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| 61 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity? | Discussion | FoxCQC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 11 | Ladies, would you more intrigued by a potential guy to date if your guy acquaintances or lady acquaintances vouched for them? | Question For Women | FoxCQC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 01:05 AM |
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| 6 | I am a mother to be in three weeks to a baby boy, and I'm wondering, what is your take on circumcision as a circumcised/uncircumcised man?Don't do it, let him have the right to his body. It's not just a flap of skin it has nerves and blood vessels. It's an archaic practice that needs to stop. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Women say look out for signals to approach, what are the signals?There are no signs. It's all subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.It doesn't give solutions. It just inflates ego and justifies anger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 06:11 AM |
| 6 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Probably because it's becoming a bigger issue and people are scared about the future. They made it though. Education and work don't give their promised rewards. We should just automate everything anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of?I wish men would embrace their feelings more instead of the "alpha male myth" that makes them hate themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:59 PM |
| 4 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?No, if I marry I want to be good friends. A good friend matters a lot more than sex or weight gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?Don't have experience to really know. Sometimes it feels like once a week. Other times multiple times a week. I'm good with just cuddling and talking though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Women develop better social skills, social circles, and it's easier for them to get attention. Most guys have to really work at getting attention and the vast majority of them are not very good at it. A big reason for that is they socialize with sex on their mind. Men are hard wired for going after sex which is turning into a major weakness in our peaceful times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?It's always been a transaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 07:41 PM |
| 8 | So how many sex partners means a woman is "riding a cock carousel"?Whore is just a derogatory term. There is no logic behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?I doubt it I am too shy. On second thought though I am at the point where I care less and less about morals. So maybe I would. The world's kinda eroded my sense of dignity. Might as well get paid for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?The constantly thirsty guys hovering around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violenceSo the things I listed can happen within a dating situation. I got no idea where you're even trying to go with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violenceNothing in this list is exclusive to dating, in this post. Yet the whole post is focused on dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:18 AM |
| 11 | Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violenceI'm answering a question related to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:15 AM |
| 22 | Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violenceWhat about STDs and unwanted pregnancies? Most guys will leave her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?Men can have empathy too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Why do red pilled men attempt to date seriously?Cause the red pill is wrong. These guys still want companionship and deep down they know humanity isn't a monolith. It's just easier to switch off their critical thought for convenient myths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?It'll probably make people more open to different relationships. Men will feel more comfortable being homemakers and women will not mind approaching as much. It'll just be a bigger mix. The traditional roles we try to push are a very modern construct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......These are all very idealistic takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedDating was a late twentieth century fad. People mostly arranged marriages before or met someone who knew their family. Now that the economy is tanking around the world the dating fad is over. Go find someone you can build a life with and tolerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?It certainly can be. There is genuine creepy types though. Yet it also used to shame unattractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:11 AM |
| 9 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyDefinitely the halo effect "The halo effect is also something referred to as the "physical attractiveness stereotype" and the "what is beautiful is also good" principle. Physical appearance is often a major part of the halo effect. People who are considered attractive tend to be rated higher on other positive traits as well." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 9 | Why do people assume that men that don’t get dates are basement dwelling neck beards?They are scared of us. Anyone of them could have been us. You think they did anything through their own efforts? They just had the right looks, right interests, right circumstances to be successful at dating at that time. They have to demonize us because we are a truth they cannot face. That it was all circumstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 05:55 AM |
| 8 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyYou'll see the population decrease. A greater reliance on automation. Maybe more of a push for artificial pregnancy. Like machines that could house a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societythis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men.That was an interesting read. I always thought it'd be fun to surprise my partner with their favorite food from a store. Didn't think some just flat out expect it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is masculinityI agree those are necessary yet they have problems. Wars are typically exploitation of people to claim resources from another group of people. Soldiers are subjected to bad conditions and discarded when no longer useful. Miners are also exploited. Many are exposed to harmful chemicals, high temperatures, and hazardous environments. Many do not see the light of day. We are taught "tough it out" "man up" "thank you for your service" "work hard" yet those in this line of work are hardly appreciated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck is masculinityMasculinity, real men, alpha men is a myth. Perpetuated on young boys and men to condition them for hard labor and war. Live your way and be a good person that's the right way. What's in your heart and your actions are what count. Not a myth that you will never live up to that damages your personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Are most modern women's standards for men too high? Why or why not?I think the only issue I see is some women expecting men to pay for everything or make more money but I think that belief is fading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Intellectual exchange is dead thanks to the influx of social media and communication technology, as a result I expect the worse yet to come out of dating cultureMost of those are cherry picked. You can go to any country and find people who know nothing about geography. Yet let's say one of those people who doesn't know geography is really handy around the house. Would you call them dumb? I sure wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women BOTH hate being equalNot true, I'd happily date a woman greater than me. Ideally someone equal would be best though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 5 | For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn.You really need to study some history. Plenty of women have contributed to society. Women hunted in prehistory. Nuns created art and literature for the church. Plenty worked taking care of cows for maids. That's how the smallpox vaccine was created. Since the milkmaids got cowpox which gave them resistance to smallpox so the first vaccine was created from that idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.What'd I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.If she doesn't text back I take it as a sign she isn't interested and leave her be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] One of the best ways for guys to get better at talking & flirting with women is to talk to women.You talk to them, then what? You got a nice job, house, in shape, make them laugh, give a sense of security, etc? Talking isn't enough. None of what you have is enough. Some got it, some don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What other socially acceptable ways to pickup women?You have to be handsome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Never been able to interpret the feelings correctly or I would have had a relationship. When I read through comments on reddit like r/askwomen it seems like a guy being interested is such an annoyance to women that we are evil for it. So I don't know what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 13 | The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait"for a straight man the purpose of a relationship with a woman is SEX" That's nonsense. I want a connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.I think it's hard on both sides. It's just for different reasons though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?Why even date a girl who isn't a fellow gamer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Most of the issues between men and women can be boiled down to demisexual trait frequency among womenNot really sure I can agree with this. I'd need an emotional bond with a woman before dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Most of the men/boys on this sub need to start lifting and eating healthy. That alone will improve their health tremendously & in the long run help them attract women.I do yoga and tai chi. Never cared much for weights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 12:16 AM |
| 7 | Men who “defend” women in comments on social media and virtue signal by shaming men are only doing it seeking validation and women’s favor, and women do not find this attractive at all despite what they sayI only defend if it seems logical to me. Like when guys think all women don't experience dating problems cause they can get sex anytime they want. Like how is that a good thing? You think a woman wants to just give herself to some stranger? Just an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What is an average guy?It's too subjective to pin down. It means something different for every person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:40 AM |
| 9 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenI agree with dating being a minefield for women. The body of text kind of lost me though. I think a lot of guys look at the fact women can get a lot of attention. What we ignore is how overwhelming this attention can be. Like if I got a 100 DMs after putting up a dating ad saying "hey" "how are you?" "Let's fuck" "you into anal?" I would feel pretty bad also. Then you got guys writing long messages so maybe you'll give him a chance but find out he's just manipulative. Then it keeps happening ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?It's very sad people are conditioned to think that way. It's very kind of you to treat that girl with respect. I don't show off my strength I only use it when necessary. So most of the time I am seem as a soft guy. It's only when someone does something bad will I show my tough side. I got no insecurity of having to "prove" my masculinity. I think the alpha male stereotype is very unhealthy for men and boys. You can be a strong kind person like you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 06:42 AM |
| 22 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?I think it's a great observation. I have a masculine body but I am very polite. I don't show my bad sides to women. I do martial arts but keep it personal. Women have seen me as scary but when they get to know me I am harmless. It's a huge turn off for them. When they think I am scary they either stay away or some get curious. Then they see I'm polite and lose all interest. Usually getting annoyed by me. I'm always just a friend. I'm never seen in a remotely date worthy way. I make friends with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:03 AM |
| 19 | New study on dates shows that men paid for the majority of male-initiated dates (68%), but women or both paid only 33% of the female-initiated dates.Hard agree here. I'd just marry at the courthouse and maybe have a fancy dinner afterwards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.Our society does not value nuturing fatherhood. So brutish men are thought of us as strong. Years later, ladies realize their mistake. That's why many women pick toxic men to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Have you even had a hookup/relationship with a man considered ugly?Just speculating/thinking outload. I'm always curious about how varied attraction can be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Have you even had a hookup/relationship with a man considered ugly?Elmer Fudd might have a "cute" look, maybe you're into that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Have you even had a hookup/relationship with a man considered ugly?Who was this cartoon character? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Despite advances in birth control technology, the unintended pregnancy rate has remained steady in the US over the past 40 yearsI think it's lack of education and sex still being such a taboo topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Yes, many women overwhelmingly do not like it when "beta males" attempt to succeed, improve themselves, or learn to stand up for themselves .I feel personally attacked 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Yes, many women overwhelmingly do not like it when "beta males" attempt to succeed, improve themselves, or learn to stand up for themselves .Tell me more about this. If you know some articles on it I would love to read them. I'm always curious about women social dynamics. You ladies always keep a tight lid on your secrets though 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.Haven't been in any myself. Looks nice, I know it's a challenge at times though. I'd like to try it but never get the chance to. From where I am you're someone who's experienced something many times that I've only seen from afar. You're in the amusement park and I'm out by the chain fence. Sure I could get injured on a ride but anything comes with risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.Never been in a relationship. It does look really nice from the outside. I know they are not perfect. I am probably not able to get into one cause of my issues. I do find it invalidating to be told that relationships don't matter. I can't really buy that when we're social creatures and have been pairing up since prehistoric times. I guess I'll just always wonder what it's like. Edit: don't want any advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.How many relationships have you been in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsThat's true, I've looked around for Dommes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 05:23 AM |
| 2 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsSeeing these women answer that comforting a man emotionally is normal is hard to believe. I hope it's true though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 03:46 AM |
| 3 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyWhat are these "real hobbies?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerI'm not surprised at all but when dateless people make their own spaces they are scrubbed off any platform. That's where I have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerYet are we not people too? Maybe we tried and something unexpected happened. Does that mean we can't find any happiness? We're forsaken by society cause we can't meet their standards. We try to make our own spaces but they are condemned. It's the simple fact you don't want us to exist at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating adviceSeinfeld explained this. You can't kill independent George | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 02:25 AM |
| 3 | People who were bitter but eventually found love, what was the beginning of you losing that bitterness?32 year old wizard, I'm cynical and bitter. Not hateful though. That's life, some lose and some win. I'll just do what I can to get some joy out of life. If the .0001% happens and I find a relationship I'll update everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a widower or widow with children? Would you date someone with children if you yourself had children?I already would date a single mom so the answer stays "yes" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 08:26 PM |
| 0 | The notion of "unconditional love"No such thing, it's all a transaction. Don't live in the fantasy of "unconditional" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Women love it when men impress themI think that's normal for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.I think it's good to have friends from all walks of life. I think we fear developing feelings for one of our friends that might frighten us but I find if you maintain boundaries then it'll be okay. Feelings fade but a friendship you work on lasts much longer. I have all kinds of friends despite being a wizard. I've fine tuned maintaining healthy boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedI think he was fine with the joke but then he saw his wife's reaction so he had to act up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Women do care about about male body count.Maybe being shy and unattractive. That's my best guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Women do care about about male body count.Could be, I need experience before I can get experience sort of thing. 😂 Oh well, that's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Women do care about about male body count.That was a while ago but from what I remember my relationship history would come up and saying I hadn't been in one was usually what made them ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Women do care about about male body count.Not super close but people I knew from my circle. Tried online also. I wouldn't wear being a virgin on my sleeve but I was honest if it came up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Women do care about about male body count.I can't say exactly. I am certain it doesn't look good though. Most people don't like when you ask them why they are not interested. I tried to do that when I was younger so I could improve on myself. Now I wouldn't but I don't try to date anymore anyway. Yes, I did have friends and was mentally stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:25 PM |
| 8 | While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born withNever, and I mean never get in better shape for anyone but yourself. OP isn't worth it, no one is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Women do care about about male body count.I have to disagree. Even when I was well adjusted before my mental health tanked I couldn't form a relationship. Being a virgin turns off most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Hollywood is guilty of influencing men to bend over backwards for women who aren't that into themI don't know about that. Stuff like that was around way before Hollywood. Like slaying the dragon and rescuing the princess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Western women, western men and perceived valueYou're relying on what you see. Which has been shown to be unreliable. Statistics show people in the Midwest have high rates of obesity. Over sixty percent of Idaho is overweight. You seem to have a specific focus on debt and obesity based on your comments. You're going to see more of it because you're so focused on it. You might be biased about Idaho, like maybe you've met nice people there, so you perceive them as better people. I assume being fat and in debt is what you consider to be a bad p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionIt's never as good as the first meeting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What is the difference between toxic masculinity and high value men?Looks and/or money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Well saidNone of those comments even get where he is coming from they are just giving him the "not all women" go around. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | NSFW/TRIGGER WARNING: This is an article listing the sick, perverted and vivid ways women want to castrate men.I remember reading this when it came out. Sounded like a cbt fetishist wrote it. 😂 | /r/MensRights | 15/03/22 09:43 PM |
| -4 | Female violence against males is normalizedNot blaming, just what are you doing around these red flags? You shouldn't tolerate it. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 03:20 AM |
| -1 | Female violence against males is normalizedHappy birthday btw 🎉 | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 02:37 AM |
| -4 | Female violence against males is normalizedIt's rough world we live in. 🙃 | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Female violence against males is normalizedI agree, it's normalized. Mass rape in wartime as a legitimate tactic is proof of that. Violence in general is normalized. I think the guys here just want to focus on female on male violence since it's not spoken about much. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 02:16 AM |
| -21 | Female violence against males is normalizedOnly woman to hit me is my mom. My dad hit me too. Never been hit in the groin by a woman. I don't think any woman has threatened me with violence. Why are you guys even interacting with people like this? | /r/MensRights | 14/03/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?I just wanted a best friend to take on life together with. Dumb kid stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” areI don't care for lifting weights. Just feels like a chore. I'll stick to tai chi and yoga. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | A large percentage of women are undeniably drawn to assholes and men who exhibit toxic, abusive behavior, but lie and say they just want a guy who will treat them rightI figure some women like that cause it portrays a sense of strength but men like that are all show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the posts and debates here are just staleI figure that's the stuff people want to talk about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaOn all the dating sites I went on most of the ladies were average weight. Just from what I recalled. You can still look average and be technically overweight due to bmi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 10:25 PM |
| 19 | If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourselfTrad thing always seemed like a fantasy. People were doing plenty of bad stuff back in the day they just didn't talk about it. It's healthier now that we have a dialogue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:09 PM |
| 6 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.That's a good life you live. Both my parents made about 30k for comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:16 AM |
| 4 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.100k a year is very good. What kind of privilege do you come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:09 AM |
| 8 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderAre women usually more content being alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.They didn't think to ask him before they did anything if his ethnic background was important to him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys?https://www.historytoday.com/archive/months-past/death-mahatma-gandhi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys?The world hates genuinely good guys they murdered them all. Jesus, Gandhi, Dr. King, Lincoln, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy on DisplaySounds like we need to promote the house husband. It's a woman's world now. Congratulations, Ladies. 🎉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 06:58 PM |
| -1 | TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hateSounds like you're still in the anger phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Study on what 1,000 women feel about muscular men in terms of attraction.Body type 2 would be muscular in my book. These composites of bodies just look unnatural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.This guy is a monster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 11:50 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestIt's socioeconomic. We don't need marriage as much. Before it was to unit people and build stronger families. All you had was your family and close people before. Now society can support an individual. The need for family isn't as great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?Not a popular thing but it's a thing. Just plug it in Google https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tomgirl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?I did read an article mentioning how in old stories men are usually knights fighting something to get something while women are princesses waiting for something good to come along. Of course what women do to stay pretty can be a lot of work the dynamics are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?It does seem like we're going through a period of deconstructing gender norms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:21 AM |
| 0 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?Being rigid is seen as a positive for men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?It does feel like we lose something not valuing that side of ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity?Tomgirl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 06:09 AM |
| 0 | I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virginsYou're either a loser virgin or a rapist. No in-between. We're damned. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?They get married quickly. They're high value with lots of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationGay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill?The focus on masculinity as something superhuman. No person will ever live up to these qualities. It only damages mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?It's not new, personal relationships have always been a challenge. The only difference now is we don't need family as much thanks to modern technology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?Oh, OF one sounds better with that. I'm a broken man myself. We can work on our challenges together 💕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?XD, let's go with the first then she'd probably like Haibane Renmei. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a woman who has a very successful OF but virgin or a woman who's had many partners?Both are fairly vague no points on their personality. I will go with whichever one likes anime more. High partner count doesn't bother me. OF model doesn't bother me either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Biologically speaking(maybe not philosophically) the entire meaning of life for men is to produce sperm and spread their genes through sex? Do you therefore think men are unfairly criticised in society for showing a strong interest in sex?Not propaganda, it's very common. https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-45809169 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:30 AM |
| 15 | Biologically speaking(maybe not philosophically) the entire meaning of life for men is to produce sperm and spread their genes through sex? Do you therefore think men are unfairly criticised in society for showing a strong interest in sex?I think the problem is male sexual violence is way too tolerated. To the point women are often blamed when they are the victim of sexual assault. Also wartime rape doesn't make biological sense as the women are often killed. I think that's really where the issue is. People think of these extreme examples of male sexuality and our sexuality becomes a threat even at low socially acceptable levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Men underestimate how complex their sexuality isThat's the exact reason I always sat in the front of my yoga classes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Men's standards are too lowWe can't afford to have standards. We're expendable. Men die the most. We're built and conditioned that way. If there is only one woman left on earth the human race probably won't make it. If there was only one man the human race would go on no problem. Boy's entire childhoods and socializing is to prepare them for war or labor. Toys, sports, games, etc. are all centered on that focus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionSure I like physical features but personality and other factors matter. I don't think it's just women who view a potential partner holistically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with being a forever girlfriend/boyfriend? Why or why not?I don't have an issue with the title aslong as we're together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 01:29 AM |
| 0 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?The trad thing is overrated. I'd rather be with a woman who's experienced. Someone who has their own mind. Not regurgitating the junk some religious institutions or conservative groups drill into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverTelling someone to do something is not advice. "Go work out" "eat better" "learn a new skill" is not advice. They are an ego trip for the person giving it. Advice would be offering to teach someone how to exercise. Advice would be educating someone on healthy meals. Advice would be getting to know someone and help them learn a skill they have been scared to learn. That's advice and that is helping someone. Aslong as the person wants it. People who blurt out things just want themselves to feel li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Would you choose your dream career (foreign country) over your relationship?I'm a neet so I guess it doesn't matter. If I got out of it I hope they would move with me. On the flip side if some girl took a liking to me and she asked me to move with her I probably would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Men should publicly shame and shun simps to gain back power in the dating worldSimps are too subjective for that to work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate the significance of body fat percentage on attractiveness."just shower, bro. Just lose weight, bro. Just be 6'3, 6'4, bro" gtfo, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongThis is a hard one because it's not just guys. I don't think people as a whole do nice things just to be nice most of the time. Not saying it's impossible but most things are transactional. It's a sad reality of the world. I don't think you should be fearful just try to be mindful. Learn to read people more. It's not a guarantee but it helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesThis reminds me of the "40 year old virgin" where Steve's character says "sex just complicates things." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:45 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialThat makes sense. I think it has a lot to do with how men view women having sex as a much bigger deal then a guy having sex. For guys, women having sex is seen as a huge commitment cause of how society conditions us. Yet if a guy bangs a girl he met at a club it's no big deal. She won't be seen as relationship material though. I think it's this overemphasis on virginity in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:56 PM |
| 6 | When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women.If he was poor would you still love him and help him through hard times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | how come women are allowed to force child support on a man who used to proper protection? or even rapeMen responsible for children are also less likely to commit crimes. Single men are societies worst fear. They commit the most crimes. A man paying child support is still single but will feel more attached knowing they care for a child. I don't have hard facts on this specifically. More my opinion, but stats wise single men do commit the most crime. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are blamed for everythingThat golden cock syndrome was an interesting read. Especially being a college drop out myself. Looks real bad when I was trying to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Shaming single men for relying on porn is bad and cruelI agree, leave me and my hobbies alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 0 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.I agree, it's definitely a catch 22. For me the n count doesn't bother me. It's actually a positive in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Why do women gas up unattractive/ugly women?It's to protect the image of looking like a nice person. Men do it too. No one is really nice. We just do it for survival. We're greedy savages deep down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 4 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveSeen it all my life. For clarification I am speaking of arrogant types of men. They usually cover up weakness with arrogance. Stronger people don't need to prove it to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:49 PM |
| 13 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractive"dominant" is just code for jerk. Forget that, I'm not changing my personality for someone else. Being a jerk gives a false sense he'll be strong but these "alpha" types crumble fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?I figure most women who use this want a "alpha male" the alpha male is a myth. It been perpetuated on boys to prepare them for war or hard labor. It's always been a propaganda tool to mold them. No man will ever be an alpha male so it keeps boys in a perpetual state of apprehension so they try to toughen themselves for impending doom. When the doom is the conflicts we create. The cost is their health and humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:39 PM |
| 3 | If you are going to be vulnerable with a woman by lowering your guard with her it's wise to only do so if you are callous enough to withstand her scoff, scorn, or laughter. And to have the ability to walk away and go about your day if she does.I say people as a whole are terrified of vulnerabilities. Embracing vulnerability is very difficult but a necessary part of growth. I do think men are expected to show it less but I think the women who are revolted by it cannot tolerate their own vulnerabilities. That's atleast been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | "In women, we find no such effect."...I'm guessing it's cause women have more emotional support with their friends than men do. Most men rely on their partner for emotional support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Is crying a turnoff for you?I'm a very sensitive man. I don't cry at the drop of a hat but I feel a lot. My experience is most women and men cannot handle emotional vulnerability. I've been shunned for being a big masculine guy but also being sensitive. People absolutely hate how mismatched it looks. It's left me bitter. I learned to weaponize my sensitivity and poke at weak points in someone's emotional set up if they try to cause trouble with me. I only do it in self defense and prefer to avoid it but because of how I gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Foreveralone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?How are you with little every day things? Do you get frustrated quickly or try to stay calm working through it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?I'm in some FA and incel spaces. We get a lot of redpill guys. Mostly younger ones. I have given up finding love but I am not a hateful person. I usually try to steer the younger guys away from the redpill mindset. Encourage them to go after personal goals. I've never seen someone who swallowed the redpill become a better person. They just get frustrated. I know they mostly start as men self improvement groups but get toxic. It's unfortunately hard to find healthy male improvement groups. Men va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?That's very sad. Can't imagine that level of being shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?It is, my dad came from an abusive home and a different country. I have read high stress environments can alter T levels permanently. Even though men's T levels are lower now than the WWII generation that isn't necessarily a bad thing since we're in more peaceful times. My Dad had a temper but was relatively under control. He mellowed out as he got older. Although he had anxiety/depression issues. I have my own but different. I just wonder how much is chemical and how much is social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?I think biology plays a role but also that it's less socially acceptable. I think online women can express their fetishes more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men?That's interesting. I'm good with my temper but I wonder how much of it is my testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 05:52 PM |
| 9 | Another "men can walk freely at night" comment full of blatant lies.I find it weird how so many women think we all have the strength of an action hero. Even with self defense training it's not an absolute guarantee you will be okay. Even guys with large muscles doesn't necessarily translate to good fighting. Hard blow to the nose will drop pretty much anyone. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Has the world gone mad?I like how the account with the hat and the pink haired one have the same facial expression. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | Women are NOT "73% more likely to suffer fatal injuries in a car accident due to safety procedures in cars being designed for men".The bullet proof vest one is weird to me. It's nearly all men in combat so of course the vests would suit men more. It seems counterintuitive to the victimhood mindset cause you can easily bring up an example of something men deal with almost exclusively. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/21 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Woman was revolted at the fact that I tapped her shoulderDon't touch women under any circumstances. Do not shake hands even if they offer. Just wave, don't look directly at them. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 11:52 PM |
| 47 | "A vestigial, dirty and ugly body part"..Where is the body positivity for men? | /r/MensRights | 02/12/21 10:47 PM |
| 3 | I was verbally abused for talking about my suicide attemptIt's sadly very common. Many women hate men's vulnerabilities. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Not today creeperDoes anyone have any educational articles on the effects of boys molested by an older women? I can't find anything online. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Don't talk to her or you'll get yelled at by white knights (reuploaded to black out names)Sounds like the guy just wanted to chat with a fellow fighting game fan. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Being social is looked down upon, women wonder why they're single after 30, it's because you're literally mental and antisocial.Why would you wear a Street Fighter shirt if you're not a fan? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Country approved pussy passMandatory work is no good. Give people an incentive. Opportunities, money, benefits. That's how you get someone to do something well | /r/PussyPass | 01/03/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Feminism but only when I don’t have to do anythingI just wait for it to melt | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/02/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | A special level of self absorption.Read this three times and still trying to wrap my head around it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Surprise surpriseI remember a post on that sub making fun of Prince William cause he doesn't look as good as when he was younger cause he got older. Then one girl said he still looks handsome and all the other women pelted her that she had low standards despite them criticizing a guy for aging. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/11/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | "I'll just ignore all the warnings. So WHAT??" *surprise Pikachu* "ArE yOu SeRiOuS???!"Her shrilling is kinda funny. Like her mind can't process she could ever be arrested. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/11/20 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Circumcision is forced in infants despite men being averse to having their genitals cutLet men and boys have a choice. It's our bodies, our rights! | /r/MensRights | 16/06/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Carl Jung on Animus-Possessed WomenYou should read his work and his daughter's too. She built the foundation of child psychology. | /r/PussyPass | 14/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 9 | Carl Jung on Animus-Possessed WomenFreud and Jung knew what they were talking about. | /r/PussyPass | 14/06/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | :)Do men really get harassed more by strangers? I find it hard to believe. Just based on my own experience. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/20 01:06 PM |
| 9 | An interesting find on Twitter, it's like Chris Rock said "Only Women, Children, and Dogs are loved unconditionally, A man is loved under the condition that he provides something"Men have always been disposable. Look at the wars. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/20 01:19 PM |
| 12 | TitleI'd shove her. That's just instinct to me. I'm really protective of my space unless I get to know someone. | /r/PussyPass | 07/06/20 12:49 AM |
| 26 | Urban gentleman withholds fast food order from female associateMen paying for women was in fashion when women were mostly home makers. Plenty of women have their own money now. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/05/20 01:00 PM |
| -2 | Too much equalityHopefully I never go to war but it'd be too hard seeing women on the line with me. I just don't think women should be in a place like that. It sucks we men have to I got my own issues with how men are treated. I'd rather women not go through it. Atleast with men we're kinda raised with that. I don't know... just really mixed with this like women can vote on a war mongering leader but not fight when we men have to but I'd still rather they not have to fight anyway. | /r/PussyPass | 01/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Hot diggity damn, I don't know what I'm going to do anymore with my lifeThink I got banned for making a post. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/04/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | 15 man jobMan the harpoons! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/04/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | He dodged a massive bulletI like Applebee's. Them lava cakes 🤤 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/03/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | She gets a number to a strip clubPlay fucking video games. Freaking normies | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/03/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Fists E for EveryoneContext is missing. Looks like these guys might have been picking on these two girls. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | If you hit a man prepare to seek consequences.A lioness can fight off a lion. Women like this just want to beat somebody. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/01/20 03:36 PM |
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