us, stay far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:28 PM
2

Can confirm, am both. Gotta fake it 'til you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:23 PM
1

Disagreeing with women is misogyny now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:19 PM
-1

False. Not to mention, women that are easygoing and low maintenance don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:16 PM
5

Men shot themselves in dick re/ casual sex. Not really, because most men couldn't get it either way. People that engage in casual are "damaged" when looking from the standpoint of wanting a relationship. And I say people, because men like to pretend it doesn't affect them. It does. Intersex relations would benefit heavily from everyone being a lot less promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:48 PM
3

Nice try fedboy.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/22 02:53 PM
2

For You Page
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:24 PM
1

That's fair. But people you can trust to have your back are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:58 PM
1

Exactly. I'm entering a relationship because I like to and want to be with that person, not to avoid them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:55 PM
1

There's a colossal difference between outright trying to destroy people of colour, and simply avoiding them due to negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:54 PM
1

That's not a relationship, that's a fuckbuddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:51 PM
2

Except it can't be a complement if you don't have time for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:35 PM
1

So being a fuckboy or disliking people is now the same as beating the life out of a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:34 PM
3

Difference is, men find a drastically higher range of women pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:56 PM
2

does not expect her to be available frequently So then what's the point of the fucking relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:52 PM
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There's a big difference if the person is actively damaging your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:42 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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