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It's the exact same take that I have. Learned from my first relationship that some women have never heard "no" in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:56 PM
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I had not actually been staring at her. In fact, i wasn't paying any attention to this presentation and had been daydreaming. My eyes, although in the general direction of the presenter, were aimed at almost ceiling level (and take into consideration that she is short). As I'm daydreaming, I feel this presence looking directly at me. I look down and see that she is staring at me and I give this look of confusion. I look to my left and right, like wtf is going on? I'm gonna say that that gesture …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:21 PM
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I was literally called creepy in front of everyone in class for accidentally making eye contact with some girl back in high school. I was just minding my own business. Edit: To make matters worse, the girl in question was literally giving a presentation to the class when I was apparently "staring" at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:59 PM
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Can you tell me what these social benefits are?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:34 PM
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When a doctor buys himself a Porsche, does this raise his socioeconomic status? Or is the Porsche a product of already achieving his socioeconomic status? Do men chase women to raise their socioeconomic status? Or do men work on themselves and the women come as a byproduct?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:47 AM
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Which is what some, if not the majority of men value most in the world. Do I need to point you in the direction of politicians and Hollywood for a primer? You know this. You know good and goddamn well what a “trophy wife” is for, and you chose that word with forethought. Yes to all this. I don’t, and I’ve been surprised by the number of men here, including a couple mods, who admit that the approval and “respect” of other men with regards to their partners matters more than the partners themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:20 AM
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I do not have the answers but I do have questions. In your opinion, do you believe that dating a more attractive woman has a genuine impact on the man's life? How does the compare to how a dating a richer man might impact a woman's life? My impression is that men can't really be hypergamous to any meaningful degree simply by going for a woman with good looks. There is a real power that money and status intrinsically hold in it's ability to influence others, create opportunities and alter the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:21 AM
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I think the difference is that hypergamy implies a upward change in socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:49 AM
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You're misunderstanding it. It's not that the unattractive person is hiding their true nature; it's that they are more likely to reflect on their actions and reevaluate her way of thinking in that long time period in between relationships. Plus, the weight of each break up is greater to an unattractive person since it's rarer to find love. More likely to provoke an introspective response. If someone can monkey branch as soon as something negative happens in a relationship, she'll always have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:25 AM
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whoever does the asking out should pay!” and then a couple of questions later “number of times women have done any asking out? basically zero” That was my favorite takeaway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:41 PM
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"All men bad" essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:34 PM
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Quick summary?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:44 AM
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But didn't Travis land Kylie wayyy before the Astroworld incident? Or was Travis a piece of shit before then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:00 AM
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I've been seeing this in my life like crazy. Every single thing I said is completely true. Just to add, it can be hard to make new types of friends from the ones you already know and they may influence you in ways that hold you can from improving. Their shittiness can become your norm and that norm reflects back onto you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:07 AM
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Everybody has somebody that look down upon and his statement that trans, fat, and OF women receive a lack of respect from men cannot and should not be used to generalize men's respect for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:20 PM
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but i think that every guy has a certain type of women (Fat, trans, OF, take your pick) that he just straight up thinks are inferior. This is not a meaningful statement. Most women have a certain type of men that they see as interior, too. E.g., friendless, virgin, low-salaried, short, take your pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:52 PM
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Plus, you get points for being the boyfriend everybody wants. Assuming you're attractive too, others will look at you like you can do so much better yet you picked her and treat her like the most beautiful woman in the world. You'll make other women envious of that treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:04 PM
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This is just such an interesting take (that I don't agree with). So what makes you happy? Is simply having a loyal housewife enough to keep you satisfied? And what does it mean to have her be in complete control of the money? If you are responsible for making money but she's in control of finances, how would you go about budgeting, investing, etc which involve spending money? Would you let her control that if you were the more financially literate of the two? Have you employed this dynamic into …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:25 AM
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I beleive men should make all the money, and the woman should control it all Can you explain why you believe this is the ideal dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:06 AM
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A girl was going off on me for respecting parking rules at my school. I left class to move my car to student parking after I temporarily parked somewhere else just to get to class on time. I usually follow the rules anyway and there was also the risk of my car getting towed. I don't why she'd be turned off by that especially when it didn't effect her in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:53 AM
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I understand this so much. But other people struggle to see outside their perspective because socialization is such a basic thing that was given to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:35 AM
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A nice guy with no backbone. No sense in assertiveness. Can't stand up for himself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:51 AM
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It's a transaction. Producer: "Obtain as much money as possible while giving as little as possible." Consumer: "Obtain the best quality/quantity of their goods while paying as little as possible" One needs wants to maximize profit. The other wants the best bang for their buck. It's not a contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:37 PM
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I didn't know feminists encouraged baby momma culture. But yeah, I'm really tired of seeing people have children without first getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:26 PM
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Can you go more in depth on what the princess treatment entails? Also, in what way would you ideally treat your partner in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:14 PM
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2 different guys 2-3 months apart is a pretty short time span imo. I would argue, as a woman you don't even need to have guys lined up because it's just that easy. What's your bodycount total?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:26 AM
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Nvm, you're annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:01 PM
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HOW OLD ARE YOU????????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:58 PM
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Your age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:37 PM
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Well are you gonna give me an answer?????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:23 AM
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Can we get a sense of how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:40 AM
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It's easier for women to obtain sex than it is to obtain commitment from a Chad. Plus, relationships generally imply 1 man for 1 woman, meaning women are in competition to get these guys since they're a scarcity. Casual sex can have several women for each Chad. Women can share these Chads casually. Lowering standards by dating regular dudes is about being realistic in terms of supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:47 PM
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Is there such thing as ethical prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:20 AM
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Do you have a limit? Like, could you date a Lizzo type girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:23 PM
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At what point does "chubby" become fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:21 AM
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Using the girl from your example. I can see some beauty in her (but I don't really think she has an attractive face). I would never date her or claim her as mine in any way publicly. Would I fuck her? Maybe once for the curiosity and I'd see how I feel about it. At her size, she probably looks worse with her clothes off with all her fat relaxed and hanging. But even then, she'd probably have to approach me because I'm not wasting my time chasing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:18 AM
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The truth is, socializing is like an online multiplayer game. If you're inexperienced and you play an unranked match with EVERYBODY, you'll get slaughtered. You need to play ranked matches to find people at your skill level, then you gradually improve. Where do you find people with low social skills, find nerdy social events. Maybe a local card game shop where they play Yu-Gi-Oh or Magic the Gathering. Maybe a convention. Even if you find people there who have great social skills, that tend to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:06 AM
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Depression and misanthropy led to nihilism and hedonism, thereby eliminating that rigid sense of "should/shouldn't" from my thinking. It wasn't exactly a change I made on purpose but I'm glad with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:02 AM
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You've described how I used to think. It's weird because now I see how some of my friends are that way and it's kinda annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:35 AM
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https://metro.co.uk/2020/06/25/pride-week-homelessness-sleeping-tinder-dates-12877534/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:33 AM
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Literally, I see all the time how women on dating apps will use a man to pay her bills. Sometimes, they'll be shockingly open about it. Listen to what men say about their real experiences instead of assuming they're lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:29 AM
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I dont know any men who are falling over themselves to take in random homeless women off the street He said seduce a man to PREVENT from becoming homeless. It's not about men taking random homeless women off the street. It's about men saving them BEFORE they become homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:17 AM
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Agreed. The less kind I am, the more people like me. That goes for friendships as well including with men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:49 PM
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Although it doesn't answer your question, I don't see the purpose of even determining what a 10 is. People have different tastes and pretty much nobody guy gets anywhere near their 10s. But Emma Watson is a figure of femininity, intelligence and class. Her appeal is far more than just her looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:44 AM
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Yes, I am a guy. I wouldn't exactly say I agreed for the "thrill" of it being casual/fwb. But I do believe I have a casual mindset towards sex. I've never looked at sex as something that needs to be shared with only someone special (although I'd still have a preference for my partner to be someone I'm close to). I think at that time, I would've fucked any girl that wasn't completely repulsive to look at because why not? I don't consider myself picky. And since women are the picky gatekeepers to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:18 AM
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My ex-fwb was somebody who I never considered sexually. We were simply friends who eventually became incredible emotionally intimate. We were great friends with each other and then we had sex. Her attention grew on me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:54 AM
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What changed? How is it worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:33 AM
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Remember, somebody can be into fitness while also being artistic but I think I know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 12:32 AM
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So do I buddy. Maybe we can switch off girlfriends every other week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:26 PM
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You're speaking a lot about what CAN occur. Yes, of course these things CAN happen but we need to operate in terms of probability, not possibility. Taking people of the people who raised you is not considered unreasonable however, that doesn't make it ideal. Trust me when I say that many people DON'T WANT YOU LIVE WITH IN-LAWS. People fall in love with the individual they're in a relationship with, not their family. Sure, there's the idea of "marrying into the family" and I understand that a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:04 PM
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Cool you (person X) managed to get both women (Y and Z) under one rooftop. People want to live with people they love. They Y and Z both love you but can you really get Y and Z to love each other? It's really no different from a man who persists that he lives with his college roommate. Do you really think a woman would want a man with a roommate that she'd have to share living space with more than a man with his own place? In other for this sort of situation to really sound attractive to women, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:52 PM
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If conflict were to occur between both of the man's partners or if both were in a separate emergency and the man could only be with one, each woman would expect the man to be there for them but he can't prioritize both. The women want someone who is reliable, not somebody they have to share 50% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:43 PM
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Would be kinda nice to never see an ugly person ever again, would'nt it? Would you fuck a ghost if you can still feel her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:06 PM
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Ie: if I’m not attracted to her, she may as well not exist. Are you open to dating someone who is simply average in beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 09:52 PM
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Are women “alphas” and “betas” to you TRP subscribers? I'm not a TRP subscriber. I didn't even know that you were a woman when I asked. I just thought it was ironic that you made that statement about people's online name being a reflection of themselves. So the user name you picked for yourself to frame your online presence is, in fact, the opposite of who you are IRL? Interesting…… So I was curious if you were simply unaware of what you would be implying about yourself. And if you were aware, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:38 AM
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Do you consider yourself a beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:14 AM
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Your ex sounds terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:06 PM
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"woc"? Or specifically black? Unless you live in a super duper (maybe evangelical) white neighborhood, I find it hard to believe a Latina or Asian woman seriously shares that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:49 PM
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This is the best response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:35 PM
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My sister reinforces stereotypes. A suburban black woman who wants a 6'3" white man who makes 6 figures. Also never takes accountability for her actions. Was being used by a guy AND SHE KNEW THIS, yet stuck around anyway for the longest time because why? Idk, but she proved she's attracted to a player who's obviously not the committed, genuinely nice guy type. But guess what? "MEN ARE TRASH", right? Obviously, it can't be observation bias from only choosing a certain type of guy... No, it can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:06 PM
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[Women] are all going to have human female biology which is going to affect your experience and perception. You just gave someone gender dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:59 PM
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Nowhere in here did I claim that I am the sole arbiter of what is moral or immoral I know. Neither did I. I was asked to defend a personal preference, and that is what I did. I am going to answer on the basis of my worldview accordingly. Your preference is pretty straightforward and obvious. Of course if you compare a past of prostitute sex vs a past of non-transactional sex, any woman would pick the man with the latter. But the OP did not ask for a preference (considering how obvious the choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:50 AM
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My post was not in response to why you'd rather have virgin who holds sex sacredly. It was specifically in response to the part where you appear to paint clients of prostitution as immoral. But if we want to address your preference, have you considered why somebody may consider paying for sex? Just because somebody has a past of transactional sex, that doesn't mean that he can only have transactional sex within an actual relationship. If anything, lots of clients come as a result of not having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:01 AM
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Okay, but will you address my other points? Sex workers aren't necessarily desperate or vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:02 AM
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But doesn't your perspective add to the stigma of sex work? Is it really fair to act like all prostitution is in desperation? In today's age, I find that hard to believe. Maybe that's true with roadside prostitutes but not as much as with internet prostitutes. Seems like these days, many sex workers genuinely enjoy their job. Especially since not everybody sees sex as some horrible degrading thing. It's kinda ridiculous to even compare Squid Games and prostitution. Sex is harmless so long as it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:49 AM
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What do you consider high?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:12 AM
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Or in a perfect world the unsirable men dont exist so there is no probleem Easy there, Thanos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:48 AM
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That's sometimes true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:57 PM
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Hmm... Well, men can't actually see a woman's self-esteem. They can only see how a woman outwardly expresses herself which is influenced by her self-esteem. I hope I'm making sense. What do you think is actually a reasonable expression of one's self-esteem and what do you think is men's idea of a reasonable expression of a woman's self-esteem? I think I have an answer to the latter but I'd like to know your answer first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:48 PM
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While this doesn't always happen, the only problem I have with women with high self-esteems are when it creates unrealistic expectations and delusions. Nobody likes a person with an overly high sense of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:33 PM
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Tbh, I agree that he specifically is probably low value. I don't know the regulars on this sub and even I thought he was kinda sus in the first place but now I randomly stumbled across racist comments of his in another post. But I still believe it's possible that there are some "high value men" in hear. Of course, in far fewer numbers than the bitter degenerate failures but still are there either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:32 AM
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why do you I never said anything about my value and I hope you consider while reading this that I'm not even that red pilled. I see some ugly, disgusting guys in relationships. Absolute low-class bums can also find girlfriends. The biggest difference I see between guys who can't get in relationships and guys who can are their personalities. or the guy above argue that y’all are not losers To invalidate your false statement that no high value man would comment on purple pill debate. instead of ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:42 PM
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I didn't have a professional photoshoot but started using a my sister's high quality camera for pictures. Made sure to dress well and to have nice, well-lit backgrounds. Number of likes shot up quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:20 PM
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No guy I know irl (high value or not) spends their time on purple pill debates or seeking similar content. Therefore, there's not much info to extract at all involving that. And the point of his comment was not to merely "convince people he's the shit". Let's not do that reductive nonsense. even if he secretly holds TRP viewpoints If he SECRETLY holds TRP viewpoints then how would you know he doesn't argue with people on the internet about red pill ideas. Even if you know he holds TRP beliefs, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:10 PM
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She basically just said "either I'm right or I'm right." Dafuq is wrong with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:50 PM
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This comment is so unbelievably stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:46 PM
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My friend is promiscuous. Her bf is very tame. They work out well because he can detach sex from love. So long as he doesn't have an issue with her having sex with others, their differences don't matter. In fact, the girl appreciates him even more because he allows her to have sex with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:58 PM
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They're looking for compatibility. That's literally all that matters. Compatibility doesn't necessarily mean that they exhibit similar traits. I just used that as an example. A dominant woman might want a submissive man. There's no hate on dominant men. It's not a higher or lower standard. They're both respectable. They're just different and therefore appeal to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:40 PM
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Different people have varying levels of promiscuity and different perceptions of sex and relationships that correlate to it. At peak promiscuity, a man can separate sex from emotions both when he or his (serious) girlfriend/wife is having sex with someone outside the relationship. This is the type of person who would be most open to dating a "slut". Most men who fuck sluts may be promiscuous to some degree but only to the extent that this could only occur in a casual setting, never with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:58 AM
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If you didn't find promiscuity shameful, it wouldn't factor into your view of her at all or impact your interest or lack thereof. There are lots of non-shameful things that factor into a person's interest. Some people are really really into fitness. That's cool of them to have that type of lifestyle but if a girl thinks they wouldn't be compatible with a person like that, then it's worth considering. They might be best with another person who's into that lifestyle. Similarly, a promiscuous perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:32 PM
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r/whoosh ? I can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:12 AM
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I can't stop imagining a tall fat man's sweaty tits in a woman's face during missionary....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:17 PM
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I believe all animals are objectively equal. It's an unorthodox belief but that's my belief. I also don't think natural selection factors into objective superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:42 PM
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Women and men have same average IQ but men's IQ has more spread. The smartest people are mostly men but so are the dumbest. And at least in the US, there are more female college students than male. Female students have become the majority of medical students too in the past 5 years. Women also have a social advantage over men too. Probably because of communication skills, I tend to be closer to my female friends than male. It's mostly just that men are stronger than women. But I as a man don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:25 PM
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Reddit only knows extremes. Doesn't matter the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:44 PM
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Your point stands but there's one thing that I'll add. So long as a woman is notices this attachment and flirtiness from the guy, she may perceive it that he took her friendliness as romantic interest even when untrue. Sometimes it's not that men think that the woman's interested. But being the recipient of female friendliness can make said person attached to the friendly woman. The love alone that he develops acts as a driving force for the man to romantically pursue the woman even if he isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:07 PM
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Any stories of awkward situations at comicon?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:33 PM
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That's fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:28 PM
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In a relationship, personality>looks>sexual skill. In a sexual context context, skill>looks so long as I'm still at least the slightest bit attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:31 PM
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How old were you and him when he asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:20 AM
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As a man, pump and dump never made sense to me. If anything (as my last post mentioned), I'd expect someone who "only wanted sex" to keep his access to sex open (by staying with her) assuming he doesn't have sex often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:53 AM
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Maybe a man should be doing the work DURING the pregnancy. But it sounds ridiculous if that's being used as justification for inequality for the next however many decades a couple is together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:11 AM
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Going to the gym. Or even cooperating in a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:09 PM
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Yet you didn't even answer anything yourself.... Anyway, it's not gloating. It wasn't a "haha, gotcha" moment. I know you have an answer for everything (flawed or not). I'm just surprised nobody had answered his single-sentence question yet. Perhaps you thought it was gloating because I called the question simple. Well, yes. That's exactly what I meant. The question is simple (I never said anything about the answer). Most people post paragraphs of nonsense. This was just a single sentence. I may…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:27 AM
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Ugh, Answering questions with another question is so 2004... Anyway, idk why you're asking me. I'm just here to observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:16 AM
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Is there not middle ground between "pumping and dumping" and not wanting to wait months to be intimate with a partner? Younger people don't tend to wait these days, most women in long term relationships would have had sex relatively early. Misandrists prefer to assume the worst in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:38 AM
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Simple question. Important yet unanswered...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:31 AM
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I think it goes both ways actually but in different ways. A man with only one female friend will see this woman as his only outlet for relationship baggage. So he will tell you EVERYTHING going back from his childhood to the present. Women, as I see it, are just more open and detail-oriented in general (this is probably going to sound sexist). Thinking about some of my female friends and my sister, I know that can really go on and on and on about stuff. Sometimes after 20 minutes, I wonder if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:25 PM
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Turns out I'm a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 09:00 PM
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The way I see it though is that there has to be some degree of want for there to be a would no pun intended. Yes and no. Let's say. Let's say desire and aversion are quantifiable on a scale from negative infinity to positive infinity. Anything negative is an aversion while anything positive is a desire. Zero is neutral. If you look at "sex with friends" as a single thing, then yes. It appears that I'd feel eagerness towards acting upon it. Let's assign +2 points for "sex with friends". But when …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:06 AM
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The fact that you don't get why someone would be hurt to know their friend never wanted to be their friend but rather a relationship or sex partner, in my opinion, isn't a good thing But I do understand. It would feel like everything the guy did was so he can have sex with you. It feels like he doesn't like you for you. It feels like he likes you for your body. But I literally do want to be their friend even if this friendship is in the more casual non-close form. For some reason you keep reduci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:59 AM
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But do they feel that way about you? At least two of my female friends know I'd have sex with them. One of them I did have sex with. For many of your friends, it would make them uncomfortable to know that you would take the chance to have sex with them. And this possibility is why most my female friends don't know. It’s less about omg you think about them sexually and more about not being on the same page. If what you're saying is it's wrong for me to know that I'd have sex with them without eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:07 AM
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You're not even trying. I'm not reading past paragraph 4. I can have sex with someone, acknowledge that they're humans with emotions I consider, without feeling attached to them in any other way than I would any male friends. You don't even know what misogyny is. Had I been bisexual, I'd have sex with male and female friends. I guess I'd be a full on misanthrope. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:35 AM
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Has a woman ever explained why she is treating you differently? As some of the other guys have mentioned with their experiences, it was because she wanted it to be special. Or that I was special. Something of that sort. A lot of her attachment to me I attribute to me listening and understanding her when nobody else could. I also helped her understand herself. So I kinda did feel as if I was punished for treating her well. Besides being tall and black (which she's into), I don't think I was that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:28 AM
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Here's an example. I don't think about sex with any of my female friends. I'm not sexualizing them. But if the opportunity presented itself, I'd still have sex with them. Why? It's essentially enhanced masturbation. Pussy feels better than a hand. I will sexualize them specifically and become erect in the moment of sex. But otherwise, I'm not thinking about sex with them and I can carry on a platonic friendship with them. The thing is I can also get erect and feel sexual while masturbating and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:00 PM
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A lot of other responses to your comment seem to indicate that women like chad but don't like the relationship guy. Or that women should be giving sex to the relationship guy if they're giving it to chad. I think I can understand why a woman might be easy with chad when they're not with the relationship guy. I think it's perfectly reasonable to have a different mindset going into relationships with different types of people since different people have different things to offer. So I'm not going …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:22 PM
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Do you think it would be beneficial if women entered all friendships with men with the mindset that even if the guy only intends to be friendly with her, he'd still be at least willing to have sex with her given the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:36 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:28 PM
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I don't think it's just the apex though. If a beta looking for love is rarely getting sex and just happens to get lucky via a relationship with a partner they don't love, I think many men would stay just for the sex. Might as well juice the most of a situation, right? Because once it's over, their undesirable selves are remaining sexless indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:54 PM
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The reason why I settled with my conclusion is because it accounts for people who aren't the apex. I am definitely not a top dog. Because sex wasn't readily available, I stayed for sex. There's no way I would've continued with her had sex been abundant for me. I see this happen when many other betas too. My virgin friends also want love yet try to use any leverage they have with female friends (that they have no romantic interest for currently but not initially) to try and get sex from them. I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:39 PM
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I feel a desire for one currently. I'm self-aware enough for that. Maybe I'll regret entering a relationship later. Maybe I'll hate the idea of relationships as a whole later. But rn, it's a feeling that I continue to feel today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:14 PM
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Well, vocal minorities exist in a lot of online communities. Redpill appears stronger and more widespread online than it actually is irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:11 PM
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Have you ever had "successes" in dating that felt natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:05 PM
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Personally, I don't think online vocal redpill men represent men in general. I just don't see how they invalidate how pretty much all the men I encounter want relationships. But I'm also young so I wonder if the desire for love just disappears with age. And yes, this is my first post. I do recognize your username though. See it on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:33 AM
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I believe in love and still desire it. I just don't find it realistic that I'll find a "soulmate" who I'll love and will love me back for the rest of my life. So currently I'm not super lonely but only because I've already kinda accepted lifelong singlehood as my reality. As for your theory, I feel like I get what you're saying. From my experiences alone (which isn't much), it can kinda feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:52 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with your thinking. Nothing about your post really contradicts my post. My post is simply about how much love is important to men. It's not really about the ethics of hiding the truth. And I absolutely agree, I would be pissed if I paid for a girl who didn't see anything with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:37 AM
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No lie, sounds kinda interesting. If you got any book recommendations I'm all ears. Anyways, I agree with the love wasn't meant for life thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:50 AM
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If you're the person in your profile pic, then you're far from ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:23 AM
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Take into consideration that any of these stores with super small men's sections easily could just have the store targeted entirely to women. Nobody would have a problem with it. In fact, they'd receiving less complaints by not having a men's section than by having only a small one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 04:41 AM
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Isn't this more related to capitalism? Supply and demand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/21 08:51 PM
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Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:00 PM
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But do you think you do more than the average woman? Because I sure think so. And if you do do more than average, then he's not talking about you. So your routine doesn't really invalidate anything he said. My ex-fwb took birth control pills and that's it. No shaving, bleaching, trimming, stretching, etc. Sometimes stingy about oral and never rode. Only starfished. I'm not saying this is the average woman but if average is anything similar, I can see why men would complain. Edit: Also, she says …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:35 PM
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